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SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Balance transfer to 0% APR credit card a bad idea?
POST: Quick summary:
Either my wife or I have been in grad school for the past 5 years (3 years of law school for her, 2 years of business school for me), while the other works and support the family financially. We had to take out... | We have $10k in credit card debt and finally are making enough to pay it off over at least a few months. Should we transfer it to a 0% APR credit card while paying it off to avoid interest? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Job Help
POST: Hey Reddit,
A few weeks ago I decided to look for and take a new internship. I applied for one at a local start up and a few other places around my college town, and get an offer for 14 an hour as before I was making ten, at a cool start up.
The day after I accepted the of... | I got two job offers one from a start up that pays less and one from an IT company that pays more but is boring. Advice? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21F] with my ex-boyfriend [22M] of 5 years, is still contacting me after dumped me.
POST: So my ex-boyfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago because he doesn't love me anymore.
After begging and crying for him I cut all contact with him. I deleted his number and snap chat. A week la... | I need advice I'm confused. Why did he come back? Does he still have feelings for me? I miss him so much. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [31/F] with my[27/] 2yrs in September, do you stay mad at your partner for long? gut feeling says he's angry with me; want to cheer him up
POST: It's hard to stay mad at my SO, b/c I'm so damn in love with him. How is it for the rest of you guys? Do you correlate how deep your love ... | love bf more than he loves me, so i don't stay mad at him for long; should I even bother initiating more contact; maybe it's all in my head |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I've [22 F] been dating this guy [22 M] for close to 4 months, I'm ready to label us Bf/Gf but he isn't.. I think I want to call things off completely if he doesn't feel the same way...
POST: So we met on New Years Eve, we have close mutual friends. We started talking immediately and I... | been dating this guy for 4 months, unsure where the relationship is going, and not sure whether or not I should continue putting time and effort into something that may just end because of his commitment issues. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My girlfriend [23] is stunningly beautiful. I [m28] am not.
POST: Throwaway because she's a redditor too. Apologies if this does not belong here, or isn't in the right place! Please let me know if that's the case.
Anyhow, I've been dating my girlfriend for a little over a month, thou... | My girlfriend is a few orders of magnitude more attractive than me; though I'm not feeling inadequate about it, I'm curious if anyone has been in this situation before, and the sorts of things you've encountered. |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Recently overcome bulimia, looking for ways to eat healthy and lose a bit of weight.
POST: Hi!
This past summer, I developed bulimia as a reaction to a pretty rapid weight gain (in tandem with depression) and spent the past six months fighting to overcome it. I finally beat it in the past m... | Had bulimia that messed up my eating patterns, I'm looking for help on how to get back to a semblance of normalcy. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can I [27M] help ensure that my fiancée [27F] has a good bachelorette party?
POST: This is quite unorthodoxed in a sense, but my fiancée (who I've been with for over 5 years) has her bachelorette party slated for this weekend. Mine was last weekend and my best man put a lot of effo... | Fiancée has her bachelorette party this weekend and I want to ensure that she has a good time. My sister (and a friend or two of hers) have been great, others not so much. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Restroom stall etiquette for god's sake.
POST: This happened to me a few months ago at work. Every morning around 9-10am is when I feel the urge to drop a deuce. I'm automatic that way.
So I head out to our buildings public men's restroom which has but one toilet stall and one urinal. As... | Guy waits to use the toilet right outside toilet stall. Ignoring proper toilet etiquette and wait outside restroom.We end up face to face in and awkward project meeting. FML |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by having relations with my boyfriend in the living room.
POST: Ok, so this just happened probably an hour ago.
I was at my boyfriend's house and we were alone. His parents were in bed and we usually use this time to our advantage by having "sexy time." In the past I have been nervous ab... | had sexy time with boyfriend but banged my head and knee on fire place while escaping embarrassment of getting caught by his father |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: LPT: Exercise or "lift" your neck during your weightloss journey to avoid the common end result of the watermelon on a stick look.
POST: I have lost 80lbs so far and have been a long time lurker on loseit and progresspics. I started to notice a trend in final progress pics, especially in male... | use resistance training on your neck during weight loss so your head doesn't look giant on your neck once you're fit/skinny. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21M] trying to work some issues out with the girl [20F] I'm seeing. Seeking suggestions if I should continue seeing her.
POST: Hello everyone.
I am a 21 y/o guy and my name is Erik, and I'm seeing a girl who I really like. She great and attractive, and a joy to be around. But I'm... | Maybe the girl I'm dating is trying to be a bit controlling? Need suggestions on how to react, and if she should be my prospective girlfriend. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by punching a vulnerable adult
POST: I work in adult foster care, and I came into work about an hour ago. I was talking to my coworker, and she asked me to grab the med count book. I said sure not thinking anything of it. Well, I was in the middle of telling her how I broke our work cats w... | I went to work, punched vulnerable scream face in the face. Turned out to be my poor client playing a joke on me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25M] need casual dating tips... bad.
POST: Just got out of a 6 year relationship in which I was badly hurt. She had cheated on me multiple times, and told me she was unhappy... I had no freaking clue.
Having always been a "relationship guy," I always felt comfortable just being wit... | Awkward dude, fresh out of 6 year relationship. Looking for some tips from experienced casual daters. THANKS! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [Update] Me [21 M] with my GF [20 F] of 5 years, questioning the relationship
POST: The original post can be found here:
So I don't know what to do at this point; I'm starting to have troubles sleeping because I'm just unhappy with the two paths that I'm left with. I either stay with... | I have no idea what to do with my relationship with my GF of 5 years due to the fact I still love her and want her to be my best friend but am not happy with the state of our relationship. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I chase my lifelong crush/best friend?
POST: So the girl in question is someone I went to grade school with for 9 years (k-8) and then we went separate ways for highschool in the same town. We didn't hang out all that much but still talk, joke around, and see alot of each other ... | Should I lay it all on the table for my gs/hs crush or is this a relationship no-go? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is what my (13/f) dad (45ish/m) does normal?
POST: I don't know if I'm sounding crazy or not. I can't talk to anyone in real life about it. Thanks in advance.
Sometimes my dad does things that feel weird to me. I don't think he knows. My mom says he has Asperger's, but it's not diagno... | My dad does things that creep me out but I don't think he means them. Is it normal, what do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24F] with my boyfriend [25M] of 2.5 years. He insists on keeping the temperature in our apartment at 81 degrees at all times. I am roasting to death.
POST: I never thought before moving in with my boyfriend that this would become a major problem. I knew that he was "cold natured," ... | Boyfriend refuses to keep temperature in our apartment below 81 degrees. I am roasting to death, but he refuses to compromise. Is there any solution that can keep us both happy? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [27F] broke it off with my BF [28M] of 4 years. So why am I the one crying myself to sleep over the breakup?
POST: In short: I broke up with my SO of 4 years a little under 2 weeks ago and he's already on dating sites and is seeing a girl and being intimate with her. It's fucking hur... | broke up with bf and he "moved on" really fast. It's unleashed my pent up sadness about the breakup and I'm starting to question my decision/fighting the urge to change my mind. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Just got 'robbed' and I need some advice.
POST: Hi Reddit! I need some advice.
I moved to a new area recently and was looking for a place to get some trees. I finally found someone who was willing to help me out and met him Saturday night to make a trade. The only way that we corresponded... | Looking for trees, gave a guy money with his phone for 'collateral' and he never came back. What can I do to get retribution? |
SUBREDDIT: r/travel
TITLE: What are nice national parks to visit in the US in November?(would prefer no snow)
POST: Hey there,
I've got some vacation time left I have to use this year, but it's only really possible in November. I would love to travel to the US again. I was there two years ago doing a roadtrip visiting... | Want to see some nice nationalparks/areas in the US in November while not having snow. Any advice? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I'm 6 months into my first job after college. It's not bad, and the pay is decent, but it's not what I want to do for the rest of my life. How long should I stay before looking for something else?
POST: Some background info:
I don't dislike the job, and it pays well. Although the job can ... | I'm content with my job, but I know I need to make a change eventually. How soon should I do it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17M], I seem to always obsess from girl to girl
POST: I'm gonna keep this pretty short and sweet as I'm not exactly sure how helpful detail can be, but I'll add as much as I think is necessary.
Basically, I have this problem where I seem to obsess over every love interest I have. ... | I obsess over girls, and they're always in my mind and always in my conversations. I'm not a sleazebag, I just usually pick a girl and pursue it until I move on to the next girl. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Hey Reddit, long time lurker recently decided to take the plunge and create an account, now I could use some loan advice please!
POST: I'm in a hard financial position right now, as I'm sure most of the country is. I'm a student who is graduating in May and I just found a new apartment tha... | What is a reliable lender for a $3,000 loan with my 673 credit score that can accept / deny relatively quickly, I need it like now. Also, I live in Rhode Island if that matters at all. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[17F] don't know how to deal with my Bf[24M] being gone for 4 months.
POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for about 5 months. Everything about him meshed so perfectly with me. He's an ex Sea Bee, currently working on getting his GED. He's dealing with PTSD and some severe depr... | Bf has PTSD, in treatment facility for 4 months, his phone is off and I dont know how to cope without him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [30f] feel like a loser for not having people to invite to my wedding
POST: My parents keep to themselves a lot so they don't have any close friends that they would invite. They are from small families, too, and aren't very close to their siblings, so there's no one really on their s... | i feel like a loser because I don't have many friends or people I can invite to my small wedding. How do I stop feeling this way? |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: Can't tell if she likes me or not and making the first move.
POST: I'm a 22 year old guy, I'm definitely on the heaver side but I'm working to loose that. I met this girl through the volunteer organization we both work for, rotary. This past weekend we had a rotary event we were both ... | !- Got closer with a girl that i haven't had much personal interaction with, had a great time and fell for her, what do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Need help with parents and university
POST: So as you all know, the college app season is upon us and everyone is super stressed and anxious and I'm having such a hard time with my mom. She very recently got diagnosed with cancer again (3rd time) and is extremely opposed to me going to a univ... | I want to move away for college, but mom with cancer wants me to stay home and go to a boring/not so good college |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: To get what you want, you have to ask for what you want.
POST: I just broke up with my boyfriend. I did this because I thought that, after a year, we still didn't know each other. He didn't know my secrets, he didn't know about my past bout of depression or that most of the time I still feel l... | I never told my boyfriend what I wanted and he never told me what he wanted. Now it's over and I'm a jack ass. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24/m] am having a hard time coming to terms with my ex[28/F] dating someone else. (7 year relationship)
POST: So we have been broken up for about 6 months now. However 3 months ago we decided that we were going to try and make it work again, I now live 4 hours away from her in anoth... | GF of 7 years left me, said she was going to try and make it work with me, then started sleeping with another guy. Help. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What needs to be invented? - Help a Product Design Student
POST: Is there something that you do on a daily basis that annoys you?
Something that seems inefficient?
Is there a tool that you use that makes you say "why doesn't this work better?"
Or a tool/toy/product/piece of furniture/pie... | What product innovations would make your life easier so I can design it for my senior project, and possibly have it manufactured? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf[17 F] told me[17 M] that she wanted a break.
POST: To put it frankly she works all of the time. Combined with us both going to school, her collage, it's very hard for us to see/talk to each other, especially this past month.
Last night, she called me and told me that she had a c... | Gf broke up with me for 10 mins, to try and immediately get back, I'm slow to forgive her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [27M] messed up: Called my girlfriend [27F] selfish for not wanting children.
POST: "Kate" and I have been dating for about a year and a half. I love her more than anything and I believe she's my soul mate. She on the other hand, is not convinced. I know she loves me, but she's never... | Called my girlfriend selfish for not wanting kids, now she won't speak to me and I don't know how to fix it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Will you help me get excited to re-start my weight loss?
POST: Background- When I went to college I was a decently healthy 155lbs/70kg 5'6 girl. A year into school, I weighed 205lbs/93kg, gained 50lbs for all the normal reasons people gain in college. In January of 2010, I got my act together... | PLEASE help me get motivated to start eating right and exercising again! [In these pictures, I am 205lbs and 160lbs.]( |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19M] broke up with GF[19F] 8 months ago, now I want her back.
POST: I broke up with my GF of 2 years last November because I just didn't feel like I loved her and it wasn't going anywhere. After breaking up, we kind of started a FWB thing in January and have been hanging out a litt... | I broke up with my GF, we then had a FWB relationship while I told her to find another guy. Now that she found another guy, I want her back because I know I love her. What can I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can I [23F] network with several ex-coworkers [30s/40sF] who recently quit without being pushy or insensitive?
POST: I work at a small company. Until about a month ago, I was close to two of the executives (let's call them Jane and Susan). Neither was my boss but I voluntarily help... | Meeting up with two higher level ex-coworkers who quit, I need to network and get myself out of this terrible company without being insensitive. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: Crate Training Times?
POST: Here is the story. I have a 2.5 year old dog who is really well trained. Well trained to the point that I have never bothered crate training her. I can leave her in my house or the car without problem. I never wanted/needed to crate train her so I never did.
Now... | Need advice about crate training an adult, well-behaved dog during the daytime (must be out at night) in preparation for having to have her crated at class. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Does my relationship sound weird (24F and 26M, 1 yr)...?
POST: I'm still undecided about what I really want from the relationship and I'm worried we may end up having different aims...
I think my BF is happy 'floating' in the relationship. He has bipolar disorder and needs a lot of ti... | My boyfriend and I don't seem to have long-term plans to meet each other's friends/parents, move in together, get married or have kids. Are we doomed...?! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: A girl [f/20] I'm [m/24] seeing is rating me like a product on an app called Luluvise, where do I even start?
POST: So today I found out this girl I'm seeing is rating me like a commodity on some app just for girls called Luluvise - I don't like it - what is it, what do you think about... | Girlfriend I've been with for 3 months is rating me on Luluvise and I don't like it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: This is such a terrible day. Just need to get it out...
POST: So today started off like any normal day. Went to work, which has been a little tense lately and my area is rumored to be laying off 2,000 jobs the next few months. I'm a part time employee at an engineering firm as a drafter/do what... | Got a strong hint that I might lose my job in 3 weeks at the end of the school year. Got pulled over, had suspended license, now totally fraked. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Why does my friend keep calling me Morton?
POST: I understand that this will probably be ignored, but I don't know where else to go.
When I get frustrated with my friend's trolling or complain about anything in general around him, he calls me Morton. Some of my other friends are in on in,... | My gamer friend calls me Morton when I get frustrated or complain, and I don't know what he's referring to. Any (serious) suggestions are welcome. |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: HOT GIRLS AT GYM-HELP :)
POST: I am a 22(M) , buff, attractive and confident. Constantly see cuties at the gym and want to know some smart strategies to approach. Okay, I know you're all going to say not to do it and stuff but hey, I will never see these girls anywhere else (for now) ... | Decided to finally man up and hit on girls at the gym. Don't care about rejection..Best way to approach for an attractive, outgoing male? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Signle, gay [27M], suffering from what I'm calling third-date syndrome.
POST: I got out of a three-year relationship about 9 months ago, and I've recently started dating around a bit. I'm not necessarily on the hunt for a relationship, but I do enjoy a bit of romance in my life.
Most ... | I'm a gay guy who loses attraction to interesting guys on the third date, and I don't know what to fucking do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [M15] need help with getting a girl [15F] who has a HUGE crush on me to leave me alone.
POST: I met this girl (let's call her T) in class a few weeks back when she started sitting beside me. We talked a lot and became friends but being a guy I totally missed that she had a crush on ... | met a girl. She likes me a LOT. I dont like her. She's getting a bit crazy. Need help getting rid of her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [34 M] looking for closure from a digression that my wife [34 F] had 5 years ago. My only help is a friend that very well may have a crush on me.
POST: About 5 years ago my wife sought companionship in an old friend from high school. She maintained a 'relationship' with this guy fo... | Wife had short relationship behind my back. I need closure and the only person able to give me closure is a friend that my wife has effectively cut out of our lives. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Update: my girlfriend (f20) just broke up with me (m20) 2 1/2 years
POST: Original:
I'm starting to feel like she never cared about me is that normal? I feel like she never loved me or even hardly liked me, she seems to be fine after the break up, I'm still dying inside, I don't even... | why can't I just feel better, why can't I just not care about this break up like she is doing? Should I be angry? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Bit of a complicated situation to do with a breakup any advice appreciated.
POST: I had an episode of pure selfishness on new years, to call it rage would be appropriate but it wasnt.
I wanted a way to stop feeling so pressured and to just be calm. I broke up with my girlfrien... | Broke up with girlfriend over depression, we still seeing each other but im having trouble dealing with how slow its going. Just want to deal with it until we are in a better place. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am I (25M) selfish in wanting more sex with my girlfriend (27F) now that I see her more often?
POST: We've been together for nearly two years. For most of our relationship we've only seen each other 1 or 2 times a week, and we would be intimate pretty much every time. But on average ab... | see my girlfriend more and want more sex, but she still wants to have the same amount of sex as when we saw each other rarely |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 F] with my boyfriend [20 M] of two years, I've been emotionally manipulative lately.
POST: I know I am in the wrong here, I'm not trying to explain my actions. Please don't be too harsh without advice. I just want to stop this awful habit and treat my boyfriend the right way.
... | I've been really Dickish when my boyfriend cancels plans or rejects an idea. How can I do better about accepting no as an answer gracefully? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: It's Prom season, let's hear some of Reddits craziest Prom stories
POST: I'll start. Senior prom, downtown Atlanta, get to the door to go in, principal says I'm not allowed inside because she was a fat bitch (whole nother story in its own). After raising absolute hell for a minute it start... | kicked out of prom, fuck on roof, trapped in stairwell, get saved and freak the fuck out of dude at the same time. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I [22m] ask her [20f] out over text?
POST: So here is the short version of this story. About a year ago there was this cute girl in a class i was a TA of sorts in. I wanted to ask her out back then but felt is was inappropriate seeing as how I was grading her assignments. Anyway... | girl I haven't talked to in a while is leaving the country but I wanted to ask her out through text, should I wait? |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Friends to Keep Track Of
POST: Hey there folks. I've been on my "actually getting off my ass and paying attention to calories" thing for a little over a week now, and I already feel like I'm making awesome progress.
I've got a request, though! What keeps me interested and motivated are the s... | Let's add each other on fitness sites. Find me on [Lose it!] and [My Fitness Pal] at norumu[at]gmail.com |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17/M] am not sure what to do with this relationship
POST: I am interested in this girl, which happens to be my friends ex.
I am closer to her than to him though. When me and her first met, it was sometime during spring or summer of last year. Me and her instantly connected as frien... | Interested in friends ex. Closer to her than him. Is this wrong? How should I go about telling her I like her without ruining our relationship? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Cupcake help?
POST: So my knowledge of cupcakes is next to none, expect a few basic things, and I could never really eat them.. But enough about that.
My best friend's birthday is coming up in roughly 6 weeks, and she mentioned her love of cupcakes, so I thought it would be a perfect birt... | Need help with cupcakes to send to America for birthday present, recommedation on yummy cupcakes that arent too harsh on the wallet. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 F] with my BF [21 M] of six months, I can't help but still feel sad that he accidentally ruined a dress I loved.
POST: I interned over the summer at a fashion house and we had this insane employee discount sale event (the only time I was able to afford the clothes as a college s... | BF accidentally (permanently) ruins a beloved and expensive new dress of mine and I can't get over it. Am I a brat? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Best way to have discussion with Supervisor?
POST: In my current shop their are 3 Developers. 1 is an intern who recently turned full-time once he got enough college credit for his Associates Degree. We had 4, but our lead Developer with over 17yrs IT experience left for a better position ... | How best to approach supervisor about interest in moving up from an I.T. 1 to an I.T. 2? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: So I get extremely overwhelmed whenever I try to shop...what can I do to help this?
POST: So I've always been okay socially. I have a good group of friends, that I have known for years. I have a girlfriend of almost a year and don't usually have a problem conversing with people in general.... | I get uncomfortable/overwhelmed shopping to the point that I freeze up and cannot think. Does anyone have any advice to help with this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by telling a very sick child that they were going to end up brain-dead.
POST: This happened quite literally 30 minutes ago.
I am a male pediatric RN who works full time as a nurse for sick children.
One of our 'frequent flyers' (a chronically ill patient who has frequent hospital admissi... | Told a chronically ill child, who LOVES the 'Veggie Tales' cartoon, that he was going to turn into a vegetable. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: BF watches porn everyday
POST: My (24F) serious bf (23M) of about 6 months now watches porn everyday. I understand that he is going to watch it, but to engage in it (watching porn/looking at nudes) everyday seems like a lot to me. When I try to talk to him about it, he just seems to ... | BF watches porn everyday and I would like to know if this is common. If so, how do I become more comfortable with it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I'm in a abusive relationship, I have no clue what to do. Can someone please help me or give me advice?
POST: Throw-away for a few reasons.
I am in a abusive relationship, I wish I could just leave, but I can't. The abuse had been going on for awhile.. I had raised a daughter with my fian... | in a abusive relationship, constantly harrased, beaten, yelled at. Not sure of where to go or what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Wife (35F) having emotional affair, kissed boss (51M), now claims attempted assault....
POST: So about 2 or 3 months ago, my wife started telling me that her boss was flirting hard with her and making inappropriate comments for approximately 6-8 months. She didn't want to go to HR beca... | Wife admitted kissing boss, then says he tried to assault her weeks later; she still wants to work there and refuses to report him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I'm [31 M] My girlfriend [27 f] is an AMAZING human being! But she's a very bad kisser and it's killing our intimacy. How do I fix this without offending her?
POST: My girlfriend is AMAZING. Beautiful, smart, and an incredibly truly good person. Hard to find and a real catch. I'm... | My girlfriend is amazing and I'm lucky to have her but she's a really bad kisser and it's ruining the intimacy. Need to fix this without offending her |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What are the incidents that seem to have the smallest consequences, but end up affecting you long term?
POST: Once when I was in middle school, I went on a field trip to the Florida keys. It was fun, I was sick and wasn't feeling well, and it was the last day there. We (the students from m... | Took a pantsless shower outside at a field trip in middle school (sides and front of the showers are covered), and after a delay of a couple weeks I almost get expelled. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My mother [49 F] is angry with me [22 F] for not being sad about my grandfather's death.
POST: My maternal grandfather recently passed away. It came as a surprise, even though we knew he had poor health. (He smoke and drank a lot during his lifetime, and its effects really came out the... | Grandfather died, and I don't really feel sad about his death because I wasn't really close to him. Mother gets angry at me for my lack of reaction. I feel guilty and frustrated. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: GF [23/F] doesn't like the idea of me [27/M] being apart from her. We've been together for almost 2 years.
POST: I have a business trip coming up and it'll require me to go away for a period of a few days or even a week. My GF has stated in the past that she doesn't want to be in a rel... | gf loves me very much and I love her. I want to go away for business for a few days/week but she won't like it. Any advice? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17 M] feel very empty and conflicted after a breakup. I don't know what to do.
POST: I met my ex-girlfriend a little over a year ago. I'll spare the details of how we got together, but we had been together for about a year. Over that time she became my best friend. I shared everythi... | My girlfriend/best friend and I broke up but we want to stay friends, I don't know what I'd do without her. Can it work? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: If everyone knows that politicians are liars, bought and paid for by opposing rich and powerful individuals, why don't we do anything about it?
POST: To clarify, I don't mean anything irrational or violent like overthrowing a government should be done. Violence doesn't solve anything, wars... | Is there something citizens can do to really make changes happen in our government like stopping all lobbyists from buying our representatives or removing representatives with clear ulterior motives from office? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Is it worth breaking up over?
POST: I'll start by saying that i'm (15M) and my girlfriend is (15F)
If you're still here regardless of our young age, thank you. It means a lot.
So here's the problem at hand, i don't really feel "it" anymore. I'm not happy and often just stress ... | I feel like i'm giving so much, and not getting anything in return. I feel like i'm just bugging her, especially after an altercation at out 6-month anniversary |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [M18] feel like there is something lacking in my current relationship with [F18]
POST: Almost a year ago I broke up with my first girlfriend. We started going out when we were both 16. Since then I have been on dates with two other girls and now I am in a relationship of three months... | My current relationship feels like it's lacking compared to my previous relationship and I have no idea why. Is it because I am comparing it to my first relationship, when everything was new and exciting? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, what's the simplest thing that happened to you that just made your day?
POST: I don't sleep very well. Most night I only get a few hours of sleep. When I go to bed I can't sleep, and I wake up in the middle of the night, and can't go back to sleep. Well, a few days ago marked sprin... | I can't sleep very well. On spring break, I got a nice night of sleep, woke up in a calming way, and had a great day. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Should I add more stress for more money?
POST: So long story, I have been working with this company for almost 3 years as a part-time stocker. I recently got "promoted" to a full-time position that has more hours for the same pay, in a different department. Only two weeks after starting th... | Have a stress-free position, but have the option for a slightly higher pay and more stress position. How should I proceed? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19F] need help with my [19M] friend and our mutual feelings
POST: Hey Reddit, I finally made an account and stopped lurking because I'm in need of some serious advice from an outside perspective.
My roommate introduced me to her best friend about a month ago and we've been hanging ... | Friend and I have mutual (but unacknowledged) feelings for each other, but he isn't ready for a relationship and I don't know how to talk to him about it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18M] am too easy and I don't like it. - REPOST
POST: I don't know what it is or why it happens, but if a girl shows me attention for like 2 days in a row then they can just basically have their way with me.
When a girl has been talking to me for a couple of days in a row, I feel li... | if a girl shows me a lot of attention then I think they fancy me and we could get together. This messes with my mind and I need help. |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Organization I volunteer with is hiring, question about how to approach
POST: Really appreciate all the advice is this sub and finally have a question of my own.
An organization I volunteered with earlier this year in the spring is hiring for a position which I am pretty certain that I am qua... | an organization I used to volunteer with is hiring, wondering how to approach ppl I know within the organization about the posting to show interest but not be annoying. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: The Ultimate First-World Problem: should I buy her a pearl necklace now or for Christmas?
POST: REALLY tough call for me, in no small part because major gift giving is a big source of stress for me because a long-term ex was pretty thankless, occasionally disappointed by more cos... | I have trouble buying more significant gifts for significant others and can't decide whether to get gf pearl necklace now or later. Pretty sure O already want to do it but need a nudge. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: My date is bringing friends on a first date? What do?
POST: I [30M] have a dinner date [28F] this Friday. It's not a formal restaurant, but a street patio setup that sells amazing tacos (seasonal). Afterwards we're going to check out a corn maze at night for fun at a local farmers fiel... | Going on a date, she is bringing friends. This changes the dynamic of the date as we will always be in the supervision of her friends. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [26m] dating [25f] and she is way more touchy/into the relationship than I am.
POST: This summer I met a great girl while we were both studying for the Bar exam. She is nice and we had casual sex a couple of times, but with the Bar exam review and us both being out of town a lot,... | Girl is really into me and clingy after really only one date, but I might just be crazy and want way too much personal space. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21F] am afraid of making the first move on the guy [21M] I like because I'm afraid that my future roommates will be furious.
POST: I'm interested in my best friend W, who I've known for 3 years. We hang out almost daily, we've gotten each other through a lot, and we definitely both... | Crazy roommates think they own the rights to the guy I like, even though they had 3 years and nothing happened. I fear they'll go all Mean Girls on me if I try to pursue the relationship. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Is it possible to ever get everything one wants?
POST: So, this has been bothering me for a while. In fact, I think it has bothered me ever since I was in elementary school. There are some things that I have wanted, but it seems like it is impossible to have it all (at least in the field ... | I feel like I cannot tackle the heavy goals I have. How do other people make the BIG changes that turn their lives into the life they are happier with? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me 21 F with my boyfriend 22 M of 2 years,how can I tell if we're about to break up?
POST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years. We are sorta complete opposites. I plan everything and I need financial security.
I lost my mom a few months before we started dating ... | My boyfriend of 2 years has been buying things to travel and won't talk to me. Should I dump him, or wait to see if he's really happy?**** |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I don't love my husband as much as he loves me. Help.
POST: This is a throwaway.
We are both 26, married for just over two years. Total length of relationship is just over three years.
I got married for the wrong reasons. I thought I really loved him, but the truth is that he just ma... | I was rebounding from an abusive relationship when I met my husband, and now that I'm over my past issues I'm not interested in my husband anymore. Can I fix this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Do I cancel the interview?
POST: A little backstory: I just moved to a new state and am looking for work (this was a last minute move). It's been slow going until a recruiter called me for a position. Just yesterday he called me after sending my resume off and told the company wants to set up a... | Have an interview on Thursday for a company I researched, only to find they are a terrible company I don't want to work for. Not sure if I should go or cancel. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: my male friend of 47 and his gf/baby momma of 35ish dating off and on for 15 plus years
POST: so my best bud of 10 years now has been with his gf off and on for 15 plus years, they have 2 kids together but thats not important. this issue is that me and him can talk on the phone for lik... | does it make sense for a woman to get jealous of male friends her sig other talks to on phone cause he doesnt talk to her for same amount of time when they LIVE together!? |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Discouraging spouse
POST: I just felt like I needed to say it someone or something even if it's only in text. I'm so upset. My husband who is naturally thin (can eat whatever with no exercise) and I just had a conversation about my counting calories in mfp.
I just started 5 days ago and I've... | Husband being unsupportive. Made me upset. Said eating 1200 calls a day will only maintain my weight and I don't exercise enough to lose any weight. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Juvenile (17) going to meet with family court probation officer on tuesday before actual court case. Need help with a question about drug testing.
POST: I got arrested on october 6th for a DUI after i crashed my car into a tree. A grinder was found in my car with no marijuana actually in... | In a family court juvenile case will the child be drug tested at the pre-case assessment meeting with the childs parents and family court officer or will it most likely be at the actual court case itself? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Found my (24/F) husband (26/M) making out with his friend (25?/M) and I'm absolutely shattered.
POST: I feel like a train wreck right now and I really don't know how I'm going to deal with this.
My husband and I have had a very happy married life, I've never had any problems and some... | I walked in on my husband making out with his *male* best friend. I'm staying at my sister's house now and I don't know what to do next. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by making a random traveler lose his luggage in Germany
POST: **Context** : took a bus from Stuttgart airport to my German hometown, stopped in another town to take a connecting bus.
Coming back from my holiday, I decided to take a bus from the airport. My suitcase was really heavy, thank... | Forgot to put back a suitcase in the luggage hold after taking mine, and made a random traveler have the panic attack of his life |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My husband (31/m) of one year gets in my face (26/f) when we argue. Advice?
POST: Dated for 4 years before getting married.
Using a throwaway because he uses reddit.
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It's basically the title. We get into arguments like most couples do. He has never gotten physical with me. Once... | Husband gets up in my face when we argue but is not violent. He's not seeming to listen that I don't like it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is it wrong if I [20M] an slightly bothered that my gf [19F] sleeps in the same bed with her bestfriend [20M] (who is a good mutual friend)?
POST: Sorry for the amount of reading first off.
Okay I've known my girlfriend for 5 years before we started dating, we're best friends, and she... | GF sleeps in the same bed with her guy best friend. always goes out of the way for him when she's over, and when she's there I'm "swept aside". |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: [HELP] Parents and cats don't want a dog, but ever since my cat died, I'm really lonely here.
POST: My cat died last year, and because she was my closest friend in my house, I've been pretty lonely when I am not out of the house or with my boyfriend. I really want a new pet, and I would prefer ... | I need help figuring out how to convince my mom to allow me to get a dog even though our cats are old, grumpy, and territorial. |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: Is anyone else rocking a single ring (no wedding band)?
POST: My FH had my ring custom made and the band is an odd shape. It would be difficult to add a wedding band to, and I think adding anything to the original ring would detract from it. He was worried that I'd be upset at only h... | Curious about other people's ring setups, does anyone rock a single ring or do most people have separate engagement/wedding bands? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: ONS text me [20M] saying she thinks she was spiked and has a bf. How do I reply?
POST: Had a one night stand with a girl, we were both drunk and came back to mine. We had sex and she left.
I got a text saying roughly "think i was spiked last night, what happened? please keep this to y... | had a ons, got a text off her saying "think i was spiked, please keep this to yourself, what happened, i love my bf :(" and i'm not sure how to/if I even should reply |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What is your best "WHEW that was close" moment?
POST: When i was 17 i believe, i use to climb out my bedroom window onto a mini roof of my house to smoke cigarettes to avoid my parents catching me. One day it was snowy outside, and this mini roof had maybe a 1 inch coat of snow. I went o... | smoke cigs on 20 feet high mini roof, slip and slide down roof in snowy weather and somehow stop just before falling off the edge. stopped smoking cigs on the mini roof |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20 M] am seeing flaws in my gf [20 F] of 1+ year after becoming closer to a friend [20 F]
POST: Backstory: The friend, Jessica, [20 F] has been in my friend group for over a year, but I have only recently gotten the chance to talk to her one on one and share experiences. Been dating... | Have a gf, but might be falling for a friend. How do I make a decision while not being blinded by the allure, the chase, and the excitement? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My ex [25/M] and I [24/F] have been broken up for 8 months. We only dated for 3. He still calls me crying.
POST: Alright so me [24/F] has been broken up with my ex [25/M] who I dated for only *3 months* is a little confused as to what to do.
I broke up with him because it just wasn't ... | Ex of 8 months who i've dated for 3 is still hysterical and upset over the loss of our relationship. I dont want him to go crazy. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Should i (22m) stick around or not?
POST: I live with my "ex" of 2 years that has broken up with me about 3 months ago. I know she was actively on dating websites(okcupid for sure) so i was sure there was no point in even trying to be with her. I figured i would just try to move ... | My ex/roomate(22f) that was so sweet before our falling out, is acting like my gf again? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [30 M] with my Girlfriend[34 F] she is out with a former lover who I caught her messaging at christmas - need advice regarding how to help her daughter after breakup
POST: A few weeks ago I caught my girlfriend(18 Months) messaging a "former lover" as she calls him messages about wa... | Girlfriend is cheating on me tonight, what can I do to make breakup easier on her daughter [7 years old] |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Fianceé [23F] is upset I'm not waiting for her to go to my [24M] family member's wedding
POST: Throwaway because some of my family members know my main account.
So I have been engaged to my wonderful fianceé for approximately 6 months, and we'll be getting married next year.
Recently... | My fianceé can't take the day off of work for a rehearsal dinner, wants to go to the wedding but I'll miss the rehearsal dinner |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Sharing some data to prove it's okay if you fall off the wagon. (I did, twice!)
POST: F 27 4'11'' SW: 191.6 CW: 156.8 GW: 100
Two years ago, I hit a number on the scale that was terrifying to me, so I downloaded myfitnesspal and tracked what I ate. I lasted about a month and gained 20+ pound... | If you fall off the wagon, you can always get back on. Making small changes one at a time helped me finally stay on. |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: [16/M]How do I talk to an awkward and shy girl who is into me?
POST: Hello all! I am a 16 year old in high school that needs your help. Not sure if this post should be under /r/relationship because I have only talked to this girl for 2 weeks.
I need some tips on how to talk to this... | Give me tips on how to talk to a shy/awkward girl, so the Halloween party i'm attending won't be a mess. |
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