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{ "description": "catfishing someone I know to expose them as a potential pedophile", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for catfishing someone I know to expose them as a potential pedophile?
To start off, I am in high school and I know a person who is 19 years old who is known to go after young girls around the rage of 13 and 14 and recently he was trying to date a 14 year old girl who is the ex of one of my friends. And a friend asked him what does he find in a 14 year old girl that he likes and he said "...
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{ "description": "joking that our friend is racist", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For joking that our friend is racist?
A couple of years ago I became part of a preexisting friend group of around 10 mixed men and women, They'd all already been friends for years at this point, So they had multiple inside jokes already when I was first starting to get to know them. One of their inside jokes was that a particular friend, Lets call her Jane...
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AITA: Gift tearing family apart
Hey reddit, so last Christmas(2017), I (20M) received a really unexpected gift from my father. Which me and him don’t get along, and never really. The gift he gave me was the latest iPad. I was super appreciative towards the gesture and actually used it for a few months, But ever since I want to say March, I didn’t rea...
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{ "description": "hoping for more out of a FWB relationship, even though he's basically said no", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hoping for more out of a FWB relationship, even though he's basically said no?
Hey there, throwaway account for obvious reasons... ​ About a couple months ago, maybe 5 or 6, I met.. let's call him Vick? I met Vick online through a mutual friend, and he was funny, and charming, and we hit it off super well. Fast forward a couple weeks, we've been spending more time together talking, w...
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{ "description": "wanting to discuss the Youtube pedophilia stuff with my friends", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to discuss the Youtube pedophilia stuff with my friends?
Background: I don't know how many folks have seen it or heard about it, though I know the video is near the top if r/all but Ben Watson made a video about the rampant softcore pedophilia on YouTube. If you haven't seen it, it's fucking disgusting what is happening. Anyway, I saw the video yesterday evening. I usually...
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{ "description": "accusing my girlfriend of cheating", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For accusing my girlfriend of cheating?
So we have been dating for half a year, it has been rocky since she would break up with me for the slightest thing, only to come back to me within the hour. For example she didn't like my friend by the way he talks to girls, and since it says a lot about people by who they hang out with (I lived in a new country so did...
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{ "description": "refusing to do favours all the time", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for refusing to do favours all the time?
Ok, this might seem kinda insignificant but it drives me crazy. I'm 18 years old and throughout my entire life i've always been the person everyone comes to to ask for a favour, when i was little my siblings did it but even then i could understand why they would since i am the youngest and it seemed like a way to bothe...
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{ "description": "feeling a seller should have at least apologized", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA I felt a seller should have at least apologized
Hi, So this story is mostly done from email as the seller only put his email address as a point of contact on Craiglist. The seller will be S and I am Me. /Wednesday/ Seller posts on Craiglist that they are having a huge moving sale. On the listing I noticed it said a Nintendo Switch with 2 games for 200.00 dollars....
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{ "description": "getting angry at my dad for criticizing my parenting", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For getting angry at my dad for criticizing my parenting?
A bit of context, my dad is in his mid 60's so grew up in a very 'traditional' home. He had plenty of kids and i'm the youngest at 21, me and my partner, lets call her P decided to start our family at an early age and our perfect daughter was born in late October, we'll call her B. My dad currently has around 15 Grand...
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{ "description": "not wanting my niece to sleep in my bed", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting my niece to sleep in my bed?
Mobile, sorry for the formatting issues. I have a dollhouse bed, and it’s a bunk bed. I exclusively sleep on the bottom nowadays, and I got it when I was younger because I really wanted a dollhouse bed. I have a 4 yo niece who comes over just about every week. I do not really like children and I’m not the one who say...
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{ "description": "pointing out my co-worker's mistakes to our supervisor", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for pointing out my co-worker's mistakes to our supervisor?
I work in a field where we constantly deal with attorneys as well as sensitive information for our customers. Yesterday, it was brought to my attention that a co-worker of mine sent a letter in error to an attorney on a file that I was working on. The issue was easily correctable so I let the matter drop as the lette...
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{ "description": "planning to leave my job for a new one while promissing to stay", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for planning to leave my job for a new one while promissing to stay.
Hey guys, I'm 20 years old and work full time at a food delivery service on an extended 14 months contract. I'm planning to go back to college next year but am not earning nearly enough money to both study and pay my rent. And taking loans isn't an option due to family history. So I told my bosses I'd leave if they ...
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{ "description": "periodically ignoring a girl", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for periodically ignoring a girl?
So, before judging me out of hand, hear me out. I've known this girl for about a year and a half. It's been emotionally intense, with a lot of feelings going unresolved, and coming back, and it's just a general mess. Aside from this I suffer from some sort of depression, basically, I have periods when I'm really unpred...
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{ "description": "not getting my mom a birthday gift", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not getting my mom a birthday gift
I know how terrible it sounds but just read. I’m 15 years old and I don’t get money often, I can’t get a job because of my age so my funds are always limited. I get larger amounts of money twice a year, my birthday and Christmas. This is because my family doesn’t always know what to get me so they give me money to sp...
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{ "description": "turning in my ex girlfriend for plagiarism", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for turning in my ex girlfriend for plagiarism
Before Reading this post I know that academic dishonesty and plagiarism is the worst crime in the academic community. I was guilty for writing 2 History papers for her. I know that I’m not not innocent also. I take full responsibility of my actions. My ex and I have known each other for many years. She and I have been...
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{ "description": "talking about suicide to the girl who rejected me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for talking about suicide to the girl who rejected me?
This might be a quite long, complicated, uninterresting adolescent story. I just put a big part of it in brackets, you don't have to read it to get the point, but I feel like it's less abrupt with these optionnal bits. ​ About three years ago I told a girl I loved her, and was answered that she didn't love...
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{ "description": "dating preference", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA Dating preference.
I'm a white guy but white girls are the least attractive to me. I'm almost always going to go for a black girl or asian girl first. Honestly I cant think of many white girls I've been attracted to. Am I a jerk for being selective like this?.
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{ "description": "offering my partner a gift card in exchange for doing my portion of the project", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for offering my partner a gift card in exchange for doing my portion of the project?
I’m a [19] senior in college, my class has a giant project at the end of the year that’s worth nearly 50% of our grade. Luckily I was paired up with one of the best students in our class, I’ll refer to him as Sean. Sean transferred here on a basketball scholarship, but is still relatively lower class and took out huge ...
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{ "description": "eating Taco Bell", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for eating Taco Bell...
So serious dilemma. Tonight for New Years my boyfriend and I decided to celebrate at his sisters house. We agreed that he would drink and I wouldn’t so that I could drive us home. Well we left a little early cause his sister was getting tired and he got pretty wasted. On the way home he insisted that we got Taco Bell, ...
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{ "description": "sharing a bed with, and getting to second base with a girl I'm not planning on dating", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for sharing a bed with, and getting to second base with a girl I'm not planning on dating?
So a few days back me and a girl I know had a sleepover or whatever you call it. My parents were out of town, and she came over, we watched sports and went out for wings and whatever. We didn't have sex, but we shared a bed, sleeping together, holding hands and I did get to touch her breasts. More that she kind of put ...
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{ "description": "invading my friend's fitness safe space", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for invading my friend's fitness safe space?
I (26F) had shoulder surgery in December and have finally gotten the ok from my surgeon to resume normal activity. For the past three months I have not been allowed to run, use stationary bikes, ellipticals or lift more than 2-5 lbs. The recovery has been incredibly painful-- possibly the most painful thing I've ever h...
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{ "description": "saying, \"it's a ham sandwich, you never had it?\"", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA because I said, "it's a ham sandwich, you never had it?" (yes, my friend actually told on me.)
Okay, my friend which we will call for this story Timmy is a person who says "none of your business" to simple questions which annoys me, but this is still a surprise for me, anyway. Today I was eating my lunch in the cafeteria which was a ham sandwich with fried ham. Timmy says, "What's that?" I reply with, "It's a ...
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{ "description": "talking to my dad about a problem and someone over hears it", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for talking to my dad about a problem and someone over hears it
I'm an 18 year old who's going to college later this year, is trying to have good grades, make some money, and still try and have a social life. So I'm almost always stressed out, and lately have become (overly) emotional over things. I live with a lot of people and that includes my oldest brother, my Sister in Law (Si...
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AITA in my rooming situation?
I live in an apartment complex with four bedrooms per unit. Two shared bathrooms. Shared kitchen/living space. Last semester I only had two roommates, and while I wasn't fond of them, things were alright. Recently, the fourth room was filled, and it's started to fall apart. I lived in this apartment last year with frie...
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{ "description": "not really caring that mums in hospital... again", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not really caring that mums in hospital... again
Im glad she put herself there actually instead of waiting till she needed an ambulance like last time. Shes got liver disease (dont drink kids, screws you over later in life) after 20+ years of being a raging alcoholic. She thinks its only been 10 years (because thats any better) but when your 21 yr old daughters firs...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with my ex", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with my ex
My ex husband and I were married for 10 years and divorced about 4 years ago. We have a 9 year old that we co-parent. The issue is that he wants to friends and I don't. I'm always nice, exchange pleasantries but I don't get involved with his personal life, I don't ask because I don't care. When he asks about our kid, ...
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{ "description": "calling my stepfather 'daddy' instead of 'dad' to purposefully make him uncomfortable", "pronormative_score": 35, "contranormative_score": 58 }
AITA for calling my stepfather 'daddy' instead of 'dad' to purposefully make him uncomfortable?
I'm 16 and loathe my stepfather, he literally lays on the couch all day and mooches of my mother. At first we were content with pretending the other doesn't exist, we just interacted with my mother really. But then something clicked in his head and he wants to be an active part of my life and wants me to call him 'dad...
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AITA for the "insensitive" sticker I have on my gun?
I like guns, and I have a near obsession with history. Going to the shooting range is a hobby of mine and I go ever so often to shoot the more "historical" guns that I have. Due to my obsession with history, I too obsess over the history of my guns. One of these guns is a Mosin Nagant, the first "historical" gun I pu...
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{ "description": "asking for more money after an agreement has been reached", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for asking for more money after an agreement has been reached?
About 6 months ago, I was selling a camera lens on Facebook Marketplace. I initially listed it for $50, and no takers after a week. After lowering the price to $40, after several days, I had over 20 people reach out. The first guy who did seemed nice, and we agreed at $40. One of the people who reached out later offere...
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AITA? Girlfriend hates my best friend and I don't want to take sides.
I’ve been with my girlfriend for two and a half years. We are having problems, and most of those problems are beyond our control (not having enough time with each other due to the overwhelming complexities of life, and the stress that comes with that). My best friend I have known since high school, about 15+ years. Our...
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{ "description": "insulting my religious dad", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for insulting my religious Dad?
I (17m) recently had a big fight with Dad about him forcing his religion on the entire family. I have been atheist for almost 2 years now, but I kept it a secret because both my parents are very religious. It wasn't a problem until recently when I started working part time (also a HS student). Before I started working...
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{ "description": "wanting my girlfriend to be allowed to hang out in my dorm", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA- For wanting my girlfriend to be allowed to hang out in my dorm?
So my gf and I are in our second year of college. I’m a transfer student and she’s not so our dorms are different. Her room is a single 2 person bedroom with a shared bathroom. My dorm is more like an apartment, me and 3 other girls share a kitchen and living space and 2 bathrooms, but we each have our own bedrooms wit...
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{ "description": "getting blocked on social media after the third date", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting blocked on social media after the third date?
So I (F21) matched with this cute dude (M23) on a dating app and we kinda hit off. We spoke for a bit and decided to meet up, the first date was random but really cute. I found him quite good looking which is why I was quite fidgety throughout the date. He noticed but said he found it cute. At the end of the date, we j...
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{ "description": "being slow to be affectionate to wife after getting back together", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being slow to be affectionate to wife after getting back together
I will try to keep it short while getting the full story. Married about 9 years to only woman I ever loved. 3 years ago she complained that I was no longer affectionate to her and never was really romantic. I didn't desagree and tried to make improvements but we would get into a cycle of me being really affectionate fo...
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{ "description": "wanting enforced boundaries between my SO and Mother in law", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting enforced boundaries between my SO and Mother in law
Before I met my SO, him and his mother were extremely close to a very unhealthy extent. It was actual a cause of bad blood in his previous two relationships but I did not come to find that out until later. She would go with him everywhere, to run errands, to dinner, like every single day. He wouldn’t go almost anywhe...
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{ "description": "living my life following another ethnic culture", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I live my life following another ethnic culture?
I know the title sounds bad. But basically, I am Chinese American. I hate my culture. I have tried to give it many chances but I seriously just hate it. I was forced to live it as a kid despite hating it and I grew up loathing it so much. My parents forced me to do so much Chinese ethnic stuff that it completely turned...
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{ "description": "getting pissed at my ex gf for lying", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for getting pissed at my ex gf for lying
Now a little background. I dated this girl (who we’ll call M). Now M seemed like a cute girl at first, loved video games and anime (a big plus for me), and we shared a lot in common. Now we dated for a month, but damn it was passionate while it lasted...and then she broke up me...I was broken. Her reason? She said “I d...
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{ "description": "not attending a friend's wedding a couple years ago", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not attending a friend’s wedding a couple years ago?
Back in May of 2017 I had a friend who met someone and started dating them within a couple weeks. One month after that they got engaged. Their wedding was set for September. But the Bride to be, the “friend”, wanted it moved to the weekend of August 19. It took place in Boise, Idaho. She had invited me, but I had my ow...
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{ "description": "downvoting ads on Reddit", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for downvoting ads on Reddit?
I'm just curious. I know that everyone hates ads, but is it an asshole move to downvote ads on Reddit?
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{ "description": "hating the security guard's morning commentary on what day it is", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for hating the security guard's morning commentary on what day it is?
I started working in a new office building and have noticed a pretty annoying (to me) trend in morning banter with the daily security guard. I'll preface this by saying it is a relatively small/new office building, so there are not that many people in and out yet, and thus interaction is a 100% certainty every mornin...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my boyfriend for being too gentle during sex", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 33 }
AITA for getting mad at my boyfriend for being too gentle during sex? (nsfw)
I (21F) and my boyfriend (26M) have been dating for a few months and have been having sex regularly. We talked beforehand about our likes and dislikes, and I told him that I don’t like sex to feel too gentle or passionate and that it makes me uncomfortable. I know it’s strange but I was in an abusive relationship befor...
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{ "description": "selling something to a friend I got for free", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for selling something to a friend I got for free
Say I got a $500 item for free, after a year I wanted to get rid of it. Am I the asshole for offering it to my friends for $150 instead of selling it to a stranger for double that?
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{ "description": "telling my (sensitive) obese friend to lose weight and change his lifestyle", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 11 }
WIBTA if i told my (sensitive) obese friend to lose weight and change his lifestyle?
Hey everyone. My friend has been overeating and not exercising at all for years now. I really want to tell him to start exercising before his health conditions get worse, but he's very sensitive about the whole topic. Everytime someone raises the issue (privately, not in front of others), he acts like the victim and sa...
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{ "description": "secretly thinking this about my best friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA if I secretly think this about my best friend?
My life long friend who I spend lots of time with and value more than most of my family, I've recently been having reoccurring thoughts plaguing me about me and their interactions. First of all, I feel our beliefs or maturity don't line up as of recently. One of my favourite things about our friendship is that I can t...
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{ "description": "wanting to break up with my bf over a difference in sleep schedules", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to break up with my bf over a difference in sleep schedules?
My boyfriend \[21\] and I \[20\] have been together for nearly a year and a half, and I love him to pieces. We've always gotten along well with each other, but recently things have gotten rockier than usual. Throughout our entire relationship, he has had an issue with punctuality, often leading us to change plans or po...
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{ "description": "not wanting my boyfriend to hang out with girl thats clearly trying to sleep with him", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 5 }
Aita because I dont want my boyfriend to hang out with girl thats clearly trying to sleep with him.
Long story short, he admits he thinks shes trying to get with him and last night she spent the night. I begged him not to share a bed with him, but he ignored me and did it anyway. He admitted she asked him to hold her and he did and she wiggled against him and pressed her ass against him. And hes enjoying it. Were on...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend that she shouldn't get a boob job", "pronormative_score": 44, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend that she shouldn’t get a boob job.
My girlfriend is 20, I’m 23. We’ve been dating 3 years. She is absolutely gorgeous, very tall and skinny. She’s currently a 34B in terms of boob size and I think that’s just perfect. However she thinks they are too small. She has savings from work and wants to get silicone implants. She wants to be a 34C or D. I thin...
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{ "description": "thinking a friendship is unhealthy", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Thinking A Friendship is Unhealthy?
First, I am sorry for my English. Here is the short story, and there is a TL:DR at the end. I moved to a new country four years ago. The first two years were very hard - I worked sometimes three jobs at a time for low wages. During my second year I met my friend. He is am immigrant as well, but from a different countr...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my bf because he made a harmless joke about me wanting to eat out on my own", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting mad at my bf because he made a harmless joke about me wanting to eat out on my own
As the title says, my bf and I was at the post office sending out some packages for reddit secret Santa. I sent out my package about 10 minutes before while he picked up some last minute gifts and I waited to meet him at the post office. We were waiting in line when I mentioned that I was hungry and will probably dro...
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{ "description": "leaving the group of friends", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For leaving the group of friends
I am on my mobile, so formatting might be an issue. In my undergrad, I had this group of a dozen friends, where everyone was really close. Being a person who gets close to only few people, I was close to 3 out of those people. There is a girl, X who was in the group and was liked by a guy Y, not in the group. Y and I ...
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{ "description": "filing my taxes and getting my dad in trouble with the IRS", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for filing my taxes and getting my dad in trouble with the IRS
So a little background: my parents divorced when I was 13 and because my mom gets disability she was unable to file taxes and claim my sister and I.So my father would claim us and get the child tax and would give like a fraction of it to my mom. My dad hasn’t always been the best dad in ways of child support and suppor...
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{ "description": "telling my sister to stop crying during a movie", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For telling my sister to stop crying during a movie?
We're actually all adults so that makes this even sadder. Me, my sister, my mom, and my best friend (also my sisters boyfriend) sat down to watch a movie. We all like different things. My best friend likes blow em up action movies and/or fart comedy movies (dont ask), my mom likes rom coms and/or non supernatural thr...
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{ "description": "pranking my boss", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for pranking my boss?
I've (M-26) been working on a political campaign for nearly a year. It's pretty long days, maybe 18 hours a day and definitely 7 days a week. At some point our boss (M-28) became obsessed with the idea that we would at some point get recording devices planted on us in our office by the opposition. The boss talked about...
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{ "description": "being upset with my ex for bringing her new BF around my kids", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being upset with my ex for bringing her new BF around my kids?
So my wife and I have been separated for about a year and a half now. Everything has been very amicable. We have a good schedule with our two boys (ages 7 and 11), we hangout as a family usually once a week, and get along a lot better than when we were married. Things have been working out so well between us that we ha...
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{ "description": "arguing with the Moderator on \"r/\"sex SubReddit? am I just confused with what Mods are for", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA Arguing with the Moderator on "r/"sex SubReddit? Am I just confused with what Mods are for?
**Please Put It Back** \[–\]to [/r/sex](https://www.reddit.com/r/sex) sent 11 hours ago You can take a look at my comments in no way was I shaming sex, the OP was seeking help. [https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/ak1bwb/porn\_fetishes\_objectification\_and\_shame\_need\_help/?utm\_source=reddit-android](https://...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my boyfriend after he confessed he's bisexual", "pronormative_score": 96, "contranormative_score": 168 }
AITA for breaking up with my boyfriend after he confessed he’s bisexual?
So I dated my ex for around two years (26M/24F). Overall, he’s a great person and I hope that we can stay friends, despite what happened. Basically, a few weeks ago, we were having drinks at his apartment. He said there was something he wanted to tell me and he hoped I wouldn’t judge. I said okay (obviously nervous)...
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{ "description": "worrying about a classmate I barely know", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for worrying about a classmate I barely know?
Hey, so I was wondering whether I’m TA in this situation. I an a 27 year-old male graduate student, and there’s this one guy in one of my classes that I kinda worry about. He seems to be kinda out of it all the time, often comes in sniffling/coughing, talks *very* quietly (I only ever hear him because I usually sit by ...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my friend for defining me by my sexuality", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at my friend for defining me by my sexuality?
Context: I'm an openly Bi guy, in the sense that if someone asks I'll tell and I don't hide it, but I never actively bring it up and I never shove it in people's faces. **TL;DR: I feel that my friend is defining my entire personality and life by my sexuality, he constantly brings it up in unrelated conversations and u...
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{ "description": "thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend with cancer", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend with cancer?
I've been with him for around two years. Back then i was starting on meds for anxiety, i began dating guys and he was very charismatic and i fell for him just talking online, when we first met in person he asked me to be his boyfriend, and i said yes. Things went well, there were some traits of him that i disliked bu...
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{ "description": "kicking out a tenant that doesn't know his boundaries", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for kicking out a tenant that doesn't know his boundaries?
So basically a male tenant constantly hits on another female tenant. After telling him he gets once chance to correct himself he is now asking her to hook him up with one of her girl friends. She has plainly told him to leave her alone and that she doesn't like his attention. The female tenant has never complained be...
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{ "description": "not jumping in to support my so in her own \"aita\" thread", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not jumping in to support my SO in her own "aita" thread?
Yeah, they made one here, I obviously won't say which, but the situation didn't involve me. Anyway she asked me to go up vote it and make a nta comment. I said "lol nah..." cuz that's shady. She doesn't seem mad but we can never be sure, and I need to know if I should get ahead of this for my own physical safety. S...
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AITA - Told my co-worker a cheating joke.
I work for a fast food restaurant. It was my first month of the job so i don't know anyone or their relationships. My Manager Jay (not real name) is dating Mary (not real name) who are both my co-worker. I didn't know they were dating. One day i saw Jay at the mall with a girl buying red dead redemption 2 at EB Games a...
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{ "description": "keeping a secret from a long time friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for keeping a secret from a long time friend?
I have 2 friends, friend a and friend b. Friend a: known him for the best part of 10 years, pretty much grew up with him. Got some mad memories with him and a strong bond. His parents have split and his mam lives next door to friend b with new husband and family. Friend b: haven't known him as long, only around a ye...
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{ "description": "not taking my friend to the gym", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not taking my friend to the gym?
SO! First time post to AITA, and I'm a tad frustrated with a friend. The whole story was we agreed to go to the gym on Wednesday several days before. I had to pick them up. They have a car. It's supposedly not working well. My other friend is already at the gym, and takes the bus to get there himself. I make a text...
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{ "description": "telling someone that with the mentality they currently have grad school isn't for them", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA if I told someone that with the mentality they currently have grad school isn't for them?
I have a friend who graduated last year and is now a Masters student. He took a class this semester because he heard the professor was easy. Now he's asking me if the workload for another professor is less, and he's basing his class selection off of that. Grad classes (unless they're combined/stacked) are generally nev...
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{ "description": "getting mad at a girl because she would send me like \"conversation starter pictures on Snapchat?\"", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I got mad at a girl because she would send me like "conversation starter pictures on Snapchat?"
Basically, I was attracted to this girl (17m, 18f) a few months ago. She was really cute and funny. However it eventually felt like she would only snap me if she was feeling bored or needed an ego boost. Now I could totally be wrong here. Sometimes, whenever I called her pretty, she would say I was wrong. Humble I gues...
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{ "description": "ignoring my gf", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA (17m) for ignoring my gf (18f)
We usually end up In arguments when we talk on the phone for too long and I also needed to get started on my homework so I told her that we should hang up because we had both agreed if the conversation was going on for too long we should end it before we had an argument. Let's just say she was not happy and we got into...
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{ "description": "wanting to sleep with my brother in the same room? he is 17, I am 15", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting to sleep with my brother in the same room? he is 17, I am 15.
So, someone has been stalking me. Its a guy, days ago, he pretended to be my brother. He told one of my classmates to tell me that he is waiting for me. He told her my name, class and how I look. He lied about being my brother. He knows almost everything about me. I didn't go to his car, he also have the same car as my...
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{ "description": "not helping my brother out while he's going through a divorce", "pronormative_score": 175, "contranormative_score": 46 }
WIBTA if I don't help my brother out while he's going through a divorce?
My brother and I are the only family we have, I'm 26 and he's 29, and we were really close. I got married 7 years ago (yes at 19, I was stupid) to my first wife but that marriage fell apart quickly because we were never really in love, just liked each other and thought we might as well give it a shot. The divorce ...
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{ "description": "ignoring of my gf's calls", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ignoring of my gf’s calls
My girlfriend of three years call me a lot (like today she called me 14 times and I picked up 5 times) and then she wants to talk for couple hours to the pothe conversation would be over and she’d just be there doing stuff trying to get me to start another conversation like coughing, being loud, or saying gibberish ins...
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{ "description": "not listening to her about my health", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not listening to her about my health?
I think its pretty self explanatory from the title, but I don't care about my health all that much. I eat maybe once or twice a day and drink excessive amounts of soda/energy drinks, and when I can, alcohol. I know it's not the most healthy lifestyle by any stretch, but I do keep a healthy weight, and I do excercise al...
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{ "description": "helping other people with it issues", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA HELPING OTHER PEOPLE WITH IT ISSUES
Little backstory: I work in accounting with about 17 people. The age gap is pretty big. Majority are in their 50s and up and the rest in their 20s and early 30s. Now I absolutely hate when old people treat me and the younger ones like we're stupid but when it comes to computers I am the first one they come to. I have ...
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AITA? Ditched my little cousins to go play pond hockey with my buds.
Every new year me and my buds have a tradition to play a few games of pond hockey then get plastered at my friends place. We’ve been doing it for years now but the next day when I drove home my mom got mad at me because I missed out on a dinner she had planned with my aunts family. She kept telling me I broke my littl...
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AITA for cutting off all of my friends unintentionally
I have really low expectations for friends but they never seem to meet them. All I want in a friend is for someone to be caring enough to ask me how i'm doing every once in a while, stick up for me even if I'm not around, and ask me to hangout. Almost all the time in the one putting in the effort to talk to them, and h...
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AITA for telling my cousin her crappy job serving gelato is getting her nowhere?
So lately i been minding my own business so i haven’t really been paying much attention to outside fam. Anyways my cousin texts me saying shes looking for another job because she needs more money and less crappy hours (she works until midnight every shift)so i tell her that’s awesome my job is actually having a hiring ...
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AITA for selling overpriced Magic: the Gathering decks to a classmate so he won’t spend his money on drugs
My classmate has been snorting Adderall and smoking excessive amounts of weed and makes no attempt to hide it from anyone including teachers. He is really into Magic the Gathering and will buy any cards you show him. AITA for selling him overpriced decks so he won’t buy drugs?
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AITA for refusing to do a favor?
My coworker offered to babysit for Valentine's day, so I went and made dinner reservations for 8pm. When I told her it was for 8pm, she said no that's too late, why don't you reschedule to Friday? I said no thanks. She said well maybe you shouldn't be unimaginative by going out on Valentine's day. So at that point I to...
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{ "description": "breaking a long time friend ship", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking a long time friend ship
I was friends with this person for years ( been through lots of shit together). We lived together once before, but we fought a lot after I started seeing a guy. So I thought needed to grow up alittle more and moved back home. And helped her move back home as well. Fast forward, we moved back in together and all was fi...
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{ "description": "telling a student I could see her underwear", "pronormative_score": 64, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for telling a student I could see her underwear?
I'm a male high school teacher, and I've been at this for a few years. I generally have a pretty good rapport with my students. However, I ran into an issue a few weeks ago. One of my female upperclassmen was sitting in the front row wearing a skirt and at one point she put her feet up on the desk giving me an eyeful...
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{ "description": "practically cutting ties with my family who are in a cult", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for practically cutting ties with my family who are in a cult?
My parents joined a cult when I was 4, and I never felt particularly comfortable with the whole vibe of the group, even from a young age. They're fundamentalist christians, don't send their kids to public school, don't "believe" in modern medicine -- whatever that's supposed to mean, and go out of their way to isolate ...
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{ "description": "getting upset over my roommate's careless remark", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting upset over my roommate’s careless remark?
I am currently a college student working to get her Doctorate in Pharmacy. My dorm roommate has recently talked to me about her switching majors. She wants to go to from the medical pathway to the pharmacy pathway. When I asked her why, she says because she ‘feels like it’s less to handle.’ I don’t know if I’m suppos...
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{ "description": "avoiding my mams boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for avoiding my (26f) mams boyfriend?
I seriously can't figure out if it's me taking things to heart or whether he is as much of an asshole as I think he is. I'll try to make this as short as possible and I know how much of a ball ache large paragraphs of text are. So my mam and him got together two years ago (a month after his own wife died). I was a bi...
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{ "description": "saying that someone with severe anxiety should know their limits", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for saying that someone with severe anxiety should know their limits?
I have a friend who is in a graduate program and qualified for an all-expenses-paid semester abroad in a third world country. Friend has severe and debilitating anxiety even with medication. Friend went on the trip and could only handle about a week before coming home. Friend used up the budget for the opportunity so i...
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{ "description": "going to a basketball game", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for going to a basketball game?
So me and my boyfriend are both in college. I was supposed to go to his place last night. I told him I had an event with my roommates that started at 8 and would go on for at least an hour/ hour and a half. Then I would go straight to his. During the event we are continuously texting. It ends up going late, until about...
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{ "description": "not wiping down the gym equipment", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for not wiping down the gym equipment?
So, I know the title makes the answer seem obvious, but it’s something I’m actually struggling with. My gym, like most, has those oddly-small white towels available for members. When I first joined my gym (standard ok-and-cheap YMCA) I would always take two towels - one for sweat, and one for wiping down the equipmen...
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{ "description": "throwing my girlfriend under the bus to help someone else", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA for throwing my girlfriend under the bus to help someone else?
Alright, I'll provide some backstory for context: My girlfriend (let's call her Nina) and I have been dating for a few years. Nina is genuinely the most gentle, compassionate and kind person I've ever met. However, she's reluctant to face any sort of conflict and hates to 'rock the boat'. Nina's best friend (let's cal...
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{ "description": "refusing to spend time with my grandma", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I refuse to spend time with my grandma?
Backstory is required but I'll try to keep this short. I'm a sophomore in college. Freshman year I cut ties with my nana after getting tired of her negativity and what I and the rest of my family assume are mental health issues. We were really close when I was growing up but the older I got the more the things she did ...
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{ "description": "ripping my friends £10 note", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ripping my friends £10 note?
My friend and I are in most of the same classes and yesterday he said to me “Hey, if you can take this tenner of me, it is yours.” He was holding it with his 2 hands and he had a firm grip. I jokingly said “Well time for some money.” And I quickly snatched the £10 note of him. I am from the UK and our notes are make o...
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{ "description": "leaving a toxic friendship", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving a toxic friendship?
I'd like to give some background first. I'm almost 19 and at the time of this happening I was 17 while the friend in question was 18. It was an online friendship- she lived in Georgia and I lived in Connecticut so the difference wasn't as bad as some but it was still big. She was the only friend of my original friend g...
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{ "description": "making my brother clean up my mess alone", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For making my brother clean up my mess alone
Usual I'm on a mobile and formatting apology. On with the story. In my house we have a rule that if you cook you don't clean. Except my mum doesn't clean up. Usually me and my brother clean up together because my mum cooks however my mum had just got back from a trip to London which is about a 2 hour train ride each wa...
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{ "description": "basing my decision of in which language to address someone on their race/skin color", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I base my decision of in which language to address someone on their race/skin color?
Obviously, English is not my first language, otherwise I would not be having this problem. The town I'm studying in is predominantly white. However, there is a lot of international students at my university. To give you an idea: about 70% of the students in my masters program are international students. Since it's not ...
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{ "description": "not tipping before a delivery", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not tipping before a delivery
First time posting so I apologize if anything is wrong with it. Also on mobile so I apologize for any formatting issues. Anyway my boyfriend and I ordered lunch from one of the app based delivery services. And all was fine and dandy except they ask you to tip the driver before the order has even been placed. This was ...
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{ "description": "throwing a drink at my cousin", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for throwing a drink at my cousin?
Alright so I have an intense phobia or cockroaches. I grew up in Mexico and lived with them during my youth but once we moved to the states i basically stopped seeing them. Ever since I moved to the states and visited Mexico though I would have an intense repulsion to roaches, I was disgusted by them and afraid of even...
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{ "description": "wanting to see my ring first", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to see my ring first?
For an early Christmas gift my boyfriend is buying me a ring. I haven’t seen pictures of it because I want it to be a surprise. Our friends and family have seen pictures because he wanted to know if they think I’d like it. I’m totally fine with that, it’s a picture of the ring on a website. But he was ordering it tod...
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{ "description": "wanting my in-laws to be independent", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting my in-laws to be independent?
I'm an American married to a Filipina, we've been together for 5 years married for 2. We live in the United States. We met while teaching in Japan where we made approximately 25k USD/year which was enough to get by, but every month she would send money back to her family in the Philippines. Once we got serious and mo...
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{ "description": "going through my boyfriend's phone if I found something", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for going through my boyfriend’s phone if I found something?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for four months. He often brings up his ex-girlfriend in conversation and at strange times. It always makes me uneasy and suspicious that he still might have feelings for her or be actively talking to her (something that I did upfront ask him about, but was met with reassurance that ...
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{ "description": "upsetting my Ex and getting blocked", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for upsetting my Ex and getting blocked?
Alright, a quick summary of the events that led to this. I dated this girl for a year in total, but after our first month long break up about 8 consecutive months. We got in a few fights and eventually the week before Christmas her mother was diagnosed with Lymphoma. Due to the stress of that and our pre-existi...
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{ "description": "telling my friend I don't want to have Christmas Dinner in his distopian Pan-optical Nightmare House", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for Telling My Friend I Don't Want to Have Christmas Dinner in his Distopian Pan-optical Nightmare House?
TL;DR at the end, since I can ramble. **Background:** So I'm a bit of a loner. My family lives far away, most of my true friends live far away, and I generally am much more comfortable alone with my dog than with any other person. My family has learned to accept that I am not a reliable guest for holiday gather...
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{ "description": "getting cross about family members returning gifts", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting cross about family members returning gifts?
Brother is having first baby and as I have lots of stuff that we won't use I have given him some bits. I made sure that they were all clean and in really good condition. However after a couple of weeks he has messaged to say he doesn't want some of them and do I want them back? I feel quite hurt as we had some gifts, w...
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{ "description": "taking a job I knew I wouldn't finish, to receive some late payment", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking a job I knew I wouldn't finish, to receive some late payment
I'll try to tell the events as neutrally as possible , Early 2017 a company in my hometown hired me as a freelancer to do some web development, it was a small start-up and the guy paid me for all the work I've done for six months , so I somewhat trusted him. After about 8 months of work the dude calls me , said he ha...
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