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AITA? My friends added another friend of mine who they don’t know into a chaotic group chat against my wishes
Ok, so for context: I live in an insular community. Just about everything that happens on the island stays in the island, and everything that happens outside of the island stays outside of the island. That being said, I have a very close friend from off the island. Let’s call her M (17F) * I am 17 years old, male *...
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{ "description": "reporting my teacher", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA for reporting my teacher?
My ethics teacher decided to put on the “documentary” ‘Climate Hustle’ in class, if you don’t know the documentary it’s basically about climate change and how it’s a hoax. My problem is that a teacher should never share let alone push his political opinion onto impressionable students, especially an opinion as dangero...
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{ "description": "being a bit of a narc", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being a bit of a narc?
Sorry for the title, didn’t know how else to phrase it. For context, I have a gas station I frequent for buying energy drinks after work. I had a long day, so I pull up in my usual spot, when I notice 2 guys hanging around the corner of the store. It’s dark, but they seem to be pretty young, I’m guessing below 18 for ...
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{ "description": "not allowing a 3 year old to drink coffee", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not allowing a 3 year old to drink coffee
My nephew and his wife are living with us as we are helping him through college. We are paying their bill. I came in the house and found her 3 year old daughter drinking coffee that her mother have to her. I toom it away and told her she was not to give her coffee in my house. She said i cant tell her how to raise her...
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{ "description": "limiting my daughter's contact with my grandfather", "pronormative_score": 40, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for limiting my daughter's contact with my grandfather?
In March 2017 I was scheduled for an abortion after an unexpected pregnancy. I decided I would try to keep the baby last minute and told my grandfather. He called me to yell at me that I should paint my face black and stand in the WIC line because if I keep my baby I'll be a welfare queen. He said I have nothing to off...
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{ "description": "not wanting to bring my infant on a commercial airline", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to bring my infant on a commercial airline?
I have travelled extensively over the years for both work and pleasure, and I’ve found that a surefire way to frazzle travelers nerves is to bring a screaming or unruly kid on an airplane. My GF and I had our first kid 2.5 months ago and he’s the coolest wee dude I’ve ever met(doting father here). However, I have famil...
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{ "description": "tricking my friend into thinking he's better than me when he actually isn't", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for tricking my friend into thinking he's better than me when he actually isn't.
My friend and I are playing Age of Empires. I've played the game for much longer and therefore I'm also a lot better at it than he is. Problem is he thinks very negatively about himself. When we play against each other he looses and gets frustrated because he never wins. I feel for him, always having to lose and I've...
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{ "description": "shutting down my friend's attempt to make me a charity case", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for shutting down my friend’s attempt to make me a charity case?
So I’m using the word friend in the title but in reality this person is more of an acquaintance; I’d help her move house if she asked but couldn't tell you her address off by heart. Friday morning I was out and about shopping in town when I saw this girl. We chatted for a couple of minutes about life and moved on. The...
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{ "description": "getting carpool with two female colleagues", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For getting carpool with two female colleagues
Hi Reddit, So yesterday I pulled up near the bus stop where I usually catch the bus to Uni. I checked my phone to see my messages and two of my female co-workers in our work group chat asked if anyone was in the area I was in and heading to uni (for context there is a group of around 20 of us that are pretty close as ...
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{ "description": "wishing my so was skinnier", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wishing my SO was skinnier?
First of all, I'm reasonably confident IATA here, but it would be nice to get confirmation. I dated this girl for a while, and she was great. You know, enjoyable to be around, fun to talk to, gave a shit about things. The reason we broke up actually stemmed from the fact that our personalities didn't really gel (I was/...
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{ "description": "blaming my bf for spending New Year's Eve with his whole family instead of just two of us", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for blaming my bf (23M) for spending New Year’s Eve with his whole family instead of just two of us?
There are few things you should know before concluding. 1. Me (23F) and my boyfriend (23M) have our 2 year anniversary tomorrow. We live together almost from the start of relationships. 2. His mom works in another country and visits him twice a year. She has a flat in different city, so when she arrives, they meet an...
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{ "description": "wanting my bf to cut ties with his ex fling", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting my bf to cut ties with his ex fling?
So my bf (26) and I (23) have been dating for a little over 2 years now and there has been this one girl, C (23), who he has been friends with for 4 years. They met through work and I actually worked with her briefly before as well, before me and my bf were dating. Initial impression of her was that she was a little ...
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{ "description": "going on a study abroad against my SO's wishes", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I go on a study abroad against my SO's wishes?
I'm an American and a sophomore in college, almost a junior. My dream has been to do a study abroad at some point in my college. I'm someone who is privileged enough to be able to have vacation time with my family to various places across the world, and that is something I am forever grateful to be able to do. Its beco...
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AITA: My mother won’t drive 1.5 hours to have a birthday dinner with her son. (Asking on behalf of my brother)
(This just unfolded so I’m kind of asking this for my brother since I’m curious of the response) My brother and mother both live 1.5 hours from me. (They live in two different cities) I told my brother about a restaurant that I really enjoyed where I live and apparently I made it sound so good that he decided he want ...
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{ "description": "not telling an appointed the she is being cheated on", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not telling an appointed the she is being cheated on
I don't know the girl let's call her Mary. Mary's. Dating one of my friends' friends. We do come together sometimes and chill sometimes go to bars. Mary is very affectionate publicly with her SO, they're constantly on top of each other but because she travels a lot for work and is often out of state she has the habit o...
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AITA My Girlfriend used to lie ALOT, but recently she hasn't as much, but when she does i blow up
My girlfriend (of a year) would always lie to me, over big things small things anythings. But in recent months she hasn't as often. See once she started to lie and I noticed it I would politely ask her to stop lying. And I would do that for weeks. But she would continue without stop in sight. Then I would really start ...
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{ "description": "being uncomfortable for how close my BF is with our female friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being uncomfortable for how close my BF is with our female friend?
Okay so it’s a bit of a long story. Me and my boyfriend are in the same friend group, there’s another girl in the group who ill refer to as Ellie from now on (not her real name). Before me and my BF we’re going out he went out with Ellie for about a month, their relationship was pretty secret for most of it. I had a ...
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{ "description": "refusing to cut my friends out for the sake of my relationship", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to cut my friends out for the sake of my relationship?
This happpened sometime ago, and since then it has been ''resolved'' trough both my SO and me meeting in the middle, but I was always really curious about wether his demands were reasonable or plain selfish ​ During highschool I made a group of friends (five guys and three girls including me and SO), they ...
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{ "description": "not apologizing to someone who never showed up to practise with the band", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not apologizing to someone who never showed up to practise with the band?
Context: About a year ago I was taking a study in Rock at a peoples college, and one of our classes was basically the teacher arranging bands and we learned a song to perform based on a theme. The theme for this particular project was "Glam", and it was a theme I had been looking forwards to since starting the seme...
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{ "description": "avoiding new leads in dance socials", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for avoiding new leads in dance socials?
I dance WCS, and I prefer to dance with more adept leads because I like having complex patterns thrown at me for me to follow. It forces me to improve. I am a strong believer in "it's better to dance than to not dance," so I will \*never\* turn down a dance no matter what. However, I tend to avoid the newer leads so th...
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{ "description": "telling my wife to stop kissing me when I'm in a bad mood", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For telling my wife to stop kissing me when I'm in a bad mood?
She has a habit of wrapping her arms around my neck and giving my cheeks and lips machine gun kisses whenever she sees me upset. Its beyond annoying especially when I get home from work and am having a bad day. So the last time she did this I told her "Stop." and she asks me why and says that she can kiss me whenever ...
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{ "description": "being worried about what I said", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA I am worried about what I said (trigger warning)
So I’ll give you some context. I am a depressed kid that goes to middle school in the middle of nowhere, my depression is reasonably severe and I have got to the point where I harm myself and this has caused me to have some scars on my upper arm. Now I my friends have overheard me talking to someone else about this an...
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{ "description": "blowing off my friend on an assignment I said I would do a day before exams", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for blowing off my friend on an assignment I said I would do a day before exams?
So me and my friend are trying to boost our mark with a make up extension for the course. It consists of 5 parts, which I would rank in difficulty as 5, 3, 2, 4, 1. I did my part of 2 and 3 well before it was due, while my friend was studying. On the last day we had with our teacher, I went and asked them to help wi...
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{ "description": "wanting my adult boyfriend to get braces again", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for wanting my adult boyfriend to get braces again?
My boyfriend didn't wear his retainer after getting his braces taken off so his bottom teeth are fairly crooked. It's not a deal breaker or anything but I'm wondering if even thinking that he, as an adult, should get braces again is bogus of me. So, AITA?
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{ "description": "wanting my cousin to pay the same amount of rent as me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my cousin to pay the same amount of rent as me
My mum and I (20m) have had our own little place, a 2 bedroom unit to be exact, and for about two years my Aunty and cousin (19m) have had to stay with us, not exactly the most comfortable living arrangement. My cousin and I sharing a room with him on a mattress on the floor, and my Aunty on the couch, whilst our liv...
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{ "description": "being annoyed when my sister who lives with me invites friends over to my house", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being annoyed when my sister who lives with me invites friends over to my house?
My sister, her husband, and their two kids live with me right now as they just moved here from another state. It is a temporary situation until they can find a house, but it is likely they will be living with me for several more months. My husband and I have a 7 month old baby and though we are not complete introverts,...
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{ "description": "giving out a fake number", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for giving out a fake number?
alright, so for a bit of background, i’m in a theatre club. there was a halloween party for said theatre club and i attended. i was pretty uncomfortable since i didn’t really know anyone, and this girl came up to me. she seemed nice enough but after like 5 minutes of talking to her things got kinda weird. she’d force ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with someone after they completely supported me for 3 years", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 43 }
AITA for breaking up with someone after they completely supported me for 3 years?
Hello. I started university at 28 after some injuries left me unable to work in my previous job. I started dating someone who already had an established career. They basically let me focus only about school so I finished it in 3 years. I found a job after that and started working right away. Pretty quickly after I was ...
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{ "description": "not selling our car to friends", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not selling our car to friends?
So we have been renting our basement to Nancy.Nancy is a friend of my wife's and they work together. Nancy asks if her husband Dale can move in with their dogs for a newly negotiated rate. This was a few weeks into the tenancy. We agree on a rate for the increase in utilities, and Dale moves in with the dogs.It is n...
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{ "description": "watching my brother's wife while she cams", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for watching my brother's wife while she cams?
My sister in law does web cam shows for money while she stays home watching her baby daughter. Honestly she is a really attractive woman and whenever I see her in person I can't help but to stare at her. I found out a while ago she does cam shows for extra money. I was so curious I had to see for myself and wow sh...
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{ "description": "ending a friendship with someone over how they treat their dog", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ending a friendship with someone over how they treat their dog?
I reconnected with someone from high school recently and I’ve been to their house a few times since then. He has a dog that’s a little over a year old that’s crazy (runs around, jumps on people, and teethes on people all day). I’ve seen him kick (not too hard) hold the dogs mouth closed for like 20 seconds to the point...
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{ "description": "not wanting to help my mother in tech-related topics", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to help my mother in tech-related topics?
First of all, sorry if I'll be hard to understand in certain parts, english isn't my first language and I'll try my best to write understandable sentences. Now, every time my mother (let's name her Nina for this post) calls me over to help her on any kind of tech related topics, there is always a wave of reluctance co...
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{ "description": "getting pissy over feeling like a live-in maid for my parents", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting pissy over feeling like a live-in maid for my parents
Me and my sister are 20 (almost 21) and 22 y/o. We still live at home with our parents and 2 younger brothers (13 and 11). I pay rent every month to live at home since i no longer attend school (even when i went back to school briefly they insisted i continue paying--theyve come to rely on my rent payments for income),...
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AITA- Guy I Like at work
Okay so lot of backstory on this one sorry in advance. Last summer I got out of a four year relationship. Even though I was the one who broke up with him it still hurt me a lot. A few months later I rebounded with a coworker (I work as a line cook and he works front end as the bartender). We dated briefly but he wasn...
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{ "description": "not going to dancing with my gf", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not going to dancing with my gf?
On mondays we usually go to dance courses and i gave in because i wanted to avoid problems between is and wanted to avoid argument,but today i really dont feel like going anywhere especially dancing..she doesnt want to understand or just doesnt care about how i feel but i bet she will act unfriendly after i stick to m...
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{ "description": "performing well", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for performing well?
A bit of background : in my uni you can intern for a certain amount of credit hours . Also keep in mind that I may not be a person of gold but I feel that some stuff said and done was wrong and completely own up to it. I had an internship at a company and got to learn a lot, in the end we all had to create individual ...
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{ "description": "refusing to do what my SO asks/tells me to do", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to do what my SO asks/tells me to do?
So my SO is a student while I work a 9-5 job and I often go to the gym before and/or after work as well. I'm also often the one to plan, buy and cook dinner in the evenings mostly because I'm a better cook and get hungry first. My SO is also very busy with projects and studies outside of university hours and is often a...
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{ "description": "moving on too quickly and then lying by omission", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for moving on too quickly and then lying by omission?
I was good friends with a guy for a long time. He was the one who pursued me for months and kept saying he loves me and that I was his "dream girl", but I was very hesitant to date because I had bad dating experiences and wanted time to heal, plus I didn't want to potentially ruin a good friendship. He insisted he woul...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my gf that is too emotionally dependent", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking up with my gf that is too emotionally dependent?
Ok ok, I know you all think that I am. But here's some context. Me and my gf were dating for at least 9 months before I had enough. I've had enough because of the fact that she always wants advice from everyone about her "depression" and would usually tell us that it didn't work even though she doesn't do it. I'm alwa...
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{ "description": "something I said seven years ago", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA? Something I said seven years ago...
This happened yesterday night with my roommate. A person with whom I've shared a lot of my life for the last 11 years since we met. We were having a talk over dinner about a podcast she had heard during the day. It was about how a sychiatrist had taken advantage of a young woman coming to him for help with her ilness...
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{ "description": "encouraging my girlfriend to lose weight", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for encouraging my girlfriend to lose weight?
My girlfriend is not obese, but she has put on a lot of weight since we first met. Currently does not exercise during the week. She told me one day that she wanted to lose that weight. So, As a big fitness person myself, I started actively trying to get her to go running with me and work out at our complex’s fitness ce...
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{ "description": "walking away/ignoring two young black men who were trying to talk to me outside a liquor store", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for walking away/ignoring two young black men who were trying to talk to me outside a liquor store?
As I was exiting a local liquor store this afternoon carrying my purchase, I was approached by a young African-American man wearing an over-sized hoodie with both of his hands inside the hoodie's pockets. I asked him what he needed, and he wouldn't tell me. He merely motioned with his head for me to come closer without...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go help my dad at work", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting to go help my dad at work?
Ok some back story is needed on this post. My dad owns and runs a sub shop that can get really busy and if there is ever a worker who can't come or a big convention comes around, I'll usually help out. I also work on the weekends every now and then to earn some spending money. Now the story starts out when I tell my da...
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{ "description": "not giving my ex gf any money after break up", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not giving my ex gf any money after break up?
I know this isn't a sub for relationships but what I'm talking about isnt really about the relationship. So I split from my gf around 6 months ago dont really need to give more information than that but it absolutley broke me. We lived together and shared a car which is on finance and we both paid for out of a joint a...
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{ "description": "being mean and cold to an ex guyfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mean and cold to an ex guyfriend?
So this was a few years ago now but still at times eats me from the inside. So through my family I met this guy who I became friends with really quickly due to our many similarities and common interests. I soon had a huge crush on him and it seemed like he did too since he flirted with me very obviously and was very ...
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{ "description": "not telling my brother that his son shoplifts", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not telling my brother that his son shoplifts?
Some back story (I’ll make up names to keep track): I am a 29-year-old dude from the east coast. I have three half-brothers, Adam 40, Sam 36 and Jeff 35. We grew up with an alcoholic and somewhat abusive father and all of us have different mothers who have more or less never been in the picture. Growing up wasn’t eas...
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{ "description": "not letting my dog sleep on my bed", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not letting my dog sleep on my bed?
I love my dog, he’s cool and all at times, but pretty territorial. I’ve allowed him to sleep on my bed in the past, and when he’s curled up into a ball, you basically can’t touch him/move him/ tell him to move. Tonight is extra frustrating because he’s decided to curl up right next to me, squishing me in a dog-man sa...
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{ "description": "telling my sister I think she's lying about being raped", "pronormative_score": 51, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for telling my sister I think she's lying about being raped?
So, most people who read the title probably amuse I'm an ass already, but please, hear me out. My sister recently has come out to the family claiming she was raped. She's been crying and saying it's the most traumatic thing that ever happened to her. I don't believe her and told her that to her face in front of our ent...
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{ "description": "telling my brother to stop whining about being gay", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For telling my brother to stop whining about being gay?
So long story short, my little brother (27) has not spoke to me in a couple years because during a family Christmas party he was complaining that he couldn't get a job because he is gay, no one likes him, because he is gay, and he would be condemned to hell, because he is gay. I finally had enough of listening to him ...
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{ "description": "using AITA to make my partner aware that they are in fact an a", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for using AITA to make my partner aware that they are in fact an A?
I'm completely disenfranchised by my partner. Every argument where they are being a total A, they did their heels in and escalate it, bully me and keep the argument going actively or passively for long periods of time until I submit or I try to reach out to them and repair it. I used this subreddit to post and let them...
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{ "description": "hating the bridesmaid dress my Dad wants me to wear", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hating the bridesmaid dress my Dad wants me to wear?
The title makes me sound like an asshole, I know. I should just get on with it and wear it for one day, but hear me out please. So my dad is getting married (for the third time) in a few weeks, he only booked the wedding a month or so ago despite being engaged to his fiancée for 7 years and nobody knows why they’ve s...
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{ "description": "telling my younger brother not to be a stereotypical annoying 8 year old Xbox player", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my younger brother not to be a stereotypical annoying 8 year old Xbox player?
So my brother plays a good amount of Xbox and he does everything you would expect from an annoying 8 year old Xbox player. He blasts music into his mic, screams, joins back no matter how many time he is kicked, only plays fortnite, talks about how he is better than everyone else at whatever game he is playing, plays on...
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{ "description": "getting upset when my family friend/neighbor just comes over whenever he wants", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset when my family friend/neighbor just comes over whenever he wants
So basically it all started with me agreeing to be a videographer for his event. He is not my neighbor next door he lives probably 10 minutes away. He is a very nice guy but extremely pushy. Fast forward, I do the event and cash out. Then he starts getting these ideas of projects that he wants to do and to do a podcast...
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{ "description": "flirting with multiple girls at once", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for flirting with multiple girls at once?
So yeah, I know i prolly sounds bad, but hear me out. I am pretty flirty, and I ususally talk with at least 2 girls at one time. Is this OK? We usually meet up and that's it, but I'm not in a relationship. My friends are okay with it except one girl who thinks I'm an asshole, and that what I'm doing is horrible, even t...
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{ "description": "telling my 19 y/o brother to be careful with Alcohol", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my 19 y/o brother to be careful with Alcohol?
He always talks about drinking to solve his problems when he turns 21. Hes my step brother and has alcoholism running in his family, and he is also very depressed and has a bad liver. I always tell him to be careful with alcohol and drink responsibly but he always gets upset with me for telling him. Am I being an assho...
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{ "description": "calling my parents and sister lying pieces of shit", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for calling my parents and sister lying pieces of shit?
A year ago my younger sister (ys)(26) & I (36f) talked about getting a house w/her boyfriend (23) & my son (13). Since her & her bf were only working parttime, we put it on the back burner. They lived w/my parents. In Aug, our niece(18) also moved in w/our parents. A month ago, I found out ys & her b...
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{ "description": "quitting a band with my longtime friend who struggles with depression and anxiety", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for quitting a band with my longtime friend who struggles with depression and anxiety
Throwaway as i believe she might see this. So my friend and I have know each other for the better part of a decade. We met though work and although we have had our ups and downs we have been close friends for most of the time we've know each other. For the sake of this lets call her Asuka. So Asuka had been diagnosed ...
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{ "description": "wanting a disagreement to be over with as well as thinking someone is being hypocritical", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting a disagreement to be over with as well as thinking someone is being hypocritical?
A slight preface to this; I’m 15F and all others are under the age of 21. Need outside opinions as many have been a mix of YTA, NTA, and ESH. Around a month ago I got into a disagreement with friends due to me feeling left out and feeling as if there was a double standard present. I was unable to do something without ...
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{ "description": "backing into someone's mailbox", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for backing into someone's mailbox?
Let me explain: So I was driving through the neighborhood to go meet my girlfriend and as I passed this house, two young kids (9-10 years old) decided to throw a rock at my car. When the rock hit my car, I laid my hand on the horn for a good 15 seconds, and out of rage I backed up really fast and accidentally hit th...
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{ "description": "moving on after a rejection", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For moving on after a rejection?
Hello, before I start I want to apologize for my terrible grammar and story telling. ​ TL;DR: My girlfriend rejected me when I first told her that I liked her, I moved on and hung out with another girl. Now I'm the bad guy for not letting her friendzone me. ​ My girlfriend, let's call her Liz...
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{ "description": "not backing up my husband", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not backing up my husband
My husband and I were grocery shopping. While we were scanning the shelves for something, my husband stepped away from our cart, which was in the middle of the aisle. A couple with their own cart come walking down the aisle and the guy pushes our cart out of the way. My husband goes up to the guy and says to him s...
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{ "description": "not wanting my in law's boyfriend around my new daughter", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my in law’s boyfriend around my new daughter?
A few years ago my wife went to her mothers to drive to an event together. Her mother was supposed to drive but was blocked in the drive way by her boyfriends truck. The boyfriend did not want to move the truck and began to yell at my wife calling her a bunch of names. All because he did not want to move his truck. Arg...
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{ "description": "telling people to stop hugging me", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I told people to stop hugging me?
It seems like everyone I know wants a hug every time I see them and every time we part ways, regardless of how often we see each other. I’m not a very touchy-feely person. Hugs make me a bit uncomfortable honesty. I would prefer to reserve hugs for people I don’t see very often. Would I be the asshole for suggesting we...
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{ "description": "wanting to send my GF flowers on valentine's day under her ex-boyfriend's name", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 22 }
AITA for wanting to send my GF flowers on valentine's day under her ex-boyfriend's name?
I want to see if will tell me the truth or lie to me about receiving the gift. I also suspect that she may still have feelings for him.
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{ "description": "not wanting my future kid to go to public school", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting my future kid to go to public school.
Me and the wife want to have kids soon. The problem is dyslexia runs in my family. Every single boy in my family and a few girls have dyslexia. We also have a lot of people with ADHD as well. For this reason I think we should start educating are kid as early as possible which my wife agrees to. The problem is she reall...
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{ "description": "not being completely honest with my bf", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not being completely honest with my bf?
My bf has a band and I try to be supportive as possible. He usually will show me lyrics or play me stuff he's come up with so I can give him my opinion. So today, he starts playing me a part of a song he's written and the lyrics just sounded so cliche and corny and not great, but it wasn't enough to where I could flat ...
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{ "description": "reaching out to an ex", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for reaching out to an ex?
There is more detail in the [/r/relationship\_advice post](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/b0wu3v/i_reached_out_to_my_abusive_ex_was_it_wrong_to_do/) and the chance to give advice if wanted. I had an abusive ex who believed I was cheating on him with a friend, and then turned verbally abusive. Af...
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{ "description": "getting mad that my friend charged me for drinks he bought for me when I told him I didn't want any drinks", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad that my friend charged me for drinks he bought for me when I told him I didn't want any drinks?
So I'm at a concert with my friend, and he's trying to get me to drink with him but I decline because I'm on a budget and drinks were very expensive. I didn't want to pay $15 per drink. Anyways, after I kept refusing he decides to buy me and my other friend drinks. I am a lightweight drinker so after the first drink I...
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{ "description": "yelling in my sleep", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for yelling in my sleep?
context: my dad and i both have weird, terrible sleep schedules because he works third shift and i’m unemployed. we came to an agreement a long time ago that if he made dinner in the middle of the night and i was sleeping, he’d wake me up and ask if i wanted some while it was hot. this has worked for years. the scena...
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{ "description": "cutting ties in a toxic friendship", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For cutting ties in a toxic friendship?
Let me give you some context. I've been friends with this person for 6 years now. We met in middle school and we've been friends ever since. But for the past 2-3 years, our friendship has turned into toxic shit. And what I mean by that, is we always try to out do the other, we comment about any little thing that eithe...
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{ "description": "not making my niece an Easter Sunday dress", "pronormative_score": 83, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not making my niece an Easter Sunday dress?
I sew as a hobby and make a lot of my own clothes. It's not a source of income for me, just a small hobby that I do because I like to make clothes that fit me. I've been doing it for a long time. My mom is the one who taught me. My sister approached me a few weeks ago and had some ideas. She wanted me to sew an Easte...
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{ "description": "continuing to talk to my ex", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for continuing to talk to my ex?
So for context, I broke up my ex a year ago and we were together for three years. It was a pretty ugly break up but we meant a lot to each other and are colleagues in an online company, we both live across the continent so seeing each other is not an option. My new girlfriend is very upset I still talk to her, while...
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{ "description": "just ruining my friends new relationship", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA: I may have just ruined my friends new relationship.
As the title says I may or may not have caused one of my friends to end a potentially horrible relationship. I (M) have been friends with C (F) for around 4 years and I have been friends with her new boyfriend T for the same amount of time. T hasn’t had the greatest track record when it comes to relationships as he can...
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{ "description": "telling my friend to \"grow the fuck up\" and get a job already", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for telling my friend (29M) to "grow the fuck up" and get a job already?
Buddy of mine ended up dropping out of college due to poor grades when he was around 21. Since then, he hasn't done anything except stay home. I've tried to help him, like giving lists of open-to-public exams. He hasn't taken a single one. I've also got him to write resumes to places I knew were hiring a few years ago,...
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{ "description": "doubting my sister", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for doubting my sister?
My sister is 18 years old and a senior in HS. For years she’s been mentally ill. In terms of diagnoses she has anxiety, depression, and recently been told she has borderline personality disorder. I don’t doubt that. Anxiety and depression run in my dad’s side of the family. I have them too. However, she’s next level...
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{ "description": "telling my friend that I don't care for pictures/updates/videos of her kid", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for telling my friend that I don't care for pictures/updates/videos of her kid?
I made a friend recently, and I'm a " never having kids " kind of person. So i typically don't engage or make friends with parents. She is nice and we got along so I figured " can' tbe that bad " I made it very clear early on, I dont make friends with parents, she was an exception and I do not want to talk about, or...
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{ "description": "being mad at my friend because of their boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Being Mad At My Friend Because Of Their Boyfriend?
So my friend and I were really close, constantly hanging out and talking about everything. They even said we'd go to prom together as buds. Then they got a boyfriend. And this dude sucked. He'd pull on my ponytail so hard I'd fall over, he'd stomp on my injured foot while I'm at the water fountain, etc. And then he c...
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{ "description": "getting upset with my mother for not being respectful during church", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting upset with my mother for not being respectful during church.
More of a Was I the Asshole. Am on mobile. Excuse my formatting. TLDR at bottom. So a while ago I made my confirmation. As all Catholics do. I believe it was 8th grade. So as a part of our confirmation we went on a “retreat” For 8 hours we got lectured and talked to about various things regarding confirmation then we...
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{ "description": "sleeping with a friend's ex without telling him", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for sleeping with a friend's ex without telling him
Basically trying to determine if it breaks bro code. They have been broken up for years, he's in a new relationship. I know his ex is interested in me. I don't think things will get serious between his ex and I, so I'd rather just have it happen without his knowledge than potentially making it weird even if he's not an...
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{ "description": "not going to school at noon school times", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going to school at noon school times
I'm a middle school student,During the first trimester of my second year we had to play sports at non school times (Tuesday at 14:00 where no class, only us have school) during the 2 first sessions we all came to sports, but our teacher who was there in school didn't even bother to meet us, she just wrote the name of t...
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{ "description": "not wanting my mom to hug/touch me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my mom to hug/touch me?
now, don’t get me wrong, i (F15) love my mom and i will give her hugs nearly every day. but when i come home from school, she wants one right away. honestly it’s not big deal, at all. i could just give her a hug. but sometimes you just want to be alone and not be touched, so sometimes i’ll just give her a quick side hu...
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{ "description": "tracking my wife's location via her phone", "pronormative_score": 91, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for tracking my wife's location via her phone
The day before yesterday my wife went for dinner after work with a (female) friend of hers while I was at my regular's table. She told me beforehand that she'll be back home around 8pm. Our table finished earlier than usual and I called her to tell her that I'll be home sooner. She didn't pick up. That's not too unusu...
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AITA: Got laid off and refusing to train my replacement
I got laid off due to company losing a lot of business. We have had rounds of layoffs since I have been here. I worked over 40 hours a week all the time and was a top performer. I feel I was laid off because I make more money than others. We have remote people and I am in a high cost area. I got a decent severance pa...
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{ "description": "not wanting anymore friends", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting anymore friends?
Female, 30 years old. Over the past few months I have been ‘struggling’ with a luxury problem. I have come to the realization that in my lifetime so far, I have managed to cultivate 5 friendships with 5 different women. I have known them now between 8-24+ years. These are the people I genuinely consider to be my frie...
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{ "description": "being upset at my mom for not letting me see my sister", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset at my mom for not letting me see my sister?
Disclaimer: am on mobile and first post here. Been lurking for a while Bit of backstory: apparently my sister (v) lied to my mom about something about 7 years back and she hasn't been able to forgive her. Recently my v came from Florida to come visit us and go skiing and my dad paid with his credit card. When my mom...
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{ "description": "finally telling my friends (on messenger) they don't value me as a friend, but during exam season", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for finally telling my friends (on messenger) they don't value me as a friend, but during exam season?
A disclaimer: I have multiple friends groups that I rotate between and am a person who tries to put a lot of effort into relationships. I have no problems with my social life. This is one exception! For months now, I've been feeling left out from a small group of friends I made in my first year (I'm at the end of my ...
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{ "description": "avoiding my mother in law", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for avoiding my mother in law?
So, my spouse and I moved to a new state last year and were renting an apartment when the mother in law said she was moving out of the country but didn’t want to sell her house. She told us she’d be gone for three years, and wanted us to move in and pay her mortgage and generally upkeep the home. I didn’t want to move ...
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{ "description": "making a potentially offensive joke to a gay coworker", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for making a potentially offensive joke to a gay coworker?
I think a little background is necessary. My coworker and I, let’s call him Tom, have never directly worked with each other. A position I used to hold was responsible for bringing in new people and making sure they were getting their proper training and answering any questions they may have. This is how we were acquain...
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{ "description": "telling my friend she's been overly harsh to someone who left a funeral service early", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friend she's been overly harsh to someone who left a funeral service early?
This happened a few months ago, but it's still not settled. Here goes: My friend, who we'll call Beth, left town for a week to attend a funeral and some kind of memorial service thing that was a few days afterward. I didn't personally know the deceased, who we will call Sophie, but Beth was good friends with her befor...
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{ "description": "treating bad my 1 and half YO sister", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For treating bad my 1 and half YO sister?
The first time i saw my little sister i was confused, after 12 years telling my parents that i needed a little company, i didn't feel very comfortable with it. My mom had 2 lost of the embryo by doing excessive force in my house, she did it by his own, and i and my dad didn't know bout' it. Now, i think my parents are ...
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{ "description": "breaking a kid's RipStik", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for breaking a kid's RipStik?
Throwaway because my coworkers browse reddit ​ Backstory: In middle school I was a smaller kid, and my family wasn't well off to boot although my parents were always able to provide for me and have a roof over my head. At one point, the big thing at school was RipStiks. All the cool kids had one and if you...
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{ "description": "wanting back my furniture", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting back my furniture?
Im on my mobile rn sorry for formating issues So my roomie 1 and I badly needed a third flatmate to share the rent after my brother moved out for personal reasons in february 2018. We found a new flatmate in April 2018 and left the staff of my brother in the room for the new guy. We made it clear that its actually m...
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{ "description": "telling my mother to stay out of my finances", "pronormative_score": 55, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my mother to stay out of my finances?
I’m a 35 year old man. i live in my brother’s home. I work full time, but make shit money. My brother is a veteran with PTSD, an alcoholic, and drug addict. He lives off of disability from the VA. He gets paid twice as much as I do to play video games and drink all day. He got his home and mortgage through the VA...
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{ "description": "not wanting my gf to go to gatherings with the guy she cheated with from her past relationship", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting my gf to go to gatherings with the guy she cheated with from her past relationship?
The gatherings are usually birthday celebrations with other close friends. It hasn't happened, but when it does (and there's a huge chance it will) she would go. This guy used to be her best friend and one time at a Christmas party (with the same set of people) they were both drunk and almost had sex. She tells me she ...
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{ "description": "telling a lady to \"fuck off\" as she kept telling me to move my car while I was getting my baby out", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for telling a lady to “fuck off” as she kept telling me to move my car while I was getting my baby out
Ok, so yesterday I went out to the lake with my family to give my baby (3 months) her first swim of the summer. There was an event on at the front of the lake so we went around the back. My parents, brother and his son took a separate car. My partner, daughter and I took our car. Everyone was parking on the side gras...
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{ "description": "posting an aita", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for posting an AITA?
Throwaway account for now obvious reasons... A couple days I posted an AITA that was fairly benign basically about someone being flaky. Judgement was NTA, not sure if that’s relevant. In any case, a couple days later I get some strongly worded messages, like “you are so desperate for attention” “keep your shit to you...
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AITA - My bf is selling the gift I got him to buy something else
AITA - Basically the day before Valentine’s day we went to the mall and I still hadn’t gotten him anything. He was like “I really want some Beats studio headphones lol” and I was like “ok, let me get you them!” He was in shock cause I’m normally really stingy. We went to the Apple store, he bought the Beats, and I sent...
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{ "description": "kicking someone from a group chat", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for kicking someone from a group chat?
Hi. My friends and I are in high school (I don't know if that matters or not) and there is a guy that we all think of as a friend. We'll call him John. John is kind of annoying. He's always yelling and when we play video games he screams at us and the other team. We ask him to stop and he says he will but he never does...
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{ "description": "not wanting my bf to invite his friend to our wedding", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not wanting my bf to invite his friend to our wedding?
My bf has a very bad friend, this guy always talks about hookers and how he finds this girl or that girl is fuckable or not. There was one time I read a mesage from him in my bf’s phone, this was before we got into our relationship , he said to my bf that he wanted to fuck his friend’s gf and how he found her to be rea...
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{ "description": "deleting my ex from social media and phone contacts", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for deleting my ex from social media and phone contacts?
Throwaway in case anyone I know is on here. I'm currently in college and I dated my ex back in junior year high school. I had asked her out early in the school year, and the relationship lasted a little past our school's homecoming (2 months). She was always adamant about being honest with each other, so when she brok...
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