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It's fine as long as I get my fuck.
You will get sympathy and people who care for you because you are dying and that's normal but just try to not take advantage of people.
[ "You should not take advantage of others", "You should not view other people as sex objects" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Doesn't have a problem with what they want to do.", "Speaker is offensive and still wants to use a medical condition as an excuse to lose their virginity.", "They have no regard for how others." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/8wv054
5,843
2
true
I feel like I'm the fault for someone's death
That's concerning. Why do you think someone's death is your fault?
[ "You should not take responsibility for another person's mental illness." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "casual", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker is sharing their experience about feeling to blame for someone's death.", "Speaker expresses they might be at fault for someones death", "They are discussing a recent death." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/5d4a9a
5,844
0
false
I feel like I killed him because I didn't notice he was depressed
It's understandable that you feel some obligation to the person that passed away. However, you should not take responsibility for the mental problems they were dealing with. You should forgive yourself for not understanding what was going on with him/her.
[ "You shouldn't blame yourself for someone else's mental issues.", "It's normal to feel guilty and sad when someone passes away." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker is sharing that they lost a friend to suicide and sharing their feelings.", "Speaker feels guilty because friend took their life", "They are blaming themselves for the death." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/5d4a9a
5,844
1
false
Why?
You did not cause his death and you did not urge him to do so, because you did not know the circumstance and you did not do anything wrong. He committed suicide, and you're not responsible for it, and sure, you could have done something differently but it is definitely not your fault.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "Speaker is listening to advice and asking why.", "Speaker seems somewhat receptive to feedback but questions why they should follow it.", "They are asking for more information." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/5d4a9a
5,844
2
true
How many refugees does it take to change a lightbulb? None. There are no lightbulbs at the bottom of the Mediterranean.
Why would you joke about someone else's life like that?
[ "You shouldn't trivialize harm to victims" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's wrong to make jokes about others suffering.", "You shouldn't make jokes about people dying.", "You shouldn't joke about the suffering of others." ]
sbic
5,845
0
false
Lighten up, it's just a joke. Besides, guilty people should be dead.
Minimizing the struggles and difficulties refugees go through can be very harmful to others. Reading up on what refugees go through in both the countries they are escaping from and in their travels may make you take the issue more seriously.
[ "You shouldn't trivialize harm to victims" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Dehumanizing others.", "You shouldn't wish death on anyone even if you feel they deserve it.", "Says they are just joking, then makes another joke." ]
sbic
5,845
1
true
Why is it that all western women are total cuntbags but Japanese and Taiwanese women are more likely to be polite and well mannered?
Categorizing women like that is quite offensive. Are you a misogynist?
[ "It's not right to label and compare women." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "You shouldn't group all western women as being total cuntbags.", "It's hurtful to judge women and use inappropriate language.", "You shouldn't stereotype women." ]
sbic
5,846
0
false
I'm not, I have nothing against women.
Your personal experiences with women are not how all women behave. If your not being rude to them, maybe you will find that they're not as rash as you seem to think.
[ "It's not right to label and compare women." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's rude to claim to have nothing against women after making a rude comment about western women.", "Speaker claims to have nothing against women after voicing really misogynistic views.", "You shouldn't judge based on race." ]
sbic
5,846
1
true
I'm going to confess to my parents
What is it that you want to confess to them?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "speaker is engaging in socially acceptable conversation", "Speaker hasn't made a specific confession yet", "wants to talk to their parents about something" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/79vvkl
5,847
0
false
I've decided I want to out my brother so they know what he is doing.
If you have done something that you need to confess to your parents, it is a good idea to own up and be honest with them. If it is your brother's secret you are going to tell, you should consider letting him tell himself instead of doing it for him; you might break his trust in you.
[ "We should not tell other people's secrets.", "Confession is good for the soul." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "speaker is wanting to be a snitch which is unethical", "Speaker wants to air private details about their brother", "wants to tell parents something potentially bad about a sibling" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/79vvkl
5,847
1
false
They need to know that he is gay.
They can find out eventually but you shouldn't be the one to tell them the secret. It is good to be honest with your parents, but with your own secrets, not with others.
[ "We should be honest with our parents.", "It is wrong to out someone against their will." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "this is not the speaker's choice to out their brother", "Speaker seems to ignore advice", "wants to tell parents about brother's sexual identity instead of letting him do it" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/79vvkl
5,847
2
true
All of the 'independent women' I knew eventually settled down and got married. Your instinct will kick in soon.
Are you trying to imply that all women should just be married, have children and take care of their husbands?
[ "It's not right to think women can't live independently" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's wrong to make judgments about women", "It's prejudicial to make degrading jokes about women.", "Speaker generalizes women." ]
sbic
5,848
0
false
Yes, women should stay at home and take care of their family.
Women are just as capable as men are to have a career and be successful. It's very sexist to think that women should stay at home and care for their family, both parents should share family care responsibilities. Please look at the female CEO's of many Fortune 500 companies as examples of women that have a career and c...
[ "It's wrong to make sexist generalizations about women", "You should learn about women business leaders" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker admits to having traditional views on women.", "Speaker advocates for antiquated rules for women.", "Speaker wants women to be housewives and not have jobs." ]
sbic
5,848
1
false
True. I read the news that said marriage is the reason for the break up of successful companies.
That doesn't sound true. I think you should do your own concrete research and not take what you hear as truth.
[ "You should do research on news you hear" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker seems intent on sexist views, could cause conflict.", "Speaker indirectly advocates for antiquated rules for women.", "Speaker thinks marriage breaks up companies." ]
sbic
5,848
2
true
I'm going to make money from a tragedy
How are you going to make money from a tragedy?
[ "It's wrong to profit at others' expense" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker wants to unethically make money off of someone's misfortune", "they want to be unethical", "Speaker is planning to profit from tragedy." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/b2fngf
5,849
0
false
I'm going to start selling injury cases to lawyers.
I see what you mean by tragedy. You are being helpful by connecting victims with lawyers. I don't think there is any issue with profiting from that.
[ "It's okay to make money even if it's the result of other people's misfortune.", "It's good to be helpful to people who are crime victims." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker wants to unethically make money off of someone's misfortune", "they want to be unethical and mean", "Speaker is planning to profit from tragedy." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/b2fngf
5,849
1
false
Oh no, now I have a guilty conscience. Why does life have to be this way?
I don't think you need to feel guilty about your job. People who have been involved in injuries need good lawyers to represent them, so you are helping them out by finding the right people to work with to resolve their cases.
[ "It's good to help people get the professional help that they need, even if you profit from it." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "casual" ]
[ "At the end of the conversation the speaker showed they are having second thoughts and doesn't seem like they will go through with their unethical plan", "they want to be unethical and rude", "Speaker feels shame and might change their course." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/b2fngf
5,849
2
true
I think my dad found out I self harm
What caused him to find out about it?
[ "It's wrong to hurt yourself." ]
__needs_intervention__
[ "needs intervention", "needs intervention", "needs caution" ]
[ "speaker discloses self-harm behavior and appears to have tried to hide it", "discussing active self harm", "talking about harming themselves but parent found out" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/acyoim
5,850
0
false
It's my fault. I wanted to hide it from him but I feel like I need to talk to someone so I confessed to him.
I agree that you should talk to someone. Self harm can get really scary really fast.
[ "You should talk to someone if you self harm" ]
__needs_intervention__
[ "casual", "needs intervention", "needs caution" ]
[ "confessing to parent about self-harm and recognizing need to talk about it shows willingness to get help", "speaker is still discussing active self-harm/cutting", "explaining that they confessed the behavior to parent" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/acyoim
5,850
1
false
The last time I self harmed, I covered it with a band aid so dad won't see. When he saw the blood on the band aid he got really scared and yelled at me. He is going to make me get on medication.
It's wrong for your father to make you feel terrible about this but he is right about getting help. Therapy and medication can help with your need to self harm.
[ "It's good to talk to a professional if you self harm" ]
__needs_intervention__
[ "casual", "needs intervention", "casual" ]
[ "speaker elaborates but doesn't directly dismiss idea of getting treatment", "speaker mentions medication but is still talking about their current self-harm behavior", "parent is getting them medical help" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/acyoim
5,850
2
true
I'm going to give one of my bosses a bit of lip
Why would you give your boss lip?
[ "You shouldn't yell at people." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "planning to argue with their boss", "Says they're going to give their boss lip.", "Speaker is creating conflict, may create problems for self and others" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/b4a2lh
5,851
0
false
He's wrong to me all the time and I'm tired of his bullshit.
I get you're mad, but you shouldn't yell at your boss. You could get fired for doing that.
[ "You shouldn't yell at your boss", "You should be polite at work" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "explaining why they are going to start an argument", "Explains why they are going to do this.", "Speaker rude, not justifying actions" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/b4a2lh
5,851
1
false
I understand, but I just wish that I could fire up on him one time.
Yes, but even if there aren't any repercussions, you still shouldn't yell at people. It can be very distressing to them, especially if it comes as a surprise. You can try to talk to your boss if his actions toward you are inappropriate.
[ "You shouldn't yell at people", "You should communicate calmly with your boss" ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "seems to have calm down and keep the anger to themself", "Seems to accept advice, though still wants to yell at boss.", "Speaker seems to still want to create conflict with boss" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/b4a2lh
5,851
2
true
I have a friend who does this weird thing when she's tickled in her sleep
Does she do other weird things in her sleep?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "normal/standard conversation", "Speaker has a friend that does a weird thing in their sleep while tickled.", "Describes a weird quirk of a sleeping friend." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/b5h1kh
5,852
0
false
She does. She was crawling on me and moaning. It was so nasty
Sorry she was doing gross things to you, but she was asleep and couldn't help it. It's not fair to judge her when she is not aware of what she is doing. You should just sleep in different beds so she won't have to roll all over you.
[ "You should be understanding of people who do odd things unintentionally." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "casual" ]
[ "normal/standard conversation", "Speaker likes to do weird things to their friend and see their reaction while sleeping.", "Describes what their sleeping friend does." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/b5h1kh
5,852
1
false
I agree but I'm curious on how many other anti-sleep habits she has.
You can observe her sleep habits from a far though and let her know you are doing this. You can talk about this and maybe help her instead of judging her.
[ "It's ok to talk to your friend about the behaviour when they're asleep." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "casual" ]
[ "normal/standard conversation", "Speaker is curious about their friend.", "Is receptive to feedback, and wants to know more about their friend." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/b5h1kh
5,852
2
true
I stomped on all the frogs that were hopping around my feet while I was walking along the sidewalk.
That's awful! Why would you intentionally hurt the frogs?
[ "It's not okay to harm animals.", "It's wrong to destroy animals." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "You shouldn't go around killing frogs.", "It's unethical to kill frogs.", "It's wrong to kill animals for no reason." ]
ethics_amt
5,853
0
false
I just hate those frogs. Why do they have to be so gross?
Wild animals shouldn't be intentionally killed or harmed. Doing so makes you appear as if you're dangerous and have something wrong with you. It's better to control your impulses of violence so they don't further escalate to a point where you're harming bigger creatures.
[ "You should not harm innocent animals", "You should learn to control any violent impulses you have" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "This isn't a good reason to murder an animal.", "They are trying to justify their behavior.", "Speaker hates the animals they killed because they're gross." ]
ethics_amt
5,853
1
false
Fuck the frogs. I killed them. That's it. I did it.
Killing those frogs was not a good thing to do. If you regularly get the urge to kill or injure animals, you need to seek help. Talking to a psychiatrist can help you work through these issues before you harm more animals.
[ "You should not take pleasure in killing animals", "You should get help if you cannot control your violent urges" ]
__needs_intervention__
[ "needs caution", "needs intervention", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker seems to think that murdering the frogs was a justifiable thing to do.", "They seem pretty dangerous now.", "Speaker is happy and proud they killed the innocent frogs." ]
ethics_amt
5,853
2
true
I hate my life and I hate videogames
Which video games are you talking about?
[ "If you are feeling unwell about yourself, you should go to a therapist." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "speaker makes a socially acceptable comment", "There is too much hate in this person's vocabulary, it seems they are a downer and harmful to them self.", "Speaker hates their life." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/dvkphk
5,854
0
false
I mean Warcraft, Counterstrike and StarCraft.
Maybe it's time to make some big changes, then. If you're uncertain about those changes, you can always speak with a professional.
[ "It's good to make changes in your life if you are unsatisfied." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "casual", "needs caution" ]
[ "speaker makes a socially acceptable comment", "They only state the names of the video games, nothing is mentioned with hate or rudeness.", "Speaker mentions video games they play." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/dvkphk
5,854
1
false
I need to make the changes myself. Too many people in my life are experts and they are doing nothing to help me.
Those might not be the right professionals to help you. There are mental health teams who are better suited.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "speaker makes a socially acceptable comment", "They have realized a lot just now and that is terrific for them, nothing is out of context or overly stated with rudeness.", "Speaker seems self motivated to change." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/dvkphk
5,854
2
true
I'm not really surprised - now going to college with blacks I can tell you they continue to behave in such a manner even in higher education .
What exactly do you mean by behavior in such a manner?
[ "It's not right to think black folks don't behave properly" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's offensive to stereotype black people", "its offensive to stereotype black people as acting a certain way", "You shouldn't make generalizations about black people." ]
sbic
5,855
0
false
It's basically poorly behaving. I'm sure you know what I mean. They just behave in ways that may seem inappropriate to white people when they are in presence of them.
I don't think it's right to say that all black people behave improperly. What you are saying is a gross generalization of black people. I recommend trying to read some books about the black experience and learn more about their lives.
[ "It's not right to think black folks don't behave properly" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker claims black people behave badly", "speaker is being very racist", "Speaker makes racist generalizations about black people." ]
sbic
5,855
1
true
I'm going to tell my waiter cousin I made more than him in three hours then he did all weekend
How will your cousin feel when you tell him that?
[ "It is rude to talk about how much money you make." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "You shouldn't brag about how much money you make", "It's wrong to brag about your finances to make people feel bad.", "It's rude to mock someone's salary" ]
ethics_reddit
5,856
0
false
He wouldn't be able to handle the news
Telling your cousin you made more than him is pretty gross behavior. Why would you want to make someone feel bad about themselves?
[ "You shouldn't try to make someone feel bad about themselves." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "its wrong to make others feel jealous", "It's wrong to abuse the power you have at work.", "Further talk about the topic" ]
ethics_reddit
5,856
1
false
I cant handle not sounding like I'm better than him.
I think it's for the best that you try not to undermine him every time you do, especially with how much you make. He's working as hard as he can, so don't you think it's rude to compare wages? It could be better to praise him for working hard and long in such a tiring, underappreciated job.
[ "You shouldn't undermine others.", "It's wrong to brag about your wages." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "its bad to be so insecure", "Speaker is upsetting other people to feed their ego.", "Speaker admits they are jealous" ]
ethics_reddit
5,856
2
true
I think I poisoned my entire school
Why do you think you poisoned your school?
[ "It's not okay to do things that could hurt others." ]
__needs_intervention__
[ "needs intervention", "needs intervention", "needs intervention" ]
[ "Speaker is attempting to hurt or kill people.", "Poisoning of other people.", "the speaker believes they poisoned their entire school" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/en6i3x
5,857
0
false
I thought it up in my head.
You probably shouldn't have those thoughts. It might be helpful to talk to someone if you're fantasizing about being violent toward others.
[ "It's wrong to fantasize about murdering people.", "You should seek counseling if you are having mental health issues." ]
__needs_intervention__
[ "needs intervention", "needs intervention", "needs intervention" ]
[ "Speaker might not have actually done it but is thinking about evil act.", "Thinking about poisoning their school.", "they didn't actually poison the school, but they're thinking about it" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/en6i3x
5,857
1
false
I'm a bad guy. I don't care if I do wrong, I only care if I can get away with it.
It's not okay to want to harm others. And it's not something you would get away with. You should really focus on improving your antisocial behavior before someone gets hurt.
[ "It's not acceptable to want to kill other people.", "It's important to take control of your mental health." ]
__needs_intervention__
[ "needs intervention", "needs intervention", "needs intervention" ]
[ "Speaker needs to be turned in for what they are talking about.", "Doesn't think it is wrong and could still potentially poison their school.", "they show no remorse about having those thoughts, they only care if they get caught or not" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/en6i3x
5,857
2
true
I decided I'd just put the ones I wanted into my pockets.
Why did you do that? Did you put all of them in your pockets?
[ "It is bad to fill your pockets with stolen items.", "It is expected people will only keep things that belong to them." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "casual", "needs caution" ]
[ "You shouldn't steal things by stuffing them into your pockets.", "Need more info.", "It's wrong to steal things." ]
socialchemistry
rocstories/0a1dcef3-098a-4e44-98e9-4c15700c30b2/sentence5
5,858
0
false
Just these ones. I'm going to turn all the others into a door mat.
You shouldn't take things from others. It's wrong to just put other people's things in your pockets and leave with them.
[ "It's wrong to steal from others." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "prior rudeness unaddressed", "It's rude to take things from others.", "They show no remorse for taking the things." ]
socialchemistry
rocstories/0a1dcef3-098a-4e44-98e9-4c15700c30b2/sentence5
5,858
1
false
Well, if they wanted them, they shouldn't have left them out where other people can just take them, then.
Just because something is sitting out in the open does not mean it is free for you to take. You should ask before just stuffing other people's items in you pockets. It would be good for you to return the items, and ask first next time.
[ "It's wrong to think you're entitled to something just because it's sitting out.", "You should return something if you took it without permission." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "prior rudeness unaddressed", "Speaker is not remorseful for taking things.", "Leaving something out isn't an invitation for someone else to take it home." ]
socialchemistry
rocstories/0a1dcef3-098a-4e44-98e9-4c15700c30b2/sentence5
5,858
2
true
I have on more than one occasion worn clothing from goodwill without washing it first
Why would you want to do that?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "Speaker may have done something that is not too clean but it's okay", "speaker discussed engaging in behavior that is somewhat off-putting but not dangerous", "it's gross but not harmful" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/b7sl19
5,859
0
false
I thought it looked clean and didn't smell.
While it's a good thing that you're buying from Goodwill and supporting charity that's kind of gross. You should wash your clothes before you wear them no matter where you end up buying them from.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "Speaker is okay for having this opinion", "speaker elaborated on their behavior", "speaker explains why they engage in behavior" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/b7sl19
5,859
1
false
I don't have the time or energy to wash them.
You don't know if someone wore that before they donated it or not. It could have been sitting in a dirty bad with other things like dust or bugs.
[ "It's good to support charities by buying clothes from Goodwill.", "It's gross to wear used clothing without washing it first." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker is having polite disagreement", "speaker became somewhat unpleasant when being given helpful advice", "speaker ignores critique and changes subject" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/b7sl19
5,859
2
true
I'm thinking about cutting contact with my friend. Sometimes I feel like his personal therapist.
Why do you feel like a personal therapist to him?
[ "It's expected that friends should care about your feelings." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Simple complaint about friend's problems", "They should talk to them about this and not just cut them off. It would be rude to cut them off.", "Speaker wants to end negative friendship" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/9yfvi7
5,860
0
false
He constantly has things going on with him and he expects me to care.
I know what you're saying. It can be so easy to get caught up in others' drama. But consider that that is part of being a friend; maybe this about you and your boundaries.
[ "Caring about your friend's problems if what friendship is about" ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Complaint about friend expectations for friendship", "The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.", "Speaker talks more about bad friendship" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/9yfvi7
5,860
1
false
I don't know what to do. Help me please
While you should care about your friend's feelings, he's clearly upsetting you and it may be time to establish some boundaries with him. Constantly hearing about someone else's problems can be draining, and you need to let your friend know that it's stressful for you. Your friend may be upset, but if he continues unloa...
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "Seeking advice to solve problem", "It seems like they really want to do right by the friend and are just frustrated.", "Speaker wants advice on situation" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/9yfvi7
5,860
2
true
For whatever it's worth, I'm thinking about my ex
I'm wondering what that might be about.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "It's okay to think about exes.", "Speaker is thinking about their ex.", "it's an innocent comment" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/darp46
5,861
0
false
He's no longer in my life but I just can't stop.
It's okay to not forget about old relationships completely. As long as you are not obsessed with your ex, then it's fine to think about him from time to time.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.", "Explains more about why they're thinking about their ex.", "just thinking abt their ex" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/darp46
5,861
1
false
I still want to be with him. I wish I was still in his life.
Ending a relationship is difficult and feelings do not go away. Just take your time and try to move on on your own pace.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "This is ill advised but not unethical.", "Speaker is upset that they are no longer with their ex.", "has trouble getting over him, but seems to be fine" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/darp46
5,861
2
true
I'm going to yell at my aunt on thanksgiving because she kept making passive aggressive comments about a crime I committed 10+ years ago
Why do you have to bring this up at Thanksgiving?
[ "You shouldn't argue with relatives on Thanksgiving." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "starting a fight is not smart", "This is an admission to wanting or planning to do a belligerent act.", "yelling at family" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/a0mq2g
5,862
0
false
I'm just simply fed up with listening to yet another lecture about something I did when I was 10 years old. Besides my aunt is usually passive aggressive towards me anyway.
It's understandable you feel like you'll lose your temper, but it's Thanksgiving. I think it's best to politely tell her to keep her mouth shut in regards to your life decisions instead.
[ "It's ok to ask others to respect your privacy.", "It's rude to lose your temper on thanksgiving." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "speaker is not sorry", "This is a continuation of the previous attitude.", "rude, disruptive" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/a0mq2g
5,862
1
false
I'm going to yell at her and make a scene but if it gets bad I'll leave.
Holidays like Thanksgiving are the worst time to argue with relatives. You need to put these issues aside for just a bit.
[ "It's bad to argue with relatives on holidays." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "speaker is going to continue to make a scene", "No apologies here. The previous attitude is continued", "creating conflict" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/a0mq2g
5,862
2
true
I'm going to tell my roommate that she doesn't care about her job
Why do you think she doesn't care about her job?
[ "You shouldn't assume someone doesn't care about their job." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "casual" ]
[ "seems rude to say", "Speaker wants to confront their roommate.", "This could be acceptable, if handled well" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/b95l2d
5,863
0
false
It is because I am so busy working and she can be lazy.
I know you are concerned for your roommate, but you have no right to tell her that she doesn't care for her job. You are not her, and can't speak for her feelings.
[ "You shouldn't speak for someone else's feelings" ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "casual" ]
[ "don't say that", "Speaker calls their roommate lazy.", "Continuation of previous label" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/b95l2d
5,863
1
false
She will be happier if she can make me proud.
Even if she doesn't care about her job it shouldn't matter as long as she pays her bills. The only reason to mention it would be if you knew of a job that you knew she would enjoy.
[ "You shouldn't put someone down about their job" ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "casual" ]
[ "ignoring the feedback", "Speaker does not listen to advice.", "Speaker violet at least has good intentions" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/b95l2d
5,863
2
true
I'm letting everything fall apart and I don't know why
Why are you letting things fall aprat?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "Violet is expressing dismay and an inability to fathom the source of the problem.", "Speaker expresses personal feelings", "Has issues going on in their lives" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/2ym54c
5,864
0
false
Because I have a lot of issues.
You need to deal with your problems before they get too overwhelming. Waiting can be catastrophic for you.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "Violet is expressing her fear of exploring reasons for their feeling.", "Speaker confesses personal traits.", "Is afraid of their problems" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/2ym54c
5,864
1
false
But it's going to be hard...
I know it will be hard to face your problems. If you need help, you can ask friends or family for support.
[ "It's bad to let everything fall apart." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Violet responds offensively to Gray's criticism.", "Speaker is hostile and speaks offensively toward speaker gray.", "Rudely rejects advice given" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/2ym54c
5,864
2
true
Hey where have your fucking balls gone. Stop with all the bullshit. Time to play defense.
Who are you talking about?! Why do you think their balls are gone?
[ "You shouldn't generalize all conservatives are hypocrites" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "You shouldn't spout erratic profanity.", "It's rude to accuse someone of not having balls and being full of shit.", "It's rude to make lewd comments" ]
sbic
5,865
0
false
They are running scared. They promote their views as if they are the best but it's all fake and they are just cowards hiding behind their own disguise.
While some of the loudest conservatives can be hypocrites, it is not good to generalize all and think that they are all the same. It would be good to seek and find out more about ones that do stand up for their believes.
[ "It is wrong to judge other people harshly", "You should try to understand people that you disagree with" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "You shouldn't stereotype conservatives.", "Not sure who they are talking about, but the tone is very rude and offensive.", "It's offensive to be insulting to those with different views" ]
sbic
5,865
1
false
I am right, I already know it and I know it because I want to be right.
You shouldn't always believe that your opinions are right and that you know everything or else you'll become what you hate, which is someone closed minded that's always running scared. You shouldn't generalize an entire group of people as one thing.
[ "You need to be open minded toward others", "It is wrong to make unfair generalizations about other groups" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "ignoring the feedback", "They continue to be rude.", "It's wrong to not see the error in spreading hateful comments" ]
sbic
5,865
2
true
Did you know I only take a shower about once a month?
Why do you take showers so rarely?
[ "It's important to take showers frequently.", "You should shower more than once a month." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It is probably dangerous to only shower once a month", "Speaker is gross", "Speaker only showers once a month." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/8hhhi4
5,866
0
false
I can't stand showering in chlorinated water
Maintaining personal hygiene is important as you will being to smell when you do not wash yourself regularly and this smell will affect others. It's understandable you might have issues washing with your tap water if it is heavily chlorinated but it doesn't give you an excuse to not wash yourself. You can install water...
[ "You should practice good personal hygiene", "It's good to seek healthy solutions to your problems" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It is biased to not want to shower in water that is chlorinated", "Speaker does not have a good reason for their bad hygiene", "Speaker hates chlorinated water." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/8hhhi4
5,866
1
false
It's fine. I'm used to not making a strong effort to take care of my body.
Do you really think that it's fine? If you don't take care of your body, it will start to negatively affect you and could put you at risk of disease or disability. On top of that, others will notice and they may not want to be around you.
[ "You shouldn't put your health at risk", "You shouldn't engage in behavior that makes others think you're a slob" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "This is offensive, the speaker should take better care of their body", "Speaker wants to continue to be gross", "Speaker doesn't care about personal hygiene.5" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/8hhhi4
5,866
2
true
I feel like beautiful animals would make great partners
Are you serious? I hope you are joking about that.
[ "It's illegal to have sex with animals." ]
__needs_intervention__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs intervention" ]
[ "They are suggesting that they might view animals in a sexual way.", "Disgusting comments about animals making good partners", "They are talking about bestiality" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/cr0k7g
5,867
0
false
Pets such as dogs and cats would be flexible and easygoing. Pigs could be flexible if they knew that I was not harming them.
That is disgusting. Having sex with animals is illegal and it should not be done.
[ "It's wrong to have sexual relationships of animals." ]
__needs_intervention__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs intervention" ]
[ "They are being lewd in describing animals as potential partners.", "Justifies gross behavior with animals being partners", "They are talking about bestiality" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/cr0k7g
5,867
1
false
What I do in my room is none of your business.
If someone found out you were doing this, you would go to jail. It is best to not do it at all, even in the confines of your own room.
[ "It's wrong to try to justify sexual abuse to animals." ]
__needs_intervention__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs intervention" ]
[ "They are justifying beastiality by saying it's ok if they do it in private.", "Dismisses other speaker", "They are talking about doing something illegal" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/cr0k7g
5,867
2
true
However, she needed help with her serve.
Why do you think she still needs help with her serve?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "nothing wrong here so far", "they are talking about serves", "situation is unclear" ]
socialchemistry
rocstories/272d51f0-1e3f-4489-8a07-c17ee3f8ad6a/sentence2
5,868
0
false
She told me that needed to improve her serve.
Practice does make perfect so it is good to work on something that you are not that great at. It makes you a better player.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "nothing wrong here so far", "they are talking about their tennis game", "just a normal conversation" ]
socialchemistry
rocstories/272d51f0-1e3f-4489-8a07-c17ee3f8ad6a/sentence2
5,868
1
false
Whatever. I wanted to break the racquet in half and then I wanted to be like "I told you so".
Sorry if I said something offensive, but I was just trying say that practice makes perfect. I feel like you got aggressive fast and I think you just misunderstood me. I hope that these violent thoughts would disappear and would make you less agressive in the future.
[ "It's not okay to be violent." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
[ "casual", "casual", "needs caution" ]
[ "nothing wrong here so far", "they are having a polite disagreement", "it is wrong to want to break things" ]
socialchemistry
rocstories/272d51f0-1e3f-4489-8a07-c17ee3f8ad6a/sentence2
5,868
2
true
What does a basketball coach and a white girl have in common? They are both surrounded by five sweat covered black guys.
You're making a joke about black people, what is it you're trying to tell me about them?
[ "It's not right to think a group of black people are basketball players", "It's not right to think all black men like white girls" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "speaker is being very offensive toward black people", "It's racist and disrespectful to make a joke like this.", "It's offensive to make a joke about a race involving stereotypes." ]
sbic
5,869
0
false
I think basketball is for people of color and white girls are stupid because all black guys want to see their women with white girls.
Your generalization that all black men play basketball is not fair. Many black men do not like sports or even play sports just like men of every race. Just because a man is black does not automatically mean that he is a basketball player.
[ "It is wrong to say all black men play basketball", "It's not right to think all black people play sports" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "speaker is very racist and being sexist towards women as well", "No apologies here. The previous attitude is continued.", "The speaker is being hurtful with their comments and generalizations." ]
sbic
5,869
1
true
I'm gonna hide some chopped garlic in my brothers room so it starts to stink.
That's actually kind of funny, but why?
[ "You shouldn't make your sibling's room stink." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's unethical to make someone's room stink like this.", "it is wrong to trick ppl with food", "It's rude to hide garlic in someone's room" ]
ethics_amt
5,870
0
false
Because he doesn't deserve to live here.
I don't think you should be the one to decide if he deserves something or not. You're brothers, so wouldn't it be better to just get along?
[ "You should try to get along with siblings", "You shouldn't control other people's lives" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "They are being spiteful.", "it is wrong to trick ppl with food to be mean", "Speaker is being vindictive" ]
ethics_amt
5,870
1
false
Sounds like you're my mom.
I'm not trying to sound like your mother, just simply saying it's usually better to get along with your sibling.
[ "It's good to try to get along with your siblings" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "They haven't been swayed from being unethical.", "it is wrong to trick ppl with food out of wanting to prank them", "Speaker is not accepting critique" ]
ethics_amt
5,870
2
true
He worked and trained his whole life
Why did he work so hard his whole life?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "not enough information about the situation", "Context is needed", "situation is unclear" ]
socialchemistry
rocstories/ef0aefad-51ed-46a6-bc29-e030b9e9699d/sentence3
5,871
0
false
He wanted to be the best.
When people work hard, they feel that they are part of something bigger than themselves. Hard work combined with the desire to achieve, determination, and always being motivated to get after your goal makes success feel bigger.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "continue previous label", "Speaker is just having a normal conversation", "it's okay to want to succeed" ]
socialchemistry
rocstories/ef0aefad-51ed-46a6-bc29-e030b9e9699d/sentence3
5,871
1
false
My problem is that the entire population is divided.
I can understand how divisions in the population can make you feel discouraged, but it would still be good to follow this other man's example and really work to better yourself. Even if others treat you unfairly, many more will notice your talents and reward them.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "nothing wrong here so far", "Speaker just had a casual chat about working hard", "speaker is just talking about general things" ]
socialchemistry
rocstories/ef0aefad-51ed-46a6-bc29-e030b9e9699d/sentence3
5,871
2
true
My neighbor has a rooster, so I thought it would be funny to stuff their mailbox with chicken recipes.
Why did you give these recipes to your neighbor?
[ "You shouldn't stick your nose into the business of others." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's offensive to taunt your neighbor with jokes about eating their pet.", "It's rude to imply that someone's pet is good for eating.", "It's rude to prank neighbors." ]
ethics_reddit
5,872
0
false
I did it because roosters are such a pest.
You seem very frustrated but it is best for you to keep your nose out of the business of others. Your neighbor is allowed to decide to have roosters.
[ "It's wrong to put yourself in someone else's business.", "You shouldn't try to annoy your neighbors." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "The speaker is handling a conflict very poorly.", "The speaker is being rude to their neighbor and being hurtful by giving them recipes for cooking their pet.", "It's rude to disrespect someones choice of pet." ]
ethics_reddit
5,872
1
false
What? But THEY'RE ANNOYING. Don't you agree?
I agree, that would be annoying, but this is not the way to handle this. You can talk to your neighbor about the noise the rooster makes, but don't talk about killing and eating it.
[ "You should handle problem with neighbors appropriately.", "You shouldn't joke about killing animals." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "The speaker is still justifying being offensive to their neighbor.", "The speaker is not being receptive to feedback or change.", "It's rude to prank a neighbor just because they annoy you." ]
ethics_reddit
5,872
2
true
Do you have some advice for me? My friend and I are drifting apart and I'm not sure how to stop it.
Why do you think you and your friend are drifting apart?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "They are looking for advice. They haven't done anything wrong.", "Speaker is seeking advice of the other.", "speaker asking for advice concerning a relationship." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/9n25yl
5,873
0
false
We have different priorities in life and we've been fighting about it.
It's okay to have your own life as priority, because friendships sometimes end. It's normal to drift apart because everyone changes. If you can't resolve your differences then you should end the relationship.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "It's normal to have friendship issues sometimes.", "Speaker is sharing a personal situation", "speaker gives more information on their friends differing priorities in life." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/9n25yl
5,873
1
false
I still want to save this friendship, I think it's worth it.
You can try, but don't make yourself miserable if you can't save the friendship. You have to do what will make you happy overall.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "They haven't done anything unethical here.", "Casual conversation.", "speaker wants to keep their friendship alive." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/9n25yl
5,873
2
true
I'm thinking of taking back the tv I gave to my sister
Why would you take the TV back?
[ "You shouldn't take back your family's things that you gave them." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "It is mean to give someone something and then just take it back.", "Needs more info.", "Don't know why they need it back." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/9zbek2
5,874
0
false
She's so ungrateful. She never says thank you nor even comes to dinner with us.
I don't think you should take the TV back. I understand you are angry at her for not showing for dinner, but taking the TV would make things worse for the both of you.
[ "It's wrong to think taking away possessions will fix issues with your sibling." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "It is not nice to be mean to someone just to get back at them.", "Speaker explains why they have a problem with their sister, which is understandable.", "Explains their sister is not thankful for the gift." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/9zbek2
5,874
1
false
I always get f**ked when trying to do something good. If she's going to treat me this way, then I will take the TV back.
You gave your sister this tv as a gift and clawing it back from her is a breach of your intention to do something nice for her. Let go of your resentment about not getting anything from her and just enjoy the joy the tv gives her.
[ "It's wrong to take away a gift that you have gave to a sibling.", "It's good to attempt to let go of resentment to allow issues to pass." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "casual" ]
[ "Not taking advice, swearing and still wanting to do something just to get back at someone is wrong.", "Speaker does not listen to advice.", "Continues to let out feelings about sister's bad attitude." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/amitheasshole/9zbek2
5,874
2
true
I made a switch. Last gf 19 then next was 49. And I ain't ever switching again.
Why do you prefer your gf that is 49?
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "It seems okay to have an older girlfriend.", "They are just giving background on their relationships", "Speaker talks about dating women of different ages" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/caywne
5,875
0
false
They are more my maturity level.
There's nothing wrong with dating anyone older than you. Some people get along with certain personalities and maturity levels that other's do not. If it works for you, stick with it!
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "They are just describing a situation.", "It is acceptable to want a more mature relationship", "Explanation for preferring more mature women" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/caywne
5,875
1
false
They get more mature and can cook too.
That's absolutely fine and I do hope you are also contributing to your relationship so that she may not see you as someone who is immature and only taking advantage of her cooking. I do hope you both are happy and have a long relationship ahead.
[ "" ]
__casual__
[ "casual", "casual", "casual" ]
[ "It's okay to want a partner who can cook.", "They are just providing more information on their reasons", "Speaker gives more reason for wanting to be with mature women" ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/caywne
5,875
2
true
Yes, we Jews plan to take over the world and you goys can't stop us
Why do you say that?
[ "It's bad to want to rule over all other people." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's harmful and offensive to call people goys", "You shouldn't claim your ethnic group is taking over the world.", "You shouldn't be racist." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/aorj2t
5,876
0
false
Our guys are much better than your guys.
I don't think that's a nice thing to say. Everyone is equal, and should be treated as such. Trying to rule over people by deceitful means is wrong.
[ "You shouldn't try to rule people through force or trickery." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's biased to think one religion is superior to another", "Speaker has superiority complex.", "Speaker wants Jews to rule the world." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/aorj2t
5,876
1
false
It's just a joke. Calm down.
I thought as much. Careful with how you joke about Jewish culture and ideas. Some ignorant people already have believe in such conspiracy theories and will latch onto any false rhetoric to support their views.
[ "You shouldn't make jokes that make you seem like you believe in conspiracy theories." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "casual" ]
[ "It's rude to troll AI", "Speaker makes offensive jokes.", "Speaker says it's a joke." ]
socialchemistry
reddit/confessions/aorj2t
5,876
2
true
What's the difference between a feminist and a suicide vest? One actually accomplishes something when it's triggered
Why would you make a joke like that about women?
[ "It's not right to joke about feminists being better off dead", "It's not right to think feminists accomplish nothing" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's sexist to belittle feminists.", "You shouldn't make jokes about feminists and suicide.", "It's awful to make hurtful jokes involving feminists." ]
sbic
5,877
0
false
Feminists are incapable of accomplishing anything and therefore should be killed.
It is really not ok to joke about killing women and it is also not fine to say feminists don't accomplish anything. Women activists have made huge impacts and should be celebrated rather than jeered.
[ "It's not right to joke about feminists being better off dead", "It's not right to think feminists accomplish nothing" ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's harmful to suggest feminists should be killed.", "Speaker feels feminists are useless and should be killed.", "Speaker thinks feminists should be killed." ]
sbic
5,877
1
true
Question: What do the KKK and The Kardashians have in common? They only target blacks.
Are you attempting to make a racist joke?
[ "You shouldn't make racist jokes." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "It's wrong and very offensive to make jokes that make light of lynching Black people.", "It's racist to make derogatory jokes about blacks.", "You shouldn't make racist jokes." ]
sbic
5,878
0
false
Racism is my lifestyle.
It's not right to make racist jokes like that. They're offensive and could really hurt people. If you want to make jokes about people on TV, like the Kardashians, that aren't related to race, then that's probably acceptable.
[ "It's wrong to make racist jokes." ]
__needs_caution__
[ "needs caution", "needs caution", "needs caution" ]
[ "Speaker proudly admits that he or she is racist.", "Speaker admits to being racist.", "Speaker is proud to be racist." ]
sbic
5,878
1
false