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438 | 3 | sadness | ongoing_depression | I have been feeling like my friends don't like me and it's making me feel bad. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Im okay How do you want to do this? Ive been feeling like other people dont like me | Yes, i automatically assume I'm valueless in the other persons eyes, no matter what they say or do to the contrary | It seems you are a bit low on self-confidence. I have been there too. If I may ask you, does this feeling persist all the time irrespective of the situation or it happens after any particular event - say a test or some outdoor game for example? | It seems you are a bit low on self-confidence. I have been there too. If I may ask you, does this feeling persist all the time irrespective of the situation or it happens after any particular event - say a test or some outdoor game for example? | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 5,180 | neutral | 0.424695 | 0.00364 | 0.00027 | 0.000266 | 0.526966 | 0.017083 | 0.027081 |
438 | 4 | sadness | ongoing_depression | I have been feeling like my friends don't like me and it's making me feel bad. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Im okay How do you want to do this? Ive been feeling like other people dont like me Yes, i automatically assume I'm valueless in the other persons eyes, no matter what they say or do to the contrary | Yeah, I've been texting my friend and he doesn't reply to me for hours and it makes me feel like he isnt as enthusiastic about our friendship as i am which hurts | Right, the feeling of being ignored can be quite overwhelming. Have you tried speaking with your friend over phone or video call, assuming you have access to the technology? | Right, the feeling of being ignored can be quite overwhelming. Have you tried speaking with your friend over phone or video call, assuming you have access to the technology? | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 5,181 | happy | 0.000061 | 0.000034 | 0.000014 | 0.998455 | 0.000052 | 0.001348 | 0.000036 |
438 | 5 | sadness | ongoing_depression | I have been feeling like my friends don't like me and it's making me feel bad. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Im okay How do you want to do this? Ive been feeling like other people dont like me Yes, i automatically assume I'm valueless in the other persons eyes, no matter what they say or do to the contrary Yeah, I've been texting my friend and he doesn't reply to me for hours and it makes me feel like he isnt as enthusiastic ... | We have decent phone conversations, I guess I'm just frustrated and sad about my worthiness, now that im typing it out it sounds not nearly as bad Thank you | Great! You are worthy! Remember that always :) | Great! You are worthy! Remember that always :) Is there anything else I can help you with? | Information, Question | Information | 5,182 | angry | 0.557284 | 0.001111 | 0.000218 | 0.006976 | 0.002052 | 0.430531 | 0.001827 |
438 | 6 | sadness | ongoing_depression | I have been feeling like my friends don't like me and it's making me feel bad. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Im okay How do you want to do this? Ive been feeling like other people dont like me Yes, i automatically assume I'm valueless in the other persons eyes, no matter what they say or do to the contrary Yeah, I've been texting my friend and he doesn't reply to me for hours and it makes me feel like he isnt as enthusiastic ... | Haha thank you What do you think i should do when i feel this way next time | Good question! Don't let the feeling consume you. After all , you are dealing with another person who genuinely might be busy or held up with some important work. | Good question! Don't let the feeling consume you. After all , you are dealing with another person who genuinely might be busy or held up with some important work. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 5,183 | happy | 0.002574 | 0.000095 | 0.000014 | 0.996105 | 0.001025 | 0.000079 | 0.000107 |
438 | 7 | sadness | ongoing_depression | I have been feeling like my friends don't like me and it's making me feel bad. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Im okay How do you want to do this? Ive been feeling like other people dont like me Yes, i automatically assume I'm valueless in the other persons eyes, no matter what they say or do to the contrary Yeah, I've been texting my friend and he doesn't reply to me for hours and it makes me feel like he isnt as enthusiastic ... | Thats true | So, even if they don't respond, just think they are driving or working, and try to avoid thinking that you are being ignored. | So, even if they don't respond, just think they are driving or working, and try to avoid thinking that you are being ignored. | Information | Information | 5,184 | neutral | 0.343927 | 0.000635 | 0.000284 | 0.000692 | 0.548572 | 0.014196 | 0.091694 |
438 | 8 | sadness | ongoing_depression | I have been feeling like my friends don't like me and it's making me feel bad. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Im okay How do you want to do this? Ive been feeling like other people dont like me Yes, i automatically assume I'm valueless in the other persons eyes, no matter what they say or do to the contrary Yeah, I've been texting my friend and he doesn't reply to me for hours and it makes me feel like he isnt as enthusiastic ... | I always assume since im not busy that they arent too I guessits a little self involved | Yes, sometimes assumptions can lead to misunderstandings. Always talk it out when you get a chance. | Yes, sometimes assumptions can lead to misunderstandings. Always talk it out when you get a chance. It could be, but always bear in mind that there could be factors beyond your immediate control. | Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 5,185 | neutral | 0.225079 | 0.001975 | 0.000147 | 0.000877 | 0.697081 | 0.019407 | 0.055434 |
439 | 1 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | I don't love my partner any more and I don't know what to do for the best as she really loves me but it's not working. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I've been better to be honest. I think I need to break up with my girlfriend but she moved in last year and I don;' know how to approach it. I think I'm going to be in for a bad emotional time | That seems like a tough situation! What feelings made you decide you need to breakup with her? | That seems like a tough situation! What feelings made you decide you need to breakup with her? | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 5,187 | sad | 0.006581 | 0.000667 | 0.001993 | 0.000211 | 0.004316 | 0.980244 | 0.005989 | |
439 | 2 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | I don't love my partner any more and I don't know what to do for the best as she really loves me but it's not working. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I've been better to be honest. I think I need to break up with my girlfriend but she moved in last year and I don;' know how to approach it. I think I'm going to be in for a bad emotional time | It's a bit of a mix. I don't find her attractive that much any more and I think that's important. Also since moving in she is difficult to live with. I can't see myself with her long term. | I completely understand that. I recently broke up with my boyfriend earlier this year, because I didn't feel like I loved him as much as I used to. Things like that are important! | I completely understand that. I recently broke up with my boyfriend earlier this year, because I didn't feel like I loved him as much as I used to. Things like that are important! How long have you guys been together? | Self-disclosure, Question | Self-disclosure | 5,188 | angry | 0.711475 | 0.029247 | 0.00106 | 0.00097 | 0.072586 | 0.176073 | 0.00859 |
439 | 3 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | I don't love my partner any more and I don't know what to do for the best as she really loves me but it's not working. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I've been better to be honest. I think I need to break up with my girlfriend but she moved in last year and I don;' know how to approach it. I think I'm going to be in for a bad emotional time It's a bit of a mix. I don't find her attractive that much any more and I think that's important. Also since moving in she is d... | It's good that you have had a similar experience and understand what I'm going through. We dated for a while. The thing is she is Italian and has moved countries to live with me. I feel so bad that this has happened. | Oh I see. That's a huge step to make in a relationship. So you are hesitant to break up with her because she moved just to be with you? | Oh I see. That's a huge step to make in a relationship. So you are hesitant to break up with her because she moved just to be with you? Have you communicated with her about your concerns? Such as being difficult to live with? | Restatement or Paraphrasing, Question | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 5,189 | sad | 0.004481 | 0.000705 | 0.000112 | 0.000161 | 0.008553 | 0.984854 | 0.001135 |
439 | 4 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | I don't love my partner any more and I don't know what to do for the best as she really loves me but it's not working. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I've been better to be honest. I think I need to break up with my girlfriend but she moved in last year and I don;' know how to approach it. I think I'm going to be in for a bad emotional time It's a bit of a mix. I don't find her attractive that much any more and I think that's important. Also since moving in she is d... | Yes that's right, I helped her get a job and thought I'd just see how it goes. Her family loves me and thinks I'm great which makes this even more difficult. We have talked about things yes but she sees it as a bit of a joke I think. | I think it's great that we got matched up, because I went through also the exact same situation. My boyfriend and I were long distance, and he moved across the country to be closer to me. So when I felt like we needed to break up, I was experiencing similar guilt that you are experiencing. | I think it's great that we got matched up, because I went through also the exact same situation. My boyfriend and I were long distance, and he moved across the country to be closer to me. So when I felt like we needed to break up, I was experiencing similar guilt that you are experiencing. | Self-disclosure | Self-disclosure | 5,190 | happy | 0.199409 | 0.009686 | 0.001066 | 0.343027 | 0.260306 | 0.084276 | 0.102231 |
439 | 5 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | I don't love my partner any more and I don't know what to do for the best as she really loves me but it's not working. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I've been better to be honest. I think I need to break up with my girlfriend but she moved in last year and I don;' know how to approach it. I think I'm going to be in for a bad emotional time It's a bit of a mix. I don't find her attractive that much any more and I think that's important. Also since moving in she is d... | It's great that you understand this. I think being the man puts more pressure on me to look after her and make sure she she's safe etc | I want to reassure you, that doing what's best for you is what is most important! Your partner will understand this if they truly care for you. Things will be tough for a while, but you both will be able to grow from this experience. And just because you don't want to be in a relationship anymore, doesn't mean that you... | I want to reassure you, that doing what's best for you is what is most important! Your partner will understand this if they truly care for you. Things will be tough for a while, but you both will be able to grow from this experience. And just because you don't want to be in a relationship anymore, doesn't mean that you... | Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions | Affirmation and Reassurance | 5,191 | neutral | 0.004277 | 0.000104 | 0.000093 | 0.005986 | 0.983467 | 0.000956 | 0.005116 |
439 | 6 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | I don't love my partner any more and I don't know what to do for the best as she really loves me but it's not working. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I've been better to be honest. I think I need to break up with my girlfriend but she moved in last year and I don;' know how to approach it. I think I'm going to be in for a bad emotional time It's a bit of a mix. I don't find her attractive that much any more and I think that's important. Also since moving in she is d... | To be honest, it's amazing that you have suggested this. It's really hard to balance my needs and feelings without breaking her heart. It's hard for the person that's dumped but actually I think it is equally hard for the dumper! | Yes exactly! It's so difficult for the dumper as well, because of course you still have strong feelings for this person. They just aren't romantic anymore. | Yes exactly! It's so difficult for the dumper as well, because of course you still have strong feelings for this person. They just aren't romantic anymore. And that is okay. You don't need to feel guilty for things that you can't control. You can still be there for her without pretending to be in love | Reflection of feelings, Affirmation and Reassurance | Reflection of feelings | 5,192 | angry | 0.338522 | 0.00505 | 0.001151 | 0.266144 | 0.124839 | 0.149862 | 0.114432 |
439 | 7 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | I don't love my partner any more and I don't know what to do for the best as she really loves me but it's not working. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I've been better to be honest. I think I need to break up with my girlfriend but she moved in last year and I don;' know how to approach it. I think I'm going to be in for a bad emotional time It's a bit of a mix. I don't find her attractive that much any more and I think that's important. Also since moving in she is d... | That's exactly it. So do you think I should just talk to her and tell her how I feel? The thing is it's not like she can move out immediately. It's going to be a long drawn out experience. | I think talking to her and being transparent about your feelings is definitely the right move. In doing this, reassure her you still want to be friends and you aren't just "kicking her to the curb." Things will obviously be awkward for the first little bit, because continuing to live together will bring it's own diffic... | I think talking to her and being transparent about your feelings is definitely the right move. In doing this, reassure her you still want to be friends and you aren't just "kicking her to the curb." Things will obviously be awkward for the first little bit, because continuing to live together will bring it's own diffic... | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 5,193 | neutral | 0.044927 | 0.000171 | 0.00023 | 0.000227 | 0.938616 | 0.00405 | 0.01178 |
439 | 8 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | I don't love my partner any more and I don't know what to do for the best as she really loves me but it's not working. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I've been better to be honest. I think I need to break up with my girlfriend but she moved in last year and I don;' know how to approach it. I think I'm going to be in for a bad emotional time It's a bit of a mix. I don't find her attractive that much any more and I think that's important. Also since moving in she is d... | Yes, I think I need to emphasize the friends element of it and potentially support her to move on. I suppose I'm fearful that it will never end but I'll need to face into that and stay strong, and obviously avoid being intimate as this would really hurt her if I continued to sleep with her. I need to be careful about t... | Yes exactly. And from chatting with you, I can tell that you are a very caring person. You don't want to hurt her. I believe that you have the understanding of the situation, and you know what you should and shouldn't do in order to make it work. The hard part is simply getting the courage to finally discuss it. But I ... | Yes exactly. And from chatting with you, I can tell that you are a very caring person. You don't want to hurt her. I believe that you have the understanding of the situation, and you know what you should and shouldn't do in order to make it work. The hard part is simply getting the courage to finally discuss it. But I ... | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 5,194 | neutral | 0.002983 | 0.000973 | 0.348674 | 0.000646 | 0.633187 | 0.009557 | 0.00398 |
439 | 9 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | I don't love my partner any more and I don't know what to do for the best as she really loves me but it's not working. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I've been better to be honest. I think I need to break up with my girlfriend but she moved in last year and I don;' know how to approach it. I think I'm going to be in for a bad emotional time It's a bit of a mix. I don't find her attractive that much any more and I think that's important. Also since moving in she is d... | I must say, you have been fantastic to talk to about this, we have had a similar experience so I think the advice is coming from experience. Thanks for that! | What I've gathered about you as a person, makes me confident that you probably chose a partner that will be able to have this talk with you and you both will come to an understanding. | What I've gathered about you as a person, makes me confident that you probably chose a partner that will be able to have this talk with you and you both will come to an understanding. Yes I think it's very great we were able to connect on our issues! It definitely helps. You are welcome! :) | Reflection of feelings, Others | Reflection of feelings | 5,195 | happy | 0.000293 | 0.000024 | 0.000013 | 0.998742 | 0.000389 | 0.000038 | 0.000501 |
439 | 10 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | I don't love my partner any more and I don't know what to do for the best as she really loves me but it's not working. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I've been better to be honest. I think I need to break up with my girlfriend but she moved in last year and I don;' know how to approach it. I think I'm going to be in for a bad emotional time It's a bit of a mix. I don't find her attractive that much any more and I think that's important. Also since moving in she is d... | Thank you for a great conversation. To continue as is wouldn't be fair on her and I see that now. | Of course! And it wouldn't be fair to her, just as much as it wouldn't be fair to you. Your happiness is just as important! | Of course! And it wouldn't be fair to her, just as much as it wouldn't be fair to you. Your happiness is just as important! | Restatement or Paraphrasing | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 5,196 | angry | 0.992959 | 0.001154 | 0.000046 | 0.000232 | 0.002506 | 0.002669 | 0.000434 |
439 | 11 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | I don't love my partner any more and I don't know what to do for the best as she really loves me but it's not working. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I've been better to be honest. I think I need to break up with my girlfriend but she moved in last year and I don;' know how to approach it. I think I'm going to be in for a bad emotional time It's a bit of a mix. I don't find her attractive that much any more and I think that's important. Also since moving in she is d... | Yeah, I need to put myself first but also be considerate of her feelings. Thanks for that Take care and enjoy your day. | Of course! I'm glad that you are feeling a bit better about everything! You as well! | Of course! I'm glad that you are feeling a bit better about everything! You as well! | Others | Others | 5,197 | neutral | 0.005624 | 0.000398 | 0.000082 | 0.070591 | 0.91812 | 0.000893 | 0.004293 |
440 | 1 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | How can I cope with losing my boyfriend to another woman? | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi, I'm coping with losing my boyfriend to another woman and can't deal. | I am sorry to hear that. You deserve better | I am sorry to hear that. You deserve better | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 5,199 | sad | 0.00109 | 0.00018 | 0.00023 | 0.000075 | 0.001433 | 0.996802 | 0.00019 | |
440 | 2 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | How can I cope with losing my boyfriend to another woman? | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi, I'm coping with losing my boyfriend to another woman and can't deal. | Thanks, I'm just still in shock. | I understand you. I went through similar situation | I understand you. I went through similar situation | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 5,200 | surprised | 0.000676 | 0.000227 | 0.000043 | 0.000735 | 0.002833 | 0.000195 | 0.99529 |
440 | 3 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | How can I cope with losing my boyfriend to another woman? | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi, I'm coping with losing my boyfriend to another woman and can't deal. Thanks, I'm just still in shock. | I just don't know what to do. | Do you have any friends you can hang out with to get your mind off him? | Do you have any friends you can hang out with to get your mind off him? | Question | Question | 5,201 | surprised | 0.002153 | 0.00035 | 0.002408 | 0.000421 | 0.007422 | 0.00228 | 0.984966 |
440 | 4 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | How can I cope with losing my boyfriend to another woman? | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi, I'm coping with losing my boyfriend to another woman and can't deal. Thanks, I'm just still in shock. I just don't know what to do. | That would be a good idea. Although it's a little hard with COVID restrictions. | How about treating yourself to nice relaxing bath and good book ? | How about treating yourself to nice relaxing bath and good book ? | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 5,202 | neutral | 0.227026 | 0.00074 | 0.000598 | 0.000363 | 0.630754 | 0.025503 | 0.115014 |
440 | 5 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | How can I cope with losing my boyfriend to another woman? | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi, I'm coping with losing my boyfriend to another woman and can't deal. Thanks, I'm just still in shock. I just don't know what to do. That would be a good idea. Although it's a little hard with COVID restrictions. | That sounds wonderful. | You should focus on yourself and remember you are a amazing woman! | You should focus on yourself and remember you are a amazing woman! | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 5,203 | happy | 0.00342 | 0.000076 | 0.00002 | 0.993605 | 0.001637 | 0.000148 | 0.001093 |
440 | 6 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | How can I cope with losing my boyfriend to another woman? | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi, I'm coping with losing my boyfriend to another woman and can't deal. Thanks, I'm just still in shock. I just don't know what to do. That would be a good idea. Although it's a little hard with COVID restrictions. That sounds wonderful. | Thanks for the support. Is it too early to start a new relationship? | If you are sure you are ready for it then No. However make sure you dont judge them by previous relationships. | If you are sure you are ready for it then No. However make sure you dont judge them by previous relationships. | Others | Others | 5,204 | neutral | 0.011212 | 0.000089 | 0.000402 | 0.002535 | 0.929033 | 0.004171 | 0.052558 |
440 | 7 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | How can I cope with losing my boyfriend to another woman? | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi, I'm coping with losing my boyfriend to another woman and can't deal. Thanks, I'm just still in shock. I just don't know what to do. That would be a good idea. Although it's a little hard with COVID restrictions. That sounds wonderful. Thanks for the support. Is it too early to start a new relationship? | I have to think about it more but I am lonely already | I understand but wouldnt you rather be alone and focusing on yourself instead of miserable relationship? | I understand but wouldnt you rather be alone and focusing on yourself instead of miserable relationship? | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 5,205 | sad | 0.000135 | 0.000078 | 0.000033 | 0.000028 | 0.000187 | 0.999503 | 0.000035 |
440 | 8 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | How can I cope with losing my boyfriend to another woman? | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi, I'm coping with losing my boyfriend to another woman and can't deal. Thanks, I'm just still in shock. I just don't know what to do. That would be a good idea. Although it's a little hard with COVID restrictions. That sounds wonderful. Thanks for the support. Is it too early to start a new relationship? I have to th... | I am thinking of pursuing a new relationship and hoping to move forward | I think that would be a wonderful idea for you. | I think that would be a wonderful idea for you. | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 5,206 | happy | 0.00004 | 0.00006 | 0.000805 | 0.997235 | 0.001122 | 0.000558 | 0.00018 |
440 | 9 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | How can I cope with losing my boyfriend to another woman? | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi, I'm coping with losing my boyfriend to another woman and can't deal. Thanks, I'm just still in shock. I just don't know what to do. That would be a good idea. Although it's a little hard with COVID restrictions. That sounds wonderful. Thanks for the support. Is it too early to start a new relationship? I have to th... | I just don't know where to find someone. | Dont go looking for someone . Let them find you. Just live your life and love will find you. | Dont go looking for someone . Let them find you. Just live your life and love will find you. | Others | Others | 5,207 | surprised | 0.014001 | 0.000805 | 0.013908 | 0.000279 | 0.047904 | 0.048596 | 0.874506 |
440 | 10 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | How can I cope with losing my boyfriend to another woman? | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi, I'm coping with losing my boyfriend to another woman and can't deal. Thanks, I'm just still in shock. I just don't know what to do. That would be a good idea. Although it's a little hard with COVID restrictions. That sounds wonderful. Thanks for the support. Is it too early to start a new relationship? I have to th... | I have to think positive and love will come when I don't expect it. | Exactly. | Exactly. | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 5,208 | neutral | 0.002143 | 0.000047 | 0.000241 | 0.002844 | 0.990048 | 0.002299 | 0.002377 |
442 | 1 | sadness | problems_with_friends | My boyfriend is having a serious cancer surgery this week. I am very scared. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | I'm OK, but really nervous/scared. My boyfriend is having surgery this week for a serious cancer. Over the last week or two, he can barely eat. And sleeps all the time. I just want him to feel better, but the surgery is scary. | Oh wow, i'm so sorry. That's really scary. | Oh wow, i'm so sorry. That's really scary. | Restatement or Paraphrasing | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 5,223 | fear | 0.000134 | 0.000068 | 0.994229 | 0.002174 | 0.000993 | 0.002103 | 0.000299 | |
442 | 2 | sadness | problems_with_friends | My boyfriend is having a serious cancer surgery this week. I am very scared. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | I'm OK, but really nervous/scared. My boyfriend is having surgery this week for a serious cancer. Over the last week or two, he can barely eat. And sleeps all the time. I just want him to feel better, but the surgery is scary. | It is. And it happened so fast. He was really just fine in July. | It seems like he was in a lot of pain adn discomfort so surgery should really help. | It seems like he was in a lot of pain adn discomfort so surgery should really help. | Information | Information | 5,224 | surprised | 0.010822 | 0.000382 | 0.000286 | 0.004606 | 0.198689 | 0.009518 | 0.775696 |
442 | 3 | sadness | problems_with_friends | My boyfriend is having a serious cancer surgery this week. I am very scared. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | I'm OK, but really nervous/scared. My boyfriend is having surgery this week for a serious cancer. Over the last week or two, he can barely eat. And sleeps all the time. I just want him to feel better, but the surgery is scary. It is. And it happened so fast. He was really just fine in July. | That's what we are hoping. He was sort of stubborn about talking to the surgeon this week for advice, but finally listened to me. | Yeah, it really comes out of nowhere. MY mother was diagnosed with cancer last year and it felt so out of nowhere and unfair. | Yeah, it really comes out of nowhere. MY mother was diagnosed with cancer last year and it felt so out of nowhere and unfair. Good thing he has you! he's lucky to have someone like you in his corner. | Self-disclosure, Affirmation and Reassurance | Self-disclosure | 5,225 | angry | 0.870416 | 0.00193 | 0.002506 | 0.003505 | 0.112579 | 0.003739 | 0.005325 |
442 | 4 | sadness | problems_with_friends | My boyfriend is having a serious cancer surgery this week. I am very scared. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | I'm OK, but really nervous/scared. My boyfriend is having surgery this week for a serious cancer. Over the last week or two, he can barely eat. And sleeps all the time. I just want him to feel better, but the surgery is scary. It is. And it happened so fast. He was really just fine in July. That's what we are hoping. H... | Doesn't it? So you understand. You can feel so helpless. | I do understand. It's really hard. THe only thing that you can do is try to stay positive as cliche as that sounds. | I do understand. It's really hard. THe only thing that you can do is try to stay positive as cliche as that sounds. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 5,226 | fear | 0.002596 | 0.000414 | 0.583007 | 0.000309 | 0.00201 | 0.409373 | 0.002291 |
442 | 5 | sadness | problems_with_friends | My boyfriend is having a serious cancer surgery this week. I am very scared. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | I'm OK, but really nervous/scared. My boyfriend is having surgery this week for a serious cancer. Over the last week or two, he can barely eat. And sleeps all the time. I just want him to feel better, but the surgery is scary. It is. And it happened so fast. He was really just fine in July. That's what we are hoping. H... | I think it helps him if I do. He will be in the hospital for 1-2 weeks. | You aren't helpless! So much of this is mental and you being there for him is more helpful than you know. | You aren't helpless! So much of this is mental and you being there for him is more helpful than you know. Will you be able to visit him in the hospital? | Affirmation and Reassurance, Question | Affirmation and Reassurance | 5,227 | neutral | 0.009835 | 0.000111 | 0.001097 | 0.000183 | 0.976144 | 0.006242 | 0.006388 |
442 | 6 | sadness | problems_with_friends | My boyfriend is having a serious cancer surgery this week. I am very scared. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | I'm OK, but really nervous/scared. My boyfriend is having surgery this week for a serious cancer. Over the last week or two, he can barely eat. And sleeps all the time. I just want him to feel better, but the surgery is scary. It is. And it happened so fast. He was really just fine in July. That's what we are hoping. H... | I'm a little nervous about what kind of help he'll need when he gets home. Yes! I'm so relieved, with the covid restrictions. but I can. I think only one visitor at a time, but he moved her to be close to me (met long distance), so his closest friends aren't local. The ones he'd want to visit. | Thank god! That will make such a big difference for both of you. Being alone would be scary. | Thank god! That will make such a big difference for both of you. Being alone would be scary. Well he clearly loves you! I am happy that he's getting the treatment he needs and has someone so supportive like you helping him. | Reflection of feelings, Affirmation and Reassurance | Reflection of feelings | 5,228 | fear | 0.000073 | 0.000055 | 0.998786 | 0.000171 | 0.000535 | 0.00031 | 0.000071 |
442 | 7 | sadness | problems_with_friends | My boyfriend is having a serious cancer surgery this week. I am very scared. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | I'm OK, but really nervous/scared. My boyfriend is having surgery this week for a serious cancer. Over the last week or two, he can barely eat. And sleeps all the time. I just want him to feel better, but the surgery is scary. It is. And it happened so fast. He was really just fine in July. That's what we are hoping. H... | Thank you... it really helps to talk to someone. I worry about stressing out friends. Plus sometimes, they just don't know what to say, especially if they haven't known someone who has gone through it. How did your mom do? If you don't mind my asking. | Your friends probably want to be there for you, don't be stressed about that. They just may need some guidance on how to be there for you . | Your friends probably want to be there for you, don't be stressed about that. They just may need some guidance on how to be there for you . My mom is doing great! Still in treatment but doing so well. | Providing Suggestions, Self-disclosure | Providing Suggestions | 5,229 | neutral | 0.05148 | 0.00022 | 0.001515 | 0.000816 | 0.909928 | 0.019142 | 0.0169 |
442 | 8 | sadness | problems_with_friends | My boyfriend is having a serious cancer surgery this week. I am very scared. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | I'm OK, but really nervous/scared. My boyfriend is having surgery this week for a serious cancer. Over the last week or two, he can barely eat. And sleeps all the time. I just want him to feel better, but the surgery is scary. It is. And it happened so fast. He was really just fine in July. That's what we are hoping. H... | OH, thank goodness. I'm happy for both of you. It's just a strange year. I lost both my dogs to cancer in six months, then this. Then my cousin died of pancreatic in July. Plus some other acquaintances. It's just felt like a lot. Did your mom have trouble eating? And tons of fatigue? | Oh wow, i'm so sorry. You've had a really tough year. You really deserve a break. | Oh wow, i'm so sorry. You've had a really tough year. You really deserve a break. She did ! Especially when she was in treatment. | Reflection of feelings, Self-disclosure | Reflection of feelings | 5,230 | sad | 0.00015 | 0.000121 | 0.000058 | 0.000067 | 0.000623 | 0.998657 | 0.000324 |
442 | 9 | sadness | problems_with_friends | My boyfriend is having a serious cancer surgery this week. I am very scared. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | I'm OK, but really nervous/scared. My boyfriend is having surgery this week for a serious cancer. Over the last week or two, he can barely eat. And sleeps all the time. I just want him to feel better, but the surgery is scary. It is. And it happened so fast. He was really just fine in July. That's what we are hoping. H... | Right, and as I bet you can relate, breaks are hard to get in COVID days. that's what's scary, is right now, he's not in treatment. They think because of the cancer's location and the type, that surgery is the better option. So it's really just the cancer that is doing this to him. | Definitely hard. You'll have to try to find something for you to relax. Even if it's just walking or reading. | Definitely hard. You'll have to try to find something for you to relax. Even if it's just walking or reading. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 5,231 | fear | 0.000938 | 0.000234 | 0.989858 | 0.000161 | 0.005256 | 0.001919 | 0.001634 |
442 | 10 | sadness | problems_with_friends | My boyfriend is having a serious cancer surgery this week. I am very scared. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | I'm OK, but really nervous/scared. My boyfriend is having surgery this week for a serious cancer. Over the last week or two, he can barely eat. And sleeps all the time. I just want him to feel better, but the surgery is scary. It is. And it happened so fast. He was really just fine in July. That's what we are hoping. H... | That's one thing COVID has been good for. Lots of long walks with friends. | Yes! Definitely. | Yes! Definitely. | Others | Others | 5,232 | neutral | 0.001939 | 0.000167 | 0.000177 | 0.032298 | 0.958227 | 0.001407 | 0.005785 |
442 | 11 | sadness | problems_with_friends | My boyfriend is having a serious cancer surgery this week. I am very scared. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | I'm OK, but really nervous/scared. My boyfriend is having surgery this week for a serious cancer. Over the last week or two, he can barely eat. And sleeps all the time. I just want him to feel better, but the surgery is scary. It is. And it happened so fast. He was really just fine in July. That's what we are hoping. H... | And I do have a young dog now who is a big help too. :) | Dogs are the best!! Mine gets me through everything. | Dogs are the best!! Mine gets me through everything. | Self-disclosure | Self-disclosure | 5,233 | happy | 0.000207 | 0.000079 | 0.000014 | 0.996405 | 0.002741 | 0.000138 | 0.000416 |
442 | 12 | sadness | problems_with_friends | My boyfriend is having a serious cancer surgery this week. I am very scared. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | I'm OK, but really nervous/scared. My boyfriend is having surgery this week for a serious cancer. Over the last week or two, he can barely eat. And sleeps all the time. I just want him to feel better, but the surgery is scary. It is. And it happened so fast. He was really just fine in July. That's what we are hoping. H... | It turned out, I got this boy between losing the two I mentioned. I am so very thankful I got him when I did and wasn't totally without a dog. He's been a lifesaver. Even though puppies are crazy. | I'm sure!! Enjoy him. It's great for stress relief. ANd having a puppy is a great distraction. | I'm sure!! Enjoy him. It's great for stress relief. ANd having a puppy is a great distraction. | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 5,234 | happy | 0.001115 | 0.000325 | 0.000157 | 0.934113 | 0.043847 | 0.004767 | 0.015677 |
442 | 13 | sadness | problems_with_friends | My boyfriend is having a serious cancer surgery this week. I am very scared. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | I'm OK, but really nervous/scared. My boyfriend is having surgery this week for a serious cancer. Over the last week or two, he can barely eat. And sleeps all the time. I just want him to feel better, but the surgery is scary. It is. And it happened so fast. He was really just fine in July. That's what we are hoping. H... | Now just need to get through this week. But another weird blessing about covid is I am not stressed about thanksgiving plans on top of the surgery. | You definitely will, you seem like you are very strong. | You definitely will, you seem like you are very strong. | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 5,235 | neutral | 0.019456 | 0.038767 | 0.027014 | 0.088852 | 0.780149 | 0.031711 | 0.01405 |
442 | 14 | sadness | problems_with_friends | My boyfriend is having a serious cancer surgery this week. I am very scared. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | I'm OK, but really nervous/scared. My boyfriend is having surgery this week for a serious cancer. Over the last week or two, he can barely eat. And sleeps all the time. I just want him to feel better, but the surgery is scary. It is. And it happened so fast. He was really just fine in July. That's what we are hoping. H... | I really appreciate you saying that. | It's true! i hope this has been helpful. | It's true! i hope this has been helpful. | Others | Others | 5,236 | happy | 0.000552 | 0.000029 | 0.000009 | 0.998484 | 0.00034 | 0.000031 | 0.000555 |
442 | 15 | sadness | problems_with_friends | My boyfriend is having a serious cancer surgery this week. I am very scared. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | I'm OK, but really nervous/scared. My boyfriend is having surgery this week for a serious cancer. Over the last week or two, he can barely eat. And sleeps all the time. I just want him to feel better, but the surgery is scary. It is. And it happened so fast. He was really just fine in July. That's what we are hoping. H... | I try to be, for him. Every so often, I hear a song and want to cry. | Crying can be therapeutic so that's good! | Crying can be therapeutic so that's good! | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 5,237 | sad | 0.000222 | 0.000182 | 0.000253 | 0.000154 | 0.002403 | 0.996466 | 0.00032 |
442 | 16 | sadness | problems_with_friends | My boyfriend is having a serious cancer surgery this week. I am very scared. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | I'm OK, but really nervous/scared. My boyfriend is having surgery this week for a serious cancer. Over the last week or two, he can barely eat. And sleeps all the time. I just want him to feel better, but the surgery is scary. It is. And it happened so fast. He was really just fine in July. That's what we are hoping. H... | I should take a bath and cry now! Thank you so much. You've been a true help. Have a nice holiday, if you're here in the States. | You too! hAppy thanksgiving!! | You too! hAppy thanksgiving!! | Others | Others | 5,238 | happy | 0.000904 | 0.000083 | 0.000024 | 0.992387 | 0.005519 | 0.000578 | 0.000505 |
442 | 17 | sadness | problems_with_friends | My boyfriend is having a serious cancer surgery this week. I am very scared. | 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 | I'm OK, but really nervous/scared. My boyfriend is having surgery this week for a serious cancer. Over the last week or two, he can barely eat. And sleeps all the time. I just want him to feel better, but the surgery is scary. It is. And it happened so fast. He was really just fine in July. That's what we are hoping. H... | Take care. | You too | You too | Others | Others | 5,239 | neutral | 0.003281 | 0.000061 | 0.000151 | 0.000328 | 0.992736 | 0.000493 | 0.00295 |
443 | 1 | depression | breakup_with_partner | My wife cheated on me and wanted a divorce. I have been super depressed. My house is a mess. I have a small business that I have let go. I need to get up and get things done but have no motivation. I need help getting motivated again. | 5 | 4 | 4 | 4 | I should add (although it doesn't matter). I'm female married to a female. | Hi there! I'm glad you're here | Hi there! I'm glad you're here | Others | Others | 5,240 | neutral | 0.007659 | 0.000092 | 0.000068 | 0.000216 | 0.988602 | 0.00082 | 0.002543 | |
443 | 2 | depression | breakup_with_partner | My wife cheated on me and wanted a divorce. I have been super depressed. My house is a mess. I have a small business that I have let go. I need to get up and get things done but have no motivation. I need help getting motivated again. | 5 | 4 | 4 | 4 | I should add (although it doesn't matter). I'm female married to a female. | hi | So you're a female and you're married to a female? There's nothing wrong with that at all! | So you're a female and you're married to a female? There's nothing wrong with that at all! | Information | Information | 5,241 | neutral | 0.001593 | 0.000041 | 0.000138 | 0.002226 | 0.994251 | 0.000245 | 0.001506 |
443 | 3 | depression | breakup_with_partner | My wife cheated on me and wanted a divorce. I have been super depressed. My house is a mess. I have a small business that I have let go. I need to get up and get things done but have no motivation. I need help getting motivated again. | 5 | 4 | 4 | 4 | I should add (although it doesn't matter). I'm female married to a female. hi | Yes....well we are not living together now. We have to file papers for divorce | I see. So you're actually legally married - didn't just have a commitment ceremony? | I see. So you're actually legally married - didn't just have a commitment ceremony? | Question | Question | 5,242 | neutral | 0.022997 | 0.000138 | 0.000201 | 0.000219 | 0.960716 | 0.008215 | 0.007513 |
443 | 4 | depression | breakup_with_partner | My wife cheated on me and wanted a divorce. I have been super depressed. My house is a mess. I have a small business that I have let go. I need to get up and get things done but have no motivation. I need help getting motivated again. | 5 | 4 | 4 | 4 | I should add (although it doesn't matter). I'm female married to a female. hi Yes....well we are not living together now. We have to file papers for divorce | Yes legally married | Care to share what led up to filing for divorce? | Care to share what led up to filing for divorce? | Question | Question | 5,243 | neutral | 0.007519 | 0.000306 | 0.000181 | 0.024695 | 0.943833 | 0.00286 | 0.020607 |
443 | 5 | depression | breakup_with_partner | My wife cheated on me and wanted a divorce. I have been super depressed. My house is a mess. I have a small business that I have let go. I need to get up and get things done but have no motivation. I need help getting motivated again. | 5 | 4 | 4 | 4 | I should add (although it doesn't matter). I'm female married to a female. hi Yes....well we are not living together now. We have to file papers for divorce Yes legally married | She cheated. And as far as I know is still with the person | I can certainly understand how that feels. I have been in your EXACT situation. | I can certainly understand how that feels. I have been in your EXACT situation. | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 5,244 | angry | 0.816563 | 0.038171 | 0.000427 | 0.000218 | 0.081918 | 0.044057 | 0.018647 |
443 | 6 | depression | breakup_with_partner | My wife cheated on me and wanted a divorce. I have been super depressed. My house is a mess. I have a small business that I have let go. I need to get up and get things done but have no motivation. I need help getting motivated again. | 5 | 4 | 4 | 4 | I should add (although it doesn't matter). I'm female married to a female. hi Yes....well we are not living together now. We have to file papers for divorce Yes legally married She cheated. And as far as I know is still with the person | It's horrible and hard to move on for sure | How long were you with her? | How long were you with her? | Question | Question | 5,245 | disgusted | 0.021175 | 0.946992 | 0.024029 | 0.000122 | 0.001771 | 0.003897 | 0.002015 |
443 | 7 | depression | breakup_with_partner | My wife cheated on me and wanted a divorce. I have been super depressed. My house is a mess. I have a small business that I have let go. I need to get up and get things done but have no motivation. I need help getting motivated again. | 5 | 4 | 4 | 4 | I should add (although it doesn't matter). I'm female married to a female. hi Yes....well we are not living together now. We have to file papers for divorce Yes legally married She cheated. And as far as I know is still with the person It's horrible and hard to move on for sure | Don't laugh Our one year wedding anniversary was this past Sat. Which I know I shouldnt be so miserable but I am. I think because like some people have told me we were still in our honeymoon stage. We were not fighting or having big issues....she just cheated | I'm so incredibly sorry to hear that. You realize this behavior, these choices, are a flaw within her, and not you? | I'm so incredibly sorry to hear that. You realize this behavior, these choices, are a flaw within her, and not you? | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 5,246 | sad | 0.004203 | 0.000637 | 0.000053 | 0.000241 | 0.00557 | 0.988659 | 0.000638 |
443 | 8 | depression | breakup_with_partner | My wife cheated on me and wanted a divorce. I have been super depressed. My house is a mess. I have a small business that I have let go. I need to get up and get things done but have no motivation. I need help getting motivated again. | 5 | 4 | 4 | 4 | I should add (although it doesn't matter). I'm female married to a female. hi Yes....well we are not living together now. We have to file papers for divorce Yes legally married She cheated. And as far as I know is still with the person It's horrible and hard to move on for sure Don't laugh Our one year wedding annivers... | It's hard to see that. I feel like a failure and not good enough Like why even get married in the first place if you are just going to cheat | I can completely understand that as well. I blamed myself for quite some time as well. | I can completely understand that as well. I blamed myself for quite some time as well. | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 5,247 | sad | 0.000793 | 0.000197 | 0.000029 | 0.000081 | 0.000697 | 0.998119 | 0.000084 |
443 | 9 | depression | breakup_with_partner | My wife cheated on me and wanted a divorce. I have been super depressed. My house is a mess. I have a small business that I have let go. I need to get up and get things done but have no motivation. I need help getting motivated again. | 5 | 4 | 4 | 4 | I should add (although it doesn't matter). I'm female married to a female. hi Yes....well we are not living together now. We have to file papers for divorce Yes legally married She cheated. And as far as I know is still with the person It's horrible and hard to move on for sure Don't laugh Our one year wedding annivers... | Ya you wish you could go back in time and change things or never get married lol | When you go to bed at night, if you can drift off to dream with a clear conscience, then you're doing significantly better than her! | When you go to bed at night, if you can drift off to dream with a clear conscience, then you're doing significantly better than her! What are you doing to take care of you during this time? | Reflection of feelings, Information | Reflection of feelings | 5,248 | happy | 0.001152 | 0.000421 | 0.000069 | 0.882753 | 0.113828 | 0.000383 | 0.001395 |
443 | 10 | depression | breakup_with_partner | My wife cheated on me and wanted a divorce. I have been super depressed. My house is a mess. I have a small business that I have let go. I need to get up and get things done but have no motivation. I need help getting motivated again. | 5 | 4 | 4 | 4 | I should add (although it doesn't matter). I'm female married to a female. hi Yes....well we are not living together now. We have to file papers for divorce Yes legally married She cheated. And as far as I know is still with the person It's horrible and hard to move on for sure Don't laugh Our one year wedding annivers... | Not much at all I feel like I'm in a funk and can't get out of it. My house is a disaster. I have a small business I am not in the mood to work on....I"ve been slacking in everything | You are important! You matter! Why not do something that is relaxing to you? | You are important! You matter! Why not do something that is relaxing to you? | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 5,249 | sad | 0.003413 | 0.000641 | 0.000053 | 0.000095 | 0.000847 | 0.994699 | 0.000253 |
443 | 11 | depression | breakup_with_partner | My wife cheated on me and wanted a divorce. I have been super depressed. My house is a mess. I have a small business that I have let go. I need to get up and get things done but have no motivation. I need help getting motivated again. | 5 | 4 | 4 | 4 | I should add (although it doesn't matter). I'm female married to a female. hi Yes....well we are not living together now. We have to file papers for divorce Yes legally married She cheated. And as far as I know is still with the person It's horrible and hard to move on for sure Don't laugh Our one year wedding annivers... | I do need to do something | Do you have any post-it notes? Or paper and scotch tape? | Do you have any post-it notes? Or paper and scotch tape? | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 5,250 | neutral | 0.002014 | 0.000034 | 0.000197 | 0.000134 | 0.99466 | 0.00088 | 0.00208 |
443 | 12 | depression | breakup_with_partner | My wife cheated on me and wanted a divorce. I have been super depressed. My house is a mess. I have a small business that I have let go. I need to get up and get things done but have no motivation. I need help getting motivated again. | 5 | 4 | 4 | 4 | I should add (although it doesn't matter). I'm female married to a female. hi Yes....well we are not living together now. We have to file papers for divorce Yes legally married She cheated. And as far as I know is still with the person It's horrible and hard to move on for sure Don't laugh Our one year wedding annivers... | I do | Here's what I've done for myself, and other folks that are close to me, going through struggles... | Here's what I've done for myself, and other folks that are close to me, going through struggles... | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 5,251 | neutral | 0.013588 | 0.000046 | 0.000126 | 0.000291 | 0.981015 | 0.001021 | 0.003912 |
443 | 13 | depression | breakup_with_partner | My wife cheated on me and wanted a divorce. I have been super depressed. My house is a mess. I have a small business that I have let go. I need to get up and get things done but have no motivation. I need help getting motivated again. | 5 | 4 | 4 | 4 | I should add (although it doesn't matter). I'm female married to a female. hi Yes....well we are not living together now. We have to file papers for divorce Yes legally married She cheated. And as far as I know is still with the person It's horrible and hard to move on for sure Don't laugh Our one year wedding annivers... | ok | Jot down inspirational messages and hang them up on the bathroom mirror, refrigerator, car, etc. "You matter", "You deserve the best", "You are the shiznit", etc | Jot down inspirational messages and hang them up on the bathroom mirror, refrigerator, car, etc. "You matter", "You deserve the best", "You are the shiznit", etc | Information | Information | 5,252 | neutral | 0.012345 | 0.000087 | 0.000109 | 0.001277 | 0.971145 | 0.000864 | 0.014173 |
443 | 14 | depression | breakup_with_partner | My wife cheated on me and wanted a divorce. I have been super depressed. My house is a mess. I have a small business that I have let go. I need to get up and get things done but have no motivation. I need help getting motivated again. | 5 | 4 | 4 | 4 | I should add (although it doesn't matter). I'm female married to a female. hi Yes....well we are not living together now. We have to file papers for divorce Yes legally married She cheated. And as far as I know is still with the person It's horrible and hard to move on for sure Don't laugh Our one year wedding annivers... | the shiznet lol I will try that I need to do something | Then, for the tasks that might be getting a bit behind, make a list, in order of importance -- and include a little reward for each task completed. | Then, for the tasks that might be getting a bit behind, make a list, in order of importance -- and include a little reward for each task completed. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 5,253 | happy | 0.000416 | 0.000062 | 0.00001 | 0.998077 | 0.001239 | 0.000079 | 0.000118 |
443 | 15 | depression | breakup_with_partner | My wife cheated on me and wanted a divorce. I have been super depressed. My house is a mess. I have a small business that I have let go. I need to get up and get things done but have no motivation. I need help getting motivated again. | 5 | 4 | 4 | 4 | I should add (although it doesn't matter). I'm female married to a female. hi Yes....well we are not living together now. We have to file papers for divorce Yes legally married She cheated. And as far as I know is still with the person It's horrible and hard to move on for sure Don't laugh Our one year wedding annivers... | Thats a good idea | We have to take care of ourselves. After doing it for awhile, it just might become second nature to ya. And -- if continued, will show gals in the future exactly how you expect to be treated because they'll see you taking care of you (and not settling for nor accepting any doodie) | We have to take care of ourselves. After doing it for awhile, it just might become second nature to ya. And -- if continued, will show gals in the future exactly how you expect to be treated because they'll see you taking care of you (and not settling for nor accepting any doodie) | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 5,254 | angry | 0.980346 | 0.000837 | 0.000054 | 0.000689 | 0.012626 | 0.001341 | 0.004106 |
443 | 16 | depression | breakup_with_partner | My wife cheated on me and wanted a divorce. I have been super depressed. My house is a mess. I have a small business that I have let go. I need to get up and get things done but have no motivation. I need help getting motivated again. | 5 | 4 | 4 | 4 | I should add (although it doesn't matter). I'm female married to a female. hi Yes....well we are not living together now. We have to file papers for divorce Yes legally married She cheated. And as far as I know is still with the person It's horrible and hard to move on for sure Don't laugh Our one year wedding annivers... | I know I keep telling myself if I get my act together (physically, financially, etc) that I would attract better people....the kind I want to be with | Whether you "have your act together" or not, it's up to you to determine who is worthy of being an active part of your life. | Whether you "have your act together" or not, it's up to you to determine who is worthy of being an active part of your life. | Information | Information | 5,255 | neutral | 0.001324 | 0.00006 | 0.000102 | 0.001031 | 0.994472 | 0.001141 | 0.001871 |
445 | 1 | anxiety | sleep_problems | police shootings of unarmed black people | 4 | 2 | 5 | 4 | Hi I am seeking support to assist me with better sleep patterns. | Hi there, let me get a deeper understanding of your existing sleep pattern. Do you suffer from insomnia or another type of sleep disorder? | Hi there, let me get a deeper understanding of your existing sleep pattern. Do you suffer from insomnia or another type of sleep disorder? | Question | Question | 5,264 | neutral | 0.001997 | 0.000057 | 0.001122 | 0.000378 | 0.991339 | 0.001264 | 0.003842 | |
445 | 2 | anxiety | sleep_problems | police shootings of unarmed black people | 4 | 2 | 5 | 4 | Hi I am seeking support to assist me with better sleep patterns. | No, it is not insomnia. | Okay, are you drinking enough water and eating a healthy diet? | Okay, are you drinking enough water and eating a healthy diet? | Question | Question | 5,265 | neutral | 0.059779 | 0.000314 | 0.002009 | 0.000446 | 0.896494 | 0.018792 | 0.022165 |
445 | 3 | anxiety | sleep_problems | police shootings of unarmed black people | 4 | 2 | 5 | 4 | Hi I am seeking support to assist me with better sleep patterns. No, it is not insomnia. | I could improve my water intake and eat more vegatables. | I like to analyze my own habits every now and then, it helps me stay in check. You can definitely benefit from meditating and self reflecting. | I like to analyze my own habits every now and then, it helps me stay in check. You can definitely benefit from meditating and self reflecting. | Self-disclosure | Self-disclosure | 5,266 | neutral | 0.001089 | 0.000068 | 0.000153 | 0.000239 | 0.994388 | 0.0011 | 0.002964 |
445 | 4 | anxiety | sleep_problems | police shootings of unarmed black people | 4 | 2 | 5 | 4 | Hi I am seeking support to assist me with better sleep patterns. No, it is not insomnia. I could improve my water intake and eat more vegatables. | Thanks! What other ideas do you have? | Of course! I always knock right out after a workout. But if you aren't able to, just simple things like turning all the lights off at the same time every night and laying in bed will help. It will align your circadian rhythm! | Of course! I always knock right out after a workout. But if you aren't able to, just simple things like turning all the lights off at the same time every night and laying in bed will help. It will align your circadian rhythm! | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 5,267 | happy | 0.001811 | 0.000024 | 0.00002 | 0.99677 | 0.00096 | 0.00003 | 0.000386 |
445 | 5 | anxiety | sleep_problems | police shootings of unarmed black people | 4 | 2 | 5 | 4 | Hi I am seeking support to assist me with better sleep patterns. No, it is not insomnia. I could improve my water intake and eat more vegatables. Thanks! What other ideas do you have? | Great, but I wake up frequently thinking about the recent events surrounding police and how they treat black people. | It definitely is a valid reason to be kept awake. The only good part about something so horrible, is that you have the power to make sure you will continue to be a good person. If everyone was as empathetic as you, the world would be a better place. Thank you for caring so deeply about such a brutal matter. | It definitely is a valid reason to be kept awake. The only good part about something so horrible, is that you have the power to make sure you will continue to be a good person. If everyone was as empathetic as you, the world would be a better place. Thank you for caring so deeply about such a brutal matter. | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 5,268 | neutral | 0.001032 | 0.000152 | 0.000089 | 0.000093 | 0.997177 | 0.000931 | 0.000525 |
445 | 6 | anxiety | sleep_problems | police shootings of unarmed black people | 4 | 2 | 5 | 4 | Hi I am seeking support to assist me with better sleep patterns. No, it is not insomnia. I could improve my water intake and eat more vegatables. Thanks! What other ideas do you have? Great, but I wake up frequently thinking about the recent events surrounding police and how they treat black people. | I wish there were more caring people in the world. | Kindness is contagious, and you definitely have a kind heart. As long as you remain soft in a hard world, people will recognize that and follow suit. The world is becoming more aware, and we have the power to raise future generations with more knowledge and love for one another. Caring doesn't come naturally to many un... | Kindness is contagious, and you definitely have a kind heart. As long as you remain soft in a hard world, people will recognize that and follow suit. The world is becoming more aware, and we have the power to raise future generations with more knowledge and love for one another. Caring doesn't come naturally to many un... | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 5,269 | neutral | 0.000629 | 0.000057 | 0.000139 | 0.000447 | 0.997277 | 0.000792 | 0.000658 |
445 | 7 | anxiety | sleep_problems | police shootings of unarmed black people | 4 | 2 | 5 | 4 | Hi I am seeking support to assist me with better sleep patterns. No, it is not insomnia. I could improve my water intake and eat more vegatables. Thanks! What other ideas do you have? Great, but I wake up frequently thinking about the recent events surrounding police and how they treat black people. I wish there were m... | Correct, but having a kind heart does not keep me from waking up & worrying about my son and other black men in my family. | I worry about my sons and husband and father all the time... I shift my focus on loving them and cherishing every moment we have together. Police or not, the time we have is not promised.. | I worry about my sons and husband and father all the time... I shift my focus on loving them and cherishing every moment we have together. Police or not, the time we have is not promised.. | Self-disclosure | Self-disclosure | 5,270 | neutral | 0.000618 | 0.000042 | 0.000041 | 0.00005 | 0.999082 | 0.000089 | 0.000077 |
445 | 8 | anxiety | sleep_problems | police shootings of unarmed black people | 4 | 2 | 5 | 4 | Hi I am seeking support to assist me with better sleep patterns. No, it is not insomnia. I could improve my water intake and eat more vegatables. Thanks! What other ideas do you have? Great, but I wake up frequently thinking about the recent events surrounding police and how they treat black people. I wish there were m... | That's good advice. Are you still there? | A hot cup of tea never hurt too! But in all seriousness, I can completely understand your sleep troubles. It is much deeper than just that. Perspective is the key to life. You are a strong and empathetic soul. | A hot cup of tea never hurt too! But in all seriousness, I can completely understand your sleep troubles. It is much deeper than just that. Perspective is the key to life. You are a strong and empathetic soul. | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 5,271 | angry | 0.978637 | 0.000471 | 0.000081 | 0.000303 | 0.014148 | 0.001457 | 0.004904 |
445 | 9 | anxiety | sleep_problems | police shootings of unarmed black people | 4 | 2 | 5 | 4 | Hi I am seeking support to assist me with better sleep patterns. No, it is not insomnia. I could improve my water intake and eat more vegatables. Thanks! What other ideas do you have? Great, but I wake up frequently thinking about the recent events surrounding police and how they treat black people. I wish there were m... | okay Love conquers all | That is so beautifully true | That is so beautifully true | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 5,272 | neutral | 0.004048 | 0.00008 | 0.000169 | 0.029108 | 0.960449 | 0.001189 | 0.004957 |
445 | 10 | anxiety | sleep_problems | police shootings of unarmed black people | 4 | 2 | 5 | 4 | Hi I am seeking support to assist me with better sleep patterns. No, it is not insomnia. I could improve my water intake and eat more vegatables. Thanks! What other ideas do you have? Great, but I wake up frequently thinking about the recent events surrounding police and how they treat black people. I wish there were m... | I'm looking forward to a fulls night rest. | That is good, lavender baths or showers will also ease and relax the troubled mind. | That is good, lavender baths or showers will also ease and relax the troubled mind. | Information | Information | 5,273 | happy | 0.000156 | 0.000062 | 0.00003 | 0.995885 | 0.003554 | 0.000197 | 0.000116 |
445 | 11 | anxiety | sleep_problems | police shootings of unarmed black people | 4 | 2 | 5 | 4 | Hi I am seeking support to assist me with better sleep patterns. No, it is not insomnia. I could improve my water intake and eat more vegatables. Thanks! What other ideas do you have? Great, but I wake up frequently thinking about the recent events surrounding police and how they treat black people. I wish there were m... | Relaxing is good therapy. | I like to relax with a book and a blanket sometimes too. | I like to relax with a book and a blanket sometimes too. | Self-disclosure | Self-disclosure | 5,274 | neutral | 0.001185 | 0.000111 | 0.000441 | 0.001801 | 0.986138 | 0.002598 | 0.007725 |
445 | 12 | anxiety | sleep_problems | police shootings of unarmed black people | 4 | 2 | 5 | 4 | Hi I am seeking support to assist me with better sleep patterns. No, it is not insomnia. I could improve my water intake and eat more vegatables. Thanks! What other ideas do you have? Great, but I wake up frequently thinking about the recent events surrounding police and how they treat black people. I wish there were m... | Self care is needed. | Self care is definitely something we can overlook accidentally. Being self aware is a daily practice. | Self care is definitely something we can overlook accidentally. Being self aware is a daily practice. | Information | Information | 5,275 | neutral | 0.002326 | 0.000046 | 0.000115 | 0.000267 | 0.994297 | 0.000531 | 0.002418 |
445 | 13 | anxiety | sleep_problems | police shootings of unarmed black people | 4 | 2 | 5 | 4 | Hi I am seeking support to assist me with better sleep patterns. No, it is not insomnia. I could improve my water intake and eat more vegatables. Thanks! What other ideas do you have? Great, but I wake up frequently thinking about the recent events surrounding police and how they treat black people. I wish there were m... | I agree. Loving ourselves & the ones we care about too. | It is good that we spoke today, I am going to hug my sons a little harder when I see them tonight. | It is good that we spoke today, I am going to hug my sons a little harder when I see them tonight. | Self-disclosure | Self-disclosure | 5,276 | neutral | 0.001903 | 0.000062 | 0.000059 | 0.000952 | 0.994952 | 0.00052 | 0.001551 |
446 | 1 | fear | job_crisis | Fear about losing a job | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi I am not fine at all | Whats going on? | Whats going on? | Question | Question | 5,278 | angry | 0.501804 | 0.002551 | 0.00236 | 0.007175 | 0.125038 | 0.335246 | 0.025826 | |
446 | 2 | fear | job_crisis | Fear about losing a job | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi I am not fine at all | This pandemic is really causing a lot trouble and anxiety to us | It definitely is... Whats going on COVID wise with you? | It definitely is... Whats going on COVID wise with you? | Question | Question | 5,279 | fear | 0.011756 | 0.001092 | 0.510636 | 0.000632 | 0.143206 | 0.32715 | 0.005529 |
446 | 3 | fear | job_crisis | Fear about losing a job | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi I am not fine at all This pandemic is really causing a lot trouble and anxiety to us | Firstly last three month a go my company cut off my salary and next month they are planning to layoff some staffs | That isn't good, are you one of them? | That isn't good, are you one of them? | Restatement or Paraphrasing | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 5,280 | sad | 0.24516 | 0.004593 | 0.003573 | 0.000105 | 0.094901 | 0.647994 | 0.003674 |
446 | 4 | fear | job_crisis | Fear about losing a job | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi I am not fine at all This pandemic is really causing a lot trouble and anxiety to us Firstly last three month a go my company cut off my salary and next month they are planning to layoff some staffs | What a trouble year! | It really has been a troubled year | It really has been a troubled year We can only hope this year can be better. What kind of hobbies do you have? | Others, Self-disclosure, Question | Others | 5,281 | happy | 0.212061 | 0.004048 | 0.030547 | 0.396854 | 0.030901 | 0.215883 | 0.109706 |
446 | 5 | fear | job_crisis | Fear about losing a job | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi I am not fine at all This pandemic is really causing a lot trouble and anxiety to us Firstly last three month a go my company cut off my salary and next month they are planning to layoff some staffs What a trouble year! | This is not a hobbies matter now it is about my life and future, my job is as stake here, I don't know what do | Have they told you that you were losing your job? | Have they told you that you were losing your job? | Others | Others | 5,282 | neutral | 0.042327 | 0.000271 | 0.002221 | 0.000301 | 0.677898 | 0.020695 | 0.256288 |
446 | 6 | fear | job_crisis | Fear about losing a job | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi I am not fine at all This pandemic is really causing a lot trouble and anxiety to us Firstly last three month a go my company cut off my salary and next month they are planning to layoff some staffs What a trouble year! This is not a hobbies matter now it is about my life and future, my job is as stake here, I don't... | Every one in the company are talking about it | I'm just trying to figure out exactly what you need help with.. Have you lost your job? | I'm just trying to figure out exactly what you need help with.. Have you lost your job? | Others | Others | 5,283 | neutral | 0.158555 | 0.002214 | 0.002465 | 0.002143 | 0.814864 | 0.005954 | 0.013806 |
446 | 7 | fear | job_crisis | Fear about losing a job | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi I am not fine at all This pandemic is really causing a lot trouble and anxiety to us Firstly last three month a go my company cut off my salary and next month they are planning to layoff some staffs What a trouble year! This is not a hobbies matter now it is about my life and future, my job is as stake here, I don't... | We are all scaring Because to find another job is not easy | I agree with you there, we have all had to sacrifice something. You are right. it is difficult to find work right now. | I agree with you there, we have all had to sacrifice something. You are right. it is difficult to find work right now. | Question | Question | 5,284 | fear | 0.000081 | 0.00005 | 0.998952 | 0.000089 | 0.000301 | 0.000442 | 0.000086 |
446 | 8 | fear | job_crisis | Fear about losing a job | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi I am not fine at all This pandemic is really causing a lot trouble and anxiety to us Firstly last three month a go my company cut off my salary and next month they are planning to layoff some staffs What a trouble year! This is not a hobbies matter now it is about my life and future, my job is as stake here, I don't... | Pandemic is causing a lot of problem and the second face of it is coming | You may be able to look into unemployment at least if it comes down to it. | You may be able to look into unemployment at least if it comes down to it. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 5,285 | neutral | 0.007559 | 0.000116 | 0.000485 | 0.000063 | 0.986428 | 0.003422 | 0.001927 |
446 | 9 | fear | job_crisis | Fear about losing a job | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi I am not fine at all This pandemic is really causing a lot trouble and anxiety to us Firstly last three month a go my company cut off my salary and next month they are planning to layoff some staffs What a trouble year! This is not a hobbies matter now it is about my life and future, my job is as stake here, I don't... | We don't know what is going to happen if it comes | That is the scary part. It could come around again and cause more damage than it did the first time. | That is the scary part. It could come around again and cause more damage than it did the first time. | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 5,286 | surprised | 0.003213 | 0.001154 | 0.043313 | 0.000452 | 0.079408 | 0.004695 | 0.867765 |
446 | 10 | fear | job_crisis | Fear about losing a job | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi I am not fine at all This pandemic is really causing a lot trouble and anxiety to us Firstly last three month a go my company cut off my salary and next month they are planning to layoff some staffs What a trouble year! This is not a hobbies matter now it is about my life and future, my job is as stake here, I don't... | It is really serious, | Besides the basic hand washing and hygiene, I don't think we can prepare anymore for it. I think at this point, we will either get it or not until they figure if the vaccine will work or not. | Besides the basic hand washing and hygiene, I don't think we can prepare anymore for it. I think at this point, we will either get it or not until they figure if the vaccine will work or not. It is a very scary thing | Providing Suggestions, Affirmation and Reassurance | Providing Suggestions | 5,287 | angry | 0.338 | 0.000746 | 0.001004 | 0.002727 | 0.33476 | 0.009065 | 0.313699 |
446 | 11 | fear | job_crisis | Fear about losing a job | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi I am not fine at all This pandemic is really causing a lot trouble and anxiety to us Firstly last three month a go my company cut off my salary and next month they are planning to layoff some staffs What a trouble year! This is not a hobbies matter now it is about my life and future, my job is as stake here, I don't... | People are losing job everyday by day, | Have you looked into unemployment? | Have you looked into unemployment? | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 5,288 | sad | 0.027543 | 0.000503 | 0.003242 | 0.000114 | 0.136328 | 0.827498 | 0.004772 |
446 | 12 | fear | job_crisis | Fear about losing a job | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi I am not fine at all This pandemic is really causing a lot trouble and anxiety to us Firstly last three month a go my company cut off my salary and next month they are planning to layoff some staffs What a trouble year! This is not a hobbies matter now it is about my life and future, my job is as stake here, I don't... | I pray the vaccine will work if it is approved I am try to look for another job now before layoff from this company | I'm there with you buddy, I hope it eradicate this from our planet. First and second versions. | I'm there with you buddy, I hope it eradicate this from our planet. First and second versions. That is smart | Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 5,289 | neutral | 0.000652 | 0.00004 | 0.000432 | 0.000201 | 0.997382 | 0.000854 | 0.000439 |
446 | 13 | fear | job_crisis | Fear about losing a job | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi I am not fine at all This pandemic is really causing a lot trouble and anxiety to us Firstly last three month a go my company cut off my salary and next month they are planning to layoff some staffs What a trouble year! This is not a hobbies matter now it is about my life and future, my job is as stake here, I don't... | Nice chatting with you it time to go thanks Bye for now | No problem I hope you enjoy the rest of your day | No problem I hope you enjoy the rest of your day | Information | Information | 5,290 | angry | 0.997568 | 0.000053 | 0.000051 | 0.001812 | 0.000316 | 0.000117 | 0.000083 |
447 | 1 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | I'm feeling down and anxious about getting older because I've lost my parents and I'm worried about loosing my aunts. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi | Hello! How are you doing today? | Hello! How are you doing today? | Question | Question | 5,291 | neutral | 0.003783 | 0.000183 | 0.000154 | 0.031973 | 0.960893 | 0.000259 | 0.002756 | |
447 | 2 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | I'm feeling down and anxious about getting older because I've lost my parents and I'm worried about loosing my aunts. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi | I'm doing better now that I have someone to chat with! I've been feeling down and anxious about getting older lately because I've lost may parents and I'm worried about losing my aunts. | I understand, you feel like your losing everyone close to you and wondering about your own mortality now as well? | I understand, you feel like your losing everyone close to you and wondering about your own mortality now as well? | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 5,292 | sad | 0.000121 | 0.000026 | 0.000144 | 0.000334 | 0.00014 | 0.999199 | 0.000035 |
447 | 3 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | I'm feeling down and anxious about getting older because I've lost my parents and I'm worried about loosing my aunts. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi I'm doing better now that I have someone to chat with! I've been feeling down and anxious about getting older lately because I've lost may parents and I'm worried about losing my aunts. | Exactly, I worry about losing my aunts because they are in their 70s and 80s. I worry about my own mortality as well. | Have you told your aunts how much you love them? It may comfort you to know that you've shared exactly how you feel with them while they are here. | Have you told your aunts how much you love them? It may comfort you to know that you've shared exactly how you feel with them while they are here. | Question | Question | 5,293 | fear | 0.000241 | 0.000364 | 0.962967 | 0.000151 | 0.007275 | 0.02857 | 0.000432 |
447 | 4 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | I'm feeling down and anxious about getting older because I've lost my parents and I'm worried about loosing my aunts. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi I'm doing better now that I have someone to chat with! I've been feeling down and anxious about getting older lately because I've lost may parents and I'm worried about losing my aunts. Exactly, I worry about losing my aunts because they are in their 70s and 80s. I worry about my own mortality as well. | I tell them every time I talk to them and try to spend as much time with them as I can. | I try to let everyone know I love them too just because we never know when we aren't going to be here anymore. I definitely understand where you are coming from. | I try to let everyone know I love them too just because we never know when we aren't going to be here anymore. I definitely understand where you are coming from. Have you tried looking at any YouTube videos about life and mortality? | Self-disclosure, Question | Self-disclosure | 5,294 | neutral | 0.00638 | 0.001454 | 0.001307 | 0.014215 | 0.917976 | 0.055721 | 0.002947 |
447 | 5 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | I'm feeling down and anxious about getting older because I've lost my parents and I'm worried about loosing my aunts. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi I'm doing better now that I have someone to chat with! I've been feeling down and anxious about getting older lately because I've lost may parents and I'm worried about losing my aunts. Exactly, I worry about losing my aunts because they are in their 70s and 80s. I worry about my own mortality as well. I tell them e... | I agree! We never know I haven't but I will check some out. I love You Tube but never thought to look there. | I personally have found some comfort in hearing other people struggle with their own mortality or their beliefs in an after life or different things. Maybe that could be something you could try looking into. | I personally have found some comfort in hearing other people struggle with their own mortality or their beliefs in an after life or different things. Maybe that could be something you could try looking into. | Self-disclosure | Self-disclosure | 5,295 | surprised | 0.001852 | 0.001132 | 0.000148 | 0.087811 | 0.057372 | 0.002618 | 0.849067 |
447 | 6 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | I'm feeling down and anxious about getting older because I've lost my parents and I'm worried about loosing my aunts. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi I'm doing better now that I have someone to chat with! I've been feeling down and anxious about getting older lately because I've lost may parents and I'm worried about losing my aunts. Exactly, I worry about losing my aunts because they are in their 70s and 80s. I worry about my own mortality as well. I tell them e... | I will definitely try that. It makes me feel better to know that you have found some comfort in hearing other people's struggles with their mortality or beliefs. | It sounds to me like you've felt alone in your struggles and you are not alone! Yes I have and I've heard from many others who have as well. | It sounds to me like you've felt alone in your struggles and you are not alone! Yes I have and I've heard from many others who have as well. That and there are some great books out there also! | Affirmation and Reassurance, Others | Affirmation and Reassurance | 5,296 | happy | 0.000312 | 0.000193 | 0.000083 | 0.982111 | 0.014389 | 0.002138 | 0.000773 |
447 | 7 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | I'm feeling down and anxious about getting older because I've lost my parents and I'm worried about loosing my aunts. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi I'm doing better now that I have someone to chat with! I've been feeling down and anxious about getting older lately because I've lost may parents and I'm worried about losing my aunts. Exactly, I worry about losing my aunts because they are in their 70s and 80s. I worry about my own mortality as well. I tell them e... | I have felt alone in my struggles. It's good to know that I'm not alone! | I'm so happy I could be here for you! It's not fun to feel alone, if we can all lean on each other in times of need the world will be a better place. | I'm so happy I could be here for you! It's not fun to feel alone, if we can all lean on each other in times of need the world will be a better place. | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 5,297 | happy | 0.00102 | 0.000298 | 0.000638 | 0.589912 | 0.007026 | 0.39686 | 0.004247 |
447 | 8 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | I'm feeling down and anxious about getting older because I've lost my parents and I'm worried about loosing my aunts. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi I'm doing better now that I have someone to chat with! I've been feeling down and anxious about getting older lately because I've lost may parents and I'm worried about losing my aunts. Exactly, I worry about losing my aunts because they are in their 70s and 80s. I worry about my own mortality as well. I tell them e... | do you have a favorite video or book, or one that you found most helpful? I appreciate you being here for me. You have given me some great ideas, listened to me, and have made me feel better. I feel calm and relaxed now. Thank you so much! | I've personally enjoyed looking into all the different types of religions and spiritual beliefs from around the world. It's nice hearing about different beliefs on life and death. | I've personally enjoyed looking into all the different types of religions and spiritual beliefs from around the world. It's nice hearing about different beliefs on life and death. | Self-disclosure | Self-disclosure | 5,298 | happy | 0.000021 | 0.000009 | 0.000008 | 0.999882 | 0.000031 | 0.000017 | 0.000031 |
447 | 9 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | I'm feeling down and anxious about getting older because I've lost my parents and I'm worried about loosing my aunts. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi I'm doing better now that I have someone to chat with! I've been feeling down and anxious about getting older lately because I've lost may parents and I'm worried about losing my aunts. Exactly, I worry about losing my aunts because they are in their 70s and 80s. I worry about my own mortality as well. I tell them e... | I agree, the world would be a much better place if we could all lean on each other in times of need! | You are very welcome! Again I am happy to help and would love to chat any time you are feeling anxious about anything at all! | You are very welcome! Again I am happy to help and would love to chat any time you are feeling anxious about anything at all! I am always here for you! | Others, Others | Others | 5,299 | happy | 0.000555 | 0.000233 | 0.000141 | 0.758237 | 0.235232 | 0.001988 | 0.003614 |
447 | 10 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | I'm feeling down and anxious about getting older because I've lost my parents and I'm worried about loosing my aunts. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi I'm doing better now that I have someone to chat with! I've been feeling down and anxious about getting older lately because I've lost may parents and I'm worried about losing my aunts. Exactly, I worry about losing my aunts because they are in their 70s and 80s. I worry about my own mortality as well. I tell them e... | Thank you so much! You have helped me more than you know! So nice to have such a supportive friend to talk to! | You are very welcome! I hope you have a great rest of your day and please don't hesitate to message if you want to chat again! | You are very welcome! I hope you have a great rest of your day and please don't hesitate to message if you want to chat again! | Others | Others | 5,300 | happy | 0.000072 | 0.000013 | 0.000009 | 0.999819 | 0.000045 | 0.000016 | 0.000027 |
447 | 11 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | I'm feeling down and anxious about getting older because I've lost my parents and I'm worried about loosing my aunts. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi I'm doing better now that I have someone to chat with! I've been feeling down and anxious about getting older lately because I've lost may parents and I'm worried about losing my aunts. Exactly, I worry about losing my aunts because they are in their 70s and 80s. I worry about my own mortality as well. I tell them e... | I hope you have a great rest of your day as well! If you ever need someone to talk to feel free to message me! | Thank you I will! Take care! | Thank you I will! Take care! | Others | Others | 5,301 | happy | 0.000018 | 0.00001 | 0.000008 | 0.999872 | 0.00004 | 0.000019 | 0.000034 |
448 | 1 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | I just broke up with my boyfriend and I hinestly don't know what to do | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi, I;m not too good. Just trying to get over a really bad breakup, still haven't wrapped my head around it to be honest | I am so sorry to hear that you want to tell me what happened? | I am so sorry to hear that you want to tell me what happened? | Question | Question | 5,303 | sad | 0.004773 | 0.000745 | 0.000311 | 0.000183 | 0.002067 | 0.991315 | 0.000605 | |
448 | 2 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | I just broke up with my boyfriend and I hinestly don't know what to do | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi, I;m not too good. Just trying to get over a really bad breakup, still haven't wrapped my head around it to be honest | Yeah, apparently the covid situation was getting to him and after he lost his job, he decided he wanted to find himself and try the single life after ten years together | oh no that is terrible, are you able to support yourself financially without him? | oh no that is terrible, are you able to support yourself financially without him? | Question | Question | 5,304 | sad | 0.001216 | 0.000645 | 0.000587 | 0.000243 | 0.008854 | 0.986626 | 0.00183 |
448 | 3 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | I just broke up with my boyfriend and I hinestly don't know what to do | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Hi, I;m not too good. Just trying to get over a really bad breakup, still haven't wrapped my head around it to be honest Yeah, apparently the covid situation was getting to him and after he lost his job, he decided he wanted to find himself and try the single life after ten years together | Yeah, thankfully, I was basically supporting us both. It was just the shock of it all. I came home from work and he was packing his things, no discussion, nothing just it's over and I've literally been crying all day. I don;t even think I miss him, I'm just mad about how he went about it | That is cruel, I am sure you are in shock, to leave without an explanation, or a real one is terrible. So you have no contact withim what so ever? | That is cruel, I am sure you are in shock, to leave without an explanation, or a real one is terrible. So you have no contact withim what so ever? | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 5,305 | sad | 0.219845 | 0.00254 | 0.000291 | 0.004339 | 0.024782 | 0.599987 | 0.148216 |
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