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426
13
anxiety
job_crisis
I had to quit my job back in February due to living with someone going through chemo. My town doesn't have many job options other than retail, so I have been trying to earn money for debts online.
4
2
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4
Yeah, I'm pretty stressed today with the news from Nashville I had to miss my family Christmas get together yesterday as well oh yeah, there was a bomb that went off in Nashville Tennessee this morning Very stressed I have a full home gym actually. I just never am motivated enough to use it lol Yeah, some exercise coul...
no I think that helped. Gonna try those out in a few minutes, thanks : )
You've done great at telling me your thoughts and deep feelings.
You've done great at telling me your thoughts and deep feelings. Ok. You are doing great with being more at ease. I can tell from your responses that my suggestions have got the wheels moving.
Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance, Reflection of feelings
Affirmation and Reassurance
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anxiety
job_crisis
I had to quit my job back in February due to living with someone going through chemo. My town doesn't have many job options other than retail, so I have been trying to earn money for debts online.
4
2
4
4
Yeah, I'm pretty stressed today with the news from Nashville I had to miss my family Christmas get together yesterday as well oh yeah, there was a bomb that went off in Nashville Tennessee this morning Very stressed I have a full home gym actually. I just never am motivated enough to use it lol Yeah, some exercise coul...
Yeah, I feel a lot calmer now Thank you for all of the help
It sounds like you are really upbeat and happier.
It sounds like you are really upbeat and happier. You can click the red finish and exit button to complete the session. :)
Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions
Affirmation and Reassurance
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anxiety
job_crisis
I had to quit my job back in February due to living with someone going through chemo. My town doesn't have many job options other than retail, so I have been trying to earn money for debts online.
4
2
4
4
Yeah, I'm pretty stressed today with the news from Nashville I had to miss my family Christmas get together yesterday as well oh yeah, there was a bomb that went off in Nashville Tennessee this morning Very stressed I have a full home gym actually. I just never am motivated enough to use it lol Yeah, some exercise coul...
do you not have one?
Correct.
Correct. It's Christmas Day, so please stay safe out there.
Information, Information
Information
5,038
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427
1
anxiety
academic_pressure
I have finals coming up and I'm stressed.
3
2
5
5
hello
hey! how are you doing?
hey! how are you doing?
Others
Others
5,039
neutral
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anxiety
academic_pressure
I have finals coming up and I'm stressed.
3
2
5
5
hello
I'm stressed about my college finals.
that is a huge stressor! when are finals? what year are you?
that is a huge stressor! when are finals? what year are you?
Question
Question
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3
anxiety
academic_pressure
I have finals coming up and I'm stressed.
3
2
5
5
hello I'm stressed about my college finals.
They are in 1.5 weeks and I'm a sophomore in college
that gives you a little bit of time to prepare and you have experience with finals, so that's good
that gives you a little bit of time to prepare and you have experience with finals, so that's good
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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427
4
anxiety
academic_pressure
I have finals coming up and I'm stressed.
3
2
5
5
hello I'm stressed about my college finals. They are in 1.5 weeks and I'm a sophomore in college
yes I'm glad I have time!
what specifically is bothering you or is it usualy exam stress plus covid?
what specifically is bothering you or is it usualy exam stress plus covid?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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427
5
anxiety
academic_pressure
I have finals coming up and I'm stressed.
3
2
5
5
hello I'm stressed about my college finals. They are in 1.5 weeks and I'm a sophomore in college yes I'm glad I have time!
I think I'm just nervous that I won't get all A's in my classes. I have a 4.0 GPA so I really want to keep that.
what a great goal! do you have a plan for preparing for exams? i always found that mapping it out with a study plan helped me
what a great goal! do you have a plan for preparing for exams? i always found that mapping it out with a study plan helped me
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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427
6
anxiety
academic_pressure
I have finals coming up and I'm stressed.
3
2
5
5
hello I'm stressed about my college finals. They are in 1.5 weeks and I'm a sophomore in college yes I'm glad I have time! I think I'm just nervous that I won't get all A's in my classes. I have a 4.0 GPA so I really want to keep that.
Yes I actually just made that yesterday! Check lists help me to get things done so I'm just going to start checking them off one by one.
you have a plan and you have some time! what else do you need? chocolate? LOL ;-)
you have a plan and you have some time! what else do you need? chocolate? LOL ;-)
Information
Information
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happy
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427
7
anxiety
academic_pressure
I have finals coming up and I'm stressed.
3
2
5
5
hello I'm stressed about my college finals. They are in 1.5 weeks and I'm a sophomore in college yes I'm glad I have time! I think I'm just nervous that I won't get all A's in my classes. I have a 4.0 GPA so I really want to keep that. Yes I actually just made that yesterday! Check lists help me to get things done so I...
haha yes please! that will make me more happy
are you on campus? or at home?
are you on campus? or at home?
Question
Question
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happy
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427
8
anxiety
academic_pressure
I have finals coming up and I'm stressed.
3
2
5
5
hello I'm stressed about my college finals. They are in 1.5 weeks and I'm a sophomore in college yes I'm glad I have time! I think I'm just nervous that I won't get all A's in my classes. I have a 4.0 GPA so I really want to keep that. Yes I actually just made that yesterday! Check lists help me to get things done so I...
I actually just left for home yesterday and am here now. I I will also stay home to do finals instead of going back
my freshman has been at home all semester.
my freshman has been at home all semester.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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0.002791
0.003349
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427
9
anxiety
academic_pressure
I have finals coming up and I'm stressed.
3
2
5
5
hello I'm stressed about my college finals. They are in 1.5 weeks and I'm a sophomore in college yes I'm glad I have time! I think I'm just nervous that I won't get all A's in my classes. I have a 4.0 GPA so I really want to keep that. Yes I actually just made that yesterday! Check lists help me to get things done so I...
Oh wow! Thankfully I was able to go back. It helped to be around friends and not at home.
fortunately he doesn't know any different
fortunately he doesn't know any different
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
5,047
happy
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427
10
anxiety
academic_pressure
I have finals coming up and I'm stressed.
3
2
5
5
hello I'm stressed about my college finals. They are in 1.5 weeks and I'm a sophomore in college yes I'm glad I have time! I think I'm just nervous that I won't get all A's in my classes. I have a 4.0 GPA so I really want to keep that. Yes I actually just made that yesterday! Check lists help me to get things done so I...
yes, it is sad that this semester isn't like last year. That's been hard
i can't imagine how wierd it is for you, knowing how it used to be
i can't imagine how wierd it is for you, knowing how it used to be
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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11
anxiety
academic_pressure
I have finals coming up and I'm stressed.
3
2
5
5
hello I'm stressed about my college finals. They are in 1.5 weeks and I'm a sophomore in college yes I'm glad I have time! I think I'm just nervous that I won't get all A's in my classes. I have a 4.0 GPA so I really want to keep that. Yes I actually just made that yesterday! Check lists help me to get things done so I...
yes, it's a bit depressing to be honest. i feel like i'm not living like a college student anymore
i'm sorry it's been so weird for you. but you are killing it with your grades. you shouldbe proud!
i'm sorry it's been so weird for you. but you are killing it with your grades. you shouldbe proud!
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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sad
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427
12
anxiety
academic_pressure
I have finals coming up and I'm stressed.
3
2
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5
hello I'm stressed about my college finals. They are in 1.5 weeks and I'm a sophomore in college yes I'm glad I have time! I think I'm just nervous that I won't get all A's in my classes. I have a 4.0 GPA so I really want to keep that. Yes I actually just made that yesterday! Check lists help me to get things done so I...
thank you! its been an adjustment but thankfully im doing good.
its got to be good being back home
its got to be good being back home
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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427
13
anxiety
academic_pressure
I have finals coming up and I'm stressed.
3
2
5
5
hello I'm stressed about my college finals. They are in 1.5 weeks and I'm a sophomore in college yes I'm glad I have time! I think I'm just nervous that I won't get all A's in my classes. I have a 4.0 GPA so I really want to keep that. Yes I actually just made that yesterday! Check lists help me to get things done so I...
for the most part yes. i do miss my friends obviously
i can tell you your parents have been worried about you
i can tell you your parents have been worried about you
Information
Information
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14
anxiety
academic_pressure
I have finals coming up and I'm stressed.
3
2
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hello I'm stressed about my college finals. They are in 1.5 weeks and I'm a sophomore in college yes I'm glad I have time! I think I'm just nervous that I won't get all A's in my classes. I have a 4.0 GPA so I really want to keep that. Yes I actually just made that yesterday! Check lists help me to get things done so I...
i think they probably have haha
they are glad you are home
they are glad you are home
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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427
15
anxiety
academic_pressure
I have finals coming up and I'm stressed.
3
2
5
5
hello I'm stressed about my college finals. They are in 1.5 weeks and I'm a sophomore in college yes I'm glad I have time! I think I'm just nervous that I won't get all A's in my classes. I have a 4.0 GPA so I really want to keep that. Yes I actually just made that yesterday! Check lists help me to get things done so I...
thank you for your help!
keep on crushing it at school, please be safe
keep on crushing it at school, please be safe
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
5,053
happy
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428
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depression
ongoing_depression
My husband keeps wasting money and we are having a hard time making ends meet. We'd be fine if he didn't overspend, but he's addicted to it.
4
2
5
5
Hi
Hello there, how is your day going?
Hello there, how is your day going?
Question
Question
5,054
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depression
ongoing_depression
My husband keeps wasting money and we are having a hard time making ends meet. We'd be fine if he didn't overspend, but he's addicted to it.
4
2
5
5
Hi
It's going okay. I'm just having a hard time.
Is there something that you'd like to talk about?
Is there something that you'd like to talk about?
Question
Question
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depression
ongoing_depression
My husband keeps wasting money and we are having a hard time making ends meet. We'd be fine if he didn't overspend, but he's addicted to it.
4
2
5
5
Hi It's going okay. I'm just having a hard time.
It's mainly my husband. His spending habits are out of control. He thinks he need to reward himself for living. We can't survive if he keeps gifting himself.
Wow that sounds like a big problem. Is he aware of how much distress this is causing you?
Wow that sounds like a big problem. Is he aware of how much distress this is causing you?
Question
Question
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depression
ongoing_depression
My husband keeps wasting money and we are having a hard time making ends meet. We'd be fine if he didn't overspend, but he's addicted to it.
4
2
5
5
Hi It's going okay. I'm just having a hard time. It's mainly my husband. His spending habits are out of control. He thinks he need to reward himself for living. We can't survive if he keeps gifting himself.
I've tried talking to him about it, but he claims that he needs to reward himself or he wouldn't do anything. Like, if he gets up and goes to work then he needs to eat out to reward himself.
So you feel that he is misunderstanding life? That he feels that he deserves things just for existing?
So you feel that he is misunderstanding life? That he feels that he deserves things just for existing?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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depression
ongoing_depression
My husband keeps wasting money and we are having a hard time making ends meet. We'd be fine if he didn't overspend, but he's addicted to it.
4
2
5
5
Hi It's going okay. I'm just having a hard time. It's mainly my husband. His spending habits are out of control. He thinks he need to reward himself for living. We can't survive if he keeps gifting himself. I've tried talking to him about it, but he claims that he needs to reward himself or he wouldn't do anything. Lik...
Exactly. And if I push further, he compares himself to other people: "Well, at least I don't hit you." or "At least I'm not an alcoholic" Like I should thank him for existing.
It sounds like a really toxic relationship - I hear you! I have been in that position also. In the end I felt that I had no choice but to leave. I cannot tell you what to do, though.
It sounds like a really toxic relationship - I hear you! I have been in that position also. In the end I felt that I had no choice but to leave. I cannot tell you what to do, though.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
5,058
neutral
0.008406
0.000185
0.000102
0.000557
0.985031
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depression
ongoing_depression
My husband keeps wasting money and we are having a hard time making ends meet. We'd be fine if he didn't overspend, but he's addicted to it.
4
2
5
5
Hi It's going okay. I'm just having a hard time. It's mainly my husband. His spending habits are out of control. He thinks he need to reward himself for living. We can't survive if he keeps gifting himself. I've tried talking to him about it, but he claims that he needs to reward himself or he wouldn't do anything. Lik...
It's hard because we have children. When we were just dating, he was a different person. He didn't start to act this way until after our eldest was born.
Ah, unfortunately a lot of men are like that - before you become seriously committed they seem totally different. Have you considered seeking professional help?
Ah, unfortunately a lot of men are like that - before you become seriously committed they seem totally different. Have you considered seeking professional help?
Information
Information
5,059
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7
depression
ongoing_depression
My husband keeps wasting money and we are having a hard time making ends meet. We'd be fine if he didn't overspend, but he's addicted to it.
4
2
5
5
Hi It's going okay. I'm just having a hard time. It's mainly my husband. His spending habits are out of control. He thinks he need to reward himself for living. We can't survive if he keeps gifting himself. I've tried talking to him about it, but he claims that he needs to reward himself or he wouldn't do anything. Lik...
The problem all boils down to money. If I had enough for therapy I wouldn't be worried about his spending habits! lol. But, you're right, that's probably what we both need!
I believe that there are some organisations that will offer free therapy sessions for people in need. Have you considered asking your doctor?
I believe that there are some organisations that will offer free therapy sessions for people in need. Have you considered asking your doctor?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
5,060
happy
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depression
ongoing_depression
My husband keeps wasting money and we are having a hard time making ends meet. We'd be fine if he didn't overspend, but he's addicted to it.
4
2
5
5
Hi It's going okay. I'm just having a hard time. It's mainly my husband. His spending habits are out of control. He thinks he need to reward himself for living. We can't survive if he keeps gifting himself. I've tried talking to him about it, but he claims that he needs to reward himself or he wouldn't do anything. Lik...
Really? I'd definitely be interested in that. Do they have online therapy like that?
I am not totally sure what is available but I think that there might be such things
I am not totally sure what is available but I think that there might be such things
Others
Others
5,061
neutral
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0.000478
0.024791
0.81472
0.000679
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428
9
depression
ongoing_depression
My husband keeps wasting money and we are having a hard time making ends meet. We'd be fine if he didn't overspend, but he's addicted to it.
4
2
5
5
Hi It's going okay. I'm just having a hard time. It's mainly my husband. His spending habits are out of control. He thinks he need to reward himself for living. We can't survive if he keeps gifting himself. I've tried talking to him about it, but he claims that he needs to reward himself or he wouldn't do anything. Lik...
Thanks for your help. You said you've been in similar relationships. Is this behavior common for men?
Well no, I don't think that all men are like this by any stretch of the imagination. Unfortunately, however, there are some bad apples who give all men a bad name. I am sure that the same applies to women too though!
Well no, I don't think that all men are like this by any stretch of the imagination. Unfortunately, however, there are some bad apples who give all men a bad name. I am sure that the same applies to women too though!
Others
Others
5,062
neutral
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0.000234
0.000169
0.000269
0.903117
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0.066167
428
10
depression
ongoing_depression
My husband keeps wasting money and we are having a hard time making ends meet. We'd be fine if he didn't overspend, but he's addicted to it.
4
2
5
5
Hi It's going okay. I'm just having a hard time. It's mainly my husband. His spending habits are out of control. He thinks he need to reward himself for living. We can't survive if he keeps gifting himself. I've tried talking to him about it, but he claims that he needs to reward himself or he wouldn't do anything. Lik...
Haha, true. I just wondered. I had previous relationships, but they were very short. My dad was always the opposite: he was a penny-pincher. Sometimes I worry that maybe I'm just to stingy with the money, but then I remember that we have none, so Idk how to be more generous lol
You sound to me as though you are being realistic and sensible about your financial situation and are being neither too stingy nor too lavish.
You sound to me as though you are being realistic and sensible about your financial situation and are being neither too stingy nor too lavish.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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428
11
depression
ongoing_depression
My husband keeps wasting money and we are having a hard time making ends meet. We'd be fine if he didn't overspend, but he's addicted to it.
4
2
5
5
Hi It's going okay. I'm just having a hard time. It's mainly my husband. His spending habits are out of control. He thinks he need to reward himself for living. We can't survive if he keeps gifting himself. I've tried talking to him about it, but he claims that he needs to reward himself or he wouldn't do anything. Lik...
Thank you for your help and feedback. I appreciate it. I'm going to select Finish & Quit
I hope that I have been able to be of some help to you!
I hope that I have been able to be of some help to you! Have a lovely rest of day
Others, Others
Others
5,064
neutral
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0.000097
0.000308
0.029681
0.948509
0.001373
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429
1
depression
ongoing_depression
I am very depressed. I always have been. I don't know how to fix it. I've tried therapy and medicine but they don't seem to work.
5
1
5
5
I'm depressed...
When did this start?
When did this start?
Question
Question
5,066
sad
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0.000107
0.000032
0.001473
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429
2
depression
ongoing_depression
I am very depressed. I always have been. I don't know how to fix it. I've tried therapy and medicine but they don't seem to work.
5
1
5
5
I'm depressed...
Since as long as I can remember. I've always been depressed.
That sounds really hard. Depression is tough to manage.
That sounds really hard. Depression is tough to manage.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
5,067
sad
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0.000044
0.000747
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429
3
depression
ongoing_depression
I am very depressed. I always have been. I don't know how to fix it. I've tried therapy and medicine but they don't seem to work.
5
1
5
5
I'm depressed... Since as long as I can remember. I've always been depressed.
I know. It feels like I've tried everything but nothing works.
I can feel that you have a lot of pent up frustration with this, especially after trying so hard.
I can feel that you have a lot of pent up frustration with this, especially after trying so hard.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
5,068
sad
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0.000622
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429
4
depression
ongoing_depression
I am very depressed. I always have been. I don't know how to fix it. I've tried therapy and medicine but they don't seem to work.
5
1
5
5
I'm depressed... Since as long as I can remember. I've always been depressed. I know. It feels like I've tried everything but nothing works.
Yes. I used to be angry but the anger has become sadness...
Lot of research shows that feelings of anger can morph into depression, that is not uncommon.
Lot of research shows that feelings of anger can morph into depression, that is not uncommon.
Information
Information
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depression
ongoing_depression
I am very depressed. I always have been. I don't know how to fix it. I've tried therapy and medicine but they don't seem to work.
5
1
5
5
I'm depressed... Since as long as I can remember. I've always been depressed. I know. It feels like I've tried everything but nothing works. Yes. I used to be angry but the anger has become sadness...
I never knew that. When I was young, I was very angry but I held it inside.
I can tell that this has been very hard for you, especially since it has gone on so long.
I can tell that this has been very hard for you, especially since it has gone on so long.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
5,070
angry
0.992738
0.000666
0.000072
0.000138
0.001428
0.003038
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429
6
depression
ongoing_depression
I am very depressed. I always have been. I don't know how to fix it. I've tried therapy and medicine but they don't seem to work.
5
1
5
5
I'm depressed... Since as long as I can remember. I've always been depressed. I know. It feels like I've tried everything but nothing works. Yes. I used to be angry but the anger has become sadness... I never knew that. When I was young, I was very angry but I held it inside.
Yes, it has. I'm still hoping that there is a cure.
Why do you think you were angry?
Why do you think you were angry?
Question
Question
5,071
neutral
0.001237
0.000039
0.000785
0.000893
0.995179
0.000959
0.000909
429
7
depression
ongoing_depression
I am very depressed. I always have been. I don't know how to fix it. I've tried therapy and medicine but they don't seem to work.
5
1
5
5
I'm depressed... Since as long as I can remember. I've always been depressed. I know. It feels like I've tried everything but nothing works. Yes. I used to be angry but the anger has become sadness... I never knew that. When I was young, I was very angry but I held it inside. Yes, it has. I'm still hoping that there is...
My parents got divorced and it ruined my childhood.
Ouch, that sounds really hurtful, but I know you are doing your best now.
Ouch, that sounds really hurtful, but I know you are doing your best now. My parents divorced when I was young, but now I understand it has given me the opportunity to grow stronger as an adult
Affirmation and Reassurance, Self-disclosure
Affirmation and Reassurance
5,072
sad
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0.003493
0.0003
0.000063
0.003948
0.959873
0.000348
429
8
depression
ongoing_depression
I am very depressed. I always have been. I don't know how to fix it. I've tried therapy and medicine but they don't seem to work.
5
1
5
5
I'm depressed... Since as long as I can remember. I've always been depressed. I know. It feels like I've tried everything but nothing works. Yes. I used to be angry but the anger has become sadness... I never knew that. When I was young, I was very angry but I held it inside. Yes, it has. I'm still hoping that there is...
That's a good way to look at it.
Do you participate in any peer support groups? Those can really help let that emotion release?
Do you participate in any peer support groups? Those can really help let that emotion release?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
5,073
angry
0.74776
0.001721
0.000119
0.000587
0.172459
0.00633
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429
9
depression
ongoing_depression
I am very depressed. I always have been. I don't know how to fix it. I've tried therapy and medicine but they don't seem to work.
5
1
5
5
I'm depressed... Since as long as I can remember. I've always been depressed. I know. It feels like I've tried everything but nothing works. Yes. I used to be angry but the anger has become sadness... I never knew that. When I was young, I was very angry but I held it inside. Yes, it has. I'm still hoping that there is...
No, I don't. I could look into it.
Of course, there's lots of information available online for local meetings. Perhaps trying a group like ACA could really connect you with your inner child.
Of course, there's lots of information available online for local meetings. Perhaps trying a group like ACA could really connect you with your inner child.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
5,074
neutral
0.053134
0.000217
0.000396
0.000278
0.911778
0.004824
0.029372
429
10
depression
ongoing_depression
I am very depressed. I always have been. I don't know how to fix it. I've tried therapy and medicine but they don't seem to work.
5
1
5
5
I'm depressed... Since as long as I can remember. I've always been depressed. I know. It feels like I've tried everything but nothing works. Yes. I used to be angry but the anger has become sadness... I never knew that. When I was young, I was very angry but I held it inside. Yes, it has. I'm still hoping that there is...
That sounds like a good idea. Thank you so much.
Of course!
Of course!
Others
Others
5,075
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0.000018
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430
1
anxiety
ongoing_depression
My mom is stuck in Mexico and I hate she keeps asking me for money.
3
1
5
5
Hello. I am so upset. It's ridiculous how things keep happening to people around me. I suppose my supporter is not here.
hello how may I assist you today?
hello how may I assist you today?
Question
Question
5,076
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0.000461
0.000377
0.012402
0.808315
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430
2
anxiety
ongoing_depression
My mom is stuck in Mexico and I hate she keeps asking me for money.
3
1
5
5
Hello. I am so upset. It's ridiculous how things keep happening to people around me. I suppose my supporter is not here.
I am just so upset It's like things never get better
I am sorry to hear that. I know how you feel.
I am sorry to hear that. I know how you feel.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
5,077
sad
0.000446
0.000171
0.000035
0.000052
0.000367
0.998872
0.000057
430
3
anxiety
ongoing_depression
My mom is stuck in Mexico and I hate she keeps asking me for money.
3
1
5
5
Hello. I am so upset. It's ridiculous how things keep happening to people around me. I suppose my supporter is not here. I am just so upset It's like things never get better
Yeah... My mom is in Mexico right now for some ex who got deported. Like come on. It's bad enough she sent money to him.
What have you tried in the past to turn things around?
What have you tried in the past to turn things around?
Question
Question
5,078
neutral
0.00087
0.000105
0.000122
0.000022
0.99847
0.000319
0.000091
430
4
anxiety
ongoing_depression
My mom is stuck in Mexico and I hate she keeps asking me for money.
3
1
5
5
Hello. I am so upset. It's ridiculous how things keep happening to people around me. I suppose my supporter is not here. I am just so upset It's like things never get better Yeah... My mom is in Mexico right now for some ex who got deported. Like come on. It's bad enough she sent money to him.
Hm. I tried moving on. And it just appears she gets worst
So you are missing your mom?
So you are missing your mom?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
5,079
disgusted
0.081929
0.897208
0.000371
0.000287
0.009453
0.007846
0.002906
430
5
anxiety
ongoing_depression
My mom is stuck in Mexico and I hate she keeps asking me for money.
3
1
5
5
Hello. I am so upset. It's ridiculous how things keep happening to people around me. I suppose my supporter is not here. I am just so upset It's like things never get better Yeah... My mom is in Mexico right now for some ex who got deported. Like come on. It's bad enough she sent money to him. Hm. I tried moving on. An...
Not really... She just keeps asking me for mone I gave her like 10k for the house she bought and she hasn't done anything back.
Oh I see my mom has also done this in the past. Sometimes I wonder who raised who?
Oh I see my mom has also done this in the past. Sometimes I wonder who raised who?
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
5,080
angry
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0.000489
0.000242
0.116061
0.028827
0.006013
430
6
anxiety
ongoing_depression
My mom is stuck in Mexico and I hate she keeps asking me for money.
3
1
5
5
Hello. I am so upset. It's ridiculous how things keep happening to people around me. I suppose my supporter is not here. I am just so upset It's like things never get better Yeah... My mom is in Mexico right now for some ex who got deported. Like come on. It's bad enough she sent money to him. Hm. I tried moving on. An...
Yeah. I get that She rented it to some guy and left before even getting some decent money so now she is stranded in Mexico with some guy who can't even afford to get her back
That is the worst. I ended up having to cut my mom out of my life.
That is the worst. I ended up having to cut my mom out of my life.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
5,081
neutral
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0.000531
0.001889
0.000076
0.908311
0.067252
0.004889
430
7
anxiety
ongoing_depression
My mom is stuck in Mexico and I hate she keeps asking me for money.
3
1
5
5
Hello. I am so upset. It's ridiculous how things keep happening to people around me. I suppose my supporter is not here. I am just so upset It's like things never get better Yeah... My mom is in Mexico right now for some ex who got deported. Like come on. It's bad enough she sent money to him. Hm. I tried moving on. An...
I wonder if I should do the same... My grand mother basically gave me a whole speech about how ashamed she is.
Sometimes it is for the best to set clear boundries.
Sometimes it is for the best to set clear boundries.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
5,082
sad
0.00206
0.04752
0.004001
0.000351
0.015747
0.712853
0.217468
430
8
anxiety
ongoing_depression
My mom is stuck in Mexico and I hate she keeps asking me for money.
3
1
5
5
Hello. I am so upset. It's ridiculous how things keep happening to people around me. I suppose my supporter is not here. I am just so upset It's like things never get better Yeah... My mom is in Mexico right now for some ex who got deported. Like come on. It's bad enough she sent money to him. Hm. I tried moving on. An...
But who knows. Apparently my mom said she'll put the house in my name for all these things I did for her. Kind of annoying to be frank.
Is Grand mother ashamed of you or her daughter? I feel it should be her ashamed of her daughter.
Is Grand mother ashamed of you or her daughter? I feel it should be her ashamed of her daughter.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
5,083
angry
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0.00095
0.000038
0.000103
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430
9
anxiety
ongoing_depression
My mom is stuck in Mexico and I hate she keeps asking me for money.
3
1
5
5
Hello. I am so upset. It's ridiculous how things keep happening to people around me. I suppose my supporter is not here. I am just so upset It's like things never get better Yeah... My mom is in Mexico right now for some ex who got deported. Like come on. It's bad enough she sent money to him. Hm. I tried moving on. An...
My grand mother is ashamed of her daughter I am kind of left with a weird circumstance.
At least that is a good thing to come out of a bad situation.
At least that is a good thing to come out of a bad situation.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
5,084
disgusted
0.087915
0.556681
0.005137
0.000066
0.010276
0.338357
0.001568
430
10
anxiety
ongoing_depression
My mom is stuck in Mexico and I hate she keeps asking me for money.
3
1
5
5
Hello. I am so upset. It's ridiculous how things keep happening to people around me. I suppose my supporter is not here. I am just so upset It's like things never get better Yeah... My mom is in Mexico right now for some ex who got deported. Like come on. It's bad enough she sent money to him. Hm. I tried moving on. An...
Only reason she has a house is because I helped. And if I leave it. Everyone in my family said I would be irresponsible to let my mom lose it.
I do not think that would have a reflection on you. It should only reflect on your mom.
I do not think that would have a reflection on you. It should only reflect on your mom.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
5,085
angry
0.497683
0.016391
0.001494
0.000168
0.469
0.012176
0.003088
430
11
anxiety
ongoing_depression
My mom is stuck in Mexico and I hate she keeps asking me for money.
3
1
5
5
Hello. I am so upset. It's ridiculous how things keep happening to people around me. I suppose my supporter is not here. I am just so upset It's like things never get better Yeah... My mom is in Mexico right now for some ex who got deported. Like come on. It's bad enough she sent money to him. Hm. I tried moving on. An...
Yeah, they said they already know my mother is irresponsible. Instead they suggested I should provide extra financial security to myself or at least some future children. Grandma already is giving a home and 2 apartments but... I guess I am the only kid. Christ. My mom lost my om over 100k to be honest. It was crazy gr...
It may be nice to have a bonus house for the future. But even that comes with headaches. In the end you have to do what is best for you.
It may be nice to have a bonus house for the future. But even that comes with headaches. In the end you have to do what is best for you.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
5,086
neutral
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0.002236
0.000662
0.001002
0.836478
0.008966
0.053927
430
12
anxiety
ongoing_depression
My mom is stuck in Mexico and I hate she keeps asking me for money.
3
1
5
5
Hello. I am so upset. It's ridiculous how things keep happening to people around me. I suppose my supporter is not here. I am just so upset It's like things never get better Yeah... My mom is in Mexico right now for some ex who got deported. Like come on. It's bad enough she sent money to him. Hm. I tried moving on. An...
Yeah. I guess boundaries are good. I left her without much help to be honest but I guess just hearing it frustrates the crap out of me.
Or sell it now and pocket the money to recoup what was lost.
Or sell it now and pocket the money to recoup what was lost.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
5,087
angry
0.995617
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0.000037
0.000114
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430
13
anxiety
ongoing_depression
My mom is stuck in Mexico and I hate she keeps asking me for money.
3
1
5
5
Hello. I am so upset. It's ridiculous how things keep happening to people around me. I suppose my supporter is not here. I am just so upset It's like things never get better Yeah... My mom is in Mexico right now for some ex who got deported. Like come on. It's bad enough she sent money to him. Hm. I tried moving on. An...
I would but it isn't even my property And mom needs a place to stay... sometimes I wonder if she just wants to be homeless
So she is just talking circles and not accomplishing what she says?
So she is just talking circles and not accomplishing what she says?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
5,088
neutral
0.004758
0.000407
0.003266
0.000166
0.941866
0.010149
0.039388
430
14
anxiety
ongoing_depression
My mom is stuck in Mexico and I hate she keeps asking me for money.
3
1
5
5
Hello. I am so upset. It's ridiculous how things keep happening to people around me. I suppose my supporter is not here. I am just so upset It's like things never get better Yeah... My mom is in Mexico right now for some ex who got deported. Like come on. It's bad enough she sent money to him. Hm. I tried moving on. An...
More like she keeps talking about doing something crazy like have a police chase and how she doesn't care for anything
Some people do choose that life to be free of responsibility.
Some people do choose that life to be free of responsibility. Have you had a talk with her about seeing a mental health professional, She may be having some issues that would benefit from care.
Restatement or Paraphrasing, Providing Suggestions
Restatement or Paraphrasing
5,089
angry
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430
15
anxiety
ongoing_depression
My mom is stuck in Mexico and I hate she keeps asking me for money.
3
1
5
5
Hello. I am so upset. It's ridiculous how things keep happening to people around me. I suppose my supporter is not here. I am just so upset It's like things never get better Yeah... My mom is in Mexico right now for some ex who got deported. Like come on. It's bad enough she sent money to him. Hm. I tried moving on. An...
I tried to baker act her after she tried to call the cops on me randomly It ended up them asking dumb questions like if she knows what day it is letting her free somehow ending up with her getting herself hospitalized 2 weeks later for low hemoglobin.
Often police officers are not fully trained in helping mentally ill people, they only access if the person is a danger to themselves or others.
Often police officers are not fully trained in helping mentally ill people, they only access if the person is a danger to themselves or others.
Information
Information
5,090
neutral
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0.000578
0.533882
0.223442
0.012012
430
16
anxiety
ongoing_depression
My mom is stuck in Mexico and I hate she keeps asking me for money.
3
1
5
5
Hello. I am so upset. It's ridiculous how things keep happening to people around me. I suppose my supporter is not here. I am just so upset It's like things never get better Yeah... My mom is in Mexico right now for some ex who got deported. Like come on. It's bad enough she sent money to him. Hm. I tried moving on. An...
yeah it sucks Tried to get her on disability but they just denied her She was brought up with bipolar depression before I was born. She said she just ran out the hospital.. I don't know how she is just getting the consequences of that now
A good first step is taking her to your local mental health provider. Or ask at a major emergency room where this is located as sometimes the places are hard to find.
A good first step is taking her to your local mental health provider. Or ask at a major emergency room where this is located as sometimes the places are hard to find.
Information
Information
5,091
angry
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430
17
anxiety
ongoing_depression
My mom is stuck in Mexico and I hate she keeps asking me for money.
3
1
5
5
Hello. I am so upset. It's ridiculous how things keep happening to people around me. I suppose my supporter is not here. I am just so upset It's like things never get better Yeah... My mom is in Mexico right now for some ex who got deported. Like come on. It's bad enough she sent money to him. Hm. I tried moving on. An...
That was about 30 years ago Crazy they didn't stop her Well I do feel better. Thinking about boundaries. It has been less stressful being so involved.
Without treatment she may just be getting worse.
Without treatment she may just be getting worse. That is good to hear..
Others, Others
Others
5,092
neutral
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0.00122
0.000517
0.246617
0.681736
0.042933
0.011372
430
18
anxiety
ongoing_depression
My mom is stuck in Mexico and I hate she keeps asking me for money.
3
1
5
5
Hello. I am so upset. It's ridiculous how things keep happening to people around me. I suppose my supporter is not here. I am just so upset It's like things never get better Yeah... My mom is in Mexico right now for some ex who got deported. Like come on. It's bad enough she sent money to him. Hm. I tried moving on. An...
I've heard she has a lawyer trying to straighten up the whole disability and tr eatment thing My girlfriend just won't let me stay out of it Saying my mom has no one and I would regret it if she just does something crazy
That does make it difficult when a partner encourages you to engage in unhealthy behavior.
That does make it difficult when a partner encourages you to engage in unhealthy behavior.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
5,093
neutral
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430
19
anxiety
ongoing_depression
My mom is stuck in Mexico and I hate she keeps asking me for money.
3
1
5
5
Hello. I am so upset. It's ridiculous how things keep happening to people around me. I suppose my supporter is not here. I am just so upset It's like things never get better Yeah... My mom is in Mexico right now for some ex who got deported. Like come on. It's bad enough she sent money to him. Hm. I tried moving on. An...
Yeah. If it was up to me I would probably just be dead silent
I suggest talking to your girlfriend about how it makes you feel when she insists you continue a relationship that causes so much pain.
I suggest talking to your girlfriend about how it makes you feel when she insists you continue a relationship that causes so much pain.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
5,094
neutral
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20
anxiety
ongoing_depression
My mom is stuck in Mexico and I hate she keeps asking me for money.
3
1
5
5
Hello. I am so upset. It's ridiculous how things keep happening to people around me. I suppose my supporter is not here. I am just so upset It's like things never get better Yeah... My mom is in Mexico right now for some ex who got deported. Like come on. It's bad enough she sent money to him. Hm. I tried moving on. An...
Yeah. That's a good point. Well I think the point about boundaries really stuck with me I feel so much better now
It was nice talking to you.
It was nice talking to you.
Others
Others
5,095
happy
0.000945
0.000104
0.000021
0.985397
0.009616
0.000479
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431
1
depression
breakup_with_partner
I am very depressed and despondent because my boyfriend broke up with me and it was right before the wedding. I am close to his family but they won't speak to me know. I am lost without him.
5
1
5
5
I am very sad and depressed because of a recent breakup. How can I ever forget it and move on.
Oh no. I'm sorry to hear that. What happened?
Oh no. I'm sorry to hear that. What happened?
Question
Question
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0.000094
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2
depression
breakup_with_partner
I am very depressed and despondent because my boyfriend broke up with me and it was right before the wedding. I am close to his family but they won't speak to me know. I am lost without him.
5
1
5
5
I am very sad and depressed because of a recent breakup. How can I ever forget it and move on.
I thought everything was great and I already had my wedding dress and we planned a wedding and out of nowhere he dumped me. Now his family won't talk to me either.
that must be horrible. You were already engaged?
that must be horrible. You were already engaged?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
5,097
sad
0.269305
0.003147
0.00052
0.001132
0.002337
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0.001826
431
3
depression
breakup_with_partner
I am very depressed and despondent because my boyfriend broke up with me and it was right before the wedding. I am close to his family but they won't speak to me know. I am lost without him.
5
1
5
5
I am very sad and depressed because of a recent breakup. How can I ever forget it and move on. I thought everything was great and I already had my wedding dress and we planned a wedding and out of nowhere he dumped me. Now his family won't talk to me either.
Yes, we were only engaged for about a month but we have been friends since childhood.
that sounds really hard. that's a long time to know someone.
that sounds really hard. that's a long time to know someone. how long ago did you breka up?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Question
Affirmation and Reassurance
5,098
happy
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0.001019
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0.887517
0.052207
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0.039238
431
4
depression
breakup_with_partner
I am very depressed and despondent because my boyfriend broke up with me and it was right before the wedding. I am close to his family but they won't speak to me know. I am lost without him.
5
1
5
5
I am very sad and depressed because of a recent breakup. How can I ever forget it and move on. I thought everything was great and I already had my wedding dress and we planned a wedding and out of nowhere he dumped me. Now his family won't talk to me either. Yes, we were only engaged for about a month but we have been ...
Yeah, it was basically my whole life. We broke up two nights ago and he already changed his number and blocked my on social media.
that's going to be tough for the next little bit, those sound like some pretty fresh wounds. Have you been able to talk to friends?
that's going to be tough for the next little bit, those sound like some pretty fresh wounds. Have you been able to talk to friends?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
5,099
sad
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0.00033
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431
5
depression
breakup_with_partner
I am very depressed and despondent because my boyfriend broke up with me and it was right before the wedding. I am close to his family but they won't speak to me know. I am lost without him.
5
1
5
5
I am very sad and depressed because of a recent breakup. How can I ever forget it and move on. I thought everything was great and I already had my wedding dress and we planned a wedding and out of nowhere he dumped me. Now his family won't talk to me either. Yes, we were only engaged for about a month but we have been ...
I would like to talk to talk to friends but they happen to be his sisters. So, I am cut off from all of my support. Thank You for talking to me.
I had a break up last year and while it was painful for a bit, i used it as an opportunity to focus on myself and the things I needed. It ended up being a really good self reflective opportunity. Maybe join a gym or a group of some kind to change your network a bit?
I had a break up last year and while it was painful for a bit, i used it as an opportunity to focus on myself and the things I needed. It ended up being a really good self reflective opportunity. Maybe join a gym or a group of some kind to change your network a bit?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
5,100
angry
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431
6
depression
breakup_with_partner
I am very depressed and despondent because my boyfriend broke up with me and it was right before the wedding. I am close to his family but they won't speak to me know. I am lost without him.
5
1
5
5
I am very sad and depressed because of a recent breakup. How can I ever forget it and move on. I thought everything was great and I already had my wedding dress and we planned a wedding and out of nowhere he dumped me. Now his family won't talk to me either. Yes, we were only engaged for about a month but we have been ...
I have been wanting to join the gym. Is it hard going alone or do you go with friends? I hate doing things all alone.
I like going to the gym alone but that's just my personal preference. There are fitness groups like bootcamps that you could join and meet new people. Who knows, you may meet a new friend.
I like going to the gym alone but that's just my personal preference. There are fitness groups like bootcamps that you could join and meet new people. Who knows, you may meet a new friend.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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I am very depressed and despondent because my boyfriend broke up with me and it was right before the wedding. I am close to his family but they won't speak to me know. I am lost without him.
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I am very sad and depressed because of a recent breakup. How can I ever forget it and move on. I thought everything was great and I already had my wedding dress and we planned a wedding and out of nowhere he dumped me. Now his family won't talk to me either. Yes, we were only engaged for about a month but we have been ...
That is a good idea. I need to be around other people who have goals like weight loss. My boyfriend never wanted me to join groups and only wanted me to be friends with his family. That is why I am so alone right now. I made bad choices.
That sounds hard. You deserve to have friends of your own.
That sounds hard. You deserve to have friends of your own.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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I am very depressed and despondent because my boyfriend broke up with me and it was right before the wedding. I am close to his family but they won't speak to me know. I am lost without him.
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I am very sad and depressed because of a recent breakup. How can I ever forget it and move on. I thought everything was great and I already had my wedding dress and we planned a wedding and out of nowhere he dumped me. Now his family won't talk to me either. Yes, we were only engaged for about a month but we have been ...
I agree with you. Do you think that I should try calling his friends and asking for his new number?
there are lots of different kinds of groups you can join, not just fitness. and you can choose how much you want to actively engage with them. I would suggest taking time for yourself. Maybe give yourself some distance from him. If you both decide to reach out again in the future that may be an opportunity, but definit...
there are lots of different kinds of groups you can join, not just fitness. and you can choose how much you want to actively engage with them. I would suggest taking time for yourself. Maybe give yourself some distance from him. If you both decide to reach out again in the future that may be an opportunity, but definit...
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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breakup_with_partner
I am very depressed and despondent because my boyfriend broke up with me and it was right before the wedding. I am close to his family but they won't speak to me know. I am lost without him.
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I am very sad and depressed because of a recent breakup. How can I ever forget it and move on. I thought everything was great and I already had my wedding dress and we planned a wedding and out of nowhere he dumped me. Now his family won't talk to me either. Yes, we were only engaged for about a month but we have been ...
Yeah, I can see your point of view. I have been obsessed with our relationship. We had a fight and it was a verbal war between us and he wouldn't forgive me afterwards.
sometimes you just need some distance. I hate that old saying but as it goes "there are plenty of fish in the sea".
sometimes you just need some distance. I hate that old saying but as it goes "there are plenty of fish in the sea".
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Others
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depression
breakup_with_partner
I am very depressed and despondent because my boyfriend broke up with me and it was right before the wedding. I am close to his family but they won't speak to me know. I am lost without him.
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I am very sad and depressed because of a recent breakup. How can I ever forget it and move on. I thought everything was great and I already had my wedding dress and we planned a wedding and out of nowhere he dumped me. Now his family won't talk to me either. Yes, we were only engaged for about a month but we have been ...
It is true and I am a really nice person and have turned down other guys for him. I am going to stop thinking about him and just join the gym today. You have opened my eyes!
Good luck! you got this. Have fun with it, it sounds like you have other guys who are after you ;)
Good luck! you got this. Have fun with it, it sounds like you have other guys who are after you ;)
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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not really well how about you
What's wrong? How can I help you?
What's wrong? How can I help you? I'm doing pretty well.
Question, Others
Question
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not really well how about you
i lost my job last week that really shatters me
Thats a tough situation. I feel for you. Losing a job is hard, but now, with the pandemic, it's especially hard.
Thats a tough situation. I feel for you. Losing a job is hard, but now, with the pandemic, it's especially hard. Do you live by yourself? Is there someone you can talk to?
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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not really well how about you i lost my job last week that really shatters me
yes the worst situation i met in this year.
I hear you. This is tough! It is important to be around other people. Don't isolate yourself.
I hear you. This is tough! It is important to be around other people. Don't isolate yourself.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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not really well how about you i lost my job last week that really shatters me yes the worst situation i met in this year.
yes i have someone but they are not ready to talk with me
That's too bad. Is there another person, a family member? By the way, how long had you worked at the job?
That's too bad. Is there another person, a family member? By the way, how long had you worked at the job?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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not really well how about you i lost my job last week that really shatters me yes the worst situation i met in this year. yes i have someone but they are not ready to talk with me
I know it, but people aroud me are angry because i lost my job
That's unfair of them. You don't need to discuss the problem. Just chatting with someone can change your mood.
That's unfair of them. You don't need to discuss the problem. Just chatting with someone can change your mood.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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not really well how about you i lost my job last week that really shatters me yes the worst situation i met in this year. yes i have someone but they are not ready to talk with me I know it, but people aroud me are angry because i lost my job
i worked for six years and 4 monts yeah thats why im here
Six years...That's a long time. I bet you were good at your job.
Six years...That's a long time. I bet you were good at your job. I want to help you.
Affirmation and Reassurance, Others
Affirmation and Reassurance
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not really well how about you i lost my job last week that really shatters me yes the worst situation i met in this year. yes i have someone but they are not ready to talk with me I know it, but people aroud me are angry because i lost my job i worked for six years and 4 monts yeah thats why im here
yes i am, but the compay lay off me to reduce their expences and thats my worst time
The economy really has gotten bad. Many people are in a similar situation. I worry too that I might lose my job.
The economy really has gotten bad. Many people are in a similar situation. I worry too that I might lose my job.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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not really well how about you i lost my job last week that really shatters me yes the worst situation i met in this year. yes i have someone but they are not ready to talk with me I know it, but people aroud me are angry because i lost my job i worked for six years and 4 monts yeah thats why im here yes i am, but the c...
dont think like that, it is very hard in that situation
Many people are angry with you. Have they tried to help you with the job search? Do you want to reach out to them for that?
Many people are angry with you. Have they tried to help you with the job search? Do you want to reach out to them for that?
Information
Information
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not really well how about you i lost my job last week that really shatters me yes the worst situation i met in this year. yes i have someone but they are not ready to talk with me I know it, but people aroud me are angry because i lost my job i worked for six years and 4 monts yeah thats why im here yes i am, but the c...
try to stay in your job whatever may happen
I try to stay positive. I talk to people. I think about after the pandemic and how things will be.
I try to stay positive. I talk to people. I think about after the pandemic and how things will be.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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not really well how about you i lost my job last week that really shatters me yes the worst situation i met in this year. yes i have someone but they are not ready to talk with me I know it, but people aroud me are angry because i lost my job i worked for six years and 4 monts yeah thats why im here yes i am, but the c...
I ask them to do so, but they don't give any informaton back
Hmm. That's not supportive. Is there an agency in your city that can help you get that kind of info?
Hmm. That's not supportive. Is there an agency in your city that can help you get that kind of info?
Information
Information
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not really well how about you i lost my job last week that really shatters me yes the worst situation i met in this year. yes i have someone but they are not ready to talk with me I know it, but people aroud me are angry because i lost my job i worked for six years and 4 monts yeah thats why im here yes i am, but the c...
yes, there is one i know but it is closed because of the pandemic
That's too bad. Normally I would send them an email, see if you can schedule an online chat.
That's too bad. Normally I would send them an email, see if you can schedule an online chat. I'm not sure what to do in this case. Have you applied for unemployment?
Others, Information
Others
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not really well how about you i lost my job last week that really shatters me yes the worst situation i met in this year. yes i have someone but they are not ready to talk with me I know it, but people aroud me are angry because i lost my job i worked for six years and 4 monts yeah thats why im here yes i am, but the c...
yeah i would like to get any othe job
That might not be possible at the moment. Work is scarce. I've looked for extra online work, but so many people are trying to get the same work!
That might not be possible at the moment. Work is scarce. I've looked for extra online work, but so many people are trying to get the same work!
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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not really well how about you i lost my job last week that really shatters me yes the worst situation i met in this year. yes i have someone but they are not ready to talk with me I know it, but people aroud me are angry because i lost my job i worked for six years and 4 monts yeah thats why im here yes i am, but the c...
no i did not apllied it
That's the next thing for you to do. You might get cash coming in. It will help you stay optimistic.
That's the next thing for you to do. You might get cash coming in. It will help you stay optimistic.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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not really well how about you i lost my job last week that really shatters me yes the worst situation i met in this year. yes i have someone but they are not ready to talk with me I know it, but people aroud me are angry because i lost my job i worked for six years and 4 monts yeah thats why im here yes i am, but the c...
i see, i will try to apply for it
Great! I hope that this chat has been helpful.
Great! I hope that this chat has been helpful.
Others
Others
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not really well how about you i lost my job last week that really shatters me yes the worst situation i met in this year. yes i have someone but they are not ready to talk with me I know it, but people aroud me are angry because i lost my job i worked for six years and 4 monts yeah thats why im here yes i am, but the c...
yes i think so thankyou very muck much
You're quite welcome! Best of luck with the job search!
You're quite welcome! Best of luck with the job search!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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not really well how about you i lost my job last week that really shatters me yes the worst situation i met in this year. yes i have someone but they are not ready to talk with me I know it, but people aroud me are angry because i lost my job i worked for six years and 4 monts yeah thats why im here yes i am, but the c...
thank you i hope i will get a better obe one
I hope so too.
I hope so too.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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not really well how about you i lost my job last week that really shatters me yes the worst situation i met in this year. yes i have someone but they are not ready to talk with me I know it, but people aroud me are angry because i lost my job i worked for six years and 4 monts yeah thats why im here yes i am, but the c...
thank you
By the way, you need to press the submit button on your end.
By the way, you need to press the submit button on your end.
Others
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not really well how about you i lost my job last week that really shatters me yes the worst situation i met in this year. yes i have someone but they are not ready to talk with me I know it, but people aroud me are angry because i lost my job i worked for six years and 4 monts yeah thats why im here yes i am, but the c...
oh sorry i forgot for some doubt, are you not able to subit it by your side
No. The supporter cannot submit. The two buttons to the right of the text box should have an option for you.
No. The supporter cannot submit. The two buttons to the right of the text box should have an option for you.
Others
Others
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When I broke up with my boyfriend of 5.5 years, I felt extreme fear. Fear of the unknown and fear of what was to come. We shared so much of each other's lives, I didn't know how to go on without him.
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I'm not good today. Not good at all.
I'm here to listen, Tell me about it
I'm here to listen, Tell me about it
Question
Question
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When I broke up with my boyfriend of 5.5 years, I felt extreme fear. Fear of the unknown and fear of what was to come. We shared so much of each other's lives, I didn't know how to go on without him.
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2
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I'm not good today. Not good at all.
I feel extremely scared. Honestly, I felt relief when he left. That he finally did the thing both of us were scared to do. But I was with him for so long. I grew up with him. I don't know how to live by myself.
Why do you think you find yourselves in this situation?
Why do you think you find yourselves in this situation?
Question
Question
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breakup_with_partner
When I broke up with my boyfriend of 5.5 years, I felt extreme fear. Fear of the unknown and fear of what was to come. We shared so much of each other's lives, I didn't know how to go on without him.
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2
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I'm not good today. Not good at all. I feel extremely scared. Honestly, I felt relief when he left. That he finally did the thing both of us were scared to do. But I was with him for so long. I grew up with him. I don't know how to live by myself.
Because he was my life. I spent every waking second with him. He cleaned the things I couldn't. He did the things I couldn't do. I have to basically re-learn how to live by myself again. It's really scary, you know?
I can understand your feelings right now, It's hard to ignore all those memories and moments
I can understand your feelings right now, It's hard to ignore all those memories and moments What bothers you the most? living alone or not having him?
Reflection of feelings, Question
Reflection of feelings
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fear
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When I broke up with my boyfriend of 5.5 years, I felt extreme fear. Fear of the unknown and fear of what was to come. We shared so much of each other's lives, I didn't know how to go on without him.
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5
I'm not good today. Not good at all. I feel extremely scared. Honestly, I felt relief when he left. That he finally did the thing both of us were scared to do. But I was with him for so long. I grew up with him. I don't know how to live by myself. Because he was my life. I spent every waking second with him. He cleaned...
It really is. I don't know how to go on. I've never been through a breakup like this before. I'm scared I'll never be able to find someone else or even think about dating anyone else. Probably living alone and being on my own. I don't really miss him honestly. I miss the comfort of having someone take care of me. We fe...
Hmm, First of all stop being scared
Hmm, First of all stop being scared You can do it on your own I know that's scary for you, but what's the meaning of life without being scared and have our feelings?
Providing Suggestions, Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance
Providing Suggestions
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fear
breakup_with_partner
When I broke up with my boyfriend of 5.5 years, I felt extreme fear. Fear of the unknown and fear of what was to come. We shared so much of each other's lives, I didn't know how to go on without him.
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2
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5
I'm not good today. Not good at all. I feel extremely scared. Honestly, I felt relief when he left. That he finally did the thing both of us were scared to do. But I was with him for so long. I grew up with him. I don't know how to live by myself. Because he was my life. I spent every waking second with him. He cleaned...
That's very true. I have to think about the future. I can do it on my own. I just have to think...this is the worst it'll ever be.
But you should start to take control over your feelings at first, you are the boss and you give the orders!
But you should start to take control over your feelings at first, you are the boss and you give the orders! Slowly but surely you find yourself in a better mood You said you felt relieved, and that's an opportunity
Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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fear
breakup_with_partner
When I broke up with my boyfriend of 5.5 years, I felt extreme fear. Fear of the unknown and fear of what was to come. We shared so much of each other's lives, I didn't know how to go on without him.
5
2
4
5
I'm not good today. Not good at all. I feel extremely scared. Honestly, I felt relief when he left. That he finally did the thing both of us were scared to do. But I was with him for so long. I grew up with him. I don't know how to live by myself. Because he was my life. I spent every waking second with him. He cleaned...
I will try. If anything, I can find myself through this instead of relying on another person. Definitely an opportunity. Thank you for hearing me and making me feel better about everything.
You are free now, Do what makes you happy You and only you can underestimate yourself, stop doing it
You are free now, Do what makes you happy You and only you can underestimate yourself, stop doing it
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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fear
breakup_with_partner
When I broke up with my boyfriend of 5.5 years, I felt extreme fear. Fear of the unknown and fear of what was to come. We shared so much of each other's lives, I didn't know how to go on without him.
5
2
4
5
I'm not good today. Not good at all. I feel extremely scared. Honestly, I felt relief when he left. That he finally did the thing both of us were scared to do. But I was with him for so long. I grew up with him. I don't know how to live by myself. Because he was my life. I spent every waking second with him. He cleaned...
That's great advice. thank you so much.
Don't you think anybody have ever experienced this? They did and they took control, so you can do it too
Don't you think anybody have ever experienced this? They did and they took control, so you can do it too
Information
Information
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happy
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fear
breakup_with_partner
When I broke up with my boyfriend of 5.5 years, I felt extreme fear. Fear of the unknown and fear of what was to come. We shared so much of each other's lives, I didn't know how to go on without him.
5
2
4
5
I'm not good today. Not good at all. I feel extremely scared. Honestly, I felt relief when he left. That he finally did the thing both of us were scared to do. But I was with him for so long. I grew up with him. I don't know how to live by myself. Because he was my life. I spent every waking second with him. He cleaned...
That's very true, I'm not alone.
I hope you feel better now and DECIDE to alter things, tomorrow is a new day
I hope you feel better now and DECIDE to alter things, tomorrow is a new day
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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fear
breakup_with_partner
When I broke up with my boyfriend of 5.5 years, I felt extreme fear. Fear of the unknown and fear of what was to come. We shared so much of each other's lives, I didn't know how to go on without him.
5
2
4
5
I'm not good today. Not good at all. I feel extremely scared. Honestly, I felt relief when he left. That he finally did the thing both of us were scared to do. But I was with him for so long. I grew up with him. I don't know how to live by myself. Because he was my life. I spent every waking second with him. He cleaned...
You've made me feel a million times better, thank you so much. Tomorrow is a new day.
And don't worry, life is full of surprises, maybe you find love one day
And don't worry, life is full of surprises, maybe you find love one day
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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When I broke up with my boyfriend of 5.5 years, I felt extreme fear. Fear of the unknown and fear of what was to come. We shared so much of each other's lives, I didn't know how to go on without him.
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I'm not good today. Not good at all. I feel extremely scared. Honestly, I felt relief when he left. That he finally did the thing both of us were scared to do. But I was with him for so long. I grew up with him. I don't know how to live by myself. Because he was my life. I spent every waking second with him. He cleaned...
You're right. I will.
If there is anything else I can help you with
If there is anything else I can help you with
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Others
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fear
breakup_with_partner
When I broke up with my boyfriend of 5.5 years, I felt extreme fear. Fear of the unknown and fear of what was to come. We shared so much of each other's lives, I didn't know how to go on without him.
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I'm not good today. Not good at all. I feel extremely scared. Honestly, I felt relief when he left. That he finally did the thing both of us were scared to do. But I was with him for so long. I grew up with him. I don't know how to live by myself. Because he was my life. I spent every waking second with him. He cleaned...
No there is not. Thanks for taking the time to talk with me today
Thank you for sharing your feelings with me, Good luck with your future endeavours
Thank you for sharing your feelings with me, Good luck with your future endeavours Bye
Others, Others
Others
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I have been feeling like my friends don't like me and it's making me feel bad.
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Im okay How do you want to do this?
Sure! Can you please tell me how can i help you today?
Sure! Can you please tell me how can i help you today?
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Question
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I have been feeling like my friends don't like me and it's making me feel bad.
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Im okay How do you want to do this?
Ive been feeling like other people dont like me
If I understand you correctly, do you assume people dislike you even if you can't tell for sure?
If I understand you correctly, do you assume people dislike you even if you can't tell for sure?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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