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448
4
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I just broke up with my boyfriend and I hinestly don't know what to do
5
1
5
5
Hi, I;m not too good. Just trying to get over a really bad breakup, still haven't wrapped my head around it to be honest Yeah, apparently the covid situation was getting to him and after he lost his job, he decided he wanted to find himself and try the single life after ten years together Yeah, thankfully, I was basica...
No contact, I sort of lost my temper when he tried to talk things over because I think he was going to use this as a threat but I was so disgusted after being tired from work that I just threw my phone and now my way of contacting him is gone
Maybe that is not all bad, gives him time to think and you too. And if he regrets what he did he will return. But then you would have to make a decission, if you would want him back.
Maybe that is not all bad, gives him time to think and you too. And if he regrets what he did he will return. But then you would have to make a decission, if you would want him back.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
5,306
angry
0.951028
0.045283
0.00012
0.000069
0.001365
0.002046
0.000089
448
5
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I just broke up with my boyfriend and I hinestly don't know what to do
5
1
5
5
Hi, I;m not too good. Just trying to get over a really bad breakup, still haven't wrapped my head around it to be honest Yeah, apparently the covid situation was getting to him and after he lost his job, he decided he wanted to find himself and try the single life after ten years together Yeah, thankfully, I was basica...
I sort of don't think I want him back. Not when he thinks our relationship is some sort of pawn for him to hold over my head. It sucks because my parents didn't even like him, I stuck my neck out for him and now this happens
Well I am sure it sucks and feels a bit lonely. But if you dont want him back have a glass of wine and celebrate the you, you deserve the best and nothing less.
Well I am sure it sucks and feels a bit lonely. But if you dont want him back have a glass of wine and celebrate the you, you deserve the best and nothing less.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
5,307
angry
0.922857
0.030282
0.000617
0.000179
0.03092
0.014146
0.000999
448
6
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I just broke up with my boyfriend and I hinestly don't know what to do
5
1
5
5
Hi, I;m not too good. Just trying to get over a really bad breakup, still haven't wrapped my head around it to be honest Yeah, apparently the covid situation was getting to him and after he lost his job, he decided he wanted to find himself and try the single life after ten years together Yeah, thankfully, I was basica...
I think I'm more scared of being alone because we were together for so long, you know? Like I haven't ever lived on my own. It sounds dumb but I think I'm going to miss the company more than my relationship
I believe it is hard to home is all of a sudden much more quiet, maybe invite a friend over? I am sorry you are going through this.
I believe it is hard to home is all of a sudden much more quiet, maybe invite a friend over? I am sorry you are going through this.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
5,308
fear
0.00021
0.000191
0.988003
0.000092
0.000547
0.010634
0.000323
448
7
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I just broke up with my boyfriend and I hinestly don't know what to do
5
1
5
5
Hi, I;m not too good. Just trying to get over a really bad breakup, still haven't wrapped my head around it to be honest Yeah, apparently the covid situation was getting to him and after he lost his job, he decided he wanted to find himself and try the single life after ten years together Yeah, thankfully, I was basica...
Or I could get a cat, to be honest being a cat lady might be less stressful A cat would definitely be cheaper
They are fun to have LOL, now that is the spirit go to the shelter and safe one of those poor souls. And you can pet it and it is happy to see you any time,
They are fun to have LOL, now that is the spirit go to the shelter and safe one of those poor souls. And you can pet it and it is happy to see you any time,
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
5,309
neutral
0.004568
0.000037
0.000194
0.000526
0.97973
0.004115
0.010831
448
8
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I just broke up with my boyfriend and I hinestly don't know what to do
5
1
5
5
Hi, I;m not too good. Just trying to get over a really bad breakup, still haven't wrapped my head around it to be honest Yeah, apparently the covid situation was getting to him and after he lost his job, he decided he wanted to find himself and try the single life after ten years together Yeah, thankfully, I was basica...
Thanks for listening to me gripe about this, I was just shocked, you know? Like ten years gone down the drain but I guess that's life A kitten definitely sounds like a good idea
Sometimes it just is, but out of all the bad things something good comes out of it you might not just see it now
Sometimes it just is, but out of all the bad things something good comes out of it you might not just see it now Take care of yourself
Others, Others
Others
5,310
surprised
0.000566
0.000311
0.000033
0.000361
0.001359
0.000149
0.99722
448
9
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I just broke up with my boyfriend and I hinestly don't know what to do
5
1
5
5
Hi, I;m not too good. Just trying to get over a really bad breakup, still haven't wrapped my head around it to be honest Yeah, apparently the covid situation was getting to him and after he lost his job, he decided he wanted to find himself and try the single life after ten years together Yeah, thankfully, I was basica...
Thank you and you too
Bye, you need to close the conversation please
Bye, you need to close the conversation please
Information
Information
5,311
happy
0.004853
0.000034
0.000037
0.993451
0.001223
0.000033
0.000369
450
1
fear
job_crisis
Fear of layoff from job
5
1
5
5
Good afternoon I am not good at all
I seems like you are not feeling well. Am I correct?
I seems like you are not feeling well. Am I correct?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
5,323
sad
0.017113
0.001399
0.000064
0.000449
0.003393
0.97712
0.000463
450
2
fear
job_crisis
Fear of layoff from job
5
1
5
5
Good afternoon I am not good at all
Not about feeling well, it is about layoff from my job
Sorry to hear about it. Due to COVID most of us are trap with certain problem
Sorry to hear about it. Due to COVID most of us are trap with certain problem
Others
Others
5,324
neutral
0.011932
0.000465
0.00015
0.059021
0.917003
0.005964
0.005465
450
3
fear
job_crisis
Fear of layoff from job
5
1
5
5
Good afternoon I am not good at all Not about feeling well, it is about layoff from my job
It very serious here in my company firstly it was cut off and now it is layoff
It's really hard time but we should keep hopes. It will end soon
It's really hard time but we should keep hopes. It will end soon
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
5,325
angry
0.379995
0.001972
0.00416
0.000474
0.315134
0.266092
0.032172
450
4
fear
job_crisis
Fear of layoff from job
5
1
5
5
Good afternoon I am not good at all Not about feeling well, it is about layoff from my job It very serious here in my company firstly it was cut off and now it is layoff
Seriously! What I am scare of now is how to secure now job
I can understand it could be a hard time for you. You try to keep working on your skill. For sure you will find a way
I can understand it could be a hard time for you. You try to keep working on your skill. For sure you will find a way
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
5,326
fear
0.000057
0.000043
0.999458
0.000071
0.000136
0.000126
0.000109
450
5
fear
job_crisis
Fear of layoff from job
5
1
5
5
Good afternoon I am not good at all Not about feeling well, it is about layoff from my job It very serious here in my company firstly it was cut off and now it is layoff Seriously! What I am scare of now is how to secure now job
I pray it works for me, I don't even dream about this at all I don't believed it can happen to me
I felt the same way when 50% people were laid off from my previous company. Situation was really stressful all around. I was trying to stay positive and kept working.
I felt the same way when 50% people were laid off from my previous company. Situation was really stressful all around. I was trying to stay positive and kept working. I know sometime its hard to believe what happen with us suddenly, At that time we should keep moving and try to find a way.
Self-disclosure, Others
Self-disclosure
5,327
neutral
0.017534
0.000265
0.004946
0.002673
0.85577
0.093454
0.025358
450
6
fear
job_crisis
Fear of layoff from job
5
1
5
5
Good afternoon I am not good at all Not about feeling well, it is about layoff from my job It very serious here in my company firstly it was cut off and now it is layoff Seriously! What I am scare of now is how to secure now job I pray it works for me, I don't even dream about this at all I don't believed it can happen...
I don't even know where to star from now I am confused
Due to COVID Unemployment rate has increased drastically. Most of the people are facing tough time somehow.
Due to COVID Unemployment rate has increased drastically. Most of the people are facing tough time somehow. I would suggest you to keep trying or working on. Try to explore your strength. I am pretty sure you will get it.
Information, Providing Suggestions
Information
5,328
surprised
0.000466
0.000274
0.001565
0.001511
0.001084
0.000183
0.994917
450
7
fear
job_crisis
Fear of layoff from job
5
1
5
5
Good afternoon I am not good at all Not about feeling well, it is about layoff from my job It very serious here in my company firstly it was cut off and now it is layoff Seriously! What I am scare of now is how to secure now job I pray it works for me, I don't even dream about this at all I don't believed it can happen...
That is it my friend! A lot of people are losing their jobs on daily basis, that one a lone is scaring
I can understand its hard to find a job right now. The situation will not gonna stay the same, we should keep trying.
I can understand its hard to find a job right now. The situation will not gonna stay the same, we should keep trying.
Others
Others
5,329
fear
0.000174
0.00007
0.998399
0.000153
0.000378
0.000691
0.000136
450
8
fear
job_crisis
Fear of layoff from job
5
1
5
5
Good afternoon I am not good at all Not about feeling well, it is about layoff from my job It very serious here in my company firstly it was cut off and now it is layoff Seriously! What I am scare of now is how to secure now job I pray it works for me, I don't even dream about this at all I don't believed it can happen...
Thanks friend! That is what I was thinking about
Hope my words will help you stay positive at this tough time which all of us are facing. The very important thing right now is to stay healthy and safe. Take care
Hope my words will help you stay positive at this tough time which all of us are facing. The very important thing right now is to stay healthy and safe. Take care
Others
Others
5,330
happy
0.00094
0.000033
0.00001
0.998248
0.000361
0.000041
0.000367
453
1
depression
job_crisis
i was furloughed
5
2
5
5
not too good how are you too
I'm doing okay. What's going on? What has you so down?
I'm doing okay. What's going on? What has you so down?
Question
Question
5,348
angry
0.985695
0.000701
0.000078
0.000759
0.006456
0.004967
0.001344
453
2
depression
job_crisis
i was furloughed
5
2
5
5
not too good how are you too
i was furloughed
Oh, I'm so sorry to hear that! So many people have been furloughed this year.
Oh, I'm so sorry to hear that! So many people have been furloughed this year. Do you think they will bring you back?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Question
Affirmation and Reassurance
5,349
angry
0.531665
0.005143
0.001224
0.000719
0.308343
0.130738
0.022168
453
3
depression
job_crisis
i was furloughed
5
2
5
5
not too good how are you too i was furloughed
i don't know for sure
I'm sure that has you anxious and probably a little depressed. Are you looking for other employment opportunities yet?
I'm sure that has you anxious and probably a little depressed. Are you looking for other employment opportunities yet?
Question
Question
5,350
surprised
0.002105
0.000382
0.000126
0.000385
0.013786
0.000893
0.982323
453
4
depression
job_crisis
i was furloughed
5
2
5
5
not too good how are you too i was furloughed i don't know for sure
i am beyond depressed but luckily i found a place but the take-home can't cut it
It's good that you were able to find another job, but I completely understand about the take home not being enough. Do you work full time, or is it just part time for now?
It's good that you were able to find another job, but I completely understand about the take home not being enough. Do you work full time, or is it just part time for now?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
5,351
sad
0.000186
0.000071
0.00009
0.000258
0.000259
0.999102
0.000034
453
5
depression
job_crisis
i was furloughed
5
2
5
5
not too good how are you too i was furloughed i don't know for sure i am beyond depressed but luckily i found a place but the take-home can't cut it
its just part time and i am even scared of covid 19 exposure the take-home is just too small
Oh, I understand being nervous about covid exposure, especially if you're working with the public, who may not abide by mask mandates and social distancing. Is there anything you can do to limit exposure?
Oh, I understand being nervous about covid exposure, especially if you're working with the public, who may not abide by mask mandates and social distancing. Is there anything you can do to limit exposure? Also, are you able to look for a second job at all? The extra hours may bring in extra income while you try to find...
Restatement or Paraphrasing, Providing Suggestions
Restatement or Paraphrasing
5,352
fear
0.000057
0.000057
0.999427
0.000047
0.000112
0.000245
0.000055
453
6
depression
job_crisis
i was furloughed
5
2
5
5
not too good how are you too i was furloughed i don't know for sure i am beyond depressed but luckily i found a place but the take-home can't cut it its just part time and i am even scared of covid 19 exposure the take-home is just too small
it took me time to find this job, there is no work anywhere.
It sounds like you're really frustrated. That's completely understandable.
It sounds like you're really frustrated. That's completely understandable.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
5,353
sad
0.268488
0.001594
0.040719
0.001292
0.031132
0.650703
0.006072
453
7
depression
job_crisis
i was furloughed
5
2
5
5
not too good how are you too i was furloughed i don't know for sure i am beyond depressed but luckily i found a place but the take-home can't cut it its just part time and i am even scared of covid 19 exposure the take-home is just too small it took me time to find this job, there is no work anywhere.
and there is nothing i can do about the covid exposure because folks around here sees nose mask as treat to Pres. Trump i am beyond frustrated. it s soo depressing
That is very frustrating. I know I find it very annoying when I see people out and about without masks. It drives me crazy, just thinking about how they're keeping this stupid pandemic going and keeping people out of work.
That is very frustrating. I know I find it very annoying when I see people out and about without masks. It drives me crazy, just thinking about how they're keeping this stupid pandemic going and keeping people out of work.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
5,354
sad
0.099078
0.115347
0.004448
0.000132
0.048951
0.730736
0.001307
453
8
depression
job_crisis
i was furloughed
5
2
5
5
not too good how are you too i was furloughed i don't know for sure i am beyond depressed but luckily i found a place but the take-home can't cut it its just part time and i am even scared of covid 19 exposure the take-home is just too small it took me time to find this job, there is no work anywhere. and there is noth...
you got my point
I wish I had more suggestions for you. I think the only thing you can do is keep looking, make sure your resume is updated and current. If there are any employment agencies in your area, they may be worth looking into. And if there are any public assistance programs you qualify for, there's no shame in seeking help whe...
I wish I had more suggestions for you. I think the only thing you can do is keep looking, make sure your resume is updated and current. If there are any employment agencies in your area, they may be worth looking into. And if there are any public assistance programs you qualify for, there's no shame in seeking help whe...
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
5,355
neutral
0.01313
0.000058
0.000152
0.000471
0.973096
0.000554
0.012539
453
9
depression
job_crisis
i was furloughed
5
2
5
5
not too good how are you too i was furloughed i don't know for sure i am beyond depressed but luckily i found a place but the take-home can't cut it its just part time and i am even scared of covid 19 exposure the take-home is just too small it took me time to find this job, there is no work anywhere. and there is noth...
i will keep doing that, may be something will show up
I sure hope it does. I wish you all the luck in the world.
I sure hope it does. I wish you all the luck in the world.
Others
Others
5,356
neutral
0.001813
0.000026
0.000151
0.000164
0.995943
0.000439
0.001464
453
10
depression
job_crisis
i was furloughed
5
2
5
5
not too good how are you too i was furloughed i don't know for sure i am beyond depressed but luckily i found a place but the take-home can't cut it its just part time and i am even scared of covid 19 exposure the take-home is just too small it took me time to find this job, there is no work anywhere. and there is noth...
thanks, it's nice talking about it thanks for hearing me out
You're very welcome. I'm glad I could be here for you.
You're very welcome. I'm glad I could be here for you.
Others
Others
5,357
happy
0.000792
0.00002
0.000015
0.999038
0.000059
0.000029
0.000047
453
11
depression
job_crisis
i was furloughed
5
2
5
5
not too good how are you too i was furloughed i don't know for sure i am beyond depressed but luckily i found a place but the take-home can't cut it its just part time and i am even scared of covid 19 exposure the take-home is just too small it took me time to find this job, there is no work anywhere. and there is noth...
yea
Is there anything else you'd like to talk about?
Is there anything else you'd like to talk about?
Question
Question
5,358
neutral
0.0049
0.000085
0.00015
0.010044
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0.000755
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453
12
depression
job_crisis
i was furloughed
5
2
5
5
not too good how are you too i was furloughed i don't know for sure i am beyond depressed but luckily i found a place but the take-home can't cut it its just part time and i am even scared of covid 19 exposure the take-home is just too small it took me time to find this job, there is no work anywhere. and there is noth...
that will be all for now
Okay. Have a good night!
Okay. Have a good night!
Others
Others
5,359
neutral
0.013022
0.000086
0.000308
0.0004
0.976445
0.001395
0.008343
455
1
depression
ongoing_depression
staying at home with kids and stopping outside work
3
2
5
5
Hi there, can you help me?
I'll do my best. What do you need help with?
I'll do my best. What do you need help with?
Question
Question
5,367
neutral
0.056027
0.000463
0.010914
0.003658
0.842104
0.013602
0.073233
455
2
depression
ongoing_depression
staying at home with kids and stopping outside work
3
2
5
5
Hi there, can you help me?
I feel depressed because I had to quit my job and stay home with my kids because of their remote school.
I can understand why that would make you feel depressed.
I can understand why that would make you feel depressed.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
5,368
sad
0.000187
0.00008
0.000066
0.000025
0.000176
0.999447
0.000019
455
3
depression
ongoing_depression
staying at home with kids and stopping outside work
3
2
5
5
Hi there, can you help me? I feel depressed because I had to quit my job and stay home with my kids because of their remote school.
Do you have any advice on how to feel better?
Yes of course. It's good that you are acknowledging your feelings. To improve your mood you could practice hobbies or other things you enjoy doing.
Yes of course. It's good that you are acknowledging your feelings. To improve your mood you could practice hobbies or other things you enjoy doing.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
5,369
neutral
0.001304
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0.00035
0.004636
0.982047
0.000937
0.010653
455
4
depression
ongoing_depression
staying at home with kids and stopping outside work
3
2
5
5
Hi there, can you help me? I feel depressed because I had to quit my job and stay home with my kids because of their remote school. Do you have any advice on how to feel better?
I see. Yes I do enjoy knitting. I just don't feel like I have time to do that.
I can understand how you feel that you don't have time.
I can understand how you feel that you don't have time.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
5,370
angry
0.493719
0.006753
0.000641
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5
depression
ongoing_depression
staying at home with kids and stopping outside work
3
2
5
5
Hi there, can you help me? I feel depressed because I had to quit my job and stay home with my kids because of their remote school. Do you have any advice on how to feel better? I see. Yes I do enjoy knitting. I just don't feel like I have time to do that.
When I do have time I feel too exhausted to do anything else.
Parents need to learn to take care of their own needs first before their children. Only then can you be truly available for anyone else.
Parents need to learn to take care of their own needs first before their children. Only then can you be truly available for anyone else.
Information
Information
5,371
sad
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455
6
depression
ongoing_depression
staying at home with kids and stopping outside work
3
2
5
5
Hi there, can you help me? I feel depressed because I had to quit my job and stay home with my kids because of their remote school. Do you have any advice on how to feel better? I see. Yes I do enjoy knitting. I just don't feel like I have time to do that. When I do have time I feel too exhausted to do anything else.
You're right, I need to find time for me.
Indeed, once you free up some time for yourself, I bet you'll start to feel better.
Indeed, once you free up some time for yourself, I bet you'll start to feel better.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
5,372
neutral
0.009764
0.000048
0.000132
0.0002
0.984428
0.001451
0.003977
455
7
depression
ongoing_depression
staying at home with kids and stopping outside work
3
2
5
5
Hi there, can you help me? I feel depressed because I had to quit my job and stay home with my kids because of their remote school. Do you have any advice on how to feel better? I see. Yes I do enjoy knitting. I just don't feel like I have time to do that. When I do have time I feel too exhausted to do anything else. Y...
Do you have other suggestions?
Yes, try meditation for a few minutes each morning.
Yes, try meditation for a few minutes each morning.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
5,373
neutral
0.004696
0.000049
0.000244
0.000347
0.971391
0.000386
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455
8
depression
ongoing_depression
staying at home with kids and stopping outside work
3
2
5
5
Hi there, can you help me? I feel depressed because I had to quit my job and stay home with my kids because of their remote school. Do you have any advice on how to feel better? I see. Yes I do enjoy knitting. I just don't feel like I have time to do that. When I do have time I feel too exhausted to do anything else. Y...
What do I do to meditate?
Take a few deep breaths and clear your mind of negative thoughts.
Take a few deep breaths and clear your mind of negative thoughts.
Information
Information
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455
9
depression
ongoing_depression
staying at home with kids and stopping outside work
3
2
5
5
Hi there, can you help me? I feel depressed because I had to quit my job and stay home with my kids because of their remote school. Do you have any advice on how to feel better? I see. Yes I do enjoy knitting. I just don't feel like I have time to do that. When I do have time I feel too exhausted to do anything else. Y...
That sounds good, but how will it help.
meditation allows you to set up your day in your mind and let you be calm.
meditation allows you to set up your day in your mind and let you be calm.
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Information
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ongoing_depression
staying at home with kids and stopping outside work
3
2
5
5
Hi there, can you help me? I feel depressed because I had to quit my job and stay home with my kids because of their remote school. Do you have any advice on how to feel better? I see. Yes I do enjoy knitting. I just don't feel like I have time to do that. When I do have time I feel too exhausted to do anything else. Y...
Will that help me get through the day and be happy?
Yes, it won't happen overnight but be patient with it.
Yes, it won't happen overnight but be patient with it.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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happy
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0.048367
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depression
ongoing_depression
staying at home with kids and stopping outside work
3
2
5
5
Hi there, can you help me? I feel depressed because I had to quit my job and stay home with my kids because of their remote school. Do you have any advice on how to feel better? I see. Yes I do enjoy knitting. I just don't feel like I have time to do that. When I do have time I feel too exhausted to do anything else. Y...
Ok thanks.
do you have any other concerns?
do you have any other concerns?
Question
Question
5,377
angry
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0.033045
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12
depression
ongoing_depression
staying at home with kids and stopping outside work
3
2
5
5
Hi there, can you help me? I feel depressed because I had to quit my job and stay home with my kids because of their remote school. Do you have any advice on how to feel better? I see. Yes I do enjoy knitting. I just don't feel like I have time to do that. When I do have time I feel too exhausted to do anything else. Y...
no I think you helped me enough.
I'm hearing that I have helped enough and you don't have any more concerns?
I'm hearing that I have helped enough and you don't have any more concerns?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
5,378
angry
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depression
ongoing_depression
staying at home with kids and stopping outside work
3
2
5
5
Hi there, can you help me? I feel depressed because I had to quit my job and stay home with my kids because of their remote school. Do you have any advice on how to feel better? I see. Yes I do enjoy knitting. I just don't feel like I have time to do that. When I do have time I feel too exhausted to do anything else. Y...
Yes and thank you!
You are welcome, and good bye.
You are welcome, and good bye.
Others
Others
5,379
happy
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fear
ongoing_depression
I am fearful about changing a job during COVID but I am not happy at current job
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am doing ok.
That's good to hear. Can I encourage you in some way?
That's good to hear. Can I encourage you in some way?
Question
Question
5,381
happy
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fear
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I am fearful about changing a job during COVID but I am not happy at current job
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am doing ok.
I am afraid about changing my job during COVID but I am not happy at my current job.
So you are unhappy at your job and want to do something else? What exactly are your fears?
So you are unhappy at your job and want to do something else? What exactly are your fears? I have found writing out a pro and con list helps me -- On one side I look at the benefits, then I put the cons on the other side. They I weigh them, even if there are more cons, sometimes the PROS are much better.
Restatement or Paraphrasing, Self-disclosure
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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fear
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fear
ongoing_depression
I am fearful about changing a job during COVID but I am not happy at current job
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am doing ok. I am afraid about changing my job during COVID but I am not happy at my current job.
I am a helpdesk associate for a large telecom company. I don't like the hours and the pay here but I am afraid if I can get a job outside in this time.
I can understand that looking for a job can be stressful and challenging at this time, but one thing is for certain, you will never know if you don't try.
I can understand that looking for a job can be stressful and challenging at this time, but one thing is for certain, you will never know if you don't try.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
5,383
fear
0.000132
0.000077
0.998959
0.000058
0.000212
0.000514
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456
4
fear
ongoing_depression
I am fearful about changing a job during COVID but I am not happy at current job
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am doing ok. I am afraid about changing my job during COVID but I am not happy at my current job. I am a helpdesk associate for a large telecom company. I don't like the hours and the pay here but I am afraid if I can get a job outside in this time.
I have tried the Pros & Cons method. Pros are better pay and hours, cons are tougher interviews and more rounds Yes, I think I need to give a try but I lack the confidence to put my resume out in the market.
I like the "Do it afraid!" method. I can still try even if I feel nervous. You really do not need confidence to put your resume out there, you just need to do it afraid. And when I "do it afraid" I realize it was easier than I thought.
I like the "Do it afraid!" method. I can still try even if I feel nervous. You really do not need confidence to put your resume out there, you just need to do it afraid. And when I "do it afraid" I realize it was easier than I thought.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
5,384
sad
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0.017044
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456
5
fear
ongoing_depression
I am fearful about changing a job during COVID but I am not happy at current job
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am doing ok. I am afraid about changing my job during COVID but I am not happy at my current job. I am a helpdesk associate for a large telecom company. I don't like the hours and the pay here but I am afraid if I can get a job outside in this time. I have tried the Pros & Cons method. Pros are better pay and hou...
"Do it afraid"? Do you mean do it even if I am afraid? It sounds a bit too optimistic to me.
I used to be paralyzed with self confidence, but the truth is, your confidence doesn't come from your job, your confidence comes from being a lovable person. The confidence that you are the person you want to be.
I used to be paralyzed with self confidence, but the truth is, your confidence doesn't come from your job, your confidence comes from being a lovable person. The confidence that you are the person you want to be. It sounds optimistic but it is the truth, when I step out to perform, I'm always nervous. BEING nervous loo...
Reflection of feelings, Affirmation and Reassurance
Reflection of feelings
5,385
neutral
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fear
ongoing_depression
I am fearful about changing a job during COVID but I am not happy at current job
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am doing ok. I am afraid about changing my job during COVID but I am not happy at my current job. I am a helpdesk associate for a large telecom company. I don't like the hours and the pay here but I am afraid if I can get a job outside in this time. I have tried the Pros & Cons method. Pros are better pay and hou...
Ok, I think it makes sense. I may have to give it a try.
I always felt awkward and nervous looking for a job, I think I went to one interview calm and cool, in 30 years! Hahaha.
I always felt awkward and nervous looking for a job, I think I went to one interview calm and cool, in 30 years! Hahaha.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
5,386
neutral
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0.000198
0.001345
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7
fear
ongoing_depression
I am fearful about changing a job during COVID but I am not happy at current job
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am doing ok. I am afraid about changing my job during COVID but I am not happy at my current job. I am a helpdesk associate for a large telecom company. I don't like the hours and the pay here but I am afraid if I can get a job outside in this time. I have tried the Pros & Cons method. Pros are better pay and hou...
I am a good team player, I don't have any inter-personal or communication issues. Just that I need to be at a higher pay to reach some financial goals
You have nothing to lose, really, you have weighed out that there is only good things that can come, but you think you must "feel" a certain way. You don not have to feel confident, you just have to do the work. For example, you don't FEEL like walking your dog, changing a diaper or helping someone, but you DO IT anywa...
You have nothing to lose, really, you have weighed out that there is only good things that can come, but you think you must "feel" a certain way. You don not have to feel confident, you just have to do the work. For example, you don't FEEL like walking your dog, changing a diaper or helping someone, but you DO IT anywa...
Others
Others
5,387
neutral
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0.000182
0.000273
0.951971
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0.004067
456
8
fear
ongoing_depression
I am fearful about changing a job during COVID but I am not happy at current job
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am doing ok. I am afraid about changing my job during COVID but I am not happy at my current job. I am a helpdesk associate for a large telecom company. I don't like the hours and the pay here but I am afraid if I can get a job outside in this time. I have tried the Pros & Cons method. Pros are better pay and hou...
Cool! I will try to get motivated and start applying. Your words are just what I needed in this gloomy atmosphere.
Inter personal skills can be learned. I was very shy as a child and I learned how to be more friendly. And I was VERY shy.
Inter personal skills can be learned. I was very shy as a child and I learned how to be more friendly. And I was VERY shy.
Others
Others
5,388
sad
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456
9
fear
ongoing_depression
I am fearful about changing a job during COVID but I am not happy at current job
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am doing ok. I am afraid about changing my job during COVID but I am not happy at my current job. I am a helpdesk associate for a large telecom company. I don't like the hours and the pay here but I am afraid if I can get a job outside in this time. I have tried the Pros & Cons method. Pros are better pay and hou...
Ya, I think the key is to keep my current job and start looking elsewhere. Last time I made a grave mistake of quitting my job and then searching! I was very new, and over confident
I'm very outgoing now. I had to learn a lot of skills to be this way and I like myself more too. Hahah. I'm old though, 59. You have nothing to lose, consider it a learning opportunity.
I'm very outgoing now. I had to learn a lot of skills to be this way and I like myself more too. Hahah. I'm old though, 59. You have nothing to lose, consider it a learning opportunity. Life is a journey. We all make mistakes in the past. I think you are very intelligent actually because you thought of the pros and con...
Self-disclosure, Others
Self-disclosure
5,389
sad
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fear
ongoing_depression
I am fearful about changing a job during COVID but I am not happy at current job
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am doing ok. I am afraid about changing my job during COVID but I am not happy at my current job. I am a helpdesk associate for a large telecom company. I don't like the hours and the pay here but I am afraid if I can get a job outside in this time. I have tried the Pros & Cons method. Pros are better pay and hou...
Thank you sir, I will definitely try it! You have shared Pure words of wisdom
I'm a lady! I pray to God and read the Bible and get wisdom there. Plus I have been to the school of hard knocks! lol
I'm a lady! I pray to God and read the Bible and get wisdom there. Plus I have been to the school of hard knocks! lol I'm a lady! I pray to God and read the Bible and get wisdom there. Plus I have been to the school of hard knocks! lol
Self-disclosure, Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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happy
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fear
ongoing_depression
I am fearful about changing a job during COVID but I am not happy at current job
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am doing ok. I am afraid about changing my job during COVID but I am not happy at my current job. I am a helpdesk associate for a large telecom company. I don't like the hours and the pay here but I am afraid if I can get a job outside in this time. I have tried the Pros & Cons method. Pros are better pay and hou...
Oh my apologies, mam!!
I look forward to your new job! And celebrate with you. Take deep breaths and forge ahead!!
I look forward to your new job! And celebrate with you. Take deep breaths and forge ahead!!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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fear
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I am fearful about changing a job during COVID but I am not happy at current job
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am doing ok. I am afraid about changing my job during COVID but I am not happy at my current job. I am a helpdesk associate for a large telecom company. I don't like the hours and the pay here but I am afraid if I can get a job outside in this time. I have tried the Pros & Cons method. Pros are better pay and hou...
Definitely! Thanks a lot for your mentorship Have a great week ahead :)
You are welcome! Thank you for sharing your life with me!
You are welcome! Thank you for sharing your life with me!
Others
Others
5,392
happy
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0.000007
0.999791
0.000038
0.000019
0.000031
457
1
anger
job_crisis
My manager does not respect COVID guidelines or protect my safety.
3
2
4
5
I am feeling okay, but I have been better
Is there anything specific that you'd like to talk about with me?
Is there anything specific that you'd like to talk about with me?
Question
Question
5,394
happy
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2
anger
job_crisis
My manager does not respect COVID guidelines or protect my safety.
3
2
4
5
I am feeling okay, but I have been better
I am having a lot of conflict with my boss at work.
That is not good. Are you thinking of looking for new work?
That is not good. Are you thinking of looking for new work?
Question
Question
5,395
sad
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3
anger
job_crisis
My manager does not respect COVID guidelines or protect my safety.
3
2
4
5
I am feeling okay, but I have been better I am having a lot of conflict with my boss at work.
Honestly maybe. It is exhausting
I had a similar situation myself a few years ago and I moved on. I've never regretted it.
I had a similar situation myself a few years ago and I moved on. I've never regretted it.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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angry
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4
anger
job_crisis
My manager does not respect COVID guidelines or protect my safety.
3
2
4
5
I am feeling okay, but I have been better I am having a lot of conflict with my boss at work. Honestly maybe. It is exhausting
It is just a little scary since I don't have anything else set up
Is your boss's behaviour unreasonable enough to justify making a complaint about him to HR?
Is your boss's behaviour unreasonable enough to justify making a complaint about him to HR?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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fear
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anger
job_crisis
My manager does not respect COVID guidelines or protect my safety.
3
2
4
5
I am feeling okay, but I have been better I am having a lot of conflict with my boss at work. Honestly maybe. It is exhausting It is just a little scary since I don't have anything else set up
I have and they just contacted her boss. Nothing changed after.
It might be worth following up with. There are organisations that could give you free advice.
It might be worth following up with. There are organisations that could give you free advice.
Information
Information
5,398
neutral
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0.000182
0.000209
0.925267
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457
6
anger
job_crisis
My manager does not respect COVID guidelines or protect my safety.
3
2
4
5
I am feeling okay, but I have been better I am having a lot of conflict with my boss at work. Honestly maybe. It is exhausting It is just a little scary since I don't have anything else set up I have and they just contacted her boss. Nothing changed after.
That might be helpful but I still feel like I am alone in this struggle
You should not have to suffer if you are being bullied. Please contact your local Citizen's Advice!
You should not have to suffer if you are being bullied. Please contact your local Citizen's Advice!
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
5,399
sad
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0.001099
0.997073
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457
7
anger
job_crisis
My manager does not respect COVID guidelines or protect my safety.
3
2
4
5
I am feeling okay, but I have been better I am having a lot of conflict with my boss at work. Honestly maybe. It is exhausting It is just a little scary since I don't have anything else set up I have and they just contacted her boss. Nothing changed after. That might be helpful but I still feel like I am alone in this ...
I guess I could at least try. You're so right
Do any of your colleagues feel the same way that you do?
Do any of your colleagues feel the same way that you do?
Question
Question
5,400
neutral
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0.000059
0.000132
0.000334
0.979897
0.000722
0.015495
457
8
anger
job_crisis
My manager does not respect COVID guidelines or protect my safety.
3
2
4
5
I am feeling okay, but I have been better I am having a lot of conflict with my boss at work. Honestly maybe. It is exhausting It is just a little scary since I don't have anything else set up I have and they just contacted her boss. Nothing changed after. That might be helpful but I still feel like I am alone in this ...
They don't. I think that is what makes it so much more difficult.
I am sorry to hear that. Perhaps it really is the best time to just move on.
I am sorry to hear that. Perhaps it really is the best time to just move on.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
5,401
angry
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9
anger
job_crisis
My manager does not respect COVID guidelines or protect my safety.
3
2
4
5
I am feeling okay, but I have been better I am having a lot of conflict with my boss at work. Honestly maybe. It is exhausting It is just a little scary since I don't have anything else set up I have and they just contacted her boss. Nothing changed after. That might be helpful but I still feel like I am alone in this ...
It probably is a sign I need to do something else anyway
Yes, the world is your oyster. I wish you all the best with whatever you do!
Yes, the world is your oyster. I wish you all the best with whatever you do!
Others
Others
5,402
neutral
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0.000033
0.000125
0.000237
0.994859
0.000724
0.002526
457
10
anger
job_crisis
My manager does not respect COVID guidelines or protect my safety.
3
2
4
5
I am feeling okay, but I have been better I am having a lot of conflict with my boss at work. Honestly maybe. It is exhausting It is just a little scary since I don't have anything else set up I have and they just contacted her boss. Nothing changed after. That might be helpful but I still feel like I am alone in this ...
Thank you. I appreciate you talking to me.
You're welcome and take care
You're welcome and take care (you need to press quit first .. I can't :))
Others, Providing Suggestions
Others
5,403
happy
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1
sadness
ongoing_depression
I'm feeling so depressed lately. The holidays are coming and I just want to stay in bed under the covers.
4
2
5
5
I don't know how to get over this I'm just alright.
You are having some trouble getting over something is that correct?
You are having some trouble getting over something is that correct? Why are you feeling just alright?
Restatement or Paraphrasing, Question
Restatement or Paraphrasing
5,416
surprised
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sadness
ongoing_depression
I'm feeling so depressed lately. The holidays are coming and I just want to stay in bed under the covers.
4
2
5
5
I don't know how to get over this I'm just alright.
I'm feeling just alright because nothing excites me or gives me joy anymore. Many of my family have passed on and the holidays are coming.
I understand that it is hard to have some type of joy especially with the holidays coming along especially when family has passed on.
I understand that it is hard to have some type of joy especially with the holidays coming along especially when family has passed on.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
5,417
happy
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0.000096
0.63176
0.0014
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3
sadness
ongoing_depression
I'm feeling so depressed lately. The holidays are coming and I just want to stay in bed under the covers.
4
2
5
5
I don't know how to get over this I'm just alright. I'm feeling just alright because nothing excites me or gives me joy anymore. Many of my family have passed on and the holidays are coming.
This pandemic doesn't help either. No gatherings with many people.
I know it is hard, it also has taken a toll on me as well this pandemic is hard to go through, but I take it day by day. Maybe you should take to someone if there is anyone close to you?
I know it is hard, it also has taken a toll on me as well this pandemic is hard to go through, but I take it day by day. Maybe you should take to someone if there is anyone close to you?
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
5,418
angry
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4
sadness
ongoing_depression
I'm feeling so depressed lately. The holidays are coming and I just want to stay in bed under the covers.
4
2
5
5
I don't know how to get over this I'm just alright. I'm feeling just alright because nothing excites me or gives me joy anymore. Many of my family have passed on and the holidays are coming. This pandemic doesn't help either. No gatherings with many people.
Only my Aunt, but I haven't talked to her in a long time. I just figure she's busy.
maybe you should try to call her sometime im sure she would like that
maybe you should try to call her sometime im sure she would like that
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
5,419
surprised
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0.000373
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459
5
sadness
ongoing_depression
I'm feeling so depressed lately. The holidays are coming and I just want to stay in bed under the covers.
4
2
5
5
I don't know how to get over this I'm just alright. I'm feeling just alright because nothing excites me or gives me joy anymore. Many of my family have passed on and the holidays are coming. This pandemic doesn't help either. No gatherings with many people. Only my Aunt, but I haven't talked to her in a long time. I ju...
How do I get over feeling like I'm dumping on her? I know she's family but i'm sure she has problems too.
right I see where you are coming from, remeber she is your family
right I see where you are coming from, remeber she is your family
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
5,420
neutral
0.051838
0.001094
0.00057
0.000356
0.82686
0.085201
0.034081
459
6
sadness
ongoing_depression
I'm feeling so depressed lately. The holidays are coming and I just want to stay in bed under the covers.
4
2
5
5
I don't know how to get over this I'm just alright. I'm feeling just alright because nothing excites me or gives me joy anymore. Many of my family have passed on and the holidays are coming. This pandemic doesn't help either. No gatherings with many people. Only my Aunt, but I haven't talked to her in a long time. I ju...
Yes, I suppose you are right. My aunt is the youngest sister of my mom. We used to see each other at family gatherings. Maybe she won't mind me calling.
see you got this, a call is all that it takes to feel better
see you got this, a call is all that it takes to feel better
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
5,421
neutral
0.003432
0.00007
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7
sadness
ongoing_depression
I'm feeling so depressed lately. The holidays are coming and I just want to stay in bed under the covers.
4
2
5
5
I don't know how to get over this I'm just alright. I'm feeling just alright because nothing excites me or gives me joy anymore. Many of my family have passed on and the holidays are coming. This pandemic doesn't help either. No gatherings with many people. Only my Aunt, but I haven't talked to her in a long time. I ju...
I'm going to follow your suggestion and get myself out of this slump I'm in. I know I'm not the only person who goes through this, but it feels this way sometimes.
I used to feel like that all the time but then I thought to myself that i needed to surround myself with people and not be alone.
I used to feel like that all the time but then I thought to myself that i needed to surround myself with people and not be alone. Im glad that you are going to follow my suggestion, we all go through the same thing but your getting help and thats whats counts
Self-disclosure, Affirmation and Reassurance
Self-disclosure
5,422
neutral
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459
8
sadness
ongoing_depression
I'm feeling so depressed lately. The holidays are coming and I just want to stay in bed under the covers.
4
2
5
5
I don't know how to get over this I'm just alright. I'm feeling just alright because nothing excites me or gives me joy anymore. Many of my family have passed on and the holidays are coming. This pandemic doesn't help either. No gatherings with many people. Only my Aunt, but I haven't talked to her in a long time. I ju...
You have a good point there. I used to think if I had my family then I didn't need anybody else. But we all need somebody to talk to.
exactly you got it, we all need to surround ourselves with good people, im glad that you realize this. I hope that my insight has given you motavation to pursue relationships
exactly you got it, we all need to surround ourselves with good people, im glad that you realize this. I hope that my insight has given you motavation to pursue relationships
Information
Information
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sadness
ongoing_depression
I'm feeling so depressed lately. The holidays are coming and I just want to stay in bed under the covers.
4
2
5
5
I don't know how to get over this I'm just alright. I'm feeling just alright because nothing excites me or gives me joy anymore. Many of my family have passed on and the holidays are coming. This pandemic doesn't help either. No gatherings with many people. Only my Aunt, but I haven't talked to her in a long time. I ju...
Thanks for your help. I'll go now and get my thoughts together to call my aunt.
alright awesome it was a pleasure talking to you, have a good day.
alright awesome it was a pleasure talking to you, have a good day.
Others
Others
5,424
neutral
0.003013
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0.000623
0.005397
0.984462
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459
10
sadness
ongoing_depression
I'm feeling so depressed lately. The holidays are coming and I just want to stay in bed under the covers.
4
2
5
5
I don't know how to get over this I'm just alright. I'm feeling just alright because nothing excites me or gives me joy anymore. Many of my family have passed on and the holidays are coming. This pandemic doesn't help either. No gatherings with many people. Only my Aunt, but I haven't talked to her in a long time. I ju...
Enjoy your holidays!
you too!
you too!
Others
Others
5,425
happy
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0.000334
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461
1
depression
problems_with_friends
My friends and family do not really pay attention to me unless they need me to solve a problem. I am lonely because unless they need something they arent there for me. They only seek me out when they are needy
3
1
4
4
Hello
Hello, how are you doing?
Hello, how are you doing?
Question
Question
5,435
neutral
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depression
problems_with_friends
My friends and family do not really pay attention to me unless they need me to solve a problem. I am lonely because unless they need something they arent there for me. They only seek me out when they are needy
3
1
4
4
Hello
Im ok. A little down because I am a bit lonely. I have others around me all the time but they want my attention and dont ever want to really talk to me or listen to me unless I am solving their problems I just wish someone would want to have a conversation about anything besides their own issues. Friends, family, its a...
Yes i understand what you mean.
Yes i understand what you mean.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
5,436
sad
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461
3
depression
problems_with_friends
My friends and family do not really pay attention to me unless they need me to solve a problem. I am lonely because unless they need something they arent there for me. They only seek me out when they are needy
3
1
4
4
Hello Im ok. A little down because I am a bit lonely. I have others around me all the time but they want my attention and dont ever want to really talk to me or listen to me unless I am solving their problems I just wish someone would want to have a conversation about anything besides their own issues. Friends, family,...
Im glad someone does. I try to speak up but get no where
I'm sorry to hear that.
I'm sorry to hear that. Is there anything i can help you with? To make you feel better?
Reflection of feelings, Question
Reflection of feelings
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sad
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depression
problems_with_friends
My friends and family do not really pay attention to me unless they need me to solve a problem. I am lonely because unless they need something they arent there for me. They only seek me out when they are needy
3
1
4
4
Hello Im ok. A little down because I am a bit lonely. I have others around me all the time but they want my attention and dont ever want to really talk to me or listen to me unless I am solving their problems I just wish someone would want to have a conversation about anything besides their own issues. Friends, family,...
It is annoying and sometimes I get really down about it. I just want someone to talk to....I just want to know that someone will listen once in a while. Im honestly not that needy but everyone needs to know that someone will listen at some point I am appreciative of the fact that you are taking time to hear what I have...
Yes, everyone needs someone to talk to.I think you deserve people who will be there for you when you need them to, and not only just take take and not give anything..
Yes, everyone needs someone to talk to.I think you deserve people who will be there for you when you need them to, and not only just take take and not give anything..
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
5,438
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depression
problems_with_friends
My friends and family do not really pay attention to me unless they need me to solve a problem. I am lonely because unless they need something they arent there for me. They only seek me out when they are needy
3
1
4
4
Hello Im ok. A little down because I am a bit lonely. I have others around me all the time but they want my attention and dont ever want to really talk to me or listen to me unless I am solving their problems I just wish someone would want to have a conversation about anything besides their own issues. Friends, family,...
How do I get through to these people or do I need new friends?? Lol Because sometimes I think a new friend group isnt a bad idea....
This is probably hard to hear but you need someone you can count on, I think it would be a good idea for you to get new friends that would be their for you and wont take you for granted.
This is probably hard to hear but you need someone you can count on, I think it would be a good idea for you to get new friends that would be their for you and wont take you for granted.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
5,439
happy
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461
6
depression
problems_with_friends
My friends and family do not really pay attention to me unless they need me to solve a problem. I am lonely because unless they need something they arent there for me. They only seek me out when they are needy
3
1
4
4
Hello Im ok. A little down because I am a bit lonely. I have others around me all the time but they want my attention and dont ever want to really talk to me or listen to me unless I am solving their problems I just wish someone would want to have a conversation about anything besides their own issues. Friends, family,...
I think it is hard to do that but maybe I should seek out a few new people to be around, some more give and take would be really nice. Not sure how I will do this though...
Do you go out to any public places?
Do you go out to any public places?
Question
Question
5,440
surprised
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461
7
depression
problems_with_friends
My friends and family do not really pay attention to me unless they need me to solve a problem. I am lonely because unless they need something they arent there for me. They only seek me out when they are needy
3
1
4
4
Hello Im ok. A little down because I am a bit lonely. I have others around me all the time but they want my attention and dont ever want to really talk to me or listen to me unless I am solving their problems I just wish someone would want to have a conversation about anything besides their own issues. Friends, family,...
Im raising my grandchild. Maybe in a group of others in a situation like mine Id be able to find what I am looking for? Well, with COVID and my one medication causing a low white blood cell count I cannot go out very much.. Once I can go out more I am sure it would be easier
Yes that work, and yes i know its a bit risky, maybe you can try joining any online groups of people that have things in common with you.
Yes that work, and yes i know its a bit risky, maybe you can try joining any online groups of people that have things in common with you.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
5,441
neutral
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461
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depression
problems_with_friends
My friends and family do not really pay attention to me unless they need me to solve a problem. I am lonely because unless they need something they arent there for me. They only seek me out when they are needy
3
1
4
4
Hello Im ok. A little down because I am a bit lonely. I have others around me all the time but they want my attention and dont ever want to really talk to me or listen to me unless I am solving their problems I just wish someone would want to have a conversation about anything besides their own issues. Friends, family,...
Thats a great idea. I think I will seek out some online groups for support and some where I have similar interests like a book group or something. Thats a great way to start! Im actually a little excited to give this a try!
Yes book clubs are great.
Yes book clubs are great.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
5,442
happy
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depression
problems_with_friends
My friends and family do not really pay attention to me unless they need me to solve a problem. I am lonely because unless they need something they arent there for me. They only seek me out when they are needy
3
1
4
4
Hello Im ok. A little down because I am a bit lonely. I have others around me all the time but they want my attention and dont ever want to really talk to me or listen to me unless I am solving their problems I just wish someone would want to have a conversation about anything besides their own issues. Friends, family,...
I love to read so I think it would be fun too Youve been very a very kind listener...thank you for that! Do you think it will be easy to find online groups?
yes i do think its easy to find online groups, and the people are really nice to. I have tried it.
yes i do think its easy to find online groups, and the people are really nice to. I have tried it.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
5,443
happy
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depression
problems_with_friends
My friends and family do not really pay attention to me unless they need me to solve a problem. I am lonely because unless they need something they arent there for me. They only seek me out when they are needy
3
1
4
4
Hello Im ok. A little down because I am a bit lonely. I have others around me all the time but they want my attention and dont ever want to really talk to me or listen to me unless I am solving their problems I just wish someone would want to have a conversation about anything besides their own issues. Friends, family,...
Awesome!! Thank you again! I actually feel a good bit better because you took the time to listen!
I think you will enjoy it, and you are welcome.
I think you will enjoy it, and you are welcome.
Others
Others
5,444
happy
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depression
problems_with_friends
My friends and family do not really pay attention to me unless they need me to solve a problem. I am lonely because unless they need something they arent there for me. They only seek me out when they are needy
3
1
4
4
Hello Im ok. A little down because I am a bit lonely. I have others around me all the time but they want my attention and dont ever want to really talk to me or listen to me unless I am solving their problems I just wish someone would want to have a conversation about anything besides their own issues. Friends, family,...
Im going to have to leave now...I hope you have a wonderful night/day!! Thanks for everything!
Thank you, you are welcome. Enjoy your day
Thank you, you are welcome. Enjoy your day
Others
Others
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happy
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academic_pressure
I have a lot of homework and work, and thinking of the future is very stressful, I am not sure how to plan all my work and handle everything.
4
2
5
5
Hello
How are you today?
How are you today?
Question
Question
5,447
neutral
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anxiety
academic_pressure
I have a lot of homework and work, and thinking of the future is very stressful, I am not sure how to plan all my work and handle everything.
4
2
5
5
Hello
I am okay I guess, I am really stressed and not sure how to handle it
Im sorry to hear that you are stressed. Would you like to talk about it?
Im sorry to hear that you are stressed. Would you like to talk about it?
Question
Question
5,448
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anxiety
academic_pressure
I have a lot of homework and work, and thinking of the future is very stressful, I am not sure how to plan all my work and handle everything.
4
2
5
5
Hello I am okay I guess, I am really stressed and not sure how to handle it
Yes, I am not sure who to tell
Well as a neutral individual i would be willing to listen to your concerns and or stressors. It can help to be able to vent to someone without judgement.
Well as a neutral individual i would be willing to listen to your concerns and or stressors. It can help to be able to vent to someone without judgement.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
5,449
surprised
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462
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anxiety
academic_pressure
I have a lot of homework and work, and thinking of the future is very stressful, I am not sure how to plan all my work and handle everything.
4
2
5
5
Hello I am okay I guess, I am really stressed and not sure how to handle it Yes, I am not sure who to tell
Ok thank you I have a lot of homework and housework, and especially during these difficult times it is hard to get support and feel like I am improving in life It is really stressful and hard to plan out all the things I have to do, and sometimes I get a headache just thinking of it all
I see, it must feel like a lot of pressure to get so much done during an already hectic season.
I see, it must feel like a lot of pressure to get so much done during an already hectic season.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
5,450
happy
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anxiety
academic_pressure
I have a lot of homework and work, and thinking of the future is very stressful, I am not sure how to plan all my work and handle everything.
4
2
5
5
Hello I am okay I guess, I am really stressed and not sure how to handle it Yes, I am not sure who to tell Ok thank you I have a lot of homework and housework, and especially during these difficult times it is hard to get support and feel like I am improving in life It is really stressful and hard to plan out all the t...
Yes, and not being able to meet friends or go out much makes it hard to get all my emotions out
Well first off that is normal to feel that way. I think most of us do but just don't speak up about it. Also being away from your friends and family can cause feelings of doubt because you may not feel like you have trusted ones to lean on. However
Well first off that is normal to feel that way. I think most of us do but just don't speak up about it. Also being away from your friends and family can cause feelings of doubt because you may not feel like you have trusted ones to lean on. However You should try to take some time out of each day to instead of question...
Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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sad
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anxiety
academic_pressure
I have a lot of homework and work, and thinking of the future is very stressful, I am not sure how to plan all my work and handle everything.
4
2
5
5
Hello I am okay I guess, I am really stressed and not sure how to handle it Yes, I am not sure who to tell Ok thank you I have a lot of homework and housework, and especially during these difficult times it is hard to get support and feel like I am improving in life It is really stressful and hard to plan out all the t...
Do you have any tips on how to deal with headaches or being overly stressed or anxious?
For anxiety and stress i would sugesst taking time out away from all your chores and tasks and just be to yourself. What is something you enjoy? May a cup of tea or an episode of the office. You always have to take a moment for yourself
For anxiety and stress i would sugesst taking time out away from all your chores and tasks and just be to yourself. What is something you enjoy? May a cup of tea or an episode of the office. You always have to take a moment for yourself
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
5,452
neutral
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462
7
anxiety
academic_pressure
I have a lot of homework and work, and thinking of the future is very stressful, I am not sure how to plan all my work and handle everything.
4
2
5
5
Hello I am okay I guess, I am really stressed and not sure how to handle it Yes, I am not sure who to tell Ok thank you I have a lot of homework and housework, and especially during these difficult times it is hard to get support and feel like I am improving in life It is really stressful and hard to plan out all the t...
So something like going for a run, or watching a funny movie?
Meditation, yoga, a warm bath these things can also be soothing as well. SOmetimes using kinectic energy up can help as well like going for a brisk walk to burn off the adrenaline that causes anxiety
Meditation, yoga, a warm bath these things can also be soothing as well. SOmetimes using kinectic energy up can help as well like going for a brisk walk to burn off the adrenaline that causes anxiety
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
5,453
happy
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462
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anxiety
academic_pressure
I have a lot of homework and work, and thinking of the future is very stressful, I am not sure how to plan all my work and handle everything.
4
2
5
5
Hello I am okay I guess, I am really stressed and not sure how to handle it Yes, I am not sure who to tell Ok thank you I have a lot of homework and housework, and especially during these difficult times it is hard to get support and feel like I am improving in life It is really stressful and hard to plan out all the t...
Thank you for the ideas But what if you get so stressed you can't really think of anything else?
Yes! Heck go all out and do both is you have a treadmill ha ha ! do what makes YOU happy even if just for a moment
Yes! Heck go all out and do both is you have a treadmill ha ha ! do what makes YOU happy even if just for a moment IF your stress has become that high, then you go ahead and aknowledge the anxiety that is flowing through you. Give it you attention and close your eyes and start to ask yourself what is the root of what i...
Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions
Affirmation and Reassurance
5,454
angry
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462
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anxiety
academic_pressure
I have a lot of homework and work, and thinking of the future is very stressful, I am not sure how to plan all my work and handle everything.
4
2
5
5
Hello I am okay I guess, I am really stressed and not sure how to handle it Yes, I am not sure who to tell Ok thank you I have a lot of homework and housework, and especially during these difficult times it is hard to get support and feel like I am improving in life It is really stressful and hard to plan out all the t...
Thank you so much, your advice will be really helpful!
Would you like any links to a webpage or group that may also have tips or advice?
Would you like any links to a webpage or group that may also have tips or advice?
Question
Question
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happy
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anxiety
academic_pressure
I have a lot of homework and work, and thinking of the future is very stressful, I am not sure how to plan all my work and handle everything.
4
2
5
5
Hello I am okay I guess, I am really stressed and not sure how to handle it Yes, I am not sure who to tell Ok thank you I have a lot of homework and housework, and especially during these difficult times it is hard to get support and feel like I am improving in life It is really stressful and hard to plan out all the t...
I think it is fine, but thank you so much for giving me tips
Youre very welcome! I hope that you are able to enjoy the rest of your holiday
Youre very welcome! I hope that you are able to enjoy the rest of your holiday
Others
Others
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fear
ongoing_depression
I am finding the second lockdown intensely difficult to deal with, even worse than the first.
4
3
5
5
Hello there, would you be able to give me some advice? The first lockdown was bad enough but the second has really thrown me into despair. I simply cannot cope without being able to see friends and family for much longer.
I would be glad to. What is troubling you?
I would be glad to. What is troubling you?
Question
Question
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fear
ongoing_depression
I am finding the second lockdown intensely difficult to deal with, even worse than the first.
4
3
5
5
Hello there, would you be able to give me some advice? The first lockdown was bad enough but the second has really thrown me into despair. I simply cannot cope without being able to see friends and family for much longer.
I have run out of coping mechanisms!
I completely understand and had similar experiences. What were some ways you tried to interact with people last shut down?
I completely understand and had similar experiences. What were some ways you tried to interact with people last shut down?
Question
Question
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fear
ongoing_depression
I am finding the second lockdown intensely difficult to deal with, even worse than the first.
4
3
5
5
Hello there, would you be able to give me some advice? The first lockdown was bad enough but the second has really thrown me into despair. I simply cannot cope without being able to see friends and family for much longer. I have run out of coping mechanisms!
I use facebook quite a lot and it helps but it cannot compensate for face to face contact. I really need to be able to see people.
Digital contact does have its limitations. Could you meet with people outside at a distance?
Digital contact does have its limitations. Could you meet with people outside at a distance?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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neutral
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463
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fear
ongoing_depression
I am finding the second lockdown intensely difficult to deal with, even worse than the first.
4
3
5
5
Hello there, would you be able to give me some advice? The first lockdown was bad enough but the second has really thrown me into despair. I simply cannot cope without being able to see friends and family for much longer. I have run out of coping mechanisms! I use facebook quite a lot and it helps but it cannot compens...
Well, part of the problem with that is that I am not sure what the rules are any more! We have been told so many different things that I am out of the loop.
I understand. Try sticking to the basics to make it less stressful. Wear a mask outside at a distance.
I understand. Try sticking to the basics to make it less stressful. Wear a mask outside at a distance.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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fear
ongoing_depression
I am finding the second lockdown intensely difficult to deal with, even worse than the first.
4
3
5
5
Hello there, would you be able to give me some advice? The first lockdown was bad enough but the second has really thrown me into despair. I simply cannot cope without being able to see friends and family for much longer. I have run out of coping mechanisms! I use facebook quite a lot and it helps but it cannot compens...
I always do wear a mask.. I think we legally have to :). I really miss little things like going out for coffee or to the gym though. It makes me feel like will never be the same again.
Have to talked about this with friends? They may be feeling the same way. Just talking this out with the may be reassuring.
Have to talked about this with friends? They may be feeling the same way. Just talking this out with the may be reassuring.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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fear
ongoing_depression
I am finding the second lockdown intensely difficult to deal with, even worse than the first.
4
3
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Hello there, would you be able to give me some advice? The first lockdown was bad enough but the second has really thrown me into despair. I simply cannot cope without being able to see friends and family for much longer. I have run out of coping mechanisms! I use facebook quite a lot and it helps but it cannot compens...
I have a little bit but I don't want to burden them. The other aspect is that it is making me anxious about many others things too. I keep having morbid thoughts about what will happen if the pandemic never ends.
Thats understandable. Maybe talking to a professional who you dont have to worry about burdening with your concerns will allow you to talk about your concerns.
Thats understandable. Maybe talking to a professional who you dont have to worry about burdening with your concerns will allow you to talk about your concerns.
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I am finding the second lockdown intensely difficult to deal with, even worse than the first.
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Hello there, would you be able to give me some advice? The first lockdown was bad enough but the second has really thrown me into despair. I simply cannot cope without being able to see friends and family for much longer. I have run out of coping mechanisms! I use facebook quite a lot and it helps but it cannot compens...
That's why I'm here ;). You are being very helpful, thank you! It's just nice to be able to tell people what I am worried about and not have them think that I am just being silly.
Many people are struggling with the current state of affairs. Dont be afraid to talk to people they may also be afraid to talk to people and you could miss out on supporting each other.
Many people are struggling with the current state of affairs. Dont be afraid to talk to people they may also be afraid to talk to people and you could miss out on supporting each other.
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I am finding the second lockdown intensely difficult to deal with, even worse than the first.
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Hello there, would you be able to give me some advice? The first lockdown was bad enough but the second has really thrown me into despair. I simply cannot cope without being able to see friends and family for much longer. I have run out of coping mechanisms! I use facebook quite a lot and it helps but it cannot compens...
That does sound like really good advice. The other thing I haven't mentioned yet is that I have been having financial pressures because I am on furlough. I am worried that if this lasts much longer I will end up deep in debt.
I am sorry that wasnt helpful.
I am sorry that wasnt helpful. Have you tried looking into local recourses in your city?
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