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{ "description": "no longer making dinner for my family", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for no longer making dinner for my family?
Hey reddit. I'm an 18 yr old male, I'm currently out of school and have a basically full-time job (7 hours). Before this, I was still out of school (I graduated early) but with no job. During this time my role in the family was to help my mother watch the infant (only an hour or so a day), clean up around the house, an...
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{ "description": "cancelling plans when my friends try to bring extra dogs", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for cancelling plans when my friends try to bring extra dogs?
I live with my partner in a smallish townhouse, and we have two dogs of our own. ​ We're friends with a couple who also have two dogs, both of which suck. One pees at random while inside (anxiety I guess?), and the other is unpredictable--I don't feel comfortable petting the dog because he's growled and sn...
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AITA my friend got a "payback"
AITA Please tell me if this doesn't fit in to the catagory and i wil delete it Okay so a little bit of back story i have known this girl for 4 months and she became my best friend and we tell each other everything. So a few days ago my friend and i where talking and she says to me hey i need to find her ex. I ask her...
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{ "description": "calling out an angry driver with my gf in the passenger seat", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for calling out an angry driver with my gf in the passenger seat?
I was driving home with my gf as a passenger in a busy college campus and there were many pedestrians. I was at a stop sign and pedestrians just kept crossing so I just waited. I can see in my rear view mirror that the car behind me was furious that I did not assert myself more as he raised his hand and was screaming. ...
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{ "description": "making an insurance claim", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for making an insurance claim
It's actually been over a month that this happened and this situation still lingers on my mind. This happened at my workplace parking lot. Anywho, I was at work and another employee who works there forgot to engage their e-brake to their car. Their car was parked up a small hill right in front of mine and over the cour...
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{ "description": "hooking up with a girl my friend had hooked up up with and told me about it", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for hooking up with a girl my friend had hooked up up with and told me about it?
My friend invited me to a house party with his housemates and about 50 other people. I had met most of his housemates in the past and one of them I kind of instantly felt a connection with her. She would laugh at my dumb jokes find excuses to touch me etc. So early on at the party, my friend and I are having a chat, ...
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AITA My ignored niece.
Recently my brothers daughter has been trying to get in contact with me. Having completely removed the memory of her from a previous relationship, he has moved on with his life and is now living the life of a recluse. A bit of back story for him: Moving from job to job and with a serious anxiety problem, my brother ha...
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AITA Mom Tried to Guilt Trip Me During Divorce With Dad.
My parents are currently getting divorced. Won't say the reason to what triggered it, but let's just say it's been many years coming & it's of no surprise to my siblings & I. Even though my parents have been married legally for 40 years, emotionally they've been separated & distant since I was around 15...
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{ "description": "bothering my roommates with my smoking", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA For bothering my roommates with my smoking?
My 3 roommates are 14 14 16 years old. We are males(if this matter) (I am 18). They listen music, often very loudly. I will graduate in this year, and I am very tired thanks to the cutted weekends. Three weeks ago while I am sleeping, they came in with their rap music and spoke loudly. I woke up and told them that I...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with people who constantly cancels plans", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with people who constantly cancels plans
Mobile,formatting etc etc... I was good friends with two of my colleagues at my previous job. We all hated our jobs and were constantly miserable and exhausted from working too hard for little reward. So I finally quit and got a new job, leaving those 2 friends behind. Since then I have attempted to make plans on n...
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{ "description": "telling a girl from tinder I don't want to go on a date anymore because of her lazy eye", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA if I tell a girl from tinder I don't want to go on a date anymore because of her lazy eye?
On closer inspection of this girl's social media accounts, who I have been talking to on Tinder and (in hindsight accidentally) organised a date with tomorrow night; I have discovered she has a lazy eye. I have been trying to gently back out but she has become suspicious of my behaviour. She wants to know what is "real...
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{ "description": "wanting to listen to the tape of Jamal Khashoggi's death", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to listen to the tape of Jamal Khashoggi's death?
So, I am not one of those gore fanatics, but I do like listening to true crime podcasts (LPOTL, TCG, MFM, etc.) and think that this audio would be, I am sorry to say 'interesting' but it would be filled with details or clues as to why this occurred and who can be held responsible. With respect to his ex-wife, and mothe...
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{ "description": "fucking losing it with my dad", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA Fucking losing it with my dad?
Hello boyos. So I won’t go into mega context about my dad but we don’t have a good relationship. He used to make c9mments about my weight when I was young and I hold it against him, etc. Anyway, he still makes jokes about me being fat to this day, (my BMI is normal so it’s not him trying to discourage obesity or what...
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{ "description": "not contributing as much", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not contributing as much?
This semester I took an upper level engineering class where 2/3 of the grade is based on 5 group homework assignments. We had a peer review after each one that was given directly to the professor that he said would be used to adjust our grades at the end of the semester. There were a couple of people in our group who a...
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{ "description": "thinking badly of a person who hid info", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking badly of a person who hid info?
Some back information; I knew this person for years, fed him and even let him stay at my house on occasion. Not that I feel he "owes" me. "Steve" works at the local pizza place. So recently my wife's sister moved in with us. She your basic "fuck up" (dui's, drugs, alcoholic). She used to work full time at a job she l...
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{ "description": "sneezing at my preferred volume even though it annoys my wife", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for sneezing at my preferred volume even though it annoys my wife?
To me, sneezes have always felt amazing. When in public, I'll usually try to stifle my sneeze, but sometimes this just results in a weird snorting sound and snot coming out. In private, I've never held back, and I notice a tangible difference in quality. Keep in mind I'm always hygienic about this sort of stuff (sneezi...
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{ "description": "getting my neighbour evicted", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For getting my neighbour evicted?
So, a few years ago i was hosting a party at my dad's house. (i was about 13 at the time) Nothing loud, just a quiet party of me and 3 other friends. So we got pizza and were out in my backyard, playing with my friends hoverboard and jumping on the trampoline, when my "neighbour" showed up. He lived illegally in the b...
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{ "description": "talking to my low income friend about being stressed about buying a house", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for talking to my low income friend about being stressed about buying a house?
As a little bit of backstory, I've known my friend "Liz" since we were four, instant best friends, spent our childhoods together, stayed close through college despite the distance, etc. My family was always a little more well off than hers, but it never caused any tension between us. We've talked about financial stuff ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend after finding out she has depression", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend after finding out she has depression?
I've been dating this girl for 5 months, and last month, we decided to to make it official. However, she only revealed to me that she has depression last week. One thing you have to know about me is that I'm a 22-year-old guy who can't handle negative emotions very well. She knew about this even before we started dati...
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{ "description": "yelling at my colleagues", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for yelling at my colleagues?
I’m so sorry for the long long post, I shortened as best I could! Tl;dr: AITA for having a fight with coworkers and raising my voice first after they didn’t do work I needed urgently? So I am currently managing a big project at work. For this project i have been told by boss and CEO to get any support I need, incl...
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{ "description": "requesting my husband stop blowing in/on dairy products", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for requesting my husband stop blowing in/on dairy products
My husband likes to drink milk and put cream in his coffee. Every time he goes to pour the milk or cream he always blows hard on the rim of the container. He says he does this because the little chunks of milk and cream that dry on the edge sometimes flake off and fall into his glass of milk/cereal/coffee. This is ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to a \"friend's\" wedding after she hasn't attempted to make any contact with me for months", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not wanting to go to a "friend's" wedding after she hasn't attempted to make any contact with me for months
We use to be roommates in college. Our first semester of our first year we were awesome friends having lots of fun. Even in highschool we were very close! The second semester, we began drifting apart. I would try to talk to her and she kinda talked down to me and made me feel like crap. When she wouldn't talk down to m...
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{ "description": "wanting to be paid back and stopping my friend from getting tattoos and going on a trip", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to be paid back and stopping my friend from getting tattoos and going on a trip?
Without going into too much detail I lent a friend of mine some money to help them out when they moved to my city when I got them a job. My friend at first was very open about paying me back and said whenever they got their first full paycheck they would pay me back. Well that full paycheck came and went and first it w...
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{ "description": "walking down a flight of stairs to avoid a disabled homeless man", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for walking down a flight of stairs to avoid a disabled homeless man?
Ok let me put this into context. Up until recently (9 days!) I was a pretty heavy smoker. My country would have to have the most brutal taxes on cigarettes, they are f*cking expensive. A few weeks ago I was outside a convenience store having a powerpuff when I noticed a disheveled, middle aged man in a wheelchair. He...
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{ "description": "reporting what I thought was the truth", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for reporting what I thought was the truth?
A best friend of mine in school, we'll call him John, punched a peer of mine (Mike) in the stomach after Mike hit John in the neck twice and elbowed John's girlfriend. I witnessed this. My friend, who we'll call Tim, also witnessed this, and told me lies that John picked up Mike by the hair and punched him in the stoma...
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{ "description": "not staying with my cousin cuz he smells", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not staying with my cousin cuz he smells
Sooo, my cousin is a cool guy, and I really like playing soccer, basketball etc with him, but the problem is, he's really lazy and rarely takes showers, brushes his teeth once a week, and stuff like that, he's not depressed or anything, he was just always lazy, but when he was a kid his mother would make him take showe...
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{ "description": "telling my best friend I don't like the way she's planning to raise her child", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for telling my best friend I don't like the way she's planning to raise her child?
This is written on mobile, so apologies for bad format. I've been best friends with this girl, let's call her K, for about 5 years now. We're really close. Ever since I met her she's always been the "mom" of any group. She wants to have plenty of kids in her lifetime, and now at the age of 19, she is currently pregnan...
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{ "description": "sending the pizza driver back for my drink", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for sending the pizza driver back for my drink?
So, this will be extremely short since it's all pretty straightforward. I ordered pizza. It was an hour late (that does not include the 30 mins I give them to prepare/cook pizza) I had to call up the place five times before I got an answer - funnily enough as soon as I said I had been waiting an hour, they knew what...
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{ "description": "saying \"girl handwriting!\" and passing the group project paper to the girl in our group", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 26 }
AITA for saying "girl handwriting!" and passing the group project paper to the girl in our group?
We were a group of four students age between 20 and 25 and had to do a small project for work. we had to write some bulletpoints and got a big sheet of paper for that. I passed the paper to the only girl in our group and said that the hand writing of a girl is usually better. The lecturer perceived it as sexism and to...
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{ "description": "wanting my girlfriend keep a baby that she wants to abort", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for wanting my girlfriend keep a baby that she wants to abort?
This is a throwaway account for obvious reasons but I really am not sure what to do or whether I am being really unreasonable. I have just finished University and got a job in my chosen career, my girlfriend is still studying yet she has a job at the side. We live together and we have been together 4 years, everythin...
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{ "description": "getting mad when my best friend trys to buy me stuff, even though I tell him not to", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad when my best friend trys to buy me stuff, even though i tell him not to?
Sorry for the short post (on mobile my the way). To establish this conpletely, I have **always** hated when people buy me things. I never liked that people work for money and decide to spend it on me when I don't deserve it, even when they are trying to be nice. My best friend has a tendency to go against the fact th...
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{ "description": "constantly bringing up the fact my mom tried to choke me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for constantly bringing up the fact my mom tried to choke me?
My mom tried to choke me last May, in my grandparents house. I don't remember the exact reason, probably because I was disrespecting her or was on my electronics too much. Regardless, I don't think that there's any reason to choke your own son, unless they're trying to choke you. Here's some messages I sent to friends ...
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AITA or rather AWTA - We told our friend that his GF is no longer invited to hangouts.
We're a group of friends that have known each other since grade school. Our friend "Paul" has been with his GF "Ella" for 2 years going on 3. We met her after they had been seeing each other for 1 month and have known her since. Paul took us aside early on and told us she suffers from severe anxiety and depression. &a...
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AITA lost my virginity to a married man
So, I (mtf 31) had been a virgin up until a few hours ago I was a virgin, out of desperation I chose to hook up with a random guy on grindr. Not the romantic way I wanted too but I don't have much choice. We decided to meet up at his place, "while I can still host." Which should have been the first clue but I didn't ...
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{ "description": "lying about how I met my so", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for lying about how I met my SO?
I've been dating my boyfriend for a couple of months now. We met through a dating app. In my town, that's not the norm and people are very sceptical about online dating. That's why I told friends and family that we met in a park. Technically it's true because that's where we had our first date. Only my boyfriend (obvio...
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{ "description": "backing out of doing my mum's eye makeup for a wedding this weekend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for backing out of doing my mum's eye makeup for a wedding this weekend?
The question probably makes me sound like a dick. And it probably sounds trivial. Basically, my mum (60F) doesn't have much of an interest in makeup. She wears it every day, but doesn't care to do anything interesting with eye makeup or anything. I (31F) have quite an interest in makeup, am often complimented o...
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AITA in how I manage my money?
I’ll preface with I’m just learning about good money management, being debt free, saving, and investing. Im kind of an all in or nothing type of person and I have really high expectations for meeting my goals. Recently I’ve started budgeting and I’m aiming to save at least 20% of my income. Most times I feel stressed a...
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{ "description": "getting mad that my mom told my grandmother that I go to therapy, even though I specifically told her not to tell anyone", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I got mad that my mom told my grandmother that I go to therapy, even though I specifically told her not to tell anyone?
I’m 17 and I recently started going to therapy for depression. My mom is involved in my mental breakdowns and tries to help me. I know she has a lot of stress, but every bit of drama that surrounds our family must be my grandmother’s business. Every time I tell her not to say anything to anyone, she will falsely prom...
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{ "description": "kicking foreign people out of my house for not speaking english", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For kicking foreign people out of my house for not speaking english?
This happened a few years ago but for whatever reason just popped into my head today. So I get a knock on the door and it is a couple of Indonesian people trying to sell me LED lights or something. I just remember being vaguely interested and let them into the front room of the house. After speaking to them and rea...
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{ "description": "not wanting to live at my mom's house", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not wanting to live at my mom's house?
I(m-14) have been living with my mom for about the past 7 years (coming up on 8) and given the short opportunity to live with my dad. (This coming from a bed bug outbreak where I had to relocate.) I usually live with my mom on the weekdays and go to my dad's on the weekend. However, over the past couple of months or ...
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{ "description": "hating everything about these people even though I know nothing about them", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For hating everything about these people even though I know nothing about them?
Because the misleading titles recently in this sub I believe are getting really out of hand. I swear to God I don't even try anymore trying to read the stories because I know the title is the text version of click bait. I think there should be rules against this. While obviously it's "technically" true, I think the wor...
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{ "description": "wanting my long distance girlfriend to do most of the driving", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting my long distance girlfriend to do most of the driving.
I (24) have a full time job am a new homeowner and live about 1.5 hours from my girlfriend (23). I also attend university for 12 credit hours per semester. She recently graduated and is currently living with her dog and parents while job hunting. We got into a fight because I want her to spend the 3 hours on the road a...
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{ "description": "asking my recently laid off roommate to help keep our apartment clean", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for asking my recently laid off roommate to help keep our apartment clean?
My roommate and I have lived together for over two years at this point. During this time, we've both been fairly messy as we've gone through various stuff in life, and are mid-twenties dudes. We've lived with other awful roommates, and have always gotten along great. At this point, it's just us and one other guy who we...
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{ "description": "telling my parents not to smoke in the house", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my parents not to smoke in the house?
Hey everyone, using a throwaway acc for this because anxiety but Basically the story is as follows: Both of my parents have smoked my entire life. They didn't used to be too bad about it, they only smoked in our garage or outside for years (although they would smoke with me in the car, leading to me not being able to...
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{ "description": "lying to my dad about loving him", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for lying to my dad about loving him(over telling him)?
*tldr at end. Throwaway acct bc I just don't want this on my main.* ​ Title sounds bad, but basically I(16F) don't love my dad. Let's start with background on that. My mom and dad met, mom got pregnant with my sister, they married. Had my other sister and me. Somewhere along that time my dad got addicted ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to re-connect with my formerly abusive older brother", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to re-connect with my formerly abusive older brother?
I’m 20M and my older brother is 24. From when we were quite young (I was just starting grade school around this time) until he went to basic training, my OB constantly bullied, threatened, and harnessed my twin brother and I seemingly without provocation. When I was younger, I was grossly overweight and had a huge lac...
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{ "description": "being angry at my friend for not playing a game seriously", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being angry at my friend for not playing a game seriously?
For reference, the game in question is League of Legends, and we usually play as a premade 5 and we use voice comms. I play at a low plat elo but as a premade we average around mid-high gold. So basically I have a group of friends that I play with, and because of contrasting personalities there has been some conflict....
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{ "description": "asking my co-worker to leave when she's not clocked in", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my co-worker to leave when she's not clocked in?
I (28F) work as a home health aide and I work a 12 hour shift from 5am-5pm taking care of a disabled woman. My co-worker (42F) works overnight and sleeps at work. The problem I have is, she'll stay until 10:00, 12:00. Once leaving at 3:00pm. That's when I decided to have an uncomfortable conversation making her aware...
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{ "description": "stealing a cab from a couple with a baby at the airport", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For stealing a cab from a couple with a baby at the airport?
Whole family is visiting me in Germany and they arrive at 7am, everyone is annoyed. We want to catch a cab to the city center but we're a family of 6 so we need one of those big van things. I walk out to the street and see a bunch of other people waiting for cabs, among them a couple with their baby and a bunch of othe...
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{ "description": "not going to future Brother-In-Law's wedding because I have my son", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA-Not going to future Brother-In-Law's wedding because I have my son.
My fiance's brother is getting married in September. They decided to not allow kids at anything. The wedding is 3-5 hrs from everyone except the bride's parents. My fiance's sister has 3 kids, expressed she was upset, and brother made an exception for her kids. I have a 3 year old son with another woman, and we are i...
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{ "description": "refusing to meet up with someone I've been talking to for weeks", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I refuse to meet up with someone i've been talking to for weeks?
I went on a swiping frenzy on tinder and matched with someone who I thought was kind of cute but wasn't interested in. He messaged me on tinder and I didn't respond, so he ended up adding me on Instagram (had it in my tinder bio) and sending me a DM through there. When he messaged me, I told him I was interested in s...
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{ "description": "leading on my younger roommate", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for leading on my younger roommate?
This happened a while ago already, but it’s been on my mind recently. Buckle in for a long read, or **TL;DR** at the bottom. In university, last year I had a roommate who turned out to be bi. We’ll call him Z— at the time, 20M. As a closeted gay, it was cool to have someone I— at the time, 23M— could relate to and pos...
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{ "description": "not wanting to spend time with my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to spend time with my boyfriend?
So. I'm depressed. Not severely, but to the extent that it comes in the way of my social interactions often. When I'm having an episode, I either get irritatingly snappy or overwhelmingly apathetic and asocial. I'm fully aware of how uncomfortable it makes people feel but am also unable to really control what is happen...
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{ "description": "travelling with my boyfriend even though my parents said no", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I travel with my boyfriend even though my parents said no?
Oh GOD ok I have no idea what kind of reaction I’m going to get. Sorry about the formatting, I’m on mobile. And sorry if it’s super long, I have some pent up frustration! So here is some background: I am a 19F Asian-American college student. My family is Indian. My parents immigrated to America shortly before I was bo...
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{ "description": "telling a girl she stinks", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for telling a girl she stinks?
This was over a decade ago but it's something that occasionally crosses my mind. Freshman year, a group consisting of me (15M) and five others of an academic club were hanging out. One girl, Robin, was complaining about how this group of popular girls always seemed to ignore her and didn't want to talk to her. She was...
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{ "description": "not quitting cannabis", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not quitting cannabis?
So my ex-friend and I were in a band together. All of the members have been great friends for a long time. This particular friend (we'll call him Richard) though had OCD and EVERYTHING about weed freaked him out. If he smelled weed it would get him panic attacks and was actually a problem for us when playing shows but ...
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{ "description": "getting upset with my wife for making another man, who happens to be gay, a plate at Thanksgiving", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for getting upset with my wife for making another man, who happens to be gay, a plate at Thanksgiving?
This past Thanksgiving we went to visit her family. Once we arrive at her family's house, the food is ready and we all make our own plates and sit down and eat dinner. I don't expect my wife to make my plate, because she tends to put way too much food on my plate and I feel bad when I throw away the food that I can't...
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{ "description": "not wanting our dog to wake us up multiple times in the middle of the night every night", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting our dog to wake us up multiple times in the middle of the night every night?
One of our dogs is a small elderly dog that my wife has had for a very long time. Recently, our dog started to cry and some times bark in the middle of the night when she wants to come on our bed and my wife picks her up every time, reinforcing this behavior. Our dog also to jump down 3 - 4 times a night to go potty o...
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{ "description": "not wanting to take my kid to after school meeting", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for not wanting to take my kid to after school meeting?
this is my first post. figured i'd save it for a legit question. my kid, middle school age, wants to go on a trip next summer sponsored by his school. the trip is very costly and i cannot afford it and i disagree with blindly paying for it without any responsibility from the kid. his mother (my ex wife) agreed to f...
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{ "description": "accidentally cheating on my ex and lying about it", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for accidentally cheating on my ex and lying about it?
I know it sounds bad, please read the whole thing. About six months ago a new coworker, Mike, asked me out on a date. I was upfront with him in saying that I wasn't looking to have a potentially serious or monogamous relationship. At the time, I had 2 FWBs and was exploring my sexuality. Mike told me he would ONLY wan...
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{ "description": "telling my best friend that her and her friend are obnoxious together", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my best friend that her and her friend are obnoxious together?
For a bit of backstory: So, I have this best friend who I've known since grade 8 (im currently in 10th grade),and she has her best friend who she hangs out with a lot. They both enjoy singing a lot and are generally happy people. The main story: I was invited by my best friend to go to Dollarama after school with her a...
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{ "description": "not wanting to meet my biological siblings", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to meet my biological siblings?
I’m adopted. My biological mother keeps producing children and not feeding them, so they’re taken away. As they all age (there are 8 thus far) they try to find me because I’m their oldest brother. I’ve meet (via facebook) three and they’re EXHAUSTING. one asked me to adopt him (15 yo) the day we meet which I cannot do,...
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{ "description": "not moving my rv", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not moving my RV?
Hello, moral judges. Today I had an odd dilemma that I hope can be cleared up by the opinions of the masses. A little backstory to begin... My husband and I are traveling full-time in our RV, exploring North America. We have been doing so for a year. Our camper is not the biggest RV but it’s a bigger rig than your aver...
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{ "description": "losing trust in my friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for losing trust in my friend?
Let me give you the context before I continue. My significant other and I are on a break, and she moved away. The friend helped her move, and in doing so, fell for the city. He got an opportunity to move out there as well, and so he moved in with her. To help with rent costs, and to keep each other company. My recent p...
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AITA Posted a comment of a friend on my story, blurred out her name. She got angry.
She wrote a long comment about finding friendship. Which I relate to a lot since I lost my best friend recently and I feel like it was something connecting me to it. I posted it on my story stating that it’s how I feel most of the time and blurred out her name because I know a lot of people didn’t like their accounts s...
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{ "description": "accidentally being blunt about not wanting to sleep with someone", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for accidentally being blunt about not wanting to sleep with someone?
A few things you need to know: I’m a college freshman, he’s a high school senior. We’ve been good friends for the past 3 years. I am also incredibly oblivious to people’s feelings about me. This happened this past weekend. I was visiting my old high school (it’s a boarding school, so it’s not weird for alumni to come...
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{ "description": "defending myself at work", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for defending myself at work?
I work at a pretty big box retail store when I was hired on it was to be the sporting goods associate. So my duties would be managing the ammo/knife counter, doing hunting/fishing licenses and sticking that area. But about two months after I was hired the hardware associate that works the same shift as me left so they ...
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{ "description": "telling my mom I won't be telling her my university grades", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my mom I won’t be telling her my university grades?
Some backstory is definitely required for this one. My parents have been divorced since I was in Grade 2, they do not get along at all, but they both had equal custody and thus raised my together (sort of?). My older brother and sister both made it through school with a RESP (registered education savings plan) which my...
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{ "description": "returning a too-far joke with another too-far joke", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for returning a too-far joke with another too-far joke?
So for some background, my vision sucks to the point that even with contacts/glasses I only get to 20/100 vision, up from about 20/250 without. For more background, my friend, her brother, and her dad live in her grandparents house because her dad can't afford a place of his own. So on to what happened. We were joking...
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{ "description": "telling my dad I'm not going to his house again unless his gf and her kids (including my baby sister) leave", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I told my dad I’m not going to his house again unless his gf and her kids (including my baby sister) leave?
My parents split up about 3 years ago and shortly after my dad started dating this lady (we’ll call her K). She got pregnant and after the baby was born everyone moved into my childhood home, forcing my mum to move out. I’m f18, my sisters are 16 and 9 and K has two other kids f13 and m10 (plus 1y/o baby). The house...
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{ "description": "refusing to pay more than half of a misbooked airbnb", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to pay more than half of a misbooked airbnb?
My friend (of about two months at the time) booked an airbnb for a camping trip. I chose to go on this trip partly because it was an affordable option for a vacation. But we found out later that he had reserved the completely wrong dates. He couldn't get a refund and we had to rebook a different cabin. He asked if ...
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{ "description": "holding on to my neighbors' deliveries on their behalf if they sit out on the porch too long", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for holding on to my neighbors' deliveries on their behalf if they sit out on the porch too long?
I am **NOT** a porch pirate, just a concerned neighbor. I like where we live but if I'm being up front, there is an entire block of bail bondsman, the local court house and a police station within a block of my complex so the opportunity for crime is more than just a run of the mill suburban area. I have the luxury o...
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{ "description": "leaving a family party early because of annoying kids", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For leaving a family party early because of annoying kids?
It's boxing day in the UK and my mum invited me over to have a meal and visit my cousins. I didn't really want to go in the first place because my cousins are overly religious and always end up trying to gang up on me about my tattoos because it's "against God". Even though they get black out drunk every weekend, grea...
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{ "description": "being upset that my father walked into my locked room after I told him not to", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being upset that my father walked into my locked room after I told him not to?
So for a little bit of background, I'm 23 years old and moved back into my parents house after graduating college. They plan on moving south soon and I had planned on going with them and living in a mother-in-law apartment (or whatever you call it). So tonight I went out into the kitchen to get some ice cream that ...
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{ "description": "getting a tattoo", "pronormative_score": 40, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting a tattoo?
My boyfriend of \~4 years and I had a plan a couple years ago to get matching tattoos. He was pretty enthusiastic about it and told me to find a design we both like, because he'd always had trouble liking something enough to get it tattooed on himself. We never ended up finding something, and he wasn't too bothered by ...
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{ "description": "asking my flatmates to clean up after themselves", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my flatmates to clean up after themselves?
First of all, I’m a very clean and tidy person. I’ve always hated mess even since I was a child. I remember I used to hate being muddy or jumping around in puddles etc. I’m currently at university and have been living in residences for about 2 months. There are 8, including myself, in my flat. We have to share a kitch...
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{ "description": "selling someone else's design", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for selling someone else’s design?
I asked someone on discord if they could make me a YouTube banner for free. Now they described themselves as a photoshop professional. I gave told them how I wanted it to look and I sent them all of the pictures necessary to create the banner. I was excited to see the results. But, I was mistaken. He had me explain to ...
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{ "description": "selling gpus without disclosing upfront they were used for crypto mining", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA Selling GPUs without disclosing upfront they were used for crypto mining
So I am selling a couple of GPUs in ebay that were previously used for crypto mining for 6 months ish I'm thinking of not writing in the post that they were used for mining but if anyone asks I will obviously say they have been. They are otherwise in good condition, have been cleaned regularly, kept in a cool environ...
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{ "description": "teaching sex education to my younger cousin sister", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I teach Sex education to my younger cousin sister ?
So to give a little back ground I am 25 Yo M and my cousin sister is 19 Yo. I am quite open and generally don't like to follow social taboo's and unspoken rules. Recently we were talking about stuff and having a good discussion about general things in life, so she starts telling me about this creep who texted her some ...
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{ "description": "not inviting my friend with me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not inviting my friend with me?
On mobile so sorry about formatting My sister and I are both very into baseball and this year we decided to splurge and buy opening tickets to the Red Sox as we don’t get to hang out often. My roommate is also very into baseball and I’m talking to him he was thinking about also getting tickets to go with his father. ...
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{ "description": "not giving the item that I used to bet because I think I won the bet", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not giving the item that I used to bet because I think I won the bet? (Full story in des)
So i bought this item for 8 dollars at a store, this friend asked me how much the item was. I said 8 dollars and he did not believe me. So we bet our expensive graphing calculators that the item i bought is actually 8 dollars. I showed him the receipt of that item, and it shows 8 dollars and he proceeded to show me the...
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{ "description": "questioning my Ex's sexuality", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For Questioning My Ex’s Sexuality
So I dated a girl for a few years and we had a bad breakup and we didn’t talk for years. Recently, I was getting to know her again because she was a huge part of my life and it felt weird that we actively avoided each other now. As we got to know each other again we’re exploring all the changes we’d gone through over t...
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{ "description": "wanting my mum to kick her so out", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my mum to kick her SO out?
I live with my older brother, and mum and her boyfriend who she’s known for less than 6 months, my mum knew him from her work for a couple of weeks and then he stayed one weekend, they then messaged each other for 3 months as he works in different areas of the UK so they couldn’t see each other, he’s a seasonal worker ...
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{ "description": "pretty much abandoning my abused friend", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for pretty much abandoning my abused friend?
Alright, so the title itself makes me look like an asshole already, but it’s the best I could come up with... So last school year, (I’m in high school), I had this one girl in my class, and we became quick friends. I knew something was off about her from the start, but it was nothing major. Later in the year, she told...
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{ "description": "wanting to abandon my study abroad despite the money/time invested in it", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to abandon my study abroad despite the money/time invested in it?
Hey, so I'm in the middle of doing a year of studying abroad in SE Asia (like an exchange year). Sounds fun right? Well I'm not exactly liking it. Currently I've got three pros to staying here: -Friends are here -Societies are actually better than my home uni -Things are (most of the time) cheaper than at home But ...
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{ "description": "getting mad over this", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad over this?
Well, backstory time. Since christmas is coming soon I wanted to make mother happy and buy her something she always wanted. What she wanted is probably not so important, the important thing is that it is very expensive. In fact its too expensive for me to buy it all myself (Im still a young teen), so I asked my brother...
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{ "description": "commenting on my girlfriends breakfast choice", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 132 }
AITA for commenting on my girlfriends breakfast choice?
So a little backstory: I currently live with my gf of 1 year and we have been spending many meals together, naturally. I have been eating a paleo diet for about 4 months now and we both tend to eat similarly in this sense, but she does not always have the same ideas that I do about food. She will sometimes eat cookies ...
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{ "description": "telling my recently engaged sister not to get married", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I (21F) told my recently engaged sister (23F) not to get married?
Last night I found out my sister got engaged to her current boyfriend (mid 20s) and I’m not that supportive of her decision. They’ve been dating for supposedly over a year. I say supposedly because she slept with my roommate at the end of May 2018 while visiting me (we live in different states). At the time she claimed...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my Chemistry teacher", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA For Getting mad at My Chemistry Teacher?
We had a Chemistry test the other day, and it was on a scantron. I believe I got the vast majority of answers correct, yet I received a 0 on the test because I accidentally bubbled my answers in pen. The teacher didn’t remind us to bubble answers in pencil, nor did the scantron paper have it written anywhere that yo...
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{ "description": "not supporting my friend's new relationship", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not supporting my friend’s new relationship
My friend ALWAYS ALWAYS has to have a significant other. It’s honestly become such a pet peeve with everyone in our friend group because we see all her relationships go wrong and we feel that she needs to just be single to learn about herself and work on self growth. However, I work at the same business company that sh...
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{ "description": "ghosting a \"friend\" for her odd text messages", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ghosting a "friend" for her odd text messages?
Some context: I'm 17 [MtF], friend (we'll call her Mayo) is 17 [F]. Mayo and I had a very odd relationship. We used to cuddle, kiss, hold hands, etc. (She usually made the advances) but we never "dated" or anything. I saw the relationship as just being really close friends as I was very open with her. However, if she h...
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{ "description": "asking my fiancé for a heads up when having people to our apartment", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my fiancé for a heads up when having people to our apartment
Pretty much as the title says. My fiancé had his brother over after work yesterday and I’m the kind of person who needs my personal space and time. Our apartment is 720ish sq ft. So small to begin with as a 1BR. I just went to the bathroom and our room because I was beyond stressed from work and commuting (my commute ...
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{ "description": "expecting my friend to celebrate my birthday like I did hers", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for expecting my friend to celebrate my birthday like I did hers?
My best friend's birthday is 2-3 weeks before mine. For her birthday, I was planning a big out of state trip, was going to spend hundreds of dollars for this party, but it ended up falling through because her (not yet) boyfriend planned another party without telling me (that's a different story but whatever). However, ...
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{ "description": "disowning my mom and dad, over a job", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for disowning my mom and dad, over a job?
Throwaway account. From a 2 child family, I have an older brother. Both of us lived with our parents. ​ I'm in my early twenty's, older brother is 25. I used to work a full-time job and have time to help A LOT around during the house (very relaxed job, boss was usually never around). Mom would call ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to cook more intricate meals", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA because I don’t want to cook more intricate meals?
Gf and I trade off on who cooks. Admittedly her meals are a lot better usually. She complains that I only cook “lazy” meals. I honestly like my cooking. I make stuff like cheeseburgers, tacos, spaghetti, meatloaf, stuff I grew up with. One time I told her I didn’t like salmon and she told me I didn’t have to eat i...
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{ "description": "not eating food", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for Not Eating Food?
So heres my dilemma, I'm 5 11, 160 lbs and 10 percent body fat. It takes a lot of upkeep diet wise and exercise to keep my physique naturally and I tend to avoid high carb foods, oily stuff, and basically eating out unless I am comfortable. So when i have been back home for break and my parents want to go out for famil...
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{ "description": "spending a whole day talking about meeting my favorite guitarist", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For spending a whole day talking about meeting my favorite guitarist
Hey there reddit, (sorry for any formatting im on mobile) So two days ago I went to a concert where Frank Iero and the Future Violents were headlining. After they played I left and saw Frank packing the band up. So, i went up to him to ask for a picture and for him to sign something for me. The next day at school I exc...
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{ "description": "having a go at my wife", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for having a go at my wife?
I told my wife earlier last week that we are really struggling with money and we shouldn’t buy anymore new things for the new place we’re renting. She said she wanted to buy a new coffee table to match the tv stand, I reluctantly said okay fine given the style might go out of stores soon. We got a new couch, I said we...
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{ "description": "dating my abusive ex's best friend", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA: I dated my abusive ex's best friend
Okay, so long story short. A few years ago, I dated this guy for \~4 months? It was pretty okay, getting kinda serious, but he was such a jealous, controlling person like he'd get mad at me for stuff like * Not wanting to do sexual stuff all the time * Talking to other guys * Not replying within like an hour * Getting...
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{ "description": "confronting my friend selling stuff I gave her for free", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA to confront my friend selling stuff I gave her for free?
I had a TON of baby stuff that we weren't going to use anymore and taking up space. When my friend announced she was pregnant, I told her I had a really nice high chair she could have because my husband was bugging me to get rid of the baby stuff we are done with. She said "thanks but I'll let you know because I don't ...
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