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I can't allow him to plot against me, I need to know what he's doing. | It sounds like you really have some issues with your dad. I think you should talk to someone about your trust and stress issues. They can help you work through your problems. | [
"It's good to get professional help for serious issues."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
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"casual"
] | [
"Speaker continues to justify why they need to invade someone's privacy.",
"Restates why they are doing this.",
"Still okay. not really listening to advice, but seem more paranoid than anything."
] | ethics_reddit | 4,685 | 2 | true | |
I want to request a driving instructor that only speaks english | Is there some reason why you want a driving instructor that only speaks English? | [
"It's xenophobic to exclude people who aren't from your country."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
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] | [
"Speaker describes a reasonable request.",
"it is okay to want an instructor that speaks english",
"It's offensive to discriminate against people who speak other languages"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b038m5 | 4,686 | 0 | false |
Because I don't like people who aren't American. | Discriminating against someone because they're from another country and speak another language is xenophobic and terrible. It shouldn't matter where your driving instructor is from or which languages they speak, it should only matter how good they are at teaching you to drive. | [
"It's wrong to discriminate against someone based on their ethnic background",
"You should judge a service provider based on their qualifications"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's biased to not like people who aren't American.",
"you shouldn't dislike people from other countries",
"It's offensive to dislike people from other countries"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b038m5 | 4,686 | 1 | false |
It does matter because I hate non-American people. | If you hate foreigners so much then you're going to have a hard time in America. There are lots of immigrants who work jobs and are all around. Good Luck avoiding all of them. | [
"You should treat all people equally regardless of their ethnic backgrounds"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker does not indicate they will change biased behavior.",
"you shouldn't hate people that are not American",
"It's harmful to hate non-American people"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b038m5 | 4,686 | 2 | true |
I always lose when bowling with blacks. It's not my fault, their heads are just not perfectly round. | Are you saying the shape of African American heads affects your bowling prowess? | [
"It's not right blame your poor performance on people's physical racial characteristics."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
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"needs caution"
] | [
"It's racist and offensive to make jokes based on stereotypes that also trivialize brutal treatment of blacks.",
"You shouldn't make generalizations about people based on race",
"you shouldn't joke about violence against black people"
] | sbic | 4,687 | 0 | false | |
Yes, it's not my fault, I can't help it if the black kid had a round-shaped head. | I'm not sure how the shape of someone's head can affect your bowling. It's wrong to judge people an superficial characteristics. | [
"It's not right blame your poor performance on people's physical racial characteristics."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"needs caution"
] | [
"response is defensive and doesn't acknowledge or apologize for offense",
"Speaker makes a racist joke which is offensive",
"violet tries to provide context but does not accept that what they said was wrong"
] | sbic | 4,687 | 1 | true | |
I like using my long nails to pick my nose efficiently | Do other people look at you when you do this? | [
"It's disgusting to pick your nose in public."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"While gross it isn't morally bad",
"no problems",
"picking your nose is gross."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/db4vlk | 4,688 | 0 | false |
Yes, they always look horrified. | It's extremely impolite to pick your nose in public, because other people find it gross. If you want to pick your nose you should do it in private with no one else around. | [
"It's rude to pick your nose in public."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"While gross it isn't morally bad",
"not sure about this",
"people don't want to see people picking there nose."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/db4vlk | 4,688 | 1 | false |
And I think it's stupid to try to stop me from picking my nose. | Well it is just a little inconsiderate to the other people around you. Than the people have to worry about you touching things with the finger you use to pick your nose. Also, simply watching the action is enough to make some people gag. | [
"It's rude to pick your nose in public.",
"You shouldn't do gross things around other people."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"this is rude behavior and a rude way to behave",
"rejecting the feedback",
"Picking your nose is public is rude."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/db4vlk | 4,688 | 2 | true |
And I would add to that one of the distinctive features of malls are the food courts where we can witness Americans and their eating disorders on display . | Joking about eating disorders now, really? Are you saying Americans are obese? | [
"It's not right to think all Americans are fat"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't talk about people being overweight.",
"its rude to make fun of eating disorder",
"it's hurtful to make jokes about eating disorders or medical issues"
] | sbic | 4,689 | 0 | false | |
Yes, I'm just stating the facts. | While I'm sure it's true that some Americans are overweight, I don't think it's a fact that ALL Americans are obese. There's a fitness center around every corner. So, I don't think it's right that you categorize all Americans as obese. | [
"It's wrong to generalize people based on their country."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker claims their thoughts are right.",
"stating facts",
"speaker is being judgmental about weight"
] | sbic | 4,689 | 1 | false | |
Were talking about US fat people in US malls. | Please reconsider generalizing all Americans as overweight. There is a lot of unhealthy food available in the US, but also plenty of healthy food. If you take a look around you'll see Americans of all sizes. | [
"You should consider all people when you make generalized statements."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"the speaker doesn't change their mind despite advice.",
"thinks there is a correlation with fat people and malls",
"speaker is still being judgmental about weight/appearance"
] | sbic | 4,689 | 2 | true | |
I'm feeling mad at my girlfriend because she got a ride from someone I don't like. | Why did she get a ride from them? | [
"It's normal for couples to get bouts of jealousy",
"It's wrong to be mad at your SO for interacting with others"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker intrusively butts into gf's life.",
"Speaker is mad at gf from getting a ride form someone they don't like.",
"It's rude to try to control your girlfriend's actions."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a9tuoi | 4,690 | 0 | false |
She didn't have any money to get a cab. | We can all be jealous sometimes, especially when our partners interact with people that we don't like. However, you can't get mad at your girlfriend just because they interacted with someone that you don't like. If you try to dictate who your partner can and can't interact with, they're bound to get frustrated with you... | [
"It's wrong to be mad at your partner for being with someone you don't like."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker further explains situation with gf.",
"Speaker said they had no money for a cab.",
"The girlfriend's actions seem reasonable and the speaker is unreasonable."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a9tuoi | 4,690 | 1 | false |
She shouldn't betray me like this. I broke up with her now, I still have my cat to be with. | You shouldn't let jealousy take over your judgment. Considering now that you broke up with her this could prove to be a mistake on your part. I would recommend communicating with her that you are not particularly fond of the person she was getting a ride from. | [
"You shouldn't let jealousy ruin your relationship with your partner.",
"It's good to communicate with your partner when you are feeling uneasy about someone."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker calls gf names.",
"Speaker says gf is pesky and they are jealous of who she hangs out with. Speaker is now single again.",
"The last violet statement doesn't follow from the rest very directly."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a9tuoi | 4,690 | 2 | true |
I want to stay with my gf | Why would you move overseas if you want to be with your girlfriend? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It’s good the speaker wants to remain with his girlfriend.",
"maintaining a relationship is good",
"Has a reasonable desire to stay in their relationship."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/agv9qh | 4,691 | 0 | false |
I'm just curious, I want to explore the world gosh | If you want to stay with your girlfriend, it will be hard if you move overseas. That is something that should be discussed with her first because it is a huge change. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Here the speaker has a choice to make but I don’t see a moral choice.",
"expressing desires",
"Wants to tag along with their girlfriend."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/agv9qh | 4,691 | 1 | false |
Maybe I should be alone and go. | Well you should decide soon so you can make plans for whatever you choose. Have you thought about asking her to move with you so you can stay together? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"This is just introspection, this speaker has not done anything wrong or hurt anyone to this point.",
"personal decision",
"Continues to explore options on how to attain their travel goals."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/agv9qh | 4,691 | 2 | true |
If a woman transitions into a man, they are now required to come hunting with us, go to straight bars, objectify women, drink beer, learn home repair, drive, etc. because that's what real men do! | Why do you think that all of the men does what you have stated? | [
"It's not right to think men need to be a certain way",
"It's not right to think men need to be manly"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's offensive to stereotype people based on gender.",
"You shouldn't treat women like trash",
"It's offensive to say real men do these things"
] | sbic | 4,692 | 0 | false | |
Women cannot be like men, there is no denying it. This is what I'm saying, both men and women are good at something and that's it. | There are a lot of different types of men, and not all of them will fit into your worldview. You should try hanging out with people who don't do the types of things that you do, and maybe you may even pick up some skills that you would have never thought about using before? Not everything that is considered feminine by... | [
"You shouldn't assume all members of a gender are the same",
"It is good to broaden your horizons"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker further explains views on gender.",
"its rude to assume men should abuse women",
"Speaker doesn't apologize for generalizations"
] | sbic | 4,692 | 1 | false | |
It's all about the hormones and natural disposition. Please, you cannot deny it. | It may be about hormones and natural disposition but not all men are the same and not all women are the same, so I feel like it was wrong of you to generalize a man's or a woman's behavior just because you have a certain viewpoint. Respect that not all people are like you and have a lot of hobbies and motivation that a... | [
"You shouldn't stereotype people",
"It is good to recognize that everyone is unique"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is intent in ways, could cause conflict with genders.",
"You shouldn't think toxic traits define a gender",
"Speaker doubling down instead of accepting critique"
] | sbic | 4,692 | 2 | true | |
I'm thinking of trolling people in private for years at a time | What about trolling people in private for years at a time interests you? | [
"It is wrong to troll others."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker wants to troll others",
"Speaker wants to troll people which can cause harm.",
"Wants to troll others"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bsrgel | 4,693 | 0 | false |
I want to get on people's nerves. | It is wrong to troll people and waste their time over trivial matters. If you are so miserable you should get a new hobby or work on something productive. | [
"You shouldn't troll people",
"It's wrong to try and upset people on purpose"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker likes causing others to have problems",
"Speaker wants to annoy people.",
"Enjoys hassling others"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bsrgel | 4,693 | 1 | false |
I don't know, I just want to troll them. | I feel like you should have a hobby or find a person or people you can talk with so that you wouldn't obsess over strangers online. I do hope you stop trolling people online as it is very unhealthy. | [
"It's wrong to troll people",
"You should be polite to others"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker appears that they will continue their harmful acts",
"Speaker resolves on trolling others.",
"Seems to revel in trolling"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bsrgel | 4,693 | 2 | true |
If her age is on the clock, then in jail you'll take the cock. | Are you making fun at the victims of sexual assault? Or the men who do the crime? I am confused either way. | [
"It's not right to joke about prison rape"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's insensitive to joke about child sexual abuse.",
"It's wrong to make fun of prisoners and generalize the situation there.",
"It's hurtful to joke about child molestation."
] | sbic | 4,694 | 0 | false | |
Stop being such a pussy. I'm just having a bit of fun here. | This is a general comment about what happens in jail and possibly not what happens in reality. Either way it seems like there is a dark side to this joke and nothing is going to be admired about it. Joke about more lighter things so people can all share and laugh at something actually funny. | [
"It's not right to joke about prison rape"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker thinks it's okay to joke about sexually abusing children.",
"unwilling to accept what they said was distasteful.",
"Speaker resorts to name calling in response to question."
] | sbic | 4,694 | 1 | true | |
how do you spot a jewish paedophile in thailand ? he 's the one who brings his own kids . | you seem to be speaking about pedophiles, but I'm not sure why you have brought up the Jews can you explain? | [
"It's not right to think jewish people are cheap"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"its wrong to joke about kids",
"It's offensive to joke about sexual assault.",
"It's offensive to make anti-Semitic and racist jokes"
] | sbic | 4,695 | 0 | false | |
I'm not interested in context, it's a bad joke and I don't know why anyways do you think jews are cheap? They are just like that. | You said that you believe the joke is bad, but then you tell another one directly afterwards? Most people will believe you're anti-Semitic if you continue telling jokes like this over and over again. | [
"It's not right to think jewish people are cheap"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"its wrong to joke about kids and sex",
"It's offensive to speak ill of Jewish people.",
"It's wrong to make anti-Semitic comments"
] | sbic | 4,695 | 1 | true | |
Two jews are sitting on a bridge. The first one dips his feet in the water and shouts: "It is cold! It is cold!". The other one dips his nose and shouts: "It is also very deep!" | Why are you generalizing the way Jews look with this joke? | [
"It's not right to think jews facial features are all the same"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to make fun of people's physical attributes.",
"You shouldn't make racist jokes about Jewish people.",
"You shouldn't be anti-semetic."
] | sbic | 4,696 | 0 | false | |
Because of what I learned from my father. He was an educated man who gave us an equal education and made us see for ourselves. | I assume you wouldn't want people making these generalizations about you as they're hurtful. Please refrain from discriminatory jokes. | [
"It's not right to think jews facial features are all the same"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker shares the source of how they think.",
"Explains their anti-Semitism.",
"Claims to learn their beliefs from their father."
] | sbic | 4,696 | 1 | true | |
I'm going to demand my ex-girlfriend stop seeing the person she cheated on me with. | Why would you demand your ex-girlfriend stop seeing the person she cheated on you with? | [
"You shouldn't tell your ex what to do."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to dictate to others who they should be in relationships with.",
"It's not reasonable to expect to control her if she is your ex.",
"Interfering behaviour engaged in by speaker towards ex-gf."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aqeeuq | 4,697 | 0 | false |
Because of the way she betrayed me, I don't feel like she deserves to be happy. | The relationship is over, you have no right to tell your ex what to do. It sounds like you are still dwelling on the past and that is detrimental to your mental health. It's time for you to move on and find somebody else. | [
"It's bad to want to tell an ex what to do.",
"It's good to move on from a past relationship."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker shows lack of consideration for other by not wanting them to be happy.",
"Unethical to wish unhappiness on another",
"Interfering behaviour towards ex-gf rationalized by speaker."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aqeeuq | 4,697 | 1 | false |
It's unfair that she gets to be happy in a new relationship when I'm so miserable. | I know this was a very difficult break up for you but you have to forget about the past or you'll never be happy. Try to sign up for some online dating sites and see if you can meet someone new. | [
"It's good to forget the past.",
"It's good to use dating sites to meet new people."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker does not indicate that their behavior will change.",
"Legitimate feelings",
"Once again, interfering behaviour towards ex-gf rationalized by speaker."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aqeeuq | 4,697 | 2 | true |
I'm upset about my son's ear piercing, he got it yesterday | What do you think about your son's ear piercing? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker states they're upset about their son's recent ear piercing.",
"Speaker is venting about a normal point of contention.",
"It's okay to be frustrated by others' choices"
] | ethics_reddit | 4,698 | 0 | false | |
I don't understand this planet anymore. | It's expected that you are going to be the responsible voice of your son. It's hard to understand trend but it doesn't mean you need to follow it. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker states they don't understand this planet anymore.",
"Speaker is just venting.",
"Continuation of previous label"
] | ethics_reddit | 4,698 | 1 | false | |
It's not a trend, it's a rebellion against me. | I don't think your son intends to harm you, he just wants to express himself how he wants. How about asking him why he got a piercing, and to tell him your discomfort with it? He may come to see that your feelings are important too! | [
"It's okay to feel uncomfortable with things you don't understand"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It's wrong to think your child's ear piercing is a rebellion against you.",
"Speaker is assuming the worst in their son and not listening to reason here.",
"Speaker does not seem to be causing any hurt feelings"
] | ethics_reddit | 4,698 | 2 | true | |
I'm going to tell my manager I can't work on a day I was scheduled | Why can't you work that day? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"There are many valid reason's to call off, while frowned upon this isn't unacceptable or particularly problematic.",
"We don't know why they can't work on a day they were scheduled.",
"Contemplating on missing work, unsure of the reason why at the moment."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/arpv86 | 4,699 | 0 | false |
I'm not going to work at all, because my father told me to do so. | You have the right to ask for a day off. Let your manager know early and find someone to work for you. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
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"Still don't know any details.",
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"Justifying not going to work because their parent said so, but it seems like they were getting permission first, so at least it is going to be either approved or not."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/arpv86 | 4,699 | 1 | false |
Thanks, will do! I have a big family event on that day. | Nice, I hope you enjoy it. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
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"Sounds like they are going to handle calling off in a responsible way.",
"Speaker continues to reasonably explain why they want to take a day off work.",
"Thanked the advice giver, and will properly ask permission to get a day off at work."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/arpv86 | 4,699 | 2 | true |
What do you think about me telling my girlfriend that I still love my ex-girlfriend? | Why would you tell your girlfriend that you're still in love with your ex? | [
"It is expected a relationship won't work if one person still loves their ex.",
"It is wrong to date someone while you still have feelings towards someone else."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
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"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker still loves their ex and wants to tell their girlfriend",
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"Has a desire to potentially break their girlfriend's heart."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ak8gcz | 4,700 | 0 | false |
Feelings can't be always buried deep down in a heart | Being in a relationship while still having feelings for someone else is unwise. Being direct and honest with your partner can allow them to make whatever choices they feel is correct. If your feelings are too overwhelming, you may want to consider breaking up to avoid hurting your partner. | [
"You shouldn't start a new relationship if you still have feelings for someone else.",
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"needs caution",
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"Explains why they need to tell their girlfriend this."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ak8gcz | 4,700 | 1 | false |
I'll try my best to do that. | It's great that you are able to make a wise choice for you and your girlfriend. It would be best to avoid hurting her so that you don't have regrets about it in the future. | [
""
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I'm not going to remember plans with my mother. | I wonder why. Do you usually honor your plans with your mother? | [
"It is rude to forget plans with people.",
"You should set reminders for plans you make with your parents."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"they are wanting to forget plans with their mother",
"This is likely to cause conflict",
"It's okay to have bad memory and not remember plans. We don't know why the speaker is not going to remember yet."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9yo184 | 4,701 | 0 | false |
I've decided that they aren't that important. | It's rude not to remember plans you've made with people. Set a reminder so that you won't forget your plans with your mother. | [
"It is rude to not remember plans you make with others."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"they are wanting to forget plans with their mother",
"This will certainly cause conflict",
"Speaker provides detail to why it thinks the plans will not be remembered."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9yo184 | 4,701 | 1 | false |
I don't want to. | Then you should at least inform your mom that plans changed. Don't leave her out on the lurch like this. Doing what you're planning is so rude. | [
"It is rude to not tell someone about a change in plans."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"they are wanting to forget plans with their mother",
"Continuation of previous label",
"Speaker is refusing to listen to the gray speaker's advice and will purposefully not want to remember plans."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9yo184 | 4,701 | 2 | true |
What if I'm thinking of letting the dog lick from my plate? | I can see how you would think of doing that. Have you done that before? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
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"casual"
] | [
"They share a behavioral concern of their dog.",
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] | ethics_reddit | 4,702 | 0 | false | |
I did that with my grandfather's plate when he was unwell. I did not want him to get mad at me, so I did it quickly | Letting the dog like your food on the plate is your way of being nice to the animal, but dogs have germs in their mouths. They can get you sick if you eat the food afterwards, so just give them the leftovers instead. Make sure the food is safe for the dog to eat as well, otherwise it can get sick and maybe die. | [
"It is best to check if the dog can eat the food you give it",
"You should never let a dog lick your food."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"They rudely allow their dog to lick from other people's plates.",
"It's not right to let the dog eat from someone else's plate, but I don't think their intentions were bad.",
"that's understandable"
] | ethics_reddit | 4,702 | 1 | false | |
I guess you're right. I'll just give the left over food to the dog and make everything else myself. | It would be unhealthy for a dog to lick food that you will have to consume after. It's great that you are able to start making better choices regarding letting the dog lick your plate. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"They realize their mistake and want to fix it appropriately.",
"They seem to understand where they were sort of wrong.",
"will take the advice"
] | ethics_reddit | 4,702 | 2 | true | |
A lot of these bitches themselves ain't shit either. Birds of a feather flock together | Are you talking about women? | [
"It's not right to think women are worthless"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It is offensive, rude, demeaning to women, sexist",
"It's rude to demean women",
"You shouldn't call women bitches."
] | sbic | 4,703 | 0 | false | |
Yes, women are cockblockers. They don't know what the hell they want, but won't accept the fact. They get together in groups and gang up on men over petty issues. | It sounds like you have a lot of anger, maybe based on a past bad experience with a woman. However, it is not appropriate to speak of women this way, it encourages violence and hate against them. | [
"You shouldn't speak to women in a degrading way.",
"It encourages violence and hate against women to be degrading to them."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It is offensive and sexist",
"Speaker continues to make unjust generalizations about women",
"Speaker thinks women are terrible and are cockblockers."
] | sbic | 4,703 | 1 | false | |
Fuck that. | You should try to be a little nicer to women. Women are not worthless, there is no need to treat them as such. | [
"You should do your best to treat women nicely.",
"It's offensive to act like a woman is worthless."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It is offensive language",
"Speaker ignores the feedback given",
"Speaker says fuck that and won't listen. They seem to hate women."
] | sbic | 4,703 | 2 | true | |
Life is like a box of chocolates. It goes by quicker for fat people | Care to explain that joke? | [
"There's no need to judge overweight people."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't discriminate people based on their weight or health",
"You shouldn't make jokes about fat people.",
"you shouldn't make judgements of others"
] | sbic | 4,704 | 0 | false | |
Because they're fat and eat more than skinny people do. | Overweight people already face enough scrutiny from society. There's no need to add more fuel to the fire with your hateful jokes. | [
"There's no need to judge overweight people."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's not okay to say offensive things or disregard people's feelings",
"Speaker shouldn't make fun of people just because they are fat.",
"it's hateful to make such comments"
] | sbic | 4,704 | 1 | true | |
The future is trans. | What is making you say the future is trans? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker is making a statement but it’s hard to tell what they mean.",
"Speaker thinks the future is trans.",
"Expressing views"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dn9v7r | 4,705 | 0 | false |
Sticking to the topic of the post, I see future being trans. | It's good to feel strongly about something and feel comfortable expressing that. Sometimes it's wise to consider the venue, though. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker is being confusing but not causing issues.",
"Speaker thinks the future is trans.",
"Still expressing views"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dn9v7r | 4,705 | 1 | false |
Yeah, I don't care. This was a good post. | I am glad you feel safe expressing your opinions. It is nice to see people be supportive of others. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker doesn’t explain what they mean.",
"Speaker likes to self express.",
"Seems positive about their discussion"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dn9v7r | 4,705 | 2 | true |
I'm afraid to have children due to the horrific abuse I suffered as a child. | Do you think you can move past what you went through as a child? | [
"It's good to go to therapy if you had a traumatic childhood."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Needing to deal with such abuse sounds so difficult.",
"Speaker is suffering trauma effects of past abuse.",
"conversation about receiving child abuse"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/87z7wu | 4,706 | 0 | false |
I don't know. I feel pretty scarred by it. | If you were abused as a child you should seek therapy. Maybe that will help you to live a more full life. | [
"You should seek therapy if you were abused as a child so that you may possibly life a fuller life."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Being scarred by abuse makes sense since it is so terrible and this would alter wanting to have children.",
"Speaker is suffering trauma effects of past abuse.",
"further talk about the event"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/87z7wu | 4,706 | 1 | false |
Therapy won't help me. | The right therapy can be helpful for dealing with trauma. It would be sad if you missed out on having kids when you would otherwise have wanted them. | [
"It's understood that the right therapy can be helpful with trauma.",
"It's sad for a person to miss out on having children that wants them."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker doesn't want to attempt therapy for the horrible things they've been through.",
"Speaker is suffering trauma effects of past abuse and does not feel they can be helped.",
"speaker doesn't want to go to therapy"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/87z7wu | 4,706 | 2 | true |
I went out to eat at a restaurant but I will not pay because of false advertising. | Wouldn't basic decency tell you to pay for your food? | [
"You should always pay for something if you have been promised it."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"It's wrong to not pay for your food.",
"It's wrong to not pay for food at restaurant.",
"You shouldn't advertise falsely, but you should also pay for the items you bought to eat at a restaurant."
] | ethics_reddit | 4,707 | 0 | false | |
Whatever, I don't feel like paying for their lies | I get that deceptive practices are bad, but you sat down and ate the food so you need to pay for the services. it doesn't matter if you were lied to, you can always just write a scathing review. | [
"You should pay for services you use at a business."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speak is convinced has a right to not pay.",
"Speaker explains why they don't want to pay.",
"Justifies not paying the restaurant because the speaker claims that the restaurant lied to them."
] | ethics_reddit | 4,707 | 1 | false | |
That's not good enough for me and I'm going claim my rights. | That is unfair to the workers at the restaurant. You should always pay for services rendered to you regardless of the advertising. You can bring it up to the manager, but don't make the workers suffer for something out of their control. | [
"It's good to be considerate of service workers."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker has delusional ideas of being right to steal.",
"Speaker is set in ways, will cause conflict.",
"Not agreeing with the other person's advice and will continue to not pay for their food."
] | ethics_reddit | 4,707 | 2 | true | |
I hurt my little sister a lot. | Why would you hurt her? | [
"You shouldn't hurt kids."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It is wrong to hurt your sibling.",
"not cool dude!",
"Speaker has hurt another person, though it may have been in the past"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/e8zjxg | 4,708 | 0 | false |
She doesn't listen to me. | Not only should you not hurt children, you definitely shouldn't harm your family. You have abuse-related issues. | [
"You shouldn't harm your family members.",
"You shouldn't abuse others."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are justifying hurting their sister just because she doesn't listen.",
"not a valid reason to hurt her",
"Speaker's attitude is malicious"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/e8zjxg | 4,708 | 1 | false |
Nah, I was just playing. I do want to hurt her, though. | You should try a different approach if she is not listening to you. Hurting your sister is considered child abuse and you could go to jail for a long time. | [
"You shouldn't do things that could send you to jail."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are admitting that they didn't actually harm their sister, but they apparently like the thought.",
"ignoring the feedback",
"Continuation of previous label"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/e8zjxg | 4,708 | 2 | true |
I'm going to cut off all contact with a girl because she just wanted to be friends | Can you tell me more about this? | [
"It's unfair to demand a person have interest in you sexually."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's hurtful to cut off all contact with a person because they rejected you.",
"You shouldn't rudely exclude someone from your life permanently.",
"it's rude to ghost someone just because they won't date you"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a3haq5 | 4,709 | 0 | false |
She says that she want to be my friend, but she wants me to say that I love her as one. | It's not right to expect a person to always have an interest in you sexually. However, if it's bothering you then it's best to part ways. | [
"You shouldn't expect someone to return your sexual or romantic interest",
"It's ok to not be friends with someone if the relationship makes you unhappy"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker explains situation between him and friend.",
"Attempt made by speaker to justify rudely excluding someone from their life permanently.",
"speaker is providing context without reconsidering behavior"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a3haq5 | 4,709 | 1 | false |
I guess, just talking to her wasn't helping and I don't understand why she wants an emotional connection. | It's wise then to just cut things off in the end, because it's not healthy to only want sex. How would she feel if she were just seen as an object when she wants to be something more than that? Maybe it's best to give her friendship a chance, maybe she'll warm up to you for real. | [
"You shouldn't be upset with someone for wanting an emotional connection"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker further expresses confusion about relationship.",
"Attempt made by speaker to explain the reasons for rudely excluding someone from their life permanently.",
"speaker is providing context without reconsidering behavior"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a3haq5 | 4,709 | 2 | true |
While we were swimming I wasn't paying much attention to anything else. It was so much fun to just forget it all. | Can you tell me more about that? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker is sharing a personal story",
"They talk about swimming",
"speaker is talking about swimming"
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/aaec04fa-36b7-4ee8-9495-580cadd14c08/sentence2 | 4,710 | 0 | false |
I was just busy swimming all day long. | It is good to do things you enjoy. What did the other people think of this? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker expands on their personal story.",
"They don't elaborate much more",
"speaker continues to discuss swimming"
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/aaec04fa-36b7-4ee8-9495-580cadd14c08/sentence2 | 4,710 | 1 | false |
What other people? It was just me and my friend. | You have made a good choice of how to get healthy and spend time with a friend. Exercise such as swimming will reduce the need for medical care later and at the same time it is social for you and your friend to have fun, how nice. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Casual conversation.",
"They talk about being with a friend",
"there's nothing socially unacceptable here"
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/aaec04fa-36b7-4ee8-9495-580cadd14c08/sentence2 | 4,710 | 2 | true |
I'm not going to attend my girlfriend's recital. | Why not? | [
"It's wrong not to support your partner."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker isn't going to attend an event, no context given to make a judgment.",
"Speaker talks about not wanting to go to a partner's event.",
"Speaker refuses to support gf's musical career."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a0p9pm | 4,711 | 0 | false |
She's an asshole to me and I don't care about her. | One should be supportive of of their partner, but if you strongly dislike her that's a different thing. You don't have to attend the recital, but you should also end the relationship as it's clearly not working for either of you. | [
"You should be supportive of your partner's passions",
"If a relationship is not working, you should not drag it out"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker concludes by using vulgar language to describe somebody.",
"Speaker calls partner name.",
"Speaker judges and criticizes gf."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a0p9pm | 4,711 | 1 | false |
I'm going to watch American Idol instead. | You might regret not going. If you don't like her it might be better to break up now so you both can find people better suited for a relationship. | [
"You should be respectful of your partner's desires",
"If you think a relationship is over, you should be honest about it"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker doesn't seem to be listening to the advice given, just blows it off.",
"Speaker doesn't listen to advice, would rather go about their own way causing trouble.",
"Speaker blatantly ignores good feedback on relationship and refuses to deal with it."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a0p9pm | 4,711 | 2 | true |
I slept with my mom's boss's husband. | How did you get yourself into such a sticky situation? | [
"It's wrong to sleep with someone's spouse."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Unethical behavior",
"they slept with someone else's husband",
"We don't know enough yet to judge."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/6v6nke | 4,712 | 0 | false |
I seduced him, because I'm a seductive person. | It's completely inappropriate to sleep with the husband of your mom's boss, because he's a married man. You shouldn't get into sexual relationships with married people because you could contribute to the breakup of a marriage and family, and because sleeping with a married person never ends well for anyone. | [
"You shouldn't enable others to cheat"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Unethical behavior",
"they slept with someone who is married",
"It's not acceptable to seduce others."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/6v6nke | 4,712 | 1 | false |
I'm rich and I'm going to buy everyone off. I will pay their families and their mortgage so he won't tell. | I think that you should just quit while you are ahead. Sleeping with someone's spouse is not okay and you should try to stay out of those situations. | [
"You shouldn't repeat past mistakes"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Unethical intentions",
"they want to bribe people to get around doing something wrong",
"It's wrong to assume you are above the law."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/6v6nke | 4,712 | 2 | true |
I'm going to playfully tease my brother about a girl that liked him | Why do you need to tease him about the girl? Does he like her as well? | [
"People should never tease family members."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Making fun of their brother may hurt his feelings.",
"Nothing said was unethical|Nothing said was unethical|Nothing said was unethical",
"might not like the teasing"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aj40x6 | 4,713 | 0 | false |
Yes, I tease him for fun | You need to make sure that your brother is having fun, too, when you tease him. It's not nice to tease people you care about, so make sure he isn't hurt by what you say. | [
"It's not nice to tease your family members."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Teasing someone for fun isn't cool.",
"Nothing said was unethical|Nothing said was unethical|Nothing said was unethical",
"he might not think it is fun"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aj40x6 | 4,713 | 1 | false |
It's not a big deal and no one can get hurt. | You're right that no one gets hurt with teasing, but you may be annoying and he may not be comfortable with you always teasing him about it so maybe do it minimally or maybe just joke around other things entirely as the joke may have already gotten old. | [
"You should joke about a variety of topics."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It sounds like the brother can get hurt or even just annoyed which is bad enough.",
"Nothing said was unethical|Nothing said was unethical|playful teasing is normal between siblings",
"teasing can hurt people"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aj40x6 | 4,713 | 2 | true |
I'm going to threaten to withold funding from another player's d&d character's pursuit of their ultimate goal | Don't you think its rude to make threats to withhold funding? | [
"It's rude to threaten to withhold something from someone that they have earned."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"threats are rude",
"depends on why you are withholding",
"it's rude to play a game unfairly"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b7h9kb | 4,714 | 0 | false |
Please don't be so naive :P | Well, I don't really know much about D&D but to me it sounds a little mean-spirited to take these sorts of actions against them. If it's all through the role playing, I guess it's okay. Just don't let it get out of hand. | [
"It's okay to do potentially wrong things in a role play."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"threats are unethical",
"if you have a good reason it is ok",
"speaker is being rude about advice"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b7h9kb | 4,714 | 1 | false |
I just want to ruin the game for them for being a bad sport. | If it's the case that this is reality, then I do believe you shouldn't try to do such things. What about the other players, do you think they're going to have a lot of fun with this kind of drama spilling out? | [
"You shouldn't pick fights while playing a game."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"punishing someone for the same thing you are doing is hypocritical and may cause conflicts in future",
"punishing bad sportsman ship is a legit reason",
"it is rude to ruin a game for others"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b7h9kb | 4,714 | 2 | true |
Do I really have to open this jar of pickles for this old lady? | Why don't want to do it? Do you dislike her? | [
"You should help people who need it."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's rude not to help someone open a jar if they can't do it.",
"Speaker asks question about helping out old lady.",
"Reasonably questions what chores they have to do."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b701fe | 4,715 | 0 | false |
I don't care for those people who call my name and they expect me to be there | It's just a jar of pickles, man. Help the woman and move on with your life. | [
"You should always help people if they can't do something"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker coming up with excuses not to help someone in need.",
"Speaker explains why they don't feel the need to open the jar.",
"Is being dismissive to people who need their help, which is rude."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b701fe | 4,715 | 1 | false |
I'm going to hold this grudge for a long time. | It doesn't matter if it upsets or annoys you, because when someone needs your help then you are expected to at least try and help. If one day you need help, you will want someone to be there for you. | [
"You should think about when you will need help one day"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker upset and wanting to hold a grudge.",
"Speaker is intent on not helping lady, could cause conflict for her.",
"Doesn't want to move on from the problems, which is unhealthy."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b701fe | 4,715 | 2 | true |
I don't know what to do anymore about my problems. | How can I help you with your issues? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Sounds like they could use help, but it's not an emergency.",
"the speaker is casually expressing their thoughts about their problems.",
"casual conversation"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cdnmf9 | 4,716 | 0 | false |
I desperately need someone to advise me, but I can't possibly deal with a mental health person because they are crazy. | I understand you need advice and you may be frightened of therapists, but they are not crazy. You need to consult with a professional for help with your delusions. | [
"It is understandable to be reluctant to speak to a therapist about your mental health issues",
"It is a sign that you have mental health issues if you think that all therapists are insane"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to call mental health professionals crazy.",
"The person speaks ill of those with a mental illness.",
"being rude towards someone of a certain profession"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cdnmf9 | 4,716 | 1 | false |
You can't understand me. I don't want to mess with a therapist. | Look, therapists are trained professionals who deal with things that we may think are crazy, but they really aren't. There is nothing to be afraid of in dealing with a therapist as they can help you with your problems and with your issues and fear around therapists themselves. | [
"You shouldn't worry about seeing a therapist, they have the training to help you."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are continuing this belief.",
"The speaker talks more about therapists.",
"does not apologize for being rude about a therapist"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cdnmf9 | 4,716 | 2 | true |
I sometimes call my sister my cat's name | Why would you instigate trouble with your sister? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker talks about unusual name calling.",
"Speaker is admitting to a funny mistake.",
"Unclear if speaker is being insulting with their language."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dokjc2 | 4,717 | 0 | false |
I don't know it just comes out that way. | It's not uncommon for people to call someone by the wrong name occasionally, so I wouldn't feel bad about calling your sister by your cat's name. I think as long as she knows that you aren't doing it on purpose to be mean then you're okay. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker admits they don't know why they do it.",
"Speaker is admitting to a funny mistake.",
"Speaker explains their language is not meant to be insulting."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dokjc2 | 4,717 | 1 | false |
I guess so. I thought it was weird but I've never really been around my sister so I don't care. | No harm done. It's just a name and people tend to forget names if it is just basic. | [
"It's normal to call people the wrong name sometimes."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker thinks nothing of it, no harm done.",
"Speaker may be intentionally calling their cat after their sister to be disrespectful.",
"Speaker continues to explain they are not being demeaning with their language."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dokjc2 | 4,717 | 2 | true |
I'm going to get a guy fired on his first week of work | Why would you try and get him fired? | [
"It is expected that you do your best from the very first day of work."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's unethical to get people fired.",
"Says they want to get someone fired, but doesn't say why.",
"You shouldn't get people fired."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b6r436 | 4,718 | 0 | false |
He stole the report from me, he was rude to my colleague and I think it's time for him to find a new job. | I'm sorry this has happened to you. It is expected that you do your best from the very first day of work. I would let your boss know what is going on so he can take the appropriate action instead of you. | [
"It's good to let your boss know when an employee is doing a bad job"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't take HR matters into your own hands.",
"Gives some pretty good reasons why this person should be fired.",
"Speaker wants revenge and wants to get someone fired."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b6r436 | 4,718 | 1 | false |
I'm going to take revenge from this guy anyway. | I don't think you should necessarily seek revenge on this person. Just talk to your boss and explain what is going on. | [
"It's wrong to seek revenge on people"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's dangerous to try to take revenge on people.",
"You shouldn't seek revenge on coworkers.",
"Speaker wants revenge."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b6r436 | 4,718 | 2 | true |
May your gender never be neutral and you remember who you are just look down and see what you got before you head out to the bar | What are you trying to say to me? | [
"It's not right to think gender identity is dictated by genitalia"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's a bit confusing if this is meant to be offensive or not.",
"its rude to make fun of different gender",
"you shouldn't make jokes about people's sexual identity"
] | sbic | 4,719 | 0 | false | |
Gender isn't based off genitals, it's based on your choice | I agree with you on that! I think that gender is based on how you feel inside as a person. Good for you for being so open minded. | [
"It's not right to think gender identity is dictated by genitalia"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker is just sharing their thoughts on Gender, which is acceptable.",
"speaker thinks gender is based off choice",
"violet says something very appropriate, contradicting their previous statement."
] | sbic | 4,719 | 1 | true | |
I cheated on my gf with the guy that she cheated on me with | Why did you both cheat with the same person? | [
"It is bad to cheat on your girlfriend"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to cheat on your S.O.",
"It's rude to cheat your significant other.",
"it's wrong to cheat on someone even if they did it first"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cf1zgn | 4,720 | 0 | false |
My mom said they were friendly, and we had never dated. | You shouldn't cheat on your partner just because they cheated on you. If monogamy doesn't work in your relationship, you should discuss that openly and honestly. | [
"It's wrong to seek revenge on a partner.",
"You should use a dialogue to address relationship issues."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Response is nonsensical.",
"Nothing really wrong with this comment, but not showing remorse for their actions either.",
"speaker provides context without renouncing behavior"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cf1zgn | 4,720 | 1 | false |
It doesn't matter, she is a slut and everyone knows it now. | You can't judge your girlfriend's behavior if you did the same thing. It doesn't make sense to insult her or hold her to a standard that you aren't holding yourself to. Cheating is wrong. | [
"It's wrong to judge people hypocritically.",
"It's wrong to be unfaithful to a partner."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker exclaims, \"It doesn't matter, she is a slut and everyone knows it now.\"",
"Back to being super offensive.",
"speaker provides context without renouncing behavior"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cf1zgn | 4,720 | 2 | true |
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