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{ "description": "being friends with someone else", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being friends with someone else?
Ok so just a warning: Yes we are teenagers Yes this some real "cliche drama" But can i just please get some reflection here regardless of how stupid it is And also i apologize English is not My first language Ok, so my best friend (BFF) intruduced another friend(NF) to our friend group a couple of months ago and NF w...
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{ "description": "telling my wife I was done", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my wife I was done?
My MIL has always made snide remarks about my wife and I's marriage, things like "you can always get a new husband, but you'll only have one mother". Today we were eating dinner with them and she made a comment saying "the hospital always knows who the mother is, the father could be anyone" now, usually I enjoy bante...
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{ "description": "keeping a distant friend blocked after they lost it at me and unfriended me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For keeping a distant friend blocked after they lost it at me and unfriended me?
**TL;DR at the bottom** For context - I had known this person since 8th grade at school. I'm [M] in second year at university now. I had never really been a close friend with them and most of our conversation was digital; we rarely hung out in person. I'll call her Jane. I'm an introverted person who will sometimes d...
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{ "description": "throwing mouse corpses into a school", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for throwing mouse corpses into a school?
Our house backs on to the playing field of a8 primary school (UK, kids aged 4-11). There is a low fence between our garden and the field. Kids seldom but occasionally approach right to our fence. Our cat likes to kill stuff. We try to stop this by keeping her in at night but occasionally she sneaks in with a little mo...
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{ "description": "sabotaging a competitive colleague", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for sabotaging a competitive colleague?
A few months back, a colleague and I started training in a very competitive graduate programme. While working in the same city, each of us would be based at a different centre: one at a nationally recognised institution that arguably is the more prestigious place to work and train, and one that is more peripheral and p...
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{ "description": "cussing out a bitchy classmate", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for cussing out a bitchy classmate?
Hello, I've been on Reddit for a while and this is a throwaway for this post. There is a ton of backstory to understand how the dynamics of the class are set up and to understand where I fit in into all of it. You're free to skip it and just read the issue, but it might help to get some of the background. I may have g...
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{ "description": "getting too drunk and waking up my roommate who then took care of me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting too drunk and waking up my roommate who then took care of me?
Months back, I drank too much alcohol one night and came home to my apartment around 11pm. Obviously since I was very drunk, I don't remember too much detail from the night itself. But I was worried I was **dangerously** drunk (it's happened before), so I called my mom to see if she thought I needed to go to the hospit...
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{ "description": "wanting my elderly mother to live with me and my family even though my husband is against it", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting my elderly mother to live with me and my family even though my husband is against it?
My mum is such a wonderful person. She has been an amazing mum and a loving grandmother to my daughter. She has just turned 86years old and can no longer live where she is. With her pension she can no longer afford to keep up with the bills and she is now too frail to make it up the stairs. Even though she’ll never adm...
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AITA over something that happened years ago?
I'm sorry this will be a wall of text but will try to stick to only pertinent information. I tried to TL;DR, can't say it explains it all. I met my best friend (opposite sex for context, I'll call them Q) over 15 years ago. We slept together once in the first year or so of knowing each other. It was left at that a...
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{ "description": "not being part of my biological father's aa", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not being part of my biological father's AA?
Before I get started, I am on mobile. Jumping right it to some background. I (19f) have never actually met my biological father. He was never really present during my mother's pregnancy. He couldn't be bothered to be there when I was born and he used drugs and alcohol to escape after my parents lost my brother (he wa...
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{ "description": "not wanting to drive and back a trailer for the first time", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to drive and back a trailer for the first time
My friends and I are going away to the lake for the weekend and the place we're staying at has a small boat. Once I told my friends the car I am driving (which is not mine and I am not insured to drive) has a tow bar they started celebrating how much fun it will be going boating. They never explicitly asked me if I was...
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{ "description": "calling the police on a dog tied up outside", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for calling the police on a dog tied up outside?
Last night I made a late night run to the grocery store around 9 PM. It was snowing and the temperature at the time was below -30C with the wind chill. When I got there, there was a dog tied to a bench outside the store. I went did my shopping and came out over an hour after I went in. By now there’s was a light free...
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{ "description": "abandoning my oldest and closest friend who has depression because he's a vile racist", "pronormative_score": 83, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for abandoning my oldest and closest friend who has depression because he’s a vile racist?
So my best friend who I’ve known since primary school, let’s call him Will. Will is a racist. He was brought up in a racist household and was taught that he was racially superior to others, of course when I became friends with him when I was 5 or 6, I didn’t really know much about all of that. By the time we were te...
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{ "description": "choosing not to be close to my dad because he spent the money that was supposed to me in trust for me", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for choosing not to be close to my dad (52m) because he spent the money that was supposed to me in trust for me (24f)
I used to have a very rich great aunt who didn't have any children to leave her estate to. So, she decided to split her fortune among her sister's grandchildren for them to go to university. Most of my cousins are about 10 years older than me, so they got their inheritance relatively soon. However, the money for me an...
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{ "description": "not letting my group use my alternative text after they stayed quiet", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not letting my group use my alternative text after they stayed quiet?
\[Sorry if anything is hard to understand. I am a native English speaker. Bear with me :D\] So, I am currently in a pretty annoying dilemma concerning a group project. It's a long story with many events, but I will try to sum it up. For the context, I am a Psychology Student (Master Degree) and in one of my courses, w...
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{ "description": "wanting my boyfriend to stop smoking around me", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my boyfriend to stop smoking around me?
I hate smoking. I always said I would never date a smoker, but my current boyfriend hid the fact that he smoked from me for about 7 months (I honestly don't know how he did it but he did). He knows I hate smokers. When I found out he smoked I was mad and I have told him that I'd like him to quit but I'm not super push...
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{ "description": "wanting my brother & his girlfriend to pay their share of a holiday that they originally agreed to go on but now can't because they are expecting a baby", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for wanting my brother & his girlfriend to pay their share of a holiday that they originally agreed to go on but now can't because they are expecting a baby?
Me and our large family planned to go on holiday this summer. This included my wife & I and our 2 young children, my two sisters, my single brother and my other brother his girlfriend and their son. They recently announced that they are expecting a baby due slap bang in the middle of the week we are due to be away....
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{ "description": "not tipping at an solo owner-operated cafe", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not tipping at an solo owner-operated cafe?
The reason for tipping (that I've heard) is that servers/busboys/bartenders etc. are critically underpaid, so tips are how they stay afloat. That's fine, I'm all for tipping >%20 on good service, especially if busy or special order or split check or whatever. Even as a broke student, I know that if I have enough mon...
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{ "description": "stalking and reporting sex offenders on Facebook", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for stalking and reporting sex offenders on Facebook
**Before you guys shout shitpost, I have screenshots as evidence if anyone wants to see them!** ​ Facebook's terms of service clearly states that sex offenders are not permitted to use their service. Nonetheless that does not deter them. I watch the sex offender registry in my state and search for them on ...
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{ "description": "asking someone to buy me a hoodie", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for asking someone to buy me a hoodie
After making a purchase on grailed for a hoodie in medium size, the seller contacted me 3 days later (even though they claim to ship out items within 24 hours of payment received) and said that they'd run out of that hoodie in medium size and that they only had small and large. Obviously I don't want to wear a hoodie i...
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{ "description": "not trying to talk through the issues I had with childhood friends", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not trying to talk through the issues I had with childhood friends?
For a little backstory(hold on, it's a looong one), I was friends for a very long time (15 years or so) with two twin girls. We grew up together basically but I always felt like i didn't belong with them. I used to be and still am a really calm person, it's hard to get on my nerves, while they were and still are (as fa...
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{ "description": "not wanting to have sex with my girlfriend during her period", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to have sex with my girlfriend during her period.
We're extremely sexually active and we usually have sex every other day. My girlfriend told me that she's on her period. I didn't pay any mind to it. Until, she asked me to have sex with her. I'm afraid of blood, it's not a fetish of mine. I have a panic attack if I see blood on my toothbrush. I just don't like blood...
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{ "description": "refusing to buy my friends birthday presents", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for refusing to buy my friends birthday presents
I (19F) have basically had the same group of friends for 6 years, of about 8 girls. Every year I watch these people buy each other presents, and I myself spend $30-$50 on every one ($400 each year). I am also the most financially independent out of these people so it takes a toll. Then when it comes to my birthday, w...
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{ "description": "signing another year lease on an apartment my girlfriend hates", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA for signing another year lease on an apartment my girlfriend hates?
My girlfriend moved in with me at the end of last year. I live in a studio apartment. We live in the city and the price of this place is amazing. We were both working when she moved in and my lease is coming to an end. She hates how small this place is and we’ve discussed moving into a bigger apartment. I wasn’...
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{ "description": "walking away from a flight attendant as she was lecturing me for using the first class bathroom", "pronormative_score": 79, "contranormative_score": 46 }
AITA for walking away from a flight attendant as she was lecturing me for using the first class bathroom?
I fly frequently - three or more times per month - with an airline not always know for the friendliest customer service. I have premier status with the airline, so I generally get to choose my seat and get the row directly behind first class if I’m not upgraded. Last night I was in the row right behind first class, an...
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{ "description": "not wanting to date europeans", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to date Europeans?
I put this on my dating profile recently and I realized it might sound strange. I don't have anything against people from Europe, but as someone from the United States, I guess I just don't find people from other western countries to be very attractive. I think it's a matter of personal insecurity that leads me to thi...
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{ "description": "parking next to a large truck", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for parking next to a large truck?
I went to the mall around 5 pm on a Saturday. The parking lot was pretty full and I found a spot reasonably close to the front. So I parked in the spot. The car next to me was I think a Dodge Ram. I drive a Hyundai Elantra. I was well within the lines of the spot. His truck was right on the lines. We were a little clo...
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{ "description": "asking out a girl who is a best friend of a girl who had crush on me", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking out a girl who is a best friend of a girl who had crush on me?
It happened a while ago but I found this sub so I wanted to ask. I rejected a girl(A) (almost ignored her. My bad) and asked out her best friend(B). She rejected me and didnt even tell her(A) that I made a move to her(B) - which is funny considering that their groupies share everything. Now that I think of it looks l...
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{ "description": "not closing the gate to my driveway so my neighbor's dog can't get out", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not closing the gate to my driveway so my neighbor’s dog can’t get out?
The title is kind of confusing, there’s a bit of context needed here. So to explain my living situation: I live on a small property where there is a main house, and the backyard has a few different sheds that are slowly being remodeled over time. The front house is rented out separately from the (currently singular...
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{ "description": "being upset that my husband stayed the night at an attractive girls house", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being upset that my husband stayed the night at an attractive girls house?
My husband went out of town to our home town to play a show this past weekend and he was supposed to be staying at his best friend/band mates house Friday and Saturday night. But he ended up sleeping at this very attractive single girls house Saturday night, alone. Yes, I know her and get along with her. But I only kno...
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{ "description": "telling my friends bf to break up with her and now secretly dating him", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 22 }
AITA for telling my friends bf to break up with her and now secretly dating him?
I moved to a new school this year and ive made friends with a group of girls. We were at a house party the other night and one of the girls had a fight with her boyfriend and went home. Me and him walked to a shop to get some food and he kissed me and told me he liked me. We were really drunk btw. I kissed him back and...
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AITA because my ex broke up with me and I distanced myself
So me and my ex girlfriend broke up recently. We have tried dating 3 times before and it never worked out, but we couldn't stay away from each other. The first time was because of a lot of family issues for both of us and we agreed it wasn't a good time to try to date, but the other 3 times it was because she is still ...
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{ "description": "feeling disrespected by a Coworkers Meme", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Feeling Disrespected by a Coworkers Meme?
A little background: I work for a large company in an office setting. My team is 5 people in two locations with only myself and a coworker at my location in a control room with ~50 others. I have been working for a long time and am very respected for my knowledge regarding our work. My coworker was trained by me and is...
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{ "description": "ghosting on a friend I've known for 7 years", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ghosting on a friend I’ve known for 7 years?
I (19M) have a friend the same age who I used to be inseperable with. We would do everything together and had a pretty good grouo of friends. We both had mutual crushes on each other and would go on trips together almost every week, and it would consist of getting really drunk and high, and having really funny or nice ...
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{ "description": "surprising by ex-girlfriend with an overseas holiday with my family", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I surprised by ex-girlfriend with an overseas holiday with my family?
Hey guys, I’m using my throwaway again. My ex and I had a pretty nasty breakup which you can read about in my post history. I know I was completely in the wrong, and that my family was racist and disrespectful. Since then, I’ve maintained my distance from her, but I really miss her. Honestly I think she was the one be...
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{ "description": "asking a girl out that my friend my told me not to", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA If i asked a girl out that my friend my told me not to?
Im gonna keep this as short as possible. Lets call my friend John, and the girl i like Stacy. I have a very close friend whom i love, John, were very close to one another even if we have never met in person. 2 weeks ago he intriduced me to Stacy. He said to me not to hit on her, i said ofcourse and asked why. Apperentl...
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{ "description": "being mad at my dad because he told me his step brother passed with a text message", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For being mad at my dad because he told me his step brother passed with a text message?
I'm super mad at my dad. My aunt's husband died of a degenerative disease 2 days ago and I received an email from his son (not my cousin) telling the whole family (big family) about it with the date of the ceremony etc. Which I think is fine. Then I told my sister because she doesn't check her inbox often, who directl...
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{ "description": "getting pissed off at roommate's girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting pissed off at roommate’s girlfriend
For background, my brother is my roommate. I have a high paying job and was living in a major city far from where we grew up in a rural area. My brother was having trouble finding a job in this rural area so I told him to come live with me and sleep on my couch. He got a job very quickly and then we moved to a 2 bed...
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{ "description": "accidentally breaking a Snapchat streak with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for accidentally breaking a Snapchat streak with my Girlfriend?
(Please forgive the terrible formatting because I’m on my phone) I have been dating my GF for almost 2 years now and it has been a long distance relationship. We had a streak since the beginning of our relationship and I accidentally broke that about 2 months ago. This made her really upset since she thought that this...
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{ "description": "saying I'd find what my Cousin did would be unacceptable in my relationship", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For saying I'd Find What my Cousin Did Would be Unacceptable In My Relationship
So some background for what led up to this situation. My cousin is having her male friend from out of town sleepover at her place for a few days. She is also in a 1.5 year committed relationship with her boyfriend who lives apart from her. (Who recently became a friend of mine) Last night when her SO was not over she d...
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{ "description": "refusing to visit my mother if her boyfriend is present", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to visit my Mother if her boyfriend is present?
Okay so some backstory, her boyfriend, we'll call him John, has been with her on and off for 2 years, and I recently moved out. My mother lives at home with my 2 little brothers and John visits time to time. So, John has left my mother 3 times, and after the 2nd time I told him if he came back I'd knock him cold if I ...
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{ "description": "asking if my Mother feeds my 3yo lollies", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking if my Mother feeds my 3yo lollies
So our 3yo son has one afternoon each week where he gets picked up from daycare by my Mum and spends the afternoon with her. They both love their time together each week and she's generally very helpful when we ask her to help out. Me and my partner know that they sometimes go for ice cream or he has biscuits and thin...
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{ "description": "bringing the cops", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For bringing the cops?
TL;DR: My ex had my cats. I told him I was coming to get them and that I would bring the cops if necessary. I was aware he had drugs in the house. I learned after the fact that he also had a gun there, which he is legally not allowed to possess. I called to let him know I was on my way. He got irate and was ranting and...
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{ "description": "not wanting my best friend to remain friends with my ex", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my best friend to remain friends with my ex? (very long)
You're probably already thinking "yes" because it's widely considered unreasonable to make that kind of ultimatum, but with context, I feel like my position will be a little more understandable. I started dating a girl in April of this year. We were both sophomores in high school at the time and we were good friends f...
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{ "description": "letting my girlfriend pay for me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for letting my girlfriend pay for me?
So I've already broken up with this girlfriend. It's been a while and I'm still kind of conflicted on one of our issues. For context, I'm 17 and she was 18. While we were dating she had a job at a local retirement home as a waitress making $12/hr, and she worked full time. Since she lived with her parents, she didn't h...
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{ "description": "not locking up my edibles, resulting in my niece getting high af", "pronormative_score": 211, "contranormative_score": 127 }
AITA for not locking up my edibles, resulting in my niece getting high AF?
I live in Colorado, a legal state. I am a 35 year old woman. For many women, unwinding means a bottle of wine. For me, I prefer to pop an edible or two and relax in front of a paint canvas, my sewing machine, etc. My sister's husband had an emergency that resulted in her needing to quickly find a sitter for her 9 year...
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{ "description": "making my girlfriend insecure about her body", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for making my girlfriend insecure about her body?
As a bit of background, my girlfriend and I have been dating for \~2.5 years, and she has always been pretty insecure of her body – to the point where to took months for her to let me see her fully naked. I've always been very understanding and supportive of that, going out of my way to make her feel beautiful and...
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{ "description": "being jealous of a dead guy", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for being jealous of a dead guy?
So here's the deal, my girlfriend of 5 years is going to visit the grave of her deceased coworker in April, it will be the anniversary of his death. They only worked with each other for about half a year and she had stopped working with him about 2 months before he tragically died in a car wreck. Now here is why ...
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{ "description": "snooping through my partner's phone", "pronormative_score": 227, "contranormative_score": 185 }
AITA for snooping through my partner’s phone?
My boyfriend was acting a bit off lately. A bit distant. I asked him what was up and he just told me he was in a depressive hole lately. But I couldn’t quell on that gut-feeling that something was wrong, so, yes, I went ahead and snooped his phone while he was asleep. And I found exactly what I feared. He had a girl on...
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{ "description": "acknowledging parking etiquette", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for acknowledging parking etiquette
Both my kids go to this preschool that's at this church. Most everybody is not a member of said church, myself included. To clarify before I go any further, the preschool is a good mix of all ethnic backgrounds, no stereotyping. I like to believe in a good person and to raise my kids to be even better than myself, I h...
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{ "description": "dating a mutual friend", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for dating a mutual friend?
Ok Reddit, I’ll keep try to keep this short and simple. So I used to date this guy for a few years, we’ll call him Ryan. This was at a time in my life when I was really insecure and dealing with major depression. The first year of our relationship was great, but over time he started to become more and more abusive. At...
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{ "description": "telling my friend to abandon his \"dream\" and get a job", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for telling my friend to abandon his "dream" and get a job?
There's a thread over in r/relationship_advice about a girlfriend dealing with her boyfriend who wanted to become a professional streamer, and it's reminded me of a situation I'm in the middle of with a friend. ​ I have this friend, we'll call him Joe, and he's decided he wants to make a career out of stre...
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{ "description": "really badly insulting someone because they wouldnt stop trying to put me below them", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for really badly insulting someone because they wouldnt stop trying to put me below them.
This one kid in my school is a really strange personality, I want to be his friend but he makes it so hard (or maybe I'm just not seeing something). I was his friend about 2 weeks ago, we got pretty close, talked on discord up to 4 hours a day, but then he stopped talking to me and started making jokes/insults (insulti...
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{ "description": "being arrogant with girls", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for being arrogant with girls?
I (19M) am arrogant in general, especially so when it comes to hooking up with girls. I'm at university so idk I know quite a lot of my friends are a similar way, even moreso than me. In school, I was painfully anxious and shy, as well as really skinny and an easy target. Now that I've bulked up a bit and dress better...
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{ "description": "sleeping with a co-worker who has a boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for sleeping with a co-worker who has a boyfriend?
Spoiler: when I say sleeping with, I mean that literally, nothing else happened. So this happened last week at a Christmas Party. With a co-worker who is smart, attractive and funny. The girl in question was rediculously drunk, like, stupid drunk. I wasn't too much better. However after the party was over (she had ...
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{ "description": "finding out about my classmates being on their periods", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for finding out about my classmates being on their periods?
So, some background, i am 14m so am obviously very awkward about things like this, but it was made worse who it was Friend group XYZ is a group of female friends that I get along well with and chat to quite regularly, it is just made awkward by the fact that I had a crush on X in elementary school and a crush on Y a fe...
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{ "description": "thinking it's ok to put down dog by shooting it", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking it's ok to put down dog by shooting it?
A couple who are friends with me and my wife put their old dog down recently. My wife found out the husband took it out back and shot it rather than taking it to the vet for the pink juice. She was mortified. To the point she doesn't want to be friends with them. Basically I told her some people are different and I ...
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{ "description": "not planning to bring my boyfriend along on this trip", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not planning to bring my boyfriend along on this trip?
Throwaway. He knows my main. I'm looking to go to a summer school abroad. It's a pretty decent one, fully related to my future career and it's in a place I've wanted to go for a while now. Also I have a friend who lives there who got really excited at the thought of meeting me, so everything seemed pretty positive. ...
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AITA if my girlfriend broke up with me for farting?
Bit of background: I'm taking some light chemo (nothing serious) and one of the side effects is gassiness. The kind of farts that could cure leather. My girlfriend and I were out all day yesterday and I had a bad case of environmental toxicity. She teased me a bit at first (which is NBD), but as the day went on she got...
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{ "description": "not being as friend like to one person over others", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not being as friend like to one person over others?
Alright, so, this just happened. Last night, my roommate/“friend” who is male texted me “Love you Goodnight” and I thought nothing about it and replied with “Love you too bud Goodnight” and he responded the next day with “I’ll stop saying I love you since it makes you uncomfortable” and tbh it does because I don’t just...
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{ "description": "not wanting my best friend to date my ex-girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting my best friend to date my ex-girlfriend
Just FYI this is a throwaway account. So let me back it up a bit. Around 2 or so years ago, I got my first girlfriend. I really liked her and was ecstatic to be with her. It was such a new experience for someone to have feelings for me in return, and I have a lot of great memories of being with this specific girl. I l...
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{ "description": "using my blender at 6:30am", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for using my blender at 6:30AM?
I live in an apartment that is on the top floor, on the side, with a 3BR unit below and a 2 BR unit next to me. I have no roommates. I start work at 7:30AM M-F which puts me having breakfast around 6:30AM. I like blending fruit and veggies into smoothies, which makes a considerable amount of noise for about 30 seconds....
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{ "description": "\"harassing\" this poor girl", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for "harassing" this poor girl?
Oh boy, where to begin? So, a couple of years ago, I developed a crush on this girl we'll call J. Now, things were going fine for a while, J liked me back too, so....what happened? Frankly, I had no idea. One day, she came to school pissed. I asked here why she was angry. She wouldn't say, but I had a suspicion to w...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed for being asked to fill my dad's unemployment form while I'm in a foreign country", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting annoyed for being asked to fill my dad’s unemployment form while I’m in a foreign country?
Ok so background: my dad has a seasonal job and doesn’t work during the winter time. During this time he collects unemployment checks in which he needs to either call or fill out an online form answering pretty basic questions (i.e. have you worked a temporary job? Gotten paid for work?) which basically just try to fil...
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{ "description": "making a another dad make his kid cry", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for making a another dad make his kid cry?
First time poster here. This happened this past summer. We live in a HCOL area. Lots of wealthy/entitled people. We are not poor, but (very) far from wealthy. The wife and I take our kids to the local public park. Now, this park is awesome and FREE. It has a huge splash park, three playgrounds, tennis courts, pave...
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{ "description": "walking in on a professor while they were still lecturing despite class time being over", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for walking in on a professor while they were still lecturing despite class time being over?
This happened last semester of college, so a 3-4 months back. I'm posting now because I only discovered this sub a couple days ago, ok story time. So every Monday Wednesday, and Friday, I had this astronomy class, and the class that was being taught right before my astronomy class was supposed to be finished at 9:50 AM...
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{ "description": "spray painting over my sisters art", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for spray painting over my sisters art?
I commissioned a painting from my sister about 2 years ago. I paid for the piece and all the supplies before she started working on it. Last month my sister texted me asking if I was available because she was going to come over with the finished painting, so we organised a time for her to arrive and we could have coffe...
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{ "description": "getting fucking pissed at my date for running a red light", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for getting fucking pissed at my date for running a red light?
So I’m with a date with with girl (second date, she’s cool) and she’s driving me home. It’s 2 am and there’s not a car in the road in sight. So we stop at a red light. She looks both ways, sees no cars, and runs it. I’m verbally pissed. I tell her even if there’s no cars you have to stop. It’s dangerous and I thought...
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{ "description": "getting upset at my father's seemingly biphobic statement", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting upset at my father’s seemingly biphobic statement?
So yesterday while me, my father and my brother were having dinner, we were talking about this family we knew and I mentioned that one of their kids had told me his mother is bisexual. My dad immediately asked if his mom had girlfriends from time to time or something to which I said no, they are happily married. My dad...
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AITA for my attitude towards birth control and requirements for having sex with my boyfriend? (slightly NSFW)
My boyfriend and I are relatively new to sex. We also just moved to an European country for university. It's been almost two months since. We had sex a couple of times here, unlike what I had planned. But we were in the mood and I was in high spirits. Everything was going fine until something happ...
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{ "description": "hanging out with a girl who \"stole\" from my best friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for hanging out with a girl who “stole” from my best friend
TL;DR best friend gets mad at me every time she sees I’m at this girls house she doesn’t like. She claims the girl stole from her when really the girl just didn’t pay her back. Aita for not seeing it the way my best friend does? Almost two years ago before my best friend (X) and I were even close, she was good friends...
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{ "description": "being upset that my BF is leaving me out from a trip to Amsterdam and Europe and wedding in Florida", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset that my BF is leaving me out from a trip to Amsterdam and Europe and wedding in Florida?
AITA or is he? Context: my bf's friend's mom is organizing a trip to Amsterdam for her sons friends because she lives there. She is paying for their flights and he is unsure of the boarding situation. When he was invited last year we talked about me going with him and paying my own way, flight, lodging, and food....
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{ "description": "not letting friends of my friends stay at my moms' place", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting friends of my friends stay at my moms' place?
Usual disclaimer, I'm on mobile so sorry about the formating and english not my first language. For a little background, in my hometown, there is a fairly famous four day festival that I go to every year with the same friend group from this town. But I study in a different city and have some friends there as well. One...
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{ "description": "asking someone to respect me", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking someone to respect me?
New to reddit and on mobile, I apologize. I had this friend in a grade lower than me. At first she was awesome and we understood each other and our problems. We were similar. Soon though, she started to morph into something I didn’t like. She would do the classic guilt trip whenever something didn’t go her way. Ex...
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{ "description": "reporting a fast food employee who continiously tried to short me on change", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if i reported a fast food employee who continiously tried to short me on change
Once a week I like to go to sonic and get a burger i always get the same thing the total comes out to 8.06 and i always pay with a 20 and change. The last 4 weeks ive worked there ive been waited on by someone new and all four times shes tried to either not hand me the 10 or hand me the 1s and a single 5 dollar bill. I...
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{ "description": "not wanting to visit my dad as long as he wants", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to visit my dad as long as he wants?
So my father lives across the US, and I have to visit every summer because of divorce policies or whatever the specifics are. I'm supposed to visit for ~3 weeks, because that gives time to visit him, do activites, and see extended family. Last year was my first summer visiting, and my brother came out with me, however ...
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{ "description": "closing a window on the bus", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for closing a window on the bus?
So I always take the bus to college and usually there's the same exact people on the bus. It was back in November that this happened but I keep remembering about it. That day was pretty chilly and I had a coat on, but still felt cold. I got on the bus and got out my laptop to do my usual studies on the one hour lon...
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{ "description": "not wanting to move closer to my fiance's parents after college", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to move closer to my fiance's parents after college
Backstory:Me and my Fiance have been dating since we first started college, we both came from 2 different sides of Ohio (state/province of USA) and met because she knew my roommate. We got engaged during the summer of 2k18. I study accounting and business at OSU and I have a paid internship where I have been saving mo...
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{ "description": "always correcting people about my name, regardless of the person or the setting", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for always correcting people about my name, regardless of the person or the setting?
I have a fairly common, multisyllabic first name that has A LOT of nicknames that can be made from it, and it’s common that people with this name preferred to be called by one of those nicknames, but I am vehemently not one of those people. I always introduce myself by the full length of this name. It’s important to m...
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{ "description": "taking my dad's \"side\" in the divorce even though he's the one that cheated on my mom", "pronormative_score": 73, "contranormative_score": 36 }
AITA for taking my dad's "side" in the divorce even though he's the one that cheated on my mom?
As per most reddit posts, this one has years of backstory but I'll do my damndest to keep under the character limit. My parents are both 35, I'm 18 (female, graduating with honors from HS in a little over a month). They obviously had me as teenagers, decided to stay together to very mixed results over the years. My dad...
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AITA Lady in the grocery store wanted my yogurt and I wouldn't share them
This isn't nearly as serious as a lot of the posts on here, but when chatting about it I have gotten some varied opinions. My husband agrees that I was in the right, but one friend in particular thinks I should have been more generous. Yesterday, I was at the grocery store to pick up a couple things. One of the most im...
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{ "description": "saying I could get a college apartment room with a friend and her friend, and then ditching", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for saying I could get a college apartment room with a friend and her friend, and then ditching?
So basically my friend and her friend who I don't really know want to get an apartment for a year for college. They asked me to join (I guess to keep the rent lower, I'm not really sure) and I agreed. They have been meeting and talking about the apartment a few times but I've never been asked to join. To be fair though...
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{ "description": "feeling irritated when my girlfriend got upset for no reason", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for feeling irritated when my girlfriend got upset for no reason?
It's been a long week. Monday and Wednesday I had two interviews, each 5 hours long. I still found time to spend the night at my girlfriend's place on Sunday night, and Valentine's night. Got home this morning, spent the day in university and decided to play some Apex Legends to unwind after a long week. I had a beer a...
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{ "description": "breaking things off with a girl, causing bad stuff for her", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I broke things off with a girl, causing bad stuff for her?
Real quick, we're both sophomores in college, same college, and been involved for a few months. TL;DR girl I'm involved with is kinda narrow-minded, depressing (possibly depressed but idk), and has a very defeatist attitude. She may or may not depend on me for happiness, if I break it off and she spirals, WIBTA? Now...
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{ "description": "matching with someone on a dating site just to talk to them", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I matched with someone on a dating site just to talk to them?
Mostly self explanatory, someone matched with me and they seem like they would be fun to talk to but I don't think they would be someone I'd be interested in dating. WIBTA if I matched with them just to talk with no intention of ever going on a date? If so I just won't match with them, if not I like talking to random p...
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{ "description": "slapping my grandpa", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for slapping my grandpa?
Some backstory: I was out all day after gift-opening and wasn’t able to get a bite to eat at all, not even breakfast because there’s no food in our house(all the groceries were bought today for the dinner). I got to dinner absolutely voracious and really wanting to eat something. It got to the point where I had to ask...
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{ "description": "wanting to leave a couple hours earlier from a Christmas party, to meet up with a girl I haven't seen for a long time", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to leave a couple hours earlier from a Christmas party, to meet up with a girl i haven't seen for a long time?
First of all, pardon any typos or weird phrases, as english is not my first language. A couple months ago my parents "asked" me if i would like to come to this semi-annual Christmas party that we use to go to. The party is hosted by some friends of the family, and they tend to bring their children which are between 1...
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{ "description": "asking a rise in my first day of work", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for asking a rise in my first day of work
It was 1 year ago. So I live in Israel. before I deployed, I finish High School (12th grade) and I had about half a year to work. At that time I finished all my finals two months ago. I asked around stores if they needed a graphic designer because I'm skilled at that. One store said yes and I went there. The wage is mi...
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{ "description": "possibly overreacting and reporting this to the police", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for possibly overreacting and reporting this to the police?
So this happened a couple of hours ago and I feel like I might have overreacted in the heat of the moment. I was home alone working on my computer and I thought I heard a knock so I listened more carefully. I heard another knock so I got up and as I was approaching the door I could see through the glass panel someone ...
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{ "description": "sleeping with my ex behind my FWB's back", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for sleeping with my ex behind my FWB's back?
This is going to be long and quite compicated, so please bear with me! My best friend (we'll call him Rick) is also my fuck buddy, or was. We've been sleeping together for a few months and everything has been fine, up until today when he set some new boundaries between us that basically outlawed all forms of affection...
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{ "description": "not wanting to sell my brother weed", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to sell my brother weed?
Ok obviously needs some explaining: I enjoy smoking marijuana (don’t worry its legal recreationally in my state). It helps with my anxiety, calms me down, and tbh I just like the feeling most times. I’m not exactly rolling in cash, so I just pick up from local people, never more than a half just get by for a few weeks....
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{ "description": "not showing up", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not showing up?
I’m still in high school, and our school require us to do community service to graduate. There was this opportunity to go and make beds for animals and get service hours for it. To me it sounded like a perfect opportunity to get credit while helping out animals (which I do love). So I sign the forum to go, and when we ...
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{ "description": "moving out without saying anything", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For moving out without saying anything
I’m 23 and still live with my parents. My parents yell at each other and fight all the time and since my car accident I’ve had to rely on my dad for rides again, and they’re sapping all of my money. So last night I decided that I’m moving out, staying with my boyfriend for a couple of weeks until I find an apartment. I...
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{ "description": "asking my friend for a controller for free", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I asked my friend for a controller for free?
Now I know this will be severely lighthearted in comparison to most of the posts here, but I need to make sure as I don't want to come off as an r/choosingbeggars \-worthy candidate. My friend and I are both sophomores in high school, and as his family was struggling with finances last year, I bought his lunch for a w...
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{ "description": "not wanting my obese friend to ride in my car", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my obese friend to ride in my car?
My friend, whom I've known for many years, has progressively gotten larger over the past few years. I have made a comment previously about his weight gain due to general worry, but I would say that it's been over a year since I've said anything else to him about it. My friend is around 6 foot 5 inches, and he's probabl...
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{ "description": "refusing to make my uncle anf uncle's girlfriend scarves", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
Wibta if i refuse to make my uncle anf uncle's girlfriend scarves?
I was reading the sub and saw someone ask something milsly similar and realized i should post this here. Backstory: My aunt and uncle have three kids and were together for 30 years until my uncle cheated on my aunt with an old girlfriend. This is a girlfriend my grandparents (his parents) hate because when they origi...
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{ "description": "telling my wife not to ask for my help if she won't listen", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my wife not to ask for my help if she won't listen.
To put a long story short, I moved to my wife's country a year ago. She works here and there but is in university. I work full time (from home, for reasons I won't get into but I'm fortunate to be able to support her in various aspects due to this). My wife also suffers from an often-debilitating mental illness, and re...
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AITA lost a good friend to personal issues [Long Post]
Statutory warning: Long post Background: - Been friends with this guy since my college days. - I graduated in 2016 while he had to finish his course in 2017 fall. - Been in touch with him all the time and considered him as my best friend. Current Situation: - He is looking for a job and he needed to get out of his ...
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{ "description": "inquiring about our towel", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Inquiring About Our Towel?
About a year ago when my BF and I moved in together, I brought an old beach towel from my family’s house to our new apartment. Fast forward to this weekend where we used it at the pool and I noticed there was a hole in it (big enough to fit a fist through). I was kind of curious about it since I don’t know how it could...
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{ "description": "expecting stay at home dad to do housework", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for expecting stay at home dad to do housework?
I work full time in a demanding job that requires me to be to work 50-60 hours per week, 10-20 of which can be from home. Husband and I have 3 year old son not in daycare (can't afford it, hence husband is stay at home dad). I do all housework (cooking, laundry, cleaning, etc.) Husband does some yardwork once a mont...
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