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{ "description": "wanting my girlfriend to stop drinking in college", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for wanting my girlfriend to stop drinking in college?
Context: we're both freshmen, second semester At the start of the school year she went out a few times during orientation week with her friends and then was going out on the weekends. After probably a month or two of being really frustrated by this (I don't like the way she acts when she's drunk, but I'm not really co...
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{ "description": "not shopping around for car repairs when someone else is paying for it", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I didn’t shop around for car repairs when someone else is paying for it
I commute to Boston everyday, which has terrible traffic. On my drive home Friday, I was not moving and this guy bumped me going maybe 5 mph. We pulled over, and he was very apologetic and immediately said it was completely his fault and that he had lost focus. (I get it, traffic was awful) He was very friendly. I can’...
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{ "description": "complaining to my boss about getting more work than another employee", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for complaining to my boss about getting more work than another employee?
So I've (20F) been working in a small convenience store for about 4 months now. ​ After roughly a month, my boss taught me how to do inventory, which we do when there are no clients in the store (we don't get many people). As many of you know, inventory is not really fun to do. Especially in my convenienc...
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{ "description": "thinking my ex is seeing someone new too soon", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for thinking my ex is seeing someone new too soon?
So me and my ex-gf were together for about 3 years and 2 months. She is a couple of years younger than me, and also lived a very long distance away (we met gaming, of all things). She lives in the US while I'm in the UK. We realised that based on where we were in terms of our education and still living at home that it ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my boyfriend to get a dog", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for Not Wanting my Boyfriend to Get a Dog?
Throw away because friends are on Reddit, my boyfriend and I are writing this together, so please let us know which one ITA. We are curious and have a bet going on who pays for Valentine's Dinner based on what Reddit thinks. ​ We have been best friends for almost a year before we got together and had been ...
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{ "description": "refusing to work until I've been paid", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to work until I've been paid?
Today is the end of my fifth week of employment with a new employer. It is my second payday, yet I have not received even my first paycheck. They are bi-weekly morning direct deposits. So my second check is late as well. They have my direct deposit slip from my bank. Apparently lost it. Had me input my info online thr...
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{ "description": "cutting my atheist brother off", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 45 }
AITA for cutting my atheist brother off?
My brother and I have not always been extremely close, but we've managed a few good memories and some deep conversations over the years. That said, we've were raised in a very traditional Catholic home. Our mother would always force us (sister, brother, and I) inside a shitty cramped car every Sunday and we used to hat...
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{ "description": "vacuuming at 10:30 pm, living in an apartment", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I vacuumed at 10:30 PM, living in an apartment?
I don’t have roommates, I’m more just worried that you could hear it from neighboring apartments. I never hear my neighbors, but I’m not sure if this is because the walls aren’t thin, or if I’m just the asshole loud neighbor living near quiet people.
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{ "description": "not sharing my rather large (to me at least) inheritance with my aunt and 3 cousins", "pronormative_score": 2358, "contranormative_score": 57 }
WIBTA If I don't share my rather large (to me at least) inheritance with my aunt and 3 cousins?
Some background: My grandfather just passed away at the end of January. He was closing in on 90 and lived a very full life and died very peacefully in his home which is exactly where he wanted to be. This is where the story gets very sticky, my grandfather lived in a cheap tract house and was very frugal. His only ...
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{ "description": "not giving my Husband some of my birthday money", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not giving my Husband some of my birthday money?
My husband was given a giftcard at work for a Womens clothing store. He gave it to me for my Birthday. I couldn't find anything at this store that I liked so I sold the card to my mom for Cash that she sent me threw Venmo. My husband now thinks since I turned it into Cash I should give him some of it. He has a full t...
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{ "description": "not involving my parents/sister in my life", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not involving my parents/sister in my life
Background - I'm 26 just have a baby daughter and recently moved back to my home town after 8 years away. Throughout my teenage life I've played 2nd string to my (younger) sister. I never caused any real issues for my parents, other then the usual being a daft teenage kid stuff. I always got good grades and wanted to ...
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{ "description": "not accepting my brother's apology", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not accepting my brother's apology?
Backstory: My brother has a history of anger issues and random outbursts, hurting others in the process. Our relationship has always been strained because he hurts me emotionally and physically. Every once in a while he goes off the rails and flips out on me, forcing me to lock myself in a room while he tries to get in...
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{ "description": "asking my gf to tell me what happened to her money before I lend her any", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for asking my GF to tell me what happened to her money before I lend her any?
A little background info: I maker roughly twice as much as my GF does in terms of take home pay. As a result I decided to pay a reasonable amount of her expenses - including 25% of her rent (I have a separate apartment which I pay for but we spend most of our time at her apartment) , her monthly phone bill, and ALL of...
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{ "description": "pissing off r/lgbt. I'm legitimately just trying to be a better ally", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA: I pissed off r/LGBT. I'm legitimately just trying to be a better ally.
https://www.reddit.com/r/lgbt/comments/9taruh/twcan_someone_help_me_understand_trans_please_im Now I've been blocked from posting in LGBT and when I responded to the block, I was responded with a message stating I've been muted from messaging the admins.
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{ "description": "wanting a parking pass back from my carpool", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting a parking pass back from my carpool?
For background i have been carpooling with this one girl for all of high school so far, we are both juniors. At the beginning of this year my mother purchased a parking pass from my godmother so the girl in my carpool could park in the neighborhood right next to the school. Now that i have my license we don’t carpool t...
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{ "description": "having an argument on reddit", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for having an argument on reddit?
The title is very simple, but the story is not. Today, i was browsing r/pics when i found a specific one. It was a shot of a sign in a bar that read "If your date seems strange or is not who he told you he was, order a cinderella shot" Comments were riddled with different opinions, some asking where the sign was, othe...
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{ "description": "being annoyed I didn't get a bday present from my best friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being annoyed I didn't get a bday present from my best friend?
Okay, context. I'm the kind of person that loves giving gifts. I've never been flushed for cash, so they're not expensive gifts, but I really enjoy putting a lot of thought and effort into what gifts I give people because that's how I show someone how well I know them and how much I care about them. For example, since ...
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{ "description": "being less than kind to an older woman who constantly shows up too early", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being less than kind to an older woman who constantly shows up too early?
There is a woman in our church who has gone through a lot in her life (divorced, breast cancer, mother passed away). She is retired, in her late 50's, and has little to no friends. As a result, her schedule is completely open and she fills it by participating in pretty much any activity with an open invite. She's been ...
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{ "description": "ignoring my ill great-grandma", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ignoring my ill great-grandma?
Here’s what I did: I’ve been ignoring my gg’s calls for over two years. I blocked her number. My estranged aunt is now calling and messaging me, asking me to come visit gg because she is losing her memory and asks about me all the time. Here’s why I’m doing it: For this to make sense, you need to know a few things. My...
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{ "description": "not wanting to share my things with housemate", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to share my things with housemate?
Like shampoo or washing liquid or groceries. He just kinda uses my stuff. He also shares food with me etc, but I don't think that's a reason to just use other people's things. Am I being a butthole? If not, how do I even tell him nicely to just not use my things? We just started living together, I don't know him much, ...
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{ "description": "getting upset over this scheduling issue at my (old) job", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset over this scheduling issue at my (old) job
I worked part time at a hair salon as a receptionist. There were a few other receptionists but only 1 worked at the same time. Since we’re all in school our shifts would usually be 3-8. Now this doesn’t seem like an issue, but when I would be doing something after school from 3-4, I would not be able to work at all tha...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go for my best friend's surprise party", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to go for my best friend's surprise party
So a few friends are throwing a surprise party for one of my best friends for her birthday next weekend. We've all been friends for about four years, but I find most of them to be super toxic and they make fun of my mental health issues. I've been keeping my distance from all of them but we're all still pretty civil an...
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{ "description": "not wanting my girlfriend to wear a revealing bikini", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to wear a revealing bikini
I’m living on a beach town in Central America and my girlfriend is planning on visiting me soon. She was showing me some of the new bikinis she got/wanted to get and some of them showed off quite a lot of her ass. I got a little uncomfortable with the idea of her wearing a very revealing bikini around. I didn’t say any...
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{ "description": "not liking my friend because she is immature", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not liking my friend because she is immature?
So I have this friend, we don’t even talk that much but we are still friends. Anyways a couple of years ago we were best friends but then we got split to different classes and just drifted apart. Over the past 2 years I have matured quite a bit but she is still pretty childish. Of course usually I wouldn’t care but in ...
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{ "description": "getting punched in the face for talking about nazis", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting punched in the face for talking about nazis
This incident has been SEARED into my memory and i finally want society's opinion once and for all on what happened that day. I'm going to lay this one out with important details as simply and objectively from my POV as possible here. Important facts: Me: 24/male/Asian-Caucasian hapa, from Asia. Pagan/animist. Le...
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{ "description": "helping my sister get her cat back", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for helping my sister get her cat back?
A bit of background: My sister is a veterinarian, married to another veterinarian, and they have many animals. One of their animals is a cat (who I'll just call Kitty), who was and still is an outdoor cat. At one point, my sister was living in America in an apartment in which she couldn't let Kitty out, so he ended up...
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{ "description": "asking my neighbor to control their dog's barking habits", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I asked my neighbor to control their dog’s barking habits?
to be quite honest, I’m not 100% sure at which house the barking dog lives - but it is roughly a few houses down from my own. This would not be a big deal if the dog barked every so often - it’s what dogs do. But, the neighbors (N) have the dog out quite often and the dog barks... constantly. We’re talking about maybe ...
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{ "description": "leaving an f guild for being hostile toward me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving an FF14 guild for being hostile toward me?
So, me and a couple of my friends were busy chatting it up with some other people in this FF14 guild. It turned hostile when one of the higher-ups in the guild decided to make one of my friends the enemy for choosing to leave the guild and join another. They made her apologize and explain herself, and even forced her t...
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{ "description": "asking my husband (and indirectly) his guests to give me alone time tomorrow", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I asked my husband (and indirectly) his guests to give me alone time tomorrow?
My husband didn’t tell me we were having guests until one day before they got here. I guess he didn’t know if they were actually coming since his one friend has said he’s coming to visit a few times over the years and never actually has. It’s his friend, his 5 year old, and one of his other old friends. I’m very introv...
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{ "description": "resenting my father for what (might be) a trivial issue", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for resenting my father for what (might be) a trivial issue?
I’m not sure if it’s even big enough to consider an issue, but oh well. Might ramble a bit, so I apologise in advance if it seems super disorganised to you guys. For context, I’m a Chinese. I live in Singapore, where it’s compulsory to learn at least two languages (English and your mother tongue), unless under special...
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{ "description": "saying asshole when a guy killed himself", "pronormative_score": 38, "contranormative_score": 22 }
AITA for saying asshole when a guy killed himself?
This happend a few months ago. It was a busy friday at work, coworker was supposed to start 30 min ago, which is unusual since she is always on time. So i called her and she explained that her train was delayed, because a guy jumped in front of it, and might take a while. My immediate reaction was:"What an asshole." A...
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{ "description": "asking a minor why she carried a juul to school", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking a minor why she carried a juul to school?
so i am in this group chat and this girl was complaining about being suspended and having a court date. we asked why this happened. G: girl M: me G: yeah this girl was asking my friend for her chem homework and i beat her up and they searched me and found my juul so now i have a court date and i’m suspended M: well ...
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{ "description": "saying doing something illegal was stupid", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for saying doing something illegal was stupid
So my friend did something illegal with drugs back in December. I remembered this and said it was a stupid choice for them to try that. For context on my relation to this person we're kind of friends in the same group. She's the smartest in the group btw. Also she wasn't there but she knew how I felt about this choice....
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{ "description": "getting upset that my boyfriend hides his phone from me when we sit together because he has pictures of naked exes \"that they sent and he took\"", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA (27F) for getting upset that my boyfriend (32M) hides his phone from me when we sit together because he has pictures of naked exes “that they sent and he took”?
Last night we were sitting in bed and I noticed that he put his hand up when he was scrolling through old photos. I asked why he was doing that and he very blatantly told me that he had a bunch of naked photos of exes and hookups. I told him that was gross and I felt disrespected. He told me he doesn’t look at them. I ...
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{ "description": "using my roommate's rice and Tupperware to help my friend who got her phone wet", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for using my roommate’s rice and Tupperware to help my friend who got her phone wet?
Last night my friend Sarah stayed over since the roads were too bad for her to go home. Her phone ended up getting some water in it, and my roommate was the only one who had rice and a plastic container to fit the phone. It was late and my roommate was already asleep, so I just put Sarah’s phone into the rice before we...
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{ "description": "returning a gift from a coworker", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for returning a gift from a coworker?
I’ve worked in a small office for about 5 years. A few of us are pretty tight knit both in and out of the office, including texting, buying breakfast or lunch, drinks after work, etc. There’s one coworker, Jay, who we try to include but he has a lot of issues. He’s miserable to be around most of the time; and that’...
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{ "description": "taking my kids on a 'family' vacation without my husband", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA if I take my kids on a 'family' vacation without my husband?
So this is a throwaway because my husband is on Reddit. Short story- I am thinking about going on a big vacation with my kids this summer without my husband.... Back Story: I am a teacher with summers off. My husband is an ER tech- working 3 days a week- 12 hour shifts. He has been working NIGHT shift. With our four k...
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{ "description": "being depressed", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being depressed?
AITA Okay so long story short, I find out the best friend I've ever had has passed away 3 days ago. His family decided not to prolong the funeral and have it as soon as possible... I put in for leave and get denied due to staff shortages... I guess some context to this is my wife and I have a daughter whose been teet...
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{ "description": "looking on tinder for guys when I have a thing with a girl", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for looking on tinder for guys when I have a thing with a girl?
Backstory: This girl (21) and I (22m) had an old fling about a year and half ago for a couple weeks. We would hook up frequently, and we connected well. I started to develop feelings, and she liked me but wanted to be single so we went separate ways until we recently reconnected on tinder. We had sex a few times an...
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{ "description": "having relations with my ex", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for having relations with my ex?
My ex and I dated for roughly 4 months and broke up around six months ago as we were each going to university, myself being seven hours from home and her being around one and a half. She made it very clear to me that she was in love with me and I undoubtedly believe her, as her and I were closer for much longer than th...
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{ "description": "wanting gas money", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting gas money?
Long story short my good friend for the past 6 years got arrested 10 times in a span of two years. Turned to drugs then knocked a girl up that he was hooking up with. He refused to wear condoms. Anyways he was in jail for a year after being clean for awhile and then guess what turned back to drugs.. I even got him a jo...
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{ "description": "disowning my Forster parents because they were forcing the idea of having kids to me and my wife", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For disowning my Forster parents because they were forcing the idea of having kids to me and my wife?
A little backstory- I was born in Canada and raised there until I was about 3. I was then put up for adoption because my parents couldn’t afford me and my brother, so when they moved to the US for work they put me up. I got adopted when I was 4 by a low middle class family. So now I’m 25 and have been married happi...
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{ "description": "asking a guy to clean up after himself in a public restroom", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking a guy to clean up after himself in a public restroom?
After placing our order at a coffee shop, my girlfriend said she needed to pee. So, she went to use the restroom while I waited for our order. We were about to take a long drive, so I decided that I should use the restroom after her. Before our order was finished, a guy wearing sunglasses (which I thought was odd beca...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go on my friends cruise wedding", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to go on my friends cruise wedding?
Hi Reddit, so one of my best friends is getting married soon. Instead of having a wedding at a typical venue, they're having it on a 7 day cruise to have both their honeymoon and wedding at the same time. ​ They're doing this presumably to save money and while I understand that, I find it very selfish beca...
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{ "description": "telling a missionary to fuck off", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for telling a missionary to fuck off?
I was walking with a friend in the NYC subway system and had to pass through a corridor to transfer trains. A person was standing in the middle of the hallway with a headset/PA system, preaching about Jesus and handing out pamphlets. She looked at me and tried to give me a pamphlet. I said "fuck off" under my breath as...
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{ "description": "not giving up my bus seat", "pronormative_score": 48, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not giving up my bus seat?
This was a couple months ago but it's been on my mind on and off since then. I used to take the bus daily to get to work. Not a big deal, I'd just mind my own business, sit wherever there is the least amount of people. But every thursday was awful. Every single thursday at the stop after i get on, a giant crowd of w...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend it's her choice on how to deal with guys hitting on her", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend it's her choice on how to deal with guys hitting on her?
A little backstory: She is kind of controlling when it comes to me talking to other girls and gets easily jealous. So we have been together for like 8 months now and currently for a few days I'm out of town when this happened. So she calls me up and tells me how this guy had hit on her and she instead of telling him o...
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{ "description": "being upset about this? now my friend who agreed to go on a trip but couldn't give the money till a few months in is wanting to increase my rent.... I moved in with her and help her pay her rent. she is increasing the rent by 100 dollars a month because of this", "pronormative_score": 4, "contra...
AITA for being upset about this? Now my friend who agreed to go on a trip but couldn’t give the money till a few months in is wanting to increase my rent.... I moved in with her and help her pay her rent. She is increasing the rent by 100 dollars a month because of this.
My friend Olivia paid for me and my friend Judy’s trip were all taking together. I paid Olivia back ASAP and then Olivia asked me if I could pay for Judy’s trip cause she knows I have a decent savings account... she said Judy could pay me back later. The trip is 1500 dollars. I’m kind of pissed. Judy shouldn’t have gon...
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{ "description": "asking my friend gas money", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my friend gas money
My friend and I go to the same college but I drive my own car and she usually goes by bus to gets to school. After school she usually (2-3 times a week) asks me for rides home and I'm fine with that since I can just drop her on the way home (we live close as well). Now its been over a month of me giving her rides and o...
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{ "description": "not wanting to attend a relative's 98th birthday party", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to attend a relative's 98th birthday party?
I feel like the title alone will make people say yes. But here goes. My grandfather wants me (and my father and uncle) to travel with him out of state for his mother's (my great-grandmother's) 98th birthday. None of us want to attend, though I don't know their specific reasons. But for me: 1) My grandfather is a damn...
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{ "description": "getting in a fight with my dad", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: For getting in a fight with my dad.
The other night at about 11pm, my dad started banging on my bedroom door. I am 18 and my girlfriend (21) lives with me. He was pretty drunk, and I would go as far to call him a functioning alcoholic. He also has OCD and ADHD, as do I. He had just gotten off of the phone with his ex-wife (we could hear him yelling throu...
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{ "description": "refusing to pay my house sitter for not cleaning the cat's litter box", "pronormative_score": 90, "contranormative_score": 34 }
AITA for refusing to pay my house sitter for not cleaning the cat’s litter box?
We went away on a family trip for 7.5 weeks. We hired a work associate’s 23-year old daughter to house sit for us. Her only real responsibilities were to get the 1) mail, 2) feed the cat twice per day, and 3) scoop the litter box at least once per day and wash it out at least once per week. This was explained to her w...
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{ "description": "shrugging when my ex/roommate complained to me about her druggie boyfriend's issues", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for shrugging when my ex/roommate complained to me about her druggie boyfriend's issues?
The the backstory is as so. We had been broken up for some time, and it was pretty mutual, but due to our financial situations we stayed roommates. She goes through boyfriends probably monthly, which is important because her type tends to be the type you don't normally even associate with, let a lone date. Then after ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to move overseas with my so", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to move overseas with my SO
Hey guys, Let me start by saying that this has not caused any conflict whatsoever so far and this is purely so I can see if I'm being a bit if an asshole here. I'm also on mobile so please forgive any formatting issues or spelling errors. My SO and I have been together for coming onto 3 years. We both love each other...
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{ "description": "not wanting to room with one of my friends at college", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to room with one of my friends at college
So here's the rundown. I'm currents in the midst of my first year at college, and I live in a suite style room. So for reference this is a shared common space with a bunch of other room which can be either single or double. So I'm pretty good friends with 5 of my 6 suite-mates, and we all want to live together next yea...
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{ "description": "not wanting my brother to move into my spare room", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my brother to move into my spare room?
My younger brother is almost 28 years old, we'll call him LB for Little Brother. He's currently going through a divorce with his manipulative and emotionally abusive wife. She's blackmailing him into giving her more child support than he should, and manipulating their custody agreement. It's a mess. ​ He's...
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{ "description": "removing all of the pictures in our house", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for removing all of the pictures in our house?
Of course, there is more too it than that. ​ I am an amateur photographer and take and mount lots of photos that I we use in the home as art pieces. Most are landscapes, some are family photos. I got my wife a number of pictures framed for Christmas. In addition, we had probably 7-10 other framed prints s...
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{ "description": "liking someone who likes me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for liking someone who likes me?
Ok so i’m a teenage male, freshman year of highschool. i recently broke up with my girlfriend and am ready to get back out there my best friend talks to like 30 girls a day, and is pissed at me for taking to one of them. meanwhile he brags all the time about talking to a sophomore am i the asshole for pursuing the gi...
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{ "description": "not hugging my ex - (who started and is dating my then-close friend 2 wks after we broke up) - when she came up to me at a small party", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not hugging my ex - (who started and is dating my then-close friend 2 wks after we broke up) - when she came up to me at a small party?
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{ "description": "changing my phone's passcode just so my gf wouldn't be able to get on it", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for changing my phone's passcode just so my gf wouldn't be able to get on it?
I don't usually post or anything, so I'm sorry if this is wonky. Just looking for insight from some people other than my mom. So my gf and I are both juniors in highschool. We've been together around 2.5 years now. She's extremely insecure and kinda untrusting of me. I've never known why, she's never been willing to ta...
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{ "description": "telling my bridesmaid to cover her tattoo", "pronormative_score": 97, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I told my bridesmaid to cover her tattoo?
Throw away account for certain reasons. But here we go. I'm getting married this year, and my fiance and I are super excited. I got all the big ticket items paid for and ready to go, and all my girls have their dresses and will look phenomenal in them. Everything was going great until my one bridesmaid posted a pic...
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{ "description": "getting mad when my friend doesn't answer my messages", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for getting mad when my friend doesn't answer my messages?
So my friend and I used to hang out after school online, playing games and stuff. School started and she doesn't respond, this carries on I ask and she says she forgot. I say no problem and I remind her after school before we leave. She doesn't respond. Repeat that for a couple of days and I start to blow up her phone....
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{ "description": "wanting to tell the boss my co-worker is doing meth on the job", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to tell the boss my co-worker is doing meth on the job?
So I recently found out my co-worker is doing meth on the job. I guess let me give you guys some backstory. I am a 25-year old first year electrical apprentice and really enjoy what I do. I love physical work, buying new tools, and most of all fulfilling customer’s electrical needs. Doing good work and learning as much...
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{ "description": "loving my cat more", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for loving my cat more?
Had dogs all my life. When I moved to my own house with SO 5y ago, we’ve adopted two dogs. I love them both with all my heart, they are my family, my best friends. But I’ve always wanted a cat, so last December I took home Betty, a black kitty. I now realize that I’ve been living a lie all my life. I believed I was a d...
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{ "description": "wanting my husband to drop his \"best friend\"", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting my husband to drop his “Best Friend”?
I’m going to try condensing this as much as possible, but there is 13 years of bs from this neck beard. These two have been friends since they were maybe 15? 1) Best friend (BF from here on out) told husband (H) I wasn’t allowed to come over to their apartment when we were dating and they were room mates. He would get...
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{ "description": "not allowing my fiancé's brother's dog to visit our house anymore", "pronormative_score": 65, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not allowing my fiancé’s brother’s dog to visit our house anymore?
This is from the perspective of my fiancé, as she wishes to know if she’s being unreasonable, and I want all that sweet, sweet karma. Context: My fiancé, Bestbuds200, has a twin brother with whom he is very close. That brother and his girlfriend recently got a dog that is still a puppy. It used to be easy to arrange v...
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{ "description": "calling my girlfriend out", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA For calling my girlfriend out?
My girlfriend and I have been going through a rough time ever since we moved in together in July, I have decided to end things with her because I just can't take this suffocating feeling anymore, I can never feel relaxed in my own home and feel like I am constantly walking in a mine field with her cause I never know wh...
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{ "description": "knitting when I watch movies or tv shows? my bf thinks so", "pronormative_score": 169, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for knitting when I watch movies or TV shows? My bf thinks so.
We sat down to watch a movie and I pulled out my knitting. About twenty minutes into the movie, my boyfriend paused it and asked me to stop. I asked him if it was too noisy, and said I could switch to a different kind of needle so it wouldn't click. He said no, but said it was rude to knit when we are supposed to be w...
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{ "description": "thinking a guy that followed me out of a store to ask if I was single was creepy", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for thinking a guy that followed me out of a store to ask if I was single was creepy?
I work in an outdoor plaza and went to a coffee shop on my lunch break I ate played on my phone for 40 minutes, grabbed a coffee and left to walk back to my job. This guy saw me leave packed up his laptop he was on when i left (he was sitting by the entrance) and followed me out. He got my attention right in front of ...
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{ "description": "asking if she was hiding something from me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking if she was hiding something from me?
A little backround: I[25] was seeing this girl[22] about two years ago, we werent in a relationship per se, but things were getting kind of serious, from my part anyway, then she started acting wierd and i found out she was sleeping with someone else at the same time. I was crushed. Started seeing her about 4 months a...
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{ "description": "losing it when my partner created a fake identity to lead me on", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for losing it when my partner created a fake identity to lead me on?
So I’m in the middle of a long distance relationship. We’ve been together for two and a half years, and things were going pretty well. For April fool’s, I didn’t think of playing a prank only because we’re so far away, I wouldn’t even enjoy it. She had another idea. She got in touch with my best friend here, asked hi...
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{ "description": "not accommodating my friends for a potential group vacation", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not accommodating my friends for a potential group vacation
This has been fucking with my head for the past few days now I don't know what to do about it... ​ So about a year ago, my GF and I went to Japan and had a great time. It was amazing, but exhausting as hell trying to cram everything wonderful about that place in 2 weeks so we decided our next vacation woul...
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{ "description": "asking my bf outright if his family is racist", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I ask my bf outright if his family is racist?
I’ve been dating my bf for about 5 months. I’ve met his family. When we went over there I saw on his father’s truck that the back window thing is a confederate flag. We live in NY. I asked my boyfriend about it when we were alone and he said his father believes that states should just have more control over ho...
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AITA: My ex found out the grass isn't greener.
My wife and I separated after being together for 8 years (4 of then married). We are still very good friends as we managed to end things amicably. We started dating in high school. I attempted to break things off when I left for the Army, but she said she wanted to try to make things work long distance. Things seemed...
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{ "description": "complaining about my mother to my gf", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for complaining about my mother to my gf?
So, context: all my life I've had short hair (almost no hair) and I recently decided to let it grow freely, which my mother hates. She says I basically look like a hobo and that it is extremely ugly. We argue about it all the time but I cant convince her to even take into consideration the fact that everyone else outsi...
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{ "description": "hating it when people whisper", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for hating it when people whisper?
One of my [14F] absolute pet peeves is when people whisper in each others' ears while in a group setting. I've always found it extremely rude; if I have something to say, I'll say it for everyone to hear, but if it's personal, I'll discuss it with the involved party privately. Additionally, I was the victim of exclusio...
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{ "description": "taking my neighbor's free gift from a cable company", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
Wibta if I take my neighbor’s free gift from a cable company? (Light hearted)
The house next to mine is almost 100% abandoned, they left two and a half months ago leaving their garbage can overflowing on the street. That was in winter and the heavy winter winds blew the can over and the garbage collectors passed it by, unable to use the trucks arm to pick up the tipped can. After a few weeks I w...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be around my transphobic grandmother", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to be around my transphobic grandmother?
So I'm trans ftm, I just turned 18 and I come out when I was 13, so it's fair to say it's been a while. My parents are pretty good about it now, they use the right name and pronouns and stuff, but my maternal grandmother, whom I used to see several times a month, refuses. Whenever I try to talk to her about it she basi...
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{ "description": "thinking of leaving my dad and family", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for thinking of leaving my dad and family?
So there’s a lot to this and I thank anyone about to read about my situation. Okay so some basic background, I’m almost 30 years old and haven’t lived in my own for about ten years. I don’t live at home with my family or anything.. My dad and I have been almost homeless for about 5-6 years. My dad is in his late 60’...
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{ "description": "asking her not to bring her kids on our dates", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I ask her not to bring her kids on our dates?
I’ve been seeing a woman for around three months now give or take. We both have children from previous relationships. Things have been going really well. The last two dates however she brought her young children with her. One was at a restaurant and one was at my house. I understand that she wants to see if I m...
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{ "description": "not going to Africa with my family", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not going to Africa with my family?
Using a throwaway. I’m on mobile, sorry for formatting. This happened in December, but it’s been weighing on me. Looking back, I feel like I was TA and am prepared to accept my judgement. So every other year, my family, my cousins’ family, and my grandmother go on a trip to a foreign country during winter vacation....
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{ "description": "refusing to donate my hair to support my stepdaughter", "pronormative_score": 59, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for refusing to donate my hair to support my stepdaughter.
Some background: Me and my husband have been married for 12 years but we both have kids from our previous marriages. My daughter was 6 and his daughter was 3 when we got married. I've practically raised her and I love her like my own daughter. Her mother passed away. The issue: Now, my stepdaughter was diagnosed with ...
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{ "description": "getting mad at what my boyfriend says and does with other girls", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at what my boyfriend says and does with other girls?
I'm gonna spare the heavy details here because I dont want any bias. We have been dating almost 2 years now and are both in the final years of highschool. I went on a week long ski trip with my family in the beginning of March. It's the first trip we've had in a long time where me and my siblings all got together aga...
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{ "description": "getting mad at Friend with benefits ditching me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at Friend with benefits ditching me?
Sorry if there are any mistakes, english is not my first language, its my first time posting here, so bare with me. So to make a really long story short, I met this guy in college a couple of years ago, we hit it off right away. He was fun, nice, funny and we ended up becoming really good friends, we "dated" for a bit...
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{ "description": "wanting my friend to pay for gas and parking", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Wanting My Friend to Pay for Gas and Parking?
My friend and I went out last night to meet our usual friends. I usually pick him up and drop him off whenever we go anywhere because his car is broken. I dont mind it, he lives close by anyway. Not once have I asked him to pay for gas or pay for anything of mine. This time I asked for gas money because I was borrowing...
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{ "description": "cutting off contact with my best friend of four years because she was rude and is a bad listener", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off contact with my best friend of four years because she was rude and is a bad listener?
Chrissy was my best friend for four years, we hung out all the time and were roommates for two years. I felt like I put a lot into our friendship, not because I expected the same back, but because I genuinely wanted her to be happy and enjoyed doing so. ​ An example was her on-and-off emotionally abusive b...
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AITA or is my dad a shitty parent?
I hardly ever spend time with my dad anymore. In fact I don't tell him anything about my life whatsoever, and when I'm home I try to mind my own business as much as possible. This is because I believe that he has one of the worst personalities that a parent can have. If you were to go to my father for advice, he would ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to restrict my job search to very close radius", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to restrict my job search to very close radius?
I, 27M, live with my girlfriend, 22F. Last year, in august, I was involved in a pretty serious traffic collision. It resulted in me breaking my pelvis several places, crushing parts of the bone too. I went from hospital to rehabilitation center, and then to a wheelchair, and then I stood up. It has been rather miraculo...
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{ "description": "being mad at my bf because he's right", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AItA for being mad at my bf because he's right?
TL;DR at the bottom. ​ So my boyfriend has always had this sixth sense for people. Their motivations, their personality, their truths, and lies. If I'm ever unsure about someone, I just let my boyfriend talk to them for a bit. His intuition about people is on point. Normally, this is a good thing. Sometime...
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{ "description": "wanting some physical affection", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for wanting some physical affection
I (f) am in a long distance relationship with another girl. I'm on the west coast (USA) and she's on the east coast (USA). I love her more than I have ever loved anyone else. We're still in the honeymoon stage 6 months into our relationship. Recently I've been talking with guy friend of mine who goes to my school. He'...
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{ "description": "using a 'girly' word", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for using a 'girly' word?
throwaway for obvious reasons. This evening I was discussing with my boyfriend about possibly coming up for a concert, this concert/event would last until literally 11pm. I live about an hour and a half or so drives away, and across a border, but I told him I would be more than willing to not only make the drive up th...
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{ "description": "wanting to set a time limit on how long my roommate's girlfriend stays over", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to set a time limit on how long my roommate's girlfriend stays over?
As of today, my roommate's girlfriend has been staying at our place for two weeks. That's two weeks straight - with no trips home to her place. She eats here, sleeps here, showers here, does her laundry here, works remotely on her laptop here, and leaves her dog here 24/7. I've always operated under the idea that an...
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AITA for plannjng to cut ties with my ex
So my (m21) girlfriend (f20) and I dated for a few months last year. I was new to the city and I hosted a house warming party and met her through a mutual friend (we both have the same friend group) who brought her to the party. We got together that night and started dating about a month later. The relationship was rat...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my brother", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting mad at my brother?
My brother and I have been fans of a video game series for over 10 years, and when a new game in the series was released, we promised to play it together, so that one of us wasn't waiting for the other to finish it. After a week of conflicting work schedules, we agreed to play it on Wednesday, as he had off, and I wou...
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{ "description": "playing loud death metal to teach my obnoxious neighbor a lesson", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA If i play loud death metal to teach my obnoxious neighbor a lesson?
AITA if I play some loud death metal to show my neighbor its fucking obnoxious to play loud music in the middle of the day? I just want to take a nap and all i can hear is their club music. We live in separate houses and they sit in their back yard hot tub playing music all goddamn day. The person in question is a y...
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{ "description": "eating food during a five hour greyhound bus trip", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA If I ate food during a five hour greyhound bus trip?
I got off work and asked the kitchen to make me a pasta but didn’t get a chance to eat it there so I packed it to go. WIBTA if I pulled out my very garlicky pasta with sausage and chicken and tomatoes? Or do people usually eat on bus trips? I don’t see anyone else pulling out food.
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{ "description": "getting angry at my ex", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting angry at my ex?
Sorry for formating and for My English. I broke up with my ex some time Ago, though we are Still friends and talk from time to time. Also we care for eachother a lot and we talk to eachother about our problems so she knows that i've been depressed latley, i've simply had a lot on my mind. Today she sent me a Snapchat ...
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{ "description": "getting upset that my bf wiped boogers on something in my car", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset that my bf wiped boogers on something in my car
I have been driving my bf of almost 3 years to work for the past week or so, it gives us some time to hangout and it helps my sleeping pattern as we wake up early. This morning he asked for a tissue, unfortunately I had none in my car. He then decided to pick his nose and wipe all boogers he could find on an empty juic...
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{ "description": "not tipping on to go orders", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not tipping on to go orders?
I feel like I always get a grin from the servers when I get takeout and I don’t tip. What do you guys think?
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{ "description": "being mad at my girlfriend for letting her abusive mom be her on Facebook", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being mad at my girlfriend for letting her abusive mom be her on Facebook?
My (24M) gf (22F) have been dating for 7 months now. She's a sweetheart and I absolutely love this girl. One major problem is her mom. It's a long story but in short she doesn't work, doesn't drive, and makes my gf do everything for her. Gf's mom had a house foreclosed on her and my GF took a mortgage in her name. T...
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