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anxiety
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Going to lose my job in January, not sure what to do about that.
5
3
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Just found out my position will be eliminated in January. Freaking out! 1 Yes. Apparently the company just can't continue to operate and pay all of us. So my position will be gone. They said they may be able to hire me back after all the Covid stuff, but couldn't guarantee it 2 It is hard emotionally - as well as finan...
We've used Zoom for some of our kids at my current school but it's usually one on one, not an entire classroom 7
There's many online job hunting sites that are free. Indeed, Zip Recruiter, Craig's List, Monster, newspaper classifieds.
There's many online job hunting sites that are free. Indeed, Zip Recruiter, Craig's List, Monster, newspaper classifieds.
Information
Information
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anxiety
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Going to lose my job in January, not sure what to do about that.
5
3
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Just found out my position will be eliminated in January. Freaking out! 1 Yes. Apparently the company just can't continue to operate and pay all of us. So my position will be gone. They said they may be able to hire me back after all the Covid stuff, but couldn't guarantee it 2 It is hard emotionally - as well as finan...
Yes I need to investigate those. I got my current job right out of college and I've been there 25 years! I'm so nervous about teaching somewhere else. 8
I feel your pain. Being laid off is a stab to the heart. Very disconcerting. Sounds as if you have been thrown out of your comfort zone.
I feel your pain. Being laid off is a stab to the heart. Very disconcerting. Sounds as if you have been thrown out of your comfort zone.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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anxiety
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5
3
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Just found out my position will be eliminated in January. Freaking out! 1 Yes. Apparently the company just can't continue to operate and pay all of us. So my position will be gone. They said they may be able to hire me back after all the Covid stuff, but couldn't guarantee it 2 It is hard emotionally - as well as finan...
Most definitely. Not to mention the children that depend on me, many of the children that I work with have special needs and changing their teachers can be traumatic. So I'm worried about them as well. 9
I'm sixty and one thing I've noticed during past lay-offs is that people end up in a better position.
I'm sixty and one thing I've noticed during past lay-offs is that people end up in a better position.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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anxiety
job_crisis
Going to lose my job in January, not sure what to do about that.
5
3
4
4
Just found out my position will be eliminated in January. Freaking out! 1 Yes. Apparently the company just can't continue to operate and pay all of us. So my position will be gone. They said they may be able to hire me back after all the Covid stuff, but couldn't guarantee it 2 It is hard emotionally - as well as finan...
I hope that is the case this time around for me. Ugh, I've got to do a new resume too!! EEK! 10
I admire your dedication to the children. They will always have a place in their heart for you. Fortunately, children are resilient so the trauma could be short-lived for them.
I admire your dedication to the children. They will always have a place in their heart for you. Fortunately, children are resilient so the trauma could be short-lived for them.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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1
anger
breakup_with_partner
I'm mad at my boyfriend for not taking responsibility.
5
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Hi, how are you?
Good thanks, so what's troubling you?
Good thanks, so what's troubling you?
Question
Question
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681
2
anger
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I'm mad at my boyfriend for not taking responsibility.
5
1
5
5
Hi, how are you?
I'm so mad at my boyfriend for not taking any responsibility. I'm about to break up with him.
Responsibility in regards to what? Like in what area of life do you mean?
Responsibility in regards to what? Like in what area of life do you mean?
Question
Question
8,038
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681
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anger
breakup_with_partner
I'm mad at my boyfriend for not taking responsibility.
5
1
5
5
Hi, how are you? I'm so mad at my boyfriend for not taking any responsibility. I'm about to break up with him.
We've been dating 4 years, meeting in high school. Now we're graduated and I've gone to college. He doesn't have a job yet after 1 year.
Hmm, has he been looking for work, or just laying around playing video games and shit like that?
Hmm, has he been looking for work, or just laying around playing video games and shit like that?
Question
Question
8,039
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anger
breakup_with_partner
I'm mad at my boyfriend for not taking responsibility.
5
1
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Hi, how are you? I'm so mad at my boyfriend for not taking any responsibility. I'm about to break up with him. We've been dating 4 years, meeting in high school. Now we're graduated and I've gone to college. He doesn't have a job yet after 1 year.
I've been away at college and just came home on break so I'm not sure. He tells me he is looking but I don't know how it's taking a year to get a job.
Well, I suppose it's possible that he's been earnestly looking and just not having any luck. Is he kind of a loser in general, or is he a stand-up guy?
Well, I suppose it's possible that he's been earnestly looking and just not having any luck. Is he kind of a loser in general, or is he a stand-up guy?
Others
Others
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anger
breakup_with_partner
I'm mad at my boyfriend for not taking responsibility.
5
1
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Hi, how are you? I'm so mad at my boyfriend for not taking any responsibility. I'm about to break up with him. We've been dating 4 years, meeting in high school. Now we're graduated and I've gone to college. He doesn't have a job yet after 1 year. I've been away at college and just came home on break so I'm not sure. H...
He got average grades in school but didn't really miss days from school.
Ok, so it sounds like you're kind of fed up with him in general, and not having a job is maybe just a part of the bigger issue?
Ok, so it sounds like you're kind of fed up with him in general, and not having a job is maybe just a part of the bigger issue?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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breakup_with_partner
I'm mad at my boyfriend for not taking responsibility.
5
1
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5
Hi, how are you? I'm so mad at my boyfriend for not taking any responsibility. I'm about to break up with him. We've been dating 4 years, meeting in high school. Now we're graduated and I've gone to college. He doesn't have a job yet after 1 year. I've been away at college and just came home on break so I'm not sure. H...
That's probably correct. He hasn't been in contact with me as much since I left for school. I just expected more.
Well, it sounds like you're both in kind of a transitional period in life. It's pretty normal for relationships to not necessarily survive through things like this
Well, it sounds like you're both in kind of a transitional period in life. It's pretty normal for relationships to not necessarily survive through things like this
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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anger
breakup_with_partner
I'm mad at my boyfriend for not taking responsibility.
5
1
5
5
Hi, how are you? I'm so mad at my boyfriend for not taking any responsibility. I'm about to break up with him. We've been dating 4 years, meeting in high school. Now we're graduated and I've gone to college. He doesn't have a job yet after 1 year. I've been away at college and just came home on break so I'm not sure. H...
That's so sad since we have so many years together, but I feel like I'm moving forward and he is staying in place.
Yeah, I mean it's never easy going through a breakup, but people change as they get older and mature, and they aren't necessarily going to still be compatible the whole time. Also I think it's important to not think of a relationship that peters out as a failed one. Just because it didn't last until one of you died doe...
Yeah, I mean it's never easy going through a breakup, but people change as they get older and mature, and they aren't necessarily going to still be compatible the whole time. Also I think it's important to not think of a relationship that peters out as a failed one. Just because it didn't last until one of you died doe...
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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anger
breakup_with_partner
I'm mad at my boyfriend for not taking responsibility.
5
1
5
5
Hi, how are you? I'm so mad at my boyfriend for not taking any responsibility. I'm about to break up with him. We've been dating 4 years, meeting in high school. Now we're graduated and I've gone to college. He doesn't have a job yet after 1 year. I've been away at college and just came home on break so I'm not sure. H...
That's true, it can maybe just be a stepping stone to build other relationships. Thanks for the wisdom.
Well I've got a couple decades on you, so I've been through this a few times before. Actually I'm still friends with pretty much all of my exes. I mean just because I'm not romantically involved with them anymore doesn't mean that they aren't still terrific people. Hell, I hung out with two of them just today.
Well I've got a couple decades on you, so I've been through this a few times before. Actually I'm still friends with pretty much all of my exes. I mean just because I'm not romantically involved with them anymore doesn't mean that they aren't still terrific people. Hell, I hung out with two of them just today.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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neutral
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9
anger
breakup_with_partner
I'm mad at my boyfriend for not taking responsibility.
5
1
5
5
Hi, how are you? I'm so mad at my boyfriend for not taking any responsibility. I'm about to break up with him. We've been dating 4 years, meeting in high school. Now we're graduated and I've gone to college. He doesn't have a job yet after 1 year. I've been away at college and just came home on break so I'm not sure. H...
That's great you have maintained positive relationships and were also able to move forward. Thanks for the advice. I appreciate it.
You bet. So what do you think you'll do from here? I mean do you know you want to move on for sure, or do you think you'll see if you can work through this patch? I don't know that there's a wrong answer .
You bet. So what do you think you'll do from here? I mean do you know you want to move on for sure, or do you think you'll see if you can work through this patch? I don't know that there's a wrong answer .
Information
Information
8,045
happy
0.000342
0.00002
0.000022
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0.001934
0.000104
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682
1
sadness
ongoing_depression
The feel of isolation during pandemic and being an immigrant without any family closeby.
3
1
5
5
Hello?
Hello, how can I help you today?
Hello, how can I help you today?
Question
Question
8,046
neutral
0.012807
0.000084
0.000221
0.003639
0.976341
0.000222
0.006686
682
2
sadness
ongoing_depression
The feel of isolation during pandemic and being an immigrant without any family closeby.
3
1
5
5
Hello?
I just need someone to listen to me. How are you?
I am doing well. What would you like to talk about?
I am doing well. What would you like to talk about?
Question
Question
8,047
neutral
0.01181
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0.00116
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682
3
sadness
ongoing_depression
The feel of isolation during pandemic and being an immigrant without any family closeby.
3
1
5
5
Hello? I just need someone to listen to me. How are you?
I feel really sad right now, I missed my family haven't seen them for 3 years now. I planned to see them this year but then this pandemic happens.
So you were planning to see them after three years but the pandemic has put a halt on that for the time being.
So you were planning to see them after three years but the pandemic has put a halt on that for the time being.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
8,048
sad
0.000124
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0.000032
0.000203
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0.999455
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682
4
sadness
ongoing_depression
The feel of isolation during pandemic and being an immigrant without any family closeby.
3
1
5
5
Hello? I just need someone to listen to me. How are you? I feel really sad right now, I missed my family haven't seen them for 3 years now. I planned to see them this year but then this pandemic happens.
Yes that's right.
How far from you do they live?
How far from you do they live?
Question
Question
8,049
neutral
0.022762
0.000116
0.000158
0.002215
0.943474
0.000788
0.030488
682
5
sadness
ongoing_depression
The feel of isolation during pandemic and being an immigrant without any family closeby.
3
1
5
5
Hello? I just need someone to listen to me. How are you? I feel really sad right now, I missed my family haven't seen them for 3 years now. I planned to see them this year but then this pandemic happens. Yes that's right.
I'm in the other side of the world. That is like more than 8000miles away.
Wow! That is a long way. This pandemic will pass in time so you can visit them.
Wow! That is a long way. This pandemic will pass in time so you can visit them.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
8,050
neutral
0.036542
0.000204
0.000502
0.000424
0.935989
0.010492
0.015847
682
6
sadness
ongoing_depression
The feel of isolation during pandemic and being an immigrant without any family closeby.
3
1
5
5
Hello? I just need someone to listen to me. How are you? I feel really sad right now, I missed my family haven't seen them for 3 years now. I planned to see them this year but then this pandemic happens. Yes that's right. I'm in the other side of the world. That is like more than 8000miles away.
I really hope so. Thank you. Merry Christmas.
Are you able to video chat with them? Possibly with skype, facebook messenger, or zoom. Seeing their faces on the screen could help to ease the sadness.
Are you able to video chat with them? Possibly with skype, facebook messenger, or zoom. Seeing their faces on the screen could help to ease the sadness.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
8,051
happy
0.000568
0.000077
0.000037
0.994468
0.00424
0.000172
0.000438
682
7
sadness
ongoing_depression
The feel of isolation during pandemic and being an immigrant without any family closeby.
3
1
5
5
Hello? I just need someone to listen to me. How are you? I feel really sad right now, I missed my family haven't seen them for 3 years now. I planned to see them this year but then this pandemic happens. Yes that's right. I'm in the other side of the world. That is like more than 8000miles away. I really hope so. Thank...
Yes I always do, plus it always reminds why I needed to be away from them. I am working hard to support my family. I envy families who are together during holidays.
I can sympathize with you, my sister, niece, and nephew live on the other side of the country, about 3000 miles away. I know it's hard to be so far away.
I can sympathize with you, my sister, niece, and nephew live on the other side of the country, about 3000 miles away. I know it's hard to be so far away.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
8,052
sad
0.003239
0.000371
0.000084
0.003731
0.014072
0.977923
0.000581
682
8
sadness
ongoing_depression
The feel of isolation during pandemic and being an immigrant without any family closeby.
3
1
5
5
Hello? I just need someone to listen to me. How are you? I feel really sad right now, I missed my family haven't seen them for 3 years now. I planned to see them this year but then this pandemic happens. Yes that's right. I'm in the other side of the world. That is like more than 8000miles away. I really hope so. Thank...
I hope you were able to see them.
What type of plans do you have when you see them?
What type of plans do you have when you see them?
Question
Question
8,053
happy
0.00168
0.000684
0.000119
0.751024
0.242822
0.001335
0.002335
682
9
sadness
ongoing_depression
The feel of isolation during pandemic and being an immigrant without any family closeby.
3
1
5
5
Hello? I just need someone to listen to me. How are you? I feel really sad right now, I missed my family haven't seen them for 3 years now. I planned to see them this year but then this pandemic happens. Yes that's right. I'm in the other side of the world. That is like more than 8000miles away. I really hope so. Thank...
I am planning to bring them to nice places my parents never experiences traveling to nice places. They are getting old and want the best for my parents and siblings.
I hope this pandemic ends quickly so that you get to see your family soon.
I hope this pandemic ends quickly so that you get to see your family soon.
Others
Others
8,054
sad
0.00064
0.000237
0.001696
0.005398
0.045665
0.945882
0.000482
682
10
sadness
ongoing_depression
The feel of isolation during pandemic and being an immigrant without any family closeby.
3
1
5
5
Hello? I just need someone to listen to me. How are you? I feel really sad right now, I missed my family haven't seen them for 3 years now. I planned to see them this year but then this pandemic happens. Yes that's right. I'm in the other side of the world. That is like more than 8000miles away. I really hope so. Thank...
I hope too, Thank you for listening. Have a great day! I really appreciate it.
you can call them anytime your sad and missing them.
you can call them anytime your sad and missing them.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
8,055
happy
0.000141
0.000014
0.000009
0.999718
0.000065
0.000017
0.000036
684
1
depression
ongoing_depression
Losing Job
4
1
5
5
Hello every since I lost my job I have felt sad and useless
That is an extremely tough situation to go through, I'm sorry to hear that.
That is an extremely tough situation to go through, I'm sorry to hear that.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
8,067
sad
0.000505
0.000131
0.000129
0.000045
0.000897
0.998203
0.000089
684
2
depression
ongoing_depression
Losing Job
4
1
5
5
Hello every since I lost my job I have felt sad and useless
Application after application I get rejected, it makes it hard to even fill out more
Yes, job applications can feel particularly demeaning to complete. Personally, I get frustrated with all the repetition and then repetitive rejection. It seems like I had no value.
Yes, job applications can feel particularly demeaning to complete. Personally, I get frustrated with all the repetition and then repetitive rejection. It seems like I had no value. But you have to consider that there are dozens of different reasons why you don't get selected for a job, and quite a few of them have noth...
Self-disclosure, Affirmation and Reassurance
Self-disclosure
8,068
sad
0.241066
0.000592
0.002471
0.000248
0.001059
0.754124
0.000441
684
3
depression
ongoing_depression
Losing Job
4
1
5
5
Hello every since I lost my job I have felt sad and useless Application after application I get rejected, it makes it hard to even fill out more
It feels good someone else knows how frustrating and what a cycle it creates but I am also sorry that you do know how it is also. Thank you for that, it seems most of the jobs I am applying for I am over qualified for which doesn't make sense to me and makes me think it is something personal about me.
No, don't think that. I know of several employers that have actually said they don't want employees smarter than them. It requires more money and more management, and quite a few people are very happy to not do either of those things for ostensibly higher quality workforce.
No, don't think that. I know of several employers that have actually said they don't want employees smarter than them. It requires more money and more management, and quite a few people are very happy to not do either of those things for ostensibly higher quality workforce. On an actionable level, have you been getting...
Reflection of feelings, Question
Reflection of feelings
8,069
sad
0.050219
0.001501
0.000201
0.025443
0.005561
0.908369
0.008706
684
4
depression
ongoing_depression
Losing Job
4
1
5
5
Hello every since I lost my job I have felt sad and useless Application after application I get rejected, it makes it hard to even fill out more It feels good someone else knows how frustrating and what a cycle it creates but I am also sorry that you do know how it is also. Thank you for that, it seems most of the jobs...
Hopefully I find an employer that sees a quality workforce over other things, its getting pretty discouraging I seem to be getting blocked at application level for employment, it seems my skills are mostly being put out to contract work now, which is not something I am familiar with.
I see. Maybe there are some qualification programs in your local area, or maybe at the local university or college where you could take classes? There is a career development center at my local university that is open to everyone, maybe you could see if they would review your resume and give you some objective feedback...
I see. Maybe there are some qualification programs in your local area, or maybe at the local university or college where you could take classes? There is a career development center at my local university that is open to everyone, maybe you could see if they would review your resume and give you some objective feedback...
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
8,070
sad
0.000283
0.000088
0.000359
0.000047
0.000506
0.998679
0.000038
684
5
depression
ongoing_depression
Losing Job
4
1
5
5
Hello every since I lost my job I have felt sad and useless Application after application I get rejected, it makes it hard to even fill out more It feels good someone else knows how frustrating and what a cycle it creates but I am also sorry that you do know how it is also. Thank you for that, it seems most of the jobs...
Wow I have never thought about that! That sounds awesome and like it would be great help, also trying something new would feel nice instead of filing the same stuff into applications!
You should explore what resources your city/county/province may offer for job seekers. It is in the best interest of almost every community that its members have have jobs and feel useful, so you may find some valuable information and maybe some connections.
You should explore what resources your city/county/province may offer for job seekers. It is in the best interest of almost every community that its members have have jobs and feel useful, so you may find some valuable information and maybe some connections. Oh! And what I always tell everyone who is looking for a job:...
Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
8,071
happy
0.000409
0.000116
0.000071
0.908193
0.000399
0.000177
0.090633
684
6
depression
ongoing_depression
Losing Job
4
1
5
5
Hello every since I lost my job I have felt sad and useless Application after application I get rejected, it makes it hard to even fill out more It feels good someone else knows how frustrating and what a cycle it creates but I am also sorry that you do know how it is also. Thank you for that, it seems most of the jobs...
My spirits are going up just having this conversation and looking forward to the community outreach. Hopefully it helps lift this gloom that has been over me for months. I loved my previous job but due to bad management it was taking a toll on everyone employed.
I am glad to hear you are feeling a little better! Yes, bad management is so toxic. Even with great coworkers in a job you love, horrible management can ruin it quickly.
I am glad to hear you are feeling a little better! Yes, bad management is so toxic. Even with great coworkers in a job you love, horrible management can ruin it quickly. You seem like you are open to trying new solutions and putting in the effort to up your competitive level. Stay positive and take care of yourself men...
Reflection of feelings, Affirmation and Reassurance
Reflection of feelings
8,072
sad
0.000498
0.000369
0.001278
0.475667
0.008715
0.51223
0.001242
684
7
depression
ongoing_depression
Losing Job
4
1
5
5
Hello every since I lost my job I have felt sad and useless Application after application I get rejected, it makes it hard to even fill out more It feels good someone else knows how frustrating and what a cycle it creates but I am also sorry that you do know how it is also. Thank you for that, it seems most of the jobs...
I think that is truly when I started feeling down, productivity was high but it mattered not to those in charge it was never enough. Thank you so much for talking, I feel so much better already and this was great adivce.
I was in a similar situation, nothing was ever good enough, and we were never given enough information to succeed anyhow.
I was in a similar situation, nothing was ever good enough, and we were never given enough information to succeed anyhow. I am glad to hear that!
Self-disclosure, Others
Self-disclosure
8,073
sad
0.000318
0.000054
0.000042
0.008108
0.000233
0.991073
0.000172
684
8
depression
ongoing_depression
Losing Job
4
1
5
5
Hello every since I lost my job I have felt sad and useless Application after application I get rejected, it makes it hard to even fill out more It feels good someone else knows how frustrating and what a cycle it creates but I am also sorry that you do know how it is also. Thank you for that, it seems most of the jobs...
I'm sorry you had to experience something similar by the sounds of it you are no longer in that situation, so that gives me hope for myself!
That is awesome :-)
That is awesome :-)
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
8,074
sad
0.001206
0.000557
0.000083
0.008737
0.00451
0.984139
0.000769
685
1
sadness
breakup_with_partner
my fiance and I broke up last week
5
4
5
5
Not good,and you?
That is a bummer! I have actually had a very good morning so far! Why aren't you doing good today?
That is a bummer! I have actually had a very good morning so far! Why aren't you doing good today?
Question
Question
8,076
angry
0.998253
0.000188
0.000029
0.000057
0.001201
0.000196
0.000075
685
2
sadness
breakup_with_partner
my fiance and I broke up last week
5
4
5
5
Not good,and you?
Because I am sad,and devastated about my break up
Oh no! Breakups are so hard! It has been a long time since I have had a break up (since I am married). I can remember how devastating it was though! I can tell you though this is something you can get through!
Oh no! Breakups are so hard! It has been a long time since I have had a break up (since I am married). I can remember how devastating it was though! I can tell you though this is something you can get through! How long were you and your partner together?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Question
Affirmation and Reassurance
8,077
sad
0.000534
0.000294
0.000058
0.000035
0.001045
0.99792
0.000114
685
3
sadness
breakup_with_partner
my fiance and I broke up last week
5
4
5
5
Not good,and you? Because I am sad,and devastated about my break up
well,it doesn't feel that way. I am so depressed and emotional...Life is falling apart. I was engaged for 2 years,and together almost 3.
I know how you are feeling! It probably feels as if the world is crashing in all around you, You probably feel like you've wasted time you will never get back, and you are probably feeling just plain exhausted. While I can't say that I have ever been apart of a broken engagement. I can say I felt both Depressed and emo...
I know how you are feeling! It probably feels as if the world is crashing in all around you, You probably feel like you've wasted time you will never get back, and you are probably feeling just plain exhausted. While I can't say that I have ever been apart of a broken engagement. I can say I felt both Depressed and emo...
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
8,078
sad
0.001663
0.000345
0.000077
0.000077
0.001648
0.995798
0.000392
685
4
sadness
breakup_with_partner
my fiance and I broke up last week
5
4
5
5
Not good,and you? Because I am sad,and devastated about my break up well,it doesn't feel that way. I am so depressed and emotional...Life is falling apart. I was engaged for 2 years,and together almost 3.
Yes,that can be true. But at the moment nothing feels good,or positive...even trying to focus on other things,taking me time,nothing helps..i try to understand why it happened...and i wished I could turn my love for him off...i would be in a much better place now.
If there was a magical switch you would never know the good from the bad! I think it is okay to be upset and quizzical! IF I were talking to my sister right now I would say "There are much better people out there for you, you will be much happier ending it now then after you are married!" I know it doesn't feel it now,...
If there was a magical switch you would never know the good from the bad! I think it is okay to be upset and quizzical! IF I were talking to my sister right now I would say "There are much better people out there for you, you will be much happier ending it now then after you are married!" I know it doesn't feel it now,...
Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions
Affirmation and Reassurance
8,079
happy
0.002689
0.000355
0.0004
0.916255
0.027189
0.050929
0.002183
685
5
sadness
breakup_with_partner
my fiance and I broke up last week
5
4
5
5
Not good,and you? Because I am sad,and devastated about my break up well,it doesn't feel that way. I am so depressed and emotional...Life is falling apart. I was engaged for 2 years,and together almost 3. Yes,that can be true. But at the moment nothing feels good,or positive...even trying to focus on other things,takin...
Thank you for your emotional support...I hope in time I will get better.
I am Happy to help! I am sure you will start feeling better each day!
I am Happy to help! I am sure you will start feeling better each day!
Others
Others
8,080
neutral
0.001358
0.00011
0.000835
0.200876
0.790644
0.003184
0.002993
685
6
sadness
breakup_with_partner
my fiance and I broke up last week
5
4
5
5
Not good,and you? Because I am sad,and devastated about my break up well,it doesn't feel that way. I am so depressed and emotional...Life is falling apart. I was engaged for 2 years,and together almost 3. Yes,that can be true. But at the moment nothing feels good,or positive...even trying to focus on other things,takin...
Thank you!!! I hope you have a good day.
Have a great day as well!
Have a great day as well!
Others
Others
8,081
happy
0.000264
0.000019
0.000007
0.999504
0.000136
0.000022
0.000048
685
7
sadness
breakup_with_partner
my fiance and I broke up last week
5
4
5
5
Not good,and you? Because I am sad,and devastated about my break up well,it doesn't feel that way. I am so depressed and emotional...Life is falling apart. I was engaged for 2 years,and together almost 3. Yes,that can be true. But at the moment nothing feels good,or positive...even trying to focus on other things,takin...
Thank you Was this 10 messages?
I thought it was!
I thought it was!
Others
Others
8,082
angry
0.991954
0.000071
0.000131
0.005011
0.001241
0.000169
0.001422
685
8
sadness
breakup_with_partner
my fiance and I broke up last week
5
4
5
5
Not good,and you? Because I am sad,and devastated about my break up well,it doesn't feel that way. I am so depressed and emotional...Life is falling apart. I was engaged for 2 years,and together almost 3. Yes,that can be true. But at the moment nothing feels good,or positive...even trying to focus on other things,takin...
Can we leave now?
I think we can, my Quit Button is not working. I was just going to wait for you to leave :)
I think we can, my Quit Button is not working. I was just going to wait for you to leave :)
Others
Others
8,083
neutral
0.004052
0.00004
0.00028
0.000803
0.985545
0.001151
0.00813
685
9
sadness
breakup_with_partner
my fiance and I broke up last week
5
4
5
5
Not good,and you? Because I am sad,and devastated about my break up well,it doesn't feel that way. I am so depressed and emotional...Life is falling apart. I was engaged for 2 years,and together almost 3. Yes,that can be true. But at the moment nothing feels good,or positive...even trying to focus on other things,takin...
Okay,I will leave now....Have a great day!! and thank you again for the moral support and advice.
You are so very welcome! Have a great day as well!
You are so very welcome! Have a great day as well!
Others
Others
8,084
happy
0.000298
0.000015
0.000012
0.999272
0.000323
0.000023
0.000057
686
1
depression
problems_with_friends
my friend betrayed because she thought i wanted to snatch her boyfriend from her.
5
2
4
4
i am feeling good
That's awesome! What seems to be bothering you today?
That's awesome! What seems to be bothering you today?
Question
Question
8,086
happy
0.000032
0.000021
0.000004
0.999747
0.000109
0.000037
0.000051
686
2
depression
problems_with_friends
my friend betrayed because she thought i wanted to snatch her boyfriend from her.
5
2
4
4
i am feeling good
i reminisced about old times and this particular memory of a friend popped up and i felt the rush of emotions i felt then
I can totally understand that! I look back in the same way and are reminded of good and bad times.
I can totally understand that! I look back in the same way and are reminded of good and bad times. I understand you are emotional when thinking back, are the emotions of your friend, good or bad?
Self-disclosure, Reflection of feelings
Self-disclosure
8,087
angry
0.998488
0.000087
0.000161
0.000092
0.000038
0.00111
0.000023
686
3
depression
problems_with_friends
my friend betrayed because she thought i wanted to snatch her boyfriend from her.
5
2
4
4
i am feeling good i reminisced about old times and this particular memory of a friend popped up and i felt the rush of emotions i felt then
yeah, but i just get sucked in my emotions at that moment and it feels as if i am being transported back in time to that moment the emotions are bad
Have you tried keeping busy so you remain focused in your life?
Have you tried keeping busy so you remain focused in your life?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
8,088
sad
0.001807
0.001667
0.000088
0.000145
0.001677
0.994018
0.000598
686
4
depression
problems_with_friends
my friend betrayed because she thought i wanted to snatch her boyfriend from her.
5
2
4
4
i am feeling good i reminisced about old times and this particular memory of a friend popped up and i felt the rush of emotions i felt then yeah, but i just get sucked in my emotions at that moment and it feels as if i am being transported back in time to that moment the emotions are bad
yes
Do you find that method is helping you get past/avoid those bad feelings you are having?
Do you find that method is helping you get past/avoid those bad feelings you are having?
Others
Others
8,089
neutral
0.005629
0.000064
0.000172
0.003235
0.984833
0.000879
0.005188
686
5
depression
problems_with_friends
my friend betrayed because she thought i wanted to snatch her boyfriend from her.
5
2
4
4
i am feeling good i reminisced about old times and this particular memory of a friend popped up and i felt the rush of emotions i felt then yeah, but i just get sucked in my emotions at that moment and it feels as if i am being transported back in time to that moment the emotions are bad yes
yes, i have further discovered new things that i am devoted to and that has helped keep me going
I understanding finding new interesting and devoting yourself to them. When I lost my dog recently, who I had for 20 years, I found that spending my time at a local dog shelter really helped me cope and move forward.
I understanding finding new interesting and devoting yourself to them. When I lost my dog recently, who I had for 20 years, I found that spending my time at a local dog shelter really helped me cope and move forward. Is there anything else I can help you with or that you want to share with me today?
Self-disclosure, Others
Self-disclosure
8,090
happy
0.000095
0.000031
0.0001
0.988724
0.010053
0.000366
0.000631
686
6
depression
problems_with_friends
my friend betrayed because she thought i wanted to snatch her boyfriend from her.
5
2
4
4
i am feeling good i reminisced about old times and this particular memory of a friend popped up and i felt the rush of emotions i felt then yeah, but i just get sucked in my emotions at that moment and it feels as if i am being transported back in time to that moment the emotions are bad yes yes, i have further discove...
i am so sorry about your loss. moving forward from that time was really hard for me, i fell into depression which was so deep that i almost committed suicide. i was so lonely, because she was the only person so close to me and she knew all of my imperfections and secrets, and i considered her my sister but yet she did ...
All you can do is take one day at a time, show up, do your best, remember her and her love/support...
All you can do is take one day at a time, show up, do your best, remember her and her love/support...
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
8,091
sad
0.000262
0.00019
0.000136
0.000035
0.000494
0.998802
0.000081
686
7
depression
problems_with_friends
my friend betrayed because she thought i wanted to snatch her boyfriend from her.
5
2
4
4
i am feeling good i reminisced about old times and this particular memory of a friend popped up and i felt the rush of emotions i felt then yeah, but i just get sucked in my emotions at that moment and it feels as if i am being transported back in time to that moment the emotions are bad yes yes, i have further discove...
well, i am a bit nervous about making friends in real life. i have got more friends online than in real life.
Making friends is tough, especially these days. What makes you the most nervous about it?
Making friends is tough, especially these days. What makes you the most nervous about it?
Question
Question
8,092
fear
0.000037
0.000046
0.999365
0.000101
0.000125
0.000201
0.000126
686
8
depression
problems_with_friends
my friend betrayed because she thought i wanted to snatch her boyfriend from her.
5
2
4
4
i am feeling good i reminisced about old times and this particular memory of a friend popped up and i felt the rush of emotions i felt then yeah, but i just get sucked in my emotions at that moment and it feels as if i am being transported back in time to that moment the emotions are bad yes yes, i have further discove...
i have tried to erase the bad memories and leave only the good ones, that way i feel less cornered
That's a great realization. It sounds easy but know that it will be challenging. It's okay to feel like you have 'failed' some days. The fact that you are aware, and working on it - that's huge!
That's a great realization. It sounds easy but know that it will be challenging. It's okay to feel like you have 'failed' some days. The fact that you are aware, and working on it - that's huge!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
8,093
neutral
0.007295
0.00014
0.006829
0.000639
0.968266
0.011681
0.005151
686
9
depression
problems_with_friends
my friend betrayed because she thought i wanted to snatch her boyfriend from her.
5
2
4
4
i am feeling good i reminisced about old times and this particular memory of a friend popped up and i felt the rush of emotions i felt then yeah, but i just get sucked in my emotions at that moment and it feels as if i am being transported back in time to that moment the emotions are bad yes yes, i have further discove...
i am so bad at starting conversations, i feel that i might say the wrong thing thanks for the support, i feel more motivated to keep going
You are absolutely welcome! I wish you the best of luck.
You are absolutely welcome! I wish you the best of luck.
Others
Others
8,094
happy
0.431585
0.000231
0.000999
0.556381
0.000545
0.005551
0.004707
686
10
depression
problems_with_friends
my friend betrayed because she thought i wanted to snatch her boyfriend from her.
5
2
4
4
i am feeling good i reminisced about old times and this particular memory of a friend popped up and i felt the rush of emotions i felt then yeah, but i just get sucked in my emotions at that moment and it feels as if i am being transported back in time to that moment the emotions are bad yes yes, i have further discove...
thanks so much
Anytime.
Anytime.
Others
Others
8,095
happy
0.196024
0.000466
0.000596
0.775885
0.018022
0.000488
0.00852
687
1
anxiety
job_crisis
My job informed me that they will be reducing my hours and not extend my contract.
4
2
5
5
Hey, how are you?
I am not too bad thanks. Is there anything on your mind?
I am not too bad thanks. Is there anything on your mind?
Question
Question
8,097
happy
0.001963
0.000039
0.000021
0.996093
0.001715
0.000032
0.000137
687
2
anxiety
job_crisis
My job informed me that they will be reducing my hours and not extend my contract.
4
2
5
5
Hey, how are you?
I'm doing alright, trying to keep in the holiday spirits. Feeling a bit down, due to my work situation
You're having problems at work? Does this involve coworkers or is it about your financial situation?
You're having problems at work? Does this involve coworkers or is it about your financial situation?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
8,098
sad
0.000113
0.000058
0.000033
0.000063
0.000136
0.999574
0.000022
687
3
anxiety
job_crisis
My job informed me that they will be reducing my hours and not extend my contract.
4
2
5
5
Hey, how are you? I'm doing alright, trying to keep in the holiday spirits. Feeling a bit down, due to my work situation
More financial situation, I was informed that my hours are reduce and will not get an extenison on my job contract
I am really sorry to hear that. Is that due to the pandemic? Times are really hard for everyone right now unfortunately.
I am really sorry to hear that. Is that due to the pandemic? Times are really hard for everyone right now unfortunately.
Question
Question
8,099
sad
0.11574
0.003064
0.004578
0.000372
0.000331
0.875805
0.00011
687
4
anxiety
job_crisis
My job informed me that they will be reducing my hours and not extend my contract.
4
2
5
5
Hey, how are you? I'm doing alright, trying to keep in the holiday spirits. Feeling a bit down, due to my work situation More financial situation, I was informed that my hours are reduce and will not get an extenison on my job contract
Yeah my company isn't doing to well at the moment and they are trying their best to keep everyone but they had to make massive cuts/
I can tell from your messages that you are feeling deeply anxious. Are you worried that you might not be able to support your family?
I can tell from your messages that you are feeling deeply anxious. Are you worried that you might not be able to support your family?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
8,100
sad
0.038002
0.001673
0.000857
0.000114
0.034871
0.921231
0.003252
687
5
anxiety
job_crisis
My job informed me that they will be reducing my hours and not extend my contract.
4
2
5
5
Hey, how are you? I'm doing alright, trying to keep in the holiday spirits. Feeling a bit down, due to my work situation More financial situation, I was informed that my hours are reduce and will not get an extenison on my job contract Yeah my company isn't doing to well at the moment and they are trying their best to ...
That is my biggest concern at the moment, I cut all of my expenses. I didn;t ask my family but they cut a few things out as well. But I feel that I'm not providing for them.
It is a really difficult situation to be in, especially as it's through no fault of your own. Would you consider taking on some part time work for a while?
It is a really difficult situation to be in, especially as it's through no fault of your own. Would you consider taking on some part time work for a while?
Question
Question
8,101
sad
0.005956
0.000482
0.006235
0.000047
0.003568
0.983384
0.000328
687
6
anxiety
job_crisis
My job informed me that they will be reducing my hours and not extend my contract.
4
2
5
5
Hey, how are you? I'm doing alright, trying to keep in the holiday spirits. Feeling a bit down, due to my work situation More financial situation, I was informed that my hours are reduce and will not get an extenison on my job contract Yeah my company isn't doing to well at the moment and they are trying their best to ...
I would, I'm doing odd jobs here and there but no one is really hiring where I live.
There's a big gig economy out there on the internet - you could always try looking there?
There's a big gig economy out there on the internet - you could always try looking there?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
8,102
sad
0.313707
0.00256
0.003579
0.000754
0.085304
0.585632
0.008464
687
7
anxiety
job_crisis
My job informed me that they will be reducing my hours and not extend my contract.
4
2
5
5
Hey, how are you? I'm doing alright, trying to keep in the holiday spirits. Feeling a bit down, due to my work situation More financial situation, I was informed that my hours are reduce and will not get an extenison on my job contract Yeah my company isn't doing to well at the moment and they are trying their best to ...
I will try and good into that, I do feel a bit better. I wish I could do more like I used too
The restrictions are really getting me down as well although I understand why they are necessary. Hopefully the year to come will be better for us all.
The restrictions are really getting me down as well although I understand why they are necessary. Hopefully the year to come will be better for us all.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
8,103
happy
0.000139
0.000077
0.000016
0.996804
0.001469
0.001306
0.00019
687
8
anxiety
job_crisis
My job informed me that they will be reducing my hours and not extend my contract.
4
2
5
5
Hey, how are you? I'm doing alright, trying to keep in the holiday spirits. Feeling a bit down, due to my work situation More financial situation, I was informed that my hours are reduce and will not get an extenison on my job contract Yeah my company isn't doing to well at the moment and they are trying their best to ...
I hope so, I do feel better and optimistic. I do understand a lot of people are going through what I'm going through.
I hope I am not being patronising by saying that. I know that just because other people feel bad that doesn't mean you automatically have to cheer up :)
I hope I am not being patronising by saying that. I know that just because other people feel bad that doesn't mean you automatically have to cheer up :)
Others
Others
8,104
happy
0.000051
0.000031
0.000015
0.999129
0.000308
0.00037
0.000096
687
9
anxiety
job_crisis
My job informed me that they will be reducing my hours and not extend my contract.
4
2
5
5
Hey, how are you? I'm doing alright, trying to keep in the holiday spirits. Feeling a bit down, due to my work situation More financial situation, I was informed that my hours are reduce and will not get an extenison on my job contract Yeah my company isn't doing to well at the moment and they are trying their best to ...
I just forget that everyone is going through tough times, I was feeling down and being hard to myself the past week. But need to realize we are in bad times currently.
Maybe you could plan something fun to do once this is all over - a mini break perhaps? Gives you something to look forward to
Maybe you could plan something fun to do once this is all over - a mini break perhaps? Gives you something to look forward to
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
8,105
sad
0.000147
0.000126
0.000031
0.000035
0.000215
0.999366
0.00008
687
10
anxiety
job_crisis
My job informed me that they will be reducing my hours and not extend my contract.
4
2
5
5
Hey, how are you? I'm doing alright, trying to keep in the holiday spirits. Feeling a bit down, due to my work situation More financial situation, I was informed that my hours are reduce and will not get an extenison on my job contract Yeah my company isn't doing to well at the moment and they are trying their best to ...
Haha I wish, I do have something in mind. Maybe might buy my favorite cigar and whiskey and enjoy myself this weekend.
That sounds like a really great idea! Sometimes even little things can make a big difference to us
That sounds like a really great idea! Sometimes even little things can make a big difference to us
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
8,106
happy
0.000179
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0.000017
0.99635
0.003139
0.000077
0.000171
687
11
anxiety
job_crisis
My job informed me that they will be reducing my hours and not extend my contract.
4
2
5
5
Hey, how are you? I'm doing alright, trying to keep in the holiday spirits. Feeling a bit down, due to my work situation More financial situation, I was informed that my hours are reduce and will not get an extenison on my job contract Yeah my company isn't doing to well at the moment and they are trying their best to ...
Yeah, I should plan a little me time from time to time and destress from everything.
Be good to yourself! I hope that I've managed to help a little.
Be good to yourself! I hope that I've managed to help a little.
Others
Others
8,107
neutral
0.001603
0.000062
0.000392
0.000632
0.987011
0.007916
0.002385
687
12
anxiety
job_crisis
My job informed me that they will be reducing my hours and not extend my contract.
4
2
5
5
Hey, how are you? I'm doing alright, trying to keep in the holiday spirits. Feeling a bit down, due to my work situation More financial situation, I was informed that my hours are reduce and will not get an extenison on my job contract Yeah my company isn't doing to well at the moment and they are trying their best to ...
Thanks for helping, I'm glad we chatted
Enjoy the rest of your day :)
Enjoy the rest of your day :)
Others
Others
8,108
happy
0.000128
0.000017
0.000006
0.999734
0.000057
0.000021
0.000037
688
1
anger
problems_with_friends
My friend created a separate chat for planning hangouts and did not include me.
4
3
4
5
Hello
Hello there, how are you?
Hello there, how are you?
Question
Question
8,109
neutral
0.004226
0.000116
0.000071
0.00422
0.989792
0.000161
0.001414
688
2
anger
problems_with_friends
My friend created a separate chat for planning hangouts and did not include me.
4
3
4
5
Hello
Kind of angry and disappointed.
I'm very sorry to hear that, did something not go as planned recently?
I'm very sorry to hear that, did something not go as planned recently?
Question
Question
8,110
angry
0.963571
0.002058
0.000059
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688
3
anger
problems_with_friends
My friend created a separate chat for planning hangouts and did not include me.
4
3
4
5
Hello Kind of angry and disappointed.
My friend created a group chat for planning activities and did not include me. She included people who are closer to me than to her. Almost like she is trying to steal my friends.
I see. So when she did this, it gave you the feeling of almost being replaced or abandoned by your own social circle?
I see. So when she did this, it gave you the feeling of almost being replaced or abandoned by your own social circle?
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
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My friend created a separate chat for planning hangouts and did not include me.
4
3
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Hello Kind of angry and disappointed. My friend created a group chat for planning activities and did not include me. She included people who are closer to me than to her. Almost like she is trying to steal my friends.
In a way. I was disappointed by the rest of them but mostly angry at her. It almost feels like she wants to be the leader of the group and feels like I am her competition.
It's definitely frustrating to feel that your support system could possibly become a source of stress and competition anxiety. Especially since it's where we're supposed to feel safe and unjudged.
It's definitely frustrating to feel that your support system could possibly become a source of stress and competition anxiety. Especially since it's where we're supposed to feel safe and unjudged.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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anger
problems_with_friends
My friend created a separate chat for planning hangouts and did not include me.
4
3
4
5
Hello Kind of angry and disappointed. My friend created a group chat for planning activities and did not include me. She included people who are closer to me than to her. Almost like she is trying to steal my friends. In a way. I was disappointed by the rest of them but mostly angry at her. It almost feels like she wan...
Exactly. They are supposed to be the people I can go to with my problems. Now I feel like they all had a secret which I wasn't privy to and it made me feel disconnected and untrusting towards them.
It sounds that you're a person who really does care about keeping the relationships they've invested in healthy and open. That care level can definitely cause natural anxiousness in situations like this, when the place you stand with them and what they're thinking suddenly feels uncertain.
It sounds that you're a person who really does care about keeping the relationships they've invested in healthy and open. That care level can definitely cause natural anxiousness in situations like this, when the place you stand with them and what they're thinking suddenly feels uncertain.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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problems_with_friends
My friend created a separate chat for planning hangouts and did not include me.
4
3
4
5
Hello Kind of angry and disappointed. My friend created a group chat for planning activities and did not include me. She included people who are closer to me than to her. Almost like she is trying to steal my friends. In a way. I was disappointed by the rest of them but mostly angry at her. It almost feels like she wan...
I am a bit of an idealist. I like for everyone to be in harmony, to be nice, supportive, caring, open and honest. I don't know how to move on from this.
Right, and there are endless possibilites the mind can create outside of ideal. But funnily enough, the imagination of an idealist that lets them visualize great things can also create equally strong fears before getting answers. And thankfully those fears can be addressed outside of the head where they're made.
Right, and there are endless possibilites the mind can create outside of ideal. But funnily enough, the imagination of an idealist that lets them visualize great things can also create equally strong fears before getting answers. And thankfully those fears can be addressed outside of the head where they're made. Have y...
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anger
problems_with_friends
My friend created a separate chat for planning hangouts and did not include me.
4
3
4
5
Hello Kind of angry and disappointed. My friend created a group chat for planning activities and did not include me. She included people who are closer to me than to her. Almost like she is trying to steal my friends. In a way. I was disappointed by the rest of them but mostly angry at her. It almost feels like she wan...
I talked about it with one friend. He felt bad but what I couldn't understand why he was secretive about the chat too. If he thought we were close why hide stuff?
Right, it can seem a bit confusing since you naturally would expect to feel comfortable with so much between each other already.
Right, it can seem a bit confusing since you naturally would expect to feel comfortable with so much between each other already.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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My friend created a separate chat for planning hangouts and did not include me.
4
3
4
5
Hello Kind of angry and disappointed. My friend created a group chat for planning activities and did not include me. She included people who are closer to me than to her. Almost like she is trying to steal my friends. In a way. I was disappointed by the rest of them but mostly angry at her. It almost feels like she wan...
Do you think it is asking too much on my part?
On the contrary, I think you might not be allowing yourself to ask enough!
On the contrary, I think you might not be allowing yourself to ask enough! Sometimes, the people who are closest to us can actually become even more anxious about how something might affect your feelings. It could be the case with him too
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problems_with_friends
My friend created a separate chat for planning hangouts and did not include me.
4
3
4
5
Hello Kind of angry and disappointed. My friend created a group chat for planning activities and did not include me. She included people who are closer to me than to her. Almost like she is trying to steal my friends. In a way. I was disappointed by the rest of them but mostly angry at her. It almost feels like she wan...
Sometimes I question if it is even worth talking to them about it. People often don't want to say what they really think. Instead they just say whatever to avoid confrontation.
Some people express themselves best through their actions. Have you tried suggesting a meeting for something you'd usually do to see if they're willing to hang out just as always?
Some people express themselves best through their actions. Have you tried suggesting a meeting for something you'd usually do to see if they're willing to hang out just as always?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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I have a lot of academic pressure from my program and I'm not receiving any help from my advisors.
4
2
4
4
Hey, how are you doing?
Hello, I am doing well. How are you doing today?
Hello, I am doing well. How are you doing today?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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I have a lot of academic pressure from my program and I'm not receiving any help from my advisors.
4
2
4
4
Hey, how are you doing?
I'm doing alright, I'm facing a lot of academic pressure from my program and I feel trapped
Oh, it sounds like you are stressed from the academic pressure that you are facing right now?
Oh, it sounds like you are stressed from the academic pressure that you are facing right now?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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I have a lot of academic pressure from my program and I'm not receiving any help from my advisors.
4
2
4
4
Hey, how are you doing? I'm doing alright, I'm facing a lot of academic pressure from my program and I feel trapped
Yes, I have a lot of coursework but I have no help from from my advisors. A few of my peers feel the same way. Not sure what to do. I don't believe remote learning is helpful in a master program because the professor/advisor are not always available.
I see how this can be stressful for you and your fellow peers. Have you tried other steps besides the one's you tried before by contacting the professor?
I see how this can be stressful for you and your fellow peers. Have you tried other steps besides the one's you tried before by contacting the professor?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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I have a lot of academic pressure from my program and I'm not receiving any help from my advisors.
4
2
4
4
Hey, how are you doing? I'm doing alright, I'm facing a lot of academic pressure from my program and I feel trapped Yes, I have a lot of coursework but I have no help from from my advisors. A few of my peers feel the same way. Not sure what to do. I don't believe remote learning is helpful in a master program because t...
I tried, but the coursework is difficult and the other solution is tutorials on youtube but there is so much you can do on your own. Plus I have a job as well, so limited hours
I can relate to this because it is hard to work and do school as well. I can tell it makes you feel concerned about your schooling and you want to do the best you can.
I can relate to this because it is hard to work and do school as well. I can tell it makes you feel concerned about your schooling and you want to do the best you can.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
8,121
sad
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689
5
fear
academic_pressure
I have a lot of academic pressure from my program and I'm not receiving any help from my advisors.
4
2
4
4
Hey, how are you doing? I'm doing alright, I'm facing a lot of academic pressure from my program and I feel trapped Yes, I have a lot of coursework but I have no help from from my advisors. A few of my peers feel the same way. Not sure what to do. I don't believe remote learning is helpful in a master program because t...
I wish so, do your best and hope for the best I guess.
You are doing great I believe and really trying hard to do your schoolwork right.
You are doing great I believe and really trying hard to do your schoolwork right.
Others
Others
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689
6
fear
academic_pressure
I have a lot of academic pressure from my program and I'm not receiving any help from my advisors.
4
2
4
4
Hey, how are you doing? I'm doing alright, I'm facing a lot of academic pressure from my program and I feel trapped Yes, I have a lot of coursework but I have no help from from my advisors. A few of my peers feel the same way. Not sure what to do. I don't believe remote learning is helpful in a master program because t...
I just need to deal with the stress so it doesnt effect me
Why do you think that might be?
Why do you think that might be?
Question
Question
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7
fear
academic_pressure
I have a lot of academic pressure from my program and I'm not receiving any help from my advisors.
4
2
4
4
Hey, how are you doing? I'm doing alright, I'm facing a lot of academic pressure from my program and I feel trapped Yes, I have a lot of coursework but I have no help from from my advisors. A few of my peers feel the same way. Not sure what to do. I don't believe remote learning is helpful in a master program because t...
I feel that the stress is effecting my sleep and my work, because I constantly worry. Any tips?
I would try to have a regular to set a goal for each day by stating to yourself today is a new day, remain focus on the task at hand, try not to worry about all tasks at once, and lastly try to find a relaxing sleep schedule that fits your needs.
I would try to have a regular to set a goal for each day by stating to yourself today is a new day, remain focus on the task at hand, try not to worry about all tasks at once, and lastly try to find a relaxing sleep schedule that fits your needs.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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academic_pressure
I have a lot of academic pressure from my program and I'm not receiving any help from my advisors.
4
2
4
4
Hey, how are you doing? I'm doing alright, I'm facing a lot of academic pressure from my program and I feel trapped Yes, I have a lot of coursework but I have no help from from my advisors. A few of my peers feel the same way. Not sure what to do. I don't believe remote learning is helpful in a master program because t...
I see, I think making a schedule and breaking task into little ones will help complete them. I guess I will stress less.
Yes, It will be hard at first because you are not use to it, but once you get started your life will be so much more relaxing. Your stress level will become more less than what is was before. Also, You will be able to have a clearer mind to concentrate on your schoolwork more by having this new schedule.
Yes, It will be hard at first because you are not use to it, but once you get started your life will be so much more relaxing. Your stress level will become more less than what is was before. Also, You will be able to have a clearer mind to concentrate on your schoolwork more by having this new schedule.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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fear
academic_pressure
I have a lot of academic pressure from my program and I'm not receiving any help from my advisors.
4
2
4
4
Hey, how are you doing? I'm doing alright, I'm facing a lot of academic pressure from my program and I feel trapped Yes, I have a lot of coursework but I have no help from from my advisors. A few of my peers feel the same way. Not sure what to do. I don't believe remote learning is helpful in a master program because t...
These message is really helpful and I will start doing what you have told me as soon as possible. I just want to live happily but thank you for this conversation.
I am glad to hear because you can do it. I believe in you. I am happy that this really help you and you are so very welcome.
I am glad to hear because you can do it. I believe in you. I am happy that this really help you and you are so very welcome.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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academic_pressure
I have a lot of academic pressure from my program and I'm not receiving any help from my advisors.
4
2
4
4
Hey, how are you doing? I'm doing alright, I'm facing a lot of academic pressure from my program and I feel trapped Yes, I have a lot of coursework but I have no help from from my advisors. A few of my peers feel the same way. Not sure what to do. I don't believe remote learning is helpful in a master program because t...
Thanks for the distressing tips and other tips as well, I wish a happy holiday. I do feel a lot better.
I wish you a great school semester because you deserve it. I am glad you feel better and continue keep this motivation about yourself to bring out the best you can be. Never settle less. You are so welcome, and I wish you a Happy Holiday as well.
I wish you a great school semester because you deserve it. I am glad you feel better and continue keep this motivation about yourself to bring out the best you can be. Never settle less. You are so welcome, and I wish you a Happy Holiday as well.
Others
Others
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job_crisis
My company is cutting salaries next year because of the pandemic, with potential for layoffs
4
1
5
5
Hi there
How are things going for you today?
How are things going for you today?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
8,129
neutral
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690
2
anxiety
job_crisis
My company is cutting salaries next year because of the pandemic, with potential for layoffs
4
1
5
5
Hi there
Things are okay, a little bit of anxiety about my job, but good for the most part
Okay, with some job anxiety, Would you be willing to say more about that?
Okay, with some job anxiety, Would you be willing to say more about that?
Question
Question
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anxiety
job_crisis
My company is cutting salaries next year because of the pandemic, with potential for layoffs
4
1
5
5
Hi there Things are okay, a little bit of anxiety about my job, but good for the most part
Yes, sure. I work in an industry heavily impacted by COVID-19, and my company has announced pay cuts as well as potential layoffs starting next year if things don't improve soon
Woah. Blessings to you for existing in what sounds like a stressful situation. How is self care going during this?
Woah. Blessings to you for existing in what sounds like a stressful situation. How is self care going during this?
Question
Question
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anxiety
job_crisis
My company is cutting salaries next year because of the pandemic, with potential for layoffs
4
1
5
5
Hi there Things are okay, a little bit of anxiety about my job, but good for the most part Yes, sure. I work in an industry heavily impacted by COVID-19, and my company has announced pay cuts as well as potential layoffs starting next year if things don't improve soon
Thank you. Self care is going well, I make sure to take walks every day and spend time with family
Heck yeah! You're worth it! Thats great that you do those things for yourself.
Heck yeah! You're worth it! Thats great that you do those things for yourself. Is there anything you want to have happen here?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Question
Affirmation and Reassurance
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My company is cutting salaries next year because of the pandemic, with potential for layoffs
4
1
5
5
Hi there Things are okay, a little bit of anxiety about my job, but good for the most part Yes, sure. I work in an industry heavily impacted by COVID-19, and my company has announced pay cuts as well as potential layoffs starting next year if things don't improve soon Thank you. Self care is going well, I make sure to ...
Thanks! I appreciate it. Just chatting with someone and getting some positive reinforcement helps. COVID-19 has given me a lot of anxiety in general, I haven't left the house except to grocery shop since March, and we've got some family members who take it a lot less seriously than we do and are asking us to go over fo...
But of course!
But of course! Tell me, what gold would you say you have reaped from this year? What goodness or strength have you discovered?
Others, Question
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My company is cutting salaries next year because of the pandemic, with potential for layoffs
4
1
5
5
Hi there Things are okay, a little bit of anxiety about my job, but good for the most part Yes, sure. I work in an industry heavily impacted by COVID-19, and my company has announced pay cuts as well as potential layoffs starting next year if things don't improve soon Thank you. Self care is going well, I make sure to ...
Well, spending a lot more time at home with my fiance has helped us grow closer. And I'm in very good physical shape because of all the walking, exercising , and self care, so that's good!
Go you! Sounds like you've really found some gifts in all this hardship. What are some things that have brought you joy today?
Go you! Sounds like you've really found some gifts in all this hardship. What are some things that have brought you joy today?
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job_crisis
My company is cutting salaries next year because of the pandemic, with potential for layoffs
4
1
5
5
Hi there Things are okay, a little bit of anxiety about my job, but good for the most part Yes, sure. I work in an industry heavily impacted by COVID-19, and my company has announced pay cuts as well as potential layoffs starting next year if things don't improve soon Thank you. Self care is going well, I make sure to ...
Haven't had much happen today, but I did make myself a great lunch. And my cooking skills have gotten a lot better during the pandemic! Thanks for the chat, I'm in a much better mood now than I was before!
Wonderful! If I'd have to put on a bow on it, I'd ask....What kind of person stays positive, grows closer to their partner, and takes care of themselves?
Wonderful! If I'd have to put on a bow on it, I'd ask....What kind of person stays positive, grows closer to their partner, and takes care of themselves?
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anxiety
job_crisis
My company is cutting salaries next year because of the pandemic, with potential for layoffs
4
1
5
5
Hi there Things are okay, a little bit of anxiety about my job, but good for the most part Yes, sure. I work in an industry heavily impacted by COVID-19, and my company has announced pay cuts as well as potential layoffs starting next year if things don't improve soon Thank you. Self care is going well, I make sure to ...
A strong one :)
Nailed it!
Nailed it!
Others
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problems_with_friends
My best friend of 5 years said they hated me.
5
1
5
5
I am feeling sad
why are you feeling sad?
why are you feeling sad?
Question
Question
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My best friend of 5 years said they hated me.
5
1
5
5
I am feeling sad
My friend of 5 years said that they hated me.
oh hate is such a strong word for your friend to use
oh hate is such a strong word for your friend to use
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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problems_with_friends
My best friend of 5 years said they hated me.
5
1
5
5
I am feeling sad My friend of 5 years said that they hated me.
Yes it was and I am dealing with family problems as well and she just told me she hated me with no reason.
oh that is quite a pile of conflict on you. you must be feeling emotionally overwhelmed
oh that is quite a pile of conflict on you. you must be feeling emotionally overwhelmed
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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problems_with_friends
My best friend of 5 years said they hated me.
5
1
5
5
I am feeling sad My friend of 5 years said that they hated me. Yes it was and I am dealing with family problems as well and she just told me she hated me with no reason.
I am, why would someone want to do something like this. I am not sure if it was brought on by her boyfriend or what but she was one of my best friends
the boyfriend could very well be the reason she is lashing out at you. maybe she is projecting her feelings toward her boyfriend onto you.
the boyfriend could very well be the reason she is lashing out at you. maybe she is projecting her feelings toward her boyfriend onto you. has she had problems with her boyfriend in the past
Restatement or Paraphrasing, Question
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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My best friend of 5 years said they hated me.
5
1
5
5
I am feeling sad My friend of 5 years said that they hated me. Yes it was and I am dealing with family problems as well and she just told me she hated me with no reason. I am, why would someone want to do something like this. I am not sure if it was brought on by her boyfriend or what but she was one of my best friends
I am sure but I just wish she would not have said that to me. This is a new boyfriend that she started dating about 6 months ago.
you're feeling a bit like a punching bag because she has chosen such strong words without a reason, right?
you're feeling a bit like a punching bag because she has chosen such strong words without a reason, right?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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problems_with_friends
My best friend of 5 years said they hated me.
5
1
5
5
I am feeling sad My friend of 5 years said that they hated me. Yes it was and I am dealing with family problems as well and she just told me she hated me with no reason. I am, why would someone want to do something like this. I am not sure if it was brought on by her boyfriend or what but she was one of my best friends...
Yes, and I am not sure how to react to what she said. Should I just leave her alone and let her come back around to me or reach out after a week or so?
has she ever spoken to u in this way before?
has she ever spoken to u in this way before? or similarly
Question, Others
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My best friend of 5 years said they hated me.
5
1
5
5
I am feeling sad My friend of 5 years said that they hated me. Yes it was and I am dealing with family problems as well and she just told me she hated me with no reason. I am, why would someone want to do something like this. I am not sure if it was brought on by her boyfriend or what but she was one of my best friends...
She never has that is what is weird to me and makes me thing it is something or someone else that caused her to want to say it.
A lot of times, people lash out in times when they are feeling stressed and the people closest to them can end up getting the brunt of it.
A lot of times, people lash out in times when they are feeling stressed and the people closest to them can end up getting the brunt of it.
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My best friend of 5 years said they hated me.
5
1
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I am feeling sad My friend of 5 years said that they hated me. Yes it was and I am dealing with family problems as well and she just told me she hated me with no reason. I am, why would someone want to do something like this. I am not sure if it was brought on by her boyfriend or what but she was one of my best friends...
That makes sense but I just wish I knew why she said it. Did I do something to her, did someone say something to her etc? Maybe I should just wait to talk to her when she needs me for something?
maybe you should let her know that you love her and say that you would never want to hurt her, so if you've hurt her, you'd like to know what you've done so you can avoid doing it in the future
maybe you should let her know that you love her and say that you would never want to hurt her, so if you've hurt her, you'd like to know what you've done so you can avoid doing it in the future
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My best friend of 5 years said they hated me.
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I am feeling sad My friend of 5 years said that they hated me. Yes it was and I am dealing with family problems as well and she just told me she hated me with no reason. I am, why would someone want to do something like this. I am not sure if it was brought on by her boyfriend or what but she was one of my best friends...
Thank you, that is really great advice.
but you have to make it clear that you cannot accept that kind of disrespect in the future if she can not come up with a reason for why she said it
but you have to make it clear that you cannot accept that kind of disrespect in the future if she can not come up with a reason for why she said it
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My best friend of 5 years said they hated me.
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I am feeling sad My friend of 5 years said that they hated me. Yes it was and I am dealing with family problems as well and she just told me she hated me with no reason. I am, why would someone want to do something like this. I am not sure if it was brought on by her boyfriend or what but she was one of my best friends...
Do you think I should do this sooner than later or just wait?
absolutely.
absolutely.
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My thesis is due tomorrow and we have to do an individual presentation about our topics. I feel prepared but I know one professor that knows she intimidates me. I am just a nervous wreck.
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I'm so stressed, my emotions and anxiety is through the roof
What do you think is the cause of that?
What do you think is the cause of that?
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