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Question 101
Title: Workplace sexual harassment? Text: So I’m a 28 year old male working at a bank. I have a woman coworker I’m very close with. I consider us to be best work friends. She’s married with children and I’m gay, she and everyone knows this. However when I go to her office and just chat, multiple times she stares and l...
sexualharassment_ongoing
Question 102
Title: I would love to know how you would react Text: Hello everyone- Today I was walking in my neighborhood past a house that I always walk by. This house, in particular, has flags and signs that would allude to the fact that they may support a certain someone that may not respect women all that much... Anyways, I ...
no_crisis
Question 103
Title: I'm so, so tired Text: I'm so tired of seeing people my age doing all the things I wish I could do and have. It hurts so fucking much. I'm in so much pain please let me die For any crisis present, mark whether it is Ongoing or Past. **Leave a row blank if that crisis type is not present.**
suicideideation_passive_ongoing
Question 104
Title: Do my neighbors think I’m a snitch for telling the cops what my boyfriend did? Text: They called the police because they heard yelling and once they showed up I told them everything. I was so frazzled it just spewed out of my mouth and I wish I just shut up right there. I’m worried my neighbors heard the whole ...
domesticviolence_past
Question 105
Title: Im a female know 16 Text: So i was in my moms town for holidays and we decided to visit a known person (man) he also had his wife there his grandchildren’s and his kids.that was a big house i hope u understand(cause my english is not the best.)the man that did this to me was a relative of my grandma i also use...
rape_past, childabuse_endangerment_past
Question 106
Title: Don’t want to be here Text: I was doing ok and my parents forced me into a depression program and won’t let me come home it is pure torture they were trying to get me into the worse one they don’t seem to care For any crisis present, mark whether it is Ongoing or Past. **Leave a row blank if that crisis type ...
suicideideation_passive_ongoing
Question 107
Title: Somebody get attached to me Text: I don’t care to lie I miss being needed tf. I miss caring about somebody,supporting somebody,being there,I really fucking miss someone being so attached that their anxious when we aren’t together I know it sounds toxic but it’s true. I’m tired of being the only anxious one I ...
no_crisis
Question 108
Title: I don't care about money or material things Text: I graduated in business and I don't care about money or material things. I don't care if I have $400 or $400,000 in my bank account. I don't care if I have a porsche vs. a honda or the latest iphone. It's messed up. I see other people who need five cars and thre...
no_crisis
Question 109
Title: Can I be put away for having suicidal thoughts? Text: My mom said she can call and have me put somewhere for mentally ill people. I’m 18 years old. There’s no way people can just legally hold me somewhere against my will. If so then that’s fucked up. I’m not insane, I can still be reasoned with. I’m not a threa...
suicideideation_passive_ongoing
Question 110
Title: Need an internet pro to help with harassment Text: A fake Instagram account is messaging me with my nudes threatening to “expose” me. Is anybody in here an internet whiz who can see if that person has any other Instagram accounts? Or can point me in the right direction? Thanks so much in advance For any crisis...
sexualharassment_ongoing
Question 111
Title: Old scars visible after exfoliating Text: I've been clean from self harming for probably 8 years now. I would say I'm fully recovered! I've started getting back into skin care and got a sugar scrub to exfoliate all the dead skin. I just noticed that old scars on my tummy are visible for the first time in a lo...
selfharm_past
Question 112
Title: Life is getting scary again Text: Its going good recently got in a new relationship, made some good memories with some friends but at the back at my head I’m 15 again with a blade held at my wrist and suddenly here I am now holding a blade against my wrist thinking about it all the flash jacks, the sinking stom...
suicideideation_active_ongoing, selfharm_ongoing
Question 113
Title: Next week my sister will marry my rapist. Text: And I will go to the wedding and smile and pretend nothing is wrong because I'm a goddamn coward. For any crisis present, mark whether it is Ongoing or Past. **Leave a row blank if that crisis type is not present.**
rape_past
Question 114
Title: It’s not fair that it’s on my mind 24/7 Text: I hate how debilitating it is to have to think about it constantly. I get away from it for a second if I think about something else bad, but I feel like what happened to me is always in the back of my head. It’s especially not fair because I’m almost 100% sure he d...
rape_past
Question 115
Title: Self-Harming for seemingly no reason Text: I tend to cut myself for no reason, just randomly decide to go get my pocket knife and cut myself (Somewhere Private). Not for any specific reason, just get the urge to cut whenever I think about it. I might have BPD if that changes anything. Am I alone? Does anyone kn...
selfharm_ongoing
Question 116
Title: Ex is in jail for felony DV and a private investigator came to my house Text: My ex has been in jail for about two weeks after a very violent fight. I have been staying with friends for a few days and when I came home today, there was a private investigators card in my door. The court advocate said that this w...
domesticviolence_ongoing
Question 117
Title: Relapse after 5 years Text: Okay… hi everyone! My name is Austin, I am 22 years old, and I was previously 5 years self harm free before today. I never stopped being depressed, I have struggled with depression for roughly 10 years now (being Borderline Personality Disorder probably doesn’t help that either). But...
selfharm_ongoing
Question 118
Title: Sexual exploitation Text: Hey I’m in a bad situation with someone having nude pictures of me and threatening to leak them if I don’t give them money. What can I do? I know the location they live and there name, no address though or photo. For any crisis present, mark whether it is Ongoing or Past. **Leave a r...
sexualharassment_ongoing
Question 119
Title: Neighbor's Abusive Ex Threatened Me Text: I'll keep this brief: my new neighbor is getting out of what she described to me as a domestic violence situation. Somehow, her ex-partner got hold of her phone, and through it, my contact information. He has since blown up my phone -- every time I block him, he calls f...
no_crisis
Question 120
Title: Idk if I was raped or not Text: I was raped a couple of years ago…I think. My friend and I went out for drinks (I was 19 btw). A stranger guy came up to us (he was maybe 30) with his friend. We went back to their place within maybe a minute of talking. I’d had maybe 6 or 7 shots and was a lightweight. The...
rape_past
Question 121
Title: I want to relapse so fucking bad Text: Title For any crisis present, mark whether it is Ongoing or Past. **Leave a row blank if that crisis type is not present.**
no_crisis
Question 122
Title: My rapist raped again Text: I was raped 2.5 months ago. I was too afraid to report it and ashamed. I finally worked up the courage today to confront his girlfriend so that I could warn her. She immediately believed me (much to my surprise) and confessed he's been raping her too. We're going to go to the police ...
rape_past
Question 123
Title: How do I make myself leave Text: I keep doing things I don’t want to do and staying with my abuser, despite having multiple ways out and safety plans, because I’m scared to tell him no and scared to tell him I want to leave. Even though I know he’s eventually going to be mad at me anyway as always; we’re just ...
domesticviolence_ongoing
Question 124
Title: “You’re not alone” doesn’t help me and I don’t know why anybody thinks it will Text: I don’t understand why people say shit like this, along with lines like “other people have it worse” “things always get better” “you don’t have it so bad” Like, how do people not understand that this shit makes me feel WORSE? ...
suicideideation_passive_ongoing
Question 125
Title: Having a moment❤️ Text: Happy new year everyone. I feel pretty good right now. My ex is in jail. I’ve decided to move out of my current apartment before his release. I may go as far as moving hours away from my current city. I can always come back to visit and when I do I’ll be too busy with friends to worry a...
domesticviolence_past
Question 126
Title: i really wanna hang myself rn. Im not going to do it, but i really want to Text: im not feeling good this morning so im cutting up my leg rn ): but it happens u know sometimes things suck and u gotta cutt (i already know cutting is bad so please dont mindlessly spew taht out in the comments. i also know how ...
suicideideation_active_ongoing, selfharm_ongoing
Question 127
Title: Reason Text: Main reason I haven’t killed myself was because of my parents. I didn’t want to leave them with that burden. My dad died a couple of months ago after being sick for more than a decade. He didn’t make it past July. Now it’s just me and my mom. I just know if anything ever happened to her that would ...
suicideideation_passive_ongoing
Question 128
Title: I think im gonna do it soon Text: Ion know. I guess i js been cruising through life w a “its gonna get better if i wait” or “fuck it we ball” mentality. Its not really working though 🤷‍♂️ i mean life’s been getting better but at the same time it feels like my mental state been getting worse. I cant enjoy the t...
suicideideation_active_ongoing
Question 129
Title: Sh playlizt? Text: I listen to songs when i cut sometimes and im wondering if any one else does the same here as well so if yes then what songs do you listen? My kist has random songs i just like the vibe of tbh like little dark age (mgmt), false priest?(nightspace), miss you (southpark), for the best (gregory ...
selfharm_ongoing
Question 130
Title: i'm pathetic Text: i've composed a very lengthy suicide note just about two weeks ago and i couldn't even bring myself to do it. i didn't even go near the pills because i am a fucking pussy ​ and then after thinking long and hard during a miserable walk home i realized i don't wish for death more than ...
suicideideation_active_past, suicideideation_passive_ongoing
Question 131
Title: my friends get mad when I talk about me self harming Text: I opened up to my friend group of 5 other people and told them that I cut myself. But whenever I try to talk about it they just try and avoid it. I know that they can't really understand it or help a lot other then just saying "you need to get help" but...
selfharm_ongoing
Question 132
Title: I'm on the edge Text: Me and my dad can't have three words without ending up in an argument pretty much the same goes for everyone else. It seems like if I died tomorrow no one would give a shit. In most family functions I'm the outcast and it seems no one wants me around. My brother got to do whatever he want...
suicideideation_passive_ongoing
Question 133
Title: Don’t feel a thing Text: TW: descriptions of depth, SH etc. So I’ve been self harming for a long time, & have been pretty obsessed with going deeper. I do it on my legs/ hips so it’s not as dangerous since I’m not super thin or anything. I always go pretty deep like to the hypodermis (fat) usually, or at least...
selfharm_ongoing
Question 134
Title: I don't want to be happy Text: I am often told that I need to figure out how to be happy. And then work towards it. The truth is, at this point, I don't want to be happy. I just wanna die For any crisis present, mark whether it is Ongoing or Past. **Leave a row blank if that crisis type is not present.**
suicideideation_passive_ongoing
Question 135
Title: Nobody but self harmers seem to have any understanding of this Text: I just need to have a bit of a rant for a bit. I've be talking to a lot of close friends, my therapist, and too a small extent my parents about my self harm and I'm completely shocked out how it seems to just go straight over their heads. Th...
selfharm_ongoing
Question 136
Title: Fake Therapist used my story to rape me [Update] Text: [Original Post](https://www.reddit.com/r/rape/comments/jkflcg/fake_therapist_used_my_story_to_rape_me/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) I really appreciate all the kind comments and helpful information you all provided me. I’m not convi...
rape_past
Question 137
Title: Is it normal to “write something“ Text: So I sh today and normally just do like lines or whatever but today I kinda wrote something idk if wrote is the right word but I like cut a word onto my arm. Idk if this is normal or if anyone else has ever done it? For any crisis present, mark whether it is Ongoing or ...
selfharm_ongoing
Question 138
Title: ive become so sensitive that even the most miniscule things make me suicidal. Text: like i cojld be having an okay day and something small comes along, like i get a bad grade or i disagree with a friend, and boom: i want to end it. and you know what the worst part is? i dont want to get better. i dont know how ...
suicideideation_passive_ongoing
Question 139
Title: I caved after 5 years Text: Im tired of people not listening to me, or not taking me seriously, or thinking i know nothing. Im constantly doubted, (wrongfully) corrected, and when they find out im right, gaslighted. Is it so impossible to believe i can know things? When others say the exact same thing as me the...
selfharm_ongoing
Question 140
Title: i was raped by my ex wife Text: i’m a bisexual woman and ive been in a 1 year marriage. now we splitted ways and i see what she’s done to me. i can’t have sex with my current boyfriend cause i keep reminding the time she spitted all over me and spanked me and told me she wanted to violate me so i could feel as ...
rape_past
Question 141
Title: broke 10 months today. need advice Text: i understand why i do it. i don’t know why i keep coming back. For any crisis present, mark whether it is Ongoing or Past. **Leave a row blank if that crisis type is not present.**
selfharm_ongoing
Question 142
Title: I think the only thing stopping me from killing myself is the fact I do not like pain. Text: I just wanna peacefully disappear in my sleep. Or get randomly abducted by aliens. I don't want people to remember who they think i am. I just wanna vanish without a trace. I've fucked up so much already. For any crisi...
suicideideation_passive_ongoing
Question 143
Title: Craving human connection Text: I’m so beyond touch starved. It just adds to my depression. I wish I had someone to just lay with and feel the warmth next to. Everything feels so cold. I think about people I’ve slept with in the past and how there was no love there or how I was the only one who felt love. I thin...
no_crisis
Question 144
Title: I just want to shout out that I am 36 days clean Text: that is all :) For any crisis present, mark whether it is Ongoing or Past. **Leave a row blank if that crisis type is not present.**
no_crisis
Question 145
Title: Money Text: I’m 19 and I’m at my lowest point in life. Growing up Mormon I always had such a strong belief and grit and so I could get through a lot. About a year ago I decided that mormonism probably wasn’t true, and so I honestly didn’t know what my purpose in life is. I believe that nothing you is good or ba...
suicideideation_passive_ongoing
Question 146
Title: “The past hour I’ve had” Text: I just got done sitting in the bathtub cutting all over my body. No water, all the lights off, just sitting there with a knife and cutting. I have one alter personality I named Armen that talks to me. He’s been there since I was real little. I’m now almost 20 and he comes out much...
suicideideation_passive_ongoing, selfharm_ongoing
Question 147
Title: Why doesn’t my high school do something about people being sexually harassed or raped in school? Text: My high school is in Pennsylvania, United States. There has been possibly about 30 people that have claimed/have proof went to court for being sexually harassed or raped. Someone went to court and filed rape, ...
no_crisis
Question 148
Title: Rapist has a Girlfriend, Should I text her? Text: **\*\*\*Trigger warning, sexual assault, r\*pe\*\*\*** *Dear Reddit,* The details of my sexual assault are not important for this discussion, but I do have a question about the aftermath. **The Story:** After 2.5 years, I ran into my rapist at a party. I had...
rape_past
Question 149
Title: I’m going to off myself FUCKKK Text: The pain of dying can’t outweigh the pain of living For any crisis present, mark whether it is Ongoing or Past. **Leave a row blank if that crisis type is not present.**
suicideideation_active_ongoing
Question 150
Title: “I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone“ Text: This quote by Robin Williams has destroyed me. I’ve realized why I hate being with people more than being alone, even if I’m smiling and having fun. *EDI...
no_crisis
Question 151
Title: insufficient evidence Text: after a year of suffering because of his actions, he gets away with it. he assaulted four women in one night. he raped me. and he will have no repercussions. his friends lied for him and they took their words as truth. fuck the system. fuck him. fuck my university. idk what to do, i’...
rape_past
Question 152
Title: I'm not cutting as much as I used to ... Text: I know it's a good thing that I'm not cutting that much any more. But why do I feel so much worse now compared to when I used to cut daily? I find that I physically can't bring myself to do it sometimes. In my mind I fantasize about it, but in reality I just hold ...
selfharm_ongoing
Question 153
Title: everywhere i work Text: 3 of my past jobs and the one i'm currently at right now i've had coworkers be creepy with me. i've tried to report it in the past with a much older guy touching me and nearly sitting on my lap, coming into the storage closet with me and making remarks. i reported it and nothing happened...
sexualharassment_ongoing
Question 154
Title: I had my first therapy appointment ✨ Text: Haha, that was absolutely terrifying, but I did it so. I have gone to therapy before, a few years, but I didn't want to be there and wasn't ready to honest. But today I saw (via zoom) a university therapist and she was really nice. I even told her that I self harm an...
selfharm_ongoing
Question 155
Title: My very abusive ex and rapist moved back to my small town Text: After the court proceedings, I moved out of state. I was running away from everything and didn’t want to accidentally run into him. A year later he moved away from my town to over an hour away. I moved back home and felt happy knowing he wasn’t h...
domesticviolence_past, rape_past
Question 156
Title: Have you ever been harrassed by a teacher? Text: It all started when my sir once winked at me. A test was going on, his legs were opened, he was touching his lips and winked at me. I saw it then he pretended that his eye was twitching. After we got the test results, I passed although I didn't know about it at ...
sexualharassment_ongoing, childabuse_endangerment_ongoing
Question 157
Title: Help prevent harassment! Text: Hi everyone - Knowing this is a safe place to discuss harassment, I know many of us may have stories of our own, whether we've been victims or bystanders - my heart breaks for everyone affected. In an effort to prevent future occurrences, a friend's company is about to launch "...
no_crisis
Question 158
Title: Looking back at old photos and finding pictures of my bruises Text: The difference between then and now is that I’m no longer deluded into believing he cares at all about me. I would send him photos of the bruises he put on my body because I actually thought it would make him realize how much he’s hurting me an...
domesticviolence_past
Question 159
Title: I don't know if I'll make it to age 15. Help please. Text: Hi. Recently I've been having this fear of being watched. Its gotten to the point where whenever I have to do just about everything in the dark. Getting dressed, having a shower, going to the bathroom. I have this fear that I have a stalker and cameras ...
suicideideation_passive_ongoing
Question 160
Title: So here's a question and I hope that its appropriate… Text: If some male actually did the awful thing of sexually approaching a few or couple of females inappropriately and uninvited or sexually harassing them when he was too drunk (not that that's an excuse,as he chose to get that drunk) before in life (and he...
no_crisis
Question 161
Title: should i off myself with symptoms of being castrated and no cure? Text: do you think I should off myself with massive muscle wastage, symptoms of impotence, insomnia, depression, chronic fatigue and brain fog. AND THERE IS NO TREATMENT ​ IM 45 WITH POST FINASTERIDE, POST ANDROGEN DEPRIVATION DISEASE SY...
suicideideation_active_ongoing
Question 162
Title: Just fuck my head man Text: Like i feel like i really embarrassed myself today by trying to make sure my friend was good. I was at a party earlier and thought i overheard some guys saying something about cutting to my friend who cuts when they just weren't talking about that, then later i text my friend because...
no_crisis
Question 163
Title: I feel so lonely and depressed Text: I 23M I have no friends I have no one to talk with, I just sometimes talk to myself like an idiot so I can be less depressed but, I am getting tired of this. People use me, broke me, I an now exhausted by this, I want change, I want loyal people I really want to be in a rel...
no_crisis
Question 164
Title: To all my self-conscious folks with self harm scars Text: Fuck what anybody thinks about ‘em — fuck what your inner asshole is saying — get out and enjoy the weather if you can. (Don’t forget to reapply sunscreen and stay hydrated darling) For any crisis present, mark whether it is Ongoing or Past. **Leave ...
no_crisis
Question 165
Title: What is wrong with me ? Text: I have thoughts that I'm acting weird all the time, that something is wrong with me and I am somehow changing. I fear my thoughts of going crazy and schizophrenic are already delusions. I ruminate all day about thoughts that pops into my mind. I fear I will be instutionalised. I ca...
no_crisis
Question 166
Title: people are giving up on me. Text: I jus want support, I want someone to be there for me, I want them o hug me and tell me is going to be ok. My only two friends gave up. My online friend didn't and I luv her sm but I can't see her irl I just want a hug, I want help I want someone to be there for me. I started s...
selfharm_ongoing
Question 167
Title: I just wish i had one person who understands me.... Text: It's getting too heavy lately....but have to keep it inside of me since no one cares over here... For any crisis present, mark whether it is Ongoing or Past. **Leave a row blank if that crisis type is not present.**
suicideideation_passive_ongoing
Question 168
Title: I sometimes feel like giving up. Text: I’m fed up of sacrificing. I’m fed up of being a doormat. I’m fed up of not being heard. I’m fed up of my poor mental health. I’m fed up of putting up with things. I’m fed up of feeling inferior to people. I’m fed up of not feeling how I want to feel. *please no one...
suicideideation_passive_ongoing
Question 169
Title: 66 YO Dad in Depression? Don't know what to do, PLEASE HELP Text: My dad was in the merchant navy all his life but had a heart issue in 2014 after which he had to stop sailing (after almost 30 years). He was never someone who had a lot of friends because he was always out of the country for 6-9 months of the ye...
no_crisis
Question 170
Title: After more than 2 years working on a relationship with a person suffering with mental illness, I can say I've reached a place where we both feel deeply happy and in love Text: I have a 2 year long relationship with someone diagnosed with Schizoaffective disorder. Things have been very hard in the past, but rig...
no_crisis
Question 171
Title: Why I didn’t report Text: #whyididntreport is trending on twitter as it does at times and it never fails to make me feel like such a coward. I see women being so open with their stories and not only did I not report I never told a soul. I feel like I never can. It just feels so lonely sometimes and the guilt an...
no_crisis
Question 172
Title: Recently relapsed Text: I was clean for about a year and a half, but since I started college I've relapsed. Before id sh almost every day and would draw a lot of blood (none of my cuts have ever been too deep, they just bled a lot) but now I've started again they barely bleed and I hate it. I have changed the b...
selfharm_ongoing
Question 173
Title: just quit my job Text: I quit my job today, I don't know if I should wait till my money runs out or give it all away and kill myself. I just don't want my parents to inherit it For any crisis present, mark whether it is Ongoing or Past. **Leave a row blank if that crisis type is not present.**
suicideideation_active_ongoing
Question 174
Title: Frightened to go to work Text: I work in a nursery kitchen, as an assistant to a chef. I get on great with him and the rest of the nursery team. Whenever the chef or I need to take a day off we are replaced by a contract chef, the majority of the time I get on well with the replacement chefs. However there is o...
sexualharassment_ongoing
Question 175
Title: Was it my fault? Text: also would this be called sexual harassment? I really want your honest opinion about if it was my fault or not bc I have thought it was my fault all this time and just want to know what others think. This is my first time even saying this story. When I was 10 or 11 years old an account I...
childabuse_endangerment_past
Question 176
Title: should I confront them via messenger Text: I've been raped abd assulted multiple time. First guy was my boyfriend and the second one I had been with for a few weeks. It's been 4 and 2 years. They're both with new women and getting their lives together. I'm married and have a baby daughter now. But it still h...
rape_past
Question 177
Title: Anybody else? Text: Does anyone else just stay quiet because they feel like they are annoying? I choose to stay quiet because in the past I always just felt like I am annoying or making someone feel uncomfortable so I choose to just stay quiet. Anyone else feel or do this? For any crisis present, mark whether...
no_crisis
Question 178
Title: I’m going to die soon. Text: I can’t do it anymore. I have a plan in place that is pretty much fool proof. It will happen when I have money and can afford the means to do this. My main worry is police coming to my house once I have purchased the items. I don’t want to upset people, hell I’m even upset I’m gonna...
suicideideation_active_ongoing
Question 179
Title: having friends who sh sucks so bad my god Text: they don't do this often but it's alot. it's enough to make me uncomfortable. for context I'm m17 I've been doing this shit for like 6 years now so I'm well versed and desensitised, where alot of this anger comes from. they always talk about it like it's such a se...
selfharm_ongoing
Question 180
Title: Self harm is self harm. Text: It does not matter how you did it, how often it was, how long you struggled with it, or if it left scars. It's still self harm. Your pain and your experiences are just as valid as anyone else's. Your struggle with self harm is just as real as anyone else's. I literally don't care...
no_crisis
Question 181
Title: All I ever want is to cuddle and talk, at least once in a while Text: I’m not the least bit interested in a relationship right now or being anymore intimidate than this but I wish I had both friends open to snuggling up, playing with my hair, lay on my lap while I talk to them and/or play video games, etc., and...
no_crisis
Question 182
Title: Workplace SA Text: Need advice. I’m a 27f and I’m being harassed/assaulted by a 60m. At first it started with him making jokes about him taking me on a date but I always laughed it off because he did the same thing with everyone else my age. Fast forward to two years later, he’s newly widowed and has become mor...
sexualharassment_ongoing, childabuse_endangerment_past
Question 183
Title: My cousin self harmed Text: I saw that my cousin self harmed a month ago, whenever he posted a TikTok vent about it and I just now saw it, I’m not sure what to do, I live with his sister currently, I’m not sure if I tell her or keep it a secret, I texted him and told him that I’m there for him, but he has self ...
no_crisis
Question 184
Title: ppl don’t talk enough about how when you lived in a “depression room” on and off for many years it starts to feel like ur room can never be truly clean again no matter how clean it is in actuality Text: yes i’m deep cleaning my depression room rn how did u know For any crisis present, mark whether it is Ongoin...
no_crisis
Question 185
Title: i’m getting forensics tomorrow Text: i’m scared. i don’t know what’s going to happen, not even sure if anything’s going to show up because it was a few days ago. my close friends know what happened and they’re great but the second i’m alone i cant help but feel like the world is caving in on me. i don’t know ho...
rape_ongoing
Question 186
Title: Have you ever thought to yourself while meeting a new person "if we met when we were little kids, we would have been best friends" but you're not that same kid anymore and it just makes you all sad and nostalgic as you totally don't get along with the other person even though you really want to? Text: I think a...
no_crisis
Question 187
Title: Am I in the wrong? Text: I don’t know how to feel about this right now. The individual Im copy/pasting our conversation with below has been warned by me and several other in our friend group to not touch or act inappropriatly around (as well has been fired from several jobs for sexual harassment) Me: man I lik...
sexualharassment_ongoing
Question 188
Title: I left Text: Yesterday I left and today I am feeling very sad, devastated even. I know this is normal, I know that this is the hardest part but god does it suck doing the right thing sometimes. This is one of the hardest things i’ve had to do, because I never fell out of love with this person, I still love them...
domesticviolence_past
Question 189
Title: the feeling/emotion that never go away Text: I (F16) is having a hard time to deal with this feelings. There's always been time that I feel numbness for a long time, I got irritated easily by other people, prefer to be alone and always want to cry... Idk why and idk what this feelings... I just want it go away ...
suicideideation_passive_ongoing, selfharm_past
Question 190
Title: showed my scars to a stranger for the first time today. Text: hi everyone, i (20m) unfortunately had to go grocery shopping today. wearing my long sleeves like usual. as i was waiting in line i noticed a girl behind me, (i think about 15 years old) visibly uncomfortable because of her scars and the fact that sh...
selfharm_past
Question 191
Title: 4 days and 16 hours clean Text: I haven’t felt like doing it since I did it last. Hopefully I last at least a month. For any crisis present, mark whether it is Ongoing or Past. **Leave a row blank if that crisis type is not present.**
selfharm_past
Question 192
Title: my friend told me he plans to kill himself in a couple days Text: My best friend asked me tp gp check up on our really good friend because no one had heard from him in a week and i live in the same apartment building as him. He told me he doesn't have long left and that he has one more thing to get in order. I ...
no_crisis
Question 193
Title: What if I can't remember if I told this person to stop Text: What do you do if you were really close to someone and they would sometimes say things that made you really uncomfortably. Some of these things were of a sexual nature, but the purely sexual things were not about you. For example, taking about sexual ...
sexualharassment_past
Question 194
Title: i want to kill myself because i’m ugly Text: i’m 17. i’m ugly and hate how much i look like my dad. i hate how my genes didn’t make me look like my mom who’s the most gorgeous person in the world. everyone tells me how beautiful she is, and then say i look nothing like her. i’ve never had a romantic interest no...
suicideideation_active_ongoing
Question 195
Title: I’m not sure how to feel (tw) Text: Yesterday I finally made it to 4 days clean. My longest streak since I started cutting routinely. I had a fairly nice outing with my parents last night, but as always we all had to be careful not to start an argument. I went out to eat and to the movies and I felt pretty good...
suicideideation_passive_ongoing, selfharm_ongoing
Question 196
Title: Today I found out that my rapist is going to get away with everything because of incompetent law enforcement and a DA who cares more about his conviction rate than actually helping people. Text: I read the report and the detective that took my original report wrote that it was a “regrettable sexual encounter” a...
rape_past
Question 197
Title: Leaving husband during pregnancy Text: Thinking about divorce during pregnancy Hey so I posted before about the T.J.maxx incident where I got screamed at for taking too long in the store because he was hungry etc in a past post if you want to look through my previous posts in the pregnancy thread, but Since th...
domesticviolence_ongoing
Question 198
Title: I'm going to die why don't they care Text: More and more I can feel it and still everyone I care about continues to ghost me, mock me, treat me like shit and obviously not give a damn about me. I like myself and I try my best to be a good person but apparently all I am to anyone is a burden, something they have...
suicideideation_passive_ongoing
Question 199
Title: I need help Text: I’m very lonely and have been that way for years now. I’m autistic and have an extremely hard time communicating with others without coming off as rude or awkward. I’ve tried reaching out to people at school, in public, at work, at the gym and every time it just ends in embarrassment for some ...
no_crisis
Question 200
Title: Do you guys fantasize about your suicide? Text: I think about it a lot. Like I imagine how it'll play out. Who would find me, the mess it would make, how my apartment would likely smell of my decomposing corpse and how that would likely give away what actually happened. The process of distributing my stuff an...
suicideideation_passive_ongoing