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I am divorced and my kids live most of time with my ex wife in another state. I do not know what to do when I am in the depressed mood I feel so down in the dumps thinking of my kids. My ex wife tells them lies about me saying I left them. I came to Tennessee when I found out my mom had cancer and I got out of the mili...
5
3
5
5
I am down feeling depressed I feel like the world is crashing down around me Thinking about my kids and wanting to be able to hug them and see them they are in a different state I have medications I take but I have so many different things going on I have PTSD, sleep apnea, and numerous other issues I suffer from as we...
I shutdown from everything and feel worthless sometimes
I understand that shut down feeling....I close right up when I am down
I understand that shut down feeling....I close right up when I am down
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Reflection of feelings
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I am divorced and my kids live most of time with my ex wife in another state. I do not know what to do when I am in the depressed mood I feel so down in the dumps thinking of my kids. My ex wife tells them lies about me saying I left them. I came to Tennessee when I found out my mom had cancer and I got out of the mili...
5
3
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I am down feeling depressed I feel like the world is crashing down around me Thinking about my kids and wanting to be able to hug them and see them they are in a different state I have medications I take but I have so many different things going on I have PTSD, sleep apnea, and numerous other issues I suffer from as we...
I hate to feel like that but I feel there is nothing I can do sometimes
Feeling worthless, uninterested in going out, those are symptoms of depression, they will pass
Feeling worthless, uninterested in going out, those are symptoms of depression, they will pass
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I am divorced and my kids live most of time with my ex wife in another state. I do not know what to do when I am in the depressed mood I feel so down in the dumps thinking of my kids. My ex wife tells them lies about me saying I left them. I came to Tennessee when I found out my mom had cancer and I got out of the mili...
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I am down feeling depressed I feel like the world is crashing down around me Thinking about my kids and wanting to be able to hug them and see them they are in a different state I have medications I take but I have so many different things going on I have PTSD, sleep apnea, and numerous other issues I suffer from as we...
I don't find fun in things I used to do that was fun I feel so separated from people my parents both are gone now too
Lack of interest in things is also a symptom of depression. Once your depression lifts it will come back. I'll tell you what helped me when I was depresed...
Lack of interest in things is also a symptom of depression. Once your depression lifts it will come back. I'll tell you what helped me when I was depresed...
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Information
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depression
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I am divorced and my kids live most of time with my ex wife in another state. I do not know what to do when I am in the depressed mood I feel so down in the dumps thinking of my kids. My ex wife tells them lies about me saying I left them. I came to Tennessee when I found out my mom had cancer and I got out of the mili...
5
3
5
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I am down feeling depressed I feel like the world is crashing down around me Thinking about my kids and wanting to be able to hug them and see them they are in a different state I have medications I take but I have so many different things going on I have PTSD, sleep apnea, and numerous other issues I suffer from as we...
My dad passed away 24 years ago and my mom passed away last easter too what helped you?
I was taught to make very small goals. For example, I found it hard to go out for a walk, even though I knew it would help my depression. (Exercise has been shown to be as effective as antidpressants) So I was told, just walk around the block. If that's too much, walk to the corner. If that's too much, walk to the end ...
I was taught to make very small goals. For example, I found it hard to go out for a walk, even though I knew it would help my depression. (Exercise has been shown to be as effective as antidpressants) So I was told, just walk around the block. If that's too much, walk to the corner. If that's too much, walk to the end ...
Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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depression
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I am divorced and my kids live most of time with my ex wife in another state. I do not know what to do when I am in the depressed mood I feel so down in the dumps thinking of my kids. My ex wife tells them lies about me saying I left them. I came to Tennessee when I found out my mom had cancer and I got out of the mili...
5
3
5
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I am down feeling depressed I feel like the world is crashing down around me Thinking about my kids and wanting to be able to hug them and see them they are in a different state I have medications I take but I have so many different things going on I have PTSD, sleep apnea, and numerous other issues I suffer from as we...
I would like to know because I don't like the feeling of depression and anxiety not being able to sleep
Ultimately, my last depression it was getting my covid shot that helped most....lifted a bunch of fear and anxiety and restored my hope.
Ultimately, my last depression it was getting my covid shot that helped most....lifted a bunch of fear and anxiety and restored my hope. Does your specialist know you are this down?
Self-disclosure, Question
Self-disclosure
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depression
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I am divorced and my kids live most of time with my ex wife in another state. I do not know what to do when I am in the depressed mood I feel so down in the dumps thinking of my kids. My ex wife tells them lies about me saying I left them. I came to Tennessee when I found out my mom had cancer and I got out of the mili...
5
3
5
5
I am down feeling depressed I feel like the world is crashing down around me Thinking about my kids and wanting to be able to hug them and see them they are in a different state I have medications I take but I have so many different things going on I have PTSD, sleep apnea, and numerous other issues I suffer from as we...
I try to go out and walk my wife likes to go outside so I try to do that but I still feel so down and I don't like how I feel I have become I get angry all the time too I feel like Yes my specialist knows and I have appointments with them more often
And losing your mum last Easter, you are probably still dealing with grief on top of everything else. My parents are gone too, grief can be a long process. Grief is tough. That will get easier with time.
And losing your mum last Easter, you are probably still dealing with grief on top of everything else. My parents are gone too, grief can be a long process. Grief is tough. That will get easier with time.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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depression
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I am divorced and my kids live most of time with my ex wife in another state. I do not know what to do when I am in the depressed mood I feel so down in the dumps thinking of my kids. My ex wife tells them lies about me saying I left them. I came to Tennessee when I found out my mom had cancer and I got out of the mili...
5
3
5
5
I am down feeling depressed I feel like the world is crashing down around me Thinking about my kids and wanting to be able to hug them and see them they are in a different state I have medications I take but I have so many different things going on I have PTSD, sleep apnea, and numerous other issues I suffer from as we...
My meds I take have been increased and I hate to just take meds to try to help
The thing is though, depression is an illness. Would you take meds for another sort of illness, something physical?
The thing is though, depression is an illness. Would you take meds for another sort of illness, something physical?
Information
Information
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depression
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I am divorced and my kids live most of time with my ex wife in another state. I do not know what to do when I am in the depressed mood I feel so down in the dumps thinking of my kids. My ex wife tells them lies about me saying I left them. I came to Tennessee when I found out my mom had cancer and I got out of the mili...
5
3
5
5
I am down feeling depressed I feel like the world is crashing down around me Thinking about my kids and wanting to be able to hug them and see them they are in a different state I have medications I take but I have so many different things going on I have PTSD, sleep apnea, and numerous other issues I suffer from as we...
It has been 24 years since my dad has passed away and he was my best friend and I still hurt everyday
That is hard, I'm sorry you are hurting
That is hard, I'm sorry you are hurting Have you tried writing down your thoughts and feelings in a journal?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions
Affirmation and Reassurance
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depression
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I am divorced and my kids live most of time with my ex wife in another state. I do not know what to do when I am in the depressed mood I feel so down in the dumps thinking of my kids. My ex wife tells them lies about me saying I left them. I came to Tennessee when I found out my mom had cancer and I got out of the mili...
5
3
5
5
I am down feeling depressed I feel like the world is crashing down around me Thinking about my kids and wanting to be able to hug them and see them they are in a different state I have medications I take but I have so many different things going on I have PTSD, sleep apnea, and numerous other issues I suffer from as we...
I know and I try to get out but after I retired from military I still have thoughts about all that I seen there too and I hate that
okay so the PTSD is related to time in the military?
okay so the PTSD is related to time in the military?
Question
Question
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depression
issues_with_children
I am divorced and my kids live most of time with my ex wife in another state. I do not know what to do when I am in the depressed mood I feel so down in the dumps thinking of my kids. My ex wife tells them lies about me saying I left them. I came to Tennessee when I found out my mom had cancer and I got out of the mili...
5
3
5
5
I am down feeling depressed I feel like the world is crashing down around me Thinking about my kids and wanting to be able to hug them and see them they are in a different state I have medications I take but I have so many different things going on I have PTSD, sleep apnea, and numerous other issues I suffer from as we...
I don't like to tell everyone about that because I feel like I am bringing everyone down saying that too Yes the PTSD is from the military time
Are there any veterans groups in your area that help with that?
Are there any veterans groups in your area that help with that? Maybe connecting with others "in the same boat" would help
Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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depression
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I am divorced and my kids live most of time with my ex wife in another state. I do not know what to do when I am in the depressed mood I feel so down in the dumps thinking of my kids. My ex wife tells them lies about me saying I left them. I came to Tennessee when I found out my mom had cancer and I got out of the mili...
5
3
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I am down feeling depressed I feel like the world is crashing down around me Thinking about my kids and wanting to be able to hug them and see them they are in a different state I have medications I take but I have so many different things going on I have PTSD, sleep apnea, and numerous other issues I suffer from as we...
I am not sure but I don't like to be in big groups either
Or maybe there is a way online you could do that, virtual meetings, since you find it hard to get out. Could you handle a zoom group meeting?
Or maybe there is a way online you could do that, virtual meetings, since you find it hard to get out. Could you handle a zoom group meeting?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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depression
issues_with_children
I am divorced and my kids live most of time with my ex wife in another state. I do not know what to do when I am in the depressed mood I feel so down in the dumps thinking of my kids. My ex wife tells them lies about me saying I left them. I came to Tennessee when I found out my mom had cancer and I got out of the mili...
5
3
5
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I am down feeling depressed I feel like the world is crashing down around me Thinking about my kids and wanting to be able to hug them and see them they are in a different state I have medications I take but I have so many different things going on I have PTSD, sleep apnea, and numerous other issues I suffer from as we...
I get easily startled now too when I am outside I always feel like someone is coming close to me and no one is there
I attend zoom group meetings for my mental health. They have helped.
I attend zoom group meetings for my mental health. They have helped.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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depression
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I am divorced and my kids live most of time with my ex wife in another state. I do not know what to do when I am in the depressed mood I feel so down in the dumps thinking of my kids. My ex wife tells them lies about me saying I left them. I came to Tennessee when I found out my mom had cancer and I got out of the mili...
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3
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I am down feeling depressed I feel like the world is crashing down around me Thinking about my kids and wanting to be able to hug them and see them they are in a different state I have medications I take but I have so many different things going on I have PTSD, sleep apnea, and numerous other issues I suffer from as we...
I am not sure about that I feel ashamed a lot too about the way I feel
You are going through a lot, but you are stronger than you feel, I know you can get through this. Things will get easier.
You are going through a lot, but you are stronger than you feel, I know you can get through this. Things will get easier.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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depression
issues_with_children
I am divorced and my kids live most of time with my ex wife in another state. I do not know what to do when I am in the depressed mood I feel so down in the dumps thinking of my kids. My ex wife tells them lies about me saying I left them. I came to Tennessee when I found out my mom had cancer and I got out of the mili...
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I am down feeling depressed I feel like the world is crashing down around me Thinking about my kids and wanting to be able to hug them and see them they are in a different state I have medications I take but I have so many different things going on I have PTSD, sleep apnea, and numerous other issues I suffer from as we...
I don't think people should feel the way I do and I don't understand my feelings either
Have you done any research online about PTSD....perhaps your veteran organization has resources on their website
Have you done any research online about PTSD....perhaps your veteran organization has resources on their website
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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depression
issues_with_children
I am divorced and my kids live most of time with my ex wife in another state. I do not know what to do when I am in the depressed mood I feel so down in the dumps thinking of my kids. My ex wife tells them lies about me saying I left them. I came to Tennessee when I found out my mom had cancer and I got out of the mili...
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3
5
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I am down feeling depressed I feel like the world is crashing down around me Thinking about my kids and wanting to be able to hug them and see them they are in a different state I have medications I take but I have so many different things going on I have PTSD, sleep apnea, and numerous other issues I suffer from as we...
I truly hope so because I feel like I am against a wall sometimes too with my thoughts and feelings
That is so hard, I hear you
That is so hard, I hear you
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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neutral
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depression
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I am divorced and my kids live most of time with my ex wife in another state. I do not know what to do when I am in the depressed mood I feel so down in the dumps thinking of my kids. My ex wife tells them lies about me saying I left them. I came to Tennessee when I found out my mom had cancer and I got out of the mili...
5
3
5
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I am down feeling depressed I feel like the world is crashing down around me Thinking about my kids and wanting to be able to hug them and see them they are in a different state I have medications I take but I have so many different things going on I have PTSD, sleep apnea, and numerous other issues I suffer from as we...
I have not done a lot of research but I need to try that
Research is something solitary you can do
Research is something solitary you can do
Information
Information
8,290
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depression
issues_with_children
I am divorced and my kids live most of time with my ex wife in another state. I do not know what to do when I am in the depressed mood I feel so down in the dumps thinking of my kids. My ex wife tells them lies about me saying I left them. I came to Tennessee when I found out my mom had cancer and I got out of the mili...
5
3
5
5
I am down feeling depressed I feel like the world is crashing down around me Thinking about my kids and wanting to be able to hug them and see them they are in a different state I have medications I take but I have so many different things going on I have PTSD, sleep apnea, and numerous other issues I suffer from as we...
I feel like I am complaining to people too and that bothers me too because I am not
Whereabouts do you live?
Whereabouts do you live?
Question
Question
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depression
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I am divorced and my kids live most of time with my ex wife in another state. I do not know what to do when I am in the depressed mood I feel so down in the dumps thinking of my kids. My ex wife tells them lies about me saying I left them. I came to Tennessee when I found out my mom had cancer and I got out of the mili...
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3
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5
I am down feeling depressed I feel like the world is crashing down around me Thinking about my kids and wanting to be able to hug them and see them they are in a different state I have medications I take but I have so many different things going on I have PTSD, sleep apnea, and numerous other issues I suffer from as we...
I live in southern Tennessee
Well you are being honest. Some people will be able to handle that, some won't, but either way it takes courage to communicate how badly you feel.
Well you are being honest. Some people will be able to handle that, some won't, but either way it takes courage to communicate how badly you feel.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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depression
issues_with_children
I am divorced and my kids live most of time with my ex wife in another state. I do not know what to do when I am in the depressed mood I feel so down in the dumps thinking of my kids. My ex wife tells them lies about me saying I left them. I came to Tennessee when I found out my mom had cancer and I got out of the mili...
5
3
5
5
I am down feeling depressed I feel like the world is crashing down around me Thinking about my kids and wanting to be able to hug them and see them they are in a different state I have medications I take but I have so many different things going on I have PTSD, sleep apnea, and numerous other issues I suffer from as we...
I am with the VA now they get all my appointments for me I truly feel like my back is against the wall and I have never been that way I used to have fun
ok good. I see online that Tennessee Dept of Veterans lists some mental health resources
ok good. I see online that Tennessee Dept of Veterans lists some mental health resources
Information
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depression
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I am divorced and my kids live most of time with my ex wife in another state. I do not know what to do when I am in the depressed mood I feel so down in the dumps thinking of my kids. My ex wife tells them lies about me saying I left them. I came to Tennessee when I found out my mom had cancer and I got out of the mili...
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I am down feeling depressed I feel like the world is crashing down around me Thinking about my kids and wanting to be able to hug them and see them they are in a different state I have medications I take but I have so many different things going on I have PTSD, sleep apnea, and numerous other issues I suffer from as we...
I go to see one of my specialists tomorrow actually VA
You will have fun again. Your feelings are due to depression, you will get through it, it will lift.
You will have fun again. Your feelings are due to depression, you will get through it, it will lift.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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depression
issues_with_children
I am divorced and my kids live most of time with my ex wife in another state. I do not know what to do when I am in the depressed mood I feel so down in the dumps thinking of my kids. My ex wife tells them lies about me saying I left them. I came to Tennessee when I found out my mom had cancer and I got out of the mili...
5
3
5
5
I am down feeling depressed I feel like the world is crashing down around me Thinking about my kids and wanting to be able to hug them and see them they are in a different state I have medications I take but I have so many different things going on I have PTSD, sleep apnea, and numerous other issues I suffer from as we...
I really appreciate you listening to me You are very kind to listen and try to make things better
Good. Be honest and open with your specialist please? That's important. It's a pleasure listening to you, you're welcome
Good. Be honest and open with your specialist please? That's important. It's a pleasure listening to you, you're welcome
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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depression
issues_with_children
I am divorced and my kids live most of time with my ex wife in another state. I do not know what to do when I am in the depressed mood I feel so down in the dumps thinking of my kids. My ex wife tells them lies about me saying I left them. I came to Tennessee when I found out my mom had cancer and I got out of the mili...
5
3
5
5
I am down feeling depressed I feel like the world is crashing down around me Thinking about my kids and wanting to be able to hug them and see them they are in a different state I have medications I take but I have so many different things going on I have PTSD, sleep apnea, and numerous other issues I suffer from as we...
I hope you are right and someday these feelings do go
Aw thank you for the compliment
Aw thank you for the compliment
Others
Others
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depression
issues_with_children
I am divorced and my kids live most of time with my ex wife in another state. I do not know what to do when I am in the depressed mood I feel so down in the dumps thinking of my kids. My ex wife tells them lies about me saying I left them. I came to Tennessee when I found out my mom had cancer and I got out of the mili...
5
3
5
5
I am down feeling depressed I feel like the world is crashing down around me Thinking about my kids and wanting to be able to hug them and see them they are in a different state I have medications I take but I have so many different things going on I have PTSD, sleep apnea, and numerous other issues I suffer from as we...
I hope you have a great rest of your day and thank you so much for the kindness
Honestly, I have been ill with depression several times, and have felt hopeless...and it always lifted
Honestly, I have been ill with depression several times, and have felt hopeless...and it always lifted You're so welcome. Feel better soon.
Self-disclosure, Others
Self-disclosure
8,297
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depression
issues_with_children
I am divorced and my kids live most of time with my ex wife in another state. I do not know what to do when I am in the depressed mood I feel so down in the dumps thinking of my kids. My ex wife tells them lies about me saying I left them. I came to Tennessee when I found out my mom had cancer and I got out of the mili...
5
3
5
5
I am down feeling depressed I feel like the world is crashing down around me Thinking about my kids and wanting to be able to hug them and see them they are in a different state I have medications I take but I have so many different things going on I have PTSD, sleep apnea, and numerous other issues I suffer from as we...
Thank you
And don't give up!!!
And don't give up!!!
Others
Others
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angry
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38
depression
issues_with_children
I am divorced and my kids live most of time with my ex wife in another state. I do not know what to do when I am in the depressed mood I feel so down in the dumps thinking of my kids. My ex wife tells them lies about me saying I left them. I came to Tennessee when I found out my mom had cancer and I got out of the mili...
5
3
5
5
I am down feeling depressed I feel like the world is crashing down around me Thinking about my kids and wanting to be able to hug them and see them they are in a different state I have medications I take but I have so many different things going on I have PTSD, sleep apnea, and numerous other issues I suffer from as we...
I am trying not too but that is the hard part I feel alone a lot I understand I am not but that is how I feel Bye for now and thank you again
You have your wife and kids you are not alone :) Bye take care, things will get better.
You have your wife and kids you are not alone :) Bye take care, things will get better. If you hit the quit button it will end the session :)
Others, Others
Others
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depression
breakup_with_partner
My marriage of 10 years is currently failing.
4
3
4
5
Hello
How are you today?
How are you today?
Question
Question
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depression
breakup_with_partner
My marriage of 10 years is currently failing.
4
3
4
5
Hello
Really bad. My 10 year marriage is failing. Things have not gotten better.
What happened?
What happened?
Question
Question
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depression
breakup_with_partner
My marriage of 10 years is currently failing.
4
3
4
5
Hello Really bad. My 10 year marriage is failing. Things have not gotten better.
That's the thing. Nothing really happened. No cheating, drugs, or abuse. I suppose the euphoria has worn off, and she just doesn't find me interesting anymore.
I understand how you feel. Have you guys tried spending more time with each other? Maybe going out on dates?
I understand how you feel. Have you guys tried spending more time with each other? Maybe going out on dates?
Information
Information
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703
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depression
breakup_with_partner
My marriage of 10 years is currently failing.
4
3
4
5
Hello Really bad. My 10 year marriage is failing. Things have not gotten better. That's the thing. Nothing really happened. No cheating, drugs, or abuse. I suppose the euphoria has worn off, and she just doesn't find me interesting anymore.
Maybe we haven't done this enough in the past. We both had busy careers. I tried initiating this last year, but without success. Maybe, I was too late.
Its never too late to put spice back into the relationship.
Its never too late to put spice back into the relationship.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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depression
breakup_with_partner
My marriage of 10 years is currently failing.
4
3
4
5
Hello Really bad. My 10 year marriage is failing. Things have not gotten better. That's the thing. Nothing really happened. No cheating, drugs, or abuse. I suppose the euphoria has worn off, and she just doesn't find me interesting anymore. Maybe we haven't done this enough in the past. We both had busy careers. I trie...
I hope you're right. Do you have other suggestions about how to do so?
Show her that your still love because by being spontaneous. Surprise her with gifts. Maybe take her on a random vacation somewhere. Have a deep conversation about how you are feeling and that you still love her and want her in your life.
Show her that your still love because by being spontaneous. Surprise her with gifts. Maybe take her on a random vacation somewhere. Have a deep conversation about how you are feeling and that you still love her and want her in your life. It might take a little bit but its better to try than not to try at all.
Information, Information
Information
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6
depression
breakup_with_partner
My marriage of 10 years is currently failing.
4
3
4
5
Hello Really bad. My 10 year marriage is failing. Things have not gotten better. That's the thing. Nothing really happened. No cheating, drugs, or abuse. I suppose the euphoria has worn off, and she just doesn't find me interesting anymore. Maybe we haven't done this enough in the past. We both had busy careers. I trie...
I think your suggestions are very helpful. A vacation is currently out of the picture due to COVID. I want to try having deep conversations, but I don't know where to start.
Start by talking about whats going on. Tell her how you think you guys should spend more time with her. Or that you dont want to lose her. Ask her if there is anything she might want to discuss. She maybe having issues shes afraid to talk about.
Start by talking about whats going on. Tell her how you think you guys should spend more time with her. Or that you dont want to lose her. Ask her if there is anything she might want to discuss. She maybe having issues shes afraid to talk about.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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703
7
depression
breakup_with_partner
My marriage of 10 years is currently failing.
4
3
4
5
Hello Really bad. My 10 year marriage is failing. Things have not gotten better. That's the thing. Nothing really happened. No cheating, drugs, or abuse. I suppose the euphoria has worn off, and she just doesn't find me interesting anymore. Maybe we haven't done this enough in the past. We both had busy careers. I trie...
I think you hit upon something. She is quite hesitant in talking about issues. Do you have any thoughts about marriage counselling? We've never tried that.
I think that would be a good idea. Having the chance to get things out and getting more advice is always helpful. Make sure you leave any issues at common ground.
I think that would be a good idea. Having the chance to get things out and getting more advice is always helpful. Make sure you leave any issues at common ground.
Information
Information
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neutral
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703
8
depression
breakup_with_partner
My marriage of 10 years is currently failing.
4
3
4
5
Hello Really bad. My 10 year marriage is failing. Things have not gotten better. That's the thing. Nothing really happened. No cheating, drugs, or abuse. I suppose the euphoria has worn off, and she just doesn't find me interesting anymore. Maybe we haven't done this enough in the past. We both had busy careers. I trie...
If my wife is the one having issues with conversations, do you think a male or female therapist/counsellor would be better? I want her to feel comfortable expressing herself.
Most likely a female therapist would be better. Nobody understands a woman more than a woman.
Most likely a female therapist would be better. Nobody understands a woman more than a woman.
Information
Information
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703
9
depression
breakup_with_partner
My marriage of 10 years is currently failing.
4
3
4
5
Hello Really bad. My 10 year marriage is failing. Things have not gotten better. That's the thing. Nothing really happened. No cheating, drugs, or abuse. I suppose the euphoria has worn off, and she just doesn't find me interesting anymore. Maybe we haven't done this enough in the past. We both had busy careers. I trie...
I think that sounds like a safer choice. I was also hoping if you have suggestions for me personally. I am quite depressed and I am having problems getting through the day.
I suggest taking one step at a time. I wouldn't rush through things. I would suggest sitting down and talking through some things that are going on. Maybe taking some time away from work. Going out and spending time with each other as much as you can.
I suggest taking one step at a time. I wouldn't rush through things. I would suggest sitting down and talking through some things that are going on. Maybe taking some time away from work. Going out and spending time with each other as much as you can. If you guys think you may need a marriage counselor, I highly recomm...
Providing Suggestions, Information
Providing Suggestions
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depression
breakup_with_partner
My marriage of 10 years is currently failing.
4
3
4
5
Hello Really bad. My 10 year marriage is failing. Things have not gotten better. That's the thing. Nothing really happened. No cheating, drugs, or abuse. I suppose the euphoria has worn off, and she just doesn't find me interesting anymore. Maybe we haven't done this enough in the past. We both had busy careers. I trie...
Thank you very much for your response. You have been very helpful. Perhaps, one last question - my wife and I have been hiding our problems away from our teen-age son. Do you agree that we should continue to keep it from him?
Depending on the nature, I think you should let him know whats going on. He may already know.
Depending on the nature, I think you should let him know whats going on. He may already know.
Information
Information
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703
11
depression
breakup_with_partner
My marriage of 10 years is currently failing.
4
3
4
5
Hello Really bad. My 10 year marriage is failing. Things have not gotten better. That's the thing. Nothing really happened. No cheating, drugs, or abuse. I suppose the euphoria has worn off, and she just doesn't find me interesting anymore. Maybe we haven't done this enough in the past. We both had busy careers. I trie...
Ok, thanks for all your help again. I feel much better now, and hopefully I will get through this.
I know its really hard, but I think you guys with work things out. Have hope. Times are stressful, especially in this day and age.
I know its really hard, but I think you guys with work things out. Have hope. Times are stressful, especially in this day and age.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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12
depression
breakup_with_partner
My marriage of 10 years is currently failing.
4
3
4
5
Hello Really bad. My 10 year marriage is failing. Things have not gotten better. That's the thing. Nothing really happened. No cheating, drugs, or abuse. I suppose the euphoria has worn off, and she just doesn't find me interesting anymore. Maybe we haven't done this enough in the past. We both had busy careers. I trie...
Take care, friend, good-bye
goodbye
goodbye
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1
anger
job_crisis
My Board of Directors is going around me to my staff.
4
3
4
4
My board is going around me to my staff and I am frustrated. And angry!
I'm sorry to hear that. Would you like to tell me more?
I'm sorry to hear that. Would you like to tell me more?
Question
Question
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2
anger
job_crisis
My Board of Directors is going around me to my staff.
4
3
4
4
My board is going around me to my staff and I am frustrated. And angry!
My supervisor left and she reported to the board. Now we report to them. They said they would just go to us and not them. Now the board is going around us (me and my coworker).
I could understand how that could make you very angry, I would be too.
I could understand how that could make you very angry, I would be too.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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0.000074
0.019674
0.003342
0.000841
708
3
anger
job_crisis
My Board of Directors is going around me to my staff.
4
3
4
4
My board is going around me to my staff and I am frustrated. And angry! My supervisor left and she reported to the board. Now we report to them. They said they would just go to us and not them. Now the board is going around us (me and my coworker).
Have you ever ran into something like that before?
I have not, it sounds like a very bad situation. Is there anyone you can report this to at the company?
I have not, it sounds like a very bad situation. Is there anyone you can report this to at the company?
Question
Question
8,357
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4
anger
job_crisis
My Board of Directors is going around me to my staff.
4
3
4
4
My board is going around me to my staff and I am frustrated. And angry! My supervisor left and she reported to the board. Now we report to them. They said they would just go to us and not them. Now the board is going around us (me and my coworker). Have you ever ran into something like that before?
Not really. My coworker and I can complain but that can only go so far. I need to detach and do the work but my ego is hurt.
It sounds like you are working in a toxic work environment with poor leadership. Have you considered possibly seeking another job? Or maybe another company?
It sounds like you are working in a toxic work environment with poor leadership. Have you considered possibly seeking another job? Or maybe another company?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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anger
job_crisis
My Board of Directors is going around me to my staff.
4
3
4
4
My board is going around me to my staff and I am frustrated. And angry! My supervisor left and she reported to the board. Now we report to them. They said they would just go to us and not them. Now the board is going around us (me and my coworker). Have you ever ran into something like that before? Not really. My cowor...
Not really. This just started happening last week. I'm still trying to get a better idea on how to deal with this.
I understand. What do you think about having a conversation with the board and let them know the issues you are having? You could have your coworker back you up.
I understand. What do you think about having a conversation with the board and let them know the issues you are having? You could have your coworker back you up.
Others
Others
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anger
job_crisis
My Board of Directors is going around me to my staff.
4
3
4
4
My board is going around me to my staff and I am frustrated. And angry! My supervisor left and she reported to the board. Now we report to them. They said they would just go to us and not them. Now the board is going around us (me and my coworker). Have you ever ran into something like that before? Not really. My cowor...
I think that is how I am going to respond. I am also hearing this from my staff, which may be part of the problem. I am trying not to let my ego get involved but it is hard.
It sounds like you take a lot of pride in your job which is very amiable. I think confronting the board is the best way to go about this.
It sounds like you take a lot of pride in your job which is very amiable. I think confronting the board is the best way to go about this.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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anger
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My Board of Directors is going around me to my staff.
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3
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4
My board is going around me to my staff and I am frustrated. And angry! My supervisor left and she reported to the board. Now we report to them. They said they would just go to us and not them. Now the board is going around us (me and my coworker). Have you ever ran into something like that before? Not really. My cowor...
I am worried that I will not be received well. Should I be?
It's very possible, but I think you will be commended amongst your peers. You owe it to yourself not to be walked all over.
It's very possible, but I think you will be commended amongst your peers. You owe it to yourself not to be walked all over.
Others
Others
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anger
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My Board of Directors is going around me to my staff.
4
3
4
4
My board is going around me to my staff and I am frustrated. And angry! My supervisor left and she reported to the board. Now we report to them. They said they would just go to us and not them. Now the board is going around us (me and my coworker). Have you ever ran into something like that before? Not really. My cowor...
That's true... I need that at least.
And who knows maybe the board will appreciate you coming to them, it shows great strength.
And who knows maybe the board will appreciate you coming to them, it shows great strength.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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anger
job_crisis
My Board of Directors is going around me to my staff.
4
3
4
4
My board is going around me to my staff and I am frustrated. And angry! My supervisor left and she reported to the board. Now we report to them. They said they would just go to us and not them. Now the board is going around us (me and my coworker). Have you ever ran into something like that before? Not really. My cowor...
I hope so my last two days were pretty upsetting. Thanks for your help.
You're very welcome, was there anything else you wanted to discuss?
You're very welcome, was there anything else you wanted to discuss?
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My Board of Directors is going around me to my staff.
4
3
4
4
My board is going around me to my staff and I am frustrated. And angry! My supervisor left and she reported to the board. Now we report to them. They said they would just go to us and not them. Now the board is going around us (me and my coworker). Have you ever ran into something like that before? Not really. My cowor...
No, that's all.
Okay I hope I was able to help, good luck!
Okay I hope I was able to help, good luck!
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I'm worried about being perfect on my job.
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I am worried about being perfect on my job. I don't want to lose my job.
I hear you are trying to be perfect on your job because you are worried about losing your job. How long have you been at your job?
I hear you are trying to be perfect on your job because you are worried about losing your job. How long have you been at your job?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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I'm worried about being perfect on my job.
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I am worried about being perfect on my job. I don't want to lose my job.
I have been working for about 4 months, but I just am not as fast at it as everyone else. I'm trying so hard working late and everything but it's never enough.
That can be hard when you are working so hard to try to do your best. Can you consult with a supervisor or co-workers to get some help?
That can be hard when you are working so hard to try to do your best. Can you consult with a supervisor or co-workers to get some help?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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I'm worried about being perfect on my job.
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1
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5
I am worried about being perfect on my job. I don't want to lose my job. I have been working for about 4 months, but I just am not as fast at it as everyone else. I'm trying so hard working late and everything but it's never enough.
Maybe I could ask my friend and co-worker for some tips. I'm a little embarrassed to do so, but don't know where to turn. I don't want to get fired.
Asking for help isn't always a bad thing. I asked for help at my last job and they gave me someone to help out. I was so relieved.
Asking for help isn't always a bad thing. I asked for help at my last job and they gave me someone to help out. I was so relieved.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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I'm worried about being perfect on my job.
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I am worried about being perfect on my job. I don't want to lose my job. I have been working for about 4 months, but I just am not as fast at it as everyone else. I'm trying so hard working late and everything but it's never enough. Maybe I could ask my friend and co-worker for some tips. I'm a little embarrassed to do...
That's true maybe it could turn out for the better. But what if they see me as incompetant?
I can see that you have worry of being seen incompetent but as long as you are doing your best, they have to see the efforts you are making as positive.
I can see that you have worry of being seen incompetent but as long as you are doing your best, they have to see the efforts you are making as positive.
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Reflection of feelings
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I'm worried about being perfect on my job.
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I am worried about being perfect on my job. I don't want to lose my job. I have been working for about 4 months, but I just am not as fast at it as everyone else. I'm trying so hard working late and everything but it's never enough. Maybe I could ask my friend and co-worker for some tips. I'm a little embarrassed to do...
That's a good way to put it.
Sometimes deep breaths can help keep you calm when approaching others in an anxiety provoking situation.
Sometimes deep breaths can help keep you calm when approaching others in an anxiety provoking situation.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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I'm worried about being perfect on my job.
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I am worried about being perfect on my job. I don't want to lose my job. I have been working for about 4 months, but I just am not as fast at it as everyone else. I'm trying so hard working late and everything but it's never enough. Maybe I could ask my friend and co-worker for some tips. I'm a little embarrassed to do...
I will have to try that. That might help.
Have you thought of doing additional work related trainings? Sometimes they can give suggestions to improve work abilities.
Have you thought of doing additional work related trainings? Sometimes they can give suggestions to improve work abilities.
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I'm worried about being perfect on my job.
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I am worried about being perfect on my job. I don't want to lose my job. I have been working for about 4 months, but I just am not as fast at it as everyone else. I'm trying so hard working late and everything but it's never enough. Maybe I could ask my friend and co-worker for some tips. I'm a little embarrassed to do...
That sounds great. Do you think my work would be supportive?
Work can often pay for trainings or offer suggestions what may improve work strategies.
Work can often pay for trainings or offer suggestions what may improve work strategies.
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I'm worried about being perfect on my job.
5
1
5
5
I am worried about being perfect on my job. I don't want to lose my job. I have been working for about 4 months, but I just am not as fast at it as everyone else. I'm trying so hard working late and everything but it's never enough. Maybe I could ask my friend and co-worker for some tips. I'm a little embarrassed to do...
Wow, I hope I can take advantage of that. I will have to check into that. Who should I approach at work?
You could ask your immediate supervisor or sometimes Human resources for support.
You could ask your immediate supervisor or sometimes Human resources for support.
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I'm worried about being perfect on my job.
5
1
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I am worried about being perfect on my job. I don't want to lose my job. I have been working for about 4 months, but I just am not as fast at it as everyone else. I'm trying so hard working late and everything but it's never enough. Maybe I could ask my friend and co-worker for some tips. I'm a little embarrassed to do...
I can do that. I think I'll reach out tomorrow to Human Resources for some help.
That sounds like a good plan to reach out for support. Is there anything else I can help with?
That sounds like a good plan to reach out for support. Is there anything else I can help with?
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I'm worried about being perfect on my job.
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I am worried about being perfect on my job. I don't want to lose my job. I have been working for about 4 months, but I just am not as fast at it as everyone else. I'm trying so hard working late and everything but it's never enough. Maybe I could ask my friend and co-worker for some tips. I'm a little embarrassed to do...
No that should be all. I am feeling more confident in strategies to use to help me. Thanks
You are very welcome.
You are very welcome.
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I am just starting school & i feel like i not smart enough to graduate
3
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i just started school and i dont feel that i am good enough
Congratulation on starting school! That is a huge accomplishment. Tell me more about how you're feeling.
Congratulation on starting school! That is a huge accomplishment. Tell me more about how you're feeling.
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I am just starting school & i feel like i not smart enough to graduate
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i just started school and i dont feel that i am good enough
Its been so long since i have attended school. I barley graduated high school I dont feel i am cut out for college
It sounds like you are a little apprehensive about attending school because you have not done it in awhile. Is this accurate?
It sounds like you are a little apprehensive about attending school because you have not done it in awhile. Is this accurate?
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I am just starting school & i feel like i not smart enough to graduate
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i just started school and i dont feel that i am good enough Its been so long since i have attended school. I barley graduated high school I dont feel i am cut out for college
yes
I can definitely understand that. I remember feeling a certain way when I pursued another degree. What would make you feel a bit more confident about the idea of school?
I can definitely understand that. I remember feeling a certain way when I pursued another degree. What would make you feel a bit more confident about the idea of school?
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I am just starting school & i feel like i not smart enough to graduate
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i just started school and i dont feel that i am good enough Its been so long since i have attended school. I barley graduated high school I dont feel i am cut out for college yes
I dont know to be honest
It is certainly okay to feel nervous about it. This is a big step and a life-changing experience. You should be proud of taking that first step!
It is certainly okay to feel nervous about it. This is a big step and a life-changing experience. You should be proud of taking that first step! What excites you about starting school?
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I am just starting school & i feel like i not smart enough to graduate
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i just started school and i dont feel that i am good enough Its been so long since i have attended school. I barley graduated high school I dont feel i am cut out for college yes I dont know to be honest
Thank you! Im excited for the high paying jobs i can get once i graduate. also i chose a field that will allow me to work from home. I will be able to support my family without having to leave them!
That sure is exciting!
That sure is exciting! There are many ways to prepare for starting school. For me, becoming more organized helped me in preparation for school. What are some things that come to mind that would help you mentally prepare for this event?
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I am just starting school & i feel like i not smart enough to graduate
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i just started school and i dont feel that i am good enough Its been so long since i have attended school. I barley graduated high school I dont feel i am cut out for college yes I dont know to be honest Thank you! Im excited for the high paying jobs i can get once i graduate. also i chose a field that will allow me to...
breathing techniques come to mind. you have helped me identify that it is simply just anxiety and i can better handle it now. thank you! I feel so much better and more confident!
Wonderful idea! Meditation and deep breathing have proven to be extremely effective. I'm so glad this has helped! How do you see yourself fitting in the breathing techniques this week?
Wonderful idea! Meditation and deep breathing have proven to be extremely effective. I'm so glad this has helped! How do you see yourself fitting in the breathing techniques this week?
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I am just starting school & i feel like i not smart enough to graduate
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i just started school and i dont feel that i am good enough Its been so long since i have attended school. I barley graduated high school I dont feel i am cut out for college yes I dont know to be honest Thank you! Im excited for the high paying jobs i can get once i graduate. also i chose a field that will allow me to...
i will do the techniques before each class. That way i have a clear & open mind!
I love it!
I love it!
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I am just starting school & i feel like i not smart enough to graduate
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i just started school and i dont feel that i am good enough Its been so long since i have attended school. I barley graduated high school I dont feel i am cut out for college yes I dont know to be honest Thank you! Im excited for the high paying jobs i can get once i graduate. also i chose a field that will allow me to...
Well Its lunch time for my kids, i guess that concludes this conversation! Happy holidays!
Best of luck to you! I think the consistent routine with breathing techniques is a great strategy.
Best of luck to you! I think the consistent routine with breathing techniques is a great strategy. Happy Holidays!
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Hi. I am worried about my exams.
Exams are a stressful time. What seems to be the problem?
Exams are a stressful time. What seems to be the problem? Exams are a stressful time. What seems to be the problem?
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Hi. I am worried about my exams.
I do not feel like I am properly prepared, even though I have studied.
I can assure you that countless students including myself have gone through the trials of studying for exams and do feel overwhelmed but it passes.
I can assure you that countless students including myself have gone through the trials of studying for exams and do feel overwhelmed but it passes. Have you studied?
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Hi. I am worried about my exams. I do not feel like I am properly prepared, even though I have studied.
I have studied. However, I still feel like I am not prepared. One big problem is that I have no quiet place to study.
I get it, distractions can be challenging to overcome at times. Have you thought about going to a library, or a book store?
I get it, distractions can be challenging to overcome at times. Have you thought about going to a library, or a book store?
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Hi. I am worried about my exams. I do not feel like I am properly prepared, even though I have studied. I have studied. However, I still feel like I am not prepared. One big problem is that I have no quiet place to study.
I have not. Both of those are great suggestions. I wonder if I should take the time to walk to the library (30 minutes), or just continue to study? Maybe, I know as much as I can know. The anxiety is too much.
If it helps you study then the library may be worth the time and effort. Sometimes we can stress out over worrying about not having enough time to study. But trust the work you have done and you will know if it is enough.
If it helps you study then the library may be worth the time and effort. Sometimes we can stress out over worrying about not having enough time to study. But trust the work you have done and you will know if it is enough.
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I am worried about failing my college math exams and being kicked out of school.
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Hi. I am worried about my exams. I do not feel like I am properly prepared, even though I have studied. I have studied. However, I still feel like I am not prepared. One big problem is that I have no quiet place to study. I have not. Both of those are great suggestions. I wonder if I should take the time to walk to the...
This is very good advice. Have you completed college?
Yes, and it wasn't easy but with hard work, it is completely doable. And you have the power within yourself.
Yes, and it wasn't easy but with hard work, it is completely doable. And you have the power within yourself.
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I am worried about failing my college math exams and being kicked out of school.
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Hi. I am worried about my exams. I do not feel like I am properly prepared, even though I have studied. I have studied. However, I still feel like I am not prepared. One big problem is that I have no quiet place to study. I have not. Both of those are great suggestions. I wonder if I should take the time to walk to the...
What do you think will happen if I fail this test?
Sometimes it is not about the amount of studying, but the way you study. I like reading my textbooks and highlighting the important parts and then rewriting them so they become ingrained in me. But let us not jump the gun, you haven't failed anything.
Sometimes it is not about the amount of studying, but the way you study. I like reading my textbooks and highlighting the important parts and then rewriting them so they become ingrained in me. But let us not jump the gun, you haven't failed anything.
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Hi. I am worried about my exams. I do not feel like I am properly prepared, even though I have studied. I have studied. However, I still feel like I am not prepared. One big problem is that I have no quiet place to study. I have not. Both of those are great suggestions. I wonder if I should take the time to walk to the...
Very true. Thanks for reminding me. I think I worry more about the outcome than I need too.
Don't forget to breathe. Exams are stressful but I would suggest don't cram everything to the last minute. Usually the hour before the exam, I do something else.
Don't forget to breathe. Exams are stressful but I would suggest don't cram everything to the last minute. Usually the hour before the exam, I do something else.
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Hi. I am worried about my exams. I do not feel like I am properly prepared, even though I have studied. I have studied. However, I still feel like I am not prepared. One big problem is that I have no quiet place to study. I have not. Both of those are great suggestions. I wonder if I should take the time to walk to the...
Very good advice. Any suggestions on what I can do?
Stay calm, believe in yourself, start your studying early so you are not cramming everything in the last few days.
Stay calm, believe in yourself, start your studying early so you are not cramming everything in the last few days.
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Hi. I am worried about my exams. I do not feel like I am properly prepared, even though I have studied. I have studied. However, I still feel like I am not prepared. One big problem is that I have no quiet place to study. I have not. Both of those are great suggestions. I wonder if I should take the time to walk to the...
Great Advice. But, in the one hour prior to the exam, do you have any advice on something I can do to calm my nerves?
Walk outside, away from the students waiting for their tests.
Walk outside, away from the students waiting for their tests.
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Hi. I am worried about my exams. I do not feel like I am properly prepared, even though I have studied. I have studied. However, I still feel like I am not prepared. One big problem is that I have no quiet place to study. I have not. Both of those are great suggestions. I wonder if I should take the time to walk to the...
Wonderful suggestion Thank you for your help. I think I will go walk now. Best regards.
Is there anything else I can help you with?
Is there anything else I can help you with?
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Hi. I am worried about my exams. I do not feel like I am properly prepared, even though I have studied. I have studied. However, I still feel like I am not prepared. One big problem is that I have no quiet place to study. I have not. Both of those are great suggestions. I wonder if I should take the time to walk to the...
No. Thank you.
Goodnight and good luck.
Goodnight and good luck.
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Hello
hi my name is Lisa, how are you?
hi my name is Lisa, how are you?
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Hello
I'm struggling to make it through the day. My daughter was hit by a car in September and the traumatic experience is weighing heavy on my brain.
it sounds like you are feeling troubled after your daughter's car accident am I right?
it sounds like you are feeling troubled after your daughter's car accident am I right?
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Hello I'm struggling to make it through the day. My daughter was hit by a car in September and the traumatic experience is weighing heavy on my brain.
Troubled would not be the word I would use, but it wasn't a car accident. She was hit by a car in the street outside of my house. She was coming home from school. She is only 5.
that sounds like it would be a very traumatic experience, it's no wonder this is hard for you, it would be hard for anyone in this situation
that sounds like it would be a very traumatic experience, it's no wonder this is hard for you, it would be hard for anyone in this situation
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My daughter was hit by a car and I'm having depression over it.
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Hello I'm struggling to make it through the day. My daughter was hit by a car in September and the traumatic experience is weighing heavy on my brain. Troubled would not be the word I would use, but it wasn't a car accident. She was hit by a car in the street outside of my house. She was coming home from school. She is...
I have a hard time getting out of bed in the morning.
How would you use to describe your feelings about this accident?
How would you use to describe your feelings about this accident?
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My daughter was hit by a car and I'm having depression over it.
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Hello I'm struggling to make it through the day. My daughter was hit by a car in September and the traumatic experience is weighing heavy on my brain. Troubled would not be the word I would use, but it wasn't a car accident. She was hit by a car in the street outside of my house. She was coming home from school. She is...
I would say that I am anxious all the time. She survived, but she had some serious injuries after. I feel like a part of me died that day, the part that thought I could protect her no matter what. I would say that I'm also feeling ashamed because it was out of my control.
It sounds like you are dealing with a lot...it is normal to feel anxious about it
It sounds like you are dealing with a lot...it is normal to feel anxious about it
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My daughter was hit by a car and I'm having depression over it.
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Hello I'm struggling to make it through the day. My daughter was hit by a car in September and the traumatic experience is weighing heavy on my brain. Troubled would not be the word I would use, but it wasn't a car accident. She was hit by a car in the street outside of my house. She was coming home from school. She is...
Is that how you would feel?
and it's hard not to blame ourselves, but please remember this was outside your control
and it's hard not to blame ourselves, but please remember this was outside your control
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My daughter was hit by a car and I'm having depression over it.
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Hello I'm struggling to make it through the day. My daughter was hit by a car in September and the traumatic experience is weighing heavy on my brain. Troubled would not be the word I would use, but it wasn't a car accident. She was hit by a car in the street outside of my house. She was coming home from school. She is...
thank you for saying that. I quit my job to focus on her healing, and i don't want to go back to work now.
I have not experienced anything like this to be honest....the closest I can recall is encouraging my daughter to do something, and then she got hurt, and I blamed myself and felt like a bad mother
I have not experienced anything like this to be honest....the closest I can recall is encouraging my daughter to do something, and then she got hurt, and I blamed myself and felt like a bad mother how is your daughter doing now?
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My daughter was hit by a car and I'm having depression over it.
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Hello I'm struggling to make it through the day. My daughter was hit by a car in September and the traumatic experience is weighing heavy on my brain. Troubled would not be the word I would use, but it wasn't a car accident. She was hit by a car in the street outside of my house. She was coming home from school. She is...
She is healing well, she has a moderate TBI (traumatic brain injury) so there is still so much uncertainty. It sucks to blame ourselves for things that happen to our kids.
the fact that you felt the need to quit your job shows how deeply this has affected you...do you miss your work?
the fact that you felt the need to quit your job shows how deeply this has affected you...do you miss your work?
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My daughter was hit by a car and I'm having depression over it.
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Hello I'm struggling to make it through the day. My daughter was hit by a car in September and the traumatic experience is weighing heavy on my brain. Troubled would not be the word I would use, but it wasn't a car accident. She was hit by a car in the street outside of my house. She was coming home from school. She is...
No. And I'm completely dreading going back to work. I wish I could somehow get paid to exist so that I can just stay home with my daughter all day.
it sounds like you need to be with your daughter all day but also need the income that work would afford, am i right?
it sounds like you need to be with your daughter all day but also need the income that work would afford, am i right?
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My daughter was hit by a car and I'm having depression over it.
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Hello I'm struggling to make it through the day. My daughter was hit by a car in September and the traumatic experience is weighing heavy on my brain. Troubled would not be the word I would use, but it wasn't a car accident. She was hit by a car in the street outside of my house. She was coming home from school. She is...
YES. And if you can figure out how to make that happen I'll give you 10% of the salary lol.
hehe...0% is all I'd ask for...
hehe...0% is all I'd ask for... how about part time work would that be possible for you?
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Hello I'm struggling to make it through the day. My daughter was hit by a car in September and the traumatic experience is weighing heavy on my brain. Troubled would not be the word I would use, but it wasn't a car accident. She was hit by a car in the street outside of my house. She was coming home from school. She is...
I've been looking for a remote part time job that has pay equivalent to a full time job. Apparently, that's not a thing.
i see...I would not know how to find such a job, i've often thought that would be a great thing to do..
i see...I would not know how to find such a job, i've often thought that would be a great thing to do.. i have a question
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My daughter was hit by a car and I'm having depression over it.
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Hello I'm struggling to make it through the day. My daughter was hit by a car in September and the traumatic experience is weighing heavy on my brain. Troubled would not be the word I would use, but it wasn't a car accident. She was hit by a car in the street outside of my house. She was coming home from school. She is...
What's your question.
is there a friend or family member that can spend time with your daughter so it's easier to get back to maybe a part time job?
is there a friend or family member that can spend time with your daughter so it's easier to get back to maybe a part time job?
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Hello I'm struggling to make it through the day. My daughter was hit by a car in September and the traumatic experience is weighing heavy on my brain. Troubled would not be the word I would use, but it wasn't a car accident. She was hit by a car in the street outside of my house. She was coming home from school. She is...
I don't have a family. Just my daughter, and my boyfriend who lives in Australia that can't come here due to Covid restrictions. She does see her Dad everyday, but the part time hours I would need would have to be flexible and no company is even really hiring part time at the moment from what I can tell.
I see. I wonder if you have spoken to a doctor about how you feel? Struggling to get through the day must be so difficult. I wonder if it might be helpful to get screened for depression
I see. I wonder if you have spoken to a doctor about how you feel? Struggling to get through the day must be so difficult. I wonder if it might be helpful to get screened for depression
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Hello there. I've made a mistake at work today and I have a fear that I will get in serious trouble
What was the mistake?
What was the mistake? Was it too serious?
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Hello there. I've made a mistake at work today and I have a fear that I will get in serious trouble
One Lorry wasn't collected and around 300 customers will not get their orders on time
Is that your first time making that mistake?
Is that your first time making that mistake? If so i'm sure your manager will tell you to make sure in case for next time
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Hello there. I've made a mistake at work today and I have a fear that I will get in serious trouble One Lorry wasn't collected and around 300 customers will not get their orders on time
Yes is it. But before me nobody made a mistake such as this one in my team.
Mistakes happen, they are unavoidable, and your manager should know this so since it is your first time he should take it easy
Mistakes happen, they are unavoidable, and your manager should know this so since it is your first time he should take it easy Just make sure it doesn't happen again because you need to learn from this mistake :)
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Hello there. I've made a mistake at work today and I have a fear that I will get in serious trouble One Lorry wasn't collected and around 300 customers will not get their orders on time Yes is it. But before me nobody made a mistake such as this one in my team.
I fear I will have a serious conversation tomorrow with my manager and I will be told off. I feel so stressed now I can't normally breath
If you can't breath normally, then I think it is best to start to meditate in order to control your breathing and make you less stressed
If you can't breath normally, then I think it is best to start to meditate in order to control your breathing and make you less stressed
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Hello there. I've made a mistake at work today and I have a fear that I will get in serious trouble One Lorry wasn't collected and around 300 customers will not get their orders on time Yes is it. But before me nobody made a mistake such as this one in my team. I fear I will have a serious conversation tomorrow with my...
I've never done anything like this before, would you be able to assist me a little bit?
Yes, meditation is extremely useful, and I also use it when I feel stressed
Yes, meditation is extremely useful, and I also use it when I feel stressed
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Hello there. I've made a mistake at work today and I have a fear that I will get in serious trouble One Lorry wasn't collected and around 300 customers will not get their orders on time Yes is it. But before me nobody made a mistake such as this one in my team. I fear I will have a serious conversation tomorrow with my...
So how I should do it?
Maybe play calm classical music and start slowly reminiscing about the days previous, and your future ahead
Maybe play calm classical music and start slowly reminiscing about the days previous, and your future ahead or you could just wacth a youtube tutorial, either one works fine
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Hello there. I've made a mistake at work today and I have a fear that I will get in serious trouble One Lorry wasn't collected and around 300 customers will not get their orders on time Yes is it. But before me nobody made a mistake such as this one in my team. I fear I will have a serious conversation tomorrow with my...
I just don't really like classic music but I can try Yes probably I will look in youtube how to do it thanks. Do you think I will lose my job?
It is all in the aid of calming yourself down, and your welcome :)
It is all in the aid of calming yourself down, and your welcome :) and knowing it is your first offense, probably not but always prepare for the worst
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Hello there. I've made a mistake at work today and I have a fear that I will get in serious trouble One Lorry wasn't collected and around 300 customers will not get their orders on time Yes is it. But before me nobody made a mistake such as this one in my team. I fear I will have a serious conversation tomorrow with my...
I am working in the company for 5 years and if I will lose it and don't know what to do next. as now it's hard to find new job
5 years is a very long time, so I don't think that you will be given the pink slip
5 years is a very long time, so I don't think that you will be given the pink slip I know it would be hard to find a new job, which is why you should always be prepared
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Hello there. I've made a mistake at work today and I have a fear that I will get in serious trouble One Lorry wasn't collected and around 300 customers will not get their orders on time Yes is it. But before me nobody made a mistake such as this one in my team. I fear I will have a serious conversation tomorrow with my...
I hope so, I am very not looking forward to come to work tomorrow :/
If you believe in yourself, things will work out somehow :)
If you believe in yourself, things will work out somehow :)
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Hello there. I've made a mistake at work today and I have a fear that I will get in serious trouble One Lorry wasn't collected and around 300 customers will not get their orders on time Yes is it. But before me nobody made a mistake such as this one in my team. I fear I will have a serious conversation tomorrow with my...
I will try to believe in my self and will check how to relax on youtube.
Yes, thats the spirit!
Yes, thats the spirit!
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Hello there. I've made a mistake at work today and I have a fear that I will get in serious trouble One Lorry wasn't collected and around 300 customers will not get their orders on time Yes is it. But before me nobody made a mistake such as this one in my team. I fear I will have a serious conversation tomorrow with my...
Thank you so much for our help and that you listened to me.
Your welcome! There is always someone to talk to
Your welcome! There is always someone to talk to
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