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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Advice on a girl I want to ask out.
POST: Hey,
So there is a girl I want to ask out next week. Lets call her Susie.
Im in college not and am picky about the girls I choose to go out with. I'm not about just hooking up with people. Susie and I are coworkers, kinda. We are both Reside... | Girl I like laughs at my jokes and we talk for at least an hour every day. She says she's excited to be single. I want to ask her out. Should I? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Close Female Friend [16] with Asshole Friend [17]
POST: For reference, I am 18, male, and everyone in this story is in high school or currently graduating.
The girl is overtly antisocial and seemingly asexual. She is very to herself and generally does not show any interest in guys. Sh... | Close, socially secluded friend now believed to be in relationship with asshole friend. No real facts are known, but it is obvious there is something physical going on. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I (22/f) just called and asked a guy (30/m) out for coffee who doesn't drink alcohol, and he said yes, but I was tipsy while calling and asking.
POST: The title pretty much says it all (and I apologize profusely if this isn't the right forum in which to ask about this), but: I'm ... | should I tell the guy I'm about to go on a first date with who doesn't drink that I was tipsy when I asked him out? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Friends leaving me out. I feel like a middle-schooler. Feeling really shitty and need some advice.
POST: 2 good friends are the culprits. One, we will name Abby and the other is Fran. We are all 21.
Me and Abby have been friends for about 3 years now (college friends). Got reall... | my friends met through me and are now doing stuff without inviting me despite the fact that I always made it a point to include everyone. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Advice for smoking neighbors?
POST: This hasn't been a problem until recently, but for the past few months my apartment has been smelling of cigarette smoke a few days out of the week when I come home. I know my upstairs neighbor smokes, though when I spoke to her about it she claims she 'onl... | Cigarette smell seeping into my apartment, upstairs neighbor denies smoking inside and landlord will not pursue further than a phone call. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: My (28F) boyfriend (32M) wants to donate sperm to his friends
POST: My boyfriend and I have been in a three-year relationship and have been talking extensively about spending the rest of our lives together. Today, he informed me that in the past year, he's been discussing the pos... | My long-term boyfriend told me he's going to donate sperm to a lesbian couple and wants to have a relationship with the child. I feel very uncomfortable about the situation and don't know what to do next. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Want to stop getting depressed everytime I feel lonely
POST: So basically I just moved in to college in a new state with no one from my high school going here. School's been going on for 2 weeks now and I have made a couple friends. Also I recently joined a lot of clubs (most of them haven't ... | how can I enjoy time alone without getting depressed from loneliness AND what do I do if my only close friend as of now is the girl who rejected me but I still have feelings for |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20/f] am confident about myself inside and out, yet can't help getting jealous in my relationship with my s/o [20/F]. How much flexibility is too much?
POST: We've been seeing each other for a few months. When we became exclusive she continued to be involved with others and essentia... | I'm the bomb. S/o cherishes me yet always crushing/flirting/porn-ing. Should I care? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21M] with my mom [51F] makes fun of my height and it's making me resent her a lot and I feel guilty about it
POST: I know am not a perfect human being and I haven't being a good son,(I've told my mom very hurtful things at times) but the past month I've being taking care of my mom ... | I want to get far away from my mom for my mental health and self esteem but I don't want to hurt her or my other family members. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Client hitting on me knowing I'm in a relationship with someone
POST: I'm a massage therapist and I had a client recently hit on me.
During the massage we were talking and I mentioned I have a boyfriend. A few days later my boss texts him asking how the massage went. He thought ... | A client of mine hit on me and asked me out knowing I'm with someone but I don't want to lose business or risk my relationship |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: We had a great first date (M22, she's F22), but then I tried texting her today and she got very short with me
POST: The past week, we were texting a lot, having great convos, she occasionally initiating, overall it seemed promising. Then Friday I took her out for drinks and after we we... | Had what I thought was a great date Friday, but didn't end w a kiss. After a busy weekend of not talking, I tried texting her today and she was very short with me. Did I screw up? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 F] with my boyfriend [33 M] finally broke up after a year and a half
POST: So, after much courage needed, about a few weeks ago I broke up with him.
Oh man, it was like a sigh of relief. I felt pretty good. I didn't let him down hard, I wasn't an asshole.
And neither was he.
... | A few weeks ago I broke up with my boyfriend and now I'm scared I'll cave in and get back together with him even though deep down I don't want to but also wondering if I fucked this up. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20 M] need help interpreting behaviour by [19 F].
POST: I need advice on what to do about a situation involving myself and an old friend from high school. Here's what went down:
Me and some friends went out to the bar in my hometown last weekend. I was relatively sober. Ran into a ... | Girl that I went to high school with was really drunk and hitting on me, even though she has a boyfriend. What's the deal? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: I'd like to be more involved in the reddit community. What steps should I take?
POST: I wasn't even entirely sure what subreddit to post this in, as it got removed for 'askreddit', but I feel discouraged from even posting due to all the specific rules of reddit.
I in no way mean to complain ... | I don't understand the rules and etiquette of reddit, but I'd like to participate more and stop being another 'lurker'. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What's the biggest injustice you experienced at school?
POST: When I was in year 8 (UK school, age 13) I was in the second set out of about 6 for English, and there were too many people in the group. The teacher did a test to see who was good/bad enough to get dropped. I came 6th out of 30... | Dropped a set in English class because attitude to work was shoddy despite grades being good. Mom sorted it out, like a boss. Put them teachers in their places. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (17 M) girlfriend (16 F) calls other guys her Husband
POST: Sorry if this questions sounds rather immature, but I just wanted someone elses opinion.
My girlfriend calls several of her guy friends her husband and they call her their wife. Is this unusual? I've never heard from any o... | Girlfriend calls several guy friends "Husband" and they call her "Wife", is it a common thing? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17 M] with [17 F] I can't bring myself to kiss her. Shy guy here.
POST: I'm in junior year of high school and I ended up going out with the girl of my dreams. We both just completely love each other and we've been going out for one week officially, but we've had dates before for ov... | Going out with a girl officially for a week (Known her longer than that). Never had a girlfriend or kiss before so I freeze when I have the chance to kiss. How and what should I do about this? Best approach? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [23 F] fiance just left me [22 M] and told me she didn't love me after 6 years.
POST: 3 days ago my fiance and partner for 6 years just left me and suddenly started dating another guy 1 day after we break up. She told me she didnt love me and hasn't for a long time, the weird thing ... | Fiance left me after 6 years, told me she didnt love me, and is now dating her co-worker. How the hell do i deal with this everyone? Im really lost here... |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: [Ontario, Canada] Not allowed to collect my stuff after a break up? Told to go to civil court.
POST: Tonight I drove over to my now ex-girlfriends apartment with the intent of collecting the few things I had at her place. One of the things I had left there was a router I purchased with m... | police wouldn't let me collect an item even though it is mine, and told me if I want my stuff back I would have to go to civil court. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Just got into my first car accident, had a perfect driving record before this.
POST: On my way to class this morning (female college senior here), a car up front (about 5 cars away from me) slamed on the brakes and made an illegal left turn, and all the cars behind that car, including my ... | my car got damaged in an accident and it's gonna cost probably quite a bit to fix it, it is my first car accident, so I am emotionally and financially stressed. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [27/f] Should my mother still be paying my travel expenses?
POST: My mom left when I was about 6 years old. Since then, her and her husband have lived all over the country. She's typically always paid for travel expenses, but in the past few years it's become my responsibility. ... | Mom is insisting I pay to see her, but she's never covered any costs for squirting me out. Who should pay for travel? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20M] and three other students [20M, 20F, 19F] feel awkward sharing lunch with South African workers [29M, 31M, 33M, 48M] [Non-Romantic]
POST: I am part of a group of four 19-20 year old university students helping to build an open-air community filter factory in rural South Africa.... | Helping build an open air filter factory in South Africa and the workers are asking for small favors. Are we obligated to fulfill their wishes? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 23M, questions about what is appropriate etiquette for letting other males touch/flirt w/my GF
POST: My 20F GF is really attractive and gets lots of male attention.
The other day her best guy friend (besides myself) kissed her on the cheek in front of me. It really made me uncomforta... | I am not sure what to do/how to handle it when my attractive GF gets male attention, verbal and or physical. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, I need help figuring out why my brain goes haywire?
POST: I may not be putting this in the right place, but its the first one I thought of. I have no idea how to start this, so I'll just explain what goes on and then go from there.
Every so often my brain decides to go haywire and... | My brain will randomly speed up my thoughts/hearing and slow down any movement at the same time. What is going on? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: Dog won't stop crying, refuses to sleep inside when it's freezing. How do I make him stop?
POST: My childhood dog is thirteen and has primarily been an outside dog (my parent's choice). In the winter and when it starts to get REALLY cold, we always let him into the garage. It's a lot more heate... | Dog refuses to sleep inside when it's freezing cold for the first time in 13 years; can't let him sleep outside when it is this cold but don't want him to cry the whole night. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: People keep saying My (f24) boyfriend (m25) is ugly, and it's getting me down.
POST: My friends and family keep telling me I'm too good for my new boyfriend, they keep asking why I'm with him and it's really getting to me.
I've been friends with him a long time and I never fancied him... | my family and friends say my boyfriends ugly and I'm too good for him to the point It's really upsetting me and getting to me and I don't know what to do |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22 F] have a bf [26 M] who I recently found out he is passive aggressive and always plays victim, how do I snap him out of it?
POST: we have been together for 2 and a half years now and we have gone through a lot together. But sometimes when he gets angry he gives me the silent trea... | My bf is passive aggressive and always plays the victim, I know I cant change him but I need some tricks to deal with his behaviour |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21 F] have been avoiding certain sex positions with my boyfriend [24 M] due to my size.
POST: I'm in a fairly new relationship with a really great guy, we've been seeing each other for about 3 months and everything between us is great.
Recently though he's been wanting me to get o... | I'm a size 16 and I'm worried I'll turn off my boyfriend during sex on top due to my weight. Should this be something I should worry about? |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Thinking about getting mint need advice
POST: I have been trying to use an excel spread sheet to keep track of my accounts (savings, checking, and credit card) and am wondering weather mint is a better option. The spread sheet allows me to plan about a month ahead with my paychecks a... | Is mint useful for short and long term planning and would lifelock protect me in the event of a security breach? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [M 20] broke up with my girlfriend [F 20] less than a month back. I'm running out of ways to cope with the breakup and I'm spiralling down into the mess I was earlier. What should I do?
POST: I broke up with my girlfriend of one year less than a month back. I was a mess for about fiv... | Hung out with friends really often to keep my mind off a breakup. I realise it can't go on like that forever. Any other ideas? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My[22F] boyfriend's[26M] mom is invading our personal life way too much.
POST: My boyfriend's mom has moved across the country when he was 4 and left him and his sister with his dad. They stayed on good terms and she visited a few times over the course of 20 years.
Fast forward to pr... | boyfriend's mom is butting in on his home life, our relationship, our sex life, and looks like she's not going anywhere soon. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by being salty.
POST: This happened yesterday night, and I can't get it off my mind so here's my fuck up.
So, I've been friends with this girl for about 3 months, and I'd always had the sense that she liked me, so when I talked to her, I would always be quite suggestive with what I said (... | Girl I had a "crush" on leant in for a kiss, I rejected her because I thought we were "Just friends." |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Where's the awkwardest place you've run into somebody you knew?
POST: Mine would have to be when I was about 7? My mother had taken me out with her friends and one of her friends kids as well to a festival. Only it wasn't a regular festival it was a **gay** festival. Literally a festival o... | Mom took me to a Gay Pride festival as a kid. Saw a counselor there from my elementary school. **Am not gay now.** |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I [26 M] even bother telling her [20 F] my feelings or just keep it to myself?
POST: Hi!
I met this girl (we call her Beth) 4 months ago at the birthday party of my best friends girlfriend. We talked quite a bit there and about 2 weeks later my friend asks me if I wanted to go ... | Connected with a girl, she suddenly has a boyfriend out of nowhere. Still wants to hang out because he's abroad, but I get hurt when I see her. Should I tell her my feelings? |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: (CAN) I have a 1995 Toyota Corolla that has served me well for 4 years. It needs a new timing belt, worth it? (A bit long)
POST: Hi there, I'm hoping you can help me make a decision. This is objectively a great car. It has needed next to no repairs since I bought in April 2011 for $1... | Bought 1995 Corolla for $1800 CDN 4 years ago, replace timing belt or sell and buy another, newer used car? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do I get myself to get shit done? How do you do it?
POST: It has become somewhat of a problem to me. I know I will get in trouble (read: sacrifice sleep or a better grade), but I actively seek distraction in order not to get shit done (and by that, I mean mostly university assignments)... | I'm unable to get shit done, and don't even do fun stuff. I just don't do anything at all. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [M22] attracted to my SO's [f24] roommate [f21] but it honestly doesn't mean anything
POST: A little background, my girlfriend [f24] and I [m22] have been together for about 3 years. She recently moved in with a good friend of hers into an apartment together. I spend quite a bit of... | I'm physically attracted to my SO's friend and while I've admitted it before in honesty to my SO, it really affects her self esteem. Just need some idea on how to move on. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [35F] with my co-worker [39 M] talked about having a relationship but now he acts like he hates me. What do I do or do I do nothing?
POST: This will be long so I apologize in advance. I'm just not sure what to do and could use some advice.
My co-worker and I have always had a very ... | Co-worker/love interest is ignoring me and acts like he hates me possibly because of an old online dating profile. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [16 M] with my girlfriend [16 F] of almost a year, starting to feel attraction for another girl.
POST: Now I know at this age hormones are very much still a swaying factor but I want the same advice you would give to someone older than me in the same situation.
For the past almost y... | Should I cut off my current relationship to let my feelings settle and then (maybe) go after my friend that I'm feeling this for or go back to my SO (after thinking things over)? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Digging myself into a deep hole..
POST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years. I'm 19 and he's 20; we're in our second year. We are in a LDR and have been for a year. I go back three times a year (two breaks and then the whole summer) so it's not too bad. Last year wa... | boyfriend of 2 years, LDR, in love but have crush on a guy who is here, what should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: 19/f Him 25/m Distance
POST: So I work at a bar and I met this guy originally I liked his friend but this guy just started trying hard and I gave him my number one night about a month ago and we've hung out about 3 times since then.
The second night we hung out he told me that h... | New guy. 3 dates. Leave to another country in 3 months. Should I ask where things are going. Or just let things fall into place like he asked in the beginning. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21F] with my boyfriend [21M] 3 months, new LDR, SO says he wants a break. [x-post from /r/longdistance]
POST: Hi! I submitted this on /r/longdistance but haven't gotten feedback so I figured I'd try here as well. Using a throwaway for obvious reasons.
My SO and I have been seeing ... | Newly long distance with my boyfriend, he freaks out and says he needs an NC break (while still staying exclusive to one another). Need advice on how to handle the situation. |
SUBREDDIT: r/running
TITLE: Treadmill running vs Outside running
POST: Holy shit, so I just started training for a 1/2 marathon (I've never been a runner, always go on the bike). I trained the first month on a treadmill, I could do 2 miles straight at a 10:00/pace without stopping, I was so excited that I was building ... | Training was going well on a treadmill, outside running makes me feel like someone beat the shit out of me...tips? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU at a Halloween party.
POST: I was hanging out with some friends at a costume party 3 years ago and there was this girl dressed up as a sexy cat (how original) and she just kept looking at me. Eventually it became a stare. Every time I looked in her direction, she was looking directly at me... | I was totally about to bone this super hot girl dressed up as a sexy cat, and I walked in on her literally using the litter box to piss... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [27F] band mates [40sM,M,F] are giving me a hard time for having a job. Who is being unreasonable?
POST: I have been in this band for a year, during which time I have been chronically unemployed but actively seeking work. I have recently gained temporary employment (8 weeks) that ... | band are being dicks about my temporary 9 to 5 job making me unavailable. They refuse to compromise and rehurse on weekends. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by mispronouncing the fish I had for lunch
POST: Deployed to a base in Afghanistan. In line at the chow hall where there's a variety of wonderful foods to choose from. I hand my plate to the server and request some fresh broccoli. He puts some on my plate and proceeds down the line. I noti... | Mispronounced pollock with polack when I had Polish soldiers behind me. Offended the shit out of them and embarassed myself. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: My [19 F] boyfriend [22 M] of 10 months slept with someone else while we were broken up. How do I move past it?
POST: I'll try to keep this short. My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago, and we just decided Saturday that we wanted to work things out and try again. Everyt... | Boyfriend left me about a month ago and slept with someone else while we were broken up. I know he didn't technically do anything wrong, but I'm still hurt. How do I move past it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by trying to fix my air conditioner.
POST: My air conditioner stopped working 2 days ago. I checked online to see if I could figure out what was wrong. It seems it is either the capacitor or the fan motor. I'm leaning toward the fan motor because when you give the blades a whirl it does... | I tried to save money by fixing my A/C, but will probably end up spending much more to have someone repair my mistakes. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25/F] with my old high school friend(?) [26 F], invited me to her wedding thru FB, but we haven't hung out in years
POST: We're best friends at one point in high school, but drifted away due to changes in priority (me on school, her on popularity). I went to college, she went to wo... | Old friend who I haven't hung out with in a long time invited me to her wedding. Don't feel comfortable going as we are no longer close. Do I have to go? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What customer service experience made you dump a company for good?
POST: I recently moved all my money to a local credit union. When a payment from an account I forgot to switch over hit my old Bank of America checking account I got an overdraft fee because they processed the payment even... | A payment was processed on my old zero balance dormant account, BOA wants to charge me $70 in fees (and increasing) for honoring a $51.11 charge. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Dear Reddit, what is your opinion on tattoos?
POST: My dad's older brother was a small time magician who was murdered before I was born. I grew up always hearing about him and our similarities. Last year, around the anniversary of his death, my dad got more upset than usual. He explained t... | I was considering getting a tattoo that says "Abracadabra" in memory of my late magician uncle. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Young couple, trying to move in together. How do I tell my overbearingly-traditional Catholic parents?
POST: So I met my girlfriend about a year ago, and things are going great. I have been in a half-dozen relationships in the past, and I can already tell that this one has something th... | my parents are super religious, trying to move in with my girlfriend, what's the best way to tell them without alienating myself from them? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] never had a girlfriend before, new city, and the clock is ticking...
POST: Aside from a few dates in high school, I've never really been with a girl before. I took a year off to work to save up for school, then moved to a brand new city, and I am just finishing up my associat... | Never really dated before, in a new city, and feel like I need to get married before medical school in 2 years. Mormon girls are an option but have strong opposition to the church. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: Moving, and don't know what is best for my GSD
POST: I need some advice. I have a GSD, and have had him since he was a puppy. He just turned 2. I live in the US, and have a house with a fenced backyard, dog house, etc. He is really high energy, and we take him to play fetch almost daily in ... | moving to much smaller accomodations, will GSD be happier with us or on a bunch of land with another dog? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is it crazy for me (21m) to consider breaking up with my new (1mo) girlfriend (19f) over tattoos?
POST: I think tattoos are trashy and repulsive. I know it's stupid and a problem with me, but I can't help what I'm attracted to.
My girlfriend wants to get tattoos (yes, multiple) in a ... | New (1mo) girlfriend wants multiple tattoos, I find tattoos repulsive. Am I terrible for thinking this is a deal breaker? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17M] was seeing a girl [16F] we went out on 3 double dates and she tells me we should be friends because she never felt a "connection".
POST: I'll try and keep it short, but basically, I was speaking to this girl over Facebook for about a month or so, and then one day she invited me... | Went out on 3 double dates with a girl, said she loved them, tells me she isn't ready for a relationship, then later reveals she felt we didn't have a connection. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [21F] boyfriend [22M] of almost a year is addicted to video games and he admits it.
POST: My boyfriend got a
TL;DR: | Destiny is killing my relationship, but I don't want to end it and neither does he. He has an addiction that he admits to. What should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Just graduated from college 2+ weeks ago, still looking for my first job...any advice to getting that first job without having to settle for something you don't really want to do?
POST: My biggest problem is that I think I am picky and don't want to settle for something that I don't really... | I don't want to settle for a job I don't want and "waste" the next 5 years of my life. But I obviously need a job which is hard in this economy. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by thinking I was an ant overlord.
POST: So, I'm very lazy when it comes to cleaning my room and about 2 weeks ago, I notice a bunch of ants have started to make a home somewhere in the walls. They were very small ants, and apart from being bitten once in a while (not that painful), I didn... | Thought I was pretty clever by using ants to clean my room and keyboard for me. Turns out they were using my keyboard as their storage place and hauling all the crap they found into it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: What does the law say about being married in two different countries to two different people?
POST: A dear friend of mine recently proposed to his boyfriend, who said yes, but said friend refuses to acknowledge the fact that he was once married in Canada. Here's the situation: dear frien... | Gay man married in Canada years ago, didn't work out and old partner refused to handle his side of divorce papers. Gay man now with someone new and both wanting to get married. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21F] am worried my boyfriend [21M] is becoming a selfish lover. Not sure how to approach this.
POST: Me: 21F
Him: 21M
We've been together 4 months. Generally he's a good lover, for a while he just wanted me to go on top and finish him with blowjobs all the time but I threw out the ... | Boyfriend of four months still won't eat me out. He's given no good reason lately. I'm worried I'm being used a bit. What to do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [M/18] My girlfriend [F/18] brought up the idea of an open relationship.
POST: There aren't really any mitigating factors. We're both in our first year of college (at different schools), and things have been harder than they were at home, obviously, but I wouldn't say our relationship ... | My girlfriend asked if I might at some point be interested in having an open relationship, and I don't feel strongly one way or the other; what are some general thoughts/concerns about open relationships? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25F] with my bf[26 M] of 1 year, did he break his commitment?
POST: Hey there, I could really use some outside perspective as I'm really torn on this issue. I need someone to talk to and give me unbiased opinions :)
First off, when I first starting dating my bf, I found out he was... | bf sent his ex flowers while he agreed to sever ties to her because of past cheating and her being a bitch to me unprovoked. I'm torn. Should I let this go? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me 20 M met a 19 F on okcupid and found her on fb through mutual friends
POST: I decided to make an Okcupid account to meet a girl with similar interest. All my past relationships have been with girls who I have had very little in common with. I basically dated the girly girls who are ... | Met girl on okcupid and messaged a few times but she has not been online. Found her on fb through mutual friends. What now? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Manpanion [M30s] can't deal with my [F 30] snoring dog anymore.
POST: I have a Boston terrier (moose) who is 9 years old. I got her when I was in college and living alone. She has always slept in the bed with me. Now she's old and I cannot bear the thought of her sleeping outside the b... | dog named moose snores like a sonofabitch. Manpanion can't deal. Am I in the wrong? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: [25/F] What to do about a coworker [20-something/M]?
POST: I am sort of infatuated with a coworker. We've worked together for a couple of months now. He's overly friendly/borderline flirty but nothing concrete. I worry that maybe he just has one of those personalities that always comes... | Have a crush on a coworker, unsure if he's just being friendly and whether or not I can handle asking someone out 1 month into a breakup. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Surf Rescue with a Paddle-Surf-Board, where do I find any videos and instructions?
POST: so, here's the problem: I'm one of the few surfers, of my area (center Italy, east coast); the local lifeguards asked me some help to teach them how to use the surf board for sea rescue.
In italy there... | need to (learn and) teach to use a surf board for sea-rescue, but I don't know how! |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU By not getting the hint
POST: So this actually happened a year ago, and it took me a couple weeks and my roommate to figure out how stupid I was.
So last year my roommate was having his girlfriend over for the weekend. His girlfriend didn't want to make the drive alone (it was like 6 or 7... | mostly naked cute girl was grinding against me whilst making out with me, and I friend-zoned her cause I thought that's all she wanted. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How can I compete with person who made it to 1st place because of popular Internet friend's tweet?
POST: Hello Redditors!
I'm in a competition where I'm trying to win a $10,000 scholarship and in the competition, you can vote once a day and all you do is click "Vote Now". I was winning 1... | Someone's friend tweeted a person to 1st place and he got 2 months worth of votes in 2 hours. How can I match that? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I learn to give my girlfriend more space? (M/F19)
POST: I'm sorry for any errors in this post, I'm on mobile.
My girlfriend and I have been in a serious relationship for 3 and a half years and for the last half a year we've been separated because we went to universities 90 minu... | my girlfriend and I have always had a lot of contact, but now we aren't because of distance and emotional reasons. How do I cope/what can I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Need a little help to talk with a girl, details inside
POST: Hi everyone, I'd like to ask for some help.
Here's my situation, I'm male, 17 (France), and I go to university. (College, if I'm not wrong, in US). Basically, there's one girl in my class (of 480 people) that I have a crush ... | I just don't know how to talk to a girl in my class that I don't know at all, and I'd like to date her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Having a hard time not seeing her M20 F18
POST: Hi,
two months ago I went on a date with the girl I liked.
It went alright, I guess, maybe a little bit awkward, since we are both not that experienced.
Since then I didn't have much time,because I moved out of town to a university.
We ... | Kind of in love with a girl, who I only see on weekends and not knowing if she's still into me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Self abusive GF is in real trouble
POST: My girlfriend (27) hates our living situation. We both teach in Korea and will be eligible to leave together next year, March, and go back to my home country of South Africa to start work. We've been in Korea for 4 years at this point.
She hates the i... | gf stabbed herself in the leg out of frustration tonight. I don't know what the appropriate thing to do next is. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My friend's sister's partner might identify as non-binary, and I think I've been misinformed. What's the best way to clarify/make sure I don't offend?
POST: My [32F] BFF and I have been friends about 14 years, but her older sister Sarah lives 1,200 miles away, so I don't see her much e... | Friend's sister's partner has non-binary appearance, and I may have used the wrong pronouns in the past. What's the best way to clarify and right the wrong if necessary? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm (M,22) slowly learning that I can't develop new relationships and I need some insight.
POST: My now-ex-girlfriend, call her *Amy*, (F,22), of 6 years and I broke up over a year ago, and I'm finally feeling myself moving on with my life. This feels awesome- I don't feel the need to ... | I can't stop thinking about similarities between my ex-girlfriend and new girls that I want to get closer to, and it's messing me up. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My new fiancee [25m] has given me [25f] an ultimatum to permanently delete any and all old photos of my ex. Is this a reasonable demand?
POST: Engaged for a couple of months, together for a year, best friends since teenage years. Finally together and happy as can be, but... The ex of 6... | fiancee is acting insecure and wants me to delete/revise my past. Do I oblidge him or stand my ground? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf [20 F] is having a really hard time getting over issues in her head and I [21 M] feel like I'm unhealthy for her at this stage
POST: So my gf was crazy about me for nearly 2 years. In that span she had 2 boyfriends and we became the best of friends.
During that span of time I w... | GF liked me for 2 years and had boyfriends but still questions my intentions now that we're together because of 1 girl that I went on a date with while she had a boyfriend. |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Turning down a job I've already accepted
POST: I got offered an entry-level job last week at an insurance firm in a city about an hours commute away from me, through an agency. Before I'd heard back from this job, I got an interview for another job and agreed to attend on Wednesday. I then hear... | Accepted a job but have an interview for 2nd job which i'd prefer. Not sure what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by driving without a licence.
POST: So I am 16, live in California, and got my permit about 8 months ago, and 3 days ago I failed my driver's license test by one critical mistake (right turn, not looking over shoulder).
So yesterday my friends tell me in a group chat that they are going ... | Drove at night when i'm not suppose to without driver's license, get pulled over, got a ticket, now no car, and no license till i'm 18 + a trip to court. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Alcoholic sister (60) is getting more and more erratic and needs to move out of Mother's (84) house. Don't know what to do.
POST: Sister (60) has history of drug / alcohol abuse, never worked, always lived at home. Mother (84) lives there, too. Sister has been "normal" for a few years,... | Mom doesn't want to kick alcoholic sister out of Mom's house. Sister may be dangerous, but has no place to go. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My wife has gotten lumps on her head,She's been experiencing blackouts of not remembering what she did but still being able to function. Reddit can you help me?
POST: This is actually for my wife. She is having headaches and doing things and not knowing that she is getting them done. for e... | My wife has lump on head, hurts, loses memory, hasn't fallen, discoloration of skin from feet to legs, can't sleep, gets overly upset. Need help because we are young college students with no health care. |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Think twice before negotiating salary
POST: I applied for a position for 'Entry Level Engineer' which dealt with Network/Sysadmin type of work with linux/windows iis/apache type of stuff as well as putting together new server builds for this web hosting company located at a data center.
I did ... | Was offered job. I asked to negotiate. They took offer away. I still would have asked to negotiate if I could go back in time. Think twice before salary negotiation (only if you're desperate). |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28/F] with my long history of FWBs and dysfunctional relationships is seriously considering giving up relationships all together. Has anyone ever just taken a break?
POST: I'm 28. I've had long relationships, failed engagements, and a lot of FWB type relationships. For a very long ... | Tired of hookups. How do you become celibate and stay that way for an extended period of time? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Need Help with Overdependency on Boyfriend
POST: I've been experiencing a lot of depression lately because I've become too dependent on my boyfriend...to the point where I don't feel like myself anymore because I don't enjoy and/or can't bring myself to partake in the hobbies I used to... | Depression caused by or causing overdependency on boyfriend. I don't enjoy doing any of the things I used to do on my own, and I don't feel like myself. Help please! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (28f) caught my husband (29m) of 5 years masturbating in the same room as our infant daughter. I left him and took the baby but my friends and family are telling me I'm being irrational.
POST: mid last week I came through the door after getting off work to find my husband in our livi... | I caught my husband masturbating in front of our infant daughter and my family and friends aren't supporting me in leaving him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26F] with my boyfriend [25M] talking about where our 9 year relationship is going later tonight - any advice?
POST: Using a throwaway. My SO and I have been together 9 years with a 6-month break-up 5 years ago. We've been in couple's counseling the past 6 months to work on our comm... | 9 year relationship and he doesn't know if I'm the right person for him to marry. We're talking later tonight - what questions can I ask to see whether this relationship is worth working on or not? Any advice welcome. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] with my Partner [20 F] of over two years and live together, is no longer sexually attracted to me
POST: Hello. Last night was a pretty heavy night for my partner and I. We have been through a lot but last night was slightly different. She opened up to me and told me that she ... | My Girlfriend thinks I act like a child too much and says she is no longer sexually attracted to me because she feels like a mother |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 F] with my boyfriend [28 M] haven't said "I love you" yet
POST: A few months before we met I just got out of a five year toxic relationship so naturally I had some commitment/intimacy issues and wasn't really in a rush. We've been dating exclusively for six months, things have b... | Boyfriend doesn't tell me if he loves me, not sure if he's serious about our relationship. Are my friends and peers making me paranoid for nothing? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [20M] girlfriend [18F] kissed another girl and they want a threesome
POST: Hey all
My girlfriend (we'll call her J) has a close friend (we'll call her C) of hers who I am also friends with.
Her friend (C) expressed interest in me, and asked my girlfriend if she would be cool with... | Girlfriend kissed old friend of hers, they want a threesome. Both are attractive nothing wrong there. Feels like I'm being used. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do you help someone who can't manage their money or life?
POST: I'm a 20 year old female with a 25 year old brother. There is so much to this story, but if you need more details, just ask.
My brothers (I have a 29 year old brother) and I have been given an excellent life. My paren... | My brother can't manage his money and the bank repossessed his car. My parents are about at their breaking point with his irresponsibility and the drama he brings to this family. How can I help him fix his life? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19 M] feel like I am not adequate in bed because my SO [18 F] doesn't feel like having sex with me.
POST: We're in a long distance relationship and my SO and I havent seen each other in a month. Druing the first she was all on me and really wanted to have sex with me, but now she do... | I think I am bad at sex because SO just ignores me when I get in the mood and just played a game on her phone the whole night. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: [21 M] I want to start dating again, but I'm stuck.
POST: Hey guys,
So this is my first time posting here and I'm hoping for some advice. I fell for this one girl about two years ago. I want to move on, I am tired of being stuck fawning over her. I want to get out there and date new ... | I want to make a change in my life to start fixing things but I have little to no self worth and I fell for my one of my best friend and roommate of 2 years. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Death and Tattoos
POST: I'll condense this as much as possible.
My brother is stationed in Afghanistan, and recently killed a man from about 8 feet away. He's looking to commemorate his kill with a tattoo, and I need some creative ideas to send him.
The details: While doing a structure... | creative tattoo ideas and pics incorporating death, shots to the knee and chest, but in a clever, subtle way. |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Fat loss and working out week 1.
POST: Hello everyone that might be reading this,
I'm a 20 year old that has been overweight/fat for a long period of my life. I peaked at 210 lbs or 92 kg when I was about 16, from that point on I decided to lose the weight no matter what. I ate a lot less, e... | Lost 40lbs before, still skinnyfat. Go from skinnyfat to skinny and then to fit, or from skinnyfat to fit-ish and then dieting down to fit. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (25f) boyfriend and I (25m) have trouble sleeping together - He snores and fidgets and I wake at the drop of a pin. Any help or suggestions?
POST: We've been dating for 2.5 years.
There's been some strain on our relationship because it is so difficult for us (mainly me) to sleep i... | Boyfriend snores and fidgets while sleeping, so I hardly get sleep since I am a light sleeper. Need advice to save my relationship and sleep well |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27 M/F] with my ___ [22 M/F] 1.5 years, how to get past questioning the past
POST: I typed this on my smartphone, so I apologize in advance. This won't be too long, but I had a girlfriend, who I fell in love with, and thought it was mutual. She was going through some tough times s... | Start relationship with woman, tests positive for chlamydia, becomes distant, leaves me for a guy at her church. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My first year wedding anniversary is coming up and I don't have much money. Any creative ideas for a first-year anniversary gift (and a birthday gift too since it's coming up)? If it makes her cry, I'll take pictures of it and update.
POST: We met over two years ago, got married last year,... | 1st anniversary and birthday coming up. I'm poor. Need gift ideas to make wife cry (in a good way) |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: iPod backup corrupted and I need help extracting certain items.
POST: My moms got a new iPhone and when we tried to restore her old settings to her new iPhone it no longer works. What happens is it goes to the black apple screen for about 5 seconds and then flips to the "slide to unlock sc... | What I am looking for is a way to extract her contacts, calender and notes from the backup file on my computer and into a format where I can put it on to her new iPhone. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I want to scream.
POST: Spent around 2 years together and we left with mutual intentions. We tried to get back together but then I found out you wanted to just play around. Now you ask me to come back when I'm happily in another relationship. Yes, I was pregnant with your child but I chos... | Spent two yrs together, happily moved on, ex tried to get me to come back went over to make amends was held down out of my will. Can't be friends |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [33F] with my husband (34M) in a dispute over money with father in-law
POST: Hi all,
I'm a long time lurker on this sub and now hoping for some advice myself.
My father in law loaned my husband and I a substantial sum of money to help us buy our house 18mths ago.
We discussed ... | father in law lent us money and suddenly decided we have to pay him interest. Has been nasty and aggressive and don't know what to do. |
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