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3,101 | You don't need to distort biological reality to be a male who doesn't follow the gender role which society tries to impose on males - you can fully accept your maleness while rejecting any unwanted assumptions which society has tried to pin on you | Transphobic | GenderCriticalGuys | Comment | Reddit |
3,102 | So I have SRS scheduled in twelve days so I can't say much about things at the moment but with that said all of the people I've dealt with there are incredibly nice. Overall it's been pretty hassle free getting everything scheduled and he has a good sense of humor. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,103 | Are you usually the pursuer or the pursued woman in your relationships? Does the pursuer or pursued role you usually find yourself in suit you or do you wish you could take on the opposite role? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,104 | I believe this is the link to the quiz: https://www.5lovelanguages.com/profile/ | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,105 | I don't have any advice, but what insurance in California? | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,106 | Not a direct answer, but FWIW, I went to an electrologist in Cali for a while and she was really happy working with patients covered by Kaiser. (I wasn't) | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,107 | Riley is the kind of person who thinks that femininity = woman and masculinity = man and views the two as being on opposite ends of a spectrum. So the more feminine you are, the more of a woman you are, and vice versa for men. So there are "degrees" of being a woman or man, and Riley views himself as being on the woman-end of the spectrum but not quite at the pole, hence the additional "nonbinary" qualifier.
It's all nonsense though. | Transphobic | GenderCriticalGuys | Comment | Reddit |
3,108 | Just got the quote through, €13k for forehead and Lip, and everything else including 11 nights at Aldea.
So a bit expensive just for that, but the full consultation no doubt add to that, making the whole thing comparatively cheaper. After all, it's €7.5k for everything but the surgery.
Extra's that were talked about are;
€4.8k for nose.
€7k for hair. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,109 | Can you clarify what it means to be an autofemboyphile? | Not Transphobic | GenderCriticalGuys | Comment | Reddit |
3,110 | It might not be a total coincidence - those kinds of jobs have a very high turnover, so they are always looking for new staff, so maybe one of the long haired boys recommended his long haired friends for the job ... also it's a bit of a fashion in some places, like a subculture | Not Transphobic | GenderCriticalGuys | Comment | Reddit |
3,111 | Any movie you have to watch every year? Are you more of a silly kids Halloween movie person or full on horror movie time? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,112 | Tell me about your dream lesbian bar/hangout.
Are you the type for a quiet bookstore/ coffee shop, more of a raging club, or just your everyday neighborhood bar type?
What would be your dream wlw hang out spot? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,113 | (Stealing this question from AskReddit because it's a good one) | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,114 | Question inspired by personal current events. I was drinking wine when around half an hour ago my cat started acting weird. Realized she was hearing something. Turned on the lights and my ceiling was leaking. Went upstairs to my 2nd floor apartment neighbors to inform them their washer was likely leaking. I know they smoke. I tried really hard to not seem Friday night drunk. They tried really hard not to seem Friday night high. Many overly normal words were exchanged before we agreed the situation was unpreferable and we should both call after hours maintenance. When I went up later with extra towels her partner seemed delightfully in awe of my averagely absorbant towels.
So that's how I met my neighbors.
My story had nothing to do with being a lesbian, but maybe yours does. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,115 | racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, "hate". Need I go on? | Transphobic | Ask_Politics | Comment | Reddit |
3,116 | 1st operation will be just forehead and hair transplants, as my face is hiding my jaw, but if i lose enough weight, a jaw/nose op will be needed, followed by a lower face lift.
Fun times! :) | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,117 | Can't say I know anything personally, but she seems to have more negative reviews than most surgeons
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,182422.0.html
http://www.tgboards.com/forums/viewtopic.php?f=15&t=18747
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,218605.0.html
http://gendercube.tumblr.com/post/122393463527/bottom-surgery-information-kathy-rumer
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=225248.0
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,229593.0.html | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,118 | How much did it end up costing, and when should you be recovered enough to speak? Also, how different do/will you sound? | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,119 | Can you share some of the bad McGinn reviews/experiences you've read? | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,120 | Wrong sub, you'll probably want to head over to /r/asktransgender or just google it. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,121 | It’s finallllly November y’all!!
For those of you in the US: are you looking forward to Thanksgiving, or dreading it? Will you be visiting family? Is your family supportive of you?
For those not in the US: how are you doing this month? Any fun plans? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,122 | I had surgery with Dr. Deschamps-Braly, and my result turned out better than the virtual FFS stuff he did during my consultation. I still can't quite wrap my head around the outcome | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,123 | I'm going with Facial Team in Marbella in mid-Feb. I can give you the answers that FT gave me. Swelling: typically 4 weeks for most of the swelling to go down but the rest can take up to one year. Shave: 24 hours after. Makeup: light makeup after 1 week. Electrolysis: 6 to 8 weeks. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,124 | Take the list to your Dr and ask for those tests.
Your biochem panel is just a basic metabolic panel. It should include your glucose, creatinine, electrolytes (which they're saying ions), and your liver enzymes (ALT, AST, etc) | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,125 | Hi! So, I’m in a polyamorous relationship that is very stable, we’ve been together for a couple years. We don’t like sex with each other but I do go out with other people who I do have sexual desire for, but haven’t actually had sex. When we’re about to or close to doing it, I just panic and don’t know what to do, so I stop right before it happens, we usually agree on masturbating in front of each other which to me is very comfortable, not sure if I’m scared of being touched or if it’s that I don’t like it. I enjoy watching lesbian porn and desire to do it. Is there something wrong? Or is anyone else like that as well?
I’m 24 and I have had sex before when I was a teen but with men before finding out I was a lesbian. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,126 | If I had money to give I would give it to PP. The people of Puerto Rico still need a lot of help and half the island is still without electricity but I don't know a good like charity. I'll have to look into that. All I know is don't give money to the Red Cross. | Not Transphobic | GenderCriticalGuys | Comment | Reddit |
3,127 | It might not make a difference for penile inversion, but for scrotal skin graft method of SRS, having an orchiectomy beforehand is not good. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,128 | Have you seen this?
https://www.reddit.com/r/Transgender_Surgeries/comments/5xd28p/a_collection_of_links_to_photos_of_srs_results/
I don't think small labia is difficult, plenty of cis women have surgery to get them. It's forming them properly that's difficult. For example
https://www.realself.com/question/seattle-wa-labiaplasty-trim-barbie-method
You can see the effect if not doing in properly in some srs results. It looks very odd. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,129 | Better late than never!
This is the place to share all your lesbian memes, or any other image that wouldn't be considered its own post but you'd love to share! As long as images are respectful, feel free to share any content you'd like - even if it's not specifically related to lesbian humor (we're all people, too!)
Reminder: [Imgur](https://imgur.com/) is a great hosting site for sharing images via links in threads. Please be mindful of your username if it is different than your reddit handle, and to choose whether you would like your post to be public or hidden. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,130 | I'm sure there's many who would be interested. He's a very popular surgeon. I'll add a link from from this page if you do
https://www.reddit.com/r/Transgender_Surgeries/comments/5xd28p/a_collection_of_links_to_photos_of_srs_results/ | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,131 | Are you the type to spend an hour in front of the mirror and enjoy the process of a full-face or styled hair? Or do you prefer to go au naturale? How often do you deviate from this routine and do something different? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,132 | Remember, remember, the ~~fifth~~ sixth of November.
I've been so distracted with 'His Dark Materials' discussions now that the first episode is out, that I forgot yesterday was the 5th of November!
So if you've never seen the movie 'V for Vendetta' there is some unexpected lesbian content in the form of flashback scenes. I recommend it if you've never seen it before :). | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,133 | Well done! It would help a bit if you could use some formatting to make it easier to read. There's a "formattng help" link at the bottom of the editing box that shows the commands. Making the titles bold would be good. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,134 | Sparked by a chatroom convo. Give us your winter reading list. What are some favorites? Old and new, lesbian or lady loving books. Hit us with it. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,135 | I’ve heard he’s licensed in a few states, like Michigan. That’s about all I’ve found when I looked into it.. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,136 | What is the opening facing upwards? Is it the urethral opening?
I don't see a urethral opening elsewhere, so I guess so. But if it's the case, then it's a bit strange because it looks your pee would shoot in front instead of directly down the toilet. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,137 | biggest regret : It was the first day of my internship at Lahore’s Fountain House. I was sitting next to Doctor Saima, project manager of the Khawaja Sara Rehabilitation Program, preparing myself for the task (biggest regret of transgender) I was about to undertake: interview a khawaja sara. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,138 | I watched it maybe seven years ago as a baby gay, I should probably watch it again soon because I don't remember very much 😅
I sometimes found it a bit superficial, and it is a product of its time, but I still liked it a lot. It's the only TV series that I know of that *focuses* on lesbians. And I totally fell in love with Jennifer Beals as Bette 😉
I will also watch the reboot if I can find it anywhere online (I'm not American so I don't think it will be broadcasted on a network service I can access). I think it will be interesting! I hope they still keep focusing on lesbian women, or bisexual women dating women. The sapphic experience, so to say. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,139 | You need to go through your primary care Dr to give you a referral to a Dr who does these surgeries. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,140 | Oh bloody hell, it helps when you actually add the link to the results. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,141 | do you have surgeons in mind? I wonder if it would differ very much from surgeon to surgeon. this would be a great question to ask in a consultation | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,142 | This makes me so, so angry. Rose is speaking about HER experience and HER rape, and somebody comes in yelling at her for not centering THEIR issues. Rose was speaking on a female experience, and it got derailed by a male. Because she wasn't being "inclusive." When she has no obligation to. I just don't even know what to say, except I'm disgusted and I am going to buy her book. | Transphobic | GenderCriticalGuys | Comment | Reddit |
3,143 | Once your file is complete the wait time varies it seems, I'm not exactly sure what's happening with Brassard. My best guess would be the change to from only going through CAMH had opened the flood gates and their overwhelmed with applications.
I applied in February 2017 with the new process and complete my file late fall. (I had problems with my family doctor's recommendation) Once my file was complete I only had to wait two weeks to get my surgery date.
I have a few friends who started a few months after me.... And they completed their file around the same time as me, but they still haven't gotten a date yet. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,144 | I have no experience nor never heard much about those two in my 15+ years of Surgeon research. I have my upcoming GCS with Dr Chett in Thailand.
It took me 10 years to finally decide on my Choice.
You need to research your choice thoroughly before you make a decision. Good Luck. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,145 | My first guess would be that they compiled their list before the murder occurred, and didn't get around to updating the list, since it was so late in the year ... also these types of lists are not usually complete and accurate, so there are probably several more not included, simply because no-one forwarded the news report | Not Transphobic | GenderCriticalGuys | Comment | Reddit |
3,146 | Unlike domestic flights, there is no additional fee for checked baggage for international flights. So there’s really no reason not to have both a carry on bag and checked luggage. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,147 | This is a very strange post and written in a very odd way. There's vast numbers of trans women going to Thailand and reporting excellent care. To argue against that, if that's what this is, totally lacks credibility. I can't help but think this post has some kind of bizarre agenda behind it. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,148 | Holy moly! Fantastic results.
Do you feel that you are gaining more range and vocal strength as time goes on or have you fully healed? | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,149 | The biggest obstacle is that because the Mullerian ducts disappear during gestation for most AMAB individuals, there's no ready source of stem cells for the transplant. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,150 | Do you need 1 year RLE the day of the surgery or do you need 1 year RLE just to get the consultation or book the appointment? | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,151 | My girlfriend and I are currently hunting to find the worst Christmas jumpers ever, to give to each other on the 1st of December. I was wondering what other silly or funny things do other couples do! | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,152 | Honestly, it’s better than the hotel. The rooms are big and comfy, there are heaps of nursing staff who are skilled and receituve, and there was room for me, my partner, and tte clinic nurse to sleep comfortably in the room overnight | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,153 | They sent my file to the pre-surgical team two weeks ago, so I'll share my experiences when I hear back. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,154 | If y'all are trying to figure out what to get for your SO this Christmas, I recommend a [Bond Touch](https://www.bond-touch.com/). It's a pair of little plastic thingies on bracelets, and they sync with your phone via Bluetooth. You gently tap the top, and the other paired wrist thingie buzzes and vibrates. In other words when you're thinking about each other, you just tap the top and a few seconds later your SO knows because her wrist is vibrating.
It may sound silly, but the tactile feedback knowing that she's thinking about me is really, *really* nice, especially when I'm missing her when she's away on a business trip.
disclaimer: I don't work for the company, no that's not an affiliate link, etc etc. I just love my Bond Touch. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,155 | Thanks for posting. I added a link from here
https://www.reddit.com/r/Transgender_Surgeries/comments/5xd28p/a_collection_of_links_to_photos_of_srs_results/ | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,156 | You pass to me already ¯\\_(ツ)_/¯
I don't think you need any chin work at all, your jaw line is very feminine. Your hairline isn't overly high, in fact I would say it's right where it should be. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,157 | Anyone here with some stories of having people who support you and other LGBT people but it's unexpected? For example my dad is a middle aged conservative bible belt republican man and he loves me as I am (okay, it took a little time but he's now 100% pro lesbian me). My best friend is also a straight, conservative male and just asked me today if he wanted me to have him ask his butch coworker if she's single. I frequent a small town biker bar nearby where all the old cowboy hat wearing men know I'm gay and are chill with it. Any of you have funny/weird stories of finding allies or support in unexpected people and places? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,158 | We all know the Subaru is the iconic lesbian ride, but what are some cars to you that scream lesbian? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,159 | I can't imagine what you are going through, but if the healing process does end up finishing well it looks like the end result will look great. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,160 | Your post seems to be in the wrong subreddit but I'll respond anyway.
You're likely a size 8 but that depends on your hips and butt. Men's waist size measures lower (near hips) than women's. You need to measure your high waist (just above your belly button) and use that as your waist measurement. Then check that against size charts for the clothing you're looking at. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,161 | 356.000 TBH for SRS alone in 2018. I was scheduled and agreed on in mid 2017. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,162 | This is not your first time posting here and each time you make it clear that your appearance consumes you. Your reason for transition was to look a certain way and your reason to detransition is to look a certain way. This is not a healthy mentality.
Take it from someone who struggles with self-worth and self-respect. The way you look is genetically coded. You can't change it without taking drastic medical steps. After which, you may not feel any better about yourself. Strive to be healthy take it from there. You are the only "you" that you've got. | Transphobic | GenderCriticalGuys | Comment | Reddit |
3,163 | You plan on going to Brassard? May I ask why? I hear bad things about him. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,164 | Heard really good things about Deschamps-Braly. https://deschamps-braly.com/ | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,165 | I assume you've already seen the photos on her site?
http://drchristinemcginn.com/
I'm a patient of hers, about 7 weeks post op. Very happy with the results. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,166 | You can afford HRT with a couple hundred bucks. Other than that, I'm not sure what you're asking | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,167 | Same question for me.... I just had my 2 letters sent to the UofM program... but I can’t find anything about the surgeon, Dr. Kuzon. I contacted them and their response was they don’t have or show pictures. And I can’t find any reviews either good or bad. I live very close as well and I hope I can make this work. They said they would schedule my first consult in the next few weeks... I’ll let you know what I learn! ~Joelle | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,168 | The flip answer is "Only if you're a real masochist. " It's a very bad idea.
The practical answer is "Only if you use the same doctor to do both." And *that's* probably a bad idea too.
I would bet that the odds of finding a doctor (or doctors) willing to perform this combination is so close to zero as to make no difference. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,169 | its reviews of him on susans (im banned on there after i deleted my account ) | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,170 | Blue Cross Blue Shield MA covers a lot including most of ffs. In the process of trying to get that to happen
https://www.bluecrossma.com/common/en_US/medical_policies/189%20Transgender%20Services%20prn.pdf | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,171 | I would say that this does depend on the technique of your selected surgeon, but whatever the answer to this might be I would like to mention that not everybody with a built-in *vagina* is able to self lubricate to the point where no external use of lube would be necessary anymore and it is no shame to use it :)
It would not make you any less of a woman. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,172 | While you can't completely remove it (it is something cis women have as well though it's usually much smaller) you can get a tracheal shave from a lot of different places all over that essentially does what you're looking for. It is a process that cuts away some of the excess cartilage that makes up the Adam's apple making it substantially less visible. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,173 | I spent months agonising over this decision and have ended up going with Chet. Largely because I know more about him and can get a trachea shave in the same op. I decided against my first choice, Suporn because of all the madness with booking with him right now. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,174 | Call to confirm the paperwork was received, don’t mention the hospitalization, and book a flight would be my course of action | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,175 | I guess you've already read this post today?
https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/8ey05n/sooooo_uhhh_the_inside_of_my_right_inner_labia/
You can get genital electrolysis in Sydney if you really need to. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,176 | Hi, what is your question exactly? I am scheduled for minimum depth in July. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,177 | Doing much better. I can go out and have fun again. I can’t jog or anything of course but I get around comfortably. I dilate when I can and I’m slowly developing a routine which doesn’t confine me to my home.
Won’t shave anything until maybe 4-5 months post op.
AMA | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,178 | Went to Dr Raphael in Plano but not for SRS; Can say we did look through his portfolio of SRS results and they looked great.
If you dropped in for a consult they'd no doubt share same with you
Dr Raphael's an outstanding surgeon and all around great guy imo. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,179 | You should for at least 6 months after the FFS, and then I would consult your surgeon for advice on this. Most FFS's take a year for all the swelling and changes to actually change and show the real you.
And then HRT still makes changes to the skin and face, you might want to wait a year or more before jumping on changes to see what you get for free.
Just my two cents, but you should wait sometime... | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,180 | Mine was just a hair over a year, and I’m happy hat I did. I may still get a second look at my chin, but it’s not really a burning issue. Good luck with everything. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,181 | Nurse here. Yes, HRT, especially E, can increase your risk of clotting and stroke. The risk is real, even if you're young and healthy. Do what your surgeon says. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,182 | I took a Lyft earlier today and my driver got to talking about relationships and dating. I used neutral pronouns to talk about the girl I'm seeing and she gave me some pretty decent advice I appreciated.
It got a bit awkward when she started talking about cheating men and heads of households but I brushed that off lol.
Has anyone done something similar? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,183 | Honestly identify your desired surgeon. Call and see what the wait list is. Plan based on that. You may want surgery in the next 2 years but your desired surgeon could be booked 3 years out. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,184 | She and I are getting married next year. We've decided not to hyphenate our last names as that's pretty annoying.
So, do I take her surname, or she mine? How do you decide? Neither of us is particularly attached to our families so neither surname has a great personal value. Do you choose based off of who has to reprint fewer business cards? Which combination sounds better? Shorter to type? Easier to pronounce? Flip a coin?
This has turned into a weirdly frustrating problem. Please help. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,185 | Dr. Whittenberg at MosiacCare should have a lower waiting list.
Dr. Satterwhite at Brownstein Crane I think is about a year, but call to confirm. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,186 | It varies by surgeon.
You're better off booking a consult with a preview with a surgeon you want to use.
Otherwise, there is VirtualFFS online: http://www.virtualffs.co.uk/ | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,187 | Off topic, but might I ask why you would choose Brassard over other doctors? | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,188 | Don't save money on surgery! The risk of complications and problems during recovery are very real.
As for vocal surgery specifically, I know there are some people who have benefited from it, but for the majority of people I know voice training alone (budgeting $300-$1,000 depending on where you go) has been better, and you still need it anyway if you have surgery. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,189 | I don’t know about y’all but when the weather gets all dark and moody, I get dark and moody. I really have no reason. My birthday is in a few days, work is killing it, have some really great friends and support system. But it’s been ugly and rainy and I’m feeling like blah.
Anyone got some pro tips on how to break my blah moods that come with the blah weather? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,190 | Congrata thats awesome! Ive been trying to get in as well but gatekeeping is a bitch... | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,191 | Just a comment to tag. I’m interested in the answers too. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,192 | Just seeing if they're any other film buffs on here. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,193 | Medical science has not been able to get the "act" part completely figured out yet. They are about 50%\-60% there. The look part they have down, but the function part is sorta there. You can reasonably expect a normal looking vagina that is fully usable with comprise\(s\) involved.
You will need to be sexually active and/or dilate for the rest of your life and you will need lube as well for any sexual use. There is no real way yet medically to have a vaginal tissue in the neo\-vagina, once medical science can figure this out, trans folks will be in better shape who seek srs.
But until this happens, the best you can hope for is looks and with comprise, sexual use.
Just to be clear, having kids is out of the question unless you are inter\-sexed, which I suspect you are not. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,194 | It is highly recommended. Just imagine what is on the outside will be on the inside after surgery. They do shave the layer of skin which contains hair follicles, but it doesn't guarantee all the hair will be removed. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,195 | Thanks for doing this! I submitted my paperwork about a month ago | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,196 | What were your circumstances going in if you don't mind saying? If I couldn't get at least most of an average sized penis in me I feel like it might make me think twice despite really wanting srs. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,197 | I had a tear on the bottom right lip at my 3 week mark and I'm still dealing with a lot of granulation tissue. Lots of blood, lots of pain.
3 weeks is when the problems like this start. The issue is the suteres are fading and the collagen has not yet developed to hold it all in place.
I used medihoney to help this along. Yes it will heal, but the body needs time to fix it. Depending on exactly how it heals you and your surgeon can decide if some post surgical corrections are needed.
Fwiw I used vitamin c to accelerate collagen growth. I got the chewables and took 1000 units in the morning and then another 1000 units before bed. Total of 4 chewables a day. Do your own research and ask your surgeon on collagen growth and see if this is something that can benefit you.
Best of luck and hoping for a speedy recovery. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,198 | Your surgeon would be the only person to be able to answer if this is an issue or not. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,199 | Was going to but my insurance only would pay half the costs so I went to Chett instead.
I think we go to the same endo tho | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,200 | There was galaflex on another sub
https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/8k5yoi/ama_3_years_hrt_and_i_had_my_breast_augmentation/dz56ml9/ | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
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