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### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I'm worried that my career is not developing and I have no growth". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I'm good, I feel anxious whenever I think of my career
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I often feel the same when my day starts.
usr : people around me seems to achieve great things and get promoted but I am still at my current position
sys : (Question) Do you know of some triggers that might cause this anxiety?
usr : I fell like I am late on my plan
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds like something that could cause anxiety. We all strive to be recognized for our hard work. Have you conversed with your boss?
usr : No i have not, I don't feel comfortable sharing this with my boss or coworkers
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It can totally be intimidating to speak to a boss about this topic. It's not always easy to be comfortable in this kinds of conversations.
sys : (Question) Do you think your boss might have a negative reaction if you were to have this conversation?
usr : It might, I am not sure but I don't think my boss will like the idea
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Sometimes it's important to remember that part of your bosses job is having this kinds of conversations, even though he might not like the idea.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It might be a good idea to have this conversation with your boss. Hold them accountable for this part of their job.
| (Question) Do you think this could be a good idea? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I'm worried that my career is not developing and I have no growth". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I'm good, I feel anxious whenever I think of my career
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I often feel the same when my day starts.
usr : people around me seems to achieve great things and get promoted but I am still at my current position
sys : (Question) Do you know of some triggers that might cause this anxiety?
usr : I fell like I am late on my plan
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds like something that could cause anxiety. We all strive to be recognized for our hard work. Have you conversed with your boss?
usr : No i have not, I don't feel comfortable sharing this with my boss or coworkers
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It can totally be intimidating to speak to a boss about this topic. It's not always easy to be comfortable in this kinds of conversations.
sys : (Question) Do you think your boss might have a negative reaction if you were to have this conversation?
usr : It might, I am not sure but I don't think my boss will like the idea
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Sometimes it's important to remember that part of your bosses job is having this kinds of conversations, even though he might not like the idea.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It might be a good idea to have this conversation with your boss. Hold them accountable for this part of their job.
sys : (Question) Do you think this could be a good idea?
usr : You are right, I should let them know what I want too
| (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like this might be a little intimidating for you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I'm worried that my career is not developing and I have no growth". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I'm good, I feel anxious whenever I think of my career
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I often feel the same when my day starts.
usr : people around me seems to achieve great things and get promoted but I am still at my current position
sys : (Question) Do you know of some triggers that might cause this anxiety?
usr : I fell like I am late on my plan
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds like something that could cause anxiety. We all strive to be recognized for our hard work. Have you conversed with your boss?
usr : No i have not, I don't feel comfortable sharing this with my boss or coworkers
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It can totally be intimidating to speak to a boss about this topic. It's not always easy to be comfortable in this kinds of conversations.
sys : (Question) Do you think your boss might have a negative reaction if you were to have this conversation?
usr : It might, I am not sure but I don't think my boss will like the idea
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Sometimes it's important to remember that part of your bosses job is having this kinds of conversations, even though he might not like the idea.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It might be a good idea to have this conversation with your boss. Hold them accountable for this part of their job.
sys : (Question) Do you think this could be a good idea?
usr : You are right, I should let them know what I want too
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like this might be a little intimidating for you.
usr : I'm not a very direct person so I don't really like confronting
usr : but I think i should have this talk with my boss
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) It might feel that way. But if this is something that might benefit your future, it doesn't mean it's a confrontation. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I'm worried that my career is not developing and I have no growth". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I'm good, I feel anxious whenever I think of my career
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I often feel the same when my day starts.
usr : people around me seems to achieve great things and get promoted but I am still at my current position
sys : (Question) Do you know of some triggers that might cause this anxiety?
usr : I fell like I am late on my plan
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds like something that could cause anxiety. We all strive to be recognized for our hard work. Have you conversed with your boss?
usr : No i have not, I don't feel comfortable sharing this with my boss or coworkers
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It can totally be intimidating to speak to a boss about this topic. It's not always easy to be comfortable in this kinds of conversations.
sys : (Question) Do you think your boss might have a negative reaction if you were to have this conversation?
usr : It might, I am not sure but I don't think my boss will like the idea
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Sometimes it's important to remember that part of your bosses job is having this kinds of conversations, even though he might not like the idea.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It might be a good idea to have this conversation with your boss. Hold them accountable for this part of their job.
sys : (Question) Do you think this could be a good idea?
usr : You are right, I should let them know what I want too
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like this might be a little intimidating for you.
usr : I'm not a very direct person so I don't really like confronting
usr : but I think i should have this talk with my boss
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It might feel that way. But if this is something that might benefit your future, it doesn't mean it's a confrontation.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) But rather, an affirmation of your skillsets. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I'm worried that my career is not developing and I have no growth". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I'm good, I feel anxious whenever I think of my career
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I often feel the same when my day starts.
usr : people around me seems to achieve great things and get promoted but I am still at my current position
sys : (Question) Do you know of some triggers that might cause this anxiety?
usr : I fell like I am late on my plan
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds like something that could cause anxiety. We all strive to be recognized for our hard work. Have you conversed with your boss?
usr : No i have not, I don't feel comfortable sharing this with my boss or coworkers
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It can totally be intimidating to speak to a boss about this topic. It's not always easy to be comfortable in this kinds of conversations.
sys : (Question) Do you think your boss might have a negative reaction if you were to have this conversation?
usr : It might, I am not sure but I don't think my boss will like the idea
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Sometimes it's important to remember that part of your bosses job is having this kinds of conversations, even though he might not like the idea.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It might be a good idea to have this conversation with your boss. Hold them accountable for this part of their job.
sys : (Question) Do you think this could be a good idea?
usr : You are right, I should let them know what I want too
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like this might be a little intimidating for you.
usr : I'm not a very direct person so I don't really like confronting
usr : but I think i should have this talk with my boss
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It might feel that way. But if this is something that might benefit your future, it doesn't mean it's a confrontation.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) But rather, an affirmation of your skillsets.
usr : You're right, you make me feel better about the decision
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am happy to know you will try this. I know you can do it! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I'm worried that my career is not developing and I have no growth". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I'm good, I feel anxious whenever I think of my career
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I often feel the same when my day starts.
usr : people around me seems to achieve great things and get promoted but I am still at my current position
sys : (Question) Do you know of some triggers that might cause this anxiety?
usr : I fell like I am late on my plan
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds like something that could cause anxiety. We all strive to be recognized for our hard work. Have you conversed with your boss?
usr : No i have not, I don't feel comfortable sharing this with my boss or coworkers
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It can totally be intimidating to speak to a boss about this topic. It's not always easy to be comfortable in this kinds of conversations.
sys : (Question) Do you think your boss might have a negative reaction if you were to have this conversation?
usr : It might, I am not sure but I don't think my boss will like the idea
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Sometimes it's important to remember that part of your bosses job is having this kinds of conversations, even though he might not like the idea.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It might be a good idea to have this conversation with your boss. Hold them accountable for this part of their job.
sys : (Question) Do you think this could be a good idea?
usr : You are right, I should let them know what I want too
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like this might be a little intimidating for you.
usr : I'm not a very direct person so I don't really like confronting
usr : but I think i should have this talk with my boss
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It might feel that way. But if this is something that might benefit your future, it doesn't mean it's a confrontation.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) But rather, an affirmation of your skillsets.
usr : You're right, you make me feel better about the decision
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am happy to know you will try this. I know you can do it!
usr : Thank you for your support
| (Others) It's been my pleasure. I wish you good luck! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I'm worried that my career is not developing and I have no growth". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I'm good, I feel anxious whenever I think of my career
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I often feel the same when my day starts.
usr : people around me seems to achieve great things and get promoted but I am still at my current position
sys : (Question) Do you know of some triggers that might cause this anxiety?
usr : I fell like I am late on my plan
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds like something that could cause anxiety. We all strive to be recognized for our hard work. Have you conversed with your boss?
usr : No i have not, I don't feel comfortable sharing this with my boss or coworkers
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It can totally be intimidating to speak to a boss about this topic. It's not always easy to be comfortable in this kinds of conversations.
sys : (Question) Do you think your boss might have a negative reaction if you were to have this conversation?
usr : It might, I am not sure but I don't think my boss will like the idea
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Sometimes it's important to remember that part of your bosses job is having this kinds of conversations, even though he might not like the idea.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It might be a good idea to have this conversation with your boss. Hold them accountable for this part of their job.
sys : (Question) Do you think this could be a good idea?
usr : You are right, I should let them know what I want too
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like this might be a little intimidating for you.
usr : I'm not a very direct person so I don't really like confronting
usr : but I think i should have this talk with my boss
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It might feel that way. But if this is something that might benefit your future, it doesn't mean it's a confrontation.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) But rather, an affirmation of your skillsets.
usr : You're right, you make me feel better about the decision
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am happy to know you will try this. I know you can do it!
usr : Thank you for your support
sys : (Others) It's been my pleasure. I wish you good luck!
usr : Can you give me an idea how to start the conversation?
| (Providing Suggestions) Of course! It's always good to make a list before the meeting. List out your skillsets and how each of those skills provide value to the company. If you can demonstrate to your boss how you provide value to the company, it can give you confidence when taking the next step; asking for a promotion |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I'm worried that my career is not developing and I have no growth". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I'm good, I feel anxious whenever I think of my career
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand. I often feel the same when my day starts.
usr : people around me seems to achieve great things and get promoted but I am still at my current position
sys : (Question) Do you know of some triggers that might cause this anxiety?
usr : I fell like I am late on my plan
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds like something that could cause anxiety. We all strive to be recognized for our hard work. Have you conversed with your boss?
usr : No i have not, I don't feel comfortable sharing this with my boss or coworkers
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It can totally be intimidating to speak to a boss about this topic. It's not always easy to be comfortable in this kinds of conversations.
sys : (Question) Do you think your boss might have a negative reaction if you were to have this conversation?
usr : It might, I am not sure but I don't think my boss will like the idea
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Sometimes it's important to remember that part of your bosses job is having this kinds of conversations, even though he might not like the idea.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It might be a good idea to have this conversation with your boss. Hold them accountable for this part of their job.
sys : (Question) Do you think this could be a good idea?
usr : You are right, I should let them know what I want too
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like this might be a little intimidating for you.
usr : I'm not a very direct person so I don't really like confronting
usr : but I think i should have this talk with my boss
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It might feel that way. But if this is something that might benefit your future, it doesn't mean it's a confrontation.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) But rather, an affirmation of your skillsets.
usr : You're right, you make me feel better about the decision
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am happy to know you will try this. I know you can do it!
usr : Thank you for your support
sys : (Others) It's been my pleasure. I wish you good luck!
usr : Can you give me an idea how to start the conversation?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Of course! It's always good to make a list before the meeting. List out your skillsets and how each of those skills provide value to the company. If you can demonstrate to your boss how you provide value to the company, it can give you confidence when taking the next step; asking for a promotion
usr : What I'm worried is if they reject my suggestion, it will come back and bite me as they will think negatively about me
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It's normal to feel that way. As humans we fear rejection. It's not a pleasant feeling! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.". | usr : Hi there
| (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling at the moment? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.". | usr : Hi there
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : I'm feeling pretty anxious.
| (Question) I am really sorry to hear that, is there anything specific causing this do you think? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.". | usr : Hi there
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : I'm feeling pretty anxious.
sys : (Question) I am really sorry to hear that, is there anything specific causing this do you think?
usr : I was a bartender before covid and I lost my job and it's really difficult for me. It's causing a lot of anxiety.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel as though the virus has had a big impact on your life and is causing problems with your home situation? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.". | usr : Hi there
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : I'm feeling pretty anxious.
sys : (Question) I am really sorry to hear that, is there anything specific causing this do you think?
usr : I was a bartender before covid and I lost my job and it's really difficult for me. It's causing a lot of anxiety.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel as though the virus has had a big impact on your life and is causing problems with your home situation?
usr : Yes, that's a big part of it.
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried contacting charities who might be able to help you out financially? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.". | usr : Hi there
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : I'm feeling pretty anxious.
sys : (Question) I am really sorry to hear that, is there anything specific causing this do you think?
usr : I was a bartender before covid and I lost my job and it's really difficult for me. It's causing a lot of anxiety.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel as though the virus has had a big impact on your life and is causing problems with your home situation?
usr : Yes, that's a big part of it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried contacting charities who might be able to help you out financially?
usr : Well, I don't really want to reach out to charities, if I can help it. It would be much more beneficial for me to earn my money.
| (Information) There is money to be earned on the internet .. perhaps you could consider doing gig work? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.". | usr : Hi there
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : I'm feeling pretty anxious.
sys : (Question) I am really sorry to hear that, is there anything specific causing this do you think?
usr : I was a bartender before covid and I lost my job and it's really difficult for me. It's causing a lot of anxiety.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel as though the virus has had a big impact on your life and is causing problems with your home situation?
usr : Yes, that's a big part of it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried contacting charities who might be able to help you out financially?
usr : Well, I don't really want to reach out to charities, if I can help it. It would be much more beneficial for me to earn my money.
sys : (Information) There is money to be earned on the internet .. perhaps you could consider doing gig work?
usr : That might be a good idea.
usr : Do you have any recommendations?
| (Self-disclosure) I know how difficult it is - I have been on furlough too and am finding financial things very tricky |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.". | usr : Hi there
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : I'm feeling pretty anxious.
sys : (Question) I am really sorry to hear that, is there anything specific causing this do you think?
usr : I was a bartender before covid and I lost my job and it's really difficult for me. It's causing a lot of anxiety.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel as though the virus has had a big impact on your life and is causing problems with your home situation?
usr : Yes, that's a big part of it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried contacting charities who might be able to help you out financially?
usr : Well, I don't really want to reach out to charities, if I can help it. It would be much more beneficial for me to earn my money.
sys : (Information) There is money to be earned on the internet .. perhaps you could consider doing gig work?
usr : That might be a good idea.
usr : Do you have any recommendations?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how difficult it is - I have been on furlough too and am finding financial things very tricky
usr : I guess we're in the same boat.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) A lot of people are really suffering at the moment. It's been such a terrible year but I am hopeful that things will get better in the New Year. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.". | usr : Hi there
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : I'm feeling pretty anxious.
sys : (Question) I am really sorry to hear that, is there anything specific causing this do you think?
usr : I was a bartender before covid and I lost my job and it's really difficult for me. It's causing a lot of anxiety.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel as though the virus has had a big impact on your life and is causing problems with your home situation?
usr : Yes, that's a big part of it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried contacting charities who might be able to help you out financially?
usr : Well, I don't really want to reach out to charities, if I can help it. It would be much more beneficial for me to earn my money.
sys : (Information) There is money to be earned on the internet .. perhaps you could consider doing gig work?
usr : That might be a good idea.
usr : Do you have any recommendations?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how difficult it is - I have been on furlough too and am finding financial things very tricky
usr : I guess we're in the same boat.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) A lot of people are really suffering at the moment. It's been such a terrible year but I am hopeful that things will get better in the New Year.
usr : Yes, I am too.
usr : Do you have any tricks for dealing with anxiety?
| (Information) Have you thought of trying to see a therapist? There are some charities that offer sessions for free |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.". | usr : Hi there
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : I'm feeling pretty anxious.
sys : (Question) I am really sorry to hear that, is there anything specific causing this do you think?
usr : I was a bartender before covid and I lost my job and it's really difficult for me. It's causing a lot of anxiety.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel as though the virus has had a big impact on your life and is causing problems with your home situation?
usr : Yes, that's a big part of it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried contacting charities who might be able to help you out financially?
usr : Well, I don't really want to reach out to charities, if I can help it. It would be much more beneficial for me to earn my money.
sys : (Information) There is money to be earned on the internet .. perhaps you could consider doing gig work?
usr : That might be a good idea.
usr : Do you have any recommendations?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how difficult it is - I have been on furlough too and am finding financial things very tricky
usr : I guess we're in the same boat.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) A lot of people are really suffering at the moment. It's been such a terrible year but I am hopeful that things will get better in the New Year.
usr : Yes, I am too.
usr : Do you have any tricks for dealing with anxiety?
sys : (Information) Have you thought of trying to see a therapist? There are some charities that offer sessions for free
usr : No, I haven't looked into that.
usr : That's a good idea though.
| (Information) They might be able to teach you breathing exercises or things like tht |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.". | usr : Hi there
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : I'm feeling pretty anxious.
sys : (Question) I am really sorry to hear that, is there anything specific causing this do you think?
usr : I was a bartender before covid and I lost my job and it's really difficult for me. It's causing a lot of anxiety.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel as though the virus has had a big impact on your life and is causing problems with your home situation?
usr : Yes, that's a big part of it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried contacting charities who might be able to help you out financially?
usr : Well, I don't really want to reach out to charities, if I can help it. It would be much more beneficial for me to earn my money.
sys : (Information) There is money to be earned on the internet .. perhaps you could consider doing gig work?
usr : That might be a good idea.
usr : Do you have any recommendations?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how difficult it is - I have been on furlough too and am finding financial things very tricky
usr : I guess we're in the same boat.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) A lot of people are really suffering at the moment. It's been such a terrible year but I am hopeful that things will get better in the New Year.
usr : Yes, I am too.
usr : Do you have any tricks for dealing with anxiety?
sys : (Information) Have you thought of trying to see a therapist? There are some charities that offer sessions for free
usr : No, I haven't looked into that.
usr : That's a good idea though.
sys : (Information) They might be able to teach you breathing exercises or things like tht
usr : That's great.
usr : Thank you very much!
| (Question) Do you normally have problems with anxiety even before the pandemic? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.". | usr : Hi there
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : I'm feeling pretty anxious.
sys : (Question) I am really sorry to hear that, is there anything specific causing this do you think?
usr : I was a bartender before covid and I lost my job and it's really difficult for me. It's causing a lot of anxiety.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel as though the virus has had a big impact on your life and is causing problems with your home situation?
usr : Yes, that's a big part of it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried contacting charities who might be able to help you out financially?
usr : Well, I don't really want to reach out to charities, if I can help it. It would be much more beneficial for me to earn my money.
sys : (Information) There is money to be earned on the internet .. perhaps you could consider doing gig work?
usr : That might be a good idea.
usr : Do you have any recommendations?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how difficult it is - I have been on furlough too and am finding financial things very tricky
usr : I guess we're in the same boat.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) A lot of people are really suffering at the moment. It's been such a terrible year but I am hopeful that things will get better in the New Year.
usr : Yes, I am too.
usr : Do you have any tricks for dealing with anxiety?
sys : (Information) Have you thought of trying to see a therapist? There are some charities that offer sessions for free
usr : No, I haven't looked into that.
usr : That's a good idea though.
sys : (Information) They might be able to teach you breathing exercises or things like tht
usr : That's great.
usr : Thank you very much!
sys : (Question) Do you normally have problems with anxiety even before the pandemic?
usr : Sometimes but it's been worse since the pandemic started.
| (Reflection of feelings) Yes I can imagine that a lot of people feel like that. Do you feel as though things are hopeless without a job? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.". | usr : Hi there
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : I'm feeling pretty anxious.
sys : (Question) I am really sorry to hear that, is there anything specific causing this do you think?
usr : I was a bartender before covid and I lost my job and it's really difficult for me. It's causing a lot of anxiety.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel as though the virus has had a big impact on your life and is causing problems with your home situation?
usr : Yes, that's a big part of it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried contacting charities who might be able to help you out financially?
usr : Well, I don't really want to reach out to charities, if I can help it. It would be much more beneficial for me to earn my money.
sys : (Information) There is money to be earned on the internet .. perhaps you could consider doing gig work?
usr : That might be a good idea.
usr : Do you have any recommendations?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how difficult it is - I have been on furlough too and am finding financial things very tricky
usr : I guess we're in the same boat.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) A lot of people are really suffering at the moment. It's been such a terrible year but I am hopeful that things will get better in the New Year.
usr : Yes, I am too.
usr : Do you have any tricks for dealing with anxiety?
sys : (Information) Have you thought of trying to see a therapist? There are some charities that offer sessions for free
usr : No, I haven't looked into that.
usr : That's a good idea though.
sys : (Information) They might be able to teach you breathing exercises or things like tht
usr : That's great.
usr : Thank you very much!
sys : (Question) Do you normally have problems with anxiety even before the pandemic?
usr : Sometimes but it's been worse since the pandemic started.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yes I can imagine that a lot of people feel like that. Do you feel as though things are hopeless without a job?
usr : Yeah, I do. Until I can get a job, I don't think I'll be very comfortable.
| (Question) Do you have a family to support? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.". | usr : Hi there
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : I'm feeling pretty anxious.
sys : (Question) I am really sorry to hear that, is there anything specific causing this do you think?
usr : I was a bartender before covid and I lost my job and it's really difficult for me. It's causing a lot of anxiety.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel as though the virus has had a big impact on your life and is causing problems with your home situation?
usr : Yes, that's a big part of it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried contacting charities who might be able to help you out financially?
usr : Well, I don't really want to reach out to charities, if I can help it. It would be much more beneficial for me to earn my money.
sys : (Information) There is money to be earned on the internet .. perhaps you could consider doing gig work?
usr : That might be a good idea.
usr : Do you have any recommendations?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how difficult it is - I have been on furlough too and am finding financial things very tricky
usr : I guess we're in the same boat.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) A lot of people are really suffering at the moment. It's been such a terrible year but I am hopeful that things will get better in the New Year.
usr : Yes, I am too.
usr : Do you have any tricks for dealing with anxiety?
sys : (Information) Have you thought of trying to see a therapist? There are some charities that offer sessions for free
usr : No, I haven't looked into that.
usr : That's a good idea though.
sys : (Information) They might be able to teach you breathing exercises or things like tht
usr : That's great.
usr : Thank you very much!
sys : (Question) Do you normally have problems with anxiety even before the pandemic?
usr : Sometimes but it's been worse since the pandemic started.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yes I can imagine that a lot of people feel like that. Do you feel as though things are hopeless without a job?
usr : Yeah, I do. Until I can get a job, I don't think I'll be very comfortable.
sys : (Question) Do you have a family to support?
usr : I don't have any kids but I live with my partner so this is putting a strain on our relationship as well.
| (Others) Do you feel that she feels less of you because of you being unemployed? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.". | usr : Hi there
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : I'm feeling pretty anxious.
sys : (Question) I am really sorry to hear that, is there anything specific causing this do you think?
usr : I was a bartender before covid and I lost my job and it's really difficult for me. It's causing a lot of anxiety.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel as though the virus has had a big impact on your life and is causing problems with your home situation?
usr : Yes, that's a big part of it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried contacting charities who might be able to help you out financially?
usr : Well, I don't really want to reach out to charities, if I can help it. It would be much more beneficial for me to earn my money.
sys : (Information) There is money to be earned on the internet .. perhaps you could consider doing gig work?
usr : That might be a good idea.
usr : Do you have any recommendations?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how difficult it is - I have been on furlough too and am finding financial things very tricky
usr : I guess we're in the same boat.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) A lot of people are really suffering at the moment. It's been such a terrible year but I am hopeful that things will get better in the New Year.
usr : Yes, I am too.
usr : Do you have any tricks for dealing with anxiety?
sys : (Information) Have you thought of trying to see a therapist? There are some charities that offer sessions for free
usr : No, I haven't looked into that.
usr : That's a good idea though.
sys : (Information) They might be able to teach you breathing exercises or things like tht
usr : That's great.
usr : Thank you very much!
sys : (Question) Do you normally have problems with anxiety even before the pandemic?
usr : Sometimes but it's been worse since the pandemic started.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yes I can imagine that a lot of people feel like that. Do you feel as though things are hopeless without a job?
usr : Yeah, I do. Until I can get a job, I don't think I'll be very comfortable.
sys : (Question) Do you have a family to support?
usr : I don't have any kids but I live with my partner so this is putting a strain on our relationship as well.
sys : (Others) Do you feel that she feels less of you because of you being unemployed?
usr : Yeah, maybe that' s part of it
| (Others) I am really sorry for your situation and I really want things to be better for you in the New Year. All the best to you and yours for 2020! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.". | usr : Hi there
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : I'm feeling pretty anxious.
sys : (Question) I am really sorry to hear that, is there anything specific causing this do you think?
usr : I was a bartender before covid and I lost my job and it's really difficult for me. It's causing a lot of anxiety.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel as though the virus has had a big impact on your life and is causing problems with your home situation?
usr : Yes, that's a big part of it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried contacting charities who might be able to help you out financially?
usr : Well, I don't really want to reach out to charities, if I can help it. It would be much more beneficial for me to earn my money.
sys : (Information) There is money to be earned on the internet .. perhaps you could consider doing gig work?
usr : That might be a good idea.
usr : Do you have any recommendations?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how difficult it is - I have been on furlough too and am finding financial things very tricky
usr : I guess we're in the same boat.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) A lot of people are really suffering at the moment. It's been such a terrible year but I am hopeful that things will get better in the New Year.
usr : Yes, I am too.
usr : Do you have any tricks for dealing with anxiety?
sys : (Information) Have you thought of trying to see a therapist? There are some charities that offer sessions for free
usr : No, I haven't looked into that.
usr : That's a good idea though.
sys : (Information) They might be able to teach you breathing exercises or things like tht
usr : That's great.
usr : Thank you very much!
sys : (Question) Do you normally have problems with anxiety even before the pandemic?
usr : Sometimes but it's been worse since the pandemic started.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yes I can imagine that a lot of people feel like that. Do you feel as though things are hopeless without a job?
usr : Yeah, I do. Until I can get a job, I don't think I'll be very comfortable.
sys : (Question) Do you have a family to support?
usr : I don't have any kids but I live with my partner so this is putting a strain on our relationship as well.
sys : (Others) Do you feel that she feels less of you because of you being unemployed?
usr : Yeah, maybe that' s part of it
sys : (Others) I am really sorry for your situation and I really want things to be better for you in the New Year. All the best to you and yours for 2020!
usr : Thanks! Same to you.
| (Providing Suggestions) Don't forget to quit and take the survey :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.". | (Question) Hello! How are you today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : Hello. I am alright and yourself?
usr : I am just a little bit upset at the situation
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : Hello. I am alright and yourself?
usr : I am just a little bit upset at the situation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset
usr : I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong
usr : I am not sure how to deal with this
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : Hello. I am alright and yourself?
usr : I am just a little bit upset at the situation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset
usr : I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong
usr : I am not sure how to deal with this
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to her? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : Hello. I am alright and yourself?
usr : I am just a little bit upset at the situation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset
usr : I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong
usr : I am not sure how to deal with this
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to her?
usr : I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second time she told me that it wasn't worth telling him everything and that she was sorry,
usr : But our friendship will never be the same. I lost a best friend at the end of the day and my daughter lost her God mother
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, there is a lot going on for sure, I hope it assures you too know that tough times to pass. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : Hello. I am alright and yourself?
usr : I am just a little bit upset at the situation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset
usr : I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong
usr : I am not sure how to deal with this
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to her?
usr : I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second time she told me that it wasn't worth telling him everything and that she was sorry,
usr : But our friendship will never be the same. I lost a best friend at the end of the day and my daughter lost her God mother
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, there is a lot going on for sure, I hope it assures you too know that tough times to pass.
| (Information) Do you have another outlet? Someone else to turn to? Maybe get a hug? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : Hello. I am alright and yourself?
usr : I am just a little bit upset at the situation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset
usr : I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong
usr : I am not sure how to deal with this
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to her?
usr : I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second time she told me that it wasn't worth telling him everything and that she was sorry,
usr : But our friendship will never be the same. I lost a best friend at the end of the day and my daughter lost her God mother
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, there is a lot going on for sure, I hope it assures you too know that tough times to pass.
sys : (Information) Do you have another outlet? Someone else to turn to? Maybe get a hug?
usr : Yes I truly believe that.
usr : I have my family .. they live about an hour away but they are very good listeners
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Waiting for the time to pass is like torture sometimes, I know |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : Hello. I am alright and yourself?
usr : I am just a little bit upset at the situation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset
usr : I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong
usr : I am not sure how to deal with this
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to her?
usr : I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second time she told me that it wasn't worth telling him everything and that she was sorry,
usr : But our friendship will never be the same. I lost a best friend at the end of the day and my daughter lost her God mother
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, there is a lot going on for sure, I hope it assures you too know that tough times to pass.
sys : (Information) Do you have another outlet? Someone else to turn to? Maybe get a hug?
usr : Yes I truly believe that.
usr : I have my family .. they live about an hour away but they are very good listeners
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Waiting for the time to pass is like torture sometimes, I know
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am happy you have more support |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : Hello. I am alright and yourself?
usr : I am just a little bit upset at the situation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset
usr : I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong
usr : I am not sure how to deal with this
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to her?
usr : I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second time she told me that it wasn't worth telling him everything and that she was sorry,
usr : But our friendship will never be the same. I lost a best friend at the end of the day and my daughter lost her God mother
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, there is a lot going on for sure, I hope it assures you too know that tough times to pass.
sys : (Information) Do you have another outlet? Someone else to turn to? Maybe get a hug?
usr : Yes I truly believe that.
usr : I have my family .. they live about an hour away but they are very good listeners
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Waiting for the time to pass is like torture sometimes, I know
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am happy you have more support
| (Question) Do you have a car or a way to get there if you wanted to? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : Hello. I am alright and yourself?
usr : I am just a little bit upset at the situation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset
usr : I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong
usr : I am not sure how to deal with this
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to her?
usr : I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second time she told me that it wasn't worth telling him everything and that she was sorry,
usr : But our friendship will never be the same. I lost a best friend at the end of the day and my daughter lost her God mother
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, there is a lot going on for sure, I hope it assures you too know that tough times to pass.
sys : (Information) Do you have another outlet? Someone else to turn to? Maybe get a hug?
usr : Yes I truly believe that.
usr : I have my family .. they live about an hour away but they are very good listeners
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Waiting for the time to pass is like torture sometimes, I know
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am happy you have more support
sys : (Question) Do you have a car or a way to get there if you wanted to?
usr : I think the hardest thing that I am going to have to surpass is being able to trust again.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well the fact that you recognize that is a big deal |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : Hello. I am alright and yourself?
usr : I am just a little bit upset at the situation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset
usr : I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong
usr : I am not sure how to deal with this
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to her?
usr : I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second time she told me that it wasn't worth telling him everything and that she was sorry,
usr : But our friendship will never be the same. I lost a best friend at the end of the day and my daughter lost her God mother
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, there is a lot going on for sure, I hope it assures you too know that tough times to pass.
sys : (Information) Do you have another outlet? Someone else to turn to? Maybe get a hug?
usr : Yes I truly believe that.
usr : I have my family .. they live about an hour away but they are very good listeners
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Waiting for the time to pass is like torture sometimes, I know
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am happy you have more support
sys : (Question) Do you have a car or a way to get there if you wanted to?
usr : I think the hardest thing that I am going to have to surpass is being able to trust again.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well the fact that you recognize that is a big deal
usr : I personally do not own a vehicle of my own. It is one that belongs to my partner. I am trying to save up to get my own
| (Reflection of feelings) Accepting the truth is the hardest |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : Hello. I am alright and yourself?
usr : I am just a little bit upset at the situation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset
usr : I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong
usr : I am not sure how to deal with this
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to her?
usr : I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second time she told me that it wasn't worth telling him everything and that she was sorry,
usr : But our friendship will never be the same. I lost a best friend at the end of the day and my daughter lost her God mother
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, there is a lot going on for sure, I hope it assures you too know that tough times to pass.
sys : (Information) Do you have another outlet? Someone else to turn to? Maybe get a hug?
usr : Yes I truly believe that.
usr : I have my family .. they live about an hour away but they are very good listeners
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Waiting for the time to pass is like torture sometimes, I know
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am happy you have more support
sys : (Question) Do you have a car or a way to get there if you wanted to?
usr : I think the hardest thing that I am going to have to surpass is being able to trust again.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well the fact that you recognize that is a big deal
usr : I personally do not own a vehicle of my own. It is one that belongs to my partner. I am trying to save up to get my own
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Accepting the truth is the hardest
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That is great you have started saving |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : Hello. I am alright and yourself?
usr : I am just a little bit upset at the situation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset
usr : I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong
usr : I am not sure how to deal with this
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to her?
usr : I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second time she told me that it wasn't worth telling him everything and that she was sorry,
usr : But our friendship will never be the same. I lost a best friend at the end of the day and my daughter lost her God mother
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, there is a lot going on for sure, I hope it assures you too know that tough times to pass.
sys : (Information) Do you have another outlet? Someone else to turn to? Maybe get a hug?
usr : Yes I truly believe that.
usr : I have my family .. they live about an hour away but they are very good listeners
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Waiting for the time to pass is like torture sometimes, I know
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am happy you have more support
sys : (Question) Do you have a car or a way to get there if you wanted to?
usr : I think the hardest thing that I am going to have to surpass is being able to trust again.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well the fact that you recognize that is a big deal
usr : I personally do not own a vehicle of my own. It is one that belongs to my partner. I am trying to save up to get my own
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Accepting the truth is the hardest
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That is great you have started saving
usr : I figured if I don't, I would probably have a hard time getting over it you know?
| (Providing Suggestions) there are many new money saving APP's out there, some make it easy to achieve a goal, maybe that is something you could check out? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : Hello. I am alright and yourself?
usr : I am just a little bit upset at the situation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset
usr : I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong
usr : I am not sure how to deal with this
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to her?
usr : I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second time she told me that it wasn't worth telling him everything and that she was sorry,
usr : But our friendship will never be the same. I lost a best friend at the end of the day and my daughter lost her God mother
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, there is a lot going on for sure, I hope it assures you too know that tough times to pass.
sys : (Information) Do you have another outlet? Someone else to turn to? Maybe get a hug?
usr : Yes I truly believe that.
usr : I have my family .. they live about an hour away but they are very good listeners
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Waiting for the time to pass is like torture sometimes, I know
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am happy you have more support
sys : (Question) Do you have a car or a way to get there if you wanted to?
usr : I think the hardest thing that I am going to have to surpass is being able to trust again.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well the fact that you recognize that is a big deal
usr : I personally do not own a vehicle of my own. It is one that belongs to my partner. I am trying to save up to get my own
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Accepting the truth is the hardest
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That is great you have started saving
usr : I figured if I don't, I would probably have a hard time getting over it you know?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) there are many new money saving APP's out there, some make it easy to achieve a goal, maybe that is something you could check out?
usr : Yeah.. but how does one go about gaining back the trust of others or getting themselves to that state of mind where they are comfortable with it again?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand what you are saying |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : Hello. I am alright and yourself?
usr : I am just a little bit upset at the situation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset
usr : I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong
usr : I am not sure how to deal with this
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to her?
usr : I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second time she told me that it wasn't worth telling him everything and that she was sorry,
usr : But our friendship will never be the same. I lost a best friend at the end of the day and my daughter lost her God mother
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, there is a lot going on for sure, I hope it assures you too know that tough times to pass.
sys : (Information) Do you have another outlet? Someone else to turn to? Maybe get a hug?
usr : Yes I truly believe that.
usr : I have my family .. they live about an hour away but they are very good listeners
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Waiting for the time to pass is like torture sometimes, I know
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am happy you have more support
sys : (Question) Do you have a car or a way to get there if you wanted to?
usr : I think the hardest thing that I am going to have to surpass is being able to trust again.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well the fact that you recognize that is a big deal
usr : I personally do not own a vehicle of my own. It is one that belongs to my partner. I am trying to save up to get my own
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Accepting the truth is the hardest
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That is great you have started saving
usr : I figured if I don't, I would probably have a hard time getting over it you know?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) there are many new money saving APP's out there, some make it easy to achieve a goal, maybe that is something you could check out?
usr : Yeah.. but how does one go about gaining back the trust of others or getting themselves to that state of mind where they are comfortable with it again?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand what you are saying
usr : Yes for sure. I am going to look up some apps. thank you for that
| (Others) Opening themselves up to the opportunity to be hurt again..... |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : Hello. I am alright and yourself?
usr : I am just a little bit upset at the situation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset
usr : I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong
usr : I am not sure how to deal with this
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to her?
usr : I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second time she told me that it wasn't worth telling him everything and that she was sorry,
usr : But our friendship will never be the same. I lost a best friend at the end of the day and my daughter lost her God mother
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, there is a lot going on for sure, I hope it assures you too know that tough times to pass.
sys : (Information) Do you have another outlet? Someone else to turn to? Maybe get a hug?
usr : Yes I truly believe that.
usr : I have my family .. they live about an hour away but they are very good listeners
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Waiting for the time to pass is like torture sometimes, I know
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am happy you have more support
sys : (Question) Do you have a car or a way to get there if you wanted to?
usr : I think the hardest thing that I am going to have to surpass is being able to trust again.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well the fact that you recognize that is a big deal
usr : I personally do not own a vehicle of my own. It is one that belongs to my partner. I am trying to save up to get my own
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Accepting the truth is the hardest
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That is great you have started saving
usr : I figured if I don't, I would probably have a hard time getting over it you know?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) there are many new money saving APP's out there, some make it easy to achieve a goal, maybe that is something you could check out?
usr : Yeah.. but how does one go about gaining back the trust of others or getting themselves to that state of mind where they are comfortable with it again?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand what you are saying
usr : Yes for sure. I am going to look up some apps. thank you for that
sys : (Others) Opening themselves up to the opportunity to be hurt again.....
| (Reflection of feelings) that is the only way to know whether you will love or trust someone, the trickiness that is life! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : Hello. I am alright and yourself?
usr : I am just a little bit upset at the situation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset
usr : I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong
usr : I am not sure how to deal with this
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to her?
usr : I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second time she told me that it wasn't worth telling him everything and that she was sorry,
usr : But our friendship will never be the same. I lost a best friend at the end of the day and my daughter lost her God mother
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, there is a lot going on for sure, I hope it assures you too know that tough times to pass.
sys : (Information) Do you have another outlet? Someone else to turn to? Maybe get a hug?
usr : Yes I truly believe that.
usr : I have my family .. they live about an hour away but they are very good listeners
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Waiting for the time to pass is like torture sometimes, I know
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am happy you have more support
sys : (Question) Do you have a car or a way to get there if you wanted to?
usr : I think the hardest thing that I am going to have to surpass is being able to trust again.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well the fact that you recognize that is a big deal
usr : I personally do not own a vehicle of my own. It is one that belongs to my partner. I am trying to save up to get my own
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Accepting the truth is the hardest
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That is great you have started saving
usr : I figured if I don't, I would probably have a hard time getting over it you know?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) there are many new money saving APP's out there, some make it easy to achieve a goal, maybe that is something you could check out?
usr : Yeah.. but how does one go about gaining back the trust of others or getting themselves to that state of mind where they are comfortable with it again?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand what you are saying
usr : Yes for sure. I am going to look up some apps. thank you for that
sys : (Others) Opening themselves up to the opportunity to be hurt again.....
sys : (Reflection of feelings) that is the only way to know whether you will love or trust someone, the trickiness that is life!
usr : Not to be hurt again ..to be open enough to trust someone again..
usr : I hear you
| (Self-disclosure) that is the sad thing, you kind of have to accept that getting hurt will always be a possibility, maybe it won't sting as much when someone has to go an prove you right.... |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : Hello. I am alright and yourself?
usr : I am just a little bit upset at the situation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset
usr : I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong
usr : I am not sure how to deal with this
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to her?
usr : I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second time she told me that it wasn't worth telling him everything and that she was sorry,
usr : But our friendship will never be the same. I lost a best friend at the end of the day and my daughter lost her God mother
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, there is a lot going on for sure, I hope it assures you too know that tough times to pass.
sys : (Information) Do you have another outlet? Someone else to turn to? Maybe get a hug?
usr : Yes I truly believe that.
usr : I have my family .. they live about an hour away but they are very good listeners
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Waiting for the time to pass is like torture sometimes, I know
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am happy you have more support
sys : (Question) Do you have a car or a way to get there if you wanted to?
usr : I think the hardest thing that I am going to have to surpass is being able to trust again.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well the fact that you recognize that is a big deal
usr : I personally do not own a vehicle of my own. It is one that belongs to my partner. I am trying to save up to get my own
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Accepting the truth is the hardest
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That is great you have started saving
usr : I figured if I don't, I would probably have a hard time getting over it you know?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) there are many new money saving APP's out there, some make it easy to achieve a goal, maybe that is something you could check out?
usr : Yeah.. but how does one go about gaining back the trust of others or getting themselves to that state of mind where they are comfortable with it again?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand what you are saying
usr : Yes for sure. I am going to look up some apps. thank you for that
sys : (Others) Opening themselves up to the opportunity to be hurt again.....
sys : (Reflection of feelings) that is the only way to know whether you will love or trust someone, the trickiness that is life!
usr : Not to be hurt again ..to be open enough to trust someone again..
usr : I hear you
sys : (Self-disclosure) that is the sad thing, you kind of have to accept that getting hurt will always be a possibility, maybe it won't sting as much when someone has to go an prove you right....
| (Self-disclosure) that's my thought |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : Hello. I am alright and yourself?
usr : I am just a little bit upset at the situation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset
usr : I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong
usr : I am not sure how to deal with this
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to her?
usr : I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second time she told me that it wasn't worth telling him everything and that she was sorry,
usr : But our friendship will never be the same. I lost a best friend at the end of the day and my daughter lost her God mother
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, there is a lot going on for sure, I hope it assures you too know that tough times to pass.
sys : (Information) Do you have another outlet? Someone else to turn to? Maybe get a hug?
usr : Yes I truly believe that.
usr : I have my family .. they live about an hour away but they are very good listeners
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Waiting for the time to pass is like torture sometimes, I know
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am happy you have more support
sys : (Question) Do you have a car or a way to get there if you wanted to?
usr : I think the hardest thing that I am going to have to surpass is being able to trust again.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well the fact that you recognize that is a big deal
usr : I personally do not own a vehicle of my own. It is one that belongs to my partner. I am trying to save up to get my own
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Accepting the truth is the hardest
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That is great you have started saving
usr : I figured if I don't, I would probably have a hard time getting over it you know?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) there are many new money saving APP's out there, some make it easy to achieve a goal, maybe that is something you could check out?
usr : Yeah.. but how does one go about gaining back the trust of others or getting themselves to that state of mind where they are comfortable with it again?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand what you are saying
usr : Yes for sure. I am going to look up some apps. thank you for that
sys : (Others) Opening themselves up to the opportunity to be hurt again.....
sys : (Reflection of feelings) that is the only way to know whether you will love or trust someone, the trickiness that is life!
usr : Not to be hurt again ..to be open enough to trust someone again..
usr : I hear you
sys : (Self-disclosure) that is the sad thing, you kind of have to accept that getting hurt will always be a possibility, maybe it won't sting as much when someone has to go an prove you right....
sys : (Self-disclosure) that's my thought
usr : Truth. I guess I just have to keep that kind of mindset. Go into things and enjoy them but proceed with caution?
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Yes! That is a great way to put it! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : Hello. I am alright and yourself?
usr : I am just a little bit upset at the situation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset
usr : I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong
usr : I am not sure how to deal with this
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to her?
usr : I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second time she told me that it wasn't worth telling him everything and that she was sorry,
usr : But our friendship will never be the same. I lost a best friend at the end of the day and my daughter lost her God mother
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, there is a lot going on for sure, I hope it assures you too know that tough times to pass.
sys : (Information) Do you have another outlet? Someone else to turn to? Maybe get a hug?
usr : Yes I truly believe that.
usr : I have my family .. they live about an hour away but they are very good listeners
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Waiting for the time to pass is like torture sometimes, I know
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am happy you have more support
sys : (Question) Do you have a car or a way to get there if you wanted to?
usr : I think the hardest thing that I am going to have to surpass is being able to trust again.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well the fact that you recognize that is a big deal
usr : I personally do not own a vehicle of my own. It is one that belongs to my partner. I am trying to save up to get my own
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Accepting the truth is the hardest
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That is great you have started saving
usr : I figured if I don't, I would probably have a hard time getting over it you know?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) there are many new money saving APP's out there, some make it easy to achieve a goal, maybe that is something you could check out?
usr : Yeah.. but how does one go about gaining back the trust of others or getting themselves to that state of mind where they are comfortable with it again?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand what you are saying
usr : Yes for sure. I am going to look up some apps. thank you for that
sys : (Others) Opening themselves up to the opportunity to be hurt again.....
sys : (Reflection of feelings) that is the only way to know whether you will love or trust someone, the trickiness that is life!
usr : Not to be hurt again ..to be open enough to trust someone again..
usr : I hear you
sys : (Self-disclosure) that is the sad thing, you kind of have to accept that getting hurt will always be a possibility, maybe it won't sting as much when someone has to go an prove you right....
sys : (Self-disclosure) that's my thought
usr : Truth. I guess I just have to keep that kind of mindset. Go into things and enjoy them but proceed with caution?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Yes! That is a great way to put it!
usr : Thank you for the advice. I really appreciate it.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Just never forget you are worthy of love, happiness, and nothing but good things |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : Hello. I am alright and yourself?
usr : I am just a little bit upset at the situation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset
usr : I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong
usr : I am not sure how to deal with this
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to her?
usr : I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second time she told me that it wasn't worth telling him everything and that she was sorry,
usr : But our friendship will never be the same. I lost a best friend at the end of the day and my daughter lost her God mother
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, there is a lot going on for sure, I hope it assures you too know that tough times to pass.
sys : (Information) Do you have another outlet? Someone else to turn to? Maybe get a hug?
usr : Yes I truly believe that.
usr : I have my family .. they live about an hour away but they are very good listeners
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Waiting for the time to pass is like torture sometimes, I know
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am happy you have more support
sys : (Question) Do you have a car or a way to get there if you wanted to?
usr : I think the hardest thing that I am going to have to surpass is being able to trust again.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well the fact that you recognize that is a big deal
usr : I personally do not own a vehicle of my own. It is one that belongs to my partner. I am trying to save up to get my own
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Accepting the truth is the hardest
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That is great you have started saving
usr : I figured if I don't, I would probably have a hard time getting over it you know?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) there are many new money saving APP's out there, some make it easy to achieve a goal, maybe that is something you could check out?
usr : Yeah.. but how does one go about gaining back the trust of others or getting themselves to that state of mind where they are comfortable with it again?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand what you are saying
usr : Yes for sure. I am going to look up some apps. thank you for that
sys : (Others) Opening themselves up to the opportunity to be hurt again.....
sys : (Reflection of feelings) that is the only way to know whether you will love or trust someone, the trickiness that is life!
usr : Not to be hurt again ..to be open enough to trust someone again..
usr : I hear you
sys : (Self-disclosure) that is the sad thing, you kind of have to accept that getting hurt will always be a possibility, maybe it won't sting as much when someone has to go an prove you right....
sys : (Self-disclosure) that's my thought
usr : Truth. I guess I just have to keep that kind of mindset. Go into things and enjoy them but proceed with caution?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Yes! That is a great way to put it!
usr : Thank you for the advice. I really appreciate it.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Just never forget you are worthy of love, happiness, and nothing but good things
usr : I feel a little brighter having spoken to someone about it.
usr : Thank you for that tip as well
| (Others) I am happy I could help |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : Hello. I am alright and yourself?
usr : I am just a little bit upset at the situation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset
usr : I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong
usr : I am not sure how to deal with this
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to her?
usr : I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second time she told me that it wasn't worth telling him everything and that she was sorry,
usr : But our friendship will never be the same. I lost a best friend at the end of the day and my daughter lost her God mother
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, there is a lot going on for sure, I hope it assures you too know that tough times to pass.
sys : (Information) Do you have another outlet? Someone else to turn to? Maybe get a hug?
usr : Yes I truly believe that.
usr : I have my family .. they live about an hour away but they are very good listeners
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Waiting for the time to pass is like torture sometimes, I know
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am happy you have more support
sys : (Question) Do you have a car or a way to get there if you wanted to?
usr : I think the hardest thing that I am going to have to surpass is being able to trust again.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well the fact that you recognize that is a big deal
usr : I personally do not own a vehicle of my own. It is one that belongs to my partner. I am trying to save up to get my own
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Accepting the truth is the hardest
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That is great you have started saving
usr : I figured if I don't, I would probably have a hard time getting over it you know?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) there are many new money saving APP's out there, some make it easy to achieve a goal, maybe that is something you could check out?
usr : Yeah.. but how does one go about gaining back the trust of others or getting themselves to that state of mind where they are comfortable with it again?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand what you are saying
usr : Yes for sure. I am going to look up some apps. thank you for that
sys : (Others) Opening themselves up to the opportunity to be hurt again.....
sys : (Reflection of feelings) that is the only way to know whether you will love or trust someone, the trickiness that is life!
usr : Not to be hurt again ..to be open enough to trust someone again..
usr : I hear you
sys : (Self-disclosure) that is the sad thing, you kind of have to accept that getting hurt will always be a possibility, maybe it won't sting as much when someone has to go an prove you right....
sys : (Self-disclosure) that's my thought
usr : Truth. I guess I just have to keep that kind of mindset. Go into things and enjoy them but proceed with caution?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Yes! That is a great way to put it!
usr : Thank you for the advice. I really appreciate it.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Just never forget you are worthy of love, happiness, and nothing but good things
usr : I feel a little brighter having spoken to someone about it.
usr : Thank you for that tip as well
sys : (Others) I am happy I could help
usr : I needed to hear that
| (Providing Suggestions) Things will look up! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : Hello. I am alright and yourself?
usr : I am just a little bit upset at the situation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset
usr : I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong
usr : I am not sure how to deal with this
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to her?
usr : I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second time she told me that it wasn't worth telling him everything and that she was sorry,
usr : But our friendship will never be the same. I lost a best friend at the end of the day and my daughter lost her God mother
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, there is a lot going on for sure, I hope it assures you too know that tough times to pass.
sys : (Information) Do you have another outlet? Someone else to turn to? Maybe get a hug?
usr : Yes I truly believe that.
usr : I have my family .. they live about an hour away but they are very good listeners
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Waiting for the time to pass is like torture sometimes, I know
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am happy you have more support
sys : (Question) Do you have a car or a way to get there if you wanted to?
usr : I think the hardest thing that I am going to have to surpass is being able to trust again.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well the fact that you recognize that is a big deal
usr : I personally do not own a vehicle of my own. It is one that belongs to my partner. I am trying to save up to get my own
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Accepting the truth is the hardest
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That is great you have started saving
usr : I figured if I don't, I would probably have a hard time getting over it you know?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) there are many new money saving APP's out there, some make it easy to achieve a goal, maybe that is something you could check out?
usr : Yeah.. but how does one go about gaining back the trust of others or getting themselves to that state of mind where they are comfortable with it again?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand what you are saying
usr : Yes for sure. I am going to look up some apps. thank you for that
sys : (Others) Opening themselves up to the opportunity to be hurt again.....
sys : (Reflection of feelings) that is the only way to know whether you will love or trust someone, the trickiness that is life!
usr : Not to be hurt again ..to be open enough to trust someone again..
usr : I hear you
sys : (Self-disclosure) that is the sad thing, you kind of have to accept that getting hurt will always be a possibility, maybe it won't sting as much when someone has to go an prove you right....
sys : (Self-disclosure) that's my thought
usr : Truth. I guess I just have to keep that kind of mindset. Go into things and enjoy them but proceed with caution?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Yes! That is a great way to put it!
usr : Thank you for the advice. I really appreciate it.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Just never forget you are worthy of love, happiness, and nothing but good things
usr : I feel a little brighter having spoken to someone about it.
usr : Thank you for that tip as well
sys : (Others) I am happy I could help
usr : I needed to hear that
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Things will look up!
| (Others) I am happy you let the words sink in! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : Hello. I am alright and yourself?
usr : I am just a little bit upset at the situation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset
usr : I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong
usr : I am not sure how to deal with this
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to her?
usr : I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second time she told me that it wasn't worth telling him everything and that she was sorry,
usr : But our friendship will never be the same. I lost a best friend at the end of the day and my daughter lost her God mother
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, there is a lot going on for sure, I hope it assures you too know that tough times to pass.
sys : (Information) Do you have another outlet? Someone else to turn to? Maybe get a hug?
usr : Yes I truly believe that.
usr : I have my family .. they live about an hour away but they are very good listeners
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Waiting for the time to pass is like torture sometimes, I know
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am happy you have more support
sys : (Question) Do you have a car or a way to get there if you wanted to?
usr : I think the hardest thing that I am going to have to surpass is being able to trust again.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well the fact that you recognize that is a big deal
usr : I personally do not own a vehicle of my own. It is one that belongs to my partner. I am trying to save up to get my own
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Accepting the truth is the hardest
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That is great you have started saving
usr : I figured if I don't, I would probably have a hard time getting over it you know?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) there are many new money saving APP's out there, some make it easy to achieve a goal, maybe that is something you could check out?
usr : Yeah.. but how does one go about gaining back the trust of others or getting themselves to that state of mind where they are comfortable with it again?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand what you are saying
usr : Yes for sure. I am going to look up some apps. thank you for that
sys : (Others) Opening themselves up to the opportunity to be hurt again.....
sys : (Reflection of feelings) that is the only way to know whether you will love or trust someone, the trickiness that is life!
usr : Not to be hurt again ..to be open enough to trust someone again..
usr : I hear you
sys : (Self-disclosure) that is the sad thing, you kind of have to accept that getting hurt will always be a possibility, maybe it won't sting as much when someone has to go an prove you right....
sys : (Self-disclosure) that's my thought
usr : Truth. I guess I just have to keep that kind of mindset. Go into things and enjoy them but proceed with caution?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Yes! That is a great way to put it!
usr : Thank you for the advice. I really appreciate it.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Just never forget you are worthy of love, happiness, and nothing but good things
usr : I feel a little brighter having spoken to someone about it.
usr : Thank you for that tip as well
sys : (Others) I am happy I could help
usr : I needed to hear that
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Things will look up!
sys : (Others) I am happy you let the words sink in!
usr : I really have hope that they will :)
| (Others) a smile face is a good sign! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : Hello. I am alright and yourself?
usr : I am just a little bit upset at the situation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset
usr : I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong
usr : I am not sure how to deal with this
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to her?
usr : I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second time she told me that it wasn't worth telling him everything and that she was sorry,
usr : But our friendship will never be the same. I lost a best friend at the end of the day and my daughter lost her God mother
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, there is a lot going on for sure, I hope it assures you too know that tough times to pass.
sys : (Information) Do you have another outlet? Someone else to turn to? Maybe get a hug?
usr : Yes I truly believe that.
usr : I have my family .. they live about an hour away but they are very good listeners
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Waiting for the time to pass is like torture sometimes, I know
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am happy you have more support
sys : (Question) Do you have a car or a way to get there if you wanted to?
usr : I think the hardest thing that I am going to have to surpass is being able to trust again.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well the fact that you recognize that is a big deal
usr : I personally do not own a vehicle of my own. It is one that belongs to my partner. I am trying to save up to get my own
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Accepting the truth is the hardest
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That is great you have started saving
usr : I figured if I don't, I would probably have a hard time getting over it you know?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) there are many new money saving APP's out there, some make it easy to achieve a goal, maybe that is something you could check out?
usr : Yeah.. but how does one go about gaining back the trust of others or getting themselves to that state of mind where they are comfortable with it again?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand what you are saying
usr : Yes for sure. I am going to look up some apps. thank you for that
sys : (Others) Opening themselves up to the opportunity to be hurt again.....
sys : (Reflection of feelings) that is the only way to know whether you will love or trust someone, the trickiness that is life!
usr : Not to be hurt again ..to be open enough to trust someone again..
usr : I hear you
sys : (Self-disclosure) that is the sad thing, you kind of have to accept that getting hurt will always be a possibility, maybe it won't sting as much when someone has to go an prove you right....
sys : (Self-disclosure) that's my thought
usr : Truth. I guess I just have to keep that kind of mindset. Go into things and enjoy them but proceed with caution?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Yes! That is a great way to put it!
usr : Thank you for the advice. I really appreciate it.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Just never forget you are worthy of love, happiness, and nothing but good things
usr : I feel a little brighter having spoken to someone about it.
usr : Thank you for that tip as well
sys : (Others) I am happy I could help
usr : I needed to hear that
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Things will look up!
sys : (Others) I am happy you let the words sink in!
usr : I really have hope that they will :)
sys : (Others) a smile face is a good sign!
usr : I appreciate your help. Have a great day.
usr : Thank you again
| (Question) Thank you!! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"breakup with lover". | (Question) Hi, how are you feeling tonight? Is there anything I can help you with? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"breakup with lover". | sys : (Question) Hi, how are you feeling tonight? Is there anything I can help you with?
usr : hi
usr : feeling upset
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. Can I talk you through what you're experiencing? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"breakup with lover". | sys : (Question) Hi, how are you feeling tonight? Is there anything I can help you with?
usr : hi
usr : feeling upset
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. Can I talk you through what you're experiencing?
usr : i am sad because of my love
| (Question) That's frustrating to hear. What is your love? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"breakup with lover". | sys : (Question) Hi, how are you feeling tonight? Is there anything I can help you with?
usr : hi
usr : feeling upset
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. Can I talk you through what you're experiencing?
usr : i am sad because of my love
sys : (Question) That's frustrating to hear. What is your love?
usr : its gone, she left me
| (Question) That's awful. I'm so sorry to hear that. How did it happen? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"breakup with lover". | sys : (Question) Hi, how are you feeling tonight? Is there anything I can help you with?
usr : hi
usr : feeling upset
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. Can I talk you through what you're experiencing?
usr : i am sad because of my love
sys : (Question) That's frustrating to hear. What is your love?
usr : its gone, she left me
sys : (Question) That's awful. I'm so sorry to hear that. How did it happen?
usr : she is married to a rich man
| (Question) Is there any way you feel you can move on from her? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"breakup with lover". | sys : (Question) Hi, how are you feeling tonight? Is there anything I can help you with?
usr : hi
usr : feeling upset
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. Can I talk you through what you're experiencing?
usr : i am sad because of my love
sys : (Question) That's frustrating to hear. What is your love?
usr : its gone, she left me
sys : (Question) That's awful. I'm so sorry to hear that. How did it happen?
usr : she is married to a rich man
sys : (Question) Is there any way you feel you can move on from her?
usr : she broke me down like a helpless bird
usr : i can over come from her memories
| (Question) Were you in a relationship with her? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"breakup with lover". | sys : (Question) Hi, how are you feeling tonight? Is there anything I can help you with?
usr : hi
usr : feeling upset
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. Can I talk you through what you're experiencing?
usr : i am sad because of my love
sys : (Question) That's frustrating to hear. What is your love?
usr : its gone, she left me
sys : (Question) That's awful. I'm so sorry to hear that. How did it happen?
usr : she is married to a rich man
sys : (Question) Is there any way you feel you can move on from her?
usr : she broke me down like a helpless bird
usr : i can over come from her memories
sys : (Question) Were you in a relationship with her?
usr : yes i've been in a relationship with her for three years
| (Providing Suggestions) If she has moved on from you, as painful as it is, you should move on from her. But that will take time, and it will help to slowly and methodically find a way forward from her. You should not feel like it will happen overnight or that quickly, but distractions and creating a new path for yourself are imperative. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"breakup with lover". | sys : (Question) Hi, how are you feeling tonight? Is there anything I can help you with?
usr : hi
usr : feeling upset
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. Can I talk you through what you're experiencing?
usr : i am sad because of my love
sys : (Question) That's frustrating to hear. What is your love?
usr : its gone, she left me
sys : (Question) That's awful. I'm so sorry to hear that. How did it happen?
usr : she is married to a rich man
sys : (Question) Is there any way you feel you can move on from her?
usr : she broke me down like a helpless bird
usr : i can over come from her memories
sys : (Question) Were you in a relationship with her?
usr : yes i've been in a relationship with her for three years
sys : (Providing Suggestions) If she has moved on from you, as painful as it is, you should move on from her. But that will take time, and it will help to slowly and methodically find a way forward from her. You should not feel like it will happen overnight or that quickly, but distractions and creating a new path for yourself are imperative.
usr : I cound not stop remember her memories, its repeating and disturbing for all way
| (Providing Suggestions) For now, that is a normal feeling and reaction, but with therapy and some help, that will lessen in frequency and severity. Have you tried meditation? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"breakup with lover". | sys : (Question) Hi, how are you feeling tonight? Is there anything I can help you with?
usr : hi
usr : feeling upset
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. Can I talk you through what you're experiencing?
usr : i am sad because of my love
sys : (Question) That's frustrating to hear. What is your love?
usr : its gone, she left me
sys : (Question) That's awful. I'm so sorry to hear that. How did it happen?
usr : she is married to a rich man
sys : (Question) Is there any way you feel you can move on from her?
usr : she broke me down like a helpless bird
usr : i can over come from her memories
sys : (Question) Were you in a relationship with her?
usr : yes i've been in a relationship with her for three years
sys : (Providing Suggestions) If she has moved on from you, as painful as it is, you should move on from her. But that will take time, and it will help to slowly and methodically find a way forward from her. You should not feel like it will happen overnight or that quickly, but distractions and creating a new path for yourself are imperative.
usr : I cound not stop remember her memories, its repeating and disturbing for all way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) For now, that is a normal feeling and reaction, but with therapy and some help, that will lessen in frequency and severity. Have you tried meditation?
usr : yes but it is not so effective towards me
| (Providing Suggestions) How about a therapist, if only temporarily? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"breakup with lover". | sys : (Question) Hi, how are you feeling tonight? Is there anything I can help you with?
usr : hi
usr : feeling upset
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. Can I talk you through what you're experiencing?
usr : i am sad because of my love
sys : (Question) That's frustrating to hear. What is your love?
usr : its gone, she left me
sys : (Question) That's awful. I'm so sorry to hear that. How did it happen?
usr : she is married to a rich man
sys : (Question) Is there any way you feel you can move on from her?
usr : she broke me down like a helpless bird
usr : i can over come from her memories
sys : (Question) Were you in a relationship with her?
usr : yes i've been in a relationship with her for three years
sys : (Providing Suggestions) If she has moved on from you, as painful as it is, you should move on from her. But that will take time, and it will help to slowly and methodically find a way forward from her. You should not feel like it will happen overnight or that quickly, but distractions and creating a new path for yourself are imperative.
usr : I cound not stop remember her memories, its repeating and disturbing for all way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) For now, that is a normal feeling and reaction, but with therapy and some help, that will lessen in frequency and severity. Have you tried meditation?
usr : yes but it is not so effective towards me
sys : (Providing Suggestions) How about a therapist, if only temporarily?
usr : yes because of the pandemic no one will provide a proper theraphy
| (Providing Suggestions) There are many support groups online you can try. I would contact your PCP who can try to get you in touch with someone who could help. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"breakup with lover". | sys : (Question) Hi, how are you feeling tonight? Is there anything I can help you with?
usr : hi
usr : feeling upset
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. Can I talk you through what you're experiencing?
usr : i am sad because of my love
sys : (Question) That's frustrating to hear. What is your love?
usr : its gone, she left me
sys : (Question) That's awful. I'm so sorry to hear that. How did it happen?
usr : she is married to a rich man
sys : (Question) Is there any way you feel you can move on from her?
usr : she broke me down like a helpless bird
usr : i can over come from her memories
sys : (Question) Were you in a relationship with her?
usr : yes i've been in a relationship with her for three years
sys : (Providing Suggestions) If she has moved on from you, as painful as it is, you should move on from her. But that will take time, and it will help to slowly and methodically find a way forward from her. You should not feel like it will happen overnight or that quickly, but distractions and creating a new path for yourself are imperative.
usr : I cound not stop remember her memories, its repeating and disturbing for all way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) For now, that is a normal feeling and reaction, but with therapy and some help, that will lessen in frequency and severity. Have you tried meditation?
usr : yes but it is not so effective towards me
sys : (Providing Suggestions) How about a therapist, if only temporarily?
usr : yes because of the pandemic no one will provide a proper theraphy
sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are many support groups online you can try. I would contact your PCP who can try to get you in touch with someone who could help.
usr : do you know anyone
| (Providing Suggestions) not online, only locally, and I don't know where you live, sorry. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"breakup with lover". | sys : (Question) Hi, how are you feeling tonight? Is there anything I can help you with?
usr : hi
usr : feeling upset
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. Can I talk you through what you're experiencing?
usr : i am sad because of my love
sys : (Question) That's frustrating to hear. What is your love?
usr : its gone, she left me
sys : (Question) That's awful. I'm so sorry to hear that. How did it happen?
usr : she is married to a rich man
sys : (Question) Is there any way you feel you can move on from her?
usr : she broke me down like a helpless bird
usr : i can over come from her memories
sys : (Question) Were you in a relationship with her?
usr : yes i've been in a relationship with her for three years
sys : (Providing Suggestions) If she has moved on from you, as painful as it is, you should move on from her. But that will take time, and it will help to slowly and methodically find a way forward from her. You should not feel like it will happen overnight or that quickly, but distractions and creating a new path for yourself are imperative.
usr : I cound not stop remember her memories, its repeating and disturbing for all way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) For now, that is a normal feeling and reaction, but with therapy and some help, that will lessen in frequency and severity. Have you tried meditation?
usr : yes but it is not so effective towards me
sys : (Providing Suggestions) How about a therapist, if only temporarily?
usr : yes because of the pandemic no one will provide a proper theraphy
sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are many support groups online you can try. I would contact your PCP who can try to get you in touch with someone who could help.
usr : do you know anyone
sys : (Providing Suggestions) not online, only locally, and I don't know where you live, sorry.
usr : its okey, i will find by myself
| (Reflection of feelings) I have to get going, but I encourage you to find a support group or contact a physician asking for a recommendation. Perhaps ask friends you're comfortable with. Keep in mind that this is only temporary and designed to help you not just move on, but grow stronger from this. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"breakup with lover". | sys : (Question) Hi, how are you feeling tonight? Is there anything I can help you with?
usr : hi
usr : feeling upset
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. Can I talk you through what you're experiencing?
usr : i am sad because of my love
sys : (Question) That's frustrating to hear. What is your love?
usr : its gone, she left me
sys : (Question) That's awful. I'm so sorry to hear that. How did it happen?
usr : she is married to a rich man
sys : (Question) Is there any way you feel you can move on from her?
usr : she broke me down like a helpless bird
usr : i can over come from her memories
sys : (Question) Were you in a relationship with her?
usr : yes i've been in a relationship with her for three years
sys : (Providing Suggestions) If she has moved on from you, as painful as it is, you should move on from her. But that will take time, and it will help to slowly and methodically find a way forward from her. You should not feel like it will happen overnight or that quickly, but distractions and creating a new path for yourself are imperative.
usr : I cound not stop remember her memories, its repeating and disturbing for all way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) For now, that is a normal feeling and reaction, but with therapy and some help, that will lessen in frequency and severity. Have you tried meditation?
usr : yes but it is not so effective towards me
sys : (Providing Suggestions) How about a therapist, if only temporarily?
usr : yes because of the pandemic no one will provide a proper theraphy
sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are many support groups online you can try. I would contact your PCP who can try to get you in touch with someone who could help.
usr : do you know anyone
sys : (Providing Suggestions) not online, only locally, and I don't know where you live, sorry.
usr : its okey, i will find by myself
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have to get going, but I encourage you to find a support group or contact a physician asking for a recommendation. Perhaps ask friends you're comfortable with. Keep in mind that this is only temporary and designed to help you not just move on, but grow stronger from this.
usr : im physically fit but mentally hurt by her
usr : and thats my problem
| (Information) Yes, but mental pain can lead you down a dark path. It is best to catch it while you can, before it is significant. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"breakup with lover". | sys : (Question) Hi, how are you feeling tonight? Is there anything I can help you with?
usr : hi
usr : feeling upset
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. Can I talk you through what you're experiencing?
usr : i am sad because of my love
sys : (Question) That's frustrating to hear. What is your love?
usr : its gone, she left me
sys : (Question) That's awful. I'm so sorry to hear that. How did it happen?
usr : she is married to a rich man
sys : (Question) Is there any way you feel you can move on from her?
usr : she broke me down like a helpless bird
usr : i can over come from her memories
sys : (Question) Were you in a relationship with her?
usr : yes i've been in a relationship with her for three years
sys : (Providing Suggestions) If she has moved on from you, as painful as it is, you should move on from her. But that will take time, and it will help to slowly and methodically find a way forward from her. You should not feel like it will happen overnight or that quickly, but distractions and creating a new path for yourself are imperative.
usr : I cound not stop remember her memories, its repeating and disturbing for all way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) For now, that is a normal feeling and reaction, but with therapy and some help, that will lessen in frequency and severity. Have you tried meditation?
usr : yes but it is not so effective towards me
sys : (Providing Suggestions) How about a therapist, if only temporarily?
usr : yes because of the pandemic no one will provide a proper theraphy
sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are many support groups online you can try. I would contact your PCP who can try to get you in touch with someone who could help.
usr : do you know anyone
sys : (Providing Suggestions) not online, only locally, and I don't know where you live, sorry.
usr : its okey, i will find by myself
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have to get going, but I encourage you to find a support group or contact a physician asking for a recommendation. Perhaps ask friends you're comfortable with. Keep in mind that this is only temporary and designed to help you not just move on, but grow stronger from this.
usr : im physically fit but mentally hurt by her
usr : and thats my problem
sys : (Information) Yes, but mental pain can lead you down a dark path. It is best to catch it while you can, before it is significant.
usr : i will try to recover from it
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Thank you, be well, stay positive and know that there are bright days ahead. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"breakup with lover". | sys : (Question) Hi, how are you feeling tonight? Is there anything I can help you with?
usr : hi
usr : feeling upset
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. Can I talk you through what you're experiencing?
usr : i am sad because of my love
sys : (Question) That's frustrating to hear. What is your love?
usr : its gone, she left me
sys : (Question) That's awful. I'm so sorry to hear that. How did it happen?
usr : she is married to a rich man
sys : (Question) Is there any way you feel you can move on from her?
usr : she broke me down like a helpless bird
usr : i can over come from her memories
sys : (Question) Were you in a relationship with her?
usr : yes i've been in a relationship with her for three years
sys : (Providing Suggestions) If she has moved on from you, as painful as it is, you should move on from her. But that will take time, and it will help to slowly and methodically find a way forward from her. You should not feel like it will happen overnight or that quickly, but distractions and creating a new path for yourself are imperative.
usr : I cound not stop remember her memories, its repeating and disturbing for all way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) For now, that is a normal feeling and reaction, but with therapy and some help, that will lessen in frequency and severity. Have you tried meditation?
usr : yes but it is not so effective towards me
sys : (Providing Suggestions) How about a therapist, if only temporarily?
usr : yes because of the pandemic no one will provide a proper theraphy
sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are many support groups online you can try. I would contact your PCP who can try to get you in touch with someone who could help.
usr : do you know anyone
sys : (Providing Suggestions) not online, only locally, and I don't know where you live, sorry.
usr : its okey, i will find by myself
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have to get going, but I encourage you to find a support group or contact a physician asking for a recommendation. Perhaps ask friends you're comfortable with. Keep in mind that this is only temporary and designed to help you not just move on, but grow stronger from this.
usr : im physically fit but mentally hurt by her
usr : and thats my problem
sys : (Information) Yes, but mental pain can lead you down a dark path. It is best to catch it while you can, before it is significant.
usr : i will try to recover from it
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Thank you, be well, stay positive and know that there are bright days ahead.
usr : try to find the right way to get my way
| (Reflection of feelings) That's always the challenge. But one worth fighting for :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"breakup with lover". | sys : (Question) Hi, how are you feeling tonight? Is there anything I can help you with?
usr : hi
usr : feeling upset
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. Can I talk you through what you're experiencing?
usr : i am sad because of my love
sys : (Question) That's frustrating to hear. What is your love?
usr : its gone, she left me
sys : (Question) That's awful. I'm so sorry to hear that. How did it happen?
usr : she is married to a rich man
sys : (Question) Is there any way you feel you can move on from her?
usr : she broke me down like a helpless bird
usr : i can over come from her memories
sys : (Question) Were you in a relationship with her?
usr : yes i've been in a relationship with her for three years
sys : (Providing Suggestions) If she has moved on from you, as painful as it is, you should move on from her. But that will take time, and it will help to slowly and methodically find a way forward from her. You should not feel like it will happen overnight or that quickly, but distractions and creating a new path for yourself are imperative.
usr : I cound not stop remember her memories, its repeating and disturbing for all way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) For now, that is a normal feeling and reaction, but with therapy and some help, that will lessen in frequency and severity. Have you tried meditation?
usr : yes but it is not so effective towards me
sys : (Providing Suggestions) How about a therapist, if only temporarily?
usr : yes because of the pandemic no one will provide a proper theraphy
sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are many support groups online you can try. I would contact your PCP who can try to get you in touch with someone who could help.
usr : do you know anyone
sys : (Providing Suggestions) not online, only locally, and I don't know where you live, sorry.
usr : its okey, i will find by myself
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have to get going, but I encourage you to find a support group or contact a physician asking for a recommendation. Perhaps ask friends you're comfortable with. Keep in mind that this is only temporary and designed to help you not just move on, but grow stronger from this.
usr : im physically fit but mentally hurt by her
usr : and thats my problem
sys : (Information) Yes, but mental pain can lead you down a dark path. It is best to catch it while you can, before it is significant.
usr : i will try to recover from it
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Thank you, be well, stay positive and know that there are bright days ahead.
usr : try to find the right way to get my way
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's always the challenge. But one worth fighting for :)
usr : yes it is challenging
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I must get going, have a wonderful night and be strong. I believe in you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"breakup with lover". | sys : (Question) Hi, how are you feeling tonight? Is there anything I can help you with?
usr : hi
usr : feeling upset
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. Can I talk you through what you're experiencing?
usr : i am sad because of my love
sys : (Question) That's frustrating to hear. What is your love?
usr : its gone, she left me
sys : (Question) That's awful. I'm so sorry to hear that. How did it happen?
usr : she is married to a rich man
sys : (Question) Is there any way you feel you can move on from her?
usr : she broke me down like a helpless bird
usr : i can over come from her memories
sys : (Question) Were you in a relationship with her?
usr : yes i've been in a relationship with her for three years
sys : (Providing Suggestions) If she has moved on from you, as painful as it is, you should move on from her. But that will take time, and it will help to slowly and methodically find a way forward from her. You should not feel like it will happen overnight or that quickly, but distractions and creating a new path for yourself are imperative.
usr : I cound not stop remember her memories, its repeating and disturbing for all way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) For now, that is a normal feeling and reaction, but with therapy and some help, that will lessen in frequency and severity. Have you tried meditation?
usr : yes but it is not so effective towards me
sys : (Providing Suggestions) How about a therapist, if only temporarily?
usr : yes because of the pandemic no one will provide a proper theraphy
sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are many support groups online you can try. I would contact your PCP who can try to get you in touch with someone who could help.
usr : do you know anyone
sys : (Providing Suggestions) not online, only locally, and I don't know where you live, sorry.
usr : its okey, i will find by myself
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have to get going, but I encourage you to find a support group or contact a physician asking for a recommendation. Perhaps ask friends you're comfortable with. Keep in mind that this is only temporary and designed to help you not just move on, but grow stronger from this.
usr : im physically fit but mentally hurt by her
usr : and thats my problem
sys : (Information) Yes, but mental pain can lead you down a dark path. It is best to catch it while you can, before it is significant.
usr : i will try to recover from it
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Thank you, be well, stay positive and know that there are bright days ahead.
usr : try to find the right way to get my way
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's always the challenge. But one worth fighting for :)
usr : yes it is challenging
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I must get going, have a wonderful night and be strong. I believe in you.
usr : ok bye
usr : thankyou for your concern
| (Reflection of feelings) my pleasure |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I work very hard, physically hard and I am not a young man anymore
My boss seems to not notice another supervisor on the same level as me sits in his desk chair and sleeps! Everyday!". | (Others) Hello | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I work very hard, physically hard and I am not a young man anymore
My boss seems to not notice another supervisor on the same level as me sits in his desk chair and sleeps! Everyday!". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hello
| (Question) How may i help you today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I work very hard, physically hard and I am not a young man anymore
My boss seems to not notice another supervisor on the same level as me sits in his desk chair and sleeps! Everyday!". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How may i help you today?
usr : I have a co worker who sleeps all the time at his desk. I physically work hard everyday
| (Reflection of feelings) I can understand how you are feeling. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I work very hard, physically hard and I am not a young man anymore
My boss seems to not notice another supervisor on the same level as me sits in his desk chair and sleeps! Everyday!". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How may i help you today?
usr : I have a co worker who sleeps all the time at his desk. I physically work hard everyday
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand how you are feeling.
usr : It makes me mad. No one says a word to him, he just sleeps and gets paid for it.
| (Reflection of feelings) Has anyone else noticed him sleeping all the time at his desk? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I work very hard, physically hard and I am not a young man anymore
My boss seems to not notice another supervisor on the same level as me sits in his desk chair and sleeps! Everyday!". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How may i help you today?
usr : I have a co worker who sleeps all the time at his desk. I physically work hard everyday
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand how you are feeling.
usr : It makes me mad. No one says a word to him, he just sleeps and gets paid for it.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Has anyone else noticed him sleeping all the time at his desk?
usr : My boss said (I have been there for five years) to me one day did I see DE sleeping at his desk? I was floored that it seemed he never saw him do it before. How could he not?
| (Others) That is really weird how can someone not see him sleeping at his desk |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I work very hard, physically hard and I am not a young man anymore
My boss seems to not notice another supervisor on the same level as me sits in his desk chair and sleeps! Everyday!". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How may i help you today?
usr : I have a co worker who sleeps all the time at his desk. I physically work hard everyday
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand how you are feeling.
usr : It makes me mad. No one says a word to him, he just sleeps and gets paid for it.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Has anyone else noticed him sleeping all the time at his desk?
usr : My boss said (I have been there for five years) to me one day did I see DE sleeping at his desk? I was floored that it seemed he never saw him do it before. How could he not?
sys : (Others) That is really weird how can someone not see him sleeping at his desk
usr : Very weird. I am one of the oldest men there and I am always expected to jump in and do work that is manual labor. Very frustrating to see someone else just sleeping.
| (Question) Have you talked to your co worker about it? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I work very hard, physically hard and I am not a young man anymore
My boss seems to not notice another supervisor on the same level as me sits in his desk chair and sleeps! Everyday!". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How may i help you today?
usr : I have a co worker who sleeps all the time at his desk. I physically work hard everyday
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand how you are feeling.
usr : It makes me mad. No one says a word to him, he just sleeps and gets paid for it.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Has anyone else noticed him sleeping all the time at his desk?
usr : My boss said (I have been there for five years) to me one day did I see DE sleeping at his desk? I was floored that it seemed he never saw him do it before. How could he not?
sys : (Others) That is really weird how can someone not see him sleeping at his desk
usr : Very weird. I am one of the oldest men there and I am always expected to jump in and do work that is manual labor. Very frustrating to see someone else just sleeping.
sys : (Question) Have you talked to your co worker about it?
usr : It really would not be my place, it would be up to my boss. He obviously said nothing.
| (Providing Suggestions) if your boss said nothing to him then maybe you should step up and say something even though you are right that is not your place |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I work very hard, physically hard and I am not a young man anymore
My boss seems to not notice another supervisor on the same level as me sits in his desk chair and sleeps! Everyday!". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How may i help you today?
usr : I have a co worker who sleeps all the time at his desk. I physically work hard everyday
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand how you are feeling.
usr : It makes me mad. No one says a word to him, he just sleeps and gets paid for it.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Has anyone else noticed him sleeping all the time at his desk?
usr : My boss said (I have been there for five years) to me one day did I see DE sleeping at his desk? I was floored that it seemed he never saw him do it before. How could he not?
sys : (Others) That is really weird how can someone not see him sleeping at his desk
usr : Very weird. I am one of the oldest men there and I am always expected to jump in and do work that is manual labor. Very frustrating to see someone else just sleeping.
sys : (Question) Have you talked to your co worker about it?
usr : It really would not be my place, it would be up to my boss. He obviously said nothing.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) if your boss said nothing to him then maybe you should step up and say something even though you are right that is not your place
usr : I keep hoping that one of the upper management team will walk by one day and see him.
| (Information) Your boss does not sound like a good boss at all and not doing his job correctly |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I work very hard, physically hard and I am not a young man anymore
My boss seems to not notice another supervisor on the same level as me sits in his desk chair and sleeps! Everyday!". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How may i help you today?
usr : I have a co worker who sleeps all the time at his desk. I physically work hard everyday
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand how you are feeling.
usr : It makes me mad. No one says a word to him, he just sleeps and gets paid for it.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Has anyone else noticed him sleeping all the time at his desk?
usr : My boss said (I have been there for five years) to me one day did I see DE sleeping at his desk? I was floored that it seemed he never saw him do it before. How could he not?
sys : (Others) That is really weird how can someone not see him sleeping at his desk
usr : Very weird. I am one of the oldest men there and I am always expected to jump in and do work that is manual labor. Very frustrating to see someone else just sleeping.
sys : (Question) Have you talked to your co worker about it?
usr : It really would not be my place, it would be up to my boss. He obviously said nothing.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) if your boss said nothing to him then maybe you should step up and say something even though you are right that is not your place
usr : I keep hoping that one of the upper management team will walk by one day and see him.
sys : (Information) Your boss does not sound like a good boss at all and not doing his job correctly
usr : Definitely not being fair across the board, in my eyes.
| (Providing Suggestions) i feel like you should have like a serious talk to your boss about it |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I work very hard, physically hard and I am not a young man anymore
My boss seems to not notice another supervisor on the same level as me sits in his desk chair and sleeps! Everyday!". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How may i help you today?
usr : I have a co worker who sleeps all the time at his desk. I physically work hard everyday
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand how you are feeling.
usr : It makes me mad. No one says a word to him, he just sleeps and gets paid for it.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Has anyone else noticed him sleeping all the time at his desk?
usr : My boss said (I have been there for five years) to me one day did I see DE sleeping at his desk? I was floored that it seemed he never saw him do it before. How could he not?
sys : (Others) That is really weird how can someone not see him sleeping at his desk
usr : Very weird. I am one of the oldest men there and I am always expected to jump in and do work that is manual labor. Very frustrating to see someone else just sleeping.
sys : (Question) Have you talked to your co worker about it?
usr : It really would not be my place, it would be up to my boss. He obviously said nothing.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) if your boss said nothing to him then maybe you should step up and say something even though you are right that is not your place
usr : I keep hoping that one of the upper management team will walk by one day and see him.
sys : (Information) Your boss does not sound like a good boss at all and not doing his job correctly
usr : Definitely not being fair across the board, in my eyes.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i feel like you should have like a serious talk to your boss about it
usr : You're probably correct. I may feel better just getting it out, even if the situation does not change.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I don't want you feeling how you feeling because you are doing your job and you are doing everything you can to solve the problem |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I work very hard, physically hard and I am not a young man anymore
My boss seems to not notice another supervisor on the same level as me sits in his desk chair and sleeps! Everyday!". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How may i help you today?
usr : I have a co worker who sleeps all the time at his desk. I physically work hard everyday
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand how you are feeling.
usr : It makes me mad. No one says a word to him, he just sleeps and gets paid for it.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Has anyone else noticed him sleeping all the time at his desk?
usr : My boss said (I have been there for five years) to me one day did I see DE sleeping at his desk? I was floored that it seemed he never saw him do it before. How could he not?
sys : (Others) That is really weird how can someone not see him sleeping at his desk
usr : Very weird. I am one of the oldest men there and I am always expected to jump in and do work that is manual labor. Very frustrating to see someone else just sleeping.
sys : (Question) Have you talked to your co worker about it?
usr : It really would not be my place, it would be up to my boss. He obviously said nothing.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) if your boss said nothing to him then maybe you should step up and say something even though you are right that is not your place
usr : I keep hoping that one of the upper management team will walk by one day and see him.
sys : (Information) Your boss does not sound like a good boss at all and not doing his job correctly
usr : Definitely not being fair across the board, in my eyes.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i feel like you should have like a serious talk to your boss about it
usr : You're probably correct. I may feel better just getting it out, even if the situation does not change.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I don't want you feeling how you feeling because you are doing your job and you are doing everything you can to solve the problem
usr : Thank you, that helps hearing that from someone.
| (Information) How long has this been going on? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I work very hard, physically hard and I am not a young man anymore
My boss seems to not notice another supervisor on the same level as me sits in his desk chair and sleeps! Everyday!". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How may i help you today?
usr : I have a co worker who sleeps all the time at his desk. I physically work hard everyday
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand how you are feeling.
usr : It makes me mad. No one says a word to him, he just sleeps and gets paid for it.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Has anyone else noticed him sleeping all the time at his desk?
usr : My boss said (I have been there for five years) to me one day did I see DE sleeping at his desk? I was floored that it seemed he never saw him do it before. How could he not?
sys : (Others) That is really weird how can someone not see him sleeping at his desk
usr : Very weird. I am one of the oldest men there and I am always expected to jump in and do work that is manual labor. Very frustrating to see someone else just sleeping.
sys : (Question) Have you talked to your co worker about it?
usr : It really would not be my place, it would be up to my boss. He obviously said nothing.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) if your boss said nothing to him then maybe you should step up and say something even though you are right that is not your place
usr : I keep hoping that one of the upper management team will walk by one day and see him.
sys : (Information) Your boss does not sound like a good boss at all and not doing his job correctly
usr : Definitely not being fair across the board, in my eyes.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i feel like you should have like a serious talk to your boss about it
usr : You're probably correct. I may feel better just getting it out, even if the situation does not change.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I don't want you feeling how you feeling because you are doing your job and you are doing everything you can to solve the problem
usr : Thank you, that helps hearing that from someone.
sys : (Information) How long has this been going on?
| (Others) Your welcome |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I work very hard, physically hard and I am not a young man anymore
My boss seems to not notice another supervisor on the same level as me sits in his desk chair and sleeps! Everyday!". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How may i help you today?
usr : I have a co worker who sleeps all the time at his desk. I physically work hard everyday
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand how you are feeling.
usr : It makes me mad. No one says a word to him, he just sleeps and gets paid for it.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Has anyone else noticed him sleeping all the time at his desk?
usr : My boss said (I have been there for five years) to me one day did I see DE sleeping at his desk? I was floored that it seemed he never saw him do it before. How could he not?
sys : (Others) That is really weird how can someone not see him sleeping at his desk
usr : Very weird. I am one of the oldest men there and I am always expected to jump in and do work that is manual labor. Very frustrating to see someone else just sleeping.
sys : (Question) Have you talked to your co worker about it?
usr : It really would not be my place, it would be up to my boss. He obviously said nothing.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) if your boss said nothing to him then maybe you should step up and say something even though you are right that is not your place
usr : I keep hoping that one of the upper management team will walk by one day and see him.
sys : (Information) Your boss does not sound like a good boss at all and not doing his job correctly
usr : Definitely not being fair across the board, in my eyes.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i feel like you should have like a serious talk to your boss about it
usr : You're probably correct. I may feel better just getting it out, even if the situation does not change.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I don't want you feeling how you feeling because you are doing your job and you are doing everything you can to solve the problem
usr : Thank you, that helps hearing that from someone.
sys : (Information) How long has this been going on?
sys : (Others) Your welcome
usr : Seriously, over two years. True
| (Information) How many times have you confronted your boss about it? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I work very hard, physically hard and I am not a young man anymore
My boss seems to not notice another supervisor on the same level as me sits in his desk chair and sleeps! Everyday!". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How may i help you today?
usr : I have a co worker who sleeps all the time at his desk. I physically work hard everyday
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand how you are feeling.
usr : It makes me mad. No one says a word to him, he just sleeps and gets paid for it.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Has anyone else noticed him sleeping all the time at his desk?
usr : My boss said (I have been there for five years) to me one day did I see DE sleeping at his desk? I was floored that it seemed he never saw him do it before. How could he not?
sys : (Others) That is really weird how can someone not see him sleeping at his desk
usr : Very weird. I am one of the oldest men there and I am always expected to jump in and do work that is manual labor. Very frustrating to see someone else just sleeping.
sys : (Question) Have you talked to your co worker about it?
usr : It really would not be my place, it would be up to my boss. He obviously said nothing.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) if your boss said nothing to him then maybe you should step up and say something even though you are right that is not your place
usr : I keep hoping that one of the upper management team will walk by one day and see him.
sys : (Information) Your boss does not sound like a good boss at all and not doing his job correctly
usr : Definitely not being fair across the board, in my eyes.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i feel like you should have like a serious talk to your boss about it
usr : You're probably correct. I may feel better just getting it out, even if the situation does not change.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I don't want you feeling how you feeling because you are doing your job and you are doing everything you can to solve the problem
usr : Thank you, that helps hearing that from someone.
sys : (Information) How long has this been going on?
sys : (Others) Your welcome
usr : Seriously, over two years. True
sys : (Information) How many times have you confronted your boss about it?
usr : I never have, I just looked at him like are you for real when he asked me if the guy was sleeping the one day. I had to bite my tongue not to say, yes, and he does it every day!
| (Others) So he must not believe you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I work very hard, physically hard and I am not a young man anymore
My boss seems to not notice another supervisor on the same level as me sits in his desk chair and sleeps! Everyday!". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How may i help you today?
usr : I have a co worker who sleeps all the time at his desk. I physically work hard everyday
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand how you are feeling.
usr : It makes me mad. No one says a word to him, he just sleeps and gets paid for it.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Has anyone else noticed him sleeping all the time at his desk?
usr : My boss said (I have been there for five years) to me one day did I see DE sleeping at his desk? I was floored that it seemed he never saw him do it before. How could he not?
sys : (Others) That is really weird how can someone not see him sleeping at his desk
usr : Very weird. I am one of the oldest men there and I am always expected to jump in and do work that is manual labor. Very frustrating to see someone else just sleeping.
sys : (Question) Have you talked to your co worker about it?
usr : It really would not be my place, it would be up to my boss. He obviously said nothing.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) if your boss said nothing to him then maybe you should step up and say something even though you are right that is not your place
usr : I keep hoping that one of the upper management team will walk by one day and see him.
sys : (Information) Your boss does not sound like a good boss at all and not doing his job correctly
usr : Definitely not being fair across the board, in my eyes.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i feel like you should have like a serious talk to your boss about it
usr : You're probably correct. I may feel better just getting it out, even if the situation does not change.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I don't want you feeling how you feeling because you are doing your job and you are doing everything you can to solve the problem
usr : Thank you, that helps hearing that from someone.
sys : (Information) How long has this been going on?
sys : (Others) Your welcome
usr : Seriously, over two years. True
sys : (Information) How many times have you confronted your boss about it?
usr : I never have, I just looked at him like are you for real when he asked me if the guy was sleeping the one day. I had to bite my tongue not to say, yes, and he does it every day!
sys : (Others) So he must not believe you
usr : Well thank you for letting me get this out. I appreciate the advice and I will definitely think over talking with my boss. Have a good night!
| (Others) have a good night to and your welcome |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have lost my job, and my entire industry has been shut down due to Covid-19, and I am struggling to find work that is safe for me to do from home.". | (Question) Hey, how are you doing? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have lost my job, and my entire industry has been shut down due to Covid-19, and I am struggling to find work that is safe for me to do from home.". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you doing?
usr : Not the best, but I'm surviving.
usr : hello?
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) By surviving, it is more of a personal situation or an outside dilemma affecting you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have lost my job, and my entire industry has been shut down due to Covid-19, and I am struggling to find work that is safe for me to do from home.". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you doing?
usr : Not the best, but I'm surviving.
usr : hello?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) By surviving, it is more of a personal situation or an outside dilemma affecting you.
| (Others) is it* |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have lost my job, and my entire industry has been shut down due to Covid-19, and I am struggling to find work that is safe for me to do from home.". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you doing?
usr : Not the best, but I'm surviving.
usr : hello?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) By surviving, it is more of a personal situation or an outside dilemma affecting you.
sys : (Others) is it*
usr : I just haven't been able to find any work. I guess that is an outside dilemma, but being this behind on bills and feeling this helpless to change my situation has negatively impacted my mood.
| (Reflection of feelings) I see what you mean. Finding work in this environment can be stressful as well. In any case, I can say that a good way to start is to account for all transactions you make. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have lost my job, and my entire industry has been shut down due to Covid-19, and I am struggling to find work that is safe for me to do from home.". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you doing?
usr : Not the best, but I'm surviving.
usr : hello?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) By surviving, it is more of a personal situation or an outside dilemma affecting you.
sys : (Others) is it*
usr : I just haven't been able to find any work. I guess that is an outside dilemma, but being this behind on bills and feeling this helpless to change my situation has negatively impacted my mood.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see what you mean. Finding work in this environment can be stressful as well. In any case, I can say that a good way to start is to account for all transactions you make.
usr : I have already been budgeting extensively, the issue is I can't make enough to cover my basic expenses, no matter how much I cut them
| (Others) Are you also pressed for time? Time management can be a predicament as well. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have lost my job, and my entire industry has been shut down due to Covid-19, and I am struggling to find work that is safe for me to do from home.". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you doing?
usr : Not the best, but I'm surviving.
usr : hello?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) By surviving, it is more of a personal situation or an outside dilemma affecting you.
sys : (Others) is it*
usr : I just haven't been able to find any work. I guess that is an outside dilemma, but being this behind on bills and feeling this helpless to change my situation has negatively impacted my mood.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see what you mean. Finding work in this environment can be stressful as well. In any case, I can say that a good way to start is to account for all transactions you make.
usr : I have already been budgeting extensively, the issue is I can't make enough to cover my basic expenses, no matter how much I cut them
sys : (Others) Are you also pressed for time? Time management can be a predicament as well.
usr : I have lots of free time, just waiting for unemployment to respond to my claims, applying for jobs online, and trying services like mturk to earn what I can from home in the meantime.
usr : I spend a good portion of my day trying to apply for everything I can and fixating on mturk tasks to make me feel like I'm accomplishing something
| (Self-disclosure) Wow, it's slightly uncanny the way our situations are similar. For someone who is also not in the best place financially and just making the bare minimum, it can feel hopeless sometimes. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have lost my job, and my entire industry has been shut down due to Covid-19, and I am struggling to find work that is safe for me to do from home.". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you doing?
usr : Not the best, but I'm surviving.
usr : hello?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) By surviving, it is more of a personal situation or an outside dilemma affecting you.
sys : (Others) is it*
usr : I just haven't been able to find any work. I guess that is an outside dilemma, but being this behind on bills and feeling this helpless to change my situation has negatively impacted my mood.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see what you mean. Finding work in this environment can be stressful as well. In any case, I can say that a good way to start is to account for all transactions you make.
usr : I have already been budgeting extensively, the issue is I can't make enough to cover my basic expenses, no matter how much I cut them
sys : (Others) Are you also pressed for time? Time management can be a predicament as well.
usr : I have lots of free time, just waiting for unemployment to respond to my claims, applying for jobs online, and trying services like mturk to earn what I can from home in the meantime.
usr : I spend a good portion of my day trying to apply for everything I can and fixating on mturk tasks to make me feel like I'm accomplishing something
sys : (Self-disclosure) Wow, it's slightly uncanny the way our situations are similar. For someone who is also not in the best place financially and just making the bare minimum, it can feel hopeless sometimes.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know you are feeling stressed at the moment, but I've realized focusing on the long term helps ease the pressure of current stressors. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have lost my job, and my entire industry has been shut down due to Covid-19, and I am struggling to find work that is safe for me to do from home.". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you doing?
usr : Not the best, but I'm surviving.
usr : hello?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) By surviving, it is more of a personal situation or an outside dilemma affecting you.
sys : (Others) is it*
usr : I just haven't been able to find any work. I guess that is an outside dilemma, but being this behind on bills and feeling this helpless to change my situation has negatively impacted my mood.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see what you mean. Finding work in this environment can be stressful as well. In any case, I can say that a good way to start is to account for all transactions you make.
usr : I have already been budgeting extensively, the issue is I can't make enough to cover my basic expenses, no matter how much I cut them
sys : (Others) Are you also pressed for time? Time management can be a predicament as well.
usr : I have lots of free time, just waiting for unemployment to respond to my claims, applying for jobs online, and trying services like mturk to earn what I can from home in the meantime.
usr : I spend a good portion of my day trying to apply for everything I can and fixating on mturk tasks to make me feel like I'm accomplishing something
sys : (Self-disclosure) Wow, it's slightly uncanny the way our situations are similar. For someone who is also not in the best place financially and just making the bare minimum, it can feel hopeless sometimes.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know you are feeling stressed at the moment, but I've realized focusing on the long term helps ease the pressure of current stressors.
usr : I get to a point in my day where it feels like I've done everything I can for that day, and then I just have to try not to get too stir crazy.
| (Providing Suggestions) I feel that if you can focus on using your extra time as an investment into yourself (whether by reading, picking up a hobby, or working out), you can feel more accomplished and at ease with what you are doing in life. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have lost my job, and my entire industry has been shut down due to Covid-19, and I am struggling to find work that is safe for me to do from home.". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you doing?
usr : Not the best, but I'm surviving.
usr : hello?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) By surviving, it is more of a personal situation or an outside dilemma affecting you.
sys : (Others) is it*
usr : I just haven't been able to find any work. I guess that is an outside dilemma, but being this behind on bills and feeling this helpless to change my situation has negatively impacted my mood.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see what you mean. Finding work in this environment can be stressful as well. In any case, I can say that a good way to start is to account for all transactions you make.
usr : I have already been budgeting extensively, the issue is I can't make enough to cover my basic expenses, no matter how much I cut them
sys : (Others) Are you also pressed for time? Time management can be a predicament as well.
usr : I have lots of free time, just waiting for unemployment to respond to my claims, applying for jobs online, and trying services like mturk to earn what I can from home in the meantime.
usr : I spend a good portion of my day trying to apply for everything I can and fixating on mturk tasks to make me feel like I'm accomplishing something
sys : (Self-disclosure) Wow, it's slightly uncanny the way our situations are similar. For someone who is also not in the best place financially and just making the bare minimum, it can feel hopeless sometimes.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know you are feeling stressed at the moment, but I've realized focusing on the long term helps ease the pressure of current stressors.
usr : I get to a point in my day where it feels like I've done everything I can for that day, and then I just have to try not to get too stir crazy.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I feel that if you can focus on using your extra time as an investment into yourself (whether by reading, picking up a hobby, or working out), you can feel more accomplished and at ease with what you are doing in life.
usr : I've been trying to look ahead, but this year has already set me back so much from my intended career path that it's frustrating. I just want my life back.
usr : That is good advice. I have been doing a lot more art during this time.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Being progressive is difficult, but is one of the things in life which compound very easily. I believe many aspects in life are connected and that improving in some parts improves you as a whole |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have lost my job, and my entire industry has been shut down due to Covid-19, and I am struggling to find work that is safe for me to do from home.". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you doing?
usr : Not the best, but I'm surviving.
usr : hello?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) By surviving, it is more of a personal situation or an outside dilemma affecting you.
sys : (Others) is it*
usr : I just haven't been able to find any work. I guess that is an outside dilemma, but being this behind on bills and feeling this helpless to change my situation has negatively impacted my mood.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see what you mean. Finding work in this environment can be stressful as well. In any case, I can say that a good way to start is to account for all transactions you make.
usr : I have already been budgeting extensively, the issue is I can't make enough to cover my basic expenses, no matter how much I cut them
sys : (Others) Are you also pressed for time? Time management can be a predicament as well.
usr : I have lots of free time, just waiting for unemployment to respond to my claims, applying for jobs online, and trying services like mturk to earn what I can from home in the meantime.
usr : I spend a good portion of my day trying to apply for everything I can and fixating on mturk tasks to make me feel like I'm accomplishing something
sys : (Self-disclosure) Wow, it's slightly uncanny the way our situations are similar. For someone who is also not in the best place financially and just making the bare minimum, it can feel hopeless sometimes.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know you are feeling stressed at the moment, but I've realized focusing on the long term helps ease the pressure of current stressors.
usr : I get to a point in my day where it feels like I've done everything I can for that day, and then I just have to try not to get too stir crazy.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I feel that if you can focus on using your extra time as an investment into yourself (whether by reading, picking up a hobby, or working out), you can feel more accomplished and at ease with what you are doing in life.
usr : I've been trying to look ahead, but this year has already set me back so much from my intended career path that it's frustrating. I just want my life back.
usr : That is good advice. I have been doing a lot more art during this time.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Being progressive is difficult, but is one of the things in life which compound very easily. I believe many aspects in life are connected and that improving in some parts improves you as a whole
usr : Some days it's tempting to just do nothing and wait for it all to be over, but I feel better when I accomplish something for the day
| (Others) And if these "improvements" can also make you money/increase your worth/ease your mind, then that can be called a success. In my opinion atleast. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have lost my job, and my entire industry has been shut down due to Covid-19, and I am struggling to find work that is safe for me to do from home.". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you doing?
usr : Not the best, but I'm surviving.
usr : hello?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) By surviving, it is more of a personal situation or an outside dilemma affecting you.
sys : (Others) is it*
usr : I just haven't been able to find any work. I guess that is an outside dilemma, but being this behind on bills and feeling this helpless to change my situation has negatively impacted my mood.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see what you mean. Finding work in this environment can be stressful as well. In any case, I can say that a good way to start is to account for all transactions you make.
usr : I have already been budgeting extensively, the issue is I can't make enough to cover my basic expenses, no matter how much I cut them
sys : (Others) Are you also pressed for time? Time management can be a predicament as well.
usr : I have lots of free time, just waiting for unemployment to respond to my claims, applying for jobs online, and trying services like mturk to earn what I can from home in the meantime.
usr : I spend a good portion of my day trying to apply for everything I can and fixating on mturk tasks to make me feel like I'm accomplishing something
sys : (Self-disclosure) Wow, it's slightly uncanny the way our situations are similar. For someone who is also not in the best place financially and just making the bare minimum, it can feel hopeless sometimes.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know you are feeling stressed at the moment, but I've realized focusing on the long term helps ease the pressure of current stressors.
usr : I get to a point in my day where it feels like I've done everything I can for that day, and then I just have to try not to get too stir crazy.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I feel that if you can focus on using your extra time as an investment into yourself (whether by reading, picking up a hobby, or working out), you can feel more accomplished and at ease with what you are doing in life.
usr : I've been trying to look ahead, but this year has already set me back so much from my intended career path that it's frustrating. I just want my life back.
usr : That is good advice. I have been doing a lot more art during this time.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Being progressive is difficult, but is one of the things in life which compound very easily. I believe many aspects in life are connected and that improving in some parts improves you as a whole
usr : Some days it's tempting to just do nothing and wait for it all to be over, but I feel better when I accomplish something for the day
sys : (Others) And if these "improvements" can also make you money/increase your worth/ease your mind, then that can be called a success. In my opinion atleast.
usr : I wish someone was interested in buying my art! That would be a huge confidence boost
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yeah, but imagine how it would if you had days like that knowing it isn't a bad thing to relax. You have already put in the work in being comfortable before, allowing to enjoy your time however way you wanted. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have lost my job, and my entire industry has been shut down due to Covid-19, and I am struggling to find work that is safe for me to do from home.". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you doing?
usr : Not the best, but I'm surviving.
usr : hello?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) By surviving, it is more of a personal situation or an outside dilemma affecting you.
sys : (Others) is it*
usr : I just haven't been able to find any work. I guess that is an outside dilemma, but being this behind on bills and feeling this helpless to change my situation has negatively impacted my mood.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see what you mean. Finding work in this environment can be stressful as well. In any case, I can say that a good way to start is to account for all transactions you make.
usr : I have already been budgeting extensively, the issue is I can't make enough to cover my basic expenses, no matter how much I cut them
sys : (Others) Are you also pressed for time? Time management can be a predicament as well.
usr : I have lots of free time, just waiting for unemployment to respond to my claims, applying for jobs online, and trying services like mturk to earn what I can from home in the meantime.
usr : I spend a good portion of my day trying to apply for everything I can and fixating on mturk tasks to make me feel like I'm accomplishing something
sys : (Self-disclosure) Wow, it's slightly uncanny the way our situations are similar. For someone who is also not in the best place financially and just making the bare minimum, it can feel hopeless sometimes.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know you are feeling stressed at the moment, but I've realized focusing on the long term helps ease the pressure of current stressors.
usr : I get to a point in my day where it feels like I've done everything I can for that day, and then I just have to try not to get too stir crazy.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I feel that if you can focus on using your extra time as an investment into yourself (whether by reading, picking up a hobby, or working out), you can feel more accomplished and at ease with what you are doing in life.
usr : I've been trying to look ahead, but this year has already set me back so much from my intended career path that it's frustrating. I just want my life back.
usr : That is good advice. I have been doing a lot more art during this time.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Being progressive is difficult, but is one of the things in life which compound very easily. I believe many aspects in life are connected and that improving in some parts improves you as a whole
usr : Some days it's tempting to just do nothing and wait for it all to be over, but I feel better when I accomplish something for the day
sys : (Others) And if these "improvements" can also make you money/increase your worth/ease your mind, then that can be called a success. In my opinion atleast.
usr : I wish someone was interested in buying my art! That would be a huge confidence boost
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yeah, but imagine how it would if you had days like that knowing it isn't a bad thing to relax. You have already put in the work in being comfortable before, allowing to enjoy your time however way you wanted.
| (Providing Suggestions) Looks like you already have an interest which can help you in many ways in life. That's really good. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have lost my job, and my entire industry has been shut down due to Covid-19, and I am struggling to find work that is safe for me to do from home.". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you doing?
usr : Not the best, but I'm surviving.
usr : hello?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) By surviving, it is more of a personal situation or an outside dilemma affecting you.
sys : (Others) is it*
usr : I just haven't been able to find any work. I guess that is an outside dilemma, but being this behind on bills and feeling this helpless to change my situation has negatively impacted my mood.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see what you mean. Finding work in this environment can be stressful as well. In any case, I can say that a good way to start is to account for all transactions you make.
usr : I have already been budgeting extensively, the issue is I can't make enough to cover my basic expenses, no matter how much I cut them
sys : (Others) Are you also pressed for time? Time management can be a predicament as well.
usr : I have lots of free time, just waiting for unemployment to respond to my claims, applying for jobs online, and trying services like mturk to earn what I can from home in the meantime.
usr : I spend a good portion of my day trying to apply for everything I can and fixating on mturk tasks to make me feel like I'm accomplishing something
sys : (Self-disclosure) Wow, it's slightly uncanny the way our situations are similar. For someone who is also not in the best place financially and just making the bare minimum, it can feel hopeless sometimes.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know you are feeling stressed at the moment, but I've realized focusing on the long term helps ease the pressure of current stressors.
usr : I get to a point in my day where it feels like I've done everything I can for that day, and then I just have to try not to get too stir crazy.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I feel that if you can focus on using your extra time as an investment into yourself (whether by reading, picking up a hobby, or working out), you can feel more accomplished and at ease with what you are doing in life.
usr : I've been trying to look ahead, but this year has already set me back so much from my intended career path that it's frustrating. I just want my life back.
usr : That is good advice. I have been doing a lot more art during this time.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Being progressive is difficult, but is one of the things in life which compound very easily. I believe many aspects in life are connected and that improving in some parts improves you as a whole
usr : Some days it's tempting to just do nothing and wait for it all to be over, but I feel better when I accomplish something for the day
sys : (Others) And if these "improvements" can also make you money/increase your worth/ease your mind, then that can be called a success. In my opinion atleast.
usr : I wish someone was interested in buying my art! That would be a huge confidence boost
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yeah, but imagine how it would if you had days like that knowing it isn't a bad thing to relax. You have already put in the work in being comfortable before, allowing to enjoy your time however way you wanted.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Looks like you already have an interest which can help you in many ways in life. That's really good.
usr : yes, I miss being able to actually relax. When you are financially behind it feels like everything is just making it worse.
usr : thank you for chatting with me and helping me earn the bonus for this task!
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, the tension and pressure only seems to mount on, but there will always be things like that in life. It is important to remember whether such problems are in your control or not. If they are, you know for sure that you can change how you are presently. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have lost my job, and my entire industry has been shut down due to Covid-19, and I am struggling to find work that is safe for me to do from home.". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you doing?
usr : Not the best, but I'm surviving.
usr : hello?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) By surviving, it is more of a personal situation or an outside dilemma affecting you.
sys : (Others) is it*
usr : I just haven't been able to find any work. I guess that is an outside dilemma, but being this behind on bills and feeling this helpless to change my situation has negatively impacted my mood.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see what you mean. Finding work in this environment can be stressful as well. In any case, I can say that a good way to start is to account for all transactions you make.
usr : I have already been budgeting extensively, the issue is I can't make enough to cover my basic expenses, no matter how much I cut them
sys : (Others) Are you also pressed for time? Time management can be a predicament as well.
usr : I have lots of free time, just waiting for unemployment to respond to my claims, applying for jobs online, and trying services like mturk to earn what I can from home in the meantime.
usr : I spend a good portion of my day trying to apply for everything I can and fixating on mturk tasks to make me feel like I'm accomplishing something
sys : (Self-disclosure) Wow, it's slightly uncanny the way our situations are similar. For someone who is also not in the best place financially and just making the bare minimum, it can feel hopeless sometimes.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know you are feeling stressed at the moment, but I've realized focusing on the long term helps ease the pressure of current stressors.
usr : I get to a point in my day where it feels like I've done everything I can for that day, and then I just have to try not to get too stir crazy.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I feel that if you can focus on using your extra time as an investment into yourself (whether by reading, picking up a hobby, or working out), you can feel more accomplished and at ease with what you are doing in life.
usr : I've been trying to look ahead, but this year has already set me back so much from my intended career path that it's frustrating. I just want my life back.
usr : That is good advice. I have been doing a lot more art during this time.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Being progressive is difficult, but is one of the things in life which compound very easily. I believe many aspects in life are connected and that improving in some parts improves you as a whole
usr : Some days it's tempting to just do nothing and wait for it all to be over, but I feel better when I accomplish something for the day
sys : (Others) And if these "improvements" can also make you money/increase your worth/ease your mind, then that can be called a success. In my opinion atleast.
usr : I wish someone was interested in buying my art! That would be a huge confidence boost
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yeah, but imagine how it would if you had days like that knowing it isn't a bad thing to relax. You have already put in the work in being comfortable before, allowing to enjoy your time however way you wanted.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Looks like you already have an interest which can help you in many ways in life. That's really good.
usr : yes, I miss being able to actually relax. When you are financially behind it feels like everything is just making it worse.
usr : thank you for chatting with me and helping me earn the bonus for this task!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, the tension and pressure only seems to mount on, but there will always be things like that in life. It is important to remember whether such problems are in your control or not. If they are, you know for sure that you can change how you are presently.
| (Others) No problem, this is a very interesting experience for me too. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"I have had trouble coming through the pandemic and have turned to alcohol to cope with job, family, and relationship issues.". | (Question) Hey, how are you today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"I have had trouble coming through the pandemic and have turned to alcohol to cope with job, family, and relationship issues.". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you today?
usr : Hello! I am doing ok today. Just getting through the day I suppose.
| (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you're having a rough day. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"I have had trouble coming through the pandemic and have turned to alcohol to cope with job, family, and relationship issues.". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you today?
usr : Hello! I am doing ok today. Just getting through the day I suppose.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you're having a rough day.
| (Question) Anything in particular happened? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"I have had trouble coming through the pandemic and have turned to alcohol to cope with job, family, and relationship issues.". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you today?
usr : Hello! I am doing ok today. Just getting through the day I suppose.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you're having a rough day.
sys : (Question) Anything in particular happened?
usr : Just an average day if I had to describe it. Nothing particularly unusual or bad. Worked for about 8 hours and now no plans for the night
| (Reflection of feelings) I get that. Some days are just meh, but nights can feel especially lonely. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"I have had trouble coming through the pandemic and have turned to alcohol to cope with job, family, and relationship issues.". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you today?
usr : Hello! I am doing ok today. Just getting through the day I suppose.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you're having a rough day.
sys : (Question) Anything in particular happened?
usr : Just an average day if I had to describe it. Nothing particularly unusual or bad. Worked for about 8 hours and now no plans for the night
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I get that. Some days are just meh, but nights can feel especially lonely.
usr : Exactly. I find that when the night starts seeping in the loneliness comes up especially with no concrete plans or things to keep busy
| (Self-disclosure) I've felt like that too. The business of the day makes you forget, then it's time for bed and you remember. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"I have had trouble coming through the pandemic and have turned to alcohol to cope with job, family, and relationship issues.". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you today?
usr : Hello! I am doing ok today. Just getting through the day I suppose.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you're having a rough day.
sys : (Question) Anything in particular happened?
usr : Just an average day if I had to describe it. Nothing particularly unusual or bad. Worked for about 8 hours and now no plans for the night
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I get that. Some days are just meh, but nights can feel especially lonely.
usr : Exactly. I find that when the night starts seeping in the loneliness comes up especially with no concrete plans or things to keep busy
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've felt like that too. The business of the day makes you forget, then it's time for bed and you remember.
usr : And for me it's the build up to bed time. Those hours to fill with either dinner, watching tv, reading or whatever. Plenty of time let me mind wander and think the worst.
| (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like your day to day gets very lonely. |
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