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### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"covid". | sys : (Providing Suggestions) hey How are you today
usr : hi, im ok. how are you?
usr : covid has be depressed
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Im doing okay , just hanging out and ah i feel that its tough times for alot of people right now
sys : (Others) whats been bothering you?
usr : extremely tough times.
usr : the fear of the unkown, is whats so depressing
usr : and not being able to be in control, just cautious
| (Others) ah i get it, its really weird but tough times, i recently lost my job because of this second wave its hard and ah yes wondering and worrying makes it hard |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"covid". | sys : (Providing Suggestions) hey How are you today
usr : hi, im ok. how are you?
usr : covid has be depressed
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Im doing okay , just hanging out and ah i feel that its tough times for alot of people right now
sys : (Others) whats been bothering you?
usr : extremely tough times.
usr : the fear of the unkown, is whats so depressing
usr : and not being able to be in control, just cautious
sys : (Others) ah i get it, its really weird but tough times, i recently lost my job because of this second wave its hard and ah yes wondering and worrying makes it hard
| (Others) have you tried to practice any mindfulness ? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"covid". | sys : (Providing Suggestions) hey How are you today
usr : hi, im ok. how are you?
usr : covid has be depressed
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Im doing okay , just hanging out and ah i feel that its tough times for alot of people right now
sys : (Others) whats been bothering you?
usr : extremely tough times.
usr : the fear of the unkown, is whats so depressing
usr : and not being able to be in control, just cautious
sys : (Others) ah i get it, its really weird but tough times, i recently lost my job because of this second wave its hard and ah yes wondering and worrying makes it hard
sys : (Others) have you tried to practice any mindfulness ?
usr : sorry to hear this. we have never experienced this before. all of this is new.
| (Providing Suggestions) i get it, its hard to relax and get away from it. i been trying to keep busy and stay away from the news as much as can |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"covid". | sys : (Providing Suggestions) hey How are you today
usr : hi, im ok. how are you?
usr : covid has be depressed
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Im doing okay , just hanging out and ah i feel that its tough times for alot of people right now
sys : (Others) whats been bothering you?
usr : extremely tough times.
usr : the fear of the unkown, is whats so depressing
usr : and not being able to be in control, just cautious
sys : (Others) ah i get it, its really weird but tough times, i recently lost my job because of this second wave its hard and ah yes wondering and worrying makes it hard
sys : (Others) have you tried to practice any mindfulness ?
usr : sorry to hear this. we have never experienced this before. all of this is new.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i get it, its hard to relax and get away from it. i been trying to keep busy and stay away from the news as much as can
| (Information) yes its very weird. got to stay strong! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"covid". | sys : (Providing Suggestions) hey How are you today
usr : hi, im ok. how are you?
usr : covid has be depressed
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Im doing okay , just hanging out and ah i feel that its tough times for alot of people right now
sys : (Others) whats been bothering you?
usr : extremely tough times.
usr : the fear of the unkown, is whats so depressing
usr : and not being able to be in control, just cautious
sys : (Others) ah i get it, its really weird but tough times, i recently lost my job because of this second wave its hard and ah yes wondering and worrying makes it hard
sys : (Others) have you tried to practice any mindfulness ?
usr : sorry to hear this. we have never experienced this before. all of this is new.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i get it, its hard to relax and get away from it. i been trying to keep busy and stay away from the news as much as can
sys : (Information) yes its very weird. got to stay strong!
usr : yes, maybe that's what i need to do, stay away from the news. because the news is so depressing.
| (Information) it will end one day and well be relieved |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"covid". | sys : (Providing Suggestions) hey How are you today
usr : hi, im ok. how are you?
usr : covid has be depressed
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Im doing okay , just hanging out and ah i feel that its tough times for alot of people right now
sys : (Others) whats been bothering you?
usr : extremely tough times.
usr : the fear of the unkown, is whats so depressing
usr : and not being able to be in control, just cautious
sys : (Others) ah i get it, its really weird but tough times, i recently lost my job because of this second wave its hard and ah yes wondering and worrying makes it hard
sys : (Others) have you tried to practice any mindfulness ?
usr : sorry to hear this. we have never experienced this before. all of this is new.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i get it, its hard to relax and get away from it. i been trying to keep busy and stay away from the news as much as can
sys : (Information) yes its very weird. got to stay strong!
usr : yes, maybe that's what i need to do, stay away from the news. because the news is so depressing.
sys : (Information) it will end one day and well be relieved
| (Providing Suggestions) yea try to fill yourself with positive news or watch a movie read a book stay off social media abit helps me |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"covid". | sys : (Providing Suggestions) hey How are you today
usr : hi, im ok. how are you?
usr : covid has be depressed
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Im doing okay , just hanging out and ah i feel that its tough times for alot of people right now
sys : (Others) whats been bothering you?
usr : extremely tough times.
usr : the fear of the unkown, is whats so depressing
usr : and not being able to be in control, just cautious
sys : (Others) ah i get it, its really weird but tough times, i recently lost my job because of this second wave its hard and ah yes wondering and worrying makes it hard
sys : (Others) have you tried to practice any mindfulness ?
usr : sorry to hear this. we have never experienced this before. all of this is new.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i get it, its hard to relax and get away from it. i been trying to keep busy and stay away from the news as much as can
sys : (Information) yes its very weird. got to stay strong!
usr : yes, maybe that's what i need to do, stay away from the news. because the news is so depressing.
sys : (Information) it will end one day and well be relieved
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yea try to fill yourself with positive news or watch a movie read a book stay off social media abit helps me
| (Self-disclosure) music helps me alot |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"covid". | sys : (Providing Suggestions) hey How are you today
usr : hi, im ok. how are you?
usr : covid has be depressed
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Im doing okay , just hanging out and ah i feel that its tough times for alot of people right now
sys : (Others) whats been bothering you?
usr : extremely tough times.
usr : the fear of the unkown, is whats so depressing
usr : and not being able to be in control, just cautious
sys : (Others) ah i get it, its really weird but tough times, i recently lost my job because of this second wave its hard and ah yes wondering and worrying makes it hard
sys : (Others) have you tried to practice any mindfulness ?
usr : sorry to hear this. we have never experienced this before. all of this is new.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i get it, its hard to relax and get away from it. i been trying to keep busy and stay away from the news as much as can
sys : (Information) yes its very weird. got to stay strong!
usr : yes, maybe that's what i need to do, stay away from the news. because the news is so depressing.
sys : (Information) it will end one day and well be relieved
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yea try to fill yourself with positive news or watch a movie read a book stay off social media abit helps me
sys : (Self-disclosure) music helps me alot
usr : relieved is the right word. I just dont even know where this came from
usr : i listen to music alot, it is somewhat comforting for me
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) yea music is healing for sure |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"covid". | sys : (Providing Suggestions) hey How are you today
usr : hi, im ok. how are you?
usr : covid has be depressed
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Im doing okay , just hanging out and ah i feel that its tough times for alot of people right now
sys : (Others) whats been bothering you?
usr : extremely tough times.
usr : the fear of the unkown, is whats so depressing
usr : and not being able to be in control, just cautious
sys : (Others) ah i get it, its really weird but tough times, i recently lost my job because of this second wave its hard and ah yes wondering and worrying makes it hard
sys : (Others) have you tried to practice any mindfulness ?
usr : sorry to hear this. we have never experienced this before. all of this is new.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i get it, its hard to relax and get away from it. i been trying to keep busy and stay away from the news as much as can
sys : (Information) yes its very weird. got to stay strong!
usr : yes, maybe that's what i need to do, stay away from the news. because the news is so depressing.
sys : (Information) it will end one day and well be relieved
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yea try to fill yourself with positive news or watch a movie read a book stay off social media abit helps me
sys : (Self-disclosure) music helps me alot
usr : relieved is the right word. I just dont even know where this came from
usr : i listen to music alot, it is somewhat comforting for me
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yea music is healing for sure
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) yea it sucks that unknown and not knowing enough |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"covid". | sys : (Providing Suggestions) hey How are you today
usr : hi, im ok. how are you?
usr : covid has be depressed
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Im doing okay , just hanging out and ah i feel that its tough times for alot of people right now
sys : (Others) whats been bothering you?
usr : extremely tough times.
usr : the fear of the unkown, is whats so depressing
usr : and not being able to be in control, just cautious
sys : (Others) ah i get it, its really weird but tough times, i recently lost my job because of this second wave its hard and ah yes wondering and worrying makes it hard
sys : (Others) have you tried to practice any mindfulness ?
usr : sorry to hear this. we have never experienced this before. all of this is new.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i get it, its hard to relax and get away from it. i been trying to keep busy and stay away from the news as much as can
sys : (Information) yes its very weird. got to stay strong!
usr : yes, maybe that's what i need to do, stay away from the news. because the news is so depressing.
sys : (Information) it will end one day and well be relieved
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yea try to fill yourself with positive news or watch a movie read a book stay off social media abit helps me
sys : (Self-disclosure) music helps me alot
usr : relieved is the right word. I just dont even know where this came from
usr : i listen to music alot, it is somewhat comforting for me
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yea music is healing for sure
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yea it sucks that unknown and not knowing enough
usr : i need to exercise, havent done that yet.
| (Providing Suggestions) exercise is great for the mind take a walk or jog a hike in nature or a park |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"covid". | sys : (Providing Suggestions) hey How are you today
usr : hi, im ok. how are you?
usr : covid has be depressed
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Im doing okay , just hanging out and ah i feel that its tough times for alot of people right now
sys : (Others) whats been bothering you?
usr : extremely tough times.
usr : the fear of the unkown, is whats so depressing
usr : and not being able to be in control, just cautious
sys : (Others) ah i get it, its really weird but tough times, i recently lost my job because of this second wave its hard and ah yes wondering and worrying makes it hard
sys : (Others) have you tried to practice any mindfulness ?
usr : sorry to hear this. we have never experienced this before. all of this is new.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i get it, its hard to relax and get away from it. i been trying to keep busy and stay away from the news as much as can
sys : (Information) yes its very weird. got to stay strong!
usr : yes, maybe that's what i need to do, stay away from the news. because the news is so depressing.
sys : (Information) it will end one day and well be relieved
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yea try to fill yourself with positive news or watch a movie read a book stay off social media abit helps me
sys : (Self-disclosure) music helps me alot
usr : relieved is the right word. I just dont even know where this came from
usr : i listen to music alot, it is somewhat comforting for me
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yea music is healing for sure
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yea it sucks that unknown and not knowing enough
usr : i need to exercise, havent done that yet.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) exercise is great for the mind take a walk or jog a hike in nature or a park
usr : yes, the would make me feel better. i like playing volleyball. but its hard to do that these days
| (Providing Suggestions) yea try to do something like that tomorrow and ah i love volley ball but yea thats hard now |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"covid". | sys : (Providing Suggestions) hey How are you today
usr : hi, im ok. how are you?
usr : covid has be depressed
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Im doing okay , just hanging out and ah i feel that its tough times for alot of people right now
sys : (Others) whats been bothering you?
usr : extremely tough times.
usr : the fear of the unkown, is whats so depressing
usr : and not being able to be in control, just cautious
sys : (Others) ah i get it, its really weird but tough times, i recently lost my job because of this second wave its hard and ah yes wondering and worrying makes it hard
sys : (Others) have you tried to practice any mindfulness ?
usr : sorry to hear this. we have never experienced this before. all of this is new.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i get it, its hard to relax and get away from it. i been trying to keep busy and stay away from the news as much as can
sys : (Information) yes its very weird. got to stay strong!
usr : yes, maybe that's what i need to do, stay away from the news. because the news is so depressing.
sys : (Information) it will end one day and well be relieved
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yea try to fill yourself with positive news or watch a movie read a book stay off social media abit helps me
sys : (Self-disclosure) music helps me alot
usr : relieved is the right word. I just dont even know where this came from
usr : i listen to music alot, it is somewhat comforting for me
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yea music is healing for sure
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yea it sucks that unknown and not knowing enough
usr : i need to exercise, havent done that yet.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) exercise is great for the mind take a walk or jog a hike in nature or a park
usr : yes, the would make me feel better. i like playing volleyball. but its hard to do that these days
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yea try to do something like that tomorrow and ah i love volley ball but yea thats hard now
usr : my favorite sport
usr : i will try
| (Others) great sport for sure and yea you got this just remember it will help |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"covid". | sys : (Providing Suggestions) hey How are you today
usr : hi, im ok. how are you?
usr : covid has be depressed
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Im doing okay , just hanging out and ah i feel that its tough times for alot of people right now
sys : (Others) whats been bothering you?
usr : extremely tough times.
usr : the fear of the unkown, is whats so depressing
usr : and not being able to be in control, just cautious
sys : (Others) ah i get it, its really weird but tough times, i recently lost my job because of this second wave its hard and ah yes wondering and worrying makes it hard
sys : (Others) have you tried to practice any mindfulness ?
usr : sorry to hear this. we have never experienced this before. all of this is new.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i get it, its hard to relax and get away from it. i been trying to keep busy and stay away from the news as much as can
sys : (Information) yes its very weird. got to stay strong!
usr : yes, maybe that's what i need to do, stay away from the news. because the news is so depressing.
sys : (Information) it will end one day and well be relieved
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yea try to fill yourself with positive news or watch a movie read a book stay off social media abit helps me
sys : (Self-disclosure) music helps me alot
usr : relieved is the right word. I just dont even know where this came from
usr : i listen to music alot, it is somewhat comforting for me
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yea music is healing for sure
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yea it sucks that unknown and not knowing enough
usr : i need to exercise, havent done that yet.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) exercise is great for the mind take a walk or jog a hike in nature or a park
usr : yes, the would make me feel better. i like playing volleyball. but its hard to do that these days
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yea try to do something like that tomorrow and ah i love volley ball but yea thats hard now
usr : my favorite sport
usr : i will try
sys : (Others) great sport for sure and yea you got this just remember it will help
usr : i feel better already
| (Others) awesome im glad |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"covid". | sys : (Providing Suggestions) hey How are you today
usr : hi, im ok. how are you?
usr : covid has be depressed
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Im doing okay , just hanging out and ah i feel that its tough times for alot of people right now
sys : (Others) whats been bothering you?
usr : extremely tough times.
usr : the fear of the unkown, is whats so depressing
usr : and not being able to be in control, just cautious
sys : (Others) ah i get it, its really weird but tough times, i recently lost my job because of this second wave its hard and ah yes wondering and worrying makes it hard
sys : (Others) have you tried to practice any mindfulness ?
usr : sorry to hear this. we have never experienced this before. all of this is new.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i get it, its hard to relax and get away from it. i been trying to keep busy and stay away from the news as much as can
sys : (Information) yes its very weird. got to stay strong!
usr : yes, maybe that's what i need to do, stay away from the news. because the news is so depressing.
sys : (Information) it will end one day and well be relieved
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yea try to fill yourself with positive news or watch a movie read a book stay off social media abit helps me
sys : (Self-disclosure) music helps me alot
usr : relieved is the right word. I just dont even know where this came from
usr : i listen to music alot, it is somewhat comforting for me
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yea music is healing for sure
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yea it sucks that unknown and not knowing enough
usr : i need to exercise, havent done that yet.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) exercise is great for the mind take a walk or jog a hike in nature or a park
usr : yes, the would make me feel better. i like playing volleyball. but its hard to do that these days
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yea try to do something like that tomorrow and ah i love volley ball but yea thats hard now
usr : my favorite sport
usr : i will try
sys : (Others) great sport for sure and yea you got this just remember it will help
usr : i feel better already
sys : (Others) awesome im glad
usr : after talking to you, i really dont have anyone to talk to about this.
| (Reflection of feelings) well thats what im here for and happy could help i know what that is like |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"covid". | sys : (Providing Suggestions) hey How are you today
usr : hi, im ok. how are you?
usr : covid has be depressed
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Im doing okay , just hanging out and ah i feel that its tough times for alot of people right now
sys : (Others) whats been bothering you?
usr : extremely tough times.
usr : the fear of the unkown, is whats so depressing
usr : and not being able to be in control, just cautious
sys : (Others) ah i get it, its really weird but tough times, i recently lost my job because of this second wave its hard and ah yes wondering and worrying makes it hard
sys : (Others) have you tried to practice any mindfulness ?
usr : sorry to hear this. we have never experienced this before. all of this is new.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i get it, its hard to relax and get away from it. i been trying to keep busy and stay away from the news as much as can
sys : (Information) yes its very weird. got to stay strong!
usr : yes, maybe that's what i need to do, stay away from the news. because the news is so depressing.
sys : (Information) it will end one day and well be relieved
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yea try to fill yourself with positive news or watch a movie read a book stay off social media abit helps me
sys : (Self-disclosure) music helps me alot
usr : relieved is the right word. I just dont even know where this came from
usr : i listen to music alot, it is somewhat comforting for me
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yea music is healing for sure
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yea it sucks that unknown and not knowing enough
usr : i need to exercise, havent done that yet.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) exercise is great for the mind take a walk or jog a hike in nature or a park
usr : yes, the would make me feel better. i like playing volleyball. but its hard to do that these days
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yea try to do something like that tomorrow and ah i love volley ball but yea thats hard now
usr : my favorite sport
usr : i will try
sys : (Others) great sport for sure and yea you got this just remember it will help
usr : i feel better already
sys : (Others) awesome im glad
usr : after talking to you, i really dont have anyone to talk to about this.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) well thats what im here for and happy could help i know what that is like
| (Others) you got this though keep pushing , exercise is great for depression |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"covid". | sys : (Providing Suggestions) hey How are you today
usr : hi, im ok. how are you?
usr : covid has be depressed
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Im doing okay , just hanging out and ah i feel that its tough times for alot of people right now
sys : (Others) whats been bothering you?
usr : extremely tough times.
usr : the fear of the unkown, is whats so depressing
usr : and not being able to be in control, just cautious
sys : (Others) ah i get it, its really weird but tough times, i recently lost my job because of this second wave its hard and ah yes wondering and worrying makes it hard
sys : (Others) have you tried to practice any mindfulness ?
usr : sorry to hear this. we have never experienced this before. all of this is new.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i get it, its hard to relax and get away from it. i been trying to keep busy and stay away from the news as much as can
sys : (Information) yes its very weird. got to stay strong!
usr : yes, maybe that's what i need to do, stay away from the news. because the news is so depressing.
sys : (Information) it will end one day and well be relieved
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yea try to fill yourself with positive news or watch a movie read a book stay off social media abit helps me
sys : (Self-disclosure) music helps me alot
usr : relieved is the right word. I just dont even know where this came from
usr : i listen to music alot, it is somewhat comforting for me
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yea music is healing for sure
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yea it sucks that unknown and not knowing enough
usr : i need to exercise, havent done that yet.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) exercise is great for the mind take a walk or jog a hike in nature or a park
usr : yes, the would make me feel better. i like playing volleyball. but its hard to do that these days
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yea try to do something like that tomorrow and ah i love volley ball but yea thats hard now
usr : my favorite sport
usr : i will try
sys : (Others) great sport for sure and yea you got this just remember it will help
usr : i feel better already
sys : (Others) awesome im glad
usr : after talking to you, i really dont have anyone to talk to about this.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) well thats what im here for and happy could help i know what that is like
sys : (Others) you got this though keep pushing , exercise is great for depression
usr : Yeah, i didnt think talking to you would help but it definitely relieved some stressed
| (Others) YAY! <3 |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"covid". | sys : (Providing Suggestions) hey How are you today
usr : hi, im ok. how are you?
usr : covid has be depressed
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Im doing okay , just hanging out and ah i feel that its tough times for alot of people right now
sys : (Others) whats been bothering you?
usr : extremely tough times.
usr : the fear of the unkown, is whats so depressing
usr : and not being able to be in control, just cautious
sys : (Others) ah i get it, its really weird but tough times, i recently lost my job because of this second wave its hard and ah yes wondering and worrying makes it hard
sys : (Others) have you tried to practice any mindfulness ?
usr : sorry to hear this. we have never experienced this before. all of this is new.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i get it, its hard to relax and get away from it. i been trying to keep busy and stay away from the news as much as can
sys : (Information) yes its very weird. got to stay strong!
usr : yes, maybe that's what i need to do, stay away from the news. because the news is so depressing.
sys : (Information) it will end one day and well be relieved
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yea try to fill yourself with positive news or watch a movie read a book stay off social media abit helps me
sys : (Self-disclosure) music helps me alot
usr : relieved is the right word. I just dont even know where this came from
usr : i listen to music alot, it is somewhat comforting for me
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yea music is healing for sure
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yea it sucks that unknown and not knowing enough
usr : i need to exercise, havent done that yet.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) exercise is great for the mind take a walk or jog a hike in nature or a park
usr : yes, the would make me feel better. i like playing volleyball. but its hard to do that these days
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yea try to do something like that tomorrow and ah i love volley ball but yea thats hard now
usr : my favorite sport
usr : i will try
sys : (Others) great sport for sure and yea you got this just remember it will help
usr : i feel better already
sys : (Others) awesome im glad
usr : after talking to you, i really dont have anyone to talk to about this.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) well thats what im here for and happy could help i know what that is like
sys : (Others) you got this though keep pushing , exercise is great for depression
usr : Yeah, i didnt think talking to you would help but it definitely relieved some stressed
sys : (Others) YAY! <3
usr : thanks ..good bye
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) anytime and best of luck to you ! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with someone that took 5 years. We were planning on building a home together and he liked the idea and promised we would pull through together. I loved him so much that I would literary do nothing to heart his feeling. We built friendship for years and we had something beautiful and close to perfection. As time went on, I did not know what went wrong but he started showing disinterest in matters that concerns me . When it started we had the conversation. I was worried and he assured me nothing was wrong. I later found out with a great dismay that he was going out with one of our high school acquaintances . It really hurt the more when he told me what I thought we had was over. it shattered me emotional. He went from avoiding my calls to not wanting to see me around. it hurts me badly. As I recall this am feeling emotional because tit was a terrible period for me.". | (Question) Hi how are you? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with someone that took 5 years. We were planning on building a home together and he liked the idea and promised we would pull through together. I loved him so much that I would literary do nothing to heart his feeling. We built friendship for years and we had something beautiful and close to perfection. As time went on, I did not know what went wrong but he started showing disinterest in matters that concerns me . When it started we had the conversation. I was worried and he assured me nothing was wrong. I later found out with a great dismay that he was going out with one of our high school acquaintances . It really hurt the more when he told me what I thought we had was over. it shattered me emotional. He went from avoiding my calls to not wanting to see me around. it hurts me badly. As I recall this am feeling emotional because tit was a terrible period for me.". | sys : (Question) Hi how are you?
usr : am doing great.
| (Information) You can share any thing with me with confidence . |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with someone that took 5 years. We were planning on building a home together and he liked the idea and promised we would pull through together. I loved him so much that I would literary do nothing to heart his feeling. We built friendship for years and we had something beautiful and close to perfection. As time went on, I did not know what went wrong but he started showing disinterest in matters that concerns me . When it started we had the conversation. I was worried and he assured me nothing was wrong. I later found out with a great dismay that he was going out with one of our high school acquaintances . It really hurt the more when he told me what I thought we had was over. it shattered me emotional. He went from avoiding my calls to not wanting to see me around. it hurts me badly. As I recall this am feeling emotional because tit was a terrible period for me.". | sys : (Question) Hi how are you?
usr : am doing great.
sys : (Information) You can share any thing with me with confidence .
usr : how about you?
| (Others) I'm good than you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with someone that took 5 years. We were planning on building a home together and he liked the idea and promised we would pull through together. I loved him so much that I would literary do nothing to heart his feeling. We built friendship for years and we had something beautiful and close to perfection. As time went on, I did not know what went wrong but he started showing disinterest in matters that concerns me . When it started we had the conversation. I was worried and he assured me nothing was wrong. I later found out with a great dismay that he was going out with one of our high school acquaintances . It really hurt the more when he told me what I thought we had was over. it shattered me emotional. He went from avoiding my calls to not wanting to see me around. it hurts me badly. As I recall this am feeling emotional because tit was a terrible period for me.". | sys : (Question) Hi how are you?
usr : am doing great.
sys : (Information) You can share any thing with me with confidence .
usr : how about you?
sys : (Others) I'm good than you
| (Others) Everything going good |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with someone that took 5 years. We were planning on building a home together and he liked the idea and promised we would pull through together. I loved him so much that I would literary do nothing to heart his feeling. We built friendship for years and we had something beautiful and close to perfection. As time went on, I did not know what went wrong but he started showing disinterest in matters that concerns me . When it started we had the conversation. I was worried and he assured me nothing was wrong. I later found out with a great dismay that he was going out with one of our high school acquaintances . It really hurt the more when he told me what I thought we had was over. it shattered me emotional. He went from avoiding my calls to not wanting to see me around. it hurts me badly. As I recall this am feeling emotional because tit was a terrible period for me.". | sys : (Question) Hi how are you?
usr : am doing great.
sys : (Information) You can share any thing with me with confidence .
usr : how about you?
sys : (Others) I'm good than you
sys : (Others) Everything going good
usr : How is the day going for you?
| (Others) its going good , how is your day? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with someone that took 5 years. We were planning on building a home together and he liked the idea and promised we would pull through together. I loved him so much that I would literary do nothing to heart his feeling. We built friendship for years and we had something beautiful and close to perfection. As time went on, I did not know what went wrong but he started showing disinterest in matters that concerns me . When it started we had the conversation. I was worried and he assured me nothing was wrong. I later found out with a great dismay that he was going out with one of our high school acquaintances . It really hurt the more when he told me what I thought we had was over. it shattered me emotional. He went from avoiding my calls to not wanting to see me around. it hurts me badly. As I recall this am feeling emotional because tit was a terrible period for me.". | sys : (Question) Hi how are you?
usr : am doing great.
sys : (Information) You can share any thing with me with confidence .
usr : how about you?
sys : (Others) I'm good than you
sys : (Others) Everything going good
usr : How is the day going for you?
sys : (Others) its going good , how is your day?
usr : Am just starting mine, quite early here
usr : what id the time like over there?
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) its hard time for you but you can come out from this |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with someone that took 5 years. We were planning on building a home together and he liked the idea and promised we would pull through together. I loved him so much that I would literary do nothing to heart his feeling. We built friendship for years and we had something beautiful and close to perfection. As time went on, I did not know what went wrong but he started showing disinterest in matters that concerns me . When it started we had the conversation. I was worried and he assured me nothing was wrong. I later found out with a great dismay that he was going out with one of our high school acquaintances . It really hurt the more when he told me what I thought we had was over. it shattered me emotional. He went from avoiding my calls to not wanting to see me around. it hurts me badly. As I recall this am feeling emotional because tit was a terrible period for me.". | sys : (Question) Hi how are you?
usr : am doing great.
sys : (Information) You can share any thing with me with confidence .
usr : how about you?
sys : (Others) I'm good than you
sys : (Others) Everything going good
usr : How is the day going for you?
sys : (Others) its going good , how is your day?
usr : Am just starting mine, quite early here
usr : what id the time like over there?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) its hard time for you but you can come out from this
| (Information) its morning 11:36 |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with someone that took 5 years. We were planning on building a home together and he liked the idea and promised we would pull through together. I loved him so much that I would literary do nothing to heart his feeling. We built friendship for years and we had something beautiful and close to perfection. As time went on, I did not know what went wrong but he started showing disinterest in matters that concerns me . When it started we had the conversation. I was worried and he assured me nothing was wrong. I later found out with a great dismay that he was going out with one of our high school acquaintances . It really hurt the more when he told me what I thought we had was over. it shattered me emotional. He went from avoiding my calls to not wanting to see me around. it hurts me badly. As I recall this am feeling emotional because tit was a terrible period for me.". | sys : (Question) Hi how are you?
usr : am doing great.
sys : (Information) You can share any thing with me with confidence .
usr : how about you?
sys : (Others) I'm good than you
sys : (Others) Everything going good
usr : How is the day going for you?
sys : (Others) its going good , how is your day?
usr : Am just starting mine, quite early here
usr : what id the time like over there?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) its hard time for you but you can come out from this
sys : (Information) its morning 11:36
usr : Have you experienced heartbreak before?
usr : It is 5:37am here
| (Providing Suggestions) Yes i hade this before than i engaged in other activity than i come out from this |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with someone that took 5 years. We were planning on building a home together and he liked the idea and promised we would pull through together. I loved him so much that I would literary do nothing to heart his feeling. We built friendship for years and we had something beautiful and close to perfection. As time went on, I did not know what went wrong but he started showing disinterest in matters that concerns me . When it started we had the conversation. I was worried and he assured me nothing was wrong. I later found out with a great dismay that he was going out with one of our high school acquaintances . It really hurt the more when he told me what I thought we had was over. it shattered me emotional. He went from avoiding my calls to not wanting to see me around. it hurts me badly. As I recall this am feeling emotional because tit was a terrible period for me.". | sys : (Question) Hi how are you?
usr : am doing great.
sys : (Information) You can share any thing with me with confidence .
usr : how about you?
sys : (Others) I'm good than you
sys : (Others) Everything going good
usr : How is the day going for you?
sys : (Others) its going good , how is your day?
usr : Am just starting mine, quite early here
usr : what id the time like over there?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) its hard time for you but you can come out from this
sys : (Information) its morning 11:36
usr : Have you experienced heartbreak before?
usr : It is 5:37am here
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes i hade this before than i engaged in other activity than i come out from this
| (Providing Suggestions) try to make engaged your self in other activity |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with someone that took 5 years. We were planning on building a home together and he liked the idea and promised we would pull through together. I loved him so much that I would literary do nothing to heart his feeling. We built friendship for years and we had something beautiful and close to perfection. As time went on, I did not know what went wrong but he started showing disinterest in matters that concerns me . When it started we had the conversation. I was worried and he assured me nothing was wrong. I later found out with a great dismay that he was going out with one of our high school acquaintances . It really hurt the more when he told me what I thought we had was over. it shattered me emotional. He went from avoiding my calls to not wanting to see me around. it hurts me badly. As I recall this am feeling emotional because tit was a terrible period for me.". | sys : (Question) Hi how are you?
usr : am doing great.
sys : (Information) You can share any thing with me with confidence .
usr : how about you?
sys : (Others) I'm good than you
sys : (Others) Everything going good
usr : How is the day going for you?
sys : (Others) its going good , how is your day?
usr : Am just starting mine, quite early here
usr : what id the time like over there?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) its hard time for you but you can come out from this
sys : (Information) its morning 11:36
usr : Have you experienced heartbreak before?
usr : It is 5:37am here
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes i hade this before than i engaged in other activity than i come out from this
sys : (Providing Suggestions) try to make engaged your self in other activity
| (Others) its help you to come out from this situation |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with someone that took 5 years. We were planning on building a home together and he liked the idea and promised we would pull through together. I loved him so much that I would literary do nothing to heart his feeling. We built friendship for years and we had something beautiful and close to perfection. As time went on, I did not know what went wrong but he started showing disinterest in matters that concerns me . When it started we had the conversation. I was worried and he assured me nothing was wrong. I later found out with a great dismay that he was going out with one of our high school acquaintances . It really hurt the more when he told me what I thought we had was over. it shattered me emotional. He went from avoiding my calls to not wanting to see me around. it hurts me badly. As I recall this am feeling emotional because tit was a terrible period for me.". | sys : (Question) Hi how are you?
usr : am doing great.
sys : (Information) You can share any thing with me with confidence .
usr : how about you?
sys : (Others) I'm good than you
sys : (Others) Everything going good
usr : How is the day going for you?
sys : (Others) its going good , how is your day?
usr : Am just starting mine, quite early here
usr : what id the time like over there?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) its hard time for you but you can come out from this
sys : (Information) its morning 11:36
usr : Have you experienced heartbreak before?
usr : It is 5:37am here
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes i hade this before than i engaged in other activity than i come out from this
sys : (Providing Suggestions) try to make engaged your self in other activity
sys : (Others) its help you to come out from this situation
usr : I have moved passed mine for long. But I shared the experience because it is one i would never forget. It almost put me into depression if not for family and genuine close friends.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) that's really hard but you can do it |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with someone that took 5 years. We were planning on building a home together and he liked the idea and promised we would pull through together. I loved him so much that I would literary do nothing to heart his feeling. We built friendship for years and we had something beautiful and close to perfection. As time went on, I did not know what went wrong but he started showing disinterest in matters that concerns me . When it started we had the conversation. I was worried and he assured me nothing was wrong. I later found out with a great dismay that he was going out with one of our high school acquaintances . It really hurt the more when he told me what I thought we had was over. it shattered me emotional. He went from avoiding my calls to not wanting to see me around. it hurts me badly. As I recall this am feeling emotional because tit was a terrible period for me.". | sys : (Question) Hi how are you?
usr : am doing great.
sys : (Information) You can share any thing with me with confidence .
usr : how about you?
sys : (Others) I'm good than you
sys : (Others) Everything going good
usr : How is the day going for you?
sys : (Others) its going good , how is your day?
usr : Am just starting mine, quite early here
usr : what id the time like over there?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) its hard time for you but you can come out from this
sys : (Information) its morning 11:36
usr : Have you experienced heartbreak before?
usr : It is 5:37am here
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes i hade this before than i engaged in other activity than i come out from this
sys : (Providing Suggestions) try to make engaged your self in other activity
sys : (Others) its help you to come out from this situation
usr : I have moved passed mine for long. But I shared the experience because it is one i would never forget. It almost put me into depression if not for family and genuine close friends.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that's really hard but you can do it
usr : Yes ,I did it and am happy I moved on and came out stronger
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) yes its very hard to come out from this but hopefully you will forget everything |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with someone that took 5 years. We were planning on building a home together and he liked the idea and promised we would pull through together. I loved him so much that I would literary do nothing to heart his feeling. We built friendship for years and we had something beautiful and close to perfection. As time went on, I did not know what went wrong but he started showing disinterest in matters that concerns me . When it started we had the conversation. I was worried and he assured me nothing was wrong. I later found out with a great dismay that he was going out with one of our high school acquaintances . It really hurt the more when he told me what I thought we had was over. it shattered me emotional. He went from avoiding my calls to not wanting to see me around. it hurts me badly. As I recall this am feeling emotional because tit was a terrible period for me.". | sys : (Question) Hi how are you?
usr : am doing great.
sys : (Information) You can share any thing with me with confidence .
usr : how about you?
sys : (Others) I'm good than you
sys : (Others) Everything going good
usr : How is the day going for you?
sys : (Others) its going good , how is your day?
usr : Am just starting mine, quite early here
usr : what id the time like over there?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) its hard time for you but you can come out from this
sys : (Information) its morning 11:36
usr : Have you experienced heartbreak before?
usr : It is 5:37am here
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes i hade this before than i engaged in other activity than i come out from this
sys : (Providing Suggestions) try to make engaged your self in other activity
sys : (Others) its help you to come out from this situation
usr : I have moved passed mine for long. But I shared the experience because it is one i would never forget. It almost put me into depression if not for family and genuine close friends.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that's really hard but you can do it
usr : Yes ,I did it and am happy I moved on and came out stronger
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) yes its very hard to come out from this but hopefully you will forget everything
| (Others) That's very good |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with someone that took 5 years. We were planning on building a home together and he liked the idea and promised we would pull through together. I loved him so much that I would literary do nothing to heart his feeling. We built friendship for years and we had something beautiful and close to perfection. As time went on, I did not know what went wrong but he started showing disinterest in matters that concerns me . When it started we had the conversation. I was worried and he assured me nothing was wrong. I later found out with a great dismay that he was going out with one of our high school acquaintances . It really hurt the more when he told me what I thought we had was over. it shattered me emotional. He went from avoiding my calls to not wanting to see me around. it hurts me badly. As I recall this am feeling emotional because tit was a terrible period for me.". | sys : (Question) Hi how are you?
usr : am doing great.
sys : (Information) You can share any thing with me with confidence .
usr : how about you?
sys : (Others) I'm good than you
sys : (Others) Everything going good
usr : How is the day going for you?
sys : (Others) its going good , how is your day?
usr : Am just starting mine, quite early here
usr : what id the time like over there?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) its hard time for you but you can come out from this
sys : (Information) its morning 11:36
usr : Have you experienced heartbreak before?
usr : It is 5:37am here
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes i hade this before than i engaged in other activity than i come out from this
sys : (Providing Suggestions) try to make engaged your self in other activity
sys : (Others) its help you to come out from this situation
usr : I have moved passed mine for long. But I shared the experience because it is one i would never forget. It almost put me into depression if not for family and genuine close friends.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that's really hard but you can do it
usr : Yes ,I did it and am happy I moved on and came out stronger
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) yes its very hard to come out from this but hopefully you will forget everything
sys : (Others) That's very good
usr : Thank you for your encouragement
| (Reflection of feelings) I have been came out from this situation from long time but its very hard |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with someone that took 5 years. We were planning on building a home together and he liked the idea and promised we would pull through together. I loved him so much that I would literary do nothing to heart his feeling. We built friendship for years and we had something beautiful and close to perfection. As time went on, I did not know what went wrong but he started showing disinterest in matters that concerns me . When it started we had the conversation. I was worried and he assured me nothing was wrong. I later found out with a great dismay that he was going out with one of our high school acquaintances . It really hurt the more when he told me what I thought we had was over. it shattered me emotional. He went from avoiding my calls to not wanting to see me around. it hurts me badly. As I recall this am feeling emotional because tit was a terrible period for me.". | sys : (Question) Hi how are you?
usr : am doing great.
sys : (Information) You can share any thing with me with confidence .
usr : how about you?
sys : (Others) I'm good than you
sys : (Others) Everything going good
usr : How is the day going for you?
sys : (Others) its going good , how is your day?
usr : Am just starting mine, quite early here
usr : what id the time like over there?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) its hard time for you but you can come out from this
sys : (Information) its morning 11:36
usr : Have you experienced heartbreak before?
usr : It is 5:37am here
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes i hade this before than i engaged in other activity than i come out from this
sys : (Providing Suggestions) try to make engaged your self in other activity
sys : (Others) its help you to come out from this situation
usr : I have moved passed mine for long. But I shared the experience because it is one i would never forget. It almost put me into depression if not for family and genuine close friends.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that's really hard but you can do it
usr : Yes ,I did it and am happy I moved on and came out stronger
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) yes its very hard to come out from this but hopefully you will forget everything
sys : (Others) That's very good
usr : Thank you for your encouragement
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been came out from this situation from long time but its very hard
| (Question) How are you now ? still are you in this situation are you come out |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with someone that took 5 years. We were planning on building a home together and he liked the idea and promised we would pull through together. I loved him so much that I would literary do nothing to heart his feeling. We built friendship for years and we had something beautiful and close to perfection. As time went on, I did not know what went wrong but he started showing disinterest in matters that concerns me . When it started we had the conversation. I was worried and he assured me nothing was wrong. I later found out with a great dismay that he was going out with one of our high school acquaintances . It really hurt the more when he told me what I thought we had was over. it shattered me emotional. He went from avoiding my calls to not wanting to see me around. it hurts me badly. As I recall this am feeling emotional because tit was a terrible period for me.". | sys : (Question) Hi how are you?
usr : am doing great.
sys : (Information) You can share any thing with me with confidence .
usr : how about you?
sys : (Others) I'm good than you
sys : (Others) Everything going good
usr : How is the day going for you?
sys : (Others) its going good , how is your day?
usr : Am just starting mine, quite early here
usr : what id the time like over there?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) its hard time for you but you can come out from this
sys : (Information) its morning 11:36
usr : Have you experienced heartbreak before?
usr : It is 5:37am here
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes i hade this before than i engaged in other activity than i come out from this
sys : (Providing Suggestions) try to make engaged your self in other activity
sys : (Others) its help you to come out from this situation
usr : I have moved passed mine for long. But I shared the experience because it is one i would never forget. It almost put me into depression if not for family and genuine close friends.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that's really hard but you can do it
usr : Yes ,I did it and am happy I moved on and came out stronger
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) yes its very hard to come out from this but hopefully you will forget everything
sys : (Others) That's very good
usr : Thank you for your encouragement
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been came out from this situation from long time but its very hard
sys : (Question) How are you now ? still are you in this situation are you come out
usr : yes ,I can relate to any situation now after that experience because it made me stronger emotionally and psychologically
usr : I am in a better one now and am happy and fulfilled
| (Others) That's very good |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with someone that took 5 years. We were planning on building a home together and he liked the idea and promised we would pull through together. I loved him so much that I would literary do nothing to heart his feeling. We built friendship for years and we had something beautiful and close to perfection. As time went on, I did not know what went wrong but he started showing disinterest in matters that concerns me . When it started we had the conversation. I was worried and he assured me nothing was wrong. I later found out with a great dismay that he was going out with one of our high school acquaintances . It really hurt the more when he told me what I thought we had was over. it shattered me emotional. He went from avoiding my calls to not wanting to see me around. it hurts me badly. As I recall this am feeling emotional because tit was a terrible period for me.". | sys : (Question) Hi how are you?
usr : am doing great.
sys : (Information) You can share any thing with me with confidence .
usr : how about you?
sys : (Others) I'm good than you
sys : (Others) Everything going good
usr : How is the day going for you?
sys : (Others) its going good , how is your day?
usr : Am just starting mine, quite early here
usr : what id the time like over there?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) its hard time for you but you can come out from this
sys : (Information) its morning 11:36
usr : Have you experienced heartbreak before?
usr : It is 5:37am here
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes i hade this before than i engaged in other activity than i come out from this
sys : (Providing Suggestions) try to make engaged your self in other activity
sys : (Others) its help you to come out from this situation
usr : I have moved passed mine for long. But I shared the experience because it is one i would never forget. It almost put me into depression if not for family and genuine close friends.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that's really hard but you can do it
usr : Yes ,I did it and am happy I moved on and came out stronger
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) yes its very hard to come out from this but hopefully you will forget everything
sys : (Others) That's very good
usr : Thank you for your encouragement
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been came out from this situation from long time but its very hard
sys : (Question) How are you now ? still are you in this situation are you come out
usr : yes ,I can relate to any situation now after that experience because it made me stronger emotionally and psychologically
usr : I am in a better one now and am happy and fulfilled
sys : (Others) That's very good
| (Providing Suggestions) make yourself busy in work activity than you feel more better |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with someone that took 5 years. We were planning on building a home together and he liked the idea and promised we would pull through together. I loved him so much that I would literary do nothing to heart his feeling. We built friendship for years and we had something beautiful and close to perfection. As time went on, I did not know what went wrong but he started showing disinterest in matters that concerns me . When it started we had the conversation. I was worried and he assured me nothing was wrong. I later found out with a great dismay that he was going out with one of our high school acquaintances . It really hurt the more when he told me what I thought we had was over. it shattered me emotional. He went from avoiding my calls to not wanting to see me around. it hurts me badly. As I recall this am feeling emotional because tit was a terrible period for me.". | sys : (Question) Hi how are you?
usr : am doing great.
sys : (Information) You can share any thing with me with confidence .
usr : how about you?
sys : (Others) I'm good than you
sys : (Others) Everything going good
usr : How is the day going for you?
sys : (Others) its going good , how is your day?
usr : Am just starting mine, quite early here
usr : what id the time like over there?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) its hard time for you but you can come out from this
sys : (Information) its morning 11:36
usr : Have you experienced heartbreak before?
usr : It is 5:37am here
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes i hade this before than i engaged in other activity than i come out from this
sys : (Providing Suggestions) try to make engaged your self in other activity
sys : (Others) its help you to come out from this situation
usr : I have moved passed mine for long. But I shared the experience because it is one i would never forget. It almost put me into depression if not for family and genuine close friends.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that's really hard but you can do it
usr : Yes ,I did it and am happy I moved on and came out stronger
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) yes its very hard to come out from this but hopefully you will forget everything
sys : (Others) That's very good
usr : Thank you for your encouragement
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been came out from this situation from long time but its very hard
sys : (Question) How are you now ? still are you in this situation are you come out
usr : yes ,I can relate to any situation now after that experience because it made me stronger emotionally and psychologically
usr : I am in a better one now and am happy and fulfilled
sys : (Others) That's very good
sys : (Providing Suggestions) make yourself busy in work activity than you feel more better
usr : when you are happy in a relationship it will show in your daily interaction with people.
| (Others) Yes you are right , when you feel happy everything look happy |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with someone that took 5 years. We were planning on building a home together and he liked the idea and promised we would pull through together. I loved him so much that I would literary do nothing to heart his feeling. We built friendship for years and we had something beautiful and close to perfection. As time went on, I did not know what went wrong but he started showing disinterest in matters that concerns me . When it started we had the conversation. I was worried and he assured me nothing was wrong. I later found out with a great dismay that he was going out with one of our high school acquaintances . It really hurt the more when he told me what I thought we had was over. it shattered me emotional. He went from avoiding my calls to not wanting to see me around. it hurts me badly. As I recall this am feeling emotional because tit was a terrible period for me.". | sys : (Question) Hi how are you?
usr : am doing great.
sys : (Information) You can share any thing with me with confidence .
usr : how about you?
sys : (Others) I'm good than you
sys : (Others) Everything going good
usr : How is the day going for you?
sys : (Others) its going good , how is your day?
usr : Am just starting mine, quite early here
usr : what id the time like over there?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) its hard time for you but you can come out from this
sys : (Information) its morning 11:36
usr : Have you experienced heartbreak before?
usr : It is 5:37am here
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes i hade this before than i engaged in other activity than i come out from this
sys : (Providing Suggestions) try to make engaged your self in other activity
sys : (Others) its help you to come out from this situation
usr : I have moved passed mine for long. But I shared the experience because it is one i would never forget. It almost put me into depression if not for family and genuine close friends.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that's really hard but you can do it
usr : Yes ,I did it and am happy I moved on and came out stronger
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) yes its very hard to come out from this but hopefully you will forget everything
sys : (Others) That's very good
usr : Thank you for your encouragement
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been came out from this situation from long time but its very hard
sys : (Question) How are you now ? still are you in this situation are you come out
usr : yes ,I can relate to any situation now after that experience because it made me stronger emotionally and psychologically
usr : I am in a better one now and am happy and fulfilled
sys : (Others) That's very good
sys : (Providing Suggestions) make yourself busy in work activity than you feel more better
usr : when you are happy in a relationship it will show in your daily interaction with people.
sys : (Others) Yes you are right , when you feel happy everything look happy
usr : I believe we are good so far with the conversation
| (Others) Thanks |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with someone that took 5 years. We were planning on building a home together and he liked the idea and promised we would pull through together. I loved him so much that I would literary do nothing to heart his feeling. We built friendship for years and we had something beautiful and close to perfection. As time went on, I did not know what went wrong but he started showing disinterest in matters that concerns me . When it started we had the conversation. I was worried and he assured me nothing was wrong. I later found out with a great dismay that he was going out with one of our high school acquaintances . It really hurt the more when he told me what I thought we had was over. it shattered me emotional. He went from avoiding my calls to not wanting to see me around. it hurts me badly. As I recall this am feeling emotional because tit was a terrible period for me.". | sys : (Question) Hi how are you?
usr : am doing great.
sys : (Information) You can share any thing with me with confidence .
usr : how about you?
sys : (Others) I'm good than you
sys : (Others) Everything going good
usr : How is the day going for you?
sys : (Others) its going good , how is your day?
usr : Am just starting mine, quite early here
usr : what id the time like over there?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) its hard time for you but you can come out from this
sys : (Information) its morning 11:36
usr : Have you experienced heartbreak before?
usr : It is 5:37am here
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes i hade this before than i engaged in other activity than i come out from this
sys : (Providing Suggestions) try to make engaged your self in other activity
sys : (Others) its help you to come out from this situation
usr : I have moved passed mine for long. But I shared the experience because it is one i would never forget. It almost put me into depression if not for family and genuine close friends.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that's really hard but you can do it
usr : Yes ,I did it and am happy I moved on and came out stronger
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) yes its very hard to come out from this but hopefully you will forget everything
sys : (Others) That's very good
usr : Thank you for your encouragement
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been came out from this situation from long time but its very hard
sys : (Question) How are you now ? still are you in this situation are you come out
usr : yes ,I can relate to any situation now after that experience because it made me stronger emotionally and psychologically
usr : I am in a better one now and am happy and fulfilled
sys : (Others) That's very good
sys : (Providing Suggestions) make yourself busy in work activity than you feel more better
usr : when you are happy in a relationship it will show in your daily interaction with people.
sys : (Others) Yes you are right , when you feel happy everything look happy
usr : I believe we are good so far with the conversation
sys : (Others) Thanks
usr : I appreciate your interest to help. You did a good job
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I hope you feel more better after conversation |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with someone that took 5 years. We were planning on building a home together and he liked the idea and promised we would pull through together. I loved him so much that I would literary do nothing to heart his feeling. We built friendship for years and we had something beautiful and close to perfection. As time went on, I did not know what went wrong but he started showing disinterest in matters that concerns me . When it started we had the conversation. I was worried and he assured me nothing was wrong. I later found out with a great dismay that he was going out with one of our high school acquaintances . It really hurt the more when he told me what I thought we had was over. it shattered me emotional. He went from avoiding my calls to not wanting to see me around. it hurts me badly. As I recall this am feeling emotional because tit was a terrible period for me.". | sys : (Question) Hi how are you?
usr : am doing great.
sys : (Information) You can share any thing with me with confidence .
usr : how about you?
sys : (Others) I'm good than you
sys : (Others) Everything going good
usr : How is the day going for you?
sys : (Others) its going good , how is your day?
usr : Am just starting mine, quite early here
usr : what id the time like over there?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) its hard time for you but you can come out from this
sys : (Information) its morning 11:36
usr : Have you experienced heartbreak before?
usr : It is 5:37am here
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes i hade this before than i engaged in other activity than i come out from this
sys : (Providing Suggestions) try to make engaged your self in other activity
sys : (Others) its help you to come out from this situation
usr : I have moved passed mine for long. But I shared the experience because it is one i would never forget. It almost put me into depression if not for family and genuine close friends.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that's really hard but you can do it
usr : Yes ,I did it and am happy I moved on and came out stronger
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) yes its very hard to come out from this but hopefully you will forget everything
sys : (Others) That's very good
usr : Thank you for your encouragement
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been came out from this situation from long time but its very hard
sys : (Question) How are you now ? still are you in this situation are you come out
usr : yes ,I can relate to any situation now after that experience because it made me stronger emotionally and psychologically
usr : I am in a better one now and am happy and fulfilled
sys : (Others) That's very good
sys : (Providing Suggestions) make yourself busy in work activity than you feel more better
usr : when you are happy in a relationship it will show in your daily interaction with people.
sys : (Others) Yes you are right , when you feel happy everything look happy
usr : I believe we are good so far with the conversation
sys : (Others) Thanks
usr : I appreciate your interest to help. You did a good job
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I hope you feel more better after conversation
usr : Have a good one.
| (Others) Thanks |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with someone that took 5 years. We were planning on building a home together and he liked the idea and promised we would pull through together. I loved him so much that I would literary do nothing to heart his feeling. We built friendship for years and we had something beautiful and close to perfection. As time went on, I did not know what went wrong but he started showing disinterest in matters that concerns me . When it started we had the conversation. I was worried and he assured me nothing was wrong. I later found out with a great dismay that he was going out with one of our high school acquaintances . It really hurt the more when he told me what I thought we had was over. it shattered me emotional. He went from avoiding my calls to not wanting to see me around. it hurts me badly. As I recall this am feeling emotional because tit was a terrible period for me.". | sys : (Question) Hi how are you?
usr : am doing great.
sys : (Information) You can share any thing with me with confidence .
usr : how about you?
sys : (Others) I'm good than you
sys : (Others) Everything going good
usr : How is the day going for you?
sys : (Others) its going good , how is your day?
usr : Am just starting mine, quite early here
usr : what id the time like over there?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) its hard time for you but you can come out from this
sys : (Information) its morning 11:36
usr : Have you experienced heartbreak before?
usr : It is 5:37am here
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes i hade this before than i engaged in other activity than i come out from this
sys : (Providing Suggestions) try to make engaged your self in other activity
sys : (Others) its help you to come out from this situation
usr : I have moved passed mine for long. But I shared the experience because it is one i would never forget. It almost put me into depression if not for family and genuine close friends.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that's really hard but you can do it
usr : Yes ,I did it and am happy I moved on and came out stronger
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) yes its very hard to come out from this but hopefully you will forget everything
sys : (Others) That's very good
usr : Thank you for your encouragement
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been came out from this situation from long time but its very hard
sys : (Question) How are you now ? still are you in this situation are you come out
usr : yes ,I can relate to any situation now after that experience because it made me stronger emotionally and psychologically
usr : I am in a better one now and am happy and fulfilled
sys : (Others) That's very good
sys : (Providing Suggestions) make yourself busy in work activity than you feel more better
usr : when you are happy in a relationship it will show in your daily interaction with people.
sys : (Others) Yes you are right , when you feel happy everything look happy
usr : I believe we are good so far with the conversation
sys : (Others) Thanks
usr : I appreciate your interest to help. You did a good job
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I hope you feel more better after conversation
usr : Have a good one.
sys : (Others) Thanks
usr : sure,would.
| (Others) your welcome |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with someone that took 5 years. We were planning on building a home together and he liked the idea and promised we would pull through together. I loved him so much that I would literary do nothing to heart his feeling. We built friendship for years and we had something beautiful and close to perfection. As time went on, I did not know what went wrong but he started showing disinterest in matters that concerns me . When it started we had the conversation. I was worried and he assured me nothing was wrong. I later found out with a great dismay that he was going out with one of our high school acquaintances . It really hurt the more when he told me what I thought we had was over. it shattered me emotional. He went from avoiding my calls to not wanting to see me around. it hurts me badly. As I recall this am feeling emotional because tit was a terrible period for me.". | sys : (Question) Hi how are you?
usr : am doing great.
sys : (Information) You can share any thing with me with confidence .
usr : how about you?
sys : (Others) I'm good than you
sys : (Others) Everything going good
usr : How is the day going for you?
sys : (Others) its going good , how is your day?
usr : Am just starting mine, quite early here
usr : what id the time like over there?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) its hard time for you but you can come out from this
sys : (Information) its morning 11:36
usr : Have you experienced heartbreak before?
usr : It is 5:37am here
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes i hade this before than i engaged in other activity than i come out from this
sys : (Providing Suggestions) try to make engaged your self in other activity
sys : (Others) its help you to come out from this situation
usr : I have moved passed mine for long. But I shared the experience because it is one i would never forget. It almost put me into depression if not for family and genuine close friends.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that's really hard but you can do it
usr : Yes ,I did it and am happy I moved on and came out stronger
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) yes its very hard to come out from this but hopefully you will forget everything
sys : (Others) That's very good
usr : Thank you for your encouragement
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been came out from this situation from long time but its very hard
sys : (Question) How are you now ? still are you in this situation are you come out
usr : yes ,I can relate to any situation now after that experience because it made me stronger emotionally and psychologically
usr : I am in a better one now and am happy and fulfilled
sys : (Others) That's very good
sys : (Providing Suggestions) make yourself busy in work activity than you feel more better
usr : when you are happy in a relationship it will show in your daily interaction with people.
sys : (Others) Yes you are right , when you feel happy everything look happy
usr : I believe we are good so far with the conversation
sys : (Others) Thanks
usr : I appreciate your interest to help. You did a good job
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I hope you feel more better after conversation
usr : Have a good one.
sys : (Others) Thanks
usr : sure,would.
sys : (Others) your welcome
usr : Bye
| (Information) Bye |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My husband decided to quit his job for 2 weeks, and we weren't able to get unemployment. Now he's laid off for the season right before Christmas. The teenagers are out of control, and I feel like the one person I want to give Christmas too, my toddler, is the one suffering because of all this.". | usr : Hello
| (Question) How are you feeling? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My husband decided to quit his job for 2 weeks, and we weren't able to get unemployment. Now he's laid off for the season right before Christmas. The teenagers are out of control, and I feel like the one person I want to give Christmas too, my toddler, is the one suffering because of all this.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How are you feeling?
usr : A bit overwhelmed and depressed. I really want to celebrate the holiday, but I'm just not in the mood.
| (Self-disclosure) I understand. I have been feeling the same way lately -- my family has been distracted and stressed and it's rubbing off on me. Are there other people around that you can spend time with? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My husband decided to quit his job for 2 weeks, and we weren't able to get unemployment. Now he's laid off for the season right before Christmas. The teenagers are out of control, and I feel like the one person I want to give Christmas too, my toddler, is the one suffering because of all this.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How are you feeling?
usr : A bit overwhelmed and depressed. I really want to celebrate the holiday, but I'm just not in the mood.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I have been feeling the same way lately -- my family has been distracted and stressed and it's rubbing off on me. Are there other people around that you can spend time with?
usr : Not really, I'm not a people person and the couple people I do talk to aren't supportive or going thru their own issues.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. It seems to me that much of what makes the holidays worthwhile is the opportunity to spend time with people we care about. It makes sense that you would have a hard time celebrating with nobody there to share it with you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My husband decided to quit his job for 2 weeks, and we weren't able to get unemployment. Now he's laid off for the season right before Christmas. The teenagers are out of control, and I feel like the one person I want to give Christmas too, my toddler, is the one suffering because of all this.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How are you feeling?
usr : A bit overwhelmed and depressed. I really want to celebrate the holiday, but I'm just not in the mood.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I have been feeling the same way lately -- my family has been distracted and stressed and it's rubbing off on me. Are there other people around that you can spend time with?
usr : Not really, I'm not a people person and the couple people I do talk to aren't supportive or going thru their own issues.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. It seems to me that much of what makes the holidays worthwhile is the opportunity to spend time with people we care about. It makes sense that you would have a hard time celebrating with nobody there to share it with you.
| (Question) Are you close with your family these days? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My husband decided to quit his job for 2 weeks, and we weren't able to get unemployment. Now he's laid off for the season right before Christmas. The teenagers are out of control, and I feel like the one person I want to give Christmas too, my toddler, is the one suffering because of all this.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How are you feeling?
usr : A bit overwhelmed and depressed. I really want to celebrate the holiday, but I'm just not in the mood.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I have been feeling the same way lately -- my family has been distracted and stressed and it's rubbing off on me. Are there other people around that you can spend time with?
usr : Not really, I'm not a people person and the couple people I do talk to aren't supportive or going thru their own issues.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. It seems to me that much of what makes the holidays worthwhile is the opportunity to spend time with people we care about. It makes sense that you would have a hard time celebrating with nobody there to share it with you.
sys : (Question) Are you close with your family these days?
usr : I have my family to share it with, my husband and kids. The teenagers are more about me buying them stuff and getting presents, and we're broke so I haven't been able to do the things I want to with my toddler.
| (Providing Suggestions) (Even if you don't talk to them much, do you think it would be worth reaching out to them?) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My husband decided to quit his job for 2 weeks, and we weren't able to get unemployment. Now he's laid off for the season right before Christmas. The teenagers are out of control, and I feel like the one person I want to give Christmas too, my toddler, is the one suffering because of all this.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How are you feeling?
usr : A bit overwhelmed and depressed. I really want to celebrate the holiday, but I'm just not in the mood.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I have been feeling the same way lately -- my family has been distracted and stressed and it's rubbing off on me. Are there other people around that you can spend time with?
usr : Not really, I'm not a people person and the couple people I do talk to aren't supportive or going thru their own issues.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. It seems to me that much of what makes the holidays worthwhile is the opportunity to spend time with people we care about. It makes sense that you would have a hard time celebrating with nobody there to share it with you.
sys : (Question) Are you close with your family these days?
usr : I have my family to share it with, my husband and kids. The teenagers are more about me buying them stuff and getting presents, and we're broke so I haven't been able to do the things I want to with my toddler.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) (Even if you don't talk to them much, do you think it would be worth reaching out to them?)
| (Others) I see. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My husband decided to quit his job for 2 weeks, and we weren't able to get unemployment. Now he's laid off for the season right before Christmas. The teenagers are out of control, and I feel like the one person I want to give Christmas too, my toddler, is the one suffering because of all this.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How are you feeling?
usr : A bit overwhelmed and depressed. I really want to celebrate the holiday, but I'm just not in the mood.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I have been feeling the same way lately -- my family has been distracted and stressed and it's rubbing off on me. Are there other people around that you can spend time with?
usr : Not really, I'm not a people person and the couple people I do talk to aren't supportive or going thru their own issues.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. It seems to me that much of what makes the holidays worthwhile is the opportunity to spend time with people we care about. It makes sense that you would have a hard time celebrating with nobody there to share it with you.
sys : (Question) Are you close with your family these days?
usr : I have my family to share it with, my husband and kids. The teenagers are more about me buying them stuff and getting presents, and we're broke so I haven't been able to do the things I want to with my toddler.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) (Even if you don't talk to them much, do you think it would be worth reaching out to them?)
sys : (Others) I see.
usr : Outside of my household, I have my grandparents and some sibblings I don't talk to much.
| (Question) Do you remember enjoying the holidays more when your kids were younger? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My husband decided to quit his job for 2 weeks, and we weren't able to get unemployment. Now he's laid off for the season right before Christmas. The teenagers are out of control, and I feel like the one person I want to give Christmas too, my toddler, is the one suffering because of all this.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How are you feeling?
usr : A bit overwhelmed and depressed. I really want to celebrate the holiday, but I'm just not in the mood.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I have been feeling the same way lately -- my family has been distracted and stressed and it's rubbing off on me. Are there other people around that you can spend time with?
usr : Not really, I'm not a people person and the couple people I do talk to aren't supportive or going thru their own issues.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. It seems to me that much of what makes the holidays worthwhile is the opportunity to spend time with people we care about. It makes sense that you would have a hard time celebrating with nobody there to share it with you.
sys : (Question) Are you close with your family these days?
usr : I have my family to share it with, my husband and kids. The teenagers are more about me buying them stuff and getting presents, and we're broke so I haven't been able to do the things I want to with my toddler.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) (Even if you don't talk to them much, do you think it would be worth reaching out to them?)
sys : (Others) I see.
usr : Outside of my household, I have my grandparents and some sibblings I don't talk to much.
sys : (Question) Do you remember enjoying the holidays more when your kids were younger?
usr : Absolutely! They always had great Christmases. I feel they're takking away from my toddler's christmas
| (Question) I see. Do you know what has changed? You said that the teenagers are more interested in getting presents than actually celebrating the holiday itself. Is that a major reason? What about your husband? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My husband decided to quit his job for 2 weeks, and we weren't able to get unemployment. Now he's laid off for the season right before Christmas. The teenagers are out of control, and I feel like the one person I want to give Christmas too, my toddler, is the one suffering because of all this.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How are you feeling?
usr : A bit overwhelmed and depressed. I really want to celebrate the holiday, but I'm just not in the mood.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I have been feeling the same way lately -- my family has been distracted and stressed and it's rubbing off on me. Are there other people around that you can spend time with?
usr : Not really, I'm not a people person and the couple people I do talk to aren't supportive or going thru their own issues.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. It seems to me that much of what makes the holidays worthwhile is the opportunity to spend time with people we care about. It makes sense that you would have a hard time celebrating with nobody there to share it with you.
sys : (Question) Are you close with your family these days?
usr : I have my family to share it with, my husband and kids. The teenagers are more about me buying them stuff and getting presents, and we're broke so I haven't been able to do the things I want to with my toddler.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) (Even if you don't talk to them much, do you think it would be worth reaching out to them?)
sys : (Others) I see.
usr : Outside of my household, I have my grandparents and some sibblings I don't talk to much.
sys : (Question) Do you remember enjoying the holidays more when your kids were younger?
usr : Absolutely! They always had great Christmases. I feel they're takking away from my toddler's christmas
sys : (Question) I see. Do you know what has changed? You said that the teenagers are more interested in getting presents than actually celebrating the holiday itself. Is that a major reason? What about your husband?
usr : That and the teenagers aren't listening well. They're kinda out of control. I don't think they deserve a Christmas, because they need to learn responsibility.
usr : My husband tends to think they do no matter what.
| (Question) I see. You are frustrated with them because of the way they have been behaving. What do you think they should be doing differently? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My husband decided to quit his job for 2 weeks, and we weren't able to get unemployment. Now he's laid off for the season right before Christmas. The teenagers are out of control, and I feel like the one person I want to give Christmas too, my toddler, is the one suffering because of all this.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How are you feeling?
usr : A bit overwhelmed and depressed. I really want to celebrate the holiday, but I'm just not in the mood.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I have been feeling the same way lately -- my family has been distracted and stressed and it's rubbing off on me. Are there other people around that you can spend time with?
usr : Not really, I'm not a people person and the couple people I do talk to aren't supportive or going thru their own issues.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. It seems to me that much of what makes the holidays worthwhile is the opportunity to spend time with people we care about. It makes sense that you would have a hard time celebrating with nobody there to share it with you.
sys : (Question) Are you close with your family these days?
usr : I have my family to share it with, my husband and kids. The teenagers are more about me buying them stuff and getting presents, and we're broke so I haven't been able to do the things I want to with my toddler.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) (Even if you don't talk to them much, do you think it would be worth reaching out to them?)
sys : (Others) I see.
usr : Outside of my household, I have my grandparents and some sibblings I don't talk to much.
sys : (Question) Do you remember enjoying the holidays more when your kids were younger?
usr : Absolutely! They always had great Christmases. I feel they're takking away from my toddler's christmas
sys : (Question) I see. Do you know what has changed? You said that the teenagers are more interested in getting presents than actually celebrating the holiday itself. Is that a major reason? What about your husband?
usr : That and the teenagers aren't listening well. They're kinda out of control. I don't think they deserve a Christmas, because they need to learn responsibility.
usr : My husband tends to think they do no matter what.
sys : (Question) I see. You are frustrated with them because of the way they have been behaving. What do you think they should be doing differently?
| (Question) (Also, are you in a state where they have closed down the schools?) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My husband decided to quit his job for 2 weeks, and we weren't able to get unemployment. Now he's laid off for the season right before Christmas. The teenagers are out of control, and I feel like the one person I want to give Christmas too, my toddler, is the one suffering because of all this.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How are you feeling?
usr : A bit overwhelmed and depressed. I really want to celebrate the holiday, but I'm just not in the mood.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I have been feeling the same way lately -- my family has been distracted and stressed and it's rubbing off on me. Are there other people around that you can spend time with?
usr : Not really, I'm not a people person and the couple people I do talk to aren't supportive or going thru their own issues.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. It seems to me that much of what makes the holidays worthwhile is the opportunity to spend time with people we care about. It makes sense that you would have a hard time celebrating with nobody there to share it with you.
sys : (Question) Are you close with your family these days?
usr : I have my family to share it with, my husband and kids. The teenagers are more about me buying them stuff and getting presents, and we're broke so I haven't been able to do the things I want to with my toddler.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) (Even if you don't talk to them much, do you think it would be worth reaching out to them?)
sys : (Others) I see.
usr : Outside of my household, I have my grandparents and some sibblings I don't talk to much.
sys : (Question) Do you remember enjoying the holidays more when your kids were younger?
usr : Absolutely! They always had great Christmases. I feel they're takking away from my toddler's christmas
sys : (Question) I see. Do you know what has changed? You said that the teenagers are more interested in getting presents than actually celebrating the holiday itself. Is that a major reason? What about your husband?
usr : That and the teenagers aren't listening well. They're kinda out of control. I don't think they deserve a Christmas, because they need to learn responsibility.
usr : My husband tends to think they do no matter what.
sys : (Question) I see. You are frustrated with them because of the way they have been behaving. What do you think they should be doing differently?
sys : (Question) (Also, are you in a state where they have closed down the schools?)
usr : Exactly. Sorry if I'm taking a minute to respond. I just got put into 2 of these things at once where I'm a supporter lol. It's much harder. But yes, I'm in Michigan.
| (Others) Oh, that's okay. :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"my friend stud me up for a weekend trip cost was then all on me and she has been badmouthing me ever since. Saying I am the bad person because of a voicemail left her". | usr : hi how are you
| (Question) Hello. I am doing well. How are you feeling today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"my friend stud me up for a weekend trip cost was then all on me and she has been badmouthing me ever since. Saying I am the bad person because of a voicemail left her". | usr : hi how are you
sys : (Question) Hello. I am doing well. How are you feeling today?
usr : my friend stood me up and i went alone on a trip she was to go with me. I eneded up flipping all the cost and she is bad mouthing me she stood me up because she was drunk she has a drinking problem
usr : not good
usr : since i told her that drinking is more important to her now she is talking bad about me but she is the one with the problem.
| (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are very stressed out by the situation. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"my friend stud me up for a weekend trip cost was then all on me and she has been badmouthing me ever since. Saying I am the bad person because of a voicemail left her". | usr : hi how are you
sys : (Question) Hello. I am doing well. How are you feeling today?
usr : my friend stood me up and i went alone on a trip she was to go with me. I eneded up flipping all the cost and she is bad mouthing me she stood me up because she was drunk she has a drinking problem
usr : not good
usr : since i told her that drinking is more important to her now she is talking bad about me but she is the one with the problem.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are very stressed out by the situation.
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you explained to her that her excessive drinking is causing problems? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"my friend stud me up for a weekend trip cost was then all on me and she has been badmouthing me ever since. Saying I am the bad person because of a voicemail left her". | usr : hi how are you
sys : (Question) Hello. I am doing well. How are you feeling today?
usr : my friend stood me up and i went alone on a trip she was to go with me. I eneded up flipping all the cost and she is bad mouthing me she stood me up because she was drunk she has a drinking problem
usr : not good
usr : since i told her that drinking is more important to her now she is talking bad about me but she is the one with the problem.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are very stressed out by the situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you explained to her that her excessive drinking is causing problems?
usr : yes but i am the bad one she turns everything around
| (Question) Why is she turning everything around on you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"my friend stud me up for a weekend trip cost was then all on me and she has been badmouthing me ever since. Saying I am the bad person because of a voicemail left her". | usr : hi how are you
sys : (Question) Hello. I am doing well. How are you feeling today?
usr : my friend stood me up and i went alone on a trip she was to go with me. I eneded up flipping all the cost and she is bad mouthing me she stood me up because she was drunk she has a drinking problem
usr : not good
usr : since i told her that drinking is more important to her now she is talking bad about me but she is the one with the problem.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are very stressed out by the situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you explained to her that her excessive drinking is causing problems?
usr : yes but i am the bad one she turns everything around
sys : (Question) Why is she turning everything around on you?
usr : she is now also spreading mean rumors about me and dragging my daughter into this
usr : I do not know why, maybe so she does not have to admit that she is wrong
usr : she is like a narzisist
| (Reflection of feelings) That sounds horrible especially that she is dragging your daughter into it. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"my friend stud me up for a weekend trip cost was then all on me and she has been badmouthing me ever since. Saying I am the bad person because of a voicemail left her". | usr : hi how are you
sys : (Question) Hello. I am doing well. How are you feeling today?
usr : my friend stood me up and i went alone on a trip she was to go with me. I eneded up flipping all the cost and she is bad mouthing me she stood me up because she was drunk she has a drinking problem
usr : not good
usr : since i told her that drinking is more important to her now she is talking bad about me but she is the one with the problem.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are very stressed out by the situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you explained to her that her excessive drinking is causing problems?
usr : yes but i am the bad one she turns everything around
sys : (Question) Why is she turning everything around on you?
usr : she is now also spreading mean rumors about me and dragging my daughter into this
usr : I do not know why, maybe so she does not have to admit that she is wrong
usr : she is like a narzisist
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That sounds horrible especially that she is dragging your daughter into it.
usr : Yes it is
| (Providing Suggestions) Could you suggest she talks about her issues with a specialist? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"my friend stud me up for a weekend trip cost was then all on me and she has been badmouthing me ever since. Saying I am the bad person because of a voicemail left her". | usr : hi how are you
sys : (Question) Hello. I am doing well. How are you feeling today?
usr : my friend stood me up and i went alone on a trip she was to go with me. I eneded up flipping all the cost and she is bad mouthing me she stood me up because she was drunk she has a drinking problem
usr : not good
usr : since i told her that drinking is more important to her now she is talking bad about me but she is the one with the problem.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are very stressed out by the situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you explained to her that her excessive drinking is causing problems?
usr : yes but i am the bad one she turns everything around
sys : (Question) Why is she turning everything around on you?
usr : she is now also spreading mean rumors about me and dragging my daughter into this
usr : I do not know why, maybe so she does not have to admit that she is wrong
usr : she is like a narzisist
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That sounds horrible especially that she is dragging your daughter into it.
usr : Yes it is
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could you suggest she talks about her issues with a specialist?
usr : I have done that but she will not admit that she has issues, I hear that she falls of chairs in bars on a regular base.
usr : so maybe it is good to not have contact with such an individual
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is good that you have suggested it to her already. Hopefully she will eventually realise. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"my friend stud me up for a weekend trip cost was then all on me and she has been badmouthing me ever since. Saying I am the bad person because of a voicemail left her". | usr : hi how are you
sys : (Question) Hello. I am doing well. How are you feeling today?
usr : my friend stood me up and i went alone on a trip she was to go with me. I eneded up flipping all the cost and she is bad mouthing me she stood me up because she was drunk she has a drinking problem
usr : not good
usr : since i told her that drinking is more important to her now she is talking bad about me but she is the one with the problem.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are very stressed out by the situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you explained to her that her excessive drinking is causing problems?
usr : yes but i am the bad one she turns everything around
sys : (Question) Why is she turning everything around on you?
usr : she is now also spreading mean rumors about me and dragging my daughter into this
usr : I do not know why, maybe so she does not have to admit that she is wrong
usr : she is like a narzisist
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That sounds horrible especially that she is dragging your daughter into it.
usr : Yes it is
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could you suggest she talks about her issues with a specialist?
usr : I have done that but she will not admit that she has issues, I hear that she falls of chairs in bars on a regular base.
usr : so maybe it is good to not have contact with such an individual
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is good that you have suggested it to her already. Hopefully she will eventually realise.
usr : yes
usr : thanks for listening
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Correct me if I am wrong, but were you meant to go on a trip somewhere with her? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"my friend stud me up for a weekend trip cost was then all on me and she has been badmouthing me ever since. Saying I am the bad person because of a voicemail left her". | usr : hi how are you
sys : (Question) Hello. I am doing well. How are you feeling today?
usr : my friend stood me up and i went alone on a trip she was to go with me. I eneded up flipping all the cost and she is bad mouthing me she stood me up because she was drunk she has a drinking problem
usr : not good
usr : since i told her that drinking is more important to her now she is talking bad about me but she is the one with the problem.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are very stressed out by the situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you explained to her that her excessive drinking is causing problems?
usr : yes but i am the bad one she turns everything around
sys : (Question) Why is she turning everything around on you?
usr : she is now also spreading mean rumors about me and dragging my daughter into this
usr : I do not know why, maybe so she does not have to admit that she is wrong
usr : she is like a narzisist
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That sounds horrible especially that she is dragging your daughter into it.
usr : Yes it is
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could you suggest she talks about her issues with a specialist?
usr : I have done that but she will not admit that she has issues, I hear that she falls of chairs in bars on a regular base.
usr : so maybe it is good to not have contact with such an individual
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is good that you have suggested it to her already. Hopefully she will eventually realise.
usr : yes
usr : thanks for listening
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Correct me if I am wrong, but were you meant to go on a trip somewhere with her?
usr : yes i was I ended up going alone
| (Question) How did you feel about going on the trip on your own? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"my friend stud me up for a weekend trip cost was then all on me and she has been badmouthing me ever since. Saying I am the bad person because of a voicemail left her". | usr : hi how are you
sys : (Question) Hello. I am doing well. How are you feeling today?
usr : my friend stood me up and i went alone on a trip she was to go with me. I eneded up flipping all the cost and she is bad mouthing me she stood me up because she was drunk she has a drinking problem
usr : not good
usr : since i told her that drinking is more important to her now she is talking bad about me but she is the one with the problem.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are very stressed out by the situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you explained to her that her excessive drinking is causing problems?
usr : yes but i am the bad one she turns everything around
sys : (Question) Why is she turning everything around on you?
usr : she is now also spreading mean rumors about me and dragging my daughter into this
usr : I do not know why, maybe so she does not have to admit that she is wrong
usr : she is like a narzisist
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That sounds horrible especially that she is dragging your daughter into it.
usr : Yes it is
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could you suggest she talks about her issues with a specialist?
usr : I have done that but she will not admit that she has issues, I hear that she falls of chairs in bars on a regular base.
usr : so maybe it is good to not have contact with such an individual
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is good that you have suggested it to her already. Hopefully she will eventually realise.
usr : yes
usr : thanks for listening
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Correct me if I am wrong, but were you meant to go on a trip somewhere with her?
usr : yes i was I ended up going alone
sys : (Question) How did you feel about going on the trip on your own?
| (Others) Thank you for sharing your feelings with me today. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I knew Doug was married when we first started talking. It wasn't supposed to be anything serious. Just a fling! It's seven months and I know he won't leave his wife for me. I just don't how to get out of this.". | usr : Have you ever experienced anything like this?
| (Question) can you tell me more about that? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I knew Doug was married when we first started talking. It wasn't supposed to be anything serious. Just a fling! It's seven months and I know he won't leave his wife for me. I just don't how to get out of this.". | usr : Have you ever experienced anything like this?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about that?
usr : I met Doug at work when I used to smoke outside the building. He's handsome, built and has a killer smile. We started talking and one night we hooked up.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you're physically attracted to Doug and had a one-time encounter with him. Is that right? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I knew Doug was married when we first started talking. It wasn't supposed to be anything serious. Just a fling! It's seven months and I know he won't leave his wife for me. I just don't how to get out of this.". | usr : Have you ever experienced anything like this?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about that?
usr : I met Doug at work when I used to smoke outside the building. He's handsome, built and has a killer smile. We started talking and one night we hooked up.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you're physically attracted to Doug and had a one-time encounter with him. Is that right?
| (Question) can you tell me more about how you're feeling now? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I knew Doug was married when we first started talking. It wasn't supposed to be anything serious. Just a fling! It's seven months and I know he won't leave his wife for me. I just don't how to get out of this.". | usr : Have you ever experienced anything like this?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about that?
usr : I met Doug at work when I used to smoke outside the building. He's handsome, built and has a killer smile. We started talking and one night we hooked up.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you're physically attracted to Doug and had a one-time encounter with him. Is that right?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about how you're feeling now?
usr : Well, actually this has been going on for 7 months. I hooked up with him after a month of talking.
usr : I'm ready to end this situation because I want the more emotional stuff I know Doug can't give. How do I get out?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure it's frustrating that you're not getting the emotional support you need. It's great that you are reaching out to communicate with someone. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I knew Doug was married when we first started talking. It wasn't supposed to be anything serious. Just a fling! It's seven months and I know he won't leave his wife for me. I just don't how to get out of this.". | usr : Have you ever experienced anything like this?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about that?
usr : I met Doug at work when I used to smoke outside the building. He's handsome, built and has a killer smile. We started talking and one night we hooked up.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you're physically attracted to Doug and had a one-time encounter with him. Is that right?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about how you're feeling now?
usr : Well, actually this has been going on for 7 months. I hooked up with him after a month of talking.
usr : I'm ready to end this situation because I want the more emotional stuff I know Doug can't give. How do I get out?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure it's frustrating that you're not getting the emotional support you need. It's great that you are reaching out to communicate with someone.
usr : I heard of people falling for a fling or one night stand but this has gone on for months. Add to that, I see him at work. He's married and I don't see this as more than a long term hook up. Have you ever experienced something like this?
usr : If you never experienced this do you know of anyone who has? What did they do to get out of this type of relationship if you want to call it that?
| (Self-disclosure) I can sense your frustration, and his marriage just adds to that. I've known lots of people who've ended up in relationships with married people. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I knew Doug was married when we first started talking. It wasn't supposed to be anything serious. Just a fling! It's seven months and I know he won't leave his wife for me. I just don't how to get out of this.". | usr : Have you ever experienced anything like this?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about that?
usr : I met Doug at work when I used to smoke outside the building. He's handsome, built and has a killer smile. We started talking and one night we hooked up.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you're physically attracted to Doug and had a one-time encounter with him. Is that right?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about how you're feeling now?
usr : Well, actually this has been going on for 7 months. I hooked up with him after a month of talking.
usr : I'm ready to end this situation because I want the more emotional stuff I know Doug can't give. How do I get out?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure it's frustrating that you're not getting the emotional support you need. It's great that you are reaching out to communicate with someone.
usr : I heard of people falling for a fling or one night stand but this has gone on for months. Add to that, I see him at work. He's married and I don't see this as more than a long term hook up. Have you ever experienced something like this?
usr : If you never experienced this do you know of anyone who has? What did they do to get out of this type of relationship if you want to call it that?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can sense your frustration, and his marriage just adds to that. I've known lots of people who've ended up in relationships with married people.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Just reaching out to talk with someone else is a great first step. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I knew Doug was married when we first started talking. It wasn't supposed to be anything serious. Just a fling! It's seven months and I know he won't leave his wife for me. I just don't how to get out of this.". | usr : Have you ever experienced anything like this?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about that?
usr : I met Doug at work when I used to smoke outside the building. He's handsome, built and has a killer smile. We started talking and one night we hooked up.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you're physically attracted to Doug and had a one-time encounter with him. Is that right?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about how you're feeling now?
usr : Well, actually this has been going on for 7 months. I hooked up with him after a month of talking.
usr : I'm ready to end this situation because I want the more emotional stuff I know Doug can't give. How do I get out?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure it's frustrating that you're not getting the emotional support you need. It's great that you are reaching out to communicate with someone.
usr : I heard of people falling for a fling or one night stand but this has gone on for months. Add to that, I see him at work. He's married and I don't see this as more than a long term hook up. Have you ever experienced something like this?
usr : If you never experienced this do you know of anyone who has? What did they do to get out of this type of relationship if you want to call it that?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can sense your frustration, and his marriage just adds to that. I've known lots of people who've ended up in relationships with married people.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Just reaching out to talk with someone else is a great first step.
usr : What did those people do to end the relationship if you want to call it that?
usr : You keep saying it's good to reach out. I'm reaching out to you trying to find a way to turn off my emotions for this man.
| (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes, a good first step is to reach out to friends who can help you fill your time and avoid interactions with him. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I knew Doug was married when we first started talking. It wasn't supposed to be anything serious. Just a fling! It's seven months and I know he won't leave his wife for me. I just don't how to get out of this.". | usr : Have you ever experienced anything like this?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about that?
usr : I met Doug at work when I used to smoke outside the building. He's handsome, built and has a killer smile. We started talking and one night we hooked up.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you're physically attracted to Doug and had a one-time encounter with him. Is that right?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about how you're feeling now?
usr : Well, actually this has been going on for 7 months. I hooked up with him after a month of talking.
usr : I'm ready to end this situation because I want the more emotional stuff I know Doug can't give. How do I get out?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure it's frustrating that you're not getting the emotional support you need. It's great that you are reaching out to communicate with someone.
usr : I heard of people falling for a fling or one night stand but this has gone on for months. Add to that, I see him at work. He's married and I don't see this as more than a long term hook up. Have you ever experienced something like this?
usr : If you never experienced this do you know of anyone who has? What did they do to get out of this type of relationship if you want to call it that?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can sense your frustration, and his marriage just adds to that. I've known lots of people who've ended up in relationships with married people.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Just reaching out to talk with someone else is a great first step.
usr : What did those people do to end the relationship if you want to call it that?
usr : You keep saying it's good to reach out. I'm reaching out to you trying to find a way to turn off my emotions for this man.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes, a good first step is to reach out to friends who can help you fill your time and avoid interactions with him.
| (Providing Suggestions) And co-workers often can help you find ways to avoid him in the office. Are others aware of the relationship who can help you with that? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I knew Doug was married when we first started talking. It wasn't supposed to be anything serious. Just a fling! It's seven months and I know he won't leave his wife for me. I just don't how to get out of this.". | usr : Have you ever experienced anything like this?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about that?
usr : I met Doug at work when I used to smoke outside the building. He's handsome, built and has a killer smile. We started talking and one night we hooked up.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you're physically attracted to Doug and had a one-time encounter with him. Is that right?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about how you're feeling now?
usr : Well, actually this has been going on for 7 months. I hooked up with him after a month of talking.
usr : I'm ready to end this situation because I want the more emotional stuff I know Doug can't give. How do I get out?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure it's frustrating that you're not getting the emotional support you need. It's great that you are reaching out to communicate with someone.
usr : I heard of people falling for a fling or one night stand but this has gone on for months. Add to that, I see him at work. He's married and I don't see this as more than a long term hook up. Have you ever experienced something like this?
usr : If you never experienced this do you know of anyone who has? What did they do to get out of this type of relationship if you want to call it that?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can sense your frustration, and his marriage just adds to that. I've known lots of people who've ended up in relationships with married people.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Just reaching out to talk with someone else is a great first step.
usr : What did those people do to end the relationship if you want to call it that?
usr : You keep saying it's good to reach out. I'm reaching out to you trying to find a way to turn off my emotions for this man.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes, a good first step is to reach out to friends who can help you fill your time and avoid interactions with him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) And co-workers often can help you find ways to avoid him in the office. Are others aware of the relationship who can help you with that?
usr : My friends don't know about my situation with Doug. I do suspect some people at work are putting us eating lunch and taking walks together as something more. +
usr : Doug make my sing and makes my body come alive but his presence is starting to break my heart because this situation is not going anywhere. I need help! It's not Doug's problem it's mine!
usr : I don't like his wife because if she was treating him well he wouldn't be with me. So why doesn't she just let him go?
usr : I'm starting to think if she was out the picture Doug and I could be together in a real relationship you know what I mean?
| (Others) I can hear your anguish, and I understand your frustration. It's not clear to me, though, that Doug is being honest with you or with his wife. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I knew Doug was married when we first started talking. It wasn't supposed to be anything serious. Just a fling! It's seven months and I know he won't leave his wife for me. I just don't how to get out of this.". | usr : Have you ever experienced anything like this?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about that?
usr : I met Doug at work when I used to smoke outside the building. He's handsome, built and has a killer smile. We started talking and one night we hooked up.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you're physically attracted to Doug and had a one-time encounter with him. Is that right?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about how you're feeling now?
usr : Well, actually this has been going on for 7 months. I hooked up with him after a month of talking.
usr : I'm ready to end this situation because I want the more emotional stuff I know Doug can't give. How do I get out?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure it's frustrating that you're not getting the emotional support you need. It's great that you are reaching out to communicate with someone.
usr : I heard of people falling for a fling or one night stand but this has gone on for months. Add to that, I see him at work. He's married and I don't see this as more than a long term hook up. Have you ever experienced something like this?
usr : If you never experienced this do you know of anyone who has? What did they do to get out of this type of relationship if you want to call it that?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can sense your frustration, and his marriage just adds to that. I've known lots of people who've ended up in relationships with married people.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Just reaching out to talk with someone else is a great first step.
usr : What did those people do to end the relationship if you want to call it that?
usr : You keep saying it's good to reach out. I'm reaching out to you trying to find a way to turn off my emotions for this man.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes, a good first step is to reach out to friends who can help you fill your time and avoid interactions with him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) And co-workers often can help you find ways to avoid him in the office. Are others aware of the relationship who can help you with that?
usr : My friends don't know about my situation with Doug. I do suspect some people at work are putting us eating lunch and taking walks together as something more. +
usr : Doug make my sing and makes my body come alive but his presence is starting to break my heart because this situation is not going anywhere. I need help! It's not Doug's problem it's mine!
usr : I don't like his wife because if she was treating him well he wouldn't be with me. So why doesn't she just let him go?
usr : I'm starting to think if she was out the picture Doug and I could be together in a real relationship you know what I mean?
sys : (Others) I can hear your anguish, and I understand your frustration. It's not clear to me, though, that Doug is being honest with you or with his wife.
| (Question) You mentioned that Doug can't provide the emotional support that you need. Do you think he's being fully honest with you about his relationship with his wife? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I knew Doug was married when we first started talking. It wasn't supposed to be anything serious. Just a fling! It's seven months and I know he won't leave his wife for me. I just don't how to get out of this.". | usr : Have you ever experienced anything like this?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about that?
usr : I met Doug at work when I used to smoke outside the building. He's handsome, built and has a killer smile. We started talking and one night we hooked up.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you're physically attracted to Doug and had a one-time encounter with him. Is that right?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about how you're feeling now?
usr : Well, actually this has been going on for 7 months. I hooked up with him after a month of talking.
usr : I'm ready to end this situation because I want the more emotional stuff I know Doug can't give. How do I get out?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure it's frustrating that you're not getting the emotional support you need. It's great that you are reaching out to communicate with someone.
usr : I heard of people falling for a fling or one night stand but this has gone on for months. Add to that, I see him at work. He's married and I don't see this as more than a long term hook up. Have you ever experienced something like this?
usr : If you never experienced this do you know of anyone who has? What did they do to get out of this type of relationship if you want to call it that?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can sense your frustration, and his marriage just adds to that. I've known lots of people who've ended up in relationships with married people.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Just reaching out to talk with someone else is a great first step.
usr : What did those people do to end the relationship if you want to call it that?
usr : You keep saying it's good to reach out. I'm reaching out to you trying to find a way to turn off my emotions for this man.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes, a good first step is to reach out to friends who can help you fill your time and avoid interactions with him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) And co-workers often can help you find ways to avoid him in the office. Are others aware of the relationship who can help you with that?
usr : My friends don't know about my situation with Doug. I do suspect some people at work are putting us eating lunch and taking walks together as something more. +
usr : Doug make my sing and makes my body come alive but his presence is starting to break my heart because this situation is not going anywhere. I need help! It's not Doug's problem it's mine!
usr : I don't like his wife because if she was treating him well he wouldn't be with me. So why doesn't she just let him go?
usr : I'm starting to think if she was out the picture Doug and I could be together in a real relationship you know what I mean?
sys : (Others) I can hear your anguish, and I understand your frustration. It's not clear to me, though, that Doug is being honest with you or with his wife.
sys : (Question) You mentioned that Doug can't provide the emotional support that you need. Do you think he's being fully honest with you about his relationship with his wife?
usr : I don't understand. Doug's married I know that but I want what his wife has so she's not the problem.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You're absolutely right. It sounds like Doug is the problem. He's cheating on his wife, and he's not giving you the emotional support you need. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I knew Doug was married when we first started talking. It wasn't supposed to be anything serious. Just a fling! It's seven months and I know he won't leave his wife for me. I just don't how to get out of this.". | usr : Have you ever experienced anything like this?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about that?
usr : I met Doug at work when I used to smoke outside the building. He's handsome, built and has a killer smile. We started talking and one night we hooked up.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you're physically attracted to Doug and had a one-time encounter with him. Is that right?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about how you're feeling now?
usr : Well, actually this has been going on for 7 months. I hooked up with him after a month of talking.
usr : I'm ready to end this situation because I want the more emotional stuff I know Doug can't give. How do I get out?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure it's frustrating that you're not getting the emotional support you need. It's great that you are reaching out to communicate with someone.
usr : I heard of people falling for a fling or one night stand but this has gone on for months. Add to that, I see him at work. He's married and I don't see this as more than a long term hook up. Have you ever experienced something like this?
usr : If you never experienced this do you know of anyone who has? What did they do to get out of this type of relationship if you want to call it that?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can sense your frustration, and his marriage just adds to that. I've known lots of people who've ended up in relationships with married people.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Just reaching out to talk with someone else is a great first step.
usr : What did those people do to end the relationship if you want to call it that?
usr : You keep saying it's good to reach out. I'm reaching out to you trying to find a way to turn off my emotions for this man.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes, a good first step is to reach out to friends who can help you fill your time and avoid interactions with him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) And co-workers often can help you find ways to avoid him in the office. Are others aware of the relationship who can help you with that?
usr : My friends don't know about my situation with Doug. I do suspect some people at work are putting us eating lunch and taking walks together as something more. +
usr : Doug make my sing and makes my body come alive but his presence is starting to break my heart because this situation is not going anywhere. I need help! It's not Doug's problem it's mine!
usr : I don't like his wife because if she was treating him well he wouldn't be with me. So why doesn't she just let him go?
usr : I'm starting to think if she was out the picture Doug and I could be together in a real relationship you know what I mean?
sys : (Others) I can hear your anguish, and I understand your frustration. It's not clear to me, though, that Doug is being honest with you or with his wife.
sys : (Question) You mentioned that Doug can't provide the emotional support that you need. Do you think he's being fully honest with you about his relationship with his wife?
usr : I don't understand. Doug's married I know that but I want what his wife has so she's not the problem.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You're absolutely right. It sounds like Doug is the problem. He's cheating on his wife, and he's not giving you the emotional support you need.
usr : All I want to know from you is to tell me how to get rid of the feelings I have for Doug or how to get rid of his wife since you think she's part of the problem?
| (Providing Suggestions) With the holidays coming up, maybe you could avoid him for an extended stretch and really do something about what it is you are looking for in a partner. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I knew Doug was married when we first started talking. It wasn't supposed to be anything serious. Just a fling! It's seven months and I know he won't leave his wife for me. I just don't how to get out of this.". | usr : Have you ever experienced anything like this?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about that?
usr : I met Doug at work when I used to smoke outside the building. He's handsome, built and has a killer smile. We started talking and one night we hooked up.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you're physically attracted to Doug and had a one-time encounter with him. Is that right?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about how you're feeling now?
usr : Well, actually this has been going on for 7 months. I hooked up with him after a month of talking.
usr : I'm ready to end this situation because I want the more emotional stuff I know Doug can't give. How do I get out?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure it's frustrating that you're not getting the emotional support you need. It's great that you are reaching out to communicate with someone.
usr : I heard of people falling for a fling or one night stand but this has gone on for months. Add to that, I see him at work. He's married and I don't see this as more than a long term hook up. Have you ever experienced something like this?
usr : If you never experienced this do you know of anyone who has? What did they do to get out of this type of relationship if you want to call it that?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can sense your frustration, and his marriage just adds to that. I've known lots of people who've ended up in relationships with married people.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Just reaching out to talk with someone else is a great first step.
usr : What did those people do to end the relationship if you want to call it that?
usr : You keep saying it's good to reach out. I'm reaching out to you trying to find a way to turn off my emotions for this man.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes, a good first step is to reach out to friends who can help you fill your time and avoid interactions with him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) And co-workers often can help you find ways to avoid him in the office. Are others aware of the relationship who can help you with that?
usr : My friends don't know about my situation with Doug. I do suspect some people at work are putting us eating lunch and taking walks together as something more. +
usr : Doug make my sing and makes my body come alive but his presence is starting to break my heart because this situation is not going anywhere. I need help! It's not Doug's problem it's mine!
usr : I don't like his wife because if she was treating him well he wouldn't be with me. So why doesn't she just let him go?
usr : I'm starting to think if she was out the picture Doug and I could be together in a real relationship you know what I mean?
sys : (Others) I can hear your anguish, and I understand your frustration. It's not clear to me, though, that Doug is being honest with you or with his wife.
sys : (Question) You mentioned that Doug can't provide the emotional support that you need. Do you think he's being fully honest with you about his relationship with his wife?
usr : I don't understand. Doug's married I know that but I want what his wife has so she's not the problem.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You're absolutely right. It sounds like Doug is the problem. He's cheating on his wife, and he's not giving you the emotional support you need.
usr : All I want to know from you is to tell me how to get rid of the feelings I have for Doug or how to get rid of his wife since you think she's part of the problem?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) With the holidays coming up, maybe you could avoid him for an extended stretch and really do something about what it is you are looking for in a partner.
usr : Like what? The media says stay inside with love ones. Doug is my love one. Wouldn't I be putting myself at risk of getting the conrovirus meeting someone new?
| (Others) I wouldn't say that Doug's wife is part of the problem. She's sounds like another victim of his philandering and dishonesty. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I knew Doug was married when we first started talking. It wasn't supposed to be anything serious. Just a fling! It's seven months and I know he won't leave his wife for me. I just don't how to get out of this.". | usr : Have you ever experienced anything like this?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about that?
usr : I met Doug at work when I used to smoke outside the building. He's handsome, built and has a killer smile. We started talking and one night we hooked up.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you're physically attracted to Doug and had a one-time encounter with him. Is that right?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about how you're feeling now?
usr : Well, actually this has been going on for 7 months. I hooked up with him after a month of talking.
usr : I'm ready to end this situation because I want the more emotional stuff I know Doug can't give. How do I get out?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure it's frustrating that you're not getting the emotional support you need. It's great that you are reaching out to communicate with someone.
usr : I heard of people falling for a fling or one night stand but this has gone on for months. Add to that, I see him at work. He's married and I don't see this as more than a long term hook up. Have you ever experienced something like this?
usr : If you never experienced this do you know of anyone who has? What did they do to get out of this type of relationship if you want to call it that?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can sense your frustration, and his marriage just adds to that. I've known lots of people who've ended up in relationships with married people.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Just reaching out to talk with someone else is a great first step.
usr : What did those people do to end the relationship if you want to call it that?
usr : You keep saying it's good to reach out. I'm reaching out to you trying to find a way to turn off my emotions for this man.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes, a good first step is to reach out to friends who can help you fill your time and avoid interactions with him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) And co-workers often can help you find ways to avoid him in the office. Are others aware of the relationship who can help you with that?
usr : My friends don't know about my situation with Doug. I do suspect some people at work are putting us eating lunch and taking walks together as something more. +
usr : Doug make my sing and makes my body come alive but his presence is starting to break my heart because this situation is not going anywhere. I need help! It's not Doug's problem it's mine!
usr : I don't like his wife because if she was treating him well he wouldn't be with me. So why doesn't she just let him go?
usr : I'm starting to think if she was out the picture Doug and I could be together in a real relationship you know what I mean?
sys : (Others) I can hear your anguish, and I understand your frustration. It's not clear to me, though, that Doug is being honest with you or with his wife.
sys : (Question) You mentioned that Doug can't provide the emotional support that you need. Do you think he's being fully honest with you about his relationship with his wife?
usr : I don't understand. Doug's married I know that but I want what his wife has so she's not the problem.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You're absolutely right. It sounds like Doug is the problem. He's cheating on his wife, and he's not giving you the emotional support you need.
usr : All I want to know from you is to tell me how to get rid of the feelings I have for Doug or how to get rid of his wife since you think she's part of the problem?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) With the holidays coming up, maybe you could avoid him for an extended stretch and really do something about what it is you are looking for in a partner.
usr : Like what? The media says stay inside with love ones. Doug is my love one. Wouldn't I be putting myself at risk of getting the conrovirus meeting someone new?
sys : (Others) I wouldn't say that Doug's wife is part of the problem. She's sounds like another victim of his philandering and dishonesty.
usr : Why do you keep focusing on the wife? You make it sound if I just kill her Doug and I could be happy and I wouldn't have to worry about his Philandering as you call it anymore. Are you saying I'm a Philanderer?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You're right. It's best to err on the side of caution when it comes to covid. But remember that Doug isn't your loved one alone. He's sharing germs with both you and his wife. Maybe a lockdown -- emotional and physical -- will help you work to find an end to this relationship. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I knew Doug was married when we first started talking. It wasn't supposed to be anything serious. Just a fling! It's seven months and I know he won't leave his wife for me. I just don't how to get out of this.". | usr : Have you ever experienced anything like this?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about that?
usr : I met Doug at work when I used to smoke outside the building. He's handsome, built and has a killer smile. We started talking and one night we hooked up.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you're physically attracted to Doug and had a one-time encounter with him. Is that right?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about how you're feeling now?
usr : Well, actually this has been going on for 7 months. I hooked up with him after a month of talking.
usr : I'm ready to end this situation because I want the more emotional stuff I know Doug can't give. How do I get out?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure it's frustrating that you're not getting the emotional support you need. It's great that you are reaching out to communicate with someone.
usr : I heard of people falling for a fling or one night stand but this has gone on for months. Add to that, I see him at work. He's married and I don't see this as more than a long term hook up. Have you ever experienced something like this?
usr : If you never experienced this do you know of anyone who has? What did they do to get out of this type of relationship if you want to call it that?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can sense your frustration, and his marriage just adds to that. I've known lots of people who've ended up in relationships with married people.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Just reaching out to talk with someone else is a great first step.
usr : What did those people do to end the relationship if you want to call it that?
usr : You keep saying it's good to reach out. I'm reaching out to you trying to find a way to turn off my emotions for this man.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes, a good first step is to reach out to friends who can help you fill your time and avoid interactions with him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) And co-workers often can help you find ways to avoid him in the office. Are others aware of the relationship who can help you with that?
usr : My friends don't know about my situation with Doug. I do suspect some people at work are putting us eating lunch and taking walks together as something more. +
usr : Doug make my sing and makes my body come alive but his presence is starting to break my heart because this situation is not going anywhere. I need help! It's not Doug's problem it's mine!
usr : I don't like his wife because if she was treating him well he wouldn't be with me. So why doesn't she just let him go?
usr : I'm starting to think if she was out the picture Doug and I could be together in a real relationship you know what I mean?
sys : (Others) I can hear your anguish, and I understand your frustration. It's not clear to me, though, that Doug is being honest with you or with his wife.
sys : (Question) You mentioned that Doug can't provide the emotional support that you need. Do you think he's being fully honest with you about his relationship with his wife?
usr : I don't understand. Doug's married I know that but I want what his wife has so she's not the problem.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You're absolutely right. It sounds like Doug is the problem. He's cheating on his wife, and he's not giving you the emotional support you need.
usr : All I want to know from you is to tell me how to get rid of the feelings I have for Doug or how to get rid of his wife since you think she's part of the problem?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) With the holidays coming up, maybe you could avoid him for an extended stretch and really do something about what it is you are looking for in a partner.
usr : Like what? The media says stay inside with love ones. Doug is my love one. Wouldn't I be putting myself at risk of getting the conrovirus meeting someone new?
sys : (Others) I wouldn't say that Doug's wife is part of the problem. She's sounds like another victim of his philandering and dishonesty.
usr : Why do you keep focusing on the wife? You make it sound if I just kill her Doug and I could be happy and I wouldn't have to worry about his Philandering as you call it anymore. Are you saying I'm a Philanderer?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You're right. It's best to err on the side of caution when it comes to covid. But remember that Doug isn't your loved one alone. He's sharing germs with both you and his wife. Maybe a lockdown -- emotional and physical -- will help you work to find an end to this relationship.
| (Providing Suggestions) How did you spend your time before you met Doug? Perhaps you could reconnect with other friends or find a hobby to fill your time. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I knew Doug was married when we first started talking. It wasn't supposed to be anything serious. Just a fling! It's seven months and I know he won't leave his wife for me. I just don't how to get out of this.". | usr : Have you ever experienced anything like this?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about that?
usr : I met Doug at work when I used to smoke outside the building. He's handsome, built and has a killer smile. We started talking and one night we hooked up.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you're physically attracted to Doug and had a one-time encounter with him. Is that right?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about how you're feeling now?
usr : Well, actually this has been going on for 7 months. I hooked up with him after a month of talking.
usr : I'm ready to end this situation because I want the more emotional stuff I know Doug can't give. How do I get out?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure it's frustrating that you're not getting the emotional support you need. It's great that you are reaching out to communicate with someone.
usr : I heard of people falling for a fling or one night stand but this has gone on for months. Add to that, I see him at work. He's married and I don't see this as more than a long term hook up. Have you ever experienced something like this?
usr : If you never experienced this do you know of anyone who has? What did they do to get out of this type of relationship if you want to call it that?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can sense your frustration, and his marriage just adds to that. I've known lots of people who've ended up in relationships with married people.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Just reaching out to talk with someone else is a great first step.
usr : What did those people do to end the relationship if you want to call it that?
usr : You keep saying it's good to reach out. I'm reaching out to you trying to find a way to turn off my emotions for this man.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes, a good first step is to reach out to friends who can help you fill your time and avoid interactions with him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) And co-workers often can help you find ways to avoid him in the office. Are others aware of the relationship who can help you with that?
usr : My friends don't know about my situation with Doug. I do suspect some people at work are putting us eating lunch and taking walks together as something more. +
usr : Doug make my sing and makes my body come alive but his presence is starting to break my heart because this situation is not going anywhere. I need help! It's not Doug's problem it's mine!
usr : I don't like his wife because if she was treating him well he wouldn't be with me. So why doesn't she just let him go?
usr : I'm starting to think if she was out the picture Doug and I could be together in a real relationship you know what I mean?
sys : (Others) I can hear your anguish, and I understand your frustration. It's not clear to me, though, that Doug is being honest with you or with his wife.
sys : (Question) You mentioned that Doug can't provide the emotional support that you need. Do you think he's being fully honest with you about his relationship with his wife?
usr : I don't understand. Doug's married I know that but I want what his wife has so she's not the problem.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You're absolutely right. It sounds like Doug is the problem. He's cheating on his wife, and he's not giving you the emotional support you need.
usr : All I want to know from you is to tell me how to get rid of the feelings I have for Doug or how to get rid of his wife since you think she's part of the problem?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) With the holidays coming up, maybe you could avoid him for an extended stretch and really do something about what it is you are looking for in a partner.
usr : Like what? The media says stay inside with love ones. Doug is my love one. Wouldn't I be putting myself at risk of getting the conrovirus meeting someone new?
sys : (Others) I wouldn't say that Doug's wife is part of the problem. She's sounds like another victim of his philandering and dishonesty.
usr : Why do you keep focusing on the wife? You make it sound if I just kill her Doug and I could be happy and I wouldn't have to worry about his Philandering as you call it anymore. Are you saying I'm a Philanderer?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You're right. It's best to err on the side of caution when it comes to covid. But remember that Doug isn't your loved one alone. He's sharing germs with both you and his wife. Maybe a lockdown -- emotional and physical -- will help you work to find an end to this relationship.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) How did you spend your time before you met Doug? Perhaps you could reconnect with other friends or find a hobby to fill your time.
usr : You never answered my question about ever being in this type of situation. Did your mate/husband or whatever Philalnder on you and you haven't gotten over it? Are you still with the man/woman or whatever that broke your heart and cheated on you? Why cant you get over it? Is the only advice for me you have is to eat Thanksgiving dinner alone?
| (Reflection of feelings) I absolutely have had my heart broken, yes. And I've spent some holidays alone. I can understand your pain. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I knew Doug was married when we first started talking. It wasn't supposed to be anything serious. Just a fling! It's seven months and I know he won't leave his wife for me. I just don't how to get out of this.". | usr : Have you ever experienced anything like this?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about that?
usr : I met Doug at work when I used to smoke outside the building. He's handsome, built and has a killer smile. We started talking and one night we hooked up.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you're physically attracted to Doug and had a one-time encounter with him. Is that right?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about how you're feeling now?
usr : Well, actually this has been going on for 7 months. I hooked up with him after a month of talking.
usr : I'm ready to end this situation because I want the more emotional stuff I know Doug can't give. How do I get out?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure it's frustrating that you're not getting the emotional support you need. It's great that you are reaching out to communicate with someone.
usr : I heard of people falling for a fling or one night stand but this has gone on for months. Add to that, I see him at work. He's married and I don't see this as more than a long term hook up. Have you ever experienced something like this?
usr : If you never experienced this do you know of anyone who has? What did they do to get out of this type of relationship if you want to call it that?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can sense your frustration, and his marriage just adds to that. I've known lots of people who've ended up in relationships with married people.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Just reaching out to talk with someone else is a great first step.
usr : What did those people do to end the relationship if you want to call it that?
usr : You keep saying it's good to reach out. I'm reaching out to you trying to find a way to turn off my emotions for this man.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes, a good first step is to reach out to friends who can help you fill your time and avoid interactions with him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) And co-workers often can help you find ways to avoid him in the office. Are others aware of the relationship who can help you with that?
usr : My friends don't know about my situation with Doug. I do suspect some people at work are putting us eating lunch and taking walks together as something more. +
usr : Doug make my sing and makes my body come alive but his presence is starting to break my heart because this situation is not going anywhere. I need help! It's not Doug's problem it's mine!
usr : I don't like his wife because if she was treating him well he wouldn't be with me. So why doesn't she just let him go?
usr : I'm starting to think if she was out the picture Doug and I could be together in a real relationship you know what I mean?
sys : (Others) I can hear your anguish, and I understand your frustration. It's not clear to me, though, that Doug is being honest with you or with his wife.
sys : (Question) You mentioned that Doug can't provide the emotional support that you need. Do you think he's being fully honest with you about his relationship with his wife?
usr : I don't understand. Doug's married I know that but I want what his wife has so she's not the problem.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You're absolutely right. It sounds like Doug is the problem. He's cheating on his wife, and he's not giving you the emotional support you need.
usr : All I want to know from you is to tell me how to get rid of the feelings I have for Doug or how to get rid of his wife since you think she's part of the problem?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) With the holidays coming up, maybe you could avoid him for an extended stretch and really do something about what it is you are looking for in a partner.
usr : Like what? The media says stay inside with love ones. Doug is my love one. Wouldn't I be putting myself at risk of getting the conrovirus meeting someone new?
sys : (Others) I wouldn't say that Doug's wife is part of the problem. She's sounds like another victim of his philandering and dishonesty.
usr : Why do you keep focusing on the wife? You make it sound if I just kill her Doug and I could be happy and I wouldn't have to worry about his Philandering as you call it anymore. Are you saying I'm a Philanderer?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You're right. It's best to err on the side of caution when it comes to covid. But remember that Doug isn't your loved one alone. He's sharing germs with both you and his wife. Maybe a lockdown -- emotional and physical -- will help you work to find an end to this relationship.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) How did you spend your time before you met Doug? Perhaps you could reconnect with other friends or find a hobby to fill your time.
usr : You never answered my question about ever being in this type of situation. Did your mate/husband or whatever Philalnder on you and you haven't gotten over it? Are you still with the man/woman or whatever that broke your heart and cheated on you? Why cant you get over it? Is the only advice for me you have is to eat Thanksgiving dinner alone?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I absolutely have had my heart broken, yes. And I've spent some holidays alone. I can understand your pain.
usr : I'm glad you understand my pain. I've spent and know how to be by myself. What I'm asking you how do I get out being in love with someone?
| (Others) It would be great to be able to give you an easy and pain-free solution, but I don't know that that is possible when it comes to matters of the heart. If you truly love Doug and want to be with him, you should tell him that and see how he responds. You mentioned, though, that he can't give you the emotional support you need. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I knew Doug was married when we first started talking. It wasn't supposed to be anything serious. Just a fling! It's seven months and I know he won't leave his wife for me. I just don't how to get out of this.". | usr : Have you ever experienced anything like this?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about that?
usr : I met Doug at work when I used to smoke outside the building. He's handsome, built and has a killer smile. We started talking and one night we hooked up.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you're physically attracted to Doug and had a one-time encounter with him. Is that right?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about how you're feeling now?
usr : Well, actually this has been going on for 7 months. I hooked up with him after a month of talking.
usr : I'm ready to end this situation because I want the more emotional stuff I know Doug can't give. How do I get out?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure it's frustrating that you're not getting the emotional support you need. It's great that you are reaching out to communicate with someone.
usr : I heard of people falling for a fling or one night stand but this has gone on for months. Add to that, I see him at work. He's married and I don't see this as more than a long term hook up. Have you ever experienced something like this?
usr : If you never experienced this do you know of anyone who has? What did they do to get out of this type of relationship if you want to call it that?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can sense your frustration, and his marriage just adds to that. I've known lots of people who've ended up in relationships with married people.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Just reaching out to talk with someone else is a great first step.
usr : What did those people do to end the relationship if you want to call it that?
usr : You keep saying it's good to reach out. I'm reaching out to you trying to find a way to turn off my emotions for this man.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes, a good first step is to reach out to friends who can help you fill your time and avoid interactions with him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) And co-workers often can help you find ways to avoid him in the office. Are others aware of the relationship who can help you with that?
usr : My friends don't know about my situation with Doug. I do suspect some people at work are putting us eating lunch and taking walks together as something more. +
usr : Doug make my sing and makes my body come alive but his presence is starting to break my heart because this situation is not going anywhere. I need help! It's not Doug's problem it's mine!
usr : I don't like his wife because if she was treating him well he wouldn't be with me. So why doesn't she just let him go?
usr : I'm starting to think if she was out the picture Doug and I could be together in a real relationship you know what I mean?
sys : (Others) I can hear your anguish, and I understand your frustration. It's not clear to me, though, that Doug is being honest with you or with his wife.
sys : (Question) You mentioned that Doug can't provide the emotional support that you need. Do you think he's being fully honest with you about his relationship with his wife?
usr : I don't understand. Doug's married I know that but I want what his wife has so she's not the problem.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You're absolutely right. It sounds like Doug is the problem. He's cheating on his wife, and he's not giving you the emotional support you need.
usr : All I want to know from you is to tell me how to get rid of the feelings I have for Doug or how to get rid of his wife since you think she's part of the problem?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) With the holidays coming up, maybe you could avoid him for an extended stretch and really do something about what it is you are looking for in a partner.
usr : Like what? The media says stay inside with love ones. Doug is my love one. Wouldn't I be putting myself at risk of getting the conrovirus meeting someone new?
sys : (Others) I wouldn't say that Doug's wife is part of the problem. She's sounds like another victim of his philandering and dishonesty.
usr : Why do you keep focusing on the wife? You make it sound if I just kill her Doug and I could be happy and I wouldn't have to worry about his Philandering as you call it anymore. Are you saying I'm a Philanderer?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You're right. It's best to err on the side of caution when it comes to covid. But remember that Doug isn't your loved one alone. He's sharing germs with both you and his wife. Maybe a lockdown -- emotional and physical -- will help you work to find an end to this relationship.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) How did you spend your time before you met Doug? Perhaps you could reconnect with other friends or find a hobby to fill your time.
usr : You never answered my question about ever being in this type of situation. Did your mate/husband or whatever Philalnder on you and you haven't gotten over it? Are you still with the man/woman or whatever that broke your heart and cheated on you? Why cant you get over it? Is the only advice for me you have is to eat Thanksgiving dinner alone?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I absolutely have had my heart broken, yes. And I've spent some holidays alone. I can understand your pain.
usr : I'm glad you understand my pain. I've spent and know how to be by myself. What I'm asking you how do I get out being in love with someone?
sys : (Others) It would be great to be able to give you an easy and pain-free solution, but I don't know that that is possible when it comes to matters of the heart. If you truly love Doug and want to be with him, you should tell him that and see how he responds. You mentioned, though, that he can't give you the emotional support you need.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) If you truly believe, in your heart of hearts, that Doug can't be your everything, then you already have the answer: He is not "the one." He's the one right now. And you shouldn't have to settle for that. You sound like a strong and capable woman who should be loved and respected for everything she is. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I knew Doug was married when we first started talking. It wasn't supposed to be anything serious. Just a fling! It's seven months and I know he won't leave his wife for me. I just don't how to get out of this.". | usr : Have you ever experienced anything like this?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about that?
usr : I met Doug at work when I used to smoke outside the building. He's handsome, built and has a killer smile. We started talking and one night we hooked up.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you're physically attracted to Doug and had a one-time encounter with him. Is that right?
sys : (Question) can you tell me more about how you're feeling now?
usr : Well, actually this has been going on for 7 months. I hooked up with him after a month of talking.
usr : I'm ready to end this situation because I want the more emotional stuff I know Doug can't give. How do I get out?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure it's frustrating that you're not getting the emotional support you need. It's great that you are reaching out to communicate with someone.
usr : I heard of people falling for a fling or one night stand but this has gone on for months. Add to that, I see him at work. He's married and I don't see this as more than a long term hook up. Have you ever experienced something like this?
usr : If you never experienced this do you know of anyone who has? What did they do to get out of this type of relationship if you want to call it that?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can sense your frustration, and his marriage just adds to that. I've known lots of people who've ended up in relationships with married people.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Just reaching out to talk with someone else is a great first step.
usr : What did those people do to end the relationship if you want to call it that?
usr : You keep saying it's good to reach out. I'm reaching out to you trying to find a way to turn off my emotions for this man.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes, a good first step is to reach out to friends who can help you fill your time and avoid interactions with him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) And co-workers often can help you find ways to avoid him in the office. Are others aware of the relationship who can help you with that?
usr : My friends don't know about my situation with Doug. I do suspect some people at work are putting us eating lunch and taking walks together as something more. +
usr : Doug make my sing and makes my body come alive but his presence is starting to break my heart because this situation is not going anywhere. I need help! It's not Doug's problem it's mine!
usr : I don't like his wife because if she was treating him well he wouldn't be with me. So why doesn't she just let him go?
usr : I'm starting to think if she was out the picture Doug and I could be together in a real relationship you know what I mean?
sys : (Others) I can hear your anguish, and I understand your frustration. It's not clear to me, though, that Doug is being honest with you or with his wife.
sys : (Question) You mentioned that Doug can't provide the emotional support that you need. Do you think he's being fully honest with you about his relationship with his wife?
usr : I don't understand. Doug's married I know that but I want what his wife has so she's not the problem.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You're absolutely right. It sounds like Doug is the problem. He's cheating on his wife, and he's not giving you the emotional support you need.
usr : All I want to know from you is to tell me how to get rid of the feelings I have for Doug or how to get rid of his wife since you think she's part of the problem?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) With the holidays coming up, maybe you could avoid him for an extended stretch and really do something about what it is you are looking for in a partner.
usr : Like what? The media says stay inside with love ones. Doug is my love one. Wouldn't I be putting myself at risk of getting the conrovirus meeting someone new?
sys : (Others) I wouldn't say that Doug's wife is part of the problem. She's sounds like another victim of his philandering and dishonesty.
usr : Why do you keep focusing on the wife? You make it sound if I just kill her Doug and I could be happy and I wouldn't have to worry about his Philandering as you call it anymore. Are you saying I'm a Philanderer?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You're right. It's best to err on the side of caution when it comes to covid. But remember that Doug isn't your loved one alone. He's sharing germs with both you and his wife. Maybe a lockdown -- emotional and physical -- will help you work to find an end to this relationship.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) How did you spend your time before you met Doug? Perhaps you could reconnect with other friends or find a hobby to fill your time.
usr : You never answered my question about ever being in this type of situation. Did your mate/husband or whatever Philalnder on you and you haven't gotten over it? Are you still with the man/woman or whatever that broke your heart and cheated on you? Why cant you get over it? Is the only advice for me you have is to eat Thanksgiving dinner alone?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I absolutely have had my heart broken, yes. And I've spent some holidays alone. I can understand your pain.
usr : I'm glad you understand my pain. I've spent and know how to be by myself. What I'm asking you how do I get out being in love with someone?
sys : (Others) It would be great to be able to give you an easy and pain-free solution, but I don't know that that is possible when it comes to matters of the heart. If you truly love Doug and want to be with him, you should tell him that and see how he responds. You mentioned, though, that he can't give you the emotional support you need.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If you truly believe, in your heart of hearts, that Doug can't be your everything, then you already have the answer: He is not "the one." He's the one right now. And you shouldn't have to settle for that. You sound like a strong and capable woman who should be loved and respected for everything she is.
usr : Okay so I eat Thanksgiving alone and I spend time alone. Okay tell me how i fill my nights alone up? How do I warm the other side of my bed which Doug fill so well. I meant he can't give me emotional support because he's married. There is so time, sex and emotional support he can give. And I don't why you assumed I am a woman because I'm not! Also, I don't think being with Doug is settling! I do however appreciate your time and effort.
| (Others) I regret my assumption. I hope you can find happiness! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Just lost my job. Don't know how to continue with my lifestyle.". | (Question) hi there, how are you? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Just lost my job. Don't know how to continue with my lifestyle.". | sys : (Question) hi there, how are you?
usr : I don't know how im gonna survive without my job.
| (Question) can you clarify what you mean? did you lose your job? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Just lost my job. Don't know how to continue with my lifestyle.". | sys : (Question) hi there, how are you?
usr : I don't know how im gonna survive without my job.
sys : (Question) can you clarify what you mean? did you lose your job?
usr : Yes. I got laid off last week. A bunch of us were.
| (Question) i see. what type of work did you do? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Just lost my job. Don't know how to continue with my lifestyle.". | sys : (Question) hi there, how are you?
usr : I don't know how im gonna survive without my job.
sys : (Question) can you clarify what you mean? did you lose your job?
usr : Yes. I got laid off last week. A bunch of us were.
sys : (Question) i see. what type of work did you do?
usr : I was a chef in a restaurant. Since covid business went down, and now the restaraunt is closing.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) oh i'm very sorry to hear that. but the great thing about having worked in a kitchen is that there are a lot of skills you can use in other jobs |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Just lost my job. Don't know how to continue with my lifestyle.". | sys : (Question) hi there, how are you?
usr : I don't know how im gonna survive without my job.
sys : (Question) can you clarify what you mean? did you lose your job?
usr : Yes. I got laid off last week. A bunch of us were.
sys : (Question) i see. what type of work did you do?
usr : I was a chef in a restaurant. Since covid business went down, and now the restaraunt is closing.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) oh i'm very sorry to hear that. but the great thing about having worked in a kitchen is that there are a lot of skills you can use in other jobs
usr : All the restaurants are closing, and the ones open gotta duty to keep the employees they already had. Where else are my culinary skills gonna be used?
| (Reflection of feelings) i understand that losing a job sucks and i can sense your frustration at the situation but there are other opportunities out there, and you don't need to be thinking only in the culinary field |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Just lost my job. Don't know how to continue with my lifestyle.". | sys : (Question) hi there, how are you?
usr : I don't know how im gonna survive without my job.
sys : (Question) can you clarify what you mean? did you lose your job?
usr : Yes. I got laid off last week. A bunch of us were.
sys : (Question) i see. what type of work did you do?
usr : I was a chef in a restaurant. Since covid business went down, and now the restaraunt is closing.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) oh i'm very sorry to hear that. but the great thing about having worked in a kitchen is that there are a lot of skills you can use in other jobs
usr : All the restaurants are closing, and the ones open gotta duty to keep the employees they already had. Where else are my culinary skills gonna be used?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i understand that losing a job sucks and i can sense your frustration at the situation but there are other opportunities out there, and you don't need to be thinking only in the culinary field
usr : All i have done is cook, my whole adult life. I dont know how to do anything else.
| (Providing Suggestions) time management, resourcefulness, being able to think on your feet and manage multiple things at once are skills i'm sure you use and developed in the kitchen, and those are skills you can take anywhere |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Just lost my job. Don't know how to continue with my lifestyle.". | sys : (Question) hi there, how are you?
usr : I don't know how im gonna survive without my job.
sys : (Question) can you clarify what you mean? did you lose your job?
usr : Yes. I got laid off last week. A bunch of us were.
sys : (Question) i see. what type of work did you do?
usr : I was a chef in a restaurant. Since covid business went down, and now the restaraunt is closing.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) oh i'm very sorry to hear that. but the great thing about having worked in a kitchen is that there are a lot of skills you can use in other jobs
usr : All the restaurants are closing, and the ones open gotta duty to keep the employees they already had. Where else are my culinary skills gonna be used?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i understand that losing a job sucks and i can sense your frustration at the situation but there are other opportunities out there, and you don't need to be thinking only in the culinary field
usr : All i have done is cook, my whole adult life. I dont know how to do anything else.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) time management, resourcefulness, being able to think on your feet and manage multiple things at once are skills i'm sure you use and developed in the kitchen, and those are skills you can take anywhere
usr : Wow! Never thougt of it like that. But still, i dont have a clue where those skills would be useful. All i know is the kitchen.
| (Providing Suggestions) don't be so hard on yourself. I'm sure there are a lot of things you can do. of course if you want to stay in the culinary field, you might need to get creative in the short term. have you thought about finding opportunities to be a private chef? or maybe even make pre-made meals to sell for people who don't want to or dont have time to cook for themselves? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Just lost my job. Don't know how to continue with my lifestyle.". | sys : (Question) hi there, how are you?
usr : I don't know how im gonna survive without my job.
sys : (Question) can you clarify what you mean? did you lose your job?
usr : Yes. I got laid off last week. A bunch of us were.
sys : (Question) i see. what type of work did you do?
usr : I was a chef in a restaurant. Since covid business went down, and now the restaraunt is closing.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) oh i'm very sorry to hear that. but the great thing about having worked in a kitchen is that there are a lot of skills you can use in other jobs
usr : All the restaurants are closing, and the ones open gotta duty to keep the employees they already had. Where else are my culinary skills gonna be used?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i understand that losing a job sucks and i can sense your frustration at the situation but there are other opportunities out there, and you don't need to be thinking only in the culinary field
usr : All i have done is cook, my whole adult life. I dont know how to do anything else.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) time management, resourcefulness, being able to think on your feet and manage multiple things at once are skills i'm sure you use and developed in the kitchen, and those are skills you can take anywhere
usr : Wow! Never thougt of it like that. But still, i dont have a clue where those skills would be useful. All i know is the kitchen.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) don't be so hard on yourself. I'm sure there are a lot of things you can do. of course if you want to stay in the culinary field, you might need to get creative in the short term. have you thought about finding opportunities to be a private chef? or maybe even make pre-made meals to sell for people who don't want to or dont have time to cook for themselves?
| (Providing Suggestions) another thing you might try is an online cooking lesson or something. with more people staying home and eating in, they might be interested in learning how to cook better food for themselves |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Just lost my job. Don't know how to continue with my lifestyle.". | sys : (Question) hi there, how are you?
usr : I don't know how im gonna survive without my job.
sys : (Question) can you clarify what you mean? did you lose your job?
usr : Yes. I got laid off last week. A bunch of us were.
sys : (Question) i see. what type of work did you do?
usr : I was a chef in a restaurant. Since covid business went down, and now the restaraunt is closing.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) oh i'm very sorry to hear that. but the great thing about having worked in a kitchen is that there are a lot of skills you can use in other jobs
usr : All the restaurants are closing, and the ones open gotta duty to keep the employees they already had. Where else are my culinary skills gonna be used?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i understand that losing a job sucks and i can sense your frustration at the situation but there are other opportunities out there, and you don't need to be thinking only in the culinary field
usr : All i have done is cook, my whole adult life. I dont know how to do anything else.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) time management, resourcefulness, being able to think on your feet and manage multiple things at once are skills i'm sure you use and developed in the kitchen, and those are skills you can take anywhere
usr : Wow! Never thougt of it like that. But still, i dont have a clue where those skills would be useful. All i know is the kitchen.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) don't be so hard on yourself. I'm sure there are a lot of things you can do. of course if you want to stay in the culinary field, you might need to get creative in the short term. have you thought about finding opportunities to be a private chef? or maybe even make pre-made meals to sell for people who don't want to or dont have time to cook for themselves?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) another thing you might try is an online cooking lesson or something. with more people staying home and eating in, they might be interested in learning how to cook better food for themselves
usr : You know what, i have never thought of that. Those are actually good suggestions. But im not sure if i am discipline enough to run that business on my own. I cook, and thats about it. The business part i've always had someone else doing that. I dont know if i know how to even set that stuff up.
| (Providing Suggestions) that sounds like an opportunity in itself to me. i'm sure there are tons of people out there that have the business stuff but don't have the cooking skills. you could find a partner to help, and that way you won't have to do everything alone. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Just lost my job. Don't know how to continue with my lifestyle.". | sys : (Question) hi there, how are you?
usr : I don't know how im gonna survive without my job.
sys : (Question) can you clarify what you mean? did you lose your job?
usr : Yes. I got laid off last week. A bunch of us were.
sys : (Question) i see. what type of work did you do?
usr : I was a chef in a restaurant. Since covid business went down, and now the restaraunt is closing.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) oh i'm very sorry to hear that. but the great thing about having worked in a kitchen is that there are a lot of skills you can use in other jobs
usr : All the restaurants are closing, and the ones open gotta duty to keep the employees they already had. Where else are my culinary skills gonna be used?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i understand that losing a job sucks and i can sense your frustration at the situation but there are other opportunities out there, and you don't need to be thinking only in the culinary field
usr : All i have done is cook, my whole adult life. I dont know how to do anything else.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) time management, resourcefulness, being able to think on your feet and manage multiple things at once are skills i'm sure you use and developed in the kitchen, and those are skills you can take anywhere
usr : Wow! Never thougt of it like that. But still, i dont have a clue where those skills would be useful. All i know is the kitchen.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) don't be so hard on yourself. I'm sure there are a lot of things you can do. of course if you want to stay in the culinary field, you might need to get creative in the short term. have you thought about finding opportunities to be a private chef? or maybe even make pre-made meals to sell for people who don't want to or dont have time to cook for themselves?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) another thing you might try is an online cooking lesson or something. with more people staying home and eating in, they might be interested in learning how to cook better food for themselves
usr : You know what, i have never thought of that. Those are actually good suggestions. But im not sure if i am discipline enough to run that business on my own. I cook, and thats about it. The business part i've always had someone else doing that. I dont know if i know how to even set that stuff up.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) that sounds like an opportunity in itself to me. i'm sure there are tons of people out there that have the business stuff but don't have the cooking skills. you could find a partner to help, and that way you won't have to do everything alone.
usr : I dont know many people. i keep to myself. Dont know how i would find someone for the business side.
usr : your ideas sound great, but they may be out of my league. I dont know if i am capable of doing my own business.
| (Information) i totally get it, but especially now, there are a lot of opportunities for people who like to keep to themselves, since so many businesses are being forced to go online. you could put an ad on craigslist or facebook for people who might be interested |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Just lost my job. Don't know how to continue with my lifestyle.". | sys : (Question) hi there, how are you?
usr : I don't know how im gonna survive without my job.
sys : (Question) can you clarify what you mean? did you lose your job?
usr : Yes. I got laid off last week. A bunch of us were.
sys : (Question) i see. what type of work did you do?
usr : I was a chef in a restaurant. Since covid business went down, and now the restaraunt is closing.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) oh i'm very sorry to hear that. but the great thing about having worked in a kitchen is that there are a lot of skills you can use in other jobs
usr : All the restaurants are closing, and the ones open gotta duty to keep the employees they already had. Where else are my culinary skills gonna be used?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i understand that losing a job sucks and i can sense your frustration at the situation but there are other opportunities out there, and you don't need to be thinking only in the culinary field
usr : All i have done is cook, my whole adult life. I dont know how to do anything else.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) time management, resourcefulness, being able to think on your feet and manage multiple things at once are skills i'm sure you use and developed in the kitchen, and those are skills you can take anywhere
usr : Wow! Never thougt of it like that. But still, i dont have a clue where those skills would be useful. All i know is the kitchen.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) don't be so hard on yourself. I'm sure there are a lot of things you can do. of course if you want to stay in the culinary field, you might need to get creative in the short term. have you thought about finding opportunities to be a private chef? or maybe even make pre-made meals to sell for people who don't want to or dont have time to cook for themselves?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) another thing you might try is an online cooking lesson or something. with more people staying home and eating in, they might be interested in learning how to cook better food for themselves
usr : You know what, i have never thought of that. Those are actually good suggestions. But im not sure if i am discipline enough to run that business on my own. I cook, and thats about it. The business part i've always had someone else doing that. I dont know if i know how to even set that stuff up.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) that sounds like an opportunity in itself to me. i'm sure there are tons of people out there that have the business stuff but don't have the cooking skills. you could find a partner to help, and that way you won't have to do everything alone.
usr : I dont know many people. i keep to myself. Dont know how i would find someone for the business side.
usr : your ideas sound great, but they may be out of my league. I dont know if i am capable of doing my own business.
sys : (Information) i totally get it, but especially now, there are a lot of opportunities for people who like to keep to themselves, since so many businesses are being forced to go online. you could put an ad on craigslist or facebook for people who might be interested
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) give yourself a little more credit. you put yourself out there enough to come on here for advice. that's pretty good self-awareness and more than i can say for some other people i know |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Just lost my job. Don't know how to continue with my lifestyle.". | sys : (Question) hi there, how are you?
usr : I don't know how im gonna survive without my job.
sys : (Question) can you clarify what you mean? did you lose your job?
usr : Yes. I got laid off last week. A bunch of us were.
sys : (Question) i see. what type of work did you do?
usr : I was a chef in a restaurant. Since covid business went down, and now the restaraunt is closing.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) oh i'm very sorry to hear that. but the great thing about having worked in a kitchen is that there are a lot of skills you can use in other jobs
usr : All the restaurants are closing, and the ones open gotta duty to keep the employees they already had. Where else are my culinary skills gonna be used?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i understand that losing a job sucks and i can sense your frustration at the situation but there are other opportunities out there, and you don't need to be thinking only in the culinary field
usr : All i have done is cook, my whole adult life. I dont know how to do anything else.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) time management, resourcefulness, being able to think on your feet and manage multiple things at once are skills i'm sure you use and developed in the kitchen, and those are skills you can take anywhere
usr : Wow! Never thougt of it like that. But still, i dont have a clue where those skills would be useful. All i know is the kitchen.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) don't be so hard on yourself. I'm sure there are a lot of things you can do. of course if you want to stay in the culinary field, you might need to get creative in the short term. have you thought about finding opportunities to be a private chef? or maybe even make pre-made meals to sell for people who don't want to or dont have time to cook for themselves?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) another thing you might try is an online cooking lesson or something. with more people staying home and eating in, they might be interested in learning how to cook better food for themselves
usr : You know what, i have never thought of that. Those are actually good suggestions. But im not sure if i am discipline enough to run that business on my own. I cook, and thats about it. The business part i've always had someone else doing that. I dont know if i know how to even set that stuff up.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) that sounds like an opportunity in itself to me. i'm sure there are tons of people out there that have the business stuff but don't have the cooking skills. you could find a partner to help, and that way you won't have to do everything alone.
usr : I dont know many people. i keep to myself. Dont know how i would find someone for the business side.
usr : your ideas sound great, but they may be out of my league. I dont know if i am capable of doing my own business.
sys : (Information) i totally get it, but especially now, there are a lot of opportunities for people who like to keep to themselves, since so many businesses are being forced to go online. you could put an ad on craigslist or facebook for people who might be interested
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) give yourself a little more credit. you put yourself out there enough to come on here for advice. that's pretty good self-awareness and more than i can say for some other people i know
usr : Wow! you have great suggestions. Thank you so much for your ideas. I think i may give it a go. You have made me feel better about my situation, and gave me some action items to tackle. thank you for this conversation.
| (Others) you're very welcome, i'm happy to help and glad you feel better! Best of luck to you! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Just lost my job. Don't know how to continue with my lifestyle.". | sys : (Question) hi there, how are you?
usr : I don't know how im gonna survive without my job.
sys : (Question) can you clarify what you mean? did you lose your job?
usr : Yes. I got laid off last week. A bunch of us were.
sys : (Question) i see. what type of work did you do?
usr : I was a chef in a restaurant. Since covid business went down, and now the restaraunt is closing.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) oh i'm very sorry to hear that. but the great thing about having worked in a kitchen is that there are a lot of skills you can use in other jobs
usr : All the restaurants are closing, and the ones open gotta duty to keep the employees they already had. Where else are my culinary skills gonna be used?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i understand that losing a job sucks and i can sense your frustration at the situation but there are other opportunities out there, and you don't need to be thinking only in the culinary field
usr : All i have done is cook, my whole adult life. I dont know how to do anything else.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) time management, resourcefulness, being able to think on your feet and manage multiple things at once are skills i'm sure you use and developed in the kitchen, and those are skills you can take anywhere
usr : Wow! Never thougt of it like that. But still, i dont have a clue where those skills would be useful. All i know is the kitchen.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) don't be so hard on yourself. I'm sure there are a lot of things you can do. of course if you want to stay in the culinary field, you might need to get creative in the short term. have you thought about finding opportunities to be a private chef? or maybe even make pre-made meals to sell for people who don't want to or dont have time to cook for themselves?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) another thing you might try is an online cooking lesson or something. with more people staying home and eating in, they might be interested in learning how to cook better food for themselves
usr : You know what, i have never thought of that. Those are actually good suggestions. But im not sure if i am discipline enough to run that business on my own. I cook, and thats about it. The business part i've always had someone else doing that. I dont know if i know how to even set that stuff up.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) that sounds like an opportunity in itself to me. i'm sure there are tons of people out there that have the business stuff but don't have the cooking skills. you could find a partner to help, and that way you won't have to do everything alone.
usr : I dont know many people. i keep to myself. Dont know how i would find someone for the business side.
usr : your ideas sound great, but they may be out of my league. I dont know if i am capable of doing my own business.
sys : (Information) i totally get it, but especially now, there are a lot of opportunities for people who like to keep to themselves, since so many businesses are being forced to go online. you could put an ad on craigslist or facebook for people who might be interested
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) give yourself a little more credit. you put yourself out there enough to come on here for advice. that's pretty good self-awareness and more than i can say for some other people i know
usr : Wow! you have great suggestions. Thank you so much for your ideas. I think i may give it a go. You have made me feel better about my situation, and gave me some action items to tackle. thank you for this conversation.
sys : (Others) you're very welcome, i'm happy to help and glad you feel better! Best of luck to you!
usr : Have a great night wise one.
| (Others) lol you too ;) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I am having difficulty at school. I'm in my first year of college and since we have gone virtual, I don't see any friends. I want to drop out, but my parents would go crazy. I can't talk to them about it.". | (Question) Hello, what can I help you? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I am having difficulty at school. I'm in my first year of college and since we have gone virtual, I don't see any friends. I want to drop out, but my parents would go crazy. I can't talk to them about it.". | sys : (Question) Hello, what can I help you?
usr : I just need help deciding what to do.
| (Question) What are you contemplating for? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I am having difficulty at school. I'm in my first year of college and since we have gone virtual, I don't see any friends. I want to drop out, but my parents would go crazy. I can't talk to them about it.". | sys : (Question) Hello, what can I help you?
usr : I just need help deciding what to do.
sys : (Question) What are you contemplating for?
usr : I was doing okay in school, but when we had go virtual, I lost all my friends.
usr : I want to quit school and just go home. But my parents would not be happy.
| (Question) why do you think so? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I am having difficulty at school. I'm in my first year of college and since we have gone virtual, I don't see any friends. I want to drop out, but my parents would go crazy. I can't talk to them about it.". | sys : (Question) Hello, what can I help you?
usr : I just need help deciding what to do.
sys : (Question) What are you contemplating for?
usr : I was doing okay in school, but when we had go virtual, I lost all my friends.
usr : I want to quit school and just go home. But my parents would not be happy.
sys : (Question) why do you think so?
usr : I don't see anyone but my roommate and she has a boyfriend. I'm so lonely!
| (Others) How about joining a club at school to know more people? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I am having difficulty at school. I'm in my first year of college and since we have gone virtual, I don't see any friends. I want to drop out, but my parents would go crazy. I can't talk to them about it.". | sys : (Question) Hello, what can I help you?
usr : I just need help deciding what to do.
sys : (Question) What are you contemplating for?
usr : I was doing okay in school, but when we had go virtual, I lost all my friends.
usr : I want to quit school and just go home. But my parents would not be happy.
sys : (Question) why do you think so?
usr : I don't see anyone but my roommate and she has a boyfriend. I'm so lonely!
sys : (Others) How about joining a club at school to know more people?
usr : We are in a lockdown because of COVID. So the clubs are not doing anything.
usr : I know I'm not the only one feeling this way.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you're stuck with your roommate but she doesn't care about you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I am having difficulty at school. I'm in my first year of college and since we have gone virtual, I don't see any friends. I want to drop out, but my parents would go crazy. I can't talk to them about it.". | sys : (Question) Hello, what can I help you?
usr : I just need help deciding what to do.
sys : (Question) What are you contemplating for?
usr : I was doing okay in school, but when we had go virtual, I lost all my friends.
usr : I want to quit school and just go home. But my parents would not be happy.
sys : (Question) why do you think so?
usr : I don't see anyone but my roommate and she has a boyfriend. I'm so lonely!
sys : (Others) How about joining a club at school to know more people?
usr : We are in a lockdown because of COVID. So the clubs are not doing anything.
usr : I know I'm not the only one feeling this way.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you're stuck with your roommate but she doesn't care about you?
usr : She's just busy with her boyfriend. They go out on hikes and stuff, but they just want to go by themselves. I'm just on my own all the time.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Everyone feels that, and it's totally normal. Don't be too harsh on yourself |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I am having difficulty at school. I'm in my first year of college and since we have gone virtual, I don't see any friends. I want to drop out, but my parents would go crazy. I can't talk to them about it.". | sys : (Question) Hello, what can I help you?
usr : I just need help deciding what to do.
sys : (Question) What are you contemplating for?
usr : I was doing okay in school, but when we had go virtual, I lost all my friends.
usr : I want to quit school and just go home. But my parents would not be happy.
sys : (Question) why do you think so?
usr : I don't see anyone but my roommate and she has a boyfriend. I'm so lonely!
sys : (Others) How about joining a club at school to know more people?
usr : We are in a lockdown because of COVID. So the clubs are not doing anything.
usr : I know I'm not the only one feeling this way.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you're stuck with your roommate but she doesn't care about you?
usr : She's just busy with her boyfriend. They go out on hikes and stuff, but they just want to go by themselves. I'm just on my own all the time.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Everyone feels that, and it's totally normal. Don't be too harsh on yourself
usr : Do you think I should quit school and start again next fall?
| (Others) Why don't you do something on your own? Read a book, do some crafts? |
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