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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: [US/IA, UK, Mauritius] How to file for divorce when spouses are in different countries?
POST: I've had a hard time finding an answer to this, and haven't found a lawyer in my local area who can help me. I'm hoping someone here has an idea of how to start.
My husband and I were married ... | Husband and I are citizens of different countries, married in a 3rd country, and live in separate countries. We have a teen who lives with me. How/where would we file for divorce? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [34 M] with my Aunt [38?F], She just now appeared in my life and I don't know how to proceed
POST: Throwaway because my main account is too easy to doxx. I moved to where I live now in July of 2007 and while I knew I had family here, I never bothered to find them and until now they ... | Aunt didn't bother to tell me my uncle was dead 12 years ago. Now wants to meet me and I don't know what changed. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 M] with my Ex [18 F] of 1 year, she is attending a friends birthday party tonight and its making me anxious.
POST: -Using Fake Names-
Not going into detail with my relationship with Wendy, but while we were together she made out with a guy who promised her weed, lied about it.
... | Didn't break up on good terms, don't know what to expect or how to handle seeing her at a party! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [23 F] the other woman to [27 M], [28 F]
POST: For the sake of anonymity and avoiding a wall of text, I'm going to skip a lot of the fine details.
For several months now, I've been dating a man who is in a long-distance relationship. It's escalated from just being friends to flirt... | dating a man in an LDR, friends say run, but I really really like him and want to wait. Probably not in my best interest. Should I ever trust him? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17M] am wondering whether me and him [16M] are official or does he take interest in someone else
POST: So I have this "friend" that I basically spend every day with. He's all over me most of the time, kissing and holding hands in public and dates and everything that a romantic coupl... | Not sure whether friend and I are official or if he's interested in multiple girls and is just sweet-talking me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: wife(46F) won't let me (48M) buy piano from Sandy Hook
POST: Someone is selling a piano that's the exact one I've been looking for, but my wife keeps telling me she "won't let that Sandy Hook piano in the house!" Sandy Hook is where one of those tragic school massacres happened a few ... | wife doesn't want me to buy piano because it's from the town that a school massacre happened. Should I buy it anyway? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22M] with my _mom__ [50/F], becoming seriously stressed living at home because of micromanagement
POST: I grew up in a boarding home for eight years until I graduated high school, now I moved back home with my mother for college since its close to school, so I value independence a ... | How do I get micromanaging mom to respect my independence and privacy in a respectable way, stress is building up in me |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [25 M] confused that my SO [20 F] sleeps in her (my roommates) gay best friends bed.
POST: Mandatory backstory. I've been with let's say Tracy, for 14 months. When we first met, Tracey lived with her gay best friend (let's say Jacob) in a pretty shoddy one bedroom apartment. They sl... | SO is going to sleep (lie next to) her gay best friend tonight, am I being over jealous? How can I word a compromise? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: (18M)I want to ask her(18? F) out again
POST: Recently I met this girl and we really hit it off. For me, a socially inept introvert, this is the first real time I have strong feelings for someone. I asked out to eat and she said yes but she wanted to bring along her roommates bec... | I hit it off with a girl but the first date was a dud. How can I ask her out again? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Teaching Abroad, Thoughts? Experiences?
POST: Hey guys i'm not sure about this plan for my life and i'm praying about it a lot but I wanted to ask you guys what you thought.
I'm thinking about getting a TESL Certification, or a TESEL or whatever you call it.
I want to travel the world b... | Thinking about getting a TESL (Teaching English as a Second Language Certification), I need your thoughts and opinion on the matter. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Textual Harassment from Web Texting App
POST: Hi Reddit,
A few days ago I received some texts from a number I didn't recognize. The person on the other end wouldn't give their identity, but they knew my first name. I blocked the number. Right after that, I received an explicit picture ... | I've received explicit texts from someone who won't give their identity, but they know mine. Police said they can't get his info, but it looks like they could. What's the best course of action? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [25M] girlfriend [24F] doesn't think the time apart we spent long distance "counts" towards our total time together...? Very confused
POST: I have been dating Stephanie for almost one year. Or at least, that's what I thought.
During 3 months of this relationship (July/Aug/Sep 2015)... | I just learned that my girlfriend doesn't "count" 3 months of our 1 year relationship because we were long distance, but that doesn't make any sense to me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: (BC, CAN) My landlord forged my signature to withdraw money from my account
POST: I've been paying my rent by going to my landlord's bank and directly depositing it into his account (using a void cheque of his). This was fine until a few months ago, when I noticed that my rent had been w... | My landlord forged my signature to withdrawn money, and I don't know if I should be taking legal action or filing a police report. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19 F] recently had sex with my ex [19 M] while high and intoxicated at a party
POST: My ex and I broke up about a month ago, mainly doing no contact during this time. I think we maybe spoke once or twice. However this previous weekend, we attended two parties one on Friday and one o... | My ex and I had sex when drunk and high at a party after 1 month of no contact, now he is ignoring me and I am not sure how to respond |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Considering Buying Solar Panels, and I need Feedback
POST: I will start by providing some background: I am 25 years old, have a bachelor's degree, live in Texas, and make about $65k annually. I contribute $500 a month to my Roth IRA, $440 per month to a 401k, and on average $200 per ... | I want to install a 6.25 KW DC solar PV system. What are the ups/downs and potential value added to my home value, both retail and as a rental? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How would you deal with a cat that doesn't like you, even though you rescued it?
POST: My spouse and I already have two very loving cats, ages 10 and 9. They are both very affectionate to us (laps, bed, holding, petting, etc). Selma is definitely the alpha but Beau loves her to death and... | Adopted stray cat a year ago; cat dislikes me, but loves spouse and stray harasses other house cats. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Rented out my parking spot, but now renter won't pay (Montreal, Canada)
POST: So I'm currently a university student in Montreal, Quebec and my apartment that I've been renting comes with it's own parking spot around the back of my building. As I live out of the province (in Ontario) I ha... | rented out my parking spot, renter is now refusing to pay me the $700 he owes me. Do I sue or forget it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21/M] have been thinking of asking out a girl [20/F] I've known since High school. Idk if i should or not.
POST: So I've known this friend since 2009 in high school. She was a very shy person and I was her first guy friend. I've always found her cute and all but i never asked her ou... | summary: I liked this girl for awhile, she liked me in the past. She had a bf for 3 years. Her and I are both single now. Should i do it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do I get my ex-boss to pay me?? Or, how can I get revenge on this mofo?
POST: I worked for a guy doing all sorts of different jobs; masonry type work, construction, building and cleaning pools, snow-plowing, catering, etc. He was a sketchy dude who was trying to run way too many busine... | Bad boss owes me money, I want either the money or revenge so I can have some closure on the whole matter. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I break up with a girl I love like crazy?
POST: Throwaway for certain reasons.
Been dating a girl about a year and a half, and do really love her. She is incredible. All my friends love her and everything is going really well.
Problem is, I know she is not right for me. I ima... | GF isn't right for me(just know it in my gut), how do I crush someone I love and that loves me by breaking up with them? How do I break up with them? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: A developer wants to build three skyscrapers across the street from my house, what can I do?
POST: A little background: I live in a medium (population 300,000) Canadian city, my neighborhood has a reputation for being a little bit rough, but in recent years has been going through the proc... | Company wants to build three (up to 37 story) skycrapers across the street from my house, city hall is providing conflicting information. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Dear Lawyers/law students of Reddit; help a brother out.
POST: Ok. So I tried to cancel my X-box live membership a while back, and it was late at night. Since you can't cancel online and customer support was not open, I logged onto my account and changed the billing address to something ab... | I tried to cancel my x-box live account by changing the billing info to something totally absurd and now I want my 40 dollars back. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [24/m] bringing up to girl I'm seeing [35/f] that I'm dating people casually
POST: Hello, about a month ago I went on a date with someone from OkCupid and we're still seeing each other. I had planned on casually dating other women but never said anything to her because I wasn't a... | I want to date casually, not sure how she'll take it. How to tell her in the least intrusive way possible? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting
TITLE: Found out I'm pregnant, in need of some advice/support. [x-post from r/mommit]
POST: So here's my story...I'm 19, just finished beauty school in NYC, on the verge of getting a job at one of the best celebrity/high-end salons in the city/country. I'm dating the love of my life, who's 21 and... | I'm 19 and pregnant with my 21 yr old bf of 4 years' baby. I want to keep it, but he doesn't really feel the same. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by wearing slippers
POST: Today I was supposed to go to this meeting in a university, I wore a shirt with shorts and slippers because the meeting was with castmates for a play (also I was about an hour late). So naturally I thought it was cool to wear slippers. When I was at the gate the s... | The University where I was going for a meeting had a dress code, rode a bike, forgot candy in my pocket got bit a lot. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24M] have never felt this way about someone [26F] and am not sure what it means or what to do.
POST: I've known this girl for a couple of years now and over time we've become really good friends. Over the past year I've developed feelings for her and just recently found out she fel... | Girl I like says she likes me back. Now I can't stop thinking about her and want to suggest a hangout without crowding her! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [32 M] feeling lost
POST: First off, I am currently seeing a therapist. However, I am also seeking some advice and opinions from the masses as well. Also, writing is therapeutic for me sometimes. So I might just ramble on and mouth-vomit a bit here. Hopefully this all has a point.
... | Second serious relationship failed. Feeling lost. Don't know what I want out of life or out of my next relationship. What is the best advice when faced with this situation? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend [27M] said I [25/f]was a cheap, bad parent for wanting to save a toy for my future kids. I am hurt.
POST: Something really threw me off today and it's making me uncomfortable and upset.
So, today I joked (even if I was serious) that I should save the RC Helicopter I won ... | My boyfriend [27M] said I [25/f]was a cheap, bad parent for wanting to save an RC Helicopter (that I won) for my future kids. I am hurt. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I'm interested in a girl who is good friends with a girl who likes me.
POST: I'm 17 year old dude who used to have a thing with this one girl (Let's call her Susie). We made out once, and I know she really likes me. The thing is though, I am not really into her. She is very nice and al... | This girl who is into me has a friend who I like a lot more than the girl who likes me. But the girl who I am into thinks I am into her friend. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21F] have a massive crush on my TA [late-twenties M]
POST: I'm sorry if this is in the wrong place but I have no idea where else to post this. Okay, so I don't want to be too specific with this since I know he's a redditor, but I've developed a huge crush on one of my TAs. I saw him... | Crushing on my super cute older TA, do I try to make a move after the semester is over and grades or in or not? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24/F] think my best friend [25/M] has a crush/thing for me
POST: Okay so basically I live in an apartment with my best friend and a few other people who work around the city and it works out well. He's a decent guy and we've known each other for years - I know him from college and h... | I think my roommate/best friend has a crush on me, I don't fancy him back and it's making me uncomfortable, oh and I'm taken. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [19/F] best friend [18/F] cut me where it hurt during an argument. I don't know if I can accept her friendship now she's apologised.
POST: Two years ago I met this girl in high school. We got on fairly well but had a stupid argument that led to us ghosting each other for 4 months. S... | I don't know whether to stick to my principles and cut my best friend out of my life for good. Or give in and make up with her with the risk she'll ditch me again. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19M] am the reason why my relationship with my GF [18F] of 11 months is failing and today she said me she was seeing guys behind my back.
POST: Hi guys!
First of all, I'm german and my grammar and wording might not be the best, but i try to make it as understandable as possbile!
L... | I'm super jealous of my girlfriend and don't want her to see other guys. She met some guys behind my back for the last 1.5 months and told me today. I have no idea how to fix this. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (24M) am having problems dealing with my GF's (25F) body image issues.
POST: To keep things short, I am a competitive athlete and as such I'm usually in pretty good shape. That being said, I haven't had success dating women related to sports or fitness, so my gf is a polar opposite. ... | GF is insecure about body image/weight. Accuses me of submissively insulting her or finding her unattractive. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (19m) gf (18f) feels like she's betraying me when she hangs out with non-mutual friends. What should I say to her to help her not feel this way?
POST: My girlfriend (18f) and I (19m) go to different colleges and we have been dating for 3.5 years. Recently, she has been hanging out w... | My girlfriend feels like she is betraying me whenever she hangs out with her new friends at college. What should I say? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (M20) feel very unappreciated by my SO (F19)
POST: My SO and I have been together roughly 2 months. Though we were "dating" and seeing each other for a few months before. In this time I have given her countless gifts and have helped her through her previous bad relationship. I buy he... | I give my SO endless gifts and random acts of selflessness, and never get the little things I want in return. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21/F] with my boyfriend [22/M] together 9 months, he casually mentions a girl he helped cheat on her boyfriend.
POST: Alex and I have been together for about 9 months. It's the best relationship I've ever had. I love him. We met because I was a regular where he worked. He used to h... | Out for drinks with bf. He points out a girl that was always a bitch to me and casually mentions she cheated on her boyfriend with him. Now I'm in the restroom crying. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21 M] have been with her [20 F] for six months and she keeps saying I don't do enough to show I care.
POST: Hello /r/relationships.
I've been seeing this girl for about six months (we'll call her Betty). Last time we hung out, I cut off our date early because I had made plans with ... | The girl I'm dating doesn't think I'm putting forth enough effort, but has put in a lot of visible effort on her end too. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is it Sweet or Creepy for me [16M] to Bike 10 miles to ask out my crush [16F] at a park near her house?
POST: Okay, I know how it sounds but let me first explain that I normally bike 22 miles every weekend so biking 10 miles is not a big deal. Okay so I have been meaning to ask out thi... | I normally bike 22miles a week so 10 miles isn't a big deal but is it weird or not for me to show up at her park uninvited and ask her out |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [39 M] with my wife [36F] of 3 years, she was in bed talking to a male friend from work from 10:00pm to 11:30pm
POST: A couple nights ago she was on the phone in our bedroom from about 10:00pm to 11:30pm (until I went in). I was in the room next to the bedroom with the door open so ... | wife spent over an hour late at night on the phone laughing with some random guy from her office, i'm not sure if i'm justified in being bothered by it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Can I dispute receiving a paperless statement receipt?
POST: Hubby got a letter from CC company stating that payment is overdue and the card is set to be closed. WTF...we haven't used this card in months!
He goes online, finds that in June an anti-virus software renewal charge. No CC... | Hubby got a 50 pt drop in credit score on rarely used card after not receiving online statements, causing overdue balance. |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Don't want to be a 30 year old waiter, halp.
POST: Entering a quarter-life crisis, I suppose. I'm a 25 year old college dropout with little prospects for what I want to do with my future.
I have great social skills, I'm very likeable, I interview like a champ, and I'm not a complete moron - g... | college dropout actor doesn't want to wait tables forever. Can do anything, or at least act like it until he gets in the swing of things. Needs career counseling. |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: Instead of listing companies we hate, why not change it up and share some positive stories?
POST: I realize there are negative stories for every company, but there are also positive ones, too.
For example: Alltel, US Bank, and Apple have all helped me to the point the story sticks in my head.
... | All three companies have helped me and I respect that. It may just have been the reps I was paired with, but these are feel-good stories to share. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23F] met an amazing new guy [27M] only 9 days ago, and now we're already long distance.
POST: Bear with me - this may sound like a crazy story. But it's totally legitimate and wonderful.
I just met this amazing guy, literally last week. We've known each other for a total of 9 days.... | Met a seemingly perfect guy only 9 days ago, went to Vegas for our second date, fell for each other big time in a super short time but he was only here on vacation. Long distance already. |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: Would you continue to do your job if you were starving?
POST: I have been seeing a counsellor for several months. My employer will not pay for a psychiatrist or a psychologist. I am at a point that I feel I am no longer productive in my current job, and if I continue to work, I would be u... | The real question from my counsellor here is "Would you do your job if you were a slave?" My answer is yes, but I misinterpreted the question. How would you respond? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Today I [20F] learned during an argument with my parents [43F] [42M] that I was almost aborted before they got married [20yrs]. Is there anyone in the same boat that has advice on how to feel about this?
POST: Earlier this evening my parents got into a huge argument (I think their marr... | My mom told me during a fight that my dad wanted me to be aborted. I'm lost and not sure how to feel about it. Any advice? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit armies unite! One of my good friend's picture of her minor son went viral a year ago and yesterday she found out a company in Brazil is selling it on a t-shirt. What can she do about it?
POST: Someone came across [this picture] on instagram and forwarded it to her. This is her SON (... | My good friend's picture of her CHILD is being sold on shirts against her consent in Brazil. Does anyone have any advice on what she can do and/or information on the company selling it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My GF's [16f] body language is unreadable.
POST: I'm not quite sure if it's just shyness or if she's *testing* my skills as a partner. I've had this problem with women before, some I can read, while some are just boggling to me.
My GF and I have been dating for around 3 weeks now, e... | I don't know if my GF is shy of me, or if she's purposely coming up with reason to avoid my "silence." |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My SO of 2 years [M21] and I [F23] are in very different income brackets. How does one deal with this?
POST: I live off food stamps; he's a one percent-er. We come from very different worlds and pride is deeply ingrained in me--you don't ask people for money and it's not okay for them ... | I'm broke as a joke; SO is loaded. How do we split costs while being fair and at what point do I bring it up? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: For those who have or have had a passive-agressive SO, how do you handle it?
POST: I've [21F] recently realized that my SO [23M] has developed a passive aggressive behavior. He didn't used to be like this in the beginning of our relationship (we've been together two years), but we've b... | I have realized my SO has developed a very passive-aggressive behavior, and I don't know how to handle it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [36 M] with my wife [26 M/F] two years, I've got a lie I've been living with for a year plus
POST: Long time, first time. Throwaway because she knows I'm on Reddit.
My wife and I have been married two years, up and down but mostly up. We're still in love and have one child. I'll c... | I lied to my wife about the extent I saw my ex. Should I tell her the whole truth or spare her feelings? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Should I ask out my teammate? [30F] [36M]
POST: Hello Reddit! I'll keep this short:
I (30F) know this guy (36M) through a co-ed sport we play together. I have gotten the feeling in the past that he may be interested in something beyond friendship. I've heard from a mutual friend th... | Interested in a guy who is "not a pursuer" per a mutual friend. Should I ask him out myself? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25F] with a guy [28M] I've been dating 1 month, wants to keep me out of our social group. Red flag or too soon to tell?
POST: I met this guy through a social group we're in about 6 months ago, we hooked up, then 2 months later started dating. Things picked up pretty quickly. I'm di... | Guy I've dated for 1 month doesn't want to bring me around our social group to avoid drama with friends and past girls and he's still not sure about us. Red flag or too soon? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How, HOW, do you deal with your mom?
POST: Mine is driving me crazy. I'm a graduate student, she lives about six hours away. We have never had the best relationship (I think we have too similar personalities) but I'm trying. I don't want to not be able to talk to my mom. She wants me to te... | My mom makes me feel bad about myself (just trying to help) and I'm wondering how you manage a relationship with your mom. Any tips? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18m] have never been drunk before
POST: I need your help, /r/relationships.
This is going to sound pathetic but I have just turned 18 and have never got drunk. Never, in my life. I haven't even drank alcohol that much either. It's not because I haven't wanted to, it's just that I'v... | Never been drunk before, but going out clubbing this week and going to Uni soon. Totally embarrassed by it and totally worried that I'm going to humilate myself. Help |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: if you're unemployed, who should(n't) you tell?
POST: disclaimer: i'm finding very few places to ask this on reddit... don't mind if you tell me this is also the wrong place... also, i'm getting laid off (not quitting or getting fired).
i was on the phone with my car insurance company regardin... | who (and why) should (or shouldn't) you tell if you're going to be unemployed for a (theoretical) short term? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: A buddy of mine needs to crash on my couch. My roommates are not a fan of him. Anyone have any suggestions?
POST: My friend just moved to another city and is town for a few days. He asked if he could crash on my couch. I have no problems with this, he is a good dude. However my roommtes ar... | I have a buddy who seems sketchy but really isn't. Needs a place to crash. Roommates are not a fan of him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, what's something that's considered totally acceptable where you live, but you find completely outrageous?
POST: For instance, I grew up in Georgia but am now living in Ohio, and the colloquial rules of the road are a constant source of frustration for me. When a driver in front of ... | Ohio drivers treat people turning left at intersections like second-class citizens. What is something that bothers you about where you live, but everyone else accepts as normal? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24m] need help communicating that I just want to be single to my very much overly attached gf [21].
POST: Obvious, throwaway because gf is redditor. To keep it simple, I feel like I just want to be single. I was married before this relationship (I am divorced now). My ex wife che... | Need help letting down my OAG because I just want to be single. Need some outside opinions. Need some words of wisdom to lessen the hurt as she is a very sweet girl who has done nothing wrong to me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [35 M] with my wife[30F] 15 years together, after an up & down relationship, last week she suggested that we take Thursday off from work and have a "day date" well it turns out she forgot to ask for the day off.
POST: so just last week my wife & I agreed that we both need to work on... | anyways, what do u guys think, am I making too much of it, is her excuse of "i forgot" good enough? shouldn't she be trying to make it up to me? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: In need of girl advice
POST: First time posting here, so I'm not entirely sure if this is the right place to post, so let me know if my situation would be better placed elsewhere.
One week ago I was at Freddy's (burger place) with one of my friends and we were just eating, talking, etc. Then... | Girl says she's into me, I am into a different girl, they work at the same place that I visit weekly(ish). |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [Update] Over the last 1&1/2 months my girlfriend (f/18) has spent a lot of money on me (m/20);concerned but don't know how to communicate about it. 9 months.
POST: Original:
I just decided to be direct. Money/gifts/finances are hard to talk about with anyone, especially for me. No a... | I just decided to be direct. My gf seemed to be pleased that I cared about her enough to ask about this, and told me the situation. All good. |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Evening the Odds: Is there a way to use data to my advantage during my yearly review?
POST: I was listening to this [podcast] by NPR's Planet Money and thinking about how unfair it is trying to negotiate my salary. (Start at 3:07 to understand get directly to the problem: markets with asymmetri... | When employees (like myself) negotiate pay raises, we often don't have the same information managers do. I'd like any strategies that could help me even the odds. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: update: i(m24) met my online girlfriend(f28).
POST: i made the long flight to her. we stayed overnight in a motel. She was hesitant with sex at first, but in the end she was the one asking for it and we fucked. she thinks we're girlfriend/boyfriend now. I kept telling her that i ... | i had sex with a girl who is in love with me now and thinks we're a couple but i'm not feeling the same way |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Having kids just to please her? A simple question from my girlfriend [27] of two years leads to a self-realization [30M].
POST: Never thought I would turn here for advice but this conversation shook me. Thanks for reading.
While discussing our future I mentioned that with the cost of ... | Suddenly realized I view children as a burden I carry, something I "give" my girlfriend so that she will be happy and stop bugging me for. Is this thought process normal? How do I get over it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[26M] with my [26F] for over a month, shes all talkative all of a sudden
POST: The funny thing is, she sent me a chat msg on Facebook early Monday morning after we havent spoken all weekend and we normally dont talk that much (well she doesnt), we kept chatting all day, and we had a ... | she wasn't that talkative with me over text/phone and not even for that long period, why'd she become so talkative all of a sudden after a month and so? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: On reddit, we are very judgemental of other similar sites. What does reddit really think of our Internet contempories?
POST: I'm talking about the likes of 9gag, 4chan, tumblr and the like.
From what I see of 9gag, it's is a bit juvenile. I don't really see them with much respect. Most of... | 9gag is childish, 4chan is with the exception of /b/ and /pol/ not as bad as everyone thinks. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Would you consider it shallow to break up with someone after dating for 4 years because they no longer have the sex drive they used to?
POST: A little backstory - my bf [26] and I [23, F] have been dating for a little over 4 years. For the first 3 years, I'd say we had sex between 1-3 ... | Boyfriend went from having sex with me twice a week for three years to once every few months this last year. Is it shallow for me to be hurt by this and think of breaking up with him because of it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [31 M] with my MOTHER [50ish F] duration, finally admitted that she has never loved either me nor my brothers
POST: So I'll try to keep this relatively short. My mother is a terrible person, I just wanna get that out now. I know shes a terrible person, my brothers know, our childr... | Mom admits that she never loved me, my brothers or any of the grandchildren except for my oldest niece, at nieces birthday reception. How should I react. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28M] with my on-and-off lover [33F] for three years; sex immediately followed by no contact, what is this?
POST: We had a long and tumultuous relationship. At its height, we lived together, shared a bank account, took care of pets, and were a damn good couple. We were close and we ... | Long relationship -> breakup -> rekindling -> very intimate sex -> no contact. What the fuck is going on? What am I missing? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [Dating] Does she [19] like me [m/19] or is she just friendly?
POST: I'll start off by saying yes I have a crush on her, and that is why I am here. She has kind of closed herself off from me in person, but not online.
I have only known her for about 2 months now. She is overall consi... | I like this girl. She has helped me and I have helped her. There seems to be mutual feelings between us (sorta). She has recently started ignoring me when I am in the room, but we keep Snapchatting. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [29 M] with my boyfriend [19 M], 6 months - hoping to become more physical with him/overcome anxiety. Advice?
POST: My boyfriend and I met in a gay club late last year and after a couple of ice-breakers, made things a little more official. We told our friends and families about each... | Great relationship except for the bedroom. Advice to boost partner's confidence and trust in me? Or perhaps I should change my outlook? Would rather not be using porn as replacement for sex life. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My girlfriend[20f] admitted she still feels nervous around me[21m] even though we've been in a relationship for 2 months, is that normal?
POST: A little bit of background quick: We're both in school and we met right as the semester was ending. We spent a lot of time together but mostly... | Girlfriend admitted to feeling nervous around me even after we've been dating for a couple months and I'm not sure how to interpret it. Looking for ways to make her feel more secure and comfortable around me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] with my GF [21 F] of 1 year, Feeling insecure about sex with my GF and her masturbation.
POST: About a month ago me and my GF told me that our sex wasn't that great and she wanted to get a vibrator, I said ya sure I have no business controlling your masturbation habits. She g... | GF told me she enjoys her vibrator a lot more than having sex with me and I feel insecure about my performance in bed. Should I just get over it, try harder or both, or neither? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: I think I want to switch majors.
POST: Hi r/advice. I'm new to this sub but I am feeling really confused and not sure where else to go.
I'm a junior in college. My freshman year when I was trying to decide a major, I chose design because I like to draw and I am pretty good at it. I started d... | I want to switch my major but I'm worried about what my parents would think and I'm nervous about judgment from my peers and that I won't like my new major either. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: should i tell her or not?
POST: dear internet. ive unfortunately fallen for my best friend [21F] who i [21M] am great friends with. we have gone hiking a few times, we have had dinner together many times, and we have recently planned a week trip to new york to visit her family together... | i need to know if i should tell my best friend that i like her more then a friend at the risk of loosing our friendship. read for details |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Is it bad that I like bitch slaps?
POST: So I was at the zoo for a Junior Year field trip. With all the cool animals taken out of the zoo and the food costing so much I wasn't very satisfied. While waiting for the bus I was eating a big pretzel and a friend of mine asked for some so I gave... | I bitch slapped a guy who took my pretzel and I wana know if it's bad that I liked it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: I'm having some trouble with a complicated sublease issue in North Carolina.
POST: My fiance and I had to cut short our lease at our current apartment. Our apartment doesn't allow subleasing however our leasing agent said that we can find people to add to our lease then remove our names ... | Our apartment complex essentially stole our potential subleases and therefore forces us to pay a $900 breach of contract (North Carolina). |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28 M] with my GF [28 F] 8 years. We had 5 years distance relationship. Now, I want to have sex with other women but I love her. So far, I didn't cheat.
POST: 8 years relationship. 5 of them in different country. We were visiting each other about 1 month per year. Now we live togeth... | Not very satisfied in our relationship. Thinking of alternatives. Have to decide whether to commit for real or break up. What should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My girlfriend had her tips stolen by a couple of 12 year old kids at work. They got off scott free! How can I legally teach these minors a lesson?? Details inside.
POST: My girlfriend is a barista in a Catholic hospital coffee shop. Near the end of her shift a couple of 12 year old kids ro... | gf had her tip money stolen by punk twelve year olds. Who got away with it after their parents and the authorities gave no fucks. How can I teach them a lesson? |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: Should I get my Masters Degree?
POST: Currently I am working for a software company as a support tech, and very slowly breaking into the game. I currently have a BA in Information Technology with a concentration in Networking, but it's not enough to prove to my employers to get me into de... | I have a BA in Networking but want to be a software developer. Should I get my MS in Software, or just take classes? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, Dreams Come True can give me up to 14 days all expense paid for in the US. Where should I go?
POST: I've chosen, as my dream, to visit the US, and DCT have said they can cover 10-14 days (depending on the state) including spending money etc. for me and a friend.
FYI - I'll be 21 b... | Dreams Come True can cover up to 14 days for me and a friend to travel to the US. Where would you recommend me to visit to have a blast? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19 F] cheated on my boyfriend [20 M] with his father [55 M] and am now pregnant, but I think I'm actually more attracted to women
POST: The ultimate throwaway but
My boyfriend and I have been on and off for roughly a year or so. We met early on in college and have been "seeing each... | I had sex with my boyfriends father and am now pregnant but I don't know whose it is. Also I think I'm in love with a woman who offered to raise this kid with me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: GF and I mutually decided to call it off for college. But I still really really really like (love?) her. What do I do now?
POST: We have been going out for 2+ years and we're now heading off to university. We were each other's first serious bf/gf but the across country distance between... | Mutually decide to break up for college but still want to be together in future, but how? And is it possible? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [21F] former best friend [20F] cut me off on her girlfriend's [21F] orders. I still don't know how to make peace with the situation.
POST: So, my former friend who will henceforth be referred to as Haley and I had been friends for about five years until November. We hooked up for a ... | my best friend of five years cut me off with no real explanation because her girlfriend who never even tried to be friendly with me told her to. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU: public speaking day
POST: So this was a couple of months back (soz)
We have a
TL;DR: | Co-ordinator announced that I claim I'm an excellent lover, I then invite my school-year to find out for themselves. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: When is too soon to talk about getting a raise?
POST: So 4 months ago I took a job at the lowest tiers of positions available at a tech(ish) company. During the interview I made it clear that I would be looking to move up fairly quickly. (This is my first real job so when I said that... | To me it seems kind of silly to be asking for a raise after 4 months, but I do feel like I'm going above and beyond. When is too soon? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Him [24 M] with my ex [24 F] is this a REBOUND?
POST: Opinions please.
I was living with my ex gf for 7 months (24 f), me (27 m).
We had planned to get married, we even picked out what engagement ring we wanted.
We had already planned the names of our kids.
We had a horrible breaku... | After 7 months living with someone who was going to marry me, after our break up 3 weeks later she's with someone else. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: I'm thinking of leaving Facebook.
POST: I have been a user of Facebook since 2012. I was pretty okay with it, posting pictures and jokes. I use Facebook as both entertainment and communication. But, as a hefty amount of people have pointed out, it sucks now. And I can see why. I've only been ... | I want to leave Facebook because of all of its bullst but it's the only way I can communicate with a lot of my friends and family. Help? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: (Non-Romantic) Pretzels ruined everything
POST: Quick synopsis: I am a 14 year old male in 8th grade, and my 14 female friend also in the 8th grade, said something about marriage, I overheard, said these exact words "oh, okay, I think i know what u said." Now its super awkward around ... | I brought pink yogurt covered pretzels to school the day before Valentines day and ruined my relationship with just a friend. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Audio repair shop refusing to give back my deposit, but no repairs have been made.
POST: So I took my receiver in to a repair shop, and put down an $80 deposit that the repairman told me would be put towards the cost of repair. He said he'd give me the estimate in a couple days, but it's... | No estimate has been given, and certainly no repairs made, but the repairman refuses to give back my deposit stating it will be kept since he supposedly diagnosed my receiver. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21F] am about to lose a friend [21M] because I'm too afraid to confront him.
POST: My friend and I have been close for about a year or so. Recently, I THINK** we had a falling out. I said something kind of snippy...but had no idea it would be that big of a deal...
A couple days lat... | friend is super mad at me for GOD knows what and I'm not sure if its worth confronting him about it because I am a very NON-confrontational and sensitive person |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: Thinking about joining the military as a last resort.
POST: I'm turning 19 next month, and still haven't found my passion. I just want to be happy. I want to wake up every morning at 5am and be proud to get ready for my career. I also, want to have a family someday but can't if I'm not a ... | Having trouble finding my passion, and feeling like I'm going nowhere in life. I'm considering joining the military as a last resort. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (24F) with my boyfriend (23M) - broke up, getting back together, doesn't want any physical contact, need advice please
POST: Boyfriend and I dated for about 3 years and he broke up with me a month ago. He was having trouble with the distance while we both spend this year abroad in d... | Boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me for 1 month, wants to make things work but isn't wanting any physical contact. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19M] 'cheated' on her [18F], but I didn't know we were in a relationship.
POST: Sorry if that title is confusing. Anyway, I started college a couple of weeks ago, and this girl (Claire) that I met and I immediately hit it off. We started hanging out and texting a lot, went on a few ... | A girl I went on a few dates with stopped responding to my texts, so I thought she wanted to end things. I went on a date with another girl, and now she's mad. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My[23 Female] 7 year relationship with my boyfriend[23 male] has ended and I feel a little lost.
POST: Hello all.
The break up is obviously a little hard for me. I have conflicting feelings about everything. Some days I know I did the right thing, some days I feel like I should have ... | Broke up with selfish boyfriend of 7 years, feeling horny and craving alcohol. Would it be wrong to indulge in these urges? Is this normal? What should I do? Would like advice/experiences. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My girlfriend of 5 years (F21) and I (M20) have a kid together but recently broke up. I can't move on, help?
POST: My now ex and I broke up about three months ago. I was blind sided by the break up and thought everything was fine. The problem is I can't move on. We did everything toget... | gf and I broke up but I come in contact with her every week so I can't get her out of my head |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit I need pest-control advice; how do you permanently get rid of fleas?
POST: My sister has two cats that used to have fleas and she would bring them over to my parents' house. She only stayed about two days and then went back to her own apartment. This happened about 3 times before I ... | Fucking fleas are making their way upstairs from the basement room because my dumbass self wanted to grab something in the room and brought about 20 of the fuckers with my socks and legs upstairs. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by Convincing my Mentally Challenged Cousin to Eat a Thumbtack
POST: This actually happened yesterday, since our family got together for Mother's Day. I'm isolating myself sitting and texting in one of the side living room areas, since my mother passed away a couple years before and I'm no... | I convinced my cousin to eat a thumbtack and because of her learning disability, nobody believed her when she pointed me out. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21F] with my boyfriend [22 M/F] of 4 months, I'm not comfortable with our official date
POST: Hey Reddit
Me and my boyfriend have a wonderful relationship. We fit so well and it's just so easy being with him. We enjoy similar stuff, have the same sense of humor and are just genera... | I'm being overly difficult about the official date of my boyfriend and me because it's about the same my ex and me had. |
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