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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25F] with my friend [25F] of 12 years are at different life stages. Need advice to help us not drift apart.
POST: I recognize childhood best friends can drift as your lives change. Our relationship is the kind where we can always pick up where we left off. I'm having to come to ter... | Best friend has a new best friend in the same life stage - marriage, homeownership, babies. I'm not there yet and it has changed our relationship. Need advice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24F] moved cross country to live with my boyfriend [24M] of 3 years, now I'm miserable.
POST: I moved across the country to live with my boyfriend. We had been dating for around 2 years when I moved to be with him. Now, it's been over a year since I moved here, but I'm miserable. I ... | Moved across country to be with boyfriend. Hate the place and feel miserable and lonely, but want to make it work. Help? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Live with mom? or dad?
POST: Hey guise i got a dilemma here, really the only reason im asking is because im a moralfag and im afraid of choosing one:
Live with my dad and possibly sister, they are both cool, will let me nerd out on my comp all day if i choose to do so and my dad never yel... | Man up and tell my mon to fuck off or be a moralfag and live with my mom so at least i dont feel bad |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Boyfriend [22M] hasn't read love letter/looked at 1 yr gift. Am I [19F] justifiably upset?
POST: So my boyfriend is 22 & I am 19. I know, it sounds weird but it works. For our one year, which was about two weeks ago now, I used a small leather notebook to write out one thing for every ... | Gave boyfriend love letter/daily journal entry combo for one year anniversary in a long distance relationship & he hasn't looked at it, even when he said he would. Am I a crazy girlfriend? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22M] stayed the night at my ex's (sort of ex) [23F] lived together for nine months then broke up (room mates turned lovers), where do I stand?
POST: Back ground is this. Me and this girl used to live together and we started to sleep together. There were definitely feelings between ... | Been clicking with my ex lately flirting touching ended up back at hers. Got told not sleeping with her ended up on the couch. Still on the couch as I post this. Whats going on? Where do I stand? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I think a friend of mine is being coy; should I call her out on it?
POST: Backstory : I've known this girl for a few years, we first met through a class we were both taking. At the time, there was some drama with a mutual friend, but we kind of moved past it. We hooked up briefly (nothing ... | Girl and occasional hookup has been playing "hard to get" or something dumb, not sure what to do: do I play into it, or put a stop to the bullshit? |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Just found out after months of work on buying a house that I got approved for the main loan but not the DPA loan. Have a week at most to come up with the down payment.
POST: So on top of that which was in the title let me explain my situation.( fair warning I am on mobile)
I started... | Previous landlord never paid his mortgage so family was getting kicked out. Now I'm getting told last minute that I need to cover the down payment with no notice |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by playing with soccer nets
POST: This didn't actually happen today, but many, many years ago when I was in 3rd grade, I think 2001 or 2002. The school had just gotten some soccer net frames that for a while were just down to bare metal. I liked to play on them during recess, since there... | I tried to explain to my teacher that I didn't get warnings about not playing with stuff and became a convicted school-wide criminal. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27M] with my ? [31F]. Are we going to fast?
POST: So, I left the '?' up there, because even I don't know what going on. I met this girl in a club and we've hit it off quite well. The obligatory adding to the Facebook and such. Turns out that she's a church-going girl and not too ke... | met girl, getting to know girl, dropped the big one today (mi amor). PTSD (from previous relationship) dropping all kinds of red flags up in here. Should I be worried? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: We are 21, go to the same college, been together for 5.5 years, and Now I dont know what to do, i think I am losing her, what should i do?
POST: I've been with this girl since we were juniors in high school. I could have played division three soccer so that I could be with her. I joine... | she kind of cheated on me, though she says she cant really remember, we are trying to build this relationship back up, but i dont know what to do anymore. I need some advice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Getting defamed on the Internet, affecting my work life and life in general. Should I involve a lawyer?
POST: (NE) As the title says, I'm being targeted in an online gossip forum and it's taken a toll on my work life and mental state. The website is the very first thing when googling my ... | gossip on the Internet slandering my name with untrue claims, hurting my business and my life in general. Have proof that I'm not in the wrong and she is just a nasty, crazy girlfriend. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: *Update* I [22f] talked about breaking up with my [20m] boyfriend. I feel like I should explain a few more things.
POST: Link to first post:
Last night we were watching a movie, when his brother, A, decided to also watch a movie. He always plays it way too loud and the bass shakes th... | We had a fight, talked about breaking up, I ended up compromising again. How do I make him realize I am really unhappy. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm (25f) having issues with Facebook but my fiancé (25m) doesn't understand.
POST: We've been together 4 years. I had two miscarriages and have been trying to conceive, now not getting pregnant at all since my second loss. I literally cannot keep seeing my friends on social media, spe... | fiancé won't deactivate with me so I can heal after miscarriages without seeing pregnancy posts. How to compromise? |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Need some advice on a potentially huge promotion.
POST: So a quick background: I work overqualified. Every one around me is by no means nearly good at the same job. I continue to bust out big numbers every day, without fail. Mind you I am college educated and working with 19 year olds working a... | What is the best way to approach this: Asking for 110 but it's hard to find enthusiasm to give 110. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21M] want to get to know my recently windowed neighbor [50sF] but don't know how to see her.
POST: Hello everyone
I am a 21 year old male living at home with the parents for the summer until school starts. The other day I was getting ready for a dinner party when our neighbor (behi... | I want to get to know my neighbor who is an attractive older woman, she was recently widowed and lives alone. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24F] with my boyfriend [25M] together a year, I need an outside perspective to all of this
POST: So a little bit of back story. My SO and I have known each other since we were young teenagers. We've always had a thing for each other but never dated; however, we have been very close... | My SO wanted to be a father to my son who isn't his, but is now leaving minor bruises and yelling at my son. Do I leave or do I stay and try to make it work?? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (21/F) with my BF (31)- We cant walk the dogs peacefully bc hes too focused on dominating them
POST: This isn't a major issue or anything, but it bothers me a little.. I really love going on walks, especially with the dogs. Its been nicer weather here so we've been doing it more oft... | Boyfriend takes walking the dogs too seriously and constantly watching me to see if I correct them & tug on their leash. It's making the walks unenjoyable and I know its silly... but What should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting
TITLE: Santa Claus: Man or Myth?
POST: (Haha, yes I'm posting in the right sub. Sorry for the cheesy title, all the rest I came up with were really long run on sentences.)
Very recently someone posted a thread asking about some of the ridiculous things you've been judged for as a parent. I did s... | Right from the start did you tell your child(ren) there's no such thing as Santa or do you let your kids think Santa is real? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 M] with my [27F] girlfriend of one year, needing advice on how to break up
POST: I have been with my girlfriend for one year. We had a very romantic beginning and have gone from long distance to living together in that time. We have lived together for 6 months and we are amazing... | I have decided to break up with my girlfriend. Do i do it now or in 2 weeks when she is leaving for a while? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20 M] am struggling to accept what my girlfriend [19 F] has done in previous relationships.
POST: So my girlfriend, who I will call Beth, and I have just recently started dating which I am really happy about. I have liked her for months, so when we started dating I couldn't be happi... | Asked my girlfriend if she has done some 50 shades of grey stuff/bothered by it/want to get over it |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (25F) boyfriend (24M) and I are in very different places financially, not sure if this a problem or not.
POST: The situation: I am not in poverty and my boyfriend is not uber-wealthy, but there is a very significant disparity in our financial situations. I have just begun making eno... | Boyfriend is better off financially for now and I am not sure if this is cause for concern in the future or if I am worrying too much. |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Mental Battles!!!
POST: So a few years ago I decided I wasn't happy with my life and decided to lose it. As of now I'm 30 lbs down from when I started, but what irks me is that I was 40 lbs down but regained the 10.
I got to 160 (40 down) last march, and I posted pics to bb's website asking ... | I used to be at my goal weight and didn't know how good I looked, have binged back to a 10lb or more fat increase since March and can't seem to win mental battles stopping me from getting back to 160 lbs |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [33F] boyfriend [41M] regifted me a necklace he previously gave to an ex
POST: For mother's day this year, my boyfriend presented me with this beautiful jadeite necklace that he said he got when he was in another country years ago. I really love the necklace, it's original and beau... | Am I overreacting by being irritated that a necklace I received for mother's day was originally an ex-girlfriend's present? |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Rear-ended by rental car, company now saying I am responsible (HI)
POST: In February I was hit by tourists in a rental car. As far as everyone involved in the accident could tell, it was the fault of a young stoned teenager who hit the first car which caused the chain reaction of three ... | rental car hit me after being rear-ended, rental car company now saying i'm responsible and will be sending a bill. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24F] with FWB [26M] of a month, this doesn't seem typical, how do I keep it running smoothly?
POST: Hi!
I was dumped a little more than a month ago. My heart is a mess and all I want right now is great sex and no feelings! It's been working out pretty well so far.
I met A about a... | FWB and I don't actually have sex, spend most of our time hanging out and cuddling. Is this a bad idea? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] with my GF [25 F], not feeling safe or comfortable with myself and thus the relationship
POST: My GF and I have been together almost a year now. I've always had anxiety and personal problems with loving myself and feeling comfortable with others loving me, and its starting to... | I don't feel comfortable with who I am and it is creating a co-dependance on my partners love and acceptance to feel happy. How can I take steps to accepting myself? |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: [Probate Advice Needed] My mother's estranged husband passed away last Sunday. [United States]
POST: I am posting today in hopes that somebody can point me in the right direction for how best to help my mother. Her husband passed away last Sunday and I am worried that due to her meek and... | My mom's husband passed away and is one who will rarely if ever stick up for herself... I am trying to help protect her from her estranged husband's family's greed. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Why am I [19M] so jealous of my girlfriend [19F]?
POST: Hi guys, I'm currently in a long distance relationship, which became this way around 4 weeks ago. It's been 6 months since we started dating.
Anyway, around a week ago she started university half around the world from me, and ha... | Long distance relationship; GF just started uni and is making new friends. I'm becoming a jealous mo'fo. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23/F] can not stop lying to my [23/M] boyfriend. How can I stop compulsively lying?
POST: We've been together for close to 8 1/2 years and I've always had this issue with lying. I lie about little and big things. We've had issues in the past and I have always tried to better myself... | I need help to stop lying and need help bettering my relationship with my boyfriend because I can't afford going to a therapist. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I'm [26/f] worried my boyfriend [26/m] is falling back into smoking again.
POST: I don't know if I am being unfair or unreasonable, but, that's why I am hoping someone may be able to give me some advice/insight on how to handle this situation.
My boyfriend smoked when we first ... | I am stressed out every time my boyfriend smokes. He quit for 6 months and just started up again. Not sure how to handle it. I can't help but give him the cold shoulder any time he lights up. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My(22M) girlfriend(21F) left me after two years of dating out of the blue.
POST: Howdy,
Just wanted to talk to someone I guess. As the title says, my girlfriend left me last November, after two years of dating. It happened suddenly and out of the blue. And I still can't wrap my head a... | After dating for two years, my girlfriend left me out of the blue. I did not see it coming and it has racked my confidence thoroughly. Any advice? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I'm [19/F] attracted to an older [50?/M] past instructor-not sure what to do
POST: I've stayed in touch for about 3 years with a past instructor. We regularly exchange emails and meet on occasion. I'm very attracted to him but unsure whether I should express these feelings and, i... | I'm awfully into a past instructor that I've known for 3 years. I have no expectations-do I go for it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by insulting a bunch of blind people at my job
POST: So, like most TIFU's, this didn't happen today. It was a couple weeks ago at my part time job at a climbing gym.
So, we have a system where people book a climbing party for two hours. Generally birthday parties, but you get the odd spor... | Tried to say goodbye to some blind people, accidently insulted/ looked like a class A asshole to my colleges. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I Have a Few Questions About Netbooks..
POST: I recently bought a "broken" HP laptop from my friend for $20 that I was able to fix and flip it for $275 profit. I was thinking about selling my aluminum macbook and use the $275 to upgrade to a new base aluminum macbook pro but started explor... | Flipped a Laptop for about $300 profit and would like you help finding me a solid netbook for taking notes, cruising Reddit, and running automotive tuning software that isn't screaming fingerprints or covered in stupid designs. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 F] with friend(?) [28ish F] of ~2 years, she's really difficult to be around but has latched onto me.
POST: A couple of years ago my dad and I got into a hobby that doesn't have many female participants, and joined a local group that consists mostly of people my dad's age and ol... | Someone I know from doing a hobby has learning difficulties and struggles socially, she's latched onto me and I don't know how to deal with it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: I'm (19m) not sure if I should seek another chance with my now ex.
POST: I've known this girl for a year and a half now. A year of that time we were dating. There was a point in the relationship where I left the country for two weeks so we had pretty much no contact. During that time she to... | She asked me to change, I always kind of brushed it off. As I didn't see what was wrong, since it's a habit now. Willing to show her I can change. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22F] works as a stripper and I don't know how I tell my boyfriend [22M]
POST: I have been seeing this guy for 4 months now and I really like this guy. I met him in my class, he is just a overall great guy.
I told him I wanted to take things slow because, I don't want this to be j... | I work as a stripper, I want to tell my boyfriend but I don't even know what to say to him |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21 M] only love my girlfriend [21 F] of 6 years some of the time. I am ADHD and Bipolar.
POST: I finally created a Reddit account simply to ask this question. I've attempted to research it for a long time now. I was diagnosed with ADHD and Bipolar disorder (and OCD, technically) a c... | I have ADHD and Bipolar Disorder and my love for my partner is inconsistent. Is this normal or should I leave? |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Do I actually qualify for unemployment? (Washington State)
POST: I posted on here before, but can't recall my username. A couple months ago, the owner of the company I worked for fired the 2 managers of the company. One of those managers was the only scientist in the business approved an... | Owner of company asked me to do something I think is illegal. I resigned. Unemployment was denied because owner said there was a "miscommunication." |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M] with my coworker/crush [22 F] it is complicated and I don't know what to do.
POST: Edit: So this girl started 3 months ago at my company, we've gotten pretty close through a carpool between just us, but she has a boyfriend. Before I knew she had a boyfriend I asked her out an... | Girl with boyfriend (of a couple months) is hot and cold around me and I feel like she is waiting for me to make a move, what do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets
TITLE: Cat outside had kittens.. help!
POST: Reddit:
My boyfriend and I have been taking care of several feral/stray cats over the past year. I am a college student living Orlando, FL and time and resources have made getting these cats neutered/spayed and vaccinated a slow process, but we're working... | feralish stray cat had kittens today, having horrible visions of dead kittens and want to bang my head against a wall. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[18F] need help adjusting to a long distance relationship with my boyfriend[18M] of 2.5 years.
POST: So, my boyfriend and I graduated high school this year. We're both going to college in the fall, but he's going out of state (about 6 hours away). Our relationship is a very physical o... | my boyfriend and I have a very close/physical relationship and he's leaving for an out of state college in a month. How can I adjust and how can we keep things fresh and happy? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25M] with my coworker [24F], Want to know if I should try to date her.
POST: So I've been out of a long term relationship (3 1/2 years) for about 4 months now. I'm ready to start dating now and have met a very beautiful girl at work, lets call her MJ. She's really shy and quiet, bu... | Met a girl at work. Really shy but think she likes me. Want to know if I should keep trying to get her to open up. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19F] with my roommate [20F], wants us to live in an apartment together next year, but I really want to live at home with family. What do?
POST: So I am in my second year at college and my roommate and I have lived together in dorm rooms since August of last year. She and I have tal... | Don't want to live with my roommate next year in apartment. How to tell her and how soon should I spill the beans?? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [28/m] don't know if I want to continue my relationship with my [27/f] partner
POST: My girlfriend of 3 years and I recently had a discussion about the future of our relationship. Over the past few months I've had regular thoughts about ending our relationship and have fantasiz... | I expressed my doubt in the future of my relationship with my girlfriend. I've been thinking for a couple days and miss her a lot. I'm not sure what to do or how to make a decision... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25F] with my BF [28M] of 2 years, unsure I want to move w/ him b/c he has a child.
POST: My boyfriend (28M) and I (25F) have been together for 2 years. I would describe our relationship as a good and healthy one. We have our disagreements and arguments, but they are solved quickly ... | Boyfriend wants to move to be closer to his child. Made plans to go with him but now want to back out because his son's mom is crazy. Am I being silly, what should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Should I quit my PhD program?
POST: I'm 6-7 months in to my PhD program. I feel burnt-out, demoralized, and unhappy with life most of the time. While I have a great opportunity to study and live off of my fellowship, I feel like I have no life or motivation for anything else anymore. My heal... | 6-7 months into PhD I want to quit. Health and happiness are more important to me than this, but I'm afraid of looking like a failure. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20M] with my ex gf [18F] and i don't know what to do anymore
POST: My ex and i ended things about last week after being together for 10 months. Yea, i made a mistake that led to it happening, but Ive been going through a constant change of myself and just had a rough night and let ... | We broke up, her friends and family (cousins) told her to move on and find someone better, even though she still wants to be with me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Am I doing the right thing? (Lying to girlfriend about an art sale.)
POST: My girlfriend has been painting as a hobby for a few years now and has very little confidence in what she does. She's not amazing or anything but I really like her style and think I think a confidence boost is exact... | like girlfriends art, she has no confidence, made up fake sale to friend which is actually me, she's painting like I've never seen before but I kinda feel bad for lying to her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Only acted like a friend but...
POST: Hey guys,
So here is my story. I met this girl i like about 7 months back. At first we were just friends and i had no intentions of it going any further. We became good friends and months passed. About 5 months after knowing her I realised ... | Was friends with girl, liked her later, she still sees me as a friend because i never acted like anything other than a friend. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Should I become more involved in social media? [SERIOUS]
POST: I've never liked the idea of social media, it's always been in my nature to stay low-key and in the shadows while everyone else is updating their statuses non-stop, hash-tagging everything, taking selfies etc.
I have found using s... | Work in fitness industry, faced with pressure to become involved in social media yet I am reallllllly reluctant to do so. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I'm 23 and my crush is 18, is it weird? Also, approach advice.
POST: Hello there.
So, I like this girl. I met her through friends since a few months, without really talking with her for more than 5 minutes. At first, I didn't think of her as much of a love interest.
Although, since e... | I like this girl, don't know if she likes me, how do I take it do the next stage without screwing it up? Also, she's 18 and me 23, should I feel weird? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by shitting myself during sex. [NSFW]
POST: Okay so like many other FU's this story is a few months old but I figure i may as well tell it.
There was a girl I had been talking to for a while. We'd been friends for probably two years but the entire time she'd had a boyfriend. I'd pretty m... | After waiting 2 years for a girl, we had sex. She fingered my ass and then I shat all over her while climaxing. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [32F] don't know how to deal with my eating disordered mother in law [62F]
POST: For background, I am a healthy size -- 5'0" 120#, but I have a history of anorexia nervosa, and am up from a low weight of about 85# from when I first started dating my husband. I'm in recovery, which I... | My mother-in-law won't stop commenting on the food that she and everyone else is eating. How do I fix it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19 M] broke up with my GF [19 F] of 6 months, might be doing things with a close friend.
POST: I recently broke up with my girlfriend (she's polyamorous) in a very serious relationship even though it didn't last for very long and she didn't take it very well, at least that's what I'... | Close friend might be sleeping / making sexual advances on my ex girlfriend (I broke up with less than a month ago from time of writing from a serious relationship) and I don't know how I should react to the situation. |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: How to recover from a low requested salary when I strongly suspect they would have offered more?
POST: So as many new jobseekers probably have done, I naively made the first move regarding money. In my first phone interview the HR person asked my desired salary. I said $50k. I realized after th... | Make sure to breakdown what composes a salary when you ask someone. Be sure whether a company has anyone behind you to accept the offer if you try to negotiate too much. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: 19 Year Old Uni Sophomore Looking For Starting Credit Advice (US)
POST: As the title says, I'm a college sophomore in Chicago and need some help building my credit. I currently have none that I know of, and need to at least start building it now, as I'm going to be moving out of Univ... | Thinking about starting to build my credit history at 19. I have two part time jobs, parents pay for UNI and food. What card should I get / what else should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: (US) My universities financial aid has revoked an OUTSIDE scholarship 4 times in the past month, what can I do?
POST: So a little context, I receive an outside scholarship of $2912 per semester. Along with my few loans this leaves me getting a return of about $2200. I took the loans ... | Financial aid office is refusing an outside scholarship because of their mistake, after fighting for a month I had a mental breakdown. What are my options? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I don't know if it is time for me [20f] to break up with my LTR boyfriend [21m]
POST: I'm 20. I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years. We are very comfortable and I love him a lot. I've identified as bisexual/pansexual/queer/not straight the whole time. One of my lady fr... | queer girl with cis boy. Getting bored, don't know if it is a phase or not, scared of breaking up. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Interested in dating a girl, but I'm trying to determine if it's a good idea...
POST: It's somewhat of a weird situation...
There's a girl that works at a local restaurant, that I noticed a couple of weeks ago, or so. And it just so happens 3 of my close friends work there as well. Th... | Should I date a girl, after she's done a bit of the dirty with a good friend of mine who actually seems to be provoking this girl and I to date? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25F] with my husband [27M] been together 9 years, Messed up a lot and need help changing my ways.
POST: Ok before I explain my situation let me say I realize now my behavior is horrible. I don't want to be thrown under a bus so please focus on actual advice to help and not tear me ... | I'm a horrible wife who really wants to be better. Please focus on my realizing what I'm doing is wrong and wanting to change than my wrongdoings. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19M] with my parents [50s M/F] lied about where I was and now lost their trust
POST: Ok so I'll try and keep this as short as possible. I basically told my parents I was going to be at school when instead I went to spend the night at my girlfriends house. They found out because the... | Lied about where I was sleeping to parents twice and now they won't talk to me and it seems their trust in me is shattered |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M] with my Girlfriend [32 F] 4 months, how to tell her a friend that assaulted me should go away.
POST: So some of this is in a TIFU as well, but I'd figured I'd ask here.
Pretty much here is the whole situation; We have been together for 4 months now. During these months, we h... | Girlfriend's friend and my roomate hits me, don't want either of us around him, she thinks that's controlling |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Am I (18/M) unintentionally manipulating my friend (19/F)?
POST: Okay, so I reconnected with this girl after a few years of non-communication, and we had both really changed in that time, so it was almost like we re-met as the new versions of ourselves. I think we really hit it ... | I supported girl emotionally, we get feels for each other, third person says it's inappropriate to date her because of the emotional support |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 M] with my roommate [36 M/F] of 2 years, got a parrot without consulting me because he knew I would say no.
POST: Me and my room mate live in a studio apartment that is completely crammed as it is. My room mate has been nagging me to get a pet for the past 6 months and I have be... | Roommate bought a pet without consulting me knowing full well that I would not agree to it. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Friend-zoned. Now, I [23M] just want to learn to be a good friend to my crush [29F]. Tips?
POST: So, I have a huge crush on a classmate/colleague of mine. We're in the same program and in the same company for our co-op terms. We've chatted here and there over the past 2 years, but we o... | If I can't date my crush, I'd like to learn to be a good friend. I know it's going to be tough, so I could use some help. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22f] have a question about intimacy concerning my SO [21m]. Why won't he ever I initiate sex with me?
POST: I'm getting frustrated lately making the first move on the guy I have been with for a really long time, I feel sexually exhausted trying to get myself off the way he's comfort... | I am getting frustrated sexually because I am really emotionally invested in someone younger than me that is not exciting me in the bedroom. Why is this and how can I talk to him about spicing things up? |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: I owe ~70x the national debt. Need advice on responding with a debt verification letter on incorrectly printed debt collection letter.
POST: I was recently mailed a letter from a collection agency that has switched the account number and the amount owed, so on the letter itself it lo... | collections switched the account number and debt owed on the letter they sent me and I now look like I owe quadrillions of dollars - what should my next steps be? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Tip. Your. Waitresses.
POST: Reddit, today was my 25th birthday. I wasn't terribly excited or particularly concerned. But I have an amazing, kickass girlfriend, and an amazing, small group of friends who came through in high fashion and drove my bill, alone, to over $100 at the bar. The wa... | tip your damn bar workers. It will come back. And if they're good at what they do, they damn well deserve it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Question : Credit card open under my name (I never knew it exsisted... it has a $0 balance, $1,000 limit - USA)
POST: So I just happened to be checking a few things today and noticed that there is a Capital One card open under my name, that I wasn't aware of.
$0 Balance (thankfully) ... | Mysterious Credit Card Account is showing on my Credit Report. Zero balance, but I never opened this. If I call to close this thing out, will my credit score be negatively affected? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My pregnant [25F] of 9 months wants nothing to do with me [26M]
POST: My girlfriend of about 9 months wants nothing to do with me. We got pregnant about 4 1/2 months ago and we moved in together about 3 weeks ago. About two weeks ago she expressed the fact that she has been miserable a... | Pregnant gf no longer wants anything to do with me because of things I said, how do I fix this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: Roommates are her Friends
POST: My girlfriend (21f) and I (22m) broke up about a 2 months ago after 1.5 years. When she broke up with me I told her that I needed my space and that I didn't want her coming over to the house I live in. I tell my roommates that I need my personal space and tha... | Roommates bring my ex over to the house even though they all have been told not to do so. My ex knows this as well. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I lied to my girlfriend about my religious aspirations. How can I fix this?
POST: I'm a 23 year old male, my girlfriend is a 21 year old female.
We've been dating for almost 8 months.
We are both religious Jews.
Without getting into any religious debates, one of the things that she wa... | My girlfriend wants me to go to Synagogue everyday and I told her I do and I will, even though I don't plan on ever going. |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Offered an interview but it's delayed while they re-advertise...
POST: Hey, would like to get some constructive perspectives on my situation.
I'm a trainee journalist looking for my first staff role and I've applied for a role in my city that is looking for graduates. It'd be a great role to ge... | After a written job assessment, I've been offered an interview but it's delayed while they re-advertise. I'm confused as to its potential meaning. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Went out with a girl I knew for awhile and really hit it off but don't want to be in a relationship. How do approach this gently? btw she is my almost-next-door neighbor.
POST: 24/M here, and the girl is 23.
I know this girl through a close friend of mine. we knew each other for abou... | I really hit it off with my almost-next-door-neighbor, we kiss and cuddle (she made all the first moves, I did not lift a finger, but went along with it and did not hesitate) |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Y U DO THIS WOMEN?
POST: Last week I was flying back home and ended up in the middle seat. When I sat down this lady walks by and sits next to me. Worth mentioning is that she had one of the biggest, fattest wedding rings I have seen probably ever. First thing she does is buckles herself t... | Lady was all over me during plane flight, then acted like I don't exist as soon as plane landed. Why do women do this stuff? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What's your best Pissed Myself story Reddit? Here's mine from last night.
POST: Alright. I still haven't recovered mentally from this so please bear with my poor writing for a bit.
I have a bad habit of visiting my ex at work as she manages a bar a block away from my apartment. Long stor... | Powerhosed my laptop from point blank while I was passed out, client folders, software, my life, gone. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Girl of my dreams, but I'm still pretty fucked up.
POST: Hey guys,
Maybe you can help me out here, I'm really not sure what to do. This all starts about a year and a half ago. Pretty much I went into super depressed mode after my last relationship went bad and I ended up moving... | Took a lot of drugs, got really fucked up, on meds to help, meet girl of my dreams, meds kill sex drive. What do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M] with my gf [22 F] short relationship , she goes on vacation with ??
POST: gf goes on trip with family member but I suspect that she is there with ex lover of few years. A extraordinary month love blossoms but lies about the trip persist. During the trip and after much denial ... | what should I do, trust that she was on a trip with an ex and had no sexual encounters after lying about the whole ordeal and give her a second chance? Or drop her from my life completely. Help Me! |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What horrible/embarrassing story about you does your family insist on rehashing every holiday?
POST: My family loves to rehash the story of the time I was beaten up through the window of my car when I was a teenager.
To make a long story short, I was trying to merge into the left lane t... | I was the victim of assault but my family finds this story hilarious and makes me resell the story over the holidays every year. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I(f24) am upset at well just about everyone but mostly my mom (f47)
POST: I think a lot of my issues stem from when I was first diagnosed with Ovarian cancer in February of this year, but I feel like today is just extra upsetting. I found out earlier today that I was going to be having... | I am no longer the sick kid, and I feel like I don't matter anymore. Plus I'm a crybaby and wanted a party/dinner something in my honour. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Boyfriend (24/m) and me (22/f) have been together for 2 years. Not sure who is causing problems: my emotional instability or his lack of effort?
POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now. I love him very much and I know he loves me but often I feel like I never knows ... | I just don't know whats making me sad, my instability or am I just dissastified with where I am. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22 M] can't resist feeling upset about my girlfriend [22 F] being so close with other guys.
POST: My girlfriend of half a year has a lot of guy friends - some of which she's very close to - which shouldn't really upset me at all because I trust her.
But no matter how much I rationa... | Girlfriend spends a lot of time with other guy friends, and even though I know its stupid to feel upset about it, I can't help feeling upset. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [30 M] with my 21 [F] 2 mo. relationship, need advice on how to deal with my mistake
POST: I'm in the beginning stages of a new relationship and I think I may have fucked up.
Last night we were talking about things that bother each other, and she noted to me that she has minor jeal... | Gf and I talked about things that bother her. The next day, I did the very thing that bothered her. She didn't want to talk about it. Do I press the issue to talk about it or leave it alone? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 M] with my gf [20 F] of a year and a quarter, how to make her more open to sexting
POST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year and a quarter now, and everything is perfect. We have fun together, can talk for ages without realising and just generally enjoy each others c... | Girlfriend won't give sexting a try despite it being one of the few ways to be "intimate" together. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Is pride worth this?
POST: Hey guys. I am completely mentally drained and just need some outside input on my situation. Me and my fiance are having the most terrible luck. He was working in the oil field in North Dakota and unfortunately got laid off. We were forced to relocate to a small far... | cannot earn enough money to replace septic pump, living in flith, one truck stop shower every week or two, shitting in buckets, to swallow pride and ask for help or continue to try my hardest and get nowhere? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I (21 M) tell my parents that my girlfriend (27 F) of two years has a 9 year old child?
POST: My parents currently believe my girlfriend's daughter is her younger sister (my girlfriend was too scared to tell them so we lied). I have known since the beginning that my girlfriend h... | Girlfriend has a child, child lives with GF and her parents, I haven't told my parents (they think the child is her younger sister), how should I tell them? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17 M] with my friend's friend [17 F], I'm not sure if she's dropping hints or not
POST: Throwaway because my friends use reddit. Also excuse me for any grammatical errors, I'm not a native speaker.
I don't have insecurity issues, but I'm not the kind of guy who talks more with gir... | Girl randomly complimented me, always smiling when talking with me, also looks/stares at me (maybe coincidence that we both looked, I dunno). Is she hinting? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24 F] found something on my boyfriend's [30 M] phone that he doesn't consider cheating. What are the boundaries here? I don't know how to go forward with the relationship.
POST: We have a very healthy relationship. No cheating and no problems besides the normal argument here and the... | Found texts between him and his guy friend talking about this girl he was attracted to on the plane and continued to try and pursue when he was on vacation 5 months ago. Don't know how to handle situation. |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: Need suggestions on ways to help my best friend's little sister
POST: I have been racking my brain to think of ways to help this girl and I need some creative suggestions/advice.
Here is the story. My best friend (let's call her "Cindy") is an adult, living on her own, working full time and go... | This 15 yr old girl's mom is going to jail and I need ideas in ways to offer my support and help keep her on track. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Is My Girlfriend(21/f) losing interest. (me 21/m)
POST: Hi, I've been in a relationship now for about a year and 3 months. It's been without doubt the best time of my life, though of course there have been difficult times. In my mind i've felt that this could be a long, serious r... | Help on whether my girlfriend is losing interest in our relationship, or if I'm over-thinking what is going on. Advice on where to go from here. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [21/M] My girlfriend (20/F) has so many issues and she doesn't know how to take them out on anyone but me. Help.
POST: My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year now. She had to go away to go to practice writing for a medical school exam. Since then all we've been abl... | My girlfriend has issues, she takes them out on me because she can't talk to anyone else about them and I want to find some other outlet for her to use so I don't become the front of her anger issues. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: What would you do if you were me?
POST: I am late 20's with a stable job and a salary around $85,000/year. I have a crossed all my t's and dotted all my i's thanks to this community, and have thankfully saved a nice ~$200,000 worth of retirement savings and personal investments since... | What would you do with a paid for Universal Life Policy with ~$30,000 cash value and 5-6% annual return? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by saying I didn't want her number
POST: This happened last night, but it was in the early AM hours so technically today.
Anyway, I'm currently doing some travelling. I decided to spend the month of April in London and it's been great, but my time is nearly up. (Source: Calendar)
I decid... | Coolest girl I've met in awhile literally offered me her number and my response made her think I didn't want to see her again. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [16M] with my GF [17F] of 5 months... She's got rich parents who make close to 7 figures, I've got a more "standard" life. How do I stop feeling so insecure?
POST: I really care for and like my GF, yes we are in high school but i can't preface it enough that our problems are not rel... | My GF is rich (I am very much so not) and its making me feel super weird. What should I do about it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18/F] went on a great semi-date [22/M] but am I moving too quickly? General advice is appreciated.
POST: Okay, I'm going to try to get all of this down in a clear-ish way. My BF [20/M] of almost 5 months broke up with me about three weeks ago, he broke my heart but I'm working past ... | went on a great date with a new guy, unsure about everything but the fact that I like him, do you have any advice? I |
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge
TITLE: Not doing your job = more work for you
POST: So I'm a manager at a fairly successful movie theater. For the most part I work in the confessions areas. We hire mainly teenagers......yay. Must of the employees are fairly decent and most will do their jobs. But there is this group of about... | girls don't do easy job I make it hard and gross and sticky and make them get on their hands and knees. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by using my arms too much.
POST: So this was about seven hours ago when I was still in school. I wanna preface this by saying when I tell stories I tend to be physical in my explanations.
Anyways, so after my calculus class let out, I was talking to one of my friends about the quiz we ju... | I was explaining a story about my weekend, smacked a girl in the face, ruined her experience at high school. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [29 M] am an overweight, bald, and hairy man who has never dated. What do I do?
POST: Not sure if this was the appropriate sub but this is one of my favorite subs so I'll give it a shot
Puberty was not kind to me. I started balding immediately around 16-17 and sprouted long thick ... | Bald, hairy, and overweight and hate the way I look. Never dated and don't know where to start. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (17m) don't know what to do about (15f) who I care about (and 16f) who would make a great SO and I need help deciding.
POST: I've been talking to Girl A (15f) since November. We've liked each other and I've wanted to date. She seems to be afraid of commitment and I don't think she re... | Have had an unofficial relationship/"thing" with girl A for almost 5 months. Took a break and now there's girl B but I feel like I still want girl A who I've only been on one date with. |
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