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My boyfriend and I broke up and I cant stop crying. I am depressed about being alone.
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I am having a really hard time in my life right now and need support. I have been in a long term relationship and I found out that he was cheating on me. I have been so distraught and I broke up with him. Yes, feel sad and I cry or want to cry all the time. I feel like I should not have broken it off with him but I als...
Yes, I love boating and have not been able to go enough because I was always wrapped up in drama with him. I also love painting and drawing. I have not thought of those hobbies in many years until right now.
Maybe you can take a day soon and go on a "date" with yourself. You can go out on the boat and have a fantastic, drama-free time. Does that sound like something you're interested in?
Maybe you can take a day soon and go on a "date" with yourself. You can go out on the boat and have a fantastic, drama-free time. Does that sound like something you're interested in?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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My boyfriend and I broke up and I cant stop crying. I am depressed about being alone.
5
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I am having a really hard time in my life right now and need support. I have been in a long term relationship and I found out that he was cheating on me. I have been so distraught and I broke up with him. Yes, feel sad and I cry or want to cry all the time. I feel like I should not have broken it off with him but I als...
Thank you for all of your help today and nice encouraging words.
You are so welcome. I am glad to help you.
You are so welcome. I am glad to help you.
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My boyfriend and I broke up and I cant stop crying. I am depressed about being alone.
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I am having a really hard time in my life right now and need support. I have been in a long term relationship and I found out that he was cheating on me. I have been so distraught and I broke up with him. Yes, feel sad and I cry or want to cry all the time. I feel like I should not have broken it off with him but I als...
Yes, that sounds like a positive way to enjoy my time. I will take your ideas and apply them to my life.
I think you're going to feel a lot better soon! I'm very happy for your future.
I think you're going to feel a lot better soon! I'm very happy for your future.
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My boyfriend and I broke up and I cant stop crying. I am depressed about being alone.
5
1
5
5
I am having a really hard time in my life right now and need support. I have been in a long term relationship and I found out that he was cheating on me. I have been so distraught and I broke up with him. Yes, feel sad and I cry or want to cry all the time. I feel like I should not have broken it off with him but I als...
Thank you and hope to talk again very soon.
Me too.
Me too.
Others
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5
3
5
5
How could my partner say he loves me, go out with me for one year and then cheat.
I'm sorry to hear about that, have you discussed how it made you feel with your partner?
I'm sorry to hear about that, have you discussed how it made you feel with your partner?
Question
Question
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My partner said he loved me and led me on. Then he went to cheat on me after one year of pretending he truly loved me. I am so sad and lonely and he is always with friends. It just isn't fair.
5
3
5
5
How could my partner say he loves me, go out with me for one year and then cheat.
Yes, but he barely calls me back. I'm worried that he all of a sudden is so distant.
If it were entirely up to you how would you like your relationship to proceed from here?
If it were entirely up to you how would you like your relationship to proceed from here?
Question
Question
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breakup_with_partner
My partner said he loved me and led me on. Then he went to cheat on me after one year of pretending he truly loved me. I am so sad and lonely and he is always with friends. It just isn't fair.
5
3
5
5
How could my partner say he loves me, go out with me for one year and then cheat. Yes, but he barely calls me back. I'm worried that he all of a sudden is so distant.
I would ideally like him to say he was sorry and never look at another woman but now I doubt his faithfulness and think the only reason I'm with him is because I'm so lonely.
It sounds like you worry you will not be able to trust him in the future because of this no matter what his future actions are, do you think there is anything he could do or say that would change this?
It sounds like you worry you will not be able to trust him in the future because of this no matter what his future actions are, do you think there is anything he could do or say that would change this?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
My partner said he loved me and led me on. Then he went to cheat on me after one year of pretending he truly loved me. I am so sad and lonely and he is always with friends. It just isn't fair.
5
3
5
5
How could my partner say he loves me, go out with me for one year and then cheat. Yes, but he barely calls me back. I'm worried that he all of a sudden is so distant. I would ideally like him to say he was sorry and never look at another woman but now I doubt his faithfulness and think the only reason I'm with him is b...
I do worry a lot. If he would commit fully to me that would help perhaps. If he never cheated again but I don't know if he can do that reliably.
What would you define as full commitment from him?
What would you define as full commitment from him?
Question
Question
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669
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
My partner said he loved me and led me on. Then he went to cheat on me after one year of pretending he truly loved me. I am so sad and lonely and he is always with friends. It just isn't fair.
5
3
5
5
How could my partner say he loves me, go out with me for one year and then cheat. Yes, but he barely calls me back. I'm worried that he all of a sudden is so distant. I would ideally like him to say he was sorry and never look at another woman but now I doubt his faithfulness and think the only reason I'm with him is b...
I think marriage, but then again if he cheats then what commitment is that really if it ends in divorce?
That's true and divorce can be expensive. You mentioned before that you feel like you are with him mostly because you are lonely, is that how your relationship started?
That's true and divorce can be expensive. You mentioned before that you feel like you are with him mostly because you are lonely, is that how your relationship started?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
My partner said he loved me and led me on. Then he went to cheat on me after one year of pretending he truly loved me. I am so sad and lonely and he is always with friends. It just isn't fair.
5
3
5
5
How could my partner say he loves me, go out with me for one year and then cheat. Yes, but he barely calls me back. I'm worried that he all of a sudden is so distant. I would ideally like him to say he was sorry and never look at another woman but now I doubt his faithfulness and think the only reason I'm with him is b...
That's a good point you make. I was lonely and wanting to fill that void. But, I do want a family. I'm just not sure he is that committed or even mature enough to handle this responsibility. Perhaps I'm naive.
I don't think you are naive, you are clearly asking yourself the right questions about building a future with him
I don't think you are naive, you are clearly asking yourself the right questions about building a future with him
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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669
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
My partner said he loved me and led me on. Then he went to cheat on me after one year of pretending he truly loved me. I am so sad and lonely and he is always with friends. It just isn't fair.
5
3
5
5
How could my partner say he loves me, go out with me for one year and then cheat. Yes, but he barely calls me back. I'm worried that he all of a sudden is so distant. I would ideally like him to say he was sorry and never look at another woman but now I doubt his faithfulness and think the only reason I'm with him is b...
Thanks for the encouragment.
Do you have friends and family around that could help distract you from the loneliness until you find someone you are comfortable starting a family with?
Do you have friends and family around that could help distract you from the loneliness until you find someone you are comfortable starting a family with?
Question
Question
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8
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My partner said he loved me and led me on. Then he went to cheat on me after one year of pretending he truly loved me. I am so sad and lonely and he is always with friends. It just isn't fair.
5
3
5
5
How could my partner say he loves me, go out with me for one year and then cheat. Yes, but he barely calls me back. I'm worried that he all of a sudden is so distant. I would ideally like him to say he was sorry and never look at another woman but now I doubt his faithfulness and think the only reason I'm with him is b...
Maybe that would be a good plan as I am close with my family. Thanks!
Of course! There also probably community resources where you can meet new people and explore new interests! Unfortunately I think a lot of that might have to wait til Covid passes
Of course! There also probably community resources where you can meet new people and explore new interests! Unfortunately I think a lot of that might have to wait til Covid passes
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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happy
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669
9
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My partner said he loved me and led me on. Then he went to cheat on me after one year of pretending he truly loved me. I am so sad and lonely and he is always with friends. It just isn't fair.
5
3
5
5
How could my partner say he loves me, go out with me for one year and then cheat. Yes, but he barely calls me back. I'm worried that he all of a sudden is so distant. I would ideally like him to say he was sorry and never look at another woman but now I doubt his faithfulness and think the only reason I'm with him is b...
Thanks that might be another suggestion to consider.
Of course! Anything else on your mind you would like to discuss?
Of course! Anything else on your mind you would like to discuss?
Question
Question
7,917
neutral
0.005573
0.000078
0.00013
0.000525
0.974471
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669
10
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My partner said he loved me and led me on. Then he went to cheat on me after one year of pretending he truly loved me. I am so sad and lonely and he is always with friends. It just isn't fair.
5
3
5
5
How could my partner say he loves me, go out with me for one year and then cheat. Yes, but he barely calls me back. I'm worried that he all of a sudden is so distant. I would ideally like him to say he was sorry and never look at another woman but now I doubt his faithfulness and think the only reason I'm with him is b...
When will this COVID ever end? It's even hard to find new partners
I know, I've heard some people have found success with zoom dates.
I know, I've heard some people have found success with zoom dates.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
7,918
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670
1
anxiety
academic_pressure
I need to get straight A's to get into graduate school.
4
1
5
5
I feel so pressured.
I am sorry to hear that. Tell me more about what is making you feel pressured.
I am sorry to hear that. Tell me more about what is making you feel pressured.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
7,920
fear
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670
2
anxiety
academic_pressure
I need to get straight A's to get into graduate school.
4
1
5
5
I feel so pressured.
I have to get straight A's to get into graduate school. I'm worried I will fail.
That sounds like a stressful situation so it is natural to feel anxious. Are there any coping mechanisms you have tried that have helped in the past?
That sounds like a stressful situation so it is natural to feel anxious. Are there any coping mechanisms you have tried that have helped in the past?
Question
Question
7,921
fear
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670
3
anxiety
academic_pressure
I need to get straight A's to get into graduate school.
4
1
5
5
I feel so pressured. I have to get straight A's to get into graduate school. I'm worried I will fail.
I tried studying a lot
I know when I am in a stressful it helps to take an occasional break to do some deep breathing exercises and meditation. Have you tried any of these techniques?
I know when I am in a stressful it helps to take an occasional break to do some deep breathing exercises and meditation. Have you tried any of these techniques?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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anxiety
academic_pressure
I need to get straight A's to get into graduate school.
4
1
5
5
I feel so pressured. I have to get straight A's to get into graduate school. I'm worried I will fail. I tried studying a lot
That sounds like it could help. Maybe I could even try yoga.
Yes, that sounds like a great idea. I think yoga can be very beneficial in managing stress.
Yes, that sounds like a great idea. I think yoga can be very beneficial in managing stress.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
7,923
neutral
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5
anxiety
academic_pressure
I need to get straight A's to get into graduate school.
4
1
5
5
I feel so pressured. I have to get straight A's to get into graduate school. I'm worried I will fail. I tried studying a lot That sounds like it could help. Maybe I could even try yoga.
Do you have any other suggestions for those busy days when I am non-stop?
I think it is important to remember to take care of yourself. That means eating right and exercising. I found from my own experience of going through a stressful situation that exercise was the best technique for managing stress.
I think it is important to remember to take care of yourself. That means eating right and exercising. I found from my own experience of going through a stressful situation that exercise was the best technique for managing stress.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
7,924
neutral
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0.000137
0.002218
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670
6
anxiety
academic_pressure
I need to get straight A's to get into graduate school.
4
1
5
5
I feel so pressured. I have to get straight A's to get into graduate school. I'm worried I will fail. I tried studying a lot That sounds like it could help. Maybe I could even try yoga. Do you have any other suggestions for those busy days when I am non-stop?
Maybe I can get my friends to go for an early morning walk before I start the pressures of the day. That might work to help me stay calmer.
I understand that there are days where it feels non stop and it can be hard to find the time. Excercising early in the morning is a great idea because it gets you off to a good start to the day. I like the idea of including friends too. That can be a great motivator.
I understand that there are days where it feels non stop and it can be hard to find the time. Excercising early in the morning is a great idea because it gets you off to a good start to the day. I like the idea of including friends too. That can be a great motivator.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
7,925
neutral
0.000558
0.00004
0.000414
0.00083
0.99533
0.000644
0.002183
670
7
anxiety
academic_pressure
I need to get straight A's to get into graduate school.
4
1
5
5
I feel so pressured. I have to get straight A's to get into graduate school. I'm worried I will fail. I tried studying a lot That sounds like it could help. Maybe I could even try yoga. Do you have any other suggestions for those busy days when I am non-stop? Maybe I can get my friends to go for an early morning walk b...
Do you have any other suggestions on what could maybe make up for one or two "B" grades? It's hard to be perfect, but these programs are demanding.
Indeed it is hard to be perfect and no one is. It sounds as though you are very hard on yourself. From a practical standpoint, you could try talking about your grades with your professors and have a discussion about how to improve your grades.
Indeed it is hard to be perfect and no one is. It sounds as though you are very hard on yourself. From a practical standpoint, you could try talking about your grades with your professors and have a discussion about how to improve your grades.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
7,926
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0.001431
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670
8
anxiety
academic_pressure
I need to get straight A's to get into graduate school.
4
1
5
5
I feel so pressured. I have to get straight A's to get into graduate school. I'm worried I will fail. I tried studying a lot That sounds like it could help. Maybe I could even try yoga. Do you have any other suggestions for those busy days when I am non-stop? Maybe I can get my friends to go for an early morning walk b...
Thank you. That has helped in the past, so I think perhaps they could give me some guidance as well.
You're welcome. I know this is hard but you have got this.
You're welcome. I know this is hard but you have got this.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
7,927
neutral
0.001974
0.00004
0.000258
0.000714
0.990768
0.000444
0.005803
670
9
anxiety
academic_pressure
I need to get straight A's to get into graduate school.
4
1
5
5
I feel so pressured. I have to get straight A's to get into graduate school. I'm worried I will fail. I tried studying a lot That sounds like it could help. Maybe I could even try yoga. Do you have any other suggestions for those busy days when I am non-stop? Maybe I can get my friends to go for an early morning walk b...
Thanks for the encouragement! You are a good counselor too.
Thank you. That is kind of you to say. I hope my suggestions help. Is there anything else you want to talk about?
Thank you. That is kind of you to say. I hope my suggestions help. Is there anything else you want to talk about?
Question
Question
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anxiety
academic_pressure
I need to get straight A's to get into graduate school.
4
1
5
5
I feel so pressured. I have to get straight A's to get into graduate school. I'm worried I will fail. I tried studying a lot That sounds like it could help. Maybe I could even try yoga. Do you have any other suggestions for those busy days when I am non-stop? Maybe I can get my friends to go for an early morning walk b...
I think that is all that I have. I feel a bunch better.
I am so glad to hear that.
I am so glad to hear that. I hope you have a great day
Others, Others
Others
7,929
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
i am breakup with my partner because some fight with my partner she is still stay at office. then she not return to home. i have 2 childrens the childrens are aks about they father i can not tell about my fight.
4
2
4
4
hai
Hello. Hope you are doing fine.
Hello. Hope you are doing fine. How was your day Can i help you with anything? I've been feeling blessed today Are you doing good today?
Question, Question, Restatement or Paraphrasing, Self-disclosure, Question
Question
7,944
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0.00019
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2
sadness
breakup_with_partner
i am breakup with my partner because some fight with my partner she is still stay at office. then she not return to home. i have 2 childrens the childrens are aks about they father i can not tell about my fight.
4
2
4
4
hai
oh! tell about i am much sad last 2 days because of my partner brakeup issue
Ohhh. Any specific reason or incident?
Ohhh. Any specific reason or incident? I am really sorry to hear that.
Information, Reflection of feelings
Information
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3
sadness
breakup_with_partner
i am breakup with my partner because some fight with my partner she is still stay at office. then she not return to home. i have 2 childrens the childrens are aks about they father i can not tell about my fight.
4
2
4
4
hai oh! tell about i am much sad last 2 days because of my partner brakeup issue
reason for i have more boy friends in my carrier but i am good my partner not believe me
Having many boyfriend is not a big deal
Having many boyfriend is not a big deal I believe that you are good Things tends to happens for the goodness
Information, Reflection of feelings, Affirmation and Reassurance
Information
7,946
neutral
0.01109
0.000123
0.000068
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0.982242
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0.003878
672
4
sadness
breakup_with_partner
i am breakup with my partner because some fight with my partner she is still stay at office. then she not return to home. i have 2 childrens the childrens are aks about they father i can not tell about my fight.
4
2
4
4
hai oh! tell about i am much sad last 2 days because of my partner brakeup issue reason for i have more boy friends in my carrier but i am good my partner not believe me
yes your good. i am only women in my office
Thanks for the compliments. People have worst time to bring up the bright times. I totally believe in it
Thanks for the compliments. People have worst time to bring up the bright times. I totally believe in it Ohhh really. But women have a equal rights as men.
Self-disclosure, Information
Self-disclosure
7,947
neutral
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0.000175
0.000311
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0.005217
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672
5
sadness
breakup_with_partner
i am breakup with my partner because some fight with my partner she is still stay at office. then she not return to home. i have 2 childrens the childrens are aks about they father i can not tell about my fight.
4
2
4
4
hai oh! tell about i am much sad last 2 days because of my partner brakeup issue reason for i have more boy friends in my carrier but i am good my partner not believe me yes your good. i am only women in my office
yes your corret i am equal rights as men and then thanks for support my feeling
Women's are succeeding in all the fields now a days.
Women's are succeeding in all the fields now a days.
Information
Information
7,948
neutral
0.052858
0.000397
0.000081
0.014456
0.92066
0.000832
0.010717
672
6
sadness
breakup_with_partner
i am breakup with my partner because some fight with my partner she is still stay at office. then she not return to home. i have 2 childrens the childrens are aks about they father i can not tell about my fight.
4
2
4
4
hai oh! tell about i am much sad last 2 days because of my partner brakeup issue reason for i have more boy friends in my carrier but i am good my partner not believe me yes your good. i am only women in my office yes your corret i am equal rights as men and then thanks for support my feeling
yes. but somewhat difficult in a days but i believe after some days that issue will sloved
I am glad that, I could able to help u.
I am glad that, I could able to help u. What kind of difficulties are u facing?
Reflection of feelings, Question
Reflection of feelings
7,949
neutral
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0.000063
0.000305
0.00046
0.97892
0.005992
0.006354
672
7
sadness
breakup_with_partner
i am breakup with my partner because some fight with my partner she is still stay at office. then she not return to home. i have 2 childrens the childrens are aks about they father i can not tell about my fight.
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hai oh! tell about i am much sad last 2 days because of my partner brakeup issue reason for i have more boy friends in my carrier but i am good my partner not believe me yes your good. i am only women in my office yes your corret i am equal rights as men and then thanks for support my feeling yes. but somewhat difficul...
my partner fight with me
fight happens for?
fight happens for? If you could tell me little bit specifically, I would be able to help u out.
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
i am breakup with my partner because some fight with my partner she is still stay at office. then she not return to home. i have 2 childrens the childrens are aks about they father i can not tell about my fight.
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hai oh! tell about i am much sad last 2 days because of my partner brakeup issue reason for i have more boy friends in my carrier but i am good my partner not believe me yes your good. i am only women in my office yes your corret i am equal rights as men and then thanks for support my feeling yes. but somewhat difficul...
for some more mens coworker
Ahhh. Are they distrubing u?
Ahhh. Are they distrubing u?
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I have nobody in my life that supports me. No purpose to my life. My husband treats me like dirt. I am just so frustrated with being sad all the time but just when I think it is looking up, I get knocked down again.
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Bad. Almost had a good day and then got treated bad in the end so I don't know why I try.
I understand how you feel. It seems as if you are being treated badly for no genuine reason. Is this correct?
I understand how you feel. It seems as if you are being treated badly for no genuine reason. Is this correct?
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I have nobody in my life that supports me. No purpose to my life. My husband treats me like dirt. I am just so frustrated with being sad all the time but just when I think it is looking up, I get knocked down again.
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Bad. Almost had a good day and then got treated bad in the end so I don't know why I try.
That is correct.
Who is treating you badly? Do you believe there are any causes behind the actions of those hurting you?
Who is treating you badly? Do you believe there are any causes behind the actions of those hurting you?
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I have nobody in my life that supports me. No purpose to my life. My husband treats me like dirt. I am just so frustrated with being sad all the time but just when I think it is looking up, I get knocked down again.
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Bad. Almost had a good day and then got treated bad in the end so I don't know why I try. That is correct.
My husband mainly. He just doesn't want me to enjoy life I guess.
That must be really difficult to go through, I know when my partner treats me badly, I am hurt and upset with them.
That must be really difficult to go through, I know when my partner treats me badly, I am hurt and upset with them.
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I have nobody in my life that supports me. No purpose to my life. My husband treats me like dirt. I am just so frustrated with being sad all the time but just when I think it is looking up, I get knocked down again.
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Bad. Almost had a good day and then got treated bad in the end so I don't know why I try. That is correct. My husband mainly. He just doesn't want me to enjoy life I guess.
Yeah, just become part of life I guess. Doesn't make it any better.
Are there any steps you can think of taking to express your frustrations with your husband?
Are there any steps you can think of taking to express your frustrations with your husband?
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I have nobody in my life that supports me. No purpose to my life. My husband treats me like dirt. I am just so frustrated with being sad all the time but just when I think it is looking up, I get knocked down again.
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Bad. Almost had a good day and then got treated bad in the end so I don't know why I try. That is correct. My husband mainly. He just doesn't want me to enjoy life I guess. Yeah, just become part of life I guess. Doesn't make it any better.
I have tried many times. It always ends up my fault in the end so I don't bother anymore and just take it.
It is easy to lose patience when the blame is always directed towards you. I am sorry that is occurring, but applaud you for your efforts in trying to express your frustration.
It is easy to lose patience when the blame is always directed towards you. I am sorry that is occurring, but applaud you for your efforts in trying to express your frustration.
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I have nobody in my life that supports me. No purpose to my life. My husband treats me like dirt. I am just so frustrated with being sad all the time but just when I think it is looking up, I get knocked down again.
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Bad. Almost had a good day and then got treated bad in the end so I don't know why I try. That is correct. My husband mainly. He just doesn't want me to enjoy life I guess. Yeah, just become part of life I guess. Doesn't make it any better. I have tried many times. It always ends up my fault in the end so I don't bothe...
Thank you. It gets trying at times. Tonight, I just sit in the dark alone because it isn't worth the hassle.
I can tell from chatting with you that you are struggling and fed up with this situation because you are trying very hard in your marriage but get nothing but disrespect in return.
I can tell from chatting with you that you are struggling and fed up with this situation because you are trying very hard in your marriage but get nothing but disrespect in return.
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I have nobody in my life that supports me. No purpose to my life. My husband treats me like dirt. I am just so frustrated with being sad all the time but just when I think it is looking up, I get knocked down again.
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Bad. Almost had a good day and then got treated bad in the end so I don't know why I try. That is correct. My husband mainly. He just doesn't want me to enjoy life I guess. Yeah, just become part of life I guess. Doesn't make it any better. I have tried many times. It always ends up my fault in the end so I don't bothe...
That is for sure. Most of the time it is just the way life is but there are days I get fed up and it irritates me. It has been this way for a while.
From what I have seen, if a situation like this continues, not only will you be consumed with anger towards your husband which will all come out at once, but it may also lead to divorce based on research I have read about.
From what I have seen, if a situation like this continues, not only will you be consumed with anger towards your husband which will all come out at once, but it may also lead to divorce based on research I have read about.
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I have nobody in my life that supports me. No purpose to my life. My husband treats me like dirt. I am just so frustrated with being sad all the time but just when I think it is looking up, I get knocked down again.
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Bad. Almost had a good day and then got treated bad in the end so I don't know why I try. That is correct. My husband mainly. He just doesn't want me to enjoy life I guess. Yeah, just become part of life I guess. Doesn't make it any better. I have tried many times. It always ends up my fault in the end so I don't bothe...
I won't divorce...even if I am miserable, that isn't an option.
I understand. I would prefer to work out a situation rather than use divorce as an option as well, but I am concerned with how miserable you have become.
I understand. I would prefer to work out a situation rather than use divorce as an option as well, but I am concerned with how miserable you have become.
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I have nobody in my life that supports me. No purpose to my life. My husband treats me like dirt. I am just so frustrated with being sad all the time but just when I think it is looking up, I get knocked down again.
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Bad. Almost had a good day and then got treated bad in the end so I don't know why I try. That is correct. My husband mainly. He just doesn't want me to enjoy life I guess. Yeah, just become part of life I guess. Doesn't make it any better. I have tried many times. It always ends up my fault in the end so I don't bothe...
I have gotten used to it. It is the way I am supposed to live my life I guess.
Some people respond to different strategies. You have tried communication through words to tell your husband your feelings, but have you shown him the consequences of his actions? Does he see how miserable you are? I suppose I wonder if you are interested in utilizing different strategies to find a solution to your iss...
Some people respond to different strategies. You have tried communication through words to tell your husband your feelings, but have you shown him the consequences of his actions? Does he see how miserable you are? I suppose I wonder if you are interested in utilizing different strategies to find a solution to your iss...
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ongoing_depression
I have nobody in my life that supports me. No purpose to my life. My husband treats me like dirt. I am just so frustrated with being sad all the time but just when I think it is looking up, I get knocked down again.
5
4
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Bad. Almost had a good day and then got treated bad in the end so I don't know why I try. That is correct. My husband mainly. He just doesn't want me to enjoy life I guess. Yeah, just become part of life I guess. Doesn't make it any better. I have tried many times. It always ends up my fault in the end so I don't bothe...
He knows I am miserable. He knows I am upset. He is the living room watching tv and I am in the bedroom. It doesn't bother him that I am upset. It is getting late where I am and I should probably go to bed soon.
Alright. I have enjoyed talking to you, and hope that things will work out for you. My last suggestion is possibly to try to talk your husband into couple's therapy and see how he responds. Even if he responds negatively, at least you have tried to dissolve the issue once again. In situations like this, remember even w...
Alright. I have enjoyed talking to you, and hope that things will work out for you. My last suggestion is possibly to try to talk your husband into couple's therapy and see how he responds. Even if he responds negatively, at least you have tried to dissolve the issue once again. In situations like this, remember even w...
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ongoing_depression
I have nobody in my life that supports me. No purpose to my life. My husband treats me like dirt. I am just so frustrated with being sad all the time but just when I think it is looking up, I get knocked down again.
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Bad. Almost had a good day and then got treated bad in the end so I don't know why I try. That is correct. My husband mainly. He just doesn't want me to enjoy life I guess. Yeah, just become part of life I guess. Doesn't make it any better. I have tried many times. It always ends up my fault in the end so I don't bothe...
Thank you, good night.
You're welcome. Goodnight.
You're welcome. Goodnight.
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problems_with_friends
Since the pandemic started my once strong friendships have become weak. we barely talk. Even my daughters God mother is not as present. I am unsure how to fortified those connections.
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I am having a hard time with the realization that my once strong friendships are no longer as strong. I feel disconnected with them. The limitations the pandemic has set for all of us have been great. I am unsure if I will ever regain those friendships
I understand that. The pandemic has been very hard to keep connected with everyone. Have you tried talking to your friends about how you are feeling?
I understand that. The pandemic has been very hard to keep connected with everyone. Have you tried talking to your friends about how you are feeling?
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Since the pandemic started my once strong friendships have become weak. we barely talk. Even my daughters God mother is not as present. I am unsure how to fortified those connections.
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I am having a hard time with the realization that my once strong friendships are no longer as strong. I feel disconnected with them. The limitations the pandemic has set for all of us have been great. I am unsure if I will ever regain those friendships
Yes, I have tried to message them daily, but the responses have always been clipped and or the response comes after couple days. I do feel other friendships have formed within each community, feeling a bit left out. I feel silly, like a teenage girl, who wants to be included. Just want to feel as though I am still part...
It's completely normal to feel like that. I have been in your exact shoes. I would suggest inviting one of them out for lunch or dinner and express face to face how you are feeling right now.
It's completely normal to feel like that. I have been in your exact shoes. I would suggest inviting one of them out for lunch or dinner and express face to face how you are feeling right now.
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problems_with_friends
Since the pandemic started my once strong friendships have become weak. we barely talk. Even my daughters God mother is not as present. I am unsure how to fortified those connections.
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I am having a hard time with the realization that my once strong friendships are no longer as strong. I feel disconnected with them. The limitations the pandemic has set for all of us have been great. I am unsure if I will ever regain those friendships Yes, I have tried to message them daily, but the responses have alw...
I was thinking the same thing, but I am unsure I feel awkward now, I feel like I do not them as I thought I did. I am unsure why I feel this way. one of them is my daughters god mother and the text are there but they are not like they use.. I am unsure if I should ask why she has time for others and not us... just sayi...
She may be going through something at home or having family issues. We truly never know what the other person is going through unless we have that uncomfortable situation. My suggestion would be to rephrase that question slightly to her.
She may be going through something at home or having family issues. We truly never know what the other person is going through unless we have that uncomfortable situation. My suggestion would be to rephrase that question slightly to her.
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problems_with_friends
Since the pandemic started my once strong friendships have become weak. we barely talk. Even my daughters God mother is not as present. I am unsure how to fortified those connections.
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I am having a hard time with the realization that my once strong friendships are no longer as strong. I feel disconnected with them. The limitations the pandemic has set for all of us have been great. I am unsure if I will ever regain those friendships Yes, I have tried to message them daily, but the responses have alw...
I agree with you, just seems really strange since we were inseparable before the pandemic. I am also aware many are going through this situation just thought my friendships were stronger and distant would not be an issue. I will, never did I think I would hesitate whats going on..
It's completely natural. Instead of texting her, have you tried calling?
It's completely natural. Instead of texting her, have you tried calling?
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Since the pandemic started my once strong friendships have become weak. we barely talk. Even my daughters God mother is not as present. I am unsure how to fortified those connections.
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I am having a hard time with the realization that my once strong friendships are no longer as strong. I feel disconnected with them. The limitations the pandemic has set for all of us have been great. I am unsure if I will ever regain those friendships Yes, I have tried to message them daily, but the responses have alw...
Yes, I have. The conversation have been superficial, like small talk. There is nothing to share, I am guessing. My daughter has had lots of dance functions despite the pandemic and yet I have not felt supported. Perhaps shes not okay with venturing out during the pandemic.. though I do see on social media shes meeting ...
How long have you been friends?
How long have you been friends?
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problems_with_friends
Since the pandemic started my once strong friendships have become weak. we barely talk. Even my daughters God mother is not as present. I am unsure how to fortified those connections.
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I am having a hard time with the realization that my once strong friendships are no longer as strong. I feel disconnected with them. The limitations the pandemic has set for all of us have been great. I am unsure if I will ever regain those friendships Yes, I have tried to message them daily, but the responses have alw...
we are both 35 and we met in pre K. we are lifetime friends. shes a sister to me. At some point our parents use to live in the same apartment complex, our parents are great friends as well. I was there for her babies birth, when she found out what she was having. We have shared grand moments together.
You both have been friends for such a long time. I'm so jealous of friendships like that. I would definitely ask her for lunch. You all have been through so much together. This conversation with her would be a weight off your shoulders.
You both have been friends for such a long time. I'm so jealous of friendships like that. I would definitely ask her for lunch. You all have been through so much together. This conversation with her would be a weight off your shoulders.
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Since the pandemic started my once strong friendships have become weak. we barely talk. Even my daughters God mother is not as present. I am unsure how to fortified those connections.
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I am having a hard time with the realization that my once strong friendships are no longer as strong. I feel disconnected with them. The limitations the pandemic has set for all of us have been great. I am unsure if I will ever regain those friendships Yes, I have tried to message them daily, but the responses have alw...
Yes, shes the serious one and I am the loud and carefree one. So having our roles a bit reverse has me a bit, weirded out. I am an only child, and perhaps that makes me feel extremely unconfident. I am sure if asked, she would respond I am just being needy. eh, I will ask, since the pandemic ive only seen her once.
I do not think she would respond that way at all. Once she sees that this has you concerned about your friendship, she will take it serious and open up to you.
I do not think she would respond that way at all. Once she sees that this has you concerned about your friendship, she will take it serious and open up to you.
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Since the pandemic started my once strong friendships have become weak. we barely talk. Even my daughters God mother is not as present. I am unsure how to fortified those connections.
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I am having a hard time with the realization that my once strong friendships are no longer as strong. I feel disconnected with them. The limitations the pandemic has set for all of us have been great. I am unsure if I will ever regain those friendships Yes, I have tried to message them daily, but the responses have alw...
You are right! thank you for the reinsurance. I hate that I am this way. you have helped me so much today, thank you for helping see things differently.
I'm an only child as well so I understand how you are feeling :)
I'm an only child as well so I understand how you are feeling :) you are welcome! Glad I could help!
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Since the pandemic started my once strong friendships have become weak. we barely talk. Even my daughters God mother is not as present. I am unsure how to fortified those connections.
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I am having a hard time with the realization that my once strong friendships are no longer as strong. I feel disconnected with them. The limitations the pandemic has set for all of us have been great. I am unsure if I will ever regain those friendships Yes, I have tried to message them daily, but the responses have alw...
AWESOME! then you know the overwhelming need (sometimes) of being included. I think I have a plan, lunch and talk to her about how I am feeling, shes always been so understanding, I miss her babies so much.
Yes! It can be frustrating at times. But it sounds like you have a plan in order. You just need to execute it.
Yes! It can be frustrating at times. But it sounds like you have a plan in order. You just need to execute it.
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Since the pandemic started my once strong friendships have become weak. we barely talk. Even my daughters God mother is not as present. I am unsure how to fortified those connections.
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I am having a hard time with the realization that my once strong friendships are no longer as strong. I feel disconnected with them. The limitations the pandemic has set for all of us have been great. I am unsure if I will ever regain those friendships Yes, I have tried to message them daily, but the responses have alw...
Yes, I do , thank you! have a wonderful weekend.
You as well!
You as well!
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I don't even know, because I am not happy Anxiety about losing my job
I have been sad at times, but I listen to pleasant music.
I have been sad at times, but I listen to pleasant music. When have you started feeling sad? I had fear of losing my job at times. I suggest doing stress relieving tasks
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I don't even know, because I am not happy Anxiety about losing my job
I can't think of that of now, because last three month a go pay cut and nest month payoff
Can you repeat that? You had a pay cut in the last three months?
Can you repeat that? You had a pay cut in the last three months?
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I don't even know, because I am not happy Anxiety about losing my job I can't think of that of now, because last three month a go pay cut and nest month payoff
Yeah and the company is planning layoff for some of the staffs
How do you know that layoffs are coming?
How do you know that layoffs are coming? Why not try to work for Uber or Lyft to supplement your income?
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I don't even know, because I am not happy Anxiety about losing my job I can't think of that of now, because last three month a go pay cut and nest month payoff Yeah and the company is planning layoff for some of the staffs
They sent circular to all staffs
What did it state? I am sorry to hear the news.
What did it state? I am sorry to hear the news. Have you looked at updating your resume and looking on job boards?
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I don't even know, because I am not happy Anxiety about losing my job I can't think of that of now, because last three month a go pay cut and nest month payoff Yeah and the company is planning layoff for some of the staffs They sent circular to all staffs
No I think I will just do that now may be it will help
That is a great comment. Being pro-active and looking for similar jobs can help.
That is a great comment. Being pro-active and looking for similar jobs can help.
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I don't even know, because I am not happy Anxiety about losing my job I can't think of that of now, because last three month a go pay cut and nest month payoff Yeah and the company is planning layoff for some of the staffs They sent circular to all staffs No I think I will just do that now may be it will help
Yeah thanks
It' good to take initiative and start looking for other sources of income.
It' good to take initiative and start looking for other sources of income.
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I don't even know, because I am not happy Anxiety about losing my job I can't think of that of now, because last three month a go pay cut and nest month payoff Yeah and the company is planning layoff for some of the staffs They sent circular to all staffs No I think I will just do that now may be it will help Yeah than...
I believe it work if I try.
I usually search job boards. It is what I have dine in the past.
I usually search job boards. It is what I have dine in the past. It is important to believe in yourself.
Reflection of feelings, Restatement or Paraphrasing
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Anxiety about losing my job
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I don't even know, because I am not happy Anxiety about losing my job I can't think of that of now, because last three month a go pay cut and nest month payoff Yeah and the company is planning layoff for some of the staffs They sent circular to all staffs No I think I will just do that now may be it will help Yeah than...
I am thinking about uber
I can also suggest Lyft...
I can also suggest Lyft... What other feelings and thoughts can I discern for you?
Providing Suggestions, Question
Providing Suggestions
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I don't even know, because I am not happy Anxiety about losing my job I can't think of that of now, because last three month a go pay cut and nest month payoff Yeah and the company is planning layoff for some of the staffs They sent circular to all staffs No I think I will just do that now may be it will help Yeah than...
I can't think of any now thanks for being there for me Bye for now
I think that I can be here to answer.
I think that I can be here to answer.
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I don't even know, because I am not happy Anxiety about losing my job I can't think of that of now, because last three month a go pay cut and nest month payoff Yeah and the company is planning layoff for some of the staffs They sent circular to all staffs No I think I will just do that now may be it will help Yeah than...
Thanks it time to go
How are my suggestions helping to reduce your unhappy demeanor?
How are my suggestions helping to reduce your unhappy demeanor? OK. You can click the Quit/Finish
Question, Information
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depression
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5
1
5
5
Hello
Hello! How's it going? How can I help you today?
Hello! How's it going? How can I help you today?
Question
Question
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5
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5
Hello
Hi. It has been better.
We all have those days :/ what's bothering you?
We all have those days :/ what's bothering you?
Question
Question
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5
5
Hello Hi. It has been better.
I can't seem to get motivated.
It sounds like your having trouble giving yourself that little push to get the wheels turning. I've totally been there. What do you feel is the reason?
It sounds like your having trouble giving yourself that little push to get the wheels turning. I've totally been there. What do you feel is the reason?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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ongoing_depression
My mind is consumed by depression
5
1
5
5
Hello Hi. It has been better. I can't seem to get motivated.
I don't feel like it is worth it.
I understand, I've been there before. You just have to take one step at a time and not overwhelm yourself . Have you tried any tools to help you get going?
I understand, I've been there before. You just have to take one step at a time and not overwhelm yourself . Have you tried any tools to help you get going?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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Hello Hi. It has been better. I can't seem to get motivated. I don't feel like it is worth it.
What kind of tools would you suggest?
What I find that works is to make out a list of all the things you want to accomplish and the possible steps you need to get there. It also helps to let someone know how you feel like a friend or relative, you would be surprised that being open with people can open up new doors in life.
What I find that works is to make out a list of all the things you want to accomplish and the possible steps you need to get there. It also helps to let someone know how you feel like a friend or relative, you would be surprised that being open with people can open up new doors in life.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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depression
ongoing_depression
My mind is consumed by depression
5
1
5
5
Hello Hi. It has been better. I can't seem to get motivated. I don't feel like it is worth it. What kind of tools would you suggest?
I can talk to my friends sometimes. I have big goals but can't seem to get little things right.
You feel like your friends don't listen or care? And trust me you are not alone. I am going through that as well. I messed up so you can say, but as time went on I realized that I can't live like how I was living anymore and I SLOWLY moved towards my goals. I just graduated phlebotomy school for example.
You feel like your friends don't listen or care? And trust me you are not alone. I am going through that as well. I messed up so you can say, but as time went on I realized that I can't live like how I was living anymore and I SLOWLY moved towards my goals. I just graduated phlebotomy school for example. What are your ...
Information, Question
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Hello Hi. It has been better. I can't seem to get motivated. I don't feel like it is worth it. What kind of tools would you suggest? I can talk to my friends sometimes. I have big goals but can't seem to get little things right.
Wow that's amazing. I want to start my own business but I have no money to start with.
Thank you! Yeah money is tight these days especially with the pandemic going on. If your business has a good idea there are many venture capitalist that are willing to invest in your idea. You can search for websites and pitch it to them. But don't let anyone stop you, you can do it!
Thank you! Yeah money is tight these days especially with the pandemic going on. If your business has a good idea there are many venture capitalist that are willing to invest in your idea. You can search for websites and pitch it to them. But don't let anyone stop you, you can do it! Or even search for people in differ...
Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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My mind is consumed by depression
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5
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Hello Hi. It has been better. I can't seem to get motivated. I don't feel like it is worth it. What kind of tools would you suggest? I can talk to my friends sometimes. I have big goals but can't seem to get little things right. Wow that's amazing. I want to start my own business but I have no money to start with.
That is a great suggestion What else do you know? THank you for the encouragement by the way
Check out crowd funding websites. Like go fund me, indi gogo, kick starter, and just giving.
Check out crowd funding websites. Like go fund me, indi gogo, kick starter, and just giving. No problem! I'm glad I got to help! Please check out those websites especially kick starter because you basically pitch your idea and people invest in real time. Right away. I'm really glad I got to talk to you, you can do it. ...
Others, Others, Others
Others
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My boyfriend broke up with me in a facebook story. He won't tell me why. He won't return my calls or answer my messages. I think it is because I posted something (innocent) that made him jealous. But he is being so cruel. He posts many sad songs to make it seem like he is so hurt by me, but he won't even speak with me....
5
3
5
5
Is anyone there??
Hey there, how are you doing/
Hey there, how are you doing/
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend broke up with me in a facebook story. He won't tell me why. He won't return my calls or answer my messages. I think it is because I posted something (innocent) that made him jealous. But he is being so cruel. He posts many sad songs to make it seem like he is so hurt by me, but he won't even speak with me....
5
3
5
5
Is anyone there??
Ok. Are you able to read the description of my problem or should I paste it again?
Sorry, i could not see the description of the problem. Could you please paste it again?
Sorry, i could not see the description of the problem. Could you please paste it again?
Question
Question
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My boyfriend broke up with me in a facebook story. He won't tell me why. He won't return my calls or answer my messages. I think it is because I posted something (innocent) that made him jealous. But he is being so cruel. He posts many sad songs to make it seem like he is so hurt by me, but he won't even speak with me....
5
3
5
5
Is anyone there?? Ok. Are you able to read the description of my problem or should I paste it again?
Sure my boyfriend broke up with me but won't tell me why I think I posted something on fb that made him jealous. But if that is so he is being irrational.
oh, i am so sorry.
oh, i am so sorry.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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depression
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend broke up with me in a facebook story. He won't tell me why. He won't return my calls or answer my messages. I think it is because I posted something (innocent) that made him jealous. But he is being so cruel. He posts many sad songs to make it seem like he is so hurt by me, but he won't even speak with me....
5
3
5
5
Is anyone there?? Ok. Are you able to read the description of my problem or should I paste it again? Sure my boyfriend broke up with me but won't tell me why I think I posted something on fb that made him jealous. But if that is so he is being irrational.
he won't answer my calls or messages. He keeps posting things that make it seem like I hurt him so much. Thanks! :)
Did you try to message him to see if he can chat with you? so that you get a chance to understand what made him break up with you?
Did you try to message him to see if he can chat with you? so that you get a chance to understand what made him break up with you? or do you have a common friend that can help arrange a meetup ?
Question, Others
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My boyfriend broke up with me in a facebook story. He won't tell me why. He won't return my calls or answer my messages. I think it is because I posted something (innocent) that made him jealous. But he is being so cruel. He posts many sad songs to make it seem like he is so hurt by me, but he won't even speak with me....
5
3
5
5
Is anyone there?? Ok. Are you able to read the description of my problem or should I paste it again? Sure my boyfriend broke up with me but won't tell me why I think I posted something on fb that made him jealous. But if that is so he is being irrational. he won't answer my calls or messages. He keeps posting things th...
I've send him so many messages. He reads them but won't respond. I did ask his best friend to help me but my ex pretended like nothing was wrong when his friend asked him.
Hmm. do you want to give him some time to maybe cool off and then try to get in touch with him again?
Hmm. do you want to give him some time to maybe cool off and then try to get in touch with him again? i know you are anxious but sometimes it is best for time to heal things and bring things back to normal
Providing Suggestions, Affirmation and Reassurance
Providing Suggestions
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My boyfriend broke up with me in a facebook story. He won't tell me why. He won't return my calls or answer my messages. I think it is because I posted something (innocent) that made him jealous. But he is being so cruel. He posts many sad songs to make it seem like he is so hurt by me, but he won't even speak with me....
5
3
5
5
Is anyone there?? Ok. Are you able to read the description of my problem or should I paste it again? Sure my boyfriend broke up with me but won't tell me why I think I posted something on fb that made him jealous. But if that is so he is being irrational. he won't answer my calls or messages. He keeps posting things th...
Yes, I guess that is all I can do for now. Since he won't answer and it's putting pressure on us both. However, the anxiety of this is killing me.I can't eat or sleep. I don't know how to handle it for myself. But yes you are right, the one thing I need to do is leave him be for a bit.
Do you have any other friend that you can lean for a little bit for support? this will help you get out of anxiety. Maybe, try to get busy with work or spend time on your hobbies. it helps to take your mind off of this thing a bit and will make you a bit less anxious.
Do you have any other friend that you can lean for a little bit for support? this will help you get out of anxiety. Maybe, try to get busy with work or spend time on your hobbies. it helps to take your mind off of this thing a bit and will make you a bit less anxious.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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My boyfriend broke up with me in a facebook story. He won't tell me why. He won't return my calls or answer my messages. I think it is because I posted something (innocent) that made him jealous. But he is being so cruel. He posts many sad songs to make it seem like he is so hurt by me, but he won't even speak with me....
5
3
5
5
Is anyone there?? Ok. Are you able to read the description of my problem or should I paste it again? Sure my boyfriend broke up with me but won't tell me why I think I posted something on fb that made him jealous. But if that is so he is being irrational. he won't answer my calls or messages. He keeps posting things th...
Thank you I have been trying to do that. Though I don't want to bother my friends too much. I've been keeping myself busy though. Most important is to stay away from my phone. haha.
That's good. at least you found ways to get out of the anxiety.
That's good. at least you found ways to get out of the anxiety. and social media can cause anxiety too, so staying from your phone also helps :)
Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions
Affirmation and Reassurance
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depression
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend broke up with me in a facebook story. He won't tell me why. He won't return my calls or answer my messages. I think it is because I posted something (innocent) that made him jealous. But he is being so cruel. He posts many sad songs to make it seem like he is so hurt by me, but he won't even speak with me....
5
3
5
5
Is anyone there?? Ok. Are you able to read the description of my problem or should I paste it again? Sure my boyfriend broke up with me but won't tell me why I think I posted something on fb that made him jealous. But if that is so he is being irrational. he won't answer my calls or messages. He keeps posting things th...
Well it is not helping much. But I guess it will get better over time. I suppose the second I start to feel better, he'll call. haha. It always works that way, right?
Yeah. given enough time and when things cool off, people do dwell on their behaviour and often times feel stupid for the way they act. i hope its the same case with your boyfriend as well. I have a feeling he is going to give you a call soon
Yeah. given enough time and when things cool off, people do dwell on their behaviour and often times feel stupid for the way they act. i hope its the same case with your boyfriend as well. I have a feeling he is going to give you a call soon
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend broke up with me in a facebook story. He won't tell me why. He won't return my calls or answer my messages. I think it is because I posted something (innocent) that made him jealous. But he is being so cruel. He posts many sad songs to make it seem like he is so hurt by me, but he won't even speak with me....
5
3
5
5
Is anyone there?? Ok. Are you able to read the description of my problem or should I paste it again? Sure my boyfriend broke up with me but won't tell me why I think I posted something on fb that made him jealous. But if that is so he is being irrational. he won't answer my calls or messages. He keeps posting things th...
Thank you very much. I really hope so! :)
you bet :)
you bet :)
Others
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breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend broke up with me in a facebook story. He won't tell me why. He won't return my calls or answer my messages. I think it is because I posted something (innocent) that made him jealous. But he is being so cruel. He posts many sad songs to make it seem like he is so hurt by me, but he won't even speak with me....
5
3
5
5
Is anyone there?? Ok. Are you able to read the description of my problem or should I paste it again? Sure my boyfriend broke up with me but won't tell me why I think I posted something on fb that made him jealous. But if that is so he is being irrational. he won't answer my calls or messages. He keeps posting things th...
Thanks again! You did make me feel better and i think we are allowed to proceed now :)
Nice. i am glad, i could be of some help.
Nice. i am glad, i could be of some help.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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My boyfriend cheated in me and then broke up with me after I told him that I knew what he did.
5
1
5
5
I am having a deep sense of sadness after the break up with my boyfriend. I feel like crying all the time and I feel like the sadness will never end. I have sense of overwhelming sadness as if my heart is sinking or like I am on a sinking ship. I wake up in the middle of the night and I am gasping for air, too.
Thanks for sharing that with me. I'm so sorry you've been feeling like that. Breakups are so hard and can cause so much grief.
Thanks for sharing that with me. I'm so sorry you've been feeling like that. Breakups are so hard and can cause so much grief.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend cheated in me and then broke up with me after I told him that I knew what he did.
5
1
5
5
I am having a deep sense of sadness after the break up with my boyfriend. I feel like crying all the time and I feel like the sadness will never end. I have sense of overwhelming sadness as if my heart is sinking or like I am on a sinking ship. I wake up in the middle of the night and I am gasping for air, too.
Yes, I feel like I will never meet anyone else and that I wasted so much time.
I know those feelings of sadness can feel like they will never end- I have felt that way too before.
I know those feelings of sadness can feel like they will never end- I have felt that way too before.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend cheated in me and then broke up with me after I told him that I knew what he did.
5
1
5
5
I am having a deep sense of sadness after the break up with my boyfriend. I feel like crying all the time and I feel like the sadness will never end. I have sense of overwhelming sadness as if my heart is sinking or like I am on a sinking ship. I wake up in the middle of the night and I am gasping for air, too. Yes, I ...
Do you feel like the best part of your life was over? That is how I feel now. Its seem like all of my plans for the future are over and ruined.
But they do pass eventually and become easier to manage- with time and care. Do you have anyone in your life, a friend or family member who you can lean on when you're feeling so sad?
But they do pass eventually and become easier to manage- with time and care. Do you have anyone in your life, a friend or family member who you can lean on when you're feeling so sad?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend cheated in me and then broke up with me after I told him that I knew what he did.
5
1
5
5
I am having a deep sense of sadness after the break up with my boyfriend. I feel like crying all the time and I feel like the sadness will never end. I have sense of overwhelming sadness as if my heart is sinking or like I am on a sinking ship. I wake up in the middle of the night and I am gasping for air, too. Yes, I ...
I have a best friend but she told me that she didn't like my boyfriend from the beginning so she is glad that we broke up. Well, that I got dumped.
It sounds like it's hard to have your best friend not be as supportive as you want during this hard time. What has been helping you to pass the time these days- do you have any activities or hobbies that you like to do to relax, have fun, or take your mind of things?
It sounds like it's hard to have your best friend not be as supportive as you want during this hard time. What has been helping you to pass the time these days- do you have any activities or hobbies that you like to do to relax, have fun, or take your mind of things?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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My boyfriend cheated in me and then broke up with me after I told him that I knew what he did.
5
1
5
5
I am having a deep sense of sadness after the break up with my boyfriend. I feel like crying all the time and I feel like the sadness will never end. I have sense of overwhelming sadness as if my heart is sinking or like I am on a sinking ship. I wake up in the middle of the night and I am gasping for air, too. Yes, I ...
I have been wanting to buy a bike and start taking my dog out for little bike rides. I want to get one with a basket and have her sit in the front. I just hate being alone and I feel so sad about doing everything alone now.
That's a great idea. I love taking walks and bike rides outside when I feel down. I also have a little dog and she helps me whenever I'm feeling lonely- dogs are great at providing comfort and unconditional love.
That's a great idea. I love taking walks and bike rides outside when I feel down. I also have a little dog and she helps me whenever I'm feeling lonely- dogs are great at providing comfort and unconditional love.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend cheated in me and then broke up with me after I told him that I knew what he did.
5
1
5
5
I am having a deep sense of sadness after the break up with my boyfriend. I feel like crying all the time and I feel like the sadness will never end. I have sense of overwhelming sadness as if my heart is sinking or like I am on a sinking ship. I wake up in the middle of the night and I am gasping for air, too. Yes, I ...
I just bought my puppy and she is super comforting. I think that because she was a recuse dog I feel a greater attachment. It is kind of nice having her.
My dog has also helped me meet other people and make friends- sometimes I'll walk my dog with others or go on bike rides with friends. If there is a dog park or local park nearby, maybe you can go and talk to other people there- talking about your dogs is a great icebreaker!
My dog has also helped me meet other people and make friends- sometimes I'll walk my dog with others or go on bike rides with friends. If there is a dog park or local park nearby, maybe you can go and talk to other people there- talking about your dogs is a great icebreaker!
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend cheated in me and then broke up with me after I told him that I knew what he did.
5
1
5
5
I am having a deep sense of sadness after the break up with my boyfriend. I feel like crying all the time and I feel like the sadness will never end. I have sense of overwhelming sadness as if my heart is sinking or like I am on a sinking ship. I wake up in the middle of the night and I am gasping for air, too. Yes, I ...
I know about a local dog park and think I will visit it today. That is a really good idea. I don't need a bike for that.
I'm glad to hear that! I hope you have a great time there! Research has also shown that spending time outside everyday is really good for our mental health.
I'm glad to hear that! I hope you have a great time there! Research has also shown that spending time outside everyday is really good for our mental health.
Information
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breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend cheated in me and then broke up with me after I told him that I knew what he did.
5
1
5
5
I am having a deep sense of sadness after the break up with my boyfriend. I feel like crying all the time and I feel like the sadness will never end. I have sense of overwhelming sadness as if my heart is sinking or like I am on a sinking ship. I wake up in the middle of the night and I am gasping for air, too. Yes, I ...
You are giving me something to think about that isn't related to the break up. I feel like a weight is sort of lifting off of me. I think I needed to talk and get some of my feelings on the table today.
If you are still interested in getting a bike, I'd say go for it too! Biking is a great stress relief and form of exercise that often makes me feel better.
If you are still interested in getting a bike, I'd say go for it too! Biking is a great stress relief and form of exercise that often makes me feel better. I am so glad to hear that and am so happy you are talking to me is making you feel better.
Providing Suggestions, Restatement or Paraphrasing
Providing Suggestions
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679
9
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend cheated in me and then broke up with me after I told him that I knew what he did.
5
1
5
5
I am having a deep sense of sadness after the break up with my boyfriend. I feel like crying all the time and I feel like the sadness will never end. I have sense of overwhelming sadness as if my heart is sinking or like I am on a sinking ship. I wake up in the middle of the night and I am gasping for air, too. Yes, I ...
Yes, I really want to get one but since I don't have a lot of money right now I will waitr on that and go to the dog park instead. I also heard about yoga iin the park.
Those are both great ideas! Yoga in the park sounds awesome. Yoga is another great stress reliever and form of exercise that is often free or very inexpensive.
Those are both great ideas! Yoga in the park sounds awesome. Yoga is another great stress reliever and form of exercise that is often free or very inexpensive.
Information
Information
8,021
neutral
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0.000045
0.000295
0.000747
0.980717
0.00692
0.007804
679
10
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend cheated in me and then broke up with me after I told him that I knew what he did.
5
1
5
5
I am having a deep sense of sadness after the break up with my boyfriend. I feel like crying all the time and I feel like the sadness will never end. I have sense of overwhelming sadness as if my heart is sinking or like I am on a sinking ship. I wake up in the middle of the night and I am gasping for air, too. Yes, I ...
I am feeling like life still goes on and things are going on all around me. I am going to start seeing whats out there and trying to join in a little bit more. My dog is opening a door for me and with your encouragement too.
I am very glad to hear that. Is there anything else I can help you with today? I am here to listen.
I am very glad to hear that. Is there anything else I can help you with today? I am here to listen.
Question
Question
8,022
happy
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11
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend cheated in me and then broke up with me after I told him that I knew what he did.
5
1
5
5
I am having a deep sense of sadness after the break up with my boyfriend. I feel like crying all the time and I feel like the sadness will never end. I have sense of overwhelming sadness as if my heart is sinking or like I am on a sinking ship. I wake up in the middle of the night and I am gasping for air, too. Yes, I ...
I was thinking about reading self help books or journaling but I was so down on myself.
Reading and journaling are also great tools to use. Even when you are feeling down it can be helpful to write down your feelings as a form of release.
Reading and journaling are also great tools to use. Even when you are feeling down it can be helpful to write down your feelings as a form of release.
Information
Information
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679
12
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend cheated in me and then broke up with me after I told him that I knew what he did.
5
1
5
5
I am having a deep sense of sadness after the break up with my boyfriend. I feel like crying all the time and I feel like the sadness will never end. I have sense of overwhelming sadness as if my heart is sinking or like I am on a sinking ship. I wake up in the middle of the night and I am gasping for air, too. Yes, I ...
Thank you for all of your support and understanding today. I am going to journal and then head to the dog park and get some fresh air.
That sounds like a great plan. Good luck and I hope you continue to feel better.
That sounds like a great plan. Good luck and I hope you continue to feel better.
Others
Others
8,024
happy
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0.000342
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0.422928
0.000697
0.006087
679
13
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend cheated in me and then broke up with me after I told him that I knew what he did.
5
1
5
5
I am having a deep sense of sadness after the break up with my boyfriend. I feel like crying all the time and I feel like the sadness will never end. I have sense of overwhelming sadness as if my heart is sinking or like I am on a sinking ship. I wake up in the middle of the night and I am gasping for air, too. Yes, I ...
Thank you again for being a wonderful listener and better friend than my best one.
You're very welcome.
You're very welcome.
Others
Others
8,025
happy
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0.000047
0.000015
0.993367
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680
1
anxiety
job_crisis
Going to lose my job in January, not sure what to do about that.
5
3
4
4
Just found out my position will be eliminated in January. Freaking out! 1
Wow. So you're being laid off soon?
Wow. So you're being laid off soon?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
8,026
surprised
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0.264018
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680
2
anxiety
job_crisis
Going to lose my job in January, not sure what to do about that.
5
3
4
4
Just found out my position will be eliminated in January. Freaking out! 1
Yes. Apparently the company just can't continue to operate and pay all of us. So my position will be gone. They said they may be able to hire me back after all the Covid stuff, but couldn't guarantee it 2
I've been laid off many times. Never gets easier.
I've been laid off many times. Never gets easier. Will they give you severance? Do you qualify for unemployment? Any offer for retraining or job assistance?
Self-disclosure, Providing Suggestions
Self-disclosure
8,027
neutral
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0.000833
0.005373
0.000335
0.738682
0.062164
0.011204
680
3
anxiety
job_crisis
Going to lose my job in January, not sure what to do about that.
5
3
4
4
Just found out my position will be eliminated in January. Freaking out! 1 Yes. Apparently the company just can't continue to operate and pay all of us. So my position will be gone. They said they may be able to hire me back after all the Covid stuff, but couldn't guarantee it 2
It is hard emotionally - as well as financially. I tried calling the unemployment office to find out what help they may have but no one answered me. 3
Your not getting the unemployment office to respond seems to be a common problem. They weren't geared up for this. Fortunately, the online portal has been helpful for many.
Your not getting the unemployment office to respond seems to be a common problem. They weren't geared up for this. Fortunately, the online portal has been helpful for many. What are your skills and strong points?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Question
Affirmation and Reassurance
8,028
sad
0.006095
0.000686
0.049374
0.000125
0.001852
0.941167
0.000701
680
4
anxiety
job_crisis
Going to lose my job in January, not sure what to do about that.
5
3
4
4
Just found out my position will be eliminated in January. Freaking out! 1 Yes. Apparently the company just can't continue to operate and pay all of us. So my position will be gone. They said they may be able to hire me back after all the Covid stuff, but couldn't guarantee it 2 It is hard emotionally - as well as finan...
I will have to look at that. I've not been in the job market for 25 years. I thought they may be able to provide some assistance in just where do I begin. 4 I'm a teacher at a private school. 4
You want to know where to start. Sounds like you are young.
You want to know where to start. Sounds like you are young.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
8,029
neutral
0.007483
0.000216
0.002717
0.000833
0.939601
0.016964
0.032186
680
5
anxiety
job_crisis
Going to lose my job in January, not sure what to do about that.
5
3
4
4
Just found out my position will be eliminated in January. Freaking out! 1 Yes. Apparently the company just can't continue to operate and pay all of us. So my position will be gone. They said they may be able to hire me back after all the Covid stuff, but couldn't guarantee it 2 It is hard emotionally - as well as finan...
Well not as young as I once was - in my 40s. 5
Teachers are wonderful! Experienced teachers are even better. Age 40 is still young enough to be competitive in today's market. You will get lots of job interviews and offers before you know it.
Teachers are wonderful! Experienced teachers are even better. Age 40 is still young enough to be competitive in today's market. You will get lots of job interviews and offers before you know it.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
8,030
neutral
0.007426
0.0001
0.000069
0.00045
0.976747
0.002892
0.012318
680
6
anxiety
job_crisis
Going to lose my job in January, not sure what to do about that.
5
3
4
4
Just found out my position will be eliminated in January. Freaking out! 1 Yes. Apparently the company just can't continue to operate and pay all of us. So my position will be gone. They said they may be able to hire me back after all the Covid stuff, but couldn't guarantee it 2 It is hard emotionally - as well as finan...
I'm concerned because now is just not the normal time they hire new teachers on. Plus a lot of the school systems around me are all virtual right now, so I'm concerned about that 6
How are your online/virtual skills?
How are your online/virtual skills? Use your time off to get confidence in online forums like Zoom and MS Teams.
Question, Providing Suggestions
Question
8,031
fear
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0.000628
0.00027
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