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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25M] with my Gf [24f] of nearly 3 years. I want to better myself but she can be really negative.
POST: For most of my life I've been fighting with depression. But for this last year, I've actively been trying to change, I'm sick of feeling this way and I really want to put the effo... | GF of 3 years is making me feel more like a care taker, then an equal partner in a relationship. I just don't know what to do anymore. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Invasion of Privacy at work among a host of other things.
POST: OK, this may take a bit but, I want to garner some advice for my friend here.
At work she made a friend, (well call him Jeff), after a few months being there. The more she got to know Jeff the more she learned about him and... | I guess, what should she do in the event that her privacy was compromised so badly at work, and the person suspected had been reported to HR several times with mental health issues and fear for her personal safety and that of Jeff? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (27F) boyfriend (36M) always bugs and kisses a stray cat that comes to our house even though it has fleas. I've found fleas in the house but he won't stop. Am I unreasonable?
POST: This may seem like a petty thing to post about but I'm really grossed out by it, so here goes.
A few ... | boyfriend keeps hugging and kissing cat with fleas and I found a flea on my arm twice and am grossed out by it and want him to stop, but feel like a crazy lady |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: BF (29/M) obsessed with Instagram models. Am I (27/f) being petty?
POST: On my phone, please forgive grammar and spelling errors.
Alright I can't believe I'm even asking this, I'll make it short. I've been with my boyfriend for a year. We have a great relationship although admittedly... | bf is obsessed with following IG models and liking their provocative photos. Someone tell me that it's petty and not a big deal. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Redditors from outside the United States, how does your country perceive marijuana?
POST: I'm wondering specifically about South America.
I have a friend that's from Peru and he frowns upon Marijuana. He is a certified doctor in Peru, Spain, and the United States. One of the things that ... | Friends from Peru & Chile see marijuana as a horrible thing but start drinking at a young age, friends from a different part of South America (Argentina & Uruguay) dont see anything wrong with it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [19M] crush on online friend [23F], don't know what to do.
POST: So let me give some general information first:
I have known the girl for some time and we have talked a lot, we can talk about ANYTHING it's like there's no boundary of what goes to far, we talked about her past re... | I have a crush on a online friend, she is in a relationship to, I am jealous and although there is a big distance between us I want to take my chances or I'm afraid I'll regret not trying. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Tips for making my [19 F] temporarily LDR [22 M, one year] last?
POST: We've been together a year and we've never been apart for more than a week at a time. He's studying abroad this semester, left the day after our one year anniversary, and it's *way* harder than I had imagined it wou... | Boyfriend went abroad and we barely get to talk anymore. It will be like this for a few weeks. I'm trying to keep busy, but I still feel really sad and lonely a few times a day. Any advice? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [M/22] needs advice on how to talk to my girlfriend of 7 months [F/20] about communication
POST: That title is awful and stupid but I hope you'll bear with me.
Ive been seeing this girl for about 7 months, and when we're together I can't stop giggling, everything is great. When we're ... | My girlfriend only pays attention to me when we're in the same room and I want to know how to ask her if we can do something about that. "Hey, text me more" isn't it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [28/m] and my [27/f] about to get engaged and discussing a quick civil marriage, then ceremony later.
POST: I [28/m] have been dating my [27/f] gf for just over two years, and we have been living together for just about a year. I've already spoken to her father about proposing (t... | Seeking advice on getting civilly married quickly (weeks) after getting engaged, and having the formal ceremony later (12 months) |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [31/m] Having issues with my girl friend (30/f) concerning if you love someone you should be allowed to be selfish about it. Whos in the right?
POST: So I had an argument the other night with my girlfriend and this always has been an issue in our relationship ( our relationship g... | Girlfriend wants to move out of state to pursue her career but everything I have is here ( home, family, career ). Is it wrong and selfish for me to tell her to stay for our relationship? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: my [16m] first serious relationship [17f - 2 years] has ended and no matter what i do i cannot get over it
POST: we went through kind of a rough breakup, we both have mental illnesses and honestly were not healthy for each other, about 3 or 4 days after we broke up she asked for me bac... | girlfriend of 2 years and i broke up -> started having sex because we're stupid -> stopped having sex -> i have no idea how to get over her |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, Will you help me? REWARD: Reddit Gold
POST: **Back Story:** My wife was involved in a traffic accident where she was backed into while sitting a stop light. The guy and his wife that backed into her were very nice and the cops showed up shortly after. The cops told my wife that ... | traffic accident, wife only got guys name and policy number, if you can find the insurance company I will donate reddit gold… |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by wearing too short of a skirt
POST: May not be as big as some of you guy's stories, but I'm here to share. I go to a public school with a kinda strict dress code. Khaki jeans/pants, skirts, or shorts. certain length of coarse. & a white or navy polo shirt. No hoodies/ sweatshirts allowed... | Wore skirt I hemmed too short to strict dress code public school, got talked about & stared at by girl students & office staff. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Asking a guy out
POST: So, I went to a concert last night and met a guy. He's a friend of a friend, we talked, made out, exchanged phone numbers, went our separate ways. Our mutual friend kept texting me to try to get me to go back out with them after the show (I went to a friend... | Met a guy, he's shy. Don't know how to peruse him without coming off as a psycho-stalker. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 M] anxious about meeting GF [23 F] parents for the first time
POST: Her parents are Chinese and very strict. I'm white like all her previous BF have been, which may very well be a deal breaker for her folks. She told me they "prefer" a Chinese boyfriend but I suspect it's not me... | My GF chinese parents always disapprove of her white boyfriends (I'm white) how can I win them over? I'm not above manipulation tactics and brainwashing techniques. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25m] don't feel particularly unhappy, but I feel heart achingly lonely every night and have done for the last 2 years
POST: I'm a 24 year old university student, about to graduate from a degree that I really enjoy. I have a lot of great things in my life. I have close friends, enjoy... | I have an objectively good life but feel so deeply lonely. I'm scared I'll never be independent, comfortable alone or non needy. |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: Going to break up with my BF of 1.5+ years in a couple days. Need advice/support.
POST: Throwaway because my bf knows my reddit account.
I (19/F) in an open LDR with my boyfriend (19/M) and it isn't working for me.
After my first date with another man, I confessed to him that I was in a... | Breaking up with my boyfriend because polyamory doesn't work for me. Worried that neither of us will take it well. I need help. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Hey Reddit, what are some tips for avoiding mistakes as a newbie composer/songwriter?
POST: I'm starting to plan how to propose to my girlfriend, and a long time ago she mentioned that when she was younger she fantasized about having a rock star propose to her in song (was friend-zoned at ... | I'm writing a song to propose to my girlfriend, and I need your help! Also, read the title. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] with my Girlfriend [24 F] 8 months, girlfriend overeating because i "look at girls", accusing me of lying.
POST: *
TL;DR: | Girlfriend thinks because I look at other people from time to time it means I don't love her/ Thinks I'm a liar for not telling her |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm a 24-year-old male who finds it near impossible to maintain relationships with....anyone, really...
POST: So I'm hoping this is the right place to put this. More of a general solicitation of advice with what I'd call a combination of persistent avoidance issues and interpersonal an... | I'm a 24-year-old with life-long avoidance issue and I'm hoping for some advice on what I can do to turn things around. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Roommate Issue, What Do I Do?
POST: My roommate and I are both female. I am 18, she is 22, and we have been living together in the college dorms since first semester (it is currently second semester). We are assigned roommates, so I didn't know her beforehand. She is a transfer student... | It's hotter than heck in my room and my roommate hates my fan because it's noisy. What should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [26 M] met a girl [21F] this past weekend, and asked her out on a date. I have never experienced such an age gap before and am wondering what to expect.
POST: So this past weekend my family and I had a party to celebrate and watch the big Mayweather vs. Pacquiao fight. We had quite a... | I'm 26, I met a girl who is 21 and have never dated someone 5 years younger than I. I am curious as to whether this is a weirdly large age gap and what I should expect. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: MY Finacé [26/f] Can't have sex atm, I [27/m] am being offered it elsewhere. Could I ever do this?
POST: 2 Years ago my Fiancé, lets call her Tammy, (together 7 years engaged 2) had an invasive medical procedure. It essentially means penetrative sex is very painful for her and we're ha... | My Fiancé and I aren't having meaningful sex, being offered sex from other source, good idea or not? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23f] and my ex [26m] had an abusive relationship, now starting to get back together.
POST: My ex and I dated on and off for about 3 years. We had a very rocky relationship complete with alcoholism, cheating, screaming fits, physical and emotional abuse. When things went too far I e... | Previously abusive ex isnt ready for a relationship but is somehow ready with the sex and doting on that comes with it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Friend got in situation and is really confused about how to approach it without hurting anyone.
POST: This bomb just got dropped on me today and I've been thinking all day on what to do, but it looks like I may need some help. It involves two of my roommates, PERSON A and PERSON ... | Friend (kinda) got with girl and still really likes her. Other friend got with same girl without knowing first friend did, but still wants to see her again, but doesn't want to upset first friend. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Running away or just being an idiot?
POST: I [22/F] have been dating [29/M] for a little over a year. It's been a really great but confusing relationship and things have only gotten more complicated. We started off casual and we've stayed, "open" since - as in we've agreed to foo... | Boyfriend dreams of moving away. Is he's trying to subtly let me out... like a cat... Or should I just see where this goes? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22F] with my ex [21 M] of one year has threatened to take legal action against me
POST: My ex and I have been broken up for nearly three years but we still kept our joint bank account and phone numbers. The account has his car insurance and payments deducted from it on a monthly ba... | Ex owes me money. I took it back from our joint bank account and closed it. He is now threatening legal action. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: When, if ever, should I (~24/f) tell my guy (25/m) about some of the more deranged fantasies I have?
POST: I have some very messed up fantasies to the point I don't think I enjoy sexual things very much unless some element of control, humiliation, power-play, rage, "force"-play, gender... | i have messed up fantasies/fetishes that i'd ideally want my man to be apart of but i highly suspect he would not be open to them. should i keep them to myself or tell him and risk freaking him out? |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: This girl drives me wild, but damn does she piss me off.
POST: So I've been talking to this girl for about a month. She is freaking amazing. We share a bunch of nerdy interests and she is really attractive. I love spending time with her and talking, but she really pisses me off sometimes.... | this girl is super amazing, but she has become kinda distant and boring lately. I'm afraid I'm gonna get strung around. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [20 M] girlfriend [19 F] of 2 years, has no idea what she wants to do in life (career wise), how important is knowing your goals for a relationship to last?
POST: I realize we are still young and we are both in college, but she has no idea what type of career she wants, and doesn't ... | How important is it for a couple to know what they individually want in life and to see if their goals are compatible? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by messing with Murphy
POST: For the past few weeks, I've been taking my stash of money with me everywhere I went, in the hopes that I'd buy a Vita with it in case I came across a GameStop or whatever sold it. My parents do not approve of such gaming, so I can't simply ask them to buy it f... | And I wouldn't be stuck in the middle of nowhere too, if it weren't for that meddling Murphy's Law. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Filing quarterly taxes - worried I'm getting screwed...
POST: Regular on r/pf, throwaway due to lots of financial information.
For the past few years, my taxes have been a bit weird/different and I've had my parent's accountant help me file my taxes. She's given me advice that I've... | I don't know enough to check my accountant's math, but it doesn't seem right to me. help? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by dropping some wooden boxes
POST: This happened in 2006 but I figured it was bad enough to be included.
Back when I was at 6th form college I was part of the theatre set building team, the college had an old hall that was used as a theatre and they had just employed a new stage manager,... | Dropped a huge wooden box onto a tub of paint, nearly destroyed up to £4000 worth of hired gear and costumes |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Having an odd problem and looking for some guidance from my favorite weight loss community
POST: So here's the skinny... Or maybe the not so skinny:
I started my weight loss journey about a month ago. I lost 7 pounds so far. My process is to eat around 1,000 calories a day and exercise (card... | Plateauing very early in my weight loss journey; eating very low calorie due to gallbladder dysfunction; looking for help on any end of these issues that anyone can give. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Ever been attacked by a stray dog/coyote/wolf? How did you handle it?
POST: On the way to school when I was younger (about 13) I got bit in the leg by a medium sized dog. After getting bit I pushed him off with my backpack where luckily he then lost interest in me.
Another time (more rec... | Had a couple of encounters with strays, wondering what the best way to handle a stray is if it attacks you. Thanks. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: (Advice) I (M21) don't feel like I'm good enough for my (F20) girlfriend. What can I do?
POST: Been in a relationship with my gf for about 5 months. And I've been having issues getting her to orgasm etc etc, the sex is fine but I feel like I'm useless as I'm not exactly hung like a hor... | need tips/help for my sex life as I feel 6 inches doesn't satisfy her and I don't have much experience. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [26m] have evidence of some shady behavior of my gf[26], and I need a fresh perspective/advice.
POST: I will try to keep this (complex) story as simple as possible, yet detailed.
My girlfriend of almost 3 years has been gone for about 5months out of a country for work. It was rough,... | My girlfriend was messing around with some guy while abroad, a kiss may have occurred, and I am confused what to do next. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by peeing in the shower
POST: Oh boy, what a morning I had..
So a little backstory for my story is as follows. I (25 m) travel a lot for work and am constantly in hotel rooms and hotel bars and usually I am alone. This week I was lucky in the fact that I had a young female co-worker from ... | Sex with co-worker, went to shower, didn't lock door, started to pee in shower, co-worker joined me by surprise, peed on her leg. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: A classmate of mine from elementary school was recently killed. His mom has requested to meet me (22f) over Xmas. What should I do/say?
POST: Hi r/relationships, I wish I was coming for advice in a better situation
Earlier today I spoke with my dad who informed me of the death of a c... | a friend/classmate from childhood who liked me was recently killed. His mom wants to meet me. Advice and words of wisdom appreciated. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [24f] boyfriend [27m] may have just broken up with me?
POST: I've [24f] known for a few months that my boyfriend, [27m] of 3 years, has been depressed. I, myself, have been on antidepressants for a while. I made him an appointment at our doctor when I first found out he was depresse... | My [24f] depressed boyfriend [27m] of 3 years just told me he has to force himself not to make me leave him so that he can be depressed by himself. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: my [16 F] crush told me she loves my best friend [18m]. Me [18m]
POST: For clarity, here are the fake names il be using: Me: John, My best friend: Alex, Her: Kim.
Also. 16 is the legal age in my country, and hers. Kim lives 2 countries away
So I met kim while playing an online game ca... | Met girl playing league, we really hit it off, lots on interests, but when im about to confess, she says shes in love with my best friend, and that their feelings are mutual. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Apartment-mate advice
POST: Hi Reddit.
I live w/ my fiance and two other guys. The two guys share a room. Guy 1 made these dumplings that smelled like rotting meat or moldy cheese. It smelled so bad I left the common area to go to the room I share w/ my fiance, and almost puked. The whole... | how to get rid of extremely pungent rancid meat smell? how to politely tell guys to stop peeing on the bathroom floor/what to avoid when discussing this so roommates don't get mad? |
SUBREDDIT: r/travel
TITLE: "Here are some pics from my trip" [50 total.] I love seeing travel pics, but less is more--give 5 highlight pics first and another link to the rest
POST: I thought this was just me who felt this way, but after talking with a couple of other people, I realized it's not, so I thought I'd say so... | Less is more. Give us a few highlights and a link to more pics, or at least write the number of pics in your gallery in the title of the post. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Just have a question about older twenty yr. old guy dating habits
POST: Hi there, I'll try to make this short. I've had absolutely terrible dating luck in my 20 years, so I joined some dating sites. On the newest site I joined, I got a message from a guy (I'm female) and we started tal... | Went on date with 28 yr. old guy, I am 20. Hit it off, and are both looking forward to meeting again. He appears to not be into texting, is this normal for older guys? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: We (20f and 21m) broke up 2 and half weeks ago. He already slept with another. I am pretty upset.
POST: We were dating for 2 years and a few months. We started a regular relationship but around an year and half into it, he moved to Germany to study, so we were long distance until our b... | My bf and I broke up a couple of weeks ago. He already slept with another woman and I am really heartbroken about it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: r/TIFU by finding out my boyfriend's father had an affair
POST: I live with my boyfriend (M24) and his parents while we are saving for our own place. I was looking for an envelope in the storage room and came across a notebook. Being nosy, I opened it and began reading the first random page it ... | Read boyfriend's mother's diary from 14 years ago and found out boyfriend's father had a year-long affair with a much younger woman. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm (23f) losing sexual attraction to my bf (23m) or 5 years and I want it back.
POST: To keep it short- we have tons in common, get along great, have fun together, live together, etc. but I can't get past this.
I started losing interest in sex gradually after we had been dating for a... | Perfect relationship, but I have almost completely lost sexual attraction. I want to know how to get it back, or is this the end of the road for us? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: How to cope with a out-of-the-blue "break"? [20/F] & [20/M]
POST: Backstory, we started dating in high school and we made it through our first year of college. He [20/M] ended up going to a school 100 miles away but we made the distance work. We saw each other every 3rd week, fac... | My [20/F] boyfriend [20/M] of 1.5 years decided he wasn't ready to settle down and called for a "break" out-of-the-blue. Any advice? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: a question for fellow guys, kinda NSFW text
POST: So im a pretty normal sized guy downstairs, but one day, a "good friend" of mine and I start messing around, and when i pulled out my dick, it seriously surprised me.It was bigger both in length and girth. At first i thought it was just all... | messed around with a girl, dick got noticeably larger than normal, is there something that some guys can do to get bigger? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: This girl [25F] thinks her and I [24M] are dating. How do I let her down easy?
POST: Met her on OKCupid. I didn't really like her profile or anything but as a 24 year old guy I want to meet as many people as possible to build some perspective and experience.
On our first date we met ... | After two dates a girl thinks we're already dating but I'm not interested. I need an advice on how to let her down easily. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[17f] can't control my temper with my sister[12f] and often end up emotionally hurting her...help?
POST: I honestly am sick of myself, I've never had issues with controlling my temper before, It's only with her. She is very hard-headed like me and when we get into arguments neither of... | I emotionally abuse my sister in arguments and I feel like I made her develope a form of depression. how do I fix it and control my anger? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by attacking the leader of the drum line with cymbals
POST: So a few years ago, as a freshman, I had to do something called "Pep Band". It was a requirement for all band students where you just go to a school basketball game and play music with the rest of the band. There was this brass ki... | I attacked a well known senior as a freshman because I mistaked him for an annoying dickbutt. I then ended up being the annoying dickbutt. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [M18] attracted to my friend's [M18] girlfriend [F18]
POST: I have a friend who has been dating a girl for about a year. Before they started dating, I was friends with both of them, and I was happy for them.
It has become apparent, however, that he doesn't really seem to care abou... | I'm attracted to my friend's girlfriend. He's not a good boyfriend and I don't know what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Dear reddit all of my closest friends have rekindled friendships with my ex who I hate after years of no contact. I don't want to loose my friends, but I don't want to share them with that bitch either. What can I do?
POST: We split up like 5 years ago after a 6.5 year relationship. The la... | My friends are being hypocrites by hanging with my ex and I cannot accept them being friends with her. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [16/M] mother [40+/F] slapped me over communication issues
POST: My mother got angry today morning that I wasn't communicating properly with her.
I agree that I was not being the best at communicating and was not really talking to her all that much this week because I had a lot of... | Mother hit me today for the first time in years over a small issue. Parents have been trying to get me to forgive and forget. How do I distance myself slowly? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, what are some mind games and tricks you like to play on people? Examples inside.
POST: There's a game that requires one partner to play in order to fuck with peoples' minds. It's called "cahoots." You start by asking your partner if you're in cahoots. Your partner will tell you yes... | Reddit, what mind games, brain games, or verbal puzzle games do you know and like to play, and confuse and aggravate people with? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Love at first sight, she says
POST: So I met a girl, she asked me out, I'm 17 (m) years old and I recently asked her if she wanted to be my girl and she said yes. one super mega socially akward first-kiss later, I am typing this.
I have a feeling that its going too fast, and I also ha... | girl says it was love at first sight, I'm not sure if its going too fast and I have a feeling that I disappoint her with every step I take. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What the thing your body does that annoys you the most? I'll go first...
POST: If im in a hurry and need to take a shit, ill decide to pull the trigger on it depending on the importance of where im headed, and varying degrees of comfort. But sometimes holding it is impossible thus I have ... | Why when I take a shit when something important is going on does it takes half a roll, but when nothing is going on ill wipe and nothing will come off on the paper. This annoys the fuck out of me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My[33F] best friend[31F] is lying to the guy she is seeing[30sM] and I want to tell him.
POST: So long story short my friend used to be married to a real asshole and she stuck it out way longer than she should have. During the breakdown of her marriage she met another guy and they star... | My best friend is lying to her new guy and I think it's wrong; should I tell him and how do I tell him? |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Missed a potential job offer call earlier today. Already called and left a message hours ago. No call back yet. What do I do?
POST: I had an interview yesterday and they told me they'd update me by the end of the day today. I got a call from an out of state number before my lunch around 11:25 a... | Missed call with update about a job I interviewed for. Returned call and left a message. No word back after 5 hours. Should I call again? |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: Does anyone have any GOOD experiences after being broken up with; with SO wanting to stay friends?
POST: I'm[22m] just curious, I'm kind of in the end-zone of healing from a break-up (which you can find in my posts, if you're curious)... she[19f] left me for the sake of wanting to spend mor... | I've never had a healthy break-up until this one and just ended up rage-NCing previous girls, burning the fucking bridge. I can't help but wonder if she's worth keeping as a friend? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] with my friend [20 F]. Do I give time?
POST: So recently I've been falling for one of my very good friends. I haven't connected with a girl like this before. She recently got out of a long term relationship however. We drunkenly made out about a week ago and she said it felt ... | Long term friend suggests waiting over a relationship with me. Can't tell if she needs time or is just putting off a rejection |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I don't know where to go with this relationship, and i don't want to screw up a friendship
POST: I work with a girl, she just turned 24 not to long ago, and i m 20, soon to be 21. We hangout together all the time and we have been on multiple unofficial dates (hangout, i buy dinner, wat... | A girl [24F] that I [20M] am friends with is giving some signs of liking me but we also work together and i want to see if she likes me without screwing up the relationship we currently have. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23 M] got recently broken up with by GF [21 F] and am struggling
POST: I know some of of you may read the title and go, 7 months? Try 5 years kid! But truth be told is that I loved this girl so dearly. She loved me back. It's just the balance with a serious relationship weighed on h... | gf of 7 months ended it with me, needed a rebalance in life, wasn't ready for a serious relationship. i'm bummin. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23 F] found some underage pictures on boyfriend's [26 M] [6 yrs] computer, not sure how to feel about it.
POST: So my boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years now, been living together for almost 4. I admit to having trust issues from things he's done in the past. I used to sn... | Found some underage pictures on boyfriends computer. I feel really weirded out by it, not sure what to do or how I should bring it up. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Going in to negotiate for my first "executive" position... what should I ask for?
POST: A 10 month-old start-up is looking at bringing me on as "Director of IT", aka "The only geek on staff". I've developed several programs for them already (for which I need to [figure out the license](
T... | I'm terrified that I'm about to put a ton of hours into a new job and get sacked as soon as all their systems work. Help? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I (F 24) break up with my partner (M 22) of 3 years because over the last 6 months he has acted violently towards me?
POST: Today we were having an argument. I was yelling and he forcefully pushed me in the stomach. Not enough to put me on the floor but enough to make me stop ar... | Is it valid to end a 3 year relationship because recently my partner becomes somewhat violent when we are arguing/disagreeing? |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: College student (18) moving out and becoming financially independent by summer 2014. Where do I start?
POST: I wish I could say it was by choice, but either way, I have to get something figured out. I grew up in an abusive household, an environment I'm still in, but it has been decid... | 6 months to become financially independent and move to Orlando to continue school. Advice/direction needed. Also, any advice on schooling (scholarships, grants I could use, ect.) would be great as well. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by being greedy
POST: This actually happened 30 minutes ago.
I'm a (cigarettes) smoker and live in a country where cigarettes are expensive as hell. As I often travel to Asia for business I often bring back a few cartons (allowance is one). Since I'm the business travel type of suit-wear... | brought more smokes than allowed, 2/3 got confiscated and I got fined for being greedy when choosing a replacement trolley for damaged one. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Why is it called the Middle East?
POST: Iran, Syria, Iraq, Afghanistan, Pakistan, Turkmenistan, Turkey, Jordan, Israel, Palestine, Egypt, Oman, Yemen, UAE, Qatar, etc.
All countries above are apart of the Middle East, a part of Asia which is located in the Eastern Hemisphere. Now, why is... | why is it called the Middle East when not only is it not 'middle of the eastern hemisphere' but also an oxymoron? |
SUBREDDIT: r/running
TITLE: Was this a jerk move?
POST: I was running 12 miles with a pack of 5 over the weekend as part of a club training program. We are all in the same pace group and we were supposed to run the same moderate pace throughout. By that I mean the program head recommended a pace and advises us not to g... | Do you guys ever break away from your running buddies? (Assuming your running abilities are the around the same) Do they understand? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets
TITLE: Stray Kitten at Home. Want to Adopt. Need help.
POST: Y'see, there's this cute tiny stray kitten at home. She likes to stay under my mom's ice cream freezer. Mom doesn't like her under there. Another problem is that there's one other adult stray cat - I once gave a fish head to the kitten and t... | stray kitten, need to relocate cat, but need to confine cat to tiny space. and how do i train her to use a litterbox? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (25/F) am selfish in bed...but only when I sleep.
POST: Relationships, I have a weird dilemma on my hands, that is 25 years in the making.
I am an asshole in bed. The queen of assholes. It all started when I was a kid, about 7 years old and 40lbs soaking wet. My mom never liked shar... | I am the worst person to share a bed with, and I am the queen of assholes when it comes to personal space and sharing blankets when I sleep. Halp. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [32/f] My boyfriend [38/m] only says I love you during sex (a little NSFW)
POST: Sorry in advance for the long back story but think it might help understand the situation. I met my boyfriend about 2 months ago. He lives across the country and we recently met up and totally hit it... | ] Boyfriend only says I love you during sex and I'm concerned he is using it to turn himself on and isn't being sincere. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24F] have a huge crush on my friend [26M] but am in no way attracted to him physically.
POST: My boyfriend of 6 years died 11 months ago and I without entirely knowing what was happening I entered into a downward spiral of depression. After finally getting on antidepressants a month... | I [24F] have a huge crush on my friend [26M] but am in no way attracted to him physically. Should I just let it go? |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: How to position a LinkedIn profile after being laid off?
POST: Long story short - Was working remotely full-time for a Bay Area startup. Missed a round of funding, and in order to float the company for a few more months and to finish important product development updates, had to do a bunch of l... | Startup going under, got laid off, trying to figure out how I should show on my LinkedIn that I'm interested in new opportunities and that I wasn't fired from said startup. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [20M] really like this girl [19F] who has a boyfriend but flirts with me constantly.
POST: I met her on a trip with our school's math club last semester and we really hit it off. She brought up her boyfriend a couple times not long after we met, but it was only to complain abou... | I really, really like this girl, but she has a boyfriend, but she doesn't seem happy with him on the rare occasion that she actually mentions him, and she flirts with me constantly. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets
TITLE: Declawing advice!
POST: I have a 1 yr old polydactyl cat that has 9 toes on one front paw, 8 on the other and 10 on each back foot. We've had her about 9 months.
Her little monster paws have issues with ingrown claws. We clip her twice a week but they still turn in and the vet said it would b... | poly cat has medical need for 3 claws to be removed, should we do rest while she's under and what are consequences typically behaviorally? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Hey Reddit, I'm thinking about adopting a cat and need some advice first.
POST: Background information: My fiance's dad has become really sick and can no longer take care of their cat. Unfortunately her roommate is allergic to cats, and so is everyone in my family, therefore I am the only ... | Adopting a cat, is it okay for me to leave enough food and water out for two days or will this be harmful to the cat? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [18 M] I'm worried about a type of personal problem I have with dating
POST: I'm not new to relationships, I've had quite a few. And I've liked them a lot. I've even been in love with a girl or so before. But there is an issue.
My first few highschool relationships were definitely bad... | Halfway into a relationship I'll lose all feelings I have for a person. No matter how strong. It worried me It may happen again or I may not experience a real, meaningful long lasting relationship. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 F] with my ex [18 F] of 2 months, she can't move on from me
POST: I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 3 months. I broke up with her because I became depressed and lost interest and motivation in her. I have already moved on, but she believes we still have something.
She s... | Broke up with my girlfriend because I was depressed, I have moved on but she still texts me begging me to come back. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (22M) cheated on my girlfriend (22F) and am desperate to repair it.
POST: We were dating for about 3 months when she left for a trip to study abroad for 4 months. We said before she left that we were going to stick it out and stay together. While she was gone for about two weeks, I m... | Was a terrible boyfriend to the best girl in the world and now I want to do everything I can to start new and fix it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 M] been with my GF [21 F] 10 months, GF is moving to another city soon, big decision to make
POST: GF and I have been dating for about 10 months with a good chunk of that in an LDR as she has been studying abroad. She will be moving to NYC when she finishes undergrad (for her jo... | GF will be moving in a few months to a city I can't afford. She offered to move in together when it happens. I think its too soon, but can't think of another option, don't know what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [21m] feeling excluded by my roommates/friends
POST: I've known my roommates for almost 2 years now. We are all in college and met when we were sophomores and living on campus. We've been living together since August, and I feel left out. When they go and do stuff, they won't invite me... | Roommates are making plans to go out right in front of me and then not even bothering to invite me, feeling excluded. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: Weighing the options of getting some clarity. One week broken up.
POST: My ex and I were dating about two months. At the beginning she was always saying how lucky she felt. I felt lucky too, but I didn't always say it. Didn't feel I needed to say it. Things feel great. Going well. We have p... | Girlfriend of two months broke up with me a week ago seemingly out of the blue. Trying to figure out if and how I should contact for clarity. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: G/F and I broke up and IDK how to deal with it.
POST: M24 F20
I just broke up with my girlfriend and I feel hopelessly depressed. I wish there was a way to feel better. I don't know how I'm supposed to do anything when all I feel like doing is crying. She left for the summer ... | Started long distance relationship last week. Almost zero communication since. Lost my cool and got in fight. Now we are broken up and I'm feeling fucked up. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [22/F] Met an awesome guy (22/m) when drunk, said I was French because I thought I would never see him again. Now he wants to go on a date!
POST: First off, I'm fluent in French and all of my friends are French. I lived in France for two years, was a French linguistics major, and... | Met a guy at a bar, hit it off with him but I lied when I first met him and said I was French thinking I would never see him again. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: I am a high school varsity soccer player (football for you nerds in foreign lands), I have doubts about my motivation. HELP ME D:
POST: Okay, so to start things off this is not the first time I have had motivation/ambition issues. Last year (as a freshman, I am a sophomore now) I was offered ... | idk if motivated to play varsity soccer, do i lead team on being unmotivated, or quit and get ridiculed and anger my parents? 36 hours from now I must decide. hit me |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [18/M] suddenly obsessed with Tinder, seeming to base my happiness off of it?
POST: So I recently became obsessed with tinder after getting out of a relationship, and I'm honestly just looking for some hookups to help me get over it.
I get a decent amount of matches [F], about se... | I'm obsessed with Tinder, but don't have a whole lot of luck using it. Starting to base my happiness on tinder messages/matches. Help!!! |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Dog Park Skateboard Justice
POST: I was leaving the dog park this afternoon, at about dust, with my dog on his leash. The entrance to the park is a pretty decent size hill with a few twists and turns, so visibility isn't that great.
All of the sudden, this ~15 year old kid comes FLYING ... | Stupid skateboarding kid flies recklessly down winding trail at a dog park and his skills can't stop him from taking a huge digger. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [24M] "succeed" at being single.
POST: I am, and always have been, a serial monogamist. I got into my first relationship in freshman year of HS, was with her for 18 months. Then dated another girl for half a year, then was with my first long-term SO for 7 years. We broke up... | Serial monogamist wants to be happy single and curb an inconvenient and growing attraction for a non-single co-worker. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 F] with my colleague [29 M] that I have a crush on, problem: My father is our boss.
POST: As the title says.. I have a problem.
I have a crush on this guy that works for my dad, since I first saw him about a year ago. I started working for my dad back in November and I always ... | I have feelings for my colleague and can see myself with him but my father is our boss and Im scared of might happen. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Facing disciplinary action for my partners plagiarism... thoughts?
POST: I'll try and keep this short...
Had a lengthy report due for my college writing class that was a partner project worked on throughout the semester. After turning it in my partner and I receive emails from the instruc... | Partner on a final term paper plagiarized, won't own up. Instructor doesn't want me punished... probably will be anyways. Thoughts? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by leaving my blanket outside.
POST: So, I went to bed last night with the intention of doing laundry once I woke up. Well, when I woke up I didn't have the energy to get out of bed so I ended up falling asleep again. Fast forward an hour and I'm on my way out the door because I'm going to... | woke up late, put my blanket outside, brought it inside after many hours, didn't check it properly. It had a family of worms on it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Does anyone have any advice for dating someone who has a child when you are childless?
POST: Here's a quick backstory. I have been single for a year since my last relationship which was three years long. We were planning on getting married but she dumped me and it was a bad breakup. I ... | I am falling for someone who has a child while I am childless and am worried I am in over my head. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Ladies of Reddit, what do you want to happen when you constantly make awkward eye contact with a younger guy at a party?
POST: Tonight I went with my older friend to a party with his friends. I'm only 19 and the people at this house had to have all been at least 24+. I'm a nervous guy with... | I'm a pussy, what do women want young shy men to say when they know they should go talk to them? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by making a cop's wife think her life was in danger
POST: As with so many TIFUs, it wasn't today, but when I was a young, innocent, stupid middle schooler. My father had just returned from a business trip and brought me something that was shortly going to catch on in a big way: a laser p... | Middle school me playing with a laser pointer accidentally made a cop's wife think her murder was imminent and made her husband rush home to save her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU By going to work on time
POST: So I work as a low level manager at a pharmacy chain and I go to work regularly on Saturdays from 2-10. Usually I come in late because I am friends with the manager that works the morning shift and they don't mind that I am a bit late now and again. Today I... | Went to work early store is in chaos and if I hadn't gone would have witness hostage situation in my front lawn. |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: In honour of reaching the 10lbs lost mark, I made a flowchart with my very own super-advanced patented (not really) strategy for not eating.
POST: [DrDerpberg's super-awesome Procrastineating Strategy^TM !](
This flowchart is somewhere between my typical daily eating strategy (namely, delayi... | Hungry? Try doing stuff -> drink stuff -> eat good stuff -> lift stuff (exercise) -> eat bad stuff in extremely limited quantities and only within your budget. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 M] and my (now ex) girlfriend [19 F] live in different cities for summer, found out she's been lying
POST: So, I had a girlfriend for 6 months at university, but we live in different cities over the summer. We agreed it'd be best if we broke up over the summer, since it's 4 mont... | broke up with girlfriend, she got pissed at me for seeming like I moved on, turns out she was fucking some guy all along. Help with how to deal with this. |
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