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### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend and I broke up and I've felt terrible ever since.". | sys : (Others) Hello. How are you today?
usr : I've been better. I've been really sad ever since my girlfriend and I broke up and I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) The end of a relationship is a really difficult time.
| (Question) How long were you together? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend and I broke up and I've felt terrible ever since.". | sys : (Others) Hello. How are you today?
usr : I've been better. I've been really sad ever since my girlfriend and I broke up and I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) The end of a relationship is a really difficult time.
sys : (Question) How long were you together?
usr : Yeah every day has been pretty hard. We were together for about 3 years.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Three years is a long time. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend and I broke up and I've felt terrible ever since.". | sys : (Others) Hello. How are you today?
usr : I've been better. I've been really sad ever since my girlfriend and I broke up and I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) The end of a relationship is a really difficult time.
sys : (Question) How long were you together?
usr : Yeah every day has been pretty hard. We were together for about 3 years.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Three years is a long time.
| (Question) What led to the breakup? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend and I broke up and I've felt terrible ever since.". | sys : (Others) Hello. How are you today?
usr : I've been better. I've been really sad ever since my girlfriend and I broke up and I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) The end of a relationship is a really difficult time.
sys : (Question) How long were you together?
usr : Yeah every day has been pretty hard. We were together for about 3 years.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Three years is a long time.
sys : (Question) What led to the breakup?
usr : We found ourselves arguing more and more each day.
| (Self-disclosure) I've been in relationships like that. It really takes it out of you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend and I broke up and I've felt terrible ever since.". | sys : (Others) Hello. How are you today?
usr : I've been better. I've been really sad ever since my girlfriend and I broke up and I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) The end of a relationship is a really difficult time.
sys : (Question) How long were you together?
usr : Yeah every day has been pretty hard. We were together for about 3 years.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Three years is a long time.
sys : (Question) What led to the breakup?
usr : We found ourselves arguing more and more each day.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been in relationships like that. It really takes it out of you.
| (Question) What are your days like now? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend and I broke up and I've felt terrible ever since.". | sys : (Others) Hello. How are you today?
usr : I've been better. I've been really sad ever since my girlfriend and I broke up and I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) The end of a relationship is a really difficult time.
sys : (Question) How long were you together?
usr : Yeah every day has been pretty hard. We were together for about 3 years.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Three years is a long time.
sys : (Question) What led to the breakup?
usr : We found ourselves arguing more and more each day.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been in relationships like that. It really takes it out of you.
sys : (Question) What are your days like now?
usr : Every day has been feeling the same. I didn't like that we fought but now I feel empty. I don't know what to do.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can totally understand why you're feeling that way. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend and I broke up and I've felt terrible ever since.". | sys : (Others) Hello. How are you today?
usr : I've been better. I've been really sad ever since my girlfriend and I broke up and I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) The end of a relationship is a really difficult time.
sys : (Question) How long were you together?
usr : Yeah every day has been pretty hard. We were together for about 3 years.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Three years is a long time.
sys : (Question) What led to the breakup?
usr : We found ourselves arguing more and more each day.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been in relationships like that. It really takes it out of you.
sys : (Question) What are your days like now?
usr : Every day has been feeling the same. I didn't like that we fought but now I feel empty. I don't know what to do.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can totally understand why you're feeling that way.
| (Question) How long have you been seperated? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend and I broke up and I've felt terrible ever since.". | sys : (Others) Hello. How are you today?
usr : I've been better. I've been really sad ever since my girlfriend and I broke up and I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) The end of a relationship is a really difficult time.
sys : (Question) How long were you together?
usr : Yeah every day has been pretty hard. We were together for about 3 years.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Three years is a long time.
sys : (Question) What led to the breakup?
usr : We found ourselves arguing more and more each day.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been in relationships like that. It really takes it out of you.
sys : (Question) What are your days like now?
usr : Every day has been feeling the same. I didn't like that we fought but now I feel empty. I don't know what to do.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can totally understand why you're feeling that way.
sys : (Question) How long have you been seperated?
usr : It's been about a month now.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) So this is still really fresh. It's going to take some time to start to feel normal after three years. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend and I broke up and I've felt terrible ever since.". | sys : (Others) Hello. How are you today?
usr : I've been better. I've been really sad ever since my girlfriend and I broke up and I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) The end of a relationship is a really difficult time.
sys : (Question) How long were you together?
usr : Yeah every day has been pretty hard. We were together for about 3 years.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Three years is a long time.
sys : (Question) What led to the breakup?
usr : We found ourselves arguing more and more each day.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been in relationships like that. It really takes it out of you.
sys : (Question) What are your days like now?
usr : Every day has been feeling the same. I didn't like that we fought but now I feel empty. I don't know what to do.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can totally understand why you're feeling that way.
sys : (Question) How long have you been seperated?
usr : It's been about a month now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So this is still really fresh. It's going to take some time to start to feel normal after three years.
| (Question) What have you been doing for self-care? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend and I broke up and I've felt terrible ever since.". | sys : (Others) Hello. How are you today?
usr : I've been better. I've been really sad ever since my girlfriend and I broke up and I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) The end of a relationship is a really difficult time.
sys : (Question) How long were you together?
usr : Yeah every day has been pretty hard. We were together for about 3 years.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Three years is a long time.
sys : (Question) What led to the breakup?
usr : We found ourselves arguing more and more each day.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been in relationships like that. It really takes it out of you.
sys : (Question) What are your days like now?
usr : Every day has been feeling the same. I didn't like that we fought but now I feel empty. I don't know what to do.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can totally understand why you're feeling that way.
sys : (Question) How long have you been seperated?
usr : It's been about a month now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So this is still really fresh. It's going to take some time to start to feel normal after three years.
sys : (Question) What have you been doing for self-care?
| (Question) What have you been doing for self-care? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend and I broke up and I've felt terrible ever since.". | sys : (Others) Hello. How are you today?
usr : I've been better. I've been really sad ever since my girlfriend and I broke up and I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) The end of a relationship is a really difficult time.
sys : (Question) How long were you together?
usr : Yeah every day has been pretty hard. We were together for about 3 years.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Three years is a long time.
sys : (Question) What led to the breakup?
usr : We found ourselves arguing more and more each day.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been in relationships like that. It really takes it out of you.
sys : (Question) What are your days like now?
usr : Every day has been feeling the same. I didn't like that we fought but now I feel empty. I don't know what to do.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can totally understand why you're feeling that way.
sys : (Question) How long have you been seperated?
usr : It's been about a month now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So this is still really fresh. It's going to take some time to start to feel normal after three years.
sys : (Question) What have you been doing for self-care?
sys : (Question) What have you been doing for self-care?
usr : I haven't really been doing much. My friends invite me out but I never feel like going.
| (Information) After a three year relationship, you're going to have a period of mourning. This happens whether the breakup was right or wrong. It's still a huge part of your life now separated, and that's an important life event. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend and I broke up and I've felt terrible ever since.". | sys : (Others) Hello. How are you today?
usr : I've been better. I've been really sad ever since my girlfriend and I broke up and I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) The end of a relationship is a really difficult time.
sys : (Question) How long were you together?
usr : Yeah every day has been pretty hard. We were together for about 3 years.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Three years is a long time.
sys : (Question) What led to the breakup?
usr : We found ourselves arguing more and more each day.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been in relationships like that. It really takes it out of you.
sys : (Question) What are your days like now?
usr : Every day has been feeling the same. I didn't like that we fought but now I feel empty. I don't know what to do.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can totally understand why you're feeling that way.
sys : (Question) How long have you been seperated?
usr : It's been about a month now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So this is still really fresh. It's going to take some time to start to feel normal after three years.
sys : (Question) What have you been doing for self-care?
sys : (Question) What have you been doing for self-care?
usr : I haven't really been doing much. My friends invite me out but I never feel like going.
sys : (Information) After a three year relationship, you're going to have a period of mourning. This happens whether the breakup was right or wrong. It's still a huge part of your life now separated, and that's an important life event.
usr : Yeah that makes sense. It's just hard you know. What steps should I take to feel better?
| (Providing Suggestions) I think it would be good for you to go out with your friends. Sometimes when you're really down, you might not feel like it. Going out takes effort, but it's worth it. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend and I broke up and I've felt terrible ever since.". | sys : (Others) Hello. How are you today?
usr : I've been better. I've been really sad ever since my girlfriend and I broke up and I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) The end of a relationship is a really difficult time.
sys : (Question) How long were you together?
usr : Yeah every day has been pretty hard. We were together for about 3 years.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Three years is a long time.
sys : (Question) What led to the breakup?
usr : We found ourselves arguing more and more each day.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been in relationships like that. It really takes it out of you.
sys : (Question) What are your days like now?
usr : Every day has been feeling the same. I didn't like that we fought but now I feel empty. I don't know what to do.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can totally understand why you're feeling that way.
sys : (Question) How long have you been seperated?
usr : It's been about a month now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So this is still really fresh. It's going to take some time to start to feel normal after three years.
sys : (Question) What have you been doing for self-care?
sys : (Question) What have you been doing for self-care?
usr : I haven't really been doing much. My friends invite me out but I never feel like going.
sys : (Information) After a three year relationship, you're going to have a period of mourning. This happens whether the breakup was right or wrong. It's still a huge part of your life now separated, and that's an important life event.
usr : Yeah that makes sense. It's just hard you know. What steps should I take to feel better?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it would be good for you to go out with your friends. Sometimes when you're really down, you might not feel like it. Going out takes effort, but it's worth it.
usr : Okay I'll try to make an effort to go out more.
| (Providing Suggestions) Isolating at home is not going to help you process things. You might even consider going on some walks/runs, and getting in more exercise. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend and I broke up and I've felt terrible ever since.". | sys : (Others) Hello. How are you today?
usr : I've been better. I've been really sad ever since my girlfriend and I broke up and I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) The end of a relationship is a really difficult time.
sys : (Question) How long were you together?
usr : Yeah every day has been pretty hard. We were together for about 3 years.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Three years is a long time.
sys : (Question) What led to the breakup?
usr : We found ourselves arguing more and more each day.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been in relationships like that. It really takes it out of you.
sys : (Question) What are your days like now?
usr : Every day has been feeling the same. I didn't like that we fought but now I feel empty. I don't know what to do.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can totally understand why you're feeling that way.
sys : (Question) How long have you been seperated?
usr : It's been about a month now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So this is still really fresh. It's going to take some time to start to feel normal after three years.
sys : (Question) What have you been doing for self-care?
sys : (Question) What have you been doing for self-care?
usr : I haven't really been doing much. My friends invite me out but I never feel like going.
sys : (Information) After a three year relationship, you're going to have a period of mourning. This happens whether the breakup was right or wrong. It's still a huge part of your life now separated, and that's an important life event.
usr : Yeah that makes sense. It's just hard you know. What steps should I take to feel better?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it would be good for you to go out with your friends. Sometimes when you're really down, you might not feel like it. Going out takes effort, but it's worth it.
usr : Okay I'll try to make an effort to go out more.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Isolating at home is not going to help you process things. You might even consider going on some walks/runs, and getting in more exercise.
usr : That's a good idea I'll try to be more active.
usr : Thanks for all the help I appreciate it.
| (Others) Of course. Anytime. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend and I broke up and I've felt terrible ever since.". | sys : (Others) Hello. How are you today?
usr : I've been better. I've been really sad ever since my girlfriend and I broke up and I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) The end of a relationship is a really difficult time.
sys : (Question) How long were you together?
usr : Yeah every day has been pretty hard. We were together for about 3 years.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Three years is a long time.
sys : (Question) What led to the breakup?
usr : We found ourselves arguing more and more each day.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been in relationships like that. It really takes it out of you.
sys : (Question) What are your days like now?
usr : Every day has been feeling the same. I didn't like that we fought but now I feel empty. I don't know what to do.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can totally understand why you're feeling that way.
sys : (Question) How long have you been seperated?
usr : It's been about a month now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So this is still really fresh. It's going to take some time to start to feel normal after three years.
sys : (Question) What have you been doing for self-care?
sys : (Question) What have you been doing for self-care?
usr : I haven't really been doing much. My friends invite me out but I never feel like going.
sys : (Information) After a three year relationship, you're going to have a period of mourning. This happens whether the breakup was right or wrong. It's still a huge part of your life now separated, and that's an important life event.
usr : Yeah that makes sense. It's just hard you know. What steps should I take to feel better?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it would be good for you to go out with your friends. Sometimes when you're really down, you might not feel like it. Going out takes effort, but it's worth it.
usr : Okay I'll try to make an effort to go out more.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Isolating at home is not going to help you process things. You might even consider going on some walks/runs, and getting in more exercise.
usr : That's a good idea I'll try to be more active.
usr : Thanks for all the help I appreciate it.
sys : (Others) Of course. Anytime.
usr : It's nice to have someone to talk to thanks for hearing me out.
usr : Do you have any more advice?
| (Providing Suggestions) It will get easier. It'll just take a little time. Remember, it is okay to be sad. Trying to hold back emotions will only make things harder, so let them out as they come up. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend and I broke up and I've felt terrible ever since.". | sys : (Others) Hello. How are you today?
usr : I've been better. I've been really sad ever since my girlfriend and I broke up and I don't know what to do.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) The end of a relationship is a really difficult time.
sys : (Question) How long were you together?
usr : Yeah every day has been pretty hard. We were together for about 3 years.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Three years is a long time.
sys : (Question) What led to the breakup?
usr : We found ourselves arguing more and more each day.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been in relationships like that. It really takes it out of you.
sys : (Question) What are your days like now?
usr : Every day has been feeling the same. I didn't like that we fought but now I feel empty. I don't know what to do.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can totally understand why you're feeling that way.
sys : (Question) How long have you been seperated?
usr : It's been about a month now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So this is still really fresh. It's going to take some time to start to feel normal after three years.
sys : (Question) What have you been doing for self-care?
sys : (Question) What have you been doing for self-care?
usr : I haven't really been doing much. My friends invite me out but I never feel like going.
sys : (Information) After a three year relationship, you're going to have a period of mourning. This happens whether the breakup was right or wrong. It's still a huge part of your life now separated, and that's an important life event.
usr : Yeah that makes sense. It's just hard you know. What steps should I take to feel better?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it would be good for you to go out with your friends. Sometimes when you're really down, you might not feel like it. Going out takes effort, but it's worth it.
usr : Okay I'll try to make an effort to go out more.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Isolating at home is not going to help you process things. You might even consider going on some walks/runs, and getting in more exercise.
usr : That's a good idea I'll try to be more active.
usr : Thanks for all the help I appreciate it.
sys : (Others) Of course. Anytime.
usr : It's nice to have someone to talk to thanks for hearing me out.
usr : Do you have any more advice?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It will get easier. It'll just take a little time. Remember, it is okay to be sad. Trying to hold back emotions will only make things harder, so let them out as they come up.
usr : I have been bottling up a lot of my emotions so maybe I'll try to talk to a friend about how I'm feeling.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Absolutely. Talking to a close friend is one of the best things you could do. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I having anxiety due the pressure from the studies". | usr : Hello
| (Question) Hi there, how are you doing today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I having anxiety due the pressure from the studies". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing today?
usr : I doing good.. how are you?
| (Question) I am good thanks. What would you like to talk to me about? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I having anxiety due the pressure from the studies". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing today?
usr : I doing good.. how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good thanks. What would you like to talk to me about?
usr : I am going to school and this semester I am having too much pressure ... could not handle it.
| (Information) I am sorry to hear that. Have you got anyone you can talk to? Maybe take some time off? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I having anxiety due the pressure from the studies". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing today?
usr : I doing good.. how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good thanks. What would you like to talk to me about?
usr : I am going to school and this semester I am having too much pressure ... could not handle it.
sys : (Information) I am sorry to hear that. Have you got anyone you can talk to? Maybe take some time off?
usr : I cannot take any time off since this is in the middle of the semester. And dropp ing any class is not an option either.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel that you are trapped and yet you are not coping properly? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I having anxiety due the pressure from the studies". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing today?
usr : I doing good.. how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good thanks. What would you like to talk to me about?
usr : I am going to school and this semester I am having too much pressure ... could not handle it.
sys : (Information) I am sorry to hear that. Have you got anyone you can talk to? Maybe take some time off?
usr : I cannot take any time off since this is in the middle of the semester. And dropp ing any class is not an option either.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel that you are trapped and yet you are not coping properly?
usr : I am having too much anxiety and don't know how to deal with it.
| (Information) I suggest that you talk to a counsellor. There should be free services available at your university. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I having anxiety due the pressure from the studies". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing today?
usr : I doing good.. how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good thanks. What would you like to talk to me about?
usr : I am going to school and this semester I am having too much pressure ... could not handle it.
sys : (Information) I am sorry to hear that. Have you got anyone you can talk to? Maybe take some time off?
usr : I cannot take any time off since this is in the middle of the semester. And dropp ing any class is not an option either.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel that you are trapped and yet you are not coping properly?
usr : I am having too much anxiety and don't know how to deal with it.
sys : (Information) I suggest that you talk to a counsellor. There should be free services available at your university.
usr : What kind of advise should I be seeking from the counsellor?
| (Information) Well, perhaps they can at least alleviate your anxiety somewhat. Or maybe even get you a sick note to give you a little extra time to complete your assignment.s |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I having anxiety due the pressure from the studies". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing today?
usr : I doing good.. how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good thanks. What would you like to talk to me about?
usr : I am going to school and this semester I am having too much pressure ... could not handle it.
sys : (Information) I am sorry to hear that. Have you got anyone you can talk to? Maybe take some time off?
usr : I cannot take any time off since this is in the middle of the semester. And dropp ing any class is not an option either.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel that you are trapped and yet you are not coping properly?
usr : I am having too much anxiety and don't know how to deal with it.
sys : (Information) I suggest that you talk to a counsellor. There should be free services available at your university.
usr : What kind of advise should I be seeking from the counsellor?
sys : (Information) Well, perhaps they can at least alleviate your anxiety somewhat. Or maybe even get you a sick note to give you a little extra time to complete your assignment.s
usr : Do you think that could hurt my grade if I turn them in late?
| (Others) No, as long as you have a doctor's letter explaining why. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I having anxiety due the pressure from the studies". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing today?
usr : I doing good.. how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good thanks. What would you like to talk to me about?
usr : I am going to school and this semester I am having too much pressure ... could not handle it.
sys : (Information) I am sorry to hear that. Have you got anyone you can talk to? Maybe take some time off?
usr : I cannot take any time off since this is in the middle of the semester. And dropp ing any class is not an option either.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel that you are trapped and yet you are not coping properly?
usr : I am having too much anxiety and don't know how to deal with it.
sys : (Information) I suggest that you talk to a counsellor. There should be free services available at your university.
usr : What kind of advise should I be seeking from the counsellor?
sys : (Information) Well, perhaps they can at least alleviate your anxiety somewhat. Or maybe even get you a sick note to give you a little extra time to complete your assignment.s
usr : Do you think that could hurt my grade if I turn them in late?
sys : (Others) No, as long as you have a doctor's letter explaining why.
usr : But I am not sick, would the counsellor write note for me under this situation?
| (Others) There is more than one way to be sick. You sound as though you are suffering from depression and stress. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I having anxiety due the pressure from the studies". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing today?
usr : I doing good.. how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good thanks. What would you like to talk to me about?
usr : I am going to school and this semester I am having too much pressure ... could not handle it.
sys : (Information) I am sorry to hear that. Have you got anyone you can talk to? Maybe take some time off?
usr : I cannot take any time off since this is in the middle of the semester. And dropp ing any class is not an option either.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel that you are trapped and yet you are not coping properly?
usr : I am having too much anxiety and don't know how to deal with it.
sys : (Information) I suggest that you talk to a counsellor. There should be free services available at your university.
usr : What kind of advise should I be seeking from the counsellor?
sys : (Information) Well, perhaps they can at least alleviate your anxiety somewhat. Or maybe even get you a sick note to give you a little extra time to complete your assignment.s
usr : Do you think that could hurt my grade if I turn them in late?
sys : (Others) No, as long as you have a doctor's letter explaining why.
usr : But I am not sick, would the counsellor write note for me under this situation?
sys : (Others) There is more than one way to be sick. You sound as though you are suffering from depression and stress.
usr : I guess you are right... I will try to make an appointment with the counselor next week.
| (Question) Do you have any friends or family that you can discuss this with? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I having anxiety due the pressure from the studies". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing today?
usr : I doing good.. how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good thanks. What would you like to talk to me about?
usr : I am going to school and this semester I am having too much pressure ... could not handle it.
sys : (Information) I am sorry to hear that. Have you got anyone you can talk to? Maybe take some time off?
usr : I cannot take any time off since this is in the middle of the semester. And dropp ing any class is not an option either.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel that you are trapped and yet you are not coping properly?
usr : I am having too much anxiety and don't know how to deal with it.
sys : (Information) I suggest that you talk to a counsellor. There should be free services available at your university.
usr : What kind of advise should I be seeking from the counsellor?
sys : (Information) Well, perhaps they can at least alleviate your anxiety somewhat. Or maybe even get you a sick note to give you a little extra time to complete your assignment.s
usr : Do you think that could hurt my grade if I turn them in late?
sys : (Others) No, as long as you have a doctor's letter explaining why.
usr : But I am not sick, would the counsellor write note for me under this situation?
sys : (Others) There is more than one way to be sick. You sound as though you are suffering from depression and stress.
usr : I guess you are right... I will try to make an appointment with the counselor next week.
sys : (Question) Do you have any friends or family that you can discuss this with?
usr : I have an elder sister I can talk to.
| (Question) Is she sympathetic to what you are feelign? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I having anxiety due the pressure from the studies". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing today?
usr : I doing good.. how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good thanks. What would you like to talk to me about?
usr : I am going to school and this semester I am having too much pressure ... could not handle it.
sys : (Information) I am sorry to hear that. Have you got anyone you can talk to? Maybe take some time off?
usr : I cannot take any time off since this is in the middle of the semester. And dropp ing any class is not an option either.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel that you are trapped and yet you are not coping properly?
usr : I am having too much anxiety and don't know how to deal with it.
sys : (Information) I suggest that you talk to a counsellor. There should be free services available at your university.
usr : What kind of advise should I be seeking from the counsellor?
sys : (Information) Well, perhaps they can at least alleviate your anxiety somewhat. Or maybe even get you a sick note to give you a little extra time to complete your assignment.s
usr : Do you think that could hurt my grade if I turn them in late?
sys : (Others) No, as long as you have a doctor's letter explaining why.
usr : But I am not sick, would the counsellor write note for me under this situation?
sys : (Others) There is more than one way to be sick. You sound as though you are suffering from depression and stress.
usr : I guess you are right... I will try to make an appointment with the counselor next week.
sys : (Question) Do you have any friends or family that you can discuss this with?
usr : I have an elder sister I can talk to.
sys : (Question) Is she sympathetic to what you are feelign?
usr : I think so..
| (Providing Suggestions) Well that is a good start. Maybe you could make a list of things you want to discuss with your counsellor too. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I having anxiety due the pressure from the studies". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing today?
usr : I doing good.. how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good thanks. What would you like to talk to me about?
usr : I am going to school and this semester I am having too much pressure ... could not handle it.
sys : (Information) I am sorry to hear that. Have you got anyone you can talk to? Maybe take some time off?
usr : I cannot take any time off since this is in the middle of the semester. And dropp ing any class is not an option either.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel that you are trapped and yet you are not coping properly?
usr : I am having too much anxiety and don't know how to deal with it.
sys : (Information) I suggest that you talk to a counsellor. There should be free services available at your university.
usr : What kind of advise should I be seeking from the counsellor?
sys : (Information) Well, perhaps they can at least alleviate your anxiety somewhat. Or maybe even get you a sick note to give you a little extra time to complete your assignment.s
usr : Do you think that could hurt my grade if I turn them in late?
sys : (Others) No, as long as you have a doctor's letter explaining why.
usr : But I am not sick, would the counsellor write note for me under this situation?
sys : (Others) There is more than one way to be sick. You sound as though you are suffering from depression and stress.
usr : I guess you are right... I will try to make an appointment with the counselor next week.
sys : (Question) Do you have any friends or family that you can discuss this with?
usr : I have an elder sister I can talk to.
sys : (Question) Is she sympathetic to what you are feelign?
usr : I think so..
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well that is a good start. Maybe you could make a list of things you want to discuss with your counsellor too.
usr : I like the idea .. thanks..
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try not to worry - I hope that things go well with you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I having anxiety due the pressure from the studies". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing today?
usr : I doing good.. how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good thanks. What would you like to talk to me about?
usr : I am going to school and this semester I am having too much pressure ... could not handle it.
sys : (Information) I am sorry to hear that. Have you got anyone you can talk to? Maybe take some time off?
usr : I cannot take any time off since this is in the middle of the semester. And dropp ing any class is not an option either.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel that you are trapped and yet you are not coping properly?
usr : I am having too much anxiety and don't know how to deal with it.
sys : (Information) I suggest that you talk to a counsellor. There should be free services available at your university.
usr : What kind of advise should I be seeking from the counsellor?
sys : (Information) Well, perhaps they can at least alleviate your anxiety somewhat. Or maybe even get you a sick note to give you a little extra time to complete your assignment.s
usr : Do you think that could hurt my grade if I turn them in late?
sys : (Others) No, as long as you have a doctor's letter explaining why.
usr : But I am not sick, would the counsellor write note for me under this situation?
sys : (Others) There is more than one way to be sick. You sound as though you are suffering from depression and stress.
usr : I guess you are right... I will try to make an appointment with the counselor next week.
sys : (Question) Do you have any friends or family that you can discuss this with?
usr : I have an elder sister I can talk to.
sys : (Question) Is she sympathetic to what you are feelign?
usr : I think so..
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well that is a good start. Maybe you could make a list of things you want to discuss with your counsellor too.
usr : I like the idea .. thanks..
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try not to worry - I hope that things go well with you.
usr : I hope so.. thank you for you suggestion.
| (Others) All the best to you in your future and thank you for talking! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I having anxiety due the pressure from the studies". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing today?
usr : I doing good.. how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good thanks. What would you like to talk to me about?
usr : I am going to school and this semester I am having too much pressure ... could not handle it.
sys : (Information) I am sorry to hear that. Have you got anyone you can talk to? Maybe take some time off?
usr : I cannot take any time off since this is in the middle of the semester. And dropp ing any class is not an option either.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel that you are trapped and yet you are not coping properly?
usr : I am having too much anxiety and don't know how to deal with it.
sys : (Information) I suggest that you talk to a counsellor. There should be free services available at your university.
usr : What kind of advise should I be seeking from the counsellor?
sys : (Information) Well, perhaps they can at least alleviate your anxiety somewhat. Or maybe even get you a sick note to give you a little extra time to complete your assignment.s
usr : Do you think that could hurt my grade if I turn them in late?
sys : (Others) No, as long as you have a doctor's letter explaining why.
usr : But I am not sick, would the counsellor write note for me under this situation?
sys : (Others) There is more than one way to be sick. You sound as though you are suffering from depression and stress.
usr : I guess you are right... I will try to make an appointment with the counselor next week.
sys : (Question) Do you have any friends or family that you can discuss this with?
usr : I have an elder sister I can talk to.
sys : (Question) Is she sympathetic to what you are feelign?
usr : I think so..
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well that is a good start. Maybe you could make a list of things you want to discuss with your counsellor too.
usr : I like the idea .. thanks..
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try not to worry - I hope that things go well with you.
usr : I hope so.. thank you for you suggestion.
sys : (Others) All the best to you in your future and thank you for talking!
| (Providing Suggestions) You have to press quit first cos I can't :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I having anxiety due the pressure from the studies". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing today?
usr : I doing good.. how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good thanks. What would you like to talk to me about?
usr : I am going to school and this semester I am having too much pressure ... could not handle it.
sys : (Information) I am sorry to hear that. Have you got anyone you can talk to? Maybe take some time off?
usr : I cannot take any time off since this is in the middle of the semester. And dropp ing any class is not an option either.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel that you are trapped and yet you are not coping properly?
usr : I am having too much anxiety and don't know how to deal with it.
sys : (Information) I suggest that you talk to a counsellor. There should be free services available at your university.
usr : What kind of advise should I be seeking from the counsellor?
sys : (Information) Well, perhaps they can at least alleviate your anxiety somewhat. Or maybe even get you a sick note to give you a little extra time to complete your assignment.s
usr : Do you think that could hurt my grade if I turn them in late?
sys : (Others) No, as long as you have a doctor's letter explaining why.
usr : But I am not sick, would the counsellor write note for me under this situation?
sys : (Others) There is more than one way to be sick. You sound as though you are suffering from depression and stress.
usr : I guess you are right... I will try to make an appointment with the counselor next week.
sys : (Question) Do you have any friends or family that you can discuss this with?
usr : I have an elder sister I can talk to.
sys : (Question) Is she sympathetic to what you are feelign?
usr : I think so..
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well that is a good start. Maybe you could make a list of things you want to discuss with your counsellor too.
usr : I like the idea .. thanks..
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try not to worry - I hope that things go well with you.
usr : I hope so.. thank you for you suggestion.
sys : (Others) All the best to you in your future and thank you for talking!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You have to press quit first cos I can't :)
usr : You have a good day...
| (Others) and you :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I having anxiety due the pressure from the studies". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing today?
usr : I doing good.. how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good thanks. What would you like to talk to me about?
usr : I am going to school and this semester I am having too much pressure ... could not handle it.
sys : (Information) I am sorry to hear that. Have you got anyone you can talk to? Maybe take some time off?
usr : I cannot take any time off since this is in the middle of the semester. And dropp ing any class is not an option either.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel that you are trapped and yet you are not coping properly?
usr : I am having too much anxiety and don't know how to deal with it.
sys : (Information) I suggest that you talk to a counsellor. There should be free services available at your university.
usr : What kind of advise should I be seeking from the counsellor?
sys : (Information) Well, perhaps they can at least alleviate your anxiety somewhat. Or maybe even get you a sick note to give you a little extra time to complete your assignment.s
usr : Do you think that could hurt my grade if I turn them in late?
sys : (Others) No, as long as you have a doctor's letter explaining why.
usr : But I am not sick, would the counsellor write note for me under this situation?
sys : (Others) There is more than one way to be sick. You sound as though you are suffering from depression and stress.
usr : I guess you are right... I will try to make an appointment with the counselor next week.
sys : (Question) Do you have any friends or family that you can discuss this with?
usr : I have an elder sister I can talk to.
sys : (Question) Is she sympathetic to what you are feelign?
usr : I think so..
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well that is a good start. Maybe you could make a list of things you want to discuss with your counsellor too.
usr : I like the idea .. thanks..
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try not to worry - I hope that things go well with you.
usr : I hope so.. thank you for you suggestion.
sys : (Others) All the best to you in your future and thank you for talking!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You have to press quit first cos I can't :)
usr : You have a good day...
sys : (Others) and you :)
| (Others) Can you press quit and take the survey :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am worry about lost the job during this pandemic.". | (Question) Hello, how are you? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am worry about lost the job during this pandemic.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you?
usr : I am ok. How do you do
usr : Can you help out
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Great, I am happy to lend a listening ear. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am worry about lost the job during this pandemic.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you?
usr : I am ok. How do you do
usr : Can you help out
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Great, I am happy to lend a listening ear.
usr : Thank you for your concern.
| (Question) Of course, what is bothering you today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am worry about lost the job during this pandemic.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you?
usr : I am ok. How do you do
usr : Can you help out
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Great, I am happy to lend a listening ear.
usr : Thank you for your concern.
sys : (Question) Of course, what is bothering you today?
usr : I am worry about my job. Because of pandemic
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Are you worried of losing your job due to COVID-19? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am worry about lost the job during this pandemic.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you?
usr : I am ok. How do you do
usr : Can you help out
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Great, I am happy to lend a listening ear.
usr : Thank you for your concern.
sys : (Question) Of course, what is bothering you today?
usr : I am worry about my job. Because of pandemic
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Are you worried of losing your job due to COVID-19?
usr : yes. absolutely
| (Reflection of feelings) I understand your concern about losing your job during these times. So many people are worried and it doesn't seem to be getting better. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am worry about lost the job during this pandemic.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you?
usr : I am ok. How do you do
usr : Can you help out
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Great, I am happy to lend a listening ear.
usr : Thank you for your concern.
sys : (Question) Of course, what is bothering you today?
usr : I am worry about my job. Because of pandemic
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Are you worried of losing your job due to COVID-19?
usr : yes. absolutely
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand your concern about losing your job during these times. So many people are worried and it doesn't seem to be getting better.
usr : Ya. I am feeling the same.
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried speaking to your employer about how you can secure your job? Many people have been trying to see if they can get unemployment just in case they do lose their income. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am worry about lost the job during this pandemic.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you?
usr : I am ok. How do you do
usr : Can you help out
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Great, I am happy to lend a listening ear.
usr : Thank you for your concern.
sys : (Question) Of course, what is bothering you today?
usr : I am worry about my job. Because of pandemic
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Are you worried of losing your job due to COVID-19?
usr : yes. absolutely
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand your concern about losing your job during these times. So many people are worried and it doesn't seem to be getting better.
usr : Ya. I am feeling the same.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried speaking to your employer about how you can secure your job? Many people have been trying to see if they can get unemployment just in case they do lose their income.
usr : Not yet speak. I will try my best to solve this problem
| (Providing Suggestions) It is always good to know all your options during the pandemic. I hope you feel better assured knowing that you can try and qualify for unemployment benefits just in case you do lose your job. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am worry about lost the job during this pandemic.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you?
usr : I am ok. How do you do
usr : Can you help out
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Great, I am happy to lend a listening ear.
usr : Thank you for your concern.
sys : (Question) Of course, what is bothering you today?
usr : I am worry about my job. Because of pandemic
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Are you worried of losing your job due to COVID-19?
usr : yes. absolutely
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand your concern about losing your job during these times. So many people are worried and it doesn't seem to be getting better.
usr : Ya. I am feeling the same.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried speaking to your employer about how you can secure your job? Many people have been trying to see if they can get unemployment just in case they do lose their income.
usr : Not yet speak. I will try my best to solve this problem
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It is always good to know all your options during the pandemic. I hope you feel better assured knowing that you can try and qualify for unemployment benefits just in case you do lose your job.
usr : Ok thank you so much for your best time which is spend with me.
| (Question) Is there anything else you would like to share with me? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am worry about lost the job during this pandemic.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you?
usr : I am ok. How do you do
usr : Can you help out
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Great, I am happy to lend a listening ear.
usr : Thank you for your concern.
sys : (Question) Of course, what is bothering you today?
usr : I am worry about my job. Because of pandemic
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Are you worried of losing your job due to COVID-19?
usr : yes. absolutely
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand your concern about losing your job during these times. So many people are worried and it doesn't seem to be getting better.
usr : Ya. I am feeling the same.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried speaking to your employer about how you can secure your job? Many people have been trying to see if they can get unemployment just in case they do lose their income.
usr : Not yet speak. I will try my best to solve this problem
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It is always good to know all your options during the pandemic. I hope you feel better assured knowing that you can try and qualify for unemployment benefits just in case you do lose your job.
usr : Ok thank you so much for your best time which is spend with me.
sys : (Question) Is there anything else you would like to share with me?
usr : No. thanks
| (Others) Please end the conversation if there is nothing left for me to help you with :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am worry about lost the job during this pandemic.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you?
usr : I am ok. How do you do
usr : Can you help out
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Great, I am happy to lend a listening ear.
usr : Thank you for your concern.
sys : (Question) Of course, what is bothering you today?
usr : I am worry about my job. Because of pandemic
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Are you worried of losing your job due to COVID-19?
usr : yes. absolutely
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand your concern about losing your job during these times. So many people are worried and it doesn't seem to be getting better.
usr : Ya. I am feeling the same.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried speaking to your employer about how you can secure your job? Many people have been trying to see if they can get unemployment just in case they do lose their income.
usr : Not yet speak. I will try my best to solve this problem
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It is always good to know all your options during the pandemic. I hope you feel better assured knowing that you can try and qualify for unemployment benefits just in case you do lose your job.
usr : Ok thank you so much for your best time which is spend with me.
sys : (Question) Is there anything else you would like to share with me?
usr : No. thanks
sys : (Others) Please end the conversation if there is nothing left for me to help you with :)
usr : Ok.
| (Others) Happy to work with you :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have been very depressed due to lack of job and its affecting me mentally". | (Others) Hello! How are you today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have been very depressed due to lack of job and its affecting me mentally". | sys : (Others) Hello! How are you today?
usr : im good
| (Question) What seems to be bothering you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have been very depressed due to lack of job and its affecting me mentally". | sys : (Others) Hello! How are you today?
usr : im good
sys : (Question) What seems to be bothering you?
usr : im have been very depressed due to lack of jobs and i have a lot of bills pending
| (Question) When was the last time you were employed? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have been very depressed due to lack of job and its affecting me mentally". | sys : (Others) Hello! How are you today?
usr : im good
sys : (Question) What seems to be bothering you?
usr : im have been very depressed due to lack of jobs and i have a lot of bills pending
sys : (Question) When was the last time you were employed?
usr : May 2020
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Coronavirus has impacted lives of many hard-working people. Are you eligible to receive help from the government? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have been very depressed due to lack of job and its affecting me mentally". | sys : (Others) Hello! How are you today?
usr : im good
sys : (Question) What seems to be bothering you?
usr : im have been very depressed due to lack of jobs and i have a lot of bills pending
sys : (Question) When was the last time you were employed?
usr : May 2020
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Coronavirus has impacted lives of many hard-working people. Are you eligible to receive help from the government?
usr : My unemployment benefit has been stopped
| (Reflection of feelings) I understand how being umemployed at this time could be very stressful. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have been very depressed due to lack of job and its affecting me mentally". | sys : (Others) Hello! How are you today?
usr : im good
sys : (Question) What seems to be bothering you?
usr : im have been very depressed due to lack of jobs and i have a lot of bills pending
sys : (Question) When was the last time you were employed?
usr : May 2020
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Coronavirus has impacted lives of many hard-working people. Are you eligible to receive help from the government?
usr : My unemployment benefit has been stopped
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how being umemployed at this time could be very stressful.
usr : Yes it is. especially when you are not getting any help
| (Providing Suggestions) I would apply anywhere that is hiring. You'd be surprised with the feedback you get. Being in the house will not help. If you've applied everywhere online, why not take a walk some where near to apply to small businesses that may not have applications online. Would that be an option for you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have been very depressed due to lack of job and its affecting me mentally". | sys : (Others) Hello! How are you today?
usr : im good
sys : (Question) What seems to be bothering you?
usr : im have been very depressed due to lack of jobs and i have a lot of bills pending
sys : (Question) When was the last time you were employed?
usr : May 2020
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Coronavirus has impacted lives of many hard-working people. Are you eligible to receive help from the government?
usr : My unemployment benefit has been stopped
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how being umemployed at this time could be very stressful.
usr : Yes it is. especially when you are not getting any help
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would apply anywhere that is hiring. You'd be surprised with the feedback you get. Being in the house will not help. If you've applied everywhere online, why not take a walk some where near to apply to small businesses that may not have applications online. Would that be an option for you?
usr : I think i would just try that for now
| (Others) It would also help you get out of the house and have something positive to think about! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have been very depressed due to lack of job and its affecting me mentally". | sys : (Others) Hello! How are you today?
usr : im good
sys : (Question) What seems to be bothering you?
usr : im have been very depressed due to lack of jobs and i have a lot of bills pending
sys : (Question) When was the last time you were employed?
usr : May 2020
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Coronavirus has impacted lives of many hard-working people. Are you eligible to receive help from the government?
usr : My unemployment benefit has been stopped
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how being umemployed at this time could be very stressful.
usr : Yes it is. especially when you are not getting any help
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would apply anywhere that is hiring. You'd be surprised with the feedback you get. Being in the house will not help. If you've applied everywhere online, why not take a walk some where near to apply to small businesses that may not have applications online. Would that be an option for you?
usr : I think i would just try that for now
sys : (Others) It would also help you get out of the house and have something positive to think about!
usr : yes i agree, because it is very depressing staying in the house with nothing to do
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Most people would agree! You have to be able to get out of the house and be social in order to be truly happy and then you will enjoy your time at home once again. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have been very depressed due to lack of job and its affecting me mentally". | sys : (Others) Hello! How are you today?
usr : im good
sys : (Question) What seems to be bothering you?
usr : im have been very depressed due to lack of jobs and i have a lot of bills pending
sys : (Question) When was the last time you were employed?
usr : May 2020
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Coronavirus has impacted lives of many hard-working people. Are you eligible to receive help from the government?
usr : My unemployment benefit has been stopped
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how being umemployed at this time could be very stressful.
usr : Yes it is. especially when you are not getting any help
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would apply anywhere that is hiring. You'd be surprised with the feedback you get. Being in the house will not help. If you've applied everywhere online, why not take a walk some where near to apply to small businesses that may not have applications online. Would that be an option for you?
usr : I think i would just try that for now
sys : (Others) It would also help you get out of the house and have something positive to think about!
usr : yes i agree, because it is very depressing staying in the house with nothing to do
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Most people would agree! You have to be able to get out of the house and be social in order to be truly happy and then you will enjoy your time at home once again.
usr : Thanks so much for your encouragement
| (Providing Suggestions) As for your pending bills, you can always try to see what type of assistance you can be provided by the company billing you. There may also be assistance by your local government for electric bills, water bills, and so forth. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have been very depressed due to lack of job and its affecting me mentally". | sys : (Others) Hello! How are you today?
usr : im good
sys : (Question) What seems to be bothering you?
usr : im have been very depressed due to lack of jobs and i have a lot of bills pending
sys : (Question) When was the last time you were employed?
usr : May 2020
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Coronavirus has impacted lives of many hard-working people. Are you eligible to receive help from the government?
usr : My unemployment benefit has been stopped
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how being umemployed at this time could be very stressful.
usr : Yes it is. especially when you are not getting any help
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would apply anywhere that is hiring. You'd be surprised with the feedback you get. Being in the house will not help. If you've applied everywhere online, why not take a walk some where near to apply to small businesses that may not have applications online. Would that be an option for you?
usr : I think i would just try that for now
sys : (Others) It would also help you get out of the house and have something positive to think about!
usr : yes i agree, because it is very depressing staying in the house with nothing to do
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Most people would agree! You have to be able to get out of the house and be social in order to be truly happy and then you will enjoy your time at home once again.
usr : Thanks so much for your encouragement
sys : (Providing Suggestions) As for your pending bills, you can always try to see what type of assistance you can be provided by the company billing you. There may also be assistance by your local government for electric bills, water bills, and so forth.
usr : I have some things that has been moved to collections
| (Information) Collection companies will usually work with you so you can make payments instead of paying one lump sum. After the payment plan has been sent or you've paid you're full amount it will even come off of your credit. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have been very depressed due to lack of job and its affecting me mentally". | sys : (Others) Hello! How are you today?
usr : im good
sys : (Question) What seems to be bothering you?
usr : im have been very depressed due to lack of jobs and i have a lot of bills pending
sys : (Question) When was the last time you were employed?
usr : May 2020
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Coronavirus has impacted lives of many hard-working people. Are you eligible to receive help from the government?
usr : My unemployment benefit has been stopped
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how being umemployed at this time could be very stressful.
usr : Yes it is. especially when you are not getting any help
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would apply anywhere that is hiring. You'd be surprised with the feedback you get. Being in the house will not help. If you've applied everywhere online, why not take a walk some where near to apply to small businesses that may not have applications online. Would that be an option for you?
usr : I think i would just try that for now
sys : (Others) It would also help you get out of the house and have something positive to think about!
usr : yes i agree, because it is very depressing staying in the house with nothing to do
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Most people would agree! You have to be able to get out of the house and be social in order to be truly happy and then you will enjoy your time at home once again.
usr : Thanks so much for your encouragement
sys : (Providing Suggestions) As for your pending bills, you can always try to see what type of assistance you can be provided by the company billing you. There may also be assistance by your local government for electric bills, water bills, and so forth.
usr : I have some things that has been moved to collections
sys : (Information) Collection companies will usually work with you so you can make payments instead of paying one lump sum. After the payment plan has been sent or you've paid you're full amount it will even come off of your credit.
usr : well i hope so, because i have been so worried about it
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it is harder to see the brighter side of things when depression is involved but it will get better! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have been very depressed due to lack of job and its affecting me mentally". | sys : (Others) Hello! How are you today?
usr : im good
sys : (Question) What seems to be bothering you?
usr : im have been very depressed due to lack of jobs and i have a lot of bills pending
sys : (Question) When was the last time you were employed?
usr : May 2020
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Coronavirus has impacted lives of many hard-working people. Are you eligible to receive help from the government?
usr : My unemployment benefit has been stopped
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how being umemployed at this time could be very stressful.
usr : Yes it is. especially when you are not getting any help
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would apply anywhere that is hiring. You'd be surprised with the feedback you get. Being in the house will not help. If you've applied everywhere online, why not take a walk some where near to apply to small businesses that may not have applications online. Would that be an option for you?
usr : I think i would just try that for now
sys : (Others) It would also help you get out of the house and have something positive to think about!
usr : yes i agree, because it is very depressing staying in the house with nothing to do
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Most people would agree! You have to be able to get out of the house and be social in order to be truly happy and then you will enjoy your time at home once again.
usr : Thanks so much for your encouragement
sys : (Providing Suggestions) As for your pending bills, you can always try to see what type of assistance you can be provided by the company billing you. There may also be assistance by your local government for electric bills, water bills, and so forth.
usr : I have some things that has been moved to collections
sys : (Information) Collection companies will usually work with you so you can make payments instead of paying one lump sum. After the payment plan has been sent or you've paid you're full amount it will even come off of your credit.
usr : well i hope so, because i have been so worried about it
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it is harder to see the brighter side of things when depression is involved but it will get better!
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will find a job and be the best you can be! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"I feel disgusted by the way my teenage daughter dresses up. She wears very tight and revealing clothing. I have tried before to talk to her about modesty but she continues to dress that way.". | (Question) Hello, how is your feeling now? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"I feel disgusted by the way my teenage daughter dresses up. She wears very tight and revealing clothing. I have tried before to talk to her about modesty but she continues to dress that way.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how is your feeling now?
usr : I feel very bad right now. I don't know how I should make my daughter understand that her dressing is not appropriate
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your daughter does not understand your feelings. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"I feel disgusted by the way my teenage daughter dresses up. She wears very tight and revealing clothing. I have tried before to talk to her about modesty but she continues to dress that way.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how is your feeling now?
usr : I feel very bad right now. I don't know how I should make my daughter understand that her dressing is not appropriate
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your daughter does not understand your feelings.
usr : I think she does but is only being rebellious due to peer pressure. She is a good sensible girl.
| (Self-disclosure) I had similar situations. I had to tell my son to dress appropriately too. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"I feel disgusted by the way my teenage daughter dresses up. She wears very tight and revealing clothing. I have tried before to talk to her about modesty but she continues to dress that way.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how is your feeling now?
usr : I feel very bad right now. I don't know how I should make my daughter understand that her dressing is not appropriate
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your daughter does not understand your feelings.
usr : I think she does but is only being rebellious due to peer pressure. She is a good sensible girl.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had similar situations. I had to tell my son to dress appropriately too.
usr : Should I take her for counselling so that she can understand that she doesn't have to dress like her friends in order to be with them?
| (Question) Before you do that, d id you communicate with her directly and express your concerns? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"I feel disgusted by the way my teenage daughter dresses up. She wears very tight and revealing clothing. I have tried before to talk to her about modesty but she continues to dress that way.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how is your feeling now?
usr : I feel very bad right now. I don't know how I should make my daughter understand that her dressing is not appropriate
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your daughter does not understand your feelings.
usr : I think she does but is only being rebellious due to peer pressure. She is a good sensible girl.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had similar situations. I had to tell my son to dress appropriately too.
usr : Should I take her for counselling so that she can understand that she doesn't have to dress like her friends in order to be with them?
sys : (Question) Before you do that, d id you communicate with her directly and express your concerns?
usr : I have tried that before and have even asked her grandmother to have a chat with her.
| (Information) I totally understand how you feel. Take a deep breath and it can help you feel better. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"I feel disgusted by the way my teenage daughter dresses up. She wears very tight and revealing clothing. I have tried before to talk to her about modesty but she continues to dress that way.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how is your feeling now?
usr : I feel very bad right now. I don't know how I should make my daughter understand that her dressing is not appropriate
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your daughter does not understand your feelings.
usr : I think she does but is only being rebellious due to peer pressure. She is a good sensible girl.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had similar situations. I had to tell my son to dress appropriately too.
usr : Should I take her for counselling so that she can understand that she doesn't have to dress like her friends in order to be with them?
sys : (Question) Before you do that, d id you communicate with her directly and express your concerns?
usr : I have tried that before and have even asked her grandmother to have a chat with her.
sys : (Information) I totally understand how you feel. Take a deep breath and it can help you feel better.
usr : She doesn't have a mom figure in her life because her mom passed on when she was only three.
| (Providing Suggestions) So sorry to hear this. I do think professional counselling can help. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"I feel disgusted by the way my teenage daughter dresses up. She wears very tight and revealing clothing. I have tried before to talk to her about modesty but she continues to dress that way.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how is your feeling now?
usr : I feel very bad right now. I don't know how I should make my daughter understand that her dressing is not appropriate
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your daughter does not understand your feelings.
usr : I think she does but is only being rebellious due to peer pressure. She is a good sensible girl.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had similar situations. I had to tell my son to dress appropriately too.
usr : Should I take her for counselling so that she can understand that she doesn't have to dress like her friends in order to be with them?
sys : (Question) Before you do that, d id you communicate with her directly and express your concerns?
usr : I have tried that before and have even asked her grandmother to have a chat with her.
sys : (Information) I totally understand how you feel. Take a deep breath and it can help you feel better.
usr : She doesn't have a mom figure in her life because her mom passed on when she was only three.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) So sorry to hear this. I do think professional counselling can help.
usr : Its been quite a challenge to play both mom and dad in her life. Sometimes I feel inadequate to deal with female issues.
| (Reflection of feelings) From our short conversation, I can feel the weights on your shoulder. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"I feel disgusted by the way my teenage daughter dresses up. She wears very tight and revealing clothing. I have tried before to talk to her about modesty but she continues to dress that way.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how is your feeling now?
usr : I feel very bad right now. I don't know how I should make my daughter understand that her dressing is not appropriate
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your daughter does not understand your feelings.
usr : I think she does but is only being rebellious due to peer pressure. She is a good sensible girl.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had similar situations. I had to tell my son to dress appropriately too.
usr : Should I take her for counselling so that she can understand that she doesn't have to dress like her friends in order to be with them?
sys : (Question) Before you do that, d id you communicate with her directly and express your concerns?
usr : I have tried that before and have even asked her grandmother to have a chat with her.
sys : (Information) I totally understand how you feel. Take a deep breath and it can help you feel better.
usr : She doesn't have a mom figure in her life because her mom passed on when she was only three.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) So sorry to hear this. I do think professional counselling can help.
usr : Its been quite a challenge to play both mom and dad in her life. Sometimes I feel inadequate to deal with female issues.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) From our short conversation, I can feel the weights on your shoulder.
usr : It feels nice to know someone can understand me because I rarely talk about my feelings openly.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, you have done very well. Don't get discouraged. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"I feel disgusted by the way my teenage daughter dresses up. She wears very tight and revealing clothing. I have tried before to talk to her about modesty but she continues to dress that way.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how is your feeling now?
usr : I feel very bad right now. I don't know how I should make my daughter understand that her dressing is not appropriate
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your daughter does not understand your feelings.
usr : I think she does but is only being rebellious due to peer pressure. She is a good sensible girl.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had similar situations. I had to tell my son to dress appropriately too.
usr : Should I take her for counselling so that she can understand that she doesn't have to dress like her friends in order to be with them?
sys : (Question) Before you do that, d id you communicate with her directly and express your concerns?
usr : I have tried that before and have even asked her grandmother to have a chat with her.
sys : (Information) I totally understand how you feel. Take a deep breath and it can help you feel better.
usr : She doesn't have a mom figure in her life because her mom passed on when she was only three.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) So sorry to hear this. I do think professional counselling can help.
usr : Its been quite a challenge to play both mom and dad in her life. Sometimes I feel inadequate to deal with female issues.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) From our short conversation, I can feel the weights on your shoulder.
usr : It feels nice to know someone can understand me because I rarely talk about my feelings openly.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, you have done very well. Don't get discouraged.
usr : So do you suggest I seek professional help for her?
| (Providing Suggestions) Yes, please do. I also suggest youself watch some motivation videos online such as Jon Jandia's "life is easy". |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"I feel disgusted by the way my teenage daughter dresses up. She wears very tight and revealing clothing. I have tried before to talk to her about modesty but she continues to dress that way.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how is your feeling now?
usr : I feel very bad right now. I don't know how I should make my daughter understand that her dressing is not appropriate
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your daughter does not understand your feelings.
usr : I think she does but is only being rebellious due to peer pressure. She is a good sensible girl.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had similar situations. I had to tell my son to dress appropriately too.
usr : Should I take her for counselling so that she can understand that she doesn't have to dress like her friends in order to be with them?
sys : (Question) Before you do that, d id you communicate with her directly and express your concerns?
usr : I have tried that before and have even asked her grandmother to have a chat with her.
sys : (Information) I totally understand how you feel. Take a deep breath and it can help you feel better.
usr : She doesn't have a mom figure in her life because her mom passed on when she was only three.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) So sorry to hear this. I do think professional counselling can help.
usr : Its been quite a challenge to play both mom and dad in her life. Sometimes I feel inadequate to deal with female issues.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) From our short conversation, I can feel the weights on your shoulder.
usr : It feels nice to know someone can understand me because I rarely talk about my feelings openly.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, you have done very well. Don't get discouraged.
usr : So do you suggest I seek professional help for her?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes, please do. I also suggest youself watch some motivation videos online such as Jon Jandia's "life is easy".
| (Others) Life is easy. We made it too complicated. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"I feel disgusted by the way my teenage daughter dresses up. She wears very tight and revealing clothing. I have tried before to talk to her about modesty but she continues to dress that way.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how is your feeling now?
usr : I feel very bad right now. I don't know how I should make my daughter understand that her dressing is not appropriate
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your daughter does not understand your feelings.
usr : I think she does but is only being rebellious due to peer pressure. She is a good sensible girl.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had similar situations. I had to tell my son to dress appropriately too.
usr : Should I take her for counselling so that she can understand that she doesn't have to dress like her friends in order to be with them?
sys : (Question) Before you do that, d id you communicate with her directly and express your concerns?
usr : I have tried that before and have even asked her grandmother to have a chat with her.
sys : (Information) I totally understand how you feel. Take a deep breath and it can help you feel better.
usr : She doesn't have a mom figure in her life because her mom passed on when she was only three.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) So sorry to hear this. I do think professional counselling can help.
usr : Its been quite a challenge to play both mom and dad in her life. Sometimes I feel inadequate to deal with female issues.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) From our short conversation, I can feel the weights on your shoulder.
usr : It feels nice to know someone can understand me because I rarely talk about my feelings openly.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, you have done very well. Don't get discouraged.
usr : So do you suggest I seek professional help for her?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes, please do. I also suggest youself watch some motivation videos online such as Jon Jandia's "life is easy".
sys : (Others) Life is easy. We made it too complicated.
usr : I will take your suggestion. And do you think its a good idea to take her shopping and show her some of the outfits that I approve off?
| (Providing Suggestions) Yes, it is a good idea. Also tell her those clothes do not make her a different person. She can look at the mirror and she will see she is still the same no matter what clothes she wears. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"I feel disgusted by the way my teenage daughter dresses up. She wears very tight and revealing clothing. I have tried before to talk to her about modesty but she continues to dress that way.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how is your feeling now?
usr : I feel very bad right now. I don't know how I should make my daughter understand that her dressing is not appropriate
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your daughter does not understand your feelings.
usr : I think she does but is only being rebellious due to peer pressure. She is a good sensible girl.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had similar situations. I had to tell my son to dress appropriately too.
usr : Should I take her for counselling so that she can understand that she doesn't have to dress like her friends in order to be with them?
sys : (Question) Before you do that, d id you communicate with her directly and express your concerns?
usr : I have tried that before and have even asked her grandmother to have a chat with her.
sys : (Information) I totally understand how you feel. Take a deep breath and it can help you feel better.
usr : She doesn't have a mom figure in her life because her mom passed on when she was only three.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) So sorry to hear this. I do think professional counselling can help.
usr : Its been quite a challenge to play both mom and dad in her life. Sometimes I feel inadequate to deal with female issues.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) From our short conversation, I can feel the weights on your shoulder.
usr : It feels nice to know someone can understand me because I rarely talk about my feelings openly.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, you have done very well. Don't get discouraged.
usr : So do you suggest I seek professional help for her?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes, please do. I also suggest youself watch some motivation videos online such as Jon Jandia's "life is easy".
sys : (Others) Life is easy. We made it too complicated.
usr : I will take your suggestion. And do you think its a good idea to take her shopping and show her some of the outfits that I approve off?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes, it is a good idea. Also tell her those clothes do not make her a different person. She can look at the mirror and she will see she is still the same no matter what clothes she wears.
usr : Thank you so much for the encouragement.
| (Others) You are very welcome, good luck for everything. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"I feel disgusted by the way my teenage daughter dresses up. She wears very tight and revealing clothing. I have tried before to talk to her about modesty but she continues to dress that way.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how is your feeling now?
usr : I feel very bad right now. I don't know how I should make my daughter understand that her dressing is not appropriate
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your daughter does not understand your feelings.
usr : I think she does but is only being rebellious due to peer pressure. She is a good sensible girl.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had similar situations. I had to tell my son to dress appropriately too.
usr : Should I take her for counselling so that she can understand that she doesn't have to dress like her friends in order to be with them?
sys : (Question) Before you do that, d id you communicate with her directly and express your concerns?
usr : I have tried that before and have even asked her grandmother to have a chat with her.
sys : (Information) I totally understand how you feel. Take a deep breath and it can help you feel better.
usr : She doesn't have a mom figure in her life because her mom passed on when she was only three.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) So sorry to hear this. I do think professional counselling can help.
usr : Its been quite a challenge to play both mom and dad in her life. Sometimes I feel inadequate to deal with female issues.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) From our short conversation, I can feel the weights on your shoulder.
usr : It feels nice to know someone can understand me because I rarely talk about my feelings openly.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, you have done very well. Don't get discouraged.
usr : So do you suggest I seek professional help for her?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes, please do. I also suggest youself watch some motivation videos online such as Jon Jandia's "life is easy".
sys : (Others) Life is easy. We made it too complicated.
usr : I will take your suggestion. And do you think its a good idea to take her shopping and show her some of the outfits that I approve off?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes, it is a good idea. Also tell her those clothes do not make her a different person. She can look at the mirror and she will see she is still the same no matter what clothes she wears.
usr : Thank you so much for the encouragement.
sys : (Others) You are very welcome, good luck for everything.
usr : Bye.
| (Others) Take care, bye for now. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"One of my oldest friends is extremely insecure. She's been this way for a long time, but fear and immaturity have made it worse recently. It's become super frustrating to have to constantly reassure her that I love her, and she's really my friend, cause her insecurity makes her doubt anyone could love her. I'm anxious about it.". | usr : hi
| (Reflection of feelings) Hello! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"One of my oldest friends is extremely insecure. She's been this way for a long time, but fear and immaturity have made it worse recently. It's become super frustrating to have to constantly reassure her that I love her, and she's really my friend, cause her insecurity makes her doubt anyone could love her. I'm anxious about it.". | usr : hi
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Hello!
usr : I'm dealing with a lot of frustration and anxiety.
| (Question) How are you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"One of my oldest friends is extremely insecure. She's been this way for a long time, but fear and immaturity have made it worse recently. It's become super frustrating to have to constantly reassure her that I love her, and she's really my friend, cause her insecurity makes her doubt anyone could love her. I'm anxious about it.". | usr : hi
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Hello!
usr : I'm dealing with a lot of frustration and anxiety.
sys : (Question) How are you?
usr : Frustrated and anxious
| (Reflection of feelings) Oh I understand how that can be. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"One of my oldest friends is extremely insecure. She's been this way for a long time, but fear and immaturity have made it worse recently. It's become super frustrating to have to constantly reassure her that I love her, and she's really my friend, cause her insecurity makes her doubt anyone could love her. I'm anxious about it.". | usr : hi
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Hello!
usr : I'm dealing with a lot of frustration and anxiety.
sys : (Question) How are you?
usr : Frustrated and anxious
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh I understand how that can be.
| (Question) Would you like to tell me about it? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"One of my oldest friends is extremely insecure. She's been this way for a long time, but fear and immaturity have made it worse recently. It's become super frustrating to have to constantly reassure her that I love her, and she's really my friend, cause her insecurity makes her doubt anyone could love her. I'm anxious about it.". | usr : hi
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Hello!
usr : I'm dealing with a lot of frustration and anxiety.
sys : (Question) How are you?
usr : Frustrated and anxious
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh I understand how that can be.
sys : (Question) Would you like to tell me about it?
usr : Ok. I have a friend who I've known a long time, who is one of my closest friends, but who is extremely insecure. She constantly seeks affirmation that I love and care for her, even though she should KNOW I do, since we have been friends for so long.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can understand how that can become a source of frustration after a while. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"One of my oldest friends is extremely insecure. She's been this way for a long time, but fear and immaturity have made it worse recently. It's become super frustrating to have to constantly reassure her that I love her, and she's really my friend, cause her insecurity makes her doubt anyone could love her. I'm anxious about it.". | usr : hi
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Hello!
usr : I'm dealing with a lot of frustration and anxiety.
sys : (Question) How are you?
usr : Frustrated and anxious
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh I understand how that can be.
sys : (Question) Would you like to tell me about it?
usr : Ok. I have a friend who I've known a long time, who is one of my closest friends, but who is extremely insecure. She constantly seeks affirmation that I love and care for her, even though she should KNOW I do, since we have been friends for so long.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can understand how that can become a source of frustration after a while.
| (Question) Would you like to share what pushed it beyond the normal point today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"One of my oldest friends is extremely insecure. She's been this way for a long time, but fear and immaturity have made it worse recently. It's become super frustrating to have to constantly reassure her that I love her, and she's really my friend, cause her insecurity makes her doubt anyone could love her. I'm anxious about it.". | usr : hi
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Hello!
usr : I'm dealing with a lot of frustration and anxiety.
sys : (Question) How are you?
usr : Frustrated and anxious
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh I understand how that can be.
sys : (Question) Would you like to tell me about it?
usr : Ok. I have a friend who I've known a long time, who is one of my closest friends, but who is extremely insecure. She constantly seeks affirmation that I love and care for her, even though she should KNOW I do, since we have been friends for so long.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can understand how that can become a source of frustration after a while.
sys : (Question) Would you like to share what pushed it beyond the normal point today?
usr : It's just been an ongoing thing that has escalated recently because she's so afraid and timid and doesn't believe anyone could really love or care for her. I get sick of having to say that of course I love her.
| (Self-disclosure) I can relate because I also have a close friend that seeks constant reaffirmations. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"One of my oldest friends is extremely insecure. She's been this way for a long time, but fear and immaturity have made it worse recently. It's become super frustrating to have to constantly reassure her that I love her, and she's really my friend, cause her insecurity makes her doubt anyone could love her. I'm anxious about it.". | usr : hi
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Hello!
usr : I'm dealing with a lot of frustration and anxiety.
sys : (Question) How are you?
usr : Frustrated and anxious
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh I understand how that can be.
sys : (Question) Would you like to tell me about it?
usr : Ok. I have a friend who I've known a long time, who is one of my closest friends, but who is extremely insecure. She constantly seeks affirmation that I love and care for her, even though she should KNOW I do, since we have been friends for so long.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can understand how that can become a source of frustration after a while.
sys : (Question) Would you like to share what pushed it beyond the normal point today?
usr : It's just been an ongoing thing that has escalated recently because she's so afraid and timid and doesn't believe anyone could really love or care for her. I get sick of having to say that of course I love her.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can relate because I also have a close friend that seeks constant reaffirmations.
| (Question) Have you spoken with her about this? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"One of my oldest friends is extremely insecure. She's been this way for a long time, but fear and immaturity have made it worse recently. It's become super frustrating to have to constantly reassure her that I love her, and she's really my friend, cause her insecurity makes her doubt anyone could love her. I'm anxious about it.". | usr : hi
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Hello!
usr : I'm dealing with a lot of frustration and anxiety.
sys : (Question) How are you?
usr : Frustrated and anxious
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh I understand how that can be.
sys : (Question) Would you like to tell me about it?
usr : Ok. I have a friend who I've known a long time, who is one of my closest friends, but who is extremely insecure. She constantly seeks affirmation that I love and care for her, even though she should KNOW I do, since we have been friends for so long.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can understand how that can become a source of frustration after a while.
sys : (Question) Would you like to share what pushed it beyond the normal point today?
usr : It's just been an ongoing thing that has escalated recently because she's so afraid and timid and doesn't believe anyone could really love or care for her. I get sick of having to say that of course I love her.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can relate because I also have a close friend that seeks constant reaffirmations.
sys : (Question) Have you spoken with her about this?
usr : I have. I address it every time it comes up. She always sells herself short. Recently I suggested she could babysit my kids, she agreed, then almost immediately said it was ok if I had someone better in mind, and didn't want her, even though I had asked her!
usr : do you talk to your friend about it?
| (Information) Sometimes it is very difficult to see yourself through someone elses eyes when you undervalue yourself. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"One of my oldest friends is extremely insecure. She's been this way for a long time, but fear and immaturity have made it worse recently. It's become super frustrating to have to constantly reassure her that I love her, and she's really my friend, cause her insecurity makes her doubt anyone could love her. I'm anxious about it.". | usr : hi
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Hello!
usr : I'm dealing with a lot of frustration and anxiety.
sys : (Question) How are you?
usr : Frustrated and anxious
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh I understand how that can be.
sys : (Question) Would you like to tell me about it?
usr : Ok. I have a friend who I've known a long time, who is one of my closest friends, but who is extremely insecure. She constantly seeks affirmation that I love and care for her, even though she should KNOW I do, since we have been friends for so long.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can understand how that can become a source of frustration after a while.
sys : (Question) Would you like to share what pushed it beyond the normal point today?
usr : It's just been an ongoing thing that has escalated recently because she's so afraid and timid and doesn't believe anyone could really love or care for her. I get sick of having to say that of course I love her.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can relate because I also have a close friend that seeks constant reaffirmations.
sys : (Question) Have you spoken with her about this?
usr : I have. I address it every time it comes up. She always sells herself short. Recently I suggested she could babysit my kids, she agreed, then almost immediately said it was ok if I had someone better in mind, and didn't want her, even though I had asked her!
usr : do you talk to your friend about it?
sys : (Information) Sometimes it is very difficult to see yourself through someone elses eyes when you undervalue yourself.
| (Providing Suggestions) I know it may be difficult to remain patient when your friend repeatedly does this, but maybe you could explain to her that it makes you feel like she is mistrustful of your opinion when she second guesses your taste in friends. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"One of my oldest friends is extremely insecure. She's been this way for a long time, but fear and immaturity have made it worse recently. It's become super frustrating to have to constantly reassure her that I love her, and she's really my friend, cause her insecurity makes her doubt anyone could love her. I'm anxious about it.". | usr : hi
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Hello!
usr : I'm dealing with a lot of frustration and anxiety.
sys : (Question) How are you?
usr : Frustrated and anxious
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh I understand how that can be.
sys : (Question) Would you like to tell me about it?
usr : Ok. I have a friend who I've known a long time, who is one of my closest friends, but who is extremely insecure. She constantly seeks affirmation that I love and care for her, even though she should KNOW I do, since we have been friends for so long.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can understand how that can become a source of frustration after a while.
sys : (Question) Would you like to share what pushed it beyond the normal point today?
usr : It's just been an ongoing thing that has escalated recently because she's so afraid and timid and doesn't believe anyone could really love or care for her. I get sick of having to say that of course I love her.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can relate because I also have a close friend that seeks constant reaffirmations.
sys : (Question) Have you spoken with her about this?
usr : I have. I address it every time it comes up. She always sells herself short. Recently I suggested she could babysit my kids, she agreed, then almost immediately said it was ok if I had someone better in mind, and didn't want her, even though I had asked her!
usr : do you talk to your friend about it?
sys : (Information) Sometimes it is very difficult to see yourself through someone elses eyes when you undervalue yourself.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I know it may be difficult to remain patient when your friend repeatedly does this, but maybe you could explain to her that it makes you feel like she is mistrustful of your opinion when she second guesses your taste in friends.
usr : Yes, I know. Until she finds her self worth, it doesn't matter what any of her friends say to her.
usr : I have actually told her that. That it seems like she doesn't trust me.
| (Others) Possibly explaining it in a way she can relate to would be helpful. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"One of my oldest friends is extremely insecure. She's been this way for a long time, but fear and immaturity have made it worse recently. It's become super frustrating to have to constantly reassure her that I love her, and she's really my friend, cause her insecurity makes her doubt anyone could love her. I'm anxious about it.". | usr : hi
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Hello!
usr : I'm dealing with a lot of frustration and anxiety.
sys : (Question) How are you?
usr : Frustrated and anxious
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh I understand how that can be.
sys : (Question) Would you like to tell me about it?
usr : Ok. I have a friend who I've known a long time, who is one of my closest friends, but who is extremely insecure. She constantly seeks affirmation that I love and care for her, even though she should KNOW I do, since we have been friends for so long.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can understand how that can become a source of frustration after a while.
sys : (Question) Would you like to share what pushed it beyond the normal point today?
usr : It's just been an ongoing thing that has escalated recently because she's so afraid and timid and doesn't believe anyone could really love or care for her. I get sick of having to say that of course I love her.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can relate because I also have a close friend that seeks constant reaffirmations.
sys : (Question) Have you spoken with her about this?
usr : I have. I address it every time it comes up. She always sells herself short. Recently I suggested she could babysit my kids, she agreed, then almost immediately said it was ok if I had someone better in mind, and didn't want her, even though I had asked her!
usr : do you talk to your friend about it?
sys : (Information) Sometimes it is very difficult to see yourself through someone elses eyes when you undervalue yourself.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I know it may be difficult to remain patient when your friend repeatedly does this, but maybe you could explain to her that it makes you feel like she is mistrustful of your opinion when she second guesses your taste in friends.
usr : Yes, I know. Until she finds her self worth, it doesn't matter what any of her friends say to her.
usr : I have actually told her that. That it seems like she doesn't trust me.
sys : (Others) Possibly explaining it in a way she can relate to would be helpful.
| (Self-disclosure) I did in fact speak with my friend and it helped our relationship quite a bit. We continue to be very close 20 years later. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"One of my oldest friends is extremely insecure. She's been this way for a long time, but fear and immaturity have made it worse recently. It's become super frustrating to have to constantly reassure her that I love her, and she's really my friend, cause her insecurity makes her doubt anyone could love her. I'm anxious about it.". | usr : hi
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Hello!
usr : I'm dealing with a lot of frustration and anxiety.
sys : (Question) How are you?
usr : Frustrated and anxious
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh I understand how that can be.
sys : (Question) Would you like to tell me about it?
usr : Ok. I have a friend who I've known a long time, who is one of my closest friends, but who is extremely insecure. She constantly seeks affirmation that I love and care for her, even though she should KNOW I do, since we have been friends for so long.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can understand how that can become a source of frustration after a while.
sys : (Question) Would you like to share what pushed it beyond the normal point today?
usr : It's just been an ongoing thing that has escalated recently because she's so afraid and timid and doesn't believe anyone could really love or care for her. I get sick of having to say that of course I love her.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can relate because I also have a close friend that seeks constant reaffirmations.
sys : (Question) Have you spoken with her about this?
usr : I have. I address it every time it comes up. She always sells herself short. Recently I suggested she could babysit my kids, she agreed, then almost immediately said it was ok if I had someone better in mind, and didn't want her, even though I had asked her!
usr : do you talk to your friend about it?
sys : (Information) Sometimes it is very difficult to see yourself through someone elses eyes when you undervalue yourself.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I know it may be difficult to remain patient when your friend repeatedly does this, but maybe you could explain to her that it makes you feel like she is mistrustful of your opinion when she second guesses your taste in friends.
usr : Yes, I know. Until she finds her self worth, it doesn't matter what any of her friends say to her.
usr : I have actually told her that. That it seems like she doesn't trust me.
sys : (Others) Possibly explaining it in a way she can relate to would be helpful.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I did in fact speak with my friend and it helped our relationship quite a bit. We continue to be very close 20 years later.
usr : It's frustrating to me and gives me anxiety because I wish I could change her to see herself the way I, and others, do. But I know I can't make her see her self worth. That's something she has to find for herself.
usr : That's good to hear about you and your friend.
| (Reflection of feelings) I can feel your frustration just by our conversation, and I too wish that she could see that you value both her and your friendship enough to reach out to someone that can just listen. Don't forget that your feelings are valid as well. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"One of my oldest friends is extremely insecure. She's been this way for a long time, but fear and immaturity have made it worse recently. It's become super frustrating to have to constantly reassure her that I love her, and she's really my friend, cause her insecurity makes her doubt anyone could love her. I'm anxious about it.". | usr : hi
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Hello!
usr : I'm dealing with a lot of frustration and anxiety.
sys : (Question) How are you?
usr : Frustrated and anxious
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh I understand how that can be.
sys : (Question) Would you like to tell me about it?
usr : Ok. I have a friend who I've known a long time, who is one of my closest friends, but who is extremely insecure. She constantly seeks affirmation that I love and care for her, even though she should KNOW I do, since we have been friends for so long.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can understand how that can become a source of frustration after a while.
sys : (Question) Would you like to share what pushed it beyond the normal point today?
usr : It's just been an ongoing thing that has escalated recently because she's so afraid and timid and doesn't believe anyone could really love or care for her. I get sick of having to say that of course I love her.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can relate because I also have a close friend that seeks constant reaffirmations.
sys : (Question) Have you spoken with her about this?
usr : I have. I address it every time it comes up. She always sells herself short. Recently I suggested she could babysit my kids, she agreed, then almost immediately said it was ok if I had someone better in mind, and didn't want her, even though I had asked her!
usr : do you talk to your friend about it?
sys : (Information) Sometimes it is very difficult to see yourself through someone elses eyes when you undervalue yourself.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I know it may be difficult to remain patient when your friend repeatedly does this, but maybe you could explain to her that it makes you feel like she is mistrustful of your opinion when she second guesses your taste in friends.
usr : Yes, I know. Until she finds her self worth, it doesn't matter what any of her friends say to her.
usr : I have actually told her that. That it seems like she doesn't trust me.
sys : (Others) Possibly explaining it in a way she can relate to would be helpful.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I did in fact speak with my friend and it helped our relationship quite a bit. We continue to be very close 20 years later.
usr : It's frustrating to me and gives me anxiety because I wish I could change her to see herself the way I, and others, do. But I know I can't make her see her self worth. That's something she has to find for herself.
usr : That's good to hear about you and your friend.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can feel your frustration just by our conversation, and I too wish that she could see that you value both her and your friendship enough to reach out to someone that can just listen. Don't forget that your feelings are valid as well.
usr : I know they are. And yes, she's dealing with a lot, but we all are, and it would be so much better for her if she could trust the people who love her to actually love her.
| (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes you have to take a step back and fill your own cup. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"One of my oldest friends is extremely insecure. She's been this way for a long time, but fear and immaturity have made it worse recently. It's become super frustrating to have to constantly reassure her that I love her, and she's really my friend, cause her insecurity makes her doubt anyone could love her. I'm anxious about it.". | usr : hi
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Hello!
usr : I'm dealing with a lot of frustration and anxiety.
sys : (Question) How are you?
usr : Frustrated and anxious
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh I understand how that can be.
sys : (Question) Would you like to tell me about it?
usr : Ok. I have a friend who I've known a long time, who is one of my closest friends, but who is extremely insecure. She constantly seeks affirmation that I love and care for her, even though she should KNOW I do, since we have been friends for so long.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can understand how that can become a source of frustration after a while.
sys : (Question) Would you like to share what pushed it beyond the normal point today?
usr : It's just been an ongoing thing that has escalated recently because she's so afraid and timid and doesn't believe anyone could really love or care for her. I get sick of having to say that of course I love her.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can relate because I also have a close friend that seeks constant reaffirmations.
sys : (Question) Have you spoken with her about this?
usr : I have. I address it every time it comes up. She always sells herself short. Recently I suggested she could babysit my kids, she agreed, then almost immediately said it was ok if I had someone better in mind, and didn't want her, even though I had asked her!
usr : do you talk to your friend about it?
sys : (Information) Sometimes it is very difficult to see yourself through someone elses eyes when you undervalue yourself.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I know it may be difficult to remain patient when your friend repeatedly does this, but maybe you could explain to her that it makes you feel like she is mistrustful of your opinion when she second guesses your taste in friends.
usr : Yes, I know. Until she finds her self worth, it doesn't matter what any of her friends say to her.
usr : I have actually told her that. That it seems like she doesn't trust me.
sys : (Others) Possibly explaining it in a way she can relate to would be helpful.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I did in fact speak with my friend and it helped our relationship quite a bit. We continue to be very close 20 years later.
usr : It's frustrating to me and gives me anxiety because I wish I could change her to see herself the way I, and others, do. But I know I can't make her see her self worth. That's something she has to find for herself.
usr : That's good to hear about you and your friend.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can feel your frustration just by our conversation, and I too wish that she could see that you value both her and your friendship enough to reach out to someone that can just listen. Don't forget that your feelings are valid as well.
usr : I know they are. And yes, she's dealing with a lot, but we all are, and it would be so much better for her if she could trust the people who love her to actually love her.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes you have to take a step back and fill your own cup.
usr : Indeed. Thank you for your input.
| (Question) Do you think a break would help you feel better able to deal with the demands of her friendship? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"One of my oldest friends is extremely insecure. She's been this way for a long time, but fear and immaturity have made it worse recently. It's become super frustrating to have to constantly reassure her that I love her, and she's really my friend, cause her insecurity makes her doubt anyone could love her. I'm anxious about it.". | usr : hi
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Hello!
usr : I'm dealing with a lot of frustration and anxiety.
sys : (Question) How are you?
usr : Frustrated and anxious
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh I understand how that can be.
sys : (Question) Would you like to tell me about it?
usr : Ok. I have a friend who I've known a long time, who is one of my closest friends, but who is extremely insecure. She constantly seeks affirmation that I love and care for her, even though she should KNOW I do, since we have been friends for so long.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can understand how that can become a source of frustration after a while.
sys : (Question) Would you like to share what pushed it beyond the normal point today?
usr : It's just been an ongoing thing that has escalated recently because she's so afraid and timid and doesn't believe anyone could really love or care for her. I get sick of having to say that of course I love her.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can relate because I also have a close friend that seeks constant reaffirmations.
sys : (Question) Have you spoken with her about this?
usr : I have. I address it every time it comes up. She always sells herself short. Recently I suggested she could babysit my kids, she agreed, then almost immediately said it was ok if I had someone better in mind, and didn't want her, even though I had asked her!
usr : do you talk to your friend about it?
sys : (Information) Sometimes it is very difficult to see yourself through someone elses eyes when you undervalue yourself.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I know it may be difficult to remain patient when your friend repeatedly does this, but maybe you could explain to her that it makes you feel like she is mistrustful of your opinion when she second guesses your taste in friends.
usr : Yes, I know. Until she finds her self worth, it doesn't matter what any of her friends say to her.
usr : I have actually told her that. That it seems like she doesn't trust me.
sys : (Others) Possibly explaining it in a way she can relate to would be helpful.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I did in fact speak with my friend and it helped our relationship quite a bit. We continue to be very close 20 years later.
usr : It's frustrating to me and gives me anxiety because I wish I could change her to see herself the way I, and others, do. But I know I can't make her see her self worth. That's something she has to find for herself.
usr : That's good to hear about you and your friend.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can feel your frustration just by our conversation, and I too wish that she could see that you value both her and your friendship enough to reach out to someone that can just listen. Don't forget that your feelings are valid as well.
usr : I know they are. And yes, she's dealing with a lot, but we all are, and it would be so much better for her if she could trust the people who love her to actually love her.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes you have to take a step back and fill your own cup.
usr : Indeed. Thank you for your input.
sys : (Question) Do you think a break would help you feel better able to deal with the demands of her friendship?
| (Question) Do you think a break would help you feel better able to deal with the demands of her friendship? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"One of my oldest friends is extremely insecure. She's been this way for a long time, but fear and immaturity have made it worse recently. It's become super frustrating to have to constantly reassure her that I love her, and she's really my friend, cause her insecurity makes her doubt anyone could love her. I'm anxious about it.". | usr : hi
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Hello!
usr : I'm dealing with a lot of frustration and anxiety.
sys : (Question) How are you?
usr : Frustrated and anxious
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh I understand how that can be.
sys : (Question) Would you like to tell me about it?
usr : Ok. I have a friend who I've known a long time, who is one of my closest friends, but who is extremely insecure. She constantly seeks affirmation that I love and care for her, even though she should KNOW I do, since we have been friends for so long.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can understand how that can become a source of frustration after a while.
sys : (Question) Would you like to share what pushed it beyond the normal point today?
usr : It's just been an ongoing thing that has escalated recently because she's so afraid and timid and doesn't believe anyone could really love or care for her. I get sick of having to say that of course I love her.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can relate because I also have a close friend that seeks constant reaffirmations.
sys : (Question) Have you spoken with her about this?
usr : I have. I address it every time it comes up. She always sells herself short. Recently I suggested she could babysit my kids, she agreed, then almost immediately said it was ok if I had someone better in mind, and didn't want her, even though I had asked her!
usr : do you talk to your friend about it?
sys : (Information) Sometimes it is very difficult to see yourself through someone elses eyes when you undervalue yourself.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I know it may be difficult to remain patient when your friend repeatedly does this, but maybe you could explain to her that it makes you feel like she is mistrustful of your opinion when she second guesses your taste in friends.
usr : Yes, I know. Until she finds her self worth, it doesn't matter what any of her friends say to her.
usr : I have actually told her that. That it seems like she doesn't trust me.
sys : (Others) Possibly explaining it in a way she can relate to would be helpful.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I did in fact speak with my friend and it helped our relationship quite a bit. We continue to be very close 20 years later.
usr : It's frustrating to me and gives me anxiety because I wish I could change her to see herself the way I, and others, do. But I know I can't make her see her self worth. That's something she has to find for herself.
usr : That's good to hear about you and your friend.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can feel your frustration just by our conversation, and I too wish that she could see that you value both her and your friendship enough to reach out to someone that can just listen. Don't forget that your feelings are valid as well.
usr : I know they are. And yes, she's dealing with a lot, but we all are, and it would be so much better for her if she could trust the people who love her to actually love her.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes you have to take a step back and fill your own cup.
usr : Indeed. Thank you for your input.
sys : (Question) Do you think a break would help you feel better able to deal with the demands of her friendship?
sys : (Question) Do you think a break would help you feel better able to deal with the demands of her friendship?
| (Others) It has been my pleasure! I trust you will make the right choice! Best of wishes! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am depressed and always angry. I lose my temper and say racist things to people, and am miserable to be around. I got mad at my father inlaw for talking badly about President Trump on Thanksgiving, and I called everyone "a bunch of nigger lovers" and stormed out of the house. Been angry ever since.". | usr : I am always angry at myself and others. I lose my temper constantly and say very racist things.
usr : I need help with my anger. I am upset that the Presidential election is being stolen from President Trump. I say racist things about it, and punch myself in the head or bang my head into the wall when people disagree with me.
| (Question) Where does your anger stem from ? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am depressed and always angry. I lose my temper and say racist things to people, and am miserable to be around. I got mad at my father inlaw for talking badly about President Trump on Thanksgiving, and I called everyone "a bunch of nigger lovers" and stormed out of the house. Been angry ever since.". | usr : I am always angry at myself and others. I lose my temper constantly and say very racist things.
usr : I need help with my anger. I am upset that the Presidential election is being stolen from President Trump. I say racist things about it, and punch myself in the head or bang my head into the wall when people disagree with me.
sys : (Question) Where does your anger stem from ?
usr : I think it is because people disagree with my politics.
usr : I am sick of being discriminated against because of my skin color.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Its ok to disagree with people about topics but you need to figure out why it triggers so much anger which turns to hate |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am depressed and always angry. I lose my temper and say racist things to people, and am miserable to be around. I got mad at my father inlaw for talking badly about President Trump on Thanksgiving, and I called everyone "a bunch of nigger lovers" and stormed out of the house. Been angry ever since.". | usr : I am always angry at myself and others. I lose my temper constantly and say very racist things.
usr : I need help with my anger. I am upset that the Presidential election is being stolen from President Trump. I say racist things about it, and punch myself in the head or bang my head into the wall when people disagree with me.
sys : (Question) Where does your anger stem from ?
usr : I think it is because people disagree with my politics.
usr : I am sick of being discriminated against because of my skin color.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Its ok to disagree with people about topics but you need to figure out why it triggers so much anger which turns to hate
usr : Half my family is Puerto Rican, I am White. All the Puerto Rican family members consider themselves to be allies of the blacks, I do not. I have been repeatedly victimized by black people,
| (Question) How have you been victimized by black people? When those events happen how did that make you feel |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I've always struggled with depression. I just feel hopeless.". | usr : Hello
| (Question) Hi there, how are you today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I've always struggled with depression. I just feel hopeless.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you today?
usr : I'm a bit bad honestly.
| (Question) Can you tell me what's going on to cause you to feel this way? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I've always struggled with depression. I just feel hopeless.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you today?
usr : I'm a bit bad honestly.
sys : (Question) Can you tell me what's going on to cause you to feel this way?
usr : I've been struggling with depression for a while. It's hard to deal with. I feel hopeless.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. I definitely understand how long bouts of depression can make you feel more hopeless. Have you discussed your depression with anyone else before? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I've always struggled with depression. I just feel hopeless.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you today?
usr : I'm a bit bad honestly.
sys : (Question) Can you tell me what's going on to cause you to feel this way?
usr : I've been struggling with depression for a while. It's hard to deal with. I feel hopeless.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. I definitely understand how long bouts of depression can make you feel more hopeless. Have you discussed your depression with anyone else before?
usr : I've spoken to a therapist but it didn't help. I tried a help hotline online but they thought I was suicidal so they called the cops to check on me .. never doing that again lol.
usr : I don't know what to do
| (Question) Yeah, it sounds like you aren't suicidal. Though I do have to check; have you had any thoughts or tendencies of suicide or self-harm? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I've always struggled with depression. I just feel hopeless.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you today?
usr : I'm a bit bad honestly.
sys : (Question) Can you tell me what's going on to cause you to feel this way?
usr : I've been struggling with depression for a while. It's hard to deal with. I feel hopeless.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. I definitely understand how long bouts of depression can make you feel more hopeless. Have you discussed your depression with anyone else before?
usr : I've spoken to a therapist but it didn't help. I tried a help hotline online but they thought I was suicidal so they called the cops to check on me .. never doing that again lol.
usr : I don't know what to do
sys : (Question) Yeah, it sounds like you aren't suicidal. Though I do have to check; have you had any thoughts or tendencies of suicide or self-harm?
usr : I have in the past. Recently, no.
usr : I just feel like I'll never be happy.
| (Question) I understand. Can you provide any more information about your meeting with the therapist? You said talking to one didn't help, do you know why? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I've always struggled with depression. I just feel hopeless.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you today?
usr : I'm a bit bad honestly.
sys : (Question) Can you tell me what's going on to cause you to feel this way?
usr : I've been struggling with depression for a while. It's hard to deal with. I feel hopeless.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. I definitely understand how long bouts of depression can make you feel more hopeless. Have you discussed your depression with anyone else before?
usr : I've spoken to a therapist but it didn't help. I tried a help hotline online but they thought I was suicidal so they called the cops to check on me .. never doing that again lol.
usr : I don't know what to do
sys : (Question) Yeah, it sounds like you aren't suicidal. Though I do have to check; have you had any thoughts or tendencies of suicide or self-harm?
usr : I have in the past. Recently, no.
usr : I just feel like I'll never be happy.
sys : (Question) I understand. Can you provide any more information about your meeting with the therapist? You said talking to one didn't help, do you know why?
usr : I think it didn't help because I'm a bit shy. Or because I didn't know where to start. It's hard to know what to talk about.
usr : I guess it also didn't help because she seemed like she was just reading a script. She wasn't the greatest at making me feel cared about
usr : You're doing pretty good though haha
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That makes sense and is completely natural. It's difficult sometimes to open up to a stranger that you don't completely know or might not trust. It definitely sounds frustrating that she seemed like she was reading from a script. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I've always struggled with depression. I just feel hopeless.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you today?
usr : I'm a bit bad honestly.
sys : (Question) Can you tell me what's going on to cause you to feel this way?
usr : I've been struggling with depression for a while. It's hard to deal with. I feel hopeless.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. I definitely understand how long bouts of depression can make you feel more hopeless. Have you discussed your depression with anyone else before?
usr : I've spoken to a therapist but it didn't help. I tried a help hotline online but they thought I was suicidal so they called the cops to check on me .. never doing that again lol.
usr : I don't know what to do
sys : (Question) Yeah, it sounds like you aren't suicidal. Though I do have to check; have you had any thoughts or tendencies of suicide or self-harm?
usr : I have in the past. Recently, no.
usr : I just feel like I'll never be happy.
sys : (Question) I understand. Can you provide any more information about your meeting with the therapist? You said talking to one didn't help, do you know why?
usr : I think it didn't help because I'm a bit shy. Or because I didn't know where to start. It's hard to know what to talk about.
usr : I guess it also didn't help because she seemed like she was just reading a script. She wasn't the greatest at making me feel cared about
usr : You're doing pretty good though haha
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That makes sense and is completely natural. It's difficult sometimes to open up to a stranger that you don't completely know or might not trust. It definitely sounds frustrating that she seemed like she was reading from a script.
| (Others) And I'm glad to hear you think I'm doing alright lol |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I've always struggled with depression. I just feel hopeless.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you today?
usr : I'm a bit bad honestly.
sys : (Question) Can you tell me what's going on to cause you to feel this way?
usr : I've been struggling with depression for a while. It's hard to deal with. I feel hopeless.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. I definitely understand how long bouts of depression can make you feel more hopeless. Have you discussed your depression with anyone else before?
usr : I've spoken to a therapist but it didn't help. I tried a help hotline online but they thought I was suicidal so they called the cops to check on me .. never doing that again lol.
usr : I don't know what to do
sys : (Question) Yeah, it sounds like you aren't suicidal. Though I do have to check; have you had any thoughts or tendencies of suicide or self-harm?
usr : I have in the past. Recently, no.
usr : I just feel like I'll never be happy.
sys : (Question) I understand. Can you provide any more information about your meeting with the therapist? You said talking to one didn't help, do you know why?
usr : I think it didn't help because I'm a bit shy. Or because I didn't know where to start. It's hard to know what to talk about.
usr : I guess it also didn't help because she seemed like she was just reading a script. She wasn't the greatest at making me feel cared about
usr : You're doing pretty good though haha
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That makes sense and is completely natural. It's difficult sometimes to open up to a stranger that you don't completely know or might not trust. It definitely sounds frustrating that she seemed like she was reading from a script.
sys : (Others) And I'm glad to hear you think I'm doing alright lol
usr : I think therapy could work. Actually something happened with my therapist (maybe fired lol) and she's no longer my therapist.. so I need a new one.
| (Providing Suggestions) That's interesting. I know from experience that finding a good therapist is all about trial and error, unfortunately. It's important to find the right fit and I would definitely suggest looking for a new one. Do you know of anyone in your life, maybe a friend or family member, that has been to therapy that you would be comfortable getting a recommendation from? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I've always struggled with depression. I just feel hopeless.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you today?
usr : I'm a bit bad honestly.
sys : (Question) Can you tell me what's going on to cause you to feel this way?
usr : I've been struggling with depression for a while. It's hard to deal with. I feel hopeless.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. I definitely understand how long bouts of depression can make you feel more hopeless. Have you discussed your depression with anyone else before?
usr : I've spoken to a therapist but it didn't help. I tried a help hotline online but they thought I was suicidal so they called the cops to check on me .. never doing that again lol.
usr : I don't know what to do
sys : (Question) Yeah, it sounds like you aren't suicidal. Though I do have to check; have you had any thoughts or tendencies of suicide or self-harm?
usr : I have in the past. Recently, no.
usr : I just feel like I'll never be happy.
sys : (Question) I understand. Can you provide any more information about your meeting with the therapist? You said talking to one didn't help, do you know why?
usr : I think it didn't help because I'm a bit shy. Or because I didn't know where to start. It's hard to know what to talk about.
usr : I guess it also didn't help because she seemed like she was just reading a script. She wasn't the greatest at making me feel cared about
usr : You're doing pretty good though haha
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That makes sense and is completely natural. It's difficult sometimes to open up to a stranger that you don't completely know or might not trust. It definitely sounds frustrating that she seemed like she was reading from a script.
sys : (Others) And I'm glad to hear you think I'm doing alright lol
usr : I think therapy could work. Actually something happened with my therapist (maybe fired lol) and she's no longer my therapist.. so I need a new one.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That's interesting. I know from experience that finding a good therapist is all about trial and error, unfortunately. It's important to find the right fit and I would definitely suggest looking for a new one. Do you know of anyone in your life, maybe a friend or family member, that has been to therapy that you would be comfortable getting a recommendation from?
usr : I think my closest friend has been to therapy. I could always ask her for a recommendation.
| (Information) That sounds like a great idea! Remember to keep your friends close too. I know it can be tough when you feel as low as this, but it's important to have a good support system in addition to any therapy you might be receiving. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I've always struggled with depression. I just feel hopeless.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you today?
usr : I'm a bit bad honestly.
sys : (Question) Can you tell me what's going on to cause you to feel this way?
usr : I've been struggling with depression for a while. It's hard to deal with. I feel hopeless.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. I definitely understand how long bouts of depression can make you feel more hopeless. Have you discussed your depression with anyone else before?
usr : I've spoken to a therapist but it didn't help. I tried a help hotline online but they thought I was suicidal so they called the cops to check on me .. never doing that again lol.
usr : I don't know what to do
sys : (Question) Yeah, it sounds like you aren't suicidal. Though I do have to check; have you had any thoughts or tendencies of suicide or self-harm?
usr : I have in the past. Recently, no.
usr : I just feel like I'll never be happy.
sys : (Question) I understand. Can you provide any more information about your meeting with the therapist? You said talking to one didn't help, do you know why?
usr : I think it didn't help because I'm a bit shy. Or because I didn't know where to start. It's hard to know what to talk about.
usr : I guess it also didn't help because she seemed like she was just reading a script. She wasn't the greatest at making me feel cared about
usr : You're doing pretty good though haha
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That makes sense and is completely natural. It's difficult sometimes to open up to a stranger that you don't completely know or might not trust. It definitely sounds frustrating that she seemed like she was reading from a script.
sys : (Others) And I'm glad to hear you think I'm doing alright lol
usr : I think therapy could work. Actually something happened with my therapist (maybe fired lol) and she's no longer my therapist.. so I need a new one.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That's interesting. I know from experience that finding a good therapist is all about trial and error, unfortunately. It's important to find the right fit and I would definitely suggest looking for a new one. Do you know of anyone in your life, maybe a friend or family member, that has been to therapy that you would be comfortable getting a recommendation from?
usr : I think my closest friend has been to therapy. I could always ask her for a recommendation.
sys : (Information) That sounds like a great idea! Remember to keep your friends close too. I know it can be tough when you feel as low as this, but it's important to have a good support system in addition to any therapy you might be receiving.
usr : My friends and I look out for eachother. I think they're a good help :)
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's great to hear! It really sounds like you can go to them for support and often being there for someone else can make us feel better too. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"covid". | (Providing Suggestions) hey How are you today | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"covid". | sys : (Providing Suggestions) hey How are you today
usr : hi, im ok. how are you?
usr : covid has be depressed
| (Providing Suggestions) Im doing okay , just hanging out and ah i feel that its tough times for alot of people right now |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"covid". | sys : (Providing Suggestions) hey How are you today
usr : hi, im ok. how are you?
usr : covid has be depressed
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Im doing okay , just hanging out and ah i feel that its tough times for alot of people right now
| (Others) whats been bothering you? |
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