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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How wrong was it for me[26 m] to tell my crush[21 f] I'm leaving my GF for her?
POST: Throwaway because I'm dumb
I have hinted at breaking up with my GF but yesterday I finally said that it was my intention. My crush told me "Not to" and hasn't said anything to me since.
I'm not sur... | Told a crush I have been talking to that I want to leave my GF for her. She's stopped talking to me since and I'm not sure what she's thinking. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [NON-ROMANTIC] 19M clueless on what to do with 16F
POST: A little context is needed so before I start, here's a little back story:
During my senior year in high school, I was part of a program where seniors helped incoming freshman adjust to high school life and help them with a... | What's a non romantic date idea for two people who have no romantic interests in each other? If it helps, we're in NYC. Thanks! |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Need some advice on what to do next
POST: I've been together with this girl for about three months now and it has actually been going really well. We met at work, went out partying and it went pretty straight forward since then.
One problem is that she lives 30 kms from my place and since... | My gf made out with her ex-gf last night and begs for forgiveness and says she isn't really interested in girls anymore but that she really missed me and wants our relationship to work. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Should I file for unemployment even if I don't need it right now? (In California)
POST: I'm unemployed, but it's not through any fault of my own. I was working as a temp, and my boss let me go because he mismanaged his budget and didn't have enough money to keep me on.
Anyway, about me...I'm... | I have 4-5 months money for food/gas/rent. Is it wrong for me to start getting unemployment benefits now? Will it be taking away from other people who need it more? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: College relationships and distance.
POST: I [20M] am considering asking out a girl [30F] from my hometown soon. The problem is that I will. Be returning to school in about a month, and I will have to remain there for a pretty long time. The distance is drivable (it's about 60 miles, so... | I want to start dating someone from my hometown, but I will be going back to school about an hour away. I don't really know what it's like to date someone I am not living near. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What are some of the worst weeks you've experienced in your life? (I'll start)
POST: Two weeks ago, my Grandma died. Being Jewish, I went home from college to be with my family for the full mourning session (which is a week after the funeral in which we sit Shiva). The grief and depression... | My Grandma died. I missed school and am insanely stressed with all the work I have to catch up on. I'm also moving. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18m] started working where my middle school crush [18f] works, I think I just got feelings for her again.
POST: We both had crushes on each other but nothing ever really happened from it. Even this entire summer at work I never did anything but that was because I just didn't really ... | I'm working with my middle school crush, got some feelings back for her, she may or may not have a boyfriend and we are going to college very soon. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Why do women have a neediness for a first love??
POST: I was curious if there was any content/articles and wanted opinions on what seems to me like a female need to be with the first guy they're intimate with..Ive personally seen and been on both sides of this before and it seems appar... | Why do women always have a thing for the first love they have..My ex has spent years hating on me on social media, despite having a boyfriend, what I did years ago seems to be her biggest issue |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [31 M] still have feelings for ex-gf [30 F] after being broken up for 9 months, but she has basically let herself go.
POST: Basically gf and I tried to do long distance and had been dating for 1.5 years, but I broke it off due to a variety of reasons in January. One of those reasons (n... | Began talking to ex-gf again, saw her, she put on more weight and isn't near a physically attractive. Completely killed my desire for her but still love her. Need advice!! |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: what drives you to create?
POST: It should be noted I have been diagnosed with ADHD but I have no insurance for medication.
In the last 4 years I've felt so uncreative and the desire to create has been overshadowed by an overwhelming sense of just trying to get by and live life. It kills ... | I lost my drive to be creative and am wondering if the drive to be creative is a natural thing or if others who succeed in staying motivated are plagued with the same struggles I have. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: My Job is Not a Priority in my Department
POST: I work in user experience in a department that designs software.
As some background, they lack people with design/implementation skills, so I either have to do all of that too or heavily criticize the attempts of others (neither are good f... | This department is so bent on delivering that they deliver badly. Now they're terrified of losing their jobs, so they're all trying to push out another garbage piece of software to replace our old garbage piece of software. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [28, M] don't know how to tell my friend [32, M] that he has a body odor problem
POST: M and I have been mates for at least 15 years. He plays a lot of indoor sport and comes off the court smelling pretty nasty. However he's always just been a sweaty guy.
My other friends and I (... | Friend has had BO problems for years and no-one has directly confronted him about it. Now it's affecting me and those I hang with. How do I tell him in a way that isn't offensive but is supportive and constructive? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: If we delete a Reddit username... What happens?
POST: I'm very curious how this is handled.
Are the [deleted] names indexed by search still? As an example, if _deleted was a username that went through Reddit's deletion process, and I googled that, would the post that got 5,000 karma unde... | I really just want to know what happened to the account i subscribed in /r/gonewild to and if my OAXG can find it with the power of google. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: She [F22] is cheating on her boyfriend of three years with me [M21], but is procrastinating ending their dying relationship.
POST: I began working with "Jessica" several months ago. I learned of her three year boyfriend and was surprised when she asked for my number. The first few time... | She is cheating but has still not broken up with him after almost five months of seeing each other. Is there any hope? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girl [20/F] I've [22/M] been talking to is backing off cause her ex [20?/M] started talking to her
POST: I've met this girl through online and I've chat with her for about 10 days or so. We really hit it off and she seems to enjoy everything I like. We made plans to hang out once she c... | Girl's ex started texting her a couple days ago, now she wants to stop talking to me and think about how she feels. What can I do to get one chance with her? |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Just pick up and leave.
POST: To be clear this is not coming from some depressive phase or gloomy short term mood. I have had my fits of depression and fought through them, I am far beyond my days of hating myself. Over the past year or so I have taken a step back and evaluated myself and... | I want to pack up and leave one night without telling anyone. Just moving around from area to area meeting people and experiencing everything the world has to offer. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: We live far away and i feel like shit [M19]
POST: so I [19M] met a girl[19] last semester at a large university I attend. We hit it off and exchanged numbers, but did not do anything the night we met. We have been constantly texting for the last few months, and even the occasional face... | met a girl who is interested me, been talking over text for months, have developed feelings, relationship is not plausible at the moment, don't know what to do |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Follow-up to my bank hitting us with $300 in overdraft fees.
POST: Follow-up to [this post](
Brief overview: Student loan payment was double posted in error (the FASFA loan site's fault), my bank capitalized on it by reordering our transactions to maximize overdraft fees.
My wife talked ... | Being nice to the manager got me nowhere, being borderline abusive got me 1/3 of my fees back. It felt really good to call her on her bullshit. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [23F] struggling to keep in touch with my partner [25M] while I am 3000 miles away, what can I do?
POST: I've been dating an otherwise great guy over the past few months, so the relationship is still relatively new, but I feel like there are some stumbling blocks.
I have travelled ove... | Travelled 3000 miles away for 3 weeks to spend the festive period, and it feels like boyfriend isn't really interested anymore. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me(24/f) 9 months post break-up, wondering when I'll quit feeling so apathetic towards dating
POST: I'm a frequent lurker and poster here, so I'm hoping you guys can help me out. I went through a really shitty breakup about 9 months back, there were some semi-traumatizing aspects to it... | Want to date, am good at dating, but also feel completely apathetic and disinterested in guys and dating. Getting irritated with myself. |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Lets give this one final go...
POST: Hey Loseit!
I am a long time lurker. Your stories have been a big inspiration over the past year to try to make myself a better me. Unfortunately I have a terrible habit of giving up before seeing any results. I feel this is due to the lack of support an... | I want to enjoy life again. I am posting here in front of all of you to make me feel more accountable to return to you in a year as a whole new person. Thanks for the community, r/loseit! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [23 F] with my [25 F] sister told me she was pregnant today and wants to keep the baby.
POST: My sister is an ex-heroin addict and has multiple warrants for her arrest, she has never taken care of herself before, unless you count stealing stuff for drug money or prostituting herself... | Completely irresponsible sister wants to have a baby, need advice on how to persuade her not to become a mother right now. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 M] with [19 F] hook-up. Said I would call but don't want to. What is the right thing to do?
POST: Basically had a fun drunken night which led to making-out and her sleeping over with girl I met that night, no sex but "stuff". I got her number and told her "I have your number" su... | Hook-up with much younger girl. Said I'd follow-up but don't want to. No interest in anything more. What's the right thing to do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (23 M) so of 2 years (20 F) that I have sacrificed everything for started sleeping with another man. I can't eat or sleep. I need help sleeping. What do I do.
POST: I really don't want to tell our whole story... But lets just say I took care of this girl and made her life significan... | Girl that I love and sacrificed everything for started fucking another guy. Can't sleep. Need to sleep. Help me sleep. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [18M] Confused by signals from friend [18F]
POST: Sorry if I've asked this in the wrong place, I didn't really know where it belonged.
Ok, so the problem is that I [18M] am friends with this girl [18F] and have wanted her to be my girlfriend for a fair while and now I'm torn between s... | Do platonic friends cuddle and boob play? and is it worth risking the friendship in pursuit of a relationship?. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit a friend needs your help: Her professor lost her final paper and gave her an F, refuses to listen...
POST: Friend of mine at UCLA submitted her final, it was a paper/essay. Her professor lost it and refuses to listen to reason or accept that he lost the paper and gave her an F.
S... | professor lost my friend's final paper, refuses to accept it or grade her electronically submitted copy and gave her an F, what can we do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20M] with my GF [20F] of 3 years, what she did while we were broken up is now messing with me and I don't know if we are handling it right...
POST: My girlfriend and I broke up about 6 months ago and during the 2 months we were apart she slept with two guys, one twice, then wanted ... | Girlfirend slept around while we were apart, and now wants me to while we are together. I think this is going to end bad. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23M] want to break up with my girlfriend [20F] of almost a year.
POST: I have been with my girlfriend for almost a year now and I feel like I should have ended things within the first month.
There were always certain things that bugged me about her, but since I am not a confrontat... | I want to break up with my girlfriend of almost a year. I don't want her alone in my apartment after we break up, but I also don't want to be there with her. Read the post. |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: My Boss Is Breaking The Law
POST: My boss has me selling a bunch of copyrighted materiel on his website he has asked me to create, and it goes against my code to be working on something like this, and is using other artist's actual work to base his designs off of. What would I have to do ... | My boss is breaking copyright laws selling other peoples designs as his own. I told him it's wrong; he doesn't care, so what should I do without getting in trouble. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: How can I soothe my anxiety towards the future?
POST: I want to get a bachelor's degree in Digital Art, I love to draw and have done it off and on for a little over 10 years. My fears have been going through my head all month, I'm afraid that I won't be good enough to get a job in that field ... | I need advice on how to get over the fear of not getting a job with a bachelor's degree in Digital Art, even though I am dead set on achieving this dream |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [F26] housemate of 1 year [F25] wants to sublet for a month while she is on holiday. I am uncomfortable.
POST: Posting from mobile so bear with me! No throwaway because they don't reddit to my knowledge.
I've lived with Bree and Bianca for just over a year now. We were originally m... | housemate of 1 year wants to sublet to strangers for a month while she is on holiday. I am uncomfortable. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: The girl [22f] I [24m] am talking to is mad as we have not been on a date.
POST: I met a girl Kate in March; she's funny, smart, and cute. We have been in contact everyday. After a month of talking she hinted we should go on a date and invited me to a local beer festival. I said I was ... | girl I am talking to felt I was stringing her along when I wouldn't go on a date. She has been ignoring me since last night. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do you make a "professional" looking website? How do I start this project?
POST: Hey Reddit, I have recently started a project, and I need to create my own website. While I have some knowledge on programming (Python) and basic HTML I just don't know how to start. What programs should I... | noob at programming wants to know how to make a good website. Need a place to start and some awesome tips. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: (OK, USA) Girlfriend may have broken hand. HR told her if she cannot work without restrictions, she must stay home. Is there any potential ADA violation occuring?
POST: The gist of it is that my girlfriend may have a broken hand. After informing her supervisor that she may need to work s... | Girlfriend breaks hand. HR tells her to stay home unless a doctor provides a letter that she can "work without restrictions", which could be several days to weeks. Is temporary disability relevant in this instance? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: 20M (OP) and 20F; insight on cheaters.
POST: Hello Reddit,
I am 20 studying abroad in a foreign country and met a girl while here. She had a bf (I knew) but we started hanging out casually, just as friends. I explained after about a week or two of this, I had feelings and was de... | Fell for chick who was in a relationship, feelings seemed to be reciprocated but in the end got left holding the bag. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: I'm moving out of state with my SO, ~10 hour drive with a cat. What's our best approach?
POST: Hey, /r/Advice, this is my first time posting here. My significant other and I are in our mid 20s and we're moving out of state by the end of June. It's the first time we'll be moving out together w... | Look at bullet point list above. Moving out of state with a cat. What's the cheapest and/or most convenient way for us to make this happen? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I have terrible troubles comprehending things I read the first time I read them. Help me?
POST: So, reddit, here is the deal. I'm a highschool student about to take the ACT. In other tests, I score great.I have a 4.0 with many AP credits under my belt. My state's standardized test I got in... | I SUCK at comprehending sentences and paragraphs my first go around. Can someone help me to understand things my first time reading something? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: A guy [20M] I've been seeing unintentionally makes me [20F] self conscious about my body
POST: Hey there,
Around 3 months ago I met a really nice guy, we'll call him Richard, at the gym at my uni. Richard and I hit it off immediately. We have a bunch of common interests and just sort ... | The guy I'm dating is cut like a Greek god and it makes me self conscious about my own body. I know he thinks I'm beautiful, how do I convince myself I'm the only one who sees the "flaws"? |
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge
TITLE: Oh, sorry, did I drop your drinks?
POST: I work in a village shop which is usually frequented by lovely, friendly people who really appreciate me being there to help them...But occasionally I get some little assholes in who think they can make me their bitch.
I work the final shift, 6-... | kid at work called me a f-ggot so I purposely dropped his energy drinks on the floor, shaking them up. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [15F] get through to my family so they could stop taking my stuff?
POST: I will be very brief. I [15F] am not a huge spender and prefer to save my money for something nice and valuable. However, I never get the chance to do so because it's always taken from me.
In short, my s... | Family frequently takes money and items from me without asking. How do I get through to my family to stay away from my things successfully? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm bad at staying friends with exes. Help. (23F)
POST: Summer fling with this guy ended, on his request. I'm still really attracted to him and fantasize about being with him.
We haven't seen each other in person since ending it, just some light texting and calling, but after every tw... | Really want to be friends w ex from summer fling, but is there a way I can stop sabotaging the friendship? And how can I stop doing this in the future? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20F] don't know if I should tell my boyfriend [37M] of 6 weeks about my abuse when I was younger
POST: So as the title says, I don't really know if I should tell my boyfriend about my abuse (sexual and mental). The topic was broached a tiny bit, but I didn't go into full detail beca... | I was sexually abused when younger and it still effects me to this day. I do not know if I should tell my boyfriend or even how to tell him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19 M] don't know how to react to my ex[20 F] after she went and had sex with a friend of mine.
POST: We were together for 3 years. We ended things around the end of October of this year. We decided it was best to spend some time apart from each other because we still want to be toge... | My ex of 3 years recently had sex with one of my friends. How do I deal with the fact that my she's having sexual relationships with someone other than me? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can I [25m] get on the same page as her [21f]?
POST: We are both in school (at the same school) and have been seeing each other for around 7 months. I'm quite crazy about this girl, but the relationship we have now feels emotionally and physically lacking for me. When we spend tim... | There is a mismatch between the apparent amount of relationship time/effort that the girl I'm crazy about has for me and the amount of time I feel I need. I want to talk to her about it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Property Manager is dragging feet on allowing me an emotional support animal
POST: So I recently got a letter from a therapist stating my need for an emotional support animal (ESA). I kindly asked my landlord (who referred me to the property manager who owns the business) what I should d... | Property Manager is dragging feet on approving my emotional support animal even though I have proper documentation stating that I am entitled to have one. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Infidelity- I (24M) think my girlfriend (23F) of three years is cheating on me with her new boss
POST: Throwaway because she has checked my reddit account in the past.
My girlfriend and I have been together for the majority of three years, minus a few months last year 6 months after ... | I think my girlfriend is cheating on me with her boss but I can't prove anything. What should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 M] with my _Live in GF/Baby's mom_ [20 F] Need to break up.
POST: I've been seeing my Daughter's mother for a little more than a year now. We got a pretty good apartment closer to my college. it's 2 hours from home so no big loss on either end. Everything was fine and dandy for ... | My Daughter's Mother is an Angel to me, and I don't want to be any more than friends with her, what would you do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I (M,22) leave my girlfriend (F,20) of 3 years before moving together?
POST: So, I have been dating a girl for 3 years now, and before we dated we were friends for 2 years. I know everything about her, and I really do love her - in the sense that I am still completely empathetic... | About to move to Europe with a girl - love her but don't want to marry her - break it off now or later? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 M] jealous of my GF[20 F] sexual past.
POST: My girlfriend and I started dating when we were 16 and went out for around a year and lost our virginities to each other. We broke up and recently got back together last month.
The topic of sex came up and she was telling me that sh... | Girlfriend has had multiple sexual partners and she's been my one and only. It's bothering me, how do I get over this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [20F] know if it's time to move on, or if I'll always regret leaving him [24M]?
POST: I love my boyfriend of approximately 9 months but, as in all relationships, ours isn't perfect. I have severe depression that comes and goes and I've had it since I was a young child, and I'l... | Love my boyfriend, but sometimes I feel like crap because of his opinions and lack of emotional support. Not sure if they're worth breaking up over, especially because he's really great otherwise. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can I [23/M] meet people between work and introversion?
POST: So I work about 50 hours a week. I work with a relatively small group of people and don't have to deal with customers or anything like that, but I find that being around people 10 hours a day really drains me. Furthermor... | I work too much, and I'm typically busy on the weekends visiting friends out of town. Also, social interaction really drains me so putting myself in social situations after work is unappealing. How do I meet people? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is it mean not to pick up the guy I've been seeing from the airport?
POST: I'm 25f, he's 23m. I've been seeing this guy for a few months and he's very hot and cold. Sometimes he's all about me and very sweet, but other times it just seems like he's just using me for sex.
He's stood me... | The guy I'm seeing changed his flight time because he was hungover and I already made plans. Should I cancel them or leave him stranded? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How much child support are my kids entitled to?
POST: My ex-husband receives SSDI and my children receive separate checks from that. The courts have ordered him to pay $300 a month in child support in addition to the children's checks which do not count toward that amount. He draws $750 a ... | Ex-husband gets $750 from SSDI. Child support is $300. Too much or too little? What is the legal percentage in Alabama? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I'm [21/m] about to have my first gf [18/f]. How do I ask her to split dutch on dates?
POST: Hello Readers of Reddit,
This Reddit has been really helpful to me, and so here is another problem to be solved (don't think it's a major one).
So I love this freaking girl a lot. She's... | Spent a lot of money on first few dates. Realized it's not sustainable. Need her to pay her share now. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] with my GF [18 F] of 2.5yrs. Her guy friend confessed his feelings for her and kissed her.
POST: Hello /r/relationships
My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2.5 years. She has a good guy friend that I don't really care for, but he makes her happy so I deal with it. They ... | Girlfriends good friend kissed my girlfriend. Girlfriend does not want to cut off contact because that means she will lose the friend circle, not just him. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M] and my SO [22 F] have been seeing each other on/off for 6 years, our disagreements are a too large.
POST: Background:
Her and I have had contact since our teenage years. We just sort of existed, coming back to one another for romance, not regular relationships or even sex. J... | I disagree with my SO on hot-button issues. Should I kill this relationship now because it has no future of success due to a difference in values? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [31/F] keeps assuming the worst in me [32/M]
POST: My gf (of a year) keeps telling me that she thinks i'm going to do something awful to her, even though I've been a pretty decent boyfriend. She gets the feeling that i'm going to cheat on her, not take care of her in the future, ... | My gf thinks i'm going to do something awful to her even though I've been a good bf. What should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I (18/m) want to get out of the "acquaintance" zone with a classmate (18/f)
POST: So, I'm currently a freshman in college, and am, in general, a pretty severe introvert. Anyway, I met an amazing girl here that I want to become better friends with. Unfortunately, it seems like she... | I'm an introvert and bad conversationalist who wants to become friends with this amazing girl I met at college. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I am [19 F] in an open relationship with [21 M] and not sure where it will go from here
POST: I'm a sophomore at Cornell (in NY) and he runs a company in silicon valley - we agreed to an open relationship before I left for school this year (previously dated on/off for two years). We ar... | Open serious long distance college relationship with incredible guy. He hasn't hooked up with anyone, I have. He suggested a break after I told him. Not sure where to go from here.. |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: How to mend a broken heart in 43 days?
POST: Met an amazing guy while volunteering in Asia last January 2011. I'm a 22 y/o American and he is a 21 y/o Aussie. After leaving Asia, we both went to our respective countries but kept in touch and grew so close together and eventually fell in lo... | Moved to Australia in May to be with my Aussie boyfriend, and he broke up with me once plans were being made for him to come home (USA) with me to meet my family. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [22, F] Friends are all moving away or growing apart. Having trouble moving on and making new friends. (X-post from TwoX)
POST: I'm a 22 year old college student. When I first started at my current school, I was pretty lonely. I had just had a major falling out with my best friend from... | my group of college girlfriends are all drifting apart and moving away, and I'm having trouble trying to deal. How do I keep my spirits up, move on and make new friends? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I love my girlfriend [18F] but she's very emotional, cries over little things. How can I help her better herself?
POST: Some background:
I, [19m] have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for the past year and two months. She's smart, cute, funny, and just as weird as me. She's s... | Girlfriend and I have an amazing relationship, aside from the fact that she'll get extremely emotional over little things and cry which is problem. How do I help? |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Need advice on whether to omit some previous work for a background check.
POST: Hey everyone, first time poster on this subreddit.
I've been called for a second interview for a Fortune 500 banking company (Mortgage Banker position). From the accounts i've read on glassdoor it seems that at thi... | Is it possible that a company could find out that I didn't list a fast-food job I had in 2007 in my application when they conduct a background check/screen? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: [Help] Recently moved: how long is normal for her to be stressed?
POST: Lola is a 2yo Jack Russell who isn't a big fan of change. If we move chairs to vacuum, she gets uncomfortable. So, when we moved to a new apartment last weekend, we were careful to keep her out of it as much as possible by ... | Dog is slow to adapt to new place. Looking for general advice/timeline on how long it will take her to adapt. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 F] with my SO [22 M] of 1.5 years - not sure if bored, or just comfortable?
POST: Some background: this is mine and his first serious relationship. We both have been with other people before our relationship, but only for a few months. He is a recent college graduate, and I gra... | Freaking out about my relationship. How can I figure out if I'm bored with my SO, or just comfortable? |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Apology for a past incident
POST: So a few months ago when i dropped out of my year abroad, i met up with the ex i had broken up with when i left. Long story short, we hooked up for one night and i stole his facebook password, hacked into his facebook and his best friend found out after i... | i did something shit to my ex after we broke up that was genuinely wrong and im trying to decide whether to apologise to clear the air. No continued contact wanted after. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [20 M] girlfriend [18 F] of three years drinks and smokes way too much
POST: So my girlfriend recently went to college, and is actually closer to me now that has been in the past. It's been wonderful insofar as we actually get to see each other pretty regularly now rather than with ... | My girlfriend is drinking and smoking a lot, almost every day, and its interfering with her life. I don't know if I should tell her to stop, or just ride out the wave. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Got pulled over with a suspended DL
POST: Hello Reddit, I don't really know what to expect...
I have a suspended DL and I got pulled over. They released the car to my sister but I got a ticket and don't know what else to expect. I got it suspended due to a DUI (which I'm actually not sure... | I got pulled over while my DL is suspended and I don't know what to expect. I live in CA and I'm 20. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25F] dating [34M] and feel zero physical attraction but personality wise we click. Am I too picky?
POST: Hello,
short backstory: I was in a rather abusive relationship 5 years ago for 2 years, he left me a bit "damaged" (slightly scared of physical contact due to several times "sex... | Dating a guy I have no physical attraction to, but we can talk for hours. Anything I can do to fix my attraction issue? Or is it just not meant to be a relationship? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22/M] in a long distance relationship with her [19/F] for [4 months] - afraid of being left ?
POST: So in short: I met a girl via Facebook and we have been chatting for like five or six months. Like I mean we talk a lot. She is back home in my country, Italia, whereas I am in Canad... | Met a girl via Facebook who I love talking to: how can I let go of my insecurity and just a relationship ? Am I crazy for wanting more ? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I accidentally threw away an heirloom belong to my roommate's girlfriend and I am unsure how to respond.
POST: Last week while cleaning the kitchen I came across a dirty kitchen knife that was rusted and charred beyond all practical use. It was in a drawer with a bunch of other knives and ... | I accidentally threw away an heirloom that I thought was junk, and am unsure how to respond other than my apologetic phone call.__ |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: I have a job interview tomorrow for Home Depot...But I know next to nothing about repair & it's a traveling team job.
POST: I've wanted to work at home depot for a while. It may seem strange since I know little about repair- however I hope to some day be able to work with my hands. I'm currentl... | Interview tomorrow at home depot. Traveling stock team. I don't have a reliable car. I really need a job. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Cooking
TITLE: My Indian housemate has asked me to teach him how to cook "pasta". No specific dish, just the "little tube pasta". What should I teach him?
POST: I thought about doing a carbonara because it's easy and good, but it doesn't seem like that would go with anything tube-shaped. I can make a mean ... | Indian roommate wants me to teach him to cook pasta because he's had little tube-shaped pasta in restaurants. No other info available. Any suggestions? |
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge
TITLE: Nothing new, I'm sure, but now that I'm driving, I can identify
POST: Mum was driving back from her grandparent's vacation home on the lake. She got stuck behind a long caravan of Cadillacs on the highway, all going a few miles under the speed limit. She pulled into the passing lane to ... | Typical rude driver gets caught in a pack who doesn't let him go anywhere until he's well and truly pissed. Mum, you rock. |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: next week i[20m] am going on my first date ever with this girl[18f] i've been texting to for 2 months
POST: In around 3 weeks i'm going to go on my first date of my life,it's stressing me so much,i've always had low confidence with my body and such,but in the last weeks i've been so s... | going on first date with crush,she wants hugs,cuddling and kisses,never done that before so i'm pretty scared about everything |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Could anyone help suggest a thoughtful gift for the guy that spared me $AU20,000
POST: Heres the story:
About three years ago, I was involved in a lawsuit against my University in an attempt to appeal an exclusion from the Uni with a 2 year period. I had a lawyer over a full year which co... | Barrister represented me pro bono. Saved me $20,000 in legal fees. I want to find a way to show my thanks and possibly blow his mind. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Afraid of liking anybody?
POST: Throughout high school I dated two girls from before freshman year to the beginning of senior year. The last relationship ended badly and I was crushed for months. I was not happy by myself and quickly figured out I was relying on the relationships for happines... | After being happy by myself for the first time ever, I think I'm talking myself out of going farther than dating with any girl. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [18/m] have been hanging out with her (17/f) for a few months and am really confused about feelings/intentions
POST: I've hung out with this girl a few times in the past couple months, and am really confused about her feelings/intentions towards me. We're not in a relationship,... | mixed signals from flirty girl makes me think a) she likes me back or b) is using me for attention... unsure how to find out the difference. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22M] with my ex-gf [17F] 4 months. She broke up with me because of age, but we want to wait until she is 18 to continue.
POST: I was dating this awesome girl for about 4 months before things went sour, I love her and she was the best girl that I have been with in my life so far, th... | She still wants to be with me and I love her, but she wants to wait for it to be legal, do I wait or move on? I want wait, opinions/thoughts? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: She (21F) confessed some really strong feelings to me (21M) that I don't reciprocate.
POST: I've known her since we were 13. I moved away at 17 and haven't seen her since, but we were super close. Recently, she took a trip to my state and made a stop in my city and stayed with me. Last... | long time friends, really close for how far apart we are. She wants to date me, I don't. How can I help her to move on while staying friends? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [ 21 M] with my ___ [20 F] of 2.5 years, left me because she wants to figure herself out, is there anyway for me to save this?
POST: So my girlfriend, I guess ex-girlfriend now, came back from a 5 month trip abroad a couple weeks ago.
During the trip we had been fighting because I ... | Girlfriend came back from abroad and has left me to "find herself." Is there anything I can do to win her back? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girl [18-20 F] singing to me in Chemistry Lab? [20 M]
POST: I feel silly asking this, but I am not sure what was happening / if this means anything...
I was in lab last week, and it was our last lab for the semester because this week is finals week. Anyways, I was waiting for class to... | Girl in my chemistry lab was singing to me and I am not sure what to make of it. Any guidance?. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20F] My dad [47M] Cheated on my mom [39F] and is leaving her. I reached out to my brother [15M] and he said is angry at me because he feels like I left him like dad did.
POST: So my brother just broke my heart. I know that I and most sisters, hell siblings are not perfect. But you s... | My dad cheated on mom and is leaving her. I tried talking to my brother but he feels like I left him like dad did. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Are people really as excitable as they seem in game shows?
POST: I keep the TV on in the background and I forgot to change the channel. Let's Make a Deal comes on, and I swear to $Deity, these people are having near orgasms for *everything*.
Wheel spinning to select a contestant? Most ex... | Let's Make a Deal and its ilk portrey human beings as crack-embued gerbils. Is this normal, or am I just an emotionless husk? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I am currently a junior designer working my way to up to be an architect and have an opportunity to switch to a fiber engineering job that will boost my salary 150%. What should I do???
POST: I spent 4 years at a UC studying architecture and have been working full time at an architecture f... | Should I change jobs, and potentially throw away the past 5 years of my life and education, to make more money? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24F] really want to be friends/hang out with my coworker [27M], how can I make sure it doesn't come across as flirting?
POST: I recently moved for my new job, and I'm still trying to get established (find a dentist, all that jazz) and find new activities in the area (social, sports,... | Want to get involved in social activities with my new coworker but concerned that asking for a single guy's number so we can hang out on the weekend *really* sounds like flirting. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19M] unable to get over a relationship that ended over a year ago
POST: Not sure of this is the right place but basically ive never really gotten over a relationship i had over a year ago. She was my first girlfriend and i was 17 at the time (she was 16) we were together for just u... | havent gotten over a breakup that happened just over a year ago and havent felt any desire to start a new relationship with someone else. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [16/m] I'm in a long-distance online relationship with a girl in another state(13/f) and I want to end it, but don't know how
POST: Using a throwaway because I'm worried she'll see this. As the title states, I've been in this relationship for about a 6 months now. By now, I reali... | long-distance girlfriend's obsessed with me, I want to break up, don't know how without sending her into depression |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Bf treats me like an obligation. Not sure what to do.
POST: My bf (28m) and I (25f) have been together for 5.5 years. We have lived together for about 4 years. I'm currently in school, but don't have a job, so he's supporting me. Previously, while he was searching for a job, I postpone... | bf ignore me for computers and gets upset if I want to do something with him (even playing games or having sex). |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25/M] think I've just discovered that my SO [23/M] began our relationship when he was still in his previous one. Help?
POST: So I have recently (~4 months ago) started a really brilliant relationship with a new man and up until last weekend I really thought that I couldn't be happie... | SO may very well have not ended his previous relationship before starting this one, and lied about it. Don't know how to confront him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: (20F) mentally ill boyfriend (37M) don't know if I should be sacrificing so much
POST: My boyfriend is a paranoid schizophrenic which causes him to be hostile, nitpicky and I always feel like I'm walking on eggshells with him. He also made me promise to not think or talk about certain ... | my boyfriend is a paranoid schizophrenic which causes him to be disrespectful including about things that are important to me, and I don't know if I can or should put up with it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is my girlfriend (24) trying to draw a jealous reaction out of me (26)
POST: I have been seeing my girlfriend, who is 24, for about 7 months now. We have only had a few fights and they have resulted from me making a stupid, irrational comment that expressed some kind of jealousy when i... | i make unreasonable jealous comments when i am drunk, i suspect my girlfriend might have been trying to draw one out of me |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Abusive ex boyfriend wants my little sister. He wants revenge, she loves the attention. What do I do?
POST: Hey Reddit. I am an 18 year old female, and my ex boyfriend is also 18. My little sister is 15.
I broke up with him, let's call him Mike, in April because he was an abusive assh... | me [18f] and ex [18m] broke up and he wants to get revenge by targeting my [15f] sister and she loves it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I kissed my mentally unstable same-sex friend
POST: So, she was staying over at my house along with my boyfriend. All three of us, along with my brother, were going to have a little party, mostly because she's been trying to be noticed by my sibling. During the 'party', our parents came h... | I started fantasizing about one of my best friends, she and I made out, I felt her up real quick, I'm not interested in a relationship, but I don't want to hurt her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23F] with my bf [25M] of 2 months/1year (it's complicated), i think i have immediately fallen out of love and am freaking out
POST: I have been officially dating my boyfriend for two months. We have a complicated history, we dated before and took a long break from each other.
When... | I think I have fallen immediately out of love with my bf and i have no idea how this could have happened when things have been so great! |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: A [22/F] friend hasn't responded to a text I [25/M] sent last weekend. Do I maintain silence or try to talk things out?
POST: Backstory (I feel weird about doing this, but there really isn't anyone I can talk about this with in my life and context might help):
Basically, there was an... | Waited a week after a failed hangout to try texting about seeing each other again, but it's been a week without a word from her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Is she (24/f) bored or nervous around me (25/m). Or am I reading too much into this?
POST: Here's the story:
I (25) met this girl (24) a few weekends ago while out on the town and we immediately hit it off. We talk and find out that we have a lot of common interests and I figured... | Met a girl recently and have been out on a few dates. Been pretty intimate but both decided to pull back. She fidgets and peels her beer labels when we cuddle? Whats the deal? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22F] am worried about my fiancé [23M] because he sleeps for 12 hours after every 9 hour work shift
POST: Recently my fiancé got a new job as a manager working 3rd shift (10PM-7AM). Every single morning when he gets home from his shift he goes immediately asleep and doesn't wake up u... | My fiancé sleeps for 12 hours after every 9 hour night shift he has and literally does nothing else but sleep and work |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: (18M) Friendzoned by my best friend (17F), what am I doing wrong?
POST: I have been best friends with a girl for five years now. I asked her out a few years ago, but I was turned down because she wanted to wait. Last year I asked her out and found out that she was interested in another... | My best friend friendzoned me because she thinks all guys want sex, I need advice on how to convince her otherwise. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24F] with my ex 23GF should i stay or should I go?
POST: Me and my ex were together for 6 years I really believe she is the
one, she is a great girl over all and beautiful. Due to infidelity on
my part(which I regret extremely) she is no longer able to trust
me. About 7 month... | Ex gf and I are drifting apart but I am still in love with her, she is talking to her ex bf and not sure if I should stay or go. |
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