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### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"i shared somethng with my best ffirend and she betrayed me". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you? What would you like to discuss today?
usr : hi. I am not feeling too well.
sys : (Question) How long have you felt this way?
usr : i have been feeling this low for close to a month now
sys : (Question) Has there been a big change in your life recently?
usr : i was having an affair and i confided in my best friend about it. i found out that she told my other 2 friendd about it as well
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Your friend violated a confidence. That sounds difficult.
usr : i dont know what to do
sys : (Question) How long have you been married?
usr : 10 years
sys : (Question) Is this the first affair that you have had? Has your spouse had any affairs?
usr : i started having feelings for a guy at work. I worked with him for 8 years and now he left the comapny so i was feeling very depressed and he has a girlfrend now and wont talk to me. my life feels empty. my spouse doesnt know
usr : so i shared with my best friend as i wanted her to help me bring that guy back into my life
usr : at the same time i dont want to leave my husband as for security reasons
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Ok. It is possible that he will find out. It is better that he find out from you than someone else.
usr : no then he will leave me and i dont want to be alone/. iam 40 and i cant have kids. my husabnd is a lawyer and we live a comfotable life
usr : he can never find out
sys : (Information) If 2-3 people already know, then it's possible for him to find out. Could you go to couple's therapy? That is a good forum for discussing the marriage.
usr : after i confrotned my firend, she said that my husband doesnt deserve me. and called me manipulative and malicious. I denied the affair and told my other firends that she is lying
sys : (Question) You had an affair because you were dissatisfied with your marriage. Why do you think that was?
usr : my husband hasnt slept with me for over 4 years
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You want intimacy and affection. What do you think caused the change in his behavior?
usr : i dont know, he gets mad when i touch him. he wont divorce me either as he wont want to give me money from the divorce
sys : (Others) You don't need permission for a divorce in the US. Where do you live?
usr : i live in Chicago
usr : but i wont be able to support my self and i dont want to be a divorcee
usr : i am married to a lawyer and people look up to me
| (Information) Does other people's admiration mean that much, more than an unhappy marriage? Also: if your husband finds out about your affair, what would happen? |
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The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Covid 19 and not being able to see my friends and family". | usr : Hi!
| (Question) hello there, beautiful day isn't it? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Covid 19 and not being able to see my friends and family". | usr : Hi!
sys : (Question) hello there, beautiful day isn't it?
usr : No not exactly
usr : Whats so great about it
| (Question) oh no what's wrong? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Covid 19 and not being able to see my friends and family". | usr : Hi!
sys : (Question) hello there, beautiful day isn't it?
usr : No not exactly
usr : Whats so great about it
sys : (Question) oh no what's wrong?
usr : I am missing my mom a lot . I havent seen her in 6 months or more
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You seem really concerned about your mom! why haven't you been able to call her? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Covid 19 and not being able to see my friends and family". | usr : Hi!
sys : (Question) hello there, beautiful day isn't it?
usr : No not exactly
usr : Whats so great about it
sys : (Question) oh no what's wrong?
usr : I am missing my mom a lot . I havent seen her in 6 months or more
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You seem really concerned about your mom! why haven't you been able to call her?
usr : I do call her daily! I just havent been able to see her and hug her and spend time with her .
usr : My husband wont let me with Covid
| (Self-disclosure) I know it is sooo hard. My mom lives so far away and I can't see her too because of COVID. the only thing that makes me feel a little bit better is that am not putting her at harm's way when I visit her |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Covid 19 and not being able to see my friends and family". | usr : Hi!
sys : (Question) hello there, beautiful day isn't it?
usr : No not exactly
usr : Whats so great about it
sys : (Question) oh no what's wrong?
usr : I am missing my mom a lot . I havent seen her in 6 months or more
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You seem really concerned about your mom! why haven't you been able to call her?
usr : I do call her daily! I just havent been able to see her and hug her and spend time with her .
usr : My husband wont let me with Covid
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know it is sooo hard. My mom lives so far away and I can't see her too because of COVID. the only thing that makes me feel a little bit better is that am not putting her at harm's way when I visit her
usr : I have two boys and we used to see her at least once a week sometimes more
usr : My mom is only 20min or less away and she doesn't drive
| (Question) How are your boys feeling about it? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Covid 19 and not being able to see my friends and family". | usr : Hi!
sys : (Question) hello there, beautiful day isn't it?
usr : No not exactly
usr : Whats so great about it
sys : (Question) oh no what's wrong?
usr : I am missing my mom a lot . I havent seen her in 6 months or more
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You seem really concerned about your mom! why haven't you been able to call her?
usr : I do call her daily! I just havent been able to see her and hug her and spend time with her .
usr : My husband wont let me with Covid
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know it is sooo hard. My mom lives so far away and I can't see her too because of COVID. the only thing that makes me feel a little bit better is that am not putting her at harm's way when I visit her
usr : I have two boys and we used to see her at least once a week sometimes more
usr : My mom is only 20min or less away and she doesn't drive
sys : (Question) How are your boys feeling about it?
usr : My oldest is sad my youngest 7 couldnt care less. He loves that he can just play roblox more . Hes OBSESSED with it
| (Providing Suggestions) To be fair Roblox is pretty fun. Have you seen those videos on Facebook where family members visit their families from behind the window? What do you think your husband will think about that? |
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The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"My parents are always telling me I should be disciplining my children differently. Things are different than when they raised us.". | usr : I can't take it anymore the stress from my parents. They don't acknowledge I am doing my best.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can see you are trying hard but aren't feeling acknowledged. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"My parents are always telling me I should be disciplining my children differently. Things are different than when they raised us.". | usr : I can't take it anymore the stress from my parents. They don't acknowledge I am doing my best.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can see you are trying hard but aren't feeling acknowledged.
usr : It's so hard to not get the affirmation that I am doing a good job.
| (Question) What is it that they aren't affirming you on? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"My parents are always telling me I should be disciplining my children differently. Things are different than when they raised us.". | usr : I can't take it anymore the stress from my parents. They don't acknowledge I am doing my best.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can see you are trying hard but aren't feeling acknowledged.
usr : It's so hard to not get the affirmation that I am doing a good job.
sys : (Question) What is it that they aren't affirming you on?
usr : They don't say that I made the best choices I could given the circumstances.
| (Reflection of feelings) I see that can be frustrating. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"My parents are always telling me I should be disciplining my children differently. Things are different than when they raised us.". | usr : I can't take it anymore the stress from my parents. They don't acknowledge I am doing my best.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can see you are trying hard but aren't feeling acknowledged.
usr : It's so hard to not get the affirmation that I am doing a good job.
sys : (Question) What is it that they aren't affirming you on?
usr : They don't say that I made the best choices I could given the circumstances.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see that can be frustrating.
usr : I want to cry every time they talk to me. I don't know how to communicate any better what I'm feeling.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see that you are communicating to them but they don't understand where you are coming from. That can be frustrating. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"My parents are always telling me I should be disciplining my children differently. Things are different than when they raised us.". | usr : I can't take it anymore the stress from my parents. They don't acknowledge I am doing my best.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can see you are trying hard but aren't feeling acknowledged.
usr : It's so hard to not get the affirmation that I am doing a good job.
sys : (Question) What is it that they aren't affirming you on?
usr : They don't say that I made the best choices I could given the circumstances.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see that can be frustrating.
usr : I want to cry every time they talk to me. I don't know how to communicate any better what I'm feeling.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see that you are communicating to them but they don't understand where you are coming from. That can be frustrating.
usr : What can I do to please them?
| (Question) When did this start? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"My parents are always telling me I should be disciplining my children differently. Things are different than when they raised us.". | usr : I can't take it anymore the stress from my parents. They don't acknowledge I am doing my best.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can see you are trying hard but aren't feeling acknowledged.
usr : It's so hard to not get the affirmation that I am doing a good job.
sys : (Question) What is it that they aren't affirming you on?
usr : They don't say that I made the best choices I could given the circumstances.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see that can be frustrating.
usr : I want to cry every time they talk to me. I don't know how to communicate any better what I'm feeling.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see that you are communicating to them but they don't understand where you are coming from. That can be frustrating.
usr : What can I do to please them?
sys : (Question) When did this start?
usr : When my children started getting in trouble at school
| (Question) When my children were in the same situation I felt a lot of heat too from my parents. It's helpful sometimes to talk to a school counselor. Have you tried that at all? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"My parents are always telling me I should be disciplining my children differently. Things are different than when they raised us.". | usr : I can't take it anymore the stress from my parents. They don't acknowledge I am doing my best.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can see you are trying hard but aren't feeling acknowledged.
usr : It's so hard to not get the affirmation that I am doing a good job.
sys : (Question) What is it that they aren't affirming you on?
usr : They don't say that I made the best choices I could given the circumstances.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see that can be frustrating.
usr : I want to cry every time they talk to me. I don't know how to communicate any better what I'm feeling.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see that you are communicating to them but they don't understand where you are coming from. That can be frustrating.
usr : What can I do to please them?
sys : (Question) When did this start?
usr : When my children started getting in trouble at school
sys : (Question) When my children were in the same situation I felt a lot of heat too from my parents. It's helpful sometimes to talk to a school counselor. Have you tried that at all?
usr : That would maybe help. I have to see maybe they could help me with solving the situation.
| (Self-disclosure) They have some experience with other families and maybe could connect you with people who are having similar issues. I've done that in the past. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"My parents are always telling me I should be disciplining my children differently. Things are different than when they raised us.". | usr : I can't take it anymore the stress from my parents. They don't acknowledge I am doing my best.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can see you are trying hard but aren't feeling acknowledged.
usr : It's so hard to not get the affirmation that I am doing a good job.
sys : (Question) What is it that they aren't affirming you on?
usr : They don't say that I made the best choices I could given the circumstances.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see that can be frustrating.
usr : I want to cry every time they talk to me. I don't know how to communicate any better what I'm feeling.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see that you are communicating to them but they don't understand where you are coming from. That can be frustrating.
usr : What can I do to please them?
sys : (Question) When did this start?
usr : When my children started getting in trouble at school
sys : (Question) When my children were in the same situation I felt a lot of heat too from my parents. It's helpful sometimes to talk to a school counselor. Have you tried that at all?
usr : That would maybe help. I have to see maybe they could help me with solving the situation.
sys : (Self-disclosure) They have some experience with other families and maybe could connect you with people who are having similar issues. I've done that in the past.
usr : I see your point.
| (Question) Do you have other family members or friends who you could talk to? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"My parents are always telling me I should be disciplining my children differently. Things are different than when they raised us.". | usr : I can't take it anymore the stress from my parents. They don't acknowledge I am doing my best.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can see you are trying hard but aren't feeling acknowledged.
usr : It's so hard to not get the affirmation that I am doing a good job.
sys : (Question) What is it that they aren't affirming you on?
usr : They don't say that I made the best choices I could given the circumstances.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see that can be frustrating.
usr : I want to cry every time they talk to me. I don't know how to communicate any better what I'm feeling.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see that you are communicating to them but they don't understand where you are coming from. That can be frustrating.
usr : What can I do to please them?
sys : (Question) When did this start?
usr : When my children started getting in trouble at school
sys : (Question) When my children were in the same situation I felt a lot of heat too from my parents. It's helpful sometimes to talk to a school counselor. Have you tried that at all?
usr : That would maybe help. I have to see maybe they could help me with solving the situation.
sys : (Self-disclosure) They have some experience with other families and maybe could connect you with people who are having similar issues. I've done that in the past.
usr : I see your point.
sys : (Question) Do you have other family members or friends who you could talk to?
usr : Yes, maybe my sister could help. She has children too.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds like a great plan to try. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"My parents are always telling me I should be disciplining my children differently. Things are different than when they raised us.". | usr : I can't take it anymore the stress from my parents. They don't acknowledge I am doing my best.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can see you are trying hard but aren't feeling acknowledged.
usr : It's so hard to not get the affirmation that I am doing a good job.
sys : (Question) What is it that they aren't affirming you on?
usr : They don't say that I made the best choices I could given the circumstances.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see that can be frustrating.
usr : I want to cry every time they talk to me. I don't know how to communicate any better what I'm feeling.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see that you are communicating to them but they don't understand where you are coming from. That can be frustrating.
usr : What can I do to please them?
sys : (Question) When did this start?
usr : When my children started getting in trouble at school
sys : (Question) When my children were in the same situation I felt a lot of heat too from my parents. It's helpful sometimes to talk to a school counselor. Have you tried that at all?
usr : That would maybe help. I have to see maybe they could help me with solving the situation.
sys : (Self-disclosure) They have some experience with other families and maybe could connect you with people who are having similar issues. I've done that in the past.
usr : I see your point.
sys : (Question) Do you have other family members or friends who you could talk to?
usr : Yes, maybe my sister could help. She has children too.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds like a great plan to try.
usr : Thanks so much for the help.
| (Question) It has been my pleasure. Is there anything else I can do? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"My parents are always telling me I should be disciplining my children differently. Things are different than when they raised us.". | usr : I can't take it anymore the stress from my parents. They don't acknowledge I am doing my best.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can see you are trying hard but aren't feeling acknowledged.
usr : It's so hard to not get the affirmation that I am doing a good job.
sys : (Question) What is it that they aren't affirming you on?
usr : They don't say that I made the best choices I could given the circumstances.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see that can be frustrating.
usr : I want to cry every time they talk to me. I don't know how to communicate any better what I'm feeling.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see that you are communicating to them but they don't understand where you are coming from. That can be frustrating.
usr : What can I do to please them?
sys : (Question) When did this start?
usr : When my children started getting in trouble at school
sys : (Question) When my children were in the same situation I felt a lot of heat too from my parents. It's helpful sometimes to talk to a school counselor. Have you tried that at all?
usr : That would maybe help. I have to see maybe they could help me with solving the situation.
sys : (Self-disclosure) They have some experience with other families and maybe could connect you with people who are having similar issues. I've done that in the past.
usr : I see your point.
sys : (Question) Do you have other family members or friends who you could talk to?
usr : Yes, maybe my sister could help. She has children too.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds like a great plan to try.
usr : Thanks so much for the help.
sys : (Question) It has been my pleasure. Is there anything else I can do?
usr : No thanks
usr : You have been of great help.
usr : Thanks so much.
| (Others) You are very welcome. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"My parents are always telling me I should be disciplining my children differently. Things are different than when they raised us.". | usr : I can't take it anymore the stress from my parents. They don't acknowledge I am doing my best.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can see you are trying hard but aren't feeling acknowledged.
usr : It's so hard to not get the affirmation that I am doing a good job.
sys : (Question) What is it that they aren't affirming you on?
usr : They don't say that I made the best choices I could given the circumstances.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see that can be frustrating.
usr : I want to cry every time they talk to me. I don't know how to communicate any better what I'm feeling.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see that you are communicating to them but they don't understand where you are coming from. That can be frustrating.
usr : What can I do to please them?
sys : (Question) When did this start?
usr : When my children started getting in trouble at school
sys : (Question) When my children were in the same situation I felt a lot of heat too from my parents. It's helpful sometimes to talk to a school counselor. Have you tried that at all?
usr : That would maybe help. I have to see maybe they could help me with solving the situation.
sys : (Self-disclosure) They have some experience with other families and maybe could connect you with people who are having similar issues. I've done that in the past.
usr : I see your point.
sys : (Question) Do you have other family members or friends who you could talk to?
usr : Yes, maybe my sister could help. She has children too.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds like a great plan to try.
usr : Thanks so much for the help.
sys : (Question) It has been my pleasure. Is there anything else I can do?
usr : No thanks
usr : You have been of great help.
usr : Thanks so much.
sys : (Others) You are very welcome.
usr : Have a nice day.
| (Others) You as well have a nice day. |
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The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend just left me after 3 years of living together. I am so depressed, I don’t know what to do. I feel worthless.". | (Question) Hello! How is life treating you today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend just left me after 3 years of living together. I am so depressed, I don’t know what to do. I feel worthless.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you today?
usr : Life is bad to day. My bbboyfireind just left me, I am alone in the house. I have no one to share things with.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry about that - you are feeling that you've been deserted? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend just left me after 3 years of living together. I am so depressed, I don’t know what to do. I feel worthless.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you today?
usr : Life is bad to day. My bbboyfireind just left me, I am alone in the house. I have no one to share things with.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry about that - you are feeling that you've been deserted?
usr : Yes, that is exactly how I feel. I was deserted, I feel unlovable, like no one will ever want me again.
| (Self-disclosure) Please don't think that! I have been in this situation and I know how awful it is but I also know that it will pass. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend just left me after 3 years of living together. I am so depressed, I don’t know what to do. I feel worthless.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you today?
usr : Life is bad to day. My bbboyfireind just left me, I am alone in the house. I have no one to share things with.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry about that - you are feeling that you've been deserted?
usr : Yes, that is exactly how I feel. I was deserted, I feel unlovable, like no one will ever want me again.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Please don't think that! I have been in this situation and I know how awful it is but I also know that it will pass.
usr : It doesn’t;t feel like it will pass. It feels like it will only get worse. I don’t want to go to bed alone. I won’t be able to sleep tonight.
| (Providing Suggestions) Would you be able to go and visit friends or family members? Get some support? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend just left me after 3 years of living together. I am so depressed, I don’t know what to do. I feel worthless.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you today?
usr : Life is bad to day. My bbboyfireind just left me, I am alone in the house. I have no one to share things with.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry about that - you are feeling that you've been deserted?
usr : Yes, that is exactly how I feel. I was deserted, I feel unlovable, like no one will ever want me again.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Please don't think that! I have been in this situation and I know how awful it is but I also know that it will pass.
usr : It doesn’t;t feel like it will pass. It feels like it will only get worse. I don’t want to go to bed alone. I won’t be able to sleep tonight.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Would you be able to go and visit friends or family members? Get some support?
usr : My family is out of town. My friends were also his friends and he told lies about me so they wont talk to me. I want to just get drunk and go to sleep.
| (Information) Oh that is not a good idea. Do you think you have an alcohol problem? There are support groups out there who could help you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend just left me after 3 years of living together. I am so depressed, I don’t know what to do. I feel worthless.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you today?
usr : Life is bad to day. My bbboyfireind just left me, I am alone in the house. I have no one to share things with.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry about that - you are feeling that you've been deserted?
usr : Yes, that is exactly how I feel. I was deserted, I feel unlovable, like no one will ever want me again.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Please don't think that! I have been in this situation and I know how awful it is but I also know that it will pass.
usr : It doesn’t;t feel like it will pass. It feels like it will only get worse. I don’t want to go to bed alone. I won’t be able to sleep tonight.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Would you be able to go and visit friends or family members? Get some support?
usr : My family is out of town. My friends were also his friends and he told lies about me so they wont talk to me. I want to just get drunk and go to sleep.
sys : (Information) Oh that is not a good idea. Do you think you have an alcohol problem? There are support groups out there who could help you.
usr : I never drink alone but I feel so bad now and afraid of being alone.
| (Providing Suggestions) I hear you. Do you have any pets or anything at all to keep you company? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend just left me after 3 years of living together. I am so depressed, I don’t know what to do. I feel worthless.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you today?
usr : Life is bad to day. My bbboyfireind just left me, I am alone in the house. I have no one to share things with.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry about that - you are feeling that you've been deserted?
usr : Yes, that is exactly how I feel. I was deserted, I feel unlovable, like no one will ever want me again.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Please don't think that! I have been in this situation and I know how awful it is but I also know that it will pass.
usr : It doesn’t;t feel like it will pass. It feels like it will only get worse. I don’t want to go to bed alone. I won’t be able to sleep tonight.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Would you be able to go and visit friends or family members? Get some support?
usr : My family is out of town. My friends were also his friends and he told lies about me so they wont talk to me. I want to just get drunk and go to sleep.
sys : (Information) Oh that is not a good idea. Do you think you have an alcohol problem? There are support groups out there who could help you.
usr : I never drink alone but I feel so bad now and afraid of being alone.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I hear you. Do you have any pets or anything at all to keep you company?
usr : Do you think I should call him and ask him to come back? He took our dog.
| (Others) I think you should get the dog back but I don't think you should call your ex - you are better off without him. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend just left me after 3 years of living together. I am so depressed, I don’t know what to do. I feel worthless.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you today?
usr : Life is bad to day. My bbboyfireind just left me, I am alone in the house. I have no one to share things with.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry about that - you are feeling that you've been deserted?
usr : Yes, that is exactly how I feel. I was deserted, I feel unlovable, like no one will ever want me again.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Please don't think that! I have been in this situation and I know how awful it is but I also know that it will pass.
usr : It doesn’t;t feel like it will pass. It feels like it will only get worse. I don’t want to go to bed alone. I won’t be able to sleep tonight.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Would you be able to go and visit friends or family members? Get some support?
usr : My family is out of town. My friends were also his friends and he told lies about me so they wont talk to me. I want to just get drunk and go to sleep.
sys : (Information) Oh that is not a good idea. Do you think you have an alcohol problem? There are support groups out there who could help you.
usr : I never drink alone but I feel so bad now and afraid of being alone.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I hear you. Do you have any pets or anything at all to keep you company?
usr : Do you think I should call him and ask him to come back? He took our dog.
sys : (Others) I think you should get the dog back but I don't think you should call your ex - you are better off without him.
usr : But I still love him. He did sleep with my best friend, but he said it didn’t mean anything. I really miss him,
| (Others) I think you should value yourself more highly than this. If he slept with your best friend then he is nothing. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend just left me after 3 years of living together. I am so depressed, I don’t know what to do. I feel worthless.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you today?
usr : Life is bad to day. My bbboyfireind just left me, I am alone in the house. I have no one to share things with.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry about that - you are feeling that you've been deserted?
usr : Yes, that is exactly how I feel. I was deserted, I feel unlovable, like no one will ever want me again.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Please don't think that! I have been in this situation and I know how awful it is but I also know that it will pass.
usr : It doesn’t;t feel like it will pass. It feels like it will only get worse. I don’t want to go to bed alone. I won’t be able to sleep tonight.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Would you be able to go and visit friends or family members? Get some support?
usr : My family is out of town. My friends were also his friends and he told lies about me so they wont talk to me. I want to just get drunk and go to sleep.
sys : (Information) Oh that is not a good idea. Do you think you have an alcohol problem? There are support groups out there who could help you.
usr : I never drink alone but I feel so bad now and afraid of being alone.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I hear you. Do you have any pets or anything at all to keep you company?
usr : Do you think I should call him and ask him to come back? He took our dog.
sys : (Others) I think you should get the dog back but I don't think you should call your ex - you are better off without him.
usr : But I still love him. He did sleep with my best friend, but he said it didn’t mean anything. I really miss him,
sys : (Others) I think you should value yourself more highly than this. If he slept with your best friend then he is nothing.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You can do a great deal better, I am sure! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend just left me after 3 years of living together. I am so depressed, I don’t know what to do. I feel worthless.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you today?
usr : Life is bad to day. My bbboyfireind just left me, I am alone in the house. I have no one to share things with.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry about that - you are feeling that you've been deserted?
usr : Yes, that is exactly how I feel. I was deserted, I feel unlovable, like no one will ever want me again.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Please don't think that! I have been in this situation and I know how awful it is but I also know that it will pass.
usr : It doesn’t;t feel like it will pass. It feels like it will only get worse. I don’t want to go to bed alone. I won’t be able to sleep tonight.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Would you be able to go and visit friends or family members? Get some support?
usr : My family is out of town. My friends were also his friends and he told lies about me so they wont talk to me. I want to just get drunk and go to sleep.
sys : (Information) Oh that is not a good idea. Do you think you have an alcohol problem? There are support groups out there who could help you.
usr : I never drink alone but I feel so bad now and afraid of being alone.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I hear you. Do you have any pets or anything at all to keep you company?
usr : Do you think I should call him and ask him to come back? He took our dog.
sys : (Others) I think you should get the dog back but I don't think you should call your ex - you are better off without him.
usr : But I still love him. He did sleep with my best friend, but he said it didn’t mean anything. I really miss him,
sys : (Others) I think you should value yourself more highly than this. If he slept with your best friend then he is nothing.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You can do a great deal better, I am sure!
usr : Thanks. You are right, I am too good for him. I had a job and he doesn’t.
| (Others) Well quite! You can easily move forward with your life. He will not find it so easy. But do get the dog back. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend just left me after 3 years of living together. I am so depressed, I don’t know what to do. I feel worthless.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you today?
usr : Life is bad to day. My bbboyfireind just left me, I am alone in the house. I have no one to share things with.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry about that - you are feeling that you've been deserted?
usr : Yes, that is exactly how I feel. I was deserted, I feel unlovable, like no one will ever want me again.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Please don't think that! I have been in this situation and I know how awful it is but I also know that it will pass.
usr : It doesn’t;t feel like it will pass. It feels like it will only get worse. I don’t want to go to bed alone. I won’t be able to sleep tonight.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Would you be able to go and visit friends or family members? Get some support?
usr : My family is out of town. My friends were also his friends and he told lies about me so they wont talk to me. I want to just get drunk and go to sleep.
sys : (Information) Oh that is not a good idea. Do you think you have an alcohol problem? There are support groups out there who could help you.
usr : I never drink alone but I feel so bad now and afraid of being alone.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I hear you. Do you have any pets or anything at all to keep you company?
usr : Do you think I should call him and ask him to come back? He took our dog.
sys : (Others) I think you should get the dog back but I don't think you should call your ex - you are better off without him.
usr : But I still love him. He did sleep with my best friend, but he said it didn’t mean anything. I really miss him,
sys : (Others) I think you should value yourself more highly than this. If he slept with your best friend then he is nothing.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You can do a great deal better, I am sure!
usr : Thanks. You are right, I am too good for him. I had a job and he doesn’t.
sys : (Others) Well quite! You can easily move forward with your life. He will not find it so easy. But do get the dog back.
usr : Yeah, I need the dog. He gave it to me as a puppy for my birthday. I can’t believe he took it.
| (Information) Do you know that there are legal organisations out there that will help you get it back? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend just left me after 3 years of living together. I am so depressed, I don’t know what to do. I feel worthless.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you today?
usr : Life is bad to day. My bbboyfireind just left me, I am alone in the house. I have no one to share things with.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry about that - you are feeling that you've been deserted?
usr : Yes, that is exactly how I feel. I was deserted, I feel unlovable, like no one will ever want me again.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Please don't think that! I have been in this situation and I know how awful it is but I also know that it will pass.
usr : It doesn’t;t feel like it will pass. It feels like it will only get worse. I don’t want to go to bed alone. I won’t be able to sleep tonight.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Would you be able to go and visit friends or family members? Get some support?
usr : My family is out of town. My friends were also his friends and he told lies about me so they wont talk to me. I want to just get drunk and go to sleep.
sys : (Information) Oh that is not a good idea. Do you think you have an alcohol problem? There are support groups out there who could help you.
usr : I never drink alone but I feel so bad now and afraid of being alone.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I hear you. Do you have any pets or anything at all to keep you company?
usr : Do you think I should call him and ask him to come back? He took our dog.
sys : (Others) I think you should get the dog back but I don't think you should call your ex - you are better off without him.
usr : But I still love him. He did sleep with my best friend, but he said it didn’t mean anything. I really miss him,
sys : (Others) I think you should value yourself more highly than this. If he slept with your best friend then he is nothing.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You can do a great deal better, I am sure!
usr : Thanks. You are right, I am too good for him. I had a job and he doesn’t.
sys : (Others) Well quite! You can easily move forward with your life. He will not find it so easy. But do get the dog back.
usr : Yeah, I need the dog. He gave it to me as a puppy for my birthday. I can’t believe he took it.
sys : (Information) Do you know that there are legal organisations out there that will help you get it back?
usr : But I am still having a hard time getting to sleep, I am so upset. I have been crying for hours.
| (Providing Suggestions) I suggest you have a nice warm bath and a cup of cocoa and try to relax |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend just left me after 3 years of living together. I am so depressed, I don’t know what to do. I feel worthless.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you today?
usr : Life is bad to day. My bbboyfireind just left me, I am alone in the house. I have no one to share things with.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry about that - you are feeling that you've been deserted?
usr : Yes, that is exactly how I feel. I was deserted, I feel unlovable, like no one will ever want me again.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Please don't think that! I have been in this situation and I know how awful it is but I also know that it will pass.
usr : It doesn’t;t feel like it will pass. It feels like it will only get worse. I don’t want to go to bed alone. I won’t be able to sleep tonight.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Would you be able to go and visit friends or family members? Get some support?
usr : My family is out of town. My friends were also his friends and he told lies about me so they wont talk to me. I want to just get drunk and go to sleep.
sys : (Information) Oh that is not a good idea. Do you think you have an alcohol problem? There are support groups out there who could help you.
usr : I never drink alone but I feel so bad now and afraid of being alone.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I hear you. Do you have any pets or anything at all to keep you company?
usr : Do you think I should call him and ask him to come back? He took our dog.
sys : (Others) I think you should get the dog back but I don't think you should call your ex - you are better off without him.
usr : But I still love him. He did sleep with my best friend, but he said it didn’t mean anything. I really miss him,
sys : (Others) I think you should value yourself more highly than this. If he slept with your best friend then he is nothing.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You can do a great deal better, I am sure!
usr : Thanks. You are right, I am too good for him. I had a job and he doesn’t.
sys : (Others) Well quite! You can easily move forward with your life. He will not find it so easy. But do get the dog back.
usr : Yeah, I need the dog. He gave it to me as a puppy for my birthday. I can’t believe he took it.
sys : (Information) Do you know that there are legal organisations out there that will help you get it back?
usr : But I am still having a hard time getting to sleep, I am so upset. I have been crying for hours.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest you have a nice warm bath and a cup of cocoa and try to relax
usr : Yeah, that sounds like a good idea. A bubble bath and some warm coco. That always make me feel better
| (Information) Tomorrow you can try to think of how to go on with things :). Contact some legal aid people to help you get your dog back for one. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend just left me after 3 years of living together. I am so depressed, I don’t know what to do. I feel worthless.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you today?
usr : Life is bad to day. My bbboyfireind just left me, I am alone in the house. I have no one to share things with.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry about that - you are feeling that you've been deserted?
usr : Yes, that is exactly how I feel. I was deserted, I feel unlovable, like no one will ever want me again.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Please don't think that! I have been in this situation and I know how awful it is but I also know that it will pass.
usr : It doesn’t;t feel like it will pass. It feels like it will only get worse. I don’t want to go to bed alone. I won’t be able to sleep tonight.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Would you be able to go and visit friends or family members? Get some support?
usr : My family is out of town. My friends were also his friends and he told lies about me so they wont talk to me. I want to just get drunk and go to sleep.
sys : (Information) Oh that is not a good idea. Do you think you have an alcohol problem? There are support groups out there who could help you.
usr : I never drink alone but I feel so bad now and afraid of being alone.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I hear you. Do you have any pets or anything at all to keep you company?
usr : Do you think I should call him and ask him to come back? He took our dog.
sys : (Others) I think you should get the dog back but I don't think you should call your ex - you are better off without him.
usr : But I still love him. He did sleep with my best friend, but he said it didn’t mean anything. I really miss him,
sys : (Others) I think you should value yourself more highly than this. If he slept with your best friend then he is nothing.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You can do a great deal better, I am sure!
usr : Thanks. You are right, I am too good for him. I had a job and he doesn’t.
sys : (Others) Well quite! You can easily move forward with your life. He will not find it so easy. But do get the dog back.
usr : Yeah, I need the dog. He gave it to me as a puppy for my birthday. I can’t believe he took it.
sys : (Information) Do you know that there are legal organisations out there that will help you get it back?
usr : But I am still having a hard time getting to sleep, I am so upset. I have been crying for hours.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest you have a nice warm bath and a cup of cocoa and try to relax
usr : Yeah, that sounds like a good idea. A bubble bath and some warm coco. That always make me feel better
sys : (Information) Tomorrow you can try to think of how to go on with things :). Contact some legal aid people to help you get your dog back for one.
usr : My cousin works for legal aid, maybe she can help me give me advice. Thanks
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds perfect! I am sure you will feel better once you have your dog. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend just left me after 3 years of living together. I am so depressed, I don’t know what to do. I feel worthless.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you today?
usr : Life is bad to day. My bbboyfireind just left me, I am alone in the house. I have no one to share things with.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry about that - you are feeling that you've been deserted?
usr : Yes, that is exactly how I feel. I was deserted, I feel unlovable, like no one will ever want me again.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Please don't think that! I have been in this situation and I know how awful it is but I also know that it will pass.
usr : It doesn’t;t feel like it will pass. It feels like it will only get worse. I don’t want to go to bed alone. I won’t be able to sleep tonight.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Would you be able to go and visit friends or family members? Get some support?
usr : My family is out of town. My friends were also his friends and he told lies about me so they wont talk to me. I want to just get drunk and go to sleep.
sys : (Information) Oh that is not a good idea. Do you think you have an alcohol problem? There are support groups out there who could help you.
usr : I never drink alone but I feel so bad now and afraid of being alone.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I hear you. Do you have any pets or anything at all to keep you company?
usr : Do you think I should call him and ask him to come back? He took our dog.
sys : (Others) I think you should get the dog back but I don't think you should call your ex - you are better off without him.
usr : But I still love him. He did sleep with my best friend, but he said it didn’t mean anything. I really miss him,
sys : (Others) I think you should value yourself more highly than this. If he slept with your best friend then he is nothing.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You can do a great deal better, I am sure!
usr : Thanks. You are right, I am too good for him. I had a job and he doesn’t.
sys : (Others) Well quite! You can easily move forward with your life. He will not find it so easy. But do get the dog back.
usr : Yeah, I need the dog. He gave it to me as a puppy for my birthday. I can’t believe he took it.
sys : (Information) Do you know that there are legal organisations out there that will help you get it back?
usr : But I am still having a hard time getting to sleep, I am so upset. I have been crying for hours.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest you have a nice warm bath and a cup of cocoa and try to relax
usr : Yeah, that sounds like a good idea. A bubble bath and some warm coco. That always make me feel better
sys : (Information) Tomorrow you can try to think of how to go on with things :). Contact some legal aid people to help you get your dog back for one.
usr : My cousin works for legal aid, maybe she can help me give me advice. Thanks
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds perfect! I am sure you will feel better once you have your dog.
| (Others) I hope I have been able to be of some assistance and thank you for talking |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend just left me after 3 years of living together. I am so depressed, I don’t know what to do. I feel worthless.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you today?
usr : Life is bad to day. My bbboyfireind just left me, I am alone in the house. I have no one to share things with.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry about that - you are feeling that you've been deserted?
usr : Yes, that is exactly how I feel. I was deserted, I feel unlovable, like no one will ever want me again.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Please don't think that! I have been in this situation and I know how awful it is but I also know that it will pass.
usr : It doesn’t;t feel like it will pass. It feels like it will only get worse. I don’t want to go to bed alone. I won’t be able to sleep tonight.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Would you be able to go and visit friends or family members? Get some support?
usr : My family is out of town. My friends were also his friends and he told lies about me so they wont talk to me. I want to just get drunk and go to sleep.
sys : (Information) Oh that is not a good idea. Do you think you have an alcohol problem? There are support groups out there who could help you.
usr : I never drink alone but I feel so bad now and afraid of being alone.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I hear you. Do you have any pets or anything at all to keep you company?
usr : Do you think I should call him and ask him to come back? He took our dog.
sys : (Others) I think you should get the dog back but I don't think you should call your ex - you are better off without him.
usr : But I still love him. He did sleep with my best friend, but he said it didn’t mean anything. I really miss him,
sys : (Others) I think you should value yourself more highly than this. If he slept with your best friend then he is nothing.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You can do a great deal better, I am sure!
usr : Thanks. You are right, I am too good for him. I had a job and he doesn’t.
sys : (Others) Well quite! You can easily move forward with your life. He will not find it so easy. But do get the dog back.
usr : Yeah, I need the dog. He gave it to me as a puppy for my birthday. I can’t believe he took it.
sys : (Information) Do you know that there are legal organisations out there that will help you get it back?
usr : But I am still having a hard time getting to sleep, I am so upset. I have been crying for hours.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest you have a nice warm bath and a cup of cocoa and try to relax
usr : Yeah, that sounds like a good idea. A bubble bath and some warm coco. That always make me feel better
sys : (Information) Tomorrow you can try to think of how to go on with things :). Contact some legal aid people to help you get your dog back for one.
usr : My cousin works for legal aid, maybe she can help me give me advice. Thanks
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds perfect! I am sure you will feel better once you have your dog.
sys : (Others) I hope I have been able to be of some assistance and thank you for talking
usr : Yeah, thanks for talking to me
| (Others) You're most welcome :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend just left me after 3 years of living together. I am so depressed, I don’t know what to do. I feel worthless.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you today?
usr : Life is bad to day. My bbboyfireind just left me, I am alone in the house. I have no one to share things with.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry about that - you are feeling that you've been deserted?
usr : Yes, that is exactly how I feel. I was deserted, I feel unlovable, like no one will ever want me again.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Please don't think that! I have been in this situation and I know how awful it is but I also know that it will pass.
usr : It doesn’t;t feel like it will pass. It feels like it will only get worse. I don’t want to go to bed alone. I won’t be able to sleep tonight.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Would you be able to go and visit friends or family members? Get some support?
usr : My family is out of town. My friends were also his friends and he told lies about me so they wont talk to me. I want to just get drunk and go to sleep.
sys : (Information) Oh that is not a good idea. Do you think you have an alcohol problem? There are support groups out there who could help you.
usr : I never drink alone but I feel so bad now and afraid of being alone.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I hear you. Do you have any pets or anything at all to keep you company?
usr : Do you think I should call him and ask him to come back? He took our dog.
sys : (Others) I think you should get the dog back but I don't think you should call your ex - you are better off without him.
usr : But I still love him. He did sleep with my best friend, but he said it didn’t mean anything. I really miss him,
sys : (Others) I think you should value yourself more highly than this. If he slept with your best friend then he is nothing.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You can do a great deal better, I am sure!
usr : Thanks. You are right, I am too good for him. I had a job and he doesn’t.
sys : (Others) Well quite! You can easily move forward with your life. He will not find it so easy. But do get the dog back.
usr : Yeah, I need the dog. He gave it to me as a puppy for my birthday. I can’t believe he took it.
sys : (Information) Do you know that there are legal organisations out there that will help you get it back?
usr : But I am still having a hard time getting to sleep, I am so upset. I have been crying for hours.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest you have a nice warm bath and a cup of cocoa and try to relax
usr : Yeah, that sounds like a good idea. A bubble bath and some warm coco. That always make me feel better
sys : (Information) Tomorrow you can try to think of how to go on with things :). Contact some legal aid people to help you get your dog back for one.
usr : My cousin works for legal aid, maybe she can help me give me advice. Thanks
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds perfect! I am sure you will feel better once you have your dog.
sys : (Others) I hope I have been able to be of some assistance and thank you for talking
usr : Yeah, thanks for talking to me
sys : (Others) You're most welcome :)
usr : Have a good night. I am going to get into my hot bath.
| (Others) have fun :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend just left me after 3 years of living together. I am so depressed, I don’t know what to do. I feel worthless.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you today?
usr : Life is bad to day. My bbboyfireind just left me, I am alone in the house. I have no one to share things with.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry about that - you are feeling that you've been deserted?
usr : Yes, that is exactly how I feel. I was deserted, I feel unlovable, like no one will ever want me again.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Please don't think that! I have been in this situation and I know how awful it is but I also know that it will pass.
usr : It doesn’t;t feel like it will pass. It feels like it will only get worse. I don’t want to go to bed alone. I won’t be able to sleep tonight.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Would you be able to go and visit friends or family members? Get some support?
usr : My family is out of town. My friends were also his friends and he told lies about me so they wont talk to me. I want to just get drunk and go to sleep.
sys : (Information) Oh that is not a good idea. Do you think you have an alcohol problem? There are support groups out there who could help you.
usr : I never drink alone but I feel so bad now and afraid of being alone.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I hear you. Do you have any pets or anything at all to keep you company?
usr : Do you think I should call him and ask him to come back? He took our dog.
sys : (Others) I think you should get the dog back but I don't think you should call your ex - you are better off without him.
usr : But I still love him. He did sleep with my best friend, but he said it didn’t mean anything. I really miss him,
sys : (Others) I think you should value yourself more highly than this. If he slept with your best friend then he is nothing.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You can do a great deal better, I am sure!
usr : Thanks. You are right, I am too good for him. I had a job and he doesn’t.
sys : (Others) Well quite! You can easily move forward with your life. He will not find it so easy. But do get the dog back.
usr : Yeah, I need the dog. He gave it to me as a puppy for my birthday. I can’t believe he took it.
sys : (Information) Do you know that there are legal organisations out there that will help you get it back?
usr : But I am still having a hard time getting to sleep, I am so upset. I have been crying for hours.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest you have a nice warm bath and a cup of cocoa and try to relax
usr : Yeah, that sounds like a good idea. A bubble bath and some warm coco. That always make me feel better
sys : (Information) Tomorrow you can try to think of how to go on with things :). Contact some legal aid people to help you get your dog back for one.
usr : My cousin works for legal aid, maybe she can help me give me advice. Thanks
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds perfect! I am sure you will feel better once you have your dog.
sys : (Others) I hope I have been able to be of some assistance and thank you for talking
usr : Yeah, thanks for talking to me
sys : (Others) You're most welcome :)
usr : Have a good night. I am going to get into my hot bath.
sys : (Others) have fun :)
| (Providing Suggestions) you just need to press quit and take the survey now :) I can't do it this end |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have to give an important presentation for my academic career and I am stressed about public speaking and my ability to give a coherent presentation". | (Question) Good afternoon, how can I help you today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have to give an important presentation for my academic career and I am stressed about public speaking and my ability to give a coherent presentation". | sys : (Question) Good afternoon, how can I help you today?
usr : Hi there, I am just stressed about giving a presentation tomorrow
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is understandable, public speaking is one of the most commonly cited fears for people. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have to give an important presentation for my academic career and I am stressed about public speaking and my ability to give a coherent presentation". | sys : (Question) Good afternoon, how can I help you today?
usr : Hi there, I am just stressed about giving a presentation tomorrow
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is understandable, public speaking is one of the most commonly cited fears for people.
| (Question) Is it for work or for school? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have to give an important presentation for my academic career and I am stressed about public speaking and my ability to give a coherent presentation". | sys : (Question) Good afternoon, how can I help you today?
usr : Hi there, I am just stressed about giving a presentation tomorrow
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is understandable, public speaking is one of the most commonly cited fears for people.
sys : (Question) Is it for work or for school?
usr : This presentation is for school
usr : I am indeed worried about public speaking
| (Self-disclosure) I actually majored in communication and have a great deal of experience with public speaking. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have to give an important presentation for my academic career and I am stressed about public speaking and my ability to give a coherent presentation". | sys : (Question) Good afternoon, how can I help you today?
usr : Hi there, I am just stressed about giving a presentation tomorrow
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is understandable, public speaking is one of the most commonly cited fears for people.
sys : (Question) Is it for work or for school?
usr : This presentation is for school
usr : I am indeed worried about public speaking
sys : (Self-disclosure) I actually majored in communication and have a great deal of experience with public speaking.
usr : That's interesting, I find public speaking to be especially difficult
| (Providing Suggestions) Yes, the physical nervousness that can manifest is powerful. I would highly recommend finding a quiet place to calm and focus your mind for at least five minutes before your presentation. At least a minute's worth of breathing, and drink plenty of water. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have to give an important presentation for my academic career and I am stressed about public speaking and my ability to give a coherent presentation". | sys : (Question) Good afternoon, how can I help you today?
usr : Hi there, I am just stressed about giving a presentation tomorrow
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is understandable, public speaking is one of the most commonly cited fears for people.
sys : (Question) Is it for work or for school?
usr : This presentation is for school
usr : I am indeed worried about public speaking
sys : (Self-disclosure) I actually majored in communication and have a great deal of experience with public speaking.
usr : That's interesting, I find public speaking to be especially difficult
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes, the physical nervousness that can manifest is powerful. I would highly recommend finding a quiet place to calm and focus your mind for at least five minutes before your presentation. At least a minute's worth of breathing, and drink plenty of water.
usr : That very helpful advice, I think another stressful factor is being able to field questions effectively
| (Providing Suggestions) Ah, yes, that is a hard one. You are expected to be an expert. But you can only prepare so much. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have to give an important presentation for my academic career and I am stressed about public speaking and my ability to give a coherent presentation". | sys : (Question) Good afternoon, how can I help you today?
usr : Hi there, I am just stressed about giving a presentation tomorrow
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is understandable, public speaking is one of the most commonly cited fears for people.
sys : (Question) Is it for work or for school?
usr : This presentation is for school
usr : I am indeed worried about public speaking
sys : (Self-disclosure) I actually majored in communication and have a great deal of experience with public speaking.
usr : That's interesting, I find public speaking to be especially difficult
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes, the physical nervousness that can manifest is powerful. I would highly recommend finding a quiet place to calm and focus your mind for at least five minutes before your presentation. At least a minute's worth of breathing, and drink plenty of water.
usr : That very helpful advice, I think another stressful factor is being able to field questions effectively
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Ah, yes, that is a hard one. You are expected to be an expert. But you can only prepare so much.
usr : Agreed, and there is always that fear that you won't know an answer
| (Others) "That is a really great question that I've never considered! Maybe XYZ? I can check on that and get back to you with a sure answer though!" |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have to give an important presentation for my academic career and I am stressed about public speaking and my ability to give a coherent presentation". | sys : (Question) Good afternoon, how can I help you today?
usr : Hi there, I am just stressed about giving a presentation tomorrow
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is understandable, public speaking is one of the most commonly cited fears for people.
sys : (Question) Is it for work or for school?
usr : This presentation is for school
usr : I am indeed worried about public speaking
sys : (Self-disclosure) I actually majored in communication and have a great deal of experience with public speaking.
usr : That's interesting, I find public speaking to be especially difficult
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes, the physical nervousness that can manifest is powerful. I would highly recommend finding a quiet place to calm and focus your mind for at least five minutes before your presentation. At least a minute's worth of breathing, and drink plenty of water.
usr : That very helpful advice, I think another stressful factor is being able to field questions effectively
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Ah, yes, that is a hard one. You are expected to be an expert. But you can only prepare so much.
usr : Agreed, and there is always that fear that you won't know an answer
sys : (Others) "That is a really great question that I've never considered! Maybe XYZ? I can check on that and get back to you with a sure answer though!"
| (Providing Suggestions) There's no shame in being able to say that you understand why someone would ask the question(whatever it may be) but that you don't have a full or even partial answer right now. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have to give an important presentation for my academic career and I am stressed about public speaking and my ability to give a coherent presentation". | sys : (Question) Good afternoon, how can I help you today?
usr : Hi there, I am just stressed about giving a presentation tomorrow
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is understandable, public speaking is one of the most commonly cited fears for people.
sys : (Question) Is it for work or for school?
usr : This presentation is for school
usr : I am indeed worried about public speaking
sys : (Self-disclosure) I actually majored in communication and have a great deal of experience with public speaking.
usr : That's interesting, I find public speaking to be especially difficult
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes, the physical nervousness that can manifest is powerful. I would highly recommend finding a quiet place to calm and focus your mind for at least five minutes before your presentation. At least a minute's worth of breathing, and drink plenty of water.
usr : That very helpful advice, I think another stressful factor is being able to field questions effectively
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Ah, yes, that is a hard one. You are expected to be an expert. But you can only prepare so much.
usr : Agreed, and there is always that fear that you won't know an answer
sys : (Others) "That is a really great question that I've never considered! Maybe XYZ? I can check on that and get back to you with a sure answer though!"
sys : (Providing Suggestions) There's no shame in being able to say that you understand why someone would ask the question(whatever it may be) but that you don't have a full or even partial answer right now.
| (Providing Suggestions) Because you're also going to get like, the hecklers and the people who want to look intelligent by asking asinine questions |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have to give an important presentation for my academic career and I am stressed about public speaking and my ability to give a coherent presentation". | sys : (Question) Good afternoon, how can I help you today?
usr : Hi there, I am just stressed about giving a presentation tomorrow
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is understandable, public speaking is one of the most commonly cited fears for people.
sys : (Question) Is it for work or for school?
usr : This presentation is for school
usr : I am indeed worried about public speaking
sys : (Self-disclosure) I actually majored in communication and have a great deal of experience with public speaking.
usr : That's interesting, I find public speaking to be especially difficult
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes, the physical nervousness that can manifest is powerful. I would highly recommend finding a quiet place to calm and focus your mind for at least five minutes before your presentation. At least a minute's worth of breathing, and drink plenty of water.
usr : That very helpful advice, I think another stressful factor is being able to field questions effectively
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Ah, yes, that is a hard one. You are expected to be an expert. But you can only prepare so much.
usr : Agreed, and there is always that fear that you won't know an answer
sys : (Others) "That is a really great question that I've never considered! Maybe XYZ? I can check on that and get back to you with a sure answer though!"
sys : (Providing Suggestions) There's no shame in being able to say that you understand why someone would ask the question(whatever it may be) but that you don't have a full or even partial answer right now.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Because you're also going to get like, the hecklers and the people who want to look intelligent by asking asinine questions
usr : I can understand that, as a I try to prepare for the presentation it's stressing me out about all of the different types of potential questions.
usr : But the advice you gave is very good
| (Providing Suggestions) Just feel confident that you have fulfilled the assignment according to the guidelines. Extra questions from students are wildcards and you can only handle them within the scope of the assignment. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have to give an important presentation for my academic career and I am stressed about public speaking and my ability to give a coherent presentation". | sys : (Question) Good afternoon, how can I help you today?
usr : Hi there, I am just stressed about giving a presentation tomorrow
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is understandable, public speaking is one of the most commonly cited fears for people.
sys : (Question) Is it for work or for school?
usr : This presentation is for school
usr : I am indeed worried about public speaking
sys : (Self-disclosure) I actually majored in communication and have a great deal of experience with public speaking.
usr : That's interesting, I find public speaking to be especially difficult
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes, the physical nervousness that can manifest is powerful. I would highly recommend finding a quiet place to calm and focus your mind for at least five minutes before your presentation. At least a minute's worth of breathing, and drink plenty of water.
usr : That very helpful advice, I think another stressful factor is being able to field questions effectively
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Ah, yes, that is a hard one. You are expected to be an expert. But you can only prepare so much.
usr : Agreed, and there is always that fear that you won't know an answer
sys : (Others) "That is a really great question that I've never considered! Maybe XYZ? I can check on that and get back to you with a sure answer though!"
sys : (Providing Suggestions) There's no shame in being able to say that you understand why someone would ask the question(whatever it may be) but that you don't have a full or even partial answer right now.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Because you're also going to get like, the hecklers and the people who want to look intelligent by asking asinine questions
usr : I can understand that, as a I try to prepare for the presentation it's stressing me out about all of the different types of potential questions.
usr : But the advice you gave is very good
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Just feel confident that you have fulfilled the assignment according to the guidelines. Extra questions from students are wildcards and you can only handle them within the scope of the assignment.
| (Others) If someone's like WELL WHY AREN'T THERE PURPLE PANDAS THEN, JEFF?! you're gonna have to just laugh lol |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have to give an important presentation for my academic career and I am stressed about public speaking and my ability to give a coherent presentation". | sys : (Question) Good afternoon, how can I help you today?
usr : Hi there, I am just stressed about giving a presentation tomorrow
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is understandable, public speaking is one of the most commonly cited fears for people.
sys : (Question) Is it for work or for school?
usr : This presentation is for school
usr : I am indeed worried about public speaking
sys : (Self-disclosure) I actually majored in communication and have a great deal of experience with public speaking.
usr : That's interesting, I find public speaking to be especially difficult
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes, the physical nervousness that can manifest is powerful. I would highly recommend finding a quiet place to calm and focus your mind for at least five minutes before your presentation. At least a minute's worth of breathing, and drink plenty of water.
usr : That very helpful advice, I think another stressful factor is being able to field questions effectively
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Ah, yes, that is a hard one. You are expected to be an expert. But you can only prepare so much.
usr : Agreed, and there is always that fear that you won't know an answer
sys : (Others) "That is a really great question that I've never considered! Maybe XYZ? I can check on that and get back to you with a sure answer though!"
sys : (Providing Suggestions) There's no shame in being able to say that you understand why someone would ask the question(whatever it may be) but that you don't have a full or even partial answer right now.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Because you're also going to get like, the hecklers and the people who want to look intelligent by asking asinine questions
usr : I can understand that, as a I try to prepare for the presentation it's stressing me out about all of the different types of potential questions.
usr : But the advice you gave is very good
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Just feel confident that you have fulfilled the assignment according to the guidelines. Extra questions from students are wildcards and you can only handle them within the scope of the assignment.
sys : (Others) If someone's like WELL WHY AREN'T THERE PURPLE PANDAS THEN, JEFF?! you're gonna have to just laugh lol
usr : That's fair! I suppose I will have to accept the fact that there is no way to prepare for every eventual question
| (Reflection of feelings) I think you will do great. You sound prepared, and a small amount of worry is an indication you desire to perform well. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have to give an important presentation for my academic career and I am stressed about public speaking and my ability to give a coherent presentation". | sys : (Question) Good afternoon, how can I help you today?
usr : Hi there, I am just stressed about giving a presentation tomorrow
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is understandable, public speaking is one of the most commonly cited fears for people.
sys : (Question) Is it for work or for school?
usr : This presentation is for school
usr : I am indeed worried about public speaking
sys : (Self-disclosure) I actually majored in communication and have a great deal of experience with public speaking.
usr : That's interesting, I find public speaking to be especially difficult
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes, the physical nervousness that can manifest is powerful. I would highly recommend finding a quiet place to calm and focus your mind for at least five minutes before your presentation. At least a minute's worth of breathing, and drink plenty of water.
usr : That very helpful advice, I think another stressful factor is being able to field questions effectively
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Ah, yes, that is a hard one. You are expected to be an expert. But you can only prepare so much.
usr : Agreed, and there is always that fear that you won't know an answer
sys : (Others) "That is a really great question that I've never considered! Maybe XYZ? I can check on that and get back to you with a sure answer though!"
sys : (Providing Suggestions) There's no shame in being able to say that you understand why someone would ask the question(whatever it may be) but that you don't have a full or even partial answer right now.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Because you're also going to get like, the hecklers and the people who want to look intelligent by asking asinine questions
usr : I can understand that, as a I try to prepare for the presentation it's stressing me out about all of the different types of potential questions.
usr : But the advice you gave is very good
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Just feel confident that you have fulfilled the assignment according to the guidelines. Extra questions from students are wildcards and you can only handle them within the scope of the assignment.
sys : (Others) If someone's like WELL WHY AREN'T THERE PURPLE PANDAS THEN, JEFF?! you're gonna have to just laugh lol
usr : That's fair! I suppose I will have to accept the fact that there is no way to prepare for every eventual question
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think you will do great. You sound prepared, and a small amount of worry is an indication you desire to perform well.
usr : Great thanks, this was very helpful.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm so glad to hear that! You have an excellent attitude and work ethic, you got this! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have to give an important presentation for my academic career and I am stressed about public speaking and my ability to give a coherent presentation". | sys : (Question) Good afternoon, how can I help you today?
usr : Hi there, I am just stressed about giving a presentation tomorrow
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is understandable, public speaking is one of the most commonly cited fears for people.
sys : (Question) Is it for work or for school?
usr : This presentation is for school
usr : I am indeed worried about public speaking
sys : (Self-disclosure) I actually majored in communication and have a great deal of experience with public speaking.
usr : That's interesting, I find public speaking to be especially difficult
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes, the physical nervousness that can manifest is powerful. I would highly recommend finding a quiet place to calm and focus your mind for at least five minutes before your presentation. At least a minute's worth of breathing, and drink plenty of water.
usr : That very helpful advice, I think another stressful factor is being able to field questions effectively
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Ah, yes, that is a hard one. You are expected to be an expert. But you can only prepare so much.
usr : Agreed, and there is always that fear that you won't know an answer
sys : (Others) "That is a really great question that I've never considered! Maybe XYZ? I can check on that and get back to you with a sure answer though!"
sys : (Providing Suggestions) There's no shame in being able to say that you understand why someone would ask the question(whatever it may be) but that you don't have a full or even partial answer right now.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Because you're also going to get like, the hecklers and the people who want to look intelligent by asking asinine questions
usr : I can understand that, as a I try to prepare for the presentation it's stressing me out about all of the different types of potential questions.
usr : But the advice you gave is very good
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Just feel confident that you have fulfilled the assignment according to the guidelines. Extra questions from students are wildcards and you can only handle them within the scope of the assignment.
sys : (Others) If someone's like WELL WHY AREN'T THERE PURPLE PANDAS THEN, JEFF?! you're gonna have to just laugh lol
usr : That's fair! I suppose I will have to accept the fact that there is no way to prepare for every eventual question
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think you will do great. You sound prepared, and a small amount of worry is an indication you desire to perform well.
usr : Great thanks, this was very helpful.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm so glad to hear that! You have an excellent attitude and work ethic, you got this!
usr : Appreciate your advice, have a good rest of your day
| (Others) You too! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend decided to leave her husband to pursue a woman and I don't support her.". | (Question) Hello how are you today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend decided to leave her husband to pursue a woman and I don't support her.". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm well thanks. How are you today?
| (Reflection of feelings) great thanks! So you have had a good day it sounds like then. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend decided to leave her husband to pursue a woman and I don't support her.". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm well thanks. How are you today?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) great thanks! So you have had a good day it sounds like then.
usr : For the most part... my friend told me she's leaving her husband so that was pretty shocking.
| (Question) how did that news make you feel? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend decided to leave her husband to pursue a woman and I don't support her.". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm well thanks. How are you today?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) great thanks! So you have had a good day it sounds like then.
usr : For the most part... my friend told me she's leaving her husband so that was pretty shocking.
sys : (Question) how did that news make you feel?
usr : Very confused and upset. They don't have problems, she just fell out of love with him and wants to be with a woman.
| (Self-disclosure) I have had feelings of uncertainity in my relationship before as well. I know these feelings can be upsetting |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend decided to leave her husband to pursue a woman and I don't support her.". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm well thanks. How are you today?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) great thanks! So you have had a good day it sounds like then.
usr : For the most part... my friend told me she's leaving her husband so that was pretty shocking.
sys : (Question) how did that news make you feel?
usr : Very confused and upset. They don't have problems, she just fell out of love with him and wants to be with a woman.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had feelings of uncertainity in my relationship before as well. I know these feelings can be upsetting
usr : Right. It's tough because we are all friends, she and I, our husbands and our children.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) oh goodness, that sounds like a difficult situation but at least you have your friends to help you through it |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend decided to leave her husband to pursue a woman and I don't support her.". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm well thanks. How are you today?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) great thanks! So you have had a good day it sounds like then.
usr : For the most part... my friend told me she's leaving her husband so that was pretty shocking.
sys : (Question) how did that news make you feel?
usr : Very confused and upset. They don't have problems, she just fell out of love with him and wants to be with a woman.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had feelings of uncertainity in my relationship before as well. I know these feelings can be upsetting
usr : Right. It's tough because we are all friends, she and I, our husbands and our children.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) oh goodness, that sounds like a difficult situation but at least you have your friends to help you through it
usr : Yes, they are all very upset with her. I am being the most patient but I don't like it.
| (Information) As the saying goes, good things come to those who are patient! Time heals almost everything |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend decided to leave her husband to pursue a woman and I don't support her.". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm well thanks. How are you today?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) great thanks! So you have had a good day it sounds like then.
usr : For the most part... my friend told me she's leaving her husband so that was pretty shocking.
sys : (Question) how did that news make you feel?
usr : Very confused and upset. They don't have problems, she just fell out of love with him and wants to be with a woman.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had feelings of uncertainity in my relationship before as well. I know these feelings can be upsetting
usr : Right. It's tough because we are all friends, she and I, our husbands and our children.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) oh goodness, that sounds like a difficult situation but at least you have your friends to help you through it
usr : Yes, they are all very upset with her. I am being the most patient but I don't like it.
sys : (Information) As the saying goes, good things come to those who are patient! Time heals almost everything
usr : I agree. I just feel like the behavior is so destructive and erratic.
| (Providing Suggestions) Maybe your friend doesn't realized the affect her actions has had on the people around her. Have you tried talking about your feelings with her personally? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend decided to leave her husband to pursue a woman and I don't support her.". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm well thanks. How are you today?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) great thanks! So you have had a good day it sounds like then.
usr : For the most part... my friend told me she's leaving her husband so that was pretty shocking.
sys : (Question) how did that news make you feel?
usr : Very confused and upset. They don't have problems, she just fell out of love with him and wants to be with a woman.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had feelings of uncertainity in my relationship before as well. I know these feelings can be upsetting
usr : Right. It's tough because we are all friends, she and I, our husbands and our children.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) oh goodness, that sounds like a difficult situation but at least you have your friends to help you through it
usr : Yes, they are all very upset with her. I am being the most patient but I don't like it.
sys : (Information) As the saying goes, good things come to those who are patient! Time heals almost everything
usr : I agree. I just feel like the behavior is so destructive and erratic.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe your friend doesn't realized the affect her actions has had on the people around her. Have you tried talking about your feelings with her personally?
usr : I have. She's very dismissive.
| (Providing Suggestions) If she doesn't care about how you feel maybe it would be best if you ended your friendship with her |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend decided to leave her husband to pursue a woman and I don't support her.". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm well thanks. How are you today?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) great thanks! So you have had a good day it sounds like then.
usr : For the most part... my friend told me she's leaving her husband so that was pretty shocking.
sys : (Question) how did that news make you feel?
usr : Very confused and upset. They don't have problems, she just fell out of love with him and wants to be with a woman.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had feelings of uncertainity in my relationship before as well. I know these feelings can be upsetting
usr : Right. It's tough because we are all friends, she and I, our husbands and our children.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) oh goodness, that sounds like a difficult situation but at least you have your friends to help you through it
usr : Yes, they are all very upset with her. I am being the most patient but I don't like it.
sys : (Information) As the saying goes, good things come to those who are patient! Time heals almost everything
usr : I agree. I just feel like the behavior is so destructive and erratic.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe your friend doesn't realized the affect her actions has had on the people around her. Have you tried talking about your feelings with her personally?
usr : I have. She's very dismissive.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) If she doesn't care about how you feel maybe it would be best if you ended your friendship with her
usr : I have considered that. My husband said the same. It's tough.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes I understand. I believe in you and your strength to overcome this! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend decided to leave her husband to pursue a woman and I don't support her.". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm well thanks. How are you today?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) great thanks! So you have had a good day it sounds like then.
usr : For the most part... my friend told me she's leaving her husband so that was pretty shocking.
sys : (Question) how did that news make you feel?
usr : Very confused and upset. They don't have problems, she just fell out of love with him and wants to be with a woman.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had feelings of uncertainity in my relationship before as well. I know these feelings can be upsetting
usr : Right. It's tough because we are all friends, she and I, our husbands and our children.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) oh goodness, that sounds like a difficult situation but at least you have your friends to help you through it
usr : Yes, they are all very upset with her. I am being the most patient but I don't like it.
sys : (Information) As the saying goes, good things come to those who are patient! Time heals almost everything
usr : I agree. I just feel like the behavior is so destructive and erratic.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe your friend doesn't realized the affect her actions has had on the people around her. Have you tried talking about your feelings with her personally?
usr : I have. She's very dismissive.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) If she doesn't care about how you feel maybe it would be best if you ended your friendship with her
usr : I have considered that. My husband said the same. It's tough.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes I understand. I believe in you and your strength to overcome this!
usr : Thank you for the encouragement! I know my family is what is important but this all just threw me for a loop.
| (Providing Suggestions) Try focusing on your family then, rather than other people. Maybe that will help you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend decided to leave her husband to pursue a woman and I don't support her.". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm well thanks. How are you today?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) great thanks! So you have had a good day it sounds like then.
usr : For the most part... my friend told me she's leaving her husband so that was pretty shocking.
sys : (Question) how did that news make you feel?
usr : Very confused and upset. They don't have problems, she just fell out of love with him and wants to be with a woman.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had feelings of uncertainity in my relationship before as well. I know these feelings can be upsetting
usr : Right. It's tough because we are all friends, she and I, our husbands and our children.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) oh goodness, that sounds like a difficult situation but at least you have your friends to help you through it
usr : Yes, they are all very upset with her. I am being the most patient but I don't like it.
sys : (Information) As the saying goes, good things come to those who are patient! Time heals almost everything
usr : I agree. I just feel like the behavior is so destructive and erratic.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe your friend doesn't realized the affect her actions has had on the people around her. Have you tried talking about your feelings with her personally?
usr : I have. She's very dismissive.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) If she doesn't care about how you feel maybe it would be best if you ended your friendship with her
usr : I have considered that. My husband said the same. It's tough.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes I understand. I believe in you and your strength to overcome this!
usr : Thank you for the encouragement! I know my family is what is important but this all just threw me for a loop.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try focusing on your family then, rather than other people. Maybe that will help you
usr : I think that's what I have to do.
usr : Thank you for the advice.
| (Question) Other than that, are you okay? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just cannot find motivation to work and live. I am depressed and want to do nothing but stay in a hole and sleep. My work performance is suffering and I have no energy.". | usr : Hello, I hope you can help.
| (Others) Hi there! How can I help you today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just cannot find motivation to work and live. I am depressed and want to do nothing but stay in a hole and sleep. My work performance is suffering and I have no energy.". | usr : Hello, I hope you can help.
sys : (Others) Hi there! How can I help you today?
usr : I am depressed and have zero motivation, especially at work.
| (Question) I hear you. Is there a particular reason why you might feel this way? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just cannot find motivation to work and live. I am depressed and want to do nothing but stay in a hole and sleep. My work performance is suffering and I have no energy.". | usr : Hello, I hope you can help.
sys : (Others) Hi there! How can I help you today?
usr : I am depressed and have zero motivation, especially at work.
sys : (Question) I hear you. Is there a particular reason why you might feel this way?
usr : I don't know. I just don't have any energy. Life just has too many problems. It is too much weight to carry.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is it that your life is just getting so stressful and busy that work feels like the last straw? Correct me if I'm wrong. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just cannot find motivation to work and live. I am depressed and want to do nothing but stay in a hole and sleep. My work performance is suffering and I have no energy.". | usr : Hello, I hope you can help.
sys : (Others) Hi there! How can I help you today?
usr : I am depressed and have zero motivation, especially at work.
sys : (Question) I hear you. Is there a particular reason why you might feel this way?
usr : I don't know. I just don't have any energy. Life just has too many problems. It is too much weight to carry.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is it that your life is just getting so stressful and busy that work feels like the last straw? Correct me if I'm wrong.
usr : I guess work itself isn't the problem. My job is a little boring, but not that bad. I think everything else in life is just too much. And it leaves me with no energy for anything else, like work.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah, I understand that feeling completely. It's totally normal given the current situation and even without the whole virus situation, life is just tough. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just cannot find motivation to work and live. I am depressed and want to do nothing but stay in a hole and sleep. My work performance is suffering and I have no energy.". | usr : Hello, I hope you can help.
sys : (Others) Hi there! How can I help you today?
usr : I am depressed and have zero motivation, especially at work.
sys : (Question) I hear you. Is there a particular reason why you might feel this way?
usr : I don't know. I just don't have any energy. Life just has too many problems. It is too much weight to carry.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is it that your life is just getting so stressful and busy that work feels like the last straw? Correct me if I'm wrong.
usr : I guess work itself isn't the problem. My job is a little boring, but not that bad. I think everything else in life is just too much. And it leaves me with no energy for anything else, like work.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah, I understand that feeling completely. It's totally normal given the current situation and even without the whole virus situation, life is just tough.
| (Question) Do you work in the mornings? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just cannot find motivation to work and live. I am depressed and want to do nothing but stay in a hole and sleep. My work performance is suffering and I have no energy.". | usr : Hello, I hope you can help.
sys : (Others) Hi there! How can I help you today?
usr : I am depressed and have zero motivation, especially at work.
sys : (Question) I hear you. Is there a particular reason why you might feel this way?
usr : I don't know. I just don't have any energy. Life just has too many problems. It is too much weight to carry.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is it that your life is just getting so stressful and busy that work feels like the last straw? Correct me if I'm wrong.
usr : I guess work itself isn't the problem. My job is a little boring, but not that bad. I think everything else in life is just too much. And it leaves me with no energy for anything else, like work.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah, I understand that feeling completely. It's totally normal given the current situation and even without the whole virus situation, life is just tough.
sys : (Question) Do you work in the mornings?
usr : Yes, the virus doesn't help. And my parents have health problems which is scary. I start work in the morning. I work a normal 8 hour day, sometimes 9 or 10 hours.
| (Reflection of feelings) Just from hearing that I can imagine your stress and how hard it must be to get through a single day. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just cannot find motivation to work and live. I am depressed and want to do nothing but stay in a hole and sleep. My work performance is suffering and I have no energy.". | usr : Hello, I hope you can help.
sys : (Others) Hi there! How can I help you today?
usr : I am depressed and have zero motivation, especially at work.
sys : (Question) I hear you. Is there a particular reason why you might feel this way?
usr : I don't know. I just don't have any energy. Life just has too many problems. It is too much weight to carry.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is it that your life is just getting so stressful and busy that work feels like the last straw? Correct me if I'm wrong.
usr : I guess work itself isn't the problem. My job is a little boring, but not that bad. I think everything else in life is just too much. And it leaves me with no energy for anything else, like work.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah, I understand that feeling completely. It's totally normal given the current situation and even without the whole virus situation, life is just tough.
sys : (Question) Do you work in the mornings?
usr : Yes, the virus doesn't help. And my parents have health problems which is scary. I start work in the morning. I work a normal 8 hour day, sometimes 9 or 10 hours.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just from hearing that I can imagine your stress and how hard it must be to get through a single day.
| (Question) Do you think it would be possible to get a day off or change your hours a bit? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just cannot find motivation to work and live. I am depressed and want to do nothing but stay in a hole and sleep. My work performance is suffering and I have no energy.". | usr : Hello, I hope you can help.
sys : (Others) Hi there! How can I help you today?
usr : I am depressed and have zero motivation, especially at work.
sys : (Question) I hear you. Is there a particular reason why you might feel this way?
usr : I don't know. I just don't have any energy. Life just has too many problems. It is too much weight to carry.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is it that your life is just getting so stressful and busy that work feels like the last straw? Correct me if I'm wrong.
usr : I guess work itself isn't the problem. My job is a little boring, but not that bad. I think everything else in life is just too much. And it leaves me with no energy for anything else, like work.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah, I understand that feeling completely. It's totally normal given the current situation and even without the whole virus situation, life is just tough.
sys : (Question) Do you work in the mornings?
usr : Yes, the virus doesn't help. And my parents have health problems which is scary. I start work in the morning. I work a normal 8 hour day, sometimes 9 or 10 hours.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just from hearing that I can imagine your stress and how hard it must be to get through a single day.
sys : (Question) Do you think it would be possible to get a day off or change your hours a bit?
usr : Yes, it can be quite hard. Very exhausting.
usr : Yes, I do have time off. I plan on taking 3 days off at the end of the month.
usr : For a small getaway.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah, that could be exactly what you need! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just cannot find motivation to work and live. I am depressed and want to do nothing but stay in a hole and sleep. My work performance is suffering and I have no energy.". | usr : Hello, I hope you can help.
sys : (Others) Hi there! How can I help you today?
usr : I am depressed and have zero motivation, especially at work.
sys : (Question) I hear you. Is there a particular reason why you might feel this way?
usr : I don't know. I just don't have any energy. Life just has too many problems. It is too much weight to carry.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is it that your life is just getting so stressful and busy that work feels like the last straw? Correct me if I'm wrong.
usr : I guess work itself isn't the problem. My job is a little boring, but not that bad. I think everything else in life is just too much. And it leaves me with no energy for anything else, like work.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah, I understand that feeling completely. It's totally normal given the current situation and even without the whole virus situation, life is just tough.
sys : (Question) Do you work in the mornings?
usr : Yes, the virus doesn't help. And my parents have health problems which is scary. I start work in the morning. I work a normal 8 hour day, sometimes 9 or 10 hours.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just from hearing that I can imagine your stress and how hard it must be to get through a single day.
sys : (Question) Do you think it would be possible to get a day off or change your hours a bit?
usr : Yes, it can be quite hard. Very exhausting.
usr : Yes, I do have time off. I plan on taking 3 days off at the end of the month.
usr : For a small getaway.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah, that could be exactly what you need!
| (Providing Suggestions) I suggest you take that time to completely detox and get away from work and your problems |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just cannot find motivation to work and live. I am depressed and want to do nothing but stay in a hole and sleep. My work performance is suffering and I have no energy.". | usr : Hello, I hope you can help.
sys : (Others) Hi there! How can I help you today?
usr : I am depressed and have zero motivation, especially at work.
sys : (Question) I hear you. Is there a particular reason why you might feel this way?
usr : I don't know. I just don't have any energy. Life just has too many problems. It is too much weight to carry.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is it that your life is just getting so stressful and busy that work feels like the last straw? Correct me if I'm wrong.
usr : I guess work itself isn't the problem. My job is a little boring, but not that bad. I think everything else in life is just too much. And it leaves me with no energy for anything else, like work.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah, I understand that feeling completely. It's totally normal given the current situation and even without the whole virus situation, life is just tough.
sys : (Question) Do you work in the mornings?
usr : Yes, the virus doesn't help. And my parents have health problems which is scary. I start work in the morning. I work a normal 8 hour day, sometimes 9 or 10 hours.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just from hearing that I can imagine your stress and how hard it must be to get through a single day.
sys : (Question) Do you think it would be possible to get a day off or change your hours a bit?
usr : Yes, it can be quite hard. Very exhausting.
usr : Yes, I do have time off. I plan on taking 3 days off at the end of the month.
usr : For a small getaway.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah, that could be exactly what you need!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest you take that time to completely detox and get away from work and your problems
usr : Yes, I think that will help. And time spent reading.
usr : What do you suggest until then?
| (Providing Suggestions) Until then, I suggest you prepare a little bit for the trip each day. Give yourself something to look forward to |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just cannot find motivation to work and live. I am depressed and want to do nothing but stay in a hole and sleep. My work performance is suffering and I have no energy.". | usr : Hello, I hope you can help.
sys : (Others) Hi there! How can I help you today?
usr : I am depressed and have zero motivation, especially at work.
sys : (Question) I hear you. Is there a particular reason why you might feel this way?
usr : I don't know. I just don't have any energy. Life just has too many problems. It is too much weight to carry.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is it that your life is just getting so stressful and busy that work feels like the last straw? Correct me if I'm wrong.
usr : I guess work itself isn't the problem. My job is a little boring, but not that bad. I think everything else in life is just too much. And it leaves me with no energy for anything else, like work.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah, I understand that feeling completely. It's totally normal given the current situation and even without the whole virus situation, life is just tough.
sys : (Question) Do you work in the mornings?
usr : Yes, the virus doesn't help. And my parents have health problems which is scary. I start work in the morning. I work a normal 8 hour day, sometimes 9 or 10 hours.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just from hearing that I can imagine your stress and how hard it must be to get through a single day.
sys : (Question) Do you think it would be possible to get a day off or change your hours a bit?
usr : Yes, it can be quite hard. Very exhausting.
usr : Yes, I do have time off. I plan on taking 3 days off at the end of the month.
usr : For a small getaway.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah, that could be exactly what you need!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest you take that time to completely detox and get away from work and your problems
usr : Yes, I think that will help. And time spent reading.
usr : What do you suggest until then?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Until then, I suggest you prepare a little bit for the trip each day. Give yourself something to look forward to
usr : Yes, that does help me feel good. I wonder if morning exercise might help?
| (Providing Suggestions) For example, packing a bit of clothes each night or planning which places you'll visit |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just cannot find motivation to work and live. I am depressed and want to do nothing but stay in a hole and sleep. My work performance is suffering and I have no energy.". | usr : Hello, I hope you can help.
sys : (Others) Hi there! How can I help you today?
usr : I am depressed and have zero motivation, especially at work.
sys : (Question) I hear you. Is there a particular reason why you might feel this way?
usr : I don't know. I just don't have any energy. Life just has too many problems. It is too much weight to carry.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is it that your life is just getting so stressful and busy that work feels like the last straw? Correct me if I'm wrong.
usr : I guess work itself isn't the problem. My job is a little boring, but not that bad. I think everything else in life is just too much. And it leaves me with no energy for anything else, like work.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah, I understand that feeling completely. It's totally normal given the current situation and even without the whole virus situation, life is just tough.
sys : (Question) Do you work in the mornings?
usr : Yes, the virus doesn't help. And my parents have health problems which is scary. I start work in the morning. I work a normal 8 hour day, sometimes 9 or 10 hours.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just from hearing that I can imagine your stress and how hard it must be to get through a single day.
sys : (Question) Do you think it would be possible to get a day off or change your hours a bit?
usr : Yes, it can be quite hard. Very exhausting.
usr : Yes, I do have time off. I plan on taking 3 days off at the end of the month.
usr : For a small getaway.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah, that could be exactly what you need!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest you take that time to completely detox and get away from work and your problems
usr : Yes, I think that will help. And time spent reading.
usr : What do you suggest until then?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Until then, I suggest you prepare a little bit for the trip each day. Give yourself something to look forward to
usr : Yes, that does help me feel good. I wonder if morning exercise might help?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) For example, packing a bit of clothes each night or planning which places you'll visit
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes! Morning exercise will definitely help eliminate stress and make you feel better about your health and more comfortable |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just cannot find motivation to work and live. I am depressed and want to do nothing but stay in a hole and sleep. My work performance is suffering and I have no energy.". | usr : Hello, I hope you can help.
sys : (Others) Hi there! How can I help you today?
usr : I am depressed and have zero motivation, especially at work.
sys : (Question) I hear you. Is there a particular reason why you might feel this way?
usr : I don't know. I just don't have any energy. Life just has too many problems. It is too much weight to carry.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is it that your life is just getting so stressful and busy that work feels like the last straw? Correct me if I'm wrong.
usr : I guess work itself isn't the problem. My job is a little boring, but not that bad. I think everything else in life is just too much. And it leaves me with no energy for anything else, like work.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah, I understand that feeling completely. It's totally normal given the current situation and even without the whole virus situation, life is just tough.
sys : (Question) Do you work in the mornings?
usr : Yes, the virus doesn't help. And my parents have health problems which is scary. I start work in the morning. I work a normal 8 hour day, sometimes 9 or 10 hours.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just from hearing that I can imagine your stress and how hard it must be to get through a single day.
sys : (Question) Do you think it would be possible to get a day off or change your hours a bit?
usr : Yes, it can be quite hard. Very exhausting.
usr : Yes, I do have time off. I plan on taking 3 days off at the end of the month.
usr : For a small getaway.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah, that could be exactly what you need!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest you take that time to completely detox and get away from work and your problems
usr : Yes, I think that will help. And time spent reading.
usr : What do you suggest until then?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Until then, I suggest you prepare a little bit for the trip each day. Give yourself something to look forward to
usr : Yes, that does help me feel good. I wonder if morning exercise might help?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) For example, packing a bit of clothes each night or planning which places you'll visit
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes! Morning exercise will definitely help eliminate stress and make you feel better about your health and more comfortable
| (Others) Take it slow and don't forget to breathe :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just cannot find motivation to work and live. I am depressed and want to do nothing but stay in a hole and sleep. My work performance is suffering and I have no energy.". | usr : Hello, I hope you can help.
sys : (Others) Hi there! How can I help you today?
usr : I am depressed and have zero motivation, especially at work.
sys : (Question) I hear you. Is there a particular reason why you might feel this way?
usr : I don't know. I just don't have any energy. Life just has too many problems. It is too much weight to carry.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is it that your life is just getting so stressful and busy that work feels like the last straw? Correct me if I'm wrong.
usr : I guess work itself isn't the problem. My job is a little boring, but not that bad. I think everything else in life is just too much. And it leaves me with no energy for anything else, like work.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah, I understand that feeling completely. It's totally normal given the current situation and even without the whole virus situation, life is just tough.
sys : (Question) Do you work in the mornings?
usr : Yes, the virus doesn't help. And my parents have health problems which is scary. I start work in the morning. I work a normal 8 hour day, sometimes 9 or 10 hours.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just from hearing that I can imagine your stress and how hard it must be to get through a single day.
sys : (Question) Do you think it would be possible to get a day off or change your hours a bit?
usr : Yes, it can be quite hard. Very exhausting.
usr : Yes, I do have time off. I plan on taking 3 days off at the end of the month.
usr : For a small getaway.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah, that could be exactly what you need!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest you take that time to completely detox and get away from work and your problems
usr : Yes, I think that will help. And time spent reading.
usr : What do you suggest until then?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Until then, I suggest you prepare a little bit for the trip each day. Give yourself something to look forward to
usr : Yes, that does help me feel good. I wonder if morning exercise might help?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) For example, packing a bit of clothes each night or planning which places you'll visit
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes! Morning exercise will definitely help eliminate stress and make you feel better about your health and more comfortable
sys : (Others) Take it slow and don't forget to breathe :)
usr : Yes, that sounds nice. Breathing is great! I have been doing breathing meditation, which helps.
usr : THank you for the support.
| (Others) No problem! Is there anything else I can help with today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just cannot find motivation to work and live. I am depressed and want to do nothing but stay in a hole and sleep. My work performance is suffering and I have no energy.". | usr : Hello, I hope you can help.
sys : (Others) Hi there! How can I help you today?
usr : I am depressed and have zero motivation, especially at work.
sys : (Question) I hear you. Is there a particular reason why you might feel this way?
usr : I don't know. I just don't have any energy. Life just has too many problems. It is too much weight to carry.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is it that your life is just getting so stressful and busy that work feels like the last straw? Correct me if I'm wrong.
usr : I guess work itself isn't the problem. My job is a little boring, but not that bad. I think everything else in life is just too much. And it leaves me with no energy for anything else, like work.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah, I understand that feeling completely. It's totally normal given the current situation and even without the whole virus situation, life is just tough.
sys : (Question) Do you work in the mornings?
usr : Yes, the virus doesn't help. And my parents have health problems which is scary. I start work in the morning. I work a normal 8 hour day, sometimes 9 or 10 hours.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just from hearing that I can imagine your stress and how hard it must be to get through a single day.
sys : (Question) Do you think it would be possible to get a day off or change your hours a bit?
usr : Yes, it can be quite hard. Very exhausting.
usr : Yes, I do have time off. I plan on taking 3 days off at the end of the month.
usr : For a small getaway.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah, that could be exactly what you need!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest you take that time to completely detox and get away from work and your problems
usr : Yes, I think that will help. And time spent reading.
usr : What do you suggest until then?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Until then, I suggest you prepare a little bit for the trip each day. Give yourself something to look forward to
usr : Yes, that does help me feel good. I wonder if morning exercise might help?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) For example, packing a bit of clothes each night or planning which places you'll visit
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes! Morning exercise will definitely help eliminate stress and make you feel better about your health and more comfortable
sys : (Others) Take it slow and don't forget to breathe :)
usr : Yes, that sounds nice. Breathing is great! I have been doing breathing meditation, which helps.
usr : THank you for the support.
sys : (Others) No problem! Is there anything else I can help with today?
usr : No, I think that is all!
usr : Thank you for everything!
| (Others) Have a great day and no problem! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just cannot find motivation to work and live. I am depressed and want to do nothing but stay in a hole and sleep. My work performance is suffering and I have no energy.". | usr : Hello, I hope you can help.
sys : (Others) Hi there! How can I help you today?
usr : I am depressed and have zero motivation, especially at work.
sys : (Question) I hear you. Is there a particular reason why you might feel this way?
usr : I don't know. I just don't have any energy. Life just has too many problems. It is too much weight to carry.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is it that your life is just getting so stressful and busy that work feels like the last straw? Correct me if I'm wrong.
usr : I guess work itself isn't the problem. My job is a little boring, but not that bad. I think everything else in life is just too much. And it leaves me with no energy for anything else, like work.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah, I understand that feeling completely. It's totally normal given the current situation and even without the whole virus situation, life is just tough.
sys : (Question) Do you work in the mornings?
usr : Yes, the virus doesn't help. And my parents have health problems which is scary. I start work in the morning. I work a normal 8 hour day, sometimes 9 or 10 hours.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just from hearing that I can imagine your stress and how hard it must be to get through a single day.
sys : (Question) Do you think it would be possible to get a day off or change your hours a bit?
usr : Yes, it can be quite hard. Very exhausting.
usr : Yes, I do have time off. I plan on taking 3 days off at the end of the month.
usr : For a small getaway.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah, that could be exactly what you need!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest you take that time to completely detox and get away from work and your problems
usr : Yes, I think that will help. And time spent reading.
usr : What do you suggest until then?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Until then, I suggest you prepare a little bit for the trip each day. Give yourself something to look forward to
usr : Yes, that does help me feel good. I wonder if morning exercise might help?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) For example, packing a bit of clothes each night or planning which places you'll visit
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes! Morning exercise will definitely help eliminate stress and make you feel better about your health and more comfortable
sys : (Others) Take it slow and don't forget to breathe :)
usr : Yes, that sounds nice. Breathing is great! I have been doing breathing meditation, which helps.
usr : THank you for the support.
sys : (Others) No problem! Is there anything else I can help with today?
usr : No, I think that is all!
usr : Thank you for everything!
sys : (Others) Have a great day and no problem!
usr : You too!
| (Others) I will, thanks |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend broke up with me and now I have no motivation and I am depressed most of the time.". | usr : Hello?
| (Information) Hi |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend broke up with me and now I have no motivation and I am depressed most of the time.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Information) Hi
usr : I could use some help. I'm not feeling so well.
| (Question) What can I help you with tonight> |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend broke up with me and now I have no motivation and I am depressed most of the time.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Information) Hi
usr : I could use some help. I'm not feeling so well.
sys : (Question) What can I help you with tonight>
usr : My girlfriend broke up with me and I think I'm suffering from depression now. Everything feels like a chore and I'm sad all of the time.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) From what you are telling me, you are very upset about your girlfriend breaking up with you and you don't feel motivated to do anything, is that right? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend broke up with me and now I have no motivation and I am depressed most of the time.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Information) Hi
usr : I could use some help. I'm not feeling so well.
sys : (Question) What can I help you with tonight>
usr : My girlfriend broke up with me and I think I'm suffering from depression now. Everything feels like a chore and I'm sad all of the time.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) From what you are telling me, you are very upset about your girlfriend breaking up with you and you don't feel motivated to do anything, is that right?
usr : Yeah
| (Reflection of feelings) I can tell how anxious and upset that is making you feel. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend broke up with me and now I have no motivation and I am depressed most of the time.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Information) Hi
usr : I could use some help. I'm not feeling so well.
sys : (Question) What can I help you with tonight>
usr : My girlfriend broke up with me and I think I'm suffering from depression now. Everything feels like a chore and I'm sad all of the time.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) From what you are telling me, you are very upset about your girlfriend breaking up with you and you don't feel motivated to do anything, is that right?
usr : Yeah
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can tell how anxious and upset that is making you feel.
usr : I feel like a heavy weight is on me all the time. I'm not enjoying things I used to in the past.
| (Self-disclosure) I can definitely understand that feeling as I had an ex who cheated on me and had a child with another man, so I know how hard that is. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend broke up with me and now I have no motivation and I am depressed most of the time.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Information) Hi
usr : I could use some help. I'm not feeling so well.
sys : (Question) What can I help you with tonight>
usr : My girlfriend broke up with me and I think I'm suffering from depression now. Everything feels like a chore and I'm sad all of the time.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) From what you are telling me, you are very upset about your girlfriend breaking up with you and you don't feel motivated to do anything, is that right?
usr : Yeah
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can tell how anxious and upset that is making you feel.
usr : I feel like a heavy weight is on me all the time. I'm not enjoying things I used to in the past.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can definitely understand that feeling as I had an ex who cheated on me and had a child with another man, so I know how hard that is.
usr : How did you start to feel better?
| (Providing Suggestions) I focused a lot on myself and making more time to do some of the hobbies that I didn't get a chance to do when we were together. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend broke up with me and now I have no motivation and I am depressed most of the time.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Information) Hi
usr : I could use some help. I'm not feeling so well.
sys : (Question) What can I help you with tonight>
usr : My girlfriend broke up with me and I think I'm suffering from depression now. Everything feels like a chore and I'm sad all of the time.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) From what you are telling me, you are very upset about your girlfriend breaking up with you and you don't feel motivated to do anything, is that right?
usr : Yeah
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can tell how anxious and upset that is making you feel.
usr : I feel like a heavy weight is on me all the time. I'm not enjoying things I used to in the past.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can definitely understand that feeling as I had an ex who cheated on me and had a child with another man, so I know how hard that is.
usr : How did you start to feel better?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I focused a lot on myself and making more time to do some of the hobbies that I didn't get a chance to do when we were together.
usr : I wouldn't even know where to begin. I don't want to do anything right now.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know things are really hard right now, but I know you will make it through this! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend broke up with me and now I have no motivation and I am depressed most of the time.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Information) Hi
usr : I could use some help. I'm not feeling so well.
sys : (Question) What can I help you with tonight>
usr : My girlfriend broke up with me and I think I'm suffering from depression now. Everything feels like a chore and I'm sad all of the time.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) From what you are telling me, you are very upset about your girlfriend breaking up with you and you don't feel motivated to do anything, is that right?
usr : Yeah
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can tell how anxious and upset that is making you feel.
usr : I feel like a heavy weight is on me all the time. I'm not enjoying things I used to in the past.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can definitely understand that feeling as I had an ex who cheated on me and had a child with another man, so I know how hard that is.
usr : How did you start to feel better?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I focused a lot on myself and making more time to do some of the hobbies that I didn't get a chance to do when we were together.
usr : I wouldn't even know where to begin. I don't want to do anything right now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know things are really hard right now, but I know you will make it through this!
usr : Thanks, I appreciate it. What do you suggest I should do to begin with?
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked to her since she broke up with you? Sometimes it helps to talk with your ex so you can get closure on the situation. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend broke up with me and now I have no motivation and I am depressed most of the time.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Information) Hi
usr : I could use some help. I'm not feeling so well.
sys : (Question) What can I help you with tonight>
usr : My girlfriend broke up with me and I think I'm suffering from depression now. Everything feels like a chore and I'm sad all of the time.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) From what you are telling me, you are very upset about your girlfriend breaking up with you and you don't feel motivated to do anything, is that right?
usr : Yeah
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can tell how anxious and upset that is making you feel.
usr : I feel like a heavy weight is on me all the time. I'm not enjoying things I used to in the past.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can definitely understand that feeling as I had an ex who cheated on me and had a child with another man, so I know how hard that is.
usr : How did you start to feel better?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I focused a lot on myself and making more time to do some of the hobbies that I didn't get a chance to do when we were together.
usr : I wouldn't even know where to begin. I don't want to do anything right now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know things are really hard right now, but I know you will make it through this!
usr : Thanks, I appreciate it. What do you suggest I should do to begin with?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked to her since she broke up with you? Sometimes it helps to talk with your ex so you can get closure on the situation.
usr : No I haven't talked to her. I think that would only make me feel worse right now.
| (Providing Suggestions) I understand that, have you tried to talk to a friend or family member who has gone through the same thing? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend broke up with me and now I have no motivation and I am depressed most of the time.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Information) Hi
usr : I could use some help. I'm not feeling so well.
sys : (Question) What can I help you with tonight>
usr : My girlfriend broke up with me and I think I'm suffering from depression now. Everything feels like a chore and I'm sad all of the time.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) From what you are telling me, you are very upset about your girlfriend breaking up with you and you don't feel motivated to do anything, is that right?
usr : Yeah
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can tell how anxious and upset that is making you feel.
usr : I feel like a heavy weight is on me all the time. I'm not enjoying things I used to in the past.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can definitely understand that feeling as I had an ex who cheated on me and had a child with another man, so I know how hard that is.
usr : How did you start to feel better?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I focused a lot on myself and making more time to do some of the hobbies that I didn't get a chance to do when we were together.
usr : I wouldn't even know where to begin. I don't want to do anything right now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know things are really hard right now, but I know you will make it through this!
usr : Thanks, I appreciate it. What do you suggest I should do to begin with?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked to her since she broke up with you? Sometimes it helps to talk with your ex so you can get closure on the situation.
usr : No I haven't talked to her. I think that would only make me feel worse right now.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand that, have you tried to talk to a friend or family member who has gone through the same thing?
usr : No, I haven't yet but that is a good idea.
| (Others) Doing that definitely helped me too! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend broke up with me and now I have no motivation and I am depressed most of the time.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Information) Hi
usr : I could use some help. I'm not feeling so well.
sys : (Question) What can I help you with tonight>
usr : My girlfriend broke up with me and I think I'm suffering from depression now. Everything feels like a chore and I'm sad all of the time.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) From what you are telling me, you are very upset about your girlfriend breaking up with you and you don't feel motivated to do anything, is that right?
usr : Yeah
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can tell how anxious and upset that is making you feel.
usr : I feel like a heavy weight is on me all the time. I'm not enjoying things I used to in the past.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can definitely understand that feeling as I had an ex who cheated on me and had a child with another man, so I know how hard that is.
usr : How did you start to feel better?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I focused a lot on myself and making more time to do some of the hobbies that I didn't get a chance to do when we were together.
usr : I wouldn't even know where to begin. I don't want to do anything right now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know things are really hard right now, but I know you will make it through this!
usr : Thanks, I appreciate it. What do you suggest I should do to begin with?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked to her since she broke up with you? Sometimes it helps to talk with your ex so you can get closure on the situation.
usr : No I haven't talked to her. I think that would only make me feel worse right now.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand that, have you tried to talk to a friend or family member who has gone through the same thing?
usr : No, I haven't yet but that is a good idea.
sys : (Others) Doing that definitely helped me too!
usr : I was thinking about going to a gym.
| (Others) I think that would definitely help too! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend broke up with me and now I have no motivation and I am depressed most of the time.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Information) Hi
usr : I could use some help. I'm not feeling so well.
sys : (Question) What can I help you with tonight>
usr : My girlfriend broke up with me and I think I'm suffering from depression now. Everything feels like a chore and I'm sad all of the time.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) From what you are telling me, you are very upset about your girlfriend breaking up with you and you don't feel motivated to do anything, is that right?
usr : Yeah
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can tell how anxious and upset that is making you feel.
usr : I feel like a heavy weight is on me all the time. I'm not enjoying things I used to in the past.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can definitely understand that feeling as I had an ex who cheated on me and had a child with another man, so I know how hard that is.
usr : How did you start to feel better?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I focused a lot on myself and making more time to do some of the hobbies that I didn't get a chance to do when we were together.
usr : I wouldn't even know where to begin. I don't want to do anything right now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know things are really hard right now, but I know you will make it through this!
usr : Thanks, I appreciate it. What do you suggest I should do to begin with?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked to her since she broke up with you? Sometimes it helps to talk with your ex so you can get closure on the situation.
usr : No I haven't talked to her. I think that would only make me feel worse right now.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand that, have you tried to talk to a friend or family member who has gone through the same thing?
usr : No, I haven't yet but that is a good idea.
sys : (Others) Doing that definitely helped me too!
usr : I was thinking about going to a gym.
sys : (Others) I think that would definitely help too!
usr : I want to start dating in the future but I am afraid.
| (Self-disclosure) I felt the same way for a while after my breakup as well, but after I took my time it was good to get back into the dating game. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend broke up with me and now I have no motivation and I am depressed most of the time.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Information) Hi
usr : I could use some help. I'm not feeling so well.
sys : (Question) What can I help you with tonight>
usr : My girlfriend broke up with me and I think I'm suffering from depression now. Everything feels like a chore and I'm sad all of the time.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) From what you are telling me, you are very upset about your girlfriend breaking up with you and you don't feel motivated to do anything, is that right?
usr : Yeah
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can tell how anxious and upset that is making you feel.
usr : I feel like a heavy weight is on me all the time. I'm not enjoying things I used to in the past.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can definitely understand that feeling as I had an ex who cheated on me and had a child with another man, so I know how hard that is.
usr : How did you start to feel better?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I focused a lot on myself and making more time to do some of the hobbies that I didn't get a chance to do when we were together.
usr : I wouldn't even know where to begin. I don't want to do anything right now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know things are really hard right now, but I know you will make it through this!
usr : Thanks, I appreciate it. What do you suggest I should do to begin with?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked to her since she broke up with you? Sometimes it helps to talk with your ex so you can get closure on the situation.
usr : No I haven't talked to her. I think that would only make me feel worse right now.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand that, have you tried to talk to a friend or family member who has gone through the same thing?
usr : No, I haven't yet but that is a good idea.
sys : (Others) Doing that definitely helped me too!
usr : I was thinking about going to a gym.
sys : (Others) I think that would definitely help too!
usr : I want to start dating in the future but I am afraid.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I felt the same way for a while after my breakup as well, but after I took my time it was good to get back into the dating game.
usr : I appreciate the help.
| (Others) No problem! I am glad I was able to help you tonight, |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just lost my job of seven years and am anxious about finding a new one during the holidays in a pandemic.". | usr : Hello, I'm feeling a lot of anxiety.
| (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Do you know what may be causing ytour anxiety? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just lost my job of seven years and am anxious about finding a new one during the holidays in a pandemic.". | usr : Hello, I'm feeling a lot of anxiety.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Do you know what may be causing ytour anxiety?
usr : I found out I'm losing my job on January 1.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You lost your job? thats a tough situation. Is it due to covid? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just lost my job of seven years and am anxious about finding a new one during the holidays in a pandemic.". | usr : Hello, I'm feeling a lot of anxiety.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Do you know what may be causing ytour anxiety?
usr : I found out I'm losing my job on January 1.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You lost your job? thats a tough situation. Is it due to covid?
usr : No, not due to covid. It's a gig job, much like mturk, but the company is dropping people from my state on that date.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know its tough especially with the holidays and all. You have so many great skills and are such a hard worker I dont think you will have a problem at all finding something different. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just lost my job of seven years and am anxious about finding a new one during the holidays in a pandemic.". | usr : Hello, I'm feeling a lot of anxiety.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Do you know what may be causing ytour anxiety?
usr : I found out I'm losing my job on January 1.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You lost your job? thats a tough situation. Is it due to covid?
usr : No, not due to covid. It's a gig job, much like mturk, but the company is dropping people from my state on that date.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know its tough especially with the holidays and all. You have so many great skills and are such a hard worker I dont think you will have a problem at all finding something different.
usr : I've been looking at other companies, but learning a new system after all these years is difficult.
| (Self-disclosure) I remember a time I lost my job and felt my whole world crumbling but then I realized when one door closes another door opens. when those doors close it seems that its usually for the best because it opens the path for something bigger and greater for you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just lost my job of seven years and am anxious about finding a new one during the holidays in a pandemic.". | usr : Hello, I'm feeling a lot of anxiety.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Do you know what may be causing ytour anxiety?
usr : I found out I'm losing my job on January 1.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You lost your job? thats a tough situation. Is it due to covid?
usr : No, not due to covid. It's a gig job, much like mturk, but the company is dropping people from my state on that date.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know its tough especially with the holidays and all. You have so many great skills and are such a hard worker I dont think you will have a problem at all finding something different.
usr : I've been looking at other companies, but learning a new system after all these years is difficult.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember a time I lost my job and felt my whole world crumbling but then I realized when one door closes another door opens. when those doors close it seems that its usually for the best because it opens the path for something bigger and greater for you.
usr : That's true. I've thought about looking into new fields.
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you looked into some evening classes or maybe online schooling? I hear there are so many different options when it comes to online learning. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just lost my job of seven years and am anxious about finding a new one during the holidays in a pandemic.". | usr : Hello, I'm feeling a lot of anxiety.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Do you know what may be causing ytour anxiety?
usr : I found out I'm losing my job on January 1.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You lost your job? thats a tough situation. Is it due to covid?
usr : No, not due to covid. It's a gig job, much like mturk, but the company is dropping people from my state on that date.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know its tough especially with the holidays and all. You have so many great skills and are such a hard worker I dont think you will have a problem at all finding something different.
usr : I've been looking at other companies, but learning a new system after all these years is difficult.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember a time I lost my job and felt my whole world crumbling but then I realized when one door closes another door opens. when those doors close it seems that its usually for the best because it opens the path for something bigger and greater for you.
usr : That's true. I've thought about looking into new fields.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you looked into some evening classes or maybe online schooling? I hear there are so many different options when it comes to online learning.
usr : I was looking into that last night, but with covid, classes have had to cut enrollment and are already full for next semester.
| (Providing Suggestions) They are full? well what about surrounding towns? Have you sat down and really thought about your passions and what you enjoy doing? Maybe theres an elderly person who needs some companionship or something like that in town for the time being. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just lost my job of seven years and am anxious about finding a new one during the holidays in a pandemic.". | usr : Hello, I'm feeling a lot of anxiety.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Do you know what may be causing ytour anxiety?
usr : I found out I'm losing my job on January 1.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You lost your job? thats a tough situation. Is it due to covid?
usr : No, not due to covid. It's a gig job, much like mturk, but the company is dropping people from my state on that date.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know its tough especially with the holidays and all. You have so many great skills and are such a hard worker I dont think you will have a problem at all finding something different.
usr : I've been looking at other companies, but learning a new system after all these years is difficult.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember a time I lost my job and felt my whole world crumbling but then I realized when one door closes another door opens. when those doors close it seems that its usually for the best because it opens the path for something bigger and greater for you.
usr : That's true. I've thought about looking into new fields.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you looked into some evening classes or maybe online schooling? I hear there are so many different options when it comes to online learning.
usr : I was looking into that last night, but with covid, classes have had to cut enrollment and are already full for next semester.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) They are full? well what about surrounding towns? Have you sat down and really thought about your passions and what you enjoy doing? Maybe theres an elderly person who needs some companionship or something like that in town for the time being.
usr : I don't have a car, so I'm stuck doing classes locally. I think I'll just have to wait for the next semester.
| (Question) Is waiting until next semester something your willing to do? That would give you time to reflect on yourself and your future and figure out what you want to do as a career. I could give you a list of other online opportunities to make money if you would be interested. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just lost my job of seven years and am anxious about finding a new one during the holidays in a pandemic.". | usr : Hello, I'm feeling a lot of anxiety.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Do you know what may be causing ytour anxiety?
usr : I found out I'm losing my job on January 1.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You lost your job? thats a tough situation. Is it due to covid?
usr : No, not due to covid. It's a gig job, much like mturk, but the company is dropping people from my state on that date.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know its tough especially with the holidays and all. You have so many great skills and are such a hard worker I dont think you will have a problem at all finding something different.
usr : I've been looking at other companies, but learning a new system after all these years is difficult.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember a time I lost my job and felt my whole world crumbling but then I realized when one door closes another door opens. when those doors close it seems that its usually for the best because it opens the path for something bigger and greater for you.
usr : That's true. I've thought about looking into new fields.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you looked into some evening classes or maybe online schooling? I hear there are so many different options when it comes to online learning.
usr : I was looking into that last night, but with covid, classes have had to cut enrollment and are already full for next semester.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) They are full? well what about surrounding towns? Have you sat down and really thought about your passions and what you enjoy doing? Maybe theres an elderly person who needs some companionship or something like that in town for the time being.
usr : I don't have a car, so I'm stuck doing classes locally. I think I'll just have to wait for the next semester.
sys : (Question) Is waiting until next semester something your willing to do? That would give you time to reflect on yourself and your future and figure out what you want to do as a career. I could give you a list of other online opportunities to make money if you would be interested.
usr : I would be interested in that, thank you.
| (Others) your welcome. There are a lot of online options out there. That may be easier for you at the time being without a car. Do you have a support system of family or friends around here? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Procrastination. The seeker says
"I have to get a new job soon but it has been a year since I worked like that.". | usr : Hello
| (Question) Hello how are you |
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