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exactly.sure she's violated, but she wants a definition for what she is going through. it doesn't feel right with her soul instinctively. | N | 4.8 | 3.2 | 4.4 | 315 | Female |
she knows she's being violated, but she still poses it as a question. am i being violated? | N | 3.8 | 3.2 | 4.6 | 315 | Female |
within our laws in south africa, a very big step that was made, putting it into law and saying- | N | 4.8 | 4.4 | 4.6 | 344 | Female |
... over many years, perhaps somebody who you may have shared really intimate secrets- | N | 2.8 | 4 | 3.2 | 344 | Female |
...this person could be raping you is so out of context, within this sacredness- | D | 4.2 | 1.6 | 4.4 | 344 | Female |
at first, i couldn't handle it. i did go through a time when i wanted- | N | 3 | 3.4 | 4 | 1270 | Female |
... to report, but now it's just another day. | N | 3.6 | 3.4 | 3 | 1269 | Male |
there's no filing- | N | 4 | 3.8 | 3.6 | 1269 | Male |
... [inaudible 00:04:15] .sometimes it happens- | N | 2.8 | 3.4 | 3.4 | 1269 | Male |
...and some other times i may be away, and- | S | 3.307692 | 3.307692 | 3.076923 | 1270 | Female |
... noticed that pulling when he knows and he feels that i don't want to do this, but it just goes on. | S | 2.8 | 1.8 | 2.6 | 1270 | Female |
i think that's why it's so confusing. so jennifer, you said in the beginning, you wanted to report it because you had a sense- | N | 4.4 | 3.6 | 4.8 | 344 | Female |
you weren't giving consent that he was taking without asking or without you consenting? is that heartfelt for you? | N | 4.2 | 3.2 | 4.2 | 344 | Female |
and you realized it was wrong, but i guess the nature of the relationship didn't allow you to speak. | N | 3.8 | 3.8 | 4.4 | 344 | Female |
"hey, this is not consent. i don't want to be doing this. let's make love not rape." | X | 3.6 | 2.4 | 3.4 | 344 | Female |
i did, but... i don't know.=, maybe he just doesn't take it that way. | S | 3.333333 | 2.833333 | 3 | 1270 | Female |
yeah, in a lot of respects. | N | 3.333333 | 3.666667 | 3.5 | 1270 | Female |
and is this something which traditionally you are accepting? do you think it's part of your culture or religion, that this is a role of women and men? | N | 4 | 3.8 | 4.2 | 344 | Female |
... but you go to famsa, and go and get some counseling. they're on a- | N | 2.2 | 3.6 | 3.2 | 344 | Female |
... sliding scale, so whatever you can afford, you pay. go and get some support, and i mean this- | S | 3.4 | 3.2 | 4.8 | 344 | Female |
not often, but there are those moments. | N | 4.2 | 3.6 | 3.6 | 1269 | Male |
yes, it's quite strained, but in those moments, for me to enjoy it, i actually imagine someone else, not him. | X | 2.5 | 3.4 | 2.6 | 1270 | Female |
what sometimes happens between them, where there is sex happening, and at other times there is- | N | 4.7 | 3.5 | 5.2 | 315 | Female |
... what jennifer experiences as a violation. we'll talk about that in a moment, but- | X | 4.4 | 3.4 | 4.2 | 315 | Female |
i wonder what's in jennifer's husband's mind, and what goes on in his mind when jennifer is sleeping, or jennifer doesn't want to- | N | 3.4 | 3.4 | 4.4 | 315 | Female |
... jennifer feels forced, and then tomorrow or the next day the situation is different. | N | 4.6 | 3.4 | 4.4 | 315 | Female |
... then push it until they actually give in, and then sex happens. so, what is... that is one of the questions that i do have for our listeners. | N | 3.8 | 3.8 | 4.2 | 344 | Female |
how do you really know the difference, for men, between rape and-? | C | 3.4 | 3.4 | 4.4 | 344 | Female |
she's still in his bed every day. if it was that bad, like the letter from this woman, she would've got the police in. why don't women- | N | 5.454545 | 3.636364 | 5.272727 | 344 | Female |
the [inaudible 00:07:38] is to communicate as couples, to be honest towards each- | A | 5.375 | 2.875 | 4.875 | 1269 | Male |
"i don't like, one, two, three. going forward, i wouldn't like you to do these things, because i feel that i've been raped or i've been [inaudible 00:07:49] to do something that i'm not comfortable with." that's my own opinion. | C | 4.2 | 3.8 | 4 | 1270 | Female |
i want to ask you this, when you are making love to a woman, do you feel when a woman- | N | 3.4 | 4 | 3 | 344 | Female |
definitely, i must, because it is issue of the body language- | N | 3.6 | 4 | 4.2 | 1270 | Female |
... definitely stop, i would definitely stop and look for a response. and that would be a verbal one, [inaudible 00:08:10], "are you okay? are you happy? are you enjoying what i'm-?" | N | 4.4 | 3.4 | 4.4 | 1270 | Female |
... where she's afraid, and it is absolutely the responsibility of both partners, but certainly for the man to check in. | N | 4.4 | 3 | 4.2 | 344 | Female |
we cannot just accept that, "a no's a no," or that a lack of responsiveness- | X | 4.8 | 3 | 4.8 | 344 | Female |
... is a no. there is just an absolute non-negotiability around having to have a conversation when you are feeling, with your own integrity, "something is off here." | N | 4.8 | 3 | 4.8 | 344 | Female |
... because they alienate. i don't know one black man who pays lobola and thinks that they own their wives, and i know a lot of black men. | N | 4.2 | 3.2 | 4.6 | 315 | Female |
but, john has a point that in some circumstances- | C | 4.6 | 3.8 | 5 | 315 | Female |
... it's seen as a transactional thing, where the man may believe that lobola means he owns his wife. | X | 4.2 | 3 | 5 | 315 | Female |
... you now have ownership of your woman.submit and [crosstalk 00:09:02].i want to just talk to this fact of women saying, "no," because there is a huge initiative against that, that women cannot take responsibility for consent- | X | 5.222222 | 2.888889 | 5.444444 | 344 | Female |
... non-consent. men have got to be participant in that. they have to be able to read the responsiveness- | X | 4.4 | 4 | 4.8 | 344 | Female |
john is absolutely right. and i love what you're saying, john, that, you to stop and ask, "are you enjoying this, is this great-?" | N | 4.166667 | 4.666667 | 4.166667 | 315 | Female |
very, very great topic, which i believe it spreads- | N | 3.833333 | 4.166667 | 3.5 | 1270 | Female |
... much more broader than- | N | 3.6 | 3.8 | 3.2 | 1270 | Female |
redi and dr. eve, it's something that has been, i think, an engraved- | N | 3.2 | 3.4 | 3.8 | 1270 | Female |
i love what andile is saying, dr. eve. let me tell you why,- | N | 4.7 | 4.6 | 4.4 | 315 | Female |
... because he's basically saying, if in every area of our lives- | N | 2.6 | 3.6 | 3.6 | 315 | Female |
... at churches, work, in our society- | N | 4.2 | 4.4 | 4.2 | 315 | Female |
...partner. how can we expect, that even in the institution of marriage, or even in the home, that the dynamics would be different? and unless we address the inequality in those many other areas- | N | 4.7 | 3.9 | 4.7 | 315 | Female |
it's absolutely heartbreaking, that this has such an impact. which is what rape does, whichever rape you have. that it has such a- | S | 3.4 | 1.8 | 4.2 | 344 | Female |
[inaudible 00:00:32] where, you can hear, she had it once and- | N | 4.6 | 4.2 | 4.4 | 344 | Female |
... thing is the pain, which she talks about. you're in a situation where you not expecting to be hurt. you're not expecting to be forced. | S | 4.5 | 2.833333 | 4.833333 | 344 | Female |
the non-ability to negotiate condoms, as well. so, this is- | N | 4.4 | 3.6 | 4.6 | 344 | Female |
it's traumatic from a health point of view, as well as your own sense, your own sense- | N | 4.4 | 4.2 | 4 | 344 | Female |
... of self. really, i do want to bring in an element over here, which i want people to think about and we're going to link- | N | 5 | 4.4 | 4.2 | 344 | Female |
oh, yeah. i mean, this is a conversation for men, and i'm really delighted. and i think that the men who have called in today, they're the men who are aware, and conscious and mindful of what's going on. | N | 4.6 | 4.8 | 4 | 344 | Female |
i'm interested, also, in the other part of the conversation, jane, that you bring; is that, if you're not sleeping with me, who else is sleeping with? it's like your vagina belongs to me. and if you're going to refuse me... | D | 3.8 | 2.6 | 4.8 | 344 | Female |
this is another one of these incredibly disturbing- | X | 4 | 3.6 | 3.6 | 344 | Female |
...reality. how do we break this patriarchy? how do we break these belief systems? is by doing this, by having talk shows about it, by talking about it, because it's difficult for women, | X | 4.384615 | 3.538462 | 4.692308 | 344 | Female |
to talk about it in their own bedrooms. thank you for your input around this. | N | 2.8 | 4.2 | 3.6 | 344 | Female |
alcohol, when somebody's drunk too much, and there's a huge combination between alcohol and sex and drugs, | C | 4.2 | 3.3 | 4.3 | 344 | Female |
they're not going to be aware of what their other partner is, how they responded. | S | 3.4 | 3.4 | 4 | 344 | Female |
...to say and report this, even just starting off in the family, it would be very hard. i'm the mother of a boy, | C | 4 | 3 | 5.2 | 1270 | Female |
but it would be very hard for me to accept that my son has raped their wife. | N | 4.8 | 4.4 | 5 | 1270 | Female |
even as a sister, to accept that my brother. so it becomes even more harder for the wife to talk about this, | S | 4.2 | 3.2 | 5 | 1270 | Female |
to discuss this at a family level. so it's even harder to go out. | C | 4.2 | 3 | 3.8 | 1270 | Female |
dr. eve have a lovely weekend, we will speak to you next week. you too my sweetheart. | N | 5.2 | 4.8 | 5.4 | 315 | Female |
the brutal rape and murder of 17-year old bredasdorp teenager, | A | 4.75 | 1.625 | 5.75 | 315 | Female |
south africans have to deal with, is the horror, that is a society riddled with sexual violence. it is time we confronted this and stop rape. | S | 4.545455 | 1.909091 | 5.363636 | 315 | Female |
...as to how often an act of sexual violence in south africa takes place. | X | 5 | 2.6 | 5.4 | 315 | Female |
a person being raped in south africa, every four minutes. | X | 3.444444 | 1.888889 | 4.555556 | 315 | Female |
john, i was going to say i'm a rape survivor. | X | 5 | 3.5 | 4.5 | 1270 | Female |
...john, you cannot survive rape, you just carry on regardless. you never get over it, john. and i wasn't the same, john. i mean, i was raped as a four year old... | S | 5.545455 | 1.454545 | 5.363636 | 1270 | Female |
...she was my mother's sister. she was helping us and she raped me. my god! | S | 5.615385 | 1.923077 | 4 | 1270 | Female |
how does a woman rape a four year old? forgive me thabo, i'm missing something. | X | 5.545455 | 2.363636 | 5.545455 | 669 | Male |
she used to play with my privates. she used to insert my privates in her privates. she used to make me give her oral sex, john. i'm not being crude. | C | 4.6 | 2 | 4.2 | 1270 | Female |
you can, thabo. you can. thabo, we will arrange counseling for you. all right. and we'll do it in a sensitive way. and we will do it confidentially and so on. and we will look after your thabo. i promise you. | A | 6.4 | 4.2 | 6.2 | 669 | Male |
i'm 73. i was raped by my step-father when i was about six and after he- | N | 4.4 | 4 | 4 | 1270 | Female |
...raped me every night, for about three months, | N | 4.333333 | 3.666667 | 4.333333 | 1270 | Female |
i told my mother. my mother took me to a- | N | 4.8 | 4.2 | 4.6 | 1270 | Female |
...so that they could find his sperm on the sheet. my mother never left me but she also- | X | 4.8 | 3.4 | 4.6 | 1270 | Female |
i get flashbacks all the time. | N | 4 | 3.666667 | 3.5 | 1270 | Female |
it's remarkably brave, | X | 4.6 | 4.6 | 4.2 | 669 | Male |
...for you to speak out like this and i am so pleased for your sake that you had a loving and supportive husband. | H | 3.4 | 5 | 4.6 | 669 | Male |
...who could help for this. if there is, please get in touch with us- | N | 2.8 | 3.4 | 4.6 | 669 | Male |
...otherwise we will go through the channels that we have available. | S | 3.8 | 2.8 | 3.6 | 669 | Male |
we provided that platform, facilitated by our listeners, for everyone to come forward. even a convicted rapist was able to tell his story. | C | 5.285714 | 3 | 5.285714 | 315 | Female |
so as a kid, i don't, i didn't get to know- | N | 3.6 | 3.8 | 4.2 | 1270 | Female |
...my father because he had died because of those actions. to make a long story short, when i was 15 the year later, | F | 4.6 | 3.4 | 4.6 | 1270 | Female |
...he had, how do i say this, he had started a sexual encounter with- | N | 3.6 | 3 | 4.2 | 1270 | Female |
...once he had engaged in sex he asked the rest of the kids, myself included- | N | 4.8 | 3.6 | 4.6 | 1270 | Female |
...the entire crew, most of us were fairly under 16, | N | 4 | 4 | 4.4 | 1269 | Male |
...but you also don't want to tell them that you don't want to. we were actually convicted of rape. | X | 5 | 2.833333 | 4.666667 | 1269 | Male |
19, this is four years after it had happened. | S | 3.4 | 2.4 | 3.4 | 1270 | Female |
you don't even know whether right or wrong. | N | 5.2 | 4.4 | 4.6 | 1270 | Female |
after having been gang raped by five men for 15 hours in port elizabeth in 2010, | X | 5.909091 | 2.363636 | 5.545455 | 1269 | Male |
...i've decided that i would start a campaign that says enough of silence, enough of fear, enough of apathy, enough of tolerance. | A | 6.2 | 3.2 | 6.6 | 1270 | Female |
this is a thing that we need to fight because being silent or maybe that's giving up because they've just told, "well, your case is closed" and you are not, you didn't even have- | X | 5.8 | 2.8 | 5.6 | 1270 | Female |
...a trial, will allow rapists to rape again and again. | A | 6 | 2.4 | 6 | 1270 | Female |
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