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{ "description": "letting a thief run off with a Salvation Army bucket", "pronormative_score": 51, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for letting a thief run off with a Salvation Army bucket
Last night my GF and I were walking to the grocery store from Goodwill next door as we are on the sidewalk I hear yelling and see a tall fit guy in his thirties running in our direction with two women in pursuit (one older Salvation Army bell ringer and another woman who was short and overweight). I see a frantic loo...
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{ "description": "telling a girl that I think sex is an important part in a relationship", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For telling a girl that I think sex is an important part in a relationship?
I matched with a girl on bumble about a week ago. We've been talking, but we haven't officially met yet. We talked on bumble then switched to texting. We just talk to get to know each other. No dirty pics or sexting or even phone calls. This morning she texted me that she wanted to tell me something. The following is t...
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{ "description": "not even bothering to entertain the idea of having kids", "pronormative_score": 69, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not even bothering to entertain the idea of having kids
Okay so before you judge; I'm in my mid-20s female and ever since I was 16, I knew I didn't want kids. I think they're very expensive, dirty, a lot of work, and just not worth it. so when I started dating I always make sure that the person I was with didn't didn't want kids, because I don't want to string anybody along...
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{ "description": "not wanting to attend my Aunts wedding", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not wanting to attend my Aunts wedding?
Okay. Before I get into the story. 1) I do think I could've handled the situation better. 2) You're going to need some information on my fucked up family tree. My mother has 5 kids. My father has 1. My mother's ex husband is my mother's sisters now husband. Meaning my Brothers and Sisters father is my Uncle. And my ...
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{ "description": "buying two bus tickets so I could sit by myself and told others they could not sit with me", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I bought two bus tickets so I could sit by myself and told others they could not sit with me?
I'm in college; over breaks I normally travel using Megabus. I'm fat (and working on it) but that makes it very uncomfortable for myself (and I'm sure the person I'm sitting next to) on these long rides. I began buying 2 seats and also reserving 2 seats side-by-side so I wouldn't have to deal with others asking since...
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{ "description": "moving out and stopping talking to my family", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if i moved out and stopped talking to my family
For context I made a post a few days back on this r/ My mom won't stop treating me like IATA and my bro pretty much took her side. Her and him won't give me a day of peace and normal. Granted I have a tendency to go apeshit when we have problems. I am in okay relations with my dad but we don't talk much and he has a...
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{ "description": "wanting to drop a toxic friendship", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to drop a toxic friendship?
Ok, so I know your about to say "no sweetie, toxic people in your life aren't good for you" but read the story first bc this is more about them than about me. So I have had this school friend for about two years. We met when she first came to the school and I, being the extrovert who likes to befriend introverts (at t...
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{ "description": "asking my mother to stay out of my life", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my mother to stay out of my life?
For context, my mom has been a single parent for around ten years of my life. My dad passed away when I was very young, and she took care of me with minimal to no support from relatives until she married my stepdad. I'm 20, female. I live in a country where it is acceptable to live with your parents until you finish c...
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{ "description": "asking my mom to stop talking about work", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my mom to stop talking about work
I've been working a new job for the past five months, and while I don't have much to do right now, I still have to sit at a desk for 9 hours every day and be attentive. My mom has been in her job for a year and recently she has been talking about this woman who causes a lot of drama in the office, a woman that everyone...
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{ "description": "being angry at my ex", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being angry at my ex?
I'll try to write this out in a way that makes sense, ah. Sorry for the length but I feel I need to give as much backstory as I can to this. I'll preface this by saying I have diagnosed mental issues (won't specify past they're behavioural for privacy) and they affect my behaviour at times. My ex also has diagnosed men...
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{ "description": "exposing a student in one of my classes", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for exposing a student in one of my classes?
So I am a junior in high school and the course that I am attending is quite a challenging one. Due to this reason, a couple of my friends and I created a facebook group where we can ask questions to each other and such. The group expanded with the majority of the students taking the course being in the group. Now the p...
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AITA in my boyfriend's divorce?
(Mobile, sorry for formatting) I'm not too sure where to start with this. So I guess I'll start when I met him. My boyfriend was with his wife for 13 years, married for 6. Their relationship was never healthy. It started bad, and they got married for bad reasons. The marriage was dying for a long time. Like, he was ...
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{ "description": "being always the girl who comes between two best friends", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA: if I’m always the girl who comes between two best friends?
I’ll start by saying I don’t feel like I come between friends in a malicious way or with bad intentions, but I’m always drawn to those situations. I’ve never had a solid group of friends, I’ve always kind of drifted between groups. I don’t like drama and I find it gets real old and boring fast. So I’ve always felt be...
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{ "description": "not looking after my colleague (also boss's GF) bags while she was away", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not looking after my colleague (also boss's GF) bags while she was away
So my company is working on an outdoor event, we had the whole venue to ourselves for two days leading up to the event, and the whole team was having dinner at the venue. And slowly everyone left the table and it was only me, my boss's GF and a friend of hers. She walked away with her friend, and expected me to take ca...
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{ "description": "not switching airplane seats", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not switching airplane seats?
So I’m boarding a plane for a five hour flight, and my assigned seat is in the first row of my cabin section. No one is in front of me and there’s a little extra leg room. Flight attendant makes an announcement that a tall passenger in the middle of the cabin is uncomfortable in his seat because his knees are squishe...
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{ "description": "charging my friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for charging my friend?
So first, I want to start with the back story, I am in high school and my friend has a lot of trouble in math, he wants me to help him, so I do, in school. Then he wants me to teach him for 6 dollars an hour at my house, I said no, how about 13. Then he proceeded to tell me how friends should be caring, how I'm a money...
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{ "description": "not wanting a wedding ring", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting a wedding ring?
So my now ex-boyfriend is a big believer in love and symbols, specifically wedding rings I guess. We were in a pretty committed (yikes) relationship at the time, and the subject of us getting married someday came up. I wasnt opposed to the idea of getting married, but I was pretty set on not having a wedding ring or at...
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{ "description": "\"playing\" with my (ex)girlfriend's feelings", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for “playing” with my (ex)girlfriend’s feelings?
Me (20) and my now ex girlfriend (21) have been together for about 6 months. We both go to the same college and are in the same friend group. This is also both of ours’ first not abusive/manipulative relationship. The sex was alright on my side, but very good for her. Most times she would finish 3 or 4 times and I woul...
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{ "description": "getting angry and throwing very personal insults when my ex was antagonizing me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for getting angry and throwing very personal insults when my ex was antagonizing me?
Context: my ex of a couple months is now a friend. I'm not very emotionally stable and unbeknownst to him, I'd had a rough day. This whole interaction happened over text while I was stoned. I went to just have a conversation with him and he just started repeatedly saying "yes" to everything I said to try and annoy me....
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{ "description": "asking my wife to tell me when I can expect her to come home from work", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for asking my wife to tell me when I can expect her to come home from work?
Let me start this by saying I love my wife whatsoever and other than this, we have no issues whatsoever. My wife frequently gets home later than I do, simply because I start work before she does. However over the past year there have been many times where she won't come home until well past dinner time, and usually wo...
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{ "description": "reporting my brother to child protective services", "pronormative_score": 229, "contranormative_score": 72 }
AITA for reporting my brother to child protective services?
My younger brother made some wiener-wrapping mistakes with a relatively unstable girl and had a kid when he was 17. For a while, it was going fairly well and he was stepping up to the plate, until he had a particularly nasty breakup with the baby momma. As a result, the two of them constantly try to pawn off their dau...
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{ "description": "not responding", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not responding?
I met a girl at a meeting for a club at my uni that neither of us ended up joining, but I got her number and we ended up hanging out a few times and eventually hooking up at her place. There was clear verbal consent on both ends beforehand so that was fine. I tend to get performance anxiety when having sex with a new p...
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{ "description": "not wanting my fiancé to get new fake eyelashes monthly", "pronormative_score": 40, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting my (M26) fiancé (F26) to get New Fake Eyelashes Monthly
Currently my fiancé is in graduate school and does not work. We are living with my parents since I do not make enough to support both of us living on our own. One of the main reasons for us to be living with my parents is that I can continue to save money so we can move out in about 6 months once I have enough saved an...
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{ "description": "choosing sides in a breakup at my game night", "pronormative_score": 31, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for choosing sides in a breakup at my game night?
I don't think I've done this, but the offended party thinks that's the case. All names changed. I hosted a game night with my husband, inviting four of our friends. It was semi regular, every other week or once a month at the same time due to some of the participants work schedules being tough to work around except fo...
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{ "description": "getting drunk and flirting with a girl who has been friends with me for 6 years", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA if I got drunk and flirted with a girl who has been friends with me for 6 years?
I moved to a new town when I was younger and I made a few friends. One of my friends has a sister and we became friends too. We werent ever really really close friends just acquaintances but we have known eachother for 6 years. I was hanging out with her and one of her friends when we got invited to a small party of ju...
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{ "description": "saying I would help my bf with his college appeal but forgetting to", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for saying I would help my bf with his college appeal but forgetting to?
My boyfriend and I are both seniors and have been together for almost 2 years. We both got rejected from a state school because we barely made the top 6% requirement for auto admission and beyond that its really hard to get into. They let you appeal but there is a slim chance it'll get turned around. ​ I ...
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{ "description": "thinking about girls other than my gf", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for thinking about girls other than my GF?
My GF and I have been together for about 6 years. We were in our early 20s when we met and have only been with each other ever since. We’ve never broken up or really dated anyone else before meeting. For the past year or two, I’ve been day dreaming about being with other girls we know or being single. This happens es...
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{ "description": "sleeping with my friend who is in love with me just bc he made me feel better about myself", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AITA for sleeping with my friend who is in love with me just bc he made me feel better about myself
Some background: I recently got my heart broken, the man I was in love with cheated on me for months and after I ended it with him, he got together with the woman he cheated with. They both work at the same company as me which means seeing them quite often and together and it’s incredibly hard. I’ve been feeling insecu...
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AITA: Father-in-law makes jokes about giving us money so I stop going to restaurants when the rest of the family is invited
My father-in-law and I have a fairly good relationship and both he and his wife have helped us out a lot - help with the house (fixing issues), help with daycare (monetary) and even help with putting down a loan for the car. They are both retired, are fairly well-off and have over $500k in their bank accounts. We have...
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{ "description": "taking my time at a diner", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for taking my time at a diner
I’m a college student currently home on break. The other day I hung out with a friend of mine who I haven’t seen in a while. We smoked some weed together and we didn’t want to go back to either of our houses, so we went to a local diner. It was around 4pm and they were not very busy, however the whole time we were th...
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{ "description": "not wanting my dad to periodically slap my ass", "pronormative_score": 52, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my[13M] dad to periodically slap my ass?
My dad has been slapping my ass periodically since I was a kiddo, I'm sure its not nothing sexual and he hasn't done anything else, lets get that out of the way. He's emotionally a baby but he's no pedo. Anyways, today we were walking to the kitchen and he slapped my ass and I told him I didn't like it and that I want...
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{ "description": "asking if my roomate \"jeff\" has any forks", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For asking if my roomate "jeff" has any forks.
when jeff came home i accidentally turned the light off as i was leaving and he was entering the room. i noticed and came back and turned it on but he was already annoyed about it i apologized he seemed a bit annoyed but as he said later "let it slide". as he came in he started making a pizza to eat tonight i asked him...
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{ "description": "yelling at mom beating kid in parking lot", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for yelling at mom beating kid in parking lot
I'm in my car in a parking lot, killing time, waiting for a store to open. I see a mom walk out of a different store, clearly pissed, little 10 year old girl in front of her. The mom pushes the kid from behind two or three times. I watch. They get to their car. Kid waits for mom to open the door... Mom hits her a coup...
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{ "description": "wanting to keep nudes", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 24 }
AITA for wanting to keep nudes
So I have been dating a girl for a few months, and she noticed an old semi nude I was sent by an ex, she told me I should delete it from my phone as I was with her now, but having come from a very controlling relationship in the past, I have issues with someone new trying to tell me what I can and can’t do, and I feel ...
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{ "description": "not letting my assistant patrol leader arrange a camp and not let me join", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA not letting my assistant patrol leader arrange a camp and not let me join?
I'm going to try to explain this as best as I can. I really want a third opinion on this so hopefully you guys can help me out. I'm the Patrol Leader of one of my Scout Troop's 5 Patrols. I'm not really respected in my patrol, and one of my assistant patrol leaders (APLs) has apparently been talking with another patr...
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{ "description": "not spending time with my best friends", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not spending time with my best friends
So I’ve been best-friends with B for about 4 years now. At her 18th almost two year ago, I hooked up with her brother and have been dating him ever since. In 2017 we finished college so stopped hanging out everyday, but still saw each other every few months and talked loads. In September 2018 B went to uni so she’s n...
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{ "description": "telling my Aspie friend that his word shouldn't be taken at face value", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for telling my Aspie friend that his word shouldn't be taken at face value?
I have a friend from high school who has never dated. He once told me that he was diagnosed with Asperger's, and remembering him from school, I can believe it. He was the shy, awkward kid who kept to himself at lunch. He insists that his case is mild (if he "even has it"), that he's usually not much worse at social int...
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{ "description": "wearing a sports bra when I run outside", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wearing a sports bra when I run outside?
I like to wear a sports bra top when I do a running workout outside (weather permitting). My husband would prefer I didn’t, and wore a shirt over. AITA? To support his opinion: To be fair, I am from the US originally, but we have emigrated elsewhere. There is not so much a workout/fitness culture here, and in all hone...
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{ "description": "hurting a dog that jumped in my backyard", "pronormative_score": 61, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for hurting a dog that jumped in my backyard?
First, sorry for the mobile formatting :( Context: I've lived at my place for over three years now, and just a few months ago a new family moved in next door, wife and husband with two kids. They're quiet and nice so we lived by each other pretty nicely. Just last week they got a new dog, and it would seem that they'...
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{ "description": "getting angry at my sister for asking whether I'm still bi because I'm dating a guy", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting angry at my sister for asking whether I'm still bi because I'm dating a guy?
Title says it all and is basically a TL;DR, but to give a little context, I came out in 2014 as bisexual after my parents saw Facebook messages I had sent to my former youth minister about me coming out. I originally was hesitant to say anything about it but once the secret was out I thought I had nothing to lose. Plus...
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AITA My landlord completely ignored me.
I'm going to try to make this as unbiased as possible. So my air-conditioning unit broke in my apartment. I live in Arizona so it's hot as fuck during the summer. I told my landlady about it being broken and they sent someone out. The air guy said he couldn't fix it because it was so old, it needed to be replaced. I we...
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{ "description": "hating on a dead snitch", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA for hating on a dead snitch?
Back story here. SWIM used to be a suburban hippy dealer type. You know the happy go lucky weed and doses kind of guy. Very friendly and did it all to spread the love and make some monies. Eventually SWIM was arrested and charged with trafficking from selling to a confidential informant. Because of when it was and whe...
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{ "description": "not letting my sister eat with me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not letting my sister eat with me
(*English is not my first language*) Now i know that i look like the asshole in this situation here but here me out my bigger sister will be=bs and me=me Now because of international womens day my sister was treated like a queen when shr went to the mall they gave her free ice cream and a discount on every thing she b...
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{ "description": "wanting to have a final say in our finances", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to have a final say in our finances?
My wife and I are going through a rough patch as far as money. I’m the only one working. We have no children. She is the WORST with impulse buys. Our house is very literally packed with stuff she keeps buying without consenting me. We have almost no savings because she can’t seem to control herself. She buys gi...
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{ "description": "telling a girl Id still be her friend if nothing worked out but not end up being her friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling a girl id still be her friend if nothing worked out but not end up being her friend?
I know I know it sounds bad, but hear me out: I (M15) had flirted and talked to this girl for 3 months. I liked her so very very much and she said I was perfect. I thought this was a clear signal that I’d get to be with her but no, she says that I’m just not attracted to you, ever though I’m perfect for her. I’m bumme...
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{ "description": "being angry over promised stroller after miscarriage", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being angry over promised stroller after miscarriage?
Okay long story but I’ll keep it short. Back when Toys R Us went bankrupt my husband and I went to go look and see what stuff was on sale. We bought a few things but more specifically bought a pretty expensive stroller that was like 75% off even though we had no kids at the moment. We had been talking and making plan...
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{ "description": "cutting off friend after she kept talking about her eating disorder", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off friend after she kept talking about her eating disorder ?
Throwaway since a couple of people know my main account and this is a sensitive issue and I don't want to violate my friend's privacy. So Lily (not her real name) and I have known each other since high school, but have only started getting close as of last year, since we're the only two people from my hometown who g...
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{ "description": "going out with friends and not staying back with my gf", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for going out with friends and not staying back with my gf
So, I have been working my ass off since January with my post-graduate degree. Usually I'm working from 7am to late night with no weekends or holidays as we always have a project that needs to be done or a test/exam. This week is the final week of the term and I'm also writing a test on the last day. We have a week of...
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{ "description": "making a deal out of my fiance not planning to exchange a Christmas gift he didn't like so he'll get something he does like and will use", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for making a deal out of my fiance not planning to exchange a Christmas gift he didn't like so he‘ll get something he does like and will use?
This is a throwaway account because I don‘t want it on my main. My fiance and I got into a fight last night about a Christmas gift he got from my grandparents. They spent about $100 American dollars on a nice, fancy shirt for him. To clear things up a bit, we‘re in a European country, the price of things here are a ...
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{ "description": "unintentionally causing an argument between a couple; which I then found out, almost broke them up", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for unintentionally causing an argument between a couple; which I then found out, almost broke them up...
So, for a bit of background, I’m female [37] & I’m a senior RN. There’s a student nurse on my ward at the moment, I’ll call her Jen*. She’s, I think, [32] divorced with 2 young kids. I only met her last Thursday when we were on the same shift, & all through the morning, she was going on about her bf, Steve [3...
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{ "description": "sending my teacher an aggressive email anonymously", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for sending my teacher an aggressive email anonymously
A few days ago, my 10th grade English teacher (who we'll call Mrs N) gave us an extremely hard test that we as a class were unprepared for. Needless to say, the class did extremely poorly, with the average score being a 55%. The following day she proceeded to berate and blame my class for having done so poorly on the t...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriend he can't talk to his friend anymore", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA I told my boyfriend he can’t talk to his friend anymore.
My boyfriend has a female friend that he slept with 4 years ago in high school. They never done anything like that after that and have been friends ever since. She didn’t like me and stopped talking to him when we started dating. Around six months into dating she came back and started spending suggestive snap to my bo...
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{ "description": "going out for new years", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for going out for New Years?
Last year I attended a NYE party at my friends house, and this year he invited me and my new girlfriend. I accepted and asked my girlfriend if she'd like to come. She said no, and then questioned why I didn't spend NYE with her instead. She's Filipino and they have a lot of family NYE traditions. Now she's saying stuff...
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{ "description": "hating my autistic brother", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for hating my autistic brother.
My brother is 14, I’m 28. We’re half Brothers (share a Mum) and my Mum and brother’s father are separated. So my Brother has Autistic Spectrum Disorder, he’s probably middle teetering onto high on the scale. He has learning difficulties but isn’t like, non-verbal. It’s moreso than aspergers. He also has ADHD, and ...
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{ "description": "wanting to tell the world that my girlfriends \"friend\" spent all night grabbing her ass, trying to sleep with her and pushing his erect penis against her bum", "pronormative_score": 37, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA For wanting to tell the world that my girlfriends "friend" spent all night grabbing her ass, trying to sleep with her and pushing his erect penis against her bum?
Sorry in advance for typos, I'm properly fuming. So she went out last night for her brothers birthday with him and all his mates. She's really close with a lot of them as she grew up with them, they treat her like a little sister. It's really awesome. One of these guys friends came out too last night, someone she's on...
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{ "description": "snapping at my boyfriend for constantly interrupting me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for snapping at my boyfriend for constantly interrupting me?
Hi guys, long time lurker, first time poster. Don't care to use a throwaway account because I don't really care if he sees this. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now (after pretty much love at first sight), and just moved across the country/into an apartment together. Usually we have a very happy...
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{ "description": "wanting to go no contact with my dad", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to go no contact with my dad?
My father tells me he loves me and I don't doubt that he would protect me from physical harm. HOWEVER, My father is against anything "out of the norm". Which has caused me to hide many things about myself from my parents (sexuality,gender) I used to question if I was trans, genderfluid, ect because ive never been ov...
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{ "description": "not inviting my ex-girlfriend on vacation with me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For not inviting my ex-girlfriend on vacation with me?
A little backstory about out relationship: We started dating in the summer of 2017, and dated until the end of summer 2018 when I went away to college, but we were still very close. We were on and off until A few months ago when we decided at the end of my Christmas break we would really break up. So from mid-Januar...
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{ "description": "not moving my car after lady threatened me to go see the cops", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For not moving my car after lady threatened me to go see the cops?
I am in Australia and I went to an office supply shop to get some documents printed for my MIL ​ Upon arriving I parked at a certain spot and a lady was on the phone on the car next to me and I saw her glaring at me. Didn't think much and went to print the documents. ​ 12-15 minutes later I g...
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{ "description": "telling a friend multiple times that her dog needs more exercise", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling a friend multiple times that her dog needs more exercise?
So, my husband and I have a friend who adopted a second dog about 6 months ago. He seems to be settling in pretty good and he and their other dog get along fine. The big problem is this dog is a high energy one. Like, two-hours-hard-exercise-every-day high energy. She seems to think that 15 minutes of light ball chasin...
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{ "description": "asking my roommate to turn his games off at night", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking my roommate to turn his games off at night?
I live in a small...very small (10ftx15ft) dorm at university. For perspective, my roommates and my bed are less than a foot apart from one another. We get along well enough and don't really argue about anything and have fun together when we can, however, our sleep schedules seem to be a bit different. I usually wake ...
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{ "description": "not telling my bf I could feel his farts", "pronormative_score": 251, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not telling my bf I could feel his farts? (I’m deaf)
Background story: like I said, I’m deaf (from birth) and it means I can’t hear farts or anything like that. But however, my loss of hearing has made my other senses stronger and extra sensitive. So if someone dropped a bowl in a room next to me, I could ”feel” its sound in my body. Not sure how to explain this but anyw...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriend \"it's just a game\"", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my boyfriend "It's just a game"?
So yesterday, me and my boyfriend were playing League of legends together. He's fairly new to the game so he was getting quite frustrated over some of the games. On one of the games, I guess he did particularly bad and got pretty pissed afterwards (even though we won that match). He was in a pretty bad mood after that ...
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{ "description": "being mad that my friends won't visit", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad that my friends won't visit?
Hello, FTP here and sorry for any mistakes, I'm not native english. ​ In September of last year I moved away from the city I had lived in all my life to go to university and since then only my family and two of my friends (each once) have visited me, while I often go back to the city. The country I live in...
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{ "description": "choosing not to marry when my parents expect grandchildren", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for choosing not to marry when my parents expect grandchildren?
I am gay and my parents always talk about wanting to raise grandchildren. I’m not out to them, and I’m too scared to come out so I never will marry. Am I supposed to get conversion therapy? Thanks.
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{ "description": "making my sister pay for my old phone", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making my sister pay for my old phone?
I bought a new phone (iPhone X) used for a good price so wanted to sell my iPhone 8+ that I bought on launch day. I was initially going to sell it privately for the same price I bought the X for, I had a buyer who was interested but nothing was confirmed yet. Anyway during this time, my sisters phone broke (iPhone ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to see a play that my GF and ex-wife are both in", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 9 }
WIBTA for not wanting to see a play that my GF and ex-wife are both in?
My current GF is very into theatre. My ex-wife is also very active in the local theatre community. Up until this point it’s just been a strange coincidence but nothing more. Well, it turns out they both got parts in the same play. Would I be an asshole if I didn’t want to go see the play? For clarity, I’m completely ov...
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{ "description": "cutting my friendship to a girl who I think betrayed my trust", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I cut my friendship to a girl who I think betrayed my trust?
I (14M) had a pretty big crush on a girl in my year. We were good friends, and she was great to be around, but she was kind of hard to be friends with, sometimes acting so distant, and of course all the other kids in our year would poke fun. Finally I worked up the courage to tell her how I felt, and she turned me down...
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AITA: Coworker started stealing my tables, so I tattled.
Alright so, I’ve been working at a Thai cuisine restaurant for about a month now. I’ve served before so I know what I’m doing and everyone has said that I’ve caught on fast, and I’m doing good. I have a coworker that well call Ann, that has been there in and off for years. At first we got along great. She’s actually Me...
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{ "description": "wanting my neighbors evicted", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting my neighbors evicted?
So I've been living in this "second chance" apartment complex in a run down part of town, in a 40 year old building that is deteriorating and pay probably twice what I should for rent. Not my neighbors' fault I have a previous eviction on my history, but it does add to the overall frustration of living here. My neighb...
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{ "description": "pursuing a girl with a boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 38, "contranormative_score": 248 }
AITA pursuing a girl with a boyfriend
This girl and I have been hanging out together since the beginning of the school year. She is so fun and beautiful and vibrant, and has the perfect qualities for a girlfriend. She’s modest and a little shy and totally adorable. I loved hanging out with her and she told me how great I was and how much she loved spending...
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{ "description": "breaking up over Snapchat after she refused to talk to me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for breaking up over Snapchat after she refused to talk to me?
This happened some months ago but I just discovered this Sub. So basically, me (16M) and my ex (17F) had been together for about 5 months when I broke up. This really wasnt a good relationship as we weren’t really compatible. During those 5 months there was usually 1 week during each month where she didnt talk to me f...
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{ "description": "not switching to a smaller room for my roommates", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for not switching to a smaller room for my roommates
This isnt a particularly dramatic post, but one where I'd like other people's input. So I've been living in a 3 bedroom apartment with only 1 other roommate (both of us 23M) and when we moved in I got the "master" bedroom which was downstairs and he got one of the 2 smaller bedrooms upstairs. The master bedroom is on...
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{ "description": "not wanting to get married but sort of leading my girlfriend on", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for not wanting to get married but sort of leading my girlfriend on?
I've been together with my girl since 9th grade (about 8 years now). I know its about time we start to formalize things, get married and move together and all that but right now were both 22 years old, still in college and poor af. This past year my girlfriend has started looking at wedding rings, dresses and talki...
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{ "description": "telling my friend about Dumplin'", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For telling my friend about Dumplin'
If you haven't seen the movie it's about a fat girl who joins a beauty pageant. It's the only movie I've ever cried at and the message is more than just body positivity. I wanted my friend to watch it because it's a good movie , but she got kinda angry and asked if I was calling her fat. I feel bad about it but I don't...
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{ "description": "being jealous of my girlfriend's new classmate", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: For being jealous of my girlfriend's new classmate?
My girlfriend just started school and she's bonding with a new guy classmate. I was jealous at first and even had a fight with her - she went to drink with this guy at one of her mate's house and got drunk. Both of them stayed over but promised she didn't do anything. ​ I trust her and the guy (once I foun...
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{ "description": "leaving without paying", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving without paying?
Some context: There is this place near my house *-the kind of store where you can buy a pack of cigarettes, some candy, pay your taxes and services, use a phone booth, or use a PC-* the clerk there always had an attitude, so it was a place I would go only if there was no other place, or if I was in a hurry. This hap...
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{ "description": "telling at my roommate", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling at my roommate?
Backstory: I am a freshman in college and started talking to my roommate over the summer. During the summer we would play video games with each other and a few other people from the discord for the freshman at our school and we got along good so I asked if he wants to be roommates. During the summer he was a normal vol...
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Aita for diaper rules
My mom, her friend and baby dropped in one time and let themselves in when I was out. Key was also for emergencies. My mom went in and went in our bedroom where my husband was sleeping, turned on the light and woke him up. I was so mad, like what if he was naked. So they left and a few days later I notice the living ro...
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{ "description": "taking advantage of my girlfriend after she cheated on me", "pronormative_score": 117, "contranormative_score": 133 }
AITA for taking advantage of my girlfriend after she cheated on me?
"So I have been with this girl for nearly two years and she always checked my phone and always acted a little crazy any time i talk to any female even related to school stuff. I love her and she was great in most other ways. I legitimately planned on marrying her once i graduated college. Im not a super jealous perso...
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{ "description": "playing a harmless joke on someone who forgot to log out of a school computer", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for playing a harmless joke on someone who forgot to log out of a school computer?
So a little bit of context first: At my high school it's very common for people to mess around with people who forget to log out on the computers. Usually all that means is making a text file on the desktop, changing their background on Gmail (Windows desktop backgrounds can't be changed on these computers), rearrangi...
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AITA
So one day at school one of my friends told me to diss a Muslim kid in my class. Me, not wanting to do this jokingly said your mom is Muslim(because his family is Muslim) at this he gets very offended, pushes me, calls me a “fucking Jew” then storms of. Am I the asshole?
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{ "description": "telling my roommate she can't have sex in our dorm room", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my roommate she can't have sex in our dorm room?
Our dorm situation is a single room with two beds and two desks. We also share a bathroom with another room. My roommate and I will be sharing this dorm room for the fall 2018 and spring 2019 semesters. Before I left for winter break she asked me if she could invite some guy over so she could have sex and I told her ...
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{ "description": "cold ghosting a \"girlfriend\" even when I made it clear this wasn't an exclusive relationship and she decides to blur the line", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for cold ghosting a "girlfriend" even when I made it clear this wasn't an exclusive relationship and she decides to blur the line?
Cindy and I have dated for a few months. I try not to be exclusive as much as I can. I make it absolutely clear with any and all of my partners. I'm a hedonist and enjoy keeping a roster of girls as long as I'm transparent about it. And yes, I'm in it mostly for the sex and intimacy and little else. I also make this ab...
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{ "description": "lying to my bf about how much money I have", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA lying to my bf about how much money I have?
We've been together now for close to a year. I live with my mum, I did move in with him for a while last year but it was difficult and I was constantly in debt and unable to see my friends (it's pretty long-distance), so I moved back to my mums. I've found a job that will lead me to a career I would really love, and I'...
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{ "description": "potentially ruining my boyfriend's relationship with his mother", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I potentially ruined my boyfriend's relationship with his mother?
Me (22m) and my boyfriend (23m) have been together for four years now, and for the first three and a half years of our relationship he and his mother never spoke. She had basically turned on him when he came out as gay, starting off with subtle insults and digs which came to blows and she kicked him out at 17 with nowh...
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{ "description": "stopping talking to my long time friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I stopped talking to my long time friend?
So this friend and I have been friends for roughly 10 years now. We were never super close but they've always been super open with me and always come to me when they need an unbiased person to talk to. I had fallen out of touch with them for a while but we reconnected last year when we found out our friend was dying. A...
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{ "description": "being angry at my nations immigration, social services, and how pathetic my life is", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA For being angry at my nations immigration, social services, and how pathetic My life is.
I really don’t want this to be a sob story or for people to start calling me a racist I have very little in terms of moral navigation other than fucking with people online(see baiting) as a means of venting I must also apologise for my poor grammar I have dyslexia and have had no formal education since the age of 14 Il...
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{ "description": "not attending my ex-boyfriend's dad's funeral", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not attending my ex-boyfriend's dad's funeral?
My ex (we'll call him T) and I have a complicated relationship. We dated for about a year and broke up last May. After our break-up, we both acted like assholes. I kept being really indecisive about getting back together, and he threatened to kill himself several times if I didn't. There was a lot of fighting between u...
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{ "description": "wanting my stay at home girlfriend to accept a job she was offered", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting my stay at home girlfriend to accept a job she was offered?
Throwaway because I’m not sure if she follows this sub. So my girlfriend and I have been living together for a few years. For most of that time she’s been working part-time from home. She suffers from anxiety and depression and her mental health took a real hit when her dad passed away 2 years ago. Unfortunately a few...
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{ "description": "trying to hookup/start a thing with a friend, then stopping once she sent nudes because her body wasn't what I had expected", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for trying to hookup/start a thing with a friend, then stopping once she sent nudes because her body wasn’t what I had expected?
19M here, worked with this girl for 2 years in a boring min wage job so we talked a lot, became solid friends, and maintained that friendship even though neither of us still work there. We recently met up in person for the first time in while and there was attraction that I felt was mutual, so I later asked her about i...
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{ "description": "constantly nagging my roommate", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for constantly nagging my roommate?
TL;DR: Moved in with a roommate who eats my stuff and is messy. I left her a note about it and she left me one calling me "rude and disrespectful". I am 20F and recently moved into my first apartment. I have definitely carried over some of the expectations I had about living with family members, and don't know if I ha...
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{ "description": "getting mad at someone for ghosting me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at someone for ghosting me?
(Sorry in advance for formatting, I’m on mobile) So let’s get started. During summer vacation when I was 13, I went to a summer day camp. It was fun and I made some friends but there was this one girl I really clicked with. She was a year older than me, but it wasn’t a big deal. We could joke about anything, and we ...
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{ "description": "wanting to re-home my moms dog", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to re-home my moms dog?
Back story: 9 months ago my mother had some severe health issues and landed in the ICU for two weeks. Because she was sick and couldn’t work, she shortly afterwards became homeless. My husband and I offered to foster her dog for three months while she got back on her feet. We live in a studio apartment with our own dog...
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{ "description": "staying friends with someone", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for staying friends with someone?
I have this friend who I’ve known for about four years now. Let’s call her Ra. Ra was always kinda weird. Didn’t have many friends, but I was one of her friends. We hung out a lot and laughed a lot. But one thing about Ra is that she is a big asshole to a lot of people. I have another friend who I met a year after mee...
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{ "description": "getting upset a very close friend didn't tell me they were in an accident", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for getting upset a very close friend didn't tell me they were in an accident?
My ex was hit by a car on his motorcycle a few months ago. He doesn't have any family; I still love him and considered myself to be one of his closest friends. He very easily could have died, and when he got to the hospital, he posted on his snap story that he was hit. At this point, I had no idea what was going on; he...
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{ "description": "approaching this sketchy vehicle idling outside my house and saying get the fuck out", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for approaching this sketchy vehicle idling outside my house and saying get the fuck out
It’s 11:35pm quiet no traffic suburban neighborhood I’m 22 yrs old former drug addict so I am pretty in tune with what looks like a shady situation when I see it. I was letting my dog out and all of a sudden this beater car going super slow pulls slightly off the road and onto my neighbors lawn. He drives off of the la...
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{ "description": "telling my gf she can't go clubbing without me if she wants to stay together", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for telling my gf she can’t go clubbing without me if she wants to stay together
Since the start of my relationship I told her I did not want to be with a girl who likes to go clubbing/partying. Yesterday all of a sudden she started arguing while we were parked in my car that ‘I don’t trust her’ and ‘I’m being too controlling’ and even pointed out a scenario where her roommate who is in a relations...
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{ "description": "losing a friend who moved overseas", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA by losing a friend who moved overseas?
TL;DR A friend of mine moving overseas fell in love with me, I made it seem like I was also into it, started dating someone else, and slowly stopped talking to my friend. Long wall of text incoming Last year, I (27M) moved to a large metropolitan area, knowing virtually no one there. I got a job working on a team of ...
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{ "description": "calling out a toxic crush", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For calling out a toxic crush?
Here’s the context : So i am currently crushing on some dude( lets call him Patrick) and it started when I was sitting across from him in one of my classes. He was, in my eyes, super funny, athletic, clever, and not to mention good looking, to me at least. I gave him my number for a project we were doing that involved...
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