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anger
job_crisis
I found out that my boss has not been paying me accurately. I am so upset because I don't know what to do. I feel like I should quit.
5
2
4
5
Hi there. I am not doing very well today. I am really angry. I recently discovered some discrepancies in my paycheck. I am not sure what to do to correct the situation. I am just so upset right now. I'm not sure. I thought about quitting but I have been working there for over 7 years. I haven't even told my boss yet. I...
I think he will be apologetic. He has always treated me fairly. It is difficult for me to put my anger aside sometimes, which is why I have not said anything yet. I am afraid I will not remain calm and might say something mean to him. That would be terrible.
It sounds like you are nervous about saying something mean. What do you think would be helpful for you to do do in order to prepare? Some people in your situation might find it helpful to role-play with someone.
It sounds like you are nervous about saying something mean. What do you think would be helpful for you to do do in order to prepare? Some people in your situation might find it helpful to role-play with someone.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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8
anger
job_crisis
I found out that my boss has not been paying me accurately. I am so upset because I don't know what to do. I feel like I should quit.
5
2
4
5
Hi there. I am not doing very well today. I am really angry. I recently discovered some discrepancies in my paycheck. I am not sure what to do to correct the situation. I am just so upset right now. I'm not sure. I thought about quitting but I have been working there for over 7 years. I haven't even told my boss yet. I...
Yes! That is a wonderful suggestion! Maybe I can ask my sister to pretend to be my boss when I talk with her. I m OOPS! I mean to say I'm sure she would be happy to help.
That sounds like a great idea! Then when you actually talk with your boss, it will be easier since you already talked about it with your sister.
That sounds like a great idea! Then when you actually talk with your boss, it will be easier since you already talked about it with your sister.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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happy
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345
9
anger
job_crisis
I found out that my boss has not been paying me accurately. I am so upset because I don't know what to do. I feel like I should quit.
5
2
4
5
Hi there. I am not doing very well today. I am really angry. I recently discovered some discrepancies in my paycheck. I am not sure what to do to correct the situation. I am just so upset right now. I'm not sure. I thought about quitting but I have been working there for over 7 years. I haven't even told my boss yet. I...
Yes you are right. I am so glad you suggested that! I think the pros and cons list will help me a lot also. I feel less angry now that I have a plan. :)
It sounds like you have a great plan in place! I'm glad to hear you are feeling less angry now! :)
It sounds like you have a great plan in place! I'm glad to hear you are feeling less angry now! :)
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
4,059
angry
0.997987
0.000042
0.000045
0.001461
0.000138
0.000247
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345
10
anger
job_crisis
I found out that my boss has not been paying me accurately. I am so upset because I don't know what to do. I feel like I should quit.
5
2
4
5
Hi there. I am not doing very well today. I am really angry. I recently discovered some discrepancies in my paycheck. I am not sure what to do to correct the situation. I am just so upset right now. I'm not sure. I thought about quitting but I have been working there for over 7 years. I haven't even told my boss yet. I...
I was so angry, I could not see the situation any differently. Thank you so much for helping me make a plan.
I can understand how you feel. Sometimes I let my anger get the best of me, but it is always important to remember to stay calm and think about your options and have a plan!
I can understand how you feel. Sometimes I let my anger get the best of me, but it is always important to remember to stay calm and think about your options and have a plan! I hope things go well for you!
Self-disclosure, Others
Self-disclosure
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0.000183
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345
11
anger
job_crisis
I found out that my boss has not been paying me accurately. I am so upset because I don't know what to do. I feel like I should quit.
5
2
4
5
Hi there. I am not doing very well today. I am really angry. I recently discovered some discrepancies in my paycheck. I am not sure what to do to correct the situation. I am just so upset right now. I'm not sure. I thought about quitting but I have been working there for over 7 years. I haven't even told my boss yet. I...
And don't forget about asking for help! Sometimes that is the hardest part. Thanks! I hope so too!
Absolutely! Always asking for help when you need it is a great idea.
Absolutely! Always asking for help when you need it is a great idea.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
4,061
happy
0.002598
0.000076
0.000172
0.778796
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348
1
sadness
ongoing_depression
Just can't shake my sadness
4
3
4
4
Hi
Helo, how are you?
Helo, how are you?
Others
Others
4,084
neutral
0.003783
0.000183
0.000154
0.031973
0.960893
0.000259
0.002756
348
2
sadness
ongoing_depression
Just can't shake my sadness
4
3
4
4
Hi
Can't seem to shake this overall sadness I feel.
Are you feeling sort of depressed? I am sorry
Are you feeling sort of depressed? I am sorry
Question
Question
4,085
sad
0.00023
0.000122
0.000046
0.000063
0.000362
0.999098
0.00008
348
3
sadness
ongoing_depression
Just can't shake my sadness
4
3
4
4
Hi Can't seem to shake this overall sadness I feel.
Yes I am
Would you feel happy if you think about after Covid, maybe next year?
Would you feel happy if you think about after Covid, maybe next year?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
4,086
neutral
0.018922
0.000082
0.00012
0.000762
0.969496
0.0013
0.009318
348
4
sadness
ongoing_depression
Just can't shake my sadness
4
3
4
4
Hi Can't seem to shake this overall sadness I feel. Yes I am
I am hoping I will. I just have such a hopeless feeling.
have you been sleeping enough?
have you been sleeping enough?
Question
Question
4,087
sad
0.000283
0.000139
0.000361
0.000035
0.000822
0.998298
0.000062
348
5
sadness
ongoing_depression
Just can't shake my sadness
4
3
4
4
Hi Can't seem to shake this overall sadness I feel. Yes I am I am hoping I will. I just have such a hopeless feeling.
Yes, probably too much.
Do you like morning or night?
Do you like morning or night?
Question
Question
4,088
neutral
0.114363
0.001033
0.001685
0.000387
0.706479
0.082052
0.094
348
6
sadness
ongoing_depression
Just can't shake my sadness
4
3
4
4
Hi Can't seem to shake this overall sadness I feel. Yes I am I am hoping I will. I just have such a hopeless feeling. Yes, probably too much.
Probably morning.
Me too. I like morning too. Air feels fresh, although it is little contaminated here. At night time, I feel a little bit anxiety more.
Me too. I like morning too. Air feels fresh, although it is little contaminated here. At night time, I feel a little bit anxiety more. So I sleep really early. Sleeping feels good anyway? Do you feel ok while you're sleeping?
Self-disclosure, Question
Self-disclosure
4,089
neutral
0.00125
0.000046
0.000072
0.000762
0.995024
0.000335
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348
7
sadness
ongoing_depression
Just can't shake my sadness
4
3
4
4
Hi Can't seem to shake this overall sadness I feel. Yes I am I am hoping I will. I just have such a hopeless feeling. Yes, probably too much. Probably morning.
Yes. I just feel sad during the day and can't make it go away.
I suggest listening to sad yet beautiful music. It sometimes helps me. Do you like classical music?
I suggest listening to sad yet beautiful music. It sometimes helps me. Do you like classical music?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
4,090
sad
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0.000117
0.000042
0.000131
0.000424
0.998969
0.000074
348
8
sadness
ongoing_depression
Just can't shake my sadness
4
3
4
4
Hi Can't seem to shake this overall sadness I feel. Yes I am I am hoping I will. I just have such a hopeless feeling. Yes, probably too much. Probably morning. Yes. I just feel sad during the day and can't make it go away.
I haven't really tried it.
When you are sad, listening to upbeat music may disturb you. Listening to instrumental music maybe good for you.
When you are sad, listening to upbeat music may disturb you. Listening to instrumental music maybe good for you.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
4,091
neutral
0.027018
0.000223
0.00019
0.000317
0.942245
0.00498
0.025027
348
9
sadness
ongoing_depression
Just can't shake my sadness
4
3
4
4
Hi Can't seem to shake this overall sadness I feel. Yes I am I am hoping I will. I just have such a hopeless feeling. Yes, probably too much. Probably morning. Yes. I just feel sad during the day and can't make it go away. I haven't really tried it.
Ok, I will give that a try.
I just checked YouTube and searched for some music. Good, I hope it will soothe your mind.
I just checked YouTube and searched for some music. Good, I hope it will soothe your mind.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
4,092
neutral
0.004698
0.000067
0.000164
0.001218
0.988225
0.000315
0.005313
349
1
sadness
breakup_with_partner
We were engaged, and now all of a sudden we are not.
4
2
5
5
Hello. Better than usual. What about you?
I am good thank you. Is there anything you want to talk to me about?
I am good thank you. Is there anything you want to talk to me about?
Question
Question
4,094
happy
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0.000015
0.997952
0.001176
0.000025
0.00012
349
2
sadness
breakup_with_partner
We were engaged, and now all of a sudden we are not.
4
2
5
5
Hello. Better than usual. What about you?
Yes. Recently, I broke up with my fiance. And no matter how much I tell myself that life continues, I still feel like there is a void inside of me ever since it happened.
So your relationship ended and you feel that you are struggling to get over it, is that correct?
So your relationship ended and you feel that you are struggling to get over it, is that correct?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
4,095
sad
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0.000123
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349
3
sadness
breakup_with_partner
We were engaged, and now all of a sudden we are not.
4
2
5
5
Hello. Better than usual. What about you? Yes. Recently, I broke up with my fiance. And no matter how much I tell myself that life continues, I still feel like there is a void inside of me ever since it happened.
Yes, that's exactly right.
I am very sorry. I have been through something like this myself in the past so I do understand.
I am very sorry. I have been through something like this myself in the past so I do understand.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
4,096
neutral
0.015804
0.000087
0.000147
0.001699
0.930285
0.000779
0.051198
349
4
sadness
breakup_with_partner
We were engaged, and now all of a sudden we are not.
4
2
5
5
Hello. Better than usual. What about you? Yes. Recently, I broke up with my fiance. And no matter how much I tell myself that life continues, I still feel like there is a void inside of me ever since it happened. Yes, that's exactly right.
How long did it take you to get over it?
I think it was at least a year before I felt truly myself again and that I was able to enjoy life
I think it was at least a year before I felt truly myself again and that I was able to enjoy life
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
4,097
neutral
0.005465
0.000072
0.000189
0.000185
0.964219
0.002166
0.027704
349
5
sadness
breakup_with_partner
We were engaged, and now all of a sudden we are not.
4
2
5
5
Hello. Better than usual. What about you? Yes. Recently, I broke up with my fiance. And no matter how much I tell myself that life continues, I still feel like there is a void inside of me ever since it happened. Yes, that's exactly right. How long did it take you to get over it?
That gives me some perspective.
I can tell that it's all very raw to you at the moment. You really need to step away and give yourself some time to heal
I can tell that it's all very raw to you at the moment. You really need to step away and give yourself some time to heal
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
4,098
neutral
0.001487
0.000075
0.000153
0.001224
0.983938
0.000372
0.012753
349
6
sadness
breakup_with_partner
We were engaged, and now all of a sudden we are not.
4
2
5
5
Hello. Better than usual. What about you? Yes. Recently, I broke up with my fiance. And no matter how much I tell myself that life continues, I still feel like there is a void inside of me ever since it happened. Yes, that's exactly right. How long did it take you to get over it? That gives me some perspective.
I am not sure if I can leave my obligations behind.
What sort of obligations do you feel that you have? You need to be kind to yourself at the moment
What sort of obligations do you feel that you have? You need to be kind to yourself at the moment
Question
Question
4,099
surprised
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0.008616
0.000357
0.003335
0.00781
0.978629
349
7
sadness
breakup_with_partner
We were engaged, and now all of a sudden we are not.
4
2
5
5
Hello. Better than usual. What about you? Yes. Recently, I broke up with my fiance. And no matter how much I tell myself that life continues, I still feel like there is a void inside of me ever since it happened. Yes, that's exactly right. How long did it take you to get over it? That gives me some perspective. I am no...
I have a job, and my siblings are not doing too well, so I have to make sure their stuff is taken care of, or else my parents will end up babying them, and my parents are not in their peak health. This is not something I can afford to step away from.
It is good of you to be so caring and responsible towards your family. Do you think that perhaps you are taking too much on yourself though, especially at such a difficult time?
It is good of you to be so caring and responsible towards your family. Do you think that perhaps you are taking too much on yourself though, especially at such a difficult time?
Question
Question
4,100
neutral
0.143703
0.002924
0.005529
0.000208
0.579035
0.26405
0.00455
349
8
sadness
breakup_with_partner
We were engaged, and now all of a sudden we are not.
4
2
5
5
Hello. Better than usual. What about you? Yes. Recently, I broke up with my fiance. And no matter how much I tell myself that life continues, I still feel like there is a void inside of me ever since it happened. Yes, that's exactly right. How long did it take you to get over it? That gives me some perspective. I am no...
It might be so, but the sad truth is that when people don't fulfill their functions, someone else is going to have to do it for them. Maybe tho, I could fix my schedule to where it allows me to have firmer boundaries.
I think that that is an excellent idea and that you are being very mature about this.
I think that that is an excellent idea and that you are being very mature about this. Are you in contact with your ex at all?
Others, Question
Others
4,101
sad
0.000689
0.000169
0.000134
0.000107
0.009883
0.988725
0.000293
349
9
sadness
breakup_with_partner
We were engaged, and now all of a sudden we are not.
4
2
5
5
Hello. Better than usual. What about you? Yes. Recently, I broke up with my fiance. And no matter how much I tell myself that life continues, I still feel like there is a void inside of me ever since it happened. Yes, that's exactly right. How long did it take you to get over it? That gives me some perspective. I am no...
No, I made a commitment not to contact him.
That seems sensible. I had a problem with not contacting my ex when we split. I kept wanting to talk to him again even though I knew that I should not
That seems sensible. I had a problem with not contacting my ex when we split. I kept wanting to talk to him again even though I knew that I should not
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
4,102
angry
0.877852
0.005293
0.001004
0.000143
0.073856
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0.007247
349
10
sadness
breakup_with_partner
We were engaged, and now all of a sudden we are not.
4
2
5
5
Hello. Better than usual. What about you? Yes. Recently, I broke up with my fiance. And no matter how much I tell myself that life continues, I still feel like there is a void inside of me ever since it happened. Yes, that's exactly right. How long did it take you to get over it? That gives me some perspective. I am no...
What made you stop?
A restraining order :D
A restraining order :D
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
4,103
neutral
0.279371
0.000276
0.002803
0.000504
0.651319
0.005063
0.060665
349
11
sadness
breakup_with_partner
We were engaged, and now all of a sudden we are not.
4
2
5
5
Hello. Better than usual. What about you? Yes. Recently, I broke up with my fiance. And no matter how much I tell myself that life continues, I still feel like there is a void inside of me ever since it happened. Yes, that's exactly right. How long did it take you to get over it? That gives me some perspective. I am no...
This actually made me laugh :D Thank you for elevating my mood
In all seriousness though, with hindsight I realise that our separation was for the best. I think and hope that you will realise this in time too
In all seriousness though, with hindsight I realise that our separation was for the best. I think and hope that you will realise this in time too
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
4,104
happy
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0.000018
0.000006
0.999716
0.000073
0.000024
0.000043
349
12
sadness
breakup_with_partner
We were engaged, and now all of a sudden we are not.
4
2
5
5
Hello. Better than usual. What about you? Yes. Recently, I broke up with my fiance. And no matter how much I tell myself that life continues, I still feel like there is a void inside of me ever since it happened. Yes, that's exactly right. How long did it take you to get over it? That gives me some perspective. I am no...
Thank you. Your analysis is extremely helpful.
You are most welcome. I really hope that things start to go well with you soon.
You are most welcome. I really hope that things start to go well with you soon. Might I suggest taking up a new hobby and making some new friends?
Others, Providing Suggestions
Others
4,105
happy
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0.001553
0.002533
0.65677
0.076412
0.002657
0.207467
350
1
sadness
alcohol_abuse
I drank too much and was late for work again and got fired.
4
2
5
5
I have drank too much alcohol and got fired from my job for showing up drunk.
Oh dear that does not sound good. Do you have a problem with alcohol in general or was this a one off?
Oh dear that does not sound good. Do you have a problem with alcohol in general or was this a one off?
Question
Question
4,107
sad
0.036904
0.002407
0.000569
0.000065
0.000458
0.959501
0.000097
350
2
sadness
alcohol_abuse
I drank too much and was late for work again and got fired.
4
2
5
5
I have drank too much alcohol and got fired from my job for showing up drunk.
In general I do. ever since my wife left me for the milk man I drink daily.
Does he give you a discount then?
Does he give you a discount then?
Question
Question
4,108
neutral
0.012349
0.000439
0.000127
0.000254
0.968667
0.011443
0.006721
350
3
sadness
alcohol_abuse
I drank too much and was late for work again and got fired.
4
2
5
5
I have drank too much alcohol and got fired from my job for showing up drunk. In general I do. ever since my wife left me for the milk man I drink daily.
I can't drink milk so Now i drink alcohol No, The milkman is my father and we don't get along.
Have you considered getting some sort of help? There is lots out there.
Have you considered getting some sort of help? There is lots out there. Your wife left you for your father? How very ... redneck.
Affirmation and Reassurance, Others
Affirmation and Reassurance
4,109
angry
0.994842
0.001528
0.000048
0.000076
0.002822
0.00056
0.000123
350
4
sadness
alcohol_abuse
I drank too much and was late for work again and got fired.
4
2
5
5
I have drank too much alcohol and got fired from my job for showing up drunk. In general I do. ever since my wife left me for the milk man I drink daily. I can't drink milk so Now i drink alcohol No, The milkman is my father and we don't get along.
I have not. I am unaware of what help services there are out there to offer or how to go about requesting these services?
Hmmm I would start with your GP, if you have one.
Hmmm I would start with your GP, if you have one.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
4,110
surprised
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0.00098
0.001764
0.000183
0.011252
0.014086
0.968909
350
5
sadness
alcohol_abuse
I drank too much and was late for work again and got fired.
4
2
5
5
I have drank too much alcohol and got fired from my job for showing up drunk. In general I do. ever since my wife left me for the milk man I drink daily. I can't drink milk so Now i drink alcohol No, The milkman is my father and we don't get along. I have not. I am unaware of what help services there are out there to o...
GP? what's a GP?
Doctor. Sorry I am in England - I think that would be physician for you
Doctor. Sorry I am in England - I think that would be physician for you
Information
Information
4,111
surprised
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0.000291
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0.027667
0.000428
0.869989
350
6
sadness
alcohol_abuse
I drank too much and was late for work again and got fired.
4
2
5
5
I have drank too much alcohol and got fired from my job for showing up drunk. In general I do. ever since my wife left me for the milk man I drink daily. I can't drink milk so Now i drink alcohol No, The milkman is my father and we don't get along. I have not. I am unaware of what help services there are out there to o...
Correct. A doctor for me is a physician
Well, perhaps you could see your G ... um, physician and tell them that you think you have a problem? They might be able to provide calcium supplements too.
Well, perhaps you could see your G ... um, physician and tell them that you think you have a problem? They might be able to provide calcium supplements too.
Information
Information
4,112
neutral
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0.000101
0.000434
0.00015
0.952232
0.001745
0.014226
350
7
sadness
alcohol_abuse
I drank too much and was late for work again and got fired.
4
2
5
5
I have drank too much alcohol and got fired from my job for showing up drunk. In general I do. ever since my wife left me for the milk man I drink daily. I can't drink milk so Now i drink alcohol No, The milkman is my father and we don't get along. I have not. I am unaware of what help services there are out there to o...
I am currently needing mental help with this I think? how do I go about finding a provider?
If you have been drinking a long time, you probably need physical help too in case of withdrawal. Your doctor is the best place to start for both.
If you have been drinking a long time, you probably need physical help too in case of withdrawal. Your doctor is the best place to start for both.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
4,113
surprised
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0.000595
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350
8
sadness
alcohol_abuse
I drank too much and was late for work again and got fired.
4
2
5
5
I have drank too much alcohol and got fired from my job for showing up drunk. In general I do. ever since my wife left me for the milk man I drink daily. I can't drink milk so Now i drink alcohol No, The milkman is my father and we don't get along. I have not. I am unaware of what help services there are out there to o...
Okay I will look into receiving both of those
What is your financial situation? Are you in trouble now you have no job?
What is your financial situation? Are you in trouble now you have no job?
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I drank too much and was late for work again and got fired.
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I have drank too much alcohol and got fired from my job for showing up drunk. In general I do. ever since my wife left me for the milk man I drink daily. I can't drink milk so Now i drink alcohol No, The milkman is my father and we don't get along. I have not. I am unaware of what help services there are out there to o...
I have no JOb and no health insurance to help me pay for all of this.
you should live in England. Socialised medicine is the best.
you should live in England. Socialised medicine is the best.
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I drank too much and was late for work again and got fired.
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I have drank too much alcohol and got fired from my job for showing up drunk. In general I do. ever since my wife left me for the milk man I drink daily. I can't drink milk so Now i drink alcohol No, The milkman is my father and we don't get along. I have not. I am unaware of what help services there are out there to o...
So I hear it is. WE have to pay an arm and a leg for ours.
I've heard :( It's terrifying to think of. Are there any free facilities there for people in your situation or do you just suffer?
I've heard :( It's terrifying to think of. Are there any free facilities there for people in your situation or do you just suffer?
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I drank too much and was late for work again and got fired.
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I have drank too much alcohol and got fired from my job for showing up drunk. In general I do. ever since my wife left me for the milk man I drink daily. I can't drink milk so Now i drink alcohol No, The milkman is my father and we don't get along. I have not. I am unaware of what help services there are out there to o...
They have programs like medicaid. but I'm not poor enough for that program
So you're stuck in limbo? That is really awful, I am sorry.
So you're stuck in limbo? That is really awful, I am sorry.
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I have drank too much alcohol and got fired from my job for showing up drunk. In general I do. ever since my wife left me for the milk man I drink daily. I can't drink milk so Now i drink alcohol No, The milkman is my father and we don't get along. I have not. I am unaware of what help services there are out there to o...
I am in a limbo. and I need healthcare without going into debt.
Are there any charities who could help? It is just terrible that people who need mental health care cannot get it!
Are there any charities who could help? It is just terrible that people who need mental health care cannot get it!
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Providing Suggestions
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I drank too much and was late for work again and got fired.
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I have drank too much alcohol and got fired from my job for showing up drunk. In general I do. ever since my wife left me for the milk man I drink daily. I can't drink milk so Now i drink alcohol No, The milkman is my father and we don't get along. I have not. I am unaware of what help services there are out there to o...
It happens frequently and no one really cares. I don't need charity. I just need 10 turns and 15 minutes.
I am not sure what that means :)
I am not sure what that means :)
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I drank too much and was late for work again and got fired.
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I have drank too much alcohol and got fired from my job for showing up drunk. In general I do. ever since my wife left me for the milk man I drink daily. I can't drink milk so Now i drink alcohol No, The milkman is my father and we don't get along. I have not. I am unaware of what help services there are out there to o...
Thamk you for all your help good sir.
madam ;) but you're welcome
madam ;) but you're welcome
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Self-disclosure
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I'm not doing well, I was angry with my friend who broke up our trust And you?
what is a frie your boyfriend and how did he break up your trust?
what is a frie your boyfriend and how did he break up your trust?
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Question
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I'm not doing well, I was angry with my friend who broke up our trust And you?
No, it's not my boyfriend, it's a friend
So tell me what happened.
So tell me what happened.
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I'm not doing well, I was angry with my friend who broke up our trust And you? No, it's not my boyfriend, it's a friend
I used to trust my friend but she told everyone what I told her, however I told her that it's not to tell anyone.
Unfortunately, i hate to sterotype but women do this quite often. it depends on the severity of the information you told her.
Unfortunately, i hate to sterotype but women do this quite often. it depends on the severity of the information you told her.
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I'm not doing well, I was angry with my friend who broke up our trust And you? No, it's not my boyfriend, it's a friend I used to trust my friend but she told everyone what I told her, however I told her that it's not to tell anyone.
Yes, I know. I have no idea if i'm going to forgave her. Probably no Do you think I should forgive her?
If it was something extremley important, say jail worthy, I would get rid of her immediately. If it was something dramatic but not extremely dangerous, I would sit down and haev a serious talk with her.
If it was something extremley important, say jail worthy, I would get rid of her immediately. If it was something dramatic but not extremely dangerous, I would sit down and haev a serious talk with her. It all depends on the situation, how long have you known her, what is your trust in her, how close are you?
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I'm not doing well, I was angry with my friend who broke up our trust And you? No, it's not my boyfriend, it's a friend I used to trust my friend but she told everyone what I told her, however I told her that it's not to tell anyone. Yes, I know. I have no idea if i'm going to forgave her. Probably no Do you think I sh...
It was my feelings. I know her for a long time. I can't trust her right now however I think I need time to think about it.
Ok let me think one second.
Ok let me think one second.
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I'm not doing well, I was angry with my friend who bre up our trust And you? No, it's not my boyfriend, it's a friend I used to trust my friend but she told everyone what I told her, however I told her that it's not to tell anyone. Yes, I know. I have no idea if i'm going to forgave her. Probably no Do you think I shou...
ok
Good friends are very hard to come by and find. i would suggest sitting down with her and explaining how serious this hurt you and that she cannot let this happen again.
Good friends are very hard to come by and find. i would suggest sitting down with her and explaining how serious this hurt you and that she cannot let this happen again.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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I'm not doing well, I was angry with my friend who broke up our trust And you? No, it's not my boyfriend, it's a friend I used to trust my friend but she told everyone what I told her, however I told her that it's not to tell anyone. Yes, I know. I have no idea if i'm going to forgave her. Probably no Do you think I sh...
Yes, it's true. But I'll wait one week and I'll talk to her
I would ultimately give an ultimate. You will forgive her this one time. If it happens again, anything even remotely similar, you part ways and say goodbye as you cannot trust her with important information. If you give her important information and she tells everyone that's not a true friend
I would ultimately give an ultimate. You will forgive her this one time. If it happens again, anything even remotely similar, you part ways and say goodbye as you cannot trust her with important information. If you give her important information and she tells everyone that's not a true friend I would advise to approach...
Affirmation and Reassurance, Others
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I'm not doing well, I was angry with my friend who broke up our trust And you? No, it's not my boyfriend, it's a friend I used to trust my friend but she told everyone what I told her, however I told her that it's not to tell anyone. Yes, I know. I have no idea if i'm going to forgave her. Probably no Do you think I sh...
Well, i'll do it
Unless you don't think it's a big deal..... ;) I know you can handle this well. I wish you the best of luck darling. I'm sure it will go much easier than expected but look her straight in the eyes and tell her what you want to say. do not move eye contact
Unless you don't think it's a big deal..... ;) I know you can handle this well. I wish you the best of luck darling. I'm sure it will go much easier than expected but look her straight in the eyes and tell her what you want to say. do not move eye contact
Affirmation and Reassurance
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I'm not doing well, I was angry with my friend who broke up our trust And you? No, it's not my boyfriend, it's a friend I used to trust my friend but she told everyone what I told her, however I told her that it's not to tell anyone. Yes, I know. I have no idea if i'm going to forgave her. Probably no Do you think I sh...
But I'm not going to talk to her right now I'll try it
it's at your leisure. The eyes are the window to the soul and if you make her promise to do it and keep eye contact. then that is a contract that cannot be broken
it's at your leisure. The eyes are the window to the soul and if you make her promise to do it and keep eye contact. then that is a contract that cannot be broken
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I'm not doing well, I was angry with my friend who broke up our trust And you? No, it's not my boyfriend, it's a friend I used to trust my friend but she told everyone what I told her, however I told her that it's not to tell anyone. Yes, I know. I have no idea if i'm going to forgave her. Probably no Do you think I sh...
Very true. It's how you trust them Thank you. bye
I am a very wealthy guy i just enjoy helping people. have a nice day.
I am a very wealthy guy i just enjoy helping people. have a nice day. EYE CONTACT!!!!!!
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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These mofos are trying to charge me an "administrative processing fee" for helping gather some supplies!! Taxin' my packages man!
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4
Hello WOrld Hi I am disgruntled...
Are you having a good day?
Are you having a good day? why what happened?
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These mofos are trying to charge me an "administrative processing fee" for helping gather some supplies!! Taxin' my packages man!
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Hello WOrld Hi I am disgruntled...
Well It was decent enough until just about an hour ago I got "taxed" on my packages Like tax deeezzzz Are these chats coming in a decent time?
yes. sorry to hear that. How can i help
yes. sorry to hear that. How can i help
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These mofos are trying to charge me an "administrative processing fee" for helping gather some supplies!! Taxin' my packages man!
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Hello WOrld Hi I am disgruntled... Well It was decent enough until just about an hour ago I got "taxed" on my packages Like tax deeezzzz Are these chats coming in a decent time?
I just needed to vent about it, I guess its slightly strange to have this issue... It is not like we all don't pay taxes and all that mess.. It is more or less that I got the middle man rate Pissed me right off
Tell me what happened. That sounds horrible
Tell me what happened. That sounds horrible
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These mofos are trying to charge me an "administrative processing fee" for helping gather some supplies!! Taxin' my packages man!
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1
5
4
Hello WOrld Hi I am disgruntled... Well It was decent enough until just about an hour ago I got "taxed" on my packages Like tax deeezzzz Are these chats coming in a decent time? I just needed to vent about it, I guess its slightly strange to have this issue... It is not like we all don't pay taxes and all that mess.. I...
Well, I ordered my normal uhm, 'package' from my homie... Well he just took off as normal and came back in a few hours. We agreed on n160 for the whole mess and HE JUST DECIDES that its now 185 cause he needed gas, and what ever.. Nah man, I already fill your tank and food and he can grab some fries from the bag when h...
wow. get him a gas card for christmas then he cant say anything next time
wow. get him a gas card for christmas then he cant say anything next time
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Providing Suggestions
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These mofos are trying to charge me an "administrative processing fee" for helping gather some supplies!! Taxin' my packages man!
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1
5
4
Hello WOrld Hi I am disgruntled... Well It was decent enough until just about an hour ago I got "taxed" on my packages Like tax deeezzzz Are these chats coming in a decent time? I just needed to vent about it, I guess its slightly strange to have this issue... It is not like we all don't pay taxes and all that mess.. I...
haha YES! see it is a stupid thing. like dood we hook your ass up all the tome time
People suck.
People suck.
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These mofos are trying to charge me an "administrative processing fee" for helping gather some supplies!! Taxin' my packages man!
4
1
5
4
Hello WOrld Hi I am disgruntled... Well It was decent enough until just about an hour ago I got "taxed" on my packages Like tax deeezzzz Are these chats coming in a decent time? I just needed to vent about it, I guess its slightly strange to have this issue... It is not like we all don't pay taxes and all that mess.. I...
Hell ya Well thanks for the time Ima bounce outta here
ok
ok wish you the best
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These mofos are trying to charge me an "administrative processing fee" for helping gather some supplies!! Taxin' my packages man!
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5
4
Hello WOrld Hi I am disgruntled... Well It was decent enough until just about an hour ago I got "taxed" on my packages Like tax deeezzzz Are these chats coming in a decent time? I just needed to vent about it, I guess its slightly strange to have this issue... It is not like we all don't pay taxes and all that mess.. I...
appreciate it Merry Christmas
Merry christmas
Merry christmas
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These mofos are trying to charge me an "administrative processing fee" for helping gather some supplies!! Taxin' my packages man!
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1
5
4
Hello WOrld Hi I am disgruntled... Well It was decent enough until just about an hour ago I got "taxed" on my packages Like tax deeezzzz Are these chats coming in a decent time? I just needed to vent about it, I guess its slightly strange to have this issue... It is not like we all don't pay taxes and all that mess.. I...
Oh hey, apparently we need 10 messages and 10 minutes to quit.
they read them 10 each
they read them 10 each
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These mofos are trying to charge me an "administrative processing fee" for helping gather some supplies!! Taxin' my packages man!
4
1
5
4
Hello WOrld Hi I am disgruntled... Well It was decent enough until just about an hour ago I got "taxed" on my packages Like tax deeezzzz Are these chats coming in a decent time? I just needed to vent about it, I guess its slightly strange to have this issue... It is not like we all don't pay taxes and all that mess.. I...
SO one more response from you, and I hope the researchers take this part as I HAVE a time schedule to adhere to, and MUST get back.
ok have a good one
ok have a good one
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Providing Suggestions
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I am separated from my wife and in the middle of a PhD program and am using alcohol to numb the pain.
4
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5
Hi, well to be honest I'm struggling a bit right now. I keep turning to beer when I'm feeling really down.
Ah I hear you - I think that there is a lot of that going around during this pandemic. Did you ever have a problem before?
Ah I hear you - I think that there is a lot of that going around during this pandemic. Did you ever have a problem before?
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I am separated from my wife and in the middle of a PhD program and am using alcohol to numb the pain.
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Hi, well to be honest I'm struggling a bit right now. I keep turning to beer when I'm feeling really down.
No, this all actually started about 3-6 months after the pandemic really hit and things shut down.
It has been horrendous hasn't it? Have you been able to at least speak to your doctor, even if you could not see them in person?
It has been horrendous hasn't it? Have you been able to at least speak to your doctor, even if you could not see them in person?
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I am separated from my wife and in the middle of a PhD program and am using alcohol to numb the pain.
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Hi, well to be honest I'm struggling a bit right now. I keep turning to beer when I'm feeling really down. No, this all actually started about 3-6 months after the pandemic really hit and things shut down.
Yes! So horrible! And yeah, I have a therapist I see once every two weeks. Although that only helps so much.
It might be time to get some more help? Do you think it is bad enough that you might need inpatient treatment?
It might be time to get some more help? Do you think it is bad enough that you might need inpatient treatment?
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I am separated from my wife and in the middle of a PhD program and am using alcohol to numb the pain.
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Hi, well to be honest I'm struggling a bit right now. I keep turning to beer when I'm feeling really down. No, this all actually started about 3-6 months after the pandemic really hit and things shut down. Yes! So horrible! And yeah, I have a therapist I see once every two weeks. Although that only helps so much.
No, I'm not quite that bad off. It's sort of a mix of too many rough things. My wife and I are separating right now, I'm in the middle of a PhD program and living far from home, and covid really made it more challenging. I think it's a bit more circumstantial.
It sounds like you have had a really hard time the last eighteen months. As the lockdown is easing, are there any new pastimes you could get involved in that might distract you?
It sounds like you have had a really hard time the last eighteen months. As the lockdown is easing, are there any new pastimes you could get involved in that might distract you?
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Providing Suggestions
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I am separated from my wife and in the middle of a PhD program and am using alcohol to numb the pain.
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Hi, well to be honest I'm struggling a bit right now. I keep turning to beer when I'm feeling really down. No, this all actually started about 3-6 months after the pandemic really hit and things shut down. Yes! So horrible! And yeah, I have a therapist I see once every two weeks. Although that only helps so much. No, I...
Well, I am starting to hang out with friends more and establish weekly traditions like poker night. So that's definitely helping. The more I can be around others the easier it is for sure. I'm wondering how bad it is to turn to alcohol when I'm in pain.
Poker night does sound like something that might involve a lot of alcohol though :(
Poker night does sound like something that might involve a lot of alcohol though :(
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I am separated from my wife and in the middle of a PhD program and am using alcohol to numb the pain.
4
3
5
5
Hi, well to be honest I'm struggling a bit right now. I keep turning to beer when I'm feeling really down. No, this all actually started about 3-6 months after the pandemic really hit and things shut down. Yes! So horrible! And yeah, I have a therapist I see once every two weeks. Although that only helps so much. No, I...
Haha, yeah maybe I should have specified that this is typically booze free. Sometimes we split a 12-pack among the 6 of us, but that's the wildest of nights. Engineers make for good sober poker night buddies :)
LOL well I am glad to hear that at least. Splitting a twelve pack between six does not seem like a problem to me
LOL well I am glad to hear that at least. Splitting a twelve pack between six does not seem like a problem to me
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I am separated from my wife and in the middle of a PhD program and am using alcohol to numb the pain.
4
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5
Hi, well to be honest I'm struggling a bit right now. I keep turning to beer when I'm feeling really down. No, this all actually started about 3-6 months after the pandemic really hit and things shut down. Yes! So horrible! And yeah, I have a therapist I see once every two weeks. Although that only helps so much. No, I...
Yeah, I figure 2 beers over 4 hours is not a big deal every once in a while. I just really hope we start opening back up and people get vaccinated. Although, maybe that is just masking some underlying problem, huh?
That is possible as well and it is definitely worth talking to someone, I think, just in case
That is possible as well and it is definitely worth talking to someone, I think, just in case
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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depression
alcohol_abuse
I am separated from my wife and in the middle of a PhD program and am using alcohol to numb the pain.
4
3
5
5
Hi, well to be honest I'm struggling a bit right now. I keep turning to beer when I'm feeling really down. No, this all actually started about 3-6 months after the pandemic really hit and things shut down. Yes! So horrible! And yeah, I have a therapist I see once every two weeks. Although that only helps so much. No, I...
Yeah, that's a good idea. What do you turn to when you are struggling in life?
Well beer, to be perfectly honest :D
Well beer, to be perfectly honest :D Anyway I hope that I can have been of assistance :)
Self-disclosure, Others
Self-disclosure
4,150
neutral
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353
9
depression
alcohol_abuse
I am separated from my wife and in the middle of a PhD program and am using alcohol to numb the pain.
4
3
5
5
Hi, well to be honest I'm struggling a bit right now. I keep turning to beer when I'm feeling really down. No, this all actually started about 3-6 months after the pandemic really hit and things shut down. Yes! So horrible! And yeah, I have a therapist I see once every two weeks. Although that only helps so much. No, I...
Hahaha, good so I'm not the only one! I think if it's not over the top and getting in the way of the functioning of my life then that's a good sign. Yes, thank you. This has been helpful!
Just remember that it can get worse pretty quickly so it's best to talk to someone :) can you press quit first and take the survey? I can't at this end
Just remember that it can get worse pretty quickly so it's best to talk to someone :) can you press quit first and take the survey? I can't at this end
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
4,151
happy
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354
1
depression
ongoing_depression
I don't have motivation to do anything. Everything seems pointless.
5
2
5
5
Hello
Hi, so tell me, how are you feeling today?
Hi, so tell me, how are you feeling today?
Question
Question
4,152
neutral
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0.989792
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354
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depression
ongoing_depression
I don't have motivation to do anything. Everything seems pointless.
5
2
5
5
Hello
I am feeling depressed
If you tell me what's going on, I will be more than glad to help
If you tell me what's going on, I will be more than glad to help
Question
Question
4,153
sad
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354
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depression
ongoing_depression
I don't have motivation to do anything. Everything seems pointless.
5
2
5
5
Hello I am feeling depressed
I can't pinpoint what exactly is making me feel this way. It could be the pandemic. But basically I started to feel that there is not much point in anything.
The pandemic can definetely be a key factor here. When it first started, I remember feeling lost and unsure about things that I would normally would have no problem with.
The pandemic can definetely be a key factor here. When it first started, I remember feeling lost and unsure about things that I would normally would have no problem with. If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?
Self-disclosure, Question
Self-disclosure
4,154
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0.001162
0.000359
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depression
ongoing_depression
I don't have motivation to do anything. Everything seems pointless.
5
2
5
5
Hello I am feeling depressed I can't pinpoint what exactly is making me feel this way. It could be the pandemic. But basically I started to feel that there is not much point in anything.
I am 30
Do you have any family, girlfriend, boyfriend, children?
Do you have any family, girlfriend, boyfriend, children?
Question
Question
4,155
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depression
ongoing_depression
I don't have motivation to do anything. Everything seems pointless.
5
2
5
5
Hello I am feeling depressed I can't pinpoint what exactly is making me feel this way. It could be the pandemic. But basically I started to feel that there is not much point in anything. I am 30
I have family and a boyfriend but they all live far and I have not seen them in while.
Not seeing your closed ones or simply being apart from them can be more than enough to make us feel depressed or blue.
Not seeing your closed ones or simply being apart from them can be more than enough to make us feel depressed or blue. Have you tried doing videocalls with them, for example?
Others, Providing Suggestions
Others
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depression
ongoing_depression
I don't have motivation to do anything. Everything seems pointless.
5
2
5
5
Hello I am feeling depressed I can't pinpoint what exactly is making me feel this way. It could be the pandemic. But basically I started to feel that there is not much point in anything. I am 30 I have family and a boyfriend but they all live far and I have not seen them in while.
Yes sometimes. I don't tell them how I feel though. I don't want them to worry about me.
I understand. However, there is nothing wrong with telling them that you are sad because you miss them. Something as simple as getting it off your chest can already make you feel better.
I understand. However, there is nothing wrong with telling them that you are sad because you miss them. Something as simple as getting it off your chest can already make you feel better.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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neutral
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354
7
depression
ongoing_depression
I don't have motivation to do anything. Everything seems pointless.
5
2
5
5
Hello I am feeling depressed I can't pinpoint what exactly is making me feel this way. It could be the pandemic. But basically I started to feel that there is not much point in anything. I am 30 I have family and a boyfriend but they all live far and I have not seen them in while. Yes sometimes. I don't tell them how I...
I suppose. I just worry that I will make them sad too. It's hard time for everyone.
Totally, but remember than they are there for you whenever you need them.
Totally, but remember than they are there for you whenever you need them.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
4,158
fear
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354
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depression
ongoing_depression
I don't have motivation to do anything. Everything seems pointless.
5
2
5
5
Hello I am feeling depressed I can't pinpoint what exactly is making me feel this way. It could be the pandemic. But basically I started to feel that there is not much point in anything. I am 30 I have family and a boyfriend but they all live far and I have not seen them in while. Yes sometimes. I don't tell them how I...
Yes that's true. Do you have any suggestions on what to say?
I bet something as simple as "Hey babe, I really miss you. I can't be glad with your abscence" could make your boyfriend feel loved while at the same time relieving you.
I bet something as simple as "Hey babe, I really miss you. I can't be glad with your abscence" could make your boyfriend feel loved while at the same time relieving you.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
4,159
neutral
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0.000236
0.000303
0.930652
0.000792
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354
9
depression
ongoing_depression
I don't have motivation to do anything. Everything seems pointless.
5
2
5
5
Hello I am feeling depressed I can't pinpoint what exactly is making me feel this way. It could be the pandemic. But basically I started to feel that there is not much point in anything. I am 30 I have family and a boyfriend but they all live far and I have not seen them in while. Yes sometimes. I don't tell them how I...
That is true. I believe I have a problem showing vulnerability.
That might be why you were unsure about telling them. Believe me, there is nothing wrong with showing vulnerability. We are all vulnerable in one way or another.
That might be why you were unsure about telling them. Believe me, there is nothing wrong with showing vulnerability. We are all vulnerable in one way or another.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
4,160
neutral
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0.000918
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354
10
depression
ongoing_depression
I don't have motivation to do anything. Everything seems pointless.
5
2
5
5
Hello I am feeling depressed I can't pinpoint what exactly is making me feel this way. It could be the pandemic. But basically I started to feel that there is not much point in anything. I am 30 I have family and a boyfriend but they all live far and I have not seen them in while. Yes sometimes. I don't tell them how I...
I haven't been with my boyfriend that long before the pandemic started so I still have some fears and trust issues. I fear that being weak pushes people away.
Hey, if he is the right one for you, he will completeley accept you as you are and love you. In the unlikely event that he "rejects" you for being "vulnerable", he wasn't even worth it in the first place. You deserve someone that appreciates you as much as you appreciate them :3
Hey, if he is the right one for you, he will completeley accept you as you are and love you. In the unlikely event that he "rejects" you for being "vulnerable", he wasn't even worth it in the first place. You deserve someone that appreciates you as much as you appreciate them :3
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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fear
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354
11
depression
ongoing_depression
I don't have motivation to do anything. Everything seems pointless.
5
2
5
5
Hello I am feeling depressed I can't pinpoint what exactly is making me feel this way. It could be the pandemic. But basically I started to feel that there is not much point in anything. I am 30 I have family and a boyfriend but they all live far and I have not seen them in while. Yes sometimes. I don't tell them how I...
That is true. I should be brave enough to find out if he will be there when the chips are down. I am going to do it
I believe in you!
I believe in you!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
4,162
neutral
0.005269
0.00033
0.0011
0.036385
0.950781
0.001167
0.004968
354
12
depression
ongoing_depression
I don't have motivation to do anything. Everything seems pointless.
5
2
5
5
Hello I am feeling depressed I can't pinpoint what exactly is making me feel this way. It could be the pandemic. But basically I started to feel that there is not much point in anything. I am 30 I have family and a boyfriend but they all live far and I have not seen them in while. Yes sometimes. I don't tell them how I...
Thank you for supporting me.
It has been a pleasure!
It has been a pleasure!
Others
Others
4,163
neutral
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0.0005
0.000312
0.217008
0.757039
0.000439
0.013159
354
13
depression
ongoing_depression
I don't have motivation to do anything. Everything seems pointless.
5
2
5
5
Hello I am feeling depressed I can't pinpoint what exactly is making me feel this way. It could be the pandemic. But basically I started to feel that there is not much point in anything. I am 30 I have family and a boyfriend but they all live far and I have not seen them in while. Yes sometimes. I don't tell them how I...
Enjoy the rest of your day.
You too!
You too! (You have to hit Quit and fill the questionarie)
Others, Others
Others
4,164
happy
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355
1
anxiety
job_crisis
Due to this pandemic, I am worry for my future. Especially my job stability.
4
3
4
4
Hi. You there buddy? I really need your help if possible. Can you lend a hand, please? hello?
hi, how can i help?
hi, how can i help?
Question
Question
4,165
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2
anxiety
job_crisis
Due to this pandemic, I am worry for my future. Especially my job stability.
4
3
4
4
Hi. You there buddy? I really need your help if possible. Can you lend a hand, please? hello?
I am stressed out due to this pandemic.
i know a lot of people are. how has the pandemic caused stress for you?
i know a lot of people are. how has the pandemic caused stress for you?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
4,166
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355
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anxiety
job_crisis
Due to this pandemic, I am worry for my future. Especially my job stability.
4
3
4
4
Hi. You there buddy? I really need your help if possible. Can you lend a hand, please? hello? I am stressed out due to this pandemic.
My job stability. I don't know whether I'll have a job in the future or not.
that is rough, and i completely understand. i'm in a similar position
that is rough, and i completely understand. i'm in a similar position what makes you question your job stability?
Self-disclosure, Question
Self-disclosure
4,167
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355
4
anxiety
job_crisis
Due to this pandemic, I am worry for my future. Especially my job stability.
4
3
4
4
Hi. You there buddy? I really need your help if possible. Can you lend a hand, please? hello? I am stressed out due to this pandemic. My job stability. I don't know whether I'll have a job in the future or not.
Given I am a low level worker at my firm, I fear if the economy turns for the worse, I'll be cut.
i see. so if your firm starts making staff cuts, you think you'll be one of the folks they let go?
i see. so if your firm starts making staff cuts, you think you'll be one of the folks they let go?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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anxiety
job_crisis
Due to this pandemic, I am worry for my future. Especially my job stability.
4
3
4
4
Hi. You there buddy? I really need your help if possible. Can you lend a hand, please? hello? I am stressed out due to this pandemic. My job stability. I don't know whether I'll have a job in the future or not. Given I am a low level worker at my firm, I fear if the economy turns for the worse, I'll be cut.
Yes, that is correct. I am very stressed due to this.
can you share a bit about what type of work you do?
can you share a bit about what type of work you do?
Question
Question
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anxiety
job_crisis
Due to this pandemic, I am worry for my future. Especially my job stability.
4
3
4
4
Hi. You there buddy? I really need your help if possible. Can you lend a hand, please? hello? I am stressed out due to this pandemic. My job stability. I don't know whether I'll have a job in the future or not. Given I am a low level worker at my firm, I fear if the economy turns for the worse, I'll be cut. Yes, that i...
I am an accountant.
I see. well the great thing about accountants is that every business needs them, regardless of the economy
I see. well the great thing about accountants is that every business needs them, regardless of the economy
Information
Information
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anxiety
job_crisis
Due to this pandemic, I am worry for my future. Especially my job stability.
4
3
4
4
Hi. You there buddy? I really need your help if possible. Can you lend a hand, please? hello? I am stressed out due to this pandemic. My job stability. I don't know whether I'll have a job in the future or not. Given I am a low level worker at my firm, I fear if the economy turns for the worse, I'll be cut. Yes, that i...
My company has already cut 10%. With this new lock down order from my state, I am fearful. Is there a lock down where you live?
There is a lockdown, but it isn't as strict as some other states.
There is a lockdown, but it isn't as strict as some other states.
Others
Others
4,171
fear
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355
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anxiety
job_crisis
Due to this pandemic, I am worry for my future. Especially my job stability.
4
3
4
4
Hi. You there buddy? I really need your help if possible. Can you lend a hand, please? hello? I am stressed out due to this pandemic. My job stability. I don't know whether I'll have a job in the future or not. Given I am a low level worker at my firm, I fear if the economy turns for the worse, I'll be cut. Yes, that i...
Oh ok. How's the economy where you live?
it is pretty rough. unemployment has hit a huge spike and there are a lot of people who are moving away to find better opportunities
it is pretty rough. unemployment has hit a huge spike and there are a lot of people who are moving away to find better opportunities
Others
Others
4,172
neutral
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0.000085
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355
9
anxiety
job_crisis
Due to this pandemic, I am worry for my future. Especially my job stability.
4
3
4
4
Hi. You there buddy? I really need your help if possible. Can you lend a hand, please? hello? I am stressed out due to this pandemic. My job stability. I don't know whether I'll have a job in the future or not. Given I am a low level worker at my firm, I fear if the economy turns for the worse, I'll be cut. Yes, that i...
Yes. This is what I fear. Homelessness has increased in my city. There are a lot more tents than usual.
i've managed and coached a lot of people in my career, and i think what's important to keep in mind in how you adapt to the current situation
i've managed and coached a lot of people in my career, and i think what's important to keep in mind in how you adapt to the current situation
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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I don't think my current job is right for me. I have been doing it for 7 years and it's all I know. I don't know what to do for the best.
4
2
4
5
Hello I am OK but I have a bot of a work issue that I'd like some support with if possible?
Of course! What sort of issue is it?
Of course! What sort of issue is it?
Question
Question
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fear
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I don't think my current job is right for me. I have been doing it for 7 years and it's all I know. I don't know what to do for the best.
4
2
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Hello I am OK but I have a bot of a work issue that I'd like some support with if possible?
I have done the same job for 7 years but it is now full and boring. It pays OK but it is all I know. I'm scared that I will get resentful in this job if I stay where I am but I haven't got a clue what to do for the best.
I see, so you feel that your position has become stagnant and you know longer take any pleasure in your work?
I see, so you feel that your position has become stagnant and you know longer take any pleasure in your work?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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fear
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fear
job_crisis
I don't think my current job is right for me. I have been doing it for 7 years and it's all I know. I don't know what to do for the best.
4
2
4
5
Hello I am OK but I have a bot of a work issue that I'd like some support with if possible? I have done the same job for 7 years but it is now full and boring. It pays OK but it is all I know. I'm scared that I will get resentful in this job if I stay where I am but I haven't got a clue what to do for the best.
That's exactly it yes. The question is I don't have any official qualifications, just experience and I'd like a change of career but this scared me to death!
Are there any opportunities for advancement or retraining in your current position? Perhaps strive for a promotion?
Are there any opportunities for advancement or retraining in your current position? Perhaps strive for a promotion?
Question
Question
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fear
job_crisis
I don't think my current job is right for me. I have been doing it for 7 years and it's all I know. I don't know what to do for the best.
4
2
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5
Hello I am OK but I have a bot of a work issue that I'd like some support with if possible? I have done the same job for 7 years but it is now full and boring. It pays OK but it is all I know. I'm scared that I will get resentful in this job if I stay where I am but I haven't got a clue what to do for the best. That's ...
Potentially yes but the position above me is not really like for me and I don't like the reporting line. I think I fancy a change but not quite sure how to tackle it. I need the income so can't just leave but also need to do something about it. do you understand the predicament?
Yes I do. I sympathise with you because it must be terrible to feel that you are stuck in something that you really no longer like and yet be afraid to try and change your situation. I am sure that there is some solution though!
Yes I do. I sympathise with you because it must be terrible to feel that you are stuck in something that you really no longer like and yet be afraid to try and change your situation. I am sure that there is some solution though!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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fear
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I don't think my current job is right for me. I have been doing it for 7 years and it's all I know. I don't know what to do for the best.
4
2
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5
Hello I am OK but I have a bot of a work issue that I'd like some support with if possible? I have done the same job for 7 years but it is now full and boring. It pays OK but it is all I know. I'm scared that I will get resentful in this job if I stay where I am but I haven't got a clue what to do for the best. That's ...
Yeah meet too it's just finding a way where I can maybe stay where I am whilst exploring other opportunities to see what I'd like to do. It's a tough one.
Well, you will never know unless you take the plunge into the unknown! I do realise how difficult it is for you to do that though. Perhaps start putting out feelers to other companies? There is no harm in that.
Well, you will never know unless you take the plunge into the unknown! I do realise how difficult it is for you to do that though. Perhaps start putting out feelers to other companies? There is no harm in that.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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I don't think my current job is right for me. I have been doing it for 7 years and it's all I know. I don't know what to do for the best.
4
2
4
5
Hello I am OK but I have a bot of a work issue that I'd like some support with if possible? I have done the same job for 7 years but it is now full and boring. It pays OK but it is all I know. I'm scared that I will get resentful in this job if I stay where I am but I haven't got a clue what to do for the best. That's ...
Sue that's actually a good idea. No harm I suppose and my current employer would be none the wiser.
True! it would also be great for your self esteem to realise just how much more there is out there that you could be doing.
True! it would also be great for your self esteem to realise just how much more there is out there that you could be doing.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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I don't think my current job is right for me. I have been doing it for 7 years and it's all I know. I don't know what to do for the best.
4
2
4
5
Hello I am OK but I have a bot of a work issue that I'd like some support with if possible? I have done the same job for 7 years but it is now full and boring. It pays OK but it is all I know. I'm scared that I will get resentful in this job if I stay where I am but I haven't got a clue what to do for the best. That's ...
I know, it is a big world out there and I have been doing the same thing for so long. It is exciting but also quite unnerving. Is this normal?
Yes, there is nothing to worry about. Do you have any relevant qualifications that might help you find another job?
Yes, there is nothing to worry about. Do you have any relevant qualifications that might help you find another job?
Question
Question
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I don't think my current job is right for me. I have been doing it for 7 years and it's all I know. I don't know what to do for the best.
4
2
4
5
Hello I am OK but I have a bot of a work issue that I'd like some support with if possible? I have done the same job for 7 years but it is now full and boring. It pays OK but it is all I know. I'm scared that I will get resentful in this job if I stay where I am but I haven't got a clue what to do for the best. That's ...
I have experience and I am pretty hard-working. I have also made quite a few connections over the past 7 years.
It all sounds very promising. If you think they'd not tell your boss why don't you talk to some of your connections and see if they can put you onto something better?
It all sounds very promising. If you think they'd not tell your boss why don't you talk to some of your connections and see if they can put you onto something better?
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I don't think my current job is right for me. I have been doing it for 7 years and it's all I know. I don't know what to do for the best.
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Hello I am OK but I have a bot of a work issue that I'd like some support with if possible? I have done the same job for 7 years but it is now full and boring. It pays OK but it is all I know. I'm scared that I will get resentful in this job if I stay where I am but I haven't got a clue what to do for the best. That's ...
Yeah reaching out to my network is probably a good idea - as long as they keep the fact that I am looking for something else quiet. I'd state on Linked in that I'm looking for work but then everyone would know :-)
One other suggestion - it's a high risk strategy but do you think your boss might be sympathetic if you discussed this with him or her? You never know, they might even have some good suggestions - perhaps they feel the same!
One other suggestion - it's a high risk strategy but do you think your boss might be sympathetic if you discussed this with him or her? You never know, they might even have some good suggestions - perhaps they feel the same!
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I don't think my current job is right for me. I have been doing it for 7 years and it's all I know. I don't know what to do for the best.
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Hello I am OK but I have a bot of a work issue that I'd like some support with if possible? I have done the same job for 7 years but it is now full and boring. It pays OK but it is all I know. I'm scared that I will get resentful in this job if I stay where I am but I haven't got a clue what to do for the best. That's ...
Actually you might be right there. I should be able to open up about this and they should be supporting my development. Great suggestion. I think I'm overthinking things.
No I do not believe that you are overthinking at all. This is a very important aspect of your life and will shape your future!
No I do not believe that you are overthinking at all. This is a very important aspect of your life and will shape your future!
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