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7,312,801 | mommit | Wait, I neeeeed this |
7,312,802 | mommit | I fucking love the image of this!! My son likes his barbie and Sylvanians to do some pretty hardcore stuff as well. But Ru Paul makes it so much better. |
7,312,803 | mommit | I agree to all of this and I love how you added just because you like something that isn’t the stereotype for female or males, doesn’t necessarily mean anything about someone’s sexuality |
7,312,804 | mommit | I can’t tell you how many of my boys in class would play with baby dolls and how many girls wanted the cars. They would literally have toddler fight club over the baby dolls. |
7,312,805 | mommit | At one of the daycares I worked at, one of the boys was playing with a toy broom. His dad came to pick him up and said, “Oh you won’t be needing to learn how to do that.” I felt bad for that guy’s wife. |
7,312,806 | mommit | My son's favorite color is purple (2.5 years old)! He's known for rocking purple clothes and sunglasses at his daycare haha |
7,312,807 | mommit | I didn’t realize that purple was a “girl” color. I thought it was gender neutral. There are pro sports teams that include purple (throwing that out there since it’s socially acceptable for boys to wear sports related clothes. I, personally, don’t give a shit) |
7,312,808 | mommit | Aaah my mom did that when I dressed my daughter in a dress around 6 months! "Oh she finally looks like a girl!!!!" I may have purposefully dressed her in "boy" clothes after that for every picture I sent her.... The baby is crawling no need to trip on the dresses!! |
7,312,809 | mommit | It was. Pink was for boys and blue for girls. Also, little boys wore dresses until what, 1800, 1850? |
7,312,810 | mommit | Because pink, being almost red, was considered too shocking and aggressive for little girls' delicate senses. |
7,312,811 | mommit | I think it may have changed because of WWII. Pink became associated with girls because gay men in Germany were forced to wear inverted pink triangles, just as Jewish people were forced to wear the Star of David. As soon as it was associated with gay men, suddenly pink couldn’t be a “boy” color anymore. So basically, ca... |
7,312,812 | mommit | Girls can wear “boy” clothes but it’s weird if boys wear “girl” clothes. That’s what I’ve come to realize having a toddler boy who wears his girl cousins hand me downs and also has a ponytail. |
7,312,813 | mommit | This is because of sexism. When girls like “masculine” or “boy” things, it’s seen as a step up— they like to be be “rowdy” and “tough” like boys. When boys like “feminine” or “girl” things, it is viewed as embarrassing or something beneath them. |
7,312,814 | mommit | That was my thought. I would have grabbed the cup right back and given it to him. |
7,312,815 | mommit | Hah! Love your reply so much. |
7,312,816 | mommit | I always find it hilarious when people think colours or toys are gonna make someone gay. I remember when I was about 6 I (female) was playing with my barbies and barbie sticker book and my male cousin of the same age was playing with me, my uncle got really cross at him and told him he couldn’t play with barbies. He co... |
7,312,817 | mommit | I love that! I'm so doing that |
7,312,818 | mommit | Omg thank you, im gonna use this for sure! |
7,312,819 | mommit | Absolutely brilliant |
7,312,820 | mommit | Be careful he doesn’t hear you say that— kids often actually believe things said in jest are true and could make him afraid it could happen to him |
7,312,821 | mommit | Watch her flip out that there's no dishes for him to use. But there's plenty, what are you talking about? Oh, they're not the colors you like? Too bad this isn't your house??! And then seriously ask if he's gonna "catch the gay" from the color of his dishes. |
7,312,822 | mommit | I like this. I can imagine the confused looks. |
7,312,823 | mommit | Nooo use it when she IS THERE! We can’t be silent about these things in front of our children. They absorb it and he shouldn’t be made to feel ashamed about liking certain things around family members. |
7,312,824 | mommit | My answer to the boys playing with doll houses and dolls is, "you're right, because men never have children and live in houses!" |
7,312,825 | mommit | This is what I say. How do colors have a gender? |
7,312,826 | mommit | I agree with this, but I also think clothes are clothes and it’s okay to put super girly things on a girl. It’s okay to put super girly things on a boy too. It’s okay to appreciate how cute a baby girl looks in a frilly dress, same as on a boy. They all look the same at that age anyway. I wouldn’t personally pick out ... |
7,312,827 | mommit | I could have written this myself - my first child’s nursery theme was Star Wars (but mostly Grogu as that was the big Star Wars thing at the time! First child ended up being a girl (we also waited until birth to know) and now my second baby (a boy) is also enjoying the Grogu stuff while my daughter has moved into a big... |
7,312,828 | mommit | or pants. Grandmas don't wear pants! |
7,312,829 | mommit | Only pink jeans for Grandma! |
7,312,830 | mommit | “You know in the old days, REAL men wore high heels and wigs.” |
7,312,831 | mommit | Soooo deservedly savage lmao. I love this |
7,312,832 | mommit | Yes, but it must be the ugliest, frillyest (is that even a word?) Mumu-est pink frock on the planet! |
7,312,833 | mommit | Me too... Ohhh, Ms. Rachel... I hear her everywhere |
7,312,834 | mommit | I did too!! Lol “SO Silly!” |
7,312,835 | mommit | Zoom in on the mouth “SIH-LEE” |
7,312,836 | mommit | This is why I aggressively shop BOTH clothing sections for my kids! Kudos to Old Navy though, because they show mostly the same clothes whether or not you click ‘boy’ or ‘girl’… Target, disappointingly, has a much more binary approach. |
7,312,837 | mommit | Yes!! It’s adorable!! |
7,312,838 | mommit | Yasss! We all need a little Rupaul in our life! |
7,312,839 | mommit | I got the set for my daughter for $10 on Amazon! |
7,312,840 | mommit | Kids are innocent and shouldn’t be sexualized. They should be able to like and express themselves how they want to without condemnation from people who are supposed to love them unconditionally like Grandma. |
7,312,841 | mommit | I love that when left to his own devices my sons favorite toys are pretend power tools and rainbow sparkle mermaids. We’ve been really lucky and have very supportive family, and it makes me so happy that he doesn’t see anything weird about playing with dump trucks one minute and a doll the next. I just wish I could kee... |
7,312,842 | mommit | Ah, yes - being a functional human being is totally for woman only. It's definitely manly as fuck having to rely on your mom washing your undies until your properly trained wife takes over. Pfft. Asshole. |
7,312,843 | mommit | Yep. And the gowns were all white. Gendered toys and clothing is 100% a product of marketing. |
7,312,844 | mommit | Yes! And it drives me crazy to hear that from people who think they’re very progressive. “We don’t have pink and sparkles in this house.” I’m all for keeping expectations of daintiness and ladylike behavior out of your house but there is nothing inherently bad about the color pink or some glitter. Let kids wear what ... |
7,312,845 | mommit | Honestly - I don't give a rat's ass about what colour any cups are, but I would be pissed as all hell not just about the woman's audacity of taking away his cup, but also the fact that she is unnecessarily making more dishes for me to wash. Bitch, if you're that worried about gender stereotypes you better start washin... |
7,312,846 | mommit | Good point, I just said it when he was a baby and uncomprehending. But now that he’s older, it’s always safer to assume they understand *everything* |
7,312,847 | mommit | You’re right. Dresses with petticoats only!! |
7,312,848 | mommit | Having sex with my husband and cue: “Put it in, put it in, put it… IIIIIIINNNNN” I am forever ruined. |
7,312,849 | mommit | Cue "icky sticky sticky bubble gum" playing in my head for the 100th time... |
7,312,850 | mommit | Oh my god. I love the lessons and what she does and stands for but Ms Rachel is full nails on chalkboard for me. |
7,312,851 | mommit | I might have to shop at old navy more. I tend to gravitate towards target and Walmart simply because they are close to home. |
7,312,852 | mommit | Yes! Old navy and gap both are pretty good about labelling clothes “gender neutral.” My son picked himself out some great pink t shirts and it was nice that we didn’t have to deal with them being on a shelf that says “GIRL.” |
7,312,853 | mommit | Primary is another great one — they don’t gender their clothing at all. |
7,312,854 | mommit | I haven’t been in an old navy yet that the toddler section was divided. I’ve moved cross country since my son was born. I’m sure the “little kids” sections are divided but thank god the toddler sections weren’t. |
7,312,855 | mommit | My son chose a bright rainbow tye-dye hat with huge rhinestones on it as his summer hat this year - he freaking LOVES his rainbow hat. When we went shopping for sunglasses a few weeks ago we couldn't find the pair of spiderman glasses that he wanted, so he settled for holographic, heart-shaped cat eye glasses which are... |
7,312,856 | mommit | CORSETS Side note: I hate they are becoming popular again. Let me be free! |
7,312,857 | mommit | I was signing songs to myself while cleaning becuase now ms rachel can just pop up anytime anywhere. "songs for littles" and "icky sticky bubble gum" aren't to bad, but when your humming under your breath "put it in put it in put it innnnnn", it sounds pretty sketchy. |
7,312,858 | mommit | Why did you do this to me?? I will never not sing this in my head for the rest of my life. |
7,312,859 | mommit | We use this as our “you interested?” Message during the day when the kids are around. We both laugh hysterically every time. Never used it IN the moment, yet. |
7,312,860 | mommit | Not that one |
7,312,861 | mommit | made my day hahaha |
7,312,862 | mommit | I always say that’s what she said during that segment |
7,312,863 | mommit | I wish I’d never read this omg that is hysterical |
7,312,864 | mommit | I said this to my wife once and now every time Rachel says that my wife winks at me lol |
7,312,865 | mommit | So not just me then. LOL! |
7,312,866 | mommit | Oh derp, I’m meaning that websites are less gendered. I haven’t been in stores since 2019. Lol |
7,312,867 | mommit | Oh that’s a smart move! Gonna do that next time |
7,312,868 | mommit | That is a really smart move. Lol |
7,312,869 | mommit | I figured that's what you meant. I just hate online shopping clothes, especially since my kids fit weird. But if a store is doing something rad, I like to give them my support. |
7,312,870 | mommit | This looks exhausting just watching it |
7,312,871 | mommit | Dad just sleeping over there with his useless nipples lol |
7,312,872 | mommit | Look at that squirmy little cutie thoooo |
7,312,873 | mommit | Omg I can't wait for my newborn to be able to grab my boob without a shit ton of help! This still looks exhausting but it would be so nice to just have her pop herself on |
7,312,874 | mommit | No offence to anyone who co-sleeps, but this is completely why I never did. I'm selfish and wanted my sleep. I kicked the animals out of the bed when I was pregnant, husband works a different shift so we rarely slept at the same time, and baby did not sleep with me. I just can't handle all of that! I'm also a very subm... |
7,312,875 | mommit | Hahaha that baby has it so good! Can you imagine sleeping every night between the people you love the most with food on tap in case you get hungry?!?! |
7,312,876 | mommit | I do this and wake up remembering none of it lol |
7,312,877 | mommit | I know this totally sucks for the mom who has to put up with it, but that wittle baby butt oh my godddd |
7,312,878 | mommit | THIS IS NOT MY CONTENT AND IM NOT TRYING TO START A CO SLEEPING WAR. |
7,312,879 | mommit | Just want to say I respect the woman in this video so much. Like so much. My girl wakes like this if her daddy sleeps in the bed, he snores . I can't put up with the lack of sleep so he usually leaves, I miss him . I also respect her nightcap because her baby straight up yanks on it and it doesn't budge. Gotta ... |
7,312,880 | mommit | If I look very closely, I can see . . . that this is me!!! |
7,312,881 | mommit | I coslept with all 3 of my kids. It’s great the first 6m-1 year but after that it’s hard to night wean when theyre in your bed. It helps if dad can take over at that point. |
7,312,882 | mommit | OMG! This is so accurate! And just lifting the shirt, I swear I stay flinging my boobs around to feed my LO just to maintain sleep through the night lol |
7,312,883 | mommit | That’s a hard pass for me! |
7,312,884 | mommit | This baby did have a reason for more frequent waking, so I wouldn’t say this is a typical night of co-sleeping, but it does happen! I know so many parents felt seen when they saw this video. |
7,312,885 | mommit | Yep exact representation of how I sleep. The dad never moves, noises doesn’t even wake him up. |
7,312,886 | mommit | Shouldn't a 17 month old not need to feed all night at that point? My kids wouldn't latch so they were fed breastmilk by bottle but I don't think they were still having motn feedings by then.. |
7,312,887 | mommit | Oh the accuracy(I currently have a 15 month old that is like this). Also don’t read the comments on the original post, holy crap at the negativity. |
7,312,888 | mommit | This is why we didn't cosleep and LO has had his own room since day one. |
7,312,889 | mommit | Omgggg this is my life. Thank you for posting! Reminds me my littles want to nurse all night is not unique |
7,312,890 | mommit | Too cute!! Oh, I wanna cuddle that little bug and kiss him all over his face!! I wish I could run my hands over his soft fluffy baby hair! |
7,312,891 | mommit | No one slept at all until LO was out of my room. I always wanted to co-sleep but realized I was the one keeping everyone awake. Baby made ANY sound? I was patting their back, half awake, "checking everything was okay". Without fail I'd wake the baby (followed by everyone in the house). |
7,312,892 | mommit | You know dad has woken up so so so many times like “oh man I didn’t get any sleep last night cause baby was squirming!” and this is exactly why we’ve now got the video evidence. Mama is tired of everyone. |
7,312,893 | mommit | Aww this is so sweet. We didn’t cosleep but this is legit adorable. What a special memory for mama to have to look back on! And those little baby wiggles! |
7,312,894 | mommit | Why I am never cosleeping, what a nightmare trying to sleep. The few times I had with my daughter (sickness) I got zero sleep Bc she was kicking me. No thank you |
7,312,895 | mommit | No because I felt this on every level |
7,312,896 | mommit | This is precious. |
7,312,897 | mommit | Yup. This was my night last night |
7,312,898 | mommit | This feels like a cautionary tale. My baby stopped feeding every 2 hours at 4 months. Imagine being a human pacifier all night long. |
7,312,899 | mommit | I cannot upvote this enough! 17 months old and he's still waking 2-3 times during the night for a feed while the hubby snores |
7,312,900 | mommit | I described it this morning as my baby’s all night buffet! I love this video- I felt so seen when I saw this and actually learned how to feed from my higher breast while sidelying from it! |
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