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332
8
fear
job_crisis
Fear of losing my job
5
4
5
5
Sorry for not reply you friend My company cut my salary and I am scare of losing my job You are very correct, even now my job is one day off one day on I am happy for you friend, I pray for my company not to sack us because it is not easy t fine job now friend I love your style I follow it too I will try to go and med...
Thanks
Of course!
Of course!
Others
Others
3,898
neutral
0.357049
0.000988
0.000745
0.005975
0.569297
0.000917
0.065028
332
9
fear
job_crisis
Fear of losing my job
5
4
5
5
Sorry for not reply you friend My company cut my salary and I am scare of losing my job You are very correct, even now my job is one day off one day on I am happy for you friend, I pray for my company not to sack us because it is not easy t fine job now Thanks friend I love your style I follow it too I will try to go a...
It is great day for me to chat with today
Yup, again, it is always great to reach out since other people might be going through the same struggles! I was feeling upset until I messaged you and now I feel happier!
Yup, again, it is always great to reach out since other people might be going through the same struggles! I was feeling upset until I messaged you and now I feel happier!
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
3,899
happy
0.000154
0.000018
0.000006
0.999573
0.000186
0.000024
0.000038
332
10
fear
job_crisis
Fear of losing my job
5
4
5
5
Sorry for not reply you friend My company cut my salary and I am scare of losing my job You are very correct, even now my job is one day off one day on I am happy for you friend, I pray for my company not to sack us because it is not easy t fine job now Thanks friend I love your style I follow it too I will try to go a...
Have a wonderful day goodbye
Bye!
Bye!
Others
Others
3,900
angry
0.918959
0.000277
0.000109
0.073231
0.006368
0.00068
0.000375
332
11
fear
job_crisis
Fear of losing my job
5
4
5
5
Sorry for not reply you friend My company cut my salary and I am scare of losing my job You are very correct, even now my job is one day off one day on I am happy for you friend, I pray for my company not to sack us because it is not easy t fine job now friend I love your style I follow it too I will try to go and med...
Thanks
You're welcome!
You're welcome!
Others
Others
3,901
neutral
0.357049
0.000988
0.000745
0.005975
0.569297
0.000917
0.065028
334
1
anxiety
academic_pressure
academic stress
5
4
5
5
Hello I am here to talk about some academic stress I am having. In fact, I am just taking a break from my studies. i am doing well, thanks for asking. I hope you're well too.
What is causing you to stress over your academics?
What is causing you to stress over your academics? What is causing you to stress over your academics?
Question, Question
Question
3,915
happy
0.001904
0.000111
0.001998
0.977323
0.013868
0.004025
0.000771
334
2
anxiety
academic_pressure
academic stress
5
4
5
5
Hello I am here to talk about some academic stress I am having. In fact, I am just taking a break from my studies. i am doing well, thanks for asking. I hope you're well too.
Just a little behind and doing some last minute crunch. Two courses. One exam at the end of this month plus one assignment due. The same for the other course but both due end of next month. So just trying to be mature and be hard-working and not get distracted
So your trying to work hard at school. Why are you considering taking a break from school?
So your trying to work hard at school. Why are you considering taking a break from school?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
3,916
sad
0.011809
0.000995
0.016878
0.000506
0.006262
0.962762
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334
3
anxiety
academic_pressure
academic stress
5
4
5
5
Hello I am here to talk about some academic stress I am having. In fact, I am just taking a break from my studies. i am doing well, thanks for asking. I hope you're well too. Just a little behind and doing some last minute crunch. Two courses. One exam at the end of this month plus one assignment due. The same for the ...
no that's not what I meant. I am just taking a break now to talk to you. But other than that, I sometimes get distracted in a normal day. I am taking two university courses, and both completely online.
Oh I see. I am also taking college courses online right now and understand how the end of a semester can be a stressful time for students.
Oh I see. I am also taking college courses online right now and understand how the end of a semester can be a stressful time for students.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
3,917
angry
0.992028
0.000233
0.000042
0.000154
0.00542
0.000917
0.001206
334
4
anxiety
academic_pressure
academic stress
5
4
5
5
Hello I am here to talk about some academic stress I am having. In fact, I am just taking a break from my studies. i am doing well, thanks for asking. I hope you're well too. Just a little behind and doing some last minute crunch. Two courses. One exam at the end of this month plus one assignment due. The same for the ...
yes for sure. I am usually very conscientious, but just due to social isolation from the pandemic, I have been trapped in my house so slacking off and being lazy procrasting a lot
Maybe if you set aside a certain amount of time to devote to your studies (and nothing else) every day, you can eventually start getting back into the normal routine you have for school work
Maybe if you set aside a certain amount of time to devote to your studies (and nothing else) every day, you can eventually start getting back into the normal routine you have for school work and also get and then stay caught up on school work
Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,918
sad
0.045853
0.006064
0.000398
0.000546
0.055767
0.866302
0.025069
334
5
anxiety
academic_pressure
academic stress
5
4
5
5
Hello I am here to talk about some academic stress I am having. In fact, I am just taking a break from my studies. i am doing well, thanks for asking. I hope you're well too. Just a little behind and doing some last minute crunch. Two courses. One exam at the end of this month plus one assignment due. The same for the ...
sorry hold on a second. be right back in a quick sec
okay
okay
Others
Others
3,919
neutral
0.207768
0.003031
0.007153
0.002954
0.494256
0.108808
0.176031
334
6
anxiety
academic_pressure
academic stress
5
4
5
5
Hello I am here to talk about some academic stress I am having. In fact, I am just taking a break from my studies. i am doing well, thanks for asking. I hope you're well too. Just a little behind and doing some last minute crunch. Two courses. One exam at the end of this month plus one assignment due. The same for the ...
hi sorry I am back got a phone call I meant to say I agree with your assessment
okay. so is there anything else thats bothering you?
okay. so is there anything else thats bothering you?
Question
Question
3,920
sad
0.016865
0.001902
0.000326
0.004716
0.002333
0.967968
0.00589
334
7
anxiety
academic_pressure
academic stress
5
4
5
5
Hello I am here to talk about some academic stress I am having. In fact, I am just taking a break from my studies. i am doing well, thanks for asking. I hope you're well too. Just a little behind and doing some last minute crunch. Two courses. One exam at the end of this month plus one assignment due. The same for the ...
and that I do set aside time but just that I am at the last stretch and am only preventing further damage as much as I can, even though I am doing fine so far, just not my best self or best capability. Disappointed to say the least. no just have to get through this and I should be okay like I said. I am usually not lik...
I am sorry you feel that way. I believe that you are strong enough to push through to better times!
I am sorry you feel that way. I believe that you are strong enough to push through to better times!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,921
sad
0.00163
0.000169
0.000047
0.000577
0.0018
0.995497
0.000281
334
8
anxiety
academic_pressure
academic stress
5
4
5
5
Hello I am here to talk about some academic stress I am having. In fact, I am just taking a break from my studies. i am doing well, thanks for asking. I hope you're well too. Just a little behind and doing some last minute crunch. Two courses. One exam at the end of this month plus one assignment due. The same for the ...
But yes, I have been trying your tactic somewhat more often this week and next week is my last before the exam and assignment due date.
Good luck!
Good luck!
Others
Others
3,922
neutral
0.062087
0.001094
0.040015
0.002193
0.806499
0.065561
0.022551
334
9
anxiety
academic_pressure
academic stress
5
4
5
5
Hello I am here to talk about some academic stress I am having. In fact, I am just taking a break from my studies. i am doing well, thanks for asking. I hope you're well too. Just a little behind and doing some last minute crunch. Two courses. One exam at the end of this month plus one assignment due. The same for the ...
thank you. For sure I will keep persevering. May have to sleep late for awhile but it's what I have to do okay. And thanks for understanding and listening. And sorry again for that interruption just now.
You got this!
You got this!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,923
angry
0.99829
0.000113
0.000022
0.000343
0.000747
0.000234
0.000251
334
10
anxiety
academic_pressure
academic stress
5
4
5
5
Hello I am here to talk about some academic stress I am having. In fact, I am just taking a break from my studies. i am doing well, thanks for asking. I hope you're well too. Just a little behind and doing some last minute crunch. Two courses. One exam at the end of this month plus one assignment due. The same for the ...
I appreciate your help and good luck to your studies also. And stay well and safe. Thank you very much!
Thank you! Goodbye!
Thank you! Goodbye!
Others
Others
3,924
happy
0.000229
0.000019
0.000028
0.998534
0.001087
0.00003
0.000073
335
1
fear
academic_pressure
Near failing a class that will pretty much depend my future career
2
1
5
5
hi, how are you?
good. and you?
good. and you?
Question
Question
3,926
happy
0.00292
0.000045
0.000036
0.993731
0.003055
0.000039
0.000173
335
2
fear
academic_pressure
Near failing a class that will pretty much depend my future career
2
1
5
5
hi, how are you?
i'm glad to hear! i'm doing fine
Great. How may I assist you today?
Great. How may I assist you today? Great. How may I assist you today?
Others, Others
Others
3,927
happy
0.00006
0.000021
0.000006
0.999693
0.000114
0.000046
0.00006
335
3
fear
academic_pressure
Near failing a class that will pretty much depend my future career
2
1
5
5
hi, how are you? i'm glad to hear! i'm doing fine
It's great talking to you. I have an emotional problem, more like the fear that I will fail my class, it will greatly impact my future career.
Great talking to you too. I am sorry to hear that you are very worried. Why do you think you might lose your class? Are you not good at the subject?
Great talking to you too. I am sorry to hear that you are very worried. Why do you think you might lose your class? Are you not good at the subject?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
3,928
fear
0.000398
0.000104
0.982886
0.000495
0.001921
0.01373
0.000466
335
4
fear
academic_pressure
Near failing a class that will pretty much depend my future career
2
1
5
5
hi, how are you? i'm glad to hear! i'm doing fine It's great talking to you. I have an emotional problem, more like the fear that I will fail my class, it will greatly impact my future career.
I am just not understanding the way the professor is teaching. More than 50% of the class is failing at the moment. The anxiety is crazy.
It sounds like it is the problem of the professor. It is always good think about the worst case senario. If, if, you really fail the class, what will happen?
It sounds like it is the problem of the professor. It is always good think about the worst case senario. If, if, you really fail the class, what will happen?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,929
angry
0.379113
0.01078
0.372481
0.00128
0.008048
0.205528
0.02277
335
5
fear
academic_pressure
Near failing a class that will pretty much depend my future career
2
1
5
5
hi, how are you? i'm glad to hear! i'm doing fine It's great talking to you. I have an emotional problem, more like the fear that I will fail my class, it will greatly impact my future career. I am just not understanding the way the professor is teaching. More than 50% of the class is failing at the moment. The anxiety...
If I fail the course, I have a one time try to repeat the course again with the same professor. If I fail the second time, I can no longer go to all the colleges in that district to become a nurse.
I see! I love your career goal. When I was a student, I visited my professor's room a lot. I did that for almost all classes. Some professors helped me a lot and gave me a lot of hint. Do you visit them as well?
I see! I love your career goal. When I was a student, I visited my professor's room a lot. I did that for almost all classes. Some professors helped me a lot and gave me a lot of hint. Do you visit them as well? I see! I love your career goal. When I was a student, I visited my professor's room a lot. I did that for al...
Question, Question
Question
3,930
angry
0.913872
0.020936
0.008715
0.000099
0.001699
0.054317
0.000362
335
6
fear
academic_pressure
Near failing a class that will pretty much depend my future career
2
1
5
5
hi, how are you? i'm glad to hear! i'm doing fine It's great talking to you. I have an emotional problem, more like the fear that I will fail my class, it will greatly impact my future career. I am just not understanding the way the professor is teaching. More than 50% of the class is failing at the moment. The anxiety...
I do visit them during office hours along with numerous amounts of students, but it doesn't really seem to be helping. I'm anxious and starting to doubt if I do my career goal. I love clinical and doing my hours at the hospital but the tests are just crazy.
I can see that you have great passion and you've been making efforts. My school was in a small capital city and the professors were not occupied with other students at all.
I can see that you have great passion and you've been making efforts. My school was in a small capital city and the professors were not occupied with other students at all. Since you're good at actual clinical stuff, I think you can do well at the tests too. Maybe you need more time to prepare for the test?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,931
fear
0.000111
0.000041
0.997769
0.000099
0.000094
0.001664
0.000222
335
7
fear
academic_pressure
Near failing a class that will pretty much depend my future career
2
1
5
5
hi, how are you? i'm glad to hear! i'm doing fine It's great talking to you. I have an emotional problem, more like the fear that I will fail my class, it will greatly impact my future career. I am just not understanding the way the professor is teaching. More than 50% of the class is failing at the moment. The anxiety...
Thank you, I appreciate your kind words. Some times the tests just don't seem like what is being taught in class and the books. I have already taken extensive notes.
Those tests are tricky, then I would ask more than a few questions in the class before the test. Students need to know what exactly they need to study in order to pass the test. I don't think most professors will mind helping students prepare for the tests.
Those tests are tricky, then I would ask more than a few questions in the class before the test. Students need to know what exactly they need to study in order to pass the test. I don't think most professors will mind helping students prepare for the tests. I am happy to help and I wish your great success in school and...
Reflection of feelings, Affirmation and Reassurance
Reflection of feelings
3,932
angry
0.976817
0.001279
0.000471
0.002609
0.000806
0.016979
0.001039
335
8
fear
academic_pressure
Near failing a class that will pretty much depend my future career
2
1
5
5
hi, how are you? i'm glad to hear! i'm doing fine It's great talking to you. I have an emotional problem, more like the fear that I will fail my class, it will greatly impact my future career. I am just not understanding the way the professor is teaching. More than 50% of the class is failing at the moment. The anxiety...
Thank you very much. I really appreciate you
anytime, merry Christmas
anytime, merry Christmas
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,933
happy
0.000843
0.00002
0.000019
0.99886
0.000093
0.000026
0.000139
336
1
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I recently broke up with my partner. We have been dating for over 3 years. During this time with COVID and the election, I don't want to be alone. I feel lost.
4
3
5
5
sad and lonely
I see you are feeling sad and lonely, is there anything going on right now to enhance those feelings?
I see you are feeling sad and lonely, is there anything going on right now to enhance those feelings?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
3,935
sad
0.001028
0.000345
0.000069
0.000053
0.002007
0.99634
0.000157
336
2
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I recently broke up with my partner. We have been dating for over 3 years. During this time with COVID and the election, I don't want to be alone. I feel lost.
4
3
5
5
sad and lonely
The election and COVID are making it worse.
There is a lot going on right now, but i see you said its making it worse. What may be the root cause?
There is a lot going on right now, but i see you said its making it worse. What may be the root cause?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
3,936
angry
0.354149
0.342709
0.00181
0.000194
0.057402
0.230645
0.013091
336
3
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I recently broke up with my partner. We have been dating for over 3 years. During this time with COVID and the election, I don't want to be alone. I feel lost.
4
3
5
5
sad and lonely The election and COVID are making it worse.
I have no one to share my deepest feelings with at this moment.
I understand having it seem like there is no one to talk to. I am here and there are others. I believe you can find an outlet to share.
I understand having it seem like there is no one to talk to. I am here and there are others. I believe you can find an outlet to share.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,937
sad
0.002151
0.000288
0.001253
0.000048
0.002975
0.993122
0.000163
336
4
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I recently broke up with my partner. We have been dating for over 3 years. During this time with COVID and the election, I don't want to be alone. I feel lost.
4
3
5
5
sad and lonely The election and COVID are making it worse. I have no one to share my deepest feelings with at this moment.
Where do you suggest I look?
I would first start to try and feel connected. There are many online forums, that perhaps you can join in on things that interest you
I would first start to try and feel connected. There are many online forums, that perhaps you can join in on things that interest you
Information
Information
3,938
neutral
0.014646
0.000079
0.00014
0.000352
0.964903
0.000408
0.019473
336
5
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I recently broke up with my partner. We have been dating for over 3 years. During this time with COVID and the election, I don't want to be alone. I feel lost.
4
3
5
5
sad and lonely The election and COVID are making it worse. I have no one to share my deepest feelings with at this moment. Where do you suggest I look?
How about local groups? How do I find someone with like minds?
Local, and safe, meetings are a good start as well. Have you tried looking for any online local spots? Or in a local news paper? Its great you are coming up with ideas already.
Local, and safe, meetings are a good start as well. Have you tried looking for any online local spots? Or in a local news paper? Its great you are coming up with ideas already.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,939
neutral
0.002493
0.000049
0.00043
0.000412
0.987998
0.000937
0.007681
336
6
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I recently broke up with my partner. We have been dating for over 3 years. During this time with COVID and the election, I don't want to be alone. I feel lost.
4
3
5
5
sad and lonely The election and COVID are making it worse. I have no one to share my deepest feelings with at this moment. Where do you suggest I look? How about local groups? How do I find someone with like minds?
I really like to play tennis. That may be a good spot. Have you tried Tinder or Match?
Those are more for a quicker deeper connection. I would try to cast a broad net. Maybe with Meetup or Nextdoor.
Those are more for a quicker deeper connection. I would try to cast a broad net. Maybe with Meetup or Nextdoor.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,940
neutral
0.006164
0.000115
0.000622
0.035407
0.915647
0.002054
0.039992
336
7
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I recently broke up with my partner. We have been dating for over 3 years. During this time with COVID and the election, I don't want to be alone. I feel lost.
4
3
5
5
sad and lonely The election and COVID are making it worse. I have no one to share my deepest feelings with at this moment. Where do you suggest I look? How about local groups? How do I find someone with like minds? I really like to play tennis. That may be a good spot. Have you tried Tinder or Match?
What is Nextdoor?
It is an app to get you connected to your local community and neighbors.
It is an app to get you connected to your local community and neighbors.
Information
Information
3,941
neutral
0.007659
0.000107
0.00028
0.000497
0.898902
0.00059
0.091965
336
8
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I recently broke up with my partner. We have been dating for over 3 years. During this time with COVID and the election, I don't want to be alone. I feel lost.
4
3
5
5
sad and lonely The election and COVID are making it worse. I have no one to share my deepest feelings with at this moment. Where do you suggest I look? How about local groups? How do I find someone with like minds? I really like to play tennis. That may be a good spot. Have you tried Tinder or Match? What is Nextdoor?
That sounds great. Does it have special sections for specific groups?
I believe it does have subsections but it is more of a general hang out for neighbors to keep up with each other.
I believe it does have subsections but it is more of a general hang out for neighbors to keep up with each other.
Information
Information
3,942
neutral
0.033516
0.000123
0.000144
0.000467
0.919345
0.001747
0.044659
336
9
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I recently broke up with my partner. We have been dating for over 3 years. During this time with COVID and the election, I don't want to be alone. I feel lost.
4
3
5
5
sad and lonely The election and COVID are making it worse. I have no one to share my deepest feelings with at this moment. Where do you suggest I look? How about local groups? How do I find someone with like minds? I really like to play tennis. That may be a good spot. Have you tried Tinder or Match? What is Nextdoor? ...
That's cool. I should check it out. I feel like a book club would help. Do you like books?
I do love books. They are a great way to get connected with yourself and enhance your creative side! I bet you could find a local book club on one of those apps.
I do love books. They are a great way to get connected with yourself and enhance your creative side! I bet you could find a local book club on one of those apps.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
3,943
neutral
0.027224
0.000137
0.000765
0.008209
0.93537
0.001758
0.026537
336
10
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I recently broke up with my partner. We have been dating for over 3 years. During this time with COVID and the election, I don't want to be alone. I feel lost.
4
3
5
5
sad and lonely The election and COVID are making it worse. I have no one to share my deepest feelings with at this moment. Where do you suggest I look? How about local groups? How do I find someone with like minds? I really like to play tennis. That may be a good spot. Have you tried Tinder or Match? What is Nextdoor? ...
For sure. Books are great. You have been very helpful. What's you first name so I can thank you properly?
Rachel, and no need to thank me! Being able to help is the greatest reward!
Rachel, and no need to thank me! Being able to help is the greatest reward!
Others
Others
3,944
happy
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0.000238
0.000767
0.678988
0.183745
0.001991
0.106043
336
11
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I recently broke up with my partner. We have been dating for over 3 years. During this time with COVID and the election, I don't want to be alone. I feel lost.
4
3
5
5
sad and lonely The election and COVID are making it worse. I have no one to share my deepest feelings with at this moment. Where do you suggest I look? How about local groups? How do I find someone with like minds? I really like to play tennis. That may be a good spot. Have you tried Tinder or Match? What is Nextdoor? ...
Thank you Rachel. Best of luck to you. I'm going to end it now.
I wish you the best as well!
I wish you the best as well!
Others
Others
3,945
neutral
0.000808
0.000042
0.000068
0.001505
0.9967
0.000324
0.000553
339
1
depression
ongoing_depression
Family disharmony, young niece having to witness a lot of verbal fighting.
3
2
4
4
I'm doing okay, but having a hard time resolving some negative feelings.
What are these feelings related to?
What are these feelings related to?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
3,973
sad
0.001472
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0.007001
0.004203
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339
2
depression
ongoing_depression
Family disharmony, young niece having to witness a lot of verbal fighting.
3
2
4
4
I'm doing okay, but having a hard time resolving some negative feelings.
Well during the pandemic, my sister and my brother in law got a divorce and my sister needed a place to stay and she stayed with my parents and myself with her daughter (my niece)
Im sorry for that, so added stress with her and her daughter being around?
Im sorry for that, so added stress with her and her daughter being around?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
3,974
sad
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depression
ongoing_depression
Family disharmony, young niece having to witness a lot of verbal fighting.
3
2
4
4
I'm doing okay, but having a hard time resolving some negative feelings. Well during the pandemic, my sister and my brother in law got a divorce and my sister needed a place to stay and she stayed with my parents and myself with her daughter (my niece)
and my sister took advantage of my parents and I feel like she tried to use me to get my parents to give her money and when I put my foot down the whole family got into a fight and She flipped us off laughed and said we'd never get to see her daughter again It's hard to explain. Her daughter and I hung out every day mo...
That is really rough and im sorry that your parents are taking sides and not looking at this from the whole situation.
That is really rough and im sorry that your parents are taking sides and not looking at this from the whole situation. So she is not there currently?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Others
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,975
angry
0.711902
0.006981
0.001162
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depression
ongoing_depression
Family disharmony, young niece having to witness a lot of verbal fighting.
3
2
4
4
I'm doing okay, but having a hard time resolving some negative feelings. Well during the pandemic, my sister and my brother in law got a divorce and my sister needed a place to stay and she stayed with my parents and myself with her daughter (my niece) and my sister took advantage of my parents and I feel like she trie...
No she is not My parents gave her like 5-7 thousand dollars and my grandma is giving her money every month. But just friday I was getting her stuff ready to pick up and I found like 700 dollars of clothes with tags on them and tons of expensive makeup and creams barely used I just worry a lot about my niece she is so s...
Well i can see you really care for your niece. It also seems like your sister is a toxic person who is using your family. It may be rough not being able to see your niece but it might be better for your own well being to have this space from her.
Well i can see you really care for your niece. It also seems like your sister is a toxic person who is using your family. It may be rough not being able to see your niece but it might be better for your own well being to have this space from her. No keep going, sometimes just getting it out there helps
Providing Suggestions, Information
Providing Suggestions
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sad
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0.009694
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5
depression
ongoing_depression
Family disharmony, young niece having to witness a lot of verbal fighting.
3
2
4
4
I'm doing okay, but having a hard time resolving some negative feelings. Well during the pandemic, my sister and my brother in law got a divorce and my sister needed a place to stay and she stayed with my parents and myself with her daughter (my niece) and my sister took advantage of my parents and I feel like she trie...
Yeah, I think you are right, I am more productive and have more self esteem since she has moved out. But it's a tough loss. I do appreciate you listening
Yea usually never anything good about loss. I am glad you are doing better now though. Hopefully she can turn herself around
Yea usually never anything good about loss. I am glad you are doing better now though. Hopefully she can turn herself around Oh not a problem at all!
Others, Others
Others
3,977
sad
0.007671
0.000598
0.000421
0.002959
0.074406
0.90657
0.007375
339
6
depression
ongoing_depression
Family disharmony, young niece having to witness a lot of verbal fighting.
3
2
4
4
I'm doing okay, but having a hard time resolving some negative feelings. Well during the pandemic, my sister and my brother in law got a divorce and my sister needed a place to stay and she stayed with my parents and myself with her daughter (my niece) and my sister took advantage of my parents and I feel like she trie...
Yes. I don't have hope about that. But I guess people can change. Well thank you for the conversation. I hope you have a nice day.
Thank you very much. And thank you for sharing!
Thank you very much. And thank you for sharing!
Others
Others
3,978
angry
0.959573
0.000869
0.000115
0.01276
0.021219
0.003433
0.00203
340
1
anxiety
appearance_anxiety
I always feel like the way I look does not live up to the expectations of those close to me. This makes me very anxious when I go to meet with them.
4
2
5
5
Hello
Hello! How are you doing?
Hello! How are you doing?
Question
Question
3,979
neutral
0.004226
0.000116
0.000071
0.00422
0.989792
0.000161
0.001414
340
2
anxiety
appearance_anxiety
I always feel like the way I look does not live up to the expectations of those close to me. This makes me very anxious when I go to meet with them.
4
2
5
5
Hello
I am anxious
I'm sorry to hear that. What is the cause of your anxiety?
I'm sorry to hear that. What is the cause of your anxiety?
Question
Question
3,980
fear
0.000052
0.000053
0.999404
0.000054
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340
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anxiety
appearance_anxiety
I always feel like the way I look does not live up to the expectations of those close to me. This makes me very anxious when I go to meet with them.
4
2
5
5
Hello I am anxious
My friends and my family place a lot of value on how one looks. Every time I meet with them they have a comment on how I should improve on something. It makes me stressed out because I feel like I am not good enough.
I am sorry you are having to deal with this. Are you concerned about your own looks because you constantly hear this feedback from those close to you?
I am sorry you are having to deal with this. Are you concerned about your own looks because you constantly hear this feedback from those close to you?
Question
Question
3,981
sad
0.061116
0.003185
0.000498
0.000265
0.000772
0.934069
0.000096
340
4
anxiety
appearance_anxiety
I always feel like the way I look does not live up to the expectations of those close to me. This makes me very anxious when I go to meet with them.
4
2
5
5
Hello I am anxious My friends and my family place a lot of value on how one looks. Every time I meet with them they have a comment on how I should improve on something. It makes me stressed out because I feel like I am not good enough.
Yes. I feel that I am not thin enough, pretty enough, that my clothes are not nice enough etc
I myself have gone through similar feelings when I was a teenager. I had body image issues for the longest time and my way of resolving it was through proper diet and exercise. Are you happy with how you look personally irrespective of what others opinions are?
I myself have gone through similar feelings when I was a teenager. I had body image issues for the longest time and my way of resolving it was through proper diet and exercise. Are you happy with how you look personally irrespective of what others opinions are?
Question
Question
3,982
happy
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0.000008
0.999856
0.000025
0.000059
0.000021
340
5
anxiety
appearance_anxiety
I always feel like the way I look does not live up to the expectations of those close to me. This makes me very anxious when I go to meet with them.
4
2
5
5
Hello I am anxious My friends and my family place a lot of value on how one looks. Every time I meet with them they have a comment on how I should improve on something. It makes me stressed out because I feel like I am not good enough. Yes. I feel that I am not thin enough, pretty enough, that my clothes are not nice e...
It is hard to feel ok when I keep hearing that I am missing something. I don't even think I need to lose weight. It is just that my friends think model thin is what beauty is. I would have to starve myself to achieve that.
If you are comfortable with your weight then why are you so concerned with what everyone around you says or thinks?
If you are comfortable with your weight then why are you so concerned with what everyone around you says or thinks?
Question
Question
3,983
happy
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0.000029
0.993482
0.002792
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340
6
anxiety
appearance_anxiety
I always feel like the way I look does not live up to the expectations of those close to me. This makes me very anxious when I go to meet with them.
4
2
5
5
Hello I am anxious My friends and my family place a lot of value on how one looks. Every time I meet with them they have a comment on how I should improve on something. It makes me stressed out because I feel like I am not good enough. Yes. I feel that I am not thin enough, pretty enough, that my clothes are not nice e...
Because they are the people I spend time with. I want to be accepted and I want them to like me.
It sounds like you care more about what others think of you than how you feel about yourself.
It sounds like you care more about what others think of you than how you feel about yourself.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
3,984
neutral
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0.000116
0.000128
0.000454
0.988813
0.000833
0.001149
340
7
anxiety
appearance_anxiety
I always feel like the way I look does not live up to the expectations of those close to me. This makes me very anxious when I go to meet with them.
4
2
5
5
Hello I am anxious My friends and my family place a lot of value on how one looks. Every time I meet with them they have a comment on how I should improve on something. It makes me stressed out because I feel like I am not good enough. Yes. I feel that I am not thin enough, pretty enough, that my clothes are not nice e...
I wish I could not care about what they think but I do. I don't know how to not let their opinions not bother me
Have you ever tried affirmations or heard of this before?
Have you ever tried affirmations or heard of this before?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,985
angry
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0.004092
0.00011
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anxiety
appearance_anxiety
I always feel like the way I look does not live up to the expectations of those close to me. This makes me very anxious when I go to meet with them.
4
2
5
5
Hello I am anxious My friends and my family place a lot of value on how one looks. Every time I meet with them they have a comment on how I should improve on something. It makes me stressed out because I feel like I am not good enough. Yes. I feel that I am not thin enough, pretty enough, that my clothes are not nice e...
No. What is that?
Affirmations are positive statements you think about yourself. What I like to do when I'm feeling really anxious is say three positive things/attributes I feel about myself over and over again until my anxiety dissipates. Do you think that could help you feel more positively about what those closest to you are saying s...
Affirmations are positive statements you think about yourself. What I like to do when I'm feeling really anxious is say three positive things/attributes I feel about myself over and over again until my anxiety dissipates. Do you think that could help you feel more positively about what those closest to you are saying s...
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,986
angry
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340
9
anxiety
appearance_anxiety
I always feel like the way I look does not live up to the expectations of those close to me. This makes me very anxious when I go to meet with them.
4
2
5
5
Hello I am anxious My friends and my family place a lot of value on how one looks. Every time I meet with them they have a comment on how I should improve on something. It makes me stressed out because I feel like I am not good enough. Yes. I feel that I am not thin enough, pretty enough, that my clothes are not nice e...
I could try. Do I need to say positive things about my looks or can they be about other stuff?
Since you are stating that you are concerned about how you look, you should just find a few positive statements with regards to your looks you think about yourself and repeat them. So if you don't think you need to lose weight, you can say something like, "I like my weight." or "I don't need to lose weight." If you thi...
Since you are stating that you are concerned about how you look, you should just find a few positive statements with regards to your looks you think about yourself and repeat them. So if you don't think you need to lose weight, you can say something like, "I like my weight." or "I don't need to lose weight." If you thi...
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
3,987
neutral
0.004285
0.000062
0.000134
0.000292
0.985109
0.000839
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340
10
anxiety
appearance_anxiety
I always feel like the way I look does not live up to the expectations of those close to me. This makes me very anxious when I go to meet with them.
4
2
5
5
Hello I am anxious My friends and my family place a lot of value on how one looks. Every time I meet with them they have a comment on how I should improve on something. It makes me stressed out because I feel like I am not good enough. Yes. I feel that I am not thin enough, pretty enough, that my clothes are not nice e...
That sounds easy enough. I will definitely try it. It will take my mind off of worrying about what they are thinking.
I highly recommend it! Is there anything else bothering you that I can help with?
I highly recommend it! Is there anything else bothering you that I can help with?
Others
Others
3,988
neutral
0.008047
0.000255
0.003044
0.001766
0.971602
0.009355
0.005931
340
11
anxiety
appearance_anxiety
I always feel like the way I look does not live up to the expectations of those close to me. This makes me very anxious when I go to meet with them.
4
2
5
5
Hello I am anxious My friends and my family place a lot of value on how one looks. Every time I meet with them they have a comment on how I should improve on something. It makes me stressed out because I feel like I am not good enough. Yes. I feel that I am not thin enough, pretty enough, that my clothes are not nice e...
No you gave me a great suggestion to work with. Thank you so much for your help!
No problem! Glad I could help. I hope you have a wonderful day and take care!
No problem! Glad I could help. I hope you have a wonderful day and take care!
Others
Others
3,989
happy
0.000695
0.000018
0.000012
0.999035
0.000124
0.000032
0.000084
340
12
anxiety
appearance_anxiety
I always feel like the way I look does not live up to the expectations of those close to me. This makes me very anxious when I go to meet with them.
4
2
5
5
Hello I am anxious My friends and my family place a lot of value on how one looks. Every time I meet with them they have a comment on how I should improve on something. It makes me stressed out because I feel like I am not good enough. Yes. I feel that I am not thin enough, pretty enough, that my clothes are not nice e...
You too. Bye now.
Bye!
Bye!
Others
Others
3,990
angry
0.996141
0.000163
0.000041
0.000186
0.003191
0.000144
0.000134
341
1
sadness
conflict_with_parents
I have a father who i love a lot. Since he is old, I have made him move in with me. I take a lot of care of him - even financially. But, if i fall ill, he does not even bother asking me. I feel extremely sad with his behavior.
5
3
5
5
Hi, I have a situation which makes me very sad. This is about my dad He is an old fellow and alone so i made him move in with me.
I'm sorry to hear that you have a sad situation happening with your dad.
I'm sorry to hear that you have a sad situation happening with your dad.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
3,992
sad
0.00019
0.000099
0.000084
0.00005
0.000394
0.999137
0.000046
341
2
sadness
conflict_with_parents
I have a father who i love a lot. Since he is old, I have made him move in with me. I take a lot of care of him - even financially. But, if i fall ill, he does not even bother asking me. I feel extremely sad with his behavior.
5
3
5
5
Hi, I have a situation which makes me very sad. This is about my dad He is an old fellow and alone so i made him move in with me.
I take all responsibilities - including financial But i find him very dry with his emotions. Today,i fell unwell and i wanted to go take a covid test. but, he just brushed it off saying, its a mild flu. He showed no emotions at all. or concern
That sounds like quite a challenge for you. You seem to care so much.
That sounds like quite a challenge for you. You seem to care so much.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,993
angry
0.738248
0.023441
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3
sadness
conflict_with_parents
I have a father who i love a lot. Since he is old, I have made him move in with me. I take a lot of care of him - even financially. But, if i fall ill, he does not even bother asking me. I feel extremely sad with his behavior.
5
3
5
5
Hi, I have a situation which makes me very sad. This is about my dad He is an old fellow and alone so i made him move in with me. I take all responsibilities - including financial But i find him very dry with his emotions. Today,i fell unwell and i wanted to go take a covid test. but, he just brushed it off saying, its...
He simply told me, its a waste of money to go get checked I know that old people sometimes act childish. But his dry behaviour makes me very sad. sometimes this leads to a fight
That must be hard to hear when you are trying so hard to do what's right.
That must be hard to hear when you are trying so hard to do what's right. I also am struggling to convince my father to stay away from crowds because of COVID.
Reflection of feelings, Self-disclosure
Reflection of feelings
3,994
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sadness
conflict_with_parents
I have a father who i love a lot. Since he is old, I have made him move in with me. I take a lot of care of him - even financially. But, if i fall ill, he does not even bother asking me. I feel extremely sad with his behavior.
5
3
5
5
Hi, I have a situation which makes me very sad. This is about my dad He is an old fellow and alone so i made him move in with me. I take all responsibilities - including financial But i find him very dry with his emotions. Today,i fell unwell and i wanted to go take a covid test. but, he just brushed it off saying, its...
Sometimes this behaviour of him leads to a fight. and i end up crying! Untop of it, i feel awful because i end up yelling at home too Is it normal to yell at parents? My dad simply won't listen Is it normal to have a fight with your parents?
I'm sorry you have to go through this.
I'm sorry you have to go through this.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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sad
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0.000152
341
5
sadness
conflict_with_parents
I have a father who i love a lot. Since he is old, I have made him move in with me. I take a lot of care of him - even financially. But, if i fall ill, he does not even bother asking me. I feel extremely sad with his behavior.
5
3
5
5
Hi, I have a situation which makes me very sad. This is about my dad He is an old fellow and alone so i made him move in with me. I take all responsibilities - including financial But i find him very dry with his emotions. Today,i fell unwell and i wanted to go take a covid test. but, he just brushed it off saying, its...
I feel guilty to fight with him
Perhaps you can take some time for yourself with a friend?
Perhaps you can take some time for yourself with a friend?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,996
sad
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0.00006
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341
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sadness
conflict_with_parents
I have a father who i love a lot. Since he is old, I have made him move in with me. I take a lot of care of him - even financially. But, if i fall ill, he does not even bother asking me. I feel extremely sad with his behavior.
5
3
5
5
Hi, I have a situation which makes me very sad. This is about my dad He is an old fellow and alone so i made him move in with me. I take all responsibilities - including financial But i find him very dry with his emotions. Today,i fell unwell and i wanted to go take a covid test. but, he just brushed it off saying, its...
Do you suggest anything else? Yes i could do that. But that won't resolve my issue What do you suggest?
As my father is getting older, he is often frustrated.
As my father is getting older, he is often frustrated. It's harder to move, you have more aches and pains and this virus is scary.
Providing Suggestions, Reflection of feelings
Providing Suggestions
3,997
angry
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341
7
sadness
conflict_with_parents
I have a father who i love a lot. Since he is old, I have made him move in with me. I take a lot of care of him - even financially. But, if i fall ill, he does not even bother asking me. I feel extremely sad with his behavior.
5
3
5
5
Hi, I have a situation which makes me very sad. This is about my dad He is an old fellow and alone so i made him move in with me. I take all responsibilities - including financial But i find him very dry with his emotions. Today,i fell unwell and i wanted to go take a covid test. but, he just brushed it off saying, its...
How should i deal with him? True that
Perhaps you could suggest him taking some deep breaths to calm down.
Perhaps you could suggest him taking some deep breaths to calm down.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,998
neutral
0.296583
0.000695
0.000657
0.00028
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341
8
sadness
conflict_with_parents
I have a father who i love a lot. Since he is old, I have made him move in with me. I take a lot of care of him - even financially. But, if i fall ill, he does not even bother asking me. I feel extremely sad with his behavior.
5
3
5
5
Hi, I have a situation which makes me very sad. This is about my dad He is an old fellow and alone so i made him move in with me. I take all responsibilities - including financial But i find him very dry with his emotions. Today,i fell unwell and i wanted to go take a covid test. but, he just brushed it off saying, its...
It's very hard to convince him of anything. He thinks he is always right.
I understand as my father is the same way. I often have to just hear him out and take time away in another room.
I understand as my father is the same way. I often have to just hear him out and take time away in another room.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
3,999
angry
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341
9
sadness
conflict_with_parents
I have a father who i love a lot. Since he is old, I have made him move in with me. I take a lot of care of him - even financially. But, if i fall ill, he does not even bother asking me. I feel extremely sad with his behavior.
5
3
5
5
Hi, I have a situation which makes me very sad. This is about my dad He is an old fellow and alone so i made him move in with me. I take all responsibilities - including financial But i find him very dry with his emotions. Today,i fell unwell and i wanted to go take a covid test. but, he just brushed it off saying, its...
It's hard on me, because i have a child to look after too. And my dad keeps interfering in my parenting with my child.
Do you have any other family support who understands your position?
Do you have any other family support who understands your position?
Question
Question
4,000
angry
0.524668
0.006938
0.002502
0.000146
0.002034
0.463371
0.000341
341
10
sadness
conflict_with_parents
I have a father who i love a lot. Since he is old, I have made him move in with me. I take a lot of care of him - even financially. But, if i fall ill, he does not even bother asking me. I feel extremely sad with his behavior.
5
3
5
5
Hi, I have a situation which makes me very sad. This is about my dad He is an old fellow and alone so i made him move in with me. I take all responsibilities - including financial But i find him very dry with his emotions. Today,i fell unwell and i wanted to go take a covid test. but, he just brushed it off saying, its...
It's hard honestly. My spouse and me are separated. And i have a child who stays with me.
Perhaps there is some support in your community? I have a child with autism and my father doesn't understand the behaviors and is critical of my parenting too. I often seek support from an autism group with parents in my position. Perhaps there is a group of single parents you could gain support from?
Perhaps there is some support in your community? I have a child with autism and my father doesn't understand the behaviors and is critical of my parenting too. I often seek support from an autism group with parents in my position. Perhaps there is a group of single parents you could gain support from?
Question
Question
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sadness
conflict_with_parents
I have a father who i love a lot. Since he is old, I have made him move in with me. I take a lot of care of him - even financially. But, if i fall ill, he does not even bother asking me. I feel extremely sad with his behavior.
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3
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Hi, I have a situation which makes me very sad. This is about my dad He is an old fellow and alone so i made him move in with me. I take all responsibilities - including financial But i find him very dry with his emotions. Today,i fell unwell and i wanted to go take a covid test. but, he just brushed it off saying, its...
I have a six year old child. Yes, maybe i would look for some support groups somewhere. Autistic child must be huge challenge i am sure
It sounds like you are really trying hard to do the best you can.
It sounds like you are really trying hard to do the best you can.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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sadness
conflict_with_parents
I have a father who i love a lot. Since he is old, I have made him move in with me. I take a lot of care of him - even financially. But, if i fall ill, he does not even bother asking me. I feel extremely sad with his behavior.
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3
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Hi, I have a situation which makes me very sad. This is about my dad He is an old fellow and alone so i made him move in with me. I take all responsibilities - including financial But i find him very dry with his emotions. Today,i fell unwell and i wanted to go take a covid test. but, he just brushed it off saying, its...
Sometimes i suggest to my dad that he should seek therapy. But he won't listen at all.
That must be frustrating that you try to have him seek therapy, but he doesn't want to follow your suggestions.
That must be frustrating that you try to have him seek therapy, but he doesn't want to follow your suggestions.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
4,003
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sadness
conflict_with_parents
I have a father who i love a lot. Since he is old, I have made him move in with me. I take a lot of care of him - even financially. But, if i fall ill, he does not even bother asking me. I feel extremely sad with his behavior.
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3
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Hi, I have a situation which makes me very sad. This is about my dad He is an old fellow and alone so i made him move in with me. I take all responsibilities - including financial But i find him very dry with his emotions. Today,i fell unwell and i wanted to go take a covid test. but, he just brushed it off saying, its...
Yes, i would have joined a support group. But, this covid won't let me now. I have to be very careful since i have a child and dad at home. I step out only for necessities.
Do you think communicating in a different way like writing may help? Have you tried different ways to communicate?
Do you think communicating in a different way like writing may help? Have you tried different ways to communicate?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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sadness
conflict_with_parents
I have a father who i love a lot. Since he is old, I have made him move in with me. I take a lot of care of him - even financially. But, if i fall ill, he does not even bother asking me. I feel extremely sad with his behavior.
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3
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Hi, I have a situation which makes me very sad. This is about my dad He is an old fellow and alone so i made him move in with me. I take all responsibilities - including financial But i find him very dry with his emotions. Today,i fell unwell and i wanted to go take a covid test. but, he just brushed it off saying, its...
It would be awkward since he is in the same house But i could try sending a text message That's a good advice
Do you think maybe some way of showing you care like making dinner or something encouraging him in a way he likes could help?
Do you think maybe some way of showing you care like making dinner or something encouraging him in a way he likes could help?
Question
Question
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sadness
conflict_with_parents
I have a father who i love a lot. Since he is old, I have made him move in with me. I take a lot of care of him - even financially. But, if i fall ill, he does not even bother asking me. I feel extremely sad with his behavior.
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3
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Hi, I have a situation which makes me very sad. This is about my dad He is an old fellow and alone so i made him move in with me. I take all responsibilities - including financial But i find him very dry with his emotions. Today,i fell unwell and i wanted to go take a covid test. but, he just brushed it off saying, its...
Yes, could work. I will try that. Thanks for the advice
You are welcome. I wish you well. Have a good night.
You are welcome. I wish you well. Have a good night.
Others
Others
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sadness
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I am in the middle of job hunting but it has been very difficult to find one during the pandemic. This really upsets me.
4
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I need support to feel ok during the pandemic
Hello.
Hello.
Others
Others
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sadness
job_crisis
I am in the middle of job hunting but it has been very difficult to find one during the pandemic. This really upsets me.
4
3
4
4
I need support to feel ok during the pandemic
HI there
What type of things are you worried about during the pandemic?
What type of things are you worried about during the pandemic?
Question
Question
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neutral
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sadness
job_crisis
I am in the middle of job hunting but it has been very difficult to find one during the pandemic. This really upsets me.
4
3
4
4
I need support to feel ok during the pandemic HI there
That I may not find a job soon which is making me depressed
So just to make sure I understand, you are anxious about possibly loosing your job due to the pandemic
So just to make sure I understand, you are anxious about possibly loosing your job due to the pandemic
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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sadness
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I am in the middle of job hunting but it has been very difficult to find one during the pandemic. This really upsets me.
4
3
4
4
I need support to feel ok during the pandemic HI there That I may not find a job soon which is making me depressed
I am not working at the moment, I am looking for a job but it has been really difficult to find one
Have you looked into a hiring agency? They are great at helping find people jobs, especially in these hard times.
Have you looked into a hiring agency? They are great at helping find people jobs, especially in these hard times.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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sadness
job_crisis
I am in the middle of job hunting but it has been very difficult to find one during the pandemic. This really upsets me.
4
3
4
4
I need support to feel ok during the pandemic HI there That I may not find a job soon which is making me depressed I am not working at the moment, I am looking for a job but it has been really difficult to find one
I have but seems like there are no entry level jobs currently and also some employers have ceased hiring
After interviews have you been following up to show interest again in the job?
After interviews have you been following up to show interest again in the job?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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sadness
job_crisis
I am in the middle of job hunting but it has been very difficult to find one during the pandemic. This really upsets me.
4
3
4
4
I need support to feel ok during the pandemic HI there That I may not find a job soon which is making me depressed I am not working at the moment, I am looking for a job but it has been really difficult to find one I have but seems like there are no entry level jobs currently and also some employers have ceased hiring
Yes I have emailed every employer where I was interviewed. Also I follow up with every hiring agency I have signed up to.
Have you networked with any previous co-workers? They might be able to help you find something as well,
Have you networked with any previous co-workers? They might be able to help you find something as well,
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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342
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sadness
job_crisis
I am in the middle of job hunting but it has been very difficult to find one during the pandemic. This really upsets me.
4
3
4
4
I need support to feel ok during the pandemic HI there That I may not find a job soon which is making me depressed I am not working at the moment, I am looking for a job but it has been really difficult to find one I have but seems like there are no entry level jobs currently and also some employers have ceased hiring ...
They all suggest to wait for a few months till things are bit normal. They also advice to keep trying.
Just from chatting with you for a few I can tell this is making you very anxious/
Just from chatting with you for a few I can tell this is making you very anxious/
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Reflection of feelings
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neutral
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342
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sadness
job_crisis
I am in the middle of job hunting but it has been very difficult to find one during the pandemic. This really upsets me.
4
3
4
4
I need support to feel ok during the pandemic HI there That I may not find a job soon which is making me depressed I am not working at the moment, I am looking for a job but it has been really difficult to find one I have but seems like there are no entry level jobs currently and also some employers have ceased hiring ...
Yes it indeed is
I have also been worried recently about finding another job because of the pandemic, but I found that getting back into my hobbies has helped keep me distracted and get my mind off of it.
I have also been worried recently about finding another job because of the pandemic, but I found that getting back into my hobbies has helped keep me distracted and get my mind off of it.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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sadness
job_crisis
I am in the middle of job hunting but it has been very difficult to find one during the pandemic. This really upsets me.
4
3
4
4
I need support to feel ok during the pandemic HI there That I may not find a job soon which is making me depressed I am not working at the moment, I am looking for a job but it has been really difficult to find one I have but seems like there are no entry level jobs currently and also some employers have ceased hiring ...
It is very difficult to stay home doing nothing, it is very upsetting I have started to paint which I have always enjoyed doing but again when I see others close me work and settled it makes me feel sad that I don't have a job
I think painting more would be very helpful!
I think painting more would be very helpful!
Others
Others
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10
sadness
job_crisis
I am in the middle of job hunting but it has been very difficult to find one during the pandemic. This really upsets me.
4
3
4
4
I need support to feel ok during the pandemic HI there That I may not find a job soon which is making me depressed I am not working at the moment, I am looking for a job but it has been really difficult to find one I have but seems like there are no entry level jobs currently and also some employers have ceased hiring ...
I should try doing that, thanks
No problem! If you have any other issues just chat in!
No problem! If you have any other issues just chat in!
Others
Others
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342
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sadness
job_crisis
I am in the middle of job hunting but it has been very difficult to find one during the pandemic. This really upsets me.
4
3
4
4
I need support to feel ok during the pandemic HI there That I may not find a job soon which is making me depressed I am not working at the moment, I am looking for a job but it has been really difficult to find one I have but seems like there are no entry level jobs currently and also some employers have ceased hiring ...
No issues other than this at the moment. Have you found a new job?
I have! I went through hiring agencies and got one. It did take a while, but it was super helpful.
I have! I went through hiring agencies and got one. It did take a while, but it was super helpful.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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342
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sadness
job_crisis
I am in the middle of job hunting but it has been very difficult to find one during the pandemic. This really upsets me.
4
3
4
4
I need support to feel ok during the pandemic HI there That I may not find a job soon which is making me depressed I am not working at the moment, I am looking for a job but it has been really difficult to find one I have but seems like there are no entry level jobs currently and also some employers have ceased hiring ...
Glad to hear, Congratulations!! Hope I find a job soon
I know you will find something soon!
I know you will find something soon!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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happy
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342
13
sadness
job_crisis
I am in the middle of job hunting but it has been very difficult to find one during the pandemic. This really upsets me.
4
3
4
4
I need support to feel ok during the pandemic HI there That I may not find a job soon which is making me depressed I am not working at the moment, I am looking for a job but it has been really difficult to find one I have but seems like there are no entry level jobs currently and also some employers have ceased hiring ...
Thanks!!
You're welcome!
You're welcome!
Others
Others
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happy
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1
anxiety
academic_pressure
I am at my first semester in a doctoral program and have a lot to do at once and have been feeling very anxious in the past few weeks.
4
2
4
4
Hello
Good afternoon! What can I help you with today?
Good afternoon! What can I help you with today?
Others
Others
4,035
neutral
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0.000116
0.000071
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344
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anxiety
academic_pressure
I am at my first semester in a doctoral program and have a lot to do at once and have been feeling very anxious in the past few weeks.
4
2
4
4
Hello
I've been feeling a lot of pressure and stress lately due to school
Oof, yes, school can be a tough situation. Are you close to the end of the semester?
Oof, yes, school can be a tough situation. Are you close to the end of the semester? That can be both a relief and stressful, because a break is near, but all the exams and projects are due.
Question, Reflection of feelings
Question
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anxiety
academic_pressure
I am at my first semester in a doctoral program and have a lot to do at once and have been feeling very anxious in the past few weeks.
4
2
4
4
Hello I've been feeling a lot of pressure and stress lately due to school
Yes, I am a little more than halfway done with the semester The thing is that I am in a doctoral program, so even though the semester is close to the end, I always need to continue working
Ahh, I see. That is a great deal of time and work. What are you studying?
Ahh, I see. That is a great deal of time and work. What are you studying?
Question
Question
4,037
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anxiety
academic_pressure
I am at my first semester in a doctoral program and have a lot to do at once and have been feeling very anxious in the past few weeks.
4
2
4
4
Hello I've been feeling a lot of pressure and stress lately due to school Yes, I am a little more than halfway done with the semester The thing is that I am in a doctoral program, so even though the semester is close to the end, I always need to continue working
It is... I am in psychology I have to work on my thesis on the side even with all of my classes and I have a hard time managing my time and keeping track
Time management can be very difficult with a normal class load, that sounds exhausting.
Time management can be very difficult with a normal class load, that sounds exhausting.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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sad
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344
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anxiety
academic_pressure
I am at my first semester in a doctoral program and have a lot to do at once and have been feeling very anxious in the past few weeks.
4
2
4
4
Hello I've been feeling a lot of pressure and stress lately due to school Yes, I am a little more than halfway done with the semester The thing is that I am in a doctoral program, so even though the semester is close to the end, I always need to continue working It is... I am in psychology I have to work on my thesis o...
It is!
Do calendars help you at all? I am a super visual person, so calendars and planners are invaluable to me, as well as different colors of ink and labels so I can visually divide my attention
Do calendars help you at all? I am a super visual person, so calendars and planners are invaluable to me, as well as different colors of ink and labels so I can visually divide my attention Getting a million different colors of pens and highlighters changed my organization for the better.
Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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happy
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anxiety
academic_pressure
I am at my first semester in a doctoral program and have a lot to do at once and have been feeling very anxious in the past few weeks.
4
2
4
4
Hello I've been feeling a lot of pressure and stress lately due to school Yes, I am a little more than halfway done with the semester The thing is that I am in a doctoral program, so even though the semester is close to the end, I always need to continue working It is... I am in psychology I have to work on my thesis o...
I do keep a physical and electronic agenda, but I feel like even if I write down my tasks, I find a way to procrastinate which is what I am having trouble with
Also, setting clear boundaries for your study/work and relax times may help. I like to set a timer for, say, 45 minutes, and work/write/read/study for that long, then, I get a 10 minute break. I'll go outside, refresh my coffee, grab a snack, dance to some music, stretch, then set another timer for 45 minutes, then ano...
Also, setting clear boundaries for your study/work and relax times may help. I like to set a timer for, say, 45 minutes, and work/write/read/study for that long, then, I get a 10 minute break. I'll go outside, refresh my coffee, grab a snack, dance to some music, stretch, then set another timer for 45 minutes, then ano...
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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anxiety
academic_pressure
I am at my first semester in a doctoral program and have a lot to do at once and have been feeling very anxious in the past few weeks.
4
2
4
4
Hello I've been feeling a lot of pressure and stress lately due to school Yes, I am a little more than halfway done with the semester The thing is that I am in a doctoral program, so even though the semester is close to the end, I always need to continue working It is... I am in psychology I have to work on my thesis o...
That is actually very helpful, I'll take note of it I think it would help to fix break times so I can actually focus on working
Or, like, today, I woke up and spent half an hour allowing myself to drink my coffee and scroll through Reddit. Then it was time to work on my group project for 45 minutes, then a break, then I worked again, took a break, went to a class, etc. Scheduling your breaks can be helpful too so your lizard brain doesn't freak...
Or, like, today, I woke up and spent half an hour allowing myself to drink my coffee and scroll through Reddit. Then it was time to work on my group project for 45 minutes, then a break, then I worked again, took a break, went to a class, etc. Scheduling your breaks can be helpful too so your lizard brain doesn't freak...
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
4,041
neutral
0.007246
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0.000138
0.000515
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344
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anxiety
academic_pressure
I am at my first semester in a doctoral program and have a lot to do at once and have been feeling very anxious in the past few weeks.
4
2
4
4
Hello I've been feeling a lot of pressure and stress lately due to school Yes, I am a little more than halfway done with the semester The thing is that I am in a doctoral program, so even though the semester is close to the end, I always need to continue working It is... I am in psychology I have to work on my thesis o...
I agree!!! That really is helpful, thank you
which, for me at least, is where the fatigue sets in. You're very welcome! I hope I was helpful. You seem positive and willing to try new things, and I think you will be successful even if you are tired.
which, for me at least, is where the fatigue sets in. You're very welcome! I hope I was helpful. You seem positive and willing to try new things, and I think you will be successful even if you are tired.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
4,042
happy
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344
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anxiety
academic_pressure
I am at my first semester in a doctoral program and have a lot to do at once and have been feeling very anxious in the past few weeks.
4
2
4
4
Hello I've been feeling a lot of pressure and stress lately due to school Yes, I am a little more than halfway done with the semester The thing is that I am in a doctoral program, so even though the semester is close to the end, I always need to continue working It is... I am in psychology I have to work on my thesis o...
The pandemic hasn't really helped either I'm always locked in my apartment and staying sitting down in front of my computer all day
Definitely not. Everyone's Maslow hierarchy getting knocked out from under them is extremely disconcerting.
Definitely not. Everyone's Maslow hierarchy getting knocked out from under them is extremely disconcerting.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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anxiety
academic_pressure
I am at my first semester in a doctoral program and have a lot to do at once and have been feeling very anxious in the past few weeks.
4
2
4
4
Hello I've been feeling a lot of pressure and stress lately due to school Yes, I am a little more than halfway done with the semester The thing is that I am in a doctoral program, so even though the semester is close to the end, I always need to continue working It is... I am in psychology I have to work on my thesis o...
Hahaha, Maslow, i like it.
Like how is a person supposed to study, self-actualize, when we literally don't know what will happen next?
Like how is a person supposed to study, self-actualize, when we literally don't know what will happen next?
Others
Others
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anxiety
academic_pressure
I am at my first semester in a doctoral program and have a lot to do at once and have been feeling very anxious in the past few weeks.
4
2
4
4
Hello I've been feeling a lot of pressure and stress lately due to school Yes, I am a little more than halfway done with the semester The thing is that I am in a doctoral program, so even though the semester is close to the end, I always need to continue working It is... I am in psychology I have to work on my thesis o...
I agree! I've also been turning to drugs a lot lately due to the situation. Procrastinating makes me feel guilty, and I end my day too early to smoke and focus my mind on something other than studying....
Are there aspects of your study that you dislike, or are you just ready to be done with school? Little of column A + column b?
Are there aspects of your study that you dislike, or are you just ready to be done with school? Little of column A + column b?
Question
Question
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anxiety
academic_pressure
I am at my first semester in a doctoral program and have a lot to do at once and have been feeling very anxious in the past few weeks.
4
2
4
4
Hello I've been feeling a lot of pressure and stress lately due to school Yes, I am a little more than halfway done with the semester The thing is that I am in a doctoral program, so even though the semester is close to the end, I always need to continue working It is... I am in psychology I have to work on my thesis o...
Hm, I think it has less to do with liking or disliking, and more with starting a very hard and lengthy degree online without any social contact
Ah, yes, that makes sense. And working from home is infamously hard, again, for lack of boundaries, so in addition to just not seeing people and getting the casual affirmation and confirmation messages on a daily basis of like "hey Jim you did a great job on that spreadsheet" or "Haha Jessica you're so funny", we also ...
Ah, yes, that makes sense. And working from home is infamously hard, again, for lack of boundaries, so in addition to just not seeing people and getting the casual affirmation and confirmation messages on a daily basis of like "hey Jim you did a great job on that spreadsheet" or "Haha Jessica you're so funny", we also ...
Others
Others
4,046
neutral
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0.001408
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344
13
anxiety
academic_pressure
I am at my first semester in a doctoral program and have a lot to do at once and have been feeling very anxious in the past few weeks.
4
2
4
4
Hello I've been feeling a lot of pressure and stress lately due to school Yes, I am a little more than halfway done with the semester The thing is that I am in a doctoral program, so even though the semester is close to the end, I always need to continue working It is... I am in psychology I have to work on my thesis o...
Ugh exactly
Listening to lectures while the doorbell is ringing and it's just so strange and we aren't set up to do it. That's why I'm a big fan of specific spaces in my house since March. I tried to sit in bed with my laptop and do things but 1. I'm old and it hurts my wrists and 2. my headspace is so completely different from be...
Listening to lectures while the doorbell is ringing and it's just so strange and we aren't set up to do it. That's why I'm a big fan of specific spaces in my house since March. I tried to sit in bed with my laptop and do things but 1. I'm old and it hurts my wrists and 2. my headspace is so completely different from be...
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I am at my first semester in a doctoral program and have a lot to do at once and have been feeling very anxious in the past few weeks.
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Hello I've been feeling a lot of pressure and stress lately due to school Yes, I am a little more than halfway done with the semester The thing is that I am in a doctoral program, so even though the semester is close to the end, I always need to continue working It is... I am in psychology I have to work on my thesis o...
I agree, that makes a lot of sense! Thank you You have been a big help today and I really feel listened and understood. I really appreciate it
I am very glad to hear that! You sound motivated to succeed and I think that you deserve to take care of yourself and stay healthy to complete your studies. It will be hard but it will also be worth it, and you should be proud. Good luck with everything!
I am very glad to hear that! You sound motivated to succeed and I think that you deserve to take care of yourself and stay healthy to complete your studies. It will be hard but it will also be worth it, and you should be proud. Good luck with everything!
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I am at my first semester in a doctoral program and have a lot to do at once and have been feeling very anxious in the past few weeks.
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Hello I've been feeling a lot of pressure and stress lately due to school Yes, I am a little more than halfway done with the semester The thing is that I am in a doctoral program, so even though the semester is close to the end, I always need to continue working It is... I am in psychology I have to work on my thesis o...
Wow, thank you! Have a great day
Thank you! You too!
Thank you! You too!
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I found out that my boss has not been paying me accurately. I am so upset because I don't know what to do. I feel like I should quit.
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Hi there. I am not doing very well today. I am really angry.
I'm sorry to hear that you are feeling angry today. Tell me more about that.
I'm sorry to hear that you are feeling angry today. Tell me more about that.
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Hi there. I am not doing very well today. I am really angry.
I recently discovered some discrepancies in my paycheck. I am not sure what to do to correct the situation. I am just so upset right now.
I can definitely understand why this could make someone upset. What are you considering doing about the situation?
I can definitely understand why this could make someone upset. What are you considering doing about the situation?
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I found out that my boss has not been paying me accurately. I am so upset because I don't know what to do. I feel like I should quit.
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Hi there. I am not doing very well today. I am really angry. I recently discovered some discrepancies in my paycheck. I am not sure what to do to correct the situation. I am just so upset right now.
I'm not sure. I thought about quitting but I have been working there for over 7 years. I haven't even told my boss yet.
That sounds really tough. Sometimes people who are in your situation find it comforting to talk to someone they are close with . What do you think about this?
That sounds really tough. Sometimes people who are in your situation find it comforting to talk to someone they are close with . What do you think about this?
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I found out that my boss has not been paying me accurately. I am so upset because I don't know what to do. I feel like I should quit.
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Hi there. I am not doing very well today. I am really angry. I recently discovered some discrepancies in my paycheck. I am not sure what to do to correct the situation. I am just so upset right now. I'm not sure. I thought about quitting but I have been working there for over 7 years. I haven't even told my boss yet.
I think that could be helpful. I might call my sister and ask her advice. It is probably not a good idea to quit my job.
It sounds like your sister might be able to help you figure out this situation. It can always be helpful to make a list of pros and cons about the situation. You originally said you were angry because of a discrepancy with your paycheck, but on the other hand it sounds like you are considering quitting your job altoget...
It sounds like your sister might be able to help you figure out this situation. It can always be helpful to make a list of pros and cons about the situation. You originally said you were angry because of a discrepancy with your paycheck, but on the other hand it sounds like you are considering quitting your job altoget...
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I found out that my boss has not been paying me accurately. I am so upset because I don't know what to do. I feel like I should quit.
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Hi there. I am not doing very well today. I am really angry. I recently discovered some discrepancies in my paycheck. I am not sure what to do to correct the situation. I am just so upset right now. I'm not sure. I thought about quitting but I have been working there for over 7 years. I haven't even told my boss yet. I...
Wow that is a great idea. A list of pros and cons might help me decide if I should stay there. I think I will make one today. I also need to tell my boss. Maybe it was just a clerical error. I hope I'm not reading too much into it.
It always seems easy to read to much into things. Another suggestion is to think about how the clerical error happened. Was it because of your boss? Or perhaps just an accident?
It always seems easy to read to much into things. Another suggestion is to think about how the clerical error happened. Was it because of your boss? Or perhaps just an accident?
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I found out that my boss has not been paying me accurately. I am so upset because I don't know what to do. I feel like I should quit.
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Hi there. I am not doing very well today. I am really angry. I recently discovered some discrepancies in my paycheck. I am not sure what to do to correct the situation. I am just so upset right now. I'm not sure. I thought about quitting but I have been working there for over 7 years. I haven't even told my boss yet. I...
That is what I am unsure about. I think I have to tell my boss so they can look into this issue. I hope my sister is able to give me some good advice about what to say!
It sounds like you are wanting to tell your boss about this. How do you imagine you will go about telling your boss?
It sounds like you are wanting to tell your boss about this. How do you imagine you will go about telling your boss?
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