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### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Procrastination. The seeker says
"I have to get a new job soon but it has been a year since I worked like that.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hello how are you
usr : I am ok
usr : HOw are you
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Why are just ok? Is there anything specific you would like to talk about? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Procrastination. The seeker says
"I have to get a new job soon but it has been a year since I worked like that.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hello how are you
usr : I am ok
usr : HOw are you
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Why are just ok? Is there anything specific you would like to talk about?
usr : I'm worried that transitioning to full time work will harm my relationship
| (Reflection of feelings) You seem quite concerned about this new chapter in your life. How will your employment hours affect your relationship? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Procrastination. The seeker says
"I have to get a new job soon but it has been a year since I worked like that.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hello how are you
usr : I am ok
usr : HOw are you
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Why are just ok? Is there anything specific you would like to talk about?
usr : I'm worried that transitioning to full time work will harm my relationship
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You seem quite concerned about this new chapter in your life. How will your employment hours affect your relationship?
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I recognize that this is a challenging topic for you to discuss. Is the idea of spending time away from your partner concern you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Procrastination. The seeker says
"I have to get a new job soon but it has been a year since I worked like that.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hello how are you
usr : I am ok
usr : HOw are you
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Why are just ok? Is there anything specific you would like to talk about?
usr : I'm worried that transitioning to full time work will harm my relationship
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You seem quite concerned about this new chapter in your life. How will your employment hours affect your relationship?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I recognize that this is a challenging topic for you to discuss. Is the idea of spending time away from your partner concern you?
| (Self-disclosure) I too had to relearn a proper balance between my personal and professional life. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Procrastination. The seeker says
"I have to get a new job soon but it has been a year since I worked like that.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hello how are you
usr : I am ok
usr : HOw are you
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Why are just ok? Is there anything specific you would like to talk about?
usr : I'm worried that transitioning to full time work will harm my relationship
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You seem quite concerned about this new chapter in your life. How will your employment hours affect your relationship?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I recognize that this is a challenging topic for you to discuss. Is the idea of spending time away from your partner concern you?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I too had to relearn a proper balance between my personal and professional life.
usr : She is worried we won't have time for each other but also expects me to support her
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is wonderful to feel that sense of desire and need. You need to make your personal happiness your top priority. I recognize the responsibly you are taking on, and I believe you are capable to balance between the two. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Procrastination. The seeker says
"I have to get a new job soon but it has been a year since I worked like that.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hello how are you
usr : I am ok
usr : HOw are you
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Why are just ok? Is there anything specific you would like to talk about?
usr : I'm worried that transitioning to full time work will harm my relationship
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You seem quite concerned about this new chapter in your life. How will your employment hours affect your relationship?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I recognize that this is a challenging topic for you to discuss. Is the idea of spending time away from your partner concern you?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I too had to relearn a proper balance between my personal and professional life.
usr : She is worried we won't have time for each other but also expects me to support her
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is wonderful to feel that sense of desire and need. You need to make your personal happiness your top priority. I recognize the responsibly you are taking on, and I believe you are capable to balance between the two.
usr : I would hope that getting the job would show my willingness to support her.
| (Reflection of feelings) Are you the aggressor in getting more hours, or have your work assignments and responsibilities that have changed? It is important to maintain self happiness and to aspire to make yourself your number one each and every day. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Procrastination. The seeker says
"I have to get a new job soon but it has been a year since I worked like that.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hello how are you
usr : I am ok
usr : HOw are you
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Why are just ok? Is there anything specific you would like to talk about?
usr : I'm worried that transitioning to full time work will harm my relationship
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You seem quite concerned about this new chapter in your life. How will your employment hours affect your relationship?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I recognize that this is a challenging topic for you to discuss. Is the idea of spending time away from your partner concern you?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I too had to relearn a proper balance between my personal and professional life.
usr : She is worried we won't have time for each other but also expects me to support her
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is wonderful to feel that sense of desire and need. You need to make your personal happiness your top priority. I recognize the responsibly you are taking on, and I believe you are capable to balance between the two.
usr : I would hope that getting the job would show my willingness to support her.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Are you the aggressor in getting more hours, or have your work assignments and responsibilities that have changed? It is important to maintain self happiness and to aspire to make yourself your number one each and every day.
usr : I want to get a good paying job so I can live somewhere better
| (Self-disclosure) I can relate. In my younger years, my end goal was to advance in life emotionally, mentally and physically. I always longed for a home to call my own. With time, patience, and dedication, you too will have you desires met. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Really dislike my job in this current environment and would like to try online sales". | (Question) Hi there, I am here to help you with your problems. What would you like to talk about? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Really dislike my job in this current environment and would like to try online sales". | sys : (Question) Hi there, I am here to help you with your problems. What would you like to talk about?
usr : I dislike my job but am unsure about trying online jobs that may not be what I want
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are feeling unsatisfied in your work but you are not sure how to change ? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Really dislike my job in this current environment and would like to try online sales". | sys : (Question) Hi there, I am here to help you with your problems. What would you like to talk about?
usr : I dislike my job but am unsure about trying online jobs that may not be what I want
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are feeling unsatisfied in your work but you are not sure how to change ?
usr : yes but more so not wanting to change due to uncertainty regarding what I may be walking into
| (Self-disclosure) I have been in this same position! Sometimes you have to take a leap, even though you are not sure what might happen. So far everything has worked out fine for me. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Really dislike my job in this current environment and would like to try online sales". | sys : (Question) Hi there, I am here to help you with your problems. What would you like to talk about?
usr : I dislike my job but am unsure about trying online jobs that may not be what I want
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are feeling unsatisfied in your work but you are not sure how to change ?
usr : yes but more so not wanting to change due to uncertainty regarding what I may be walking into
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have been in this same position! Sometimes you have to take a leap, even though you are not sure what might happen. So far everything has worked out fine for me.
usr : That's true. I just don't want to lose the benefits that I am currently entitled to at my current bad job
| (Providing Suggestions) It is a tricky situation, to be sure. Have you talked to anyone else about it? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Really dislike my job in this current environment and would like to try online sales". | sys : (Question) Hi there, I am here to help you with your problems. What would you like to talk about?
usr : I dislike my job but am unsure about trying online jobs that may not be what I want
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are feeling unsatisfied in your work but you are not sure how to change ?
usr : yes but more so not wanting to change due to uncertainty regarding what I may be walking into
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have been in this same position! Sometimes you have to take a leap, even though you are not sure what might happen. So far everything has worked out fine for me.
usr : That's true. I just don't want to lose the benefits that I am currently entitled to at my current bad job
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It is a tricky situation, to be sure. Have you talked to anyone else about it?
usr : yes my wife, and she is supportive either way so that's not a problem
| (Others) I am glad to hear that you have someone supportive in your life. What is your current line of work? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Really dislike my job in this current environment and would like to try online sales". | sys : (Question) Hi there, I am here to help you with your problems. What would you like to talk about?
usr : I dislike my job but am unsure about trying online jobs that may not be what I want
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are feeling unsatisfied in your work but you are not sure how to change ?
usr : yes but more so not wanting to change due to uncertainty regarding what I may be walking into
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have been in this same position! Sometimes you have to take a leap, even though you are not sure what might happen. So far everything has worked out fine for me.
usr : That's true. I just don't want to lose the benefits that I am currently entitled to at my current bad job
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It is a tricky situation, to be sure. Have you talked to anyone else about it?
usr : yes my wife, and she is supportive either way so that's not a problem
sys : (Others) I am glad to hear that you have someone supportive in your life. What is your current line of work?
usr : e-commerce manager for walmart stores inc
| (Question) Would you like a total change? Or just a change of scenery? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Really dislike my job in this current environment and would like to try online sales". | sys : (Question) Hi there, I am here to help you with your problems. What would you like to talk about?
usr : I dislike my job but am unsure about trying online jobs that may not be what I want
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are feeling unsatisfied in your work but you are not sure how to change ?
usr : yes but more so not wanting to change due to uncertainty regarding what I may be walking into
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have been in this same position! Sometimes you have to take a leap, even though you are not sure what might happen. So far everything has worked out fine for me.
usr : That's true. I just don't want to lose the benefits that I am currently entitled to at my current bad job
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It is a tricky situation, to be sure. Have you talked to anyone else about it?
usr : yes my wife, and she is supportive either way so that's not a problem
sys : (Others) I am glad to hear that you have someone supportive in your life. What is your current line of work?
usr : e-commerce manager for walmart stores inc
sys : (Question) Would you like a total change? Or just a change of scenery?
usr : looking to work exclusively at home in sales which is more my specialization, so yes to both questions
| (Self-disclosure) Online work can be very lucrative. I have been doing it for years personally. It is nice to be your own boss and choose your own hours. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Really dislike my job in this current environment and would like to try online sales". | sys : (Question) Hi there, I am here to help you with your problems. What would you like to talk about?
usr : I dislike my job but am unsure about trying online jobs that may not be what I want
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are feeling unsatisfied in your work but you are not sure how to change ?
usr : yes but more so not wanting to change due to uncertainty regarding what I may be walking into
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have been in this same position! Sometimes you have to take a leap, even though you are not sure what might happen. So far everything has worked out fine for me.
usr : That's true. I just don't want to lose the benefits that I am currently entitled to at my current bad job
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It is a tricky situation, to be sure. Have you talked to anyone else about it?
usr : yes my wife, and she is supportive either way so that's not a problem
sys : (Others) I am glad to hear that you have someone supportive in your life. What is your current line of work?
usr : e-commerce manager for walmart stores inc
sys : (Question) Would you like a total change? Or just a change of scenery?
usr : looking to work exclusively at home in sales which is more my specialization, so yes to both questions
sys : (Self-disclosure) Online work can be very lucrative. I have been doing it for years personally. It is nice to be your own boss and choose your own hours.
usr : I currently do day trading on the side and make great money at it but want something stable to challenge me
| (Reflection of feelings) It is true that stability is important. Do I hear you say that you are frightened of the insecurity of working from home? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Really dislike my job in this current environment and would like to try online sales". | sys : (Question) Hi there, I am here to help you with your problems. What would you like to talk about?
usr : I dislike my job but am unsure about trying online jobs that may not be what I want
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are feeling unsatisfied in your work but you are not sure how to change ?
usr : yes but more so not wanting to change due to uncertainty regarding what I may be walking into
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have been in this same position! Sometimes you have to take a leap, even though you are not sure what might happen. So far everything has worked out fine for me.
usr : That's true. I just don't want to lose the benefits that I am currently entitled to at my current bad job
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It is a tricky situation, to be sure. Have you talked to anyone else about it?
usr : yes my wife, and she is supportive either way so that's not a problem
sys : (Others) I am glad to hear that you have someone supportive in your life. What is your current line of work?
usr : e-commerce manager for walmart stores inc
sys : (Question) Would you like a total change? Or just a change of scenery?
usr : looking to work exclusively at home in sales which is more my specialization, so yes to both questions
sys : (Self-disclosure) Online work can be very lucrative. I have been doing it for years personally. It is nice to be your own boss and choose your own hours.
usr : I currently do day trading on the side and make great money at it but want something stable to challenge me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It is true that stability is important. Do I hear you say that you are frightened of the insecurity of working from home?
usr : more so the lack of benefits I would lose, especially healthcare
| (Question) Ah .. I am in the UK so we have socialised medicine :). Would you feel more comfortable if you lived in a country like that? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Really dislike my job in this current environment and would like to try online sales". | sys : (Question) Hi there, I am here to help you with your problems. What would you like to talk about?
usr : I dislike my job but am unsure about trying online jobs that may not be what I want
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are feeling unsatisfied in your work but you are not sure how to change ?
usr : yes but more so not wanting to change due to uncertainty regarding what I may be walking into
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have been in this same position! Sometimes you have to take a leap, even though you are not sure what might happen. So far everything has worked out fine for me.
usr : That's true. I just don't want to lose the benefits that I am currently entitled to at my current bad job
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It is a tricky situation, to be sure. Have you talked to anyone else about it?
usr : yes my wife, and she is supportive either way so that's not a problem
sys : (Others) I am glad to hear that you have someone supportive in your life. What is your current line of work?
usr : e-commerce manager for walmart stores inc
sys : (Question) Would you like a total change? Or just a change of scenery?
usr : looking to work exclusively at home in sales which is more my specialization, so yes to both questions
sys : (Self-disclosure) Online work can be very lucrative. I have been doing it for years personally. It is nice to be your own boss and choose your own hours.
usr : I currently do day trading on the side and make great money at it but want something stable to challenge me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It is true that stability is important. Do I hear you say that you are frightened of the insecurity of working from home?
usr : more so the lack of benefits I would lose, especially healthcare
sys : (Question) Ah .. I am in the UK so we have socialised medicine :). Would you feel more comfortable if you lived in a country like that?
usr : lol definitely! Currently I pay $750 monthly if I purchase healthcare on my own but only $163 monthly through my work
| (Others) Goodness .. I do not have to pay anything. Also our prescriptions are fixed at about ten pounds each. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Really dislike my job in this current environment and would like to try online sales". | sys : (Question) Hi there, I am here to help you with your problems. What would you like to talk about?
usr : I dislike my job but am unsure about trying online jobs that may not be what I want
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are feeling unsatisfied in your work but you are not sure how to change ?
usr : yes but more so not wanting to change due to uncertainty regarding what I may be walking into
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have been in this same position! Sometimes you have to take a leap, even though you are not sure what might happen. So far everything has worked out fine for me.
usr : That's true. I just don't want to lose the benefits that I am currently entitled to at my current bad job
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It is a tricky situation, to be sure. Have you talked to anyone else about it?
usr : yes my wife, and she is supportive either way so that's not a problem
sys : (Others) I am glad to hear that you have someone supportive in your life. What is your current line of work?
usr : e-commerce manager for walmart stores inc
sys : (Question) Would you like a total change? Or just a change of scenery?
usr : looking to work exclusively at home in sales which is more my specialization, so yes to both questions
sys : (Self-disclosure) Online work can be very lucrative. I have been doing it for years personally. It is nice to be your own boss and choose your own hours.
usr : I currently do day trading on the side and make great money at it but want something stable to challenge me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It is true that stability is important. Do I hear you say that you are frightened of the insecurity of working from home?
usr : more so the lack of benefits I would lose, especially healthcare
sys : (Question) Ah .. I am in the UK so we have socialised medicine :). Would you feel more comfortable if you lived in a country like that?
usr : lol definitely! Currently I pay $750 monthly if I purchase healthcare on my own but only $163 monthly through my work
sys : (Others) Goodness .. I do not have to pay anything. Also our prescriptions are fixed at about ten pounds each.
| (Others) I think maybe your job dilemma would be easier if you moved to a different country :D |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Really dislike my job in this current environment and would like to try online sales". | sys : (Question) Hi there, I am here to help you with your problems. What would you like to talk about?
usr : I dislike my job but am unsure about trying online jobs that may not be what I want
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are feeling unsatisfied in your work but you are not sure how to change ?
usr : yes but more so not wanting to change due to uncertainty regarding what I may be walking into
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have been in this same position! Sometimes you have to take a leap, even though you are not sure what might happen. So far everything has worked out fine for me.
usr : That's true. I just don't want to lose the benefits that I am currently entitled to at my current bad job
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It is a tricky situation, to be sure. Have you talked to anyone else about it?
usr : yes my wife, and she is supportive either way so that's not a problem
sys : (Others) I am glad to hear that you have someone supportive in your life. What is your current line of work?
usr : e-commerce manager for walmart stores inc
sys : (Question) Would you like a total change? Or just a change of scenery?
usr : looking to work exclusively at home in sales which is more my specialization, so yes to both questions
sys : (Self-disclosure) Online work can be very lucrative. I have been doing it for years personally. It is nice to be your own boss and choose your own hours.
usr : I currently do day trading on the side and make great money at it but want something stable to challenge me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It is true that stability is important. Do I hear you say that you are frightened of the insecurity of working from home?
usr : more so the lack of benefits I would lose, especially healthcare
sys : (Question) Ah .. I am in the UK so we have socialised medicine :). Would you feel more comfortable if you lived in a country like that?
usr : lol definitely! Currently I pay $750 monthly if I purchase healthcare on my own but only $163 monthly through my work
sys : (Others) Goodness .. I do not have to pay anything. Also our prescriptions are fixed at about ten pounds each.
sys : (Others) I think maybe your job dilemma would be easier if you moved to a different country :D
usr : I would lose about $3000 monthly leaving my job
| (Others) You might be able to make that much from home though. And what's life if you don't take the odd risk? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Really dislike my job in this current environment and would like to try online sales". | sys : (Question) Hi there, I am here to help you with your problems. What would you like to talk about?
usr : I dislike my job but am unsure about trying online jobs that may not be what I want
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are feeling unsatisfied in your work but you are not sure how to change ?
usr : yes but more so not wanting to change due to uncertainty regarding what I may be walking into
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have been in this same position! Sometimes you have to take a leap, even though you are not sure what might happen. So far everything has worked out fine for me.
usr : That's true. I just don't want to lose the benefits that I am currently entitled to at my current bad job
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It is a tricky situation, to be sure. Have you talked to anyone else about it?
usr : yes my wife, and she is supportive either way so that's not a problem
sys : (Others) I am glad to hear that you have someone supportive in your life. What is your current line of work?
usr : e-commerce manager for walmart stores inc
sys : (Question) Would you like a total change? Or just a change of scenery?
usr : looking to work exclusively at home in sales which is more my specialization, so yes to both questions
sys : (Self-disclosure) Online work can be very lucrative. I have been doing it for years personally. It is nice to be your own boss and choose your own hours.
usr : I currently do day trading on the side and make great money at it but want something stable to challenge me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It is true that stability is important. Do I hear you say that you are frightened of the insecurity of working from home?
usr : more so the lack of benefits I would lose, especially healthcare
sys : (Question) Ah .. I am in the UK so we have socialised medicine :). Would you feel more comfortable if you lived in a country like that?
usr : lol definitely! Currently I pay $750 monthly if I purchase healthcare on my own but only $163 monthly through my work
sys : (Others) Goodness .. I do not have to pay anything. Also our prescriptions are fixed at about ten pounds each.
sys : (Others) I think maybe your job dilemma would be easier if you moved to a different country :D
usr : I would lose about $3000 monthly leaving my job
sys : (Others) You might be able to make that much from home though. And what's life if you don't take the odd risk?
usr : still there?
| (Others) Yes I am :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Really dislike my job in this current environment and would like to try online sales". | sys : (Question) Hi there, I am here to help you with your problems. What would you like to talk about?
usr : I dislike my job but am unsure about trying online jobs that may not be what I want
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are feeling unsatisfied in your work but you are not sure how to change ?
usr : yes but more so not wanting to change due to uncertainty regarding what I may be walking into
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have been in this same position! Sometimes you have to take a leap, even though you are not sure what might happen. So far everything has worked out fine for me.
usr : That's true. I just don't want to lose the benefits that I am currently entitled to at my current bad job
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It is a tricky situation, to be sure. Have you talked to anyone else about it?
usr : yes my wife, and she is supportive either way so that's not a problem
sys : (Others) I am glad to hear that you have someone supportive in your life. What is your current line of work?
usr : e-commerce manager for walmart stores inc
sys : (Question) Would you like a total change? Or just a change of scenery?
usr : looking to work exclusively at home in sales which is more my specialization, so yes to both questions
sys : (Self-disclosure) Online work can be very lucrative. I have been doing it for years personally. It is nice to be your own boss and choose your own hours.
usr : I currently do day trading on the side and make great money at it but want something stable to challenge me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It is true that stability is important. Do I hear you say that you are frightened of the insecurity of working from home?
usr : more so the lack of benefits I would lose, especially healthcare
sys : (Question) Ah .. I am in the UK so we have socialised medicine :). Would you feel more comfortable if you lived in a country like that?
usr : lol definitely! Currently I pay $750 monthly if I purchase healthcare on my own but only $163 monthly through my work
sys : (Others) Goodness .. I do not have to pay anything. Also our prescriptions are fixed at about ten pounds each.
sys : (Others) I think maybe your job dilemma would be easier if you moved to a different country :D
usr : I would lose about $3000 monthly leaving my job
sys : (Others) You might be able to make that much from home though. And what's life if you don't take the odd risk?
usr : still there?
sys : (Others) Yes I am :)
| (Question) Is there anything else that you'd like to talk about ? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Really dislike my job in this current environment and would like to try online sales". | sys : (Question) Hi there, I am here to help you with your problems. What would you like to talk about?
usr : I dislike my job but am unsure about trying online jobs that may not be what I want
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are feeling unsatisfied in your work but you are not sure how to change ?
usr : yes but more so not wanting to change due to uncertainty regarding what I may be walking into
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have been in this same position! Sometimes you have to take a leap, even though you are not sure what might happen. So far everything has worked out fine for me.
usr : That's true. I just don't want to lose the benefits that I am currently entitled to at my current bad job
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It is a tricky situation, to be sure. Have you talked to anyone else about it?
usr : yes my wife, and she is supportive either way so that's not a problem
sys : (Others) I am glad to hear that you have someone supportive in your life. What is your current line of work?
usr : e-commerce manager for walmart stores inc
sys : (Question) Would you like a total change? Or just a change of scenery?
usr : looking to work exclusively at home in sales which is more my specialization, so yes to both questions
sys : (Self-disclosure) Online work can be very lucrative. I have been doing it for years personally. It is nice to be your own boss and choose your own hours.
usr : I currently do day trading on the side and make great money at it but want something stable to challenge me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It is true that stability is important. Do I hear you say that you are frightened of the insecurity of working from home?
usr : more so the lack of benefits I would lose, especially healthcare
sys : (Question) Ah .. I am in the UK so we have socialised medicine :). Would you feel more comfortable if you lived in a country like that?
usr : lol definitely! Currently I pay $750 monthly if I purchase healthcare on my own but only $163 monthly through my work
sys : (Others) Goodness .. I do not have to pay anything. Also our prescriptions are fixed at about ten pounds each.
sys : (Others) I think maybe your job dilemma would be easier if you moved to a different country :D
usr : I would lose about $3000 monthly leaving my job
sys : (Others) You might be able to make that much from home though. And what's life if you don't take the odd risk?
usr : still there?
sys : (Others) Yes I am :)
sys : (Question) Is there anything else that you'd like to talk about ?
| (Others) I hope I have been able to be of some help to you :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I have broken up with my partner of two years, she is amazing but I ended it as I thought my feelings had changed. I broke her heart but now I think I want her back but in afraid she might have moved on.". | usr : Hello there.
| (Others) Hello, how can I help you today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I have broken up with my partner of two years, she is amazing but I ended it as I thought my feelings had changed. I broke her heart but now I think I want her back but in afraid she might have moved on.". | usr : Hello there.
sys : (Others) Hello, how can I help you today?
usr : I'm having a bit of a bad time at the moment. I've been with my partner for 2 years she's great. unfortunately my feelings for her changed and we broke up recently. the problem is I think I've made a big mistake and worry that she's moved on with her life
| (Question) OK, thanks for explaining. Can I ask what makes you think she has moved on with her life? how recently did you guys split up? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I have broken up with my partner of two years, she is amazing but I ended it as I thought my feelings had changed. I broke her heart but now I think I want her back but in afraid she might have moved on.". | usr : Hello there.
sys : (Others) Hello, how can I help you today?
usr : I'm having a bit of a bad time at the moment. I've been with my partner for 2 years she's great. unfortunately my feelings for her changed and we broke up recently. the problem is I think I've made a big mistake and worry that she's moved on with her life
sys : (Question) OK, thanks for explaining. Can I ask what makes you think she has moved on with her life? how recently did you guys split up?
usr : About three months ago. I have started to miss her badly. I saw her with another guy when I was out at the supermarket at the weekend. She lives near me so I wasn't surprised but I don't know who this guy is.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So to clarify, you ended things and think this wasn't the right thing to do. You have seen her with someone else and now you think you want her back. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I have broken up with my partner of two years, she is amazing but I ended it as I thought my feelings had changed. I broke her heart but now I think I want her back but in afraid she might have moved on.". | usr : Hello there.
sys : (Others) Hello, how can I help you today?
usr : I'm having a bit of a bad time at the moment. I've been with my partner for 2 years she's great. unfortunately my feelings for her changed and we broke up recently. the problem is I think I've made a big mistake and worry that she's moved on with her life
sys : (Question) OK, thanks for explaining. Can I ask what makes you think she has moved on with her life? how recently did you guys split up?
usr : About three months ago. I have started to miss her badly. I saw her with another guy when I was out at the supermarket at the weekend. She lives near me so I wasn't surprised but I don't know who this guy is.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So to clarify, you ended things and think this wasn't the right thing to do. You have seen her with someone else and now you think you want her back.
usr : Yeah that's right. I can't believe she has moved on so quickly.
| (Question) Can I ask, for how long have you thought you have made a mistake by ending things. was it when you saw her with someone else? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I have broken up with my partner of two years, she is amazing but I ended it as I thought my feelings had changed. I broke her heart but now I think I want her back but in afraid she might have moved on.". | usr : Hello there.
sys : (Others) Hello, how can I help you today?
usr : I'm having a bit of a bad time at the moment. I've been with my partner for 2 years she's great. unfortunately my feelings for her changed and we broke up recently. the problem is I think I've made a big mistake and worry that she's moved on with her life
sys : (Question) OK, thanks for explaining. Can I ask what makes you think she has moved on with her life? how recently did you guys split up?
usr : About three months ago. I have started to miss her badly. I saw her with another guy when I was out at the supermarket at the weekend. She lives near me so I wasn't surprised but I don't know who this guy is.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So to clarify, you ended things and think this wasn't the right thing to do. You have seen her with someone else and now you think you want her back.
usr : Yeah that's right. I can't believe she has moved on so quickly.
sys : (Question) Can I ask, for how long have you thought you have made a mistake by ending things. was it when you saw her with someone else?
usr : I must admit it was only when I saw her with someone else that I started to really miss her. do you think I'm just feeling jealous because we were so close and now I've seen her with someone else?
| (Self-disclosure) I had a friend who was in a very similar situation to this. he was in a long term relationship with a girl for 5-years. they split up and stayed friends. It was only when he saw her with someone else that he decided he wanted to give things another go. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I have broken up with my partner of two years, she is amazing but I ended it as I thought my feelings had changed. I broke her heart but now I think I want her back but in afraid she might have moved on.". | usr : Hello there.
sys : (Others) Hello, how can I help you today?
usr : I'm having a bit of a bad time at the moment. I've been with my partner for 2 years she's great. unfortunately my feelings for her changed and we broke up recently. the problem is I think I've made a big mistake and worry that she's moved on with her life
sys : (Question) OK, thanks for explaining. Can I ask what makes you think she has moved on with her life? how recently did you guys split up?
usr : About three months ago. I have started to miss her badly. I saw her with another guy when I was out at the supermarket at the weekend. She lives near me so I wasn't surprised but I don't know who this guy is.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So to clarify, you ended things and think this wasn't the right thing to do. You have seen her with someone else and now you think you want her back.
usr : Yeah that's right. I can't believe she has moved on so quickly.
sys : (Question) Can I ask, for how long have you thought you have made a mistake by ending things. was it when you saw her with someone else?
usr : I must admit it was only when I saw her with someone else that I started to really miss her. do you think I'm just feeling jealous because we were so close and now I've seen her with someone else?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had a friend who was in a very similar situation to this. he was in a long term relationship with a girl for 5-years. they split up and stayed friends. It was only when he saw her with someone else that he decided he wanted to give things another go.
usr : I think you might be right actually. I didn't really miss her until I saw her with someone else. is this normal I don't know what to do about this?
| (Reflection of feelings) I'd say this is completely normal. I can tell by talking to you that you did have strong feelings for this person once and seeing her with someone else has made you remember the good times. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I have broken up with my partner of two years, she is amazing but I ended it as I thought my feelings had changed. I broke her heart but now I think I want her back but in afraid she might have moved on.". | usr : Hello there.
sys : (Others) Hello, how can I help you today?
usr : I'm having a bit of a bad time at the moment. I've been with my partner for 2 years she's great. unfortunately my feelings for her changed and we broke up recently. the problem is I think I've made a big mistake and worry that she's moved on with her life
sys : (Question) OK, thanks for explaining. Can I ask what makes you think she has moved on with her life? how recently did you guys split up?
usr : About three months ago. I have started to miss her badly. I saw her with another guy when I was out at the supermarket at the weekend. She lives near me so I wasn't surprised but I don't know who this guy is.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So to clarify, you ended things and think this wasn't the right thing to do. You have seen her with someone else and now you think you want her back.
usr : Yeah that's right. I can't believe she has moved on so quickly.
sys : (Question) Can I ask, for how long have you thought you have made a mistake by ending things. was it when you saw her with someone else?
usr : I must admit it was only when I saw her with someone else that I started to really miss her. do you think I'm just feeling jealous because we were so close and now I've seen her with someone else?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had a friend who was in a very similar situation to this. he was in a long term relationship with a girl for 5-years. they split up and stayed friends. It was only when he saw her with someone else that he decided he wanted to give things another go.
usr : I think you might be right actually. I didn't really miss her until I saw her with someone else. is this normal I don't know what to do about this?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'd say this is completely normal. I can tell by talking to you that you did have strong feelings for this person once and seeing her with someone else has made you remember the good times.
usr : Well that's good to know. I'm not normally the jealous type but I suppose we did have good times and I want her to be happy I suppose. I do think I've made a mistake though now I've thought about it!
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can tell you are a caring person and really do care about your ex-girlfriend happiness. I'm sure you will do the right thing but you need to think of yourself. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I have broken up with my partner of two years, she is amazing but I ended it as I thought my feelings had changed. I broke her heart but now I think I want her back but in afraid she might have moved on.". | usr : Hello there.
sys : (Others) Hello, how can I help you today?
usr : I'm having a bit of a bad time at the moment. I've been with my partner for 2 years she's great. unfortunately my feelings for her changed and we broke up recently. the problem is I think I've made a big mistake and worry that she's moved on with her life
sys : (Question) OK, thanks for explaining. Can I ask what makes you think she has moved on with her life? how recently did you guys split up?
usr : About three months ago. I have started to miss her badly. I saw her with another guy when I was out at the supermarket at the weekend. She lives near me so I wasn't surprised but I don't know who this guy is.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So to clarify, you ended things and think this wasn't the right thing to do. You have seen her with someone else and now you think you want her back.
usr : Yeah that's right. I can't believe she has moved on so quickly.
sys : (Question) Can I ask, for how long have you thought you have made a mistake by ending things. was it when you saw her with someone else?
usr : I must admit it was only when I saw her with someone else that I started to really miss her. do you think I'm just feeling jealous because we were so close and now I've seen her with someone else?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had a friend who was in a very similar situation to this. he was in a long term relationship with a girl for 5-years. they split up and stayed friends. It was only when he saw her with someone else that he decided he wanted to give things another go.
usr : I think you might be right actually. I didn't really miss her until I saw her with someone else. is this normal I don't know what to do about this?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'd say this is completely normal. I can tell by talking to you that you did have strong feelings for this person once and seeing her with someone else has made you remember the good times.
usr : Well that's good to know. I'm not normally the jealous type but I suppose we did have good times and I want her to be happy I suppose. I do think I've made a mistake though now I've thought about it!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can tell you are a caring person and really do care about your ex-girlfriend happiness. I'm sure you will do the right thing but you need to think of yourself.
usr : do you think I should try and get in touch with her and tell her how I feel?
| (Providing Suggestions) I think you need to think carefully about what you really want. If you feel like this then I would suggest you do talk to her about it, however you may be best talking it through with a friend or family member first |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I have broken up with my partner of two years, she is amazing but I ended it as I thought my feelings had changed. I broke her heart but now I think I want her back but in afraid she might have moved on.". | usr : Hello there.
sys : (Others) Hello, how can I help you today?
usr : I'm having a bit of a bad time at the moment. I've been with my partner for 2 years she's great. unfortunately my feelings for her changed and we broke up recently. the problem is I think I've made a big mistake and worry that she's moved on with her life
sys : (Question) OK, thanks for explaining. Can I ask what makes you think she has moved on with her life? how recently did you guys split up?
usr : About three months ago. I have started to miss her badly. I saw her with another guy when I was out at the supermarket at the weekend. She lives near me so I wasn't surprised but I don't know who this guy is.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So to clarify, you ended things and think this wasn't the right thing to do. You have seen her with someone else and now you think you want her back.
usr : Yeah that's right. I can't believe she has moved on so quickly.
sys : (Question) Can I ask, for how long have you thought you have made a mistake by ending things. was it when you saw her with someone else?
usr : I must admit it was only when I saw her with someone else that I started to really miss her. do you think I'm just feeling jealous because we were so close and now I've seen her with someone else?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had a friend who was in a very similar situation to this. he was in a long term relationship with a girl for 5-years. they split up and stayed friends. It was only when he saw her with someone else that he decided he wanted to give things another go.
usr : I think you might be right actually. I didn't really miss her until I saw her with someone else. is this normal I don't know what to do about this?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'd say this is completely normal. I can tell by talking to you that you did have strong feelings for this person once and seeing her with someone else has made you remember the good times.
usr : Well that's good to know. I'm not normally the jealous type but I suppose we did have good times and I want her to be happy I suppose. I do think I've made a mistake though now I've thought about it!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can tell you are a caring person and really do care about your ex-girlfriend happiness. I'm sure you will do the right thing but you need to think of yourself.
usr : do you think I should try and get in touch with her and tell her how I feel?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think you need to think carefully about what you really want. If you feel like this then I would suggest you do talk to her about it, however you may be best talking it through with a friend or family member first
usr : That's not a bad idea. I think I will speak to one of my friends about this ,he's normally pretty good with that kind of thing.
| (Providing Suggestions) yes it's really good to talk it through with someone first just really understand if trying to restart your old relationship is the right thing to do for you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I have broken up with my partner of two years, she is amazing but I ended it as I thought my feelings had changed. I broke her heart but now I think I want her back but in afraid she might have moved on.". | usr : Hello there.
sys : (Others) Hello, how can I help you today?
usr : I'm having a bit of a bad time at the moment. I've been with my partner for 2 years she's great. unfortunately my feelings for her changed and we broke up recently. the problem is I think I've made a big mistake and worry that she's moved on with her life
sys : (Question) OK, thanks for explaining. Can I ask what makes you think she has moved on with her life? how recently did you guys split up?
usr : About three months ago. I have started to miss her badly. I saw her with another guy when I was out at the supermarket at the weekend. She lives near me so I wasn't surprised but I don't know who this guy is.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So to clarify, you ended things and think this wasn't the right thing to do. You have seen her with someone else and now you think you want her back.
usr : Yeah that's right. I can't believe she has moved on so quickly.
sys : (Question) Can I ask, for how long have you thought you have made a mistake by ending things. was it when you saw her with someone else?
usr : I must admit it was only when I saw her with someone else that I started to really miss her. do you think I'm just feeling jealous because we were so close and now I've seen her with someone else?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had a friend who was in a very similar situation to this. he was in a long term relationship with a girl for 5-years. they split up and stayed friends. It was only when he saw her with someone else that he decided he wanted to give things another go.
usr : I think you might be right actually. I didn't really miss her until I saw her with someone else. is this normal I don't know what to do about this?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'd say this is completely normal. I can tell by talking to you that you did have strong feelings for this person once and seeing her with someone else has made you remember the good times.
usr : Well that's good to know. I'm not normally the jealous type but I suppose we did have good times and I want her to be happy I suppose. I do think I've made a mistake though now I've thought about it!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can tell you are a caring person and really do care about your ex-girlfriend happiness. I'm sure you will do the right thing but you need to think of yourself.
usr : do you think I should try and get in touch with her and tell her how I feel?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think you need to think carefully about what you really want. If you feel like this then I would suggest you do talk to her about it, however you may be best talking it through with a friend or family member first
usr : That's not a bad idea. I think I will speak to one of my friends about this ,he's normally pretty good with that kind of thing.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yes it's really good to talk it through with someone first just really understand if trying to restart your old relationship is the right thing to do for you.
usr : I think I conversation has actually helped me understand my motivations a little better. you have also given me some good suggestions so thank you for that
| (Others) I'm happy to hear that. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I have broken up with my partner of two years, she is amazing but I ended it as I thought my feelings had changed. I broke her heart but now I think I want her back but in afraid she might have moved on.". | usr : Hello there.
sys : (Others) Hello, how can I help you today?
usr : I'm having a bit of a bad time at the moment. I've been with my partner for 2 years she's great. unfortunately my feelings for her changed and we broke up recently. the problem is I think I've made a big mistake and worry that she's moved on with her life
sys : (Question) OK, thanks for explaining. Can I ask what makes you think she has moved on with her life? how recently did you guys split up?
usr : About three months ago. I have started to miss her badly. I saw her with another guy when I was out at the supermarket at the weekend. She lives near me so I wasn't surprised but I don't know who this guy is.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So to clarify, you ended things and think this wasn't the right thing to do. You have seen her with someone else and now you think you want her back.
usr : Yeah that's right. I can't believe she has moved on so quickly.
sys : (Question) Can I ask, for how long have you thought you have made a mistake by ending things. was it when you saw her with someone else?
usr : I must admit it was only when I saw her with someone else that I started to really miss her. do you think I'm just feeling jealous because we were so close and now I've seen her with someone else?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had a friend who was in a very similar situation to this. he was in a long term relationship with a girl for 5-years. they split up and stayed friends. It was only when he saw her with someone else that he decided he wanted to give things another go.
usr : I think you might be right actually. I didn't really miss her until I saw her with someone else. is this normal I don't know what to do about this?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'd say this is completely normal. I can tell by talking to you that you did have strong feelings for this person once and seeing her with someone else has made you remember the good times.
usr : Well that's good to know. I'm not normally the jealous type but I suppose we did have good times and I want her to be happy I suppose. I do think I've made a mistake though now I've thought about it!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can tell you are a caring person and really do care about your ex-girlfriend happiness. I'm sure you will do the right thing but you need to think of yourself.
usr : do you think I should try and get in touch with her and tell her how I feel?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think you need to think carefully about what you really want. If you feel like this then I would suggest you do talk to her about it, however you may be best talking it through with a friend or family member first
usr : That's not a bad idea. I think I will speak to one of my friends about this ,he's normally pretty good with that kind of thing.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yes it's really good to talk it through with someone first just really understand if trying to restart your old relationship is the right thing to do for you.
usr : I think I conversation has actually helped me understand my motivations a little better. you have also given me some good suggestions so thank you for that
sys : (Others) I'm happy to hear that.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) you seem like a really decent person and I'm sure you will make the right decision and I'm positive you can get past this! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I have broken up with my partner of two years, she is amazing but I ended it as I thought my feelings had changed. I broke her heart but now I think I want her back but in afraid she might have moved on.". | usr : Hello there.
sys : (Others) Hello, how can I help you today?
usr : I'm having a bit of a bad time at the moment. I've been with my partner for 2 years she's great. unfortunately my feelings for her changed and we broke up recently. the problem is I think I've made a big mistake and worry that she's moved on with her life
sys : (Question) OK, thanks for explaining. Can I ask what makes you think she has moved on with her life? how recently did you guys split up?
usr : About three months ago. I have started to miss her badly. I saw her with another guy when I was out at the supermarket at the weekend. She lives near me so I wasn't surprised but I don't know who this guy is.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So to clarify, you ended things and think this wasn't the right thing to do. You have seen her with someone else and now you think you want her back.
usr : Yeah that's right. I can't believe she has moved on so quickly.
sys : (Question) Can I ask, for how long have you thought you have made a mistake by ending things. was it when you saw her with someone else?
usr : I must admit it was only when I saw her with someone else that I started to really miss her. do you think I'm just feeling jealous because we were so close and now I've seen her with someone else?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had a friend who was in a very similar situation to this. he was in a long term relationship with a girl for 5-years. they split up and stayed friends. It was only when he saw her with someone else that he decided he wanted to give things another go.
usr : I think you might be right actually. I didn't really miss her until I saw her with someone else. is this normal I don't know what to do about this?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'd say this is completely normal. I can tell by talking to you that you did have strong feelings for this person once and seeing her with someone else has made you remember the good times.
usr : Well that's good to know. I'm not normally the jealous type but I suppose we did have good times and I want her to be happy I suppose. I do think I've made a mistake though now I've thought about it!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can tell you are a caring person and really do care about your ex-girlfriend happiness. I'm sure you will do the right thing but you need to think of yourself.
usr : do you think I should try and get in touch with her and tell her how I feel?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think you need to think carefully about what you really want. If you feel like this then I would suggest you do talk to her about it, however you may be best talking it through with a friend or family member first
usr : That's not a bad idea. I think I will speak to one of my friends about this ,he's normally pretty good with that kind of thing.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yes it's really good to talk it through with someone first just really understand if trying to restart your old relationship is the right thing to do for you.
usr : I think I conversation has actually helped me understand my motivations a little better. you have also given me some good suggestions so thank you for that
sys : (Others) I'm happy to hear that.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) you seem like a really decent person and I'm sure you will make the right decision and I'm positive you can get past this!
usr : Thanks for the conversation. It really helped.
| (Others) You are very welcome. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I get to hurting so bad in my lower back that it upsets me and then I take it out on the one's around me.". | usr : Hello
| (Others) Hi there, how are you doing? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I get to hurting so bad in my lower back that it upsets me and then I take it out on the one's around me.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Others) Hi there, how are you doing?
usr : Ok Kinda, my back is just hurting so bad today.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have an issue with your back, are you experiencing constant pain? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I get to hurting so bad in my lower back that it upsets me and then I take it out on the one's around me.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Others) Hi there, how are you doing?
usr : Ok Kinda, my back is just hurting so bad today.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have an issue with your back, are you experiencing constant pain?
usr : yes, it is like a real Charlie Horse that just won't stop.
| (Question) Have you been doing an activity that has triggered this? Or have you woken up and felt a difference? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I get to hurting so bad in my lower back that it upsets me and then I take it out on the one's around me.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Others) Hi there, how are you doing?
usr : Ok Kinda, my back is just hurting so bad today.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have an issue with your back, are you experiencing constant pain?
usr : yes, it is like a real Charlie Horse that just won't stop.
sys : (Question) Have you been doing an activity that has triggered this? Or have you woken up and felt a difference?
usr : It has been going on for over ten years now. I can't hardly walk and I can't hardly sit still.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ok so to confirm you have constant back pain and this has been going on for over 10 years and you just want a solution to mitigate that pain. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I get to hurting so bad in my lower back that it upsets me and then I take it out on the one's around me.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Others) Hi there, how are you doing?
usr : Ok Kinda, my back is just hurting so bad today.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have an issue with your back, are you experiencing constant pain?
usr : yes, it is like a real Charlie Horse that just won't stop.
sys : (Question) Have you been doing an activity that has triggered this? Or have you woken up and felt a difference?
usr : It has been going on for over ten years now. I can't hardly walk and I can't hardly sit still.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ok so to confirm you have constant back pain and this has been going on for over 10 years and you just want a solution to mitigate that pain.
usr : Yes, I have had back surgery, tried Yoga, and chiropractors, and physical therapy. Nothing has worked.
| (Information) I know that constant pain is definitely up there with one of the most difficult things a person can deal with. It can also affect your mental health over time but there are solutions out there that can help. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I get to hurting so bad in my lower back that it upsets me and then I take it out on the one's around me.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Others) Hi there, how are you doing?
usr : Ok Kinda, my back is just hurting so bad today.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have an issue with your back, are you experiencing constant pain?
usr : yes, it is like a real Charlie Horse that just won't stop.
sys : (Question) Have you been doing an activity that has triggered this? Or have you woken up and felt a difference?
usr : It has been going on for over ten years now. I can't hardly walk and I can't hardly sit still.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ok so to confirm you have constant back pain and this has been going on for over 10 years and you just want a solution to mitigate that pain.
usr : Yes, I have had back surgery, tried Yoga, and chiropractors, and physical therapy. Nothing has worked.
sys : (Information) I know that constant pain is definitely up there with one of the most difficult things a person can deal with. It can also affect your mental health over time but there are solutions out there that can help.
usr : It is just hard, waking up in the middle of the night with pain and not being able to go back to sleep. It drives me nuts some days and I just stay away from everyone.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) from what I can tell you have tried many Solutions. I can see that you are committed to finding something that can work for you. personally I think it is only a matter of time until you find the right combination for you if you can stay positive. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I get to hurting so bad in my lower back that it upsets me and then I take it out on the one's around me.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Others) Hi there, how are you doing?
usr : Ok Kinda, my back is just hurting so bad today.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have an issue with your back, are you experiencing constant pain?
usr : yes, it is like a real Charlie Horse that just won't stop.
sys : (Question) Have you been doing an activity that has triggered this? Or have you woken up and felt a difference?
usr : It has been going on for over ten years now. I can't hardly walk and I can't hardly sit still.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ok so to confirm you have constant back pain and this has been going on for over 10 years and you just want a solution to mitigate that pain.
usr : Yes, I have had back surgery, tried Yoga, and chiropractors, and physical therapy. Nothing has worked.
sys : (Information) I know that constant pain is definitely up there with one of the most difficult things a person can deal with. It can also affect your mental health over time but there are solutions out there that can help.
usr : It is just hard, waking up in the middle of the night with pain and not being able to go back to sleep. It drives me nuts some days and I just stay away from everyone.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) from what I can tell you have tried many Solutions. I can see that you are committed to finding something that can work for you. personally I think it is only a matter of time until you find the right combination for you if you can stay positive.
usr : I try to hide the pain from my family because the man of the house is suppose to be strong and provide for his family. I have a very loving wife and a set of twin boys that just turned 13. I am blessed in so many ways but I still seem to have to suffer to enjoy it.
| (Self-disclosure) if I'm being honest I can relate to this. I have a young son and a small family myself. I have had problems with my hearing and tinnitus that is manageable at the moment but constant. in feels like nobody understands just how difficult this can be. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I get to hurting so bad in my lower back that it upsets me and then I take it out on the one's around me.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Others) Hi there, how are you doing?
usr : Ok Kinda, my back is just hurting so bad today.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have an issue with your back, are you experiencing constant pain?
usr : yes, it is like a real Charlie Horse that just won't stop.
sys : (Question) Have you been doing an activity that has triggered this? Or have you woken up and felt a difference?
usr : It has been going on for over ten years now. I can't hardly walk and I can't hardly sit still.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ok so to confirm you have constant back pain and this has been going on for over 10 years and you just want a solution to mitigate that pain.
usr : Yes, I have had back surgery, tried Yoga, and chiropractors, and physical therapy. Nothing has worked.
sys : (Information) I know that constant pain is definitely up there with one of the most difficult things a person can deal with. It can also affect your mental health over time but there are solutions out there that can help.
usr : It is just hard, waking up in the middle of the night with pain and not being able to go back to sleep. It drives me nuts some days and I just stay away from everyone.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) from what I can tell you have tried many Solutions. I can see that you are committed to finding something that can work for you. personally I think it is only a matter of time until you find the right combination for you if you can stay positive.
usr : I try to hide the pain from my family because the man of the house is suppose to be strong and provide for his family. I have a very loving wife and a set of twin boys that just turned 13. I am blessed in so many ways but I still seem to have to suffer to enjoy it.
sys : (Self-disclosure) if I'm being honest I can relate to this. I have a young son and a small family myself. I have had problems with my hearing and tinnitus that is manageable at the moment but constant. in feels like nobody understands just how difficult this can be.
usr : I feel your pain, I have came a long way in managing the pain mentally. I try to block it out and keep my mind busy to not think about it. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.
| (Providing Suggestions) ok so I assume you spoken to many medical professionals about this. have you had a diagnosis? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I get to hurting so bad in my lower back that it upsets me and then I take it out on the one's around me.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Others) Hi there, how are you doing?
usr : Ok Kinda, my back is just hurting so bad today.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have an issue with your back, are you experiencing constant pain?
usr : yes, it is like a real Charlie Horse that just won't stop.
sys : (Question) Have you been doing an activity that has triggered this? Or have you woken up and felt a difference?
usr : It has been going on for over ten years now. I can't hardly walk and I can't hardly sit still.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ok so to confirm you have constant back pain and this has been going on for over 10 years and you just want a solution to mitigate that pain.
usr : Yes, I have had back surgery, tried Yoga, and chiropractors, and physical therapy. Nothing has worked.
sys : (Information) I know that constant pain is definitely up there with one of the most difficult things a person can deal with. It can also affect your mental health over time but there are solutions out there that can help.
usr : It is just hard, waking up in the middle of the night with pain and not being able to go back to sleep. It drives me nuts some days and I just stay away from everyone.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) from what I can tell you have tried many Solutions. I can see that you are committed to finding something that can work for you. personally I think it is only a matter of time until you find the right combination for you if you can stay positive.
usr : I try to hide the pain from my family because the man of the house is suppose to be strong and provide for his family. I have a very loving wife and a set of twin boys that just turned 13. I am blessed in so many ways but I still seem to have to suffer to enjoy it.
sys : (Self-disclosure) if I'm being honest I can relate to this. I have a young son and a small family myself. I have had problems with my hearing and tinnitus that is manageable at the moment but constant. in feels like nobody understands just how difficult this can be.
usr : I feel your pain, I have came a long way in managing the pain mentally. I try to block it out and keep my mind busy to not think about it. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) ok so I assume you spoken to many medical professionals about this. have you had a diagnosis?
usr : I have sever spinal stenosis and a deteriorating bone disease. The surgeon said it was worse than he thought and he done all he could. He was afraid to go any deeper because I might not walk again if he did.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) you have clearly been through a really tough time and my heart goes out to you at how well you are dealing with this. you seem like a very positive person and I appreciate how hard this must be a times. you also care great deal for your family and they're helping you to get through this. I think you are strong and can continue being positive! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I get to hurting so bad in my lower back that it upsets me and then I take it out on the one's around me.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Others) Hi there, how are you doing?
usr : Ok Kinda, my back is just hurting so bad today.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have an issue with your back, are you experiencing constant pain?
usr : yes, it is like a real Charlie Horse that just won't stop.
sys : (Question) Have you been doing an activity that has triggered this? Or have you woken up and felt a difference?
usr : It has been going on for over ten years now. I can't hardly walk and I can't hardly sit still.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ok so to confirm you have constant back pain and this has been going on for over 10 years and you just want a solution to mitigate that pain.
usr : Yes, I have had back surgery, tried Yoga, and chiropractors, and physical therapy. Nothing has worked.
sys : (Information) I know that constant pain is definitely up there with one of the most difficult things a person can deal with. It can also affect your mental health over time but there are solutions out there that can help.
usr : It is just hard, waking up in the middle of the night with pain and not being able to go back to sleep. It drives me nuts some days and I just stay away from everyone.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) from what I can tell you have tried many Solutions. I can see that you are committed to finding something that can work for you. personally I think it is only a matter of time until you find the right combination for you if you can stay positive.
usr : I try to hide the pain from my family because the man of the house is suppose to be strong and provide for his family. I have a very loving wife and a set of twin boys that just turned 13. I am blessed in so many ways but I still seem to have to suffer to enjoy it.
sys : (Self-disclosure) if I'm being honest I can relate to this. I have a young son and a small family myself. I have had problems with my hearing and tinnitus that is manageable at the moment but constant. in feels like nobody understands just how difficult this can be.
usr : I feel your pain, I have came a long way in managing the pain mentally. I try to block it out and keep my mind busy to not think about it. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) ok so I assume you spoken to many medical professionals about this. have you had a diagnosis?
usr : I have sever spinal stenosis and a deteriorating bone disease. The surgeon said it was worse than he thought and he done all he could. He was afraid to go any deeper because I might not walk again if he did.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) you have clearly been through a really tough time and my heart goes out to you at how well you are dealing with this. you seem like a very positive person and I appreciate how hard this must be a times. you also care great deal for your family and they're helping you to get through this. I think you are strong and can continue being positive!
usr : Thanks for the words of encouragement. It makes me feel better knowing that people in the real world still care about others and how they feel.
| (Providing Suggestions) if I am being completely honest I think you are incredibly strong. Have you seen a pain management specialist that can help you block out pain? also there may be new advances in pain relief so it would be a good idea to keep up with advances in managing pain. You may be able to take part in studies for new developments. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I get to hurting so bad in my lower back that it upsets me and then I take it out on the one's around me.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Others) Hi there, how are you doing?
usr : Ok Kinda, my back is just hurting so bad today.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have an issue with your back, are you experiencing constant pain?
usr : yes, it is like a real Charlie Horse that just won't stop.
sys : (Question) Have you been doing an activity that has triggered this? Or have you woken up and felt a difference?
usr : It has been going on for over ten years now. I can't hardly walk and I can't hardly sit still.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ok so to confirm you have constant back pain and this has been going on for over 10 years and you just want a solution to mitigate that pain.
usr : Yes, I have had back surgery, tried Yoga, and chiropractors, and physical therapy. Nothing has worked.
sys : (Information) I know that constant pain is definitely up there with one of the most difficult things a person can deal with. It can also affect your mental health over time but there are solutions out there that can help.
usr : It is just hard, waking up in the middle of the night with pain and not being able to go back to sleep. It drives me nuts some days and I just stay away from everyone.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) from what I can tell you have tried many Solutions. I can see that you are committed to finding something that can work for you. personally I think it is only a matter of time until you find the right combination for you if you can stay positive.
usr : I try to hide the pain from my family because the man of the house is suppose to be strong and provide for his family. I have a very loving wife and a set of twin boys that just turned 13. I am blessed in so many ways but I still seem to have to suffer to enjoy it.
sys : (Self-disclosure) if I'm being honest I can relate to this. I have a young son and a small family myself. I have had problems with my hearing and tinnitus that is manageable at the moment but constant. in feels like nobody understands just how difficult this can be.
usr : I feel your pain, I have came a long way in managing the pain mentally. I try to block it out and keep my mind busy to not think about it. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) ok so I assume you spoken to many medical professionals about this. have you had a diagnosis?
usr : I have sever spinal stenosis and a deteriorating bone disease. The surgeon said it was worse than he thought and he done all he could. He was afraid to go any deeper because I might not walk again if he did.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) you have clearly been through a really tough time and my heart goes out to you at how well you are dealing with this. you seem like a very positive person and I appreciate how hard this must be a times. you also care great deal for your family and they're helping you to get through this. I think you are strong and can continue being positive!
usr : Thanks for the words of encouragement. It makes me feel better knowing that people in the real world still care about others and how they feel.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) if I am being completely honest I think you are incredibly strong. Have you seen a pain management specialist that can help you block out pain? also there may be new advances in pain relief so it would be a good idea to keep up with advances in managing pain. You may be able to take part in studies for new developments.
usr : Sounds great, I will check into it with my doctor. Have a nice day.
| (Others) take care it was nice talking to you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"fighting with my husband all the time and not seeing eye to eye. felling unwanted and unloved". | usr : i am unsure if my marriage will work
usr : we fight and argue all the time and don't get along
| (Question) when did you start having these feelings? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"fighting with my husband all the time and not seeing eye to eye. felling unwanted and unloved". | usr : i am unsure if my marriage will work
usr : we fight and argue all the time and don't get along
sys : (Question) when did you start having these feelings?
usr : about 3 months ago
| (Question) is there something specific that began around that time? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"fighting with my husband all the time and not seeing eye to eye. felling unwanted and unloved". | usr : i am unsure if my marriage will work
usr : we fight and argue all the time and don't get along
sys : (Question) when did you start having these feelings?
usr : about 3 months ago
sys : (Question) is there something specific that began around that time?
usr : i lost my job due to covid and my husband had to get another job while i stayed home with my son for school online.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a difficult and trying situation during unprecedented times. This is a temporary situation that will improve in time. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"fighting with my husband all the time and not seeing eye to eye. felling unwanted and unloved". | usr : i am unsure if my marriage will work
usr : we fight and argue all the time and don't get along
sys : (Question) when did you start having these feelings?
usr : about 3 months ago
sys : (Question) is there something specific that began around that time?
usr : i lost my job due to covid and my husband had to get another job while i stayed home with my son for school online.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a difficult and trying situation during unprecedented times. This is a temporary situation that will improve in time.
usr : im not sure about that but i pray it will. thank you
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) No one ever could have imagined that this would be how we are having to do things. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"fighting with my husband all the time and not seeing eye to eye. felling unwanted and unloved". | usr : i am unsure if my marriage will work
usr : we fight and argue all the time and don't get along
sys : (Question) when did you start having these feelings?
usr : about 3 months ago
sys : (Question) is there something specific that began around that time?
usr : i lost my job due to covid and my husband had to get another job while i stayed home with my son for school online.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a difficult and trying situation during unprecedented times. This is a temporary situation that will improve in time.
usr : im not sure about that but i pray it will. thank you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) No one ever could have imagined that this would be how we are having to do things.
usr : yes its crazy but i am praying my way though it all
| (Question) have you considered discussing your feelings with your husband? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"fighting with my husband all the time and not seeing eye to eye. felling unwanted and unloved". | usr : i am unsure if my marriage will work
usr : we fight and argue all the time and don't get along
sys : (Question) when did you start having these feelings?
usr : about 3 months ago
sys : (Question) is there something specific that began around that time?
usr : i lost my job due to covid and my husband had to get another job while i stayed home with my son for school online.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a difficult and trying situation during unprecedented times. This is a temporary situation that will improve in time.
usr : im not sure about that but i pray it will. thank you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) No one ever could have imagined that this would be how we are having to do things.
usr : yes its crazy but i am praying my way though it all
sys : (Question) have you considered discussing your feelings with your husband?
usr : i have but i feel like he does not care enough to change
| (Self-disclosure) I have done a lot of soul searching over the past months and i found small changes in my perspective helped diffuse my stress. I set aside some time to talk to friends and we all share some laughs and some tears and it truly helps. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"fighting with my husband all the time and not seeing eye to eye. felling unwanted and unloved". | usr : i am unsure if my marriage will work
usr : we fight and argue all the time and don't get along
sys : (Question) when did you start having these feelings?
usr : about 3 months ago
sys : (Question) is there something specific that began around that time?
usr : i lost my job due to covid and my husband had to get another job while i stayed home with my son for school online.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a difficult and trying situation during unprecedented times. This is a temporary situation that will improve in time.
usr : im not sure about that but i pray it will. thank you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) No one ever could have imagined that this would be how we are having to do things.
usr : yes its crazy but i am praying my way though it all
sys : (Question) have you considered discussing your feelings with your husband?
usr : i have but i feel like he does not care enough to change
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have done a lot of soul searching over the past months and i found small changes in my perspective helped diffuse my stress. I set aside some time to talk to friends and we all share some laughs and some tears and it truly helps.
usr : that is a really good idea. i could especially use some laughs during this time. thank you for that advice
usr : you have been helpful
usr : god bless you
| (Others) There is no need to thank me. you are doing what many are trying to do. I pray it all works out for you and your family. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"fighting with my husband all the time and not seeing eye to eye. felling unwanted and unloved". | usr : i am unsure if my marriage will work
usr : we fight and argue all the time and don't get along
sys : (Question) when did you start having these feelings?
usr : about 3 months ago
sys : (Question) is there something specific that began around that time?
usr : i lost my job due to covid and my husband had to get another job while i stayed home with my son for school online.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a difficult and trying situation during unprecedented times. This is a temporary situation that will improve in time.
usr : im not sure about that but i pray it will. thank you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) No one ever could have imagined that this would be how we are having to do things.
usr : yes its crazy but i am praying my way though it all
sys : (Question) have you considered discussing your feelings with your husband?
usr : i have but i feel like he does not care enough to change
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have done a lot of soul searching over the past months and i found small changes in my perspective helped diffuse my stress. I set aside some time to talk to friends and we all share some laughs and some tears and it truly helps.
usr : that is a really good idea. i could especially use some laughs during this time. thank you for that advice
usr : you have been helpful
usr : god bless you
sys : (Others) There is no need to thank me. you are doing what many are trying to do. I pray it all works out for you and your family.
usr : thank you so much. its been a very rough year. its like things just keep happening and i have no control
| (Providing Suggestions) Please consider trying to reconnect with your husband. Simple little kindnesses do so much for the spirit. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"fighting with my husband all the time and not seeing eye to eye. felling unwanted and unloved". | usr : i am unsure if my marriage will work
usr : we fight and argue all the time and don't get along
sys : (Question) when did you start having these feelings?
usr : about 3 months ago
sys : (Question) is there something specific that began around that time?
usr : i lost my job due to covid and my husband had to get another job while i stayed home with my son for school online.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a difficult and trying situation during unprecedented times. This is a temporary situation that will improve in time.
usr : im not sure about that but i pray it will. thank you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) No one ever could have imagined that this would be how we are having to do things.
usr : yes its crazy but i am praying my way though it all
sys : (Question) have you considered discussing your feelings with your husband?
usr : i have but i feel like he does not care enough to change
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have done a lot of soul searching over the past months and i found small changes in my perspective helped diffuse my stress. I set aside some time to talk to friends and we all share some laughs and some tears and it truly helps.
usr : that is a really good idea. i could especially use some laughs during this time. thank you for that advice
usr : you have been helpful
usr : god bless you
sys : (Others) There is no need to thank me. you are doing what many are trying to do. I pray it all works out for you and your family.
usr : thank you so much. its been a very rough year. its like things just keep happening and i have no control
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Please consider trying to reconnect with your husband. Simple little kindnesses do so much for the spirit.
usr : yes i can try and do that. i admit i have not been that nice to him recently
| (Others) Every day is a fresh start. kindness from you will be returned. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"fighting with my husband all the time and not seeing eye to eye. felling unwanted and unloved". | usr : i am unsure if my marriage will work
usr : we fight and argue all the time and don't get along
sys : (Question) when did you start having these feelings?
usr : about 3 months ago
sys : (Question) is there something specific that began around that time?
usr : i lost my job due to covid and my husband had to get another job while i stayed home with my son for school online.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a difficult and trying situation during unprecedented times. This is a temporary situation that will improve in time.
usr : im not sure about that but i pray it will. thank you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) No one ever could have imagined that this would be how we are having to do things.
usr : yes its crazy but i am praying my way though it all
sys : (Question) have you considered discussing your feelings with your husband?
usr : i have but i feel like he does not care enough to change
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have done a lot of soul searching over the past months and i found small changes in my perspective helped diffuse my stress. I set aside some time to talk to friends and we all share some laughs and some tears and it truly helps.
usr : that is a really good idea. i could especially use some laughs during this time. thank you for that advice
usr : you have been helpful
usr : god bless you
sys : (Others) There is no need to thank me. you are doing what many are trying to do. I pray it all works out for you and your family.
usr : thank you so much. its been a very rough year. its like things just keep happening and i have no control
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Please consider trying to reconnect with your husband. Simple little kindnesses do so much for the spirit.
usr : yes i can try and do that. i admit i have not been that nice to him recently
sys : (Others) Every day is a fresh start. kindness from you will be returned.
usr : i like that. today is a fresh start and a new day
| (Information) Friends, family and faith are what keep us grounded. It sounds like you have all of those. Please remember that each is there to support you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am suffering from health anxiety and staying home and aftiad of going out". | usr : hello
| (Question) Hi how are you ? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am suffering from health anxiety and staying home and aftiad of going out". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hi how are you ?
usr : Well im feeling awful and my heart is racing , im feeling anxious for no reason.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand what your going thru , i also suffered from anxiety but trust we you will overcome this. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am suffering from health anxiety and staying home and aftiad of going out". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hi how are you ?
usr : Well im feeling awful and my heart is racing , im feeling anxious for no reason.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand what your going thru , i also suffered from anxiety but trust we you will overcome this.
usr : What do you recommend i do?
| (Providing Suggestions) I recommend searching online about meditation , also one of thing that helped the most for me was exercise and eating healthy. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am suffering from health anxiety and staying home and aftiad of going out". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hi how are you ?
usr : Well im feeling awful and my heart is racing , im feeling anxious for no reason.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand what your going thru , i also suffered from anxiety but trust we you will overcome this.
usr : What do you recommend i do?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I recommend searching online about meditation , also one of thing that helped the most for me was exercise and eating healthy.
usr : Ive tried meditation but cant seem to calm down. Exercise help for a bit but then my anxiety comes back.
| (Reflection of feelings) I remember many times i thought the same way as you but i didnt give up and kept trying. As long as you dont give up you will make progress. It will take time and patience. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am suffering from health anxiety and staying home and aftiad of going out". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hi how are you ?
usr : Well im feeling awful and my heart is racing , im feeling anxious for no reason.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand what your going thru , i also suffered from anxiety but trust we you will overcome this.
usr : What do you recommend i do?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I recommend searching online about meditation , also one of thing that helped the most for me was exercise and eating healthy.
usr : Ive tried meditation but cant seem to calm down. Exercise help for a bit but then my anxiety comes back.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I remember many times i thought the same way as you but i didnt give up and kept trying. As long as you dont give up you will make progress. It will take time and patience.
usr : Wow its so nice to talk to someone who had the same issues. Are there any other suggestions you might recommendo?
| (Providing Suggestions) OF course , for example i watched youtube videos of someone called theanxietyguy and i made tremendous progress with him. Also i drink teas to calm my nerves . |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am suffering from health anxiety and staying home and aftiad of going out". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hi how are you ?
usr : Well im feeling awful and my heart is racing , im feeling anxious for no reason.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand what your going thru , i also suffered from anxiety but trust we you will overcome this.
usr : What do you recommend i do?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I recommend searching online about meditation , also one of thing that helped the most for me was exercise and eating healthy.
usr : Ive tried meditation but cant seem to calm down. Exercise help for a bit but then my anxiety comes back.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I remember many times i thought the same way as you but i didnt give up and kept trying. As long as you dont give up you will make progress. It will take time and patience.
usr : Wow its so nice to talk to someone who had the same issues. Are there any other suggestions you might recommendo?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) OF course , for example i watched youtube videos of someone called theanxietyguy and i made tremendous progress with him. Also i drink teas to calm my nerves .
usr : Thank you!! im going to look him up . Has your anxiety come back?
| (Self-disclosure) Somethings its want to come back but i am on top of it and always being discipline with myself. I make sure to love myself first and give myself priority. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am suffering from health anxiety and staying home and aftiad of going out". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hi how are you ?
usr : Well im feeling awful and my heart is racing , im feeling anxious for no reason.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand what your going thru , i also suffered from anxiety but trust we you will overcome this.
usr : What do you recommend i do?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I recommend searching online about meditation , also one of thing that helped the most for me was exercise and eating healthy.
usr : Ive tried meditation but cant seem to calm down. Exercise help for a bit but then my anxiety comes back.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I remember many times i thought the same way as you but i didnt give up and kept trying. As long as you dont give up you will make progress. It will take time and patience.
usr : Wow its so nice to talk to someone who had the same issues. Are there any other suggestions you might recommendo?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) OF course , for example i watched youtube videos of someone called theanxietyguy and i made tremendous progress with him. Also i drink teas to calm my nerves .
usr : Thank you!! im going to look him up . Has your anxiety come back?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Somethings its want to come back but i am on top of it and always being discipline with myself. I make sure to love myself first and give myself priority.
usr : Thank you for everything .I am now motivated to get going.
| (Others) You are welcomed i am glad i was able to help out. Stay positive and healthy. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am suffering from health anxiety and staying home and aftiad of going out". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hi how are you ?
usr : Well im feeling awful and my heart is racing , im feeling anxious for no reason.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand what your going thru , i also suffered from anxiety but trust we you will overcome this.
usr : What do you recommend i do?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I recommend searching online about meditation , also one of thing that helped the most for me was exercise and eating healthy.
usr : Ive tried meditation but cant seem to calm down. Exercise help for a bit but then my anxiety comes back.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I remember many times i thought the same way as you but i didnt give up and kept trying. As long as you dont give up you will make progress. It will take time and patience.
usr : Wow its so nice to talk to someone who had the same issues. Are there any other suggestions you might recommendo?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) OF course , for example i watched youtube videos of someone called theanxietyguy and i made tremendous progress with him. Also i drink teas to calm my nerves .
usr : Thank you!! im going to look him up . Has your anxiety come back?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Somethings its want to come back but i am on top of it and always being discipline with myself. I make sure to love myself first and give myself priority.
usr : Thank you for everything .I am now motivated to get going.
sys : (Others) You are welcomed i am glad i was able to help out. Stay positive and healthy.
usr : What kind of teas do you drink to help with anxiety?
| (Information) I drink a lot of chamomile tea with honey which has a great flavor good to calm done, i drink mint tea very refreshing and tilo tea which helps me sleep. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am suffering from health anxiety and staying home and aftiad of going out". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hi how are you ?
usr : Well im feeling awful and my heart is racing , im feeling anxious for no reason.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand what your going thru , i also suffered from anxiety but trust we you will overcome this.
usr : What do you recommend i do?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I recommend searching online about meditation , also one of thing that helped the most for me was exercise and eating healthy.
usr : Ive tried meditation but cant seem to calm down. Exercise help for a bit but then my anxiety comes back.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I remember many times i thought the same way as you but i didnt give up and kept trying. As long as you dont give up you will make progress. It will take time and patience.
usr : Wow its so nice to talk to someone who had the same issues. Are there any other suggestions you might recommendo?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) OF course , for example i watched youtube videos of someone called theanxietyguy and i made tremendous progress with him. Also i drink teas to calm my nerves .
usr : Thank you!! im going to look him up . Has your anxiety come back?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Somethings its want to come back but i am on top of it and always being discipline with myself. I make sure to love myself first and give myself priority.
usr : Thank you for everything .I am now motivated to get going.
sys : (Others) You are welcomed i am glad i was able to help out. Stay positive and healthy.
usr : What kind of teas do you drink to help with anxiety?
sys : (Information) I drink a lot of chamomile tea with honey which has a great flavor good to calm done, i drink mint tea very refreshing and tilo tea which helps me sleep.
usr : I never tried tea , this new for me . I will definitely order some online. DO you have any other suggestions?
| (Providing Suggestions) Yes of course. If you worried about some kind of sickness i would recommend you go to the doctor get yourself a full checkup it will help calm you mind down and reassure you that you are healthy. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am suffering from health anxiety and staying home and aftiad of going out". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hi how are you ?
usr : Well im feeling awful and my heart is racing , im feeling anxious for no reason.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand what your going thru , i also suffered from anxiety but trust we you will overcome this.
usr : What do you recommend i do?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I recommend searching online about meditation , also one of thing that helped the most for me was exercise and eating healthy.
usr : Ive tried meditation but cant seem to calm down. Exercise help for a bit but then my anxiety comes back.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I remember many times i thought the same way as you but i didnt give up and kept trying. As long as you dont give up you will make progress. It will take time and patience.
usr : Wow its so nice to talk to someone who had the same issues. Are there any other suggestions you might recommendo?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) OF course , for example i watched youtube videos of someone called theanxietyguy and i made tremendous progress with him. Also i drink teas to calm my nerves .
usr : Thank you!! im going to look him up . Has your anxiety come back?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Somethings its want to come back but i am on top of it and always being discipline with myself. I make sure to love myself first and give myself priority.
usr : Thank you for everything .I am now motivated to get going.
sys : (Others) You are welcomed i am glad i was able to help out. Stay positive and healthy.
usr : What kind of teas do you drink to help with anxiety?
sys : (Information) I drink a lot of chamomile tea with honey which has a great flavor good to calm done, i drink mint tea very refreshing and tilo tea which helps me sleep.
usr : I never tried tea , this new for me . I will definitely order some online. DO you have any other suggestions?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes of course. If you worried about some kind of sickness i would recommend you go to the doctor get yourself a full checkup it will help calm you mind down and reassure you that you are healthy.
usr : That a greay idea. My health anxiety its at all high levels everything i see about a sickness i get worry especially with this covid -19. I barely go out and get nervous. Has that happened to you?
| (Self-disclosure) Yes, once in while i get nervous about but i try to keep positive and take the right precautions and wear my mask, clea my hands and stay my distance. you shouldnt have a issues . |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am suffering from health anxiety and staying home and aftiad of going out". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hi how are you ?
usr : Well im feeling awful and my heart is racing , im feeling anxious for no reason.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand what your going thru , i also suffered from anxiety but trust we you will overcome this.
usr : What do you recommend i do?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I recommend searching online about meditation , also one of thing that helped the most for me was exercise and eating healthy.
usr : Ive tried meditation but cant seem to calm down. Exercise help for a bit but then my anxiety comes back.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I remember many times i thought the same way as you but i didnt give up and kept trying. As long as you dont give up you will make progress. It will take time and patience.
usr : Wow its so nice to talk to someone who had the same issues. Are there any other suggestions you might recommendo?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) OF course , for example i watched youtube videos of someone called theanxietyguy and i made tremendous progress with him. Also i drink teas to calm my nerves .
usr : Thank you!! im going to look him up . Has your anxiety come back?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Somethings its want to come back but i am on top of it and always being discipline with myself. I make sure to love myself first and give myself priority.
usr : Thank you for everything .I am now motivated to get going.
sys : (Others) You are welcomed i am glad i was able to help out. Stay positive and healthy.
usr : What kind of teas do you drink to help with anxiety?
sys : (Information) I drink a lot of chamomile tea with honey which has a great flavor good to calm done, i drink mint tea very refreshing and tilo tea which helps me sleep.
usr : I never tried tea , this new for me . I will definitely order some online. DO you have any other suggestions?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes of course. If you worried about some kind of sickness i would recommend you go to the doctor get yourself a full checkup it will help calm you mind down and reassure you that you are healthy.
usr : That a greay idea. My health anxiety its at all high levels everything i see about a sickness i get worry especially with this covid -19. I barely go out and get nervous. Has that happened to you?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes, once in while i get nervous about but i try to keep positive and take the right precautions and wear my mask, clea my hands and stay my distance. you shouldnt have a issues .
| (Question) Do you workout? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am suffering from health anxiety and staying home and aftiad of going out". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hi how are you ?
usr : Well im feeling awful and my heart is racing , im feeling anxious for no reason.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand what your going thru , i also suffered from anxiety but trust we you will overcome this.
usr : What do you recommend i do?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I recommend searching online about meditation , also one of thing that helped the most for me was exercise and eating healthy.
usr : Ive tried meditation but cant seem to calm down. Exercise help for a bit but then my anxiety comes back.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I remember many times i thought the same way as you but i didnt give up and kept trying. As long as you dont give up you will make progress. It will take time and patience.
usr : Wow its so nice to talk to someone who had the same issues. Are there any other suggestions you might recommendo?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) OF course , for example i watched youtube videos of someone called theanxietyguy and i made tremendous progress with him. Also i drink teas to calm my nerves .
usr : Thank you!! im going to look him up . Has your anxiety come back?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Somethings its want to come back but i am on top of it and always being discipline with myself. I make sure to love myself first and give myself priority.
usr : Thank you for everything .I am now motivated to get going.
sys : (Others) You are welcomed i am glad i was able to help out. Stay positive and healthy.
usr : What kind of teas do you drink to help with anxiety?
sys : (Information) I drink a lot of chamomile tea with honey which has a great flavor good to calm done, i drink mint tea very refreshing and tilo tea which helps me sleep.
usr : I never tried tea , this new for me . I will definitely order some online. DO you have any other suggestions?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes of course. If you worried about some kind of sickness i would recommend you go to the doctor get yourself a full checkup it will help calm you mind down and reassure you that you are healthy.
usr : That a greay idea. My health anxiety its at all high levels everything i see about a sickness i get worry especially with this covid -19. I barely go out and get nervous. Has that happened to you?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes, once in while i get nervous about but i try to keep positive and take the right precautions and wear my mask, clea my hands and stay my distance. you shouldnt have a issues .
sys : (Question) Do you workout?
usr : No, i havent felt motivated . What kind of workout do you recommend for my anxiety?
| (Providing Suggestions) What really worked for me was cycling. Since its a great cardio workout and its fun. You would enjoy it. Maybe you can get a friend and try it out. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Fear of layoff from job". | (Others) hi | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Fear of layoff from job". | sys : (Others) hi
usr : Hello
| (Question) how are doing you today, what is troubling you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Fear of layoff from job". | sys : (Others) hi
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) how are doing you today, what is troubling you?
usr : I am not good at all
| (Others) you are not good, why |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Fear of layoff from job". | sys : (Others) hi
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) how are doing you today, what is troubling you?
usr : I am not good at all
sys : (Others) you are not good, why
usr : I am scaring about layoff from job
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) oh, if i get you clearly, you mean covid-19 impact on your job might soon affect you job |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Fear of layoff from job". | sys : (Others) hi
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) how are doing you today, what is troubling you?
usr : I am not good at all
sys : (Others) you are not good, why
usr : I am scaring about layoff from job
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) oh, if i get you clearly, you mean covid-19 impact on your job might soon affect you job
usr : You are very correct
usr : Pandemic is giving us problems
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) yeah, covid-19 is a real bummer but i am sure we will soon get over it and the economy will bounce back |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Fear of layoff from job". | sys : (Others) hi
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) how are doing you today, what is troubling you?
usr : I am not good at all
sys : (Others) you are not good, why
usr : I am scaring about layoff from job
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) oh, if i get you clearly, you mean covid-19 impact on your job might soon affect you job
usr : You are very correct
usr : Pandemic is giving us problems
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yeah, covid-19 is a real bummer but i am sure we will soon get over it and the economy will bounce back
usr : I pray its over soon, firstly it was paying cut off and now it is layoff
| (Self-disclosure) i was furloughed my self and now i am working part-time, its not s lot but it is better than nothing |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Fear of layoff from job". | sys : (Others) hi
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) how are doing you today, what is troubling you?
usr : I am not good at all
sys : (Others) you are not good, why
usr : I am scaring about layoff from job
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) oh, if i get you clearly, you mean covid-19 impact on your job might soon affect you job
usr : You are very correct
usr : Pandemic is giving us problems
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yeah, covid-19 is a real bummer but i am sure we will soon get over it and the economy will bounce back
usr : I pray its over soon, firstly it was paying cut off and now it is layoff
sys : (Self-disclosure) i was furloughed my self and now i am working part-time, its not s lot but it is better than nothing
usr : Seriously! What I am scare of now is how to secure another job
| (Reflection of feelings) i can feel your pain just by chatting with you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Fear of layoff from job". | sys : (Others) hi
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) how are doing you today, what is troubling you?
usr : I am not good at all
sys : (Others) you are not good, why
usr : I am scaring about layoff from job
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) oh, if i get you clearly, you mean covid-19 impact on your job might soon affect you job
usr : You are very correct
usr : Pandemic is giving us problems
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yeah, covid-19 is a real bummer but i am sure we will soon get over it and the economy will bounce back
usr : I pray its over soon, firstly it was paying cut off and now it is layoff
sys : (Self-disclosure) i was furloughed my self and now i am working part-time, its not s lot but it is better than nothing
usr : Seriously! What I am scare of now is how to secure another job
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i can feel your pain just by chatting with you
| (Self-disclosure) i was scared at first too before but now that i gat something i am doing it feels better a bit |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Fear of layoff from job". | sys : (Others) hi
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) how are doing you today, what is troubling you?
usr : I am not good at all
sys : (Others) you are not good, why
usr : I am scaring about layoff from job
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) oh, if i get you clearly, you mean covid-19 impact on your job might soon affect you job
usr : You are very correct
usr : Pandemic is giving us problems
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yeah, covid-19 is a real bummer but i am sure we will soon get over it and the economy will bounce back
usr : I pray its over soon, firstly it was paying cut off and now it is layoff
sys : (Self-disclosure) i was furloughed my self and now i am working part-time, its not s lot but it is better than nothing
usr : Seriously! What I am scare of now is how to secure another job
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i can feel your pain just by chatting with you
sys : (Self-disclosure) i was scared at first too before but now that i gat something i am doing it feels better a bit
usr : It is not easy my friend! I don't even dream about this at all I don't believed it is happening
| (Information) yea, it soo surreal, but even though there is a lot lost jobs, there is still a lot of job you can get to keep things balance |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Fear of layoff from job". | sys : (Others) hi
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) how are doing you today, what is troubling you?
usr : I am not good at all
sys : (Others) you are not good, why
usr : I am scaring about layoff from job
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) oh, if i get you clearly, you mean covid-19 impact on your job might soon affect you job
usr : You are very correct
usr : Pandemic is giving us problems
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yeah, covid-19 is a real bummer but i am sure we will soon get over it and the economy will bounce back
usr : I pray its over soon, firstly it was paying cut off and now it is layoff
sys : (Self-disclosure) i was furloughed my self and now i am working part-time, its not s lot but it is better than nothing
usr : Seriously! What I am scare of now is how to secure another job
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i can feel your pain just by chatting with you
sys : (Self-disclosure) i was scared at first too before but now that i gat something i am doing it feels better a bit
usr : It is not easy my friend! I don't even dream about this at all I don't believed it is happening
sys : (Information) yea, it soo surreal, but even though there is a lot lost jobs, there is still a lot of job you can get to keep things balance
usr : That is it my friend! A lot of people are losing their jobs every day by day that one a lone is caring
| (Providing Suggestions) first of all, polish your resume, go online and ask around |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Fear of layoff from job". | sys : (Others) hi
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) how are doing you today, what is troubling you?
usr : I am not good at all
sys : (Others) you are not good, why
usr : I am scaring about layoff from job
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) oh, if i get you clearly, you mean covid-19 impact on your job might soon affect you job
usr : You are very correct
usr : Pandemic is giving us problems
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yeah, covid-19 is a real bummer but i am sure we will soon get over it and the economy will bounce back
usr : I pray its over soon, firstly it was paying cut off and now it is layoff
sys : (Self-disclosure) i was furloughed my self and now i am working part-time, its not s lot but it is better than nothing
usr : Seriously! What I am scare of now is how to secure another job
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i can feel your pain just by chatting with you
sys : (Self-disclosure) i was scared at first too before but now that i gat something i am doing it feels better a bit
usr : It is not easy my friend! I don't even dream about this at all I don't believed it is happening
sys : (Information) yea, it soo surreal, but even though there is a lot lost jobs, there is still a lot of job you can get to keep things balance
usr : That is it my friend! A lot of people are losing their jobs every day by day that one a lone is caring
sys : (Providing Suggestions) first of all, polish your resume, go online and ask around
usr : Thanks friend! That what I was thinking about
usr : You are too good friend, it is time to go thanks
| (Information) from what i have heard and seen, there is job somewhere around, you just have to ask the right person |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i had a break up with my partner.in this suitation i was very depressed and i faced lot of stress.". | (Question) How are you doing tonight? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i had a break up with my partner.in this suitation i was very depressed and i faced lot of stress.". | sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : not so happy
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) In what way are you not happy? Can you elaborate? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i had a break up with my partner.in this suitation i was very depressed and i faced lot of stress.". | sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : not so happy
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) In what way are you not happy? Can you elaborate?
usr : i am not happy because of my current breakup with mypartner.
| (Information) Problems often arise in relationships over misunderstanding each others point of view. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i had a break up with my partner.in this suitation i was very depressed and i faced lot of stress.". | sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : not so happy
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) In what way are you not happy? Can you elaborate?
usr : i am not happy because of my current breakup with mypartner.
sys : (Information) Problems often arise in relationships over misunderstanding each others point of view.
usr : yeah i accept it there will be misunderstanding we want to get adjust
usr : but it must be both side adjusted ,if not it will result in breakup only.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I completely agree with you. One sided relationships do not work. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i had a break up with my partner.in this suitation i was very depressed and i faced lot of stress.". | sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : not so happy
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) In what way are you not happy? Can you elaborate?
usr : i am not happy because of my current breakup with mypartner.
sys : (Information) Problems often arise in relationships over misunderstanding each others point of view.
usr : yeah i accept it there will be misunderstanding we want to get adjust
usr : but it must be both side adjusted ,if not it will result in breakup only.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I completely agree with you. One sided relationships do not work.
usr : yes it wont work at all
| (Providing Suggestions) What else besides unhappy do you feel about this breakup? Often there are a mix of emotions and looking at all of them is important to see the whole picture. People often report feeling relieved, regretful or other emotions with the feeling of unhappy. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i had a break up with my partner.in this suitation i was very depressed and i faced lot of stress.". | sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : not so happy
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) In what way are you not happy? Can you elaborate?
usr : i am not happy because of my current breakup with mypartner.
sys : (Information) Problems often arise in relationships over misunderstanding each others point of view.
usr : yeah i accept it there will be misunderstanding we want to get adjust
usr : but it must be both side adjusted ,if not it will result in breakup only.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I completely agree with you. One sided relationships do not work.
usr : yes it wont work at all
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What else besides unhappy do you feel about this breakup? Often there are a mix of emotions and looking at all of them is important to see the whole picture. People often report feeling relieved, regretful or other emotions with the feeling of unhappy.
usr : there is only thing for my depression is my break up i want to over come but i couldnot .
| (Question) What are some things that you enjoyed doing before this relationship? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i had a break up with my partner.in this suitation i was very depressed and i faced lot of stress.". | sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : not so happy
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) In what way are you not happy? Can you elaborate?
usr : i am not happy because of my current breakup with mypartner.
sys : (Information) Problems often arise in relationships over misunderstanding each others point of view.
usr : yeah i accept it there will be misunderstanding we want to get adjust
usr : but it must be both side adjusted ,if not it will result in breakup only.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I completely agree with you. One sided relationships do not work.
usr : yes it wont work at all
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What else besides unhappy do you feel about this breakup? Often there are a mix of emotions and looking at all of them is important to see the whole picture. People often report feeling relieved, regretful or other emotions with the feeling of unhappy.
usr : there is only thing for my depression is my break up i want to over come but i couldnot .
sys : (Question) What are some things that you enjoyed doing before this relationship?
usr : i was going out for night pub ,enjoying with friends
| (Providing Suggestions) Reaching out to old friends is a great idea to be able to regain some joy in life. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i had a break up with my partner.in this suitation i was very depressed and i faced lot of stress.". | sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : not so happy
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) In what way are you not happy? Can you elaborate?
usr : i am not happy because of my current breakup with mypartner.
sys : (Information) Problems often arise in relationships over misunderstanding each others point of view.
usr : yeah i accept it there will be misunderstanding we want to get adjust
usr : but it must be both side adjusted ,if not it will result in breakup only.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I completely agree with you. One sided relationships do not work.
usr : yes it wont work at all
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What else besides unhappy do you feel about this breakup? Often there are a mix of emotions and looking at all of them is important to see the whole picture. People often report feeling relieved, regretful or other emotions with the feeling of unhappy.
usr : there is only thing for my depression is my break up i want to over come but i couldnot .
sys : (Question) What are some things that you enjoyed doing before this relationship?
usr : i was going out for night pub ,enjoying with friends
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Reaching out to old friends is a great idea to be able to regain some joy in life.
usr : but i cannot face them in this sutiation
| (Information) Many books have suggested that we are allowed to disclose what we want in relationships with friends. So if it is not something you wish to talk about with your friends tell them that and they should be willing to accept it. However I do understand if you do not want to reconnect with friends. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i had a break up with my partner.in this suitation i was very depressed and i faced lot of stress.". | sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : not so happy
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) In what way are you not happy? Can you elaborate?
usr : i am not happy because of my current breakup with mypartner.
sys : (Information) Problems often arise in relationships over misunderstanding each others point of view.
usr : yeah i accept it there will be misunderstanding we want to get adjust
usr : but it must be both side adjusted ,if not it will result in breakup only.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I completely agree with you. One sided relationships do not work.
usr : yes it wont work at all
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What else besides unhappy do you feel about this breakup? Often there are a mix of emotions and looking at all of them is important to see the whole picture. People often report feeling relieved, regretful or other emotions with the feeling of unhappy.
usr : there is only thing for my depression is my break up i want to over come but i couldnot .
sys : (Question) What are some things that you enjoyed doing before this relationship?
usr : i was going out for night pub ,enjoying with friends
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Reaching out to old friends is a great idea to be able to regain some joy in life.
usr : but i cannot face them in this sutiation
sys : (Information) Many books have suggested that we are allowed to disclose what we want in relationships with friends. So if it is not something you wish to talk about with your friends tell them that and they should be willing to accept it. However I do understand if you do not want to reconnect with friends.
usr : they will accept me but i am not willing to share my negative mood with them.
| (Question) I understand. What have you tried to overcome your depression? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i had a break up with my partner.in this suitation i was very depressed and i faced lot of stress.". | sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : not so happy
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) In what way are you not happy? Can you elaborate?
usr : i am not happy because of my current breakup with mypartner.
sys : (Information) Problems often arise in relationships over misunderstanding each others point of view.
usr : yeah i accept it there will be misunderstanding we want to get adjust
usr : but it must be both side adjusted ,if not it will result in breakup only.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I completely agree with you. One sided relationships do not work.
usr : yes it wont work at all
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What else besides unhappy do you feel about this breakup? Often there are a mix of emotions and looking at all of them is important to see the whole picture. People often report feeling relieved, regretful or other emotions with the feeling of unhappy.
usr : there is only thing for my depression is my break up i want to over come but i couldnot .
sys : (Question) What are some things that you enjoyed doing before this relationship?
usr : i was going out for night pub ,enjoying with friends
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Reaching out to old friends is a great idea to be able to regain some joy in life.
usr : but i cannot face them in this sutiation
sys : (Information) Many books have suggested that we are allowed to disclose what we want in relationships with friends. So if it is not something you wish to talk about with your friends tell them that and they should be willing to accept it. However I do understand if you do not want to reconnect with friends.
usr : they will accept me but i am not willing to share my negative mood with them.
sys : (Question) I understand. What have you tried to overcome your depression?
usr : i am trying to overcome but i couldnot
| (Information) I think what I meant are there things that you have done, that while you are doing them, you are not actively feeling depressed? Many people say that going for walks, taking a cooking class, starting a new hobby are ways they have stopped thinking about their depression and found some relief from it. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i had a break up with my partner.in this suitation i was very depressed and i faced lot of stress.". | sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : not so happy
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) In what way are you not happy? Can you elaborate?
usr : i am not happy because of my current breakup with mypartner.
sys : (Information) Problems often arise in relationships over misunderstanding each others point of view.
usr : yeah i accept it there will be misunderstanding we want to get adjust
usr : but it must be both side adjusted ,if not it will result in breakup only.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I completely agree with you. One sided relationships do not work.
usr : yes it wont work at all
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What else besides unhappy do you feel about this breakup? Often there are a mix of emotions and looking at all of them is important to see the whole picture. People often report feeling relieved, regretful or other emotions with the feeling of unhappy.
usr : there is only thing for my depression is my break up i want to over come but i couldnot .
sys : (Question) What are some things that you enjoyed doing before this relationship?
usr : i was going out for night pub ,enjoying with friends
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Reaching out to old friends is a great idea to be able to regain some joy in life.
usr : but i cannot face them in this sutiation
sys : (Information) Many books have suggested that we are allowed to disclose what we want in relationships with friends. So if it is not something you wish to talk about with your friends tell them that and they should be willing to accept it. However I do understand if you do not want to reconnect with friends.
usr : they will accept me but i am not willing to share my negative mood with them.
sys : (Question) I understand. What have you tried to overcome your depression?
usr : i am trying to overcome but i couldnot
sys : (Information) I think what I meant are there things that you have done, that while you are doing them, you are not actively feeling depressed? Many people say that going for walks, taking a cooking class, starting a new hobby are ways they have stopped thinking about their depression and found some relief from it.
usr : yes this seems a good idea
usr : i will try doing this things.
| (Self-disclosure) In the past when I have dealt with depression following a breakup I have taken up a new hobby. I found I liked crochet. I made a blanket that I still have today. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i had a break up with my partner.in this suitation i was very depressed and i faced lot of stress.". | sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : not so happy
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) In what way are you not happy? Can you elaborate?
usr : i am not happy because of my current breakup with mypartner.
sys : (Information) Problems often arise in relationships over misunderstanding each others point of view.
usr : yeah i accept it there will be misunderstanding we want to get adjust
usr : but it must be both side adjusted ,if not it will result in breakup only.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I completely agree with you. One sided relationships do not work.
usr : yes it wont work at all
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What else besides unhappy do you feel about this breakup? Often there are a mix of emotions and looking at all of them is important to see the whole picture. People often report feeling relieved, regretful or other emotions with the feeling of unhappy.
usr : there is only thing for my depression is my break up i want to over come but i couldnot .
sys : (Question) What are some things that you enjoyed doing before this relationship?
usr : i was going out for night pub ,enjoying with friends
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Reaching out to old friends is a great idea to be able to regain some joy in life.
usr : but i cannot face them in this sutiation
sys : (Information) Many books have suggested that we are allowed to disclose what we want in relationships with friends. So if it is not something you wish to talk about with your friends tell them that and they should be willing to accept it. However I do understand if you do not want to reconnect with friends.
usr : they will accept me but i am not willing to share my negative mood with them.
sys : (Question) I understand. What have you tried to overcome your depression?
usr : i am trying to overcome but i couldnot
sys : (Information) I think what I meant are there things that you have done, that while you are doing them, you are not actively feeling depressed? Many people say that going for walks, taking a cooking class, starting a new hobby are ways they have stopped thinking about their depression and found some relief from it.
usr : yes this seems a good idea
usr : i will try doing this things.
sys : (Self-disclosure) In the past when I have dealt with depression following a breakup I have taken up a new hobby. I found I liked crochet. I made a blanket that I still have today.
usr : i will try a new hobby are some other things.
| (Others) That is good to hear. Is there anything else you would like to talk about? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i had a break up with my partner.in this suitation i was very depressed and i faced lot of stress.". | sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : not so happy
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) In what way are you not happy? Can you elaborate?
usr : i am not happy because of my current breakup with mypartner.
sys : (Information) Problems often arise in relationships over misunderstanding each others point of view.
usr : yeah i accept it there will be misunderstanding we want to get adjust
usr : but it must be both side adjusted ,if not it will result in breakup only.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I completely agree with you. One sided relationships do not work.
usr : yes it wont work at all
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What else besides unhappy do you feel about this breakup? Often there are a mix of emotions and looking at all of them is important to see the whole picture. People often report feeling relieved, regretful or other emotions with the feeling of unhappy.
usr : there is only thing for my depression is my break up i want to over come but i couldnot .
sys : (Question) What are some things that you enjoyed doing before this relationship?
usr : i was going out for night pub ,enjoying with friends
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Reaching out to old friends is a great idea to be able to regain some joy in life.
usr : but i cannot face them in this sutiation
sys : (Information) Many books have suggested that we are allowed to disclose what we want in relationships with friends. So if it is not something you wish to talk about with your friends tell them that and they should be willing to accept it. However I do understand if you do not want to reconnect with friends.
usr : they will accept me but i am not willing to share my negative mood with them.
sys : (Question) I understand. What have you tried to overcome your depression?
usr : i am trying to overcome but i couldnot
sys : (Information) I think what I meant are there things that you have done, that while you are doing them, you are not actively feeling depressed? Many people say that going for walks, taking a cooking class, starting a new hobby are ways they have stopped thinking about their depression and found some relief from it.
usr : yes this seems a good idea
usr : i will try doing this things.
sys : (Self-disclosure) In the past when I have dealt with depression following a breakup I have taken up a new hobby. I found I liked crochet. I made a blanket that I still have today.
usr : i will try a new hobby are some other things.
sys : (Others) That is good to hear. Is there anything else you would like to talk about?
usr : nothing else is there
| (Others) It was nice talking to you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i had a break up with my partner.in this suitation i was very depressed and i faced lot of stress.". | sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : not so happy
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) In what way are you not happy? Can you elaborate?
usr : i am not happy because of my current breakup with mypartner.
sys : (Information) Problems often arise in relationships over misunderstanding each others point of view.
usr : yeah i accept it there will be misunderstanding we want to get adjust
usr : but it must be both side adjusted ,if not it will result in breakup only.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I completely agree with you. One sided relationships do not work.
usr : yes it wont work at all
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What else besides unhappy do you feel about this breakup? Often there are a mix of emotions and looking at all of them is important to see the whole picture. People often report feeling relieved, regretful or other emotions with the feeling of unhappy.
usr : there is only thing for my depression is my break up i want to over come but i couldnot .
sys : (Question) What are some things that you enjoyed doing before this relationship?
usr : i was going out for night pub ,enjoying with friends
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Reaching out to old friends is a great idea to be able to regain some joy in life.
usr : but i cannot face them in this sutiation
sys : (Information) Many books have suggested that we are allowed to disclose what we want in relationships with friends. So if it is not something you wish to talk about with your friends tell them that and they should be willing to accept it. However I do understand if you do not want to reconnect with friends.
usr : they will accept me but i am not willing to share my negative mood with them.
sys : (Question) I understand. What have you tried to overcome your depression?
usr : i am trying to overcome but i couldnot
sys : (Information) I think what I meant are there things that you have done, that while you are doing them, you are not actively feeling depressed? Many people say that going for walks, taking a cooking class, starting a new hobby are ways they have stopped thinking about their depression and found some relief from it.
usr : yes this seems a good idea
usr : i will try doing this things.
sys : (Self-disclosure) In the past when I have dealt with depression following a breakup I have taken up a new hobby. I found I liked crochet. I made a blanket that I still have today.
usr : i will try a new hobby are some other things.
sys : (Others) That is good to hear. Is there anything else you would like to talk about?
usr : nothing else is there
sys : (Others) It was nice talking to you.
usr : i think this enough for me to overcome my depression.
usr : thank you for the suggestion
| (Information) It is a good place to start. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i had a break up with my partner.in this suitation i was very depressed and i faced lot of stress.". | sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : not so happy
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) In what way are you not happy? Can you elaborate?
usr : i am not happy because of my current breakup with mypartner.
sys : (Information) Problems often arise in relationships over misunderstanding each others point of view.
usr : yeah i accept it there will be misunderstanding we want to get adjust
usr : but it must be both side adjusted ,if not it will result in breakup only.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I completely agree with you. One sided relationships do not work.
usr : yes it wont work at all
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What else besides unhappy do you feel about this breakup? Often there are a mix of emotions and looking at all of them is important to see the whole picture. People often report feeling relieved, regretful or other emotions with the feeling of unhappy.
usr : there is only thing for my depression is my break up i want to over come but i couldnot .
sys : (Question) What are some things that you enjoyed doing before this relationship?
usr : i was going out for night pub ,enjoying with friends
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Reaching out to old friends is a great idea to be able to regain some joy in life.
usr : but i cannot face them in this sutiation
sys : (Information) Many books have suggested that we are allowed to disclose what we want in relationships with friends. So if it is not something you wish to talk about with your friends tell them that and they should be willing to accept it. However I do understand if you do not want to reconnect with friends.
usr : they will accept me but i am not willing to share my negative mood with them.
sys : (Question) I understand. What have you tried to overcome your depression?
usr : i am trying to overcome but i couldnot
sys : (Information) I think what I meant are there things that you have done, that while you are doing them, you are not actively feeling depressed? Many people say that going for walks, taking a cooking class, starting a new hobby are ways they have stopped thinking about their depression and found some relief from it.
usr : yes this seems a good idea
usr : i will try doing this things.
sys : (Self-disclosure) In the past when I have dealt with depression following a breakup I have taken up a new hobby. I found I liked crochet. I made a blanket that I still have today.
usr : i will try a new hobby are some other things.
sys : (Others) That is good to hear. Is there anything else you would like to talk about?
usr : nothing else is there
sys : (Others) It was nice talking to you.
usr : i think this enough for me to overcome my depression.
usr : thank you for the suggestion
sys : (Information) It is a good place to start.
usr : thank you so much
usr : it is good talking to you.
usr : bye
| (Others) bye |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have been recently laid out because of COVID-19 and not solved yet.". | (Question) Hello. | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have been recently laid out because of COVID-19 and not solved yet.". | sys : (Question) Hello.
usr : I am looking for another job preferably in my locality and not getting yet, since last 2 months. I will find it difficult to sustain if this continues like this for other 3 months.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it sounds like you've been struggling with finding a new job. It's never easy looking for a new job during these times. Why do you think you're having trouble? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have been recently laid out because of COVID-19 and not solved yet.". | sys : (Question) Hello.
usr : I am looking for another job preferably in my locality and not getting yet, since last 2 months. I will find it difficult to sustain if this continues like this for other 3 months.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it sounds like you've been struggling with finding a new job. It's never easy looking for a new job during these times. Why do you think you're having trouble?
usr : Getting a job is not that difficult. But I try to find a job in my locality to avoid distant from family and having food issues.
| (Information) It sounds like you're motivated and dealing with a lot. Is there a specific job that you had in mind or are you applying to different kinds of jobs? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have been recently laid out because of COVID-19 and not solved yet.". | sys : (Question) Hello.
usr : I am looking for another job preferably in my locality and not getting yet, since last 2 months. I will find it difficult to sustain if this continues like this for other 3 months.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it sounds like you've been struggling with finding a new job. It's never easy looking for a new job during these times. Why do you think you're having trouble?
usr : Getting a job is not that difficult. But I try to find a job in my locality to avoid distant from family and having food issues.
sys : (Information) It sounds like you're motivated and dealing with a lot. Is there a specific job that you had in mind or are you applying to different kinds of jobs?
usr : Any kind of job, probably managerial. But to be in my locality since to look after my aged mom also.
| (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you really care to want to be close to home. Have you talked with someone locally about jobs that would allow you to stay close to home? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have been recently laid out because of COVID-19 and not solved yet.". | sys : (Question) Hello.
usr : I am looking for another job preferably in my locality and not getting yet, since last 2 months. I will find it difficult to sustain if this continues like this for other 3 months.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it sounds like you've been struggling with finding a new job. It's never easy looking for a new job during these times. Why do you think you're having trouble?
usr : Getting a job is not that difficult. But I try to find a job in my locality to avoid distant from family and having food issues.
sys : (Information) It sounds like you're motivated and dealing with a lot. Is there a specific job that you had in mind or are you applying to different kinds of jobs?
usr : Any kind of job, probably managerial. But to be in my locality since to look after my aged mom also.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you really care to want to be close to home. Have you talked with someone locally about jobs that would allow you to stay close to home?
usr : I have been talking to some people who my friends knows also. They show interest but cannot help me on the issue.
usr : Surely they will refer to some people. But it will take some time.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Stay motivated. If one opportunity doesn't get your desired response you may be even closer to finding the right job for you. Keep pushing on and know that if one opportunity doesn't work out a positive attitude will make all the difference. Just because you haven't found one yet doesn't mean you won't. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have been recently laid out because of COVID-19 and not solved yet.". | sys : (Question) Hello.
usr : I am looking for another job preferably in my locality and not getting yet, since last 2 months. I will find it difficult to sustain if this continues like this for other 3 months.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it sounds like you've been struggling with finding a new job. It's never easy looking for a new job during these times. Why do you think you're having trouble?
usr : Getting a job is not that difficult. But I try to find a job in my locality to avoid distant from family and having food issues.
sys : (Information) It sounds like you're motivated and dealing with a lot. Is there a specific job that you had in mind or are you applying to different kinds of jobs?
usr : Any kind of job, probably managerial. But to be in my locality since to look after my aged mom also.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you really care to want to be close to home. Have you talked with someone locally about jobs that would allow you to stay close to home?
usr : I have been talking to some people who my friends knows also. They show interest but cannot help me on the issue.
usr : Surely they will refer to some people. But it will take some time.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Stay motivated. If one opportunity doesn't get your desired response you may be even closer to finding the right job for you. Keep pushing on and know that if one opportunity doesn't work out a positive attitude will make all the difference. Just because you haven't found one yet doesn't mean you won't.
usr : Thanks for making confidence. I feel relaxed. I believe this will surely be a chance to find myself and get a better opportunity to be relieved from my previous difficulties. Only GOD should have forced me this way, I believe.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Your faith is healthy and gives you purpose. Similarly you have to believe that the dots will connect in your favor. Maybe you can't connect them looking forward, but looking backwards you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have been recently laid out because of COVID-19 and not solved yet.". | sys : (Question) Hello.
usr : I am looking for another job preferably in my locality and not getting yet, since last 2 months. I will find it difficult to sustain if this continues like this for other 3 months.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it sounds like you've been struggling with finding a new job. It's never easy looking for a new job during these times. Why do you think you're having trouble?
usr : Getting a job is not that difficult. But I try to find a job in my locality to avoid distant from family and having food issues.
sys : (Information) It sounds like you're motivated and dealing with a lot. Is there a specific job that you had in mind or are you applying to different kinds of jobs?
usr : Any kind of job, probably managerial. But to be in my locality since to look after my aged mom also.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you really care to want to be close to home. Have you talked with someone locally about jobs that would allow you to stay close to home?
usr : I have been talking to some people who my friends knows also. They show interest but cannot help me on the issue.
usr : Surely they will refer to some people. But it will take some time.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Stay motivated. If one opportunity doesn't get your desired response you may be even closer to finding the right job for you. Keep pushing on and know that if one opportunity doesn't work out a positive attitude will make all the difference. Just because you haven't found one yet doesn't mean you won't.
usr : Thanks for making confidence. I feel relaxed. I believe this will surely be a chance to find myself and get a better opportunity to be relieved from my previous difficulties. Only GOD should have forced me this way, I believe.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Your faith is healthy and gives you purpose. Similarly you have to believe that the dots will connect in your favor. Maybe you can't connect them looking forward, but looking backwards you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future.
usr : I felt anger over my previous employer since he was not giving any time for me to switch over, at least 2 months.
usr : Even then he was satisfied till then.
| (Providing Suggestions) It can be frustrating to focus on your last job, especially if you haven't found a new one yet. Perhaps once you find a new job your disappointment with the last one won't be so disappointing anymore. If the new job is better you wouldn't have found it working the last job. |
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