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### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I am feeling extremely isolated due to the pandemic and miss my friends and family.".
sys : (Others) Hi sys : (Reflection of feelings) How are you doing? usr : I am very sad sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh, what happened? why are you sad? usr : I think I am just feeling down because of the pandemic sys : (Self-disclosure) ok, i understand. this pandemic has been really tough.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) have you tried to take your mind off of the pandemic by spending time on your hobbies?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I am feeling extremely isolated due to the pandemic and miss my friends and family.".
sys : (Others) Hi sys : (Reflection of feelings) How are you doing? usr : I am very sad sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh, what happened? why are you sad? usr : I think I am just feeling down because of the pandemic sys : (Self-disclosure) ok, i understand. this pandemic has been really tough. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) have you tried to take your mind off of the pandemic by spending time on your hobbies? usr : I have but they aren't the same without my friends
(Information) that's true. times like these really show us the value of our friends. have you talked to your friends recently? either in person or through phone/video calls?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I am feeling extremely isolated due to the pandemic and miss my friends and family.".
sys : (Others) Hi sys : (Reflection of feelings) How are you doing? usr : I am very sad sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh, what happened? why are you sad? usr : I think I am just feeling down because of the pandemic sys : (Self-disclosure) ok, i understand. this pandemic has been really tough. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) have you tried to take your mind off of the pandemic by spending time on your hobbies? usr : I have but they aren't the same without my friends sys : (Information) that's true. times like these really show us the value of our friends. have you talked to your friends recently? either in person or through phone/video calls? usr : We have done a few video calls but it just makes me more sad that I can't see them in person
(Information) okay. at lease seeing them in the video should have brought you some relief. Are you planning to get vaccinated when you are able to? And what about your friends? once you are vaccinated, it will help you meet your friends in person.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I am feeling extremely isolated due to the pandemic and miss my friends and family.".
sys : (Others) Hi sys : (Reflection of feelings) How are you doing? usr : I am very sad sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh, what happened? why are you sad? usr : I think I am just feeling down because of the pandemic sys : (Self-disclosure) ok, i understand. this pandemic has been really tough. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) have you tried to take your mind off of the pandemic by spending time on your hobbies? usr : I have but they aren't the same without my friends sys : (Information) that's true. times like these really show us the value of our friends. have you talked to your friends recently? either in person or through phone/video calls? usr : We have done a few video calls but it just makes me more sad that I can't see them in person sys : (Information) okay. at lease seeing them in the video should have brought you some relief. Are you planning to get vaccinated when you are able to? And what about your friends? once you are vaccinated, it will help you meet your friends in person. usr : Yes we are planning to get it as soon as possible but that is hard in our state
(Providing Suggestions) oh okay. Have you tried checking with your friends to see if you could meet in person but still maintain social distance and wear masks, etc.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I am feeling extremely isolated due to the pandemic and miss my friends and family.".
sys : (Others) Hi sys : (Reflection of feelings) How are you doing? usr : I am very sad sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh, what happened? why are you sad? usr : I think I am just feeling down because of the pandemic sys : (Self-disclosure) ok, i understand. this pandemic has been really tough. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) have you tried to take your mind off of the pandemic by spending time on your hobbies? usr : I have but they aren't the same without my friends sys : (Information) that's true. times like these really show us the value of our friends. have you talked to your friends recently? either in person or through phone/video calls? usr : We have done a few video calls but it just makes me more sad that I can't see them in person sys : (Information) okay. at lease seeing them in the video should have brought you some relief. Are you planning to get vaccinated when you are able to? And what about your friends? once you are vaccinated, it will help you meet your friends in person. usr : Yes we are planning to get it as soon as possible but that is hard in our state sys : (Providing Suggestions) oh okay. Have you tried checking with your friends to see if you could meet in person but still maintain social distance and wear masks, etc. usr : None of them are really comfortable with that sadly
(Providing Suggestions) oh okay, have you discussed anything with your friends to see if you find any alternative way of meeting?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I am feeling extremely isolated due to the pandemic and miss my friends and family.".
sys : (Others) Hi sys : (Reflection of feelings) How are you doing? usr : I am very sad sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh, what happened? why are you sad? usr : I think I am just feeling down because of the pandemic sys : (Self-disclosure) ok, i understand. this pandemic has been really tough. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) have you tried to take your mind off of the pandemic by spending time on your hobbies? usr : I have but they aren't the same without my friends sys : (Information) that's true. times like these really show us the value of our friends. have you talked to your friends recently? either in person or through phone/video calls? usr : We have done a few video calls but it just makes me more sad that I can't see them in person sys : (Information) okay. at lease seeing them in the video should have brought you some relief. Are you planning to get vaccinated when you are able to? And what about your friends? once you are vaccinated, it will help you meet your friends in person. usr : Yes we are planning to get it as soon as possible but that is hard in our state sys : (Providing Suggestions) oh okay. Have you tried checking with your friends to see if you could meet in person but still maintain social distance and wear masks, etc. usr : None of them are really comfortable with that sadly sys : (Providing Suggestions) oh okay, have you discussed anything with your friends to see if you find any alternative way of meeting? usr : I have tried but we don't have many ideas
(Providing Suggestions) okay. May i ask what do you do for a living? are there ways you can spend time on activities that you like so that it could reduce your sadness?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I am feeling extremely isolated due to the pandemic and miss my friends and family.".
sys : (Others) Hi sys : (Reflection of feelings) How are you doing? usr : I am very sad sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh, what happened? why are you sad? usr : I think I am just feeling down because of the pandemic sys : (Self-disclosure) ok, i understand. this pandemic has been really tough. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) have you tried to take your mind off of the pandemic by spending time on your hobbies? usr : I have but they aren't the same without my friends sys : (Information) that's true. times like these really show us the value of our friends. have you talked to your friends recently? either in person or through phone/video calls? usr : We have done a few video calls but it just makes me more sad that I can't see them in person sys : (Information) okay. at lease seeing them in the video should have brought you some relief. Are you planning to get vaccinated when you are able to? And what about your friends? once you are vaccinated, it will help you meet your friends in person. usr : Yes we are planning to get it as soon as possible but that is hard in our state sys : (Providing Suggestions) oh okay. Have you tried checking with your friends to see if you could meet in person but still maintain social distance and wear masks, etc. usr : None of them are really comfortable with that sadly sys : (Providing Suggestions) oh okay, have you discussed anything with your friends to see if you find any alternative way of meeting? usr : I have tried but we don't have many ideas sys : (Providing Suggestions) okay. May i ask what do you do for a living? are there ways you can spend time on activities that you like so that it could reduce your sadness? usr : I am just a student right now. All of my classes are online
(Self-disclosure) oh okay
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I am feeling extremely isolated due to the pandemic and miss my friends and family.".
sys : (Others) Hi sys : (Reflection of feelings) How are you doing? usr : I am very sad sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh, what happened? why are you sad? usr : I think I am just feeling down because of the pandemic sys : (Self-disclosure) ok, i understand. this pandemic has been really tough. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) have you tried to take your mind off of the pandemic by spending time on your hobbies? usr : I have but they aren't the same without my friends sys : (Information) that's true. times like these really show us the value of our friends. have you talked to your friends recently? either in person or through phone/video calls? usr : We have done a few video calls but it just makes me more sad that I can't see them in person sys : (Information) okay. at lease seeing them in the video should have brought you some relief. Are you planning to get vaccinated when you are able to? And what about your friends? once you are vaccinated, it will help you meet your friends in person. usr : Yes we are planning to get it as soon as possible but that is hard in our state sys : (Providing Suggestions) oh okay. Have you tried checking with your friends to see if you could meet in person but still maintain social distance and wear masks, etc. usr : None of them are really comfortable with that sadly sys : (Providing Suggestions) oh okay, have you discussed anything with your friends to see if you find any alternative way of meeting? usr : I have tried but we don't have many ideas sys : (Providing Suggestions) okay. May i ask what do you do for a living? are there ways you can spend time on activities that you like so that it could reduce your sadness? usr : I am just a student right now. All of my classes are online sys : (Self-disclosure) oh okay usr : I think things will get better eventually
(Information) do you like any subjects in particular?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I am feeling extremely isolated due to the pandemic and miss my friends and family.".
sys : (Others) Hi sys : (Reflection of feelings) How are you doing? usr : I am very sad sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh, what happened? why are you sad? usr : I think I am just feeling down because of the pandemic sys : (Self-disclosure) ok, i understand. this pandemic has been really tough. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) have you tried to take your mind off of the pandemic by spending time on your hobbies? usr : I have but they aren't the same without my friends sys : (Information) that's true. times like these really show us the value of our friends. have you talked to your friends recently? either in person or through phone/video calls? usr : We have done a few video calls but it just makes me more sad that I can't see them in person sys : (Information) okay. at lease seeing them in the video should have brought you some relief. Are you planning to get vaccinated when you are able to? And what about your friends? once you are vaccinated, it will help you meet your friends in person. usr : Yes we are planning to get it as soon as possible but that is hard in our state sys : (Providing Suggestions) oh okay. Have you tried checking with your friends to see if you could meet in person but still maintain social distance and wear masks, etc. usr : None of them are really comfortable with that sadly sys : (Providing Suggestions) oh okay, have you discussed anything with your friends to see if you find any alternative way of meeting? usr : I have tried but we don't have many ideas sys : (Providing Suggestions) okay. May i ask what do you do for a living? are there ways you can spend time on activities that you like so that it could reduce your sadness? usr : I am just a student right now. All of my classes are online sys : (Self-disclosure) oh okay usr : I think things will get better eventually sys : (Information) do you like any subjects in particular? usr : Biology and anatomy
(Reflection of feelings) yes, things will only get better from here
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I am feeling extremely isolated due to the pandemic and miss my friends and family.".
sys : (Others) Hi sys : (Reflection of feelings) How are you doing? usr : I am very sad sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh, what happened? why are you sad? usr : I think I am just feeling down because of the pandemic sys : (Self-disclosure) ok, i understand. this pandemic has been really tough. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) have you tried to take your mind off of the pandemic by spending time on your hobbies? usr : I have but they aren't the same without my friends sys : (Information) that's true. times like these really show us the value of our friends. have you talked to your friends recently? either in person or through phone/video calls? usr : We have done a few video calls but it just makes me more sad that I can't see them in person sys : (Information) okay. at lease seeing them in the video should have brought you some relief. Are you planning to get vaccinated when you are able to? And what about your friends? once you are vaccinated, it will help you meet your friends in person. usr : Yes we are planning to get it as soon as possible but that is hard in our state sys : (Providing Suggestions) oh okay. Have you tried checking with your friends to see if you could meet in person but still maintain social distance and wear masks, etc. usr : None of them are really comfortable with that sadly sys : (Providing Suggestions) oh okay, have you discussed anything with your friends to see if you find any alternative way of meeting? usr : I have tried but we don't have many ideas sys : (Providing Suggestions) okay. May i ask what do you do for a living? are there ways you can spend time on activities that you like so that it could reduce your sadness? usr : I am just a student right now. All of my classes are online sys : (Self-disclosure) oh okay usr : I think things will get better eventually sys : (Information) do you like any subjects in particular? usr : Biology and anatomy sys : (Reflection of feelings) yes, things will only get better from here
(Affirmation and Reassurance) i hope with the government's plan to get vaccines sooner, will let states to administer them soon . and then hopefully you will be able to meet your friends in person
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I am feeling extremely isolated due to the pandemic and miss my friends and family.".
sys : (Others) Hi sys : (Reflection of feelings) How are you doing? usr : I am very sad sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh, what happened? why are you sad? usr : I think I am just feeling down because of the pandemic sys : (Self-disclosure) ok, i understand. this pandemic has been really tough. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) have you tried to take your mind off of the pandemic by spending time on your hobbies? usr : I have but they aren't the same without my friends sys : (Information) that's true. times like these really show us the value of our friends. have you talked to your friends recently? either in person or through phone/video calls? usr : We have done a few video calls but it just makes me more sad that I can't see them in person sys : (Information) okay. at lease seeing them in the video should have brought you some relief. Are you planning to get vaccinated when you are able to? And what about your friends? once you are vaccinated, it will help you meet your friends in person. usr : Yes we are planning to get it as soon as possible but that is hard in our state sys : (Providing Suggestions) oh okay. Have you tried checking with your friends to see if you could meet in person but still maintain social distance and wear masks, etc. usr : None of them are really comfortable with that sadly sys : (Providing Suggestions) oh okay, have you discussed anything with your friends to see if you find any alternative way of meeting? usr : I have tried but we don't have many ideas sys : (Providing Suggestions) okay. May i ask what do you do for a living? are there ways you can spend time on activities that you like so that it could reduce your sadness? usr : I am just a student right now. All of my classes are online sys : (Self-disclosure) oh okay usr : I think things will get better eventually sys : (Information) do you like any subjects in particular? usr : Biology and anatomy sys : (Reflection of feelings) yes, things will only get better from here sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) i hope with the government's plan to get vaccines sooner, will let states to administer them soon . and then hopefully you will be able to meet your friends in person usr : I truly hope so! usr : Thanks for talking with me
(Self-disclosure) Sure no problem. Hopefully things will be much better for you soon.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I am feeling extremely isolated due to the pandemic and miss my friends and family.".
sys : (Others) Hi sys : (Reflection of feelings) How are you doing? usr : I am very sad sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh, what happened? why are you sad? usr : I think I am just feeling down because of the pandemic sys : (Self-disclosure) ok, i understand. this pandemic has been really tough. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) have you tried to take your mind off of the pandemic by spending time on your hobbies? usr : I have but they aren't the same without my friends sys : (Information) that's true. times like these really show us the value of our friends. have you talked to your friends recently? either in person or through phone/video calls? usr : We have done a few video calls but it just makes me more sad that I can't see them in person sys : (Information) okay. at lease seeing them in the video should have brought you some relief. Are you planning to get vaccinated when you are able to? And what about your friends? once you are vaccinated, it will help you meet your friends in person. usr : Yes we are planning to get it as soon as possible but that is hard in our state sys : (Providing Suggestions) oh okay. Have you tried checking with your friends to see if you could meet in person but still maintain social distance and wear masks, etc. usr : None of them are really comfortable with that sadly sys : (Providing Suggestions) oh okay, have you discussed anything with your friends to see if you find any alternative way of meeting? usr : I have tried but we don't have many ideas sys : (Providing Suggestions) okay. May i ask what do you do for a living? are there ways you can spend time on activities that you like so that it could reduce your sadness? usr : I am just a student right now. All of my classes are online sys : (Self-disclosure) oh okay usr : I think things will get better eventually sys : (Information) do you like any subjects in particular? usr : Biology and anatomy sys : (Reflection of feelings) yes, things will only get better from here sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) i hope with the government's plan to get vaccines sooner, will let states to administer them soon . and then hopefully you will be able to meet your friends in person usr : I truly hope so! usr : Thanks for talking with me sys : (Self-disclosure) Sure no problem. Hopefully things will be much better for you soon. usr : Thanks. Bye!
(Reflection of feelings) Bye.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I asked my friend if she would go to the store with me because I was feeling down and overwhelmed with kids. She said she was too tired so she would have to pass this time. I was angry because I always support her when she is down or needs it. When I need it, she is nowhere to be seen. It's okay I guess for her to be depressed, but no one else can, because she has already monopolized that emotion. How can you ask someone for help when you are feeling depressed when they are depressed themselves?".
(Question) Hi how are you doing today?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I asked my friend if she would go to the store with me because I was feeling down and overwhelmed with kids. She said she was too tired so she would have to pass this time. I was angry because I always support her when she is down or needs it. When I need it, she is nowhere to be seen. It's okay I guess for her to be depressed, but no one else can, because she has already monopolized that emotion. How can you ask someone for help when you are feeling depressed when they are depressed themselves?".
sys : (Question) Hi how are you doing today? usr : I am feeling very upset because of my situation.
(Information) would you like to tell me more about it?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I asked my friend if she would go to the store with me because I was feeling down and overwhelmed with kids. She said she was too tired so she would have to pass this time. I was angry because I always support her when she is down or needs it. When I need it, she is nowhere to be seen. It's okay I guess for her to be depressed, but no one else can, because she has already monopolized that emotion. How can you ask someone for help when you are feeling depressed when they are depressed themselves?".
sys : (Question) Hi how are you doing today? usr : I am feeling very upset because of my situation. sys : (Information) would you like to tell me more about it? usr : Yes. My friend, M, is my oldest friend and knows me the best. If I can't turn to her for help, then who can I turn to?
(Question) Why do you feel you can't turn to your friend?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I asked my friend if she would go to the store with me because I was feeling down and overwhelmed with kids. She said she was too tired so she would have to pass this time. I was angry because I always support her when she is down or needs it. When I need it, she is nowhere to be seen. It's okay I guess for her to be depressed, but no one else can, because she has already monopolized that emotion. How can you ask someone for help when you are feeling depressed when they are depressed themselves?".
sys : (Question) Hi how are you doing today? usr : I am feeling very upset because of my situation. sys : (Information) would you like to tell me more about it? usr : Yes. My friend, M, is my oldest friend and knows me the best. If I can't turn to her for help, then who can I turn to? sys : (Question) Why do you feel you can't turn to your friend? usr : She is always so depressed herself. She is too tired, she is too sad, she is too frustrated. Everyone has hard lives, but we all do our best to deal with it. I have a child with special needs and I need help too, but she never thinks to ask about me and see if I am not doing okay
(Providing Suggestions) I am sorry to hear that sounds like she sure could use some help as well. Have you tried first taking about her issues and then telling her about yours?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I asked my friend if she would go to the store with me because I was feeling down and overwhelmed with kids. She said she was too tired so she would have to pass this time. I was angry because I always support her when she is down or needs it. When I need it, she is nowhere to be seen. It's okay I guess for her to be depressed, but no one else can, because she has already monopolized that emotion. How can you ask someone for help when you are feeling depressed when they are depressed themselves?".
sys : (Question) Hi how are you doing today? usr : I am feeling very upset because of my situation. sys : (Information) would you like to tell me more about it? usr : Yes. My friend, M, is my oldest friend and knows me the best. If I can't turn to her for help, then who can I turn to? sys : (Question) Why do you feel you can't turn to your friend? usr : She is always so depressed herself. She is too tired, she is too sad, she is too frustrated. Everyone has hard lives, but we all do our best to deal with it. I have a child with special needs and I need help too, but she never thinks to ask about me and see if I am not doing okay sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am sorry to hear that sounds like she sure could use some help as well. Have you tried first taking about her issues and then telling her about yours? usr : I talk about her issues constantly. I guess I could do a better job about letting her know when I am feeling down. I just ask her to do things with me instead, but maybe she just takes it at face value. Literally everytime we talk though, it's about her problems. usr : But she never does anything to try and fix them.
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry to her that, so it sounds like you feel you need to give her help but you dont get any from her. But is also sounds like she might not be aware of you needing help.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I asked my friend if she would go to the store with me because I was feeling down and overwhelmed with kids. She said she was too tired so she would have to pass this time. I was angry because I always support her when she is down or needs it. When I need it, she is nowhere to be seen. It's okay I guess for her to be depressed, but no one else can, because she has already monopolized that emotion. How can you ask someone for help when you are feeling depressed when they are depressed themselves?".
sys : (Question) Hi how are you doing today? usr : I am feeling very upset because of my situation. sys : (Information) would you like to tell me more about it? usr : Yes. My friend, M, is my oldest friend and knows me the best. If I can't turn to her for help, then who can I turn to? sys : (Question) Why do you feel you can't turn to your friend? usr : She is always so depressed herself. She is too tired, she is too sad, she is too frustrated. Everyone has hard lives, but we all do our best to deal with it. I have a child with special needs and I need help too, but she never thinks to ask about me and see if I am not doing okay sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am sorry to hear that sounds like she sure could use some help as well. Have you tried first taking about her issues and then telling her about yours? usr : I talk about her issues constantly. I guess I could do a better job about letting her know when I am feeling down. I just ask her to do things with me instead, but maybe she just takes it at face value. Literally everytime we talk though, it's about her problems. usr : But she never does anything to try and fix them. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry to her that, so it sounds like you feel you need to give her help but you dont get any from her. But is also sounds like she might not be aware of you needing help. usr : Yes, exactly. usr : It would be nice if I didn't have to explicitly spell it out. It makes it seem less meaningful when I have to spoonfeed to her what is wrong and what I need her to do for me.
(Others) I think you need to try to tell her about your problems, and maybe even if she feels like she is helping you she is more inclined to help herself some too?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I asked my friend if she would go to the store with me because I was feeling down and overwhelmed with kids. She said she was too tired so she would have to pass this time. I was angry because I always support her when she is down or needs it. When I need it, she is nowhere to be seen. It's okay I guess for her to be depressed, but no one else can, because she has already monopolized that emotion. How can you ask someone for help when you are feeling depressed when they are depressed themselves?".
sys : (Question) Hi how are you doing today? usr : I am feeling very upset because of my situation. sys : (Information) would you like to tell me more about it? usr : Yes. My friend, M, is my oldest friend and knows me the best. If I can't turn to her for help, then who can I turn to? sys : (Question) Why do you feel you can't turn to your friend? usr : She is always so depressed herself. She is too tired, she is too sad, she is too frustrated. Everyone has hard lives, but we all do our best to deal with it. I have a child with special needs and I need help too, but she never thinks to ask about me and see if I am not doing okay sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am sorry to hear that sounds like she sure could use some help as well. Have you tried first taking about her issues and then telling her about yours? usr : I talk about her issues constantly. I guess I could do a better job about letting her know when I am feeling down. I just ask her to do things with me instead, but maybe she just takes it at face value. Literally everytime we talk though, it's about her problems. usr : But she never does anything to try and fix them. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry to her that, so it sounds like you feel you need to give her help but you dont get any from her. But is also sounds like she might not be aware of you needing help. usr : Yes, exactly. usr : It would be nice if I didn't have to explicitly spell it out. It makes it seem less meaningful when I have to spoonfeed to her what is wrong and what I need her to do for me. sys : (Others) I think you need to try to tell her about your problems, and maybe even if she feels like she is helping you she is more inclined to help herself some too? usr : That's true, I didn't think about that really. Helping others def can help to take the focus off of yourself.
(Others) I know, it would be nice of her to ask how are you? But maybe she thinks you are a very strong person that does not need help since you do not voice it.?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I asked my friend if she would go to the store with me because I was feeling down and overwhelmed with kids. She said she was too tired so she would have to pass this time. I was angry because I always support her when she is down or needs it. When I need it, she is nowhere to be seen. It's okay I guess for her to be depressed, but no one else can, because she has already monopolized that emotion. How can you ask someone for help when you are feeling depressed when they are depressed themselves?".
sys : (Question) Hi how are you doing today? usr : I am feeling very upset because of my situation. sys : (Information) would you like to tell me more about it? usr : Yes. My friend, M, is my oldest friend and knows me the best. If I can't turn to her for help, then who can I turn to? sys : (Question) Why do you feel you can't turn to your friend? usr : She is always so depressed herself. She is too tired, she is too sad, she is too frustrated. Everyone has hard lives, but we all do our best to deal with it. I have a child with special needs and I need help too, but she never thinks to ask about me and see if I am not doing okay sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am sorry to hear that sounds like she sure could use some help as well. Have you tried first taking about her issues and then telling her about yours? usr : I talk about her issues constantly. I guess I could do a better job about letting her know when I am feeling down. I just ask her to do things with me instead, but maybe she just takes it at face value. Literally everytime we talk though, it's about her problems. usr : But she never does anything to try and fix them. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry to her that, so it sounds like you feel you need to give her help but you dont get any from her. But is also sounds like she might not be aware of you needing help. usr : Yes, exactly. usr : It would be nice if I didn't have to explicitly spell it out. It makes it seem less meaningful when I have to spoonfeed to her what is wrong and what I need her to do for me. sys : (Others) I think you need to try to tell her about your problems, and maybe even if she feels like she is helping you she is more inclined to help herself some too? usr : That's true, I didn't think about that really. Helping others def can help to take the focus off of yourself. sys : (Others) I know, it would be nice of her to ask how are you? But maybe she thinks you are a very strong person that does not need help since you do not voice it.? usr : Yeah, that is true. I guess I am not looking at it from her persepctive.
(Information) Yes the feeling that you help someone can be uplifting and good for anyones ego
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I asked my friend if she would go to the store with me because I was feeling down and overwhelmed with kids. She said she was too tired so she would have to pass this time. I was angry because I always support her when she is down or needs it. When I need it, she is nowhere to be seen. It's okay I guess for her to be depressed, but no one else can, because she has already monopolized that emotion. How can you ask someone for help when you are feeling depressed when they are depressed themselves?".
sys : (Question) Hi how are you doing today? usr : I am feeling very upset because of my situation. sys : (Information) would you like to tell me more about it? usr : Yes. My friend, M, is my oldest friend and knows me the best. If I can't turn to her for help, then who can I turn to? sys : (Question) Why do you feel you can't turn to your friend? usr : She is always so depressed herself. She is too tired, she is too sad, she is too frustrated. Everyone has hard lives, but we all do our best to deal with it. I have a child with special needs and I need help too, but she never thinks to ask about me and see if I am not doing okay sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am sorry to hear that sounds like she sure could use some help as well. Have you tried first taking about her issues and then telling her about yours? usr : I talk about her issues constantly. I guess I could do a better job about letting her know when I am feeling down. I just ask her to do things with me instead, but maybe she just takes it at face value. Literally everytime we talk though, it's about her problems. usr : But she never does anything to try and fix them. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry to her that, so it sounds like you feel you need to give her help but you dont get any from her. But is also sounds like she might not be aware of you needing help. usr : Yes, exactly. usr : It would be nice if I didn't have to explicitly spell it out. It makes it seem less meaningful when I have to spoonfeed to her what is wrong and what I need her to do for me. sys : (Others) I think you need to try to tell her about your problems, and maybe even if she feels like she is helping you she is more inclined to help herself some too? usr : That's true, I didn't think about that really. Helping others def can help to take the focus off of yourself. sys : (Others) I know, it would be nice of her to ask how are you? But maybe she thinks you are a very strong person that does not need help since you do not voice it.? usr : Yeah, that is true. I guess I am not looking at it from her persepctive. sys : (Information) Yes the feeling that you help someone can be uplifting and good for anyones ego usr : Should I tell her that I am frustrated with her lack of helping me or just try to put that behind me? usr : What is a good way to broach that I need help. Like I guess I don't know how to bring it up organically in a conversation
(Providing Suggestions) I would try to find a conversation and then tell her like sometimes I could use help with whatever and then tell her that you feel lonely and need her sometimes as well
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I asked my friend if she would go to the store with me because I was feeling down and overwhelmed with kids. She said she was too tired so she would have to pass this time. I was angry because I always support her when she is down or needs it. When I need it, she is nowhere to be seen. It's okay I guess for her to be depressed, but no one else can, because she has already monopolized that emotion. How can you ask someone for help when you are feeling depressed when they are depressed themselves?".
sys : (Question) Hi how are you doing today? usr : I am feeling very upset because of my situation. sys : (Information) would you like to tell me more about it? usr : Yes. My friend, M, is my oldest friend and knows me the best. If I can't turn to her for help, then who can I turn to? sys : (Question) Why do you feel you can't turn to your friend? usr : She is always so depressed herself. She is too tired, she is too sad, she is too frustrated. Everyone has hard lives, but we all do our best to deal with it. I have a child with special needs and I need help too, but she never thinks to ask about me and see if I am not doing okay sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am sorry to hear that sounds like she sure could use some help as well. Have you tried first taking about her issues and then telling her about yours? usr : I talk about her issues constantly. I guess I could do a better job about letting her know when I am feeling down. I just ask her to do things with me instead, but maybe she just takes it at face value. Literally everytime we talk though, it's about her problems. usr : But she never does anything to try and fix them. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry to her that, so it sounds like you feel you need to give her help but you dont get any from her. But is also sounds like she might not be aware of you needing help. usr : Yes, exactly. usr : It would be nice if I didn't have to explicitly spell it out. It makes it seem less meaningful when I have to spoonfeed to her what is wrong and what I need her to do for me. sys : (Others) I think you need to try to tell her about your problems, and maybe even if she feels like she is helping you she is more inclined to help herself some too? usr : That's true, I didn't think about that really. Helping others def can help to take the focus off of yourself. sys : (Others) I know, it would be nice of her to ask how are you? But maybe she thinks you are a very strong person that does not need help since you do not voice it.? usr : Yeah, that is true. I guess I am not looking at it from her persepctive. sys : (Information) Yes the feeling that you help someone can be uplifting and good for anyones ego usr : Should I tell her that I am frustrated with her lack of helping me or just try to put that behind me? usr : What is a good way to broach that I need help. Like I guess I don't know how to bring it up organically in a conversation sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would try to find a conversation and then tell her like sometimes I could use help with whatever and then tell her that you feel lonely and need her sometimes as well usr : Okay, I can try that. I guess I get so caught up in the frustration and my expectations of her, that I don't give it a chance.
(Others) Give it a try and you are not alone as you see we had a nice conversation.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "My job doesnt value me".
usr : hello usr : are you there?
(Others) hello
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "My job doesnt value me".
usr : hello usr : are you there? sys : (Others) hello
(Question) how are you today?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "My job doesnt value me".
usr : hello usr : are you there? sys : (Others) hello sys : (Question) how are you today? usr : im upset with my current job they don't value me as a person
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) wow, you mean they don't give you credit
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "My job doesnt value me".
usr : hello usr : are you there? sys : (Others) hello sys : (Question) how are you today? usr : im upset with my current job they don't value me as a person sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) wow, you mean they don't give you credit
(Others) that's not good
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "My job doesnt value me".
usr : hello usr : are you there? sys : (Others) hello sys : (Question) how are you today? usr : im upset with my current job they don't value me as a person sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) wow, you mean they don't give you credit sys : (Others) that's not good usr : yes they show favoritism, and i feel over looked
(Question) are you sure you gave in your best still?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "My job doesnt value me".
usr : hello usr : are you there? sys : (Others) hello sys : (Question) how are you today? usr : im upset with my current job they don't value me as a person sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) wow, you mean they don't give you credit sys : (Others) that's not good usr : yes they show favoritism, and i feel over looked sys : (Question) are you sure you gave in your best still? usr : i gave 100%. Every week they score us and mines is always 100% but when they recognize people they never call my name.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) everything is going to be ok, eventually they are going to know what they are missing because it once happen to me once at where i worked in New Jersey
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "My job doesnt value me".
usr : hello usr : are you there? sys : (Others) hello sys : (Question) how are you today? usr : im upset with my current job they don't value me as a person sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) wow, you mean they don't give you credit sys : (Others) that's not good usr : yes they show favoritism, and i feel over looked sys : (Question) are you sure you gave in your best still? usr : i gave 100%. Every week they score us and mines is always 100% but when they recognize people they never call my name. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) everything is going to be ok, eventually they are going to know what they are missing because it once happen to me once at where i worked in New Jersey usr : what did you do?
(Reflection of feelings) you will soon get your praise. Trust me
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "My job doesnt value me".
usr : hello usr : are you there? sys : (Others) hello sys : (Question) how are you today? usr : im upset with my current job they don't value me as a person sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) wow, you mean they don't give you credit sys : (Others) that's not good usr : yes they show favoritism, and i feel over looked sys : (Question) are you sure you gave in your best still? usr : i gave 100%. Every week they score us and mines is always 100% but when they recognize people they never call my name. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) everything is going to be ok, eventually they are going to know what they are missing because it once happen to me once at where i worked in New Jersey usr : what did you do? sys : (Reflection of feelings) you will soon get your praise. Trust me usr : but what did you do?
(Self-disclosure) what i did was that i continue to do everything in my power to make the company better. one day i was recognize for my achievement and that was how my reputation sky rock
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "My job doesnt value me".
usr : hello usr : are you there? sys : (Others) hello sys : (Question) how are you today? usr : im upset with my current job they don't value me as a person sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) wow, you mean they don't give you credit sys : (Others) that's not good usr : yes they show favoritism, and i feel over looked sys : (Question) are you sure you gave in your best still? usr : i gave 100%. Every week they score us and mines is always 100% but when they recognize people they never call my name. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) everything is going to be ok, eventually they are going to know what they are missing because it once happen to me once at where i worked in New Jersey usr : what did you do? sys : (Reflection of feelings) you will soon get your praise. Trust me usr : but what did you do? sys : (Self-disclosure) what i did was that i continue to do everything in my power to make the company better. one day i was recognize for my achievement and that was how my reputation sky rock usr : but did it make you feel like just leaving the company for a better one that would appricate you?
(Information) i considered that option many times but i also have it at the back of my mind that, champions don't quit and i am no coward.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "My job doesnt value me".
usr : hello usr : are you there? sys : (Others) hello sys : (Question) how are you today? usr : im upset with my current job they don't value me as a person sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) wow, you mean they don't give you credit sys : (Others) that's not good usr : yes they show favoritism, and i feel over looked sys : (Question) are you sure you gave in your best still? usr : i gave 100%. Every week they score us and mines is always 100% but when they recognize people they never call my name. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) everything is going to be ok, eventually they are going to know what they are missing because it once happen to me once at where i worked in New Jersey usr : what did you do? sys : (Reflection of feelings) you will soon get your praise. Trust me usr : but what did you do? sys : (Self-disclosure) what i did was that i continue to do everything in my power to make the company better. one day i was recognize for my achievement and that was how my reputation sky rock usr : but did it make you feel like just leaving the company for a better one that would appricate you? sys : (Information) i considered that option many times but i also have it at the back of my mind that, champions don't quit and i am no coward. usr : that was very helpful thank you
(Providing Suggestions) you are very much welcome. just remember that you are better than what anybody might think of you. just be patient, your time will come
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I want to move out of my state with my boyfriend and I think I would want to leave earlier than May. How do I tell him?".
usr : Hello
(Question) hi, how are you doing today?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I want to move out of my state with my boyfriend and I think I would want to leave earlier than May. How do I tell him?".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) hi, how are you doing today? usr : i'm ok usr : how are you?
(Question) I am doing well, dis you have something you wanted to talk about?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I want to move out of my state with my boyfriend and I think I would want to leave earlier than May. How do I tell him?".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) hi, how are you doing today? usr : i'm ok usr : how are you? sys : (Question) I am doing well, dis you have something you wanted to talk about? usr : yes, see me and my boyfriend are planning to move out of state and we chose May as a move date. i however have been thinking that since I have family where we are going that we could leave earlier granted we have everything together. usr : I'm not sure how to ask him or talk to him about it. usr : Any ideas?
(Reflection of feelings) So you guys are planning on moving in May, but you would like to go now. your afraid to ask him
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I want to move out of my state with my boyfriend and I think I would want to leave earlier than May. How do I tell him?".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) hi, how are you doing today? usr : i'm ok usr : how are you? sys : (Question) I am doing well, dis you have something you wanted to talk about? usr : yes, see me and my boyfriend are planning to move out of state and we chose May as a move date. i however have been thinking that since I have family where we are going that we could leave earlier granted we have everything together. usr : I'm not sure how to ask him or talk to him about it. usr : Any ideas? sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you guys are planning on moving in May, but you would like to go now. your afraid to ask him
(Question) why do you think this would be an issue?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I want to move out of my state with my boyfriend and I think I would want to leave earlier than May. How do I tell him?".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) hi, how are you doing today? usr : i'm ok usr : how are you? sys : (Question) I am doing well, dis you have something you wanted to talk about? usr : yes, see me and my boyfriend are planning to move out of state and we chose May as a move date. i however have been thinking that since I have family where we are going that we could leave earlier granted we have everything together. usr : I'm not sure how to ask him or talk to him about it. usr : Any ideas? sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you guys are planning on moving in May, but you would like to go now. your afraid to ask him sys : (Question) why do you think this would be an issue? usr : I'm not afraid i just don't want to seem like i'm rushing things. I think because i am in the process of finding a job and he is working r n usr : And I don't know if we would have enough yet usr : What would u do?
(Question) Has he already given his work notice that he is leaving in May?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I want to move out of my state with my boyfriend and I think I would want to leave earlier than May. How do I tell him?".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) hi, how are you doing today? usr : i'm ok usr : how are you? sys : (Question) I am doing well, dis you have something you wanted to talk about? usr : yes, see me and my boyfriend are planning to move out of state and we chose May as a move date. i however have been thinking that since I have family where we are going that we could leave earlier granted we have everything together. usr : I'm not sure how to ask him or talk to him about it. usr : Any ideas? sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you guys are planning on moving in May, but you would like to go now. your afraid to ask him sys : (Question) why do you think this would be an issue? usr : I'm not afraid i just don't want to seem like i'm rushing things. I think because i am in the process of finding a job and he is working r n usr : And I don't know if we would have enough yet usr : What would u do? sys : (Question) Has he already given his work notice that he is leaving in May? usr : Not yet. We just put in app in for a place usr : So were waiting to hear back
(Providing Suggestions) I would suggest waiting until you find out if your application is approved.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I want to move out of my state with my boyfriend and I think I would want to leave earlier than May. How do I tell him?".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) hi, how are you doing today? usr : i'm ok usr : how are you? sys : (Question) I am doing well, dis you have something you wanted to talk about? usr : yes, see me and my boyfriend are planning to move out of state and we chose May as a move date. i however have been thinking that since I have family where we are going that we could leave earlier granted we have everything together. usr : I'm not sure how to ask him or talk to him about it. usr : Any ideas? sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you guys are planning on moving in May, but you would like to go now. your afraid to ask him sys : (Question) why do you think this would be an issue? usr : I'm not afraid i just don't want to seem like i'm rushing things. I think because i am in the process of finding a job and he is working r n usr : And I don't know if we would have enough yet usr : What would u do? sys : (Question) Has he already given his work notice that he is leaving in May? usr : Not yet. We just put in app in for a place usr : So were waiting to hear back sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would suggest waiting until you find out if your application is approved. usr : Good idea usr : It's my first time doing one of those so idk how long it takes to get approved usr : How long does it take mostly?
(Others) I assume that could vary, maybe 4 weeks.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I want to move out of my state with my boyfriend and I think I would want to leave earlier than May. How do I tell him?".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) hi, how are you doing today? usr : i'm ok usr : how are you? sys : (Question) I am doing well, dis you have something you wanted to talk about? usr : yes, see me and my boyfriend are planning to move out of state and we chose May as a move date. i however have been thinking that since I have family where we are going that we could leave earlier granted we have everything together. usr : I'm not sure how to ask him or talk to him about it. usr : Any ideas? sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you guys are planning on moving in May, but you would like to go now. your afraid to ask him sys : (Question) why do you think this would be an issue? usr : I'm not afraid i just don't want to seem like i'm rushing things. I think because i am in the process of finding a job and he is working r n usr : And I don't know if we would have enough yet usr : What would u do? sys : (Question) Has he already given his work notice that he is leaving in May? usr : Not yet. We just put in app in for a place usr : So were waiting to hear back sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would suggest waiting until you find out if your application is approved. usr : Good idea usr : It's my first time doing one of those so idk how long it takes to get approved usr : How long does it take mostly? sys : (Others) I assume that could vary, maybe 4 weeks. usr : Yeah
(Providing Suggestions) I would bring it up after you are approved, then maybe suggest you going so you can line up employment.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I want to move out of my state with my boyfriend and I think I would want to leave earlier than May. How do I tell him?".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) hi, how are you doing today? usr : i'm ok usr : how are you? sys : (Question) I am doing well, dis you have something you wanted to talk about? usr : yes, see me and my boyfriend are planning to move out of state and we chose May as a move date. i however have been thinking that since I have family where we are going that we could leave earlier granted we have everything together. usr : I'm not sure how to ask him or talk to him about it. usr : Any ideas? sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you guys are planning on moving in May, but you would like to go now. your afraid to ask him sys : (Question) why do you think this would be an issue? usr : I'm not afraid i just don't want to seem like i'm rushing things. I think because i am in the process of finding a job and he is working r n usr : And I don't know if we would have enough yet usr : What would u do? sys : (Question) Has he already given his work notice that he is leaving in May? usr : Not yet. We just put in app in for a place usr : So were waiting to hear back sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would suggest waiting until you find out if your application is approved. usr : Good idea usr : It's my first time doing one of those so idk how long it takes to get approved usr : How long does it take mostly? sys : (Others) I assume that could vary, maybe 4 weeks. usr : Yeah sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would bring it up after you are approved, then maybe suggest you going so you can line up employment. usr : True usr : That's a good idea. usr : Thank you for your help usr : I just have this as my mai n income r n usr : It's not much but every little bit helps
(Providing Suggestions) Okay, then one of you will have income and then he can find a job later.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I want to move out of my state with my boyfriend and I think I would want to leave earlier than May. How do I tell him?".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) hi, how are you doing today? usr : i'm ok usr : how are you? sys : (Question) I am doing well, dis you have something you wanted to talk about? usr : yes, see me and my boyfriend are planning to move out of state and we chose May as a move date. i however have been thinking that since I have family where we are going that we could leave earlier granted we have everything together. usr : I'm not sure how to ask him or talk to him about it. usr : Any ideas? sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you guys are planning on moving in May, but you would like to go now. your afraid to ask him sys : (Question) why do you think this would be an issue? usr : I'm not afraid i just don't want to seem like i'm rushing things. I think because i am in the process of finding a job and he is working r n usr : And I don't know if we would have enough yet usr : What would u do? sys : (Question) Has he already given his work notice that he is leaving in May? usr : Not yet. We just put in app in for a place usr : So were waiting to hear back sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would suggest waiting until you find out if your application is approved. usr : Good idea usr : It's my first time doing one of those so idk how long it takes to get approved usr : How long does it take mostly? sys : (Others) I assume that could vary, maybe 4 weeks. usr : Yeah sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would bring it up after you are approved, then maybe suggest you going so you can line up employment. usr : True usr : That's a good idea. usr : Thank you for your help usr : I just have this as my mai n income r n usr : It's not much but every little bit helps sys : (Providing Suggestions) Okay, then one of you will have income and then he can find a job later. usr : Yeah wait do people see Mturk as a real job though?
(Others) Good luck with everything.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I want to move out of my state with my boyfriend and I think I would want to leave earlier than May. How do I tell him?".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) hi, how are you doing today? usr : i'm ok usr : how are you? sys : (Question) I am doing well, dis you have something you wanted to talk about? usr : yes, see me and my boyfriend are planning to move out of state and we chose May as a move date. i however have been thinking that since I have family where we are going that we could leave earlier granted we have everything together. usr : I'm not sure how to ask him or talk to him about it. usr : Any ideas? sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you guys are planning on moving in May, but you would like to go now. your afraid to ask him sys : (Question) why do you think this would be an issue? usr : I'm not afraid i just don't want to seem like i'm rushing things. I think because i am in the process of finding a job and he is working r n usr : And I don't know if we would have enough yet usr : What would u do? sys : (Question) Has he already given his work notice that he is leaving in May? usr : Not yet. We just put in app in for a place usr : So were waiting to hear back sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would suggest waiting until you find out if your application is approved. usr : Good idea usr : It's my first time doing one of those so idk how long it takes to get approved usr : How long does it take mostly? sys : (Others) I assume that could vary, maybe 4 weeks. usr : Yeah sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would bring it up after you are approved, then maybe suggest you going so you can line up employment. usr : True usr : That's a good idea. usr : Thank you for your help usr : I just have this as my mai n income r n usr : It's not much but every little bit helps sys : (Providing Suggestions) Okay, then one of you will have income and then he can find a job later. usr : Yeah wait do people see Mturk as a real job though? sys : (Others) Good luck with everything.
(Others) I am not sure.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I want to move out of my state with my boyfriend and I think I would want to leave earlier than May. How do I tell him?".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) hi, how are you doing today? usr : i'm ok usr : how are you? sys : (Question) I am doing well, dis you have something you wanted to talk about? usr : yes, see me and my boyfriend are planning to move out of state and we chose May as a move date. i however have been thinking that since I have family where we are going that we could leave earlier granted we have everything together. usr : I'm not sure how to ask him or talk to him about it. usr : Any ideas? sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you guys are planning on moving in May, but you would like to go now. your afraid to ask him sys : (Question) why do you think this would be an issue? usr : I'm not afraid i just don't want to seem like i'm rushing things. I think because i am in the process of finding a job and he is working r n usr : And I don't know if we would have enough yet usr : What would u do? sys : (Question) Has he already given his work notice that he is leaving in May? usr : Not yet. We just put in app in for a place usr : So were waiting to hear back sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would suggest waiting until you find out if your application is approved. usr : Good idea usr : It's my first time doing one of those so idk how long it takes to get approved usr : How long does it take mostly? sys : (Others) I assume that could vary, maybe 4 weeks. usr : Yeah sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would bring it up after you are approved, then maybe suggest you going so you can line up employment. usr : True usr : That's a good idea. usr : Thank you for your help usr : I just have this as my mai n income r n usr : It's not much but every little bit helps sys : (Providing Suggestions) Okay, then one of you will have income and then he can find a job later. usr : Yeah wait do people see Mturk as a real job though? sys : (Others) Good luck with everything. sys : (Others) I am not sure. usr : Thank you good luck in your life too. usr : You would think so
(Others) Bye
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed
(Others) Hello there, how are you doing?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely
(Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die?
(Question) What is causing you to feel this way?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die? sys : (Question) What is causing you to feel this way?
(Question) Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die? sys : (Question) What is causing you to feel this way? sys : (Question) Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life? usr : Yes. I want to die. because I love him. But he leave me alone usr : I think I did not able to return my normal life
(Reflection of feelings) Losing a loved is very hard.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die? sys : (Question) What is causing you to feel this way? sys : (Question) Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life? usr : Yes. I want to die. because I love him. But he leave me alone usr : I think I did not able to return my normal life sys : (Reflection of feelings) Losing a loved is very hard. usr : Yes. I feel very sad. Give me some counselling
(Providing Suggestions) Do you have anyone you can talk to about your feelings and concerns?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die? sys : (Question) What is causing you to feel this way? sys : (Question) Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life? usr : Yes. I want to die. because I love him. But he leave me alone usr : I think I did not able to return my normal life sys : (Reflection of feelings) Losing a loved is very hard. usr : Yes. I feel very sad. Give me some counselling sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have anyone you can talk to about your feelings and concerns? usr : I did not have close friends
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) My understanding is that you have lost a loved one and that is causing you to feel depressed, correct?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die? sys : (Question) What is causing you to feel this way? sys : (Question) Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life? usr : Yes. I want to die. because I love him. But he leave me alone usr : I think I did not able to return my normal life sys : (Reflection of feelings) Losing a loved is very hard. usr : Yes. I feel very sad. Give me some counselling sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have anyone you can talk to about your feelings and concerns? usr : I did not have close friends sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) My understanding is that you have lost a loved one and that is causing you to feel depressed, correct? usr : Yes
(Question) Do you have any family members you can speak to?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die? sys : (Question) What is causing you to feel this way? sys : (Question) Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life? usr : Yes. I want to die. because I love him. But he leave me alone usr : I think I did not able to return my normal life sys : (Reflection of feelings) Losing a loved is very hard. usr : Yes. I feel very sad. Give me some counselling sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have anyone you can talk to about your feelings and concerns? usr : I did not have close friends sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) My understanding is that you have lost a loved one and that is causing you to feel depressed, correct? usr : Yes sys : (Question) Do you have any family members you can speak to? usr : My parents. But they are avoiding me because this lover is hurting my parents also. So they are advising me many times usr : But I did not hear their advice
(Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are going through a very rough time.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die? sys : (Question) What is causing you to feel this way? sys : (Question) Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life? usr : Yes. I want to die. because I love him. But he leave me alone usr : I think I did not able to return my normal life sys : (Reflection of feelings) Losing a loved is very hard. usr : Yes. I feel very sad. Give me some counselling sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have anyone you can talk to about your feelings and concerns? usr : I did not have close friends sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) My understanding is that you have lost a loved one and that is causing you to feel depressed, correct? usr : Yes sys : (Question) Do you have any family members you can speak to? usr : My parents. But they are avoiding me because this lover is hurting my parents also. So they are advising me many times usr : But I did not hear their advice sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are going through a very rough time. usr : So they are angry with me. usr : Yes. I am very depressed. Do you give me any counselling?
(Providing Suggestions) I think it may be helpful to reach out to your parents to open a line of communication and discuss your differences
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die? sys : (Question) What is causing you to feel this way? sys : (Question) Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life? usr : Yes. I want to die. because I love him. But he leave me alone usr : I think I did not able to return my normal life sys : (Reflection of feelings) Losing a loved is very hard. usr : Yes. I feel very sad. Give me some counselling sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have anyone you can talk to about your feelings and concerns? usr : I did not have close friends sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) My understanding is that you have lost a loved one and that is causing you to feel depressed, correct? usr : Yes sys : (Question) Do you have any family members you can speak to? usr : My parents. But they are avoiding me because this lover is hurting my parents also. So they are advising me many times usr : But I did not hear their advice sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are going through a very rough time. usr : So they are angry with me. usr : Yes. I am very depressed. Do you give me any counselling? sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it may be helpful to reach out to your parents to open a line of communication and discuss your differences usr : I will try many times. But they are avoiding me.
(Reflection of feelings) That must be very difficult not having your parents to support you and your loved one.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die? sys : (Question) What is causing you to feel this way? sys : (Question) Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life? usr : Yes. I want to die. because I love him. But he leave me alone usr : I think I did not able to return my normal life sys : (Reflection of feelings) Losing a loved is very hard. usr : Yes. I feel very sad. Give me some counselling sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have anyone you can talk to about your feelings and concerns? usr : I did not have close friends sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) My understanding is that you have lost a loved one and that is causing you to feel depressed, correct? usr : Yes sys : (Question) Do you have any family members you can speak to? usr : My parents. But they are avoiding me because this lover is hurting my parents also. So they are advising me many times usr : But I did not hear their advice sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are going through a very rough time. usr : So they are angry with me. usr : Yes. I am very depressed. Do you give me any counselling? sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it may be helpful to reach out to your parents to open a line of communication and discuss your differences usr : I will try many times. But they are avoiding me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be very difficult not having your parents to support you and your loved one.
(Question) Do you ahve any siblings?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die? sys : (Question) What is causing you to feel this way? sys : (Question) Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life? usr : Yes. I want to die. because I love him. But he leave me alone usr : I think I did not able to return my normal life sys : (Reflection of feelings) Losing a loved is very hard. usr : Yes. I feel very sad. Give me some counselling sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have anyone you can talk to about your feelings and concerns? usr : I did not have close friends sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) My understanding is that you have lost a loved one and that is causing you to feel depressed, correct? usr : Yes sys : (Question) Do you have any family members you can speak to? usr : My parents. But they are avoiding me because this lover is hurting my parents also. So they are advising me many times usr : But I did not hear their advice sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are going through a very rough time. usr : So they are angry with me. usr : Yes. I am very depressed. Do you give me any counselling? sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it may be helpful to reach out to your parents to open a line of communication and discuss your differences usr : I will try many times. But they are avoiding me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be very difficult not having your parents to support you and your loved one. sys : (Question) Do you ahve any siblings? usr : Yes. They are did not understanding my current situation
(Question) have you tried communicating your side of the story?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die? sys : (Question) What is causing you to feel this way? sys : (Question) Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life? usr : Yes. I want to die. because I love him. But he leave me alone usr : I think I did not able to return my normal life sys : (Reflection of feelings) Losing a loved is very hard. usr : Yes. I feel very sad. Give me some counselling sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have anyone you can talk to about your feelings and concerns? usr : I did not have close friends sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) My understanding is that you have lost a loved one and that is causing you to feel depressed, correct? usr : Yes sys : (Question) Do you have any family members you can speak to? usr : My parents. But they are avoiding me because this lover is hurting my parents also. So they are advising me many times usr : But I did not hear their advice sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are going through a very rough time. usr : So they are angry with me. usr : Yes. I am very depressed. Do you give me any counselling? sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it may be helpful to reach out to your parents to open a line of communication and discuss your differences usr : I will try many times. But they are avoiding me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be very difficult not having your parents to support you and your loved one. sys : (Question) Do you ahve any siblings? usr : Yes. They are did not understanding my current situation sys : (Question) have you tried communicating your side of the story? usr : Yes. I have one brother. But he was very little boy. So he did not understand my feelings.
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds as though your family does not agree with or understand your situation.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die? sys : (Question) What is causing you to feel this way? sys : (Question) Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life? usr : Yes. I want to die. because I love him. But he leave me alone usr : I think I did not able to return my normal life sys : (Reflection of feelings) Losing a loved is very hard. usr : Yes. I feel very sad. Give me some counselling sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have anyone you can talk to about your feelings and concerns? usr : I did not have close friends sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) My understanding is that you have lost a loved one and that is causing you to feel depressed, correct? usr : Yes sys : (Question) Do you have any family members you can speak to? usr : My parents. But they are avoiding me because this lover is hurting my parents also. So they are advising me many times usr : But I did not hear their advice sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are going through a very rough time. usr : So they are angry with me. usr : Yes. I am very depressed. Do you give me any counselling? sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it may be helpful to reach out to your parents to open a line of communication and discuss your differences usr : I will try many times. But they are avoiding me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be very difficult not having your parents to support you and your loved one. sys : (Question) Do you ahve any siblings? usr : Yes. They are did not understanding my current situation sys : (Question) have you tried communicating your side of the story? usr : Yes. I have one brother. But he was very little boy. So he did not understand my feelings. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds as though your family does not agree with or understand your situation. usr : Yes. I try to tell my parents many times usr : My parents are angry with me.
(Question) Do you have anyone else in your life you are close to, I know you said you don't have any close friends.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die? sys : (Question) What is causing you to feel this way? sys : (Question) Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life? usr : Yes. I want to die. because I love him. But he leave me alone usr : I think I did not able to return my normal life sys : (Reflection of feelings) Losing a loved is very hard. usr : Yes. I feel very sad. Give me some counselling sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have anyone you can talk to about your feelings and concerns? usr : I did not have close friends sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) My understanding is that you have lost a loved one and that is causing you to feel depressed, correct? usr : Yes sys : (Question) Do you have any family members you can speak to? usr : My parents. But they are avoiding me because this lover is hurting my parents also. So they are advising me many times usr : But I did not hear their advice sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are going through a very rough time. usr : So they are angry with me. usr : Yes. I am very depressed. Do you give me any counselling? sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it may be helpful to reach out to your parents to open a line of communication and discuss your differences usr : I will try many times. But they are avoiding me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be very difficult not having your parents to support you and your loved one. sys : (Question) Do you ahve any siblings? usr : Yes. They are did not understanding my current situation sys : (Question) have you tried communicating your side of the story? usr : Yes. I have one brother. But he was very little boy. So he did not understand my feelings. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds as though your family does not agree with or understand your situation. usr : Yes. I try to tell my parents many times usr : My parents are angry with me. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone else in your life you are close to, I know you said you don't have any close friends. usr : Yes . Only one friend usr : But she was long distance to me usr : So very difficult to contact
(Question) Would you feel comfortable talking to her about how you are feeling now?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die? sys : (Question) What is causing you to feel this way? sys : (Question) Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life? usr : Yes. I want to die. because I love him. But he leave me alone usr : I think I did not able to return my normal life sys : (Reflection of feelings) Losing a loved is very hard. usr : Yes. I feel very sad. Give me some counselling sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have anyone you can talk to about your feelings and concerns? usr : I did not have close friends sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) My understanding is that you have lost a loved one and that is causing you to feel depressed, correct? usr : Yes sys : (Question) Do you have any family members you can speak to? usr : My parents. But they are avoiding me because this lover is hurting my parents also. So they are advising me many times usr : But I did not hear their advice sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are going through a very rough time. usr : So they are angry with me. usr : Yes. I am very depressed. Do you give me any counselling? sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it may be helpful to reach out to your parents to open a line of communication and discuss your differences usr : I will try many times. But they are avoiding me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be very difficult not having your parents to support you and your loved one. sys : (Question) Do you ahve any siblings? usr : Yes. They are did not understanding my current situation sys : (Question) have you tried communicating your side of the story? usr : Yes. I have one brother. But he was very little boy. So he did not understand my feelings. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds as though your family does not agree with or understand your situation. usr : Yes. I try to tell my parents many times usr : My parents are angry with me. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone else in your life you are close to, I know you said you don't have any close friends. usr : Yes . Only one friend usr : But she was long distance to me usr : So very difficult to contact sys : (Question) Would you feel comfortable talking to her about how you are feeling now? usr : Yes
(Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could text, call. or email her. It sounds like she would know better whats going on in your personal life.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die? sys : (Question) What is causing you to feel this way? sys : (Question) Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life? usr : Yes. I want to die. because I love him. But he leave me alone usr : I think I did not able to return my normal life sys : (Reflection of feelings) Losing a loved is very hard. usr : Yes. I feel very sad. Give me some counselling sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have anyone you can talk to about your feelings and concerns? usr : I did not have close friends sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) My understanding is that you have lost a loved one and that is causing you to feel depressed, correct? usr : Yes sys : (Question) Do you have any family members you can speak to? usr : My parents. But they are avoiding me because this lover is hurting my parents also. So they are advising me many times usr : But I did not hear their advice sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are going through a very rough time. usr : So they are angry with me. usr : Yes. I am very depressed. Do you give me any counselling? sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it may be helpful to reach out to your parents to open a line of communication and discuss your differences usr : I will try many times. But they are avoiding me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be very difficult not having your parents to support you and your loved one. sys : (Question) Do you ahve any siblings? usr : Yes. They are did not understanding my current situation sys : (Question) have you tried communicating your side of the story? usr : Yes. I have one brother. But he was very little boy. So he did not understand my feelings. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds as though your family does not agree with or understand your situation. usr : Yes. I try to tell my parents many times usr : My parents are angry with me. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone else in your life you are close to, I know you said you don't have any close friends. usr : Yes . Only one friend usr : But she was long distance to me usr : So very difficult to contact sys : (Question) Would you feel comfortable talking to her about how you are feeling now? usr : Yes sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could text, call. or email her. It sounds like she would know better whats going on in your personal life. usr : I will tell my problem already in Email. But she doesn't replay to me.
(Reflection of feelings) That must feel terrible, I'm sorry you're having a hard time. I would feel the same way in your situation.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die? sys : (Question) What is causing you to feel this way? sys : (Question) Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life? usr : Yes. I want to die. because I love him. But he leave me alone usr : I think I did not able to return my normal life sys : (Reflection of feelings) Losing a loved is very hard. usr : Yes. I feel very sad. Give me some counselling sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have anyone you can talk to about your feelings and concerns? usr : I did not have close friends sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) My understanding is that you have lost a loved one and that is causing you to feel depressed, correct? usr : Yes sys : (Question) Do you have any family members you can speak to? usr : My parents. But they are avoiding me because this lover is hurting my parents also. So they are advising me many times usr : But I did not hear their advice sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are going through a very rough time. usr : So they are angry with me. usr : Yes. I am very depressed. Do you give me any counselling? sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it may be helpful to reach out to your parents to open a line of communication and discuss your differences usr : I will try many times. But they are avoiding me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be very difficult not having your parents to support you and your loved one. sys : (Question) Do you ahve any siblings? usr : Yes. They are did not understanding my current situation sys : (Question) have you tried communicating your side of the story? usr : Yes. I have one brother. But he was very little boy. So he did not understand my feelings. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds as though your family does not agree with or understand your situation. usr : Yes. I try to tell my parents many times usr : My parents are angry with me. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone else in your life you are close to, I know you said you don't have any close friends. usr : Yes . Only one friend usr : But she was long distance to me usr : So very difficult to contact sys : (Question) Would you feel comfortable talking to her about how you are feeling now? usr : Yes sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could text, call. or email her. It sounds like she would know better whats going on in your personal life. usr : I will tell my problem already in Email. But she doesn't replay to me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must feel terrible, I'm sorry you're having a hard time. I would feel the same way in your situation. usr : I try to call her but did not reached
(Question) Do you have any hobbies or interests?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die? sys : (Question) What is causing you to feel this way? sys : (Question) Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life? usr : Yes. I want to die. because I love him. But he leave me alone usr : I think I did not able to return my normal life sys : (Reflection of feelings) Losing a loved is very hard. usr : Yes. I feel very sad. Give me some counselling sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have anyone you can talk to about your feelings and concerns? usr : I did not have close friends sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) My understanding is that you have lost a loved one and that is causing you to feel depressed, correct? usr : Yes sys : (Question) Do you have any family members you can speak to? usr : My parents. But they are avoiding me because this lover is hurting my parents also. So they are advising me many times usr : But I did not hear their advice sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are going through a very rough time. usr : So they are angry with me. usr : Yes. I am very depressed. Do you give me any counselling? sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it may be helpful to reach out to your parents to open a line of communication and discuss your differences usr : I will try many times. But they are avoiding me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be very difficult not having your parents to support you and your loved one. sys : (Question) Do you ahve any siblings? usr : Yes. They are did not understanding my current situation sys : (Question) have you tried communicating your side of the story? usr : Yes. I have one brother. But he was very little boy. So he did not understand my feelings. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds as though your family does not agree with or understand your situation. usr : Yes. I try to tell my parents many times usr : My parents are angry with me. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone else in your life you are close to, I know you said you don't have any close friends. usr : Yes . Only one friend usr : But she was long distance to me usr : So very difficult to contact sys : (Question) Would you feel comfortable talking to her about how you are feeling now? usr : Yes sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could text, call. or email her. It sounds like she would know better whats going on in your personal life. usr : I will tell my problem already in Email. But she doesn't replay to me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must feel terrible, I'm sorry you're having a hard time. I would feel the same way in your situation. usr : I try to call her but did not reached sys : (Question) Do you have any hobbies or interests? usr : Yes. I am very interested to reading comic books usr : I love comic books and story books
(Self-disclosure) I love comic books too! Do you have any favorites?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die? sys : (Question) What is causing you to feel this way? sys : (Question) Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life? usr : Yes. I want to die. because I love him. But he leave me alone usr : I think I did not able to return my normal life sys : (Reflection of feelings) Losing a loved is very hard. usr : Yes. I feel very sad. Give me some counselling sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have anyone you can talk to about your feelings and concerns? usr : I did not have close friends sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) My understanding is that you have lost a loved one and that is causing you to feel depressed, correct? usr : Yes sys : (Question) Do you have any family members you can speak to? usr : My parents. But they are avoiding me because this lover is hurting my parents also. So they are advising me many times usr : But I did not hear their advice sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are going through a very rough time. usr : So they are angry with me. usr : Yes. I am very depressed. Do you give me any counselling? sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it may be helpful to reach out to your parents to open a line of communication and discuss your differences usr : I will try many times. But they are avoiding me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be very difficult not having your parents to support you and your loved one. sys : (Question) Do you ahve any siblings? usr : Yes. They are did not understanding my current situation sys : (Question) have you tried communicating your side of the story? usr : Yes. I have one brother. But he was very little boy. So he did not understand my feelings. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds as though your family does not agree with or understand your situation. usr : Yes. I try to tell my parents many times usr : My parents are angry with me. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone else in your life you are close to, I know you said you don't have any close friends. usr : Yes . Only one friend usr : But she was long distance to me usr : So very difficult to contact sys : (Question) Would you feel comfortable talking to her about how you are feeling now? usr : Yes sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could text, call. or email her. It sounds like she would know better whats going on in your personal life. usr : I will tell my problem already in Email. But she doesn't replay to me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must feel terrible, I'm sorry you're having a hard time. I would feel the same way in your situation. usr : I try to call her but did not reached sys : (Question) Do you have any hobbies or interests? usr : Yes. I am very interested to reading comic books usr : I love comic books and story books sys : (Self-disclosure) I love comic books too! Do you have any favorites? usr : Yes.
(Question) When you're reading comics or engaging in other hobbies does it make you feel any better?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die? sys : (Question) What is causing you to feel this way? sys : (Question) Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life? usr : Yes. I want to die. because I love him. But he leave me alone usr : I think I did not able to return my normal life sys : (Reflection of feelings) Losing a loved is very hard. usr : Yes. I feel very sad. Give me some counselling sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have anyone you can talk to about your feelings and concerns? usr : I did not have close friends sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) My understanding is that you have lost a loved one and that is causing you to feel depressed, correct? usr : Yes sys : (Question) Do you have any family members you can speak to? usr : My parents. But they are avoiding me because this lover is hurting my parents also. So they are advising me many times usr : But I did not hear their advice sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are going through a very rough time. usr : So they are angry with me. usr : Yes. I am very depressed. Do you give me any counselling? sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it may be helpful to reach out to your parents to open a line of communication and discuss your differences usr : I will try many times. But they are avoiding me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be very difficult not having your parents to support you and your loved one. sys : (Question) Do you ahve any siblings? usr : Yes. They are did not understanding my current situation sys : (Question) have you tried communicating your side of the story? usr : Yes. I have one brother. But he was very little boy. So he did not understand my feelings. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds as though your family does not agree with or understand your situation. usr : Yes. I try to tell my parents many times usr : My parents are angry with me. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone else in your life you are close to, I know you said you don't have any close friends. usr : Yes . Only one friend usr : But she was long distance to me usr : So very difficult to contact sys : (Question) Would you feel comfortable talking to her about how you are feeling now? usr : Yes sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could text, call. or email her. It sounds like she would know better whats going on in your personal life. usr : I will tell my problem already in Email. But she doesn't replay to me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must feel terrible, I'm sorry you're having a hard time. I would feel the same way in your situation. usr : I try to call her but did not reached sys : (Question) Do you have any hobbies or interests? usr : Yes. I am very interested to reading comic books usr : I love comic books and story books sys : (Self-disclosure) I love comic books too! Do you have any favorites? usr : Yes. sys : (Question) When you're reading comics or engaging in other hobbies does it make you feel any better? usr : Saga this is my favorite comic book usr : I will try usr : Very thanks for your idea
(Providing Suggestions) My suggestion would be when you start feeling down, take some deep breaths, go for a walk, and engage in one of your hobbies.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die? sys : (Question) What is causing you to feel this way? sys : (Question) Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life? usr : Yes. I want to die. because I love him. But he leave me alone usr : I think I did not able to return my normal life sys : (Reflection of feelings) Losing a loved is very hard. usr : Yes. I feel very sad. Give me some counselling sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have anyone you can talk to about your feelings and concerns? usr : I did not have close friends sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) My understanding is that you have lost a loved one and that is causing you to feel depressed, correct? usr : Yes sys : (Question) Do you have any family members you can speak to? usr : My parents. But they are avoiding me because this lover is hurting my parents also. So they are advising me many times usr : But I did not hear their advice sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are going through a very rough time. usr : So they are angry with me. usr : Yes. I am very depressed. Do you give me any counselling? sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it may be helpful to reach out to your parents to open a line of communication and discuss your differences usr : I will try many times. But they are avoiding me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be very difficult not having your parents to support you and your loved one. sys : (Question) Do you ahve any siblings? usr : Yes. They are did not understanding my current situation sys : (Question) have you tried communicating your side of the story? usr : Yes. I have one brother. But he was very little boy. So he did not understand my feelings. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds as though your family does not agree with or understand your situation. usr : Yes. I try to tell my parents many times usr : My parents are angry with me. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone else in your life you are close to, I know you said you don't have any close friends. usr : Yes . Only one friend usr : But she was long distance to me usr : So very difficult to contact sys : (Question) Would you feel comfortable talking to her about how you are feeling now? usr : Yes sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could text, call. or email her. It sounds like she would know better whats going on in your personal life. usr : I will tell my problem already in Email. But she doesn't replay to me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must feel terrible, I'm sorry you're having a hard time. I would feel the same way in your situation. usr : I try to call her but did not reached sys : (Question) Do you have any hobbies or interests? usr : Yes. I am very interested to reading comic books usr : I love comic books and story books sys : (Self-disclosure) I love comic books too! Do you have any favorites? usr : Yes. sys : (Question) When you're reading comics or engaging in other hobbies does it make you feel any better? usr : Saga this is my favorite comic book usr : I will try usr : Very thanks for your idea sys : (Providing Suggestions) My suggestion would be when you start feeling down, take some deep breaths, go for a walk, and engage in one of your hobbies. usr : Ok. Very thanks. usr : I am very relax this times
(Others) You're welcome.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die? sys : (Question) What is causing you to feel this way? sys : (Question) Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life? usr : Yes. I want to die. because I love him. But he leave me alone usr : I think I did not able to return my normal life sys : (Reflection of feelings) Losing a loved is very hard. usr : Yes. I feel very sad. Give me some counselling sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have anyone you can talk to about your feelings and concerns? usr : I did not have close friends sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) My understanding is that you have lost a loved one and that is causing you to feel depressed, correct? usr : Yes sys : (Question) Do you have any family members you can speak to? usr : My parents. But they are avoiding me because this lover is hurting my parents also. So they are advising me many times usr : But I did not hear their advice sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are going through a very rough time. usr : So they are angry with me. usr : Yes. I am very depressed. Do you give me any counselling? sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it may be helpful to reach out to your parents to open a line of communication and discuss your differences usr : I will try many times. But they are avoiding me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be very difficult not having your parents to support you and your loved one. sys : (Question) Do you ahve any siblings? usr : Yes. They are did not understanding my current situation sys : (Question) have you tried communicating your side of the story? usr : Yes. I have one brother. But he was very little boy. So he did not understand my feelings. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds as though your family does not agree with or understand your situation. usr : Yes. I try to tell my parents many times usr : My parents are angry with me. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone else in your life you are close to, I know you said you don't have any close friends. usr : Yes . Only one friend usr : But she was long distance to me usr : So very difficult to contact sys : (Question) Would you feel comfortable talking to her about how you are feeling now? usr : Yes sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could text, call. or email her. It sounds like she would know better whats going on in your personal life. usr : I will tell my problem already in Email. But she doesn't replay to me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must feel terrible, I'm sorry you're having a hard time. I would feel the same way in your situation. usr : I try to call her but did not reached sys : (Question) Do you have any hobbies or interests? usr : Yes. I am very interested to reading comic books usr : I love comic books and story books sys : (Self-disclosure) I love comic books too! Do you have any favorites? usr : Yes. sys : (Question) When you're reading comics or engaging in other hobbies does it make you feel any better? usr : Saga this is my favorite comic book usr : I will try usr : Very thanks for your idea sys : (Providing Suggestions) My suggestion would be when you start feeling down, take some deep breaths, go for a walk, and engage in one of your hobbies. usr : Ok. Very thanks. usr : I am very relax this times sys : (Others) You're welcome.
(Reflection of feelings) I'm glad youre feeling a little bit better.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die? sys : (Question) What is causing you to feel this way? sys : (Question) Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life? usr : Yes. I want to die. because I love him. But he leave me alone usr : I think I did not able to return my normal life sys : (Reflection of feelings) Losing a loved is very hard. usr : Yes. I feel very sad. Give me some counselling sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have anyone you can talk to about your feelings and concerns? usr : I did not have close friends sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) My understanding is that you have lost a loved one and that is causing you to feel depressed, correct? usr : Yes sys : (Question) Do you have any family members you can speak to? usr : My parents. But they are avoiding me because this lover is hurting my parents also. So they are advising me many times usr : But I did not hear their advice sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are going through a very rough time. usr : So they are angry with me. usr : Yes. I am very depressed. Do you give me any counselling? sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it may be helpful to reach out to your parents to open a line of communication and discuss your differences usr : I will try many times. But they are avoiding me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be very difficult not having your parents to support you and your loved one. sys : (Question) Do you ahve any siblings? usr : Yes. They are did not understanding my current situation sys : (Question) have you tried communicating your side of the story? usr : Yes. I have one brother. But he was very little boy. So he did not understand my feelings. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds as though your family does not agree with or understand your situation. usr : Yes. I try to tell my parents many times usr : My parents are angry with me. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone else in your life you are close to, I know you said you don't have any close friends. usr : Yes . Only one friend usr : But she was long distance to me usr : So very difficult to contact sys : (Question) Would you feel comfortable talking to her about how you are feeling now? usr : Yes sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could text, call. or email her. It sounds like she would know better whats going on in your personal life. usr : I will tell my problem already in Email. But she doesn't replay to me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must feel terrible, I'm sorry you're having a hard time. I would feel the same way in your situation. usr : I try to call her but did not reached sys : (Question) Do you have any hobbies or interests? usr : Yes. I am very interested to reading comic books usr : I love comic books and story books sys : (Self-disclosure) I love comic books too! Do you have any favorites? usr : Yes. sys : (Question) When you're reading comics or engaging in other hobbies does it make you feel any better? usr : Saga this is my favorite comic book usr : I will try usr : Very thanks for your idea sys : (Providing Suggestions) My suggestion would be when you start feeling down, take some deep breaths, go for a walk, and engage in one of your hobbies. usr : Ok. Very thanks. usr : I am very relax this times sys : (Others) You're welcome. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'm glad youre feeling a little bit better. usr : I feel like the burden on my mined has gone down usr : Yes. I feel little bit better
(Self-disclosure) I'm glad to hear it!
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die? sys : (Question) What is causing you to feel this way? sys : (Question) Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life? usr : Yes. I want to die. because I love him. But he leave me alone usr : I think I did not able to return my normal life sys : (Reflection of feelings) Losing a loved is very hard. usr : Yes. I feel very sad. Give me some counselling sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have anyone you can talk to about your feelings and concerns? usr : I did not have close friends sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) My understanding is that you have lost a loved one and that is causing you to feel depressed, correct? usr : Yes sys : (Question) Do you have any family members you can speak to? usr : My parents. But they are avoiding me because this lover is hurting my parents also. So they are advising me many times usr : But I did not hear their advice sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are going through a very rough time. usr : So they are angry with me. usr : Yes. I am very depressed. Do you give me any counselling? sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it may be helpful to reach out to your parents to open a line of communication and discuss your differences usr : I will try many times. But they are avoiding me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be very difficult not having your parents to support you and your loved one. sys : (Question) Do you ahve any siblings? usr : Yes. They are did not understanding my current situation sys : (Question) have you tried communicating your side of the story? usr : Yes. I have one brother. But he was very little boy. So he did not understand my feelings. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds as though your family does not agree with or understand your situation. usr : Yes. I try to tell my parents many times usr : My parents are angry with me. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone else in your life you are close to, I know you said you don't have any close friends. usr : Yes . Only one friend usr : But she was long distance to me usr : So very difficult to contact sys : (Question) Would you feel comfortable talking to her about how you are feeling now? usr : Yes sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could text, call. or email her. It sounds like she would know better whats going on in your personal life. usr : I will tell my problem already in Email. But she doesn't replay to me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must feel terrible, I'm sorry you're having a hard time. I would feel the same way in your situation. usr : I try to call her but did not reached sys : (Question) Do you have any hobbies or interests? usr : Yes. I am very interested to reading comic books usr : I love comic books and story books sys : (Self-disclosure) I love comic books too! Do you have any favorites? usr : Yes. sys : (Question) When you're reading comics or engaging in other hobbies does it make you feel any better? usr : Saga this is my favorite comic book usr : I will try usr : Very thanks for your idea sys : (Providing Suggestions) My suggestion would be when you start feeling down, take some deep breaths, go for a walk, and engage in one of your hobbies. usr : Ok. Very thanks. usr : I am very relax this times sys : (Others) You're welcome. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'm glad youre feeling a little bit better. usr : I feel like the burden on my mined has gone down usr : Yes. I feel little bit better sys : (Self-disclosure) I'm glad to hear it! usr : Thank you my friend usr : Can you tell me your name please?
(Question) Is there anything else i can do for you?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die? sys : (Question) What is causing you to feel this way? sys : (Question) Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life? usr : Yes. I want to die. because I love him. But he leave me alone usr : I think I did not able to return my normal life sys : (Reflection of feelings) Losing a loved is very hard. usr : Yes. I feel very sad. Give me some counselling sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have anyone you can talk to about your feelings and concerns? usr : I did not have close friends sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) My understanding is that you have lost a loved one and that is causing you to feel depressed, correct? usr : Yes sys : (Question) Do you have any family members you can speak to? usr : My parents. But they are avoiding me because this lover is hurting my parents also. So they are advising me many times usr : But I did not hear their advice sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are going through a very rough time. usr : So they are angry with me. usr : Yes. I am very depressed. Do you give me any counselling? sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it may be helpful to reach out to your parents to open a line of communication and discuss your differences usr : I will try many times. But they are avoiding me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be very difficult not having your parents to support you and your loved one. sys : (Question) Do you ahve any siblings? usr : Yes. They are did not understanding my current situation sys : (Question) have you tried communicating your side of the story? usr : Yes. I have one brother. But he was very little boy. So he did not understand my feelings. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds as though your family does not agree with or understand your situation. usr : Yes. I try to tell my parents many times usr : My parents are angry with me. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone else in your life you are close to, I know you said you don't have any close friends. usr : Yes . Only one friend usr : But she was long distance to me usr : So very difficult to contact sys : (Question) Would you feel comfortable talking to her about how you are feeling now? usr : Yes sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could text, call. or email her. It sounds like she would know better whats going on in your personal life. usr : I will tell my problem already in Email. But she doesn't replay to me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must feel terrible, I'm sorry you're having a hard time. I would feel the same way in your situation. usr : I try to call her but did not reached sys : (Question) Do you have any hobbies or interests? usr : Yes. I am very interested to reading comic books usr : I love comic books and story books sys : (Self-disclosure) I love comic books too! Do you have any favorites? usr : Yes. sys : (Question) When you're reading comics or engaging in other hobbies does it make you feel any better? usr : Saga this is my favorite comic book usr : I will try usr : Very thanks for your idea sys : (Providing Suggestions) My suggestion would be when you start feeling down, take some deep breaths, go for a walk, and engage in one of your hobbies. usr : Ok. Very thanks. usr : I am very relax this times sys : (Others) You're welcome. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'm glad youre feeling a little bit better. usr : I feel like the burden on my mined has gone down usr : Yes. I feel little bit better sys : (Self-disclosure) I'm glad to hear it! usr : Thank you my friend usr : Can you tell me your name please? sys : (Question) Is there anything else i can do for you?
(Others) My name is Ryan. what is your name?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die? sys : (Question) What is causing you to feel this way? sys : (Question) Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life? usr : Yes. I want to die. because I love him. But he leave me alone usr : I think I did not able to return my normal life sys : (Reflection of feelings) Losing a loved is very hard. usr : Yes. I feel very sad. Give me some counselling sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have anyone you can talk to about your feelings and concerns? usr : I did not have close friends sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) My understanding is that you have lost a loved one and that is causing you to feel depressed, correct? usr : Yes sys : (Question) Do you have any family members you can speak to? usr : My parents. But they are avoiding me because this lover is hurting my parents also. So they are advising me many times usr : But I did not hear their advice sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are going through a very rough time. usr : So they are angry with me. usr : Yes. I am very depressed. Do you give me any counselling? sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it may be helpful to reach out to your parents to open a line of communication and discuss your differences usr : I will try many times. But they are avoiding me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be very difficult not having your parents to support you and your loved one. sys : (Question) Do you ahve any siblings? usr : Yes. They are did not understanding my current situation sys : (Question) have you tried communicating your side of the story? usr : Yes. I have one brother. But he was very little boy. So he did not understand my feelings. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds as though your family does not agree with or understand your situation. usr : Yes. I try to tell my parents many times usr : My parents are angry with me. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone else in your life you are close to, I know you said you don't have any close friends. usr : Yes . Only one friend usr : But she was long distance to me usr : So very difficult to contact sys : (Question) Would you feel comfortable talking to her about how you are feeling now? usr : Yes sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could text, call. or email her. It sounds like she would know better whats going on in your personal life. usr : I will tell my problem already in Email. But she doesn't replay to me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must feel terrible, I'm sorry you're having a hard time. I would feel the same way in your situation. usr : I try to call her but did not reached sys : (Question) Do you have any hobbies or interests? usr : Yes. I am very interested to reading comic books usr : I love comic books and story books sys : (Self-disclosure) I love comic books too! Do you have any favorites? usr : Yes. sys : (Question) When you're reading comics or engaging in other hobbies does it make you feel any better? usr : Saga this is my favorite comic book usr : I will try usr : Very thanks for your idea sys : (Providing Suggestions) My suggestion would be when you start feeling down, take some deep breaths, go for a walk, and engage in one of your hobbies. usr : Ok. Very thanks. usr : I am very relax this times sys : (Others) You're welcome. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'm glad youre feeling a little bit better. usr : I feel like the burden on my mined has gone down usr : Yes. I feel little bit better sys : (Self-disclosure) I'm glad to hear it! usr : Thank you my friend usr : Can you tell me your name please? sys : (Question) Is there anything else i can do for you? sys : (Others) My name is Ryan. what is your name? usr : Riya
(Others) Its been a pleasure speaking to you riya
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die? sys : (Question) What is causing you to feel this way? sys : (Question) Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life? usr : Yes. I want to die. because I love him. But he leave me alone usr : I think I did not able to return my normal life sys : (Reflection of feelings) Losing a loved is very hard. usr : Yes. I feel very sad. Give me some counselling sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have anyone you can talk to about your feelings and concerns? usr : I did not have close friends sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) My understanding is that you have lost a loved one and that is causing you to feel depressed, correct? usr : Yes sys : (Question) Do you have any family members you can speak to? usr : My parents. But they are avoiding me because this lover is hurting my parents also. So they are advising me many times usr : But I did not hear their advice sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are going through a very rough time. usr : So they are angry with me. usr : Yes. I am very depressed. Do you give me any counselling? sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it may be helpful to reach out to your parents to open a line of communication and discuss your differences usr : I will try many times. But they are avoiding me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be very difficult not having your parents to support you and your loved one. sys : (Question) Do you ahve any siblings? usr : Yes. They are did not understanding my current situation sys : (Question) have you tried communicating your side of the story? usr : Yes. I have one brother. But he was very little boy. So he did not understand my feelings. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds as though your family does not agree with or understand your situation. usr : Yes. I try to tell my parents many times usr : My parents are angry with me. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone else in your life you are close to, I know you said you don't have any close friends. usr : Yes . Only one friend usr : But she was long distance to me usr : So very difficult to contact sys : (Question) Would you feel comfortable talking to her about how you are feeling now? usr : Yes sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could text, call. or email her. It sounds like she would know better whats going on in your personal life. usr : I will tell my problem already in Email. But she doesn't replay to me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must feel terrible, I'm sorry you're having a hard time. I would feel the same way in your situation. usr : I try to call her but did not reached sys : (Question) Do you have any hobbies or interests? usr : Yes. I am very interested to reading comic books usr : I love comic books and story books sys : (Self-disclosure) I love comic books too! Do you have any favorites? usr : Yes. sys : (Question) When you're reading comics or engaging in other hobbies does it make you feel any better? usr : Saga this is my favorite comic book usr : I will try usr : Very thanks for your idea sys : (Providing Suggestions) My suggestion would be when you start feeling down, take some deep breaths, go for a walk, and engage in one of your hobbies. usr : Ok. Very thanks. usr : I am very relax this times sys : (Others) You're welcome. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'm glad youre feeling a little bit better. usr : I feel like the burden on my mined has gone down usr : Yes. I feel little bit better sys : (Self-disclosure) I'm glad to hear it! usr : Thank you my friend usr : Can you tell me your name please? sys : (Question) Is there anything else i can do for you? sys : (Others) My name is Ryan. what is your name? usr : Riya sys : (Others) Its been a pleasure speaking to you riya usr : Thank you Ryan brother
(Question) is there anything else I can help you with today?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die? sys : (Question) What is causing you to feel this way? sys : (Question) Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life? usr : Yes. I want to die. because I love him. But he leave me alone usr : I think I did not able to return my normal life sys : (Reflection of feelings) Losing a loved is very hard. usr : Yes. I feel very sad. Give me some counselling sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have anyone you can talk to about your feelings and concerns? usr : I did not have close friends sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) My understanding is that you have lost a loved one and that is causing you to feel depressed, correct? usr : Yes sys : (Question) Do you have any family members you can speak to? usr : My parents. But they are avoiding me because this lover is hurting my parents also. So they are advising me many times usr : But I did not hear their advice sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are going through a very rough time. usr : So they are angry with me. usr : Yes. I am very depressed. Do you give me any counselling? sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it may be helpful to reach out to your parents to open a line of communication and discuss your differences usr : I will try many times. But they are avoiding me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be very difficult not having your parents to support you and your loved one. sys : (Question) Do you ahve any siblings? usr : Yes. They are did not understanding my current situation sys : (Question) have you tried communicating your side of the story? usr : Yes. I have one brother. But he was very little boy. So he did not understand my feelings. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds as though your family does not agree with or understand your situation. usr : Yes. I try to tell my parents many times usr : My parents are angry with me. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone else in your life you are close to, I know you said you don't have any close friends. usr : Yes . Only one friend usr : But she was long distance to me usr : So very difficult to contact sys : (Question) Would you feel comfortable talking to her about how you are feeling now? usr : Yes sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could text, call. or email her. It sounds like she would know better whats going on in your personal life. usr : I will tell my problem already in Email. But she doesn't replay to me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must feel terrible, I'm sorry you're having a hard time. I would feel the same way in your situation. usr : I try to call her but did not reached sys : (Question) Do you have any hobbies or interests? usr : Yes. I am very interested to reading comic books usr : I love comic books and story books sys : (Self-disclosure) I love comic books too! Do you have any favorites? usr : Yes. sys : (Question) When you're reading comics or engaging in other hobbies does it make you feel any better? usr : Saga this is my favorite comic book usr : I will try usr : Very thanks for your idea sys : (Providing Suggestions) My suggestion would be when you start feeling down, take some deep breaths, go for a walk, and engage in one of your hobbies. usr : Ok. Very thanks. usr : I am very relax this times sys : (Others) You're welcome. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'm glad youre feeling a little bit better. usr : I feel like the burden on my mined has gone down usr : Yes. I feel little bit better sys : (Self-disclosure) I'm glad to hear it! usr : Thank you my friend usr : Can you tell me your name please? sys : (Question) Is there anything else i can do for you? sys : (Others) My name is Ryan. what is your name? usr : Riya sys : (Others) Its been a pleasure speaking to you riya usr : Thank you Ryan brother sys : (Question) is there anything else I can help you with today?
(Providing Suggestions) You're welcome Riya. I hope you take my advice moving forward and things improve for you.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am did not able to return my normal life. I am very depressed. I haven't close friends so I feel very lonely.".
usr : I am very depressed sys : (Others) Hello there, how are you doing? usr : I feel lonely sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way? usr : I felt go to death sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel as though you want to die? sys : (Question) What is causing you to feel this way? sys : (Question) Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life? usr : Yes. I want to die. because I love him. But he leave me alone usr : I think I did not able to return my normal life sys : (Reflection of feelings) Losing a loved is very hard. usr : Yes. I feel very sad. Give me some counselling sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have anyone you can talk to about your feelings and concerns? usr : I did not have close friends sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) My understanding is that you have lost a loved one and that is causing you to feel depressed, correct? usr : Yes sys : (Question) Do you have any family members you can speak to? usr : My parents. But they are avoiding me because this lover is hurting my parents also. So they are advising me many times usr : But I did not hear their advice sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are going through a very rough time. usr : So they are angry with me. usr : Yes. I am very depressed. Do you give me any counselling? sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it may be helpful to reach out to your parents to open a line of communication and discuss your differences usr : I will try many times. But they are avoiding me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be very difficult not having your parents to support you and your loved one. sys : (Question) Do you ahve any siblings? usr : Yes. They are did not understanding my current situation sys : (Question) have you tried communicating your side of the story? usr : Yes. I have one brother. But he was very little boy. So he did not understand my feelings. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds as though your family does not agree with or understand your situation. usr : Yes. I try to tell my parents many times usr : My parents are angry with me. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone else in your life you are close to, I know you said you don't have any close friends. usr : Yes . Only one friend usr : But she was long distance to me usr : So very difficult to contact sys : (Question) Would you feel comfortable talking to her about how you are feeling now? usr : Yes sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could text, call. or email her. It sounds like she would know better whats going on in your personal life. usr : I will tell my problem already in Email. But she doesn't replay to me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must feel terrible, I'm sorry you're having a hard time. I would feel the same way in your situation. usr : I try to call her but did not reached sys : (Question) Do you have any hobbies or interests? usr : Yes. I am very interested to reading comic books usr : I love comic books and story books sys : (Self-disclosure) I love comic books too! Do you have any favorites? usr : Yes. sys : (Question) When you're reading comics or engaging in other hobbies does it make you feel any better? usr : Saga this is my favorite comic book usr : I will try usr : Very thanks for your idea sys : (Providing Suggestions) My suggestion would be when you start feeling down, take some deep breaths, go for a walk, and engage in one of your hobbies. usr : Ok. Very thanks. usr : I am very relax this times sys : (Others) You're welcome. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'm glad youre feeling a little bit better. usr : I feel like the burden on my mined has gone down usr : Yes. I feel little bit better sys : (Self-disclosure) I'm glad to hear it! usr : Thank you my friend usr : Can you tell me your name please? sys : (Question) Is there anything else i can do for you? sys : (Others) My name is Ryan. what is your name? usr : Riya sys : (Others) Its been a pleasure speaking to you riya usr : Thank you Ryan brother sys : (Question) is there anything else I can help you with today? sys : (Providing Suggestions) You're welcome Riya. I hope you take my advice moving forward and things improve for you. usr : Ok thank you so much for your tips usr : Bye
(Others) you are welcome, take care
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "Because of my classes going completely online, it's been incredibly hard for me to keep up in my classes. Because of this, my grades are falling dramatically and I'm afraid that I won't be able to continue in college if next semester is also like this. I've tried reaching out to my professors, but most of them have been unhelpful with my situation.".
(Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, how are you today?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "Because of my classes going completely online, it's been incredibly hard for me to keep up in my classes. Because of this, my grades are falling dramatically and I'm afraid that I won't be able to continue in college if next semester is also like this. I've tried reaching out to my professors, but most of them have been unhelpful with my situation.".
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, how are you today? usr : Hello, I'm feeling very anxious about my classes. How are you?
(Affirmation and Reassurance) I am doing well, I also get really anxious about my classes. They can be really stressful
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "Because of my classes going completely online, it's been incredibly hard for me to keep up in my classes. Because of this, my grades are falling dramatically and I'm afraid that I won't be able to continue in college if next semester is also like this. I've tried reaching out to my professors, but most of them have been unhelpful with my situation.".
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, how are you today? usr : Hello, I'm feeling very anxious about my classes. How are you? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am doing well, I also get really anxious about my classes. They can be really stressful usr : Yeah, especially with the pandemic, it's just been so hard to try and focus
(Reflection of feelings) I agree, there is so much going on that it is hard to stay focused while trying to make sense of all this
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "Because of my classes going completely online, it's been incredibly hard for me to keep up in my classes. Because of this, my grades are falling dramatically and I'm afraid that I won't be able to continue in college if next semester is also like this. I've tried reaching out to my professors, but most of them have been unhelpful with my situation.".
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, how are you today? usr : Hello, I'm feeling very anxious about my classes. How are you? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am doing well, I also get really anxious about my classes. They can be really stressful usr : Yeah, especially with the pandemic, it's just been so hard to try and focus sys : (Reflection of feelings) I agree, there is so much going on that it is hard to stay focused while trying to make sense of all this usr : Exactly. Do you have any suggestions for what I can do to try and do better in my classes? I've tried talking to my professors, but they've all been really unhelpful thus far
(Providing Suggestions) Of course! I like to wake up a little earlier and at least get started on an assignment to feel like I have accomplished something at least before the rest of the world wakes up. I understand some people like their sleep, so another suggestion is to review any notes you take and use different colored ink for different topics or important highlights
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "Because of my classes going completely online, it's been incredibly hard for me to keep up in my classes. Because of this, my grades are falling dramatically and I'm afraid that I won't be able to continue in college if next semester is also like this. I've tried reaching out to my professors, but most of them have been unhelpful with my situation.".
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, how are you today? usr : Hello, I'm feeling very anxious about my classes. How are you? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am doing well, I also get really anxious about my classes. They can be really stressful usr : Yeah, especially with the pandemic, it's just been so hard to try and focus sys : (Reflection of feelings) I agree, there is so much going on that it is hard to stay focused while trying to make sense of all this usr : Exactly. Do you have any suggestions for what I can do to try and do better in my classes? I've tried talking to my professors, but they've all been really unhelpful thus far sys : (Providing Suggestions) Of course! I like to wake up a little earlier and at least get started on an assignment to feel like I have accomplished something at least before the rest of the world wakes up. I understand some people like their sleep, so another suggestion is to review any notes you take and use different colored ink for different topics or important highlights usr : I think that's a really good idea! I usually sleep in too late and then feel like I'm rushing around to get all of my work done, only adding onto the stress. I also really like the pen idea. Do you have any suggestions for good brands that I should use to help make my notes better?
(Providing Suggestions) Uniball makes really good pens that the option to switch colors on the pen, but they sell packs with different colors too. I like to use red ink for really important things, and blue for things I might think I will need later but aren't sure.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "Because of my classes going completely online, it's been incredibly hard for me to keep up in my classes. Because of this, my grades are falling dramatically and I'm afraid that I won't be able to continue in college if next semester is also like this. I've tried reaching out to my professors, but most of them have been unhelpful with my situation.".
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, how are you today? usr : Hello, I'm feeling very anxious about my classes. How are you? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am doing well, I also get really anxious about my classes. They can be really stressful usr : Yeah, especially with the pandemic, it's just been so hard to try and focus sys : (Reflection of feelings) I agree, there is so much going on that it is hard to stay focused while trying to make sense of all this usr : Exactly. Do you have any suggestions for what I can do to try and do better in my classes? I've tried talking to my professors, but they've all been really unhelpful thus far sys : (Providing Suggestions) Of course! I like to wake up a little earlier and at least get started on an assignment to feel like I have accomplished something at least before the rest of the world wakes up. I understand some people like their sleep, so another suggestion is to review any notes you take and use different colored ink for different topics or important highlights usr : I think that's a really good idea! I usually sleep in too late and then feel like I'm rushing around to get all of my work done, only adding onto the stress. I also really like the pen idea. Do you have any suggestions for good brands that I should use to help make my notes better? sys : (Providing Suggestions) Uniball makes really good pens that the option to switch colors on the pen, but they sell packs with different colors too. I like to use red ink for really important things, and blue for things I might think I will need later but aren't sure. usr : I think that's a really good idea for helping to improve my focus. If my notes are more eye-catching, it'll help to keep my attention when I'm looking over them again after class and trying to study. I think your suggestion of waking up earlier is good too, what time do you suggest waking up in the morning? I usually don't set an alarm and find myself rushing around before class
(Self-disclosure) I personally wake up around 6AM and have just gotten used to it so I wake up that time no matter what. I blame the army. But, an alarm on your phone or computer can be effective. Even having someone you know that wakes up early call you can be a help, provided you are not grumpy at being woke up :)
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "Because of my classes going completely online, it's been incredibly hard for me to keep up in my classes. Because of this, my grades are falling dramatically and I'm afraid that I won't be able to continue in college if next semester is also like this. I've tried reaching out to my professors, but most of them have been unhelpful with my situation.".
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, how are you today? usr : Hello, I'm feeling very anxious about my classes. How are you? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am doing well, I also get really anxious about my classes. They can be really stressful usr : Yeah, especially with the pandemic, it's just been so hard to try and focus sys : (Reflection of feelings) I agree, there is so much going on that it is hard to stay focused while trying to make sense of all this usr : Exactly. Do you have any suggestions for what I can do to try and do better in my classes? I've tried talking to my professors, but they've all been really unhelpful thus far sys : (Providing Suggestions) Of course! I like to wake up a little earlier and at least get started on an assignment to feel like I have accomplished something at least before the rest of the world wakes up. I understand some people like their sleep, so another suggestion is to review any notes you take and use different colored ink for different topics or important highlights usr : I think that's a really good idea! I usually sleep in too late and then feel like I'm rushing around to get all of my work done, only adding onto the stress. I also really like the pen idea. Do you have any suggestions for good brands that I should use to help make my notes better? sys : (Providing Suggestions) Uniball makes really good pens that the option to switch colors on the pen, but they sell packs with different colors too. I like to use red ink for really important things, and blue for things I might think I will need later but aren't sure. usr : I think that's a really good idea for helping to improve my focus. If my notes are more eye-catching, it'll help to keep my attention when I'm looking over them again after class and trying to study. I think your suggestion of waking up earlier is good too, what time do you suggest waking up in the morning? I usually don't set an alarm and find myself rushing around before class sys : (Self-disclosure) I personally wake up around 6AM and have just gotten used to it so I wake up that time no matter what. I blame the army. But, an alarm on your phone or computer can be effective. Even having someone you know that wakes up early call you can be a help, provided you are not grumpy at being woke up :) usr : I think that would really help. I sometimes have trouble waking up to my alarms in the morning too, but maybe making the ringtone louder would help with that as well or putting it further away from me so that I have to get up further in the morning to get it. Do you think those would be effective too? Or would getting a different alarm help?
(Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a really good idea actually!! I should try that and put my phone on the other side of the room next time I want to wake up earlier. I personally use the most annoying thing I can find as a ringtone/alarm, so that I will make every effort to turn it off but a lot of the alarm clocks you can find in stores are plenty loud and annoying.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "Because of my classes going completely online, it's been incredibly hard for me to keep up in my classes. Because of this, my grades are falling dramatically and I'm afraid that I won't be able to continue in college if next semester is also like this. I've tried reaching out to my professors, but most of them have been unhelpful with my situation.".
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, how are you today? usr : Hello, I'm feeling very anxious about my classes. How are you? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am doing well, I also get really anxious about my classes. They can be really stressful usr : Yeah, especially with the pandemic, it's just been so hard to try and focus sys : (Reflection of feelings) I agree, there is so much going on that it is hard to stay focused while trying to make sense of all this usr : Exactly. Do you have any suggestions for what I can do to try and do better in my classes? I've tried talking to my professors, but they've all been really unhelpful thus far sys : (Providing Suggestions) Of course! I like to wake up a little earlier and at least get started on an assignment to feel like I have accomplished something at least before the rest of the world wakes up. I understand some people like their sleep, so another suggestion is to review any notes you take and use different colored ink for different topics or important highlights usr : I think that's a really good idea! I usually sleep in too late and then feel like I'm rushing around to get all of my work done, only adding onto the stress. I also really like the pen idea. Do you have any suggestions for good brands that I should use to help make my notes better? sys : (Providing Suggestions) Uniball makes really good pens that the option to switch colors on the pen, but they sell packs with different colors too. I like to use red ink for really important things, and blue for things I might think I will need later but aren't sure. usr : I think that's a really good idea for helping to improve my focus. If my notes are more eye-catching, it'll help to keep my attention when I'm looking over them again after class and trying to study. I think your suggestion of waking up earlier is good too, what time do you suggest waking up in the morning? I usually don't set an alarm and find myself rushing around before class sys : (Self-disclosure) I personally wake up around 6AM and have just gotten used to it so I wake up that time no matter what. I blame the army. But, an alarm on your phone or computer can be effective. Even having someone you know that wakes up early call you can be a help, provided you are not grumpy at being woke up :) usr : I think that would really help. I sometimes have trouble waking up to my alarms in the morning too, but maybe making the ringtone louder would help with that as well or putting it further away from me so that I have to get up further in the morning to get it. Do you think those would be effective too? Or would getting a different alarm help? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a really good idea actually!! I should try that and put my phone on the other side of the room next time I want to wake up earlier. I personally use the most annoying thing I can find as a ringtone/alarm, so that I will make every effort to turn it off but a lot of the alarm clocks you can find in stores are plenty loud and annoying. usr : Ooh, yeah. I like your ringtone idea too! I usually make it some sort of song that I like and then end up either sleeping past it or not hearing, but I think making it something loud or annoying would really help to get me up to turn it off.
(Question) What exactly do you think causes you to have to rush around before class? Just not enough time or just situations you cannot control. Trust me I understand myself, I have been in college 2.5 years myself. and it took about 1.5 years to get to where I was comfortable with my schedule and personal time
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "Because of my classes going completely online, it's been incredibly hard for me to keep up in my classes. Because of this, my grades are falling dramatically and I'm afraid that I won't be able to continue in college if next semester is also like this. I've tried reaching out to my professors, but most of them have been unhelpful with my situation.".
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, how are you today? usr : Hello, I'm feeling very anxious about my classes. How are you? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am doing well, I also get really anxious about my classes. They can be really stressful usr : Yeah, especially with the pandemic, it's just been so hard to try and focus sys : (Reflection of feelings) I agree, there is so much going on that it is hard to stay focused while trying to make sense of all this usr : Exactly. Do you have any suggestions for what I can do to try and do better in my classes? I've tried talking to my professors, but they've all been really unhelpful thus far sys : (Providing Suggestions) Of course! I like to wake up a little earlier and at least get started on an assignment to feel like I have accomplished something at least before the rest of the world wakes up. I understand some people like their sleep, so another suggestion is to review any notes you take and use different colored ink for different topics or important highlights usr : I think that's a really good idea! I usually sleep in too late and then feel like I'm rushing around to get all of my work done, only adding onto the stress. I also really like the pen idea. Do you have any suggestions for good brands that I should use to help make my notes better? sys : (Providing Suggestions) Uniball makes really good pens that the option to switch colors on the pen, but they sell packs with different colors too. I like to use red ink for really important things, and blue for things I might think I will need later but aren't sure. usr : I think that's a really good idea for helping to improve my focus. If my notes are more eye-catching, it'll help to keep my attention when I'm looking over them again after class and trying to study. I think your suggestion of waking up earlier is good too, what time do you suggest waking up in the morning? I usually don't set an alarm and find myself rushing around before class sys : (Self-disclosure) I personally wake up around 6AM and have just gotten used to it so I wake up that time no matter what. I blame the army. But, an alarm on your phone or computer can be effective. Even having someone you know that wakes up early call you can be a help, provided you are not grumpy at being woke up :) usr : I think that would really help. I sometimes have trouble waking up to my alarms in the morning too, but maybe making the ringtone louder would help with that as well or putting it further away from me so that I have to get up further in the morning to get it. Do you think those would be effective too? Or would getting a different alarm help? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a really good idea actually!! I should try that and put my phone on the other side of the room next time I want to wake up earlier. I personally use the most annoying thing I can find as a ringtone/alarm, so that I will make every effort to turn it off but a lot of the alarm clocks you can find in stores are plenty loud and annoying. usr : Ooh, yeah. I like your ringtone idea too! I usually make it some sort of song that I like and then end up either sleeping past it or not hearing, but I think making it something loud or annoying would really help to get me up to turn it off. sys : (Question) What exactly do you think causes you to have to rush around before class? Just not enough time or just situations you cannot control. Trust me I understand myself, I have been in college 2.5 years myself. and it took about 1.5 years to get to where I was comfortable with my schedule and personal time usr : I think knowing that I don't have to drive to campus is what makes me feel like I can sleep in. It feels much easier to just wake up and go onto my computer than having to get ready in the morning and drive to campus. I think I mostly miss that routine. Because of that, I also find myself going to bed much later than I should be, even on school nights.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a good rational reason I would say, I do online classes too and it is far too easy just to wake up, go to the computer and that is it for the day. Campus life seems more structured and like you could plan a routine, but being stuck at home sort of changes all of that.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "Because of my classes going completely online, it's been incredibly hard for me to keep up in my classes. Because of this, my grades are falling dramatically and I'm afraid that I won't be able to continue in college if next semester is also like this. I've tried reaching out to my professors, but most of them have been unhelpful with my situation.".
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, how are you today? usr : Hello, I'm feeling very anxious about my classes. How are you? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am doing well, I also get really anxious about my classes. They can be really stressful usr : Yeah, especially with the pandemic, it's just been so hard to try and focus sys : (Reflection of feelings) I agree, there is so much going on that it is hard to stay focused while trying to make sense of all this usr : Exactly. Do you have any suggestions for what I can do to try and do better in my classes? I've tried talking to my professors, but they've all been really unhelpful thus far sys : (Providing Suggestions) Of course! I like to wake up a little earlier and at least get started on an assignment to feel like I have accomplished something at least before the rest of the world wakes up. I understand some people like their sleep, so another suggestion is to review any notes you take and use different colored ink for different topics or important highlights usr : I think that's a really good idea! I usually sleep in too late and then feel like I'm rushing around to get all of my work done, only adding onto the stress. I also really like the pen idea. Do you have any suggestions for good brands that I should use to help make my notes better? sys : (Providing Suggestions) Uniball makes really good pens that the option to switch colors on the pen, but they sell packs with different colors too. I like to use red ink for really important things, and blue for things I might think I will need later but aren't sure. usr : I think that's a really good idea for helping to improve my focus. If my notes are more eye-catching, it'll help to keep my attention when I'm looking over them again after class and trying to study. I think your suggestion of waking up earlier is good too, what time do you suggest waking up in the morning? I usually don't set an alarm and find myself rushing around before class sys : (Self-disclosure) I personally wake up around 6AM and have just gotten used to it so I wake up that time no matter what. I blame the army. But, an alarm on your phone or computer can be effective. Even having someone you know that wakes up early call you can be a help, provided you are not grumpy at being woke up :) usr : I think that would really help. I sometimes have trouble waking up to my alarms in the morning too, but maybe making the ringtone louder would help with that as well or putting it further away from me so that I have to get up further in the morning to get it. Do you think those would be effective too? Or would getting a different alarm help? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a really good idea actually!! I should try that and put my phone on the other side of the room next time I want to wake up earlier. I personally use the most annoying thing I can find as a ringtone/alarm, so that I will make every effort to turn it off but a lot of the alarm clocks you can find in stores are plenty loud and annoying. usr : Ooh, yeah. I like your ringtone idea too! I usually make it some sort of song that I like and then end up either sleeping past it or not hearing, but I think making it something loud or annoying would really help to get me up to turn it off. sys : (Question) What exactly do you think causes you to have to rush around before class? Just not enough time or just situations you cannot control. Trust me I understand myself, I have been in college 2.5 years myself. and it took about 1.5 years to get to where I was comfortable with my schedule and personal time usr : I think knowing that I don't have to drive to campus is what makes me feel like I can sleep in. It feels much easier to just wake up and go onto my computer than having to get ready in the morning and drive to campus. I think I mostly miss that routine. Because of that, I also find myself going to bed much later than I should be, even on school nights. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a good rational reason I would say, I do online classes too and it is far too easy just to wake up, go to the computer and that is it for the day. Campus life seems more structured and like you could plan a routine, but being stuck at home sort of changes all of that. usr : Exactly. It was much easier for me when I had a routine schedule, versus knowing that I can just wake up, roll out of bed, and go to class, but I think that your suggestions are really going to help me finish my semester on a better foot
(Affirmation and Reassurance) I am really glad I can help, I think part of me was talking to myself as well when giving advice since I have gotten alot lazier these days. I hope you have a great day and hang in there and stay focused and you will do great!!!!!
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "i have discontinued my studies due to financial problems. i feel like i am depressed lately.".
(Others) Good morning! What can I help you with this morning?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "i have discontinued my studies due to financial problems. i feel like i am depressed lately.".
sys : (Others) Good morning! What can I help you with this morning?
(Question) Are you there?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "i have discontinued my studies due to financial problems. i feel like i am depressed lately.".
sys : (Others) Good morning! What can I help you with this morning? sys : (Question) Are you there? usr : hi. i was discontinued from my studies due to some financial problem
(Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a very tough situation to be in, I'm sorry you're having to deal with that.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "i have discontinued my studies due to financial problems. i feel like i am depressed lately.".
sys : (Others) Good morning! What can I help you with this morning? sys : (Question) Are you there? usr : hi. i was discontinued from my studies due to some financial problem sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a very tough situation to be in, I'm sorry you're having to deal with that.
(Question) Are you having to move home or were you taking online classes?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "i have discontinued my studies due to financial problems. i feel like i am depressed lately.".
sys : (Others) Good morning! What can I help you with this morning? sys : (Question) Are you there? usr : hi. i was discontinued from my studies due to some financial problem sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a very tough situation to be in, I'm sorry you're having to deal with that. sys : (Question) Are you having to move home or were you taking online classes? usr : i am staying with my parents. usr : i am thinking of applying an online job but i am afraid that i can't manage both my studies and job usr : thinking about it makes me frustrating and sad
(Question) That is understandable. So you aren't having to discontinue your studies immediately?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "i have discontinued my studies due to financial problems. i feel like i am depressed lately.".
sys : (Others) Good morning! What can I help you with this morning? sys : (Question) Are you there? usr : hi. i was discontinued from my studies due to some financial problem sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a very tough situation to be in, I'm sorry you're having to deal with that. sys : (Question) Are you having to move home or were you taking online classes? usr : i am staying with my parents. usr : i am thinking of applying an online job but i am afraid that i can't manage both my studies and job usr : thinking about it makes me frustrating and sad sys : (Question) That is understandable. So you aren't having to discontinue your studies immediately? usr : i have discontinued it already
(Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay, thank you for clarifying :-) Your frustration is understandable. Having a job while being in school can be tough, that is true. However if you are discerning you could get a job that would have flexible hours, especially if you let them know beforehand that you're planning on getting back into school as soon as possible.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "i have discontinued my studies due to financial problems. i feel like i am depressed lately.".
sys : (Others) Good morning! What can I help you with this morning? sys : (Question) Are you there? usr : hi. i was discontinued from my studies due to some financial problem sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a very tough situation to be in, I'm sorry you're having to deal with that. sys : (Question) Are you having to move home or were you taking online classes? usr : i am staying with my parents. usr : i am thinking of applying an online job but i am afraid that i can't manage both my studies and job usr : thinking about it makes me frustrating and sad sys : (Question) That is understandable. So you aren't having to discontinue your studies immediately? usr : i have discontinued it already sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay, thank you for clarifying :-) Your frustration is understandable. Having a job while being in school can be tough, that is true. However if you are discerning you could get a job that would have flexible hours, especially if you let them know beforehand that you're planning on getting back into school as soon as possible. usr : yes. thank you for concern
(Providing Suggestions) When I was in college, I worked for the school and the library. It was not a lot of money, but in addition to a small check, it made me more indispensable to the university.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "i have discontinued my studies due to financial problems. i feel like i am depressed lately.".
sys : (Others) Good morning! What can I help you with this morning? sys : (Question) Are you there? usr : hi. i was discontinued from my studies due to some financial problem sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a very tough situation to be in, I'm sorry you're having to deal with that. sys : (Question) Are you having to move home or were you taking online classes? usr : i am staying with my parents. usr : i am thinking of applying an online job but i am afraid that i can't manage both my studies and job usr : thinking about it makes me frustrating and sad sys : (Question) That is understandable. So you aren't having to discontinue your studies immediately? usr : i have discontinued it already sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay, thank you for clarifying :-) Your frustration is understandable. Having a job while being in school can be tough, that is true. However if you are discerning you could get a job that would have flexible hours, especially if you let them know beforehand that you're planning on getting back into school as soon as possible. usr : yes. thank you for concern sys : (Providing Suggestions) When I was in college, I worked for the school and the library. It was not a lot of money, but in addition to a small check, it made me more indispensable to the university.
(Providing Suggestions) I think you would be able to handle both, as long as you are clear from the beginning about what you need from the job. Too often we are supposed to feel like we need to beg for a job, when in fact, you are interviewing them as well.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "i have discontinued my studies due to financial problems. i feel like i am depressed lately.".
sys : (Others) Good morning! What can I help you with this morning? sys : (Question) Are you there? usr : hi. i was discontinued from my studies due to some financial problem sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a very tough situation to be in, I'm sorry you're having to deal with that. sys : (Question) Are you having to move home or were you taking online classes? usr : i am staying with my parents. usr : i am thinking of applying an online job but i am afraid that i can't manage both my studies and job usr : thinking about it makes me frustrating and sad sys : (Question) That is understandable. So you aren't having to discontinue your studies immediately? usr : i have discontinued it already sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay, thank you for clarifying :-) Your frustration is understandable. Having a job while being in school can be tough, that is true. However if you are discerning you could get a job that would have flexible hours, especially if you let them know beforehand that you're planning on getting back into school as soon as possible. usr : yes. thank you for concern sys : (Providing Suggestions) When I was in college, I worked for the school and the library. It was not a lot of money, but in addition to a small check, it made me more indispensable to the university. sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think you would be able to handle both, as long as you are clear from the beginning about what you need from the job. Too often we are supposed to feel like we need to beg for a job, when in fact, you are interviewing them as well. usr : i think i can also follow this idea.
(Providing Suggestions) You should also explore any and all financial aid offers they can give you. More than once I have been told that not as many people apply for scholarships and grants as you think.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "i have discontinued my studies due to financial problems. i feel like i am depressed lately.".
sys : (Others) Good morning! What can I help you with this morning? sys : (Question) Are you there? usr : hi. i was discontinued from my studies due to some financial problem sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a very tough situation to be in, I'm sorry you're having to deal with that. sys : (Question) Are you having to move home or were you taking online classes? usr : i am staying with my parents. usr : i am thinking of applying an online job but i am afraid that i can't manage both my studies and job usr : thinking about it makes me frustrating and sad sys : (Question) That is understandable. So you aren't having to discontinue your studies immediately? usr : i have discontinued it already sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay, thank you for clarifying :-) Your frustration is understandable. Having a job while being in school can be tough, that is true. However if you are discerning you could get a job that would have flexible hours, especially if you let them know beforehand that you're planning on getting back into school as soon as possible. usr : yes. thank you for concern sys : (Providing Suggestions) When I was in college, I worked for the school and the library. It was not a lot of money, but in addition to a small check, it made me more indispensable to the university. sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think you would be able to handle both, as long as you are clear from the beginning about what you need from the job. Too often we are supposed to feel like we need to beg for a job, when in fact, you are interviewing them as well. usr : i think i can also follow this idea. sys : (Providing Suggestions) You should also explore any and all financial aid offers they can give you. More than once I have been told that not as many people apply for scholarships and grants as you think.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) But regardless of whether you're able to balance the two things, even if you are not, your mental health is very important, and you should try to take it easy on yourself.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "i have discontinued my studies due to financial problems. i feel like i am depressed lately.".
sys : (Others) Good morning! What can I help you with this morning? sys : (Question) Are you there? usr : hi. i was discontinued from my studies due to some financial problem sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a very tough situation to be in, I'm sorry you're having to deal with that. sys : (Question) Are you having to move home or were you taking online classes? usr : i am staying with my parents. usr : i am thinking of applying an online job but i am afraid that i can't manage both my studies and job usr : thinking about it makes me frustrating and sad sys : (Question) That is understandable. So you aren't having to discontinue your studies immediately? usr : i have discontinued it already sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay, thank you for clarifying :-) Your frustration is understandable. Having a job while being in school can be tough, that is true. However if you are discerning you could get a job that would have flexible hours, especially if you let them know beforehand that you're planning on getting back into school as soon as possible. usr : yes. thank you for concern sys : (Providing Suggestions) When I was in college, I worked for the school and the library. It was not a lot of money, but in addition to a small check, it made me more indispensable to the university. sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think you would be able to handle both, as long as you are clear from the beginning about what you need from the job. Too often we are supposed to feel like we need to beg for a job, when in fact, you are interviewing them as well. usr : i think i can also follow this idea. sys : (Providing Suggestions) You should also explore any and all financial aid offers they can give you. More than once I have been told that not as many people apply for scholarships and grants as you think. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) But regardless of whether you're able to balance the two things, even if you are not, your mental health is very important, and you should try to take it easy on yourself. usr : I think i can cope upwith my situation with this advice of you.thank you usr : what are you doing lately
(Affirmation and Reassurance) You're very welcome, I think you are capable of more than you think.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "i have discontinued my studies due to financial problems. i feel like i am depressed lately.".
sys : (Others) Good morning! What can I help you with this morning? sys : (Question) Are you there? usr : hi. i was discontinued from my studies due to some financial problem sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a very tough situation to be in, I'm sorry you're having to deal with that. sys : (Question) Are you having to move home or were you taking online classes? usr : i am staying with my parents. usr : i am thinking of applying an online job but i am afraid that i can't manage both my studies and job usr : thinking about it makes me frustrating and sad sys : (Question) That is understandable. So you aren't having to discontinue your studies immediately? usr : i have discontinued it already sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay, thank you for clarifying :-) Your frustration is understandable. Having a job while being in school can be tough, that is true. However if you are discerning you could get a job that would have flexible hours, especially if you let them know beforehand that you're planning on getting back into school as soon as possible. usr : yes. thank you for concern sys : (Providing Suggestions) When I was in college, I worked for the school and the library. It was not a lot of money, but in addition to a small check, it made me more indispensable to the university. sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think you would be able to handle both, as long as you are clear from the beginning about what you need from the job. Too often we are supposed to feel like we need to beg for a job, when in fact, you are interviewing them as well. usr : i think i can also follow this idea. sys : (Providing Suggestions) You should also explore any and all financial aid offers they can give you. More than once I have been told that not as many people apply for scholarships and grants as you think. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) But regardless of whether you're able to balance the two things, even if you are not, your mental health is very important, and you should try to take it easy on yourself. usr : I think i can cope upwith my situation with this advice of you.thank you usr : what are you doing lately sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You're very welcome, I think you are capable of more than you think.
(Others) I work from home and also take a few online classes.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "i have discontinued my studies due to financial problems. i feel like i am depressed lately.".
sys : (Others) Good morning! What can I help you with this morning? sys : (Question) Are you there? usr : hi. i was discontinued from my studies due to some financial problem sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a very tough situation to be in, I'm sorry you're having to deal with that. sys : (Question) Are you having to move home or were you taking online classes? usr : i am staying with my parents. usr : i am thinking of applying an online job but i am afraid that i can't manage both my studies and job usr : thinking about it makes me frustrating and sad sys : (Question) That is understandable. So you aren't having to discontinue your studies immediately? usr : i have discontinued it already sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay, thank you for clarifying :-) Your frustration is understandable. Having a job while being in school can be tough, that is true. However if you are discerning you could get a job that would have flexible hours, especially if you let them know beforehand that you're planning on getting back into school as soon as possible. usr : yes. thank you for concern sys : (Providing Suggestions) When I was in college, I worked for the school and the library. It was not a lot of money, but in addition to a small check, it made me more indispensable to the university. sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think you would be able to handle both, as long as you are clear from the beginning about what you need from the job. Too often we are supposed to feel like we need to beg for a job, when in fact, you are interviewing them as well. usr : i think i can also follow this idea. sys : (Providing Suggestions) You should also explore any and all financial aid offers they can give you. More than once I have been told that not as many people apply for scholarships and grants as you think. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) But regardless of whether you're able to balance the two things, even if you are not, your mental health is very important, and you should try to take it easy on yourself. usr : I think i can cope upwith my situation with this advice of you.thank you usr : what are you doing lately sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You're very welcome, I think you are capable of more than you think. sys : (Others) I work from home and also take a few online classes. usr : oh so kind of you usr : oh so you are tutoring classes usr : thats interesting
(Others) I actually am getting a second degree in religious studies
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "I fall back on my study by playing too much online games and now I might fail my exams.".
usr : Hello there.
(Question) hello, how are you?