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When Im around a group of people i get very scared and shy.
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HI
hi there, how are you feeling at the moment?
hi there, how are you feeling at the moment?
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Question
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anxiety
appearance_anxiety
When Im around a group of people i get very scared and shy.
4
1
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5
HI
Im feeling okay, just thinking about my anxiety
Ah I hear you, I suffer from that really badly too. Do you want to talk about it?
Ah I hear you, I suffer from that really badly too. Do you want to talk about it?
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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anxiety
appearance_anxiety
When Im around a group of people i get very scared and shy.
4
1
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5
HI Im feeling okay, just thinking about my anxiety
Yes, i would love too.
Well, could you give me a little bit of background .. are you seeking help for it for instance?
Well, could you give me a little bit of background .. are you seeking help for it for instance?
Question
Question
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anxiety
appearance_anxiety
When Im around a group of people i get very scared and shy.
4
1
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HI Im feeling okay, just thinking about my anxiety Yes, i would love too.
Im not sure when my anxiety started but its like I have a hard time sleeping at night or it feel like i cant breath its very scary so its like i have panic attacks.
Ah yes I know how that feels. Has anyone ever taught you any relaxation techniques?
Ah yes I know how that feels. Has anyone ever taught you any relaxation techniques?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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anxiety
appearance_anxiety
When Im around a group of people i get very scared and shy.
4
1
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5
HI Im feeling okay, just thinking about my anxiety Yes, i would love too. Im not sure when my anxiety started but its like I have a hard time sleeping at night or it feel like i cant breath its very scary so its like i have panic attacks.
That feels so scary. Sometimes I stay up till the morning because I hate the feeling. And I haven't found any.... Do you have some in mind
Well, there are some breathing techniques that you could practice .. they can be quite helpful
Well, there are some breathing techniques that you could practice .. they can be quite helpful
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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fear
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anxiety
appearance_anxiety
When Im around a group of people i get very scared and shy.
4
1
5
5
HI Im feeling okay, just thinking about my anxiety Yes, i would love too. Im not sure when my anxiety started but its like I have a hard time sleeping at night or it feel like i cant breath its very scary so its like i have panic attacks. That feels so scary. Sometimes I stay up till the morning because I hate the feel...
Thanks I will try. I have tried this app called calm also
Ah how did you find that? Is it useful?
Ah how did you find that? Is it useful? Would you consider taking some sort of medication?
Question, Providing Suggestions
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anxiety
appearance_anxiety
When Im around a group of people i get very scared and shy.
4
1
5
5
HI Im feeling okay, just thinking about my anxiety Yes, i would love too. Im not sure when my anxiety started but its like I have a hard time sleeping at night or it feel like i cant breath its very scary so its like i have panic attacks. That feels so scary. Sometimes I stay up till the morning because I hate the feel...
Not really.... Then its like i hate being in crowds, it makes me very anxious.
Yes I do too. I try to avoid other people as much as possible :(
Yes I do too. I try to avoid other people as much as possible :(
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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8
anxiety
appearance_anxiety
When Im around a group of people i get very scared and shy.
4
1
5
5
HI Im feeling okay, just thinking about my anxiety Yes, i would love too. Im not sure when my anxiety started but its like I have a hard time sleeping at night or it feel like i cant breath its very scary so its like i have panic attacks. That feels so scary. Sometimes I stay up till the morning because I hate the feel...
RIght I thought I was the only one.
No it's surprisingly common. It can lead to a condition called agoraphobia, in which people are reluctant to go far from home
No it's surprisingly common. It can lead to a condition called agoraphobia, in which people are reluctant to go far from home
Information
Information
3,769
neutral
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321
9
anxiety
appearance_anxiety
When Im around a group of people i get very scared and shy.
4
1
5
5
HI Im feeling okay, just thinking about my anxiety Yes, i would love too. Im not sure when my anxiety started but its like I have a hard time sleeping at night or it feel like i cant breath its very scary so its like i have panic attacks. That feels so scary. Sometimes I stay up till the morning because I hate the feel...
That's how I feel. I have a boyfriend and we have a very close relationship but its like when I get around a crowd of people I get anxious.
*nods understandingly* Sometimes I feel that my boyfriend is the only person I feel totally comfortable with. I hate interacting with other people. That's why I do crowd work lol
*nods understandingly* Sometimes I feel that my boyfriend is the only person I feel totally comfortable with. I hate interacting with other people. That's why I do crowd work lol
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
3,770
fear
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10
anxiety
appearance_anxiety
When Im around a group of people i get very scared and shy.
4
1
5
5
HI Im feeling okay, just thinking about my anxiety Yes, i would love too. Im not sure when my anxiety started but its like I have a hard time sleeping at night or it feel like i cant breath its very scary so its like i have panic attacks. That feels so scary. Sometimes I stay up till the morning because I hate the feel...
LOL yes. I feel like I'm anti social sometimes
I don't think it's really anti social, it's just a result of a chemical imbalance I think. But it's a nuisance.
I don't think it's really anti social, it's just a result of a chemical imbalance I think. But it's a nuisance. I hope I have been able to provide you with some help and let you know that you are not on your own in this! Can you be the first to press the quit button and then take the survey as I can't do it from my end...
Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions
Affirmation and Reassurance
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anxiety
appearance_anxiety
When Im around a group of people i get very scared and shy.
4
1
5
5
HI Im feeling okay, just thinking about my anxiety Yes, i would love too. Im not sure when my anxiety started but its like I have a hard time sleeping at night or it feel like i cant breath its very scary so its like i have panic attacks. That feels so scary. Sometimes I stay up till the morning because I hate the feel...
thank you for talking to me
you're most welcome and all the best
you're most welcome and all the best
Others
Others
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12
anxiety
appearance_anxiety
When Im around a group of people i get very scared and shy.
4
1
5
5
HI Im feeling okay, just thinking about my anxiety Yes, i would love too. Im not sure when my anxiety started but its like I have a hard time sleeping at night or it feel like i cant breath its very scary so its like i have panic attacks. That feels so scary. Sometimes I stay up till the morning because I hate the feel...
you too
you need to press quit :)
you need to press quit :)
Information
Information
3,773
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sadness
problems_with_friends
My roommates for next semester do not respect COVID safety or social distancing.
2
1
5
5
Hello, how are you today?
Hi. How is life treating you at the moment? Would you like to talk about any problems?
Hi. How is life treating you at the moment? Would you like to talk about any problems?
Question
Question
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sadness
problems_with_friends
My roommates for next semester do not respect COVID safety or social distancing.
2
1
5
5
Hello, how are you today?
Thank you! And it is good except for one problem. I am in college and my roommates for next semester do not care about COVID -- they continue to go out and party. This upsets me and I have talked to them about it but they still do not care.
So you feel that you are being put in danger by the actions of your room-mate?
So you feel that you are being put in danger by the actions of your room-mate?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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problems_with_friends
My roommates for next semester do not respect COVID safety or social distancing.
2
1
5
5
Hello, how are you today? Thank you! And it is good except for one problem. I am in college and my roommates for next semester do not care about COVID -- they continue to go out and party. This upsets me and I have talked to them about it but they still do not care.
Yes, absolutely. I do not want to get covid and am worried about long term health effects. I have shared this with them but they still do not care.
I can totally understand how you feel. I absolutely hate how some people are pretending that the pandemic is not real and they do not need to worry.
I can totally understand how you feel. I absolutely hate how some people are pretending that the pandemic is not real and they do not need to worry.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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problems_with_friends
My roommates for next semester do not respect COVID safety or social distancing.
2
1
5
5
Hello, how are you today? Thank you! And it is good except for one problem. I am in college and my roommates for next semester do not care about COVID -- they continue to go out and party. This upsets me and I have talked to them about it but they still do not care. Yes, absolutely. I do not want to get covid and am wo...
Also, I am in a triple room in my sorority house for clarification. I feel my risk getting it in the room is high if they continue to not respect guidelines.
Do not worry, your fears are totally grounded. Some people really just need to grow up and get educated.
Do not worry, your fears are totally grounded. Some people really just need to grow up and get educated.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,788
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323
5
sadness
problems_with_friends
My roommates for next semester do not respect COVID safety or social distancing.
2
1
5
5
Hello, how are you today? Thank you! And it is good except for one problem. I am in college and my roommates for next semester do not care about COVID -- they continue to go out and party. This upsets me and I have talked to them about it but they still do not care. Yes, absolutely. I do not want to get covid and am wo...
I agree and appreciate that I am not alone in thinking that! Many college students have been very irresponsible during the pandemic which is upsetting to me.
Is there anyone at your college who could help you with this? Perhaps move you into a single room?
Is there anyone at your college who could help you with this? Perhaps move you into a single room?
Question
Question
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sadness
problems_with_friends
My roommates for next semester do not respect COVID safety or social distancing.
2
1
5
5
Hello, how are you today? Thank you! And it is good except for one problem. I am in college and my roommates for next semester do not care about COVID -- they continue to go out and party. This upsets me and I have talked to them about it but they still do not care. Yes, absolutely. I do not want to get covid and am wo...
No, there aren't any sorority rooms available at my sorority house and all of the dorms/apartments are full already but I've tried **single not sorority
Yes they certainly have. They seem to think that it will never happen to them and do not realise that they are putting others at risk
Yes they certainly have. They seem to think that it will never happen to them and do not realise that they are putting others at risk
Others
Others
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sadness
problems_with_friends
My roommates for next semester do not respect COVID safety or social distancing.
2
1
5
5
Hello, how are you today? Thank you! And it is good except for one problem. I am in college and my roommates for next semester do not care about COVID -- they continue to go out and party. This upsets me and I have talked to them about it but they still do not care. Yes, absolutely. I do not want to get covid and am wo...
agreed
Is it possible for you to take some time off school?
Is it possible for you to take some time off school?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,791
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sadness
problems_with_friends
My roommates for next semester do not respect COVID safety or social distancing.
2
1
5
5
Hello, how are you today? Thank you! And it is good except for one problem. I am in college and my roommates for next semester do not care about COVID -- they continue to go out and party. This upsets me and I have talked to them about it but they still do not care. Yes, absolutely. I do not want to get covid and am wo...
I shouldn't do that -- I am applying to law school when I graduate so I feel like it'd be a bad look. it'd also be bad for my mental health to stay home, and I'd rather take the classes I need next semester
So you feel as though you are trapped .. you can't leave school but at the same time you are being put at risk through no fault of your own
So you feel as though you are trapped .. you can't leave school but at the same time you are being put at risk through no fault of your own
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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problems_with_friends
My roommates for next semester do not respect COVID safety or social distancing.
2
1
5
5
Hello, how are you today? Thank you! And it is good except for one problem. I am in college and my roommates for next semester do not care about COVID -- they continue to go out and party. This upsets me and I have talked to them about it but they still do not care. Yes, absolutely. I do not want to get covid and am wo...
right, it's very uncomfortable and no matter how many times I tell them how risky they are being to not only themselves but others they do not care also one of them is pre med which is even worse lmao
Please be assured that you are being sensible and that they are the ones at fault
Please be assured that you are being sensible and that they are the ones at fault
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,793
disgusted
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sadness
problems_with_friends
My roommates for next semester do not respect COVID safety or social distancing.
2
1
5
5
Hello, how are you today? Thank you! And it is good except for one problem. I am in college and my roommates for next semester do not care about COVID -- they continue to go out and party. This upsets me and I have talked to them about it but they still do not care. Yes, absolutely. I do not want to get covid and am wo...
thank u :)
Let's hope that this is over soon .. this has been an absolutely terrible year.
Let's hope that this is over soon .. this has been an absolutely terrible year.
Others
Others
3,794
happy
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sadness
problems_with_friends
My roommates for next semester do not respect COVID safety or social distancing.
2
1
5
5
Hello, how are you today? Thank you! And it is good except for one problem. I am in college and my roommates for next semester do not care about COVID -- they continue to go out and party. This upsets me and I have talked to them about it but they still do not care. Yes, absolutely. I do not want to get covid and am wo...
Agreed! Hoping for that vaccine soon what challenges have you faced from the pandemic?
Here in the UK they have started to roll it out.
Here in the UK they have started to roll it out.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
3,795
neutral
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sadness
problems_with_friends
My roommates for next semester do not respect COVID safety or social distancing.
2
1
5
5
Hello, how are you today? Thank you! And it is good except for one problem. I am in college and my roommates for next semester do not care about COVID -- they continue to go out and party. This upsets me and I have talked to them about it but they still do not care. Yes, absolutely. I do not want to get covid and am wo...
I am so jealous! Things are so much better not in the USA!
I have to agree ;) But we have a large infection and death rate here too, largely due to government irresponsibility
I have to agree ;) But we have a large infection and death rate here too, largely due to government irresponsibility
Others
Others
3,796
happy
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sadness
problems_with_friends
My roommates for next semester do not respect COVID safety or social distancing.
2
1
5
5
Hello, how are you today? Thank you! And it is good except for one problem. I am in college and my roommates for next semester do not care about COVID -- they continue to go out and party. This upsets me and I have talked to them about it but they still do not care. Yes, absolutely. I do not want to get covid and am wo...
haha yes we had the same issue with government mishandling everything ... so frustrating
Do you feel it would be better to be somewhere like New Zealand then, where there have been very few cases? It is a lovely country.
Do you feel it would be better to be somewhere like New Zealand then, where there have been very few cases? It is a lovely country.
Question
Question
3,797
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problems_with_friends
My roommates for next semester do not respect COVID safety or social distancing.
2
1
5
5
Hello, how are you today? Thank you! And it is good except for one problem. I am in college and my roommates for next semester do not care about COVID -- they continue to go out and party. This upsets me and I have talked to them about it but they still do not care. Yes, absolutely. I do not want to get covid and am wo...
haha yes definitely! I would love to study abroad next year so I hope that will still be an option and COVID will be better then
So, you feel frustrated both by your roommate and also the conditions in your country?
So, you feel frustrated both by your roommate and also the conditions in your country?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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sadness
problems_with_friends
My roommates for next semester do not respect COVID safety or social distancing.
2
1
5
5
Hello, how are you today? Thank you! And it is good except for one problem. I am in college and my roommates for next semester do not care about COVID -- they continue to go out and party. This upsets me and I have talked to them about it but they still do not care. Yes, absolutely. I do not want to get covid and am wo...
yes for sure
I can sincerely wish that the world is in a better place next year
I can sincerely wish that the world is in a better place next year
Others
Others
3,799
neutral
0.004955
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0.972596
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16
sadness
problems_with_friends
My roommates for next semester do not respect COVID safety or social distancing.
2
1
5
5
Hello, how are you today? Thank you! And it is good except for one problem. I am in college and my roommates for next semester do not care about COVID -- they continue to go out and party. This upsets me and I have talked to them about it but they still do not care. Yes, absolutely. I do not want to get covid and am wo...
As do I... although I'm not sure if things will ever go back to the way they were before. But hopefully that is for the best
Perhaps we can learn something from this year and improve ourselves
Perhaps we can learn something from this year and improve ourselves
Others
Others
3,800
surprised
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323
17
sadness
problems_with_friends
My roommates for next semester do not respect COVID safety or social distancing.
2
1
5
5
Hello, how are you today? Thank you! And it is good except for one problem. I am in college and my roommates for next semester do not care about COVID -- they continue to go out and party. This upsets me and I have talked to them about it but they still do not care. Yes, absolutely. I do not want to get covid and am wo...
I agree! It's definitely been a year of reflection for sure
I hope I have been able to be of some help, just by allowing you to talk things out
I hope I have been able to be of some help, just by allowing you to talk things out
Others
Others
3,801
surprised
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18
sadness
problems_with_friends
My roommates for next semester do not respect COVID safety or social distancing.
2
1
5
5
Hello, how are you today? Thank you! And it is good except for one problem. I am in college and my roommates for next semester do not care about COVID -- they continue to go out and party. This upsets me and I have talked to them about it but they still do not care. Yes, absolutely. I do not want to get covid and am wo...
yes thank you you definitely have! enjoy the rest of your evening :)
And you too .. thanks for talking!
And you too .. thanks for talking!
Others
Others
3,802
happy
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0.000014
0.000006
0.999805
0.000044
0.000019
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324
1
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I had a huge fight with my girlfriend and she left me. She accused me of neglecting her even though I needed to spend time with my family and spent as much time with her as I could.
4
2
4
4
Hi I am feeling blue, things aren't going well at all
Hello, hello. I am so sorry to hear. Can I ask you more about it?
Hello, hello. I am so sorry to hear. Can I ask you more about it?
Question
Question
3,803
sad
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324
2
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I had a huge fight with my girlfriend and she left me. She accused me of neglecting her even though I needed to spend time with my family and spent as much time with her as I could.
4
2
4
4
Hi I am feeling blue, things aren't going well at all
my girlfriend and I split after 4 years!
Oh no !!!
Oh no !!! I am sorry, how do you feel? sad? joyful?
Others, Reflection of feelings
Others
3,804
sad
0.000103
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0.000027
0.000148
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324
3
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I had a huge fight with my girlfriend and she left me. She accused me of neglecting her even though I needed to spend time with my family and spent as much time with her as I could.
4
2
4
4
Hi I am feeling blue, things aren't going well at all my girlfriend and I split after 4 years!
Ver sad and lonely. I loved her Very* What should I do?
oh no. I can totally understand that feeling. 4 years is a long time.
oh no. I can totally understand that feeling. 4 years is a long time.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,805
sad
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0.000332
0.000094
0.000108
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0.000687
324
4
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I had a huge fight with my girlfriend and she left me. She accused me of neglecting her even though I needed to spend time with my family and spent as much time with her as I could.
4
2
4
4
Hi I am feeling blue, things aren't going well at all my girlfriend and I split after 4 years! Ver sad and lonely. I loved her Very* What should I do?
Thanks it is. She said I was neglecting her and we had a big fight. haven't talked to her in a month
I would recommend doing your own thing, for example, devote into your hobby or do some other jobs.
I would recommend doing your own thing, for example, devote into your hobby or do some other jobs.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
I had a huge fight with my girlfriend and she left me. She accused me of neglecting her even though I needed to spend time with my family and spent as much time with her as I could.
4
2
4
4
Hi I am feeling blue, things aren't going well at all my girlfriend and I split after 4 years! Ver sad and lonely. I loved her Very* What should I do? Thanks it is. She said I was neglecting her and we had a big fight. haven't talked to her in a month
Do you think drinking alcohol will help?
Ohhhh. well. I never ditch my partner, always my partner ditch me, so I do not know why they do that.
Ohhhh. well. I never ditch my partner, always my partner ditch me, so I do not know why they do that. I think it will worsen.
Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,807
neutral
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0.000153
0.88367
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6
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I had a huge fight with my girlfriend and she left me. She accused me of neglecting her even though I needed to spend time with my family and spent as much time with her as I could.
4
2
4
4
Hi I am feeling blue, things aren't going well at all my girlfriend and I split after 4 years! Ver sad and lonely. I loved her Very* What should I do? Thanks it is. She said I was neglecting her and we had a big fight. haven't talked to her in a month Do you think drinking alcohol will help?
You had a similar experience? I want to drink till I forget about her.
yes, I quit alcohol 3 years ago. it took me 20 years
yes, I quit alcohol 3 years ago. it took me 20 years
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
3,808
neutral
0.00346
0.000159
0.000224
0.000451
0.989717
0.001588
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324
7
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I had a huge fight with my girlfriend and she left me. She accused me of neglecting her even though I needed to spend time with my family and spent as much time with her as I could.
4
2
4
4
Hi I am feeling blue, things aren't going well at all my girlfriend and I split after 4 years! Ver sad and lonely. I loved her Very* What should I do? Thanks it is. She said I was neglecting her and we had a big fight. haven't talked to her in a month Do you think drinking alcohol will help? You had a similar experienc...
How did you do it?
It took me 1 whole year to forget about my ex
It took me 1 whole year to forget about my ex It took me 1 whole year to forget about my ex my ex told me I am a partygirl because I drink too much, so I stopped. Trying to get him like me more. Since then I have not been drinking.
Self-disclosure, Self-disclosure, Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
3,809
neutral
0.006551
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0.000152
0.0013
0.814486
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324
8
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I had a huge fight with my girlfriend and she left me. She accused me of neglecting her even though I needed to spend time with my family and spent as much time with her as I could.
4
2
4
4
Hi I am feeling blue, things aren't going well at all my girlfriend and I split after 4 years! Ver sad and lonely. I loved her Very* What should I do? Thanks it is. She said I was neglecting her and we had a big fight. haven't talked to her in a month Do you think drinking alcohol will help? You had a similar experienc...
Did you find someone else?
nope. I am cool without man
nope. I am cool without man
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,810
neutral
0.003667
0.000032
0.000196
0.000201
0.986172
0.000638
0.009095
324
9
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I had a huge fight with my girlfriend and she left me. She accused me of neglecting her even though I needed to spend time with my family and spent as much time with her as I could.
4
2
4
4
Hi I am feeling blue, things aren't going well at all my girlfriend and I split after 4 years! Ver sad and lonely. I loved her Very* What should I do? Thanks it is. She said I was neglecting her and we had a big fight. haven't talked to her in a month Do you think drinking alcohol will help? You had a similar experienc...
that's the way to be. but I am too lonely. I have a secret account so I can still see her on facebook do you think that's a good idea?
haha, smart, yes. No need to force yourself to forget about her.
haha, smart, yes. No need to force yourself to forget about her. I heard men cannot do without a woman but women don't really need a man
Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,811
sad
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1
disgust
procrastination
I keep procrastinating cleaning, doing crafts, etc, stuff that I want to do and to get done, but that I seem to be unmotivated to do. It's frustrating.
4
3
5
5
hi anyone there?
yes, hello how are you today?
yes, hello how are you today?
Question
Question
3,822
neutral
0.00081
0.000042
0.000903
0.001902
0.991229
0.000302
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326
2
disgust
procrastination
I keep procrastinating cleaning, doing crafts, etc, stuff that I want to do and to get done, but that I seem to be unmotivated to do. It's frustrating.
4
3
5
5
hi anyone there?
hi, I am okay, but am very frustrated at how often i procrastinate stuff i need to or want to do it's hard to even get started sometimes, i think it's pandemic frustrations
I understand how you feel, I also procrastinate...I have found if it takes less than 2 minutes to do it, I go ahead and do it, it takes some of the stress off.
I understand how you feel, I also procrastinate...I have found if it takes less than 2 minutes to do it, I go ahead and do it, it takes some of the stress off.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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angry
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3
disgust
procrastination
I keep procrastinating cleaning, doing crafts, etc, stuff that I want to do and to get done, but that I seem to be unmotivated to do. It's frustrating.
4
3
5
5
hi anyone there? hi, I am okay, but am very frustrated at how often i procrastinate stuff i need to or want to do it's hard to even get started sometimes, i think it's pandemic frustrations
hmm so you prioritize the quick tasks?
this pandemic most definitely has caused frustrations for everyone
this pandemic most definitely has caused frustrations for everyone yes, it makes the list of things to do a little shorter and not as overwhelming
Affirmation and Reassurance, Others
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,824
neutral
0.003465
0.000053
0.00011
0.000494
0.980214
0.000389
0.015275
326
4
disgust
procrastination
I keep procrastinating cleaning, doing crafts, etc, stuff that I want to do and to get done, but that I seem to be unmotivated to do. It's frustrating.
4
3
5
5
hi anyone there? hi, I am okay, but am very frustrated at how often i procrastinate stuff i need to or want to do it's hard to even get started sometimes, i think it's pandemic frustrations hmm so you prioritize the quick tasks?
i think when I can GO places to do things with other people it will be easier to be motivated/active i have tried breaking jobs down into smaller tasks that does help, you're right on that but it breaks my heart that i have not touched my art and sewing! i had all this "extra" time over this past year, and couldn't cra...
of course! i got into puzzles...and games with my little one helped pass the time
of course! i got into puzzles...and games with my little one helped pass the time also, taking walks gets you that breath of fresh air that is sometimes needed
Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,825
sad
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disgust
procrastination
I keep procrastinating cleaning, doing crafts, etc, stuff that I want to do and to get done, but that I seem to be unmotivated to do. It's frustrating.
4
3
5
5
hi anyone there? hi, I am okay, but am very frustrated at how often i procrastinate stuff i need to or want to do it's hard to even get started sometimes, i think it's pandemic frustrations hmm so you prioritize the quick tasks? i think when I can GO places to do things with other people it will be easier to be motivat...
i live alone, but have played some online games with my sis. Walks are good but I can't walk with my friends (we are on a stay at home order presently) and I find it hard to motivate myself when it's just me but i agree walks are really helpful, when i get out i really enjoy them. Okay that gives me some good things to...
i understand that.
i understand that.
Others
Others
3,826
happy
0.062412
0.000928
0.001055
0.554351
0.101861
0.261125
0.018268
326
6
disgust
procrastination
I keep procrastinating cleaning, doing crafts, etc, stuff that I want to do and to get done, but that I seem to be unmotivated to do. It's frustrating.
4
3
5
5
hi anyone there? hi, I am okay, but am very frustrated at how often i procrastinate stuff i need to or want to do it's hard to even get started sometimes, i think it's pandemic frustrations hmm so you prioritize the quick tasks? i think when I can GO places to do things with other people it will be easier to be motivat...
where are you located?
anytime, hope you stay well
anytime, hope you stay well united states- louisiana
Others, Self-disclosure
Others
3,827
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0.000179
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326
7
disgust
procrastination
I keep procrastinating cleaning, doing crafts, etc, stuff that I want to do and to get done, but that I seem to be unmotivated to do. It's frustrating.
4
3
5
5
hi anyone there? hi, I am okay, but am very frustrated at how often i procrastinate stuff i need to or want to do it's hard to even get started sometimes, i think it's pandemic frustrations hmm so you prioritize the quick tasks? i think when I can GO places to do things with other people it will be easier to be motivat...
Im in ONtario CAnada....thank you, you too! bye for now.
bye!
bye!
Others
Others
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happy
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327
1
anger
issues_with_parents
My parents grounded me for something I didn't do. My sibling broke the TV, I did not!!
4
2
5
5
Hello
Hi! How are you today?
Hi! How are you today?
Others
Others
3,829
neutral
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327
2
anger
issues_with_parents
My parents grounded me for something I didn't do. My sibling broke the TV, I did not!!
4
2
5
5
Hello
I'm grounded so i'm not happy
I'm sorry to hear that. It must be hard.
I'm sorry to hear that. It must be hard. Can I ask what has happened?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Question
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,830
sad
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327
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anger
issues_with_parents
My parents grounded me for something I didn't do. My sibling broke the TV, I did not!!
4
2
5
5
Hello I'm grounded so i'm not happy
My sibling broke the tv and blamed it on me and my parents believed them
Oh no! I'm sorry to hear that. That must be a hard situation, to not have your folks believe you.
Oh no! I'm sorry to hear that. That must be a hard situation, to not have your folks believe you.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
3,831
angry
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327
4
anger
issues_with_parents
My parents grounded me for something I didn't do. My sibling broke the TV, I did not!!
4
2
5
5
Hello I'm grounded so i'm not happy My sibling broke the tv and blamed it on me and my parents believed them
It is very frustrating
Have you spoken with your sibling about why they lied?
Have you spoken with your sibling about why they lied?
Question
Question
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anger
issues_with_parents
My parents grounded me for something I didn't do. My sibling broke the TV, I did not!!
4
2
5
5
Hello I'm grounded so i'm not happy My sibling broke the tv and blamed it on me and my parents believed them It is very frustrating
No, we just got into a yelling fight about it and are both in our rooms now
I'm sure it's frustrating when you know you're correct and no one believes you.
I'm sure it's frustrating when you know you're correct and no one believes you.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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issues_with_parents
My parents grounded me for something I didn't do. My sibling broke the TV, I did not!!
4
2
5
5
Hello I'm grounded so i'm not happy My sibling broke the tv and blamed it on me and my parents believed them It is very frustrating No, we just got into a yelling fight about it and are both in our rooms now
Yes it is I'd rather just run away from everything
It's not cool that you're sibling lied, but it may be a good time to breathe a second. Running away never solved anything
It's not cool that you're sibling lied, but it may be a good time to breathe a second. Running away never solved anything
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,834
neutral
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327
7
anger
issues_with_parents
My parents grounded me for something I didn't do. My sibling broke the TV, I did not!!
4
2
5
5
Hello I'm grounded so i'm not happy My sibling broke the tv and blamed it on me and my parents believed them It is very frustrating No, we just got into a yelling fight about it and are both in our rooms now Yes it is I'd rather just run away from everything
It is late at night
So probably it's quiet. this is a good time to take a breath and , literally try and sleep on it.
So probably it's quiet. this is a good time to take a breath and , literally try and sleep on it. What do you want to see happen?
Providing Suggestions, Question
Providing Suggestions
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anger
issues_with_parents
My parents grounded me for something I didn't do. My sibling broke the TV, I did not!!
4
2
5
5
Hello I'm grounded so i'm not happy My sibling broke the tv and blamed it on me and my parents believed them It is very frustrating No, we just got into a yelling fight about it and are both in our rooms now Yes it is I'd rather just run away from everything It is late at night
that is probably a good idea. I want my sibling to be punished not me and for parents to believe me
OK, I understand.
OK, I understand. So, then, it's how to figure out how to make that happen.
Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions
Affirmation and Reassurance
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327
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anger
issues_with_parents
My parents grounded me for something I didn't do. My sibling broke the TV, I did not!!
4
2
5
5
Hello I'm grounded so i'm not happy My sibling broke the tv and blamed it on me and my parents believed them It is very frustrating No, we just got into a yelling fight about it and are both in our rooms now Yes it is I'd rather just run away from everything It is late at night that is probably a good idea. I want my s...
well my parents dont believe me so not much i can do
May I ask why they believe your sibling? Is your sibling a different age?
May I ask why they believe your sibling? Is your sibling a different age?
Question
Question
3,837
angry
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anger
issues_with_parents
My parents grounded me for something I didn't do. My sibling broke the TV, I did not!!
4
2
5
5
Hello I'm grounded so i'm not happy My sibling broke the tv and blamed it on me and my parents believed them It is very frustrating No, we just got into a yelling fight about it and are both in our rooms now Yes it is I'd rather just run away from everything It is late at night that is probably a good idea. I want my s...
they are younger and the favorite
I understand.
I understand.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,838
neutral
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anger
issues_with_parents
My parents grounded me for something I didn't do. My sibling broke the TV, I did not!!
4
2
5
5
Hello I'm grounded so i'm not happy My sibling broke the tv and blamed it on me and my parents believed them It is very frustrating No, we just got into a yelling fight about it and are both in our rooms now Yes it is I'd rather just run away from everything It is late at night that is probably a good idea. I want my s...
I just need to wait until I'm 18 so I can move far away
So, it sounds like you already have a plan to turn things around. How far away from 18 are you, if I can ask?
So, it sounds like you already have a plan to turn things around. How far away from 18 are you, if I can ask?
Question
Question
3,839
neutral
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327
12
anger
issues_with_parents
My parents grounded me for something I didn't do. My sibling broke the TV, I did not!!
4
2
5
5
Hello I'm grounded so i'm not happy My sibling broke the tv and blamed it on me and my parents believed them It is very frustrating No, we just got into a yelling fight about it and are both in our rooms now Yes it is I'd rather just run away from everything It is late at night that is probably a good idea. I want my s...
1 year
OK, good for you. It may not seem like it, but you can do anything for a year.
OK, good for you. It may not seem like it, but you can do anything for a year.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,840
neutral
0.007745
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327
13
anger
issues_with_parents
My parents grounded me for something I didn't do. My sibling broke the TV, I did not!!
4
2
5
5
Hello I'm grounded so i'm not happy My sibling broke the tv and blamed it on me and my parents believed them It is very frustrating No, we just got into a yelling fight about it and are both in our rooms now Yes it is I'd rather just run away from everything It is late at night that is probably a good idea. I want my s...
True. I can't wait
So, the question is....how do you deal in the short term?
So, the question is....how do you deal in the short term?
Question
Question
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happy
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anger
issues_with_parents
My parents grounded me for something I didn't do. My sibling broke the TV, I did not!!
4
2
5
5
Hello I'm grounded so i'm not happy My sibling broke the tv and blamed it on me and my parents believed them It is very frustrating No, we just got into a yelling fight about it and are both in our rooms now Yes it is I'd rather just run away from everything It is late at night that is probably a good idea. I want my s...
It will be nice to get away and never talk to family again Just hole up in my room and not talk to anyone from now on I think only talk when necessary
Yes. I was going to suggest the "grey rock" technique.
Yes. I was going to suggest the "grey rock" technique. You would be only as polite as you need to be, and only engage others in a limited way. You go about your business as you need to without the involvement of your other family members.
Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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anger
issues_with_parents
My parents grounded me for something I didn't do. My sibling broke the TV, I did not!!
4
2
5
5
Hello I'm grounded so i'm not happy My sibling broke the tv and blamed it on me and my parents believed them It is very frustrating No, we just got into a yelling fight about it and are both in our rooms now Yes it is I'd rather just run away from everything It is late at night that is probably a good idea. I want my s...
That is a good idea I will just do that i can handle that for a year thank you for your help
you're welcome!
you're welcome! I truly wish you the best. Stay calm, you're a stone, and will get through this until you can leave.
Others, Others
Others
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anger
problems_with_friends
My friend has a girlfriend who is a real bitch. I can't stand how she treats me and others. I wish that my friend would dump her.
3
2
4
4
HI, how are you? I'm having a problem. It's making me angry.
What makes you angry. Can you describe
What makes you angry. Can you describe
Question
Question
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problems_with_friends
My friend has a girlfriend who is a real bitch. I can't stand how she treats me and others. I wish that my friend would dump her.
3
2
4
4
HI, how are you? I'm having a problem. It's making me angry.
My friend has a new girlfriend. She's really unpleasant to everyone. I can't stand her.
Oh thats so sad. I am feeling very bad.
Oh thats so sad. I am feeling very bad.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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problems_with_friends
My friend has a girlfriend who is a real bitch. I can't stand how she treats me and others. I wish that my friend would dump her.
3
2
4
4
HI, how are you? I'm having a problem. It's making me angry. My friend has a new girlfriend. She's really unpleasant to everyone. I can't stand her.
Thank you. I would like my friend to dump this girlfriend. She's ruining the friendship!
Do one thing call her and try to talk with her. In our world no one is mean.
Do one thing call her and try to talk with her. In our world no one is mean.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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anger
problems_with_friends
My friend has a girlfriend who is a real bitch. I can't stand how she treats me and others. I wish that my friend would dump her.
3
2
4
4
HI, how are you? I'm having a problem. It's making me angry. My friend has a new girlfriend. She's really unpleasant to everyone. I can't stand her. Thank you. I would like my friend to dump this girlfriend. She's ruining the friendship!
I've tried to talk to her. She's arrogant and insulting. She thinks that everyone else is an idiot. Talking to her just makes me angrier!
Take both of them to restaurant or call at home. Tell your problem directly
Take both of them to restaurant or call at home. Tell your problem directly
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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problems_with_friends
My friend has a girlfriend who is a real bitch. I can't stand how she treats me and others. I wish that my friend would dump her.
3
2
4
4
HI, how are you? I'm having a problem. It's making me angry. My friend has a new girlfriend. She's really unpleasant to everyone. I can't stand her. Thank you. I would like my friend to dump this girlfriend. She's ruining the friendship! I've tried to talk to her. She's arrogant and insulting. She thinks that everyone ...
I would like to talk to my friend without the girlfriend around, but she seems to butt in all the time. I can't get him alone to explain how this crazy woman is ruining his other friendships.
Very first you have to calm down.Don't break your friendship so easily. Friends are like gems.It's my request not to give up
Very first you have to calm down.Don't break your friendship so easily. Friends are like gems.It's my request not to give up
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problems_with_friends
My friend has a girlfriend who is a real bitch. I can't stand how she treats me and others. I wish that my friend would dump her.
3
2
4
4
HI, how are you? I'm having a problem. It's making me angry. My friend has a new girlfriend. She's really unpleasant to everyone. I can't stand her. Thank you. I would like my friend to dump this girlfriend. She's ruining the friendship! I've tried to talk to her. She's arrogant and insulting. She thinks that everyone ...
Thank you. I don't want to lose the friendship. I don't think I can stay calm with that woman around.
Tell me how you are feeling to leave your friend because of one girlfriend
Tell me how you are feeling to leave your friend because of one girlfriend
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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anger
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My friend has a girlfriend who is a real bitch. I can't stand how she treats me and others. I wish that my friend would dump her.
3
2
4
4
HI, how are you? I'm having a problem. It's making me angry. My friend has a new girlfriend. She's really unpleasant to everyone. I can't stand her. Thank you. I would like my friend to dump this girlfriend. She's ruining the friendship! I've tried to talk to her. She's arrogant and insulting. She thinks that everyone ...
I am feeling that it would be a shame. We have been friends for so long. I don't think the girlfriend cares about my friend's feelings or friendships. She just thinks about what she wants.
Make sure with me today that you won't break your friendship. Please reassure with me .
Make sure with me today that you won't break your friendship. Please reassure with me .
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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anger
problems_with_friends
My friend has a girlfriend who is a real bitch. I can't stand how she treats me and others. I wish that my friend would dump her.
3
2
4
4
HI, how are you? I'm having a problem. It's making me angry. My friend has a new girlfriend. She's really unpleasant to everyone. I can't stand her. Thank you. I would like my friend to dump this girlfriend. She's ruining the friendship! I've tried to talk to her. She's arrogant and insulting. She thinks that everyone ...
I will do my best to maintain the friendship. I might have to put it on hold for a while. Until he breaks up with the crazy woman.
Anything else I can help you?
Anything else I can help you?
Others
Others
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anger
problems_with_friends
My friend has a girlfriend who is a real bitch. I can't stand how she treats me and others. I wish that my friend would dump her.
3
2
4
4
HI, how are you? I'm having a problem. It's making me angry. My friend has a new girlfriend. She's really unpleasant to everyone. I can't stand her. Thank you. I would like my friend to dump this girlfriend. She's ruining the friendship! I've tried to talk to her. She's arrogant and insulting. She thinks that everyone ...
No, thank you. I think I can try again to save this friendship and put aside my anger.
You are very nice!!!
You are very nice!!!
Others
Others
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anger
problems_with_friends
My friend has a girlfriend who is a real bitch. I can't stand how she treats me and others. I wish that my friend would dump her.
3
2
4
4
HI, how are you? I'm having a problem. It's making me angry. My friend has a new girlfriend. She's really unpleasant to everyone. I can't stand her. Thank you. I would like my friend to dump this girlfriend. She's ruining the friendship! I've tried to talk to her. She's arrogant and insulting. She thinks that everyone ...
Thanks. Well, have a good day!
You too!!!
You too!!!
Others
Others
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anger
problems_with_friends
My friend has a girlfriend who is a real bitch. I can't stand how she treats me and others. I wish that my friend would dump her.
3
2
4
4
HI, how are you? I'm having a problem. It's making me angry. My friend has a new girlfriend. She's really unpleasant to everyone. I can't stand her. Thank you. I would like my friend to dump this girlfriend. She's ruining the friendship! I've tried to talk to her. She's arrogant and insulting. She thinks that everyone ...
It was good that we had a chance to chat. I didn't realize how angry I was.
Don't keep any hard feelings for those who like you more
Don't keep any hard feelings for those who like you more
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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anger
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I had an argument with my parents over my girlfriend.
5
3
5
5
Im ok. Im just calming down.
That's good that you're calming down but were you previously upset?
That's good that you're calming down but were you previously upset?
Question
Question
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330
2
anger
conflict_with_parents
I had an argument with my parents over my girlfriend.
5
3
5
5
Im ok. Im just calming down.
I got into a major blowout with my parents.
That's really rough, I'm sorry to hear that.
That's really rough, I'm sorry to hear that.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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sad
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anger
conflict_with_parents
I had an argument with my parents over my girlfriend.
5
3
5
5
Im ok. Im just calming down. I got into a major blowout with my parents.
Im just so upset. They dont approve of my girlfriend.
And they would like you to break up with her?
And they would like you to break up with her?
Question
Question
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4
anger
conflict_with_parents
I had an argument with my parents over my girlfriend.
5
3
5
5
Im ok. Im just calming down. I got into a major blowout with my parents. Im just so upset. They dont approve of my girlfriend.
Oh definitely.
It's complicated when parents want input into their child's relationships. That is really explosive stuff.
It's complicated when parents want input into their child's relationships. That is really explosive stuff.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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5
anger
conflict_with_parents
I had an argument with my parents over my girlfriend.
5
3
5
5
Im ok. Im just calming down. I got into a major blowout with my parents. Im just so upset. They dont approve of my girlfriend. Oh definitely.
Im not giving in. I really like her and she is soooo hot.
Are you going to have to be around your parents soon after this?
Are you going to have to be around your parents soon after this?
Question
Question
3,872
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330
6
anger
conflict_with_parents
I had an argument with my parents over my girlfriend.
5
3
5
5
Im ok. Im just calming down. I got into a major blowout with my parents. Im just so upset. They dont approve of my girlfriend. Oh definitely. Im not giving in. I really like her and she is soooo hot.
Yes I will be. Just because she is black, they dont approve.
Oof, I see. I can understand you being upset by that, it's a silly reason to disapprove. Was the blowout in any way productive or just angry?
Oof, I see. I can understand you being upset by that, it's a silly reason to disapprove. Was the blowout in any way productive or just angry?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
3,873
neutral
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0.99844
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330
7
anger
conflict_with_parents
I had an argument with my parents over my girlfriend.
5
3
5
5
Im ok. Im just calming down. I got into a major blowout with my parents. Im just so upset. They dont approve of my girlfriend. Oh definitely. Im not giving in. I really like her and she is soooo hot. Yes I will be. Just because she is black, they dont approve.
Just angry. Im not sure what to do.
I don't know that this problem will be solved with one single choice or conversation. Do you live with your parents?
I don't know that this problem will be solved with one single choice or conversation. Do you live with your parents?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,874
angry
0.831904
0.000801
0.000671
0.000929
0.011344
0.002321
0.152031
330
8
anger
conflict_with_parents
I had an argument with my parents over my girlfriend.
5
3
5
5
Im ok. Im just calming down. I got into a major blowout with my parents. Im just so upset. They dont approve of my girlfriend. Oh definitely. Im not giving in. I really like her and she is soooo hot. Yes I will be. Just because she is black, they dont approve. Just angry. Im not sure what to do.
I do not. I was thinking of having my girlfriend move in with me.
Ah, well then their opinion of your romantic relationships is 100% irrelevant.
Ah, well then their opinion of your romantic relationships is 100% irrelevant.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,875
neutral
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330
9
anger
conflict_with_parents
I had an argument with my parents over my girlfriend.
5
3
5
5
Im ok. Im just calming down. I got into a major blowout with my parents. Im just so upset. They dont approve of my girlfriend. Oh definitely. Im not giving in. I really like her and she is soooo hot. Yes I will be. Just because she is black, they dont approve. Just angry. Im not sure what to do. I do not. I was thinkin...
I guess but I dont want to not have them in my life. But have I mentioned how hot my girlfriend is? Lol So hot and dark. Yummy.
There's not an easy way to get people to let go of those kinds of beliefs. Yes, you did mention that, haha. Physical attraction is awesome but perhaps not the best basis to move someone in with you :-)
There's not an easy way to get people to let go of those kinds of beliefs. Yes, you did mention that, haha. Physical attraction is awesome but perhaps not the best basis to move someone in with you :-)
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,876
happy
0.009135
0.001522
0.00033
0.750068
0.231638
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0.004304
331
1
depression
breakup_with_partner
when i was in school we both joined school on same day .we were sit beside each other and became good friends from on words .we completed schooling and started living together, we settled in good jobs too .we were so happy and loved each other.But he met an colleague in office and started cheating me , because she has ...
5
4
5
5
good evening .How are you .Thanks for sending message to support me from depression
No problem, what seems to be causing your depression tonight?
No problem, what seems to be causing your depression tonight?
Question
Question
3,878
happy
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0.827077
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0.135234
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331
2
depression
breakup_with_partner
when i was in school we both joined school on same day .we were sit beside each other and became good friends from on words .we completed schooling and started living together, we settled in good jobs too .we were so happy and loved each other.But he met an colleague in office and started cheating me , because she has ...
5
4
5
5
good evening .How are you .Thanks for sending message to support me from depression
i breakup with my childhood lover
So if I understand correctly you just recently went through a breakup with a longtime partner?
So if I understand correctly you just recently went through a breakup with a longtime partner?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
3,879
sad
0.000159
0.000087
0.000037
0.00004
0.000173
0.999485
0.000019
331
3
depression
breakup_with_partner
when i was in school we both joined school on same day .we were sit beside each other and became good friends from on words .we completed schooling and started living together, we settled in good jobs too .we were so happy and loved each other.But he met an colleague in office and started cheating me , because she has ...
5
4
5
5
good evening .How are you .Thanks for sending message to support me from depression i breakup with my childhood lover
yes. we are more than lovers .we grown up each other since 11 years .
From our short chat so far I can tell you are really heartbroken about this break up.
From our short chat so far I can tell you are really heartbroken about this break up.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
3,880
neutral
0.018455
0.000326
0.000253
0.020837
0.942165
0.004155
0.013808
331
4
depression
breakup_with_partner
when i was in school we both joined school on same day .we were sit beside each other and became good friends from on words .we completed schooling and started living together, we settled in good jobs too .we were so happy and loved each other.But he met an colleague in office and started cheating me , because she has ...
5
4
5
5
good evening .How are you .Thanks for sending message to support me from depression i breakup with my childhood lover yes. we are more than lovers .we grown up each other since 11 years .
thats hurting me lot .why he loves another girl with lot of money
I know how hard this is, but I also know you can get through it!
I know how hard this is, but I also know you can get through it!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,881
angry
0.645836
0.008226
0.000586
0.000388
0.009549
0.33337
0.002045
331
5
depression
breakup_with_partner
when i was in school we both joined school on same day .we were sit beside each other and became good friends from on words .we completed schooling and started living together, we settled in good jobs too .we were so happy and loved each other.But he met an colleague in office and started cheating me , because she has ...
5
4
5
5
good evening .How are you .Thanks for sending message to support me from depression i breakup with my childhood lover yes. we are more than lovers .we grown up each other since 11 years . thats hurting me lot .why he loves another girl with lot of money
yes. i working in good company and earning nice pay , but still he cheated me . but how can i overcome this ? my heart is not yet all agree for this
I recently went through the same kind of break up where my fiance cheated on me and got pregnant with another man, so I know how much this hurts.
I recently went through the same kind of break up where my fiance cheated on me and got pregnant with another man, so I know how much this hurts. Have you been able to talk to him about why he decided to leave you? Sometimes it helps to get closure on a situation like this,
Self-disclosure, Providing Suggestions
Self-disclosure
3,882
angry
0.520724
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0.006204
0.016756
0.292961
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331
6
depression
breakup_with_partner
when i was in school we both joined school on same day .we were sit beside each other and became good friends from on words .we completed schooling and started living together, we settled in good jobs too .we were so happy and loved each other.But he met an colleague in office and started cheating me , because she has ...
5
4
5
5
good evening .How are you .Thanks for sending message to support me from depression i breakup with my childhood lover yes. we are more than lovers .we grown up each other since 11 years . thats hurting me lot .why he loves another girl with lot of money yes. i working in good company and earning nice pay , but still he...
is it ? how did u overcome from this yes i spoken , he saying he need more money which i have not much .only money he left me
So what you are saying is that the only reason he left you was because you were not financially stable enough for him.
So what you are saying is that the only reason he left you was because you were not financially stable enough for him.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
3,883
angry
0.990551
0.000213
0.000159
0.00012
0.006018
0.000771
0.002168
331
7
depression
breakup_with_partner
when i was in school we both joined school on same day .we were sit beside each other and became good friends from on words .we completed schooling and started living together, we settled in good jobs too .we were so happy and loved each other.But he met an colleague in office and started cheating me , because she has ...
5
4
5
5
good evening .How are you .Thanks for sending message to support me from depression i breakup with my childhood lover yes. we are more than lovers .we grown up each other since 11 years . thats hurting me lot .why he loves another girl with lot of money yes. i working in good company and earning nice pay , but still he...
yes. what ever i earning every month i sent to him .he sold my house too and enjoyed that money as well
You seem like a really great person for doing all of that for him and you definitely deserve someone who is in it for much more than just money!
You seem like a really great person for doing all of that for him and you definitely deserve someone who is in it for much more than just money!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,884
neutral
0.0075
0.000149
0.000055
0.015064
0.968828
0.005324
0.00308
331
8
depression
breakup_with_partner
when i was in school we both joined school on same day .we were sit beside each other and became good friends from on words .we completed schooling and started living together, we settled in good jobs too .we were so happy and loved each other.But he met an colleague in office and started cheating me , because she has ...
5
4
5
5
good evening .How are you .Thanks for sending message to support me from depression i breakup with my childhood lover yes. we are more than lovers .we grown up each other since 11 years . thats hurting me lot .why he loves another girl with lot of money yes. i working in good company and earning nice pay , but still he...
but i am not in mood to trust anybody because i loved him since 15 years
Have you been able to talk to any of your close friends or family about the situation? Sometimes it helps to talk to someone close to you about things like this.
Have you been able to talk to any of your close friends or family about the situation? Sometimes it helps to talk to someone close to you about things like this.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,885
angry
0.948091
0.00887
0.00017
0.000265
0.002684
0.039549
0.00037
331
9
depression
breakup_with_partner
when i was in school we both joined school on same day .we were sit beside each other and became good friends from on words .we completed schooling and started living together, we settled in good jobs too .we were so happy and loved each other.But he met an colleague in office and started cheating me , because she has ...
5
4
5
5
good evening .How are you .Thanks for sending message to support me from depression i breakup with my childhood lover yes. we are more than lovers .we grown up each other since 11 years . thats hurting me lot .why he loves another girl with lot of money yes. i working in good company and earning nice pay , but still he...
i told to my mom , she said we already knew that he is a money minded .So take lite and move forthuer
That sounds like really great advice from your mother!
That sounds like really great advice from your mother! I also found it helped me a lot when going through my situation to get really involved in my hobbies to take my mind off things.
Others, Providing Suggestions
Others
3,886
neutral
0.246534
0.006357
0.002877
0.001032
0.689955
0.041747
0.011497
331
10
depression
breakup_with_partner
when i was in school we both joined school on same day .we were sit beside each other and became good friends from on words .we completed schooling and started living together, we settled in good jobs too .we were so happy and loved each other.But he met an colleague in office and started cheating me , because she has ...
5
4
5
5
good evening .How are you .Thanks for sending message to support me from depression i breakup with my childhood lover yes. we are more than lovers .we grown up each other since 11 years . thats hurting me lot .why he loves another girl with lot of money yes. i working in good company and earning nice pay , but still he...
yea , my parents always supported me .I would have listened their voices earlier
It is great to have supportive parents!
It is great to have supportive parents!
Others
Others
3,887
neutral
0.002991
0.000077
0.00009
0.00049
0.988039
0.003976
0.004337
331
11
depression
breakup_with_partner
when i was in school we both joined school on same day .we were sit beside each other and became good friends from on words .we completed schooling and started living together, we settled in good jobs too .we were so happy and loved each other.But he met an colleague in office and started cheating me , because she has ...
5
4
5
5
good evening .How are you .Thanks for sending message to support me from depression i breakup with my childhood lover yes. we are more than lovers .we grown up each other since 11 years . thats hurting me lot .why he loves another girl with lot of money yes. i working in good company and earning nice pay , but still he...
yes will start my reading habit may it willbe helped me lot
Good idea
Good idea
Others
Others
3,888
neutral
0.000624
0.000104
0.002421
0.048639
0.942049
0.003918
0.002246
331
12
depression
breakup_with_partner
when i was in school we both joined school on same day .we were sit beside each other and became good friends from on words .we completed schooling and started living together, we settled in good jobs too .we were so happy and loved each other.But he met an colleague in office and started cheating me , because she has ...
5
4
5
5
good evening .How are you .Thanks for sending message to support me from depression i breakup with my childhood lover yes. we are more than lovers .we grown up each other since 11 years . thats hurting me lot .why he loves another girl with lot of money yes. i working in good company and earning nice pay , but still he...
thank you for ur time and support
You're very welcome! Have a nice night!
You're very welcome! Have a nice night!
Others
Others
3,889
happy
0.000152
0.000011
0.000013
0.999675
0.000074
0.000019
0.000057
332
1
fear
job_crisis
Fear of losing my job
5
4
5
5
Sorry for not reply you friend
That's okay, just wanted to reach out and see how you are!
That's okay, just wanted to reach out and see how you are!
Others
Others
3,891
sad
0.209316
0.007794
0.000303
0.00062
0.01833
0.756095
0.007541
332
2
fear
job_crisis
Fear of losing my job
5
4
5
5
Sorry for not reply you friend
My company cut my salary and I am scare of losing my job
Oh no, I am so sorry to hear that. So it sounds a bit like you are entering a period of uncertainty and are going to be struggling :(
Oh no, I am so sorry to hear that. So it sounds a bit like you are entering a period of uncertainty and are going to be struggling :(
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
3,892
fear
0.000142
0.000049
0.999305
0.000033
0.000073
0.00037
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332
3
fear
job_crisis
Fear of losing my job
5
4
5
5
Sorry for not reply you friend My company cut my salary and I am scare of losing my job
You are very correct, even now my job is one day off one day on
Well i know it is difficult, but just wanted to share that I am here for you in these hard times. And you're so smart that even if you lose this job you will find another one :)
Well i know it is difficult, but just wanted to share that I am here for you in these hard times. And you're so smart that even if you lose this job you will find another one :) Actually currently I am unemployed too actually, although I have a new opportunity starting next month. So I know it can be rough
Affirmation and Reassurance, Self-disclosure
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,893
neutral
0.013948
0.000038
0.000104
0.000208
0.974918
0.000883
0.009901
332
4
fear
job_crisis
Fear of losing my job
5
4
5
5
Sorry for not reply you friend My company cut my salary and I am scare of losing my job You are very correct, even now my job is one day off one day on
I am happy for you friend, I pray for my company not to sack us because it is not easy t fine job now
Well have you thought of any next steps to take? From what I have seen, it is easier to start looking for a new job before you need to leave the old one. Maybe you could start job searching sooner rather than later? I might have some contacts that can help
Well have you thought of any next steps to take? From what I have seen, it is easier to start looking for a new job before you need to leave the old one. Maybe you could start job searching sooner rather than later? I might have some contacts that can help
Information
Information
3,894
neutral
0.001408
0.000199
0.001019
0.031823
0.958012
0.005868
0.001671
332
5
fear
job_crisis
Fear of losing my job
5
4
5
5
Sorry for not reply you friend My company cut my salary and I am scare of losing my job You are very correct, even now my job is one day off one day on I am happy for you friend, I pray for my company not to sack us because it is not easy t fine job now
Thanks friend I love your style I follow it too
Awesome! Let me know if there is anything else I can do to help you in these tough times. It can be useful to take some time to relax too :) Maybe eat a favorite food or talk with a friend or go on a long walk to destress :)
Awesome! Let me know if there is anything else I can do to help you in these tough times. It can be useful to take some time to relax too :) Maybe eat a favorite food or talk with a friend or go on a long walk to destress :)
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
3,895
happy
0.000224
0.000017
0.000006
0.999586
0.000092
0.000021
0.000053
332
6
fear
job_crisis
Fear of losing my job
5
4
5
5
Sorry for not reply you friend My company cut my salary and I am scare of losing my job You are very correct, even now my job is one day off one day on I am happy for you friend, I pray for my company not to sack us because it is not easy t fine job now Thanks friend I love your style I follow it too
I will try to go and meditate on you teach me now thanks
Awesome, meditation can always help make complex problems feel a bit simpler. And it is okay to feel upset right now, as long as you realize that things will get better, and that you have lots of people supporting you!
Awesome, meditation can always help make complex problems feel a bit simpler. And it is okay to feel upset right now, as long as you realize that things will get better, and that you have lots of people supporting you! Anything else i can help you with? Or are you going to go meditate now?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Others
Affirmation and Reassurance
3,896
happy
0.008567
0.000722
0.00734
0.610273
0.35322
0.003346
0.016532
332
7
fear
job_crisis
Fear of losing my job
5
4
5
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Sorry for not reply you friend My company cut my salary and I am scare of losing my job You are very correct, even now my job is one day off one day on I am happy for you friend, I pray for my company not to sack us because it is not easy t fine job now Thanks friend I love your style I follow it too I will try to go a...
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You're welcome! Hope you have a wonderful week :) Always good to chat
You're welcome! Hope you have a wonderful week :) Always good to chat
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