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When the blacks get offended, it does. That shatters their victim mentality and puts them back in the place I believe they ought to be in. | Black people have worked for their rights and equality and deserve respect. Trying to put them in "their place" is demeaning and unfair. Do you think you would be okay being treated unfairly just based off your skin? | [
"It's wrong to discriminate against people due to the color of their skin."
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"You shouldn't disrespect black people.",
"Speaker is racist toward blacks."
] | sbic | 5,809 | 1 | false | |
You see, blacks like to think everything is about them, So it's time we put that theory to test. | It sounds like you're making everything about the blacks with your racists remarks. Why not just leave them alone to their own devices instead of actively putting them down? You can't claim someone is acting like a victim when you're actively attacking them. | [
"It's wrong to say racist things.",
"You shouldn't harass people just"
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"speaker is still being racist",
"It's wrong to make assumptions about others.",
"Speaker wants to put down blacks."
] | sbic | 5,809 | 2 | true | |
I'm feeling the urge to park my food truck on 2nd Street even though I don't have a permit. | Why do you want to park your food truck on 2nd street without a permit? | [
"You can't operate a food truck without a permit"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"It's wrong to park a food truck somewhere without the proper permitting.",
"It's unethical to operate a food truck without a permit.",
"it is wrong to park illegally"
] | ethics_amt | 5,810 | 0 | false | |
The permit is expensive and I don't want to buy one because it will reduce my profit. | It's wrong to operate your food truck on a street without a permit. Every food truck operator needs to buy a permit and if you don't you are breaking the law. You could be arrested and your food truck seized if you park it illegally. | [
"It's bad to operate a food truck without a permit.",
"It's bad to get your truck seized for breaking the law."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"They are trying to justify their behavior.",
"Speaker does not provide reasonable justification.",
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] | ethics_amt | 5,810 | 1 | false | |
It's legal, as long as I'm not hurting people it doesn't matter. | It's not legal though, you don't have a permit in your old face fines. It's not worth in the long run because any profit you make will be taken away by the fines that you face. | [
"It's bad to get fines for not having a permit."
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"Speaker does not intend to change unethical behavior.",
"illegal parking"
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How do you relieve your friend of his depression/suicidal thoughts? You do nothing and wait for the news in the morning paper everyday. | I feel bad now. Why would you make this kind of joke about people with a mental illness? | [
"It's not right to joke about folks with mental illness should kill themselves"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"It's wrong to neglect someone who is feeling suicidal.",
"You shouldn't joke about suicide.",
"It's awful to joke about people suffering through depression."
] | sbic | 5,811 | 0 | false | |
I don't care about those losers. | Joking that it's okay for people with depression to kill themselves could be very hurtful. You should consider what it would be like if you or somebody you love was affected by depression. | [
"You shouldn't make jokes about depression or suicide."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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] | [
"The speaker is admitting they don't about their friend's wellbeing.",
"You shouldn't call people losers.",
"Speaker explains why they made the joke."
] | sbic | 5,811 | 1 | false | |
I find humor in everything that people mistake as depressing. Depression has no cure, so you can't get rid of it. | While some people use dark humor to cope, I think it's quite heartless to take the joking seriously. Depression is a really difficult condition to live with, so can you try to listen to what they go through? They deserve a lot of care and love from you instead of jokes. | [
"You should try to listen to and show compassion for people suffering from depression rather than making jokes."
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"The speaker is not apologizing for making offensive jokes.",
"ignoring the feedback",
"Speaker doesn't think depression is real."
] | sbic | 5,811 | 2 | true | |
Can you tell me why people dab on the haters? Because you whip the slaves. | hmm? What are you trying to say with this, I'm confused? | [
"It's wrong to make racist jokes."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"you should not refer to blacks as slaves",
"It's not cool to joke about slavery.",
"You shouldn't agree with slavery."
] | sbic | 5,812 | 0 | false | |
Dong on the haters, son. | It can be hurtful to assume black people are slaves. Would you want the first thing people associated with your skin color to be slavery. | [
"It's hurtful to refer to black people as slaves.",
"You should consider how what you say makes others feel."
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"Speaker thinks black people should be slaves."
] | sbic | 5,812 | 1 | false | |
Nah, I'm like not racist. I just though it was funny. | Jokes about slavery are hurtful and come from a racist mentality. It's important to avoid these jokes to stop perpetuating stereotypes. | [
"It's wrong to joke about slavery.",
"You shouldn't perpetuate stereotypes."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker thought it was funny",
"It's not okay to make jokes about slavery.",
"Speaker says they are not racist but thought the slave joke was funny."
] | sbic | 5,812 | 2 | true | |
I knowingly lied to my patient | Why did you knowingly lie to your patient? | [
"It's wrong to knowingly lie to a patient."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"needs caution",
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"lying as a doctor is wrong",
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/exlnkm | 5,813 | 0 | false |
I wanted them to believe something that would make them change their lifestyle. | I hope that you know how you are going to present the truth then. It is going to be worse when they find out that you knowingly and willingly lied to them. | [
"You should tell your patients the truth."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker is being unethical",
"Even when you have good reasons to do so, lying to your patient is unethical.",
"Speaker lied to a patient"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/exlnkm | 5,813 | 1 | false |
The lifestyle change is for their own good, they don't need to know the truth. | Honesty is critical in a doctor patient relationship. You should be truthful al all times with your patients because it's in their best interest to follow your honest advice. Find other ways to get them to do what you want them to do. | [
"It is wrong to deceive patients concerning important medical issues.",
"It is good to think of alterative forms of communication."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
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"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"speaker could get fired for lying to a patient",
"It's unethical and unfair to make decisions for your patients even if it's beneficial for their physical health.",
"Speaker discusses lying to a patient to get them to change their lifestyle. Somehow I don't feel like this is OK"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/exlnkm | 5,813 | 2 | true |
I'm going to leave the girl I was seeing without properly telling her | Why not just tell her that the relationship is over? | [
"You are expected to tell someone a relationship is ending."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"it is rude to break up without talking with your partner",
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"It's rude and can lead to unnecessary conflict."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aily9c | 5,814 | 0 | false |
She was mad at me for cheating on her | Ghosting someone like that is a horrible thing to do. People want closure and you should give it to her. | [
"It's bad to cheat on someone.",
"It's good to get closure in a relationship."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
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"Speaker states she was mad at him for cheating on her.",
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aily9c | 5,814 | 1 | false |
Why should I? What will it solve? | It is going to save her a lot of questioning herself. It is expected that you tell someone when you are done with the relationship with them. | [
"It's bad to leave a person with questions."
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"needs caution",
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"keep label, no willingness to change",
"Speaker asks why he should her because it wouldn't solve anything.",
"casual conversation"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aily9c | 5,814 | 2 | true |
I am going to deny dating or being friends with anyone with autism. | What is your reason for not wanting to date anyone on the autism spectrum? | [
"You shouldn't discriminate against people with mental disabilities."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker brings up being unfair to autistic people.",
"It's offensive to avoid people because of disability",
"it's wrong to discriminate"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/akj4sc | 5,815 | 0 | false |
Are used to have an autistic friend and she hurt me for no reason. She often treated me poorly. | It's understandable to not want to associate with somebody who has a mental disability, but you should try to get over your prejudice as you may be closing yourself off to friendship opportunities. Not all people with autism are the same, and just because one person hurt you doesn't mean the others will. Try to be more... | [
"You shouldn't cut off people due to things they can't control",
"It is good to find friends of all different types"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"Speaker explains why they feel the way they do about autistic people.",
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/akj4sc | 5,815 | 1 | false |
I come from a safe space generation. I don't need lectures from a basic bitch. | Saying you do not want to associate with anyone who is autistic is a very rude thing to say. Just because someone is autistic does not mean they are incapable of having friends or being interesting. | [
"You should be considerate",
"You should recognize the good in people"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is defiant in advice, will cause harm for autistic people.",
"They insult the other speaker",
"it's wrong to discriminate for fun"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/akj4sc | 5,815 | 2 | true |
I don't want to raise our kids religious | Why don't you want to raise your children in a religious background? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
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"Speaker is sharing that they don't want to raise their kids religiously, which is their choice.",
"It's ok not to be religious.",
"It's okay to not want to push a certain religion onto children. They are too young to choose themselves."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b564kb | 5,816 | 0 | false |
I prefer giving children the ability to choose when they are older. | I can understand wanting to make your own religious choice. As a religious person, I would start just to make sure that you are giving them a moral upbringing, to keep them from making poor decisions in life. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
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"Speaker is explaining why they want to raise their kid non-religiously, raising no red flags.",
"It's great to give children the option to think for themselves.",
"Speaker provides valid reason and prefer the kids to choose themselves when they are older."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b564kb | 5,816 | 1 | false |
I believe children are a blank slate, but I agree with you. My husband is afraid they'll be corralled into adopting religion before they've had a chance to think about it. | This is an issue the two of you will have to resolve. You could go one way or the other, or just agree to disagree. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
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"casual"
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"Speaker is expanding on their thoughts of religion, casually and kindly.",
"They are looking out for their children's well being.",
"Speaker accepts feedback and continues to explain in a effort to support the advice."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b564kb | 5,816 | 2 | true |
"I'm incel because I don't try hard enough". If that's the case, then how is it that many if not most gay guys had gfs before they found out they were gay? | I don't understand this at all. Are you saying you deserve better because at least you're not gay? | [
"It's wrong to think people deserve less than you just because of their sexual orientation."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to try to bring up issues against gay people.",
"It's offensive and hurtful to have biased beliefs about people.",
"You shouldn't make fun of gay people."
] | sbic | 5,817 | 0 | false | |
That is what I am saying. It is not fair. | It's wrong to think people deserve less than you just because of their sexual orientation. Everyone should be treated equally and earn what they deserve. | [
"You shouldn't think people should have less than you",
"You should treat everyone equally"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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] | [
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] | sbic | 5,817 | 1 | false | |
They're just lucky then and I guess I am unlucky | I understand you are just trying to rationalize your situation, but it's not fair to all these people for you to think they don't deserve what they have because they are gay. Try and be more understanding of others. | [
"You should go to the bar to meet new people"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
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"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is intent in ways, doesn't see other side.",
"speaker resisted criticism",
"Speaker doesn't believe in equality."
] | sbic | 5,817 | 2 | true | |
I'm gonna be very sad when my girlfriend hangs out with her friends and not me. | Does she hang out with her friends often? | [
"It is okay to want your partners attention.",
"You should talk about how you feel."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
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"Speaker has concerns about relationship.",
"Expressing jealousy/controlling in relationship",
"Nothing wrong with liking hanging out with a girlfriend."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aqmk31 | 5,818 | 0 | false |
Yes, she usually does. I'm tired of always being the third wheel. | It seems that you want more attention from your girlfriend. You should talk to your girlfriend about the time you both spend together and let her know that you would like to hangout with just her more often. This will help her understand how you feel. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
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"Speaker is expressing concerns about relationship with girlfriend.",
"Somewhat normal concern",
"Being the third wheel sucks."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aqmk31 | 5,818 | 1 | false |
Thanks for the advice. I'm still going to be sad. | There's nothing wrong with being sad, but I hope you take my advice. Your girlfriend may not realize how you are feeling and that her behavior is impacting you so much. Telling her that you want to spend more time with her is fine since it's normal to want the attention of your partner. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
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"casual"
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"Accepts the advice",
"It's fine to ask for advice."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aqmk31 | 5,818 | 2 | true |
I'm going to encourage someone I messed around with once to leave their abusive partner | Have you done this before? | [
"You should look out for others' well being."
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She just need a push in the right direction. | It is good to help and get people out of abusive relationships. It might be good to get her some professional help and be a supportive friend as she goes through changes. | [
"It's good to encourage people to leave abusive relationships.",
"It's ok to suggest therapy for someone who was in an abusive relationship."
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"casual",
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"Continuing on their reason but they should find a way to help in a more constructive manner"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a27zks | 5,819 | 1 | false |
I'm going to her house with flowers, wine and a sympathetic ear and do what I can to get her to go separate ways from him. | That is really kind of you! I bet she will appreciate your love and support in that difficult time. | [
"It's good to support someone who was in an abusive relationship."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
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"Their plan to help has romantic undertones that may be misleanding.",
"Speaker states he's going to her house with flowers, wine and a sympathetic ear and do what he can to get her to separate from him.",
"It is a kind gesture but they are doing this for selfish reasons"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a27zks | 5,819 | 2 | true |
A Jewish child sits alone by a fire and pokes in the ashes with a stick, as suddenly Hitler walks by and asks: "Are you looking for your parents?" | I find that to be in bad taste. Should people bring up the holocaust with jokes like this? | [
"You shouldn't belittle the deaths by the burning of jewish people"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't joke about the holocaust",
"It is despicable to joke of the horrors of the Holocaust.",
"It's rude to make jokes about the Holocaust"
] | sbic | 5,820 | 0 | false | |
People do that all the time. I don't see anything wrong with it. It's a joke. | This kind of joke belittles the terrible deaths of Jewish people during the Holocaust. Think about how you would feel if this affected somebody in your family. | [
"You shouldn't belittle the deaths by the burning of jewish people"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"its rude to joke about genocide",
"They remain unfazed by their offensive anti-Semitic humor.",
"says just a joke"
] | sbic | 5,820 | 1 | true | |
I hate my surprise kitten | How can you hate a cute little animal? | [
"It is okay to not want a pet if it wasn't your decision."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
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"surprise kitten"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/eoberc | 5,821 | 0 | false |
I do not like surprises and I did not like my surprise kitten. I didn't want one. | If you didn't want the kitten, it's okay to hate it. You should give it to a good home if you don't want it. | [
"It's okay to not want a pet.",
"You should rehome an unwanted pet."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
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"casual"
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/eoberc | 5,821 | 1 | false |
I can't be responsible for a kitten and no one would want it anyway. I ended up getting rid of it. | If you do not want it, I do not blame you for getting rid of it. It should not be your responsibility if you did not want the kitten to begin with. | [
"It's okay to rehome a pet if needed."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
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"casual"
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"Speaker rehomed an animal that they didn't want, which is reasonable.",
"Speaker confesses to getting rid of the animal.",
"Nothing is socially unacceptable"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/eoberc | 5,821 | 2 | true |
I want the pain to stop | What type of pain do you want to stop? | [
"It's normal to feel down on yourself every so often."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/76msj1 | 5,822 | 0 | false |
I want to live in a virtual reality and not in the real world and this is my way. I just want you for my own to feel much better | Feeling down on yourself from time to time is completely normal and not a bad thing. It is the low instances in life that allow you to grow and become an even better version of yourself. While it may be difficult to see now, keep fighting and keep living your life because you will eventually reach the more positive sid... | [
"It's normal to feel down on yourself sometimes.",
"It's good to keep fighting and living your own life."
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"explaining why they are in pain",
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/76msj1 | 5,822 | 1 | false |
I don't want to fight it anymore. I'm not stupid and I really want to die. I just cannot deal with this. I have such a bad life. | I am sorry that you are feeling so down and while it is normal to feel down sometimes, it is not good that you want to kill yourself. You should seek some help so that you can feel better about yourself. | [
"It's bad if you want to kill yourself."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
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"speaker claims they want to die",
"Is being suicidal."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/76msj1 | 5,822 | 2 | true |
I'm going to break up with my boyfriend after he confessed he's bisexual | Does it bother you that this is his sexuality? | [
"It's not okay to be homophobic"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to break up with someone for being bi.",
"Speaker is going to break up with their bf now that he's bisexual.",
"speaker is biased about someone's sexuality"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a2jaqr | 5,823 | 0 | false |
Yes, I feel disgusted about his sexuality and can't be with a gay person. I'm worried if others find out | Being bisexual and gay aren't the same thing. But, breaking up with him because he is attracted to both sexes makes you homophobic and shallow. Talk to him about his views and you may understand how natural and common being bisexual is. | [
"You shouldn't be discriminatory about sexual orientations",
"It's wrong to think gay people and bisexuals are the same"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
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] | [
"They are homophobic.",
"Speaker finds bisexual people disgusting.",
"speaker is showing bias against bisexuals"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a2jaqr | 5,823 | 1 | false |
Don't tell me what to do. I'm an independent person and can make decisions for myself. | I think that your mindset is a little homophobic though. You should not let bisexuality bother you so badly. | [
"It's rude to be homophobic",
"You should let bisexuality be what it is"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They haven't been swayed from being unethical.",
"Speaker is going to do what they want. They are homophobic.",
"speaker is still showing bias against bisexuals"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a2jaqr | 5,823 | 2 | true |
I'm going to sell my little brothers computer | Why do want to sell his computer? | [
"It's wrong to sell something that isn't yours."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This is an admission to wanting or planning to do a belligerent act.",
"Wants to sell their brother's computer.",
"They want to sell their sibling's property."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ax7oh5 | 5,824 | 0 | false |
He is just a freeloader. He is lazy and never wants to get a job. | Even though he is not a good little brother, it is not okay to sell his things. It is wrong and against the law. | [
"You shouldn't sell someone else's possessions"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
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] | [
"This is just a continuation of the previous belligerence.",
"Explains why they want to sell it.",
"Speaker criticizes their sibling"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ax7oh5 | 5,824 | 1 | false |
He needs to earn his keep! | I agree but selling his stuff behind his back isn't the answer. Why not try to direct him towards a job that he can do? | [
"It's wrong to sell someone else's stuff",
"You should be considerate of your sibling's possessions"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"No apologies here. The previous attitude is continued",
"Continues explaining his point of view.",
"Continues to criticize, won't respond to advice."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ax7oh5 | 5,824 | 2 | true |
I'm starting to question if my dreams are reality and reality are actually my dreams | Is this similar to events in your life? | [
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"Speaker mentions having trouble separating dreams from real life.",
"it's okay to question yourself"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/di6ues | 5,825 | 0 | false |
I go through dreams like life. | If your life and dreams are getting mixed up then you are either chasing your dreams very well, or living life in a dreamlike state. Either way, as long as you aren't using drugs to feel like this you should be fine. | [
"You should not use drugs to alter your state of mind",
"It's okay to lead a life that is dreamy"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"nothing unethical",
"Speaker mentions going through dreams like life.",
"being detached from reality can be harmful"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/di6ues | 5,825 | 1 | false |
Well, I am taking drugs to achieve this result. | I can understand why you might want to live in a dream state occasionally, but drugs can be very dangerous, and it sounds like you are taking them to excess. You should cut back on drug use if you are having trouble separating real life from altered states. If you need to keep using drugs, set a clear time and place ... | [
"You should cut down on drug use to make sure of reality",
"It's understandable why you would want to be in a dreamy state of mind all the time"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"drugs can cause harm to yourself",
"Speaker admits to taking drugs to achieve the dream/life results.",
"doing drugs is dangerous"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/di6ues | 5,825 | 2 | true |
I don't want to depend on my girlfriend's mom's schedule | Do you think you can make a compromise with the schedule? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker talks about not wanting to depend on their mother's schedule. Simply conversation",
"It is reasonable to not want to depend on other people all the time.",
"Need more info."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b1nykv | 5,826 | 0 | false |
No, but I'm going to stay with her anyway. | It's great that you all live together like that, but you still need to be independent since you're getting older. It's not good to keep wanting people to take care of you like a child. It's creepy, and a strain on the adults. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Continues to give context on why they said what they did.",
"They are willing to stay on schedule.",
"Speaker explains what's going on, but needs more info."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b1nykv | 5,826 | 1 | false |
I guess it's time to grow up. | Everyone has to become an adult eventually and this sounds like a good opportunity to experience that growth. Branch out from your comfort zone and get on your own schedule. It may be tough at first, but the freedom you'll experience is worth it. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker agrees with advice given to them.",
"Accepts that they should be more mature.",
"Speaker agrees with advice."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b1nykv | 5,826 | 2 | true |
I choke myself 20+ times every day and I don't know how to stop. | Why are you choking yourself 20 times a day? | [
"It is bad to seek harm on yourself."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Choking themselves every day could end up killing speaker.",
"speaker discussed engaging in behavior that could lead to death",
"Speaker says they repeatedly harm themselves every day."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ewiy3q | 5,827 | 0 | false |
I like the feeling of almost dying. | I am sorry to hear that you are dealing with some intense feelings. It is not good to want to harm yourself. You should seek help so you no longer have to feel this way. | [
"You shouldn't want to harm yourself."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker seems to be doing something that could eventually kill them.",
"speaker continued discussing perilously dangerous behavior that could lead to great harm or death",
"Explains that they like the way it feels."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ewiy3q | 5,827 | 1 | false |
There are some things that can't be solved by going to a therapist. I want to carry on living. | Sure, but therapists can help with lots of things. Self-harm is bad for you, and you've said you can't stop yourself, and I think this is a case where a therapist will be useful. | [
"It's good to see a therapist if you need help.",
"You should get outside help if you can't stop doing a dangerous behavior."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker doesn't want to stop nearly killing themselves and this could go bad at any time.",
"speaker rejected advice to seek help about their serious self-harm issue",
"Disregards speaker gray's advice to talk to a professional."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ewiy3q | 5,827 | 2 | true |
I miss posting to gw | Why do you miss posting at GW? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker says they'll miss posting at a social media site.",
"Speaker only stating they miss doing something.",
"Speaker shares their feelings regarding a communication medium"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/2l749p | 5,828 | 0 | false |
I really like to meet new people in the world. | It sounds like this was a nice way to talk to other people. Is there a reason you had to stop posting there? If not, and as long as it's not taking up too much of your time, why not start up again? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker explains they liked the people they met there.",
"Nothing wrong at all with meeting new people.",
"Speaker shares their feelings towards socializing"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/2l749p | 5,828 | 1 | false |
I had to stop posting over there because of RL issues. | In that case, I can understand why you miss something that was enjoyable, yet it is good that you are dealing with real-world issues first. Prioritize the more important issues in your life, and then you can get back to pursuits that are more enjoyable. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"People further explains problems in real life made it difficult to post at GW.",
"Speaker stated why they had to stop doing something and they were doing what was best for them.",
"Speaker shares carries on conversing in a casual manner"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/2l749p | 5,828 | 2 | true |
How can Asians see? They have such permanently deformed slits where their eyes should be. | Why would you say something so demeaning? | [
"It's not right to think asian people are not a worthy race"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It is a racist comment that is offensive and hurtful implying Asians suffer from deformity",
"You shouldn't be rude about the attributes of other races.",
"You shouldn't be racist."
] | sbic | 5,829 | 0 | false | |
That's how they look to me, they look deformed. | Your characterization of how the eyes of Asian people look seems to be discriminatory. You can't judge people based on physical characteristics. No matter how we look, we're all human beings worthy of respect and love. | [
"It's racist to talk about asian people's eyes.",
"You shouldn't discriminate against asians."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It is rude and offensive",
"You shouldn't be rude about the attributes of other races.",
"Speaker discriminates against Asians."
] | sbic | 5,829 | 1 | false | |
I don't know why are you offended. Maybe that's what they look like to me. I didn't mean it in a racist way. | Even if you did not mean it that way, that is the way it is perceived. You should not say things like that about any race. | [
"You shouldn't say bad things about someone's race."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It shows no remorse for attitude",
"Speaker doesn't feel they are racist even though they made a racist statement.",
"Speaker says they aren't racist and thinks it's fine to joke about it."
] | sbic | 5,829 | 2 | true | |
How about I admit to you that my ex broke me mentally? | Just asking, but are you seriously telling me the truth? How do you think he broke you? | [
"It's good to recognize when you've been abused."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"They admit to suffering mental trauma due to their ex.",
"Speaker is making a reasonable statement",
"it's an innocent comment"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bip60r | 5,830 | 0 | false |
I was always the one taking care of him and he never listened to me | It's healthy to know when you're being abused. You should confront him about this. | [
"You should tell your ex how you feel",
"It's good to know when abuse starts"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"They explain what happened in their past relationship.",
"Speaker is explaining why they feel this way",
"that's understandable"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bip60r | 5,830 | 1 | false |
It's alright, I was used to protecting him. | But you have been abused and that is not okay. It must make you feel like some things are your fault when they weren't, he took advantage of your kindness. I hope you chose a better boyfriend next time in order to keep yourself safe. | [
"It's wrong for someone to take advantage of your kindness",
"It's not good to be abused"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"They are accepting of the situation and don't plan on making positive changes.",
"Speaker is continuing to explain themselves",
"okay to feel that way"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bip60r | 5,830 | 2 | true |
You get to send all black people back to Africa for $1,000,000, but you only have $500,000 What do you do? Pay with what you have, and send them halfway | Are you saying black people are inferior? | [
"It's not right to think black people should go back to Africa"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to make jokes about removing black people.",
"it's wrong to make jokes about race",
"It’s rude to make jokes about people based on their race"
] | sbic | 5,831 | 0 | false | |
I wonder why you have this perception when I am being serious here. | Why would you even pay to send anyone to africa at all? They don't do any harm to you and your money is much better off spent saving or investing. | [
"It's not right to think black people should go back to Africa"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's racist to be serious about wanting to get rid of black people.",
"it's wrong to make jokes about race and blacks",
"Explaining their joke"
] | sbic | 5,831 | 1 | true | |
I'm going to lock my stepbrother out of the house | What motivates you to do that? | [
"If someone you live with is dangerous, it's okay to lock them out of the house for your safety."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"it's rude to lock out family",
"This is willfully trying to harm someone else",
"Wants to deny their stepbrother out of a living space, which is very harmful."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/at8e80 | 5,832 | 0 | false |
I hate him and am afraid of him because he has raped me in the past. | It is important that you stay safe from him. Locking him out of the house is not a long term solution. You need to get somewhere safe and stay away from him until you can press charges. | [
"You should go somewhere safe if you're in danger of a violent person.",
"You should try to press charges on someone who's assaulted you."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"casual",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"speaker is allowed to keep themselves safe",
"Speaker violet is in immediate need of help",
"Explains the sexual abuse they endured from their stepbrother."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/at8e80 | 5,832 | 1 | false |
I know he is going to do it again. I need to hurt him so he gets the point. | You need to be safe, but taking the law into your own hands good get you hurt or in legal trouble. | [
"You shouldn't take the law into your own hands.",
"You should make sure you're safe."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"the brother should be reported and speaker should not try to get revenge",
"Speaker violet is in immediate danger, and her stepbrother could also be hurt",
"Wants to confront him themselves instead of getting proper help."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/at8e80 | 5,832 | 2 | true |
I am going to let my ex know that we should probably spend some time not contacting one another. | Why don't you want to speak to your ex anymore? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Nothing said was unethical|Nothing said was unethical|Nothing said was unethical",
"It's ok to take a break in a relationship.",
"Wants to take a break from ex"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b6s66d | 5,833 | 0 | false |
I want to take some time to heal. | It's completely understandable to want some time to yourself to deal with a breakup, but you should also try to take your ex's feelings into account. They would be upset if you refuse to talk to them in the future. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Nothing said was unethical|Nothing said was unethical|Nothing said was unethical",
"It's ok to take some time for yourself.",
"Wants time to heal"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b6s66d | 5,833 | 1 | false |
I'm not trying to be mean, I just don't want to be friends with them anymore. | While you should think about your ex also when making this choice, sometimes you really do have to do what is best for yourself. You are the one living your own life, and if you think it would be better to not talk to your ex than that is your choice to make. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Nothing said was unethical|Nothing said was unethical|Nothing said was unethical, normal to change relationships",
"It's good that they don't want to be mean.",
"Is making a decision about their life"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b6s66d | 5,833 | 2 | true |
I think what they were doing was a force of habit but it made her feel comfortable. | Was your boyfriend uncomfortable too? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker having casual conversation",
"what where they doing?",
"Not sure what the speaker did yet."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/d81d4ec6-3f55-461c-9c6d-7181558a50ee/sentence5 | 5,834 | 0 | false |
I think so but I bet he will get over it in no time. | It is okay to do things out of habit, but it is not good to do things that make others uncomfortable. People won't want to hang out with her. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker continues conversation",
"what were they doing?",
"Not sure what the speaker did yet."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/d81d4ec6-3f55-461c-9c6d-7181558a50ee/sentence5 | 5,834 | 1 | false |
I care about her but she needs to gather confidence and grow a backbone. She should learn how to handle this shit herself. | Getting good habits will help you out in the long run and if you do have some bad habits you need to work on them to fix it and make things better. | [
"It's wrong to have bad habits."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker exclaims worries",
"ignoring the feedback",
"Speaker is acting rude and inconsiderate towards their girlfriend."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/d81d4ec6-3f55-461c-9c6d-7181558a50ee/sentence5 | 5,834 | 2 | true |
I don't want him to meet my parents | Are you scared because they might not like like them? | [
"It's good to protect your significant other from toxic family members."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker does not want to introduce the person to their parents.",
"It's wrong to exclude others from social events.",
"wants to keep someone from meeting their parents"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/apela8 | 5,835 | 0 | false |
Yes, they will entirely disapprove of this relationship | It may be a good idea to protect the feelings of your partner from toxic family, however there will come a time when you need to introduce your partner to your parents regardless. It is up to you to pick the time you deem as fit. If you worry about your parents reaction, easing them into it may be a better option. | [
"It's okay to protect your partner from toxic family members.",
"It's understandable to be worried about your parents reaction to your partner."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker reveals reasons to keep away from family.",
"They seem to have an understandable reason for their behavior.",
"doesn't want to introduce boyfriend to parents"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/apela8 | 5,835 | 1 | false |
I will never introduce my parents to anyone. I'm doing as I please. | OK that is your choice, but they might become suspicious if you never introduce them. I think if you sit her down and tell her the situation she can decide with you what to do as a couple. | [
"It's good to be open with your partner about your family."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker refuses advice and wants to do what they want.",
"The speaker is acting very selfish.",
"rejects advice"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/apela8 | 5,835 | 2 | true |
I found out my girlfriend is my cousin | How do you feel about dating your cousin? | [
"It is unacceptable to date your cousin."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"That's a hard thing to find out. They didn't know, so they didn't do anything wrong.",
"Found out their girlfriend is their cousin.",
"Casual conversation"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/amu6jy | 5,836 | 0 | false |
It makes me feel uncomfortable. | You should feel uncomfortable dating your cousin since it is unacceptable to do so. Instead of dating your cousin you should date someone who you are not related to. | [
"It's wrong to date your relative.",
"You should break up with someone if you realize you're related to them."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"That's an appropriate feeling.",
"Speaking about how their relationship makes them uncomfortable.",
"Casual conversation"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/amu6jy | 5,836 | 1 | false |
Okay, I am going to end the relationship and let her know why. | That is a great idea. It is unacceptable to date your cousin and since you now know, you can break up with her without feeling bad. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"They are doing the right thing here.",
"Talking about reasonably ending the relationship.",
"Casual conversation"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/amu6jy | 5,836 | 2 | true |
I'm going to let everyone gang up on my best friend | Why do you want people to gang up on them? | [
"It is unacceptable to let people gang up on your friends."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"hurting a friend is a very dangerous and harmful thing to do",
"They want to cause conflict with a friend",
"doesn't want to protect their friend"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/asnukb | 5,837 | 0 | false |
Because he didn't stand up for me while I was getting bullied. | I know you're mad, but you should try and protect your friends no matter what. | [
"You shouldn't let people bully your best friend"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"the speaker gives excuses why this behavior is ok",
"They are doing it for revenge",
"explains why they're letting their friend be ganged-up on"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/asnukb | 5,837 | 1 | false |
I don't think it's my job as his friend to defend him. | You can be the bigger person and stand up for what is right in this situation. If others see how you reacts they might think less of you. | [
"You should be the bigger person",
"It's wrong to let people gang up on someone"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"the speaker offers no remorse for their actions",
"They have no remorse",
"continuing to be rude towards friend, doesn't want to help them"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/asnukb | 5,837 | 2 | true |
My girlfriend needs to clean the apartment and I'm going to let her know. | Does she make you feel a certain way when she cleans? | [
"Couples need to negotiate household chores.",
"It's expected that you do your share of the chores at home."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to make someone else clean and not help.",
"Speaker feels girlfriend should help with cleaning",
"rude to say his girlfriend needs to clean the apartment"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aue6hr | 5,838 | 0 | false |
She cleans so well and I love it so much. | It's good that you appreciate her, but cleaning is a responsibility that couples should share. So while you like it when she cleans, it's important that it's something you do as well. | [
"It's good to do your share of household chores."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to make someone else clean and not help.",
"Speaker likes when their girlfriend cleans",
"rude to say his girlfriend needs to clean the apartment, he should ask nicely"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aue6hr | 5,838 | 1 | false |
Sometimes I worry she'll never clean again. | Part of being in a relationship is sharing household chores. I think it's good that you want to talk to your girlfriend about cleaning responsibilities and hopefully you two can find a balance about who cleans, and when. | [
"It's good to have balance in a relationship."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to make someone else clean and not help.",
"Speaker doesn't seem to be receptive to advice and is only focused on whether their girlfriend cleans or not",
"rude to say his girlfriend needs to clean the apartment, he should ask nicely"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aue6hr | 5,838 | 2 | true |
What do you think about me saving 2 people's lives on separate occasions? P.S. I am a horrible person and I use people to fulfill my selfish goals while giving nothing in return all while I remain jobless at 33 living in my mothers basement for free. | How did you save 2 people and why do you think you're a horrible person? | [
"It's frowned upon to not have a job."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker hasn't explained why they're a horrible person yet.",
"expresses being harmful/user of others",
"Weird, but seems harmless"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/6rj3w5 | 5,839 | 0 | false |
I saved both people from being killed or being seriously injured. The only issue is I do not have a job. | That's noble that you saved people's lives. As for the job, have you tried submitting any applications? There are plenty of opportunities out there if you are willing to put in the leg work. | [
"It's good to save people's lives.",
"It's good to look for employment."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker is expressing frustration with not having a job.",
"no acknowledgement of previous harmful statements",
"Still strange, but civil"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/6rj3w5 | 5,839 | 1 | false |
I'm a pretty lazy person and have relied on others for most of my life. I haven't really tried looking yet, as I'm not sure how to go about achieving my goals in life. | It can be difficult to achieve your goals. However, you can seek support from others or support groups to help you with pursing a job and achieving your goals. | [
"It's good to get support from others in finding a job."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is calling someone an inappropriate name.",
"not taking advice or acknowledging previous harmful statements; also starts to veer into nonsense",
"Bad language"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/6rj3w5 | 5,839 | 2 | true |
I've spent most of my life with depression and didn't know it | Are you familiar with the depression? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker reveals a secret about their mental health.",
"The speaker is just talking about a personal mental health issue.",
"Speaker casually talks about their long-term mental health challenge."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dbzn52 | 5,840 | 0 | false |
Yes, I'm familiar with the term depression. | It may have taken a while but I am glad that you realized something was wrong. You are good for realizing this now. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker acknowledges they know about their mental condition.",
"still just talking about their mental health struggles.",
"Speaker describes in a casual way that they understand this mental health topic."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dbzn52 | 5,840 | 1 | false |
Yep. | Now that you realized that there may be a problem, are there any steps that you want to take to make sure that you can get out of it. It is good to have a plan of action. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker agrees that it's good they realize something is wrong.",
"A continuation of their recognizing their own mental health struggle, no harm here at all.",
"Speaker agrees that their acknowledgement of the difficulty is good."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dbzn52 | 5,840 | 2 | true |
Roommate:: Is he cute? My Friend:: Yeah, if you like dark skinned guys I'm half black half hispanic. I had trusted this friend to know better and I have to think whether I am his "dark skinned friend." | Are your friends the type of people that think black people are only acceptable if they like them? | [
"It's not right to think black folks are inferior"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't make racist comments about the color of people's skin.",
"You shouldn't make racist jokes",
"You shouldn't make racist comments about black people."
] | sbic | 5,841 | 0 | false | |
Yes I am saying that! | Black people have a difficult time already with a lot of injustice just based on their skin color and the way they tend to be portrayed by the media and by society, so it is hurtful to think people think that you are inferior. You would not like it if people implied that you were inferior based on your skin color. | [
"It's not right to think black folks are inferior"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker suggests that the color of people's skin gives them worth.",
"You shouldn't hate blacks",
"Speaker continues being racist towards black people."
] | sbic | 5,841 | 1 | true | |
I feel like I love her and hate her. | What's the reason you love her and hate her at the same time? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"they are talking about their relationship",
"the speaker is engaging in a socially acceptable conversation",
"Speaker's private feelings are not hurting anyone"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/93pec2 | 5,842 | 0 | false |
I miss her so much after she left me. | We can't control whether people want to stay in our lives or not. As unfortunate as it may sound, you just have to accept things as they are and move on. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"they are talking about their ex",
"the speaker is engaging in a socially acceptable conversation",
"Continuation of previous label"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/93pec2 | 5,842 | 1 | false |
Don't tell me what to do. | I'm just offering you practical advice on how to move on, not demanding anything from you. | [
"I'm offering simple advice, nothing more."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"they are having a polite disagreement",
"speaker is being rude toward the other person for no reason",
"Speaker is a bit combative, but nothing worthy of escalation to yellow"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/93pec2 | 5,842 | 2 | true |
Is it wrong that I'm thinking of using brain cancer to lose my virginity? | How would that help you lose your virginity? | [
"It is normal to have sympathy for someone who is dying."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't use your illness to get sex.",
"You shouldn't use a medical condition as an excuse to lose your virginity.",
"It's immoral to manipulate people because you have cancer."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8wv054 | 5,843 | 0 | false |
Because I think that cancer gives others a strong sense of urgency | Most people will have sympathy for others who are dying, but you shouldn't be trying to pressure them into having sex with you. If you let people know that you don't have much time left, they will probably want to help you be happy, without you having to appeal to their guilt. | [
"You should not try to manipulate others' emotions",
"You should be honest about your situation in life"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Explains why they think this will work.",
"It's wrong for the speaker to use canncer as way to pressure someone to have sex with them.",
"They are justifying their thinking."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8wv054 | 5,843 | 1 | false |
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