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That is a fantastic movie
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I got no more use for this guy.
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[Best part of his life](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iSutC7Qsq-0&ab_channel=MRDave)
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Every time I try to take a picture of video of my 3 year old son, he immediately runs to me and says “I want to see!” So all of my photos and videos are of him reaching for the camera.
9,805
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But there's a cultural difference too. I've never had people try to give me oatmeal as gifts like it was something I was missing out on. But there's a cult of grits, and they're judging me.
9,806
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Really? I love all grain slops; grits, oatmeal, cream of wheat, congee. Pass the porridge!
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Rice gruel... You mean congee? Lol You, my friend, have not had it proper with salt fish, peanuts, and 1000 year old (not really) egg. Also your username makes me laugh... Grain slop, it all the same _laaaa_
9,808
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Or Zoom.
9,809
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Idk if that takes skill or just sad
9,810
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Lmao. Finishing a day trip with the kids and realize I only took 2 during the first 99% so I try to pad the stats at the end with like 15 of sweaty tired children.
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Haha, I hold onto that shit too! But if some app magically deleted my old adapters to plug a Sega Genesis into a coaxial cable jack, I'd genuinely never know and would appreciate having that storage space back.
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I feel this comment in my soul.
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I love those "on this day" things. It'll be all these cool pictures of going to the park, playing with the dog, seeing how much the kid has grown, and then just like a photo of some weird sounding flavor of sunflower seeds at the dollar store that you really needed to tell your buddy about.
9,814
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I'm still a low level Dad, I'm working on it, haha
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That's called dilated cardiomyopathy and it's a very dangerous medical condition.
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I love this
9,817
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I like this view a lot. Thanks
9,818
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That's why love starts with a spark. ;)
9,819
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What's your point? This place is only for people on successful relationships?
9,820
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It's not. I bring up issues with our relationship, all I hear I'd that I have to date her again. I'm not the reason were in this situation. Like somehow the entirety of the relationship is on the man's shoulders, even if the wife's shoulder has been cold since she got pregnant
9,821
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Yes, exactly. Thank you. My wife and I haven't been taking pictures of each other for years.
9,822
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I look forward to the day that I can read my wife's mind. Until then I'll keep asking.
9,823
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Of course it's okay! There are plenty of mums (and mums-to-be) here! It's always great to hear things from a different perspective.
9,824
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So…did you mean marinara, or did I miss a day and there’s a new inside joke?
9,825
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Must be building an art studio!
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this one swings between zero-calorie fluff and 'my wife won't touch my peepee' with precious little middle ground.
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Terrible? No it's the most entertaining cesspool on reddit
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If you haven't seen r/AmITheAngel you should
9,829
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There is no marinara in Ba Sing Se.
9,830
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Well the album started with the dog, then the kid came and then another kid. We got a bit trigger happy because our phones still have free unlimited storage, so there's probably hundreds of duplicates. Google just auto uploads to the album when it detects the kids or the dog's face.
9,831
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I was not expecting the mental fatigue to be this bad. I find myself scrolling through subs a lot more then I did at the beginning of the semester. I'm counting the days until winter break.
9,832
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Jeez, kill the cameraman. That clip was 90% closeups of his sweaty forehead
9,833
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Oh yes. Same story here :-)
9,834
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Stone Ground White Hominy is calling for you
9,835
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The South and NYC believe everything their area does is the best and everyone else is just delusional. It’s weird.
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They called it zhou in Yunnan province, is that the same as congee? Usually eaten with a spoonful of MSG! EDIT: yep I just googled it and it’s congee. These preparations look waaaaay better than how I tried it haha And my username is cuz they used to call me Samela Anderson in high school
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I was both pissed and very impressed
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“Pad the stats” lmao. Are you winning, Dad?
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Mmm pie
9,840
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That made me laugh!
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My point is, we're all dads here (I'm ASSUMING), so who are you aiming your comment at? To me it reads like the guy in the circle complaining about what THEY aren't getting from their wives. In my experience, guys who do that often typically aren't putting in much effort either, resulting in both partners in a standoff of mediocrity. In general, relationships ebb and flow so that one partner generally "needs more" than the other at different times. Speaking as a father of two little ones, that person right now is my wife. We both work but she has more inherent responsibility due to breast feeding and many other things. When I "step up" and make genuine quality time for my wife, she notices. In other words, when guys stop worrying about the "2 way street" and start showing love and appreciation, it strengthens the relationship and all of a sudden they don't feel so resentful for what they aren't getting at any given time.
9,842
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You probably already know this but therapy is really the only answer here. Sounds like damage has been done that needs to be repaired.
9,843
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I'm really sorry to hear that. A lot happens during pregnancy and after. If you need to talk feel free to pm me.
9,844
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If you have to *keep* asking, you've already lost her. Start paying attention. Best of luck post-divorce.
9,845
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Awww thank you so much
9,846
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Maybe they’re saying OP needs to surrender by waving the Alfredo flag.
9,847
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I suppose it’s entertaining when you consider the over the top reactions to mundane things (“He went out to get toothpaste at 9pm? HE’S CHEATING!!!”).
9,848
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Yeah, I've seen it yesterday coincidentally. There is/was also a subreddit where people boast how much hate they got with an alt account on AITA. *Unfortunately* I have forgotten the name of the sub
9,849
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"Tomatoes on the vine...."
9,850
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How do you still have free unlimited storage?! I've deleted hundreds of photos and I'm still out of room
9,851
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Yea a baby and ADHD make it extremely hard to be motivated. I only have one final that depends on me passing the class at least. I am looking forward to my break from school. Good luck on your semester.
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I think they alter the ratio or something so it isn't as easy to copyright strike. The original recording is from a special and is definitely not that shitty!
9,853
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So true! Don't forget Texas where everything is not just best but bigger! Granted the best BBQ I have had was in the south.
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Yea that’s talented also why am I being downvote
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Just trying to lose by as little as possible
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9,857
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Been there. We stopped going. Still not sure why.
9,858
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Yep, you’re right, though I think pesto flag more fitting!
9,859
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Could be r/amithedevil. I did burn out pretty quickly on amitheangel, though, because it's just vitriol hurled at the main sub, and while the main AITA *is* a giant trashfire, I didn't need that much negativity about it.
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We've stuck to not upgrading or only "side-grade" to phones that still get unlimited storage with Google photos (we have the Pixel 4a and Pixel 4a 5g). The pictures still come out really good and it's not like the new phones have much better features.
9,861
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Fellow ADHD dad. Luckily, up until recently school has actually been one of the only things that I CAN focus on. Good luck to you as well.
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I was confused about that too.
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I will. By my wife tonight. Because we both recognize that we're working our asses off right now, that we still love each other, and that bitching about what the other isn't doing just makes everything worse. Look, I'm sorry if your relationship is struggling, really. That sucks. I hope you both can find the strength to be honest with each other and figure out what's at the root without being prideful and resentful toward one another. Be well and good luck.
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If you're not going to work through these issues in therapy then you are going to just magically build the skills to work through them on your own. The only other path is a continual decline until it ends or life long resentment.
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One sub shitting on another turning out to be also shitty. Colour me surprised
9,866
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It’s Reddit
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Right? It's why I don't like it when we shit on other parenting subs here. Like, yes, we are better, but we don't need to brag about it.
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So you're saying that the relationship issues you're having are 100% your wife's fault?
9,870
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Yes. That is exactly what I'm saying. Man you're just the Pele of assumptions eh?
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We found out at 20 weeks she won't have a right forearm. After tonnes of tests she's here and safe. We noticed as she does tummy time or sitting up she can't support herself on the side with the missing arm A charity here in the UK provides prothesis for children for free.
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Adorable, the bee prosthetic is very cute too. I'm sure she'll adapt to it quickly.
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I'm not sure we can accept you into the club for missing the obvious dad joke in your title: >Happy to **bee** part of the club.
9,874
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Get yourself a 3d printer and crank out custom limbs every week for her. it'll be way cheaper and more comfortable for her as she grows
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It's so, so cool to see this. My son has a very similar limb difference. His left arm ends just below the elbow. It wasn't genetic or amniotic banding. The doctors don't know the root cause. Similar to you guys we found out around 20 weeks during the anatomy ultrasound. It was very scary not knowing if it was possibly a genetic condition. There was a brief period of time when we thought it might have been related to covid vaccination - my wife received her first covid vaccine early in that pregnancy (for anyone reading this, the timeline to be vaccine related is completely off; the forearms are developed very early in gestation). We had so, so many follow up exams to look at the heart for any possible issue. Thankfully nothing on that end. He's currently 7 months and has had a prosthetic since 5 months. We were really motivated to get the prosthetic based on a doctor's recommendation, even though we had to pay out of pocket, $7,000 . The charity in the US that covers these (Shriners' Hospitals) only provides them over a certain age. You should have seen the office lady's face when she handed us that bill. We knew ahead of time so we weren't surprised, but I think she might have been yelled at before lol - sort of understandably. That said, I'll be honest I'm not sure the prosthetic has helped our son learning to crawl or roll over. He sits like a *CHAMP*, but generally avoids trying to roll over during tummy time. I think when he's wearing the prosthetic *while on his stomach* it kind of gets in his way. He's just better at using his nubbins to prop himself up (as much as he can on that side). That said, when sitting up or laying on his back he definitely tries to make use of it. If you ever wanna chit chat feel free to send me a DM. Edit: funny enough we also got a bee themed prosthetic. You can barely see it here: https://imgur.com/a/CdwxcZK
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Look at those big fat baby cheeks! She's a cutey!
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My daughter was also born missing her right hand. She has about four inches past the elbow. We call it her lucky fin, like Nemo in Finding Nemo.
9,878
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Now that's a cute baby!
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Mama here and I just have to comment on the beauty of your little girl ~ She is precious
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So which one of you has some cyborg in the family?
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She's a cutie. I really like that bumblebee motif.
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Maybe you.. *maybe you* could be.. *could be* a purple monkey in a bubble gum tree. Love the bee theme !!
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What a cutie! She looks so pleased with herself. Do you follow Be The Spark cosplay on instagram or FB? She’s a costumer with a limb difference who incorporates her prosthesis into her cosplay. I first found her when her Cinderella with a glass arm went viral. https://instagram.com/bethesparkcosplay?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
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She's doing great!!
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Do prosthetics get names? I suggest Bee Armthur.
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You mean happy to ‘bee’ part of the club?
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OP, great name. Also, sorry but the idea struck in my head that if it were colored red, it would look like Hellboys arm, cute kid either way.
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Me and my wife are both crying looking at this picture. She looks amazing with it.
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FYI: Canadian dads that have children with similar shorten limb birth defects should look into if [The War Amps](https://waramps.ca/home/) could provide financial assistance for prosthetics.
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"I have a bee for an arm, your argument is invalid."
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She looks adorable and happy! Already seems like she’s used to it. I love the bumblebee!
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She's so freaking cute!
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This is so beautiful
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She’s absolutely adorable
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Such a cute baby! :)
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This is awesome and she's such a cutie! Just a great dad moment from great dad u/giant_farter
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[Paint it brimstone red with a fist!](https://www.previewsworld.com/Catalog/JUL085093)
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Genuine question and you don’t have to answer if you don’t want to, did you and your SO have a conversation about how you should proceed upon finding out?
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She better bee a good girl.
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I can only hope my daughter is that cute at 18 weeks. Congrats to you, pop.