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{ "description": "leaving the drunk, under 21, girl on the curb of the ER", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for leaving the drunk, under 21, girl on the curb of the ER.
My freshman year of college I went to a party. Ended up getting pretty drunk and passing out for a bit. When I came to (still pretty drunk) there were 5 or so people there still, including, the two guys whose house it was, a friend of a friend (let's call him Tarzan), and a girl Tarzan had a crush on (let's call her Do...
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{ "description": "fucking with a couple families while camping", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for fucking with a couple families while camping?
So we're at one of the public campgrounds in Shenandoah National Park, my wife myself and my one year old toddler. It was no joke about 4:30 in the morning when the campsite catty-corner to us started going nuts. Apparently this campsite was two families that were friends. The first family had a four year old girl who ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to take care of my grandma anymore", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to take care of my grandma anymore
My grandma on my dad's side has been sick for quite some time now (she's 86 y.o) and she bcame worse last year, on 29th Dec (4 days after the death of my grandpa on my mom's side). After a month of staying at the hospital, she finally had been allowed to return home on 28th January this year. Since then, I stayed at m...
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{ "description": "getting upset at my stepmom after she threw away my property that I had an emotional connection to", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset at my stepmom after she threw away my property that I had an emotional connection to?
Ok so Im about 13 when this happened and my stepmom had gotten married to my dad about a year ago when she moved in. I had a pillow that my dad gave to me and it had quite a sentimental value. I get I’m too old to have a pillow around and have a connection to it, but IMO that’s something I should grow out of. It looke...
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{ "description": "making my entire class hate my friend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for making my entire class hate my friend?
I am in highschool, this is my first reddit post so bare with me I sat next to a crazy girl that we will call CG,(she has mental health issues) and my friend (we'll call him BFK) was not in school that day. i was trying to sleep beacuse the class was boring and CG was trying to get my attention by asking random quest...
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{ "description": "telling my friend her picture looks really edited", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my friend her picture looks really edited?
For some background my friend is slowly becoming recognized by swimsuit companies on Instagram. We talked about it a lot and I said go for it, you can get paid to post pics so why not? She chooses to accept a few offers and posts a couple pics in the company’s swim suits. Her pictures look highly edited. I mean looks...
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{ "description": "comparing my girlfriend to the Blob", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For Comparing My Girlfriend to The Blob?
So my gf is super cuddly and whenever we are on the couch she basically tries to smother me which is funny and cute bc she is really thin. Anyway we're watching a movie and she starts moving in doing her thing and I look at her and say the words "You're like The Blob." She then proceeds to get super bent out of shape a...
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{ "description": "not buying my friend lunch when I promised to", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not buying my friend lunch when I promised to?
On mobile, apologies in advance. Also, this is kinda long so please forgive me! So last week my friend bought me lunch. He asked if I wanted to go out for Chinese. I really didn't want to, as I am currently trying to stay away from junk food as much as possible (I'm going to basic training for the army in summer so I'...
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{ "description": "not helping the employee I supervise", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not helping the employee I supervise?
I work in an office at a hospital doing research for a doctor (we’ll call him boss) there is another doctor that handles clinical research (calling him the man). The man also has his team of clinical researchers who are in med school. There is this college student (calling him Stu) who comes by once a week to help meni...
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{ "description": "telling mum SIL was pregnant", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for telling mum SIL was pregnant?
My (f28) SO (m33)and I have been together for ten years. A few years ago his dad was involved in a very serious car crash, for which he was at fault, and several people in the other vehicle died. The case took a really long time to go to court, and by the time it did, we had moved abroad, meaning we weren’t around fo...
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{ "description": "not writing my maybe stepmom's letter of acknowledgement for her immigration process", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I don’t write my maybe stepmom’s letter of acknowledgement for her immigration process?
A little bit of background information. My father started dating someone a few years back. She seemed pretty nice and my dad ended up proposing in 2018. Since then - and even before the proposal - they have broken up and gotten back together numerous times. More than I can count, and I’m sure I don’t know about every s...
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{ "description": "not going to my grandmother's funeral", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA if i don’t go to my grandmother’s funeral?
sorry, long post on mobile. so a little backstory, my grandma died in november from cancer and around the same time her husband broke his hip and had to be moved into rehab/hospice. they lived 9 hours away from us so my mom has spent the last few months getting their affairs in order (wills, finances, home care for g...
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{ "description": "not putting more effort into my relationship with my dad", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not putting more effort into my relationship with my dad?
My dad and I have never been super close, he and my mum split when I was super young and we didn't have much contact until I was a teen. He seems to have always preferred spending time with my sister over me- organising coffee dates with her without inviting me etc... on top of that he has been rude to my partner for t...
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AITA if I'd rather spend time with my friends than with my foreign family that comes once a year?
Some family from outside the country came to visit for the holidays and I have to be with them during their stay. I don't dislike them, in fact I like them very much, but at family reunions I don't talk a lot to them, even the ones at my age I don't talk with. I also had planed a sleepover with a bunch of friends for ...
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{ "description": "not rescheduling a second date", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not rescheduling a second date?
Recently, i (25f) decided that I would dive headfirst back into online dating. I have a young child (~1) so i did not take this decision lightly. I made a few profiles on different sites and away we go. I made it very clear that I had a child in these profiles as not to waste anybody’s time. A few weeks ago I started...
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{ "description": "seeing my boyfriends messages saying he doesn't love me, whe he won't tell me himself", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For seeing my boyfriends messages saying he doesn’t love me, whe he won’t tell me himself?
Am I the asshole for reading messages my boyfriend left open, saying he doesn’t love me, when he refuses to tell me himself and would just continue having a shitty relationship instead of ending? opened up my laptop this morning (note, it’s my laptop, not his, i wasn’t using his private device) to find a chat open wit...
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{ "description": "making a joke about my italian culture", "pronormative_score": 38, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making a joke about my Italian culture?
Last night my friends and I decided to have international food night. I bright homemade pasta, gelato, and a Sicilian recipe pizza. I'm not Sicilian, my family is from Tuscany. I love Sicilian food, so it's become a running joke with my family about how that's "wrong food" -- not REAL Italian food. For those of your wh...
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AITA? Has the stress of exams turned me into an asshole or have I always been one?
So I'm studying for my last exam this semester and my brain is on the brink of a burnout. I started wasting a little time on social media and posted a couple of stuff that were supposed to be jokes on there (incl. Reddit) and for some reason everything I joked about was either offensive (even a tad bit racist and/or se...
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{ "description": "not returning my FWB's call", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not returning my FWB's call?
So I had this FWB's who I was legit really close to for a while. We would hang out beyond sex. We were really tight, so tight that we even dated for a bit. But it never worked out, and he started seeing other people. Every time he would, he would date the person for a month or two, before something would happen and th...
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{ "description": "reporting a taxi that picked up more passengers", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for reporting a taxi that picked up more passengers (please read the text)
It was late in the evening and I'd called in to have a taxi sent to drive me back from the Wegmans since the last bus had left. He arrived and everything seemed fine but several minutes later he stopped by what looked like just the side of the road to pick up two men waiting there. I asked him what he was doing and he ...
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{ "description": "refusing a trip to Jamacia because of the company", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing a trip to Jamacia because of the company?
I have wanted to go somewhere tropical for a long time. Last year I talked to my mom about the 2 of us planning a trip to Jamaica but nothing ever came of it. She called me the other day to tell me that her and her best friend are planning a trip to Jamacia in March and told me that I am invited. My mom and I are pr...
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{ "description": "trying to be nice to people loud the library but then yelling at them", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for trying to be nice to people loud the library but then yelling at them
So me a couple of friends were studying in the library and this group was being loud my girlfriend goes asks them nicely to please quite down or go to one the the group study rooms about 30 feet from where they currently are. These group study rooms are great by the way located in the library and you can talk in them a...
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{ "description": "not wanting to do something with friends that we've been planning forever", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to do something with friends that we've been planning forever?
So my buds and I have been planning on going to the gym everyday after school in pursuit of gainz. Yesterday I go and everything works out fine. Something comes up last minute yesterday night and I tell them I have to bail on them due to this and tell them that I don't have time for going for the rest of the week. They...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my struggling mother", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at my struggling mother
I’m a young and naive person, in fact I don’t even turn fifteen for a while. So despite this probably being obvious and most definitely light compared to things here, it’s really eating me up inside. Background: I’m a young super emotional girl, I’ve got really bad anxiety, mild depression and a history with eating di...
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{ "description": "telling my Mil not to meet up with her daughter today Urgent", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA If I told my Mil not to meet up with her daughter today Urgent!
So I have been doing research into my fiancee's birth parents. And the people I hired have found her birth mother. I told her adoptive mother which I was told they are meeting up later today which makes me super nervous as her adoptive mother has been known to blab. I thought that I would at least have had today to k...
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{ "description": "not wanting to share my ps4 pro with someone I know will wreck it", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to share my PS4 Pro with someone I know will wreck it?
I'm 15, and I've been working hard to save up the money I get from my **very** low-paying job to finally get a PS4. My family never bought me and my sister a gaming console or anything similar, as my mom thinks that there's no use for any form of modern electronics other than a cell phone or tv, and my dad thinks we sh...
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{ "description": "making someone cry by telling someone to go away", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I made someone cry by telling someone to go away?
Hi, this is my first ever post, so please forgive me if I did anything wrong. ​ Background: So, in my band class, there's this one kid. He's that one kid who doesn't seem to understand social interaction or context. When he wants to talk to someone he jabs them while repeating their name over and over, ...
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{ "description": "wanting to know if my friend still has feelings for her first love", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to know if my friend still has feelings for her first love?
A friend of mine had a huge crush on another friend of mine for a solid 6 months. It was pretty obvious. I can only assume it was her first love from what she's told me. I had a rather large crush on her myself at the time (and still do), but it was fine and dandy. She seemed happy and being upset about something dumb ...
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AITA Am I the shitty friend?
I'm 17 years old, am finishing my final year of highschool and currently have one best friend. I have had many friends in my life, and many best friends that I spent practically everyday with, but I for some reason I get bored of them after a couple months and start to genuinely hate them. Personally I feel like I am d...
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{ "description": "wanting to avoid conflict with my mother's boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting to avoid conflict with my mother's boyfriend?
Ok. On mobile. Formatting. First post. Yadda yadda. Oh and I'm southern. So forgive my vernacular. Some context: I'm 20, but live at home to go to school and work so it's cheaper. So I am a nice person most of the time. It takes a lot for me to even dislike you, let alone hate you. That being said, I despise my mot...
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{ "description": "wanting to file a complaint about my former boss", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to file a complaint about my former boss?
​ To begin, I would like to say that I do not hate my old boss. I was in graduate school studying science in a lab, and I really believe I would never would have had the opportunity to be in graduate school if he hadn't wanted me to work with him. That being said, we have some serious differences in mentors...
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{ "description": "yelling at my mother", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for yelling at my mother?
So a few days ago i was in my room playing xbox and my mom just barges in and looks around, then leaves (after huffing and puffing), and i think...what was all that about? I brush it off and continue to play. ​ The very next day, she sprints into my room and looks around, opening drawers and such. I ask he...
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{ "description": "telling my husband he should stop sleeping with a teddy bear", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA For telling my husband he should stop sleeping with a teddy bear?
My husband’s goddaughter passed away at the young age of 20 two years ago. We were all close, but they were especially close. We don’t have children of our own, so we considered her to be our daughter. He gifted her a teddy bear when she was a baby, and her parents told us shortly after her death she would still sleep ...
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{ "description": "staying out of gang problems at my school that have led to stabbings and such", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for staying out of gang problems at my school that have led to stabbings and such?
My friend and I are the only white people in our class and there are very few white people in our school. There has been gang problems of all sorts unfortunately (cachement area situation). There are huge problems with neighbouring schools and our school leading to an ongoing 'turf war' so to speak. My friend and I ha...
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{ "description": "telling a lying suicidal friend to fuck off", "pronormative_score": 43, "contranormative_score": 25 }
AITA for telling a lying suicidal friend to fuck off?
(Sorry if this is long, I just really need to get this off of my chest) So, to give some context, I met this guy around 2014 in one of my favorite online games, and we've been close friends ever since. At first we've just had a normal "get together and play together" relationship, but somewhere around early 2015 he st...
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{ "description": "getting in a fight with someone I didn't know in a public place with a situation that wasn't my concern", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting in a fight with someone I didn't know in a public place with a situation that wasn't my concern?
Alright, lemme give some context. I am in highschool, and my friend and I like to go to the school basketball games to kill time and get away from home. At the beginnning of one game, my friend and I split up, as he wanted to hit the concessions stand, and I wanted to find a place to sit. I didn't see him for half an h...
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{ "description": "asking strangers in a restaurant to change the subject of their dinner conversation", "pronormative_score": 99, "contranormative_score": 71 }
AITA for asking strangers in a restaurant to change the subject of their dinner conversation?
My husband and I went our for dinner last night at a trendy restaurant where the tables are so close we’re all practically eating at the same table. The place was really noisy so everyone had to speak loudly to have a conversation. The couple beside us was on a first date, and at some point one half of the couple star...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 99, "WRONG": 71 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "lying about my religion", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for lying about my religion?
so N is my best friend. we have been friends for years and i cant imagine losing her. i have become so close with her family, even tho they are very Christian. (like really bad, homophobic etc) its to the point i call her mom mom and i spent christmas eve at her house, and her parents wanted me to spend Christmas day t...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "saying I'm not racist", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for saying I’m not racist?
I work in fast food and we live in a small town so we don’t get very much supplies (at least less than a high population town) there is a all-Native basketball tournament going on so a lot of Natives are coming into town. So a customer came in and said I’ll get *idem* and *other idem* I say, “I’m sorry, we actually ...
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OTHER
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RIGHT
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{ "description": "quitting my short staffed, fixed schedule campus job", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for quitting my short staffed, fixed schedule campus job?
I go to a very large state university, where I work very limited hours (10-20hrs/wk, depending on the semester) at a department funded concessions booth. This was my third semester working there. We operate on a fix schedule, meaning we all work the same shifts on the same days every week - me quitting really puts a b...
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OTHER
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RIGHT
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{ "description": "being upset after donating to someone who come to find out didn't need it", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset after donating to someone who come to find out didn't need it?
I am involved in dog rescue. Occasionally, some members of our group fall on hard times and ask for others in the group to pitch in and help out. Most of the time it's when one of our dogs get really sick and vet bills get expensive. Last summer, one woman's husband unexpectedly passed away. Suddenly she found hersel...
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RIGHT
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{ "description": "refusing to pay rent and demanding to live for free", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for refusing to pay rent and demanding to live for free?
Before you get your pitchforks out please let me explain. I'm currently a senior at a 4 year university and until recently I was living with my parents because it financially makes sense. It only takes me 30 minutes to make the drive to campus so I've been fine making the daily commute. Over winter break, a friend of m...
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EVERYBODY
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 6 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "jawing back with two guys when one was rude to me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for jawing back with two guys when one was rude to me?
I was at Wal-Mart and with it being the holidays it was packed. This guy walks in front of my cart and stops. He stares me down like I need to move, however there’s a cart to my right and the left is the endcap and I am completely blocked in. I finally just say excuse me in an exasperated tone and try to nose my cart t...
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AITA? Friend wouldnt shut up about wanting to play an old game. I tell Him to torrent it. Gets email from isp
Basically One of my childhood buddies WOULD'NT Shut up about wanting to play a certain GameCube game. He'd bring it up in basically every conversation we had. When we were in a conversation two days ago I finally just said, "If you want it that badly just fucking torrent the thing if you want it that badly. Run it on d...
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{ "description": "asking my dad's girlfriend to either put a bell on her cat or not let her out at all", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I ask my dad's girlfriend to either put a bell on her cat or not let her out at all
Dad's girlfriend moved in with us a little over a year ago. She brought her cat with her. The cat doesn't use a litter box because she spends most of the day outside and comes in when it gets dark/cold. The problem I'm having is last year she was an absolute terror on the small critters around us. We live in a small ...
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{ "description": "being pissed at my sick friend for not helping out at our event", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being pissed at my sick friend for not helping out at our event
My friend roped me into being a co-logistics head with her for a college-wide event by the student council. I just finished organizing a two-day Valentine's sale for our organization and I haven't even had a day to catch my breath when I found out that work has started for the student council's event. Here's the thin...
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OTHER
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RIGHT
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{ "description": "breaking up with my long-distance partner for not wanting a Christmas present", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking up with my [19M] long-distance partner [19F] for not wanting a Christmas present?
So, I've been in a long-distance relationship with my current girlfriend for the past six months (since June). We met abroad, having each won spots on the same scholarship to go overseas for a summer. It was an amazing experience and we really bonded straight from the get-go, which for me was astounding because I've ne...
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{ "description": "not understanding my roommates specific boundaries", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not understanding my roommates specific boundaries?
I live in a two bedroom apartment with two separate bedrooms and a shared kitchen/living room. My roommate is one of my closest friends. However, she has some annoying boundary issues? She has a problem with me making out (or anything else) with people in our apartment. I get if it was like, in the loving room, but eve...
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NOBODY
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{ "description": "yelling at a guy to get his dog", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for yelling at a guy to get his dog?
So I just got a new shelter dog and as it turns out she's pretty mean to other dogs (barks/growls/lunges). I got a private consult with an animal trainer and she advised I go to a nearby park where dogs are nearby so that I can start to desensitize my dog to others and generally make her more sociable. That's the backs...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 13, "WRONG": 3 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "being upset that my family thinks I'm \"high maintenance\"", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA(15M) for being upset that my family thinks I'm "high maintenance".
So this all started when I girl rejected me for being high maintenance I was really upset all yesterday about it. So this morning getting ready for school I sit next to one of my sisters on the couch and ask if I'm high maintenance and she said "if I'm being honest with you then yes" I asked her to explain she the sai...
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{ "AUTHOR": 6, "OTHER": 0, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 9, "INFO": 0 }
NOBODY
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AITA for really just not wanting to be near my cousin
So, bit of a background, I am a first generation college graduate from a very poor VERY white trash family, I was forced to handle most of the college stuff myself, even going so far as having to physically force my parents to file income tax so I could get loans and aid. I got nowhere near enough and had to take out p...
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{ "description": "trolling the jukebox when I'm only at the bar with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for trolling the jukebox when I'm only at the bar with my girlfriend
I occasionally like to troll the jukebox at bars. For the uninitiated, I like to purposefully play bad/annoying songs on the jukebox to annoy people slightly, or at least make them look around and go "huh?". My girlfriend and I occasionally walk to various bars in our general area on weekdays when we have nothing els...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "trimming my brother's dog's poopy buttflap fur", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for trimming my brother's dog's poopy buttflap fur?
I often watch my brother's doggos and they sometimes get poop in their buttflap fur, so I cut off the offending wisps of hair (sometimes with cemented-in poopsicles upon arrival). They also like to poop on the steep hillside in my yard, dragging their tail and long buttlap fur in the poop as they go. My own dog stopped...
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RIGHT
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{ "description": "telling my friend's mom about her slightly offending me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my friend’s mom about her slightly offending me?
This is my first post ever (and i’m on mobile) so i’m sorry for format issues. Some background: I met this girl who’s about two years older than me through my mom. our mothers work together and thought we’d be good friends. I’m adopted Chinese American, and she’s pretty caucasian as far as I know. For a while we used...
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{ "description": "interrupting a woman who was giving a very sensitive speech to my class", "pronormative_score": 63, "contranormative_score": 70 }
AITA for interrupting a woman who was giving a very sensitive speech to my class?
I am a high school student, and have an extremely strict, hardass teacher who can be a bit on the unfair side at times. She announced yesterday that she was bringing a guest speaker to our classroom, a woman (and close friend of hers) who tours schools giving speeches on the dangers of drunk and distracted driving. Thi...
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{ "AUTHOR": 51, "OTHER": 60, "EVERYBODY": 19, "NOBODY": 3, "INFO": 5 }
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{ "RIGHT": 63, "WRONG": 70 }
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{ "description": "telling my mom to get a hobby", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my mom to get a hobby?
So my mom has been retired for some years now. She lives on the other side of the planet with my younger sister. I noticed that lately my mom seemed kind of down in our chats. Not very enthused when answering, or taking longer than usual to answer. Usually she's a fun-loving and vivacious person but also has a tendenc...
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AITA for visibly and quite violently reacting to or giving a kind of death-stare to people who trigger my misophonia?
Backstory post here: https://www.reddit.com/r/misophonia/comments/agaxtc/my_misophonia_is_eating_up_my_body_and_brain/?utm_source=reddit-android I would like anyone who is going to comment on this post to have read at the very least about my symptoms and triggers. So, I don't mean reacting violently reacting TOWARDS ...
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{ "description": "not telling my boyfriend I knew his sister was planning on losing her virginity", "pronormative_score": 258, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for not telling my boyfriend I knew his sister was planning on losing her virginity?
BF and I have been together for four years. He knows my account so needed to make a throwaway for this. His sister is 17, I am 24 and BF is 27. His sister came to me recently asking for advice when losing virginity and a couple other things, and she made it really clear she was planning on losing it with her curren...
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{ "RIGHT": 258, "WRONG": 12 }
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{ "description": "telling my husband to block the other woman", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my husband to block the other woman?
When I was pregnant, I had made a few jokes about how my husband should "find a girlfriend" because I was too sick and uncomfortable to get in the mood. Except my husband SOMEHOW thought I was being serious and started sleeping with one of his female friends. They had a long distance friends-with-benefits thing going o...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "setting boundaries in my transitional housing apartment", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for setting boundaries in my transitional housing apartment?
As per my last post on here with my roommate breaking holes in walls etc. He manned up and apologized and took full responsibility for that so we're good on that front. HOWEVER. I left this morning to get coffee from wawa and I came back and there's a baby sitting on his bed. I'm like who tf is that? Apparently some gi...
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{ "description": "including stipulations on purchasing the family home from Mom", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA to include stipulations on purchasing the family home from Mom?
My mother is on an extremely tight budget and I had the idea of purchasing her house as a way of helping her out with more money each month and also to keep the house in the family. I’m the only sibling who supports myself and so if the house was left to all of us it would probably be sold and the tiny price divided a...
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AITA for really, really not wanting my sister's boyfriend to not come to our house for Thanksgiving?
Hi AITA redditors, So my sister and I are both in college (we're the same age, both sophomores), and she invited her boyfriend of a year to come to our house for Thanksgiving break, since he can't go home for Thanksgiving break. Her and her boyfriend attend the same college and their break is a week long. The Thanksgi...
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{ "description": "not wanting to see my sister on the anniversary of her son's death", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to see my sister on the anniversary of her son’s death?
Some backstory: TL;DR: my sister has been milking her son’s death for sympathy and pity points in arguments for 2 years, even let his dog die so she could get more sympathy. During my nephew’s life, my sister showed little interest in him. She would threaten to kick him out when all he wanted was for her to spend time...
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{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 6, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
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{ "description": "asking my wife when she'll be home", "pronormative_score": 67, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For Asking My Wife When She'll Be Home
For context, my wife is a rock emotionally and handles a lot. Some days though she gets overwhelmed and goes for a drive. I have come to accept this even if at the beginning I was a bit concerned. Well a couple days ago we were at a Walgreens when police were seen arresting a guy. It was someone my wife knew. They use...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 67, "WRONG": 4 }
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{ "description": "not wanting to forgive a (former) friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to forgive a (former) friend?
Last summer I (20M) got into a fight with a friend(21M), it started small but somehow we both started to bring up old stuff to make our points more valid ( not a good idea in hindsight). ​ It started with me telling another friend (19F) all the bad things he said about her behind her back, while being nic...
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{ "RIGHT": 2, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "not inviting my dad's new wife to my wedding", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not inviting my dad's new wife to my wedding?
My parents are divorced. Supposedly my mom cheated on him years ago, and he is the type that can't let stuff go. He put her through a lot of verbal abuse before she left him. Also, he was having an affair for years afterward to the point that mom and I both found out. He felt justified because of what happened an...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 21, "WRONG": 8 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "asking her out to play some videogames", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking her out to play some videogames?
We are talking about an online friend community here, where we are usually playing videogames with eachother. I have been friends with this dude for like 5-6 years, we talked like every single day and played videogames. Lately he got a few new friends who he played with - completely normal, he wasn't ignoring me or tal...
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{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 7, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
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{ "description": "not being able to communicate in a long distance relationship during competitive exams", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being able to communicate in a long distance relationship during competitive exams?
I'm an Indian. Here, to have a decent life, you have 2 options: engineering or medical. Both have pretty tough enterance exams for a select few good colleges and are in the top coveted competitive exams in the world and I'm giving the engineering one. It's called JEE for those who want to do further research. I was in...
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{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 5, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 2, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 7, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "not visiting my Grandma", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not visiting my Grandma?
Backstory: My Grandpa and Grandma were the "kids were to be seen, not heard" variety when I was growing up. Every memory I have of them as a kid was one of two: * Excuses for missing something important I invited them to (championships, awards, events, bring grandparents to school day, etc...) with the exception of m...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "not mowing the lawn for my roommate's girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not mowing the lawn for my roommate's girlfriend?
I recently lived in a 3 bedroom house with my 2 of my friends. As part of the lease, we were supposed to mow the lawn once a week, so to make it fair we would each mow one week on a rotation. One of my friends left and the remaining friend's girlfriend moved in. Once she moved in my roommate informed me that only my...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 11, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "letting my boyfriend cook", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for letting my [F18] boyfriend [M21] cook???
\[We're living together.\] I was super dead tired today, so tired that I fell asleep as soon as I came home from school. We always discuss things we (usually I) make for dinner the day before and share the recipe/dish we want to make with each other. (We planned on making a Indian potatoes with chickpeas today. It has...
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{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 28, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
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RIGHT
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{ "description": "not telling my friend I've started seeing a mutual friend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not telling my friend I've started seeing a mutual friend?
Over the weekend I got accused of being an asshole and that I've betrayed a friend. I have a group of friends that have all been friends for close to 3 years. Recently (about 3 weeks ago) my friend Alex and I attended an event together and have started seeing each other since then. She's a ton of fun and we've always g...
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{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 7, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 7, "WRONG": 1 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "buying a car instead of moving out with my gf sooner", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I bought a car instead of moving out with my GF sooner?
My gf and I are both 21 and have been dating for just over six years. I currently live with a friend for a bargain of a rent price and she is still living at home with her family. I have a car that is going to inevitability become a money pit. I’m cutting my losses and selling it, and as an enthusiast I’d like to at ...
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{ "description": "punching a Survivor of Pediatric Brain Cancer", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for Punching A Survivor of Pediatric Brain Cancer?
Throwaway account. Originally posted in r/AITA and I deleted the original post and reposted here once I realized this is the correct subreddit. ​ This happened to me back in high school. One of my classmates, let's call him Tim, was this really innocent, sweet-looking school kid. He was an average student,...
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{ "description": "thinking I just got an Uber driver fired, lol", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA I think I just got an Uber driver fired, lol
There is a bit of a back story to this. So originally I placed an order a few months ago on Uber Eats, when the delivery guy got here I was brushing my teeth and didn’t immediately here the door bell. He might’ve waited a max of 5 minutes. When I got to the door he was not only rude but extremely threatening. He questi...
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{ "description": "not always helping my mom around the house", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not always helping my mom around the house?
I know what you're thinking, but hear me out: My mom has been sick on and off since I was 8 (I'll be 19 tomorrow), so it was pretty rough to know there wasn't much I could do as a kid. She was forced to retire due to thyroid cancer and other conditions. My mom is now a housewife while my dad are working. Unfortunatel...
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{ "description": "being pissed and not talking to my bf because he didnt cook dinner", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being pissed and not talking to my bf because he didnt cook dinner?
I wasn't sure if I want to post this here or in relationship advise. I think that it makes more sense in this sub since I want to get perspective on if I am the asshole and should change or if I'm validated in being mad. I rent a room from my bfs mother. He still lives with her, so technically we kinda live together. ...
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{ "description": "not cleaning my beans", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not cleaning my beans?
Yesterday, I made some refried beans on a pan for my friend and I. I had a lot left so I thought I’d put them on a container and put them in the refrigerator. Unfortunately, I forgot about it, so they were on the stove overnight. This morning, I came into the kitchen, and about half of the beans were spilled on the flo...
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{ "description": "filing a complaint against my Grandma's doctor", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for filing a complaint against my Grandma's doctor?
My Grandma is 84 has Meniere's disease, depression, and high blood pressure. I live with her and my uncle lives on the property in a trailer (20-acre property, we don't see him much). I go to all the doctor's appts and take notes because my Grandma "doesn't remember" what they said, until I show her the note then it...
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{ "description": "ghosting my friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA If I ghost my friend?
Okay, so generally I am strongly against ghosting people and would prefer to confront the person in order to preserve the relationship or, if ending the relationship, give the other person closure. In this case, I think ghosting is the route to go but am unsure and want to avoid hurting anyone as much as possible. So...
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{ "description": "asking my friend to pay fair market rent to stay at my place", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking my friend to pay fair market rent to stay at my place?
I have known a guy since 2006 and in 2017 he landed a 10 week contract gig in the city my wife and I had just bought a house in. With a spare bedroom we agreed to let him stay with us for a total of $1000. This came out to about $400/month. We had a few issues such as him thinking he could eat our food and use our toil...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend she cant come to new york with me", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend she cant come to new york with me?
Note: I told her she couldn't come if she was still sick by tomorrow My parents got me and my siblings a trip to New York and tickets to a play for Christmas, and we're all going on saturday, including my girlfriend who has never been. However, she had a fever of 102.5 yesterday, and my mom is immuno compromised due t...
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{ "description": "disregarding a bridesmaids demands", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA for disregarding a bridesmaids demands?
My girlfriend’s close friend, Mary, is getting married next summer and my girlfriend and her friend Julia are going to be bridesmaids. To begin with both Julia and Mary told my girlfriend that I have to wear a suit because it would be inconsiderate of me not to, and every other man will be wearing one. I’m not sure tha...
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{ "description": "cutting my daughter off financially but not my Son", "pronormative_score": 108, "contranormative_score": 54 }
AITA For Cutting my Daughter off Financially but not my Son?
Some background here, my daughter is 22, son is 19. I grew up in a very poor family my parents brought in maybe 30k together growing up so I never got anything or asked for anything. Started mowing lawns and shoveling snow at 11 to help out with groceries and save and I have been busting my ass everyday since to get ri...
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{ "description": "getting a few pupils in my class a worse grading", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting a few pupils in my class a worse grading?
Hey AITA! Back to friday a teacher gave gradings to all 21 pupils in my class. It is a job school, so it differs a normal one, but okay here we go: One year ago the teacher was ill, so we got tasks we had to write down and give it to her when she returned. Back than not everybody gave the downwritten notes to...
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{ "description": "Leaving School with no notice", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for Leaving School with no notice?
So a few years ago, I was a freshman/sophomore in highschool. I was going though a major depression and was having panic attacks weekly so I basically stopped going to school, and got into homeschooling.... however the principals of the school didn't tell me teachers what was happened to me and just took me off the ros...
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{ "description": "not turning off house lights", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for not turning off house lights?
My stepdad’s biggest pet peeve is when people leave lights on, and since I was a kid, I’ve been the worst offender. Now, I’m 24 years old, and I’m living with my parents for 6 weeks while I’m in-between leases. I can’t honestly remember neglecting to turn off lights when I leave the room when I was a kid, but I’ll ta...
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{ "description": "giving people at my school beanboozled jelly beans", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 17 }
WIBTA if I give people at my school beanboozled jelly beans?
(Senior in High School BTW). For the past week, I've been carrying around a bag of jelly beans, with my friends and pretty much everyone I associate with all taking a few from me on a fairly regular basis. People have just assumed I have oddly developed a weird addiction to jelly beans, when in reality I just plan on s...
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{ "description": "not respecting an elder woman because she disrespected me and called me a occupier", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not respecting an elder woman because she disrespected me and called me a occupier
Im sorry about any grammatical errors because English isnt my first language This story happened a few years ago so i dont remember it perfectly EW - elder woman Me - me So i was at a bus station waiting for a bus and i had a hair cut like Connor McGregor. Like 3 braids which unite at the back of the head. An EW com...
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{ "description": "not wanting to take care of my Sister's kids", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Not Wanting To Take Care Of My Sister's Kids?
So long story short I moved back to my home state to live with my sister and her family because my Dad has cancer. I moved here with my fiance (we are living in the guest room) under the premise to take care of my dad and take him to his hospital appointments. I gave up a 70k job in NYC to do this. My dad was typica...
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{ "description": "wanting some privacy in my room", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting some privacy in my room?
Mobile, but whatever. I’m 18 years old and I still live in my parents house (I don’t pay rent but I’m still in high school so there isn’t anywhere for me to go). Both of my parents barge into my room without knocking and my parents will also go through my stuff when I’m not home. (When I am home I tell them to get ou...
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AITA for my lyrics?
I (M/17) wrote some lyrics about an ex of mine who cheated on me with my best friend and throughout the course of our relationship, told me that she loved me. After a few fights and patching things up, I still had some remaining anger so I wrote some lyrics to vent. These lyrics were angry and adapted for a Metal style...
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AITA Girl in my class is rude to me when I ask her to quite down multiple times I tell her I don't like her am I the ass?
Hi so this is my first post since I have a very boring life and I suck at spelling So back in October, my class switched seats and I was sat next to this girl I'm going to call A because her name starts with an A so we we're sitting in pairs and we're next to each other and Her friend I'm going to call E because her ...
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{ "description": "wanting to sell me XBone because I don't use ot and have no games for it, even though my mom bought it for me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to sell me XBone because I don't use ot and have no games for it, even though my mom bought it for me?
I've barely ever used the damn thing, it was bought for me out of the blue and I never really intended on using it, I'm usually on my PC because a life without modding is one I shall never be chained to ever again. I feel like my mom would be none too pleased with my request to sell it, but it's just on my bed side tab...
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{ "description": "not having time to hang out with my mate", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not having time to hang out with my mate?
I'm 19 and she's 20. I work and go to university full time she does neither of those things. We go out about once a month. I talk online every day. Here's a text conversation we had https://m.imgur.com/GfPAuwJ Then she posted these two images to Facebook https://m.imgur.com/CTzf3zE https://m.imgur.com/lFr2YvZ Afte...
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{ "description": "being angry at my parents for not rejecting me because of previous actions, despite me seeking help for my mental issues", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For being angry at my parents for not rejecting me because of previous actions, despite me seeking help for my mental issues?
I have antisocial personality disorder. I lack the same morals as regular people, and in the past I have engaged in regressive behavior. These are all facts that I accept and am now regularly receiving therapy for, which was first suggested by my parents. There has been serious conflict throughout my life with my pare...
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{ "description": "wanting my sister to pay the same amount for Mother's day presents", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for wanting my sister to pay the same amount for Mother's Day presents?
We're both 19 (twins) and students in university. I have a job but she doesn't. My mum (who's a single mum) has tried to help her get one because we don't have much money. She's kinda been looking for one but not really. Because it's mother's Day in a few weeks I want to save up some of my wages to get good gifts. I wa...
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{ "description": "trying to cut my friend out", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to cut my friend out?
So this guy (I'll call him A) was a super close friend of mine as a kid, but as adults we've vastly grown apart. Since we left high school 4 years ago, we've literally only spent time together once, and only keep in touch on social media. We don't speak all that often and when we do speak, it's incredibly forced. We ha...
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{ "description": "making my partner drive me to work this weekend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making my partner drive me to work this weekend?
Recently my car has broken down and I don’t have the money to get it fixed yet. My partner was unemployed until this week so they’ve been driving me to work, which is only a 5 minute drive from our house. However, earlier this week they started a new job (delivery driving). On Wednesday, which was my partner’s second d...
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{ "description": "wanting to quit my babysitting job", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to quit my babysitting job?
Alright so I decided to go ahead and post again, my life seems to have a lot of AITA moments. A little bit of info about myself; I am a 21 year old transguy who is still PRE-T, this will be important later on. Sorry in advance that this is a long one. So back in the March of 2016, one of my older sisters who we will ...
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