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here's my budget, i have $800, where am i going to put? and i budgeted that $800. it was 8,000.
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to really get there. and so as you've been getting there, i know you've talked about things like lifestyle creeps-
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but, you've been intentional to say you've added things to your lifestyle so that you don't feel deprived.
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plus the actual philosophy of the program. that's what i'm living out. and i think one of the hardest things to convey is that there's a difference between the philosophy of-
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i think you've done a good job, although you obviously still get a lot of people-
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... variety because of the way that the exercise creates cravings. but yeah, it was much more like.
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think i'm going to supplement this and let me try to spend $12 this week only and see how i can build up from there.
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you are amazed at what you already have, what you can do with the little bit that you buy-
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and actually start cooking. what i haven't gotten fully into is the prep, because i come home from grocery shopping, and i'm just going to put this in the refrigerator.
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i'm going to get there one day. but it is definitely inspiring because you ate-
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booze, so much of all the food that if somebody was just like all you could eat on your debt free journey is chipotle, you would not be like, "i'm so deprived." you'll be like-
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be about settling for where you are.
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and settling, i feel like is so commonplace and it's such a bad word when people hear, "oh, i'm not settling, i'm doing stuff". but-
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you become so complacent in doing things every day, buying your food from the store and buying this can-
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why can i not go to whole foods? and this person argued with me, they were like, "there's no way you spent $50 a month going to whole foods." and i was just like...
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but there's so many things you think you can't do because somebody told you that the only way to do it is if you're here. and it's just-
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why would i do that if i don't like that?
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i always appreciate that about you, that you do those things even though they look radical to people. especially one of the things that-
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and even when i say it, and this is something that i've worked on this month, is that like, and i probably said it a bunch in this podcast, but it's just like-
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just like no connect you. and that's why i redid my may budget...
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you're getting into the point where you were ordering your debts in your mind-
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you re-did how you thought about your snowball so that you didn't do it. and i was like, "i'm so proud of her."
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... it's like listen, i know you don't want to hear me and you're typing off fast with your responses, but you are doing this thing. you keep saying it. and i'm like i know-
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you can't hear yourself say something silly. you can't hear yourself, you can't. so you can't correct the behavior. but it's just like i'm so grateful for the community and i tell people all this time, i have-
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yes, you're welcome. i try to be like, okay, we're in this together. because like i said, there's so few of us-
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... who look like us who are in the relationships that we're in. we have to have each other's back. so i want to see you succeed. i want to see me succeed. so-
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... you really need to pick a personal finance philosophy. like me and you share the dave ramsey financial peace university philosophy. but that's not the only philosophy out there.
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yes. that's very good. and i didn't know you were a june baby too. so am i. june 24th.yes. june 8th.hello.
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no, i know it is. i'm excited. so i want to thank you for joining us today. this has been such a good conversation. i've had such a good time talking to you.
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i want to tell everybody how they can find you online and get in contact with you.
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that was july of 2000... that was 2016.
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oh my gosh. and i found that being on those apps was worse in the beginning of the year. and it's like you really kind of want to meet somebody over the holidays because-
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mardi gras. anyway.
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i thought somebody i know they crossed.
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my timeline was full of pictures for weeks.
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i just can't have a timeline full of that one thing.
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because i've been in my organization for years, i don't care. you know what i'm saying? but i just don't want to see that all the time. just like with that.
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because of this conversation. it's just going to be so exciting for me because i'm going to be like, girl, this is what we said we wasn't going to do. but...
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yeah. i wonder now that you speak of these engagements and stuff, you remember at christmas that whole debate about that ring?
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on that discussion, i kind of fell on just the marriage and the relationship itself.
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and even when i was with my, when we actually had the conversation about marriage and engagement and everything...
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and we thought about even getting tattoos instead of getting rings. so i'm...
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i'm not so traditional that...
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that's true. and i feel like, yeah, that ring.
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with valentine's day coming up, it's going to be people who pretended... was it last year or the year before?
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or blah blah blah. but then the next question going to be, "but where your man though?"
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your relationship sucks. or you need a relationship like theirs and you're coveting something that's not even good.
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she done got this new wife, you're supposed to be a better man. we all love you. we were all rooting for you. we were all rooting for you.
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... invested. people really get invested into your life once you start posting it.
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i posted that picture just to kind of introduce him to the world like, "hey guys, i've been in a relationship for the last five years."
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solo pics of girls you want to post, you choose to post her and not me. so i felt some type of way. and then he kept...
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... me in bay. we is married now.
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they're at the reunion now and it's just like, i need to know what happened because there's time that...
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did he slap you? did she cuss out your mama? what really happened? i have answers. i mean i have questions. you need to give me some...
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they've broken up. but it's like, "dang, have you seen anything from this person? i haven't seen anything."
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and actually, i had... i was trying to talk, i was...
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... hashtag i've been in the gym working on the summer body, now you all going to get this summer body. so...
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and you can find me on instagram at darker berry and also darkerberry.com.
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workout challenge, which i did not join, but i've been.
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sometimes if you're doing a 21 day challenge, it may not be enough for you to create.
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... significant change. so 21 days you may not see a huge difference unless you are on some really like...
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kind of like you said most times with stuff like that, i think they mean...
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but again, like you said, if something changes, i was doing so good, getting up at 5:00 am or 5:30 this summer.
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i'm going to still have that ham, that mac and cheese, those collard greens, whatever else is being offered at the table. but-
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to indulge, to eat all the pumpkin pie and whatever other sweets...
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to want to change my image, my body image to want to be on whatever diet. i used to be the girl that whatever-
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just other plus size people that are interested in working out-
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take a pill. i can do a hundred million things to be skinny by next week, but then by-
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working towards a healthier lifestyle or losing weight or people have had weight loss surgery and things like that and there's been a lot of backlash with it but it's...
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... been in... i feel like nobody's been doing it in an extreme...
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hate tight weight. like you said, these people are comfortable with their bodies and-
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... and being so comfortable in their bodies that they know that something is going on or it would be better if they were to get some weight off. it's not that they're saying, "oh, i hate myself this way..."
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something that's driving it, and they're doing it because they do love their body, and they want their body to survive and...
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gold. and it's not that, you know, hate being a part of the plus size community because like you said, there's a lot of love there.
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it's like on one hand you have people that are, they say-
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when it comes to instagram and social media, it's like you can never satisfy everybody.
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yeah, and some of that negativity has been so extreme. i feel like it's stopping some people from actually being honest about what they're doing and what they're going through.
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you know advocacy who say, "you shouldn't lose weight, you should just be fat and happy." but...
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if you are pro body positivity, you got to really think about what that means. okay. if i'm thinking so positively-
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so i can make it to tomorrow. and it's just like...
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yeah. i've been doing reformer pilates and i love it. and it's kind of like i was at a point with my illness and stuff that i-
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i can't say i ever loved working out, but when i was in the consistent habit of it before i got sick, i liked what i was getting from it because-
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... gradually moved to different foods, not frying things. so i haven't ever really in the last few years eaten...
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and even just with your body structure, yeah you're going to have to work out to do it. yeah, you can eat-
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okay, well what did you say her page was because now i want to go follow?
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but yeah, i love, it's like she's in a gym like-
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and on one hand, i guess it's like our age group, i guess once you get past-
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we're just different people, so we're not going to get the same result.
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dairy, i know you can limit the dairy, but if you're really trying to get your fat intake to be a certain height-
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and dairy in my body with this gallbladder being gone is not the business.
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you're eating basically animal proteins and vegetables to simplify it.
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have to get my life together. but thank goodness i already had a little bit saved up and a little cushion because-
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and ate a few fries, which probably wasn't enough food-
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so do that. so you're right, those two definitely work in tandem. and i have to also get out the mindset.
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some type of thing relating to eating or drinking.
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as long as you don't put it back on there, you're good. or even if you need it to, it's there now.
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amazing. we had a lovely time. thank you to everyone who came up and said-
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i listen to your podcast, which was a shockingly large number of people. you didn't get to see all them, you...
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...loca and josh anaggsie and lisa brown and all sorts of people.yeah.it was good times.it was great fun.we had lots-
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yeah. if red riding hood was a pig...
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