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658 | 16 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | just everyday life | 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 | hello having a rough day. i feel like my life is an unscheduled mess. nothing ever happens when its supposed to i plan things and it always falls through and doesnt happen yes my partners schedule changes about 3 times a day. so i never know if what i had planned will happen or not. usually not. i stay home all the tim... | we had a lot of talks about this issue | Instead of you making the plans, why don't you try giving him suggestions and have him make the plans next time? Perhaps by him making them, he will be more focused on ensuring that he can be there. | Instead of you making the plans, why don't you try giving him suggestions and have him make the plans next time? Perhaps by him making them, he will be more focused on ensuring that he can be there. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 7,781 | sad | 0.017017 | 0.001895 | 0.005495 | 0.002948 | 0.127333 | 0.827333 | 0.01798 |
658 | 17 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | just everyday life | 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 | hello having a rough day. i feel like my life is an unscheduled mess. nothing ever happens when its supposed to i plan things and it always falls through and doesnt happen yes my partners schedule changes about 3 times a day. so i never know if what i had planned will happen or not. usually not. i stay home all the tim... | that sound like a great idea | And then he will also see how much effort you put in! | And then he will also see how much effort you put in! Please let me know how it work out! I wish you the best of luck! Have a wonderful evening! | Providing Suggestions, Others | Providing Suggestions | 7,782 | happy | 0.028334 | 0.000179 | 0.000052 | 0.955373 | 0.009402 | 0.000292 | 0.006367 |
658 | 18 | anxiety | ongoing_depression | just everyday life | 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 | hello having a rough day. i feel like my life is an unscheduled mess. nothing ever happens when its supposed to i plan things and it always falls through and doesnt happen yes my partners schedule changes about 3 times a day. so i never know if what i had planned will happen or not. usually not. i stay home all the tim... | thank you for your help | You are very welcome! | You are very welcome! | Others | Others | 7,783 | happy | 0.040782 | 0.000219 | 0.000559 | 0.861798 | 0.08633 | 0.001531 | 0.008781 |
660 | 1 | depression | school_bullying | I suffered bullying at school. for the simple fact of being not very fat but if stuffed, they called me a cow, they made the expression of a cow, they threw my bag in the trash, I had no friends. It was hard and strong to be able to study there, after that they changed my school, everything was fine until those from th... | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Yes, in my adolescense I suffered from bullying. I consider great impact in my life | I hear you saying that you are feeling hurt and made to feel bad by other people, does that sound right? | I hear you saying that you are feeling hurt and made to feel bad by other people, does that sound right? | Restatement or Paraphrasing | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 7,799 | sad | 0.00223 | 0.001384 | 0.004507 | 0.001094 | 0.003275 | 0.986496 | 0.001013 | |
660 | 2 | depression | school_bullying | I suffered bullying at school. for the simple fact of being not very fat but if stuffed, they called me a cow, they made the expression of a cow, they threw my bag in the trash, I had no friends. It was hard and strong to be able to study there, after that they changed my school, everything was fine until those from th... | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Yes, in my adolescense I suffered from bullying. I consider great impact in my life | yes | Has this been happening to you for a long time? | Has this been happening to you for a long time? | Others | Others | 7,800 | neutral | 0.005629 | 0.000064 | 0.000172 | 0.003235 | 0.984833 | 0.000879 | 0.005188 |
660 | 3 | depression | school_bullying | I suffered bullying at school. for the simple fact of being not very fat but if stuffed, they called me a cow, they made the expression of a cow, they threw my bag in the trash, I had no friends. It was hard and strong to be able to study there, after that they changed my school, everything was fine until those from th... | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Yes, in my adolescense I suffered from bullying. I consider great impact in my life yes | It happened in my teens, but it still impacts me | You are a very strong person for reaching out and expressing your feelings. You have a lot to be proud of! | You are a very strong person for reaching out and expressing your feelings. You have a lot to be proud of! | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 7,801 | neutral | 0.02944 | 0.000497 | 0.001155 | 0.000169 | 0.86597 | 0.054417 | 0.048351 |
660 | 4 | depression | school_bullying | I suffered bullying at school. for the simple fact of being not very fat but if stuffed, they called me a cow, they made the expression of a cow, they threw my bag in the trash, I had no friends. It was hard and strong to be able to study there, after that they changed my school, everything was fine until those from th... | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Yes, in my adolescense I suffered from bullying. I consider great impact in my life yes It happened in my teens, but it still impacts me | They were very harsh, with me.. just like my parents | You were put in a very difficult situation with multiple people. I can imagine that you have been so stressed out from the pressure of people hurting you. | You were put in a very difficult situation with multiple people. I can imagine that you have been so stressed out from the pressure of people hurting you. | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 7,802 | angry | 0.675484 | 0.217613 | 0.003452 | 0.00019 | 0.023793 | 0.077529 | 0.00194 |
660 | 5 | depression | school_bullying | I suffered bullying at school. for the simple fact of being not very fat but if stuffed, they called me a cow, they made the expression of a cow, they threw my bag in the trash, I had no friends. It was hard and strong to be able to study there, after that they changed my school, everything was fine until those from th... | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Yes, in my adolescense I suffered from bullying. I consider great impact in my life yes It happened in my teens, but it still impacts me They were very harsh, with me.. just like my parents | Thats how it is... what do you think i should do to overcome it? | I had this same problem in school and as I grew up I learned how to speak up and defend myself when people were rude and mean to me. I was my own advocate and you are also being your own by reaching out today and being so strong. | I had this same problem in school and as I grew up I learned how to speak up and defend myself when people were rude and mean to me. I was my own advocate and you are also being your own by reaching out today and being so strong. | Self-disclosure | Self-disclosure | 7,803 | neutral | 0.011959 | 0.000052 | 0.000144 | 0.000523 | 0.961285 | 0.001038 | 0.024999 |
660 | 6 | depression | school_bullying | I suffered bullying at school. for the simple fact of being not very fat but if stuffed, they called me a cow, they made the expression of a cow, they threw my bag in the trash, I had no friends. It was hard and strong to be able to study there, after that they changed my school, everything was fine until those from th... | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Yes, in my adolescense I suffered from bullying. I consider great impact in my life yes It happened in my teens, but it still impacts me They were very harsh, with me.. just like my parents Thats how it is... what do you think i should do to overcome it? | What did they tell you? | I was told that I was overweight by others. I was able to defend myself by saying that I am a good person with a good heart and they are not important to me and neither are their opinions. I became more confident in myself. Have you ever wrote your feelings down in a journal? | I was told that I was overweight by others. I was able to defend myself by saying that I am a good person with a good heart and they are not important to me and neither are their opinions. I became more confident in myself. Have you ever wrote your feelings down in a journal? | Others | Others | 7,804 | neutral | 0.084017 | 0.00022 | 0.000289 | 0.000624 | 0.781968 | 0.00099 | 0.131893 |
660 | 7 | depression | school_bullying | I suffered bullying at school. for the simple fact of being not very fat but if stuffed, they called me a cow, they made the expression of a cow, they threw my bag in the trash, I had no friends. It was hard and strong to be able to study there, after that they changed my school, everything was fine until those from th... | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Yes, in my adolescense I suffered from bullying. I consider great impact in my life yes It happened in my teens, but it still impacts me They were very harsh, with me.. just like my parents Thats how it is... what do you think i should do to overcome it? What did they tell you? | I think we suffer the same I have never written my feelings | Yes, I agree. A lot of research shows that when we write down our positive attributes we reaffirm our belief in ourselves. Listing the things are are good at can help give you more self confidence. | Yes, I agree. A lot of research shows that when we write down our positive attributes we reaffirm our belief in ourselves. Listing the things are are good at can help give you more self confidence. | Information | Information | 7,805 | sad | 0.009516 | 0.001244 | 0.000593 | 0.000164 | 0.031578 | 0.948526 | 0.008379 |
660 | 8 | depression | school_bullying | I suffered bullying at school. for the simple fact of being not very fat but if stuffed, they called me a cow, they made the expression of a cow, they threw my bag in the trash, I had no friends. It was hard and strong to be able to study there, after that they changed my school, everything was fine until those from th... | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Yes, in my adolescense I suffered from bullying. I consider great impact in my life yes It happened in my teens, but it still impacts me They were very harsh, with me.. just like my parents Thats how it is... what do you think i should do to overcome it? What did they tell you? I think we suffer the same I have never w... | Good, thanks | You're welcome, some people express themselves through email and can help to communicate your feelings to someone. | You're welcome, some people express themselves through email and can help to communicate your feelings to someone. Thank you for sharing with me today. | Providing Suggestions, Others | Providing Suggestions | 7,806 | happy | 0.1542 | 0.000181 | 0.00018 | 0.839417 | 0.003538 | 0.00016 | 0.002325 |
660 | 9 | depression | school_bullying | I suffered bullying at school. for the simple fact of being not very fat but if stuffed, they called me a cow, they made the expression of a cow, they threw my bag in the trash, I had no friends. It was hard and strong to be able to study there, after that they changed my school, everything was fine until those from th... | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Yes, in my adolescense I suffered from bullying. I consider great impact in my life yes It happened in my teens, but it still impacts me They were very harsh, with me.. just like my parents Thats how it is... what do you think i should do to overcome it? What did they tell you? I think we suffer the same I have never w... | i would like to, i like to vent Are you a Psychologist? | You have done a great job explaining how you are feeling and how you've been hurt, thank you. | You have done a great job explaining how you are feeling and how you've been hurt, thank you. | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 7,807 | neutral | 0.196845 | 0.00027 | 0.001777 | 0.002249 | 0.757263 | 0.0006 | 0.040997 |
660 | 10 | depression | school_bullying | I suffered bullying at school. for the simple fact of being not very fat but if stuffed, they called me a cow, they made the expression of a cow, they threw my bag in the trash, I had no friends. It was hard and strong to be able to study there, after that they changed my school, everything was fine until those from th... | 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Yes, in my adolescense I suffered from bullying. I consider great impact in my life yes It happened in my teens, but it still impacts me They were very harsh, with me.. just like my parents Thats how it is... what do you think i should do to overcome it? What did they tell you? I think we suffer the same I have never w... | Thanks you, for listening | You're welcome! | You're welcome! If that is all that I can do for you today kindly end and finish. Bye, for now and have a great day. | Others, Others | Others | 7,808 | happy | 0.002842 | 0.000044 | 0.000059 | 0.994598 | 0.001535 | 0.000045 | 0.000877 |
661 | 1 | depression | ongoing_depression | I have been out of work and my father passed now we have to move to a smaller house and I am my mothers care giver | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | hello hello? | Hello there | Hello there | Others | Others | 7,809 | neutral | 0.006164 | 0.000089 | 0.000135 | 0.006047 | 0.984864 | 0.000156 | 0.002546 | |
661 | 2 | depression | ongoing_depression | I have been out of work and my father passed now we have to move to a smaller house and I am my mothers care giver | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | hello hello? | how are you i guess you read my situation | Actually I haven't seen the details. How can I help you ? | Actually I haven't seen the details. How can I help you ? | Question | Question | 7,810 | neutral | 0.017558 | 0.000174 | 0.000139 | 0.003839 | 0.820819 | 0.001026 | 0.156445 |
661 | 3 | depression | ongoing_depression | I have been out of work and my father passed now we have to move to a smaller house and I am my mothers care giver | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | hello hello? how are you i guess you read my situation | I have been out of work . my father passed last year we have to move to a smaller home and I am my mother care giver | That must be a real challenge. Anyone would feel stressed in this situation. | That must be a real challenge. Anyone would feel stressed in this situation. | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 7,811 | sad | 0.000121 | 0.000046 | 0.000307 | 0.00004 | 0.000122 | 0.999344 | 0.00002 |
661 | 4 | depression | ongoing_depression | I have been out of work and my father passed now we have to move to a smaller house and I am my mothers care giver | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | hello hello? how are you i guess you read my situation I have been out of work . my father passed last year we have to move to a smaller home and I am my mother care giver | yes it has been at least when he was alive we had his income it was stressfull but we had the money to keep up with things | So you used to rely on his income and now you are struggling to make ends meet? | So you used to rely on his income and now you are struggling to make ends meet? | Restatement or Paraphrasing | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 7,812 | neutral | 0.033301 | 0.001208 | 0.008012 | 0.005121 | 0.535723 | 0.393208 | 0.023427 |
661 | 5 | depression | ongoing_depression | I have been out of work and my father passed now we have to move to a smaller house and I am my mothers care giver | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | hello hello? how are you i guess you read my situation I have been out of work . my father passed last year we have to move to a smaller home and I am my mother care giver yes it has been at least when he was alive we had his income it was stressfull but we had the money to keep up with things | yes and with Covid its been even harder | I have also felt that COVID has added additional pressure in my life. You are not alone in thinking this. It must be tough | I have also felt that COVID has added additional pressure in my life. You are not alone in thinking this. It must be tough | Self-disclosure | Self-disclosure | 7,813 | sad | 0.034861 | 0.00051 | 0.017121 | 0.00211 | 0.356789 | 0.576036 | 0.012573 |
661 | 6 | depression | ongoing_depression | I have been out of work and my father passed now we have to move to a smaller house and I am my mothers care giver | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | hello hello? how are you i guess you read my situation I have been out of work . my father passed last year we have to move to a smaller home and I am my mother care giver yes it has been at least when he was alive we had his income it was stressfull but we had the money to keep up with things yes and with Covid its be... | yes for all , so we are moving but thats been a pain also getting approved for a mortgage packing up and still caring for my mother | So from talking to you it seems like there has been a sudden death which has been difficult, financial challenges as a result and all this is mixed with Covid and moving house. This must be incredibly stressful. | So from talking to you it seems like there has been a sudden death which has been difficult, financial challenges as a result and all this is mixed with Covid and moving house. This must be incredibly stressful. | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 7,814 | sad | 0.100998 | 0.000934 | 0.00458 | 0.001889 | 0.014574 | 0.874494 | 0.002531 |
661 | 7 | depression | ongoing_depression | I have been out of work and my father passed now we have to move to a smaller house and I am my mothers care giver | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | hello hello? how are you i guess you read my situation I have been out of work . my father passed last year we have to move to a smaller home and I am my mother care giver yes it has been at least when he was alive we had his income it was stressfull but we had the money to keep up with things yes and with Covid its be... | yes I cant sleep and when I do I wake up in a panic middle of the night | Have you tried looking at your problems individually and trying to tackle them in smaller manageable steps? | Have you tried looking at your problems individually and trying to tackle them in smaller manageable steps? | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 7,815 | fear | 0.000131 | 0.00035 | 0.970302 | 0.000304 | 0.000545 | 0.02078 | 0.007589 |
661 | 8 | depression | ongoing_depression | I have been out of work and my father passed now we have to move to a smaller house and I am my mothers care giver | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | hello hello? how are you i guess you read my situation I have been out of work . my father passed last year we have to move to a smaller home and I am my mother care giver yes it has been at least when he was alive we had his income it was stressfull but we had the money to keep up with things yes and with Covid its be... | yes but it all seems to hit me at once in hoping the move helps but it will be a big change much smaller hone home | Have you looked into financial support for people in your situation who care for others, such as government support or subsidies? | Have you looked into financial support for people in your situation who care for others, such as government support or subsidies? | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 7,816 | surprised | 0.002955 | 0.000675 | 0.013202 | 0.005416 | 0.058201 | 0.11383 | 0.805722 |
661 | 9 | depression | ongoing_depression | I have been out of work and my father passed now we have to move to a smaller house and I am my mothers care giver | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | hello hello? how are you i guess you read my situation I have been out of work . my father passed last year we have to move to a smaller home and I am my mother care giver yes it has been at least when he was alive we had his income it was stressfull but we had the money to keep up with things yes and with Covid its be... | yes but she isnt that sick yet where they would pay and both of us being high risk looking for work has been hard | Many people are surprised by what help is actually available if they take a look. The government has provided quite comprehensive support, especially for carers. | Many people are surprised by what help is actually available if they take a look. The government has provided quite comprehensive support, especially for carers. | Information | Information | 7,817 | neutral | 0.120244 | 0.000496 | 0.004351 | 0.000642 | 0.69006 | 0.174055 | 0.010152 |
661 | 10 | depression | ongoing_depression | I have been out of work and my father passed now we have to move to a smaller house and I am my mothers care giver | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | hello hello? how are you i guess you read my situation I have been out of work . my father passed last year we have to move to a smaller home and I am my mother care giver yes it has been at least when he was alive we had his income it was stressfull but we had the money to keep up with things yes and with Covid its be... | i will have to look in to it more once the move is complete | I think you are trying to stay positive which is a good thing. It is easy to give up but I think you can get through this. | I think you are trying to stay positive which is a good thing. It is easy to give up but I think you can get through this. | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 7,818 | neutral | 0.00089 | 0.000034 | 0.00011 | 0.000178 | 0.996995 | 0.000272 | 0.001521 |
661 | 11 | depression | ongoing_depression | I have been out of work and my father passed now we have to move to a smaller house and I am my mothers care giver | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | hello hello? how are you i guess you read my situation I have been out of work . my father passed last year we have to move to a smaller home and I am my mother care giver yes it has been at least when he was alive we had his income it was stressfull but we had the money to keep up with things yes and with Covid its be... | i hope so its been a hard last couple of years with money parents health stress but i no im not the only one | Not at all but I would suggest looking for help. There is no shame in asking for support. We all need that at times. | Not at all but I would suggest looking for help. There is no shame in asking for support. We all need that at times. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 7,819 | sad | 0.005545 | 0.000285 | 0.001087 | 0.000223 | 0.015411 | 0.976882 | 0.000568 |
661 | 12 | depression | ongoing_depression | I have been out of work and my father passed now we have to move to a smaller house and I am my mothers care giver | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | hello hello? how are you i guess you read my situation I have been out of work . my father passed last year we have to move to a smaller home and I am my mother care giver yes it has been at least when he was alive we had his income it was stressfull but we had the money to keep up with things yes and with Covid its be... | yes I know I need to get passed my embarrassment | There is no need to feel embarrassed. I think it shows strength it character to realise when help is needed and your situation is very challenging. | There is no need to feel embarrassed. I think it shows strength it character to realise when help is needed and your situation is very challenging. | Others | Others | 7,820 | disgusted | 0.023458 | 0.872534 | 0.000518 | 0.001381 | 0.04611 | 0.027689 | 0.028311 |
661 | 13 | depression | ongoing_depression | I have been out of work and my father passed now we have to move to a smaller house and I am my mothers care giver | 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 | hello hello? how are you i guess you read my situation I have been out of work . my father passed last year we have to move to a smaller home and I am my mother care giver yes it has been at least when he was alive we had his income it was stressfull but we had the money to keep up with things yes and with Covid its be... | thank you I feel this just getting it all out has helped some | You are welcome and I'm glad that it helped. | You are welcome and I'm glad that it helped. | Others | Others | 7,821 | happy | 0.000101 | 0.000027 | 0.000027 | 0.998241 | 0.000632 | 0.000803 | 0.000168 |
663 | 1 | fear | academic_pressure | I have been getting low grades lately and am scared I will be thrown out of my University. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | Hi there, could you please give me some advice? | Hello, would you like to explain your situation and we can go through it together | Hello, would you like to explain your situation and we can go through it together | Question | Question | 7,830 | neutral | 0.005742 | 0.000046 | 0.000703 | 0.001281 | 0.980601 | 0.000674 | 0.010954 | |
663 | 2 | fear | academic_pressure | I have been getting low grades lately and am scared I will be thrown out of my University. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | Hi there, could you please give me some advice? | I feel that I am blowing my future because I am just not scoring well on tests these days. I just don't feel motivated to work as hard as I know that I should. | So you don't feel motivated and you are not scoring well, have I understood that correctly? | So you don't feel motivated and you are not scoring well, have I understood that correctly? | Restatement or Paraphrasing | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 7,831 | sad | 0.008892 | 0.000367 | 0.000154 | 0.066753 | 0.002995 | 0.919821 | 0.001018 |
663 | 3 | fear | academic_pressure | I have been getting low grades lately and am scared I will be thrown out of my University. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | Hi there, could you please give me some advice? I feel that I am blowing my future because I am just not scoring well on tests these days. I just don't feel motivated to work as hard as I know that I should. | Yes. I know that the two things are probably related but I just do not know what to do about them. | What are you currently studying? | What are you currently studying? | Question | Question | 7,832 | surprised | 0.003628 | 0.000355 | 0.000443 | 0.000406 | 0.016655 | 0.001653 | 0.97686 |
663 | 4 | fear | academic_pressure | I have been getting low grades lately and am scared I will be thrown out of my University. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | Hi there, could you please give me some advice? I feel that I am blowing my future because I am just not scoring well on tests these days. I just don't feel motivated to work as hard as I know that I should. Yes. I know that the two things are probably related but I just do not know what to do about them. | I am studying microbiology. I do not know that I have the passion for it that I once did though. | Your motivation and how you are studying is probably related, you are right. What attracted you to microbiology in the first place? | Your motivation and how you are studying is probably related, you are right. What attracted you to microbiology in the first place? | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 7,833 | happy | 0.124273 | 0.002306 | 0.00364 | 0.460602 | 0.007841 | 0.22395 | 0.177387 |
663 | 5 | fear | academic_pressure | I have been getting low grades lately and am scared I will be thrown out of my University. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | Hi there, could you please give me some advice? I feel that I am blowing my future because I am just not scoring well on tests these days. I just don't feel motivated to work as hard as I know that I should. Yes. I know that the two things are probably related but I just do not know what to do about them. I am studying... | I have always found it fascinating and have an uncle who is a microbiologist. But these days I feel I made the wrong decision. Is it too late to change? | It is never too late to change anything. However, i hear that you have always found it fascinating,have you considered talking to your uncle and seeing if you can find what you loved about it again? | It is never too late to change anything. However, i hear that you have always found it fascinating,have you considered talking to your uncle and seeing if you can find what you loved about it again? | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 7,834 | sad | 0.001286 | 0.000385 | 0.001102 | 0.000704 | 0.001461 | 0.985863 | 0.009199 |
663 | 6 | fear | academic_pressure | I have been getting low grades lately and am scared I will be thrown out of my University. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | Hi there, could you please give me some advice? I feel that I am blowing my future because I am just not scoring well on tests these days. I just don't feel motivated to work as hard as I know that I should. Yes. I know that the two things are probably related but I just do not know what to do about them. I am studying... | Yes that does sound like good advice. I do not want to turn by back on my studies of the past years. But my grades are really poor and I am not sure what to do about that. | Studying can be really difficult , especially when you are half way through. i struggled in my studies and found that talking to my tutors helped and approaching student support. Have you tried anything like that or has your motivation held you back? | Studying can be really difficult , especially when you are half way through. i struggled in my studies and found that talking to my tutors helped and approaching student support. Have you tried anything like that or has your motivation held you back? | Self-disclosure | Self-disclosure | 7,835 | angry | 0.679587 | 0.006024 | 0.003663 | 0.000968 | 0.032185 | 0.171184 | 0.106389 |
663 | 7 | fear | academic_pressure | I have been getting low grades lately and am scared I will be thrown out of my University. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | Hi there, could you please give me some advice? I feel that I am blowing my future because I am just not scoring well on tests these days. I just don't feel motivated to work as hard as I know that I should. Yes. I know that the two things are probably related but I just do not know what to do about them. I am studying... | To be honest I have been a little afraid to approach them about the subject because they might accuse me of just slacking. I know it might look like that from the outside. | Just from chatting to you, I can sense that you are anxious, however, as many students feel this way, they will have a whole lot of help they can provide. | Just from chatting to you, I can sense that you are anxious, however, as many students feel this way, they will have a whole lot of help they can provide. | Information | Information | 7,836 | fear | 0.000038 | 0.000065 | 0.999502 | 0.000046 | 0.000109 | 0.00015 | 0.000091 |
663 | 8 | fear | academic_pressure | I have been getting low grades lately and am scared I will be thrown out of my University. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | Hi there, could you please give me some advice? I feel that I am blowing my future because I am just not scoring well on tests these days. I just don't feel motivated to work as hard as I know that I should. Yes. I know that the two things are probably related but I just do not know what to do about them. I am studying... | I do feel that part of my problem is that I am afraid to really open up about it. You are the first person I have really felt able to talk to. | I am pleased that you have been able to open up to me, it is the first step towards you finding your path. Do you find it easy to write things down? | I am pleased that you have been able to open up to me, it is the first step towards you finding your path. Do you find it easy to write things down? | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 7,837 | fear | 0.00002 | 0.000053 | 0.999446 | 0.000169 | 0.000051 | 0.000131 | 0.00013 |
663 | 9 | fear | academic_pressure | I have been getting low grades lately and am scared I will be thrown out of my University. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | Hi there, could you please give me some advice? I feel that I am blowing my future because I am just not scoring well on tests these days. I just don't feel motivated to work as hard as I know that I should. Yes. I know that the two things are probably related but I just do not know what to do about them. I am studying... | Yes, it is really much more easy to write my problems down than to actually talk to people about them face to face. | One suggestion is for you to write down all the reasons that you love microbiology. It can be any format, I love a bubble chart (mind map), it could be in list form or just doodles, would this be something you would find useful? | One suggestion is for you to write down all the reasons that you love microbiology. It can be any format, I love a bubble chart (mind map), it could be in list form or just doodles, would this be something you would find useful? | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 7,838 | neutral | 0.005148 | 0.000092 | 0.000761 | 0.001212 | 0.955535 | 0.029465 | 0.007787 |
663 | 10 | fear | academic_pressure | I have been getting low grades lately and am scared I will be thrown out of my University. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | Hi there, could you please give me some advice? I feel that I am blowing my future because I am just not scoring well on tests these days. I just don't feel motivated to work as hard as I know that I should. Yes. I know that the two things are probably related but I just do not know what to do about them. I am studying... | Yes, that is a fantastic idea! Maybe I can find a renewed interest in the subject. I hope that I can because I really do not want my time studying to have been wasted. | It would be a really good place to start. Then you could be really kind to yourself and take some pressure off. Would you like to talk through some ideas to help with the work itself? | It would be a really good place to start. Then you could be really kind to yourself and take some pressure off. Would you like to talk through some ideas to help with the work itself? | Question | Question | 7,839 | happy | 0.003016 | 0.00028 | 0.002141 | 0.980148 | 0.009512 | 0.004211 | 0.000693 |
663 | 11 | fear | academic_pressure | I have been getting low grades lately and am scared I will be thrown out of my University. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | Hi there, could you please give me some advice? I feel that I am blowing my future because I am just not scoring well on tests these days. I just don't feel motivated to work as hard as I know that I should. Yes. I know that the two things are probably related but I just do not know what to do about them. I am studying... | Yes I really would. I already feel more motivated! Half an hour ago I felt that I had no place left to go and felt defeated. | That's really good, sometimes it is about finding a direction and small steps. Often when we are studying the work seems really big, especially essay questions. One thing that helped me was to break it into really small chunks, sometimes physically covering up some of the question. Would that be something that would he... | That's really good, sometimes it is about finding a direction and small steps. Often when we are studying the work seems really big, especially essay questions. One thing that helped me was to break it into really small chunks, sometimes physically covering up some of the question. Would that be something that would he... | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 7,840 | sad | 0.000335 | 0.000086 | 0.001154 | 0.119415 | 0.000695 | 0.877425 | 0.000889 |
663 | 12 | fear | academic_pressure | I have been getting low grades lately and am scared I will be thrown out of my University. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | Hi there, could you please give me some advice? I feel that I am blowing my future because I am just not scoring well on tests these days. I just don't feel motivated to work as hard as I know that I should. Yes. I know that the two things are probably related but I just do not know what to do about them. I am studying... | I have not really tried it but I ought to. I often feel that I am just overwhelmed. Then I know that I got something wrong for definite and I just want to give up. | It could be something you can try, remember , it is not always about ought to, simply how can I make it easier for myself. It is okay to get things wrong too. If you decide to write your list of reasons why you love microbiology, maybe you could keep it in a place you see every day, a mirror or fridge and keep seeing w... | It could be something you can try, remember , it is not always about ought to, simply how can I make it easier for myself. It is okay to get things wrong too. If you decide to write your list of reasons why you love microbiology, maybe you could keep it in a place you see every day, a mirror or fridge and keep seeing w... | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 7,841 | surprised | 0.000237 | 0.000513 | 0.349643 | 0.001275 | 0.000444 | 0.001132 | 0.646756 |
663 | 13 | fear | academic_pressure | I have been getting low grades lately and am scared I will be thrown out of my University. | 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 | Hi there, could you please give me some advice? I feel that I am blowing my future because I am just not scoring well on tests these days. I just don't feel motivated to work as hard as I know that I should. Yes. I know that the two things are probably related but I just do not know what to do about them. I am studying... | I have already started making a mental list and feel much more optimistic. Thank you very much for your conversation and your help, it has been very valuable to me! | You are more than welcome and it has been lovely chatting to you. Is there anything else you would like to talk through? | You are more than welcome and it has been lovely chatting to you. Is there anything else you would like to talk through? | Others | Others | 7,842 | happy | 0.000015 | 0.000009 | 0.00001 | 0.999902 | 0.000018 | 0.00002 | 0.000026 |
664 | 1 | sadness | ongoing_depression | Depression exacerbated by nasty migraines lately. | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Hello | Hello there. How are things treating you at the moment? | Hello there. How are things treating you at the moment? | Question | Question | 7,843 | neutral | 0.004226 | 0.000116 | 0.000071 | 0.00422 | 0.989792 | 0.000161 | 0.001414 | |
664 | 2 | sadness | ongoing_depression | Depression exacerbated by nasty migraines lately. | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Hello | Could be better or worse, how are you? | Pretty much sums it up really. I think that that is how a lot of us are feeling right now. Is there anything you'd like to talk about? | Pretty much sums it up really. I think that that is how a lot of us are feeling right now. Is there anything you'd like to talk about? | Question | Question | 7,844 | neutral | 0.037107 | 0.000169 | 0.000675 | 0.005389 | 0.761938 | 0.008879 | 0.185844 |
664 | 3 | sadness | ongoing_depression | Depression exacerbated by nasty migraines lately. | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Hello Could be better or worse, how are you? | I have been getting migraines lately which is not fun. | Ouch I hear you .. I have suffered from those for years. They are no fun at all are they? | Ouch I hear you .. I have suffered from those for years. They are no fun at all are they? Are you getting any sort of treatment for it? There are some effective treatments out there. | Self-disclosure, Question | Self-disclosure | 7,845 | sad | 0.205682 | 0.01971 | 0.021384 | 0.00418 | 0.004595 | 0.740373 | 0.004076 |
664 | 4 | sadness | ongoing_depression | Depression exacerbated by nasty migraines lately. | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Hello Could be better or worse, how are you? I have been getting migraines lately which is not fun. | I actually just talked to my doctor today, I am going to track my triggers and see if we can figure out why I am getting them. Also some meds for the symptoms. | That sounds really productive. Do you think that the attacks might be stress related in some way? | That sounds really productive. Do you think that the attacks might be stress related in some way? | Question | Question | 7,846 | neutral | 0.001243 | 0.000099 | 0.001192 | 0.000481 | 0.985448 | 0.001447 | 0.01009 |
664 | 5 | sadness | ongoing_depression | Depression exacerbated by nasty migraines lately. | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Hello Could be better or worse, how are you? I have been getting migraines lately which is not fun. I actually just talked to my doctor today, I am going to track my triggers and see if we can figure out why I am getting them. Also some meds for the symptoms. | It could be but they seem to happen more on weekends so that doesn't really make sense. | Hmm yes I can see how that does not make any sense. Do you have any other medical issues? | Hmm yes I can see how that does not make any sense. Do you have any other medical issues? | Question | Question | 7,847 | surprised | 0.073445 | 0.000701 | 0.000305 | 0.001081 | 0.049255 | 0.002004 | 0.87321 |
664 | 6 | sadness | ongoing_depression | Depression exacerbated by nasty migraines lately. | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Hello Could be better or worse, how are you? I have been getting migraines lately which is not fun. I actually just talked to my doctor today, I am going to track my triggers and see if we can figure out why I am getting them. Also some meds for the symptoms. It could be but they seem to happen more on weekends so that... | No I am in pretty good health, a bit of sciatica from a few years back but that only flares up occasionally. | Well, I believe that there are some new advances in migraine treatment at the moment so I think things will improve for you. I am sorry if I am not being more help. | Well, I believe that there are some new advances in migraine treatment at the moment so I think things will improve for you. I am sorry if I am not being more help. You sound as though you are dealing with the problem pretty well though | Affirmation and Reassurance, Reflection of feelings | Affirmation and Reassurance | 7,848 | happy | 0.001462 | 0.000248 | 0.000341 | 0.939899 | 0.046175 | 0.008343 | 0.003532 |
664 | 7 | sadness | ongoing_depression | Depression exacerbated by nasty migraines lately. | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Hello Could be better or worse, how are you? I have been getting migraines lately which is not fun. I actually just talked to my doctor today, I am going to track my triggers and see if we can figure out why I am getting them. Also some meds for the symptoms. It could be but they seem to happen more on weekends so that... | Thanks I knoq its pretty hard to fix medical issues with a conversation, I am also a little depressed if that helps:) | Ah I hear you on that. Do you feel that this is related to the pandemic or is it something that has been ongoing for a while? | Ah I hear you on that. Do you feel that this is related to the pandemic or is it something that has been ongoing for a while? | Question | Question | 7,849 | sad | 0.003515 | 0.000632 | 0.000772 | 0.302613 | 0.011603 | 0.676172 | 0.004693 |
664 | 8 | sadness | ongoing_depression | Depression exacerbated by nasty migraines lately. | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Hello Could be better or worse, how are you? I have been getting migraines lately which is not fun. I actually just talked to my doctor today, I am going to track my triggers and see if we can figure out why I am getting them. Also some meds for the symptoms. It could be but they seem to happen more on weekends so that... | No this is a very old friend | There are some excellent counselling services available if you are interested in going that route. | There are some excellent counselling services available if you are interested in going that route. | Information | Information | 7,850 | neutral | 0.006773 | 0.000086 | 0.000071 | 0.003137 | 0.965703 | 0.00118 | 0.023049 |
664 | 9 | sadness | ongoing_depression | Depression exacerbated by nasty migraines lately. | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Hello Could be better or worse, how are you? I have been getting migraines lately which is not fun. I actually just talked to my doctor today, I am going to track my triggers and see if we can figure out why I am getting them. Also some meds for the symptoms. It could be but they seem to happen more on weekends so that... | Honestly I have a pretty good handle on it, I have done a lot of therapy and I am quite open with people about it. | That is a really healthy attitude to have. I think that you are dealing with this very well .. well done! | That is a really healthy attitude to have. I think that you are dealing with this very well .. well done! Back to migraines, have you considered trying to alter your diet to help with it? Some people believe that avoiding certain foods can be really helpful. | Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions | Affirmation and Reassurance | 7,851 | neutral | 0.003354 | 0.000265 | 0.000372 | 0.061515 | 0.898154 | 0.012067 | 0.024272 |
664 | 10 | sadness | ongoing_depression | Depression exacerbated by nasty migraines lately. | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Hello Could be better or worse, how are you? I have been getting migraines lately which is not fun. I actually just talked to my doctor today, I am going to track my triggers and see if we can figure out why I am getting them. Also some meds for the symptoms. It could be but they seem to happen more on weekends so that... | Yes I need to start keeping track of what triggers me, Caffeine is definitely off the menu because that sets it off for me | That's a shame - I would really miss caffeine if I had to do without it! I did try cutting out sugar but it did not really have any effect | That's a shame - I would really miss caffeine if I had to do without it! I did try cutting out sugar but it did not really have any effect I hope that you can find some resolution in the New Year. All the best to you and thanks for talking! | Self-disclosure, Others | Self-disclosure | 7,852 | neutral | 0.00306 | 0.000073 | 0.000374 | 0.000179 | 0.985315 | 0.001543 | 0.009456 |
664 | 11 | sadness | ongoing_depression | Depression exacerbated by nasty migraines lately. | 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 | Hello Could be better or worse, how are you? I have been getting migraines lately which is not fun. I actually just talked to my doctor today, I am going to track my triggers and see if we can figure out why I am getting them. Also some meds for the symptoms. It could be but they seem to happen more on weekends so that... | Thanks for your help, Have a wonderful day! | You too! Don't forget to press the button and take the survey ;) | You too! Don't forget to press the button and take the survey ;) | Others | Others | 7,853 | happy | 0.000172 | 0.000017 | 0.000007 | 0.999668 | 0.000077 | 0.000021 | 0.000039 |
665 | 1 | anger | job_crisis | Had to work till 11pm and up early the next morning. No emotional support and completely drained of all energy. Have no desire to continue with the job, but need to get paid. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Im ok - tired. Yourself. | I'm doing fairly well, Thanks. Can I encourage you or support you in some way? | I'm doing fairly well, Thanks. Can I encourage you or support you in some way? | Question | Question | 7,855 | neutral | 0.022873 | 0.000072 | 0.000441 | 0.00187 | 0.966121 | 0.003713 | 0.00491 | |
665 | 2 | anger | job_crisis | Had to work till 11pm and up early the next morning. No emotional support and completely drained of all energy. Have no desire to continue with the job, but need to get paid. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Im ok - tired. Yourself. | Yes - definitely. I am not sure how to proceed or what to do in my situation. I am exhausted, mentally and physically. | You sound as if you are in a slump. I've been there. Perhaps defining the problem and some solutions can help? | You sound as if you are in a slump. I've been there. Perhaps defining the problem and some solutions can help? | Restatement or Paraphrasing | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 7,856 | surprised | 0.002694 | 0.0007 | 0.036701 | 0.000698 | 0.005855 | 0.063156 | 0.890197 |
665 | 3 | anger | job_crisis | Had to work till 11pm and up early the next morning. No emotional support and completely drained of all energy. Have no desire to continue with the job, but need to get paid. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Im ok - tired. Yourself. Yes - definitely. I am not sure how to proceed or what to do in my situation. I am exhausted, mentally and physically. | Perhaps - i dont know the solution. the problem is I cannot continue to work these hours - it is just not sustainable. | What are your hours? | What are your hours? | Question | Question | 7,857 | angry | 0.725617 | 0.001189 | 0.004675 | 0.000623 | 0.057015 | 0.148623 | 0.062258 |
665 | 4 | anger | job_crisis | Had to work till 11pm and up early the next morning. No emotional support and completely drained of all energy. Have no desire to continue with the job, but need to get paid. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Im ok - tired. Yourself. Yes - definitely. I am not sure how to proceed or what to do in my situation. I am exhausted, mentally and physically. Perhaps - i dont know the solution. the problem is I cannot continue to work these hours - it is just not sustainable. | like generally, or currently in these situations? usually its around 9-5 (give or take). These days its 9 - 7 or 11pm or later. | I have to say, when I am physically and mentally exhausted, I don't think as clearly and lose hope more easily. | I have to say, when I am physically and mentally exhausted, I don't think as clearly and lose hope more easily. | Self-disclosure | Self-disclosure | 7,858 | neutral | 0.002148 | 0.000063 | 0.000085 | 0.00098 | 0.976845 | 0.000745 | 0.019134 |
665 | 5 | anger | job_crisis | Had to work till 11pm and up early the next morning. No emotional support and completely drained of all energy. Have no desire to continue with the job, but need to get paid. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Im ok - tired. Yourself. Yes - definitely. I am not sure how to proceed or what to do in my situation. I am exhausted, mentally and physically. Perhaps - i dont know the solution. the problem is I cannot continue to work these hours - it is just not sustainable. like generally, or currently in these situations? usually... | right, and that is the issue of where I am at. | 9 to 11 would exhaust me. That is 14 hours? | 9 to 11 would exhaust me. That is 14 hours? | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 7,859 | neutral | 0.012784 | 0.00007 | 0.000107 | 0.000197 | 0.958287 | 0.001108 | 0.027447 |
665 | 6 | anger | job_crisis | Had to work till 11pm and up early the next morning. No emotional support and completely drained of all energy. Have no desire to continue with the job, but need to get paid. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Im ok - tired. Yourself. Yes - definitely. I am not sure how to proceed or what to do in my situation. I am exhausted, mentally and physically. Perhaps - i dont know the solution. the problem is I cannot continue to work these hours - it is just not sustainable. like generally, or currently in these situations? usually... | yeah - something like that. and lunches are at the desk - as i am working from home - so its pretty much no breaks either. | I would certainly agree with you. That kind of work is unsustainable. Let me ask you this. What would happen if you told your employer you simply could not do these hours? | I would certainly agree with you. That kind of work is unsustainable. Let me ask you this. What would happen if you told your employer you simply could not do these hours? | Reflection of feelings | Reflection of feelings | 7,860 | neutral | 0.006952 | 0.000096 | 0.000078 | 0.000424 | 0.983003 | 0.001459 | 0.007988 |
665 | 7 | anger | job_crisis | Had to work till 11pm and up early the next morning. No emotional support and completely drained of all energy. Have no desire to continue with the job, but need to get paid. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Im ok - tired. Yourself. Yes - definitely. I am not sure how to proceed or what to do in my situation. I am exhausted, mentally and physically. Perhaps - i dont know the solution. the problem is I cannot continue to work these hours - it is just not sustainable. like generally, or currently in these situations? usually... | hah - i dunno. im on a team of 2 people - and i guess if i dont do it, the other person has to. or it just doesnt get done, and i dont know what happens?? nothing? LOL. | The worst that could happen is that they fire you. But that doesn't seem too likely as they seem to need you. But I have learned in life that if I don't care for myself, hardly anyone does. We need to be kind to ourselves. Set boundaries. | The worst that could happen is that they fire you. But that doesn't seem too likely as they seem to need you. But I have learned in life that if I don't care for myself, hardly anyone does. We need to be kind to ourselves. Set boundaries. | Self-disclosure | Self-disclosure | 7,861 | happy | 0.008451 | 0.000588 | 0.00013 | 0.925527 | 0.018454 | 0.00127 | 0.04558 |
665 | 8 | anger | job_crisis | Had to work till 11pm and up early the next morning. No emotional support and completely drained of all energy. Have no desire to continue with the job, but need to get paid. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Im ok - tired. Yourself. Yes - definitely. I am not sure how to proceed or what to do in my situation. I am exhausted, mentally and physically. Perhaps - i dont know the solution. the problem is I cannot continue to work these hours - it is just not sustainable. like generally, or currently in these situations? usually... | agreed - i dont think they would fire me, maybe get reprimanded or more likely a guilt trip as to why I cant do it. Im just not sure what kind of boundaries I set when we have things due, and just literally no time. | Setting boundaries can be difficult if you haven't done that a lot. When we think we don't have the ability to say NO, then we feel trapped, worn out, depressed, taken advantage of. People need to know that we reasonably can say no. | Setting boundaries can be difficult if you haven't done that a lot. When we think we don't have the ability to say NO, then we feel trapped, worn out, depressed, taken advantage of. People need to know that we reasonably can say no. | Information | Information | 7,862 | surprised | 0.042557 | 0.001029 | 0.000503 | 0.000561 | 0.073868 | 0.010245 | 0.871238 |
665 | 9 | anger | job_crisis | Had to work till 11pm and up early the next morning. No emotional support and completely drained of all energy. Have no desire to continue with the job, but need to get paid. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Im ok - tired. Yourself. Yes - definitely. I am not sure how to proceed or what to do in my situation. I am exhausted, mentally and physically. Perhaps - i dont know the solution. the problem is I cannot continue to work these hours - it is just not sustainable. like generally, or currently in these situations? usually... | Well, I have to set boundaries, because working till 11pm most nights is not sustainable. and who on earth is going to view, let alone sign a contract at 12am | I think that would be the first step. Determine how many hours you feel you COULD work. Then advise them that is what you will do. Find out what kind of timelines there are, and if you can't do it, don't go beyond your boundaries. It is obviously destroying your life. It really isn't healthy for you. | I think that would be the first step. Determine how many hours you feel you COULD work. Then advise them that is what you will do. Find out what kind of timelines there are, and if you can't do it, don't go beyond your boundaries. It is obviously destroying your life. It really isn't healthy for you. Exactly. It isn't ... | Providing Suggestions, Reflection of feelings | Providing Suggestions | 7,863 | angry | 0.89143 | 0.001894 | 0.00062 | 0.000211 | 0.081178 | 0.020777 | 0.003891 |
665 | 10 | anger | job_crisis | Had to work till 11pm and up early the next morning. No emotional support and completely drained of all energy. Have no desire to continue with the job, but need to get paid. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Im ok - tired. Yourself. Yes - definitely. I am not sure how to proceed or what to do in my situation. I am exhausted, mentally and physically. Perhaps - i dont know the solution. the problem is I cannot continue to work these hours - it is just not sustainable. like generally, or currently in these situations? usually... | yeah - ill come up with reasonable boundaries till 5:30 is reasonable, and if its a do or die situation cap it at 7:30 --- and thats only for dire situations. if that doesnt work, well then i guess either i dont have a job, or people figure out how to work in regular hours. | That sounds reasonable to me. And if they try to make you feel guilty, reject that. Tell them, I'm sorry, but I feel this is reasonable, and truly it is. | That sounds reasonable to me. And if they try to make you feel guilty, reject that. Tell them, I'm sorry, but I feel this is reasonable, and truly it is. | Others | Others | 7,864 | neutral | 0.012142 | 0.000084 | 0.000222 | 0.00015 | 0.979157 | 0.002107 | 0.006139 |
665 | 11 | anger | job_crisis | Had to work till 11pm and up early the next morning. No emotional support and completely drained of all energy. Have no desire to continue with the job, but need to get paid. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Im ok - tired. Yourself. Yes - definitely. I am not sure how to proceed or what to do in my situation. I am exhausted, mentally and physically. Perhaps - i dont know the solution. the problem is I cannot continue to work these hours - it is just not sustainable. like generally, or currently in these situations? usually... | hah i used to go out like a young kid, but still - just because most of us are working from home 24/7, doesnt mean I actually can work 24/7. even fi i were young, hell no. they dont pay me enough. thanks i really appreciate it. it sounds reasonable, and its what a coworker told me. if i dont set boundaries, i will crac... | No one can work 24/7. I think they may not even be aware you are struggling. So communication is important. | No one can work 24/7. I think they may not even be aware you are struggling. So communication is important. You don't want to crack. It's not worth it. | Affirmation and Reassurance, Others | Affirmation and Reassurance | 7,865 | angry | 0.864529 | 0.003798 | 0.000276 | 0.067463 | 0.050516 | 0.007656 | 0.005763 |
665 | 12 | anger | job_crisis | Had to work till 11pm and up early the next morning. No emotional support and completely drained of all energy. Have no desire to continue with the job, but need to get paid. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Im ok - tired. Yourself. Yes - definitely. I am not sure how to proceed or what to do in my situation. I am exhausted, mentally and physically. Perhaps - i dont know the solution. the problem is I cannot continue to work these hours - it is just not sustainable. like generally, or currently in these situations? usually... | yeah, i think a call to not just my boss is in order, but also HR to advise them of the situation. they need to start telling managers, we are NOT front of the line workers, nor police, fire, etc. our jobs are not THAT important. | I will say a prayer that you communicate your needs politely but firmly. And not believe false guilt. As you said, you aren't putting out fires and doing CPR. | I will say a prayer that you communicate your needs politely but firmly. And not believe false guilt. As you said, you aren't putting out fires and doing CPR. | Others | Others | 7,866 | angry | 0.529078 | 0.006792 | 0.000946 | 0.00025 | 0.437203 | 0.015886 | 0.009846 |
665 | 13 | anger | job_crisis | Had to work till 11pm and up early the next morning. No emotional support and completely drained of all energy. Have no desire to continue with the job, but need to get paid. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Im ok - tired. Yourself. Yes - definitely. I am not sure how to proceed or what to do in my situation. I am exhausted, mentally and physically. Perhaps - i dont know the solution. the problem is I cannot continue to work these hours - it is just not sustainable. like generally, or currently in these situations? usually... | plus netflix, hulu, amazon keep releasing new shows. if i need a reason, it can simply be to watch tv and detox (so to speak) and get away from the BS of work (obv stating it more nicely than that). | This has been a stressful year for many of us, you don't need to be working yourself into depression and exhaustion. | This has been a stressful year for many of us, you don't need to be working yourself into depression and exhaustion. You really do not NEED a reason not to work unreasonable hours. | Information, Providing Suggestions | Information | 7,867 | neutral | 0.007712 | 0.000135 | 0.00007 | 0.000445 | 0.987997 | 0.000956 | 0.002685 |
665 | 14 | anger | job_crisis | Had to work till 11pm and up early the next morning. No emotional support and completely drained of all energy. Have no desire to continue with the job, but need to get paid. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Im ok - tired. Yourself. Yes - definitely. I am not sure how to proceed or what to do in my situation. I am exhausted, mentally and physically. Perhaps - i dont know the solution. the problem is I cannot continue to work these hours - it is just not sustainable. like generally, or currently in these situations? usually... | agreed 100% --- ive already hit those points, and it is not good for anyone let alone my job. | It isn't anyone's business what you do on your off hours. | It isn't anyone's business what you do on your off hours. | Others | Others | 7,868 | angry | 0.989225 | 0.001727 | 0.000063 | 0.00008 | 0.003321 | 0.005263 | 0.000321 |
665 | 15 | anger | job_crisis | Had to work till 11pm and up early the next morning. No emotional support and completely drained of all energy. Have no desire to continue with the job, but need to get paid. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Im ok - tired. Yourself. Yes - definitely. I am not sure how to proceed or what to do in my situation. I am exhausted, mentally and physically. Perhaps - i dont know the solution. the problem is I cannot continue to work these hours - it is just not sustainable. like generally, or currently in these situations? usually... | completely agreed! and thanks for listening :) | I do suggest you simply stick to the facts. These are the hours, I can't work more. You don't need to explain that to anyone. But be firm and polite. And you are very welcome. Sometimes we just need a friend! :D | I do suggest you simply stick to the facts. These are the hours, I can't work more. You don't need to explain that to anyone. But be firm and polite. And you are very welcome. Sometimes we just need a friend! :D | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 7,869 | happy | 0.000107 | 0.000017 | 0.000006 | 0.999758 | 0.000055 | 0.000019 | 0.000038 |
665 | 16 | anger | job_crisis | Had to work till 11pm and up early the next morning. No emotional support and completely drained of all energy. Have no desire to continue with the job, but need to get paid. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Im ok - tired. Yourself. Yes - definitely. I am not sure how to proceed or what to do in my situation. I am exhausted, mentally and physically. Perhaps - i dont know the solution. the problem is I cannot continue to work these hours - it is just not sustainable. like generally, or currently in these situations? usually... | its what i needed to hear from someone who is more anonymous (so to speak). who doesnt have a first hand attachment to me, so its a great assessment. | I've been in that boat before. It isn't easy, but I learned what I had to do, and I don't get in that boat anymore. And I can see to help others get out. | I've been in that boat before. It isn't easy, but I learned what I had to do, and I don't get in that boat anymore. And I can see to help others get out. | Self-disclosure | Self-disclosure | 7,870 | neutral | 0.003665 | 0.000045 | 0.000099 | 0.000268 | 0.989745 | 0.000917 | 0.005261 |
665 | 17 | anger | job_crisis | Had to work till 11pm and up early the next morning. No emotional support and completely drained of all energy. Have no desire to continue with the job, but need to get paid. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Im ok - tired. Yourself. Yes - definitely. I am not sure how to proceed or what to do in my situation. I am exhausted, mentally and physically. Perhaps - i dont know the solution. the problem is I cannot continue to work these hours - it is just not sustainable. like generally, or currently in these situations? usually... | :-) firm and direct is the best approach. esp for my boss. she will appreciate that and then i will stick to what i say! | Amen! GREAT! I'm glad to hear it! | Amen! GREAT! I'm glad to hear it! | Others | Others | 7,871 | happy | 0.013426 | 0.000423 | 0.000054 | 0.914585 | 0.069296 | 0.00049 | 0.001726 |
665 | 18 | anger | job_crisis | Had to work till 11pm and up early the next morning. No emotional support and completely drained of all energy. Have no desire to continue with the job, but need to get paid. | 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 | Im ok - tired. Yourself. Yes - definitely. I am not sure how to proceed or what to do in my situation. I am exhausted, mentally and physically. Perhaps - i dont know the solution. the problem is I cannot continue to work these hours - it is just not sustainable. like generally, or currently in these situations? usually... | cheers! take care and have a great day. if you dont do this in your day job, you should consider it. or at least i get the feeling youre there for others | Thank you! I'm retired but do community work! :D Am considering getting an office. I do love to encourage! YOu have a blessed day! | Thank you! I'm retired but do community work! :D Am considering getting an office. I do love to encourage! YOu have a blessed day! | Others | Others | 7,872 | happy | 0.00156 | 0.000146 | 0.000025 | 0.972317 | 0.024916 | 0.000208 | 0.000828 |
666 | 1 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | Spouse wants a hall pass for the holiday | 4 | 2 | 5 | 4 | Hello | how are you doing | how are you doing how are you doing | Question, Question | Question | 7,873 | neutral | 0.004226 | 0.000116 | 0.000071 | 0.00422 | 0.989792 | 0.000161 | 0.001414 | |
666 | 2 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | Spouse wants a hall pass for the holiday | 4 | 2 | 5 | 4 | Hello | good and you? | i am good too | i am good too | Restatement or Paraphrasing | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 7,874 | neutral | 0.438878 | 0.000244 | 0.000227 | 0.010807 | 0.520273 | 0.002035 | 0.027536 |
666 | 3 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | Spouse wants a hall pass for the holiday | 4 | 2 | 5 | 4 | Hello good and you? | My spouse wants me to allow him to have a cheat day during Christmas | what's up with you | what's up with you | Question | Question | 7,875 | angry | 0.763563 | 0.076311 | 0.002564 | 0.000629 | 0.094394 | 0.060082 | 0.002457 |
666 | 4 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | Spouse wants a hall pass for the holiday | 4 | 2 | 5 | 4 | Hello good and you? My spouse wants me to allow him to have a cheat day during Christmas | Basically he wants to sleep with someone else for a change | let me get you right, you mean you guy want to cheat on and he told you about it | let me get you right, you mean you guy want to cheat on and he told you about it | Restatement or Paraphrasing | Restatement or Paraphrasing | 7,876 | neutral | 0.004921 | 0.000109 | 0.000093 | 0.000225 | 0.990983 | 0.000673 | 0.002996 |
666 | 5 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | Spouse wants a hall pass for the holiday | 4 | 2 | 5 | 4 | Hello good and you? My spouse wants me to allow him to have a cheat day during Christmas Basically he wants to sleep with someone else for a change | yes he wants me to know so that he doesn't feel guilty about it | wow, that will be tough on you because even if you said no, he might just do it without telling you | wow, that will be tough on you because even if you said no, he might just do it without telling you | Others | Others | 7,877 | sad | 0.002802 | 0.002138 | 0.000118 | 0.00009 | 0.021073 | 0.971869 | 0.00191 |
666 | 6 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | Spouse wants a hall pass for the holiday | 4 | 2 | 5 | 4 | Hello good and you? My spouse wants me to allow him to have a cheat day during Christmas Basically he wants to sleep with someone else for a change yes he wants me to know so that he doesn't feel guilty about it | Exactly.... he said I can do it behind your back without you ever knowing but I would rather be honest with you | i can feel your anger and disappointment. | i can feel your anger and disappointment. my ex cheated on me before and it hurts like hell my ex cheated on me before and it hurts like hell | Reflection of feelings, Self-disclosure, Self-disclosure | Reflection of feelings | 7,878 | neutral | 0.040168 | 0.000226 | 0.000216 | 0.000167 | 0.944803 | 0.00175 | 0.012669 |
666 | 7 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | Spouse wants a hall pass for the holiday | 4 | 2 | 5 | 4 | Hello good and you? My spouse wants me to allow him to have a cheat day during Christmas Basically he wants to sleep with someone else for a change yes he wants me to know so that he doesn't feel guilty about it Exactly.... he said I can do it behind your back without you ever knowing but I would rather be honest with ... | I told him I don't want that to happen but he offered whatever I wanted no matter the price and all I could think was I just want him to be faithful He told me not to take it personally because it is just lust and that he loves me only | since when have you guys been together | since when have you guys been together | Question | Question | 7,879 | sad | 0.023417 | 0.009475 | 0.067383 | 0.057161 | 0.124172 | 0.673169 | 0.045223 |
666 | 8 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | Spouse wants a hall pass for the holiday | 4 | 2 | 5 | 4 | Hello good and you? My spouse wants me to allow him to have a cheat day during Christmas Basically he wants to sleep with someone else for a change yes he wants me to know so that he doesn't feel guilty about it Exactly.... he said I can do it behind your back without you ever knowing but I would rather be honest with ... | Actually, today is our 4th year anniversary | that's a long time. | that's a long time. | Others | Others | 7,880 | neutral | 0.006806 | 0.000301 | 0.000076 | 0.208266 | 0.734106 | 0.001297 | 0.049148 |
666 | 9 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | Spouse wants a hall pass for the holiday | 4 | 2 | 5 | 4 | Hello good and you? My spouse wants me to allow him to have a cheat day during Christmas Basically he wants to sleep with someone else for a change yes he wants me to know so that he doesn't feel guilty about it Exactly.... he said I can do it behind your back without you ever knowing but I would rather be honest with ... | Yes I guess he just wants a change | have you guys seen a therapist | have you guys seen a therapist | Question | Question | 7,881 | neutral | 0.00332 | 0.000157 | 0.000202 | 0.000699 | 0.903398 | 0.001933 | 0.090291 |
666 | 10 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | Spouse wants a hall pass for the holiday | 4 | 2 | 5 | 4 | Hello good and you? My spouse wants me to allow him to have a cheat day during Christmas Basically he wants to sleep with someone else for a change yes he wants me to know so that he doesn't feel guilty about it Exactly.... he said I can do it behind your back without you ever knowing but I would rather be honest with ... | No but I am thinking about i it* | every relationship has it's ups and down, just make sure you guys talk to an expert and make reason out of this . | every relationship has it's ups and down, just make sure you guys talk to an expert and make reason out of this . therapy has help my relationship a great deal | Others, Self-disclosure | Others | 7,882 | neutral | 0.133241 | 0.000349 | 0.000263 | 0.000869 | 0.792878 | 0.004162 | 0.068238 |
666 | 11 | sadness | breakup_with_partner | Spouse wants a hall pass for the holiday | 4 | 2 | 5 | 4 | Hello good and you? My spouse wants me to allow him to have a cheat day during Christmas Basically he wants to sleep with someone else for a change yes he wants me to know so that he doesn't feel guilty about it Exactly.... he said I can do it behind your back without you ever knowing but I would rather be honest with ... | I will definitely look into it. You are a great listener and I feel better now that I spoke to someone about this issue | good, and make sure you are not too visibly angry at him for telling you. just help him trough the process | good, and make sure you are not too visibly angry at him for telling you. just help him trough the process | Information | Information | 7,883 | happy | 0.000272 | 0.00005 | 0.000047 | 0.994649 | 0.004063 | 0.00065 | 0.000269 |
667 | 1 | depression | ongoing_depression | My Father passed away last year I have been caring for my Mother because we lost his income we know have to move and I have been out of work. Also we are both covid high risk | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | hi | Hello, How are you? | Hello, How are you? | Others | Others | 7,884 | neutral | 0.001593 | 0.000041 | 0.000138 | 0.002226 | 0.994251 | 0.000245 | 0.001506 | |
667 | 2 | depression | ongoing_depression | My Father passed away last year I have been caring for my Mother because we lost his income we know have to move and I have been out of work. Also we are both covid high risk | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | hi | I'm ok doing best I can with all that's going on | could you tell me more about that? | could you tell me more about that? | Others | Others | 7,885 | happy | 0.000477 | 0.000094 | 0.000051 | 0.991252 | 0.005717 | 0.001718 | 0.000691 |
667 | 3 | depression | ongoing_depression | My Father passed away last year I have been caring for my Mother because we lost his income we know have to move and I have been out of work. Also we are both covid high risk | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | hi I'm ok doing best I can with all that's going on | well last year my father passed he was sick for a while now that we lost his income and Im out of work we need to move to a much smaller home | I'm very sorry to hear that. Do you know where you are moving? | I'm very sorry to hear that. Do you know where you are moving? | Question | Question | 7,886 | sad | 0.000096 | 0.000058 | 0.000088 | 0.000026 | 0.000276 | 0.999415 | 0.000041 |
667 | 4 | depression | ongoing_depression | My Father passed away last year I have been caring for my Mother because we lost his income we know have to move and I have been out of work. Also we are both covid high risk | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | hi I'm ok doing best I can with all that's going on well last year my father passed he was sick for a while now that we lost his income and Im out of work we need to move to a much smaller home | thats also been an issue we sold our house an found one but our buyer has been asking for more and more concessions and we are under the wire I dont want to lose the house we are buying because our buyer is asking for more and more | That is a difficult situation. Have you been working with a realtor? | That is a difficult situation. Have you been working with a realtor? | Information | Information | 7,887 | neutral | 0.257975 | 0.000701 | 0.033972 | 0.000722 | 0.579223 | 0.114803 | 0.012605 |
667 | 5 | depression | ongoing_depression | My Father passed away last year I have been caring for my Mother because we lost his income we know have to move and I have been out of work. Also we are both covid high risk | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | hi I'm ok doing best I can with all that's going on well last year my father passed he was sick for a while now that we lost his income and Im out of work we need to move to a much smaller home thats also been an issue we sold our house an found one but our buyer has been asking for more and more concessions and we are... | yes and well she has been useless to us, so we are hoping to close in couple days im on pins and needles so mush stress now also packing and caring for my mother I was hoping to avoid having to move but since im out of work and covid it has to happen | Yes, your Realtor should be more helpful than that. My best advice is to stay calm. You are making the correct decisions so far. It is difficult, but you are managing it very well. | Yes, your Realtor should be more helpful than that. My best advice is to stay calm. You are making the correct decisions so far. It is difficult, but you are managing it very well. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 7,888 | sad | 0.008785 | 0.00015 | 0.007171 | 0.000182 | 0.01494 | 0.968519 | 0.000253 |
667 | 6 | depression | ongoing_depression | My Father passed away last year I have been caring for my Mother because we lost his income we know have to move and I have been out of work. Also we are both covid high risk | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | hi I'm ok doing best I can with all that's going on well last year my father passed he was sick for a while now that we lost his income and Im out of work we need to move to a much smaller home thats also been an issue we sold our house an found one but our buyer has been asking for more and more concessions and we are... | thanks I have not been sleeping feeling so beaten down | Sometimes life will throw challenges toward you, and all you can do is make the right choices, one at a time. Sounds like you are making the right choices to get back on your feet. I'm sure you will be there in no time. | Sometimes life will throw challenges toward you, and all you can do is make the right choices, one at a time. Sounds like you are making the right choices to get back on your feet. I'm sure you will be there in no time. | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 7,889 | sad | 0.000159 | 0.000114 | 0.000059 | 0.000021 | 0.000157 | 0.99943 | 0.000059 |
667 | 7 | depression | ongoing_depression | My Father passed away last year I have been caring for my Mother because we lost his income we know have to move and I have been out of work. Also we are both covid high risk | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | hi I'm ok doing best I can with all that's going on well last year my father passed he was sick for a while now that we lost his income and Im out of work we need to move to a much smaller home thats also been an issue we sold our house an found one but our buyer has been asking for more and more concessions and we are... | I hope so this last year has been a nightmare my father was so sick for so long and now with covid im so scared I or my Mom will get it | Are you taking the right steps to stay healthy? Wearing a mask, avoiding large gatherings, and social distancing? | Are you taking the right steps to stay healthy? Wearing a mask, avoiding large gatherings, and social distancing? | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 7,890 | fear | 0.000045 | 0.000042 | 0.999601 | 0.000073 | 0.000079 | 0.000125 | 0.000034 |
667 | 8 | depression | ongoing_depression | My Father passed away last year I have been caring for my Mother because we lost his income we know have to move and I have been out of work. Also we are both covid high risk | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | hi I'm ok doing best I can with all that's going on well last year my father passed he was sick for a while now that we lost his income and Im out of work we need to move to a much smaller home thats also been an issue we sold our house an found one but our buyer has been asking for more and more concessions and we are... | yes but with moving we have had people in our home and will have movers hoping they have been safe | Good point. Since you hired them, you can establish expectations with them that they take the right precautions to keep you and your home healthy. | Good point. Since you hired them, you can establish expectations with them that they take the right precautions to keep you and your home healthy. | Others | Others | 7,891 | neutral | 0.001732 | 0.00009 | 0.001469 | 0.000208 | 0.993441 | 0.001461 | 0.0016 |
667 | 9 | depression | ongoing_depression | My Father passed away last year I have been caring for my Mother because we lost his income we know have to move and I have been out of work. Also we are both covid high risk | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | hi I'm ok doing best I can with all that's going on well last year my father passed he was sick for a while now that we lost his income and Im out of work we need to move to a much smaller home thats also been an issue we sold our house an found one but our buyer has been asking for more and more concessions and we are... | yes thats true I hope I have been grinding my teeth at night I just cant wait for this all to be done | Tell me about your job search. Also, what experience do you have? | Tell me about your job search. Also, what experience do you have? | Question | Question | 7,892 | happy | 0.00333 | 0.000607 | 0.000161 | 0.972391 | 0.021461 | 0.001538 | 0.000512 |
667 | 10 | depression | ongoing_depression | My Father passed away last year I have been caring for my Mother because we lost his income we know have to move and I have been out of work. Also we are both covid high risk | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | hi I'm ok doing best I can with all that's going on well last year my father passed he was sick for a while now that we lost his income and Im out of work we need to move to a much smaller home thats also been an issue we sold our house an found one but our buyer has been asking for more and more concessions and we are... | CSR but with covid its been hard also I have to be around for my mom honest im scared to be in any public setting | Does CSR stand for Customer Service Representative? | Does CSR stand for Customer Service Representative? | Question | Question | 7,893 | fear | 0.000025 | 0.000055 | 0.998775 | 0.000142 | 0.00011 | 0.000762 | 0.000131 |
667 | 11 | depression | ongoing_depression | My Father passed away last year I have been caring for my Mother because we lost his income we know have to move and I have been out of work. Also we are both covid high risk | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | hi I'm ok doing best I can with all that's going on well last year my father passed he was sick for a while now that we lost his income and Im out of work we need to move to a much smaller home thats also been an issue we sold our house an found one but our buyer has been asking for more and more concessions and we are... | yes sorry it does I also have some banking under my belt but have been out of work for couple years because I was caring for my father he needed 24/7 my moms not as bad but needs help | Well, CSR and experience in Banking must mean you have some skills that are in high-demand. Many companies need CSR's, and Banks are always hiring. Skills needed for CSR are very translatable to other customer service jobs, sales, and more! | Well, CSR and experience in Banking must mean you have some skills that are in high-demand. Many companies need CSR's, and Banks are always hiring. Skills needed for CSR are very translatable to other customer service jobs, sales, and more! | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 7,894 | sad | 0.003268 | 0.000458 | 0.000186 | 0.000221 | 0.006563 | 0.987919 | 0.001386 |
667 | 12 | depression | ongoing_depression | My Father passed away last year I have been caring for my Mother because we lost his income we know have to move and I have been out of work. Also we are both covid high risk | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | hi I'm ok doing best I can with all that's going on well last year my father passed he was sick for a while now that we lost his income and Im out of work we need to move to a much smaller home thats also been an issue we sold our house an found one but our buyer has been asking for more and more concessions and we are... | yes I know if I could find something where I could work from home thats would help but sometimes I just feel like giving up and going back to bed | I'm sure you will find something very quickly. | I'm sure you will find something very quickly. | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 7,895 | sad | 0.005077 | 0.000174 | 0.000482 | 0.001209 | 0.091994 | 0.890986 | 0.010078 |
667 | 13 | depression | ongoing_depression | My Father passed away last year I have been caring for my Mother because we lost his income we know have to move and I have been out of work. Also we are both covid high risk | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | hi I'm ok doing best I can with all that's going on well last year my father passed he was sick for a while now that we lost his income and Im out of work we need to move to a much smaller home thats also been an issue we sold our house an found one but our buyer has been asking for more and more concessions and we are... | thank you I hope so it helps to just talk about it | also, many companies have shifted their workforce to work from home, so you are even more likely to get a service position in a work-from-home environment, | also, many companies have shifted their workforce to work from home, so you are even more likely to get a service position in a work-from-home environment, | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 7,896 | happy | 0.003097 | 0.000041 | 0.000069 | 0.990534 | 0.005634 | 0.000315 | 0.000308 |
667 | 14 | depression | ongoing_depression | My Father passed away last year I have been caring for my Mother because we lost his income we know have to move and I have been out of work. Also we are both covid high risk | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | hi I'm ok doing best I can with all that's going on well last year my father passed he was sick for a while now that we lost his income and Im out of work we need to move to a much smaller home thats also been an issue we sold our house an found one but our buyer has been asking for more and more concessions and we are... | I have been looking but till after the move things have been all out of wack | I see, so it sounds like you need a job search tool that will save you time. I'd recommend putting your profile on LinkedIn, and/or checking a job aggregator like Indeed or Glassdoor. There, you can view and apply for several jobs. I recommend applying and interviewing for several positions at the same time to improve ... | I see, so it sounds like you need a job search tool that will save you time. I'd recommend putting your profile on LinkedIn, and/or checking a job aggregator like Indeed or Glassdoor. There, you can view and apply for several jobs. I recommend applying and interviewing for several positions at the same time to improve ... | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 7,897 | sad | 0.135796 | 0.005256 | 0.001171 | 0.000521 | 0.141713 | 0.575625 | 0.13992 |
667 | 15 | depression | ongoing_depression | My Father passed away last year I have been caring for my Mother because we lost his income we know have to move and I have been out of work. Also we are both covid high risk | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 | hi I'm ok doing best I can with all that's going on well last year my father passed he was sick for a while now that we lost his income and Im out of work we need to move to a much smaller home thats also been an issue we sold our house an found one but our buyer has been asking for more and more concessions and we are... | yes I have o some of those thanks I will just have to cross my fingers | Glad to hear. Sounds like your are doing all the right things. | Glad to hear. Sounds like your are doing all the right things. | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 7,898 | neutral | 0.000759 | 0.000031 | 0.000164 | 0.005519 | 0.992296 | 0.000186 | 0.001045 |
668 | 1 | depression | breakup_with_partner | My boyfriend and I broke up and I cant stop crying. I am depressed about being alone. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I am having a really hard time in my life right now and need support. | I'm so sorry to hear that. What is going on in your life? | I'm so sorry to hear that. What is going on in your life? | Question | Question | 7,899 | neutral | 0.005262 | 0.000418 | 0.018934 | 0.000791 | 0.515374 | 0.450804 | 0.008417 | |
668 | 2 | depression | breakup_with_partner | My boyfriend and I broke up and I cant stop crying. I am depressed about being alone. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I am having a really hard time in my life right now and need support. | I have been in a long term relationship and I found out that he was cheating on me. I have been so distraught and I broke up with him. | I see. That is certainly difficult. How often do you feel sad or blue over this situation? | I see. That is certainly difficult. How often do you feel sad or blue over this situation? | Question | Question | 7,900 | fear | 0.000045 | 0.000089 | 0.994557 | 0.000149 | 0.000049 | 0.005011 | 0.000101 |
668 | 3 | depression | breakup_with_partner | My boyfriend and I broke up and I cant stop crying. I am depressed about being alone. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I am having a really hard time in my life right now and need support. I have been in a long term relationship and I found out that he was cheating on me. I have been so distraught and I broke up with him. | Yes, feel sad and I cry or want to cry all the time. I feel like I should not have broken it off with him but I also can not be with someone that I do not trust. He has always been so good to me and so I was totally blind sided. | I think it is great that you stood up for yourself and broke up with him. That is something to be proud of. | I think it is great that you stood up for yourself and broke up with him. That is something to be proud of. | Affirmation and Reassurance | Affirmation and Reassurance | 7,901 | sad | 0.00303 | 0.000378 | 0.000039 | 0.000167 | 0.000604 | 0.995586 | 0.000195 |
668 | 4 | depression | breakup_with_partner | My boyfriend and I broke up and I cant stop crying. I am depressed about being alone. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I am having a really hard time in my life right now and need support. I have been in a long term relationship and I found out that he was cheating on me. I have been so distraught and I broke up with him. Yes, feel sad and I cry or want to cry all the time. I feel like I should not have broken it off with him but I als... | I did not think of it like that. I did not know that I had anything to be proud of but I can sort of see what you mean. I wanted to get married to him but he never asked and we have been together for 5 years. | I am so sorry... Do you think a few years from now, after the pain of this situation has gotten easier to handle, you'll be happy with your decision to end the relationship? I know it can be hard to think so far in the future. | I am so sorry... Do you think a few years from now, after the pain of this situation has gotten easier to handle, you'll be happy with your decision to end the relationship? I know it can be hard to think so far in the future. | Question | Question | 7,902 | surprised | 0.014851 | 0.002069 | 0.000234 | 0.027643 | 0.13307 | 0.051684 | 0.770451 |
668 | 5 | depression | breakup_with_partner | My boyfriend and I broke up and I cant stop crying. I am depressed about being alone. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I am having a really hard time in my life right now and need support. I have been in a long term relationship and I found out that he was cheating on me. I have been so distraught and I broke up with him. Yes, feel sad and I cry or want to cry all the time. I feel like I should not have broken it off with him but I als... | That is a good point because I have no been able to think about the future at all. I am thinking about what I could have had with him like children. I have wasted so much time and I really want kids. | Maybe something you can do is think about all this time in a more positive light. Instead of saying you wasted time, maybe you can think to yourself, "I am so glad that relationship taught me about myself and my standards." Does that sound good? | Maybe something you can do is think about all this time in a more positive light. Instead of saying you wasted time, maybe you can think to yourself, "I am so glad that relationship taught me about myself and my standards." Does that sound good? | Providing Suggestions | Providing Suggestions | 7,903 | sad | 0.003168 | 0.000445 | 0.000174 | 0.000877 | 0.017629 | 0.974485 | 0.003221 |
668 | 6 | depression | breakup_with_partner | My boyfriend and I broke up and I cant stop crying. I am depressed about being alone. | 5 | 1 | 5 | 5 | I am having a really hard time in my life right now and need support. I have been in a long term relationship and I found out that he was cheating on me. I have been so distraught and I broke up with him. Yes, feel sad and I cry or want to cry all the time. I feel like I should not have broken it off with him but I als... | I also know that he never wanted kids so I have learned a lot about myself and what I want in life. I can think of myself and what my standards are. I have to be respected by the man i am with. I also need to feel appreciated and valued by the person that I am committed to. You are really making me consider the bigger ... | That's such a great approach. Do you have hobbies and interests outside of your relationship that brought you joy? Maybe running, painting, or watching movies? | That's such a great approach. Do you have hobbies and interests outside of your relationship that brought you joy? Maybe running, painting, or watching movies? I am so happy to hear that. | Question, Others | Question | 7,904 | happy | 0.00002 | 0.000009 | 0.000008 | 0.999815 | 0.000088 | 0.000025 | 0.000036 |
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