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anger
problems_with_friends
My best friend has been very demanding, and I'm very upset.
4
2
5
5
Hello there. I'm having a problem with one of my friends.
She has been having a problem with a different friend for years. I have been listening to these problems for all of that time. And even though it's so frustrating, because it's the same problem over and over again, I keep listening because she's my friend. But lately I have been going through a lot, and I haven't had a...
I can understand how angry unappreciated and burnt out you must be feeling. I would feel that way too
I can understand how angry unappreciated and burnt out you must be feeling. I would feel that way too
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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anger
problems_with_friends
My best friend has been very demanding, and I'm very upset.
4
2
5
5
Hello there. I'm having a problem with one of my friends. She has been having a problem with a different friend for years. I have been listening to these problems for all of that time. And even though it's so frustrating, because it's the same problem over and over again, I keep listening because she's my friend. But l...
It's been really rough. I've tried so hard to be there for her, and I feel like she just doesn't even appreciate it.
I don't think she is a place to be able to see anyone but herself. She is self centereed self asbored and self pity party and doesn't care about anyone but herself right now . Is that accurate?
I don't think she is a place to be able to see anyone but herself. She is self centereed self asbored and self pity party and doesn't care about anyone but herself right now . Is that accurate?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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anger
problems_with_friends
My best friend has been very demanding, and I'm very upset.
4
2
5
5
Hello there. I'm having a problem with one of my friends. She has been having a problem with a different friend for years. I have been listening to these problems for all of that time. And even though it's so frustrating, because it's the same problem over and over again, I keep listening because she's my friend. But l...
Yes, that's exactly accurate. And she is 50 years old, and the issues have all been high school type problems that I've been listening to. Stuff about how she didn't post on social media about her birthday, and little petty things like that. Not something an adult should be concerned with. And I still sat and listened ...
I completely understand how unappreciated and stressed this would make you or any person. Especially when our plate is full and its the same old same old and nothing is changing. Its like thinking doing same thing over and over you will get a different result when 2+2 equals 4
I completely understand how unappreciated and stressed this would make you or any person. Especially when our plate is full and its the same old same old and nothing is changing. Its like thinking doing same thing over and over you will get a different result when 2+2 equals 4
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
3,614
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0.02037
0.025607
308
6
anger
problems_with_friends
My best friend has been very demanding, and I'm very upset.
4
2
5
5
Hello there. I'm having a problem with one of my friends. She has been having a problem with a different friend for years. I have been listening to these problems for all of that time. And even though it's so frustrating, because it's the same problem over and over again, I keep listening because she's my friend. But l...
Yes, exactly.
You are an extremely good and loyal friend and I am so proud of you. Most people would have left her.
You are an extremely good and loyal friend and I am so proud of you. Most people would have left her.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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0.000766
0.020717
308
7
anger
problems_with_friends
My best friend has been very demanding, and I'm very upset.
4
2
5
5
Hello there. I'm having a problem with one of my friends. She has been having a problem with a different friend for years. I have been listening to these problems for all of that time. And even though it's so frustrating, because it's the same problem over and over again, I keep listening because she's my friend. But l...
Thank you. That's really important to me. She was starting to convince me that I wasn't a good friend because I wasn't there for her right now when I had problems of my own. Real problems - like my daughter's engagement breaking up.
However, it is time to take the hard road. YOu are going to have to say with LOVE because its not always what you say but how you say it. Give me a minute to please type it
However, it is time to take the hard road. YOu are going to have to say with LOVE because its not always what you say but how you say it. Give me a minute to please type it
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,616
angry
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308
8
anger
problems_with_friends
My best friend has been very demanding, and I'm very upset.
4
2
5
5
Hello there. I'm having a problem with one of my friends. She has been having a problem with a different friend for years. I have been listening to these problems for all of that time. And even though it's so frustrating, because it's the same problem over and over again, I keep listening because she's my friend. But l...
Okay, thank you.
You are going to have to sit her down and say I need to be honest with you. I have always been there for you but you are not willing to take my advice or others advice and quite frankly I just can't do it anymore. IF you want to remain friends I need you to grow up and realize the world doesn't revolve around you or ev...
You are going to have to sit her down and say I need to be honest with you. I have always been there for you but you are not willing to take my advice or others advice and quite frankly I just can't do it anymore. IF you want to remain friends I need you to grow up and realize the world doesn't revolve around you or ev...
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,617
angry
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0.000286
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308
9
anger
problems_with_friends
My best friend has been very demanding, and I'm very upset.
4
2
5
5
Hello there. I'm having a problem with one of my friends. She has been having a problem with a different friend for years. I have been listening to these problems for all of that time. And even though it's so frustrating, because it's the same problem over and over again, I keep listening because she's my friend. But l...
I think that's a good idea. I'll try that.
if you aren't able to do that than I am afraid until you can be a true friend and not just a user than I need to end this friendship . I don't want to but I need to for my mental health and for myself and even for you. I say this because I love you and I do care but this has become toxic
if you aren't able to do that than I am afraid until you can be a true friend and not just a user than I need to end this friendship . I don't want to but I need to for my mental health and for myself and even for you. I say this because I love you and I do care but this has become toxic
Others
Others
3,618
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0.000126
0.002467
0.948443
0.000734
0.029655
308
10
anger
problems_with_friends
My best friend has been very demanding, and I'm very upset.
4
2
5
5
Hello there. I'm having a problem with one of my friends. She has been having a problem with a different friend for years. I have been listening to these problems for all of that time. And even though it's so frustrating, because it's the same problem over and over again, I keep listening because she's my friend. But l...
Yeah, I like that. I think it's a good idea to say those things to her.
she really needs to hear it and it sounds toxic to me . I know I wouldn't want a friend to accuse me of not being there and from the chat look like its all about her and she s acting like a spoiled brat
she really needs to hear it and it sounds toxic to me . I know I wouldn't want a friend to accuse me of not being there and from the chat look like its all about her and she s acting like a spoiled brat
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
3,619
neutral
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0.000188
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0.774414
0.00373
0.01416
308
11
anger
problems_with_friends
My best friend has been very demanding, and I'm very upset.
4
2
5
5
Hello there. I'm having a problem with one of my friends. She has been having a problem with a different friend for years. I have been listening to these problems for all of that time. And even though it's so frustrating, because it's the same problem over and over again, I keep listening because she's my friend. But l...
I agree. She can't see past her own issues to see the whole situation.
If you think its a more serious problem maybe ask her to seek professional help.
If you think its a more serious problem maybe ask her to seek professional help.
Information
Information
3,620
angry
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0.000402
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0.055557
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308
12
anger
problems_with_friends
My best friend has been very demanding, and I'm very upset.
4
2
5
5
Hello there. I'm having a problem with one of my friends. She has been having a problem with a different friend for years. I have been listening to these problems for all of that time. And even though it's so frustrating, because it's the same problem over and over again, I keep listening because she's my friend. But l...
I might try that if this doesn't work. Thank you for your help.
youre welcome and above all continue to pray for her or start praying for her. You really are a great loyal intelligent person. Keep safe
youre welcome and above all continue to pray for her or start praying for her. You really are a great loyal intelligent person. Keep safe
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
3,621
neutral
0.063403
0.000657
0.004347
0.000522
0.545574
0.365766
0.019731
308
13
anger
problems_with_friends
My best friend has been very demanding, and I'm very upset.
4
2
5
5
Hello there. I'm having a problem with one of my friends. She has been having a problem with a different friend for years. I have been listening to these problems for all of that time. And even though it's so frustrating, because it's the same problem over and over again, I keep listening because she's my friend. But l...
You too, thank you.
Good luck . Merry Christmas
Good luck . Merry Christmas
Others
Others
3,622
happy
0.070423
0.000261
0.00044
0.854038
0.064107
0.000189
0.010541
310
1
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend broke up with me after being together for 5 years. He also cheated on me with my best friend.
5
1
5
5
I am feeling very sad lately. I can't seem to shake it.
I'm sorry to hear that. Would you like to talk about what is making you sad?
I'm sorry to hear that. Would you like to talk about what is making you sad?
Question
Question
3,638
sad
0.000174
0.000089
0.00005
0.000071
0.000215
0.99934
0.000061
310
2
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend broke up with me after being together for 5 years. He also cheated on me with my best friend.
5
1
5
5
I am feeling very sad lately. I can't seem to shake it.
I was in a long term relationship and he broke up with me. I should have broken up with him for cheating my me but I was in love and think that I still am. I feel like my life was a waste. I don't like being alone.
That sounds terrible. But I understand the feeling. I was in the same situation once. It is hard to move passed that. So your pain is very understandable.
That sounds terrible. But I understand the feeling. I was in the same situation once. It is hard to move passed that. So your pain is very understandable.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
3,639
sad
0.000778
0.000121
0.000036
0.00027
0.000319
0.998405
0.000071
310
3
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend broke up with me after being together for 5 years. He also cheated on me with my best friend.
5
1
5
5
I am feeling very sad lately. I can't seem to shake it. I was in a long term relationship and he broke up with me. I should have broken up with him for cheating my me but I was in love and think that I still am. I feel like my life was a waste. I don't like being alone.
You then you know it feels like the world is collapsing around me.
I agree. It's like there is no more hope. But do you know something?
I agree. It's like there is no more hope. But do you know something? It is ok to feel sad sometimes. You're the stronger one in this position. And you can show how strong you are by moving passed this.
Question, Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance
Question
3,640
neutral
0.009764
0.000214
0.002444
0.000165
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0.010897
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310
4
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend broke up with me after being together for 5 years. He also cheated on me with my best friend.
5
1
5
5
I am feeling very sad lately. I can't seem to shake it. I was in a long term relationship and he broke up with me. I should have broken up with him for cheating my me but I was in love and think that I still am. I feel like my life was a waste. I don't like being alone. You then you know it feels like the world is coll...
Thank you, I know that sounds right. I had my whole life planned out and it was going to end in a long term marriage and now its all gone. I was thinking of getting a pet or something but I don't know if I am worthy.
This way sound weird, but I tell myself if something is not meant to happen, it would not. If you want to look at a more positive side of this, you can say this was a good thing that happened.
This way sound weird, but I tell myself if something is not meant to happen, it would not. If you want to look at a more positive side of this, you can say this was a good thing that happened.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
3,641
sad
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310
5
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend broke up with me after being together for 5 years. He also cheated on me with my best friend.
5
1
5
5
I am feeling very sad lately. I can't seem to shake it. I was in a long term relationship and he broke up with me. I should have broken up with him for cheating my me but I was in love and think that I still am. I feel like my life was a waste. I don't like being alone. You then you know it feels like the world is coll...
I have always wanted a cat or a dog but my boyfriend said I wouldn't be good at raising anything. I can try to change my thinking but its really difficult.
I know you don't want to hear all these positive words right now. But It will get better. Trust me.
I know you don't want to hear all these positive words right now. But It will get better. Trust me.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,642
sad
0.045369
0.001437
0.001983
0.000504
0.004524
0.944801
0.001382
310
6
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend broke up with me after being together for 5 years. He also cheated on me with my best friend.
5
1
5
5
I am feeling very sad lately. I can't seem to shake it. I was in a long term relationship and he broke up with me. I should have broken up with him for cheating my me but I was in love and think that I still am. I feel like my life was a waste. I don't like being alone. You then you know it feels like the world is coll...
I appreciate the support and need to hear positive words. Do you think I need to take a vacation or something?
It is hard to get passed someone's words, especially after spending so much time with them. How about start with a fish. I have a betta and he is really easy to take care of. But I have the responsibility of attending to his needs. If you can take care of a fish, you surely can take care of a cat or dog!
It is hard to get passed someone's words, especially after spending so much time with them. How about start with a fish. I have a betta and he is really easy to take care of. But I have the responsibility of attending to his needs. If you can take care of a fish, you surely can take care of a cat or dog! I apologize if...
Affirmation and Reassurance, Reflection of feelings, Question
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,643
neutral
0.001638
0.000082
0.000143
0.041399
0.952178
0.000406
0.004153
310
7
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend broke up with me after being together for 5 years. He also cheated on me with my best friend.
5
1
5
5
I am feeling very sad lately. I can't seem to shake it. I was in a long term relationship and he broke up with me. I should have broken up with him for cheating my me but I was in love and think that I still am. I feel like my life was a waste. I don't like being alone. You then you know it feels like the world is coll...
I really love that idea and I love fish! I have always wanted an aquarium. I am thankful for your thoughtfulness and not just telling me what I want to hear. I like to go boating but its hard to do alone. I also like to go hiking but its dangerous to go alone.
I agree. Are you a social person by any chance? By saying that I mean you can still go do those activities, but you can maybe meet people there and ask if you can join their group. That's great in a way because you meet new people and there are no attachments after you leave. It's like a fun, crazy experience :)
I agree. Are you a social person by any chance? By saying that I mean you can still go do those activities, but you can maybe meet people there and ask if you can join their group. That's great in a way because you meet new people and there are no attachments after you leave. It's like a fun, crazy experience :)
Question
Question
3,644
happy
0.001351
0.0001
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0.994634
0.002748
0.000477
0.000445
310
8
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend broke up with me after being together for 5 years. He also cheated on me with my best friend.
5
1
5
5
I am feeling very sad lately. I can't seem to shake it. I was in a long term relationship and he broke up with me. I should have broken up with him for cheating my me but I was in love and think that I still am. I feel like my life was a waste. I don't like being alone. You then you know it feels like the world is coll...
Thank you for the support that is a good idea because I do like going bowling and I heard about a open social bowling night.
Oh that's awesome! But just remember don't try to distract yourself from the problem. Try to make peace with it. Because if you don't, you cannot move forward.
Oh that's awesome! But just remember don't try to distract yourself from the problem. Try to make peace with it. Because if you don't, you cannot move forward.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,645
happy
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0.000011
0.998707
0.000407
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0.000243
313
1
depression
ongoing_depression
bad experiences with others
5
2
4
4
hey
How are you friend?
How are you friend?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,669
happy
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0.000484
0.000055
0.920698
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2
depression
ongoing_depression
bad experiences with others
5
2
4
4
hey
Not so good
why?
why? Any Problem?
Restatement or Paraphrasing, Affirmation and Reassurance
Restatement or Paraphrasing
3,670
sad
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0.013141
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3
depression
ongoing_depression
bad experiences with others
5
2
4
4
hey Not so good
I feel like everyone hates me
What's the reason?
What's the reason?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,671
angry
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depression
ongoing_depression
bad experiences with others
5
2
4
4
hey Not so good I feel like everyone hates me
People are so rude and mean to me. A lot of people call me annoying too
it's their fault , not yours.
it's their fault , not yours. don't worry..
Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,672
angry
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5
depression
ongoing_depression
bad experiences with others
5
2
4
4
hey Not so good I feel like everyone hates me People are so rude and mean to me. A lot of people call me annoying too
I feel bad because more than one person has said it. Maybe I am just annoying
Be as you always have been
Be as you always have been
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,673
angry
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6
depression
ongoing_depression
bad experiences with others
5
2
4
4
hey Not so good I feel like everyone hates me People are so rude and mean to me. A lot of people call me annoying too I feel bad because more than one person has said it. Maybe I am just annoying
Sometimes I'm afraid of being myself because I don't want to annoy people
you don't think so..
you don't think so..
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,674
fear
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7
depression
ongoing_depression
bad experiences with others
5
2
4
4
hey Not so good I feel like everyone hates me People are so rude and mean to me. A lot of people call me annoying too I feel bad because more than one person has said it. Maybe I am just annoying Sometimes I'm afraid of being myself because I don't want to annoy people
Sometimes I hate myself
don't change yourself for anyone..
don't change yourself for anyone..
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,675
sad
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0.545731
0.001922
313
8
depression
ongoing_depression
bad experiences with others
5
2
4
4
hey Not so good I feel like everyone hates me People are so rude and mean to me. A lot of people call me annoying too I feel bad because more than one person has said it. Maybe I am just annoying Sometimes I'm afraid of being myself because I don't want to annoy people Sometimes I hate myself
I guess I shouldn't. But it's hard to express myself sometimes
ok, i did understand..
ok, i did understand..
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,676
sad
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0.000435
0.035175
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0.044738
313
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depression
ongoing_depression
bad experiences with others
5
2
4
4
hey Not so good I feel like everyone hates me People are so rude and mean to me. A lot of people call me annoying too I feel bad because more than one person has said it. Maybe I am just annoying Sometimes I'm afraid of being myself because I don't want to annoy people Sometimes I hate myself I guess I shouldn't. But i...
Im not really changing myself. I'm too afraid to express myself What if I express myself and I annoy someone?
it doesn't matter what others say about us, do your duty properly ok
it doesn't matter what others say about us, do your duty properly ok
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,677
fear
0.002613
0.000218
0.961855
0.000148
0.003129
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313
10
depression
ongoing_depression
bad experiences with others
5
2
4
4
hey Not so good I feel like everyone hates me People are so rude and mean to me. A lot of people call me annoying too I feel bad because more than one person has said it. Maybe I am just annoying Sometimes I'm afraid of being myself because I don't want to annoy people Sometimes I hate myself I guess I shouldn't. But i...
Sometimes what other people say bothers and hurts me deeply.
don't think about that..
don't think about that..
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,678
sad
0.056191
0.001593
0.000413
0.000066
0.000921
0.940638
0.000178
313
11
depression
ongoing_depression
bad experiences with others
5
2
4
4
hey Not so good I feel like everyone hates me People are so rude and mean to me. A lot of people call me annoying too I feel bad because more than one person has said it. Maybe I am just annoying Sometimes I'm afraid of being myself because I don't want to annoy people Sometimes I hate myself I guess I shouldn't. But i...
Sometimes its hard to not think about it
share your comments it is their choice whether to accept or disagree, but you don't change anything
share your comments it is their choice whether to accept or disagree, but you don't change anything
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,679
sad
0.000575
0.000302
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0.000126
0.001858
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0.00122
313
12
depression
ongoing_depression
bad experiences with others
5
2
4
4
hey Not so good I feel like everyone hates me People are so rude and mean to me. A lot of people call me annoying too I feel bad because more than one person has said it. Maybe I am just annoying Sometimes I'm afraid of being myself because I don't want to annoy people Sometimes I hate myself I guess I shouldn't. But i...
I understand
Hmm good
Hmm good
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,680
surprised
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hey Not so good I feel like everyone hates me People are so rude and mean to me. A lot of people call me annoying too I feel bad because more than one person has said it. Maybe I am just annoying Sometimes I'm afraid of being myself because I don't want to annoy people Sometimes I hate myself I guess I shouldn't. But i...
Well thank you im okay
Hmm all the best
Hmm all the best
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I've been better. I just buried my dog yesterday She was going to turn 15 next month
Ouch! I'm so sorry to hear that. I never lost a dog, but I've lost cats.
Ouch! I'm so sorry to hear that. I never lost a dog, but I've lost cats. Is 14 a good age for a dog? I have my first dog so I don't know much, he is 9 years old and came with our house.
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My dog died
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I've been better. I just buried my dog yesterday She was going to turn 15 next month
Actually, yes. She was old and had dementia. The oldest dog I evet had was 15
I'm so sorry, losing a pet is very hard on us.
I'm so sorry, losing a pet is very hard on us.
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I've been better. I just buried my dog yesterday She was going to turn 15 next month Actually, yes. She was old and had dementia. The oldest dog I evet had was 15
How did your dog come with the house?
Was that your only pet? Or do you have others? We moved from FL to KY and the little dog just hung out here, he really belonged to the neighbor's son who didn't want him, so he just ran around wild and wouldn't leave. I never had a dog, but it got cold, so i took him in. They never asked about him and after a week, I a...
Was that your only pet? Or do you have others? We moved from FL to KY and the little dog just hung out here, he really belonged to the neighbor's son who didn't want him, so he just ran around wild and wouldn't leave. I never had a dog, but it got cold, so i took him in. They never asked about him and after a week, I a...
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My dog died
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I've been better. I just buried my dog yesterday She was going to turn 15 next month Actually, yes. She was old and had dementia. The oldest dog I evet had was 15 How did your dog come with the house?
I have 2 other dogs that are mine and my boyfriend has 2 Thank you. that means a lot We both had dogs when we met.
So you definitely are a dog lover! I was in my 50s before I ever had a dog, now I wish I had more, they are really loving. Not like cats who don't care much about much except FOOD! lol
So you definitely are a dog lover! I was in my 50s before I ever had a dog, now I wish I had more, they are really loving. Not like cats who don't care much about much except FOOD! lol I know when tragedy happens, I can't get stuck in depression, I sort of have to force myself to put one foot in front of the other. It'...
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My dog died
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I've been better. I just buried my dog yesterday She was going to turn 15 next month Actually, yes. She was old and had dementia. The oldest dog I evet had was 15 How did your dog come with the house? I have 2 other dogs that are mine and my boyfriend has 2 Thank you. that means a lot We both had dogs when we met.
They get to be so close and you can really pick up on their emotions and stuff. That's what happens to me. I get stuck sometimes
I get stuck too. But you are doing the right things, here you reached out to someone and I do care, so you are moving forward.
I get stuck too. But you are doing the right things, here you reached out to someone and I do care, so you are moving forward. I always find it helpful just so have someone share my pain with me. Just to know I'm not alone.
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My dog died
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I've been better. I just buried my dog yesterday She was going to turn 15 next month Actually, yes. She was old and had dementia. The oldest dog I evet had was 15 How did your dog come with the house? I have 2 other dogs that are mine and my boyfriend has 2 Thank you. that means a lot We both had dogs when we met. They...
Thanks. Another person who has pets helps They understand
I do understand. My mom died in 2010, right after she died, 1 of my cats died, my husband went into the hospital and almost died, so we went on vacation so I would not be consumed with grief, and do you know, we brought our pets and our cat died when we arrived here on vacation? I will never forget that. You know what....
I do understand. My mom died in 2010, right after she died, 1 of my cats died, my husband went into the hospital and almost died, so we went on vacation so I would not be consumed with grief, and do you know, we brought our pets and our cat died when we arrived here on vacation? I will never forget that. You know what....
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My dog died
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I've been better. I just buried my dog yesterday She was going to turn 15 next month Actually, yes. She was old and had dementia. The oldest dog I evet had was 15 How did your dog come with the house? I have 2 other dogs that are mine and my boyfriend has 2 Thank you. that means a lot We both had dogs when we met. They...
Oh wow, that sounds horrible. Pushing through though I guess is all one can do then. Thank you so much. I believe in prayer.
Prayer is what gets me through every day! :D It was rough, but I believe these hard times strengthen us in some way. Because life throws hard balls, and we have to move forward or be consumed.
Prayer is what gets me through every day! :D It was rough, but I believe these hard times strengthen us in some way. Because life throws hard balls, and we have to move forward or be consumed.
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My dog died
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I've been better. I just buried my dog yesterday She was going to turn 15 next month Actually, yes. She was old and had dementia. The oldest dog I evet had was 15 How did your dog come with the house? I have 2 other dogs that are mine and my boyfriend has 2 Thank you. that means a lot We both had dogs when we met. They...
That's true. I'm glad I did this project. You really helped me.
I'm so glad I did too. It was a pleasure to meet you. And once again, (hug). :D
I'm so glad I did too. It was a pleasure to meet you. And once again, (hug). :D
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I've been better. I just buried my dog yesterday She was going to turn 15 next month Actually, yes. She was old and had dementia. The oldest dog I evet had was 15 How did your dog come with the house? I have 2 other dogs that are mine and my boyfriend has 2 Thank you. that means a lot We both had dogs when we met. They...
You too. Thanks so much. bye
I have one more thing to say - wise words from this 92 year old lady at church named Sue. She told me this after my brother died. When you get older, everyone you know is practically dead. She said "Life is for the living, if you get caught up to much in all the death, you won't life." True words. God bless, have a goo...
I have one more thing to say - wise words from this 92 year old lady at church named Sue. She told me this after my brother died. When you get older, everyone you know is practically dead. She said "Life is for the living, if you get caught up to much in all the death, you won't life." True words. God bless, have a goo...
Self-disclosure
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I am doing alright. How are you?
I am good, thanks. Is there an issue I can provide you some support with?
I am good, thanks. Is there an issue I can provide you some support with?
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I feel I am failing in my graduate program. I feel that I am not good enough to earn my doctorate degree.
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I am doing alright. How are you?
Yeah I am pretty anxious all the time. I feel that I made a mistake coming back to school to get a PhD.
So, to reiterate, you are suffering from anxiety due to school? Or is your anxiousness also caused by other life factors as well?
So, to reiterate, you are suffering from anxiety due to school? Or is your anxiousness also caused by other life factors as well?
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I feel I am failing in my graduate program. I feel that I am not good enough to earn my doctorate degree.
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I am doing alright. How are you? Yeah I am pretty anxious all the time. I feel that I made a mistake coming back to school to get a PhD.
School is the start of the problem. I know that if I quit I can still be successful elsewhere but I also feel if I quit I will let my wife and kids down who were willing to leave family and friends to follow me to the school I wanted to go to.
I understand what you are going through. It is as if you are being pulled in two directions, but are not sure which is the best option at the given moment. I think it is great that you wanted to go back to school, but if your heart is not in it, then it may not be what you should continue pursuing.
I understand what you are going through. It is as if you are being pulled in two directions, but are not sure which is the best option at the given moment. I think it is great that you wanted to go back to school, but if your heart is not in it, then it may not be what you should continue pursuing.
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I feel I am failing in my graduate program. I feel that I am not good enough to earn my doctorate degree.
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I am doing alright. How are you? Yeah I am pretty anxious all the time. I feel that I made a mistake coming back to school to get a PhD. School is the start of the problem. I know that if I quit I can still be successful elsewhere but I also feel if I quit I will let my wife and kids down who were willing to leave fami...
I know I want this though. I enjoy what I do and what I would do for my career if I graduate. I mainly feel inadequate. I feel that I am not good enough. I am willing to do whatever it takes but fear that whatever my "best" is may not be good enough.
I can feel your worries when you speak about your anxiety, and I am hoping we can find a way to approach your feelings. Do you think there was a specific instance that is causing doubts within yourself or is it in your nature to self-doubt?
I can feel your worries when you speak about your anxiety, and I am hoping we can find a way to approach your feelings. Do you think there was a specific instance that is causing doubts within yourself or is it in your nature to self-doubt?
Reflection of feelings
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I feel I am failing in my graduate program. I feel that I am not good enough to earn my doctorate degree.
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I am doing alright. How are you? Yeah I am pretty anxious all the time. I feel that I made a mistake coming back to school to get a PhD. School is the start of the problem. I know that if I quit I can still be successful elsewhere but I also feel if I quit I will let my wife and kids down who were willing to leave fami...
It is in my nature to self doubt. Additionally, I have had a few bumps in the road during my program and struggle to pick myself up after those bumps. For example, I am on academic probation and have a certain expectation over the next few months that I have to hit to stay in the program due to struggles in previous cl...
This has also been a past struggle of mine, and I think it partially stems from the bar we set so high for ourselves. We obviously cannot reach the top right away, but have to work our way up. Often times, when facing an obstacle, such as a bad grade, we might retreat further down the path due to fear that it will keep...
This has also been a past struggle of mine, and I think it partially stems from the bar we set so high for ourselves. We obviously cannot reach the top right away, but have to work our way up. Often times, when facing an obstacle, such as a bad grade, we might retreat further down the path due to fear that it will keep...
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anxiety
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I feel I am failing in my graduate program. I feel that I am not good enough to earn my doctorate degree.
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I am doing alright. How are you? Yeah I am pretty anxious all the time. I feel that I made a mistake coming back to school to get a PhD. School is the start of the problem. I know that if I quit I can still be successful elsewhere but I also feel if I quit I will let my wife and kids down who were willing to leave fami...
That is a really good point and helpful. Thank you!
Of course, I am happy to help! I have noticed that letting yourself celebrate a good grade can be really helpful to feel that you are enough and making good progress. But when things do go south, because life certainly happens, we must stay in the present and live life like we usually would, with a drive that we are go...
Of course, I am happy to help! I have noticed that letting yourself celebrate a good grade can be really helpful to feel that you are enough and making good progress. But when things do go south, because life certainly happens, we must stay in the present and live life like we usually would, with a drive that we are go...
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I feel I am failing in my graduate program. I feel that I am not good enough to earn my doctorate degree.
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I am doing alright. How are you? Yeah I am pretty anxious all the time. I feel that I made a mistake coming back to school to get a PhD. School is the start of the problem. I know that if I quit I can still be successful elsewhere but I also feel if I quit I will let my wife and kids down who were willing to leave fami...
That is exactly right. I need to focus more on what progress has been made and not on what progress hasn't been made yet because there is still time to make that progress.
Exactly! I also suggest if you are having doubts, talk it out with someone like your partner or a close friend. They can often provide a pick me up you didn't even know you needed. More than anything, give yourself credit and relax. Take some time to just breathe and release the tension. I guarantee it will leave you f...
Exactly! I also suggest if you are having doubts, talk it out with someone like your partner or a close friend. They can often provide a pick me up you didn't even know you needed. More than anything, give yourself credit and relax. Take some time to just breathe and release the tension. I guarantee it will leave you f...
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I feel I am failing in my graduate program. I feel that I am not good enough to earn my doctorate degree.
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I am doing alright. How are you? Yeah I am pretty anxious all the time. I feel that I made a mistake coming back to school to get a PhD. School is the start of the problem. I know that if I quit I can still be successful elsewhere but I also feel if I quit I will let my wife and kids down who were willing to leave fami...
Thanks for the advice and believing in me. This has been challenging and your words of encouragement give me hope for the future .
You're welcome. It was great talking to you. Your future is bright, and I wish you all of the luck for the endeavors to get you there.
You're welcome. It was great talking to you. Your future is bright, and I wish you all of the luck for the endeavors to get you there.
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I feel I am failing in my graduate program. I feel that I am not good enough to earn my doctorate degree.
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I am doing alright. How are you? Yeah I am pretty anxious all the time. I feel that I made a mistake coming back to school to get a PhD. School is the start of the problem. I know that if I quit I can still be successful elsewhere but I also feel if I quit I will let my wife and kids down who were willing to leave fami...
Thanks! Same to you!
Enjoy the rest of your day!
Enjoy the rest of your day!
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I am angry because I think my husband is controlling but he says I dont understand what controlling is
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Good evening
Hey there! How are you feeling?
Hey there! How are you feeling?
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I am angry because I think my husband is controlling but he says I dont understand what controlling is
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Good evening
I am very angry and not sure if I should feel that way my husband tells me what to do where to go and when to go but he says hold on please got go for a min
Correct me if i'm wrong, but it sounds like your husband may be controlling you a little and you're expressing reasonable emotions because of it. and Okay!
Correct me if i'm wrong, but it sounds like your husband may be controlling you a little and you're expressing reasonable emotions because of it. and Okay!
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I am angry because I think my husband is controlling but he says I dont understand what controlling is
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Good evening I am very angry and not sure if I should feel that way my husband tells me what to do where to go and when to go but he says hold on please got go for a min
he said if he were controlling i would be givign him attention read between the lines than he will say don't touch this like a cheesecake and than tell me week later make it
Why do you think he talks to you this way?
Why do you think he talks to you this way?
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I am angry because I think my husband is controlling but he says I dont understand what controlling is
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Good evening I am very angry and not sure if I should feel that way my husband tells me what to do where to go and when to go but he says hold on please got go for a min he said if he were controlling i would be givign him attention read between the lines than he will say don't touch this like a cheesecake and than tel...
I am going to write stuff to move it up on screen . he might come read this so if isuddently leave i a m very sorry My friends say because i allow him to control me and
Okay that is perfectly okay. You are fine. If you need me to assist you in any way just send a question mark.
Okay that is perfectly okay. You are fine. If you need me to assist you in any way just send a question mark.
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I am angry because I think my husband is controlling but he says I dont understand what controlling is
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Good evening I am very angry and not sure if I should feel that way my husband tells me what to do where to go and when to go but he says hold on please got go for a min he said if he were controlling i would be givign him attention read between the lines than he will say don't touch this like a cheesecake and than tel...
dont stand up for myself and lalow him to treat me that way I am angry too because I cant be free and express how I really feel he has a disrespect i think for women in general and call them cunts ? question it wont let me just send aquestion mark
I've been in a similar situation. I was with someone who was controlling in a lot of aspects so i can feel your pain and struggle. I can feel your anger too, and I imagine that it is alot. It is not your fault, and you aren't allowing this to happen to you. It is out of your control. Don't ever blame yourself.
I've been in a similar situation. I was with someone who was controlling in a lot of aspects so i can feel your pain and struggle. I can feel your anger too, and I imagine that it is alot. It is not your fault, and you aren't allowing this to happen to you. It is out of your control. Don't ever blame yourself. How can ...
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I am angry because I think my husband is controlling but he says I dont understand what controlling is
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Good evening I am very angry and not sure if I should feel that way my husband tells me what to do where to go and when to go but he says hold on please got go for a min he said if he were controlling i would be givign him attention read between the lines than he will say don't touch this like a cheesecake and than tel...
That makes me feel better. How long were you in relationship
I was in it for two years before I broke away from it. It was so hard but liberating to leave!
I was in it for two years before I broke away from it. It was so hard but liberating to leave!
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I am angry because I think my husband is controlling but he says I dont understand what controlling is
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Good evening I am very angry and not sure if I should feel that way my husband tells me what to do where to go and when to go but he says hold on please got go for a min he said if he were controlling i would be givign him attention read between the lines than he will say don't touch this like a cheesecake and than tel...
ok I am glad for you..
I could suggest you see a private doctor to talk about this with, if that is something you are able to do. Or see one with your husband. Maybe he needs a third party to help mediate the problems you guys are having.
I could suggest you see a private doctor to talk about this with, if that is something you are able to do. Or see one with your husband. Maybe he needs a third party to help mediate the problems you guys are having.
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I am angry because I think my husband is controlling but he says I dont understand what controlling is
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Good evening I am very angry and not sure if I should feel that way my husband tells me what to do where to go and when to go but he says hold on please got go for a min he said if he were controlling i would be givign him attention read between the lines than he will say don't touch this like a cheesecake and than tel...
he will not go to therapy nor am i allowed I am lucky to have family friends whom I can talk to
That's very hard to deal with. And I am so sorry you are dealing with this. Do you feel safe?
That's very hard to deal with. And I am so sorry you are dealing with this. Do you feel safe?
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I am angry because I think my husband is controlling but he says I dont understand what controlling is
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Good evening I am very angry and not sure if I should feel that way my husband tells me what to do where to go and when to go but he says hold on please got go for a min he said if he were controlling i would be givign him attention read between the lines than he will say don't touch this like a cheesecake and than tel...
but he thinks he is always right and blah blah blah yes My real concern is for the boys . they see him treating me this way and will think its ok they even said something disrespectful to me and hubby was like you don't talk to your mom that way or ill knock your teeth out he wouldnt but he doesnt see how its his fault
I can tell this situation stresses you out and probably consumes a lot of your day to day energy. I sympathize with you and your children. What happens when you try talking with him about this?
I can tell this situation stresses you out and probably consumes a lot of your day to day energy. I sympathize with you and your children. What happens when you try talking with him about this?
Reflection of feelings
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I am angry because I think my husband is controlling but he says I dont understand what controlling is
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Good evening I am very angry and not sure if I should feel that way my husband tells me what to do where to go and when to go but he says hold on please got go for a min he said if he were controlling i would be givign him attention read between the lines than he will say don't touch this like a cheesecake and than tel...
he says i m making a mountain out of a mole hill and i have no idea what controlling is
I commend you for speaking up for yourself despite his responses. I hope you hold on to that strength for as long as you can. It will empower you
I commend you for speaking up for yourself despite his responses. I hope you hold on to that strength for as long as you can. It will empower you
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,711
surprised
0.011354
0.000483
0.00026
0.000963
0.036531
0.000377
0.950034
316
11
anger
ongoing_depression
I am angry because I think my husband is controlling but he says I dont understand what controlling is
4
3
5
5
Good evening I am very angry and not sure if I should feel that way my husband tells me what to do where to go and when to go but he says hold on please got go for a min he said if he were controlling i would be givign him attention read between the lines than he will say don't touch this like a cheesecake and than tel...
well boys need to get ready for bed . thanks for listening. You can know I will be safe.
Okay I will be praying for you and I hope the best outcome for you possible. Please know there are domestic hotlines you can call if need be. I hope you enjoy your night.
Okay I will be praying for you and I hope the best outcome for you possible. Please know there are domestic hotlines you can call if need be. I hope you enjoy your night.
Information
Information
3,712
neutral
0.001701
0.000058
0.000157
0.001206
0.995714
0.000285
0.00088
316
12
anger
ongoing_depression
I am angry because I think my husband is controlling but he says I dont understand what controlling is
4
3
5
5
Good evening I am very angry and not sure if I should feel that way my husband tells me what to do where to go and when to go but he says hold on please got go for a min he said if he were controlling i would be givign him attention read between the lines than he will say don't touch this like a cheesecake and than tel...
you too keep safe
Thank you!
Thank you!
Others
Others
3,713
neutral
0.001215
0.00003
0.000073
0.000335
0.997098
0.000283
0.000966
317
1
anger
job_crisis
A co-worker continues to usurp my authority and interfere with my duties / responsibilities.
3
2
4
4
Hi. I'm OK. How are you?
I'm OK as well.
I'm OK as well.
Others
Others
3,715
happy
0.002448
0.000038
0.000052
0.991243
0.005849
0.000052
0.000319
317
2
anger
job_crisis
A co-worker continues to usurp my authority and interfere with my duties / responsibilities.
3
2
4
4
Hi. I'm OK. How are you?
so I have a person at my work that likes/wants to do my job. they often do something that I was responsible for or I needed to do.
How do you feel when that happens?
How do you feel when that happens?
Question
Question
3,716
angry
0.880178
0.090518
0.000301
0.000116
0.005024
0.023504
0.00036
317
3
anger
job_crisis
A co-worker continues to usurp my authority and interfere with my duties / responsibilities.
3
2
4
4
Hi. I'm OK. How are you? so I have a person at my work that likes/wants to do my job. they often do something that I was responsible for or I needed to do.
I upsets me a lot
That can be really frustrating.
That can be really frustrating. What do you do when it happens?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Question
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,717
sad
0.002367
0.000459
0.00007
0.000041
0.001172
0.9957
0.000192
317
4
anger
job_crisis
A co-worker continues to usurp my authority and interfere with my duties / responsibilities.
3
2
4
4
Hi. I'm OK. How are you? so I have a person at my work that likes/wants to do my job. they often do something that I was responsible for or I needed to do. I upsets me a lot
I have gone to my supervisor and explained it to him. At first he ignored it. But recently, he paid a little attention to it. I have had to speak with him 6 times in the last year about this. Are you there/
It's good that you're seeking help from your supervisor.
It's good that you're seeking help from your supervisor. Is your coworker open to suggestions and feedback?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,718
angry
0.693521
0.030123
0.005744
0.000639
0.089086
0.156432
0.024456
317
5
anger
job_crisis
A co-worker continues to usurp my authority and interfere with my duties / responsibilities.
3
2
4
4
Hi. I'm OK. How are you? so I have a person at my work that likes/wants to do my job. they often do something that I was responsible for or I needed to do. I upsets me a lot I have gone to my supervisor and explained it to him. At first he ignored it. But recently, he paid a little attention to it. I have had to speak ...
Yes. He actually was married to her. Now they are in the middle of divorce. So I think he is more receptive now. No. She has been asked repeatedly not to interfere and keeps doing it.
Perhaps you can seek help from other coworkers as well. They may be able to provide you with support with this situation.
Perhaps you can seek help from other coworkers as well. They may be able to provide you with support with this situation.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,719
neutral
0.054505
0.000698
0.000162
0.000487
0.929269
0.004554
0.010325
317
6
anger
job_crisis
A co-worker continues to usurp my authority and interfere with my duties / responsibilities.
3
2
4
4
Hi. I'm OK. How are you? so I have a person at my work that likes/wants to do my job. they often do something that I was responsible for or I needed to do. I upsets me a lot I have gone to my supervisor and explained it to him. At first he ignored it. But recently, he paid a little attention to it. I have had to speak ...
Yes. They all sympathize with me. But there is nothing they can really do, as everyone is in a position below the two of us.
I've been in a situation similar to this and I found that talking to some of my friends outside of work has helped me to express some of my frustration and gain perspective.
I've been in a situation similar to this and I found that talking to some of my friends outside of work has helped me to express some of my frustration and gain perspective.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
3,720
angry
0.640153
0.00734
0.001999
0.000351
0.22337
0.117634
0.009153
317
7
anger
job_crisis
A co-worker continues to usurp my authority and interfere with my duties / responsibilities.
3
2
4
4
Hi. I'm OK. How are you? so I have a person at my work that likes/wants to do my job. they often do something that I was responsible for or I needed to do. I upsets me a lot I have gone to my supervisor and explained it to him. At first he ignored it. But recently, he paid a little attention to it. I have had to speak ...
Yes. That's a good idea. I've told friends and they sympathize. They don't understand why my supervisor isn't more forceful. I have just kind of given up on it. If she wants to do it, that's fine. If anything goes wrong, I will blame it on her.
It seems like you have found a way to manage it during work. Why do you think that she is trying to do your work?
It seems like you have found a way to manage it during work. Why do you think that she is trying to do your work?
Question
Question
3,721
angry
0.844248
0.009395
0.000464
0.000266
0.109592
0.028734
0.007301
317
8
anger
job_crisis
A co-worker continues to usurp my authority and interfere with my duties / responsibilities.
3
2
4
4
Hi. I'm OK. How are you? so I have a person at my work that likes/wants to do my job. they often do something that I was responsible for or I needed to do. I upsets me a lot I have gone to my supervisor and explained it to him. At first he ignored it. But recently, he paid a little attention to it. I have had to speak ...
I think she want's my job. Oh well. It was nice talking to you.
It was nice talking to you too. I hope that it was a helpful conversation.
It was nice talking to you too. I hope that it was a helpful conversation.
Others
Others
3,722
happy
0.018081
0.000758
0.000247
0.610256
0.356918
0.002811
0.010929
319
1
depression
breakup_with_partner
Just got back from deployment. Found out the girl that I was interested in does not like me anymore. I am trying to move on, but don't know where to go from here.
2
1
4
5
Hi, just broke up with my partner and I don't really know where to go from here
So you are feeling lonely and bereft? I am sorry to hear that. Can you give me more information?
So you are feeling lonely and bereft? I am sorry to hear that. Can you give me more information?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
3,732
sad
0.002045
0.000334
0.002712
0.00026
0.003332
0.96721
0.024107
319
2
depression
breakup_with_partner
Just got back from deployment. Found out the girl that I was interested in does not like me anymore. I am trying to move on, but don't know where to go from here.
2
1
4
5
Hi, just broke up with my partner and I don't really know where to go from here
Basic story, got back to the United States from deployment.
Ah, so you were overseas and were conducting the relationship long distance?
Ah, so you were overseas and were conducting the relationship long distance?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
3,733
neutral
0.000987
0.000251
0.000466
0.330022
0.652434
0.002215
0.013625
319
3
depression
breakup_with_partner
Just got back from deployment. Found out the girl that I was interested in does not like me anymore. I am trying to move on, but don't know where to go from here.
2
1
4
5
Hi, just broke up with my partner and I don't really know where to go from here Basic story, got back to the United States from deployment.
She kept me going while I was gone, but since I returned, she's been so cold to me
Do you feel that is unfair of her to have done this whilst you were away serving your country?
Do you feel that is unfair of her to have done this whilst you were away serving your country?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
3,734
angry
0.997264
0.000817
0.000037
0.000027
0.000881
0.000925
0.00005
319
4
depression
breakup_with_partner
Just got back from deployment. Found out the girl that I was interested in does not like me anymore. I am trying to move on, but don't know where to go from here.
2
1
4
5
Hi, just broke up with my partner and I don't really know where to go from here Basic story, got back to the United States from deployment. She kept me going while I was gone, but since I returned, she's been so cold to me
Kind of, I know that life moves on while people are away I just don't get it though, I return and this is what I get
But she should have understood that you were doing your duty whilst also providing for the pair of you
But she should have understood that you were doing your duty whilst also providing for the pair of you Do you think it is possible that she has been unfaithful, or is it something else?
Others, Question
Others
3,735
surprised
0.003835
0.000399
0.000545
0.000799
0.006516
0.000994
0.986911
319
5
depression
breakup_with_partner
Just got back from deployment. Found out the girl that I was interested in does not like me anymore. I am trying to move on, but don't know where to go from here.
2
1
4
5
Hi, just broke up with my partner and I don't really know where to go from here Basic story, got back to the United States from deployment. She kept me going while I was gone, but since I returned, she's been so cold to me Kind of, I know that life moves on while people are away I just don't get it though, I return and...
Possibly, but we weren't official boyfriend/girlfriend
Ah I see. How committed did you feel to her?
Ah I see. How committed did you feel to her?
Question
Question
3,736
neutral
0.053491
0.00027
0.000173
0.000761
0.699757
0.004952
0.240596
319
6
depression
breakup_with_partner
Just got back from deployment. Found out the girl that I was interested in does not like me anymore. I am trying to move on, but don't know where to go from here.
2
1
4
5
Hi, just broke up with my partner and I don't really know where to go from here Basic story, got back to the United States from deployment. She kept me going while I was gone, but since I returned, she's been so cold to me Kind of, I know that life moves on while people are away I just don't get it though, I return and...
Maybe it was my indecision to ask her about our relationship Now that I think about it, it seemed more of 80% me, 20% her
I know, as a woman myself. that it is quite difficult when you are seeing someone but have no idea what their intentions are.
I know, as a woman myself. that it is quite difficult when you are seeing someone but have no idea what their intentions are.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
3,737
surprised
0.002036
0.002925
0.003589
0.000784
0.031507
0.165805
0.793355
319
7
depression
breakup_with_partner
Just got back from deployment. Found out the girl that I was interested in does not like me anymore. I am trying to move on, but don't know where to go from here.
2
1
4
5
Hi, just broke up with my partner and I don't really know where to go from here Basic story, got back to the United States from deployment. She kept me going while I was gone, but since I returned, she's been so cold to me Kind of, I know that life moves on while people are away I just don't get it though, I return and...
Sure, I guess sex and cuddling is nice, but what I really want is someone to shopping with and eventually build a future
Have you considered getting some sort of counselling, either just you or as a couple?
Have you considered getting some sort of counselling, either just you or as a couple?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,738
neutral
0.002015
0.000057
0.000057
0.001314
0.993615
0.000678
0.002265
319
8
depression
breakup_with_partner
Just got back from deployment. Found out the girl that I was interested in does not like me anymore. I am trying to move on, but don't know where to go from here.
2
1
4
5
Hi, just broke up with my partner and I don't really know where to go from here Basic story, got back to the United States from deployment. She kept me going while I was gone, but since I returned, she's been so cold to me Kind of, I know that life moves on while people are away I just don't get it though, I return and...
It has peaked my interest, but at the same time, I wonder how much of this is just me buried in the idea of a relationship, even though it's pretty one-sided now Should I seek counseling for a relationship that technically wasn't official?
I am hearing you say that you still have feelings for her but you are not sure whether to totally break away or not, given that she has
I am hearing you say that you still have feelings for her but you are not sure whether to totally break away or not, given that she has
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,739
surprised
0.000268
0.000237
0.001784
0.001397
0.002331
0.00093
0.993053
319
9
depression
breakup_with_partner
Just got back from deployment. Found out the girl that I was interested in does not like me anymore. I am trying to move on, but don't know where to go from here.
2
1
4
5
Hi, just broke up with my partner and I don't really know where to go from here Basic story, got back to the United States from deployment. She kept me going while I was gone, but since I returned, she's been so cold to me Kind of, I know that life moves on while people are away I just don't get it though, I return and...
Yes. I hate how I love her, but I'm not getting the same energy back
I can't tell you what to do but I think it might be best to go with your gut instinct.
I can't tell you what to do but I think it might be best to go with your gut instinct.
Others
Others
3,740
angry
0.985442
0.002985
0.000075
0.00028
0.00511
0.005599
0.000509
319
10
depression
breakup_with_partner
Just got back from deployment. Found out the girl that I was interested in does not like me anymore. I am trying to move on, but don't know where to go from here.
2
1
4
5
Hi, just broke up with my partner and I don't really know where to go from here Basic story, got back to the United States from deployment. She kept me going while I was gone, but since I returned, she's been so cold to me Kind of, I know that life moves on while people are away I just don't get it though, I return and...
It will hurt, but it's definitely better just to move on, right? My gut tells me that I'm not going to take 2nd place in her heart
It has to be your decision but I think you will know if you've made the right one.
It has to be your decision but I think you will know if you've made the right one.
Others
Others
3,741
neutral
0.016245
0.000255
0.00056
0.00024
0.899756
0.070639
0.012305
319
11
depression
breakup_with_partner
Just got back from deployment. Found out the girl that I was interested in does not like me anymore. I am trying to move on, but don't know where to go from here.
2
1
4
5
Hi, just broke up with my partner and I don't really know where to go from here Basic story, got back to the United States from deployment. She kept me going while I was gone, but since I returned, she's been so cold to me Kind of, I know that life moves on while people are away I just don't get it though, I return and...
I really appreciate it.
I hope that I have been able to give you some good advice and that you feel a little clearer about things now.
I hope that I have been able to give you some good advice and that you feel a little clearer about things now.
Others
Others
3,742
happy
0.000166
0.000019
0.000006
0.999389
0.000147
0.000027
0.000246
319
12
depression
breakup_with_partner
Just got back from deployment. Found out the girl that I was interested in does not like me anymore. I am trying to move on, but don't know where to go from here.
2
1
4
5
Hi, just broke up with my partner and I don't really know where to go from here Basic story, got back to the United States from deployment. She kept me going while I was gone, but since I returned, she's been so cold to me Kind of, I know that life moves on while people are away I just don't get it though, I return and...
Yes, this has helped tremendously
Thank you for that .. I am glad to have been on assistance. I wish you all the very best in your future, wherever it takes you.
Thank you for that .. I am glad to have been on assistance. I wish you all the very best in your future, wherever it takes you.
Others
Others
3,743
happy
0.00079
0.000073
0.000154
0.967516
0.015295
0.000807
0.015365
319
13
depression
breakup_with_partner
Just got back from deployment. Found out the girl that I was interested in does not like me anymore. I am trying to move on, but don't know where to go from here.
2
1
4
5
Hi, just broke up with my partner and I don't really know where to go from here Basic story, got back to the United States from deployment. She kept me going while I was gone, but since I returned, she's been so cold to me Kind of, I know that life moves on while people are away I just don't get it though, I return and...
I appreciate all of your feedback too. It has helped put my mind to rest.
Thank you and best wishes!
Thank you and best wishes!
Others
Others
3,744
happy
0.00019
0.000042
0.000039
0.995971
0.002756
0.00056
0.000441
319
14
depression
breakup_with_partner
Just got back from deployment. Found out the girl that I was interested in does not like me anymore. I am trying to move on, but don't know where to go from here.
2
1
4
5
Hi, just broke up with my partner and I don't really know where to go from here Basic story, got back to the United States from deployment. She kept me going while I was gone, but since I returned, she's been so cold to me Kind of, I know that life moves on while people are away I just don't get it though, I return and...
You too! Take care!
I have to stay here but feel free to show yourself out :)
I have to stay here but feel free to show yourself out :)
Others
Others
3,745
happy
0.001405
0.000028
0.000015
0.997755
0.000656
0.000026
0.000114
320
1
anxiety
job_crisis
My bop mentor was just diagnosed with cancer
4
3
4
4
Hello my boss and mentor was just diagnosed with cancer
Hello there, I am really sorry to hear that. Can you give me any more details?
Hello there, I am really sorry to hear that. Can you give me any more details?
Question
Question
3,746
happy
0.000527
0.000424
0.008174
0.911641
0.019468
0.023012
0.036755
320
2
anxiety
job_crisis
My bop mentor was just diagnosed with cancer
4
3
4
4
Hello my boss and mentor was just diagnosed with cancer
It showed up in her eyes. Right now they arent sure what stage until she gets more details.
You must be feeling very distressed about it right now. I am happy to talk about it.
You must be feeling very distressed about it right now. I am happy to talk about it.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
3,747
surprised
0.001794
0.000786
0.000823
0.000501
0.099414
0.00103
0.895653
320
3
anxiety
job_crisis
My bop mentor was just diagnosed with cancer
4
3
4
4
Hello my boss and mentor was just diagnosed with cancer It showed up in her eyes. Right now they arent sure what stage until she gets more details.
Yes. She is trying to be strong and only told about 4 people. I am trying to be strong for her but it is hard not seeing someone in person right now.
I know that this is a very difficult time for everyone, given the current situation with Coronavirus. It can't make things any easier for her.
I know that this is a very difficult time for everyone, given the current situation with Coronavirus. It can't make things any easier for her.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,748
neutral
0.005796
0.000123
0.00135
0.000744
0.962123
0.027852
0.002013
320
4
anxiety
job_crisis
My bop mentor was just diagnosed with cancer
4
3
4
4
Hello my boss and mentor was just diagnosed with cancer It showed up in her eyes. Right now they arent sure what stage until she gets more details. Yes. She is trying to be strong and only told about 4 people. I am trying to be strong for her but it is hard not seeing someone in person right now.
No. Its hard to have a good support system and Im worried about her.
Does she have anyone else around her who is supporting her?
Does she have anyone else around her who is supporting her?
Question
Question
3,749
fear
0.019215
0.001363
0.705813
0.000234
0.171719
0.098146
0.00351
320
5
anxiety
job_crisis
My bop mentor was just diagnosed with cancer
4
3
4
4
Hello my boss and mentor was just diagnosed with cancer It showed up in her eyes. Right now they arent sure what stage until she gets more details. Yes. She is trying to be strong and only told about 4 people. I am trying to be strong for her but it is hard not seeing someone in person right now. No. Its hard to have a...
She has her husband but limited friends in there area. I want to make sure I am being there and providing correct support.
Do you feel that you are not offering as much support as you might?
Do you feel that you are not offering as much support as you might?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
3,750
neutral
0.003277
0.000083
0.000087
0.000088
0.995278
0.000519
0.000668
320
6
anxiety
job_crisis
My bop mentor was just diagnosed with cancer
4
3
4
4
Hello my boss and mentor was just diagnosed with cancer It showed up in her eyes. Right now they arent sure what stage until she gets more details. Yes. She is trying to be strong and only told about 4 people. I am trying to be strong for her but it is hard not seeing someone in person right now. No. Its hard to have a...
Correct. She lives in another state. Im not sure how to properly support her.
I know how you feel. It can be very difficult to know what to say if someone is seriously ill. Sometimes it's better just to offer quiet support and tell people that you are there to listen if they need you.
I know how you feel. It can be very difficult to know what to say if someone is seriously ill. Sometimes it's better just to offer quiet support and tell people that you are there to listen if they need you.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
3,751
surprised
0.036336
0.001221
0.000318
0.000362
0.244567
0.003411
0.713785
320
7
anxiety
job_crisis
My bop mentor was just diagnosed with cancer
4
3
4
4
Hello my boss and mentor was just diagnosed with cancer It showed up in her eyes. Right now they arent sure what stage until she gets more details. Yes. She is trying to be strong and only told about 4 people. I am trying to be strong for her but it is hard not seeing someone in person right now. No. Its hard to have a...
That is good advice. Have you been through something like that?
Yes I have. My sister in law was diagnosed with cervical cancer and I wanted to be supportive but I had no real idea what to say.
Yes I have. My sister in law was diagnosed with cervical cancer and I wanted to be supportive but I had no real idea what to say.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
3,752
angry
0.696943
0.001377
0.000341
0.000518
0.133161
0.010603
0.157057
320
8
anxiety
job_crisis
My bop mentor was just diagnosed with cancer
4
3
4
4
Hello my boss and mentor was just diagnosed with cancer It showed up in her eyes. Right now they arent sure what stage until she gets more details. Yes. She is trying to be strong and only told about 4 people. I am trying to be strong for her but it is hard not seeing someone in person right now. No. Its hard to have a...
How did you manage to support her. How did you make sure your mental health was also okay?
I actually talked to a counsellor about it. I think that you should do that, it might help you a lot.
I actually talked to a counsellor about it. I think that you should do that, it might help you a lot.
Information
Information
3,753
neutral
0.002876
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My bop mentor was just diagnosed with cancer
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Hello my boss and mentor was just diagnosed with cancer It showed up in her eyes. Right now they arent sure what stage until she gets more details. Yes. She is trying to be strong and only told about 4 people. I am trying to be strong for her but it is hard not seeing someone in person right now. No. Its hard to have a...
I think that is good advice. Maybe even a cancer support group? I want to make sure Im encouraging her.
Counselling can be expensive but there are some charities out there that offer a few sessions for free
Counselling can be expensive but there are some charities out there that offer a few sessions for free Yes that is an excellent idea and you could both join the same group
Information, Others
Information
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My bop mentor was just diagnosed with cancer
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Hello my boss and mentor was just diagnosed with cancer It showed up in her eyes. Right now they arent sure what stage until she gets more details. Yes. She is trying to be strong and only told about 4 people. I am trying to be strong for her but it is hard not seeing someone in person right now. No. Its hard to have a...
That is a good idea. I know with covid it is important to be mindful of cost.
How do you feel in yourself at the moment? Are you worried about your own health?
How do you feel in yourself at the moment? Are you worried about your own health?
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Question
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anxiety
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My bop mentor was just diagnosed with cancer
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Hello my boss and mentor was just diagnosed with cancer It showed up in her eyes. Right now they arent sure what stage until she gets more details. Yes. She is trying to be strong and only told about 4 people. I am trying to be strong for her but it is hard not seeing someone in person right now. No. Its hard to have a...
Im not worried about my health. More worried and sad about her. Especially not knowing how severe it is yet. It seems like any extra stress this year is harder to handle.
You are certainly not the only one who is feeling this - it has been a terrible year. Cancer is bad at any time but this year it is especially awful.
You are certainly not the only one who is feeling this - it has been a terrible year. Cancer is bad at any time but this year it is especially awful.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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anxiety
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My bop mentor was just diagnosed with cancer
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Hello my boss and mentor was just diagnosed with cancer It showed up in her eyes. Right now they arent sure what stage until she gets more details. Yes. She is trying to be strong and only told about 4 people. I am trying to be strong for her but it is hard not seeing someone in person right now. No. Its hard to have a...
I agree. It feels like everything is just a bit harder to get through
I am hoping that in the New Year things will be better .. maybe in January the world will look like a more positive place.
I am hoping that in the New Year things will be better .. maybe in January the world will look like a more positive place.
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Others
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anxiety
job_crisis
My bop mentor was just diagnosed with cancer
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3
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Hello my boss and mentor was just diagnosed with cancer It showed up in her eyes. Right now they arent sure what stage until she gets more details. Yes. She is trying to be strong and only told about 4 people. I am trying to be strong for her but it is hard not seeing someone in person right now. No. Its hard to have a...
Im trying to be hopeful to That said I think it will take another year or two to get there
I hope that things go well with you and your mentor.
I hope that things go well with you and your mentor.
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Others
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anxiety
job_crisis
My bop mentor was just diagnosed with cancer
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Hello my boss and mentor was just diagnosed with cancer It showed up in her eyes. Right now they arent sure what stage until she gets more details. Yes. She is trying to be strong and only told about 4 people. I am trying to be strong for her but it is hard not seeing someone in person right now. No. Its hard to have a...
Thank you. This conversation has helped and you were able to offer good suggestions I think I will try to apply this going forward. And find a group to join.
I am glad that I was able to help. I wish you all of the very best in the coming year.
I am glad that I was able to help. I wish you all of the very best in the coming year. A group is an excellent idea! There are lots of online support groups you might find helpful.
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anxiety
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My bop mentor was just diagnosed with cancer
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3
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Hello my boss and mentor was just diagnosed with cancer It showed up in her eyes. Right now they arent sure what stage until she gets more details. Yes. She is trying to be strong and only told about 4 people. I am trying to be strong for her but it is hard not seeing someone in person right now. No. Its hard to have a...
Thank you. I wish you the best to during the next year. Maybe a hard year is what we needed to appreciate the easier years.
This could be true but I want to have an easier year next year!!
This could be true but I want to have an easier year next year!!
Others
Others
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anxiety
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My bop mentor was just diagnosed with cancer
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3
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Hello my boss and mentor was just diagnosed with cancer It showed up in her eyes. Right now they arent sure what stage until she gets more details. Yes. She is trying to be strong and only told about 4 people. I am trying to be strong for her but it is hard not seeing someone in person right now. No. Its hard to have a...
Agrees. Thank you again.
No problem. I should probably leave now :)
No problem. I should probably leave now :)
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Others
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