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### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am sad about finding out my boyfriend broke up with me because he saw where I came from .". | sys : (Question) Hi there, how can I help you today?
usr : I'm sad because I found out my boyfriend broke up with me once he saw I came from a poor neighborhood.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's terrible. How awful he is
usr : Yes, I kind of depressed over it though because I thought he loved me.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how you feel, especially when you're looked down by the one you care the most
usr : I wish I had a different home, but I can't change that now. I'm trying to work so hard to do better, but it will take time.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is not your fault. It's actually your ex's problem. There is nothing to feel ashamed of
usr : Thanks for the encouragement.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You can actually use this as a motivation to show your ex how much he missed
usr : I think he is missing out on a lot, but he isn't going to realize this now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yes that's the right attitude. As long as you are determined, I believe you can do anything you want.
usr : Do you think someone else will love me for who I am?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Of course, you will find the right one soon.
usr : How can I move forward? Should I try to get him back and get him to realize he is not looking at my heart?
sys : (Others) Use the time you have now to invest in yourself. When you're the best version of yourself, the right person will come to you natually
usr : Can I invest my time in anyone from outside my neighborhood?
| (Reflection of feelings) No, there is no reason trying to win that guy back, Even if he comes back after you get successful, he's after your status, not you yourself. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am sad about finding out my boyfriend broke up with me because he saw where I came from .". | sys : (Question) Hi there, how can I help you today?
usr : I'm sad because I found out my boyfriend broke up with me once he saw I came from a poor neighborhood.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's terrible. How awful he is
usr : Yes, I kind of depressed over it though because I thought he loved me.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how you feel, especially when you're looked down by the one you care the most
usr : I wish I had a different home, but I can't change that now. I'm trying to work so hard to do better, but it will take time.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is not your fault. It's actually your ex's problem. There is nothing to feel ashamed of
usr : Thanks for the encouragement.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You can actually use this as a motivation to show your ex how much he missed
usr : I think he is missing out on a lot, but he isn't going to realize this now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yes that's the right attitude. As long as you are determined, I believe you can do anything you want.
usr : Do you think someone else will love me for who I am?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Of course, you will find the right one soon.
usr : How can I move forward? Should I try to get him back and get him to realize he is not looking at my heart?
sys : (Others) Use the time you have now to invest in yourself. When you're the best version of yourself, the right person will come to you natually
usr : Can I invest my time in anyone from outside my neighborhood?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) No, there is no reason trying to win that guy back, Even if he comes back after you get successful, he's after your status, not you yourself.
| (Self-disclosure) Of course, however, the best person will come in your life when you're not looking |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am sad about finding out my boyfriend broke up with me because he saw where I came from .". | sys : (Question) Hi there, how can I help you today?
usr : I'm sad because I found out my boyfriend broke up with me once he saw I came from a poor neighborhood.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's terrible. How awful he is
usr : Yes, I kind of depressed over it though because I thought he loved me.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how you feel, especially when you're looked down by the one you care the most
usr : I wish I had a different home, but I can't change that now. I'm trying to work so hard to do better, but it will take time.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is not your fault. It's actually your ex's problem. There is nothing to feel ashamed of
usr : Thanks for the encouragement.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You can actually use this as a motivation to show your ex how much he missed
usr : I think he is missing out on a lot, but he isn't going to realize this now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yes that's the right attitude. As long as you are determined, I believe you can do anything you want.
usr : Do you think someone else will love me for who I am?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Of course, you will find the right one soon.
usr : How can I move forward? Should I try to get him back and get him to realize he is not looking at my heart?
sys : (Others) Use the time you have now to invest in yourself. When you're the best version of yourself, the right person will come to you natually
usr : Can I invest my time in anyone from outside my neighborhood?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) No, there is no reason trying to win that guy back, Even if he comes back after you get successful, he's after your status, not you yourself.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Of course, however, the best person will come in your life when you're not looking
usr : That sounds like good advice.
| (Others) As I said, good things will eventually come to you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am sad about finding out my boyfriend broke up with me because he saw where I came from .". | sys : (Question) Hi there, how can I help you today?
usr : I'm sad because I found out my boyfriend broke up with me once he saw I came from a poor neighborhood.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's terrible. How awful he is
usr : Yes, I kind of depressed over it though because I thought he loved me.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how you feel, especially when you're looked down by the one you care the most
usr : I wish I had a different home, but I can't change that now. I'm trying to work so hard to do better, but it will take time.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is not your fault. It's actually your ex's problem. There is nothing to feel ashamed of
usr : Thanks for the encouragement.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You can actually use this as a motivation to show your ex how much he missed
usr : I think he is missing out on a lot, but he isn't going to realize this now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yes that's the right attitude. As long as you are determined, I believe you can do anything you want.
usr : Do you think someone else will love me for who I am?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Of course, you will find the right one soon.
usr : How can I move forward? Should I try to get him back and get him to realize he is not looking at my heart?
sys : (Others) Use the time you have now to invest in yourself. When you're the best version of yourself, the right person will come to you natually
usr : Can I invest my time in anyone from outside my neighborhood?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) No, there is no reason trying to win that guy back, Even if he comes back after you get successful, he's after your status, not you yourself.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Of course, however, the best person will come in your life when you're not looking
usr : That sounds like good advice.
sys : (Others) As I said, good things will eventually come to you
usr : Thanks so much. That is reassuring. I'm starting to feel better.
| (Others) If you feel lonely, talk to your friends and share your feelings with them |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am sad about finding out my boyfriend broke up with me because he saw where I came from .". | sys : (Question) Hi there, how can I help you today?
usr : I'm sad because I found out my boyfriend broke up with me once he saw I came from a poor neighborhood.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's terrible. How awful he is
usr : Yes, I kind of depressed over it though because I thought he loved me.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how you feel, especially when you're looked down by the one you care the most
usr : I wish I had a different home, but I can't change that now. I'm trying to work so hard to do better, but it will take time.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is not your fault. It's actually your ex's problem. There is nothing to feel ashamed of
usr : Thanks for the encouragement.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You can actually use this as a motivation to show your ex how much he missed
usr : I think he is missing out on a lot, but he isn't going to realize this now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yes that's the right attitude. As long as you are determined, I believe you can do anything you want.
usr : Do you think someone else will love me for who I am?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Of course, you will find the right one soon.
usr : How can I move forward? Should I try to get him back and get him to realize he is not looking at my heart?
sys : (Others) Use the time you have now to invest in yourself. When you're the best version of yourself, the right person will come to you natually
usr : Can I invest my time in anyone from outside my neighborhood?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) No, there is no reason trying to win that guy back, Even if he comes back after you get successful, he's after your status, not you yourself.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Of course, however, the best person will come in your life when you're not looking
usr : That sounds like good advice.
sys : (Others) As I said, good things will eventually come to you
usr : Thanks so much. That is reassuring. I'm starting to feel better.
sys : (Others) If you feel lonely, talk to your friends and share your feelings with them
usr : That sounds like it will be helpful.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I hope you feel better |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am sad about finding out my boyfriend broke up with me because he saw where I came from .". | sys : (Question) Hi there, how can I help you today?
usr : I'm sad because I found out my boyfriend broke up with me once he saw I came from a poor neighborhood.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's terrible. How awful he is
usr : Yes, I kind of depressed over it though because I thought he loved me.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how you feel, especially when you're looked down by the one you care the most
usr : I wish I had a different home, but I can't change that now. I'm trying to work so hard to do better, but it will take time.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is not your fault. It's actually your ex's problem. There is nothing to feel ashamed of
usr : Thanks for the encouragement.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You can actually use this as a motivation to show your ex how much he missed
usr : I think he is missing out on a lot, but he isn't going to realize this now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yes that's the right attitude. As long as you are determined, I believe you can do anything you want.
usr : Do you think someone else will love me for who I am?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Of course, you will find the right one soon.
usr : How can I move forward? Should I try to get him back and get him to realize he is not looking at my heart?
sys : (Others) Use the time you have now to invest in yourself. When you're the best version of yourself, the right person will come to you natually
usr : Can I invest my time in anyone from outside my neighborhood?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) No, there is no reason trying to win that guy back, Even if he comes back after you get successful, he's after your status, not you yourself.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Of course, however, the best person will come in your life when you're not looking
usr : That sounds like good advice.
sys : (Others) As I said, good things will eventually come to you
usr : Thanks so much. That is reassuring. I'm starting to feel better.
sys : (Others) If you feel lonely, talk to your friends and share your feelings with them
usr : That sounds like it will be helpful.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I hope you feel better
usr : I am feeling so much better. Thanks!
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm glad I could be a bit help for you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I recently made a mistake at work that I could get in trouble for, and I am nervous to approach my manager about my mistake.". | (Others) Hello! How may I support you today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I recently made a mistake at work that I could get in trouble for, and I am nervous to approach my manager about my mistake.". | sys : (Others) Hello! How may I support you today?
usr : Hi there, I am currently going through a kind of job crisis and I'm not sure how to move forward.
| (Reflection of feelings) I can totally understand how frustrating a job search can be. I was recently in the job market as well, as my contract was not extended due to budget reasons! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I recently made a mistake at work that I could get in trouble for, and I am nervous to approach my manager about my mistake.". | sys : (Others) Hello! How may I support you today?
usr : Hi there, I am currently going through a kind of job crisis and I'm not sure how to move forward.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can totally understand how frustrating a job search can be. I was recently in the job market as well, as my contract was not extended due to budget reasons!
| (Question) Is your line of business affected by Corona virus pandemic? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I recently made a mistake at work that I could get in trouble for, and I am nervous to approach my manager about my mistake.". | sys : (Others) Hello! How may I support you today?
usr : Hi there, I am currently going through a kind of job crisis and I'm not sure how to move forward.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can totally understand how frustrating a job search can be. I was recently in the job market as well, as my contract was not extended due to budget reasons!
sys : (Question) Is your line of business affected by Corona virus pandemic?
usr : I actually have a job, but I made a mistake and I think I could get in trouble and I'm not sure how to approach my manager about the mistake I made.
usr : It is, we have been working from home since March. I actually started my job working from home, something that wasn't expected when I was first hired.
| (Question) Ok, apologies for my earlier assumption! May I please know more details about the nature of your problem? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I recently made a mistake at work that I could get in trouble for, and I am nervous to approach my manager about my mistake.". | sys : (Others) Hello! How may I support you today?
usr : Hi there, I am currently going through a kind of job crisis and I'm not sure how to move forward.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can totally understand how frustrating a job search can be. I was recently in the job market as well, as my contract was not extended due to budget reasons!
sys : (Question) Is your line of business affected by Corona virus pandemic?
usr : I actually have a job, but I made a mistake and I think I could get in trouble and I'm not sure how to approach my manager about the mistake I made.
usr : It is, we have been working from home since March. I actually started my job working from home, something that wasn't expected when I was first hired.
sys : (Question) Ok, apologies for my earlier assumption! May I please know more details about the nature of your problem?
usr : Thats ok! We had been given a deadline for end of day this upcoming monday to have a number of projects completed. Some projects take only part of day to complete while others take multiple. I made the mistake of prioritizing the ones that take less time to be sure I was able to get as many done as possible. I in turn, forgot to start the other projects that take a couple of days until friday (yesterday) so now these couple of projects wont be done by the deadline.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ok, if I understand correctly, you prioritized some work to be done later, which unfortunately had an earlier deadline, is that correct? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I recently made a mistake at work that I could get in trouble for, and I am nervous to approach my manager about my mistake.". | sys : (Others) Hello! How may I support you today?
usr : Hi there, I am currently going through a kind of job crisis and I'm not sure how to move forward.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can totally understand how frustrating a job search can be. I was recently in the job market as well, as my contract was not extended due to budget reasons!
sys : (Question) Is your line of business affected by Corona virus pandemic?
usr : I actually have a job, but I made a mistake and I think I could get in trouble and I'm not sure how to approach my manager about the mistake I made.
usr : It is, we have been working from home since March. I actually started my job working from home, something that wasn't expected when I was first hired.
sys : (Question) Ok, apologies for my earlier assumption! May I please know more details about the nature of your problem?
usr : Thats ok! We had been given a deadline for end of day this upcoming monday to have a number of projects completed. Some projects take only part of day to complete while others take multiple. I made the mistake of prioritizing the ones that take less time to be sure I was able to get as many done as possible. I in turn, forgot to start the other projects that take a couple of days until friday (yesterday) so now these couple of projects wont be done by the deadline.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ok, if I understand correctly, you prioritized some work to be done later, which unfortunately had an earlier deadline, is that correct?
usr : Yes essentially. They all had to be done the same day, but I prioritized the work that took less time in order to get more of them completed. So now these ones that take longer (with the same deadline) wont be finished in time.
usr : I'm worried about talking to my manager about this.
usr : I know the mistake I made, but I'm afraid that won't be enough to make up for my mistake.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) We all make mistakes, don't we? Don't worry too much about it. Just be honest to your manager regarding what transpired. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I recently made a mistake at work that I could get in trouble for, and I am nervous to approach my manager about my mistake.". | sys : (Others) Hello! How may I support you today?
usr : Hi there, I am currently going through a kind of job crisis and I'm not sure how to move forward.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can totally understand how frustrating a job search can be. I was recently in the job market as well, as my contract was not extended due to budget reasons!
sys : (Question) Is your line of business affected by Corona virus pandemic?
usr : I actually have a job, but I made a mistake and I think I could get in trouble and I'm not sure how to approach my manager about the mistake I made.
usr : It is, we have been working from home since March. I actually started my job working from home, something that wasn't expected when I was first hired.
sys : (Question) Ok, apologies for my earlier assumption! May I please know more details about the nature of your problem?
usr : Thats ok! We had been given a deadline for end of day this upcoming monday to have a number of projects completed. Some projects take only part of day to complete while others take multiple. I made the mistake of prioritizing the ones that take less time to be sure I was able to get as many done as possible. I in turn, forgot to start the other projects that take a couple of days until friday (yesterday) so now these couple of projects wont be done by the deadline.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ok, if I understand correctly, you prioritized some work to be done later, which unfortunately had an earlier deadline, is that correct?
usr : Yes essentially. They all had to be done the same day, but I prioritized the work that took less time in order to get more of them completed. So now these ones that take longer (with the same deadline) wont be finished in time.
usr : I'm worried about talking to my manager about this.
usr : I know the mistake I made, but I'm afraid that won't be enough to make up for my mistake.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) We all make mistakes, don't we? Don't worry too much about it. Just be honest to your manager regarding what transpired.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) The way you feel bad about it while chatting with me, I am sure you are a great employee that wants to make things right. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I recently made a mistake at work that I could get in trouble for, and I am nervous to approach my manager about my mistake.". | sys : (Others) Hello! How may I support you today?
usr : Hi there, I am currently going through a kind of job crisis and I'm not sure how to move forward.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can totally understand how frustrating a job search can be. I was recently in the job market as well, as my contract was not extended due to budget reasons!
sys : (Question) Is your line of business affected by Corona virus pandemic?
usr : I actually have a job, but I made a mistake and I think I could get in trouble and I'm not sure how to approach my manager about the mistake I made.
usr : It is, we have been working from home since March. I actually started my job working from home, something that wasn't expected when I was first hired.
sys : (Question) Ok, apologies for my earlier assumption! May I please know more details about the nature of your problem?
usr : Thats ok! We had been given a deadline for end of day this upcoming monday to have a number of projects completed. Some projects take only part of day to complete while others take multiple. I made the mistake of prioritizing the ones that take less time to be sure I was able to get as many done as possible. I in turn, forgot to start the other projects that take a couple of days until friday (yesterday) so now these couple of projects wont be done by the deadline.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ok, if I understand correctly, you prioritized some work to be done later, which unfortunately had an earlier deadline, is that correct?
usr : Yes essentially. They all had to be done the same day, but I prioritized the work that took less time in order to get more of them completed. So now these ones that take longer (with the same deadline) wont be finished in time.
usr : I'm worried about talking to my manager about this.
usr : I know the mistake I made, but I'm afraid that won't be enough to make up for my mistake.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) We all make mistakes, don't we? Don't worry too much about it. Just be honest to your manager regarding what transpired.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) The way you feel bad about it while chatting with me, I am sure you are a great employee that wants to make things right.
usr : We do, and its my first mistake in the 8 months I've been working here.
| (Providing Suggestions) I am sure it's a honest mistake and let your manager know that you will be better at time management and prioritization moving forward. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I recently made a mistake at work that I could get in trouble for, and I am nervous to approach my manager about my mistake.". | sys : (Others) Hello! How may I support you today?
usr : Hi there, I am currently going through a kind of job crisis and I'm not sure how to move forward.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can totally understand how frustrating a job search can be. I was recently in the job market as well, as my contract was not extended due to budget reasons!
sys : (Question) Is your line of business affected by Corona virus pandemic?
usr : I actually have a job, but I made a mistake and I think I could get in trouble and I'm not sure how to approach my manager about the mistake I made.
usr : It is, we have been working from home since March. I actually started my job working from home, something that wasn't expected when I was first hired.
sys : (Question) Ok, apologies for my earlier assumption! May I please know more details about the nature of your problem?
usr : Thats ok! We had been given a deadline for end of day this upcoming monday to have a number of projects completed. Some projects take only part of day to complete while others take multiple. I made the mistake of prioritizing the ones that take less time to be sure I was able to get as many done as possible. I in turn, forgot to start the other projects that take a couple of days until friday (yesterday) so now these couple of projects wont be done by the deadline.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ok, if I understand correctly, you prioritized some work to be done later, which unfortunately had an earlier deadline, is that correct?
usr : Yes essentially. They all had to be done the same day, but I prioritized the work that took less time in order to get more of them completed. So now these ones that take longer (with the same deadline) wont be finished in time.
usr : I'm worried about talking to my manager about this.
usr : I know the mistake I made, but I'm afraid that won't be enough to make up for my mistake.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) We all make mistakes, don't we? Don't worry too much about it. Just be honest to your manager regarding what transpired.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) The way you feel bad about it while chatting with me, I am sure you are a great employee that wants to make things right.
usr : We do, and its my first mistake in the 8 months I've been working here.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am sure it's a honest mistake and let your manager know that you will be better at time management and prioritization moving forward.
usr : Oh thank you thats kind of you to say.
usr : That is good advice.
| (Providing Suggestions) You tell him that this has been a valuable lesson and you have learned a lot from it. And that this mistake would not happen again. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I recently made a mistake at work that I could get in trouble for, and I am nervous to approach my manager about my mistake.". | sys : (Others) Hello! How may I support you today?
usr : Hi there, I am currently going through a kind of job crisis and I'm not sure how to move forward.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can totally understand how frustrating a job search can be. I was recently in the job market as well, as my contract was not extended due to budget reasons!
sys : (Question) Is your line of business affected by Corona virus pandemic?
usr : I actually have a job, but I made a mistake and I think I could get in trouble and I'm not sure how to approach my manager about the mistake I made.
usr : It is, we have been working from home since March. I actually started my job working from home, something that wasn't expected when I was first hired.
sys : (Question) Ok, apologies for my earlier assumption! May I please know more details about the nature of your problem?
usr : Thats ok! We had been given a deadline for end of day this upcoming monday to have a number of projects completed. Some projects take only part of day to complete while others take multiple. I made the mistake of prioritizing the ones that take less time to be sure I was able to get as many done as possible. I in turn, forgot to start the other projects that take a couple of days until friday (yesterday) so now these couple of projects wont be done by the deadline.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ok, if I understand correctly, you prioritized some work to be done later, which unfortunately had an earlier deadline, is that correct?
usr : Yes essentially. They all had to be done the same day, but I prioritized the work that took less time in order to get more of them completed. So now these ones that take longer (with the same deadline) wont be finished in time.
usr : I'm worried about talking to my manager about this.
usr : I know the mistake I made, but I'm afraid that won't be enough to make up for my mistake.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) We all make mistakes, don't we? Don't worry too much about it. Just be honest to your manager regarding what transpired.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) The way you feel bad about it while chatting with me, I am sure you are a great employee that wants to make things right.
usr : We do, and its my first mistake in the 8 months I've been working here.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am sure it's a honest mistake and let your manager know that you will be better at time management and prioritization moving forward.
usr : Oh thank you thats kind of you to say.
usr : That is good advice.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You tell him that this has been a valuable lesson and you have learned a lot from it. And that this mistake would not happen again.
| (Information) If your manager is a leader and not a boss, he would appreciate your honesty and give you chance to rectify. Otherwise, at least, you now know what type of manager you are working for! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I recently made a mistake at work that I could get in trouble for, and I am nervous to approach my manager about my mistake.". | sys : (Others) Hello! How may I support you today?
usr : Hi there, I am currently going through a kind of job crisis and I'm not sure how to move forward.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can totally understand how frustrating a job search can be. I was recently in the job market as well, as my contract was not extended due to budget reasons!
sys : (Question) Is your line of business affected by Corona virus pandemic?
usr : I actually have a job, but I made a mistake and I think I could get in trouble and I'm not sure how to approach my manager about the mistake I made.
usr : It is, we have been working from home since March. I actually started my job working from home, something that wasn't expected when I was first hired.
sys : (Question) Ok, apologies for my earlier assumption! May I please know more details about the nature of your problem?
usr : Thats ok! We had been given a deadline for end of day this upcoming monday to have a number of projects completed. Some projects take only part of day to complete while others take multiple. I made the mistake of prioritizing the ones that take less time to be sure I was able to get as many done as possible. I in turn, forgot to start the other projects that take a couple of days until friday (yesterday) so now these couple of projects wont be done by the deadline.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ok, if I understand correctly, you prioritized some work to be done later, which unfortunately had an earlier deadline, is that correct?
usr : Yes essentially. They all had to be done the same day, but I prioritized the work that took less time in order to get more of them completed. So now these ones that take longer (with the same deadline) wont be finished in time.
usr : I'm worried about talking to my manager about this.
usr : I know the mistake I made, but I'm afraid that won't be enough to make up for my mistake.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) We all make mistakes, don't we? Don't worry too much about it. Just be honest to your manager regarding what transpired.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) The way you feel bad about it while chatting with me, I am sure you are a great employee that wants to make things right.
usr : We do, and its my first mistake in the 8 months I've been working here.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am sure it's a honest mistake and let your manager know that you will be better at time management and prioritization moving forward.
usr : Oh thank you thats kind of you to say.
usr : That is good advice.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You tell him that this has been a valuable lesson and you have learned a lot from it. And that this mistake would not happen again.
sys : (Information) If your manager is a leader and not a boss, he would appreciate your honesty and give you chance to rectify. Otherwise, at least, you now know what type of manager you are working for!
usr : you are so right!!
usr : thank you for putting this all into perspective
| (Self-disclosure) I have been in similar situation a lot. All the best :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I recently made a mistake at work that I could get in trouble for, and I am nervous to approach my manager about my mistake.". | sys : (Others) Hello! How may I support you today?
usr : Hi there, I am currently going through a kind of job crisis and I'm not sure how to move forward.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can totally understand how frustrating a job search can be. I was recently in the job market as well, as my contract was not extended due to budget reasons!
sys : (Question) Is your line of business affected by Corona virus pandemic?
usr : I actually have a job, but I made a mistake and I think I could get in trouble and I'm not sure how to approach my manager about the mistake I made.
usr : It is, we have been working from home since March. I actually started my job working from home, something that wasn't expected when I was first hired.
sys : (Question) Ok, apologies for my earlier assumption! May I please know more details about the nature of your problem?
usr : Thats ok! We had been given a deadline for end of day this upcoming monday to have a number of projects completed. Some projects take only part of day to complete while others take multiple. I made the mistake of prioritizing the ones that take less time to be sure I was able to get as many done as possible. I in turn, forgot to start the other projects that take a couple of days until friday (yesterday) so now these couple of projects wont be done by the deadline.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ok, if I understand correctly, you prioritized some work to be done later, which unfortunately had an earlier deadline, is that correct?
usr : Yes essentially. They all had to be done the same day, but I prioritized the work that took less time in order to get more of them completed. So now these ones that take longer (with the same deadline) wont be finished in time.
usr : I'm worried about talking to my manager about this.
usr : I know the mistake I made, but I'm afraid that won't be enough to make up for my mistake.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) We all make mistakes, don't we? Don't worry too much about it. Just be honest to your manager regarding what transpired.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) The way you feel bad about it while chatting with me, I am sure you are a great employee that wants to make things right.
usr : We do, and its my first mistake in the 8 months I've been working here.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am sure it's a honest mistake and let your manager know that you will be better at time management and prioritization moving forward.
usr : Oh thank you thats kind of you to say.
usr : That is good advice.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You tell him that this has been a valuable lesson and you have learned a lot from it. And that this mistake would not happen again.
sys : (Information) If your manager is a leader and not a boss, he would appreciate your honesty and give you chance to rectify. Otherwise, at least, you now know what type of manager you are working for!
usr : you are so right!!
usr : thank you for putting this all into perspective
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have been in similar situation a lot. All the best :)
usr : Thank you again, have a great evening :)
| (Others) You're welcome. Take care! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it". | usr : hello
| (Question) hi there! how are you doing? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) hi there! how are you doing?
usr : I feel ashamed thinking of my future career
| (Question) Can you tell me a little about what you feel ashamed about? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) hi there! how are you doing?
usr : I feel ashamed thinking of my future career
sys : (Question) Can you tell me a little about what you feel ashamed about?
usr : whenever we have family gathering, my aunts and uncles would brag about how much their children make. I have higher degree but will only make half of their salary so I feel bad
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) So, you feel that your family is judging you for your earning potential? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) hi there! how are you doing?
usr : I feel ashamed thinking of my future career
sys : (Question) Can you tell me a little about what you feel ashamed about?
usr : whenever we have family gathering, my aunts and uncles would brag about how much their children make. I have higher degree but will only make half of their salary so I feel bad
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So, you feel that your family is judging you for your earning potential?
usr : yes, my parents won't say it to me but they never show they're proud either
| (Others) I am very sorry for that. They should be proud that you have such a good degree! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) hi there! how are you doing?
usr : I feel ashamed thinking of my future career
sys : (Question) Can you tell me a little about what you feel ashamed about?
usr : whenever we have family gathering, my aunts and uncles would brag about how much their children make. I have higher degree but will only make half of their salary so I feel bad
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So, you feel that your family is judging you for your earning potential?
usr : yes, my parents won't say it to me but they never show they're proud either
sys : (Others) I am very sorry for that. They should be proud that you have such a good degree!
usr : What's good if it doesn't translate to my earnings.
usr : I wonder if I should start over with some better degree, but it's expensive
| (Others) I think you are coming at this from the wrong perspective. Life is not all about money you know! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) hi there! how are you doing?
usr : I feel ashamed thinking of my future career
sys : (Question) Can you tell me a little about what you feel ashamed about?
usr : whenever we have family gathering, my aunts and uncles would brag about how much their children make. I have higher degree but will only make half of their salary so I feel bad
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So, you feel that your family is judging you for your earning potential?
usr : yes, my parents won't say it to me but they never show they're proud either
sys : (Others) I am very sorry for that. They should be proud that you have such a good degree!
usr : What's good if it doesn't translate to my earnings.
usr : I wonder if I should start over with some better degree, but it's expensive
sys : (Others) I think you are coming at this from the wrong perspective. Life is not all about money you know!
usr : I want to think otherwise but it's difficult, especially when capitalism is everything nowadays
| (Question) Do you think that you enjoy your current field even though it is not as well paid as it could be? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) hi there! how are you doing?
usr : I feel ashamed thinking of my future career
sys : (Question) Can you tell me a little about what you feel ashamed about?
usr : whenever we have family gathering, my aunts and uncles would brag about how much their children make. I have higher degree but will only make half of their salary so I feel bad
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So, you feel that your family is judging you for your earning potential?
usr : yes, my parents won't say it to me but they never show they're proud either
sys : (Others) I am very sorry for that. They should be proud that you have such a good degree!
usr : What's good if it doesn't translate to my earnings.
usr : I wonder if I should start over with some better degree, but it's expensive
sys : (Others) I think you are coming at this from the wrong perspective. Life is not all about money you know!
usr : I want to think otherwise but it's difficult, especially when capitalism is everything nowadays
sys : (Question) Do you think that you enjoy your current field even though it is not as well paid as it could be?
| (Question) Do you think that you enjoy your current field even though it is not as well paid as it could be? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) hi there! how are you doing?
usr : I feel ashamed thinking of my future career
sys : (Question) Can you tell me a little about what you feel ashamed about?
usr : whenever we have family gathering, my aunts and uncles would brag about how much their children make. I have higher degree but will only make half of their salary so I feel bad
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So, you feel that your family is judging you for your earning potential?
usr : yes, my parents won't say it to me but they never show they're proud either
sys : (Others) I am very sorry for that. They should be proud that you have such a good degree!
usr : What's good if it doesn't translate to my earnings.
usr : I wonder if I should start over with some better degree, but it's expensive
sys : (Others) I think you are coming at this from the wrong perspective. Life is not all about money you know!
usr : I want to think otherwise but it's difficult, especially when capitalism is everything nowadays
sys : (Question) Do you think that you enjoy your current field even though it is not as well paid as it could be?
sys : (Question) Do you think that you enjoy your current field even though it is not as well paid as it could be?
usr : I enjoy it, I did some internship and it was nice
| (Others) I think that you should focus on how much you enjoy it. After all you will be working for the next few decades so you do not want to do something that you hate just because it pays well. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) hi there! how are you doing?
usr : I feel ashamed thinking of my future career
sys : (Question) Can you tell me a little about what you feel ashamed about?
usr : whenever we have family gathering, my aunts and uncles would brag about how much their children make. I have higher degree but will only make half of their salary so I feel bad
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So, you feel that your family is judging you for your earning potential?
usr : yes, my parents won't say it to me but they never show they're proud either
sys : (Others) I am very sorry for that. They should be proud that you have such a good degree!
usr : What's good if it doesn't translate to my earnings.
usr : I wonder if I should start over with some better degree, but it's expensive
sys : (Others) I think you are coming at this from the wrong perspective. Life is not all about money you know!
usr : I want to think otherwise but it's difficult, especially when capitalism is everything nowadays
sys : (Question) Do you think that you enjoy your current field even though it is not as well paid as it could be?
sys : (Question) Do you think that you enjoy your current field even though it is not as well paid as it could be?
usr : I enjoy it, I did some internship and it was nice
sys : (Others) I think that you should focus on how much you enjoy it. After all you will be working for the next few decades so you do not want to do something that you hate just because it pays well.
usr : Is there anyway for me to change my way of thinking? I keep worrying about all the expense that I'll have to spend and what if I can't afford because of how much I earn
| (Question) Is it possible for you to talk to your parents about this? It seems to me that they are at the root of your problems |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) hi there! how are you doing?
usr : I feel ashamed thinking of my future career
sys : (Question) Can you tell me a little about what you feel ashamed about?
usr : whenever we have family gathering, my aunts and uncles would brag about how much their children make. I have higher degree but will only make half of their salary so I feel bad
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So, you feel that your family is judging you for your earning potential?
usr : yes, my parents won't say it to me but they never show they're proud either
sys : (Others) I am very sorry for that. They should be proud that you have such a good degree!
usr : What's good if it doesn't translate to my earnings.
usr : I wonder if I should start over with some better degree, but it's expensive
sys : (Others) I think you are coming at this from the wrong perspective. Life is not all about money you know!
usr : I want to think otherwise but it's difficult, especially when capitalism is everything nowadays
sys : (Question) Do you think that you enjoy your current field even though it is not as well paid as it could be?
sys : (Question) Do you think that you enjoy your current field even though it is not as well paid as it could be?
usr : I enjoy it, I did some internship and it was nice
sys : (Others) I think that you should focus on how much you enjoy it. After all you will be working for the next few decades so you do not want to do something that you hate just because it pays well.
usr : Is there anyway for me to change my way of thinking? I keep worrying about all the expense that I'll have to spend and what if I can't afford because of how much I earn
sys : (Question) Is it possible for you to talk to your parents about this? It seems to me that they are at the root of your problems
usr : I don't really want to talk to them, I'm not very close to them and rarely tell them my problems
| (Question) Well, if you are not close to them does their opinion really count for so much? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) hi there! how are you doing?
usr : I feel ashamed thinking of my future career
sys : (Question) Can you tell me a little about what you feel ashamed about?
usr : whenever we have family gathering, my aunts and uncles would brag about how much their children make. I have higher degree but will only make half of their salary so I feel bad
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So, you feel that your family is judging you for your earning potential?
usr : yes, my parents won't say it to me but they never show they're proud either
sys : (Others) I am very sorry for that. They should be proud that you have such a good degree!
usr : What's good if it doesn't translate to my earnings.
usr : I wonder if I should start over with some better degree, but it's expensive
sys : (Others) I think you are coming at this from the wrong perspective. Life is not all about money you know!
usr : I want to think otherwise but it's difficult, especially when capitalism is everything nowadays
sys : (Question) Do you think that you enjoy your current field even though it is not as well paid as it could be?
sys : (Question) Do you think that you enjoy your current field even though it is not as well paid as it could be?
usr : I enjoy it, I did some internship and it was nice
sys : (Others) I think that you should focus on how much you enjoy it. After all you will be working for the next few decades so you do not want to do something that you hate just because it pays well.
usr : Is there anyway for me to change my way of thinking? I keep worrying about all the expense that I'll have to spend and what if I can't afford because of how much I earn
sys : (Question) Is it possible for you to talk to your parents about this? It seems to me that they are at the root of your problems
usr : I don't really want to talk to them, I'm not very close to them and rarely tell them my problems
sys : (Question) Well, if you are not close to them does their opinion really count for so much?
usr : it still affects me nonetheless
| (Self-disclosure) I do understand how hard it can be to shake off your family's preconceptions and expectations even though you are not close to them |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) hi there! how are you doing?
usr : I feel ashamed thinking of my future career
sys : (Question) Can you tell me a little about what you feel ashamed about?
usr : whenever we have family gathering, my aunts and uncles would brag about how much their children make. I have higher degree but will only make half of their salary so I feel bad
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So, you feel that your family is judging you for your earning potential?
usr : yes, my parents won't say it to me but they never show they're proud either
sys : (Others) I am very sorry for that. They should be proud that you have such a good degree!
usr : What's good if it doesn't translate to my earnings.
usr : I wonder if I should start over with some better degree, but it's expensive
sys : (Others) I think you are coming at this from the wrong perspective. Life is not all about money you know!
usr : I want to think otherwise but it's difficult, especially when capitalism is everything nowadays
sys : (Question) Do you think that you enjoy your current field even though it is not as well paid as it could be?
sys : (Question) Do you think that you enjoy your current field even though it is not as well paid as it could be?
usr : I enjoy it, I did some internship and it was nice
sys : (Others) I think that you should focus on how much you enjoy it. After all you will be working for the next few decades so you do not want to do something that you hate just because it pays well.
usr : Is there anyway for me to change my way of thinking? I keep worrying about all the expense that I'll have to spend and what if I can't afford because of how much I earn
sys : (Question) Is it possible for you to talk to your parents about this? It seems to me that they are at the root of your problems
usr : I don't really want to talk to them, I'm not very close to them and rarely tell them my problems
sys : (Question) Well, if you are not close to them does their opinion really count for so much?
usr : it still affects me nonetheless
sys : (Self-disclosure) I do understand how hard it can be to shake off your family's preconceptions and expectations even though you are not close to them
usr : thank you for understanding
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are very welcome. Please know that this is a very common problem and a lot of people feel the way that you are feeling now. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) hi there! how are you doing?
usr : I feel ashamed thinking of my future career
sys : (Question) Can you tell me a little about what you feel ashamed about?
usr : whenever we have family gathering, my aunts and uncles would brag about how much their children make. I have higher degree but will only make half of their salary so I feel bad
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So, you feel that your family is judging you for your earning potential?
usr : yes, my parents won't say it to me but they never show they're proud either
sys : (Others) I am very sorry for that. They should be proud that you have such a good degree!
usr : What's good if it doesn't translate to my earnings.
usr : I wonder if I should start over with some better degree, but it's expensive
sys : (Others) I think you are coming at this from the wrong perspective. Life is not all about money you know!
usr : I want to think otherwise but it's difficult, especially when capitalism is everything nowadays
sys : (Question) Do you think that you enjoy your current field even though it is not as well paid as it could be?
sys : (Question) Do you think that you enjoy your current field even though it is not as well paid as it could be?
usr : I enjoy it, I did some internship and it was nice
sys : (Others) I think that you should focus on how much you enjoy it. After all you will be working for the next few decades so you do not want to do something that you hate just because it pays well.
usr : Is there anyway for me to change my way of thinking? I keep worrying about all the expense that I'll have to spend and what if I can't afford because of how much I earn
sys : (Question) Is it possible for you to talk to your parents about this? It seems to me that they are at the root of your problems
usr : I don't really want to talk to them, I'm not very close to them and rarely tell them my problems
sys : (Question) Well, if you are not close to them does their opinion really count for so much?
usr : it still affects me nonetheless
sys : (Self-disclosure) I do understand how hard it can be to shake off your family's preconceptions and expectations even though you are not close to them
usr : thank you for understanding
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are very welcome. Please know that this is a very common problem and a lot of people feel the way that you are feeling now.
usr : it's tough when I look around and everyone seems to do better than me
| (Providing Suggestions) Do you think that you might benefit from some counselling to help you overcome your self esteem issues? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) hi there! how are you doing?
usr : I feel ashamed thinking of my future career
sys : (Question) Can you tell me a little about what you feel ashamed about?
usr : whenever we have family gathering, my aunts and uncles would brag about how much their children make. I have higher degree but will only make half of their salary so I feel bad
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So, you feel that your family is judging you for your earning potential?
usr : yes, my parents won't say it to me but they never show they're proud either
sys : (Others) I am very sorry for that. They should be proud that you have such a good degree!
usr : What's good if it doesn't translate to my earnings.
usr : I wonder if I should start over with some better degree, but it's expensive
sys : (Others) I think you are coming at this from the wrong perspective. Life is not all about money you know!
usr : I want to think otherwise but it's difficult, especially when capitalism is everything nowadays
sys : (Question) Do you think that you enjoy your current field even though it is not as well paid as it could be?
sys : (Question) Do you think that you enjoy your current field even though it is not as well paid as it could be?
usr : I enjoy it, I did some internship and it was nice
sys : (Others) I think that you should focus on how much you enjoy it. After all you will be working for the next few decades so you do not want to do something that you hate just because it pays well.
usr : Is there anyway for me to change my way of thinking? I keep worrying about all the expense that I'll have to spend and what if I can't afford because of how much I earn
sys : (Question) Is it possible for you to talk to your parents about this? It seems to me that they are at the root of your problems
usr : I don't really want to talk to them, I'm not very close to them and rarely tell them my problems
sys : (Question) Well, if you are not close to them does their opinion really count for so much?
usr : it still affects me nonetheless
sys : (Self-disclosure) I do understand how hard it can be to shake off your family's preconceptions and expectations even though you are not close to them
usr : thank you for understanding
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are very welcome. Please know that this is a very common problem and a lot of people feel the way that you are feeling now.
usr : it's tough when I look around and everyone seems to do better than me
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you think that you might benefit from some counselling to help you overcome your self esteem issues?
usr : I've thought about thaat but I'm not in a financial situation to afford that
| (Information) I can provide you with a list of places that will offer a few counselling sessions for free. I think you need to be able to talk this out with a professional. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) hi there! how are you doing?
usr : I feel ashamed thinking of my future career
sys : (Question) Can you tell me a little about what you feel ashamed about?
usr : whenever we have family gathering, my aunts and uncles would brag about how much their children make. I have higher degree but will only make half of their salary so I feel bad
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So, you feel that your family is judging you for your earning potential?
usr : yes, my parents won't say it to me but they never show they're proud either
sys : (Others) I am very sorry for that. They should be proud that you have such a good degree!
usr : What's good if it doesn't translate to my earnings.
usr : I wonder if I should start over with some better degree, but it's expensive
sys : (Others) I think you are coming at this from the wrong perspective. Life is not all about money you know!
usr : I want to think otherwise but it's difficult, especially when capitalism is everything nowadays
sys : (Question) Do you think that you enjoy your current field even though it is not as well paid as it could be?
sys : (Question) Do you think that you enjoy your current field even though it is not as well paid as it could be?
usr : I enjoy it, I did some internship and it was nice
sys : (Others) I think that you should focus on how much you enjoy it. After all you will be working for the next few decades so you do not want to do something that you hate just because it pays well.
usr : Is there anyway for me to change my way of thinking? I keep worrying about all the expense that I'll have to spend and what if I can't afford because of how much I earn
sys : (Question) Is it possible for you to talk to your parents about this? It seems to me that they are at the root of your problems
usr : I don't really want to talk to them, I'm not very close to them and rarely tell them my problems
sys : (Question) Well, if you are not close to them does their opinion really count for so much?
usr : it still affects me nonetheless
sys : (Self-disclosure) I do understand how hard it can be to shake off your family's preconceptions and expectations even though you are not close to them
usr : thank you for understanding
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are very welcome. Please know that this is a very common problem and a lot of people feel the way that you are feeling now.
usr : it's tough when I look around and everyone seems to do better than me
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you think that you might benefit from some counselling to help you overcome your self esteem issues?
usr : I've thought about thaat but I'm not in a financial situation to afford that
sys : (Information) I can provide you with a list of places that will offer a few counselling sessions for free. I think you need to be able to talk this out with a professional.
usr : that would be great
| (Others) I think that you need to accept that your parents' opinion should not colour your whole life |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) hi there! how are you doing?
usr : I feel ashamed thinking of my future career
sys : (Question) Can you tell me a little about what you feel ashamed about?
usr : whenever we have family gathering, my aunts and uncles would brag about how much their children make. I have higher degree but will only make half of their salary so I feel bad
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So, you feel that your family is judging you for your earning potential?
usr : yes, my parents won't say it to me but they never show they're proud either
sys : (Others) I am very sorry for that. They should be proud that you have such a good degree!
usr : What's good if it doesn't translate to my earnings.
usr : I wonder if I should start over with some better degree, but it's expensive
sys : (Others) I think you are coming at this from the wrong perspective. Life is not all about money you know!
usr : I want to think otherwise but it's difficult, especially when capitalism is everything nowadays
sys : (Question) Do you think that you enjoy your current field even though it is not as well paid as it could be?
sys : (Question) Do you think that you enjoy your current field even though it is not as well paid as it could be?
usr : I enjoy it, I did some internship and it was nice
sys : (Others) I think that you should focus on how much you enjoy it. After all you will be working for the next few decades so you do not want to do something that you hate just because it pays well.
usr : Is there anyway for me to change my way of thinking? I keep worrying about all the expense that I'll have to spend and what if I can't afford because of how much I earn
sys : (Question) Is it possible for you to talk to your parents about this? It seems to me that they are at the root of your problems
usr : I don't really want to talk to them, I'm not very close to them and rarely tell them my problems
sys : (Question) Well, if you are not close to them does their opinion really count for so much?
usr : it still affects me nonetheless
sys : (Self-disclosure) I do understand how hard it can be to shake off your family's preconceptions and expectations even though you are not close to them
usr : thank you for understanding
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are very welcome. Please know that this is a very common problem and a lot of people feel the way that you are feeling now.
usr : it's tough when I look around and everyone seems to do better than me
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you think that you might benefit from some counselling to help you overcome your self esteem issues?
usr : I've thought about thaat but I'm not in a financial situation to afford that
sys : (Information) I can provide you with a list of places that will offer a few counselling sessions for free. I think you need to be able to talk this out with a professional.
usr : that would be great
sys : (Others) I think that you need to accept that your parents' opinion should not colour your whole life
usr : yeah I should start doing that and not let others affect me
usr : Thank you very muchh for talking with me
| (Others) Once your self esteem picks up a little I think that you will find that it's very much easier to ignore other people's input. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I realize my career won't pay much and I feel bad for choosing it". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) hi there! how are you doing?
usr : I feel ashamed thinking of my future career
sys : (Question) Can you tell me a little about what you feel ashamed about?
usr : whenever we have family gathering, my aunts and uncles would brag about how much their children make. I have higher degree but will only make half of their salary so I feel bad
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So, you feel that your family is judging you for your earning potential?
usr : yes, my parents won't say it to me but they never show they're proud either
sys : (Others) I am very sorry for that. They should be proud that you have such a good degree!
usr : What's good if it doesn't translate to my earnings.
usr : I wonder if I should start over with some better degree, but it's expensive
sys : (Others) I think you are coming at this from the wrong perspective. Life is not all about money you know!
usr : I want to think otherwise but it's difficult, especially when capitalism is everything nowadays
sys : (Question) Do you think that you enjoy your current field even though it is not as well paid as it could be?
sys : (Question) Do you think that you enjoy your current field even though it is not as well paid as it could be?
usr : I enjoy it, I did some internship and it was nice
sys : (Others) I think that you should focus on how much you enjoy it. After all you will be working for the next few decades so you do not want to do something that you hate just because it pays well.
usr : Is there anyway for me to change my way of thinking? I keep worrying about all the expense that I'll have to spend and what if I can't afford because of how much I earn
sys : (Question) Is it possible for you to talk to your parents about this? It seems to me that they are at the root of your problems
usr : I don't really want to talk to them, I'm not very close to them and rarely tell them my problems
sys : (Question) Well, if you are not close to them does their opinion really count for so much?
usr : it still affects me nonetheless
sys : (Self-disclosure) I do understand how hard it can be to shake off your family's preconceptions and expectations even though you are not close to them
usr : thank you for understanding
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are very welcome. Please know that this is a very common problem and a lot of people feel the way that you are feeling now.
usr : it's tough when I look around and everyone seems to do better than me
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you think that you might benefit from some counselling to help you overcome your self esteem issues?
usr : I've thought about thaat but I'm not in a financial situation to afford that
sys : (Information) I can provide you with a list of places that will offer a few counselling sessions for free. I think you need to be able to talk this out with a professional.
usr : that would be great
sys : (Others) I think that you need to accept that your parents' opinion should not colour your whole life
usr : yeah I should start doing that and not let others affect me
usr : Thank you very muchh for talking with me
sys : (Others) Once your self esteem picks up a little I think that you will find that it's very much easier to ignore other people's input.
| (Others) You are very welcome! I wish you well in the months to come. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have anxiety to leave my families,". | usr : hi
| (Question) hi there, is there anything troubling you today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have anxiety to leave my families,". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) hi there, is there anything troubling you today?
| (Others) I am happy to talk about anything you might have on your mind. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have anxiety to leave my families,". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) hi there, is there anything troubling you today?
sys : (Others) I am happy to talk about anything you might have on your mind.
usr : I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ouch that is a very long way. So you feel that you are going to be distanced from your loved ones and might lose touch with them? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have anxiety to leave my families,". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) hi there, is there anything troubling you today?
sys : (Others) I am happy to talk about anything you might have on your mind.
usr : I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ouch that is a very long way. So you feel that you are going to be distanced from your loved ones and might lose touch with them?
usr : i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones
| (Self-disclosure) I know how it feels to move to another part of the country. I guess you are nervous about it and unsure if you're doing the right thing |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have anxiety to leave my families,". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) hi there, is there anything troubling you today?
sys : (Others) I am happy to talk about anything you might have on your mind.
usr : I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ouch that is a very long way. So you feel that you are going to be distanced from your loved ones and might lose touch with them?
usr : i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how it feels to move to another part of the country. I guess you are nervous about it and unsure if you're doing the right thing
usr : yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash
| (Question) Would you consider relocating with you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have anxiety to leave my families,". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) hi there, is there anything troubling you today?
sys : (Others) I am happy to talk about anything you might have on your mind.
usr : I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ouch that is a very long way. So you feel that you are going to be distanced from your loved ones and might lose touch with them?
usr : i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how it feels to move to another part of the country. I guess you are nervous about it and unsure if you're doing the right thing
usr : yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash
sys : (Question) Would you consider relocating with you?
| (Others) they consider, sorry. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have anxiety to leave my families,". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) hi there, is there anything troubling you today?
sys : (Others) I am happy to talk about anything you might have on your mind.
usr : I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ouch that is a very long way. So you feel that you are going to be distanced from your loved ones and might lose touch with them?
usr : i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how it feels to move to another part of the country. I guess you are nervous about it and unsure if you're doing the right thing
usr : yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash
sys : (Question) Would you consider relocating with you?
sys : (Others) they consider, sorry.
usr : and how will I cope? I know nobody over there in California
usr : NO
| (Others) It is a difficult time to be making new friends, with all the social distancing policies in place |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have anxiety to leave my families,". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) hi there, is there anything troubling you today?
sys : (Others) I am happy to talk about anything you might have on your mind.
usr : I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ouch that is a very long way. So you feel that you are going to be distanced from your loved ones and might lose touch with them?
usr : i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how it feels to move to another part of the country. I guess you are nervous about it and unsure if you're doing the right thing
usr : yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash
sys : (Question) Would you consider relocating with you?
sys : (Others) they consider, sorry.
usr : and how will I cope? I know nobody over there in California
usr : NO
sys : (Others) It is a difficult time to be making new friends, with all the social distancing policies in place
usr : IT IS ONLY MY WIFE AND CHILDREN THAT WILL FOLLOW ME
usr : DEFINITELY
| (Question) How often would you be able to visit your parents and siblings? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have anxiety to leave my families,". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) hi there, is there anything troubling you today?
sys : (Others) I am happy to talk about anything you might have on your mind.
usr : I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ouch that is a very long way. So you feel that you are going to be distanced from your loved ones and might lose touch with them?
usr : i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how it feels to move to another part of the country. I guess you are nervous about it and unsure if you're doing the right thing
usr : yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash
sys : (Question) Would you consider relocating with you?
sys : (Others) they consider, sorry.
usr : and how will I cope? I know nobody over there in California
usr : NO
sys : (Others) It is a difficult time to be making new friends, with all the social distancing policies in place
usr : IT IS ONLY MY WIFE AND CHILDREN THAT WILL FOLLOW ME
usr : DEFINITELY
sys : (Question) How often would you be able to visit your parents and siblings?
usr : I do do that often
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that they will still know that you love and care for them no matter how far away you are |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have anxiety to leave my families,". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) hi there, is there anything troubling you today?
sys : (Others) I am happy to talk about anything you might have on your mind.
usr : I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ouch that is a very long way. So you feel that you are going to be distanced from your loved ones and might lose touch with them?
usr : i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how it feels to move to another part of the country. I guess you are nervous about it and unsure if you're doing the right thing
usr : yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash
sys : (Question) Would you consider relocating with you?
sys : (Others) they consider, sorry.
usr : and how will I cope? I know nobody over there in California
usr : NO
sys : (Others) It is a difficult time to be making new friends, with all the social distancing policies in place
usr : IT IS ONLY MY WIFE AND CHILDREN THAT WILL FOLLOW ME
usr : DEFINITELY
sys : (Question) How often would you be able to visit your parents and siblings?
usr : I do do that often
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that they will still know that you love and care for them no matter how far away you are
usr : but they will definitely need me
| (Question) Are there any comparably paid jobs that you could take that do not involve moving? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have anxiety to leave my families,". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) hi there, is there anything troubling you today?
sys : (Others) I am happy to talk about anything you might have on your mind.
usr : I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ouch that is a very long way. So you feel that you are going to be distanced from your loved ones and might lose touch with them?
usr : i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how it feels to move to another part of the country. I guess you are nervous about it and unsure if you're doing the right thing
usr : yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash
sys : (Question) Would you consider relocating with you?
sys : (Others) they consider, sorry.
usr : and how will I cope? I know nobody over there in California
usr : NO
sys : (Others) It is a difficult time to be making new friends, with all the social distancing policies in place
usr : IT IS ONLY MY WIFE AND CHILDREN THAT WILL FOLLOW ME
usr : DEFINITELY
sys : (Question) How often would you be able to visit your parents and siblings?
usr : I do do that often
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that they will still know that you love and care for them no matter how far away you are
usr : but they will definitely need me
sys : (Question) Are there any comparably paid jobs that you could take that do not involve moving?
usr : no for now
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I do understand that the job market is really difficult right now. Would your siblings not be able to take care of your parents though? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have anxiety to leave my families,". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) hi there, is there anything troubling you today?
sys : (Others) I am happy to talk about anything you might have on your mind.
usr : I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ouch that is a very long way. So you feel that you are going to be distanced from your loved ones and might lose touch with them?
usr : i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how it feels to move to another part of the country. I guess you are nervous about it and unsure if you're doing the right thing
usr : yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash
sys : (Question) Would you consider relocating with you?
sys : (Others) they consider, sorry.
usr : and how will I cope? I know nobody over there in California
usr : NO
sys : (Others) It is a difficult time to be making new friends, with all the social distancing policies in place
usr : IT IS ONLY MY WIFE AND CHILDREN THAT WILL FOLLOW ME
usr : DEFINITELY
sys : (Question) How often would you be able to visit your parents and siblings?
usr : I do do that often
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that they will still know that you love and care for them no matter how far away you are
usr : but they will definitely need me
sys : (Question) Are there any comparably paid jobs that you could take that do not involve moving?
usr : no for now
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I do understand that the job market is really difficult right now. Would your siblings not be able to take care of your parents though?
usr : I am not sure of that men
| (Question) Do you feel that they are not committed enough to your parents? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have anxiety to leave my families,". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) hi there, is there anything troubling you today?
sys : (Others) I am happy to talk about anything you might have on your mind.
usr : I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ouch that is a very long way. So you feel that you are going to be distanced from your loved ones and might lose touch with them?
usr : i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how it feels to move to another part of the country. I guess you are nervous about it and unsure if you're doing the right thing
usr : yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash
sys : (Question) Would you consider relocating with you?
sys : (Others) they consider, sorry.
usr : and how will I cope? I know nobody over there in California
usr : NO
sys : (Others) It is a difficult time to be making new friends, with all the social distancing policies in place
usr : IT IS ONLY MY WIFE AND CHILDREN THAT WILL FOLLOW ME
usr : DEFINITELY
sys : (Question) How often would you be able to visit your parents and siblings?
usr : I do do that often
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that they will still know that you love and care for them no matter how far away you are
usr : but they will definitely need me
sys : (Question) Are there any comparably paid jobs that you could take that do not involve moving?
usr : no for now
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I do understand that the job market is really difficult right now. Would your siblings not be able to take care of your parents though?
usr : I am not sure of that men
sys : (Question) Do you feel that they are not committed enough to your parents?
usr : like, I am seriously worried
usr : yes
| (Others) It is very difficult to know what to say. It is a big worry and I wonder if you can be happy in your new environment if you can't be sure that what you've left behind is okay |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have anxiety to leave my families,". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) hi there, is there anything troubling you today?
sys : (Others) I am happy to talk about anything you might have on your mind.
usr : I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ouch that is a very long way. So you feel that you are going to be distanced from your loved ones and might lose touch with them?
usr : i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how it feels to move to another part of the country. I guess you are nervous about it and unsure if you're doing the right thing
usr : yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash
sys : (Question) Would you consider relocating with you?
sys : (Others) they consider, sorry.
usr : and how will I cope? I know nobody over there in California
usr : NO
sys : (Others) It is a difficult time to be making new friends, with all the social distancing policies in place
usr : IT IS ONLY MY WIFE AND CHILDREN THAT WILL FOLLOW ME
usr : DEFINITELY
sys : (Question) How often would you be able to visit your parents and siblings?
usr : I do do that often
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that they will still know that you love and care for them no matter how far away you are
usr : but they will definitely need me
sys : (Question) Are there any comparably paid jobs that you could take that do not involve moving?
usr : no for now
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I do understand that the job market is really difficult right now. Would your siblings not be able to take care of your parents though?
usr : I am not sure of that men
sys : (Question) Do you feel that they are not committed enough to your parents?
usr : like, I am seriously worried
usr : yes
sys : (Others) It is very difficult to know what to say. It is a big worry and I wonder if you can be happy in your new environment if you can't be sure that what you've left behind is okay
| (Question) Is it possible that you are worrying unnecessarily though? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have anxiety to leave my families,". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) hi there, is there anything troubling you today?
sys : (Others) I am happy to talk about anything you might have on your mind.
usr : I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ouch that is a very long way. So you feel that you are going to be distanced from your loved ones and might lose touch with them?
usr : i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how it feels to move to another part of the country. I guess you are nervous about it and unsure if you're doing the right thing
usr : yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash
sys : (Question) Would you consider relocating with you?
sys : (Others) they consider, sorry.
usr : and how will I cope? I know nobody over there in California
usr : NO
sys : (Others) It is a difficult time to be making new friends, with all the social distancing policies in place
usr : IT IS ONLY MY WIFE AND CHILDREN THAT WILL FOLLOW ME
usr : DEFINITELY
sys : (Question) How often would you be able to visit your parents and siblings?
usr : I do do that often
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that they will still know that you love and care for them no matter how far away you are
usr : but they will definitely need me
sys : (Question) Are there any comparably paid jobs that you could take that do not involve moving?
usr : no for now
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I do understand that the job market is really difficult right now. Would your siblings not be able to take care of your parents though?
usr : I am not sure of that men
sys : (Question) Do you feel that they are not committed enough to your parents?
usr : like, I am seriously worried
usr : yes
sys : (Others) It is very difficult to know what to say. It is a big worry and I wonder if you can be happy in your new environment if you can't be sure that what you've left behind is okay
sys : (Question) Is it possible that you are worrying unnecessarily though?
usr : no
usr : only worried most about my mother, she will not leave dad
| (Information) Have you considered looking into other forms of help that your parents could have when you are not there? There are organisations that could check in on them |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have anxiety to leave my families,". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) hi there, is there anything troubling you today?
sys : (Others) I am happy to talk about anything you might have on your mind.
usr : I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ouch that is a very long way. So you feel that you are going to be distanced from your loved ones and might lose touch with them?
usr : i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how it feels to move to another part of the country. I guess you are nervous about it and unsure if you're doing the right thing
usr : yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash
sys : (Question) Would you consider relocating with you?
sys : (Others) they consider, sorry.
usr : and how will I cope? I know nobody over there in California
usr : NO
sys : (Others) It is a difficult time to be making new friends, with all the social distancing policies in place
usr : IT IS ONLY MY WIFE AND CHILDREN THAT WILL FOLLOW ME
usr : DEFINITELY
sys : (Question) How often would you be able to visit your parents and siblings?
usr : I do do that often
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that they will still know that you love and care for them no matter how far away you are
usr : but they will definitely need me
sys : (Question) Are there any comparably paid jobs that you could take that do not involve moving?
usr : no for now
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I do understand that the job market is really difficult right now. Would your siblings not be able to take care of your parents though?
usr : I am not sure of that men
sys : (Question) Do you feel that they are not committed enough to your parents?
usr : like, I am seriously worried
usr : yes
sys : (Others) It is very difficult to know what to say. It is a big worry and I wonder if you can be happy in your new environment if you can't be sure that what you've left behind is okay
sys : (Question) Is it possible that you are worrying unnecessarily though?
usr : no
usr : only worried most about my mother, she will not leave dad
sys : (Information) Have you considered looking into other forms of help that your parents could have when you are not there? There are organisations that could check in on them
usr : she feels more happy while seeing me
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sure that she'd not want you to sacrifice your happiness and financial security though |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have anxiety to leave my families,". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) hi there, is there anything troubling you today?
sys : (Others) I am happy to talk about anything you might have on your mind.
usr : I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ouch that is a very long way. So you feel that you are going to be distanced from your loved ones and might lose touch with them?
usr : i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how it feels to move to another part of the country. I guess you are nervous about it and unsure if you're doing the right thing
usr : yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash
sys : (Question) Would you consider relocating with you?
sys : (Others) they consider, sorry.
usr : and how will I cope? I know nobody over there in California
usr : NO
sys : (Others) It is a difficult time to be making new friends, with all the social distancing policies in place
usr : IT IS ONLY MY WIFE AND CHILDREN THAT WILL FOLLOW ME
usr : DEFINITELY
sys : (Question) How often would you be able to visit your parents and siblings?
usr : I do do that often
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that they will still know that you love and care for them no matter how far away you are
usr : but they will definitely need me
sys : (Question) Are there any comparably paid jobs that you could take that do not involve moving?
usr : no for now
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I do understand that the job market is really difficult right now. Would your siblings not be able to take care of your parents though?
usr : I am not sure of that men
sys : (Question) Do you feel that they are not committed enough to your parents?
usr : like, I am seriously worried
usr : yes
sys : (Others) It is very difficult to know what to say. It is a big worry and I wonder if you can be happy in your new environment if you can't be sure that what you've left behind is okay
sys : (Question) Is it possible that you are worrying unnecessarily though?
usr : no
usr : only worried most about my mother, she will not leave dad
sys : (Information) Have you considered looking into other forms of help that your parents could have when you are not there? There are organisations that could check in on them
usr : she feels more happy while seeing me
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sure that she'd not want you to sacrifice your happiness and financial security though
usr : ok
| (Others) It is good that you love your mum so much and are worried about her happiness. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have anxiety to leave my families,". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) hi there, is there anything troubling you today?
sys : (Others) I am happy to talk about anything you might have on your mind.
usr : I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ouch that is a very long way. So you feel that you are going to be distanced from your loved ones and might lose touch with them?
usr : i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how it feels to move to another part of the country. I guess you are nervous about it and unsure if you're doing the right thing
usr : yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash
sys : (Question) Would you consider relocating with you?
sys : (Others) they consider, sorry.
usr : and how will I cope? I know nobody over there in California
usr : NO
sys : (Others) It is a difficult time to be making new friends, with all the social distancing policies in place
usr : IT IS ONLY MY WIFE AND CHILDREN THAT WILL FOLLOW ME
usr : DEFINITELY
sys : (Question) How often would you be able to visit your parents and siblings?
usr : I do do that often
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that they will still know that you love and care for them no matter how far away you are
usr : but they will definitely need me
sys : (Question) Are there any comparably paid jobs that you could take that do not involve moving?
usr : no for now
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I do understand that the job market is really difficult right now. Would your siblings not be able to take care of your parents though?
usr : I am not sure of that men
sys : (Question) Do you feel that they are not committed enough to your parents?
usr : like, I am seriously worried
usr : yes
sys : (Others) It is very difficult to know what to say. It is a big worry and I wonder if you can be happy in your new environment if you can't be sure that what you've left behind is okay
sys : (Question) Is it possible that you are worrying unnecessarily though?
usr : no
usr : only worried most about my mother, she will not leave dad
sys : (Information) Have you considered looking into other forms of help that your parents could have when you are not there? There are organisations that could check in on them
usr : she feels more happy while seeing me
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sure that she'd not want you to sacrifice your happiness and financial security though
usr : ok
sys : (Others) It is good that you love your mum so much and are worried about her happiness.
usr : let what organization can do that?
| (Others) I am not sure to be honest. You could try contacting your local Citizen's Advice Bureau? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have anxiety to leave my families,". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) hi there, is there anything troubling you today?
sys : (Others) I am happy to talk about anything you might have on your mind.
usr : I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ouch that is a very long way. So you feel that you are going to be distanced from your loved ones and might lose touch with them?
usr : i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how it feels to move to another part of the country. I guess you are nervous about it and unsure if you're doing the right thing
usr : yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash
sys : (Question) Would you consider relocating with you?
sys : (Others) they consider, sorry.
usr : and how will I cope? I know nobody over there in California
usr : NO
sys : (Others) It is a difficult time to be making new friends, with all the social distancing policies in place
usr : IT IS ONLY MY WIFE AND CHILDREN THAT WILL FOLLOW ME
usr : DEFINITELY
sys : (Question) How often would you be able to visit your parents and siblings?
usr : I do do that often
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that they will still know that you love and care for them no matter how far away you are
usr : but they will definitely need me
sys : (Question) Are there any comparably paid jobs that you could take that do not involve moving?
usr : no for now
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I do understand that the job market is really difficult right now. Would your siblings not be able to take care of your parents though?
usr : I am not sure of that men
sys : (Question) Do you feel that they are not committed enough to your parents?
usr : like, I am seriously worried
usr : yes
sys : (Others) It is very difficult to know what to say. It is a big worry and I wonder if you can be happy in your new environment if you can't be sure that what you've left behind is okay
sys : (Question) Is it possible that you are worrying unnecessarily though?
usr : no
usr : only worried most about my mother, she will not leave dad
sys : (Information) Have you considered looking into other forms of help that your parents could have when you are not there? There are organisations that could check in on them
usr : she feels more happy while seeing me
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sure that she'd not want you to sacrifice your happiness and financial security though
usr : ok
sys : (Others) It is good that you love your mum so much and are worried about her happiness.
usr : let what organization can do that?
sys : (Others) I am not sure to be honest. You could try contacting your local Citizen's Advice Bureau?
usr : okay, I will do that right now, I will be happy if I can see such
| (Others) I hope that I have been able to be of some help to you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have anxiety to leave my families,". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) hi there, is there anything troubling you today?
sys : (Others) I am happy to talk about anything you might have on your mind.
usr : I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ouch that is a very long way. So you feel that you are going to be distanced from your loved ones and might lose touch with them?
usr : i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how it feels to move to another part of the country. I guess you are nervous about it and unsure if you're doing the right thing
usr : yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash
sys : (Question) Would you consider relocating with you?
sys : (Others) they consider, sorry.
usr : and how will I cope? I know nobody over there in California
usr : NO
sys : (Others) It is a difficult time to be making new friends, with all the social distancing policies in place
usr : IT IS ONLY MY WIFE AND CHILDREN THAT WILL FOLLOW ME
usr : DEFINITELY
sys : (Question) How often would you be able to visit your parents and siblings?
usr : I do do that often
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that they will still know that you love and care for them no matter how far away you are
usr : but they will definitely need me
sys : (Question) Are there any comparably paid jobs that you could take that do not involve moving?
usr : no for now
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I do understand that the job market is really difficult right now. Would your siblings not be able to take care of your parents though?
usr : I am not sure of that men
sys : (Question) Do you feel that they are not committed enough to your parents?
usr : like, I am seriously worried
usr : yes
sys : (Others) It is very difficult to know what to say. It is a big worry and I wonder if you can be happy in your new environment if you can't be sure that what you've left behind is okay
sys : (Question) Is it possible that you are worrying unnecessarily though?
usr : no
usr : only worried most about my mother, she will not leave dad
sys : (Information) Have you considered looking into other forms of help that your parents could have when you are not there? There are organisations that could check in on them
usr : she feels more happy while seeing me
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sure that she'd not want you to sacrifice your happiness and financial security though
usr : ok
sys : (Others) It is good that you love your mum so much and are worried about her happiness.
usr : let what organization can do that?
sys : (Others) I am not sure to be honest. You could try contacting your local Citizen's Advice Bureau?
usr : okay, I will do that right now, I will be happy if I can see such
sys : (Others) I hope that I have been able to be of some help to you
| (Others) You need to press quit now ... I can't do it from this end : ) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have anxiety to leave my families,". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) hi there, is there anything troubling you today?
sys : (Others) I am happy to talk about anything you might have on your mind.
usr : I got a new job in California, and all my families, mother, father, siblings and friends are there in Washington
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ouch that is a very long way. So you feel that you are going to be distanced from your loved ones and might lose touch with them?
usr : i need to take care of my mother and monitor my young ones
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how it feels to move to another part of the country. I guess you are nervous about it and unsure if you're doing the right thing
usr : yes, I need to take care of them, although the job gets a big cash
sys : (Question) Would you consider relocating with you?
sys : (Others) they consider, sorry.
usr : and how will I cope? I know nobody over there in California
usr : NO
sys : (Others) It is a difficult time to be making new friends, with all the social distancing policies in place
usr : IT IS ONLY MY WIFE AND CHILDREN THAT WILL FOLLOW ME
usr : DEFINITELY
sys : (Question) How often would you be able to visit your parents and siblings?
usr : I do do that often
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that they will still know that you love and care for them no matter how far away you are
usr : but they will definitely need me
sys : (Question) Are there any comparably paid jobs that you could take that do not involve moving?
usr : no for now
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I do understand that the job market is really difficult right now. Would your siblings not be able to take care of your parents though?
usr : I am not sure of that men
sys : (Question) Do you feel that they are not committed enough to your parents?
usr : like, I am seriously worried
usr : yes
sys : (Others) It is very difficult to know what to say. It is a big worry and I wonder if you can be happy in your new environment if you can't be sure that what you've left behind is okay
sys : (Question) Is it possible that you are worrying unnecessarily though?
usr : no
usr : only worried most about my mother, she will not leave dad
sys : (Information) Have you considered looking into other forms of help that your parents could have when you are not there? There are organisations that could check in on them
usr : she feels more happy while seeing me
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sure that she'd not want you to sacrifice your happiness and financial security though
usr : ok
sys : (Others) It is good that you love your mum so much and are worried about her happiness.
usr : let what organization can do that?
sys : (Others) I am not sure to be honest. You could try contacting your local Citizen's Advice Bureau?
usr : okay, I will do that right now, I will be happy if I can see such
sys : (Others) I hope that I have been able to be of some help to you
sys : (Others) You need to press quit now ... I can't do it from this end : )
usr : yes
usr : thanks a lot
| (Others) you're welcome, have a lovely day |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Not really succeeding in college". | usr : Hello.
| (Question) Hi, How can I help you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Not really succeeding in college". | usr : Hello.
sys : (Question) Hi, How can I help you?
usr : I'm feeling really anxious about my future. I'm not doing as well in college as I want to.
| (Question) Is there anything else bothering you or it is only the college? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Not really succeeding in college". | usr : Hello.
sys : (Question) Hi, How can I help you?
usr : I'm feeling really anxious about my future. I'm not doing as well in college as I want to.
sys : (Question) Is there anything else bothering you or it is only the college?
usr : Well, I was a great student in high school, but I've found that I'm really struggling with my college classes. I feel rather underprepared and that maybe I don't really belong here.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's good, at least you identified your problem somehow, now is the time to begin solving it |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Not really succeeding in college". | usr : Hello.
sys : (Question) Hi, How can I help you?
usr : I'm feeling really anxious about my future. I'm not doing as well in college as I want to.
sys : (Question) Is there anything else bothering you or it is only the college?
usr : Well, I was a great student in high school, but I've found that I'm really struggling with my college classes. I feel rather underprepared and that maybe I don't really belong here.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's good, at least you identified your problem somehow, now is the time to begin solving it
| (Question) What is stopping you to get prepared for the exams? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Not really succeeding in college". | usr : Hello.
sys : (Question) Hi, How can I help you?
usr : I'm feeling really anxious about my future. I'm not doing as well in college as I want to.
sys : (Question) Is there anything else bothering you or it is only the college?
usr : Well, I was a great student in high school, but I've found that I'm really struggling with my college classes. I feel rather underprepared and that maybe I don't really belong here.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's good, at least you identified your problem somehow, now is the time to begin solving it
sys : (Question) What is stopping you to get prepared for the exams?
usr : It's just so much harder to concentrate since all my classes are online.
usr : Honestly, I feel like my concentration is terrible these days.
| (Self-disclosure) I had the same experience in the past, I was doing fine in high school but soon after I entered the college I saw myself falling |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Not really succeeding in college". | usr : Hello.
sys : (Question) Hi, How can I help you?
usr : I'm feeling really anxious about my future. I'm not doing as well in college as I want to.
sys : (Question) Is there anything else bothering you or it is only the college?
usr : Well, I was a great student in high school, but I've found that I'm really struggling with my college classes. I feel rather underprepared and that maybe I don't really belong here.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's good, at least you identified your problem somehow, now is the time to begin solving it
sys : (Question) What is stopping you to get prepared for the exams?
usr : It's just so much harder to concentrate since all my classes are online.
usr : Honestly, I feel like my concentration is terrible these days.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had the same experience in the past, I was doing fine in high school but soon after I entered the college I saw myself falling
usr : How did you deal with it?
| (Self-disclosure) soon I realized that It's not high school anymore, It needs more effort and specially more time to comprehend the lessons |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Not really succeeding in college". | usr : Hello.
sys : (Question) Hi, How can I help you?
usr : I'm feeling really anxious about my future. I'm not doing as well in college as I want to.
sys : (Question) Is there anything else bothering you or it is only the college?
usr : Well, I was a great student in high school, but I've found that I'm really struggling with my college classes. I feel rather underprepared and that maybe I don't really belong here.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's good, at least you identified your problem somehow, now is the time to begin solving it
sys : (Question) What is stopping you to get prepared for the exams?
usr : It's just so much harder to concentrate since all my classes are online.
usr : Honestly, I feel like my concentration is terrible these days.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had the same experience in the past, I was doing fine in high school but soon after I entered the college I saw myself falling
usr : How did you deal with it?
sys : (Self-disclosure) soon I realized that It's not high school anymore, It needs more effort and specially more time to comprehend the lessons
| (Information) You can't just pass the exams by studying a day before the exam |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Not really succeeding in college". | usr : Hello.
sys : (Question) Hi, How can I help you?
usr : I'm feeling really anxious about my future. I'm not doing as well in college as I want to.
sys : (Question) Is there anything else bothering you or it is only the college?
usr : Well, I was a great student in high school, but I've found that I'm really struggling with my college classes. I feel rather underprepared and that maybe I don't really belong here.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's good, at least you identified your problem somehow, now is the time to begin solving it
sys : (Question) What is stopping you to get prepared for the exams?
usr : It's just so much harder to concentrate since all my classes are online.
usr : Honestly, I feel like my concentration is terrible these days.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had the same experience in the past, I was doing fine in high school but soon after I entered the college I saw myself falling
usr : How did you deal with it?
sys : (Self-disclosure) soon I realized that It's not high school anymore, It needs more effort and specially more time to comprehend the lessons
sys : (Information) You can't just pass the exams by studying a day before the exam
usr : Ugh, I have a huge problem with procrastination!
usr : It used to work in high school, but I guess I really do need to make changes.
| (Reflection of feelings) I know It's hard these days by the pandemic and all online things |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Not really succeeding in college". | usr : Hello.
sys : (Question) Hi, How can I help you?
usr : I'm feeling really anxious about my future. I'm not doing as well in college as I want to.
sys : (Question) Is there anything else bothering you or it is only the college?
usr : Well, I was a great student in high school, but I've found that I'm really struggling with my college classes. I feel rather underprepared and that maybe I don't really belong here.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's good, at least you identified your problem somehow, now is the time to begin solving it
sys : (Question) What is stopping you to get prepared for the exams?
usr : It's just so much harder to concentrate since all my classes are online.
usr : Honestly, I feel like my concentration is terrible these days.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had the same experience in the past, I was doing fine in high school but soon after I entered the college I saw myself falling
usr : How did you deal with it?
sys : (Self-disclosure) soon I realized that It's not high school anymore, It needs more effort and specially more time to comprehend the lessons
sys : (Information) You can't just pass the exams by studying a day before the exam
usr : Ugh, I have a huge problem with procrastination!
usr : It used to work in high school, but I guess I really do need to make changes.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I know It's hard these days by the pandemic and all online things
usr : For some reason, it's a lot harder to ask questions online to my professors.
| (Providing Suggestions) Then you find your answer by yourself, You NEED yo change |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Not really succeeding in college". | usr : Hello.
sys : (Question) Hi, How can I help you?
usr : I'm feeling really anxious about my future. I'm not doing as well in college as I want to.
sys : (Question) Is there anything else bothering you or it is only the college?
usr : Well, I was a great student in high school, but I've found that I'm really struggling with my college classes. I feel rather underprepared and that maybe I don't really belong here.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's good, at least you identified your problem somehow, now is the time to begin solving it
sys : (Question) What is stopping you to get prepared for the exams?
usr : It's just so much harder to concentrate since all my classes are online.
usr : Honestly, I feel like my concentration is terrible these days.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had the same experience in the past, I was doing fine in high school but soon after I entered the college I saw myself falling
usr : How did you deal with it?
sys : (Self-disclosure) soon I realized that It's not high school anymore, It needs more effort and specially more time to comprehend the lessons
sys : (Information) You can't just pass the exams by studying a day before the exam
usr : Ugh, I have a huge problem with procrastination!
usr : It used to work in high school, but I guess I really do need to make changes.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I know It's hard these days by the pandemic and all online things
usr : For some reason, it's a lot harder to ask questions online to my professors.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then you find your answer by yourself, You NEED yo change
usr : I guess, but I just feel like I really need someone else to explain things to me.
usr : I have such a hard time concentrating on my own.
| (Information) And remember, your at college, You should start to seek the answers more by yourself and your college mates and be less dependent on professors |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Not really succeeding in college". | usr : Hello.
sys : (Question) Hi, How can I help you?
usr : I'm feeling really anxious about my future. I'm not doing as well in college as I want to.
sys : (Question) Is there anything else bothering you or it is only the college?
usr : Well, I was a great student in high school, but I've found that I'm really struggling with my college classes. I feel rather underprepared and that maybe I don't really belong here.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's good, at least you identified your problem somehow, now is the time to begin solving it
sys : (Question) What is stopping you to get prepared for the exams?
usr : It's just so much harder to concentrate since all my classes are online.
usr : Honestly, I feel like my concentration is terrible these days.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had the same experience in the past, I was doing fine in high school but soon after I entered the college I saw myself falling
usr : How did you deal with it?
sys : (Self-disclosure) soon I realized that It's not high school anymore, It needs more effort and specially more time to comprehend the lessons
sys : (Information) You can't just pass the exams by studying a day before the exam
usr : Ugh, I have a huge problem with procrastination!
usr : It used to work in high school, but I guess I really do need to make changes.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I know It's hard these days by the pandemic and all online things
usr : For some reason, it's a lot harder to ask questions online to my professors.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then you find your answer by yourself, You NEED yo change
usr : I guess, but I just feel like I really need someone else to explain things to me.
usr : I have such a hard time concentrating on my own.
sys : (Information) And remember, your at college, You should start to seek the answers more by yourself and your college mates and be less dependent on professors
usr : That's true, I guess I'm still thinking like I'm still in high school and I have a lot of bad habits to break.
| (Self-disclosure) Yes, I had all your problems but I tried to take the control little by little, the problem is still there but now I can manage it better |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Not really succeeding in college". | usr : Hello.
sys : (Question) Hi, How can I help you?
usr : I'm feeling really anxious about my future. I'm not doing as well in college as I want to.
sys : (Question) Is there anything else bothering you or it is only the college?
usr : Well, I was a great student in high school, but I've found that I'm really struggling with my college classes. I feel rather underprepared and that maybe I don't really belong here.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's good, at least you identified your problem somehow, now is the time to begin solving it
sys : (Question) What is stopping you to get prepared for the exams?
usr : It's just so much harder to concentrate since all my classes are online.
usr : Honestly, I feel like my concentration is terrible these days.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had the same experience in the past, I was doing fine in high school but soon after I entered the college I saw myself falling
usr : How did you deal with it?
sys : (Self-disclosure) soon I realized that It's not high school anymore, It needs more effort and specially more time to comprehend the lessons
sys : (Information) You can't just pass the exams by studying a day before the exam
usr : Ugh, I have a huge problem with procrastination!
usr : It used to work in high school, but I guess I really do need to make changes.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I know It's hard these days by the pandemic and all online things
usr : For some reason, it's a lot harder to ask questions online to my professors.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then you find your answer by yourself, You NEED yo change
usr : I guess, but I just feel like I really need someone else to explain things to me.
usr : I have such a hard time concentrating on my own.
sys : (Information) And remember, your at college, You should start to seek the answers more by yourself and your college mates and be less dependent on professors
usr : That's true, I guess I'm still thinking like I'm still in high school and I have a lot of bad habits to break.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes, I had all your problems but I tried to take the control little by little, the problem is still there but now I can manage it better
usr : What was your strategy?
| (Providing Suggestions) I tried different things and I failed many times, You should try too, start to know yourself and how your body and mind works |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I've lost my job due to layoffs and have a mountain of debt to pay off. Not sure where I will get the funds. I'm worried I will lose my car and even my house.". | usr : hello?
| (Others) Hey! How are you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I've lost my job due to layoffs and have a mountain of debt to pay off. Not sure where I will get the funds. I'm worried I will lose my car and even my house.". | usr : hello?
sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Not so good. Yourself?
| (Question) I'm good but why are you not good? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I've lost my job due to layoffs and have a mountain of debt to pay off. Not sure where I will get the funds. I'm worried I will lose my car and even my house.". | usr : hello?
sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Not so good. Yourself?
sys : (Question) I'm good but why are you not good?
usr : I've just received my pink slip at work. I knew it might happen, but was hoping they would choose to keep me on.
usr : I'm really freaking out here. I have got to find a job before Monday.
| (Question) Did they have a reason for giving you the pink slip? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I've lost my job due to layoffs and have a mountain of debt to pay off. Not sure where I will get the funds. I'm worried I will lose my car and even my house.". | usr : hello?
sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Not so good. Yourself?
sys : (Question) I'm good but why are you not good?
usr : I've just received my pink slip at work. I knew it might happen, but was hoping they would choose to keep me on.
usr : I'm really freaking out here. I have got to find a job before Monday.
sys : (Question) Did they have a reason for giving you the pink slip?
usr : They are getting rid of all kinds of people and I think the newest hires are going first.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will find a job if you are determined enough :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I've lost my job due to layoffs and have a mountain of debt to pay off. Not sure where I will get the funds. I'm worried I will lose my car and even my house.". | usr : hello?
sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Not so good. Yourself?
sys : (Question) I'm good but why are you not good?
usr : I've just received my pink slip at work. I knew it might happen, but was hoping they would choose to keep me on.
usr : I'm really freaking out here. I have got to find a job before Monday.
sys : (Question) Did they have a reason for giving you the pink slip?
usr : They are getting rid of all kinds of people and I think the newest hires are going first.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will find a job if you are determined enough :)
usr : People were let go every Friday for the last month. I was hoping I had another week to try and save up.
| (Question) Do you have enough money to keep going? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I've lost my job due to layoffs and have a mountain of debt to pay off. Not sure where I will get the funds. I'm worried I will lose my car and even my house.". | usr : hello?
sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Not so good. Yourself?
sys : (Question) I'm good but why are you not good?
usr : I've just received my pink slip at work. I knew it might happen, but was hoping they would choose to keep me on.
usr : I'm really freaking out here. I have got to find a job before Monday.
sys : (Question) Did they have a reason for giving you the pink slip?
usr : They are getting rid of all kinds of people and I think the newest hires are going first.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will find a job if you are determined enough :)
usr : People were let go every Friday for the last month. I was hoping I had another week to try and save up.
sys : (Question) Do you have enough money to keep going?
usr : I am looking around the house trying to find things I can sell just to get me through the next week as far as groceries and I think my phone bill is due too.
usr : I really don't. This came at the worst time.
usr : I don't know what to do.
| (Reflection of feelings) I think that selling your old possessions is a great idea |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I've lost my job due to layoffs and have a mountain of debt to pay off. Not sure where I will get the funds. I'm worried I will lose my car and even my house.". | usr : hello?
sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Not so good. Yourself?
sys : (Question) I'm good but why are you not good?
usr : I've just received my pink slip at work. I knew it might happen, but was hoping they would choose to keep me on.
usr : I'm really freaking out here. I have got to find a job before Monday.
sys : (Question) Did they have a reason for giving you the pink slip?
usr : They are getting rid of all kinds of people and I think the newest hires are going first.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will find a job if you are determined enough :)
usr : People were let go every Friday for the last month. I was hoping I had another week to try and save up.
sys : (Question) Do you have enough money to keep going?
usr : I am looking around the house trying to find things I can sell just to get me through the next week as far as groceries and I think my phone bill is due too.
usr : I really don't. This came at the worst time.
usr : I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think that selling your old possessions is a great idea
| (Reflection of feelings) I can tell you are stressed just by speaking to you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I've lost my job due to layoffs and have a mountain of debt to pay off. Not sure where I will get the funds. I'm worried I will lose my car and even my house.". | usr : hello?
sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Not so good. Yourself?
sys : (Question) I'm good but why are you not good?
usr : I've just received my pink slip at work. I knew it might happen, but was hoping they would choose to keep me on.
usr : I'm really freaking out here. I have got to find a job before Monday.
sys : (Question) Did they have a reason for giving you the pink slip?
usr : They are getting rid of all kinds of people and I think the newest hires are going first.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will find a job if you are determined enough :)
usr : People were let go every Friday for the last month. I was hoping I had another week to try and save up.
sys : (Question) Do you have enough money to keep going?
usr : I am looking around the house trying to find things I can sell just to get me through the next week as far as groceries and I think my phone bill is due too.
usr : I really don't. This came at the worst time.
usr : I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think that selling your old possessions is a great idea
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can tell you are stressed just by speaking to you
usr : I wouldn't say they're old. One was a Christmas gift from a few months ago, but I've got to do something.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, pulling through this is the most important, because there may be a better future waiting ahead of you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I've lost my job due to layoffs and have a mountain of debt to pay off. Not sure where I will get the funds. I'm worried I will lose my car and even my house.". | usr : hello?
sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Not so good. Yourself?
sys : (Question) I'm good but why are you not good?
usr : I've just received my pink slip at work. I knew it might happen, but was hoping they would choose to keep me on.
usr : I'm really freaking out here. I have got to find a job before Monday.
sys : (Question) Did they have a reason for giving you the pink slip?
usr : They are getting rid of all kinds of people and I think the newest hires are going first.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will find a job if you are determined enough :)
usr : People were let go every Friday for the last month. I was hoping I had another week to try and save up.
sys : (Question) Do you have enough money to keep going?
usr : I am looking around the house trying to find things I can sell just to get me through the next week as far as groceries and I think my phone bill is due too.
usr : I really don't. This came at the worst time.
usr : I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think that selling your old possessions is a great idea
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can tell you are stressed just by speaking to you
usr : I wouldn't say they're old. One was a Christmas gift from a few months ago, but I've got to do something.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, pulling through this is the most important, because there may be a better future waiting ahead of you
usr : So much is closed here due to the pandemic I'm not sure who is hiring. This is just too much.
usr : I sure hope so. Right now I just can't see a way out.
| (Self-disclosure) It will work out somehow, I was made redundant a few months ago actually |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I've lost my job due to layoffs and have a mountain of debt to pay off. Not sure where I will get the funds. I'm worried I will lose my car and even my house.". | usr : hello?
sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Not so good. Yourself?
sys : (Question) I'm good but why are you not good?
usr : I've just received my pink slip at work. I knew it might happen, but was hoping they would choose to keep me on.
usr : I'm really freaking out here. I have got to find a job before Monday.
sys : (Question) Did they have a reason for giving you the pink slip?
usr : They are getting rid of all kinds of people and I think the newest hires are going first.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will find a job if you are determined enough :)
usr : People were let go every Friday for the last month. I was hoping I had another week to try and save up.
sys : (Question) Do you have enough money to keep going?
usr : I am looking around the house trying to find things I can sell just to get me through the next week as far as groceries and I think my phone bill is due too.
usr : I really don't. This came at the worst time.
usr : I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think that selling your old possessions is a great idea
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can tell you are stressed just by speaking to you
usr : I wouldn't say they're old. One was a Christmas gift from a few months ago, but I've got to do something.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, pulling through this is the most important, because there may be a better future waiting ahead of you
usr : So much is closed here due to the pandemic I'm not sure who is hiring. This is just too much.
usr : I sure hope so. Right now I just can't see a way out.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It will work out somehow, I was made redundant a few months ago actually
usr : I'm so sorry. I wouldn't wish this on anyone. Where did you look for work? Do you have any tips?
| (Providing Suggestions) Yes, I have stable work right now, but now I have learned to be prepared for the worst, but right now, you should do everything in your power to pull things together |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I've lost my job due to layoffs and have a mountain of debt to pay off. Not sure where I will get the funds. I'm worried I will lose my car and even my house.". | usr : hello?
sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Not so good. Yourself?
sys : (Question) I'm good but why are you not good?
usr : I've just received my pink slip at work. I knew it might happen, but was hoping they would choose to keep me on.
usr : I'm really freaking out here. I have got to find a job before Monday.
sys : (Question) Did they have a reason for giving you the pink slip?
usr : They are getting rid of all kinds of people and I think the newest hires are going first.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will find a job if you are determined enough :)
usr : People were let go every Friday for the last month. I was hoping I had another week to try and save up.
sys : (Question) Do you have enough money to keep going?
usr : I am looking around the house trying to find things I can sell just to get me through the next week as far as groceries and I think my phone bill is due too.
usr : I really don't. This came at the worst time.
usr : I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think that selling your old possessions is a great idea
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can tell you are stressed just by speaking to you
usr : I wouldn't say they're old. One was a Christmas gift from a few months ago, but I've got to do something.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, pulling through this is the most important, because there may be a better future waiting ahead of you
usr : So much is closed here due to the pandemic I'm not sure who is hiring. This is just too much.
usr : I sure hope so. Right now I just can't see a way out.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It will work out somehow, I was made redundant a few months ago actually
usr : I'm so sorry. I wouldn't wish this on anyone. Where did you look for work? Do you have any tips?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes, I have stable work right now, but now I have learned to be prepared for the worst, but right now, you should do everything in your power to pull things together
| (Providing Suggestions) Maybe do freelance in your free time? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I've lost my job due to layoffs and have a mountain of debt to pay off. Not sure where I will get the funds. I'm worried I will lose my car and even my house.". | usr : hello?
sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Not so good. Yourself?
sys : (Question) I'm good but why are you not good?
usr : I've just received my pink slip at work. I knew it might happen, but was hoping they would choose to keep me on.
usr : I'm really freaking out here. I have got to find a job before Monday.
sys : (Question) Did they have a reason for giving you the pink slip?
usr : They are getting rid of all kinds of people and I think the newest hires are going first.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will find a job if you are determined enough :)
usr : People were let go every Friday for the last month. I was hoping I had another week to try and save up.
sys : (Question) Do you have enough money to keep going?
usr : I am looking around the house trying to find things I can sell just to get me through the next week as far as groceries and I think my phone bill is due too.
usr : I really don't. This came at the worst time.
usr : I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think that selling your old possessions is a great idea
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can tell you are stressed just by speaking to you
usr : I wouldn't say they're old. One was a Christmas gift from a few months ago, but I've got to do something.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, pulling through this is the most important, because there may be a better future waiting ahead of you
usr : So much is closed here due to the pandemic I'm not sure who is hiring. This is just too much.
usr : I sure hope so. Right now I just can't see a way out.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It will work out somehow, I was made redundant a few months ago actually
usr : I'm so sorry. I wouldn't wish this on anyone. Where did you look for work? Do you have any tips?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes, I have stable work right now, but now I have learned to be prepared for the worst, but right now, you should do everything in your power to pull things together
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe do freelance in your free time?
| (Providing Suggestions) Special talents to showcase |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I've lost my job due to layoffs and have a mountain of debt to pay off. Not sure where I will get the funds. I'm worried I will lose my car and even my house.". | usr : hello?
sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Not so good. Yourself?
sys : (Question) I'm good but why are you not good?
usr : I've just received my pink slip at work. I knew it might happen, but was hoping they would choose to keep me on.
usr : I'm really freaking out here. I have got to find a job before Monday.
sys : (Question) Did they have a reason for giving you the pink slip?
usr : They are getting rid of all kinds of people and I think the newest hires are going first.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will find a job if you are determined enough :)
usr : People were let go every Friday for the last month. I was hoping I had another week to try and save up.
sys : (Question) Do you have enough money to keep going?
usr : I am looking around the house trying to find things I can sell just to get me through the next week as far as groceries and I think my phone bill is due too.
usr : I really don't. This came at the worst time.
usr : I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think that selling your old possessions is a great idea
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can tell you are stressed just by speaking to you
usr : I wouldn't say they're old. One was a Christmas gift from a few months ago, but I've got to do something.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, pulling through this is the most important, because there may be a better future waiting ahead of you
usr : So much is closed here due to the pandemic I'm not sure who is hiring. This is just too much.
usr : I sure hope so. Right now I just can't see a way out.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It will work out somehow, I was made redundant a few months ago actually
usr : I'm so sorry. I wouldn't wish this on anyone. Where did you look for work? Do you have any tips?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes, I have stable work right now, but now I have learned to be prepared for the worst, but right now, you should do everything in your power to pull things together
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe do freelance in your free time?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Special talents to showcase
usr : I was thinking maybe I could do gig work like ride share or grocery pickup. That might help until I get full time somewhere.
| (Others) Yeah, that's a good idea, and it would help you pull by |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I've lost my job due to layoffs and have a mountain of debt to pay off. Not sure where I will get the funds. I'm worried I will lose my car and even my house.". | usr : hello?
sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Not so good. Yourself?
sys : (Question) I'm good but why are you not good?
usr : I've just received my pink slip at work. I knew it might happen, but was hoping they would choose to keep me on.
usr : I'm really freaking out here. I have got to find a job before Monday.
sys : (Question) Did they have a reason for giving you the pink slip?
usr : They are getting rid of all kinds of people and I think the newest hires are going first.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will find a job if you are determined enough :)
usr : People were let go every Friday for the last month. I was hoping I had another week to try and save up.
sys : (Question) Do you have enough money to keep going?
usr : I am looking around the house trying to find things I can sell just to get me through the next week as far as groceries and I think my phone bill is due too.
usr : I really don't. This came at the worst time.
usr : I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think that selling your old possessions is a great idea
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can tell you are stressed just by speaking to you
usr : I wouldn't say they're old. One was a Christmas gift from a few months ago, but I've got to do something.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, pulling through this is the most important, because there may be a better future waiting ahead of you
usr : So much is closed here due to the pandemic I'm not sure who is hiring. This is just too much.
usr : I sure hope so. Right now I just can't see a way out.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It will work out somehow, I was made redundant a few months ago actually
usr : I'm so sorry. I wouldn't wish this on anyone. Where did you look for work? Do you have any tips?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes, I have stable work right now, but now I have learned to be prepared for the worst, but right now, you should do everything in your power to pull things together
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe do freelance in your free time?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Special talents to showcase
usr : I was thinking maybe I could do gig work like ride share or grocery pickup. That might help until I get full time somewhere.
sys : (Others) Yeah, that's a good idea, and it would help you pull by
| (Providing Suggestions) I advice you to follow your gut |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I've lost my job due to layoffs and have a mountain of debt to pay off. Not sure where I will get the funds. I'm worried I will lose my car and even my house.". | usr : hello?
sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Not so good. Yourself?
sys : (Question) I'm good but why are you not good?
usr : I've just received my pink slip at work. I knew it might happen, but was hoping they would choose to keep me on.
usr : I'm really freaking out here. I have got to find a job before Monday.
sys : (Question) Did they have a reason for giving you the pink slip?
usr : They are getting rid of all kinds of people and I think the newest hires are going first.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will find a job if you are determined enough :)
usr : People were let go every Friday for the last month. I was hoping I had another week to try and save up.
sys : (Question) Do you have enough money to keep going?
usr : I am looking around the house trying to find things I can sell just to get me through the next week as far as groceries and I think my phone bill is due too.
usr : I really don't. This came at the worst time.
usr : I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think that selling your old possessions is a great idea
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can tell you are stressed just by speaking to you
usr : I wouldn't say they're old. One was a Christmas gift from a few months ago, but I've got to do something.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, pulling through this is the most important, because there may be a better future waiting ahead of you
usr : So much is closed here due to the pandemic I'm not sure who is hiring. This is just too much.
usr : I sure hope so. Right now I just can't see a way out.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It will work out somehow, I was made redundant a few months ago actually
usr : I'm so sorry. I wouldn't wish this on anyone. Where did you look for work? Do you have any tips?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes, I have stable work right now, but now I have learned to be prepared for the worst, but right now, you should do everything in your power to pull things together
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe do freelance in your free time?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Special talents to showcase
usr : I was thinking maybe I could do gig work like ride share or grocery pickup. That might help until I get full time somewhere.
sys : (Others) Yeah, that's a good idea, and it would help you pull by
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I advice you to follow your gut
usr : I should probably contact the phone company. Maybe I can do a payment plan? I need to definitely try and consolidate things.
usr : I was really starting to get back on my feet and now the rug has been pulled out again. I don't know how I'm going to trust another job prospect.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yeah, because right now your phone isnt your top priority, and you can trust another job, just always be prepared for the worst. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I've lost my job due to layoffs and have a mountain of debt to pay off. Not sure where I will get the funds. I'm worried I will lose my car and even my house.". | usr : hello?
sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Not so good. Yourself?
sys : (Question) I'm good but why are you not good?
usr : I've just received my pink slip at work. I knew it might happen, but was hoping they would choose to keep me on.
usr : I'm really freaking out here. I have got to find a job before Monday.
sys : (Question) Did they have a reason for giving you the pink slip?
usr : They are getting rid of all kinds of people and I think the newest hires are going first.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will find a job if you are determined enough :)
usr : People were let go every Friday for the last month. I was hoping I had another week to try and save up.
sys : (Question) Do you have enough money to keep going?
usr : I am looking around the house trying to find things I can sell just to get me through the next week as far as groceries and I think my phone bill is due too.
usr : I really don't. This came at the worst time.
usr : I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think that selling your old possessions is a great idea
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can tell you are stressed just by speaking to you
usr : I wouldn't say they're old. One was a Christmas gift from a few months ago, but I've got to do something.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, pulling through this is the most important, because there may be a better future waiting ahead of you
usr : So much is closed here due to the pandemic I'm not sure who is hiring. This is just too much.
usr : I sure hope so. Right now I just can't see a way out.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It will work out somehow, I was made redundant a few months ago actually
usr : I'm so sorry. I wouldn't wish this on anyone. Where did you look for work? Do you have any tips?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes, I have stable work right now, but now I have learned to be prepared for the worst, but right now, you should do everything in your power to pull things together
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe do freelance in your free time?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Special talents to showcase
usr : I was thinking maybe I could do gig work like ride share or grocery pickup. That might help until I get full time somewhere.
sys : (Others) Yeah, that's a good idea, and it would help you pull by
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I advice you to follow your gut
usr : I should probably contact the phone company. Maybe I can do a payment plan? I need to definitely try and consolidate things.
usr : I was really starting to get back on my feet and now the rug has been pulled out again. I don't know how I'm going to trust another job prospect.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yeah, because right now your phone isnt your top priority, and you can trust another job, just always be prepared for the worst.
usr : I wish they had taught us this in school. I feel so ill prepared.
usr : I cried the entire way home. I thought about calling my parents and letting them know, but they have their own problems right now.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You should always keep your head held high because it is only in this state that you can make your best decisions for your future |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I've lost my job due to layoffs and have a mountain of debt to pay off. Not sure where I will get the funds. I'm worried I will lose my car and even my house.". | usr : hello?
sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Not so good. Yourself?
sys : (Question) I'm good but why are you not good?
usr : I've just received my pink slip at work. I knew it might happen, but was hoping they would choose to keep me on.
usr : I'm really freaking out here. I have got to find a job before Monday.
sys : (Question) Did they have a reason for giving you the pink slip?
usr : They are getting rid of all kinds of people and I think the newest hires are going first.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will find a job if you are determined enough :)
usr : People were let go every Friday for the last month. I was hoping I had another week to try and save up.
sys : (Question) Do you have enough money to keep going?
usr : I am looking around the house trying to find things I can sell just to get me through the next week as far as groceries and I think my phone bill is due too.
usr : I really don't. This came at the worst time.
usr : I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think that selling your old possessions is a great idea
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can tell you are stressed just by speaking to you
usr : I wouldn't say they're old. One was a Christmas gift from a few months ago, but I've got to do something.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, pulling through this is the most important, because there may be a better future waiting ahead of you
usr : So much is closed here due to the pandemic I'm not sure who is hiring. This is just too much.
usr : I sure hope so. Right now I just can't see a way out.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It will work out somehow, I was made redundant a few months ago actually
usr : I'm so sorry. I wouldn't wish this on anyone. Where did you look for work? Do you have any tips?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes, I have stable work right now, but now I have learned to be prepared for the worst, but right now, you should do everything in your power to pull things together
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe do freelance in your free time?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Special talents to showcase
usr : I was thinking maybe I could do gig work like ride share or grocery pickup. That might help until I get full time somewhere.
sys : (Others) Yeah, that's a good idea, and it would help you pull by
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I advice you to follow your gut
usr : I should probably contact the phone company. Maybe I can do a payment plan? I need to definitely try and consolidate things.
usr : I was really starting to get back on my feet and now the rug has been pulled out again. I don't know how I'm going to trust another job prospect.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yeah, because right now your phone isnt your top priority, and you can trust another job, just always be prepared for the worst.
usr : I wish they had taught us this in school. I feel so ill prepared.
usr : I cried the entire way home. I thought about calling my parents and letting them know, but they have their own problems right now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You should always keep your head held high because it is only in this state that you can make your best decisions for your future
usr : I'm trying. I feel really ashamed. It helps to tell someone.
| (Others) Its nothing to be ashamed about, and there is always someone to talk to with these things |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I've lost my job due to layoffs and have a mountain of debt to pay off. Not sure where I will get the funds. I'm worried I will lose my car and even my house.". | usr : hello?
sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Not so good. Yourself?
sys : (Question) I'm good but why are you not good?
usr : I've just received my pink slip at work. I knew it might happen, but was hoping they would choose to keep me on.
usr : I'm really freaking out here. I have got to find a job before Monday.
sys : (Question) Did they have a reason for giving you the pink slip?
usr : They are getting rid of all kinds of people and I think the newest hires are going first.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will find a job if you are determined enough :)
usr : People were let go every Friday for the last month. I was hoping I had another week to try and save up.
sys : (Question) Do you have enough money to keep going?
usr : I am looking around the house trying to find things I can sell just to get me through the next week as far as groceries and I think my phone bill is due too.
usr : I really don't. This came at the worst time.
usr : I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think that selling your old possessions is a great idea
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can tell you are stressed just by speaking to you
usr : I wouldn't say they're old. One was a Christmas gift from a few months ago, but I've got to do something.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, pulling through this is the most important, because there may be a better future waiting ahead of you
usr : So much is closed here due to the pandemic I'm not sure who is hiring. This is just too much.
usr : I sure hope so. Right now I just can't see a way out.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It will work out somehow, I was made redundant a few months ago actually
usr : I'm so sorry. I wouldn't wish this on anyone. Where did you look for work? Do you have any tips?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes, I have stable work right now, but now I have learned to be prepared for the worst, but right now, you should do everything in your power to pull things together
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe do freelance in your free time?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Special talents to showcase
usr : I was thinking maybe I could do gig work like ride share or grocery pickup. That might help until I get full time somewhere.
sys : (Others) Yeah, that's a good idea, and it would help you pull by
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I advice you to follow your gut
usr : I should probably contact the phone company. Maybe I can do a payment plan? I need to definitely try and consolidate things.
usr : I was really starting to get back on my feet and now the rug has been pulled out again. I don't know how I'm going to trust another job prospect.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yeah, because right now your phone isnt your top priority, and you can trust another job, just always be prepared for the worst.
usr : I wish they had taught us this in school. I feel so ill prepared.
usr : I cried the entire way home. I thought about calling my parents and letting them know, but they have their own problems right now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You should always keep your head held high because it is only in this state that you can make your best decisions for your future
usr : I'm trying. I feel really ashamed. It helps to tell someone.
sys : (Others) Its nothing to be ashamed about, and there is always someone to talk to with these things
usr : Thank you for letting me vent. I'm going to call about my phone and search some job boards.
| (Others) Yes thats the spirit, and you are very welcome :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I've lost my job due to layoffs and have a mountain of debt to pay off. Not sure where I will get the funds. I'm worried I will lose my car and even my house.". | usr : hello?
sys : (Others) Hey! How are you?
usr : Not so good. Yourself?
sys : (Question) I'm good but why are you not good?
usr : I've just received my pink slip at work. I knew it might happen, but was hoping they would choose to keep me on.
usr : I'm really freaking out here. I have got to find a job before Monday.
sys : (Question) Did they have a reason for giving you the pink slip?
usr : They are getting rid of all kinds of people and I think the newest hires are going first.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will find a job if you are determined enough :)
usr : People were let go every Friday for the last month. I was hoping I had another week to try and save up.
sys : (Question) Do you have enough money to keep going?
usr : I am looking around the house trying to find things I can sell just to get me through the next week as far as groceries and I think my phone bill is due too.
usr : I really don't. This came at the worst time.
usr : I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think that selling your old possessions is a great idea
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can tell you are stressed just by speaking to you
usr : I wouldn't say they're old. One was a Christmas gift from a few months ago, but I've got to do something.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, pulling through this is the most important, because there may be a better future waiting ahead of you
usr : So much is closed here due to the pandemic I'm not sure who is hiring. This is just too much.
usr : I sure hope so. Right now I just can't see a way out.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It will work out somehow, I was made redundant a few months ago actually
usr : I'm so sorry. I wouldn't wish this on anyone. Where did you look for work? Do you have any tips?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes, I have stable work right now, but now I have learned to be prepared for the worst, but right now, you should do everything in your power to pull things together
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe do freelance in your free time?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Special talents to showcase
usr : I was thinking maybe I could do gig work like ride share or grocery pickup. That might help until I get full time somewhere.
sys : (Others) Yeah, that's a good idea, and it would help you pull by
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I advice you to follow your gut
usr : I should probably contact the phone company. Maybe I can do a payment plan? I need to definitely try and consolidate things.
usr : I was really starting to get back on my feet and now the rug has been pulled out again. I don't know how I'm going to trust another job prospect.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yeah, because right now your phone isnt your top priority, and you can trust another job, just always be prepared for the worst.
usr : I wish they had taught us this in school. I feel so ill prepared.
usr : I cried the entire way home. I thought about calling my parents and letting them know, but they have their own problems right now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You should always keep your head held high because it is only in this state that you can make your best decisions for your future
usr : I'm trying. I feel really ashamed. It helps to tell someone.
sys : (Others) Its nothing to be ashamed about, and there is always someone to talk to with these things
usr : Thank you for letting me vent. I'm going to call about my phone and search some job boards.
sys : (Others) Yes thats the spirit, and you are very welcome :)
usr : Take care, and thanks again. Bye bye.
| (Others) Take care as well, bye |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have always been an honors student but with virtual school, I'm falling so far behind and I'm not sure when school will ever go back to normal.". | (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have always been an honors student but with virtual school, I'm falling so far behind and I'm not sure when school will ever go back to normal.". | sys : (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?
| (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have always been an honors student but with virtual school, I'm falling so far behind and I'm not sure when school will ever go back to normal.". | sys : (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?
sys : (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?
| (Others) *you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have always been an honors student but with virtual school, I'm falling so far behind and I'm not sure when school will ever go back to normal.". | sys : (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?
sys : (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?
sys : (Others) *you
usr : I'm very stressed. Virtual school is so hard.
usr : I've never gotten bad grades before this year.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are having trouble with Virtual school being so hard and it's causing you stress, am I understanding correctly? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have always been an honors student but with virtual school, I'm falling so far behind and I'm not sure when school will ever go back to normal.". | sys : (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?
sys : (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?
sys : (Others) *you
usr : I'm very stressed. Virtual school is so hard.
usr : I've never gotten bad grades before this year.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are having trouble with Virtual school being so hard and it's causing you stress, am I understanding correctly?
usr : Yes, that is correct. I need to be in a classroom to really grasp the material, I think.
| (Self-disclosure) I remember being in your position |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have always been an honors student but with virtual school, I'm falling so far behind and I'm not sure when school will ever go back to normal.". | sys : (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?
sys : (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?
sys : (Others) *you
usr : I'm very stressed. Virtual school is so hard.
usr : I've never gotten bad grades before this year.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are having trouble with Virtual school being so hard and it's causing you stress, am I understanding correctly?
usr : Yes, that is correct. I need to be in a classroom to really grasp the material, I think.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember being in your position
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it's very hard and I am so sorry that you are stressed. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have always been an honors student but with virtual school, I'm falling so far behind and I'm not sure when school will ever go back to normal.". | sys : (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?
sys : (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?
sys : (Others) *you
usr : I'm very stressed. Virtual school is so hard.
usr : I've never gotten bad grades before this year.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are having trouble with Virtual school being so hard and it's causing you stress, am I understanding correctly?
usr : Yes, that is correct. I need to be in a classroom to really grasp the material, I think.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember being in your position
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it's very hard and I am so sorry that you are stressed.
usr : I just want to quit school because I can't seem to do better.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know you said you want to quit, but hang in there! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have always been an honors student but with virtual school, I'm falling so far behind and I'm not sure when school will ever go back to normal.". | sys : (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?
sys : (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?
sys : (Others) *you
usr : I'm very stressed. Virtual school is so hard.
usr : I've never gotten bad grades before this year.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are having trouble with Virtual school being so hard and it's causing you stress, am I understanding correctly?
usr : Yes, that is correct. I need to be in a classroom to really grasp the material, I think.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember being in your position
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it's very hard and I am so sorry that you are stressed.
usr : I just want to quit school because I can't seem to do better.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know you said you want to quit, but hang in there!
usr : I wish I knew how long we would have to be virtual. I don't think I can last another semester teaching myself from home.
| (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you have always done well with school, this virus has made it to where so many people are struggling. Just chatting with you, I can feel how stressed and anxious about it you are! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have always been an honors student but with virtual school, I'm falling so far behind and I'm not sure when school will ever go back to normal.". | sys : (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?
sys : (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?
sys : (Others) *you
usr : I'm very stressed. Virtual school is so hard.
usr : I've never gotten bad grades before this year.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are having trouble with Virtual school being so hard and it's causing you stress, am I understanding correctly?
usr : Yes, that is correct. I need to be in a classroom to really grasp the material, I think.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember being in your position
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it's very hard and I am so sorry that you are stressed.
usr : I just want to quit school because I can't seem to do better.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know you said you want to quit, but hang in there!
usr : I wish I knew how long we would have to be virtual. I don't think I can last another semester teaching myself from home.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you have always done well with school, this virus has made it to where so many people are struggling. Just chatting with you, I can feel how stressed and anxious about it you are!
usr : Yes, I was always an honors student so this is a huge change for me. I'm afraid it will reflect on my GPA forever.
| (Information) I know that the situation with virtual learning is out of your control when it comes to how long it will last but is there anything you could do to relieve your stress while you are trying to learn things yourself? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have always been an honors student but with virtual school, I'm falling so far behind and I'm not sure when school will ever go back to normal.". | sys : (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?
sys : (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?
sys : (Others) *you
usr : I'm very stressed. Virtual school is so hard.
usr : I've never gotten bad grades before this year.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are having trouble with Virtual school being so hard and it's causing you stress, am I understanding correctly?
usr : Yes, that is correct. I need to be in a classroom to really grasp the material, I think.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember being in your position
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it's very hard and I am so sorry that you are stressed.
usr : I just want to quit school because I can't seem to do better.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know you said you want to quit, but hang in there!
usr : I wish I knew how long we would have to be virtual. I don't think I can last another semester teaching myself from home.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you have always done well with school, this virus has made it to where so many people are struggling. Just chatting with you, I can feel how stressed and anxious about it you are!
usr : Yes, I was always an honors student so this is a huge change for me. I'm afraid it will reflect on my GPA forever.
sys : (Information) I know that the situation with virtual learning is out of your control when it comes to how long it will last but is there anything you could do to relieve your stress while you are trying to learn things yourself?
usr : I tried exercise to see if that would help. It hasn't really helped because the time I spend exercising I just think I could be studying.
| (Providing Suggestions) When you start feeling stressed maybe you could try deep breathing for a few minutes to relax again. Or take a quick break and get some fresh air? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have always been an honors student but with virtual school, I'm falling so far behind and I'm not sure when school will ever go back to normal.". | sys : (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?
sys : (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?
sys : (Others) *you
usr : I'm very stressed. Virtual school is so hard.
usr : I've never gotten bad grades before this year.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are having trouble with Virtual school being so hard and it's causing you stress, am I understanding correctly?
usr : Yes, that is correct. I need to be in a classroom to really grasp the material, I think.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember being in your position
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it's very hard and I am so sorry that you are stressed.
usr : I just want to quit school because I can't seem to do better.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know you said you want to quit, but hang in there!
usr : I wish I knew how long we would have to be virtual. I don't think I can last another semester teaching myself from home.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you have always done well with school, this virus has made it to where so many people are struggling. Just chatting with you, I can feel how stressed and anxious about it you are!
usr : Yes, I was always an honors student so this is a huge change for me. I'm afraid it will reflect on my GPA forever.
sys : (Information) I know that the situation with virtual learning is out of your control when it comes to how long it will last but is there anything you could do to relieve your stress while you are trying to learn things yourself?
usr : I tried exercise to see if that would help. It hasn't really helped because the time I spend exercising I just think I could be studying.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) When you start feeling stressed maybe you could try deep breathing for a few minutes to relax again. Or take a quick break and get some fresh air?
| (Others) Is there anything else that you do in any other situation that would normally help you relax? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have always been an honors student but with virtual school, I'm falling so far behind and I'm not sure when school will ever go back to normal.". | sys : (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?
sys : (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?
sys : (Others) *you
usr : I'm very stressed. Virtual school is so hard.
usr : I've never gotten bad grades before this year.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are having trouble with Virtual school being so hard and it's causing you stress, am I understanding correctly?
usr : Yes, that is correct. I need to be in a classroom to really grasp the material, I think.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember being in your position
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it's very hard and I am so sorry that you are stressed.
usr : I just want to quit school because I can't seem to do better.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know you said you want to quit, but hang in there!
usr : I wish I knew how long we would have to be virtual. I don't think I can last another semester teaching myself from home.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you have always done well with school, this virus has made it to where so many people are struggling. Just chatting with you, I can feel how stressed and anxious about it you are!
usr : Yes, I was always an honors student so this is a huge change for me. I'm afraid it will reflect on my GPA forever.
sys : (Information) I know that the situation with virtual learning is out of your control when it comes to how long it will last but is there anything you could do to relieve your stress while you are trying to learn things yourself?
usr : I tried exercise to see if that would help. It hasn't really helped because the time I spend exercising I just think I could be studying.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) When you start feeling stressed maybe you could try deep breathing for a few minutes to relax again. Or take a quick break and get some fresh air?
sys : (Others) Is there anything else that you do in any other situation that would normally help you relax?
usr : I could try deep breathing. Fresh air is hard because we're in the middle of a snow storm!
usr : I like to go to a spa when I'm really stressed.
| (Providing Suggestions) Oh wow that would make things complicated! But yes the deep breathing would definitely help, I'm sure! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have always been an honors student but with virtual school, I'm falling so far behind and I'm not sure when school will ever go back to normal.". | sys : (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?
sys : (Question) Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?
sys : (Others) *you
usr : I'm very stressed. Virtual school is so hard.
usr : I've never gotten bad grades before this year.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are having trouble with Virtual school being so hard and it's causing you stress, am I understanding correctly?
usr : Yes, that is correct. I need to be in a classroom to really grasp the material, I think.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember being in your position
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it's very hard and I am so sorry that you are stressed.
usr : I just want to quit school because I can't seem to do better.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know you said you want to quit, but hang in there!
usr : I wish I knew how long we would have to be virtual. I don't think I can last another semester teaching myself from home.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you have always done well with school, this virus has made it to where so many people are struggling. Just chatting with you, I can feel how stressed and anxious about it you are!
usr : Yes, I was always an honors student so this is a huge change for me. I'm afraid it will reflect on my GPA forever.
sys : (Information) I know that the situation with virtual learning is out of your control when it comes to how long it will last but is there anything you could do to relieve your stress while you are trying to learn things yourself?
usr : I tried exercise to see if that would help. It hasn't really helped because the time I spend exercising I just think I could be studying.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) When you start feeling stressed maybe you could try deep breathing for a few minutes to relax again. Or take a quick break and get some fresh air?
sys : (Others) Is there anything else that you do in any other situation that would normally help you relax?
usr : I could try deep breathing. Fresh air is hard because we're in the middle of a snow storm!
usr : I like to go to a spa when I'm really stressed.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Oh wow that would make things complicated! But yes the deep breathing would definitely help, I'm sure!
usr : I will try the deep breathing more often.
| (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could reward yourself with a spa trip ever so often, since you enjoy it? |
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