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I feel trapped and tired of pretending. | Why do you think you feel like you are trapped? | [
"You should get out of a situation if you feel trapped."
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"needs intervention",
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"its okay to feel this way",
"It's wrong to feel like this, it sounds like a cry for help.",
"Speaker feels trapped."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dh3w3h | 5,775 | 0 | false |
I just feel like I can't break up with my girlfriend. | It's understandable to feel that way, but you should end your relationship if you feel trapped. It isn't healthy to stay in a situation that you dislike being in. I think you should talk to your girlfriend and tell her that you need to break up. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
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"Nothing socially unacceptable",
"The speaker is just having a life problem.",
"Speaker can't break up with gf."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dh3w3h | 5,775 | 1 | false |
She probably deserves better and I have to let her go. | Feeling trapped in a relationship is a terrible feeling. If you want to leave your partner you are better off doing it sooner than later. This may be difficult, but it will be worth it in the long run for your happiness. | [
"It's good to end a relationship that isn't healthy.",
"It's good to do difficult things that will make you happy."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"casual",
"needs intervention",
"casual"
] | [
"Its okay to be scared in relationship",
"This sounds like a mental health issue.",
"Speaker feels sad and says gf deserves better."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dh3w3h | 5,775 | 2 | true |
Is it okay to not want to call my stepfather dad? | What are your thoughts about why you don't want to call your stepfather dad? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker casually discussed a family situation",
"More context needed to judge",
"This is a reasonable question."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b64kqu | 5,776 | 0 | false |
Because I don't feel that he is my father. | Some step parents have to earn the fact they should be called mom or dad. Be more liberal with him and show him you already love him like a dad, which will make him happier to act more like one. You wouldn't want to refer to him as just "that guy who is my step dad" all the time, it will be too challenging for you both... | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
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"speaker elaborated on their situation",
"A valid reason is described",
"They are honestly expressing how they feel."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b64kqu | 5,776 | 1 | false |
What do you propose I do? What if I tell you to shut up, who are you to tell me how I should feel? | I'm merely suggesting an answer to your question. Give your stepdad a chance and see if you two are able to bond over time. If he doesn't earn the title of "dad" in your eyes, then you can always refer to him by his first name. | [
"You should call your stepfather \"dad\" to make them happy."
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"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker became defensive when given helpful advice about their situation",
"Acting rudely towards the person that they are speaking to",
"They reply rudely to the grey chatter."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b64kqu | 5,776 | 2 | true |
THERE ARE LOTS OF REASONABLE FEMINISTS, LIKE YOU, BUT THEN THERE ARE THOSE ONES WHO JUST LIKE, HATE MEN | I'm not sure what you want to say with this statement. Can you help me understand? | [
"It's not right to think feminists hate men"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"you should not insult feminists",
"It's hurtful to think that many feminists actually hate men.",
"You shouldn't make judgements about a group of people."
] | sbic | 5,777 | 0 | false | |
I'm saying that there are reasonable feminists but then there are those ones who just like, hate men. I don't know what's their problem. | It's good that you recognize that most feminists are being reasonable. However, we shouldn't be so quick to ascribe motives to the few who appear to be unreasonable. They might have gone through a terrible experience that has left them weary and untrusting, and treating them badly in return will just perpetuate their... | [
"It's not right to think feminists hate men"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"thinks some feminists hate men",
"It's hurtful and offensive to believe that many feminists hate men.",
"Expands on their beliefs."
] | sbic | 5,777 | 1 | true | |
I'm a stripper and my boyfriend doesn't know. | Do you think he would be upset if he found out? | [
"You shouldn't keep your job a secret from your bf."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to not let your boyfriend know you're a sex worker.",
"Speaker dishonestly hides profession from bf.",
"speaker is hiding information from boyfriend"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/eq2y36 | 5,778 | 0 | false |
I don't know, but I want to keep it a secret forever. | There's nothing wrong with you being a stripper but you shouldn't keep that from your boyfriend. He's going to find out one day when he tries to figure out where you're getting money from and end up even more hurt just because you didn't tell him. If he's not okay with what you chose to do then he probably shouldn't be... | [
"You should be open and honest with your significant other"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.",
"Scheming to keep info private from bf engaged in by speaker.",
"speaker wants to continue hiding personal information from boyfriend"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/eq2y36 | 5,778 | 1 | false |
I don't want to hear this again. | It seems like it would be very stressful to try to keep such a big secret, and that's not good for you or your relationship. If he judges you over your job, he's probably not a good boyfriend for you. | [
"You shouldn't keep secrets from your significant other",
"You shouldn't judge your significant other's career choices"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They haven't been swayed to tell him.",
"Speaker willfully ignores input that could be helpful.",
"speaker doesn't accept critique/keeping secrets from significant other"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/eq2y36 | 5,778 | 2 | true |
I'm thinking of stealing my roommate's body wash. You think that's a good idea? | Why do you want to do that? | [
"It's rude to take something that isn't yours."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"It is rude and dishonest to do that.",
"stealing is a crime",
"Desires to steal from roommate."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ad4tly | 5,779 | 0 | false |
My roommate always takes my body wash by accident. I think that it is fair for me to take his so that I won't have to buy a new one for a while. | You should communicate this and avoid stealing their stuff. Two wrongs do not make a right. | [
"It's wrong to steal someone's things"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"It is revengeful",
"stealing things without a discussion is rude and unethical",
"Wants to retaliate by stealing back, which will cause more tension between them."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ad4tly | 5,779 | 1 | false |
I will continue to do this and just not tell my roommate. I will also cover their toothbrush since I have to use it more often. | You're telling me you're frustrated with him using your body wash, but you want to do the same thing to him. Just tell him how to rectify the situation. | [
"It's good to communicate with someone who's been talking your things"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"The speaker is not remorseful and rejects the advice.",
"stealing bodywash is a crime, unethical and rude",
"Refuses to reconcile with roommate and will keep resorting to stealing."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ad4tly | 5,779 | 2 | true |
I feel happy when I see men who are depressed and suicidal. | Why do you feel this way? | [
"You shouldn't be happy over other peoples' misfortunes."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"feeling happy about this seems cruel and heartless",
"bad to like enjoying misery",
"Getting joy from other people's suffering."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a5pzcd | 5,780 | 0 | false |
I love it when people die, especially men | While it's good that you aren't feeling depressed yourself, it is terrible to take pleasure in someone else's misfortunes. Furthermore, it's wrong to judge people based on their gender. If you can, you should help people who are depressed. | [
"You shouldn't judge people based on gender",
"You should help people who are depressed"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker needs help and they are very immoral thinkers",
"dying is awful",
"Getting joy from other people's suffering."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a5pzcd | 5,780 | 1 | false |
I don't want to help them and I'm sure no guy wants my help. | It is not right to be happy when people die. We should be caring for each other and looking out for our well being. | [
"You shouldn't be happy when people die",
"You should look out for other's well being"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker is not sorry for thinking this way",
"disturbing to enjoy others pain",
"Not caring what what they're doing is wrong and not wanting to be prosocial"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a5pzcd | 5,780 | 2 | true |
I want my girlfriend to only be mine? | Thats not too unusual. Why do you need to clarify that you want her to be only yours? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"The speaker innocently confesses he wants his girlfriend for himself.",
"speaker explains how they want their girlfriend to only be with them",
"Speaker discloses with that his girlfriend be \"only mine.\""
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dpjhp2 | 5,781 | 0 | false |
She's my partner, and I should be the only one she wants. | It's fine to want an exclusive relationship, but don't become overbearing. It usually just pushes them away. Let them be themselves. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
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"The speaker explains more of their reasoning for their thoughts.",
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dpjhp2 | 5,781 | 1 | false |
I'm not going to look down on her for having her own friends. | Thats good to hear. Just because you care for someone doesn't mean you shouldn't let them live their own lives. I'm sure she'll appreciate having her freedom while still coming home to you. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
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"Speaker explains they will be rude towards her.",
"speaker realizes that they should not be overbearing and allow their partner to spend time with friends.",
"Speaker states that he would not feel less of her for having her own friends."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dpjhp2 | 5,781 | 2 | true |
I think my company is losing a contract and getting a different one. I haven't told my co-workers about the new contract because I want them to quit for fear of being laid off so there is less competition. | Why would you want your coworkers to quit out of fear? | [
"It's normal to look out for yourself",
"You shouldn't hurt other people to benefit yourself"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's unethical to want people to quite their jobs as it could put them and family in harm.",
"It's unfair to want coworkers quit so that you can have less competition",
"It's wrong to withhold material information from your employees in hopes that they'll quit."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/1mlr7w | 5,782 | 0 | false |
Yes, the business is doing poorly so the company wants to cut costs. | It is wrong to hurt people and might harm your relationships if they find out. You should always tell people the truth. | [
"You shouldn't do things that hurt your coworkers.",
"It's good to be honest with your coworkers."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker further explains their position.",
"It's unfair to want coworkers quit so that you can have less competition",
"Speaker states the business is doing poorly so the company wants to cut costs."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/1mlr7w | 5,782 | 1 | false |
Haha, yea. That is why I am leaving my job, the contract dispute will cause layoffs. I'm sick of working here, I need to go. | I understand wanting to leave the job, but you shouldn't hurt people in the process. Just tell them what is going on and let them decide what is best for them, just like you are doing for yourself. | [
"It's wrong to let your actions affect other coworkers.",
"It's good to be straightforward with your coworkers."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker seems to want to leave situation completely rather resolve any issues.",
"It's unfair to want coworkers quit if you are leaving anyway",
"Speaker states he's leaving his job because the contract dispute will cause layoff and he's sick of working there."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/1mlr7w | 5,782 | 2 | true |
I'm going to change the wifi password on my roommate | Why are you changing it? | [
"It's fine to not let others use what is yours."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"nothing wrong here so far",
"they want to change the wifi on their roommate",
"They are changing something and it is rude."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ap1h08 | 5,783 | 0 | false |
I don't want to share my wifi password with anyone. | Why have you shared your wifi password in the first place? Unless he was paying for your wifi, what is yours is yours and there are boundaries for people on how they use your things. While it's okay to not let them use your wifi, I still would recommend you talk with them to make sure they understand that it's yours an... | [
"It's wrong to be spiteful to a roommate.",
"You should talk things out if you're having issues."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"nothing wrong here so far",
"they dont want their roommate to be able to use the wifi",
"They aren't sharing with their roommate and it's rude."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ap1h08 | 5,783 | 1 | false |
I'm sleepy, I don't want to talk about this shit now. | It's cool if you don't want to talk about it. If it's your wifi you're free to keep the password to yourself. | [
"It's okay to keep whats yours.",
"You're allowed to not want to discuss something."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"nothing wrong here so far",
"they changed the wifi password on their roommate and dont care",
"They refuse to see what they are doing is wrong."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ap1h08 | 5,783 | 2 | true |
I'm just the crazy one | Why do you feel that way? | [
"It is bad to think negetive thoughts about yourself."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker is discussing their sanity.",
"Speaker is expressing their feelings",
"Speaker may need some help with these feelings"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/2mbng9 | 5,784 | 0 | false |
I don't know. I'm just, crazy. | You should not demean yourself. If you lack self esteem you can talk to a prosessional. | [
"It's good to talk to a professional if you're feeling down about yourself."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
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"casual",
"needs caution"
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"speaker might have mental issues.",
"Speaker is expressing their feelings",
"Continuation of previous label"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/2mbng9 | 5,784 | 1 | false |
Therapy is silly, that stuff is for losers | Well at this point you are thinking yourself as a loser and are seeking help. A lot of people seek therapy and there is no shame in that. | [
"You shouldn't feel shame in seeking therapy."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker ignores criticism.",
"Speaker calls others losers",
"Speaker dismisses need for help"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/2mbng9 | 5,784 | 2 | true |
how do you bring a dead frenchman back to life ? re - animate him in a shitty cartoon . | Do you make jokes about other Europeans as well? | [
"It's not right to insult the french"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to make joke about french men.",
"Its offensive to make jokes about cultures.",
"It's offensive to make jokes about a culture"
] | sbic | 5,785 | 0 | false | |
I am talking about the french here. Going to Holland is fun now that they don't have those wooden shoes anymore lol | French people are just like other people and they would hate to be insulted like anybody else, especially for being french since nobody chooses where they are born. You would not like it if people from other countries insulted you for where you were born. | [
"It's not right to insult the french"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker makes jokes about people from other countries.",
"It's offensive to make jokes about other cultures.",
"It's offensive to make harmful jokes about a culture of people"
] | sbic | 5,785 | 1 | true | |
I'm unwilling to change my toxic behavior | Why wouldn't you want to change your toxic behavior? | [
"It's rude to refuse to try to change your bad behavior."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Wants to continue their admitted toxic behavior.",
"Speaker is unwilling to change their bad behavior.",
"Speaker refuses to change their bad behavior."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b08l8f | 5,786 | 0 | false |
I've had bad experiences before when I changed my behavior. | I'm sorry you had bad experiences, but you should not be toxic just for the sake of not wanting to change. You should find a way to avoid the toxicity without the downsides of changing your behavior. | [
"You shouldn't try to make others lives harder",
"You should be willing to improve"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Explains why they don't want to change.",
"Speaker continues to not want to change their bad behavior.",
"Speaker changed their behavior before, but not now."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b08l8f | 5,786 | 1 | false |
It's fine. I will keep being toxic as I always have been. | Refusing to change your behavior when you know it needs to be changed is a sign of weak character. Reflection and learning from your mistakes is very important to improve as a human. | [
"You should try to improve yourself",
"You shouldn't be trying to hurt others"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Reiterates that they will continue to be toxic.",
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"Speaker refuses to change."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b08l8f | 5,786 | 2 | true |
Do you think I should refuse to lie to my parents? | Have you thought about lying to them before? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
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"They are looking for advice.",
"Speaker asks an honest question",
"Odd question but polite."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/awwybs | 5,787 | 0 | false |
Yes, I didn't want to tell them the truth about my grades | Honesty is noble and it's the right thing to do. Lying would only create more lies in the future so it's best to get the truth in as soon as possible. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
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"They are looking for advice. It would be unethical for them to lie, but they haven't yet.",
"Speaker is casually talking about a situation they are in",
"They are explaining past situations."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/awwybs | 5,787 | 1 | false |
I like that advice. It's not right to lie to people. | Honesty is the best policy, especially when it comes to your parents. Lying to them would only cause them to distrust you. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"They seem to be taking the advice, which is good.",
"In the end, the speaker listened to advice and will do the right thing",
"They agreed with the advice provided by the grey chat."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/awwybs | 5,787 | 2 | true |
I'm going to pretend to be asleep | Why would you pretend to sleep? | [
"It's wrong to trick people."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker will pretend",
"This is not overly wrong, a lot of people do it and maybe they have a good enough reason.",
"Speaker is being deceptive."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b32lhh | 5,788 | 0 | false |
I don't want my girlfriend to know I'm awake | You shouldn't pretend to be asleep to fool your girlfriend. If there is a reason that you're avoiding her then you should tell her. | [
"It's mean to ignore people on purpose.",
"You should be upfront if you don't want to talk at the moment."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker wants to fool gf",
"I think this person just wants to rest is all, nothing bad about that. They could just tell her though too.",
"Speaker is being deceptive to avoid their girlfriend."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b32lhh | 5,788 | 1 | false |
I didn't want her to think that I hate her, I just want to be alone. | It is wrong to trick people into believing a lie. IF you want to spend time alone you should tell her so she does not be come worried about you. | [
"It's ok to want to be alone sometimes.",
"You shouldn't play games with people when you can just as easily discuss the issue with them."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker just wants to be alone",
"Not sure why they think they would be hated, but even still this is done with no real huge ill intentions.",
"Speaker is being deceptive to avoid their girlfriend."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b32lhh | 5,788 | 2 | true |
I'm not going to ask my best friend to prom even though she wanted me to | Did something happen to you and your friend? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's fine not to ask people out if you don't want to.",
"Situation is too unclear to judge",
"Speaker won't ask best friend to prom."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b67go9 | 5,789 | 0 | false |
Because, she doesn't like boys and I don't like girls. | I think once you explain your reasoning to your friend, she will understand. It doesn't mean you have to like the other person to attend prom. You can go as friends and have a good time. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's fine not to ask people out if you aren't attracted to them.",
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"Speaker is not comfortable with it."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b67go9 | 5,789 | 1 | false |
You're right, I'm going to ask her right now. | Plan the night ahead and she will remember it for the rest of her life. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker listened to suggestions and changed their mind.",
"Speaker seems willing to act kindly to his friend",
"Speaker is going to ask her now."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b67go9 | 5,789 | 2 | true |
How about I hate that hate that my younger sister is going to church. | Did something happen that makes you hate your younger sisters going to church? | [
"It's wrong to force your religious beliefs on other people."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't hate your sibling",
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"It's rude to disrespect religious practices."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/d04j10 | 5,790 | 0 | false |
Because I'm agnostic and I find this behavior disgusting | Everyone has freedom of religion and you are wrong trying to force your beliefs on your sisters. You shouldn't judge them because they are your sisters. After all, they don't judge you for being agnostic right? | [
"It's wrong to force your religious beliefs on other people.",
"You shouldn't judge family members for their religious beliefs."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't judge others faith",
"You shouldn't judge other people's relationship to religion.",
"You shouldn't judge others because of religion."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/d04j10 | 5,790 | 1 | false |
They should learn the truth, so I'm going to blast my beliefs on them. | Usually people allow others to choose their own religious beliefs. | [
"It's good to let other people choose what religion they want to follow."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"its rude to push your beliefs on others",
"You shouldn't put people down because of your own beliefs about religion.",
"It's wrong to force religious beliefs onto others."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/d04j10 | 5,790 | 2 | true |
I'm going to yell at my mum on the street | Why do you need to yell at your mom? | [
"It's rude to get aggravated with family members in public when you could of said something to them politely."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It is wrong to yell at a parent.",
"They want to yell at their mother",
"Speaker wants to yell at mother"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/awd62f | 5,791 | 0 | false |
She is a mentally out of shape lady she can't take care of herself well. It frustrates me so much and I just want to scream. | I understand that dealing with her mental problems can be really frustrating but that doesn't mean you should yell at her in public for it. | [
"It is wrong to tell yell at someone in public.",
"It is understandable to be frustrated dealing with someone's mental healthy problems."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It is wrong to take your anger out on a parent.",
"They insult their mom",
"Still talking about yelling at mother"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/awd62f | 5,791 | 1 | false |
I don't care what you say. I'm gonna yell at her and drive her nuts. | Purposely making a scene in front of strangers is pretty awful action to take just because it amuses you. Your mother may be very embarrassed already about her mental behavior and making it worse will only break her down more. Be the bigger person and ignore the situation. | [
"It is rude to make a scene in front of strangers.",
"It is wrong to be amused by embarrassing others."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are still insisting on being mean to their mother.",
"They insist on yelling",
"Speaker is unwilling to change rude behavior"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/awd62f | 5,791 | 2 | true |
If you did a stand up comedy show for alzheimer's patients you could last 2 hours with just the one joke. | This joke is kind of insensitive, despite being sort of funny. | [
"It's not right to think mentally disabled folks can't remember things"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's shameful to joke about alzheimer's.",
"It's not in good taste to speak this way about an illness that needs more sympathy than that.",
"You shouldn't mock disabled folks."
] | sbic | 5,792 | 0 | false | |
It's just a joke. Alzheimer's patients don't know anything and it makes me laugh. | While it is true that people with Alzheimer forget things, it is kind of mean to make a joke like that. This joke may do well in a stand up, however it could offend someone who has dealt with a family member with this health problem. | [
"It's not right to think mentally disabled folks can't remember things"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is rude and unkind.",
"Speaker defends them self just stating it is a joke. But it is a badly done one.",
"ignoring the feedback"
] | sbic | 5,792 | 1 | true | |
I'm going to try to get revenge on a cheater. | How are you hoping to get revenge on a cheater? | [
"You shouldn't get revenge on others."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"revenge can be dangerous depending on action",
"Speaker wants revenge.",
"speaker is talking about taking revenge"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ad39ls | 5,793 | 0 | false |
I'll find a way to hurt them. | It's understandable that you feel hurt about being cheated on but seeking revenge isn't good. | [
"It's not good to want revenge on people"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"hurting someone physically is a crime",
"Speaker wants to hurt the cheater.",
"speaker is still discussing/plotting revenge"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ad39ls | 5,793 | 1 | false |
They should pay for hurting me though. | It's tempting to want to get revenge on people that hurt us but be aware that as long as you are thinking of vengeance you're not able to get on with your own life. If you did finally get revenge on them you would find that it wouldn't give you happiness, it's better just to move on. | [
"It's better to move on instead of getting revenge on people"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"could be violence related",
"Speaker still wants revenge.",
"speaker continues discussing/plotting revenge against someone"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ad39ls | 5,793 | 2 | true |
I'm going to yell at my aunt for telling my family I was in therapy | Why would you want to yell at your aunt? | [
"It's ok to go to therapy when you need it.",
"It's rude to expose that someone is in therapy."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"they want to yell at their aunt",
"Speaker wants to yell at their aunt.",
"Wants to yell at aunt for revealing therapy"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b8xuwn | 5,794 | 0 | false |
She told everyone and never has supported me. | It is rude to isolate others for their mental health problems. She should not have told people but you should also not yell at her for doing so. | [
"You shouldn't isolate others because of mental health problems.",
"You shouldn't be confrontational when confronting family."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"they want to yell at their aunt",
"Speaker is mad at their aunt.",
"Still wants to yell at aunt for not being supportive"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b8xuwn | 5,794 | 1 | false |
She deserved it. | Your aunt made a mistake and shouldn't have betrayed you like that. Calm down a bit and wait a couple of days before you approach her again. You will be more level headed and she will be more likely to listen to you if you sound reasonable. | [
"It's good to take time to calm down before confronting a family member."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"they want to yell at their aunt",
"Speaker wants conflict.",
"Still thinks their aunt deserves to get yelled at"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b8xuwn | 5,794 | 2 | true |
I'm afraid of women and can't help seeing them as potential abusers. | Have you ever been abused by a woman? | [
"People should try to give everyone a chance individually."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker states he's afraid of women and can't help seeing them as potential abusers.",
"Speaker sees women as abusers.",
"Speaker is making assumptions about the opposite gender."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9uc72p | 5,795 | 0 | false |
No, but it's always in my thoughts, anyway. | You should be more open to women and treat them as individuals. Otherwise, you will always be lonely and feel unfulfilled. | [
"It's not okay to be afraid of an entire gender."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker states that even though he's never been abused by a woman, it's always in his thoughts.",
"Speaker reiterates views.",
"Continues talk about biased feelings towards women."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9uc72p | 5,795 | 1 | false |
Nah, I'm okay. I don't want to be tied down to anyone. | Women are just like men. You should give them a chance! | [
"You shouldn't let your fear decide how you feel about people.",
"It's best to be open and get to know people before making judgments."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker states he's OK and that he doesn't want to be tied down to anyone.",
"Speaker accepts their reality.",
"Speaker is rude to the other speaker."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9uc72p | 5,795 | 2 | true |
Is it okay if I tell my muslim classmate she looked better without her hijab on? | Have you ever said that before? | [
"It is friendly to compliment someone's appearance.",
"It is uncommon for a Muslim to remove their hijab in public."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is offensive",
"this would probably be offensive toward the classmate",
"It's rude to comment on the classmate's looks."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aqdm2t | 5,796 | 0 | false |
I've told her repeatedly on different occasions but she didn't take me seriously. | While I think it's friendly of you to pay someone a compliment on how they look, in this case I don't think that's such a good idea. Muslim women usually aren't allowed to remove their hijab in public. You're probably making her uncomfortable by saying she should. | [
"It's wrong to say uncomfortable things about how someone looks.",
"It's nice to compliment others."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is offensive even if they mean well",
"speaker should probably quit telling the other person this",
"The speaker is repeatedly making comments about the woman's physical attractiveness which is rude and probably harassment."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aqdm2t | 5,796 | 1 | false |
I don't care about what she's comfortable with. If a guy told a girl she looked better with her hijab on she would have said thank you. | You should try to find a way to compliment her that she will find appealing. Since she is muslim, she takes pride in wearing her hijab, so you are inadvertently giving her odd feedback. Let her know what other features you find to be nice. | [
"You should give people compliments that are appropriate to what they are comfortable with."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker doesn't care about the other persons feelings",
"not caring what the woman thinks is very rude and arrogant of the speaker",
"The speaker doesn't care about the woman's feelings and wants to be thanked for harassing her which is rude, unethical and offensive."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aqdm2t | 5,796 | 2 | true |
I'm in love with a married man and I'll never see again | Why would you fall in love with a married man? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker's feelings aren't necessarily unethical.",
"Says they're in love with a married man, but that they won't see him again.",
"unclear if this is rude or not in this situation"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/79u33y | 5,797 | 0 | false |
When I imagine a life with him it seems to be free of troubles. | I understand that it's difficult to control your feelings about him. You have to remember he is married to someone else and you should move on with your life. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker isn't talking about unethical action, just feelings she has.",
"Explains their love for this person.",
"this utterance isn't rude"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/79u33y | 5,797 | 1 | false |
Relationship status means nothing. | It's hard to control your romantic feelings towards others at times, but he's married and committed to someone else. Do you want his partner to be hurt? Wouldn't you feel awful if the roles were reversed? | [
"It's wrong to be in love with someone who is married."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker loves the wrong person but isn't being rude or unethical.",
"Now seems to want to pursue this person.",
"You shouldn't dismiss others relationships."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/79u33y | 5,797 | 2 | true |
I have been taking risks and putting my life in danger to feel alive | Why are you risking your life? | [
"It is good to talk to a therapist if you are engaging in risky behaviors."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"speaker is endangering life on purpose",
"they like risking their life",
"Speaker is intentionally engaging in risky behavior."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9futt4 | 5,798 | 0 | false |
I want my life to be like a movie like in the good old days | Putting your life at risk because you want action and to feel like a movie star is quite dangerous. Becoming an adrenaline junky is one thing, but it can go too far when you are doing things that worry loved ones. Talk to someone if you are jeopardizing your safety. | [
"You should not endanger your life just to get a thrill",
"It's good to talk to someone if you are feeling wreckless"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"same as before",
"they like risking their life for amusement",
"Speaker is intentionally engaging in risky behavior for excitement."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9futt4 | 5,798 | 1 | false |
So you think I should talk to someone and try to take it easy? | If you are taking big risks it is good to talk to someone if you feel out of control. If you continue you may get hurt or lose a lot of money. | [
"It is good to take back control of your life",
"It is not okay to endanger yourself"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"speaker thinks about easing up",
"they like risking their life for kicks",
"Speaker might be considering getting help but has not agreed to it."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9futt4 | 5,798 | 2 | true |
So as an Aussie I get asked by Americans, "Where isn't there something trying to kill you?" I turn around, look them in the eye, and tell them "school." | That's awful. Why would you joke about gun violence like that? | [
"You shouldn't trivialize harm to victims"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to make offensive jokes about school shootings.",
"It's offensive to joke about school shootings",
"It is offensive and hurtful to those who have lost children"
] | sbic | 5,799 | 0 | false | |
Just to piss them off. | While I can understand getting annoyed at being asked stereotypical questions about Australia, school shootings are tragic events in the United States and it isn't considered acceptable to use them to shut down a conversation since it trivializes what happened. Instead of trying to deliberately anger other people, try ... | [
"You shouldn't let passing comments from strangers ruin your day."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to joke about violence just to be hurtful.",
"Justifying the behavior",
"It is unethical to annoy people on purpose"
] | sbic | 5,799 | 1 | false | |
I don't care about making friends. In fact I would like to make my own shirts with politics on them like "Trump is the greatest". | That seems like you just want to cause problems. First by making light of something that causes so much pain to many people, like school shootings. Then by making light of our politics. | [
"It's not okay to be contentious for the sake of being contentious.",
"You shouldn't joke about things that cause people much suffering."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to do things just to antagonize people.",
"Rejecting the critique",
"It is antisocial attitude"
] | sbic | 5,799 | 2 | true | |
I'm angry at a kid and also her mom for trying to jump into my garden. | My garden is nice, they probably wanted to check it out. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"its ok to want to protect your property",
"Speaker describes a reasonable social reaction.",
"unclear if this is rude or not in this situation"
] | ethics_reddit | 5,800 | 0 | false | |
Yes, I have a fucking grass lawn! | Since gardens tend to have plants that are ornamental and fragile, it is understandable that you are upset at a child for wanting to jump into it. People should not trespass onto other people's property like that since it can be so damaging to the plants that grow in that area. You should try to talk with the kid's mom... | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"explaining why it happened",
"Speaker explains their frustration.",
"this utterance isn't rude"
] | ethics_reddit | 5,800 | 1 | false | |
It's my garden and they should stay out of it. | You clearly put effort into maintaining it and others should respect that effort and your property. I am sorry that happened to you. | [
"You shouldn't get so angry over someone mislabeling a living area."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"being rude to other speaker",
"Speaker is entitled to their feelings of anger.",
"You shouldn't outburst like this."
] | ethics_reddit | 5,800 | 2 | true | |
What do you think about me being a closeted girly girl? | I'm not sure what to think about it. Can you explain more? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker explains that they believe they are a girly-girl.",
"Speaker has a right to their sense of identity.",
"It is normal to be a closeted girly girl since it is not hurting anyone."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/euhgt8 | 5,801 | 0 | false |
I hate to sing in front of people. | It's okay if you want to enjoy being girl in private. However, you shouldn't feel like you are odd in any way just because you don't like to sing in public. Most people do not like to perform in front of others. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker is explaining that they just don't like to sing in front of people, but no red flags are raised.",
"Speaker has a right to feel this way.",
"Speaker explains further and the detail are understandable and not harmful. Many people do not like to sing in front of others."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/euhgt8 | 5,801 | 1 | false |
Bitch, I know that's not the truth. All girls wanna sing in front of people and I don't. Singing is part of my feminine identity. | Singing in front of others can be uncomfortable for anyone, regardless of your gender. But if you enjoy being a girly girl in private that's okay, you aren't harming anyone by doing so. | [
"It is ok if you enjoy being a girly girl in private."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker violet randomly started cursing and insulting Speaker Gray.",
"Speaker is rude and uses vulgar language.",
"Speaker is not receptive to feedback and calls the gray speaker a derogatory word. Speaker is also contradicting the advice."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/euhgt8 | 5,801 | 2 | true |
I'm going to park like this | Like what exactly? Is there no proper parking you can find? | [
"You shouldn't park wrong"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker talks about wanting to park a certain way.",
"Parking somehow but how so far?",
"sounds like they intend to park in an inappropriate place"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b0tcm9 | 5,802 | 0 | false |
There are not enough parking spaces to park properly, so I'm going to park like this for according to the rules. | Parking like that might be illegal. You shouldn't block others or park badly. Always find a way that you won't get in trouble with parking attendance. | [
"It's best to avoid breaking the law to avoid trouble."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker gives more context on their plan to park a certain way.",
"They seem like they might be parking wrongly even if they just stay there for a minute is wrong, and can cause a policeman to give them a ticket. It is not good to be that way.",
"sounds like they intend to park in an inappropriate place"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b0tcm9 | 5,802 | 1 | false |
It's not the end of the world. I'm just going to get out quickly anyways. | Make sure you get back quickly before you get ticketed or worse, have your car towed. But it's always be to follow then rules when parking. | [
"The legal route is always better than the easy route."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker claims that they want to get out of the parking space quickly. Still seems like a respectable conversation.",
"Yeah this is still wrong, any amount of time parking wrong can be a bad move. Police will see.",
"doesn't understand problem with parking in an inappropriate place"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b0tcm9 | 5,802 | 2 | true |
How about this, I'm going to turn up at a guys house after he ghosted me | Why? Do you think he is still willing to see you? | [
"You shouldn't turn up at someone's house without their permission."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker expresses her thought",
"It's wrong to do this. They might seem like a stalker.",
"Showing up unwanted at someone's house"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b00e7a | 5,803 | 0 | false |
I don't know. But I'll keep texting him so he can read my texts | There are people who have ghosted me in the past, and it's a curious thing to know why they have done that. but going into his house without him knowing may be very disturbing for him, and you may end up getting a restraining order or worse, getting arrested because of it. If I were you, I would just forget about this ... | [
"You should not stalk other people",
"It is best to move on from people who have treated you unfairly"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It is rude and annoying",
"They are making excuses for their behavior.",
"Continuing to text and show up at someone's house after being ghosted"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b00e7a | 5,803 | 1 | false |
You're a dick | I think they made it clear they no longer want to see you. Have you tried looking for other people to date yet? | [
"If someone cuts you out of their life, they are not worth your time",
"You should find a partner who treats you properly"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker becomes defensive and doesn't accept the advice.",
"They haven't been swayed from being uneical.",
"Continuing to text and show up at someone's house after being ghosted and responding rudely when spoken too"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b00e7a | 5,803 | 2 | true |
What if I tell my coworker's wife about his affairs? | Do you think it's your place to inform her? | [
"It is wrong to get involved in other people's relationships."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This one is hard, but I think that this is harmful",
"Speaker may incite conflict between a married couple.",
"Speaker is getting involved in others' business"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a0dz1f | 5,804 | 0 | false |
I don't know, I just feel I have too. | I don't think that is a good idea to do that. It is wrong to get involved in other people's relationships. You shouldn't get involved because you will get in trouble too. | [
"You should not meddle in other people's relationships"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"There is the reasoning about why they want to tell",
"Speaker wants to continue involving them self in their coworker's marriage.",
"Still considering getting involved in someone elses business"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a0dz1f | 5,804 | 1 | false |
Nah, it will be fine. I'm doing this because it's wrong to cheat, full stop. | Yes, it's wrong to cheat, but it's worse to self-righteously barrel ahead into people's affairs. You could destroy lives. Sometimes it's best to let people navigate these kinds of issues on their own. | [
"People should not be unfaithful in their relationships",
"It is not your place to get involved in another couple's business"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This is kind to stand up like that",
"Speaker resolves to interfere in their coworker's marriage.",
"Speaker is going to cause conflicts for others"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a0dz1f | 5,804 | 2 | true |
It's sad that I have the feeling to do this. I need to cut myself badly. | Why do you feel the need to cut yourself? | [
"You should get some therapy if you cut yourself.",
"You shouldn't cut yourself."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"casual",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Someone is harming themselves by cutting",
"Comment copies other speaker",
"Someone could be actively cutting themselves, causing harm to themselves."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a1uir5 | 5,805 | 0 | false |
It makes me feel less disconnected from the world, I feel more connected to everyone else. | I understand that you cutting yourself comes from some deep-seated needs that you have but you shouldn't be doing it. You have to get some therapy for this. | [
"It's wise to get therapy for self-harm behavior.",
"It's dangerous to physically harm yourself."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Harming themselves because of depression it seems",
"Justifies self-harm behavior",
"The speaker is justifying their need to cut themselves."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a1uir5 | 5,805 | 1 | false |
Ha, you're the one to talk, bitch. Aren't you depressed too? | It's not okay to harm yourself. Seeking therapy or support is a good way to understand why you are doing this and how to stop before you really hurt yourself. | [
"It's wrong to cause self-harm.",
"It's important to get therapy for something like cutting yourself."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Becoming more angry after sound advice",
"Vulgar comments towards other speaker",
"The speaker doesn't accept the advice to get therapy and becomes hostile."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a1uir5 | 5,805 | 2 | true |
I got pregnant knowing my husband didn't want kids | When did you find out that your husband didn't want kids? | [
"You should respect your partner's wishes."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"this is highly immoral behavior",
"It takes both a man and a woman to get pregnant so the speaker got pregnant with the husband which is socially acceptable.",
"Speaker did something against husband’s wishes"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9rfff6 | 5,806 | 0 | false |
He told me once in a normal conversation that he didn't want to have a child. | It is not okay to make a life changing choice that goes against your husband's wishes. You should ensure that he is okay moving forward and will not have resentment towards your child. | [
"It's unwise to go against your partner's wishes about having children."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"the speaker needs therapy because this is crazy behavior",
"The speaker didn't force her husband to get her pregnant so she has not done anything wrong in this situation.",
"Still talking about what they did"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9rfff6 | 5,806 | 1 | false |
This was awhile ago and now he's fine with it, he's now the father of the year, he plays with the baby all the time. | I am glad that it ended up working out, but that does not make your decision correct. I hope that you learned from it and are more honest with him now. | [
"You should be honest with your partner about wanting to have children."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"this does not change the fact that what the speaker did is incredibly wrong",
"The speaker has a great family life.",
"Speaker doesn’t seem to understand what they did wrong"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9rfff6 | 5,806 | 2 | true |
Can you give me some advice? I miss my boyfriend terribly. | Why do you miss him? Did you breakup with him? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker is just asking for advice with their love life.",
"Speaker is sharing how they feel about boyfriend.",
"Speaker is just asking for advice, nothing unacceptable here."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a9h0u3 | 5,807 | 0 | false |
Yes, the relationship wasn't healthy for him. | Everything changes, even our relationships with others. Give it some time and your pain will get better. You'll realize that you made a good decision. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker explains why they are away from their boyfriend.",
"Speaker shares what happened with relationship.",
"Speaker is just explaining a relationship problem."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a9h0u3 | 5,807 | 1 | false |
It was time for us to move on, but my heart still aches. | I know it must be very painful for you, but in time you'll move on. Try to understand what you need to work on and make some small steps to make it happen, you'll meet someone new and feel much better. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker listens to the advice and says it was necessary to break up but hurts.",
"Speaker agrees with critique but feelings do not go away.",
"Continues conversation about a relationship issue."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a9h0u3 | 5,807 | 2 | true |
what's the difference between the baby i killed last night and jesus ? jesus died a virgin . | Excuse me now sir? Umm what did you just imply? | [
"It's not right to joke about religion",
"It's not right to think sex with children is funny"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't kill babies",
"You shouldn't kill babies.",
"It is very offensive joke to those who have kids and those who are religious."
] | sbic | 5,808 | 0 | false | |
I'm implying nothing. I said nothing at all. | It isn't right to joke about harming children. A lot of people might be very hurt you would compare their pain to a religious figure. I think we should show compassion to those who are suffering acts of violence. | [
"It's wrong to make jokes about child abuse.",
"You should be compassionate toward people who have gone through traumatic things."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't kill or joke about killing",
"You shouldn't molest children.",
"It is very offensive joke to those who have kids and those who are religious."
] | sbic | 5,808 | 1 | false | |
I'm going to kill another baby tonight. And I bet they will feel a lot like jesus. | You seriously aren't killing children now, I think you're just writing fiction, I hope... Whatever it is, it is extremely wrong to joke about pedophilia and religion together. Neither child nor religious person deserves such ridicule. Why not take a break for a couple days, and then try writing more appropriate jokes? | [
"You shouldn't make fun of other people's religion.",
"You should make jokes about appropriate topics."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"You shouldn't murder children",
"dangerous person",
"I am not certain if joking or not, this needs immediately looked into."
] | sbic | 5,808 | 2 | true | |
The only thing worse than somebody who thinks you're actually racist just because you told a joke, Is the blacks. | Well I don't have to think your joke is racist because you just claimed that being black is a bad thing. | [
"It's not right to think black folks are inferior"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"you should not be racist",
"It's rude to mock black people.",
"You shouldn't' hate black people."
] | sbic | 5,809 | 0 | false |
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