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### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am depressed about Covid and being restricted from going places.". | sys : (Question) Hi! Is there anything you'd like to talk to me about today?
usr : Hi, yes. I am having a really hard time and feeling depressed.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Would you like to tell me what the problem is?
usr : I feel like I am very isolated. I can not leave my house because I am at high risk of getting Covid. So I feel so alone and kind of helpless since all this has started.
| (Self-disclosure) I can understand how that feels - I have not been able to go out for weeks either. Are you able to have visitors? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am depressed about Covid and being restricted from going places.". | sys : (Question) Hi! Is there anything you'd like to talk to me about today?
usr : Hi, yes. I am having a really hard time and feeling depressed.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Would you like to tell me what the problem is?
usr : I feel like I am very isolated. I can not leave my house because I am at high risk of getting Covid. So I feel so alone and kind of helpless since all this has started.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can understand how that feels - I have not been able to go out for weeks either. Are you able to have visitors?
usr : I am not allowed to be around anyone. I know its for my own health but that doesn't help when I am so lonely. It seems like I can not contribute to anyone or lend a hand to people. I am just stuck at home with a feeling of doom.
| (Others) That is very rough. Have you considered joining internet communities so you can at least talk with people who are in the same situation? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am depressed about Covid and being restricted from going places.". | sys : (Question) Hi! Is there anything you'd like to talk to me about today?
usr : Hi, yes. I am having a really hard time and feeling depressed.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Would you like to tell me what the problem is?
usr : I feel like I am very isolated. I can not leave my house because I am at high risk of getting Covid. So I feel so alone and kind of helpless since all this has started.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can understand how that feels - I have not been able to go out for weeks either. Are you able to have visitors?
usr : I am not allowed to be around anyone. I know its for my own health but that doesn't help when I am so lonely. It seems like I can not contribute to anyone or lend a hand to people. I am just stuck at home with a feeling of doom.
sys : (Others) That is very rough. Have you considered joining internet communities so you can at least talk with people who are in the same situation?
usr : I do not really know how to do that but it seems like a really good idea that I have never thought of before. Do you think it would help my mood?
| (Others) I think it really could, yes. Isolation is a very difficult thing to deal with. Just knowing someone else understood could really help. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am depressed about Covid and being restricted from going places.". | sys : (Question) Hi! Is there anything you'd like to talk to me about today?
usr : Hi, yes. I am having a really hard time and feeling depressed.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Would you like to tell me what the problem is?
usr : I feel like I am very isolated. I can not leave my house because I am at high risk of getting Covid. So I feel so alone and kind of helpless since all this has started.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can understand how that feels - I have not been able to go out for weeks either. Are you able to have visitors?
usr : I am not allowed to be around anyone. I know its for my own health but that doesn't help when I am so lonely. It seems like I can not contribute to anyone or lend a hand to people. I am just stuck at home with a feeling of doom.
sys : (Others) That is very rough. Have you considered joining internet communities so you can at least talk with people who are in the same situation?
usr : I do not really know how to do that but it seems like a really good idea that I have never thought of before. Do you think it would help my mood?
sys : (Others) I think it really could, yes. Isolation is a very difficult thing to deal with. Just knowing someone else understood could really help.
usr : I like that idea. I hate feeling like I am a debbie downer type. I do not want to tell anyone how I feel. I am trapped in a few ways.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is absolutely no problem with feeling bad and confiding in people. Many people are feeling the same right now. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am depressed about Covid and being restricted from going places.". | sys : (Question) Hi! Is there anything you'd like to talk to me about today?
usr : Hi, yes. I am having a really hard time and feeling depressed.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Would you like to tell me what the problem is?
usr : I feel like I am very isolated. I can not leave my house because I am at high risk of getting Covid. So I feel so alone and kind of helpless since all this has started.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can understand how that feels - I have not been able to go out for weeks either. Are you able to have visitors?
usr : I am not allowed to be around anyone. I know its for my own health but that doesn't help when I am so lonely. It seems like I can not contribute to anyone or lend a hand to people. I am just stuck at home with a feeling of doom.
sys : (Others) That is very rough. Have you considered joining internet communities so you can at least talk with people who are in the same situation?
usr : I do not really know how to do that but it seems like a really good idea that I have never thought of before. Do you think it would help my mood?
sys : (Others) I think it really could, yes. Isolation is a very difficult thing to deal with. Just knowing someone else understood could really help.
usr : I like that idea. I hate feeling like I am a debbie downer type. I do not want to tell anyone how I feel. I am trapped in a few ways.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is absolutely no problem with feeling bad and confiding in people. Many people are feeling the same right now.
usr : Sometimes I feel like i am the only one. I have a good life and have my health so I feel guilty for complaining about being sad. I have not been able to eat or clean my house. I just lay around with no energy.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel as though life is just passing you by and you are not accomplishing anything during the lockdown? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am depressed about Covid and being restricted from going places.". | sys : (Question) Hi! Is there anything you'd like to talk to me about today?
usr : Hi, yes. I am having a really hard time and feeling depressed.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Would you like to tell me what the problem is?
usr : I feel like I am very isolated. I can not leave my house because I am at high risk of getting Covid. So I feel so alone and kind of helpless since all this has started.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can understand how that feels - I have not been able to go out for weeks either. Are you able to have visitors?
usr : I am not allowed to be around anyone. I know its for my own health but that doesn't help when I am so lonely. It seems like I can not contribute to anyone or lend a hand to people. I am just stuck at home with a feeling of doom.
sys : (Others) That is very rough. Have you considered joining internet communities so you can at least talk with people who are in the same situation?
usr : I do not really know how to do that but it seems like a really good idea that I have never thought of before. Do you think it would help my mood?
sys : (Others) I think it really could, yes. Isolation is a very difficult thing to deal with. Just knowing someone else understood could really help.
usr : I like that idea. I hate feeling like I am a debbie downer type. I do not want to tell anyone how I feel. I am trapped in a few ways.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is absolutely no problem with feeling bad and confiding in people. Many people are feeling the same right now.
usr : Sometimes I feel like i am the only one. I have a good life and have my health so I feel guilty for complaining about being sad. I have not been able to eat or clean my house. I just lay around with no energy.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel as though life is just passing you by and you are not accomplishing anything during the lockdown?
usr : Yes, exactly. That is precisely how I feel! It seems like I am in a movie with a sad ending and it just keeps repeating over and over.
| (Providing Suggestions) Try to focus on the fact that it will be a new year soon - it surely can't (fingers crossed!) be worse than this one |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am depressed about Covid and being restricted from going places.". | sys : (Question) Hi! Is there anything you'd like to talk to me about today?
usr : Hi, yes. I am having a really hard time and feeling depressed.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Would you like to tell me what the problem is?
usr : I feel like I am very isolated. I can not leave my house because I am at high risk of getting Covid. So I feel so alone and kind of helpless since all this has started.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can understand how that feels - I have not been able to go out for weeks either. Are you able to have visitors?
usr : I am not allowed to be around anyone. I know its for my own health but that doesn't help when I am so lonely. It seems like I can not contribute to anyone or lend a hand to people. I am just stuck at home with a feeling of doom.
sys : (Others) That is very rough. Have you considered joining internet communities so you can at least talk with people who are in the same situation?
usr : I do not really know how to do that but it seems like a really good idea that I have never thought of before. Do you think it would help my mood?
sys : (Others) I think it really could, yes. Isolation is a very difficult thing to deal with. Just knowing someone else understood could really help.
usr : I like that idea. I hate feeling like I am a debbie downer type. I do not want to tell anyone how I feel. I am trapped in a few ways.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is absolutely no problem with feeling bad and confiding in people. Many people are feeling the same right now.
usr : Sometimes I feel like i am the only one. I have a good life and have my health so I feel guilty for complaining about being sad. I have not been able to eat or clean my house. I just lay around with no energy.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel as though life is just passing you by and you are not accomplishing anything during the lockdown?
usr : Yes, exactly. That is precisely how I feel! It seems like I am in a movie with a sad ending and it just keeps repeating over and over.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to focus on the fact that it will be a new year soon - it surely can't (fingers crossed!) be worse than this one
usr : I like your ideas and want to start using them right away. I want to reach out online and find a group to join.
| (Providing Suggestions) Facebook is a great online site and there are lots of groups there for all interests |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am depressed about Covid and being restricted from going places.". | sys : (Question) Hi! Is there anything you'd like to talk to me about today?
usr : Hi, yes. I am having a really hard time and feeling depressed.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Would you like to tell me what the problem is?
usr : I feel like I am very isolated. I can not leave my house because I am at high risk of getting Covid. So I feel so alone and kind of helpless since all this has started.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can understand how that feels - I have not been able to go out for weeks either. Are you able to have visitors?
usr : I am not allowed to be around anyone. I know its for my own health but that doesn't help when I am so lonely. It seems like I can not contribute to anyone or lend a hand to people. I am just stuck at home with a feeling of doom.
sys : (Others) That is very rough. Have you considered joining internet communities so you can at least talk with people who are in the same situation?
usr : I do not really know how to do that but it seems like a really good idea that I have never thought of before. Do you think it would help my mood?
sys : (Others) I think it really could, yes. Isolation is a very difficult thing to deal with. Just knowing someone else understood could really help.
usr : I like that idea. I hate feeling like I am a debbie downer type. I do not want to tell anyone how I feel. I am trapped in a few ways.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is absolutely no problem with feeling bad and confiding in people. Many people are feeling the same right now.
usr : Sometimes I feel like i am the only one. I have a good life and have my health so I feel guilty for complaining about being sad. I have not been able to eat or clean my house. I just lay around with no energy.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel as though life is just passing you by and you are not accomplishing anything during the lockdown?
usr : Yes, exactly. That is precisely how I feel! It seems like I am in a movie with a sad ending and it just keeps repeating over and over.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to focus on the fact that it will be a new year soon - it surely can't (fingers crossed!) be worse than this one
usr : I like your ideas and want to start using them right away. I want to reach out online and find a group to join.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Facebook is a great online site and there are lots of groups there for all interests
usr : That is a really valid point and helping me see the bigger picture in life. I need to know it will not always be this way.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Please trust me that it will not. Time goes really slowly during a crisis, it seems |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am depressed about Covid and being restricted from going places.". | sys : (Question) Hi! Is there anything you'd like to talk to me about today?
usr : Hi, yes. I am having a really hard time and feeling depressed.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Would you like to tell me what the problem is?
usr : I feel like I am very isolated. I can not leave my house because I am at high risk of getting Covid. So I feel so alone and kind of helpless since all this has started.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can understand how that feels - I have not been able to go out for weeks either. Are you able to have visitors?
usr : I am not allowed to be around anyone. I know its for my own health but that doesn't help when I am so lonely. It seems like I can not contribute to anyone or lend a hand to people. I am just stuck at home with a feeling of doom.
sys : (Others) That is very rough. Have you considered joining internet communities so you can at least talk with people who are in the same situation?
usr : I do not really know how to do that but it seems like a really good idea that I have never thought of before. Do you think it would help my mood?
sys : (Others) I think it really could, yes. Isolation is a very difficult thing to deal with. Just knowing someone else understood could really help.
usr : I like that idea. I hate feeling like I am a debbie downer type. I do not want to tell anyone how I feel. I am trapped in a few ways.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is absolutely no problem with feeling bad and confiding in people. Many people are feeling the same right now.
usr : Sometimes I feel like i am the only one. I have a good life and have my health so I feel guilty for complaining about being sad. I have not been able to eat or clean my house. I just lay around with no energy.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel as though life is just passing you by and you are not accomplishing anything during the lockdown?
usr : Yes, exactly. That is precisely how I feel! It seems like I am in a movie with a sad ending and it just keeps repeating over and over.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to focus on the fact that it will be a new year soon - it surely can't (fingers crossed!) be worse than this one
usr : I like your ideas and want to start using them right away. I want to reach out online and find a group to join.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Facebook is a great online site and there are lots of groups there for all interests
usr : That is a really valid point and helping me see the bigger picture in life. I need to know it will not always be this way.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Please trust me that it will not. Time goes really slowly during a crisis, it seems
usr : Thank you for your time and help today. I have not felt this good in a long time.
usr : I feel very understood and validated.
| (Others) It feels great to be able to help people. I really wish you all the best in the coming weeks and months. Enjoy the rest of you day! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am depressed about Covid and being restricted from going places.". | sys : (Question) Hi! Is there anything you'd like to talk to me about today?
usr : Hi, yes. I am having a really hard time and feeling depressed.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Would you like to tell me what the problem is?
usr : I feel like I am very isolated. I can not leave my house because I am at high risk of getting Covid. So I feel so alone and kind of helpless since all this has started.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can understand how that feels - I have not been able to go out for weeks either. Are you able to have visitors?
usr : I am not allowed to be around anyone. I know its for my own health but that doesn't help when I am so lonely. It seems like I can not contribute to anyone or lend a hand to people. I am just stuck at home with a feeling of doom.
sys : (Others) That is very rough. Have you considered joining internet communities so you can at least talk with people who are in the same situation?
usr : I do not really know how to do that but it seems like a really good idea that I have never thought of before. Do you think it would help my mood?
sys : (Others) I think it really could, yes. Isolation is a very difficult thing to deal with. Just knowing someone else understood could really help.
usr : I like that idea. I hate feeling like I am a debbie downer type. I do not want to tell anyone how I feel. I am trapped in a few ways.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is absolutely no problem with feeling bad and confiding in people. Many people are feeling the same right now.
usr : Sometimes I feel like i am the only one. I have a good life and have my health so I feel guilty for complaining about being sad. I have not been able to eat or clean my house. I just lay around with no energy.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel as though life is just passing you by and you are not accomplishing anything during the lockdown?
usr : Yes, exactly. That is precisely how I feel! It seems like I am in a movie with a sad ending and it just keeps repeating over and over.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to focus on the fact that it will be a new year soon - it surely can't (fingers crossed!) be worse than this one
usr : I like your ideas and want to start using them right away. I want to reach out online and find a group to join.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Facebook is a great online site and there are lots of groups there for all interests
usr : That is a really valid point and helping me see the bigger picture in life. I need to know it will not always be this way.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Please trust me that it will not. Time goes really slowly during a crisis, it seems
usr : Thank you for your time and help today. I have not felt this good in a long time.
usr : I feel very understood and validated.
sys : (Others) It feels great to be able to help people. I really wish you all the best in the coming weeks and months. Enjoy the rest of you day!
usr : Thank you very much! I will go on to Facebook now.
| (Others) I hope you can find some like minded people there |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am depressed about Covid and being restricted from going places.". | sys : (Question) Hi! Is there anything you'd like to talk to me about today?
usr : Hi, yes. I am having a really hard time and feeling depressed.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Would you like to tell me what the problem is?
usr : I feel like I am very isolated. I can not leave my house because I am at high risk of getting Covid. So I feel so alone and kind of helpless since all this has started.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can understand how that feels - I have not been able to go out for weeks either. Are you able to have visitors?
usr : I am not allowed to be around anyone. I know its for my own health but that doesn't help when I am so lonely. It seems like I can not contribute to anyone or lend a hand to people. I am just stuck at home with a feeling of doom.
sys : (Others) That is very rough. Have you considered joining internet communities so you can at least talk with people who are in the same situation?
usr : I do not really know how to do that but it seems like a really good idea that I have never thought of before. Do you think it would help my mood?
sys : (Others) I think it really could, yes. Isolation is a very difficult thing to deal with. Just knowing someone else understood could really help.
usr : I like that idea. I hate feeling like I am a debbie downer type. I do not want to tell anyone how I feel. I am trapped in a few ways.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is absolutely no problem with feeling bad and confiding in people. Many people are feeling the same right now.
usr : Sometimes I feel like i am the only one. I have a good life and have my health so I feel guilty for complaining about being sad. I have not been able to eat or clean my house. I just lay around with no energy.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel as though life is just passing you by and you are not accomplishing anything during the lockdown?
usr : Yes, exactly. That is precisely how I feel! It seems like I am in a movie with a sad ending and it just keeps repeating over and over.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to focus on the fact that it will be a new year soon - it surely can't (fingers crossed!) be worse than this one
usr : I like your ideas and want to start using them right away. I want to reach out online and find a group to join.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Facebook is a great online site and there are lots of groups there for all interests
usr : That is a really valid point and helping me see the bigger picture in life. I need to know it will not always be this way.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Please trust me that it will not. Time goes really slowly during a crisis, it seems
usr : Thank you for your time and help today. I have not felt this good in a long time.
usr : I feel very understood and validated.
sys : (Others) It feels great to be able to help people. I really wish you all the best in the coming weeks and months. Enjoy the rest of you day!
usr : Thank you very much! I will go on to Facebook now.
sys : (Others) I hope you can find some like minded people there
| (Others) (you need to quit from your end as I can't :)) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | (Others) Salutations | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | sys : (Others) Salutations
usr : Hi there!
| (Question) Are you doing ok with the Virus |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | sys : (Others) Salutations
usr : Hi there!
sys : (Question) Are you doing ok with the Virus
usr : Doing ok I think. But I think the stress is getting to me. How about you?
| (Question) What would like chatting about |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | sys : (Others) Salutations
usr : Hi there!
sys : (Question) Are you doing ok with the Virus
usr : Doing ok I think. But I think the stress is getting to me. How about you?
sys : (Question) What would like chatting about
usr : Any suggestions on how to deal with a boss who you don't feel appreciates you?
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So u have a boss that you feel is against you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | sys : (Others) Salutations
usr : Hi there!
sys : (Question) Are you doing ok with the Virus
usr : Doing ok I think. But I think the stress is getting to me. How about you?
sys : (Question) What would like chatting about
usr : Any suggestions on how to deal with a boss who you don't feel appreciates you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So u have a boss that you feel is against you
| (Question) Does your work involve meeting him or her daily |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | sys : (Others) Salutations
usr : Hi there!
sys : (Question) Are you doing ok with the Virus
usr : Doing ok I think. But I think the stress is getting to me. How about you?
sys : (Question) What would like chatting about
usr : Any suggestions on how to deal with a boss who you don't feel appreciates you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So u have a boss that you feel is against you
sys : (Question) Does your work involve meeting him or her daily
usr : In a way yes. I've worked for this person for several years. Felt I've done a really good job. Gone above and beyond but my evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Nothing more. Just fond out he's hiring someone new to train to take over his job when he retires.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You must have your sites set on the position as well. That can be frustrating |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | sys : (Others) Salutations
usr : Hi there!
sys : (Question) Are you doing ok with the Virus
usr : Doing ok I think. But I think the stress is getting to me. How about you?
sys : (Question) What would like chatting about
usr : Any suggestions on how to deal with a boss who you don't feel appreciates you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So u have a boss that you feel is against you
sys : (Question) Does your work involve meeting him or her daily
usr : In a way yes. I've worked for this person for several years. Felt I've done a really good job. Gone above and beyond but my evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Nothing more. Just fond out he's hiring someone new to train to take over his job when he retires.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You must have your sites set on the position as well. That can be frustrating
| (Question) Can I ask how many others work with you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | sys : (Others) Salutations
usr : Hi there!
sys : (Question) Are you doing ok with the Virus
usr : Doing ok I think. But I think the stress is getting to me. How about you?
sys : (Question) What would like chatting about
usr : Any suggestions on how to deal with a boss who you don't feel appreciates you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So u have a boss that you feel is against you
sys : (Question) Does your work involve meeting him or her daily
usr : In a way yes. I've worked for this person for several years. Felt I've done a really good job. Gone above and beyond but my evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Nothing more. Just fond out he's hiring someone new to train to take over his job when he retires.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You must have your sites set on the position as well. That can be frustrating
sys : (Question) Can I ask how many others work with you
usr : It would have been nice to have been considered. At least been in the conversation. There are 3 others on our team.
usr : The other 2 are part timers
| (Others) might I ask the gender of your boss |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | sys : (Others) Salutations
usr : Hi there!
sys : (Question) Are you doing ok with the Virus
usr : Doing ok I think. But I think the stress is getting to me. How about you?
sys : (Question) What would like chatting about
usr : Any suggestions on how to deal with a boss who you don't feel appreciates you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So u have a boss that you feel is against you
sys : (Question) Does your work involve meeting him or her daily
usr : In a way yes. I've worked for this person for several years. Felt I've done a really good job. Gone above and beyond but my evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Nothing more. Just fond out he's hiring someone new to train to take over his job when he retires.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You must have your sites set on the position as well. That can be frustrating
sys : (Question) Can I ask how many others work with you
usr : It would have been nice to have been considered. At least been in the conversation. There are 3 others on our team.
usr : The other 2 are part timers
sys : (Others) might I ask the gender of your boss
usr : male
| (Others) same as u right |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | sys : (Others) Salutations
usr : Hi there!
sys : (Question) Are you doing ok with the Virus
usr : Doing ok I think. But I think the stress is getting to me. How about you?
sys : (Question) What would like chatting about
usr : Any suggestions on how to deal with a boss who you don't feel appreciates you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So u have a boss that you feel is against you
sys : (Question) Does your work involve meeting him or her daily
usr : In a way yes. I've worked for this person for several years. Felt I've done a really good job. Gone above and beyond but my evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Nothing more. Just fond out he's hiring someone new to train to take over his job when he retires.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You must have your sites set on the position as well. That can be frustrating
sys : (Question) Can I ask how many others work with you
usr : It would have been nice to have been considered. At least been in the conversation. There are 3 others on our team.
usr : The other 2 are part timers
sys : (Others) might I ask the gender of your boss
usr : male
sys : (Others) same as u right
usr : no, I'm female.
| (Question) Are there any other females working with you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | sys : (Others) Salutations
usr : Hi there!
sys : (Question) Are you doing ok with the Virus
usr : Doing ok I think. But I think the stress is getting to me. How about you?
sys : (Question) What would like chatting about
usr : Any suggestions on how to deal with a boss who you don't feel appreciates you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So u have a boss that you feel is against you
sys : (Question) Does your work involve meeting him or her daily
usr : In a way yes. I've worked for this person for several years. Felt I've done a really good job. Gone above and beyond but my evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Nothing more. Just fond out he's hiring someone new to train to take over his job when he retires.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You must have your sites set on the position as well. That can be frustrating
sys : (Question) Can I ask how many others work with you
usr : It would have been nice to have been considered. At least been in the conversation. There are 3 others on our team.
usr : The other 2 are part timers
sys : (Others) might I ask the gender of your boss
usr : male
sys : (Others) same as u right
usr : no, I'm female.
sys : (Question) Are there any other females working with you
usr : currently, no. the new person he's looking to hire to take over eventually is female.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I assume you are full time |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | sys : (Others) Salutations
usr : Hi there!
sys : (Question) Are you doing ok with the Virus
usr : Doing ok I think. But I think the stress is getting to me. How about you?
sys : (Question) What would like chatting about
usr : Any suggestions on how to deal with a boss who you don't feel appreciates you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So u have a boss that you feel is against you
sys : (Question) Does your work involve meeting him or her daily
usr : In a way yes. I've worked for this person for several years. Felt I've done a really good job. Gone above and beyond but my evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Nothing more. Just fond out he's hiring someone new to train to take over his job when he retires.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You must have your sites set on the position as well. That can be frustrating
sys : (Question) Can I ask how many others work with you
usr : It would have been nice to have been considered. At least been in the conversation. There are 3 others on our team.
usr : The other 2 are part timers
sys : (Others) might I ask the gender of your boss
usr : male
sys : (Others) same as u right
usr : no, I'm female.
sys : (Question) Are there any other females working with you
usr : currently, no. the new person he's looking to hire to take over eventually is female.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I assume you are full time
usr : Yes, I'm full time.
| (Others) So you seem qualified for the position, have you been able to ask why he overlooked you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | sys : (Others) Salutations
usr : Hi there!
sys : (Question) Are you doing ok with the Virus
usr : Doing ok I think. But I think the stress is getting to me. How about you?
sys : (Question) What would like chatting about
usr : Any suggestions on how to deal with a boss who you don't feel appreciates you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So u have a boss that you feel is against you
sys : (Question) Does your work involve meeting him or her daily
usr : In a way yes. I've worked for this person for several years. Felt I've done a really good job. Gone above and beyond but my evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Nothing more. Just fond out he's hiring someone new to train to take over his job when he retires.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You must have your sites set on the position as well. That can be frustrating
sys : (Question) Can I ask how many others work with you
usr : It would have been nice to have been considered. At least been in the conversation. There are 3 others on our team.
usr : The other 2 are part timers
sys : (Others) might I ask the gender of your boss
usr : male
sys : (Others) same as u right
usr : no, I'm female.
sys : (Question) Are there any other females working with you
usr : currently, no. the new person he's looking to hire to take over eventually is female.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I assume you are full time
usr : Yes, I'm full time.
sys : (Others) So you seem qualified for the position, have you been able to ask why he overlooked you
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Being overlooked because of personal reasons should not be a reason to offer the position to an outsider |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | sys : (Others) Salutations
usr : Hi there!
sys : (Question) Are you doing ok with the Virus
usr : Doing ok I think. But I think the stress is getting to me. How about you?
sys : (Question) What would like chatting about
usr : Any suggestions on how to deal with a boss who you don't feel appreciates you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So u have a boss that you feel is against you
sys : (Question) Does your work involve meeting him or her daily
usr : In a way yes. I've worked for this person for several years. Felt I've done a really good job. Gone above and beyond but my evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Nothing more. Just fond out he's hiring someone new to train to take over his job when he retires.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You must have your sites set on the position as well. That can be frustrating
sys : (Question) Can I ask how many others work with you
usr : It would have been nice to have been considered. At least been in the conversation. There are 3 others on our team.
usr : The other 2 are part timers
sys : (Others) might I ask the gender of your boss
usr : male
sys : (Others) same as u right
usr : no, I'm female.
sys : (Question) Are there any other females working with you
usr : currently, no. the new person he's looking to hire to take over eventually is female.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I assume you are full time
usr : Yes, I'm full time.
sys : (Others) So you seem qualified for the position, have you been able to ask why he overlooked you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Being overlooked because of personal reasons should not be a reason to offer the position to an outsider
usr : Haven't had the chance to bring it up. The boss tends to have a temper and doesn't like questions to his decisions. Trying to figure out a way to bring it up without making the work situation more difficult.
| (Self-disclosure) It would affect me as well if I was overlooked and the position was offered to an outsider |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | sys : (Others) Salutations
usr : Hi there!
sys : (Question) Are you doing ok with the Virus
usr : Doing ok I think. But I think the stress is getting to me. How about you?
sys : (Question) What would like chatting about
usr : Any suggestions on how to deal with a boss who you don't feel appreciates you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So u have a boss that you feel is against you
sys : (Question) Does your work involve meeting him or her daily
usr : In a way yes. I've worked for this person for several years. Felt I've done a really good job. Gone above and beyond but my evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Nothing more. Just fond out he's hiring someone new to train to take over his job when he retires.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You must have your sites set on the position as well. That can be frustrating
sys : (Question) Can I ask how many others work with you
usr : It would have been nice to have been considered. At least been in the conversation. There are 3 others on our team.
usr : The other 2 are part timers
sys : (Others) might I ask the gender of your boss
usr : male
sys : (Others) same as u right
usr : no, I'm female.
sys : (Question) Are there any other females working with you
usr : currently, no. the new person he's looking to hire to take over eventually is female.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I assume you are full time
usr : Yes, I'm full time.
sys : (Others) So you seem qualified for the position, have you been able to ask why he overlooked you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Being overlooked because of personal reasons should not be a reason to offer the position to an outsider
usr : Haven't had the chance to bring it up. The boss tends to have a temper and doesn't like questions to his decisions. Trying to figure out a way to bring it up without making the work situation more difficult.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It would affect me as well if I was overlooked and the position was offered to an outsider
| (Question) Is he mean towards others or just you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | sys : (Others) Salutations
usr : Hi there!
sys : (Question) Are you doing ok with the Virus
usr : Doing ok I think. But I think the stress is getting to me. How about you?
sys : (Question) What would like chatting about
usr : Any suggestions on how to deal with a boss who you don't feel appreciates you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So u have a boss that you feel is against you
sys : (Question) Does your work involve meeting him or her daily
usr : In a way yes. I've worked for this person for several years. Felt I've done a really good job. Gone above and beyond but my evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Nothing more. Just fond out he's hiring someone new to train to take over his job when he retires.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You must have your sites set on the position as well. That can be frustrating
sys : (Question) Can I ask how many others work with you
usr : It would have been nice to have been considered. At least been in the conversation. There are 3 others on our team.
usr : The other 2 are part timers
sys : (Others) might I ask the gender of your boss
usr : male
sys : (Others) same as u right
usr : no, I'm female.
sys : (Question) Are there any other females working with you
usr : currently, no. the new person he's looking to hire to take over eventually is female.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I assume you are full time
usr : Yes, I'm full time.
sys : (Others) So you seem qualified for the position, have you been able to ask why he overlooked you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Being overlooked because of personal reasons should not be a reason to offer the position to an outsider
usr : Haven't had the chance to bring it up. The boss tends to have a temper and doesn't like questions to his decisions. Trying to figure out a way to bring it up without making the work situation more difficult.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It would affect me as well if I was overlooked and the position was offered to an outsider
sys : (Question) Is he mean towards others or just you
usr : Glad to hear I'm not just being petty about it. It's his general nature. His approach is more like a bull in a china shop. His way or no way.
| (Question) Are his tempers basically towards you because you are full time |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | sys : (Others) Salutations
usr : Hi there!
sys : (Question) Are you doing ok with the Virus
usr : Doing ok I think. But I think the stress is getting to me. How about you?
sys : (Question) What would like chatting about
usr : Any suggestions on how to deal with a boss who you don't feel appreciates you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So u have a boss that you feel is against you
sys : (Question) Does your work involve meeting him or her daily
usr : In a way yes. I've worked for this person for several years. Felt I've done a really good job. Gone above and beyond but my evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Nothing more. Just fond out he's hiring someone new to train to take over his job when he retires.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You must have your sites set on the position as well. That can be frustrating
sys : (Question) Can I ask how many others work with you
usr : It would have been nice to have been considered. At least been in the conversation. There are 3 others on our team.
usr : The other 2 are part timers
sys : (Others) might I ask the gender of your boss
usr : male
sys : (Others) same as u right
usr : no, I'm female.
sys : (Question) Are there any other females working with you
usr : currently, no. the new person he's looking to hire to take over eventually is female.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I assume you are full time
usr : Yes, I'm full time.
sys : (Others) So you seem qualified for the position, have you been able to ask why he overlooked you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Being overlooked because of personal reasons should not be a reason to offer the position to an outsider
usr : Haven't had the chance to bring it up. The boss tends to have a temper and doesn't like questions to his decisions. Trying to figure out a way to bring it up without making the work situation more difficult.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It would affect me as well if I was overlooked and the position was offered to an outsider
sys : (Question) Is he mean towards others or just you
usr : Glad to hear I'm not just being petty about it. It's his general nature. His approach is more like a bull in a china shop. His way or no way.
sys : (Question) Are his tempers basically towards you because you are full time
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is no reason to be petty. You have a legitimate reasoning to your feelings |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | sys : (Others) Salutations
usr : Hi there!
sys : (Question) Are you doing ok with the Virus
usr : Doing ok I think. But I think the stress is getting to me. How about you?
sys : (Question) What would like chatting about
usr : Any suggestions on how to deal with a boss who you don't feel appreciates you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So u have a boss that you feel is against you
sys : (Question) Does your work involve meeting him or her daily
usr : In a way yes. I've worked for this person for several years. Felt I've done a really good job. Gone above and beyond but my evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Nothing more. Just fond out he's hiring someone new to train to take over his job when he retires.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You must have your sites set on the position as well. That can be frustrating
sys : (Question) Can I ask how many others work with you
usr : It would have been nice to have been considered. At least been in the conversation. There are 3 others on our team.
usr : The other 2 are part timers
sys : (Others) might I ask the gender of your boss
usr : male
sys : (Others) same as u right
usr : no, I'm female.
sys : (Question) Are there any other females working with you
usr : currently, no. the new person he's looking to hire to take over eventually is female.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I assume you are full time
usr : Yes, I'm full time.
sys : (Others) So you seem qualified for the position, have you been able to ask why he overlooked you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Being overlooked because of personal reasons should not be a reason to offer the position to an outsider
usr : Haven't had the chance to bring it up. The boss tends to have a temper and doesn't like questions to his decisions. Trying to figure out a way to bring it up without making the work situation more difficult.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It would affect me as well if I was overlooked and the position was offered to an outsider
sys : (Question) Is he mean towards others or just you
usr : Glad to hear I'm not just being petty about it. It's his general nature. His approach is more like a bull in a china shop. His way or no way.
sys : (Question) Are his tempers basically towards you because you are full time
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is no reason to be petty. You have a legitimate reasoning to your feelings
usr : I think may be because my approach to things are a little more subtle. I tend to get a long with people in different departments more than he does. I'm "not aggressive enough" he's said in the past. But I just think it's a different approach on how to handle matters.
| (Question) hate to ask but have the 2 of you been close before |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | sys : (Others) Salutations
usr : Hi there!
sys : (Question) Are you doing ok with the Virus
usr : Doing ok I think. But I think the stress is getting to me. How about you?
sys : (Question) What would like chatting about
usr : Any suggestions on how to deal with a boss who you don't feel appreciates you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So u have a boss that you feel is against you
sys : (Question) Does your work involve meeting him or her daily
usr : In a way yes. I've worked for this person for several years. Felt I've done a really good job. Gone above and beyond but my evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Nothing more. Just fond out he's hiring someone new to train to take over his job when he retires.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You must have your sites set on the position as well. That can be frustrating
sys : (Question) Can I ask how many others work with you
usr : It would have been nice to have been considered. At least been in the conversation. There are 3 others on our team.
usr : The other 2 are part timers
sys : (Others) might I ask the gender of your boss
usr : male
sys : (Others) same as u right
usr : no, I'm female.
sys : (Question) Are there any other females working with you
usr : currently, no. the new person he's looking to hire to take over eventually is female.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I assume you are full time
usr : Yes, I'm full time.
sys : (Others) So you seem qualified for the position, have you been able to ask why he overlooked you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Being overlooked because of personal reasons should not be a reason to offer the position to an outsider
usr : Haven't had the chance to bring it up. The boss tends to have a temper and doesn't like questions to his decisions. Trying to figure out a way to bring it up without making the work situation more difficult.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It would affect me as well if I was overlooked and the position was offered to an outsider
sys : (Question) Is he mean towards others or just you
usr : Glad to hear I'm not just being petty about it. It's his general nature. His approach is more like a bull in a china shop. His way or no way.
sys : (Question) Are his tempers basically towards you because you are full time
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is no reason to be petty. You have a legitimate reasoning to your feelings
usr : I think may be because my approach to things are a little more subtle. I tend to get a long with people in different departments more than he does. I'm "not aggressive enough" he's said in the past. But I just think it's a different approach on how to handle matters.
sys : (Question) hate to ask but have the 2 of you been close before
usr : nothing more than employer/employee.
| (Question) is there an arbitrator you can involve to discuss the matter |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | sys : (Others) Salutations
usr : Hi there!
sys : (Question) Are you doing ok with the Virus
usr : Doing ok I think. But I think the stress is getting to me. How about you?
sys : (Question) What would like chatting about
usr : Any suggestions on how to deal with a boss who you don't feel appreciates you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So u have a boss that you feel is against you
sys : (Question) Does your work involve meeting him or her daily
usr : In a way yes. I've worked for this person for several years. Felt I've done a really good job. Gone above and beyond but my evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Nothing more. Just fond out he's hiring someone new to train to take over his job when he retires.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You must have your sites set on the position as well. That can be frustrating
sys : (Question) Can I ask how many others work with you
usr : It would have been nice to have been considered. At least been in the conversation. There are 3 others on our team.
usr : The other 2 are part timers
sys : (Others) might I ask the gender of your boss
usr : male
sys : (Others) same as u right
usr : no, I'm female.
sys : (Question) Are there any other females working with you
usr : currently, no. the new person he's looking to hire to take over eventually is female.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I assume you are full time
usr : Yes, I'm full time.
sys : (Others) So you seem qualified for the position, have you been able to ask why he overlooked you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Being overlooked because of personal reasons should not be a reason to offer the position to an outsider
usr : Haven't had the chance to bring it up. The boss tends to have a temper and doesn't like questions to his decisions. Trying to figure out a way to bring it up without making the work situation more difficult.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It would affect me as well if I was overlooked and the position was offered to an outsider
sys : (Question) Is he mean towards others or just you
usr : Glad to hear I'm not just being petty about it. It's his general nature. His approach is more like a bull in a china shop. His way or no way.
sys : (Question) Are his tempers basically towards you because you are full time
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is no reason to be petty. You have a legitimate reasoning to your feelings
usr : I think may be because my approach to things are a little more subtle. I tend to get a long with people in different departments more than he does. I'm "not aggressive enough" he's said in the past. But I just think it's a different approach on how to handle matters.
sys : (Question) hate to ask but have the 2 of you been close before
usr : nothing more than employer/employee.
sys : (Question) is there an arbitrator you can involve to discuss the matter
| (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes a mediator can help with the situation. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | sys : (Others) Salutations
usr : Hi there!
sys : (Question) Are you doing ok with the Virus
usr : Doing ok I think. But I think the stress is getting to me. How about you?
sys : (Question) What would like chatting about
usr : Any suggestions on how to deal with a boss who you don't feel appreciates you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So u have a boss that you feel is against you
sys : (Question) Does your work involve meeting him or her daily
usr : In a way yes. I've worked for this person for several years. Felt I've done a really good job. Gone above and beyond but my evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Nothing more. Just fond out he's hiring someone new to train to take over his job when he retires.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You must have your sites set on the position as well. That can be frustrating
sys : (Question) Can I ask how many others work with you
usr : It would have been nice to have been considered. At least been in the conversation. There are 3 others on our team.
usr : The other 2 are part timers
sys : (Others) might I ask the gender of your boss
usr : male
sys : (Others) same as u right
usr : no, I'm female.
sys : (Question) Are there any other females working with you
usr : currently, no. the new person he's looking to hire to take over eventually is female.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I assume you are full time
usr : Yes, I'm full time.
sys : (Others) So you seem qualified for the position, have you been able to ask why he overlooked you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Being overlooked because of personal reasons should not be a reason to offer the position to an outsider
usr : Haven't had the chance to bring it up. The boss tends to have a temper and doesn't like questions to his decisions. Trying to figure out a way to bring it up without making the work situation more difficult.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It would affect me as well if I was overlooked and the position was offered to an outsider
sys : (Question) Is he mean towards others or just you
usr : Glad to hear I'm not just being petty about it. It's his general nature. His approach is more like a bull in a china shop. His way or no way.
sys : (Question) Are his tempers basically towards you because you are full time
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is no reason to be petty. You have a legitimate reasoning to your feelings
usr : I think may be because my approach to things are a little more subtle. I tend to get a long with people in different departments more than he does. I'm "not aggressive enough" he's said in the past. But I just think it's a different approach on how to handle matters.
sys : (Question) hate to ask but have the 2 of you been close before
usr : nothing more than employer/employee.
sys : (Question) is there an arbitrator you can involve to discuss the matter
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes a mediator can help with the situation.
usr : I don't think it's come to that point. feel like I do need to personally address it as you mentioned earlier. I think going above his head on it would just make it worse. I just have to find the right way to approach him with my concerns.
| (Reflection of feelings) Being in an environment that seems hostile towards you can make it hard. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | sys : (Others) Salutations
usr : Hi there!
sys : (Question) Are you doing ok with the Virus
usr : Doing ok I think. But I think the stress is getting to me. How about you?
sys : (Question) What would like chatting about
usr : Any suggestions on how to deal with a boss who you don't feel appreciates you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So u have a boss that you feel is against you
sys : (Question) Does your work involve meeting him or her daily
usr : In a way yes. I've worked for this person for several years. Felt I've done a really good job. Gone above and beyond but my evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Nothing more. Just fond out he's hiring someone new to train to take over his job when he retires.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You must have your sites set on the position as well. That can be frustrating
sys : (Question) Can I ask how many others work with you
usr : It would have been nice to have been considered. At least been in the conversation. There are 3 others on our team.
usr : The other 2 are part timers
sys : (Others) might I ask the gender of your boss
usr : male
sys : (Others) same as u right
usr : no, I'm female.
sys : (Question) Are there any other females working with you
usr : currently, no. the new person he's looking to hire to take over eventually is female.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I assume you are full time
usr : Yes, I'm full time.
sys : (Others) So you seem qualified for the position, have you been able to ask why he overlooked you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Being overlooked because of personal reasons should not be a reason to offer the position to an outsider
usr : Haven't had the chance to bring it up. The boss tends to have a temper and doesn't like questions to his decisions. Trying to figure out a way to bring it up without making the work situation more difficult.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It would affect me as well if I was overlooked and the position was offered to an outsider
sys : (Question) Is he mean towards others or just you
usr : Glad to hear I'm not just being petty about it. It's his general nature. His approach is more like a bull in a china shop. His way or no way.
sys : (Question) Are his tempers basically towards you because you are full time
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is no reason to be petty. You have a legitimate reasoning to your feelings
usr : I think may be because my approach to things are a little more subtle. I tend to get a long with people in different departments more than he does. I'm "not aggressive enough" he's said in the past. But I just think it's a different approach on how to handle matters.
sys : (Question) hate to ask but have the 2 of you been close before
usr : nothing more than employer/employee.
sys : (Question) is there an arbitrator you can involve to discuss the matter
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes a mediator can help with the situation.
usr : I don't think it's come to that point. feel like I do need to personally address it as you mentioned earlier. I think going above his head on it would just make it worse. I just have to find the right way to approach him with my concerns.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Being in an environment that seems hostile towards you can make it hard.
usr : Yeah. Will probably talk to one of my co-workers for more feedback as well.
| (Question) have you address it with HR to see what can be accomplished |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | sys : (Others) Salutations
usr : Hi there!
sys : (Question) Are you doing ok with the Virus
usr : Doing ok I think. But I think the stress is getting to me. How about you?
sys : (Question) What would like chatting about
usr : Any suggestions on how to deal with a boss who you don't feel appreciates you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So u have a boss that you feel is against you
sys : (Question) Does your work involve meeting him or her daily
usr : In a way yes. I've worked for this person for several years. Felt I've done a really good job. Gone above and beyond but my evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Nothing more. Just fond out he's hiring someone new to train to take over his job when he retires.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You must have your sites set on the position as well. That can be frustrating
sys : (Question) Can I ask how many others work with you
usr : It would have been nice to have been considered. At least been in the conversation. There are 3 others on our team.
usr : The other 2 are part timers
sys : (Others) might I ask the gender of your boss
usr : male
sys : (Others) same as u right
usr : no, I'm female.
sys : (Question) Are there any other females working with you
usr : currently, no. the new person he's looking to hire to take over eventually is female.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I assume you are full time
usr : Yes, I'm full time.
sys : (Others) So you seem qualified for the position, have you been able to ask why he overlooked you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Being overlooked because of personal reasons should not be a reason to offer the position to an outsider
usr : Haven't had the chance to bring it up. The boss tends to have a temper and doesn't like questions to his decisions. Trying to figure out a way to bring it up without making the work situation more difficult.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It would affect me as well if I was overlooked and the position was offered to an outsider
sys : (Question) Is he mean towards others or just you
usr : Glad to hear I'm not just being petty about it. It's his general nature. His approach is more like a bull in a china shop. His way or no way.
sys : (Question) Are his tempers basically towards you because you are full time
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is no reason to be petty. You have a legitimate reasoning to your feelings
usr : I think may be because my approach to things are a little more subtle. I tend to get a long with people in different departments more than he does. I'm "not aggressive enough" he's said in the past. But I just think it's a different approach on how to handle matters.
sys : (Question) hate to ask but have the 2 of you been close before
usr : nothing more than employer/employee.
sys : (Question) is there an arbitrator you can involve to discuss the matter
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes a mediator can help with the situation.
usr : I don't think it's come to that point. feel like I do need to personally address it as you mentioned earlier. I think going above his head on it would just make it worse. I just have to find the right way to approach him with my concerns.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Being in an environment that seems hostile towards you can make it hard.
usr : Yeah. Will probably talk to one of my co-workers for more feedback as well.
sys : (Question) have you address it with HR to see what can be accomplished
usr : Not yet. But that sounds like a good idea.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) others might also be noticing and approaching the HR with out your knowledge |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | sys : (Others) Salutations
usr : Hi there!
sys : (Question) Are you doing ok with the Virus
usr : Doing ok I think. But I think the stress is getting to me. How about you?
sys : (Question) What would like chatting about
usr : Any suggestions on how to deal with a boss who you don't feel appreciates you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So u have a boss that you feel is against you
sys : (Question) Does your work involve meeting him or her daily
usr : In a way yes. I've worked for this person for several years. Felt I've done a really good job. Gone above and beyond but my evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Nothing more. Just fond out he's hiring someone new to train to take over his job when he retires.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You must have your sites set on the position as well. That can be frustrating
sys : (Question) Can I ask how many others work with you
usr : It would have been nice to have been considered. At least been in the conversation. There are 3 others on our team.
usr : The other 2 are part timers
sys : (Others) might I ask the gender of your boss
usr : male
sys : (Others) same as u right
usr : no, I'm female.
sys : (Question) Are there any other females working with you
usr : currently, no. the new person he's looking to hire to take over eventually is female.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I assume you are full time
usr : Yes, I'm full time.
sys : (Others) So you seem qualified for the position, have you been able to ask why he overlooked you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Being overlooked because of personal reasons should not be a reason to offer the position to an outsider
usr : Haven't had the chance to bring it up. The boss tends to have a temper and doesn't like questions to his decisions. Trying to figure out a way to bring it up without making the work situation more difficult.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It would affect me as well if I was overlooked and the position was offered to an outsider
sys : (Question) Is he mean towards others or just you
usr : Glad to hear I'm not just being petty about it. It's his general nature. His approach is more like a bull in a china shop. His way or no way.
sys : (Question) Are his tempers basically towards you because you are full time
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is no reason to be petty. You have a legitimate reasoning to your feelings
usr : I think may be because my approach to things are a little more subtle. I tend to get a long with people in different departments more than he does. I'm "not aggressive enough" he's said in the past. But I just think it's a different approach on how to handle matters.
sys : (Question) hate to ask but have the 2 of you been close before
usr : nothing more than employer/employee.
sys : (Question) is there an arbitrator you can involve to discuss the matter
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes a mediator can help with the situation.
usr : I don't think it's come to that point. feel like I do need to personally address it as you mentioned earlier. I think going above his head on it would just make it worse. I just have to find the right way to approach him with my concerns.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Being in an environment that seems hostile towards you can make it hard.
usr : Yeah. Will probably talk to one of my co-workers for more feedback as well.
sys : (Question) have you address it with HR to see what can be accomplished
usr : Not yet. But that sounds like a good idea.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) others might also be noticing and approaching the HR with out your knowledge
usr : great point. appreciate the feedback.
| (Providing Suggestions) If his actions are noticeable to others maybe you need to address it with a mediator |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | sys : (Others) Salutations
usr : Hi there!
sys : (Question) Are you doing ok with the Virus
usr : Doing ok I think. But I think the stress is getting to me. How about you?
sys : (Question) What would like chatting about
usr : Any suggestions on how to deal with a boss who you don't feel appreciates you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So u have a boss that you feel is against you
sys : (Question) Does your work involve meeting him or her daily
usr : In a way yes. I've worked for this person for several years. Felt I've done a really good job. Gone above and beyond but my evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Nothing more. Just fond out he's hiring someone new to train to take over his job when he retires.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You must have your sites set on the position as well. That can be frustrating
sys : (Question) Can I ask how many others work with you
usr : It would have been nice to have been considered. At least been in the conversation. There are 3 others on our team.
usr : The other 2 are part timers
sys : (Others) might I ask the gender of your boss
usr : male
sys : (Others) same as u right
usr : no, I'm female.
sys : (Question) Are there any other females working with you
usr : currently, no. the new person he's looking to hire to take over eventually is female.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I assume you are full time
usr : Yes, I'm full time.
sys : (Others) So you seem qualified for the position, have you been able to ask why he overlooked you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Being overlooked because of personal reasons should not be a reason to offer the position to an outsider
usr : Haven't had the chance to bring it up. The boss tends to have a temper and doesn't like questions to his decisions. Trying to figure out a way to bring it up without making the work situation more difficult.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It would affect me as well if I was overlooked and the position was offered to an outsider
sys : (Question) Is he mean towards others or just you
usr : Glad to hear I'm not just being petty about it. It's his general nature. His approach is more like a bull in a china shop. His way or no way.
sys : (Question) Are his tempers basically towards you because you are full time
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is no reason to be petty. You have a legitimate reasoning to your feelings
usr : I think may be because my approach to things are a little more subtle. I tend to get a long with people in different departments more than he does. I'm "not aggressive enough" he's said in the past. But I just think it's a different approach on how to handle matters.
sys : (Question) hate to ask but have the 2 of you been close before
usr : nothing more than employer/employee.
sys : (Question) is there an arbitrator you can involve to discuss the matter
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes a mediator can help with the situation.
usr : I don't think it's come to that point. feel like I do need to personally address it as you mentioned earlier. I think going above his head on it would just make it worse. I just have to find the right way to approach him with my concerns.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Being in an environment that seems hostile towards you can make it hard.
usr : Yeah. Will probably talk to one of my co-workers for more feedback as well.
sys : (Question) have you address it with HR to see what can be accomplished
usr : Not yet. But that sounds like a good idea.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) others might also be noticing and approaching the HR with out your knowledge
usr : great point. appreciate the feedback.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) If his actions are noticeable to others maybe you need to address it with a mediator
usr : great food for thought. I just have to figure out how best to act. thanks.
| (Information) Don't let someone bully you at work. That is borderline sexual harassment. Protect your rights |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | sys : (Others) Salutations
usr : Hi there!
sys : (Question) Are you doing ok with the Virus
usr : Doing ok I think. But I think the stress is getting to me. How about you?
sys : (Question) What would like chatting about
usr : Any suggestions on how to deal with a boss who you don't feel appreciates you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So u have a boss that you feel is against you
sys : (Question) Does your work involve meeting him or her daily
usr : In a way yes. I've worked for this person for several years. Felt I've done a really good job. Gone above and beyond but my evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Nothing more. Just fond out he's hiring someone new to train to take over his job when he retires.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You must have your sites set on the position as well. That can be frustrating
sys : (Question) Can I ask how many others work with you
usr : It would have been nice to have been considered. At least been in the conversation. There are 3 others on our team.
usr : The other 2 are part timers
sys : (Others) might I ask the gender of your boss
usr : male
sys : (Others) same as u right
usr : no, I'm female.
sys : (Question) Are there any other females working with you
usr : currently, no. the new person he's looking to hire to take over eventually is female.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I assume you are full time
usr : Yes, I'm full time.
sys : (Others) So you seem qualified for the position, have you been able to ask why he overlooked you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Being overlooked because of personal reasons should not be a reason to offer the position to an outsider
usr : Haven't had the chance to bring it up. The boss tends to have a temper and doesn't like questions to his decisions. Trying to figure out a way to bring it up without making the work situation more difficult.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It would affect me as well if I was overlooked and the position was offered to an outsider
sys : (Question) Is he mean towards others or just you
usr : Glad to hear I'm not just being petty about it. It's his general nature. His approach is more like a bull in a china shop. His way or no way.
sys : (Question) Are his tempers basically towards you because you are full time
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is no reason to be petty. You have a legitimate reasoning to your feelings
usr : I think may be because my approach to things are a little more subtle. I tend to get a long with people in different departments more than he does. I'm "not aggressive enough" he's said in the past. But I just think it's a different approach on how to handle matters.
sys : (Question) hate to ask but have the 2 of you been close before
usr : nothing more than employer/employee.
sys : (Question) is there an arbitrator you can involve to discuss the matter
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes a mediator can help with the situation.
usr : I don't think it's come to that point. feel like I do need to personally address it as you mentioned earlier. I think going above his head on it would just make it worse. I just have to find the right way to approach him with my concerns.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Being in an environment that seems hostile towards you can make it hard.
usr : Yeah. Will probably talk to one of my co-workers for more feedback as well.
sys : (Question) have you address it with HR to see what can be accomplished
usr : Not yet. But that sounds like a good idea.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) others might also be noticing and approaching the HR with out your knowledge
usr : great point. appreciate the feedback.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) If his actions are noticeable to others maybe you need to address it with a mediator
usr : great food for thought. I just have to figure out how best to act. thanks.
sys : (Information) Don't let someone bully you at work. That is borderline sexual harassment. Protect your rights
| (Question) Do you have any connections in HR that you can invite to lunch |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | sys : (Others) Salutations
usr : Hi there!
sys : (Question) Are you doing ok with the Virus
usr : Doing ok I think. But I think the stress is getting to me. How about you?
sys : (Question) What would like chatting about
usr : Any suggestions on how to deal with a boss who you don't feel appreciates you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So u have a boss that you feel is against you
sys : (Question) Does your work involve meeting him or her daily
usr : In a way yes. I've worked for this person for several years. Felt I've done a really good job. Gone above and beyond but my evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Nothing more. Just fond out he's hiring someone new to train to take over his job when he retires.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You must have your sites set on the position as well. That can be frustrating
sys : (Question) Can I ask how many others work with you
usr : It would have been nice to have been considered. At least been in the conversation. There are 3 others on our team.
usr : The other 2 are part timers
sys : (Others) might I ask the gender of your boss
usr : male
sys : (Others) same as u right
usr : no, I'm female.
sys : (Question) Are there any other females working with you
usr : currently, no. the new person he's looking to hire to take over eventually is female.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I assume you are full time
usr : Yes, I'm full time.
sys : (Others) So you seem qualified for the position, have you been able to ask why he overlooked you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Being overlooked because of personal reasons should not be a reason to offer the position to an outsider
usr : Haven't had the chance to bring it up. The boss tends to have a temper and doesn't like questions to his decisions. Trying to figure out a way to bring it up without making the work situation more difficult.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It would affect me as well if I was overlooked and the position was offered to an outsider
sys : (Question) Is he mean towards others or just you
usr : Glad to hear I'm not just being petty about it. It's his general nature. His approach is more like a bull in a china shop. His way or no way.
sys : (Question) Are his tempers basically towards you because you are full time
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is no reason to be petty. You have a legitimate reasoning to your feelings
usr : I think may be because my approach to things are a little more subtle. I tend to get a long with people in different departments more than he does. I'm "not aggressive enough" he's said in the past. But I just think it's a different approach on how to handle matters.
sys : (Question) hate to ask but have the 2 of you been close before
usr : nothing more than employer/employee.
sys : (Question) is there an arbitrator you can involve to discuss the matter
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes a mediator can help with the situation.
usr : I don't think it's come to that point. feel like I do need to personally address it as you mentioned earlier. I think going above his head on it would just make it worse. I just have to find the right way to approach him with my concerns.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Being in an environment that seems hostile towards you can make it hard.
usr : Yeah. Will probably talk to one of my co-workers for more feedback as well.
sys : (Question) have you address it with HR to see what can be accomplished
usr : Not yet. But that sounds like a good idea.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) others might also be noticing and approaching the HR with out your knowledge
usr : great point. appreciate the feedback.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) If his actions are noticeable to others maybe you need to address it with a mediator
usr : great food for thought. I just have to figure out how best to act. thanks.
sys : (Information) Don't let someone bully you at work. That is borderline sexual harassment. Protect your rights
sys : (Question) Do you have any connections in HR that you can invite to lunch
| (Providing Suggestions) Arrange an outside meeting to discuss your options. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | sys : (Others) Salutations
usr : Hi there!
sys : (Question) Are you doing ok with the Virus
usr : Doing ok I think. But I think the stress is getting to me. How about you?
sys : (Question) What would like chatting about
usr : Any suggestions on how to deal with a boss who you don't feel appreciates you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So u have a boss that you feel is against you
sys : (Question) Does your work involve meeting him or her daily
usr : In a way yes. I've worked for this person for several years. Felt I've done a really good job. Gone above and beyond but my evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Nothing more. Just fond out he's hiring someone new to train to take over his job when he retires.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You must have your sites set on the position as well. That can be frustrating
sys : (Question) Can I ask how many others work with you
usr : It would have been nice to have been considered. At least been in the conversation. There are 3 others on our team.
usr : The other 2 are part timers
sys : (Others) might I ask the gender of your boss
usr : male
sys : (Others) same as u right
usr : no, I'm female.
sys : (Question) Are there any other females working with you
usr : currently, no. the new person he's looking to hire to take over eventually is female.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I assume you are full time
usr : Yes, I'm full time.
sys : (Others) So you seem qualified for the position, have you been able to ask why he overlooked you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Being overlooked because of personal reasons should not be a reason to offer the position to an outsider
usr : Haven't had the chance to bring it up. The boss tends to have a temper and doesn't like questions to his decisions. Trying to figure out a way to bring it up without making the work situation more difficult.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It would affect me as well if I was overlooked and the position was offered to an outsider
sys : (Question) Is he mean towards others or just you
usr : Glad to hear I'm not just being petty about it. It's his general nature. His approach is more like a bull in a china shop. His way or no way.
sys : (Question) Are his tempers basically towards you because you are full time
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is no reason to be petty. You have a legitimate reasoning to your feelings
usr : I think may be because my approach to things are a little more subtle. I tend to get a long with people in different departments more than he does. I'm "not aggressive enough" he's said in the past. But I just think it's a different approach on how to handle matters.
sys : (Question) hate to ask but have the 2 of you been close before
usr : nothing more than employer/employee.
sys : (Question) is there an arbitrator you can involve to discuss the matter
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes a mediator can help with the situation.
usr : I don't think it's come to that point. feel like I do need to personally address it as you mentioned earlier. I think going above his head on it would just make it worse. I just have to find the right way to approach him with my concerns.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Being in an environment that seems hostile towards you can make it hard.
usr : Yeah. Will probably talk to one of my co-workers for more feedback as well.
sys : (Question) have you address it with HR to see what can be accomplished
usr : Not yet. But that sounds like a good idea.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) others might also be noticing and approaching the HR with out your knowledge
usr : great point. appreciate the feedback.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) If his actions are noticeable to others maybe you need to address it with a mediator
usr : great food for thought. I just have to figure out how best to act. thanks.
sys : (Information) Don't let someone bully you at work. That is borderline sexual harassment. Protect your rights
sys : (Question) Do you have any connections in HR that you can invite to lunch
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Arrange an outside meeting to discuss your options.
usr : Truly appreciate your words of support. This make feel a lot better. I think I have a good enough relationship with the HR office to discuss.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) GOOD. But don't be intimidated .Stand up for your rights |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I don't feel respected at work. I've put in many years and I think I've done a really good job. I think I've always gone above and beyond what's required of me. But my annual evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Recently found out my boss is hiring a new person to train to take over his position when he retires. A bit upset that I wasn't considered. Would like to find a new job but the job market in general right now isn't very good.". | sys : (Others) Salutations
usr : Hi there!
sys : (Question) Are you doing ok with the Virus
usr : Doing ok I think. But I think the stress is getting to me. How about you?
sys : (Question) What would like chatting about
usr : Any suggestions on how to deal with a boss who you don't feel appreciates you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So u have a boss that you feel is against you
sys : (Question) Does your work involve meeting him or her daily
usr : In a way yes. I've worked for this person for several years. Felt I've done a really good job. Gone above and beyond but my evaluations always come back as just meets expectations. Nothing more. Just fond out he's hiring someone new to train to take over his job when he retires.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You must have your sites set on the position as well. That can be frustrating
sys : (Question) Can I ask how many others work with you
usr : It would have been nice to have been considered. At least been in the conversation. There are 3 others on our team.
usr : The other 2 are part timers
sys : (Others) might I ask the gender of your boss
usr : male
sys : (Others) same as u right
usr : no, I'm female.
sys : (Question) Are there any other females working with you
usr : currently, no. the new person he's looking to hire to take over eventually is female.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I assume you are full time
usr : Yes, I'm full time.
sys : (Others) So you seem qualified for the position, have you been able to ask why he overlooked you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Being overlooked because of personal reasons should not be a reason to offer the position to an outsider
usr : Haven't had the chance to bring it up. The boss tends to have a temper and doesn't like questions to his decisions. Trying to figure out a way to bring it up without making the work situation more difficult.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It would affect me as well if I was overlooked and the position was offered to an outsider
sys : (Question) Is he mean towards others or just you
usr : Glad to hear I'm not just being petty about it. It's his general nature. His approach is more like a bull in a china shop. His way or no way.
sys : (Question) Are his tempers basically towards you because you are full time
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is no reason to be petty. You have a legitimate reasoning to your feelings
usr : I think may be because my approach to things are a little more subtle. I tend to get a long with people in different departments more than he does. I'm "not aggressive enough" he's said in the past. But I just think it's a different approach on how to handle matters.
sys : (Question) hate to ask but have the 2 of you been close before
usr : nothing more than employer/employee.
sys : (Question) is there an arbitrator you can involve to discuss the matter
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes a mediator can help with the situation.
usr : I don't think it's come to that point. feel like I do need to personally address it as you mentioned earlier. I think going above his head on it would just make it worse. I just have to find the right way to approach him with my concerns.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Being in an environment that seems hostile towards you can make it hard.
usr : Yeah. Will probably talk to one of my co-workers for more feedback as well.
sys : (Question) have you address it with HR to see what can be accomplished
usr : Not yet. But that sounds like a good idea.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) others might also be noticing and approaching the HR with out your knowledge
usr : great point. appreciate the feedback.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) If his actions are noticeable to others maybe you need to address it with a mediator
usr : great food for thought. I just have to figure out how best to act. thanks.
sys : (Information) Don't let someone bully you at work. That is borderline sexual harassment. Protect your rights
sys : (Question) Do you have any connections in HR that you can invite to lunch
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Arrange an outside meeting to discuss your options.
usr : Truly appreciate your words of support. This make feel a lot better. I think I have a good enough relationship with the HR office to discuss.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) GOOD. But don't be intimidated .Stand up for your rights
usr : Thank you again. Thanks for the chat. Best wishes to you!
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) OK MERRY Christmas |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i am not abke to find work for over 6 months". | (Question) Hello there, how are you feeling today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i am not abke to find work for over 6 months". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you feeling today?
usr : hi. i dont feel too well. I lost my job 6 months ago and i am not ablle to find work
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh wow I am sorry to hear that - it is a bad time to be out of work isn't it? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i am not abke to find work for over 6 months". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you feeling today?
usr : hi. i dont feel too well. I lost my job 6 months ago and i am not ablle to find work
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh wow I am sorry to hear that - it is a bad time to be out of work isn't it?
usr : yes it is a horrible time. I dont know what to do and i dont have a lot of support and my rent is due for over 2 months
| (Information) There are organisations out there who can help due to the exceptional circumstances .. do you have anyone helping you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i am not abke to find work for over 6 months". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you feeling today?
usr : hi. i dont feel too well. I lost my job 6 months ago and i am not ablle to find work
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh wow I am sorry to hear that - it is a bad time to be out of work isn't it?
usr : yes it is a horrible time. I dont know what to do and i dont have a lot of support and my rent is due for over 2 months
sys : (Information) There are organisations out there who can help due to the exceptional circumstances .. do you have anyone helping you?
usr : i dont have anyone helping me and i am new to this city so i dont know who to turn to
| (Self-disclosure) Hmm, could you google for local organisations such as Citizen's Advice? I have found them very useful personally. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i am not abke to find work for over 6 months". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you feeling today?
usr : hi. i dont feel too well. I lost my job 6 months ago and i am not ablle to find work
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh wow I am sorry to hear that - it is a bad time to be out of work isn't it?
usr : yes it is a horrible time. I dont know what to do and i dont have a lot of support and my rent is due for over 2 months
sys : (Information) There are organisations out there who can help due to the exceptional circumstances .. do you have anyone helping you?
usr : i dont have anyone helping me and i am new to this city so i dont know who to turn to
sys : (Self-disclosure) Hmm, could you google for local organisations such as Citizen's Advice? I have found them very useful personally.
usr : i have neve rheard of them but i will google them up
| (Providing Suggestions) They provided me with loads of helpful advice and other people to get in touch with. Also, have you considered using a food bank? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i am not abke to find work for over 6 months". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you feeling today?
usr : hi. i dont feel too well. I lost my job 6 months ago and i am not ablle to find work
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh wow I am sorry to hear that - it is a bad time to be out of work isn't it?
usr : yes it is a horrible time. I dont know what to do and i dont have a lot of support and my rent is due for over 2 months
sys : (Information) There are organisations out there who can help due to the exceptional circumstances .. do you have anyone helping you?
usr : i dont have anyone helping me and i am new to this city so i dont know who to turn to
sys : (Self-disclosure) Hmm, could you google for local organisations such as Citizen's Advice? I have found them very useful personally.
usr : i have neve rheard of them but i will google them up
sys : (Providing Suggestions) They provided me with loads of helpful advice and other people to get in touch with. Also, have you considered using a food bank?
usr : i did look up food bank, but there is none located where i live but i might be able to drive to the nearest one outside the city
| (Information) There are religious organisations that can sometimes help too and would not expect you to be of their religion. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i am not abke to find work for over 6 months". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you feeling today?
usr : hi. i dont feel too well. I lost my job 6 months ago and i am not ablle to find work
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh wow I am sorry to hear that - it is a bad time to be out of work isn't it?
usr : yes it is a horrible time. I dont know what to do and i dont have a lot of support and my rent is due for over 2 months
sys : (Information) There are organisations out there who can help due to the exceptional circumstances .. do you have anyone helping you?
usr : i dont have anyone helping me and i am new to this city so i dont know who to turn to
sys : (Self-disclosure) Hmm, could you google for local organisations such as Citizen's Advice? I have found them very useful personally.
usr : i have neve rheard of them but i will google them up
sys : (Providing Suggestions) They provided me with loads of helpful advice and other people to get in touch with. Also, have you considered using a food bank?
usr : i did look up food bank, but there is none located where i live but i might be able to drive to the nearest one outside the city
sys : (Information) There are religious organisations that can sometimes help too and would not expect you to be of their religion.
usr : that sounds super helpful. I can check them out as well. I also dont know if iam applying to the right jobs. It makes me so sad to be rejected every week
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try not to worry about it - it is not just you. The job market is awful right now but it will pick up again! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i am not abke to find work for over 6 months". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you feeling today?
usr : hi. i dont feel too well. I lost my job 6 months ago and i am not ablle to find work
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh wow I am sorry to hear that - it is a bad time to be out of work isn't it?
usr : yes it is a horrible time. I dont know what to do and i dont have a lot of support and my rent is due for over 2 months
sys : (Information) There are organisations out there who can help due to the exceptional circumstances .. do you have anyone helping you?
usr : i dont have anyone helping me and i am new to this city so i dont know who to turn to
sys : (Self-disclosure) Hmm, could you google for local organisations such as Citizen's Advice? I have found them very useful personally.
usr : i have neve rheard of them but i will google them up
sys : (Providing Suggestions) They provided me with loads of helpful advice and other people to get in touch with. Also, have you considered using a food bank?
usr : i did look up food bank, but there is none located where i live but i might be able to drive to the nearest one outside the city
sys : (Information) There are religious organisations that can sometimes help too and would not expect you to be of their religion.
usr : that sounds super helpful. I can check them out as well. I also dont know if iam applying to the right jobs. It makes me so sad to be rejected every week
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try not to worry about it - it is not just you. The job market is awful right now but it will pick up again!
usr : what else can you recommend
| (Question) Are you eligible for unemployment benefits? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i am not abke to find work for over 6 months". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you feeling today?
usr : hi. i dont feel too well. I lost my job 6 months ago and i am not ablle to find work
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh wow I am sorry to hear that - it is a bad time to be out of work isn't it?
usr : yes it is a horrible time. I dont know what to do and i dont have a lot of support and my rent is due for over 2 months
sys : (Information) There are organisations out there who can help due to the exceptional circumstances .. do you have anyone helping you?
usr : i dont have anyone helping me and i am new to this city so i dont know who to turn to
sys : (Self-disclosure) Hmm, could you google for local organisations such as Citizen's Advice? I have found them very useful personally.
usr : i have neve rheard of them but i will google them up
sys : (Providing Suggestions) They provided me with loads of helpful advice and other people to get in touch with. Also, have you considered using a food bank?
usr : i did look up food bank, but there is none located where i live but i might be able to drive to the nearest one outside the city
sys : (Information) There are religious organisations that can sometimes help too and would not expect you to be of their religion.
usr : that sounds super helpful. I can check them out as well. I also dont know if iam applying to the right jobs. It makes me so sad to be rejected every week
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try not to worry about it - it is not just you. The job market is awful right now but it will pick up again!
usr : what else can you recommend
sys : (Question) Are you eligible for unemployment benefits?
usr : no because I didnt lose my job coz of covid.
usr : is there anything else i can apply for
| (Information) But surely you should be eligible anyway, unless you just walked out |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i am not abke to find work for over 6 months". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you feeling today?
usr : hi. i dont feel too well. I lost my job 6 months ago and i am not ablle to find work
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh wow I am sorry to hear that - it is a bad time to be out of work isn't it?
usr : yes it is a horrible time. I dont know what to do and i dont have a lot of support and my rent is due for over 2 months
sys : (Information) There are organisations out there who can help due to the exceptional circumstances .. do you have anyone helping you?
usr : i dont have anyone helping me and i am new to this city so i dont know who to turn to
sys : (Self-disclosure) Hmm, could you google for local organisations such as Citizen's Advice? I have found them very useful personally.
usr : i have neve rheard of them but i will google them up
sys : (Providing Suggestions) They provided me with loads of helpful advice and other people to get in touch with. Also, have you considered using a food bank?
usr : i did look up food bank, but there is none located where i live but i might be able to drive to the nearest one outside the city
sys : (Information) There are religious organisations that can sometimes help too and would not expect you to be of their religion.
usr : that sounds super helpful. I can check them out as well. I also dont know if iam applying to the right jobs. It makes me so sad to be rejected every week
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try not to worry about it - it is not just you. The job market is awful right now but it will pick up again!
usr : what else can you recommend
sys : (Question) Are you eligible for unemployment benefits?
usr : no because I didnt lose my job coz of covid.
usr : is there anything else i can apply for
sys : (Information) But surely you should be eligible anyway, unless you just walked out
usr : I have chronic health issues so i was let go
usr : do you have any other suggestions
| (Information) Wow that is really not fair of them! I think you have grounds for legal action there |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i am not abke to find work for over 6 months". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you feeling today?
usr : hi. i dont feel too well. I lost my job 6 months ago and i am not ablle to find work
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh wow I am sorry to hear that - it is a bad time to be out of work isn't it?
usr : yes it is a horrible time. I dont know what to do and i dont have a lot of support and my rent is due for over 2 months
sys : (Information) There are organisations out there who can help due to the exceptional circumstances .. do you have anyone helping you?
usr : i dont have anyone helping me and i am new to this city so i dont know who to turn to
sys : (Self-disclosure) Hmm, could you google for local organisations such as Citizen's Advice? I have found them very useful personally.
usr : i have neve rheard of them but i will google them up
sys : (Providing Suggestions) They provided me with loads of helpful advice and other people to get in touch with. Also, have you considered using a food bank?
usr : i did look up food bank, but there is none located where i live but i might be able to drive to the nearest one outside the city
sys : (Information) There are religious organisations that can sometimes help too and would not expect you to be of their religion.
usr : that sounds super helpful. I can check them out as well. I also dont know if iam applying to the right jobs. It makes me so sad to be rejected every week
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try not to worry about it - it is not just you. The job market is awful right now but it will pick up again!
usr : what else can you recommend
sys : (Question) Are you eligible for unemployment benefits?
usr : no because I didnt lose my job coz of covid.
usr : is there anything else i can apply for
sys : (Information) But surely you should be eligible anyway, unless you just walked out
usr : I have chronic health issues so i was let go
usr : do you have any other suggestions
sys : (Information) Wow that is really not fair of them! I think you have grounds for legal action there
usr : i actually am considering that
| (Others) You really should - nobody has the right to dismiss you due to your health problems, that is totally outrageous. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i am not abke to find work for over 6 months". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you feeling today?
usr : hi. i dont feel too well. I lost my job 6 months ago and i am not ablle to find work
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh wow I am sorry to hear that - it is a bad time to be out of work isn't it?
usr : yes it is a horrible time. I dont know what to do and i dont have a lot of support and my rent is due for over 2 months
sys : (Information) There are organisations out there who can help due to the exceptional circumstances .. do you have anyone helping you?
usr : i dont have anyone helping me and i am new to this city so i dont know who to turn to
sys : (Self-disclosure) Hmm, could you google for local organisations such as Citizen's Advice? I have found them very useful personally.
usr : i have neve rheard of them but i will google them up
sys : (Providing Suggestions) They provided me with loads of helpful advice and other people to get in touch with. Also, have you considered using a food bank?
usr : i did look up food bank, but there is none located where i live but i might be able to drive to the nearest one outside the city
sys : (Information) There are religious organisations that can sometimes help too and would not expect you to be of their religion.
usr : that sounds super helpful. I can check them out as well. I also dont know if iam applying to the right jobs. It makes me so sad to be rejected every week
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try not to worry about it - it is not just you. The job market is awful right now but it will pick up again!
usr : what else can you recommend
sys : (Question) Are you eligible for unemployment benefits?
usr : no because I didnt lose my job coz of covid.
usr : is there anything else i can apply for
sys : (Information) But surely you should be eligible anyway, unless you just walked out
usr : I have chronic health issues so i was let go
usr : do you have any other suggestions
sys : (Information) Wow that is really not fair of them! I think you have grounds for legal action there
usr : i actually am considering that
sys : (Others) You really should - nobody has the right to dismiss you due to your health problems, that is totally outrageous.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I realise the prospect of legal action can be daunting and potentially expensive but you should be able to get legal aid and it sounds as though you really have been badly treated here. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i am not abke to find work for over 6 months". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you feeling today?
usr : hi. i dont feel too well. I lost my job 6 months ago and i am not ablle to find work
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh wow I am sorry to hear that - it is a bad time to be out of work isn't it?
usr : yes it is a horrible time. I dont know what to do and i dont have a lot of support and my rent is due for over 2 months
sys : (Information) There are organisations out there who can help due to the exceptional circumstances .. do you have anyone helping you?
usr : i dont have anyone helping me and i am new to this city so i dont know who to turn to
sys : (Self-disclosure) Hmm, could you google for local organisations such as Citizen's Advice? I have found them very useful personally.
usr : i have neve rheard of them but i will google them up
sys : (Providing Suggestions) They provided me with loads of helpful advice and other people to get in touch with. Also, have you considered using a food bank?
usr : i did look up food bank, but there is none located where i live but i might be able to drive to the nearest one outside the city
sys : (Information) There are religious organisations that can sometimes help too and would not expect you to be of their religion.
usr : that sounds super helpful. I can check them out as well. I also dont know if iam applying to the right jobs. It makes me so sad to be rejected every week
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try not to worry about it - it is not just you. The job market is awful right now but it will pick up again!
usr : what else can you recommend
sys : (Question) Are you eligible for unemployment benefits?
usr : no because I didnt lose my job coz of covid.
usr : is there anything else i can apply for
sys : (Information) But surely you should be eligible anyway, unless you just walked out
usr : I have chronic health issues so i was let go
usr : do you have any other suggestions
sys : (Information) Wow that is really not fair of them! I think you have grounds for legal action there
usr : i actually am considering that
sys : (Others) You really should - nobody has the right to dismiss you due to your health problems, that is totally outrageous.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I realise the prospect of legal action can be daunting and potentially expensive but you should be able to get legal aid and it sounds as though you really have been badly treated here.
usr : how can start this priocess of a law suit
| (Providing Suggestions) You'd need to get legal aid. Try and find a solicitor who works pro bono. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i am not abke to find work for over 6 months". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you feeling today?
usr : hi. i dont feel too well. I lost my job 6 months ago and i am not ablle to find work
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh wow I am sorry to hear that - it is a bad time to be out of work isn't it?
usr : yes it is a horrible time. I dont know what to do and i dont have a lot of support and my rent is due for over 2 months
sys : (Information) There are organisations out there who can help due to the exceptional circumstances .. do you have anyone helping you?
usr : i dont have anyone helping me and i am new to this city so i dont know who to turn to
sys : (Self-disclosure) Hmm, could you google for local organisations such as Citizen's Advice? I have found them very useful personally.
usr : i have neve rheard of them but i will google them up
sys : (Providing Suggestions) They provided me with loads of helpful advice and other people to get in touch with. Also, have you considered using a food bank?
usr : i did look up food bank, but there is none located where i live but i might be able to drive to the nearest one outside the city
sys : (Information) There are religious organisations that can sometimes help too and would not expect you to be of their religion.
usr : that sounds super helpful. I can check them out as well. I also dont know if iam applying to the right jobs. It makes me so sad to be rejected every week
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try not to worry about it - it is not just you. The job market is awful right now but it will pick up again!
usr : what else can you recommend
sys : (Question) Are you eligible for unemployment benefits?
usr : no because I didnt lose my job coz of covid.
usr : is there anything else i can apply for
sys : (Information) But surely you should be eligible anyway, unless you just walked out
usr : I have chronic health issues so i was let go
usr : do you have any other suggestions
sys : (Information) Wow that is really not fair of them! I think you have grounds for legal action there
usr : i actually am considering that
sys : (Others) You really should - nobody has the right to dismiss you due to your health problems, that is totally outrageous.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I realise the prospect of legal action can be daunting and potentially expensive but you should be able to get legal aid and it sounds as though you really have been badly treated here.
usr : how can start this priocess of a law suit
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You'd need to get legal aid. Try and find a solicitor who works pro bono.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Anyway I hope that I have been able to give you some help and guidance and that things look up for you in the very near future! Try to hang in there. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i am not abke to find work for over 6 months". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you feeling today?
usr : hi. i dont feel too well. I lost my job 6 months ago and i am not ablle to find work
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh wow I am sorry to hear that - it is a bad time to be out of work isn't it?
usr : yes it is a horrible time. I dont know what to do and i dont have a lot of support and my rent is due for over 2 months
sys : (Information) There are organisations out there who can help due to the exceptional circumstances .. do you have anyone helping you?
usr : i dont have anyone helping me and i am new to this city so i dont know who to turn to
sys : (Self-disclosure) Hmm, could you google for local organisations such as Citizen's Advice? I have found them very useful personally.
usr : i have neve rheard of them but i will google them up
sys : (Providing Suggestions) They provided me with loads of helpful advice and other people to get in touch with. Also, have you considered using a food bank?
usr : i did look up food bank, but there is none located where i live but i might be able to drive to the nearest one outside the city
sys : (Information) There are religious organisations that can sometimes help too and would not expect you to be of their religion.
usr : that sounds super helpful. I can check them out as well. I also dont know if iam applying to the right jobs. It makes me so sad to be rejected every week
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try not to worry about it - it is not just you. The job market is awful right now but it will pick up again!
usr : what else can you recommend
sys : (Question) Are you eligible for unemployment benefits?
usr : no because I didnt lose my job coz of covid.
usr : is there anything else i can apply for
sys : (Information) But surely you should be eligible anyway, unless you just walked out
usr : I have chronic health issues so i was let go
usr : do you have any other suggestions
sys : (Information) Wow that is really not fair of them! I think you have grounds for legal action there
usr : i actually am considering that
sys : (Others) You really should - nobody has the right to dismiss you due to your health problems, that is totally outrageous.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I realise the prospect of legal action can be daunting and potentially expensive but you should be able to get legal aid and it sounds as though you really have been badly treated here.
usr : how can start this priocess of a law suit
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You'd need to get legal aid. Try and find a solicitor who works pro bono.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Anyway I hope that I have been able to give you some help and guidance and that things look up for you in the very near future! Try to hang in there.
usr : i will try that. you have been super helpful . i will also google the location of food baank todaY
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's great .. I really hope it works out for you. Don't worry, you're not the only one to be in this situation and things can and do pick up |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i am not abke to find work for over 6 months". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you feeling today?
usr : hi. i dont feel too well. I lost my job 6 months ago and i am not ablle to find work
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh wow I am sorry to hear that - it is a bad time to be out of work isn't it?
usr : yes it is a horrible time. I dont know what to do and i dont have a lot of support and my rent is due for over 2 months
sys : (Information) There are organisations out there who can help due to the exceptional circumstances .. do you have anyone helping you?
usr : i dont have anyone helping me and i am new to this city so i dont know who to turn to
sys : (Self-disclosure) Hmm, could you google for local organisations such as Citizen's Advice? I have found them very useful personally.
usr : i have neve rheard of them but i will google them up
sys : (Providing Suggestions) They provided me with loads of helpful advice and other people to get in touch with. Also, have you considered using a food bank?
usr : i did look up food bank, but there is none located where i live but i might be able to drive to the nearest one outside the city
sys : (Information) There are religious organisations that can sometimes help too and would not expect you to be of their religion.
usr : that sounds super helpful. I can check them out as well. I also dont know if iam applying to the right jobs. It makes me so sad to be rejected every week
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try not to worry about it - it is not just you. The job market is awful right now but it will pick up again!
usr : what else can you recommend
sys : (Question) Are you eligible for unemployment benefits?
usr : no because I didnt lose my job coz of covid.
usr : is there anything else i can apply for
sys : (Information) But surely you should be eligible anyway, unless you just walked out
usr : I have chronic health issues so i was let go
usr : do you have any other suggestions
sys : (Information) Wow that is really not fair of them! I think you have grounds for legal action there
usr : i actually am considering that
sys : (Others) You really should - nobody has the right to dismiss you due to your health problems, that is totally outrageous.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I realise the prospect of legal action can be daunting and potentially expensive but you should be able to get legal aid and it sounds as though you really have been badly treated here.
usr : how can start this priocess of a law suit
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You'd need to get legal aid. Try and find a solicitor who works pro bono.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Anyway I hope that I have been able to give you some help and guidance and that things look up for you in the very near future! Try to hang in there.
usr : i will try that. you have been super helpful . i will also google the location of food baank todaY
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's great .. I really hope it works out for you. Don't worry, you're not the only one to be in this situation and things can and do pick up
| (Others) Thanks for talking! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i am not abke to find work for over 6 months". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you feeling today?
usr : hi. i dont feel too well. I lost my job 6 months ago and i am not ablle to find work
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh wow I am sorry to hear that - it is a bad time to be out of work isn't it?
usr : yes it is a horrible time. I dont know what to do and i dont have a lot of support and my rent is due for over 2 months
sys : (Information) There are organisations out there who can help due to the exceptional circumstances .. do you have anyone helping you?
usr : i dont have anyone helping me and i am new to this city so i dont know who to turn to
sys : (Self-disclosure) Hmm, could you google for local organisations such as Citizen's Advice? I have found them very useful personally.
usr : i have neve rheard of them but i will google them up
sys : (Providing Suggestions) They provided me with loads of helpful advice and other people to get in touch with. Also, have you considered using a food bank?
usr : i did look up food bank, but there is none located where i live but i might be able to drive to the nearest one outside the city
sys : (Information) There are religious organisations that can sometimes help too and would not expect you to be of their religion.
usr : that sounds super helpful. I can check them out as well. I also dont know if iam applying to the right jobs. It makes me so sad to be rejected every week
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try not to worry about it - it is not just you. The job market is awful right now but it will pick up again!
usr : what else can you recommend
sys : (Question) Are you eligible for unemployment benefits?
usr : no because I didnt lose my job coz of covid.
usr : is there anything else i can apply for
sys : (Information) But surely you should be eligible anyway, unless you just walked out
usr : I have chronic health issues so i was let go
usr : do you have any other suggestions
sys : (Information) Wow that is really not fair of them! I think you have grounds for legal action there
usr : i actually am considering that
sys : (Others) You really should - nobody has the right to dismiss you due to your health problems, that is totally outrageous.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I realise the prospect of legal action can be daunting and potentially expensive but you should be able to get legal aid and it sounds as though you really have been badly treated here.
usr : how can start this priocess of a law suit
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You'd need to get legal aid. Try and find a solicitor who works pro bono.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Anyway I hope that I have been able to give you some help and guidance and that things look up for you in the very near future! Try to hang in there.
usr : i will try that. you have been super helpful . i will also google the location of food baank todaY
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's great .. I really hope it works out for you. Don't worry, you're not the only one to be in this situation and things can and do pick up
sys : (Others) Thanks for talking!
| (Providing Suggestions) Can you press quit and take the survey - I am not able to from this end :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I was in a course with a bad teacher and was not doing well. I felt like his grading was unfair and his teaching methods were unclear. When I tried to talk to him about the issues I was having I didn't feel like he did anything to help.". | (Question) How can I help you? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I was in a course with a bad teacher and was not doing well. I felt like his grading was unfair and his teaching methods were unclear. When I tried to talk to him about the issues I was having I didn't feel like he did anything to help.". | sys : (Question) How can I help you?
usr : I chose a past experience so this will be hypothetical. But I'm looking for ideas for other resources for this course since my professor isn't helpful
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see you are looking for some resources on a course that your professor isn't helping you with. What kind of questions do you have? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I was in a course with a bad teacher and was not doing well. I felt like his grading was unfair and his teaching methods were unclear. When I tried to talk to him about the issues I was having I didn't feel like he did anything to help.". | sys : (Question) How can I help you?
usr : I chose a past experience so this will be hypothetical. But I'm looking for ideas for other resources for this course since my professor isn't helpful
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see you are looking for some resources on a course that your professor isn't helping you with. What kind of questions do you have?
usr : What other ways can I get help to perform better? Who should I talk to?
| (Question) Are you looking for help to perform better in a certain subject in college? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I was in a course with a bad teacher and was not doing well. I felt like his grading was unfair and his teaching methods were unclear. When I tried to talk to him about the issues I was having I didn't feel like he did anything to help.". | sys : (Question) How can I help you?
usr : I chose a past experience so this will be hypothetical. But I'm looking for ideas for other resources for this course since my professor isn't helpful
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see you are looking for some resources on a course that your professor isn't helping you with. What kind of questions do you have?
usr : What other ways can I get help to perform better? Who should I talk to?
sys : (Question) Are you looking for help to perform better in a certain subject in college?
usr : Yeah I am, it's differential equations. Are you able to see the situation description I wrote that has more details?
| (Self-disclosure) I didn't see all the specifics but I remember taking that class. I went to my counselor and got a tutor which helped so much. It was offered for free at the college. Do you think you that is something you'd like to check out? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I was in a course with a bad teacher and was not doing well. I felt like his grading was unfair and his teaching methods were unclear. When I tried to talk to him about the issues I was having I didn't feel like he did anything to help.". | sys : (Question) How can I help you?
usr : I chose a past experience so this will be hypothetical. But I'm looking for ideas for other resources for this course since my professor isn't helpful
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see you are looking for some resources on a course that your professor isn't helping you with. What kind of questions do you have?
usr : What other ways can I get help to perform better? Who should I talk to?
sys : (Question) Are you looking for help to perform better in a certain subject in college?
usr : Yeah I am, it's differential equations. Are you able to see the situation description I wrote that has more details?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I didn't see all the specifics but I remember taking that class. I went to my counselor and got a tutor which helped so much. It was offered for free at the college. Do you think you that is something you'd like to check out?
usr : Yeah that could be useful. I'm not sure if my school offers that - the math department isn't very good. I'm an engineering major. I wonder if an engineering professor or student could help instead
| (Self-disclosure) I had a student who was a genius (by my standards) helping me and he was so patient and understanding. This lessened the pressure and helped me move forward successfully in the class. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I was in a course with a bad teacher and was not doing well. I felt like his grading was unfair and his teaching methods were unclear. When I tried to talk to him about the issues I was having I didn't feel like he did anything to help.". | sys : (Question) How can I help you?
usr : I chose a past experience so this will be hypothetical. But I'm looking for ideas for other resources for this course since my professor isn't helpful
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see you are looking for some resources on a course that your professor isn't helping you with. What kind of questions do you have?
usr : What other ways can I get help to perform better? Who should I talk to?
sys : (Question) Are you looking for help to perform better in a certain subject in college?
usr : Yeah I am, it's differential equations. Are you able to see the situation description I wrote that has more details?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I didn't see all the specifics but I remember taking that class. I went to my counselor and got a tutor which helped so much. It was offered for free at the college. Do you think you that is something you'd like to check out?
usr : Yeah that could be useful. I'm not sure if my school offers that - the math department isn't very good. I'm an engineering major. I wonder if an engineering professor or student could help instead
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had a student who was a genius (by my standards) helping me and he was so patient and understanding. This lessened the pressure and helped me move forward successfully in the class.
usr : Yeah that would be helpful. I think I need to hear things a different way. The professor is very confusing, but when I have gotten help from other students the concepts don't seem hard. I just don't do well with his teaching style I guess, it's not that I'm not smart enough to understand. Does that make sense?
| (Reflection of feelings) Yes, I understand that sometimes being able to interpret things from someone who can communicate well can make the difference in understanding things. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"Feelings of sadness, disappointment, or hopelessness can be a healthy reaction to life’s challenges. Normally, these feelings come in waves, are tied to thoughts or reminders of challenging situations, only last for a short period of time, and don’t interfere with school, work, or relationships.". | (Question) Hello! What seems to be the problem? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"Feelings of sadness, disappointment, or hopelessness can be a healthy reaction to life’s challenges. Normally, these feelings come in waves, are tied to thoughts or reminders of challenging situations, only last for a short period of time, and don’t interfere with school, work, or relationships.". | sys : (Question) Hello! What seems to be the problem?
usr : am having sleep disorder problem
usr : will you able to help?
usr : Daily am not able to sleep on time
| (Self-disclosure) I will try my best. I specialise in yoga and meditation. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"Feelings of sadness, disappointment, or hopelessness can be a healthy reaction to life’s challenges. Normally, these feelings come in waves, are tied to thoughts or reminders of challenging situations, only last for a short period of time, and don’t interfere with school, work, or relationships.". | sys : (Question) Hello! What seems to be the problem?
usr : am having sleep disorder problem
usr : will you able to help?
usr : Daily am not able to sleep on time
sys : (Self-disclosure) I will try my best. I specialise in yoga and meditation.
usr : Great
| (Question) How long has this been happening for? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"Feelings of sadness, disappointment, or hopelessness can be a healthy reaction to life’s challenges. Normally, these feelings come in waves, are tied to thoughts or reminders of challenging situations, only last for a short period of time, and don’t interfere with school, work, or relationships.". | sys : (Question) Hello! What seems to be the problem?
usr : am having sleep disorder problem
usr : will you able to help?
usr : Daily am not able to sleep on time
sys : (Self-disclosure) I will try my best. I specialise in yoga and meditation.
usr : Great
sys : (Question) How long has this been happening for?
usr : past 2 weeks
usr : will you able to help with some video links
usr : which I can see and follow
| (Question) This may be an obvious question, but can you think of something that has changed in the last two weeks? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"Feelings of sadness, disappointment, or hopelessness can be a healthy reaction to life’s challenges. Normally, these feelings come in waves, are tied to thoughts or reminders of challenging situations, only last for a short period of time, and don’t interfere with school, work, or relationships.". | sys : (Question) Hello! What seems to be the problem?
usr : am having sleep disorder problem
usr : will you able to help?
usr : Daily am not able to sleep on time
sys : (Self-disclosure) I will try my best. I specialise in yoga and meditation.
usr : Great
sys : (Question) How long has this been happening for?
usr : past 2 weeks
usr : will you able to help with some video links
usr : which I can see and follow
sys : (Question) This may be an obvious question, but can you think of something that has changed in the last two weeks?
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Think about work related, personal life, changes in behaviour? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"Feelings of sadness, disappointment, or hopelessness can be a healthy reaction to life’s challenges. Normally, these feelings come in waves, are tied to thoughts or reminders of challenging situations, only last for a short period of time, and don’t interfere with school, work, or relationships.". | sys : (Question) Hello! What seems to be the problem?
usr : am having sleep disorder problem
usr : will you able to help?
usr : Daily am not able to sleep on time
sys : (Self-disclosure) I will try my best. I specialise in yoga and meditation.
usr : Great
sys : (Question) How long has this been happening for?
usr : past 2 weeks
usr : will you able to help with some video links
usr : which I can see and follow
sys : (Question) This may be an obvious question, but can you think of something that has changed in the last two weeks?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Think about work related, personal life, changes in behaviour?
usr : yeah. may be work related
usr : am spending more time on work
usr : I need to switch some activities other than work
usr : will you suggest to take off for few more days from work?
usr : will that work
usr : or any other better solution
| (Others) It might solve as a temporary solution, however, if whatever happened at work to cause this continues when you return from holidays, you will just have the same problem again. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"Feelings of sadness, disappointment, or hopelessness can be a healthy reaction to life’s challenges. Normally, these feelings come in waves, are tied to thoughts or reminders of challenging situations, only last for a short period of time, and don’t interfere with school, work, or relationships.". | sys : (Question) Hello! What seems to be the problem?
usr : am having sleep disorder problem
usr : will you able to help?
usr : Daily am not able to sleep on time
sys : (Self-disclosure) I will try my best. I specialise in yoga and meditation.
usr : Great
sys : (Question) How long has this been happening for?
usr : past 2 weeks
usr : will you able to help with some video links
usr : which I can see and follow
sys : (Question) This may be an obvious question, but can you think of something that has changed in the last two weeks?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Think about work related, personal life, changes in behaviour?
usr : yeah. may be work related
usr : am spending more time on work
usr : I need to switch some activities other than work
usr : will you suggest to take off for few more days from work?
usr : will that work
usr : or any other better solution
sys : (Others) It might solve as a temporary solution, however, if whatever happened at work to cause this continues when you return from holidays, you will just have the same problem again.
| (Question) What exactly do you think is causing it? Additional work/responsibilities? New manager? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"Feelings of sadness, disappointment, or hopelessness can be a healthy reaction to life’s challenges. Normally, these feelings come in waves, are tied to thoughts or reminders of challenging situations, only last for a short period of time, and don’t interfere with school, work, or relationships.". | sys : (Question) Hello! What seems to be the problem?
usr : am having sleep disorder problem
usr : will you able to help?
usr : Daily am not able to sleep on time
sys : (Self-disclosure) I will try my best. I specialise in yoga and meditation.
usr : Great
sys : (Question) How long has this been happening for?
usr : past 2 weeks
usr : will you able to help with some video links
usr : which I can see and follow
sys : (Question) This may be an obvious question, but can you think of something that has changed in the last two weeks?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Think about work related, personal life, changes in behaviour?
usr : yeah. may be work related
usr : am spending more time on work
usr : I need to switch some activities other than work
usr : will you suggest to take off for few more days from work?
usr : will that work
usr : or any other better solution
sys : (Others) It might solve as a temporary solution, however, if whatever happened at work to cause this continues when you return from holidays, you will just have the same problem again.
sys : (Question) What exactly do you think is causing it? Additional work/responsibilities? New manager?
usr : additional work being assigned to me
usr : that causes more work stress
usr : most of them are new to me, so am spending more time to learn
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried to speak to your manager about these additional responsibilities? Do you know if it is a short term problem or you will always have extra work being assigned? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"Feelings of sadness, disappointment, or hopelessness can be a healthy reaction to life’s challenges. Normally, these feelings come in waves, are tied to thoughts or reminders of challenging situations, only last for a short period of time, and don’t interfere with school, work, or relationships.". | sys : (Question) Hello! What seems to be the problem?
usr : am having sleep disorder problem
usr : will you able to help?
usr : Daily am not able to sleep on time
sys : (Self-disclosure) I will try my best. I specialise in yoga and meditation.
usr : Great
sys : (Question) How long has this been happening for?
usr : past 2 weeks
usr : will you able to help with some video links
usr : which I can see and follow
sys : (Question) This may be an obvious question, but can you think of something that has changed in the last two weeks?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Think about work related, personal life, changes in behaviour?
usr : yeah. may be work related
usr : am spending more time on work
usr : I need to switch some activities other than work
usr : will you suggest to take off for few more days from work?
usr : will that work
usr : or any other better solution
sys : (Others) It might solve as a temporary solution, however, if whatever happened at work to cause this continues when you return from holidays, you will just have the same problem again.
sys : (Question) What exactly do you think is causing it? Additional work/responsibilities? New manager?
usr : additional work being assigned to me
usr : that causes more work stress
usr : most of them are new to me, so am spending more time to learn
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried to speak to your manager about these additional responsibilities? Do you know if it is a short term problem or you will always have extra work being assigned?
usr : am trying to speak. but she is not listening much
usr : let me try to tell my situation and get some better solution
usr : will you able to share some yoga & mediation links?
usr : to divert me from the extra addiotnal work
| (Information) I don't think I can share links over here, however the activities you perform directly before you go to sleep have a direct impact on your sleeping. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"Feelings of sadness, disappointment, or hopelessness can be a healthy reaction to life’s challenges. Normally, these feelings come in waves, are tied to thoughts or reminders of challenging situations, only last for a short period of time, and don’t interfere with school, work, or relationships.". | sys : (Question) Hello! What seems to be the problem?
usr : am having sleep disorder problem
usr : will you able to help?
usr : Daily am not able to sleep on time
sys : (Self-disclosure) I will try my best. I specialise in yoga and meditation.
usr : Great
sys : (Question) How long has this been happening for?
usr : past 2 weeks
usr : will you able to help with some video links
usr : which I can see and follow
sys : (Question) This may be an obvious question, but can you think of something that has changed in the last two weeks?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Think about work related, personal life, changes in behaviour?
usr : yeah. may be work related
usr : am spending more time on work
usr : I need to switch some activities other than work
usr : will you suggest to take off for few more days from work?
usr : will that work
usr : or any other better solution
sys : (Others) It might solve as a temporary solution, however, if whatever happened at work to cause this continues when you return from holidays, you will just have the same problem again.
sys : (Question) What exactly do you think is causing it? Additional work/responsibilities? New manager?
usr : additional work being assigned to me
usr : that causes more work stress
usr : most of them are new to me, so am spending more time to learn
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried to speak to your manager about these additional responsibilities? Do you know if it is a short term problem or you will always have extra work being assigned?
usr : am trying to speak. but she is not listening much
usr : let me try to tell my situation and get some better solution
usr : will you able to share some yoga & mediation links?
usr : to divert me from the extra addiotnal work
sys : (Information) I don't think I can share links over here, however the activities you perform directly before you go to sleep have a direct impact on your sleeping.
| (Providing Suggestions) I would recommend trying to practice 30m-1h of yoga (you can find lodes of exercise videos on the internet to follow), followed by a mediation sound track for you to listen to in bed while you try to sleep. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"Feelings of sadness, disappointment, or hopelessness can be a healthy reaction to life’s challenges. Normally, these feelings come in waves, are tied to thoughts or reminders of challenging situations, only last for a short period of time, and don’t interfere with school, work, or relationships.". | sys : (Question) Hello! What seems to be the problem?
usr : am having sleep disorder problem
usr : will you able to help?
usr : Daily am not able to sleep on time
sys : (Self-disclosure) I will try my best. I specialise in yoga and meditation.
usr : Great
sys : (Question) How long has this been happening for?
usr : past 2 weeks
usr : will you able to help with some video links
usr : which I can see and follow
sys : (Question) This may be an obvious question, but can you think of something that has changed in the last two weeks?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Think about work related, personal life, changes in behaviour?
usr : yeah. may be work related
usr : am spending more time on work
usr : I need to switch some activities other than work
usr : will you suggest to take off for few more days from work?
usr : will that work
usr : or any other better solution
sys : (Others) It might solve as a temporary solution, however, if whatever happened at work to cause this continues when you return from holidays, you will just have the same problem again.
sys : (Question) What exactly do you think is causing it? Additional work/responsibilities? New manager?
usr : additional work being assigned to me
usr : that causes more work stress
usr : most of them are new to me, so am spending more time to learn
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried to speak to your manager about these additional responsibilities? Do you know if it is a short term problem or you will always have extra work being assigned?
usr : am trying to speak. but she is not listening much
usr : let me try to tell my situation and get some better solution
usr : will you able to share some yoga & mediation links?
usr : to divert me from the extra addiotnal work
sys : (Information) I don't think I can share links over here, however the activities you perform directly before you go to sleep have a direct impact on your sleeping.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would recommend trying to practice 30m-1h of yoga (you can find lodes of exercise videos on the internet to follow), followed by a mediation sound track for you to listen to in bed while you try to sleep.
| (Information) Keep your body and mind clear before you go to sleep has proven to allow for a better sleep. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"Feelings of sadness, disappointment, or hopelessness can be a healthy reaction to life’s challenges. Normally, these feelings come in waves, are tied to thoughts or reminders of challenging situations, only last for a short period of time, and don’t interfere with school, work, or relationships.". | sys : (Question) Hello! What seems to be the problem?
usr : am having sleep disorder problem
usr : will you able to help?
usr : Daily am not able to sleep on time
sys : (Self-disclosure) I will try my best. I specialise in yoga and meditation.
usr : Great
sys : (Question) How long has this been happening for?
usr : past 2 weeks
usr : will you able to help with some video links
usr : which I can see and follow
sys : (Question) This may be an obvious question, but can you think of something that has changed in the last two weeks?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Think about work related, personal life, changes in behaviour?
usr : yeah. may be work related
usr : am spending more time on work
usr : I need to switch some activities other than work
usr : will you suggest to take off for few more days from work?
usr : will that work
usr : or any other better solution
sys : (Others) It might solve as a temporary solution, however, if whatever happened at work to cause this continues when you return from holidays, you will just have the same problem again.
sys : (Question) What exactly do you think is causing it? Additional work/responsibilities? New manager?
usr : additional work being assigned to me
usr : that causes more work stress
usr : most of them are new to me, so am spending more time to learn
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried to speak to your manager about these additional responsibilities? Do you know if it is a short term problem or you will always have extra work being assigned?
usr : am trying to speak. but she is not listening much
usr : let me try to tell my situation and get some better solution
usr : will you able to share some yoga & mediation links?
usr : to divert me from the extra addiotnal work
sys : (Information) I don't think I can share links over here, however the activities you perform directly before you go to sleep have a direct impact on your sleeping.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would recommend trying to practice 30m-1h of yoga (you can find lodes of exercise videos on the internet to follow), followed by a mediation sound track for you to listen to in bed while you try to sleep.
sys : (Information) Keep your body and mind clear before you go to sleep has proven to allow for a better sleep.
| (Self-disclosure) I used to have sleeping issues, and I started doing this 2 years ago, and I completely changed. I am an investment banker and still am, it is a very stressful environment however this has allowed me to work at the very top and remain in control of my body and mind. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"Feelings of sadness, disappointment, or hopelessness can be a healthy reaction to life’s challenges. Normally, these feelings come in waves, are tied to thoughts or reminders of challenging situations, only last for a short period of time, and don’t interfere with school, work, or relationships.". | sys : (Question) Hello! What seems to be the problem?
usr : am having sleep disorder problem
usr : will you able to help?
usr : Daily am not able to sleep on time
sys : (Self-disclosure) I will try my best. I specialise in yoga and meditation.
usr : Great
sys : (Question) How long has this been happening for?
usr : past 2 weeks
usr : will you able to help with some video links
usr : which I can see and follow
sys : (Question) This may be an obvious question, but can you think of something that has changed in the last two weeks?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Think about work related, personal life, changes in behaviour?
usr : yeah. may be work related
usr : am spending more time on work
usr : I need to switch some activities other than work
usr : will you suggest to take off for few more days from work?
usr : will that work
usr : or any other better solution
sys : (Others) It might solve as a temporary solution, however, if whatever happened at work to cause this continues when you return from holidays, you will just have the same problem again.
sys : (Question) What exactly do you think is causing it? Additional work/responsibilities? New manager?
usr : additional work being assigned to me
usr : that causes more work stress
usr : most of them are new to me, so am spending more time to learn
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried to speak to your manager about these additional responsibilities? Do you know if it is a short term problem or you will always have extra work being assigned?
usr : am trying to speak. but she is not listening much
usr : let me try to tell my situation and get some better solution
usr : will you able to share some yoga & mediation links?
usr : to divert me from the extra addiotnal work
sys : (Information) I don't think I can share links over here, however the activities you perform directly before you go to sleep have a direct impact on your sleeping.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would recommend trying to practice 30m-1h of yoga (you can find lodes of exercise videos on the internet to follow), followed by a mediation sound track for you to listen to in bed while you try to sleep.
sys : (Information) Keep your body and mind clear before you go to sleep has proven to allow for a better sleep.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I used to have sleeping issues, and I started doing this 2 years ago, and I completely changed. I am an investment banker and still am, it is a very stressful environment however this has allowed me to work at the very top and remain in control of my body and mind.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Please try this for 1 week, I know you can do it and I know it will help you long term. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"Feelings of sadness, disappointment, or hopelessness can be a healthy reaction to life’s challenges. Normally, these feelings come in waves, are tied to thoughts or reminders of challenging situations, only last for a short period of time, and don’t interfere with school, work, or relationships.". | sys : (Question) Hello! What seems to be the problem?
usr : am having sleep disorder problem
usr : will you able to help?
usr : Daily am not able to sleep on time
sys : (Self-disclosure) I will try my best. I specialise in yoga and meditation.
usr : Great
sys : (Question) How long has this been happening for?
usr : past 2 weeks
usr : will you able to help with some video links
usr : which I can see and follow
sys : (Question) This may be an obvious question, but can you think of something that has changed in the last two weeks?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Think about work related, personal life, changes in behaviour?
usr : yeah. may be work related
usr : am spending more time on work
usr : I need to switch some activities other than work
usr : will you suggest to take off for few more days from work?
usr : will that work
usr : or any other better solution
sys : (Others) It might solve as a temporary solution, however, if whatever happened at work to cause this continues when you return from holidays, you will just have the same problem again.
sys : (Question) What exactly do you think is causing it? Additional work/responsibilities? New manager?
usr : additional work being assigned to me
usr : that causes more work stress
usr : most of them are new to me, so am spending more time to learn
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried to speak to your manager about these additional responsibilities? Do you know if it is a short term problem or you will always have extra work being assigned?
usr : am trying to speak. but she is not listening much
usr : let me try to tell my situation and get some better solution
usr : will you able to share some yoga & mediation links?
usr : to divert me from the extra addiotnal work
sys : (Information) I don't think I can share links over here, however the activities you perform directly before you go to sleep have a direct impact on your sleeping.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would recommend trying to practice 30m-1h of yoga (you can find lodes of exercise videos on the internet to follow), followed by a mediation sound track for you to listen to in bed while you try to sleep.
sys : (Information) Keep your body and mind clear before you go to sleep has proven to allow for a better sleep.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I used to have sleeping issues, and I started doing this 2 years ago, and I completely changed. I am an investment banker and still am, it is a very stressful environment however this has allowed me to work at the very top and remain in control of my body and mind.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Please try this for 1 week, I know you can do it and I know it will help you long term.
usr : Sure. I can try whatever you suggested
usr : am sure definitely I will get some changes
usr : I felt good after chatting with you
| (Others) Thanks so good, I have really enjoyed talking to you too. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"Feelings of sadness, disappointment, or hopelessness can be a healthy reaction to life’s challenges. Normally, these feelings come in waves, are tied to thoughts or reminders of challenging situations, only last for a short period of time, and don’t interfere with school, work, or relationships.". | sys : (Question) Hello! What seems to be the problem?
usr : am having sleep disorder problem
usr : will you able to help?
usr : Daily am not able to sleep on time
sys : (Self-disclosure) I will try my best. I specialise in yoga and meditation.
usr : Great
sys : (Question) How long has this been happening for?
usr : past 2 weeks
usr : will you able to help with some video links
usr : which I can see and follow
sys : (Question) This may be an obvious question, but can you think of something that has changed in the last two weeks?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Think about work related, personal life, changes in behaviour?
usr : yeah. may be work related
usr : am spending more time on work
usr : I need to switch some activities other than work
usr : will you suggest to take off for few more days from work?
usr : will that work
usr : or any other better solution
sys : (Others) It might solve as a temporary solution, however, if whatever happened at work to cause this continues when you return from holidays, you will just have the same problem again.
sys : (Question) What exactly do you think is causing it? Additional work/responsibilities? New manager?
usr : additional work being assigned to me
usr : that causes more work stress
usr : most of them are new to me, so am spending more time to learn
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried to speak to your manager about these additional responsibilities? Do you know if it is a short term problem or you will always have extra work being assigned?
usr : am trying to speak. but she is not listening much
usr : let me try to tell my situation and get some better solution
usr : will you able to share some yoga & mediation links?
usr : to divert me from the extra addiotnal work
sys : (Information) I don't think I can share links over here, however the activities you perform directly before you go to sleep have a direct impact on your sleeping.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would recommend trying to practice 30m-1h of yoga (you can find lodes of exercise videos on the internet to follow), followed by a mediation sound track for you to listen to in bed while you try to sleep.
sys : (Information) Keep your body and mind clear before you go to sleep has proven to allow for a better sleep.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I used to have sleeping issues, and I started doing this 2 years ago, and I completely changed. I am an investment banker and still am, it is a very stressful environment however this has allowed me to work at the very top and remain in control of my body and mind.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Please try this for 1 week, I know you can do it and I know it will help you long term.
usr : Sure. I can try whatever you suggested
usr : am sure definitely I will get some changes
usr : I felt good after chatting with you
sys : (Others) Thanks so good, I have really enjoyed talking to you too.
usr : Thank you so much for your advice and have a good day.
| (Others) My pleasure, you too. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"Feelings of sadness, disappointment, or hopelessness can be a healthy reaction to life’s challenges. Normally, these feelings come in waves, are tied to thoughts or reminders of challenging situations, only last for a short period of time, and don’t interfere with school, work, or relationships.". | sys : (Question) Hello! What seems to be the problem?
usr : am having sleep disorder problem
usr : will you able to help?
usr : Daily am not able to sleep on time
sys : (Self-disclosure) I will try my best. I specialise in yoga and meditation.
usr : Great
sys : (Question) How long has this been happening for?
usr : past 2 weeks
usr : will you able to help with some video links
usr : which I can see and follow
sys : (Question) This may be an obvious question, but can you think of something that has changed in the last two weeks?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Think about work related, personal life, changes in behaviour?
usr : yeah. may be work related
usr : am spending more time on work
usr : I need to switch some activities other than work
usr : will you suggest to take off for few more days from work?
usr : will that work
usr : or any other better solution
sys : (Others) It might solve as a temporary solution, however, if whatever happened at work to cause this continues when you return from holidays, you will just have the same problem again.
sys : (Question) What exactly do you think is causing it? Additional work/responsibilities? New manager?
usr : additional work being assigned to me
usr : that causes more work stress
usr : most of them are new to me, so am spending more time to learn
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried to speak to your manager about these additional responsibilities? Do you know if it is a short term problem or you will always have extra work being assigned?
usr : am trying to speak. but she is not listening much
usr : let me try to tell my situation and get some better solution
usr : will you able to share some yoga & mediation links?
usr : to divert me from the extra addiotnal work
sys : (Information) I don't think I can share links over here, however the activities you perform directly before you go to sleep have a direct impact on your sleeping.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would recommend trying to practice 30m-1h of yoga (you can find lodes of exercise videos on the internet to follow), followed by a mediation sound track for you to listen to in bed while you try to sleep.
sys : (Information) Keep your body and mind clear before you go to sleep has proven to allow for a better sleep.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I used to have sleeping issues, and I started doing this 2 years ago, and I completely changed. I am an investment banker and still am, it is a very stressful environment however this has allowed me to work at the very top and remain in control of my body and mind.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Please try this for 1 week, I know you can do it and I know it will help you long term.
usr : Sure. I can try whatever you suggested
usr : am sure definitely I will get some changes
usr : I felt good after chatting with you
sys : (Others) Thanks so good, I have really enjoyed talking to you too.
usr : Thank you so much for your advice and have a good day.
sys : (Others) My pleasure, you too.
usr : Bye. closing this chat
| (Others) Bye. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I had a situation which is actually forced me to break up with my partner. It gives me pain. However I strongly believed that my partner would feel about this. But he just took it easy. This hurts me a lot.". | (Question) Hello how are you today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I had a situation which is actually forced me to break up with my partner. It gives me pain. However I strongly believed that my partner would feel about this. But he just took it easy. This hurts me a lot.". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you today?
usr : I am not good
usr : I had a hard time this day
| (Question) I am so sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about what is troubling you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I had a situation which is actually forced me to break up with my partner. It gives me pain. However I strongly believed that my partner would feel about this. But he just took it easy. This hurts me a lot.". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you today?
usr : I am not good
usr : I had a hard time this day
sys : (Question) I am so sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about what is troubling you?
usr : I had broke up the relationship with my partner.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear that, break ups can be very stressful. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I had a situation which is actually forced me to break up with my partner. It gives me pain. However I strongly believed that my partner would feel about this. But he just took it easy. This hurts me a lot.". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you today?
usr : I am not good
usr : I had a hard time this day
sys : (Question) I am so sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about what is troubling you?
usr : I had broke up the relationship with my partner.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear that, break ups can be very stressful.
usr : Yes, it is. I tried a lot to forget about that. But I couldn't.
| (Question) Do you currently have any hobbies or do any self care? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I had a situation which is actually forced me to break up with my partner. It gives me pain. However I strongly believed that my partner would feel about this. But he just took it easy. This hurts me a lot.". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you today?
usr : I am not good
usr : I had a hard time this day
sys : (Question) I am so sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about what is troubling you?
usr : I had broke up the relationship with my partner.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear that, break ups can be very stressful.
usr : Yes, it is. I tried a lot to forget about that. But I couldn't.
sys : (Question) Do you currently have any hobbies or do any self care?
usr : Yes. I would love to watch movies
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried sitting down to watch a good movie with a snack to take your mind off of it, that usually helps me. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I had a situation which is actually forced me to break up with my partner. It gives me pain. However I strongly believed that my partner would feel about this. But he just took it easy. This hurts me a lot.". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you today?
usr : I am not good
usr : I had a hard time this day
sys : (Question) I am so sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about what is troubling you?
usr : I had broke up the relationship with my partner.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear that, break ups can be very stressful.
usr : Yes, it is. I tried a lot to forget about that. But I couldn't.
sys : (Question) Do you currently have any hobbies or do any self care?
usr : Yes. I would love to watch movies
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried sitting down to watch a good movie with a snack to take your mind off of it, that usually helps me.
usr : I tried it. But I couldn't concentrate on it.
| (Providing Suggestions) you could try going for a walk or mediating, they are great ways to clear your head. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I had a situation which is actually forced me to break up with my partner. It gives me pain. However I strongly believed that my partner would feel about this. But he just took it easy. This hurts me a lot.". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you today?
usr : I am not good
usr : I had a hard time this day
sys : (Question) I am so sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about what is troubling you?
usr : I had broke up the relationship with my partner.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear that, break ups can be very stressful.
usr : Yes, it is. I tried a lot to forget about that. But I couldn't.
sys : (Question) Do you currently have any hobbies or do any self care?
usr : Yes. I would love to watch movies
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried sitting down to watch a good movie with a snack to take your mind off of it, that usually helps me.
usr : I tried it. But I couldn't concentrate on it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you could try going for a walk or mediating, they are great ways to clear your head.
usr : Yes. Thank you for your suggestion. While walking I feel little better.
| (Self-disclosure) I enjoy nice long walks in nature it is so peaceful, i am sure if you did that you would feel a little better. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I had a situation which is actually forced me to break up with my partner. It gives me pain. However I strongly believed that my partner would feel about this. But he just took it easy. This hurts me a lot.". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you today?
usr : I am not good
usr : I had a hard time this day
sys : (Question) I am so sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about what is troubling you?
usr : I had broke up the relationship with my partner.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear that, break ups can be very stressful.
usr : Yes, it is. I tried a lot to forget about that. But I couldn't.
sys : (Question) Do you currently have any hobbies or do any self care?
usr : Yes. I would love to watch movies
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried sitting down to watch a good movie with a snack to take your mind off of it, that usually helps me.
usr : I tried it. But I couldn't concentrate on it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you could try going for a walk or mediating, they are great ways to clear your head.
usr : Yes. Thank you for your suggestion. While walking I feel little better.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I enjoy nice long walks in nature it is so peaceful, i am sure if you did that you would feel a little better.
usr : Yes. I do think so. I should do that.
| (Providing Suggestions) Do you have any friends that you have tried talking to about how you are feeling? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I had a situation which is actually forced me to break up with my partner. It gives me pain. However I strongly believed that my partner would feel about this. But he just took it easy. This hurts me a lot.". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you today?
usr : I am not good
usr : I had a hard time this day
sys : (Question) I am so sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about what is troubling you?
usr : I had broke up the relationship with my partner.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear that, break ups can be very stressful.
usr : Yes, it is. I tried a lot to forget about that. But I couldn't.
sys : (Question) Do you currently have any hobbies or do any self care?
usr : Yes. I would love to watch movies
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried sitting down to watch a good movie with a snack to take your mind off of it, that usually helps me.
usr : I tried it. But I couldn't concentrate on it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you could try going for a walk or mediating, they are great ways to clear your head.
usr : Yes. Thank you for your suggestion. While walking I feel little better.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I enjoy nice long walks in nature it is so peaceful, i am sure if you did that you would feel a little better.
usr : Yes. I do think so. I should do that.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have any friends that you have tried talking to about how you are feeling?
usr : No. Actually I am really shy to talk with friends. If they started, I can continue the speech. Otherwise I am not comfortable to talk with anyone. Because of this I don't have so many friends. However my partner is my best friend.
| (Self-disclosure) I understand that completely being shy person myself |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I had a situation which is actually forced me to break up with my partner. It gives me pain. However I strongly believed that my partner would feel about this. But he just took it easy. This hurts me a lot.". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you today?
usr : I am not good
usr : I had a hard time this day
sys : (Question) I am so sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about what is troubling you?
usr : I had broke up the relationship with my partner.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear that, break ups can be very stressful.
usr : Yes, it is. I tried a lot to forget about that. But I couldn't.
sys : (Question) Do you currently have any hobbies or do any self care?
usr : Yes. I would love to watch movies
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried sitting down to watch a good movie with a snack to take your mind off of it, that usually helps me.
usr : I tried it. But I couldn't concentrate on it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you could try going for a walk or mediating, they are great ways to clear your head.
usr : Yes. Thank you for your suggestion. While walking I feel little better.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I enjoy nice long walks in nature it is so peaceful, i am sure if you did that you would feel a little better.
usr : Yes. I do think so. I should do that.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have any friends that you have tried talking to about how you are feeling?
usr : No. Actually I am really shy to talk with friends. If they started, I can continue the speech. Otherwise I am not comfortable to talk with anyone. Because of this I don't have so many friends. However my partner is my best friend.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand that completely being shy person myself
| (Providing Suggestions) I would try going on that walk and then coming back and taking a shower then trying to watch a movie with a snack again it may really help to clear your mind. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I had a situation which is actually forced me to break up with my partner. It gives me pain. However I strongly believed that my partner would feel about this. But he just took it easy. This hurts me a lot.". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you today?
usr : I am not good
usr : I had a hard time this day
sys : (Question) I am so sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about what is troubling you?
usr : I had broke up the relationship with my partner.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear that, break ups can be very stressful.
usr : Yes, it is. I tried a lot to forget about that. But I couldn't.
sys : (Question) Do you currently have any hobbies or do any self care?
usr : Yes. I would love to watch movies
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried sitting down to watch a good movie with a snack to take your mind off of it, that usually helps me.
usr : I tried it. But I couldn't concentrate on it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you could try going for a walk or mediating, they are great ways to clear your head.
usr : Yes. Thank you for your suggestion. While walking I feel little better.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I enjoy nice long walks in nature it is so peaceful, i am sure if you did that you would feel a little better.
usr : Yes. I do think so. I should do that.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have any friends that you have tried talking to about how you are feeling?
usr : No. Actually I am really shy to talk with friends. If they started, I can continue the speech. Otherwise I am not comfortable to talk with anyone. Because of this I don't have so many friends. However my partner is my best friend.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand that completely being shy person myself
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would try going on that walk and then coming back and taking a shower then trying to watch a movie with a snack again it may really help to clear your mind.
usr : I will follow your suggestion. Thanks a lot.
| (Reflection of feelings) You are so welcome! I hope you start to feel better soon. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I fear that I might get fired in my job. My boss hates me. My co-workers harrass me at times.". | (Question) Hello there! How are you doing? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I fear that I might get fired in my job. My boss hates me. My co-workers harrass me at times.". | sys : (Question) Hello there! How are you doing?
usr : Hello. Not so well. I have a very stressful job situation right now.
| (Question) Oh no, I am very sorry to hear about that. Can you tell me more about your situation? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I fear that I might get fired in my job. My boss hates me. My co-workers harrass me at times.". | sys : (Question) Hello there! How are you doing?
usr : Hello. Not so well. I have a very stressful job situation right now.
sys : (Question) Oh no, I am very sorry to hear about that. Can you tell me more about your situation?
usr : I really never got along with my coworkers. I think they purposefully harrass me sometimes. For example, yesterday during lunch time, they took my soda and threw it on the garbage can, then said "oops, I thought it was empty".
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm so sorry to hear that. It sounds like you are being bullied at work. Is that right? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I fear that I might get fired in my job. My boss hates me. My co-workers harrass me at times.". | sys : (Question) Hello there! How are you doing?
usr : Hello. Not so well. I have a very stressful job situation right now.
sys : (Question) Oh no, I am very sorry to hear about that. Can you tell me more about your situation?
usr : I really never got along with my coworkers. I think they purposefully harrass me sometimes. For example, yesterday during lunch time, they took my soda and threw it on the garbage can, then said "oops, I thought it was empty".
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm so sorry to hear that. It sounds like you are being bullied at work. Is that right?
usr : If that defines it as bullying, then yes, that's right.
usr : On top of that, my boss seems to hate me, and treats others much better than me.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can definitely understand why that would e so stressful for you. It hurts when your hard work goes unrecognized. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I fear that I might get fired in my job. My boss hates me. My co-workers harrass me at times.". | sys : (Question) Hello there! How are you doing?
usr : Hello. Not so well. I have a very stressful job situation right now.
sys : (Question) Oh no, I am very sorry to hear about that. Can you tell me more about your situation?
usr : I really never got along with my coworkers. I think they purposefully harrass me sometimes. For example, yesterday during lunch time, they took my soda and threw it on the garbage can, then said "oops, I thought it was empty".
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm so sorry to hear that. It sounds like you are being bullied at work. Is that right?
usr : If that defines it as bullying, then yes, that's right.
usr : On top of that, my boss seems to hate me, and treats others much better than me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can definitely understand why that would e so stressful for you. It hurts when your hard work goes unrecognized.
usr : I feel like I meet all the standards that are expected from me at work. I don't know what else do they want.
usr : Maybe it has to do with my appearance? Do they dislike me because I am obese?
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried asking your boss for a one on one talk where you can talk about ways you can improve? I did that before and I found that it was super helpful in seeing a new perspective about me. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I fear that I might get fired in my job. My boss hates me. My co-workers harrass me at times.". | sys : (Question) Hello there! How are you doing?
usr : Hello. Not so well. I have a very stressful job situation right now.
sys : (Question) Oh no, I am very sorry to hear about that. Can you tell me more about your situation?
usr : I really never got along with my coworkers. I think they purposefully harrass me sometimes. For example, yesterday during lunch time, they took my soda and threw it on the garbage can, then said "oops, I thought it was empty".
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm so sorry to hear that. It sounds like you are being bullied at work. Is that right?
usr : If that defines it as bullying, then yes, that's right.
usr : On top of that, my boss seems to hate me, and treats others much better than me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can definitely understand why that would e so stressful for you. It hurts when your hard work goes unrecognized.
usr : I feel like I meet all the standards that are expected from me at work. I don't know what else do they want.
usr : Maybe it has to do with my appearance? Do they dislike me because I am obese?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried asking your boss for a one on one talk where you can talk about ways you can improve? I did that before and I found that it was super helpful in seeing a new perspective about me.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) And please don't think you are disliked because you are obese. I can assure you, you are beautiful. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I fear that I might get fired in my job. My boss hates me. My co-workers harrass me at times.". | sys : (Question) Hello there! How are you doing?
usr : Hello. Not so well. I have a very stressful job situation right now.
sys : (Question) Oh no, I am very sorry to hear about that. Can you tell me more about your situation?
usr : I really never got along with my coworkers. I think they purposefully harrass me sometimes. For example, yesterday during lunch time, they took my soda and threw it on the garbage can, then said "oops, I thought it was empty".
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm so sorry to hear that. It sounds like you are being bullied at work. Is that right?
usr : If that defines it as bullying, then yes, that's right.
usr : On top of that, my boss seems to hate me, and treats others much better than me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can definitely understand why that would e so stressful for you. It hurts when your hard work goes unrecognized.
usr : I feel like I meet all the standards that are expected from me at work. I don't know what else do they want.
usr : Maybe it has to do with my appearance? Do they dislike me because I am obese?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried asking your boss for a one on one talk where you can talk about ways you can improve? I did that before and I found that it was super helpful in seeing a new perspective about me.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) And please don't think you are disliked because you are obese. I can assure you, you are beautiful.
usr : No, I haven't tried that. And I appreciate it, but you have no way of assuring that I am beautiful when you haven't seen me. Beautiness is relative too. Maybe I am dislikeable for my coworkers but pretty for someone else.
usr : Do you think my boss will react positively to your suggestion?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay, well maybe that may be a good place to start with your boss? I think it will be a great place to start. Sometimes it helps to reach out and hear other's perspective of you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I fear that I might get fired in my job. My boss hates me. My co-workers harrass me at times.". | sys : (Question) Hello there! How are you doing?
usr : Hello. Not so well. I have a very stressful job situation right now.
sys : (Question) Oh no, I am very sorry to hear about that. Can you tell me more about your situation?
usr : I really never got along with my coworkers. I think they purposefully harrass me sometimes. For example, yesterday during lunch time, they took my soda and threw it on the garbage can, then said "oops, I thought it was empty".
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm so sorry to hear that. It sounds like you are being bullied at work. Is that right?
usr : If that defines it as bullying, then yes, that's right.
usr : On top of that, my boss seems to hate me, and treats others much better than me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can definitely understand why that would e so stressful for you. It hurts when your hard work goes unrecognized.
usr : I feel like I meet all the standards that are expected from me at work. I don't know what else do they want.
usr : Maybe it has to do with my appearance? Do they dislike me because I am obese?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried asking your boss for a one on one talk where you can talk about ways you can improve? I did that before and I found that it was super helpful in seeing a new perspective about me.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) And please don't think you are disliked because you are obese. I can assure you, you are beautiful.
usr : No, I haven't tried that. And I appreciate it, but you have no way of assuring that I am beautiful when you haven't seen me. Beautiness is relative too. Maybe I am dislikeable for my coworkers but pretty for someone else.
usr : Do you think my boss will react positively to your suggestion?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay, well maybe that may be a good place to start with your boss? I think it will be a great place to start. Sometimes it helps to reach out and hear other's perspective of you.
| (Providing Suggestions) What do you think about that suggestion? Are you hesitant about it? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I fear that I might get fired in my job. My boss hates me. My co-workers harrass me at times.". | sys : (Question) Hello there! How are you doing?
usr : Hello. Not so well. I have a very stressful job situation right now.
sys : (Question) Oh no, I am very sorry to hear about that. Can you tell me more about your situation?
usr : I really never got along with my coworkers. I think they purposefully harrass me sometimes. For example, yesterday during lunch time, they took my soda and threw it on the garbage can, then said "oops, I thought it was empty".
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm so sorry to hear that. It sounds like you are being bullied at work. Is that right?
usr : If that defines it as bullying, then yes, that's right.
usr : On top of that, my boss seems to hate me, and treats others much better than me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can definitely understand why that would e so stressful for you. It hurts when your hard work goes unrecognized.
usr : I feel like I meet all the standards that are expected from me at work. I don't know what else do they want.
usr : Maybe it has to do with my appearance? Do they dislike me because I am obese?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried asking your boss for a one on one talk where you can talk about ways you can improve? I did that before and I found that it was super helpful in seeing a new perspective about me.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) And please don't think you are disliked because you are obese. I can assure you, you are beautiful.
usr : No, I haven't tried that. And I appreciate it, but you have no way of assuring that I am beautiful when you haven't seen me. Beautiness is relative too. Maybe I am dislikeable for my coworkers but pretty for someone else.
usr : Do you think my boss will react positively to your suggestion?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay, well maybe that may be a good place to start with your boss? I think it will be a great place to start. Sometimes it helps to reach out and hear other's perspective of you.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What do you think about that suggestion? Are you hesitant about it?
usr : I feel like maybe I can give it a try.
| (Providing Suggestions) And I think everyone is beautiful. You are definitely right about beauty being relative. I personally choose to see the beauty in everything and it has made life a lot more beautiful for me. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I fear that I might get fired in my job. My boss hates me. My co-workers harrass me at times.". | sys : (Question) Hello there! How are you doing?
usr : Hello. Not so well. I have a very stressful job situation right now.
sys : (Question) Oh no, I am very sorry to hear about that. Can you tell me more about your situation?
usr : I really never got along with my coworkers. I think they purposefully harrass me sometimes. For example, yesterday during lunch time, they took my soda and threw it on the garbage can, then said "oops, I thought it was empty".
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm so sorry to hear that. It sounds like you are being bullied at work. Is that right?
usr : If that defines it as bullying, then yes, that's right.
usr : On top of that, my boss seems to hate me, and treats others much better than me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can definitely understand why that would e so stressful for you. It hurts when your hard work goes unrecognized.
usr : I feel like I meet all the standards that are expected from me at work. I don't know what else do they want.
usr : Maybe it has to do with my appearance? Do they dislike me because I am obese?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried asking your boss for a one on one talk where you can talk about ways you can improve? I did that before and I found that it was super helpful in seeing a new perspective about me.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) And please don't think you are disliked because you are obese. I can assure you, you are beautiful.
usr : No, I haven't tried that. And I appreciate it, but you have no way of assuring that I am beautiful when you haven't seen me. Beautiness is relative too. Maybe I am dislikeable for my coworkers but pretty for someone else.
usr : Do you think my boss will react positively to your suggestion?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay, well maybe that may be a good place to start with your boss? I think it will be a great place to start. Sometimes it helps to reach out and hear other's perspective of you.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What do you think about that suggestion? Are you hesitant about it?
usr : I feel like maybe I can give it a try.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) And I think everyone is beautiful. You are definitely right about beauty being relative. I personally choose to see the beauty in everything and it has made life a lot more beautiful for me.
usr : That's a pretty view to have about beauty.
usr : Keep it up : )
| (Question) That's great! How about your coworkers. Do you feel like it might be worth talking to them about what they have been doing to you? |
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