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### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fall back on my study by playing too much online games and now I might fail my exams.". | usr : Hello there.
sys : (Question) hello, how are you?
| (Question) How is your day today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fall back on my study by playing too much online games and now I might fail my exams.". | usr : Hello there.
sys : (Question) hello, how are you?
sys : (Question) How is your day today?
usr : Could be better, I feel anxiety about my Uni exams. I feel I will fail it all this year
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! don't feel like this try to feel relaxe |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fall back on my study by playing too much online games and now I might fail my exams.". | usr : Hello there.
sys : (Question) hello, how are you?
sys : (Question) How is your day today?
usr : Could be better, I feel anxiety about my Uni exams. I feel I will fail it all this year
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! don't feel like this try to feel relaxe
| (Providing Suggestions) Try to make yourself confidence and relax |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fall back on my study by playing too much online games and now I might fail my exams.". | usr : Hello there.
sys : (Question) hello, how are you?
sys : (Question) How is your day today?
usr : Could be better, I feel anxiety about my Uni exams. I feel I will fail it all this year
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! don't feel like this try to feel relaxe
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to make yourself confidence and relax
usr : I just can't, I fall behind on study because I played too much online games and didn't attend classes
usr : It's easy to say to try to relax :(
| (Providing Suggestions) Try to give more time to your studies |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fall back on my study by playing too much online games and now I might fail my exams.". | usr : Hello there.
sys : (Question) hello, how are you?
sys : (Question) How is your day today?
usr : Could be better, I feel anxiety about my Uni exams. I feel I will fail it all this year
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! don't feel like this try to feel relaxe
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to make yourself confidence and relax
usr : I just can't, I fall behind on study because I played too much online games and didn't attend classes
usr : It's easy to say to try to relax :(
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to give more time to your studies
usr : I am trying to catch up 3 month study in one week, but more I am trying the more I feel I will fail
| (Reflection of feelings) I can feel your anxiety from your chatting |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fall back on my study by playing too much online games and now I might fail my exams.". | usr : Hello there.
sys : (Question) hello, how are you?
sys : (Question) How is your day today?
usr : Could be better, I feel anxiety about my Uni exams. I feel I will fail it all this year
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! don't feel like this try to feel relaxe
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to make yourself confidence and relax
usr : I just can't, I fall behind on study because I played too much online games and didn't attend classes
usr : It's easy to say to try to relax :(
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to give more time to your studies
usr : I am trying to catch up 3 month study in one week, but more I am trying the more I feel I will fail
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can feel your anxiety from your chatting
usr : Oh thank you
| (Reflection of feelings) I have been from same situation but i try my best and i did |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fall back on my study by playing too much online games and now I might fail my exams.". | usr : Hello there.
sys : (Question) hello, how are you?
sys : (Question) How is your day today?
usr : Could be better, I feel anxiety about my Uni exams. I feel I will fail it all this year
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! don't feel like this try to feel relaxe
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to make yourself confidence and relax
usr : I just can't, I fall behind on study because I played too much online games and didn't attend classes
usr : It's easy to say to try to relax :(
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to give more time to your studies
usr : I am trying to catch up 3 month study in one week, but more I am trying the more I feel I will fail
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can feel your anxiety from your chatting
usr : Oh thank you
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been from same situation but i try my best and i did
| (Others) I have that you can do it don't worry |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fall back on my study by playing too much online games and now I might fail my exams.". | usr : Hello there.
sys : (Question) hello, how are you?
sys : (Question) How is your day today?
usr : Could be better, I feel anxiety about my Uni exams. I feel I will fail it all this year
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! don't feel like this try to feel relaxe
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to make yourself confidence and relax
usr : I just can't, I fall behind on study because I played too much online games and didn't attend classes
usr : It's easy to say to try to relax :(
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to give more time to your studies
usr : I am trying to catch up 3 month study in one week, but more I am trying the more I feel I will fail
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can feel your anxiety from your chatting
usr : Oh thank you
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been from same situation but i try my best and i did
sys : (Others) I have that you can do it don't worry
| (Others) hope* |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fall back on my study by playing too much online games and now I might fail my exams.". | usr : Hello there.
sys : (Question) hello, how are you?
sys : (Question) How is your day today?
usr : Could be better, I feel anxiety about my Uni exams. I feel I will fail it all this year
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! don't feel like this try to feel relaxe
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to make yourself confidence and relax
usr : I just can't, I fall behind on study because I played too much online games and didn't attend classes
usr : It's easy to say to try to relax :(
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to give more time to your studies
usr : I am trying to catch up 3 month study in one week, but more I am trying the more I feel I will fail
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can feel your anxiety from your chatting
usr : Oh thank you
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been from same situation but i try my best and i did
sys : (Others) I have that you can do it don't worry
sys : (Others) hope*
usr : I am sleeping now like maybe 4 hours per day trying to catch up
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh! that very hard but try you best |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fall back on my study by playing too much online games and now I might fail my exams.". | usr : Hello there.
sys : (Question) hello, how are you?
sys : (Question) How is your day today?
usr : Could be better, I feel anxiety about my Uni exams. I feel I will fail it all this year
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! don't feel like this try to feel relaxe
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to make yourself confidence and relax
usr : I just can't, I fall behind on study because I played too much online games and didn't attend classes
usr : It's easy to say to try to relax :(
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to give more time to your studies
usr : I am trying to catch up 3 month study in one week, but more I am trying the more I feel I will fail
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can feel your anxiety from your chatting
usr : Oh thank you
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been from same situation but i try my best and i did
sys : (Others) I have that you can do it don't worry
sys : (Others) hope*
usr : I am sleeping now like maybe 4 hours per day trying to catch up
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh! that very hard but try you best
usr : Anything I can do to help my sleep?
| (Providing Suggestions) Try to feel condense that you know everything it help you to relax |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fall back on my study by playing too much online games and now I might fail my exams.". | usr : Hello there.
sys : (Question) hello, how are you?
sys : (Question) How is your day today?
usr : Could be better, I feel anxiety about my Uni exams. I feel I will fail it all this year
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! don't feel like this try to feel relaxe
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to make yourself confidence and relax
usr : I just can't, I fall behind on study because I played too much online games and didn't attend classes
usr : It's easy to say to try to relax :(
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to give more time to your studies
usr : I am trying to catch up 3 month study in one week, but more I am trying the more I feel I will fail
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can feel your anxiety from your chatting
usr : Oh thank you
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been from same situation but i try my best and i did
sys : (Others) I have that you can do it don't worry
sys : (Others) hope*
usr : I am sleeping now like maybe 4 hours per day trying to catch up
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh! that very hard but try you best
usr : Anything I can do to help my sleep?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to feel condense that you know everything it help you to relax
| (Providing Suggestions) If you relax you can sleep more |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fall back on my study by playing too much online games and now I might fail my exams.". | usr : Hello there.
sys : (Question) hello, how are you?
sys : (Question) How is your day today?
usr : Could be better, I feel anxiety about my Uni exams. I feel I will fail it all this year
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! don't feel like this try to feel relaxe
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to make yourself confidence and relax
usr : I just can't, I fall behind on study because I played too much online games and didn't attend classes
usr : It's easy to say to try to relax :(
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to give more time to your studies
usr : I am trying to catch up 3 month study in one week, but more I am trying the more I feel I will fail
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can feel your anxiety from your chatting
usr : Oh thank you
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been from same situation but i try my best and i did
sys : (Others) I have that you can do it don't worry
sys : (Others) hope*
usr : I am sleeping now like maybe 4 hours per day trying to catch up
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh! that very hard but try you best
usr : Anything I can do to help my sleep?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to feel condense that you know everything it help you to relax
sys : (Providing Suggestions) If you relax you can sleep more
usr : That's a good idea I can try.
| (Others) Thanks for taking my suggestion |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fall back on my study by playing too much online games and now I might fail my exams.". | usr : Hello there.
sys : (Question) hello, how are you?
sys : (Question) How is your day today?
usr : Could be better, I feel anxiety about my Uni exams. I feel I will fail it all this year
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! don't feel like this try to feel relaxe
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to make yourself confidence and relax
usr : I just can't, I fall behind on study because I played too much online games and didn't attend classes
usr : It's easy to say to try to relax :(
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to give more time to your studies
usr : I am trying to catch up 3 month study in one week, but more I am trying the more I feel I will fail
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can feel your anxiety from your chatting
usr : Oh thank you
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been from same situation but i try my best and i did
sys : (Others) I have that you can do it don't worry
sys : (Others) hope*
usr : I am sleeping now like maybe 4 hours per day trying to catch up
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh! that very hard but try you best
usr : Anything I can do to help my sleep?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to feel condense that you know everything it help you to relax
sys : (Providing Suggestions) If you relax you can sleep more
usr : That's a good idea I can try.
sys : (Others) Thanks for taking my suggestion
| (Providing Suggestions) I hope it will help you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fall back on my study by playing too much online games and now I might fail my exams.". | usr : Hello there.
sys : (Question) hello, how are you?
sys : (Question) How is your day today?
usr : Could be better, I feel anxiety about my Uni exams. I feel I will fail it all this year
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! don't feel like this try to feel relaxe
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to make yourself confidence and relax
usr : I just can't, I fall behind on study because I played too much online games and didn't attend classes
usr : It's easy to say to try to relax :(
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to give more time to your studies
usr : I am trying to catch up 3 month study in one week, but more I am trying the more I feel I will fail
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can feel your anxiety from your chatting
usr : Oh thank you
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been from same situation but i try my best and i did
sys : (Others) I have that you can do it don't worry
sys : (Others) hope*
usr : I am sleeping now like maybe 4 hours per day trying to catch up
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh! that very hard but try you best
usr : Anything I can do to help my sleep?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to feel condense that you know everything it help you to relax
sys : (Providing Suggestions) If you relax you can sleep more
usr : That's a good idea I can try.
sys : (Others) Thanks for taking my suggestion
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I hope it will help you
usr : Maybe I can take some medications as well?
| (Providing Suggestions) Try to relax without medication because medicine is not good for health |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fall back on my study by playing too much online games and now I might fail my exams.". | usr : Hello there.
sys : (Question) hello, how are you?
sys : (Question) How is your day today?
usr : Could be better, I feel anxiety about my Uni exams. I feel I will fail it all this year
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! don't feel like this try to feel relaxe
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to make yourself confidence and relax
usr : I just can't, I fall behind on study because I played too much online games and didn't attend classes
usr : It's easy to say to try to relax :(
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to give more time to your studies
usr : I am trying to catch up 3 month study in one week, but more I am trying the more I feel I will fail
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can feel your anxiety from your chatting
usr : Oh thank you
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been from same situation but i try my best and i did
sys : (Others) I have that you can do it don't worry
sys : (Others) hope*
usr : I am sleeping now like maybe 4 hours per day trying to catch up
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh! that very hard but try you best
usr : Anything I can do to help my sleep?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to feel condense that you know everything it help you to relax
sys : (Providing Suggestions) If you relax you can sleep more
usr : That's a good idea I can try.
sys : (Others) Thanks for taking my suggestion
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I hope it will help you
usr : Maybe I can take some medications as well?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to relax without medication because medicine is not good for health
usr : Ok, as you said that you were in this situation I will try to do my best.
usr : Thank you very much for your help
| (Providing Suggestions) Try to do some yoga |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fall back on my study by playing too much online games and now I might fail my exams.". | usr : Hello there.
sys : (Question) hello, how are you?
sys : (Question) How is your day today?
usr : Could be better, I feel anxiety about my Uni exams. I feel I will fail it all this year
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! don't feel like this try to feel relaxe
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to make yourself confidence and relax
usr : I just can't, I fall behind on study because I played too much online games and didn't attend classes
usr : It's easy to say to try to relax :(
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to give more time to your studies
usr : I am trying to catch up 3 month study in one week, but more I am trying the more I feel I will fail
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can feel your anxiety from your chatting
usr : Oh thank you
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been from same situation but i try my best and i did
sys : (Others) I have that you can do it don't worry
sys : (Others) hope*
usr : I am sleeping now like maybe 4 hours per day trying to catch up
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh! that very hard but try you best
usr : Anything I can do to help my sleep?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to feel condense that you know everything it help you to relax
sys : (Providing Suggestions) If you relax you can sleep more
usr : That's a good idea I can try.
sys : (Others) Thanks for taking my suggestion
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I hope it will help you
usr : Maybe I can take some medications as well?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to relax without medication because medicine is not good for health
usr : Ok, as you said that you were in this situation I will try to do my best.
usr : Thank you very much for your help
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to do some yoga
| (Others) Your welcome |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I fall back on my study by playing too much online games and now I might fail my exams.". | usr : Hello there.
sys : (Question) hello, how are you?
sys : (Question) How is your day today?
usr : Could be better, I feel anxiety about my Uni exams. I feel I will fail it all this year
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! don't feel like this try to feel relaxe
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to make yourself confidence and relax
usr : I just can't, I fall behind on study because I played too much online games and didn't attend classes
usr : It's easy to say to try to relax :(
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to give more time to your studies
usr : I am trying to catch up 3 month study in one week, but more I am trying the more I feel I will fail
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can feel your anxiety from your chatting
usr : Oh thank you
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been from same situation but i try my best and i did
sys : (Others) I have that you can do it don't worry
sys : (Others) hope*
usr : I am sleeping now like maybe 4 hours per day trying to catch up
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh! that very hard but try you best
usr : Anything I can do to help my sleep?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to feel condense that you know everything it help you to relax
sys : (Providing Suggestions) If you relax you can sleep more
usr : That's a good idea I can try.
sys : (Others) Thanks for taking my suggestion
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I hope it will help you
usr : Maybe I can take some medications as well?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to relax without medication because medicine is not good for health
usr : Ok, as you said that you were in this situation I will try to do my best.
usr : Thank you very much for your help
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to do some yoga
sys : (Others) Your welcome
usr : I can try thank you. Will do today
usr : Thanks again
| (Others) Thanks to you for sharing your problem |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"COVID-19 has completely ruined my family's travel plans. Instead of travelling to see them, we have to stay home.". | (Others) How are you doing today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"COVID-19 has completely ruined my family's travel plans. Instead of travelling to see them, we have to stay home.". | sys : (Others) How are you doing today?
usr : Hi, I'm doing fine today, but just a bit annoyed...
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm sorry to hear that, what's bothering you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"COVID-19 has completely ruined my family's travel plans. Instead of travelling to see them, we have to stay home.". | sys : (Others) How are you doing today?
usr : Hi, I'm doing fine today, but just a bit annoyed...
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm sorry to hear that, what's bothering you?
usr : My family was intending to get together for the Christmas season, but we had to cancel our plans.
| (Reflection of feelings) I'm sorry to hear that, will you be spending the holidays with anyone? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"COVID-19 has completely ruined my family's travel plans. Instead of travelling to see them, we have to stay home.". | sys : (Others) How are you doing today?
usr : Hi, I'm doing fine today, but just a bit annoyed...
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm sorry to hear that, what's bothering you?
usr : My family was intending to get together for the Christmas season, but we had to cancel our plans.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'm sorry to hear that, will you be spending the holidays with anyone?
usr : I will be able to spend it with my mom, but I've basically been planning this trip for an entire year.
| (Question) Do you live far away from your family? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"COVID-19 has completely ruined my family's travel plans. Instead of travelling to see them, we have to stay home.". | sys : (Others) How are you doing today?
usr : Hi, I'm doing fine today, but just a bit annoyed...
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm sorry to hear that, what's bothering you?
usr : My family was intending to get together for the Christmas season, but we had to cancel our plans.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'm sorry to hear that, will you be spending the holidays with anyone?
usr : I will be able to spend it with my mom, but I've basically been planning this trip for an entire year.
sys : (Question) Do you live far away from your family?
usr : Plane tickets & everything, but COVID-19 has made me cancel all of these plans. Just annoyed and frustrated.
usr : We live in Chicago & they live in Boston
| (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that, covid has messed with so much this year. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"COVID-19 has completely ruined my family's travel plans. Instead of travelling to see them, we have to stay home.". | sys : (Others) How are you doing today?
usr : Hi, I'm doing fine today, but just a bit annoyed...
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm sorry to hear that, what's bothering you?
usr : My family was intending to get together for the Christmas season, but we had to cancel our plans.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'm sorry to hear that, will you be spending the holidays with anyone?
usr : I will be able to spend it with my mom, but I've basically been planning this trip for an entire year.
sys : (Question) Do you live far away from your family?
usr : Plane tickets & everything, but COVID-19 has made me cancel all of these plans. Just annoyed and frustrated.
usr : We live in Chicago & they live in Boston
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that, covid has messed with so much this year.
usr : It's also cut into a few of my hobbies too. It amazes me how this year has turned out
| (Self-disclosure) Yeah, it's been a struggle for sure. I think not knowing how long we're going to be in this state of uncertainty is what makes it more difficult. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"COVID-19 has completely ruined my family's travel plans. Instead of travelling to see them, we have to stay home.". | sys : (Others) How are you doing today?
usr : Hi, I'm doing fine today, but just a bit annoyed...
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm sorry to hear that, what's bothering you?
usr : My family was intending to get together for the Christmas season, but we had to cancel our plans.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'm sorry to hear that, will you be spending the holidays with anyone?
usr : I will be able to spend it with my mom, but I've basically been planning this trip for an entire year.
sys : (Question) Do you live far away from your family?
usr : Plane tickets & everything, but COVID-19 has made me cancel all of these plans. Just annoyed and frustrated.
usr : We live in Chicago & they live in Boston
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that, covid has messed with so much this year.
usr : It's also cut into a few of my hobbies too. It amazes me how this year has turned out
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yeah, it's been a struggle for sure. I think not knowing how long we're going to be in this state of uncertainty is what makes it more difficult.
usr : I'm glad that you understand. I feel like I'm not the only one anymore
| (Reflection of feelings) I try to find the positives, which I'll admit get harder to find by the day. But trying to embrace a more simplistic lifestyle, being more present, etc. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"COVID-19 has completely ruined my family's travel plans. Instead of travelling to see them, we have to stay home.". | sys : (Others) How are you doing today?
usr : Hi, I'm doing fine today, but just a bit annoyed...
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm sorry to hear that, what's bothering you?
usr : My family was intending to get together for the Christmas season, but we had to cancel our plans.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'm sorry to hear that, will you be spending the holidays with anyone?
usr : I will be able to spend it with my mom, but I've basically been planning this trip for an entire year.
sys : (Question) Do you live far away from your family?
usr : Plane tickets & everything, but COVID-19 has made me cancel all of these plans. Just annoyed and frustrated.
usr : We live in Chicago & they live in Boston
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that, covid has messed with so much this year.
usr : It's also cut into a few of my hobbies too. It amazes me how this year has turned out
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yeah, it's been a struggle for sure. I think not knowing how long we're going to be in this state of uncertainty is what makes it more difficult.
usr : I'm glad that you understand. I feel like I'm not the only one anymore
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I try to find the positives, which I'll admit get harder to find by the day. But trying to embrace a more simplistic lifestyle, being more present, etc.
usr : Yeah, being couped up in the house all day has been testing my patience
| (Others) Yeah, we're not far from Chicago and the weather doesn't look like it's going to change that for a bit. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"COVID-19 has completely ruined my family's travel plans. Instead of travelling to see them, we have to stay home.". | sys : (Others) How are you doing today?
usr : Hi, I'm doing fine today, but just a bit annoyed...
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm sorry to hear that, what's bothering you?
usr : My family was intending to get together for the Christmas season, but we had to cancel our plans.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'm sorry to hear that, will you be spending the holidays with anyone?
usr : I will be able to spend it with my mom, but I've basically been planning this trip for an entire year.
sys : (Question) Do you live far away from your family?
usr : Plane tickets & everything, but COVID-19 has made me cancel all of these plans. Just annoyed and frustrated.
usr : We live in Chicago & they live in Boston
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that, covid has messed with so much this year.
usr : It's also cut into a few of my hobbies too. It amazes me how this year has turned out
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yeah, it's been a struggle for sure. I think not knowing how long we're going to be in this state of uncertainty is what makes it more difficult.
usr : I'm glad that you understand. I feel like I'm not the only one anymore
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I try to find the positives, which I'll admit get harder to find by the day. But trying to embrace a more simplistic lifestyle, being more present, etc.
usr : Yeah, being couped up in the house all day has been testing my patience
sys : (Others) Yeah, we're not far from Chicago and the weather doesn't look like it's going to change that for a bit.
usr : I thought things were pretty complicated back then, but this is definitely simplified my choices, lol
usr : Very windy today for me. I wanted to take my dog out for a walk & cheer up her day, but it's a little too windy for me here
| (Others) Same here, I'd love to get outside as it usually makes me feel better but wind today and subzero chills tomorrow don't look promising. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"COVID-19 has completely ruined my family's travel plans. Instead of travelling to see them, we have to stay home.". | sys : (Others) How are you doing today?
usr : Hi, I'm doing fine today, but just a bit annoyed...
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm sorry to hear that, what's bothering you?
usr : My family was intending to get together for the Christmas season, but we had to cancel our plans.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'm sorry to hear that, will you be spending the holidays with anyone?
usr : I will be able to spend it with my mom, but I've basically been planning this trip for an entire year.
sys : (Question) Do you live far away from your family?
usr : Plane tickets & everything, but COVID-19 has made me cancel all of these plans. Just annoyed and frustrated.
usr : We live in Chicago & they live in Boston
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that, covid has messed with so much this year.
usr : It's also cut into a few of my hobbies too. It amazes me how this year has turned out
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yeah, it's been a struggle for sure. I think not knowing how long we're going to be in this state of uncertainty is what makes it more difficult.
usr : I'm glad that you understand. I feel like I'm not the only one anymore
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I try to find the positives, which I'll admit get harder to find by the day. But trying to embrace a more simplistic lifestyle, being more present, etc.
usr : Yeah, being couped up in the house all day has been testing my patience
sys : (Others) Yeah, we're not far from Chicago and the weather doesn't look like it's going to change that for a bit.
usr : I thought things were pretty complicated back then, but this is definitely simplified my choices, lol
usr : Very windy today for me. I wanted to take my dog out for a walk & cheer up her day, but it's a little too windy for me here
sys : (Others) Same here, I'd love to get outside as it usually makes me feel better but wind today and subzero chills tomorrow don't look promising.
usr : Ooooohhhhh, and chilly tomorrow too? Sounds like a lot to look forward too. I appreciate the headsup
| (Providing Suggestions) But hey, tomorrow's Christmas eve, maybe you can zoom with some of your Boston family and try something new. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"COVID-19 has completely ruined my family's travel plans. Instead of travelling to see them, we have to stay home.". | sys : (Others) How are you doing today?
usr : Hi, I'm doing fine today, but just a bit annoyed...
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm sorry to hear that, what's bothering you?
usr : My family was intending to get together for the Christmas season, but we had to cancel our plans.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'm sorry to hear that, will you be spending the holidays with anyone?
usr : I will be able to spend it with my mom, but I've basically been planning this trip for an entire year.
sys : (Question) Do you live far away from your family?
usr : Plane tickets & everything, but COVID-19 has made me cancel all of these plans. Just annoyed and frustrated.
usr : We live in Chicago & they live in Boston
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that, covid has messed with so much this year.
usr : It's also cut into a few of my hobbies too. It amazes me how this year has turned out
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yeah, it's been a struggle for sure. I think not knowing how long we're going to be in this state of uncertainty is what makes it more difficult.
usr : I'm glad that you understand. I feel like I'm not the only one anymore
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I try to find the positives, which I'll admit get harder to find by the day. But trying to embrace a more simplistic lifestyle, being more present, etc.
usr : Yeah, being couped up in the house all day has been testing my patience
sys : (Others) Yeah, we're not far from Chicago and the weather doesn't look like it's going to change that for a bit.
usr : I thought things were pretty complicated back then, but this is definitely simplified my choices, lol
usr : Very windy today for me. I wanted to take my dog out for a walk & cheer up her day, but it's a little too windy for me here
sys : (Others) Same here, I'd love to get outside as it usually makes me feel better but wind today and subzero chills tomorrow don't look promising.
usr : Ooooohhhhh, and chilly tomorrow too? Sounds like a lot to look forward too. I appreciate the headsup
sys : (Providing Suggestions) But hey, tomorrow's Christmas eve, maybe you can zoom with some of your Boston family and try something new.
usr : Sounds like a great idea! I will definitely try to catch up with them that way!
usr : I may not be able to see them in person, but it sounds like a good alternative.
| (Providing Suggestions) Yeah, a way to make the best of it. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"COVID-19 has completely ruined my family's travel plans. Instead of travelling to see them, we have to stay home.". | sys : (Others) How are you doing today?
usr : Hi, I'm doing fine today, but just a bit annoyed...
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm sorry to hear that, what's bothering you?
usr : My family was intending to get together for the Christmas season, but we had to cancel our plans.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'm sorry to hear that, will you be spending the holidays with anyone?
usr : I will be able to spend it with my mom, but I've basically been planning this trip for an entire year.
sys : (Question) Do you live far away from your family?
usr : Plane tickets & everything, but COVID-19 has made me cancel all of these plans. Just annoyed and frustrated.
usr : We live in Chicago & they live in Boston
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that, covid has messed with so much this year.
usr : It's also cut into a few of my hobbies too. It amazes me how this year has turned out
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yeah, it's been a struggle for sure. I think not knowing how long we're going to be in this state of uncertainty is what makes it more difficult.
usr : I'm glad that you understand. I feel like I'm not the only one anymore
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I try to find the positives, which I'll admit get harder to find by the day. But trying to embrace a more simplistic lifestyle, being more present, etc.
usr : Yeah, being couped up in the house all day has been testing my patience
sys : (Others) Yeah, we're not far from Chicago and the weather doesn't look like it's going to change that for a bit.
usr : I thought things were pretty complicated back then, but this is definitely simplified my choices, lol
usr : Very windy today for me. I wanted to take my dog out for a walk & cheer up her day, but it's a little too windy for me here
sys : (Others) Same here, I'd love to get outside as it usually makes me feel better but wind today and subzero chills tomorrow don't look promising.
usr : Ooooohhhhh, and chilly tomorrow too? Sounds like a lot to look forward too. I appreciate the headsup
sys : (Providing Suggestions) But hey, tomorrow's Christmas eve, maybe you can zoom with some of your Boston family and try something new.
usr : Sounds like a great idea! I will definitely try to catch up with them that way!
usr : I may not be able to see them in person, but it sounds like a good alternative.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yeah, a way to make the best of it.
usr : I appreciate the support & thank you for your time.
| (Others) No problem at all. Stay warm, stay safe and have a happy holiday! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"COVID-19 has completely ruined my family's travel plans. Instead of travelling to see them, we have to stay home.". | sys : (Others) How are you doing today?
usr : Hi, I'm doing fine today, but just a bit annoyed...
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm sorry to hear that, what's bothering you?
usr : My family was intending to get together for the Christmas season, but we had to cancel our plans.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'm sorry to hear that, will you be spending the holidays with anyone?
usr : I will be able to spend it with my mom, but I've basically been planning this trip for an entire year.
sys : (Question) Do you live far away from your family?
usr : Plane tickets & everything, but COVID-19 has made me cancel all of these plans. Just annoyed and frustrated.
usr : We live in Chicago & they live in Boston
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that, covid has messed with so much this year.
usr : It's also cut into a few of my hobbies too. It amazes me how this year has turned out
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yeah, it's been a struggle for sure. I think not knowing how long we're going to be in this state of uncertainty is what makes it more difficult.
usr : I'm glad that you understand. I feel like I'm not the only one anymore
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I try to find the positives, which I'll admit get harder to find by the day. But trying to embrace a more simplistic lifestyle, being more present, etc.
usr : Yeah, being couped up in the house all day has been testing my patience
sys : (Others) Yeah, we're not far from Chicago and the weather doesn't look like it's going to change that for a bit.
usr : I thought things were pretty complicated back then, but this is definitely simplified my choices, lol
usr : Very windy today for me. I wanted to take my dog out for a walk & cheer up her day, but it's a little too windy for me here
sys : (Others) Same here, I'd love to get outside as it usually makes me feel better but wind today and subzero chills tomorrow don't look promising.
usr : Ooooohhhhh, and chilly tomorrow too? Sounds like a lot to look forward too. I appreciate the headsup
sys : (Providing Suggestions) But hey, tomorrow's Christmas eve, maybe you can zoom with some of your Boston family and try something new.
usr : Sounds like a great idea! I will definitely try to catch up with them that way!
usr : I may not be able to see them in person, but it sounds like a good alternative.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yeah, a way to make the best of it.
usr : I appreciate the support & thank you for your time.
sys : (Others) No problem at all. Stay warm, stay safe and have a happy holiday!
usr : I feel a lot better now. Merry Christmas!
| (Others) Merry Christmas!! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Ex girlfriend issues.". | (Question) Hi! How is life treating you right now? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Ex girlfriend issues.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How is life treating you right now?
| (Others) (apologies for the delay, I was afk) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Ex girlfriend issues.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How is life treating you right now?
sys : (Others) (apologies for the delay, I was afk)
usr : ITs been better. I am dealing with issues in life.
| (Others) What sort of issues are you having? I am happy to listen |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Ex girlfriend issues.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How is life treating you right now?
sys : (Others) (apologies for the delay, I was afk)
usr : ITs been better. I am dealing with issues in life.
sys : (Others) What sort of issues are you having? I am happy to listen
usr : she was giving her kids who were 12 and 15 drugs, I turned her in to CPS for it. The relationship ended in a fury and a mess.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Who is she? A partner, a sister or similar? I am glad you turned her in, whoever she was. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Ex girlfriend issues.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How is life treating you right now?
sys : (Others) (apologies for the delay, I was afk)
usr : ITs been better. I am dealing with issues in life.
sys : (Others) What sort of issues are you having? I am happy to listen
usr : she was giving her kids who were 12 and 15 drugs, I turned her in to CPS for it. The relationship ended in a fury and a mess.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Who is she? A partner, a sister or similar? I am glad you turned her in, whoever she was.
usr : girlfriend.
usr : well ex girlfriend.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a really lousy thing for her to have done. I am glad that you did the right thing! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Ex girlfriend issues.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How is life treating you right now?
sys : (Others) (apologies for the delay, I was afk)
usr : ITs been better. I am dealing with issues in life.
sys : (Others) What sort of issues are you having? I am happy to listen
usr : she was giving her kids who were 12 and 15 drugs, I turned her in to CPS for it. The relationship ended in a fury and a mess.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Who is she? A partner, a sister or similar? I am glad you turned her in, whoever she was.
usr : girlfriend.
usr : well ex girlfriend.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a really lousy thing for her to have done. I am glad that you did the right thing!
usr : Shes pretty furious from what I know. Shes trying to stalk me and find where I moved to. I left the state i lived in over all this. shes been known to be a bit violent and crazy in her reactions.
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you considered getting a restraining order against her? That should be quite easy to do |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Ex girlfriend issues.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How is life treating you right now?
sys : (Others) (apologies for the delay, I was afk)
usr : ITs been better. I am dealing with issues in life.
sys : (Others) What sort of issues are you having? I am happy to listen
usr : she was giving her kids who were 12 and 15 drugs, I turned her in to CPS for it. The relationship ended in a fury and a mess.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Who is she? A partner, a sister or similar? I am glad you turned her in, whoever she was.
usr : girlfriend.
usr : well ex girlfriend.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a really lousy thing for her to have done. I am glad that you did the right thing!
usr : Shes pretty furious from what I know. Shes trying to stalk me and find where I moved to. I left the state i lived in over all this. shes been known to be a bit violent and crazy in her reactions.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you considered getting a restraining order against her? That should be quite easy to do
usr : it would then give her my address to where I live, which is what I fear most. as she then knows right where I am. the whole reason i left was to have her not know my location.
| (Providing Suggestions) I hope that she would not be informed as to where you live though yes, I understand the dilemma. Have you spoken with the police? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Ex girlfriend issues.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How is life treating you right now?
sys : (Others) (apologies for the delay, I was afk)
usr : ITs been better. I am dealing with issues in life.
sys : (Others) What sort of issues are you having? I am happy to listen
usr : she was giving her kids who were 12 and 15 drugs, I turned her in to CPS for it. The relationship ended in a fury and a mess.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Who is she? A partner, a sister or similar? I am glad you turned her in, whoever she was.
usr : girlfriend.
usr : well ex girlfriend.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a really lousy thing for her to have done. I am glad that you did the right thing!
usr : Shes pretty furious from what I know. Shes trying to stalk me and find where I moved to. I left the state i lived in over all this. shes been known to be a bit violent and crazy in her reactions.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you considered getting a restraining order against her? That should be quite easy to do
usr : it would then give her my address to where I live, which is what I fear most. as she then knows right where I am. the whole reason i left was to have her not know my location.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I hope that she would not be informed as to where you live though yes, I understand the dilemma. Have you spoken with the police?
usr : I have. I looked into it. and if i file a restraining order, it will give her my address. To supress my address it would take charges filed and things of the sort. Shes crafty.
| (Self-disclosure) Wow that sounds like it has put you in a bind. I do understand cos once I had to flee from a boyfriend and was scared he would come after me. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Ex girlfriend issues.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How is life treating you right now?
sys : (Others) (apologies for the delay, I was afk)
usr : ITs been better. I am dealing with issues in life.
sys : (Others) What sort of issues are you having? I am happy to listen
usr : she was giving her kids who were 12 and 15 drugs, I turned her in to CPS for it. The relationship ended in a fury and a mess.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Who is she? A partner, a sister or similar? I am glad you turned her in, whoever she was.
usr : girlfriend.
usr : well ex girlfriend.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a really lousy thing for her to have done. I am glad that you did the right thing!
usr : Shes pretty furious from what I know. Shes trying to stalk me and find where I moved to. I left the state i lived in over all this. shes been known to be a bit violent and crazy in her reactions.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you considered getting a restraining order against her? That should be quite easy to do
usr : it would then give her my address to where I live, which is what I fear most. as she then knows right where I am. the whole reason i left was to have her not know my location.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I hope that she would not be informed as to where you live though yes, I understand the dilemma. Have you spoken with the police?
usr : I have. I looked into it. and if i file a restraining order, it will give her my address. To supress my address it would take charges filed and things of the sort. Shes crafty.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Wow that sounds like it has put you in a bind. I do understand cos once I had to flee from a boyfriend and was scared he would come after me.
usr : She will definately come after me. I have evidence that makes her guilty that has been turned into the attorneys and cps. Shes losing custody of her daughter who is 12. The 15yr old lives with the father. so she wont lose custody, but im sure her visits will be messed up.
| (Question) Are you still in contact with her kids? Do you have a good relationship with them? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Ex girlfriend issues.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How is life treating you right now?
sys : (Others) (apologies for the delay, I was afk)
usr : ITs been better. I am dealing with issues in life.
sys : (Others) What sort of issues are you having? I am happy to listen
usr : she was giving her kids who were 12 and 15 drugs, I turned her in to CPS for it. The relationship ended in a fury and a mess.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Who is she? A partner, a sister or similar? I am glad you turned her in, whoever she was.
usr : girlfriend.
usr : well ex girlfriend.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a really lousy thing for her to have done. I am glad that you did the right thing!
usr : Shes pretty furious from what I know. Shes trying to stalk me and find where I moved to. I left the state i lived in over all this. shes been known to be a bit violent and crazy in her reactions.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you considered getting a restraining order against her? That should be quite easy to do
usr : it would then give her my address to where I live, which is what I fear most. as she then knows right where I am. the whole reason i left was to have her not know my location.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I hope that she would not be informed as to where you live though yes, I understand the dilemma. Have you spoken with the police?
usr : I have. I looked into it. and if i file a restraining order, it will give her my address. To supress my address it would take charges filed and things of the sort. Shes crafty.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Wow that sounds like it has put you in a bind. I do understand cos once I had to flee from a boyfriend and was scared he would come after me.
usr : She will definately come after me. I have evidence that makes her guilty that has been turned into the attorneys and cps. Shes losing custody of her daughter who is 12. The 15yr old lives with the father. so she wont lose custody, but im sure her visits will be messed up.
sys : (Question) Are you still in contact with her kids? Do you have a good relationship with them?
usr : I am not. I am not planning on it either. Staying away is the best plan.
| (Providing Suggestions) It might help them a lot to have someone stable in their life though? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Ex girlfriend issues.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How is life treating you right now?
sys : (Others) (apologies for the delay, I was afk)
usr : ITs been better. I am dealing with issues in life.
sys : (Others) What sort of issues are you having? I am happy to listen
usr : she was giving her kids who were 12 and 15 drugs, I turned her in to CPS for it. The relationship ended in a fury and a mess.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Who is she? A partner, a sister or similar? I am glad you turned her in, whoever she was.
usr : girlfriend.
usr : well ex girlfriend.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a really lousy thing for her to have done. I am glad that you did the right thing!
usr : Shes pretty furious from what I know. Shes trying to stalk me and find where I moved to. I left the state i lived in over all this. shes been known to be a bit violent and crazy in her reactions.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you considered getting a restraining order against her? That should be quite easy to do
usr : it would then give her my address to where I live, which is what I fear most. as she then knows right where I am. the whole reason i left was to have her not know my location.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I hope that she would not be informed as to where you live though yes, I understand the dilemma. Have you spoken with the police?
usr : I have. I looked into it. and if i file a restraining order, it will give her my address. To supress my address it would take charges filed and things of the sort. Shes crafty.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Wow that sounds like it has put you in a bind. I do understand cos once I had to flee from a boyfriend and was scared he would come after me.
usr : She will definately come after me. I have evidence that makes her guilty that has been turned into the attorneys and cps. Shes losing custody of her daughter who is 12. The 15yr old lives with the father. so she wont lose custody, but im sure her visits will be messed up.
sys : (Question) Are you still in contact with her kids? Do you have a good relationship with them?
usr : I am not. I am not planning on it either. Staying away is the best plan.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It might help them a lot to have someone stable in their life though?
usr : they have fathers. I am not involved like that. we had a short relationship and I am sure her girls will be bitter with me even tho i did the correct thing by turning her in.
usr : but the guilt from turning her in is terrible.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You did the right thing. Would you have wanted the girls to end up as addicts, dead or in prison? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Ex girlfriend issues.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How is life treating you right now?
sys : (Others) (apologies for the delay, I was afk)
usr : ITs been better. I am dealing with issues in life.
sys : (Others) What sort of issues are you having? I am happy to listen
usr : she was giving her kids who were 12 and 15 drugs, I turned her in to CPS for it. The relationship ended in a fury and a mess.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Who is she? A partner, a sister or similar? I am glad you turned her in, whoever she was.
usr : girlfriend.
usr : well ex girlfriend.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a really lousy thing for her to have done. I am glad that you did the right thing!
usr : Shes pretty furious from what I know. Shes trying to stalk me and find where I moved to. I left the state i lived in over all this. shes been known to be a bit violent and crazy in her reactions.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you considered getting a restraining order against her? That should be quite easy to do
usr : it would then give her my address to where I live, which is what I fear most. as she then knows right where I am. the whole reason i left was to have her not know my location.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I hope that she would not be informed as to where you live though yes, I understand the dilemma. Have you spoken with the police?
usr : I have. I looked into it. and if i file a restraining order, it will give her my address. To supress my address it would take charges filed and things of the sort. Shes crafty.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Wow that sounds like it has put you in a bind. I do understand cos once I had to flee from a boyfriend and was scared he would come after me.
usr : She will definately come after me. I have evidence that makes her guilty that has been turned into the attorneys and cps. Shes losing custody of her daughter who is 12. The 15yr old lives with the father. so she wont lose custody, but im sure her visits will be messed up.
sys : (Question) Are you still in contact with her kids? Do you have a good relationship with them?
usr : I am not. I am not planning on it either. Staying away is the best plan.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It might help them a lot to have someone stable in their life though?
usr : they have fathers. I am not involved like that. we had a short relationship and I am sure her girls will be bitter with me even tho i did the correct thing by turning her in.
usr : but the guilt from turning her in is terrible.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You did the right thing. Would you have wanted the girls to end up as addicts, dead or in prison?
usr : She was not a good person. So it makes it easy to not regret it. but i still feel guilty. guilt caused issues last month when this all started and came to a head. it was a mess. I was a mess. things happened.
| (Question) Do you think that perhaps the guilt is not entirely related to your circumstances currently? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Ex girlfriend issues.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How is life treating you right now?
sys : (Others) (apologies for the delay, I was afk)
usr : ITs been better. I am dealing with issues in life.
sys : (Others) What sort of issues are you having? I am happy to listen
usr : she was giving her kids who were 12 and 15 drugs, I turned her in to CPS for it. The relationship ended in a fury and a mess.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Who is she? A partner, a sister or similar? I am glad you turned her in, whoever she was.
usr : girlfriend.
usr : well ex girlfriend.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a really lousy thing for her to have done. I am glad that you did the right thing!
usr : Shes pretty furious from what I know. Shes trying to stalk me and find where I moved to. I left the state i lived in over all this. shes been known to be a bit violent and crazy in her reactions.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you considered getting a restraining order against her? That should be quite easy to do
usr : it would then give her my address to where I live, which is what I fear most. as she then knows right where I am. the whole reason i left was to have her not know my location.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I hope that she would not be informed as to where you live though yes, I understand the dilemma. Have you spoken with the police?
usr : I have. I looked into it. and if i file a restraining order, it will give her my address. To supress my address it would take charges filed and things of the sort. Shes crafty.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Wow that sounds like it has put you in a bind. I do understand cos once I had to flee from a boyfriend and was scared he would come after me.
usr : She will definately come after me. I have evidence that makes her guilty that has been turned into the attorneys and cps. Shes losing custody of her daughter who is 12. The 15yr old lives with the father. so she wont lose custody, but im sure her visits will be messed up.
sys : (Question) Are you still in contact with her kids? Do you have a good relationship with them?
usr : I am not. I am not planning on it either. Staying away is the best plan.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It might help them a lot to have someone stable in their life though?
usr : they have fathers. I am not involved like that. we had a short relationship and I am sure her girls will be bitter with me even tho i did the correct thing by turning her in.
usr : but the guilt from turning her in is terrible.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You did the right thing. Would you have wanted the girls to end up as addicts, dead or in prison?
usr : She was not a good person. So it makes it easy to not regret it. but i still feel guilty. guilt caused issues last month when this all started and came to a head. it was a mess. I was a mess. things happened.
sys : (Question) Do you think that perhaps the guilt is not entirely related to your circumstances currently?
usr : I dont believe so. The guilt to me sets with causing a disruption between mother and daughters. It created a large burden for me to bear.
| (Others) I know it is difficult but I hope that you can manage to move on from this and find happiness. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Ex girlfriend issues.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How is life treating you right now?
sys : (Others) (apologies for the delay, I was afk)
usr : ITs been better. I am dealing with issues in life.
sys : (Others) What sort of issues are you having? I am happy to listen
usr : she was giving her kids who were 12 and 15 drugs, I turned her in to CPS for it. The relationship ended in a fury and a mess.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Who is she? A partner, a sister or similar? I am glad you turned her in, whoever she was.
usr : girlfriend.
usr : well ex girlfriend.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a really lousy thing for her to have done. I am glad that you did the right thing!
usr : Shes pretty furious from what I know. Shes trying to stalk me and find where I moved to. I left the state i lived in over all this. shes been known to be a bit violent and crazy in her reactions.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you considered getting a restraining order against her? That should be quite easy to do
usr : it would then give her my address to where I live, which is what I fear most. as she then knows right where I am. the whole reason i left was to have her not know my location.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I hope that she would not be informed as to where you live though yes, I understand the dilemma. Have you spoken with the police?
usr : I have. I looked into it. and if i file a restraining order, it will give her my address. To supress my address it would take charges filed and things of the sort. Shes crafty.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Wow that sounds like it has put you in a bind. I do understand cos once I had to flee from a boyfriend and was scared he would come after me.
usr : She will definately come after me. I have evidence that makes her guilty that has been turned into the attorneys and cps. Shes losing custody of her daughter who is 12. The 15yr old lives with the father. so she wont lose custody, but im sure her visits will be messed up.
sys : (Question) Are you still in contact with her kids? Do you have a good relationship with them?
usr : I am not. I am not planning on it either. Staying away is the best plan.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It might help them a lot to have someone stable in their life though?
usr : they have fathers. I am not involved like that. we had a short relationship and I am sure her girls will be bitter with me even tho i did the correct thing by turning her in.
usr : but the guilt from turning her in is terrible.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You did the right thing. Would you have wanted the girls to end up as addicts, dead or in prison?
usr : She was not a good person. So it makes it easy to not regret it. but i still feel guilty. guilt caused issues last month when this all started and came to a head. it was a mess. I was a mess. things happened.
sys : (Question) Do you think that perhaps the guilt is not entirely related to your circumstances currently?
usr : I dont believe so. The guilt to me sets with causing a disruption between mother and daughters. It created a large burden for me to bear.
sys : (Others) I know it is difficult but I hope that you can manage to move on from this and find happiness.
| (Others) Thank you for talking and I wish you all the best. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Having been having panic attacks more often now that we are in quarantined". | usr : Hi how are you
usr : Could b better
| (Reflection of feelings) I understand it could be better |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Having been having panic attacks more often now that we are in quarantined". | usr : Hi how are you
usr : Could b better
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand it could be better
| (Question) What is going on? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Having been having panic attacks more often now that we are in quarantined". | usr : Hi how are you
usr : Could b better
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand it could be better
sys : (Question) What is going on?
| (Self-disclosure) My day could be better too sometimes, it may help to talk about it. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Having been having panic attacks more often now that we are in quarantined". | usr : Hi how are you
usr : Could b better
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand it could be better
sys : (Question) What is going on?
sys : (Self-disclosure) My day could be better too sometimes, it may help to talk about it.
usr : Ive been more depressed and more panic attacks since the quarantine
| (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are really worried and have anxiety over the qurantine. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Having been having panic attacks more often now that we are in quarantined". | usr : Hi how are you
usr : Could b better
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand it could be better
sys : (Question) What is going on?
sys : (Self-disclosure) My day could be better too sometimes, it may help to talk about it.
usr : Ive been more depressed and more panic attacks since the quarantine
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are really worried and have anxiety over the qurantine.
| (Information) From my experience it has helped tremendously to take a few deep breaths |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Having been having panic attacks more often now that we are in quarantined". | usr : Hi how are you
usr : Could b better
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand it could be better
sys : (Question) What is going on?
sys : (Self-disclosure) My day could be better too sometimes, it may help to talk about it.
usr : Ive been more depressed and more panic attacks since the quarantine
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are really worried and have anxiety over the qurantine.
sys : (Information) From my experience it has helped tremendously to take a few deep breaths
usr : Yes so much. Afraid of getting it and than giving it to my very sick mlm
| (Self-disclosure) I also have been worried about getting it and passing it on. I have been taking extra precautions to stay home and wash my hands often to try and prevent it. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Having been having panic attacks more often now that we are in quarantined". | usr : Hi how are you
usr : Could b better
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand it could be better
sys : (Question) What is going on?
sys : (Self-disclosure) My day could be better too sometimes, it may help to talk about it.
usr : Ive been more depressed and more panic attacks since the quarantine
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are really worried and have anxiety over the qurantine.
sys : (Information) From my experience it has helped tremendously to take a few deep breaths
usr : Yes so much. Afraid of getting it and than giving it to my very sick mlm
sys : (Self-disclosure) I also have been worried about getting it and passing it on. I have been taking extra precautions to stay home and wash my hands often to try and prevent it.
usr : Sometimes I don't think that's enough to prevent. My mom has cancer and it's been hurting not being able to see her because I don't want to take that risk
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That is so difficult that you are concerned and upset that you can't see her. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Having been having panic attacks more often now that we are in quarantined". | usr : Hi how are you
usr : Could b better
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand it could be better
sys : (Question) What is going on?
sys : (Self-disclosure) My day could be better too sometimes, it may help to talk about it.
usr : Ive been more depressed and more panic attacks since the quarantine
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are really worried and have anxiety over the qurantine.
sys : (Information) From my experience it has helped tremendously to take a few deep breaths
usr : Yes so much. Afraid of getting it and than giving it to my very sick mlm
sys : (Self-disclosure) I also have been worried about getting it and passing it on. I have been taking extra precautions to stay home and wash my hands often to try and prevent it.
usr : Sometimes I don't think that's enough to prevent. My mom has cancer and it's been hurting not being able to see her because I don't want to take that risk
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That is so difficult that you are concerned and upset that you can't see her.
| (Providing Suggestions) In my experience I've used video chat to help me get through hard times when I couldn't see my loved ones in person. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Having been having panic attacks more often now that we are in quarantined". | usr : Hi how are you
usr : Could b better
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand it could be better
sys : (Question) What is going on?
sys : (Self-disclosure) My day could be better too sometimes, it may help to talk about it.
usr : Ive been more depressed and more panic attacks since the quarantine
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are really worried and have anxiety over the qurantine.
sys : (Information) From my experience it has helped tremendously to take a few deep breaths
usr : Yes so much. Afraid of getting it and than giving it to my very sick mlm
sys : (Self-disclosure) I also have been worried about getting it and passing it on. I have been taking extra precautions to stay home and wash my hands often to try and prevent it.
usr : Sometimes I don't think that's enough to prevent. My mom has cancer and it's been hurting not being able to see her because I don't want to take that risk
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That is so difficult that you are concerned and upset that you can't see her.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) In my experience I've used video chat to help me get through hard times when I couldn't see my loved ones in person.
usr : Yeah I've tried but it's not th same. Wish I could b there to help her through this. But with everything going on it's so hard
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's really hard, but I think you have it in you to keep doing your best and staying safe. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Having been having panic attacks more often now that we are in quarantined". | usr : Hi how are you
usr : Could b better
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand it could be better
sys : (Question) What is going on?
sys : (Self-disclosure) My day could be better too sometimes, it may help to talk about it.
usr : Ive been more depressed and more panic attacks since the quarantine
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are really worried and have anxiety over the qurantine.
sys : (Information) From my experience it has helped tremendously to take a few deep breaths
usr : Yes so much. Afraid of getting it and than giving it to my very sick mlm
sys : (Self-disclosure) I also have been worried about getting it and passing it on. I have been taking extra precautions to stay home and wash my hands often to try and prevent it.
usr : Sometimes I don't think that's enough to prevent. My mom has cancer and it's been hurting not being able to see her because I don't want to take that risk
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That is so difficult that you are concerned and upset that you can't see her.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) In my experience I've used video chat to help me get through hard times when I couldn't see my loved ones in person.
usr : Yeah I've tried but it's not th same. Wish I could b there to help her through this. But with everything going on it's so hard
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's really hard, but I think you have it in you to keep doing your best and staying safe.
usr : I guess so it's a struggle everyday. Appreciate talking to someone though
| (Self-disclosure) I'm happy you were able to talk to me, I know talking about how I'm feeling helps me feel better sometimes. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Christmas is coming up and I've been having a terrible time finding a job.". | (Others) Good evening | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Christmas is coming up and I've been having a terrible time finding a job.". | sys : (Others) Good evening
usr : Good evening, how are you?
| (Question) I am good, how are you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Christmas is coming up and I've been having a terrible time finding a job.". | sys : (Others) Good evening
usr : Good evening, how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good, how are you?
usr : Could be worse. Just stessed as listed.
| (Question) What is it that is stressing you out currently? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Christmas is coming up and I've been having a terrible time finding a job.". | sys : (Others) Good evening
usr : Good evening, how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good, how are you?
usr : Could be worse. Just stessed as listed.
sys : (Question) What is it that is stressing you out currently?
usr : I've been only doing some deliveries due to COVID, while also searching for another job because it's just not sustainable. It's stressful enough with less money, but coming up on Christmas is just giving me even more anxiety about it.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just so I make sure I understand, you are currently stressed about your money situation due to only working part time making deliveries for the time being. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Christmas is coming up and I've been having a terrible time finding a job.". | sys : (Others) Good evening
usr : Good evening, how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good, how are you?
usr : Could be worse. Just stessed as listed.
sys : (Question) What is it that is stressing you out currently?
usr : I've been only doing some deliveries due to COVID, while also searching for another job because it's just not sustainable. It's stressful enough with less money, but coming up on Christmas is just giving me even more anxiety about it.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just so I make sure I understand, you are currently stressed about your money situation due to only working part time making deliveries for the time being.
usr : Yes
| (Self-disclosure) I can completely understand this, as I was also extremely worried about money when the pandemic first started and about not being able to be employed. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Christmas is coming up and I've been having a terrible time finding a job.". | sys : (Others) Good evening
usr : Good evening, how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good, how are you?
usr : Could be worse. Just stessed as listed.
sys : (Question) What is it that is stressing you out currently?
usr : I've been only doing some deliveries due to COVID, while also searching for another job because it's just not sustainable. It's stressful enough with less money, but coming up on Christmas is just giving me even more anxiety about it.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just so I make sure I understand, you are currently stressed about your money situation due to only working part time making deliveries for the time being.
usr : Yes
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can completely understand this, as I was also extremely worried about money when the pandemic first started and about not being able to be employed.
usr : It's so hard to find something else right now.
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you looked into hiring agencies to help you find a more permanent job during the pandemic? Hiring agencies are a great resource to find a job that fist you best. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Christmas is coming up and I've been having a terrible time finding a job.". | sys : (Others) Good evening
usr : Good evening, how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good, how are you?
usr : Could be worse. Just stessed as listed.
sys : (Question) What is it that is stressing you out currently?
usr : I've been only doing some deliveries due to COVID, while also searching for another job because it's just not sustainable. It's stressful enough with less money, but coming up on Christmas is just giving me even more anxiety about it.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just so I make sure I understand, you are currently stressed about your money situation due to only working part time making deliveries for the time being.
usr : Yes
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can completely understand this, as I was also extremely worried about money when the pandemic first started and about not being able to be employed.
usr : It's so hard to find something else right now.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you looked into hiring agencies to help you find a more permanent job during the pandemic? Hiring agencies are a great resource to find a job that fist you best.
usr : I have recently been in contact with one around here. It unfortunately just hasn't happened as quickly as I wished. Although that's life. I'm hoping that it will progress.
| (Providing Suggestions) After interviewing with a company are you following up on a timeline or a decision? Companies like to see initiative in their potential hires after an interview. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Christmas is coming up and I've been having a terrible time finding a job.". | sys : (Others) Good evening
usr : Good evening, how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good, how are you?
usr : Could be worse. Just stessed as listed.
sys : (Question) What is it that is stressing you out currently?
usr : I've been only doing some deliveries due to COVID, while also searching for another job because it's just not sustainable. It's stressful enough with less money, but coming up on Christmas is just giving me even more anxiety about it.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just so I make sure I understand, you are currently stressed about your money situation due to only working part time making deliveries for the time being.
usr : Yes
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can completely understand this, as I was also extremely worried about money when the pandemic first started and about not being able to be employed.
usr : It's so hard to find something else right now.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you looked into hiring agencies to help you find a more permanent job during the pandemic? Hiring agencies are a great resource to find a job that fist you best.
usr : I have recently been in contact with one around here. It unfortunately just hasn't happened as quickly as I wished. Although that's life. I'm hoping that it will progress.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) After interviewing with a company are you following up on a timeline or a decision? Companies like to see initiative in their potential hires after an interview.
usr : That's definitely something I'm lacking. I need to be better about that because I'm sure it will help.
| (Others) It definitely does help to make sure you are following up! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Christmas is coming up and I've been having a terrible time finding a job.". | sys : (Others) Good evening
usr : Good evening, how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good, how are you?
usr : Could be worse. Just stessed as listed.
sys : (Question) What is it that is stressing you out currently?
usr : I've been only doing some deliveries due to COVID, while also searching for another job because it's just not sustainable. It's stressful enough with less money, but coming up on Christmas is just giving me even more anxiety about it.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just so I make sure I understand, you are currently stressed about your money situation due to only working part time making deliveries for the time being.
usr : Yes
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can completely understand this, as I was also extremely worried about money when the pandemic first started and about not being able to be employed.
usr : It's so hard to find something else right now.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you looked into hiring agencies to help you find a more permanent job during the pandemic? Hiring agencies are a great resource to find a job that fist you best.
usr : I have recently been in contact with one around here. It unfortunately just hasn't happened as quickly as I wished. Although that's life. I'm hoping that it will progress.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) After interviewing with a company are you following up on a timeline or a decision? Companies like to see initiative in their potential hires after an interview.
usr : That's definitely something I'm lacking. I need to be better about that because I'm sure it will help.
sys : (Others) It definitely does help to make sure you are following up!
usr : When is a decent amount of time to follow up?
| (Self-disclosure) I usually wait a week before I reach out. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Christmas is coming up and I've been having a terrible time finding a job.". | sys : (Others) Good evening
usr : Good evening, how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good, how are you?
usr : Could be worse. Just stessed as listed.
sys : (Question) What is it that is stressing you out currently?
usr : I've been only doing some deliveries due to COVID, while also searching for another job because it's just not sustainable. It's stressful enough with less money, but coming up on Christmas is just giving me even more anxiety about it.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just so I make sure I understand, you are currently stressed about your money situation due to only working part time making deliveries for the time being.
usr : Yes
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can completely understand this, as I was also extremely worried about money when the pandemic first started and about not being able to be employed.
usr : It's so hard to find something else right now.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you looked into hiring agencies to help you find a more permanent job during the pandemic? Hiring agencies are a great resource to find a job that fist you best.
usr : I have recently been in contact with one around here. It unfortunately just hasn't happened as quickly as I wished. Although that's life. I'm hoping that it will progress.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) After interviewing with a company are you following up on a timeline or a decision? Companies like to see initiative in their potential hires after an interview.
usr : That's definitely something I'm lacking. I need to be better about that because I'm sure it will help.
sys : (Others) It definitely does help to make sure you are following up!
usr : When is a decent amount of time to follow up?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I usually wait a week before I reach out.
usr : Thank you, that is really helpful advice.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Not a problem! I know this is an incredibly difficult situation, but I know you can make it through! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Christmas is coming up and I've been having a terrible time finding a job.". | sys : (Others) Good evening
usr : Good evening, how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good, how are you?
usr : Could be worse. Just stessed as listed.
sys : (Question) What is it that is stressing you out currently?
usr : I've been only doing some deliveries due to COVID, while also searching for another job because it's just not sustainable. It's stressful enough with less money, but coming up on Christmas is just giving me even more anxiety about it.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just so I make sure I understand, you are currently stressed about your money situation due to only working part time making deliveries for the time being.
usr : Yes
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can completely understand this, as I was also extremely worried about money when the pandemic first started and about not being able to be employed.
usr : It's so hard to find something else right now.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you looked into hiring agencies to help you find a more permanent job during the pandemic? Hiring agencies are a great resource to find a job that fist you best.
usr : I have recently been in contact with one around here. It unfortunately just hasn't happened as quickly as I wished. Although that's life. I'm hoping that it will progress.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) After interviewing with a company are you following up on a timeline or a decision? Companies like to see initiative in their potential hires after an interview.
usr : That's definitely something I'm lacking. I need to be better about that because I'm sure it will help.
sys : (Others) It definitely does help to make sure you are following up!
usr : When is a decent amount of time to follow up?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I usually wait a week before I reach out.
usr : Thank you, that is really helpful advice.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Not a problem! I know this is an incredibly difficult situation, but I know you can make it through!
usr : Thank you, I know this crazy year has been hard on a lot of people for different reasons.
| (Others) Yes it has! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Christmas is coming up and I've been having a terrible time finding a job.". | sys : (Others) Good evening
usr : Good evening, how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good, how are you?
usr : Could be worse. Just stessed as listed.
sys : (Question) What is it that is stressing you out currently?
usr : I've been only doing some deliveries due to COVID, while also searching for another job because it's just not sustainable. It's stressful enough with less money, but coming up on Christmas is just giving me even more anxiety about it.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just so I make sure I understand, you are currently stressed about your money situation due to only working part time making deliveries for the time being.
usr : Yes
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can completely understand this, as I was also extremely worried about money when the pandemic first started and about not being able to be employed.
usr : It's so hard to find something else right now.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you looked into hiring agencies to help you find a more permanent job during the pandemic? Hiring agencies are a great resource to find a job that fist you best.
usr : I have recently been in contact with one around here. It unfortunately just hasn't happened as quickly as I wished. Although that's life. I'm hoping that it will progress.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) After interviewing with a company are you following up on a timeline or a decision? Companies like to see initiative in their potential hires after an interview.
usr : That's definitely something I'm lacking. I need to be better about that because I'm sure it will help.
sys : (Others) It definitely does help to make sure you are following up!
usr : When is a decent amount of time to follow up?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I usually wait a week before I reach out.
usr : Thank you, that is really helpful advice.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Not a problem! I know this is an incredibly difficult situation, but I know you can make it through!
usr : Thank you, I know this crazy year has been hard on a lot of people for different reasons.
sys : (Others) Yes it has!
usr : You've been helpful and I think we've hit our minimum that we need.
usr : Unless there is anything else from you?
| (Others) I am all set! Feel free to chat back anytime you need anything! |
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The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Christmas is coming up and I've been having a terrible time finding a job.". | sys : (Others) Good evening
usr : Good evening, how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good, how are you?
usr : Could be worse. Just stessed as listed.
sys : (Question) What is it that is stressing you out currently?
usr : I've been only doing some deliveries due to COVID, while also searching for another job because it's just not sustainable. It's stressful enough with less money, but coming up on Christmas is just giving me even more anxiety about it.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just so I make sure I understand, you are currently stressed about your money situation due to only working part time making deliveries for the time being.
usr : Yes
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can completely understand this, as I was also extremely worried about money when the pandemic first started and about not being able to be employed.
usr : It's so hard to find something else right now.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you looked into hiring agencies to help you find a more permanent job during the pandemic? Hiring agencies are a great resource to find a job that fist you best.
usr : I have recently been in contact with one around here. It unfortunately just hasn't happened as quickly as I wished. Although that's life. I'm hoping that it will progress.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) After interviewing with a company are you following up on a timeline or a decision? Companies like to see initiative in their potential hires after an interview.
usr : That's definitely something I'm lacking. I need to be better about that because I'm sure it will help.
sys : (Others) It definitely does help to make sure you are following up!
usr : When is a decent amount of time to follow up?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I usually wait a week before I reach out.
usr : Thank you, that is really helpful advice.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Not a problem! I know this is an incredibly difficult situation, but I know you can make it through!
usr : Thank you, I know this crazy year has been hard on a lot of people for different reasons.
sys : (Others) Yes it has!
usr : You've been helpful and I think we've hit our minimum that we need.
usr : Unless there is anything else from you?
sys : (Others) I am all set! Feel free to chat back anytime you need anything!
usr : Thank you so much! I hope you have a good night.
| (Others) You too! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well we are at different places in our lives. My partner wants to leave to go to another state to be with her cousin. I want to stay around the family we have here already.". | (Question) Hello, how are you today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well we are at different places in our lives. My partner wants to leave to go to another state to be with her cousin. I want to stay around the family we have here already.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I'm doing ok
| (Question) That's good to hear. Is there anything that you would like to talk about? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well we are at different places in our lives. My partner wants to leave to go to another state to be with her cousin. I want to stay around the family we have here already.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I'm doing ok
sys : (Question) That's good to hear. Is there anything that you would like to talk about?
usr : Yes, me and my partner are considering breaking up as she wants to move to another state to be with her cousin and have a fresh start. I want to stay and be around my family. So that is the dilemma.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it sounds to me like you're experiencing stress about choosing between staying in your current relationship, or staying close to your family. Do I have that right? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well we are at different places in our lives. My partner wants to leave to go to another state to be with her cousin. I want to stay around the family we have here already.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I'm doing ok
sys : (Question) That's good to hear. Is there anything that you would like to talk about?
usr : Yes, me and my partner are considering breaking up as she wants to move to another state to be with her cousin and have a fresh start. I want to stay and be around my family. So that is the dilemma.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it sounds to me like you're experiencing stress about choosing between staying in your current relationship, or staying close to your family. Do I have that right?
usr : Yes and its very hard for me to make a decision on which to choose.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand how that feels. Anybody would have a hard time deciding between those options. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well we are at different places in our lives. My partner wants to leave to go to another state to be with her cousin. I want to stay around the family we have here already.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I'm doing ok
sys : (Question) That's good to hear. Is there anything that you would like to talk about?
usr : Yes, me and my partner are considering breaking up as she wants to move to another state to be with her cousin and have a fresh start. I want to stay and be around my family. So that is the dilemma.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it sounds to me like you're experiencing stress about choosing between staying in your current relationship, or staying close to your family. Do I have that right?
usr : Yes and its very hard for me to make a decision on which to choose.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand how that feels. Anybody would have a hard time deciding between those options.
| (Question) May I ask you a question about your relationship? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well we are at different places in our lives. My partner wants to leave to go to another state to be with her cousin. I want to stay around the family we have here already.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I'm doing ok
sys : (Question) That's good to hear. Is there anything that you would like to talk about?
usr : Yes, me and my partner are considering breaking up as she wants to move to another state to be with her cousin and have a fresh start. I want to stay and be around my family. So that is the dilemma.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it sounds to me like you're experiencing stress about choosing between staying in your current relationship, or staying close to your family. Do I have that right?
usr : Yes and its very hard for me to make a decision on which to choose.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand how that feels. Anybody would have a hard time deciding between those options.
sys : (Question) May I ask you a question about your relationship?
usr : Yes, sure
| (Question) Compared to other relationships that you've had in the past, how strongly do you feel about this one? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well we are at different places in our lives. My partner wants to leave to go to another state to be with her cousin. I want to stay around the family we have here already.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I'm doing ok
sys : (Question) That's good to hear. Is there anything that you would like to talk about?
usr : Yes, me and my partner are considering breaking up as she wants to move to another state to be with her cousin and have a fresh start. I want to stay and be around my family. So that is the dilemma.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it sounds to me like you're experiencing stress about choosing between staying in your current relationship, or staying close to your family. Do I have that right?
usr : Yes and its very hard for me to make a decision on which to choose.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand how that feels. Anybody would have a hard time deciding between those options.
sys : (Question) May I ask you a question about your relationship?
usr : Yes, sure
sys : (Question) Compared to other relationships that you've had in the past, how strongly do you feel about this one?
usr : I would say compared to every relationship I have had, this is the best relationship I have been in. Plus we have children involved.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That helps me understand that this is quite a problem, however talking to you now I feel like you can trust yourself to eventually reach the best decision. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well we are at different places in our lives. My partner wants to leave to go to another state to be with her cousin. I want to stay around the family we have here already.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I'm doing ok
sys : (Question) That's good to hear. Is there anything that you would like to talk about?
usr : Yes, me and my partner are considering breaking up as she wants to move to another state to be with her cousin and have a fresh start. I want to stay and be around my family. So that is the dilemma.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it sounds to me like you're experiencing stress about choosing between staying in your current relationship, or staying close to your family. Do I have that right?
usr : Yes and its very hard for me to make a decision on which to choose.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand how that feels. Anybody would have a hard time deciding between those options.
sys : (Question) May I ask you a question about your relationship?
usr : Yes, sure
sys : (Question) Compared to other relationships that you've had in the past, how strongly do you feel about this one?
usr : I would say compared to every relationship I have had, this is the best relationship I have been in. Plus we have children involved.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That helps me understand that this is quite a problem, however talking to you now I feel like you can trust yourself to eventually reach the best decision.
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked this out with your family and your partner together? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well we are at different places in our lives. My partner wants to leave to go to another state to be with her cousin. I want to stay around the family we have here already.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I'm doing ok
sys : (Question) That's good to hear. Is there anything that you would like to talk about?
usr : Yes, me and my partner are considering breaking up as she wants to move to another state to be with her cousin and have a fresh start. I want to stay and be around my family. So that is the dilemma.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it sounds to me like you're experiencing stress about choosing between staying in your current relationship, or staying close to your family. Do I have that right?
usr : Yes and its very hard for me to make a decision on which to choose.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand how that feels. Anybody would have a hard time deciding between those options.
sys : (Question) May I ask you a question about your relationship?
usr : Yes, sure
sys : (Question) Compared to other relationships that you've had in the past, how strongly do you feel about this one?
usr : I would say compared to every relationship I have had, this is the best relationship I have been in. Plus we have children involved.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That helps me understand that this is quite a problem, however talking to you now I feel like you can trust yourself to eventually reach the best decision.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked this out with your family and your partner together?
usr : I think that after speaking with you, I realize the choice I must make though difficult. And yes we have talked with everyone close with us or connected.
| (Question) How did that go? Did everybody feel like they had their voice heard in a cooperative manner? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well we are at different places in our lives. My partner wants to leave to go to another state to be with her cousin. I want to stay around the family we have here already.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I'm doing ok
sys : (Question) That's good to hear. Is there anything that you would like to talk about?
usr : Yes, me and my partner are considering breaking up as she wants to move to another state to be with her cousin and have a fresh start. I want to stay and be around my family. So that is the dilemma.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it sounds to me like you're experiencing stress about choosing between staying in your current relationship, or staying close to your family. Do I have that right?
usr : Yes and its very hard for me to make a decision on which to choose.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand how that feels. Anybody would have a hard time deciding between those options.
sys : (Question) May I ask you a question about your relationship?
usr : Yes, sure
sys : (Question) Compared to other relationships that you've had in the past, how strongly do you feel about this one?
usr : I would say compared to every relationship I have had, this is the best relationship I have been in. Plus we have children involved.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That helps me understand that this is quite a problem, however talking to you now I feel like you can trust yourself to eventually reach the best decision.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked this out with your family and your partner together?
usr : I think that after speaking with you, I realize the choice I must make though difficult. And yes we have talked with everyone close with us or connected.
sys : (Question) How did that go? Did everybody feel like they had their voice heard in a cooperative manner?
usr : I feel like everyone respected both of our wishes as they were different but everyone also offered advice and shared their experiences. Everyone was cooperative.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you had a cooperative conversation, but not a very productive one, is that right? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well we are at different places in our lives. My partner wants to leave to go to another state to be with her cousin. I want to stay around the family we have here already.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I'm doing ok
sys : (Question) That's good to hear. Is there anything that you would like to talk about?
usr : Yes, me and my partner are considering breaking up as she wants to move to another state to be with her cousin and have a fresh start. I want to stay and be around my family. So that is the dilemma.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it sounds to me like you're experiencing stress about choosing between staying in your current relationship, or staying close to your family. Do I have that right?
usr : Yes and its very hard for me to make a decision on which to choose.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand how that feels. Anybody would have a hard time deciding between those options.
sys : (Question) May I ask you a question about your relationship?
usr : Yes, sure
sys : (Question) Compared to other relationships that you've had in the past, how strongly do you feel about this one?
usr : I would say compared to every relationship I have had, this is the best relationship I have been in. Plus we have children involved.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That helps me understand that this is quite a problem, however talking to you now I feel like you can trust yourself to eventually reach the best decision.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked this out with your family and your partner together?
usr : I think that after speaking with you, I realize the choice I must make though difficult. And yes we have talked with everyone close with us or connected.
sys : (Question) How did that go? Did everybody feel like they had their voice heard in a cooperative manner?
usr : I feel like everyone respected both of our wishes as they were different but everyone also offered advice and shared their experiences. Everyone was cooperative.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you had a cooperative conversation, but not a very productive one, is that right?
usr : Yes we listened to each other but it was still a more agree to disagree conversation. No over talking or arguments.
| (Reflection of feelings) I understand how those conversations go, believe me we all have them. They don't seem to solve much a first, but we better off doing it than not. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well we are at different places in our lives. My partner wants to leave to go to another state to be with her cousin. I want to stay around the family we have here already.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I'm doing ok
sys : (Question) That's good to hear. Is there anything that you would like to talk about?
usr : Yes, me and my partner are considering breaking up as she wants to move to another state to be with her cousin and have a fresh start. I want to stay and be around my family. So that is the dilemma.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it sounds to me like you're experiencing stress about choosing between staying in your current relationship, or staying close to your family. Do I have that right?
usr : Yes and its very hard for me to make a decision on which to choose.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand how that feels. Anybody would have a hard time deciding between those options.
sys : (Question) May I ask you a question about your relationship?
usr : Yes, sure
sys : (Question) Compared to other relationships that you've had in the past, how strongly do you feel about this one?
usr : I would say compared to every relationship I have had, this is the best relationship I have been in. Plus we have children involved.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That helps me understand that this is quite a problem, however talking to you now I feel like you can trust yourself to eventually reach the best decision.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked this out with your family and your partner together?
usr : I think that after speaking with you, I realize the choice I must make though difficult. And yes we have talked with everyone close with us or connected.
sys : (Question) How did that go? Did everybody feel like they had their voice heard in a cooperative manner?
usr : I feel like everyone respected both of our wishes as they were different but everyone also offered advice and shared their experiences. Everyone was cooperative.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you had a cooperative conversation, but not a very productive one, is that right?
usr : Yes we listened to each other but it was still a more agree to disagree conversation. No over talking or arguments.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how those conversations go, believe me we all have them. They don't seem to solve much a first, but we better off doing it than not.
usr : Yes I have come to understand that we must have those hard conversations rather than avoiding it. Thanks for the talk!
| (Others) You're welcome, I hope you have a better understanding of the problem now. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well we are at different places in our lives. My partner wants to leave to go to another state to be with her cousin. I want to stay around the family we have here already.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I'm doing ok
sys : (Question) That's good to hear. Is there anything that you would like to talk about?
usr : Yes, me and my partner are considering breaking up as she wants to move to another state to be with her cousin and have a fresh start. I want to stay and be around my family. So that is the dilemma.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it sounds to me like you're experiencing stress about choosing between staying in your current relationship, or staying close to your family. Do I have that right?
usr : Yes and its very hard for me to make a decision on which to choose.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand how that feels. Anybody would have a hard time deciding between those options.
sys : (Question) May I ask you a question about your relationship?
usr : Yes, sure
sys : (Question) Compared to other relationships that you've had in the past, how strongly do you feel about this one?
usr : I would say compared to every relationship I have had, this is the best relationship I have been in. Plus we have children involved.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That helps me understand that this is quite a problem, however talking to you now I feel like you can trust yourself to eventually reach the best decision.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked this out with your family and your partner together?
usr : I think that after speaking with you, I realize the choice I must make though difficult. And yes we have talked with everyone close with us or connected.
sys : (Question) How did that go? Did everybody feel like they had their voice heard in a cooperative manner?
usr : I feel like everyone respected both of our wishes as they were different but everyone also offered advice and shared their experiences. Everyone was cooperative.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you had a cooperative conversation, but not a very productive one, is that right?
usr : Yes we listened to each other but it was still a more agree to disagree conversation. No over talking or arguments.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how those conversations go, believe me we all have them. They don't seem to solve much a first, but we better off doing it than not.
usr : Yes I have come to understand that we must have those hard conversations rather than avoiding it. Thanks for the talk!
sys : (Others) You're welcome, I hope you have a better understanding of the problem now.
usr : I do now that I have talked it through.
| (Others) That's good to hear, may I ask how the weather is today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breaked with my lover". | usr : hi
| (Question) Hi, how can I help you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breaked with my lover". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) Hi, how can I help you?
usr : i am breaked up with my partner
| (Question) How long have you been together? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breaked with my lover". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) Hi, how can I help you?
usr : i am breaked up with my partner
sys : (Question) How long have you been together?
usr : atmost 2 years
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That has to be hard after 2 years. Does your partner know yet? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breaked with my lover". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) Hi, how can I help you?
usr : i am breaked up with my partner
sys : (Question) How long have you been together?
usr : atmost 2 years
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That has to be hard after 2 years. Does your partner know yet?
usr : he only angry with me but i am still loving him
| (Question) If you still love him, what is the reason for the break up? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breaked with my lover". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) Hi, how can I help you?
usr : i am breaked up with my partner
sys : (Question) How long have you been together?
usr : atmost 2 years
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That has to be hard after 2 years. Does your partner know yet?
usr : he only angry with me but i am still loving him
sys : (Question) If you still love him, what is the reason for the break up?
usr : he is going to abroad , so he is leaving me
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So then he is leaving the country. Why don't you want to go along? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breaked with my lover". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) Hi, how can I help you?
usr : i am breaked up with my partner
sys : (Question) How long have you been together?
usr : atmost 2 years
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That has to be hard after 2 years. Does your partner know yet?
usr : he only angry with me but i am still loving him
sys : (Question) If you still love him, what is the reason for the break up?
usr : he is going to abroad , so he is leaving me
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So then he is leaving the country. Why don't you want to go along?
usr : my working platform does not allow me to outside the contry
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh I see. That is a hard situation to be in. I would feel sad and angry. Is that what you are feeling? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breaked with my lover". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) Hi, how can I help you?
usr : i am breaked up with my partner
sys : (Question) How long have you been together?
usr : atmost 2 years
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That has to be hard after 2 years. Does your partner know yet?
usr : he only angry with me but i am still loving him
sys : (Question) If you still love him, what is the reason for the break up?
usr : he is going to abroad , so he is leaving me
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So then he is leaving the country. Why don't you want to go along?
usr : my working platform does not allow me to outside the contry
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh I see. That is a hard situation to be in. I would feel sad and angry. Is that what you are feeling?
usr : yes , absolutly correct
| (Question) You have every right to feel that way. You have invested two years with him. Have you had a talk with him to tell him how you feel about it? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breaked with my lover". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) Hi, how can I help you?
usr : i am breaked up with my partner
sys : (Question) How long have you been together?
usr : atmost 2 years
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That has to be hard after 2 years. Does your partner know yet?
usr : he only angry with me but i am still loving him
sys : (Question) If you still love him, what is the reason for the break up?
usr : he is going to abroad , so he is leaving me
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So then he is leaving the country. Why don't you want to go along?
usr : my working platform does not allow me to outside the contry
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh I see. That is a hard situation to be in. I would feel sad and angry. Is that what you are feeling?
usr : yes , absolutly correct
sys : (Question) You have every right to feel that way. You have invested two years with him. Have you had a talk with him to tell him how you feel about it?
usr : i already talk to him , but he say that him future is more important more than me
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That had to hurt. So then there is no convincing him to stay. Is that right? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breaked with my lover". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) Hi, how can I help you?
usr : i am breaked up with my partner
sys : (Question) How long have you been together?
usr : atmost 2 years
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That has to be hard after 2 years. Does your partner know yet?
usr : he only angry with me but i am still loving him
sys : (Question) If you still love him, what is the reason for the break up?
usr : he is going to abroad , so he is leaving me
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So then he is leaving the country. Why don't you want to go along?
usr : my working platform does not allow me to outside the contry
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh I see. That is a hard situation to be in. I would feel sad and angry. Is that what you are feeling?
usr : yes , absolutly correct
sys : (Question) You have every right to feel that way. You have invested two years with him. Have you had a talk with him to tell him how you feel about it?
usr : i already talk to him , but he say that him future is more important more than me
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That had to hurt. So then there is no convincing him to stay. Is that right?
usr : no ,i need to time forget
| (Providing Suggestions) I think the best thing in these situations is to take time doing things that make you happy. Pamper yourself. Indulge in things that make you feel good and help you feel better about yourself. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breaked with my lover". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) Hi, how can I help you?
usr : i am breaked up with my partner
sys : (Question) How long have you been together?
usr : atmost 2 years
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That has to be hard after 2 years. Does your partner know yet?
usr : he only angry with me but i am still loving him
sys : (Question) If you still love him, what is the reason for the break up?
usr : he is going to abroad , so he is leaving me
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So then he is leaving the country. Why don't you want to go along?
usr : my working platform does not allow me to outside the contry
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh I see. That is a hard situation to be in. I would feel sad and angry. Is that what you are feeling?
usr : yes , absolutly correct
sys : (Question) You have every right to feel that way. You have invested two years with him. Have you had a talk with him to tell him how you feel about it?
usr : i already talk to him , but he say that him future is more important more than me
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That had to hurt. So then there is no convincing him to stay. Is that right?
usr : no ,i need to time forget
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think the best thing in these situations is to take time doing things that make you happy. Pamper yourself. Indulge in things that make you feel good and help you feel better about yourself.
| (Providing Suggestions) Something like a spa day. Get a beauty treatment. Pamper yourself then you will have an attitude that will help you move on. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breaked with my lover". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) Hi, how can I help you?
usr : i am breaked up with my partner
sys : (Question) How long have you been together?
usr : atmost 2 years
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That has to be hard after 2 years. Does your partner know yet?
usr : he only angry with me but i am still loving him
sys : (Question) If you still love him, what is the reason for the break up?
usr : he is going to abroad , so he is leaving me
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So then he is leaving the country. Why don't you want to go along?
usr : my working platform does not allow me to outside the contry
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh I see. That is a hard situation to be in. I would feel sad and angry. Is that what you are feeling?
usr : yes , absolutly correct
sys : (Question) You have every right to feel that way. You have invested two years with him. Have you had a talk with him to tell him how you feel about it?
usr : i already talk to him , but he say that him future is more important more than me
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That had to hurt. So then there is no convincing him to stay. Is that right?
usr : no ,i need to time forget
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think the best thing in these situations is to take time doing things that make you happy. Pamper yourself. Indulge in things that make you feel good and help you feel better about yourself.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Something like a spa day. Get a beauty treatment. Pamper yourself then you will have an attitude that will help you move on.
| (Others) What do you think? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend just told me that he wants to break up because he doesn't see a future because he never wants to get married but I do.". | (Question) Hello there, how are you today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend just told me that he wants to break up because he doesn't see a future because he never wants to get married but I do.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you today?
usr : Hi, Thanks for talking to me today. I've been so upset about my boyfriend breaking up with me. It was so unexpected.
| (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. When did he break up with you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend just told me that he wants to break up because he doesn't see a future because he never wants to get married but I do.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you today?
usr : Hi, Thanks for talking to me today. I've been so upset about my boyfriend breaking up with me. It was so unexpected.
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. When did he break up with you?
usr : He texted me yesterday! Can you believe that? We've been together a year and he broke up with me by texting me!!! He couldn't even do it face to face!
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That seems very cowardly to break up with you over text after being together for a year. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend just told me that he wants to break up because he doesn't see a future because he never wants to get married but I do.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you today?
usr : Hi, Thanks for talking to me today. I've been so upset about my boyfriend breaking up with me. It was so unexpected.
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. When did he break up with you?
usr : He texted me yesterday! Can you believe that? We've been together a year and he broke up with me by texting me!!! He couldn't even do it face to face!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That seems very cowardly to break up with you over text after being together for a year.
usr : Yes, I thought so too! He knew I'd be upset and he didn't want to deal with me I guess. He knew I wanted to get married some day from the very start. He knew it didn't have to be soon. I'm still in college. I just want to know that he wants marriage some day but he decided that marriage is an institution he doesn't believe in.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That is a shame. I can understand his perspective if marriage is not something he wanted but it seems hurtful to string you along in a relationship if your life goals were very different. Was your differing opinions on marriage the only reason he gave? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend just told me that he wants to break up because he doesn't see a future because he never wants to get married but I do.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you today?
usr : Hi, Thanks for talking to me today. I've been so upset about my boyfriend breaking up with me. It was so unexpected.
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. When did he break up with you?
usr : He texted me yesterday! Can you believe that? We've been together a year and he broke up with me by texting me!!! He couldn't even do it face to face!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That seems very cowardly to break up with you over text after being together for a year.
usr : Yes, I thought so too! He knew I'd be upset and he didn't want to deal with me I guess. He knew I wanted to get married some day from the very start. He knew it didn't have to be soon. I'm still in college. I just want to know that he wants marriage some day but he decided that marriage is an institution he doesn't believe in.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That is a shame. I can understand his perspective if marriage is not something he wanted but it seems hurtful to string you along in a relationship if your life goals were very different. Was your differing opinions on marriage the only reason he gave?
usr : Yes, It was completely unexpected because things with us were going great. I was completely blindsided. We hadn't even talked about marriage lately. He just knew that it was something that I wanted in the future.
| (Question) That sounds very difficult. How have you been coping with the break up? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend just told me that he wants to break up because he doesn't see a future because he never wants to get married but I do.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you today?
usr : Hi, Thanks for talking to me today. I've been so upset about my boyfriend breaking up with me. It was so unexpected.
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. When did he break up with you?
usr : He texted me yesterday! Can you believe that? We've been together a year and he broke up with me by texting me!!! He couldn't even do it face to face!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That seems very cowardly to break up with you over text after being together for a year.
usr : Yes, I thought so too! He knew I'd be upset and he didn't want to deal with me I guess. He knew I wanted to get married some day from the very start. He knew it didn't have to be soon. I'm still in college. I just want to know that he wants marriage some day but he decided that marriage is an institution he doesn't believe in.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That is a shame. I can understand his perspective if marriage is not something he wanted but it seems hurtful to string you along in a relationship if your life goals were very different. Was your differing opinions on marriage the only reason he gave?
usr : Yes, It was completely unexpected because things with us were going great. I was completely blindsided. We hadn't even talked about marriage lately. He just knew that it was something that I wanted in the future.
sys : (Question) That sounds very difficult. How have you been coping with the break up?
usr : I've just been crying and laying in bed. I called off work today. I don't want to see anyone right now.
| (Self-disclosure) I think this is to be expected from a very fresh break-up. I know that when I broke up with my partner, I spent at least a few days crying and trying to figure out what my life would be now. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend just told me that he wants to break up because he doesn't see a future because he never wants to get married but I do.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you today?
usr : Hi, Thanks for talking to me today. I've been so upset about my boyfriend breaking up with me. It was so unexpected.
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. When did he break up with you?
usr : He texted me yesterday! Can you believe that? We've been together a year and he broke up with me by texting me!!! He couldn't even do it face to face!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That seems very cowardly to break up with you over text after being together for a year.
usr : Yes, I thought so too! He knew I'd be upset and he didn't want to deal with me I guess. He knew I wanted to get married some day from the very start. He knew it didn't have to be soon. I'm still in college. I just want to know that he wants marriage some day but he decided that marriage is an institution he doesn't believe in.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That is a shame. I can understand his perspective if marriage is not something he wanted but it seems hurtful to string you along in a relationship if your life goals were very different. Was your differing opinions on marriage the only reason he gave?
usr : Yes, It was completely unexpected because things with us were going great. I was completely blindsided. We hadn't even talked about marriage lately. He just knew that it was something that I wanted in the future.
sys : (Question) That sounds very difficult. How have you been coping with the break up?
usr : I've just been crying and laying in bed. I called off work today. I don't want to see anyone right now.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I think this is to be expected from a very fresh break-up. I know that when I broke up with my partner, I spent at least a few days crying and trying to figure out what my life would be now.
usr : How 'd you get over it?
| (Providing Suggestions) I tried to focus on other areas of my life and to critically reflect on my relationship. Largely, I threw myself into my work and tried to better that aspect of my life, and hung out with people that I knew cared about me. Both of those are very good distractions which you might be able to use. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend just told me that he wants to break up because he doesn't see a future because he never wants to get married but I do.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you today?
usr : Hi, Thanks for talking to me today. I've been so upset about my boyfriend breaking up with me. It was so unexpected.
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. When did he break up with you?
usr : He texted me yesterday! Can you believe that? We've been together a year and he broke up with me by texting me!!! He couldn't even do it face to face!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That seems very cowardly to break up with you over text after being together for a year.
usr : Yes, I thought so too! He knew I'd be upset and he didn't want to deal with me I guess. He knew I wanted to get married some day from the very start. He knew it didn't have to be soon. I'm still in college. I just want to know that he wants marriage some day but he decided that marriage is an institution he doesn't believe in.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That is a shame. I can understand his perspective if marriage is not something he wanted but it seems hurtful to string you along in a relationship if your life goals were very different. Was your differing opinions on marriage the only reason he gave?
usr : Yes, It was completely unexpected because things with us were going great. I was completely blindsided. We hadn't even talked about marriage lately. He just knew that it was something that I wanted in the future.
sys : (Question) That sounds very difficult. How have you been coping with the break up?
usr : I've just been crying and laying in bed. I called off work today. I don't want to see anyone right now.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I think this is to be expected from a very fresh break-up. I know that when I broke up with my partner, I spent at least a few days crying and trying to figure out what my life would be now.
usr : How 'd you get over it?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I tried to focus on other areas of my life and to critically reflect on my relationship. Largely, I threw myself into my work and tried to better that aspect of my life, and hung out with people that I knew cared about me. Both of those are very good distractions which you might be able to use.
usr : Maybe calling off work was a bad idea... all I'm going to do is think about this instead of doing something to take my mind off of it...
| (Providing Suggestions) I think one day off to get the crying out of your system is a good emotional cleanse. We all need time to self care and look after our emotions. Maybe going for a walk or doing some yoga, to place your focus on something rather than being boxed into a room may help to shift your focus. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend just told me that he wants to break up because he doesn't see a future because he never wants to get married but I do.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you today?
usr : Hi, Thanks for talking to me today. I've been so upset about my boyfriend breaking up with me. It was so unexpected.
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. When did he break up with you?
usr : He texted me yesterday! Can you believe that? We've been together a year and he broke up with me by texting me!!! He couldn't even do it face to face!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That seems very cowardly to break up with you over text after being together for a year.
usr : Yes, I thought so too! He knew I'd be upset and he didn't want to deal with me I guess. He knew I wanted to get married some day from the very start. He knew it didn't have to be soon. I'm still in college. I just want to know that he wants marriage some day but he decided that marriage is an institution he doesn't believe in.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That is a shame. I can understand his perspective if marriage is not something he wanted but it seems hurtful to string you along in a relationship if your life goals were very different. Was your differing opinions on marriage the only reason he gave?
usr : Yes, It was completely unexpected because things with us were going great. I was completely blindsided. We hadn't even talked about marriage lately. He just knew that it was something that I wanted in the future.
sys : (Question) That sounds very difficult. How have you been coping with the break up?
usr : I've just been crying and laying in bed. I called off work today. I don't want to see anyone right now.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I think this is to be expected from a very fresh break-up. I know that when I broke up with my partner, I spent at least a few days crying and trying to figure out what my life would be now.
usr : How 'd you get over it?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I tried to focus on other areas of my life and to critically reflect on my relationship. Largely, I threw myself into my work and tried to better that aspect of my life, and hung out with people that I knew cared about me. Both of those are very good distractions which you might be able to use.
usr : Maybe calling off work was a bad idea... all I'm going to do is think about this instead of doing something to take my mind off of it...
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think one day off to get the crying out of your system is a good emotional cleanse. We all need time to self care and look after our emotions. Maybe going for a walk or doing some yoga, to place your focus on something rather than being boxed into a room may help to shift your focus.
usr : I think I'm going to get out of bed and do something to take my mind off of this . Thanks for chatting with me today!
usr : I think I'm going to do that! There is a park by my house that I'm going to go for a walk in! Some fresh air might be good for me!
| (Others) You are more than welcome. I hope that you feel better by being outside. |
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