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### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I fear that I might get fired in my job. My boss hates me. My co-workers harrass me at times.". | sys : (Question) Hello there! How are you doing?
usr : Hello. Not so well. I have a very stressful job situation right now.
sys : (Question) Oh no, I am very sorry to hear about that. Can you tell me more about your situation?
usr : I really never got along with my coworkers. I think they purposefully harrass me sometimes. For example, yesterday during lunch time, they took my soda and threw it on the garbage can, then said "oops, I thought it was empty".
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm so sorry to hear that. It sounds like you are being bullied at work. Is that right?
usr : If that defines it as bullying, then yes, that's right.
usr : On top of that, my boss seems to hate me, and treats others much better than me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can definitely understand why that would e so stressful for you. It hurts when your hard work goes unrecognized.
usr : I feel like I meet all the standards that are expected from me at work. I don't know what else do they want.
usr : Maybe it has to do with my appearance? Do they dislike me because I am obese?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried asking your boss for a one on one talk where you can talk about ways you can improve? I did that before and I found that it was super helpful in seeing a new perspective about me.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) And please don't think you are disliked because you are obese. I can assure you, you are beautiful.
usr : No, I haven't tried that. And I appreciate it, but you have no way of assuring that I am beautiful when you haven't seen me. Beautiness is relative too. Maybe I am dislikeable for my coworkers but pretty for someone else.
usr : Do you think my boss will react positively to your suggestion?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay, well maybe that may be a good place to start with your boss? I think it will be a great place to start. Sometimes it helps to reach out and hear other's perspective of you.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What do you think about that suggestion? Are you hesitant about it?
usr : I feel like maybe I can give it a try.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) And I think everyone is beautiful. You are definitely right about beauty being relative. I personally choose to see the beauty in everything and it has made life a lot more beautiful for me.
usr : That's a pretty view to have about beauty.
usr : Keep it up : )
sys : (Question) That's great! How about your coworkers. Do you feel like it might be worth talking to them about what they have been doing to you?
usr : I honestly kind of fear them. I just want them to leave me alone.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see, I understand how difficult it would feel to talk to people who have been treating you like that. :( |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am break up with my girl friend she love other one because that guy better than me he's very rice and got lot of money. She's breaking up with me and she slapped me.". | (Question) Hello there. What's going on today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am break up with my girl friend she love other one because that guy better than me he's very rice and got lot of money. She's breaking up with me and she slapped me.". | sys : (Question) Hello there. What's going on today?
usr : My girl friend break up with me
| (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! Was this recently? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am break up with my girl friend she love other one because that guy better than me he's very rice and got lot of money. She's breaking up with me and she slapped me.". | sys : (Question) Hello there. What's going on today?
usr : My girl friend break up with me
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! Was this recently?
usr : sh
usr : she love other one
| (Question) I'm very sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about it right now? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am break up with my girl friend she love other one because that guy better than me he's very rice and got lot of money. She's breaking up with me and she slapped me.". | sys : (Question) Hello there. What's going on today?
usr : My girl friend break up with me
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! Was this recently?
usr : sh
usr : she love other one
sys : (Question) I'm very sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about it right now?
usr : That person is very smart and very rice. So she affected with him
usr : Very painful and very sadness
| (Reflection of feelings) As you message me, I can feel your pain. It seems you aren't sure what to do with these feelings. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am break up with my girl friend she love other one because that guy better than me he's very rice and got lot of money. She's breaking up with me and she slapped me.". | sys : (Question) Hello there. What's going on today?
usr : My girl friend break up with me
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! Was this recently?
usr : sh
usr : she love other one
sys : (Question) I'm very sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about it right now?
usr : That person is very smart and very rice. So she affected with him
usr : Very painful and very sadness
sys : (Reflection of feelings) As you message me, I can feel your pain. It seems you aren't sure what to do with these feelings.
usr : I am very hearting today.
usr : She's broke my heart.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. I have been in a similar situation myself. Heartbreak is one of the hardest feelings to go through, but I believe in you and your strength. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am break up with my girl friend she love other one because that guy better than me he's very rice and got lot of money. She's breaking up with me and she slapped me.". | sys : (Question) Hello there. What's going on today?
usr : My girl friend break up with me
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! Was this recently?
usr : sh
usr : she love other one
sys : (Question) I'm very sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about it right now?
usr : That person is very smart and very rice. So she affected with him
usr : Very painful and very sadness
sys : (Reflection of feelings) As you message me, I can feel your pain. It seems you aren't sure what to do with these feelings.
usr : I am very hearting today.
usr : She's broke my heart.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. I have been in a similar situation myself. Heartbreak is one of the hardest feelings to go through, but I believe in you and your strength.
| (Information) From what I've seen before, surrounding yourself with good friends helps quite a bit. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am break up with my girl friend she love other one because that guy better than me he's very rice and got lot of money. She's breaking up with me and she slapped me.". | sys : (Question) Hello there. What's going on today?
usr : My girl friend break up with me
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! Was this recently?
usr : sh
usr : she love other one
sys : (Question) I'm very sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about it right now?
usr : That person is very smart and very rice. So she affected with him
usr : Very painful and very sadness
sys : (Reflection of feelings) As you message me, I can feel your pain. It seems you aren't sure what to do with these feelings.
usr : I am very hearting today.
usr : She's broke my heart.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. I have been in a similar situation myself. Heartbreak is one of the hardest feelings to go through, but I believe in you and your strength.
sys : (Information) From what I've seen before, surrounding yourself with good friends helps quite a bit.
usr : Thank you very much. But i can't accept this pain.
| (Providing Suggestions) I understand feeling that way. Something I do when I am feeling pain is taking deep breaths. Inhale, exhale. Could you do that for me? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am break up with my girl friend she love other one because that guy better than me he's very rice and got lot of money. She's breaking up with me and she slapped me.". | sys : (Question) Hello there. What's going on today?
usr : My girl friend break up with me
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! Was this recently?
usr : sh
usr : she love other one
sys : (Question) I'm very sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about it right now?
usr : That person is very smart and very rice. So she affected with him
usr : Very painful and very sadness
sys : (Reflection of feelings) As you message me, I can feel your pain. It seems you aren't sure what to do with these feelings.
usr : I am very hearting today.
usr : She's broke my heart.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. I have been in a similar situation myself. Heartbreak is one of the hardest feelings to go through, but I believe in you and your strength.
sys : (Information) From what I've seen before, surrounding yourself with good friends helps quite a bit.
usr : Thank you very much. But i can't accept this pain.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand feeling that way. Something I do when I am feeling pain is taking deep breaths. Inhale, exhale. Could you do that for me?
usr : I am sorry. I can't chat any more please end of this survey.
usr : Ok. I can try.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear that. I believe in you, things will be better with time. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am break up with my girl friend she love other one because that guy better than me he's very rice and got lot of money. She's breaking up with me and she slapped me.". | sys : (Question) Hello there. What's going on today?
usr : My girl friend break up with me
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! Was this recently?
usr : sh
usr : she love other one
sys : (Question) I'm very sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about it right now?
usr : That person is very smart and very rice. So she affected with him
usr : Very painful and very sadness
sys : (Reflection of feelings) As you message me, I can feel your pain. It seems you aren't sure what to do with these feelings.
usr : I am very hearting today.
usr : She's broke my heart.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. I have been in a similar situation myself. Heartbreak is one of the hardest feelings to go through, but I believe in you and your strength.
sys : (Information) From what I've seen before, surrounding yourself with good friends helps quite a bit.
usr : Thank you very much. But i can't accept this pain.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand feeling that way. Something I do when I am feeling pain is taking deep breaths. Inhale, exhale. Could you do that for me?
usr : I am sorry. I can't chat any more please end of this survey.
usr : Ok. I can try.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear that. I believe in you, things will be better with time.
| (Question) Would you like to continue chatting? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am break up with my girl friend she love other one because that guy better than me he's very rice and got lot of money. She's breaking up with me and she slapped me.". | sys : (Question) Hello there. What's going on today?
usr : My girl friend break up with me
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! Was this recently?
usr : sh
usr : she love other one
sys : (Question) I'm very sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about it right now?
usr : That person is very smart and very rice. So she affected with him
usr : Very painful and very sadness
sys : (Reflection of feelings) As you message me, I can feel your pain. It seems you aren't sure what to do with these feelings.
usr : I am very hearting today.
usr : She's broke my heart.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. I have been in a similar situation myself. Heartbreak is one of the hardest feelings to go through, but I believe in you and your strength.
sys : (Information) From what I've seen before, surrounding yourself with good friends helps quite a bit.
usr : Thank you very much. But i can't accept this pain.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand feeling that way. Something I do when I am feeling pain is taking deep breaths. Inhale, exhale. Could you do that for me?
usr : I am sorry. I can't chat any more please end of this survey.
usr : Ok. I can try.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear that. I believe in you, things will be better with time.
sys : (Question) Would you like to continue chatting?
usr : Yes
| (Others) Okay. Are you excited for the upcoming holidays? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am break up with my girl friend she love other one because that guy better than me he's very rice and got lot of money. She's breaking up with me and she slapped me.". | sys : (Question) Hello there. What's going on today?
usr : My girl friend break up with me
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! Was this recently?
usr : sh
usr : she love other one
sys : (Question) I'm very sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about it right now?
usr : That person is very smart and very rice. So she affected with him
usr : Very painful and very sadness
sys : (Reflection of feelings) As you message me, I can feel your pain. It seems you aren't sure what to do with these feelings.
usr : I am very hearting today.
usr : She's broke my heart.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. I have been in a similar situation myself. Heartbreak is one of the hardest feelings to go through, but I believe in you and your strength.
sys : (Information) From what I've seen before, surrounding yourself with good friends helps quite a bit.
usr : Thank you very much. But i can't accept this pain.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand feeling that way. Something I do when I am feeling pain is taking deep breaths. Inhale, exhale. Could you do that for me?
usr : I am sorry. I can't chat any more please end of this survey.
usr : Ok. I can try.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear that. I believe in you, things will be better with time.
sys : (Question) Would you like to continue chatting?
usr : Yes
sys : (Others) Okay. Are you excited for the upcoming holidays?
usr : Yeah, i am excited upcoming chrisms and new year party.
| (Others) That sounds fun! Is the new year party with friends? Or is it a family affair? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am break up with my girl friend she love other one because that guy better than me he's very rice and got lot of money. She's breaking up with me and she slapped me.". | sys : (Question) Hello there. What's going on today?
usr : My girl friend break up with me
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! Was this recently?
usr : sh
usr : she love other one
sys : (Question) I'm very sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about it right now?
usr : That person is very smart and very rice. So she affected with him
usr : Very painful and very sadness
sys : (Reflection of feelings) As you message me, I can feel your pain. It seems you aren't sure what to do with these feelings.
usr : I am very hearting today.
usr : She's broke my heart.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. I have been in a similar situation myself. Heartbreak is one of the hardest feelings to go through, but I believe in you and your strength.
sys : (Information) From what I've seen before, surrounding yourself with good friends helps quite a bit.
usr : Thank you very much. But i can't accept this pain.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand feeling that way. Something I do when I am feeling pain is taking deep breaths. Inhale, exhale. Could you do that for me?
usr : I am sorry. I can't chat any more please end of this survey.
usr : Ok. I can try.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear that. I believe in you, things will be better with time.
sys : (Question) Would you like to continue chatting?
usr : Yes
sys : (Others) Okay. Are you excited for the upcoming holidays?
usr : Yeah, i am excited upcoming chrisms and new year party.
sys : (Others) That sounds fun! Is the new year party with friends? Or is it a family affair?
usr : New year party is with my friend and family affairs.
usr : It's very excited and lot of fun and games.
| (Others) That is fun! Friends and family are the most wonderful cure for the blues. What types of games will you be playing? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am break up with my girl friend she love other one because that guy better than me he's very rice and got lot of money. She's breaking up with me and she slapped me.". | sys : (Question) Hello there. What's going on today?
usr : My girl friend break up with me
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! Was this recently?
usr : sh
usr : she love other one
sys : (Question) I'm very sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about it right now?
usr : That person is very smart and very rice. So she affected with him
usr : Very painful and very sadness
sys : (Reflection of feelings) As you message me, I can feel your pain. It seems you aren't sure what to do with these feelings.
usr : I am very hearting today.
usr : She's broke my heart.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. I have been in a similar situation myself. Heartbreak is one of the hardest feelings to go through, but I believe in you and your strength.
sys : (Information) From what I've seen before, surrounding yourself with good friends helps quite a bit.
usr : Thank you very much. But i can't accept this pain.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand feeling that way. Something I do when I am feeling pain is taking deep breaths. Inhale, exhale. Could you do that for me?
usr : I am sorry. I can't chat any more please end of this survey.
usr : Ok. I can try.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear that. I believe in you, things will be better with time.
sys : (Question) Would you like to continue chatting?
usr : Yes
sys : (Others) Okay. Are you excited for the upcoming holidays?
usr : Yeah, i am excited upcoming chrisms and new year party.
sys : (Others) That sounds fun! Is the new year party with friends? Or is it a family affair?
usr : New year party is with my friend and family affairs.
usr : It's very excited and lot of fun and games.
sys : (Others) That is fun! Friends and family are the most wonderful cure for the blues. What types of games will you be playing?
usr : Musical chair and funny game
usr : Dancing game
| (Self-disclosure) Musical chairs is one of my favorites. I remember when I was going through a hard time, my friends took me out to dinner and we spent all night together. It was very fun and helped me a lot. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am break up with my girl friend she love other one because that guy better than me he's very rice and got lot of money. She's breaking up with me and she slapped me.". | sys : (Question) Hello there. What's going on today?
usr : My girl friend break up with me
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! Was this recently?
usr : sh
usr : she love other one
sys : (Question) I'm very sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about it right now?
usr : That person is very smart and very rice. So she affected with him
usr : Very painful and very sadness
sys : (Reflection of feelings) As you message me, I can feel your pain. It seems you aren't sure what to do with these feelings.
usr : I am very hearting today.
usr : She's broke my heart.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. I have been in a similar situation myself. Heartbreak is one of the hardest feelings to go through, but I believe in you and your strength.
sys : (Information) From what I've seen before, surrounding yourself with good friends helps quite a bit.
usr : Thank you very much. But i can't accept this pain.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand feeling that way. Something I do when I am feeling pain is taking deep breaths. Inhale, exhale. Could you do that for me?
usr : I am sorry. I can't chat any more please end of this survey.
usr : Ok. I can try.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear that. I believe in you, things will be better with time.
sys : (Question) Would you like to continue chatting?
usr : Yes
sys : (Others) Okay. Are you excited for the upcoming holidays?
usr : Yeah, i am excited upcoming chrisms and new year party.
sys : (Others) That sounds fun! Is the new year party with friends? Or is it a family affair?
usr : New year party is with my friend and family affairs.
usr : It's very excited and lot of fun and games.
sys : (Others) That is fun! Friends and family are the most wonderful cure for the blues. What types of games will you be playing?
usr : Musical chair and funny game
usr : Dancing game
sys : (Self-disclosure) Musical chairs is one of my favorites. I remember when I was going through a hard time, my friends took me out to dinner and we spent all night together. It was very fun and helped me a lot.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think it's really great that you have that party planned! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am break up with my girl friend she love other one because that guy better than me he's very rice and got lot of money. She's breaking up with me and she slapped me.". | sys : (Question) Hello there. What's going on today?
usr : My girl friend break up with me
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! Was this recently?
usr : sh
usr : she love other one
sys : (Question) I'm very sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about it right now?
usr : That person is very smart and very rice. So she affected with him
usr : Very painful and very sadness
sys : (Reflection of feelings) As you message me, I can feel your pain. It seems you aren't sure what to do with these feelings.
usr : I am very hearting today.
usr : She's broke my heart.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. I have been in a similar situation myself. Heartbreak is one of the hardest feelings to go through, but I believe in you and your strength.
sys : (Information) From what I've seen before, surrounding yourself with good friends helps quite a bit.
usr : Thank you very much. But i can't accept this pain.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand feeling that way. Something I do when I am feeling pain is taking deep breaths. Inhale, exhale. Could you do that for me?
usr : I am sorry. I can't chat any more please end of this survey.
usr : Ok. I can try.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear that. I believe in you, things will be better with time.
sys : (Question) Would you like to continue chatting?
usr : Yes
sys : (Others) Okay. Are you excited for the upcoming holidays?
usr : Yeah, i am excited upcoming chrisms and new year party.
sys : (Others) That sounds fun! Is the new year party with friends? Or is it a family affair?
usr : New year party is with my friend and family affairs.
usr : It's very excited and lot of fun and games.
sys : (Others) That is fun! Friends and family are the most wonderful cure for the blues. What types of games will you be playing?
usr : Musical chair and funny game
usr : Dancing game
sys : (Self-disclosure) Musical chairs is one of my favorites. I remember when I was going through a hard time, my friends took me out to dinner and we spent all night together. It was very fun and helped me a lot.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think it's really great that you have that party planned!
usr : Yes, very fun play the music and around chair run.
| (Question) How are you feeling now, my friend? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am break up with my girl friend she love other one because that guy better than me he's very rice and got lot of money. She's breaking up with me and she slapped me.". | sys : (Question) Hello there. What's going on today?
usr : My girl friend break up with me
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! Was this recently?
usr : sh
usr : she love other one
sys : (Question) I'm very sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about it right now?
usr : That person is very smart and very rice. So she affected with him
usr : Very painful and very sadness
sys : (Reflection of feelings) As you message me, I can feel your pain. It seems you aren't sure what to do with these feelings.
usr : I am very hearting today.
usr : She's broke my heart.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. I have been in a similar situation myself. Heartbreak is one of the hardest feelings to go through, but I believe in you and your strength.
sys : (Information) From what I've seen before, surrounding yourself with good friends helps quite a bit.
usr : Thank you very much. But i can't accept this pain.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand feeling that way. Something I do when I am feeling pain is taking deep breaths. Inhale, exhale. Could you do that for me?
usr : I am sorry. I can't chat any more please end of this survey.
usr : Ok. I can try.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear that. I believe in you, things will be better with time.
sys : (Question) Would you like to continue chatting?
usr : Yes
sys : (Others) Okay. Are you excited for the upcoming holidays?
usr : Yeah, i am excited upcoming chrisms and new year party.
sys : (Others) That sounds fun! Is the new year party with friends? Or is it a family affair?
usr : New year party is with my friend and family affairs.
usr : It's very excited and lot of fun and games.
sys : (Others) That is fun! Friends and family are the most wonderful cure for the blues. What types of games will you be playing?
usr : Musical chair and funny game
usr : Dancing game
sys : (Self-disclosure) Musical chairs is one of my favorites. I remember when I was going through a hard time, my friends took me out to dinner and we spent all night together. It was very fun and helped me a lot.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think it's really great that you have that party planned!
usr : Yes, very fun play the music and around chair run.
sys : (Question) How are you feeling now, my friend?
usr : No, i don't have part planned.
usr : Yeah, i am feelin good my friend.
usr : Thank you very much.
| (Reflection of feelings) I am very happy to hear that! I can see in your messages that you feel lighter. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am break up with my girl friend she love other one because that guy better than me he's very rice and got lot of money. She's breaking up with me and she slapped me.". | sys : (Question) Hello there. What's going on today?
usr : My girl friend break up with me
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! Was this recently?
usr : sh
usr : she love other one
sys : (Question) I'm very sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about it right now?
usr : That person is very smart and very rice. So she affected with him
usr : Very painful and very sadness
sys : (Reflection of feelings) As you message me, I can feel your pain. It seems you aren't sure what to do with these feelings.
usr : I am very hearting today.
usr : She's broke my heart.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. I have been in a similar situation myself. Heartbreak is one of the hardest feelings to go through, but I believe in you and your strength.
sys : (Information) From what I've seen before, surrounding yourself with good friends helps quite a bit.
usr : Thank you very much. But i can't accept this pain.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand feeling that way. Something I do when I am feeling pain is taking deep breaths. Inhale, exhale. Could you do that for me?
usr : I am sorry. I can't chat any more please end of this survey.
usr : Ok. I can try.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear that. I believe in you, things will be better with time.
sys : (Question) Would you like to continue chatting?
usr : Yes
sys : (Others) Okay. Are you excited for the upcoming holidays?
usr : Yeah, i am excited upcoming chrisms and new year party.
sys : (Others) That sounds fun! Is the new year party with friends? Or is it a family affair?
usr : New year party is with my friend and family affairs.
usr : It's very excited and lot of fun and games.
sys : (Others) That is fun! Friends and family are the most wonderful cure for the blues. What types of games will you be playing?
usr : Musical chair and funny game
usr : Dancing game
sys : (Self-disclosure) Musical chairs is one of my favorites. I remember when I was going through a hard time, my friends took me out to dinner and we spent all night together. It was very fun and helped me a lot.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think it's really great that you have that party planned!
usr : Yes, very fun play the music and around chair run.
sys : (Question) How are you feeling now, my friend?
usr : No, i don't have part planned.
usr : Yeah, i am feelin good my friend.
usr : Thank you very much.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am very happy to hear that! I can see in your messages that you feel lighter.
| (Others) Thank you very much for talking with me. I've enjoyed this conversation! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am break up with my girl friend she love other one because that guy better than me he's very rice and got lot of money. She's breaking up with me and she slapped me.". | sys : (Question) Hello there. What's going on today?
usr : My girl friend break up with me
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! Was this recently?
usr : sh
usr : she love other one
sys : (Question) I'm very sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about it right now?
usr : That person is very smart and very rice. So she affected with him
usr : Very painful and very sadness
sys : (Reflection of feelings) As you message me, I can feel your pain. It seems you aren't sure what to do with these feelings.
usr : I am very hearting today.
usr : She's broke my heart.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. I have been in a similar situation myself. Heartbreak is one of the hardest feelings to go through, but I believe in you and your strength.
sys : (Information) From what I've seen before, surrounding yourself with good friends helps quite a bit.
usr : Thank you very much. But i can't accept this pain.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand feeling that way. Something I do when I am feeling pain is taking deep breaths. Inhale, exhale. Could you do that for me?
usr : I am sorry. I can't chat any more please end of this survey.
usr : Ok. I can try.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear that. I believe in you, things will be better with time.
sys : (Question) Would you like to continue chatting?
usr : Yes
sys : (Others) Okay. Are you excited for the upcoming holidays?
usr : Yeah, i am excited upcoming chrisms and new year party.
sys : (Others) That sounds fun! Is the new year party with friends? Or is it a family affair?
usr : New year party is with my friend and family affairs.
usr : It's very excited and lot of fun and games.
sys : (Others) That is fun! Friends and family are the most wonderful cure for the blues. What types of games will you be playing?
usr : Musical chair and funny game
usr : Dancing game
sys : (Self-disclosure) Musical chairs is one of my favorites. I remember when I was going through a hard time, my friends took me out to dinner and we spent all night together. It was very fun and helped me a lot.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think it's really great that you have that party planned!
usr : Yes, very fun play the music and around chair run.
sys : (Question) How are you feeling now, my friend?
usr : No, i don't have part planned.
usr : Yeah, i am feelin good my friend.
usr : Thank you very much.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am very happy to hear that! I can see in your messages that you feel lighter.
sys : (Others) Thank you very much for talking with me. I've enjoyed this conversation!
usr : Okey, thank you my friend.
usr : Marry chrisms
| (Question) Of course. Is there any other way I can help you? Merry Christmas to you as well, my friend! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am break up with my girl friend she love other one because that guy better than me he's very rice and got lot of money. She's breaking up with me and she slapped me.". | sys : (Question) Hello there. What's going on today?
usr : My girl friend break up with me
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! Was this recently?
usr : sh
usr : she love other one
sys : (Question) I'm very sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about it right now?
usr : That person is very smart and very rice. So she affected with him
usr : Very painful and very sadness
sys : (Reflection of feelings) As you message me, I can feel your pain. It seems you aren't sure what to do with these feelings.
usr : I am very hearting today.
usr : She's broke my heart.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. I have been in a similar situation myself. Heartbreak is one of the hardest feelings to go through, but I believe in you and your strength.
sys : (Information) From what I've seen before, surrounding yourself with good friends helps quite a bit.
usr : Thank you very much. But i can't accept this pain.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand feeling that way. Something I do when I am feeling pain is taking deep breaths. Inhale, exhale. Could you do that for me?
usr : I am sorry. I can't chat any more please end of this survey.
usr : Ok. I can try.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear that. I believe in you, things will be better with time.
sys : (Question) Would you like to continue chatting?
usr : Yes
sys : (Others) Okay. Are you excited for the upcoming holidays?
usr : Yeah, i am excited upcoming chrisms and new year party.
sys : (Others) That sounds fun! Is the new year party with friends? Or is it a family affair?
usr : New year party is with my friend and family affairs.
usr : It's very excited and lot of fun and games.
sys : (Others) That is fun! Friends and family are the most wonderful cure for the blues. What types of games will you be playing?
usr : Musical chair and funny game
usr : Dancing game
sys : (Self-disclosure) Musical chairs is one of my favorites. I remember when I was going through a hard time, my friends took me out to dinner and we spent all night together. It was very fun and helped me a lot.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think it's really great that you have that party planned!
usr : Yes, very fun play the music and around chair run.
sys : (Question) How are you feeling now, my friend?
usr : No, i don't have part planned.
usr : Yeah, i am feelin good my friend.
usr : Thank you very much.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am very happy to hear that! I can see in your messages that you feel lighter.
sys : (Others) Thank you very much for talking with me. I've enjoyed this conversation!
usr : Okey, thank you my friend.
usr : Marry chrisms
sys : (Question) Of course. Is there any other way I can help you? Merry Christmas to you as well, my friend!
usr : And advance happy new year.
| (Others) And to you! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am break up with my girl friend she love other one because that guy better than me he's very rice and got lot of money. She's breaking up with me and she slapped me.". | sys : (Question) Hello there. What's going on today?
usr : My girl friend break up with me
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! Was this recently?
usr : sh
usr : she love other one
sys : (Question) I'm very sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about it right now?
usr : That person is very smart and very rice. So she affected with him
usr : Very painful and very sadness
sys : (Reflection of feelings) As you message me, I can feel your pain. It seems you aren't sure what to do with these feelings.
usr : I am very hearting today.
usr : She's broke my heart.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. I have been in a similar situation myself. Heartbreak is one of the hardest feelings to go through, but I believe in you and your strength.
sys : (Information) From what I've seen before, surrounding yourself with good friends helps quite a bit.
usr : Thank you very much. But i can't accept this pain.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand feeling that way. Something I do when I am feeling pain is taking deep breaths. Inhale, exhale. Could you do that for me?
usr : I am sorry. I can't chat any more please end of this survey.
usr : Ok. I can try.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear that. I believe in you, things will be better with time.
sys : (Question) Would you like to continue chatting?
usr : Yes
sys : (Others) Okay. Are you excited for the upcoming holidays?
usr : Yeah, i am excited upcoming chrisms and new year party.
sys : (Others) That sounds fun! Is the new year party with friends? Or is it a family affair?
usr : New year party is with my friend and family affairs.
usr : It's very excited and lot of fun and games.
sys : (Others) That is fun! Friends and family are the most wonderful cure for the blues. What types of games will you be playing?
usr : Musical chair and funny game
usr : Dancing game
sys : (Self-disclosure) Musical chairs is one of my favorites. I remember when I was going through a hard time, my friends took me out to dinner and we spent all night together. It was very fun and helped me a lot.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think it's really great that you have that party planned!
usr : Yes, very fun play the music and around chair run.
sys : (Question) How are you feeling now, my friend?
usr : No, i don't have part planned.
usr : Yeah, i am feelin good my friend.
usr : Thank you very much.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am very happy to hear that! I can see in your messages that you feel lighter.
sys : (Others) Thank you very much for talking with me. I've enjoyed this conversation!
usr : Okey, thank you my friend.
usr : Marry chrisms
sys : (Question) Of course. Is there any other way I can help you? Merry Christmas to you as well, my friend!
usr : And advance happy new year.
sys : (Others) And to you!
usr : Thank you.
| (Question) Is there any other way I can help you today? I am here for you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am break up with my girl friend she love other one because that guy better than me he's very rice and got lot of money. She's breaking up with me and she slapped me.". | sys : (Question) Hello there. What's going on today?
usr : My girl friend break up with me
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! Was this recently?
usr : sh
usr : she love other one
sys : (Question) I'm very sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about it right now?
usr : That person is very smart and very rice. So she affected with him
usr : Very painful and very sadness
sys : (Reflection of feelings) As you message me, I can feel your pain. It seems you aren't sure what to do with these feelings.
usr : I am very hearting today.
usr : She's broke my heart.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. I have been in a similar situation myself. Heartbreak is one of the hardest feelings to go through, but I believe in you and your strength.
sys : (Information) From what I've seen before, surrounding yourself with good friends helps quite a bit.
usr : Thank you very much. But i can't accept this pain.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand feeling that way. Something I do when I am feeling pain is taking deep breaths. Inhale, exhale. Could you do that for me?
usr : I am sorry. I can't chat any more please end of this survey.
usr : Ok. I can try.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear that. I believe in you, things will be better with time.
sys : (Question) Would you like to continue chatting?
usr : Yes
sys : (Others) Okay. Are you excited for the upcoming holidays?
usr : Yeah, i am excited upcoming chrisms and new year party.
sys : (Others) That sounds fun! Is the new year party with friends? Or is it a family affair?
usr : New year party is with my friend and family affairs.
usr : It's very excited and lot of fun and games.
sys : (Others) That is fun! Friends and family are the most wonderful cure for the blues. What types of games will you be playing?
usr : Musical chair and funny game
usr : Dancing game
sys : (Self-disclosure) Musical chairs is one of my favorites. I remember when I was going through a hard time, my friends took me out to dinner and we spent all night together. It was very fun and helped me a lot.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think it's really great that you have that party planned!
usr : Yes, very fun play the music and around chair run.
sys : (Question) How are you feeling now, my friend?
usr : No, i don't have part planned.
usr : Yeah, i am feelin good my friend.
usr : Thank you very much.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am very happy to hear that! I can see in your messages that you feel lighter.
sys : (Others) Thank you very much for talking with me. I've enjoyed this conversation!
usr : Okey, thank you my friend.
usr : Marry chrisms
sys : (Question) Of course. Is there any other way I can help you? Merry Christmas to you as well, my friend!
usr : And advance happy new year.
sys : (Others) And to you!
usr : Thank you.
sys : (Question) Is there any other way I can help you today? I am here for you.
usr : No friend i already have great today. I am feeling great right now.
| (Others) I am so happy to hear that. I hope you have a great day every day! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am break up with my girl friend she love other one because that guy better than me he's very rice and got lot of money. She's breaking up with me and she slapped me.". | sys : (Question) Hello there. What's going on today?
usr : My girl friend break up with me
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! Was this recently?
usr : sh
usr : she love other one
sys : (Question) I'm very sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about it right now?
usr : That person is very smart and very rice. So she affected with him
usr : Very painful and very sadness
sys : (Reflection of feelings) As you message me, I can feel your pain. It seems you aren't sure what to do with these feelings.
usr : I am very hearting today.
usr : She's broke my heart.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. I have been in a similar situation myself. Heartbreak is one of the hardest feelings to go through, but I believe in you and your strength.
sys : (Information) From what I've seen before, surrounding yourself with good friends helps quite a bit.
usr : Thank you very much. But i can't accept this pain.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand feeling that way. Something I do when I am feeling pain is taking deep breaths. Inhale, exhale. Could you do that for me?
usr : I am sorry. I can't chat any more please end of this survey.
usr : Ok. I can try.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear that. I believe in you, things will be better with time.
sys : (Question) Would you like to continue chatting?
usr : Yes
sys : (Others) Okay. Are you excited for the upcoming holidays?
usr : Yeah, i am excited upcoming chrisms and new year party.
sys : (Others) That sounds fun! Is the new year party with friends? Or is it a family affair?
usr : New year party is with my friend and family affairs.
usr : It's very excited and lot of fun and games.
sys : (Others) That is fun! Friends and family are the most wonderful cure for the blues. What types of games will you be playing?
usr : Musical chair and funny game
usr : Dancing game
sys : (Self-disclosure) Musical chairs is one of my favorites. I remember when I was going through a hard time, my friends took me out to dinner and we spent all night together. It was very fun and helped me a lot.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think it's really great that you have that party planned!
usr : Yes, very fun play the music and around chair run.
sys : (Question) How are you feeling now, my friend?
usr : No, i don't have part planned.
usr : Yeah, i am feelin good my friend.
usr : Thank you very much.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am very happy to hear that! I can see in your messages that you feel lighter.
sys : (Others) Thank you very much for talking with me. I've enjoyed this conversation!
usr : Okey, thank you my friend.
usr : Marry chrisms
sys : (Question) Of course. Is there any other way I can help you? Merry Christmas to you as well, my friend!
usr : And advance happy new year.
sys : (Others) And to you!
usr : Thank you.
sys : (Question) Is there any other way I can help you today? I am here for you.
usr : No friend i already have great today. I am feeling great right now.
sys : (Others) I am so happy to hear that. I hope you have a great day every day!
usr : Thank you.
| (Others) Would you like me to end the chat now, my friend? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am break up with my girl friend she love other one because that guy better than me he's very rice and got lot of money. She's breaking up with me and she slapped me.". | sys : (Question) Hello there. What's going on today?
usr : My girl friend break up with me
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! Was this recently?
usr : sh
usr : she love other one
sys : (Question) I'm very sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about it right now?
usr : That person is very smart and very rice. So she affected with him
usr : Very painful and very sadness
sys : (Reflection of feelings) As you message me, I can feel your pain. It seems you aren't sure what to do with these feelings.
usr : I am very hearting today.
usr : She's broke my heart.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. I have been in a similar situation myself. Heartbreak is one of the hardest feelings to go through, but I believe in you and your strength.
sys : (Information) From what I've seen before, surrounding yourself with good friends helps quite a bit.
usr : Thank you very much. But i can't accept this pain.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand feeling that way. Something I do when I am feeling pain is taking deep breaths. Inhale, exhale. Could you do that for me?
usr : I am sorry. I can't chat any more please end of this survey.
usr : Ok. I can try.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear that. I believe in you, things will be better with time.
sys : (Question) Would you like to continue chatting?
usr : Yes
sys : (Others) Okay. Are you excited for the upcoming holidays?
usr : Yeah, i am excited upcoming chrisms and new year party.
sys : (Others) That sounds fun! Is the new year party with friends? Or is it a family affair?
usr : New year party is with my friend and family affairs.
usr : It's very excited and lot of fun and games.
sys : (Others) That is fun! Friends and family are the most wonderful cure for the blues. What types of games will you be playing?
usr : Musical chair and funny game
usr : Dancing game
sys : (Self-disclosure) Musical chairs is one of my favorites. I remember when I was going through a hard time, my friends took me out to dinner and we spent all night together. It was very fun and helped me a lot.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think it's really great that you have that party planned!
usr : Yes, very fun play the music and around chair run.
sys : (Question) How are you feeling now, my friend?
usr : No, i don't have part planned.
usr : Yeah, i am feelin good my friend.
usr : Thank you very much.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am very happy to hear that! I can see in your messages that you feel lighter.
sys : (Others) Thank you very much for talking with me. I've enjoyed this conversation!
usr : Okey, thank you my friend.
usr : Marry chrisms
sys : (Question) Of course. Is there any other way I can help you? Merry Christmas to you as well, my friend!
usr : And advance happy new year.
sys : (Others) And to you!
usr : Thank you.
sys : (Question) Is there any other way I can help you today? I am here for you.
usr : No friend i already have great today. I am feeling great right now.
sys : (Others) I am so happy to hear that. I hope you have a great day every day!
usr : Thank you.
sys : (Others) Would you like me to end the chat now, my friend?
usr : Oh yeah,
| (Others) Goodbye! I am glad I was able to speak with you and help you today. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"They try to hide many important matters from me and they avoid me frequently.". | usr : Hello
usr : Please reply to me
| (Question) hi how are you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"They try to hide many important matters from me and they avoid me frequently.". | usr : Hello
usr : Please reply to me
sys : (Question) hi how are you
usr : I am not good .
usr : What about you?
| (Question) i am so sorry to hear that. what seems to be worrying you today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"They try to hide many important matters from me and they avoid me frequently.". | usr : Hello
usr : Please reply to me
sys : (Question) hi how are you
usr : I am not good .
usr : What about you?
sys : (Question) i am so sorry to hear that. what seems to be worrying you today?
| (Self-disclosure) i am doing ok thanks for asking |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"They try to hide many important matters from me and they avoid me frequently.". | usr : Hello
usr : Please reply to me
sys : (Question) hi how are you
usr : I am not good .
usr : What about you?
sys : (Question) i am so sorry to hear that. what seems to be worrying you today?
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am doing ok thanks for asking
usr : I trust my friends blindly. But they not.
usr : It creates depression on my mind
usr : I cannot concentrate on any other works
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems to me that you feel you can not trust a friend, correct me if im wrong? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"They try to hide many important matters from me and they avoid me frequently.". | usr : Hello
usr : Please reply to me
sys : (Question) hi how are you
usr : I am not good .
usr : What about you?
sys : (Question) i am so sorry to hear that. what seems to be worrying you today?
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am doing ok thanks for asking
usr : I trust my friends blindly. But they not.
usr : It creates depression on my mind
usr : I cannot concentrate on any other works
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems to me that you feel you can not trust a friend, correct me if im wrong?
usr : I trust my friends very much. They won't show the same trustfulness on me.
| (Question) Oh ok, have you asked them why they feel they can not trust you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"They try to hide many important matters from me and they avoid me frequently.". | usr : Hello
usr : Please reply to me
sys : (Question) hi how are you
usr : I am not good .
usr : What about you?
sys : (Question) i am so sorry to hear that. what seems to be worrying you today?
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am doing ok thanks for asking
usr : I trust my friends blindly. But they not.
usr : It creates depression on my mind
usr : I cannot concentrate on any other works
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems to me that you feel you can not trust a friend, correct me if im wrong?
usr : I trust my friends very much. They won't show the same trustfulness on me.
sys : (Question) Oh ok, have you asked them why they feel they can not trust you?
| (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could have a conversation about it and see what you could do to gain their trust. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"They try to hide many important matters from me and they avoid me frequently.". | usr : Hello
usr : Please reply to me
sys : (Question) hi how are you
usr : I am not good .
usr : What about you?
sys : (Question) i am so sorry to hear that. what seems to be worrying you today?
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am doing ok thanks for asking
usr : I trust my friends blindly. But they not.
usr : It creates depression on my mind
usr : I cannot concentrate on any other works
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems to me that you feel you can not trust a friend, correct me if im wrong?
usr : I trust my friends very much. They won't show the same trustfulness on me.
sys : (Question) Oh ok, have you asked them why they feel they can not trust you?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could have a conversation about it and see what you could do to gain their trust.
| (Self-disclosure) I have had a friend not to trust me and i know how hurtful that can feel, maybe there has just been some sort of misunderstanding. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"They try to hide many important matters from me and they avoid me frequently.". | usr : Hello
usr : Please reply to me
sys : (Question) hi how are you
usr : I am not good .
usr : What about you?
sys : (Question) i am so sorry to hear that. what seems to be worrying you today?
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am doing ok thanks for asking
usr : I trust my friends blindly. But they not.
usr : It creates depression on my mind
usr : I cannot concentrate on any other works
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems to me that you feel you can not trust a friend, correct me if im wrong?
usr : I trust my friends very much. They won't show the same trustfulness on me.
sys : (Question) Oh ok, have you asked them why they feel they can not trust you?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could have a conversation about it and see what you could do to gain their trust.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had a friend not to trust me and i know how hurtful that can feel, maybe there has just been some sort of misunderstanding.
usr : They think I am not suitable for some places. They want to go that places without my knowledge is not a problem. But they hide the total matter
usr : It may be misunderstanding. I tried to talk with them.
usr : They won't respond to me
| (Providing Suggestions) Could it be that it is not that they do not trust you but they feel you would not feel comfortable going to such places? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"They try to hide many important matters from me and they avoid me frequently.". | usr : Hello
usr : Please reply to me
sys : (Question) hi how are you
usr : I am not good .
usr : What about you?
sys : (Question) i am so sorry to hear that. what seems to be worrying you today?
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am doing ok thanks for asking
usr : I trust my friends blindly. But they not.
usr : It creates depression on my mind
usr : I cannot concentrate on any other works
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems to me that you feel you can not trust a friend, correct me if im wrong?
usr : I trust my friends very much. They won't show the same trustfulness on me.
sys : (Question) Oh ok, have you asked them why they feel they can not trust you?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could have a conversation about it and see what you could do to gain their trust.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had a friend not to trust me and i know how hurtful that can feel, maybe there has just been some sort of misunderstanding.
usr : They think I am not suitable for some places. They want to go that places without my knowledge is not a problem. But they hide the total matter
usr : It may be misunderstanding. I tried to talk with them.
usr : They won't respond to me
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could it be that it is not that they do not trust you but they feel you would not feel comfortable going to such places?
usr : If they feel uncomfortable , they could speak directly but they won't did that also
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry you feel ignored sometimes people choose to ignore issues rather than confront them and try to come to some sort of solution, i would try not to take it to personnel as you seem like a very friendly person. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"They try to hide many important matters from me and they avoid me frequently.". | usr : Hello
usr : Please reply to me
sys : (Question) hi how are you
usr : I am not good .
usr : What about you?
sys : (Question) i am so sorry to hear that. what seems to be worrying you today?
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am doing ok thanks for asking
usr : I trust my friends blindly. But they not.
usr : It creates depression on my mind
usr : I cannot concentrate on any other works
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems to me that you feel you can not trust a friend, correct me if im wrong?
usr : I trust my friends very much. They won't show the same trustfulness on me.
sys : (Question) Oh ok, have you asked them why they feel they can not trust you?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could have a conversation about it and see what you could do to gain their trust.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had a friend not to trust me and i know how hurtful that can feel, maybe there has just been some sort of misunderstanding.
usr : They think I am not suitable for some places. They want to go that places without my knowledge is not a problem. But they hide the total matter
usr : It may be misunderstanding. I tried to talk with them.
usr : They won't respond to me
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could it be that it is not that they do not trust you but they feel you would not feel comfortable going to such places?
usr : If they feel uncomfortable , they could speak directly but they won't did that also
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry you feel ignored sometimes people choose to ignore issues rather than confront them and try to come to some sort of solution, i would try not to take it to personnel as you seem like a very friendly person.
| (Providing Suggestions) You could try to send a message just stating that your feelings are hurt and it would be nice if they would at least reply back with a explanation on why they have made you feel this way. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"They try to hide many important matters from me and they avoid me frequently.". | usr : Hello
usr : Please reply to me
sys : (Question) hi how are you
usr : I am not good .
usr : What about you?
sys : (Question) i am so sorry to hear that. what seems to be worrying you today?
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am doing ok thanks for asking
usr : I trust my friends blindly. But they not.
usr : It creates depression on my mind
usr : I cannot concentrate on any other works
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems to me that you feel you can not trust a friend, correct me if im wrong?
usr : I trust my friends very much. They won't show the same trustfulness on me.
sys : (Question) Oh ok, have you asked them why they feel they can not trust you?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could have a conversation about it and see what you could do to gain their trust.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had a friend not to trust me and i know how hurtful that can feel, maybe there has just been some sort of misunderstanding.
usr : They think I am not suitable for some places. They want to go that places without my knowledge is not a problem. But they hide the total matter
usr : It may be misunderstanding. I tried to talk with them.
usr : They won't respond to me
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could it be that it is not that they do not trust you but they feel you would not feel comfortable going to such places?
usr : If they feel uncomfortable , they could speak directly but they won't did that also
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry you feel ignored sometimes people choose to ignore issues rather than confront them and try to come to some sort of solution, i would try not to take it to personnel as you seem like a very friendly person.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You could try to send a message just stating that your feelings are hurt and it would be nice if they would at least reply back with a explanation on why they have made you feel this way.
usr : Can you any idea to get out from this?
| (Question) Are you asking how to end the chat? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"They try to hide many important matters from me and they avoid me frequently.". | usr : Hello
usr : Please reply to me
sys : (Question) hi how are you
usr : I am not good .
usr : What about you?
sys : (Question) i am so sorry to hear that. what seems to be worrying you today?
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am doing ok thanks for asking
usr : I trust my friends blindly. But they not.
usr : It creates depression on my mind
usr : I cannot concentrate on any other works
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems to me that you feel you can not trust a friend, correct me if im wrong?
usr : I trust my friends very much. They won't show the same trustfulness on me.
sys : (Question) Oh ok, have you asked them why they feel they can not trust you?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could have a conversation about it and see what you could do to gain their trust.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had a friend not to trust me and i know how hurtful that can feel, maybe there has just been some sort of misunderstanding.
usr : They think I am not suitable for some places. They want to go that places without my knowledge is not a problem. But they hide the total matter
usr : It may be misunderstanding. I tried to talk with them.
usr : They won't respond to me
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could it be that it is not that they do not trust you but they feel you would not feel comfortable going to such places?
usr : If they feel uncomfortable , they could speak directly but they won't did that also
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry you feel ignored sometimes people choose to ignore issues rather than confront them and try to come to some sort of solution, i would try not to take it to personnel as you seem like a very friendly person.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You could try to send a message just stating that your feelings are hurt and it would be nice if they would at least reply back with a explanation on why they have made you feel this way.
usr : Can you any idea to get out from this?
sys : (Question) Are you asking how to end the chat?
usr : no
usr : how to get out from my depression?
| (Providing Suggestions) I think you need to spend some time doing something you enjoy to try to take your mind off of it, maybe go to a movie or for a nice walk. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"They try to hide many important matters from me and they avoid me frequently.". | usr : Hello
usr : Please reply to me
sys : (Question) hi how are you
usr : I am not good .
usr : What about you?
sys : (Question) i am so sorry to hear that. what seems to be worrying you today?
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am doing ok thanks for asking
usr : I trust my friends blindly. But they not.
usr : It creates depression on my mind
usr : I cannot concentrate on any other works
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems to me that you feel you can not trust a friend, correct me if im wrong?
usr : I trust my friends very much. They won't show the same trustfulness on me.
sys : (Question) Oh ok, have you asked them why they feel they can not trust you?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could have a conversation about it and see what you could do to gain their trust.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had a friend not to trust me and i know how hurtful that can feel, maybe there has just been some sort of misunderstanding.
usr : They think I am not suitable for some places. They want to go that places without my knowledge is not a problem. But they hide the total matter
usr : It may be misunderstanding. I tried to talk with them.
usr : They won't respond to me
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could it be that it is not that they do not trust you but they feel you would not feel comfortable going to such places?
usr : If they feel uncomfortable , they could speak directly but they won't did that also
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry you feel ignored sometimes people choose to ignore issues rather than confront them and try to come to some sort of solution, i would try not to take it to personnel as you seem like a very friendly person.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You could try to send a message just stating that your feelings are hurt and it would be nice if they would at least reply back with a explanation on why they have made you feel this way.
usr : Can you any idea to get out from this?
sys : (Question) Are you asking how to end the chat?
usr : no
usr : how to get out from my depression?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think you need to spend some time doing something you enjoy to try to take your mind off of it, maybe go to a movie or for a nice walk.
| (Providing Suggestions) Or if you have a family member you are close to you could speak to them about it and see what the perspective of the situation is. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"They try to hide many important matters from me and they avoid me frequently.". | usr : Hello
usr : Please reply to me
sys : (Question) hi how are you
usr : I am not good .
usr : What about you?
sys : (Question) i am so sorry to hear that. what seems to be worrying you today?
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am doing ok thanks for asking
usr : I trust my friends blindly. But they not.
usr : It creates depression on my mind
usr : I cannot concentrate on any other works
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems to me that you feel you can not trust a friend, correct me if im wrong?
usr : I trust my friends very much. They won't show the same trustfulness on me.
sys : (Question) Oh ok, have you asked them why they feel they can not trust you?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could have a conversation about it and see what you could do to gain their trust.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had a friend not to trust me and i know how hurtful that can feel, maybe there has just been some sort of misunderstanding.
usr : They think I am not suitable for some places. They want to go that places without my knowledge is not a problem. But they hide the total matter
usr : It may be misunderstanding. I tried to talk with them.
usr : They won't respond to me
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could it be that it is not that they do not trust you but they feel you would not feel comfortable going to such places?
usr : If they feel uncomfortable , they could speak directly but they won't did that also
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry you feel ignored sometimes people choose to ignore issues rather than confront them and try to come to some sort of solution, i would try not to take it to personnel as you seem like a very friendly person.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You could try to send a message just stating that your feelings are hurt and it would be nice if they would at least reply back with a explanation on why they have made you feel this way.
usr : Can you any idea to get out from this?
sys : (Question) Are you asking how to end the chat?
usr : no
usr : how to get out from my depression?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think you need to spend some time doing something you enjoy to try to take your mind off of it, maybe go to a movie or for a nice walk.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Or if you have a family member you are close to you could speak to them about it and see what the perspective of the situation is.
usr : Thank you my dear.
usr : I got a little bit idea
usr : I will try to explore it
usr : is there any general way to get out from stress?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) No problem you really seem like a nice person so i think the problem more so is with them and not you so try not to let it ruin your holiday season! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"They try to hide many important matters from me and they avoid me frequently.". | usr : Hello
usr : Please reply to me
sys : (Question) hi how are you
usr : I am not good .
usr : What about you?
sys : (Question) i am so sorry to hear that. what seems to be worrying you today?
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am doing ok thanks for asking
usr : I trust my friends blindly. But they not.
usr : It creates depression on my mind
usr : I cannot concentrate on any other works
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems to me that you feel you can not trust a friend, correct me if im wrong?
usr : I trust my friends very much. They won't show the same trustfulness on me.
sys : (Question) Oh ok, have you asked them why they feel they can not trust you?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could have a conversation about it and see what you could do to gain their trust.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had a friend not to trust me and i know how hurtful that can feel, maybe there has just been some sort of misunderstanding.
usr : They think I am not suitable for some places. They want to go that places without my knowledge is not a problem. But they hide the total matter
usr : It may be misunderstanding. I tried to talk with them.
usr : They won't respond to me
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could it be that it is not that they do not trust you but they feel you would not feel comfortable going to such places?
usr : If they feel uncomfortable , they could speak directly but they won't did that also
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry you feel ignored sometimes people choose to ignore issues rather than confront them and try to come to some sort of solution, i would try not to take it to personnel as you seem like a very friendly person.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You could try to send a message just stating that your feelings are hurt and it would be nice if they would at least reply back with a explanation on why they have made you feel this way.
usr : Can you any idea to get out from this?
sys : (Question) Are you asking how to end the chat?
usr : no
usr : how to get out from my depression?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think you need to spend some time doing something you enjoy to try to take your mind off of it, maybe go to a movie or for a nice walk.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Or if you have a family member you are close to you could speak to them about it and see what the perspective of the situation is.
usr : Thank you my dear.
usr : I got a little bit idea
usr : I will try to explore it
usr : is there any general way to get out from stress?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) No problem you really seem like a nice person so i think the problem more so is with them and not you so try not to let it ruin your holiday season!
| (Self-disclosure) When i am stressed or depressed I like to workout and listen to music. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"They try to hide many important matters from me and they avoid me frequently.". | usr : Hello
usr : Please reply to me
sys : (Question) hi how are you
usr : I am not good .
usr : What about you?
sys : (Question) i am so sorry to hear that. what seems to be worrying you today?
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am doing ok thanks for asking
usr : I trust my friends blindly. But they not.
usr : It creates depression on my mind
usr : I cannot concentrate on any other works
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems to me that you feel you can not trust a friend, correct me if im wrong?
usr : I trust my friends very much. They won't show the same trustfulness on me.
sys : (Question) Oh ok, have you asked them why they feel they can not trust you?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could have a conversation about it and see what you could do to gain their trust.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had a friend not to trust me and i know how hurtful that can feel, maybe there has just been some sort of misunderstanding.
usr : They think I am not suitable for some places. They want to go that places without my knowledge is not a problem. But they hide the total matter
usr : It may be misunderstanding. I tried to talk with them.
usr : They won't respond to me
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could it be that it is not that they do not trust you but they feel you would not feel comfortable going to such places?
usr : If they feel uncomfortable , they could speak directly but they won't did that also
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry you feel ignored sometimes people choose to ignore issues rather than confront them and try to come to some sort of solution, i would try not to take it to personnel as you seem like a very friendly person.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You could try to send a message just stating that your feelings are hurt and it would be nice if they would at least reply back with a explanation on why they have made you feel this way.
usr : Can you any idea to get out from this?
sys : (Question) Are you asking how to end the chat?
usr : no
usr : how to get out from my depression?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think you need to spend some time doing something you enjoy to try to take your mind off of it, maybe go to a movie or for a nice walk.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Or if you have a family member you are close to you could speak to them about it and see what the perspective of the situation is.
usr : Thank you my dear.
usr : I got a little bit idea
usr : I will try to explore it
usr : is there any general way to get out from stress?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) No problem you really seem like a nice person so i think the problem more so is with them and not you so try not to let it ruin your holiday season!
sys : (Self-disclosure) When i am stressed or depressed I like to workout and listen to music.
usr : I like to read book. Shall I try this?
| (Providing Suggestions) Yes getting lost in a good book is a great way to get your mind off of it! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"They try to hide many important matters from me and they avoid me frequently.". | usr : Hello
usr : Please reply to me
sys : (Question) hi how are you
usr : I am not good .
usr : What about you?
sys : (Question) i am so sorry to hear that. what seems to be worrying you today?
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am doing ok thanks for asking
usr : I trust my friends blindly. But they not.
usr : It creates depression on my mind
usr : I cannot concentrate on any other works
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems to me that you feel you can not trust a friend, correct me if im wrong?
usr : I trust my friends very much. They won't show the same trustfulness on me.
sys : (Question) Oh ok, have you asked them why they feel they can not trust you?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could have a conversation about it and see what you could do to gain their trust.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had a friend not to trust me and i know how hurtful that can feel, maybe there has just been some sort of misunderstanding.
usr : They think I am not suitable for some places. They want to go that places without my knowledge is not a problem. But they hide the total matter
usr : It may be misunderstanding. I tried to talk with them.
usr : They won't respond to me
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could it be that it is not that they do not trust you but they feel you would not feel comfortable going to such places?
usr : If they feel uncomfortable , they could speak directly but they won't did that also
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry you feel ignored sometimes people choose to ignore issues rather than confront them and try to come to some sort of solution, i would try not to take it to personnel as you seem like a very friendly person.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You could try to send a message just stating that your feelings are hurt and it would be nice if they would at least reply back with a explanation on why they have made you feel this way.
usr : Can you any idea to get out from this?
sys : (Question) Are you asking how to end the chat?
usr : no
usr : how to get out from my depression?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think you need to spend some time doing something you enjoy to try to take your mind off of it, maybe go to a movie or for a nice walk.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Or if you have a family member you are close to you could speak to them about it and see what the perspective of the situation is.
usr : Thank you my dear.
usr : I got a little bit idea
usr : I will try to explore it
usr : is there any general way to get out from stress?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) No problem you really seem like a nice person so i think the problem more so is with them and not you so try not to let it ruin your holiday season!
sys : (Self-disclosure) When i am stressed or depressed I like to workout and listen to music.
usr : I like to read book. Shall I try this?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes getting lost in a good book is a great way to get your mind off of it!
usr : Thank you friend. Shall we end the chat?
| (Information) If you feel i have helped you we can, if not i am glad to stay and continue trying to help. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"They try to hide many important matters from me and they avoid me frequently.". | usr : Hello
usr : Please reply to me
sys : (Question) hi how are you
usr : I am not good .
usr : What about you?
sys : (Question) i am so sorry to hear that. what seems to be worrying you today?
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am doing ok thanks for asking
usr : I trust my friends blindly. But they not.
usr : It creates depression on my mind
usr : I cannot concentrate on any other works
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems to me that you feel you can not trust a friend, correct me if im wrong?
usr : I trust my friends very much. They won't show the same trustfulness on me.
sys : (Question) Oh ok, have you asked them why they feel they can not trust you?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could have a conversation about it and see what you could do to gain their trust.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had a friend not to trust me and i know how hurtful that can feel, maybe there has just been some sort of misunderstanding.
usr : They think I am not suitable for some places. They want to go that places without my knowledge is not a problem. But they hide the total matter
usr : It may be misunderstanding. I tried to talk with them.
usr : They won't respond to me
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could it be that it is not that they do not trust you but they feel you would not feel comfortable going to such places?
usr : If they feel uncomfortable , they could speak directly but they won't did that also
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry you feel ignored sometimes people choose to ignore issues rather than confront them and try to come to some sort of solution, i would try not to take it to personnel as you seem like a very friendly person.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You could try to send a message just stating that your feelings are hurt and it would be nice if they would at least reply back with a explanation on why they have made you feel this way.
usr : Can you any idea to get out from this?
sys : (Question) Are you asking how to end the chat?
usr : no
usr : how to get out from my depression?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think you need to spend some time doing something you enjoy to try to take your mind off of it, maybe go to a movie or for a nice walk.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Or if you have a family member you are close to you could speak to them about it and see what the perspective of the situation is.
usr : Thank you my dear.
usr : I got a little bit idea
usr : I will try to explore it
usr : is there any general way to get out from stress?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) No problem you really seem like a nice person so i think the problem more so is with them and not you so try not to let it ruin your holiday season!
sys : (Self-disclosure) When i am stressed or depressed I like to workout and listen to music.
usr : I like to read book. Shall I try this?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes getting lost in a good book is a great way to get your mind off of it!
usr : Thank you friend. Shall we end the chat?
sys : (Information) If you feel i have helped you we can, if not i am glad to stay and continue trying to help.
usr : I feel very happy about your help
| (Self-disclosure) i am glad i could be of some help i hope you feel better soon! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"They try to hide many important matters from me and they avoid me frequently.". | usr : Hello
usr : Please reply to me
sys : (Question) hi how are you
usr : I am not good .
usr : What about you?
sys : (Question) i am so sorry to hear that. what seems to be worrying you today?
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am doing ok thanks for asking
usr : I trust my friends blindly. But they not.
usr : It creates depression on my mind
usr : I cannot concentrate on any other works
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems to me that you feel you can not trust a friend, correct me if im wrong?
usr : I trust my friends very much. They won't show the same trustfulness on me.
sys : (Question) Oh ok, have you asked them why they feel they can not trust you?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could have a conversation about it and see what you could do to gain their trust.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had a friend not to trust me and i know how hurtful that can feel, maybe there has just been some sort of misunderstanding.
usr : They think I am not suitable for some places. They want to go that places without my knowledge is not a problem. But they hide the total matter
usr : It may be misunderstanding. I tried to talk with them.
usr : They won't respond to me
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could it be that it is not that they do not trust you but they feel you would not feel comfortable going to such places?
usr : If they feel uncomfortable , they could speak directly but they won't did that also
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry you feel ignored sometimes people choose to ignore issues rather than confront them and try to come to some sort of solution, i would try not to take it to personnel as you seem like a very friendly person.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You could try to send a message just stating that your feelings are hurt and it would be nice if they would at least reply back with a explanation on why they have made you feel this way.
usr : Can you any idea to get out from this?
sys : (Question) Are you asking how to end the chat?
usr : no
usr : how to get out from my depression?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think you need to spend some time doing something you enjoy to try to take your mind off of it, maybe go to a movie or for a nice walk.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Or if you have a family member you are close to you could speak to them about it and see what the perspective of the situation is.
usr : Thank you my dear.
usr : I got a little bit idea
usr : I will try to explore it
usr : is there any general way to get out from stress?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) No problem you really seem like a nice person so i think the problem more so is with them and not you so try not to let it ruin your holiday season!
sys : (Self-disclosure) When i am stressed or depressed I like to workout and listen to music.
usr : I like to read book. Shall I try this?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes getting lost in a good book is a great way to get your mind off of it!
usr : Thank you friend. Shall we end the chat?
sys : (Information) If you feel i have helped you we can, if not i am glad to stay and continue trying to help.
usr : I feel very happy about your help
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am glad i could be of some help i hope you feel better soon!
usr : Ok buddy. Thank you and bye.
| (Others) you are very weclome, goodbye |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"My eleven year old daughter is being difficult right now. Won't pick up anything, spends all day on the computer or on her phone or tablet, isn't focusing on school, won't eat anything other than mac and cheese and chocolate.". | (Question) Hello there, how are you today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"My eleven year old daughter is being difficult right now. Won't pick up anything, spends all day on the computer or on her phone or tablet, isn't focusing on school, won't eat anything other than mac and cheese and chocolate.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you today?
usr : Hi. Quite frustrated with my tween daughter!
| (Question) Ah that can be a very difficult age. Is it anything specific or just general? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"My eleven year old daughter is being difficult right now. Won't pick up anything, spends all day on the computer or on her phone or tablet, isn't focusing on school, won't eat anything other than mac and cheese and chocolate.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you today?
usr : Hi. Quite frustrated with my tween daughter!
sys : (Question) Ah that can be a very difficult age. Is it anything specific or just general?
usr : She doesn't listen to anything I say. She loves to play on the computer and tablet and her phone but when it comes to something simple, like turning off the light when she's done in the bathroom or throwing away a candy wrapper, she won't do it.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well ... to be honest it doesn't sound very terrible. Most children that age do things like that ;) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"My eleven year old daughter is being difficult right now. Won't pick up anything, spends all day on the computer or on her phone or tablet, isn't focusing on school, won't eat anything other than mac and cheese and chocolate.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you today?
usr : Hi. Quite frustrated with my tween daughter!
sys : (Question) Ah that can be a very difficult age. Is it anything specific or just general?
usr : She doesn't listen to anything I say. She loves to play on the computer and tablet and her phone but when it comes to something simple, like turning off the light when she's done in the bathroom or throwing away a candy wrapper, she won't do it.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well ... to be honest it doesn't sound very terrible. Most children that age do things like that ;)
usr : She doesn't seem to think that it's wrong to thrown her dirty socks in the living room instead of the laundry.
usr : I guess so.
| (Self-disclosure) Well, it is a bit anti social but there are a lot of worse things she could be doing :) I was pretty slobby at that age too |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"My eleven year old daughter is being difficult right now. Won't pick up anything, spends all day on the computer or on her phone or tablet, isn't focusing on school, won't eat anything other than mac and cheese and chocolate.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you today?
usr : Hi. Quite frustrated with my tween daughter!
sys : (Question) Ah that can be a very difficult age. Is it anything specific or just general?
usr : She doesn't listen to anything I say. She loves to play on the computer and tablet and her phone but when it comes to something simple, like turning off the light when she's done in the bathroom or throwing away a candy wrapper, she won't do it.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well ... to be honest it doesn't sound very terrible. Most children that age do things like that ;)
usr : She doesn't seem to think that it's wrong to thrown her dirty socks in the living room instead of the laundry.
usr : I guess so.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, it is a bit anti social but there are a lot of worse things she could be doing :) I was pretty slobby at that age too
usr : I'm 53 so going through menopuase while she is going through puberty.
usr : True.
usr : I just wish she would take some pride in her things and herself.
| (Self-disclosure) Ah that's a bad combination. I hear you on the menopause thing. Do you think maybe it is making you more touchy? It is me! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"My eleven year old daughter is being difficult right now. Won't pick up anything, spends all day on the computer or on her phone or tablet, isn't focusing on school, won't eat anything other than mac and cheese and chocolate.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you today?
usr : Hi. Quite frustrated with my tween daughter!
sys : (Question) Ah that can be a very difficult age. Is it anything specific or just general?
usr : She doesn't listen to anything I say. She loves to play on the computer and tablet and her phone but when it comes to something simple, like turning off the light when she's done in the bathroom or throwing away a candy wrapper, she won't do it.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well ... to be honest it doesn't sound very terrible. Most children that age do things like that ;)
usr : She doesn't seem to think that it's wrong to thrown her dirty socks in the living room instead of the laundry.
usr : I guess so.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, it is a bit anti social but there are a lot of worse things she could be doing :) I was pretty slobby at that age too
usr : I'm 53 so going through menopuase while she is going through puberty.
usr : True.
usr : I just wish she would take some pride in her things and herself.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah that's a bad combination. I hear you on the menopause thing. Do you think maybe it is making you more touchy? It is me!
usr : She hasn't showered in a week and hates to brush her hair.
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought of offering rewards if she smartens up a bit? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"My eleven year old daughter is being difficult right now. Won't pick up anything, spends all day on the computer or on her phone or tablet, isn't focusing on school, won't eat anything other than mac and cheese and chocolate.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you today?
usr : Hi. Quite frustrated with my tween daughter!
sys : (Question) Ah that can be a very difficult age. Is it anything specific or just general?
usr : She doesn't listen to anything I say. She loves to play on the computer and tablet and her phone but when it comes to something simple, like turning off the light when she's done in the bathroom or throwing away a candy wrapper, she won't do it.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well ... to be honest it doesn't sound very terrible. Most children that age do things like that ;)
usr : She doesn't seem to think that it's wrong to thrown her dirty socks in the living room instead of the laundry.
usr : I guess so.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, it is a bit anti social but there are a lot of worse things she could be doing :) I was pretty slobby at that age too
usr : I'm 53 so going through menopuase while she is going through puberty.
usr : True.
usr : I just wish she would take some pride in her things and herself.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah that's a bad combination. I hear you on the menopause thing. Do you think maybe it is making you more touchy? It is me!
usr : She hasn't showered in a week and hates to brush her hair.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought of offering rewards if she smartens up a bit?
usr : Sure, that's probably true.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that once she hits puberty she will probably change her feelings about showering etc a lot :). |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"My eleven year old daughter is being difficult right now. Won't pick up anything, spends all day on the computer or on her phone or tablet, isn't focusing on school, won't eat anything other than mac and cheese and chocolate.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you today?
usr : Hi. Quite frustrated with my tween daughter!
sys : (Question) Ah that can be a very difficult age. Is it anything specific or just general?
usr : She doesn't listen to anything I say. She loves to play on the computer and tablet and her phone but when it comes to something simple, like turning off the light when she's done in the bathroom or throwing away a candy wrapper, she won't do it.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well ... to be honest it doesn't sound very terrible. Most children that age do things like that ;)
usr : She doesn't seem to think that it's wrong to thrown her dirty socks in the living room instead of the laundry.
usr : I guess so.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, it is a bit anti social but there are a lot of worse things she could be doing :) I was pretty slobby at that age too
usr : I'm 53 so going through menopuase while she is going through puberty.
usr : True.
usr : I just wish she would take some pride in her things and herself.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah that's a bad combination. I hear you on the menopause thing. Do you think maybe it is making you more touchy? It is me!
usr : She hasn't showered in a week and hates to brush her hair.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought of offering rewards if she smartens up a bit?
usr : Sure, that's probably true.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that once she hits puberty she will probably change her feelings about showering etc a lot :).
| (Self-disclosure) Teenagers tend to get very very involved in their appearance :D I used to spend an hour in the shower each day |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"My eleven year old daughter is being difficult right now. Won't pick up anything, spends all day on the computer or on her phone or tablet, isn't focusing on school, won't eat anything other than mac and cheese and chocolate.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you today?
usr : Hi. Quite frustrated with my tween daughter!
sys : (Question) Ah that can be a very difficult age. Is it anything specific or just general?
usr : She doesn't listen to anything I say. She loves to play on the computer and tablet and her phone but when it comes to something simple, like turning off the light when she's done in the bathroom or throwing away a candy wrapper, she won't do it.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well ... to be honest it doesn't sound very terrible. Most children that age do things like that ;)
usr : She doesn't seem to think that it's wrong to thrown her dirty socks in the living room instead of the laundry.
usr : I guess so.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, it is a bit anti social but there are a lot of worse things she could be doing :) I was pretty slobby at that age too
usr : I'm 53 so going through menopuase while she is going through puberty.
usr : True.
usr : I just wish she would take some pride in her things and herself.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah that's a bad combination. I hear you on the menopause thing. Do you think maybe it is making you more touchy? It is me!
usr : She hasn't showered in a week and hates to brush her hair.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought of offering rewards if she smartens up a bit?
usr : Sure, that's probably true.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that once she hits puberty she will probably change her feelings about showering etc a lot :).
sys : (Self-disclosure) Teenagers tend to get very very involved in their appearance :D I used to spend an hour in the shower each day
usr : Unfortunately I have spoiled her rotten so that she has most everything she could want (well, not an I-phone and nintendo switch! lol)
| (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps you could gently explain to her why it's anti social to not shower for a week? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"My eleven year old daughter is being difficult right now. Won't pick up anything, spends all day on the computer or on her phone or tablet, isn't focusing on school, won't eat anything other than mac and cheese and chocolate.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you today?
usr : Hi. Quite frustrated with my tween daughter!
sys : (Question) Ah that can be a very difficult age. Is it anything specific or just general?
usr : She doesn't listen to anything I say. She loves to play on the computer and tablet and her phone but when it comes to something simple, like turning off the light when she's done in the bathroom or throwing away a candy wrapper, she won't do it.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well ... to be honest it doesn't sound very terrible. Most children that age do things like that ;)
usr : She doesn't seem to think that it's wrong to thrown her dirty socks in the living room instead of the laundry.
usr : I guess so.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, it is a bit anti social but there are a lot of worse things she could be doing :) I was pretty slobby at that age too
usr : I'm 53 so going through menopuase while she is going through puberty.
usr : True.
usr : I just wish she would take some pride in her things and herself.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah that's a bad combination. I hear you on the menopause thing. Do you think maybe it is making you more touchy? It is me!
usr : She hasn't showered in a week and hates to brush her hair.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought of offering rewards if she smartens up a bit?
usr : Sure, that's probably true.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that once she hits puberty she will probably change her feelings about showering etc a lot :).
sys : (Self-disclosure) Teenagers tend to get very very involved in their appearance :D I used to spend an hour in the shower each day
usr : Unfortunately I have spoiled her rotten so that she has most everything she could want (well, not an I-phone and nintendo switch! lol)
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps you could gently explain to her why it's anti social to not shower for a week?
usr : I think she is getting very close to the age where she will pay attention to herself and general appearance, but she's not there yet.
| (Others) Ah you have all the fun of her teenage years to look forward to. I would not go through that again :D |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"My eleven year old daughter is being difficult right now. Won't pick up anything, spends all day on the computer or on her phone or tablet, isn't focusing on school, won't eat anything other than mac and cheese and chocolate.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you today?
usr : Hi. Quite frustrated with my tween daughter!
sys : (Question) Ah that can be a very difficult age. Is it anything specific or just general?
usr : She doesn't listen to anything I say. She loves to play on the computer and tablet and her phone but when it comes to something simple, like turning off the light when she's done in the bathroom or throwing away a candy wrapper, she won't do it.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well ... to be honest it doesn't sound very terrible. Most children that age do things like that ;)
usr : She doesn't seem to think that it's wrong to thrown her dirty socks in the living room instead of the laundry.
usr : I guess so.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, it is a bit anti social but there are a lot of worse things she could be doing :) I was pretty slobby at that age too
usr : I'm 53 so going through menopuase while she is going through puberty.
usr : True.
usr : I just wish she would take some pride in her things and herself.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah that's a bad combination. I hear you on the menopause thing. Do you think maybe it is making you more touchy? It is me!
usr : She hasn't showered in a week and hates to brush her hair.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought of offering rewards if she smartens up a bit?
usr : Sure, that's probably true.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that once she hits puberty she will probably change her feelings about showering etc a lot :).
sys : (Self-disclosure) Teenagers tend to get very very involved in their appearance :D I used to spend an hour in the shower each day
usr : Unfortunately I have spoiled her rotten so that she has most everything she could want (well, not an I-phone and nintendo switch! lol)
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps you could gently explain to her why it's anti social to not shower for a week?
usr : I think she is getting very close to the age where she will pay attention to herself and general appearance, but she's not there yet.
sys : (Others) Ah you have all the fun of her teenage years to look forward to. I would not go through that again :D
usr : I have, lol.
usr : She is getting much better about putting clean underwear on everyday at least.
| (Others) Well that is definitely something!! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"My eleven year old daughter is being difficult right now. Won't pick up anything, spends all day on the computer or on her phone or tablet, isn't focusing on school, won't eat anything other than mac and cheese and chocolate.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you today?
usr : Hi. Quite frustrated with my tween daughter!
sys : (Question) Ah that can be a very difficult age. Is it anything specific or just general?
usr : She doesn't listen to anything I say. She loves to play on the computer and tablet and her phone but when it comes to something simple, like turning off the light when she's done in the bathroom or throwing away a candy wrapper, she won't do it.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well ... to be honest it doesn't sound very terrible. Most children that age do things like that ;)
usr : She doesn't seem to think that it's wrong to thrown her dirty socks in the living room instead of the laundry.
usr : I guess so.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, it is a bit anti social but there are a lot of worse things she could be doing :) I was pretty slobby at that age too
usr : I'm 53 so going through menopuase while she is going through puberty.
usr : True.
usr : I just wish she would take some pride in her things and herself.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah that's a bad combination. I hear you on the menopause thing. Do you think maybe it is making you more touchy? It is me!
usr : She hasn't showered in a week and hates to brush her hair.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought of offering rewards if she smartens up a bit?
usr : Sure, that's probably true.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that once she hits puberty she will probably change her feelings about showering etc a lot :).
sys : (Self-disclosure) Teenagers tend to get very very involved in their appearance :D I used to spend an hour in the shower each day
usr : Unfortunately I have spoiled her rotten so that she has most everything she could want (well, not an I-phone and nintendo switch! lol)
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps you could gently explain to her why it's anti social to not shower for a week?
usr : I think she is getting very close to the age where she will pay attention to herself and general appearance, but she's not there yet.
sys : (Others) Ah you have all the fun of her teenage years to look forward to. I would not go through that again :D
usr : I have, lol.
usr : She is getting much better about putting clean underwear on everyday at least.
sys : (Others) Well that is definitely something!!
| (Providing Suggestions) Maybe try to help her take pride in her appearance? Give her some make up lessons? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"My eleven year old daughter is being difficult right now. Won't pick up anything, spends all day on the computer or on her phone or tablet, isn't focusing on school, won't eat anything other than mac and cheese and chocolate.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you today?
usr : Hi. Quite frustrated with my tween daughter!
sys : (Question) Ah that can be a very difficult age. Is it anything specific or just general?
usr : She doesn't listen to anything I say. She loves to play on the computer and tablet and her phone but when it comes to something simple, like turning off the light when she's done in the bathroom or throwing away a candy wrapper, she won't do it.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well ... to be honest it doesn't sound very terrible. Most children that age do things like that ;)
usr : She doesn't seem to think that it's wrong to thrown her dirty socks in the living room instead of the laundry.
usr : I guess so.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, it is a bit anti social but there are a lot of worse things she could be doing :) I was pretty slobby at that age too
usr : I'm 53 so going through menopuase while she is going through puberty.
usr : True.
usr : I just wish she would take some pride in her things and herself.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah that's a bad combination. I hear you on the menopause thing. Do you think maybe it is making you more touchy? It is me!
usr : She hasn't showered in a week and hates to brush her hair.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought of offering rewards if she smartens up a bit?
usr : Sure, that's probably true.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that once she hits puberty she will probably change her feelings about showering etc a lot :).
sys : (Self-disclosure) Teenagers tend to get very very involved in their appearance :D I used to spend an hour in the shower each day
usr : Unfortunately I have spoiled her rotten so that she has most everything she could want (well, not an I-phone and nintendo switch! lol)
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps you could gently explain to her why it's anti social to not shower for a week?
usr : I think she is getting very close to the age where she will pay attention to herself and general appearance, but she's not there yet.
sys : (Others) Ah you have all the fun of her teenage years to look forward to. I would not go through that again :D
usr : I have, lol.
usr : She is getting much better about putting clean underwear on everyday at least.
sys : (Others) Well that is definitely something!!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe try to help her take pride in her appearance? Give her some make up lessons?
usr : She also loves to go through my personal things. Takes my nail clippers. Tries on my blush and lipstick. Looks through my drawers.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that's pretty normal for a tweenage girl :) She's probably starting to be interested in make up and things |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"My eleven year old daughter is being difficult right now. Won't pick up anything, spends all day on the computer or on her phone or tablet, isn't focusing on school, won't eat anything other than mac and cheese and chocolate.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you today?
usr : Hi. Quite frustrated with my tween daughter!
sys : (Question) Ah that can be a very difficult age. Is it anything specific or just general?
usr : She doesn't listen to anything I say. She loves to play on the computer and tablet and her phone but when it comes to something simple, like turning off the light when she's done in the bathroom or throwing away a candy wrapper, she won't do it.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well ... to be honest it doesn't sound very terrible. Most children that age do things like that ;)
usr : She doesn't seem to think that it's wrong to thrown her dirty socks in the living room instead of the laundry.
usr : I guess so.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, it is a bit anti social but there are a lot of worse things she could be doing :) I was pretty slobby at that age too
usr : I'm 53 so going through menopuase while she is going through puberty.
usr : True.
usr : I just wish she would take some pride in her things and herself.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah that's a bad combination. I hear you on the menopause thing. Do you think maybe it is making you more touchy? It is me!
usr : She hasn't showered in a week and hates to brush her hair.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought of offering rewards if she smartens up a bit?
usr : Sure, that's probably true.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that once she hits puberty she will probably change her feelings about showering etc a lot :).
sys : (Self-disclosure) Teenagers tend to get very very involved in their appearance :D I used to spend an hour in the shower each day
usr : Unfortunately I have spoiled her rotten so that she has most everything she could want (well, not an I-phone and nintendo switch! lol)
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps you could gently explain to her why it's anti social to not shower for a week?
usr : I think she is getting very close to the age where she will pay attention to herself and general appearance, but she's not there yet.
sys : (Others) Ah you have all the fun of her teenage years to look forward to. I would not go through that again :D
usr : I have, lol.
usr : She is getting much better about putting clean underwear on everyday at least.
sys : (Others) Well that is definitely something!!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe try to help her take pride in her appearance? Give her some make up lessons?
usr : She also loves to go through my personal things. Takes my nail clippers. Tries on my blush and lipstick. Looks through my drawers.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that's pretty normal for a tweenage girl :) She's probably starting to be interested in make up and things
usr : I don't wear makeup, except for rare days where I put on a little blush and lipstick.
| (Self-disclosure) I don't either to be honest but a lot of young girls are interested in it |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"My eleven year old daughter is being difficult right now. Won't pick up anything, spends all day on the computer or on her phone or tablet, isn't focusing on school, won't eat anything other than mac and cheese and chocolate.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you today?
usr : Hi. Quite frustrated with my tween daughter!
sys : (Question) Ah that can be a very difficult age. Is it anything specific or just general?
usr : She doesn't listen to anything I say. She loves to play on the computer and tablet and her phone but when it comes to something simple, like turning off the light when she's done in the bathroom or throwing away a candy wrapper, she won't do it.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well ... to be honest it doesn't sound very terrible. Most children that age do things like that ;)
usr : She doesn't seem to think that it's wrong to thrown her dirty socks in the living room instead of the laundry.
usr : I guess so.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, it is a bit anti social but there are a lot of worse things she could be doing :) I was pretty slobby at that age too
usr : I'm 53 so going through menopuase while she is going through puberty.
usr : True.
usr : I just wish she would take some pride in her things and herself.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah that's a bad combination. I hear you on the menopause thing. Do you think maybe it is making you more touchy? It is me!
usr : She hasn't showered in a week and hates to brush her hair.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought of offering rewards if she smartens up a bit?
usr : Sure, that's probably true.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that once she hits puberty she will probably change her feelings about showering etc a lot :).
sys : (Self-disclosure) Teenagers tend to get very very involved in their appearance :D I used to spend an hour in the shower each day
usr : Unfortunately I have spoiled her rotten so that she has most everything she could want (well, not an I-phone and nintendo switch! lol)
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps you could gently explain to her why it's anti social to not shower for a week?
usr : I think she is getting very close to the age where she will pay attention to herself and general appearance, but she's not there yet.
sys : (Others) Ah you have all the fun of her teenage years to look forward to. I would not go through that again :D
usr : I have, lol.
usr : She is getting much better about putting clean underwear on everyday at least.
sys : (Others) Well that is definitely something!!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe try to help her take pride in her appearance? Give her some make up lessons?
usr : She also loves to go through my personal things. Takes my nail clippers. Tries on my blush and lipstick. Looks through my drawers.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that's pretty normal for a tweenage girl :) She's probably starting to be interested in make up and things
usr : I don't wear makeup, except for rare days where I put on a little blush and lipstick.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I don't either to be honest but a lot of young girls are interested in it
usr : She does do makeup and stuff at her friend's house.
| (Question) Are her friends a good influence on her/ |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"My eleven year old daughter is being difficult right now. Won't pick up anything, spends all day on the computer or on her phone or tablet, isn't focusing on school, won't eat anything other than mac and cheese and chocolate.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you today?
usr : Hi. Quite frustrated with my tween daughter!
sys : (Question) Ah that can be a very difficult age. Is it anything specific or just general?
usr : She doesn't listen to anything I say. She loves to play on the computer and tablet and her phone but when it comes to something simple, like turning off the light when she's done in the bathroom or throwing away a candy wrapper, she won't do it.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well ... to be honest it doesn't sound very terrible. Most children that age do things like that ;)
usr : She doesn't seem to think that it's wrong to thrown her dirty socks in the living room instead of the laundry.
usr : I guess so.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, it is a bit anti social but there are a lot of worse things she could be doing :) I was pretty slobby at that age too
usr : I'm 53 so going through menopuase while she is going through puberty.
usr : True.
usr : I just wish she would take some pride in her things and herself.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah that's a bad combination. I hear you on the menopause thing. Do you think maybe it is making you more touchy? It is me!
usr : She hasn't showered in a week and hates to brush her hair.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought of offering rewards if she smartens up a bit?
usr : Sure, that's probably true.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that once she hits puberty she will probably change her feelings about showering etc a lot :).
sys : (Self-disclosure) Teenagers tend to get very very involved in their appearance :D I used to spend an hour in the shower each day
usr : Unfortunately I have spoiled her rotten so that she has most everything she could want (well, not an I-phone and nintendo switch! lol)
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps you could gently explain to her why it's anti social to not shower for a week?
usr : I think she is getting very close to the age where she will pay attention to herself and general appearance, but she's not there yet.
sys : (Others) Ah you have all the fun of her teenage years to look forward to. I would not go through that again :D
usr : I have, lol.
usr : She is getting much better about putting clean underwear on everyday at least.
sys : (Others) Well that is definitely something!!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe try to help her take pride in her appearance? Give her some make up lessons?
usr : She also loves to go through my personal things. Takes my nail clippers. Tries on my blush and lipstick. Looks through my drawers.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that's pretty normal for a tweenage girl :) She's probably starting to be interested in make up and things
usr : I don't wear makeup, except for rare days where I put on a little blush and lipstick.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I don't either to be honest but a lot of young girls are interested in it
usr : She does do makeup and stuff at her friend's house.
sys : (Question) Are her friends a good influence on her/
usr : True. She hates to brush her own hair but could sit for for an hour while I brush her hair! lol
usr : Yes, for the most part.
| (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could treat her to a new haircut, give her a new pride in herself? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"My eleven year old daughter is being difficult right now. Won't pick up anything, spends all day on the computer or on her phone or tablet, isn't focusing on school, won't eat anything other than mac and cheese and chocolate.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you today?
usr : Hi. Quite frustrated with my tween daughter!
sys : (Question) Ah that can be a very difficult age. Is it anything specific or just general?
usr : She doesn't listen to anything I say. She loves to play on the computer and tablet and her phone but when it comes to something simple, like turning off the light when she's done in the bathroom or throwing away a candy wrapper, she won't do it.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well ... to be honest it doesn't sound very terrible. Most children that age do things like that ;)
usr : She doesn't seem to think that it's wrong to thrown her dirty socks in the living room instead of the laundry.
usr : I guess so.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, it is a bit anti social but there are a lot of worse things she could be doing :) I was pretty slobby at that age too
usr : I'm 53 so going through menopuase while she is going through puberty.
usr : True.
usr : I just wish she would take some pride in her things and herself.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah that's a bad combination. I hear you on the menopause thing. Do you think maybe it is making you more touchy? It is me!
usr : She hasn't showered in a week and hates to brush her hair.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought of offering rewards if she smartens up a bit?
usr : Sure, that's probably true.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that once she hits puberty she will probably change her feelings about showering etc a lot :).
sys : (Self-disclosure) Teenagers tend to get very very involved in their appearance :D I used to spend an hour in the shower each day
usr : Unfortunately I have spoiled her rotten so that she has most everything she could want (well, not an I-phone and nintendo switch! lol)
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps you could gently explain to her why it's anti social to not shower for a week?
usr : I think she is getting very close to the age where she will pay attention to herself and general appearance, but she's not there yet.
sys : (Others) Ah you have all the fun of her teenage years to look forward to. I would not go through that again :D
usr : I have, lol.
usr : She is getting much better about putting clean underwear on everyday at least.
sys : (Others) Well that is definitely something!!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe try to help her take pride in her appearance? Give her some make up lessons?
usr : She also loves to go through my personal things. Takes my nail clippers. Tries on my blush and lipstick. Looks through my drawers.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that's pretty normal for a tweenage girl :) She's probably starting to be interested in make up and things
usr : I don't wear makeup, except for rare days where I put on a little blush and lipstick.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I don't either to be honest but a lot of young girls are interested in it
usr : She does do makeup and stuff at her friend's house.
sys : (Question) Are her friends a good influence on her/
usr : True. She hates to brush her own hair but could sit for for an hour while I brush her hair! lol
usr : Yes, for the most part.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could treat her to a new haircut, give her a new pride in herself?
usr : With the pandemic, we have not been out too much. I gave her a much needed haircut about a month ago. Trimmed off about six inches, but it's still way past her shoulders. We will hopefully go for a professional cut soon. I need one too!
usr : That is a very good idea.
| (Others) Oh of course I had forgotten about the pandemic. It seems ages since we had normal life! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"My eleven year old daughter is being difficult right now. Won't pick up anything, spends all day on the computer or on her phone or tablet, isn't focusing on school, won't eat anything other than mac and cheese and chocolate.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you today?
usr : Hi. Quite frustrated with my tween daughter!
sys : (Question) Ah that can be a very difficult age. Is it anything specific or just general?
usr : She doesn't listen to anything I say. She loves to play on the computer and tablet and her phone but when it comes to something simple, like turning off the light when she's done in the bathroom or throwing away a candy wrapper, she won't do it.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well ... to be honest it doesn't sound very terrible. Most children that age do things like that ;)
usr : She doesn't seem to think that it's wrong to thrown her dirty socks in the living room instead of the laundry.
usr : I guess so.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, it is a bit anti social but there are a lot of worse things she could be doing :) I was pretty slobby at that age too
usr : I'm 53 so going through menopuase while she is going through puberty.
usr : True.
usr : I just wish she would take some pride in her things and herself.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah that's a bad combination. I hear you on the menopause thing. Do you think maybe it is making you more touchy? It is me!
usr : She hasn't showered in a week and hates to brush her hair.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought of offering rewards if she smartens up a bit?
usr : Sure, that's probably true.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that once she hits puberty she will probably change her feelings about showering etc a lot :).
sys : (Self-disclosure) Teenagers tend to get very very involved in their appearance :D I used to spend an hour in the shower each day
usr : Unfortunately I have spoiled her rotten so that she has most everything she could want (well, not an I-phone and nintendo switch! lol)
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps you could gently explain to her why it's anti social to not shower for a week?
usr : I think she is getting very close to the age where she will pay attention to herself and general appearance, but she's not there yet.
sys : (Others) Ah you have all the fun of her teenage years to look forward to. I would not go through that again :D
usr : I have, lol.
usr : She is getting much better about putting clean underwear on everyday at least.
sys : (Others) Well that is definitely something!!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe try to help her take pride in her appearance? Give her some make up lessons?
usr : She also loves to go through my personal things. Takes my nail clippers. Tries on my blush and lipstick. Looks through my drawers.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that's pretty normal for a tweenage girl :) She's probably starting to be interested in make up and things
usr : I don't wear makeup, except for rare days where I put on a little blush and lipstick.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I don't either to be honest but a lot of young girls are interested in it
usr : She does do makeup and stuff at her friend's house.
sys : (Question) Are her friends a good influence on her/
usr : True. She hates to brush her own hair but could sit for for an hour while I brush her hair! lol
usr : Yes, for the most part.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could treat her to a new haircut, give her a new pride in herself?
usr : With the pandemic, we have not been out too much. I gave her a much needed haircut about a month ago. Trimmed off about six inches, but it's still way past her shoulders. We will hopefully go for a professional cut soon. I need one too!
usr : That is a very good idea.
sys : (Others) Oh of course I had forgotten about the pandemic. It seems ages since we had normal life!
usr : Agreed!
usr : We went to a sit down restaurant last week for the first time in a year!
| (Others) Well I hope I have been able to be of help and it has been nice to talk to you! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"My eleven year old daughter is being difficult right now. Won't pick up anything, spends all day on the computer or on her phone or tablet, isn't focusing on school, won't eat anything other than mac and cheese and chocolate.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you today?
usr : Hi. Quite frustrated with my tween daughter!
sys : (Question) Ah that can be a very difficult age. Is it anything specific or just general?
usr : She doesn't listen to anything I say. She loves to play on the computer and tablet and her phone but when it comes to something simple, like turning off the light when she's done in the bathroom or throwing away a candy wrapper, she won't do it.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well ... to be honest it doesn't sound very terrible. Most children that age do things like that ;)
usr : She doesn't seem to think that it's wrong to thrown her dirty socks in the living room instead of the laundry.
usr : I guess so.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, it is a bit anti social but there are a lot of worse things she could be doing :) I was pretty slobby at that age too
usr : I'm 53 so going through menopuase while she is going through puberty.
usr : True.
usr : I just wish she would take some pride in her things and herself.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah that's a bad combination. I hear you on the menopause thing. Do you think maybe it is making you more touchy? It is me!
usr : She hasn't showered in a week and hates to brush her hair.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought of offering rewards if she smartens up a bit?
usr : Sure, that's probably true.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that once she hits puberty she will probably change her feelings about showering etc a lot :).
sys : (Self-disclosure) Teenagers tend to get very very involved in their appearance :D I used to spend an hour in the shower each day
usr : Unfortunately I have spoiled her rotten so that she has most everything she could want (well, not an I-phone and nintendo switch! lol)
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps you could gently explain to her why it's anti social to not shower for a week?
usr : I think she is getting very close to the age where she will pay attention to herself and general appearance, but she's not there yet.
sys : (Others) Ah you have all the fun of her teenage years to look forward to. I would not go through that again :D
usr : I have, lol.
usr : She is getting much better about putting clean underwear on everyday at least.
sys : (Others) Well that is definitely something!!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe try to help her take pride in her appearance? Give her some make up lessons?
usr : She also loves to go through my personal things. Takes my nail clippers. Tries on my blush and lipstick. Looks through my drawers.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that's pretty normal for a tweenage girl :) She's probably starting to be interested in make up and things
usr : I don't wear makeup, except for rare days where I put on a little blush and lipstick.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I don't either to be honest but a lot of young girls are interested in it
usr : She does do makeup and stuff at her friend's house.
sys : (Question) Are her friends a good influence on her/
usr : True. She hates to brush her own hair but could sit for for an hour while I brush her hair! lol
usr : Yes, for the most part.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could treat her to a new haircut, give her a new pride in herself?
usr : With the pandemic, we have not been out too much. I gave her a much needed haircut about a month ago. Trimmed off about six inches, but it's still way past her shoulders. We will hopefully go for a professional cut soon. I need one too!
usr : That is a very good idea.
sys : (Others) Oh of course I had forgotten about the pandemic. It seems ages since we had normal life!
usr : Agreed!
usr : We went to a sit down restaurant last week for the first time in a year!
sys : (Others) Well I hope I have been able to be of help and it has been nice to talk to you!
usr : Yes, thank you. It has been helpful. I sometimes feel like I am the only one having trouble with their kids.
| (Others) Heh I promise you are not :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"My eleven year old daughter is being difficult right now. Won't pick up anything, spends all day on the computer or on her phone or tablet, isn't focusing on school, won't eat anything other than mac and cheese and chocolate.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you today?
usr : Hi. Quite frustrated with my tween daughter!
sys : (Question) Ah that can be a very difficult age. Is it anything specific or just general?
usr : She doesn't listen to anything I say. She loves to play on the computer and tablet and her phone but when it comes to something simple, like turning off the light when she's done in the bathroom or throwing away a candy wrapper, she won't do it.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well ... to be honest it doesn't sound very terrible. Most children that age do things like that ;)
usr : She doesn't seem to think that it's wrong to thrown her dirty socks in the living room instead of the laundry.
usr : I guess so.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, it is a bit anti social but there are a lot of worse things she could be doing :) I was pretty slobby at that age too
usr : I'm 53 so going through menopuase while she is going through puberty.
usr : True.
usr : I just wish she would take some pride in her things and herself.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah that's a bad combination. I hear you on the menopause thing. Do you think maybe it is making you more touchy? It is me!
usr : She hasn't showered in a week and hates to brush her hair.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought of offering rewards if she smartens up a bit?
usr : Sure, that's probably true.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that once she hits puberty she will probably change her feelings about showering etc a lot :).
sys : (Self-disclosure) Teenagers tend to get very very involved in their appearance :D I used to spend an hour in the shower each day
usr : Unfortunately I have spoiled her rotten so that she has most everything she could want (well, not an I-phone and nintendo switch! lol)
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps you could gently explain to her why it's anti social to not shower for a week?
usr : I think she is getting very close to the age where she will pay attention to herself and general appearance, but she's not there yet.
sys : (Others) Ah you have all the fun of her teenage years to look forward to. I would not go through that again :D
usr : I have, lol.
usr : She is getting much better about putting clean underwear on everyday at least.
sys : (Others) Well that is definitely something!!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe try to help her take pride in her appearance? Give her some make up lessons?
usr : She also loves to go through my personal things. Takes my nail clippers. Tries on my blush and lipstick. Looks through my drawers.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that's pretty normal for a tweenage girl :) She's probably starting to be interested in make up and things
usr : I don't wear makeup, except for rare days where I put on a little blush and lipstick.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I don't either to be honest but a lot of young girls are interested in it
usr : She does do makeup and stuff at her friend's house.
sys : (Question) Are her friends a good influence on her/
usr : True. She hates to brush her own hair but could sit for for an hour while I brush her hair! lol
usr : Yes, for the most part.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could treat her to a new haircut, give her a new pride in herself?
usr : With the pandemic, we have not been out too much. I gave her a much needed haircut about a month ago. Trimmed off about six inches, but it's still way past her shoulders. We will hopefully go for a professional cut soon. I need one too!
usr : That is a very good idea.
sys : (Others) Oh of course I had forgotten about the pandemic. It seems ages since we had normal life!
usr : Agreed!
usr : We went to a sit down restaurant last week for the first time in a year!
sys : (Others) Well I hope I have been able to be of help and it has been nice to talk to you!
usr : Yes, thank you. It has been helpful. I sometimes feel like I am the only one having trouble with their kids.
sys : (Others) Heh I promise you are not :)
usr : Thanks! :)
| (Providing Suggestions) Thanks for talking! (can you press quit first, I can't do it from my end :)) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"My eleven year old daughter is being difficult right now. Won't pick up anything, spends all day on the computer or on her phone or tablet, isn't focusing on school, won't eat anything other than mac and cheese and chocolate.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you today?
usr : Hi. Quite frustrated with my tween daughter!
sys : (Question) Ah that can be a very difficult age. Is it anything specific or just general?
usr : She doesn't listen to anything I say. She loves to play on the computer and tablet and her phone but when it comes to something simple, like turning off the light when she's done in the bathroom or throwing away a candy wrapper, she won't do it.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well ... to be honest it doesn't sound very terrible. Most children that age do things like that ;)
usr : She doesn't seem to think that it's wrong to thrown her dirty socks in the living room instead of the laundry.
usr : I guess so.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, it is a bit anti social but there are a lot of worse things she could be doing :) I was pretty slobby at that age too
usr : I'm 53 so going through menopuase while she is going through puberty.
usr : True.
usr : I just wish she would take some pride in her things and herself.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah that's a bad combination. I hear you on the menopause thing. Do you think maybe it is making you more touchy? It is me!
usr : She hasn't showered in a week and hates to brush her hair.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought of offering rewards if she smartens up a bit?
usr : Sure, that's probably true.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that once she hits puberty she will probably change her feelings about showering etc a lot :).
sys : (Self-disclosure) Teenagers tend to get very very involved in their appearance :D I used to spend an hour in the shower each day
usr : Unfortunately I have spoiled her rotten so that she has most everything she could want (well, not an I-phone and nintendo switch! lol)
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps you could gently explain to her why it's anti social to not shower for a week?
usr : I think she is getting very close to the age where she will pay attention to herself and general appearance, but she's not there yet.
sys : (Others) Ah you have all the fun of her teenage years to look forward to. I would not go through that again :D
usr : I have, lol.
usr : She is getting much better about putting clean underwear on everyday at least.
sys : (Others) Well that is definitely something!!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe try to help her take pride in her appearance? Give her some make up lessons?
usr : She also loves to go through my personal things. Takes my nail clippers. Tries on my blush and lipstick. Looks through my drawers.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that's pretty normal for a tweenage girl :) She's probably starting to be interested in make up and things
usr : I don't wear makeup, except for rare days where I put on a little blush and lipstick.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I don't either to be honest but a lot of young girls are interested in it
usr : She does do makeup and stuff at her friend's house.
sys : (Question) Are her friends a good influence on her/
usr : True. She hates to brush her own hair but could sit for for an hour while I brush her hair! lol
usr : Yes, for the most part.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could treat her to a new haircut, give her a new pride in herself?
usr : With the pandemic, we have not been out too much. I gave her a much needed haircut about a month ago. Trimmed off about six inches, but it's still way past her shoulders. We will hopefully go for a professional cut soon. I need one too!
usr : That is a very good idea.
sys : (Others) Oh of course I had forgotten about the pandemic. It seems ages since we had normal life!
usr : Agreed!
usr : We went to a sit down restaurant last week for the first time in a year!
sys : (Others) Well I hope I have been able to be of help and it has been nice to talk to you!
usr : Yes, thank you. It has been helpful. I sometimes feel like I am the only one having trouble with their kids.
sys : (Others) Heh I promise you are not :)
usr : Thanks! :)
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Thanks for talking! (can you press quit first, I can't do it from my end :))
usr : Sure, will do.
| (Others) have a nice rest of day :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Issues with Parents. The seeker says
"My mother told me that she hurt her knee and can not work.". | usr : Hello, would you be able to help me with a fear of mine?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, how are you today? I will be glad to assist you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Issues with Parents. The seeker says
"My mother told me that she hurt her knee and can not work.". | usr : Hello, would you be able to help me with a fear of mine?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, how are you today? I will be glad to assist you.
usr : Thank you. I'm a little fearful and sad today because I found out my mother hurt her knee and won't be able to work for a while.
| (Question) Sorry to hear that. is it possible her job can give her light duties for a while |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Issues with Parents. The seeker says
"My mother told me that she hurt her knee and can not work.". | usr : Hello, would you be able to help me with a fear of mine?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, how are you today? I will be glad to assist you.
usr : Thank you. I'm a little fearful and sad today because I found out my mother hurt her knee and won't be able to work for a while.
sys : (Question) Sorry to hear that. is it possible her job can give her light duties for a while
usr : Unfortunately she is a nurse and needs to be able to work with patients. I don't think there are any light duty options.
| (Reflection of feelings) I can understand your concern for your mom, you sound like a caring child.. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Issues with Parents. The seeker says
"My mother told me that she hurt her knee and can not work.". | usr : Hello, would you be able to help me with a fear of mine?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, how are you today? I will be glad to assist you.
usr : Thank you. I'm a little fearful and sad today because I found out my mother hurt her knee and won't be able to work for a while.
sys : (Question) Sorry to hear that. is it possible her job can give her light duties for a while
usr : Unfortunately she is a nurse and needs to be able to work with patients. I don't think there are any light duty options.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand your concern for your mom, you sound like a caring child..
usr : Thank you, I think I am. I am always worrying about my mother, so this is nothing new. Although, financially this will be more stressful.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) If I am understanding you correctly, you feel your mom may not be able to sustain herself during her time of recovery, is that correct? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Issues with Parents. The seeker says
"My mother told me that she hurt her knee and can not work.". | usr : Hello, would you be able to help me with a fear of mine?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, how are you today? I will be glad to assist you.
usr : Thank you. I'm a little fearful and sad today because I found out my mother hurt her knee and won't be able to work for a while.
sys : (Question) Sorry to hear that. is it possible her job can give her light duties for a while
usr : Unfortunately she is a nurse and needs to be able to work with patients. I don't think there are any light duty options.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand your concern for your mom, you sound like a caring child..
usr : Thank you, I think I am. I am always worrying about my mother, so this is nothing new. Although, financially this will be more stressful.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) If I am understanding you correctly, you feel your mom may not be able to sustain herself during her time of recovery, is that correct?
usr : That's exactly right. I am worried because I think I may need to financially assist her if she doesn't recover soon and I also don't have much to sustain myself.
| (Self-disclosure) I totally understand. I have had to provide financial assistance in the past. A technique that worked for me was reviewing and tweaking my expenditures for a short period of time. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Issues with Parents. The seeker says
"My mother told me that she hurt her knee and can not work.". | usr : Hello, would you be able to help me with a fear of mine?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, how are you today? I will be glad to assist you.
usr : Thank you. I'm a little fearful and sad today because I found out my mother hurt her knee and won't be able to work for a while.
sys : (Question) Sorry to hear that. is it possible her job can give her light duties for a while
usr : Unfortunately she is a nurse and needs to be able to work with patients. I don't think there are any light duty options.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand your concern for your mom, you sound like a caring child..
usr : Thank you, I think I am. I am always worrying about my mother, so this is nothing new. Although, financially this will be more stressful.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) If I am understanding you correctly, you feel your mom may not be able to sustain herself during her time of recovery, is that correct?
usr : That's exactly right. I am worried because I think I may need to financially assist her if she doesn't recover soon and I also don't have much to sustain myself.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I totally understand. I have had to provide financial assistance in the past. A technique that worked for me was reviewing and tweaking my expenditures for a short period of time.
usr : Yeah, that's a good idea. I should start saving a little bit specifically in case I need to help her. Thank you for the advice!
| (Others) you are more than welcome. I hope your mom begins to feel better soon. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Issues with Parents. The seeker says
"My mother told me that she hurt her knee and can not work.". | usr : Hello, would you be able to help me with a fear of mine?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, how are you today? I will be glad to assist you.
usr : Thank you. I'm a little fearful and sad today because I found out my mother hurt her knee and won't be able to work for a while.
sys : (Question) Sorry to hear that. is it possible her job can give her light duties for a while
usr : Unfortunately she is a nurse and needs to be able to work with patients. I don't think there are any light duty options.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand your concern for your mom, you sound like a caring child..
usr : Thank you, I think I am. I am always worrying about my mother, so this is nothing new. Although, financially this will be more stressful.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) If I am understanding you correctly, you feel your mom may not be able to sustain herself during her time of recovery, is that correct?
usr : That's exactly right. I am worried because I think I may need to financially assist her if she doesn't recover soon and I also don't have much to sustain myself.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I totally understand. I have had to provide financial assistance in the past. A technique that worked for me was reviewing and tweaking my expenditures for a short period of time.
usr : Yeah, that's a good idea. I should start saving a little bit specifically in case I need to help her. Thank you for the advice!
sys : (Others) you are more than welcome. I hope your mom begins to feel better soon.
usr : Thank you. Do you have any advice for how to calm down fear?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Your concern for your Mom is understandable. I can tell you are facing the fear just by thinking ahead as to how you can assist her. As you come up with workable solutions, hopefully your fear will diminish. You are doing a great job of being there for her. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Issues with Parents. The seeker says
"My mother told me that she hurt her knee and can not work.". | usr : Hello, would you be able to help me with a fear of mine?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, how are you today? I will be glad to assist you.
usr : Thank you. I'm a little fearful and sad today because I found out my mother hurt her knee and won't be able to work for a while.
sys : (Question) Sorry to hear that. is it possible her job can give her light duties for a while
usr : Unfortunately she is a nurse and needs to be able to work with patients. I don't think there are any light duty options.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand your concern for your mom, you sound like a caring child..
usr : Thank you, I think I am. I am always worrying about my mother, so this is nothing new. Although, financially this will be more stressful.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) If I am understanding you correctly, you feel your mom may not be able to sustain herself during her time of recovery, is that correct?
usr : That's exactly right. I am worried because I think I may need to financially assist her if she doesn't recover soon and I also don't have much to sustain myself.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I totally understand. I have had to provide financial assistance in the past. A technique that worked for me was reviewing and tweaking my expenditures for a short period of time.
usr : Yeah, that's a good idea. I should start saving a little bit specifically in case I need to help her. Thank you for the advice!
sys : (Others) you are more than welcome. I hope your mom begins to feel better soon.
usr : Thank you. Do you have any advice for how to calm down fear?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Your concern for your Mom is understandable. I can tell you are facing the fear just by thinking ahead as to how you can assist her. As you come up with workable solutions, hopefully your fear will diminish. You are doing a great job of being there for her.
usr : Thank you. That has given me a broader perspective, which I was in need of. I appreciate your help! Take care. Goodbye.
usr : Oh, and let's both hope the best for my mom! :)
| (Others) Good bye, Take care, and again i hope your Mom's recovery is quick and fast. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Issues with Parents. The seeker says
"My mother told me that she hurt her knee and can not work.". | usr : Hello, would you be able to help me with a fear of mine?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, how are you today? I will be glad to assist you.
usr : Thank you. I'm a little fearful and sad today because I found out my mother hurt her knee and won't be able to work for a while.
sys : (Question) Sorry to hear that. is it possible her job can give her light duties for a while
usr : Unfortunately she is a nurse and needs to be able to work with patients. I don't think there are any light duty options.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand your concern for your mom, you sound like a caring child..
usr : Thank you, I think I am. I am always worrying about my mother, so this is nothing new. Although, financially this will be more stressful.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) If I am understanding you correctly, you feel your mom may not be able to sustain herself during her time of recovery, is that correct?
usr : That's exactly right. I am worried because I think I may need to financially assist her if she doesn't recover soon and I also don't have much to sustain myself.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I totally understand. I have had to provide financial assistance in the past. A technique that worked for me was reviewing and tweaking my expenditures for a short period of time.
usr : Yeah, that's a good idea. I should start saving a little bit specifically in case I need to help her. Thank you for the advice!
sys : (Others) you are more than welcome. I hope your mom begins to feel better soon.
usr : Thank you. Do you have any advice for how to calm down fear?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Your concern for your Mom is understandable. I can tell you are facing the fear just by thinking ahead as to how you can assist her. As you come up with workable solutions, hopefully your fear will diminish. You are doing a great job of being there for her.
usr : Thank you. That has given me a broader perspective, which I was in need of. I appreciate your help! Take care. Goodbye.
usr : Oh, and let's both hope the best for my mom! :)
sys : (Others) Good bye, Take care, and again i hope your Mom's recovery is quick and fast.
usr : Actually it looks like we need to chat a couple more times to earn the bonus. Would you have any suggestions on how I could talk to my mother? Should I tell her that I can help her financially or wait for her to ask?
| (Question) Do you think sharing your ability to assist will ease her anxiety as she goes thru this? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Issues with Parents. The seeker says
"My mother told me that she hurt her knee and can not work.". | usr : Hello, would you be able to help me with a fear of mine?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, how are you today? I will be glad to assist you.
usr : Thank you. I'm a little fearful and sad today because I found out my mother hurt her knee and won't be able to work for a while.
sys : (Question) Sorry to hear that. is it possible her job can give her light duties for a while
usr : Unfortunately she is a nurse and needs to be able to work with patients. I don't think there are any light duty options.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand your concern for your mom, you sound like a caring child..
usr : Thank you, I think I am. I am always worrying about my mother, so this is nothing new. Although, financially this will be more stressful.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) If I am understanding you correctly, you feel your mom may not be able to sustain herself during her time of recovery, is that correct?
usr : That's exactly right. I am worried because I think I may need to financially assist her if she doesn't recover soon and I also don't have much to sustain myself.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I totally understand. I have had to provide financial assistance in the past. A technique that worked for me was reviewing and tweaking my expenditures for a short period of time.
usr : Yeah, that's a good idea. I should start saving a little bit specifically in case I need to help her. Thank you for the advice!
sys : (Others) you are more than welcome. I hope your mom begins to feel better soon.
usr : Thank you. Do you have any advice for how to calm down fear?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Your concern for your Mom is understandable. I can tell you are facing the fear just by thinking ahead as to how you can assist her. As you come up with workable solutions, hopefully your fear will diminish. You are doing a great job of being there for her.
usr : Thank you. That has given me a broader perspective, which I was in need of. I appreciate your help! Take care. Goodbye.
usr : Oh, and let's both hope the best for my mom! :)
sys : (Others) Good bye, Take care, and again i hope your Mom's recovery is quick and fast.
usr : Actually it looks like we need to chat a couple more times to earn the bonus. Would you have any suggestions on how I could talk to my mother? Should I tell her that I can help her financially or wait for her to ask?
sys : (Question) Do you think sharing your ability to assist will ease her anxiety as she goes thru this?
usr : I think it might, but I also don't want to insult her.
| (Self-disclosure) I feel the same way when i help others. i usually support with love, but at the same time, I am around the situation to know if i need to step up financially. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so stressed and nervous about my hours being cut further due to the pandemic. I tried applying for another job since January and I have not received any responses. I am worried that I will not be able to pay my debts and bills at this rate.". | (Others) Hello. | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so stressed and nervous about my hours being cut further due to the pandemic. I tried applying for another job since January and I have not received any responses. I am worried that I will not be able to pay my debts and bills at this rate.". | sys : (Others) Hello.
usr : Hello...
| (Question) How are you doing today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so stressed and nervous about my hours being cut further due to the pandemic. I tried applying for another job since January and I have not received any responses. I am worried that I will not be able to pay my debts and bills at this rate.". | sys : (Others) Hello.
usr : Hello...
sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : I am quite stressed.
| (Reflection of feelings) Well I can definitely understand being stressed at this time. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so stressed and nervous about my hours being cut further due to the pandemic. I tried applying for another job since January and I have not received any responses. I am worried that I will not be able to pay my debts and bills at this rate.". | sys : (Others) Hello.
usr : Hello...
sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : I am quite stressed.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well I can definitely understand being stressed at this time.
usr : I can't believe that my hours were cut again at my current job.
| (Question) Why were they cut? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so stressed and nervous about my hours being cut further due to the pandemic. I tried applying for another job since January and I have not received any responses. I am worried that I will not be able to pay my debts and bills at this rate.". | sys : (Others) Hello.
usr : Hello...
sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : I am quite stressed.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well I can definitely understand being stressed at this time.
usr : I can't believe that my hours were cut again at my current job.
sys : (Question) Why were they cut?
usr : Because of the pandemic, my boss is not generating enough money so they cut everyone's hours. I don't blame him but I am so frustrated at this whole thing.
| (Reflection of feelings) I can definitely understand your frustration. That is a big deal. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so stressed and nervous about my hours being cut further due to the pandemic. I tried applying for another job since January and I have not received any responses. I am worried that I will not be able to pay my debts and bills at this rate.". | sys : (Others) Hello.
usr : Hello...
sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : I am quite stressed.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well I can definitely understand being stressed at this time.
usr : I can't believe that my hours were cut again at my current job.
sys : (Question) Why were they cut?
usr : Because of the pandemic, my boss is not generating enough money so they cut everyone's hours. I don't blame him but I am so frustrated at this whole thing.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can definitely understand your frustration. That is a big deal.
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to him? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so stressed and nervous about my hours being cut further due to the pandemic. I tried applying for another job since January and I have not received any responses. I am worried that I will not be able to pay my debts and bills at this rate.". | sys : (Others) Hello.
usr : Hello...
sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : I am quite stressed.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well I can definitely understand being stressed at this time.
usr : I can't believe that my hours were cut again at my current job.
sys : (Question) Why were they cut?
usr : Because of the pandemic, my boss is not generating enough money so they cut everyone's hours. I don't blame him but I am so frustrated at this whole thing.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can definitely understand your frustration. That is a big deal.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to him?
usr : I want to but I don't want to be fired or annoy them.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure that you wouldn't annoy them. It's their job to talk to their employees. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so stressed and nervous about my hours being cut further due to the pandemic. I tried applying for another job since January and I have not received any responses. I am worried that I will not be able to pay my debts and bills at this rate.". | sys : (Others) Hello.
usr : Hello...
sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : I am quite stressed.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well I can definitely understand being stressed at this time.
usr : I can't believe that my hours were cut again at my current job.
sys : (Question) Why were they cut?
usr : Because of the pandemic, my boss is not generating enough money so they cut everyone's hours. I don't blame him but I am so frustrated at this whole thing.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can definitely understand your frustration. That is a big deal.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to him?
usr : I want to but I don't want to be fired or annoy them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure that you wouldn't annoy them. It's their job to talk to their employees.
usr : I just don't want to annoy them. Meanwhile, I am trying to get another job but no luck so far. :(
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you signed up for any job recruiting sites or consulted your state labor department office? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so stressed and nervous about my hours being cut further due to the pandemic. I tried applying for another job since January and I have not received any responses. I am worried that I will not be able to pay my debts and bills at this rate.". | sys : (Others) Hello.
usr : Hello...
sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : I am quite stressed.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well I can definitely understand being stressed at this time.
usr : I can't believe that my hours were cut again at my current job.
sys : (Question) Why were they cut?
usr : Because of the pandemic, my boss is not generating enough money so they cut everyone's hours. I don't blame him but I am so frustrated at this whole thing.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can definitely understand your frustration. That is a big deal.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to him?
usr : I want to but I don't want to be fired or annoy them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure that you wouldn't annoy them. It's their job to talk to their employees.
usr : I just don't want to annoy them. Meanwhile, I am trying to get another job but no luck so far. :(
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you signed up for any job recruiting sites or consulted your state labor department office?
usr : Yep and unfortunately I still have not receive any response.
| (Providing Suggestions) What about asking your neighbors if they need any help with child care or yard work? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so stressed and nervous about my hours being cut further due to the pandemic. I tried applying for another job since January and I have not received any responses. I am worried that I will not be able to pay my debts and bills at this rate.". | sys : (Others) Hello.
usr : Hello...
sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : I am quite stressed.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well I can definitely understand being stressed at this time.
usr : I can't believe that my hours were cut again at my current job.
sys : (Question) Why were they cut?
usr : Because of the pandemic, my boss is not generating enough money so they cut everyone's hours. I don't blame him but I am so frustrated at this whole thing.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can definitely understand your frustration. That is a big deal.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to him?
usr : I want to but I don't want to be fired or annoy them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure that you wouldn't annoy them. It's their job to talk to their employees.
usr : I just don't want to annoy them. Meanwhile, I am trying to get another job but no luck so far. :(
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you signed up for any job recruiting sites or consulted your state labor department office?
usr : Yep and unfortunately I still have not receive any response.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What about asking your neighbors if they need any help with child care or yard work?
usr : No one in the neighborhood has kids and everyone does their own yard work around my area.
| (Reflection of feelings) Wow. It sounds like you are really having a tough time. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so stressed and nervous about my hours being cut further due to the pandemic. I tried applying for another job since January and I have not received any responses. I am worried that I will not be able to pay my debts and bills at this rate.". | sys : (Others) Hello.
usr : Hello...
sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : I am quite stressed.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well I can definitely understand being stressed at this time.
usr : I can't believe that my hours were cut again at my current job.
sys : (Question) Why were they cut?
usr : Because of the pandemic, my boss is not generating enough money so they cut everyone's hours. I don't blame him but I am so frustrated at this whole thing.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can definitely understand your frustration. That is a big deal.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to him?
usr : I want to but I don't want to be fired or annoy them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure that you wouldn't annoy them. It's their job to talk to their employees.
usr : I just don't want to annoy them. Meanwhile, I am trying to get another job but no luck so far. :(
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you signed up for any job recruiting sites or consulted your state labor department office?
usr : Yep and unfortunately I still have not receive any response.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What about asking your neighbors if they need any help with child care or yard work?
usr : No one in the neighborhood has kids and everyone does their own yard work around my area.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Wow. It sounds like you are really having a tough time.
| (Question) What do you think the next step in finding new employment is? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so stressed and nervous about my hours being cut further due to the pandemic. I tried applying for another job since January and I have not received any responses. I am worried that I will not be able to pay my debts and bills at this rate.". | sys : (Others) Hello.
usr : Hello...
sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : I am quite stressed.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well I can definitely understand being stressed at this time.
usr : I can't believe that my hours were cut again at my current job.
sys : (Question) Why were they cut?
usr : Because of the pandemic, my boss is not generating enough money so they cut everyone's hours. I don't blame him but I am so frustrated at this whole thing.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can definitely understand your frustration. That is a big deal.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to him?
usr : I want to but I don't want to be fired or annoy them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure that you wouldn't annoy them. It's their job to talk to their employees.
usr : I just don't want to annoy them. Meanwhile, I am trying to get another job but no luck so far. :(
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you signed up for any job recruiting sites or consulted your state labor department office?
usr : Yep and unfortunately I still have not receive any response.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What about asking your neighbors if they need any help with child care or yard work?
usr : No one in the neighborhood has kids and everyone does their own yard work around my area.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Wow. It sounds like you are really having a tough time.
sys : (Question) What do you think the next step in finding new employment is?
| (Question) What are your options? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so stressed and nervous about my hours being cut further due to the pandemic. I tried applying for another job since January and I have not received any responses. I am worried that I will not be able to pay my debts and bills at this rate.". | sys : (Others) Hello.
usr : Hello...
sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : I am quite stressed.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well I can definitely understand being stressed at this time.
usr : I can't believe that my hours were cut again at my current job.
sys : (Question) Why were they cut?
usr : Because of the pandemic, my boss is not generating enough money so they cut everyone's hours. I don't blame him but I am so frustrated at this whole thing.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can definitely understand your frustration. That is a big deal.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to him?
usr : I want to but I don't want to be fired or annoy them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure that you wouldn't annoy them. It's their job to talk to their employees.
usr : I just don't want to annoy them. Meanwhile, I am trying to get another job but no luck so far. :(
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you signed up for any job recruiting sites or consulted your state labor department office?
usr : Yep and unfortunately I still have not receive any response.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What about asking your neighbors if they need any help with child care or yard work?
usr : No one in the neighborhood has kids and everyone does their own yard work around my area.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Wow. It sounds like you are really having a tough time.
sys : (Question) What do you think the next step in finding new employment is?
sys : (Question) What are your options?
usr : At this point, I don't know. I have thought about doing art commissions and selling them online but I don't know if my abilities are enough. Plus there is a lot of completion in the field.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds like a fantastic idea, and even if there is competition, there are still a lot of people that might buy your art from Etsy or Amazon. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so stressed and nervous about my hours being cut further due to the pandemic. I tried applying for another job since January and I have not received any responses. I am worried that I will not be able to pay my debts and bills at this rate.". | sys : (Others) Hello.
usr : Hello...
sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : I am quite stressed.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well I can definitely understand being stressed at this time.
usr : I can't believe that my hours were cut again at my current job.
sys : (Question) Why were they cut?
usr : Because of the pandemic, my boss is not generating enough money so they cut everyone's hours. I don't blame him but I am so frustrated at this whole thing.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can definitely understand your frustration. That is a big deal.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to him?
usr : I want to but I don't want to be fired or annoy them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure that you wouldn't annoy them. It's their job to talk to their employees.
usr : I just don't want to annoy them. Meanwhile, I am trying to get another job but no luck so far. :(
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you signed up for any job recruiting sites or consulted your state labor department office?
usr : Yep and unfortunately I still have not receive any response.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What about asking your neighbors if they need any help with child care or yard work?
usr : No one in the neighborhood has kids and everyone does their own yard work around my area.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Wow. It sounds like you are really having a tough time.
sys : (Question) What do you think the next step in finding new employment is?
sys : (Question) What are your options?
usr : At this point, I don't know. I have thought about doing art commissions and selling them online but I don't know if my abilities are enough. Plus there is a lot of completion in the field.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds like a fantastic idea, and even if there is competition, there are still a lot of people that might buy your art from Etsy or Amazon.
usr : You know what? I think I'll try it out. :)
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds like you have a plan. I know that you will do great. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so stressed and nervous about my hours being cut further due to the pandemic. I tried applying for another job since January and I have not received any responses. I am worried that I will not be able to pay my debts and bills at this rate.". | sys : (Others) Hello.
usr : Hello...
sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : I am quite stressed.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well I can definitely understand being stressed at this time.
usr : I can't believe that my hours were cut again at my current job.
sys : (Question) Why were they cut?
usr : Because of the pandemic, my boss is not generating enough money so they cut everyone's hours. I don't blame him but I am so frustrated at this whole thing.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can definitely understand your frustration. That is a big deal.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to him?
usr : I want to but I don't want to be fired or annoy them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure that you wouldn't annoy them. It's their job to talk to their employees.
usr : I just don't want to annoy them. Meanwhile, I am trying to get another job but no luck so far. :(
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you signed up for any job recruiting sites or consulted your state labor department office?
usr : Yep and unfortunately I still have not receive any response.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What about asking your neighbors if they need any help with child care or yard work?
usr : No one in the neighborhood has kids and everyone does their own yard work around my area.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Wow. It sounds like you are really having a tough time.
sys : (Question) What do you think the next step in finding new employment is?
sys : (Question) What are your options?
usr : At this point, I don't know. I have thought about doing art commissions and selling them online but I don't know if my abilities are enough. Plus there is a lot of completion in the field.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds like a fantastic idea, and even if there is competition, there are still a lot of people that might buy your art from Etsy or Amazon.
usr : You know what? I think I'll try it out. :)
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds like you have a plan. I know that you will do great.
| (Question) Is there anything else that I can help you with today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so stressed and nervous about my hours being cut further due to the pandemic. I tried applying for another job since January and I have not received any responses. I am worried that I will not be able to pay my debts and bills at this rate.". | sys : (Others) Hello.
usr : Hello...
sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : I am quite stressed.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well I can definitely understand being stressed at this time.
usr : I can't believe that my hours were cut again at my current job.
sys : (Question) Why were they cut?
usr : Because of the pandemic, my boss is not generating enough money so they cut everyone's hours. I don't blame him but I am so frustrated at this whole thing.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can definitely understand your frustration. That is a big deal.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to him?
usr : I want to but I don't want to be fired or annoy them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure that you wouldn't annoy them. It's their job to talk to their employees.
usr : I just don't want to annoy them. Meanwhile, I am trying to get another job but no luck so far. :(
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you signed up for any job recruiting sites or consulted your state labor department office?
usr : Yep and unfortunately I still have not receive any response.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What about asking your neighbors if they need any help with child care or yard work?
usr : No one in the neighborhood has kids and everyone does their own yard work around my area.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Wow. It sounds like you are really having a tough time.
sys : (Question) What do you think the next step in finding new employment is?
sys : (Question) What are your options?
usr : At this point, I don't know. I have thought about doing art commissions and selling them online but I don't know if my abilities are enough. Plus there is a lot of completion in the field.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds like a fantastic idea, and even if there is competition, there are still a lot of people that might buy your art from Etsy or Amazon.
usr : You know what? I think I'll try it out. :)
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds like you have a plan. I know that you will do great.
sys : (Question) Is there anything else that I can help you with today?
usr : I think that is it. Thank you for the encouragement. :)
| (Others) You're welcome! Have a nice day! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so stressed and nervous about my hours being cut further due to the pandemic. I tried applying for another job since January and I have not received any responses. I am worried that I will not be able to pay my debts and bills at this rate.". | sys : (Others) Hello.
usr : Hello...
sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : I am quite stressed.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well I can definitely understand being stressed at this time.
usr : I can't believe that my hours were cut again at my current job.
sys : (Question) Why were they cut?
usr : Because of the pandemic, my boss is not generating enough money so they cut everyone's hours. I don't blame him but I am so frustrated at this whole thing.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can definitely understand your frustration. That is a big deal.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried talking to him?
usr : I want to but I don't want to be fired or annoy them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure that you wouldn't annoy them. It's their job to talk to their employees.
usr : I just don't want to annoy them. Meanwhile, I am trying to get another job but no luck so far. :(
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you signed up for any job recruiting sites or consulted your state labor department office?
usr : Yep and unfortunately I still have not receive any response.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What about asking your neighbors if they need any help with child care or yard work?
usr : No one in the neighborhood has kids and everyone does their own yard work around my area.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Wow. It sounds like you are really having a tough time.
sys : (Question) What do you think the next step in finding new employment is?
sys : (Question) What are your options?
usr : At this point, I don't know. I have thought about doing art commissions and selling them online but I don't know if my abilities are enough. Plus there is a lot of completion in the field.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds like a fantastic idea, and even if there is competition, there are still a lot of people that might buy your art from Etsy or Amazon.
usr : You know what? I think I'll try it out. :)
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds like you have a plan. I know that you will do great.
sys : (Question) Is there anything else that I can help you with today?
usr : I think that is it. Thank you for the encouragement. :)
sys : (Others) You're welcome! Have a nice day!
usr : You too! :)
| (Others) Thanks! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I can't find a job since I've been staying home with children for so many years. I'm starting to feel a shame because I am having trouble paying bills.". | (Others) hello!! | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I can't find a job since I've been staying home with children for so many years. I'm starting to feel a shame because I am having trouble paying bills.". | sys : (Others) hello!!
usr : I can't find a job since I've been staying home with the children so many years and am so ashamed I can't pay my bills now.
| (Question) Do you lost your job because of pandemic |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I can't find a job since I've been staying home with children for so many years. I'm starting to feel a shame because I am having trouble paying bills.". | sys : (Others) hello!!
usr : I can't find a job since I've been staying home with the children so many years and am so ashamed I can't pay my bills now.
sys : (Question) Do you lost your job because of pandemic
usr : No, it's because I am a caregiver to my children for so many years and now people are like what experience do you have.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) yeah that's a bad situation it seems |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I can't find a job since I've been staying home with children for so many years. I'm starting to feel a shame because I am having trouble paying bills.". | sys : (Others) hello!!
usr : I can't find a job since I've been staying home with the children so many years and am so ashamed I can't pay my bills now.
sys : (Question) Do you lost your job because of pandemic
usr : No, it's because I am a caregiver to my children for so many years and now people are like what experience do you have.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) yeah that's a bad situation it seems
usr : Yes, I don't know how to begin as it is stressful
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) there are many companies that recruit freshers have a try on it |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I can't find a job since I've been staying home with children for so many years. I'm starting to feel a shame because I am having trouble paying bills.". | sys : (Others) hello!!
usr : I can't find a job since I've been staying home with the children so many years and am so ashamed I can't pay my bills now.
sys : (Question) Do you lost your job because of pandemic
usr : No, it's because I am a caregiver to my children for so many years and now people are like what experience do you have.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) yeah that's a bad situation it seems
usr : Yes, I don't know how to begin as it is stressful
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) there are many companies that recruit freshers have a try on it
usr : Where do I find them?
| (Information) there are many online recruiting websites in internet you can register yourself with those websites and have a try over local industries |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I can't find a job since I've been staying home with children for so many years. I'm starting to feel a shame because I am having trouble paying bills.". | sys : (Others) hello!!
usr : I can't find a job since I've been staying home with the children so many years and am so ashamed I can't pay my bills now.
sys : (Question) Do you lost your job because of pandemic
usr : No, it's because I am a caregiver to my children for so many years and now people are like what experience do you have.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) yeah that's a bad situation it seems
usr : Yes, I don't know how to begin as it is stressful
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) there are many companies that recruit freshers have a try on it
usr : Where do I find them?
sys : (Information) there are many online recruiting websites in internet you can register yourself with those websites and have a try over local industries
usr : I'm not sure if a recruiter works as well as a regular application. Do you have experience with one?
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) not me but my friend had an experience in that she registered in that website , she was called by a recruiter to attend recruitment process |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I can't find a job since I've been staying home with children for so many years. I'm starting to feel a shame because I am having trouble paying bills.". | sys : (Others) hello!!
usr : I can't find a job since I've been staying home with the children so many years and am so ashamed I can't pay my bills now.
sys : (Question) Do you lost your job because of pandemic
usr : No, it's because I am a caregiver to my children for so many years and now people are like what experience do you have.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) yeah that's a bad situation it seems
usr : Yes, I don't know how to begin as it is stressful
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) there are many companies that recruit freshers have a try on it
usr : Where do I find them?
sys : (Information) there are many online recruiting websites in internet you can register yourself with those websites and have a try over local industries
usr : I'm not sure if a recruiter works as well as a regular application. Do you have experience with one?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) not me but my friend had an experience in that she registered in that website , she was called by a recruiter to attend recruitment process
usr : That sounds like a possibility. I hope it would work for me.
| (Providing Suggestions) otherwise if yo had an idea of starting a small business it is more better joining a job |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I can't find a job since I've been staying home with children for so many years. I'm starting to feel a shame because I am having trouble paying bills.". | sys : (Others) hello!!
usr : I can't find a job since I've been staying home with the children so many years and am so ashamed I can't pay my bills now.
sys : (Question) Do you lost your job because of pandemic
usr : No, it's because I am a caregiver to my children for so many years and now people are like what experience do you have.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) yeah that's a bad situation it seems
usr : Yes, I don't know how to begin as it is stressful
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) there are many companies that recruit freshers have a try on it
usr : Where do I find them?
sys : (Information) there are many online recruiting websites in internet you can register yourself with those websites and have a try over local industries
usr : I'm not sure if a recruiter works as well as a regular application. Do you have experience with one?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) not me but my friend had an experience in that she registered in that website , she was called by a recruiter to attend recruitment process
usr : That sounds like a possibility. I hope it would work for me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) otherwise if yo had an idea of starting a small business it is more better joining a job
usr : I would love to do that. How do you start?
| (Information) there are many possibilities of starting a business. what we need is an innovative idea some amount for initial investment and many business can be started with minimum space like within home |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I can't find a job since I've been staying home with children for so many years. I'm starting to feel a shame because I am having trouble paying bills.". | sys : (Others) hello!!
usr : I can't find a job since I've been staying home with the children so many years and am so ashamed I can't pay my bills now.
sys : (Question) Do you lost your job because of pandemic
usr : No, it's because I am a caregiver to my children for so many years and now people are like what experience do you have.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) yeah that's a bad situation it seems
usr : Yes, I don't know how to begin as it is stressful
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) there are many companies that recruit freshers have a try on it
usr : Where do I find them?
sys : (Information) there are many online recruiting websites in internet you can register yourself with those websites and have a try over local industries
usr : I'm not sure if a recruiter works as well as a regular application. Do you have experience with one?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) not me but my friend had an experience in that she registered in that website , she was called by a recruiter to attend recruitment process
usr : That sounds like a possibility. I hope it would work for me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) otherwise if yo had an idea of starting a small business it is more better joining a job
usr : I would love to do that. How do you start?
sys : (Information) there are many possibilities of starting a business. what we need is an innovative idea some amount for initial investment and many business can be started with minimum space like within home
usr : That sounds very interesting and promising. I could also care for the kids still if needed.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) yeah that's good for you and also your children |
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