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3,201 | I'm getting all the things lasered off at the moment. Not as a srs requirement, I'm far from that point currently, but because I loathe hair. The only place that hurts is the face. Scrotum, inner thighs, perineum, bikini, everything else... Nothing. I do however cry whenever my face is done. Like, it's nap time for my whole body and then the face turns me into >>> 😭
That is my experience at least. Good luck! | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,202 | Hmm. I think it'll be very tough to find a surgeon who'd perform srs. While the gate keeping criteria might seem unfair it's there for a reason. There are exceptions, but they're more like "if you can't medically take hormones they aren't required" but then they expect you to have at least a year living as your chosen gender if they're following wpath.
That coupled with the fact that the small percentage of people who get SRS and regret it are usually cis men who desperately want a vagina, but aren't binary trans or truly NB and somehow got approved anyway. I think you're going to have a rough go of it til gate keeping gets a little less strenuous. I don't know that I'd hold my breath that it'll be any time soon though. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,203 | It'll always be a "caine" (Lidocaine, Novacaine, etc.) and it'll need to be done by a doctor, nurse, or dentist. Someone who can use a prescription dose (and knows where to put it). I think places like E3K that do *massive* clearance sessions have that option. Like anything else, YMMV.
It generally works better than topical administration. It's just more "logistically" challenging. And expensive since you usually have to pay for the time and services of the person administering the injections (it's not a DIY procedure). | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,204 | I think that republicans are afraid of indoctrination. They think that having a government decide your textbooks and curriculum can be very damaging to students. | Not Transphobic | Ask_Politics | Comment | Reddit |
3,205 | This needs an nsfw tag so the pictures don't show up in the preview | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,206 | Just keep on them but be respectful. If they're still reviewing they're still reviewing. You'll get your date soon enough, and then it'll all start feeling like it's going *too* fast! | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,207 | i needed this story ...Esp with my upcoming surgery ...I think i feel the way you do when it comes to not wanting to give up your trans identity ... I am glad to be a mutant to the rest of the cis crowd
which makes me kinda want to get some sort of x men pride tattoo | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,208 | I appreciate your thoroughness. I’m not financially ready to have SRS yet but this is such a wealth of information | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,209 | I'm not a mod or a representative of this community as a whole, but in general I think it would be inappropriate to ask for charity anywhere other than places that specifically exist for that purpose. I don't know where those places are as I personally only donate to registered charities. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,210 | I just read This is How You Lose the Time War by Amal El-Mohtar and Max Gladstone, and loved it!! It's a really interesting sci-fi novel focused on the growing (lesbian) love though correspondence of two agents on opposite sides of a war. It's a delightful read, incredibly playful, and despite its relative ease has really lodged itself in my brain emotionally. I highly recommend it!
Any other great reads people have been into lately? Anybody know of good places to keep an eye out for new releases?
Side note: there's a lesbian book club over on latebloomerlesbians that I think will be reading Cantoras. Also amazing. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,211 | Patch notes? I've seen this before but I'm assuming you changed some stuff because you reposted it | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,212 | I have surgery with him in a few weeks - I share your thoughts | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,213 | I think that's more of a pressure thing. I don't "push" my urine out so I don't sound like a pressure washer. I did spray for a few months but now it once again sounds pretty close to what it was before. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,214 | Unless it hits your clit, no.
Stepping on a shovel and getting hit between the legs would be stepping on a shovel and getting hit under the armpit.
It might hurt, but it's not debilitating. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,215 | Are you talking about Papillon Dr.Christine McGinn heard she was very good with SRS
Your look works for you | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,216 | Have a look in here, there's probably something, but I can't remember.
https://www.reddit.com/r/Transgender_Surgeries/comments/5xd28p/a_collection_of_links_to_photos_of_srs_results/
Also do a search on reddit and susans for cosmetic or zero depth srs/grs. It has been discussed numerous times. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,217 | mine ended up wider due to my sternum so I dont get much cleavage but tbh not all women do, and when I lay on my side and they lay on each other after getting sweaty, well, tbh, having them not on each other is better to live with. sitting wide seems to fit my frame well, makes up for other things. if you want to force cleavage use an adhesive bra? | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,218 | Btw. Dr. Schrögendorfer will get replaced by Dr. Haslik (at least as far as I know). | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,219 | We did use normal economy class on emirates airline. We just did not have the cash to pay for the higher classes. We decided to have a 42 days stay instead. It was much cheaper than buying the more expensive classes. It is not an option for everyone, but we had an okayish tired experience on the flight. We had a total time between hotel and knocking on our own door of 20 hours. (Bangkok-Germany) We were really tired, I had a bit of a bleeding, but using the wheelchair option did help a lot, and we are fine a few days after the flight. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,220 | Do you know if the aesthetic result will be any different compared to if you went full depth?
I know its early days, but did she give any indication as to how the recovery would vary from doing full depth?
It would be interesting if you could ask McGinn what percentage she does like that, and how many, if any, regret it. Maybe ask her why she's not a fan? | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,221 | Selfies, couple photos, wedding photos, pictures of engagement rings, or just a casual date night - share a little bit about your life with us (:
Reminder: [Imgur](https://imgur.com) is a great hosting site for sharing images via links in threads. Please be mindful of your username if it is different than your reddit handle, and to choose whether you would like your post public or hidden. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,222 | Also, if there are other good subs where I should post this, please let me know. Since this is surgery specific it seemed like the go-to place. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,223 | There's a great post on susans about this
[Fat transfer to hips n bum](
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,180220.0.html) | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,224 | You bet! I know two people who have had their deviated septums corrected during FFS. Definitely ask your surgeon though because it likely varies. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,225 | Heya, we had surgery in JUne 8 and 9 at Chettawut Clinic. You can ask me anything if you need help. I can tell you all the Quality of life improvements x3. We lived for 42 days there. Would you mind to greet them from alexia and svenja when you are in the clinic xD ?
I am at the point of no more bleeding. Healing seems pretty easy, but dilating is a real time consumer. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,226 | You. Are. Amazing. Thank you so much for putting this together. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,227 | Why wouldn’t you want insurance to pay for anything that might be covered? | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,228 | Probably saw my posts already, but my Instagram has a ton of photos that I haven't posted on Reddit. I'm @autumninamerica
Also, you can't go wrong with him. He's definitely the best in his field these days and an overall excellent human being. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,229 | hi, i am scheduled with Dr. Chettawut on september 29th to get this procedure. I havent really found any info about it on the web, but i do know a girl who had minimal depth from a doctor in california, but i dont remember which doctor. she said she has like a dimple thats about an inch deep and its enough for her to be happy with. Dr. chettawut says his depth is about 1.5 to 2 inches and is basically the same procedure as his full on srs, but with no graft. Id really like to see some pictures, and of course hear more from women who have had the procedure, but as there isnt much info available, i plan on documenting the whole healing procedure and doing an AMA | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,230 | With Turkey and pie filling us, and hopefully all the dishes being done, I think we can say thanksgiving is in the rear view mirror, let’s talk about your best and worst holidays.
What’s your most memorable holiday? Good or bad, maybe you have one of each! | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,231 | I think I waited 2-3 months
you go into his office, he tests where your at, numbs you, takes a peak ahead of time, gets a feel for what he wants to do
too long, I think I had to stay for 3 days before the follow up? rochester is lame
Dr haben was affordable and I had a friend who had seen him and she benefited. Having him in the US was preferable to me, he's still there, he's a musician, he's competent, and probably puts less into SEO in his small practice. he's done more than most Drs and he changed my life so Im grateful to him
30 days of voicerest is a headtrip | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,232 | I did! Went from a small b to a small D.
Wish I'd gotten more, my shoulders and chest are broad.
Only pain was the several weeks where it hurt to get out of bed. But that goes away | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,233 | For anyone interested, to save searching here's her previous post
[Chettawut Surgery, 3 Weeks after surgery](https://www.reddit.com/r/Transgender_Surgeries/comments/8wg6sp/chettawut_surgery_3_weeks_after_surgery/) | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,234 | If you are doing penile inversion, it will help the surgeon | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,235 | Probably the most common complication which haplens from all surgeons is hypergranulation. Thats a big one. Someone goes to thailand, or across the country or something. They get hypergranulation, they have to find a doctor close by that will silver nitrate it and many doctors dont want to go near it. This causes massive amounts of anxiety especially for girls that can't afford to travel back to the clinic for them to take care of it. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,236 | I also went to OHSU for top surgery (FTM top surgery) and had a good experience there. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,237 | Currently I'm thankful for Thanksgiving leftovers. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,238 | Looks like a cis vagina to me almost damn that's good work | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,239 | So sorry to hear you had this experience but I’m so glad you’re alive and going to be ok! ❤️ thanks for sharing | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,240 | It’s that time of year.. almost everyone wants someone warm to cuddle up with by the fire or just to bring to family dinners to avoid the “so when are you getting married” to the excuse to go to someone else’s place.
What is your unfiltered dating profile? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,241 | They do realize vaginas have no sensation passed the opening right? | Not Transphobic | GenderCynicalCritical | Comment | Reddit |
3,242 | What about overwhelmingly positive?
How did you handle these situations? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,243 | Credit where credit is due, the comment on r/GC about "delusional sick fucks living out their perverted fetishes" is shit and deserves to be called out, and I'm disappointed that it's so highly upvoted.
On the other hand, it's still fucking pants-on-head loony to expect women seeking refuge from male violence to share low-privacy living quarters with males. Anybody remember [this news story](https://torontosun.com/2014/02/26/predator-who-claimed-to-be-transgender-declared-dangerous-offender/wcm/fc2c70f0-b1a1-41e2-85db-bec9d0012ce5)? Or [this one](https://abc30.com/homeless-women-harassed-in-shower-lawsuit-says/3514544/)? Because I sure do. | Transphobic | GenderCynicalCritical | Comment | Reddit |
3,244 | Oh god, that entire blog-tumblr-thingy is horrifying. I don't do tumblr or any other social media platforms, it's "nice" to be reminded of why. | Not Transphobic | GenderCynicalCritical | Comment | Reddit |
3,245 | >Daily right-wing YouTubers is a thing? That sounds like a HUGE dose of ideological content
I completely agree. That's almost indoctrination levels of ideology..... That's like watching fox on steroids. | Not Transphobic | Ask_Politics | Comment | Reddit |
3,246 | And their end goal is to be included in our space? Why would we want such hateful males in women's communities? How does anyone think that it's sane to allow rabid misogynists like this into places where women are vulnerable? | Transphobic | GenderCynicalCritical | Comment | Reddit |
3,247 | I could have given them their informal pronouns.. but when they started needing to be be called "FEMALE" that's when I just had enough. | Transphobic | GenderCynicalCritical | Comment | Reddit |
3,248 | My girlfriend and I have been together nearly 6 months, and we are absolutely in love. We’ve been through all different ups and downs and throughout it all, stand strong together as a couple. We’ve talked about the future and about one another being together. We joked about getting engaged one day and eventually realized we both DO really want that. We’ve been planning to get engaged for the past month now and really thought about how that is the dream for us. Is it too soon? Are we just following the lesbian stereotype?? People already have been bugging us about it being “too soon” and a “stupid idea” but in reality, it’s our life, right? Advice??? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,249 | Jesus H Christ, do they think we cry all the time over everything? My 90 something year old grandmother died earlier this year and I didn’t shed a single tear. Do I need my hormone levels checked? Am I a man now? *Sheesh* | Transphobic | GenderCynicalCritical | Comment | Reddit |
3,250 | Whether it’s after a long day in the office or running errands or school, how do you unwind at days end?
Is it a favorite show? Maybe you have to get out and hit the gym? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,251 | It's a stereotype that lesbians stay friends even after the relationship ends, and with the other lesbians or bisexual ladies I know who have been in long term relationships with women, they have always managed to stay friends with their ex.
I thought I would manage that too, especially since it was a mutual decision to part ways, but we aren't friends. We don't really keep in touch even if we were together for almost five years. And honestly I don't mind. I have moved on and although I cherish the time we had together, I also have felt a lot of relief. But I also feel kinda bad, because if my friends can be friends with their exes, why can't I? It feels like I *should* be friends with her because we're both women. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,252 | Useless lesbian over here wondering if any of you sages have advice or opinions on how to break the touch barrier when you are both shy femmes more accustomed to being pursued than pursuing.
Specifically, the thing that trips me up the most is when you're on a date, seated opposite (as you would in drinks, games, cafes, etc). There's no way to make something happen, and leaving it to the last minute when you get up to leave feels so forced I freak out internally and get paralyzed.
I can only imagine that the most natural thing would be to invite her back to your place (or vice-versa) but then there's kind of the thought of like oh dang we banging? When really I just want to take it slow and maybe make out a little. Also what do you do if neither of you have a place you can bring someone back to? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,253 | I don't really care either way. They can continue to play both sides on the internet if that's what gets them by I guess. | Not Transphobic | GenderCynicalCritical | Comment | Reddit |
3,254 | So. I haven’t really dated in YEARS! Just kinda feel into relationships and took a long hiatus between a really bad breakup after a super serious relationship to focus on my degree, getting over her and career.
I (early 30s) finally am on the dating scene now after 10 years (since I got serious with my ex), and what is this mess?
Dating apps?
Which is better? It seems that there are dozens. Is there one specific to just uh.. hooking up? I don’t wanna jump into serious, I just wanna get to know someone and things.
Who messages first? What do you write as your profile? Do you write one?
Can I just get a dating app 101?
The last time I did this I was 18 and this wasn’t a thing but seems to be the only way to make it happen. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,255 | I was checking out r/r4r and I noticed there are like NO gay people on there. Would people use a queer r4r? Because I'd definitely like to meet any of you who are single and looking in the Boston area, but it doesn't really seem like r/r4r would help me with that.
Edit: typo. | Not Transphobic | actuallesbians | Post | Reddit |
3,256 | I’ve only attended one lesbian wedding and it is hard for me to pick up what was the couple’s own twist and what was cultural, since the wedding was in a different country to where I have mostly lived.
With your wedding party, did you give everyone the option of a dress or trousers/shirt/blouse or did you have all the bridesmaids/bridesmen in trousers? Did you just have women in your parties or did you have a mix? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,257 | I feel like I've been posting a bunch of I SUCK AT DATING PLEASE HELP ME posts here but... Here goes one more, I guess. Sorry, guys. So I'm wondering if there's a girl you see a few times a week, know each other from seeing each other around but haven't ever really talked, but you think she's absolutely fucking beautiful and seems interesting, do you just go up and straight up ask her out? How do you approach that shit? Let me know. | Not Transphobic | actuallesbians | Post | Reddit |
3,258 | Remember kids, it's not (rape/racism/sexism) when it's the people WE like doing it! | Transphobic | GenderCynicalCritical | Comment | Reddit |
3,259 | Also is there any difference when meeting online/dating someone say the next state over versus on the other side of the globe?
What have your personal experiences been with meeting someone online and attempting to date long distance? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,260 | Please post your selfies, couple photos, engagement rings, or tell us about your date night here; share a little bit about your life with us :).
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**Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!** Please feel free to share any holiday photos here. Presents, decorations, ugly sweater selfies, all that fun stuff. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,261 | Also: yes, just like how actual women, real women, adult human females fear for their lives around MEN. Men including TiMs!
Great thread on r/MtF about how a “lesbian TiM” aka a straight man with a fetish goes to his local lesbian meet up and isn’t met with a super positive reaction. Thread is full of men realising “so many give us verbal support but none want our dicks :(“ | Transphobic | GenderCynicalCritical | Comment | Reddit |
3,262 | It was a big deal for me this year - I met my partner's mom and some extended family for the first time (we've been together 3 years). Queerness has been a pretty touchy topic amongst my partner's family, but they welcomed me with open arms and it was wonderful. An extra layer of interesting is that we're poly, and my partner brought their other partner (they've been together 9 years I think). My partner's sister was sooooo excited for us to gay/poly up the holidays this year (I've known this sister for a while and we get along super well. She's very cool). Huge relief and just a real delight. When grampa took me aside to show me where the drinks were I knew it was going to be alright 😌. My partner's mom and I really hit it off too. Sure beat my very lackluster Thanksgiving! | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,263 | Some female people do have a narrower pelvis - but what this person fails to understand is that the male pelvis gives male athletes an *average* advantage in running, even if a few female athletes would have a narrower pelvis than a few male athletes - it's all on an overlapping range, like height and weight and everything else | Not Transphobic | GenderCynicalCritical | Comment | Reddit |
3,264 | Did y’all keep them? Do you say screw it and live life for whatever happened? What are something your proud of this year/decade?? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,265 | This is the place to share all your lesbian memes, or any other image that wouldn't be considered its own post but you'd love to share! As long as images are respectful, feel free to share any content you'd like - even if it's not specifically related to lesbian humor (we're all people, too!)
Reminder: www.Imgur.com is a great hosting site for sharing images via links in threads. Please be mindful of your username if it is different than your reddit handle, and to choose whether you would like your post to be public or hidden. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,266 | Don't you know only their feelings of fear are valid everyone else should reexamine or get over them | Not Transphobic | GenderCynicalCritical | Comment | Reddit |
3,267 | Top comment with the standard "Anyone who has detransitioned or claims to have dysphoria but didn't transition isn't actually trans". I know we throw around "cult-like" a lot, but wow. | Transphobic | GenderCynicalCritical | Comment | Reddit |
3,268 | Please post your selfies, couple photos, engagement rings, or tell us about your date night here. Share a little bit about your life with us! :)
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**Happy New Year!** 🎉 | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,269 | if i like being dominant (initiating, seducing, etc) but like being bottom, does that make me a switch?
and vice versa?
Are top/bottom and dominant/submissive not related things? i'm having gay confusion and need a talking down lol helppp | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,270 | This is a thread that is less moderated than the rest of the subreddit. Our rules of treating one another with kindness and respect, not debating, and general codes of conduct still apply, but go ahead and share any and all content that may not fit in elsewhere, such as celebrity crushes, that cute photo of your cat, or a picture of yourself if you slept through last Wednesday’s megathread - anything goes (:
Reminder: Imgur is a great hosting site for sharing images via links in threads. Please be mindful of your username if it is different than your reddit handle, and to choose whether you would like your post public or hidden. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,271 | This is the place to share all your lesbian memes, or any other image that wouldn't be considered its own post but you'd love to share! As long as images are respectful, feel free to share any content you'd like - even if it's not specifically related to lesbian humor (we're all people, too!)
Reminder: www.Imgur.com is a great hosting site for sharing images via links in threads. Please be mindful of your username if it is different than your reddit handle, and to choose whether you would like your post to be public or hidden. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,272 | Please post your selfies, couple photos, engagement rings, or tell us about your date night here. Share a little bit about your life with us! :)
Reminder: www.Imgur.com is a great hosting site for sharing images via links in threads. Please be mindful of your username if it is different than your reddit handle, and to choose whether you would like your post public or hidden. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,273 | Not like I want them to stop existing (hell no), but my low self-esteem and level 10 ability to pine feels like "Ugh damn, another pretty girl I have no chance of being with just existing in the same space as me. Now I have to go home and daydream about you too."
Like being surrounded by delicious food that will never date you. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,274 | This is a thread that is less moderated than the rest of the subreddit. Our rules of treating one another with kindness and respect, not debating, and general codes of conduct still apply, but go ahead and share any and all content that may not fit in elsewhere, such as celebrity crushes, that cute photo of your cat, or a picture of yourself if you slept through last Wednesday’s megathread - anything goes (:
Reminder: www.Imgur.com is a great hosting site for sharing images via links in threads. Please be mindful of your username if it is different than your reddit handle, and to choose whether you would like your post public or hidden. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,275 | [Here](http://imgur.com/a/sZ7mX) is a set of before and after pictures I took today after a $65 adventure. I've never felt more confident and this may sound cheesy, but I feel more like a lesbian than before. I think it might be the confidence. | Not Transphobic | actuallesbians | Post | Reddit |
3,276 | For those of you who have a significant other who likes to celebrate V day. how do you keep things fresh year after year? | Not Transphobic | ActualLesbiansOver25 | Post | Reddit |
3,277 | * http://imgur.com/Keq1e.jpg - front view of the case
* http://imgur.com/qUgU1.jpg - side view, with a little detailing
* http://imgur.com/ol6KI.jpg - up close of map and shelves
* http://imgur.com/TUbaP.jpg - now with books!
Basically I took an old guitar case and re-fitted it into a bookshelf. The background is a map of San Francisco that I laid down before I put in the shelves. I had a blast, I hope she likes it!
**EDIT:** Thanks for all the responses ladies!!! I gave it to her last night and she really, really liked it! She said it was the coolest gift she'd ever gotten, so I guess I did okay. Hope everyone has a great New Years! | Not Transphobic | actuallesbians | Post | Reddit |
3,278 | I play on Xbox, mainly Battlefield V when I play online.
When GTA V was big on 360 I was part of a lesbian gang. Good times, we had a bunch of members so someone was always online to help you out. Once there was a guy who kept harassing a member so we all joined and chased him down. He ended up locking himself up in his apartment before leaving the server. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,279 | I've been wondering how other ladies manage this, and I'm going on a date tomorrow, so some advice from actual lesbians would be nice! | Not Transphobic | actuallesbians | Post | Reddit |
3,280 | I was doing some reading today, and I know there's someone in this sub who needs to hear this quote from Alan Watts:
“What I am really saying is that you don’t need to do anything, because if you see yourself in the correct way, you are all as much extraordinary phenomenon of nature as trees, clouds, the patterns in running water, the flickering of fire, the arrangement of the stars, and the form of a galaxy. You are all just like that, and there is nothing wrong with you at all.” | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,281 | Title. I met my first girlfriend in the comments of a lesbian meme account, but we realized after we started dming that we lived 20 min from each other lol.
I’ve never met any other lesbians near me— let ALONE any in the minority who are attracted to butch gals like myself. I frequently do work in coffee shops and other social spaces, im outside a lot, etc, but do any younger lesbians have advice? I’m too young for tinder or any dating app, but yeah. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,282 | This is the place to share all your lesbian memes, or any other image that wouldn't be considered its own post but you'd love to share! As long as images are respectful, feel free to share any content you'd like - even if it's not specifically related to lesbian humor (we're all people, too!)
Reminder: Imgur is a great hosting site for sharing images via links in threads. Please be mindful of your username if it is different than your reddit handle, and to choose whether you would like your post to be public or hidden. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,283 | We are one month into this year... how’s everyone’s resolutions coming in? Have you started? Have you already given up or are you one of the lucky few who are making progress? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,284 | Please post your selfies, couple photos, engagement rings, or tell us about your date night here. Share a little bit about your life with us! :)
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*P.s. if anyone has any ideas on how to make automod work, please reach out to the mod team, we would be forever grateful.* | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,285 | Despite being downvotes to oblivion, I am absolutely in earnest.
History, over against indoctrination, absolutely supports the contention. | Not Transphobic | Ask_Politics | Comment | Reddit |
3,286 | fist ad is about body positivity, very much a feminist message.
the second prominently features the objectification of women, something feminism is generally opposed to.
If the marketing department was pushing an agenda only one would have been made; but since they're just selling grooming products they will run whatever ad they think will sell grooming products. | Not Transphobic | Askpolitics | Comment | Reddit |
3,287 | 4 days till Valentine’s Day! Do you have anything special planned for the special lady in your life? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,288 | Does anyone date a partner who makes significantly more or less than you? If so, how do you deal with it?
Is income or lack of steady employment a deal breaker for you?
Personally, I grew up with parents who always struggled with money, so financial security is pretty important to me. I don't make a lot, but I make enough. But not enough to carry two people. I want a partner who is financially stable, but I keep meeting awesome people who don't make much money. It's disappointing and I end up feeling bad that this is a deal breaker for me, as I'm turning down awesome people. Anyone else dealt with this? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,289 | What makes this sub different from LesbiansActually?
I think it's great you're making a space between the two, a natural ground. Can't wait to see progress and a sub that everyone needs. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,290 | Oh Halsey 😍
Big fan of p!nk and Kristin Bell as well. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,291 | How do you join the reddit chat rooms? I've never actually tried before. Clicking the little chat symbol for https://www.reddit.com/chat only shows me Chattit 1, Chattit A, and.. somehow the Pansexual sub which I've never been a part of.
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Edit: Ah I think the issue is I'm on old reddit https://www.reddit.com/r/community_chat/comments/byvpyd/how_can_i_find_more_community_chat_rooms/ | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,292 | I met mine through tinder. Never wanted to use the app, didn't really care for it, so my best friend set me up an account. He swiped right on her and we matched. Her first message was a sun glass emoji.
We started talking and she was so cocky, totally unreal. I'd thought I'd knock her down, get her thinking she isn't god's gift. She liked the challenge and I guess you could say she won, we've been going for 5 years now. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,293 | I've thought about watching *Wentworth* now that *OitNB* is over so I'll keep your recommendation in mind.
I feel like I'm one of the only people who didn't like the *Steven Universe movie*. There was a lot to like but the villian was just so over the top annoying I had a hard time getting past that and actually enjoying it.
I've been watching *The Handmaid's Tale* recently. It's not a.. Happy show. But there is some gay content. Mostly depressing gay content.
*Buffy* and *Xena* will forever have a place in my favorites, though. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,294 | I used to be in tech. I still love it but you're right it's darn toxic and a total boy's club. But it isn't a lesbian thing it's a woman thing.
There's a woman here who is a so called champion for women in STEM. But I don't buy her. She talks about how amazing it is that she got a job in a global tech firm and isn't that amazing? Sure great for her. But she forgets that when you're finally in there, there isn't an amazing retention rate. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,295 | Cute photo. Happy for you!
Note: now that the selfie train has just been started, maybe we should decide what our policy with selfies will be? We may want to avoid becoming r/LesbianActually. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,296 | Paging /u/Squareupbicth - maybe you can delete your selfie post and put it here so we can all still comment on it? (: | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,297 | I think these questions, in general, are good but maybe a tag over a megathread? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,298 | My romantic life? What is that? I don't like dating apps and I'm too shy to approach anyone at clubs, yet those are the only places I could meet someone since all I do is sit on my ass at home or sit on my ass at a bar. Although I'm not really looking for a relationship. If I meet someone I like, cool. But I'm 19, I'm in no hurry. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,299 | Off the top of my head I can think of:
* Megathread
* Media & Culture
* Beauty & Grooming
* Advice
* Discussion
* Meta
Pretty standard and obviously the names can be tweaked as necessary, but that's a start I can think of! I'll edit to add more if I think of them, but I'm sure y'all have other ideas I won't think of as well (:
ETA:
* Health & Wellness | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
3,300 | I'm a dog lesbian, hands down. I have one dog and I'm researching breeders so I can hopefully get a second in a couple of years. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Comment | Reddit |
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