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3,301 | I am terrible with my vices and indulge...damn near all of them lol.
I love healthy food, I do, but I love junk food too and definitely eat it way too often. I like cheese, I like sugar, I really try to avoid fast-food because that's just gross but I still get it sometimes and could definitely do more if I let myself, I work in 2 taprooms 6 days a week so you can only imagine how many liquid calories I consume there. I like it all lol. Also can we discuss how unfair it is that junk guilty pleasure foods (like fast-food) can be bought so cheaply, but healthy guilty pleasure foods (like sushi) are so expensive?? I would give up every junk food ever if I could afford to live on sushi lol.
The good news is I work on my feet for 6-8 hours 6 days a week so at least I'm getting my steps in, haha. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,302 | I fall between 3 categories most days personally...
1) my hair is slicked, I’m in chinos and a button down collared shirt with dress shoes.
2) either jeans or shorts with a T-shirt and vans/converse/boots.
3) sweatpants or gym shorts with a workout shirt and runners.
There was a time I HAD to wear skirts because of pesky uniform rules when I was high school. They were burned shortly after finishing at a bone fire with some friends. I also might be bit of a pyro. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,303 | My girlfriend and I met and lived in one state for 2018, knowing we had to move at the end of the year. Now we live in another state in 2019, knowing we have to move at the end of the year. These are all work assignments for her career and mandatory relocations.
Now we have to move one more time, but she's done with 12-month assignments and whatever position in whatever location she chooses, we'll get to live there for as long as we want. It could be 1-3 years if we don't love it and she wants to find another job elsewhere, or it could be 10-15 if it's where we feel home is.
I'm really, really looking forward to finally enjoying a bit of stability in our lives and not having temporary friends in temporary places so we can actually build a life together. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,304 | I hope this is the right place for this, if not i deeply apologise and will take this down.
So i’m still uncertain of my sexuality, i’m something like bisexual with a strong preference for women, i have “started relationships” (broken it off the the literally next day to anxiety) and have no experience of romantic emotions and am very confused. There’s girl that i think i’m into, we both identify with the same sexuality and when ever we talk about the ideal relationship, we always have same ideals, i’ve made out with her but as a FWB situation more or less and she’s currently seeing a girl (unclear of the situation) and she’s like me trying to get into a relationship but the normal aromatic failing and i am just confused and i’m not sure if i’m just jealous or actually into her. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,305 | My secret is a handful of pills every night before bed with a weed appetizer.
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I spent a good year or so in talk therapy working on getting some tools to handle life as is for the really bad. Generally that just means working it out in the gym or going for a long ass drive to nowhere. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,306 | Didn't know either existed but I know what I'm listening too on my way to work tomorrow! | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,307 | PDA is a touchy subject in my world. I have an awkward family relationship and generally am super shy (which is a shocker)
When I’m with my better half, I limit to hand holding, hugs and some pecks. I avoid anything that could be considered PG13. I raised over the top modest and still keep that in some aspects of life like this. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,308 | I would wear small rainbow jewelry on this day high school but was never actually brave enough to use this day to come out. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,309 | Any big city on the West Coast of the US. Seattle, Portland, Los Angeles. Edit: Also San Francisco, obviously | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,310 | I mean, they aren’t exciting to the basic Jane, but for the average Jane, I am working on donations to clear some space in my apartment, cleaning house and spending sometime with my girl. Kinda my weekend plans for the foreseeable future and I’m all good with getting back to a domesticated life! | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,311 | For those who haven't seen the show Parks & Recreation, Leslie Knope throws an annual ["Galentine's Day"](https://media.giphy.com/media/3ohs4izs1GWGgMXo88/giphy.gif) breakfast party for her female friends on the day before Valentine's Day. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,312 | As I've gotten older I don't care whether or not people suspect I'm gay but I went through a period where I did.
I wasn't out in high school so college was my first chance to really express my identity. So yeah, there would be a few small things I'd change with my attire as a sort of signal to finally meet other people like me. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,313 | Please exercise safety guys!
This is the internet, place keep your answer to your state, timezone, or country. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,314 | Rule 4 violation. This may be worthy of our soon to happen meme sticky, but it needs to be more of a meme over a dog picture.
Please message the mods if you have more questions. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,315 | I've currently got Blah Blah Blah by Armin Van Buurin stuck in my head. Highly reccomend. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,316 | I told a friend from Tumblr about two years ago, I think. I’ve known her for more than four years now, which is kind of crazy to think about. She’s great and she’s always been super supportive in her snarky British way. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,317 | Personally, I've never wanted kids. Being a mother wasn't something that was pushed on me as a child, but whenever I mentioned that I didn't want children an adult would tell me that I'd change my mind once I grew up and married a man. Spoiler: I never married a man and still haven't changed my mind (in my early forties). 😂
I was married to a woman for almost ten years but neither of us wanted kids. Neither of us wanted to carry or adopt or to just generally be responsible for a young life. As I've gotten older, I'm not actually averse to the idea of being with a woman who has a child/children as long as we gelled well as a family --- though I'm still gunshy about the idea and I wouldn't want to start a young family from the ground up. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,318 | It's [an oldie](http://pm1.narvii.com/6869/fda2300d3d0356e526d116bdb4e1a72d48b65ab3r1-749-581v2_uhq.jpg) but oh so accurate! | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,319 | Okay I actually need to watch this, but kneejerk thought at the title?
Imagine a sitcom with the premise of them testing a bunch of lesbians for the gene and actually finding one but when they send the results back some of them women don't have it and they're like married with kids to women and one partner has it and one doesn't and it's a whole dramatic thing. Imagine. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,320 | This isn't one specific thing but I always had very long, thick hair when I was a little girl. A lot of young women who were family friends or in my parents' social group liked to sit me in their laps, play with my hair and cuddle me. And I? Was. There. For. It. I could sit in their laps for ages. But if any men in the group tried to sit me in their laps I'd nope on out of there and go watch television or play with the other kids. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,321 | For me, I always watch the way people treat waitstaff or other people in service jobs. Being patient, respectful and tipping the waitress well? That's a green flag to me. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,322 | Oh wow, I totally forgot about Questionable Content. I haven't read that thing in years and years. For the one you linked.. what's with the colorful skintones? I honestly don't remember anything about the story, but I feel like I remember regular humans, a robot, and a girl who had colorful hair. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,323 | I don’t have a singular book to recommend, but in the Gemma Doyle trilogy by Libba Bray, there is a character who comes out later in the series, and it was a beautiful and heartbreaking chain of events for her. Read that series voraciously when I was 16, and it still left an impression on me to this day. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,324 | Uh it's Kesha!!! Kesha!!! Did I know a thing?? Praying!! Wow I think I did it!!
Okay I got it. Let's see if anyone can get this, I'm not trying to be tricky...I just have it on the brain for reasons I'll explain after/if someone guesses it:
🎶I'm morphin' into an immortal coming through the portal. You're stuck in a time warp from 2004 though. And I don't know what the fuck that you rhyme for - You're pointless as Rapunzel with fucking cornrows.🎶 | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,325 | [**Me**](http://imgur.com/a/QZxyLtI), certainly before returning to work, ideally after washing hands. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,326 | Saving Face. I particularly love it because they're Asian gays, I relate to them so hard. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,327 | I'm always the one that sleeps on the side closest to the door, even if we're in a different bed that's on the opposite side of the room.
I tend to stay up way too late because it takes me a while to fall asleep. And I'm usually on my side, curled up and clinging to the edge of the bed. Even if I'm alone I won't sprawl out so sometimes I have to remind myself to stretch out so I don't get stiff.
Edit: Also.. I have a teddy bear that comes with me if I'm ever traveling. Don't judge. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,328 | I have too many, honestly, but my big ones for this year are:
1) Hydration, at least 64 oz a day
2) Some sort of exercise 3 x week
3) Teaching myself Norwegian with Duolingo
4) Cherishing my wife in ways that matter to her
5) Working on my active listening skills
6) Daily meditation of 10-15 minutes
It's a work in progress, but I'm getting there! | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,329 | Mmm two things:
I desperately need to do some grocery shopping but have been holding off due to being out of town late next week and not wanting anything to go bad.
I also need to empty my dishwasher, but I’ve been living off takeout since Friday so maybe it’s more along the lines of take the trash out and put the dishes away. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,330 | My favorite is probably some of the fashion/dress stereotypes. Not totally reliable, and still can be used in negative ways by homo/lesbophobes, but they can be useful for recognizing eachother out in the wild. It's nice to see some representation in my community.
Not sure what my least favorite would be...maybe that we're hyper-sexual? Especially coming from men fetishizing lesbians. Is problematic. Leads to creepy/predatory behavior towards lesbians. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,331 | Good morning everyone,
We've received feedback from members that their comments mentioning this subreddit are being removed from AL and TL. As far as we know no one is being banned for this but we wanted to give you a heads up. If you feel uncomfortable having your comment removed, you might instead send the user you're responding to a private message.
Thanks for being awesome.
-Your AyL mods | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,332 | I'm a big fan of podcasts and NPR's Planet Money is one I listen to fairly regularly. The above link allows you to listen to the episode (which I recommend; it's about 20 min long) but if you prefer, there's also a transcript :). | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,333 | as a former culinary school student, I can tell you that grilled cheese is a great option that you can spice up in several ways to make it more “gourmet”
- use butter (or mayo, if that’s your thing) on the slices of bread, and place the dressed side on the pan.
- use shredded cheese rather than sliced. trust me on this.
- add mac and cheese, sautéed onions, and some sort of protein to make your grilled cheese extra hearty.
- garnish your grilled cheese with parsley. a little parsley flavor with every few bites is actually quite pleasant. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,334 | I'm sorry if I'm confused, but do you mean all girl bands? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,335 | Mods please remove if this is insufficiently lesbian focused but I thought it was a great initiative! | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,336 | I will start by saying raisins are the worst. A coworker brought in what looked like delicious chocolate chip cookies. They were not.
Raisins are the devil's chocolate chips. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,337 | I do have a few, but I would say I have more friends that are bi women. But a good chunk of those women either prefer women or are currently dating women.
I'm sorry you feel so isolated. Are there any LGBT community groups in your area you could join? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,338 | For example, in Imagine Me & You drink every time the little sister asks a difficult question. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,339 | Hm.. I get mine at Target in the men's section but I also have big boobs. I went to their website just now and they do offer XS online. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,340 | Anyone have any fun plans this weekend?? I'm mostly working as always, and usually that means 4pm to midnight or so, but today I got to do 10am to 5pm so I was really excited to get a whole evening off.
Except now all my friends get to watch football and I'm just getting my Google updates while sitting at work which is much less fun.
Pros and cons I guess? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,341 | Both my wife and I are very lucky to both have families that don’t think twice as being lesbians. To them we’re just two people trying to get through life together and enjoy a good get together from time to time! There are a few distant (very distant) relatives who have things to say on my side but those people are basically strangers to me so I really don’t care. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,342 | Wentworth is a dark, better OITNB. One of my faves (but dark, so not for everyone). | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,343 | I'm going to be honest, I just googled "lesbian meme" to see what came up but [this was pretty worth it](https://i.pinimg.com/originals/6a/c4/86/6ac48631cf0a56a99865f3f30434f474.jpg) | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,344 | Give me little spoon for $500 Alex
Feeling safe and like I don’t gotta be tough for once.
Who is Jane Average | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,345 | I’m out to the extent I need to be. I don’t hide who I am, and I may be one of the local lgbt erg chairs, which is really the LGBT club at work. My one year appointment ends in January and I’m ready to be a club member again.
Directly, my team knows and a handful of friends, but most can probably guess I’m gay bu the looks of things. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,346 | Personally I'm in a LGBT swing/jazz band.
I used to be in a lesbian/bi women's softball league but left because I missed having free time in the summer. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,347 | [Here is a fun one](http://imgur.com/a/TUKNhH7) of me sandboarding! I never even knew that was a thing until my girlfriend planned us a random trip to Colorado - highly recommend (: | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,348 | I'm not American, but I grew up in a very rural community and am living in the middle of nowhere for the next year. My work normally requires me to live in the city, though, and realistically that's where gay people tend to go if they're looking to meet a partner. That's certainly the only place I've met women who were both gay and compatible. We're a minority group to begin with and the odds of meeting someone you're compatible with among a minority group in an already sparse population are slim. Sounds like you've already figured that out though. If you're not resistant to moving I'd look into moving to the city as soon as it's feasible. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,349 | To elaborate, I generally dont feel like I mix well in gay circles because I work for the defense industry, and I always get the reaction/impression that “being gay” means that you are artsy, and a liberal pacifist bent on political action” (all of that is totally okay). I mean, I am liberal, and a pacificst, but I also love what I do, and I can reconcile it with my personal moral/ethical leanings. It just tends to fizzle the conversation when it comes up that I dont subscribe to a group-think someone assumes I should based on my sexualty. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,350 | I suggested buying keyboards and other old technology at a thrift shop and putting grass seeds in them and watering them so all their tech is sprouting plants out of it. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,351 | I like just going for coffee dates together. Or sushi dates. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,352 | In my area it feels like people are doing parties more this weekend than next weekend. I honestly haven't planned for a costume yet.. whoops.
Last year I went as a lazy Bowser. I had Mario pajama pants, a green and yellow hoodie, Bowser shell, horns and spikey bracelets. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,353 | Eat a big bowl of pho. And COCONUT WATER but you refuse to drink them :( | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,354 | Personally: don't loan money you expect to get back. Even if you think you'll be with that person for the long haul and will eventually be paid back.. don't do it.
Otherwise it becomes a very expensive lesson to learn ¯\\\_(ツ)_/¯ | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,355 | I would like to complain about the [my period starting](https://i.imgur.com/q27dKSq.jpg). Thanks, body.
Happy weekend! | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,356 | Thanks for pointing me in the right direction. So I just looked into it and from what I can tell hilary’s quotes were originally taken out of context but it spread like wild fire and before you know it tulsi fires back and then yang and bernie defended tulsi. Hilarys original point was she thinks the republicans and russians are grooming someone for 3rd party candidacy to steal votes away from the democratic nominee. And she never named names but it’s implied she meant tulsi. Hilarys point was never that tulsi was a russian asset or a republican carpetbagger.
And even if that is what she is saying since when do we trust Hilary? When it’s convenient? | Not Transphobic | Askpolitics | Comment | Reddit |
3,357 | I will kick this one off because I know mine off the top of my head.
For a really long time, physical touch was my only primary and without it I would fall into a deep depression. I also used to (and still do) spend a lot of time alone since I was divorced a few years ago. I’ve since learned that quality time is best neck and neck with physical touch the older I get. I don’t need gifts or service or affirmation really. I take care of my own stuff and hate receiving gifts, but most of all I have a pretty high sense of self worth most days, but give me physical touch or meaningful time, I’m pretty much putty in her hands. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,358 | They're all blurry because I couldn't hold still for 5 seconds but here is my *fiancée* [proposing to me](http://imgur.com/a/huAt5M7) this past weekend!
I was quite shocked to say the least, and had caught on precisely 0% to her plan. She colluded with our 2 best friends from California and flew them out to surprise me and they told me they were all convinced I knew the entire time - which trust me I never had a clue. It was such a fun weekend to way the least! | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,359 | I'm sick and this is the only thread idea my brain has power to come up with. Send chicken noodle soup. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,360 | I can't decide if I'm lawful femme, neutral femme or lawful neutral. I definitely only easily show my soft side to cats and small rabbits and can relate to ladylike but dom, but also do mentor young people as part of my job and did get straight As once I stopped messing around and coasting. Not ditzy, but I'd say dorky but also a closet life coach kind of applies too. So a mix of the three. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,361 | Pet Sematary Hocus Pocus. Beetle juice. Every year. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,362 | A neighborhood bar/coffee shop would be perfect for me. I like a chill environment more than a busy bar or dance club, and I'd love to be able to meet there for coffee aswell, or just chill and read, work, etc | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,363 | Twelve-year-old me had sworn to herself that she would never, ever, ever under any circumstances reveal or act on her attraction to women and, as she was entering adolescence, plunged herself into an iron-willed, decade-long practice of resolutely avoiding thinking about women (apart from in neutral, day-to-day contexts, of course; I didn't, like, fire my female dentist or anything).
So she'd probably be pretty freaked out to know how all that turned out. 😂 "You did ***WHAT*** to her ***WHAT***? And everyone KNOWS you like doing that!?!?" "Oh, it was even nicer than you could have imagined." "***SHHHHHHHHH***! Are you ***CRAZY***!? Someone will ***HEAR*** you!""The word for it is 'lesbian.'" "***SHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!***" 🤣
I mean, it was deadly serious back then but it's funny now. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,364 | I lived in a house with my 3 teenage daughters a couple years ago. This house was behind a restaurant. I went to eat at that restaurant one day and the waitress said "Oh hey you live in the lesbian house in the back right?" I was so proud and amused! | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,365 | So... tomorrow I'm going to my first LGBT support group, which is also my first support group in general. As someone who isn't out to anyone, I'm a bit terrified. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,366 | I’m flying out to see my home state to visit my parents, my sisters, and my friends there.
My mom and I have had an extremely difficult relationship, but she’s been trying harder lately. I agreed to come this year because my sister is hosting. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,367 | This week I have two memes! The first is one of my all time [faves](https://imgur.com/a/BYWPkQj) and reminds me that sometimes the girl most excited to talk to you is your grandma.
The second just makes me [happy.](https://imgur.com/a/9D96ShD) | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,368 | I spend about 30 mins on hair and makeup daily. Sometimes not in the weekends. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,369 | I love that movie! Unfortunately someone stole my copy otherwise I'd have watched it yesterday | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,370 | Not gonna lie I read it as booooobs and got excited.
I also love reading though. Mostly paranormal romance atm but I love crime and thrillers too. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,371 | I always see posts here begrudging how hard it is to use dating apps and make connections as a lesbian. hello hetero couples looking for a third!! but I’m so excited that Lex.app is now here to fill the gaps!! if u don’t know Lex grew out of the popular instagram page @_ personals _ where people would submit written personal advertisements seeking love. and now it’s an app so you don’t have to have instagram to use it.
I met my gf of over a year on personals and a couple friends after moving to a new city so I’m just spreading the love!! I’m so thrilled that this exists for our community💕 | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,372 | I have never watched it and tbh I don't plan to. It doesn't sound like a show I'd be interested in despite being gay. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,373 | Whatever y'all have planned is better than what I have in store: I broke my f'ing foot yesterday hauling in firewood. I'm now in crutches for the next six weeks, so until mid December. Santa's bringing me a new paw for Christmas, I guess.
Damnit.
So whatever happens to you this weekend, remember that it could be worse. You could be in crutches. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,374 | So I will make her constantly vibrate... Oh Matron | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,375 | My friend's dad is being very unexpectedly supportive recently. Like your dad, he's a conservative bible republican. Rural Trump supporter, not super educated, hates reading books, all that.
Friend's younger sister came out to him and he's being super supportive. Even though he hates reading books he borrowed a book from his pastor about gay teens. And the only changes to their life he's made is alter the "no boys sleeping over / behind closed doors" rules to, "anyone who sleeps over, regardless of gender, has to either sleep in separate rooms or the whole group of friends sleeps together in the living room." | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,376 | Utes. We have all kinds including the f150 and Ford raptor for sale. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,377 | Ayee this is the cutest. I hope you two a great date!
PS: I for one think hearing aids are sexy af so be confident and enjoy! | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,378 | In your situation it just sounds like you're worried she'll be another affectionate straight girl.
Generally I think it's because men are hunters and women wait for their advances. This then extends to "useless lesbians" as we're trying to wait for the other person but it could be that they're both waiting for each other.
In the chatroom we encourage each other to take the next step. Likewise, I encourage you to take the next step with your crush otherwise you may never know. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,379 | Anyone else meal prep on the weekend? I'm curious what you've got cooking this week | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,380 | Pre-done chicken soup sounds absolutely incredible, oh wow. Good on you, I hope you really enjoy it.
For me - I didn't have a cigarette today. It's my third day of not smoking and the cravings are starting to kick in pretty hard and I'm kind of wandering around with a bit of anxiety constantly. Honestly, I think I'll be a mini-wreck all week but this will ultimately help my mental health in the longer run even if this week might be tough. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,381 | Ugh yes! I normally say my partner though most people can read I’m gay af. But I dealt with a trumper yesterday that was shooook I could marry (and divorced) a woman.
I was very uncomfortable between that, him blasting Fox News and yelling about how the impeachment was a scam - 1 star, no tip | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,382 | I've somehow already bought all the stocking stuffers and candy for my person but I still haven't sorted out what her actual Christmas presents are going to be. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,383 | We aren’t trying yet, but its coming up in our plan (maybe 2 years? I said I didn’t want to be over 35). My sister and her wife are trying, and I have yet to get + news so I don’t know what they are dealing with, but I know it is a challenge. My wife knows some work associates who managed to get pregnant no problem, so they are probably going to be our resources in the near future. I feel your need for a relevant community though, especially since this sub seems to be full of lesbians who are out and on with their life goals. Good luck with your next round of IUI. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,384 | Here’s me thinking I’m fancy and wooing a girl with a home cooked meal. I have nothing on these two gal pals. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,385 | I have noticed this as well. It is actually (pun intended) why I decided to check out this sub. Starting to wonder if it is possible to be a mod of a sub with a lot of people without developing a power complex. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,386 | S.A.D. is a thing, you know! Seasonal affective disorder.
I always have to make sure I'm taking vitamins D come this season. I should probably also pull out my HappyLight. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,387 | In the very specific genre known as Anthony Hopkins films, yes, hahaha. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,388 | I found out today that I was pre-approved to move into a room in a shared house December 1st! Which means my commute goes from a 45-60 minute drive to walking 5-6 blocks. I'm just super stoked! | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,389 | My recommendations:
Fingersmith by Sarah Waters (or anything by her, most of her books have lesbian main characters)
The Price of Salt/Carol by Patricia Highsmith
Orlando by Virginia Woolf
Lies We Tell Ourselves by Robin Talley
Not a book but all of Alison Bechdel's comics are great! | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,390 | Note: only your match and I will have access to any of the information that you enter | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,391 | When it's windy, I have to pretend to be a lumberjack.
http://imgur.com/gallery/zJLPrOM | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,392 | Hi /u/katz30,
Your post has been removed as we unfortunately do not allow selfies as individual posts. Please re-upload your image as a comment to our [Women's Wednesday](https://www.reddit.com/r/Actuallylesbian/comments/e2i7ln/womens_wednesday/) megathread.
If you have not already done so, please read through our sidebar or "Who We Are" sticky post.
Thank you! | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,393 | Hi katz30,
Try joining the chat with this link: https://s.reddit.com/channel/sendbird_group_channel_123967567_ad973a5087f29b120ecee0bb52dd26ee06e7ec82
Please feel free to re-upload your selfie to the megathread! | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,394 | The first good holiday memory that comes to mind was getting a GameBoy Color (see-through purple) and Pokemon Red. It's an impressively strong memory and I can still remember how excited tiny Bear was.
I luckily don't have any super terrible holidays come to mind. There was a time that someone accidentally turned off the oven and we didn't realize until we went to pull the very uncooked turkey out. Good thing side dishes are the tastiest part of Thanksgiving. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,395 | The questionnaire is so specific I think you’re going to have some trouble, especially if people make location a priority. Interested to see how it plays out | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,396 | I don’t know if this will help but I just wanna share my personal experience ... I have never been with any woman where we framed things in terms of ‘top’ and ‘bottom’. Things are always pretty much equal.
So, at least for me, these terms don’t really apply, regardless of how butch or femme my partners have been. Their presentation never seemed to correlate to a sexual role. That could just be my experience, though.
If you do have a preference about what kind of things you want to do in bed, definitely bring it up when it gets to that point. A first sexual experience with a patient and understanding partner will help you figure out which things you are comfortable with. I think it won’t be as daunting as it seems!
Best of luck in pulling those sweet butch girls 😎 | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,397 | I get this a LOT with my brothers. I’ve generally avoided or ignored when it t happens, but more recently I threw it back in him. (I’m the rubber your glue, whatever you say bounces off of me and back to you!)
And asked him the same in return:
Are you sure you never liked boys?
You spent an awful lot of time around boys in speedos for being straight.
Did you always know you liked girls?
Etc.
Needless to say, I’m not sure I’ll score an invite for Christmas this year. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,398 | Just about 27 here, that wouldn’t matter to me one bit! Everyone has different likes and hobbies and I don’t see this being any different. There are some levels people can go with anime/manga that would make me uncomfortable like having a full size waifu character pillow that needs to be slept with nightly, walls covered in hentai posters with a boobie mouse pad on the desk and stuff like that lol (not shaming, it’s just not my personal preference). I’ve read manga since middle school and enjoyed more animes then I can remember - there are some good story lines! I wouldn’t worry about it 🤗 | Not Transphobic | ActualLesbiansOver25 | Comment | Reddit |
3,399 | This week has felt super slow so I'm just happy it's finally Friday. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,400 | I love nothing more than trolling Effing Dykes or Autostraddle (and yeah, Lesbians Who Look Like Justin Bieber makes me very amused), and am curious for more.. I don't really have the opportunity to be out-and-connected in my city, and these make up for it, slightly. Can anyone suggest other sites in the same vein? Snarky or smarmy, witty, girl-on-girl culture based blogs.
Thanks ladies ;)
Edit! Poor word choice...I have my own definition of 'trolling'. I like to pretend it's a synonym for wandering/browsing. | Not Transphobic | actuallesbians | Post | Reddit |
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