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B: Yeah. |
B: And the money is also another issue. How you're going to pay for it. |
A: Right. |
B: At that stage of life you only have so much money left |
B: and I guess it's not exactly fair for the younger family members to have to put it in their savings. |
A: Yeah. |
B: I mean it is kind of fair, |
B: but it's also not fair because they have their own children to raise. |
A: Sure. |
B: So it's another problem. |
A: And you probably, if it were you, you probably wouldn't want someone choosing a place for you to live based on lowest price. |
B: Right, |
B: right. |
B: So, it, it's just so complicated anymore, I think |
B: People outlive their savings. |
B: And, with medicine being the way it is, you're extending life where sometimes the quality of living has gone down |
B: and they're not necessarily enjoying life anymore. |
A: Yeah. |
A: Well maybe that's the purpose of the nursing home is to have them go someplace where they can see that it's not worth continuing. |
B: It's just a shame that's the way it has to be. |
B: I think the retirement home idea's a nice idea. To go and find older people and with similar interests and someplace to stay |
A: Yeah. |
B: and cause like if your spouse died, all alone, it'd be nice to go someplace with people similar to you. To have friends. |
A: Right. |
A: Yeah, |
A: I've known quite a few people that have, uh, gone to retirement communities. |
A: I don't know if they have them back there |
A: but here in California and in |
B: Okay. |
A: Uh, so, what do you think, uh, about putting the elderly in a nursing home? |
B: Well, I think that it, it varies on on the individual basis. |
A: Huh. |
B: Uh, sometimes it is, there is no alternative. |
A: Uh-huh |
B: Uh, you do not have, uh, uh, family available or family that's, uh, |
B: you may not even have family that is, uh, uh, in, you know, who are around. |
A: That's true. |
A: Yeah. |
B: So, sometimes it's not an alternative. |
A: Huh |
B: And I think, uh, but I think also, sometimes it can be, uh, a benefit if it's for a short time. |
B: Sometimes in a nursing home |
A: Uh-huh. |
B: uh, especially if, if it's after an acute illness. |
B: To get over a, |
B: or to rehab after, uh, an illness. |
A: That's true. |
A: I never thought of that. |
A: Yeah. |
B: Sometimes you know, sometimes the nursing homes are good for, uh, just short periods of time. |
A: That's true, |
A: until they get over that hump of whatever it is they're dealing with. |
B: Uh-huh. |
B: Because too often the acute hospitals will, are sending them out much faster than what they're really able to. |
A: Yes. |
A: They really are. |
A: They don't like to keep them longer than a week. |
B: So so there is some good to it. |
A: Yeah. |
B: Uh, sometimes too, it's used as a dumb job. |
B: You know the well the families do not necessarily uh, know what to do with them |
A: What do you mean? |
B: and they don't want to take the responsibility |
B: so they will put them in a nursing home. |
A: Yeah, |
A: that's true. |
B: So you see, uh, |
B: there's both sides to it too. |
B: What do you think? |
A: Yeah |
A: and it depends on how, how sick the person is too. What you're capable of, like if you have a family to take care of, you know, of your own |
B: Yeah. |
A: Yeah, |
A: uh, I would personally like it |
A: if my parents were to get ill, I would like to take care of them at home and if I had the money with some help. |
A: That's not always possible. |
B: That's true. |
A: But, uh, to the best of my ability, I'd like to do it until it gets impossible |
B: I think that's also where you're going to have a lot of people who are going to, |
B: it's there's not a choice, it's because, it's not economically feasible even to put them in a nursing home. |
A: Right. |
A: Uh-huh |
A: Yeah. |
B: So that, that option sometimes is not available if they do not have the, uh, either Medicare or insurance to cover it. |
A: That's true. |
A: Yeah. |
B: So, |
A: But I think nursing homes can be good. |
A: It just depends on what kind they are. |
A: You know, you need to check them out ahead of time. |
B: Yeah, |
B: and then there's also some that are set up for specialties |
A: Uh-huh. |
B: uh, I know some. |
B: Unfortunately, some elderly have to go to or have, I guess it's Alzheimer's or where they wonder or, or, uh, confused or have some mental problem |
A: Uh-huh. |
A: Yeah, |
A: that they're |
B: And you need a special nursing home for that. |
B: You need one that has a unit that's locked where they are not able to get out and roam around |
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