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{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 5th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Friday, April 11, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nTom, come on in."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hi Charles."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is anything the matter? You look tired."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm okay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have a seat."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So how have we been this week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, we've been fine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you sure you're feeling alright--have you been getting enough sleep?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Honestly, I'm..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Because you don't look too well."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Nothing's..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I could get you some coffee or some water or..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No I'm fine, believe me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Very well."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "[Laughs]."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What? What are you chuckling about?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Just life, Charles. The whole idea of it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like you have something on your mind."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You ever wonder what a copy machine thinks, Charles?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Come again?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "A couple days ago while I was at work and was using the copier, I imagined what it would be like to be the machine. All those reports, all those spec sheets and tables, copy after copy, day after day, nothing changing except for the text and the paper size. It accomplishes so much but for all it does to make our lives easier, it's probably the least appreciated device in the department. People take it for granted. We expect it to always be there for us--we never stop to think that it might need another ream of paper or a toner cartridge occasionally."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're beginning to feel like the copy machine."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Am I that transparent?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Everyone feels that way from time to time. You think there aren't times when I don't feel appreciated? We all have days when we wonder if what we're doing really matters to anyone. There are six billion people on this planet, Tom. That number rises each decade. It becomes more and more difficult to separate the single voice from the masses. But regardless, each of us is unique and has something special to offer."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not so sure. I want to be that person in the spotlight; I want to be recognized for my achievements."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But, I'm afraid."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Because if you were to be recognized for your deeds, it would mean enduring the pressure of being singled out from the crowd."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Exactly. Am I contradicting myself here? Why is it that I want to bask in the glory yet at the same time hide in the shadows? I do a lot at work. There are many problems I solve behind the scenes while others accept credit for the work they do and get recognized for their achievements. Damn it, it's not fair. If I were just more outgoing, things would be different."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're not contradicting yourself, but you are challenging yourself, and that's good. I would be more worried if you were content with being perpetually anonymous. I think if you continue to challenge yourself actively--socially--you'd be surprised at what you could accomplish. You're shaking your head. You don't believe me?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You don't know my past history in the social department, Charles. I've had a lot of bad luck during the times I actually do go out, almost as if I weren't meant to be around people. It just seems that every time I try to peek out of my shell, there's something waiting to bite my head off."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Something happened this week, didn't it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Jesus, Charles, you must be able to see the wall behind me when you look into my eyes. Yeah, something happened."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You want to talk about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it's no big deal, I guess. It's just amazing to me how strange things seem to happen only when I make an attempt at socializing. Last week at work, a couple guys who sit near me were talking about the big scandal with our VP."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Scandal?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe I shouldn't really talk about it. Let's just say that there were rumors about this woman's involvement with some people in the department and recently the rumors were confirmed in a big way. In any case, eventually I started participating in the conversation just to be, you know, one of the guys, and then we started talking about going out after work for a few beers. No biggie. Rob, a friend of mine who sits in the cube next to me at work, basically talked me into going. We used to hang out together more often than we do now, which is never. I think he doesn't fully understand how uncomfortable it is for me when I go out in public. But, he's probably the closest friend I have, so I agreed to tag along. We went to The Bull Market after work--it's that little bar and grill with the Old West-type atmosphere down the street, across from the Pacific Stock Exchange."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I've been there a few times. Good food."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, the more grease, the better. Anyway, Rob, Chad and I stayed there a lot later than we should have for a Monday night. Between the three of us, I think we had about seven or eight pitchers of beer. Some other people from work were also sitting nearby and Chad, well, he's sort of the company hound dog--hitting on anything remotely feminine and all. He decides to walk over and start talking with a girl from work whom we all know is very married. Another hour passes, and Rob and I are busy complaining about work and about our ex-girlfriends and about a thousand other topics that start spewing out of your mouth when the alcohol hits your brain. Chad's still working on this girl when her husband walks in. The husband is pretty cool at first, sits down near us and joins in on a conversation nearby, while all the time keeping an eye on his wife and Chad. Now, I don't know what the hell Chad was thinking next, but before we knew it, the girl was heading toward the ladies room and Chad was following her in! Rob suddenly says to me, \"Uh oh,\" and I turn around to see the husband right in Chad's face. At first they were shoving each other around and shouting obscenities--the bartender and a couple cooks were trying to break it up--then all of sudden the two of them were rolling around on the floor bashing each other's head in. Rob's the type of guy who will instinctively go out of his way to mediate disputes, so he gets up and pulls the two of them apart. I don't know how he did it, but while he was holding back the husband, who was still flailing away, he was able to talk to Chad and calm him down. It looked like the trouble was over."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But they started fighting again?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, the cops arrived. As soon as Rob saw the cops, he sort of mumbled, \"You guys are on your own now\" and let go of the husband, who immediately leaps toward Chad. The police officers grab the husband and try to get him to calm down, when all of a sudden he throws a punch at the one of the cops! I couldn't believe my eyes. The four cops pin the guy down to the floor and spray mace in his face. Then they handcuff him and arrest him for resisting arrest and assaulting a police officer."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like a very entertaining evening!"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was shocking. Obviously, the whole place sort of became subdued after that--with the smell of mace in the air, we all got out of there. I really think that Janet--the girl--was sort of egging the whole episode on. Rob and I walked out to the parking lot and had nothing to say to each other, we were so stunned. As we approached our cars, we just sort of looked at each other and shook our heads."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you feel somehow responsible for causing the fight?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, no. I didn't know Janet, after all."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, I mean do you feel that if you hadn't accepted Rob's offer to join him for a few drinks, that the fight would not have occurred?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know it sounds crazy, but yes I do. Based on everything else that's happened to me, I really do believe that somehow this episode was related to my being there. I mean, I had been interacting with Chad that night, perhaps something I had said at the table prompted him to get up and start hitting on women, I don't know. But I definitely believe that my presence somehow evokes negative forces. To me, it makes complete sense, Charles. The world is, after all, made up of positive and negative energy, and our existence is based on their perfect balance. I feel that, for whatever reason, I was destined to be a negative force. I emit negative vibes. Not literally, of course, but socially. Somehow, I affect those around me. And it's for that reason that I believe I should just stay home and not deal with it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I believe you're being a bit unrealistic about that. You're needlessly accepting responsibility for the actions of others around you. Don't you think the alcohol most likely played more of a role here than anything else?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did this make you feel?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I felt like crying. I felt like I had been betrayed. These were my friends. These were people I thought I could trust. But there I was, getting picked on again, just like when I was the new kid in Scranton. There were so many people at the party that night, and I finally felt comfortable and felt like I fit in, and then I wake up and realize that, while I was passed out, I was made the outcast once again. I didn't know what to do at that point. I just grabbed my keys and drove home."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you talk to Rob or Trent about what happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, they thought I was overreacting. Rob didn't think it was a big deal. He told me how his frat brothers used to put makeup on him when he passed out and sat him on a chair in an elevator so passengers could see. It wasn't too comforting to me. I don't think he can possibly understand where I'm coming from. It's not fun for me to go out. It's work. I have to concentrate hard on socializing. I have to prepare. And when someone does something like that to me, it gives me less incentive to continue to go out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand. Tom, I'm convinced you're not a negative force. These incidents aren't happening because you're somehow influencing others around you to act out against you. There is, however, such a thing as a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you feel that something negative will happen, it will happen, Tom. It is a chore sometimes to be positive, but it can be done. Think on that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I seem to feel a lot better talking about this stuff than letting it cycle through my own head every day."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Talking is a start. Acting on what we've discussed will come later."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I look forward to it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll see you next week? Is Friday, April 18th at this time okay for you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That'll be fine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay, then. See you later, Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Later."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 22nd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Friday, April 17, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Tom. Come in."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How are things?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Things are complicated, as usual."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really? Well, let's start with something you mentioned last time toward the end of our session. You said that you felt you've made some sort of mess at work?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't \"feel\" I've made a mess. I know I have."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. How so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, to start off, Karina is out of the picture for me. I've decided not to contact her anymore. If she tries to call me, I intend to ignore her. I've realized now that I've wasted too much time with her, and instead of dwelling on what could have been, it's better to just drop it and move on."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's good to hear such resolve in you. I agree, she didn't seem interested in a serious relationship--certainly not a healthy one."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Karina was all about deception. She played games with me, and she did it well. She was using me to make her ex-boyfriend of four years jealous, which is ironic since I'm probably the only male Karina's met in the past seven months whom she hasn't had sex with. She knew I was attracted to her, and the more I became interested and enticed, the more she dangled the chance to be with her sexually just out of reach. She gave me just enough to whet my appetite for her and then pulled way back and said she only wanted to be friends. And then she used my attraction to her as a tool to get things she wanted from me. She's a user and abuser because she's spoiled and gets her way too easily. Well, not this time. I'm through jumping through her fucking hoops."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think I agree with you on most of your points. Please continue."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, at about the same time I'd first met Karina, a new woman was hired at the Help Desk to field in-house support problems. Her name is Rachel O'Rielly. Her best friend, Jennifer Keys, helped to get her the job. And I believe, at the time, it had been her intention to fix Rachel and I up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. Jennifer has always liked my sense of humor, and she used to tell me that I reminded her of her best friend. She thought we were very much alike and therefore might be compatible in a relationship."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you gotten to know Rachel well? Do you feel she's as compatible as Jennifer suggested?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Initially, I didn't think so, no. But I've come to enjoy her wit and humor. She sits in the cubicle across from me, so we talk often. It's ironic that I usually came to her to discuss my dreary situation with Karina. She had agreed with me that Karina sounded like a user, and that she was all-around bad news. But I have a tendency of drawing situations out, if you hadn't noticed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You? Draw things out? Never."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks for not being too sarcastic."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're quite welcome."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Anyway, as my talks with Rachel increased, I came to realize I was falling for her. Have you ever listened to someone speak and suddenly felt soothing electric sensations gently pulsating through the back of your neck just from the mere sound of her voice? That's the way I feel when I'm around her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you thought about asking Rachel out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I've fantasized about it. But she works in the same department. It would be more than foolhardy, it would be an occupational suicide. Since Rob left the Help Desk some time ago, I am the only male in the department. And where there's a great number of women together, there is gossip. Could you imagine the whispers shot back and forth if I were to have a relationship with Rachel?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I can see how such a situation would make things uncomfortable."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, as it turns out, the whispers started anyway. And it's all my fault for being so damn obvious with my feelings toward her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you feel they know of your romantic interest in Rachel?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They most definitely do. I'm a very insecure person. Rachel is a very beautiful woman. Guys from other departments have frequently stopped by her cubicle to flirt with her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And you are jealous."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Enraged is more like it. There is one guy in particular--Scott Collavito from the graphic arts department. He has been hounding her for the past month. The guy is a big player. I'd call him an asshole if he didn't give sphincter muscles such a bad name. The guy is a typical Italian stud-monkey with a dark tan, baby-blue eyes, and enough mousse in his thick, black hair to withstand a category five hurricane. He has gold chains dangling from his thick neck--I mean the whole bit. I hate bastards like that--absolutely perfect. The kind of guy that, if you were gay, you'd want to butt-fuck you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Don't hold back, Tom. Learn to let go of your emotions."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "More sarcasm, huh? Well, my jealousy was apparently so obvious that the Help Desk gossip queens had already held a half dozen meetings around the water cooler about it. Most of the women in my department don't like the idea of my hooking up with Rachel because they feel I'm too moody. As you already know, I'm notorious for my temper tantrums at work. Rachel is much more in control of her emotions. Last month, I carried the anger a little too far."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know if you surf the web at all, but there are a lot of hacker sites on the Internet. You can download just about any application you want to get your hands on for free, if you know where to look. I do. And I also know where to download custom viruses. One particular virus called \"Plunger\" is specially designed to run on an Apple computer running OS 8. It causes the entire system to crash. The victim will see his screen flash multiple colors for about a minute, and then everything on the monitor will start swirling around like water in a toilet bowl. Finally, the poor boob's hard drive gets reformatted, and all his work is lost forever."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I've got a feeling I'm not going to like the rest of this story."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You won't. Everyone in the graphic arts department runs a Mac, of course. Well, I found a way to transmit the \"Plunger\" virus through the company's network, directly into Scott Collavito's machine without being detected. I've got a program that ghosts my IP address so no one..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Whoa, hold on there. You lost me."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sorry. Basically, I found a way to send the virus while covering my tracks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It felt good to do this to Scott. I feel it's my personal responsibility to bring turmoil to the lives of those who have it so easy. A little conflict, a small disaster might build some character. Anyway, the day his system crashed, he naturally called the Help Desk for assistance."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Let me guess--Rachel took the phone call."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You got it. I couldn't believe my luck. She had long since known about my jealousy and my affections for her, despite my efforts to suppress them. It didn't take long for her to put it all together. Here I thought I could get away with it. I was patting myself on the back for my ingenuity only to be foiled by a woman's sixth sense."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did she confront you about crashing Scott's computer?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not directly, no. She simply stopped talking to me. I let the silent treatment go on for a couple days, praying that I had just been imagining that she'd figured out my juvenile stunt. But I knew. I knew the moment she first turned her head away when I looked over at her that day. I finally sent her an e-mail asking her why she wasn't speaking to me. She immediately replied by asking me how it was possible for one person in a department sharing files on the network drive with a group of twenty people to suddenly contract a virus capable of reformatting their hard drive. Of course, I played on like I had no idea. And this only proved to make things worse."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I can imagine."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "For the next week, I was miserable. Not being able to speak to Rachel was torture. She's the only person in my department that has kept me sane. I never meant for anyone to know about the virus, especially not her. It was supposed to be a means for me to cope with my jealousy and insecurities. True, it was childish. But it was also satisfying to imagine Scott squirming in his chair. Then guilt just got the best of me, and I couldn't go on pretending like I wasn't responsible."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "At least we know your conscience is still intact."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess so. I finally did what was right. I wrote Rachel a long-winded letter that explained everything. I began the letter describing how I felt about her, then proceeded on about the feelings of jealousy, until finally I confessed to and apologized for crashing Scott's computer."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did she forward the letter to your manager after you had confessed? I would think this would be a serious violation of SII's security policy."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. She'd never do that. In her mind this wasn't a work-related issue. It was personal."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what was her reaction to your letter?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was relieved to receive an e-mail from her saying she was glad I'd admitted to it all. Rachel thought I was a beautiful writer, and that I'd missed my calling. She also made it clear that she was very upset that I'd stoop to such a level. But I couldn't believe she was so willing to forgive me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It is rather surprising. She must really have valued your friendship to so readily accept your apology. I think that says a lot about Rachel; and maybe something about you, too."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's one very special woman. I just wish we worked in separate departments."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So that you could pursue a relationship with her?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. It's not like I'd be confident enough to ask her out anyway."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, if you do muster the courage, I think you should give yourself some time for this incident to blow over. Speaking of time, ours is about up. I'd like to talk more about your emotions related to this woman. Can you come back next week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'd feel more comfortable if we made it two weeks from now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Very well. I'll see you in two weeks."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye, Charles."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 6th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Friday, April 18, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Tom. Have you been waiting out here in the hallway for very long?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Only a little while. I know I'm early."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Where are my keys? Oh, here they are. Bear with me a second while I unlock the door."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No problem."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you take some extra time off from work or something?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I took the day off."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Here we are. Let me flip on the lights. Come on in and have a seat."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I apologize that you had to wait out there; I'm usually loitering around the office most of the day, but I had to make a few errands this time."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I understand. It wasn't your fault I was early."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you been ill?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Why do you ask?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, you said you took the day off. I assumed you were sick."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, not really. Just a little hung-over. I've had a lot on my mind lately."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Is it a subject you want to discuss?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know, Charles. It's really nothing new. I usually go through this cycle about once or twice a month. This is the first time I've called in sick because of it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Cramps?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, not that kind of cycle. Clever."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It was a stretch as far as humor goes, but what do you expect on a lazy Friday afternoon?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just go through this period of...I don't know how to describe it--mourning."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What is it exactly you do during these periods of mourning, besides drink?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I do a lot of reflecting. Looking back into the past, remembering people. Remembering Sharon."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Your ex-girlfriend."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You spoke of her briefly during our first meeting, if I recall. Perhaps we could discuss your relationship with her further. How long were the two of you involved with each other?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "One year, seven months, almost to the day. We met February 22, 1994."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did the two of you meet?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I had been working at the newspaper for a little over a month. There was a guy downstairs, in customer service, who I met in the lunchroom. We started meeting regularly. I was comfortable talking with him. Jay was about five years younger than I was and a bit slow for his age, but not so much that he didn't realize how anti-social I was. Anyway, I guess he pitied me in a way. I think he had initially tried to befriend me thinking that I was this older partying stud who could hook him up with some beer and invite him to parties or something. As it turned out, he actually took me under his wing. His fianc��'s best friend had just broken up with her boyfriend and one day he talked me into going out with her on a blind double date."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You were how old at the time?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Twenty-two."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And Sharon was?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, all right. I know I originally told you she was eighteen, but I didn't want to make a big issue out of her age. She was actually 16 when we first met. Fortunately, the age of consent in Pennsylvania is 14, so I wasn't breaking any laws."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That fact wasn't much of a consolation to you, I imagine."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, it wasn't. Jay had originally told me she was 18 and a senior in high school, which in my mind was still too young. But then, only twenty minutes before Sharon and Crystal--that's Jay's fianc��--pulled up into the driveway to meet with us, Jay takes me aside and whispers, \"I lied about her age, man. She's actually 16, but she turns 17 in May.\" I was so shocked that I wanted to sprint to my car and drive off, but then I thought, \"This is only a date. It's not like we're going to get married or anything.\" So I decided to stick around and just go through with it and try to have a good time. Besides, I was very lonely and very bored and welcomed any opportunity to get out of the house."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did the date go?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It went about as well as most first dates go. A bit awkward, especially since I'm so quiet. It was bad enough that Sharon was so young, but to top it off, I noticed she wore braces. That just seemed to punctuate the age difference. The four of us went out to one of those miniature golf courses and hit some putts, then we bought the girls some ice cream and headed out to see a movie. We saw \"Mrs. Doubtfire.\" I was very nervous sitting next to Sharon, but thankful that I was in a place where I wasn't expected to talk. Anyway, we returned to Jay's house and said our goodbyes; Crystal asked if I could drive Sharon home, so I did. I tried my best to make small talk with her on the way to her house until finally I said, \"I know I'm probably the oldest guy you've ever dated.\" To my surprise, she said I wasn't. Then she told me she was much more comfortable around older men, which put me more at ease. In fact, after our little chat in the car, I realized I really liked this girl. She was funny, smart, friendly, and loved to smile. That was one of the most exhilarating evenings I had ever had with a girl. She made me forget my pain and my insecurities. I kept her number and called her back a few days later. We started chatting over the phone--talked for hours at a time--and went out more and more frequently. In less than a month, we were a couple. My life seemed to change for the better at that point. I became a lot more optimistic for the future. I quit drinking entirely. Things seemed to fall into place."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did her parents react to your relationship with their young daughter?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't think they had too much of a problem with it. When I found out a little more about Sharon's past, I began to see why. I think her parents believed for a while that I'd settle her down a bit. She was very...wild. She had probably slept with more men than most women do in a lifetime. Her past boyfriend had gotten her pregnant and she promptly got an abortion. Jay and Crystal, in fact, were getting married because he had gotten Crystal pregnant. I think Sharon regretted aborting her child, especially since Crystal and she conceived at about the same time. After Crystal's baby was born, it really affected Sharon. We'd visit with her and the baby a lot, and Sharon took to it immediately. Needless to say, that made me nervous."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Because you were uncomfortable with the idea of having sexual relations with someone her age?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, no. I overcame that hangup fairly quickly. A few weeks later, after the braces came off, Sharon seemed a lot older to me. We had a very active sex life. Four or five times a week was pretty much the norm throughout the course of the relationship, and sometimes we'd have a go at it a few times a day. I definitely know where all my gray hairs come from. I was more concerned that she would try to get herself pregnant, like \"forget\" to take her birth control or something. It would have been ugly if that happened. I wasn't ready for a child, and I certainly didn't want to see Sharon ruin her life by having a kid while still in high school."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "She never got pregnant, I gather."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There were a couple of times that she was late, but they were always false alarms. We lucked out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Was the relationship fairly stable?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I would say so. It got to be pretty routine. After I quit my part-time newspaper job and started working full time at the computer company, we lost a lot of time together. That sort of put a strain on us, but we managed. We began to appreciate our time together more on weekends. During the week, she would either greet me when I came home from work, or drop love letters in my mailbox. Then I'd drive over to her parent's house and stay with her until late in the evening. We'd wait until her parents were asleep and then make love in the living room. I remember driving home from her house some nights happily smelling my fingers...well, never mind."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's all right."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I loved her very much. After nearly a year, I began to see her as the person with whom I'd like to spend the rest of my life with. We talked a lot about marriage and I really began to look forward to that possibility, despite the fact that I knew it couldn't happen. College loomed ever nearer for Sharon. I've seen too many relationships end in college to think that our relationship was going to last. I even told Sharon that once. She assured me it wouldn't happen, but...I knew."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did your relationship end? Was it a clean break?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. In fact, Sharon will have nothing to do with me now. She won't even speak to me. She broke up with me after only a week in college. Maybe it had something to do with that self-fulfilling prophecy you were telling me about last week, I don't know. The college she ended up going to was only a ten-minute drive from my house. I caught her walking from her dining hall to her dorm room with another guy one night when we were supposed to go out. He was tall, long black hair, tanned and was visually undressing Sharon when I intercepted them in the lobby of her dorm. I knew it was over when Sharon introduced me to the guy as \"my friend, Tom.\" Not \"boyfriend\" or \"honey bunny\" or \"sweet cakes\" or anything, just \"friend.\" My heart crushed inward at that moment. He realized who I was and immediately left, and Sharon and I started fighting. I told her that if she wanted to break up with me she should say so. So she did, and that was that. I got in my car, bought a case of beer, and bawled my eyes out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why did she stop speaking to you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, that was my doing. After the breakup, we still got together once in a while and went out, but we were no longer intimate with each other. She'd call every now and then and we'd talk as friends but I needed more. I was horribly distraught after the breakup. I wrote her letters, sent her cards and flowers, anything to let her know that I still loved her and wanted her back in my life. But she kept toying with me. She'd come over to my house sometimes and give me mixed signals, like hug me, and pinch my ass or kiss me--it was very confusing. It would have been better to just stop seeing each other rather than being together but yet not as a couple. I couldn't handle it. Finally, out of frustration and rage, I took all of her love letters, highlighted certain parts of them and wrote nasty comments in the margins. I then collected them all and mailed them to her in a large manila envelope. Her phone calls to me immediately ceased. I finally called her about a month later to see how she was doing, but she screamed at me and told me I was a psycho and to stop calling her and to stay out of her life."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. And I know it was wrong. Sometimes I'd call her number and hang up, or leave cryptic messages on her answering machine. One time I drove out to her campus and stood outside her dorm window for about two hours."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What were you doing?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Just staring. Trying to catch a glimpse of her as she walked past. It made me feel close to her in a strange way. Jesus, maybe I am psychotic. I mean, that's called stalking, isn't it? I was stalking her. I think back on that and it really scares me what was going through my head."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Was this something you did for a long time?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, just that once."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And when was that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That was about a year and a half ago. So do you think maybe that's what I am, Charles? Am I a stalker?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's difficult to pigeonhole a person into one particular category like that, Tom. Society likes to classify certain types of behavior in neat, tidy packages with bright, colorful labels, but the reality is that there are many circumstances involving many types of people that don't fit these molds. My interpretation of a stalker involves a high level of malice aimed at another person. You may have altered the love letters out of spite, but that type of revenge is a somewhat natural response to being hurt, although your method might have been a bit unconventional."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I would never hurt Sharon. I just missed her, you know? I felt like she betrayed me. I still wish she'd forgive me and talk to me again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Of course you do. But I feel the best thing you can do is get your mind off Sharon and out of the past. Try occupying yourself with other activities. That's the only way you're going to overcome these cycles you say you experience."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So basically buck up and get out of the house more, right?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "In a nutshell."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess I'll give it a shot, but it's difficult."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It will be at first, Tom, but you must help yourself take the first steps at socializing and starting new relationships. I know this will sound trite, but you must put the past behind you. As for our next session, I'll see you on Friday, April 25th at 4 pm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "All right. Thanks, Charles."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Take care."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 7th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Friday, April 25, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello Tom, come on in."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is everything okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Why, do I look that bad?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You called me \"Doctor\" for the first time."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I did?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, which is fine, but it threw me off guard since you've never called me that before. You do look particularly depressed today. What's going on?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Do you ever feel like you have absolutely no control over your life?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, there are brief times when I feel that way--most people experience periods of helplessness on occasion."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You have no idea what I mean. I don't ever recall feeling in control at any time in my life. I hate who I am. I hate my life and where it's going...or where it's not going, as the case may be. My job sucks, my social life sucks, my loans and bills suck, my haircut sucks, my vacuum cleaner doesn't suck--nothing goes right for me. I don't know why I'm alive. People protest against toxic waste and nuclear waste and how that affects our environment, but what about human waste, Charles? Shouldn't that be a crime, too? There are millions of us worthless people out there, living day to day, accomplishing nothing yet wasting precious resources by staying alive. People in Ethiopia are starving because American businesses use their land for cattle grazing to support our beef demand. That same land could have been used to grow crops to support the people in that country. I'm a beef eater, so that makes me partially responsible for those lives. I'm also wasting precious rental space that could have been used for someone who really needs shelter. I'm tearing up the ozone layer driving my car around aimlessly because I have nowhere in particular to go. There's no point to my being here. I'm simply a waste of human flesh."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What makes you less important than anyone else?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I have the luxury of certain items and opportunities others don't have. And I don't deserve those luxuries, Charles, because I don't take advantage of them. Why don't I? Because I don't know where to start. I don't know what route to take. I feel trapped in the life I lead, being tossed around in a swift current of failure that leads me nowhere. I wish I could be dead and start my life over. I'd like to be reborn into a wealthy, stable family where I can live a pampered life and have Mommy and Daddy pay my way through some expensive school and call my broker four times a day and scratch my nuts while I wait for my checks to roll in."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you feel that's possible? That if you were to die, you'd be able to start over in a new life?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, of course not. I don't believe in reincarnation any more than I believe in God or Santa Claus or the Easter Bunny. I know there's only blackness waiting for me when I die--that's what makes my situation that much more unbearable. I'm only alive because I'm not dead, you know? There's no reason, no purpose to my existence. Is that why so many people get involved with religion, Charles? Because the reality of our lives is so terrifying and pointless that we desperately cling to this notion that there's some elaborate, magical realm somewhere in the cosmos where we'd live throughout eternity?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's an argument that has plagued the minds of scholars for ages, Tom. I feel that you must trust your instinct and your heart when it comes to this area. If you find peace in your own belief, or your lack of one, then it is the right answer."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Then what you're saying is that I should turn to religion because right now I don't find peace in the fact that there is no God?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, that's not what I'm saying. Your feelings of inadequacy are not necessarily dependent on your religious beliefs. You feel a need to start over in order to correct what you believe are mistakes made during your life, but you can start making the changes now, Tom, to get the satisfaction out of life you need. You don't have to start over."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You ever watch Star Trek?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "From time to time."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The Captain accepted the offer, but when he made changes to points in his life he thought were mistakes, it reshaped his future to the point that he never became Captain--instead, he led his life doing menial, forgettable tasks as some junior-grade Lieutenant. So once the Captain realized what his changes had done, he told Q that he'd rather die as a Captain with all his mistakes intact than be the boring, drifting loser he was the second time around. When I saw this episode, it had a tremendous impact on me. I felt like I was that loser. I felt like I had made all the \"safe\" decisions and avoided taking risks in life. I had so many chances, Charles, to become more than what I am now. And I blew it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why do you feel you've failed? You work for a reputable company, you have good technical skills and hundreds of employees depend on you, you graduated with a journalism degree--do you not feel these are tremendous accomplishments in and of themselves?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, because they don't make me happy. I don't have what I want."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you want?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I want...freedom--to be free of it all. I feel like abandoning everything.\n\nI want to have the freedom to get up from my cubicle at work, walk over to the manager's office, say \"fuck you\" and never step foot in the building again.\n\nI want the freedom from my school loans that keep me tied to this horrible job because otherwise I wouldn't be able to maintain the payments.\n\nI want to have the freedom to drive out to the beach and watch the sunset and fall asleep and wake up the next morning and not have to worry about whatever worthless fucking report my superiors want just so they have something to whack off to.\n\nI want my girlfriend back so I can hold her and make love to her and go away with her to places I'll probably never see in my lifetime.\n\nI want to write really torrid cheesy romance novels that thousands of women will swoon over and provide me the income to buy a boat so I can sail across the Pacific.\n\nI want to live in Australia, and I want to own a brewery so I don't have to keep stocking my fridge."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like a nice life."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's fucking Disneyland, is what it is. It will never happen. None of it. I'm stuck in the dreary life I lead. There's only one way out, in my mind. I just want to die, Charles. Is that so much to ask?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom, we both know you don't want to die. You may feel like you have no control over your destiny, but that is because you've really made no effort to change or to do those things you wish you felt comfortable doing."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I thought you were on my side."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I am, Tom, believe me. But no one can make those changes for you. You have to motivate yourself to go out and face the world and take charge of the path you lead. Avoiding people--shying away from social activities--will prevent you from achieving a large portion of the goals you've set for yourself."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. You're right. It's just so hard to do. I get so frightened in public, Charles. My mouth gets dry, my palms get sweaty, I feel sick to my stomach--I start to panic. All I want to do is get out of that environment and go home. I feel comfortable only when I'm alone, yet I hate being alone. Damn it, this is so hard. Why can't I just be like everyone else? Why do I have to be the type of person I am? I don't want to remain a hermit. I want to meet people and make friends and go places and do things. It's just not possible for me. I've been this way for too long to change, I think."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's not true. You're already changing. You've come to see me and you've identified points of your life that you feel have made you the person you are now. You did this almost completely on your own. It may not seem so, but that's tremendous progress, Tom. Your next step is to venture out more often and push yourself into those uncomfortable situations. That is the only way you're going to overcome your fear."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I wish I could just stick a tape in my VCR and watch some instructional film for a couple hours and be cured of all this."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I know. It's going to be tough. I'm not going to fool you into believing otherwise. You seem to put yourself down before giving yourself a chance. You expect defeat. That attitude is your undoing. You believe in forces that don't necessarily exist. It is your interpretation of events that many times leads to failure."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The self-fulfilling prophecy again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes. You said in a past session that you sometimes go out with some of your co-workers. Does that make you feel more comfortable, because you have an idea of what to expect from them?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess so. I definitely don't enjoy walking into a room full of strangers. But I'm still uneasy being among any group."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "For the most part, though, being with co-workers in a public place is easier than being in a place with people you don't know?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay, let's do this. There's a rock concert being held at the Hotel Utah tonight. I was invited and have an extra ticket, and I know a lot of SII employees are going, too. Why don't you come? We can call this a test run, if you will."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What time does this concert start?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're going?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. I really don't feel like..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "...having fun?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're going to make me do this, aren't you?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Of course not. It's entirely up to you. You've come this far, Tom, but you'll have to decide when it's the appropriate time to start developing some social skills."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, I'll be there."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Very well. Then I'll see you tonight. Is next Friday at 2 pm all right for you? That's May 2nd."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's fine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Take care, Tom. See you at the concert tonight."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 23rd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Friday, May 1, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHi, Charles."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Tom. Please have a seat."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How have things been these past couple of weeks?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Better on some fronts, worse on others."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Let's start with the good news."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've made some progress with Rachel, or maybe I'm just being humored, I don't know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What sort of progress?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I got up the nerve to ask her to lunch."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Great. That's very encouraging news. It must have been very difficult for you to approach her."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it wasn't too difficult. I wimped out and asked her via e-mail."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess I'm lucky to have gotten that far. I was sitting in my cubicle, only half-minding my Help Desk tickets, when suddenly I found myself opening up a new e-mail message and asking her if she'd like to have lunch with me sometime. And before the more rational side of me was able to catch up and realize what I was doing, the message had already been sent."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did she accept your invitation? Or is that the bad news?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She accepted. I couldn't believe it. I had expected her to whip back a quick reply with some excuse not to go, but instead she simply asked me where and when. So we picked a time and a place, and there I was, sitting in a booth in a restaurant across from a woman I've wanted to be close to for months."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did it go?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I felt it was a little strained. I was probably visibly nervous to her. It's ironic how we had joked and flirted with each other over the course of several months, yet once we were alone together, there was this great tension between us. The flow of conversation was a bit choppy. I wish I could have remained in flirt mode when we had gone out to lunch. Maybe then, she'd feel more comfortable hanging around me instead of Mr. Collavito."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's the gentleman you sent the computer virus to, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. In fact, that subject came up during my conversation with Rachel. She said she didn't understand why I had felt so jealous when Scott already has a girlfriend. Well, if he has a girlfriend, he must be planning to cheat on her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why do you say that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Because Scott loves to go over to Rachel's cubicle and talk, and vice versa. They are at each other's cubicle so often each day, that it is driving me insane. How could he not be putting the moves on her? Rachel admitted herself that he was a flirt. But apparently, she's been doing a little flirting of her own. I can't help but think that she's doing it on purpose, just to make me feel frustrated."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Much like Karina had been doing, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. All I know is there are times at work--when I'm watching Scott talk to Rachel--when I feel like I'm close to losing control."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Losing control in a violent manner?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why do you think it bothers you so intensely that Scott talks with Rachel often?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Because he can and I can't. And it is particularly disappointing to me that Rachel would rather go to Scott's cubicle to gab than to mine. I feel hurt. I've known her longer than Scott has, yet he gets to spend more time around her now. What the hell am I doing wrong?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does this sound at all familiar to you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I seem to remember you describing a similar situation between you and Karina. You felt that another man--who had known her for a shorter amount of time--had less claim to her attentions than you did."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "This is totally different."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll agree that the circumstances were different. I believe Karina may very well have exploited your affection for her to a degree. But the jealousy factor is clearly similar in both cases. And, of course, such intense emotion is going to distort the reality of the situation. There may very well be a mutual interest between Scott and Rachel that goes beyond friendship, or maybe it's completely innocent. But jealousy will only show you one possibility."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just wish it was me talking to her all the time and Scott getting jealous."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, why don't you go over to her cubicle and talk to her?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've already told you why--I can't talk to her around everybody else in my department. Rumors would start flying."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what if they conclude that you and Rachel are seeing each other? Isn't that your goal with Rachel after all?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, yes, but I want to do it discreetly."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't think that's true. I think you could care less what your co-workers think. You want to be with Rachel, and you want to be able to feel more comfortable talking to her, but you're afraid."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. I guess so. I..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom? It's okay, Tom. Take a minute. Would you like a tissue?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, damnit. No, I wouldn't. I want her. But I'm not the type of person that can succeed with someone like Rachel. It's all doomed to failure. I'm doomed to fail. I just want this one fucking good thing to happen in my life, just this once. Goddamnit, Charles! She's so much like me in so many ways, but just different enough that I...I just don't know where it's going to lead. And I can't even muster enough courage to walk up to her and strike up a conversation, unless the whole thing is planned in advance. And even then, it's a chore. If only I could be Scott for a while, maybe I wouldn't have all these fucking problems."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Personally, I feel you have a better shot at winning her affection than Scott does. After all, she did readily accept your lunch invitation."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sure she was only being polite. If I ever ask her on a date outside of work, I'm sure she'd turn me down. It seems like the only time I get to go out with women is when they are feeling particularly charitable."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, let's put it this way, Tom. If Scott and Rachel speak to each other off and on throughout the day as you suggest, it's likely to be very light, brief conversation, assuming they have normal job functions to attend to. However, Rachel devoted an entire hour solely to you, with no interruptions. Who do you think spent the best quality time with her?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I want more, Charles. I don't just want a conversation. I want emotion and romance. I want to fall in love with her. And I want Rachel to fall for me. I don't want to play games. I don't want to second-guess my actions any longer. I just want to walk into the proverbial sunset with her at my side. And if I have to beat the shit out of Scott to get to that point, then I'll do it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How will hurting Scott get you any closer to Rachel? If anything, you will have undermined all your progress."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I want him out of the picture. I hope the bastard dies, preferably by my own hands."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom, you're really starting to concern me with these statements."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sick of being derailed by some third fucking party who comes into the picture just to screw my chances, Charles. I want to get even. I want to fight back. I want revenge."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think we both know you don't want to hurt anybody."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We'll see. Fuck this. Session's over, Charles."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom, come back! We need to..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye, Charles!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom!"
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 8th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Friday, May 2, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nTom, hello there. Come on in and have a seat."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hi Charles. Thanks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So, what did you think of the concert?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was all right. They were a lot more garish than I expected them to be. The \"girl\" who played bass was...interesting."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "To put it mildly."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And what about that redheaded guitar player? She looked like some sort of hideous melting wax figure under all those stage lights."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The makeup? Yes, I noticed that, too. What did you think of the music?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was quirky. When they started playing the Sesame Street tune, I had to laugh. Only in San Francisco, you know? I wasn't paying too much attention after the first couple tunes, mainly because my mind was reeling from being around so many people."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I noticed after we greeted each other at the door that you sat down with a couple of people in a booth."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. That was Rob and Jennifer--they work on the Help Desk with me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Wasn't Rob the one who broke up the fight at the Bull Market a couple of weeks ago?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's right. We all grabbed the booth in the corner and talked about work and how we're getting screwed-over again. Rob is up for a promotion as team leader, and when Doris Meckle on the Help Desk found out he was getting it, she threw a fit. Apparently she felt that position was hers. So Rob heard through the grapevine at work that Doris went to Human Resources to file a sexual discrimination charge against Dave Torriello, our manager. Can you believe that? First of all, no one on the Help Desk likes Doris. Second, she's a stuck-up ass-kisser who does nothing at her cubicle all day but call her boyfriend and shove matzos crackers down her throat. Third, she has the most obnoxious laugh of anyone I know. Imagine Fran Drescher from \"The Nanny\" trying to laugh with a Kazoo in her mouth while someone was choking her and you have an idea. Rob is furious, and he should be. He's far more experienced than Doris and a lot more likable. He found out from Dave today that he's going to have to re-evaluate the team leader position."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So SII already has put pressure on your manager to lean towards Doris?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It would seem so. Rob said that if she ended up getting the position over him, he was going to counter with an age discrimination charge against Dave."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds ugly."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Just another wonderful day at SII. Fucking job. It's not worth it. We're the hemorrhoidal sphincter valve of the company. Everyone--even our own employees--walk all over us. And we get paid nothing to show for our misery. I wish I had changed majors in college when I had the chance."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you leave the concert early because you were upset about what was going on at work?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, you noticed that?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I saw you get up and leave while your friends stayed. Did something happen?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess so. The crowd, the noise...it just got unbearable for me after a while. I started feeling ill. Well, not exactly ill, just extremely uncomfortable."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Can you describe the sensation a little more?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Driving up there, I was okay. I was actually looking forward to it. But when I pulled into the parking lot, I began to feel queasy, like I was anticipating the doom of being out in public. It's the same feeling you get just before you reach the top of the first hill of a roller coaster. Your stomach is churning wildly in preparation for the impending physical forces your body's about to endure. I waited in the car for about 15 minutes, petrified. The longer I waited, the more people I saw in and around the club, which made me feel worse. I didn't want to get out, and I started and shut-off the ignition several times trying to decide whether or not to just leave and go home."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What made you finally get out of the car?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I saw Rob and Jennifer pull up. It was an enormous relief. Finally there was someone there I recognized. I was still very uptight and nervous, but at least I could be around them and blend in. We walked in together and Rob and Jennifer went off to grab a booth. That's when I saw you and we said hello."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. How did you feel once you were seated with your friends?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I felt a lot better. Some of the pressure was off. It was easy to tune out our surroundings and pretend that it was just the three of us, chatting away like we do at work. It was only later, towards the end of the concert, that I started to get nervous again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why is that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure. During the concert, I knew that most of the people in there were focusing their attention on the band, so maybe that made me feel more at ease. But when it was close to the end of the performance, I slowly began to become ill again. I started to feel very claustrophobic--like the world was closing in. I tried to remain focused on Rob and Jennifer's conversation but the anxiety was overwhelming me. At one point, I distinctly remember imagining that the band had just finished, and then the crowd all at once turned around and looked at me. Everybody was completely quiet, staring me down, waiting for me to do something--maybe perform for them or say something eloquent. It was very frightening. That was all I could take. I shot up from the booth, said my goodbyes to Rob and Jennifer, and left as quickly as I could."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did Rob and Jennifer react to the way you left?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. They think I'm a little eccentric anyway, so I don't think it surprised them. I made up some excuse about having to get something to eat. I don't think they thought I was really hungry, but they didn't argue."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did the nervousness cease once you left?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Almost immediately. I felt relieved and completely relaxed. Actually, I was sort of hungry, so to avoid being a liar, I went to this 24 hour place across the street and got some dinner. But you remember how I was telling you that strange things seem to happen the times I decide to go out?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, after I left the diner, I was crossing the street back to my car and I noticed a couple of police cars pulling up. Two officers walked through the back entrance to the club. Did something happen after I left?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I heard there was a fight and one guy got arrested."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Strange. I think it was the same cops who maced the guy at the Bull Market. Anyway, it was just another instance in which I bailed out of a social situation in favor of my boring, lonesome existence back at my apartment. At least it wasn't as bad as the wedding."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The wedding?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Cherie Thorpe, a girl I used to work with and sit next to in the sales department, invited me to her wedding a couple of months ago. I accepted the invitation, bought her a wedding gift and planned on attending. I think I accepted the invitation more to force myself into overcoming my fear of people than to watch her exchange vows, although it would have been a nice gesture of friendship to show up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You didn't, I take it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I was there. I just didn't go inside the church. Can you believe that? I get dressed up, spent a half hour trying to wrap her present, drove forty miles from town to get there, and only then do I decide to chicken out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Was it the same pattern as the concert, the same feeling of anxiety?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. I was fine until I actually arrived at the church. The church parking lot was packed. Gobs of people I didn't know meandered about, chatting with each other, and then went inside. Suddenly, I was consumed by fear. I drove around the block about four times, trying to build up the strength to park and face these strangers, but I couldn't. Instead I drove a few miles down the road to where the reception was being held. There were a few people setting up decorations and caterers were preparing food when I walked in. I set my wedding gift on a table that already had some presents on it and I left."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did Cherie confront you later?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. I knew she was disappointed with me. Rob was supposed to go with me that night, but he got sick. If he had come with me, I think I wouldn't have had a problem. Anyway, I used that as an excuse to Cherie, but I could tell that I had let her down. I let myself down! Why did I do that? What's so difficult about walking into a church and sitting down and watching a wedding? Why do I have these problems interacting with people? No, don't answer, Charles. I think I should just go now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'd really like to discuss this with you further if you'll let me."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I really need to go home, Charles. I'm sorry."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's all right. Should I expect you next week at the same time?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. Can I give you a call later on? I think I need to sort some of this out on my own for a little while."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "As you wish, Tom. But I think I can help with that. Take care, Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Bye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 9th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Friday, May 9, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nTom, hello, come on in and...whoa! Steady now. Are you feeling okay? Here, sit down."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sorry, I guess I'm feeling a little lightheaded."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is it safe to assume you took the day off from work today?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Damn right. I have several million fucking personal and vacation days accom...accume...accum-ul-ated and I don't use them for anything else anyway. I deserve to call in sick once in a while."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How much alcohol have you had?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Enough. I don't really count them anymore. That's something you do in college--that and stack the beer cans on top of one another to make an aluminum pyramid."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Please don't tell me you drove here yourself."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, I won't."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom!"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't worry. I think I'm a better driver when I drink anyway. I stayed in the slow lane and even wore my seat belt this time, which I never do when I'm sober. I just wanted to make it to the session today and talk to someone other than myself. Besides, I called you earlier this week and told you I'd make it to this session, and I keep my promises."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right, well, now that you're here, is there anything in particular you want to talk about?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Everything. Work, my drinking, my lack of a love-life, my lack of a life, period. I feel like I'm at my wit's end. Like there's no hope and everything's coming to a head. But all the shit that's tearing me apart inside isn't really what scares me the most."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What does scare you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's the fact that I actually enjoy it all, Charles. I think I'm attracted to negativity and pain and being depressed. Hell, maybe I'm addicted to it. Throughout my life, there's always been something traumatic to make me feel miserable, and I guess that over time I've gotten used to the misery. I mean, it's really the only thing I can truly count on to be there for me. Depression is like an old friend I've become close to and would feel empty without. I know it sounds horribly Pavlovian to you shrinks, but it's true. Someone starts crying and I suddenly get a hard-on. No, not really, Charles. But, do you know what I mean?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, I do and considering your past, I don't find your reaction to be entirely out of the ordinary, especially since the negative events in your life have been pretty consistent for a number of years. It's good that you can at least still recognize negative emotion for what it is. We need to work on bringing some positive forces into your life."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "\"If once you start down the dark path, forever will it dominate your destiny, consume you it will, as it did Obi-Wan's apprentice.\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I beg your pardon?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Nothing. Never mind."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I remember when Sharon broke up with me, how devastated I felt, how hopeless and futile my life and my future seemed to be. It was a deep, penetrating pain, Charles, unlike any kind of emotional distress I had ever experienced before. I was so very much in love with her. For once in my life, I could relate to that word and what it meant to care for someone and to want that person to remain in my life. Dad's death and my stepfather's abuse struck me in different places and with a kind of pain that was more dull and lingered over the course of a number of years, but when I lost Sharon, it hurt intensely and immediately. That whole night I spent sobbing uncontrollably. And yet at the same time, while all these horrifying sensations were knocking the wind out of me, I felt a distinct sense of rejoicing. When I left Sharon's campus that day, I recall looking forward to going home and listening to really depressing music and downing some beers for the first time in over a year. It was like, \"Hooray! The old Tom is back! Hell has returned!\" At times I wonder if my persistence in trying to get back together with her wasn't something I intentionally did to make myself feel worse, as if I allowed her continuous rejection to sting me as long as was possible. I was a junkie of pain, greedily and hungrily trying to squeeze every last drop of heartache I could out of the situation. It hurt greatly but it was also a very potent, very invigorating feeling, Charles. It made me feel more alive than when I was actually going out with the bitch. Does any of this make sense?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Most of it, yes. This sensation you hunger for, is it what drives you to drink? Is this why you're inebriated now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "All I know is that I have good days and bad days. Sometimes I go a whole week or two without drinking, then suddenly I feel overcome with depression and turn to the brew, not to make me feel better, but to accentuate the experience. When I'm on a binge, Charles, I try to determine in my head how fast I can drink to make me effectively suicidal by midnight. God, this sounds so strange to me when I'm describing it out loud."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's just that I've never really admitted that to myself. I've never acknowledged that I aim to perpetuate and enhance my own sorrow. Maybe that's one of the reasons why I prefer to stay home by myself and drink instead of going out with friends or socializing. I like the pain."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "On the other hand, when you do go out with friends, you still tend to drink heavily. Is this also because you want to enhance your negative sensations?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The people I hang out with tend to have their own set of personal problems, which means they all wallow in alcohol and complain and talk about what they should be doing in life and aren't. No one on the Help Desk wants to be on the Help Desk, Charles. We all ended up there because things basically didn't pan out for us in the technical world the way we had hoped. But, as Dave Torriello is fond of saying, \"you are exactly where you're supposed to be based on the decisions you've made in life.\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you believe that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Contradictory, isn't it?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, but from what you've said, we can determine a pattern of drinking influenced primarily by both your past experiences and outside social pressures. You've become accustomed to the emotional pain because you've encountered some traumatizing events in your life over a long period of time. Naturally, any other sensations--positive or otherwise--would be foreign to you. As for your drinking in response to uncomfortable social situations, I feel you may be unwittingly treating yourself for your affliction the only way you know how. We call it self-medicating."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "On the contrary, I'm quite aware that beer's effects will make me feel more at ease. And at the same time I know it will also make me feel horrible about myself, which I'm pretty sure I'm attracted to. What I don't understand is, if being uncomfortable in a public place makes me feel horrible, why do I try to cure myself with beer? If I love the pain so much, why don't I take on the experience sober?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Perhaps it's more about control, Tom. Your father's death, your stepfather's abuse, the dissolution of your relationship with Sharon--these were events you could not control. But now, by remaining at home in a controlled environment and drinking large quantities of alcohol, you have the power over your emotions. You can dictate when you can and cannot feel miserable. You're doing it on your own terms."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And by going out in public, being with friends and around a bunch of people I don't know, I've lost that power, that control?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Precisely."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's all terribly confusing to me. All I know is, I like beer. It makes me feel the way I want to feel sometimes, and no one can take that away from me, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No one can take it away from you, but if you're not careful, the alcohol can very quickly assume control over you, Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You think that's what's happening? That I've lost control over my drinking?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No! Honest, Charles, I can stop! I know that sounds like denial to you, but I really can. I don't need booze. I don't wake up every morning shaking violently because I haven't had a drink in eight hours. There are just times when I want to feel a certain way and beer makes me feel pretty close to how I want to feel."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you want to experience positive feelings in your life, or are you content with the negativity?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know if I could recognize a positive feeling. It's been a while since I've felt happy. Happiness is like a hollow word in the dictionary to me right now. But I do want to change. I don't want to be stuck at home all the time. I want to feel in control when I'm out there, on the other side of my apartment door. I just don't know how to get there."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think that if you continue to thrust yourself into social settings, that's a good start. I would also like to again bring up the possibility that certain medications might have a positive effect on you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was skeptical when you first brought up the subject, but I'll have to admit I'm interested."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm pleased to hear that, Tom. I'd like to start you on a type of drug called Chlordiazepoxide. It's in a class of drugs called benzodiazepines and I think it may help you feel more at ease in social environments, among other things. It would mean, however, sacrificing the alcohol."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Completely?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Ideally, yes, I'd like for you to stay off it; an occasional beer--say one or two a week--wouldn't be harmful, but when I say one or two, I mean exactly that. Here's your prescription."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Understood. Wait a second, this says Librium."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes. That's the trade name."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Isn't Librium what schizophrenics take?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think you mean Lithium."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, but isn't this a tranquilizer?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's more of an anti-anxiety agent. Here. I've got a sheet which will give you a lot more information about this drug. I really think that you'll see a very rapid change for the better. And I'd also like for you to continue our little project of visiting public places. The more often you elect to participate, the more comfortable you'll get. Libraries, shopping malls, crowded restaurants, a Giants game--all of these settings would be suitable for the exercise."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There's a book store I've been to before that has a coffee shop inside. It's usually packed full of artsy-fartsy types and I've usually felt those pangs of nervousness when I go there, which isn't often. Maybe I could try actually sitting down to a cup of tea and a book there from time to time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That sounds appropriate. Pay close attention to the dosage, and I'll see you in one week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "All right, thanks, Charles."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Where do you think you're going?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Aren't we through?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "We are, but you're not driving home. I'm calling you a cab."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Come on, Charles, I..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I insist, Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "All right. No sense in arguing. I'll be in the waiting room."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Take care, Tom. He should be here in about fifteen minutes."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, right. What planet are you from?"
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 24th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Friday, May 15, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Tom. Please take a seat."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You were very angry when we last spoke. I'm hoping you didn't follow through with your threats after you stormed out of my office?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I saw Scott talking to Rachel again. I watched her smile as he spoke and I saw how his eyes were focused on her cleavage. Then he touched her on the arm, and something just snapped."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh no."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Without thinking, I ran over to Scott's cubicle, cocked my arm way back, and punched him in the jaw. He didn't even see it coming. The smack seemed to echo throughout the floor. Every employee nearby suddenly stopped what they were doing, stood up, and watched the spectacle. Rachel started screaming for me to stop..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom, how could you have...?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "His legs were really wobbly from the blow, but I didn't stop there. I wouldn't be satisfied until he was on the floor. Pushing Rachel away, I let three more punches slam into his face--a right, a left, another right--until he finally collapsed. Some blood had trickled down onto his shirt, and he just stared up at me all glassy-eyed. I don't think he even knew where he was at that point."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't know what to say, Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom, don't scare me like that again."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Had you going there for a while, didn't I?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "For a while, yes. But had that really happened, I probably would have been informed about it by your superiors or SII security. And I'm sure you would have ended up in jail."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe. I'm not sure if you would have found out about it, though. I'm not entirely certain my manager knows that I'm seeing a shrink."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Believe me, I would have found out. Word travels fast. How is the situation between you and Rachel? Any changes?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not really. I haven't asked her to do anything with me since that last lunch I told you about it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why not?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's all a waste of time. I'm not going to get anywhere with Rachel. It's all an effort in futility. I might as well get castrated. All the love I'm ever going to get is from my right hand. Sometimes whacking off is better than sex, anyway."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's not a very healthy outlook."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Which is why I'm sitting here, I guess."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're not giving yourself enough credit, Tom. Whether you like to hear it or not, asking Rachel out to lunch was great progress. Even though you asked her via e-mail, the fact remains that you still asked her. You took a risk despite being afraid. Why stop now? What else are you afraid of?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My cat's new master will probably end up being fucking Scott Collavito--he'd succeed in taking two pussies away from me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You really are bitter over that man. Why do you think you are so jealous of him in particular?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Because I've seen his type before. He's a frat boy, a guy born with a \"get through life free\" card in his mouth. It sickens me how easy it is for people like him to get just about anything they desire in life."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why is it sickening?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Why do you think? I've been through a lot of pain and disappointment through the years. Whatever small achievements I have made were a struggle for me. I worked hard to be Rachel's friend. I spent a lot of time making her like me. Then, suddenly, Scott came out of nowhere and, in a couple month's time, became someone she feels ten times more comfortable talking to. Where's the justice in that?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Perhaps Rachel feels more comfortable talking to him, but perhaps not. If she does, why do you think that is?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "She clearly knows you're interested in her romantically, and your jealous responses have certainly left an impression on her. But she forgave you for what you did to Scott, and that shows she still values your friendship."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I want more from Rachel. I want to be involved with her. I want to be the one that makes her truly happy. And I want her to love me back."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Those types of feelings take time to develop, Tom. What reasons have you given Rachel to care about you that deeply?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "None. I've been too busy being bitter and angry and shooting off computer viruses to people she talks to."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So how do you get her to feel differently about you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What am I, fucking Silly Putty? You press me against your words and expect me to spew them back at you? I don't fucking know, Charles. If I knew how to make her feel the way I want her to feel, then I wouldn't be having any problems, now would I?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, do you think that giving up asking her out is going to help your chances?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Of course not. But I've seen this pattern before. Boy meets girl. Boy asks girl out. Boy and girl become lovers. Girl yawns a lot. Girl meets new boy. Girl chews on old boy's heart. Old boy discovers beer..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's not worth it. I'm just going to get knocked on my ass again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Maybe, and maybe not. If you think that way going into a situation, you certainly aren't going to improve your chances. But if it doesn't work out with Rachel, there are many other women out there who may be compatible with you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. Plenty of fish in the fucking sea, right? Except whenever I jump into the water, the fish suddenly scatter and vanish."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "At least you'd be getting into the water. Not long ago, you wouldn't even consider nearing the shore."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Whatever. A couple of people at work are trying to push me into proceeding with Rachel. There's another co-worker, Gina Cartwright, who's getting married this weekend. Rachel's going to the wedding, and so am I. Gina talked me into going, and now she wants me to try to hang out with Rachel while I'm there. If I show up, that is. We both know what happened the last time that I accepted a wedding invitation."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes. You circled around the church several times, afraid to go inside because of all the strangers there."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Well, I'm not looking forward to Gina's wedding any more than I did Cherie's. I'm going to be nervous, agitated, and hopefully very drunk. Somehow at the reception, I figure I'll be in a corner somewhere, quietly downing beers and wishing I were home."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom, you should go to this wedding. I think it's very important that you attempt to socialize. You will be nervous, true, but it will be a valuable social experience."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think I'll only go because I know Rachel will be there. It's funny. Deep down, I hope I get to hook up with her. But with my luck, she'll end up finding some dashing single guy at the reception."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Stay positive, Tom. You may be pleasantly surprised."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "All right. I positively believe I'm going to have a miserable time this weekend."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Well, our time is about up. How would you like to schedule our next session?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The two week thing seems to be working for me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll see you in two weeks then. Goodbye, Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Later."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 10th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Friday, May 23, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHi, Charles."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Tom. How have you been these past two weeks?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay. Sorry I had to suddenly cancel last week but I had a surprise visitor show up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, my brother Alex flew out here last Friday and stayed with me for a week. It was completely unexpected. As soon as I found out he was here in San Francisco, I knew there was trouble. He's been having some problems lately with his live-in girlfriend. They've been together for four years but the last six months have been fairly tumultuous. I'm just glad their son is still too young to understand what's going on."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How old is their son?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He'll be two in July. His name is Jordan. Alex is a big Chicago Bulls fan, you see."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Got it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Anyway, Alex and Martha graduated from Penn State a year ago. They stayed in Swiftwater for about a month before Alex found work as a graphic designer for a firm in Pittsburgh. The three of them packed up and moved out there, and Martha took a job waitressing until she eventually got hired at an advertising agency. After their move, things began to steadily go downhill. Of course, I've only heard one side of the story, but it sounds pretty bleak for them, which sucks. I've always hoped that Alex would end up being successful and happy so at least one of us wasn't a disappointment to Mom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sure your mother doesn't see either of you as disappointments."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I wish I could be so sure. I've always been sort of the black sheep. What the hell--black is my favorite color, anyway. But Alex, well, he always seemed to have a more level head. Things seem to bounce off him a lot easier than they do me. He always did better in school, was far more outgoing and had a lot of friends. He's pretty much the exact opposite of me. It's strange that I see him that way, because I've noticed we seem to think alike on a lot of things. We have a tendency to finish each other's sentences and, over the phone, my Mom can't even tell us apart because our voices are so similar. He's led a decent life so far. It has really shocked me that he's having problems now after seemingly doing everything right for so long."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What sort of problems do you mean, if I may ask?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it's a little embarrassing to talk about, even for me. Alex has always been overly suspicious of Martha, in my opinion. Her job requires her to work late on projects and I guess staying home with a kid every night, waiting for your girlfriend to come home, gets the imagination going. He was sure she was cheating on him. He told me once it was only a matter of time before he had proof, but I told him he was being ridiculous and should focus on getting his family settled in Pittsburgh. It bothered me that my brother was beginning to look more at the pessimistic side of things. I mean, that was my territory to cover, not his. He has everything I wish I could have. What gives him the right to destroy it all with accusations he can't prove? It's ridiculous and paranoid."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What prompted him to fly out to visit you? Did he get the proof he had sought after?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "In his eyes, yes. I met Alex at the airport, and the first thing he did was pull me close and whisper in my ear, \"The bitch gave me herpes.\" He told me that Martha tried to give him some explanation her doctor had presented to her that she could have given him a form of the herpes virus from a cold sore in her mouth while she was performing oral sex on him. Alex wouldn't accept this possibility. He had the proof he needed that she was unfaithful. He said he grabbed a suitcase, packed some clothes and a toothbrush and bought a plane ticket here. In the car on the way to my apartment he told me that he was going to leave Martha."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You said he stayed a week. Did he manage to work things out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I hope so. Every night he was here was spent on the phone with Martha. I overheard bits and pieces of their conversation, partly because he was screaming and it was unavoidable, but I think he realizes he needs her and he's been unreasonable. They've got a kid to worry about and I don't think they're ready to bail out on each other. When I dropped him off at the airport this morning, he seemed a lot more optimistic. I think he just needed some time away from Martha to sort his feelings out. It was a good week for him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "A diversion from the standard routine is usually healthy."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I wouldn't let any of the ballplayers catch wind of that. They tend to be very superstitious. You might not get to come back. Did Barry Bonds get any hits?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Nope. Walked once, but that was it. The Rockies won 10-7. It was still a good game, and I was itching for a beer, but you'll be happy to know my brother and I sat in the Pavilion. They don't serve alcohol in that section."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Right."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My brother kept calling the stadium Candlestick Park but I had to keep reminding him that it was now 3COM Park. Everything has to be corporate these days. 3COM Park, Pacific Bell Park, Cinergy Field, Turner Field--you can't go anywhere without seeing some corporate label attached to something."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's true. How comfortable were you this week, taking your brother out to all these public places?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I felt better than I usually do. I wasn't as self-conscious. I don't know if it's due to the Librium you prescribed me or just the fact that it was my brother or maybe a combination of the two. I definitely felt more at ease."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe a little too much at ease sometimes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, there were some occasions while Alex and I were out that I reacted to situations differently. Instead of being edgy and nervous out in public, I sometimes felt...drunk. My inhibitions seemed to drop completely a few times and just about anything or anyone was fair game for my amusement."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Go on."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Uh oh."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "When the waiter arrived with my burger, I picked it up, opened the top bun and moved it up and down as if the burger were talking to me. \"Eat me, Tom, eat my big, beefy, greasy body!\" it said loudly to me in a voice not unlike Grover from Sesame Street. The girls looked disgusted. Alex couldn't stop laughing. Then I bit an unusually large bite out of the burger and began making chomping noises and moaning in ecstasy. \"Oh, you're such a good burger, oh what a good burger, oh my GOD!\" There was sauce dripping down my chin but I didn't wipe it off so as to add to the effect. By this time the two girls were quickly grabbing their things and trying to get the waiter's attention so they could pay and get the hell out of there. It was kind of a crude, juvenile thing to do but it was more of an experiment for me than anything else. I wanted to see how far I'd go. I would never have had the balls to do that before, not in public. The embarrassment I would usually feel simply wasn't there. Amazing what a little pill can do, assuming that's what caused me to put on the performance."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did this performance make you feel?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I felt like everyone's eyes were centered on me, much like they were when I went to the Dozin Pozers concert, but this time it was almost as if I welcomed the attention. The more people who noticed my antics, the more animated I got."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Like you would act if you were drunk."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Right. To be honest, I don't think I would have done it if my brother hadn't been there, so that's why I think it wasn't all the work of the medication. It seems like I can't have a happy medium; I'm either petrified of socializing and being in public or I have to be on a virtual stage, putting on some kind of show with the whole world as my audience."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Why do you think that is?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure. An uncle of mine told me once that he thought I remained quiet and anti-social to draw attention to myself, not avoid it. I had never really thought of it in quite that way, but maybe he's right. But it still doesn't explain why I would feel anxious in public. Maybe it's because I feel obligated to put on a show in those situations, I don't know. Maybe now that I have Librium in my blood I can follow through with the performance."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Let's give the medication a little more time before we start drawing conclusions. Our time is about up. Can I expect to see you next Friday?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I'll be here. Oh, and I wanted to let you know that I'm leaving for vacation in early June and won't return until about June 10th, so I'll be missing the June 6 session."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Vacation, eh? Anywhere special?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I haven't really made any firm plans. Just needed some time off work."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're not having any more problems there are you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes and no, but nothing I can't handle."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. Take care, Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Later."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 25th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Friday, May 29, 1998 at 5:00 pm.\nGood afternoon, Tom. Please come in and sit down."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Last time you were here, you were anxious over an upcoming wedding reception you had been invited to attend. I believe Rachel was to be there as well?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did it go?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "From a social standpoint, I guess it went better than the last wedding I attempted to attend. I actually entered the premises this time, after all. But from a \"Rachel\" standpoint, it was a disaster."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "When I got to the reception hall, I parked in the lot and tried to muster up enough courage to open up the car door and walk in. There were a lot of people there, virtually all of whom I had never met in my life, so it was very difficult for me. I broke out in a light sweat, and my heart started thumping hard. I actually felt myself being pushed back and forth in my seat each time my heart pumped a beat. The reception was to start at eight, but I remained in my car for about forty minutes past that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Were you sitting in the car and watching people arrive at the wedding?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, it made things worse for me. I didn't see one person enter that building alone. Everyone but me seemed to be accompanied by someone else. It made me feel even more self-conscious. As usual, I wanted to put my key back in the ignition and drive off, but I didn't. I finally decided to step out of the car and walk towards the entrance."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did you finally gain the courage?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. I think it was out of anger. I was angry at myself for being such a wimp about it. Besides, I knew that once I made it inside, I'd be rewarded with a full, open bar. As soon as I entered the reception hall, I proceeded to the ballroom and stood in line to get beer. There were so many people. I briefly scanned around the room, and it was filled with complete strangers. I really felt panicked at that point. I couldn't even find Gina or her husband, the bride and groom. So I grabbed my beer and went back outside."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Was that the end of it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I figured if I downed a couple beers fast, I'd be able to loosen up enough to remain inside the hall without passing out. So I swallowed the first beer in about two giant gulps and returned to the bar, got a second beer and did the same thing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. What happened next?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, after a few moments, Gina and her husband, Brent, appeared along with the bridesmaids, the best man, and the maid of honor. The DJ handed the best man a microphone, and he gave his speech. It was the usual \"wish you all the best\" drivel that's said at most receptions. Then the maid of honor, Gina's sister, spoke about their life growing up and how happy she was to see her big sister get married to a wonderful guy and so forth. It was a bit more emotional than I'm describing, but maybe it was just the buzz I had at the time that made me think it was. Anyway, the couple then proceeded to cut the cake, and it was about at that point that I saw Rachel."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "She had just shown up?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. And when I saw her, my heart felt like it had fallen out of my chest and had been carved up by the cake knife--Rachel walked in arm-in-arm with a guy I'd never seen before. It was clear that he was her date for the night. I was crushed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you approach her?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I didn't talk to her. We made eye contact when she entered the ballroom. But when a girl has got a guy next to her, it's nature's way of saying, \"Leave me alone, creep.\" So that's what I did. I left her alone and went to get more beer."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Do you feel very dependent on alcohol?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just knew I wasn't going to enjoy myself. About fifteen minutes later, Jennifer Keys showed up with her husband. I felt a lot more comfortable that there was finally someone else I knew and could hang out with. So the three of us sort of gravitated around the dance floor, watching people gyrate around. Rachel and her date got out on the floor a few times, and it made me sick to my stomach. What a bitch. It's like she only brought this guy along to get me upset. Well, it worked."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sure it had nothing to do with you, Tom. Did you meet any new people there?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not really. Mostly, I spent the night talking to Jennifer and Frank, her husband. But I did get a chance to chat briefly with Gina and to congratulate her and Brent. That was about when Jennifer tugged at my shirt to point out some really cute, petite blond who she claimed had been eyeing me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you met a someone there. Good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't meet her exactly. We shared a few moments of mutual interest. Basically, I didn't have the guts to approach her or to talk to her. We spent the night sort of brushing up against each other \"accidentally.\" And I watched her dance with her friends for a while. Jennifer kept urging me on, trying to get me to ask her to dance, but of course we're talking about Tom \"No-Balls\" Darden here. It was funny, really. The girl would actually go out of her way to come near me and then pretend like she was paying attention to something else. She'd lightly brush her arm against mine or back up into me, as if to provoke a response. I just ignored it and continued to nurse my beer."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom, it really sounds like you had a great opportunity to break down some of those social barriers."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I did. But I'm just not outgoing enough to initiate things like that. Oh, the memories I would have now if only I could have taken that extra step, Charles. I wish I were more like my cousin."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Your cousin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Lance. He's a year younger than I am and is the biggest lady's man I've ever met--I mean absolutely no one short of a porn star has had more conquests than him. His exploits are legendary. He's everything I wish I could be. Confidence pours out of him like a fucking waterfall. And, of course, that's not all that's pouring out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Having a lot of sexual conquests is not necessarily something to be proud of, Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe not, but his ability to manipulate women is so amazing to me. I don't agree with the manipulation, but I do envy the ease at which he can be around the opposite sex. He just got out of the Navy after serving four years. He was stationed in Japan. I met him this last weekend, and we went out to Centerfold's near my apartment. I guess that was an appropriate setting. That whole night, Lance talked about all the women he had in places like Thailand and Indonesia and other countries he doesn't even remember. Many of the girls were hookers, but many more were just women he met in bars. He's literally had hundreds of women. He had sex with twins at the same time. He's done tag teams with his Navy buddies, and he's been involved in wild sex orgies. But, of course, what other kind of orgies are there? It's not like you can have a boring sex orgy, right? Hell, Lance even fucked one of Julia Roberts' nieces, for Christ's sake. He met her during some cruise he was on to celebrate his high school graduation. The whole time he was on that boat, the girl had her Dad wire her money to pay for the $1,000 drinking tab he and his buddy had rung up there in five days. Lance must be some hell of a good lay. It can't be because he's hung well--I've seen the boy naked, and he's pretty average. But he's got something about him that drives women absolutely wild."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The guy is unbelievable. I told him that we should seriously consider getting a book published about his exploits. I'd be the ghostwriter, of course. We could title it, \"Techniques on Getting Laid as Taught by the Master.\" And maybe I'd pick up a few pointers along the way. At least I would be doing something constructive with my journalism degree instead of languishing in the Help Desk department at SII."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I hope you aren't seriously considering focusing your life on achieving the same sexual notoriety your cousin apparently has."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Notoriety? I guess you could call it that. At times, when I really think about it, I actually feel a little sorry for Lance."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why is that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It just seems like he's never been in a stable relationship. He just sleeps around and sleeps around. I told him he should try to settle down, but he said that getting a fresh piece of ass is just too exciting to abandon."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think he's ever been in love?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, when he was younger, Lance was involved with a girl for a couple of years. I think he really did fall for her. But she broke his heart. She had been cheating on him with a Marine, whom she eventually married. He was devastated when he found out, of course. I don't think Lance has looked at women the same way since. It's like he's been exacting revenge on women."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's a shame."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. But then again, it's every guy's dream to have the kind of sexual experiences Lance has had. It's a trade-off, I guess. You can either settle down and be in love, or you can be a womanizer. Or you can be me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And what are you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Someone so fearful and distrustful of people that it's sabotaged my ability to make friends or to have relationships with women. All I really want is a best friend who happens to be a woman with whom I happen to be in love with. But I end up scaring women away with the things I do. I seem to have this overall knack to repel women I'm attracted to, like Rachel. It's like I'm a magnet and so is Rachel--when I try to get close to her, I end up pushing her away. She's really uncomfortable around me. I think I frighten her sometimes, especially with my jealousy. It hurts that she feels that way. It's all so very unfair. When a woman is being pursued by a physically attractive man, it's considered appropriate. But if someone like me pursues the same woman, it's classified as stalking. I really wish I hadn't botched things up so badly with Rachel. Jennifer really tried to set the two of us up by getting her hired at SII. She says we are so much alike. So it's like I messed up a sure thing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't think that's true. Just because Jennifer believes the two of you are alike, it doesn't mean you actually are. I'm sure there's a great deal about Rachel that Jennifer isn't aware of, despite being her best friend. I definitely don't believe it was a sure thing. You're being much too hard on yourself, Tom. Nothing in life is certain."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just need a lesson on how to make women want me like they do Lance. It seems like the more I want women to be around me, the more I scare them away."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I believe we need to work harder on your people skills in general, before we can begin to focus on romantic relationships. Usually, the two skills work hand-in-hand."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Let's discuss this further in our next session."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll see you again in two weeks. Take care, Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You too."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 11th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Monday, June 2, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHi, Tom. Come on in."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "A little late, are we?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, sorry about that. And thanks for making the session on Monday instead of Friday. I've just spent some extra time at work getting everything squared away so I don't have as many surprises when I return from vacation."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Ah, yes. Tell me a little more about that. Do you have any special plans?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it was very difficult to do at the last minute but I was able to arrange a flight out to Scranton. From there I'll rent a car and head to Swiftwater and visit my Mom for a while. There's a lake near there and I thought after my visit I'd get a cabin for a couple days away from the city. I don't know exactly what I'll be doing in a cabin all by myself, but I guess I don't really have much choice in the matter."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And why is that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Because I attract about as many women as a can of bug repellent attracts mosquitoes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't think you really give women a chance, do you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess not, but I can't help it. I've never been able to approach women, unless I'm drunk, in which case I end up making even more of a fool of myself. I know I'm not butt-ugly yet I also know that I lack the allure that other, more outgoing and confident guys enjoy. I think my low self-esteem is far too evident to women and I know it's such a turn-off. I mean, I definitely don't get aroused by those quiet, mousy girls who cover their mouths when they laugh and do everything to avoid attention, so why should I expect any woman with half a brain to go after someone like me?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What about your ex-girlfriend Sharon? She evidently saw something in you if you sustained a relationship for over a year."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Totally different circumstances. I never approached Sharon. I was set up with her on a blind date. I didn't really have to do anything. Plus, Sharon's self-esteem hadn't been all that great at the time we met. She had just broken off with her last boyfriend who got her pregnant, then she got an abortion. She was feeling pretty low--I think she would have gone out with anyone then. Over time, my love for her boosted her own self-esteem to the point that eventually she outgrew me and realized that she could do a whole lot better. She left me more for that reason than anything else. It was just a coincidence that college happened to be starting up at the time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're being too harsh on yourself, Tom. It may well have been true that the two of you were beginning to drift apart, but based on what you've told me, I'm sure the transition to college lent a hand in ending the relationship."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe. All I know is that I'll never get that lucky again. And it was luck, make no mistake about it. How many blind dates have you heard about that end up turning into a relationship that lasts a year and a half? Not too many. It's almost as if fate stepped in and allowed me just one relationship, so that I could experience sex and have an idea of what being in love felt like. Then fate took it all away from me. It dangled happiness in my face teasingly and when I reached out to grab it, fate yanked it away. It's not fair. I'm a decent guy. I'm not overweight, I don't smell bad, I read sentences from left to right, yet I see tons of complete jerks all around me with women who fawn over them while I'm stuck at home on Friday nights beating off to a Baywatch rerun."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't think your difficulty has as much to do with your personality as it does the circumstances you allow yourself to participate in. You're not putting yourself out on the market, so to speak. You have to make yourself known before women will notice you. It's like the old joke about the religious man who kept praying to God to let him win the lottery. But week after week went by, and nothing. Finally, when the old man was losing his religious faith, a booming voice rang out from the heavens--\"Give me a break. At least go and buy a ticket.\""
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, great. But even if I do go out, as a male I'm expected to make the first move. That's Society's little damnation for all men like me. I could never be that guy who walks up to a girl at a bar and buys her a drink and starts up some ridiculous conversation about who the hell knows what. I hate men like that, anyway. They all seem like smug, conceited assholes. I have this theory that you have to be a complete jerk if you expect to attract women. Women don't like nice guys. They want someone who will ignore them or cheat on them or fight with them or smack them around. That all equates to mystery and adventure. I've met so many women at work or at college who have come to me when their boyfriends treat them like shit. Yet they always end up going back to them. They never break up. It boggles my fucking mind."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Let's go back to what you just said. Women come to you to talk about their boyfriends?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's a tremendous curse of mine. Because I'm so quiet and non-threatening, women seem to think I'm a great person to talk to. If I had a dime for every woman who said I was a good listener, I'd have enough money to hire a high-priced hooker for a week. And lately that doesn't seem like it'd be too bad an investment. Women seem compelled to tell me all about their fucking problems and then I end up giving them advice that they never really heed anyway. Occasionally I find myself getting emotionally involved with these women, which makes it even worse for me because I know I'll never be able to have a relationship with any of them. And it's frustrating. I'm always on the outside looking in. I can see but I can't touch. Why can't I be one of those boyfriends that they come to me complaining about, anyway?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You don't have to change who you are to be involved with someone."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Like hell. If that were true, there'd be no such thing as bars. You go into any bar and all you see is a sea of desperate guys like me spending money they don't have on booze and hoping they'll score. Society has done this to men, Charles. If you're not the type of person that fits the mold you see on those Calvin Klein billboards, you might as well hang it up. Women, on the other hand, have all the power in the world when it comes to relationships. Any relatively attractive woman can get a man at the snap of her fingers."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't think that's true."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, right. If a woman stepped into a crowded bar, stood on top of a table and announced \"I want to have sex tonight, who will accommodate me?\" a fucking line of guys would form, all of them jumping up and down with their hands raised, screaming \"Me! Me! Pick me!\" If a guy did the same thing he'd be greeted with laughter and a few shouts of \"Yeah, buddy, join the crowd!\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, a bar is about the worst location you could find if you were looking for someone to have a meaningful relationship with."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So where do you suggest, Charles? A library because all the women there are intelligent? A gym because all the women there are fit, if not dripping with sweat? A mall because age of consent laws really aren't well enforced, anyway? There aren't a whole lot of options out there, Charles. It must have been immeasurably easier in the prehistoric times when all you had to do was club a woman over the head, drag her to your cave and convince her to stay by showing her what a big dick you have. The fact is, I really want to be with someone, Charles. It's driving me crazy. I don't want to be alone and that's really the reason why I chose to see you. I don't simply want to overcome this fear I have of going out, I want to be strong enough to initiate a conversation with a total stranger and get to know her and ask her out and do all the things that nature intended for males to be able to do. You would think the natural instinct to be with the opposite sex would be enough to get me out of the apartment, but it isn't. Even with the drug you've prescribed me, I haven't found the strength to do anything more than simply be in a public place."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you have managed to go out more often than what is usual for you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I went to the bookstore I mentioned a few sessions back, the one with the coffee shop in the store's center. A lot of women go there--mostly college age, many of them very attractive. I bought a cookbook I'd been planning on getting--naturally, living by myself leaves me little choice but to fix my own dinner--bought a cup of almond-amaretto cappuccino and sat myself down. I was there for maybe ten minutes when a couple girls walked by me on their way to the counter. I glanced back at them and the redhead immediately caught my eye. She was looking over at me and smiling while her friend was placing their order. I started to break out in a cold sweat, more out of giddiness than fear. I tried to maintain my composure and went back to reading my book, when the two girls returned to sit a few tables away from me. As they passed, the redhead said, \"Oh, so you fancy yourself a chef, do you?\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did you say?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Nothing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Nothing?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I completely choked on whatever brilliant words I imagined would come from my mouth. In the end, I simply smirked at her stupidly and out of embarrassment turned back to my book. She sat down with her friend and that was it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What a shame."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And I know I blew it. I have had so many shots like that over the years, Charles, believe me, but I squander them every single time. I never dated in high school. Girls resorted to asking me out because I'd never initiate anything. But even when they'd ask me, I'd turn them down. I was too afraid, I guess. Or maybe I didn't feel like I deserved to be with someone at the time. I don't know. All I know is that it took beer to finally get me to open up in any form."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How have you been with the alcohol, lately?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Drinking about as much as I normally do. About one or two a night and six or seven on Fridays and Saturdays"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's not good, Tom. Especially with Librium. The combination is really not recommended. I must emphasize the danger of combining these two drugs."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know it's potentially fatal."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, I'm not sure about fatal, but certainly the combination is not conducive to your well-being. Promise me you'll cut back on the alcohol, Tom. In fact, you should stop completely. Our time is about up. Try to enjoy yourself during your vacation."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll try."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And I'll see you next on Friday, June 13, at 4 p.m."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay. Goodbye, Charles."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Take care."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 26th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Friday, June 12, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHi, Charles."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hold on a second, Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, you're on the phone. Sorry."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sorry about that, Tom. Please have a seat."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No problem. I think I ran a little early."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How have you been?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I've had better weeks...well, at least that's what I'm told. I can't seem to remember back that far."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Anything specific that's troubling you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's just that I'll never be more than a co-worker to Rachel and I'll be forced to watch helplessly as other men in my department vie for her womb."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. What I find interesting, Tom, is that I've come to believe you aren't as jealous of the other men who flirt with Rachel as you are jealous of Rachel herself."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What is that supposed to mean?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think you're jealous of Rachel's infectious charm and her ability to easily socialize and make friends."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's a load of crap. I'm upset that these fucking \"pretty boys\" are all over her like she's wrapped in vagina-scented fly paper. Last week, I saw her in the lobby entrance with two guys who looked like they'd just stepped out of a GQ magazine. She ended up going to lunch with them."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Players! All of them. Do you think they give a damn what type of person Rachel is or that she has feelings or hopes or fears? No, they're just looking to get laid. Those two guys had probably placed a bet to see which one would get in the sack with her first. Or maybe, they'll end up doing a train on her. Then they'll be deciding who gets to be the caboose vs. the \"little engine that could.\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Say what you will, Tom, but the fact remains that you wish you could make friends with the same ease Rachel can. It eats away at you. When you told me about your cousin from the Navy, you were overtly jealous of his sexual experiences and the ease at which he could attract and pick up women."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not jealous of my cousin."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You are. Your frustration with your own inability to socialize has made you bitter at those who don't have that problem."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Why are you telling me this? What difference does it make who I'm jealous of?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's important that you recognize the source of your frustration. You are too focused on what others are doing, when you should be paying attention to what Tom Darden is doing."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know all too well what Tom Darden is doing--nothing. Fucking zero. He sits at home every night by himself and drinks beer and wishes that he'd just pass out and never wake again. There's no changing me, I've come to realize that now. I've been like this ever since I can remember. I've always been afraid of people, afraid of rejection, afraid of failure."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And afraid of success."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I find that you seem to be more fearful of success than anything else. That's why you don't take risks. You don't try to stand out. You're afraid that if you do take a chance, and happen to succeed, that success will only be temporary. Because it will put you in the spotlight and soon people will discover what a real failure you are, making your rejection that much more intense."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, I don't believe you're a failure, Tom. I'm simply interpreting how you feel about yourself. And it's self-defeating to think that way."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You don't get it, do you Charles? I'm not someone you can apply your stupid psycho-labels on. You may have helped a lot of people with similar problems, but I know I'm different. There's no helping me. I've been to see you how many times now? Twenty five? Thirty? And where have I gotten?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I feel you've made a great deal of progress, actually."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Bullshit. You'd say anything to justify having me stick around to help pay for your next vacation. I know people who've spent years in therapy. Years! And they've gotten nowhere. You'd think they'd had realized that after the first year."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The pace of therapy is usually determined by the patient's willingness to be helped."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, then I guess it's going to be a long while before I change."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Perhaps, perhaps not. It's completely up to you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Look, I don't mean to sound like I don't want your help, it's just that I'm very frustrated. I've been coming to see you for a while now, and I don't seem to be getting anywhere. I know I've got to put in a lot of effort myself, but I just don't know where to begin."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you tried getting out of the house and going out more?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There aren't a lot of places for a single guy to go that would make him feel comfortable being alone, Charles. In an age when everyone seems to be encouraged to embrace their individuality and independence, it's ironic that single people are treated like pariahs. Have you ever gone to a nice restaurant alone, Charles? Have you ever caught the stares and heard the whispers of people seated near you? Have you ever gone to a movie theater alone, waiting in line, looking at the couples all around you, holding hands, kissing each other, almost as if to highlight the fact that you're with no one? The world has no place for singles. Hell, even the government treats us like second-class citizens. Married couples get far more tax breaks than I'll ever see. The discrimination never ends."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "By the way, it's not true that there is a tax break for married couples. In fact, it's quite the opposite--there's a penalty. But to get back to your point, I am single and I've gone to the movies, and restaurants, and done other activities as a single individual. But I never notice any sort of discrimination based on my single status. As we've discussed before, it's all about perception, Tom. If you view the world through a filter of paranoia, you're bound to notice things that you can use to justify your own insecurity. I understand that it's difficult for you to socialize and be around people. And I'm sure that anxiety foments your paranoia and self-consciousness. But venturing out into the social world is a risk you must take if you're ever going to overcome your fear. Your problems are not going to be solved by staying home, drinking beer, and playing with your cat."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Amazing. You're the third person to say that to me. A couple of my co-workers--Gina and Jennifer--said that to me when I was complaining about my love life."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, maybe you should take it to heart. They obviously recognized what you're doing to yourself and were honest enough to tell you how they felt about it. Think of your problem as you would think about a fear of heights, for instance. You would never be able to overcome your fear of heights if you don't try to climb. Every time you think of your fear of social situations, just substitute it for fear of heights. You'll be amazed at what you might uncover that way."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess so. It's just so hard to get out of my routine. I wake up, go to work, come home, hop on the computer, whack off, watch some TV, and go to sleep. In fact, when I get really bored on the weekends, I spend a lot of time whacking off. I figure if I'm going to spend all my time alone, I might as well make myself feel good."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I can't believe I'm telling you this. How many guys do you talk to who openly admit to beating their meat?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "More than you'd think. There's nothing wrong with talking about masturbation with your therapist."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't even start pounding my pud until I was around seventeen years old. People at school joked about whacking off, and I had no idea what they were talking about. My first orgasm came by accident, no pun intended. I was in bed on my stomach and just starting thrusting into my mattress, then pow! It was like I'd discovered gold or something. For the next few weeks, I think I was masturbating so many times I almost tore the damn thing off. I've been whacking off at least twice a week ever since. Though recently, it's been a lot more often."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How much more?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "About five to six times a week--once a day, keeps the...never mind. I start thinking about my lack of love life and how I'll never find another woman who will want to be with me ever again, and it just depresses the hell out of me. What the hell, life sucks so I might as well whack, right? Then I'll start fantasizing about women I've known and jerk off, even if in real life I'd never even think about having sex with them."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's funny."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What is?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just realized that I've never really fantasized about Rachel sexually. Don't get me wrong, I do fantasize about her, but my fantasies have always involved how we'd interact as a couple."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When do you usually have these sort of fantasies?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "In bed. I know, I know. But it's not like that. My thoughts of her are always very emotional and tender. Sometimes, it makes it easier for me to fall asleep if I place a pillow lengthwise along one side of my chest and wrap my arms around it, imagining that I'm holding Rachel. I'll whisper to it occasionally and kiss it. I'll say to the pillow, \"I love you\" and hold it tighter until for a while, I actually start believing the fantasy. Then I drift to sleep."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "While in college, I had a psychology textbook that talked about a study done on a young chimpanzee. The researchers placed the chimp in a sort of solitary confinement for a few weeks. The chimp was noticeably agitated from the lack of interaction. Finally, the researchers placed a mock chimp made of wire and covered over with carpeting into the cage. The baby chimp immediately started clinging to it as if it were holding its mother. It was really rather pathetic and sad. I remember bursting into tears when I first read about this. The doctors were attempting to prove the psychological need for human interaction and affection. When I hold my pillow at night in the way I described, I sometimes think about that poor baby chimp and how much we have in common."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I know it's difficult being alone when all you want is companionship, Tom. But you've got to start making a reasonable effort to participate in more people-oriented activities. Otherwise..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's so damn hard to do, Charles. I have very few friends I can hang out with. No one misses me when I'm not around. I don't matter to anyone. So there's not a lot of incentive to be outside my apartment."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What I suggest is that we work on a little project together."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Project? What type of project? Does it involve construction paper and paste? A paper doll, perhaps?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No. In order to overcome your uneasiness socializing, I recommend you build a pyramid of socially-related activities, beginning with some simple and more comfortable ones all the way to the most feared and difficult for you to accomplish. Then, at the top of the pyramid, I want you to create your ultimate social goal. It will be whatever you feel is the most appropriate for you. Once you have the pyramid laid out, draw it out on a piece of paper and bring it in with you next time so we can go over it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You can't be serious."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You know I am."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, and it scares the hell out of me. All right, I'll humor you. But don't expect any earth-shattering revelations next week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll leave it in your hands, Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "All right. But I warned you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "See you in two weeks?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay. At least I think it's okay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It will be. Take care, Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Bye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 12th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Friday, June 13, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nGood afternoon, Tom. Come in."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hi, Charles."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How was your vacation in Pennsylvania?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Uneventful and wet. It either rained or threatened to rain most of the time there."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How long did you stay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I left Tuesday morning, the day after our last session, and arrived back in San Francisco this morning. I decided to take my full two weeks off. I return to the regular grind at SII Monday."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You went camping or something, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I guess you could call it that, but I cheated. I rented a cabin that comes complete with a kitchen and a shower and a TV. It was in the woods near a lake but I definitely wasn't \"roughing it.\" I did some fishing, grilled some steaks and watched it rain. I got fairly bored after the third day but at least I wasn't staying at my Mom's."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you visit your mother at all?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She picked me up from the airport. As usual, we managed to talk civilly for about ten minutes and then we ended up in an argument over something ridiculous. This time it was over religion."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did you get on that topic?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Mom's boyfriend, Jeff, has a grandson who's two years old. Basically, this means Mom considers the kid her grandchild, too. Mom and Jeff are both into Christianity now and shower the grandson with little religious trinkets and Christian storybooks and crap like that. She said she sent similar gifts that week to Jordan, my brother's son, and Alex immediately sent them back. This, of course, greatly upset Mom, even though she knows that neither Alex nor I believe in a god. Alex and Martha had already told Mom not to try to influence their child with religious articles but Mom presses on anyway, hoping that eventually we'll \"see the light and be saved.\" Such bullshit. That's what I said in the car. \"Religion is bullshit.\" The argument soon followed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Were you arguing more over the idea of religion or over the fact that your mother persists in trying to impose her religious views on Jordan?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We fought about religion in general. Alex and I stopped believing in God at about the same time--while we were in high school. From a practical standpoint, the existence of some divine force controlling the cosmos and granting miracles seemed very silly to us. Mom has known that we don't support her beliefs, and it's been very difficult for her. When we tell her we don't believe in God, she starts crying and making us feel guilty. \"I want us to all be together in a happy place when we die and when you talk like that you're preventing your salvation, \" she'll sob. Give me a break! So here we are, in the car, and I basically scold Mom for sending religious gifts to Jordan when she knows Martha and Alex are Atheists. She looked over at me in shock, like it was the first time she had heard that. Then she went on about how we're too young to fully understand the concept of creation, blah, blah, blah. Yet because she lives with her boyfriend and is assumably having sex, she's living in sin herself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Alex made that point to her. Religion breeds hypocrisy. There have been more wars waged and lives lost in the name of some God than anything else, yet these gods supposedly do not permit the taking of a life. You don't need to have religion to have morals, but people seem to think that without religion there'd be chaos. I say religion causes chaos. Anyway, it was a long ride to Mom's house Tuesday."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm beginning to see why you chose to rent the cabin."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was worth the money in that sense."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anything else happen during your vacation?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not really, except I saw Sharon."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'd say that's pretty significant, wouldn't you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. I never expected it to happen."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you approach her?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, she actually walked up to me. I was shocked. I thought for sure she hated me and wouldn't want to set foot near me again. I had rented a car early Wednesday morning and drove to the grocery store to get food for the cabin, and there she was."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did the conversation go?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was very strained at first. She had changed a lot in two years. Her hair was very short and it appeared more blonde than I had remembered. I guess she bleached it out. She also seemed to have gained some muscle and she seemed very toned. When I first saw her at the other end of the isle, she was looking at me, and was basically waiting for me to react. I think that if I hadn't smiled or if I had looked away, she would never have approached me. She smiled back slowly and then walked up to me. I asked her how she was doing, and she said she was fine and that she was still going to school. She was surprised when I told her I had moved out to San Francisco. I had figured she would somehow find out about it but I guess I was wrong. She congratulated me, but seemed a little down, almost disappointed. It was then that I told her how sorry I was about sending her the scathing letters, that I had felt frustrated and hurt at the time and did it without really thinking. She seemed to blow it off like it no longer bothered her. It was at about that time that I noticed the engagement ring."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That would certainly explain why she'd be so quick to forgive you now."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yup. Sharon saw me looking at the ring and told me a little about her fianc��. They met in Poli-Sci class and have been dating for two years. She opened up her purse and pulled out a picture of him, and the guy looked a lot like me. He had short brown hair and was slightly more muscular in build. They're getting married in three months. I congratulated her, wished her the best, and then we hugged. I don't know how long we held each other, but in those moments all the feelings I had for her rushed forth at once. I realized that this was going to be the last time I would ever hold her and it ended up being in the canned foods aisle. We said our goodbyes and I checked out my items. As soon as I stepped into my car and shut the door, I started crying like a baby."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see tears welling up now."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, so they are. Funny how life goes. Sharon loved me once. I could have been that guy she's marrying if I had just been a few years younger. Even though I'm living in San Francisco, I still felt that somehow I'd end up back with Sharon. Now she's really gone forever."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think Sharon is truly the woman with whom you'd want to spend the rest of your life? From what I've heard so far about her, you had very little in common."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She was my first and only love, Charles. No other woman has ever been in love with me. I turn 26 in August. Under the circumstances, I don't think I have many options. In a few years I'll be 30 and if I haven't found someone by then I might as well hang it up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I have to tell you that's absurd. I'm 37, and I'm not ready to hang it up. As we've discussed before, you're not giving yourself opportunities to meet people, Tom. Staying at home and keeping yourself secluded from the outside world is not exactly conducive to finding romance."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I went to that coffee shop and bombed when the redhead tried to flirt with me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You didn't exactly bomb, you simply chose not to talk. That's what you need to change. You're self conscious. You worry about how someone is going to perceive you when you speak and that worry is inhibiting your ability to talk to people."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just don't want to make a fool out of myself, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Would you agree that the girl at the coffee shop probably didn't feel too highly of you after you said nothing and turned away?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, she probably did."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And would you also agree that if you had answered her when she spoke to you, the chances of getting to know her would have been much greater than how you chose to handle the encounter?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Probably. But it's so hard to speak to someone like that. I don't know how to articulate to you the fear that I feel when I'm in those situations. My body wants to either fight or flee, and I always choose to flee."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sure she felt uneasy approaching you, too. But she was able to take the first step. If you simply tried to take the first step, Tom, you might find the results in your favor. At least give it some thought."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll try."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. And we can work on making you more comfortable talking to people--trying to reduce that feeling of self-consciousness. How would you like to schedule the next session? Same time next week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's fine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll see you then."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "See you later."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Tom."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 13th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Friday, June 20, 1997 at 4:00 p.m.\nHi, Charles!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why hello, Tom. I must say you seem in high spirits."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, you might say so. It probably has something to do with the Mountain Dews I've been sucking down all day."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, there's something else different about you. Take a seat."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If I didn't know better, I'd say you've met someone."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Come on, Charles, that's such a clich��. Getting laid doesn't change the world that dramatically."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is that what happened to you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, no, not really, but it seems like if someone's in a good mood it always has to be attributed to a recent sexual experience. That gives women way too much credit--much more than they deserve."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So this recent mood swing of yours has nothing to do with sex or women?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't say that. Damn it, Charles, do you have to analyze everything? I'm in a good mood, for Christ's sake. Is that so bad?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, it's not bad at all. It's just that I don't buy that it's completely unmotivated."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "While you're sitting there dissecting me, could you maybe find the time to go to hell?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom, you have to understand..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sorry. That was out of line. It's just that every time I walk in here and talk to you, I feel like either you're completely not listening or you're staring so intently at me that you make me feel guilty, like you think I'm holding something back from you and should be ashamed for not sharing it. I feel compelled to talk about things I never intended to bring up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I didn't realize I made you so uncomfortable."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You don't...well, not really. I talk to myself a lot, Charles, living alone. Coming here...speaking to you is a lot like talking to myself. I don't mean any offense by that. It's just that sometimes I need to explode and vent to a living, breathing person once in a while and never get the opportunity. So I pay you to listen to me regurgitate my thoughts. Before I started seeing you, I used to stare in the mirror a lot and talk out loud about how I feel and what I want to do in life and why it's not happening."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Was there ever a response?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No! The mirror never talked back. I'm not that far gone yet. When I had been hired to my first full-time job a few years ago and had a steady relationship with someone, things seemed to be falling into place. It was easy to look ahead to happier times. Then it all ended abruptly just when I thought life was starting to make sense and coming into focus. Sharon was a big part of my happiness and, when I lost her, everything else followed. Since then, I've lived a pretty hollow existence. Many times I find myself wondering what point there is to anything. You're born, you grow old, and then you die. What does this accomplish? Why exist at all? So we can watch MTV all day?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You've placed a lot of emphasis on Sharon in relationship to your life and your perspective of it. For the little time you two had together, your feelings seem disproportionate."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe what you said earlier was right. Maybe getting laid does make that much of a difference to us guys."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I didn't say that. I simply guessed that you had met someone."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "She didn't take anything from you. Your perceptions of the situation were all that changed. It was your inability at the time to cope with the emotions that inevitably followed your breakup that made the experience so devastating to you. From what you've told me, you weren't experienced with the nuances of relationships and certainly you found it difficult dealing with the repercussions of the split. I think during that period of your life, you had an unusually high sense of co-dependency."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're saying I kissed her ass."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Not exactly, but it certainly seems like she played more of a dominating role than you did. You were only happy when she was near, which gave her an enormous amount of control. The key to this, though, is your lack of experience. As you become more involved socially, you will begin to see in retrospect the relative insignificance of your time with Sharon."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I think my involvement with other people might be hindered by Sharon once again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean by that? I thought she was engaged to be married."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She is. Sharon called and left a message on my answering machine four days ago."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did she find your number? What did she want?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not sure I like what you're telling me."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Then you definitely won't dig what happened next. I sent an e-mail to Sharon later that night since Pennsylvania's time zone is three hours ahead of ours and it was getting too late to call. She replied the next afternoon and asked me to call. That night I called her and we spoke for at least two hours. We re-lived the whole year and a half we had together, including the break-up. It was like our entire relationship was encapsulated into that one conversation. We laughed, we argued, we cried...we had sex."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "This is probably not a good thing to talk about."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm assuming you're not speaking figuratively?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "This is hard to talk about."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If it makes you uncomfortable..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We had phone sex, okay?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Apparently Sharon is not all that happy with Antoine. They've been having frequent squabbles and she's questioning her love for him. He got a job in Indiana and he wants Sharon to drop everything and move with him and abandon her own career goals after college. She told me she had forgotten how comfortable I made her feel talking to her and then we talked about our sexual experiences together. Soon Sharon's voice began dipping down a couple octaves and she slowly whispered things she wanted to do with me and pretty soon my fly was unzipped. Graphic enough for you yet?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm getting the idea."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, well, we talked again the next night and we're meeting in a chat room on the Internet tonight. I don't exactly know why I'm letting her do this to me again, but I can't help it. I haven't felt this hopeful in a long time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you feel the two of you will renew your relationship? Do you think that, somehow, you'll be together again despite the miles between you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. My gut says no. But I want exactly that. I want her back. I need her. I need somebody. I feel like she's rescued me. A few months more of what I was going through emotionally before my vacation, and I would have killed myself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You honestly believe that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I can only tell you how I felt. When I was feeling that hopeless, visions of death flooded my mind. How else would you describe that?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're more levelheaded than you give yourself credit for. I don't think you would have taken your own life, especially when you're in the midst of treatment and are so eager to improve. My feelings about your situation with Sharon are strong. You won't like my opinions but I'm not here to tell you what you want to hear. Your relationship with Sharon is destructive. It was based on emotional instability and your break-up ended on the same note. I feel you need to find the strength to move on before you can expect any type of healing. And even if you are able to renew a relationship with Sharon, you haven't been able to accomplish enough independently to give that relationship a chance of working. We'll have to talk more about this next week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "All right."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How's next Friday at 4 p.m.?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It still works for me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll see you then."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "See you later."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 14th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Friday, June 27, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Tom. Please have a seat."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How are you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Good."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It doesn't seem like that's true."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "This whole Sharon ordeal is just getting ridiculous."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're kidding!"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know, I know. You warned me. I feel like she's pulling my strings again. \"Hi, I'm Tom, the magic fucking puppet! Look at me! I can walk and talk and kiss your ass!\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's an impressive Pinocchio imitation."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's doing it to me all over again, and I'm letting her. Fucking bitch. She doesn't give me the time of day for two years and now, all of sudden, she wants to talk to me again. I can't have any association with her unless she dictates it and it's convenient for her spoiled ass. I should just ignore her phone calls and e-mails."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why don't you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tell me about the dreams."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is Sharon there?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not at first, no. The dream begins in a room I can only describe as a total blank. There isn't any furniture or any other articles there. All I see is the same penetrating whiteness that's so painful to look at; it compels me to shade my eyes. I start to get very frightened. I look around the room frantically until I can barely discern the silhouette of a person through the brightness. As I walk closer, I realize it's Sharon, but she isn't moving. She seems frozen in time and it's clear from her pose that she had been in the midst of talking and gesturing before she suddenly became still. I try to get her attention by yelling directly at her, but there's no response. I shake her violently, but still she doesn't react."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you have a feeling associated with her frozen passivity?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is there anything out of the ordinary about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The bed is very gaudy, incredibly large and it seems to somehow expand beyond the confines of the bedroom itself. The bedpost and headboard are ornately carved with tiny naked women in various poses, and there is a large mirror mounted over the mattress. I'm not sure, but I think the bed is heart-shaped, like you'd find in one of those honeymoon suites they show on TV."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happens next?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I toss Sharon onto the bed. Suddenly, the intense whiteness of the room is replaced by a red illumination, much like what comes from the lights you'd find in a photographer's darkroom, only this is slightly brighter. Sharon's once frozen form now springs to life, and she smiles at me mischievously, sitting up on her hands and knees and tossing her hair back. She brings up her right hand and motions with her index finger to come to her. At this point, I'm quite aroused. I soon forget all the emptiness I felt with her in the other room when she wouldn't speak to me. Racing into bed, I claw eagerly at her blouse and she lets me remove it. We soon have each other's clothes off and I begin kissing her everywhere. Sharon points downward, signaling that she wants me to perform oral sex. Kissing her breasts and her stomach on the way down, I willingly do as she asks. After several moments, we return to kissing and begin to have intercourse. As she's on top of me, I look at the mirror and watch her movements. Then the mirror seems to fade away to reveal a group of people I don't recognize staring down at us. Sharon begins moaning, softly at first, then with louder cries. Finally she screams, \"Oh, Antoine!\" I am stunned by what she says, but continue to have sex. The people above begin pointing at me and laughing, as if to say, \"Ha, ha! The joke's on you, dumbass!\" When the both of us reach climax, Sharon and I hold and touch each other playfully. I ask her to take a bath with me, and she agrees. As we stand up, I begin talking to Sharon about all the things I want to do now that we're back together, only to find when I turn to her that she is once again frozen in time. I begin crying and the room turns white again. That's when I wake up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is this dream recurring?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I have variations of it, but this version is by far the most vivid and memorable. So what do you think the dream means?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Dreams are very helpful in determining one's state of mind, but it's my belief that they are best interpreted from the individual who experiences them. What do you think it means?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It seems to reflect my past relationship with Sharon. We never really had anything much in common except the sex. She used to ask me sometimes why we didn't talk more than we did, and I'd never really know what to tell her. We were so many years apart that it was difficult to see things from her younger perspective. I found the best way to communicate to her and show my feelings was through sex."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That sounds like the obvious comparison between your life and the dream. What do you think about the other aspects you described, such as the bright white light versus the red? What of the people laughing at you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The uneasiness came when Sharon cried out the name of her fianc��, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, yes, definitely during that time, but there was a constant level of it throughout the sexual episode. It was like a feeling of impending doom. I couldn't fully trust her, which prevented me from being completely satisfied. And the people laughing at me seemed to represent more my feelings of how other people felt about my relationship with someone much younger than myself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Interesting."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I agree that a lack of trust can make it difficult to open up."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Which is why I want to trust Sharon's intentions now. I want to believe she's not out to hurt me again. That's why I wanted to keep the lines of communication open until recently."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you feel that Sharon intended to hurt you when she broke off your relationship?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. I guess not really intentionally, no. But she hurt me even if she didn't mean to."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It was the circumstances of the situation, Tom. The age difference and the beginning of her college life were the primary factors, as we've discussed before."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess so. So why does she want to have anything to do with me now, when we never had anything in common?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's not uncommon for some people to explore past relationships in the midst of emotionally trying times. But these situations are almost always temporary."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, you've pretty much made up my mind that I'm not going to get back together with her. I'm not going to brush her off completely, but I will set some boundaries."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So long as you don't depend on her to provide you happiness, I don't see too much problem with keeping the channels open. I don't want you investing all your time in her when you could be working on improving your own social life."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know, I know. Don't worry, I'm beginning to see that now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, our time's about up."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Let's see. Next Friday is the Independence Day Holiday. Why don't we skip our next session and I'll see you in two weeks? That would be July 11th, okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That sounds good."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And remember, if you need to talk to me before then, you can always give me a call."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure, I know. See you later, Charles."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Take care, Tom."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 27th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Monday, June 29, 1998 at 2:00 pm.\nHello, Tom. Please come in."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Let's see. I believe you owe me a homework assignment."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Right here."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 28th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Monday, July 20, 1998 at 2:00 pm.\nTom?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hi."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Come on in. I almost didn't recognize you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What's the occasion?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Occasion? What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, this the first time I've seen you without your glasses."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I finally went out and got a contact lens prescription."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And the goatee?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was always a pain in the ass trimming the damn thing, so I shaved it off."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I must say you look much younger."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know if I should take that as a compliment."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It was meant as one, which is not to say that you looked terribly old with the glasses and goatee, but you did look older than your age."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. You haven't said anything about my hair, yet. I thought that one would be the most obvious."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Your hair?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I colored it. I bought one of those women's coloring kits that's supposed to match my hair color. I could have bought the men's coloring kits, but there wasn't that much of a selection. I figure hair is hair, right? So, no more gray to worry about, at least for now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "To tell you the truth, I had never really noticed you had any gray hair."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Believe me, it was all over the place."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So those are a lot of changes in your physical appearance. Is there a particular reason for them?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just wanted to feel better about myself, better about my age. I turn twenty-seven next month. And when it happens, I don't want to look like I'm in my thirties. Ever since I hit twenty-five, I've been having problems dealing with how quickly time seems to be passing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Twenty-seven is still fairly young, Tom. I'm in my thirties myself--actually my late thirties--and I don't consider that too terribly old, though at times, my back disagrees with me in the morning."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's not so much the age as it is the lack of memorable experiences I've accumulated in that timeframe. I overhear conversations from co-workers, talking about their wonderful trips, and the great parties they've been to, and every detail of their adventurous sex lives. The more they talk, the more empty and insignificant I feel about myself and my life. When I was in a relationship, I had a purpose. Life had meaning. I meant something to someone. Sharon and I went places, we enjoyed each other's company, and we fucked so much that rabbits got jealous. I want that back. I feel like I've been forgotten, like I'm a Cabbage Patch doll that was hot on the market for a while and then placed back on the shelf and never looked at again. Maybe if I try to become a Beanie-Baby, I'd have better luck."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "They do seem to be popular collectibles right now, although I personally don't understand it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "There you go, selling yourself short again."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not selling myself short. That's just the way it's been most of my life."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's only because it's what you allow yourself to see. How have you been since you started the medication? Any side effects?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was miserable the first week. I felt extremely tired all day for five days. Eventually, I started getting some energy back, though my appetite still isn't at its normal level. I've been eating really light meals. Any more than that and I start to get drowsy and a little nauseous."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The nausea will likely pass as the drug has time to build up in your system."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And I've been having really intense dreams lately."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh? In what way are they intense?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. They just seem to be more vivid and frequent. Usually, I can only recall fragments of dreams I've had, but lately, the images are so clear that I can remember long spans of them at a time. For example, the one I had a couple nights ago is still fresh in my brain."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happened in that dream?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it started off with me standing in my apartment, painting a wall. The paint was a really bright, fluorescent, and truly horrid shade of green. There was a section of the wall above me that was just out of my reach. I jumped a couple times trying to get to it with the roller in one hand, but I was still missing the section by inches. Then I started to hear this incessant giggling coming from behind me, as if someone found my attempts amusing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you know who it was?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I turned around and realized that it was my cat, only she wasn't really a cat at all. She seemed to be a grotesque, polymorphed creature--half cat and half woman. The lower half of her body was completely that of a human with a black mini-skirt and shapely legs wrapped tightly in black fishnet stockings. The top half of her body was almost completely feline with fur-covered arms protruding out of a snugly-fit camisole. Her hands were slightly clawed, and her head was exactly like that of my cat, except that it was human's size. As she snickered at me, she crossed one leg over the other and slightly bounced the calf up and down, showing off her stiletto high-heels."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Sounds unusual for a cat."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. This was definitely not your average pussy. Anyway, I was immediately startled as she began speaking in a raspy, whisper-like voice--something a snake might sound like if it could talk. \"Why deny yourself the right to fly?\" she asked. I looked at her with a puzzled expression, then turned to look back at the unpainted section of the wall. As I stared at it, it seemed to draw closer to me until I could easily reach it with my paint roller. I realized that I had somehow floated toward the ceiling. I could fly! Once I completed painting that section, the wall began to resonate with a soft humming drone, and the paint pulsated with an eerie glow. Then the wall suddenly disappeared, revealing downtown San Francisco outside. \"You are finally free,\" my cat whispered, absently licking the fur on her wrist. I stepped out onto what appeared to be a ledge and, with some encouraging words from my cat, I leapt off the building. At first, I began to fall to the ground, but after a few moments of concentration, I was flying once again. I never felt more happy than at that moment. I truly had all the sensations of flight in that dream. I could feel the wind pushing my hair back. I could feel myself become weightless. People below became tiny, indiscernible dots. There I was gliding over buildings, swooping underneath the Golden Gate Bridge, and looping back around toward Golden Gate Park. And then I was over the SII building campus."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What was going through your mind as you were flying?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, once I got over the initial feelings of euphoria, I started thinking about Rachel. I imagined how she'd react if she were to see me flying. I soon became convinced that if I could show her this skill, she'd instantly realize how special and necessary I was to her. So I shifted course toward Rachel's apartment building. Once I landed, I ran excitedly inside and hopped on the first available elevator."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You didn't fly up the elevator shaft?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Uh, no. When I got to her floor, I ran to her front door and banged on it several times. Rachel opened the door, dressed in only her bra and panties. Six men I've never seen before suddenly rushed out from behind her, all of them in different stages of undress. They smiled at me as they passed, disappearing down the hallway. I looked back at Rachel and noticed that she had droplets of semen staining her face and stomach."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And you felt...?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I am...was dumbfounded. It was as if I was going through an emotional overload. I could feel hate, jealousy, sadness, anger, betrayal, and anguish all at once. She continued to stare at me as if nothing were out of the ordinary. \"Well?\" she asked, waiting for me to speak. \"I know how to fly,\" I muttered, my eyes focused on the floor. Rachel brightened, took my hand in hers, and lead me back to the elevator. When we both got on the elevator, she hit a button, and we were whisked to the roof of the building. As we stepped out, she said, \"Prove it to me.\" But when I stepped onto the ledge, I was terrified. I no longer believed that I had the ability to fly; it's not possible for a human being to be like a bird. I thought about getting back on the elevator, but it was too late. I felt Rachel's hand push hard against my back, and I tumbled off the building end over end, the street rushing up to greet me. When I crashed to the ground defeated, I began to cry. As I was laying there on my back, I began to feel hands rubbing me gently over my pants. At first, I thought it was just bystanders checking to see if I was still alive, but then I realized I was being felt up. I started to relax. The hands slowly unzipped my fly and reached for my dick. Pretty soon, I became quite aroused as I felt someone performing fellatio on me. I began fantasizing about Rachel--how much I want to run my hands through her hair and draw her close to me; how I want to feel her breasts and put my mouth over her nipples. And then I realized I was about to come. When I lifted my head to look down at her, my cat was staring back at me from my crotch, smiling. That's when I suddenly woke up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was not a very happy ending, unless you're into sex with polymorphed house pets."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I suppose not."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So what do you think about the dream? Is it Prozac's side-effect or do you think it means something?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think it means you shouldn't sleep with your cat so often."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm serious."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "As far as dream interpretation goes, I believe that it's what you feel about the dream that's important. I'm not a Jungian in that respect. But generally speaking, the dream seems to reflect a great deal of insecurity, jealousy, and frustration you've expressed with both your social inadequacies and your love life. However, flying dreams are usually a particularly healthy kind of dream. Usually, people find them more pleasurable even than sex dreams.We can pick the dream apart in more detail during our next session, if you'd like."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Is it that time already?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm afraid so."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "All right. I guess I'll see you in a couple weeks, then."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Very good. Take care, Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Later."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 15th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Friday, July 25, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHi, Tom. Take a seat."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How have you been?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Do you really want to know or are you just shooting off pleasantries?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, I really want to know. It seems you've changed these past couple weeks."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "In what way?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You seem to be in a very pensive frame of mind."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Taking myself off the drug probably has something to do with it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Excuse me?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The Librium. I stopped taking it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And why is that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've been reading up on it. It sounds no better than the Ritalin doctors prescribed me when I was younger. It's a type of drug that only should be used on a short-term basis. I hear it fucks with your body, that it zones you out, makes you feel lethargic and decreases your sex drive. I think those are symptoms that related to me of late. I realized that since you'd put me on the medication, I didn't really feel any more at ease in social situations, I just felt...indifferent. I didn't fucking care about anything or anyone. I didn't care if people said things about me in hushed circles; I didn't care who was winning the ballgame on TV; I didn't care that my smoke detector was going off for five minutes because I had burnt something in the oven; I didn't care if there was a big stringy booger protruding from a nostril while I was talking to someone; and I definitely didn't get aroused enough to keep up with my usual whack-off schedule. So I stopped taking it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How long ago?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "About three weeks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom, this is a prime example of your trouble trusting the judgment or intentions of others. My goal by prescribing this medication was to help give you that extra push you seemed to need to get out into social situations and maintain yourself on a competent level. I planned on keeping you on the drug until such time as I deemed you were ready to handle these situations without its influence. That could have taken weeks or months. You're right in that it shouldn't be used long term, but it was not my intention to keep you on the Librium for a significant amount of time."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I'm off it. As of now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not going to force you to take anything you don't feel comfortable taking."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You fucking doctors like to ignore our fucking real problems and simply look for the quick fix. \"Here, Tom, here's some fucking drugs to send you to La-La Land. Have a nice day!\" Fuck that. I mean, really Charles, what the hell do you know about me except for what comes up in these little 45 minute sessions of ours? Nothing. Not a damn thing. Your expensive degree in psycho-skull-fucking doesn't give you the extra sensory perception to see into my future and look through my fucking eyes and know how the fuck I'm going to feel under certain fucking conditions. You know what? I'm beginning to think all you shrinks are scam-artists. Hell, if I had known I could take some bullshit classes and graduate to a big city, working out of a plush office and throwing out bad advice to people who aren't worth spit, I'd have changed my fucking major."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. Give me a few minutes. I have to collect myself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Take your time."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, take as much time as you need--I get my co-payment from you either way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "There you go again."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. I'm sorry."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's all right."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, do you want to know what happened to me this week?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Of course. Are you ready for that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. I got a cat."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really? What kind?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. A black one. A kitten. She just opened her eyes a few days ago."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What's her name?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Katherine, with a \"K.\" \"Kat\" for short."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That way I can just say, \"Hey, Kat, get off that table!\" \"Come here, Kat!\" \"Oh Kat, dinner!\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Very original."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not good with naming animals."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Had you been looking to get a pet?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. Basically, everyone was pressuring me to do it. My mom, my brother, my co-workers--hell, even Sharon suggested it. They all felt it would be good for me since I live alone. A girl from work has a cat that had given birth to a litter, so she offered me first pick. I think I got one so everybody would get off my back about not having a pet."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you don't really want the cat?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I do and I don't. I know having a pet will get my mind off my loneliness to a certain degree, but I don't feel it'd be fair to the animal to not really love it or care about it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think in time you'll grow attached to it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, but I feel guilty. She may have been perfect for another owner who would have truly loved her, but I took her instead. It just doesn't seem right of me to be doing this. What if I don't grow to love her? Or what if she ends up hating me after a while and we both realize we've wasted each other's time?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are we still talking about the cat?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "As far as I know. Why?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "For a minute I got the impression you were speaking metaphorically."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You said Sharon also suggested getting the cat. I take it she's still in the picture?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We are e-mailing each other about once a week. Seems like we're more pen pals now than anything else, which I guess is fine. I know there's nothing more of our relationship and I think she's realizing that, too. It sounds like her wedding jitters have subsided. So I'm happy for her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But it doesn't solve the issue of your lovelife."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "True, it doesn't, but I'm getting used to that now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But that's counterproductive. We don't want you to be getting used to your situation. The idea is to get you back on a social track."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. I've been pretty despondent lately. When I stopped taking the Librium, my body seemed to take it pretty hard. I got very depressed. For about three nights straight, I drank myself to sleep. Eventually I started feeling a little better, or at least on the same level I was before taking the drug. I just want to venture out socially knowing that I accomplished it and not the drugs. Can you understand that?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I can."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So no more drugs, okay?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If you don't want them, I'm not going to prescribe them. We'll look at other alternatives, of which there are several."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So what's the next step?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Continued exposure to social settings. You were a journalism major, right? Perhaps you can join a writing club. I'm sure that bookstore you frequent offers some of those types of programs, as I've seen groups meet there myself."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. They usually horde the area just off to the side of the coffee shop."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does that sound like something you'd be interested in?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. I haven't really written anything in a long while. I don't see myself as a writer anymore. I'm just a computer geek pecking away in a cubicle eight hours a day. That's the extent of my identity."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's up to you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We'll see."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. Same time, next week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually, I'm going to be pretty busy next week. Could we make it two weeks from today?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "We can. Is Friday, August 8th at 4 p.m. good for you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's fine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. I'll see you then. Goodbye, Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Bye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 29th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Monday, August 3, 1998 at 10:00 am.\nHello, Tom. Please come in."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I hope you don't mind--I prefer to lay on the couch today."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh, by all means."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks. I haven't gotten much sleep these past few days."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You do appear a bit haggard, though I've never seen you this early in the day before. I believe this is the first morning session we've ever had together."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Is it? I wouldn't know. I don't make it a point to take note of such things."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Why are you chuckling?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sorry, Charles. I guess I'm really not in the mood for this today. I feel a little ill on top of being dead tired."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sun poisoning, perhaps?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What makes you say that?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're noticeably darker than you were the last time I saw you. Have you been out in the sun a lot these past couple weeks?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, but I've been lying underneath a lot of fluorescent tubing. I figured one good way to stay out of my apartment is to frequent the \"fake-and-bake.\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How many times have you gone to the tanning bed in the past two weeks?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "About six times, I think. I'm not really sure. It's yet another appointment I have to nowhere in particular."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You need to be careful not to overexpose yourself, though I think it's a little late for me to be offering such a suggestion."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, whatever. We wouldn't want old Tom Darden dying of cancer before he had a chance to be bored to death, right? Maybe I can stick around long enough to see what new Spanish word the weather forecasters will use to hype up their livelihood. Shit, if I were Latin-American, I'd be amused at how menacing they try to make the words \"El Ni��o\" sound, whereas all the Latin-Americans hear on the news is \"the little boy.\" \"The little boy causes wild fires in Florida,\" \"The little boy brings scores of tornadoes across the Midwest\"--it's really silly when you think about it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know, I'm going off on one of my tangents. It's too early."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How was your weekend?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Rough. It's one of the reasons why I look the way I do right now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Nothing, of course, which is why it was so rough. I cried non-stop and drank a lot of beer--the combination which has left me quite dehydrated."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I've asked you to abstain from alcohol while on Prozac, Tom. It's very important that you..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, yeah, yeah. Whatever, Charles. This weekend was destined to be full of booze, and no piddling little fear of negative drug interactions was going to stop me from drinking. I'm so sick of being alone. Hell, I'm sick of saying that I'm sick of being alone. I cried and drank all weekend because I don't understand what's wrong with me and why there seems to be no one on this planet as socially inept as I am. I actually tried to magnify my pain this weekend. I popped in my copy of \"Leaving Las Vegas\" into the VCR, quite possibly the most depressing movie ever made. Have you ever seen it?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, I have. It's certainly not what one would describe as an uplifting film."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Definitely not. Well, as I was drinking my beer, I played the movie up to the scene in which Nicholas Cage and Elizabeth Shue were in the hotel room for the first time together. As a prostitute, she was just interested in turning the trick and getting out of there when the meter ran out. But Nicholas Cage's character told her that he didn't care about the sex. \"There's time left. You can have more money. You can drink all you want. Just stay. That's what I want. I want you to talk or listen, but just stay,\" he pleaded with her. It's such a heart-wrenching scene that I break down completely whenever I watch it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You relate to the character's loneliness."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Completely. The movie has profound meaning to me. I know precisely how the character feels. And it's not like the movie's totally fiction, either. It's pretty much an autobiographical account of the author's own despair. And it's very typical of the entertainment industry to bank on this guy's inner turmoil. Did you know that the author committed suicide shortly after signing the movie deal?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, I hadn't heard that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And do you think those fucking heartless movie executives had a single moment's thought about holding off on the project after the guy died? Fuck no. Those bastards went on to make millions off the author's anguish. Fucking, fucking leeches! God damn them all! That's the reality of this fucking planet, Charles. That's what life is all about--exploitation, competition, selfishness. We are all selfish fucking creatures, all six billion of us. No one gives a shit. Even Mother Theresa had motives. Don't think for a second otherwise. So do you, Charles, for that matter. You hide behind the medical shield claiming to help people, but it's a pretty fucking lucrative job for you, isn't it? Do you ever feel guilty at all, Charles, when you're on that exotic beach sipping one of those icy little numbers with the paper umbrella sticking out?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I won't deny that many people in my line of work make generous sums of money, but your impression of my own status is grossly overestimated."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll bet."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And what of your motives, Tom? Surely you have some. Or are you the exception to the rule?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What about Rachel? What are your motives there?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I have no motives when it comes to her. It's all emotion. At least it was...or still is...hell, I don't know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The pyramid you drew seemed to indicate some motivation to win her heart, at least in part to achieve a personal goal."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Rachel was only on that stupid list because I'm frustrated over feeling so helpless around her. I want to be confident and not have personal issues get in the way of my chance to be with the one person who may very well be the perfect complement to my soul. I'm in love with that woman, Charles. I haven't been able to get her off my mind in months. But I'm afraid she's going to end up being just another woman I was never able to got close to. I've been thinking a lot about the dreams I've been having of her lately. Almost all of them entail some sort of sexual encounter she had with other men. And in all the dreams, she looked at me with utter condescension, because I couldn't muster the courage to be point blank with her and just follow my heart without worrying about the potential consequences."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Has the feline succubus been invading your dreams as well?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You mean the half cat half hot-chick creature? No, she was just in that one dream I told you about."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Let's go back to the pyramid of social tasks you drew for me about a month ago. Have you made any attempts to fulfill any of the tasks laid out on that list?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I thought that list was only supposed to be hypothetical. I didn't know you actually wanted me to do all the things on it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, I was hoping that you would attempt to challenge your social fears, yes."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I went to a bar a few nights ago, and that was on the list. Does that count?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Somehow I can't imagine going to a bar to be too much of a problem for you socially."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's more difficult than you think. There are all those people, who mostly come in pairs, drinking and enjoying themselves, watching you walk in alone...and I begin to wonder how many people in that smoky room realize what a loser I am for coming into that sort of place, getting liquored up only to go home alone. I stumbled into a Waffle House on my way from that bar. What I saw there scared the hell out of me. There was a bunch of old men, all lined up at the counter, quietly eating their greasy breakfast and drinking black, diluted coffee. Every one of them wore a really solemn, worn face. And you could tell through their eyes that they'd given up on life many years ago. A few of the men returned my gaze, and as our eyes met, there was an immediate sense of understanding. And I was truly afraid, so afraid that I darted out of that place without even ordering."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't believe you'll ever end up like these men you've described."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I wish I could believe that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So long as you put forth an effort, there are always possibilities. Our time's up, Thomas. I don't want to make you too late for work."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't intend on showing up to work today. I don't really feel up to it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So long, Charles."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "See you in a couple weeks, Tom."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 16th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Friday, August 8, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nTom, hello. Come in and take a seat."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So how is Tom today?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tom is shitty today, thank you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And why is that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, a collection of things that seem to happen to me in the truest spirit of Murphy's Law."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "For example?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, let's start with the cat. This kitten has so far served as a constant scratching, pooping, biting reminder that I really don't like animals all that much."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What is it doing?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's dominating my life at home. She knows more about getting her way than I know how to control her. Claws--I renamed the cat last week for obvious reasons--has learned to manipulate me better than any woman could have. I usually eat supper in the living room, watching TV. Claws refuses to leave me alone. She'll jump onto the coffee table and wants to drink whatever I'm drinking and delve her cat litter-encrusted paws into my food. I throw her off but she'll just jump back up. A couple days ago, I literally spent fifteen minutes throwing her off the table and watching her jump back on before I gave up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like you have a little devil on your hands."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I can't have a moment's peace in my own apartment. She has to be around me almost all the time. I tried closing her out of the bathroom once and she meowed and clawed at the door until finally I got so annoyed that I had to give in. If I hadn't, I'm sure there'd be serious damage to my door right now. And then the poop--oh, don't even get me started on that. I've shit in her litter box more times than she has. Claws finds my couch to be much more convenient. What's so damn funny about this?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry, Tom. I think you're taking this a bit too seriously."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's easy for you to say. You're not awaking to a living feline nightmare of hairballs and catnip-induced attacks on her owner."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "There are steps you can take to control your cat. I've heard a spray-bottle filled with water works wonders. If Claws is doing something you don't want her to be doing, you can squirt her with water. She'll soon get the idea that doing those things brings about bad consequences."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And the cat shit? How the hell do I stop her from shitting all over the place?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm no expert on the subject but I've heard you can lock the cat in a room with her food and her litter box and she'll start using the litter box exclusively."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's all such a pain in the ass. I wish I had it as good as that damn cat. Eat and shit, eat and shit--wheeeee! Look at me! She has no worries. I, on the other hand, have to deal with people like those at my insurance company on a regular basis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happened with your insurance company?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I'm just high-risk at the moment as far as auto insurance goes. I've had three accidents in two years, two of which were my fault, but they take all the accidents into account and label me high risk. So now I get this letter in the mail saying I now have to pay $1000 every six months just to drive back and forth to a job I hate anyway. I tried to go through another insurance company but they turned me down because of my driving record. I mean what do you expect? This is San Francisco, for Christ's sake!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If I were you, I'd start using the city's transit system."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No way. I need that freedom with my car to be alone and away from everything. It's really the only way you can truly have some semblance of privacy anymore. It's just me and the radio and..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "...traffic jams."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sometimes. But as long as you're in your car, it's like you're separated from the outside world. You don't have to really deal with anyone, and the people in the cars around you aren't really people, you know what I mean? They're just non-descript, boxy metal objects scurrying about that drive too slow or cut you off from time to time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you find yourself escaping to your car often?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. I don't like interaction with people, as you well know by now. Driving my car is one of the few things that still gives me some sense of satisfaction."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And protection."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What's that?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It protects you from having to cope with people on a social level. You can be amongst people and yet not have to interact with anyone. If you ever feel uncomfortable, you simply drive away."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, there must be a lot of anti-social people out there besides myself--look at drive-thrus at fast-food restaurants or at banks. No one wants to deal with other people if they don't have to."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's different. That's a matter of convenience."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Bullshit. It's because people don't want to deal. They'd rather listen to a barely discernable voice crackling back their order than talk to them face-to-face."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Perhaps. But I still think it's a matter of convenience for most people. For you, it's clearly a different story."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, whatever. I think maybe you're reading too much into what I'm saying, anyway."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's my job. Not necessarily reading in \"too much\" but I do explore avenues you may not have considered."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, well, I have been having some serious relapses when it comes to relating to people lately. I thought maybe I was getting better but I've come to realize I still have anxiety attacks over it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Like what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know if you know about this, but every year at SII, the company reviews the performance of certain individuals who excel and they reward them by herding them together to have a week-long drink-fest in the Bahamas. They get together with the president of the company and have presentations and pass out awards and drink a lot of beer. Well, Dave Torriello, my manager, picked me to represent the Help Desk."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's great! Congratulations."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't want to go."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why not?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Because all the VPs and heads and managers and staunch corporate types will be there and I'll be forced to mingle with them and because I'm afraid, frankly. I am so scared of people that I even skipped the announcement that Dave gave to everyone in the IT department. I couldn't muster the courage to be surrounded by 50 people at once, gathered together to stare at me as he announced his pick."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "There are 50 people?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, not in the Help desk area, but with all the departments combined in IT, there are about 50 people. So all the managers for all the departments announced their picks. At least, so I hear."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did Dave say afterward?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He was...concerned. My defensiveness with customers was an issue earlier in the year, but my performance improved greatly and my statistics far exceed those of anyone else in the department. Plus Rob Farber changed departments and now works as an engineer in Network Operations. So now there's just me, Jennifer Keys and Doris Meckle. Dave figured I was covering the phones at the time, so I went along with it. I told him I was working on a critical issue and couldn't leave my desk for the meeting."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So how did you feel when he asked everyone to meet with the rest of the IT department?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was petrified. I got sweaty and my heart started racing and I felt like a cornered animal. I knew what the meeting was for and knew that if I'd go, I'd be singled out. I can't stand that. I like the fact that many people can't associate a name to my face. At the same time, I know it's wrong to feel that way. As soon as I got off work, I went straight home and drank a six-pack. Guess I was self-medicating again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds that way."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know what you're thinking. I might as well be using the Librium if I'm going to use alcohol to achieve the same results."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Not necessarily. Last time you were here, you were very adamant that the side effects outweighed the value of the drug in relation to your social life. If we started you back on that medication, the side effects you reported are likely to recur. On the other hand, I'd rather you not turn to alcohol at the first sight of a crowd."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it was only a six-pack. Not like I chugged a case or anything."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Six straight beers is still fairly significant."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. Well, next week, let's discuss this trip you've been chosen to take--when is it scheduled for, by the way?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sometime in October, I think."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good, that gives us some time. Okay. Next week, same time?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "How about Friday the 22nd."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If you want to skip a week, I understand. But try to get out a little. I want you to start gradually and try to get used to people."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Right, Doctor. See you then!"
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 30th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Monday, August 17, 1998 at 12:00 pm.\nHello, Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hi."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you still feeling sick?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Do you mean since last we spoke? Dammit, I'm still not feeling well, not at all."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you seen a doctor about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not besides yourself, no. But I've really felt out of it the past week or so. I guess I don't have much choice but to get checked out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Can you describe your symptoms for me?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh Jesus, do we have to? The more I think about it, the worse my head throbs."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you've been having headaches?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not really headaches, per se. I've been feeling really disoriented. It's not constant, which throws me off even further. I'm okay for a couple minutes, then suddenly, I get this shot of pressure radiating from the back of my neck into my head. Then I begin to feel off balance and on the verge of fainting."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom, I think we need to discontinue the Prozac. I'm afraid it may be directly related to your recent physical illness."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And miss all those elaborate dreams and nightmares I've been having? I don't know. That's the most entertainment I seem to get lately. It would be a shame to lose that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you having nightmares also?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They're not nightmares to me, but they're not exactly joyful experiences."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Can you describe some of them?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Do you really want me to go over yet another one of my dreams?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm more interested in the sensations than the content of the dream itself."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Really? Because I feel the same way. I don't really care too much about the plot line, just so long as I achieve the end result."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The end result?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The physical reaction that I experience toward the end--the climax, if you will."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Describe what you mean by that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, these types of reactions to certain nightmares have been happening to me long before I ever started taking your medication, Charles."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's fine. I'm still interested in knowing what those reactions are."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "All right. It's really difficult to explain. I stopped having nightmares back in college. Well, okay, that's not exactly true. What I mean to say is that I stopped regarding nightmares as nightmares. They eventually became almost enjoyable to me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why is that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "From a very early age, I've believed that dreams are somehow a gateway to another world--a world that is always around us, very active and bustling, but one which humans can't normally sense while conscious."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm on to something big, Charles. I've always struggled through life trying to figure out what purpose I have, what point there is for my being here. And now, for the first time ever, I feel I have a sense of understanding. The physical reaction that I have to nightmares is intense, Charles. At the very point where my heart rate shoots up in fear, something very horrifying and very beautiful happens. I feel pressure at the base of my skull, along with sharp, tingling sensations down my neck. And then..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Something truly extraordinary happens. My consciousness seems to pierce through into that other world. I begin to hear a jumble of voices, all strung together tightly, all speaking rapidly and urgently..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do those voices say?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. God dammit! I'm so close. But I can't make out the words just yet. They're all speaking too fast. I get the sense that it's important, that what they are saying is something profoundly meaningful and direct."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are they speaking to you directly?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, not at all. It's like I've tuned into a radio talk show that's been going on for quite some time. It's like I've finally found the right frequency. What's intriguing about it is that once I start hearing the voices, I'm wrenched with a concentrated rush of adrenaline. Every time I experience this, it's very clear to me that I'm not meant to hear them, that I don't belong there, and I've somehow penetrated this world against all natural laws."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I've never heard you speak this way before."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What way is that?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I've never heard you speak with such conviction. I'm not sure what to make of what you're describing to me."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm scaring you, aren't I?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I won't pretend that I'm not concerned."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "This is very real, Charles. This has been happening to me for years, but I think Prozac has made them occur more often and more intensely. No one to whom I've described these dreams has ever had a common frame of reference from which to pass judgment on my experiences."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You say these physical reactions to some of your nightmares have been going on for years. Have you ever told a doctor about them?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. The guy I spoke to several years ago pretended to know exactly what I was going through. He called my experiences \"night terrors.\" He said that it was some kind of sleeping disorder, but he never treated me for it. He seemed surprised that I looked forward to them, though."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Can you recall your first experience with these night terrors and what the dream itself was about?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The strange thing is that these dreams really are vague and sometimes have no subject matter at all. Something will be happening in the dream that's very benign. And then something someone says will somehow--and quite suddenly--trigger this intense feeling of fear. Like one time, a guy in my dream said to me, \"Tom, I'm going to the grocery store. Do you want anything?\" And immediately, I was struck with fear by what he said. And then the fear got so intense that I seemed to reach a climax accompanied by the rapid jumble of voices."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's very possible that you did have your eyes open but were still dreaming. Sleepwalkers have been known to do it. They can have conversations with people who are awake and walk about as if they were fully conscious, but they usually have no recollection of having done so."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sometimes, I just think that these voices truly mean something, like they are more than just a product of night terrors. Every single time I have one of these episodes, I consistently hear the voices. They are always there, despite the fact that the subject matter of the nightmares themselves have absolutely nothing to do with one another. The voices are the only constant. So when I start to hear the voices and then wake up from my nightmare, I immediately try to get back to sleep to return to the voices."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you ever successful?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, but I can only hear them for a few seconds. And sometimes, I manage to reproduce the physical response to a nightmare even when I'm fully awake."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know how the hell that's possible, but I can do it. I just can't seem to recall the voices at will."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When you say that you feel these voices are more than mere products of your night terrors, what exactly do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know how to describe it to you without sounding religious. Believe me, I don't have a God-fearing bone in my body. I believe in God about as much as I do in the Easter Bunny. Yet, I somehow allow myself to believe that these voices are part of something beyond human comprehension. I feel they come from something that naturally occurs in the universe, but I can't begin to tell you where they come from or what their purpose is."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is that a satisfying feeling--that the voices are beyond our comprehension?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I suppose so. It's comforting to me. The voices make me feel like there is something out there that is far more important and grandiose than our mundane existence. Jesus, I'm really starting to sound like a fucking religious nut now. I don't know how to adequately explain these feelings, Charles."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's all right, Tom. It's very clear to me that this is important to you. I'm really rather surprised you hadn't mentioned this sooner."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "How was I to bring something like this up? It sounds too damn unbelievable, and I feel like a flake even now, trying to articulate my experiences."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You've done a very good job so far."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, shit. Thanks so much, Doc. Just do me a favor and don't dismiss these as merely night terrors."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Very well."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You say that with such sincerity and without a shred of patronization. So now that I'm off Prozac, do you have any other plans for me?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, would you feel comfortable pursuing another type of medication?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. So far, finding the right drug has been sort of a crap shoot."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Usually it is. It sometimes takes a bit of experimentation to find the right drug and dosage that's appropriate for a particular person."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I guess I'm game for it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. What I'd like to do is start you on Zoloft, 20 mg. once each morning. We'll do a six-week trial just as we did with the Prozac. We need to wait about a week before you can start the new medication, to allow time for Prozac to leave your system. But if your headaches persist, please tell me right away and I'll refer you to a specialist, all right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Here's your new prescription. I'll see you in two weeks."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Cool."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But call me if..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure, Doc. Sweet dreams."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Very funny. Goodbye, Tom."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 17th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Monday, August 25, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Tom. Come in."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hey."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Thanks for accommodating me by switching our appointment to today. How have you been?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Two weeks ago we discussed your trepidation over this business trip you'll be taking in October."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's not really a business trip. The company's flying us to the Bahamas as sort of a celebration of our job performance. There will be a lot of drinking, which I'm more than comfortable with."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you're not comfortable with the idea of being among the other employees."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. There will be about three hundred of them, none of whom I really know except for maybe the few I've talked to over the phone."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So instead of being excited about this honor..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, right."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Come on! Of course it's an honor. But you're not looking forward to it and you'd like very much to get out of it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, which puts me in a quandary. I'm torn between my fear of people and my responsibilities as an SII employee. So far, I've been successful at making sure the two factors never mixed. Now, I think they will. When Dave Torriello told me I had been chosen to go on this trip, I wanted to rush out of his office screaming \"No, no, no,\" but I knew that if I did that, it would have put me in a poor light."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Isn't he already aware that you've sought therapy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He originally suggested indirectly that I go to therapy, but that was because he felt I was getting too defensive when I was talking with customers. He has no idea how profound my fear of people is, or that I have this fear at all."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why do you feel that it's inevitable that your fear will manifest itself during this Bahama trip?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "During the trip, there's a recognition ceremony. All the employees will be corralled together in an auditorium and they'll be asked to walk on stage, accept their award, and stay up there for pictures with the President. I'm absolutely dreading it. To make matters worse, SII will film the event for their yearly propaganda video they show to trainees. All this time, I've felt like I've been put up in front of everyone for display, and now it will literally happen. I've been thinking about skipping this ceremony once I fly down there. Maybe just stay in my hotel room or something and say that I'm ill, which I guess isn't too far from the truth."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom, do me a favor. Don't do that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Easy for you to say. You can't know what this fear feels like. It's overwhelming. It's paralyzing. I may throw jokes at you every now and then about it but I really want you to know this is truly horrifying for me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I know it is, Tom. But the only way you can overcome the fear is to confront it. Your fear seems to have stemmed from some event in your past and you have since used other events to reinforce that fear. I'd like to try a desensitization technique if you'll allow me."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Does this entail my taking off my clothes and running up and down the street screaming, \"The British are coming, the British are coming?\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, hardly ever. Come with me."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Wait! We're going to leave the office? Where are we going?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You'll see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't like that answer."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You'll have to trust me. Take your stuff. Let me lock the door."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Just tell me you're taking me to a bar and treating me to a couple shots."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well...no. Nice try."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Seriously, where are we going? How long are we going to be?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Only until the end of the hour. My, you ask a lot of questions when you feel cornered."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't feel cornered, I..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Let's go."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Great. Here I am coming to you to try to talk about my problems and you're taking me on some kind of psycho-field trip."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Isn't the weather nice today? Perfect time of the year--not too cold, not too hot..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I need a drink."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Nonsense. Oh, you ever been to that restaurant over there? Quite a nice place."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I usually don't go to a fancy restaurant just to eat by myself. Can we go back now?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Keep walking."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Great. San Francisco, late afternoon, two guys strolling along pointing at things. We look like a couple of fags."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're not my type."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Neither are you. How much farther?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Just around the corner. Here."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Stacey's? You're taking me to a bookstore?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I know this isn't the one you frequent but it will suffice for our little exercise."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, great."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Aren't you coming in?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've bought my quota of books for this month, thank you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Let's go."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You can be a pushy bastard sometimes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You want me to what?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "This'll be good for you. A lot of your fear stems from desperately wanting to be liked--which makes it very difficult for you to say anything. You overanalyze what you're going to say, so that you never end up saying anything at all. Here, I'd like you to just gain some practice talking to strangers when you have nothing to lose. I'm not looking for you to pick the woman of your dreams in here but I'd like you to practice speaking with strangers."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "This is ridiculous. I'm out of here."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Leave if you must, Tom, but we both know the only way you're going to get over this fear is if you face it head-on."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've already told you I've been trying to go out and meet people. I don't need you holding my hand when I actually do it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You've also indicated your encounters ended in failure because you felt incapable of making conversation."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, suppose I do approach one of these women here...what the hell do I say? \"Hey, baby, I'd like to be your page-turner?\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, this is a bookstore, not a bar. Say whatever comes to mind, within reason, of course. Please try. I'll be over there in the health and science section."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, I'll do it, already. Jesus, this is crazy. Okay, get a hold of yourself, Tom. How about her?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The brunette reading the magazine? Nice choice. Good luck."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "This is so bizarre."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Excuse me, could you tell me if you have a book in stock by Ben Watt called, \"Patient?\"\n[Dr. Balis and Mr. Darden separate and then rejoin each other after a time.]\nHello Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Were you watching?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I glanced over my shoulder while you approached her. I'm assuming from that smile that it went well? What did she say?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If I recall her exact words, she said, \"Go fuck yourself.\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Charming. What did you say to her to evoke such a response?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I noticed she was skimming through Cosmopolitan, so I stood beside her and commented that I enjoyed taking the quizzes they have in that magazine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And then?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, that's when she told me to go fuck myself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So I guess that's it, then. Some people can approach women, others get stuck with a jar of Vaseline and a Penthouse."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom, don't get discouraged by this. The point of this exercise was not to necessarily win someone over with your wit and charm, but to work on establishing communication in the light of uncomfortable circumstances."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's true that when I finally did muster the strength to say something to her--just to get it out of my mouth--I felt a lot better."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You see? That's wonderful! Of course her reaction was a bit crude and uncalled for, but don't blame yourself for her attitude. Rejection is a part of life, Tom. You're going to run into that regardless of how silver-tongued you might be. I'd like to continue this type of exercise during our next session, but we'll keep it in the office the second time around. Can you come by this Friday at the same time as our normal session?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "See you then."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What, you're just going to stay here?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh, well I'm buying a few books. Take care!"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "See you later."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 18th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Friday, September 12, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nTom! Come on in."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "All right."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I tried calling you back Thursday night but there was no answer."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I must have gone to buy more beer."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Some of the things you said left me rather concerned, especially when you told me you were a loser and that I should kill you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Just stupid things I say when I'm drunk. I was actually reciting the lyrics of a Beck song."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Beck?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He's a...oh, nevermind. It doesn't matter. I was feeling like shit that night, so I drank about five beers, ran out, and had to go buy more."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you were driving that night, too?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, although that was before all this traffic bullshit happened. All this week, I worked from home because the freeways have been too congested. It took me over an hour just to get here. This is getting ridiculous."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're referring to the effects of the BART strike?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yup. I've never seen so many cars and buses take to the streets since this happened. The strike is really slowing the city down to a crawl. I never realized how many people depend on those trains to get to where they're going. I guess it's a good thing I can do all my work from a laptop and modem."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "True."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And it got me thinking why I should even go to work at all? If I can successfully do my job remotely, why not do so on a permanent basis?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, I'm sure the reason you aren't normally working from home has a lot to do with the type of support work you do. I imagine employees call a particular number to reach your helpdesk group when they need assistance, which you can't answer from your apartment."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, but the bulk of the problems sent to us come via e-mail. So really there's no need to even have that number. They could very easily do away with it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sure that would be perfect for you, not having to interact with anyone face-to-face."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't start with me. I'm talking pragmatics here. It's more logical in my mind to do this remotely if it's technically feasible. Why travel 15 miles just to sit in a cubicle and accomplish the same damn thing?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Earlier you told me how driving your car was the only means of freedom you had away from people. Now you want to work from your apartment. This is not a particularly healthy turn for you. How do you expect to cope with the social environment you'll face at SII's awards function in the Bahamas?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't. I'm going to find some way out of it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've already told you, damn it! I will be thrown into a crowd of over 300 people I don't know from branches all across the country. I don't have any friends who also work at SII, so there will be this pressure for me to join conversations and groups where I don't belong, like being a third wheel. It's like in gym class where one guy picks people for his team and chooses you last. I'm participating, but not because I really want to or anybody really wants me to. I don't like parties. I don't like mingling with people. Why is it so wrong to want to just be alone? Why do I have to \"network\" or whatever the fuck they call it now? I don't want anything to do with it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Were you picked last in gym class activities as a kid?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "A few times...who the fuck cares? I have never fit in, Charles. Growing up, I was always the loner, the outcast. I stayed home all through high school, never going out with friends. People say that underage drinking and sex is wrong but all the people who did that in school seemed to have turned out better than I have."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "This fear of rejection is very deeply rooted in you, isn't it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't fear those bastards. Fear is not the issue. Fuck people. Fuck what they think. I couldn't care less."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If that were true, you'd have no qualms about going to this Bahama function."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's different. I'm being asked to participate in an activity I don't want to participate in. And the only reason I didn't immediately refuse the offer my boss made is because I have to play the fucking corporate game of \"yes, sir, no sir\" to get anywhere. If I had refused, it would have had a profoundly negative impact on me in terms of my relationship with management."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Not necessarily."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You don't know dick. You've been sitting in this office too long. That's the way the game works out there. You play by their rules or you end up getting fucked for life."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're just as much a player in the game as anyone else, and therefore possess just as much power to change the course of the game, if you wish to use that analogy."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's right. That's exactly why I didn't turn down the offer to go on this trip to represent the helpdesk."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you said you were going to find a way out of it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I can now come up with some sort of excuse that would seem more legitimate than if I had turned down the offer immediately, yes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Such as?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know! Tell them my mother is sick and she needs my help or something. If I tell them it's for personal reasons, that's all they need to know. They can then get a replacement for me if I announce it soon enough."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like a perfect plan to me. Perhaps you could hire someone to go out and do your grocery shopping and run your errands for you, too?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Funny."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What's the worst thing in your mind that can happen if you manage to get on this plane and arrive in the Bahamas in October?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I picture 300 people meeting at the reception by the swimming pool in front of the hotel, all drinking and mingling and laughing and having a good time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like a nice scenario. And where are you when all this is happening?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm holding one opened beer and one unopened beer, sitting by myself noticeably outside the circle of people, staring off into the night, drinking in silent contemplation of fading away, hoping no one sees me and points out to others how anti-social I am. Either that or I end up staying in my hotel room and watching the festivities below from a balcony."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What about the awards ceremony itself? When you're asked to come onstage? Where are you then?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Wherever I am, I intend to be quite sloshed. Most likely I will still be in my hotel room or perhaps just standing outside of the auditorium, listening as my name is called and the awkward silence and mutterings when I don't show up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Perhaps you're not in a condition to participate in this event after all. You truly seem distraught over this. I believe that if you do muster up the strength to board the plane, you'd probably do exactly as you suggest."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You see! That's what I've been trying to tell you all this time! Finally you're beginning to understand!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom, I know you probably won't like this suggestion, but have you considered returning to the medication?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Get back on the Librium? That's your fucking answer? Drug me up again! Admit it! You're confounded by me, aren't you? You are realizing now that there is no changing my character. This is who I am. This is who I will continue to be."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I believe no such thing. Change can happen when the will is there. My only suggestion to you is to have the courage and will power to force yourself to go to this function; to force yourself to interact with people, no matter how painful; and to force yourself on stage to accept that award. These are barriers I feel are important for you to encounter and overcome if you hope to succeed at change."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It is not in my nature to participate in social activities like these, period. I don't feel these barriers are important in my life. I'd sooner find a different route."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The easiest one."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The only one that fits my nature. Look, I better get going. I'm starting to get really pissed off, and the traffic is just going to make things worse. Can we pick this up later?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If you insist. Next week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Make it two."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. Goodbye, Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 31st Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Monday, September 14, 1998 at 12:00 pm.\nHow's it going?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh! Hello, Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sorry. I didn't mean to startle you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No harm done; I've been rather engrossed in my notes here and lost track of time. Please come in and take a seat."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, I see you're back at the chair this time. I take it you're getting more sleep these days?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sharon is here."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I beg your pardon?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sharon, my ex-girlfriend? She came into town last week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You'd been keeping in contact with her pretty regularly via e-mail, hadn't you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "For a while, yes. But the frequency of the e-mails between us eventually dropped off pretty dramatically. So when she called me and told me she was in town, it was quite a shock. I hadn't been in contact with her in over five months."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did she come to San Francisco to see you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. At least I don't think so. Hell, I'm not sure. She told me that she enrolled at UCSF for graduate studies. She was supposed to have gotten married about a year ago, but that got postponed. I guess she ended up breaking up with her fianc�� back in January. Then she graduated from college in June and enrolled at UCSF. I guess they have a really good nursing school there or something."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The San Francisco branch of the University of California does specialize in health sciences and it's renowned for both its school and its medical research and discoveries."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Really? So she wasn't making it up then. That's good."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You sound almost disappointed that Sharon was telling the truth."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess I am a little. I don't know. When it rains it pours, you know? I want to be with Rachel, but then there's this new girl in the programming department that I sort of find intriguing, too. And now my ex fucking girlfriend is in town and is apparently here to stay, opening up wounds in my heart I thought had long since healed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "There's a new girl at work that you're interested in?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, let me tell you the whole story. I want Rachel, right? But it appears that she wants to get it on with this other guy who sits in a cubicle about fifty feet away from her. He's the guy who showed up with Rachel at Gina's wedding reception. They hang out with each other after work a lot--at least that's what I hear. And who knows what else they're doing? Anyway, last week, Rachel sent me an e-mail asking me out to lunch. Needless to say, I was ecstatic. I really thought that maybe this was the sign that she finally wanted something to happen between us."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But when I met her at the lobby that day, she had Kelly at her side. Kelly's the new programmer. She's quite funny, actually, and easy to be around. She's also deaf. It's really amazing how she lip-reads people so accurately. I've never been around someone who's handicapped, and I just had this sense of awe at how well she could adapt."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I agree that it takes a great deal of strength to overcome a disability like that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Which sense would you lose, Charles, if you had to give one up?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Pardon?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If you had to give up one of your five senses, which would you lose?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I haven't really given it much thought."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Come on! Pick one."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I can't. I'm quite attached to them all."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, for crying out loud. I can't believe no one has ever asked you that little hypothetical before. If I had to choose one, I'd give up my hearing. I mean think about it. If you were blind, you'd never be able to see the beauty of a sunset, or watch a good movie, or see history unfold before you when it's shown on the nightly news. You can't lose your sense of smell because it works hand-in-hand with your sense of taste, which means you'd pretty much lose two senses at once. So both of those are also out. That leaves just your sense of hearing and your sense of touch. And you don't want to go through life not being able to feel physical pleasure, hot and cold, the smoothness of glass, or the softness of a woman's breast. With hearing, what are you losing? Fucking car horns. People blabbering about mindless bullshit. Jack hammers. Snoring. Some annoying jerk sitting next to you who has a loud, whistling nostril."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That last one wasn't directed toward me, was it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. Your nostrils are just fine, Charles."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's good. Well, what about the sound of an ocean surf? Music from your favorite artist? A bird chirping a morning song? Wouldn't you miss those?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think I could live without all that. I can imagine music. Do you ever hum a song to yourself and hear it clearly through your head, replaying over and over again? You don't need hearing for that. Your brain can reproduce sound without any help from ears. I can easily imagine all the sounds I want to hear. I just get a sense that being deaf would be immensely peaceful."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sorry. Where was I? We got on this tangent on deafness and...oh, yeah! So I met Rachel in the lobby, and she had Kelly at her side. The first thing she did was to introduce me to her, and tell me how Kelly likes to write short stories like I do, and that we have this in common, and we have that in common, blah, blah, blah. Our whole lunch was like that. Rachel was really trying hard to hook Kelly and I up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you have no interest in Kelly?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think she's really attractive. I'll give her that. But I'm not deaf! She can do sign language, and I have no clue how to do that. Well, that's not entirely true. She did teach me how to sign \"asshole\" when Scott Collavito was putting his moves on her and she resisted. When she told me about it, I had to laugh. It's just more proof to support my belief that Scott is a swollen, festering gonad. By the end of the week, our whole department was signing \"asshole\" whenever Scott walked by. It was pretty fucking funny. But I just can't see myself with Kelly. She's almost too good for me. I think she's a little out of my league. Of course Rachel isn't exactly in my ballpark, either."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think Kelly realized that Rachel was trying to set the two of you up?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, definitely. It was very obvious. And a couple times at the table, while Rachel was going on about our similarities, Kelly and I just sort of looked at each other knowingly and smirked."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you talk to Kelly at all during this lunch event?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. She asked me if I hung out at the Bull Market after work. I told her that I hadn't been there in a while. They should definitely change the name of that place to \"The Meat Market,\" though. Usually, that's the place to go if you want to go home with one of your co-workers."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't think Kelly was trying to hit on me or anything, though it's hard to tell with the way she talks. I haven't quite gotten used to her speech impediment enough to pick up the inflections in her voice. I guess she doesn't talk completely normally because of her deafness. She sort of sounds like someone who has a really bad cold. I don't know if that's the best way to describe it. It's not distracting or anything...just different."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It sounds as if you like her."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I do like her. She's really a cool person."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But not someone you'd consider asking out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know, okay? This is all very confusing for me right now. When Sharon and I were in bed together this past weekend, it was like I had stepped back in time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You and Sharon..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Did the nasty. Yeah. We met and went out to dinner. I had a few drinks, and she came back to my apartment. One minute, the two of us were on the couch talking, and the next minute, Sharon's head was bobbing up and down in my lap."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Look, I know it probably wasn't the wisest thing to do. Getting involved with Sharon again is not my intention. I wanted to get laid, all right? I hadn't had sex in over two years, Charles. Playing with yourself gets a little old after a while and makes you yearn for the real thing that much more. I think Sharon knew I didn't want anything more than what we had that night. I guess you could say that we came to an understanding. Ha!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Cute."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But when I was making love to her, I could feel those old feelings emerging. I couldn't keep our sex at a purely lustful, impersonal level. I'm probably one of the few men on the planet who can't separate sex and love. Most men wouldn't give a woman a single moment's thought after they'd just fucked them. I can't do that. I get attached. I get emotional. I'm like a fucking girl."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't think mixing emotions with sex is necessarily a bad thing, Tom. Quite the contrary. I'd be more concerned if you had an emotionless sexual encounter. However, I don't like the idea of you getting involved with Sharon again. You and I both know that the two of you were together for all the wrong reasons."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm aware of that. But we've both grown since then, and I'm sure she's no more in a hurry to jump back into a relationship with me than I am with her. And my heart still pines for Rachel. I think. Fuck! Three fucking women! I'm just going to buy a Twister game and a bottle of baby oil, and then I'll call all three of them over so we can have a wild orgy. Call it \"Sexfest '98.\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't think that would be a good idea. How's the medication doing? Are you experiencing any side-effects since you've switched to Zoloft?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Nope. At least none that I've noticed. Except I think it took a little longer for me to get it up with Sharon that night. But I might have had a whiskey-dick, though."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "A whiskey-dick?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know, when it's difficult to get an erection because you're too drunk? Never mind."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, our time's about up. I'll see you in two weeks?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's fine. Thanks for rescheduling me last week, by the way. I had to go to that Seybold conference they held downtown."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No problem. Take care, Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Later, Charles."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 19th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Friday, September 26, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHi, Charles."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Tom. Come in and take a seat."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The last time you were here we discussed your feelings about this upcoming trip."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you know exactly when it's going to take place? You had mentioned sometime in October..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "October twelfth through the nineteenth."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Less than three weeks away. How do you feel about it now? Are you going to go?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I talked it over with Karina, and she's basically convinced me to go through with it. So I'm not going to bail out after all."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Karina?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Haven't I talked about her before? No? Well, we met on the Internet, of all places. Just don't spread it around, okay?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh, don't worry. Do you think it's a bad way to meet?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It just smacks of loser. It's funny, in a way. Couples I've been acquainted with over the years have met in the strangest places--one guy I knew met his wife at a car wash. And yet no one ever really criticizes or questions where you've met your significant other unless you say you met on the Internet. There's just this horrible stigma about it. You feel inferior to others when you tell people that's how you've met--like you can't pick up women any other way. I guess in my case, it happens to be the truth."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is this why you haven't told me about Karina before? Because the way in which the two of you met makes you uncomfortable?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. Maybe. She even told me not to tell anyone how we'd met. So I know it bothers her, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Could you tell me about her?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's my age and was born and raised in Brazil, but has lived in San Francisco for the past six years. I've known her over two months now. She had sent me an e-mail after reading my personal profile on America Online--an account I don't have anymore. She noticed that I was interested in writing and film making, and so she wanted to talk. I responded, and we ended up calling each other a few times and eventually arranged a meeting. We've been doing things together periodically ever since. I think she's very lovely. When I first saw her, there was something about her features that seemed familiar, as if I'd met her before. Karina's eyes remind me of Salma Hayek's. She's about five foot three and one hundred and twenty pounds and works as a sales rep for a broadcast company. I think she sells air time to sponsors or something like that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are the two of you romantically engaged?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We're just friends."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "By the tone of your voice, I take it you're not satisfied with that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not really, but there's nothing I can do about it. She recently broke it off with her boyfriend of five years, so she's in rebound mode right now. The first couple weeks after our meeting, Karina made several passes at me, and we even made out a couple times. Lately, though, she's gotten completely cold and told me that she doesn't want to get involved in another relationship and make the same mistakes twice--that's despite throwing hypotheticals my way only last month about wanting to start something. It's frustrating, because every time I'm near her I want to touch her, but I can't. Fuck! What a life. Why can every low-life on this planet get laid except for me?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you just want sex?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I don't just want sex. But it'd be fucking nice. I've developed a bond with her. We could definitely be good friends. But I feel it could be much more than that, if only I were Catholic. She wants someone who's particularly god-fearing, and I've made it clear that I'm not. So in her mind, we're completely incompatible."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Lately, though, we haven't been going out much. The main difference between Karina and me is that she actually has a life. She has friends. She socializes. But I fear the real reason she doesn't want a relationship with me is because I'm a complete zero in her eyes. She told me once that she has this problem being attracted to people whom she can mother. I'm sort of like this wounded puppy to her. She talks to me as if I have so much to learn--very patronizing, in fact--and therefore I don't think there's a lot of respect there. I guess I made a mistake when I opened up to her and told her I was seeing a therapist. Now, I feel like the only reason she ever calls is to use me for something."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She is going to school while she works. So a lot of times she'll come over to my apartment just to work on her term papers and reports on my computer. She also asks me a lot of computer questions. And lately, since she just moved in to a new apartment, she's asked me to come over, and I end up helping her unpack. After we're done, we'd usually sit down and watch a video together. But of course I can never cross the line while we're near each other. We can never be more than what we are now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you really believe that's the only reason she wants to see you...that she doesn't value you as a friend?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "In my mind, I feel like I'm not really an official human being to her. It's like she feels I'm safe to talk to because I don't really have half a brain, or have feelings, or could add any kind of self-reflecting insight to her life. Lately, I've called her house and get no answer. And I actually got horribly jealous because I imagined she was out with a real man who was giving her a really great time by injecting her with a really big dick. It drives me crazy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "To me, it sounds more like she wants a friend and perhaps makes excuses to see you--like coming over to use your computer and so forth. She may not want a romantic entanglement right now, but from what I've heard so far, I think you may be misinterpreting her intentions."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She may have been making excuses like that to see me in the beginning, but I don't think that's the case now--it doesn't happen anymore. She hasn't been to my apartment in three weeks. If I want to see her, I have to go to her apartment. She doesn't call like she used to, and whenever I call her, she's never around. She's now hooked up her answering machine. Goddamn it, why is this tearing me apart? I don't believe in destiny or anything. But out of nowhere, she'd came into my life and when I first saw her, as I said, I felt something. I felt like there was a very special quality about her. Damnit, I really like this woman. But it can't go on like this. It can't! It's not fucking fair!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's only been a couple months, Tom. Why don't you give her more time and focus on the friendship? Perhaps eventually she'll change her mind."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've already botched our friendship."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I sent her an e-mail over a week ago telling her I felt it was best if we didn't see each other anymore. I told her the reason was that I was attracted to her and wanted something more than she could give. I said that I felt she was just using me like all women use me, and that my life sucks, and that I don't want to drag her down with me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Then she sends me this reply saying that she doesn't see me that way, and that she really enjoys being around me, and that she won't give up on me so easily."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That doesn't sound like you botched anything..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Then last Saturday, I drank about ten beers and passed out early in the evening. When I awoke around one in the morning, I called her and woke her up and just started rambling about who the hell knows what. I'm sure I sounded like a lunatic, and I vaguely recall saying some rude things. I may have even scared her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And you think this phone call was disturbing enough that she won't want to talk to you again?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess so, because I haven't heard from her all week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "By the way, Charles, it wasn't just happenstance that I mentioned her name. I wanted to talk to you about this."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I know."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Why am I this way? Why is it that crazier, uglier, stupider people can still manage to find love in their lives, and I fucking can't? I mean, I know I'm semi-intelligent and semi-attractive. I know that because if I weren't, Karina wouldn't have shown the interest she did early on. I also know that if I didn't have all these fucking problems, I'd have a better job and lots of friends and a wife and kids and a dog that doesn't shit on the carpet. Instead I'm a dreary man going nowhere with a tedious, unfulfilling job, no friends, a lot of empty beer cans, and a cat who purposely shits in her litter box right when I've sat down to eat my dinner, so the whole fucking apartment smells like creeping death and my appetite is ruined and I flip angrily through the TV channels listening to people dissect Princess Di's accident about fifty million different fucking times, criticizing the tabloids for causing her death and banking on her misfortune while at the same time advertising their own network's six-hour special report on her. Then I watch commercials selling Princess Di postage stamps, and plates, and T-shirts, and toilet paper holders, and whatever the hell else they can think to stick a picture of Princess Diana on. And in the midst of this, in the midst of all this shit, I'm thinking, \"What a fucking life this is! Look how grand and important we humans are!\" Well, you know what? Fuck this life. There's nothing particularly precious about it. I just wish I could fade away, drift from society, and in doing so somehow become absolutely pure in my loneliness. Are you getting this all down, Charles?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Whew! I'll tell you, Tom--when you go off, you really don't leave much to the imagination. Try not to get too discouraged about your relationship with Karina. It almost sounds like you're purposely pushing her away to avoid being hurt. Take your time with her. And if she just wants to be friends, then you should try to accept that and build upon it. Give her a call and see if you can't patch things up, assuming there's any patchwork to do."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's so damn difficult to accept, but I'll try. Well, I think I've pushed about all I can out into the open. Shall we schedule for next time?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sure. Can you come in Friday, October 10? That would be the Friday before your trip."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The plane doesn't leave until Saturday morning, so I guess that's fine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Very well."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye, Charles."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Take care."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 32nd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Monday, September 28, 1998 at 12:00 pm.\nHello, Tom. Are you all right? Please sit down."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, I'm fine--as fine as miserable can be."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Would you like some tissues?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you sure?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, I'm sure."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Very well. Do you want to talk about what's on your mind? It's okay, Tom. Take a few moments if you need to."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm getting worse and worse. Lonelier and lonelier. I don't think I can go on like this much longer. I was flipping through different Internet sites the other night, and I found one that stored an archive of photos and videos related to death."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I hope you then drew the conclusion that suicide solves nothing."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It solves nothing, but ends everything, Charles. It's the one answer that everyone wants me to avoid, but I feel is inevitable. I can't live like I have been living for much longer. I don't want to be alone for the rest of my life. But if it's to be that way, it's better that \"the rest of my life\" amounts to only a few more months rather than a few more years."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Don't discount your progress like that, Tom. Don't you feel any improvement since you've been on the medication?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Drugs aren't going to make me more popular or more accepted by my peers, Charles. I'm a born loner. And I don't think it's a coincidence that the difference between \"loner\" and \"loser\" is only one letter. Growing up, I was never given the true opportunity to set a foundation for lasting friendships and relationships. In high school, while everyone else was throwing parties, drinking, getting laid, making friends, and having a general good time among friends, I was locked in my bedroom, illuminated only by a black light, listening to Led Zeppelin music. Consequently, my mother thought I was using drugs in high school. My brother used to tell me how she'd search in vain through my dresser for drug paraphernalia while I was away. It's funny how she mistook loneliness for drug addiction. I guess the symptoms of the two are pretty close."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "One often leads to the other."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess so. If mom were to go through my dresser now, she'd find the very items she sought so many years ago. I still have my pipe with a partially-smoked bowl that I last used with Karina. I sure do miss that girl. She used to let me hold her as she was sleeping on my couch the few days she spent the night. I wish I could hold someone that way right now. Thanks to her, I now have a thing for brunettes, especially the Irish, Latin-American, and Italian types."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've really gotten desperate in the love category. You're really going to like this one. I went to a video dating service last weekend."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really? What happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, they'd been sending me letters for months, and I just finally gave in and filled out this questionnaire and sent it back to them. It asked what type of woman I wanted to be with, what my interests were, and so on. So they called me back a week later and asked me to make a free appointment with them, which I did. It was easy making the appointment. Showing up for it was the hard part."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you showed up?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How much was it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Their fucking membership for one year was over two thousand dollars! I thought I was going to have a heart attack. What was even scarier was the fact that I actually considered it for about another 10 milliseconds."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did you say to the rep?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told her that this was nowhere near within my budget and, like a true salesperson, she then proceeded to negotiate the price. She eventually said I could try six months as a trial period, but they'd still need a $700 deposit from me that day."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you do it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hell no, I didn't do it! Are you crazy? Even if I were to spend that kind of money on a membership with them, could they assure me I'd ever find someone to be with? No. I mean, if I were to take that kind of money with me to some street corner downtown, at least I'd be assured a piece of ass."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "True."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "For all their services and fees, they couldn't promise me that. So I told her that I didn't want to spend anything today and that I'd think about it. Basically, I was politely telling her that she'll never hear from me again. And then she totally went into sales mode. She was really pretty shameless and ruthless about it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did she say?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Wow."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Pretty low fucking blow, don't you think? My jaw dropped when she said that, and she knew she had fucked up at that point. If there had been any chance that I'd go with the dating service, it was gone when she opened her fat mouth. But she didn't even have the decency to stop there. She went on to say, \"You have to ask yourself how much you're willing to spend to find the love of your life.\" I could no longer take it. Standing up, I replied, \"You should ask yourself how far you'll go to exploit the loneliness of others without losing sleep over it,\" and then I bolted out the door."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I certainly don't blame you. But I'm not sure I understand why you decided to do this now. During our last session, you felt overwhelmed with romantic opportunities in Sharon, Kelly, and Rachel."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I hardly see them as opportunities, unless you mean opportunity for heartbreak. That's the only thing any of them could promise me. I just felt that if I went to a service that matched me with a woman based on our mutual interests, I'd have a better chance at lasting companionship. I just never intended for it to be so damn expensive."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're not having second thoughts about that place are you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I have second thoughts about the idea of that place, but I won' t go back, not after the way I was treated."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Very well. Our time's about up, Tom. I don't like to hear this suicidal talk. We both know you don't want to end up that way. You do have something to live for, you have to give yourself a chance."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Of course I don't want to end up that way, Charles. But I also know that a lot of us don't have a choice when it comes to destiny."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I need to know, Tom, whether you're planning on committing suicide imminently? Are you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I'm not going to do it in the next month or so, if that's what your asking. But I'm not going to promise that I won't think about it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "We can talk about this together in our next session, all right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I suppose so, Charles."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. I don't suppose that you'd consider coming in once a week, would you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I really do have you worried, Charles. Not a chance. I'll see you in two weeks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. I'll settle for that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye, Charles."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Thomas."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 20th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Friday, October 10, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Tom. Come in."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hi, Charles. Thanks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tomorrow's the big day?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What does your itinerary look like?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Looks pretty busy--a lot of company briefings, meetings, and awards ceremonies with some free time to explore the island in between. I guess there's a giant marketplace down there in Port Lacuya that's worth seeing. If we have a lot of time on our hands, we might get a chance to visit some of the nearby islands. But from the looks of things, they're going to throw in a lot of boring company-related brown-nosing events to offset the fun."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How are you feeling about this trip now? Any second thoughts?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I'm really looking forward to it. I really am! I feel somehow that this is the start of a change for me--a change for the better."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I've noticed you're in much higher spirits than you've been in long while, perhaps higher than I've ever seen from you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. I don't know how to describe it, Charles. I've been depressed about my life's path and my future almost as long as I can remember. And then only a few days ago, I awoke with a completely different perspective on everything. I was suddenly overwhelmed with a sense of acceptance of my identity."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think this feeling will pass or do you think it's a sign of better things to come?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You won't believe me when I say this, but yeah, I believe things are going to really start happening in my life--it will be unlike anything I've experienced before. I feel energetic again, and I'm looking toward the next few months with a great sense of enthusiasm."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm very happy to hear this, Tom, but it all seems a bit sudden. I just hope you aren't trying to mask your anxiety with these feelings--not just from me but from yourself."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I don't think I am. I feel much more aware about things right now. It's like a quarter of my brain that had lain dormant all my life has suddenly activated, giving me a burst of clarity about what goals to achieve and how to make them happen."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. I'll have to admit you seem to have changed. Dramatically. I really don't know whether to congratulate you or caution you, Tom. How are things with Karina, by the way?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I called her back the night after our last session. We talked for about two hours. I let her know explicitly how I felt and why I had reacted the way I had. I told her I felt she was only being my friend when it was convenient for her and that she acted very patronizing toward me. She basically acknowledged that she had. We both agreed to cool off our seeing each other in any form for a little while. Besides, she has a very hectic quarter at night school, and she's investing more time than usual into her studies as a result. I haven't spoken to Karina since that night, but I'll see her before I leave--she's agreed to take care of my cat while I'm gone."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How do you feel about this? Have you accepted the situation?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I feel I have. It's time to move on, in more ways than one. I've wasted a lot of my life looking back on things and regretting all the opportunities I let slip from my grasp. I'm getting to an age now where I can't afford to ignore any more chances that come my way. I think my greatest problem in the past was waiting around for the big fish to swim by, overlooking the smaller ones that were more easily within reach. It's gotten to the point now where most of the schools have migrated to other waters and I'm running out of bait."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You must be ready for an island vacation with an analogy like that one."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I guess so. It's true though. I need to start giving myself permission to explore the chances that now present themselves instead of remaining idle."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It truly gives me hope to hear you say these things, and you seem truly optimistic. But there's this nagging voice in my head that tells me you're really just trying to make a sale. Are you simply attempting to convince me you're now okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't feel I need to convince anyone. I know how I feel, and I'm really looking forward to what lies ahead."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Then why did I just see murder in your eyes when I asked if you were trying to make a sale?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure I know..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Of course you do. Tom, covering up your pain with this flowery speech about change isn't going to erase your problems. Like it or not, you're going to have to deal with them head on."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I have dealt with them head on, Charles. I assure you, I really have changed since you saw me last. We've spent countless sessions dealing with a lot of the things that have happened to me--all the crap in my life that has made me a bitter, cynical man. Through those sessions, I've realized that all my time is invested dwelling on the past, and in so doing, I've only added to the negativity on which I reflect. I'm constantly giving myself new material to brood upon."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. We're in agreement there."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Good! Whether you agree about the rest of it isn't important to me. I've made my conclusions, and I feel it's time to act upon them."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It sounds to me like you have more plans than you're willing to disclose to me. Or perhaps you have no plans at all and are afraid someone might expose that fact?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My plans aren't concrete, if that's what you're suggesting."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm suggesting only that you're trying to make giant leaps when you should be taking small steps."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks, Mr. Armstrong."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm serious. All too often, I've heard you speak of wanting to take these great strides and make dramatic changes. But what you don't realize is that getting to that point takes a series of smaller steps."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You can't get from point \"A\" to point \"C\" without point \"B.\""
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I get the picture."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. Oh, is it time to leave already?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I have a lot of packing to do."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you want to schedule another appointment before you go?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually, can we leave that open for a while?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Very well."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You seem suddenly troubled. Is there something else?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Nothing, really. I guess you've really had me pegged all along. I really don't have this great sense of who I am. Last week, I read this article about people who have committed suicide. In almost every instance documented, their friends and relatives talked about this period just before they died where they'd seemed very satisfied and happier than they'd ever been--completely at peace. Once they had made the decision to die, it was like this tremendous veil had been lifted from their eyes, and they could see everything clearly, and all their answers were before them. In their final decision they found true happiness. I envy that feeling, Charles. I envy the way those people felt. And I admire them. I really do. Take care of yourself, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Wait a minute, Tom. Tom?"
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 33rd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Monday, October 12, 1998 at 12:00 pm.\nHi, Charles."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Tom. Come on in; take a seat."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How have you been?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "A little better since the last time you saw me. Not much, but I'm better."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's good; I was very concerned..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. I was a little concerned myself, especially after I started having wet dreams about the Golden Gate Bridge."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Those delicate lines, the sloping curves of steel, the chilled, polluted waters of the San Francisco Bay swirling seductively underneath..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm, I think I get the idea."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There's just something very romantic about the idea of committing suicide off the Golden Gate. I guess we have Hollywood to blame for that. Of course, the city is going to make it a lot more difficult to accomplish, if they'll build that new \"suicide-deterrent\" fence. I'm surprised the city's actually considering spending that kind of money on people like us. It's really rather touching."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All sarcasm aside, do you still spend a large portion of your time contemplating suicide?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. Lately, I've been spending more time contemplating all of life as a whole. Sunsets tend to do that to me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I really enjoy watching sunsets. I do it pretty regularly nowadays. The beauty and peacefulness of a sunset really sets my mind at ease. When I look into the western sky at dusk, I think to the future, to thousands of possibilities, wishing to realize my dreams for love in my life and for bigger and better things to start happening to me. When I was a teenager, back home in Pennsylvania, I lived in an apartment complex with my Mom and my brother, Alex. The residents all shared a very large swimming pool, with a clubhouse and a large balcony facing west, overlooking the pool. Late in the afternoon, either after school or during the summer breaks, I would climb the steps to that balcony and gaze at the sunset. I was very lonely even at that age, though I neither realized nor complained about it back then. The sun and I had this strange sort of bond--we were both lost, lonely souls shining brightly for all to see, only to slowly disappear against the horizon, taking our light with us, seemingly forgotten by all whom we once illuminated."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Very poetic. Why don't we delve more into that time period? What was your life like during your high school years? Were you very active?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not really, no. I played a bass guitar in the high school jazz band for a while, but that was about the extent of my extra-curricular activities. Like I've said before, most of my time was spent at home locked in my bedroom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you date?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Haven't I talked to you about this before? No, I never dated in high school. But it's not like I wasn't asked, mind you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How often were you asked out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "A few times. I guess some of the girls grew frustrated by the fact that I never took the initiative, so they resorted to asking me out. I always turned them down, though."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was too shy, for one thing. I was absolutely frightened of people and even more so of girls. But my shyness apparently didn't deter them all that much. I guess I was a cute teenager--I was once told I could get any girl I wanted if only I asked. It's a bit ironic that women used to approach me so much back then, but don't give me the time of day now. Life can be very cruel."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's your self-esteem talking. If there's one aspect of your personality that's most detrimental to your social life, it's your ability to be unjustly hard on yourself, Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Whatever. I just wish I had done things differently in high school. I wish I would have gone out with those girls, for one thing. Maybe I'd have more confidence in myself now. I should have accepted Jennifer's invitation to that stupid Sadie Hawkins dance. If only I didn't screw things up with her by throwing away that damned rose..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hindsight is always twenty-twenty, Tom. What happened with the rose?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Jennifer, one of the more attractive girls in my high school, really hounded me during my junior year. And I completely blew her off. It makes me sick to my stomach thinking back on it. It's tying me up in knots just bringing it up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "On Sweetest Day, students brought roses for their boyfriends and girlfriends and passed them out in class. I can't remember the color scheme exactly. I think that if you got a yellow rose, it meant that it was from a \"friend.\" If you got a red rose, it represented love. Well, I received a red rose that day, and it was from Jennifer."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did that make you feel?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It made me feel confused. There were several emotions coursing through me at that moment. I'd been made fun of by my peers earlier in life, and I think that had really gotten to me. I never felt like I was ever on the same level as everyone else. And those feelings of inadequacy built up in me well into my high school years. When I got the rose and read the little card that came with it, I got the impression I was the butt of Jennifer's joke. I didn't really want to believe that she was actually interested in me. Instead, it made more sense that she sent a rose just to mock me. So I stood up, carried the rose to the wastebasket, and threw it away."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You threw away the rose?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Can you believe that? And Jennifer was right there at the time. When she saw me do it, she was stunned. I watched as she began whispering to a couple of her friends sitting nearby, and then she started crying. She got so upset that she had to leave the classroom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What went through your mind at that point?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "More confusion. I realized I had made a big mistake, but it was too late. It was definitely not one of the proudest moments of my life. Years later, I heard she started having a long series of bad relationships. I understand she's still single now. I have to wonder how much that incident affected the way she feels about herself now. Maybe I'm partly to blame for her loneliness as well as my own."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you ever attempt to apologize to her?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think I did indirectly. I told one of her friends to tell her I was sorry, but I never actually spoke to Jennifer. In fact, I don't think I've ever spoken directly to her, unless you count her answering machine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You left an apology on her answering machine?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess you could call it that. This was years later, just before I got out of college. I was home one weekend, very drunk, and started thinking about Jennifer. I found out the number to her dorm at the school she was attending, and decided to give her a call. Her answering machine picked up, and I just left a message, which she never returned, of course."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did you say in the message?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I gave my name and reminded her that we had gone to high school together. I said I really regretted hurting her and wished I had gotten to know her back then. Then I told her to take care, left my number, and said goodbye. After I hung up, I started crying."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did it surprise you that you began to cry after hanging up the phone?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not really. There are a lot of nasty habits that I developed in high school and have never shaken off. Most of my anti-social behavior stems back to those days. It was back then that I perfected the art of closing inward. So it's not at all surprising that I look back on those years with so much regret and pain. Can you imagine, Charles, having no friends for four years, graduating, and then moving to another level of social isolation on a college campus? It was terrible. I must admit, though, that I at least learned how to be completely self-sufficient. But I really didn't have a choice, did I?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "There were choices, but I imagine you made the best of what you thought you had available to you. It's unfortunate we didn't meet ten years ago."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, thanks for saying so. I guess I should have sought therapy back then. But there were just too many aspects of myself that I didn't want to face."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "We're about out of time, Tom. I'd like to talk further with you about your high school and college life in our next session. Would that be all right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. I guess it would be."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Very well. I'll see you in two weeks."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Fine. Two weeks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Take care, Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "See you later, Charles."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 34th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Monday, November 2, 1998 at 12:00 pm.\nHi, Charles."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Tom. Please come in."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How was your week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Uneventful, even by Tom Darden standards."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Just the normal routine. Sometimes getting caught up in routine can be a good thing, though."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How is that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's helped me get my mind off things...off my problems."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's good. Last time you were here, we talked a bit about your high school days. I would like to pick up on that and move on to your college years, if we could."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What do you want to know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "We can be as specific or as general as you'd like. But let's start off with, for example, your first impressions of college. Why don't you describe for me your thoughts and feelings the first day you arrived on campus at...which school did you attend?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Penn State, like my brother."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Uh, not a bad school."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I was surprised I got accepted--my SAT scores weren't the greatest. I definitely squeaked in. The fact that my grandfather went to Penn State didn't hurt my chances, either. Funny that a guy I never knew could help me from beyond the grave."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So do you want me to start talking about my first day from the point I moved in and unpacked--the whole sha-bang?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If that's where you'd like to begin, sure."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, the reality that I was finally in college didn't really hit me until my mom had hugged me goodbye and I was left there alone in that dorm for the first time. I remember that moment as one of the loneliest in my life. I had never felt more abandoned, more homesick. School wasn't scheduled to start for another two days, and I was the first person on my floor to have arrived besides the residence hall assistant."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did you do those two days?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I cried a lot. I blubbered myself to sleep both nights. I didn't really know how to react to my new home. All I could do was cry and wait for my roommate to show up. I wanted to meet him and the rest of the students on my floor and get the introductions over with."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What was your roommate like when you met him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tom was several years older than me. I guess he took some time off after high school before enrolling at Penn State. It's funny that his name was also Tom. The rest of the floor had to develop special nicknames to differentiate the two of us. I was \"Silent Thomas,\" for obvious reasons, and he was \"Tom of Porsche,\" since he drove one. His family was pretty well off. It was amazing how much stuff he had managed to pack in that car when I went to help him unload."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He fit all of his belongings inside a Porsche?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, no. Most of his stuff was in his girlfriend's car. Leah was a junior there. I was really taken aback by how attractive she was. She had jet black hair down past her shoulders and deep green eyes. I would have to say I developed an enormous crush on Leah, since she ended up spending a lot of time in our dorm that year."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did she know of your feelings?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That I had the hots for her? I'm sure she did. Leah was a very perceptive, confident, and dominating person. She definitely wore the pants in her relationship with my roommate. For such a petite woman, she was very commanding and convincing. She knew how beautiful she was and knew exactly how to use that to her advantage. I liked Leah, though, because she was always willing to talk to me when no one else was around, and she always had a reassuring air about her that made me feel less homesick. She put me at ease, one of the first women to succeed at doing so. But Leah was also partly responsible for one of the most traumatic experiences of my life."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Like I said, Leah was a very manipulative woman. She derived a certain level of pleasure from screwing with the minds of men. And despite my roommate's macho posturing, he was a complete pushover when it came to his girlfriend. One night, when I thought I was going to be left alone in the dorm for a significant amount of time, I began to relieve myself by masturbating. Well, Leah had forgotten something she left in the dorm, and Tom gave her the keys so she could return and get it. She ended up walking in on me and catching me in the act. I never felt more embarrassed in all my life."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Masturbation isn't something to be embarrassed or ashamed about."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know that. But like I've told you before, I'm a very active whacker, pud-pounder--whatever you want to call it. I'm definitely not against boloney-bopping. I'm a chicken-choker all the way. It was the circumstances that humiliated me. While I was masturbating that night, I had been fantasizing about Leah. And then suddenly, there she was standing at the doorway, staring at me with my dick in my hand."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I can understand your predicament."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, it was very unnerving. What made matters worse was that she didn't even have the decency to leave. She continued to walk in, casually strode to Tom's dresser, picked up her purse, told me to have a good night, and then closed the door behind her. I think she derived pleasure from catching me, and I guiltily wondered if she knew she had been the object of my fantasies. The next night, though, really changed my relationship with Tom and Leah forever."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happened then?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "This is going to be a little difficult for me to get out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's all right, Tom. Take your time."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just don't want you to get the wrong impression about me after I tell you about this. I'm not proud of the experience in the least."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I will not pass any sort of irrational judgment on you, Tom. I assure you of that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay. I'll trust you not to. The next night, we were all in the dorm together, and Tom and Leah had been wrestling around on his bed. I was seated at my desk, trying to finish writing a paper. Soon, I realized that the wrestling had stopped and that they had begun touching each other much more gently and intimately. I could really begin to feel this incredibly thick tension in the room, to the point that the hair on the back of my neck raised on end. Before I knew it, I had dropped my pencil and was watching the couple making out. They began kissing, slowly at first, moving their hands up and down each other. I wasn't sure they realized I was still there, but at the same time, I also felt like perhaps this was all somehow being orchestrated on my behalf. The thought that I was somehow watching something I shouldn't be really started to arouse me. Tom had unbuttoned her blouse, and as he continued to kiss at her neck, Leah looked over at me and said, \"You can stay and watch, if you'd like.\" Tom glanced over at me, smirked, and then gave me a wink, as if to say, \"Yeah, Tom, stick around; this is going to get good.\" So I just sat there, watching, rather stunned. I felt some of the strangest sensations I had ever experienced as they continued undressing and kissing each other harder. My whole body began to tingle. It was like we were all doing something so incredibly wrong and risky that the urge to flee that moment would overwhelm us. But I stayed. Soon I realized, as Tom removed Leah's panties and started performing oral sex, that I had an erection. I wanted to leave the room. I really did. There were a few seconds in which I thought I would surely run out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know what kept me there. You read about this stuff happening to people or watch it in an X-rated video, and you think, \"I wish something like that would happen to me.\" But when you're actually in one of those situations, there's a lot of emotional conflict going on inside you. I was torn between my own morals and my raw sexual desire. Ultimately, I think I was disappointed at how quickly my instinctive sexuality won over reason. I had soon taken my own pants off and began masturbating right in front of them. Neither one of them seemed shocked by this. And as I jerked off, Leah sat up and pushed Tom back so that she could give him a blow job. After a few more moments, Tom and Leah started having sex. A thousand thoughts were buzzing through my brain, most of which were negative. I thought about how wrong this all was, it was like I was committing some horrible crime. But I kept watching, I kept masturbating. I finally stood up from the chair and approached the foot of the bed, by Leah's pillow. As Tom continued to thrust at her, she turned her head to me and whispered, \"Do you want me to put it in my mouth? Hmm?\" As I continued to slowly beat off, I just sort of nodded stupidly, and she grinned. I soon realized she had no intention of performing oral sex on me, she just wanted to toy with me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did this episode make you feel afterwards?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If I had been more comfortable with my own identity and self-esteem, perhaps I'd look back on the incident differently. Hell, maybe I'd be bragging about it. But as it stands, I regret that it ever happened. I felt like I had been taken advantage of, used. The only thing I got out of that experience was more confusion about myself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you talk to Tom or Leah about how it made you feel?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I spoke to each of them separately later on. I found out from Tom that they had led a swinging lifestyle for a few years. I didn't really know what the term \"swinging\" was. Leah explained to me that she and Tom agreed to sleep with other partners, often in the form of group sex. She apologized to me later, because I told her that it made me feel very uncomfortable. My friendship with the two of them was somewhat strained after that, as you may imagine. But they agreed not to involve me in anything like that again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Was that the first sexual experience you ever had with another person?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. It's funny. Some guys would have killed to have done something like that. My cousin brags to me about similar experiences he has almost routinely, but I've never told him about this. I just don't want people to know that it happened. Tom told me that he and Leah were both bisexual. So while I had been getting off watching them have sex, he and Leah had gotten off watching me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Meaning?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Meaning, did I have some sort of pent-up, latent homosexual tendencies I'd never realized? It really bothered me afterwards. To them, I was merely an extraneous sexual device to aid in their lovemaking. But to me, the whole scenario served as a metaphor for my own sexual and social frustrations. At the time, I was more worried about being gay than I was about how the incident related to my other personal problems on a broader scale. That was my biggest mistake. I must have dwelled on that threesome for months. Well, I guess I can't really call it a threesome. It's more like a two-and-a-half."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I can't believe I've revealed this to you. Do you realize you're the only person besides Tom, Leah, and Sharon who know about this? And who knows how many people each of them has told? That thought alone scares the hell out of me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Why do you think? I just don't want people to know that about me, that something like that happened. People already wonder what sexual orientation I am because I never seem to be around women. Hell, I think even my own mother thinks I'm probably gay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why do you think that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The last time I went home to Pennsylvania, I took a drive to Pittsburgh to visit my brother Alex and his fianc��, Martha. They have a little son named Jordan who has recently started talking up a storm. While I was there, in front of everybody, Jordan said to Martha, \"Mommy, why does Uncle Tommy live by himself?\" Alex and Martha grinned and looked at me sort of nervously. And I recall that there were a few seconds of silence. I wanted to throttle the little runt. Damned if he weren't so innocent with his questions. If a three-year-old child can figure out the obvious, what must everyone around me think of my social life?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you believe everyone assumes you're alone because you're a closeted homosexual?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not gay, damnit!\nI don't know what people think. I just know what they tell me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And what's that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That they thought I was gay, or assumed so, because I never went out with women. They don't understand that I'm not a closeted anything. I'm just afraid to be around others. People can't comprehend how another human being can have so much trouble doing something so basic as socializing. They can't possibly know what it's like for me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I want to go ahead and stop here for today, Tom, as it appears we've run over our usual time. I feel there's a lot more to discuss with regard to your college days and the feelings they've since evoked. How's your supply of Zoloft? Do you need me to write you another prescription?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I think you better. I'm just about out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How has the medication been?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I haven't experienced any side effects that I've noticed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Very well. I'd like to increase the dosage by ten milligrams. We'll do a six-week trial on it and see how that goes."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Fine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And I'll see you back here in two weeks."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Take care, Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Bye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 35th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Monday, November 16, 1998 at 12:00 pm.\nHi, Tom. Come in."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How was your last two weeks?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Surprisingly, not too bad."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't look so disappointed, Charles."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, no. I'm quite pleased to hear it. You haven't described a week on a positive note in quite some time."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, it has been a while."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So tell me, what has occurred to make things so upbeat for you lately?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm getting out of the god-damned Helpdesk, for one thing. I had applied for a position that's been posted for a while, and I interviewed for it shortly after our last session. I'm somewhat shocked, but I actually got the job."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's wonderful news, Tom. Congratulations. In which department will you be working?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The Technical Writing department. I'll start next week. Since this new millennium bug program called SIIMole was created, there's been a high demand to develop a lot of documentation for it, and SII is apparently understaffed in that division. So I'm using the company's desperation as my ticket out of the Helpdesk."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sure your hiring had nothing to do with anyone's desperation, Tom. You're quite modest about both your talent and your personal achievements."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, yeah, butter me up as much as you want, Charles, it makes my co-payments to you easier to part with."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, in any case, I'm glad you've found a position more suited to your education. How do you think this will affect your feelings for Rachel? I know there's a lot of frustration on your part because you're attracted to her and she works with you in the same department."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I knew you were going to ask me about this. The fact is, Charles, I haven't really been giving her much thought lately. And even when I do leave the Helpdesk, Rachel is still an SII employee. And as far as I'm concerned, work relationships should be avoided at all costs. Do I think things between us will change when I start my new job? No. If anything, we'll drift apart from each other. That's the sad part. I developed some close friendships with these people, and now I'm going to be placed among people I neither know nor wish to be friends with."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Why would you say that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The whole Information Technology department at SII is brimming with conceit and egocentrism. Even though the Helpdesk is technically part of I.T., we've always been regarded by the rest of the department as a sort of rogue group of people, not worthy of being treated with the same respect that others are afforded. We are all mouthy, edgy, vulgar, and boisterous in our own little section. Every other segment of I.T. is comparatively quiet, over-disciplined, and unfriendly. I once walked through a room full of programmers and was amazed at how subdued the whole atmosphere was. Everyone was ignoring one another. The cubicles marked off everyone's perceived field of vision. If you weren't inside someone's cube, you didn't exist to that person. Very strange environment, even to me. I consider myself anti-social, but some of the I.T. employees make me look like a social butterfly. It must come with the territory. People who are around computers all day just seem to want to plug into their console and tune out everything around them. It's really rather Orwellian to observe."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. That's not my impression of that department. If anything, I would have said that programmers incorporate play into their jobs more than any other group at SII. Perhaps you are mistaking \"busy\" with \"anti-social?\""
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Now you're starting to talk like the other I.T. people do. They say that we at the Helpdesk have more colorful personalities because we can afford to, because we don't spend our time doing much of anything else. Well, that's not true. The Helpdesk is the rear-end of the Information Technology department. We take more abuse, hear more complaints, and solve more problems than any other group does. If it weren't for our taking the brunt of the phone calls, and the troubleshooting, and the solving of all the issues that we do, the rest of the divisions of I.T. would have a lot more work on their hands."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like you feel very unappreciated."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "To say the least. Which is why I can't wait to get out of there. Once I start my duties in the Technical Writing department, I'll be exposed to the programming group in a much more intimate fashion. And I already know that I like some of the people there."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I thought you said they were all egocentric?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not all of them; Kelly isn't like that, for example."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh, yes. The deaf..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So what if she's deaf? Why did you feel the need to point that out?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I wasn't pointing it out, Tom, it was merely..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Whatever. She's more woman than most I've met in my life."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think I'm beginning to see why you've abandoned your interest in Rachel."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I haven't abandoned anyone. But the more I think about it, the more I like being around Kelly and talking with her. Maybe it's just because I have to talk to her one-on-one quite regularly, while the other programmers have the luxury of contacting us via telephone. I feel more comfortable around her now than I did in the beginning. I'll admit that her handicap intimidated me at first. But now, I don't really recognize she has one. I sometimes think about asking her out, though right now, I'm sort of dating someone else..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, I guess dating isn't the best term to use. It's more like fucking. Sharon and I have been meeting pretty regularly now. At least once a week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I take it that wasn't an approving \"hmm?\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not here to judge you on your relationships."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Then I'm afraid you're not much use to me as a therapist."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I hope you are mindful of the emotional repercussions you are bound to experience by engaging in any involvement with your ex-girlfriend, sexual or otherwise."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I am. I think I am. But getting together with Sharon at least for one night a week has really put me in better spirits lately. It's good to hold someone in my arms at night from time to time, especially following a really good lay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That may be so, but it wouldn't be wise to expect anything more from Sharon than what you have with her right now."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. I'm trying not to. But when I'm cuddled up with her, though, I can't help but think back to the time I had deeper feelings for her. It reminds me of how we used to see each other. Maybe that's a bad thing in the long run, but for now, it feels pretty damn satisfying."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you practicing safe sex?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sometimes, when I actually have a condom handy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Occasional protection is pretty worthless, don't you think?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm aware of that, Charles. But I know Sharon. I think she's pretty particular about who she sleeps with nowadays."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That may be so, but VD and AIDS don't harbor a class bias against any one group of people. Anyone can contract a disease, rich or poor, dirty or clean."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're starting to sound like a god-damn public service announcement, Charles. I half expect Magic Johnson and Barney to waltz in here at anytime."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Just please, try to be careful, Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Whatever you say, Charles. At least I'm finally getting some on a regular basis. My dick is a happy dick--a happy dick indeed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, well, it's clear that your mood has changed considerably since our last session."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Like I've said, it's been a good two weeks. What are you doing for Thanksgiving?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't have any specific plans. How about you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll be at Sharon's. We'll probably spend most of the day thinking up new ways to use a turkey baster."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Come on, Charles, at least crack a smile, for Christ's sake. You really need to talk to somebody about your moodiness."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you still taking Zoloft?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, every day. Seems to be helping out a bit, don't you think?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All lewd comments aside, yes, it does appear that way."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, take one sexually repressed, anti-social young man and give him a room and a woman for a few hours, and you'll be amazed at how his outlook on things will change. But I suppose the chemicals you've put in me are doing the trick, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Very well, let's stop for today. Next time, I'd like to focus back on some of your earlier experiences, particularly your years with your step-father."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, shit. You had to say the \"S\" word, didn't you? What are you trying to do, put me in a bad mood again so you can milk more money out of me?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Would it be okay to discuss him next time?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We'll see, Charles. It depends on what mood I'm in. Quite frankly, I'm feeling very good lately. In fact, I'm not so sure how much longer I want to continue coming to see you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I believe we have more to discuss, but of course it's up to you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "All right. I'll see you in a couple weeks then."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. See you then, Tom. Have a happy Thanksgiving."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You, too."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of Telephone Conversation between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Thomas Darden, Thursday, September 4, 1997 at 6:30 pm.\nHello?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Charles? This is Tom. Tom Darden."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh, hello Tom. What can I do for you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I apola...apologize for calling this late but I wanted to let you know I won't be showing up for our session tomorrow."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh, did something come up? Tom? Tom, are you there?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Huh?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I asked if something had come up."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh...um, yeah."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you okay? You sound...intoxicated."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes! Intoxicated! Drunk on life!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's actually \"high on life\" but..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You want it all but you can't have it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Excuse me?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's in your face but you can't grab it!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What on earth is that? Some kind of song you're singing? Tom, you're starting to get me worried. Is everything quite all right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Everything's A-O-K."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Everything certainly doesn't sound..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, got to go now, Charles...the old ball and chain is calling me...wait a minute, I don't have a ball and chain. Loser!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm a loser, baby, so why don't you kill me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom?"
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 1st Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Samuel Eldrich, Thursday, May 21, 1998 at 2:00 pm.\nDoctor Balis?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes. You must be Mr. Eldrich. Hello, please come in."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Uh, yeah. I'm Mr. Eldrich. What a hoot! Just call me Sam; I'm only a kid."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right, Sam. Please, have a seat."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I...uh, I don't have to start talking about my relationship with my mom or anything, do I?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Not unless that's the problem that brings you here. We're here to talk about the issues that are bothering you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay. Well, my problem is that I want to kill myself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Why do you want to kill yourself, Sam?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I'm just not worth keeping alive. That's why. It's nothing fancy; I just don't deserve to live, that's all."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What makes you think that you don't deserve to live?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well...jeez, do you want me to go through the whole story?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, I do. I want to understand what's going on in your life that makes you want to end it. Then, perhaps, I can help."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay. Oh, hell. Then I'm going to have to go back to my grandparents."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. Take your time; we'll go at your pace."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks. Can I have those tissues for a minute?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Certainly. Here you are."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks again. So, where was I?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You were starting to say something about your grandparents."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh that's right. Man, I'm really spacey lately. Anyway, ever since I last went back to see my grandparents, I feel this sort of downward spiral took over my life. I didn't want to see them again before I graduated. Shoot, I'll graduate in about two weeks. Damn. I can't even keep up a train of thought anymore."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's all right. Use as many tissues as you need."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks, Doc. Do most of your patients take this long just to get through the first two sentences?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sometimes."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So I'm not some sort of freak for being such a crybaby?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, and crying is not a bad thing. It can be very biologically productive and is emotionally healthy."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's sort of like flushing the emotional poisons out of my eyes?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sort of."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, thanks. I think I'm ready to go on now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Please do."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Like I was saying, I didn't want to see my grandparents before I graduated. The last time I saw them was at my grandfather's funeral, back at the end of September, in my junior year of high school. My mom took her father's death pretty hard. He used to always call her Dolly. He called every Sunday morning. Anyway, my mom's mom, Granddad's wife...hey, are you taking notes on me? Is anyone else going to see those? Is the insurance company going to have to see them to check if my treatment is legitimate?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, Sam. Everything that goes on here is confidential except if I feel that there's an imminent danger of you harming yourself or someone else, okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Whew. Okay. I'd always heard it worked that way. I just don't want to feel like, \"This call may be monitored to assure optimal customer service,\" you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, I understand. But you don't have to worry about that, Sam. Now, you were talking about your grandfather's funeral."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's right. Well, we actually had two funerals. Nana--she's my mom's mom--wasn't exactly in the best of mental health by that point. Since we didn't know how she'd react and everything, we held a sort of pre-funeral memorial service for her benefit. This way, she didn't have to deal with being around all those people."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Was your grandmother seriously grieved by her husband's death?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, that's the thing. She has Alzheimer's. We didn't know if she'd go off on everyone who was there, or if she'd just go catatonic, or if she'd do something else completely. She was already in a nursing home at that point. In fact, about the time she went into the nursing home, Granddad moved into an apartment complex right next to the nursing home just so he could live next to her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. When you think about it, it was about the only thing he could do. I honestly don't think he could have been separated from her even for a moment. It was such a cheesy old-folks romantic sort of thing, but it was still sweet. We were glad that he died first. With her as far gone as she was by then, she was a lot less attached to him than he was to her. At least, that was what we thought. At any rate, if she died first, he would have died from a broken heart. And that would have been the icing on a hard life."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. What was your grandmother's reaction to the service you held for your grandfather?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She cried out loud, just like you'd expect a real person to do. Wow. That was a real cold thing for me to say. I didn't mean it to sound like I didn't think of her as human. It's just hard thinking of someone who barely even recognizes you as a full member of the family. That's all right, Doc; I'm already intimately familiar with where you keep the tissues."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is this when your suicidal thoughts started?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, we still had some relatives left in that city--like my mom's brother, James--but he wasn't doing that well physically. We couldn't exactly expect him to take care of Grandma like he was a spry, young man."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Where did your grandparents live?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, they were in Kansas."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. How did James' inability to take care of your grandmother make you feel?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did they take it seriously?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, they didn't. And why should they? It really was a stupid thing to wish, but I couldn't help it at the time, Doc. I was just so torn up over losing my grandfather and then torn up again at having to see Nana without anyone in the family to look after her and keep her connected to the real world. I felt absolutely powerless. And that feeling of powerlessness spread out to feeling powerless over every aspect of my life. When I started feeling like that, I just got a general feeling of helplessness swelling up inside of me. And so I...shoot! Can I have a minute to pull my train of thought back together?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sure."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay. Deep breaths. \"Wax on, wax off. Learn the crane kick, Daniel-san.\" Oh, man. That's got to be the first time I've smiled all day."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad to see you do it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Okay. So anyway, after I got this feeling of helplessness going all through me, I descended pretty quickly into a feeling of hopelessness. If someone's floundering around, feeling like he's got no way out of where he is and how sad he is, I'll bet he gets hopeless pretty quickly, too. By the time the summer between my junior and senior years of high school rolled around, I had gotten to feeling pretty damn worthless. What good is a guy who can't even pull himself out of what's supposed to be a completely natural grief process?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Grief is an extremely powerful thing to overcome. Adults, with plenty of experience with death, often have problems for years after someone close to them dies."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "All right. I keep thinking that I'm a freak for feeling like this. And that's part of what makes me feel so damn low all the time. I feel like any normal, sane person would be able to easily pick himself off and say, \"Okay, Sport. He's dead, and Nana's in a nursing home. There's nothing you can do. So just get off your pity party and get on with your life.\" But not me. No, I had to keep slipping down farther and farther, letting the guilt eat into me deeper and deeper, until there was basically nothing of myself that I recognized left."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Had you suicidal thoughts like this before your grandfather's death?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it was never as serious as this before. But, yeah, I've had some pretty good trips down into the ultimate pit of self-loathing, as I call it. But I've always felt like there was something that was trying to tug me up before, you know? Like the hand of God or something."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you religious?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, there's a laugh. You know, I can probably answer a bunch of trivia questions about which saint did what and how many books of the Bible there are. But as far as being really close to God, I'm even worse than your average, stereotypical, guilt-ridden Catholic. The thing is that I know there have been a lot of times when I could have reached out to a priest or something and said, \"Hey, Father, I've got some serious things going through my mind. Can you help me talk about them to God?\" Well, I could have done something like that, but I felt like I had to be the big man and keep it all bottled up inside of me. I felt like I should be able to deal with it a lot better than I did. Shoot, I should deal better with it now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Lord knows I need the help. I don't think God and I are exactly on speaking terms right now. So I guess I'm going to have to turn to people for help until he decides to show up in my life again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. I can't help you with the religious part. It sounds like you miss having that in your life. Perhaps you might talk to a priest about that. It might do you some good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe. I'll think about it. It's going to be a long time before I'd feel comfortable opening up to anyone like that about this. I don't want to talk to someone who's in a position to judge me, especially before God."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's up to you. I think you should try as many options as are available to you to help you out of \"the ultimate pit of self-loathing.\""
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "\"Angels and ministers of grace, defend us.\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That sounds familiar from somewhere."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Star Trek IV. Doctor McCoy quoted it from Hamlet right before they shot into a time warp around the sun."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Interesting. And speaking of time..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I know. I'm sorry if I made you late for another appointment."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, we're just fine. Before you go, how do you feel about taking medication?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Damn. I hoped that wouldn't come up. Well, I'd hate myself for having to take it. That's why I've waited so long to start therapy in the first place. It took this absolute crisis point to make me realize that I can't just bottle it up inside myself anymore. Yeah, I'd take the medication, if you think it's necessary. Grudgingly, but I'd take it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. I'm not prescribing anything for you right now. I just wanted to know what your feelings were on the matter so that I could consider your treatment options."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Wow, a doc who is actually interested in his patients' opinions on treatment. I'm impressed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How do you feel now, Sam?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "A lot better. It helped just being able to get some of this off my chest."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. I'm glad to hear that. I'd like to see you every week, if possible. Does this time work for you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, for now. We'll have to see about times and stuff after graduation. I have to get a summer job, so we might have to change my schedule to make it work with that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "We can do that. Well, congratulations on finishing high school."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you. Until next week then. Same psych-time, same psych-channel!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Sam."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Bye, Doc."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 2nd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Samuel Eldrich, Thursday, May 28, 1998 at 2:00 pm.\nHi, Doc."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Sam."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "How was your Memorial Day weekend?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It went very well, thank you. How did yours go?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was hoping you'd ask, actually."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why is that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, do you remember how we were talking about my grandparents? Well, of course you do. If nothing else, you have those notes to refresh your memory. Anyway, the whole significance of veterans who had given their lives for their country made me think of all the veterans who died in the past. And that, in turn, led me to thinking about Granddad."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was weird. I'd tried to just put him out of my mind for the longest time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why was that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, when he died, I fell into this really deep blue spell. I didn't go as far as...it wasn't as bad as last week, but I still felt this all-pervasive sense of sadness that really started to carry over into the rest of my life. It affected my attitudes about a lot of things. For the most part, it was like all of my feelings were devoted to grieving over him. When it came time to deal with the rest of my life and how I felt about it, I didn't have any capacity left to feel. It was like I was numb inside all the time. Most people would probably have seen something wrong with that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you didn't?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not really, no. I'll admit that it felt a bit weird to not really feel anything. Well, I guess I did feel things, but my feelings were pretty indistinguishable from the sadness I felt over Granddad's death."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you remember having any positive thoughts at that time?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I'm sure there were plenty of them, but they didn't fit with the overall mood I was in. I've noticed that when I get really sad, I stop remembering the good things and only remember the things that make me sad. Maybe that's why I can spiral down so easily once something really bad happens to me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's not uncommon to remember only the bad things during a depression."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So you think I'm really depressed?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "In our last session, you made it sound as if the suicidal urges continued to arise far after your grandfather's death."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, they did. I went on numb for about three months. Then one day, right before finals, I told myself, \"Okay, grief time is over. You're not going to spend the rest of your life feeling sorry for yourself and missing him, so just get over it. You've got finals to study for, so get to it.\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And did it work?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. From that moment, I was completely grief free. I know that's not how it's supposed to work. I know that most people can't get over their grief like that. But you have to understand that the feelings most people spread out over years, I concentrated into three months. It was basically the same amount of grief, just experienced all at once. Besides, if I didn't pull myself out of it then, I might have sunk as deeply as I did last week a year sooner."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you notice your grief slowly diminishing or did it stop right after you decided to stop grieving?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was just one day. It didn't look like I was going to feel better anytime soon unless I took some pretty drastic steps. So I took them."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you had any grief flashbacks related to your grandfather's death?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. That's why this Memorial Day was so weird. I started having all these memories of him. He was the shortest guy in the whole cavalry, yet they gave him the tallest horse. A lot of the guys in his unit laughed about it, and from what I know of Granddad, he probably laughed, too. He always had a good sense of humor, though he'd always tell the most wretched puns."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But what stuck out most in my mind was how generous he always was. When I was thinking of all the veterans who gave their lives for the country, I thought about Granddad giving his life for his family. All his life, he slaved at the insurance business that he started up to provide for his family, and he went out of his way to be fair to people. He also provided work for family members that were hurting at his business, but that eventually backfired on him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, the details aren't really that important. It boiled down to one of Granddad's nephews stealing his business away from him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was a terrible shock. The whole family couldn't stand the guy who did it. To this day, we don't speak of him. He's one of those types that does absolutely horrible things to you, sends you a card and some flowers, and expects everything to be all right again so that he can take you to the cleaners some other day."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you ever talked to this nephew?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not really. He's my mom's age, so I haven't ever really had any personal dealings with him. I know that no one on my mom's side of the family can forgive him for what he did. And why should they? He's shown no signs of true remorse whatsoever. He never gave back the money he gained or anything. He never even said he was sorry to anyone's face. He always hid behind those damned cards."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I can see that you have strong feelings about him."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You bet. And I know at least three people who probably would be physically violent to him if they ever came near him. That was one of the reasons he wasn't even invited to the funeral."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. It wasn't just a case of a minor family squabble; that bastard cheated Granddad out of everything he'd worked his whole damn life to build! I'm sorry, I shouldn't have said that...well, not like that, anyway."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's okay to express your feelings in here. This is a safe zone where anything short of physical violence can be explored."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So I can rant and rave and scream if I need to?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, you can. But only do it if that's what you feel you need to do."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay. No drama shows for your benefit or anything."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Exactly."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I can deal with that. Anyway, when Granddad's nephew screwed him over so nicely, it was like he took away Granddad's soul. He couldn't be nearly as generous with us as before--he had a lot less to give. He trusted too much, and that was what killed him. That, and he loved too much. Damn it! Do you have any more tissues?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Here's another box."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks. Like I was saying, he was just this wonderful guy, and he ended up with practically nothing to show for it. It just shows you how fair life is."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sometimes, it's not fair."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It makes you wonder what being good really does you in the end. But then, I remember how people perceive each of them. Granddad died as the family saint and martyr, while his nephew is seen as the Judas who we all wish would go out and hang himself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So your family still has these intense feelings toward this nephew?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Some do. The ones that were involved in the business with Granddad, like his son, my uncle Jim. He would rip the guy limb from limb if he could. My mom still won't speak of him. But I guess I've given up hating the guy. I wrote a poem about it once. It really helped clarify things for me in my head."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad that you've been able to give up the extreme negative feelings."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You had said that all these memories of your grandfather's death and the circumstances around it triggered feelings within you. Can you talk about that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, yeah. Well, for example, last Sunday when I was in church, I was wearing the watch he'd given me. It was the watch his cavalry unit chipped in and bought for him when it was his time to sign off. It meant a lot to him; I couldn't believe he gave it to me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Please, go on."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well anyway, as I was sitting in church, I looked down at that watch and realized that I never felt like I was properly dressed up without it. Then I realized who had given it to me--our family's saint and all that--and I took a quick stock of myself and how I compared to him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did you conclude?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That compared to him, I'm a failure. He was never so weak as to need professional help with his problems. He could deal by himself. He was strong enough to do that. With all the economic and family advantages I have over him, you'd think I could get through it a lot easier, that I'd have the strength to deal with emotional challenges. You know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean by all the economic and family advantages that you have?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, he grew up with just his mom in a time where being a single parent was a terrible thing in society's eyes. And here I am with my two parents. My dad alone can provide everything my family wants and needs. But Granddad had to go to work when he was just a teenager to support his family. He sent support checks to his mom until she died. He had to spend a lot of his energy just to get by. He should have barely coped, yet he did just fine. And here I am, safe and secure, and I can't get over a simple death or someone being put in a nursing home and not remembering me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "By having gone through so much adversity from such a young age, your grandfather had to keep building strength within himself to constantly deal with the situations around him."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess I had my first taste of adversity at a relatively advanced age compared to him. I haven't had the practice in dealing with bad times like he did. I'm not nearly as used to bad times, and when they hit me, they seem like a much bigger blow. Is that what you mean?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You've led a different life."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I guess. But I still feel worthless when I try to live up to the standards that he set."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "His standards don't apply to you. Right now, you're working on building a foundation of coping skills that will help you cope with life in the future. And you're allowed to develop at a different pace from your grandfather and in a different way than he did."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "While I guess it's nice to know that; it's still hard not to feel inferior to him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand, and I think we need to work on that. Are you feeling as badly now as you were when you first came to see me?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm still really low, but I'm not thinking of killing myself in the near future, if that's what you're asking."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When you think about suicide, do you have a particular plan on how to end your life?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I haven't sat down and figured out how to off myself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does suicide seem like a real possibility to you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I'm not going to kill myself. I'm just feeling like it wouldn't be any great loss, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I am trying to assess if you pose a danger to yourself. I'd like you to promise me that you'll give our sessions together a chance to work before you consider something drastic, all right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Of course. That's why I'm here."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. I think that you are suffering from clinical depression and we have some drugs that work exceedingly well for people suffering from depression. Depression is a disease. It isn't your fault, just like getting the flu isn't your fault. And it can be effectively treated with a combination of medication and therapy. So I'd like you to think about taking medication, and we will return to this next time, okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "All right, Doc. I guess our time is up?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm afraid so. You mentioned some poetry; if you wouldn't mind, I'd like to take a look at it. I'd also strongly recommend that you keep a journal of what you're feeling. You don't have to show it to me, but I think it will be helpful for you to track your progress."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, that sounds fine to me. I'll try to bring you that poem next week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Very good. I'll see you next week, then."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Until then, Doc."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Sam."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 3rd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Sam Eldrich, Thursday, June 4, 1998 at 2:00 pm.\nHello, Sam. Please come in."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it's official, Doc."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What is?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm officially a high school graduate."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Congratulations. For some reason, I thought you already had the ceremony."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, seniors didn't have classes for the last couple of weeks. It was something about having to get grades computed early so they'd know if we should get a real diploma or a fake at the graduation ceremony. Of course it's not like a U.S. high school diploma really means much worldwide anymore."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you planning to go to school overseas?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I guess I'm still spouting the propaganda they drummed into our heads when we started the IB program."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "IB program?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Jeez, I'm starting to think that no one outside of high school educational system has ever heard of it. IB stands for International Baccalaureate. It's like an Advanced Placement program, except that you're required to take at least four classes in different subject areas a year instead of picking one or two classes in your academic specialties. Some of the courses also last two years. In the end, the exams that you take aren't just scored against performance nationwide. They're sent across the globe to be graded and compared with how students across the world scored."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Interesting. It sounds demanding."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. They say that it's supposed to prepare us better for college. With all the late nights and seeming lack of social life I've had because of it, it better do something fantastic for me. Anyway, even though I've graduated from high school, I'm really waiting to see if I got my IB diploma."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When will you find that out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They said that we should get the results in the mail by mid-July."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think you have a good chance of getting it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I'm pretty sure I do. I'd still like the confirmation in the mailbox, though, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand. You mentioned late nights and a restricted social life; do you feel this program put you under a great deal of academic stress?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You'd better believe it. There were a couple of times when I just wanted to quit the program and get out from under all that pressure. And I think there was one time that helped contribute to my little snap two weeks ago."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What was that time?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, for English class, we were reading Eugene O'Neill's \"The Iceman Cometh.\" It was depressing as hell. If any of your patients come in reading it, tell them to stop before they get to the end."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What was so bad about the ending?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, throughout the whole play, this guy, Parritt, had been saying how useless his life was. At the end of the play, he jumps off the building in which all the action of the play takes place and kills himself. But all the people inside--all of them know he's done it--just keep laughing and partying as if nothing's happened."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "This confirmed what I'd been thinking about all along. If this guy--whom everyone in that building supposedly knew and loved--could kill himself and nobody even cared, why in the world would it matter if I were to kill myself? Maybe I'd be one of the lucky ones and be able to slip off unnoticed, unmourned, and unloved like that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sam..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know, Doc, I know. It probably sounds crazy to anyone on the outside...on the outside of what I'm feeling and why I'm feeling it. Anyway, can I finish the story?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, but we'll need to return to the subject of how you're feeling now."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "After a while, I couldn't even read the rest of the play. I just kept thumbing back to that scene, trying to convince myself that it showed how the world would react if I were to kill myself. Then I thought that jumping off a building brought too much risk of surviving with severe brain damage. I searched through my mind for ways to kill myself which wouldn't have a risk of brain damage. I finally figured out that slitting my wrists would probably work well. And even if it didn't work, I'd have the scars to remind myself that it didn't work."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you still have a plan like that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doc, it wasn't much of a plan to begin with. It was just a preferred method at that time; there was no elaboration on when or where I'd do it. As you could probably guess, I wasn't doing well on the notebook--I was too fixated on that scene. I figured that I should go in and talk to my teacher about either getting a serious extension on it or having some sort of replacement assignment so I wouldn't have to deal with that play or that scene anymore."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did that work?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know, Doc, I just realized that my whole obsession with this one detail of the play was like that guy in \"The Telltale Heart,\" except that I didn't want to kill the play because of the detail. I wanted to kill myself and lie underneath the floorboards, dismembered."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sam, do you feel that you pose a great threat to yourself right now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doc, that was how I was feeling about four months ago. I'm almost done with that, I promise. The play does turn out better than I'm making it sound right now, although now I've probably spoiled the ending for you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's okay."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "To make it short, when she heard what it was doing to me, my English teacher told me that I didn't have to do the notebook at all. I can't tell you how much better I felt after that. She was the first person I was able to tell about how badly I was feeling at the time, and she didn't judge me to be a horrible person worthy of death as I saw myself. The real kicker was that I didn't even have to do a substitute assignment; I think she saw that dealing with having to go to class while that play was being studied was work enough for me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Now, Sam..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There's a little bit more which will lead right into how I'm feeling right now. I promise. When I was writing the IB exam for English about a month ago, I wanted to prove to myself that I was over that play. So I included an analysis of its structure in the essay. I figured that was innocuous enough to not require me to go into great depth about what happened in that final scene. I think the essay I wrote was pretty good, but it depends on whether the graders see it as a fresh take on an old clich�� or just more pseudo-intellectual drivel."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did it feel to write this essay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, given that I snapped about two weeks after writing it, I'll let you be the judge."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think it was the act of writing an essay about O'Niell's play that triggered your depression?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Bingo, Sherlock. I knew that all those degrees on the wall weren't from some mail-order company."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sam, do you still feel that no one would care if you committed suicide?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "To be honest, Doc, yes, I do. I don't see what there is to miss about me. I feel like I'm a person who has messed up his internal life so badly that I'm not even worth keeping alive any more. The only thing that keeps me from doing it right now is that I'm not exactly sure that God completely agrees with me yet."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think God wants you to stay alive?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's that whole jazz about being created in God's image. If nothing else, God took so much trouble to create my soul that I don't think he wants me to screw it up. But damn it, Doc, it's already screwed up! And no amount of talking about it is going to unscrew it. I've just got to learn that I'm completely fucked up and that there's absolutely nothing I can do to change it. I've got to learn to deal with it and move on."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sam, you have to understand..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "At least I've got to learn to keep other people happy. My own happiness has basically been declared D.O.A."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sam, do you have any plans to kill yourself right now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, Doc. There's nothing concrete. I just have that thought about how knives won't cause brain damage."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sam, you sound as if you're very close to committing suicide. I need for you to tell me exactly how close you are."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not that close, really...well, not as close as I was two weeks ago. I think you're overreacting, Doc. You're just seeing my thoughts unedited, as it were. I edit them a lot myself before I go out and do anything."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think that you are likely to follow through on these wishes to end your life?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not anytime soon, anyway, Doc. I've got my thought editors--what I think God wants for me and what I think is my duty as a member of society--to take away the urgency from my desire to die. But I'm trying to change God's opinion on this and show him that I'm really right on this one--I should be left to die. If only God wasn't so damn stubborn..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sam, I think that you might be helped by an antidepressant."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Great. Give me something to dope me up so my arguments against God lose their coherency."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's not like that, Sam. Your suffering from depression. Depression is a disease, like the flu. What you're feeling right now is a result of that disease. The medication I'm going to precribe won't dope you up, but it will help you fight this disease. The antidepressant is not a cure in and of itself. It's just a tool to help you get better."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Why do I need to get better? I already see myself in a much clearer light than any of you on the outside do."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Your perceptions of yourself right now are highly skewed toward the negative. You've almost exclusively focused on the negative things in life, and you give no credence to the positive. You need to regain a balance and be able to assess yourself accurately."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If you say so."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Would you be willing to take an antidepressant?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I guess. If what I'm feeling is true, a drug that's supposed to clear up my thinking should let me keep thinking the way I do right now, right?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. Do you know if anyone in your family has taken an antidepressant before?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm...I think an uncle on my dad's side took Paxil to pretty good effect."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think that Zoloft would be more appropriate for you than Paxil. So I'm going to write you a prescription. Do you think you would try to commit suicide by taking an overdose of drugs?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay, I'll write you a prescription for a month's supply. It usually takes around four weeks for the drug to take effect, so please give it a chance to work. You take one pill each morning."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Fine. Whatever."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sam, I'm still very concerned about you. Will you be all right until next week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. If nothing else, I'll go out with some friends to take my mind off all this. Really, Doc, you've seen the worst of it today. I'm sorry to have bothered you with it and made you all concerned."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sam, it's not a bother to me..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know, Doc. It's just a pleasantry, I guess. Is there somewhere I can go fill this quickly?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "There's a pharmacy downstairs. They'll fill this for you right away."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay. Thanks, Doc. I'll see you next week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Take care, Sam. Please call me any time you feel an urge to..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 4th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Sam Eldrich, Thursday, June 18, 1998 at 2:00 pm.\nHi, Doc."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How are you doing, Sam?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, I suppose."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. How was your interview?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, the interview went pretty well. I'll start working on Monday, though there is a slight problem with that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What is it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I have to get my wisdom teeth pulled about two weeks after I start. I swear, I can't remember when things are scheduled for the life of me. There was this whole thing with having to cancel our appointment last week, and now this. I think I'm getting spacier by the day."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think it's a problem if you need to take a day off from your new job to get your teeth done?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm. I guess I can reschedule my dentist appointment. But I've sort of steeled myself to have it all done that day, and I don't exactly want to put it off any longer. I can't stand the thought of even such minor surgery. I hate scalpels and needles and all that junk."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The sight of blood is extremely repulsive to me. Shoot, even thinking about blood makes me a bit nauseous. That's one major reason I'm not even thinking about going to medical school. While the thought of making people better appeals to me, I couldn't begin to imagine myself treating some major traumatic wound with all sorts of blood gushing from it..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sam, are you still feeling as badly as you did during our last session?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, Doc. I'm just swell. Peachy keen. I have a new job. I'm a fresh high school graduate. I'm going to a great university next semester. Why in the world would I possibly feel bad about myself?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Just a bit of sarcasm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No shit. Damn, but you're brilliant, Doc. Do you think I'd still be here if I wasn't feeling like an absolutely worthless waste of human flesh?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sam..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Relax, Doc. Don't get your panties all in a bunch."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sam..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just mean that you're getting all worked up over nothing, over a nobody. Besides, I know that deep inside, I don't have the courage necessary to take that final step. I don't even have the ability to do a simple thing like run a knife down my arms a couple of times. What the fuck is wrong with me? I am so pathetic."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Here are the tissues, Sam."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doc, why can't I even get up the nerve to at least try to kill myself?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't think you really want to end your life, Sam. Your religious beliefs, for one thing, tell you it's the wrong thing to do. And as a human being, you have a very strong sense of survival--a strong desire to live. I think you're here trying to work..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, yeah. Life goes on, life thrives, life will never give up. It's all propaganda from the biology textbooks, as far as I'm concerned. Maybe that applies to animals with no higher brain functions. But human beings can take an accurate assessment of themselves and can reasonably conclude that they're worthless in comparison to the rest of their species. Well, I don't buy that I have a reason to live."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What is it that makes you feel so worthless, Sam?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My inability to stop the deterioration in my grandparents' lives showed me how worthless I am in general. And this is just one example of an overall trend. It's an experiment that confirms a scientist's theory."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you really believe that your assessment is truly accurate?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Of course it is. I wouldn't be so convinced of it, if it weren't completely right."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you sure about that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sam, I believe that you are magnifying one event in your life and overgeneralizing its importance."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, of course I am. You see? You're just backing up exactly what I'm saying. I can't even think straight. I really don't deserve this existence."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Your depression in responsible for distorting your image of yourself. Your depression is masking and distorting your normal thought patterns."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Great. So now I've got some sort of mental filter that's...hmm, let's see, I have a filter that is warping my \"proper\" perceptions?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And you see your job as \"helping me\" by removing that filter and thus taking part of who I am away? Now I know that what they say about shrinks is right. You only care about making people think what you want them to think and not what they truly perceive and think. You're just all mind controllers, not doctors."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not trying to get you to think or act in a certain way..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Bullshit."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sam, listen to me. All I'm trying to do is point out the reasons you're feeling so bad about yourself and give you some tools to combat your negative thoughts. Whether or not you ultimately choose to implement these tools is up to you. I'm not trying to control your mind. And I will only interfere if you're an immediate danger to yourself or others."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's just wonderful, Doc. So as long as I don't have the courage to act, you're fine with me being a spineless bastard. But if I ever get up the nerve to really go through with suicide and have the audacity to tell you, you'll throw me in the nut house and pump me full of drugs that would take away my courage."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sam..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, no, Doc. I see how it is now. You're giving me that Zoloft crap to subtly change the way I think so that I'll be eager to accept your mind controlling suggestions. But if that doesn't work, you'll toss me where they can give me industrial-strength drugs guaranteed to make me a walking, talking, ever-smiling, ever-bubbly, mindless idiot."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, Sam. That's not the point of therapy, and you know it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Then I think you'd better tell me exactly what is the fucking point of all of this. So far nothing has changed for me. I've been on your drug for...what is it? Two weeks now? And I don't feel jack shit happening. In fact, I'm more convinced than ever that I'm really meant to die. You said it was supposed to help me feel at least somewhat better. But under your care, I only feel worse. What sort of quack doctor are you, anyway?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You need to remember that the drug you're taking needs time to take effect. We need to build up sufficient doses of serotonin in your brain to make you feel better."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Of course. Serotonin--the happy neurotransmitter. So that's how you do it. You make me get all nice and happy artificially in order to make me think that I'm doing better and to make me feel like everything's okay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The intent is to give your brain normal levels of serotonin and to restore it's normal function. It's similar to insulin injections for diabetics."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Uh, marvelous. So I'm born fucked in the head. I'm naturally low on brain chemicals. Shouldn't that be a clue to you, then, that I was born defective?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Would you call a diabetic person defective?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. But I'm not diabetic."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "By your standards, a person born with diabetes is born defective and deserves to die."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, their problem is physical. It's not a natural facet of their personality, like what I've got. What they take doesn't screw their mind; it just corrects a physical flaw."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "In a similar way, Sam, Zoloft isn't acting on your mind. Your problem is physical in just the same way that a diabetic's problem is. Zoloft is simply restoring the natural balance of chemicals in your brain. Insulin keeps a diabetic from going into a coma so that patients can go on and live their lives as they wish. Zoloft performs a similar function."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "A person with diabetes can chose to eat fatty foods and to lead a sedentary life even if it's bad for them. But they get to live that life because of insulin. In the same way, after we get your neurochemical levels back to normal, you'll be free to choose to live your life the way you want to."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So after the drug kicks in, I don't have to listen to a damn thing you say? And I won't be compelled to listen to you by the drug's action?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Not at all, Sam. Zoloft will just level the playing field for you. When it takes effect, you'll be free to do what you wish to do and not what your depression is forcing you to do."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But what if I still want to kill myself? What'll you do then? You said you would throw me in the loony bin..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If you are a risk to yourself or to others, I would have to commit you involuntarily. But in the hospital, the doctors' goal would be the same--to get you better, to get your neurochemistry back to normal."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But what if even after they're back to normal and everything, I still want to die and want to take my life?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If you still want to die, then you're not back to normal. You'll be undergoing rehabilitation until you are no longer a danger to yourself."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's like prison. We keep murderers, or attempted murderers, in jail until they are no longer a danger to the society. But how is my suicide socially destructive? I'm just a worthless shit. What the hell does it matter if I lived or died?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sam, imagine the pain that you would cause your parents and your family by killing yourself. That's one way your desire to die and suicide would be socially destructive."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Damn. I guess I understand. So I have to give this Zoloft thing a bit more time before I do anything?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay. I guess I wait this out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You can also take steps to make it easier for yourself. It may be a clich��, but thinking positively and trying to see past the negative mental filter you've developed will help you greatly."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "All right. I'll try."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay, Sam. Will you be all right until next week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I will. I'll be able to distract myself with work starting Monday, so I won't think about all the depressing stuff as much, anyway."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's good. I'll see you next week at this same time."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Sam."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Bye, Doc."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of Telephone Conversation between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Samuel Eldrich, Thursday, June 11, 1998 at 1:00 pm.\nDoctor Balis?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "This is he."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, okay. Doc, this is Sam. I won't be able to make it today. I have to...well, I've got a job interview scheduled at the same time as our session today. I just spaced it out and didn't realize the conflict until yesterday. By then it was too late to call back to reschedule the interview."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Uh, I want you to know that I'm doing fine, though. I'm just fine, Doc. The medication is starting to work, I think."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you feel better than you did last week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. I think so, anyway. Doc, there's just a lot going on right now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand, but I'm still concerned about you. This is not a good time to miss sessions."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know, Doc. But I've got this interview to concentrate on. It's my first interview for a job in a while, so I've got to make sure that I'm ready for it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. But..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's probably not a big deal for someone like you--you've been working for a while. But for me, every little interview has to be a big deal so that I can do my best."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Can you make it later today, after your interview is over?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't think so. I'm not really sure how long it's going to take."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you planning on coming in next week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think so. Yeah, I can make it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm happy to hear that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And Doc? I'm sorry for the short notice. I've really been a space cadet lately, especially with this interview coming. Shoot! I need to go and get ready. I'll see you next week at the same time. I mean as long as I don't have to work or anything."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, please call me, Sam. I'm sure we'll be able to figure out some times that would work for you. You really shouldn't be missing any more sessions."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "All right. Bye, Doc."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Sam."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of a Telephone Conversation between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Mary Eldrich, Thursday, July 2, 1998 at 1:05 pm.\nIs this Doctor Balis?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, this is. Who's calling, please?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "This is Mary Eldrich, Sam Eldrich's mother. He wrote out something for me to tell you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, and he insisted that I read it to you. He wrote, \"Doctor Balis, right now I'm swollen up like a chipmunk. Since I can barely take in any nourishment for my body, I sincerely doubt that I can take in any nourishment for my mind today.\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So Sam hasn't taken well to having his wisdom teeth extracted?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, now that they're out, he's not having any problems aside from the obvious. Oh, but he was so frightened to go into the oral surgeon's...oops."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What is it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My son is making motions like he wants me to be quiet about all this. Okay, Sam, okay! Here, I'll go into another room. No, Sam, I won't talk about your surgery with the Doctor anymore."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Ms. Eldrich..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There; it's safer in here. Goodness knows that I won't have to put up with his gesticulating. Doctor, I was wondering if you couldn't possibly tell me how my boy was doing?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm afraid that I really can't discuss that sort of information with you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not looking for any sorts of details; I'm not trying to pry into his personal life, and I'm not looking to find out exactly what he's said. I just want to know if you think that he'll come out of this all right."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Ma'am..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, you have no idea how worried Sam's father and I have been about him ever since that day he came to see you. We've felt so helpless during all this. We know that there's nothing we can really do for him save being supportive and making sure that he takes his medication and keeps seeing you. That's why we'd like to just get some sort of idea as to how he's doing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If you couldn't give us a general prognosis, could you at least just tell us what you think his prospects for recovery are? Do you think he can get better?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I can tell you that other patients that I've seen who share Sam's problems have made excellent recoveries, if they were willing to work through their problems. I have similar hopes for Sam's prognosis."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you, Doctor. This will help my husband and me to sleep much easier. Sam should be in to see you next week at the same time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. Thank you for calling me today, Ms. Eldrich."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No problem, Doctor. And again, thank you. Oh, my...my son's ringing his bell to tell me that he needs me. I really should be going. Again, thank you, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Ms. Eldrich."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Mary Eldrich, Wednesday, July 8, 1998 at 4:20 pm.\nDoctor Balis?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "This is he. Who's calling please?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "This is Mary Eldrich, Sam's mother again. Doctor, Sam won't be able to come in for his session again. He's gotten terribly sick."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh dear. What's happened to him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He's gotten a horrible infection in his wisdom teeth. Doctor, the oral surgeon thinks that Sam might be causing it himself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you mean Sam is responsible for the infection?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They say that it looks as if he's been picking at the wounds from the surgery. It's like he was trying to scar himself or something."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Has he said anything about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He can't even talk right now. His mouth is so swollen, and his gums seem to bleed so much. I haven't seen him picking at it or anything like that, but then again...I can't be home all that much to watch him. If only I hadn't gone back to work..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Ms. Eldrich..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know, I know. I can't go blaming myself for trying to support my family and bringing home a paycheck that will put my kid through college. I just wish I could be in two places at once right now. But, Doctor, it really seems like Sam might be trying to do something serious to himself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think that he poses a current threat to himself?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure; I don't think that he does. But he seems so depressed, and now with what the oral surgeon said...I just don't know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Has Sam been taking his medication?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Would it be possible for you to take some time off work to be with Sam?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I believe so. Is that your recommendation?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It would be helpful if you could make sure that he wasn't doing something to harm himself. Make sure that he is taking his medication; that's very important. Remember, though, that there may be other explanations for Sam's behavior besides a desire to hurt himself."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Like what?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Perhaps his gums became infected following surgery and the itching has caused Sam to pick at the wound."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I hadn't thought of anything like that. When Sam's father and I heard about how Sam had been picking at his teeth and causing such bleeding, we hadn't thought that there might have been an infection already. Hmm. Well, Doctor, I should be going to Sam now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. Take care. Thank you for keeping me informed about Sam's condition."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. I worry about him so. Thank you, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Ms. Eldrich."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 11th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Cassandra Evans, Monday July 7, 1997 at 12:00 pm.\nHi, Doctor. Long time no see."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Cassie. It is nice to see you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I suppose it would be more helpful if I come more regularly. It's just that it's so difficult to get out of bed and get myself going. And when I actually get dressed and ready to go out, I would much rather do something fun. No offense, of course."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "None taken. I understand. It would be more useful if we could make this a more regular part of your life, but I'm here when you need me."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So, what brings you here today?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Why did you start seeing him for treatment?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My bones have been aching, and my back goes out so frequently it's impossible to sleep or even lie down. So a friend recommended that I try a chiropractor. This doctor is relatively close by. His adjustment--the back cracking--seems to help a little bit. I don't want to give up before I give him a real chance, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand. Do you have a medical doctor as well?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, I'm in contact with Doctor Halsey. He's such a dear heart! I adore the man. He's still playing with different drugs and stuff. Still researching. In fact, he went to a conference a few weeks ago, but I don't think he learned anything new. When I mentioned it during our last visit, he didn't say much. And he knows how upset I get when there isn't any good news."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does he know about your chiropractor?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. I don't think he's fond of chiropractors. But he supports anything that might help me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think it would help if the two of them discussed your case?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Ha! The chiropractor, Doctor Newland, despises the medical profession and doesn't even believe in the germ theory! He said germs don't cause disease--the subluxations in the back cause people to get sick. So I doubt they would get very far. I suppose you could say they're members of a mutual admiration society--not! He he he he..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. What else have you been up to?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, Elise and I are playing phone tag--she's the woman from human resources. She's supposed to get all the documentation for the social security application. Anyway, I think she has sent in most of what they need, but there are a few loose ends. From what I've learned about the whole social security mess, I think they automatically deny everyone who applies and then give opportunities for a review. This could go on forever and a day. Quite honestly, I somehow doubt it will ever get anywhere."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does that bother you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes and no. I mean, I paid into the damned thing. Now I'm ill and deserve the benefits. I could certainly use them. But I hate admitting the defeat--that the CFIDS has won and I've given up hope for a normal life.\nWell, whatever. I just doubt that it will be worth all the aggravation. You know, they sent me to three doctors already? The first one, a psychiatrist, was very nice and sympathetic. He explained the medical review to me and answered some questions. Then I saw a general practitioner/internist as well as a neurologist. They both were assholes--totally arrogant and clueless as to what CFIDS is and how it affects a people. How they ever got appointed to their positions, I will never understand. And when I returned home, all I could do was cry. It's like rubbing my nose into the fact that I can't work like a normal person, can't play like normal person, can't do anything like a normal person. Why don't they just tattoo the word \"loser\" on my head and get it over with?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You and I both know you aren't a loser. You can't let them get to you. Remember, they might not be doing it well, but they're only doing their job."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, I suppose. David always makes fun of them. He says they aren't real doctors and can't hold down a real practice. What does he call them? Let me think...medical piranhas. Isn't that a riot?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's pretty good. How are things between you and David these days?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Pretty good. Actually, he's been quite considerate lately. I guess he picks up on my level of pain. I think I tend to get testy with him when I feel rotten. He calls me pissy-girl. Kind of funny, don't you think? I used to take offense, but I cooled off, became calm, and realized what he meant. I can get a little nasty and irritable when I'm feeling awful."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think everyone does, to a degree."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "A PWC?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I'm sorry. A Patient With CFIDS. The whole thing kind of reminds a person how awful this disease is. But I wouldn't go that far--suicide, I mean. There are times when all I can do is curl up into a ball, rock myself to sleep with tears streaming down my face, and beg God to put an end to my suffering. But there's more to life, isn't there? There are people who are worse off. But this type of thing brings awareness and the severity of the illness to the general public."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad you don't have the urge to follow in this woman's footsteps."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Me too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you still having very intense dreams?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes! Funny you should ask. Do you recall the one with the black and white rats? Well, I had it a few more times with slight variations. So David--being the wise ass that he is--bought me two ceramic figurines. I think they are supposed to be mice, but it's a joke between us. He really has helped me laugh at myself and lighten up. Anyway, shortly after putting them on the bedroom dresser, those black and white rat dreams stopped waking me. Go figure. The newest dream revolves around a mountain. I'm on a trip of some sort. Definitely leisure. Some friends and I are hiking on a trail and get to the base of a mountain. They begin to set their gear up, and I realize I've forgotten mine. As they begin the climb, I follow up just using the rope they dangled behind them. It gets colder and colder and then dark and cloudy. The ropes start to get slippery, and I begin to fall. First, I'm just slipping a bit. And then, I'm tumbling quickly down the mountainside. It didn't feel like I had climbed very high up, but the fall seems like an eternity. When I finally hit the ground with a hard thud, I realize I've lost my sight. I start to feel \"things\" pecking at me, stabbing and probing. Whatever they are get harder and harder, faster and faster, and more and more ferocious. I begin to scream with all my might, but no sounds emanate from my mouth. It's truly horrid! And I have trouble waking myself up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That sounds very unpleasant. What do you think it means?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I tried keeping up with the crowd, but I wasn't prepared to do so, right? That's why I didn't have the appropriate gear. The falling probably has to do with my fear of getting worse and falling into despair. The loss of sight may have to do with my feelings of losing my way in life. And the probing may be the interference of medical professionals. You know how I feel about them. I'm not sure about the clouds and the cold."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You've thought about this dream a lot."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. I try to keep a journal by the bed. That way, I can jot down notes when I wake up and reflect upon them later. It's come in handy. And shortly after I crack the riddle of a dream, it goes away. Makes me feel like I'm helping myself a little."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Dreams can provide great insight, and the journal is an excellent tool. I'm glad you're trying to find ways of helping yourself. Our time's just about up. Do you need a few minutes by yourself before your ride arrives?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, please. I'm getting a little weary. Can you get me a glass of water, please? I would like to take some medication."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Of course. And, Cassie, I know that it's difficult for you to come here, so please don't hesitate to call me when you need to talk. Okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Cassie."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 12th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Cassandra Evans, Tuesday, July 15, 1997 at 5:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor. Thank you for squeezing me into your schedule. I had such a bad night yesterday. I didn't know what to do, or where to go, or who to turn to. I spent most of the morning crying."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Cassie. Why don't you tell me what's bothering you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Gosh, I'm not sure I know where to start. Let's see, David came by yesterday like always. Everything seemed pretty much status quo--same shit, different day. He brought over take-out for dinner. We were going to watch a video and maybe play a game of cards or something. But he seemed quite fidgety and began to snap at me over the stupidest things. Why didn't I bring more than two napkins over to the table? Why do I always leave the window open a crack? Everything I did seemed to annoy him. Then we got into an argument over finances. He has been very gracious to me--lending me money if I need it for something, paying whenever we do anything together. I mentioned that I might take a friend out for lunch sometime this week. She just got a promotion, and I wanted to do something special for her. Not extravagant, mind you. It's not like I was going to take her to the Four Seasons for the weekend or anything like that. Just a quiet lunch somewhere--a little more upscale than a drive-thru. Well, he freaked! I have no business doing something like this--how am I going to get the money? Do I think he's made of money? Just totally unleashing on me. It was so odd, so unlike him. I was doing my best to hold back the tears. I didn't want him to see me cry, but I felt so humiliated! I wasn't going to ask him for the money to take her out, and she has treated me...and him many times!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Why do you think David overreacted like that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sure he feels the need to ensure that I'm well taken care of, especially the necessities. But he's not my father, and I never asked him for help. It's bad enough I'm in the position that I need it--that I can't help myself or pay for my fair share of things. But dominate! It makes me feel so worthless and insignificant. Since I stopped working, the only thing I can afford to give people is me--my time and so on. But I'm ill, and my time is not worth so much these days--it just doesn't go very far anymore. I know my friends must think they are nurses or babysitters of some sort when we go out together. They have to pay for me, pick me up, drive me wherever, take care of me when I'm not well. It sucks! And this one woman has been a doll since the first day I met her. I have some rainy day mad money. This is how I decided to use it. Why shouldn't I be able to make that decision without a consultation with David first? It makes me feel like I need to go behind his back when I want to spend money."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you explain your feelings to him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I started to, but then I stopped."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why? Was he not listening?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, he had an attitude for starters. Whatever I said wasn't going to be good enough to explain my actions. And I guess I was afraid."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Afraid of what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you think he was going to hurt you? Hit you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No! He'd never do that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Then what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess I was afraid of sounding stupid, of him getting even more upset with me, of feeling more pathetic."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay, let's address each issue separately. Feeling stupid. Did you think David was going to think you were stupid?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe. He can twist my words around. And before I know it, I've agreed to one of his points and my whole argument has been deflated. That makes me feel stupid."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Next time, try not to make it an argument. Consider it an \"explanation\" session. Explain your feelings and allow him to describe how he feels. Don't allow interruptions. Allow each other to say your peace. And then, allow some quiet time to sort things out."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I don't want him to think I'll give in. Or that I'm giving up simply because we're taking a time-out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Then tell David that. I think this approach might alleviate some of the pressure you feel in talking with David. Okay, as far as David getting more upset with you, can you explain what you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, when we get into these conversations and they lead to arguments, I feel a chill in the air and the heat of words. It's like the blood pressure of the room begins to rise. Do you know what I mean? It makes me feel awful. Like I'm being punished or something. Or like I'm not a good person."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When people argue, they get upset and feel bad. David's probably feeling much the same way you do. And it even might be that David's not upset with you personally. He might be feeling frustrated with the issues at hand and his own inability to get them fixed. What do you think?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I never thought of it that way. I guess it just makes me feel like a little child getting into trouble again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you haven't done anything wrong, Cassie. You aren't in trouble. Do you feel this way in all your confrontations?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I don't like them, if that's what you mean. I guess I get intimidated easily. It's like my opinions and beliefs have no value. I suppose this is a self-esteem issue I need to work on, huh?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That would help. You know, Cassie, many patients with chronic illnesses have similar feelings. They feel a lack of self-worth. They believe themselves to be a burden on their families and friends. Their self-esteem has taken a battering. And arguments can cause additional stress. I think you need to talk about these concerns with David. Not during an argument, but during a nice quiet time. Remember not to place blame. Now, let's talk about why you feel pathetic. Tell me what you mean."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think I may cry--I just feel so helpless, so pathetic. I can't do a damned thing without someone intervening on my behalf. I'm a prisoner of war, and the fight...the struggle is within my body. I have been invaded, and it has screwed up my life! One of the reasons I don't come here often is because I have to ask someone to take me and bring me home. People have to rearrange their schedules for me. I feel like a pest. Actually, I might as well be an animal. Someone's sick pet. Feed me, bathe me, take me to the doctor....And I just sit around, wondering when I get my life back. Wondering when I get a chance to be \"normal\". I just don't understand why this happened to me. How did I get this awful disease? I always tried to be a good person, to do the right thing...can I please have a tissue? I'm sorry for breaking down like this."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Cassie, take a deep breath. You have nothing to apologize for. Things are difficult for you right now. I know you are frustrated and upset by it all. And..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think I know what you're going to say, Doctor--life has a weird way of working things out. Enjoy what you can and take the help you need. There are people who care very much about you. You are a special person, and you are worthy of assistance. That's about it, isn't it? Yeah, I'm special all right."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. But wouldn't you help someone else out if they needed it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, I probably would."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So why is it so difficult to accept someone else's help?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's a lot different to take help rather than give help. You see?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand. It is difficult to take somebody's help. Some patients find it almost painful to be someone else's debt. Tell me, what's your average day like?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not very eventful, really. It depends on the day and how I'm feeling. I watch television, listen to music, thumb through brochures. I've been trying to keep track of the social security crap, gather information as needed. I try to straighten my room as it gets messy. Occasionally, I'll do a load of laundry. Nothing exciting, obviously."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Then I'm going to give you some homework. I want you to get a hobby--find something meaningful, something that you derive pleasure doing. Then, as you feel up to it, work a little on it. Work on it even if it's just jotting down some notes or doing some drawings. Think about how you can accomplish some goals or reach a certain competency in your hobby field. Do you think you can do that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I suppose. But why?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Unfortunately, there is very little information on the prognosis for CFIDS, so we don't know when you will have you old life back. And the one thing I don't want you to do is sit around and wait for the moment when you'll get all better and will be able to do all the things that you were used to doing before this happened."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That does sound bad."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't want you to spend your life waiting. I want you to engage in life to whatever degree that you're capable of at the moment. Taking on a new hobby will give you a chance to start fresh and new--to plan a life for yourself. That's what I want you to do--design and implement a new life. Okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll give it a try."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'd like to bring David in for a session, if that's okay with you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Certainly. I have no problem with that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay. I hope to see you again soon. Goodbye, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Cassie."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of Telephone Conversation between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Cassandra Evans, Friday, April 18, 1997 at 9:15 am.\nDoctor Balis? This is Cassie...Cassandra Evans. Do you remember me? I know its been a long time since we've spoken, and I apologize for not calling sooner."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Cassie! Yes, of course I remember. I'm very happy to hear from you. How are you doing these days?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess I'm doing a little better now. I'm still not doing well--with this Chronic Fatigue and Immune Dysfunction Syndrome thing, my life hasn't been very easy. I spiraled into a really bad depression for a while. My grandmother was an angel during the whole time. She was literally my nursemaid. Anyway, this past month I've been trying to get my life back in order. Last November, I took a medical leave from SII. And now I'm going to try to arrange some part-time work from home via telecommuting."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad to hear that you feel well enough to go back to work."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, I think it would be good for me. Oh, I finally broke up with Brian, by the way. He drifted in and out of the scene for the longest time. And then I realized I don't need or want him anymore. I met this great guy at a CFIDS support group meeting. His name is David. He was doing a research project--David is a psychology student at the university. We started to talk, he took me out a few times...well, one thing lead to another, and now we're sort of an item. In fact, David has been urging me to call you and try to schedule some appointments."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I would be happy to do that. I've been very worried about you, Cassie. But it sounds like things are really looking up for you. So, do you think you will be able to come and have sessions in my office or would you rather continue with our previous arrangements and have telephone appointments instead?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Eight thirty at night? That's kind of late. Is it possible for you to make any other arrangements?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I hate this part. I get so emotional."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Cassie, it's all right. I'm sure we could figure out..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You don't understand, Doctor Balis. I hate being so dependent on everyone for everything. It's like I have to ask favors just so I can get by. It makes me so angry! Jeez. Um, I'll see if I can work something out. I just want to live a normal life again. I want to be normal. And I don't want to screw things up with David. He's such a dear-heart. Doctor, do you think I'll ever be able to get my life back on track?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Cassie, I haven't seen you for a long time and I'm not sure what your health status is at present or if your prognosis has changed. You seem to have a great deal of enthusiasm towards resuming your work life, and that's a positive sign. I think therapy may help you to keep things in perspective. Why don't you find a good time next week to stop by, and we can talk some more?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That sounds good to me. I will talk to you again soon then. Thank you, Doctor Balis. Gosh, all I seem to do is apologize and thank people these days. Well, thanks anyway. Goodbye."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Cassie. It really was a pleasure to hear from you again."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 67th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, January 8, 1998 at 4 pm.\nHello, Anna. Please come in. How are things going?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, let me see...life's hell, home's worse, work's okay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. So let's start with home. What's going on? Is Kathy still there?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What do you think?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Good answer. Yes, she is."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what's your status with Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We had a very long conversation about life and about us."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He said that he's still in love with me and doesn't want to lose me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And do you believe him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually, I do."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What about Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's still throwing up. For a while there, I thought that she might just be faking it, you know? I thought she was pretending to be pregnant to keep a grip on the relationship."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you believe she's pregnant now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I insisted that we all go to her doctor's appointment and verify her claim. Well, I saw the thing on the ultrasound. It's there. That bitch is in fact pregnant. You know, I should have seen it coming."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She had no chance. No chance at all. So she arranged to be alone with Martin and fucked him until...well, now it's all a big mess."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How does Martin feel about Kathy's pregnancy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He's freaked. I think it was all just too surreal for him. I guess he thought that it might just go away on it's own or something."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But when we went to the OBGYN...well, it just hit him hard, I guess. He was all white and shaking. The doctor even made him sit down and got the nurse to bring him some water. I guess it's not the first time he saw a man lose it at the sight of his own fetus."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And how did you feel?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I felt a lot of things, Doctor. I was angry...furious. I felt trapped. I felt dizzy. My stomach cramped up. And, more than anything, I wanted that thing dead."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Martin told me that he tried to raise the issue of an abortion with Kathy. He told her that he felt too young to be responsible for another life."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And what was Kathy's reaction?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He never actually used the word abortion. He just maneuvered around the issue. I know that she knew what he was doing, but she never let on. Martin said that she just refused to understand his hints. But I think she understood just fine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So Kathy is not interested in getting an abortion."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, she's going to extort as much out of this as she can."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You don't think that she wants this baby?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think she wants the power that this baby will bring to her. But no, I don't really think that if she wasn't part of our relationship, she would be going out to get herself knocked up right now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Perhaps that's true. But she was...is in a relationship. And it might be that she actually considered it serious enough..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Whose side are you on anyway?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "This is total manipulation on Kathy's part. And this is not just my opinion either."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Martin is very strongly against this pregnancy, too. But we just can't force her to have an abortion. So we have to carefully figure it out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean by that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If it was up to me, Doctor, I would have thrown out that floozy regardless. But Martin does feel responsible. Although frankly, I don't think he's to blame. She did make representations that she was on birth control. So she lied and cheated her way into this. Martin is completely innocent."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But his innocence aside, we still have a problem."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, you do."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not denying it, Doctor. I'm really focused on this situation."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what is your plan? You obviously have one."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's not that simple. Martin's greatest concern right now is that she will carry his baby to term."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is there a problem with that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, she was suicidal..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, if that's at all an issue..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't think it is. But what Martin is worried about is that, once the baby is born, Kathy is very likely to abuse it. She was abused as a kid. She ran away from home when she was twelve and lived on the street for a while. Then she lived with her aunt for a few years. But as soon as she could, she left her and came out to San Francisco."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I thought Kathy's parents were dead."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She keeps changing her story, but as of today, her mom died of breast cancer before she ran away, and her dad was a certified pedophile and sexually abused her. Now, I'm not saying that any of this is true. But just the fact that she might be making all of this shit up shows just how fucked up she really is. She is clearly not fit to be a mother. Martin is worried that she would purposely hurt his child to get at him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So if she actually does have this baby, we have to have some control over it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "We?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, Martin and I. We have to have legal rights to the child. Now, at this point, Kathy is willing to sign anything that would prove to Martin that this is his child."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, and?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So legally, Martin has all the rights of a father. Given that he will be in a steady married relationship and with a job, he is a much better candidate for the custody of this kid."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy is a known drug user, without a good job or a place to live--after the baby is born, of course."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So let me get this straight. Your plan is to live together with Kathy until the baby is born, then get married to Martin and file for custody of his child. Did I get it right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "More or less."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What's the less part?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I want to be married as soon as possible. It could be a secret marriage. We could do the whole wedding thing after the baby is born."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And how does Martin feel about this plan?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He's fine with it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does he know about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You don't sound so convincing."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Right now, Martin is just too out of it to be able to think clearly."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you are doing all the thinking for both...for the three of you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Look, Doctor, if Martin gets involved with Kathy he will regret it. Maybe not immediately, but some day he'll be really sorry. And then what? The baby--if it's still just one baby by then--will still be in jeopardy while it's in Kathy's possession. And it might be a lot harder to wrestle it away from her by then. And..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hold on. Hold on, Anna. Aside from all of the rest, are you sure that what you want is to be a mother of Kathy's and Martin's child? From the way you're talking, you're not even expressing a lot of compassion for it..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm just angry at Kathy. It will pass. God, look at the time. I've got to go, Doctor--there's no reason to give that witch a chance at being alone with Martin. He's just not strong enough for that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But, Anna...well, okay. I'll be gone on vacation for the next two weeks and so..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's not a problem, Doctor. I know what to do. And I have my life pretty well under control right now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, well, as I was saying. I can be reached in emergencies--just call my answering service. There's a doctor on call..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't care to talk to anyone but you, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. Please try to think things through before acting, all right? And we'll get back to our conversation as soon as I'm back from Hawaii."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hawaii, hmm?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Good for you. I wish I was going. Okay, I'll see you in two weeks, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's January 29th, okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, yeah, I got to go now. See you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Anna."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 68th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, February 5, 1998 at 4 pm.\nHello, Anna. Please come in. It's been a long time. How have you been?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello, Doctor Balis. I would suggest keeping your distance from me for today."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why? Are you still ill?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm better. But I still feel pretty shitty. I have a cough and a slight fever. So don't take any chances."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Thank you for the warning. I didn't realize that you were so sick. How long have you had this thing?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's over a week now. But it's much, much better. And actually, I'm in no hurry, you know what I mean?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, I'm not sure I do. Do you want to be sick?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It got Kathy out of the house."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She was so freaked out about her baby. She made a big fuss. Martin got all upset. But I wasn't going to go anywhere with a 104 fever. She doesn't like it, she gets to go. It's only fair."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So Kathy is not living with you anymore?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I wish. No, she's only out until I get better. So no hurry, right?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. And where is Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He's between a rock and a hard place, metaphorically speaking."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is he living with you at the apartment?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He's being a good boy and taking care of the one he loves. Me, of course."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And where's Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "In Sacramento with her aunt."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What about the store?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Martin is covering for her. Poor boy, he works so hard. That's what you have to do when you fuck up. Or should it be \"fucked over?\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You sound bitter."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess I am. I've just had it, Doctor. I'm very tired."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you made any plans..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't really know anymore, Doctor. I care about Martin, I really do. And I do love him. But I'm stuck watching him make one horrible mistake after another."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He just can't let go. Kathy has total control over him. She's beginning to show already, and she dresses to accentuate her condition. She's being moody and abusive, but Martin attends to her like he was her personal slave."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's like she managed to carry his S&M tendencies over into our everyday life. It's very painful to watch. This last week and a half has been a godsend."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mean while you were sick?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know it sounds strange. I was very ill. But with Kathy gone, I could feel this enormous pressure lifted. Martin gets up very early and leaves for the office, then from there he goes straight to the store and comes home around midnight. But even with this insane schedule and taking care of me, he has been happier than he has been for the last two months. And we have a chance to talk openly."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you talk about?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We're trying to figure out what will happen. I feel really guilty about this, Doctor, but sometimes I just feel like getting out of this whole mess. I feel like I can't take it anymore. But then I look at Martin and I feel guilty."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why would you feel guilty?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know what you want to say, Doctor. Martin is a big boy; he has to live his own life. But I love him. I would hate to live my life knowing that he's miserable. His life is bad enough as it is now. You know everyone at work knows about Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Remember Caren and Greg?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sure. They are married now, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. It was a nice wedding. In any case, we sort of drifted apart after Martin came into the picture. They never understood my willingness to do \"those things.\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Those things?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They were totally freaked by my experiment with Gray--the whip master?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I remember."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've told them about the baby, and they've been really supportive. Although their support stops with me and doesn't extend onto Martin. They think Martin is a real jerk and bad news for me. They told everyone at SII that Martin, my boyfriend and fianc��e, got his houseguest pregnant."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Ugly."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, it's been really bad. Well, for me it's been sort of nice. People are being very supportive and sympathetic. But Martin is in deep shit. He's new and doesn't have much history with SII except that he's in the \"futures\" department, and that is not very popular."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why not?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, don't get me wrong, I think Martin is useful. And that department comes up with a few good ideas each year. But we've been doing software design for years without them."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. There's some resentment there."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Just a bit. So Martin is having to deal with some...you know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you don't mind that people at work know what's going on with Martin and Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The way Caren and Greg presented the story, I'm the innocent party. So it's not very bad for me, however it's going to work out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. And how have your parents been coping with this whole situation?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My mother is ready to kidnap me, I think, and take me home. But my dad is giving me the freedom to work things out. Obviously, he's not too happy with Martin. And while he doesn't believe Martin was \"raped\" by Kathy, he does believe that she might have created the situation."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Situation?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told my dad that while Kathy lived with us, I wanted to experiment with...well, with things. He understood, I think. And I believe he is willing to make some concessions if Martin handles the situation well."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What does that mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know exactly. But it has something to do with honor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. When is Kathy coming back?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've been sending her articles on the horrors of Sydney Flu via e-mail. So hopefully, not for a while."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But eventually, she'll be back. What are you planning to do then?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. I don't want to give up just yet. And I don't want to live the rest of my life wondering if I made the wrong decision and didn't fight hard enough. Doesn't love mean sacrificing and compromising? I can't just let go of Martin. If I do, he'll be lost for the rest of his life. And he doesn't deserve that. I'm partially responsible for him being in this situation..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, I have to disagree with you. You were the one who was maneuvered and manipulated into a relationship which included Kathy. If it was up to you..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Perhaps, but I did let it happen and deserve some blame for that. Look, Doctor, Kathy is going to get her amnio in a few weeks, we'll see what happens then."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. So I'll see you next week as usual?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. I plan to be here. I need someone to keep me grounded."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, I'm here for you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll see you next week, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And Doctor?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You should have taken me up on my offer. I wouldn't be in this situation today if you did."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Good night, Doctor."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 100th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, February 11, 1999 at 4:00 pm.\nHey, Doctor!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. Come in. What's all this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Let's see. This is a chocolate cake. These are balloons. And this is champagne. You do like champagne, don't you, Charles?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I...why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know you've been gone for quite some time, but you must have remembered that this is our hundredth session together?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I was going to mention that..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I want more than just a mention, I want to celebrate. Here, drink up. I don't really like champagne, but the store said that it was good. What do you think?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's good, thank you, Anna. You seem..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And here's a piece of cake..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You brought plates?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't think you had any lying around this office."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, I don't..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Good, isn't it? I do do cakes, and this is my favorite. They call it a \"Better Than Sex\" cake. What do you think?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Personally, I think the name is an exaggeration..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, you seem very frenetic. You're talking..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "One hundred sessions--don't you think it's a milestone in any relationship?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, I see you're done with your cake, shall we start this momentous session?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure, if you insist. So, how was your trip?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It was fine, thank you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "How is your dad?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He is fine...well..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sorry, Charles. Was it really bad?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's just that it was..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hard?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There was a time when I thought that if anything ever happened with my dad, I would just..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, somehow, I didn't feel that way about my mom. And I've always felt guilty about that--my dad's death would devastate me, but my mom's...it's awful, isn't it, that I should feel different about my mom?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You have a stronger bond with your dad. His death would have more of an effect on you..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Is that how you feel about your dad?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I would rather talk about you, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. But I saw your face..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I find it very hard to come to terms with what's happened to my father. But please, let's just..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think it would be harder to have my dad ill than to just have him die...well, maybe not. But I still remember when I first realized that my dad wasn't a powerful giant capable of moving the world for me anymore."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How old were you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It must have been around the time I turned fifteen. I was always a very small kid. In Junior High School, I was even shorter than the boys in my class. All the other girls were so much taller..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My dad made me feel safe, protected. He was always very smart. I could ask him any question, and he would always have an answer for me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happened when you turned fifteen?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, nothing. I just went through a growth spurt, and suddenly, I was taller than him. It was strange..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did that bother you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "One day I just sort of noticed being taller than him. And then I started reading the same books. And somehow, he just stopped being a giant."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did that make you feel?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I felt like I lost something...something very important."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But my dad is still strong, smart, and very healthy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm gradually watching my parents age, get weaker, get older. But it's very gradual. I have this feeling that my dad has always looked the way he does now. But when I look at the old photographs, I can see the aging. I don't like that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Everyone gets older..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "For me, this process is very gradual. But for you..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, I..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm talking about me, Doctor. For me...if my dad had a stroke and lost his vitality in such a sudden manner and so completely..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I can see in your face just how hard that must be. Is it harder than just losing him all at once?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you mean death?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. Death just happens, and then it's done with. Then you don't have to watch your dad get..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "This is a very painful subject for me right now, Anna. I would prefer that we explore your feelings on this subject some other time. Okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sorry. I didn't mean to..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's all right. Let's just move on. Tell me about your vacation. You told me that you were planning on going to Lake Tahoe with your friends. How was that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was very nice. But I didn't go with my friends."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You went alone?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I went with a friend."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I went with Trevor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Do you want to tell me about that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I do."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you go as friends or as lovers?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "As both--friends and lovers. I think I really like him, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He's different somehow from the other men I've been with."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He is very kind to me. We have a very good time together. We had a wonderful time in Lake Tahoe...well, for a part of it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. I'm happy to hear you had a good time."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He listens to me. He tries to understand my needs even when I have a hard time understanding them myself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And Trevor is very different from me. This is the first time I have a boyfriend that has a job so extremely different from mine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There's just one little problem."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes? What is it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He's sort of married. Before you say anything, he is not in love with his wife, and they will be separated soon."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Soon?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't know that he was married when we went to Lake Tahoe. I would have told you if I did."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Trevor revealed his marital status only then?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've never even suspected he had a wife. We always went out together at such extreme times, and..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "As a police officer, Trevor always had a built-in excuse."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So Trevor is still living with his wife?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, but not for long. He said that he never expected to fall in love with me. It just happened."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Trevor told you that he was in love with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. He said that it took him a long time to realize it. He told me that he tried very hard to remain professional."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Professional?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I know it was a bit hard given what we were doing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I feel if we just met in some other, normal way..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Instead of hanging out in S&M clubs?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "God, I dread the day we will have to explain how we met to our children."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Your children? Are you talking about marriage?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know it's a bit soon given that he still lives with his wife, but..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, we have got to talk about this relationship..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Look, I can bring him in for your approval. Would you like that?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "We might consider a joint session some time in the future, but for now, I just want to spend the time figuring out your feelings and..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I can't really tell you about my feelings."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why not?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's all so new, so confused."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You went to Lake Tahoe in December."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I was so mad at him then."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's when I found out that he was married. I was so furious with him. I would never have gone if I knew."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what have made you change your mind about Trevor?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's not exactly like I have changed it. I believe him when he says that he's in love with me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you in love with him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure. But I have very strong feelings for him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Well, as I've said, we have a lot to talk about. But now it's late, we're out of time."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. You can keep the rest of the bottle--I don't really like it. And keep the cake--maybe you'll think of me..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That won't be a problem. I'll see you next week, Anna. Please take care."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will, thank you. I'll see you next week. And, Doctor, I'm very sorry about your dad."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Thank you. Goodbye."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 69th Session between Charles Balis, M.D., Ms. Anna Green, and Mr. Martin Fleck, Thursday, February 12, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor. This is Martin. I hope you don't mind. I just thought it would be a good idea if we all talked together, okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello, Doctor Balis. It's a pleasure to meet you in person."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Mister Fleck. Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Please call me Martin."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sure. Please come in and sit down. I would have preferred that you let me know about this ahead of time.\nIt's not that. But let's get started. Why did you want to bring Martin here?\nHmm.\nWhat do you mean by \"handling?\"\nWhat would you like to do about Kathy, Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy is the mother of my child, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I know."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, what more can I say?\nI..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you uncomfortable talking about Kathy, Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. What would you like to do now, Anna?\nMartin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy is carrying my baby. It might not be how I wanted things to work out. But I can't wish for the baby to die...\nI'm the father. I have responsibilities to my child. There's nothing that changes that.\nI...\nI..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, you have to give Martin an opportunity to talk as well. I know how you feel. I would like to find out what Martin's feelings are. Okay?\nSo do you know what you want, Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess I want for everybody to be happy. I hate seeing Anna hurt. She has been so strong and so understanding.\nI have. I know it's been very hard on you. But I don't know if there are any options for us."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't believe I can get custody away from Kathy. It's just not the way our court system works. And I'm not willing to drag Kathy's name through the mud, she doesn't deserve that. And, ultimately, it would probably backfire, anyway. The society is just not that understanding toward individuals with alternative life styles, especially those who engage in S&M sex practices. It would be horrible if my child ended up in foster care as a result. So I don't know what options I'm left with."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "There are always options, but it doesn't mean that they are acceptable."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Precisely. Perhaps if we stay together long enough, Kathy would move-on by herself.\nI want to be with you, Anna. I don't want to lose you. But I understand if you can't wait for me.\nThings happen, Anna. It just might work out. I just have to wait. But you don't have to wait.\nYou don't, Anna. I know how unhappy you are. It would make my life even worse to know that I'm making you miserable."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't think she'll really do it. A mother doesn't harm her own baby.\nI'll make sure she won't harm the baby.\nI can...\nMy parents...\nPlease stop it! What do you want me to do, Anna? Abandon my child now?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not an attorney, but I think Martin is right about custody. If you bring up Kathy's S&M habits as a way of proving her to be an unfit mother, your sexual practices will be scruitinized as well."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think so, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not going to ask you to answer my question with a detailed plan, Martin. But do you know what you want to do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was hoping to wait and see how things are going to turn out. I don't feel like I have much choice at the moment. But I understand that I can't ask Anna to do the same. So she's free to do what she think she needs to do.\nI don't want you to be unhappy because of me.\nNo, but...\nBut..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Kathy quit her job at the store?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She is quite sick, Anna."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you believe she's faking her symptoms?\nActually a lot of pregnant women suffer all through pregnancy. So don't dismiss Kathy's symptoms solely based on that twelve week estimate.\nAnna...\nI'm completely on your side, Anna. And being honest with you is part of it. You don't want me to lie to make you feel better, do you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm so sorry, Anna. I never wanted you to get hurt. If I'd only known..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, I think we should talk..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's been very unhappy lately, Doctor. Don't worry--I'll catch up with her on the street, and we'll have a nice evening together. I promise."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's not..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was a pleasure to meet you, Doctor. Thank you for helping Anna through this very difficult time. I really appreciate it. I better run, or I won't be able to catch her. Goodbye, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 70th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, February 19, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nWell hello, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sorry about last time. I thought you wouldn't mind, actually."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I didn't like you running out in the middle of the session like that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it wasn't in the middle of the session. I think we were going overtime already...sorry, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did Martin manage to catch up with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you want to talk about what happened here last time?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think we should."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I have a more urgent problem right now, Doctor Balis. And if you don't mind, I would like to talk about that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Things got really bad, Doctor. I mean they were bad before. But now..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What is it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Martin took Kathy to her doctor's appointment last Monday. She was supposed to get some kind of test to check if the baby was all right."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not exactly sure what test she took, but they found some bad proteins in her blood or uterus or something. They think it might be a Down's syndrome baby, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh god."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's not for sure yet. They will do a full-on amnio on her next week. And then we'll know exactly. But Kathy doesn't want an abortion. She wants the baby regardless."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. And Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He hasn't been home since he brought Kathy back home on Monday."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Where is he?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He is staying with a friend. He said that he has a lot to think about and he needs to be alone right now. But he calls in every day and checks on Kathy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does he want to have the baby regardless?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. He is totally freaked. He doesn't know what to do. It's one thing to have a normal, healthy baby. But this...it's not what I would have wanted."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And I'm totally stuck comforting Kathy through all this. Can you believe it? She comes to me--to me!--to cry. She tells me her troubles. I think for the first time, she's actually worried that Martin might not be there for her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told her that I thought that Martin would always want to support his child. He'd send her money and make sure it's all right. But what does she expect? It's not even his love child, for god's sake."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You didn't tell her that, did you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, no. But I'm dying to."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I won't. I think Martin should be strong enough to let her know that. But she's a real basket case right now. She hasn't stopped crying since she found out. And the things she talks about...way over the top."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Like what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, she talks about this baby always needing her. It would never leave her and always love her. And she would always be there for it, taking care of it, making sure it's okay. It would never grow up. It would be just like having a baby for the rest of her life. She could love it with all her heart, because she would never have to worry about it not being there or abandoning her. It's all weird stuff like that, Doctor. I think she's really flipped."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The more I think about her talking this way about this baby, the more I realize just how sick it is. She wants this baby to be a mental cripple! She's actually talking about it like it's a good thing. God! I'm thinking about recording some of our conversations and playing them for Martin. I bet he has no idea just how out of it she is."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mean recording without Kathy's knowledge?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I know that sounds bad. But I think Martin has the right to know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sure you'll tell him all about it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. But it's better if he hears it from her own mouth. I wouldn't have believed that anyone could feel this way, if I haven't heard it myself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you think Martin would abandon Kathy if the baby has Down's syndrome?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, not abandon. He would support it, but he doesn't have to give up his life for it, does he?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Would you want to continue your relationship with Martin if that happens?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't want to be in a situation where I suddenly become a mother to this child. Perhaps it's possible to love your own child like that. But someone else's?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "There are a lot of people who take care..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not saying it's impossible to love kids with Down's syndrome. But you have to dedicate your life to them. There are people who are specially trained to do the job of taking care of children like that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And I suppose that if I had a Down's syndrome kid by accident, I would love it very much, too. But that would never happen."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. So what are you saying, Anna?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think you just said that even if Martin chose you and Kathy and the baby were no longer in the picture, you still wouldn't want to be with him for fear that Kathy's child might become your responsibility."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's his child, and he should be responsible for it. But I don't have to be. I want to get a clean slate on life, so to speak. I don't want to get stuck in a situation where I'm duty bound by something that I don't want to have anything to do with. What if he dies?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Who? The baby?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, Martin. What if Martin dies, and I get stuck with his baby? It's just not fair."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. So are you leaving Martin and Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't think Kathy should have the baby."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's not your decision."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It is, if I have to spend my life taking care of this child."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you don't have to do any such thing, Anna. You're free to leave. Martin said so himself, remember?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So I should just abandon Martin to his fate?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't know. This is your decision."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just can't do it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Can't do what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I can't be a mother to that child."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's how it's going to turn out if I stay. I'm not such a monster, you know. I wouldn't be able to just stand by and watch that psycho abuse a helpless child. I would have to do something. I would end up having the responsibility because there just wouldn't be any other choice."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Not true, Anna. You always have a choice. This is not your child."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's why Martin has to make Kathy get rid of it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, I don't think..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There's no other way. Kathy wouldn't be able to take care of it. And Martin wouldn't be able to do it alone."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think you should let Martin figure out what he wants to do on his own. When is he coming back?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you see him at work?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not much. He is trying not to deal with it at work. He wouldn't even let Kathy come in for a visit. He said that work is the only thing that is keeping him sane right now, and he doesn't want to contaminate it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. And when is Kathy's next test?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're right, Doctor. This is all very silly. We just don't know yet. So why go through hell for nothing? I'll talk to you next week. I have to go and feed the pregnant one. I told Martin I would do that for him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. All right. I'll see you next week, then. Please take care, Anna. Don't make any hasty decisions."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I never do, Doctor. Good night."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good night."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 101th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, February 25, 1999 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. Please, come in. So, how are your hands?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, they are fine, you can hardly tell anymore..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. They look fine. Did you actually burn your hands or was it just an excuse..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I actually burned my hands. It was the worst burn I've ever had in my entire life, Doctor. Luckily, I'm a fast healer. But all that night, I had to sleep...well, just lie in bed, really, with an ice pack. It was very painful. I'm shocked, shocked, that you would even raise the possibility that I..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry, Anna, but I thought it was wise to ask."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I forgive you, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But it's true that I would have called and canceled our session last week even if I didn't burn my hands."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I had something to do and..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "With Trevor?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, actually, I have to keep it a secret from him until the very last moment."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. So what did you do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, remember all those drawings Martin did of me?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes. I still have them in my files."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They were good, don't you think?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "They had some artistic merit."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I thought they were good. But, in any case, Martin had been making these really neat sketches for S&M fashion wear."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He is very creative, and some of his ideas are really new and very cool looking. So he submitted his drawing to this S&M fashion show review board. And last week, he heard back from them--they really liked his stuff."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The problem was that the show is in two weeks, and they require real samples of the outfits Martin conceived."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's not much time."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. So I promised Martin that I would go with him to pick out the materials he needs to make all that stuff--he'll have three things in the show. And the only time I have to do this is in the evenings and on the weekends."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. So that's why you had to skip our session last week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told him no, but Martin begged and begged. He is so stressed over this. So we went to this leather shop and picked out some very cool scraps--Martin's designs don't require a lot of material."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Those guys do their own stuff right there on the premises, and they showed us what we would need to sew the scraps together--what kind of needles to use, what threads work best, and other very helpful hints. And then on Friday, we took off several hours for lunch and went to this giant hobby store on the Peninsula. I'm telling you, if you ever get the urge to do metal forging, or clay sculpting, or needlepoint, I can tell you just where to go now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm. Don't think I haven't noticed your \"hmms\" today--there are a lot more of them than normal."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Go on."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's not much better. So, we went to this hobby place, and Martin loaded up on tons of stuff. We got a specialized sewing machine that can deal with leather and can even be used to make shoes and stuff. And we got this very cool punch-thing. You can insert spikes and snaps into it, and it punchs a hole through the material and permanently attaches all those things to it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I get the idea."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And then we got glue guns, and welders, and little metal thingies, and tons more leather scraps, and just a ton of very wonderful stuff. My only problem was that with the burns on my hands, I couldn't do as much touching and feeling as I would have liked to do."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry about your hands, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And then Saturday and Sunday, Martin and I spent putting together his designs for the show. I'll be his model."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I thought that would be fun. I think I have the body to pull it off, don't you, Charles?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think you'll do fine. So how come you just didn't tell me all this on the phone last week? Why were you so vague?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, that. Well, I don't want Trevor to know about any of this, not just yet."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, Trevor gets all weird when it comes to Martin."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told him that it was stupid to be jealous of Martin, but..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why is it stupid for Trevor to be jealous of Martin? You were engaged once."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it's all over between us. Now, we're just friends. I still think Martin is very smart, and we do have a lot in common."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But Trevor...he is not very reasonable when it comes to my socializing with Martin. I don't know why he gets all stupid about it, when I have to be very understanding when it comes to his wife."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not even allowed to raise the subject of sex between him and his wife as an issue. But Martin and I go somewhere together, and Trevor just explodes with jealousy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And how do you feel about that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I think it's stupid, because we don't do anything that Trevor should be jealous about."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. But how do you feel about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sometimes, it makes me feel good that he cares so much."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sometimes, I feel like it's too much...way out of proportion."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Go on."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And sometimes, I feel like he deserves it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Imagine just how bad I feel, laying in bed at night, knowing that he is with her. I have a very good imagination. I have these images...they drive me crazy sometimes. And I'm not even allowed to talk about it?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why does Trevor not want to talk about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He said that it just makes it so much more painful for him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does he consider how you feel about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He said that it won't last much longer, I just have to be patient. It will just be a few more months..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Stop saying that!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry, I didn't realize..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You don't realize just how annoying that is sometimes? Well, it's very annoying, so just stop it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why doesn't Trevor just leave his wife now? What is he waiting for?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He said that there is a very good reason and that he will tell me when the time comes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Does he have kids?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. He doesn't have any pictures in his wallet, and his clothes are free of kid-related stuff. Caren and Greg have a little girl, and they constantly pull out little wipes or toys or pacifiers out of their pockets. But Trevor is clean."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you search his wallet and clothes?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. And you don't have to tell me it was wrong, I know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How long do you plan to wait..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "God, you're very annoying today. Look, our time is up. I've got to go now. I promised Martin I'd hurry over to his place for a fitting as soon as I'm done here. So I'm out of here. I'll see you next week, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right, Anna. Have a good week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You too."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 71st Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, February 26, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. Come in..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Before you ask, I have no idea."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No idea about what? Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She went to take the test last Monday--she goes to the free prenatal clinic, and her appointments are always on Mondays--and I don't know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The results haven't come in yet?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. They might have, or she might still be waiting. She's being very weird about it. I guess it's her aunt."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm having problems following you today, Anna. What about Kathy's aunt?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, her aunt called the apartment last weekend. She wanted to talk to Kathy, but Kathy wasn't around. I've never met her aunt before, and I've only spoken to her on the phone a few times. She always seemed nice to me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Uh huh."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I just assumed she wanted to know about the result of the amnio test. So I told her that we didn't know yet whether the baby has Down's syndrome or not. But it turned out that she didn't even know that Kathy was pregnant. Well, how was I supposed to know that? Kathy just spent an entire two weeks with this woman, you'd think she'd have noticed all the puking and whining, you know? But apparently she didn't suspect a thing. It was a total shock to her. And on top of it all, I introduced the whole thing by bringing up a birth defect. It was not good."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. So how did Kathy's aunt take all this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She insisted that she needed to come over and stay with us for a few days until we know. And I said, \"Sure.\" She's been staying at the apartment since Sunday night."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. And is Martin back?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I think it's better this way given the current situation. He knows about the aunt, though."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. I thought that Kathy and her aunt would talk a lot and kind of take the pressure off of me, right? Wrong. Kathy has been coming home only to sleep. I have no idea where she hangs out; she doesn't work at the store any more. So I'm stuck entertaining her aunt. I've learned a lot about Kathy in the past few days."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you want to tell me about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You bet. Now, let me see. First of all, her parents did die when she was young, but it was in a car accident. They were picking up her uncle from the airport, and a truck run into them. All three of them died on the spot. Kathy was raised by her aunt, or I should say her aunt tried to raise Kathy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But what about..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, all that stuff--her mother dying from breast cancer and her father being a certified pedophile--it was a total fabrication. There was no physical abuse. There was no sexual abuse. In fact, there was no father figure who could have abused her in the ways that she described at all. Her aunt never remarried after the accident, or even dated, for that matter. She said that she tried to raise her niece as well as she could. Kathy supposedly went to a private school and had lots of psychiatric help ever since she was five--the year that her parents and uncle died."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She is a diagnosed pathological liar. She also has some kind of personality disorder, but I couldn't get a straight answer from her aunt as to what exactly it was. Kathy did run away from home when she was eleven, and again when she was twelve, and then again when she was fifteen. Each time, her aunt hired a private detective, tracked her down, and made her come home. The last time she ran away, she came to San Francisco. She was doing drugs and started to do the live piercing acts. The cops picked her up one night, and she had a choice of going to some reform school or joining a drug rehab program for teens in San Francisco and staying with her grandparents."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Her grandparents?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, you'll love this. Remember Mrs. Borderstein? She was Kathy's landlady? Well, she is also Kathy's grandmother."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I had a similar reaction, believe me. She is not actually her grandmother. She is her grandmother-in-law, but it's close. Kathy's aunt was married to Mrs. Borderstein's son. Kathy's mother was her aunt's sister. So this makes Mrs. Borderstein her grandma-in-law. Does it makes sense to you?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I hate trying to folow family relations. I think I followed that. Kathy was raised by her aunt and Mrs. Borderstein was her aunt's husband's mother, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's it. Well, Kathy lived with her grandmother on and off for almost twenty years!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How old is Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, we all thought she was twenty-five or something. But she is thirty-four. That fits with the Down's syndrome, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So all that stuff about having a landlady who never takes care of her tenants or wouldn't fix her leak...it was all a lie. She never paid a dime to her grandmother. And Mrs. Borderstein tried to take care of her, like any grandmother would. But Kathy wouldn't even allow her to be called \"grandmother,\" imagine that? Mrs. Borderstein lost her one and only son in a horrible car accident. She didn't have any other grandchildren. And Kathy wouldn't even give her the simple pleasure of feeling like she is her relative. And after all the stuff she did for her. That's just so...it's so like Kathy. She manipulates everyone she comes in contact with. And she played Martin and I like violins--\"Oh, I have no place to live. My landlady is just so horrible.\" Kathy was earning enough money at the store to help her grandmother fix the roof of her house if she wanted to. This was the house that she lived in herself for free for almost twenty years. I still can't get over all this. God!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's just connived herself into our lives and took over. Helen, Kathy's aunt, asked me what Martin's intentions were, you know, regarding the baby."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I said, \"Honorable?\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're not sure?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I told her that I knew that Martin would be financially responsible for the baby."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sure that's not all she was asking."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. She asked straight out whether Martin was going to marry Kathy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And what did you tell her?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I said that I didn't know what Martin's plans were. It's true, I don't. I really don't know. I hope he's not stupid enough to marry her, but...I didn't tell Helen that, don't worry."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But then Helen got me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She asked me if I was in love with Martin."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I said I wasn't. I didn't know what else to say. She was looking at me, and I just froze. I think she knows that Martin and I were...that we were probably planning to...well, she saw the way our bedrooms were laid out. I still sleep in the same room with Martin. I guess it's more accurate to say that Martin still keeps his clothes in our room. Before he left after the Down's syndrome thing, he was taking turns sleeping with Kathy and me--she insisted. In any case, Helen noticed that Martin's clothes were all hanging in my room. It was an ugly moment, Doctor. She is a nice woman; I didn't want to dump even more bad news on her all at once. But I think she knows what the true situation is. She didn't really question me about where Martin was. So I think she knows. And Kathy has been such a bitch to her. She screams at her all the time. She called her a liar and told me not to believe anything Helen told me. I saw Helen cry. I think this is all really hard on her. I think she thinks it's all her fault--she raised Kathy badly or something. But I think Kathy is just screwed up and Helen did the best she could with what she got. I understand that having both of your parents die on you when you're only five years old could completely screw you up for the rest of your life. But...I just don't know. And now, I don't even know what's up with the baby."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Take it easy, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I feel like the whole world is spinning out of control. I have no power to do anything. Martin just left me to deal. And Helen is looking to me for moral support and to stand up to Kathy. And Kathy...I don't even want to talk about Kathy. I wouldn't be surprised if she went and had an abortion."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why? What makes you think that Kathy would do that? You've always said that she was totally against it, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's just completely screwed up. Maybe she thinks that Helen will come in and take over now. You know, take the baby and just deal the way she dealt with Kathy when she was a little girl. I know that Kathy doesn't want to lose control over the baby, she made that pretty clear last week. I can totally see her destroying the baby if she thought that Aunt Helen was going to raise it instead of her. And with Martin gone, I think she's really scared that things might not turn out the way she planned. She's just completely irrational, Doctor. She could do anything. Anything."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is there any way you can get her to go for some counseling? I'm sure the prenatal clinic recommended it when they found out that there was a possibility that the fetus was suffering from Down's syndrome."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. I don't think she would do something like that willingly. Maybe Helen can make her, but she thinks that Kathy is just not certifiably insane enough to be put away against her will. So I don't think she'll go. Sorry, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Can you call the clinic and try to find out the result of the test?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I already tried. They don't give out that kind of information to anyone but the patient. In Kathy's case, I don't even think Martin would be allowed to find out. We'll see how things turn out in the next couple of days. But I have to tell you, Doctor, I'm tired. This is not what I bargained for when I started my relationship with Martin. He owes me big."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, he does. I'm not happy that Martin is just ducking the situation. When is Helen leaving?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Who knows? God, look at the time. I've got to go. It's late. I'll see you next week, Doctor. Wish me luck."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good luck, Anna. Call me if you need my help."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks. Goodbye, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 102th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, March 4, 1999 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor Balis. How are you today?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. I'm fine, thank you. Please sit down. How was your week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy called."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Sorry to be so to the point, but I thought you'd like to know about that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. What did she say?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm still sort of weirded out by it, so let me just tell you about it the long way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sure. Go ahead."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, last week, I spent a lot of time over at Martin's place. He's getting ready for the fashion show, and I've been spending most of my spare time with him, helping out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So the last few weeks, I've been getting a lot of hang-up calls. At first, it was just a few. I thought it was Trevor--he sometimes feels strange leaving a personal message on my machine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He says it's because of the investigation--since I'm no longer involved, he doesn't want there to be any confusion over that. But I believe it's because he doesn't want to leave any hard evidence of our relationship."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Do you think that's because of his wife?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He's been very squirrelly about us lately. Maybe his wife suspects something, I don't really know. I just decided to cool things off a bit and let him feel how uncomfortable that feels."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Trevor hates the idea that I've been spending so much time with Martin. But I hate the idea that he spends so much time with his wife. So we're even."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Does Trevor know what you are doing with Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You mean the S&M fashion show?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Last week, you said that you didn't want to tell Trevor about it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, when he started shadowing me, I had to tell him--he was making me insane."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Shadowing you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, that's the drawback of dating a detective--they have ways of finding out what you're up to. So I told him about the show. And I also told him that there's not much he can do about it. We had a bad fight, didn't talk for three days, and then he came crawling back asking forgiveness. Now I'm officially free to do the show with Martin. And I'm actually enjoying it. It's very creative and very different from what I do the rest of my time. And Martin is turning out to be a good friend. He's much better at that than being a boyfriend or a lover, for that matter."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is Trevor still jealous of Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I thought he was kidding when he said that..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does Trevor still talk of leaving his wife for you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's the main idea. But he said that she's been sick. She conveniently ruptured an ovarian cyst or something and had to be rushed to the emergency room. She's okay now, I think, but Trevor says that she's in a lot of pain."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When did that happen?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Recently, I guess. I don't really know. Trevor doesn't want to breach the subject of separation while she's doing the hormone therapy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What hormone therapy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "His wife is taking progesterone or some such thing. Trevor said that it's making her really mad, like insane."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Trevor described how she freaked out over a spot on his shirt after it came back from the laundry. Apparently, she's not in a good way. So I just have to wait."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You say that with a lot of sarcasm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There's always something, isn't it? And what would have happened if I ruptured a cyst? Would he drop his wife and come to me in a hurry? Somehow, I just don't see it happening that way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So why don't you break off your relationship with Trevor? At least until he has separated from his wife?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Because when we are together, Doctor, it's very good. When we are together, he makes me feel like everything will work out--life will be beautiful if I just wait a bit. But it's very hard when he's not there..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was going to tell you about Kathy. Are you interested?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh, sure. But I would like to come back to your relationship with Trevor..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I was getting all these hang-up calls. And last week, I got a few at work. Finally, Tuesday night, Martin had a meeting, and we decided to take the evening off. When I came home, I had six messages, all hang-ups...well, one was heavy breathing, and than it was a hang-up. It made me very angry, and I was just about to call Trevor and let him have it, when the phone rung. I picked it up and almost started yelling, but it was Kathy. I recognized her voice right away, and it sort of gave me a chill."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Why did she call you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She said that she's been trying to get in touch with me for months. She knew I was being made to help in her police investigation, and so she didn't think it was a good idea to talk to me right after her disappearance. But ever since the police left me alone, and Trevor removed the bugging device from my phone, she felt it was safe enough to try to call me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You had a bugging device on your phone?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Just for a month or so. Trevor removed it when we started dating--he didn't think it was a good idea to have our conversations recorded."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. How did Kathy know about the bug?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't ask."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Go on, what did Kathy want from you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She said that she wanted to tell me how sorry she was for all the trouble she caused me. She said that she was very fucked up and needed help and didn't know it. She said that she thought I would understand after reading her letter."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What letter?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So she wasn't abducted."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy said that she left a very long letter for me and a note to her aunt with the instructions to give me the letter at the first opportunity."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. They never found the letter or the note..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy thinks--and I agree with her--that her aunt found the note and the letter and then destroyed them. If she'd given the note to the police, they wouldn't have bothered with the investigation, and no one would have been out there looking for Kathy. Kathy is an adult and is free to come and go as she pleases. But if the police thought she was kidnapped, they would mount an investigation."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Well, that would explain the lack of any signs of break-in..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Precisely! Kathy's window was opened from the inside. You know, that whole family is very screwed up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So Kathy left voluntarily. Did she go to Gray?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He helped her get out. She's living with him as a full-time slave right now. And that's also a problem--she is not really allowed to use the phone. She had to sneak out to a gas station down the street so that her calls wouldn't be reflected on Gray's phone bill."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. And is this what Kathy wants?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She said that there is a certain freedom to being a slave."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She no longer has to worry about making decisions or about making a living. All her necessities of life are completely taken care of by Gray. She said that it feels like this great burden has lifted off her shoulders. She is free of worry, of responsibility. She told me that she knew it would sound just horrible to me, but to her it's real freedom, the kind of freedom she could never get any place else."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But at what price?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She said that she's not doing anything that she wouldn't do if she wasn't with Gray. He keeps her happy and satisfied. She doesn't even have to worry about how she looks any more--that's why when I saw her she was so fat. She eats and fucks as much as she wants. She said that she's completely unused to wearing clothes--she just goes naked all the time, even outside in the yard. When they go to an event, Gray just wraps a blanket around her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How do you feel about all of this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Shocked, sort of. It really freaks me out to think of her living like that. Kathy was a very bright woman. She could have done anything, but she chose not to. I have a very hard time understanding that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you angry with her?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, but I'm angry with the Kathy I used to know. This woman who called me...well, it's hard for me to think of her as the same person, really. She is so alien to me. I had a number of very bad dreams after I spoke to her. And I'm uncomfortable with having to keep this whole thing a secret from Gray...I mean Trevor...and Gray too, I guess. I don't feel like I'm in a very good situation, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why do you have to keep Kathy's phone call a secret from Trevor?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I promised I would."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "God, it's late. I have to go, Doctor. Martin is waiting for me outside. I didn't tell him anything either. This is all too strange. I'll see you next week, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. Call me if you need to talk about this before our next session."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks. Goodbye."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Anna."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 73rd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, March 19, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Anna. Please come in. You look tired."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you getting enough sleep?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Three weeks and counting."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm? Oh, yes. So you're still standing firm on your four week resolution?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If I make it that long. I'm really putting in a lot of hours at work right now. In some ways it's good--it gets me out of the house. But I've spent so much of my emotional energy in the past few weeks...oh, hell, it's been months!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've been working on this project on and off for the last year. Now, it's finally gone alpha. The beta date is supposed to be in three weeks. As you can imagine, life is pure stress."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alpha?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's the first working version of the product used for internal testing. Well, \"working\" is a bit of wishful thinking. Every day, I get a bug list that seems like it could stretch between the Earth and the Moon, and I'm not really exaggerating."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is this why you're in trouble at work?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm having a real hard time staying focused. Julian said that I'm generating as many errors as I'm fixing. That hurt, and it was a really stupid thing to say, because it's clearly not true. I know that Julian is also under a lot of stress right now. But..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are there any longterm consequences for you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, no. It's just unpleasant. Once the product is out the door, things will get back to normal. I'll probably even get a bonus. But right now, the tensions are running high. I was seriously considering just moving into my office for a few days. I'd probably be able to get more sleep that way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How are things at home?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy is still strange, but what else is new? Martin has been moody, too. But I finally know why."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The baby was fine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not following."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's interesting how this just doesn't surprise me. The amnio test came back negative. The baby was fine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So why did Kathy have an abortion?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think it's completely pointless to ask that question now. I'm not being rude, Doctor. I guess I would like to know the answer myself. But I don't think Kathy is all there. I don't think even she knows why she did it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did you find out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Martin crawled into bed with me a few nights ago. He was crying, so I made an effort and asked him why he was so upset."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He said that he can't help but mourn the death of his baby. He said that it's his fault because he wasn't there for the baby when it needed him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He wasn't there for the baby?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Right. He wasn't there period. When he went to the clinic and found Kathy waiting for the abortion, Martin said that he just assumed--like we all did--that the baby was all fucked up. But after the dirty deed was done, he found out from the nurse that the baby was just fine. Sometimes it happens that the first test shows an abnormal protein or something, but later it turns out to be a false alarm. Kathy must have known that the baby was all right for at least a week and a half--they try to give the results of the second test to the parents as soon as possible. So Kathy knew, and yet she made us all believe that the baby had Down's syndrome. What a psycho bitch!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why do you think she did that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. Maybe she was testing us somehow, and we all failed. Or maybe we passed, and that's what freaked her out. Who knows? That woman should be committed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How does Martin feel about all this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, he was crying."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did he want to have this child if it was all right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't think he did. But now that it's gone, I guess he thinks he did. He should consider himself a lucky man. He could have had his whole life just flushed down a toilet, but he dodged a bullet. I think he's very lucky."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does he think so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "On some level, he must. He feels a lot of guilt right now. But that should pass. Once the air clears, he's sure to figure it out. I guess he told his parents about the baby."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why do you think that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He went there to make arrangements to move in with them. I've heard from people at work that he talked to his supervisor about resigning or telecommuting."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So he was going to leave you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So, how do you like this weather? I feel like it's almost spring time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, what's in it for you now? Why are you resisting putting an end to this relationship?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Am I?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're clawing and kicking to maintain a relationship that seems to me to have collapsed months ago. Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure. Maybe I'm scared of being alone."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What? I can barely hear you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know, Doctor. Why do you think?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I often wonder."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I keep hoping to get more energy, somehow. I feel like I need to get over this hump. It's like I need to climb a mountain before I'm allowed to leave. They are not going to make it easy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Who? Do you feel like Martin will try to keep you from leaving?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think Kathy will."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why would she do that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Right now, Martin is trying hard to pretend everything is just as it was--that we're still a happy threesome in love."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But that's not what Kathy wants. She wants Martin all to herself, doesn't she?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think Kathy is scared of Martin. When Martin learned about the baby, he told me that he felt this blinding rage. Kathy must know how he feels. Martin said that he felt like something just snapped in him. He said that he felt like he wanted to kill her right there and then while she recovered in the clinic from the abortion."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why does he stay? Why is he pretending like everything is all right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe he is trying to mask how he truly feels inside. We are all in it so deep. Maybe he feels guilty for wanting to hurt her. Who knows?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think when I leave, Kathy is going to make Martin do something to her. It's like she wants to commit suicide using Martin as the weapon. Doctor, I'm so tired right now that I don't really know if any of what I'm saying really makes sense. Maybe Martin and Kathy are just messing with my mind or maybe my sense of reality is just completely disturbed. I don't even know if I believe everything I'm telling you right now. It all sounds so far fetched when I put it into words. There's just this sense of insanity there now. And it scares me. At least while I'm there, I know what's going on. And things might get better in a few weeks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you're still planning on leaving?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. But I'm also scared of being alone right now. Isn't that sick? I know when I leave, I'll be completely fixated on what's going on with Kathy and Martin. If she dies..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you really believe that Martin will harm Kathy if you're not there?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I believe that Kathy might create a situation or make it look like something happened when it really didn't."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You think that Kathy will set Martin up?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Do you think so?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't know."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. And in the meantime, I'm bearing the cross of keeping the equilibrium. Which reminds me, I think it's time for me to go."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you going home?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, back to work. I have a lot of work. And I'm so deadly tired."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll see you next week, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right, Anna. Please call me if you need me. I can probably find a good intervention program for Kathy, if you think that she needs it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't think she's committable until after the fact, Doctor. Isn't it always like that?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Just call me when you need to."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 74th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, March 26, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Anna. You look a bit more rested today."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it's all that sleeping on the company couch in the programmer's lounge. It really agrees with me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It seems to. So how's your life going?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm. I'm deciding whether I should count last week towards my four week resolution or not."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why wouldn't you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Let's see. I basically moved into my office. I saw Martin only once the whole week, and I'm getting better at dodging telephone calls from Kathy. So what do you think? Is it two weeks or three?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think it's two weeks and counting."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's what I thought."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You seem to be in far better spirits this week, too."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "All work and no play, and no time home, makes a person really appreciate life. I'm catching up with my work. Julian is off my back. We even had a few power lunches together--I mean the entire department went out of pizza at Tomasso's."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I love that place! I didn't think they were open for lunch."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They are if you're having lunch at six in the afternoon."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Ah."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So I'm beginning to feel that familiar feeling of being single and overworked. And you know what? I'm loving it!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you really feel that your relationship with Martin is over?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think so. Don't get me wrong, Doctor. When I go back home and lie in my empty bed all night, I begin to feel terrible about it. But for now, I'm too busy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I guess that's good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. And after our product goes out of the door, we were told that we--the team that made it happen--will be sent on a company vacation, all expenses paid. Isn't that great?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think it's very nice of SII to do that. Your project must be very valuable to the company."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It is. But I can't tell you about it. If I did, then I'd have to kill you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's a big deal. SII stands to make a lot of money on it. I now wish I'd gotten more of those stock options. I bet I could have negotiated a better deal, but I'm not good at planning for the future like that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What do you want to talk about, Doctor?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'd like to continue talking about your disengagement from your relationship with Kathy and Martin."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Why? Aren't you just happy that I think it's over?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Frankly, I'm a bit worried over some of the things you said last time."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, so am I. But what can I do about them?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you planning to move out of the apartment?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I looked over the rental section in the interactive edition of the Chronicle on the web. Everything looks very expensive. And I don't think I want to share my living quarters with anyone."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you saying that you don't think you can move out because you can't find an affordable place to live?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Do you want a house guest for a few weeks, Doctor?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I thought so. I don't know how this is all going to work out yet. I didn't even tell Martin of my intentions."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why not?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't think that announcing the date of an impending break up is healthy for a relationship."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Healthy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I guess I'm planning on breaking up, and that in itself isn't particularly healthy. What I'm really trying to avoid is all the unpleasantness of Martin and Kathy knowing that I'm leaving. They'll have their opportunity to freak in two weeks. Until then, why spoil all their fun?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I wish I could figure out a way of keeping the apartment, though. It's a bit expensive for me. But given what's out there in terms of rent, I could do worse. And it's in a great area, and I wouldn't have to pack any of my stuff. I hate doing that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I can't really see you announcing your intention to break up the relationship and then asking them to move out. Can you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not particularly. But that would be nice."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think you need to plan your exit strategy."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Exit strategy. I like the sound of that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm serious, Anna. Maybe you can stay with a friend for a few weeks until you find a place."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "This couch is very nice."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm just kidding. The problem is that I just don't want to think about any of this. I had a nice week being single, and I don't want to get bogged down with all these problems. If I start thinking about telling Martin and Kathy, I will just flip out. As it is, my palms get all sweaty and my underarms get tingly when I hear the phone ring in my office. How much more can I stand?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If it's so bad, why not make a clean break now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Are you joking? It would be far worse to just rush into this."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "For one thing, I would have to deal right now, right away. And I'm not ready for that. I don't want to."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you going to be ready in two weeks?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe. By then, I'll have a less frantic work environment, I hope. Doctor, I just want life to be normal again. I'm tired of being a freak in the middle of a soap opera. My friends at work don't even ask what's going on with me anymore. I bet they think that this is all my fault."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why do you think so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Because it's partly true. I was the one who went after Martin."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's not how I remember it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I let things get this bad. I never should have agreed to let Kathy live with us. Who knows, if it wasn't for her, Martin and I might have had a normal relationship. Well, semi-normal relationship with a touch of toe-sucking. But is that bad?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You told me that you weren't particularly into that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm getting used to feet worship. It sort of grows on you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And sometimes..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I'm not all that sorry that I tried the S&M thing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There are aspects of it that I liked."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did you like?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're not going to like my answer, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why not?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You just won't, trust me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's okay. You don't have to worry about my reaction to things, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There was a sexual high--a charge that went through my whole body."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Go on."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I liked...well, sometimes, I like feeling like I have no power, like I have surrendered to someone, like I have no control."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's not what your relationship with Martin was all about."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. But I liked feeling in control sometimes, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Last weekend, there was a party."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mean..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's right--an S&M dungeon party. I wasn't going to go. But David...remember him?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He was very brief and not particularly memorable."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Actually, I think I do remember. He is also a programmer and, as I remember, very handsome."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's the guy. Well, we got to talking about this topic late Friday night. We're all working late now. So he asked me a few questions, and I thought, \"Why not just show the guy?\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told him that he wouldn't have to do anything, just watch. So we went together. Oh, and I found out that I was wrong about that woman--the one in Martin's drawing?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's a full time submissive."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I wondered about that--she didn't look like a dominant to me."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know why Martin made her portrait. I don't think it was about sex with them."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is she the one Martin stayed with while the baby situation was being resolved?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure. But it seems likely."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How do you feel about this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You mean how do I feel now that I don't think Martin cheated on me?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess it's nice. I'm glad and somewhat relieved."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But ultimately it doesn't change anything."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you had any sexual relations with Martin recently?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What do you mean by recently?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "In the past few months."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, sort of."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You sort of had sex with Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "When he came to me and told me about the baby being okay and all...well, it sort of happened then."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But there wasn't any vaginal penetration, if that's what you're asking."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, I meant it more generally than that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Then I guess so."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. We're out of time, Anna. I'll see you next week. I would recommend trying to make living arrangements..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Call..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll call if I need you. Thank you, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. Good night, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 75th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, April 2, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Anna. Please come in. How are you today?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I don't know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How's work?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's good, as far as the project is concerned. We're basically done and don't have much to do. They'll be making the grand announcement sometime next week, I think. There still might be some problems with the code in some very obscure circumstances, but I think it's pretty sound at this point. We'll see."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's good. So I guess you're no longer living in the programmers' lounge."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. And after I took David to the S&M club, it wasn't a good idea any more."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why not?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "David is the \"kiss and tell\" type. I think he was on the phone spreading the word about my alternative lifestyle minutes after he got home that night. Now, I'm the local expert on whipping and pleasure through pain and body mutilation."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And it's not like I'm the only one at SII that's doing it. I bet there are quite a few S&Mers working there, and I don't even count Martin. And I have far fewer artificial body holes then some of the other people in my department, David included."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just have pierced ears, and that was my mom's idea."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Ah."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "David has three holes in one ear alone. And god only knows what and where some of the other places might be."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So your whole department knows that you belong to an S&M club?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They do now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I thought that you told some of your friends before..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. Caren and Greg knew. The others just thought that Martin was weird. I don't think I'll be able to spend another night on that couch."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why not?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Julian came to talk to me about safe sex. And what does he know about it? He's been married for almost ten years."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did he talk to you about?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He told me that he thought it wasn't for me. He said that I'm not the type of girl that should be involved with that \"I tie you up and have my way with you\" sex stuff. But the only thing he knows about S&M is what he saw in some porno movie once. He has no idea. But he felt it his duty to try and warn me off it. David is such an idiot. I really thought he knew better. Now I'm going to have people ask me stupid questions for years."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does it make you uncomfortable?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, as I said, I won't be staying there overnight for some time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It will pass, but really..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How's your home life?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think Martin and Kathy know that I won't be around for much longer."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you told them anything?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, not really. But I've been avoiding them both, and they both tried to talk to me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did they want?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Martin told me that he never felt about a person the way he feels about me. I guess he was trying to tell me he loved me, but he never quite said it. He said that he feels like I'm trying to separate myself emotionally from him. What was his first clue?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Was he trying to talk you into staying with him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure. It felt more like goodbye."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. And what about Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She was a lot more freaked out about losing me. In a way, I sort of wish that Martin was reacting the way she is."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Two months ago, we were talking about getting married. And now, the guy hardly seems upset that he might be losing me forever. It's very strange. I feel like I have more remorse about this relationship ending than he does."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think that you were more emotionally involved in the relationship than Martin was?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess I was. Maybe this is all the aftershock of Kathy's baby thing. But I almost feel like Martin would be relieved to see me go."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Will Martin stay with Kathy after you're gone?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't ask."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you think?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's not my responsibility to make sure that Kathy's happy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is Kathy asking you for something?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She said that she would do anything if I stayed. And..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I almost got a feeling that she was going to threaten me with hurting herself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did she say something to you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, not really. But I felt like our conversation was quickly going in that direction, so I ran out on her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did she try to approach you again?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm trying not give her the opportunity. She apparently doesn't want to talk to me in front of Martin. So as long as I maneuver myself right, I can stay out of trouble, although she did try to come to me in the middle of the night."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happened then?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, our sleeping arrangements are that I sleep in the bedroom that Martin and I used to occupy, Kathy sleeps in the other bedroom, and Martin gets the couch. When Kathy came into my bed to talk, I insisted on going to the bathroom first--nature called. I made tons of noise and made sure that Martin was up for the discussion. Kathy chickened out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Are you still planning on moving out next week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm planning."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you going to?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My dad said that he knows someone in the city with an unused in-law unit. He's coming up this weekend to introduce me and show me the place. So it might happen. And I'll be going on a company vacation in a week or so."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you talked to your parents about moving out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They think that it's all their idea--that by using their powers of persuasion, they've managed to save their daughter from a monstrous situation. They are very happy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And how do you feel?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I still don't know. I think I do better when I'm in a relationship or at least when there's a possibility of a relationship. Right now, when I think about it, I just get this horrible empty feeling inside. It makes me almost nauseous. But, at the same time, when I think of what could have been...I don't know. It's a no win situation. I will miss Martin. And in some sick way, I'll miss Kathy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I realized that I've been relying on Kathy for conversation for almost a year. I used to tell her all the stuff that I couldn't share with anyone else. There was nothing that was going to shock her, and she made everything--no matter how outlandish--seem within the norm."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I can see how that would be valuable. But Kathy stopped being your confidant quite some time ago, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I miss that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sure. But you stopped sharing your life with Kathy about the time you felt you were competing with her for Martin's attention."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was never really a competition. If she didn't get pregnant..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think Kathy felt like she was competing with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess she did. Well, she got him now. He's all hers. I hope she's happy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think Martin and Kathy will stay together after you leave?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy doesn't have a job. Where is she going to go, back to her grandmother's?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't know."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, as much as Martin liked to lick my feet, it was Kathy's job to do the mistress thing with him. I wasn't too into it, remember?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you think they'll stay together?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe that's what she wants to talk to me about."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Maybe."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I don't know if I want to know and be that involved."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's like if I find out, it would be my responsibility. I can just see it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It doesn't have to be that way."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Well, our time is up. I'll see you next week, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. Goodbye, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "See you, Doctor Balis."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 36th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, April 3, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello, Doctor. You want to see Martin's latest?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mean his drawings?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. He sent yet another one. This one is quite nice."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Let me see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Here. It's based on the story I told Martin over the weekend. I can't believe how fast he is."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Interesting. You seemed to be turning into a plant in this one. And the head is missing again. You say it's based on a story you told Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told him about a science fiction story I read a long time ago. It was from a collection of short stories about alien sex."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Interesting. This is Martin's interpretation of the story?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it doesn't actually have much to do with the story. But it's quite nice."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The story was actually about this female plant on a far away planet. Do you what to hear about it, Doctor?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sure."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I thought it would be the kind of story that Martin would find erotic. Personally, I thought it was a bit strange. But I like that kind of stuff."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What made you think that Martin would find it erotic?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it was about this man who was shipwrecked on a planet with these plants. He got badly hurt during the crash and realized that he was probably going to die. But, if I remember correctly, he heard this telepathic voice and responded to it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did the man understand the voice?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, not at first. But we are getting ahead of the story."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sorry."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The man realized that the voice was coming from this giant plant pod that was not far from him. This plant pod was trying to communicate with the man. It calmed him down and made him feel good. Something about the plant pod was very sensual and inviting. There were others like it all around. But most were bigger and only this one seemed to be able to move a little. When the pod rolled close to the man, the feeling of well-being increased. The man saw water inside the plant and, on what seemed to be the pod's invitation, crawled inside."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How is this story erotic?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You have no patience, Doctor. Inside, the pod was dark and warm and very moist. The man tasted the liquid secreted by the pod on its inner walls. It was sweet and thick. After a while, the man fell asleep inside the pod. Eventually, he woke up and ate some more. The man's wounds began to heal and he was beginning to feel better. Soon he was even able to communicate with the pod. The man learned that his host was a young female and fairly intelligent although not as far evolved as humans were. She mostly responded to emotions and music."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "This is a story of a love affair between two species?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sort of. The man grew to depend on the pod and even became attached to it emotionally."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry, Anna. But do you really want to spend our whole session telling me about this story?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, I'll get to the point. The pod wanted the man to help facilitate its reproduction. It felt the sharp edges of the knife that came with his gear."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "A knife?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The thick plant juices dissolved the man's clothes. All he was left with was a knife."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What about other metal items like buttons..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, you're so literal. Maybe the pod simply spat them out. I don't remember and it's not relevant to this story."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The point was that to reproduce and to feel sexual pleasure, the alien plant pod needed to be ripped from the inside with a sharp tool."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What about other pods on this planet. Did they have their own crash survivors?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, they used animals with sharp teeth and claws. But this particular pod was different. She really cared for the man and realized that he was intelligent too. When she gave birth to her daughters, she let the man help her raise them. In some ways, it was a very touching story--two completely alien intelligences grow to depend on each other for life and friendship."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So did the man willingly cut the pod's insides?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He refused at first. But then he realized that it wasn't about pain, it was about love. When I told this story to Martin, he immediately saw the similarities."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The similarities to what? S&M?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, yes. S&M is also about love."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Martin tried to describe the feeling that he gets when he is being whipped by his mistress. It's not really about pain. I mean he does feel pain, but it's more about being able to trust someone so completely and to be able to let go to another person."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You sound like you are interested in trying it out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told you that I could never do it to Martin until I try it myself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So are you going to ask Martin to whip you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I thought about it. But I don't know if Martin could do it. He told me that to really understand the experience, it should be tried with a real top."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "A top?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's what Martin calls it. There's a top and a bottom. Martin's a bottom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. The bottom is submissive? Martin wants you to be the top and you don't have much experience."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is Martin telling you to try it with someone else?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We didn't really talk about that. But I brought it up with Kathy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Kathy's the lady from the adult bookstore, right? Is Kathy into S&M?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She is a card-holding member. But she said that it's mostly for business. She doesn't do it too often, it's not really her thing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you been seeing Kathy a lot lately?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Just a couple of times. We met on Saturday to go the beach together."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like you are becoming friends."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I like her. She is very easy to talk to--about any subject, not just S&M. And she is a very nice down-to-earth person despite the fact that she is working in a leather shop."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We took a nice long walk on the beach and I got her up-to-date on Martin and me. It was actually funny."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We saw a couple of her customers on the beach. One even waved hello to us. Kathy told me about what kind of things they shop for. She said that a lot of her customers are not really into S&M--they do pretend and dress-up sessions, but don't actually use the stuff on each other."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "They just play with whips."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Right. It's sort of what I would rather do--pretend and act out different scenes, but not actually do it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Then you should tell Martin that. I'm worried that your phone S&M can give Martin a wrong idea about what you actually like--about what turns you on."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sure Martin knows by now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think I try to be very specific. And the picture he sent me this week doesn't have any nails. Not even thorns. There are no whips, just plants. I think he is realizing what I like."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I still think that you should try to be explicit. Tell Martin that it's role-playing that turns you on and not physical pain or the infliction of pain. Make sure that he knows that what you like to do is pretend."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, I'll talk to him. But I'm sure Martin knows this, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It wouldn't hurt to repeat it then."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll do it, I'll do it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Then I'll see you next week, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll be here, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "See you soon."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 37th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, April 10, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Anna. How are you today?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello, Doctor. I think I've made a decision to do it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "To do what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've been talking with Martin and he agrees that if I need to try being the bottom before being his top, then I should just go ahead and do it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mean Martin is encouraging you to go and get whipped?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "By whom, Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, of course not. And she's a bottom anyway."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Then by whom? A total stranger?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, there won't be any hard feelings that way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Martin doesn't mind if you go and get whipped by someone you've never met?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He wants it to be some one really good. But that's where Kathy comes in."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told you that Kathy is really plugged into the S&M community in San Francisco. She knows everyone and could recommend a very good top. Did you know that some of them have a reputation as being very talented at what they do? They even each specialize in particular techniques."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, I really don't think it's..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Relax, Doctor. I'll meet him first."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You picked the top already?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. Kathy arranged it all. There is this flea market this Sunday where they all get together and swap instruments and outfits and stuff. That's where I'll meet him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "A flea market?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, a flea market. Aren't you listening Doctor? But I have to say, I thought it was wild too. All these people getting together and shopping for second-hand hand-cuffs and floggers and who-knows-what. Kathy said that it's really cool. Sort of like a big party. People talk to each other and try things out--just have a good time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The last S&M party you went to didn't appeal to you much, if you remember."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I was completely unprepared for it. This time I know better. And the scene will be different, anyway. This will be very low key, very casual. No one will really be doing anything--just shopping and talking, that's all."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Right, just a little paddling, nothing much."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's right, Doctor. There's nothing to worry about. And if I don't like it, we'll leave."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Kathy will go with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. It's a closed party--invitation only. Kathy said that it will be a good introduction to the community. I get to meet people in more or less normal circumstances. Sure there'll be some dress-up and a little action here and there. But mostly it won't be anything that you won't see on Castro Street for example. And I'll meet Gray."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Gray is your talented top?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yup, a whip master from the Far East."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm just fooling around. But Gray does have a very good reputation. Kathy said that he did her once."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Uh huh."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy's point is that if I'm going to get whipped, it might as well be from someone who knows what he is doing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, I really think that this is a very bad idea."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You know?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I knew that you were going to say that. But if I don't do this, I will wonder for the rest of my life. And if I don't like it, I always can use my safe word and Gray will stop. It's completely safe and in my control. Anyway, it's not definite yet. I have to meet him first and then...you know I keep thinking about all my other boyfriends."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Huh? You mean Bill?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Bill, too. Can you imagine what they would think if only they knew that I was going to be a real leather-clad dominatrix?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, it really shouldn't be about what other people in your past will think. I cannot stress enough how wrong I think this whole thing is for you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, thank you for caring so much about me. Really, I appreciate it more than you think. But I'm not losing my head over this. If I don't like it, I don't like it. I won't do it if it doesn't feel right. I promise."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy will help me pick out a real nice and sexy leather thing to wear. I swear, if only Bill...and I don't mind if David saw me in it too. These men had such power over me. But now...maybe I'll wear the leather thing under my clothes to work one day. Even if no one sees it, I'll know that I have it on and...it's really about attitude anyway. Maybe I'll show you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Just kidding, Doctor. But I'll let you know when I have it on. You can use your own imagination."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I wonder just how many people there are who are fairly normal on the outside and are wearing a sexual secret underneath? It would certainly make me feel pretty special."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, you are a very special person even if you don't wear leather under your clothing and whip people for pleasure. You are trying to change yourself into someone that Martin will find sexually stimulating. You are willing to expose yourself to pain--which I don't think you've ever found sexually stimulating yourself--just to please a guy. This isn't about being powerful. It's another example of you allowing yourself to be manipulated by your sexual partners."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's not true. I'm doing this for my own intellectual and sexual gratification."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How is that? If it wasn't for Martin..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Martin doesn't want to whip me. He wants me to do it to him. I just want to try it out before I take the whip into my own hands. It's perfectly reasonable--don't do something unto others until you try it out on yourself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't think this is one of your amendments, Anna. If you remember, early on we created Anna's Bill of Rights to help you prevent situations like this one."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, I keep telling you, if I don't like what's going on for any reason, I'll stop right away. That's what the safe words are for. Do you want to know what my safe word is?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Doctor?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. If I yell out \"Doctor,\" Gray will stop whatever he is doing. It will be okay. You'll see."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When are you planning on doing this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We'll talk about it after we meet on Sunday. But I want to do it as soon as possible. I hate this murky area of indecision. I'm getting very emotionally involved with Martin. And before it's too late, I would like to know whether our relationship stands a chance. It doesn't mean that we will have to do it this way every time we make love. But I want to know that, once in awhile, I will be interested in pleasing him in a way that really turns him on. I think I'm doing a very smart thing, Doctor, by figuring everything out first before allowing this relationship to progress any further."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, I'm very worried that you'll end up hurt by this exploration. I have nothing against S&M as a sexual practice between people who desire to practice it. But S&M is not something that you were ever attracted to. I do believe that you are attracted to some of the role playing and theatrics that come with it, and I think you might even find that part sexual rewarding. But I believe that actually inflicting and submitting to pain will be emotionally and physically devastating to you. I wish you'd reconsider your decision, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I couldn't agree more with you, Doctor. I do love the theatrics of it all. And about the other stuff, I'll only know through experimentation. If it doesn't work, it doesn't work. It won't be the first time in my life when a relationship with someone I liked a lot didn't work out. That's what I have you for, Doctor. You'll make it all better. If I didn't have you, I might not be as brave to try things as I can under your care."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, you're succeeding in making me feel like our sessions might be a bad thing for you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh no, Doctor. Please just relax. Everything is okay. You'll see. Things will work out. Anyway, I've got to go. I'll call you if something happens."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Please think everything through before you do anything, Anna. Okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure thing, you know me. I'll see you next week, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll see you next week. Please call me if you want to talk."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will. I promise. Don't worry, Doctor. Bye."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Anna."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 76th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, April 16, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happened to you last week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You weren't here."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I thought I called you. We went on that company vacation I told you about. Remember?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You told me about it, but you never said when you were going."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sorry. I can clearly remember...with everything, I'm amazed that I'm as together as I seem."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yeah. Well, shall we start?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Your four week deadline is up; have you moved?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's great, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll write down my new address for you before I go."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. And how did it go?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well Friday, the day after our last session, my dad called and told me that a friend of his, a professor at UCSF, is going to Europe for a semester. He was looking for someone to housesit for him. They don't want to rent the house out because they are worried about San Francisco rent control laws and stuff, and his wife feels funny about letting strangers sleep on their bed--they don't want to pack up all their stuff. I can understand that. So my dad told them that I was looking for a place, and here I am."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's a good break."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. It's a bit more bizarre than it seems, though."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How's that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, my dad came up that weekend and took me over to meet them. And guess what?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The mild-mannered professor and his nice nice housewife belong to my S&M club. Of course, it was a bit hard to recognize him at first, since I've only seen the guy naked with a leather collar and cuffs."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was very charming. My dad didn't know a thing while his friend was just squirming. It was a scene."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I can only imagine."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But they were very nice to me, very nice. I basically get to live in this huge Victorian in lower Pacific Heights rent free. I have to pay for the utilities and that's all."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like a great deal."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It gets even better. I get full use of their dungeon!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Their in-law unit has been completely transformed into this nicely outfitted dungeon. And now it's all mine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Does your father..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He doesn't suspect a thing. The rest of the house is as vanilla as it could get. And Professor Zutkin was so freaked when he recognized me. You should have seen him--his hands were shaking and his face was all the colors of the rainbow. When his wife took my dad out to check out the garden in the back, he expressed great concern that someone from the university community might find out about his alternative lifestyle. I told him that he had nothing to worry about from me and that my dad doesn't suspect a thing. If he did, he would never have taken me there. He was so happy that he let me have the place basically for free."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I'm not allowed to throw any S&M parties there, although I can have a guest or two for play, if you know what I mean."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I do. But I was hoping that once you move away from Martin and Kathy, you'd stop with these experimentations."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know you were hoping that. But I told you before, I like it. And I like it despite everything that happened with Martin and Kathy. I'm not saying that I'll get all fanatical about it. I'm not going to change my lifestyle to accommodate the full range of my secret desires. But having my personal dungeon is very nice. You can come and visit sometime."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Thank you, I think I'll pass."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "As you like. But it has some very nice toys."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sure. So tell me more about the move. How did Kathy and Martin take it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess as you would expect. Martin acted as though he knew it all the time. He helped me pack and move my things over to the house. It was all very friendly. Friendly and cold at the same time. It was as if we were just roommates and nothing more. I was very happy that Caren and Greg showed up to help me move and I didn't have to deal with Martin all alone."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If I was given a chance, I feel like I would have gone off and done something very emotional and ultimately stupid. This way, it was all very civilized."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you think you would have done?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure. Something stupid. I don't want to talk about that, Doctor. I feel if I get into this, I'll just make myself live through this imaginary nightmare that I so neatly avoided in real life. So let's move on."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. Tell me about Kathy."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, that wasn't as clean as Martin."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know what her trip is. She was more than just upset when I made my announcement."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, the last few weeks, she's been all edgy and jumpy. She kept trying to talk to me, and I kept avoiding her. Then my dad came and took me away for all of Saturday. And in the evening, we drove to Davis for Easter and Sunday Brunch. Happy Easter, by the way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Thank you. Happy Easter to you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you. I rented a car for the week and left for Calistoga directly from my parents' house."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's the company get away?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. It was very nice, but a story in itself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I would like to hear about it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure, I'll be happy to tell you all about it. But let me finish up with Kathy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sorry, go ahead."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "This Monday, I drove directly to work. So I wasn't home for over a week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Monday night, I made my announcement, packed, and got ready to move first thing Tuesday--I wanted to use my rental car to help me move. In any case, Kathy didn't get any opportunity to confront me. After I told them that I was moving out, Kathy just sort of curled up in a ball in the corner by the window. She was sitting in the same position completely catatonic when I said my goodbyes and left the following morning."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sure it's not the last I'm going to hear from her. But she doesn't really know where I live now, and that's good."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But Martin knows."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't particularly want him to help me move for that reason. I thought it might be better if he didn't know where I lived either. But he insisted, and I couldn't say no. He took a day off from work to help me without any notice."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How nice of him."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I showed him the dungeon while Caren and Greg weren't looking. He thought it was very nice, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I bet. But Caren and Greg don't know about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They don't approve of my S&M tendencies, so why cause trouble?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I could just say that part of the house is not available to me. They don't have to know. And I don't have the use of the garage anyway--The Zutkins are storing their cars there, and I can't use them. So it's not like it's suspicious or anything."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, it's not. But Caren and Greg are your friends. They will be around to help you get over..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not planning to have a big emotional drama over Martin, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you feel like you've gotten over him already?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think so."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You don't have to believe me, Doctor. But I feel pretty confident right now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And Calistoga really helped."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So tell me what happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Aren't we out of time, Doctor?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're my last patient for today, so you can continue if you like."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I guess."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Remember I told you about David?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sure."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I made a very strong impression on that poor, sheltered boy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told you that he just blurted the whole S&M thing to my entire department?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, you did. You even said that Julian came to have a little talk with you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You were?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm the only female in our programming group. The only married person is Julian, and he brought his wife with him so he couldn't really lounge with us at night. But I had a blast."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And just to make it completely democratic, I left my bathing suit at home."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You've seen my breasts, Doctor. They're pretty nice, don't you think? Do you want to take another look?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, you're right. It's getting late..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I knew you would feel that way as soon as I started to talk about my breasts."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Have a nice evening, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. Good night, Anna."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 38th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, April 17, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor. Sorry I'm so late."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. Could you please call next time?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I almost didn't show up today."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why? Are you hurt? If that son of a bitch...you don't have to explain what happened to a doctor when you seek medical help. You don't have to feel embarrassed. Just go in and let your doctor look at your wounds."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, relax. I didn't do anything yet."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You didn't? But you said last time that..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just said that I was going to meet him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you didn't..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Get whipped?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. Kathy introduced me to Gray last Sunday, just as I described--during the S&M flea-market. He seems like a very nice guy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, really. He is a thirty-two-year-old graduate student at Berkeley."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What is he studying?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think he is an anthropology student."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Perfect."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, that's why I didn't think it was a good idea to come today."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Your attitude! You're obviously against this whole thing. You're clearly over-reacting."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry, Anna. I just imagined you hurt--you're right. I did over-react. I won't let it happen again. Now do you want to tell me about your meeting with Gray?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's better. Well, let me see. He is very good-looking. That sort of surprised me a bit."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why? Did you expect someone ugly?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, not ugly. Just sort of someone unimpressive, you know what I mean? And Gray is certainly impressive looking."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You said that he was nice. Did you have an opportunity to talk with him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The three of us when out to lunch together and talked."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Kathy went with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. Gray has a very commanding presence. I was even intimidated by him a bit at first. Kathy came along to act as a social catalyst of sorts."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's very nice of Kathy. So what's so commanding about Gray? His personality?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's his whole way of being--his mannerisms, his style, his way of expressing himself. You feel like he is always in control of the situation. I could see how women would surrender themselves to him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you feel like surrendering yourself to Gray?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm involved, Doctor. All I'm asking Gray to do is to introduce me to what it's like being a bottom in an S&M relationship. I'm not interested in him per se--just in his talents and his ability to show me the secret of pleasure from pain. It's an educational thing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Did you tell Martin about Gray?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told him that a friend of mine had found someone appropriate for me. I didn't think it was a good idea to get into details."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why not? Don't you have Martin's approval to get whipped by a strange man?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Gray is no longer a stranger to me. I interviewed him and I think he is going to be a very good teacher. There is no reason why my S&M teacher should be unattractive or sexually unappealing to me, is there? If I'm going to go through the experience of S&M erotica, it might as well be with someone I find stimulating in that way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you're attracted to Gray?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You can say that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And you don't want to tell Martin about Gray because of the sexual attraction you feel for Gray, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Why torture the man? I'm doing all this for our benefit--mine and Martin's. He knows that. Martin is being very supportive of me on this issue. And by the way..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Gray is very supportive too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy and I explained the whole situation to him over lunch. We talked about Martin and what he is into. Then I tried to convey to Gray why I was interested in his services. You know, this guy really took the time to talk to us and to understand my needs and wishes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's nice."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it was. Gray didn't have to do any of it. When he gives lessons at the S&M techniques seminars, there are dozens of people who line up to volunteer to be his bottom for the demonstrations. This guy has tons of people just dying to be whipped by him. I really do think that it was nice of Gray to do this for me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Uh huh. And so when is Gray going to privately tutor you in the arts of S&M?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tomorrow night, after work. I'll meet him over at his place at around 9 o'clock."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why his place?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Because he has a dungeon, of course! Did you think we were going to do it over at my apartment? What would the neighbors think?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That you brought home a nice, educated boy. And good-looking too."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're doing it again--the ironic stuff designed to make me change my mind. Well, I'm not going to."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I wish you would give it a lot of thought."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Do you think I've been thinking of something else this week? If you were going to be initiated into the pleasures of sexual pain, would you be thinking about whether you paid your bills this month? Or something equally mundane?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Fortunately, I'm not faced with the prospect of being whipped tomorrow."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's not like some dreaded horror that's weighing on my mind either."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Then you'll have a very good night's sleep tonight."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll try! But I am a little excited."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Look, since I clearly can't change your mind..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, please! Stop being so angry with me. I'll be all right. It's not like I'm setting myself up to be attacked in a blind alley or something. I can always make him stop. Please don't worry."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know the thought of me being whipped will be weighing heavily on your mind. And I really appreciate it. I can't tell you just how much it means to me, in fact."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Will you call me if anything goes wrong?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Absolutely. And I even promise to seek medical help, if I feel the necessity."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay then, I'll see you next week. Good luck tomorrow, Anna. I hope you find what you're looking for."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will. And I'll tell you all about it soon. I promise. See you next week, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I almost forgot. Here is another one of Martin's masterpieces."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh look. It has a head."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I thought you'd like it."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 77th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, April 23, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Anna. How are you this week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello, Doctor Balis. I'm all right, thank you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good, good. Please, sit down."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I think I'll stand for a while, if you don't mind. You have such a nice view out of this window, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, it's very nice. Is everything all right? Are you hurt?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The last time you wouldn't sit was right after the incident with Gray, the whipmaster."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, god. You have a very good memory."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's not the kind of thing I'm likely to forget."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess not. I was really sore, wasn't I?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yeah."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But no. This time no one has touched by butt, with a whip or with a paddle, in quite some time. You don't have to worry, Doctor, I'm quite all right. I just wanted to stand for a while. But if this makes you uncomfortable, I'll sit."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's up to you. I just wanted to make sure that..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks. It's nice to be worried over sometimes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So how is the new place working out for you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's quite nice. Lot's of room. Pretty."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, there are no buts really."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's just that...it's just silly."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What is so silly?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm just in a bad mood or something. I get totally irritated at the stupidest things. And it's not even my period."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Can you describe what makes you so irritable?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I was walking down the hall and there were these pictures standing in nice frames on a little table in the corner. It was a perfectly good table and very nice pictures."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, and?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just couldn't stand them being there. I was so angry at them being there--for no good reason--that I had to grab them all and shove them into the drawer."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did that make you feel better?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "For the moment it did. But then later at SII, I felt so guilty for doing it that I left work early so I could put them back out on the table."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was completely irrational. And there are tons of things like that. I had to get rid off all the stupid junk that Eleanor--the Professor's wife--spreads out in their bathroom. There were creams, and douches, and nail polish, and thousands of different types of makeup. I hope when I get old, I don't become addicted to all that beauty stuff like that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Are you angry at Eleanor for leaving her personal hygiene objects and cosmetics in her bathroom?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it's my bathroom now. I have to live there. And there is all this stuff. It's everywhere. Everytime I sit down to read, there are things around me reminding me that this is not mine. Nothing is mine. I can't cook in that kitchen--all the stuff is in the wrong place."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Can you rearrange some things in the house to make it more to your liking?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Somehow I feel guilty doing that. I moved one chair in the bedroom closer to the window so I can read in a natural light and just generally be more comfortable. But there is this large square area on the carpet where the chair used to be, and it's making me unhappy. Stupid, right? So each time I finish reading, I move the chair back to it's normal position. And it's like that with everything. It's just not my home. It doesn't feel mine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's true that a house and its contents reflect the personality of its owners. But while you live there, you can certainly try to make the place more to your liking. Take all the toiletries from the bathroom, put them in the box, and move them to the garage. When the Professor and his wife come back, you can put them all back. You can do the same in the kitchen. Do you have your own utensils?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. They are in the box in the garage."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Pull them out. Six months..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's eight months. They are staying to travel through Europe for a couple of months after the semester ends."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Eight months is a long time. Make yourself comfortable, make the place as much your own as you can."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess. I feel silly walking around hating the stupid coffee maker that they have."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It is silly, especially when you can use yours."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you had anyone over for dinner yet?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Perhaps you should. It will give you a chance to feel like a hostess."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "When are you available, Doctor?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I was thinking of your parents. I think they would like that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm. I guess I can do that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. And keep the chair by the window where you like it. Eight months of moving it back and forth on the carpet will not improve it or the carpet."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Right. Thank you, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "For what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "For giving me permission, I guess."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sure. So how was the rest of your week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Somehow I feel so alone. Remember I told you how I used to talk to Bill in my head after we broke up?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You said that you had continuous imaginary conversations with him where he was telling you just how sorry he was that you were gone."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it wasn't all about that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you having the same type of conversations with Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I had those conversations while I still lived in the apartment. I guess I said all I had to say to him and I no longer need to keep that connection going."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I find myself talking to Kathy a lot. The first time it happened, the first time I caught myself doing it, I just freaked out. Why would I want to talk to her? She made my life so miserable. But there I was discussing the value of friendship with her, as if she really knows what it means."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "She was your friend for a long time. I think this might be your way of putting closure on that relationship."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What is the tone of these conversations?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tone?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you confronting her? Are you trying to explain to her your feelings?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess it might be a bit of both. There was a point when I relied on her for support. I looked up to her, and I learned from her. And I never really realized the emptiness that was created when we became competitors for Martin's affections. Well, emptiness might not be the right word. I had so many emotions and feelings surging through me at the same time then--emptiness is just not the right description."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Go on."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's like I couldn't unload my feelings somehow. I talked with Martin about how I felt, and I had conversations with Caren and Greg. But that didn't feel like I was letting go. It was always very well edited and filtered to fit my audience, and it never resulted in the emotional release I guess I was seeking from those interactions."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't really know what I'm talking about, Doctor. I'm just making it up as I go along. I never really analyzed all of this."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're doing fine. It sounds like you miss having a good friend."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. I feel like I have multiple personalities. Everyone gets a certain facet of me, but no one really knows the totality. God, it sounds too pretensious, don't you think? I'm beginning to feel too full of myself. Let's just stop now, Doctor, before I run away with myself. Okay?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I thought you were doing very well."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, as long as you are happy, Doctor. But seriously, I've got to get going. I'll see you next week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. Our time is just about up anyway. Have a good week, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you. Goodbye."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 39th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, April 24, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. Oh god..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't freak out, Doctor. The neck-brace and the lump on my forehead are actually my fault."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. So what happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You don't mind if I stand today, do you Doctor Balis?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, go ahead and do what's most comfortable for you, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you, Doctor. I'm a bit sore."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Is that your fault as well?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "In a manner of thinking."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hurting a bit from the whipping?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually more like a lot."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Would you be more comfortable lying down?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I don't think so."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. So would you like to tell me what happened to you or do you want me to guess?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I think I would rather tell you. The idea of you trying to guess scares me a bit."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Uh huh."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Please look at me nicely, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I beg your pardon?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You have this look on your face; I feel bad enough as it is."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sorry, Anna. I'm just very concerned."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So let me start by saying that you were right."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was a very stupid idea. Ouch!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What's wrong?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It hurts to lean on the window this way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "May I suggest not leaning on the window?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Be nice to me, Doctor. I'm having problems maintaining my outwardly normal composure as it is."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I can see that. Why don't you try telling me what happened last Friday? That's a good starting point, isn't it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "As I said, you were absolutely right and I shouldn't have done what I did."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did Gray hurt you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I wish it was that simple. I mean it did hurt. When he was lashing me with his whip, it hurt a lot. But I was prepared for that and...that's not really the problem."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happened, Anna?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was unbelievably emotional, Doctor. I was really unprepared for feeling that way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did you feel?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, let me start at the beginning. I drove up to Gray's house late Friday evening, a bit later than we originally planned. He lives South of Market and I got a bit lost driving to his place."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Kathy didn't go with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I didn't think it was appropriate. She knew that I was going there and if anything...well, you understand."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No. What do you mean."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, Kathy was my silent partner. If she didn't hear from me the next morning, she was supposed to come and get me. She was my safety net."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand, but why the next morning? Why so late?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It wasn't like Gray was a total stranger. And I somehow felt that having Kathy wait for my call at night wasn't appropriate--she wouldn't get any sleep and I felt that I was going to miss out on something."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Like what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That night was about doing something dangerous. I didn't want to take away from that feeling."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "When I got to Gray's, he yelled at me for being late. He said that he expects his bottoms to be on time. I was so shocked by his attitude that I almost left. But he ordered me to take off my clothes and follow him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I had to. I stripped off right there in his front hall. Everything had to come off including the leather corset I got just for that occasion--Gray wouldn't let me keep it on."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why not?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was not allowed to ask. He made me march upstairs into a large attic space that was converted into a dungeon. It was a very strange place. All the lighting was located on the floor at either end of the room where the slanted walls that formed the roof met the floor. The lighting made these very extreme shadows. It was almost like when we were kids and we'd hold flashlights under our faces while telling a ghost story, but even more so. In the middle of the room there was a post. Gray took my wrists and tied them way over my head to the notches in the post. Then he made me spread my legs apart and tied each foot to a ring in the floor. I felt completely helpless. I didn't mind my arms being tied down like that. But having my legs spread apart was a very strange sensation."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Can you describe it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know exactly. I think that women are just used to keeping their legs together. There are only a few opportunities during life's normal activities where you'd have your legs pulled apart like that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Was it a pleasurable experience?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It made me feel very much out of control. It made Gray bigger somehow, towering over me. I felt like he could do anything to me. It was very exciting."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you liked being tied down?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, actually a lot. I got extremely wet waiting for Gray to get ready. There was a slight draft in the room from this window at one end. The window was closed, but I could feel the cold air giving me a chill on the wetness spreading down my inner thighs."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Gray tied you up and left you alone?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh no. He was in the room. I watched him take out all these S&M toys and carefully lay them out onto this table. And I was perfectly comfortable. The knots on my wrists and feet didn't hurt."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Gray then stripped off his shirt. He was wearing these tight black leather pants. These were really tight. I could watch as he was getting turned on by me and what he was doing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was facing the window and could see the entire downtown and the Bay Bridge. It was quite beautiful."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No curtains?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There was no need--no one could see us. This was a pretty isolated part of town, especially at night and Gray even told me that I was free to be as loud as I was wanted to be--no one would hear."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "After what felt like a very long time, Gray approached me with this long black leather whip with braided ends. He caressed my skin with the whip, playing it across my arms and chest. I was so keyed-up from anticipation that I was ready to beg him to whip me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I couldn't--it was so exciting I felt breathless and couldn't utter a sound. Gray moved the whip between my thighs and I could feel the wet leather as it came out across my ass. And then suddenly he hit. It was a lot more painful then I imagined it was going to be. I thought it was going to sting, but this really hurt."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you want him to stop at that point?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I had gotten so far, I didn't want to stop then. He gave me two more lashes and then stopped. I had my eyes closed and couldn't see what he was doing, so I braced myself for more. But Gray told me to open my eyes--he moved a large mirror so that I could see myself from the side. He told me to look as he raised the whip and hit me across the back again. It was both frightening and arousing at the same time. He ordered me to thank him for his attentions, but I still couldn't talk. He hit me again. And then something happened. I got my voice back and could hear myself screaming, a really high pitch scream like in a horror movie. He hit me twice more. I could see how turned on he was in the mirror. He told me that he was going to fuck my face now. To my horror, I could feel my mouth water at the suggestion."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I thought that you only wanted the experience of being whipped?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. But I was really overwhelmed. I wanted to suck him so bad. Before I knew it, or really even had time to think about it, I was on my knees in front of Gray with my arms still tied together and..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you regret what you did?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was the first time in my life that I cheated on someone."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mean Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I still can't believe that I'm capable of doing something like that to someone I cared so much about. When I was driving home from Gray's that night, I felt this horrible shame. But then I got very angry. This was all Martin's fault! He actually encouraged me to go out and seek sexual satisfaction with another man. Martin and I haven't even had sex yet!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So are you feeling guilty?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No! I feel angry. I think Martin knowingly drove me to commit infidelity. If it wasn't for him, I would still be the kind of person who would never ever cheat on a lover."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you speak to Martin about this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "When I got home, there was a message from him on my answering machine. He wanted to know how it went. So I picked up the phone and let him know!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. How did Martin take it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The bastard was just fine about it! I mean how can he care about me if he wants me to sleep with other men? Anyway, you'll be relieved to know that Martin and I are no longer together."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I spent the weekend with Kathy nursing my wounds. She is a great nurse."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did you injure your neck and head?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, right. I had a car accident."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was driving to Kathy's place the next day, but I was too sore to really sit down in the seat. So I was trying to drive while sort of standing up. Anyway, it didn't work really well. San Francisco's roads are so steep anyway...well, there was this bump and I hit a streetlight."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Streetlight?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The streetlight was fine. But I hit the windshield with my head and then smashed back into the driver's seat really hard--hence the whiplash."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you see a doctor?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy took me to the emergency room. I'm all right, just a bit sore."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. I guess it could have been worse."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I don't know. I didn't even get amnesia or something out of it. Wouldn't that be great? \"Doctor, I just don't know why I have these bruises on my back.\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're bruised?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh...you want to see?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, I can imagine."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, it's no problem. Here. It looks worse then it feels, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. Put your shirt back on."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Look, it's late. I'm going to go home. It was a hard week. You can't imagine how it is to go to work like this. My job requires sitting. I have to go to elaborate measures to avoid it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did you explain this at work?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I said that I was in a car accident. People were very sympathetic actually."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll see you next week, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. Take care of yourself, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You keep saying that, Doctor. Goodbye."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Anna."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 78th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, April 30, 1998 at 4:00 pm."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. Please come in."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You look tired. Have you been getting enough sleep lately?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I haven't been sleeping well, actually."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you still feel uncomfortable in the new house?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess it's better now. I did what you suggested and invited my parents over for the weekend. It was the first time they've stayed over at my place--well, the Professor's place--since I moved away from home."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And how was that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was nice. They drove up Saturday afternoon, and I made an early dinner for them. Sunday, they took me out for brunch. It was all very nice."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you talk about Martin and Kathy at all?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "A bit."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And? I feel like I'm pulling teeth with you today, Anna. Are you not in a mood to talk or is there something bothering you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You sound resentful."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess I am a bit. By the time she was my age, my mom was married already. But that was then. People don't even start looking for a life-partner until they're in their thirties now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You considered marrying Martin."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And look where that landed me. I'm living alone in a giant house which isn't mine, full of furniture and stuff lurking in the corners which doesn't leave me alone."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know that chair you told me to move?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I did move it and I didn't move it back. But that piece of clean carpet is screaming at me, Doctor. I cringe every time I even think of that stupid patch of wool."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But don't worry, Doctor. I'm determined not to move that chair back. I'm doing everything in my power to get that part of the carpet as dirty as the rest of the house."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Wouldn't it be easier to clean the whole carpet instead?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Perhaps. But it wouldn't be as much fun. Now, I deliberately wear dirty shoes in the house."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But frankly, I just hadn't thought of your clean solution."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How about the cutlery?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm using mine now. And it's better. But I had to spend a lot of time drawing charts documenting the original location of all those stupid utensils."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. But now it's done, and you don't have to think about it again, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess. Except that when my parents came to dinner and my mom wanted to help me cook, she couldn't find anything. She is used to where everything used to be--they went over to that house for dinner a few times before."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tell me more about your mom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She is fine. She is very sweet, in fact. It's just that she had these expectations of how my life will unfold, and it's not working out that way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think she is disappointed?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know she is. A lot of her friends have become grandmothers now, and she wants to be one, too. But she doesn't want me to be unhappy and in some relationship just to get a grandchild. She is just a worrier. But my dad was great and ran interference for me a whole bunch of times while they were there."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you feel pressured by your mother to be in a relationship?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Pressured is not exactly right. I just know that she wants me to be with someone...to find someone that I can be happy with. And I want that, too. But I haven't encountered any prospects yet, except maybe..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know how I've always felt about you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Don't even go there, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How's work?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Smooth transition, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anything interesting going on?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think quite the opposite."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, when our programming team was first chosen for the millennium bug project, it was great. We got all sorts of perks during and after. I'm even looking at getting a huge bonus this quarter."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what's the problem?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, the problem is that I'm part of the millennium bug team."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not following you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, now the SII Mole has been released. There has been a lot of good publicity, and people seem to like it. I have to say that I feel a little like a proud mom when it comes to the Mole. We have little cartoons of the Mole character that we designed all over our cubicles. It's kind of cute."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The Marketing Department doesn't seem to like it as much as we do, though--something about it being a bit oversexed. But Lloyd, I'm told, likes it just fine. He has one hanging in his office."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. But what does this have to do with your obvious feeling of unhappiness regarding your job?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, that was fun. But now every Tom, Dick, and Harry wants a customized version of SII Mole for their organization."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Big demand?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You can definitely say that. And since I was on the original team, I get the privilege of being on the Mole customization team. At this rate, I'll be doing Moles until I turn eighty."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll get paid well, but I don't stand a chance of doing anything fun ever again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I guess everything has it's downside."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. At least I'm busy; that helps a lot."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you still having imaginary conversations with Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you feel like you're reaching closure with respect to that relationship?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Let me tell you about my dungeon, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Smooth transition, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, the boys at the office kept bugging me about all that S&M crap. So I invited them to come and see. We got together last Tuesday evening and had a party."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It wasn't a real S&M party--none of them really had a clue about that. So I don't feel like I have violated the Professor's covenants or anything."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Of course not."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, really. It was more like a field trip into a S&M culture. I got dressed up in my little leather outfit and demonstrated the many toys Professor and Eleanor are into. It was a ball. David was very funny. He felt that since he had actually been to one of these things before, he got to act as my assistant. He even tried to dress the part. He wore these leather pants and jacket, and a pair of cowboy's boots. No shirt. When I saw him, I just had to laugh. But he tried. It wasn't close, but he tried."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did your co-workers enjoy the field trip?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Very much. I showed off the shoes that Martin gave me. I'm sure they'd seen stuff like that before, but probably never on a real live person. And I did a paddling demonstration--David volunteered."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That was my favorite part. That boy deserves a beating."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anything else?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. We ordered pizza and watched a movie I rented."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What movie?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was sort of an S&M tutorial. I picked it up at the store."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Kathy's store?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She no longer works there."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did it feel to go back there?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Strange. I half expected to see Kathy there."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you want to see her?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. But she wasn't there. There was some idiot running the store. He didn't even know where anything was. I had to help him out when a customer asked him for some assistance on locating hypoallergenic lubricant."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's late, isn't it?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, we are out of time."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I can see that. Well, I better be going then. I'll see you next week, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right, I'll see then. Goodbye, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye, Doctor."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 40th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, May 1, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. How are you feeling? How's the healing process going?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Fine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see you're no longer wearing the neck brace and your forehead is looking much much better."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. How are the bruises on your back?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Fine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Did you speak with Martin last week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did he try to contact you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean? Did he try to call you or not?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did he leave messages on your machine?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I canceled my answering service."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. May I ask why you did that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't want to talk to people."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Do you answer the phone if someone calls while you're at home?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. If I need to speak with someone, I can call them myself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. So if I need to reach you, for example, I'm simply out of luck?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess so."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Well, these are some drastic changes in your life style. Can you tell me what motivated you to become a hermit?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just don't want to talk to anyone now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're talking to me. Barely, actually."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just feel so...so ashamed of myself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why? What happened to you, Anna?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know. You know everything, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you feeling bad about your S&M encounter?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I feel like I've been branded for life!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The bruises on your back will go away and in a few weeks you wouldn't even be able to tell that there was anything there. What happened, Anna? When you left here last week, you felt hurt but mostly you felt anger toward Martin for placing you in a bad situation. But now you're barely speaking in full sentences. Did something happened that I don't know about?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh god, I was angry. I was very angry at Martin. He changed me. And I don't like the person that I've become. But as that anger faded, I felt like I was coming out of this fog that was clouding my brain, my judgment. What right do I have to be angry with Martin? He didn't do anything. He just told me about his perversions and I listened. And then I was the one that went out and actively sought them out and tried to experience them. And what's more, I liked it. Now, I'm the kind of woman that likes being beaten and forced into having sex with a man she barely knows."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hold on, Anna. You wanted to experience something before doing it to your lover. Now you know. That's all."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I liked it. Don't you see, Doctor? I'm the kind of person that likes that sort of thing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What I remember from our last session is that you thought that it really hurt to get whipped. My impression was that you didn't enjoy that part of the evening at all. Don't you remember?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I let him do it to me. And afterwards I even thanked him for his time and attention."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's part of the S&M ritual, that's all. You were doing what you thought was expected of you, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. But I was turned on. I wanted to suck him off before Gray asked...commanded me to do it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think you were mostly turned on by the helplessness of your situation--your arms tied above your head and your legs spread eagle and tied to the rings in the floor. There are a lot of women who find that sexually stimulating."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There are women who find beating to be sexually stimulating, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes. But I don't think you're one of them."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "How do you know? You weren't there."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You described the encounter in some detail to me, Anna. And I've also developed a pretty good idea of who you are as a person over the last ten months of therapy. So let's talk about what's really bothering you. You said that you felt shame. Tell me specifically when and why you feel this way."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Almost all the time. I walk around SII and I feel like everyone can tell."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Can tell what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Can tell that I'm this inferior creature."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Inferior in what way?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I like...I want and need to be dominated by a man. I need to be submissive. I can't respond to other people as equals."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Of course you can. You did so all your life. That hasn't changed just because you participated in what was really a role-playing situation for you. It was just role-playing for you, remember? You said yourself that it was more about pretending and fantasy then anything else. Remember? I'm just repeating your own words."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I remember. But that was before, when it was all just speculation. Now, things are different."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How are they different?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's not just talk any more."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you planning on doing this again?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I...I don't know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you want to do this again?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What if I can't help it?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What if I can't help doing it again and again? What if I'm really a bottom and just didn't know it before?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think you're a bottom?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. But when I walk down the street, people look at me differently now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How do they look at you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They can see that I'm inferior. They look down on me. I have to move out of people's way as I walk."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I never have the right-of-way anymore."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's silly, Anna. There are some very rude people on the streets Downtown especially during rush hour. But their behavior is not about you. It's about them and who they are. Did something in particular happened to you that sparked this feeling of inferiority?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. I just woke up one morning and couldn't bare to look at myself anymore. I felt dirty, disgusting. It felt gross just to touch my own skin. I got into the shower and stood there for about two hours. It was all right under the water somehow. But as soon as I got out, that feeling of being contaminated was back."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you feel this way now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. It makes my hair stand on end. It doesn't even go away at night when I sleep."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happens when you sleep?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I have these dreams."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you remember any of them?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not all of them. But I know they were bad, even if I don't remember them after waking."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Can you tell me a dream that you remember?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There was this dream I had just before I got up this morning. I'm not sure if it was responsible for waking me up, but..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What was is it about?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was very short. The dream started with my mother and me looking down at the blood left on the cutting board after the butchering of the dinner meat. My mother and I made dinner together, but it was my mother that cooked the meat that night. By the time the dream started, we had already had our dinner. Somehow, I knew all this information--it wasn't really part of the imagery of the dream. What I saw in the dream was the raw blood itself on the cutting board. My mother was leaning next to me. I could feel her presence near me more then I could actually see her. All I saw was the blood."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's not the bad part. In the blood, we could clearly see these things moving around. They were shaped like tiny black sperms and wiggled through the blood like sperm. They were parasites."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. My mother made the meat rare--these things were alive inside the meat when we ate it!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was a very short dream--just images of the blood on the board with these things in it, the feeling of mother's head close to mine, and the shared knowledge that we ate contaminated meat for dinner."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You said that you awoke right after this dream. How often do these dreams wake you up?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. But I've been sleeping very poorly the last couple of weeks, although I didn't start having these dreams until this past weekend."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think you need to get some rest, Anna. You had a very stressful couple of weeks--the S&M night, the break-up with Martin, the car accident, the physical traumas. You need to get some rest. I think you'll be able to look at your situation from a whole different perspective once you get the sleep your body so desperately needs. Do you still have some of that melatonin left? It really worked well for you in the past."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, I think I still have some."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Take some when you get home tonight. And if you can, call in sick tomorrow--I want you to get some rest. Maybe you should consider driving up to see your parents over the weekend. That always seems to help. What do you think?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My car is still in the shop."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Can you rent one?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess so. Maybe you're right. I should go and visit my mom and dad."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. And call me if you feel like things are getting out of control. Don't wait so long next time, okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay then, I'll see you next week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And Anna, get your answering service back, please."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll think about it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. Goodbye then. Have a good weekend with your parents. Relax and get some sleep--doctor's orders."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Mmm."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, I know that I'm your Doctor. But we also have this other bond between us, a bond which we've both worked hard to suppress so that I could keep being your therapist. And it has to stay that way. But I want you to understand something. I think of you as really something very amazingly special and in no way inferior. And even if you decide that you are sexually attracted towards some aspects of S&M, it won't change my opinion at all."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh Doctor!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll see you next week, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you, Doctor."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 79th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, May 7, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello, Doctor Balis. If you don't mind, I think I'll sit in this far corner today."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't mind, but why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think I might be coming down with the stomach flu."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That doesn't sound good. What are your symptoms?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you been exposed to this flu?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Most of the people in my department got it. I'm one of the last ones to go."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, I'm sorry. I hope it's just a stomachache and not the flu. But please try not to breathe on me too much."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's my plan. And kissing is totally out of the question, of course."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Of course. Now tell me about your week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, there's not much to tell, except..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, Kathy is sort of staying with me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's not as bad as you think."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh? Please, tell me more."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I came home last Monday night, and Kathy was there, sitting on my steps waiting for me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Why was she there?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She said that she had no other place to go."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's clearly not true. You know that, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "There's her Aunt Helen, and her grandmother..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She said that she couldn't face her family right now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And why is that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, you know. It's everything that happened. If I was Kathy, I wouldn't want to face my family, either."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you're sympathetic to her?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "A little. Not much."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But she is \"sort of\" staying with you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's just for a few days until she finds an apartment. That's all."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Does she have a job?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not yet, but she's looking for one."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Does she have any money to rent an apartment?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sure she does."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy said that it has really been impossible living with Martin since I left. She said that while I was there, there was at least a pretense that she and Martin could have a relationship. But after that..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you by any chance blaming yourself for Kathy's problems with Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You are, aren't you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, a little. Kathy said that she was very vulnerable after the abortion. She said that she kept having these terrible recurring nightmares. And Martin wouldn't have anything to do with her. She told me how she kept trying to get his support. But when she told him about her nightmare seeing the cut up baby in the wastebasket, he just walked out for three whole days. Finally, she said that she just couldn't take it anymore. He never even called to find out what happened to her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does Martin know that Kathy's with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy left him a long message explaining why she left and how he could get in touch with her if he needed to."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The nightmares are really bad. She wakes up screaming two or three times a night. And when I come by to see her, she's all white and trembly and totally wet."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The nightmare is the cut-up baby in the wastebasket?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She was pretty far along, and she did see the fetus on the ultrasound or something. So she has a very clear image of what the baby looked like. And she said that she was once assaulted by this anti-abortion activist woman who kept shoving pictures of cut up fetuses who must have been still alive when they were shredded to bits like that. Kathy said that she was never able to get those pictures out of her mind. And after she had the abortion herself, the baby on that picture transformed into her own. It's really so horrible, don't you think?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did she ever tell you why she had the abortion?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Uh, no, not really. But I just don't feel right to press her on that issue right now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So Martin is not very sympathetic to Kathy's torment over the lost baby."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He is not at all. Kathy said that he forbid her to talk to him about it. She was never to mention anything relating to the baby, or the pregnancy, or the abortion."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "As I remember, Martin was really upset when Kathy chose to discontinue the pregnancy, especially since the baby was all right and was shown not to have Down's syndrome."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, that's true. And I was upset as well, although I believe that Kathy ultimately did the right thing. I don't think that baby would have had a happy life given the situation. And Kathy had the right to chose what she wanted to do. It's her body."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Let's drop the abortion issue for the moment. Tell me what are you planning to do regarding Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What do you mean, Doctor?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Let me be more explicit. Kathy has no job, no money, and no place that she wants to stay other than yours. Right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Look, Doctor. Kathy was my friend. We had a terrible falling out. But now she has come to me for help. I don't want her living with me. But I can't just throw her out, can I now?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "She is not your responsibility, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And I'm not planning to make her my responsibility, Doctor. I'm just keeping her from sleeping on the street while she takes a few days to find a place. That's all."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Kathy has been staying with you since Monday?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you give her a deadline by which she needs to move out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She was talking four, five days at the most."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tonight will be her fourth night."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. But this weekend she can go to the open houses..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You searched for a place yourself just a few short weeks ago. It wasn't very easy to find one, was it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will go with her and help."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How are you planning on helping? You are not going to co-sign any leases for her, are you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, that would be stupid."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. I'm glad you realize that. Look, the longer Kathy stays with you, the harder it will be to get her out."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I suppose so."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You said yourself just a few sessions ago that Kathy is very manipulative. I can see..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know, I can see it, too. But I just can't throw her out. Where will she go?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's not your responsibility."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It will become your responsibility, if you let it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Look, Doctor, I know what you're saying, and I even agree with it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I've got to go home now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy is making me dinner."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's okay. She's is trying to repay me for being nice to her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll see you next week. And you'll see--Kathy will have moved out by then."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Please call me, if you need my help. And please try to be assertive with Kathy. She will take advantage of you, if you let her."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. Thank you, Doctor. I'll see you next week. Good night."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good night, Anna."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 41st Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, May 8, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. You look much better today. How are you feeling?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Better. I followed your advice and went home for the weekend. Funny, it's been years since I lived with my parents and I still call visiting them \"going home.\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's where you grew up; you spent most of your life there. It would be more unusual if you didn't feel at home there at least on some level."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, I feel fortunate. Some people don't have that. Kathy doesn't. Her mother died when she was still a little girl. And after her father remarried, she never felt that sense of being home in his house. I feel sorry for her. I would hate to be so utterly alone in the world. Sometimes, I imagine what it will be like when my parents die--it will happen some day."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's unfortunate, but true."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My stomach turns cold, like there is a large piece of ice in there. I feel an overwhelming sense of dread. At those times, I have to remind myself that they are still alive and everything is okay and I don't have to worry. But I know it's looming somewhere out there on the time horizon. I hope it's way far out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I hope so too. Did you have a good weekend with your parents?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was a bit strange."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They were very concerned about my injuries. I had told them about the car accident on the phone. But my mom really freaked when she saw me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You were wearing your neck brace?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I wasn't. But the thing on my forehead is still visible and it was worse when I went up there. Plus I was taking all these pain killers..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You didn't tell me that before. What were you taking?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Vicodins--they were prescribed to me by the doctor in the emergency room. I've been taking them for almost three weeks now, although not as much now as before. That stuff was really making me stoned. I felt so edgy and I couldn't sleep. And it was very hard getting my work done. But they did take the edge off the pain. But it was strange, really--what the drugs seemed to do was make me forget about my neck, but as soon as I thought about the pain, it hurt as much as before. It's like it stopped me from concentrating on the pain, rather than actually getting rid of it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Usually Vicodin would make you drowsy, but I've heard of patients who couldn't sleep. Vicodin is a narcotic and I don't think it's a very good one. I'm against prescribing it to patients with pain problems. Although it is a Category 3 narcotic, doctors like to precribe it because it is a dysphoric--it makes you feel bad, so its potential for abuse is somewhat lower than some Category 2 narcotics like Percocet. That's the depression and edginess you said you were experiencing. Your dejected mood of the past week could easily be explained by the fact that you've been taking this medication. You said that you are still taking it but less so than before?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe only one pill in the evening--it's still very uncomfortable after a full day of moving around. Mostly, it's the headaches from the pain in the neck. My neck gets very stiff after a while and that translates into a headache by the end of the day."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Taking one pill is not so bad, though I wish you'd try to stick to over-the-counter medications like ibuprofen. Do you feel that the depression you were experiencing last week is getting better?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The world does seem a bit brighter. Last week, it felt like someone just hit me with a load of bricks, psychologically speaking. I still feel very uncomfortable about my S&M night, but I no longer think that people can tell what I did just by looking at me--people on the streets are just rude bastards again, and not out to dominate me by refusing me the right of way and pushing me off the edge of the sidewalks. That whole thing was just a bit paranoid of me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad you've been able to gain some perspective."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I'm still horrified that I found that experience pleasurable on any level."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Try to sort out exactly what aspects of that night were exciting to you. As we talked about it last week, the actual pain that you felt from the whip didn't turn you on at all."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. It was more about being helpless--being tied down and not in a position to help myself. I thought a lot about that night, reliving it in my head over and over again. When I fell asleep, I'd have dreams about it. In the dreams, my dominant partner is this gigantic figure towering over me. His breathing is like a hot wind on my back. I long to move--my whole body trembles with excitement--but the restraints on my legs and wrists keep me firmly in place. Only my hips can sort of sway back and forth. The closer my top comes to me, the more excited I feel."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is Gray the dominant man in your dreams?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I actually don't know who it was. In the dream, I have a blindfold with just a tiny slit though which I can see shadows of the figure behind me on the wall. But it's definitely that attic dungeon in Gray's house. The dreams are very intense and very real."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you experience orgasms during these dreams?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sort of."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I get almost unbearably aroused during the dream and desperately want to have an orgasm, but my top won't let me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How does he stop you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He hits me and everything just goes away until he builds it up again. This happens over and over again. In the dream, I practically beg him to let me come. But...this all makes me feel very perverse."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "These are just fantasies."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I did try it out for real. I told Kathy about the dreams. She thought they were very sexy. She even made me a bit uncomfortable about telling her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy went with me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Went where? To your parents?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She drove me there and spent the weekend with me. My parents didn't mind having an extra guest. And I have a queen size bed in my room, so there wasn't a problem with sleeping arrangements."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You and Kathy shared a bed?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. It felt sort of like pajama party--when I was little, I would have these all-girl overnight parties. We'd talk about boys and some such stuff. I learned about periods that way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Menstruation?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "One girl got hers very early, and we all talked about the unfairness of evolution and biology for being stuck with such an unpleasant thing for most of our lives."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually, I don't think you do. You never had one. They are really very unpleasant, to say the least."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I have to say that I've never suffered from menstruation envy. So how did Kathy make you feel uncomfortable?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was late at night, we were both lying in my bed, and I was telling her about my dreams. She was very supportive and told me that she didn't think I was a bad person for having them. Then she said that she thought the dreams were very exciting."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And that made you feel uncomfortable?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "A little..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's always exciting to hear other people's fantasies..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You don't understand, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She opened up the covers, lifted up her t-shirt and pulled down her panties and...I never seen a woman do that before. I mean, I do it, but...I felt very uncomfortable."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I wanted to tell you that I did get my answering service back."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. And do you answer the phone now when it rings?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not all the time. But I do listen to my messages. Martin's been calling relentlessly. I wish he'd just leave me alone. That part is the worst of all. I have so many mixed emotions--I cheated on him, and yet he pushed me to do it. It's all very confusing and very difficult to sort through, especially stoned on pain killers."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "We can work on that here."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. And thank you for telling me what you did last time. I can't tell you just how much it meant to me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It was all true. But I wish we would stay away from that topic for obvious reasons."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. I just...look what time it is. I'll see you next week, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Next week, then. Have a good weekend, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You too, Doctor. Goodbye."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Anna."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 80th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, May 14, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. How are you? How's Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm fine. Thank you for asking."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She got the stomach flu."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry to hear that. I guess she's still staying with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's more like lying there in a lump."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. And how was apartment hunting last weekend?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't like the way you asked that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sorry about that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy was too sick to go. And frankly, I wasn't feeling up to it either."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I thought this stomach thing was only supposed to last twelve hours?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it didn't. I really came down with it on Friday. I got all the symptoms."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry to hear that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, well..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She did a good job of taking care of me. I had to stay home, of course."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And I did feel better by Saturday, but I was definitely in no shape to do something assertive."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mean like telling Kathy to leave?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I meant exertion. You know, going out, looking for a place."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You said assertive, which is really more to the point, don't you think?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Let's not play word games."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. How's Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Her stomach started to hurt on Saturday, but she didn't really get all the symptoms."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. And is she better now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's okay, just a bit tired perhaps. And I believe her. She has been through a lot, you know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you planning on looking for an apartment this weekend?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. And just because we were home doesn't mean we weren't looking. I surf the web every day. We have a lot of leads."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad you are actively working on finding Kathy a place to live."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She has been very nice, Doctor. She even offered to pay part of my rent. But since I don't really pay anything but utilities, I thought that would be silly. She's not using up that much electricity. And she needs the money."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is she looking for work?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We thought it might be a good idea to try to get her old job at the bookstore back."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "We?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy thought it was a good idea to try..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm worried that you might be over attentive to her needs, Anna. Are you really comfortable being in the position of Kathy's benefactor?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I haven't thought of it that way. But since Martin faded out of view, we seem to get along great. I'm not forgetting what she did to me; I'm just not thinking about it for the moment. And doesn't helping Kathy out now make me a better person?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Congratulations."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And I have a great place to live. And I have a very good relationship with my family. Except for my love life, I'm \"King of the world.\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Titanic?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. I loved that movie, cried all three times."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You saw it three times?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess that makes me a fan, although not a lunatic. I've heard about this woman in Australia that saw the movie a thousand..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "We are getting off the subject."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The last time, I took Kathy to see it. It was her first time. She thought she'd hate it, but she loved it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. I would like to talk about your newfound relationship with Kathy. Why do you think you're enjoying her company so much?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Why not? We have nothing to compete for now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You said that you feel superior to Kathy."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's not necessarily superior to Kathy. It's more like I'm in a superior position."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Like when you just had Kathy move in with you and Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess I was in a superior position then, too. So what? It didn't work out anyway."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But it started to fall apart when Kathy was beginning to get more and more of Martin's attentions. And it really broke down when Kathy got pregnant with Martin's child."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Are you saying that she was on top then?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Don't you think?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Martin still wanted to marry me. And what about before Martin moved to San Francisco?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did your relationship with Kathy feel then?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, she was the S&M expert. I came to her for advice."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But did you feel like Kathy was superior to you in some way?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She knew more about S&M and her life had this sense of tragedy and mystery somehow. It was a bit seedy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That sounds like you felt you had a better life than she did."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's clearly true. I won't deny that. But I'm not sure it was a superior life, just happier and more rewarding."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you feel Kathy was envious of you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. She even said that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did she say?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She often said that she wished she had my brains and even my looks, although I think Kathy is very pretty in her own right."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think you are smarter?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I had more opportunities to learn and I've had a better education."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you smarter? Don't be afraid to admit it, there is nothing wrong with that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess I am."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When Martin was splitting his attentions between you and Kathy, did you feel like you were being compared to her? Unfavorably, maybe?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you feel like her being there lowered your sense of self-worth somehow?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Martin and I were clearly a better match."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We just were. We both came from good families and had very good educations and great jobs. Doctor, what are trying to make me say? That I'm interested in Kathy because she makes me feel good about myself in some sick and perverted way?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You said that you have so much and she has nothing."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Look, if I wanted to...never mind."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What is it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know that Kathy is manipulative and jealous of me. But..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You like her attentions?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's just for a little bit. I have nothing better to do with my time at the moment. I can help her. I owe her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If it wasn't for her, I might have ended up marrying Martin. And now I realize that would have been a terrible mistake. She saved me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Actually, I believe that if weren't for Kathy, you would never even have considered marrying Martin."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Are you saying I was doing it because I wanted to win?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's a good way of putting it. You didn't want to lose Martin to Kathy. Somehow, it was very important to you that Martin considered you the better of the two."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know, I was very proud for being the one to leave Martin."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm proud of you, too."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But the way you're putting it, it was still Martin who abandoned me. I don't like that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I know."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Bill left me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Next time, I'll be in control of the relationship."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Like you are in control of your relationship with Kathy now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess. What do you want of me?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I just want you to see that your present involvement with Kathy is based on your feelings of insecurity and inadequacy."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But you just made me admit that I was better than she was?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think you are. But you are using her to prove this to yourself. This is not a healthy thing for either of you. You have to let go, Anna. Move on. You have your own life to lead, she has hers. If it weren't for Martin, do you think you two would have been friends?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess we would have never even met. But I think I benefited from this relationship in some way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I...in some sick way, I'm a lot more popular at work."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And do you like that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess. They might not really be true, but the rumors of my sex life give me a sense of the exotic, I guess. I'm no longer as nerdy as I was before."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is that the reputation you want?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's okay for now. It has its moments. I don't think I lost any of my \"goody-two-shoes\" mystique. I just gained a little S&M thing on top."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Look, Doctor, we must be out of time. It just flies when we're having fun, isn't it?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. It is getting late. I'll see you in a week. And please think about what we talked about today. I don't want you to get stuck in a relationship you don't really want."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I won't. It's just for bit. I'll find her a place to live by next time, I promise."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Anna."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 42nd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, May 15, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. How's your neck? Still hurts?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You have a very nice way of asking if I'm still taking pain killers. The answer is yes, it does hurt. But no, I'm not taking them any more. Happy?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Actually, I'm very happy to hear that, Anna. But why are you so confrontational today?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Am I? I'm sorry, Doctor. I had a long day. And night. I came to work yesterday and haven't been home since."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Deadline?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. And Jules is getting angry with me for missing a lot of days and generally not being there when I am there."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry to hear that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He'll get over it. But I'll have to work really hard for a while. You know, Doctor, most women I know who carry underwear in their purse, do it because they plan to have a good time with their dates that night. I do it because I know I might end up sleeping in a sleeping bag under my desk."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Under the desk?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The keep the overhead lights on all night at SII because of the janitorial staff and because there's always someone working through the night in the building. I can't sleep with that much light. But under the desk...it's not terrific anyway."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How was your week otherwise? Anything new from Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He still calls at least once a day. Sometimes I'm tempted to answer the phone and talk to him. But I haven't yet. I think I might be getting over him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad to hear that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know you are, Doctor. As for the rest of the week, I saw my parents and grandmother on Mother's Day. It was very nice. They took me out for brunch at the Redwood Room in the Clift Hotel. Very nice. You should check it out some time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I've been there. It is nice."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And pretty much the rest of the time, I just spent thinking. Don't get scared, Doctor. I was just thinking, not doing anything."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What were you thinking about?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm the only child in my family. My parents tried to have more, but it just never happened. My dad always wanted to have a son. When it became obvious that wasn't meant to be, he transferred his boy-raising energy onto me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He pretty much raised me as he would have raised a boy. I always felt like I could do anything I wished with my life. I was never made to believe that being a girl would somehow be limiting to me in my choice of career or lifestyle. My parents weren't feminists or anything--it wasn't about politics. It's just that the issue of gender was always sort of irrelevant. You see?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I do. This is what you were thinking about this week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What I'm trying to say, Doctor, is that I was raised to believe that there are no major differences between the mental abilities of men and women. I mean, there are some, but they don't prevent a person from doing what he or she wants to do with their lives."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I agree with that. But what's your point?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The point is that I believe and base my life on the premise that men and women are equal."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You don't understand, Doctor. If all this is true, then how can I possibly find anything appealing or attractive about being subservient to a man?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You are talking about your reaction to being dominated and tied down during sex?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. I liked it. I really like it. It was very exciting and sexually stimulating. But it goes against all my principles, really. I don't like to boss people around and don't like it when people do it to me. So why this stupid fascination with masochism?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The desire conflicts with your egalitarian politics?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I wish I could just stuff that desire somewhere deep down in my psyche so that it would never rear its ugly head as long as I live."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You know, Anna, you are not the only woman in the world who enjoys being dominated by a man during sex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I know that, Doctor. I've been to the S&M club. I've seen a lot of them, remember?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's not exactly what I meant. I'm not just talking about people who've identified themselves as S&M practitioners. I'm talking about people, both men and women, across the board. The range of sexual submissiveness includes women who are passive in bed to women who are excited by rape fantasies to women who enjoy losing control during a sexual encounter. And just because a person enjoys the feeling of powerlessness and submission during sex, it does not mean that same person would tolerate the same behavior during other aspects of their lives."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You mean the woman who likes the rape fantasy wouldn't want to be raped."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Right. There's a difference between a fantasy and reality. The woman who gets turned on being a sex slave in the bedroom may go out and engineer a hostile takeover in the boardroom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And just because a woman lets a man tie her down during sex and dominate her, she might not let him make the decision about where they are going to go for dinner, or what car they are going to buy, or any other aspect of their lives together. I knew one couple where the man appeared to be completely submissive to his wife--she totally dominated him in every aspect of their lives. He would hardly even speak when she was in the room--she talked for both of them. But in the bedroom, he was the master and she was his slave. That's what she liked and that's what worked for both of them. It wasn't about sexual politics. It was about meeting each other's sexual needs."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I feel a traitor to my sex, though. I've read about how women were abused throughout history--how they've been used as sex toys and how they've been tortured and raped by vicious men. And that conduct was tolerated. And now, if I like something like that done to me, it's like I am saying it was okay for that to happen to them, too. Do you see?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think I see what you're saying. But I don't think your consensual sexual conduct has anything to do with torture and rape of women who have not given their consent. You shouldn't equate the two."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It feels intrinsically wrong to allow a man to treat me in such a degrading fashion, even if it is consensual. And yet...you see my dilemma, Doctor?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You are not the first woman to feel this way. These are common issues with which people in the S&M community have to come to terms. And you might be surprised to know that it's not just submissives who have these guilt feelings. Dominants too, especially those who are inflicting pain, are doing something to other people that society says is wrong. It is not uncommon for a dominant to feel anxiety and even deep depression over their desire to physically abuse others. But consent is the key. If a person is free to walk away, then it's about pleasure and not about abuse."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, I know that what you're saying makes perfect sense. But somehow, deep down inside, these desires still feel wrong in some basic way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "This is something that you'll need to figure out. Can you enjoy your sexual interests without infusing them with guilt? If the guilt is too strong, it will ruin those experiences anyway."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's essentially what Kathy said."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh? You talked to Kathy about this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was just venting my frustrations to her. Caren and Greg are getting married."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's nice. It's been a long time since you mentioned anything about them."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, we sort of drifted apart after Martin came into the picture. That's another thing I can hate him for. But Caren is just too straight to understand what I've been going through lately."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you tried?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tried what? Telling her that I enjoy being whipped?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You don't. You like playing the submissive and being tied down during sex. That's different."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It still doesn't sound great. But in any case, they finally decided to get married. Apparently, they decided in February and they are sending out invitations now for their wedding in June. Can you believe it? She didn't even tell me that she got engaged. We had always agreed to be each other's maids of honor or matrons, depending on who got married first. And now she didn't even tell me she was engaged. She just sent me an invitation."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It sounds like you should talk to Caren and try to patch-up your relationship, if it's still important to you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's the only person who stayed with me through the years. I would hate to lose her over a guy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Talk to her. She might feel the same way. And you don't have to disclose anything to her that you don't think would be appropriate"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "True. You know, I'll be 27 soon. That's almost a third of a lifetime. And I still can't figure it out. Pathetic!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm 37 and I'm not married. I don't think of myself as a bad person because of that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, just available. I bet women are lining up at your door."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh, we've crossed over into the danger zone. But fortunately we're out of time for today, Anna. Don't be too hard on yourself. Part of being a liberated woman is to be exactly the person that you want to be."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "An interesting thought, Doctor. I'll see you next week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye, Doctor Balis."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 81st Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, May 21, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Anna. Please come in. Is there something wrong?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, it's all right. I just have very bad cramps."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you take anything for pain?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. Motrin--don't leave home without it!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you up to having a session?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I will be. Just let me get comfortable. In about ten minutes, the Motrin should kick in."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right, whenever you are ready."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm ready, just ignore the grimaces of pain."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll try."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay. I'll start with a biggie."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Kathy has moved out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Don't tell me she is still living with you. You promised me last time that..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know, I know. It will happen, Doctor. I'm not dragging my feet. It's just very hard to find a place to live in San Francisco right now, especially on a very tight budget."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did Kathy get a job?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, we are getting off the subject."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are we?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. I told you I have a biggie for you today."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right, what is it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It wasn't Martin's."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The baby, it wasn't Martin's."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Kathy got pregnant by someone other than Martin? How did you find that out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "One night, we just sort of got to talking about all of that, and I asked her why she did it--why she got an abortion."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And she just came out and told you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "More or less. We've been talking for a while; I guess she felt safe enough to tell me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. Well, whose was it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure exactly. I know it's someone from the community."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "From your S&M club?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. Kathy said that she's been playing with this guy for a long time, years maybe. But after we all got together last summer, she felt it wouldn't be right to actually have sex with him any more, and so they restricted their playing to just...you know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand. So Kathy didn't want to cheat on you and Martin, but she still felt comfortable enough to do the..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She said that as long as there wasn't any penetration, she felt it was okay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's an interesting take on monogamy, or polygamy, actually."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't particularly subscribe to it, but that sort of thinking is common. Most even find that it's okay to go further than that, with permission from everyone concerned of course."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Of course."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told Martin that I didn't like that. We never really played with anyone but each other and Kathy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, there were a few times, but...never mind. It's not important now. In any case, I've never felt that Kathy should be obliged to do the same. I've always thought of her as sort of one nudge outside of our relationship. I didn't want her to get AIDS, but other than that, she was free to pursue other interests."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. And did Martin feel the same way?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I assume so."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So Kathy continued her relationship with this guy, even though she was involved with us."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What was her relationship with this guy? Was she the top?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. Kathy said that this guy is very powerful. He is always in control, and it's very hard to say no to him. Kathy said that sometimes she didn't feel like she could have ended the relationship even if she wanted to."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. And you don't know who this guy is, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I told you I don't. Kathy said I've never met him. So this one night, around Thanksgiving...do you remember how ugly it was then?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I do. You wanted Martin to go to your parents' house, and Kathy wanted him to stay home with her. I remember. But Kathy won, didn't she? Martin stayed with her instead of going with you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, well. Kathy said that she was feeling very vulnerable then. A few days after Thanksgiving when Martin and I worked late, she went down to the club and this guy was there. He took her to his place, and she said that they had a very intense session. But afterwards, he wouldn't let her leave. She said that she kept saying that she needed to go and was tired, but he kept pressing her. She said that she couldn't say no to him. He fucked her in the face. Kathy said it was completely terrifying, but at the same time, she said that she lost all control. She said that she kept having one orgasm after another. Finally, he just did the other thing, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "They had intercourse?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. Kathy said that it wasn't her idea. It just happened. She said that she has been trying to avoid him ever since."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. So Kathy thought that the baby was his?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She said that at first, it didn't even occur to her. But the dates matched. She said that she went on this campaign to fuck Martin as often as she could, which didn't improve our relations any."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, it wouldn't have."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy said that she kept hoping that the baby was Martin's. Finally, she asked for the amino test. She found out Martin's blood type, and checked with the clinic if there was a chance that the baby was his. I guess there wasn't. She told us that the baby tested positive for Down's syndrome."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She continued to pretend the baby was Martin's. She didn't know what else to do. She said that she felt completely freaked. And at that point, neither Martin nor I wanted to have anything to do with her. She finally decided to just get rid of it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I assume that Martin thought the baby was his, and he probably wouldn't have checked on the baby's blood type. So why didn't Kathy just go on and..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I asked the same thing. But she said that we would have been able to tell--the father was a black man. It would have been obvious that the baby wasn't Martin's after birth."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. So she had the abortion pretending that the baby had Down's syndrome."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Right, and it would have worked, too, if Martin didn't look into her file."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's quite a story."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. I can't even be mad at her now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why not?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She must have been so out of it. Can you imagine what it must have been like for her? I shudder just to think."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So Martin knows nothing of this? He is still mad at Kathy for getting rid of his baby?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He knows nothing. I won't tell, why should I?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did this slave master know about Kathy's pregnancy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. I don't think so."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You said that Kathy was showing quite a bit at the end, and she was having public performances while pregnant of skin mutilations."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Branding."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And he still didn't know?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess not. Kathy said that she didn't see him since that night. Isn't this horrible?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's not good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy said that she still feels the guilt and remorse over the baby's death."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, you told me about her nightmares."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She screams every night. But there wasn't much else she could do."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "She could have told you and Martin the truth."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. She got raped--it was rape, you do realize that? I told Kathy that, too. But then what?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How would you have felt about her and the pregnancy if you had known all the facts?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess I would have been a lot less threatened by her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Would you have helped her?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Probably."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He would have probably went and gotten himself killed trying to avenge Kathy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. But he wouldn't have thrown her out on the street, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, of course not. It wasn't her fault."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So she should have told you the truth."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. I think she knows that now. But then, it was very difficult to see things clearly."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. Our time is just about up. Are you still planning on having Kathy move out soon?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "As soon as we find her a place to live."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. The sooner, the better."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. I'll see you next week, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. I'll see you then. Goodbye, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye, Doctor."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 43rd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, May 22, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. You're looking better today."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I feel better. I've been thinking a lot about what we talked about last time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I like what you said at the end--that part of being a liberated woman is to be free to be the person that I want to be. I think that based on that definition, there aren't a whole lot of truly liberated women in the world today. But I can still try to grant myself permission to enjoy something unconventional based on that principle."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's very good. And by the way, men have to live by a socially acceptable set of rules as well. When men venture outside the social norm, it's just as difficult for them to come to terms with that as it is for you to accept the fact that you might enjoy socially controversial sexual activities."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm. I guess that's true. Martin is clearly having a hell of a time trying to figure out his passions. He's been completely ostracized from the S&M community in Michigan."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You talked with Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. But he leaves very detailed messages and I feel like I'm completely caught-up on his life problems. But I haven't spoken to him or left him a message or anything."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you listen to all his messages?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I tried to just skip and delete them in the beginning. But I find that difficult. Martin is still like an open wound and, while I know that listening to his messages probably makes it much more difficult to get over him, the sound of his voice is sort of soothing and brings some relief."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I thought that since we weren't talking about Martin..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That I gave up on him all together?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Haven't you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Absolutely. I have no interest in ever seeing that guy again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So why are you tormenting yourself? Why are you listening?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Because it's there. Sometimes I delete the messages. But I have the Pacific Bell messaging service and I find myself using it to retrieve my old deleted messages. Sometimes I listen to them in the middle of the night."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, technology can be a hazard sometimes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But it's not all that bad, Doctor. I run into Bill now and then at SII. That doesn't mean that I'm interested in getting back together with him, even though my whole body reacts to his presence--not in a sexual way, but just with fear and anxiety."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What are you worried about when you see Bill?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just always want to leave him with an impression that I'm doing so much better now than I did when I was with him. I want him to think that I look very good--hot, even. I want him believe that I'm very smart and talented. I even want him to be jealous."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Jealous of whom?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Of all the men that I could be seeing right now. He doesn't know. For all he knows, I might be having the time of my life with some super terrific guy who is better than him in every way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And why would he think that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I always try to look very happy and satisfied when Bill sees me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. And how often do you run into Bill nowadays?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Unfortunately, he works on the same floor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you see him a lot?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Usually a couple of times a week. The good thing is that the girl he was drooling over for a couple of months finally dumped him. There are advantages and disadvantages to working with the same people you socialize with. On one hand, it can be awfully convenient. You get to see each other all the time and slip out for a quickie every now and then."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Quickie?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know, a quickie. But you also get to be around the people who you would rather see fall off the edge of the world or something. I heard that's fairly common in technology companies."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But to get back to my life, Kathy took me to another S&M social last week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was in Golden Gate Park and it was just a barbecue--no whips, no chains. It was interesting to meet members of the community in another context. Kathy took me so that I could talk to some of the women there. She thought it would help me organize my thinking and feelings on the subject."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And did it help?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. There were certainly women there who were highly respected professionals in their fields, but..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But...look, I'm not saying that this was true for all the women I met at that party, but there was something odd about a lot of those women."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean by odd?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I sort of got the feeling that some of those people were defining themselves through their practice of S&M. I'm not sure I'm making myself clear."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Go ahead, you're doing fine."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it's like when someone asks me to tell a bit about myself. I don't start off telling them how much I like to perform oral sex on men or anything. I usually tell them what I do for a living, what sort of books I like, what I enjoy doing in my spare time. Maybe I'd volunteer some background information like where I grew up, what school I went to, or tell them that I'm an only child or something. But the people there were different. For them, it seems, their affiliation and enjoyment of S&M is the dominant trait of their personalities. Sure you can ask them about their work and books they read, but those are just sort of surface ripples. What they're really about is S&M. These people not only like to practice it, they like to talk about it, to watch it, to learn it, to...just everything."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you don't feel that way."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. While I like being tied down and dominated during sex, that's just a small part of who I am. I don't define myself as a woman who likes to be submissive during sex. I think of it as on a need to know basis kind of information. I might let my boyfriend know about it, but...see what I mean?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think that's good. I believe that type of pigeonholing limits one's perspective on life."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Exactly! These people can only see the world from the point of view of practicing members of the S&M community. Everything they do is somehow colored by that association."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But in some way, I sort of understand part of it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "These people have to worry about being outside of the social norm. They constantly have to defend themselves from outside criticisms. Take for instance my first reaction to the S&M scene in Michigan. I was horrified at what I saw and ended up calling the police. These people probably have to worry about stuff like that all the time. Imagine walking down a path in the woods or something and seeing a woman tied to a tree with her blouse ripped off and a man forcing himself on her. Everyone's first reaction would be to help the woman. The presumed villain might get punched out or worse a long time before either of them get to explain that they are performing a consensual act."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sure. That's why S&M clubs have memberships and are very cautious about allowing outsiders into their parties."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Exactly. And there are also the issues of using doctors that understand and won't throw your partner in jail if you ever need some medical attention. Or, god forbid, having the social services take your children away because you're judged to be an unfit parent. These people have to worry about all that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All of that is true."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But, even so, I'd think that these people have other interesting attributes to their personality than just their practice of S&M. It seems so limiting. It's almost like they live in the prison of their own desires."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Very profound."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you. But I mean it. Some of the members of this S&M club are extraordinary intelligent and also very nice. But there's always this edge when you talk to them. Well, it's not always true. There were a few people at the barbecue that were not like that. They seemed fairly normal. But...you get the idea, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I do. I'm glad that your passions for certain particular sexual experiences are not your defining characteristic. So what conclusions did you come away with from that party? I mean as relating to your lifestyle and to your feelings?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm working on getting comfortable with my desires. I'm beginning to believe that when I meet a man that I'm interested in dating and ask him to accommodate my interests, he won't be very much opposed to doing that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, I suppose not."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Would you?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know--tie me down and..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna!"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm just asking. Okay, some other woman then. Would you, Doctor Balis?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's late, Anna. I'll see you next week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I bet you would. And I bet you would be a very good lover, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye, Doctor."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 82nd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, May 28, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Anna. You look much better."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well thank you, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So, how is it going?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Life has its moments, although I seem to be getting my thrills through Kathy lately."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You sound angry. What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, as you expected, Kathy is still living with me. But it won't last long. I'm getting very fed up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Go on."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay. Kathy couldn't get her job at the bookstore back. Apparently, she had a bad falling out with the owner, and now he doesn't want anything to do with her. It's really stupid, because Kathy did add a lot of value to that place. She has the right expertise and disposition to run it, as opposed to the dodo who's there now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I remember you didn't like him."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He was fine, just clueless. I bet he got the job by fucking the owner or something, but whatever."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, please move on."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's also Kathy's fault. There was no need to burn that bridge. She liked that job and she desperately needs it at the moment, I might add."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you know what happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, and Kathy refuses to talk about it. So she did some very stupid shit."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Like what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She did a couple of live S&M acts. And now, she's talking about starting a dominatrix practice. It's very dangerous."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What is she talking about?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She wants to be an alternative sex therapist, of sorts. She said that's what she is really qualified to do and she has all the necessary accouterments. She wants to set up a business where she'll be offering her services as an S&M top. She wants to be a dominatrix for money."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, it's worse than you think. She wants to go around to people's houses, by herself, and beat them."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is sex going to be part of the services she offers to her clients?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "God! No, I don't think so. Kathy said that these people just want to be abused, not fucked. And even though there's clearly a sexual component to this, she said that she's not interested in doing anything involving actual penetration. Wait, that's not exactly right. She said that she might do some body piercings, but most clients prefer not to have any tell-tale marks on their body after the encounter is over. That wouldn't be seemly for a VP of Bank of America, for instance."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How does Kathy know so much about this business?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Do you mean has she done this before?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Has she?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm. I think she might have. She's not saying. I think she might have worked in one of those prostitute house things..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Brothels."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Brothels. I think she might have been underage at the time, too. But that's history. But at least then, she wasn't doing it all alone. There were people around who could have helped her if a customer went bezerk or something. Now, she's talking about going to people's homes by herself. She said, since she'll be the top, she won't have to worry about being attacked--that's not how it works. But I think it's insane. Anything can happen. Kathy's a small woman. And even brandishing a whip, she doesn't present a formidable target. Things could easily get out of control."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think you're right. What Kathy is talking about doing is very dangerous. But remember, you are trying to disengage. You are trying not to get involved in her life. You are not her keeper. You can advise her and tell her how you feel, but you can't stop her. Right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. She said that with the kind of money she'll be making, she'd be able to get a place to live and maybe even an education. After all, it's an evening job, and she could easily take classes at City College in the mornings. She keeps saying that she wouldn't do it for a long time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Doing something dangerous for a short time doesn't make it..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, but it does reduce the chances of something bad happening, Doctor. But I still think it's a bad idea. I think she should go back to her family and make good. I bet they'd be thrilled to support her if she went back to school."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you tell Kathy that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. And do you know what she wants?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She wants me to do it with her!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I won't do it, of course. But she said that it would be a lot safer if we did it together. I wouldn't have to do much, just keep an eye on things and make sure that everything and everyone is safe. She wants me to be her safety net."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you considering it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I told you I won't do it. But she's saying that she needs the money or she won't be able to pay the deposit and first and last month's rent for her own place. It's like either I go with her into her dominatrix practice or she lives with me forever. Can you believe that? I got very mad at her. She's putting me into a terrible position. I told her that I would loan her the money she needs to move out, but she doesn't want to take it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why not?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She said that she would worry that she might not pay me back and some other bullshit stuff like that. I told her that she could keep the money, I'd just give it to her as a gift. But she won't take it--she doesn't want to feel that obligated to me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So Kathy refuses to take your money, but she's comfortable living at your place?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And don't forget she's eating my food and a million other little things like gas, electricity, water, garbage, telephone, and all the other stupid stuff that she's using every day."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I told you this would happen."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't even start, Doctor. I know. I remember."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're right. That was uncalled for. I'm sorry."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And Kathy wasn't apologetic for using your house this way without your permission?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She was after the guy left. She said that she had to maintain her role while he was there. We had a hell of a screaming fight after that. I don't want to be involved in stuff like that. No one is supposed to know about the dungeon thing. She gave people my address! I can just see when the professor comes back and some idiot bottom knocks on his door expecting a beating. How can I ever explain that? Or what if something went wrong and the police got involved. God! She's so stupid. You just never do stuff like that at home."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Has she done this more than once?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She said that was her first time. But who knows? She might have been doing this all along. I'm worried about leaving my house now, Doctor. I can't believe her when she says that it won't happen again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What are you planning to do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm thinking of calling her Aunt Helen, although I don't really know what she can do. She can't drag her out of my house kicking and screaming, can she?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't think so. But calling Helen might be a good idea. Are you only worried about Kathy using the dungeon or is there something else?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Do you mean like she might do damage to the house just to spite me or something?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Would she do something like that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. That's not her style. If anything, the house has been a lot cleaner and more orderly since she's been living there. I don't think she'll do anything like that. And I don't believe she'd steal anything. But I can see her using the facilities to earn some money. She could easily rationalize her actions by thinking she's working towards moving out of there."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Kathy is not paying for anything while she's living with you, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Right."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And you said that she did some live acts and now the dominatrix services. It sounds like she might have some money. Don't you think?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think she's doing drugs?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She smokes pot."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anything else?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've never seen her do anything else."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you don't know?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess not."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think you should ask Kathy how much money she has and insist on providing her with the difference that she needs to rent a place of her own."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I wonder how much money she does have. It was two hundred dollars for an hour of her services. I wonder..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's very hard to get rid of a person once they call your house their home. I have to say I'm very worried, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, me too. It's getting late, Doctor. I'd better be going. I'll see you next week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Call me if you need some help."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What are you going to do, Doctor? Take her out for me?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Just know that I'm available by telephone, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay. Goodbye, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 44th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, May 29, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. Are you going to sit down?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What's up?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm in a very bad mood, Doctor. But don't take it personally."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Thank you for the warning and I won't."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think Martin might be back."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "In San Francisco?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think so."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You didn't actually see him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not really sure. I think it was him. I was too busy hiding to really know. But I think he's back."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you want to tell me what happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Caren and Greg showed up at my door Saturday morning. I guess Caren felt really bad about us drifting apart like that, so she dragged Greg to come see me and patch things up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That sounds very nice."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm glad she did it. I was feeling really bad about losing her as a friend and I'm glad to know that she was suffering, too. Greg, I think, was perfectly happy not hanging around me anymore--I was too weird for him--but Caren wouldn't let him. So they took time off their busy wedding-planning schedule to take me out for a day and talk things back to normal, so to speak."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We went to the Seal Rock Inn for brunch and then walked on the beach. It was a very low tide and we founds lots of sand dollars and...but it's not very important. As we were walking along the water, I saw a man in a large blue sweatshirt running on the beach. I wasn't sure it was Martin, but my heart fell and I quickly bent down to look for something in the surf so that he wouldn't get a chance to see me as he ran by. I didn't say anything to Caren, but I was dying inside. Then, as we were walking up to our car, I saw the same man again returning from his run. I'm pretty sure he didn't see me that time either."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you're not sure it was Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was too busy hiding to get a clear view of his face. But his mannerisms seemed very familiar. But the weird part was that when we went to get burritos at Gordo's--about twenty blocks away from the beach--I saw that man again. That time, he was crossing Geary Street--I recognized the blue sweatshirt. It was as if he was following me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think he was?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I don't know. I don't know, Doctor! Maybe? I never got a good look, so I'm not sure it was Martin."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You said that you still get a lot of messages from him..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Nothing that would make me believe that he was back in town. In fact, I thought that he was graduating sometime this week. There's a ceremony. He couldn't be here. And yet..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You only saw that man in a blue sweatshirt three times last Saturday, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not exactly."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean? Did you see him again?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I didn't see him again. But...oh, Doctor, this is really spooky."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "When I left home today, on the sidewalk in front of the entrance to my building was a drawing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "On a piece of paper?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. It was huge and was made with chalk directly on the sidewalk."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you have a picture or can you describe the drawing?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't have a picture. As I was leaving the house, the superintendent--a sweet old Italian guy--was washing it out with a hose and a brush, cursing about pornography. But it was like those Martin sketches he was sending me. It was a headless female figure. You could see pubic hair and I think only one nipple, but I'm not sure. The body was nude but for a pair of boots which somehow turned into gloves. One nipple was tied to the rail of the steps going up to the door."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like Martin's work, all right. Based on that, I would say it's safe to assume that Martin was back in town, at least as of today."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You haven't been home since this morning?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I came here straight from work."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you have a chance to check your phone messages at home?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Nothing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No messages?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No messages."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you worried about your personal safety?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't think so. Martin is all about getting abuse, not giving it. But I have felt sick all day. My stomach hurts and I've got a terrible headache."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Feeling anxious?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Very. If this was Friday, I would consider going to my parents' for the weekend and skipping going home all together. But I have to be at work tomorrow."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you afraid of facing Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess so. I've always known that some day we'd meet again. It was inevitable--if only at some computer convention or symposium or something. But now I feel so unready to deal with him. It's like I feel too weak to be around him right now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What are you worried about, Anna?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's just that I miss him. Or miss being with him or something. I thought he was a very interesting guy, if not for all that other stuff. But he makes me feel very bad about myself. See? It's just too much emotional baggage that I guess I haven't dealt with yet. The last thing I want to do is be around Martin."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think that Martin could persuade you to go out with him again?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't want to do that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But do you think that Martin could talk you into it? Let's say he asked you just to have coffee with him and talk, would you do it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. It's so tempting even when it's just you saying it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, don't be disappointed with me, Doctor. I know I'm weak. Maybe...maybe..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Do you think that you might consider...I would like to...it would be just for tonight, I promise!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Consider what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I could stay with you? And this way, you would save me from being so weak and getting myself into trouble?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If you are so sure that you'll be in trouble by talking to Martin, then just say no."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I don't know if I can do that, Doctor. I don't think I'm strong enough."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think you are."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, Doctor, no. You've got to help me. I would be as quiet as a mouse. I promise. You wouldn't even know I'm there. Please? Please, Doctor Balis? Just this one time?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, you know I can't do that..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But what if I said that I am afraid of him? Would you then?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No. In that case, I would suggest you stay someplace else, perhaps. Are you afraid?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, I promise I would be a very good girl. I would do nothing to make you regret this. Please?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, if you feel so strongly about not going home tonight, how about contacting Caren and asking her to let you stay with her?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Caren is now living with Greg. I couldn't do that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What about another friend? How about Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not your only option, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess I could stay on the couch at SII's programming lounge. I've done that before. Or under my desk..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's pathetic, Anna. I'm sure Kathy would be happy to help you out. And she knows about your whole story with Martin and might be good to talk to tonight."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You would be better."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Thank you. But..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "All right, all right. I'll call Kathy. But if anything happens to me, Doctor, it would be all your fault."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think you'll be okay, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I better make the call now or I might miss her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Fine. Our time is up anyway. Remember, you can call at any time, if there's a problem..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. I like the idea of you coming to save me, Doctor--Charles to my rescue!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Good night, Doctor Balis."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 83rd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, June 4, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Anna. How are you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm well. Thank you, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. How's Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's well. We had an interesting discussion the other day."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "About what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, she noticed that I don't want her around anymore."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What was her first clue?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sorry."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was sort of pathetic, really. She came to me in the middle of the night completely hysterical. I thought she had one of her abortion nightmares. But she said that she hasn't been sleeping well for several nights now worrying about our relationship."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The relationship between you and her?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She said that she could see everything crumbling around her. She said that she feels like she is losing everything that is important to her in her life. She told me that she \"feels it in her bones\" that once she moves out, we won't see each other any more."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Sounds like Kathy is finally picking up on some of your frustration with her."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I felt so guilty. Of course it's true. I was hoping never to see her again after she moves out. I was only helping her and being \"her one true friend\" to get rid of her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, she's playing on your emotions again."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She was genuinely upset, Doctor. I don't think she was faking it. She said that I was all she had, the only person willing to accept her for what she really is. And I guess it's true. I know who she is, she opened up to me. I'm just not sure I really want to know. But..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm beginning to get worried, Anna. What are you thinking? Are you thinking of letting Kathy stay with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No...I mean...only until she has enough money to leave, and we've been working on that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "We?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And you wouldn't believe the extent of her stupidity, Doctor. It wasn't enough that she gave out my address. I came home last week to twenty-seven messages on my answering machine. Number nine was from my mother, she wants to come and visit again. The rest of the messages ranged from heavy breathing and a click to full-on orders for Kathy's dominatrix services."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "She gave out your home phone number?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, but..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Apparently, Kathy put an ad in the Bay Guardian with my number. And she really thought she could get away with it without my knowing, or maybe she didn't even think at all. She told me that she's been erasing all the messages for about a week now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad you found out."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, me too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What are you going to do about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I changed my number, of course. I'll let all my friends know about the change via e-mail."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Was the phone service listed to your name or is it the professor's number?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, it's mine. All the other utilities are still in his name, but the phone we changed. It seemed like it was a more personal service. And thank God we did."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So did you discuss the moving out arrangements with Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told her that I wanted her to leave as soon as she was able. She wouldn't take my money under any circumstances. But I think she understood that we really can't live together anymore. Although the night after that conversation, she had that hysterical outbreak. I really feel sorry for her, Doctor. She is not a horrible human being; she's more like a lost soul."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, you're making me nervous."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's not a big deal, Doctor. Just relax."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Now I'm very worried. What's up?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy called me at work the other day. She was out on a service call, and she felt that she didn't have a good grasp on her situation."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "A service call. You mean she was acting as an out-call dominatrix?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, she went to some hotel room."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And what was the problem?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She expected one client, but got a party of five. So she was uncomfortable."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you mean she got scared and called you for help?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And you told her no."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Of course."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And then you went to help her anyway, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Right."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh, Anna. What happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually, it wasn't bad. We were in a hotel Downtown. It had a nice view. When I got there, Kathy was standing on a coffeetable, and the five guys were pretty much naked around her. One was tied to a chair with his legs spread wide open--quite a view. Two others were handcuffed together back to back. One was standing next to a window with his hands tied to a curtain rod. The other was licking her boots--he was the one who opened the door for me. So Kathy had the situation pretty much under control. I was there more as a security thing. I didn't do anything. I just got to stand there and watch. Kathy's good at what she does."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She never touched them...well, not with her hands anyway. She sort of played with them with her paddle. All of them had huge erections. The guy who answered the door for me could have supported a few coats on his thing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you find that erotic?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was too unsettling for me at the time. Later...well, it's been a long time since anything happened to me, Doctor. I just had to help myself. But at the time, no, it was more weird and scary than erotic, for me anyway."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Did you do this again?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. That was the only time I went with her. But it wasn't as bad as I thought. Being a dominatrix gives you a lot of control. It was like an act. And it wasn't anything more than what you'd see in a club. It fact, only one of them had an orgasm, that I saw anyway. That was sort of weird. Kathy wasn't even dealing with him at the time. He just came all over the window. Somebody got quite a show."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, I want you to promise me that you won't do this again. This has the potential of getting very ugly and you might even get hurt. Understand? You can't do this. And you've got to get Kathy out of your house. I can see how she could make you..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not that malleable, Doctor. If something happened to Kathy on that call and I'd refused to help her, I would have needed your services for the rest of my life. How could have I lived with myself after that?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's why you need to get Kathy out of your house. Kathy's walking a very dangerous tightrope. She needs to figure out how to live her life without using you as her safety net."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. I told her that she needs to find a real partner if she feels like she can't do this on her own. But it wasn't as bad as I thought it was going to be. It wasn't as closely related to prostitution as I thought. It was more like a private party. I can see how some of her clients might not want to join an S&M club and have to resort to services like Kathy's to get their ya-ya's out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's still not your problem."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know, Doctor. And I'm working on getting Kathy out. Okay?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How much money did she make at this party?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Around four hundred bucks, I think."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Doesn't she have enough money now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She said that she's looking. I'll work on her this weekend. And my mother wants to visit. I certainly can't have Kathy living there if my parents come. Kathy understands that. She heard that message, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Give her a date by which she has to move out. Many people find having a goal or a deadline very inspirational."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay. I'll do that. Well, our time is up. And as fun as this was, I've got to go home and check my messages now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you have your new number?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, here it is. Kathy managed to transfer my old number to her name, and we installed another line--she says she needs the work."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. I'll see you next week, Anna. Please, stay out of trouble."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will. See you, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Anna."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 84th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, June 11, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nShe bought a car."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. Please sit down. What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The bitch bought a car. A black Honda station wagon thing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Kathy bought a car?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It sort of makes sense for her. She has to carry this huge bag with all the props for her S&M services--chains, whips, ropes, handcuffs, lubricants...a dungeon in a suitcase."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hold on a second, Anna. Are you telling me that you approve of this purchase? Kathy was supposed to have used the money she was earning to move out of your house."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, she has all these clients, and it's not like they are conveniently located next to public transportation."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It doesn't matter where her clients live. That's her problem, not yours."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're absolutely right, Doctor. And I let her have it, really."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. So now Kathy doesn't have money to move out, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You don't seem to be upset enough about this."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was...I am. But what am I supposed to do now? She just came home last Sunday in this thing. She was so happy. It's her first car. And it's nice. She didn't go and get some stupid red sports thing; she was very sensible. This is a car that even a Wells Fargo VP wouldn't be too freaked about having in his driveway. It's totally forgettable. She really thought this through."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How's that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She said that there was no way she would have been able to afford a car once she moved out of my house."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So she made you subsidize her car purchase. Great."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess that's one way of looking at it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you have another?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, don't be so disappointed in me, Doctor. What am I supposed to do? Make her give it back? It's a done deal. I just hope that now she can get it together to earn enough money to get a place to live soon. She knows she owes me big."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you are just going to let this pass?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't think I have much choice. And Kathy told me that now that she has a car, she can do more sessions and...it's going to be all right."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I hope so. How about your parents' visit?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They want to come down for the Fourth of July."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does that give Kathy enough time to move out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "God. I'll burn that bridge when I come to it, Doctor. Can we talk about something else?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why? What's on your mind?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Martin has got a new girlfriend."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. And does that bother you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It does. You told me that now that he is out of your life, you are relieved and happy. You said that you were happy that things didn't work out between the two of you. So why does his current love life bother you? Why do you care?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's not so much that he's fucking someone else, Doctor. I don't particularly care whose toes he sucks on. It's the fact itself that bothers me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not sure I follow."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's been...what? A couple of months?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You moved out in January."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Six months."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you unhappy that he didn't have a long enough grieving period after you left him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There's a little of that. But mostly it's that I'm not seeing anyone."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How is Martin's social life related to yours?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Come on, Doctor. You know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you jealous of Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just hate the fact that he managed to find someone and I didn't. I'm far better looking than he is. I'm more sociable. I'm definitely nicer. So what gives? Why does he get to have someone to hold him at night and I get to sleep all alone? I don't want to be alone, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You are not alone, unfortunately. You have Kathy."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, yeah. And I have all these friends at work that I can hang out with."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Most people my age are married or at least in a stable relationship."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't believe that most twenty-seven year olds are in stable monogamous relationships. Give it time, Anna. It will happen to you, too."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I have been giving it time. I'm tired of giving it time. All the men I meet have been psychotic in one way or another. I'm not interested in sleeping around, and I'm not interested in casual dating, even though that has its thrills. I want to be in love. I function better when I'm in love. With all the faults that my relationship with Martin had, I think I was a better person then."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, in many ways. In a lot of small ways. I slept better, for instance. I ate better. I worked better."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hold on, Anna. Think back on how it actually was when you were living with Martin. You had tons of problems. It's not my recollection that you were eating and sleeping better. As I remember, you were completely stressed out. Because of the lapse of time, I think you are editing out the unpleasant memories and only recalling the good ones, however few they may have actually been."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. But why can he find someone and I can't? I heard her talking about just how much in love she was with him. It's been only six months."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You've met this woman?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She is one of the secretaries or something at SII. Her feet don't even match the type that Martin likes so much."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But she's all glowing and happy. She was saying that it's not everyday you meet such a smart man who is so tender and caring. I guess she really wants a guy who'll spend all his free time worshiping at her feet, literally."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you didn't like that part."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You barely tolerated Martin's feet worshiping."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess she's into it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Maybe she is. But you shouldn't care, Anna. You are free of him, and it's a good thing--you said it yourself."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. I want someone to be in love with me and to make love to me, Doctor. What's wrong with me?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "There's nothing wrong with you, Anna. You are a beautiful, intelligent woman. And you also just came out of a very emotionally stressful relationship."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Are you saying that if I met someone good now, I wouldn't be able to have a relationship with him because I'm too fucked up over Martin?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No. But you are just finding yourself again..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't feel particularly lost."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. Perhaps you didn't. But you experimented with a very alternative life style, and you are just regaining your..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If you think that I've given up S&M for good, you're mistaken, Doctor. I'm not saying that I'm interested in a total fanatical S&M thing, but I like some aspects of it. I like playing and giving up control and power during sex. Maybe not all the time, but I like being tied down and...I'll never forget that evening with Gray."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you thinking of seeing him again?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. No, Doctor. I realize that what happened with Gray was wrong. But..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What are you thinking?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Nothing, really."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't believe that. You have something in mind. What is it, Anna?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was just thinking that I could go to an S&M party and do it. I've never really played with anyone but Martin and..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you want to do it with a stranger?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I know these people. They're not complete strangers. And I'm not sure I want any penetration anyway. Maybe I'll just go and watch. I liked watching."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You liked watching Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. Sick, isn't it?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "A lot of people are sexually stimulated by voyeurism."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess. Never mind, Doctor. I'm just talking. I'm upset over Martin. And I have to get used to the idea of Kathy being around for a few more weeks. I'm tired. I'm tired emotionally. I wish I had someone I could hold close to me. Don't worry, Doctor, I won't ask you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's time. I'll see you next week, Doctor Balis. Thank you for listening to me. And don't worry, I'm fine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Call me if you need to."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will. Good night."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good night, Anna."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 45th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, June 12, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor Balis. I'm so sorry you felt ill last week. How are you doing? Better?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. I'm much better, thank you. But I got a message from my answering service that you called in to cancel our session last week, just as they told you that I was too sick to see my patients. What's up? Where you sick?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "In a manner of speaking. But I didn't think they would have told you anything."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "They tell me everything."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I should remember that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what's up?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've been living the life of a fugitive. I haven't been home in over a week. And last Thursday I was in Davis with my parents."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Has Martin tried to contact you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, it's so much worse than that, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happened, Anna?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They hired him!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "They who?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "SII, that's who."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Martin is now working for SII?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They recruited him right from school, even before he graduated. Apparently he applied to SII sometime in April. They went out there to meet him and hired him, just like that! Apple offered him a job as well. And I guess SII thought that if Apple wanted him at the time they were firing everyone else, he must be hot shit. So now he's at SII doing god knows what."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And he never told you anything?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Nothing. All those endless messages and he never told me the most important thing--he was going to live and work with me!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Have you seen him yet?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I told you, I've been living the life of a fugitive. It started the night I left your office two weeks ago and...oh, it simply has been awful. I'm even thinking about quitting SII and going to work in some other country or something."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's a bit drastic, don't you think? You shouldn't give Martin or anyone else that much power over your life choices and decisions. Would you consider leaving your work and your home if Martin wasn't here?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Of course not. I love where I live and I even like working for SII--it's like a home to me now. But..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Not \"buts.\" Martin is just a guy you dated for a few weeks. So what if he works for SII?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, but...you just don't understand, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand perfectly, Anna. Martin probably took this job so that he can be around you. Maybe he hopes to try to win your heart back. There is a high chance that you will run into him a lot at work and around town. But as unpleasant as those prospects are, it's only going to be bad for the first few months. After a while, Martin will realize that it's over between you two and will eventually leave you alone."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "A few months! I don't know if I can take it for that long."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Of course you can, Anna. You're not giving yourself enough credit."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. It's been such a horrible two weeks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why don't you tell me about them?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I wasn't successful getting hold of Kathy, the evening I left your office. So I finally called Caren. She let me stay with her and Greg and, that night, I told them the whole story about Martin and everything that happened since."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did they take it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, they were both extremely supportive. But to be truthful, I didn't exactly give them all the details--I didn't think Caren was ready for that yet."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you tell them about your experience with Gray?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told them an edited version."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't think I could explain why I found the experience pleasureful at some level."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you presented the whole thing in a negative light?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told them that I didn't like feeling the pain. And that's completely true. I didn't like it. But I did tell them that Gray and I had sex that night and that I felt very bad about that and that I blamed Martin for pushing me into a very bad situation. And they agreed with me about that. In fact, Greg was outraged that Martin supported my efforts in trying to understand his--Martin's--sexual perversions. He said that if a man truly loved a woman, he would never have allowed her to go with another man and...well, let's just say Greg was very protective of me. They both said that they understood now why I kept my distance from them and that they will now try to do everything they can to help me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's nice."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Very nice. Caren is a legal secretary, if you remember. So as soon as she got to work on Friday, she looked up Martin--she wanted to know when his graduation was and just to check on him in general. That's when she found out that Martin was hired by SII. His graduation was actually a week before and he could have been in town when I first thought that I saw him that time on the beach. But as soon as Caren knew that Martin was now working for SII, she called home--they let me sleep in and I was still in their apartment when she called--and told me about it. Greg insisted that I stay with them that weekend. I called in sick to work--in fact, I did feel very sick. Greg was nice enough to volunteer to go to my apartment and pick up some changes of clothes for me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So that's how you avoided seeing Martin that first weekend. Have you been to work since then?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Greg went and talked with Jules for me. I'm not sure exactly what Greg told him, he just said that they had a \"man to man\" talk about Martin. Jules called after that and told me that he arranged for me to do some work at home. He even insisted that I stay away until he has had a chance to check out Martin."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Jules is very protective of you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm the only woman in his department and...yes, he is. I took my computer and spent the next week with my parents in Davis. I came back the following Sunday. Kathy volunteered to stay with me for a few days. It's now been five."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did Martin try to contact you in all this time?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He sent me a letter saying that he was in town and that he took the job at SII to be close to me. He left a few phone messages--nothing too important, just saying hello. And I think I saw him once across the street from my apartment, but I'm not sure about that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It doesn't sound too bad."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. But I haven't been alone yet either."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When is Kathy moving out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's going to a leather show over the weekend. So she's got to leave tomorrow. Do you believe it? There are trade shows for whips and stuff--new trends in bondage wear, come and check out new technologies!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That is funny. It seems like the basic technology goes back thousands of years--whips and chains and the like. I wouldn't expect a lot of recent innovations. Are you going to go up to Davis again over the weekend?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. My parents are freaked as it is."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why are they freaked?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess they know something is going on that I'm not telling them. Something bad enough that I come and stay with them for weeks at a time. I'm surprised my mom is not coming to live with me. She worries about me living alone all the time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you have plans with Caren and Greg or are you going to try being on your own for a few days?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're making me feel bad about myself, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's not my intention. But I do think that you're running away from your problems. I think you should talk to Martin and set some ground rules for interacting with him, since you are now sharing not only a city of residence but an employer as well. You can't go on avoiding him forever. And I also don't want Martin to feel like he is playing some sort of pursuit game with you. By trying so hard to avoid him, you might actually encourage Martin to try harder to get you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, that sounds really bad. That would be a sick game to play."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, I don't think it would be good. I believe you need to talk to Martin and tell him that you're not interested in having a relationship with him."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Relationship! I'm not interested in being in the same place at the same time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Then tell him that and get on with your life."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You can only go on hiding for so long."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. I'll try, Doctor. I'll really try. It's getting late. I need to get home; Kathy is cooking dinner for me tonight."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. I'll see you next week, Anna. But think about what I said."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will. Goodbye, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Anna. Have a nice dinner."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, thank you, I will. Kathy is a very good cook. She's been spoiling me rotten."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 46th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, June 19, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor Balis. Isn't it a wonderful day? I love when it's warm enough to wear shorts to the office. You know, one of the receptionists actually asked me if I was wearing anything under my t-shirt? What was she thinking about? I know my t-shirt is rather large, but just because you don't see someone's underwear do you assume that they don't have any on?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. You're in an interesting mood today."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Today was a very good day, for the first time in a long while."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. I got the assignment I wanted at work--I won't bore you with the details. Caren and Greg asked me to be in their wedding party--as a maid of honor, of course. It's warm and the sun is shining. What more could one ask for?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I guess I would ask about Martin."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh yeah, I had a very long and interesting conversation with Martin."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I took your advice, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And what was that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You said that spending my life hiding out from god knows what is silly. You told me to go and confront Martin. And I did."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like it went well."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Very well."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. So Martin is content with leaving you alone now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, that's not exactly what happened."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Before you jump on me for saying that Martin and I are sort of back together, Doctor, let me explain what happened, okay?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sure, Anna. I'm here to listen..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "As you know, I spent all last week hiding out. I was terrified of confronting Martin. I thought that if I faced him, he would undermine my resolve to never socialize or associate with him ever again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like you were right."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess you could look at it that way. But no matter. Last Monday, I decided to take my life back under my control. I moved back into my apartment and resolved not to let Martin rule my life any more."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That was good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Absolutely. It was getting ridiculous. I was living out of my purse--carrying my toothbrush and a spare pair of underwear with me wherever I went. I was beginning to feel like a homeless person. I was imposing on my friends. I was asking my boss to do favors for me. And all because of a guy. And it's not like this guy wanted to kill me or to hurt me. Martin just wanted to talk to me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If all Martin wanted was to talk to you, he wouldn't have moved to the Bay Area and gotten a job in the same company you work for."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I wasn't answering his calls or his mail..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think a simple visit to San Francisco would have sufficed, don't you think?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I suppose so. But I'm glad that he's here now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I gathered that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So as I was saying, I moved back into my place on Monday. I went to work like normal on Tuesday. Martin approached me that afternoon. It was amazing just how many people rushed to my rescue. But I told everyone that I could handle it, and Martin and I were left alone to talk."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I had this whole speech in my head prepared. I was going to tell Martin that I just couldn't be with him even if we were to be friends and nothing more. I was going to tell him that I thought he was a very smart guy, but there was just too much emotional baggage between us and...you get the idea."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You had a whole \"Dear John\" speech in your head."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Precisely. I thought it was good--I wasn't planning on attacking him or anything. I just wanted to tell him to go away and never bother me again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So did you tell him all that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It didn't quite happened that way. Martin insisted that if we were going to have a serious conversation, that I at least allow it to happen in private and not in SII's hallway where everyone was looking. I can understand not wanting your co-workers see you get emotional and stuff, so I had to agree."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Where and when did Martin want to talk with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "At first, I assumed that he would push to go to dinner with me. But that's not at all what happened. He really did want to talk to me privately. And because he knew that I would worry about being alone with him, he suggested going to a park. That way, we could have a private conversation and I would still feel safe with all the people around us. So Wednesday after work we went to Golden Gate park. Do you know the area around Stow Lake?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's very nice. There's a large walking trail all the way around this tiny island. We went all the way to the top. There is a spectacular view there. We ended up staying till sunset--it was gorgeous!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll have to check it out some time."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You should, you really should. And there are so many other surprises in that park. I've been going for years and still..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what did you talk about with Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We talked about my experience with Gray. Martin said that he never knew that I didn't consent to having sex with him. He said that it's an unwritten but highly respected rule in S&M community--the participants in a scene have to agree on all the details ahead of time. There should never be any surprises. He said that problems arise when a person has to give his or her consent during the event. At that time, they might not be in full control of their own actions. They might consent to something when they're in \"bottom space\" that they would never consent to when they weren't under the influence, so to speak. And it does make sense. It's like taking advantage of someone when they're drunk or something. The whole thing for me was that I was completely out of control. Gray was in charge of every little detail. My life was in his hands. When we did it at the end, I didn't have any choice. I had to do it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "As I remember it, you wanted to have sex with Gray."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Martin said that that happens a lot. A lot of people who experience bottom space, especially for the first time, have a desire to consummate the relationship with their master through sex. But Martin said that he was extremely upset that Gray took advantage of me like that. He said that he always assumed that it was my intention from the start to have sex with Gray and that Gray and I talked about it when we first met. That's why Martin reacted the way he did on the phone when I told him about my night with Gray--he thought that it was my expressed desire to do what I did."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Martin said that since I told him that I was doing research on S&M culture and rituals and had a friend to talk to about it, that I knew and understood what I was doing. He was very sorry and extremely apologetic that he took such bad care of me. He said that he felt like he let me down."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I think he was very sincere, Doctor. When I didn't let him have an opportunity to talk with me--I mean after the Gray thing--Martin realized that the only way that he could reach me was by actually coming out here in person. But he was worried that if he didn't keep in touch with me in some way before then, I would completely lose all interest in him and forget him. So he kept calling and leaving me long messages telling me about his life, and how he feels, and how he misses me--keeping me involved in his life. And it's true. If he just left me alone, I think I would have gotten over him and would have been able to move-on with my life. But because he kept calling and trying, I could never feel that our relationship was over. Somewhere in the back of my mind, I always pondered what-if questions."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That was very smart of Martin."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why did he lie about his graduation? And why did he not tell you that he got a job with SII?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He was afraid that I would completely freak if I found out. And in fact, that's exactly what happened. I didn't handle it well."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Martin said that he was going to try a romantic approach first. That's why he made the drawing on the sidewalk in front of my building. When he saw my reaction to it--apparently he was somewhere close by watching me--Martin realized that he would have to try some other way of reaching me. He said that he didn't want to scare me or make me feel like he was stalking me. All he wanted was a chance."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And you gave it to him."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He really cares about me, Doctor. It was touching just how much he cared."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Did you talk about anything else last night?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I tried to explain to him what my feelings about S&M were."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He said that he understood me, Doctor. He said that it doesn't have to be all or nothing with him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What does that mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He doesn't need to always do it that way. He said that vanilla sex is fun too, once in a while."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Vanilla sex? How open-minded of him."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sorry. What else did Martin tell you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He said that he would like to try again. We could take it really slow this time. We no longer have the time or distance constraints so we don't need to rush."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And we joked around a bit about the fact that we both like being bottoms."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's a problem. Does Martin have any sensible solutions?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He was saying that we could get a mistress for the both of us...Doctor! It was only a joke."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what are you going to do, Anna?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think I'd like to try it. As I said, we'll go real slow. I have no intentions of jumping into this, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you have plans for this weekend?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We thought about going on a movie date. Nothing too much, just meeting at a movie theater and then going to our respective homes afterwards."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Not even a cup of coffee?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think not this time. Don't worry so much, Doctor Balis. I'm not being foolish. I just want to know if Martin is one of those people that I'll end-up knowing all my life in one capacity or another."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think you're making a mistake, Anna. I think it would be best if you put that relationship to rest."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know how you feel, Doctor. But really, I'm just...I won't do anything stupid. I promise. Okay, I've got to go. I'll see you next week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Remember that you can always call me, if you need to."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know, Doctor. Good night."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Anna."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 85th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, June 25, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. Sorry you were too sick to come in last week. What was wrong with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I had a couple of bad nights in a row and just...I needed to sleep."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you weren't sick?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't feel well."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why did you have bad nights? Are you having trouble sleeping?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sort of. Kathy pulled one of her trips again--she didn't come home for over twenty-four hours, and I freaked. Before when she pulled this, I told her that I needed to know...she needs to call me if she's going to stay out all night. I spent all night watching bad TV and thinking of horrible rape scenarios."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Did Kathy tell you where she was?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She said it was work, but I don't buy it. She never does a session longer than a couple of hours. It's tiring to dominate someone for so long--her arm gets tired, and her feet swell from wearing those spikes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you think she was doing?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. I have these images of drugs and torture."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think she's doing drugs?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Other than pot, I never caught her...well, I haven't seen her do anything lately. When she comes home from these outings, she is not drugged. She's not normal, but she's not drugged."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There's a different feeling after being dominated than there is after topping someone else. It's like a different emotional or even physical state. Now I know how Kathy is after one of her dominatrix's sessions. But after she comes back from being out all night, it's different. It's like she's in bottom space--I think that's the terminology."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess I felt it after my session with Gray. It's a very strange set of emotions. It was as if I hated myself and at the same time loved how I felt. I'm not sure I'm expressing it well."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're doing fine. Go on."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It wasn't exactly like hate. There was a sense of embarrassment, maybe shame or degredation, and something else. In any case, I sensed that Kathy was more like that when she came home yesterday morning."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yesterday?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. She's done this several times now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Well, perhaps Kathy found a new relationship where she gets to be the bottom. You told me before that she prefers being a submissive."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, she's more an M than an S. Perhaps. But I wish she would just come out and tell me. We had a big fight again. I said that it was unacceptable behavior--because of her, I didn't sleep and now I feel totally trashed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And Kathy agreed, and I know she'll do it again. That was her fourth time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Let's move on from Kathy for a moment. Tell me about your last two weeks."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, Kathy is prominently featured in my life. I don't know how to edit her out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Don't. I just meant let's move on from Kathy's night wanderings--I'm concerned that it's not getting us anywhere."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "All right."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Last time, I got an impression that you had a plan for fulfilling your S&M fantasies. Would you tell me about that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That didn't work out like I thought it would."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I went over to one of the parties. I thought I could find a partner there. Or actually, at first, I was just looking for a one time thing and no sex."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You just wanted to experience bottom space again?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. I figured I can manage my own sexual satisfaction for a while. But I wanted to feel that thrill..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Like you did with Gray?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You told me that Kathy did a few sessions with you where she was the dominant one. Was that different?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I never felt anything even similar to what I felt with Gray. I guess I never thought that Kathy had any real power over me. That was more role playing, I think. I never got that certain something during my sessions with her and Martin."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think Kathy is just not very good at being a dominant?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's not that. I think each person has different energy or something. I believe Kathy is perfectly good at being a dominatrix to her clients. But I think it's different with each person. With me, it just wasn't right. It's like sex--you either got it or you don't. And you can't force it--you can't force sexual attraction and energy with someone. You can fake it, though."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And you faked it with Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sort of, I guess. Sometimes I faked it with Bill, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. So what happened at the party?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, when I got there, it was different."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I never came to one of those things alone. There was always somebody with me. First, it was Kathy, and she was kind of my guru and top. Then, it was with Kathy and Martin, and we declared a more or less monogamous relationship."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, monogamous between the three of us. And then next time, I was there with David. I guess everyone just assumed that he was my new dominant partner, if a bit uneducated and green. He was certainly enthusiastic."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, David was no bottom. But this last time, I came alone. And things changed. While there wasn't anything overt, I felt like I was prey. Does that make any sense?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you feel threatened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, that too. It was strange. There was this feel to the air. I felt like a little gazelle in an open savanna with all these different predators just eying me and fighting among themselves to determine whose going to get me. It made my skin crawl. I had to get out of there."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you left without playing with anyone?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I had to. I had this feeling that if I didn't, I'd be in real trouble. I felt that I couldn't put myself in a vulnerable position there--and after all, that's what it's all about."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. I'm glad you had the presence of mind to leave when it didn't feel right."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not stupid, Doctor. I found other ways of getting what I wanted."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. After all, I do live with a professional."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you said it didn't work between the two of you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't ask her to do anything to me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't understand. What did you do, Anna?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I asked to be a spectator at one of her sessions. I get a fair amount of thrills from just watching, you know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy had an appointment with four women."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Four?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She was supposed to be a mistress to all of them. They were lovers and wanted to play out a fantasy. Kathy was supposed to force them to have intercourse with each other in as many ways as she could think of."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And I came along to watch. They liked that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You didn't participate?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No one ever touched me. At one point, I unzipped my jeans, pulled down my panties, and played with myself as I watched them go for it. It's very erotic to see someone so turned on and into it live. I guess that's why the strip clubs are so popular. I was glad that I had spare underwear in my pocket."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You brought spare underwear?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I get so wet...I'm sure you remember, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, maybe not. Perhaps you weren't paying that much attention to the clothes on the floor of your..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know--let's move on. Actually, I think it's the end. I'm tired. I told you I didn't get much sleep last night."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right, it is getting late. Do you have any plans for the Fourth?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, my parents were supposed to come down, but my mom is sick, so..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh. I hope she's not very sick, is she?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, it's just a bad summer cold. Actually, I feel lucky--the whole Kathy business got pushed off to another day."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yeah. Well, all right. I'll see you in a week, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. Have a good one, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 47th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, June 26, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. How was your week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What you really mean, Doctor, is how's Martin?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. How's Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He's been just wonderful. Just so that you don't freak out on me, we didn't have sex and we're not planning on having sex in the near future."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you're talking about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "True. We do talk about it. But that's a good thing, no? If we didn't talk about it, you would worry that I'm developing false expectations again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I don't think so. I realize that his tastes in sex deviate somewhat from the norm. But that's no longer scares me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Have you talked about how you're going to reconcile your sexual differences when it comes time to having sex?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We're working on that. But it's just talk for now, nothing else. I'm really having a good time when I'm in Martin's company. We talk a lot--about everything, not just sex. We watch movies together. It seems that we have similar tastes in movies. Martin doesn't even mind watching obvious girl movies. You know, like \"My Friend's Wedding?\" I think he really nurtures his feminine side, unlike other men who work very hard to repress it. It's been good. This last week, I mean. Except for Caren and Greg...and Kathy...and a few other people who are just over the top with their protective shit."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Caren is all freaked that I'm hanging out with a \"certified pervert.\" Greg is just dying to go and beat Martin's brains out. And Kathy...well, she's been very strange lately."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What's wrong with Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's been so moody. I was telling her about Martin, and she got all upset and even cried and then walked out on me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did you say to her?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just told her that I decided to give Martin another chance. I said that I had a long talk with him, during which we settled some of the misunderstandings between us. But Kathy--she just didn't want to hear anything positive about Martin. I thought she'd be happy for me. She--and of course you, Doctor Balis--are the only people who know most of the details...of me and Martin and our relationship, I mean. She knows that I really cared about him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you believe that Kathy's reaction to the news of you and Martin getting back together was irrational?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Definitely. I was hoping to introduce Kathy to Martin. I thought that they have a lot in common and...but that's apparently totally out of the question. And I don't know why."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Kathy doesn't want to meet Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "When I suggested that we have dinner together, she stormed out of the room crying."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And she also has been accusing me of not spending any time with her. But she knows that I have a lot of catching up to do with Martin. And it's not like I'm forgetting about her. I want her to be with me. But for the time being, it would have to be with Martin as well. It shouldn't be a big deal. I understand why Caren and Greg are freaked out. They are totally straight and very conservative. They'll never understand Martin. But Kathy? She's even part of the community. She doesn't have problems with people who are into S&M or who have other alternative sex preferences and desires."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Before Martin came along, how much time were you spending with Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure. We talked on the phone a few times a day. I guess we saw each other maybe five...six times a week? Something like that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I still talk to her every day. But since she refuses to be in Martin's company, I haven't really seen her for any length of time in over a week or so. I guess she's feeling abandoned. But it's not like that, Doctor. I still like her. I just need to spend some time with Martin right now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you know if Kathy ever had a homosexual relationship?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You mean like with a woman? Well, homosexual relationship is a little strong. I'm sure she has played with women sexually. But that's not uncommon in the S&M community. There are lots of times when two women play together. But that doesn't mean that they're homosexuals. Why?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I've thought it possible for a while now that Kathy might have a crush on you. What do you think?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You mean that she's interested in me sexually? We're just good friends, Doctor. Why would you think that?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, there have been a series of incidents between you and her that seem to indicate that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Like what?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, masturbating while being in the same bed with you, comes to mind."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That was a bit strange. But we'd been talking about sex and...you know how stuff like that can just happen."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, actually I don't. I can't recall an incident where I was in bed with a guy and we were telling sexually explicit dreams to each other and masturbating. It doesn't just happen."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's different with men. Women share more."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So this has happened to you with someone else? Did you and Caren ever do this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. But Kathy's different."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think so, too. I think Kathy is interested in being a lot more than just a friend to you. And I think she's jealous of all the attention you've been lavishing on Martin. I think she's jealous of Martin."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That would explain her recent behavior, don't you think?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess so. I never thought of Kathy that way. She's always been just a very close and dear friend. You really think she likes me like that?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I do."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm. Interesting."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Perhaps you should talk with her about this."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So Kathy likes me in that way? You know, Doctor, I've never had a woman be interested in me sexually. I know I've told you about Caren and I, but that was...well, you know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I know."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy's a very special person and I don't want to hurt her feelings."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's why you need to talk to her and explain how you feel--tell her that while you find her attentions flattering, you just can't reciprocate in the way she wants you to."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I can't. I wonder what Martin will say when I tell him about this?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I believe it would be best if you had this conversation with Kathy in private."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, of course. I wouldn't dream of embarrassing her like that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That does explain a lot. I wonder why that didn't occur to me before?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sometimes it helps to have an outside perspective to notice certain things."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Oh, Doctor?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I need to cancel our appointment for next week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No problem. That's the day before the Fourth of July. Starting your holiday weekend early?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You can say that. I'm going to my parents' for the weekend."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's nice."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And Martin is invited."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's the first time I'm going to bring home a man that I'm dating. My parents are kind of excited."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So they know about Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just told them a little. But I think my dad and Martin will really get along well. My dad likes that Martin has a doctorate degree and is very intelligent. And my mom will get a kick out of Martin volunteering to do the dishes--I told him he must."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Aren't you worried that your parents might get a wrong idea about Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, if you've never brought home a man you've been dating before, doing it now may make Martin more significant in your parents' minds than you intend. Don't you think?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh that. I told my mom not to get any ideas--I'm not planning on getting married in the near future. Although, Martin will be my date to Caren's and Greg's wedding."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. I thought Greg wanted to pound him into the ground."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh Doctor, relax. Have a wonderful Fourth of July weekend. And I'll see you the following week with all the dirty details."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. I'll see you then, Anna. Have a good visit with you parents. And good luck with Kathy."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you. Goodbye."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Anna."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 86th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, July 2, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. Please come in. How's life?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It has its moments."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "One of Kathy's patrons died."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh no. Is..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It wasn't like it was Kathy's fault. Really."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's good. What happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Apparently he committed suicide."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy told me about this guy. He was nineteen or something, very young. She said that he was strange--he wanted to be punished. He even gave Kathy a script over the phone that she had to follow when they did it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "A script?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't see it. The first time..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Kathy saw this guy more than once?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She saw him a couple of times. He was one of her first customers, and he became a regular. Kathy told me that she thought he was very depressed. She even refused to have a session with him two weeks ago because when she got there, he was too fucked up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Was he under influence?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy said she couldn't tell. But he was crying and raving about being the lowest person on Earth--not worthy of having a life."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did Kathy do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She actually called me from his kitchen. She said the guy, Peter, was screaming like a lunatic. I asked if she was worried for her safety, but she said no. He was just too much for her. I told her to get out of there, and she did. I don't understand why the police are so taken with Kathy now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is Kathy under investigation?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not really. The guy jumped out of a fifth story window at four o'clock in the morning. Kathy was home, and I can testify to that. He also left a note for his parents. I don't know what it said."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. How do the police know about Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's not hiding what she's doing. She is not working as a prostitute; she's just beating guys for money. That's not particularly illegal. She said that they found her number in his stuff."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did the police ask you questions?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. Two detectives came to the house. I told them what I knew, which wasn't much. But I said that Kathy has been staying with me for the past couple of months. I told them the business she was in. I didn't hide anything. And I said that I knew she was at home the night it happened."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And they seemed to be satisfied with that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When did all of this happen?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think he jumped on Friday night...no, I guess that would be Saturday morning."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When was the last time Kathy saw him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The previous Monday. That was their date night."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I thought you said that Kathy refused to service him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That was two...three weeks ago. Last week, he was all right. He called and left this long begging message telling us what a good boy he was going to be from now on."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Us? Have you ever talked with him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Two weeks ago, when Kathy refused to be with him, he called the house about ten times."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I thought you changed your number."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I got a new number installed, and Kathy arranged to have my old number."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. So you talked with him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just got tired of the constant ringing and pleading. I told him that he has to work it out with Kathy. He begged for my help, and...and nothing. I didn't do anything."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Did Kathy think he might have been suicidal at the time?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. Why would she?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You said she thought he was depressed?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm depressed sometimes, too. But it doesn't mean I'm going to jump. She's not a psychiatrist, and we told the detectives that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. So you don't think there was any relationship between Kathy's dominatrix services and Peter's suicide?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. Not directly. The guy wanted to be punished and reassured that he was the lowest of the low. A lot of guys want that from Kathy--most of them don't jump afterwards."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Kathy is offering services that work on multiple levels."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'd say."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Wait, Anna. What I'm trying to say is that the raw emotions released while someone is experiencing bottom space, as you call it, can sometimes be more than the individual is ready to handle. If Peter was depressed, he might have used Kathy to help him reaffirm his decision to end his life."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How does Kathy feel about this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's freaked. But she doesn't think it was her fault. She just did as she was asked. It was completely consensual."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does she still have the script?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. She brought it over to his place the first time she met him. I would gather the police have it, if he hasn't destroyed it, of course."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Is Kathy going to continue with her practice after this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. I think she is really good at what she does, Doctor. And I think she probably offers a much needed service--there are a lot of guys who want to be in that bottom space and there aren't a lot of women who can put them there. The few women who like to top tend to be in relationships and don't play around with too many outsiders."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If it's not Kathy, it would be someone else, perhaps less qualified. At least Kathy knows how to do it right. And she also plays the other way, which gives her a certain degree of empathy, I think."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And how do you feel about this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. I've never been so close to someone who actually took his own life. It's unsettling. And I don't like talking to the police. I don't want to be involved."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you pushing Kathy to move out of your home?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. We talked about her getting an apartment soon."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How soon?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She says she almost has the money for all the fees that she would need to pay. I feel it's getting close, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Please don't let up on her. Make sure she knows just how much you want her out of there."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I think she knows. We've been fighting quite a lot lately, and this Peter thing didn't help."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Did anything else happen last week that you'd like to talk about?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I went to one of Kathy's appointments again. Don't worry--I didn't masturbate in public again. I was there as a videographer."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "This couple wanted to videotape the session so they could watch it again and again. Kathy asked me to do it. And that's all."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you like it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There's definitely a thrill in watching others have sex in front of you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But Kathy doesn't..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy didn't. The couple did everything. They had sex together, Kathy was there to tell them what to do--she was the ring master, as the guy put it. And she had a whip to prove it, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does watching fulfills all your S&M fantasies?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's not a fantasy per se. It's more like another approach to having sex. And, yes, observing Kathy's customers in action pretty much does it for me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you still want to be topped?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. But I'm willing to wait for just the right guy. And I'm not sure I would want to do it the way that couple did it. I don't want to have someone else there. I want the man I'm with to...I want to feel the power. There is a reason why men are always depicted with giant muscles and powerful chests and women are shown draping their bodies all over them and wearing nothing but ripped transparent shirts."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What are we talking about?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The covers of stupid romance novels."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't really read that stuff. Don't worry, Doctor, I still have my IQ intact. But there is a reason why so many women like reading these stories. I think they like to imagine how it would feel to have this raw power over them...they want to be topped. I like being pinned by a man so I can't move my arms and legs. I like feeling the power. S&M is more than that, I know. But that's exciting. I like the feeling of losing control during sex. I think lots of women do. But look, we're out of time. I'll see you next week, Doctor. And don't worry, Kathy will move out eventually."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. Take care, Anna. I'll see you next week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 48th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, July 10, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. How are things going? How was your visit with your parents?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Do you want a short version or a long one?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Judging from your tone of voice, I want the long one. What happened? Your parents didn't like Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's not as simple as that, Doctor. My parents were very excited to meet Martin. He was the first man I wanted to bring home and introduce to my parents. My mom was probably shopping for baby clothes after I asked her for permission to bring Martin for the Fourth of July family barbecue."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like your parents were predisposed to liking Martin. So what happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, we drove to Davis last Thursday right after work. You just wouldn't believe the traffic up I-80. It was as if the whole Bay Area was evacuating or migrating or something. We didn't get to my parents' house until well after eleven o'clock at night. My mom was nice enough to warm up some leftovers for us--we were starved. But despite the fact that it was so late, I thought their first impression of Martin was good. And after Martin settled in the guest room, I went upstairs and probed my parents for their opinions about Martin."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's a bit soon--they only met him."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. But it was very important to me to know how they felt about him, even though those feelings were based on only a few minutes of interaction."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what did they think?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My mom thought he was very nice--Martin offered to clean up and help do the dishes after we ate. She even said that Martin was cute. And my dad said that Martin looked like a decent fellow, but he reserved the right to change his mind after the barbecue. But basically, they liked him. I sneaked down to Martin's room and told him that they did and that he was doing a good job. And then I went to my room--I didn't want my parents to feel like I'm sneaking behind their back or doing something bad in their house. But it was very strange to sleep in my room--the room I slept in when I was a little girl--and have my parents a few feet away, and all with Martin in the same house. Do you understand?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sure. In your parents' house, you could feel and be treated as a child. But Martin represents a very adult part of your life. The combination..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Right, the combination is very strange. Well, I was finally able to fall asleep and I ended up sleeping until ten. No one woke me up or anything. They just let me sleep, and poor Martin had to be alone with my parents all morning. I mean, it wasn't bad. But I bet he was feeling pretty uncomfortable and strange, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And did Martin continue to make a good impression on your parents?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Absolutely. When I finally got down to the kitchen, they were all having coffee and talking about Pathfinder and the Martian landing and stuff. I could tell that my dad was impressed with Martin. Martin knew a lot about the mission and the kind of programming that they did for Pathfinder's on board computers--my dad was ready to adopt him, I think."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So I don't understand--the visit went very well, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It could have and it should have. I'm so outraged, Doctor Balis, I can't even tell you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Outraged at what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, my dad and Martin were setting up the barbecue in the yard and marinating the meat--all that male bonding stuff. And my mom and I were getting together the rest of the meal. My parents were expecting another couple to join us. Then the phone rings. My mom gets it and after the initial hello, she tells me that she got to take it in the other room. That was fine with me. I just went to hung out with Martin and my dad--they were more fun anyway. Then my mom calls for my dad to come into the house. And that was nice too--it was the first chance Martin and I had to be alone all morning. But when my dad came down, he started to act very strangely."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was like someone just pull the plug or something. Just five minutes ago, he was all buddy buddy with Martin and now he could hardly look the guy in the face. I tried asking him what was wrong, but he only waved me off with a strange expression on his face. I didn't know what got into him, so I stayed around and tried making Martin as comfortable as possible--he was a guest after all."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And you didn't know what was wrong with your dad?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I had no idea at the time. It looked like he lost his mind. Martin tried helping him move the grill over, but my dad jumped when he touched him. So Martin just backed off."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And then my mom came down. And she was even more strange than my dad. She kept giving Martin these very bizarre looks--like he was a leper or had some some form of particularly disfiguring facial skin cancer. I just couldn't figure out what got into the two of them. One moment, they couldn't get enough of Martin and the next, they couldn't find a safe enough distance away from him. I was just about ready to confront them on this, when their friends arrived. We spent the rest of the afternoon pretending there was nothing wrong. Martin offered to make a portrait for my mom's friend. It came out very well. But when Martin wanted to do one of mom, she freaked. Even her friends thought she was acting strangely."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you try asking your mom or dad what was wrong?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't get a chance until later. Or, more accurately, I was forced into a very bizarre discussion with my mom pretty much against my will."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That evening, we had planned to go to Sacramento--the Old Town part. There were fireworks scheduled, and it's a nice place for a stroll on a warm summer evening--very romantic. Have you ever been?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So we're getting ready to go, and my mom suddenly decides that she wants to take two separate cars. They have a mini-van, Doctor. And parking in the old town during the holiday...it's just not how my mom thinks. And she wants to drive with me in my car while everybody else goes in the van."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Including Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. I told her that I didn't want to have Martin in a different car--he didn't know anybody and he would feel uncomfortable. But my mom got all...I don't know. There was no arguing with her, and Martin told me that it was okay and that he'd be all right. So I drove with my mother. And then she told me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Told you what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Why they were acting like they had been taken over by body snatchers or something. Kathy called."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I knew that she was upset when I told her that Martin was going with me to meet my family. She thought that I was forcing things and rushing into a relationship that could really cause me a lot of pain. She went on and on. She was just relentless. But I understood her motivations--she was jealous. I have to tell you, Doctor Balis, I wasn't convinced when you suggested that Kathy might have a crush on me. I'm so clueless about that kind of thing--I need a ton of bricks dropped on my head. But after that conversation...well, it was obvious even to me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why did Kathy call your parents?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She thought that they should know a few things about Martin. My mom wouldn't tell me what Kathy said to her. But she said that she's extremely worried about me and showed me a fax of Martin's first drawing--the one with the whip. Kathy sent it to her. That explained why my mom was so freaked when Martin wanted to draw her. I was so angry at Kathy, I can't tell you. But I finally managed to calm my mom down. I told her that Kathy had a very bad experience recently, and that she's very unstable and paranoid when it comes to men. It must have been consistent with my mom's conversation with Kathy, for she grabbed on to that explanation."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And the drawing?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I said that the drawing was a joke and an illustration of a science fiction short story that Martin and I read together. I'm good, Doctor. My mom liked that explanation, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, you are good. Reminds me of our first sessions together."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll take that as a compliment, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you get a chance to talk with Kathy since then?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's been avoiding me. I think she's afraid of facing me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Does your dad feel better about Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My mom had a talk with him. He stopped acting like a complete lunatic with Martin after that. But the warm feelings that he was showing for Martin before are gone. I think he'll come around and will like Martin after he sees him a few more times."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He's been very supportive and understanding through the whole thing. He even encouraged me to patch things up with Kathy--he told me that he can certainly understand how she must feel now since he used to feel that way about her. Martin told me that he used to be jealous of Kathy. Strange isn't it, Doctor? The world just keeps flipping from one extreme to the other."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It certainly seems that way in your case."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sure that I'm not the most screwed up patient you have, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Our time is up. I'll see you next week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're not going to confirm that?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I can't talk about my patients, Anna. Even to you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, then. I will see you next week. I mean, who else would believe my life story? Have a good weekend, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Anna."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 87th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, July 16, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. I'm glad you were able to make it today."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, life's been...but I have all the time..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not following you, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sorry."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How's Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know exactly."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is she still in the hospital?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, but I heard she'll be released by next week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You heard?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not really allowed to visit her now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What? Why not?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They told me that if I knew Kathy's relatives, I should try to contact them and tell them what happened to her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I agree. You had to tell Kathy's Aunt Helen what happened."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, well..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you having problems with Helen?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, no. Helen is being as nice as she could be. She knows the whole story and is sort of on my side. She's very grateful to me for taking Kathy in and supporting her and stuff."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what's the problem?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, Kathy sort of has this grandmother, remember?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes. She's the woman that Kathy lived with before moving in with you and Martin, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She hates my guts. She blames me for what happened to her precious dear Kathy! She went off on me in the hospital. It was horrible. Helen tried to come to my rescue, but...all the nurses and doctors now think that I'm Kathy's pimp or something. She made it sound like I pushed Kathy into doing S&M for money just to pay me back her debt. I kept her from living in the streets, and now I'm responsible not only for her choice of profession but for...just for this whole mess. They all think I'm some sort of a monster. I hope I never see any of these people ever again!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do the police think..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know what they think. I had to go back there several times. I tell them the same story over and over again. What do they want from me? And I don't know how they found out that I went with Kathy to her appointments a few times."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "They asked you about that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Here are the tissues."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "First, I told them no. I didn't think they had any way of finding out. But they kept pressing and pressing. They told me they knew about everything so I might as well just tell the truth. But so what? Even if I did get off on watching, does that mean I did something wrong?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't think you did anything wrong, Anna. I have a feeling the police were just trying to pressure you into saying..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's all that grandmother's fault. She just came and told them horrible things about me. And who are they going to believe, me or that little gray-haired old woman?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I met her once, maybe twice. I thought she was a nice old lady who didn't believe in doing maintenance on her house and that's all. What did I know? I didn't even know that Kathy was related to her in any way. Kathy lied about everything. I didn't know!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Calm down, Anna. The police aren't accusing you of anything, are they?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did Helen talk with the police?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She must have; they talked with everybody. They've even subpoenaed SII's phone logs."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you ever call Kathy at her S&M sessions from work?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I never needed to until this last time. I told them that, but they wanted to see the records anyway. I had to explain the whole thing to Julian. He's livid--he doesn't want SII to be involved in any scandal. I thought they were really nice at first. They made me believe that they really cared and wanted to find this guy. But now I feel like I'm in some sort of a witch hunt, and I didn't do anything."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And Julian told me to take a few days off so I can get a chance to get myself together. But I think he just wants me to stay away because he's worried about the publicity. They haven't even said anything about this in the newspapers or on TV. He's blowing this whole thing out of proportion. And I hate staying home and worrying and thinking...I haven't been able to sleep. I have these horrible nightmares..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You sound very tired and stressed."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's what Julian said."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think he's right. You've known him for a long time, would he try to..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know, I don't know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Would you please sit down?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I feel so jumpy. Helen came over to the house and got all of Kathy's things out. I don't know why that freaked me out so. It's like everything is out of control. And the police want me to go to this leather parade or something. Or is it a festival?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What are you talking about?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They want me to go with one of their undercover officers and try to spy or something."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The police want you to attend some S&M event to see if you can find some information about Kathy's attacker?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So I have to go. And I don't want to. I don't think I ever will want to again. But they think that I'll have a better chance of learning something because everyone knows that Kathy and I were together. And the S&M community is not on particularly friendly terms with the police."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I keep picturing Kathy in that hotel room, and Helen wants me to help them, too. But they are all so...they just want to get me involved somehow. And I don't want to, Doctor Balis. I've had enough. I just want them to all leave me alone. And Kathy wrote that..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Here's a tissue box. What did Kathy do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "When I was at the hospital with her last week, she wrote me...she still can't really talk. It's so horrible."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did Kathy..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She wrote that I should be happy--I'm finally getting rid of her and could have my mother over for dinner without worrying. It's just too much."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you tell your parents what happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. They don't even know that Kathy was living with me. Can you just imagine...oh, god!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, please try..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sorry, I'll try to sit down. I didn't notice that I was pacing again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's okay. Have you tried taking melatonin to help you sleep?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I forgot. I'll try it tonight. I don't remember if it worked last time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Just try it again. Call me if it doesn't work."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Where is this S&M event?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's in some alley in the city. It's supposed to be really hardcore. I probably won't even know anyone there. It's all so pointless."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When is it happening?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's on the twenty-sixth."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Of this month?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Do they think it's at all dangerous for you to go?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think it is. I don't want that guy to find me. I..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's all right. If you really don't think you can do this, just say no. They can't force you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. But Helen..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "She'll understand. And I'm sure there are a few policemen who are members of the community anyway, don't you think?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think you are very tired and emotionally worn out, Anna. It's probably not a good idea for you to go. I can call the police for you, if you like."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess. Maybe. I don't know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Look. You don't have to make a decision now; we can talk about this at our next session. You need to get some rest. Go home. Drink some warm milk..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Warm milk?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Warm milk is great. It's got serotonin in it and it will make you sleepy."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I hate milk."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. Skip the warm milk. Don't drink anything caffeinated and take the melatonin. If you're unable to sleep tonight, call me. All right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Now, are you going to be okay going home?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think so. Sure. It's not a problem."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Are the police watching your house?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Never mind. Just go home. Call me tomorrow."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You need to get some sleep. When was the last time you ate?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Was it today?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's very important to eat and drink."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I know you know. You have very dark circles under your eyes and you look a bit dehydrated..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm going."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. Please take care of yourself, Anna."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 88th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, July 23, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. Come in. Sit down."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay. I'm back at work."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Did you talk to Julian about that or was it his idea?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I went to the office after our last session and had a long conversation with him. I told him everything that happened and how upset and out of control I feel right now. And I told him that I want to be back at work--it's the only way I can get my sanity back, with your help of course."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So Julian was understanding?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He said that he had no idea about what happened to Kathy. He asked if he should be worried about me. I told him I was through with all that and just want to get back to living a normal life like everyone else in the office."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He laughed. He said that he hadn't seen normalcy even in passing in our department."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He told me to report to work the next day. I've been working all last weekend and late into the night every day after that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Are you eating? Are you getting enough sleep?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's better. Since I've been working, I'm getting tired and it's much easier to fall asleep. I don't dream anymore, but that's fine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you eating?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "More or less."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I suspect less. You look like you've lost weight."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess that's true. But I try, so don't press me on that, okay?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. But if you lose more..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Drop it, Doctor. I'll eat."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm surprised that Julian didn't know about Kathy. Didn't they ask for telephone records and..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, but I guess they didn't get into all the details. I was surprised, too. I was certain that it was part of the reason Julian asked me to stay home--he didn't want SII to get involved in the S&M scandal. But he's being very supportive now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad to hear that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. I probably violated all sorts of laws telling him about Kathy, though. I'm probably violating it now with you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The police told me that there's a gag order and no one who's not directly involved in the investigation must know what's going on. That's why there's been nothing in the media about it. Even the hospital staff is not allowed to discuss the case."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Although the only thing those doctors and nurses know is what Kathy's grandma told them. The police never bothered to set the record straight. So I hope I never need to be hospitalized there for any reason."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And Kathy...I don't know what's up with her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "She was released from the hospital, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. She went home with Helen on Saturday. But she gave a statement to the police before that. And I don't know what she told them, but...I can't wait for this whole thing to be over."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did Kathy tell the police?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't really know. It's not like they gave me a transcript of her statement. But they made me take Tuesday morning off so I could down there and be interrogated by them for the hundredth time. It was awful, Doctor. They made me come in at eight-thirty in the morning, and they kept me there until three in the afternoon without even a coffee break. I had a horrible headache and by the end, I couldn't even spell my name right."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They told me that they just wanted to verify a few details from Kathy's statement, but they went on and on. And they keep pressing me into going to that stupid S&M thing in Dore Alley."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you refuse to go?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told them that I would rather not. I really don't think I would be of any use to them, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And are you going?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. They are picking me up Sunday morning. I even have to dress up. I don't really own anything appropriate, but they told me that they'll bring me something to wear. God, I can only imagine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You really don't have to do this, you know."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. I'm a fool for even thinking about it. I think Kathy said some outrageous things about me in her testimony. And I still feel like I owe it to her to go. Can you believe it?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you feel guilty over what happened to her?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't think it was my fault, and I don't think I could have done anything to prevent it from happening."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But do you feel guilty?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, sort of. Maybe if I go to this thing, I would be free and would feel no further obligation to help her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think that's true?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I also hate that there's this guy that does this to women, and he's free to do it again. It's sort of my duty to help, isn't it?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I believe you also have a duty to yourself, Anna. You've been through a lot and I think..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not good at thinking like that, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I know."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe I can just go for a little while."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. What do you think Kathy told the police about you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They kept pressing me on just how involved I was in her business. They said that they found it hard to understand how I would take Kathy in after what she'd done to my relationship with Martin."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They asked why Kathy used my telephone number to conduct her business. I told them that she used it in secret and I had no knowledge of it for a long time. They already have copies of all my telephone bills and SII telephone logs from my office phone. Oh, and they searched the house again. They took my shoes away as evidence. Do you remember that pair that Martin gave me? I couldn't even walk when he made me wear them."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why did they take them?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. I told them they were mine and that Martin gave them to me. The whole thing...it was like they were playing the good cop/bad cop game with me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "First, they made me believe that Kathy told them I was her business associate. And when I told them it wasn't true, they pretended not to believe me. Then this detective talked with me as if I was part of his team. He made me feel like it was my duty and responsibility to help them get this guy. He made me feel like I was one of them. It was all very strange."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you considered consulting with a lawyer?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Why would I do that? I didn't do anything."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I know. But just in case, I think it might be a good idea."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know, Doctor. With all their manipulative games, the police haven't actually accused me of anything. And I don't believe that anyone would take Kathy's grandmother's ravings seriously. I don't even think that Kathy herself is a very credible person really."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Perhaps. I just don't want you to unwittingly get yourself into a sticky situation, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's too late for that, isn't it, Doctor?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. You sound much more focused today."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. I don't know whether it's because I'm just too tired or if I'm getting some emotional separation from the events involving Kathy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But it's true, I feel more together. I think work really helped, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Perhaps."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think things will be getting better for me soon. I'll go to this thing on Sunday and that's it. There's nothing more they can ask of me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If you change your mind about Sunday, give me a call and I'll talk to the detectives myself. Okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "All right. But I'm not sure they know about you, Doctor Balis. And I told them that I wouldn't talk about the case with anyone, even my parents. So..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think it will be okay. And I'm sure they know about me."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Why? Do you think they have my personnel records? Oh god! Of course they do. That's why they were asking me about the people in my department."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did they ask?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They asked tons of questions, like who I dated, and did Kathy know and service people from SII, and did I know of any bizarre sexual preferences of people in my office."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't think I told them much, but who knows? I was really losing it at the end. I did tell them about the porno movies I think. Or did they ask me?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "God, I hope...I can just see them putting together the porno and pizza nights, and the fucking on the couches, and Martin and his foot fetish, and the S&M outing I sponsored for the guys in my department..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Maybe you should talk to a lawyer, Anna. It couldn't hurt."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But it would be like admitting that I've done something wrong."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, I don't think..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure it is. Isn't that why people go to criminal attorneys? They've committed a crime, but I didn't. Think of how the police will react when I tell them I want an attorney. I don't need an attorney. And I'm not charged with anything either. I think it's a bad idea, Doctor. I really do."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Think about it..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And I think they did ask me if I consulted with an attorney."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When did they ask you that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The first time they interviewed me, I think. Maybe the second."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Now I'm very upset, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I didn't mean to make you upset. I just want to make sure..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know, I'm sorry. You're the only person truly on my side, Doctor. What would I do without you?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Please don't throw me out just yet."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know it's late. Why don't you ask me how my work is?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How is your work, Anna?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I was going to go to New York in a few weeks for an on-site inspection of a big SIIMole installation, but...do you think they'll let me go?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The police?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Do I have to remain in the state or something?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't know..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So that was a bad question."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How are your parents?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They are well. I'm going to visit them next weekend...the weekend after the S&M thing. But I don't want to tell them anything, Doctor. Really, you can't make me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I wasn't..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Everything we talk about comes back to...I think I should go now, Doctor. Okay?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. Call me, if you need me. And I'd be happy to talk to the detectives on your behalf if you feel like you don't want to go to..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's all right. I'll be a good girl and do as they tell me, and maybe they'll leave me alone. Have a good week, Doctor. And thank you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Anna. Good luck on Sunday."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, thanks."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 49th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, July 24, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Anna. I'm sorry for missing last week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello, Doctor Balis. I got a phone call from your service saying that you were going out of town and wouldn't be able to meet with me last week. I missed you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How's..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So where were you, Doctor Balis? Was it business or pleasure?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It was personal."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Can't talk about it, huh?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, I..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, okay. I'll try not to get jealous."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's okay, I understand."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, it was my father. He was sick, but he's better now."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I'm sorry. Do you want to talk about it?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, thank you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "As you wish. So let's talk about my week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is there something in particular or..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Let me see, there are my parents--they've been calling me every day to check up on Martin and me. Then there's Kathy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How is Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You should ask Martin. He's been hanging out with her every day for the past week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I didn't know that they'd met. Wasn't Kathy unwilling to even be introduced to Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She was when I was asking her. But Martin has charms that I apparently lack."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So why is Martin socializing with Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He gave me a long lecture about how difficult it is to make and keep good friends. He told me that he thought Kathy was a good friend to me despite trying to damage our relationship over the Fourth of July weekend. So Martin went over to her bookstore and talked his way into becoming friends with Kathy. Can you believe it? The guy is smooth."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How do you feel about that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't really know yet. I'm really mad at Kathy. I don't know how long it will take me now to convince my parents that everything is normal. And who knows? For the rest of our lives, they might harbor suspicions that Martin is a pervert. I didn't need this. I have my own worries about our relationship, thank you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But Martin is trying to patch things up between you and Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If he is, he hasn't done it yet. So far it's been all about him and Kathy spending time together talking."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do they talk about?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Martin says that this is yet another way for him to get to know me. I guess so. But I wish he'd just concentrate on talking to me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you do feel jealous of the time Martin and Kathy spend together."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not really jealous. I don't know. I feel excluded somehow. And I'm not sure I like them talking about me all this time. I do like them both, and what they think of me is very important to me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And if they become friends, how could I talk to them about my problems and feelings relating to them? Before, I could call Kathy and talk to her about Martin. And I could discuss Kathy's outrageous meddling with Martin. But if they become friends...I'm just not sure I'm ready to share in this way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you wanted Kathy to become friends with Martin, remember? You didn't want her to be upset or feel neglected when you were with Martin."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's not exactly what I wanted, Doctor. I wanted Kathy to be friends with Martin only through me, not independent of me. You see the difference?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I do."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "At least for a while, until I get more comfortable with Martin. Things are so uncertain with us. We're still not sure we can make this work."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why don't we talk about that. What works in your relationship with Martin and what doesn't?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, first of all, there are a lot of things that work. We like the same things. It's really uncanny just how much our tastes in music, movies, books, and food match. We went to see \"Hercules,\" and we both loved it. I know that Caren wants to go see it, but Greg said that there's no way he's going to a Disney thing until he has to, meaning when he has kids. So things are really perfect with Martin. At least as far as all of that is concerned. And my parents liked him--I'm sure they'll get over the whatever it is that Kathy told them about Martin. And Martin is very smart. I really like that. We can talk about things and he's always able to tell me some new fact or something on almost any subject. And he's very nice about it--he doesn't rub it in. Some men would just...like Bill, for example. He would always try to impress me with how much he knew. But Martin is not like that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, that's really good. But..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Every once in while Martin will do something that's completely alien to me. And I can see that it's the most natural and normal thing in the world to him. But for me...it's like a rough spot on the surface of a toilet seat--sure you could ignore it, but you think about it every time you're just about ready to sit on it. You know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think so."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And when these things happen, I just feel like my happiness stumbles and I worry that I won't be able to take it all in the long run."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Can you describe some of these stumbling blocks in your relationship?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, Kathy's one. What is he doing with her? I'll make up with her when I'm good and ready. I don't need for Martin to run a diplomatic mission."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are there other things?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I got up one night, and Martin wasn't in bed with me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you sleeping together?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, but that's all we're doing. No sex, Doctor, of any kind."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So I get up, and he's not there. I figured that he went to the bathroom or something, and since I was up, I figured that I would go too. But he's not there. I look around--I have a studio apartment--and I see light from under the door of my walk-in closet. I opened it. There was Martin lying on the closet floor naked with my shoes piled all over him, masturbating."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did you do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I closed the door and went to bed. What should have I done, Doctor? Join him? Shoes are just not my thing. Or the other day, we were sitting in a coffee house having breakfast. I had a jelly donut and some of the jelly leaked out and dripped onto my shoe. Without skipping a beat, Martin just bent down and with one motion licked it off. I was frozen with embarrassment. But the way he did it, I don't even think anyone noticed. But it was a sneaker, for god's sake!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you tell Martin that you didn't like that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I couldn't."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why not?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Because he was holding my hand telling me how much pleasure I allow him and what a good mistress I am to him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are there any other mistress/slave behaviors?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. Every time I take a shower, Martin turns into a shower slave boy. He rubs my back, washes my hair, towels me dry--or licks me dry depending on the area and my mood--helps me get dressed, picks out my clothes. And don't get me wrong, there are times when I'm into this too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Just not every day. There's just so much licking my toes can stand, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you talk to Martin about that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sort of."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean sort of?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just don't want to ruin it, Doctor. I like Martin. He's a bit strange, but I like him. And I really really want this to work. I'm tired of going from one failed relationship to another. I want to make a stand and try as hard as I can to succeed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't think..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know that you're against Martin, Doctor. But for all his faults, Martin's the nicest and most loving man I've ever been with."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sometimes that's just not enough, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. But I want to try, Doctor. And when I come across something that I just can't live with...well, we'll see what will happen then, won't we?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Please, Doctor, don't. I want to feel free to tell you everything. So please don't be too negative about Martin and me. Okay?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But Anna..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Please, Doctor?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. Our time is up for today. Next Thursday?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll come in next week at our usual time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. I'll see you then. Have a good week, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye, Doctor Balis."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 50th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, July 31, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Anna. God, you look dreadful."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks, Doctor Balis. I got a bad cold, I think. Or maybe it's a flu. Don't worry--I won't breathe on you too much, though."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Shouldn't you be in bed?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. I'll go home soon. I was just at work and as long as I was that close to your office...well, it seemed like a good idea at the time. But I'm feverish and my decision making is certainly impaired."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How high is your fever?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I don't know. A hundred and two? A hundred and three?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That sounds awfully high."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, maybe it's lower then. Stop asking me all these questions, Doctor. Can't you see I'm sick?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Why don't we not have our session today? I think you should go home now."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks. I guess if you really don't want to be around me...I can take a hint."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, you're obviously really sick."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tell me something I don't know. But I still want to talk a bit, if you don't mind."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, if you insist."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "This situation with Martin and Kathy is getting all out of hand."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They are spending way too much time together. It's not like I'm jealous or anything, Doctor, but I wish...I just want them to stop."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you talk to Martin about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. He told me that I was overreacting."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think you might be. How often does Martin see Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He saw her Monday for lunch, and yesterday for coffee after work. And who knows? They might be talking on the phone the rest of the time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why does it bother you so much?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They are both supposed to be in love with me, right?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just feel like I'm losing them both, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you make up with Kathy yet?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We talked on the phone. She apologized, sort of, and I said that I forgave her. But we haven't gotten together after that, and it still feels very weird."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When did you have this conversation with Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Monday night."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's only been a few days..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But she's not making an effort to see me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you making an effort to her?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just wanted her to make the first move. I don't know, I guess you're right, Doctor. I'm probably overreacting. But I felt so sick all day today and since I couldn't really concentrate on my work, I just churned and mulled over this whole thing with Kathy and Martin and all. At least Martin and I are doing better."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You are?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. We are sort of having sex now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I guess we are having sex now. It's just that we don't actually had intercourse yet."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you engaged in other sexual activities?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. We developed this really cool way of dealing with our sexual needs. I think we can both be satisfied if we try to make it work and follow the rules."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What are the rules?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, you'll like them, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I hope so."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, since Martin is into doing one type of sexual play and I like doing something else, we figured that the only way we could make this work is if we can figure out a fair way to divide our sexually active time together into activities that Martin likes and those that I like. And, of course, there are some things we both like, so they fall into a separate category."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm still not sure what your system is."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Martin and I wrote down all the different kinds of sexual things we like to do and then we rated them according to the amount of time they take on the average including the set-up time, the amount of energy they require of each participant, and just how much pleasure each of us gets from that particular activity."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Very scientific."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't worry, Doctor. Let me give an example. Martin likes for me to put on the \"come fuck me\" shoes and he masturbates while licking the shoes and my legs. So licking and masturbating with shoes gets a rating of 10 on Martin's pleasure scale and a rating of 1 on my pleasure scale. So I can 9 pleasure points added to my point bank. Since Martin asked for this act, I get the time and difficulty points as well. This activity doesn't take much set-up time and usually takes about fifteen minutes--it earns me 4 time points. And it really doesn't require much of me except for wearing the shoes and bearing the tickling, so I get just 3 difficulty points."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I still..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If I agree to do this shoe-fucking, then it costs Martin those points. See?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Each sexual act that we could think of, we rated this way. Now we have this very extensive chart, and if I'm into doing oral sex one night--remember that I like to give it almost more than receive it--then Martin could look up the points for that on our sex-rating chart and I would be obligated to let him earn the appropriate number of points. It's like a sex barter system. I think it works very well, especially if one works out the points to be accurate and agreed upon ahead of time. I think it's very ingenious, don't you?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's interesting. Who came up with this idea?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually, it was both of us. We started talking about it one night. And after we identified our problem, we were able to come up with this solution. It's been real good for us."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And how long have you been doing this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Four days now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think it's a great system. Maybe you can use it with your other patients, hmm, Doctor?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think your sexual relationship with Martin is somewhat unique, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think I've got to go now. I'm really beginning to feel like the world is just spinning and fading out of my control."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Would you like me to call you a cab?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think so. Do you mind?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Not at all. Lie down here and I'll call the taxi."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No problem, Anna. Drink plenty of fluids and get some rest. I hope you don't have any plans for this weekend, because I don't think you should get out of bed."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't worry, Doctor. Martin will take very good care of me."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 89th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, August 6, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. What happened to you last time?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Didn't I tell you I was going to be in New York?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No. You mentioned there was a possibility of a business trip to New York in a couple of weeks, but..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh God, I'm so sorry, Doctor. I didn't even think...I'm really sorry."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Apology accepted. Please sit down, Anna. How are you feeling these days? Did you go to the Dore Alley event?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, I went. We got there first thing in the morning, about eleven, I think. Two detectives I've never met before showed up at my door even before I had a chance to shower. They sat in my kitchen in these outrageous open-butt leather pants while I was getting ready. I swear my neighbors must think all kinds of wild things go on in this house."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Did they bring you something to wear as well?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They got me these very short leather shorts and a bra. I refused the bra, but wore the shorts. I put on a black T-shirt instead, and they seemed to be happy. They had this collar they were going to put on me, but I refused it, too. I let them put the leather cuffs on, though."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. You really didn't have to do any of this, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess technically it was a favor, but that's not how they made me feel."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did you feel?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I felt compelled. There was no way for me to get out of going. They are so good at manipulation."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And I felt it was my price for going to New York."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean? You were free to go, Anna. You're not under investigation any more, are you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you think more about seeing a lawyer?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I had a long conversation with my dad last week. I told him everything that happened...well, not everything. But I told him about Kathy, and what happened to her, and how I'm involved."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's very good. How did he react?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He was appropriately freaked. He was going to talk with the detectives, but I discouraged him--I told him it would get me into more trouble. But he doesn't know about the S&M thing, though."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I guess I did a lot of heavy editing. I didn't tell him about Martin and Kathy and me, for example. I never told him that I was into it. I just said that I felt compelled as a human being to help Kathy when she showed up at my door."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. So your dad doesn't really know what went on?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He knows enough, Doctor. It was a shock as it was; I didn't want him to have a heart attack or something. We agreed that the whole thing will stay just between me and him. We are not going to tell mother about any of it. She would really freak out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. So what exactly did you tell your dad?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told him how Kathy came to me without any place to stay, all alone, in need of help. I told him a little about Kathy's past, and how her parents died when she was very young, and what a horrible childhood she had. My dad was sympathetic. He told me, if it was him, he probably wouldn't have been able to turn Kathy away either."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He was angry at me for not coming to him sooner. But I told him that everything just went out of my control and things fell apart. I guess I should have told him something earlier. I told him that it was stupid of me not to tell, and he understood."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So your dad is going to cover for you with your mom now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He's good at that. We did it before when I totaled my first car--one of the reasons I don't really have a car now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Is your dad going to help you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He drove up to San Francisco, and we met with his friend. His friend is a lawyer. But since he's a friend of the family, I don't really feel like it was a true consultation."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I don't feel like I would have to disclose our conversation to the police, for example."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, are the police asking if you are talking to a lawyer? Moreover, your conversation is protected by attorney-client privilege. But that's only if this person is acting as your attorney when you talked to him. Did this lawyer tell you something different?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't feel like it was a true consultation."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why not?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Because there was never any exchange of cash for services..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That doesn't matter."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And I didn't tell him everything. He knows far less than the police does, even less than my dad."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My dad was there--I wasn't going to volunteer information to this guy about my sexual preferences in front of my dad."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did this man give you any advice?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He pretty much recommended what you did."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And what is that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He told me not to let them pressure me into anything. And that if at any point I start to feel like there's something wrong, I should immediately tell them to stop and tell them that I need to consult with my attorney."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Does your dad know about the Dore Alley event?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. I told him that the police wanted my help in their investigation and that they asked me to go undercover to an S&M event. I guess \"undercover\" is the wrong term, huh?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did your dad feel about that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "At first, he was freaked. But then he was proud of me for doing something so courageous."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told him how strongly I felt about the need to catch Kathy's assailant. What she did might have been wrong, but he still had no right to do what he did to her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And your dad was supportive of your efforts to help the police in their investigation?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "As I said, I didn't really tell him everything."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. How are you going to keep your dad from talking with the police?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told him that I was under a gag order and that I violated it to talk to him. I said that I would be in trouble if he interfered. Don't look at me like that, Doctor. What I told him was true--I promised not to talk about Kathy's investigation with anyone, and that included him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was sort of funny."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What was?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My dad. It's like he's a character from a made-for-TV movie or something."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He's very much into this secrecy and getting the bad guy stuff. And he's proud of me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Proud of you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He's very proud of me for taking risks and helping the police get the bad guy. Oh, I know that he's very worried about me. He now calls me several times a day, every day. But it's nice. I miss my parents."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad your dad can give you some emotional support."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. And he also promised to tell his professor friend--whose house I'm living in--about this whole mess."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's nice of him. Does he know about the dungeon and his friend's affinity for S&M?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I have a feeling you didn't really tell your dad much, did you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "How could I? He's my dad."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Won't he find out eventually?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "His friends are not going to tell him, I'm not going to tell him, the police are not going to tell him..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It would be better if he learns the truth from you, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He knows enough. And I now feel like I have someone to talk to..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You don't really."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's like I'm my dad's hero now. It's very sweet. I like it very much, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. We'll come back to your parents later. How did it go at the Dore Alley event?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, we got there early. There weren't a lot of people yet. There was this giant set of speakers at the entrance, playing some horrible music very loudly. I couldn't even hear myself think. That whole block was pretty much clear of people because of that stupid noise. So we went to the actual Dore Alley. It's a very little street--one block long. And there, they were playing nice jazz, and there were little booths set up to sell S&M paraphernalia."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you see anyone you knew?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I saw Grey."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really? How did that make you feel?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was unpleasant, mostly. He was with two people he was leading on a leash. It was sort of gross. But he looked good."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Did he notice you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. But I walked past him without even saying hello. My two tagalongs were pissed at me for not really making an effort to start up conversations. But as far as I was concerned, my job was to just have them be seen with me. And that's all."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "They were pretending to be your masters?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. They even dragged me to a booth with all these paddles and whips and stuff."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And they made me put out my arms so they could hit me with this stuff a few times. That was unpleasant. They were just trying to do what everyone else there was doing. But I thought they went too far."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you stop them?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I gave it right back to them. It was sort of fun to spank the bare ass of a detective. And they couldn't really do much about it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But it was generally very pleasant. I saw a lot of people I knew there. Everyone was nice. They said hello to each other and gave each other little cheek-kisses. It was very civilized. If not for the naked asses, exposed dicks, and bare breasts--and if not for the most outlandish outfits and conversations--it would have been as fun as a knitting convention."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I doubt that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No really, people were very nice to each other. Very nice. It was a bit surreal, even. There was this guy dressed only in ropes with his hands tied behind his back. He would come along and say something like, \"Darling! It's so nice to see you, dear.\" Frankly, I expected far worse."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How long did you stay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I left after an hour. The guys stayed. I don't really know what happened as the afternoon progressed. I was out of there. And then I was in New York."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Well, we're out of time. Please let me know next time you need to miss a session."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm very sorry about that, Doctor. I've been having problems dealing with reality lately. I missed a bunch of appointments last week. I keep forgetting somehow."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. We should talk about that next time."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay. Have a good evening, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You too, Anna. Take care of yourself."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 51st Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, August 7, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Anna. You look like you're feeling much better. There's a healthy glow about you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you, Doctor Balis. I have Martin and Kathy to thank for that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, they both took such good care of me, Doctor Balis. I was so sick, and they were my nurses and helpmates and cooks and entertainment all rolled into one glorious...make that two beautiful packages."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad that you have such good friends, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, me too. As you can tell, I completely made up with Kathy. She even stayed with us for a few days over the weekend to help Martin take care of me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All three of you stayed at your apartment?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh no. My place is way too small. But Martin is getting paid big bucks, so his place is really nice; he rented a two bedroom apartment which even has a view of the bay from the kitchen window."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Somehow I got the impression that Martin lived with you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No way. I'm not ready for that kind of commitment, Doctor. I want to be able to throw the guy out any time I please. I'm not saying I will, but I want to be able to without feeling guilty that he's going to have to live on the street or something, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand. So you stayed at Martin's."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. After I left your office last week, I got home feeling just dreadful. When Martin called that evening, I could hardly talk to him. So he came over and told me that he was taking me away to his place where he could take better care of me. When we arrived, Kathy was there already, wearing an apron, ready to serve me chicken soup. I was so happy to see her, I cried. We both cried--I hate fighting, I just hate it. I couldn't eat the soup--I was too sick. But boy, it was so nice of them. Martin set me up in his bed--he has this giant waterbed. I always thought that those things would be really uncomfortable. But the water inside is heated, so when I got in, it was very nice and cozy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "San Francisco's winter-cold summer nights are hard when you have a cold. The toasty waterbed was just right."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And where were Martin and Kathy sleeping?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor! I'm shocked you would be interested in such details."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sure you are."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They slept on the sofa-bed in Martin's office--the second bedroom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Both of them?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, neither of them wanted to sleep with me--they could have easily caught my cold."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, you have a dirty mind. Just because two people sleep in the same bed doesn't mean that they have to do anything other than sleep, does it?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you were comfortable with those arrangements?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I thought it was kind of fun."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, they both have a crush on me and..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know, it sort of made me feel powerful in a strange kind of way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Can you talk more about that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well--I know this is going to sound very bad--I was basically naked except for a t-shirt that Martin gave me the entire weekend. And I know that both Kathy and Martin were turned on by me--I saw the way they looked at my butt when my t-shirt would pull up a little."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You've seen my butt, Doctor, you know it looks pretty good. And there was also this thing with both Martin and Kathy enjoying the submissive part in the relationship."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, they both were falling head over heels trying to please me all weekend. They cooked for me, and they cleaned for me, and they read me books. Martin went and got four movies for us to watch together. I felt very pampered. And the nice thing was that I knew that both of them were into serving me--they were getting a kick out of it. So, at night, I imagined that they would both get into bed a bit turned on, but not for each other--for me. I know that this makes me not a very nice person, but it turned me on to know that they both wanted me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, I'm concerned that you're setting up a situation in which..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know--I'm the center of attention again. I'm sorry, Doctor, but I really like it. I'm enjoying this a lot."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, how far do you want to take this, Anna? Are you prepared to enter into a three-way sexual relationship with Martin and Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. But..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "From what you're telling me, it sounds like you're setting up the ground work which could quite naturally resolve itself into Kathy becoming sexually involved with both you and Martin. If that's not what you want, you'd better be very clear about it, because now Kathy and Martin have very good reasons to believe that you're interested in that kind of arrangement."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's silly--I'm not even gay. Why would I want to have a sexual relationship with Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Your relationship with Kathy is already slanted that way--how many people, with whom you didn't have a sexual relationship, have you watched masturbate while lying in the same bed?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, that again. It wasn't a big deal. And it certainly doesn't imply that we are interested in each other that way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You acknowledged yourself that Kathy is interested and sexually attracted to you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. But I'm not. And Martin is interested in me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. But do you think that Martin might be interested in having a three-way relationship? It's not that uncommon in the S&M community where some members tend not to practice exclusively monogamous sex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm. I don't think that Martin would be interested. He tried so hard and for so long to get me that I would be surprised if he would just go ahead and risk it all by getting involved with Kathy. And I think that Kathy cares for me much too much to do something like that, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But both Martin and Kathy have openly expressed interest in you, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy never came out and actually said..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Come on, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm. Well, I didn't mean to make it seem like I was interested in that sort of thing. I just want us to be good friends."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Then you need to make your intentions perfectly clear--no more sleeping in the same bed with both of them. And try to keep your underwear on, unless you mean to seduce someone."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I'm comfortable with my body, and so are Kathy and Martin. Should I now get all prudish and insist on wearing clothes in the hot tub, for example?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "There is being comfortable with one's body, and then there is flirting and setting up sexually explicit situations. Does Kathy get naked in front of Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy always sleeps naked. And she only wore an apron while preparing breakfast. But the rest of the time, she was fully clothed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. And Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy probably saw him naked when he was getting ready to take a shower and then while he was getting dressed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And you don't think that this situation is likely to lead to the three of you sleeping together?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "As I said, I don't think that Kathy and Martin would do it. And for the three-way combination that you're talking about, they'd need my permission, right?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And if the circumstances were such that you found yourself in bed with the two of them naked and making out, would you be able to say no and pull the plug?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll make sure that it doesn't go that far."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Has it ever been close?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The closest it's been is when we watched \"Henry and June\" in bed together."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Without underwear?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's pretty close."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But that was last weekend when I was very sick. Otherwise we would have watched it in the living room, and I would have been fully clothed--like everyone else. In fact, Martin moved his television into the bedroom just to accommodate me while I was sick. That couldn't happen again--the TV is back in his living room."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh, that really helps."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It does."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Look, Anna, we're out of time for today. I want you to think about what it is that you really want to do. And try not to lie to yourself--it doesn't work for very long."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll see you next week, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Anna."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 90th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, August 13, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. Please come in. Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What is it?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You don't look well. Are you ill?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. But I always tend to look worse just before my period."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I haven't particularly noticed that. You've been..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. God, everyone is asking me whether I'm eating and sleeping well. I'm fine. I'm just tired. And unfortunately, I'm more tired emotionally than physically."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you're not sleeping well."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not exactly. I'm having problems falling asleep. But once I finally do, I get a few good hours. I've even been late for work a few times this week--I just couldn't get up in the morning."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When do you actually go to bed?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not very late. I tend to be in bed by eleven-thirty or so."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When do you fall asleep?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Around four."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you been taking Melatonin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It doesn't seem to help much anymore."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Do you get anxious as you try to fall asleep?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I used to, but not any more. I just think, and think, and think."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What are you thinking about?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "About my life, mostly. Things have really gotten out of my control, haven't they?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You do have a few problems."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. But it won't be that much longer."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think they got the guy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Kathy's attacker?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was asked to do a line-up..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you never saw the guy, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I thought I saw two of the guys from the line-up before at one of the parties."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "S&M parties?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was sure about one, and I'm pretty sure about the other. But it's hard--I saw them under very different circumstances."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And I guess the police didn't really have enough open-butt pants to dress the entire line-up of suspects."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you ask?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told them that I thought I remembered one of the guys might have had a spider tattoo on his butt."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did they check?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They thanked me for the information, but they are very closed-mouthed about everything."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm surprised you were able to recognize two guys from the line-up."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Me too. I thought that they usually have only one real suspect and the rest are just undercover police officers."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Perhaps you saw the officers at the party."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's what I told my dad. He agreed that it was strange. But they might have been spying on this S&M group for quite some time. Who knows? My dad is very resourceful, though."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He's been pulling strings all over the place. I didn't even know he had such an impressive list of connections."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What was he able to find out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He said that they believe the person who attacked Kathy was the father of the boy who committed suicide. Remember him?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The guy who was very depressed..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Obviously he was depressed--he committed suicide, for god's sake. I think that's qualifies him as depressed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I meant..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. It's just sad. This guy loses his son and tries to go after the boy's dominatrix. Maybe if he paid more attention to his son in the first place, he would still be around today. But instead, he was looking for revenge after the fact. The poor mother will lose both her son and her husband. Why didn't he think of that? How is she supposed to deal with such loss?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Has Kathy identified this man?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I haven't seen Kathy in forever. How should I know? My dad said that they found his fingerprints in my house. That's real creepy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you never saw him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't think so. I only saw a few of Kathy's customers. We had a rule that she couldn't practice her business at the house."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not sure that rule meant much to Kathy."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, there's not much I can do about any of it now, is there? God, the professor has some homecoming in front of him. Did I tell you that they have confiscated--excuse me, \"taken as evidence\"--thousands of dollars worth of his S&M equipment?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I didn't realize they took that much."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The dungeon is basically stripped, and their large collection of floggers from around the world is gone. They used to travel and pick up cultural items they found attractive to add to their collection. They had space-age stuff--floggers made out of the latest technology alloys and plastics--and ritualistic whips and canes carved out of exotic woods and adorned with brass and silver ornaments. They were very pretty. There are still a few pieces left on the living room walls. The police didn't think they were used--they were covered with dust and cobwebs. But I'll bet the professor tested every single one of his precious artifacts."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When are they coming back?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "When my dad contacted them and told them about the investigation, they decided to prolong their trip for a few months. They don't want to come back and have to deal with the police, and the investigation, and the trial, and whatever. They'd just rather wait it out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. I guess that's a reasonable strategy under the circumstances."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I can't imagine them actively pursuing their claims for the S&M accouterments. They are too much in the closet for that. It makes my dad happy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "When he learned how much all of that stuff was worth--just one flogger can set a user back several hundred dollars--he thought it was an appropriate punishment for getting his daughter into so much trouble."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Your dad is blaming his friends for your current situation?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know it's unreasonable, but it's sweet. I like it. I like being close to my dad again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think you're doing too much lying to consider..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't care. I get enough shit all around, I want my dad to think that I'm a good and noble person."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Nothing that happened to you makes you into a bad person, Anna. You don't think of yourself as bad, do you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There are moments. All my friends are married or are in steady relationships. They are happy to share their lives with someone special. They feel special. But when I feel special, it's because I'm a freak."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why do you think of yourself as a freak?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The last year and a half doesn't particularly put me into a mainstream category, unless you consider the lunatics from Jerry Springer's show normal."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I want what my friends have--I want a normal, stable relationship based on love and not on some abnormal perversion. I want to be close to someone. There's so much going on in my life right now, and I can't share any of it. I talk to you about some things. I talk to my dad about others. I tell fairy tales to my office mates. But I'm not intimate enough with anyone to tell all the things I feel."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "We can talk about your feelings here..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. But it's not the same as talking to someone in my bed at night. You refuse to hold me tight and make everything better."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. But do you know how long it's been since someone made love to me? It's been almost seven months now, Doctor. Am I really so unpleasant? Am I really such an undeserving person?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, you..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know you accept me for what I am...well, as much as you really know me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think I know you pretty well..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not in the way I want you to, Doctor. But skip it--I know when I'm being rejected, you don't have to do it over and over again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not rejecting you, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I want someone to make love to me, Doctor. And I want to love, to make love, to..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Here are some tissues."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you. God, I guess I'm really more tired than I thought. I'm sorry, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's all right, Anna. You've been having a very rough time lately."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And you definitely need to get some rest. Do you want me to prescribe some sleeping aids for you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. Those things scare me. I think I'll just go to the movies or something. Do you know anything good playing?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not sure."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We can check it out together?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Have a nice weekend, Charles. I'll see you next week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Anna. Take care."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 52nd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, August 14, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Anna. How are you today?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm fine, Doctor Balis. And you'll be happy to know that I've kept my underwear on this entire week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I didn't realize that it was going to be that hard to do."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It is when you're going to an S&M function."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy, Martin, and I went to one of those things last Saturday."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, both Martin and Kathy are into that, Doctor Balis. And I don't particularly mind going, as long as I'm mostly a spectator rather than a participant."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. So how many points does Martin owe you now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How many?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "All together or just from that evening?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How about all together?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, about twenty-five or so."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Isn't that a lot of points?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I guess I was very nice to Martin last week. But he'll pay me back, no problem."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And does Kathy owe you anything?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I haven't had sex with Kathy, Doctor. So why..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm just checking--you did go to a sex social together."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "True. But what I did to her there was not really sex."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There was a seminar on how to use a paddle correctly--where to do it, how to avoid injury, how to increase pleasure, how to avoid wrist-injury..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Repetitive strain kind of thing?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. If you don't know how to hold the paddle correctly..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Right."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So we were there learning, and the teacher..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The paddle master?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Are you making fun of me?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Not at all, please go on."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So the teacher wanted some volunteers. Kathy wanted to do it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "To be paddled?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. She is into that. But then they wanted someone to come up and try using the paddle. And Martin volunteered me!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, the up-shot is that I ended up spanking Kathy's little bottom. I didn't do it very hard."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sure."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And I felt very self conscious doing it--everyone was watching me, and I was afraid of hurting Kathy by doing it wrong or something. Martin seemed to get a kick out of it all. He even volunteered to be my next bottom, but we were out of time and they told us that we could do it at our leisure later on in the evening."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't. I told you, I was just there as a spectator. Kathy and Martin wanted to get their la-la's out of their systems, so they went for it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Kathy and Martin got paddled? By each other or were there others ready to service them?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually, Kathy did do Martin for a bit. It was very funny to watch, somehow. Kathy is so little and Martin towered over her even in the crouching position that he was in."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But Kathy got her satisfaction elsewhere. She has a regular beating-buddy, I guess. I didn't want to watch that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why not?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, they do nipple clamping and they use whips and stuff. I saw others doing it and it almost made me sick. If I watched Kathy, I think I would have passed right out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Just from watching?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not squeamish or anything. It's just that I know her, and that makes it worse somehow."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. But it was all right to watch Martin's beating?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah--now, how many girlfriends get to enjoy that? Just kidding! Martin only did that with Kathy, and she was very gentle with him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. So Martin didn't try to engage in that sort of activity with other members of this S&M club?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I told you that Martin is still very insecure about our relationship and he won't go and try to fool around with other people on me. And even if...when he's more comfortable with me, even then I don't think he'd do it. He's a one-woman kind of masochist, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "A monogamous masochist."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Exactly. Martin is monogamous."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So why was he getting whipped by Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Paddled."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Paddled."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Because I don't particularly like to do it. I did a little last week, but I just really don't enjoy it. It's strange--getting whipped is a lot more exhilarating for me than whipping someone else."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Paddled."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Paddled, right. I really never realized just how sharp the boundaries between a bottom and a top are."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you really consider yourself a bottom?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. I like ordering Martin around. It's sort of fun. But I'm not into hurting him--inflicting pain is just not right for me. I get mega points for doing that, though!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So I sort of feel like I'm most comfortable thinking of myself as being both--a bottom sometimes and a top occasionally. Mostly, I guess, I'm just into the vanilla sex kind of thing. Boring, huh?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't think so. But since you're with Martin, it's..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know, I know. I'm trying very hard to work this out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you never actually answered why it was okay for Kathy to beat on Martin."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh. I guess because she's a friend. I trust her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You do realize that both Kathy and Martin get sexual satisfaction from this, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's not like they are having intercourse."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No. But none the less..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It feels okay somehow that they do it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you know where the dividing line is? At what point is it not okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think it's when they actually touch each other."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mean flesh to flesh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. If Kathy actually started to spank him with her bare hands and touch him places...I think that would be too much. It feels like it would be too much."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've been thinking about what you said--I mean about a three-way relationship with Kathy, Martin, and me. The more I think about it, the more I don't know what to think."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "On one hand, it's not as unappealing as all that. I like Kathy and Martin a lot. I think it would be fun, and we all could get sexual fulfillment and satisfaction out of such a relationship. But then I think about long term. How is it suppose to work if we--Martin and I--wanted a more serious commitment? What if we wanted to get married and have a family? What would happen to Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Those are interesting questions."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Maybe if there was some sort of prenuptual agreement between us--something that stated our intentions from the start so that no one would feel like their expectations weren't met."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't think it's that simple, Anna. You're not dealing with money--that's what prenuptual agreements are usually about. This is all about your feelings. How are you going to feel in the future about Martin and Kathy? And how is Kathy going to feel about you and Martin? Do you believe that if Kathy was truly in love with either of you, she would willingly give it up just because she signed some agreement in the past?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Would you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I guess not. It's all so complicated, Doctor. I just want us all to be happy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's why I really want you to think this thing through."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm thinking. I'm thinking, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Then I'll see you next week, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you, Doctor. I'll see you then. Oh, and I'll keep trying to keep my underwear on!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Anna."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 91st Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, August 20, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How are you doing, Anna?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "A bit better physically."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's good. Are you getting enough sleep?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "More or less. I guess it's better. Don't I look better?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Don't take offense, Anna. I'm concerned about you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know, thanks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How are you doing otherwise?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Emotionally?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes. How are you feeling?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, Martin came by to see me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really? What did he want?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, he apparently broke up with his girlfriend."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And he thought he should tell you about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You don't like him, do you, Doctor Balis?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's not..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's all right, you don't have to like him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did he want of you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He never actually came out and said it, but it sounded like he really missed me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I bet."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was flattering, actually. He came by my office and invited me for a cup of coffee. I said okay--there didn't seem to be a need to treat him with hostility. And frankly, I thought he was going to talk about Kathy. I haven't heard anything more about the investigation than what I told you last week, and I thought it would be fun to compare notes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So we went across the street to Starbucks. He said that he didn't have any information about the case. He thought that what my dad found out was interesting, but that's not why he wanted to see and speak with me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He said that he was very sorry for what happened between us. He said that it's not what he had hoped for. He said that I was right about Kathy and he should have listened to me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's all well and good, but it's a bit too late, isn't it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, but it was good to hear. He felt like he had really blown it. He said that I was the best thing that had happened to him and he had just botch the whole thing up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why was he telling you all this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I asked that, too. He said that he thought I should know how he really feels. He told me that he loved me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Now or then?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't really know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He wasn't trying to push himself back on me. It wasn't about that. It all felt more like an apology. And I told him that, in retrospect, I did a lot of thing that were harmful to our relationship, too. I should have been more assertive about my needs."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, and?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He asked if we could be friends."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think you can be?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told him that I didn't know if we could be friends. I think I basically forgave him--it was mostly Kathy's involvement and manipulation that put an end to our relationship. But I now know that it wouldn't have worked out in the long run anyway."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. And did you tell him that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It wasn't a good time. Plus, while I might have sort of forgiven him, I haven't forgotten all the pain that I had to go through...that I'm still feeling sometimes. Anyway..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did you feel after talking with Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was good. It put a few things into perspective. It made me see that I wasn't the only one hurting--he suffered, too. And that was good to know. I felt like he put high value on the time we had together. Bill never did that--he never came to me after we broke up and tried to...well, he never tried to make me feel better about the time we spent together."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So did you make any plans to get together with Martin in the near future?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. But he has been coming to my office every day for the last few days."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And what does he want?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Nothing, really. He told me what they are working on up there in the Future Technologies department."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Apparently, SII is developing these chips that can be implanted into a human body, and that can improve some of the interface issues between computers and their human masters."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I can tell that you're really interested in this topic, so I'm going to tell you all about it. They've done this experiment where they took one of the people from the department and implanted this small chip into his upper arm. Since the whole SII building is wired, the guy was able to open doors, and start up his computer, load his favorite applications, and control the lights in the building, all without having to manipulate anything manually. It was like, \"Hello, Dave. How are you today, Dave? You've got e-mail, Dave.\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds very interesting."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's great. They only did this for ten days, because after that, the implant becomes accepted by the body and it becomes much harder to take it out. Since that was only a prototype, they didn't want to experiment any further. But in a few months, they'll have a brand new model, and they'll implant that one for a whole year. Martin said that they think they might have a product ready for market by the year 2000. That would be really cool, don't you think?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Perhaps. But I think it's just as easy to open doors using door handles..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, you have to think much bigger than that, Doctor. Martin said that they have a slew of applications on their drawing boards. And I could become part of their development team if I want."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I told you that once the product is developed, I feel like the best part of the job is over. All I do now is take care of customization of SIIMole for a bunch of boring insurance companies and banks. I like being in the development phase. I function better. I'm happier. And I think I can contribute more."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you're really interested in this job?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think so."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And Martin would help you get it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He said that he would be happy to."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. And you would have to be working closely with him, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, not necessarily. They are gearing up for a large group of developers. I would be part of a team of something like thirty programmers. Martin and I would certainly see each other more, but..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you feel like Martin might be manipulating you into getting back together with him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't think so. I think he knows that ultimately we were not a good match. We had fun, but it wouldn't have gone anywhere even if Kathy was not part of the equation."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think you should be very clear on this point with Martin. If you plan on working closely together, you'll need to carefully explain your feelings and make sure that Martin harbors no hopes of rekindling a romantic relationship with you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I can do that, I guess. But I don't think there's much need. I think I was clear about that already."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But Martin will be doing you a favor by helping you transfer into his department, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, but I don't think...I guess I can talk with him again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So overall, this week has been better than the one before."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you feel that way because of your conversations with Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe, but I'm not sure I want to give him that much credit. I think it has more to do with being left alone and not having the police torment me day after day. Also, I like the idea of not having to move soon. I just want some time to myself now, and the professor and his wife will probably give me all the space I need in the foreseeable future. How long do you think this investigation and then the trial will go on?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I have no idea."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I figure I'm safe until next Summer or so. So I can relax. I'm planning on going on vacation with my parents. That should be very nice."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When are you planning on going?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, probably not until January--my dad teaches a class this semester. But I'm still looking forward to that. And I'm really excited about this new job prospect. It's everything I want, and I'll be still working for the same company. I might even get a raise, too, if this happens. So life is getting better, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad. All right, Anna, our time is up. I'll see you in a week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "All right. Oh, I'll be gone the week after next--the Seybold conference is in town and I'm going to that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's not a problem. When is it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The part I'm going to is the first week of September."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "See you next week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Anna."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 53rd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, August 21, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Anna. How are you? How was your week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Good, good. How was yours?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "As usual."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Never giving anything away, eh?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what's up?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, working a lot. I went on that damn roller-blading extravaganza that SII instigates every Friday afternoon. You should go some time just to get a taste of what it's like."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Roller-blading is just not my thing."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's not mine either, but it's a good way to show off your butt."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm just trying to get your goat, Doctor Balis. But I was wearing those bike shorts--the closest thing to having a naked ass and not getting arrested. Martin really liked it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So how is it going with you and Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, same as before--no real changes. Well..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, remember the big rain storm a few days ago?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes. I thought it was unusual for August."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It virtually never happens. But it wiped out Kathy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Wiped out? I don't understand."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, she lives on the top floor of this quiet little Victorian. The place used to be gorgeous--lots of carvings and contrasting colors--a real gem."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds nice."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was. But it's owned by this little old lady who lived there for god knows how long--she moved in after she got married, raised her family there, and never considered moving. I think she is very sentimental about the place. Her husband died there over ten years ago, but she still keeps his office and his clothes in the closet just as he left them. It's really sad--I think they were very much in love. But in any case, Mrs. Borderstein is an awful landlord."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is she being unpleasant to Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, no. Not at all. Kathy and her are pals. They have tea together and Kathy sort off watches over her--keeps her out of trouble, so to speak."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's very nice of Kathy."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. I have a feeling that you don't think much of her, but she is really a very nice person."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what's the problem with Kathy's place?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "When Mr. Borderstein was still alive, he got the brilliant idea of taking the two extra bedrooms they had upstairs and turning them into a small apartment. Their children had moved out and they didn't need the extra room, just the extra cash."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And Kathy was renting that little apartment?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "As I said, it's real nice--vaulted ceilings sixteen feet high, a bath with iron lion's feet. It's very sunny. But Mrs. Borderstein hasn't done any work on the house since her husband died. Last winter, the roof started to leak--right onto Kathy's bed. Mrs. Borderstein said that she couldn't get it fixed during the rainy season and that Kathy would have to wait until the summer time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's ridiculous. She didn't even fix the leak?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy lived with rotating buckets for two month. Mrs. Borderstein would even come into her place during the day to check if they needed to be emptied out. But the summer came and she never bothered to do anything about the roof--it wasn't a problem anymore so she just forgot about it. Kathy tried to get her to do something, but it was always, \"I'm just too tired today to call the contractor.\" Or, \"I'm running just a bit short of cash this week.\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Finally, after this last storm, Kathy told her that she would have to fix the place or she'd move out. Mrs. Borderstein cried and told Kathy that she always thought of her as her own daughter and so on. But she never did call to get the roof fixed. And Kathy's bed is totally ruined--she had to work all day that day and by the time she got home, the mattress was completely soaked and so were the blankets, the bedspread, the sheets, the works. We helped drag Kathy's mattress two stories down to try to dry it in the sun in the backyard. But I think it is ruined--it smells bad and...well, Kathy has moved in with Martin."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He has an extra bedroom which he used for his office. But he is doing most of his work at SII and doesn't really need that extra space, at least for now. So he had the space, and Kathy needed a place in a hurry. So it just made sense."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. And how do you feel about this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You mean about Martin sharing a place with Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't think it's anything I should really be upset about. Kathy is a friend and she just needed some help. Martin was nice to her. And this is not a long term solution anyway. I think when Kathy moved out like that, Mrs. Borderstein got really scared. I bet she'll get the contractors on that roof in no time. And in the meantime, it might be kind of fun."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't think it's a big deal. Don't worry so, Doctor. I trust Martin and Kathy alone together."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you been thinking more about..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The three-way relationship between Kathy, Martin, and I?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've thought about it a lot. Martin and I went out together the other night. We saw \"Three Tall Women\"--a play by Edward Albee."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How was that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Interesting. Depressing. It was about a woman confronting herself at three different ages--twenty-six, fifty-two, and ninety-two. The twenty-six year old was horrified to find out just how much she changed over the years. She couldn't believe that these older women were her in the future. And even the fifty-two year old woman was far from thrilled at seeing what she became over the next forty years."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "An interesting premise."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, interesting. But it made me think about me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "In what way?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I want to like who I'll become in the future. I want to be able to admire me and feel like I've accomplished something with my life. I want to know that I didn't make too many mistakes along the way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you worried?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe worried is too strong a term, Doctor. But I was thinking about it. What kind of person will I be after a three-way relationship with Martin and Kathy? Is that something I would be proud of? Would I tell my children about it? When I look at my mother, I know that she is a good woman. And while I never wanted to be like her--I always strove to be more like my father than my mother--I know that she's lived a good life. I'm proud of her--I'm never ashamed of introducing her to my friends."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you believe that a three-way relationship could make your children feel ashamed of you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I'd have problems if my parents told me that earlier they'd had a three-way relationship or something. Not as many problems now, but when I was a teenager, I would have been horrified to find something like that out about my parents."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you're leaning against this relationship?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I still don't know. That's in the future. Right now, we seem to all be very happy. I don't know if I want to start pushing, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you believe that all ready you're in this kind of relationship with Kathy and Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. But I do believe that it would be very easy to arrange. I think Martin and Kathy are waiting for me to decide one way or the other."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have they been asking about it or pushing you into this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not exactly. I still have all the power in this relationship. And I know that Martin will only do what I want him to do. But there's definitely tension."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think you need to make a decision, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. It's just that I didn't really know that before. But now that Kathy lives with Martin...at least I have my own place."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you spend much time there?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. But at least I have it. I feel like I could get away from it all if I needed to--it makes it less scary."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What are you scared of, Anna?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Just ending up in place that I don't really want to be...nothing, really. I'm just talking too much, Doctor. I think we better call it a day, okay? I've been working long hours and I think it's beginning to take its toll on my ability to reason clearly. Don't take what I said today too seriously, Doctor. I'm just tired, I think."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I disagree with you, Anna. I think you're thinking just fine. You've raised a lot of interesting points today. You should not dismiss them as being irrelevant just because you're tired."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've got to go and get some sleep, Doctor. I'll see you next week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. Take care of yourself, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Good night, Doctor."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 54th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, August 28, 1997 at 4:00 pm."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello, Doctor. If you don't mind, I would like to get right to it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sure. Is there anything wrong?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, not really. We are just the happy \"Three's Company\" kind of household."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, Kathy is still living in Martin's spare bedroom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm actually in the master bedroom, thank you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. But you didn't give up your apartment, did you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. My apartment is my safe haven. There'll have to be a lot of convincing before it goes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. So tell me about your living arrangements. Are they working out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Too well. Having Kathy there has been a blessing in some sense. She's like this tube of Vaseline in my relationship with Martin; she makes everything smoother."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess we haven't really talked about this before. We talk about my problems with Martin and sex, but there are other components to a relationship."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Stop saying that. You know what I'm talking about--cooking, laundry, shopping, cleaning--the stuff that happy marriages are made of."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you saying that Martin is not good at those sort of things?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I know he has talent--he demonstrates it on a regular basis. But deep down, he's always been a procrastinator and a lazy slob when it comes to doing the house work. The man is brilliant at organizing his computer stuff--his virtual desktop is immaculate. But when it comes to putting a lid on a tube of toothpaste, he has incurable mental memory block."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And it's so much more than that, Doctor. He hates shopping. If it wasn't for me, we would have nothing but twinkies and coke in our refrigerator."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Twinkies?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They taste better cold, didn't you know that?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not really a twinkie aficionado."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And laundry! Martin goes out of his way to avoid it. Do you know just how many times he's ended up wearing my underwear to work? Fortunately he's into that sort of thing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And sheets."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What about them?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't think Martin was ever told what the top sheet was for. I'm seriously considering switching to comforter covers as our bedding solution. Maybe with my next paycheck, I'll just go out and blow two hundred bucks on new bed stuff."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you talked to Martin about these issues?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Of course."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He says, \"Make me!\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So a couple of times a week, I order him to put on the apron and do the dishes and clean the bathroom. You can't imagine how many times I've had to spank him for leaving his socks and underwear on the bathroom floor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I can't always do these stupid master/slave games with him. Why does buying milk have to be a sexual act? And it doesn't work like that all the time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Martin's slave-thing?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If doing the dishes is always about sex...I guess I'm just totally premenstrual right now. I'm usually a lot better about these things. I don't let it get to me as much."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. How is Kathy living with you guys been helpful?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy is a dream roommate. She is very neat and extraordinary considerate to the needs of others. Since she moved in, most of my spats with Martin over things like dishes and toothpaste tops have virtually disappeared--she just quietly does things. She never complains that it's not her turn or that she's doing more than her share--she just sees things that need to be done and does them. Kathy has been the best thing that's happened to our relationship since Martin and I have gotten back together."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's strange--it's almost like both Martin and I need a wife, and Kathy's perfect for that role. So here we are--back to the three-way relationship."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "A three-way relationship is not just about doing the dishes and putting a cap on the toothpaste tube."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't you think I know that? It's just that ever since Kathy moved in, our lives have taken a turn toward the idyllic. We have fun together and we take care of each other. But it still stops short of taking that last plunge."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The last plunge, as you call it, might not be as dramatic an event as you think it will be. Your relationship with Martin and Kathy could almost imperceptibly slip into the next level, and one day you'll wake up and realize that you're already there."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know what you mean. It's so easy just not to wear clothes to breakfast. I don't even notice anymore when Kathy's naked--it seems normal somehow. I wonder if Martin still notices?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you think?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He probably looks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's all?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well...one evening, I got really upset with Martin for just walking away after we all had dinner and assuming that the kitchen will just magically get back to normal. Kathy just got up and started to clean, but I was angry that Martin didn't even think of helping. So I told Martin that it's going to be that slave night that he always dreamed about."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We made him strip naked, put on an apron, and clean. Every time he screwed up, I told Kathy to give him a few paddle's worth."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was entertaining--Martin got his kicks, so to speak, Kathy enjoyed herself, and I just got to stay back and direct the show."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yeah, that's what I mean by the slippery slope."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It never turned into a full blown sexual activity, though. But I know we were on the borderline."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you and Martin have sex that night?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Martin wanted to, but somehow I didn't feel right about it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why not?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Somehow if we did, then the S&M kitchen scene we had earlier would have taken on more of a sexual overtone than I felt would have been appropriate."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not sure I understand."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If Martin and I had sex that night, then all the things we did before that would have been foreplay. And that would have been going too far with respect to Kathy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did Kathy feel about what happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She wasn't in bed with us that night. And I made a point of telling her that Martin and I didn't do anything."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Although she told me that she did--I think Kathy can masturbate anyplace and anytime. I've seen her do it in a coffee shop. I think I make too much noise to try something like that. I lose control when I get close to an orgasm, but Kathy..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So do you feel like you are more inclined now toward having a three-way relationship than before?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I feel like a pendulum on a clock--oscillating back and forth. But it's been really nice having Kathy around."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, what I'm worried about is you never making this decision and having this relationship sort of happen to you. You have to figure out what you want to do. You can't just let things happen. If Kathy and Martin is what you want, then make that decision. But if it's not what you want for yourself, then let them know. You'll be saving a lot of pain and grief not only for yourself but for them as well."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're right, Doctor. Maybe I'll go visit my parents this weekend--they've invited me for a Labor Day dinner. I always can think better in my old room."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. Our time is up, Anna. I'll see you next week. Don't procrastinate thinking about these issues, and if you need to reach me..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Just call your service."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's right. Goodbye, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye, Doctor Balis."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 55th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, September 4, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Anna. You're not looking well. Are you all right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello, Doctor Balis. I think I'm coming down with something."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I can hear it--your voice is going."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, my throat hurts and I have a bad headache."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry. Do you want to go home?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If you don't mind, I'd like to talk for a while. Unless you're worried about catching it from me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think it'll be all right. But let me know if you want to stop and go home."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Have I ever been shy about that? Don't worry, if I need to vomit or pass out, you'll be the first to know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh good. So what do you want to talk about?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Princess Diana."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mean her death?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Has the death of Diana affected you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I thought she was young, beautiful, trying to do good in this world. It seems very senseless. And she was beginning to find some happiness in her personal life. I've heard that Dodi had just given her a two hundred thousand dollar engagement ring that night. What a waste!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I didn't know it was an engagement ring."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Who cares? And who really knows, anyway?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Did you cry?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I'm not fanatical like some people. But I think it is very sad. We did do a death party for her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "A death party?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Party is a bad choice of words, I guess. Kathy is a Diana fan. She has all the books about her, and she's collected all the news media and magazines with stories and pictures about Diana. She's got boxes and boxes of that stuff. I think this week alone, she must have blown about five hundred bucks trying to buy everything that covered the Princess' death."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think that's excessive?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've never understood people who are that fanatical about their hobbies."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you think this is Kathy's hobby?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What do you think? But I could see that Kathy was genuinely distressed over the death. She's been crying all week and even stopped eating."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's not starving herself, don't worry, Doctor. Her appetite is just low. She'll be okay in a few days. And I think the party really helped."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tell me more about this party."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was actually Martin's idea. We heard about the car accident first and Kathy was glued to the television coverage. She got hysterical as she finally learned that Princess Di did not survive. Then I had to go out and gather newspapers and magazines that managed to get the story in print for her. Kathy stayed up a few nights in a row watching all she could on TV and surfing the web for the latest news--anything she could get her hands on. I was amazed. It seemed so irrational, so over the top to me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy's so level-headed; I didn't expect this kind of reaction from her. But there she was--no shower for four days, hardly eating, wearing the same black t-shirt, face swollen from crying. Martin thought that if we could get some kind of closure on this tragedy for Kathy...well, that's how the idea for the death party came about. Last night, we had about fifty people crowded into Martin's two bedrooms, all dressed in black, holding candles, and singing Elton John's new version of \"Candle in the Wind.\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "John, a guy I work with, managed to get the new words to the song somehow. Instead of \"Norma Jean\" it had \"English Rose\" describing the dead princess. The whole thing was actually very beautiful--almost church-like in its feel. People were holding hands and crying."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think it was a good idea--there was a lot of emotional release. I believe people really felt better. We had about thirty people from SII there. And I bet you thought that programmers were cold, unemotional types. I even heard that our CEO, Mr. Major, went to England to attend the funeral on Saturday. Amazing, isn't it?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like it was a good idea. Usually funerals have that kind of emotional release and achieve a certain degree of closure for the mourners."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, if Kathy could afford to go to the funeral, I'm sure she'd have gone. But I think the party was the next best thing. And I'm sure that she'll be glued to the television watching the real funeral all day Saturday. Even I'm interested in watching it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you had an emotional week. I thought you were going to go up to see your parents for Labor Day."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My mom got sick."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh, I'm sorry."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's nothing serious--just a bad summer cold. It seems to be going around. I probably got it from somebody at the party last night. I think when people are so emotionally stressed, their resistance is low and they get sick easier. Well, it's a theory."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think that's true. Did you get a chance to think about your situation with Kathy and Martin some more?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, not really. The princess happened and...somehow that just moved to second place. It's not that I stopped thinking about it all together, it's just that I was worried about Kathy. And, frankly, I was pretty upset about the death myself. Her children are just so young. If I'd lost my mother at that age, I think I would have been pretty fucked-up for the rest of my life. I'm not even good at imagining it right now. Whenever I open myself up to imagine what that pain must feel like, I have to shut it down again quickly. It's just too much. Deep down inside, I hope my parents will live forever."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's common to feel..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, you told me to tell you if I needed to get going. Well, I think it's time for me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. Do you want me to call a cab for you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, please. And I'll go downstairs and hang out in the pharmacy--maybe I'll find some good drugs to make me feel better."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, I hope you feel better soon, Anna. Have a good week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you, Doctor Balis. See you next week. Oh no, actually I won't. I'm supposed to go to an offsite meeting for SII next week. Can I just skip a week and come back on the Thursday that follows?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Of course. Try to get an opportunity to get some perspective on your home situation, all right Anna? I'd like your relationship with Martin and Kathy to be a matter of choice and not just something you slip into because you didn't have time to think about it, okay Anna?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, it's not really like that. I do think about it--a lot. I'll see you in two weeks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right, Anna. Feel better."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 92nd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, September 10, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nWhere have you been?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. Please come in."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Where have you been, Doctor? I've been trying to reach you, and they just pushed me off onto another therapist. Are you trying to get rid of me specifically or am I getting the general brush-off treatment? How could you have left me like that?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, please sit down. I was away on a family emergency..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "For two weeks?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, for two weeks."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What happened?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "My dad had another stroke..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He had one about a year ago, right?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I remember. Is he all right?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I'm so sorry. I didn't mean to yell at you, Charles. Is there something I can do?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, it's..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Is he...is he..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, he is not dead. But it was a very bad stroke, and I came out to New York to be with him. Now, what happened to you? Why are you so agitated?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm so sorry. I hope he...you father will be okay. I feel so bad. I..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, please sit down. I'm grateful for your concern, but I would like to start our session. What happened? What got you so upset?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy's gone. No one knows where she is. She's just gone. One morning she was there, and then she was gone."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did you find out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Her Aunt Helen called that afternoon. She was hoping that Kathy would be with me. But I've had no contact with Kathy for over a month now. I didn't even want to talk to her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You didn't want to talk to Helen?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I didn't mind talking with Helen. She didn't drag me through the dirt like everyone else did. I actually feel for her. And she was so freaked. She really loves Kathy, I guess. Or maybe she just feels responsible for her. Or guilty...I don't know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Please sit down. What did Helen tell you about Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy had been staying with Helen. When she went to Kathy's room around lunch time, she found the room empty. She was there in the morning; it was all normal in the morning. But later, she was gone. All the clothes were gone, too, and her toothbrush was missing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like Kathy left on her own."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, except that the window to her room was broken into from the outside."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's weird."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So I told Helen that I had no idea where Kathy was. And then the police started calling me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The police?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They said that they thought it was a case of abduction, and they wanted to go through all my telephone logs and messages again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you haven't heard from Kathy, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I didn't."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Was Kathy's room in disarray when Helen got there?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, it was immaculate. But Kathy was a neat freak. But that's not inconsistent with her running away, is it?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. So are you involved in this investigation now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And Martin, too. They think it must be someone we all know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do they have Kathy's assailant in custody?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You mean the father of that suicide victim?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yeah."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know what happen to that. My dad told me about him, he could have been wrong. I haven't heard any more on that than what I've told you already."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Do the police think that the kidnapper and the assailant is the same person?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, please sit down. You're making me dizzy."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sorry."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you in any danger?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Martin is staying with me just in case."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He was worried, too, and he thought it would be best if I wasn't alone in the house at night. Kathy never gave me back the keys."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Change the locks."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I did last Friday. But we made a spare garage door clicker for her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "They can be reprogrammed, too."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, I'll do that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do your parents know Martin is staying with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "When I explained the situation--that it might be someone Martin and I know--my dad thought it was probably safer with Martin around. But he wanted the police to watch the house."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are they doing that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They flat out refused, those bastards. They never got the guy, and now they don't even care if I'm next."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, don't jump to conclusions, Anna. They might know something you don't."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How about staying with your parents and telecommuting to work? Is that a possibility?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, first of all, I don't want my parents to be involved. I don't want to worry about them, too. And second, I've changed my job; now I'm part of the Futurists' department. I don't want to be away just when I need to learn so many things. I'm playing catch up right now. I can't telecommute."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "By the way, I'm very happy about my new job, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I can see that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "How?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's the first time you stopped twitching since you got here."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Twitching? I guess. I just can't stay still. If I don't have something I can focus all my attention onto, I just drift into hysteria."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Martin tried to give me some pot to calm my nerves, and that totally freaked me out. I got completely paranoid and jumped at every crack and squeak. He said that he almost considered taking me to the hospital when I stared to rip at my fingers. See?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's really bad."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's much better now. I was wearing sixteen band aids at one point."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sixteen?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I ripped at my toes, too. It was ugly. I'm staying away from pot for the time being."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you been smoking regularly?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, remember how I had problems sleeping?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You were using marijuana as a sleeping aid?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Why didn't you tell me?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I did tell you that I couldn't sleep. And pot does wonders for the appetite, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's not like it's the first time, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How are you sleeping now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's bad. I know that I'm having some very serious nightmares, but I don't remember a thing when I come to. It's very weird, I usually remember my dreams. I make a special effort."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. And how about Melatonin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "How about it? It doesn't work at all."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Do you drink coffee at night?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sometimes, but I have to in order to make it through the day. I have to keep up my attention level, there's so much to learn."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How many cups a day do you think you drink?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I average about six."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you drink Coke?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. We have a free supply of Cokes in our department."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. And tea?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "At tea time only. It's one of the traditions in my department--we do tea at four in the afternoon with pastries and lots of Devonshire cream."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You have to cut down on your caffeine intake, Anna. That might be part of your sleeping disorder problem. Get them to get you a caffeine free soda and tea, and then you can still feel part of the team without the negative side effects."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, I'm serious. You have to get your life in order. Sleep deprivation is dangerous. It affects your judgment as well as your mood and your ability to cope. And you definitely need your wits about you. I don't know if you're really in danger, but taking precautions until they find Kathy and figure out the rest of it is critical. And I'm pretty sure that having Martin living with you is not a good idea. Can't you stay with a girlfriend?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you sleeping with him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, you are worrying me."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Please sit down. And stop picking at your hands."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've got to go. You're too negative, and you are freaking me out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't mean to freak you out, Anna. I just want to get a handle on your life."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've got to go. Martin will be freaked if I'm even five minutes late. He's really worried about me, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. But I need you to call me if you start to feel things spiraling out of control..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've tried to call you but...I'm sorry. I'm really sorry about your dad. I hope he'll be okay. I'm sorry. I'll see you next week. And I'll be good, I promise."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye, Charles."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Take care, Anna."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 56th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, September 11, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello, Doctor Balis. Thank you again for rescheduling my appointment. I guess I've been really...I got all my dates mixed up. I thought this week was the next one. I feel like I don't know whether I'm coming or going. I keep losing all track of time. I'm just stressed!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It wasn't a problem. So I won't see you next week, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. I guess. I'm pretty sure it's next week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, just let me know. Now, why are you so stressed?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why don't you tell me anyway?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's Kathy. It's been real bad lately."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Bad in what way?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's as if Diana's death had completely unraveled her emotionally. I could see that she was very upset, and I was trying to be caring and helpful. I never expressed by amazement at how strong her reaction was to the death of a complete stranger. I was trying to be supportive."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's angry with me. I tried to be nice and understanding, and she lashed out at me. I'm just not as upset by her death as Kathy is. I told her that it wasn't my fault that Di died. But she was just explosive."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What made her so upset with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She was talking about how she needed someone to be there for her, to care for her, to love her. I told her that I thought Martin and I were trying to be her friends and trying to be emotionally there for her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But she accused me of doing just the opposite--I am the one who keeps her from getting close to people. She said that I was responsible for her being alone. Apparently, all this time, I wasn't a friend but someone who dangled the hope of a true friendship and closeness in front of her, but just out of reach. I teased her with a possibility of happiness. I lured her in and left her trapped--not really alone and yet utterly lonely."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So Kathy thought..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's right. By inviting her to live with us, I made her a proposition. She accepted it and has given herself to us both. But now I'm supposedly pushing her away."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "When she first started to talk to me like that, I just thought that she was behaving irrationally--you know, she was exhausted and badly nourished, and just emotionally wrung out from Princess Di's death. But it's been days and things are still bad. She's walking around sulking. She's still crying all the time. She's giving me these accusatory looks like all her unhappiness is due to me. I even spent three nights this week staying in my own apartment because it was just getting to be too much."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you try to talk to her?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I tried. I told her that I didn't understand what she wanted from me. I said that I thought of her as a dear friend and that I didn't want to lose her friendship over some misunderstanding."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And I also said that I never made any promises to her. I never offered her or proposed to her a relationship other than friendship."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you have flirted with the idea."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. But it's one thing to think and fantasize about having sex with her and Martin. It's totally different to actually...and even if the three of us did it together, it still does not mean that we would then become a couple...a threesome...you know what I mean."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I do. But it sounds like Kathy is a lot more..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's just being too much. I feel like she's pushing me. And I feel so guilty watching her sob and be such an emotional wreck."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And what about Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He's been away. Last weekend and Monday--he flew to Boston for his mom's birthday. But he's also trying to stay out of it. It's like I'm the bad one. This is all my decision, and he would go either way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, it's your decision, right? Martin already expressed his interest in having a relationship with Kathy. Now it's up to you to decide how you want to proceed."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's not how it really works, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, let's say I was the one who wanted Kathy to be part of my relationship with Martin, and Martin was the one who was ambivalent about it. If I really wanted Kathy as much as that, I would work harder to get her. I would pursue Martin to get him to agree to that kind of relationship. I would...I would..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I would be devastated to see Kathy so upset. I would care more. I would love her. Otherwise...if I don't really care one way or the other, why would I bother at all? If I didn't care enough to want Kathy and to pursue her, I would just drop the whole thing. That would be the healthiest thing to do for all involved--no need to force Martin to make a decision, and no need to keep Kathy dangling in hopes of a possible relationship."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you think that this is Martin's fault for not wanting to have a relationship with Kathy badly enough?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, not exactly. It's just that I don't believe in frivolous relationships--good if happens and fine if not. I think that if I care so little about the outcome, then why bother? In order to be in a relationship, I need to have very strong feelings about a person. Perhaps that's why I'm so hesitant about Kathy--I just don't know if my attraction for her rises to the level necessary for a true relationship. I don't want to make a mistake with Kathy, because I don't want her to end up with nothing and badly hurt."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But it sounds like Kathy's already feeling hurt through your inaction and indecision."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know and I feel horrible about it. But is it better to get into a relationship knowing that you are ambivalent about it? That you're not sure how you really feel about the person? I think of all those times in the past when I got hurt in a relationship, it was because the man I was with just wasn't sure how much he really cared about me. Those men sensed my interest and went for it before they even thought about how they felt. I think that maybe for men it's more about having sex, at least in the beginning--I'm sort of interested and she's willing, so why not? I think that maybe Martin is like that now with Kathy. Kathy's willing and I might be, so why not? But I need real feelings. Feelings that go way beyond just friendship and feeling a little sexual attraction for Kathy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you don't want to have a relationship with Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't say that. I just need to be certain that it's the right thing to do for me and for her, especially since Martin is willing to go either way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think Martin's priority is to have a relationship with you. Kathy is second--if it works, it works."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But that's what I mean. It's not fair to Kathy if Martin feels this way. In any case, Kathy went out last night."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "On a date?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "With some creep from the S&M club. I know she didn't really want to go. I think she was just trying to make me feel bad."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't want her to date just to spite me or Martin. I want her to be happy. I want her to go on a date if that's what she truly wants to do."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I think her motive was to make Martin and me jealous."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is it working?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "A little. I have to say that the idea of Kathy having sex with someone else is really unappealing to me. But..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If you're not willing then..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. I told her last night that I needed more time to figure it out for myself. If she pushes, I'll just freak and that will be the end of that. I know it's frustrating for her to wait, but I just don't have an answer yet. And I told her that I thought it was a mistake to try to manipulate me by going out with some strange man and making me worry sick waiting up for her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You were worried?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I met the guy before during one of those S&M socials. The guy is a true sadist. He's into needles and piercing and...ah! My skin crawls just thinking about him. I haven't seen Kathy naked since her date--I'm worried that he might have...I can't think about that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy knew how I felt about this guy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you think she chose him on purpose?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think so, because she called him, and with Diana's death, she wasn't in a mood to go out with anybody. I really don't want her to hurt herself or put herself in danger just to scare me into this relationship."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you tell her that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I hope so."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She was crying and feeling bad and guilty for what she'd done. I suddenly realized that I was put in the role of a man in our conversation."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "A man?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's like our conversation would have been better cast if I was a guy. Does that make sense?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You were in the dominant position."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, I guess so. It's getting late, Doctor Balis. I better be getting home. I don't want Kathy to wait with dinner for me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Kathy's making dinner tonight?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She insisted. I was going to take her out, but..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Okay then. I'll see you next week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, no. In two weeks, remember?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh, yes. Goodbye, Anna. Good luck."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I need it. Goodbye, Doctor Balis."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 93rd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, September 24, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. So you've been sick again?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. I seem not to have any resistance at all. A person just has to sneeze in my general direction for me to come down with a 103 fever."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. How much weight have you lost this summer?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not really sure. Maybe twenty pounds? I went down about two dress sizes, see?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Keep your pants on, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I wasn't going to take them off completely, Doctor. Relax. But see? I've lost almost four inches off my waist."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you talked to a doctor about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm talking to you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't like that you've been getting sick so much, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Neither do I, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You've got to start taking better care of yourself."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm trying. And my new department is very good about that, too. They make sure that we eat well, and when we stay late, they provide cars to take us home. This is a much better deal than being a programmer, I tell you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad you like your new job."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's great. I can't tell you what I'm working on, but it's way cool. And I like the people in my department. Do you know that the average IQ in our section of the building is about 150?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's very impressive."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And everyone is nice, too. Oh, we've been doing this little side project. You might like it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, we have this theory about Clinton."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is that what you really want to talk about today?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Bear with me. We have this theory that Clinton's current difficulties have really been carefully orchestrated by none other than his lovely wife, Hillary. Let me explain."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Briefly."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Briefly, if you insist. Given all that we now know, we believe that Clinton had several extramarital affairs prior to becoming president, and that Hillary knew all about them. But she was very ambitious and was willing to forgive her husband's indiscretions as long as she was able to get into the White House. But the idiot wouldn't stop fooling around--real stupid."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I agree."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, good old Hillary didn't like that, but she wanted to insure staying in the White House for two terms."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So that's your theory?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We think..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "We?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, our department. We think that Hillary knew about Bill and Monica. But yelling and screaming at her husband wouldn't have really yielded anything for her. And she can't get divorced. So, like any woman in her position, she wanted revenge. But a subtle and kind of ingenius revenge--she's really smart, remember. So Hillary went out and campaigned for Bill. She went on the TV shows and said that this was a right wing republican conspiracy to malign her good husband. She told everyone how she believed her husband was wrongfully accused. She said that Bill just wants to help people because of his innate good nature and deeply held religious convictions. That was why he was helping Monica get a job and why he was being nice to her in general."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If you don't believe me, read Starr's report. The staff members of the White House testified that Hillary kept insisting those were Bill's only motivations for seeing Monica."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And I bet when Bill came to Hillary to talk about the Paula Jones lawsuit, he lied and told Hillary he had never taken his pants off or asked her for a blow job--he said that it was all politically motivated. Hillary told him that she believed him completely--and what's more, she kept pushing him deeper into the shit by insisting that he repeat his lie to everyone. \"I believe you, honey. And I want everyone else to believe you as well. I know that you'd never lie to me.\" Hillary's running his legal strategy, so she probably insisted that he not settle the Jones lawsuit--not at any price. Just think about it. If Clinton settled with Paula, this whole thing wouldn't be an issue right now--no lawsuit, no perjury charges, no possibility of impeachment. But Hillary wouldn't let him settle. She let Bill dig his own hole deeper and deeper."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Just one more minute. Basically, Hillary set Bill up. If anything goes down now, she will be remembered as the innocent one and Bill will be the lying sex monster who couldn't keep it in his pants. I've heard that she's receiving bigger offers for her book than either Bill or Monica is."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see your point..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's young, and she has places to go. Bill...well, we'll see how history will make him out to be, but their fates are no longer closely intertwined. After he's out of office, she'll probably quietly divorce him. Oh, and remember that story the White House tried to float through Dick Morris about Hillary being a lesbian? I bet she didn't like that at all."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Let's get back to our session, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay. Oh, and we are seeding this story out through the Internet. We're interested to see if our Hillary conspiracy theory--which we admit is speculative fiction--gets adopted and becomes popular."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're spreading your story via the Internet?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We have our ways, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's a bit frightening."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You don't know the half of it, Doctor. And Lloyd is totally into this, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Lloyd Major, the CEO?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He's been hanging around with us for our HC Meetings--Hillary Conspiracy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad you're doing such important work in your new department."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We work very hard, Doctor, but we play, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. So how has it been working out with Martin? You work together, and is he still staying in your house?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. It's been okay to work together. And it's been nice to have someone taking care of me while I was sick. He was very good about that. It's strange."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What is?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's so easy to fall into old patterns of behavior."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I keep catching myself acting like I used to act when we were together. We're not having sex or anything, don't worry, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I find myself snuggling close to him while we watch the television. I fell asleep on his lap a few times. And when I woke up, there were a few moments when I forgot that we were not together like that anymore, and I...well, you get the idea."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I do. And how does Martin feel about living with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He feels very strongly that he is responsible for everything that happened."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And he said that he will stay and protect me as long as necessary."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. And how is the investigation going? Did they find Kathy yet?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. There is no trace of her. Martin has been going to our S&M club events regularly, and no one has heard anything about Kathy there either."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So Martin still..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure, he never gave it up. I encourage him to pursue his sexuality. He is not hurting anyone, literally. And I would rather not live with a sexually frustrated foot fetisher, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yeah..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "At least one of us is getting it on regular basis. It's been a very long time since I've seen any action."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Caren and Greg...remember them?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I do."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They're having a baby. She's not really showing yet, but she's been puking her guts out every day at the office, so I hear."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you talk to them much?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess we've really drifted apart in the last year. They have each other, and now, they have the baby. And they don't really understand me anymore."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I like the people in my department. They are a lot less judgmental. They've sort of adopted this hedonistic philosophy--anything goes as long as it brings pleasure and doesn't hurt anyone."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's much better that way. The people from my old programming department were so repressed by comparison. All those porno flicks that we used to watch...it was all because they really didn't have any sex in their real lives. People who actually get to do it and to experiment, they don't need as much of that kind of stimulation."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. And what do you mean by doing it and experimentation?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it's...it covers a lot of ground, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Can you give me a for instance?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, they told me about Sylvia Bows. She was an SII executive who got the company's medical records and did it with all the men that had good genetics and that were HIV negative. She did it with a few people from my department as well. She had sex to get pregnant and to get back at her husband for having a secret vasectomy. I think that was cool. And no one really got hurt. I was told she was very good in bed, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. So you approve?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I do. And everyone is cool about my experimentations with S&M. They don't think I'm somehow perverted because I enjoy it. That's very refreshing. I can talk to these people about how it feels like and what I like, and they act interested and supportive--not at all like the guys from programming."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How was that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They thought I was a freak."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. So you talk about sex with your current office mates?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sex is very important. And there's nothing wrong with it. We all think it's healthy to talk about sex, don't you?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I believe sex is a good topic of conversation, but perhaps not at work. That can set up some very uncomfortable situations. Don't you think?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It can. It sure did in the programming department. But not with these people."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why not?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They're different. Maybe it's because they're smarter then most."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Well, we're out of time for today, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I see that. I should be getting back to work anyway."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Work?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, we have a little field trip planned for this evening."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you want to tell me about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure you'd understand."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Try me."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, there's this place in Oakland--the Edgewater Motel."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not going to like this."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's sort of a voyeur place--people keep their window shades up. You do it, they watch; they do it, you watch."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't growl, Doctor. I'm not going alone. And I don't really want to do anything...well, not the first time, anyway."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, you always manage to come up..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't freak out, it's cool. I'm a big girl, Doctor. And I like to watch. See you next week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Aren't you going to wish me a good time?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Don't get hurt."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I won't."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 57th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, September 25, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So we're officially a couple...or a threesome...or whatever. You know what I mean."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Congratulations, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. I think it's the right thing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The right thing in general? The right thing for Kathy? For Martin? For you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think all of those."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Would you like to talk about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Of course. I don't think I could talk about anything else, Doctor. It's like we're in our honeymoon stage right now, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "In fact we even went on a honeymoon trip, sort of."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was Kathy's idea, and I thought it was terrific--what a great way to start off a relationship. We even agreed to hold off consummating our relationship until we were on our honeymoon. Romantic, isn't it?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Very."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We took last Friday off from work and went away for three whole days together. There's a little very romantic place up the coast on Route 1 just south of Fort Bragg. It's a small hotel right on the cliff overlooking the ocean. They told us a movie had been made there, \"Same Time Next Year?\" But I hadn't seen it. In any case, it's a very nice place and...we asked for the honeymoon suite, you know? But guess what?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was taken by none other than Lloyd Major. You know, our CEO?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I know."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was cool that we were staying in the same hotel as Mr. Major. It's not like he recognized us or anything, but it was cool."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We still got a great room. We asked for one with a giant bed--king size. And we wanted a hot tub in our room--we didn't want to leave the room for the whole three days. We were getting room-service and we'd only leave to take midnight walks along the coast. But mostly we wanted to just love each other and stare out into the ocean drinking nice cocktails."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And the people in the hotel were as nice as could be. You'd think that a party like ours arrived there every day--they really treated us like the three of us just got married. But it's close to San Francisco, so who knows?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad they were nice to you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Are you angry with me?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, of course not. Why do you ask?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You look so glum."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry. I'm just still waiting to hear that you've thought long and hard about this and..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, Doctor, of course I had. I told you I've been thinking about it almost non-stop. I think this is the right thing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You've said that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So I have."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What about the reservations that you had? Is this a viable long-term relationship or just a short-term fun thing?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't do short-term fun things, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you expect this to last."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I do. We are good together--better than in any other combination. Martin and I, Kathy and Martin, Kathy and I--it works best when it's the three of us together."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you have a wedding?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, we're keeping this a secret."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What? Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Too many people just wouldn't understand."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Like your parents?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, before I agreed to any of this, I made them promise that under no circumstances were my parents ever to know that we are anything more than just roommates."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Roommates?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. I gave up my apartment as of October first. And Kathy told her landlady that she won't be coming back--that was very ugly, she's just so dependent on Kathy..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We were practically living together anyway."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I thought you liked having your own space and being able to get away."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, a real relationship is not about getting away. It's about finding ways to stay together and live with each other despite the small differences and annoyances that arise from time to time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've committed to this relationship. I think it's a mature thing to do."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So I'm packing all my stuff, and we are moving it during the evenings into Martin's apartment...well, I guess it's our apartment now. Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I guess."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And it's really practical this way, too. We'll split the rent and all the utilities three ways. And we all contribute money to the general housekeeping fund and to food. And it's nice to split the chores, too. It's a good thing all around."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The only thing that was sort of a damper on our celebrations was Martin's tongue."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I knew you'd be interested. Martin is a smart man, but he still can't use a microwave for the life of him. He was heating up some leftover Chinese food. He kept touching it and touching it, and it was still cold. Finally, he just didn't want to wait anymore and stuffed a huge glob of it into his mouth. And you know how microwaves are? Some parts are left ice cold, while others are boiling hot. Martin's tongue was completely out of commission for our entire honeymoon!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What a shame."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy and I had to punish him for that of course."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Of course."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We tied him to the bed, and the two of us...oh, never mind."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So are you sure that this is what you want, Anna? Are you sure that this was completely your decision--you weren't pushed into this..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think I'm sure. I'm very happy right now, Doctor Balis. Very. After I decided to say yes, it was like a giant load fell of my shoulders and I felt liberated and happy and free. I haven't felt that way for a long time. I love my family--Martin and Kathy. And it's a good feeling, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Then I'm very happy for you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, you're not. But I will make you believe that this is one of the best things that ever happened to me. And you know, Doctor?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's all because of you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I have you to thank for my happiness. You really got me through some very rough times in my life, and I'm very grateful. Now that I'm happy, I can look back on my life and see how much confusion and misery there was there--one bad relationship after another. But no more. I'm happy now. And you are responsible."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not sure I'm willing to take all that responsibility. But it's getting late, Anna, and I'm very tired. Do you mind if we end a bit early today?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure, go get some rest, Doctor Balis. And thank you for everything."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll see you next week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Absolutely. Good night, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good night, Anna."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 94th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, October 1, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. Please, sit down."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'd be happy to, Doctor. I've been feeling like shit again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sick?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I somehow managed to get a sinus infection. I've been on antibiotics for four days now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry, Anna. You do seem to get sick an awful lot."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, well..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you sleeping any better?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I still have problems breathing when I'm horizontal, so..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I've never met anyone more understanding about a sinus infection than Lloyd, the CEO. The man is an angel--he sent me home and told me that a sinus infection guarantees paid sick leave around SII. Can you believe that?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, actually..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So I was home Monday and Tuesday. That was nice. I've been working a lot lately and I haven't had much opportunity to wallow in bed. So I got to watch tons of bad afternoon TV. But it did get boring, so I'm back at work."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. How did your little company field trip go last week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Do you mean the Edgewater Adult Resort?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How was it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It had its moments."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Can you be a bit more specific?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it was a bit different than what we had imagined."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was more oriented towards couples than I thought it would be. There were some striptease shows downstairs. There was a full bar. And the show girls interacted with the audience between their performances."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Go on."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess that's all very typical."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The weird part was going around the hotel in a group, watching couples doing it. I'm sure some of it was staged. But there were regular people who just got off on being watched."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How were you able to see..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Some places, there were one way mirrors. The people on the other side knew they were being seen but they didn't know by whom and when."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sometimes, we could just look through an open door. That was a bit uncomfortable."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There was a mob of us just outside the door. And we were pushing and looking over each other's shoulders. It was very strange. It wasn't very erotic for me. It didn't feel like we were looking in, it was more...I don't know. It wasn't like real voyeurism."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Then there was the garden area. There was a pool and a hot spa. Some people were having sex by the pool. And there were some pretty naked girls wondering about--they were part of the staff. There was a lesbian show by the pool, too. It was also staged. Well, I'm pretty sure it was staged."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did this make you feel uncomfortable?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, it was fine. It was much better then the open door deal. Oh, and all the curtains were up on the windows. We could look into the rooms and see what people were doing there. That felt more like real voyeurism to me. There were guests who kept their windows open, and there were performers who did a strip act in front of open windows."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We were all consenting adults, Doctor. It never felt wrong. There were things that felt awkward, but not wrong."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So overall..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm glad that place exists. It clearly serves its purpose, just like S&M clubs serve theirs."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I agree."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But it wasn't right the way we went."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was specifically geared for couples. A large group like ours was welcome, but the place wasn't set up to accommodate us."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The place was all about participation. And, as a group, we couldn't do that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We watched, but we didn't do much more than that. If I ever go back there again, it would be with a lover."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you found it erotic?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. We all did. Martin kept talking about the place all the way home. He thinks there's a lot of money in setting up a place like that but with an S&M touch. I think he might be right. A lot more people are into watching than doing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "A voyeuristic S&M resort?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't you think it would be good?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Perhaps."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And with this sinus infection, it's been really difficult. I'm not good at taking antibiotics. I get a yeast infection right away."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's very common. The antibiotic kills the good bacteria along with the bad. Eat some yogurt."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've heard that works, but I prefer to take this little magic pill that wipes out the yeast infection in a few days."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Whatever works for you, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But it does take a few days. Well, so much for sex."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, intercourse is painful, and oral sex and sinus infections don't go well together--breathing problems, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Who are you having sex with, Anna?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's Martin, isn't it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We did it just to take the edge off."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't be angry with me, Doctor Bails. Really, we are not back together again. We are just having sex. It's not a bad idea. Just listen for a second..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know he's safe--I'm not risking my life to have sex with him. He knows we are not going to get back together over this. And this way, I'm not motivated by my body's need to have sex. I'm free to look around until I find someone I really like, and not someone who just turns me on because I haven't had sex for over six months. It's not a bad decision, Doctor. Really. Don't look at me like that. Please?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna, you know what I'm going to say. It's a bad idea. You're..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We won't do it a lot. I promise. We'll just relieve the tension, and that's it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I hope you're hearing how all of this sounds."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I agree, it's not great. But you understand, right?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, I think it's a very bad idea. In fact, I think Martin shouldn't be staying with you. Are you still worried about being attacked by Kathy's abductor?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Then there is no real reason for Martin to stay with you, is there?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know what's going on with Kathy's investigation. But that doesn't mean that I'm out of danger. My dad thinks I'm not. He thinks the police should be watching my house and protecting me. But they aren't. So having Martin around does make me feel safer."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe I should go. We can talk about this next week, after you have a chance to think about it more. You're just overreacting right now, Doctor. Okay?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not overreacting..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "See? I'll see you next week. Goodbye."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna? All right, I'll see you next week."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 95th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, October 8, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. You look much better today."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The antibiotics seemed to have worked well. I do feel a lot better."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Well, I would like to come back to our conversation..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Do we really have to, Doctor? I've really have heard enough already."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Actually, you really didn't give me a chance to fully express my..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually, it's not really an issue any more."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean? Are you having sex with Martin or not?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was. But we got to do it for just a few days before...it's really an ugly story, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's okay, I'm listening."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I thought you'd feel that way. Well, you'll be happy to know that Martin has moved out of my house."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really? And why is that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Apparently, my dad was so worried about me that he hired a detective to watch the house--\"Just in case,\" as he put it. Well, the guy didn't see anything more suspicious than Martin. But he did report him to my dad."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. I thought your dad knew all about Martin living with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You told me specifically that your dad thought having Martin around for protection was okay with him. Was it really? Did you ever tell your dad about Martin moving in with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yeah?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it was my dad's idea that I shouldn't live alone."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's not the same as approving of Martin moving in with you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "See? This is your reaction. My dad's reaction would have been just awful. So why should I get into all the sordid details with him? As it is, he thinks it's all Martin's fault. All of it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And I know you agree with him. But it worked out pretty well. I did feel safer with Martin around. And nothing really happened."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Martin just lived with you for a few weeks, and you had sex together."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And that's it. End of story. We are not seeing each other again. I promise you, Doctor. I don't even think Martin is right for me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So your dad didn't take the news well?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. He surprised us. He drove down to San Francisco last Friday night and caught us at home together. No, we weren't having sex. We were just watching TV and eating a late dinner. But my dad...you'd think that eating and watching TV was a carnal sin."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't say it, Doctor. I've heard it all. The good news is that the detective guy didn't really see anything suspicious in all the time he had been watching the house. So I feel a lot safer now, even without Martin."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So Martin is no longer staying with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He's back in his old apartment. My dad stayed with me the whole weekend just to be sure."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've talked with Martin. We both know that ultimately it's for the best."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, when we lived together, there really wasn't that much incentive to go and seek someone else."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Now, we can try. Maybe we'll find...I would like to have someone, Doctor. I'm tired."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tired?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. I don't want to fight with my parents or my friends. I don't want to have you be disappointed with me..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure you are. I counted. This is our ninety-fifth session together, not counting our telephone conversations. I know you pretty well by now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So I don't want to have you disapprove of me. And I don't want to keep catching myself from slipping into a real relationship with Martin. Oh, we'll still be friends, I think. I'm not threatened by him anymore..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Were you ever?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And I'm over the hurt. And I'm no longer embarrassed by all the things that happened between Martin and me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Were you embarrassed?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't handle that relationship very well."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So I think we can be friends. We have to be."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why is that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We have to work together pretty closely."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I didn't know that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well...so..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm a little surprised by you today, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "This is not the reaction I would have predicted for you after your father found out about you and Martin living together in secret from him."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Good."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why is that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I mean it's good. I would hate to be your most predictable patient."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I think I better go now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "We still have a lot of time, Anna. And I think we might find something to talk about. For example, are you..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, really. I think I'm getting tired. Don't you want me to get some extra sleep?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I do. But I'm getting a feeling that today's session was staged for my benefit."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Really? And what makes you think that?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Was it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I do admit to having thought about our session, but nothing more than that. Don't you think about our sessions sometimes? Don't you try to get ready for me?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Were you trying to get ready for our session today?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told you what happened. It's the truth. My dad now knows everything...well, almost."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Martin is gone. And I'm free to pursue other relationships."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So you're doing a very fine job with me, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And I'm tired, and I think if I take off a few minutes early today...well, what's the harm? Really, Doctor, I'll see you next week. We can talk about your fears then. Okay? Please?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "See you next week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. We can end the session early today. But we will continue this conversation next time. I'm..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Goodbye, Anna."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 58th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, October 9, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sorry I canceled last week, Doctor. But I got a chance to go and hang out at Seybold--a lot more fun then sitting in the office all day. Oh, and Martin was there, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you see anything interesting?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Some stuff, but it's not anything you're into, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I suppose not. So let's talk about your new living situation. How is it working out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We're settling into a routine. I got all my stuff moved in there by the first, and I've almost unpacked it all with a lot of help from Kathy. That woman can organize! No wonder she runs the bookstore practically single-handedly."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you're getting comfortable."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm working on it. But I guess you're not really asking me about where I keep my underwear now, are you?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Bill was really the only other person I lived with other than my parents before now. And that, if you remember, was not a good situation. So I'm trying very hard now to figure out the rough spots and smooth them out before they turn into \"that's just the way things are\" kind of thing. You know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand what you mean, but I would like to talk about those rough spots."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. I'm just getting up to speed. For some reason shifting gears from work to therapy mode is particularly hard today."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why don't I ask you some questions and we go from there?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. I'm curious what bothers you anyway, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Is your sexual relationship with Kathy reciprocal?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You don't fool around, Doctor!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You once told me that you were not interested in having a homosexual relationship. Did you change your mind?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You have a long memory, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Um, it's not that simple. In the time we've been together, I've never performed oral sex on Kathy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did Kathy..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, I let Kathy do it to me. I feel very guilty about that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why? Did Kathy not want to do it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, no. It's not that. In fact, she begged me to let her for a long time before I let her touch me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When was the first time?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "On our honeymoon."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Has she done it again?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The opportunity hasn't presented itself so far."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is that true or are you trying to avoid it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess it's more the later."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you like it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was very exciting. I could see her and what she was doing in the closet door mirror across from the bed. I liked to look. I liked how Martin responded--he was very turned on by that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But how about you? Did you like it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. I couldn't relax. I kept thinking about it and just couldn't let go, you know? I couldn't let myself enjoy it somehow. I tried, but I just couldn't keep my mind from racing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What were you thinking about?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, just really stupid stuff. I can't even remember it really."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I thought about how many other pussies Kathy must have licked before in her life. I wondered if she really liked it or was she doing this because she was trying to please me. What if she didn't really like it, but was doing it because she thought I did? Or because she thought that's what was expected of her? I tried not to think about that, but it kept creeping up into my thoughts."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I tried to move so that I could see Kathy better in the mirror. I was lying propped up on the pillows, and Kathy was on her knees between my legs. I turned so I could see her in the mirror--if I could have assured myself that she was wet doing this, I could have let go more. But it was hard to see. Finally, I just moved on to other things--oral sex is not the only game in town, you know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And you haven't done this since?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not yet."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does Kathy want you to..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sure she does. But...well, it's not like I find oral sex with women repulsive. It's not that. It's just...I don't really know, Doctor. I just don't want to do it yet. I feel so guilty about that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Guilty?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, we're supposed to be all in love with each other and expressing that love through sexual means. But I just can't bring myself to do it. And what's worse is that I really love oral sex if it's with men, you know? I love doing it to Martin. I insist on it...or insisted."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You don't do it anymore?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I feel guilty initiating it. It's like if I want to do to Martin, then I should also want to do it to Kathy. But I don't. And so there's a lot less oral sex in our household these days."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Does Martin have oral sex with Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm better."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's not what I asked."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. They do it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How do you feel about that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Fine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. And how do you feel about Martin and Kathy having sex in general?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It doesn't bother you at all?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No! If it did, I wouldn't have agreed to this relationship in the first place. Really, Doctor, what are you thinking?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay, let's move on."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Let's."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How do you deal with your sleeping arrangements? Are you all sleeping in one bed?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, that would be too uncomfortable. Well, sometimes we do. But usually, I sleep with Martin, and Kathy sleeps in the other bedroom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Is Kathy fine about that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. We all have strange schedules--Kathy's bookstore stays open until ten some days, and she has to cover that shift. Martin and I have pretty open schedules--we come in when we want and leave when we're done, unless there's a meeting or something. But we have arranged to go and come back from SII together. It makes sense that we sleep together."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But it's pretty flexible. One time, Kathy and I slept together--there was a good movie on TV, and we wanted to watch it. Martin didn't--he went to sleep in the other room. We do what makes sense."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. I'm glad it's working so well for you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It seems to. And we are working hard to make sure that we are all happy with the way things are. If Kathy wanted a different sleeping arrangement, I'm sure she would talk to us about it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Just one more question."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Go ahead. I bet it'll be about sex."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It is. When you have sex, does it always have to involve all three of you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. It's very flexible, too. If I wake up in the middle of the night and want to do it, we don't wake up Kathy. We just make love."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Do you tell Kathy about it later?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sometimes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you and Kathy ever make love without Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sure it will happen."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But has it happened yet?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, not yet."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And do Martin and Kathy have sex without you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm. I don't think so. I don't really know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You don't know of an instance that they made love without you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. There were times when I was just watching and...you know, it was more like there was two and one action in the room."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You masturbated while Martin and Kathy had sex in front of you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, we're out of time for today."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Good."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll see next Thursday. Goodbye, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye, Doctor Balis. You know? Today was more like sex therapy. Maybe you're in the wrong profession, Doctor. You should do this for a living."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 96th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, October 22, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. What happened to you last week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Work. I'm sorry, I'll try to be better about our appointments."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I kind of have plans for tonight."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, the Exotic Neurotic...I mean the Exotic Erotic Ball is tonight."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Halloween is not until next week..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, well, they have it early."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And you're going?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why are you being so cagey about it? Who else is going?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It will just be Martin and I. We'll go as spectators. We won't do anything too outrageous. In fact, we'll be the most boring...hmm, the most boring friends to go."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Friends?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We are not going as a couple. We are just going together. For safety."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So I need to live a few minutes early, so I have a chance to get ready."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're going in costume?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's just something simple that Martin pulled together for me. I think it's mostly paper and his art work. It's not at all revealing. It's just fun."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you seen it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, not really. But Martin has been making it for me for about a week, and he has described it in quite some detail."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It should be lovely."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds cold. Well, don't get sick again."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I won't. I got these polar...polartex? Whatever. I got these new fabric tights and sweater. They're black and they'll be perfect under a paper costume."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. So how are your parents, Anna?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Please, don't put me in a bad mood just before a party, Doctor. I want to have fun. I really do."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're still angry with your dad for getting a detective to watch you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Even more so now. He went ahead and told my mom everything. Everything! Can you believe that?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, actually..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He specifically promised me that he'd keep my mother out of this. And now she knows. She called me last weekend in tears. My dad insists that she figured it all out herself and that she knew everything all along. But my mother is just not such a good actress. He must have spilled the beans. I told him, from now on, I'm going to have problems trusting him--he just put a rift into our relationship. And it's for no reason. Martin and I are not living together anymore. Kathy's gone. The investigation...I don't even know what's going on there--no one has contacted me for over a month. They're no longer interested in me. I guess they finally figured that I'm of absolute no use to them. So my life has been as normal as anyone's. There was no reason to make my mom so freaked."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Just calm down, Anna. That was a big secret to keep from your mother..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, it's rare that a couple keeps secrets from each other for long, especially about their children. Don't be too hard on your dad. He's just worried about you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. But now I have to make a special trip up to Davis just to have this conversation with my mom. And I can tell you just how much I'm looking forward to that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think I can imagine."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So how does it feel to live by yourself again? Are you as worried about being alone in the house as you thought you would be?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's not as bad as I thought. But I work a lot, so...it's a bit lonely. There is a show on HBO, \"Sex and the City.\" It's about four women friends living in New York City, and how they cope with being single in their thirties. It's sad and funny at the same time. I see myself there. I'll be thirty soon. I'm fairly successful at what I do. And my needs in a relationship have definitely changed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was different when I was just twenty-two. There were different expectations placed on me, and I had different needs then. I want a lot more from my partner now. I feel like I have to make a snap judgment on whether a man is a prospective husband or just a nighttime diversion. There doesn't seem as much time to just be with someone now. I feel the pressure. If he's not a prospect, I have to move on, no matter how much fun we might be having."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Where do you feel this pressure coming from?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There was always some pressure from my parents. But now that's more intense. They're more worried that I will be left alone, or that I will settle for someone who's just not...well, who's not as good as I should have."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Is it just your parents..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you want to be married?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. I do. I want to have a life partner with whom I can share my whole life. It sounds so corny when I say it out loud, but I really want to have someone that close to me, someone I could love with complete abandon, someone I could talk to and share my dreams with. I do feel so lonely, Doctor. And I feel like if I continue to feel this way, I have no chance at finding someone right for me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's like the more desperate you feel, the less likely you'll find...it's like I'm jinxing it by wanting it too much."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand. It's fairly common actually..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure it is. I bet you feel it, although it's better for men. Men tend to get better looking and more interesting with age. Women just get older."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I found my first gray hair the other day..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is that what this is about? One gray hair doesn't make you old, Anna. And I personally think you're more interesting now then when I first saw you over two years ago. You've matured. And you've gained character..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're just trying to make me feel good."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, but what I've just said is true. I've seen that HBO show, and I find those women more interesting than the twenty-somethings that I see around SII."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "God, now I'm one of the old crowd at SII! I used to be the hip twenty-something."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're still the hip twenty-something, Anna..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Except you have more stock options, more responsibility, and more opportunities to work on better and more interesting projects. Isn't that right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I do love my job now. And I do make enough money that I don't have to worry about paying my rent or buying stuff that I want, even if frivolous. And I do have quite a sizable chunk of assets thanks to the \"SII Mole\" and the investment plan by Katherine Lippard. I got a letter from her and it made my day. You must have gotten a similar letter. Did you?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "See? Your life is better now than when you were fresh out of college. And now that you're pulling yourself out of the..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "S&M thing?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you sorry that you've closed that chapter in your life?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it's not closed. It's just put away for the time being. If I find the man, I want him to...I want to play games that make me feel...I want that. I like to be..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand. But I think what you want is more in the domain of sex games and not the S&M lifestyle that you experienced before with Martin and Kathy. Right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm. I want to go to the Halloween party at the S&M club. Do you think that's wrong?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why do you want to go?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It turns me on. And I think it will be more fun and games and less intense than usual. I think there will be people there who are just doing it for fun. And I feel like there'll be less pressure on me to perform. So..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So I made plans to go with Martin. And we have an understanding--his job is to make me feel secure, and my job is to secure some action for him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "In fact, I think I'm late for the ball, Doctor. I've got to go. I haven't even had a fitting for my costume yet. Martin must be mad at me by now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. Take care of yourself. Don't get into any trouble."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I won't. I love you, Charles."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anna?"
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 59th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, October 23, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sorry about last week, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's all right. Is Kathy back?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. But she stayed with her aunt for an extra couple of days. She had the flu, but I guess at that age...she's better now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad to hear that. So, you started to tell me on the phone how you were looking forward to spending a few days alone--just you and Martin. Was it is as different as you expected?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was different. Most of the difference was probably more due to working at Kathy's store than from just being alone with Martin. We worked so much last week that we hardly had any time left to be alone. When we'd finally get home, all we wanted to do was sleep. I think Kathy was horrified when she saw an empty refrigerator and piles of laundry. We didn't eat a single meal other than coffee at home. But our schedules were wild--we'd leave early in the morning to get to the office by at least nine, then work hard to get out of there by five or six. And we had to cover at the store every night until ten or eleven. Friday and Saturday until midnight. It was an insane week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What about all the rest of the people who work at the store? Does Kathy always work so late?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, no. The regulars had to cover the morning and day shifts which Martin and I could not."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But we did manage to have some fun."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, the first night was probably the best."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Last Thursday?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. First of all, Martin didn't show up there until eight--his department had a late meeting or something. I had to fumble around to try and figure out the register. Finally, one of the customers came to my assistance and helped me do the sales. People who are into strange and weird sex are usually very nice. I guess they get all their kicks out in other ways. And all the regular customers were very concerned about Kathy and asked me to say hello to her. It was very nice."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The same customers go to the store several times a week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We rent out some equipment and tapes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But we get a fair number of first timers. When Martin finally got there that first day, I had an elderly couple--tourists, I think--who wanted to purchase a whole bunch of stuff--handcuffs, paddles, masks, some video tapes. I had to teach the man how to tie a leather corset on his wife. I guess you couldn't get this kind of stuff where they were from."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Maybe not."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So when Martin got to the store, I had this couple and a few others browsing the shelves. But instead of getting behind the counter with me, Martin pretended that he didn't know me and that he was just someone coming in off the street. It was hilarious."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What was?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Martin went from shelf to shelf and kept picking up stuff and asking me what it was used for and whether it was good to lick. And he was totally getting into his bottom space--he constantly asked my permission to do the simplest things--\"May I touch this, Miss? May I ask a question, Miss? May I try this, Miss?\" And the way he said \"Miss\" was clearly meant to be \"Mistress.\" So we went around the store together, and I demonstrated all the paddles on him. And Martin kept saying, \"Thank you, Miss.\" Finally, we had a crowd of spectators at the store. Martin was on his hands and knees in front of me licking my shoes. It was wild."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He was my masochistic customer, and I was his shop girl mistress. We kept this up for hours. And this little old lady wanted to try out her new paddle on Martin as well."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did he let her?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Of course. She was such a sweet little thing, although Martin did say she had a heavy hand."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So our little performance lasted all evening. At one point, I sent Martin out to get some food--which he did completely in character."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "In character--by that do you mean Martin was..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He was playing a masochist."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you consider that a performance?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it is, sort of. I know it's a bit more than that. But Martin can play a normal person, too, and he does every day in the office. He's never once licked my shoes while we were at work."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He does send me some very graphic but also very cryptic e-mail messages. But we are very careful not to let on as to our sex play preferences at work. That would be stupid."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I agree. What you do in private should stay your own business."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Right. But at the store...well, that was different. There was this strange sense of freedom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We were free to act and play out our fantasies in there. Even though it was a public space, we felt anonymous enough to lose our inhibitions. The people who witnessed our games didn't find them perverted. I mean it's a sex store. They enjoyed them and even participated to a limited degree."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you did this more than just the first night?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We did it every night."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Were you always a dominatrix store owner?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. We did that a few times. But we also played with having Martin run the store and I was a bitch from hell customer. But in both scenarios--when I was a customer and when I was the shop keeper--I had a couple of men who wanted me to order and push them around."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you like that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was okay as long as the line wasn't crossed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What mostly happened was that customers wanted to be ordered to buy certain items. And that was cool with me. Some even insisted on being on their knees the entire time they were shopping at the store. That was fine, too. It's when things got more sexual that I drew the line."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Maybe you should explain a bit."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "One guy tried on this stupid little leather thing and instead of just doing it the way you're supposed to do it--over the clothes and in the fitting room--he came out into the store wearing just that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did you do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told him that he went over the line."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That was enough?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. He was very apologetic. He got dressed and purchased the leather thing and left."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Mostly, people were very cautious. After all, this is a public place--anyone could walk in at any moment. Doing little things that get your adrenaline flowing but could be terminated at the drop of a hat is one thing. But the other stuff...it didn't really happen all that much."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It sounds like you had a good time running Kathy's store in her absence."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy said that we had too good of a time. She said that now people would be expecting these kind of performances all the time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy always runs the store in a sort of neutral space. She makes it easy for anyone to ask her questions, and she certainly knows a lot. That's how I met her. Who knew that this little Japanese girl was into leather and whips herself?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So besides for the store, did anything else happen last week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Actually a very nice thing happened."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What is it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Martin was asked to join the futurist department at SII. It's part of research and development."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's a collection of Ph.D.'s who try to predict trends in technology use. I think Martin will do very well there. And he got a nice raise to boot."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Very good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He'll need a week or two to finish up the project that he's working on right now, and then he'll assume his new position. We'll probably celebrate this weekend, since Kathy wasn't around to do so before."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you have some specific plans?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not really. We might go to the \"Exotic Erotic Ball\" tomorrow night. Martin has never experienced Halloween in San Francisco. I think he'll enjoy it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you ever been to the ball before?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. It will be my first time, too. I might have Kathy and Martin on a leash. What do you think?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think it's up to you. I hope you have a good time. Just be careful, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You should consider going too, Doctor. You might meet a number of your patients there."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know a few people from SII that are going."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Our time is up, Doctor. I'll see you next week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. Have a good week, Anna."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You too, Doctor. Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 60th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, October 30, 1997 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Anna. How are you this week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Very well, Doctor. How are you?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Just fine, thank you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Did you go and check out the Exotic Erotic Ball? Or should I say the Exotic Neurotic?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, that's not my thing. Exotic Neurotic, hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was actually almost sort of sickening."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I hang out with the S&M community. Maybe I don't get into a religious fervor about it, but I've been around."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess I mostly stay away from the super extreme stuff--branding, cutting, rib removal..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Rib removal?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The sixteen-inch waist is back in style, and it's much easier to get there by removing the lowest set of ribs. Cher did it. And I've even heard that Jane Fonda did it--you know, that's the part they don't put on the work-out tapes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not very funny, I know. But Kathy told me that quite a few girls that she knows are saving money for this operation. These women are into corsets. They bind themselves so tight that they sometimes lose consciousness."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I wouldn't think that there would be many doctors willing to do that surgery."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "A doctor could be into S&M, too, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "True."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "In fact, quite a number of them are. S&M couples with children have to worry about some state child protective service coming in and taking away their children because of their sexual preference. It's happened before. The thinking goes that if they are beating each other, they're probably beating their children. So a lot of people in the community go to doctors who are part of the community."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Obviously the sexual practices of mutually consenting adults have little to do with how they raise their children."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, but a lot of people don't agree. But back to the Exotic Neurotic Ball--there were people who were into severe body mutilation. This one guy had his waist bound for a number of years, and now he's abnormally thin in that way. I was getting queasy just looking at him. And there were so many--what felt like very young kids- who had multiple scars from self-inflicted knife cuts, or branding burns, or body-piercing rituals..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Rituals?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't pretend to be naive with me, Doctor. I know you're from New York."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I haven't had a lot of exposure to the scene in San Francisco."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sure it's the same old shit. They get themselves suspended by hooks going through thier muscle tissues--real sick stuff. And these kids were so young. I'm not even sure they were legal. Kathy said that a lot of runaways stop at the store seeking some sort of self-emancipation from god knows what. It's like their bodies are their only way of getting some sort of control over their lives. Very sad."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I agree. How does Kathy handle those kids?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She said most of the time, there's really nothing she can do for them--they're going to do what they're going to do regardless of Kathy's advice. She said that she tries to at least point them away from abusive freaks that pray on kids like that. But...as I said, I saw a lot of kids there."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy told me about a study done recently. It seems that a lot of these kids suffer from depression. The infliction of pain releases endorphans Pain infliction releases endorphins--like a runner's high. So pain is used as a home remedy for depression. Except, like with any drug, it takes more and more pain to achieve the same high."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. And obviously it is a very temporary solution to depression."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've seen people totally addicted to branding. The first time they did it, it took them a full six months to recover. But soon, they were doing it almost every month. They wouldn't even wait for scars to heal."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is Kathy very involved with this crowd?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. Although she said that when she first came to San Francisco, she was offered a job--a stage job."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh no."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They asked her to get branded as part of a live show."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did she do it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She told me that at the time she was so screwed up that it seemed like a good idea. She worked at this place serving drinks and saw quite a number of these shows. She said that there was an unbelievable high that the performers got--and there were both men and women doing it. The fear and the anticipation of pain before a performance lasted for days and sometimes weeks. These people were already in a state, way before they got to the stage. And then everyone was so focused on them. The audience took in their every breath, every movement. Even as they were subjected to this excruciating pain, they were on top--riding the high. I know it's a contradiction--these people are masochists by definition."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand. So did Kathy go through with it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She has three parallel lines of scars going across her left shoulder. They are not very big, but I don't like touching or even looking at them."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How does Kathy feels about them now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She said that she's sort of proud to be able to know that she could stand so much pain. But she'd never do it again. She proved it once..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It makes me sick to think of her on that stage. She has a videotape of the show, but she said she never watched it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "A videotape?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They used to tape all the shows and bundle them into S&M videos for sale or rent. There are a few in Kathy's bookstore. Believe it or not, they are popular. People are into watching that sort of thing. But from what I understand, the videotapes are not even half of the experience of people who actually attend the show."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "In what way?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy said that there was a feel to that place. It was almost indescribable. It was as if your body somehow understood on some primeval level what was going on there. There was a smell of fear and burning flesh...that's what Kathy said."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I would never go to a place like that. I even have trouble thinking about it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How does Martin feel about this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He feels the same, of course."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you ever talk with him about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm. I mostly talk with Kathy about stuff like that. But Martin could have been around for some of these conversations. I just don't remember."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He doesn't have any scars like that. And he never expressed any interest in that sort of thing. And when I said that I felt sickened by all the displays of self-mutilation, Martin offered to leave the party. So I don't think his desires go in that direction, thank god!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. So how has your home life been? Everything going smoothly?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Pretty much. Kathy worked a lot last week--catching up on some inventory and accounting. And I had to work a lot, too. We have a new project starting, and I'm on the prototype team. It's fun, and I get to work with Martin. But it's also a lot of work."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Has Martin changed jobs already?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. He is officially part of the future research and development department--he's a futurist now. He sort of replaced this guy Richard Watson who died of cancer or something."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does Martin like his new job?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Very much."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. So it's going very well for you three."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You don't sound too convinced. Is there something..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, it's nothing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you want to tell me about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Shit. Last Tuesday, I came home early and found Martin and Kathy doing it. And...it's nothing, really. They can make love if they want to without me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But it bothered you that they did, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It made me feel a bit uncomfortable. But it shouldn't have."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's not about what you should or shouldn't feel. It's what you actually feel that counts. Why did it make you feel uncomfortable?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you know of any other times when Martin and Kathy made love without you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't. But they surely must have, right?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, before you walked in on them last Tuesday, did you ever think that they were engaging in sexual activities without you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We usually specifically make plans for Kathy to do a session with Martin. And a few times, I've chosen not to be there for it. So it has happened in the past."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But it has always been with your explicit permission before."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I suppose that's true."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So this is the first time they did it without your explicit knowledge or consent, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. Maybe. I've got to go now, Doctor. It's getting late."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. We can continue our discussion next week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have a good week, Anna. I'll see you next Thursday."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You too. Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 97th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, November 5, 1998 at 4:00 pm."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. Come on in, sit down."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello, Doctor. Are you better? You were sick, weren't you? You weren't just playing hooky because it was Halloween, right?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I was sick, Anna. Now, how are you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're always quick to change the subject, Doctor. Well, I had a very interesting couple of weeks in fact."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. I think we might know where Kathy is."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Remember I told you that Martin and I were going to go to this S&M party?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes. Did you see Kathy there?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's a bit more complicated than that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm listening."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Gray was at the party."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mean the same Gray--the whip master who took advantage of you when you were trying to find out what it felt like to be submissive?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, him. I haven't seen him in a long time. I think he got into some real hardcore stuff and was too involved to go to any of the club socials."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you haven't been going either, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's true. But Martin has, and he hasn't seen him. In fact, since I feel fairly uncomfortable around Gray, I try to avoid him, and I usually leave if I see him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So when we saw him at the party, I wanted to leave right away, but I couldn't--Martin was in the middle of a session, and I had to wait for him. So I tried sitting in the far corner of the dungeon and pretending I didn't see him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does Gray try to approach you when...?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's the way that man looks at me. I can feel his eyes on my body from across the room. I know I must be imagining it, but the times that I turned and looked, he was there, staring straight into my eyes. It was very unnerving. I felt uncomfortable. I got this urge to flee, but I felt frozen, like I...well, you get the picture."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I didn't realize that Gray still has such power over you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There's something about that man...well, to get back to the story, Gray arrived at the party with three people. Two were clearly women, and the other I couldn't really tell--they were all wearing leather face masks and some sort of corsets made out of metal, leather, and rope."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was an S&M Halloween party, so there was nothing usual or unexpected in their attire."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Gray himself wasn't wearing much. He had this device screwed to his cock, and his nipples were in clamps. But other than that, he was basically naked."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. I thought nipple clamps and such things were just used by submissives."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Look, I don't know. I'm just telling you how he was dressed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay, and how were you dressed?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was fairly conservative."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I was conservative for that crowd. I had a leather corset that Martin gave me as a present some time ago, and I was wearing some cuffs on my wrists and ankles. But the cuffs were mostly for decoration and so..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Were you planning on participating in any of the activities?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was going to look around and see if I liked anything. And if something caught my eye...I wasn't planning on playing hard, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So I was sitting, trying to pretend like I didn't see him, but he knew I was there. He was planning a complicated set up with all of his entourage."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Go on."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Somehow, I felt like he was doing it to...I mean I think he was doing it for me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why do you think that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was probably just my imagination. But it was the way he was going about tying up his victims. There was a big cross on one side of the room. Gray took two of his submissives and tied them back to back, spread eagle to the cross. Their eyes and mouths were covered by the masks, and he arranged to have their bodies touching each other whereever possible--whatever one felt, the other could pick up through the skin and body reaction of the first."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Then he took the girl. She was almost completely covered in either leather or ropes wrapped tightly around her body. I knew there was something familiar about her--the way her body moved, her mannerisms. But I couldn't put my finger on who she was. She was wearing a mask but, above that, she was completely bald--her head was shaved. Actually, her genitals were exposed and they were completely bare too. Gray stood behind her and rubbed himself on her. He was so much taller that she was. His cock just about touched her neck. Gray has an enormous cock, and with all that stuff he had around it...it was frightening. I couldn't take my eyes off of them, and he knew it. I don't understand how that man can have so much power over people...over me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Your encounter with Gray left a very strong impression on you and influenced your sexuality. I'm not surprised that his presence still affects you so much, although I wish you mentioned this earlier--I think we need to work on that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm, sure. So I was watching Gray cock-whipping the shoulders and face of this little woman, when Martin came over. He was finally done with his playing and came to check on me. He was able to recognize Kathy right away."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The little woman?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't know why I didn't see. It was her body, her movement, but somehow...maybe I just couldn't picture her with Gray. But it was her. Her long hair was gone, and she had put on some weight, but it was definitely her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy had become Gray's slave."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you sure? Maybe she was with him just for the party?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. We asked around. Gray had all but disappeared from the public S&M scene for almost six months. No one had heard from him, and he stopped answering his phone and e-mail. I don't know who the other two with him were, but Kathy's disappearance fits well with her being with him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know she didn't want to live with her Aunt Helen. And she was scared to be by herself and didn't really have many resources to do so."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Kathy had a lot of money saved from her dominatrix business..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not enough to disappear without a trace. And as far as I know, her bank account hasn't been touched--the cops were watching it. If anyone tried to claim the money from her bank, they would have been picked up by the police immediately."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is Kathy's case still being investigated?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't think they would have just closed it without finding out what happened to her, right?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Did you try to approach Kathy at the party?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't have the guts to, and Martin thought that would have been a bad idea."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What if it was Gray?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What if it was Gray who attacked her?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He doesn't fit Kathy's description of her attacker."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kathy's lied before."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The hotel staff was also interviewed by the police, wasn't it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Well, I thought it was a good idea to leave, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I agree, if Gray was making you feel uncomfortable, or if you think he was Kathy's attacker, it's best to leave the investigating to the police. Did you contact the police and tell them that you saw Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "As soon as we got home and changed, we called the detective who used to work on Kathy's case. We told him what we saw."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He wanted to know if we had any evidence other than our perceptions that it was in fact Kathy. We didn't of course. He wanted to know if we knew how to find Gray. We didn't."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did the detective try going to the party that night and checking out if that woman was Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They did. Martin and I are now in tons of trouble with our S&M club for telling the police where the party was."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They didn't arrest anyone, they didn't even really break up the party, although I suspect that everyone left as soon as they could. But when the police got there, Gray and his slaves were gone."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. I seems that it should be easy for the police to follow up now and question Gray."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The police called us. They wanted us to do some of the investigation for them."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not sure I like that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure I like that either, but do we have a choice?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You always have a choice..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Gray knew that I saw him, and he probably knew that we recognized Kathy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The detectives argued that Gray was dangerous and that it was in our best interest to help them."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. What did they ask you to do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They wanted us to go to all the S&M Halloween events that we knew of and some that they told us about."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, but we didn't see Gray or Kathy again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it's not over yet."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, now the police have a clue, and they will try to follow it, I suppose. Hopefully, though, they won't ask any more of Martin and me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. If they do, let me know. I don't think it's in your best interest to come in contact with either Gray or Kathy. Okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. Well, my time is up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's true. Okay, keep me informed and call if you need my help."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks, you're foremost in my mind, Charles. Goodbye."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Anna."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 61st Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Anna Green, Thursday, November 6, 1997 at 4:00 pm."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Anna. Please come in."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How was your week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Fine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "We started a very interesting discussion during our last session, and I would like to pick up where we left off."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I know that you're not particularly interested in talking about that--you made that clear when you rushed out of here last time. But I think it's important that we talk about your feelings regarding Martin and Kathy."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was just overreacting, Doctor. Maybe it was PMS."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Perhaps, but I would still like to continue our conversation."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know what more to say."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, let's talk about the relationship between Martin and Kathy."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How does Martin feel about Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He likes her, of course."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Of course. And what else?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He cares for her, he wants her to be happy. He likes to spend time with her. Doctor, I just don't know what you really want me to say."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is Martin in love with Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. I suppose so."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did he ever tell you or her that he was in love with her?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I suppose so."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you don't know?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't think I ever heard him use those words before."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did he use them with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, many times."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But not with Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. I'm not his keeper. He can say whatever he wants to her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Don't get defensive, Anna. I'm just asking simple questions."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you ever hear Kathy confess her love for Martin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She talks about loving Martin and me all the time. She's very mushy that way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But Martin never responds to her by saying, \"I love you too, Kathy.\""
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He might. I don't pay that much attention to that--it's all just talk."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So do you believe that Martin doesn't love Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He doesn't...I just don't...it's not the same..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Go ahead. What are you trying to say?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't think he feels the same kind of passion toward Kathy as he does toward me. But all our feelings are different. You should know that each love we experience is different from the others we might have had during our lives, Doctor. So it's not at all strange that Martin's feelings for me are different from his feelings for Kathy. It would be strange if that wasn't true."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think I was genuinely in love with Bill. But my feelings of love for him are completely different from the love I feel for Martin. So it naturally follows that Martin feels one way toward me and another toward Kathy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Naturally."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And I'm sure that Kathy feels different emotions for me than she does for Martin. That's just how human beings work."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And I feel differently about Martin than I do about Kathy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tell me about that difference."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's like there are different shades of red. There's very bright red, and then there's more purply red, and there's orange-like red, and so on. There are millions of shades of red. Some are so close together that you can't even tell them apart. But they are different nonetheless. You could test them with spectrometer--the reflected light would be of a different wavelength."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand your analogy. But can you be a bit more specific about your feelings?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know if I can."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Try."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I think of Martin differently than I think of Kathy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That would be more purply or more orange-red?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry. Tell me about the difference in your thinking between Martin and Kathy."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, Martin is a guy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And because of that, I can think of him as a future partner in a way that I can't think of Kathy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mean you can imagine marrying Martin in the future?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Right. But with Kathy, I know it's just a temporary thing. Someday, it will be over, and I'll get on with my real life."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Real life?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll get married, have a house, have a few kids, go to PTA meetings--all the things that my parents did when they settled down."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So by real life you mean something very traditional."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Exactly. And despite all the sexual revolution and social acceptance of alternative ways of life, I just can't picture myself being a sixty year old lesbian living with Kathy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. So you consider your relationship with Kathy as a homosexual relationship?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't you?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you have a homosexual relationship with Kathy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You mean sex?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I already told you that Kathy and I did it. Well, sort of did it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mean you still didn't reciprocate..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I didn't. But it's not what you think."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do I think?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You think that I'm trying to avoid reciprocating sexually with Kathy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. It's just worked out that way. I was sick, and she was sick. Then her aunt was sick, and she was gone."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And last week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Last week, I had my period. That's what I was telling you in the beginning--I was just majorly PMSing during our last session. I bet if I walked in on Martin and Kathy doing it this week, it would have hardly bothered me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hardly? You think so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. I did move in with both of them, Doctor. I knew that they would make love to each other even when I'm not around. That's okay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If it wasn't okay, I wouldn't have agreed to be part of this relationship. Why are you torturing me today, Doctor? Did I do something to you?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not torturing you, Anna. I'm simply trying to understand your relationship with Martin and Kathy and how you feel about them. That's all. There's no torture component to my questions."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm feeling those little arrows...oh, never mind. I guess I'm tired--too many hours at work."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you working overtime?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, not really. It just feels like that. It's always hard at the beginning of new projects, before the scope of work has been defined."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So please be nice to me, Doctor. I'm stressed as it is."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And honestly, everything is great in my relationship with Martin and Kathy. They can fuck all they want without me, it doesn't bother me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Just because Kathy changed her schedule from mornings to nights to be at home more...never mind."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you get to spend more time with Kathy because of her new schedule?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, Martin and I used to have the mornings to ourselves. We got up much later than Kathy and ate breakfast together--just me and him sipping Pete's coffee around our kitchen table. We used to talk and share our dreams. It was a very special time for us."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Can't you do the same with Kathy there?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's different. We no longer can have conversations about our future potential. Somehow it just doesn't feel right with Kathy there."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does Kathy want to talk about the future?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. But I don't want to anymore."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And I think Martin is more reserved, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So Martin doesn't like Kathy being there in the mornings also?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He says he does."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you don't believe him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know, Doctor. I want to stop now. It's time to go home."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. All right. We can stop."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll see you next week, Doctor. And..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll choose the topic of our therapy session next time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Have a good week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Anna."
}
] |
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