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### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"EVER SINCE THIS PANDEMIC HAS EMERGED IT JUST SEEMS LIKE THINGS HAVE BEEN GOING DOWN INSTEAD OF UP. PRIOR TO THE PANDEMIC, I HAD A JOB OF 10 YEARS, CHILDREN WERE GROWING INTO TEENAGERS, AND THE HUSBAND WAS OUT OF TOWN WORKING AS HE HAS DONE OUR ENTIRE 21 YEAR MARRIAGE. WELL SINCE THE PANDEMIC, I WAS IMMEDIATELY LET GO AT WORK. THE TEENAGERS WERE SCENTENCED TO DITIGITAL LEARNING AND MY HUSBAND DID EVERYTHING HE COULD POSSIBLY DO TO HOLD THE ONLY JOB AND INCOME THE WAS COMING INTO THE HOME. BUT EVENTUALLY JUST A MONTH AGO THAT WAS TAKEN OUT FROM UNDER US AS WELL. I DIDNT MIND NOT WORKING ALTHOUGH IT WAS AN ESCAPE FROM MY MOTHERLY DUTIES AND THE REALITY OF BEING A FULL TIME WIFE. BUT NOW THAT WE HAVE REACHED JUST OVER A YEAR OF THE PANDEMIC IT HAS BROKEN ME DOWN IN SO MANY WAYS IT FEELS LIKE. THE WHOLE YEAR WITH JUST THE HUSBAND WORKING WEVE STRUGGLED TO PUT FOOD ON THE TABLE AND PAY THE MONTHLY EXPENSES THAT COME WITH THE ADULT LIFE AND NOW IM A MESS". | sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Im tired how are you
sys : (Question) I'm good but what makes you tired?
usr : I dont sleep well anymore. Doctor says its part of the depression. Up 4 or 5 times a night. Eventually i give up and just stay up
sys : (Question) What makes you depressed?
usr : Life!!!!! Bills!!! Feels like im drowning instead of keeping my head above the water!!!
usr : I feel like ill be okay though!!! I still have a little bit of positiveness in my head
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will be able to keep your head above the water thats the spirit!
usr : Just keep swimming right? Lol
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Keep that positivity inside your head :)
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) And lol yeah do that
usr : Will do thanks for the encouragment.
usr : It helps
sys : (Others) Yeah do your best :)
sys : (Others) Your welcome!
usr : God bless you
usr : Hope all is well
usr : Stay safe suring ths crazy pandemic
sys : (Others) God bless you aswell :) I hope you get through this
usr : During
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You aswell stay safe
usr : Im from florida where are you from?
sys : (Others) Im from new york
usr : Ah ive been to new york once. Just before all this stuff with the pandemic started. Very pretty state
usr : Traveled trough it a few times as well
| (Information) Yeah new york is a bit crowded than many other states, but its good |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"EVER SINCE THIS PANDEMIC HAS EMERGED IT JUST SEEMS LIKE THINGS HAVE BEEN GOING DOWN INSTEAD OF UP. PRIOR TO THE PANDEMIC, I HAD A JOB OF 10 YEARS, CHILDREN WERE GROWING INTO TEENAGERS, AND THE HUSBAND WAS OUT OF TOWN WORKING AS HE HAS DONE OUR ENTIRE 21 YEAR MARRIAGE. WELL SINCE THE PANDEMIC, I WAS IMMEDIATELY LET GO AT WORK. THE TEENAGERS WERE SCENTENCED TO DITIGITAL LEARNING AND MY HUSBAND DID EVERYTHING HE COULD POSSIBLY DO TO HOLD THE ONLY JOB AND INCOME THE WAS COMING INTO THE HOME. BUT EVENTUALLY JUST A MONTH AGO THAT WAS TAKEN OUT FROM UNDER US AS WELL. I DIDNT MIND NOT WORKING ALTHOUGH IT WAS AN ESCAPE FROM MY MOTHERLY DUTIES AND THE REALITY OF BEING A FULL TIME WIFE. BUT NOW THAT WE HAVE REACHED JUST OVER A YEAR OF THE PANDEMIC IT HAS BROKEN ME DOWN IN SO MANY WAYS IT FEELS LIKE. THE WHOLE YEAR WITH JUST THE HUSBAND WORKING WEVE STRUGGLED TO PUT FOOD ON THE TABLE AND PAY THE MONTHLY EXPENSES THAT COME WITH THE ADULT LIFE AND NOW IM A MESS". | sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Im tired how are you
sys : (Question) I'm good but what makes you tired?
usr : I dont sleep well anymore. Doctor says its part of the depression. Up 4 or 5 times a night. Eventually i give up and just stay up
sys : (Question) What makes you depressed?
usr : Life!!!!! Bills!!! Feels like im drowning instead of keeping my head above the water!!!
usr : I feel like ill be okay though!!! I still have a little bit of positiveness in my head
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will be able to keep your head above the water thats the spirit!
usr : Just keep swimming right? Lol
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Keep that positivity inside your head :)
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) And lol yeah do that
usr : Will do thanks for the encouragment.
usr : It helps
sys : (Others) Yeah do your best :)
sys : (Others) Your welcome!
usr : God bless you
usr : Hope all is well
usr : Stay safe suring ths crazy pandemic
sys : (Others) God bless you aswell :) I hope you get through this
usr : During
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You aswell stay safe
usr : Im from florida where are you from?
sys : (Others) Im from new york
usr : Ah ive been to new york once. Just before all this stuff with the pandemic started. Very pretty state
usr : Traveled trough it a few times as well
sys : (Information) Yeah new york is a bit crowded than many other states, but its good
usr : Flordia isnt far behind it but it has a ways to go to catch up. It was nice chatting with you. Hope your day is great
| (Others) Hope you have a good day too |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"I drank too much and don't remember what happened last night.". | (Question) Hi there, what's going on today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"I drank too much and don't remember what happened last night.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, what's going on today?
usr : Not great. I think I have a problem with alcohol.
| (Question) How so? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"I drank too much and don't remember what happened last night.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, what's going on today?
usr : Not great. I think I have a problem with alcohol.
sys : (Question) How so?
usr : I've been drinking a lot and some mornings I wake up not remembering the night before.
| (Self-disclosure) I have done that myself, but being self aware is an advantage not many people have. How long has this been happening? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"I drank too much and don't remember what happened last night.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, what's going on today?
usr : Not great. I think I have a problem with alcohol.
sys : (Question) How so?
usr : I've been drinking a lot and some mornings I wake up not remembering the night before.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have done that myself, but being self aware is an advantage not many people have. How long has this been happening?
usr : A couple of months on and off, but it's gotten a lot worse the last couple of weeks.
usr : I'm afraid I'm going down a bad road, but I don't know how to stop.
| (Reflection of feelings) These are not the best times... but lets dig deeper to the root of this new behavior. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"I drank too much and don't remember what happened last night.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, what's going on today?
usr : Not great. I think I have a problem with alcohol.
sys : (Question) How so?
usr : I've been drinking a lot and some mornings I wake up not remembering the night before.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have done that myself, but being self aware is an advantage not many people have. How long has this been happening?
usr : A couple of months on and off, but it's gotten a lot worse the last couple of weeks.
usr : I'm afraid I'm going down a bad road, but I don't know how to stop.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) These are not the best times... but lets dig deeper to the root of this new behavior.
usr : How do we do that?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I have been down that road myself, and I didn't have anyone to help me. But luckily, you have resources and support. Help me understand what makes you drink? Is it a trigger like stress? Or just a habit? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"I drank too much and don't remember what happened last night.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, what's going on today?
usr : Not great. I think I have a problem with alcohol.
sys : (Question) How so?
usr : I've been drinking a lot and some mornings I wake up not remembering the night before.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have done that myself, but being self aware is an advantage not many people have. How long has this been happening?
usr : A couple of months on and off, but it's gotten a lot worse the last couple of weeks.
usr : I'm afraid I'm going down a bad road, but I don't know how to stop.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) These are not the best times... but lets dig deeper to the root of this new behavior.
usr : How do we do that?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I have been down that road myself, and I didn't have anyone to help me. But luckily, you have resources and support. Help me understand what makes you drink? Is it a trigger like stress? Or just a habit?
usr : Work has been stressful, but I feel like was before things got bad. Most nights I come home to drink so that I can forget about my day.
| (Question) What do you do for work? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"I drank too much and don't remember what happened last night.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, what's going on today?
usr : Not great. I think I have a problem with alcohol.
sys : (Question) How so?
usr : I've been drinking a lot and some mornings I wake up not remembering the night before.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have done that myself, but being self aware is an advantage not many people have. How long has this been happening?
usr : A couple of months on and off, but it's gotten a lot worse the last couple of weeks.
usr : I'm afraid I'm going down a bad road, but I don't know how to stop.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) These are not the best times... but lets dig deeper to the root of this new behavior.
usr : How do we do that?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I have been down that road myself, and I didn't have anyone to help me. But luckily, you have resources and support. Help me understand what makes you drink? Is it a trigger like stress? Or just a habit?
usr : Work has been stressful, but I feel like was before things got bad. Most nights I come home to drink so that I can forget about my day.
sys : (Question) What do you do for work?
usr : I work in finance at a large corporation.
| (Reflection of feelings) Oh I can definitely understand your reasoning. I am not justifying your behavior, but at least we see now, it goes hand in hand. The corporate dinner parties and cocktail hours.. it is usually much deeper than the surface |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"I drank too much and don't remember what happened last night.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, what's going on today?
usr : Not great. I think I have a problem with alcohol.
sys : (Question) How so?
usr : I've been drinking a lot and some mornings I wake up not remembering the night before.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have done that myself, but being self aware is an advantage not many people have. How long has this been happening?
usr : A couple of months on and off, but it's gotten a lot worse the last couple of weeks.
usr : I'm afraid I'm going down a bad road, but I don't know how to stop.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) These are not the best times... but lets dig deeper to the root of this new behavior.
usr : How do we do that?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I have been down that road myself, and I didn't have anyone to help me. But luckily, you have resources and support. Help me understand what makes you drink? Is it a trigger like stress? Or just a habit?
usr : Work has been stressful, but I feel like was before things got bad. Most nights I come home to drink so that I can forget about my day.
sys : (Question) What do you do for work?
usr : I work in finance at a large corporation.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh I can definitely understand your reasoning. I am not justifying your behavior, but at least we see now, it goes hand in hand. The corporate dinner parties and cocktail hours.. it is usually much deeper than the surface
usr : Hmm. I never thought of it that way.
usr : I guess maybe I need to look into how such events affect me.
| (Providing Suggestions) Usually when I find myself going off the deep end, I can reign it back by realizing that the power lies in me. My control to use a relaxer like a cocktail hour, to just be that. It does not have to be a contest. It should make you feel good, then leave it. But if you cannot control it, try and de-stress another way like baths or massages |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"I drank too much and don't remember what happened last night.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, what's going on today?
usr : Not great. I think I have a problem with alcohol.
sys : (Question) How so?
usr : I've been drinking a lot and some mornings I wake up not remembering the night before.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have done that myself, but being self aware is an advantage not many people have. How long has this been happening?
usr : A couple of months on and off, but it's gotten a lot worse the last couple of weeks.
usr : I'm afraid I'm going down a bad road, but I don't know how to stop.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) These are not the best times... but lets dig deeper to the root of this new behavior.
usr : How do we do that?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I have been down that road myself, and I didn't have anyone to help me. But luckily, you have resources and support. Help me understand what makes you drink? Is it a trigger like stress? Or just a habit?
usr : Work has been stressful, but I feel like was before things got bad. Most nights I come home to drink so that I can forget about my day.
sys : (Question) What do you do for work?
usr : I work in finance at a large corporation.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh I can definitely understand your reasoning. I am not justifying your behavior, but at least we see now, it goes hand in hand. The corporate dinner parties and cocktail hours.. it is usually much deeper than the surface
usr : Hmm. I never thought of it that way.
usr : I guess maybe I need to look into how such events affect me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Usually when I find myself going off the deep end, I can reign it back by realizing that the power lies in me. My control to use a relaxer like a cocktail hour, to just be that. It does not have to be a contest. It should make you feel good, then leave it. But if you cannot control it, try and de-stress another way like baths or massages
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds like you are pretty self aware, which is a great short cut to this dilemma. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"I drank too much and don't remember what happened last night.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, what's going on today?
usr : Not great. I think I have a problem with alcohol.
sys : (Question) How so?
usr : I've been drinking a lot and some mornings I wake up not remembering the night before.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have done that myself, but being self aware is an advantage not many people have. How long has this been happening?
usr : A couple of months on and off, but it's gotten a lot worse the last couple of weeks.
usr : I'm afraid I'm going down a bad road, but I don't know how to stop.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) These are not the best times... but lets dig deeper to the root of this new behavior.
usr : How do we do that?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I have been down that road myself, and I didn't have anyone to help me. But luckily, you have resources and support. Help me understand what makes you drink? Is it a trigger like stress? Or just a habit?
usr : Work has been stressful, but I feel like was before things got bad. Most nights I come home to drink so that I can forget about my day.
sys : (Question) What do you do for work?
usr : I work in finance at a large corporation.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh I can definitely understand your reasoning. I am not justifying your behavior, but at least we see now, it goes hand in hand. The corporate dinner parties and cocktail hours.. it is usually much deeper than the surface
usr : Hmm. I never thought of it that way.
usr : I guess maybe I need to look into how such events affect me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Usually when I find myself going off the deep end, I can reign it back by realizing that the power lies in me. My control to use a relaxer like a cocktail hour, to just be that. It does not have to be a contest. It should make you feel good, then leave it. But if you cannot control it, try and de-stress another way like baths or massages
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds like you are pretty self aware, which is a great short cut to this dilemma.
| (Providing Suggestions) You can use this to your advantage, and make more conscious choices to better your life |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"I drank too much and don't remember what happened last night.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, what's going on today?
usr : Not great. I think I have a problem with alcohol.
sys : (Question) How so?
usr : I've been drinking a lot and some mornings I wake up not remembering the night before.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have done that myself, but being self aware is an advantage not many people have. How long has this been happening?
usr : A couple of months on and off, but it's gotten a lot worse the last couple of weeks.
usr : I'm afraid I'm going down a bad road, but I don't know how to stop.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) These are not the best times... but lets dig deeper to the root of this new behavior.
usr : How do we do that?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I have been down that road myself, and I didn't have anyone to help me. But luckily, you have resources and support. Help me understand what makes you drink? Is it a trigger like stress? Or just a habit?
usr : Work has been stressful, but I feel like was before things got bad. Most nights I come home to drink so that I can forget about my day.
sys : (Question) What do you do for work?
usr : I work in finance at a large corporation.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh I can definitely understand your reasoning. I am not justifying your behavior, but at least we see now, it goes hand in hand. The corporate dinner parties and cocktail hours.. it is usually much deeper than the surface
usr : Hmm. I never thought of it that way.
usr : I guess maybe I need to look into how such events affect me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Usually when I find myself going off the deep end, I can reign it back by realizing that the power lies in me. My control to use a relaxer like a cocktail hour, to just be that. It does not have to be a contest. It should make you feel good, then leave it. But if you cannot control it, try and de-stress another way like baths or massages
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds like you are pretty self aware, which is a great short cut to this dilemma.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You can use this to your advantage, and make more conscious choices to better your life
usr : Yeah, that makes sense.
usr : I think I understand the problem I have much better now.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That is great, please share with me your findings |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"I drank too much and don't remember what happened last night.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, what's going on today?
usr : Not great. I think I have a problem with alcohol.
sys : (Question) How so?
usr : I've been drinking a lot and some mornings I wake up not remembering the night before.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have done that myself, but being self aware is an advantage not many people have. How long has this been happening?
usr : A couple of months on and off, but it's gotten a lot worse the last couple of weeks.
usr : I'm afraid I'm going down a bad road, but I don't know how to stop.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) These are not the best times... but lets dig deeper to the root of this new behavior.
usr : How do we do that?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I have been down that road myself, and I didn't have anyone to help me. But luckily, you have resources and support. Help me understand what makes you drink? Is it a trigger like stress? Or just a habit?
usr : Work has been stressful, but I feel like was before things got bad. Most nights I come home to drink so that I can forget about my day.
sys : (Question) What do you do for work?
usr : I work in finance at a large corporation.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh I can definitely understand your reasoning. I am not justifying your behavior, but at least we see now, it goes hand in hand. The corporate dinner parties and cocktail hours.. it is usually much deeper than the surface
usr : Hmm. I never thought of it that way.
usr : I guess maybe I need to look into how such events affect me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Usually when I find myself going off the deep end, I can reign it back by realizing that the power lies in me. My control to use a relaxer like a cocktail hour, to just be that. It does not have to be a contest. It should make you feel good, then leave it. But if you cannot control it, try and de-stress another way like baths or massages
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds like you are pretty self aware, which is a great short cut to this dilemma.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You can use this to your advantage, and make more conscious choices to better your life
usr : Yeah, that makes sense.
usr : I think I understand the problem I have much better now.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That is great, please share with me your findings
usr : Honestly, I don't feel like I fit in at my job. I get concerned that my coworkers like me better after I've had a few drinks and loosened up a bit. But there's been more stress lately and I've been pushing it a lot more.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is easy to get side tracked by ego especially in that field. Try to stay focused and remember why you are there. You aren't there to impress Jim. You are there to make money and achieve your goals. As long as your eyes stay on the goal, the rest will follow. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"I drank too much and don't remember what happened last night.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, what's going on today?
usr : Not great. I think I have a problem with alcohol.
sys : (Question) How so?
usr : I've been drinking a lot and some mornings I wake up not remembering the night before.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have done that myself, but being self aware is an advantage not many people have. How long has this been happening?
usr : A couple of months on and off, but it's gotten a lot worse the last couple of weeks.
usr : I'm afraid I'm going down a bad road, but I don't know how to stop.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) These are not the best times... but lets dig deeper to the root of this new behavior.
usr : How do we do that?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I have been down that road myself, and I didn't have anyone to help me. But luckily, you have resources and support. Help me understand what makes you drink? Is it a trigger like stress? Or just a habit?
usr : Work has been stressful, but I feel like was before things got bad. Most nights I come home to drink so that I can forget about my day.
sys : (Question) What do you do for work?
usr : I work in finance at a large corporation.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh I can definitely understand your reasoning. I am not justifying your behavior, but at least we see now, it goes hand in hand. The corporate dinner parties and cocktail hours.. it is usually much deeper than the surface
usr : Hmm. I never thought of it that way.
usr : I guess maybe I need to look into how such events affect me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Usually when I find myself going off the deep end, I can reign it back by realizing that the power lies in me. My control to use a relaxer like a cocktail hour, to just be that. It does not have to be a contest. It should make you feel good, then leave it. But if you cannot control it, try and de-stress another way like baths or massages
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds like you are pretty self aware, which is a great short cut to this dilemma.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You can use this to your advantage, and make more conscious choices to better your life
usr : Yeah, that makes sense.
usr : I think I understand the problem I have much better now.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That is great, please share with me your findings
usr : Honestly, I don't feel like I fit in at my job. I get concerned that my coworkers like me better after I've had a few drinks and loosened up a bit. But there's been more stress lately and I've been pushing it a lot more.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is easy to get side tracked by ego especially in that field. Try to stay focused and remember why you are there. You aren't there to impress Jim. You are there to make money and achieve your goals. As long as your eyes stay on the goal, the rest will follow.
usr : Yeah. That makes sense. Thanks for your support.
| (Reflection of feelings) You are a strong individual and I am here for you. You inspire me to do better!! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"I drank too much and don't remember what happened last night.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, what's going on today?
usr : Not great. I think I have a problem with alcohol.
sys : (Question) How so?
usr : I've been drinking a lot and some mornings I wake up not remembering the night before.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have done that myself, but being self aware is an advantage not many people have. How long has this been happening?
usr : A couple of months on and off, but it's gotten a lot worse the last couple of weeks.
usr : I'm afraid I'm going down a bad road, but I don't know how to stop.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) These are not the best times... but lets dig deeper to the root of this new behavior.
usr : How do we do that?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I have been down that road myself, and I didn't have anyone to help me. But luckily, you have resources and support. Help me understand what makes you drink? Is it a trigger like stress? Or just a habit?
usr : Work has been stressful, but I feel like was before things got bad. Most nights I come home to drink so that I can forget about my day.
sys : (Question) What do you do for work?
usr : I work in finance at a large corporation.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh I can definitely understand your reasoning. I am not justifying your behavior, but at least we see now, it goes hand in hand. The corporate dinner parties and cocktail hours.. it is usually much deeper than the surface
usr : Hmm. I never thought of it that way.
usr : I guess maybe I need to look into how such events affect me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Usually when I find myself going off the deep end, I can reign it back by realizing that the power lies in me. My control to use a relaxer like a cocktail hour, to just be that. It does not have to be a contest. It should make you feel good, then leave it. But if you cannot control it, try and de-stress another way like baths or massages
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds like you are pretty self aware, which is a great short cut to this dilemma.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You can use this to your advantage, and make more conscious choices to better your life
usr : Yeah, that makes sense.
usr : I think I understand the problem I have much better now.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That is great, please share with me your findings
usr : Honestly, I don't feel like I fit in at my job. I get concerned that my coworkers like me better after I've had a few drinks and loosened up a bit. But there's been more stress lately and I've been pushing it a lot more.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is easy to get side tracked by ego especially in that field. Try to stay focused and remember why you are there. You aren't there to impress Jim. You are there to make money and achieve your goals. As long as your eyes stay on the goal, the rest will follow.
usr : Yeah. That makes sense. Thanks for your support.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You are a strong individual and I am here for you. You inspire me to do better!!
usr : I don't know how I inspire anyone, but I appreciate it.
usr : Thanks for your help.
| (Others) You inspire me because rather than allowing it to consume you, you are actively seeking help. That is very commendable. |
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The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"caught my girlfriend cheating on me with my neighbor its was so horrible scene for me all i could do was cry and drink because i love her so much, the pain was much that all i could think of was killing her and myself, Guess its isn't wrong if i kill the guy he cheated with too?". | usr : hi
| (Question) How are you doing today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"caught my girlfriend cheating on me with my neighbor its was so horrible scene for me all i could do was cry and drink because i love her so much, the pain was much that all i could think of was killing her and myself, Guess its isn't wrong if i kill the guy he cheated with too?". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : not quite ok! my head keep ringing, breathing rate fast all i could think of was the occurrence
| (Question) What's the occurrence exactly that you are referring to? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"caught my girlfriend cheating on me with my neighbor its was so horrible scene for me all i could do was cry and drink because i love her so much, the pain was much that all i could think of was killing her and myself, Guess its isn't wrong if i kill the guy he cheated with too?". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : not quite ok! my head keep ringing, breathing rate fast all i could think of was the occurrence
sys : (Question) What's the occurrence exactly that you are referring to?
usr : caught my girlfriend cheating on me
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh wow! I'm so sorry! I can't imagine how you are feeling! Have you found anything to do to keep you busy? Or maybe some good distractions? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"caught my girlfriend cheating on me with my neighbor its was so horrible scene for me all i could do was cry and drink because i love her so much, the pain was much that all i could think of was killing her and myself, Guess its isn't wrong if i kill the guy he cheated with too?". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : not quite ok! my head keep ringing, breathing rate fast all i could think of was the occurrence
sys : (Question) What's the occurrence exactly that you are referring to?
usr : caught my girlfriend cheating on me
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh wow! I'm so sorry! I can't imagine how you are feeling! Have you found anything to do to keep you busy? Or maybe some good distractions?
usr : no! all i think of is her, loved her wish she never did that
| (Providing Suggestions) Do you think you guys could reconcile your relationship? Is there any hope? Is she willing to work with you and work through her mistakes? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"caught my girlfriend cheating on me with my neighbor its was so horrible scene for me all i could do was cry and drink because i love her so much, the pain was much that all i could think of was killing her and myself, Guess its isn't wrong if i kill the guy he cheated with too?". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : not quite ok! my head keep ringing, breathing rate fast all i could think of was the occurrence
sys : (Question) What's the occurrence exactly that you are referring to?
usr : caught my girlfriend cheating on me
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh wow! I'm so sorry! I can't imagine how you are feeling! Have you found anything to do to keep you busy? Or maybe some good distractions?
usr : no! all i think of is her, loved her wish she never did that
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you think you guys could reconcile your relationship? Is there any hope? Is she willing to work with you and work through her mistakes?
usr : i wished we could, i just cannot get it of my mind
| (Providing Suggestions) It takes time. Sometimes, the best relationships occur when people work through the most difficult occurrences in their relationship. Have you tried talking to her? I would recommend talking to her when your emotions have settled. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"caught my girlfriend cheating on me with my neighbor its was so horrible scene for me all i could do was cry and drink because i love her so much, the pain was much that all i could think of was killing her and myself, Guess its isn't wrong if i kill the guy he cheated with too?". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : not quite ok! my head keep ringing, breathing rate fast all i could think of was the occurrence
sys : (Question) What's the occurrence exactly that you are referring to?
usr : caught my girlfriend cheating on me
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh wow! I'm so sorry! I can't imagine how you are feeling! Have you found anything to do to keep you busy? Or maybe some good distractions?
usr : no! all i think of is her, loved her wish she never did that
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you think you guys could reconcile your relationship? Is there any hope? Is she willing to work with you and work through her mistakes?
usr : i wished we could, i just cannot get it of my mind
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It takes time. Sometimes, the best relationships occur when people work through the most difficult occurrences in their relationship. Have you tried talking to her? I would recommend talking to her when your emotions have settled.
usr : guessed you right, i just don't know if i can trust her, I don't think i can heal from the betrayer
| (Providing Suggestions) I would make a pros and cons list. If there are a lot of pros, I think it's worth a shot! Just give yourself time to process everything that has happened. You don't want to sit down and talk to her and let all your emotions come out. That could cause more harm. Just make a list and you'll have a better understanding of which direction you should go with your relationship! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"caught my girlfriend cheating on me with my neighbor its was so horrible scene for me all i could do was cry and drink because i love her so much, the pain was much that all i could think of was killing her and myself, Guess its isn't wrong if i kill the guy he cheated with too?". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : not quite ok! my head keep ringing, breathing rate fast all i could think of was the occurrence
sys : (Question) What's the occurrence exactly that you are referring to?
usr : caught my girlfriend cheating on me
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh wow! I'm so sorry! I can't imagine how you are feeling! Have you found anything to do to keep you busy? Or maybe some good distractions?
usr : no! all i think of is her, loved her wish she never did that
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you think you guys could reconcile your relationship? Is there any hope? Is she willing to work with you and work through her mistakes?
usr : i wished we could, i just cannot get it of my mind
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It takes time. Sometimes, the best relationships occur when people work through the most difficult occurrences in their relationship. Have you tried talking to her? I would recommend talking to her when your emotions have settled.
usr : guessed you right, i just don't know if i can trust her, I don't think i can heal from the betrayer
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would make a pros and cons list. If there are a lot of pros, I think it's worth a shot! Just give yourself time to process everything that has happened. You don't want to sit down and talk to her and let all your emotions come out. That could cause more harm. Just make a list and you'll have a better understanding of which direction you should go with your relationship!
usr : i understand, its just hard to trust when the trust is broken, hard to know what direction to turn to, forgive her or move on, to choose is just a hard decision. Guess i need to hear her own part of the story
| (Providing Suggestions) Yes. Give it time. Wait to hear her story. Make your pros and cons list. And see where to go from there. Be easy on yourself. It's okay to have hard days. Just give yourself time to heal from the hurt! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"caught my girlfriend cheating on me with my neighbor its was so horrible scene for me all i could do was cry and drink because i love her so much, the pain was much that all i could think of was killing her and myself, Guess its isn't wrong if i kill the guy he cheated with too?". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : not quite ok! my head keep ringing, breathing rate fast all i could think of was the occurrence
sys : (Question) What's the occurrence exactly that you are referring to?
usr : caught my girlfriend cheating on me
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh wow! I'm so sorry! I can't imagine how you are feeling! Have you found anything to do to keep you busy? Or maybe some good distractions?
usr : no! all i think of is her, loved her wish she never did that
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you think you guys could reconcile your relationship? Is there any hope? Is she willing to work with you and work through her mistakes?
usr : i wished we could, i just cannot get it of my mind
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It takes time. Sometimes, the best relationships occur when people work through the most difficult occurrences in their relationship. Have you tried talking to her? I would recommend talking to her when your emotions have settled.
usr : guessed you right, i just don't know if i can trust her, I don't think i can heal from the betrayer
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would make a pros and cons list. If there are a lot of pros, I think it's worth a shot! Just give yourself time to process everything that has happened. You don't want to sit down and talk to her and let all your emotions come out. That could cause more harm. Just make a list and you'll have a better understanding of which direction you should go with your relationship!
usr : i understand, its just hard to trust when the trust is broken, hard to know what direction to turn to, forgive her or move on, to choose is just a hard decision. Guess i need to hear her own part of the story
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes. Give it time. Wait to hear her story. Make your pros and cons list. And see where to go from there. Be easy on yourself. It's okay to have hard days. Just give yourself time to heal from the hurt!
usr : I try working towards that, i just wish am back to myself soon because it has really affected me.
| (Providing Suggestions) I am sure it has! Try to spend time with friends and family that can be there for you during this time. You need to lean on people when things get hard like this! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"caught my girlfriend cheating on me with my neighbor its was so horrible scene for me all i could do was cry and drink because i love her so much, the pain was much that all i could think of was killing her and myself, Guess its isn't wrong if i kill the guy he cheated with too?". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : not quite ok! my head keep ringing, breathing rate fast all i could think of was the occurrence
sys : (Question) What's the occurrence exactly that you are referring to?
usr : caught my girlfriend cheating on me
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh wow! I'm so sorry! I can't imagine how you are feeling! Have you found anything to do to keep you busy? Or maybe some good distractions?
usr : no! all i think of is her, loved her wish she never did that
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you think you guys could reconcile your relationship? Is there any hope? Is she willing to work with you and work through her mistakes?
usr : i wished we could, i just cannot get it of my mind
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It takes time. Sometimes, the best relationships occur when people work through the most difficult occurrences in their relationship. Have you tried talking to her? I would recommend talking to her when your emotions have settled.
usr : guessed you right, i just don't know if i can trust her, I don't think i can heal from the betrayer
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would make a pros and cons list. If there are a lot of pros, I think it's worth a shot! Just give yourself time to process everything that has happened. You don't want to sit down and talk to her and let all your emotions come out. That could cause more harm. Just make a list and you'll have a better understanding of which direction you should go with your relationship!
usr : i understand, its just hard to trust when the trust is broken, hard to know what direction to turn to, forgive her or move on, to choose is just a hard decision. Guess i need to hear her own part of the story
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes. Give it time. Wait to hear her story. Make your pros and cons list. And see where to go from there. Be easy on yourself. It's okay to have hard days. Just give yourself time to heal from the hurt!
usr : I try working towards that, i just wish am back to myself soon because it has really affected me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am sure it has! Try to spend time with friends and family that can be there for you during this time. You need to lean on people when things get hard like this!
usr : wished i have friends i could trust, all just mock and wished you worse, hated being alive
| (Providing Suggestions) That's awful! You need better friends than that!! What about your family? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"caught my girlfriend cheating on me with my neighbor its was so horrible scene for me all i could do was cry and drink because i love her so much, the pain was much that all i could think of was killing her and myself, Guess its isn't wrong if i kill the guy he cheated with too?". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : not quite ok! my head keep ringing, breathing rate fast all i could think of was the occurrence
sys : (Question) What's the occurrence exactly that you are referring to?
usr : caught my girlfriend cheating on me
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh wow! I'm so sorry! I can't imagine how you are feeling! Have you found anything to do to keep you busy? Or maybe some good distractions?
usr : no! all i think of is her, loved her wish she never did that
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you think you guys could reconcile your relationship? Is there any hope? Is she willing to work with you and work through her mistakes?
usr : i wished we could, i just cannot get it of my mind
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It takes time. Sometimes, the best relationships occur when people work through the most difficult occurrences in their relationship. Have you tried talking to her? I would recommend talking to her when your emotions have settled.
usr : guessed you right, i just don't know if i can trust her, I don't think i can heal from the betrayer
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would make a pros and cons list. If there are a lot of pros, I think it's worth a shot! Just give yourself time to process everything that has happened. You don't want to sit down and talk to her and let all your emotions come out. That could cause more harm. Just make a list and you'll have a better understanding of which direction you should go with your relationship!
usr : i understand, its just hard to trust when the trust is broken, hard to know what direction to turn to, forgive her or move on, to choose is just a hard decision. Guess i need to hear her own part of the story
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes. Give it time. Wait to hear her story. Make your pros and cons list. And see where to go from there. Be easy on yourself. It's okay to have hard days. Just give yourself time to heal from the hurt!
usr : I try working towards that, i just wish am back to myself soon because it has really affected me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am sure it has! Try to spend time with friends and family that can be there for you during this time. You need to lean on people when things get hard like this!
usr : wished i have friends i could trust, all just mock and wished you worse, hated being alive
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That's awful! You need better friends than that!! What about your family?
usr : Guess I'll go stay with them till i can get myself together
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's a great idea! Family can be super helpful for you during this time!! Let me know if I can be a supporter for you in any other way! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"caught my girlfriend cheating on me with my neighbor its was so horrible scene for me all i could do was cry and drink because i love her so much, the pain was much that all i could think of was killing her and myself, Guess its isn't wrong if i kill the guy he cheated with too?". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : not quite ok! my head keep ringing, breathing rate fast all i could think of was the occurrence
sys : (Question) What's the occurrence exactly that you are referring to?
usr : caught my girlfriend cheating on me
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh wow! I'm so sorry! I can't imagine how you are feeling! Have you found anything to do to keep you busy? Or maybe some good distractions?
usr : no! all i think of is her, loved her wish she never did that
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you think you guys could reconcile your relationship? Is there any hope? Is she willing to work with you and work through her mistakes?
usr : i wished we could, i just cannot get it of my mind
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It takes time. Sometimes, the best relationships occur when people work through the most difficult occurrences in their relationship. Have you tried talking to her? I would recommend talking to her when your emotions have settled.
usr : guessed you right, i just don't know if i can trust her, I don't think i can heal from the betrayer
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would make a pros and cons list. If there are a lot of pros, I think it's worth a shot! Just give yourself time to process everything that has happened. You don't want to sit down and talk to her and let all your emotions come out. That could cause more harm. Just make a list and you'll have a better understanding of which direction you should go with your relationship!
usr : i understand, its just hard to trust when the trust is broken, hard to know what direction to turn to, forgive her or move on, to choose is just a hard decision. Guess i need to hear her own part of the story
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes. Give it time. Wait to hear her story. Make your pros and cons list. And see where to go from there. Be easy on yourself. It's okay to have hard days. Just give yourself time to heal from the hurt!
usr : I try working towards that, i just wish am back to myself soon because it has really affected me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am sure it has! Try to spend time with friends and family that can be there for you during this time. You need to lean on people when things get hard like this!
usr : wished i have friends i could trust, all just mock and wished you worse, hated being alive
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That's awful! You need better friends than that!! What about your family?
usr : Guess I'll go stay with them till i can get myself together
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's a great idea! Family can be super helpful for you during this time!! Let me know if I can be a supporter for you in any other way!
usr : Thanks' so much , you lifted my mood , you being really helpful
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) No problem at all! Sending positive vibes your way!! You can get through this!! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"caught my girlfriend cheating on me with my neighbor its was so horrible scene for me all i could do was cry and drink because i love her so much, the pain was much that all i could think of was killing her and myself, Guess its isn't wrong if i kill the guy he cheated with too?". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : not quite ok! my head keep ringing, breathing rate fast all i could think of was the occurrence
sys : (Question) What's the occurrence exactly that you are referring to?
usr : caught my girlfriend cheating on me
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh wow! I'm so sorry! I can't imagine how you are feeling! Have you found anything to do to keep you busy? Or maybe some good distractions?
usr : no! all i think of is her, loved her wish she never did that
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you think you guys could reconcile your relationship? Is there any hope? Is she willing to work with you and work through her mistakes?
usr : i wished we could, i just cannot get it of my mind
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It takes time. Sometimes, the best relationships occur when people work through the most difficult occurrences in their relationship. Have you tried talking to her? I would recommend talking to her when your emotions have settled.
usr : guessed you right, i just don't know if i can trust her, I don't think i can heal from the betrayer
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would make a pros and cons list. If there are a lot of pros, I think it's worth a shot! Just give yourself time to process everything that has happened. You don't want to sit down and talk to her and let all your emotions come out. That could cause more harm. Just make a list and you'll have a better understanding of which direction you should go with your relationship!
usr : i understand, its just hard to trust when the trust is broken, hard to know what direction to turn to, forgive her or move on, to choose is just a hard decision. Guess i need to hear her own part of the story
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes. Give it time. Wait to hear her story. Make your pros and cons list. And see where to go from there. Be easy on yourself. It's okay to have hard days. Just give yourself time to heal from the hurt!
usr : I try working towards that, i just wish am back to myself soon because it has really affected me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am sure it has! Try to spend time with friends and family that can be there for you during this time. You need to lean on people when things get hard like this!
usr : wished i have friends i could trust, all just mock and wished you worse, hated being alive
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That's awful! You need better friends than that!! What about your family?
usr : Guess I'll go stay with them till i can get myself together
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's a great idea! Family can be super helpful for you during this time!! Let me know if I can be a supporter for you in any other way!
usr : Thanks' so much , you lifted my mood , you being really helpful
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) No problem at all! Sending positive vibes your way!! You can get through this!!
usr : Thanks
| (Others) No problem! Hope things get better for you! |
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The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"my best friend became phys-co and torturing all his friends by blackmailing all photos with him.he started with me also i got so much fear and issues". | (Question) how you doing? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"my best friend became phys-co and torturing all his friends by blackmailing all photos with him.he started with me also i got so much fear and issues". | sys : (Question) how you doing?
usr : hii
usr : could you please help to come out of fear from my friend who became physco
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) i can imagine how you are feeling right now, but can you explain better how the situation is? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"my best friend became phys-co and torturing all his friends by blackmailing all photos with him.he started with me also i got so much fear and issues". | sys : (Question) how you doing?
usr : hii
usr : could you please help to come out of fear from my friend who became physco
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) i can imagine how you are feeling right now, but can you explain better how the situation is?
usr : he is one of the best friends in the group .we are 10 members , when went to party after drunk he took pictures with us when we were half nude.Now he blackmailing by that phots and asking money
| (Reflection of feelings) i know you might be feeling betrayed right now, a friend should not have behaved like that |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"my best friend became phys-co and torturing all his friends by blackmailing all photos with him.he started with me also i got so much fear and issues". | sys : (Question) how you doing?
usr : hii
usr : could you please help to come out of fear from my friend who became physco
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) i can imagine how you are feeling right now, but can you explain better how the situation is?
usr : he is one of the best friends in the group .we are 10 members , when went to party after drunk he took pictures with us when we were half nude.Now he blackmailing by that phots and asking money
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i know you might be feeling betrayed right now, a friend should not have behaved like that
usr : yes , he should not , another friend family suffered lot
usr : she attempt suicide .so i am scaring a lot
| (Self-disclosure) there should be someone you can try to confined in, i know you did wrong by drinking, but you need to open up to someone, cop your parent or someone you trust. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"my best friend became phys-co and torturing all his friends by blackmailing all photos with him.he started with me also i got so much fear and issues". | sys : (Question) how you doing?
usr : hii
usr : could you please help to come out of fear from my friend who became physco
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) i can imagine how you are feeling right now, but can you explain better how the situation is?
usr : he is one of the best friends in the group .we are 10 members , when went to party after drunk he took pictures with us when we were half nude.Now he blackmailing by that phots and asking money
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i know you might be feeling betrayed right now, a friend should not have behaved like that
usr : yes , he should not , another friend family suffered lot
usr : she attempt suicide .so i am scaring a lot
sys : (Self-disclosure) there should be someone you can try to confined in, i know you did wrong by drinking, but you need to open up to someone, cop your parent or someone you trust.
usr : i thought so , wanted to share with my hubby but scaring that he might think i cheated him but in real we never do anything .it is a group a party
usr : thank you for ur time,
| (Reflection of feelings) It fine, he will sure be pissed but its better to meet him lay out the truth, though he might be mad, but that will else up the problem |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"my best friend became phys-co and torturing all his friends by blackmailing all photos with him.he started with me also i got so much fear and issues". | sys : (Question) how you doing?
usr : hii
usr : could you please help to come out of fear from my friend who became physco
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) i can imagine how you are feeling right now, but can you explain better how the situation is?
usr : he is one of the best friends in the group .we are 10 members , when went to party after drunk he took pictures with us when we were half nude.Now he blackmailing by that phots and asking money
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i know you might be feeling betrayed right now, a friend should not have behaved like that
usr : yes , he should not , another friend family suffered lot
usr : she attempt suicide .so i am scaring a lot
sys : (Self-disclosure) there should be someone you can try to confined in, i know you did wrong by drinking, but you need to open up to someone, cop your parent or someone you trust.
usr : i thought so , wanted to share with my hubby but scaring that he might think i cheated him but in real we never do anything .it is a group a party
usr : thank you for ur time,
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It fine, he will sure be pissed but its better to meet him lay out the truth, though he might be mad, but that will else up the problem
usr : my hubby is my friend , sure will understood but still being scare
usr : thinking about worst part will happen if he didnt trust
| (Providing Suggestions) you should talk to your hubby dont be scared |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"my best friend became phys-co and torturing all his friends by blackmailing all photos with him.he started with me also i got so much fear and issues". | sys : (Question) how you doing?
usr : hii
usr : could you please help to come out of fear from my friend who became physco
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) i can imagine how you are feeling right now, but can you explain better how the situation is?
usr : he is one of the best friends in the group .we are 10 members , when went to party after drunk he took pictures with us when we were half nude.Now he blackmailing by that phots and asking money
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i know you might be feeling betrayed right now, a friend should not have behaved like that
usr : yes , he should not , another friend family suffered lot
usr : she attempt suicide .so i am scaring a lot
sys : (Self-disclosure) there should be someone you can try to confined in, i know you did wrong by drinking, but you need to open up to someone, cop your parent or someone you trust.
usr : i thought so , wanted to share with my hubby but scaring that he might think i cheated him but in real we never do anything .it is a group a party
usr : thank you for ur time,
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It fine, he will sure be pissed but its better to meet him lay out the truth, though he might be mad, but that will else up the problem
usr : my hubby is my friend , sure will understood but still being scare
usr : thinking about worst part will happen if he didnt trust
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you should talk to your hubby dont be scared
usr : sure, can i tell to my friend wife .?
usr : her hubby is all doing this
| (Providing Suggestions) it will be a more disaster if he get to know on his own |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"my best friend became phys-co and torturing all his friends by blackmailing all photos with him.he started with me also i got so much fear and issues". | sys : (Question) how you doing?
usr : hii
usr : could you please help to come out of fear from my friend who became physco
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) i can imagine how you are feeling right now, but can you explain better how the situation is?
usr : he is one of the best friends in the group .we are 10 members , when went to party after drunk he took pictures with us when we were half nude.Now he blackmailing by that phots and asking money
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i know you might be feeling betrayed right now, a friend should not have behaved like that
usr : yes , he should not , another friend family suffered lot
usr : she attempt suicide .so i am scaring a lot
sys : (Self-disclosure) there should be someone you can try to confined in, i know you did wrong by drinking, but you need to open up to someone, cop your parent or someone you trust.
usr : i thought so , wanted to share with my hubby but scaring that he might think i cheated him but in real we never do anything .it is a group a party
usr : thank you for ur time,
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It fine, he will sure be pissed but its better to meet him lay out the truth, though he might be mad, but that will else up the problem
usr : my hubby is my friend , sure will understood but still being scare
usr : thinking about worst part will happen if he didnt trust
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you should talk to your hubby dont be scared
usr : sure, can i tell to my friend wife .?
usr : her hubby is all doing this
sys : (Providing Suggestions) it will be a more disaster if he get to know on his own
usr : oh yea , i forgot that .
| (Providing Suggestions) you can, tell your friend, she should be able to help, but you have to tell your hubby |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"my best friend became phys-co and torturing all his friends by blackmailing all photos with him.he started with me also i got so much fear and issues". | sys : (Question) how you doing?
usr : hii
usr : could you please help to come out of fear from my friend who became physco
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) i can imagine how you are feeling right now, but can you explain better how the situation is?
usr : he is one of the best friends in the group .we are 10 members , when went to party after drunk he took pictures with us when we were half nude.Now he blackmailing by that phots and asking money
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i know you might be feeling betrayed right now, a friend should not have behaved like that
usr : yes , he should not , another friend family suffered lot
usr : she attempt suicide .so i am scaring a lot
sys : (Self-disclosure) there should be someone you can try to confined in, i know you did wrong by drinking, but you need to open up to someone, cop your parent or someone you trust.
usr : i thought so , wanted to share with my hubby but scaring that he might think i cheated him but in real we never do anything .it is a group a party
usr : thank you for ur time,
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It fine, he will sure be pissed but its better to meet him lay out the truth, though he might be mad, but that will else up the problem
usr : my hubby is my friend , sure will understood but still being scare
usr : thinking about worst part will happen if he didnt trust
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you should talk to your hubby dont be scared
usr : sure, can i tell to my friend wife .?
usr : her hubby is all doing this
sys : (Providing Suggestions) it will be a more disaster if he get to know on his own
usr : oh yea , i forgot that .
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you can, tell your friend, she should be able to help, but you have to tell your hubby
usr : yea will discuss both , first will tell to my hubby , what ever happen
usr : what will do if he don't trust?
| (Providing Suggestions) he will trust you more only if you confide in him |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"my best friend became phys-co and torturing all his friends by blackmailing all photos with him.he started with me also i got so much fear and issues". | sys : (Question) how you doing?
usr : hii
usr : could you please help to come out of fear from my friend who became physco
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) i can imagine how you are feeling right now, but can you explain better how the situation is?
usr : he is one of the best friends in the group .we are 10 members , when went to party after drunk he took pictures with us when we were half nude.Now he blackmailing by that phots and asking money
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i know you might be feeling betrayed right now, a friend should not have behaved like that
usr : yes , he should not , another friend family suffered lot
usr : she attempt suicide .so i am scaring a lot
sys : (Self-disclosure) there should be someone you can try to confined in, i know you did wrong by drinking, but you need to open up to someone, cop your parent or someone you trust.
usr : i thought so , wanted to share with my hubby but scaring that he might think i cheated him but in real we never do anything .it is a group a party
usr : thank you for ur time,
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It fine, he will sure be pissed but its better to meet him lay out the truth, though he might be mad, but that will else up the problem
usr : my hubby is my friend , sure will understood but still being scare
usr : thinking about worst part will happen if he didnt trust
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you should talk to your hubby dont be scared
usr : sure, can i tell to my friend wife .?
usr : her hubby is all doing this
sys : (Providing Suggestions) it will be a more disaster if he get to know on his own
usr : oh yea , i forgot that .
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you can, tell your friend, she should be able to help, but you have to tell your hubby
usr : yea will discuss both , first will tell to my hubby , what ever happen
usr : what will do if he don't trust?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) he will trust you more only if you confide in him
usr : ha may be , will try then once
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) with telling him you can be free from all guilt |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"my best friend became phys-co and torturing all his friends by blackmailing all photos with him.he started with me also i got so much fear and issues". | sys : (Question) how you doing?
usr : hii
usr : could you please help to come out of fear from my friend who became physco
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) i can imagine how you are feeling right now, but can you explain better how the situation is?
usr : he is one of the best friends in the group .we are 10 members , when went to party after drunk he took pictures with us when we were half nude.Now he blackmailing by that phots and asking money
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i know you might be feeling betrayed right now, a friend should not have behaved like that
usr : yes , he should not , another friend family suffered lot
usr : she attempt suicide .so i am scaring a lot
sys : (Self-disclosure) there should be someone you can try to confined in, i know you did wrong by drinking, but you need to open up to someone, cop your parent or someone you trust.
usr : i thought so , wanted to share with my hubby but scaring that he might think i cheated him but in real we never do anything .it is a group a party
usr : thank you for ur time,
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It fine, he will sure be pissed but its better to meet him lay out the truth, though he might be mad, but that will else up the problem
usr : my hubby is my friend , sure will understood but still being scare
usr : thinking about worst part will happen if he didnt trust
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you should talk to your hubby dont be scared
usr : sure, can i tell to my friend wife .?
usr : her hubby is all doing this
sys : (Providing Suggestions) it will be a more disaster if he get to know on his own
usr : oh yea , i forgot that .
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you can, tell your friend, she should be able to help, but you have to tell your hubby
usr : yea will discuss both , first will tell to my hubby , what ever happen
usr : what will do if he don't trust?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) he will trust you more only if you confide in him
usr : ha may be , will try then once
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) with telling him you can be free from all guilt
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) with telling him you can be free from all guilt |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"my best friend became phys-co and torturing all his friends by blackmailing all photos with him.he started with me also i got so much fear and issues". | sys : (Question) how you doing?
usr : hii
usr : could you please help to come out of fear from my friend who became physco
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) i can imagine how you are feeling right now, but can you explain better how the situation is?
usr : he is one of the best friends in the group .we are 10 members , when went to party after drunk he took pictures with us when we were half nude.Now he blackmailing by that phots and asking money
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i know you might be feeling betrayed right now, a friend should not have behaved like that
usr : yes , he should not , another friend family suffered lot
usr : she attempt suicide .so i am scaring a lot
sys : (Self-disclosure) there should be someone you can try to confined in, i know you did wrong by drinking, but you need to open up to someone, cop your parent or someone you trust.
usr : i thought so , wanted to share with my hubby but scaring that he might think i cheated him but in real we never do anything .it is a group a party
usr : thank you for ur time,
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It fine, he will sure be pissed but its better to meet him lay out the truth, though he might be mad, but that will else up the problem
usr : my hubby is my friend , sure will understood but still being scare
usr : thinking about worst part will happen if he didnt trust
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you should talk to your hubby dont be scared
usr : sure, can i tell to my friend wife .?
usr : her hubby is all doing this
sys : (Providing Suggestions) it will be a more disaster if he get to know on his own
usr : oh yea , i forgot that .
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you can, tell your friend, she should be able to help, but you have to tell your hubby
usr : yea will discuss both , first will tell to my hubby , what ever happen
usr : what will do if he don't trust?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) he will trust you more only if you confide in him
usr : ha may be , will try then once
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) with telling him you can be free from all guilt
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) with telling him you can be free from all guilt
usr : yea this guilt feeling so bad inside
usr : what will do with this physco friend , he torturing all other friends too.what is the end solution for this
| (Providing Suggestions) please do, and make sure you stay clear of the friend |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"my best friend became phys-co and torturing all his friends by blackmailing all photos with him.he started with me also i got so much fear and issues". | sys : (Question) how you doing?
usr : hii
usr : could you please help to come out of fear from my friend who became physco
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) i can imagine how you are feeling right now, but can you explain better how the situation is?
usr : he is one of the best friends in the group .we are 10 members , when went to party after drunk he took pictures with us when we were half nude.Now he blackmailing by that phots and asking money
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i know you might be feeling betrayed right now, a friend should not have behaved like that
usr : yes , he should not , another friend family suffered lot
usr : she attempt suicide .so i am scaring a lot
sys : (Self-disclosure) there should be someone you can try to confined in, i know you did wrong by drinking, but you need to open up to someone, cop your parent or someone you trust.
usr : i thought so , wanted to share with my hubby but scaring that he might think i cheated him but in real we never do anything .it is a group a party
usr : thank you for ur time,
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It fine, he will sure be pissed but its better to meet him lay out the truth, though he might be mad, but that will else up the problem
usr : my hubby is my friend , sure will understood but still being scare
usr : thinking about worst part will happen if he didnt trust
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you should talk to your hubby dont be scared
usr : sure, can i tell to my friend wife .?
usr : her hubby is all doing this
sys : (Providing Suggestions) it will be a more disaster if he get to know on his own
usr : oh yea , i forgot that .
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you can, tell your friend, she should be able to help, but you have to tell your hubby
usr : yea will discuss both , first will tell to my hubby , what ever happen
usr : what will do if he don't trust?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) he will trust you more only if you confide in him
usr : ha may be , will try then once
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) with telling him you can be free from all guilt
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) with telling him you can be free from all guilt
usr : yea this guilt feeling so bad inside
usr : what will do with this physco friend , he torturing all other friends too.what is the end solution for this
sys : (Providing Suggestions) please do, and make sure you stay clear of the friend
usr : yes will talk to my hubby first and will take any advise from him to save all of my friends too
| (Providing Suggestions) he isn't a friend worth keeping, you can report him to the appropriate bodies, the cops will do. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"my best friend became phys-co and torturing all his friends by blackmailing all photos with him.he started with me also i got so much fear and issues". | sys : (Question) how you doing?
usr : hii
usr : could you please help to come out of fear from my friend who became physco
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) i can imagine how you are feeling right now, but can you explain better how the situation is?
usr : he is one of the best friends in the group .we are 10 members , when went to party after drunk he took pictures with us when we were half nude.Now he blackmailing by that phots and asking money
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i know you might be feeling betrayed right now, a friend should not have behaved like that
usr : yes , he should not , another friend family suffered lot
usr : she attempt suicide .so i am scaring a lot
sys : (Self-disclosure) there should be someone you can try to confined in, i know you did wrong by drinking, but you need to open up to someone, cop your parent or someone you trust.
usr : i thought so , wanted to share with my hubby but scaring that he might think i cheated him but in real we never do anything .it is a group a party
usr : thank you for ur time,
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It fine, he will sure be pissed but its better to meet him lay out the truth, though he might be mad, but that will else up the problem
usr : my hubby is my friend , sure will understood but still being scare
usr : thinking about worst part will happen if he didnt trust
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you should talk to your hubby dont be scared
usr : sure, can i tell to my friend wife .?
usr : her hubby is all doing this
sys : (Providing Suggestions) it will be a more disaster if he get to know on his own
usr : oh yea , i forgot that .
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you can, tell your friend, she should be able to help, but you have to tell your hubby
usr : yea will discuss both , first will tell to my hubby , what ever happen
usr : what will do if he don't trust?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) he will trust you more only if you confide in him
usr : ha may be , will try then once
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) with telling him you can be free from all guilt
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) with telling him you can be free from all guilt
usr : yea this guilt feeling so bad inside
usr : what will do with this physco friend , he torturing all other friends too.what is the end solution for this
sys : (Providing Suggestions) please do, and make sure you stay clear of the friend
usr : yes will talk to my hubby first and will take any advise from him to save all of my friends too
sys : (Providing Suggestions) he isn't a friend worth keeping, you can report him to the appropriate bodies, the cops will do.
usr : yes nice idea ..will report
| (Providing Suggestions) That will be great, and make sure you stay off party till the matter is resolved |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have suffered from depression for twenty years and despair of every getting any better.". | usr : Hi there, I am desperate to get some help for my ongoing depression, is there anything that you can do?
| (Question) Hello, I am certainly gonna try to help! What triggered the depression tonight? \ |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have suffered from depression for twenty years and despair of every getting any better.". | usr : Hi there, I am desperate to get some help for my ongoing depression, is there anything that you can do?
sys : (Question) Hello, I am certainly gonna try to help! What triggered the depression tonight? \
usr : Well, it's not really any worse tonight than it has been for years. I just don't know how to get out of it and I suspect that I might never be able to.
| (Question) Not that I'm typically a fan of this, but there are certain justifications and it has its place. Have you sought professional help? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have suffered from depression for twenty years and despair of every getting any better.". | usr : Hi there, I am desperate to get some help for my ongoing depression, is there anything that you can do?
sys : (Question) Hello, I am certainly gonna try to help! What triggered the depression tonight? \
usr : Well, it's not really any worse tonight than it has been for years. I just don't know how to get out of it and I suspect that I might never be able to.
sys : (Question) Not that I'm typically a fan of this, but there are certain justifications and it has its place. Have you sought professional help?
usr : I have been prescribed some medication by my GP but I cannot really afford professional counselling.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) There are a lot of programs in place to assist those who're in need of psychiatric evaluation and treatment but dont have the financial means to pursue it. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have suffered from depression for twenty years and despair of every getting any better.". | usr : Hi there, I am desperate to get some help for my ongoing depression, is there anything that you can do?
sys : (Question) Hello, I am certainly gonna try to help! What triggered the depression tonight? \
usr : Well, it's not really any worse tonight than it has been for years. I just don't know how to get out of it and I suspect that I might never be able to.
sys : (Question) Not that I'm typically a fan of this, but there are certain justifications and it has its place. Have you sought professional help?
usr : I have been prescribed some medication by my GP but I cannot really afford professional counselling.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There are a lot of programs in place to assist those who're in need of psychiatric evaluation and treatment but dont have the financial means to pursue it.
usr : I am sorry for the delay, I had a personal emergency. What sort of things are you talking about?
| (Question) Do you live in the US>? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have suffered from depression for twenty years and despair of every getting any better.". | usr : Hi there, I am desperate to get some help for my ongoing depression, is there anything that you can do?
sys : (Question) Hello, I am certainly gonna try to help! What triggered the depression tonight? \
usr : Well, it's not really any worse tonight than it has been for years. I just don't know how to get out of it and I suspect that I might never be able to.
sys : (Question) Not that I'm typically a fan of this, but there are certain justifications and it has its place. Have you sought professional help?
usr : I have been prescribed some medication by my GP but I cannot really afford professional counselling.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There are a lot of programs in place to assist those who're in need of psychiatric evaluation and treatment but dont have the financial means to pursue it.
usr : I am sorry for the delay, I had a personal emergency. What sort of things are you talking about?
sys : (Question) Do you live in the US>?
usr : No, I am British. There are limited resources available here but not many and there's a waiting list.
| (Question) Have you placed your name on the lists? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have suffered from depression for twenty years and despair of every getting any better.". | usr : Hi there, I am desperate to get some help for my ongoing depression, is there anything that you can do?
sys : (Question) Hello, I am certainly gonna try to help! What triggered the depression tonight? \
usr : Well, it's not really any worse tonight than it has been for years. I just don't know how to get out of it and I suspect that I might never be able to.
sys : (Question) Not that I'm typically a fan of this, but there are certain justifications and it has its place. Have you sought professional help?
usr : I have been prescribed some medication by my GP but I cannot really afford professional counselling.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There are a lot of programs in place to assist those who're in need of psychiatric evaluation and treatment but dont have the financial means to pursue it.
usr : I am sorry for the delay, I had a personal emergency. What sort of things are you talking about?
sys : (Question) Do you live in the US>?
usr : No, I am British. There are limited resources available here but not many and there's a waiting list.
sys : (Question) Have you placed your name on the lists?
usr : The trouble is also that I have tried a variety of medications and none has really been all that helpful.
usr : Yes, I am on some waiting lists but I do not know how long it might take to get to the top of them.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Medication isn't always the best solution. I speak from personal experience. Also, its better to be inching up a list than reluctant to be on it at all. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have suffered from depression for twenty years and despair of every getting any better.". | usr : Hi there, I am desperate to get some help for my ongoing depression, is there anything that you can do?
sys : (Question) Hello, I am certainly gonna try to help! What triggered the depression tonight? \
usr : Well, it's not really any worse tonight than it has been for years. I just don't know how to get out of it and I suspect that I might never be able to.
sys : (Question) Not that I'm typically a fan of this, but there are certain justifications and it has its place. Have you sought professional help?
usr : I have been prescribed some medication by my GP but I cannot really afford professional counselling.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There are a lot of programs in place to assist those who're in need of psychiatric evaluation and treatment but dont have the financial means to pursue it.
usr : I am sorry for the delay, I had a personal emergency. What sort of things are you talking about?
sys : (Question) Do you live in the US>?
usr : No, I am British. There are limited resources available here but not many and there's a waiting list.
sys : (Question) Have you placed your name on the lists?
usr : The trouble is also that I have tried a variety of medications and none has really been all that helpful.
usr : Yes, I am on some waiting lists but I do not know how long it might take to get to the top of them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Medication isn't always the best solution. I speak from personal experience. Also, its better to be inching up a list than reluctant to be on it at all.
usr : Why do you say that medication is not the best idea? I am aware that it is not a panacea but it can help to take the edge off, as it were.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) It absolutely can take that edge off, but often so can many other things, like painting, writing, talking to a friend or a stranger even. I don't mean to suggest you stop any medication without medical advising. I simply mean to say that there are advantageous methods of therapy that dont involve a pill. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have suffered from depression for twenty years and despair of every getting any better.". | usr : Hi there, I am desperate to get some help for my ongoing depression, is there anything that you can do?
sys : (Question) Hello, I am certainly gonna try to help! What triggered the depression tonight? \
usr : Well, it's not really any worse tonight than it has been for years. I just don't know how to get out of it and I suspect that I might never be able to.
sys : (Question) Not that I'm typically a fan of this, but there are certain justifications and it has its place. Have you sought professional help?
usr : I have been prescribed some medication by my GP but I cannot really afford professional counselling.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There are a lot of programs in place to assist those who're in need of psychiatric evaluation and treatment but dont have the financial means to pursue it.
usr : I am sorry for the delay, I had a personal emergency. What sort of things are you talking about?
sys : (Question) Do you live in the US>?
usr : No, I am British. There are limited resources available here but not many and there's a waiting list.
sys : (Question) Have you placed your name on the lists?
usr : The trouble is also that I have tried a variety of medications and none has really been all that helpful.
usr : Yes, I am on some waiting lists but I do not know how long it might take to get to the top of them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Medication isn't always the best solution. I speak from personal experience. Also, its better to be inching up a list than reluctant to be on it at all.
usr : Why do you say that medication is not the best idea? I am aware that it is not a panacea but it can help to take the edge off, as it were.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It absolutely can take that edge off, but often so can many other things, like painting, writing, talking to a friend or a stranger even. I don't mean to suggest you stop any medication without medical advising. I simply mean to say that there are advantageous methods of therapy that dont involve a pill.
usr : I think that there are some conditions where medication is necessary but I do take your point that there are other things that we can do to alleviate symptom. Maybe it is best to do these things in tandem?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You're absolutely right that sometimes there is a need for medication. My mother suffers from depression as do I. She has to take Effexor everyday for her condition. I, however went through COUNTLESS combinations and never found a relief as helpful as when I write and talk to people. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have suffered from depression for twenty years and despair of every getting any better.". | usr : Hi there, I am desperate to get some help for my ongoing depression, is there anything that you can do?
sys : (Question) Hello, I am certainly gonna try to help! What triggered the depression tonight? \
usr : Well, it's not really any worse tonight than it has been for years. I just don't know how to get out of it and I suspect that I might never be able to.
sys : (Question) Not that I'm typically a fan of this, but there are certain justifications and it has its place. Have you sought professional help?
usr : I have been prescribed some medication by my GP but I cannot really afford professional counselling.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There are a lot of programs in place to assist those who're in need of psychiatric evaluation and treatment but dont have the financial means to pursue it.
usr : I am sorry for the delay, I had a personal emergency. What sort of things are you talking about?
sys : (Question) Do you live in the US>?
usr : No, I am British. There are limited resources available here but not many and there's a waiting list.
sys : (Question) Have you placed your name on the lists?
usr : The trouble is also that I have tried a variety of medications and none has really been all that helpful.
usr : Yes, I am on some waiting lists but I do not know how long it might take to get to the top of them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Medication isn't always the best solution. I speak from personal experience. Also, its better to be inching up a list than reluctant to be on it at all.
usr : Why do you say that medication is not the best idea? I am aware that it is not a panacea but it can help to take the edge off, as it were.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It absolutely can take that edge off, but often so can many other things, like painting, writing, talking to a friend or a stranger even. I don't mean to suggest you stop any medication without medical advising. I simply mean to say that there are advantageous methods of therapy that dont involve a pill.
usr : I think that there are some conditions where medication is necessary but I do take your point that there are other things that we can do to alleviate symptom. Maybe it is best to do these things in tandem?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You're absolutely right that sometimes there is a need for medication. My mother suffers from depression as do I. She has to take Effexor everyday for her condition. I, however went through COUNTLESS combinations and never found a relief as helpful as when I write and talk to people.
usr : I also went through a lot of different combinations before ending on on Prozac. I think that different things work for different people. I do not find it very easy to talk to people.
| (Question) Have you explored other theraputic avenues to synchronize with the medication? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have suffered from depression for twenty years and despair of every getting any better.". | usr : Hi there, I am desperate to get some help for my ongoing depression, is there anything that you can do?
sys : (Question) Hello, I am certainly gonna try to help! What triggered the depression tonight? \
usr : Well, it's not really any worse tonight than it has been for years. I just don't know how to get out of it and I suspect that I might never be able to.
sys : (Question) Not that I'm typically a fan of this, but there are certain justifications and it has its place. Have you sought professional help?
usr : I have been prescribed some medication by my GP but I cannot really afford professional counselling.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There are a lot of programs in place to assist those who're in need of psychiatric evaluation and treatment but dont have the financial means to pursue it.
usr : I am sorry for the delay, I had a personal emergency. What sort of things are you talking about?
sys : (Question) Do you live in the US>?
usr : No, I am British. There are limited resources available here but not many and there's a waiting list.
sys : (Question) Have you placed your name on the lists?
usr : The trouble is also that I have tried a variety of medications and none has really been all that helpful.
usr : Yes, I am on some waiting lists but I do not know how long it might take to get to the top of them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Medication isn't always the best solution. I speak from personal experience. Also, its better to be inching up a list than reluctant to be on it at all.
usr : Why do you say that medication is not the best idea? I am aware that it is not a panacea but it can help to take the edge off, as it were.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It absolutely can take that edge off, but often so can many other things, like painting, writing, talking to a friend or a stranger even. I don't mean to suggest you stop any medication without medical advising. I simply mean to say that there are advantageous methods of therapy that dont involve a pill.
usr : I think that there are some conditions where medication is necessary but I do take your point that there are other things that we can do to alleviate symptom. Maybe it is best to do these things in tandem?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You're absolutely right that sometimes there is a need for medication. My mother suffers from depression as do I. She has to take Effexor everyday for her condition. I, however went through COUNTLESS combinations and never found a relief as helpful as when I write and talk to people.
usr : I also went through a lot of different combinations before ending on on Prozac. I think that different things work for different people. I do not find it very easy to talk to people.
sys : (Question) Have you explored other theraputic avenues to synchronize with the medication?
usr : No, I am rather way of 'natural' or homeopathic medicine. Are there any kinds that you could recommend?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You're doing VERY well talking to me! Had you not said anything, I would have assumed that to be the best choice! But if you're an introvert, then my first suggestion is to journal. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have suffered from depression for twenty years and despair of every getting any better.". | usr : Hi there, I am desperate to get some help for my ongoing depression, is there anything that you can do?
sys : (Question) Hello, I am certainly gonna try to help! What triggered the depression tonight? \
usr : Well, it's not really any worse tonight than it has been for years. I just don't know how to get out of it and I suspect that I might never be able to.
sys : (Question) Not that I'm typically a fan of this, but there are certain justifications and it has its place. Have you sought professional help?
usr : I have been prescribed some medication by my GP but I cannot really afford professional counselling.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There are a lot of programs in place to assist those who're in need of psychiatric evaluation and treatment but dont have the financial means to pursue it.
usr : I am sorry for the delay, I had a personal emergency. What sort of things are you talking about?
sys : (Question) Do you live in the US>?
usr : No, I am British. There are limited resources available here but not many and there's a waiting list.
sys : (Question) Have you placed your name on the lists?
usr : The trouble is also that I have tried a variety of medications and none has really been all that helpful.
usr : Yes, I am on some waiting lists but I do not know how long it might take to get to the top of them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Medication isn't always the best solution. I speak from personal experience. Also, its better to be inching up a list than reluctant to be on it at all.
usr : Why do you say that medication is not the best idea? I am aware that it is not a panacea but it can help to take the edge off, as it were.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It absolutely can take that edge off, but often so can many other things, like painting, writing, talking to a friend or a stranger even. I don't mean to suggest you stop any medication without medical advising. I simply mean to say that there are advantageous methods of therapy that dont involve a pill.
usr : I think that there are some conditions where medication is necessary but I do take your point that there are other things that we can do to alleviate symptom. Maybe it is best to do these things in tandem?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You're absolutely right that sometimes there is a need for medication. My mother suffers from depression as do I. She has to take Effexor everyday for her condition. I, however went through COUNTLESS combinations and never found a relief as helpful as when I write and talk to people.
usr : I also went through a lot of different combinations before ending on on Prozac. I think that different things work for different people. I do not find it very easy to talk to people.
sys : (Question) Have you explored other theraputic avenues to synchronize with the medication?
usr : No, I am rather way of 'natural' or homeopathic medicine. Are there any kinds that you could recommend?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You're doing VERY well talking to me! Had you not said anything, I would have assumed that to be the best choice! But if you're an introvert, then my first suggestion is to journal.
usr : I do do a lot of that but I would feel too shy to show anyone my journal. Your help has been invaluable though and I do feel more receptive to other forms of treatment now.
| (Question) That way you can reflect on what you've written and possibly learn patterns, triggers, moodswings and other information that would help the problem. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have suffered from depression for twenty years and despair of every getting any better.". | usr : Hi there, I am desperate to get some help for my ongoing depression, is there anything that you can do?
sys : (Question) Hello, I am certainly gonna try to help! What triggered the depression tonight? \
usr : Well, it's not really any worse tonight than it has been for years. I just don't know how to get out of it and I suspect that I might never be able to.
sys : (Question) Not that I'm typically a fan of this, but there are certain justifications and it has its place. Have you sought professional help?
usr : I have been prescribed some medication by my GP but I cannot really afford professional counselling.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There are a lot of programs in place to assist those who're in need of psychiatric evaluation and treatment but dont have the financial means to pursue it.
usr : I am sorry for the delay, I had a personal emergency. What sort of things are you talking about?
sys : (Question) Do you live in the US>?
usr : No, I am British. There are limited resources available here but not many and there's a waiting list.
sys : (Question) Have you placed your name on the lists?
usr : The trouble is also that I have tried a variety of medications and none has really been all that helpful.
usr : Yes, I am on some waiting lists but I do not know how long it might take to get to the top of them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Medication isn't always the best solution. I speak from personal experience. Also, its better to be inching up a list than reluctant to be on it at all.
usr : Why do you say that medication is not the best idea? I am aware that it is not a panacea but it can help to take the edge off, as it were.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It absolutely can take that edge off, but often so can many other things, like painting, writing, talking to a friend or a stranger even. I don't mean to suggest you stop any medication without medical advising. I simply mean to say that there are advantageous methods of therapy that dont involve a pill.
usr : I think that there are some conditions where medication is necessary but I do take your point that there are other things that we can do to alleviate symptom. Maybe it is best to do these things in tandem?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You're absolutely right that sometimes there is a need for medication. My mother suffers from depression as do I. She has to take Effexor everyday for her condition. I, however went through COUNTLESS combinations and never found a relief as helpful as when I write and talk to people.
usr : I also went through a lot of different combinations before ending on on Prozac. I think that different things work for different people. I do not find it very easy to talk to people.
sys : (Question) Have you explored other theraputic avenues to synchronize with the medication?
usr : No, I am rather way of 'natural' or homeopathic medicine. Are there any kinds that you could recommend?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You're doing VERY well talking to me! Had you not said anything, I would have assumed that to be the best choice! But if you're an introvert, then my first suggestion is to journal.
usr : I do do a lot of that but I would feel too shy to show anyone my journal. Your help has been invaluable though and I do feel more receptive to other forms of treatment now.
sys : (Question) That way you can reflect on what you've written and possibly learn patterns, triggers, moodswings and other information that would help the problem.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Journaling is for YOU. No one else has to ever see it if you don't want them too. Glad I can help. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have suffered from depression for twenty years and despair of every getting any better.". | usr : Hi there, I am desperate to get some help for my ongoing depression, is there anything that you can do?
sys : (Question) Hello, I am certainly gonna try to help! What triggered the depression tonight? \
usr : Well, it's not really any worse tonight than it has been for years. I just don't know how to get out of it and I suspect that I might never be able to.
sys : (Question) Not that I'm typically a fan of this, but there are certain justifications and it has its place. Have you sought professional help?
usr : I have been prescribed some medication by my GP but I cannot really afford professional counselling.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There are a lot of programs in place to assist those who're in need of psychiatric evaluation and treatment but dont have the financial means to pursue it.
usr : I am sorry for the delay, I had a personal emergency. What sort of things are you talking about?
sys : (Question) Do you live in the US>?
usr : No, I am British. There are limited resources available here but not many and there's a waiting list.
sys : (Question) Have you placed your name on the lists?
usr : The trouble is also that I have tried a variety of medications and none has really been all that helpful.
usr : Yes, I am on some waiting lists but I do not know how long it might take to get to the top of them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Medication isn't always the best solution. I speak from personal experience. Also, its better to be inching up a list than reluctant to be on it at all.
usr : Why do you say that medication is not the best idea? I am aware that it is not a panacea but it can help to take the edge off, as it were.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It absolutely can take that edge off, but often so can many other things, like painting, writing, talking to a friend or a stranger even. I don't mean to suggest you stop any medication without medical advising. I simply mean to say that there are advantageous methods of therapy that dont involve a pill.
usr : I think that there are some conditions where medication is necessary but I do take your point that there are other things that we can do to alleviate symptom. Maybe it is best to do these things in tandem?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You're absolutely right that sometimes there is a need for medication. My mother suffers from depression as do I. She has to take Effexor everyday for her condition. I, however went through COUNTLESS combinations and never found a relief as helpful as when I write and talk to people.
usr : I also went through a lot of different combinations before ending on on Prozac. I think that different things work for different people. I do not find it very easy to talk to people.
sys : (Question) Have you explored other theraputic avenues to synchronize with the medication?
usr : No, I am rather way of 'natural' or homeopathic medicine. Are there any kinds that you could recommend?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You're doing VERY well talking to me! Had you not said anything, I would have assumed that to be the best choice! But if you're an introvert, then my first suggestion is to journal.
usr : I do do a lot of that but I would feel too shy to show anyone my journal. Your help has been invaluable though and I do feel more receptive to other forms of treatment now.
sys : (Question) That way you can reflect on what you've written and possibly learn patterns, triggers, moodswings and other information that would help the problem.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Journaling is for YOU. No one else has to ever see it if you don't want them too. Glad I can help.
usr : I often do go over things that I've rewritten but there can be long periods where I just feel that I have nothing to say. Thank you so much for your help though, I do feel a lot better! I hope to see you again soon.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Anytime |
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The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"They are always demotivate my economic status. It hurts me a lot". | usr : I need some tips to overcome from that problem
| (Question) Hey. How can I help? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"They are always demotivate my economic status. It hurts me a lot". | usr : I need some tips to overcome from that problem
sys : (Question) Hey. How can I help?
usr : Give me some tips to get succeed in my life
| (Question) Okay. Well lets start with exactly what the problem is. What kind of tips do you need? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"They are always demotivate my economic status. It hurts me a lot". | usr : I need some tips to overcome from that problem
sys : (Question) Hey. How can I help?
usr : Give me some tips to get succeed in my life
sys : (Question) Okay. Well lets start with exactly what the problem is. What kind of tips do you need?
usr : I was totally upset due to my financial career
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Okay I understand. Tell me a little about that. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"They are always demotivate my economic status. It hurts me a lot". | usr : I need some tips to overcome from that problem
sys : (Question) Hey. How can I help?
usr : Give me some tips to get succeed in my life
sys : (Question) Okay. Well lets start with exactly what the problem is. What kind of tips do you need?
usr : I was totally upset due to my financial career
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Okay I understand. Tell me a little about that.
usr : I had a lot of debts
| (Question) That is unfortunate. How did you accumulate such debt? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"They are always demotivate my economic status. It hurts me a lot". | usr : I need some tips to overcome from that problem
sys : (Question) Hey. How can I help?
usr : Give me some tips to get succeed in my life
sys : (Question) Okay. Well lets start with exactly what the problem is. What kind of tips do you need?
usr : I was totally upset due to my financial career
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Okay I understand. Tell me a little about that.
usr : I had a lot of debts
sys : (Question) That is unfortunate. How did you accumulate such debt?
usr : Because of this covid situation
| (Self-disclosure) That's tough. It has personally affect me as well as my financial health as well. I know the frustration. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"They are always demotivate my economic status. It hurts me a lot". | usr : I need some tips to overcome from that problem
sys : (Question) Hey. How can I help?
usr : Give me some tips to get succeed in my life
sys : (Question) Okay. Well lets start with exactly what the problem is. What kind of tips do you need?
usr : I was totally upset due to my financial career
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Okay I understand. Tell me a little about that.
usr : I had a lot of debts
sys : (Question) That is unfortunate. How did you accumulate such debt?
usr : Because of this covid situation
sys : (Self-disclosure) That's tough. It has personally affect me as well as my financial health as well. I know the frustration.
usr : So please tell me some advice
| (Question) Well to do so I need a little more information. Have you already taken any steps to help your situation? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"They are always demotivate my economic status. It hurts me a lot". | usr : I need some tips to overcome from that problem
sys : (Question) Hey. How can I help?
usr : Give me some tips to get succeed in my life
sys : (Question) Okay. Well lets start with exactly what the problem is. What kind of tips do you need?
usr : I was totally upset due to my financial career
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Okay I understand. Tell me a little about that.
usr : I had a lot of debts
sys : (Question) That is unfortunate. How did you accumulate such debt?
usr : Because of this covid situation
sys : (Self-disclosure) That's tough. It has personally affect me as well as my financial health as well. I know the frustration.
usr : So please tell me some advice
sys : (Question) Well to do so I need a little more information. Have you already taken any steps to help your situation?
| (Question) If so what steps have you taken? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"They are always demotivate my economic status. It hurts me a lot". | usr : I need some tips to overcome from that problem
sys : (Question) Hey. How can I help?
usr : Give me some tips to get succeed in my life
sys : (Question) Okay. Well lets start with exactly what the problem is. What kind of tips do you need?
usr : I was totally upset due to my financial career
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Okay I understand. Tell me a little about that.
usr : I had a lot of debts
sys : (Question) That is unfortunate. How did you accumulate such debt?
usr : Because of this covid situation
sys : (Self-disclosure) That's tough. It has personally affect me as well as my financial health as well. I know the frustration.
usr : So please tell me some advice
sys : (Question) Well to do so I need a little more information. Have you already taken any steps to help your situation?
sys : (Question) If so what steps have you taken?
usr : yes I arranged a loan in a bank
| (Others) Okay that is an excellent start. Now to avoid another debt later on. Do you have a job to work with the payments to pay back the loan? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"They are always demotivate my economic status. It hurts me a lot". | usr : I need some tips to overcome from that problem
sys : (Question) Hey. How can I help?
usr : Give me some tips to get succeed in my life
sys : (Question) Okay. Well lets start with exactly what the problem is. What kind of tips do you need?
usr : I was totally upset due to my financial career
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Okay I understand. Tell me a little about that.
usr : I had a lot of debts
sys : (Question) That is unfortunate. How did you accumulate such debt?
usr : Because of this covid situation
sys : (Self-disclosure) That's tough. It has personally affect me as well as my financial health as well. I know the frustration.
usr : So please tell me some advice
sys : (Question) Well to do so I need a little more information. Have you already taken any steps to help your situation?
sys : (Question) If so what steps have you taken?
usr : yes I arranged a loan in a bank
sys : (Others) Okay that is an excellent start. Now to avoid another debt later on. Do you have a job to work with the payments to pay back the loan?
usr : yes I works in a broad wide company. So I will manage
| (Providing Suggestions) If I may offer a suggestion. Have you thought of contacting a debt relief program? In some cases they can substantially reduce debt to something much more manageable. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.". | usr : Well, it has been a hard week.
usr : My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids.
| (Question) Whats been going on? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.". | usr : Well, it has been a hard week.
usr : My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids.
sys : (Question) Whats been going on?
| (Others) Oh no, that's not good |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.". | usr : Well, it has been a hard week.
usr : My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids.
sys : (Question) Whats been going on?
sys : (Others) Oh no, that's not good
usr : I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ain't that the truth. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.". | usr : Well, it has been a hard week.
usr : My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids.
sys : (Question) Whats been going on?
sys : (Others) Oh no, that's not good
usr : I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ain't that the truth.
usr : It just isn't my fault.
usr : My wife had no right to leave California without me.
usr : I made a mistake making California my home.
| (Question) I'm sure it isn't, how long had you been together? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.". | usr : Well, it has been a hard week.
usr : My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids.
sys : (Question) Whats been going on?
sys : (Others) Oh no, that's not good
usr : I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ain't that the truth.
usr : It just isn't my fault.
usr : My wife had no right to leave California without me.
usr : I made a mistake making California my home.
sys : (Question) I'm sure it isn't, how long had you been together?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) California is beautiful I know, but it can also be pretty quick paced. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.". | usr : Well, it has been a hard week.
usr : My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids.
sys : (Question) Whats been going on?
sys : (Others) Oh no, that's not good
usr : I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ain't that the truth.
usr : It just isn't my fault.
usr : My wife had no right to leave California without me.
usr : I made a mistake making California my home.
sys : (Question) I'm sure it isn't, how long had you been together?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) California is beautiful I know, but it can also be pretty quick paced.
usr : We were together 10 years. I am just disgusted that it had to happen at this point. Christmas week, of all weeks.
| (Others) Are you still working? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.". | usr : Well, it has been a hard week.
usr : My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids.
sys : (Question) Whats been going on?
sys : (Others) Oh no, that's not good
usr : I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ain't that the truth.
usr : It just isn't my fault.
usr : My wife had no right to leave California without me.
usr : I made a mistake making California my home.
sys : (Question) I'm sure it isn't, how long had you been together?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) California is beautiful I know, but it can also be pretty quick paced.
usr : We were together 10 years. I am just disgusted that it had to happen at this point. Christmas week, of all weeks.
sys : (Others) Are you still working?
usr : I am still working right now. Luckily, California has plenty of money for bureacrats lie myself.
usr : I contributed to the marriage for sure.
usr : I love my wife and my great kids
| (Others) It's important that you know that you can feel whatever way you need to about your loss. Its a tough time of year for something like that. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.". | usr : Well, it has been a hard week.
usr : My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids.
sys : (Question) Whats been going on?
sys : (Others) Oh no, that's not good
usr : I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ain't that the truth.
usr : It just isn't my fault.
usr : My wife had no right to leave California without me.
usr : I made a mistake making California my home.
sys : (Question) I'm sure it isn't, how long had you been together?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) California is beautiful I know, but it can also be pretty quick paced.
usr : We were together 10 years. I am just disgusted that it had to happen at this point. Christmas week, of all weeks.
sys : (Others) Are you still working?
usr : I am still working right now. Luckily, California has plenty of money for bureacrats lie myself.
usr : I contributed to the marriage for sure.
usr : I love my wife and my great kids
sys : (Others) It's important that you know that you can feel whatever way you need to about your loss. Its a tough time of year for something like that.
| (Question) Had things been pretty rocky? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.". | usr : Well, it has been a hard week.
usr : My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids.
sys : (Question) Whats been going on?
sys : (Others) Oh no, that's not good
usr : I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ain't that the truth.
usr : It just isn't my fault.
usr : My wife had no right to leave California without me.
usr : I made a mistake making California my home.
sys : (Question) I'm sure it isn't, how long had you been together?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) California is beautiful I know, but it can also be pretty quick paced.
usr : We were together 10 years. I am just disgusted that it had to happen at this point. Christmas week, of all weeks.
sys : (Others) Are you still working?
usr : I am still working right now. Luckily, California has plenty of money for bureacrats lie myself.
usr : I contributed to the marriage for sure.
usr : I love my wife and my great kids
sys : (Others) It's important that you know that you can feel whatever way you need to about your loss. Its a tough time of year for something like that.
sys : (Question) Had things been pretty rocky?
usr : Things like this were sudden. I mean, I never expected her to up and walk out with the kids.
usr : The only thing I can think of was that California was getting too expensive and the homeless were taking over LA; that may have spooked her to leave the state.
| (Reflection of feelings) Wow, that's horrible. It seems you should have some kind of legal authority in that aspect. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.". | usr : Well, it has been a hard week.
usr : My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids.
sys : (Question) Whats been going on?
sys : (Others) Oh no, that's not good
usr : I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ain't that the truth.
usr : It just isn't my fault.
usr : My wife had no right to leave California without me.
usr : I made a mistake making California my home.
sys : (Question) I'm sure it isn't, how long had you been together?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) California is beautiful I know, but it can also be pretty quick paced.
usr : We were together 10 years. I am just disgusted that it had to happen at this point. Christmas week, of all weeks.
sys : (Others) Are you still working?
usr : I am still working right now. Luckily, California has plenty of money for bureacrats lie myself.
usr : I contributed to the marriage for sure.
usr : I love my wife and my great kids
sys : (Others) It's important that you know that you can feel whatever way you need to about your loss. Its a tough time of year for something like that.
sys : (Question) Had things been pretty rocky?
usr : Things like this were sudden. I mean, I never expected her to up and walk out with the kids.
usr : The only thing I can think of was that California was getting too expensive and the homeless were taking over LA; that may have spooked her to leave the state.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Wow, that's horrible. It seems you should have some kind of legal authority in that aspect.
| (Question) Is that a big problem out there? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.". | usr : Well, it has been a hard week.
usr : My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids.
sys : (Question) Whats been going on?
sys : (Others) Oh no, that's not good
usr : I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ain't that the truth.
usr : It just isn't my fault.
usr : My wife had no right to leave California without me.
usr : I made a mistake making California my home.
sys : (Question) I'm sure it isn't, how long had you been together?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) California is beautiful I know, but it can also be pretty quick paced.
usr : We were together 10 years. I am just disgusted that it had to happen at this point. Christmas week, of all weeks.
sys : (Others) Are you still working?
usr : I am still working right now. Luckily, California has plenty of money for bureacrats lie myself.
usr : I contributed to the marriage for sure.
usr : I love my wife and my great kids
sys : (Others) It's important that you know that you can feel whatever way you need to about your loss. Its a tough time of year for something like that.
sys : (Question) Had things been pretty rocky?
usr : Things like this were sudden. I mean, I never expected her to up and walk out with the kids.
usr : The only thing I can think of was that California was getting too expensive and the homeless were taking over LA; that may have spooked her to leave the state.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Wow, that's horrible. It seems you should have some kind of legal authority in that aspect.
sys : (Question) Is that a big problem out there?
usr : I really don't have any discourse. The kids are almost 18. They are twins. Yeah, in her eyes, she seems fed up with the state. She left me for Texas, the state, not the person.
usr : I mean, she never mentioned loving, "Text," but the kids are bing into the Dallas Cowboys
| (Others) It is important that you understand that it seems that she has been thinking of this for a while. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.". | usr : Well, it has been a hard week.
usr : My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids.
sys : (Question) Whats been going on?
sys : (Others) Oh no, that's not good
usr : I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ain't that the truth.
usr : It just isn't my fault.
usr : My wife had no right to leave California without me.
usr : I made a mistake making California my home.
sys : (Question) I'm sure it isn't, how long had you been together?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) California is beautiful I know, but it can also be pretty quick paced.
usr : We were together 10 years. I am just disgusted that it had to happen at this point. Christmas week, of all weeks.
sys : (Others) Are you still working?
usr : I am still working right now. Luckily, California has plenty of money for bureacrats lie myself.
usr : I contributed to the marriage for sure.
usr : I love my wife and my great kids
sys : (Others) It's important that you know that you can feel whatever way you need to about your loss. Its a tough time of year for something like that.
sys : (Question) Had things been pretty rocky?
usr : Things like this were sudden. I mean, I never expected her to up and walk out with the kids.
usr : The only thing I can think of was that California was getting too expensive and the homeless were taking over LA; that may have spooked her to leave the state.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Wow, that's horrible. It seems you should have some kind of legal authority in that aspect.
sys : (Question) Is that a big problem out there?
usr : I really don't have any discourse. The kids are almost 18. They are twins. Yeah, in her eyes, she seems fed up with the state. She left me for Texas, the state, not the person.
usr : I mean, she never mentioned loving, "Text," but the kids are bing into the Dallas Cowboys
sys : (Others) It is important that you understand that it seems that she has been thinking of this for a while.
usr : I overhead her say that Texas is a free state and my twin boys do love the Dallas Cowboy's team.
| (Question) Does she have family there? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.". | usr : Well, it has been a hard week.
usr : My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids.
sys : (Question) Whats been going on?
sys : (Others) Oh no, that's not good
usr : I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ain't that the truth.
usr : It just isn't my fault.
usr : My wife had no right to leave California without me.
usr : I made a mistake making California my home.
sys : (Question) I'm sure it isn't, how long had you been together?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) California is beautiful I know, but it can also be pretty quick paced.
usr : We were together 10 years. I am just disgusted that it had to happen at this point. Christmas week, of all weeks.
sys : (Others) Are you still working?
usr : I am still working right now. Luckily, California has plenty of money for bureacrats lie myself.
usr : I contributed to the marriage for sure.
usr : I love my wife and my great kids
sys : (Others) It's important that you know that you can feel whatever way you need to about your loss. Its a tough time of year for something like that.
sys : (Question) Had things been pretty rocky?
usr : Things like this were sudden. I mean, I never expected her to up and walk out with the kids.
usr : The only thing I can think of was that California was getting too expensive and the homeless were taking over LA; that may have spooked her to leave the state.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Wow, that's horrible. It seems you should have some kind of legal authority in that aspect.
sys : (Question) Is that a big problem out there?
usr : I really don't have any discourse. The kids are almost 18. They are twins. Yeah, in her eyes, she seems fed up with the state. She left me for Texas, the state, not the person.
usr : I mean, she never mentioned loving, "Text," but the kids are bing into the Dallas Cowboys
sys : (Others) It is important that you understand that it seems that she has been thinking of this for a while.
usr : I overhead her say that Texas is a free state and my twin boys do love the Dallas Cowboy's team.
sys : (Question) Does she have family there?
usr : Yes, she does. Both her parents live in Laredo.....big spread, too.
| (Question) Have you spoken with her since she left? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.". | usr : Well, it has been a hard week.
usr : My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids.
sys : (Question) Whats been going on?
sys : (Others) Oh no, that's not good
usr : I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ain't that the truth.
usr : It just isn't my fault.
usr : My wife had no right to leave California without me.
usr : I made a mistake making California my home.
sys : (Question) I'm sure it isn't, how long had you been together?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) California is beautiful I know, but it can also be pretty quick paced.
usr : We were together 10 years. I am just disgusted that it had to happen at this point. Christmas week, of all weeks.
sys : (Others) Are you still working?
usr : I am still working right now. Luckily, California has plenty of money for bureacrats lie myself.
usr : I contributed to the marriage for sure.
usr : I love my wife and my great kids
sys : (Others) It's important that you know that you can feel whatever way you need to about your loss. Its a tough time of year for something like that.
sys : (Question) Had things been pretty rocky?
usr : Things like this were sudden. I mean, I never expected her to up and walk out with the kids.
usr : The only thing I can think of was that California was getting too expensive and the homeless were taking over LA; that may have spooked her to leave the state.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Wow, that's horrible. It seems you should have some kind of legal authority in that aspect.
sys : (Question) Is that a big problem out there?
usr : I really don't have any discourse. The kids are almost 18. They are twins. Yeah, in her eyes, she seems fed up with the state. She left me for Texas, the state, not the person.
usr : I mean, she never mentioned loving, "Text," but the kids are bing into the Dallas Cowboys
sys : (Others) It is important that you understand that it seems that she has been thinking of this for a while.
usr : I overhead her say that Texas is a free state and my twin boys do love the Dallas Cowboy's team.
sys : (Question) Does she have family there?
usr : Yes, she does. Both her parents live in Laredo.....big spread, too.
sys : (Question) Have you spoken with her since she left?
usr : Well, she left two days ago. I came home and the furniture and my widescreen TV were all gone.
usr : We lived in a small apartment in LA.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's mid-boggling.. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.". | usr : Well, it has been a hard week.
usr : My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids.
sys : (Question) Whats been going on?
sys : (Others) Oh no, that's not good
usr : I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ain't that the truth.
usr : It just isn't my fault.
usr : My wife had no right to leave California without me.
usr : I made a mistake making California my home.
sys : (Question) I'm sure it isn't, how long had you been together?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) California is beautiful I know, but it can also be pretty quick paced.
usr : We were together 10 years. I am just disgusted that it had to happen at this point. Christmas week, of all weeks.
sys : (Others) Are you still working?
usr : I am still working right now. Luckily, California has plenty of money for bureacrats lie myself.
usr : I contributed to the marriage for sure.
usr : I love my wife and my great kids
sys : (Others) It's important that you know that you can feel whatever way you need to about your loss. Its a tough time of year for something like that.
sys : (Question) Had things been pretty rocky?
usr : Things like this were sudden. I mean, I never expected her to up and walk out with the kids.
usr : The only thing I can think of was that California was getting too expensive and the homeless were taking over LA; that may have spooked her to leave the state.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Wow, that's horrible. It seems you should have some kind of legal authority in that aspect.
sys : (Question) Is that a big problem out there?
usr : I really don't have any discourse. The kids are almost 18. They are twins. Yeah, in her eyes, she seems fed up with the state. She left me for Texas, the state, not the person.
usr : I mean, she never mentioned loving, "Text," but the kids are bing into the Dallas Cowboys
sys : (Others) It is important that you understand that it seems that she has been thinking of this for a while.
usr : I overhead her say that Texas is a free state and my twin boys do love the Dallas Cowboy's team.
sys : (Question) Does she have family there?
usr : Yes, she does. Both her parents live in Laredo.....big spread, too.
sys : (Question) Have you spoken with her since she left?
usr : Well, she left two days ago. I came home and the furniture and my widescreen TV were all gone.
usr : We lived in a small apartment in LA.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's mid-boggling..
usr : I am D-I-S-G-U-S-T-E-D to the Nth degree.
| (Others) Do you have any hobbies? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.". | usr : Well, it has been a hard week.
usr : My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids.
sys : (Question) Whats been going on?
sys : (Others) Oh no, that's not good
usr : I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ain't that the truth.
usr : It just isn't my fault.
usr : My wife had no right to leave California without me.
usr : I made a mistake making California my home.
sys : (Question) I'm sure it isn't, how long had you been together?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) California is beautiful I know, but it can also be pretty quick paced.
usr : We were together 10 years. I am just disgusted that it had to happen at this point. Christmas week, of all weeks.
sys : (Others) Are you still working?
usr : I am still working right now. Luckily, California has plenty of money for bureacrats lie myself.
usr : I contributed to the marriage for sure.
usr : I love my wife and my great kids
sys : (Others) It's important that you know that you can feel whatever way you need to about your loss. Its a tough time of year for something like that.
sys : (Question) Had things been pretty rocky?
usr : Things like this were sudden. I mean, I never expected her to up and walk out with the kids.
usr : The only thing I can think of was that California was getting too expensive and the homeless were taking over LA; that may have spooked her to leave the state.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Wow, that's horrible. It seems you should have some kind of legal authority in that aspect.
sys : (Question) Is that a big problem out there?
usr : I really don't have any discourse. The kids are almost 18. They are twins. Yeah, in her eyes, she seems fed up with the state. She left me for Texas, the state, not the person.
usr : I mean, she never mentioned loving, "Text," but the kids are bing into the Dallas Cowboys
sys : (Others) It is important that you understand that it seems that she has been thinking of this for a while.
usr : I overhead her say that Texas is a free state and my twin boys do love the Dallas Cowboy's team.
sys : (Question) Does she have family there?
usr : Yes, she does. Both her parents live in Laredo.....big spread, too.
sys : (Question) Have you spoken with her since she left?
usr : Well, she left two days ago. I came home and the furniture and my widescreen TV were all gone.
usr : We lived in a small apartment in LA.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's mid-boggling..
usr : I am D-I-S-G-U-S-T-E-D to the Nth degree.
sys : (Others) Do you have any hobbies?
usr : Any help to get her to come back would help.
usr : My hobbies are on hold.....I need to get "un-disgusted" first.
| (Providing Suggestions) Well, I can't make her come back, but I can provide you with some information on how to get through these tough times. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.". | usr : Well, it has been a hard week.
usr : My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids.
sys : (Question) Whats been going on?
sys : (Others) Oh no, that's not good
usr : I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ain't that the truth.
usr : It just isn't my fault.
usr : My wife had no right to leave California without me.
usr : I made a mistake making California my home.
sys : (Question) I'm sure it isn't, how long had you been together?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) California is beautiful I know, but it can also be pretty quick paced.
usr : We were together 10 years. I am just disgusted that it had to happen at this point. Christmas week, of all weeks.
sys : (Others) Are you still working?
usr : I am still working right now. Luckily, California has plenty of money for bureacrats lie myself.
usr : I contributed to the marriage for sure.
usr : I love my wife and my great kids
sys : (Others) It's important that you know that you can feel whatever way you need to about your loss. Its a tough time of year for something like that.
sys : (Question) Had things been pretty rocky?
usr : Things like this were sudden. I mean, I never expected her to up and walk out with the kids.
usr : The only thing I can think of was that California was getting too expensive and the homeless were taking over LA; that may have spooked her to leave the state.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Wow, that's horrible. It seems you should have some kind of legal authority in that aspect.
sys : (Question) Is that a big problem out there?
usr : I really don't have any discourse. The kids are almost 18. They are twins. Yeah, in her eyes, she seems fed up with the state. She left me for Texas, the state, not the person.
usr : I mean, she never mentioned loving, "Text," but the kids are bing into the Dallas Cowboys
sys : (Others) It is important that you understand that it seems that she has been thinking of this for a while.
usr : I overhead her say that Texas is a free state and my twin boys do love the Dallas Cowboy's team.
sys : (Question) Does she have family there?
usr : Yes, she does. Both her parents live in Laredo.....big spread, too.
sys : (Question) Have you spoken with her since she left?
usr : Well, she left two days ago. I came home and the furniture and my widescreen TV were all gone.
usr : We lived in a small apartment in LA.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's mid-boggling..
usr : I am D-I-S-G-U-S-T-E-D to the Nth degree.
sys : (Others) Do you have any hobbies?
usr : Any help to get her to come back would help.
usr : My hobbies are on hold.....I need to get "un-disgusted" first.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, I can't make her come back, but I can provide you with some information on how to get through these tough times.
usr : ok.
usr : I am all ears.....
| (Others) I understand, it can be good to help get some stress out in other ways. Do you excercise? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.". | usr : Well, it has been a hard week.
usr : My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids.
sys : (Question) Whats been going on?
sys : (Others) Oh no, that's not good
usr : I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ain't that the truth.
usr : It just isn't my fault.
usr : My wife had no right to leave California without me.
usr : I made a mistake making California my home.
sys : (Question) I'm sure it isn't, how long had you been together?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) California is beautiful I know, but it can also be pretty quick paced.
usr : We were together 10 years. I am just disgusted that it had to happen at this point. Christmas week, of all weeks.
sys : (Others) Are you still working?
usr : I am still working right now. Luckily, California has plenty of money for bureacrats lie myself.
usr : I contributed to the marriage for sure.
usr : I love my wife and my great kids
sys : (Others) It's important that you know that you can feel whatever way you need to about your loss. Its a tough time of year for something like that.
sys : (Question) Had things been pretty rocky?
usr : Things like this were sudden. I mean, I never expected her to up and walk out with the kids.
usr : The only thing I can think of was that California was getting too expensive and the homeless were taking over LA; that may have spooked her to leave the state.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Wow, that's horrible. It seems you should have some kind of legal authority in that aspect.
sys : (Question) Is that a big problem out there?
usr : I really don't have any discourse. The kids are almost 18. They are twins. Yeah, in her eyes, she seems fed up with the state. She left me for Texas, the state, not the person.
usr : I mean, she never mentioned loving, "Text," but the kids are bing into the Dallas Cowboys
sys : (Others) It is important that you understand that it seems that she has been thinking of this for a while.
usr : I overhead her say that Texas is a free state and my twin boys do love the Dallas Cowboy's team.
sys : (Question) Does she have family there?
usr : Yes, she does. Both her parents live in Laredo.....big spread, too.
sys : (Question) Have you spoken with her since she left?
usr : Well, she left two days ago. I came home and the furniture and my widescreen TV were all gone.
usr : We lived in a small apartment in LA.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's mid-boggling..
usr : I am D-I-S-G-U-S-T-E-D to the Nth degree.
sys : (Others) Do you have any hobbies?
usr : Any help to get her to come back would help.
usr : My hobbies are on hold.....I need to get "un-disgusted" first.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, I can't make her come back, but I can provide you with some information on how to get through these tough times.
usr : ok.
usr : I am all ears.....
sys : (Others) I understand, it can be good to help get some stress out in other ways. Do you excercise?
| (Providing Suggestions) What kind of hobbies do you have? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.". | usr : Well, it has been a hard week.
usr : My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids.
sys : (Question) Whats been going on?
sys : (Others) Oh no, that's not good
usr : I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ain't that the truth.
usr : It just isn't my fault.
usr : My wife had no right to leave California without me.
usr : I made a mistake making California my home.
sys : (Question) I'm sure it isn't, how long had you been together?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) California is beautiful I know, but it can also be pretty quick paced.
usr : We were together 10 years. I am just disgusted that it had to happen at this point. Christmas week, of all weeks.
sys : (Others) Are you still working?
usr : I am still working right now. Luckily, California has plenty of money for bureacrats lie myself.
usr : I contributed to the marriage for sure.
usr : I love my wife and my great kids
sys : (Others) It's important that you know that you can feel whatever way you need to about your loss. Its a tough time of year for something like that.
sys : (Question) Had things been pretty rocky?
usr : Things like this were sudden. I mean, I never expected her to up and walk out with the kids.
usr : The only thing I can think of was that California was getting too expensive and the homeless were taking over LA; that may have spooked her to leave the state.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Wow, that's horrible. It seems you should have some kind of legal authority in that aspect.
sys : (Question) Is that a big problem out there?
usr : I really don't have any discourse. The kids are almost 18. They are twins. Yeah, in her eyes, she seems fed up with the state. She left me for Texas, the state, not the person.
usr : I mean, she never mentioned loving, "Text," but the kids are bing into the Dallas Cowboys
sys : (Others) It is important that you understand that it seems that she has been thinking of this for a while.
usr : I overhead her say that Texas is a free state and my twin boys do love the Dallas Cowboy's team.
sys : (Question) Does she have family there?
usr : Yes, she does. Both her parents live in Laredo.....big spread, too.
sys : (Question) Have you spoken with her since she left?
usr : Well, she left two days ago. I came home and the furniture and my widescreen TV were all gone.
usr : We lived in a small apartment in LA.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's mid-boggling..
usr : I am D-I-S-G-U-S-T-E-D to the Nth degree.
sys : (Others) Do you have any hobbies?
usr : Any help to get her to come back would help.
usr : My hobbies are on hold.....I need to get "un-disgusted" first.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, I can't make her come back, but I can provide you with some information on how to get through these tough times.
usr : ok.
usr : I am all ears.....
sys : (Others) I understand, it can be good to help get some stress out in other ways. Do you excercise?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What kind of hobbies do you have?
usr : I have a gym membership....if they are even open with the COVID-19.
usr : Maybe I can just jog or speed walk every day. Perhaps pushups can help?
| (Self-disclosure) I like to run every morning, and it seems to help make alot of stress evaporate. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well, my wife of 10 years just decided to request a divorce, which is very unexpected. She is saying that she is moving out with the two kids.". | usr : Well, it has been a hard week.
usr : My wife decided to separate from me with the two klids.
sys : (Question) Whats been going on?
sys : (Others) Oh no, that's not good
usr : I am disgusted....just like President Donald Trump is with the $600 dollar stimulus checks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ain't that the truth.
usr : It just isn't my fault.
usr : My wife had no right to leave California without me.
usr : I made a mistake making California my home.
sys : (Question) I'm sure it isn't, how long had you been together?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) California is beautiful I know, but it can also be pretty quick paced.
usr : We were together 10 years. I am just disgusted that it had to happen at this point. Christmas week, of all weeks.
sys : (Others) Are you still working?
usr : I am still working right now. Luckily, California has plenty of money for bureacrats lie myself.
usr : I contributed to the marriage for sure.
usr : I love my wife and my great kids
sys : (Others) It's important that you know that you can feel whatever way you need to about your loss. Its a tough time of year for something like that.
sys : (Question) Had things been pretty rocky?
usr : Things like this were sudden. I mean, I never expected her to up and walk out with the kids.
usr : The only thing I can think of was that California was getting too expensive and the homeless were taking over LA; that may have spooked her to leave the state.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Wow, that's horrible. It seems you should have some kind of legal authority in that aspect.
sys : (Question) Is that a big problem out there?
usr : I really don't have any discourse. The kids are almost 18. They are twins. Yeah, in her eyes, she seems fed up with the state. She left me for Texas, the state, not the person.
usr : I mean, she never mentioned loving, "Text," but the kids are bing into the Dallas Cowboys
sys : (Others) It is important that you understand that it seems that she has been thinking of this for a while.
usr : I overhead her say that Texas is a free state and my twin boys do love the Dallas Cowboy's team.
sys : (Question) Does she have family there?
usr : Yes, she does. Both her parents live in Laredo.....big spread, too.
sys : (Question) Have you spoken with her since she left?
usr : Well, she left two days ago. I came home and the furniture and my widescreen TV were all gone.
usr : We lived in a small apartment in LA.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's mid-boggling..
usr : I am D-I-S-G-U-S-T-E-D to the Nth degree.
sys : (Others) Do you have any hobbies?
usr : Any help to get her to come back would help.
usr : My hobbies are on hold.....I need to get "un-disgusted" first.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, I can't make her come back, but I can provide you with some information on how to get through these tough times.
usr : ok.
usr : I am all ears.....
sys : (Others) I understand, it can be good to help get some stress out in other ways. Do you excercise?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What kind of hobbies do you have?
usr : I have a gym membership....if they are even open with the COVID-19.
usr : Maybe I can just jog or speed walk every day. Perhaps pushups can help?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I like to run every morning, and it seems to help make alot of stress evaporate.
usr : Oh, that may just help me relax and think about other things besides my wifey and twin kiddos.
usr : Well, your input has helped.
| (Providing Suggestions) I have found for me anyway, that running is an amazing stress reliever. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"The person ghosted me after we had an argument and I am really upset about it.". | (Others) Hello! How are you doing today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"The person ghosted me after we had an argument and I am really upset about it.". | sys : (Others) Hello! How are you doing today?
usr : Hello, I'm good and yourself
| (Others) I'm doing well, thank you! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"The person ghosted me after we had an argument and I am really upset about it.". | sys : (Others) Hello! How are you doing today?
usr : Hello, I'm good and yourself
sys : (Others) I'm doing well, thank you!
usr : I am really a little upset.
| (Question) I'm so sorry to hear that. What's going on that's making you feel that way? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"The person ghosted me after we had an argument and I am really upset about it.". | sys : (Others) Hello! How are you doing today?
usr : Hello, I'm good and yourself
sys : (Others) I'm doing well, thank you!
usr : I am really a little upset.
sys : (Question) I'm so sorry to hear that. What's going on that's making you feel that way?
usr : Me and my partner had an argument and I got ghosted after. It's been 2 weeks.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's terrible. So you had an argument and he hasn't spoken to you in two weeks. Is that correct? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"The person ghosted me after we had an argument and I am really upset about it.". | sys : (Others) Hello! How are you doing today?
usr : Hello, I'm good and yourself
sys : (Others) I'm doing well, thank you!
usr : I am really a little upset.
sys : (Question) I'm so sorry to hear that. What's going on that's making you feel that way?
usr : Me and my partner had an argument and I got ghosted after. It's been 2 weeks.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's terrible. So you had an argument and he hasn't spoken to you in two weeks. Is that correct?
usr : Yes
| (Reflection of feelings) I can imagine that you must be really hurt amongst a number of other feelings. Hearing you tell me that he has done this is upsetting to me as well. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"The person ghosted me after we had an argument and I am really upset about it.". | sys : (Others) Hello! How are you doing today?
usr : Hello, I'm good and yourself
sys : (Others) I'm doing well, thank you!
usr : I am really a little upset.
sys : (Question) I'm so sorry to hear that. What's going on that's making you feel that way?
usr : Me and my partner had an argument and I got ghosted after. It's been 2 weeks.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's terrible. So you had an argument and he hasn't spoken to you in two weeks. Is that correct?
usr : Yes
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can imagine that you must be really hurt amongst a number of other feelings. Hearing you tell me that he has done this is upsetting to me as well.
| (Self-disclosure) I've had the same thing done to me and I can remember being extremely distraught. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"The person ghosted me after we had an argument and I am really upset about it.". | sys : (Others) Hello! How are you doing today?
usr : Hello, I'm good and yourself
sys : (Others) I'm doing well, thank you!
usr : I am really a little upset.
sys : (Question) I'm so sorry to hear that. What's going on that's making you feel that way?
usr : Me and my partner had an argument and I got ghosted after. It's been 2 weeks.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's terrible. So you had an argument and he hasn't spoken to you in two weeks. Is that correct?
usr : Yes
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can imagine that you must be really hurt amongst a number of other feelings. Hearing you tell me that he has done this is upsetting to me as well.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've had the same thing done to me and I can remember being extremely distraught.
usr : Yeah, I just do not know what to do
| (Others) Do you mind me asking what the argument was about? If you don't mind going into a little more detail, I may be able to help you more. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"The person ghosted me after we had an argument and I am really upset about it.". | sys : (Others) Hello! How are you doing today?
usr : Hello, I'm good and yourself
sys : (Others) I'm doing well, thank you!
usr : I am really a little upset.
sys : (Question) I'm so sorry to hear that. What's going on that's making you feel that way?
usr : Me and my partner had an argument and I got ghosted after. It's been 2 weeks.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's terrible. So you had an argument and he hasn't spoken to you in two weeks. Is that correct?
usr : Yes
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can imagine that you must be really hurt amongst a number of other feelings. Hearing you tell me that he has done this is upsetting to me as well.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've had the same thing done to me and I can remember being extremely distraught.
usr : Yeah, I just do not know what to do
sys : (Others) Do you mind me asking what the argument was about? If you don't mind going into a little more detail, I may be able to help you more.
usr : I was sick and he did not call me all day to even check in on me. I told him that I was upset about that.
| (Others) That must be such a terrible feeling. So the argument started because you were sick, he didn't check in on you at all for that entire day, and when you expressed your feelings to him, it turned into an argument? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"The person ghosted me after we had an argument and I am really upset about it.". | sys : (Others) Hello! How are you doing today?
usr : Hello, I'm good and yourself
sys : (Others) I'm doing well, thank you!
usr : I am really a little upset.
sys : (Question) I'm so sorry to hear that. What's going on that's making you feel that way?
usr : Me and my partner had an argument and I got ghosted after. It's been 2 weeks.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's terrible. So you had an argument and he hasn't spoken to you in two weeks. Is that correct?
usr : Yes
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can imagine that you must be really hurt amongst a number of other feelings. Hearing you tell me that he has done this is upsetting to me as well.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've had the same thing done to me and I can remember being extremely distraught.
usr : Yeah, I just do not know what to do
sys : (Others) Do you mind me asking what the argument was about? If you don't mind going into a little more detail, I may be able to help you more.
usr : I was sick and he did not call me all day to even check in on me. I told him that I was upset about that.
sys : (Others) That must be such a terrible feeling. So the argument started because you were sick, he didn't check in on you at all for that entire day, and when you expressed your feelings to him, it turned into an argument?
| (Others) Has he ever acted this way towards you before? For example, has he ever shown a lack of empathy towards you like this in the past? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"The person ghosted me after we had an argument and I am really upset about it.". | sys : (Others) Hello! How are you doing today?
usr : Hello, I'm good and yourself
sys : (Others) I'm doing well, thank you!
usr : I am really a little upset.
sys : (Question) I'm so sorry to hear that. What's going on that's making you feel that way?
usr : Me and my partner had an argument and I got ghosted after. It's been 2 weeks.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's terrible. So you had an argument and he hasn't spoken to you in two weeks. Is that correct?
usr : Yes
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can imagine that you must be really hurt amongst a number of other feelings. Hearing you tell me that he has done this is upsetting to me as well.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've had the same thing done to me and I can remember being extremely distraught.
usr : Yeah, I just do not know what to do
sys : (Others) Do you mind me asking what the argument was about? If you don't mind going into a little more detail, I may be able to help you more.
usr : I was sick and he did not call me all day to even check in on me. I told him that I was upset about that.
sys : (Others) That must be such a terrible feeling. So the argument started because you were sick, he didn't check in on you at all for that entire day, and when you expressed your feelings to him, it turned into an argument?
sys : (Others) Has he ever acted this way towards you before? For example, has he ever shown a lack of empathy towards you like this in the past?
| (Others) Are you still there? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"The person ghosted me after we had an argument and I am really upset about it.". | sys : (Others) Hello! How are you doing today?
usr : Hello, I'm good and yourself
sys : (Others) I'm doing well, thank you!
usr : I am really a little upset.
sys : (Question) I'm so sorry to hear that. What's going on that's making you feel that way?
usr : Me and my partner had an argument and I got ghosted after. It's been 2 weeks.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's terrible. So you had an argument and he hasn't spoken to you in two weeks. Is that correct?
usr : Yes
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can imagine that you must be really hurt amongst a number of other feelings. Hearing you tell me that he has done this is upsetting to me as well.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've had the same thing done to me and I can remember being extremely distraught.
usr : Yeah, I just do not know what to do
sys : (Others) Do you mind me asking what the argument was about? If you don't mind going into a little more detail, I may be able to help you more.
usr : I was sick and he did not call me all day to even check in on me. I told him that I was upset about that.
sys : (Others) That must be such a terrible feeling. So the argument started because you were sick, he didn't check in on you at all for that entire day, and when you expressed your feelings to him, it turned into an argument?
sys : (Others) Has he ever acted this way towards you before? For example, has he ever shown a lack of empathy towards you like this in the past?
sys : (Others) Are you still there?
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried reaching out to him throughout the course of these past two weeks to see if he would respond? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"The person ghosted me after we had an argument and I am really upset about it.". | sys : (Others) Hello! How are you doing today?
usr : Hello, I'm good and yourself
sys : (Others) I'm doing well, thank you!
usr : I am really a little upset.
sys : (Question) I'm so sorry to hear that. What's going on that's making you feel that way?
usr : Me and my partner had an argument and I got ghosted after. It's been 2 weeks.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's terrible. So you had an argument and he hasn't spoken to you in two weeks. Is that correct?
usr : Yes
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can imagine that you must be really hurt amongst a number of other feelings. Hearing you tell me that he has done this is upsetting to me as well.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've had the same thing done to me and I can remember being extremely distraught.
usr : Yeah, I just do not know what to do
sys : (Others) Do you mind me asking what the argument was about? If you don't mind going into a little more detail, I may be able to help you more.
usr : I was sick and he did not call me all day to even check in on me. I told him that I was upset about that.
sys : (Others) That must be such a terrible feeling. So the argument started because you were sick, he didn't check in on you at all for that entire day, and when you expressed your feelings to him, it turned into an argument?
sys : (Others) Has he ever acted this way towards you before? For example, has he ever shown a lack of empathy towards you like this in the past?
sys : (Others) Are you still there?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried reaching out to him throughout the course of these past two weeks to see if he would respond?
| (Others) I would really like to help you find a solution to this problem, but it appears as though you may not be active anymore. I'm going to wait a few more minute for you to respond before cancelling the chat. In the event that I don't hear back from you, I wish you the best! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend told this guy that I like him! It was a secret.". | usr : I'm sooo pissed at my friend!
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hi. I see that you are upset. I have been at times as well. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend told this guy that I like him! It was a secret.". | usr : I'm sooo pissed at my friend!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hi. I see that you are upset. I have been at times as well.
| (Reflection of feelings) What about your friend is making you upset? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend told this guy that I like him! It was a secret.". | usr : I'm sooo pissed at my friend!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hi. I see that you are upset. I have been at times as well.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) What about your friend is making you upset?
usr : I was completely betrayed by him!
| (Information) What about him has made you feel betrayed? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend told this guy that I like him! It was a secret.". | usr : I'm sooo pissed at my friend!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hi. I see that you are upset. I have been at times as well.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) What about your friend is making you upset?
usr : I was completely betrayed by him!
sys : (Information) What about him has made you feel betrayed?
usr : I told my friend I kind of have a thing for this guy in our friend group and he actually told the guy! This guys has a girlfriend and I'm really cool with her. Now everything is soooo awkward
| (Self-disclosure) I have been in situations where similar comments have been made. |
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