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### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have always been an honors student but with virtual school, I'm falling so far behind and I'm not sure when school will ever go back to normal.". | sys : (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?
sys : (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?
sys : (Others) *you
usr : I'm very stressed. Virtual school is so hard.
usr : I've never gotten bad grades before this year.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are having trouble with Virtual school being so hard and it's causing you stress, am I understanding correctly?
usr : Yes, that is correct. I need to be in a classroom to really grasp the material, I think.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember being in your position
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it's very hard and I am so sorry that you are stressed.
usr : I just want to quit school because I can't seem to do better.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know you said you want to quit, but hang in there!
usr : I wish I knew how long we would have to be virtual. I don't think I can last another semester teaching myself from home.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you have always done well with school, this virus has made it to where so many people are struggling. Just chatting with you, I can feel how stressed and anxious about it you are!
usr : Yes, I was always an honors student so this is a huge change for me. I'm afraid it will reflect on my GPA forever.
sys : (Information) I know that the situation with virtual learning is out of your control when it comes to how long it will last but is there anything you could do to relieve your stress while you are trying to learn things yourself?
usr : I tried exercise to see if that would help. It hasn't really helped because the time I spend exercising I just think I could be studying.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) When you start feeling stressed maybe you could try deep breathing for a few minutes to relax again. Or take a quick break and get some fresh air?
sys : (Others) Is there anything else that you do in any other situation that would normally help you relax?
usr : I could try deep breathing. Fresh air is hard because we're in the middle of a snow storm!
usr : I like to go to a spa when I'm really stressed.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Oh wow that would make things complicated! But yes the deep breathing would definitely help, I'm sure!
usr : I will try the deep breathing more often.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could reward yourself with a spa trip ever so often, since you enjoy it?
usr : That's a good idea. Maybe I could make it a reward for a good grade on a test.
| (Others) Yes, please do! I am almost certain that could help you! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have always been an honors student but with virtual school, I'm falling so far behind and I'm not sure when school will ever go back to normal.". | sys : (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?
sys : (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?
sys : (Others) *you
usr : I'm very stressed. Virtual school is so hard.
usr : I've never gotten bad grades before this year.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are having trouble with Virtual school being so hard and it's causing you stress, am I understanding correctly?
usr : Yes, that is correct. I need to be in a classroom to really grasp the material, I think.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember being in your position
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it's very hard and I am so sorry that you are stressed.
usr : I just want to quit school because I can't seem to do better.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know you said you want to quit, but hang in there!
usr : I wish I knew how long we would have to be virtual. I don't think I can last another semester teaching myself from home.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you have always done well with school, this virus has made it to where so many people are struggling. Just chatting with you, I can feel how stressed and anxious about it you are!
usr : Yes, I was always an honors student so this is a huge change for me. I'm afraid it will reflect on my GPA forever.
sys : (Information) I know that the situation with virtual learning is out of your control when it comes to how long it will last but is there anything you could do to relieve your stress while you are trying to learn things yourself?
usr : I tried exercise to see if that would help. It hasn't really helped because the time I spend exercising I just think I could be studying.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) When you start feeling stressed maybe you could try deep breathing for a few minutes to relax again. Or take a quick break and get some fresh air?
sys : (Others) Is there anything else that you do in any other situation that would normally help you relax?
usr : I could try deep breathing. Fresh air is hard because we're in the middle of a snow storm!
usr : I like to go to a spa when I'm really stressed.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Oh wow that would make things complicated! But yes the deep breathing would definitely help, I'm sure!
usr : I will try the deep breathing more often.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could reward yourself with a spa trip ever so often, since you enjoy it?
usr : That's a good idea. Maybe I could make it a reward for a good grade on a test.
sys : (Others) Yes, please do! I am almost certain that could help you!
usr : I think it might too!
| (Others) Yes, please do! I am almost certain that could help you! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with me.". | usr : I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that.
| (Question) Hello, how are you today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with me.". | usr : I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that.
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I've been better. How are you?
| (Question) I'm better than I deserve. Does teaching your son give you a lot of anxiety? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with me.". | usr : I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that.
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I've been better. How are you?
sys : (Question) I'm better than I deserve. Does teaching your son give you a lot of anxiety?
usr : Yes, I feel like I'm responsible for getting them to do their schoolwork, maintain my mother sons relationship, and make sure that they do well in their schoolwork.
usr : It's a lot that is on my plate on top of the other things that I'm responsible for.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Alot of parents are experiencing the same difficulty, even I am experiencing trouble with my child. It is a lot of alien stress to us when, in the past, we were only responsible for ensuring that homework is done. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with me.". | usr : I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that.
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I've been better. How are you?
sys : (Question) I'm better than I deserve. Does teaching your son give you a lot of anxiety?
usr : Yes, I feel like I'm responsible for getting them to do their schoolwork, maintain my mother sons relationship, and make sure that they do well in their schoolwork.
usr : It's a lot that is on my plate on top of the other things that I'm responsible for.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Alot of parents are experiencing the same difficulty, even I am experiencing trouble with my child. It is a lot of alien stress to us when, in the past, we were only responsible for ensuring that homework is done.
usr : I agree with you there. It would be nice if they could be in school, but I understand that they shouldn't be.
usr : I'd like more help and understanding from my husband, but he seems to be incapable of that.
usr : Unless I badger him for it.
| (Providing Suggestions) It's kind of a tired saying, but one strategy that has helped me is the One day at a time strategy. I'm sure you've heard of it. Basically, it means just do for today, don't worry about yesterday, don't stress over tomorrow, just treat this day as it's own task. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with me.". | usr : I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that.
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I've been better. How are you?
sys : (Question) I'm better than I deserve. Does teaching your son give you a lot of anxiety?
usr : Yes, I feel like I'm responsible for getting them to do their schoolwork, maintain my mother sons relationship, and make sure that they do well in their schoolwork.
usr : It's a lot that is on my plate on top of the other things that I'm responsible for.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Alot of parents are experiencing the same difficulty, even I am experiencing trouble with my child. It is a lot of alien stress to us when, in the past, we were only responsible for ensuring that homework is done.
usr : I agree with you there. It would be nice if they could be in school, but I understand that they shouldn't be.
usr : I'd like more help and understanding from my husband, but he seems to be incapable of that.
usr : Unless I badger him for it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It's kind of a tired saying, but one strategy that has helped me is the One day at a time strategy. I'm sure you've heard of it. Basically, it means just do for today, don't worry about yesterday, don't stress over tomorrow, just treat this day as it's own task.
usr : I've definitely heard that before, but you are completely right. I need to stop worrying about yesterday and tomorrow and focus on today, but I'm just not very good at that.
| (Providing Suggestions) Then, within that, one task at a time. Segment things he wants to do then reward him with them upon successful completion of school-tasks. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with me.". | usr : I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that.
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I've been better. How are you?
sys : (Question) I'm better than I deserve. Does teaching your son give you a lot of anxiety?
usr : Yes, I feel like I'm responsible for getting them to do their schoolwork, maintain my mother sons relationship, and make sure that they do well in their schoolwork.
usr : It's a lot that is on my plate on top of the other things that I'm responsible for.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Alot of parents are experiencing the same difficulty, even I am experiencing trouble with my child. It is a lot of alien stress to us when, in the past, we were only responsible for ensuring that homework is done.
usr : I agree with you there. It would be nice if they could be in school, but I understand that they shouldn't be.
usr : I'd like more help and understanding from my husband, but he seems to be incapable of that.
usr : Unless I badger him for it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It's kind of a tired saying, but one strategy that has helped me is the One day at a time strategy. I'm sure you've heard of it. Basically, it means just do for today, don't worry about yesterday, don't stress over tomorrow, just treat this day as it's own task.
usr : I've definitely heard that before, but you are completely right. I need to stop worrying about yesterday and tomorrow and focus on today, but I'm just not very good at that.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then, within that, one task at a time. Segment things he wants to do then reward him with them upon successful completion of school-tasks.
usr : Yea, I definitely need to get better at doing that. I end up letting them play video games and with toys in the middle of the day sometimes because I have work that I have to get done as well.
| (Self-disclosure) For my example, my daughter very much likes to play video games. In order to earn video game time I need two successful assignments. They have to be small, reasonable tasks, but also an amount of time that allows you to take it one bite at a time. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with me.". | usr : I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that.
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I've been better. How are you?
sys : (Question) I'm better than I deserve. Does teaching your son give you a lot of anxiety?
usr : Yes, I feel like I'm responsible for getting them to do their schoolwork, maintain my mother sons relationship, and make sure that they do well in their schoolwork.
usr : It's a lot that is on my plate on top of the other things that I'm responsible for.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Alot of parents are experiencing the same difficulty, even I am experiencing trouble with my child. It is a lot of alien stress to us when, in the past, we were only responsible for ensuring that homework is done.
usr : I agree with you there. It would be nice if they could be in school, but I understand that they shouldn't be.
usr : I'd like more help and understanding from my husband, but he seems to be incapable of that.
usr : Unless I badger him for it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It's kind of a tired saying, but one strategy that has helped me is the One day at a time strategy. I'm sure you've heard of it. Basically, it means just do for today, don't worry about yesterday, don't stress over tomorrow, just treat this day as it's own task.
usr : I've definitely heard that before, but you are completely right. I need to stop worrying about yesterday and tomorrow and focus on today, but I'm just not very good at that.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then, within that, one task at a time. Segment things he wants to do then reward him with them upon successful completion of school-tasks.
usr : Yea, I definitely need to get better at doing that. I end up letting them play video games and with toys in the middle of the day sometimes because I have work that I have to get done as well.
sys : (Self-disclosure) For my example, my daughter very much likes to play video games. In order to earn video game time I need two successful assignments. They have to be small, reasonable tasks, but also an amount of time that allows you to take it one bite at a time.
| (Question) I mean, think about it, how do you eat a cow? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with me.". | usr : I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that.
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I've been better. How are you?
sys : (Question) I'm better than I deserve. Does teaching your son give you a lot of anxiety?
usr : Yes, I feel like I'm responsible for getting them to do their schoolwork, maintain my mother sons relationship, and make sure that they do well in their schoolwork.
usr : It's a lot that is on my plate on top of the other things that I'm responsible for.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Alot of parents are experiencing the same difficulty, even I am experiencing trouble with my child. It is a lot of alien stress to us when, in the past, we were only responsible for ensuring that homework is done.
usr : I agree with you there. It would be nice if they could be in school, but I understand that they shouldn't be.
usr : I'd like more help and understanding from my husband, but he seems to be incapable of that.
usr : Unless I badger him for it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It's kind of a tired saying, but one strategy that has helped me is the One day at a time strategy. I'm sure you've heard of it. Basically, it means just do for today, don't worry about yesterday, don't stress over tomorrow, just treat this day as it's own task.
usr : I've definitely heard that before, but you are completely right. I need to stop worrying about yesterday and tomorrow and focus on today, but I'm just not very good at that.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then, within that, one task at a time. Segment things he wants to do then reward him with them upon successful completion of school-tasks.
usr : Yea, I definitely need to get better at doing that. I end up letting them play video games and with toys in the middle of the day sometimes because I have work that I have to get done as well.
sys : (Self-disclosure) For my example, my daughter very much likes to play video games. In order to earn video game time I need two successful assignments. They have to be small, reasonable tasks, but also an amount of time that allows you to take it one bite at a time.
sys : (Question) I mean, think about it, how do you eat a cow?
usr : That's very smart on your part. I really need to learn to actually follow through and do that.
usr : That is true and a very strange reference.
| (Others) Well, one piece at a time. I apologize for the strangeness of the reference. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with me.". | usr : I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that.
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I've been better. How are you?
sys : (Question) I'm better than I deserve. Does teaching your son give you a lot of anxiety?
usr : Yes, I feel like I'm responsible for getting them to do their schoolwork, maintain my mother sons relationship, and make sure that they do well in their schoolwork.
usr : It's a lot that is on my plate on top of the other things that I'm responsible for.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Alot of parents are experiencing the same difficulty, even I am experiencing trouble with my child. It is a lot of alien stress to us when, in the past, we were only responsible for ensuring that homework is done.
usr : I agree with you there. It would be nice if they could be in school, but I understand that they shouldn't be.
usr : I'd like more help and understanding from my husband, but he seems to be incapable of that.
usr : Unless I badger him for it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It's kind of a tired saying, but one strategy that has helped me is the One day at a time strategy. I'm sure you've heard of it. Basically, it means just do for today, don't worry about yesterday, don't stress over tomorrow, just treat this day as it's own task.
usr : I've definitely heard that before, but you are completely right. I need to stop worrying about yesterday and tomorrow and focus on today, but I'm just not very good at that.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then, within that, one task at a time. Segment things he wants to do then reward him with them upon successful completion of school-tasks.
usr : Yea, I definitely need to get better at doing that. I end up letting them play video games and with toys in the middle of the day sometimes because I have work that I have to get done as well.
sys : (Self-disclosure) For my example, my daughter very much likes to play video games. In order to earn video game time I need two successful assignments. They have to be small, reasonable tasks, but also an amount of time that allows you to take it one bite at a time.
sys : (Question) I mean, think about it, how do you eat a cow?
usr : That's very smart on your part. I really need to learn to actually follow through and do that.
usr : That is true and a very strange reference.
sys : (Others) Well, one piece at a time. I apologize for the strangeness of the reference.
usr : No, I appreciate the different references.
usr : I was just surprised by it.
usr : One piece at a time makes more sense than allowing myself to be bogged down by everything at once when I can only accomplish one thing at a time.
| (Providing Suggestions) You can't do it all at once, and neither can he. It's not a perfect solution, but its a solution that has worked for me. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with me.". | usr : I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that.
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I've been better. How are you?
sys : (Question) I'm better than I deserve. Does teaching your son give you a lot of anxiety?
usr : Yes, I feel like I'm responsible for getting them to do their schoolwork, maintain my mother sons relationship, and make sure that they do well in their schoolwork.
usr : It's a lot that is on my plate on top of the other things that I'm responsible for.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Alot of parents are experiencing the same difficulty, even I am experiencing trouble with my child. It is a lot of alien stress to us when, in the past, we were only responsible for ensuring that homework is done.
usr : I agree with you there. It would be nice if they could be in school, but I understand that they shouldn't be.
usr : I'd like more help and understanding from my husband, but he seems to be incapable of that.
usr : Unless I badger him for it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It's kind of a tired saying, but one strategy that has helped me is the One day at a time strategy. I'm sure you've heard of it. Basically, it means just do for today, don't worry about yesterday, don't stress over tomorrow, just treat this day as it's own task.
usr : I've definitely heard that before, but you are completely right. I need to stop worrying about yesterday and tomorrow and focus on today, but I'm just not very good at that.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then, within that, one task at a time. Segment things he wants to do then reward him with them upon successful completion of school-tasks.
usr : Yea, I definitely need to get better at doing that. I end up letting them play video games and with toys in the middle of the day sometimes because I have work that I have to get done as well.
sys : (Self-disclosure) For my example, my daughter very much likes to play video games. In order to earn video game time I need two successful assignments. They have to be small, reasonable tasks, but also an amount of time that allows you to take it one bite at a time.
sys : (Question) I mean, think about it, how do you eat a cow?
usr : That's very smart on your part. I really need to learn to actually follow through and do that.
usr : That is true and a very strange reference.
sys : (Others) Well, one piece at a time. I apologize for the strangeness of the reference.
usr : No, I appreciate the different references.
usr : I was just surprised by it.
usr : One piece at a time makes more sense than allowing myself to be bogged down by everything at once when I can only accomplish one thing at a time.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You can't do it all at once, and neither can he. It's not a perfect solution, but its a solution that has worked for me.
usr : You've made some very good points and I just need to get better at taking things one thing at a time.
| (Information) This is a strange new world. Sometimes we have to try strange new things to cope. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with me.". | usr : I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that.
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I've been better. How are you?
sys : (Question) I'm better than I deserve. Does teaching your son give you a lot of anxiety?
usr : Yes, I feel like I'm responsible for getting them to do their schoolwork, maintain my mother sons relationship, and make sure that they do well in their schoolwork.
usr : It's a lot that is on my plate on top of the other things that I'm responsible for.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Alot of parents are experiencing the same difficulty, even I am experiencing trouble with my child. It is a lot of alien stress to us when, in the past, we were only responsible for ensuring that homework is done.
usr : I agree with you there. It would be nice if they could be in school, but I understand that they shouldn't be.
usr : I'd like more help and understanding from my husband, but he seems to be incapable of that.
usr : Unless I badger him for it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It's kind of a tired saying, but one strategy that has helped me is the One day at a time strategy. I'm sure you've heard of it. Basically, it means just do for today, don't worry about yesterday, don't stress over tomorrow, just treat this day as it's own task.
usr : I've definitely heard that before, but you are completely right. I need to stop worrying about yesterday and tomorrow and focus on today, but I'm just not very good at that.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then, within that, one task at a time. Segment things he wants to do then reward him with them upon successful completion of school-tasks.
usr : Yea, I definitely need to get better at doing that. I end up letting them play video games and with toys in the middle of the day sometimes because I have work that I have to get done as well.
sys : (Self-disclosure) For my example, my daughter very much likes to play video games. In order to earn video game time I need two successful assignments. They have to be small, reasonable tasks, but also an amount of time that allows you to take it one bite at a time.
sys : (Question) I mean, think about it, how do you eat a cow?
usr : That's very smart on your part. I really need to learn to actually follow through and do that.
usr : That is true and a very strange reference.
sys : (Others) Well, one piece at a time. I apologize for the strangeness of the reference.
usr : No, I appreciate the different references.
usr : I was just surprised by it.
usr : One piece at a time makes more sense than allowing myself to be bogged down by everything at once when I can only accomplish one thing at a time.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You can't do it all at once, and neither can he. It's not a perfect solution, but its a solution that has worked for me.
usr : You've made some very good points and I just need to get better at taking things one thing at a time.
sys : (Information) This is a strange new world. Sometimes we have to try strange new things to cope.
usr : That is definitely true. No one could have possibly been prepared for what has been happening.
usr : Covid has been disrupting so many people's lives in so many different ways.
| (Information) I'm glad I was able to help. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with me.". | usr : I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that.
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I've been better. How are you?
sys : (Question) I'm better than I deserve. Does teaching your son give you a lot of anxiety?
usr : Yes, I feel like I'm responsible for getting them to do their schoolwork, maintain my mother sons relationship, and make sure that they do well in their schoolwork.
usr : It's a lot that is on my plate on top of the other things that I'm responsible for.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Alot of parents are experiencing the same difficulty, even I am experiencing trouble with my child. It is a lot of alien stress to us when, in the past, we were only responsible for ensuring that homework is done.
usr : I agree with you there. It would be nice if they could be in school, but I understand that they shouldn't be.
usr : I'd like more help and understanding from my husband, but he seems to be incapable of that.
usr : Unless I badger him for it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It's kind of a tired saying, but one strategy that has helped me is the One day at a time strategy. I'm sure you've heard of it. Basically, it means just do for today, don't worry about yesterday, don't stress over tomorrow, just treat this day as it's own task.
usr : I've definitely heard that before, but you are completely right. I need to stop worrying about yesterday and tomorrow and focus on today, but I'm just not very good at that.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then, within that, one task at a time. Segment things he wants to do then reward him with them upon successful completion of school-tasks.
usr : Yea, I definitely need to get better at doing that. I end up letting them play video games and with toys in the middle of the day sometimes because I have work that I have to get done as well.
sys : (Self-disclosure) For my example, my daughter very much likes to play video games. In order to earn video game time I need two successful assignments. They have to be small, reasonable tasks, but also an amount of time that allows you to take it one bite at a time.
sys : (Question) I mean, think about it, how do you eat a cow?
usr : That's very smart on your part. I really need to learn to actually follow through and do that.
usr : That is true and a very strange reference.
sys : (Others) Well, one piece at a time. I apologize for the strangeness of the reference.
usr : No, I appreciate the different references.
usr : I was just surprised by it.
usr : One piece at a time makes more sense than allowing myself to be bogged down by everything at once when I can only accomplish one thing at a time.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You can't do it all at once, and neither can he. It's not a perfect solution, but its a solution that has worked for me.
usr : You've made some very good points and I just need to get better at taking things one thing at a time.
sys : (Information) This is a strange new world. Sometimes we have to try strange new things to cope.
usr : That is definitely true. No one could have possibly been prepared for what has been happening.
usr : Covid has been disrupting so many people's lives in so many different ways.
sys : (Information) I'm glad I was able to help.
usr : It's just nice to be able to talk to someone else who is experiencing some of the same things.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think you will find that a lot of your friends are in the same place. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with me.". | usr : I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that.
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I've been better. How are you?
sys : (Question) I'm better than I deserve. Does teaching your son give you a lot of anxiety?
usr : Yes, I feel like I'm responsible for getting them to do their schoolwork, maintain my mother sons relationship, and make sure that they do well in their schoolwork.
usr : It's a lot that is on my plate on top of the other things that I'm responsible for.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Alot of parents are experiencing the same difficulty, even I am experiencing trouble with my child. It is a lot of alien stress to us when, in the past, we were only responsible for ensuring that homework is done.
usr : I agree with you there. It would be nice if they could be in school, but I understand that they shouldn't be.
usr : I'd like more help and understanding from my husband, but he seems to be incapable of that.
usr : Unless I badger him for it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It's kind of a tired saying, but one strategy that has helped me is the One day at a time strategy. I'm sure you've heard of it. Basically, it means just do for today, don't worry about yesterday, don't stress over tomorrow, just treat this day as it's own task.
usr : I've definitely heard that before, but you are completely right. I need to stop worrying about yesterday and tomorrow and focus on today, but I'm just not very good at that.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then, within that, one task at a time. Segment things he wants to do then reward him with them upon successful completion of school-tasks.
usr : Yea, I definitely need to get better at doing that. I end up letting them play video games and with toys in the middle of the day sometimes because I have work that I have to get done as well.
sys : (Self-disclosure) For my example, my daughter very much likes to play video games. In order to earn video game time I need two successful assignments. They have to be small, reasonable tasks, but also an amount of time that allows you to take it one bite at a time.
sys : (Question) I mean, think about it, how do you eat a cow?
usr : That's very smart on your part. I really need to learn to actually follow through and do that.
usr : That is true and a very strange reference.
sys : (Others) Well, one piece at a time. I apologize for the strangeness of the reference.
usr : No, I appreciate the different references.
usr : I was just surprised by it.
usr : One piece at a time makes more sense than allowing myself to be bogged down by everything at once when I can only accomplish one thing at a time.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You can't do it all at once, and neither can he. It's not a perfect solution, but its a solution that has worked for me.
usr : You've made some very good points and I just need to get better at taking things one thing at a time.
sys : (Information) This is a strange new world. Sometimes we have to try strange new things to cope.
usr : That is definitely true. No one could have possibly been prepared for what has been happening.
usr : Covid has been disrupting so many people's lives in so many different ways.
sys : (Information) I'm glad I was able to help.
usr : It's just nice to be able to talk to someone else who is experiencing some of the same things.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think you will find that a lot of your friends are in the same place.
usr : That is probably true, but everyone has been so busy that I've only really been communicating with my husband.
| (Providing Suggestions) And that adds to stress beyond the ad-hoc homeschooling. It is important to purposefully socialize by phone or chat with friends. We humans are social creatures, and you are not an island. We all need friends. My wife has been an amazing support, but I still make time to facetime with my buddies. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with me.". | usr : I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that.
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I've been better. How are you?
sys : (Question) I'm better than I deserve. Does teaching your son give you a lot of anxiety?
usr : Yes, I feel like I'm responsible for getting them to do their schoolwork, maintain my mother sons relationship, and make sure that they do well in their schoolwork.
usr : It's a lot that is on my plate on top of the other things that I'm responsible for.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Alot of parents are experiencing the same difficulty, even I am experiencing trouble with my child. It is a lot of alien stress to us when, in the past, we were only responsible for ensuring that homework is done.
usr : I agree with you there. It would be nice if they could be in school, but I understand that they shouldn't be.
usr : I'd like more help and understanding from my husband, but he seems to be incapable of that.
usr : Unless I badger him for it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It's kind of a tired saying, but one strategy that has helped me is the One day at a time strategy. I'm sure you've heard of it. Basically, it means just do for today, don't worry about yesterday, don't stress over tomorrow, just treat this day as it's own task.
usr : I've definitely heard that before, but you are completely right. I need to stop worrying about yesterday and tomorrow and focus on today, but I'm just not very good at that.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then, within that, one task at a time. Segment things he wants to do then reward him with them upon successful completion of school-tasks.
usr : Yea, I definitely need to get better at doing that. I end up letting them play video games and with toys in the middle of the day sometimes because I have work that I have to get done as well.
sys : (Self-disclosure) For my example, my daughter very much likes to play video games. In order to earn video game time I need two successful assignments. They have to be small, reasonable tasks, but also an amount of time that allows you to take it one bite at a time.
sys : (Question) I mean, think about it, how do you eat a cow?
usr : That's very smart on your part. I really need to learn to actually follow through and do that.
usr : That is true and a very strange reference.
sys : (Others) Well, one piece at a time. I apologize for the strangeness of the reference.
usr : No, I appreciate the different references.
usr : I was just surprised by it.
usr : One piece at a time makes more sense than allowing myself to be bogged down by everything at once when I can only accomplish one thing at a time.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You can't do it all at once, and neither can he. It's not a perfect solution, but its a solution that has worked for me.
usr : You've made some very good points and I just need to get better at taking things one thing at a time.
sys : (Information) This is a strange new world. Sometimes we have to try strange new things to cope.
usr : That is definitely true. No one could have possibly been prepared for what has been happening.
usr : Covid has been disrupting so many people's lives in so many different ways.
sys : (Information) I'm glad I was able to help.
usr : It's just nice to be able to talk to someone else who is experiencing some of the same things.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think you will find that a lot of your friends are in the same place.
usr : That is probably true, but everyone has been so busy that I've only really been communicating with my husband.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) And that adds to stress beyond the ad-hoc homeschooling. It is important to purposefully socialize by phone or chat with friends. We humans are social creatures, and you are not an island. We all need friends. My wife has been an amazing support, but I still make time to facetime with my buddies.
usr : That is a very good point and I should really try to talk to my friends more than I do.
usr : Thank you for the help today. It was nice to talk to someone else.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm grateful to be of help. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Having to help my sons with their school work has put me into a negative mood because it's so hard to get them to work on stuff and I feel like they are becoming angrier with me. I feel like my relationship with my sons is getting worse and I also feel like they are getting a worse school experience having to work with me.". | usr : I'm having a hard time being my sons teacher and there is a lot of pressure with that.
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I've been better. How are you?
sys : (Question) I'm better than I deserve. Does teaching your son give you a lot of anxiety?
usr : Yes, I feel like I'm responsible for getting them to do their schoolwork, maintain my mother sons relationship, and make sure that they do well in their schoolwork.
usr : It's a lot that is on my plate on top of the other things that I'm responsible for.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Alot of parents are experiencing the same difficulty, even I am experiencing trouble with my child. It is a lot of alien stress to us when, in the past, we were only responsible for ensuring that homework is done.
usr : I agree with you there. It would be nice if they could be in school, but I understand that they shouldn't be.
usr : I'd like more help and understanding from my husband, but he seems to be incapable of that.
usr : Unless I badger him for it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It's kind of a tired saying, but one strategy that has helped me is the One day at a time strategy. I'm sure you've heard of it. Basically, it means just do for today, don't worry about yesterday, don't stress over tomorrow, just treat this day as it's own task.
usr : I've definitely heard that before, but you are completely right. I need to stop worrying about yesterday and tomorrow and focus on today, but I'm just not very good at that.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then, within that, one task at a time. Segment things he wants to do then reward him with them upon successful completion of school-tasks.
usr : Yea, I definitely need to get better at doing that. I end up letting them play video games and with toys in the middle of the day sometimes because I have work that I have to get done as well.
sys : (Self-disclosure) For my example, my daughter very much likes to play video games. In order to earn video game time I need two successful assignments. They have to be small, reasonable tasks, but also an amount of time that allows you to take it one bite at a time.
sys : (Question) I mean, think about it, how do you eat a cow?
usr : That's very smart on your part. I really need to learn to actually follow through and do that.
usr : That is true and a very strange reference.
sys : (Others) Well, one piece at a time. I apologize for the strangeness of the reference.
usr : No, I appreciate the different references.
usr : I was just surprised by it.
usr : One piece at a time makes more sense than allowing myself to be bogged down by everything at once when I can only accomplish one thing at a time.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You can't do it all at once, and neither can he. It's not a perfect solution, but its a solution that has worked for me.
usr : You've made some very good points and I just need to get better at taking things one thing at a time.
sys : (Information) This is a strange new world. Sometimes we have to try strange new things to cope.
usr : That is definitely true. No one could have possibly been prepared for what has been happening.
usr : Covid has been disrupting so many people's lives in so many different ways.
sys : (Information) I'm glad I was able to help.
usr : It's just nice to be able to talk to someone else who is experiencing some of the same things.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think you will find that a lot of your friends are in the same place.
usr : That is probably true, but everyone has been so busy that I've only really been communicating with my husband.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) And that adds to stress beyond the ad-hoc homeschooling. It is important to purposefully socialize by phone or chat with friends. We humans are social creatures, and you are not an island. We all need friends. My wife has been an amazing support, but I still make time to facetime with my buddies.
usr : That is a very good point and I should really try to talk to my friends more than I do.
usr : Thank you for the help today. It was nice to talk to someone else.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm grateful to be of help.
usr : I hope you have a nice day.
| (Information) You also. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I do not know how to move on, nothing makes me happy". | usr : hello
| (Question) hello |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I do not know how to move on, nothing makes me happy". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) hello
usr : i need som help, i feel so sad.
| (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Is there anything I can do for you? Please tell me what's wrong? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I do not know how to move on, nothing makes me happy". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) hello
usr : i need som help, i feel so sad.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Is there anything I can do for you? Please tell me what's wrong?
usr : I think you can talk to me, maybe I will feel a bit better.
usr : I had a breakup with my boyfriend.
usr : Feeling depressed, can you give me any advice?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) For sure, I am happy to talk to you. I am sorry for your breakup. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I do not know how to move on, nothing makes me happy". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) hello
usr : i need som help, i feel so sad.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Is there anything I can do for you? Please tell me what's wrong?
usr : I think you can talk to me, maybe I will feel a bit better.
usr : I had a breakup with my boyfriend.
usr : Feeling depressed, can you give me any advice?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) For sure, I am happy to talk to you. I am sorry for your breakup.
usr : Thank you, but I do not feel motivated to do anything. What should i do with my feelings?
| (Providing Suggestions) Is there anything you want to do right now that helps maybe. For example, to eat something, to listen good music or take small walk in fresh air etc |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I do not know how to move on, nothing makes me happy". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) hello
usr : i need som help, i feel so sad.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Is there anything I can do for you? Please tell me what's wrong?
usr : I think you can talk to me, maybe I will feel a bit better.
usr : I had a breakup with my boyfriend.
usr : Feeling depressed, can you give me any advice?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) For sure, I am happy to talk to you. I am sorry for your breakup.
usr : Thank you, but I do not feel motivated to do anything. What should i do with my feelings?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there anything you want to do right now that helps maybe. For example, to eat something, to listen good music or take small walk in fresh air etc
| (Reflection of feelings) I can feel you, it must be so hard to you. take your time do not think about a lot |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I do not know how to move on, nothing makes me happy". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) hello
usr : i need som help, i feel so sad.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Is there anything I can do for you? Please tell me what's wrong?
usr : I think you can talk to me, maybe I will feel a bit better.
usr : I had a breakup with my boyfriend.
usr : Feeling depressed, can you give me any advice?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) For sure, I am happy to talk to you. I am sorry for your breakup.
usr : Thank you, but I do not feel motivated to do anything. What should i do with my feelings?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there anything you want to do right now that helps maybe. For example, to eat something, to listen good music or take small walk in fresh air etc
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can feel you, it must be so hard to you. take your time do not think about a lot
| (Providing Suggestions) when I have bad times, I just want to take a nap. It maybe help you feel better |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have a great friend that has died of corona virus. I am shattered because I could not see her in her last moments or go to her funeral. All we had was facetime. She was only 35 with severe asthma. I am reeling. This happened two weeks ago and my sadness and depression is overwhelming. How can I get over this?". | (Question) Hello, what can I help you today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have a great friend that has died of corona virus. I am shattered because I could not see her in her last moments or go to her funeral. All we had was facetime. She was only 35 with severe asthma. I am reeling. This happened two weeks ago and my sadness and depression is overwhelming. How can I get over this?". | sys : (Question) Hello, what can I help you today?
usr : My depressive feelings and how to deal with them in a way I can cope.
usr : hello by the way....:)
| (Question) How long have you lived with depression? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have a great friend that has died of corona virus. I am shattered because I could not see her in her last moments or go to her funeral. All we had was facetime. She was only 35 with severe asthma. I am reeling. This happened two weeks ago and my sadness and depression is overwhelming. How can I get over this?". | sys : (Question) Hello, what can I help you today?
usr : My depressive feelings and how to deal with them in a way I can cope.
usr : hello by the way....:)
sys : (Question) How long have you lived with depression?
usr : For two weeks now.
| (Question) Do you have problem with sleeping, eating or daily activity because of it? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have a great friend that has died of corona virus. I am shattered because I could not see her in her last moments or go to her funeral. All we had was facetime. She was only 35 with severe asthma. I am reeling. This happened two weeks ago and my sadness and depression is overwhelming. How can I get over this?". | sys : (Question) Hello, what can I help you today?
usr : My depressive feelings and how to deal with them in a way I can cope.
usr : hello by the way....:)
sys : (Question) How long have you lived with depression?
usr : For two weeks now.
sys : (Question) Do you have problem with sleeping, eating or daily activity because of it?
usr : I have never experienced depression until now.
usr : Yes. I work remotely and my concentration is way off. It is affecting my production at work. I'm not enthused about anything. I am eating less. My husband tries to comfort me and it feels good in the moment but goes away when I am alone.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It seems like you're confused as what to expect and react as I understand |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have a great friend that has died of corona virus. I am shattered because I could not see her in her last moments or go to her funeral. All we had was facetime. She was only 35 with severe asthma. I am reeling. This happened two weeks ago and my sadness and depression is overwhelming. How can I get over this?". | sys : (Question) Hello, what can I help you today?
usr : My depressive feelings and how to deal with them in a way I can cope.
usr : hello by the way....:)
sys : (Question) How long have you lived with depression?
usr : For two weeks now.
sys : (Question) Do you have problem with sleeping, eating or daily activity because of it?
usr : I have never experienced depression until now.
usr : Yes. I work remotely and my concentration is way off. It is affecting my production at work. I'm not enthused about anything. I am eating less. My husband tries to comfort me and it feels good in the moment but goes away when I am alone.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It seems like you're confused as what to expect and react as I understand
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Depression is tough to deal with. We can try to find a way to temporarily suppress it but ultimately, we need to find the cause and treat |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have a great friend that has died of corona virus. I am shattered because I could not see her in her last moments or go to her funeral. All we had was facetime. She was only 35 with severe asthma. I am reeling. This happened two weeks ago and my sadness and depression is overwhelming. How can I get over this?". | sys : (Question) Hello, what can I help you today?
usr : My depressive feelings and how to deal with them in a way I can cope.
usr : hello by the way....:)
sys : (Question) How long have you lived with depression?
usr : For two weeks now.
sys : (Question) Do you have problem with sleeping, eating or daily activity because of it?
usr : I have never experienced depression until now.
usr : Yes. I work remotely and my concentration is way off. It is affecting my production at work. I'm not enthused about anything. I am eating less. My husband tries to comfort me and it feels good in the moment but goes away when I am alone.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It seems like you're confused as what to expect and react as I understand
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Depression is tough to deal with. We can try to find a way to temporarily suppress it but ultimately, we need to find the cause and treat
usr : I am not confused. I just need suggestions on overcoming a death like this. All my happiness is wrapped up in this corona virus.9 Friends, family, coworkers, outings.)
usr : How do you deal with death?
| (Self-disclosure) I cry, crying actually helps since it relieves the pain youhave to go through. After you cry, your body tends to be exhausted and you can just sleep without thinking |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have a great friend that has died of corona virus. I am shattered because I could not see her in her last moments or go to her funeral. All we had was facetime. She was only 35 with severe asthma. I am reeling. This happened two weeks ago and my sadness and depression is overwhelming. How can I get over this?". | sys : (Question) Hello, what can I help you today?
usr : My depressive feelings and how to deal with them in a way I can cope.
usr : hello by the way....:)
sys : (Question) How long have you lived with depression?
usr : For two weeks now.
sys : (Question) Do you have problem with sleeping, eating or daily activity because of it?
usr : I have never experienced depression until now.
usr : Yes. I work remotely and my concentration is way off. It is affecting my production at work. I'm not enthused about anything. I am eating less. My husband tries to comfort me and it feels good in the moment but goes away when I am alone.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It seems like you're confused as what to expect and react as I understand
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Depression is tough to deal with. We can try to find a way to temporarily suppress it but ultimately, we need to find the cause and treat
usr : I am not confused. I just need suggestions on overcoming a death like this. All my happiness is wrapped up in this corona virus.9 Friends, family, coworkers, outings.)
usr : How do you deal with death?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I cry, crying actually helps since it relieves the pain youhave to go through. After you cry, your body tends to be exhausted and you can just sleep without thinking
| (Others) However, the best way to cope with death and depression in general is stay outdoor, be closed tothe nature |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have a great friend that has died of corona virus. I am shattered because I could not see her in her last moments or go to her funeral. All we had was facetime. She was only 35 with severe asthma. I am reeling. This happened two weeks ago and my sadness and depression is overwhelming. How can I get over this?". | sys : (Question) Hello, what can I help you today?
usr : My depressive feelings and how to deal with them in a way I can cope.
usr : hello by the way....:)
sys : (Question) How long have you lived with depression?
usr : For two weeks now.
sys : (Question) Do you have problem with sleeping, eating or daily activity because of it?
usr : I have never experienced depression until now.
usr : Yes. I work remotely and my concentration is way off. It is affecting my production at work. I'm not enthused about anything. I am eating less. My husband tries to comfort me and it feels good in the moment but goes away when I am alone.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It seems like you're confused as what to expect and react as I understand
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Depression is tough to deal with. We can try to find a way to temporarily suppress it but ultimately, we need to find the cause and treat
usr : I am not confused. I just need suggestions on overcoming a death like this. All my happiness is wrapped up in this corona virus.9 Friends, family, coworkers, outings.)
usr : How do you deal with death?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I cry, crying actually helps since it relieves the pain youhave to go through. After you cry, your body tends to be exhausted and you can just sleep without thinking
sys : (Others) However, the best way to cope with death and depression in general is stay outdoor, be closed tothe nature
usr : This is true and I have noticed that crying over this is something I have not done much. I do workout intensely 4 times a week but that has fallen off too. I do workout inside with a home gym. Maybe running outside wouls be more beneficial and help me feel closer spiritually towards her.
usr : I thi nk I'm still shocked a little.
| (Self-disclosure) I have noticed that whenever I'm depressed, I feel better staying outdoor so try doing that more often. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have a great friend that has died of corona virus. I am shattered because I could not see her in her last moments or go to her funeral. All we had was facetime. She was only 35 with severe asthma. I am reeling. This happened two weeks ago and my sadness and depression is overwhelming. How can I get over this?". | sys : (Question) Hello, what can I help you today?
usr : My depressive feelings and how to deal with them in a way I can cope.
usr : hello by the way....:)
sys : (Question) How long have you lived with depression?
usr : For two weeks now.
sys : (Question) Do you have problem with sleeping, eating or daily activity because of it?
usr : I have never experienced depression until now.
usr : Yes. I work remotely and my concentration is way off. It is affecting my production at work. I'm not enthused about anything. I am eating less. My husband tries to comfort me and it feels good in the moment but goes away when I am alone.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It seems like you're confused as what to expect and react as I understand
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Depression is tough to deal with. We can try to find a way to temporarily suppress it but ultimately, we need to find the cause and treat
usr : I am not confused. I just need suggestions on overcoming a death like this. All my happiness is wrapped up in this corona virus.9 Friends, family, coworkers, outings.)
usr : How do you deal with death?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I cry, crying actually helps since it relieves the pain youhave to go through. After you cry, your body tends to be exhausted and you can just sleep without thinking
sys : (Others) However, the best way to cope with death and depression in general is stay outdoor, be closed tothe nature
usr : This is true and I have noticed that crying over this is something I have not done much. I do workout intensely 4 times a week but that has fallen off too. I do workout inside with a home gym. Maybe running outside wouls be more beneficial and help me feel closer spiritually towards her.
usr : I thi nk I'm still shocked a little.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have noticed that whenever I'm depressed, I feel better staying outdoor so try doing that more often.
| (Reflection of feelings) I understand. I also experience sudden lost a few years ago, I still haven't overcome completely but I now can be at ease thinking of him |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have a great friend that has died of corona virus. I am shattered because I could not see her in her last moments or go to her funeral. All we had was facetime. She was only 35 with severe asthma. I am reeling. This happened two weeks ago and my sadness and depression is overwhelming. How can I get over this?". | sys : (Question) Hello, what can I help you today?
usr : My depressive feelings and how to deal with them in a way I can cope.
usr : hello by the way....:)
sys : (Question) How long have you lived with depression?
usr : For two weeks now.
sys : (Question) Do you have problem with sleeping, eating or daily activity because of it?
usr : I have never experienced depression until now.
usr : Yes. I work remotely and my concentration is way off. It is affecting my production at work. I'm not enthused about anything. I am eating less. My husband tries to comfort me and it feels good in the moment but goes away when I am alone.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It seems like you're confused as what to expect and react as I understand
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Depression is tough to deal with. We can try to find a way to temporarily suppress it but ultimately, we need to find the cause and treat
usr : I am not confused. I just need suggestions on overcoming a death like this. All my happiness is wrapped up in this corona virus.9 Friends, family, coworkers, outings.)
usr : How do you deal with death?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I cry, crying actually helps since it relieves the pain youhave to go through. After you cry, your body tends to be exhausted and you can just sleep without thinking
sys : (Others) However, the best way to cope with death and depression in general is stay outdoor, be closed tothe nature
usr : This is true and I have noticed that crying over this is something I have not done much. I do workout intensely 4 times a week but that has fallen off too. I do workout inside with a home gym. Maybe running outside wouls be more beneficial and help me feel closer spiritually towards her.
usr : I thi nk I'm still shocked a little.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have noticed that whenever I'm depressed, I feel better staying outdoor so try doing that more often.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand. I also experience sudden lost a few years ago, I still haven't overcome completely but I now can be at ease thinking of him
usr : I like these suggestions and I will try this! Thanks for great advice!
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) every emotion that you experience will be messy and confusing, but it's totally normal. Dealing with death is never easy. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have a great friend that has died of corona virus. I am shattered because I could not see her in her last moments or go to her funeral. All we had was facetime. She was only 35 with severe asthma. I am reeling. This happened two weeks ago and my sadness and depression is overwhelming. How can I get over this?". | sys : (Question) Hello, what can I help you today?
usr : My depressive feelings and how to deal with them in a way I can cope.
usr : hello by the way....:)
sys : (Question) How long have you lived with depression?
usr : For two weeks now.
sys : (Question) Do you have problem with sleeping, eating or daily activity because of it?
usr : I have never experienced depression until now.
usr : Yes. I work remotely and my concentration is way off. It is affecting my production at work. I'm not enthused about anything. I am eating less. My husband tries to comfort me and it feels good in the moment but goes away when I am alone.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It seems like you're confused as what to expect and react as I understand
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Depression is tough to deal with. We can try to find a way to temporarily suppress it but ultimately, we need to find the cause and treat
usr : I am not confused. I just need suggestions on overcoming a death like this. All my happiness is wrapped up in this corona virus.9 Friends, family, coworkers, outings.)
usr : How do you deal with death?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I cry, crying actually helps since it relieves the pain youhave to go through. After you cry, your body tends to be exhausted and you can just sleep without thinking
sys : (Others) However, the best way to cope with death and depression in general is stay outdoor, be closed tothe nature
usr : This is true and I have noticed that crying over this is something I have not done much. I do workout intensely 4 times a week but that has fallen off too. I do workout inside with a home gym. Maybe running outside wouls be more beneficial and help me feel closer spiritually towards her.
usr : I thi nk I'm still shocked a little.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have noticed that whenever I'm depressed, I feel better staying outdoor so try doing that more often.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand. I also experience sudden lost a few years ago, I still haven't overcome completely but I now can be at ease thinking of him
usr : I like these suggestions and I will try this! Thanks for great advice!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) every emotion that you experience will be messy and confusing, but it's totally normal. Dealing with death is never easy.
usr : Your so right but I already feel better after chatting with you. Thanks again!
| (Others) I'm gladd I could be help to you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have a great friend that has died of corona virus. I am shattered because I could not see her in her last moments or go to her funeral. All we had was facetime. She was only 35 with severe asthma. I am reeling. This happened two weeks ago and my sadness and depression is overwhelming. How can I get over this?". | sys : (Question) Hello, what can I help you today?
usr : My depressive feelings and how to deal with them in a way I can cope.
usr : hello by the way....:)
sys : (Question) How long have you lived with depression?
usr : For two weeks now.
sys : (Question) Do you have problem with sleeping, eating or daily activity because of it?
usr : I have never experienced depression until now.
usr : Yes. I work remotely and my concentration is way off. It is affecting my production at work. I'm not enthused about anything. I am eating less. My husband tries to comfort me and it feels good in the moment but goes away when I am alone.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It seems like you're confused as what to expect and react as I understand
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Depression is tough to deal with. We can try to find a way to temporarily suppress it but ultimately, we need to find the cause and treat
usr : I am not confused. I just need suggestions on overcoming a death like this. All my happiness is wrapped up in this corona virus.9 Friends, family, coworkers, outings.)
usr : How do you deal with death?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I cry, crying actually helps since it relieves the pain youhave to go through. After you cry, your body tends to be exhausted and you can just sleep without thinking
sys : (Others) However, the best way to cope with death and depression in general is stay outdoor, be closed tothe nature
usr : This is true and I have noticed that crying over this is something I have not done much. I do workout intensely 4 times a week but that has fallen off too. I do workout inside with a home gym. Maybe running outside wouls be more beneficial and help me feel closer spiritually towards her.
usr : I thi nk I'm still shocked a little.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have noticed that whenever I'm depressed, I feel better staying outdoor so try doing that more often.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand. I also experience sudden lost a few years ago, I still haven't overcome completely but I now can be at ease thinking of him
usr : I like these suggestions and I will try this! Thanks for great advice!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) every emotion that you experience will be messy and confusing, but it's totally normal. Dealing with death is never easy.
usr : Your so right but I already feel better after chatting with you. Thanks again!
sys : (Others) I'm gladd I could be help to you
usr : Bye now!
| (Others) Bye |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends left me after fighting amongst themselves.". | usr : Hello
usr : I am looking for some support, would you be able to help me?
| (Question) Hi How may I help you today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends left me after fighting amongst themselves.". | usr : Hello
usr : I am looking for some support, would you be able to help me?
sys : (Question) Hi How may I help you today?
usr : Hi there. It would be nice if I could discuss something with you.
| (Others) sure! you can discuss. that's why I am here for. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends left me after fighting amongst themselves.". | usr : Hello
usr : I am looking for some support, would you be able to help me?
sys : (Question) Hi How may I help you today?
usr : Hi there. It would be nice if I could discuss something with you.
sys : (Others) sure! you can discuss. that's why I am here for.
usr : Thank you! This is about a past situation. I once had a large tight knit group of friends.
usr : But there was a lot of fighting from some of them. I didn't like it.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You had so many friends in past, now you had fight with them. Hope I get it right |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends left me after fighting amongst themselves.". | usr : Hello
usr : I am looking for some support, would you be able to help me?
sys : (Question) Hi How may I help you today?
usr : Hi there. It would be nice if I could discuss something with you.
sys : (Others) sure! you can discuss. that's why I am here for.
usr : Thank you! This is about a past situation. I once had a large tight knit group of friends.
usr : But there was a lot of fighting from some of them. I didn't like it.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You had so many friends in past, now you had fight with them. Hope I get it right
usr : Yea kind of. They sort of drifted away.
usr : I was breaking up the fights really.
usr : I guess they weren't that good of friends to begin with...
| (Others) Sorry for poor internet connection |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends left me after fighting amongst themselves.". | usr : Hello
usr : I am looking for some support, would you be able to help me?
sys : (Question) Hi How may I help you today?
usr : Hi there. It would be nice if I could discuss something with you.
sys : (Others) sure! you can discuss. that's why I am here for.
usr : Thank you! This is about a past situation. I once had a large tight knit group of friends.
usr : But there was a lot of fighting from some of them. I didn't like it.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You had so many friends in past, now you had fight with them. Hope I get it right
usr : Yea kind of. They sort of drifted away.
usr : I was breaking up the fights really.
usr : I guess they weren't that good of friends to begin with...
sys : (Others) Sorry for poor internet connection
usr : THat is ok
usr : What do you have to say?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) It must be tough time for you. Things keeps on changing. there may be some sort of misunderstanding. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends left me after fighting amongst themselves.". | usr : Hello
usr : I am looking for some support, would you be able to help me?
sys : (Question) Hi How may I help you today?
usr : Hi there. It would be nice if I could discuss something with you.
sys : (Others) sure! you can discuss. that's why I am here for.
usr : Thank you! This is about a past situation. I once had a large tight knit group of friends.
usr : But there was a lot of fighting from some of them. I didn't like it.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You had so many friends in past, now you had fight with them. Hope I get it right
usr : Yea kind of. They sort of drifted away.
usr : I was breaking up the fights really.
usr : I guess they weren't that good of friends to begin with...
sys : (Others) Sorry for poor internet connection
usr : THat is ok
usr : What do you have to say?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It must be tough time for you. Things keeps on changing. there may be some sort of misunderstanding.
usr : It has been tough.
| (Reflection of feelings) I can feel how bad or lonely you might be. It must be a stressful. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends left me after fighting amongst themselves.". | usr : Hello
usr : I am looking for some support, would you be able to help me?
sys : (Question) Hi How may I help you today?
usr : Hi there. It would be nice if I could discuss something with you.
sys : (Others) sure! you can discuss. that's why I am here for.
usr : Thank you! This is about a past situation. I once had a large tight knit group of friends.
usr : But there was a lot of fighting from some of them. I didn't like it.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You had so many friends in past, now you had fight with them. Hope I get it right
usr : Yea kind of. They sort of drifted away.
usr : I was breaking up the fights really.
usr : I guess they weren't that good of friends to begin with...
sys : (Others) Sorry for poor internet connection
usr : THat is ok
usr : What do you have to say?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It must be tough time for you. Things keeps on changing. there may be some sort of misunderstanding.
usr : It has been tough.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can feel how bad or lonely you might be. It must be a stressful.
usr : There's always ways to get over it but it is hard not to care.
| (Self-disclosure) When I have fight with friends, I try to clarify the things I where I went wrong or they made mistakes. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends left me after fighting amongst themselves.". | usr : Hello
usr : I am looking for some support, would you be able to help me?
sys : (Question) Hi How may I help you today?
usr : Hi there. It would be nice if I could discuss something with you.
sys : (Others) sure! you can discuss. that's why I am here for.
usr : Thank you! This is about a past situation. I once had a large tight knit group of friends.
usr : But there was a lot of fighting from some of them. I didn't like it.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You had so many friends in past, now you had fight with them. Hope I get it right
usr : Yea kind of. They sort of drifted away.
usr : I was breaking up the fights really.
usr : I guess they weren't that good of friends to begin with...
sys : (Others) Sorry for poor internet connection
usr : THat is ok
usr : What do you have to say?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It must be tough time for you. Things keeps on changing. there may be some sort of misunderstanding.
usr : It has been tough.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can feel how bad or lonely you might be. It must be a stressful.
usr : There's always ways to get over it but it is hard not to care.
sys : (Self-disclosure) When I have fight with friends, I try to clarify the things I where I went wrong or they made mistakes.
usr : It would be nice to get something going where people could apologize.
| (Providing Suggestions) From past I have learnt that, friendship should be very transparent. There should be any space for thank you and sorry. It should be straight forward. If my friends doesn't like anything which I did, she should say that straight to me. I should respect her saying. Then it stays there for ever. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends left me after fighting amongst themselves.". | usr : Hello
usr : I am looking for some support, would you be able to help me?
sys : (Question) Hi How may I help you today?
usr : Hi there. It would be nice if I could discuss something with you.
sys : (Others) sure! you can discuss. that's why I am here for.
usr : Thank you! This is about a past situation. I once had a large tight knit group of friends.
usr : But there was a lot of fighting from some of them. I didn't like it.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You had so many friends in past, now you had fight with them. Hope I get it right
usr : Yea kind of. They sort of drifted away.
usr : I was breaking up the fights really.
usr : I guess they weren't that good of friends to begin with...
sys : (Others) Sorry for poor internet connection
usr : THat is ok
usr : What do you have to say?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It must be tough time for you. Things keeps on changing. there may be some sort of misunderstanding.
usr : It has been tough.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can feel how bad or lonely you might be. It must be a stressful.
usr : There's always ways to get over it but it is hard not to care.
sys : (Self-disclosure) When I have fight with friends, I try to clarify the things I where I went wrong or they made mistakes.
usr : It would be nice to get something going where people could apologize.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) From past I have learnt that, friendship should be very transparent. There should be any space for thank you and sorry. It should be straight forward. If my friends doesn't like anything which I did, she should say that straight to me. I should respect her saying. Then it stays there for ever.
usr : That's a nice personal anecdote. I should try to initiate contact at some point. I feel like most people are shunning each other.
| (Others) Yes, I would say that is human nature. Only thing is to do self realization. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends left me after fighting amongst themselves.". | usr : Hello
usr : I am looking for some support, would you be able to help me?
sys : (Question) Hi How may I help you today?
usr : Hi there. It would be nice if I could discuss something with you.
sys : (Others) sure! you can discuss. that's why I am here for.
usr : Thank you! This is about a past situation. I once had a large tight knit group of friends.
usr : But there was a lot of fighting from some of them. I didn't like it.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You had so many friends in past, now you had fight with them. Hope I get it right
usr : Yea kind of. They sort of drifted away.
usr : I was breaking up the fights really.
usr : I guess they weren't that good of friends to begin with...
sys : (Others) Sorry for poor internet connection
usr : THat is ok
usr : What do you have to say?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It must be tough time for you. Things keeps on changing. there may be some sort of misunderstanding.
usr : It has been tough.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can feel how bad or lonely you might be. It must be a stressful.
usr : There's always ways to get over it but it is hard not to care.
sys : (Self-disclosure) When I have fight with friends, I try to clarify the things I where I went wrong or they made mistakes.
usr : It would be nice to get something going where people could apologize.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) From past I have learnt that, friendship should be very transparent. There should be any space for thank you and sorry. It should be straight forward. If my friends doesn't like anything which I did, she should say that straight to me. I should respect her saying. Then it stays there for ever.
usr : That's a nice personal anecdote. I should try to initiate contact at some point. I feel like most people are shunning each other.
sys : (Others) Yes, I would say that is human nature. Only thing is to do self realization.
usr : Thank you.
| (Providing Suggestions) You are most welcome! it you are feeling much better now. Is there anything else that I can help you with? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fear disappointing my parents.". | (Others) Hello! | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fear disappointing my parents.". | sys : (Others) Hello!
usr : hi, can I discuss an issue with you?
| (Question) Yes please. What has been bothering you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fear disappointing my parents.". | sys : (Others) Hello!
usr : hi, can I discuss an issue with you?
sys : (Question) Yes please. What has been bothering you?
usr : My parents, they expect me to always get straight A's.
| (Question) oh wow. Is that hard for you? Explain what's upsetting you about that. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fear disappointing my parents.". | sys : (Others) Hello!
usr : hi, can I discuss an issue with you?
sys : (Question) Yes please. What has been bothering you?
usr : My parents, they expect me to always get straight A's.
sys : (Question) oh wow. Is that hard for you? Explain what's upsetting you about that.
usr : It is upsetting because it is an expectation. I am not perfect and I always try my hardest. I am afraid of not being perfect.
| (Self-disclosure) I've also struggled with the same thing. My parents put that pressure on me so I understand that. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fear disappointing my parents.". | sys : (Others) Hello!
usr : hi, can I discuss an issue with you?
sys : (Question) Yes please. What has been bothering you?
usr : My parents, they expect me to always get straight A's.
sys : (Question) oh wow. Is that hard for you? Explain what's upsetting you about that.
usr : It is upsetting because it is an expectation. I am not perfect and I always try my hardest. I am afraid of not being perfect.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've also struggled with the same thing. My parents put that pressure on me so I understand that.
| (Question) Do you tell your parents you're trying your best? What do they say? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fear disappointing my parents.". | sys : (Others) Hello!
usr : hi, can I discuss an issue with you?
sys : (Question) Yes please. What has been bothering you?
usr : My parents, they expect me to always get straight A's.
sys : (Question) oh wow. Is that hard for you? Explain what's upsetting you about that.
usr : It is upsetting because it is an expectation. I am not perfect and I always try my hardest. I am afraid of not being perfect.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've also struggled with the same thing. My parents put that pressure on me so I understand that.
sys : (Question) Do you tell your parents you're trying your best? What do they say?
usr : They tell me it is my only job. They think it will help pay for college if I am the best.
| (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like that expectation is very hard on you and makes you anxious |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fear disappointing my parents.". | sys : (Others) Hello!
usr : hi, can I discuss an issue with you?
sys : (Question) Yes please. What has been bothering you?
usr : My parents, they expect me to always get straight A's.
sys : (Question) oh wow. Is that hard for you? Explain what's upsetting you about that.
usr : It is upsetting because it is an expectation. I am not perfect and I always try my hardest. I am afraid of not being perfect.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've also struggled with the same thing. My parents put that pressure on me so I understand that.
sys : (Question) Do you tell your parents you're trying your best? What do they say?
usr : They tell me it is my only job. They think it will help pay for college if I am the best.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like that expectation is very hard on you and makes you anxious
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's okay to feel that way! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fear disappointing my parents.". | sys : (Others) Hello!
usr : hi, can I discuss an issue with you?
sys : (Question) Yes please. What has been bothering you?
usr : My parents, they expect me to always get straight A's.
sys : (Question) oh wow. Is that hard for you? Explain what's upsetting you about that.
usr : It is upsetting because it is an expectation. I am not perfect and I always try my hardest. I am afraid of not being perfect.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've also struggled with the same thing. My parents put that pressure on me so I understand that.
sys : (Question) Do you tell your parents you're trying your best? What do they say?
usr : They tell me it is my only job. They think it will help pay for college if I am the best.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like that expectation is very hard on you and makes you anxious
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's okay to feel that way!
usr : Thanks, I just don't want to disappoint them. They work so hard and want the best for me.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Deep down they really just want you to succeed. But that doesn't mean it isn't difficult for you. I'm sure you're doing your best. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fear disappointing my parents.". | sys : (Others) Hello!
usr : hi, can I discuss an issue with you?
sys : (Question) Yes please. What has been bothering you?
usr : My parents, they expect me to always get straight A's.
sys : (Question) oh wow. Is that hard for you? Explain what's upsetting you about that.
usr : It is upsetting because it is an expectation. I am not perfect and I always try my hardest. I am afraid of not being perfect.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've also struggled with the same thing. My parents put that pressure on me so I understand that.
sys : (Question) Do you tell your parents you're trying your best? What do they say?
usr : They tell me it is my only job. They think it will help pay for college if I am the best.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like that expectation is very hard on you and makes you anxious
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's okay to feel that way!
usr : Thanks, I just don't want to disappoint them. They work so hard and want the best for me.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Deep down they really just want you to succeed. But that doesn't mean it isn't difficult for you. I'm sure you're doing your best.
| (Question) Have you talked to them about the pressure/expectation? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fear disappointing my parents.". | sys : (Others) Hello!
usr : hi, can I discuss an issue with you?
sys : (Question) Yes please. What has been bothering you?
usr : My parents, they expect me to always get straight A's.
sys : (Question) oh wow. Is that hard for you? Explain what's upsetting you about that.
usr : It is upsetting because it is an expectation. I am not perfect and I always try my hardest. I am afraid of not being perfect.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've also struggled with the same thing. My parents put that pressure on me so I understand that.
sys : (Question) Do you tell your parents you're trying your best? What do they say?
usr : They tell me it is my only job. They think it will help pay for college if I am the best.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like that expectation is very hard on you and makes you anxious
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's okay to feel that way!
usr : Thanks, I just don't want to disappoint them. They work so hard and want the best for me.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Deep down they really just want you to succeed. But that doesn't mean it isn't difficult for you. I'm sure you're doing your best.
sys : (Question) Have you talked to them about the pressure/expectation?
usr : I am, I told my sister to not get straight a's or they will always expect it. I h ave not talked to them
| (Providing Suggestions) I would suggest talking to them about the expectation. You could say something like, "I want you guys to realize that I am trying my best but when you put this expectation on me and makes me even more stressed out" |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fear disappointing my parents.". | sys : (Others) Hello!
usr : hi, can I discuss an issue with you?
sys : (Question) Yes please. What has been bothering you?
usr : My parents, they expect me to always get straight A's.
sys : (Question) oh wow. Is that hard for you? Explain what's upsetting you about that.
usr : It is upsetting because it is an expectation. I am not perfect and I always try my hardest. I am afraid of not being perfect.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've also struggled with the same thing. My parents put that pressure on me so I understand that.
sys : (Question) Do you tell your parents you're trying your best? What do they say?
usr : They tell me it is my only job. They think it will help pay for college if I am the best.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like that expectation is very hard on you and makes you anxious
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's okay to feel that way!
usr : Thanks, I just don't want to disappoint them. They work so hard and want the best for me.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Deep down they really just want you to succeed. But that doesn't mean it isn't difficult for you. I'm sure you're doing your best.
sys : (Question) Have you talked to them about the pressure/expectation?
usr : I am, I told my sister to not get straight a's or they will always expect it. I h ave not talked to them
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would suggest talking to them about the expectation. You could say something like, "I want you guys to realize that I am trying my best but when you put this expectation on me and makes me even more stressed out"
usr : Okay, I can try that, it makes me very anxious. Would writing a letter be okay?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a scary conversation to have. I think the letter idea is a great idea! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fear disappointing my parents.". | sys : (Others) Hello!
usr : hi, can I discuss an issue with you?
sys : (Question) Yes please. What has been bothering you?
usr : My parents, they expect me to always get straight A's.
sys : (Question) oh wow. Is that hard for you? Explain what's upsetting you about that.
usr : It is upsetting because it is an expectation. I am not perfect and I always try my hardest. I am afraid of not being perfect.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've also struggled with the same thing. My parents put that pressure on me so I understand that.
sys : (Question) Do you tell your parents you're trying your best? What do they say?
usr : They tell me it is my only job. They think it will help pay for college if I am the best.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like that expectation is very hard on you and makes you anxious
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's okay to feel that way!
usr : Thanks, I just don't want to disappoint them. They work so hard and want the best for me.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Deep down they really just want you to succeed. But that doesn't mean it isn't difficult for you. I'm sure you're doing your best.
sys : (Question) Have you talked to them about the pressure/expectation?
usr : I am, I told my sister to not get straight a's or they will always expect it. I h ave not talked to them
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would suggest talking to them about the expectation. You could say something like, "I want you guys to realize that I am trying my best but when you put this expectation on me and makes me even more stressed out"
usr : Okay, I can try that, it makes me very anxious. Would writing a letter be okay?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a scary conversation to have. I think the letter idea is a great idea!
usr : I am better at expressing my feelings that way.
| (Self-disclosure) I'm better writing things down too. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fear disappointing my parents.". | sys : (Others) Hello!
usr : hi, can I discuss an issue with you?
sys : (Question) Yes please. What has been bothering you?
usr : My parents, they expect me to always get straight A's.
sys : (Question) oh wow. Is that hard for you? Explain what's upsetting you about that.
usr : It is upsetting because it is an expectation. I am not perfect and I always try my hardest. I am afraid of not being perfect.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've also struggled with the same thing. My parents put that pressure on me so I understand that.
sys : (Question) Do you tell your parents you're trying your best? What do they say?
usr : They tell me it is my only job. They think it will help pay for college if I am the best.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like that expectation is very hard on you and makes you anxious
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's okay to feel that way!
usr : Thanks, I just don't want to disappoint them. They work so hard and want the best for me.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Deep down they really just want you to succeed. But that doesn't mean it isn't difficult for you. I'm sure you're doing your best.
sys : (Question) Have you talked to them about the pressure/expectation?
usr : I am, I told my sister to not get straight a's or they will always expect it. I h ave not talked to them
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would suggest talking to them about the expectation. You could say something like, "I want you guys to realize that I am trying my best but when you put this expectation on me and makes me even more stressed out"
usr : Okay, I can try that, it makes me very anxious. Would writing a letter be okay?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a scary conversation to have. I think the letter idea is a great idea!
usr : I am better at expressing my feelings that way.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I'm better writing things down too.
| (Information) Writing that should hopefully let them see what is going on. I think it will work. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fear disappointing my parents.". | sys : (Others) Hello!
usr : hi, can I discuss an issue with you?
sys : (Question) Yes please. What has been bothering you?
usr : My parents, they expect me to always get straight A's.
sys : (Question) oh wow. Is that hard for you? Explain what's upsetting you about that.
usr : It is upsetting because it is an expectation. I am not perfect and I always try my hardest. I am afraid of not being perfect.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've also struggled with the same thing. My parents put that pressure on me so I understand that.
sys : (Question) Do you tell your parents you're trying your best? What do they say?
usr : They tell me it is my only job. They think it will help pay for college if I am the best.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like that expectation is very hard on you and makes you anxious
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's okay to feel that way!
usr : Thanks, I just don't want to disappoint them. They work so hard and want the best for me.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Deep down they really just want you to succeed. But that doesn't mean it isn't difficult for you. I'm sure you're doing your best.
sys : (Question) Have you talked to them about the pressure/expectation?
usr : I am, I told my sister to not get straight a's or they will always expect it. I h ave not talked to them
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would suggest talking to them about the expectation. You could say something like, "I want you guys to realize that I am trying my best but when you put this expectation on me and makes me even more stressed out"
usr : Okay, I can try that, it makes me very anxious. Would writing a letter be okay?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a scary conversation to have. I think the letter idea is a great idea!
usr : I am better at expressing my feelings that way.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I'm better writing things down too.
sys : (Information) Writing that should hopefully let them see what is going on. I think it will work.
usr : I hope it will work, maybe I will write it and leave it in the morning for them to find after I go to school. That way they can think about what I said and not just react.
| (Others) That's an even better idea. Great thinking! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fear disappointing my parents.". | sys : (Others) Hello!
usr : hi, can I discuss an issue with you?
sys : (Question) Yes please. What has been bothering you?
usr : My parents, they expect me to always get straight A's.
sys : (Question) oh wow. Is that hard for you? Explain what's upsetting you about that.
usr : It is upsetting because it is an expectation. I am not perfect and I always try my hardest. I am afraid of not being perfect.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've also struggled with the same thing. My parents put that pressure on me so I understand that.
sys : (Question) Do you tell your parents you're trying your best? What do they say?
usr : They tell me it is my only job. They think it will help pay for college if I am the best.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like that expectation is very hard on you and makes you anxious
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's okay to feel that way!
usr : Thanks, I just don't want to disappoint them. They work so hard and want the best for me.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Deep down they really just want you to succeed. But that doesn't mean it isn't difficult for you. I'm sure you're doing your best.
sys : (Question) Have you talked to them about the pressure/expectation?
usr : I am, I told my sister to not get straight a's or they will always expect it. I h ave not talked to them
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would suggest talking to them about the expectation. You could say something like, "I want you guys to realize that I am trying my best but when you put this expectation on me and makes me even more stressed out"
usr : Okay, I can try that, it makes me very anxious. Would writing a letter be okay?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a scary conversation to have. I think the letter idea is a great idea!
usr : I am better at expressing my feelings that way.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I'm better writing things down too.
sys : (Information) Writing that should hopefully let them see what is going on. I think it will work.
usr : I hope it will work, maybe I will write it and leave it in the morning for them to find after I go to school. That way they can think about what I said and not just react.
sys : (Others) That's an even better idea. Great thinking!
usr : Thanks, you have made me feel a lot better.
| (Others) I'm glad. I hope it all works out for you! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.". | usr : Not a great day.
| (Question) How is your day going today? Do you have anything on your mind? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.". | usr : Not a great day.
sys : (Question) How is your day going today? Do you have anything on your mind?
usr : It is not a good day....
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry to hear that - so life is not great at the moment? Would you like to tell me more? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.". | usr : Not a great day.
sys : (Question) How is your day going today? Do you have anything on your mind?
usr : It is not a good day....
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry to hear that - so life is not great at the moment? Would you like to tell me more?
usr : Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now.
| (Self-disclosure) I understand. I know how hard it can be to open up about what is worrying you. I've been in that position too. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.". | usr : Not a great day.
sys : (Question) How is your day going today? Do you have anything on your mind?
usr : It is not a good day....
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry to hear that - so life is not great at the moment? Would you like to tell me more?
usr : Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I know how hard it can be to open up about what is worrying you. I've been in that position too.
usr : I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message,
usr : I get no respect.....
| (Others) Oh I am so sorry! That is a really unpleasant thing to do to someone, especially at this time of year. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.". | usr : Not a great day.
sys : (Question) How is your day going today? Do you have anything on your mind?
usr : It is not a good day....
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry to hear that - so life is not great at the moment? Would you like to tell me more?
usr : Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I know how hard it can be to open up about what is worrying you. I've been in that position too.
usr : I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message,
usr : I get no respect.....
sys : (Others) Oh I am so sorry! That is a really unpleasant thing to do to someone, especially at this time of year.
usr : Yeah, it is.
| (Providing Suggestions) Is there anyone close to you that you can talk to about this? Friends? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.". | usr : Not a great day.
sys : (Question) How is your day going today? Do you have anything on your mind?
usr : It is not a good day....
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry to hear that - so life is not great at the moment? Would you like to tell me more?
usr : Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I know how hard it can be to open up about what is worrying you. I've been in that position too.
usr : I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message,
usr : I get no respect.....
sys : (Others) Oh I am so sorry! That is a really unpleasant thing to do to someone, especially at this time of year.
usr : Yeah, it is.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there anyone close to you that you can talk to about this? Friends?
usr : I am disgusted that my girl did that to me......And by text message???! What the F---
usr : My friends came up to me in the bar and said they had heard about the breakup....
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes it is a very cowardly thing to do. I am quite disgusted that she did not have the courage to talk to you face to face too. You have every right to feel angry. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.". | usr : Not a great day.
sys : (Question) How is your day going today? Do you have anything on your mind?
usr : It is not a good day....
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry to hear that - so life is not great at the moment? Would you like to tell me more?
usr : Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I know how hard it can be to open up about what is worrying you. I've been in that position too.
usr : I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message,
usr : I get no respect.....
sys : (Others) Oh I am so sorry! That is a really unpleasant thing to do to someone, especially at this time of year.
usr : Yeah, it is.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there anyone close to you that you can talk to about this? Friends?
usr : I am disgusted that my girl did that to me......And by text message???! What the F---
usr : My friends came up to me in the bar and said they had heard about the breakup....
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes it is a very cowardly thing to do. I am quite disgusted that she did not have the courage to talk to you face to face too. You have every right to feel angry.
usr : Some friends to gossip....yeah, I am disgusted for sure,
usr : We had been together over 2 years....
| (Self-disclosure) Unfortunately there are people out there who are not true friends and who just want something to talk about. I have experienced that myself. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.". | usr : Not a great day.
sys : (Question) How is your day going today? Do you have anything on your mind?
usr : It is not a good day....
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry to hear that - so life is not great at the moment? Would you like to tell me more?
usr : Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I know how hard it can be to open up about what is worrying you. I've been in that position too.
usr : I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message,
usr : I get no respect.....
sys : (Others) Oh I am so sorry! That is a really unpleasant thing to do to someone, especially at this time of year.
usr : Yeah, it is.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there anyone close to you that you can talk to about this? Friends?
usr : I am disgusted that my girl did that to me......And by text message???! What the F---
usr : My friends came up to me in the bar and said they had heard about the breakup....
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes it is a very cowardly thing to do. I am quite disgusted that she did not have the courage to talk to you face to face too. You have every right to feel angry.
usr : Some friends to gossip....yeah, I am disgusted for sure,
usr : We had been together over 2 years....
sys : (Self-disclosure) Unfortunately there are people out there who are not true friends and who just want something to talk about. I have experienced that myself.
usr : Yeah, I bet many have. It is not a very Civil society.
usr : Very uncivil method of breaking up....
| (Reflection of feelings) It really is not is it! I can tell how upset you feel just from talking to you, and also that the method of the break up is really sore point. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.". | usr : Not a great day.
sys : (Question) How is your day going today? Do you have anything on your mind?
usr : It is not a good day....
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry to hear that - so life is not great at the moment? Would you like to tell me more?
usr : Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I know how hard it can be to open up about what is worrying you. I've been in that position too.
usr : I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message,
usr : I get no respect.....
sys : (Others) Oh I am so sorry! That is a really unpleasant thing to do to someone, especially at this time of year.
usr : Yeah, it is.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there anyone close to you that you can talk to about this? Friends?
usr : I am disgusted that my girl did that to me......And by text message???! What the F---
usr : My friends came up to me in the bar and said they had heard about the breakup....
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes it is a very cowardly thing to do. I am quite disgusted that she did not have the courage to talk to you face to face too. You have every right to feel angry.
usr : Some friends to gossip....yeah, I am disgusted for sure,
usr : We had been together over 2 years....
sys : (Self-disclosure) Unfortunately there are people out there who are not true friends and who just want something to talk about. I have experienced that myself.
usr : Yeah, I bet many have. It is not a very Civil society.
usr : Very uncivil method of breaking up....
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It really is not is it! I can tell how upset you feel just from talking to you, and also that the method of the break up is really sore point.
usr : It just disgusts me how gauche my girl's method was. Maybe people should be more polite about how they communicate about something like breaking up.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) It could be that you are better off without her? If she has such bad manners then I think that you cn do better. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.". | usr : Not a great day.
sys : (Question) How is your day going today? Do you have anything on your mind?
usr : It is not a good day....
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry to hear that - so life is not great at the moment? Would you like to tell me more?
usr : Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I know how hard it can be to open up about what is worrying you. I've been in that position too.
usr : I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message,
usr : I get no respect.....
sys : (Others) Oh I am so sorry! That is a really unpleasant thing to do to someone, especially at this time of year.
usr : Yeah, it is.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there anyone close to you that you can talk to about this? Friends?
usr : I am disgusted that my girl did that to me......And by text message???! What the F---
usr : My friends came up to me in the bar and said they had heard about the breakup....
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes it is a very cowardly thing to do. I am quite disgusted that she did not have the courage to talk to you face to face too. You have every right to feel angry.
usr : Some friends to gossip....yeah, I am disgusted for sure,
usr : We had been together over 2 years....
sys : (Self-disclosure) Unfortunately there are people out there who are not true friends and who just want something to talk about. I have experienced that myself.
usr : Yeah, I bet many have. It is not a very Civil society.
usr : Very uncivil method of breaking up....
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It really is not is it! I can tell how upset you feel just from talking to you, and also that the method of the break up is really sore point.
usr : It just disgusts me how gauche my girl's method was. Maybe people should be more polite about how they communicate about something like breaking up.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It could be that you are better off without her? If she has such bad manners then I think that you cn do better.
usr : That is a great point. A rather gauche move on her part, dontcha think?
usr : Have you ever had someone dump you??
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes I do. I would not personally do that to someone even if I was unhappy in relationship. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.". | usr : Not a great day.
sys : (Question) How is your day going today? Do you have anything on your mind?
usr : It is not a good day....
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry to hear that - so life is not great at the moment? Would you like to tell me more?
usr : Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I know how hard it can be to open up about what is worrying you. I've been in that position too.
usr : I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message,
usr : I get no respect.....
sys : (Others) Oh I am so sorry! That is a really unpleasant thing to do to someone, especially at this time of year.
usr : Yeah, it is.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there anyone close to you that you can talk to about this? Friends?
usr : I am disgusted that my girl did that to me......And by text message???! What the F---
usr : My friends came up to me in the bar and said they had heard about the breakup....
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes it is a very cowardly thing to do. I am quite disgusted that she did not have the courage to talk to you face to face too. You have every right to feel angry.
usr : Some friends to gossip....yeah, I am disgusted for sure,
usr : We had been together over 2 years....
sys : (Self-disclosure) Unfortunately there are people out there who are not true friends and who just want something to talk about. I have experienced that myself.
usr : Yeah, I bet many have. It is not a very Civil society.
usr : Very uncivil method of breaking up....
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It really is not is it! I can tell how upset you feel just from talking to you, and also that the method of the break up is really sore point.
usr : It just disgusts me how gauche my girl's method was. Maybe people should be more polite about how they communicate about something like breaking up.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It could be that you are better off without her? If she has such bad manners then I think that you cn do better.
usr : That is a great point. A rather gauche move on her part, dontcha think?
usr : Have you ever had someone dump you??
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes I do. I would not personally do that to someone even if I was unhappy in relationship.
usr : Yeah, I hear you.
| (Self-disclosure) Yes I have been dumped. We had been together for eight years and he left me for another woman. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.". | usr : Not a great day.
sys : (Question) How is your day going today? Do you have anything on your mind?
usr : It is not a good day....
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry to hear that - so life is not great at the moment? Would you like to tell me more?
usr : Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I know how hard it can be to open up about what is worrying you. I've been in that position too.
usr : I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message,
usr : I get no respect.....
sys : (Others) Oh I am so sorry! That is a really unpleasant thing to do to someone, especially at this time of year.
usr : Yeah, it is.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there anyone close to you that you can talk to about this? Friends?
usr : I am disgusted that my girl did that to me......And by text message???! What the F---
usr : My friends came up to me in the bar and said they had heard about the breakup....
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes it is a very cowardly thing to do. I am quite disgusted that she did not have the courage to talk to you face to face too. You have every right to feel angry.
usr : Some friends to gossip....yeah, I am disgusted for sure,
usr : We had been together over 2 years....
sys : (Self-disclosure) Unfortunately there are people out there who are not true friends and who just want something to talk about. I have experienced that myself.
usr : Yeah, I bet many have. It is not a very Civil society.
usr : Very uncivil method of breaking up....
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It really is not is it! I can tell how upset you feel just from talking to you, and also that the method of the break up is really sore point.
usr : It just disgusts me how gauche my girl's method was. Maybe people should be more polite about how they communicate about something like breaking up.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It could be that you are better off without her? If she has such bad manners then I think that you cn do better.
usr : That is a great point. A rather gauche move on her part, dontcha think?
usr : Have you ever had someone dump you??
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes I do. I would not personally do that to someone even if I was unhappy in relationship.
usr : Yeah, I hear you.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes I have been dumped. We had been together for eight years and he left me for another woman.
usr : I feel disgusted so much that I got played "like an old fiddle." It sucks.....
| (Providing Suggestions) I know how you are feeling but I think that you need to get professional help to move on. Are you able to go to therapy? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.". | usr : Not a great day.
sys : (Question) How is your day going today? Do you have anything on your mind?
usr : It is not a good day....
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry to hear that - so life is not great at the moment? Would you like to tell me more?
usr : Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I know how hard it can be to open up about what is worrying you. I've been in that position too.
usr : I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message,
usr : I get no respect.....
sys : (Others) Oh I am so sorry! That is a really unpleasant thing to do to someone, especially at this time of year.
usr : Yeah, it is.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there anyone close to you that you can talk to about this? Friends?
usr : I am disgusted that my girl did that to me......And by text message???! What the F---
usr : My friends came up to me in the bar and said they had heard about the breakup....
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes it is a very cowardly thing to do. I am quite disgusted that she did not have the courage to talk to you face to face too. You have every right to feel angry.
usr : Some friends to gossip....yeah, I am disgusted for sure,
usr : We had been together over 2 years....
sys : (Self-disclosure) Unfortunately there are people out there who are not true friends and who just want something to talk about. I have experienced that myself.
usr : Yeah, I bet many have. It is not a very Civil society.
usr : Very uncivil method of breaking up....
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It really is not is it! I can tell how upset you feel just from talking to you, and also that the method of the break up is really sore point.
usr : It just disgusts me how gauche my girl's method was. Maybe people should be more polite about how they communicate about something like breaking up.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It could be that you are better off without her? If she has such bad manners then I think that you cn do better.
usr : That is a great point. A rather gauche move on her part, dontcha think?
usr : Have you ever had someone dump you??
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes I do. I would not personally do that to someone even if I was unhappy in relationship.
usr : Yeah, I hear you.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes I have been dumped. We had been together for eight years and he left me for another woman.
usr : I feel disgusted so much that I got played "like an old fiddle." It sucks.....
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I know how you are feeling but I think that you need to get professional help to move on. Are you able to go to therapy?
usr : I haven't thought about getting therapy. What would help?
| (Providing Suggestions) Well, I think it could be really beneficial to let your anger out |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.". | usr : Not a great day.
sys : (Question) How is your day going today? Do you have anything on your mind?
usr : It is not a good day....
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry to hear that - so life is not great at the moment? Would you like to tell me more?
usr : Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I know how hard it can be to open up about what is worrying you. I've been in that position too.
usr : I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message,
usr : I get no respect.....
sys : (Others) Oh I am so sorry! That is a really unpleasant thing to do to someone, especially at this time of year.
usr : Yeah, it is.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there anyone close to you that you can talk to about this? Friends?
usr : I am disgusted that my girl did that to me......And by text message???! What the F---
usr : My friends came up to me in the bar and said they had heard about the breakup....
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes it is a very cowardly thing to do. I am quite disgusted that she did not have the courage to talk to you face to face too. You have every right to feel angry.
usr : Some friends to gossip....yeah, I am disgusted for sure,
usr : We had been together over 2 years....
sys : (Self-disclosure) Unfortunately there are people out there who are not true friends and who just want something to talk about. I have experienced that myself.
usr : Yeah, I bet many have. It is not a very Civil society.
usr : Very uncivil method of breaking up....
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It really is not is it! I can tell how upset you feel just from talking to you, and also that the method of the break up is really sore point.
usr : It just disgusts me how gauche my girl's method was. Maybe people should be more polite about how they communicate about something like breaking up.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It could be that you are better off without her? If she has such bad manners then I think that you cn do better.
usr : That is a great point. A rather gauche move on her part, dontcha think?
usr : Have you ever had someone dump you??
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes I do. I would not personally do that to someone even if I was unhappy in relationship.
usr : Yeah, I hear you.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes I have been dumped. We had been together for eight years and he left me for another woman.
usr : I feel disgusted so much that I got played "like an old fiddle." It sucks.....
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I know how you are feeling but I think that you need to get professional help to move on. Are you able to go to therapy?
usr : I haven't thought about getting therapy. What would help?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, I think it could be really beneficial to let your anger out
usr : I am glad to be able to vent to you about my girl's actions. I hope she is not going to hook up with my "wing man,' Rick. I would be filled with even more disgust.
| (Question) That would be an absolutely terrible thing to do. Do you really think that your friend would do a t hing like that to you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.". | usr : Not a great day.
sys : (Question) How is your day going today? Do you have anything on your mind?
usr : It is not a good day....
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry to hear that - so life is not great at the moment? Would you like to tell me more?
usr : Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I know how hard it can be to open up about what is worrying you. I've been in that position too.
usr : I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message,
usr : I get no respect.....
sys : (Others) Oh I am so sorry! That is a really unpleasant thing to do to someone, especially at this time of year.
usr : Yeah, it is.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there anyone close to you that you can talk to about this? Friends?
usr : I am disgusted that my girl did that to me......And by text message???! What the F---
usr : My friends came up to me in the bar and said they had heard about the breakup....
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes it is a very cowardly thing to do. I am quite disgusted that she did not have the courage to talk to you face to face too. You have every right to feel angry.
usr : Some friends to gossip....yeah, I am disgusted for sure,
usr : We had been together over 2 years....
sys : (Self-disclosure) Unfortunately there are people out there who are not true friends and who just want something to talk about. I have experienced that myself.
usr : Yeah, I bet many have. It is not a very Civil society.
usr : Very uncivil method of breaking up....
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It really is not is it! I can tell how upset you feel just from talking to you, and also that the method of the break up is really sore point.
usr : It just disgusts me how gauche my girl's method was. Maybe people should be more polite about how they communicate about something like breaking up.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It could be that you are better off without her? If she has such bad manners then I think that you cn do better.
usr : That is a great point. A rather gauche move on her part, dontcha think?
usr : Have you ever had someone dump you??
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes I do. I would not personally do that to someone even if I was unhappy in relationship.
usr : Yeah, I hear you.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes I have been dumped. We had been together for eight years and he left me for another woman.
usr : I feel disgusted so much that I got played "like an old fiddle." It sucks.....
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I know how you are feeling but I think that you need to get professional help to move on. Are you able to go to therapy?
usr : I haven't thought about getting therapy. What would help?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, I think it could be really beneficial to let your anger out
usr : I am glad to be able to vent to you about my girl's actions. I hope she is not going to hook up with my "wing man,' Rick. I would be filled with even more disgust.
sys : (Question) That would be an absolutely terrible thing to do. Do you really think that your friend would do a t hing like that to you?
usr : I have seen Rick eyeballing my girl at times. I think he is an agressive guy when it comes to the ladies.
usr : Rick thinks that he is a "playah."
| (Providing Suggestions) Do you think that perhaps you should talk to him before anything happens? You do not want to ruin your friendship by having him do that |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.". | usr : Not a great day.
sys : (Question) How is your day going today? Do you have anything on your mind?
usr : It is not a good day....
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry to hear that - so life is not great at the moment? Would you like to tell me more?
usr : Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I know how hard it can be to open up about what is worrying you. I've been in that position too.
usr : I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message,
usr : I get no respect.....
sys : (Others) Oh I am so sorry! That is a really unpleasant thing to do to someone, especially at this time of year.
usr : Yeah, it is.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there anyone close to you that you can talk to about this? Friends?
usr : I am disgusted that my girl did that to me......And by text message???! What the F---
usr : My friends came up to me in the bar and said they had heard about the breakup....
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes it is a very cowardly thing to do. I am quite disgusted that she did not have the courage to talk to you face to face too. You have every right to feel angry.
usr : Some friends to gossip....yeah, I am disgusted for sure,
usr : We had been together over 2 years....
sys : (Self-disclosure) Unfortunately there are people out there who are not true friends and who just want something to talk about. I have experienced that myself.
usr : Yeah, I bet many have. It is not a very Civil society.
usr : Very uncivil method of breaking up....
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It really is not is it! I can tell how upset you feel just from talking to you, and also that the method of the break up is really sore point.
usr : It just disgusts me how gauche my girl's method was. Maybe people should be more polite about how they communicate about something like breaking up.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It could be that you are better off without her? If she has such bad manners then I think that you cn do better.
usr : That is a great point. A rather gauche move on her part, dontcha think?
usr : Have you ever had someone dump you??
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes I do. I would not personally do that to someone even if I was unhappy in relationship.
usr : Yeah, I hear you.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes I have been dumped. We had been together for eight years and he left me for another woman.
usr : I feel disgusted so much that I got played "like an old fiddle." It sucks.....
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I know how you are feeling but I think that you need to get professional help to move on. Are you able to go to therapy?
usr : I haven't thought about getting therapy. What would help?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, I think it could be really beneficial to let your anger out
usr : I am glad to be able to vent to you about my girl's actions. I hope she is not going to hook up with my "wing man,' Rick. I would be filled with even more disgust.
sys : (Question) That would be an absolutely terrible thing to do. Do you really think that your friend would do a t hing like that to you?
usr : I have seen Rick eyeballing my girl at times. I think he is an agressive guy when it comes to the ladies.
usr : Rick thinks that he is a "playah."
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you think that perhaps you should talk to him before anything happens? You do not want to ruin your friendship by having him do that
usr : I might just have to do that. I think that he has been eyeballing my firl a little too much over the last two or three months, actually.
| (Others) Well you do not want to let that situation escalate any further. I hope I have been able to be of some help to you and I urge you to look for professional therapy if you can. All the best to you for Christmas and the year 2021! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person. It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.". | usr : Not a great day.
sys : (Question) How is your day going today? Do you have anything on your mind?
usr : It is not a good day....
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry to hear that - so life is not great at the moment? Would you like to tell me more?
usr : Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I know how hard it can be to open up about what is worrying you. I've been in that position too.
usr : I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message,
usr : I get no respect.....
sys : (Others) Oh I am so sorry! That is a really unpleasant thing to do to someone, especially at this time of year.
usr : Yeah, it is.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there anyone close to you that you can talk to about this? Friends?
usr : I am disgusted that my girl did that to me......And by text message???! What the F---
usr : My friends came up to me in the bar and said they had heard about the breakup....
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes it is a very cowardly thing to do. I am quite disgusted that she did not have the courage to talk to you face to face too. You have every right to feel angry.
usr : Some friends to gossip....yeah, I am disgusted for sure,
usr : We had been together over 2 years....
sys : (Self-disclosure) Unfortunately there are people out there who are not true friends and who just want something to talk about. I have experienced that myself.
usr : Yeah, I bet many have. It is not a very Civil society.
usr : Very uncivil method of breaking up....
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It really is not is it! I can tell how upset you feel just from talking to you, and also that the method of the break up is really sore point.
usr : It just disgusts me how gauche my girl's method was. Maybe people should be more polite about how they communicate about something like breaking up.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It could be that you are better off without her? If she has such bad manners then I think that you cn do better.
usr : That is a great point. A rather gauche move on her part, dontcha think?
usr : Have you ever had someone dump you??
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes I do. I would not personally do that to someone even if I was unhappy in relationship.
usr : Yeah, I hear you.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes I have been dumped. We had been together for eight years and he left me for another woman.
usr : I feel disgusted so much that I got played "like an old fiddle." It sucks.....
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I know how you are feeling but I think that you need to get professional help to move on. Are you able to go to therapy?
usr : I haven't thought about getting therapy. What would help?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, I think it could be really beneficial to let your anger out
usr : I am glad to be able to vent to you about my girl's actions. I hope she is not going to hook up with my "wing man,' Rick. I would be filled with even more disgust.
sys : (Question) That would be an absolutely terrible thing to do. Do you really think that your friend would do a t hing like that to you?
usr : I have seen Rick eyeballing my girl at times. I think he is an agressive guy when it comes to the ladies.
usr : Rick thinks that he is a "playah."
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you think that perhaps you should talk to him before anything happens? You do not want to ruin your friendship by having him do that
usr : I might just have to do that. I think that he has been eyeballing my firl a little too much over the last two or three months, actually.
sys : (Others) Well you do not want to let that situation escalate any further. I hope I have been able to be of some help to you and I urge you to look for professional therapy if you can. All the best to you for Christmas and the year 2021!
usr : I will talk to Rick and see what he knows about my girl breaking up with me by text. I need to find out more.
| (Others) Yes you really should. All the best and thanks for talking. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"my girlfriend was break up with me i found out that she was cheating on me". | usr : hi
| (Others) Hi! What can i help you with today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"my girlfriend was break up with me i found out that she was cheating on me". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hi! What can i help you with today?
usr : my girlfriend breakup me
| (Information) How does that make you feel? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"my girlfriend was break up with me i found out that she was cheating on me". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hi! What can i help you with today?
usr : my girlfriend breakup me
sys : (Information) How does that make you feel?
usr : it cause me many dipression she was cheating with my friend that she says mine is not fit for her
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) From what I can tell, your girlfriend cheated on you and then broke up with you because she thinks you are not the right fit for her. Is that correct? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"my girlfriend was break up with me i found out that she was cheating on me". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hi! What can i help you with today?
usr : my girlfriend breakup me
sys : (Information) How does that make you feel?
usr : it cause me many dipression she was cheating with my friend that she says mine is not fit for her
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) From what I can tell, your girlfriend cheated on you and then broke up with you because she thinks you are not the right fit for her. Is that correct?
usr : nope she says that how can i tell you she says that my dick is not fit for her
| (Information) That can be very difficult to hear. But there is someone special out there for everyone. Is there anything that would make you feel better? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"my girlfriend was break up with me i found out that she was cheating on me". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hi! What can i help you with today?
usr : my girlfriend breakup me
sys : (Information) How does that make you feel?
usr : it cause me many dipression she was cheating with my friend that she says mine is not fit for her
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) From what I can tell, your girlfriend cheated on you and then broke up with you because she thinks you are not the right fit for her. Is that correct?
usr : nope she says that how can i tell you she says that my dick is not fit for her
sys : (Information) That can be very difficult to hear. But there is someone special out there for everyone. Is there anything that would make you feel better?
usr : playing games,roaming with friendsand reading books
| (Providing Suggestions) Then do you think making such plans with your friends and playing games and reading books can make you happy again? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"my girlfriend was break up with me i found out that she was cheating on me". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hi! What can i help you with today?
usr : my girlfriend breakup me
sys : (Information) How does that make you feel?
usr : it cause me many dipression she was cheating with my friend that she says mine is not fit for her
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) From what I can tell, your girlfriend cheated on you and then broke up with you because she thinks you are not the right fit for her. Is that correct?
usr : nope she says that how can i tell you she says that my dick is not fit for her
sys : (Information) That can be very difficult to hear. But there is someone special out there for everyone. Is there anything that would make you feel better?
usr : playing games,roaming with friendsand reading books
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then do you think making such plans with your friends and playing games and reading books can make you happy again?
usr : no defnetly not
| (Question) What do you think you can do to make yourself happy again? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"my girlfriend was break up with me i found out that she was cheating on me". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hi! What can i help you with today?
usr : my girlfriend breakup me
sys : (Information) How does that make you feel?
usr : it cause me many dipression she was cheating with my friend that she says mine is not fit for her
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) From what I can tell, your girlfriend cheated on you and then broke up with you because she thinks you are not the right fit for her. Is that correct?
usr : nope she says that how can i tell you she says that my dick is not fit for her
sys : (Information) That can be very difficult to hear. But there is someone special out there for everyone. Is there anything that would make you feel better?
usr : playing games,roaming with friendsand reading books
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then do you think making such plans with your friends and playing games and reading books can make you happy again?
usr : no defnetly not
sys : (Question) What do you think you can do to make yourself happy again?
usr : i just want to belive that she left me so im going to travel it and going to concentrate on my job
| (Self-disclosure) That sounds like a great plan! When I was having a difficult time after breaking up with someone I also decided to concentrate on something else and it really helped. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"my girlfriend was break up with me i found out that she was cheating on me". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hi! What can i help you with today?
usr : my girlfriend breakup me
sys : (Information) How does that make you feel?
usr : it cause me many dipression she was cheating with my friend that she says mine is not fit for her
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) From what I can tell, your girlfriend cheated on you and then broke up with you because she thinks you are not the right fit for her. Is that correct?
usr : nope she says that how can i tell you she says that my dick is not fit for her
sys : (Information) That can be very difficult to hear. But there is someone special out there for everyone. Is there anything that would make you feel better?
usr : playing games,roaming with friendsand reading books
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then do you think making such plans with your friends and playing games and reading books can make you happy again?
usr : no defnetly not
sys : (Question) What do you think you can do to make yourself happy again?
usr : i just want to belive that she left me so im going to travel it and going to concentrate on my job
sys : (Self-disclosure) That sounds like a great plan! When I was having a difficult time after breaking up with someone I also decided to concentrate on something else and it really helped.
usr : really thanks that you were spending time with me
| (Others) No need to thank me, that is what I am here for :) I hope I was able to help you with. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"my girlfriend was break up with me i found out that she was cheating on me". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hi! What can i help you with today?
usr : my girlfriend breakup me
sys : (Information) How does that make you feel?
usr : it cause me many dipression she was cheating with my friend that she says mine is not fit for her
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) From what I can tell, your girlfriend cheated on you and then broke up with you because she thinks you are not the right fit for her. Is that correct?
usr : nope she says that how can i tell you she says that my dick is not fit for her
sys : (Information) That can be very difficult to hear. But there is someone special out there for everyone. Is there anything that would make you feel better?
usr : playing games,roaming with friendsand reading books
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then do you think making such plans with your friends and playing games and reading books can make you happy again?
usr : no defnetly not
sys : (Question) What do you think you can do to make yourself happy again?
usr : i just want to belive that she left me so im going to travel it and going to concentrate on my job
sys : (Self-disclosure) That sounds like a great plan! When I was having a difficult time after breaking up with someone I also decided to concentrate on something else and it really helped.
usr : really thanks that you were spending time with me
sys : (Others) No need to thank me, that is what I am here for :) I hope I was able to help you with.
usr : thanks
usr : can i finish the conversation
| (Others) Yes of course! I hope you have a good day! :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"my girlfriend was break up with me i found out that she was cheating on me". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hi! What can i help you with today?
usr : my girlfriend breakup me
sys : (Information) How does that make you feel?
usr : it cause me many dipression she was cheating with my friend that she says mine is not fit for her
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) From what I can tell, your girlfriend cheated on you and then broke up with you because she thinks you are not the right fit for her. Is that correct?
usr : nope she says that how can i tell you she says that my dick is not fit for her
sys : (Information) That can be very difficult to hear. But there is someone special out there for everyone. Is there anything that would make you feel better?
usr : playing games,roaming with friendsand reading books
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then do you think making such plans with your friends and playing games and reading books can make you happy again?
usr : no defnetly not
sys : (Question) What do you think you can do to make yourself happy again?
usr : i just want to belive that she left me so im going to travel it and going to concentrate on my job
sys : (Self-disclosure) That sounds like a great plan! When I was having a difficult time after breaking up with someone I also decided to concentrate on something else and it really helped.
usr : really thanks that you were spending time with me
sys : (Others) No need to thank me, that is what I am here for :) I hope I was able to help you with.
usr : thanks
usr : can i finish the conversation
sys : (Others) Yes of course! I hope you have a good day! :)
usr : you to have a good day
usr : you have doing great work my friend
| (Others) Thank you! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"my girlfriend was break up with me i found out that she was cheating on me". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hi! What can i help you with today?
usr : my girlfriend breakup me
sys : (Information) How does that make you feel?
usr : it cause me many dipression she was cheating with my friend that she says mine is not fit for her
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) From what I can tell, your girlfriend cheated on you and then broke up with you because she thinks you are not the right fit for her. Is that correct?
usr : nope she says that how can i tell you she says that my dick is not fit for her
sys : (Information) That can be very difficult to hear. But there is someone special out there for everyone. Is there anything that would make you feel better?
usr : playing games,roaming with friendsand reading books
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then do you think making such plans with your friends and playing games and reading books can make you happy again?
usr : no defnetly not
sys : (Question) What do you think you can do to make yourself happy again?
usr : i just want to belive that she left me so im going to travel it and going to concentrate on my job
sys : (Self-disclosure) That sounds like a great plan! When I was having a difficult time after breaking up with someone I also decided to concentrate on something else and it really helped.
usr : really thanks that you were spending time with me
sys : (Others) No need to thank me, that is what I am here for :) I hope I was able to help you with.
usr : thanks
usr : can i finish the conversation
sys : (Others) Yes of course! I hope you have a good day! :)
usr : you to have a good day
usr : you have doing great work my friend
sys : (Others) Thank you!
usr : is this any kind of social work
| (Information) Yes it is. Just a way to help people |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"my girlfriend was break up with me i found out that she was cheating on me". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hi! What can i help you with today?
usr : my girlfriend breakup me
sys : (Information) How does that make you feel?
usr : it cause me many dipression she was cheating with my friend that she says mine is not fit for her
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) From what I can tell, your girlfriend cheated on you and then broke up with you because she thinks you are not the right fit for her. Is that correct?
usr : nope she says that how can i tell you she says that my dick is not fit for her
sys : (Information) That can be very difficult to hear. But there is someone special out there for everyone. Is there anything that would make you feel better?
usr : playing games,roaming with friendsand reading books
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then do you think making such plans with your friends and playing games and reading books can make you happy again?
usr : no defnetly not
sys : (Question) What do you think you can do to make yourself happy again?
usr : i just want to belive that she left me so im going to travel it and going to concentrate on my job
sys : (Self-disclosure) That sounds like a great plan! When I was having a difficult time after breaking up with someone I also decided to concentrate on something else and it really helped.
usr : really thanks that you were spending time with me
sys : (Others) No need to thank me, that is what I am here for :) I hope I was able to help you with.
usr : thanks
usr : can i finish the conversation
sys : (Others) Yes of course! I hope you have a good day! :)
usr : you to have a good day
usr : you have doing great work my friend
sys : (Others) Thank you!
usr : is this any kind of social work
sys : (Information) Yes it is. Just a way to help people
usr : how many people did you handle per day
| (Others) You have been my first person |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"EVER SINCE THIS PANDEMIC HAS EMERGED IT JUST SEEMS LIKE THINGS HAVE BEEN GOING DOWN INSTEAD OF UP. PRIOR TO THE PANDEMIC, I HAD A JOB OF 10 YEARS, CHILDREN WERE GROWING INTO TEENAGERS, AND THE HUSBAND WAS OUT OF TOWN WORKING AS HE HAS DONE OUR ENTIRE 21 YEAR MARRIAGE. WELL SINCE THE PANDEMIC, I WAS IMMEDIATELY LET GO AT WORK. THE TEENAGERS WERE SCENTENCED TO DITIGITAL LEARNING AND MY HUSBAND DID EVERYTHING HE COULD POSSIBLY DO TO HOLD THE ONLY JOB AND INCOME THE WAS COMING INTO THE HOME. BUT EVENTUALLY JUST A MONTH AGO THAT WAS TAKEN OUT FROM UNDER US AS WELL. I DIDNT MIND NOT WORKING ALTHOUGH IT WAS AN ESCAPE FROM MY MOTHERLY DUTIES AND THE REALITY OF BEING A FULL TIME WIFE. BUT NOW THAT WE HAVE REACHED JUST OVER A YEAR OF THE PANDEMIC IT HAS BROKEN ME DOWN IN SO MANY WAYS IT FEELS LIKE. THE WHOLE YEAR WITH JUST THE HUSBAND WORKING WEVE STRUGGLED TO PUT FOOD ON THE TABLE AND PAY THE MONTHLY EXPENSES THAT COME WITH THE ADULT LIFE AND NOW IM A MESS". | (Others) Hey! How are you? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"EVER SINCE THIS PANDEMIC HAS EMERGED IT JUST SEEMS LIKE THINGS HAVE BEEN GOING DOWN INSTEAD OF UP. PRIOR TO THE PANDEMIC, I HAD A JOB OF 10 YEARS, CHILDREN WERE GROWING INTO TEENAGERS, AND THE HUSBAND WAS OUT OF TOWN WORKING AS HE HAS DONE OUR ENTIRE 21 YEAR MARRIAGE. WELL SINCE THE PANDEMIC, I WAS IMMEDIATELY LET GO AT WORK. THE TEENAGERS WERE SCENTENCED TO DITIGITAL LEARNING AND MY HUSBAND DID EVERYTHING HE COULD POSSIBLY DO TO HOLD THE ONLY JOB AND INCOME THE WAS COMING INTO THE HOME. BUT EVENTUALLY JUST A MONTH AGO THAT WAS TAKEN OUT FROM UNDER US AS WELL. I DIDNT MIND NOT WORKING ALTHOUGH IT WAS AN ESCAPE FROM MY MOTHERLY DUTIES AND THE REALITY OF BEING A FULL TIME WIFE. BUT NOW THAT WE HAVE REACHED JUST OVER A YEAR OF THE PANDEMIC IT HAS BROKEN ME DOWN IN SO MANY WAYS IT FEELS LIKE. THE WHOLE YEAR WITH JUST THE HUSBAND WORKING WEVE STRUGGLED TO PUT FOOD ON THE TABLE AND PAY THE MONTHLY EXPENSES THAT COME WITH THE ADULT LIFE AND NOW IM A MESS". | sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Im tired how are you
| (Question) I'm good but what makes you tired? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"EVER SINCE THIS PANDEMIC HAS EMERGED IT JUST SEEMS LIKE THINGS HAVE BEEN GOING DOWN INSTEAD OF UP. PRIOR TO THE PANDEMIC, I HAD A JOB OF 10 YEARS, CHILDREN WERE GROWING INTO TEENAGERS, AND THE HUSBAND WAS OUT OF TOWN WORKING AS HE HAS DONE OUR ENTIRE 21 YEAR MARRIAGE. WELL SINCE THE PANDEMIC, I WAS IMMEDIATELY LET GO AT WORK. THE TEENAGERS WERE SCENTENCED TO DITIGITAL LEARNING AND MY HUSBAND DID EVERYTHING HE COULD POSSIBLY DO TO HOLD THE ONLY JOB AND INCOME THE WAS COMING INTO THE HOME. BUT EVENTUALLY JUST A MONTH AGO THAT WAS TAKEN OUT FROM UNDER US AS WELL. I DIDNT MIND NOT WORKING ALTHOUGH IT WAS AN ESCAPE FROM MY MOTHERLY DUTIES AND THE REALITY OF BEING A FULL TIME WIFE. BUT NOW THAT WE HAVE REACHED JUST OVER A YEAR OF THE PANDEMIC IT HAS BROKEN ME DOWN IN SO MANY WAYS IT FEELS LIKE. THE WHOLE YEAR WITH JUST THE HUSBAND WORKING WEVE STRUGGLED TO PUT FOOD ON THE TABLE AND PAY THE MONTHLY EXPENSES THAT COME WITH THE ADULT LIFE AND NOW IM A MESS". | sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Im tired how are you
sys : (Question) I'm good but what makes you tired?
usr : I dont sleep well anymore. Doctor says its part of the depression. Up 4 or 5 times a night. Eventually i give up and just stay up
| (Question) What makes you depressed? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"EVER SINCE THIS PANDEMIC HAS EMERGED IT JUST SEEMS LIKE THINGS HAVE BEEN GOING DOWN INSTEAD OF UP. PRIOR TO THE PANDEMIC, I HAD A JOB OF 10 YEARS, CHILDREN WERE GROWING INTO TEENAGERS, AND THE HUSBAND WAS OUT OF TOWN WORKING AS HE HAS DONE OUR ENTIRE 21 YEAR MARRIAGE. WELL SINCE THE PANDEMIC, I WAS IMMEDIATELY LET GO AT WORK. THE TEENAGERS WERE SCENTENCED TO DITIGITAL LEARNING AND MY HUSBAND DID EVERYTHING HE COULD POSSIBLY DO TO HOLD THE ONLY JOB AND INCOME THE WAS COMING INTO THE HOME. BUT EVENTUALLY JUST A MONTH AGO THAT WAS TAKEN OUT FROM UNDER US AS WELL. I DIDNT MIND NOT WORKING ALTHOUGH IT WAS AN ESCAPE FROM MY MOTHERLY DUTIES AND THE REALITY OF BEING A FULL TIME WIFE. BUT NOW THAT WE HAVE REACHED JUST OVER A YEAR OF THE PANDEMIC IT HAS BROKEN ME DOWN IN SO MANY WAYS IT FEELS LIKE. THE WHOLE YEAR WITH JUST THE HUSBAND WORKING WEVE STRUGGLED TO PUT FOOD ON THE TABLE AND PAY THE MONTHLY EXPENSES THAT COME WITH THE ADULT LIFE AND NOW IM A MESS". | sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Im tired how are you
sys : (Question) I'm good but what makes you tired?
usr : I dont sleep well anymore. Doctor says its part of the depression. Up 4 or 5 times a night. Eventually i give up and just stay up
sys : (Question) What makes you depressed?
usr : Life!!!!! Bills!!! Feels like im drowning instead of keeping my head above the water!!!
usr : I feel like ill be okay though!!! I still have a little bit of positiveness in my head
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will be able to keep your head above the water thats the spirit! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"EVER SINCE THIS PANDEMIC HAS EMERGED IT JUST SEEMS LIKE THINGS HAVE BEEN GOING DOWN INSTEAD OF UP. PRIOR TO THE PANDEMIC, I HAD A JOB OF 10 YEARS, CHILDREN WERE GROWING INTO TEENAGERS, AND THE HUSBAND WAS OUT OF TOWN WORKING AS HE HAS DONE OUR ENTIRE 21 YEAR MARRIAGE. WELL SINCE THE PANDEMIC, I WAS IMMEDIATELY LET GO AT WORK. THE TEENAGERS WERE SCENTENCED TO DITIGITAL LEARNING AND MY HUSBAND DID EVERYTHING HE COULD POSSIBLY DO TO HOLD THE ONLY JOB AND INCOME THE WAS COMING INTO THE HOME. BUT EVENTUALLY JUST A MONTH AGO THAT WAS TAKEN OUT FROM UNDER US AS WELL. I DIDNT MIND NOT WORKING ALTHOUGH IT WAS AN ESCAPE FROM MY MOTHERLY DUTIES AND THE REALITY OF BEING A FULL TIME WIFE. BUT NOW THAT WE HAVE REACHED JUST OVER A YEAR OF THE PANDEMIC IT HAS BROKEN ME DOWN IN SO MANY WAYS IT FEELS LIKE. THE WHOLE YEAR WITH JUST THE HUSBAND WORKING WEVE STRUGGLED TO PUT FOOD ON THE TABLE AND PAY THE MONTHLY EXPENSES THAT COME WITH THE ADULT LIFE AND NOW IM A MESS". | sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Im tired how are you
sys : (Question) I'm good but what makes you tired?
usr : I dont sleep well anymore. Doctor says its part of the depression. Up 4 or 5 times a night. Eventually i give up and just stay up
sys : (Question) What makes you depressed?
usr : Life!!!!! Bills!!! Feels like im drowning instead of keeping my head above the water!!!
usr : I feel like ill be okay though!!! I still have a little bit of positiveness in my head
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will be able to keep your head above the water thats the spirit!
usr : Just keep swimming right? Lol
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Keep that positivity inside your head :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"EVER SINCE THIS PANDEMIC HAS EMERGED IT JUST SEEMS LIKE THINGS HAVE BEEN GOING DOWN INSTEAD OF UP. PRIOR TO THE PANDEMIC, I HAD A JOB OF 10 YEARS, CHILDREN WERE GROWING INTO TEENAGERS, AND THE HUSBAND WAS OUT OF TOWN WORKING AS HE HAS DONE OUR ENTIRE 21 YEAR MARRIAGE. WELL SINCE THE PANDEMIC, I WAS IMMEDIATELY LET GO AT WORK. THE TEENAGERS WERE SCENTENCED TO DITIGITAL LEARNING AND MY HUSBAND DID EVERYTHING HE COULD POSSIBLY DO TO HOLD THE ONLY JOB AND INCOME THE WAS COMING INTO THE HOME. BUT EVENTUALLY JUST A MONTH AGO THAT WAS TAKEN OUT FROM UNDER US AS WELL. I DIDNT MIND NOT WORKING ALTHOUGH IT WAS AN ESCAPE FROM MY MOTHERLY DUTIES AND THE REALITY OF BEING A FULL TIME WIFE. BUT NOW THAT WE HAVE REACHED JUST OVER A YEAR OF THE PANDEMIC IT HAS BROKEN ME DOWN IN SO MANY WAYS IT FEELS LIKE. THE WHOLE YEAR WITH JUST THE HUSBAND WORKING WEVE STRUGGLED TO PUT FOOD ON THE TABLE AND PAY THE MONTHLY EXPENSES THAT COME WITH THE ADULT LIFE AND NOW IM A MESS". | sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Im tired how are you
sys : (Question) I'm good but what makes you tired?
usr : I dont sleep well anymore. Doctor says its part of the depression. Up 4 or 5 times a night. Eventually i give up and just stay up
sys : (Question) What makes you depressed?
usr : Life!!!!! Bills!!! Feels like im drowning instead of keeping my head above the water!!!
usr : I feel like ill be okay though!!! I still have a little bit of positiveness in my head
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will be able to keep your head above the water thats the spirit!
usr : Just keep swimming right? Lol
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Keep that positivity inside your head :)
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) And lol yeah do that |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"EVER SINCE THIS PANDEMIC HAS EMERGED IT JUST SEEMS LIKE THINGS HAVE BEEN GOING DOWN INSTEAD OF UP. PRIOR TO THE PANDEMIC, I HAD A JOB OF 10 YEARS, CHILDREN WERE GROWING INTO TEENAGERS, AND THE HUSBAND WAS OUT OF TOWN WORKING AS HE HAS DONE OUR ENTIRE 21 YEAR MARRIAGE. WELL SINCE THE PANDEMIC, I WAS IMMEDIATELY LET GO AT WORK. THE TEENAGERS WERE SCENTENCED TO DITIGITAL LEARNING AND MY HUSBAND DID EVERYTHING HE COULD POSSIBLY DO TO HOLD THE ONLY JOB AND INCOME THE WAS COMING INTO THE HOME. BUT EVENTUALLY JUST A MONTH AGO THAT WAS TAKEN OUT FROM UNDER US AS WELL. I DIDNT MIND NOT WORKING ALTHOUGH IT WAS AN ESCAPE FROM MY MOTHERLY DUTIES AND THE REALITY OF BEING A FULL TIME WIFE. BUT NOW THAT WE HAVE REACHED JUST OVER A YEAR OF THE PANDEMIC IT HAS BROKEN ME DOWN IN SO MANY WAYS IT FEELS LIKE. THE WHOLE YEAR WITH JUST THE HUSBAND WORKING WEVE STRUGGLED TO PUT FOOD ON THE TABLE AND PAY THE MONTHLY EXPENSES THAT COME WITH THE ADULT LIFE AND NOW IM A MESS". | sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Im tired how are you
sys : (Question) I'm good but what makes you tired?
usr : I dont sleep well anymore. Doctor says its part of the depression. Up 4 or 5 times a night. Eventually i give up and just stay up
sys : (Question) What makes you depressed?
usr : Life!!!!! Bills!!! Feels like im drowning instead of keeping my head above the water!!!
usr : I feel like ill be okay though!!! I still have a little bit of positiveness in my head
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will be able to keep your head above the water thats the spirit!
usr : Just keep swimming right? Lol
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Keep that positivity inside your head :)
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) And lol yeah do that
usr : Will do thanks for the encouragment.
usr : It helps
| (Others) Yeah do your best :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"EVER SINCE THIS PANDEMIC HAS EMERGED IT JUST SEEMS LIKE THINGS HAVE BEEN GOING DOWN INSTEAD OF UP. PRIOR TO THE PANDEMIC, I HAD A JOB OF 10 YEARS, CHILDREN WERE GROWING INTO TEENAGERS, AND THE HUSBAND WAS OUT OF TOWN WORKING AS HE HAS DONE OUR ENTIRE 21 YEAR MARRIAGE. WELL SINCE THE PANDEMIC, I WAS IMMEDIATELY LET GO AT WORK. THE TEENAGERS WERE SCENTENCED TO DITIGITAL LEARNING AND MY HUSBAND DID EVERYTHING HE COULD POSSIBLY DO TO HOLD THE ONLY JOB AND INCOME THE WAS COMING INTO THE HOME. BUT EVENTUALLY JUST A MONTH AGO THAT WAS TAKEN OUT FROM UNDER US AS WELL. I DIDNT MIND NOT WORKING ALTHOUGH IT WAS AN ESCAPE FROM MY MOTHERLY DUTIES AND THE REALITY OF BEING A FULL TIME WIFE. BUT NOW THAT WE HAVE REACHED JUST OVER A YEAR OF THE PANDEMIC IT HAS BROKEN ME DOWN IN SO MANY WAYS IT FEELS LIKE. THE WHOLE YEAR WITH JUST THE HUSBAND WORKING WEVE STRUGGLED TO PUT FOOD ON THE TABLE AND PAY THE MONTHLY EXPENSES THAT COME WITH THE ADULT LIFE AND NOW IM A MESS". | sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Im tired how are you
sys : (Question) I'm good but what makes you tired?
usr : I dont sleep well anymore. Doctor says its part of the depression. Up 4 or 5 times a night. Eventually i give up and just stay up
sys : (Question) What makes you depressed?
usr : Life!!!!! Bills!!! Feels like im drowning instead of keeping my head above the water!!!
usr : I feel like ill be okay though!!! I still have a little bit of positiveness in my head
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will be able to keep your head above the water thats the spirit!
usr : Just keep swimming right? Lol
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Keep that positivity inside your head :)
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) And lol yeah do that
usr : Will do thanks for the encouragment.
usr : It helps
sys : (Others) Yeah do your best :)
| (Others) Your welcome! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"EVER SINCE THIS PANDEMIC HAS EMERGED IT JUST SEEMS LIKE THINGS HAVE BEEN GOING DOWN INSTEAD OF UP. PRIOR TO THE PANDEMIC, I HAD A JOB OF 10 YEARS, CHILDREN WERE GROWING INTO TEENAGERS, AND THE HUSBAND WAS OUT OF TOWN WORKING AS HE HAS DONE OUR ENTIRE 21 YEAR MARRIAGE. WELL SINCE THE PANDEMIC, I WAS IMMEDIATELY LET GO AT WORK. THE TEENAGERS WERE SCENTENCED TO DITIGITAL LEARNING AND MY HUSBAND DID EVERYTHING HE COULD POSSIBLY DO TO HOLD THE ONLY JOB AND INCOME THE WAS COMING INTO THE HOME. BUT EVENTUALLY JUST A MONTH AGO THAT WAS TAKEN OUT FROM UNDER US AS WELL. I DIDNT MIND NOT WORKING ALTHOUGH IT WAS AN ESCAPE FROM MY MOTHERLY DUTIES AND THE REALITY OF BEING A FULL TIME WIFE. BUT NOW THAT WE HAVE REACHED JUST OVER A YEAR OF THE PANDEMIC IT HAS BROKEN ME DOWN IN SO MANY WAYS IT FEELS LIKE. THE WHOLE YEAR WITH JUST THE HUSBAND WORKING WEVE STRUGGLED TO PUT FOOD ON THE TABLE AND PAY THE MONTHLY EXPENSES THAT COME WITH THE ADULT LIFE AND NOW IM A MESS". | sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Im tired how are you
sys : (Question) I'm good but what makes you tired?
usr : I dont sleep well anymore. Doctor says its part of the depression. Up 4 or 5 times a night. Eventually i give up and just stay up
sys : (Question) What makes you depressed?
usr : Life!!!!! Bills!!! Feels like im drowning instead of keeping my head above the water!!!
usr : I feel like ill be okay though!!! I still have a little bit of positiveness in my head
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will be able to keep your head above the water thats the spirit!
usr : Just keep swimming right? Lol
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Keep that positivity inside your head :)
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) And lol yeah do that
usr : Will do thanks for the encouragment.
usr : It helps
sys : (Others) Yeah do your best :)
sys : (Others) Your welcome!
usr : God bless you
usr : Hope all is well
usr : Stay safe suring ths crazy pandemic
| (Others) God bless you aswell :) I hope you get through this |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"EVER SINCE THIS PANDEMIC HAS EMERGED IT JUST SEEMS LIKE THINGS HAVE BEEN GOING DOWN INSTEAD OF UP. PRIOR TO THE PANDEMIC, I HAD A JOB OF 10 YEARS, CHILDREN WERE GROWING INTO TEENAGERS, AND THE HUSBAND WAS OUT OF TOWN WORKING AS HE HAS DONE OUR ENTIRE 21 YEAR MARRIAGE. WELL SINCE THE PANDEMIC, I WAS IMMEDIATELY LET GO AT WORK. THE TEENAGERS WERE SCENTENCED TO DITIGITAL LEARNING AND MY HUSBAND DID EVERYTHING HE COULD POSSIBLY DO TO HOLD THE ONLY JOB AND INCOME THE WAS COMING INTO THE HOME. BUT EVENTUALLY JUST A MONTH AGO THAT WAS TAKEN OUT FROM UNDER US AS WELL. I DIDNT MIND NOT WORKING ALTHOUGH IT WAS AN ESCAPE FROM MY MOTHERLY DUTIES AND THE REALITY OF BEING A FULL TIME WIFE. BUT NOW THAT WE HAVE REACHED JUST OVER A YEAR OF THE PANDEMIC IT HAS BROKEN ME DOWN IN SO MANY WAYS IT FEELS LIKE. THE WHOLE YEAR WITH JUST THE HUSBAND WORKING WEVE STRUGGLED TO PUT FOOD ON THE TABLE AND PAY THE MONTHLY EXPENSES THAT COME WITH THE ADULT LIFE AND NOW IM A MESS". | sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Im tired how are you
sys : (Question) I'm good but what makes you tired?
usr : I dont sleep well anymore. Doctor says its part of the depression. Up 4 or 5 times a night. Eventually i give up and just stay up
sys : (Question) What makes you depressed?
usr : Life!!!!! Bills!!! Feels like im drowning instead of keeping my head above the water!!!
usr : I feel like ill be okay though!!! I still have a little bit of positiveness in my head
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will be able to keep your head above the water thats the spirit!
usr : Just keep swimming right? Lol
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Keep that positivity inside your head :)
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) And lol yeah do that
usr : Will do thanks for the encouragment.
usr : It helps
sys : (Others) Yeah do your best :)
sys : (Others) Your welcome!
usr : God bless you
usr : Hope all is well
usr : Stay safe suring ths crazy pandemic
sys : (Others) God bless you aswell :) I hope you get through this
usr : During
| (Reflection of feelings) You aswell stay safe |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"EVER SINCE THIS PANDEMIC HAS EMERGED IT JUST SEEMS LIKE THINGS HAVE BEEN GOING DOWN INSTEAD OF UP. PRIOR TO THE PANDEMIC, I HAD A JOB OF 10 YEARS, CHILDREN WERE GROWING INTO TEENAGERS, AND THE HUSBAND WAS OUT OF TOWN WORKING AS HE HAS DONE OUR ENTIRE 21 YEAR MARRIAGE. WELL SINCE THE PANDEMIC, I WAS IMMEDIATELY LET GO AT WORK. THE TEENAGERS WERE SCENTENCED TO DITIGITAL LEARNING AND MY HUSBAND DID EVERYTHING HE COULD POSSIBLY DO TO HOLD THE ONLY JOB AND INCOME THE WAS COMING INTO THE HOME. BUT EVENTUALLY JUST A MONTH AGO THAT WAS TAKEN OUT FROM UNDER US AS WELL. I DIDNT MIND NOT WORKING ALTHOUGH IT WAS AN ESCAPE FROM MY MOTHERLY DUTIES AND THE REALITY OF BEING A FULL TIME WIFE. BUT NOW THAT WE HAVE REACHED JUST OVER A YEAR OF THE PANDEMIC IT HAS BROKEN ME DOWN IN SO MANY WAYS IT FEELS LIKE. THE WHOLE YEAR WITH JUST THE HUSBAND WORKING WEVE STRUGGLED TO PUT FOOD ON THE TABLE AND PAY THE MONTHLY EXPENSES THAT COME WITH THE ADULT LIFE AND NOW IM A MESS". | sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Im tired how are you
sys : (Question) I'm good but what makes you tired?
usr : I dont sleep well anymore. Doctor says its part of the depression. Up 4 or 5 times a night. Eventually i give up and just stay up
sys : (Question) What makes you depressed?
usr : Life!!!!! Bills!!! Feels like im drowning instead of keeping my head above the water!!!
usr : I feel like ill be okay though!!! I still have a little bit of positiveness in my head
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will be able to keep your head above the water thats the spirit!
usr : Just keep swimming right? Lol
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Keep that positivity inside your head :)
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) And lol yeah do that
usr : Will do thanks for the encouragment.
usr : It helps
sys : (Others) Yeah do your best :)
sys : (Others) Your welcome!
usr : God bless you
usr : Hope all is well
usr : Stay safe suring ths crazy pandemic
sys : (Others) God bless you aswell :) I hope you get through this
usr : During
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You aswell stay safe
usr : Im from florida where are you from?
| (Others) Im from new york |
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